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[ "how to air out a bad smell in my house? Specifically, I had a down-on-luck friend move in with my for seven months, and cleanliness was not one of her virtues. The room and the bathroom smell like urine, sweat and lady part issues. She’s moving out in a few weeks, and I wanted to concoct a plan to combat this so that my house will be mine again.\n\nShe’s taking the mattress from the guest bedroom. I plan to have a deep clean from my housekeeper (and yes she cleaned every two weeks during this period, but the issue is the bed, clothes, shoes.) What scares me is that the bathroom smells... I’m going to replace the bath mat and wash the shower curtain outer and replace the liner. But what could still be smelling in there that it doesn’t smell good basically immediately after the housekeeper cleans it? I’m worried it’s soaked into the wood cabinetry. I’ve purchased many smells and soak up products for damp and smelly things like closets and bathrooms, as well as planning to keep the windows open in the bedroom for a while. The bathroom does not have a window.\n\nAny landlords or parents that have advice? Thanks!\n\n", "how to air out a bad smell in my house? Specifically, I had a down-on-luck friend move in with my for seven months, and cleanliness was not one of her virtues. The room and the bathroom smell like urine, sweat and lady part issues. She’s moving out in a few weeks, and I wanted to concoct a plan to combat this so that my house will be mine again.\n\nShe’s taking the mattress from the guest bedroom. I plan to have a deep clean from my housekeeper (and yes she cleaned every two weeks during this period, but the issue is the bed, clothes, shoes.) What scares me is that the bathroom smells... I’m going to replace the bath mat and wash the shower curtain outer and replace the liner. But what could still be smelling in there that it doesn’t smell good basically immediately after the housekeeper cleans it? I’m worried it’s soaked into the wood cabinetry. I’ve purchased many smells and soak up products for damp and smelly things like closets and bathrooms, as well as planning to keep the windows open in the bedroom for a while. The bathroom does not have a window.\n\nAny landlords or parents that have advice? Thanks!\n\n", "how to air out a bad smell in my house? Specifically, I had a down-on-luck friend move in with my for seven months, and cleanliness was not one of her virtues. The room and the bathroom smell like urine, sweat and lady part issues. She’s moving out in a few weeks, and I wanted to concoct a plan to combat this so that my house will be mine again.\n\nShe’s taking the mattress from the guest bedroom. I plan to have a deep clean from my housekeeper (and yes she cleaned every two weeks during this period, but the issue is the bed, clothes, shoes.) What scares me is that the bathroom smells... I’m going to replace the bath mat and wash the shower curtain outer and replace the liner. But what could still be smelling in there that it doesn’t smell good basically immediately after the housekeeper cleans it? I’m worried it’s soaked into the wood cabinetry. I’ve purchased many smells and soak up products for damp and smelly things like closets and bathrooms, as well as planning to keep the windows open in the bedroom for a while. The bathroom does not have a window.\n\nAny landlords or parents that have advice? Thanks!\n\n", "how to air out a bad smell in my house? Specifically, I had a down-on-luck friend move in with my for seven months, and cleanliness was not one of her virtues. The room and the bathroom smell like urine, sweat and lady part issues. She’s moving out in a few weeks, and I wanted to concoct a plan to combat this so that my house will be mine again.\n\nShe’s taking the mattress from the guest bedroom. I plan to have a deep clean from my housekeeper (and yes she cleaned every two weeks during this period, but the issue is the bed, clothes, shoes.) What scares me is that the bathroom smells... I’m going to replace the bath mat and wash the shower curtain outer and replace the liner. But what could still be smelling in there that it doesn’t smell good basically immediately after the housekeeper cleans it? I’m worried it’s soaked into the wood cabinetry. I’ve purchased many smells and soak up products for damp and smelly things like closets and bathrooms, as well as planning to keep the windows open in the bedroom for a while. The bathroom does not have a window.\n\nAny landlords or parents that have advice? Thanks!\n\n", "how to air out a bad smell in my house? Specifically, I had a down-on-luck friend move in with my for seven months, and cleanliness was not one of her virtues. The room and the bathroom smell like urine, sweat and lady part issues. She’s moving out in a few weeks, and I wanted to concoct a plan to combat this so that my house will be mine again.\n\nShe’s taking the mattress from the guest bedroom. I plan to have a deep clean from my housekeeper (and yes she cleaned every two weeks during this period, but the issue is the bed, clothes, shoes.) What scares me is that the bathroom smells... I’m going to replace the bath mat and wash the shower curtain outer and replace the liner. But what could still be smelling in there that it doesn’t smell good basically immediately after the housekeeper cleans it? I’m worried it’s soaked into the wood cabinetry. I’ve purchased many smells and soak up products for damp and smelly things like closets and bathrooms, as well as planning to keep the windows open in the bedroom for a while. The bathroom does not have a window.\n\nAny landlords or parents that have advice? Thanks!\n\n", "how to air out a bad smell in my house? Specifically, I had a down-on-luck friend move in with my for seven months, and cleanliness was not one of her virtues. The room and the bathroom smell like urine, sweat and lady part issues. She’s moving out in a few weeks, and I wanted to concoct a plan to combat this so that my house will be mine again.\n\nShe’s taking the mattress from the guest bedroom. I plan to have a deep clean from my housekeeper (and yes she cleaned every two weeks during this period, but the issue is the bed, clothes, shoes.) What scares me is that the bathroom smells... I’m going to replace the bath mat and wash the shower curtain outer and replace the liner. But what could still be smelling in there that it doesn’t smell good basically immediately after the housekeeper cleans it? I’m worried it’s soaked into the wood cabinetry. I’ve purchased many smells and soak up products for damp and smelly things like closets and bathrooms, as well as planning to keep the windows open in the bedroom for a while. The bathroom does not have a window.\n\nAny landlords or parents that have advice? Thanks!\n\n", "how to air out a bad smell in my house? Specifically, I had a down-on-luck friend move in with my for seven months, and cleanliness was not one of her virtues. The room and the bathroom smell like urine, sweat and lady part issues. She’s moving out in a few weeks, and I wanted to concoct a plan to combat this so that my house will be mine again.\n\nShe’s taking the mattress from the guest bedroom. I plan to have a deep clean from my housekeeper (and yes she cleaned every two weeks during this period, but the issue is the bed, clothes, shoes.) What scares me is that the bathroom smells... I’m going to replace the bath mat and wash the shower curtain outer and replace the liner. But what could still be smelling in there that it doesn’t smell good basically immediately after the housekeeper cleans it? I’m worried it’s soaked into the wood cabinetry. I’ve purchased many smells and soak up products for damp and smelly things like closets and bathrooms, as well as planning to keep the windows open in the bedroom for a while. The bathroom does not have a window.\n\nAny landlords or parents that have advice? Thanks!\n\n" ]

[ "Wash everything with diluted vinegar, disinfects and removes the smell. Vinegar smell doesnt linger, either. I agree with the poster who said baking soda on carpets, too. Let it sit for half an hour or so before vacuuming. Boil some lemon and orange peels and open the windows - should be good as new in no time.", "Clean out your sink/plug holes in bathtub and sink in bathroom, hair and gunk build up can smell bad, especially with water running over it everyday, keeping that bacteria growing.", "Hit any carpeted surfaces with Arm & Hammer Pet Odor carpet cleaner. They have the regular kind too, but the Pet Odor powder is stronger. You need about one box per room. Shake it out evenly over the carpet and let it sit. If you really want to work it in there, sweep the powder over the carpet with a broom. Let it sit for as long as you can, and then vacuum it up. That should help.", "Febreeze is actually kinda dope for this. Open the windows, spray the carpet/soft furniture, and shut the door so you aren’t breathing it in while it dries. I have even used it on painted walls. \n\nAnything you can wash in the machine, give it an extra glug of white vinegar. The laundry room will smell like coleslaw while it runs, but the vinegar smell will be gone at the end of the cycle.", "If there are no pets in the space, I always use tons of baking soda that I vacuum or sweep up after letting it sit for awhile in carpet and on floors - my grandma did this and I swear it works (especially for pet odors) although I'm unsure of why", "If that bathroom has a window, keep it open. I don't understand how a woman can make the bathroom smell like pee since most women don't have trouble aiming their stream into the toilet, so I'm just gonna assume she's dealing with incontinence. So I'd guess the rugs and shower mat all have urine in them and just throw them out. I'd disinfect every surface with bleach, then clean with an enzymatic cleanser, then deodorize by spraying vinegar on everything and letting it evaporate. There's charcoal odor absorbers that you can set in the bathroom after you deep clean.", "Activated carbon works great to eliminate odors.. I sprinkle my new air filters before replacing them." ]

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[ "Can't get rid of mouldy smell in fridge I'm hoping someone can help with a really irritating issue I've been having. There's a mouldy kind of smell in my fridge that I can't seem to shift at all. I've taken everything out and scrubbed every internal surface with hot water and baking soda. I've checked all the food items and it's not coming from any of them. I also then put a cup of vinegar and a cup of coffee grounds in there to see if they'd absorb it but no change.\n\n[Here are some photos of the fridge](http://imgur.com/a/qWwam). I took white drip tray you can see in the photo of the back of the fridge (with two screws) and cleaned it out and replaced it. Unfortunately I can't seem to see any other areas where the smell might be coming from. Could anyone possibly advise on what I should try next? Is there maybe another part of the innards of the fridge that I need to get at?", "Can't get rid of mouldy smell in fridge I'm hoping someone can help with a really irritating issue I've been having. There's a mouldy kind of smell in my fridge that I can't seem to shift at all. I've taken everything out and scrubbed every internal surface with hot water and baking soda. I've checked all the food items and it's not coming from any of them. I also then put a cup of vinegar and a cup of coffee grounds in there to see if they'd absorb it but no change.\n\n[Here are some photos of the fridge](http://imgur.com/a/qWwam). I took white drip tray you can see in the photo of the back of the fridge (with two screws) and cleaned it out and replaced it. Unfortunately I can't seem to see any other areas where the smell might be coming from. Could anyone possibly advise on what I should try next? Is there maybe another part of the innards of the fridge that I need to get at?", "Can't get rid of mouldy smell in fridge I'm hoping someone can help with a really irritating issue I've been having. There's a mouldy kind of smell in my fridge that I can't seem to shift at all. I've taken everything out and scrubbed every internal surface with hot water and baking soda. I've checked all the food items and it's not coming from any of them. I also then put a cup of vinegar and a cup of coffee grounds in there to see if they'd absorb it but no change.\n\n[Here are some photos of the fridge](http://imgur.com/a/qWwam). I took white drip tray you can see in the photo of the back of the fridge (with two screws) and cleaned it out and replaced it. Unfortunately I can't seem to see any other areas where the smell might be coming from. Could anyone possibly advise on what I should try next? Is there maybe another part of the innards of the fridge that I need to get at?", "Can't get rid of mouldy smell in fridge I'm hoping someone can help with a really irritating issue I've been having. There's a mouldy kind of smell in my fridge that I can't seem to shift at all. I've taken everything out and scrubbed every internal surface with hot water and baking soda. I've checked all the food items and it's not coming from any of them. I also then put a cup of vinegar and a cup of coffee grounds in there to see if they'd absorb it but no change.\n\n[Here are some photos of the fridge](http://imgur.com/a/qWwam). I took white drip tray you can see in the photo of the back of the fridge (with two screws) and cleaned it out and replaced it. Unfortunately I can't seem to see any other areas where the smell might be coming from. Could anyone possibly advise on what I should try next? Is there maybe another part of the innards of the fridge that I need to get at?", "Can't get rid of mouldy smell in fridge I'm hoping someone can help with a really irritating issue I've been having. There's a mouldy kind of smell in my fridge that I can't seem to shift at all. I've taken everything out and scrubbed every internal surface with hot water and baking soda. I've checked all the food items and it's not coming from any of them. I also then put a cup of vinegar and a cup of coffee grounds in there to see if they'd absorb it but no change.\n\n[Here are some photos of the fridge](http://imgur.com/a/qWwam). I took white drip tray you can see in the photo of the back of the fridge (with two screws) and cleaned it out and replaced it. Unfortunately I can't seem to see any other areas where the smell might be coming from. Could anyone possibly advise on what I should try next? Is there maybe another part of the innards of the fridge that I need to get at?", "Can't get rid of mouldy smell in fridge I'm hoping someone can help with a really irritating issue I've been having. There's a mouldy kind of smell in my fridge that I can't seem to shift at all. I've taken everything out and scrubbed every internal surface with hot water and baking soda. I've checked all the food items and it's not coming from any of them. I also then put a cup of vinegar and a cup of coffee grounds in there to see if they'd absorb it but no change.\n\n[Here are some photos of the fridge](http://imgur.com/a/qWwam). I took white drip tray you can see in the photo of the back of the fridge (with two screws) and cleaned it out and replaced it. Unfortunately I can't seem to see any other areas where the smell might be coming from. Could anyone possibly advise on what I should try next? Is there maybe another part of the innards of the fridge that I need to get at?", "Can't get rid of mouldy smell in fridge I'm hoping someone can help with a really irritating issue I've been having. There's a mouldy kind of smell in my fridge that I can't seem to shift at all. I've taken everything out and scrubbed every internal surface with hot water and baking soda. I've checked all the food items and it's not coming from any of them. I also then put a cup of vinegar and a cup of coffee grounds in there to see if they'd absorb it but no change.\n\n[Here are some photos of the fridge](http://imgur.com/a/qWwam). I took white drip tray you can see in the photo of the back of the fridge (with two screws) and cleaned it out and replaced it. Unfortunately I can't seem to see any other areas where the smell might be coming from. Could anyone possibly advise on what I should try next? Is there maybe another part of the innards of the fridge that I need to get at?", "Can't get rid of mouldy smell in fridge I'm hoping someone can help with a really irritating issue I've been having. There's a mouldy kind of smell in my fridge that I can't seem to shift at all. I've taken everything out and scrubbed every internal surface with hot water and baking soda. I've checked all the food items and it's not coming from any of them. I also then put a cup of vinegar and a cup of coffee grounds in there to see if they'd absorb it but no change.\n\n[Here are some photos of the fridge](http://imgur.com/a/qWwam). I took white drip tray you can see in the photo of the back of the fridge (with two screws) and cleaned it out and replaced it. Unfortunately I can't seem to see any other areas where the smell might be coming from. Could anyone possibly advise on what I should try next? Is there maybe another part of the innards of the fridge that I need to get at?" ]

[ "have you looked closely at the rubber surround on the door? They typically have accordion pleats that collect all kinds of dirt and debris.", "Maybe try using some bleach? Sometimes my coolers from camping will still smell funky even after a good cleaning but will be fine after wiping down with a bleach/water solution.", "do you have any silicon ice cube trays? that will absorb moldy smells and become permanently moldy smelling.", "White vinegar, left in a bowl in the fridge. Also feel free to soak a sponge in vinegar and liberally wipe down the inside of your fridge. Leave for a 12hour period.", "I do this - clean it out fully, wipe everything with bleach solution. Then let it dry with the door open. Once it's dry, I wipe it down with tea tree oil. Actually did this on my washer, but I imagine it would also work wonders in the fridge. Of course, scour that gasket around the door. I usually use baking soda with water for that bit. ", "Been there, so try this. Empty the fridge completely and wipe it down with a moist cloth. Keep the door open about halfway and keep 2-3 inch sized pieces of charcoal in the corners of the shelves and door storage. Let it be for a few hours and the smell should be gone. Be sure to get natural briquettes without mesquite or easy-light additives.", "After you have used your soap, bleach, etc..wipe down all the surfaces--including the door gasket with a paper towel and lemon extract. Run the fridge overnight. Food safe and after it evaporates, it leaves no nasty bleach or soap odor.", "Moldy*. As for the smell, I'd say its either coming from the rubber lining like the guy above me said, or there's a spot you're missing when you're cleaning it. I'd take out every shelf and every piece of glass and scour that shit until I'm sure everything is clean. " ]

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[ "How to rid of humidity/condensation while heating house in the winter. Besides the actual dehumidifier. Is there even a way? I live in the mountains of N.C, and the house that I rent uses propane to heat. As you can imagine, condensation will gather on pretty much everything when its really cold outside, so bad that sometimes electronics need to be covered, and mold will grow on anything that's not dried off. Anybody else been in a situation like this and found a solution? The dehumidifier helps, but I know it's going to hike up my energy bill.", "How to rid of humidity/condensation while heating house in the winter. Besides the actual dehumidifier. Is there even a way? I live in the mountains of N.C, and the house that I rent uses propane to heat. As you can imagine, condensation will gather on pretty much everything when its really cold outside, so bad that sometimes electronics need to be covered, and mold will grow on anything that's not dried off. Anybody else been in a situation like this and found a solution? The dehumidifier helps, but I know it's going to hike up my energy bill.", "How to rid of humidity/condensation while heating house in the winter. Besides the actual dehumidifier. Is there even a way? I live in the mountains of N.C, and the house that I rent uses propane to heat. As you can imagine, condensation will gather on pretty much everything when its really cold outside, so bad that sometimes electronics need to be covered, and mold will grow on anything that's not dried off. Anybody else been in a situation like this and found a solution? The dehumidifier helps, but I know it's going to hike up my energy bill.", "How to rid of humidity/condensation while heating house in the winter. Besides the actual dehumidifier. Is there even a way? I live in the mountains of N.C, and the house that I rent uses propane to heat. As you can imagine, condensation will gather on pretty much everything when its really cold outside, so bad that sometimes electronics need to be covered, and mold will grow on anything that's not dried off. Anybody else been in a situation like this and found a solution? The dehumidifier helps, but I know it's going to hike up my energy bill.", "How to rid of humidity/condensation while heating house in the winter. Besides the actual dehumidifier. Is there even a way? I live in the mountains of N.C, and the house that I rent uses propane to heat. As you can imagine, condensation will gather on pretty much everything when its really cold outside, so bad that sometimes electronics need to be covered, and mold will grow on anything that's not dried off. Anybody else been in a situation like this and found a solution? The dehumidifier helps, but I know it's going to hike up my energy bill.", "How to rid of humidity/condensation while heating house in the winter. Besides the actual dehumidifier. Is there even a way? I live in the mountains of N.C, and the house that I rent uses propane to heat. As you can imagine, condensation will gather on pretty much everything when its really cold outside, so bad that sometimes electronics need to be covered, and mold will grow on anything that's not dried off. Anybody else been in a situation like this and found a solution? The dehumidifier helps, but I know it's going to hike up my energy bill." ]

[ "When propane combusts, it produces CO2 and H2O. For the amount of humidty you are describing, I suspect your propane heater exhaust is not venting to the outside. Which means that the heater is generating much of your humidity. THis is not good for two reasons: You have excessive humidty and very likely really crappy indoor air quality - high CO2 and possibly reduced O2, as well. Check this out first, and fix it if it is true. ", "One way to accomplish this may be to just set the house on fire the next time condensation gets really bad.", "I had this problem when I lived in a musty residence hall many years ago. The air would almost choke you out. I used the Damp-rid hanging dehumidifier because I had limited space and couldn't use anything electric. It helped a TON. You many need more of them depending on the size of the space. I had two in my dorm room. It really worked. [Damp-rid.](http://www.damprid.com/product/hanging-moisture-absorber-fragrance-free)", "I guess I should assume your living space is extremely air-tight and you don't vent your shower and cooking humidity; otherwise, I have trouble understanding how this problem is happening: moisture presence is more of a problem in warm, humid summer months when evaporation isn't happening -- even if you don't have as many cold surfaces for condensation to happen.\n\nIf you keep your electronics at a normal temperature, condensation should be prevented.\n\nCheck your humidity with a hygrometer, vent your humidity, don't let your heat drop below a certain temperature without allowing the humidity to leave the living space.\n\nWhat else is getting moldy or saturated?", "Salt. Get a shallow bowl and fill a layer of salt on it.\n\nI use this for moisture and as a dehumidifier. Check next day the salt will be wet and soggy.\n\nCan either throw away the current salt or... dry that salt up in an oven to use again. Can even have 2 trays of salt. One drying while the other is absorbing stuff and cycle them.", "If you use a heat pump, they don't produce any moisture. In fact by virtue of them warming up the air with a static concentration of dissolved moisture in the air, the air gains potential to absorb more moisture. This can actually cause your air to be a little too dry.\n\nYour other option is to run a dehum. The dehum will take the moisture from the air and condense it to water, and return the energy from the state change of gas to liquid back to the air in the form of heat, so they are actually acting as an efficient heater while reducing humidity.\n\nAnother beauty with heat pumps is that they operate at about 400% efficiency. Meaning that for every kWh of energy you put in, you get 4kWh of heat energy out. I'm unsure how this rates against the cost of gas in your area.\n\nI would run the dehum and revel in the fact that it is giving you further cheap heat energy. You can get little portable heat pumps that you can duct out a window or cat flap and they also double as dehums." ]

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[ "How do you ask better questions? Currently a Consultant Intern, brought up in a culture where we don't have a habit of questioning things. \n\nTrying to learn how to ask better questions as a consultant, or to even have a question...", "How do you ask better questions? Currently a Consultant Intern, brought up in a culture where we don't have a habit of questioning things. \n\nTrying to learn how to ask better questions as a consultant, or to even have a question...", "How do you ask better questions? Currently a Consultant Intern, brought up in a culture where we don't have a habit of questioning things. \n\nTrying to learn how to ask better questions as a consultant, or to even have a question..." ]

[ "Listen to the best radio interviewers in your country. What questions do they choose?\n\nThey are question professionals.", "Plan ahead and see the big picture, looking for the implications of what is being stated, and the clarify why if you are unsure. Being informed is about understanding-not being an autopilot order following machine.", "It sounds like you need to ask questions to help clients with some sort of product. Figure out what aspects of the product will change from client to client and write those questions down. When I'm talking to clients, I usually just try to ask leading, vague questions and as the meeting goes on I ask the remainder of my more detailed questions. Buy starting with vague questions, they usually answer most of my questions with out me having to ask them. Keep them talking" ]

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[ "How to deal with the anxiety you get when you come face to face with someone you hate/Intimidated by. So Reddit how do you deal with the shock anxiety you get when you come face to face unexpectedly with a person you either hate, intimidated by, love etc...?\n\nYou know that horrible heart rate increase, clouded thinking/judgement, light headed, not thinking before you talk.", "How to deal with the anxiety you get when you come face to face with someone you hate/Intimidated by. So Reddit how do you deal with the shock anxiety you get when you come face to face unexpectedly with a person you either hate, intimidated by, love etc...?\n\nYou know that horrible heart rate increase, clouded thinking/judgement, light headed, not thinking before you talk.", "How to deal with the anxiety you get when you come face to face with someone you hate/Intimidated by. So Reddit how do you deal with the shock anxiety you get when you come face to face unexpectedly with a person you either hate, intimidated by, love etc...?\n\nYou know that horrible heart rate increase, clouded thinking/judgement, light headed, not thinking before you talk." ]

[ "A simple technique to reduce emotions is called dissociation. The simplest way to do it is to imagine yourself outside your body, watching your body in the situation, e.g. hovering behind and above yourself. You can keep adding layers of dissociation in your head, i.e. watching yourself watch yourself from above, until you don't feel the emotion anymore. Essentially you're creating emotional distance from the situation, which can calm down the physiological response of fight or flight (which is the racing heart, etc) by tricking your mind into thinking you're not actually in the situation.\n\nAnother thing to do is called expanded awareness. Fight or flight responses are from the triggering of your amygdala which shuts down your ability to notice anything other than the threat, so if you force yourself to notice other things, it will start to shut down the amygdala response. Start by noticing five things you can see other than the person (this can be in peripheral vision, you don't actually need to look around) then notice 4 sounds, 3 physical sensations (e.g. the feeling of your feet in your shoes) and then take a deep breath (this can be done subtly by just ensuring you breathe all the way down into your stomach rather than just in your chest.\n\nEither of those options starts to shut down the fight or flight response and once that's gone you can choose how you want to act. For that side of things, it is best to have some clear ideas about what you stand for and how you want to speak so you can bring up those guidelines in your head on command.", "Why talk at all?\n\nIf I've come face to face with someone I actually \"hate\", then I ignore them and move on with my own life.\n\nI don't have anybody who intimidates me - but if I did, I would do everything in my power to \"humanize\" that person in my mind. Casual conversation works well to decrease intimidation.", "Depending on the situation, I usually just say hi and that's it. If you \"hate\" them, there isn't much more to say. If you at least initiate a greeting, it offers them the chance to talk. If they don't, they don't... forcing it makes it even more awkward. The only time I would say maybe to force conversation is if you're in a weird forced situation, like an elevator. Maybe just say something about the weather or ask what they've been up to. \n\nIf it's someone you're intimidated by but talk to sometimes, especially at work, maybe just mention something you've heard that they've done that's been good recently or something they've been working on. For example, I was in the elevator with my boss the other day and I just started talking about a project they're working on and that gives them a chance to talk about themselves and they'll appreciate that you care. Just be personable." ]

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[ "How to fix sperrys that have been soaked in the rain and now smell terrible So about 2 weeks ago I was out on a monday and it started raining and i thought nothing of it till I got back and my sperrys were sloshing with water.... The next day I wore them and a friend asked if it smelled like someone puked... turns out it was my shoes and they smelled horrific lol! I've tried anti microbial foot spray, anti molecular odor spray and regular shoe deodorizer, none of which has worked.....\n\nthen a few days ago I was out again in a different pair and again they got soaked and are just beginning to smell.\n\nWhat can I do to fix this wretched smell?\n\nAlso am a college student so supplies are limited", "How to fix sperrys that have been soaked in the rain and now smell terrible So about 2 weeks ago I was out on a monday and it started raining and i thought nothing of it till I got back and my sperrys were sloshing with water.... The next day I wore them and a friend asked if it smelled like someone puked... turns out it was my shoes and they smelled horrific lol! I've tried anti microbial foot spray, anti molecular odor spray and regular shoe deodorizer, none of which has worked.....\n\nthen a few days ago I was out again in a different pair and again they got soaked and are just beginning to smell.\n\nWhat can I do to fix this wretched smell?\n\nAlso am a college student so supplies are limited" ]

[ "Use baking soda, arm and hammer, liberally on the soles. Assuming they're not leather once nice and dry place them in your freeze to reduce the microbes. If they're leather pick up some cedar wood shoe trees to retain the shape and soak up daily moisture. About $10 at walmart is the cheapest reliable price you'll find.", "stepped In the hurricane this weekend and soaked mine. They smell fine. I know that doesn't help but I feel better about myself lol" ]

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[ "Best possible advice to climb the Corporate ladder? How to get on the good books of management, anything special or unique I can do? Looking for vertical growth and salary growth, anything that could help! A little context, a fresher at an IT company starting with a developer role in cloud, I'm at the rock bottom of my company but I'm more interested in managerial positions rather than being in my current role. \n\nI want to manage people, answer to upper management, be a part of manager only meetings.. stuff like that!\n\nLiterally any advice would be helpful that could help me grow within the organization, Thanks and have a great day everyone!", "Best possible advice to climb the Corporate ladder? How to get on the good books of management, anything special or unique I can do? Looking for vertical growth and salary growth, anything that could help! A little context, a fresher at an IT company starting with a developer role in cloud, I'm at the rock bottom of my company but I'm more interested in managerial positions rather than being in my current role. \n\nI want to manage people, answer to upper management, be a part of manager only meetings.. stuff like that!\n\nLiterally any advice would be helpful that could help me grow within the organization, Thanks and have a great day everyone!", "Best possible advice to climb the Corporate ladder? How to get on the good books of management, anything special or unique I can do? Looking for vertical growth and salary growth, anything that could help! A little context, a fresher at an IT company starting with a developer role in cloud, I'm at the rock bottom of my company but I'm more interested in managerial positions rather than being in my current role. \n\nI want to manage people, answer to upper management, be a part of manager only meetings.. stuff like that!\n\nLiterally any advice would be helpful that could help me grow within the organization, Thanks and have a great day everyone!", "Best possible advice to climb the Corporate ladder? How to get on the good books of management, anything special or unique I can do? Looking for vertical growth and salary growth, anything that could help! A little context, a fresher at an IT company starting with a developer role in cloud, I'm at the rock bottom of my company but I'm more interested in managerial positions rather than being in my current role. \n\nI want to manage people, answer to upper management, be a part of manager only meetings.. stuff like that!\n\nLiterally any advice would be helpful that could help me grow within the organization, Thanks and have a great day everyone!", "Best possible advice to climb the Corporate ladder? How to get on the good books of management, anything special or unique I can do? Looking for vertical growth and salary growth, anything that could help! A little context, a fresher at an IT company starting with a developer role in cloud, I'm at the rock bottom of my company but I'm more interested in managerial positions rather than being in my current role. \n\nI want to manage people, answer to upper management, be a part of manager only meetings.. stuff like that!\n\nLiterally any advice would be helpful that could help me grow within the organization, Thanks and have a great day everyone!", "Best possible advice to climb the Corporate ladder? How to get on the good books of management, anything special or unique I can do? Looking for vertical growth and salary growth, anything that could help! A little context, a fresher at an IT company starting with a developer role in cloud, I'm at the rock bottom of my company but I'm more interested in managerial positions rather than being in my current role. \n\nI want to manage people, answer to upper management, be a part of manager only meetings.. stuff like that!\n\nLiterally any advice would be helpful that could help me grow within the organization, Thanks and have a great day everyone!", "Best possible advice to climb the Corporate ladder? How to get on the good books of management, anything special or unique I can do? Looking for vertical growth and salary growth, anything that could help! A little context, a fresher at an IT company starting with a developer role in cloud, I'm at the rock bottom of my company but I'm more interested in managerial positions rather than being in my current role. \n\nI want to manage people, answer to upper management, be a part of manager only meetings.. stuff like that!\n\nLiterally any advice would be helpful that could help me grow within the organization, Thanks and have a great day everyone!", "Best possible advice to climb the Corporate ladder? How to get on the good books of management, anything special or unique I can do? Looking for vertical growth and salary growth, anything that could help! A little context, a fresher at an IT company starting with a developer role in cloud, I'm at the rock bottom of my company but I'm more interested in managerial positions rather than being in my current role. \n\nI want to manage people, answer to upper management, be a part of manager only meetings.. stuff like that!\n\nLiterally any advice would be helpful that could help me grow within the organization, Thanks and have a great day everyone!", "Best possible advice to climb the Corporate ladder? How to get on the good books of management, anything special or unique I can do? Looking for vertical growth and salary growth, anything that could help! A little context, a fresher at an IT company starting with a developer role in cloud, I'm at the rock bottom of my company but I'm more interested in managerial positions rather than being in my current role. \n\nI want to manage people, answer to upper management, be a part of manager only meetings.. stuff like that!\n\nLiterally any advice would be helpful that could help me grow within the organization, Thanks and have a great day everyone!", "Best possible advice to climb the Corporate ladder? How to get on the good books of management, anything special or unique I can do? Looking for vertical growth and salary growth, anything that could help! A little context, a fresher at an IT company starting with a developer role in cloud, I'm at the rock bottom of my company but I'm more interested in managerial positions rather than being in my current role. \n\nI want to manage people, answer to upper management, be a part of manager only meetings.. stuff like that!\n\nLiterally any advice would be helpful that could help me grow within the organization, Thanks and have a great day everyone!", "Best possible advice to climb the Corporate ladder? How to get on the good books of management, anything special or unique I can do? Looking for vertical growth and salary growth, anything that could help! A little context, a fresher at an IT company starting with a developer role in cloud, I'm at the rock bottom of my company but I'm more interested in managerial positions rather than being in my current role. \n\nI want to manage people, answer to upper management, be a part of manager only meetings.. stuff like that!\n\nLiterally any advice would be helpful that could help me grow within the organization, Thanks and have a great day everyone!", "Best possible advice to climb the Corporate ladder? How to get on the good books of management, anything special or unique I can do? Looking for vertical growth and salary growth, anything that could help! A little context, a fresher at an IT company starting with a developer role in cloud, I'm at the rock bottom of my company but I'm more interested in managerial positions rather than being in my current role. \n\nI want to manage people, answer to upper management, be a part of manager only meetings.. stuff like that!\n\nLiterally any advice would be helpful that could help me grow within the organization, Thanks and have a great day everyone!" ]

[ "Do great work that is *highly visible*. \n\nPublic presentations, leading meetings. Etc. identify problems and propose viable and creative solutions. \n\nToo many people do great work but keep their heads down and don’t do it visibly. They only get rewarded if the right people just happen to notice and they don’t always. \n\nTake public speaking courses to improve your speaking and presentation skills.\n\nBe positive and collegial, go to company happy hours or other events where you get to socialize a bit.", "1) remember that you are expendable.\n\n2) remember that you are expendable.\n\n3) alway be on the lookout for new opportunities.\n\n4) develop skills that will benefit you in multiple positions.\n\n5) NO ONE is your friend.", "It's really all about who you know. \n\nNot sure if you're completely remote so I hope this can apply somehow:\n\nStart to get personal with people, if you notice they're wearing or have some sort of sports logo or band or something like that, talk to them about it!\n\nAlso, just do a bunch of little things for people. It goes a long way.\n\nStart taking courses if your company gives them, it's a great way to learn and network.", "I wish I had this advice when I was in my early twenties.. \n\nIf you want your boss's job, don't \"look\" like you want your boss's job. Be reliable within your scope of responsibilities and be more strategic about \"the moments\" of when you overachieve (high visibility projects, opportunities to collaborate with other teams, etc.). If you start too hot out of the gate with overachieving, your boss will most likely eventually become threatened/insecure about their own contributions and deflect that insecurity on to you. This can manifest in a ton of different ways - trust me there.. \n\nYou want your boss to be the person that views you as an unwavering rock that can rise to challenges - if they are presented. Most importantly, they need to know that you are happy in your current position. Just match the pace of those around you and be a half point better then them with communication, work quality, reliability, etc. \n\nHope this helps!", "Your reasons for wanting to be a manager are not the reasons that someone *should* be a manager. \n\nIf you want to lead because you are a good leader and you have a vision that you believe you can inspire others to achieve, great. If you just want to be part of some inner circle then slow down.", "Understand what your management (2-3) levels up care about most for the quarter/year and find ways to contribute to them in your current role. \n\nAlso, never assume people know when you do great work. You have to make it visible by being your own advocate and/or finding someone who will advocate for you.\n\nAnd probably most importantly, early in your career you should be looking to change jobs every 2 years to fill out your background and figure out what you really want to do. Switching companies entirely as well also will help maximize earnings growth.", "I'd love to be able to tell you that it's all down to hard work and technical ability, but sadly it has more to do with sucking up to bosses and exaggerating your achievements", "Keep your eyes on opportunity 24/7/365.\n\nFairness is a fairytale for some other bloke.\n\nYou don't have friends at work. Although...\n\n...you have fellow travelers; make common cause with them.\n\nAlways look for your next boss...Always look for your replacement.\n\nKeep your plans to yourself. Same thing with your emotions. Corollary: Listen to the gossip but do not contribute. \n\nImprove something. Make sure you get cr", "Ask for what you want. Build a plan. Find mentors. \n\nAll is possible, every minute you’re in a job over 2 years your are burning daylight. \n\nKeep moving, you stop you get stagnate.", "Low-mid level management appears to be about being highy organised along with the skills/ability to get respect from those you manage. Higher up it becomes a more...sleazy affair. At these levels its about being a bit of ass-kisser. Example:\n\nHate the Commercial Director's new car? Tell them you LOVE those cars. Make people feel good about themselves. Pick the winning side when there are rifts in the company. Act friendly to subordinates but don't form any real attachment. Rinse and repeat.\n\nI am not a manager but i regularly interact with every level of manager due to my profession. If you detect some bias/cynicism its because I don't like how unethical people can command huge salaries because they are a smooth talker.", "I’m pretty sure the best way to make gains in salary is to specifically jump from organization to organization. Rock bottom rarely gets promoted unless it’s a small company. I would look to putting your efforts into investing in yourself: trying to get a degree or certified skills rather than pour your energy into trying to jump from the lowest rung.", "1. Know when to say less. \n2. Share your cr" ]

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[ "How to quickly de-fur clothes Pretty much my whole house is covered in cat and dog fur. All of my clothes have fur on them. I have tried the sticky roller things that pickup fur but it never picks up it all and it takes fuzz off my clothes.", "How to quickly de-fur clothes Pretty much my whole house is covered in cat and dog fur. All of my clothes have fur on them. I have tried the sticky roller things that pickup fur but it never picks up it all and it takes fuzz off my clothes.", "How to quickly de-fur clothes Pretty much my whole house is covered in cat and dog fur. All of my clothes have fur on them. I have tried the sticky roller things that pickup fur but it never picks up it all and it takes fuzz off my clothes.", "How to quickly de-fur clothes Pretty much my whole house is covered in cat and dog fur. All of my clothes have fur on them. I have tried the sticky roller things that pickup fur but it never picks up it all and it takes fuzz off my clothes." ]

[ "The biggest thing is to do a deep clean, and then don't let it build up. Get a good vacuum and use it more than you probably think you have to. I use a red lint brush on my duvet every morning and run a quick vacuum over the house every few days. I do a more intensive vacuuming once or twice a month, including walls, curtains, and upholstery. \n\nPut clothes on the dryer before the washer, to get the hair off of them. This also works on non-washable but tougher items, like blankets; just a trip through the dryer will make a big difference. \n\nGet a furminator (mine is from Amazon), and brush the animals with it once a week. \n\nKeep your clothes in a closed dresser or closet, and don't wear them around the house more than the bare minimum until you get it under control. \n\nThe surfaces in your home can also make a big difference, I got a lovely vintage leather sofa off of CL and am switching to a duvet made out of Sunbrella outdoor fabric, because hair doesn't stick to it. \n\ntl;dr: Constant vigilance. ", "Use a furminator on your pets, this way you get most of the hair before it even gets a chance to contaminate your house. I have a longhaired Aussie, and as long as I brush him a few times per week, my house isn't covered in hair. It's easy, quick, and he loves it. \n\nSeriously, The Furminator. Everything else is garbage. ", "Lots of great advice here, especially with the constant vigilance, and the Furminator. Also try this: a dry rubber squeegee. Drag is against your clothes, your fabric sofa, your carpet, and watch the crap collect into a giant furball. ", "If it's really in all of your clothes, all you can do is wash them again, and keep up with the pet fur moving forward. My SO and I have a dog and a cat, but we also have a Roomba that eliminates daily sweeping. Still, we take the time out once a month or so to deep clean, get all the nooks and crannies where fur likes to gather." ]

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[ "How to drop cable or satellite TV package and go full internet TV. Are there any guides or handy utilities to help with this? \n\nAre Hulu Plus and Netflix more or less all I'll need? Am I going to have to go to each individual network's site to watch current episodes? Has anyone done this? Are you satisfied doing this? \n\nReally its just hard to even know where to start, and I'm a bit uneasy diving right in without any kind of plan. You can go ahead and assume I have the equipment necessary.", "How to drop cable or satellite TV package and go full internet TV. Are there any guides or handy utilities to help with this? \n\nAre Hulu Plus and Netflix more or less all I'll need? Am I going to have to go to each individual network's site to watch current episodes? Has anyone done this? Are you satisfied doing this? \n\nReally its just hard to even know where to start, and I'm a bit uneasy diving right in without any kind of plan. You can go ahead and assume I have the equipment necessary.", "How to drop cable or satellite TV package and go full internet TV. Are there any guides or handy utilities to help with this? \n\nAre Hulu Plus and Netflix more or less all I'll need? Am I going to have to go to each individual network's site to watch current episodes? Has anyone done this? Are you satisfied doing this? \n\nReally its just hard to even know where to start, and I'm a bit uneasy diving right in without any kind of plan. You can go ahead and assume I have the equipment necessary.", "How to drop cable or satellite TV package and go full internet TV. Are there any guides or handy utilities to help with this? \n\nAre Hulu Plus and Netflix more or less all I'll need? Am I going to have to go to each individual network's site to watch current episodes? Has anyone done this? Are you satisfied doing this? \n\nReally its just hard to even know where to start, and I'm a bit uneasy diving right in without any kind of plan. You can go ahead and assume I have the equipment necessary.", "How to drop cable or satellite TV package and go full internet TV. Are there any guides or handy utilities to help with this? \n\nAre Hulu Plus and Netflix more or less all I'll need? Am I going to have to go to each individual network's site to watch current episodes? Has anyone done this? Are you satisfied doing this? \n\nReally its just hard to even know where to start, and I'm a bit uneasy diving right in without any kind of plan. You can go ahead and assume I have the equipment necessary.", "How to drop cable or satellite TV package and go full internet TV. Are there any guides or handy utilities to help with this? \n\nAre Hulu Plus and Netflix more or less all I'll need? Am I going to have to go to each individual network's site to watch current episodes? Has anyone done this? Are you satisfied doing this? \n\nReally its just hard to even know where to start, and I'm a bit uneasy diving right in without any kind of plan. You can go ahead and assume I have the equipment necessary.", "How to drop cable or satellite TV package and go full internet TV. Are there any guides or handy utilities to help with this? \n\nAre Hulu Plus and Netflix more or less all I'll need? Am I going to have to go to each individual network's site to watch current episodes? Has anyone done this? Are you satisfied doing this? \n\nReally its just hard to even know where to start, and I'm a bit uneasy diving right in without any kind of plan. You can go ahead and assume I have the equipment necessary." ]

[ "Once you cut cable, you'll quickly realize just how much of it is bullshit and a waste of money anyway.", "XBMC is the single most useful media center application available at the moment, and along with a few large drives and bit-torent you can find everything you might want and have a stockpile of content for later. I would not recommend a raspberry pi as the experience is painfully slow, almost to the point of unusable.\n\nI also recommend also buying an HDhomerun, making your own TV antenna (very easy and cheap, google DIY HDTV antenna), and using Mediaportal+Schedules direct for guide data as a PVR that integrates with XBMC. This will give you the advantage of having the majority of broadcast television (including sports and news) that can be randomly flipped on or saved for later.\n\nThe biggest factor in dropping pay television is the kind of content you're looking for, your habits of watching TV, and how you feel about piracy if you don't want to give up premium television...\n\nTo recap: buy a cheap HTPC, HDhomerun, and IR remote, and make an antenna, install _Media Portal_ TVserver and the _XBMC_ version with PVR support.\n\nXBMC PVR setup: http://wiki.xbmc.org/index.php?title=PVR\nDIY Antenna: http://uhfhdtvantenna.blogspot.com/\nTV Server setup: http://wiki.team-mediaportal.com/1_MEDIAPORTAL_1/141_Configuration/TV-Server_Configuration\nSchedules direct: http://www.schedulesdirect.org/", "Don't know of any guides but I can try to help. My fiance and I dropped cable two and half years ago and haven't looked back.\n\nNetflix is great for older movies and DVD catalogs for TV shows but anything recent or really popular will be very slow to show up on netflix. This goes for Amazon Prime Instant as well.\n\nHulu is great for current shows you are staying up to date on and is very budget friendly since it's free, however you will end up having to wait anywhere from 1 to 8 days for new episodes. Also see your local public library.\n\niTunes/Amazon/Google Play these are our bread and butter for staying recent on shows we love or that new movie we want to rent. We use these sites sparingly as the $1.99-$5.00 a pop can add up fast. Usually we rent 2-3 movies a month and we pre-purchase the full season of any shows we watch regularly and get the new episodes that night.\n\nTo sum it all up, there is no single method out there (save for pirating) that gives you the same kind of access as a traditional cable company. However, between the three options I listed above we come pretty damn close to being able to watch what we want, when we want to without that stupidly overpriced cable bill every month. \n\nHope this helps. ", "Netflix, amazon prime video, and 3 sites to download whatever I want from file lockers. I really like the streaming services, but sometimes, they do not have what I want.\n", "I have been cable free for over ten years. I don't miss it; there is so much entertainment you can find online. Personally I watch a lot of amazing Korean dramas on crunchyroll and documentaries and British Shows on Netflix. Two favorites are Jumong and Downton Abbey.\n\n ", "Haven't had cable for 5 years now...I don't miss it at all. I watch everything via Netflix or torrents.", "if you can afford it, this is what i did. Cut the damn cable because we only use it every now and then. Spend 100 dollars on an apple TV, subscribe to netflix and Hulu and then if you have itunes or a mac laptop get airplay and do all your streaming online! plus if you don't like going to the movies you can rent fairly new movies on itunes or even watch full seasons on their app aswell.. Plus you can play your music and what not. I love this setup and im only paying for internet now with my roommates which comes out to $30 a person per month. " ]

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[ "How to reject MLM recruiters? How do we convince friends they're MLMS? How do we let our friends know that they're being fooled by an MLM without hurting their feelings? How do we reject MLM recruiters on the street politely? I have always had a hard time giving a straight \"no\" answer when being approached by MLM's even though I know off the bat that I don't want to get into it because I know that it is not worth my time. Yet I always say yeah, sure because I don't have the guts to say no!\n\nI have been approached by MLM recruiters so many times I wonder if I have a target on my back. I have been approached at retail jobs and by friends on Facebook.", "How to reject MLM recruiters? How do we convince friends they're MLMS? How do we let our friends know that they're being fooled by an MLM without hurting their feelings? How do we reject MLM recruiters on the street politely? I have always had a hard time giving a straight \"no\" answer when being approached by MLM's even though I know off the bat that I don't want to get into it because I know that it is not worth my time. Yet I always say yeah, sure because I don't have the guts to say no!\n\nI have been approached by MLM recruiters so many times I wonder if I have a target on my back. I have been approached at retail jobs and by friends on Facebook.", "How to reject MLM recruiters? How do we convince friends they're MLMS? How do we let our friends know that they're being fooled by an MLM without hurting their feelings? How do we reject MLM recruiters on the street politely? I have always had a hard time giving a straight \"no\" answer when being approached by MLM's even though I know off the bat that I don't want to get into it because I know that it is not worth my time. Yet I always say yeah, sure because I don't have the guts to say no!\n\nI have been approached by MLM recruiters so many times I wonder if I have a target on my back. I have been approached at retail jobs and by friends on Facebook.", "How to reject MLM recruiters? How do we convince friends they're MLMS? How do we let our friends know that they're being fooled by an MLM without hurting their feelings? How do we reject MLM recruiters on the street politely? I have always had a hard time giving a straight \"no\" answer when being approached by MLM's even though I know off the bat that I don't want to get into it because I know that it is not worth my time. Yet I always say yeah, sure because I don't have the guts to say no!\n\nI have been approached by MLM recruiters so many times I wonder if I have a target on my back. I have been approached at retail jobs and by friends on Facebook.", "How to reject MLM recruiters? How do we convince friends they're MLMS? How do we let our friends know that they're being fooled by an MLM without hurting their feelings? How do we reject MLM recruiters on the street politely? I have always had a hard time giving a straight \"no\" answer when being approached by MLM's even though I know off the bat that I don't want to get into it because I know that it is not worth my time. Yet I always say yeah, sure because I don't have the guts to say no!\n\nI have been approached by MLM recruiters so many times I wonder if I have a target on my back. I have been approached at retail jobs and by friends on Facebook.", "How to reject MLM recruiters? How do we convince friends they're MLMS? How do we let our friends know that they're being fooled by an MLM without hurting their feelings? How do we reject MLM recruiters on the street politely? I have always had a hard time giving a straight \"no\" answer when being approached by MLM's even though I know off the bat that I don't want to get into it because I know that it is not worth my time. Yet I always say yeah, sure because I don't have the guts to say no!\n\nI have been approached by MLM recruiters so many times I wonder if I have a target on my back. I have been approached at retail jobs and by friends on Facebook." ]

[ "“No thank you, I’m not interested.” Smile. With dead eyes.\n\nIt helps that people are oddly intimidated by me, so maybe try to cultivate unapproachability?", "The only response you can give them is \"No\" and do not bother trying to explain why. They are trained in how to respond to all the reasons you could give as to WHY you're saying no. I say this to you as a former hun who got sucked into selling for an MLM before I knew what they were about. The only possible thing you can say to huns so they can't schmooze you is \"no\"", "I usually send them a link to John Oliver’s episode about it and say something like “for your best interest, as well as mine, I will not be participating in any pyramid schemes. If you’d like to learn about real marketing (SEO, PPC, etc.) I’m happy to send along some recourses for you to make a real career.”\n\nIt usually shuts them up.", "Decline however you want. And then ask who pays the company, the re-seller or end user? And if they can't connected the dots do it for them. And if they still argue against it then you've done your part to help. You can lead a horse to water but not make them drink.", "Just say no. There are almost no arguments that they're not trained for. They should lose the war with no battles fought.", "And in answer to the OP questions, ask them to show them they're tax return. Tell them you rather be a W2 filer." ]

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[ "How to Read Better & Faster I'm reading several books at the moment and I enjoy reading however sometimes, if the book isn't massively grasping me and if it is very very descriptive, I find myself not absorbing several pages, so I have to go back over what I just read and really try to take it all in.\n\nFor the moment, I'm just talking about novels. Is this because I haven't read a book in a month or two? So my brain is a little out of it?\n\nAny tips on how to retain book contents / read faster / picture the novel story as you are reading it even better?", "How to Read Better & Faster I'm reading several books at the moment and I enjoy reading however sometimes, if the book isn't massively grasping me and if it is very very descriptive, I find myself not absorbing several pages, so I have to go back over what I just read and really try to take it all in.\n\nFor the moment, I'm just talking about novels. Is this because I haven't read a book in a month or two? So my brain is a little out of it?\n\nAny tips on how to retain book contents / read faster / picture the novel story as you are reading it even better?" ]

[ "Follow beneath the words with your finger (or some other pointing device). Gradually speed up the rate at which you move your finger; your brain will keep up as it can comprehend immensely faster than you think it can. Without an index to follow, your field of vision moves around and between words, effectively procrastinating about taking in the next word, even though there is no need. Reading this way can vastly improve upon both attention span and reading speed problems.\n\nNB. Anyone can use this method to read faster than they already do, not just conspicuously slow readers.\n\nNB2. You can wean yourself off needing to point at the words once your reading is of a speed/level with which you are satisfied.", "Additionally, I believe part of the problem is that my concentration waivers. Is there a way to work on this?" ]

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[ "On Speaking out loud (in private or in public) for some reason, i have this issue about being caught speaking out loud, especially in public, but even in private. the latter is mostly my problem; i can't rehearse the stuff i want to say. \n\ni seem to have this thing where i feel that there's someone watching me and laughint st what i'm saying. help?", "On Speaking out loud (in private or in public) for some reason, i have this issue about being caught speaking out loud, especially in public, but even in private. the latter is mostly my problem; i can't rehearse the stuff i want to say. \n\ni seem to have this thing where i feel that there's someone watching me and laughint st what i'm saying. help?", "On Speaking out loud (in private or in public) for some reason, i have this issue about being caught speaking out loud, especially in public, but even in private. the latter is mostly my problem; i can't rehearse the stuff i want to say. \n\ni seem to have this thing where i feel that there's someone watching me and laughint st what i'm saying. help?" ]

[ "well... don't say things where people would laugh at you?\n\nI have taken speech classes and debating classes, just for GE, and I have never had any problems. I don't know why. I just get up there, say what I need to say, and get off. \n\nI think the reason is I know what I am saying and I know why I am them ( I know the logic, I know the limits of my knowledge) so there is nothing to be ashamed of and there is nothing anyone can say that will stump me. And if I am stumped, say right to their face, \"that's a great point, i don't know the answer to the question.\" After all, why would you? You're not an EXERT on it, you're just saying what you need to say. \n\nAlso if someone's laughing at you, why would that matter? Would you feel better if EVERYONE was thinking you were stupid, but kept their mouth shut? or, would you feel better if everyone respected you, except for one, but that one person laughed out loud at you. From what you're saying, it seems like you would rather have the former case where noone is actually, physically and audibly laughing at you. But I am sure this is not the case. I think you would feel more comfortable knowing that 99 pepole actually respect you and 1 is laughing at you, rather than 100 people thinking you are riddiculous, but is choosing to keep their mouth shut. So here's the thing: you don't know who is making fun of you in their mind or not, and in fact, those that are openly laughing at you are *nice* since they are making it apparent. \n\nDon't worry about all the shiz that other people do; you can't control their thoughts, and some people are immature. \n\nYou just concentrate on your facts and your presentation. Be rational. Be sound. Be confident. Don't say things that you don't know (and if you do want to say something beyond your knowledge, simply start off with \"I think\" or \"in my opinion\" so that if someone presents a data/fact to contradict that, you can just say, \"Oh, I was not aware, sorry, there you go\". whatever!", "Well you can find help... \n\nIn the meantime to help you cope...\n\nNobody is laughing at you. I'm so anxious, but only because I'm so messed up. Everything got a lot easier when I stopped thinking mememe. That person on the train? He had funky glasses, but you don't remember anything else about him. That girl with pink hair? You admired how she nonchalantly looked at her phone, but nothing else. Nobody is laughing at you, and unless you go to extraordinary lengths (or hit the genetic lottery) nobody is going to remember you. \n\nSince this is speaking, it's a bit more complicated. I imagine if you manage to not be creepy and direct topics well you'll do great, and nothing will stand out. I don't laugh, and anyone worth talking to doesn't laugh. It's probably more endearing if someone is struggling to work their sentences out, assuming it's a casual conversation instead of something urgent. People will humor you.", "Take part in a debating society/club. I have been debating for 4 years now, and I have benefitted vastly from it. It teaches you to think on your feet, as well as giving you confidence and practice at speaking out loud. Also, it is good fun and very interesting" ]

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[ "Getting rid of fleas! I've tried fucking everything. In the past few months I've probably bathed my cat like 5 times, I've made him wear a fleacollar, I've sprayed everything with this anti-flea chemical thing and as a last resort I even called the Desinsectation guys and they went over everything with their special fumes or whatever.\n\nWell the last resort didn't work, and since I don't want to burn this place down I was wondering if you guys have any tips.", "Getting rid of fleas! I've tried fucking everything. In the past few months I've probably bathed my cat like 5 times, I've made him wear a fleacollar, I've sprayed everything with this anti-flea chemical thing and as a last resort I even called the Desinsectation guys and they went over everything with their special fumes or whatever.\n\nWell the last resort didn't work, and since I don't want to burn this place down I was wondering if you guys have any tips.", "Getting rid of fleas! I've tried fucking everything. In the past few months I've probably bathed my cat like 5 times, I've made him wear a fleacollar, I've sprayed everything with this anti-flea chemical thing and as a last resort I even called the Desinsectation guys and they went over everything with their special fumes or whatever.\n\nWell the last resort didn't work, and since I don't want to burn this place down I was wondering if you guys have any tips.", "Getting rid of fleas! I've tried fucking everything. In the past few months I've probably bathed my cat like 5 times, I've made him wear a fleacollar, I've sprayed everything with this anti-flea chemical thing and as a last resort I even called the Desinsectation guys and they went over everything with their special fumes or whatever.\n\nWell the last resort didn't work, and since I don't want to burn this place down I was wondering if you guys have any tips." ]

[ "Get some of this:\n\nhttp://www.amazon.com/Thomas-Labratories-Diatomaceous-Shaker-12-Ounce/dp/B00127Q860\n\nSprinkle it everywhere in your carpet. It is basically micro-ground up seashells and it gets between the \"plates\" in insects, cutting them internally.\n\nYou may also want to try bug bombs. You have to use them once a week for 2-3 weeks to kill the fleas that are not hatched yet.", "Do you have carpet or hardwood floors?\n\nTry salt (regular ol' table salt) sprinkled on the carpet at the rate of 2 containers per room (based on a 20' x 16' room). The salt will cut the fleas as well as dehydrate them. Vacuum and re-salt, probably every other day for a week or 2. I bought a flea collar and cut it up and put a piece in the vacuum when I swept to be doubly sure. I then dumped the vacuum container in my outside trash cans.\n\nSource: Had the same problem. My dog and both cats had fleas like crazy. Killed on the animals only to have the fleas hide in the carpet. Was concerned about using chemicals so tried salt and it worked like gangbusters!\n\nIf you have hardwood floors vacuum them and then mop with pine sol daily.", "I've never tested this but my friend told me it works. \nPlace a bowl of water with soap on the ground. Then place a lamp next to the water, have the lamp light facing the water. Now turn on the light and turn off all the lights in the room. Now close the door and leave it there for a day. \nAlso put advantage on that cat. ", "Buy a product called Knockout (or Knockout extra strength) It's a spray. We sell it at the animal hospital where I work. Spray it on carpets and furniture every month for ~ 6 months. Also frequently wash all bedding and towels and clothing etc. with bleach during these months. Source: this is what I am supposed to tell clients who ask this question. For more information, talk to your veterinarian." ]

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[ "20 yo and going bald. How should I deal with it? Hey, guys. I'm a 20 years old student and during all my life I've been considered handsome or at least \"cute\" by pretty much everyone I know. I know that beauty is not even close to be the most important quality of a human being, but now i'm going bald and feeling worst and worst. My self confidence is fucking low right now and shit. I really dont know how to deal with it. \n\nEnglish is not my first language, so i'm sorry for any kind of mistake.\n\n", "20 yo and going bald. How should I deal with it? Hey, guys. I'm a 20 years old student and during all my life I've been considered handsome or at least \"cute\" by pretty much everyone I know. I know that beauty is not even close to be the most important quality of a human being, but now i'm going bald and feeling worst and worst. My self confidence is fucking low right now and shit. I really dont know how to deal with it. \n\nEnglish is not my first language, so i'm sorry for any kind of mistake.\n\n", "20 yo and going bald. How should I deal with it? Hey, guys. I'm a 20 years old student and during all my life I've been considered handsome or at least \"cute\" by pretty much everyone I know. I know that beauty is not even close to be the most important quality of a human being, but now i'm going bald and feeling worst and worst. My self confidence is fucking low right now and shit. I really dont know how to deal with it. \n\nEnglish is not my first language, so i'm sorry for any kind of mistake.\n\n", "20 yo and going bald. How should I deal with it? Hey, guys. I'm a 20 years old student and during all my life I've been considered handsome or at least \"cute\" by pretty much everyone I know. I know that beauty is not even close to be the most important quality of a human being, but now i'm going bald and feeling worst and worst. My self confidence is fucking low right now and shit. I really dont know how to deal with it. \n\nEnglish is not my first language, so i'm sorry for any kind of mistake.\n\n", "20 yo and going bald. How should I deal with it? Hey, guys. I'm a 20 years old student and during all my life I've been considered handsome or at least \"cute\" by pretty much everyone I know. I know that beauty is not even close to be the most important quality of a human being, but now i'm going bald and feeling worst and worst. My self confidence is fucking low right now and shit. I really dont know how to deal with it. \n\nEnglish is not my first language, so i'm sorry for any kind of mistake.\n\n", "20 yo and going bald. How should I deal with it? Hey, guys. I'm a 20 years old student and during all my life I've been considered handsome or at least \"cute\" by pretty much everyone I know. I know that beauty is not even close to be the most important quality of a human being, but now i'm going bald and feeling worst and worst. My self confidence is fucking low right now and shit. I really dont know how to deal with it. \n\nEnglish is not my first language, so i'm sorry for any kind of mistake.\n\n", "20 yo and going bald. How should I deal with it? Hey, guys. I'm a 20 years old student and during all my life I've been considered handsome or at least \"cute\" by pretty much everyone I know. I know that beauty is not even close to be the most important quality of a human being, but now i'm going bald and feeling worst and worst. My self confidence is fucking low right now and shit. I really dont know how to deal with it. \n\nEnglish is not my first language, so i'm sorry for any kind of mistake.\n\n", "20 yo and going bald. How should I deal with it? Hey, guys. I'm a 20 years old student and during all my life I've been considered handsome or at least \"cute\" by pretty much everyone I know. I know that beauty is not even close to be the most important quality of a human being, but now i'm going bald and feeling worst and worst. My self confidence is fucking low right now and shit. I really dont know how to deal with it. \n\nEnglish is not my first language, so i'm sorry for any kind of mistake.\n\n", "20 yo and going bald. How should I deal with it? Hey, guys. I'm a 20 years old student and during all my life I've been considered handsome or at least \"cute\" by pretty much everyone I know. I know that beauty is not even close to be the most important quality of a human being, but now i'm going bald and feeling worst and worst. My self confidence is fucking low right now and shit. I really dont know how to deal with it. \n\nEnglish is not my first language, so i'm sorry for any kind of mistake.\n\n", "20 yo and going bald. How should I deal with it? Hey, guys. I'm a 20 years old student and during all my life I've been considered handsome or at least \"cute\" by pretty much everyone I know. I know that beauty is not even close to be the most important quality of a human being, but now i'm going bald and feeling worst and worst. My self confidence is fucking low right now and shit. I really dont know how to deal with it. \n\nEnglish is not my first language, so i'm sorry for any kind of mistake.\n\n", "20 yo and going bald. How should I deal with it? Hey, guys. I'm a 20 years old student and during all my life I've been considered handsome or at least \"cute\" by pretty much everyone I know. I know that beauty is not even close to be the most important quality of a human being, but now i'm going bald and feeling worst and worst. My self confidence is fucking low right now and shit. I really dont know how to deal with it. \n\nEnglish is not my first language, so i'm sorry for any kind of mistake.\n\n", "20 yo and going bald. How should I deal with it? Hey, guys. I'm a 20 years old student and during all my life I've been considered handsome or at least \"cute\" by pretty much everyone I know. I know that beauty is not even close to be the most important quality of a human being, but now i'm going bald and feeling worst and worst. My self confidence is fucking low right now and shit. I really dont know how to deal with it. \n\nEnglish is not my first language, so i'm sorry for any kind of mistake.\n\n", "20 yo and going bald. How should I deal with it? Hey, guys. I'm a 20 years old student and during all my life I've been considered handsome or at least \"cute\" by pretty much everyone I know. I know that beauty is not even close to be the most important quality of a human being, but now i'm going bald and feeling worst and worst. My self confidence is fucking low right now and shit. I really dont know how to deal with it. \n\nEnglish is not my first language, so i'm sorry for any kind of mistake.\n\n", "20 yo and going bald. How should I deal with it? Hey, guys. I'm a 20 years old student and during all my life I've been considered handsome or at least \"cute\" by pretty much everyone I know. I know that beauty is not even close to be the most important quality of a human being, but now i'm going bald and feeling worst and worst. My self confidence is fucking low right now and shit. I really dont know how to deal with it. \n\nEnglish is not my first language, so i'm sorry for any kind of mistake.\n\n", "20 yo and going bald. How should I deal with it? Hey, guys. I'm a 20 years old student and during all my life I've been considered handsome or at least \"cute\" by pretty much everyone I know. I know that beauty is not even close to be the most important quality of a human being, but now i'm going bald and feeling worst and worst. My self confidence is fucking low right now and shit. I really dont know how to deal with it. \n\nEnglish is not my first language, so i'm sorry for any kind of mistake.\n\n" ]

[ "Shave your head. Really...you're not going to fool anybody with a comb over, in fact you will look like a fool if you do. \n\n\nGoing bald has its perks and downfalls.\nStock up on beanies because you're going to need em. ", "Own it. I started losing my hair when I was 15. It was a little painful at first, but if you own it, you'll be a lot less likely to be that awkward balding dude.\n\nAnd shave it. Unless you're like me and your SO would rather you have hair on your head. Then just do what works the best for you. I've found a beard helps balance things out a bit.", "Alright /u/Foltz,\n\nTime for a few lessons, buddy.\n\nFirstly, go ahead and shave that shit. (Clippers before razor if it's decently long) You don't need that shit fucking with your confidence for any extra time. You might think \"what if my head is lumpy or shaped oddly?\" Fuck that. Own it before you even offically have it. Get in the shower (it's so much easier to clean if there's already tons of water). You're going to want to invest in some good shaving cream and razors, you don't want razor burn on your head. I had hair down past my shoulders for most of my 20's and it was HELL to cut it off, but it's one of the best descions of my life. Not so much for the looks, but the confidence in myself. I was insecure about something and that was negativley impacting my life, so I fixed it. I actually get more compliments now that the hair is gone, ha-ha. Also, IT IS EASY AS FUCK TO MAINTAIN. Seriously, I'm done in about 5-10 minutes everyday and that includes this huge beard that I have. It all boils down to your comfort and happiness, remember that and you'll be fine. Good luck and I hope this helps! \n\nExample of an epic shaved head:\n\nhttp://imgur.com/Z36PQ4j", "Try a short buzz cut, it will make the balding less noticeable plus if you actually have to shave it all off at one point you'll be more used to the look.", "Just from a female perspective - I give zero fucks if a guy is bald but I have to agree with the other responses about shaving it. It's just more obvious that you're bald if the rest of your hair is long. Don't be George Costanza, be Bruce Willis. \n\n+1 for beards", "I begin to lose my hair at about 21 or 22, it drove me crazy, I worried about it so much. One day, I shaved it all off and I have never given it another thought for one second ever again.", "Happened to me, I was effectively bald by the time I left college/university at 22. Things I learned:\n\n1) Comb-overs don't work. Even if you have some hair left now, the deception will become obvious long before you're willing to give up that 'crutch'. Don't be Donald Trump!\n\n2) Facial hair helps. The whole reason face shaving become popular was because it gives men a youthful boyish look. But being bald negates that, so it's better to embrace your adulthood with appropriate facial hair. Plus it helps to frame your face when you're missing that hairline on top.\n\n3) Shave it! Or if you can't for some reason, at least cut it as short as you can get away with. Patrick Stewart lost his hair at a similar age, and he totally rocked it with his super-trim cut on Star Trek:TNG. Personally I think he was a major factor in popularizing current \"bald is beautiful\" attitudes in the US.", "So many \"just shave it all\" advice.\n\nAlright, first:\nUnderstand why you are losing hair in the first place.\nStress\nBad diet\nLack of exercise (or too much)\nGenetic\nlack of protein\nLack of red-spectrum light/sun. \n\nMost are easily fixable, if its dietary deficiencies/insufficiencies, check for hair/nail growth supplements, that contain biotin, folate, some minerals like selenium etc. \n\nIf its lack or excess exercise, adjust that. It has to do with testosterone levels. \n\nIf its stress, try to deal with it, find ways to cope with or minimise.\nRead about Kaisen and apply it to your life, its amazing how inefficiently people lead their lives and how much stress it causes them.\n\nIf its being indoors too much, get out a bit more, get some sun in your head, or buy a red light LED, those work but it takes time.\n\nIf its genetic, try regaine, it might work, if it doesn't you just wasted 25 dollars, if it does then awesome! it was worth it. \nRegaine will only stop hair loss for the first 3 months, it can take 6 to 9 to force hair growth, the issue is that a lot of people except instant results and stop trying, if it stops hair fall then it means it works, stick with it. Only downside is that you have to keep using it.\n\nRosemary essential oil also works quite well, according to studies is comparable to regaine.\nId stay away from the pill hairloss medication as it messes up your hormonal levels and can have horrid side effects (boobs anyone?) but those are rare, up to you to determine if its worth or not to risk it, also they are reversible so... talk with a GP. \n\nYou are young, there is no need to shave it all, there are plenty of things you can do.\nBut its ultimately up to you. \nits probably still a good idea to cut/shave so it will normalise hair length though.", "Same as everyone else -- I started losing my hair on top in college very slowly. \n\nSaid fuck it, just shaved it. \n\nBest thing you can buy for speedy/fast/clean \"just shaved\" look:\n\nhttp://www.amazon.com/Wahl-Professional-785110-Balding-Clipper/dp/B000VVT94G/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1447335410&sr=8-1&keywords=bald+trimmer\n\n\nit's called the bald trimmer- and it works like a charm. Every 1.5 to 2 weeks I give myself a buzz and it's awesome. \n\n", "My bf is balding, he's been having a shaved head forever. I love it. Women like shaved heads as long as you don't look like a cancer patient.", "Google search \"Finasteride\", the medical ingredient in Propecia. I know about 30 guys who are taking it and we've all grown some amount of our hair back and stopped losing any further. It's very affordable if your doctor will write you a prescription for Proscar, which is the same drug in a different dose (you have to cut your pills in quarters). Anyway, do some reading, ask your doctor about it, and figure out if it's right for you.", "For one, do not get a combover, they look ridiculous and so unnatural, you can make balding work.\n\nIf I was in your position I'd go completely bald or keep short hair just so people don't really know I'm balding but think it's just a choice I made.", "Buy those shampoos that help stimulate hair growth. I heard Nioxin is good. But I wouldn't hope for perfect results. Just try to accept your new look. A lot of hot guys are bald. Just own it... so what if you're bald? It's going to be a transition at first, but you'll get used to it, and no one around you will even notice. The most attractive thing about a person is if they're comfortable with themselves. ", "As others have said first things first. Cut what you got really short. A lot are saying shave it, but even a very close buzz cut can look great. \nSecond. Stop shaving your face. Get some stubble growing at the least. \nThird. Become the healthiest YOU possible, I'm not saying get ripped or anything like that. But by focusing on your health a bit you will not only look more appealing but gain confidence in yourself. \nFourth. Get out of the shadows. What I mean by that is a tan bald head looks a lot better then a pasty one.\n\nI'm sure I could add more, but i'll stop my rambling. I started losing my hair right around 16. It sucks at first. It really really sucks. But it doesn't have to be the death of you, and honestly now at 22 I'm glad the last thing I have to worry about is what my hair looks like. \n\nI'll end this with the quote that helped me the most \"Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.\"", "Shave it all, and make sure you dress in a way that eliminates any risk of being mistaken for a skinhead or a Hare Krishna." ]

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[ "How to keep goggles from getting foggy under water? It'd be cool if anyone knew an effective way to prevent this.", "How to keep goggles from getting foggy under water? It'd be cool if anyone knew an effective way to prevent this.", "How to keep goggles from getting foggy under water? It'd be cool if anyone knew an effective way to prevent this.", "How to keep goggles from getting foggy under water? It'd be cool if anyone knew an effective way to prevent this.", "How to keep goggles from getting foggy under water? It'd be cool if anyone knew an effective way to prevent this.", "How to keep goggles from getting foggy under water? It'd be cool if anyone knew an effective way to prevent this." ]

[ "For a quick fix: spit. \nSpit into each lens, then spread it around with your finger. Shake out excess. \nThis has always helped me. ", "There are two different ways to fix this problem. Essentially the glass is not completely smooth close up and it has many peaks and valleys where the fog has space to condense on the glass. You can try to knock the peaks of the glass for the long term fix, or you can fill the valleys for a short term fix.\n\nFor the long term fix, rub toothpaste on the glass and scrub it around for a bit. The tiny little abrasives in the toothpaste help to smooth the glass so that fog cannot condense on the glass. If you do this before every use you will notice after a while (20-50 uses) that fog will only condense around the frames. Where the toothpaste does not reach very well.\n\nFor short term, I have used anti-fog drops, spit, and toothpaste. These will all work for a normal dive and fill those valleys so the fog cannot condense.", "A snorkling tour guide in Hawaii had us all rub a thin layer of soapy water on the inside of our masks. Should work the same for goggles, just don't use much or it will run in to your eyes.", "wet your face before using gogles, to lower its temperature. Also, oily skin (if i remember correct) messes things more - so clean your skin a bit with some soap or just water and rubbing.\n", "baby shampoo dont rinse good for about one dive. or layer toothpaste, let it dry, a few layers good for multiple dives", "Scuba diver here. When your mask is brand new, it has some coating on it which likes to fog. So get rid of that with a few light scrubs of toothpaste. After that, it's fair game. Everything here works (spit is a favorite) and i also use this stuff called 'sea gold'. It's kinda expensive for what it does, but damn does it work. Get the gel stuff if you decide to try it. " ]

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[ "How to Keep to Yourself? I feel like I’m always trying to show off to people. If something exciting happens, I really really love telling people. There’s no gain for either of us really, other than the satisfaction of telling others. In the moment it feels great but in the end it always feels like a waste of time. \n\nSo is there a way to condition myself to keep to myself more rather than fulfill my desire to tell others?", "How to Keep to Yourself? I feel like I’m always trying to show off to people. If something exciting happens, I really really love telling people. There’s no gain for either of us really, other than the satisfaction of telling others. In the moment it feels great but in the end it always feels like a waste of time. \n\nSo is there a way to condition myself to keep to myself more rather than fulfill my desire to tell others?", "How to Keep to Yourself? I feel like I’m always trying to show off to people. If something exciting happens, I really really love telling people. There’s no gain for either of us really, other than the satisfaction of telling others. In the moment it feels great but in the end it always feels like a waste of time. \n\nSo is there a way to condition myself to keep to myself more rather than fulfill my desire to tell others?" ]

[ "Sometimes I tell myself that it'll be *way cooler* if they find out about the cool thing I did later on, or by word of mouth, so I play it cool and don't bring it up. Whether or not that works is another thing, but it feels better than bragging. ", "Years ago I found out that in conversations, people talk about themselves 80% of the time, once I was aware of this fact for some reason I started noticing it much more, and started avoiding doing it myself because I didn't want to be like everyone else, it's crazy how much more likeable you come off as when you start listening more than you talk", "Acknowledge the fact that people in general are self-centered and hence they will not genuinely care about the good things that happen to you unless they somehow could benefit from it. Worst yet in most cases, they will even take offense being mislead by our inherent tendency to envy to believe that you’re bragging - breeding contempt against you for threatening their social status relative to yours.\n\nAlso, it’s much more impressive when people find out the good things about you themselves rather than having you tell them. Humility and the sense that you’re not desperate for approval compound the admiration/respect they will have for you when they finally find out themselves. \n\n\n" ]

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[ "I'm sick of my job and my boss figured out I'm applying to new jobs? I know they are going to make my life hell. What do I do? ", "I'm sick of my job and my boss figured out I'm applying to new jobs? I know they are going to make my life hell. What do I do? ", "I'm sick of my job and my boss figured out I'm applying to new jobs? I know they are going to make my life hell. What do I do? ", "I'm sick of my job and my boss figured out I'm applying to new jobs? I know they are going to make my life hell. What do I do? ", "I'm sick of my job and my boss figured out I'm applying to new jobs? I know they are going to make my life hell. What do I do? ", "I'm sick of my job and my boss figured out I'm applying to new jobs? I know they are going to make my life hell. What do I do? ", "I'm sick of my job and my boss figured out I'm applying to new jobs? I know they are going to make my life hell. What do I do? " ]

[ "Not a lot you can do unfortunately. Work well at your current job and work through it - you want to keep as good a reference as you can.\n\nBut push hard to find a new job and keep looking. If they give you crap just use that as more justification and motivation to find the next job.", "Try to be as professional as possible til the end. If they ask you, be honest without being petty. Don't say \"This job is boring\", tell them you need new challenges.\n\nThey might not be happy about you leaving, but you don't need them bad mouthing you if they're ever contacted as a reference. ", "Relax, do your job, get that other job and leave on good terms. If they fire you they have to pay unemployment most of the time. Just show up on time and don't get caught stealing etc... cliche alert; life is too short, we are all way too obsessed with work, time to move on. Stop caring so much about a company that just sees you as a cog in a machine. You'll be fine. Life is what happens off the clock. Live it.", "Not much. Keep your nose clean, be honest and up front about it. With that being said, i can guess from your post why your looking for a new job...", "Like most people here have said, Be professional as long as you follow rules and protocol noone can really fuck with you (unless your in texas like me (at will state).", "If they are asking you do things outside your job description, chat with HR. Explain that these are not part of your job description, you weren't assigned to do them before, and they are only doing it out of spite after realizing you had another company reach out to you(don't need to tell them the whole story, little white lie won't hurt). If it is a smaller company without this option, you just gotta suck it up. Or continue doing your job per your job description and if they fire you without cause, they will pay your unemployment.", "Ask you boss for help and actually try to get him/her involved, let them know it's not personal and it's not because of them (even if it is ) they will change their posture and they might actually help you to recommend you to other company or in their social circle, if you're a good worker and a value asset to them this might be even a negotiation tool for you as you might get a promotion or raise if you play your cards well, be honest and professional, don't act like you're stabbing them in the back, on the contrary, show them that you actually have potential for more or for something different, no one wants to let go someone honest, hard working and professional, and even if you don't want to stay you can change their mentality and they will be more than happy to be part of your success. Changing works it's not something bad and it's not something you should feel embarrassed of doing or you need to hide, this would be a \"bad thing\" and a problem as long as you treat it like that. I hope this is helpful for you, it helped me and I leave my company with a recommendation letter from the global director of some division of my former company. :) " ]

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[ "How to make hard goodbyes easier? My girlfriend and I just graduated college and on Saturday shes leaving to pursue her dream of road tripping through the 48 contiguous states over the course of a year. I'm helping her put things into the moving van to bring to storage, and I won't get to see her drive off. Things are great between us but there's little chance of us picking up where we left off; shes scouting for her next place to live. I'm not trying to stop her, it is what it is. \n\nMy idea for making goodbye easier is to say it all before Saturday, and then make Saturday a quick goodbye when its time for me to leave. Is there a better way?", "How to make hard goodbyes easier? My girlfriend and I just graduated college and on Saturday shes leaving to pursue her dream of road tripping through the 48 contiguous states over the course of a year. I'm helping her put things into the moving van to bring to storage, and I won't get to see her drive off. Things are great between us but there's little chance of us picking up where we left off; shes scouting for her next place to live. I'm not trying to stop her, it is what it is. \n\nMy idea for making goodbye easier is to say it all before Saturday, and then make Saturday a quick goodbye when its time for me to leave. Is there a better way?", "How to make hard goodbyes easier? My girlfriend and I just graduated college and on Saturday shes leaving to pursue her dream of road tripping through the 48 contiguous states over the course of a year. I'm helping her put things into the moving van to bring to storage, and I won't get to see her drive off. Things are great between us but there's little chance of us picking up where we left off; shes scouting for her next place to live. I'm not trying to stop her, it is what it is. \n\nMy idea for making goodbye easier is to say it all before Saturday, and then make Saturday a quick goodbye when its time for me to leave. Is there a better way?", "How to make hard goodbyes easier? My girlfriend and I just graduated college and on Saturday shes leaving to pursue her dream of road tripping through the 48 contiguous states over the course of a year. I'm helping her put things into the moving van to bring to storage, and I won't get to see her drive off. Things are great between us but there's little chance of us picking up where we left off; shes scouting for her next place to live. I'm not trying to stop her, it is what it is. \n\nMy idea for making goodbye easier is to say it all before Saturday, and then make Saturday a quick goodbye when its time for me to leave. Is there a better way?", "How to make hard goodbyes easier? My girlfriend and I just graduated college and on Saturday shes leaving to pursue her dream of road tripping through the 48 contiguous states over the course of a year. I'm helping her put things into the moving van to bring to storage, and I won't get to see her drive off. Things are great between us but there's little chance of us picking up where we left off; shes scouting for her next place to live. I'm not trying to stop her, it is what it is. \n\nMy idea for making goodbye easier is to say it all before Saturday, and then make Saturday a quick goodbye when its time for me to leave. Is there a better way?", "How to make hard goodbyes easier? My girlfriend and I just graduated college and on Saturday shes leaving to pursue her dream of road tripping through the 48 contiguous states over the course of a year. I'm helping her put things into the moving van to bring to storage, and I won't get to see her drive off. Things are great between us but there's little chance of us picking up where we left off; shes scouting for her next place to live. I'm not trying to stop her, it is what it is. \n\nMy idea for making goodbye easier is to say it all before Saturday, and then make Saturday a quick goodbye when its time for me to leave. Is there a better way?", "How to make hard goodbyes easier? My girlfriend and I just graduated college and on Saturday shes leaving to pursue her dream of road tripping through the 48 contiguous states over the course of a year. I'm helping her put things into the moving van to bring to storage, and I won't get to see her drive off. Things are great between us but there's little chance of us picking up where we left off; shes scouting for her next place to live. I'm not trying to stop her, it is what it is. \n\nMy idea for making goodbye easier is to say it all before Saturday, and then make Saturday a quick goodbye when its time for me to leave. Is there a better way?" ]

[ "It's going to be hard no matter what. However, if you get everything off your chest the night before, your goodbye will feel more resolved, albeit bittersweet. ", "I've been in a similar position. Story time!\n\nI studied abroad and met a wonderful woman in the country that was my temporary home for 2 years. She was also studying abroad. Because of complicated circumstances, I could not get a work visa after I graduated. She, however, did, and was not interested in moving to the U.S. just because things were good when we were getting ready to part ways (I don't think she'd move here unless we were both ready to marry, which we weren't). So I literally am not able to live where she is and she has no desire to live where I live. When we graduated last summer, we made sure to cherish the time we spent together. We parted ways when she traveled to visit her family the same week I moved back to the U.S. Saying goodbye was one of the top 5 hardest experiences of my life. \n\nMy advice is to come to terms with everything as quickly as possible. Acceptance will make that goodbye a little easier. But definitely take the time to say a good goodbye, talk about everything you need to the day before and then the day she leaves just enjoy each other's presence. Wake up early, go to breakfast or lunch, talk about the excitement for the future and try to keep the focus there instead of worry or sadness. Parting ways from where you're eating will help keep you from feeling like she's simply leaving you, as you're also not going with her. Understand that you will feel sad when she's gone, but that it's okay to feel sad. ", "Don't make it a quick good bye imo. Cherish the time you have and had together and hope for the best.", "I'd pack her a picnic box/bag for the road of useful stuff.\n\nIf it has to keep a long time you can do things like little packets of dried fruit and nuts, a couple of bottles of water, granola bars and maybe even a small box of tissue and some wet-wipe kind of things.\nThrow in some oranges if you like.\n\nAnything that essentially sends the message \"I hope you're having a wonderful drive across the US and this will help you do it\"\n\nYou can hand her her little gift bag and give her a huge hug. Slip a note in the bag if you have anything to add to what you said before.", "Yeah...a good relationship (at least to me) would involve two people going on adventures together. With a dream as easy as seeing all the states I don't really understand why she is leaving you over that. It looks like she chose having that now over you. I would just make it quick and move on, you've already done enough to help her accomplish this. Not to mention the important question of: Where will you be in a year? ", "I'd try and make it easier by finding a plan B. If seeing the worlds largest frying pan is more important than your relationship then it wasn't going anywhere anyway. Give her a hug and wish her a good life and find someone who's life plan is finding someone to share her soul and life with. LPT church is a good place to find women like that.", "I think your idea is great. Say it all before the time she's actually leaving, because honestly at that point her mind is going to be a million places. Keep that goodbye short. Try to arrange a situation where she's relaxed and doesn't have anything to do, so she's completely focused on you. Good luck, you never know what the future will bring. " ]

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[ "How to stop mumbling and talk clearer? For pretty much all my life some people have trouble hearing and understanding me. I love talking but having to repeat myself over and over again, because people dont understand me is starting to irritate the hell out of me.\n\nI know that I am talking too fast and not clear enough, but no matter how much I try I cant seem to slow down or be clearer. Does anybody have a working tip, guide or exercise that could help me with my speaking?\n\nThanks in advance! ", "How to stop mumbling and talk clearer? For pretty much all my life some people have trouble hearing and understanding me. I love talking but having to repeat myself over and over again, because people dont understand me is starting to irritate the hell out of me.\n\nI know that I am talking too fast and not clear enough, but no matter how much I try I cant seem to slow down or be clearer. Does anybody have a working tip, guide or exercise that could help me with my speaking?\n\nThanks in advance! ", "How to stop mumbling and talk clearer? For pretty much all my life some people have trouble hearing and understanding me. I love talking but having to repeat myself over and over again, because people dont understand me is starting to irritate the hell out of me.\n\nI know that I am talking too fast and not clear enough, but no matter how much I try I cant seem to slow down or be clearer. Does anybody have a working tip, guide or exercise that could help me with my speaking?\n\nThanks in advance! ", "How to stop mumbling and talk clearer? For pretty much all my life some people have trouble hearing and understanding me. I love talking but having to repeat myself over and over again, because people dont understand me is starting to irritate the hell out of me.\n\nI know that I am talking too fast and not clear enough, but no matter how much I try I cant seem to slow down or be clearer. Does anybody have a working tip, guide or exercise that could help me with my speaking?\n\nThanks in advance! ", "How to stop mumbling and talk clearer? For pretty much all my life some people have trouble hearing and understanding me. I love talking but having to repeat myself over and over again, because people dont understand me is starting to irritate the hell out of me.\n\nI know that I am talking too fast and not clear enough, but no matter how much I try I cant seem to slow down or be clearer. Does anybody have a working tip, guide or exercise that could help me with my speaking?\n\nThanks in advance! " ]

[ "Practice articulation exercises. Read aloud when you're reading alone. Listen to the type of speakers you wish to sound more like, and spend time imitating them. If you can, watch the way their mouth moves as they speak, and practice in a mirror.\n\n[Here are some good exercises to get you started.](https://imprinttrainingcenter.wordpress.com/2012/04/08/dictionexercises/)", "I used to take drama and rethorics classes and in both we would use the corks of wine bottles in order to achieve a clear pronounciation. We'd put the cork (or an item similar in size and shape) in our mouths like a very short cigar, hold it with our teeth and just try to talk as clearly as possible around it. This trains your oral muscles as well as it forces you to keep your mouth open, resulting in a much clearer pronounciation after doing it for a few minutes (and taking the cork out of course). The effects will fade pretty quickly at the beginning, lasting maybe 15 minites or so, but over time your overall oral posture and tension will improve greatly thus rewarding you with a significantly clearer pronounciation. ", "Stretching the tongue helps. Stretch in all directions, making the tongue get as far out of your mouth as possible. I also like the phrases, \"took, tech, tuck. Poor, peer, pear, bird.\" \"Wow the crowd with audacious applause and a rounding ovation.\" ", "Go to a local Toastmasters International meeting. It's a nonprofit that teaches public speaking. It's free (though you should donate) and a good way to meet people too! Not enough people know about it despite the fact that it's been around for many decades.", "I have the same problem. For me it was a really bad overbite, and I got it fixed. However, since then, it's come back and now people think I'm slowly degrading as it gets worse. ☹️" ]

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[ "Earwig Extermination Earwig season is upon us (for Canadians, anyway) and my house is getting hit hard. Once the cloak of night is drawn, these disgusting wretches crawl out from nowhere like the goddamn Foot Clan and just sit there, multiplying by the second. Whenever one meets its end, several more take its place, ready to creep around my residence like the picacroons they are.\n\nSomeone please come to my aid. I have nobody to help me. I am alone, and they are approaching. I see small black shadows squirming amongst the darkness. Please help.", "Earwig Extermination Earwig season is upon us (for Canadians, anyway) and my house is getting hit hard. Once the cloak of night is drawn, these disgusting wretches crawl out from nowhere like the goddamn Foot Clan and just sit there, multiplying by the second. Whenever one meets its end, several more take its place, ready to creep around my residence like the picacroons they are.\n\nSomeone please come to my aid. I have nobody to help me. I am alone, and they are approaching. I see small black shadows squirming amongst the darkness. Please help." ]

[ "Few days old, but maybe this will help someone. Take an old newspaper or a few inches of phone book. Crumple it up well and dampen it. Place this in a plastic bag on the ground with the paper extending just past the edge of the bag. They love damp small spots to hide, and in the morning they will have filled every little crevice of the paper. Pick it up by the bag and throw it all away. ", "Alright, I tried something out and it totally worked a little bit.\nA tupperware container with 1 part water and 1 part soap placed near to site of infestation. I checked that sucker last night and I had upwards of 25 earwig corpses fermenting in their own disgusting juices. If this doesn't work 100%, I'm gonna try what theicecubecrumbles suggested.\nthanks everyone!" ]

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[ "How to break the habit of biting fingernails. I've never been able to grow my nails out. If you don't have this habbit, you probably don't understand. I don't even realize I do it until I play basketball or use hand-soap/shampoo.", "How to break the habit of biting fingernails. I've never been able to grow my nails out. If you don't have this habbit, you probably don't understand. I don't even realize I do it until I play basketball or use hand-soap/shampoo.", "How to break the habit of biting fingernails. I've never been able to grow my nails out. If you don't have this habbit, you probably don't understand. I don't even realize I do it until I play basketball or use hand-soap/shampoo.", "How to break the habit of biting fingernails. I've never been able to grow my nails out. If you don't have this habbit, you probably don't understand. I don't even realize I do it until I play basketball or use hand-soap/shampoo." ]

[ "Put nail polish remover or something that tastes nasty on your nails. The taste aversion will be stronger than your bad habit. ", "I'd just like to second this request. I've tried SO MANY things to break this habit and it's just impossible. \n\nIt doesn't help that I'm a lady...it seems like my hand hygiene is scrutinized more because of that fact, and it makes a poor first impression. HELP US!", "I bit my nails until my late teens, and stopped after reading a (spurious) factoid claiming that biting your nails makes them grow more slowly. While it's probably untrue, I stopped biting my nails to test the theory. It helped break the habit. \n\nAlong the same lines, it might help to remind yourself that all sorts of nasty gunk could be stuck under your fingernails. When you bite them, you're ingesting dirt, germs, and possibly fecal material. Unappetizing. ", "I've been a nail biter all my life, and so had my cousin (4 years younger). She's quite a spoiled kid so I would always be jealous of her, so the one thing that made me stop for good, with no need for willpower, was a picture she sent me of her grown nails. \nSecond-best thing was fake nails, the only thing is having willpower not to pick them off. You can chew at them all you want, but it becomes much less satisfying because its just plastic. I buy them in packs of 100 nails (usually about £6. Those 2 things have made me stop for good :) " ]

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[ "How to make friends at a new high school So I just moved to my city 3 months ago and recently got accepted to a high school nearby. The problem is, I'm a very shy guy and only 160 cms tall so I get intimidated by most situations where I have to interact with people that I'm not used to. I made a promise to myself that I should find a few friends and be more social. Any tips?", "How to make friends at a new high school So I just moved to my city 3 months ago and recently got accepted to a high school nearby. The problem is, I'm a very shy guy and only 160 cms tall so I get intimidated by most situations where I have to interact with people that I'm not used to. I made a promise to myself that I should find a few friends and be more social. Any tips?", "How to make friends at a new high school So I just moved to my city 3 months ago and recently got accepted to a high school nearby. The problem is, I'm a very shy guy and only 160 cms tall so I get intimidated by most situations where I have to interact with people that I'm not used to. I made a promise to myself that I should find a few friends and be more social. Any tips?", "How to make friends at a new high school So I just moved to my city 3 months ago and recently got accepted to a high school nearby. The problem is, I'm a very shy guy and only 160 cms tall so I get intimidated by most situations where I have to interact with people that I'm not used to. I made a promise to myself that I should find a few friends and be more social. Any tips?" ]

[ "Join a club or play sports. You can easily meet people in these settings that have similar interests to you.", "Get some weed and/or acid. People love weed and acid. Also play sports like the other guy said. As for sports I guess you aint making the football team but climbing is great for us short guys, also climbers are good people. ", "You should join clubs that deal with your interests like books, chess, videogames. For example: I am interested in playing Smash Bros Melee, so I looked up in the internet for a local community right before I moved out of my parent's house far away. It really helped out. Good luck to you!", "The best advice I got (although unfortunately I didn't really listen) was to choose your friends, don't let your friends choose you. It can be easy to fall in with whatever people accept you first, but try and hold out for the kind of people YOU want to hang out with. \n\nAnd honestly, in high school the best way to make friends is not to try too hard. Be a kind person, get involved in sports, clubs, etc, and just be patient. It'll happen! Here's some specific things you can try once you've met someone you're interested in getting to know better:\n\n-invite them to do something with you that you know they like doing, but make it something quick. Don't start by inviting them to do something that will take hours and hours.\n\n-ask for help, advice, tips about something. You could ask about the school, a game, a certain class or teacher, etc. Basically, people love feeling like their opinions or ideas matter, and you're giving them a chance to be \"the expert\" on something.\n\n-Try and remember people's names. Studies show people love the sound of their own name:) \n\nGood luck! " ]

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[ "How to change a negative perception into that of a 'Leader', at work. I just walked out of a meeting where I was advised that I need to change a negative perception of me into that of a leader. \n\nI am still confused as the only issue that could lend to this lately, is my occasional absences from work (sick/family commitments etc).\n\nWe are undergoing some major change in the business and everyone is under a great deal of pressure (excessive work hours etc) so this has no doubt lead to this 'perception'. \n\nIn my opinion I am extremely approachable, I commit to deadlines and am supportive of my 2 direct reports. \n\nI have scoured the internet and have not found anything of which I do not already do. \n\nPersonally, I hate 'perception'. I prefer fact. And in this case I know of 2 people in the office who gossip and rumour like crazy..which I have no doubt in why I was pulled into that meeting.\n\nSo I need some help from Reddit before I head back for the follow up meeting in a couple of days to provide details on 'how I will change this perception'.", "How to change a negative perception into that of a 'Leader', at work. I just walked out of a meeting where I was advised that I need to change a negative perception of me into that of a leader. \n\nI am still confused as the only issue that could lend to this lately, is my occasional absences from work (sick/family commitments etc).\n\nWe are undergoing some major change in the business and everyone is under a great deal of pressure (excessive work hours etc) so this has no doubt lead to this 'perception'. \n\nIn my opinion I am extremely approachable, I commit to deadlines and am supportive of my 2 direct reports. \n\nI have scoured the internet and have not found anything of which I do not already do. \n\nPersonally, I hate 'perception'. I prefer fact. And in this case I know of 2 people in the office who gossip and rumour like crazy..which I have no doubt in why I was pulled into that meeting.\n\nSo I need some help from Reddit before I head back for the follow up meeting in a couple of days to provide details on 'how I will change this perception'.", "How to change a negative perception into that of a 'Leader', at work. I just walked out of a meeting where I was advised that I need to change a negative perception of me into that of a leader. \n\nI am still confused as the only issue that could lend to this lately, is my occasional absences from work (sick/family commitments etc).\n\nWe are undergoing some major change in the business and everyone is under a great deal of pressure (excessive work hours etc) so this has no doubt lead to this 'perception'. \n\nIn my opinion I am extremely approachable, I commit to deadlines and am supportive of my 2 direct reports. \n\nI have scoured the internet and have not found anything of which I do not already do. \n\nPersonally, I hate 'perception'. I prefer fact. And in this case I know of 2 people in the office who gossip and rumour like crazy..which I have no doubt in why I was pulled into that meeting.\n\nSo I need some help from Reddit before I head back for the follow up meeting in a couple of days to provide details on 'how I will change this perception'." ]

[ "Be accountable, responsible and take responsibility.\n\nYour post already demonstrates the opposite\n\n> ...And in this case I know of 2 people in the office....\n\nIgnore gossip and gossips.\n\nWhen something goes wrong, don't worry about who to blame, focus on solving the problem instead. Take calculated risks and be accountable if things don't go right. When you see something that needs to be done, just do it. Don't wait to be told. Learn to delegate tasks without micromanaging (probably the most difficult).\n\nProblems coming down should stop at you. Praise coming down should get passed down (to your reports).", "Everybody else's perception's is the reality outside your mind. You need to change that perception.\n\nHaving said that:\n\n* Be early at the office. Do not need to stay until late - just be 30 minutes earlier than everybody else.\n* There are two cases of family commitments. 1) Something you plan ahead with a lot of preparation. You send an early initial email, as early as possible (only to your management, unless you need backup, in which case you send to your possible backup as well). One week before you remind your management about it with a fwd, and few coworkers that may be impacted as well (I planned and asked for these days off few months/weeks ago... blah blah blah). One day before, a last reminder (mgnt, key coworkers). Don't send them to people that don't need to know (don't blast your office with your vacation plans). 2) Emergencies. They have to be real emergencies, and involve hospital or something like that. one short email to managers/key coworkers. That's it.\nDon't over advertise your absences, but be sure the people that need to know are aware.\n* Commit to things you can accomplish - ALWAYS deliver on time or earlier, but never too early.\n* Constanza's law: Look busy and a bit frustrated (and be busy).\n* Overprepare for meetings.\n* If you don't say anything in a meeting, you shouldn't be on that meeting.\n* Leadership is perception of the team. Talk. Ask others what they think. Make them feel important. Take the most difficult tasks for yourself.\n\n", "Marine Corps Leadership Traits: JJDIDTIEBUCKLE (http://www.au.af.mil/au/awc/awcgate/usmc/leadership_traits.htm):\n\nJustice, Judgement, Dependability, Initiative, Decisiveness, Tact, Integrity, Enthusiasm, Bearing, Unselfishness, Courage, Knowledge, Loyalty, Endurance.\n\nIt sounds like you've got some of these but are lacking in others, the link includes definitions and suggestions for improvement. \n\nI guess I can't say the Marine Corps didn't do anything for me. \n" ]

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[ "Best way to eliminate smell from pet urine on carpeting? Serious request. My puppy had a few accidents on the carpet. I cleaned up the best I could but I notice a urine scent still. Tried Natures Miracle and it seems you need to dump a half bottle to penetrate carpet fibers. The stuff is pretty expensive too. Any home brewed cleaner or tips to eliminate the smell of pet urine?", "Best way to eliminate smell from pet urine on carpeting? Serious request. My puppy had a few accidents on the carpet. I cleaned up the best I could but I notice a urine scent still. Tried Natures Miracle and it seems you need to dump a half bottle to penetrate carpet fibers. The stuff is pretty expensive too. Any home brewed cleaner or tips to eliminate the smell of pet urine?", "Best way to eliminate smell from pet urine on carpeting? Serious request. My puppy had a few accidents on the carpet. I cleaned up the best I could but I notice a urine scent still. Tried Natures Miracle and it seems you need to dump a half bottle to penetrate carpet fibers. The stuff is pretty expensive too. Any home brewed cleaner or tips to eliminate the smell of pet urine?", "Best way to eliminate smell from pet urine on carpeting? Serious request. My puppy had a few accidents on the carpet. I cleaned up the best I could but I notice a urine scent still. Tried Natures Miracle and it seems you need to dump a half bottle to penetrate carpet fibers. The stuff is pretty expensive too. Any home brewed cleaner or tips to eliminate the smell of pet urine?", "Best way to eliminate smell from pet urine on carpeting? Serious request. My puppy had a few accidents on the carpet. I cleaned up the best I could but I notice a urine scent still. Tried Natures Miracle and it seems you need to dump a half bottle to penetrate carpet fibers. The stuff is pretty expensive too. Any home brewed cleaner or tips to eliminate the smell of pet urine?", "Best way to eliminate smell from pet urine on carpeting? Serious request. My puppy had a few accidents on the carpet. I cleaned up the best I could but I notice a urine scent still. Tried Natures Miracle and it seems you need to dump a half bottle to penetrate carpet fibers. The stuff is pretty expensive too. Any home brewed cleaner or tips to eliminate the smell of pet urine?", "Best way to eliminate smell from pet urine on carpeting? Serious request. My puppy had a few accidents on the carpet. I cleaned up the best I could but I notice a urine scent still. Tried Natures Miracle and it seems you need to dump a half bottle to penetrate carpet fibers. The stuff is pretty expensive too. Any home brewed cleaner or tips to eliminate the smell of pet urine?" ]

[ "Spray the carpet till it is pretty damp with water, then liberally sprinkle baking soda over the affected area. Let it sit for 24-48 hours to dry/break down the smell. Then just vacuum it up!", "Put white vinegar into a spray bottle. Spray the whole area until it's damp then use paper towels to dry it all out. Stand on it if you have to but once the carpet's dry the smell should be gone.\n If it's still there you didn't use enough vinegar.", "Natures Miracle is not really Natures Miracle anymore, and hasn't been for some time. If you want what used to be NM you have to buy Petastic, this is the original NM formula.\n\nHere is a link explaining it all:\nhttp://gonetothedogsblog.wordpress.com/tag/natures-miracle/", "I had a friend who gave me some really nice couches for free, the only problem was that their old cat peed on it. \n\nIn a water bottle I mixed:\n\n-Hydrogen Peroxide\n-Rubbing Alcohol\n-several squirts of hand soap\n-baking soda\n-and warm water\n\npoured it all over the affected area and let it soak it. It takes a little bit to dry up and when it dries there is powder left over. The horrendous smell of cat pee was gone. \n\nMy friend came over and he couldn't even believe that they were the same couches. GOOD LUCK!", "You can get a large bottle (I think half a gallon or around there) of Nature's Miracle for less than $5 with free shipping with prime. ", "Oxygen powder such as Vanish, mix with hot water and pour around the area - it must be bigger than the wee stain as wee stains are like icebergs.\n\nPreferably use the above method with a mixture of Vanish, warm water, Fairy Liquid, Vinegar, nice smelling fabric softener in a carpet cleaner\n\nCat wee seems to be more oil based than dog pee and requires more to remove the above should remove cat wee", "Ever heard of \"Nature's Miracle\"? They sell it at pet stores, white and red spray bottle, works great. Spray it on the spot, let it sit for a few, scrub up with a dry towel, no smell." ]

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[ "How to negotiate, e.g at a car dealer What's a good way to start, how to push, what are the signals? ", "How to negotiate, e.g at a car dealer What's a good way to start, how to push, what are the signals? ", "How to negotiate, e.g at a car dealer What's a good way to start, how to push, what are the signals? ", "How to negotiate, e.g at a car dealer What's a good way to start, how to push, what are the signals? ", "How to negotiate, e.g at a car dealer What's a good way to start, how to push, what are the signals? ", "How to negotiate, e.g at a car dealer What's a good way to start, how to push, what are the signals? " ]

[ "Probably the best tip, especially for a newbie, is to talk as little as possible. More often than not you are talking to break the tension and it will not be to your benefit. You want to give as much information as is needed to the sales person, but beyond that there is no reason to keep talking. The less you say, the more likely the salesman has to talk, and many times it will not be to his benefit. If they ask a direct question, answer it as best as you can but with as few words as possible. Then let them talk a while. (Your) silence is golden. \n \nExample: \n \nD: Hey, I see you are looking at that Mustang! Has lots of power and great gas mileage with that ecoboost... \n \nY: ::nodding:: \n \nD: So, anything specific that you are looking for? Are you looking for only a Mustang? \n \nY: Yeah, I would really like to get a new Mustang today, but my budget is only $23k. \n \n... Let him take the conversation from there. You let him know what you *really* want, you let him know that you are willing to buy today, and you let him know your budget. What more info are you going to give him that is going to help you? Are you going to let him know that your current car is ready to break down and you don't really have a choice but to buy ASAP? Any time you open your mouth it should be with relevant information and, if possible, should limit their choices (preferably to getting the price lower) and keep yours open (like the possibility of going somewhere else or waiting for a later date).", "First off, have a number in your head that is the absolute most you are willing to pay. Make up your mind that there is no way you will pay more than that, unless the dealership offers to throw in something extra to make up the difference. Along that same line, use the \"if, then\" strategy. For example, you could say \"If I pay X amount for this car, I want these floormats (or whatever else) included\". This gives you another bargaining chip.", "Patience, knowledge, alternatives. It's easier to negotiate when you don't have a pressing need, have a solid understanding of costs for services or products and have somewhere else youre willing to go to find a solution. \n\n", "I am just going to add to some of the good tips already given.\n\n1. Look around- always talk to multiple dealers. Few might have better deals - extra features (mats, door protectors, etc) or might give you better financing. IF all else fails, take their quotes for the car and get a good idea as to how low you can start for the bargain.\n2. As one of the redditors mentioned - talk less. But at the same time, make sure you give them enough to get you the right car.\n3. Do not wait till the last minute to buy a car. You will be under pressure to take anything and may not get the best deal. Let the agent know that you dont need a car right now, unless they give you an offer you cannot refuse (the godfather style) \n4. This one is optional - i do not like to buy their protection plans - but hey, i live in a small city with less cars and people. Roads are good most of the time and i am a good driver. Most of these protection plans are purely for the dealer's profits. ", "Do not get into the \"how much can you afford a month\" game. It is none of their business and can be used to manipulate you into paying a lot more. The PRICE is what you care about, not the payments. Deal with interest and payments after you make the deal.", "Buying a car is a pretty important decision, take your time and decide what kind of car (or truck or whatever) you want ahead of time within your price range.\n\nHaving bought a few cars and gotten good deals each time, its about knowing what the car is worth stock, and what the packages actually cost, usually you can find this out online. From there, you can negotiate for dealer throw ins like winter tires with spare rims, undercoating, plastic applications to cover the hood and remote starters. Have an idea what tires will cost you, oil changes that kind of thing, you'd be surprised what you can get for free.\n\nWhen you go in to actually talk to a salesperson, you should be almost sold already on what you want. The only thing you need to do is take a test drive and see if they have one in your color. Since you've already researched the car ahead of time, you know you can afford it, and if you can't afford it, then why are you looking at it?\n\nAll you need to do really is discuss dealer throw ins and the financing. I try to get winter tires with rims, undercoating and a number of free oil changes thrown in for free as sweeteners. Its about an extra $2000 in value that they're going to give me to take this car from them. You are in the drivers seat. " ]

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[ "How to repair sticky buttons on video game controllers. I just recently bought a new Wii remote, and the D pad part of it is now sticking. I don't think anything got spilled on it or anything (and before you all try to get karma with hilarious masturbation jokes, no I do not jerk off on my Wii controllers). Anyone have any luck getting controllers back to normal?", "How to repair sticky buttons on video game controllers. I just recently bought a new Wii remote, and the D pad part of it is now sticking. I don't think anything got spilled on it or anything (and before you all try to get karma with hilarious masturbation jokes, no I do not jerk off on my Wii controllers). Anyone have any luck getting controllers back to normal?", "How to repair sticky buttons on video game controllers. I just recently bought a new Wii remote, and the D pad part of it is now sticking. I don't think anything got spilled on it or anything (and before you all try to get karma with hilarious masturbation jokes, no I do not jerk off on my Wii controllers). Anyone have any luck getting controllers back to normal?" ]

[ "For gear boxes in cars you spray windex down in it and work it if you spill pop down in it or something. You could unplug/ take batteries out and try spraying windex in the crack of the button and working it until the sticky is worked away, but do not plug the controller in or turn it on until you are sure that the windex has evaporated. Liquids only fry electronics when there is power going to them", "you're going to need a toothpick (maybe more than one), some Q-tips and some rubbing alcohol. \n\nUse the toothpicks to get as much solid shmutz out from around the button/d-pad as possible. Then use the Q-tips to apply alcohol to those areas. That should be enough to act as a solvent and dissolve any residual skin oils/dirt and unstick your controller.\n\nDon't douse the thing in alcohol however. It'll evaporate pretty easy (another bonus) but not if there's a significant amount swishing around inside your controller housing.", "I've taken apart a few wireless controllers and it's not tough at all. Just don't loose the pieces. I used air duster and alcohol wipes and it worked like a charm. I don't know what the insides of a wii remote are like tho.." ]

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[ "Hangover remedies at home Currently I just throw up when I drink or eat anything. What else can I do at home?", "Hangover remedies at home Currently I just throw up when I drink or eat anything. What else can I do at home?", "Hangover remedies at home Currently I just throw up when I drink or eat anything. What else can I do at home?", "Hangover remedies at home Currently I just throw up when I drink or eat anything. What else can I do at home?", "Hangover remedies at home Currently I just throw up when I drink or eat anything. What else can I do at home?", "Hangover remedies at home Currently I just throw up when I drink or eat anything. What else can I do at home?", "Hangover remedies at home Currently I just throw up when I drink or eat anything. What else can I do at home?", "Hangover remedies at home Currently I just throw up when I drink or eat anything. What else can I do at home?" ]

[ "Massive weekend over drinker here. A few tips.\n\nDrink loads of water before you sleep. Before that, if you are feeling ill, especially if you have been drinking shots, stick your fingers down your throat and barf up all that useless alcohol (you are going to bed and have no need to be witty and charming anymore). Then drink the water. A lot of water. At least two pints (a litre). Then put a big glass by the bed. When you inevitably wake up in the night needing to pee, drink the glass of water.\n\nWhen you wake up in the morning, you will want to lie in bed. Resist this urge. You must get up and do something. You know how you hate those guys who can get up and not have a hangover the next day? The reason they don't have a hangover is *because* they get up and do something. Go out and get breakfast (this works particularly well if you have a SO in bed nursing a hangover - you get to be awesome and bring them\n breakfast) And drink lots of water. Water is your friend. As is orange juice. Chug that down you like there is no tomorrow.\n\nDrink sugary things. My personal preferance is [Inca Kola](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inca_Kola) but unless you are in Peru. you can't have that, so drink coke or pepsi.\n\nAnd move around. Walk, run, anything. Just do something and you *will* feel better.\n", "2-3 Tums, wait a bit, then breakfast (with a glass of water), then two aspirin. I was actually about to make an LPT for this. \n\nIt's tried and true, this method saves my ass every time, and most of my friends now do it as well. \n\n**The Tums** - the missing link in most peoples' hangover mornings-after. The splitting headache usually makes you forget your stomach is sour as hell, even if you didn't puke. Eating these also gets your stomach ready for the food/water and eventually the aspirin. I am continually amazed at how much of a difference these make vs. just aspirin/water/food. \n\n**The breakfast** - Bananas, rice crispies (or other rice cereal), and toast w/ applesauce are a good start, all of these foods shouldn't aggravate your stomach. A glass of water is also key. Eat/drink slowly. STAY AWAY FROM COFFEE, it is super acidic.... juices can also give you problems. I usually make some eggs too for a heavier meal, but you may or may not be able to handle that. \n\n**The aspirin** - Wait until a bit after you've eaten. With the tums and food in your stomach, you should be able to handle this, which will kick your headache. Without tums/food, not a great idea. \n\n", "Alternate your drinks, bro. One beer, one water. Repeat. Don't take Tylenol before you go to bed in the evening. Drink two large glasses of water before you fall asleep even if you're full of booze. Electrolytes and spicy Mexican food in the early morning will help. ", "Tums always made me puke after drinking. the best cure for a hangover is preventative maintenance. I generally drink half a liter of whiskey a day, plus a six pack or a bottle of wine on my four days off (i work four on, four off)\n\nbefore i really hit the sauce, even if i've been drinking, I take a multivitamin and drink a bottle of water. then before i go to bed/pass out, i drink another bottle of water. eggs and soup for breakfast, coffee and water for drink. hangover is a 3/10 when it's all said and done, and that gets cured by more booze. ", "Personally I always drink something sugary; like \"full fat\" coke or something similar. That always sorts me out.", "I smoke some marijuana to cure my hangover. It gets rid of the headache because THC is a vasodilator and a pain killer just like ibuprofen. Also it increases my appetite so I actually eat (my I puke or feel nausea I can't eat without feeling worse.) This might not be what you are looking for, but it always helps me. ", "Drink small amounts of body-temperature water. Avoid tannins, coffee or black tea. \n\nYou need electrolytes and sugar, so room temp or warmer sports drinks will help. If you're going to ingest anything, it needs to be salty with lots of simple carbs.\n\nFor painkillers stick with acetaminophen and avoid NSAIDs like aspirin and ibuprofen, both are hard on your stomach. ", " If you have a hangover headache, go for a run. The endorphins you release will counter act the headache." ]

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[ "Don’t try to talk yourself out of fear or anxiety-go somatic \nConsider that when you’re scared, worried or angry, your amygdala in your limbic brain is setting off alarms so you are in fight, flight, or freeze mode. Your pre-frontal cortex where your executive judgement, rational, verbal and conceptual skills lie, is offline. So your amygdala can’t understand verbal meaning. Interrupting somatically is so much more effective. Somatic interventions use any of the senses including olfactory, kinesthetic, visual, gustatory, and auditory, to provide contradictory information to the brain. \n Examples: Box or Square Breathing; running cold or warm water over your hands depending on whether to “cool down” or “calm down”; sniffing scents that can calm or energize like essential oils; a pinch of salt or honey on the tip of your tongue; a mandala you can look at and trace the lines with your eyes; a rhythmic noise to hum to yourself or whistle, you get the picture. \n You’ll give yourself that essential moment to get your prefrontal cortex online again.", "Don’t try to talk yourself out of fear or anxiety-go somatic \nConsider that when you’re scared, worried or angry, your amygdala in your limbic brain is setting off alarms so you are in fight, flight, or freeze mode. Your pre-frontal cortex where your executive judgement, rational, verbal and conceptual skills lie, is offline. So your amygdala can’t understand verbal meaning. Interrupting somatically is so much more effective. Somatic interventions use any of the senses including olfactory, kinesthetic, visual, gustatory, and auditory, to provide contradictory information to the brain. \n Examples: Box or Square Breathing; running cold or warm water over your hands depending on whether to “cool down” or “calm down”; sniffing scents that can calm or energize like essential oils; a pinch of salt or honey on the tip of your tongue; a mandala you can look at and trace the lines with your eyes; a rhythmic noise to hum to yourself or whistle, you get the picture. \n You’ll give yourself that essential moment to get your prefrontal cortex online again.", "Don’t try to talk yourself out of fear or anxiety-go somatic \nConsider that when you’re scared, worried or angry, your amygdala in your limbic brain is setting off alarms so you are in fight, flight, or freeze mode. Your pre-frontal cortex where your executive judgement, rational, verbal and conceptual skills lie, is offline. So your amygdala can’t understand verbal meaning. Interrupting somatically is so much more effective. Somatic interventions use any of the senses including olfactory, kinesthetic, visual, gustatory, and auditory, to provide contradictory information to the brain. \n Examples: Box or Square Breathing; running cold or warm water over your hands depending on whether to “cool down” or “calm down”; sniffing scents that can calm or energize like essential oils; a pinch of salt or honey on the tip of your tongue; a mandala you can look at and trace the lines with your eyes; a rhythmic noise to hum to yourself or whistle, you get the picture. \n You’ll give yourself that essential moment to get your prefrontal cortex online again.", "Don’t try to talk yourself out of fear or anxiety-go somatic \nConsider that when you’re scared, worried or angry, your amygdala in your limbic brain is setting off alarms so you are in fight, flight, or freeze mode. Your pre-frontal cortex where your executive judgement, rational, verbal and conceptual skills lie, is offline. So your amygdala can’t understand verbal meaning. Interrupting somatically is so much more effective. Somatic interventions use any of the senses including olfactory, kinesthetic, visual, gustatory, and auditory, to provide contradictory information to the brain. \n Examples: Box or Square Breathing; running cold or warm water over your hands depending on whether to “cool down” or “calm down”; sniffing scents that can calm or energize like essential oils; a pinch of salt or honey on the tip of your tongue; a mandala you can look at and trace the lines with your eyes; a rhythmic noise to hum to yourself or whistle, you get the picture. \n You’ll give yourself that essential moment to get your prefrontal cortex online again.", "Don’t try to talk yourself out of fear or anxiety-go somatic \nConsider that when you’re scared, worried or angry, your amygdala in your limbic brain is setting off alarms so you are in fight, flight, or freeze mode. Your pre-frontal cortex where your executive judgement, rational, verbal and conceptual skills lie, is offline. So your amygdala can’t understand verbal meaning. Interrupting somatically is so much more effective. Somatic interventions use any of the senses including olfactory, kinesthetic, visual, gustatory, and auditory, to provide contradictory information to the brain. \n Examples: Box or Square Breathing; running cold or warm water over your hands depending on whether to “cool down” or “calm down”; sniffing scents that can calm or energize like essential oils; a pinch of salt or honey on the tip of your tongue; a mandala you can look at and trace the lines with your eyes; a rhythmic noise to hum to yourself or whistle, you get the picture. \n You’ll give yourself that essential moment to get your prefrontal cortex online again.", "Don’t try to talk yourself out of fear or anxiety-go somatic \nConsider that when you’re scared, worried or angry, your amygdala in your limbic brain is setting off alarms so you are in fight, flight, or freeze mode. Your pre-frontal cortex where your executive judgement, rational, verbal and conceptual skills lie, is offline. So your amygdala can’t understand verbal meaning. Interrupting somatically is so much more effective. Somatic interventions use any of the senses including olfactory, kinesthetic, visual, gustatory, and auditory, to provide contradictory information to the brain. \n Examples: Box or Square Breathing; running cold or warm water over your hands depending on whether to “cool down” or “calm down”; sniffing scents that can calm or energize like essential oils; a pinch of salt or honey on the tip of your tongue; a mandala you can look at and trace the lines with your eyes; a rhythmic noise to hum to yourself or whistle, you get the picture. \n You’ll give yourself that essential moment to get your prefrontal cortex online again." ]

[ "As someone who suffers from constant anxiety (they're not even attacks, sometimes it's just full weeks of feeling anxious) I'm really hoping this will help me out. I am currently in an anxious state, and I'm very thankful for the tips in your LPT.\n\nThank you", "also the visual field gets narrower under anxiety. so it can help to see how wide the world goes in both horizontal directions", "Thanks, a real life pro tip on mental health issues. I'm tired of the confidence boosters and generally bad ideas this sub is populated with regarding this.\n\nBtw, I can confirm this works on me and several other people I know to deal with non-severe anxiety (as always with mental health LPTs, it will ofc not solve a severe issue, but it's a good one imo).", "When you get anxious, you stop producing saliva and your moth gets dry. Take a couple sips of water and you'll start noticing the anxious feeling reduce.", "Thank you! This is a very helpful suggestion and I am interested to see what the results are when I get on opportunity to try it.😀", "Interesting— they did have a ton of neurobiological tricks up their collective sleeves like the “weirding voice” 😵‍💫" ]

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[ "How do I memorize visual things. I.e. Where each bone is in the body and what they're called I know about the mind palace and loci. However, those methods usually only deal with written information. I'm looking for methods for memorizing where things are, what they look like, and what those things are called. ", "How do I memorize visual things. I.e. Where each bone is in the body and what they're called I know about the mind palace and loci. However, those methods usually only deal with written information. I'm looking for methods for memorizing where things are, what they look like, and what those things are called. ", "How do I memorize visual things. I.e. Where each bone is in the body and what they're called I know about the mind palace and loci. However, those methods usually only deal with written information. I'm looking for methods for memorizing where things are, what they look like, and what those things are called. ", "How do I memorize visual things. I.e. Where each bone is in the body and what they're called I know about the mind palace and loci. However, those methods usually only deal with written information. I'm looking for methods for memorizing where things are, what they look like, and what those things are called. ", "How do I memorize visual things. I.e. Where each bone is in the body and what they're called I know about the mind palace and loci. However, those methods usually only deal with written information. I'm looking for methods for memorizing where things are, what they look like, and what those things are called. ", "How do I memorize visual things. I.e. Where each bone is in the body and what they're called I know about the mind palace and loci. However, those methods usually only deal with written information. I'm looking for methods for memorizing where things are, what they look like, and what those things are called. " ]

[ "If it were me, I would chunk the information I needed to learn (for example, the bones in the head, then the neck, then the chest, then the upper arms, etc.). \n\nI would take each chunk one at a time and study it in an increasingly difficult fashion. \n\nI might start by first reading the names of the bones in the head and seeing where they are located. Then, I'd find a diagram with the outlines of the bones but no names and I'd practice writing the names in until I could do it from memory. Then, I'd practice drawing the bones of the head and writing in the names. Once I could do that a few times without making a mistake, I'd move on to the next chunk (like the bones in the neck). \n\nPeriodically, I'd re-draw and label a chunk I'd already learned to start moving it into long-term memory. I'd make sure I could get a chunk right seven different times with time in between each re-draw and label. Once I'd gotten all the chunks right without mistake at least seven times, I'd do a re-draw and label of everything periodically until the exam or until I knew it like the back of my hand (npi) if I needed to know the information from here on out. ", "Pneumonic devices are a good way to make associations, which is the only way I can memorize information - when I took A&P, the nursing students had the best ones - like for cranial nerves ooo to touch and feel etc... olfactory optic oculomotor trochlear trigeminal abducens facial, never forget em.", "It all depends on how you learn, but I've heard great things about the human anatomy coloring book, and how it's helped peers immensely with studying anatomy and learning the terms.\n\nNetter's Anatomy Coloring Book: with Student Consult Access, 2e (Netter Basic Science) https://www.amazon.com/dp/0323187986/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_HCQUxbREV34X5", "For my 3 Science A levels I put an incredible amount of posters around my room and the rest of the house.\n\nI would put a poster of a plant and all its associated words etc. In the bathroom, living room, my bedroom and just look at it whilst doing my hair, on computer etc.\n\nWhen I could remember a specific name Id remove the name tag from the poster so I didn't overload my learning the further I got along my revision.\n\nI also just revised a lot and had a good revision book.\n\nThat worked for me anyway.", "For me, it helps the most if I have actual bones when I'm reading the anatomy book. Do it in a group and you'll learn the stuff in no time. Me and my buddies collected the bone models and went through the anatomy book systematically, and aced the vivas. While reading about the bones you'll actually see what the book is trying to say. It helps a lot. \n\nIt also helps if you draw the anatomy. And also get yourself a clinical anatomy book to read. Those are always more interesting than the pure anatomy books. Not a substitute though.", "The way you learn words is by using them. When you go to a surgeon he doesn't say, \"hm, which one is the scapula now?\"\n\nbut whatever way of cramming helps you pass your pre-med midterm, I don't care." ]

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[ "How to sneeze every time \nyou feel one coming on. I absolutely hate the feeling when a sneeze is about to blow, and it doesn't. Anyone know a way to ensure a successful sneeze?", "How to sneeze every time \nyou feel one coming on. I absolutely hate the feeling when a sneeze is about to blow, and it doesn't. Anyone know a way to ensure a successful sneeze?", "How to sneeze every time \nyou feel one coming on. I absolutely hate the feeling when a sneeze is about to blow, and it doesn't. Anyone know a way to ensure a successful sneeze?", "How to sneeze every time \nyou feel one coming on. I absolutely hate the feeling when a sneeze is about to blow, and it doesn't. Anyone know a way to ensure a successful sneeze?", "How to sneeze every time \nyou feel one coming on. I absolutely hate the feeling when a sneeze is about to blow, and it doesn't. Anyone know a way to ensure a successful sneeze?", "How to sneeze every time \nyou feel one coming on. I absolutely hate the feeling when a sneeze is about to blow, and it doesn't. Anyone know a way to ensure a successful sneeze?", "How to sneeze every time \nyou feel one coming on. I absolutely hate the feeling when a sneeze is about to blow, and it doesn't. Anyone know a way to ensure a successful sneeze?" ]

[ "Without fail, this works for me: Look up, preferably into a light, and breathe in and out heavily through your nose.", "bright light. Better if you look at the sun just as long as it takes you a really long time to sneeze", "This is probably pretty weird, but if I think of something sad or poignant, it will usually tip the scale from \"almost-sneeze\" to \"sneeze.\"\n\nIt might be because I'm an easy crier, so thinking about that sort of thing probably makes my eyes/nose prickle a little bit, and triggers the sneeze...?", "Place your finger at the bottom of your nose so that it is kind of covering your nostrils. It always works for me!", "Look at a bright light/the sun. On many humans the nerves of the eyes intervene with the nerves of the nose.", "I don't have any tips on how to sneeze, but I can tell you how definitely NOT to sneeze and how to make the feeling go away. pinch/massage the bridge of your nose starting right between your eyes down to where the bone ends and the cartilage begins. The desire to sneeze will go away almost immediately. \n(I used to work backstage in a theatre and had to learn how not to sneeze during a performance)", "And punch the person who does a fake sneeze in front of y trick hour body into thinking you have already sneezed. What a douchebag move." ]

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[ "should I only have some clothes and do laundry once a week or a lot of clothes and do laundry in batches Sometimes I think I should have a few pairs of clothes and do laundry once a week with some spares for exercising and getting dirty etc. i come from a large family so have a lot of hand me downs and I live in an apt that has no laundry so it’s pricey and annoying to do all my laundry so most of my clothes are sitting in baskets and I can only wash some each time.", "should I only have some clothes and do laundry once a week or a lot of clothes and do laundry in batches Sometimes I think I should have a few pairs of clothes and do laundry once a week with some spares for exercising and getting dirty etc. i come from a large family so have a lot of hand me downs and I live in an apt that has no laundry so it’s pricey and annoying to do all my laundry so most of my clothes are sitting in baskets and I can only wash some each time.", "should I only have some clothes and do laundry once a week or a lot of clothes and do laundry in batches Sometimes I think I should have a few pairs of clothes and do laundry once a week with some spares for exercising and getting dirty etc. i come from a large family so have a lot of hand me downs and I live in an apt that has no laundry so it’s pricey and annoying to do all my laundry so most of my clothes are sitting in baskets and I can only wash some each time." ]

[ "Just be sure you're doing a full load according to the capacity of the machines. Saves a lot of money, over filling leads to the clothes not being cleaned well, under wastes resources (and cash if it's a pay machine).", "It sounds like either way you are going to be doing laundry at the same frequency. So then it's just a matter of preference.", "Hard to say really. Good habit to do laundry on a weekly basis anyway so you don't end up with a massive pile of dirty laundry piled up that is just taking up space but you can't wear it because it's dirty." ]

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[ "How can 4 people share the internet with a lot of streaming and gaming without any problems? We live in 4 people and everyone uses streaming services, making my life as a online video game player miserable due to high ping, buffering, rubberbanding, etc. Also, youtube/netflix experience is pretty bad when everyone is watching. \n\nI purchased a better router with 2 antennas and the signal to my room is strong, but as soon as someone opens netflix i can't play anymore. I have also increased the internet up to 60Mbps. \n\nI am trying to come up with a solution other than time scheduling our use. \n\nPlease help.", "How can 4 people share the internet with a lot of streaming and gaming without any problems? We live in 4 people and everyone uses streaming services, making my life as a online video game player miserable due to high ping, buffering, rubberbanding, etc. Also, youtube/netflix experience is pretty bad when everyone is watching. \n\nI purchased a better router with 2 antennas and the signal to my room is strong, but as soon as someone opens netflix i can't play anymore. I have also increased the internet up to 60Mbps. \n\nI am trying to come up with a solution other than time scheduling our use. \n\nPlease help.", "How can 4 people share the internet with a lot of streaming and gaming without any problems? We live in 4 people and everyone uses streaming services, making my life as a online video game player miserable due to high ping, buffering, rubberbanding, etc. Also, youtube/netflix experience is pretty bad when everyone is watching. \n\nI purchased a better router with 2 antennas and the signal to my room is strong, but as soon as someone opens netflix i can't play anymore. I have also increased the internet up to 60Mbps. \n\nI am trying to come up with a solution other than time scheduling our use. \n\nPlease help.", "How can 4 people share the internet with a lot of streaming and gaming without any problems? We live in 4 people and everyone uses streaming services, making my life as a online video game player miserable due to high ping, buffering, rubberbanding, etc. Also, youtube/netflix experience is pretty bad when everyone is watching. \n\nI purchased a better router with 2 antennas and the signal to my room is strong, but as soon as someone opens netflix i can't play anymore. I have also increased the internet up to 60Mbps. \n\nI am trying to come up with a solution other than time scheduling our use. \n\nPlease help.", "How can 4 people share the internet with a lot of streaming and gaming without any problems? We live in 4 people and everyone uses streaming services, making my life as a online video game player miserable due to high ping, buffering, rubberbanding, etc. Also, youtube/netflix experience is pretty bad when everyone is watching. \n\nI purchased a better router with 2 antennas and the signal to my room is strong, but as soon as someone opens netflix i can't play anymore. I have also increased the internet up to 60Mbps. \n\nI am trying to come up with a solution other than time scheduling our use. \n\nPlease help.", "How can 4 people share the internet with a lot of streaming and gaming without any problems? We live in 4 people and everyone uses streaming services, making my life as a online video game player miserable due to high ping, buffering, rubberbanding, etc. Also, youtube/netflix experience is pretty bad when everyone is watching. \n\nI purchased a better router with 2 antennas and the signal to my room is strong, but as soon as someone opens netflix i can't play anymore. I have also increased the internet up to 60Mbps. \n\nI am trying to come up with a solution other than time scheduling our use. \n\nPlease help.", "How can 4 people share the internet with a lot of streaming and gaming without any problems? We live in 4 people and everyone uses streaming services, making my life as a online video game player miserable due to high ping, buffering, rubberbanding, etc. Also, youtube/netflix experience is pretty bad when everyone is watching. \n\nI purchased a better router with 2 antennas and the signal to my room is strong, but as soon as someone opens netflix i can't play anymore. I have also increased the internet up to 60Mbps. \n\nI am trying to come up with a solution other than time scheduling our use. \n\nPlease help.", "How can 4 people share the internet with a lot of streaming and gaming without any problems? We live in 4 people and everyone uses streaming services, making my life as a online video game player miserable due to high ping, buffering, rubberbanding, etc. Also, youtube/netflix experience is pretty bad when everyone is watching. \n\nI purchased a better router with 2 antennas and the signal to my room is strong, but as soon as someone opens netflix i can't play anymore. I have also increased the internet up to 60Mbps. \n\nI am trying to come up with a solution other than time scheduling our use. \n\nPlease help.", "How can 4 people share the internet with a lot of streaming and gaming without any problems? We live in 4 people and everyone uses streaming services, making my life as a online video game player miserable due to high ping, buffering, rubberbanding, etc. Also, youtube/netflix experience is pretty bad when everyone is watching. \n\nI purchased a better router with 2 antennas and the signal to my room is strong, but as soon as someone opens netflix i can't play anymore. I have also increased the internet up to 60Mbps. \n\nI am trying to come up with a solution other than time scheduling our use. \n\nPlease help.", "How can 4 people share the internet with a lot of streaming and gaming without any problems? We live in 4 people and everyone uses streaming services, making my life as a online video game player miserable due to high ping, buffering, rubberbanding, etc. Also, youtube/netflix experience is pretty bad when everyone is watching. \n\nI purchased a better router with 2 antennas and the signal to my room is strong, but as soon as someone opens netflix i can't play anymore. I have also increased the internet up to 60Mbps. \n\nI am trying to come up with a solution other than time scheduling our use. \n\nPlease help.", "How can 4 people share the internet with a lot of streaming and gaming without any problems? We live in 4 people and everyone uses streaming services, making my life as a online video game player miserable due to high ping, buffering, rubberbanding, etc. Also, youtube/netflix experience is pretty bad when everyone is watching. \n\nI purchased a better router with 2 antennas and the signal to my room is strong, but as soon as someone opens netflix i can't play anymore. I have also increased the internet up to 60Mbps. \n\nI am trying to come up with a solution other than time scheduling our use. \n\nPlease help." ]

[ "Find a way to hard-wire your computer to the router. \n\nIf you absolutely must use wi-fi, make sure the router AND your NIC are both 802.11 AC. \n\nIf your internet is cable modem, 60mbps is a joke, you'll be lucky to hit that. If it's available, try to get fiber internet so you're sure you're actually getting what you pay for.", "They sell things called tplinks and they basically just make your connection better through a socket so you can kind of get wired but it's not nearly as good as straight connection", "you should try changing the broadcast channel on your router, I've seen that when two or three routers that are physically near each other and on the same channel your throughput will be poo. \n\nwith 4 people and 60Mbps you should be rocking. We have three people on a 4Mbps and do all these things at the same time without much problem. Downloading or bittorrent can kill you tho.", "USE FORCE to make your roommates become netflix compatible, that way the three of them will all binge watch the same TV show on one device, and you can game to your heart's content........", "Some providers see streaming and limit bandwidth, but if you use a VPN, it should relieve some of the load, as well providing privacy. It might slow you down a bit, because you're routing it through another server, but try out a free service and see if it helps. Good luck!", "Same situation as you, all advice I can give:\n\nIf you have your **surround system** next to the router, it can cause interference with the wifi, and you will get high ping during the moments when the sound is loud. This happens in my house, we dont have any lag but as soon as the surround system kicks in, the lag is noticeable.\n\nAlso, **torrents** will kill the internet...but you know that I guess.\n\nsometimes the internet gets *stuck*, and will require you to **reset the modem/router** to work at 100% again for everyone.\n\nBe aware of everything connected to the router, sometimes connections cap, and you get thrown out but not really, so your router disconnects and connects other devices.... most likely if you have 3pcs+3phones+ipads+ etc **wireless devices**, try disconnecting stuff you are not using.\n\n**microwaves** can cause interferance with wifi when turned on.\n\nconflicting **channels** with neighbors might cause disconnects/reconnects, try choosing a channel manually that no one is using.\n\nYou could turn on **QoS features**, however be wary that default options will give priority to videos/streaming specially skype/netflix.", "If you already got a new router, make sure it is dual band. This will increase your throughput, especially for games/videos as well as help avoid interference.\n\nAlso hardwire EVERYTHING possible. Look into Powerline adapters to hardwire something in a different room", "Figure out where the actual slowdown is and fix that problem first.\n\nIf you're actually getting 60Mbps, and still having things slow down for Netflix, your wifi is likely the problem. \n\nIf you just want this to work for you? Hardwire a separate wifi hub, and keep your computer on a different SSID/network. $40 should do it.\n\nBut likely, whatever wifi router you're using is either bad or just the limiting factor for that much data, and even $40-100 would help it out there.", "I had this precise issue... I have an 18mbps connection and that should be able to handle all that traffic (I think). I ditched the provider's router and got my own like you did. \n\nI went with the [ASUS RT-AC5300](https://www.amazon.com/RT-AC5300-Wireless-Tri-Band-AiProtection-Complete/dp/B0167HG1V6). No complaints since", "2 antennas is not a lot at all (that's standard). If you are all 4 going to be on the same network wifi you need a better router (like the one linked above).\n\nWifi sucks, use Ethernet if possible. Also 60mbps could be better if all 4 are going to be using it at the same time", "OK look the proper answers were already given here, the 100% best answer is to hard wire the computer to the router.\n\n**You said you can't do that**.\n\n\nThe second best is to get a dual band router and dual band NIC, perhaps even setting the rest of the household on 2.4 Ghz while your computer is on 5Ghz\n\n**That is too expensive for you**\n\nWhat the hell man you want a completely free solution that involves no effort? Well then I say just go jump in a lake because that doesn't exist :P\n\n\nLook man here is how Wi-Fi works. [**ONE CLIENT CAN TALK ON THE NETWORK AT A TIME**](http://www.makeuseof.com/tag/what-is-half-duplex-and-full-duplex-operation-and-how-does-it-affect-your-router/). If you want to reduce Wi-Fi collisions (literally packets slamming into each other in the air and destroying each other) then you go with Wired, wired = zero collisions. Or you run some of your clients on a different frequency so they don't collide.\n\nAnything else is just a bullshit answer." ]

[ 5, 2, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, -2 ]

[ "How to gain more confidence about your own opinions? How can I be sure of my point of views on certain subjects? Everyone considers their own opinions to be valid, even if they are not. For example, if I try to convince someone, the other person doesnt want to listen, reacts with an aggressive response, making me think that Im in the wrong, causing me to back off. \n\nIs there a way to be more of myself? Sometimes I dont know what to think.", "How to gain more confidence about your own opinions? How can I be sure of my point of views on certain subjects? Everyone considers their own opinions to be valid, even if they are not. For example, if I try to convince someone, the other person doesnt want to listen, reacts with an aggressive response, making me think that Im in the wrong, causing me to back off. \n\nIs there a way to be more of myself? Sometimes I dont know what to think.", "How to gain more confidence about your own opinions? How can I be sure of my point of views on certain subjects? Everyone considers their own opinions to be valid, even if they are not. For example, if I try to convince someone, the other person doesnt want to listen, reacts with an aggressive response, making me think that Im in the wrong, causing me to back off. \n\nIs there a way to be more of myself? Sometimes I dont know what to think.", "How to gain more confidence about your own opinions? How can I be sure of my point of views on certain subjects? Everyone considers their own opinions to be valid, even if they are not. For example, if I try to convince someone, the other person doesnt want to listen, reacts with an aggressive response, making me think that Im in the wrong, causing me to back off. \n\nIs there a way to be more of myself? Sometimes I dont know what to think." ]

[ "If they seem aggressive, it means they're passionate. Are you passionate about what you're saying? You can speak just as strongly if you are, tap into your feelings, not your insecurities.", "Define the lines between fact and opinion. Facts are indisputably true, for example, Trump's campaign slogan is \"Make America Great Again.\" Opinions are things people 'feel' are valuable in some way according to their perception of the world, such as whether the USA can or needs to return to the practices of some earlier time.\n\nPersuading someone to see something your way is not an exact science, because you're essentially weighing your experiences against theirs and saying yours are more valuable. If a layman brings about a discussion claiming that the US space program has shown disappointing progress since Apollo, who will be more influential on the other-- the layman, whose expectations of linear progress are mostly baseless/derived from non-authoritative sources, or a NASA engineer, who knows things about space travel the former can't even imagine? The former will say we went from the Wright Brothers to the moon landing in 66 years, if s/he knows a tiny bit about aerospace, and hold that up as a \"What gives?\" since we've not had their idea of equivalent sorts of advances since. The latter will be able to spell out exactly what lies in the way of getting humans past the moon, and what advancements have been made in pursuit of those problems. \n\nThe engineer will have a better idea of where we are compared to that line of expectation because his opinions are based more on facts than some random assumption that we should be vacationing in other solar systems by now.\n\nThe thing about baseless opinions is that they don't form from nothing-- they form around emotional decisions that feel right, and someone who doesn't have facts will latch onto things that sound enough like facts when shouted to shut down disagreement. Nobody likes to be wrong, but sometimes people who admit they're wrong more often end up being right about more things.\n\n", "Let's start /u/Eriadam\n\nWhat's your opinion on Religion, is it real or fake?\n\n(Let's have an example debate)", "Do your research, have points A, B, C, D to backup your opinion. Even if it's not an entirely valid point it will come off as one." ]

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[ "How do I stop being dependent on other people? Is there something I can do to change this? I tend to depend of my friends too much, I generally do something only if my friends are doing it and I can't help it. Is there any way I can be independent?", "How do I stop being dependent on other people? Is there something I can do to change this? I tend to depend of my friends too much, I generally do something only if my friends are doing it and I can't help it. Is there any way I can be independent?", "How do I stop being dependent on other people? Is there something I can do to change this? I tend to depend of my friends too much, I generally do something only if my friends are doing it and I can't help it. Is there any way I can be independent?" ]

[ "yes, learn to trust yourself. Thoughts and opinions are just that - thoughts and opinions. They are not the absolute truth. So yours are valid too - check with yourself to see what you truly want to do.", "Out of all of my friends who are \"dependent\", I think most of them are afraid if they do something themselves, it won't get done as well as if someone else does it. I would say the key is developing confidence. I know that's a lot easier said than done. But then you'll be more willing to take care of things yourself. But also realize it's ok to let other people take care of stuff for you sometimes! Lots of them are glad to do it. Personally I feel more comfortable being in control so I'm pleased with my friends who can go with the flow more, as long as they aren't downright irresponsible lol.", "In a few years from now you will start to enjoy life in your own way. Its not really advice..its just whats going to happen naturally..enjoy the time with your friends now, the future will change things." ]

[ 1, 1, 1 ]

[ "how to not feel homesick? I am 20 years old and never left the comfort of home before. Need some advice to survive the adverse. ", "how to not feel homesick? I am 20 years old and never left the comfort of home before. Need some advice to survive the adverse. ", "how to not feel homesick? I am 20 years old and never left the comfort of home before. Need some advice to survive the adverse. ", "how to not feel homesick? I am 20 years old and never left the comfort of home before. Need some advice to survive the adverse. " ]

[ "Homesick is a kind of sick. It really is. I'd advise taking care of yourself, treat yourself gently like you would someone else who is suffering. Remember that beginnings are always challenging because we're animals that like to be in familiar surroundings. Give yourself to time to become familiar with your surroundings and nature will do the rest. I wouldn't advise distracting yourself from the discomfort as this will prolong the process.", "Find activities to do that are similar to what you used to do at home. Besides that, find friends. Social support really makes a huge difference.", "Find a ritual for yourself to make your new place feel like home. It can be as simple as going to get coffee somewhere every morning. \n\nThere's no shame is being homesick though, everyone has it, even if they don't show it. Just focus on work, school, friends to keep your mind busy. ", "I found that sleeping in a bed that feels the same helps. Bring your sheets, pillows and pillowcases from home (if possible) and fix up the bed with those." ]

[ 5, 4, 2, 1 ]

[ "How to find a slow leak in an air mattress We have three air mattresses and all three of them lose air over the course of the night. Two have been opened and used before but one of them was fresh out of the box. The leak is slow enough so that we cannot hear or feel anything but it is fast enough so that you can't even get through one night. I have read some tips online but I was hoping to get some advice from people who have successfully solved this problem themselves.", "How to find a slow leak in an air mattress We have three air mattresses and all three of them lose air over the course of the night. Two have been opened and used before but one of them was fresh out of the box. The leak is slow enough so that we cannot hear or feel anything but it is fast enough so that you can't even get through one night. I have read some tips online but I was hoping to get some advice from people who have successfully solved this problem themselves.", "How to find a slow leak in an air mattress We have three air mattresses and all three of them lose air over the course of the night. Two have been opened and used before but one of them was fresh out of the box. The leak is slow enough so that we cannot hear or feel anything but it is fast enough so that you can't even get through one night. I have read some tips online but I was hoping to get some advice from people who have successfully solved this problem themselves.", "How to find a slow leak in an air mattress We have three air mattresses and all three of them lose air over the course of the night. Two have been opened and used before but one of them was fresh out of the box. The leak is slow enough so that we cannot hear or feel anything but it is fast enough so that you can't even get through one night. I have read some tips online but I was hoping to get some advice from people who have successfully solved this problem themselves." ]

[ "Don't submerge, too much work. Just spray soapy water where you think the leak might be, you will see bubbles. Works for car tires and anything else with a small leak... ", "the spray bottle with soapy water works great, but if you have a set of nurse/doctor stethoscope you can also run it a few inches above the inflated surface on the membrane side, and it will be loud and clear where the airjet is. ", "Inflate the mattress in the middle of a room and cover it with a sheet, then lay on it. You should see part or the sheet 'tenting' slightly, or moving as though blown. Leak found.", "You can try putting tire slime in it - might patch up the hole. I have never done this - so you might want to be careful that it doesn't ruin your mattress. " ]

[ 10, 1, 0, -2 ]

[ "A link to a website or resource that shows which off brand products are really name brand products just in different packaging. ", "A link to a website or resource that shows which off brand products are really name brand products just in different packaging. ", "A link to a website or resource that shows which off brand products are really name brand products just in different packaging. ", "A link to a website or resource that shows which off brand products are really name brand products just in different packaging. ", "A link to a website or resource that shows which off brand products are really name brand products just in different packaging. ", "A link to a website or resource that shows which off brand products are really name brand products just in different packaging. ", "A link to a website or resource that shows which off brand products are really name brand products just in different packaging. ", "A link to a website or resource that shows which off brand products are really name brand products just in different packaging. ", "A link to a website or resource that shows which off brand products are really name brand products just in different packaging. " ]

[ "It might not be the protip that you are looking for, but if you are shopping at CVS, go with the CVS brand. Its exactly the same, cheaper, and comes with a 100% satisfaction guarantee. If you use half of it and don't like it, they have to take it back. \nSource: I work there. ", "I work for a high end consumer products company that is suing kirkland because the product is too similar to ours. Oh yeah it also costs about 1/8th the price. Kirkland is good stuff", "While I agree that it would be nice to know, this information isn't public knowledge because of contractual reasons. Plus, there really are very few instances where an inexpensive brand is a direct copy of the name brand product. There is typically a small difference in quality of ingredients that separate the two.", "not what you asked for but your request reminded me of this infographic:\n\nThese 10 Companies Control Enormous Number Of Consumer Brands [GRAPHIC]\n\nhttp://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/27/consumer-brands-owned-ten-companies-graphic_n_1458812.html", "I don't know of a source, but a good trick for cutting costs when shopping is the brand drop challenge. Each time you guy something, drop down a \"level\" (big brand, unknown brand, store named brand, store own brand, store basic thing).\n\nJust keep on dropping unless you notice a particular difference which is worth paying more for, and stay at that level.", "If you live in Atlantic Canada Babinau's Salt Fish and Purity Chicken Haddock are the same product. That's all I really know. ", "I've been told, but have no proof, that stop and shop american deli cheese is actually land o lakes. ", "my uncle works ina milk processing plant in Detroit and says they just put the same milk in different cartons for different companies. I won't name them but you see them on the shelf side to side and have different prices..", "IGA owns trader Joe's. My sister who has access to both of them in the Midwest says that some IGA branded foods are from TJs and cheaper.\n" ]

[ 23, 14, 11, 8, 7, 2, 2, 0, 0 ]

[ "How to mitigate the stench of a smelly coworker Long story short is I just moved to a new job with an open concept seating arrangement where there are several people sitting at the same long table which is segmented into four or so desks per side. There are no dividers or physical barriers of any kind and I sit about 6 feet from my neighbors. \n\nThe coworker to my right smells like absolute shit. Massive body odor on a daily basis, and he's a smoker to boot. We don't work on the same team or even for the same project. He's a completely random person (they shuffle people up to try to encourage meeting new people; in actuality this just results in nobody talking to anyone near them). Whenever he sits near me, his stank ass radiates from his chair and permeates my work environment like a chemical weapon. **I need recommendations for how I can modify my own work environment or behavior to prevent his stench from reaching my nostrils when he is here.** Things I can put on my desk to absorb smells or give off office-friendly scents, things I can wear or have around me to do the same, etc -- whatever you think would work best. \n\n**Constraints:**\n\n1. I can't move my seat. This is a permanent seat and there isn't anywhere for me to move to. Also I'm not really in a position to quit my job.\n\n2. I can't really talk to the guy about how he smells. I don't work with him at all. We are effectively strangers. We don't share the same management. He's literally a random guy who I would never work or interact with other than in the context of being randomly assigned deskmates. Even if I told him, he'd likely be more offended than willing to make a change to his personal hygiene routine just because of me.\n\n3. Reporting him to management isn't an option either. My work environment is such that I can't stick my neck out to report something as seemingly trivial as his stank to management or HR. There is no mechanism for anonymous reporting and even if there was it's not worth expending my office reputational capital on.\n\n4. My desk is about 6 feet wide by 4 feet deep. There is a clear line in the desk where my space begins and his ends, but otherwise there is no physical barrier. I sit on the end so my left hand side is a walkway with a piece of wood about 1.5 feet tall which stops things from falling off the side of my desk. The space beneath my desk has a few outlets behind a door.\n\nMy only saving grace in this situation is that my neighbor is seemingly exceedingly lazy. He comes in late, leaves early, and spends much of his time at the office off the desk taking personal calls or just fucking around in common areas. If say I spend about 60% of my workday (maybe 5 to 6 hours) near him on am average day. \n\nThanks in advance for your suggestions.", "How to mitigate the stench of a smelly coworker Long story short is I just moved to a new job with an open concept seating arrangement where there are several people sitting at the same long table which is segmented into four or so desks per side. There are no dividers or physical barriers of any kind and I sit about 6 feet from my neighbors. \n\nThe coworker to my right smells like absolute shit. Massive body odor on a daily basis, and he's a smoker to boot. We don't work on the same team or even for the same project. He's a completely random person (they shuffle people up to try to encourage meeting new people; in actuality this just results in nobody talking to anyone near them). Whenever he sits near me, his stank ass radiates from his chair and permeates my work environment like a chemical weapon. **I need recommendations for how I can modify my own work environment or behavior to prevent his stench from reaching my nostrils when he is here.** Things I can put on my desk to absorb smells or give off office-friendly scents, things I can wear or have around me to do the same, etc -- whatever you think would work best. \n\n**Constraints:**\n\n1. I can't move my seat. This is a permanent seat and there isn't anywhere for me to move to. Also I'm not really in a position to quit my job.\n\n2. I can't really talk to the guy about how he smells. I don't work with him at all. We are effectively strangers. We don't share the same management. He's literally a random guy who I would never work or interact with other than in the context of being randomly assigned deskmates. Even if I told him, he'd likely be more offended than willing to make a change to his personal hygiene routine just because of me.\n\n3. Reporting him to management isn't an option either. My work environment is such that I can't stick my neck out to report something as seemingly trivial as his stank to management or HR. There is no mechanism for anonymous reporting and even if there was it's not worth expending my office reputational capital on.\n\n4. My desk is about 6 feet wide by 4 feet deep. There is a clear line in the desk where my space begins and his ends, but otherwise there is no physical barrier. I sit on the end so my left hand side is a walkway with a piece of wood about 1.5 feet tall which stops things from falling off the side of my desk. The space beneath my desk has a few outlets behind a door.\n\nMy only saving grace in this situation is that my neighbor is seemingly exceedingly lazy. He comes in late, leaves early, and spends much of his time at the office off the desk taking personal calls or just fucking around in common areas. If say I spend about 60% of my workday (maybe 5 to 6 hours) near him on am average day. \n\nThanks in advance for your suggestions.", "How to mitigate the stench of a smelly coworker Long story short is I just moved to a new job with an open concept seating arrangement where there are several people sitting at the same long table which is segmented into four or so desks per side. There are no dividers or physical barriers of any kind and I sit about 6 feet from my neighbors. \n\nThe coworker to my right smells like absolute shit. Massive body odor on a daily basis, and he's a smoker to boot. We don't work on the same team or even for the same project. He's a completely random person (they shuffle people up to try to encourage meeting new people; in actuality this just results in nobody talking to anyone near them). Whenever he sits near me, his stank ass radiates from his chair and permeates my work environment like a chemical weapon. **I need recommendations for how I can modify my own work environment or behavior to prevent his stench from reaching my nostrils when he is here.** Things I can put on my desk to absorb smells or give off office-friendly scents, things I can wear or have around me to do the same, etc -- whatever you think would work best. \n\n**Constraints:**\n\n1. I can't move my seat. This is a permanent seat and there isn't anywhere for me to move to. Also I'm not really in a position to quit my job.\n\n2. I can't really talk to the guy about how he smells. I don't work with him at all. We are effectively strangers. We don't share the same management. He's literally a random guy who I would never work or interact with other than in the context of being randomly assigned deskmates. Even if I told him, he'd likely be more offended than willing to make a change to his personal hygiene routine just because of me.\n\n3. Reporting him to management isn't an option either. My work environment is such that I can't stick my neck out to report something as seemingly trivial as his stank to management or HR. There is no mechanism for anonymous reporting and even if there was it's not worth expending my office reputational capital on.\n\n4. My desk is about 6 feet wide by 4 feet deep. There is a clear line in the desk where my space begins and his ends, but otherwise there is no physical barrier. I sit on the end so my left hand side is a walkway with a piece of wood about 1.5 feet tall which stops things from falling off the side of my desk. The space beneath my desk has a few outlets behind a door.\n\nMy only saving grace in this situation is that my neighbor is seemingly exceedingly lazy. He comes in late, leaves early, and spends much of his time at the office off the desk taking personal calls or just fucking around in common areas. If say I spend about 60% of my workday (maybe 5 to 6 hours) near him on am average day. \n\nThanks in advance for your suggestions.", "How to mitigate the stench of a smelly coworker Long story short is I just moved to a new job with an open concept seating arrangement where there are several people sitting at the same long table which is segmented into four or so desks per side. There are no dividers or physical barriers of any kind and I sit about 6 feet from my neighbors. \n\nThe coworker to my right smells like absolute shit. Massive body odor on a daily basis, and he's a smoker to boot. We don't work on the same team or even for the same project. He's a completely random person (they shuffle people up to try to encourage meeting new people; in actuality this just results in nobody talking to anyone near them). Whenever he sits near me, his stank ass radiates from his chair and permeates my work environment like a chemical weapon. **I need recommendations for how I can modify my own work environment or behavior to prevent his stench from reaching my nostrils when he is here.** Things I can put on my desk to absorb smells or give off office-friendly scents, things I can wear or have around me to do the same, etc -- whatever you think would work best. \n\n**Constraints:**\n\n1. I can't move my seat. This is a permanent seat and there isn't anywhere for me to move to. Also I'm not really in a position to quit my job.\n\n2. I can't really talk to the guy about how he smells. I don't work with him at all. We are effectively strangers. We don't share the same management. He's literally a random guy who I would never work or interact with other than in the context of being randomly assigned deskmates. Even if I told him, he'd likely be more offended than willing to make a change to his personal hygiene routine just because of me.\n\n3. Reporting him to management isn't an option either. My work environment is such that I can't stick my neck out to report something as seemingly trivial as his stank to management or HR. There is no mechanism for anonymous reporting and even if there was it's not worth expending my office reputational capital on.\n\n4. My desk is about 6 feet wide by 4 feet deep. There is a clear line in the desk where my space begins and his ends, but otherwise there is no physical barrier. I sit on the end so my left hand side is a walkway with a piece of wood about 1.5 feet tall which stops things from falling off the side of my desk. The space beneath my desk has a few outlets behind a door.\n\nMy only saving grace in this situation is that my neighbor is seemingly exceedingly lazy. He comes in late, leaves early, and spends much of his time at the office off the desk taking personal calls or just fucking around in common areas. If say I spend about 60% of my workday (maybe 5 to 6 hours) near him on am average day. \n\nThanks in advance for your suggestions.", "How to mitigate the stench of a smelly coworker Long story short is I just moved to a new job with an open concept seating arrangement where there are several people sitting at the same long table which is segmented into four or so desks per side. There are no dividers or physical barriers of any kind and I sit about 6 feet from my neighbors. \n\nThe coworker to my right smells like absolute shit. Massive body odor on a daily basis, and he's a smoker to boot. We don't work on the same team or even for the same project. He's a completely random person (they shuffle people up to try to encourage meeting new people; in actuality this just results in nobody talking to anyone near them). Whenever he sits near me, his stank ass radiates from his chair and permeates my work environment like a chemical weapon. **I need recommendations for how I can modify my own work environment or behavior to prevent his stench from reaching my nostrils when he is here.** Things I can put on my desk to absorb smells or give off office-friendly scents, things I can wear or have around me to do the same, etc -- whatever you think would work best. \n\n**Constraints:**\n\n1. I can't move my seat. This is a permanent seat and there isn't anywhere for me to move to. Also I'm not really in a position to quit my job.\n\n2. I can't really talk to the guy about how he smells. I don't work with him at all. We are effectively strangers. We don't share the same management. He's literally a random guy who I would never work or interact with other than in the context of being randomly assigned deskmates. Even if I told him, he'd likely be more offended than willing to make a change to his personal hygiene routine just because of me.\n\n3. Reporting him to management isn't an option either. My work environment is such that I can't stick my neck out to report something as seemingly trivial as his stank to management or HR. There is no mechanism for anonymous reporting and even if there was it's not worth expending my office reputational capital on.\n\n4. My desk is about 6 feet wide by 4 feet deep. There is a clear line in the desk where my space begins and his ends, but otherwise there is no physical barrier. I sit on the end so my left hand side is a walkway with a piece of wood about 1.5 feet tall which stops things from falling off the side of my desk. The space beneath my desk has a few outlets behind a door.\n\nMy only saving grace in this situation is that my neighbor is seemingly exceedingly lazy. He comes in late, leaves early, and spends much of his time at the office off the desk taking personal calls or just fucking around in common areas. If say I spend about 60% of my workday (maybe 5 to 6 hours) near him on am average day. \n\nThanks in advance for your suggestions.", "How to mitigate the stench of a smelly coworker Long story short is I just moved to a new job with an open concept seating arrangement where there are several people sitting at the same long table which is segmented into four or so desks per side. There are no dividers or physical barriers of any kind and I sit about 6 feet from my neighbors. \n\nThe coworker to my right smells like absolute shit. Massive body odor on a daily basis, and he's a smoker to boot. We don't work on the same team or even for the same project. He's a completely random person (they shuffle people up to try to encourage meeting new people; in actuality this just results in nobody talking to anyone near them). Whenever he sits near me, his stank ass radiates from his chair and permeates my work environment like a chemical weapon. **I need recommendations for how I can modify my own work environment or behavior to prevent his stench from reaching my nostrils when he is here.** Things I can put on my desk to absorb smells or give off office-friendly scents, things I can wear or have around me to do the same, etc -- whatever you think would work best. \n\n**Constraints:**\n\n1. I can't move my seat. This is a permanent seat and there isn't anywhere for me to move to. Also I'm not really in a position to quit my job.\n\n2. I can't really talk to the guy about how he smells. I don't work with him at all. We are effectively strangers. We don't share the same management. He's literally a random guy who I would never work or interact with other than in the context of being randomly assigned deskmates. Even if I told him, he'd likely be more offended than willing to make a change to his personal hygiene routine just because of me.\n\n3. Reporting him to management isn't an option either. My work environment is such that I can't stick my neck out to report something as seemingly trivial as his stank to management or HR. There is no mechanism for anonymous reporting and even if there was it's not worth expending my office reputational capital on.\n\n4. My desk is about 6 feet wide by 4 feet deep. There is a clear line in the desk where my space begins and his ends, but otherwise there is no physical barrier. I sit on the end so my left hand side is a walkway with a piece of wood about 1.5 feet tall which stops things from falling off the side of my desk. The space beneath my desk has a few outlets behind a door.\n\nMy only saving grace in this situation is that my neighbor is seemingly exceedingly lazy. He comes in late, leaves early, and spends much of his time at the office off the desk taking personal calls or just fucking around in common areas. If say I spend about 60% of my workday (maybe 5 to 6 hours) near him on am average day. \n\nThanks in advance for your suggestions.", "How to mitigate the stench of a smelly coworker Long story short is I just moved to a new job with an open concept seating arrangement where there are several people sitting at the same long table which is segmented into four or so desks per side. There are no dividers or physical barriers of any kind and I sit about 6 feet from my neighbors. \n\nThe coworker to my right smells like absolute shit. Massive body odor on a daily basis, and he's a smoker to boot. We don't work on the same team or even for the same project. He's a completely random person (they shuffle people up to try to encourage meeting new people; in actuality this just results in nobody talking to anyone near them). Whenever he sits near me, his stank ass radiates from his chair and permeates my work environment like a chemical weapon. **I need recommendations for how I can modify my own work environment or behavior to prevent his stench from reaching my nostrils when he is here.** Things I can put on my desk to absorb smells or give off office-friendly scents, things I can wear or have around me to do the same, etc -- whatever you think would work best. \n\n**Constraints:**\n\n1. I can't move my seat. This is a permanent seat and there isn't anywhere for me to move to. Also I'm not really in a position to quit my job.\n\n2. I can't really talk to the guy about how he smells. I don't work with him at all. We are effectively strangers. We don't share the same management. He's literally a random guy who I would never work or interact with other than in the context of being randomly assigned deskmates. Even if I told him, he'd likely be more offended than willing to make a change to his personal hygiene routine just because of me.\n\n3. Reporting him to management isn't an option either. My work environment is such that I can't stick my neck out to report something as seemingly trivial as his stank to management or HR. There is no mechanism for anonymous reporting and even if there was it's not worth expending my office reputational capital on.\n\n4. My desk is about 6 feet wide by 4 feet deep. There is a clear line in the desk where my space begins and his ends, but otherwise there is no physical barrier. I sit on the end so my left hand side is a walkway with a piece of wood about 1.5 feet tall which stops things from falling off the side of my desk. The space beneath my desk has a few outlets behind a door.\n\nMy only saving grace in this situation is that my neighbor is seemingly exceedingly lazy. He comes in late, leaves early, and spends much of his time at the office off the desk taking personal calls or just fucking around in common areas. If say I spend about 60% of my workday (maybe 5 to 6 hours) near him on am average day. \n\nThanks in advance for your suggestions.", "How to mitigate the stench of a smelly coworker Long story short is I just moved to a new job with an open concept seating arrangement where there are several people sitting at the same long table which is segmented into four or so desks per side. There are no dividers or physical barriers of any kind and I sit about 6 feet from my neighbors. \n\nThe coworker to my right smells like absolute shit. Massive body odor on a daily basis, and he's a smoker to boot. We don't work on the same team or even for the same project. He's a completely random person (they shuffle people up to try to encourage meeting new people; in actuality this just results in nobody talking to anyone near them). Whenever he sits near me, his stank ass radiates from his chair and permeates my work environment like a chemical weapon. **I need recommendations for how I can modify my own work environment or behavior to prevent his stench from reaching my nostrils when he is here.** Things I can put on my desk to absorb smells or give off office-friendly scents, things I can wear or have around me to do the same, etc -- whatever you think would work best. \n\n**Constraints:**\n\n1. I can't move my seat. This is a permanent seat and there isn't anywhere for me to move to. Also I'm not really in a position to quit my job.\n\n2. I can't really talk to the guy about how he smells. I don't work with him at all. We are effectively strangers. We don't share the same management. He's literally a random guy who I would never work or interact with other than in the context of being randomly assigned deskmates. Even if I told him, he'd likely be more offended than willing to make a change to his personal hygiene routine just because of me.\n\n3. Reporting him to management isn't an option either. My work environment is such that I can't stick my neck out to report something as seemingly trivial as his stank to management or HR. There is no mechanism for anonymous reporting and even if there was it's not worth expending my office reputational capital on.\n\n4. My desk is about 6 feet wide by 4 feet deep. There is a clear line in the desk where my space begins and his ends, but otherwise there is no physical barrier. I sit on the end so my left hand side is a walkway with a piece of wood about 1.5 feet tall which stops things from falling off the side of my desk. The space beneath my desk has a few outlets behind a door.\n\nMy only saving grace in this situation is that my neighbor is seemingly exceedingly lazy. He comes in late, leaves early, and spends much of his time at the office off the desk taking personal calls or just fucking around in common areas. If say I spend about 60% of my workday (maybe 5 to 6 hours) near him on am average day. \n\nThanks in advance for your suggestions.", "How to mitigate the stench of a smelly coworker Long story short is I just moved to a new job with an open concept seating arrangement where there are several people sitting at the same long table which is segmented into four or so desks per side. There are no dividers or physical barriers of any kind and I sit about 6 feet from my neighbors. \n\nThe coworker to my right smells like absolute shit. Massive body odor on a daily basis, and he's a smoker to boot. We don't work on the same team or even for the same project. He's a completely random person (they shuffle people up to try to encourage meeting new people; in actuality this just results in nobody talking to anyone near them). Whenever he sits near me, his stank ass radiates from his chair and permeates my work environment like a chemical weapon. **I need recommendations for how I can modify my own work environment or behavior to prevent his stench from reaching my nostrils when he is here.** Things I can put on my desk to absorb smells or give off office-friendly scents, things I can wear or have around me to do the same, etc -- whatever you think would work best. \n\n**Constraints:**\n\n1. I can't move my seat. This is a permanent seat and there isn't anywhere for me to move to. Also I'm not really in a position to quit my job.\n\n2. I can't really talk to the guy about how he smells. I don't work with him at all. We are effectively strangers. We don't share the same management. He's literally a random guy who I would never work or interact with other than in the context of being randomly assigned deskmates. Even if I told him, he'd likely be more offended than willing to make a change to his personal hygiene routine just because of me.\n\n3. Reporting him to management isn't an option either. My work environment is such that I can't stick my neck out to report something as seemingly trivial as his stank to management or HR. There is no mechanism for anonymous reporting and even if there was it's not worth expending my office reputational capital on.\n\n4. My desk is about 6 feet wide by 4 feet deep. There is a clear line in the desk where my space begins and his ends, but otherwise there is no physical barrier. I sit on the end so my left hand side is a walkway with a piece of wood about 1.5 feet tall which stops things from falling off the side of my desk. The space beneath my desk has a few outlets behind a door.\n\nMy only saving grace in this situation is that my neighbor is seemingly exceedingly lazy. He comes in late, leaves early, and spends much of his time at the office off the desk taking personal calls or just fucking around in common areas. If say I spend about 60% of my workday (maybe 5 to 6 hours) near him on am average day. \n\nThanks in advance for your suggestions.", "How to mitigate the stench of a smelly coworker Long story short is I just moved to a new job with an open concept seating arrangement where there are several people sitting at the same long table which is segmented into four or so desks per side. There are no dividers or physical barriers of any kind and I sit about 6 feet from my neighbors. \n\nThe coworker to my right smells like absolute shit. Massive body odor on a daily basis, and he's a smoker to boot. We don't work on the same team or even for the same project. He's a completely random person (they shuffle people up to try to encourage meeting new people; in actuality this just results in nobody talking to anyone near them). Whenever he sits near me, his stank ass radiates from his chair and permeates my work environment like a chemical weapon. **I need recommendations for how I can modify my own work environment or behavior to prevent his stench from reaching my nostrils when he is here.** Things I can put on my desk to absorb smells or give off office-friendly scents, things I can wear or have around me to do the same, etc -- whatever you think would work best. \n\n**Constraints:**\n\n1. I can't move my seat. This is a permanent seat and there isn't anywhere for me to move to. Also I'm not really in a position to quit my job.\n\n2. I can't really talk to the guy about how he smells. I don't work with him at all. We are effectively strangers. We don't share the same management. He's literally a random guy who I would never work or interact with other than in the context of being randomly assigned deskmates. Even if I told him, he'd likely be more offended than willing to make a change to his personal hygiene routine just because of me.\n\n3. Reporting him to management isn't an option either. My work environment is such that I can't stick my neck out to report something as seemingly trivial as his stank to management or HR. There is no mechanism for anonymous reporting and even if there was it's not worth expending my office reputational capital on.\n\n4. My desk is about 6 feet wide by 4 feet deep. There is a clear line in the desk where my space begins and his ends, but otherwise there is no physical barrier. I sit on the end so my left hand side is a walkway with a piece of wood about 1.5 feet tall which stops things from falling off the side of my desk. The space beneath my desk has a few outlets behind a door.\n\nMy only saving grace in this situation is that my neighbor is seemingly exceedingly lazy. He comes in late, leaves early, and spends much of his time at the office off the desk taking personal calls or just fucking around in common areas. If say I spend about 60% of my workday (maybe 5 to 6 hours) near him on am average day. \n\nThanks in advance for your suggestions.", "How to mitigate the stench of a smelly coworker Long story short is I just moved to a new job with an open concept seating arrangement where there are several people sitting at the same long table which is segmented into four or so desks per side. There are no dividers or physical barriers of any kind and I sit about 6 feet from my neighbors. \n\nThe coworker to my right smells like absolute shit. Massive body odor on a daily basis, and he's a smoker to boot. We don't work on the same team or even for the same project. He's a completely random person (they shuffle people up to try to encourage meeting new people; in actuality this just results in nobody talking to anyone near them). Whenever he sits near me, his stank ass radiates from his chair and permeates my work environment like a chemical weapon. **I need recommendations for how I can modify my own work environment or behavior to prevent his stench from reaching my nostrils when he is here.** Things I can put on my desk to absorb smells or give off office-friendly scents, things I can wear or have around me to do the same, etc -- whatever you think would work best. \n\n**Constraints:**\n\n1. I can't move my seat. This is a permanent seat and there isn't anywhere for me to move to. Also I'm not really in a position to quit my job.\n\n2. I can't really talk to the guy about how he smells. I don't work with him at all. We are effectively strangers. We don't share the same management. He's literally a random guy who I would never work or interact with other than in the context of being randomly assigned deskmates. Even if I told him, he'd likely be more offended than willing to make a change to his personal hygiene routine just because of me.\n\n3. Reporting him to management isn't an option either. My work environment is such that I can't stick my neck out to report something as seemingly trivial as his stank to management or HR. There is no mechanism for anonymous reporting and even if there was it's not worth expending my office reputational capital on.\n\n4. My desk is about 6 feet wide by 4 feet deep. There is a clear line in the desk where my space begins and his ends, but otherwise there is no physical barrier. I sit on the end so my left hand side is a walkway with a piece of wood about 1.5 feet tall which stops things from falling off the side of my desk. The space beneath my desk has a few outlets behind a door.\n\nMy only saving grace in this situation is that my neighbor is seemingly exceedingly lazy. He comes in late, leaves early, and spends much of his time at the office off the desk taking personal calls or just fucking around in common areas. If say I spend about 60% of my workday (maybe 5 to 6 hours) near him on am average day. \n\nThanks in advance for your suggestions.", "How to mitigate the stench of a smelly coworker Long story short is I just moved to a new job with an open concept seating arrangement where there are several people sitting at the same long table which is segmented into four or so desks per side. There are no dividers or physical barriers of any kind and I sit about 6 feet from my neighbors. \n\nThe coworker to my right smells like absolute shit. Massive body odor on a daily basis, and he's a smoker to boot. We don't work on the same team or even for the same project. He's a completely random person (they shuffle people up to try to encourage meeting new people; in actuality this just results in nobody talking to anyone near them). Whenever he sits near me, his stank ass radiates from his chair and permeates my work environment like a chemical weapon. **I need recommendations for how I can modify my own work environment or behavior to prevent his stench from reaching my nostrils when he is here.** Things I can put on my desk to absorb smells or give off office-friendly scents, things I can wear or have around me to do the same, etc -- whatever you think would work best. \n\n**Constraints:**\n\n1. I can't move my seat. This is a permanent seat and there isn't anywhere for me to move to. Also I'm not really in a position to quit my job.\n\n2. I can't really talk to the guy about how he smells. I don't work with him at all. We are effectively strangers. We don't share the same management. He's literally a random guy who I would never work or interact with other than in the context of being randomly assigned deskmates. Even if I told him, he'd likely be more offended than willing to make a change to his personal hygiene routine just because of me.\n\n3. Reporting him to management isn't an option either. My work environment is such that I can't stick my neck out to report something as seemingly trivial as his stank to management or HR. There is no mechanism for anonymous reporting and even if there was it's not worth expending my office reputational capital on.\n\n4. My desk is about 6 feet wide by 4 feet deep. There is a clear line in the desk where my space begins and his ends, but otherwise there is no physical barrier. I sit on the end so my left hand side is a walkway with a piece of wood about 1.5 feet tall which stops things from falling off the side of my desk. The space beneath my desk has a few outlets behind a door.\n\nMy only saving grace in this situation is that my neighbor is seemingly exceedingly lazy. He comes in late, leaves early, and spends much of his time at the office off the desk taking personal calls or just fucking around in common areas. If say I spend about 60% of my workday (maybe 5 to 6 hours) near him on am average day. \n\nThanks in advance for your suggestions." ]

[ "Put a fan on your desk blowing towards him and put lots of plants on your desk. Ferns are good at cleaning the air. Bonus: they're nice to look at and easy to care for. \n\n", "Personal Hygiene is an actual employee right and is something that should be discussed privately with HR. You should not have to deal with that.", "Well there's always the \"Silence of the Lambs\" approach to the problem. Smear a little bit of Vicks Vaporub under your nostrils, and it will overload your olfactory bits so much that you won't notice the stench from your neighbor. Repeat as necessary.", "Just blare out to no one in particular, \"all right, who shit their pants?\" Maybe he'll get the hint he stinks.", "Put out a bowl full of nose clips (for swimming) with a sign that says 'Take one for Mr Stinky', because rolling him in charcoal powder would be too dark.", "this guy i used to work with smelled HORRIBLE all the time, it turns out it was a medical condition. if it really bothers you, just tell hr you suffer from migraines or something and you can't work next to him bc he smells like cigarettes.", "I would start sharing things. For example got gum? Take a piece for myself and \"here have some gum\" have some chips? Share the chips. Regularly spray myself with cologne and tell him he needs to try this cologne cuz it just smells so damn good.", "I had quite a similar problem in my office. But this time this person was quite a good friend of mine. I had talked to him about the smell a lot of times but he won't care. The solution came in the elevator. A dude from some other office created a fuss over it. He said to my friend \"A very strong toxic smell is coming from you. Get a shower or wear a perfume or something\". My friend got offended. And this time he considered. Now, he has improved a lot. So, if as a stranger you go to him and talk about the smell seriously, it is possible he'll consider. Let him be offended. Later, he might actually thank you. ", "Place a can of deodorant on his desk without him knowing who put it there. Mayb even a post it note attatched saying something like \"feel free\" or \"international smell nice day. Join the team\".", "Set a jar of SafTAir or Kanberra gel on your desk. Put an old (clean) sock over it to prevent spills & slow evaporation. \n\nIf he smells bad to you, he smells bad to everyone & he needs to be clued into this fact. Since you're uncomfortable talking with him directly, write an anonymous note specifically stating what he needs to do to not stink. ", "Easy fix- seems like he's doing a great job of ensuring that he won't be with the company long. Until that glorious day comes, why don't you get a desk candle or something and light it? I've even worked next to someone that used a scented vaporizer. Maybe do that, and if he bitches about your GOOD smells, THEN go to HR. Nothing like a little public humiliation to make you change some things up. ", "Are you absolutely certain there is no other place you can be moved to? I would go the sneaky route, and come up with an excuse as to why I had to be moved that you can give HR. Maybe the light overhead gives you migraines and you need to be closer to a window? Or you're sensitive to fragrances like cigarette smoke, they give you headaches. That makes it less about his odor and more about putting the \"blame\" on you, without needing to get into his stench issues. If you could come up with a quasi-reasonable health issue that would require your moving, would HR or your boss buy it?" ]

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[ "Any way to prevent glasses fogging in cold weather? It hit 1c/34F this morning. I went outside for a 5 minute walk to get coffee, and when I came inside my glasses fogged up. Is there any way to prevent this?\n\n", "Any way to prevent glasses fogging in cold weather? It hit 1c/34F this morning. I went outside for a 5 minute walk to get coffee, and when I came inside my glasses fogged up. Is there any way to prevent this?\n\n", "Any way to prevent glasses fogging in cold weather? It hit 1c/34F this morning. I went outside for a 5 minute walk to get coffee, and when I came inside my glasses fogged up. Is there any way to prevent this?\n\n" ]

[ "Good lord, people. He said they fog up when he comes back *inside*, not when he goes out.\nWhen glasses are cold they invite condensation from warm moist air. If it really bothers you try runnung them under hot water when you get back inside.", "Turn on the air conditioner/ leave windows wide open so that it's roughly the same temperature inside as it is outside.", "Take them off your face before you step outside and then put them on after your face starts to feel cold. " ]

[ 4, 0, -1 ]

[ "How to juggle a drink & a plate of snacks without looking like an idiot We've all been there... You're at a party, there's a table of tasty snacks, you grab a little plate full, and pick up a drink too. Welp, now you've got something in each hand and can't eat your food or shake hands. Aside from finding a table, any pro tips for not looking like an idiot struggling to eat a carrot dipped in ranch?", "How to juggle a drink & a plate of snacks without looking like an idiot We've all been there... You're at a party, there's a table of tasty snacks, you grab a little plate full, and pick up a drink too. Welp, now you've got something in each hand and can't eat your food or shake hands. Aside from finding a table, any pro tips for not looking like an idiot struggling to eat a carrot dipped in ranch?", "How to juggle a drink & a plate of snacks without looking like an idiot We've all been there... You're at a party, there's a table of tasty snacks, you grab a little plate full, and pick up a drink too. Welp, now you've got something in each hand and can't eat your food or shake hands. Aside from finding a table, any pro tips for not looking like an idiot struggling to eat a carrot dipped in ranch?", "How to juggle a drink & a plate of snacks without looking like an idiot We've all been there... You're at a party, there's a table of tasty snacks, you grab a little plate full, and pick up a drink too. Welp, now you've got something in each hand and can't eat your food or shake hands. Aside from finding a table, any pro tips for not looking like an idiot struggling to eat a carrot dipped in ranch?" ]

[ "Not actually the question you were asking, but if it's a business event (or any other situation where it's important to network or impress people) with a buffet, eat before you go - then you can concentrate on meeting people without having to juggle a plate of food, deal with any grease, etc.\n\nIf it's purely social then wear a beer hat, thus removing the need to hold a drink. ", "get a plate as small as possible so you can hold both in one hand, keeping the glass between your fore and middle finger (stemware) and a small plate backed up by the rest of the hand, resting on some of your forearm and held down by the thumb. Observe waiters clearing tables to see this in action. Also, grab as little food as possible so you're holding a mostly empty plate.\n\nIf you're at someone's home, there will usually be places to put down your drink and I'd advise you to do so. A coffee table, corner table or even the table where the snacks are being served will do. You can mark your glass with a specific coaster or tie a napkin around it to identify your drink\n\nIf you're hosting, spread coasters everywhere so people can put drinks down and hand out identifiers like party umbrellas or something alike (colored straws in different combinations can help too)", "If the drink isn't too full and plate not too big, sometimes I will just balance the plate on top of the drink. Easy!", "I go to a monthly networking event with a buffet line and have watched most people stack their drink under their plate.\n\nMy strategy is to put my drink down somewhere sneaky (assuming I get my drink first) and go through the line only to get my plate. Then I go eat near my hidden drink. Or I have a friend watch my drink. Either way, I avoid the problem by avoiding the premise: who says you can only take one trip through the line and that you must carry everything that one time? Nonsense!" ]

[ 8, 3, 3, 1 ]

[ "Creating daily habits in my personal life and staying focused at work Short of just writing a to-do list and photocopying it - what are some ways to create daily habits. I am disorganized, suffer from depression, and work two full-time jobs so I am in survival mode. \nDays fly by and I realize I haven't accomplished anything.\n\nBut I can't get into habits of doing things on a daily basis. \n\nMY THREE TOP GOALS:\n\nREMEMBER things like taking about a dozen medications and supplements throughout the day. Making good food choices and keeping track of nutrition needs like protein grams and that I actually eat throughout the day. (I lost 110 pounds in 2014 from bariatric surgery).\n\nSTART Cutting coupons and looking online for savings of things I buy; and actually making it to the store before the deal expires. Financially I know this would help me in the long run. \n\nHELP Staying focused at my day job and keeping track of my production goals… I get easily distracted and I just finished 6 weeks of training for a new position with higher pay that is more closely watched. I definitely need to stay off the internet but just repetitiously working all day staring at the computer is really tough for me. Really tough. I find my day job totally boring as hell but I need the income/benefits and have no options. My evening/weekend job is retail but is secondary income required to make ends meet. \n\nTHANKS for any advice!\n\n\n\n", "Creating daily habits in my personal life and staying focused at work Short of just writing a to-do list and photocopying it - what are some ways to create daily habits. I am disorganized, suffer from depression, and work two full-time jobs so I am in survival mode. \nDays fly by and I realize I haven't accomplished anything.\n\nBut I can't get into habits of doing things on a daily basis. \n\nMY THREE TOP GOALS:\n\nREMEMBER things like taking about a dozen medications and supplements throughout the day. Making good food choices and keeping track of nutrition needs like protein grams and that I actually eat throughout the day. (I lost 110 pounds in 2014 from bariatric surgery).\n\nSTART Cutting coupons and looking online for savings of things I buy; and actually making it to the store before the deal expires. Financially I know this would help me in the long run. \n\nHELP Staying focused at my day job and keeping track of my production goals… I get easily distracted and I just finished 6 weeks of training for a new position with higher pay that is more closely watched. I definitely need to stay off the internet but just repetitiously working all day staring at the computer is really tough for me. Really tough. I find my day job totally boring as hell but I need the income/benefits and have no options. My evening/weekend job is retail but is secondary income required to make ends meet. \n\nTHANKS for any advice!\n\n\n\n", "Creating daily habits in my personal life and staying focused at work Short of just writing a to-do list and photocopying it - what are some ways to create daily habits. I am disorganized, suffer from depression, and work two full-time jobs so I am in survival mode. \nDays fly by and I realize I haven't accomplished anything.\n\nBut I can't get into habits of doing things on a daily basis. \n\nMY THREE TOP GOALS:\n\nREMEMBER things like taking about a dozen medications and supplements throughout the day. Making good food choices and keeping track of nutrition needs like protein grams and that I actually eat throughout the day. (I lost 110 pounds in 2014 from bariatric surgery).\n\nSTART Cutting coupons and looking online for savings of things I buy; and actually making it to the store before the deal expires. Financially I know this would help me in the long run. \n\nHELP Staying focused at my day job and keeping track of my production goals… I get easily distracted and I just finished 6 weeks of training for a new position with higher pay that is more closely watched. I definitely need to stay off the internet but just repetitiously working all day staring at the computer is really tough for me. Really tough. I find my day job totally boring as hell but I need the income/benefits and have no options. My evening/weekend job is retail but is secondary income required to make ends meet. \n\nTHANKS for any advice!\n\n\n\n", "Creating daily habits in my personal life and staying focused at work Short of just writing a to-do list and photocopying it - what are some ways to create daily habits. I am disorganized, suffer from depression, and work two full-time jobs so I am in survival mode. \nDays fly by and I realize I haven't accomplished anything.\n\nBut I can't get into habits of doing things on a daily basis. \n\nMY THREE TOP GOALS:\n\nREMEMBER things like taking about a dozen medications and supplements throughout the day. Making good food choices and keeping track of nutrition needs like protein grams and that I actually eat throughout the day. (I lost 110 pounds in 2014 from bariatric surgery).\n\nSTART Cutting coupons and looking online for savings of things I buy; and actually making it to the store before the deal expires. Financially I know this would help me in the long run. \n\nHELP Staying focused at my day job and keeping track of my production goals… I get easily distracted and I just finished 6 weeks of training for a new position with higher pay that is more closely watched. I definitely need to stay off the internet but just repetitiously working all day staring at the computer is really tough for me. Really tough. I find my day job totally boring as hell but I need the income/benefits and have no options. My evening/weekend job is retail but is secondary income required to make ends meet. \n\nTHANKS for any advice!\n\n\n\n", "Creating daily habits in my personal life and staying focused at work Short of just writing a to-do list and photocopying it - what are some ways to create daily habits. I am disorganized, suffer from depression, and work two full-time jobs so I am in survival mode. \nDays fly by and I realize I haven't accomplished anything.\n\nBut I can't get into habits of doing things on a daily basis. \n\nMY THREE TOP GOALS:\n\nREMEMBER things like taking about a dozen medications and supplements throughout the day. Making good food choices and keeping track of nutrition needs like protein grams and that I actually eat throughout the day. (I lost 110 pounds in 2014 from bariatric surgery).\n\nSTART Cutting coupons and looking online for savings of things I buy; and actually making it to the store before the deal expires. Financially I know this would help me in the long run. \n\nHELP Staying focused at my day job and keeping track of my production goals… I get easily distracted and I just finished 6 weeks of training for a new position with higher pay that is more closely watched. I definitely need to stay off the internet but just repetitiously working all day staring at the computer is really tough for me. Really tough. I find my day job totally boring as hell but I need the income/benefits and have no options. My evening/weekend job is retail but is secondary income required to make ends meet. \n\nTHANKS for any advice!\n\n\n\n", "Creating daily habits in my personal life and staying focused at work Short of just writing a to-do list and photocopying it - what are some ways to create daily habits. I am disorganized, suffer from depression, and work two full-time jobs so I am in survival mode. \nDays fly by and I realize I haven't accomplished anything.\n\nBut I can't get into habits of doing things on a daily basis. \n\nMY THREE TOP GOALS:\n\nREMEMBER things like taking about a dozen medications and supplements throughout the day. Making good food choices and keeping track of nutrition needs like protein grams and that I actually eat throughout the day. (I lost 110 pounds in 2014 from bariatric surgery).\n\nSTART Cutting coupons and looking online for savings of things I buy; and actually making it to the store before the deal expires. Financially I know this would help me in the long run. \n\nHELP Staying focused at my day job and keeping track of my production goals… I get easily distracted and I just finished 6 weeks of training for a new position with higher pay that is more closely watched. I definitely need to stay off the internet but just repetitiously working all day staring at the computer is really tough for me. Really tough. I find my day job totally boring as hell but I need the income/benefits and have no options. My evening/weekend job is retail but is secondary income required to make ends meet. \n\nTHANKS for any advice!\n\n\n\n" ]

[ "Check out the http://www.reddit.com/r/theXeffect/\n\nIt's very simple and it works. Break down your goals into things that you can accomplish daily. For example, cut coupons. When you do this task mark off the day with an X. When you don't do it give yourself a big red zero. Do this for 30 days or so and if you meet your goals for the period, give yourself a predetermined reward (selected at the start of the chart - such as buying yourself a new pair of shoes, or going to a nice restaurant - anything as long as it is not something that you are going to do anyway whether you succeed or not and it should be a treat that you want to get for yourself). If you fail, be honest with yourself and do not give yourself the reward that you had promised yourself.\n\nKeep doing this and in no time you will have built a repertoire of positive habits.\n\nJust don't go overboard. If you try to track and reinforce too many habits at the same time, the system can become overwhelming and a source of stress when you don't meet your targets. Instead, select small positive incremental improvements that you are likely to actually do and you will feel the pride of actually filling one of these cards of calendars with xs\n\nI have used this system to promote motivate myself to do daily exercise and it works great. But it can be adapted to nearly any daily task or habit that you want to achieve\n", "REMEMBERING: Try using Evernote. It helps you collect, organise, find and write! \n\nFOCUS: M", "I'm also VERY disorganized and slightly depressed. To-do lists definitely helped. But sticking to a well-balanced diet and actually going to the gym helped a lot when I was working a shitty retail job that took so much out of me. You could meal prep, as there are plenty of videos on Youtube on how to do it. ", "I stay motivated with the use of lists, whether on a smartphone or a post it note. Make a plan for the day, week, month, or all of them. Writing the list will help you remember them, and also you get the satisfaction of crossing them off! ", "Assuming you have a smartphone google calendar is your new best friend. I have 3 different calendars for business and personal use. You can easily setup recurring events for various activities. \n\nThe coupons can be managed with a folder system by months but yes these are hard to keep track of. Sign up for the rewards program at whatever stores you normally visit and you will get coupons by mail.\n\nAs far as staying focused at work get up and walk around for a few minutes every hour. Drink lots of water and eat healthy snacks.", "Assuming you have a smartphone\n\n>REMEMBER things like taking about a dozen medications and supplements throughout the day.\n\nThere are a dozen types of apps for medication reminders. I use MediSafe for Android (free, no ads), but you have a lot of options. \n\n>keeping track of my production goals\n\nI've found the best way for me to keep track of a lot of shit (I have massive memory leaks in my head) is writing things down and finding a way to keep them organized.\n\nOneNote or EverNote is great for this. You can have a chaotic mess of notes, but simply tagging or sticking them in a certain place gives you instant access. If your work uses Outlook, then OneNote integrates with outlook, so you can set reminders and such. Both have screen clipping features and such to keep track of personal life things too." ]

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[ "how to make moving easier People who have moved houses or apartments a lot: what are some tips that have made the process easier for you?", "how to make moving easier People who have moved houses or apartments a lot: what are some tips that have made the process easier for you?", "how to make moving easier People who have moved houses or apartments a lot: what are some tips that have made the process easier for you?", "how to make moving easier People who have moved houses or apartments a lot: what are some tips that have made the process easier for you?", "how to make moving easier People who have moved houses or apartments a lot: what are some tips that have made the process easier for you?", "how to make moving easier People who have moved houses or apartments a lot: what are some tips that have made the process easier for you?", "how to make moving easier People who have moved houses or apartments a lot: what are some tips that have made the process easier for you?", "how to make moving easier People who have moved houses or apartments a lot: what are some tips that have made the process easier for you?", "how to make moving easier People who have moved houses or apartments a lot: what are some tips that have made the process easier for you?", "how to make moving easier People who have moved houses or apartments a lot: what are some tips that have made the process easier for you?", "how to make moving easier People who have moved houses or apartments a lot: what are some tips that have made the process easier for you?" ]

[ "Quick other thing, make a list of all the people who need to know about your move like banks, tax people, pensions, healthcare, insurances, utilities, cellphone, employer, etc.etc.\n\nYou can add to this every time, and it will make you much more comfortable that you’ve made sure everyone who needs to know you’ve moved, knows where you’ve moved to!", "Hire professional crew to do the actual moving. For myself, I was a fit strong man, but when had to move I couldn't lift a thing. Due to the stress. I was glad I hired a couple a company. They are fast and know how to handle it. It may cost something, but in return I could focus my energy on something else. There is a lot going on when you move. Eg Administration, letting all companies know you changed address.", "Go through all your shit :anything you haven't used in a while doesn't make the move, donate or sell. Don't fall into the 'I might need it one day' fallacy. And clean as you go so that's out of the way. \n\nSet out the bare minimum you need to exist, across the board. Clothes, cooking, etc. and pack the rest. If you do it right you might have a few small boxes to pack up right before you leave.", "Start packing decorations away when you find out/decide you’re going to move out.\n\nSelect a series of household items that you regularly use (one each cup, spoon, towel, etc) and pack everything else away. With bedding/towels etc consider having 2 or 3 to cycle through until you move out. On the day you move, you just have to run through the house to collect these and will probably be the easiest box to pack (just make sure you have a list of the items you have put aside so you don’t accidentally forget your favourite mug)\n\nConsider packing clothes into a suitcase and living out of that until you move (as someone with lots of clothes, I packed away the majority that I knew I wasn’t going to wear before I moved out). Absolutely pack away any clothes that aren’t weather appropriate", "For me, organization is key. Make sure almost everything is boxed up prior to the moving day. Start the boxing process literally weeks in advance if you know you’re getting ready to move. If possible, plan to live out of a suitcase a few days before and after the move to give you time to pack and unpack your wardrobe. \n\nClean out a space in your current place to start consolidating boxes and stuff to make it easier on moving day. This also allows you to more easily clean the rest of the place early, so there’s less to clean on the final day. Make sure you label the boxes so you know exactly what room they’ll go to at the destination. As an aside, in order to save money on boxes, you can sometimes visit retail stores or other businesses that receive regular shipments of stuff and ask if they have any old boxes you can have. I got most of my boxes for my last move this way. \n\nAs far as the actual move day goes, load the big and heavy stuff into the truck/trailer first, then pack the smaller and lighter boxes around it. Think of it like a game of Tetris. Also, it’s helpful to have a few hand trucks so a few people can move multiple boxes at once, instead of just one at a time. Hand trucks with large, pneumatic tires are better for going up stairs and rolling over wood floors without damaging them. Make sure you have some moving blankets or even just old comforters in order to drape over and protect delicate furniture so it doesn’t get damaged. A few flat mover’s dollies will also come in handy if you have a lot of big, heavy, awkwardly shaped furniture, so you can roll it most of the way instead of carrying it. \n\nAt the destination, move your stuff straight into the room it belongs- don’t move the same thing multiple times. For example, don’t move the same box from the truck to the garage, then to the living room, then to the upstairs room, just go straight to where it’s labeled. Again, using hand trucks might help with the unload so you can bring multiple boxes in at once.\n\nLastly, if you have friends or family helping you out, make sure you have some water for them and definitely offer to feed them afterwards, lol", "Too little information on your part to properly answer. So generalizations only:\n\n1) don't waste your time with 'organization' it's just wasted effort. If you have a LOT of stuff - start packing the stuff you rarely use. Others say toss, donate, or otherwise discard...but that's up to you. Most simply you have 'stuff you use often' and stuff not so often. Pack up all the not so often stuff very early in the process.\na) it'll give you a better idea of how much stuff you actually have to have moved.\nb) your movers or yourself will have to determine volume (trailer/truck capacity)\nc) it'll get it out of your way\n\nThe goal is to get 'all this crap' from here to ----> over there without loss, theft, or damage!\n\nWhy don't bother with 'organizing'. Because you'll dump the 8 boxes for your kitchen and open them all at once and eyeball what's in there. Again, I don't know your particulars...maybe you have china and crystal which needs protection - maybe you've got plastic plates, cups and dishes which need minimal protection.\n\nEvery move on the other end results in exactly this: Hey, where's the list of where my overalls are packed and in what box?\n\nI don't know where the list is...did you check the 'closet' box?\n\nOh, no I didn't...yeah they were in the closet weren't they. Opens 2 boxes, HEY, here they are!\n\n(I've moved 8 times, and made lists on 5 of the moves...all 8 moves resulted in the same thing...a wasted list process).\n\nOrganize your boxes by room of where they're GOING, not where they are: If stuff is going in storage separate it and label it.\n\nwe used color coded duct tape on opposite corners so from any angle you could always see where the box belonged. But ultimately you should keep stacks of boxes in the room they serve (if possible). Use colored signs/arrows on the other end to help boxes get delivered to the correct location.\n\nStack boxes so they can be moved with a truck dolly - smaller heavy boxes are better than big light ones. Use clothing that you won't be wearing as padding and protection. This is why you pack 'not so often' stuff first. The most important stuff is with the most important clothing, towels, linens, etc.\n\nRemember movers steal, lose, drop, break, and forget items all the time. Video EVERY THING YOU OWN before anyone touches it. Worse things can happen too...stolen truck/trailer...fire...accident...etc. Plan for the worst and keep the MOST IMPORTANT items with you always! That's important papers, memorabilia, any 'expensive' stuff...etc. You can invest in 'tamper proof tape' but it won't prevent your items from being stolen. The more identifying information you have the better chance of recovering your property...but the police won't look...just if they happened to 'find a truck' maybe you'd have a hope of getting your stuff back.\n\nBooks are HEAVY...those go on the bottom of boxes that contain more delicate items. Try to keep weights 'flat' as stacked boxes have to hold one another up.\n\nwhile it's more costly and time consuming...100 small boxes is way better than 60 medium or 40 large. Make sure you have a TOTAL boxes count and furniture count. Things GO missing...or get dropped and hidden...or left behind the shed for later theft.\n\nGet friends to help...minimum payment is a GOOD LUNCH and beer/drinks...you should also pay them cash too (your finances and friendships will have to dictate there).\n\nIf you're hiring a company do ALL the researching on tricks, scams and bull crap things they successfully pull off. Like 'we are keeping your stuff until you pay 3k more because of X stupid reason'. Keep all documentation and record as many conversations as you're legally allowed...always discuss business with witnesses. Be CLEAR with them what they're responsible for...for how long...for how far. Most aren't cheats...but some are. Don't take advantage of them either. They are there doing something you're able to handle yourself - they deserve to make profit on your job.\n\nLook for boxes early...craigslist fbmarketplace etc...start stocking up - again I don't know your financial situation. Remember movers packing YOUR stuff will cost you 30-40% more in materials than your costs. If you're moving close...take a load EVERY time you can...meeting someone there...take some boxes. This depends on whether you have legal possession - never leave your stuff where you don't.\n\nThe best way to make it 'easy' for you is to evaluate the importance of 'your stuff' and how much you need it...moved...not damaged...not scratched...and plan accordingly. If you have a whole bunch of crap...move it yourself, grab a uhaul...beg friends with trucks. If you have a bunch of fancy stuff KNOW that stuff will get bumped, bruised, and possibly broken. Just go with the flow and don't freak out - if you have something irreplaceable best to make separate arrangements.\n\nSome movers won't move certain things...like safe's is one I can think of off the top of my head. And may require separate transport. Wrap your CRAP! This includes blue painters tape and cardboard on doors, walls, and corners - on both sides. Moving can be a fast process and you don't want a lot of dents and dings everywhere.\n\nGarage stuff is heavy...and not packable...get plastic wrap. it keeps loose items in and keeps protrusions from catching on everything.\n\nIf you do 'stuff the truck' yourself make sure to STUFF THE TRUCK. That means things like pillows are stuffed in hollows in dressers between the case and the drawers...drawers are filled TO CAPACITY...there is NOT A SINGLE CUBIC INCH of space that isn't filled in that truck. it's a time consuming process...your weight stays the same but the size of the truck will cost you more whether it's full or half full.\n\nPlan your 'move'...is it a 'few hours' or many days? I can't anticipate the distance your moving and the things you need moved - and NO MOVER CAN without seeing and evaluating. They've 'stuffed' trucks before and have a good idea of exactly how much they can fit.\n\nPlan on disassembling some things BEFORE movers show up. Having 8 people stand around while you disassemble a bed isn't prudent. Perhaps stay in a hotel the night before.\n\nhave a decent inventory and recording of what that company is taking possession of and make them fill out and SIGN a materials list or bill of lading. We never loaded that, it wasn't in the contract - is not something you want to hear on the day of the move or months later in court.\n\nLastly don't forget all your 'outside' crap! Easy to neglect or forget. Sheds...yard boxes, hoses, reels, pool supplies, decorations...mailbox...lighting on the house. \n\nAnything in the attic? Safety deposit box? PO box? Other storage unit? Friends houses? Neighbors? You may NEVER be back in this area again. Anyone 'borrow' tools or items of yours you'd like to recover? Did you get all the garage remotes out of the cars? Padlocks off gates? Make sure none of these are included with the sale of the house - that'll cause closing problems.\n\nThere's a lot of different advice that you'll have to determine how it best fits your situation. You might have 5 vehicles and only 3 drivers. Ultimately only you know: What you have...what you're moving...where you're coming from and where you're going.\n\nMy advice to you is to 'plan every step' mentally many months in advance. Write down stuff you feel you'll forget to remember.\n\nDisassemble as much stuff as you can...knobs, legs, handles, and crap get broken off easily. And packing material is costly and takes up more space. But make sure EVERYTHING has a blanket between it...lots of wiggling and vibration in a truck...cardboard rubbing on your lacquer finish would be bad. Again, I don't know what kind of crap you have. Aquariums take more consideration than books.\n\nOh yeah - ever 'hide' anything in the house? Find that crap now. Money in a jacket pocket in the closet...or other 'hiding spots'? Get those sooner than later.", "Put everything you can in stackable moving boxes. Tape drawers and other moving parts of furniture with masking tape so they dont swing or slide open when you carry them. Try to add bubble wrap or some other cushion to table edges and corners so they dont get damaged.\n\nStack the boxes at the front of the van first and then the big furniture. Place rugs on the van floor for cushion. Put beds and tables etc. to the sides and secure them with straps. Jam smaller stuff in between everything at the end. \n\nYou can rent moving boxes from moving companies even if you dont have them move your stuff.", "Order boxes from someplace liked rentacrate, you can get a lot of good solid stackable boxes for a week or two for cheap.", "Label or mark every box , when you get into the new place you aren't going to want or probably even be able to unpack in a day and your gonna need specific things like cooking pots/utensils , bathroom stuffs like soap, tooth paste etc. \n\nNever over pack any box , go for light but many so no one injures their back carrying them especially after moving furniture. \n\nGet your internet and/or cable company prepared to set up on the same day so you can play music during and watch TV after you are done for the day. \n\nIf you hire a moving company , get a reputable one with good reviews. You'd be surprised how many \"moving companies\" are just two old worn out dudes with a truck and these guys will not give a shit if your stuff is damaged. Actual companies have insurance incase anything very expensive of yours breaks in the move and will actually have all the proper gear to keep things from getting damaged in the first place.", "Husband was a mover for 13 years. Label boxes on the side, not the top. When packing books, use a small box because it will be heavier than you think. For clothes on a hanger, I just took ours with the hanger on and put them in a box. Get boxes in different sizes. Make sure you get some moving blankets and wrap your furniture and use moving tape so nothing gets scratched. If I think of anything else, I’ll let you know!", "I'm pretty sure you can rent furniture and perhaps dishes as well. If all you have to do is pack up your clothes and personal items, moving is a breeze." ]

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[ "How to remove grease from your hands. This mostly applies to butter. Grease ingeneral though usually takes a while to get completely off with soap and water, so I was wondering if any of you had any great ideas on how to remove it.", "How to remove grease from your hands. This mostly applies to butter. Grease ingeneral though usually takes a while to get completely off with soap and water, so I was wondering if any of you had any great ideas on how to remove it.", "How to remove grease from your hands. This mostly applies to butter. Grease ingeneral though usually takes a while to get completely off with soap and water, so I was wondering if any of you had any great ideas on how to remove it.", "How to remove grease from your hands. This mostly applies to butter. Grease ingeneral though usually takes a while to get completely off with soap and water, so I was wondering if any of you had any great ideas on how to remove it.", "How to remove grease from your hands. This mostly applies to butter. Grease ingeneral though usually takes a while to get completely off with soap and water, so I was wondering if any of you had any great ideas on how to remove it.", "How to remove grease from your hands. This mostly applies to butter. Grease ingeneral though usually takes a while to get completely off with soap and water, so I was wondering if any of you had any great ideas on how to remove it." ]

[ "If you don't have Lava or GoJo around, which most people dont, try toothpaste. It works wonders on car and bicycle grease. ", "http://www.reddit.com/r/LifeProTips/comments/u8av4/lpt_as_requested_remove_grease_from_hand_with/\n\nHere", "I usually soak or put dish soap all around my hands and let it sit for a ill then scrub it with a rough towel and rinse, works like magic same with dishes but use a dish sponge instead", "Any of that stuff with orange oil in it works great... fast orange is good! It comes off super duper quick with just a few sprays and a sink. Way faster than regular dish soap for working with machines. Oh, but you're just working with butter. yeah dishsoap is fine. ", "consider ink ripe hobbies theory vase strong alleged bells many -- mass ", "For car grease, hairspray is a great preventative mesure. Grease can't soak in, and soap removes hairspray. Especially good for fingernail edges." ]

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[ "Alternatives for caffeine. I spent the last year drinking coffee or energy drinks on a near daily basis, and it has made a negative impact on my health. Coffee gives me stomach aches, intense headaches, and caffeine drinks in general make me very stressed and unable to sleep well.\n\nWhat healthier alternatives do you recommend for caffeine?", "Alternatives for caffeine. I spent the last year drinking coffee or energy drinks on a near daily basis, and it has made a negative impact on my health. Coffee gives me stomach aches, intense headaches, and caffeine drinks in general make me very stressed and unable to sleep well.\n\nWhat healthier alternatives do you recommend for caffeine?", "Alternatives for caffeine. I spent the last year drinking coffee or energy drinks on a near daily basis, and it has made a negative impact on my health. Coffee gives me stomach aches, intense headaches, and caffeine drinks in general make me very stressed and unable to sleep well.\n\nWhat healthier alternatives do you recommend for caffeine?", "Alternatives for caffeine. I spent the last year drinking coffee or energy drinks on a near daily basis, and it has made a negative impact on my health. Coffee gives me stomach aches, intense headaches, and caffeine drinks in general make me very stressed and unable to sleep well.\n\nWhat healthier alternatives do you recommend for caffeine?", "Alternatives for caffeine. I spent the last year drinking coffee or energy drinks on a near daily basis, and it has made a negative impact on my health. Coffee gives me stomach aches, intense headaches, and caffeine drinks in general make me very stressed and unable to sleep well.\n\nWhat healthier alternatives do you recommend for caffeine?", "Alternatives for caffeine. I spent the last year drinking coffee or energy drinks on a near daily basis, and it has made a negative impact on my health. Coffee gives me stomach aches, intense headaches, and caffeine drinks in general make me very stressed and unable to sleep well.\n\nWhat healthier alternatives do you recommend for caffeine?", "Alternatives for caffeine. I spent the last year drinking coffee or energy drinks on a near daily basis, and it has made a negative impact on my health. Coffee gives me stomach aches, intense headaches, and caffeine drinks in general make me very stressed and unable to sleep well.\n\nWhat healthier alternatives do you recommend for caffeine?", "Alternatives for caffeine. I spent the last year drinking coffee or energy drinks on a near daily basis, and it has made a negative impact on my health. Coffee gives me stomach aches, intense headaches, and caffeine drinks in general make me very stressed and unable to sleep well.\n\nWhat healthier alternatives do you recommend for caffeine?", "Alternatives for caffeine. I spent the last year drinking coffee or energy drinks on a near daily basis, and it has made a negative impact on my health. Coffee gives me stomach aches, intense headaches, and caffeine drinks in general make me very stressed and unable to sleep well.\n\nWhat healthier alternatives do you recommend for caffeine?" ]

[ "Vitamin C. B6 and B12. Proteins and fats. Simple sugars if you need a quick rush.\n\nI make a mix of peanut butter, chocolate syrup, and sugar if I ever need a quick mental boost, and I take it with a vitamin supplement that is mostly B-complex, with plenty of water that I spike with megadoses of vit-C. This gives me long lasting energy as well as a quick pick-me-up that I usually use for competitive gaming or standardized tests. There is not a crash afterwards due to the high protein/fat content.\n\nNaps are not always practical, but a 10-20 minute nap can refresh you if you are running low on sleep or have a severe lack of energy midday.\n\nSpicy foods can be a great help as well. They boost metabolism and give you a natural energy surge.", "Yerba mate is a great coffee alternative, but if you drink a couple of cups before you're used to it, you're gonna poop your brains out.\n\nLike [this, perhaps.](\nhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=snHAsJ5dSxA&feature=youtube_gdata_player)\n\nSo go easy is my suggestion. It has a nice clean alert aspect to it without the caffeine scatterbrain effect.", "this is more specific to morning caffeine intake - if you find yourself groggy in the morning and thats why you take the coffee or energy drink try an apple instead. The sugar helps wake you up, give you energy and starts you metabolism up. I have yet to try it at other times during the day like at 3am at night but so far it works pretty effectively in the morning", "[Adrafinil](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adrafinil)\n\nIt is the pro-drug of a drug called [Modafinil](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Modafinil) (which is a prescription drug in many parts of the world). This means that it turns into modafinil when it passes through your liver. Adrafinil us unregulated in most of the world and can be found easily on the internet (Tip: its much cheaper to buy as a powder as opposed to in tablets, if you have a decent set of scales (accurate down to 100mg) i'd go for the powder)\n\nI found it worked very well, made me more alert and focused without the \"scatterbrain\" that caffeine gives me. Be aware that tolerance builds a bit and prolonged daily use can give similar side effects to coffee.\n\nIn general though, try to live completely without caffeine for a while. The first week or so will suck but after that i found i slept better (and as a result wasnt as groggy/wiped out in the morning. 2 weeks later i was much more focused and alert than i was when abusing caffeine. Don't underestimate how much sleep matters", "Well, Green Tea has a lot of caffeine, but it's way better for you than coffee or energy drinks. Are you just looking for an alternative to those drinks, or an alternative to caffeine itself?", "For morning take your shower normal but end it with a blast of the coldest water possible. I let it run until my skin everywhere is somewhat numb (1-2min). Usually a good pick-me-upper :)\n\nFor breakfast have something filling and high in carbs - eggs and toast (or [eggs in a basket](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Egg_in_the_basket)) are quick and easy.\n\nFor that 10-2pm groggy feeling try fruity granola snack bars and orange juice instead of coffee or tea. Also try eating it outside just to take a break from the office. Mind and body re-energizing.\n\nOr you could overdose on B12 which is what 5-hr Energy does (it's like 8300% daily recommended dosage of B12). I do it now and then, haven't noticed a crash", "Drink something in the morning, it doesn't matter what. Sleeping dehydrates you which makes you lethargic. In the afternoon, take a quick 15 minute nap.", "[A 15-25 minute nap.](http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-3423/What-You-Need-to-Know-About-Napping-Infographic.html)", "You might try this herb, rhodiola rosea. Try to get it sourced from Russia rather than China. There are many products produced by different companies; you might have to experiment to find the best one for you. The effects are very similar to caffeine, but there's no withdrawal syndrome when stopping, and it's very low in risk." ]

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[ " Anything moving (homes) related. This is pretty straight forward. I am moving for the first time in 16 years (I'm 20) and would like to know if there are any LPTs regarding this subject.", " Anything moving (homes) related. This is pretty straight forward. I am moving for the first time in 16 years (I'm 20) and would like to know if there are any LPTs regarding this subject.", " Anything moving (homes) related. This is pretty straight forward. I am moving for the first time in 16 years (I'm 20) and would like to know if there are any LPTs regarding this subject.", " Anything moving (homes) related. This is pretty straight forward. I am moving for the first time in 16 years (I'm 20) and would like to know if there are any LPTs regarding this subject.", " Anything moving (homes) related. This is pretty straight forward. I am moving for the first time in 16 years (I'm 20) and would like to know if there are any LPTs regarding this subject." ]

[ "Take the time to wrap all the glass and fragile stuff. Moving will almost always end with a smashed box. Don't want it to also end in an expensive trip to replace all of your dishes. (Then, who has a lot of dishes at 20? No one, that's who)\n\nStop by places that get a lot of shipments for some free boxes. Often stores will have a separate disposal area for cardboard. Go in and ask, they'll usually throw a few your way. Don't every PAY for boxes unless your packing something that needs a crate, like art.", "Plan in advance. Get quotes from major moving companies, you'd be surprised how expensive some can be for providing the same service. Collect your own boxes from the service area behind stores. Using your own boxes is much cheaper than paying for the moving company's boxes. Then pack a little each night. Start with books, equipment, clothing that you won't need right then and there - but leave the kitchen stuff for the moving people, because you'll probably need all of that stuff to make meals right up until the movers arrive. When the movers arrive, the head guy usually keeps an itinerary and numbers the boxes, but stand with him and make sure he fills in everything correctly. Of course if you're not using movers then this entire paragraph is pointless! One more thing, if you have an inflatable camping mattress keep it handy because sometimes you and your bed won't arrive at your new place on the same day.", "Number the boxes that you are putting your things in and take pictures (or make a list) of what you put in each box. That way you won't have to spend a lot of time searching for anything that you may need immediately once you move in. Also, make friends with your new neighbors as soon as possible. They can help watch your place if you go out of town or at the very least you have some new friends to grill out with or whatever. ", "Here goes an obvious one: separate small stuff in boxes or bags labeled by the place where they will be in your new home. This will save you a lot of time.", "Clear, concise labelling of boxes. \n\nUse your linens/towels etc to wrap pictures or larger breakables\n\nClean stuff as you pack. \n\nOnce you have empty fridges / freezers place a few tea bags inside before closing them up for transport - will absorb excess moisture and prevent mould forming.\n\nCull stuff as you pack, and send the unwanted stuff to a charity shop. be ruthless, you will thank yourself later! \n\nBooks are heavy, use small boxes for those.\n" ]

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[ "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n", "How to talk to people. Just got done with the \"welcome to college\" week at my university. A problem that I found is that I can't approach and talk to anybody, and it's frustrating for me. I want to be able to go up and talk to people but I've got two issues: \n\n* 1 - I don't want to randomly inject myself into their conversation like an awkward douche. \n\n* 2 - I just don't know what to say. \n\nAny help is much appreciated.\n\n" ]

[ "Your first few weeks of college are a magical time where everyone around you feels exactly the way you just described. You have a humongous group of like-minded people your own age who are all desperate to make new friends right this second. I know it's not super concrete advice, but it still helps to keep in the back of your mind that, especially at this juncture in your life, people actually do want you to talk to them. ", "As someone who successfully made the transition you're about to attempt, most of it is just a matter of sacking up, throwing yourself into uncomfortable situations, learning from failure and expanding your comfort zone. Accept it and get out there, the worst part is at the very beginning.\n\nBut here are a few things to get you started:\n\nSmile when you approach someone.\nFirm handshake.\nHold eye contact, but break it regularly.\nApproach each situation with the mindset that you're evaluating whether you like them, not trying to get them to like you.\nBe observant of and comment on your environment. This is the least awkward way to start a random conversation.\nBe honest.\nStand up for yourself, avoid self-deprecation.\n\nHere's a basic pattern:\n\nComment on things you find interesting.\nIf someone responds with something you find interesting, ask a question about it.\nFollow up on their answer with a related anecdote about yourself.\n\nGood luck soldier.", "The most important thing to developing a social life freshman year is to leave your dorm room door open. If you're in your room and don't need privacy, leave your door open. Arrange anything related to your hobbies so they can be seen from the hallway. Half the people I hung out with freshman year at college started talking to me because I had my TV facing the doorway, and bought the newest video games. It didn't hurt that I went to college during the height of the rhythm game craze, and those are made for drop in/drop out multiplayer. \n\nI clicked into your profile and see that you're really into coffee. If your school lets you have a coffee maker in your room, you can make yourself very popular come exam time.\n\nWithin reason, say yes to as many invites as you can. Don't let people pressure you into something you don't enjoy, but if half the people on your floor are going to the dining hall for lunch and someone invites you, you might as well tag along even if you're not hungry. Just sitting with them and hanging out will do wonders for your social standing, and it's easy to get a reputation as the guy who never wants to do anything.\n\nFinally, subscribe to every single local events website you can find. Nothing is more valuable to the freshman college student than free food and free entertainment. It doesn't matter how socially awkward you are, if knowing you allows them to get free Pizza more regularly, people will want to be your friend. Your university probably has a subreddit. Subscribe to it right now.\n\nFinally, most universities have literally a metric shit-load of clubs. Join at least one.", "Find another person who has no one to talk to, walk up and say \"Hey - how's it going?\"\nor \"new here? me, too.\"", "Remember FORD.\nFAMILY\nOCCUPATION(OR IN THIS CASE, MAJOR)\nRECREATION\nDREAMS\n\nRemember also: It's better to be interested than interesting.", "Leaving your door open if youre alone in your room helps alot. I met my best friends that way. One of them just walked in and said \"hey, I like fear and loathing in las Vegas, you like fear and loathing in las Vegas (in reference to a poster I had) want to find strangers and make them assimilate into a family?\" We've been friends ever since. I haven't even seen fear and loathing in las Vegas. I just like the artwork Ralph Steadman did for it. ", "In \"How to Win Friends and Influence People\" the author Dale Carnegie tells anecdotes of famous and successful people who started out not so famous, not so successful, people who overcame their innate isolationism to reach out to others. \n\nThe book is still a great read, a fine self help book. I strongly recommend it. At the very least, you can comment to others about the book, and start conversations that way.", "For those already engaged in conversation, use body language to make your presence known an listen to conversation to join on topic. Quicker is \"hey, what're ya'll talking about?\"\n\nEither way observe their body language to be sure their discussion isn't private or they'll have to change the topic to something fresh which can be awkward.", "I open my mouth and vibrate my vocal cords eventually people respond to the vibration they make with the molecues in the air.", "Your end of the conversation, at least when casually chatting or when meeting people should basically sound like:\n\n\"Hey how are you?\"\n\n\"Good, just got done BLAH. What about you?\"\n\n\"Oh yeah?\"\n\n\"What's that like?\"\n\n\"Haha, no shit?\"\n\n\"That's nuts. So what does that entail then?\"\n\n\"And you get to do that for a living?\"\n\nI think you get the point. Just continue ask questions, throw in a relevant, on-topic personal experience or 3, NEVER INTERRUPT, and you should be great. Be genuinely interested in them and what they're saying, don't fake that part. Let them educate you on something. If they're short with you or seem to not want to talk, that's fine, just move on until you find your people. And you *will* find your people.\n\nAt parties, events, whatever where you're in the situation to meet new people, if you can't just walk up and stand next to someone you know and wait for a time to contribute (yes you can just jump in and start talking if you're standing next to someone you know, party law), literally just find a group of people standing in a circle who seem nice, walk over confident as shit (even falsely) and go \"Hey I straight up know no-one here, what's up with you guys?\" and you'll be fine. We all know it's a little weird to randomly walk up to folks and start talking, usually, so by acknowledging it right off the bat without saying \"HEY THIS IS AWKWARD RIGHT!?\" and being the master of the situation, people just roll with it and chicks'll be like \"oooOOOooo lookit fuckin /u/drewhold with is fine ass bein' all confident and shit I wanna get to *know that diiiiiiiaaackkk*\" or something.\n\nGod speed.", "This video taught me how to be more open to new people and say whatever i wanted.\n\nEven though this video is titled \"Never Run Out of Things to Say with Girls\", ignore the girl part, because that doesn't matter. What matters is if you see someone interesting and you want to talk to them, JUST GO DO IT saying anything will get it going between you and that person. The number one big thing for me personally in this video that he talks about is do not filter your words!(around the 7 minute mark)\n\nI watched this video every single day for a week and has personally changed my life a bit. I used to be a person who would never talk to anyone new first unless they came up to me and engaged into something because i didn't want them think i was weird awkward person and really i wasn't even sure what to say half of the time. \n\n\n\nhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRL_WZnhaBU&list=FLEcUADNAZYxZ_UDHaAVnFGQ\n", "From what I learn from playing a ton of rpg games that give you the option to converse.\nlisten carefully, pick up on words,phrases, or sentences that you can branch off into a question.\nAsk questions, people generally like to talk about themselves and how passionate they are in things. Doing this can help you understand a person and help you get to know them better. It also opens up things you guys might have in common, then you can just go from there.", "People love to talk about themselves so ask a lot of questions. Also smiling while speaking makes you appear comfortable and confident", "I too suck at these things. When you walk into a class, see if you can see any shirts with pop culture stuff you recognise. Sit down next to them and use that as small talk. ", "I think during the first few lectures I just sat down directly next to people and introduced myself. I don't know, in hindsight it seems a bit weird but it wasn't and it may be weirder if you keep one seat distance to the next student. \nAnd if you get to know someone they introduce you to their (new) friends. \nBut my course of studies consisted of round about 150 people so it wasn't too big. Now everyone knows almost everyone. ", "Do you have a roommate? It might be easier to talk to people if you have someone next to you to help out in conversations with new people. I always found that it always has helped me having a friend or roommate next to me when I'm talking to someone I haven't talk to before. ", "Ask someone a question about school, like oh where is whatever building, even if you know the answer. It's a good ice breaker and often they will help carry the conversation forward.", "If you smoke, designated smoking areas are a great way to pass time and fail many classes! You meet some cool people too. \n\nBus systems are kind of strange when classes start but I met a lot of people my first few days by sitting next to them and not farting. Just sat down, asked what dorm they were at if they were close to mine I'd hop off too chat walk.\n\nClubs are great, find one you like and talk about club shit at first, then normal shit.\n\nI met a lot of people by just being like \"hey what's up! I'm Feelthenips, I'm guessing you're a freshman too? Well that's cool what are you studying?\"\n\nFelt like a broken record but my friends list on facebook went up by like 300 people in a month lol then I got rid of it. ", "If there's a group standing and talking, try positioning yourself as close in as you can reasonably get (which may be on the outside for some close circles) and smile and nod with the conversation until they all decide to disperse. " ]

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[ "How can I choose the correct pillow? I usually sleep on my side, my mattress is on the harder side and I tend to put my arm under the pillow. \n\nIf money wasn't a problem, what kind of pillow would you recommend? What should I look for when I'm trying pillows out in the store?", "How can I choose the correct pillow? I usually sleep on my side, my mattress is on the harder side and I tend to put my arm under the pillow. \n\nIf money wasn't a problem, what kind of pillow would you recommend? What should I look for when I'm trying pillows out in the store?", "How can I choose the correct pillow? I usually sleep on my side, my mattress is on the harder side and I tend to put my arm under the pillow. \n\nIf money wasn't a problem, what kind of pillow would you recommend? What should I look for when I'm trying pillows out in the store?", "How can I choose the correct pillow? I usually sleep on my side, my mattress is on the harder side and I tend to put my arm under the pillow. \n\nIf money wasn't a problem, what kind of pillow would you recommend? What should I look for when I'm trying pillows out in the store?", "How can I choose the correct pillow? I usually sleep on my side, my mattress is on the harder side and I tend to put my arm under the pillow. \n\nIf money wasn't a problem, what kind of pillow would you recommend? What should I look for when I'm trying pillows out in the store?" ]

[ "I don't know any specific brands but think to be mindful of: \n\n-not too plushy because when sleeping on the side in the middle of the pillow it can poof up around the face and be smothering \n\n-a cooling pillow would be such a treat (I love memory foam but find they get really warm)\n\n-there are some pillows that are adjustable, you can remove or add the filling inside as you prefer \n\n-I like pillows that can be stuffed under the neck as well to support it when you sleep, so nothing too tall or thick", "Side-sleeper here as well. I invested in a good box pillow at a bed specialist shop, and had no regrets. The pillow is high enough to sleep with a straight neck, and it does not get more compact over time. I think that the filling material is something like latex. So my advice would be: visit a bed specialist shop and ask them. You spend one third to one fourth of your time in bed, so why not invest in some good equipment for that time.", "Most people think they want soft pillows - like down. You want a firm pillow so you’re neck stays in alignment all night. Just get a firm foam (not memory foam) pillow.", "I sleep exactly how you described and use a CPAP.\n\nMy pillow is a miracle bamboo or something close to that.\n\nI paid 25 usd for it in 2017.\n\nI can't imagine sleeping without it.", "I like a rectangular buckwheat hull stuffed pillows for side sleeping and the tube shaped one for back sleeping." ]

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[ "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start.", "What is the best way to increase your general knowledge? I have nothing to do in the upcoming month and a half. I think this would be a good time to learn new stuff, but I have no idea how to start." ]

[ "Whenever you hear something mentioned that you don't understand, instead of living in ignorance, or assuming that you are just too stupid to know that shit, make an effort to find out what it is - either ask the person talking to you about it, or go and look it up later.", "Take time everyday to read/watch the news. Read books, you don't have to read some dense philosophy or history book to get alot out of it. Fiction is fine. Another good way to kill time and learn something new are podcasts. Here are a few really great ones. Radiolab, This American Life, Dan Carlin's podcasts Common Sense and Hardcore History, 99% Invisible, Planet Money. ", "Reading newspapers/the news.\nWatching channels like discovery, history, natgeo, etc. \nReading cultural magazines, books.\nAttending various types of events... etc", "You could try /r/OutOfTheLoop to figure out any strange slang.\n\nMaybe learn something musical, maybe learn to sing or play an instrument.", "Watch [Jeopardy!](http://www.jeopardy.com/) every day! If you're in the US a local network affiliate should play the new episodes daily at night and possibly reruns during the day too. Of course there are a bunch of episodes on youtube as well. \n\nI fancy myself a pretty good couch Jeopardy! contestant and I almost always learn something I never knew that will then inspire me to learn more about particular subjects. It also gives me a good idea on what knowledge I'm lacking -- U.S. Presidential history is a tough category for for me which the show often addresses. ", "The New Dictionary of Cultural Literacy:What every American needs to know by Ed. Hirsch is a good one volume to read. \n\n\n", "Keep an open mind, and don't immediately dismiss someone's ideas because you do not understand or agree with them. Allow yourself to think about problems from someone else's perspective.", "Install and play \"Countries of the World\". Just play it 10 minutes a day (on the toilet , or when you're on a break). You'll learn all the countries of the world and their capitals in no time. It's an android app. I'm sure there's an ios version out there.", "You can listen to full archives of university lectures online for free. Podcasts are also fun, Duncan Trussell Family Hour is a good one", "Watching/listening to Joe Rogan Experience podcasts and TED talks is pretty good for a wide variety of knowledge that we can use in a lot of ways. ", "Some good ways to become more knowledgeable. \n1. Podcasts- they usually talk about some interesting stuff and news. \n2. Reddit/YouTube- believe it or not reddit has helped me. Go on /r/news or /r/explainlikeimfive and learn about current things. Also watch videos like CGP Grey or Vsauce. \n3. Wikipedia- just read about anything. Keep a mental tab daily of something you heard or saw that you want to learn about. Remember that on most pages, you can change the language to Simple English to make it easier to understand. ", "Set this as your homepage\n\n http://toolserver.org/~erwin85/randomarticle.php?lang=en&family=wikipedia&categories=Featured+articles\n\nthen read the first paragraph on each page.", "Read Bill Bryson a short history of nearly everything and a history of home. That'll make your general knowledge skyrocket", "My suggestion: Learn about composting and how to grow at least type of food you regularly eat.\n\nI would normally say read a book as others have said.. but YouTube has a DIY video for almost *everything* and you can learn for hours without realizing that it's happening. I've learned about how to paint/draw, how to fix my leaky refrigerator and my clothes dryer, how to conduct myself in a job interview, how to twerk-it (not related to previous example), how to hook up a CPU fan to a regular adapter so I can plug it into a wall, how to do knitting stitches, God the list could go on for days and days. Pick an interest and go with it. ", "Listen to podcasts. This American life and serial are really good. Tested. Com has a really good one. If you like cars, the smoking tire. If you like current events, common sense by Dan Carlin. There are millions out there. ", "I would suggest finding articles on here or elsewhere that claim certain statistics or facts and start researching them yourself. For example, when news about the Cannae drive came out, I decided I needed to learn more about it because it sounded too good to be true.", "Have you heard of Blinkist? It's an app that works essentially like GetAbstract but is much much nicer to read. They have all sorts of books on there (lots of business and self help type of stuff but also classics and other non fiction) and you can look through them for free the first couple of days, and afterwards you still get one free book summary per day.", "Find a subject you are interested in and go on hours of wikiwalks. The random button is great for this! There's also /r/wikipedia :)\n\nPlay trivia games! There are good ones on Android, Quizup for example. \n\nWatch QI! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/QI" ]

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[ "When visiting an in-network hospital, what is your strategy to prevent yourself from getting screwed over financially by out-of-network physicians? ", "When visiting an in-network hospital, what is your strategy to prevent yourself from getting screwed over financially by out-of-network physicians? " ]

[ "You do have a choice over your anesthesiologist or surgical assistants. Talk it over with your surgeon before the operation. \n\nMedical bills are a negotiation. Sometimes you can negotiate before hand, other times you do it afterward. Nothing says you have to accept the amount that shows up on the invoice. From a negotiation stand point, you are in a stronger position to negotiate after the procedure is done. What are they going to do, take the procedure back?\n\nEven if an out of network provider shows up after the fact, you are still free to negotiate with them. It may take a little effort, but you should be able to get them to accept the in-network rate.\n\nThere are attorneys who will take on medical bill negotiations for a percentage of the savings. I don't do it any more, but back in the day I negotiated a $160,000 out of pocket charge for a heart surgery down to something like $60,000 for a farmer with no insurance. I could have gotten even lower, but he was very happy with that amount.", "Read over all the treatment paperwork before you sign it. I always add to my signature.. \"approved for in-network treatments, and assuming all charges are covered unless I'm told otherwise.\" \nIf they don't assign an in-network doctor.. which they don't usually (at least in my metro northern NJ area).. they don't have your signature approving treatment out-of-network. \n\nIt's not immoral; it is business. You and I.. we have never worried about who was getting paid or not. We just let the hospital and insurance handle it. Now, insurers and hospitals are undercutting everyone they can, to keep stockholders happy. I know docs / surgeons who are going broke trying to pay off school loans along with the expenses of starting a practice. I do barter work for them.. helping with networking and wifi in their homes and offices to help them out. \nMost are great docs, but terrible business people. \n\nYou may find that a lot of ER docs aren't in network, either. \n\nWork all this stuff out before you really need emergency surgery, and add your own words to the contract. \n\n\nYou do have a choice. Check with your insurer for an in-network anesthesiologist first, or your surgeon first. Then see the facilities they work with.. and work up from there. \nDon't sign a 'blank check' by approving the form they give you. Ask in advance to make sure all your scheduled docs are in-network. \nChange the contract. In the 10 years I've been adding this, I have only been questioned once. \n\nIf you are given medication before you sign, write down \"signed while under anesthesia\". \nIf you are in pain, or in the emergency room bleeding.. \" signed while under duress / pain/ bleeding and waiting for treatment\". \n\nYou aren't going to get free healthcare this way, but you have a stronger position to fight from. Ask them to accept what the insurer pays.. and ask your insurer to reconsider the bill, and pay what the doc is asking. Find something that all of you can live with. " ]

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[ "How to not smear writing with a G2 pen. I love the pens but I cannot write without making a huge mess on my hand and smudging all my writing. Any suggestions?", "How to not smear writing with a G2 pen. I love the pens but I cannot write without making a huge mess on my hand and smudging all my writing. Any suggestions?", "How to not smear writing with a G2 pen. I love the pens but I cannot write without making a huge mess on my hand and smudging all my writing. Any suggestions?", "How to not smear writing with a G2 pen. I love the pens but I cannot write without making a huge mess on my hand and smudging all my writing. Any suggestions?", "How to not smear writing with a G2 pen. I love the pens but I cannot write without making a huge mess on my hand and smudging all my writing. Any suggestions?" ]

[ "I have a few ideas:\n\n1. Try a smaller size. The 1.0mm pen has a thick line and therefore puts out more ink which then dries slower. Go for 0.7mm or even 0.5mm.\n\n2. Switch to a different pen. I now use Uniball Signo pens which are very similar gel pens to the G2 pens. I switched mostly because I think the Signo is \"smoother\", but I think it also dries faster.", "Don't use gel pens. In terms of ink viscosity, gel>rollerball>ball point. I love the vibrancy of gel, but I tend to smear a bit too. After a bit of reading about pens, I now use different types for different things.", "If you're right handed like me, I write by moving my hand but not my palm. Then ill lift my palm every few works. The distance from the tip of my pen to my hand is greater than how big I write. \n\nAlso try holding the pen higher. Ideally this will make your hand higher too so you don't smear the paper. ", "I absolutely swear by the Zebra SARASA line of pens. Different colours, fairly inexpensive, write very well (IMO) and dry instantly. I don't use anything else.\n\nWrite slowly and let the page dry? Put a piece of blank paper between your hand and your document?", "Being chronically left handed (I'm not even sure what my right hand is for besides symmetry and holding coffee) I make a bridge with my little finger to hold it up. If you don't like that, try a small square of wax paper under your hand, which will stick to it and let it glide around the page without smearing. Your problem may be the paper your writing on - better paper is more absorbent. If you're right handed, you might want to learn the absurd left hand method of writing, essentially up and down rather than side to side. You adapt to it pretty quick. " ]

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[ "What should I be wary of/look for when looking at a first car? Going to check out a potential first car this evening, wondering what I should be checking", "What should I be wary of/look for when looking at a first car? Going to check out a potential first car this evening, wondering what I should be checking", "What should I be wary of/look for when looking at a first car? Going to check out a potential first car this evening, wondering what I should be checking", "What should I be wary of/look for when looking at a first car? Going to check out a potential first car this evening, wondering what I should be checking", "What should I be wary of/look for when looking at a first car? Going to check out a potential first car this evening, wondering what I should be checking" ]

[ "Here are a few off the top of my head. \n\nUnderbody parts that look newer than the rest. Possible damage from an accident. \n\nUneven tire wear. Alignment problems and/or problematic suspension parts. \n\nRust. Suspension parts rusted could mean it's from an area where they salt the roads in the winter OR it's been in a flood. Rust INSIDE the car means it's definitely been under water (I've looked at a car where the seat belt bolts were rusty.)\n\nCheck the hoses and other rubber or plastic parts under the hood. Look for tiny teeth marks that would indicate mice, rats, squirrels. Consider the possibility that there's damage you CAN'T see (like to the wiring harness).\n\nObviously check to make sure the A/C blows cold and the heater blows hot. Look for wet carpet in the front that would indicate a heater core problem.", "If it's a used car, it's a good idea to take a mechanic friend with you to make sure it doesn't have any problems. If you can't do that, see if you can test-drive it to a mechanic for a pre-purchase check. Do this especially if you live in an area that's had a major natural disaster in the last six months, since cars that were destroyed in the disaster (flooded, crushed under trees, etc) will often be repaired cosmetically then resold.\n\nIf you can't go without music during your drive, make sure the speakers work.\n\nIf you have young children or are planning to, make sure the backseat is big enough for car seats and that it has both shoulder and lap belts. Many cars aren't made to properly hold car seats, and you could end up having to move one of the front seats forward to cramped levels or strapping a child in in an unsafe manner.\n\nCheck the spare tire, if there is one. Most people don't replace them very often and it's not unheard of for spare tires to be homes for unwanted pests (ants, wasps, mice).\n\nGood luck!", "Fresh paint job - ✓\n\nFresh inside - ✓\n\nIs the outside frame in the trunk wide?\n\nAre the rims big?\n\nDo it ride good?", "Check bluebook values. Request to take any vehicle you're interested in to a trusted mechanic to look at. If the seller refuses, there's your answer, don't buy the car. Check out cost of maintenance between different brands/models. Low miles is always a good thing. ", "Check KBB.com for value. Make sure it isn't a salvage title. Check that mileage is no, but not suspiciously low. Be wary of private parties tampering with the odometer. Also make sure that the person you are buying the car from has the right to sell it! Is it in their name? " ]

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[ "How to stay focused on a task. I want to write a book, I want to learn spanish, I want to practice guitar, I want to get in shape, I want to learn how to code. I have all these goals, but I always find myself \"losing steam\" shortly after starting and end up playing video games or watching a movie after an hour or two. How do I stay focused on my goal and get my stuff done without getting sidetracked?", "How to stay focused on a task. I want to write a book, I want to learn spanish, I want to practice guitar, I want to get in shape, I want to learn how to code. I have all these goals, but I always find myself \"losing steam\" shortly after starting and end up playing video games or watching a movie after an hour or two. How do I stay focused on my goal and get my stuff done without getting sidetracked?", "How to stay focused on a task. I want to write a book, I want to learn spanish, I want to practice guitar, I want to get in shape, I want to learn how to code. I have all these goals, but I always find myself \"losing steam\" shortly after starting and end up playing video games or watching a movie after an hour or two. How do I stay focused on my goal and get my stuff done without getting sidetracked?" ]

[ "Become obsessed.\n\nThat's the one thing I learned and actually worked for me. CT Fletcher said it in his video 10 Commandments to weightlifting. Though most of the commandments are for people who are lifting weights, you can use it for other things in life too. \n\nCheck it out : [CT Fletcher's 10 Commandments of weightlifting](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=q-6M4uzur8Q) \n\n", "That sounds like my problem. I've learned you have to take everything in stride. Make a plan. Get a calendar. Make a day for guitar lessons, buy a book to help teach you or buy lessons. Make a day to practice Spanish. Schedule a day for classes on the course you want to take. Ultimately what you want to do versus actually doing it requires a plan. Sit down and plan a goal and start there. \n\nI am very scattered even when cleaning my house and have to plan how to do that otherwise I sit on my phone all day {hence what I am doing now}. \n\nIf you have a goal you must plan a goal.\n\nMake sure you also have a day to just be lazy!", "I see the same problem here as everyone else has seemed to point out. Do a lot of activities and see what you like. Don't spend too long trying an activity you don't end up enjoying, but still remember that it takes a lot of practice to get good at anything, and you have to enjoy the process of creating a final product as much as the finished product.\n\nDon't get jealous that one of your friends has a certain skill that you don't have or aren't obsessed with. Follow your own path and eventually you will find a hobby to do that you really enjoy.\n\nI think it's great that you're trying new things already. That's a step further than many people go. \n\nGood luck!" ]

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[ "How to avoid get sprayed when pissing in a urinal? Seriously, I've been using the things for years, can get an MIT education, yet still unintentionally urinate on myself multiple times per week...", "How to avoid get sprayed when pissing in a urinal? Seriously, I've been using the things for years, can get an MIT education, yet still unintentionally urinate on myself multiple times per week...", "How to avoid get sprayed when pissing in a urinal? Seriously, I've been using the things for years, can get an MIT education, yet still unintentionally urinate on myself multiple times per week...", "How to avoid get sprayed when pissing in a urinal? Seriously, I've been using the things for years, can get an MIT education, yet still unintentionally urinate on myself multiple times per week...", "How to avoid get sprayed when pissing in a urinal? Seriously, I've been using the things for years, can get an MIT education, yet still unintentionally urinate on myself multiple times per week...", "How to avoid get sprayed when pissing in a urinal? Seriously, I've been using the things for years, can get an MIT education, yet still unintentionally urinate on myself multiple times per week...", "How to avoid get sprayed when pissing in a urinal? Seriously, I've been using the things for years, can get an MIT education, yet still unintentionally urinate on myself multiple times per week...", "How to avoid get sprayed when pissing in a urinal? Seriously, I've been using the things for years, can get an MIT education, yet still unintentionally urinate on myself multiple times per week..." ]

[ "Pee along the curve of the urinal, or if you have good aim pee through one of the little holes in the matt and the matt will stop the splashback.", "This has been studied scientifically: \n\nhttp://m.phys.org/news/2013-11-university-physicists-urine-splash-back-tactics.html", "Pee on the inside edge of the urinal to the right or left. It takes good aim and practice, but it does minimize splash back", "I usually stand 5-7 meters away from the urinal. Then as I'm winding down I will take paces forward to compensate.", "Yep, this is a question I think all guys have but don't ask.\n\nSeems some urinals cause splashback every time, like they were designed to fuck with us. \n\nIn any case, you could always just piss in a normal toilet. Stalls are nice, no one will compare sizes with you in one, (unless you want them to.)\n*Just don't be /that guy/ that pisses all over the seat.\n\nSeriously, guys. No one even tries to aim any orifice in public restrooms. When I decide to shit in a men's room, it's urgent as fuck. I've never been able to shit in public restrooms without concentrated effort in finding a miraculously clean toilet seat, or having to wipe one off so I can shit without my ass soaking in some dude's urine the whole time. \n\nJust cause I want to rant some more, **why** is there almost always shit stains on *at least* one of the toilets? I mean, seems when I am about to shit my pants at work, there's poop on every seat, and sometimes on the sides, the floor. Hell, wouldn't be surprised to see it on an airport bathroom ceiling. \n\nIt's like there's people who know how urgent it is when people choose to chance a public bathroom, and do their best to get their filth on every surface. ", "MIT terms:\n\nthe less perpendicular your stream is with the surface, the less errant deflection there is.", "Aim for the curve of the bowl so your stream hits it at a 45° angle or less (roughly) that dissipates it rather than splashing. Don't hit the water on a toilet and don't hit the back wall on a urinal. ", "You have to aim for a surface that will not splash back on you; that includes any liquid that might be in the bottom of the urinal, as well as any surface that could be at the \"correct\" angle to get splashed back from. Usually if you aim towards the back vertical surface you are pretty safe from getting splashed back on, just stay above the intersection of the back and the bottom." ]

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[ "How to Drink Responsibly I don't drink all that often, maybe once or twice a month, but I can overdo it at times. It's like sometimes I don't feel myself becoming drunk, even when I've made a pointed effort to examine how each drink affects me. I'll feel completely normal, and the next thing I know, it's the next morning and I don't know what happened. It's like there's nothing gradual about it, and I suddenly slam into a wall with no warning. This doesn't happen every time I drink, but it has happened enough.\n\nI'm not really interested in stopping drinking altogether, so I'm looking for tips or tricks to keep myself in check.\n\n", "How to Drink Responsibly I don't drink all that often, maybe once or twice a month, but I can overdo it at times. It's like sometimes I don't feel myself becoming drunk, even when I've made a pointed effort to examine how each drink affects me. I'll feel completely normal, and the next thing I know, it's the next morning and I don't know what happened. It's like there's nothing gradual about it, and I suddenly slam into a wall with no warning. This doesn't happen every time I drink, but it has happened enough.\n\nI'm not really interested in stopping drinking altogether, so I'm looking for tips or tricks to keep myself in check.\n\n", "How to Drink Responsibly I don't drink all that often, maybe once or twice a month, but I can overdo it at times. It's like sometimes I don't feel myself becoming drunk, even when I've made a pointed effort to examine how each drink affects me. I'll feel completely normal, and the next thing I know, it's the next morning and I don't know what happened. It's like there's nothing gradual about it, and I suddenly slam into a wall with no warning. This doesn't happen every time I drink, but it has happened enough.\n\nI'm not really interested in stopping drinking altogether, so I'm looking for tips or tricks to keep myself in check.\n\n", "How to Drink Responsibly I don't drink all that often, maybe once or twice a month, but I can overdo it at times. It's like sometimes I don't feel myself becoming drunk, even when I've made a pointed effort to examine how each drink affects me. I'll feel completely normal, and the next thing I know, it's the next morning and I don't know what happened. It's like there's nothing gradual about it, and I suddenly slam into a wall with no warning. This doesn't happen every time I drink, but it has happened enough.\n\nI'm not really interested in stopping drinking altogether, so I'm looking for tips or tricks to keep myself in check.\n\n", "How to Drink Responsibly I don't drink all that often, maybe once or twice a month, but I can overdo it at times. It's like sometimes I don't feel myself becoming drunk, even when I've made a pointed effort to examine how each drink affects me. I'll feel completely normal, and the next thing I know, it's the next morning and I don't know what happened. It's like there's nothing gradual about it, and I suddenly slam into a wall with no warning. This doesn't happen every time I drink, but it has happened enough.\n\nI'm not really interested in stopping drinking altogether, so I'm looking for tips or tricks to keep myself in check.\n\n", "How to Drink Responsibly I don't drink all that often, maybe once or twice a month, but I can overdo it at times. It's like sometimes I don't feel myself becoming drunk, even when I've made a pointed effort to examine how each drink affects me. I'll feel completely normal, and the next thing I know, it's the next morning and I don't know what happened. It's like there's nothing gradual about it, and I suddenly slam into a wall with no warning. This doesn't happen every time I drink, but it has happened enough.\n\nI'm not really interested in stopping drinking altogether, so I'm looking for tips or tricks to keep myself in check.\n\n", "How to Drink Responsibly I don't drink all that often, maybe once or twice a month, but I can overdo it at times. It's like sometimes I don't feel myself becoming drunk, even when I've made a pointed effort to examine how each drink affects me. I'll feel completely normal, and the next thing I know, it's the next morning and I don't know what happened. It's like there's nothing gradual about it, and I suddenly slam into a wall with no warning. This doesn't happen every time I drink, but it has happened enough.\n\nI'm not really interested in stopping drinking altogether, so I'm looking for tips or tricks to keep myself in check.\n\n" ]

[ "2 drinks then a water early in the evening for a few cycles, then water every other drink. If it's a long night then transition to 2 waters 1 drink and eventually all water. If you have trouble keeping track of that just make every other drink a water across the board. ", "pace yourself. on average, it takes about 15-30 minutes for you to actually feel the effect of the alcohol consumed - so if you're doing shots or chugging drinks as soon as you start, you're going to feel alright for a while until it all hits you at once. this effect can also be amplified if you're drinking on an empty stomach.\n\nextra fun tip to avoid a hangover: for every glass of alcohol you drink, drink one glass of water. i've been drunk plenty of times, never had a hangover. ", "Yeah, this happens to many of us, till we learn that inebriated stage self control. Sanity goes for a toss after couple of drinks. Maybe you resolve to always tell someone to stop you after few drinks, and when no company maybe you can tell your bartender or bearer? PS: Don't punch them in the face after drunk. ", "Just have to figure out what works for you best, and how much tolerance you have, me for example I don't get blackout drunk until around 20-25 shots in a 2-3 hour period so its not really a problem I encounter often. Just learn your limits and eventually even drunk you can make better decisions.", "If you think that you have already drank too much and want to dial it back again eat bread. it soaks up the alcohol in your stomach.", "Don't drink too quickly. It takes time for the alcohol to get into your system. If you drink like three in fifteen minutes then of course it'll hit you like a freight train. Figure out your own limit by going slow. For me it's usually three beers or two glasses of mixers with hard liquor before I get lightheaded. Then I just stop for a while, twenty minutes or so. If the tipsiness is going away, then choose if you want to continue or not. If it isn't, then stop there. If you feel you're getting too drunk, get something to eat. It helps a lot. ", "Never drank myself (17), but I've heard that 1 drink per hour is a good rule of thumb. I personally wouldn't believe that, since I live in a pretty conservative community, but the idea of limiting yourself to however many drinks in an hour seems like a pretty good one. \n\nAlso, if you're at a bar or something, I would suggest you get something to eat along with your drinks. Apparently having food in your stomach will soak up the alcohol and stop it from fucking you up too badly. " ]

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[ "Buying a used car Any tips on things to ask the seller, how to negotiate, what common tricks to watch out for, etc.", "Buying a used car Any tips on things to ask the seller, how to negotiate, what common tricks to watch out for, etc.", "Buying a used car Any tips on things to ask the seller, how to negotiate, what common tricks to watch out for, etc.", "Buying a used car Any tips on things to ask the seller, how to negotiate, what common tricks to watch out for, etc.", "Buying a used car Any tips on things to ask the seller, how to negotiate, what common tricks to watch out for, etc.", "Buying a used car Any tips on things to ask the seller, how to negotiate, what common tricks to watch out for, etc.", "Buying a used car Any tips on things to ask the seller, how to negotiate, what common tricks to watch out for, etc.", "Buying a used car Any tips on things to ask the seller, how to negotiate, what common tricks to watch out for, etc." ]

[ "I sold cars for 4 years.\n\nMost dealers will buy the used car for \"Fair\" Trade in value, wether its from a trade-in or from a wholesale auction. You can bet that they are \"in\" the car for not more than 1-2k than that value.\n\nStill, knowing that - you can't expect to get anywhere close to that value as a selling price. Its anyone's guess how much money they put into the car to put it on the lot. Body work, new tires, new glass, etc all plays into the selling price, but usually there are at least a few grand that they have as profit.\n\nProtip: Buy a Nissan from a Nissan dealer, a Honda from a Honda dealer, a Toyota from a Toyota dealer. Why? The cars are usually \"certified\" by the manufacturer, meaning you get a warranty with the car and the option to extend that warranty. DO NOT under ANY circumstances buy a 3rd party warranty. On the other hand, buying a manufacturer's own extended warranty can often be a good idea. I sold my own mother an extended warranty (60 month, 100k mile) on her Nissan 350Z when she bought it.\n\nGood luck, and remember, a good deal is a STATE OF MIND (not a certain price).\n\nAlso, talk to the internet department. They cut through the bullshit the quickest, and have the easiest time leaning on the sales managers to take a deal (meaning you get a better deal much easier - usually).", "[This is a little dated now, but it a very good read.](http://www.edmunds.com/car-buying/confessions-of-a-car-salesman.html) Even though it is really long. \n\n[Popular Mechanics just did this pretty good article on how to inspect a used car.](http://www.popularmechanics.com/cars/how-to/repair/how-to-buy-a-used-car-without-getting-burned) Download the PDF.", "A great deal of auto repair shops will look over a used car for you for around $50. I wish I would have known this before I bought my last car. It would have saved me a great deal of money on repairs, or gave me grounds for negotiating the price down.", "the only things I can think of are to check the blue book value and go from there, and have a knowledgeable friend check the car for you, to avoid lemons.", "Maybe this is common knowledge, but it seems that no one has said it yet. Walk in to buy any car with the money you can spend in hand, be that money saved or a loan. Don't go in and work with a dealership on a price then get a loan through them. You'll end up spending more than you expected and paying more in the long run. Also be willing to walk away from the car, don't get emotionally attached to it or once again you'll end up overspending. ", "[Just what the doctor ordered](http://www.reddit.com/r/reddit.com/comments/iw4s7/my_girlfriend_just_got_fucked_at_the_car/)", "I've always felt better about buying privately than from a dealer. Never bought from a dealer, in fact, because every tine I've looked at a used car at a lot I've got the high-pressure and the car's turned out to be pretty sketch. \n\nCarFax. Research common problems. *Take it to a mechanic you trust* before you buy. Seriously, $100 - I've never spent more on a preliminary inspection - gives you so much peace of mind and (potentially) saves you so much money in the long run - it's essential.", "Bought a used car not too long ago with my mechanic grandfather. Definitely bring a mechanic in as suggested by someone else. Make sure the frame is straight and the title matches the deed. \nAnd if they make an offer (say you want to pay 600 and they want 800, and he suggests you split the difference) just ignore the offer as if they never said anything. Unless they REALLY know salesmanship this will get them nervous and they're more willing to part with it, especially if you're buying from a third party. Not really a recommended place to do it, but if you're willing to put in some work (google can teach you quite a bit about how!) it's alright." ]

[ 8, 3, 3, 2, 2, 1, 1, 1 ]

[ "How to remove a bad oil stain on my driveway. My car has been leaking oil, can't afford to get it fixed just yet. But, Home Owners Assoc, is all over my back about the stains. HELP!", "How to remove a bad oil stain on my driveway. My car has been leaking oil, can't afford to get it fixed just yet. But, Home Owners Assoc, is all over my back about the stains. HELP!", "How to remove a bad oil stain on my driveway. My car has been leaking oil, can't afford to get it fixed just yet. But, Home Owners Assoc, is all over my back about the stains. HELP!", "How to remove a bad oil stain on my driveway. My car has been leaking oil, can't afford to get it fixed just yet. But, Home Owners Assoc, is all over my back about the stains. HELP!", "How to remove a bad oil stain on my driveway. My car has been leaking oil, can't afford to get it fixed just yet. But, Home Owners Assoc, is all over my back about the stains. HELP!", "How to remove a bad oil stain on my driveway. My car has been leaking oil, can't afford to get it fixed just yet. But, Home Owners Assoc, is all over my back about the stains. HELP!", "How to remove a bad oil stain on my driveway. My car has been leaking oil, can't afford to get it fixed just yet. But, Home Owners Assoc, is all over my back about the stains. HELP!", "How to remove a bad oil stain on my driveway. My car has been leaking oil, can't afford to get it fixed just yet. But, Home Owners Assoc, is all over my back about the stains. HELP!" ]

[ "Try brake cleaner! Mind you this is a shot in the dark, but I swear my dad uses that stuff to clean up oil and everything else messy. Also I'm a girl so I don't know exactly what I'm talking about but hey, it's worth a shot right?", "Try using WD40. Apply generously, to the tainted area. use a brush to agitate the surface where the stain is. and after this, rinse with water.\n\nGoogle is full of information about this.", "Sprinkle enough TSP on the oil covered concrete surface to create a mound. Apply hot water to this mound to create a slurry. Use a coarse/stiff brush and agitate the area for as long as you can muster. Spray with a hose.\n\nYou can try repeating and increasing the dwell time before you rinse, if you aren't satisfied. ", "Put a piece of weighed down cardboard or something until you get it fixed not to make the stains worse. I had this problem too at one point and had to pay pro cleaners to do the work and even then it wasn't perfect. And they used heavy duty chemicals that require a license.", "If it's a concrete driveway, soak up the oil with baking soda or cat litter. Sweep that up, apply degreaser and then pressure wash. Or, hire professional cleaners to do it. We have to do ours every year (association demands it here too) and that's how the people we hire do it. ", "I had the same issue and nothing really worked. It took about a year for the stains to go away.\n\nYou can first use sand to absorb as much oil as possible. You will have to do this multiple times and leave it overnight.\nNext go and get some cheap dishwashing liquid from the dollar store and pour each bottle over a large stain. Leave overnight, wash and then repeat.", "Dish soap (letting it sit 15 minutes should be plenty) + Pressure washer IMO\n\nIf they used it by dumping it in the gulf to clean up the BP oil spill a few years ago, I'm thinking it should do the trick on your driveway. ", "Anything orange oil based works very well for removing oil and grease. I usually keep some orange oil based dish detergent around for stuff like this." ]

[ 3, 2, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

[ "How to get rid of the smelly waterbottle odor you know the plastic waterbottles that smells like old sponges and dish rags", "How to get rid of the smelly waterbottle odor you know the plastic waterbottles that smells like old sponges and dish rags", "How to get rid of the smelly waterbottle odor you know the plastic waterbottles that smells like old sponges and dish rags", "How to get rid of the smelly waterbottle odor you know the plastic waterbottles that smells like old sponges and dish rags", "How to get rid of the smelly waterbottle odor you know the plastic waterbottles that smells like old sponges and dish rags", "How to get rid of the smelly waterbottle odor you know the plastic waterbottles that smells like old sponges and dish rags" ]

[ "buy a new one, seriously. when it stinks it means bad shit is growing in there. don't risk ingesting that crap. ", "You can safely and completely disinfect it with a bleach and water mixture. You can even let it sit in the bottle overnight. Empty and rinse with hottest water and you're ready to go. ", "Use those tabs people use for cleaning dentures. Just full the bottle and put in two of those, let sit for a while, then empty it and rinse thoroughly. Works every time.", "Run it through the dishwasher (if it's dishwasher safe, obviously). That's what I do when my nalgene starts to get mildew-smelly", "I usually put a few drops of dish liquid soap in the bottle, fill it up, and shake it with the lid on. Leave the soapy water in for a few hours or even overnight and then rise. Super easy. ", "I soak mine in a mixture of baking soda and apple vinegar overnight, then rinse well. It seems to knock it out" ]

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[ "How to not flinch I am a big flincher, even when I know there is no reason to flinch. Sometimes I'll flinch even when someone goes to give me a high five. Is there any way to keep myself from flinching like an idiot?", "How to not flinch I am a big flincher, even when I know there is no reason to flinch. Sometimes I'll flinch even when someone goes to give me a high five. Is there any way to keep myself from flinching like an idiot?", "How to not flinch I am a big flincher, even when I know there is no reason to flinch. Sometimes I'll flinch even when someone goes to give me a high five. Is there any way to keep myself from flinching like an idiot?", "How to not flinch I am a big flincher, even when I know there is no reason to flinch. Sometimes I'll flinch even when someone goes to give me a high five. Is there any way to keep myself from flinching like an idiot?", "How to not flinch I am a big flincher, even when I know there is no reason to flinch. Sometimes I'll flinch even when someone goes to give me a high five. Is there any way to keep myself from flinching like an idiot?", "How to not flinch I am a big flincher, even when I know there is no reason to flinch. Sometimes I'll flinch even when someone goes to give me a high five. Is there any way to keep myself from flinching like an idiot?", "How to not flinch I am a big flincher, even when I know there is no reason to flinch. Sometimes I'll flinch even when someone goes to give me a high five. Is there any way to keep myself from flinching like an idiot?", "How to not flinch I am a big flincher, even when I know there is no reason to flinch. Sometimes I'll flinch even when someone goes to give me a high five. Is there any way to keep myself from flinching like an idiot?" ]

[ "There's two ways of dealing with this, largely; there's moving your natural response from flinching to another unconscious response, such as stepping back, shifting your weight onto your back foot such as /u/Rhenthalin recommended, in which cr", "When your making toast, get close to the toaster, and wait for the toast to pop. This trains your patience for something your expecting, which is generally why people flinch in the first place. We are over anticipating that something bad or good is going to happen. learning to wait. Will help ready yourself for whatever the flinch maybe. your a Jedi knight when it pops and you don't flinch. or even better you catch the toast. Now your flinch is at climax and you will find over time, you wont even flitch unless its truly required. (Non-professional response)", "Went through this exact situation, eventually got advice that you should practice letting cold water hit you in the shower. It worked amazingly ! Try this and see if it helps you also.", "I recommend hiring a manservant to surprise attack you regularly.\n\n[Cato and Clouseau training exercises](http://youtu.be/IA8QrOAghZ0)", "I do/try to control a similar behavior. I have some good friends that help me practice. I think my responses are physically how my body responds. Things like low hanging branches or wind chimes cause a sudden involuntary reaction, and spider webs can be horrific. To safely desensitize my-self, my dog and I play sudden tag where my dog gets to play fight, also my friends are always willing to tease me when I ask. I think the best thing I did for myself was to acknowledge that my body has a perimeter alarm system that is very touchy. (Non-professional response)", "Accept that you're going to get hit. As a boxer, blinking is a big issue. The worst part is the only time I have to practice not blinking is when I'm supposed to be focusing on strategy and not getting hit. Sometimes I'll just eat a light punch like a jab just to get over it.", "I was training a saber fencer with this issue. My recommendation is to channel that reflex into a step back, This will open the distance and give you time to parry and riposte.\n", "Sorry you were born with the brain of a squirrel. The only thing you can do is medicate yourself to such an extent that your flinch response is subdued.\n\nOn the plus side you have a better chance than most of dodging fast moving projectives." ]

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[ "I'm looking to spend an hour or two on my day off and make my computer more efficient. What should I do? I'm just going to block some time out to address some typical issues and do some preventative maintenance.\n\nCouple of things already on the list, troubleshoot my \"graphics driver has stopped working and recovered\" issue, clean up which programs start when I boot up my computer, and uninstall some bloatware. Not sure if I need to defrag my hard drive, but I might want to.\n\nAny other simple things I can do to smooth my computer's performance without voiding my warranty or learning a coding language? I have Windows 10 and my most used programs are Chrome, Steam, MS Word and VLC Player. Thanks!", "I'm looking to spend an hour or two on my day off and make my computer more efficient. What should I do? I'm just going to block some time out to address some typical issues and do some preventative maintenance.\n\nCouple of things already on the list, troubleshoot my \"graphics driver has stopped working and recovered\" issue, clean up which programs start when I boot up my computer, and uninstall some bloatware. Not sure if I need to defrag my hard drive, but I might want to.\n\nAny other simple things I can do to smooth my computer's performance without voiding my warranty or learning a coding language? I have Windows 10 and my most used programs are Chrome, Steam, MS Word and VLC Player. Thanks!", "I'm looking to spend an hour or two on my day off and make my computer more efficient. What should I do? I'm just going to block some time out to address some typical issues and do some preventative maintenance.\n\nCouple of things already on the list, troubleshoot my \"graphics driver has stopped working and recovered\" issue, clean up which programs start when I boot up my computer, and uninstall some bloatware. Not sure if I need to defrag my hard drive, but I might want to.\n\nAny other simple things I can do to smooth my computer's performance without voiding my warranty or learning a coding language? I have Windows 10 and my most used programs are Chrome, Steam, MS Word and VLC Player. Thanks!", "I'm looking to spend an hour or two on my day off and make my computer more efficient. What should I do? I'm just going to block some time out to address some typical issues and do some preventative maintenance.\n\nCouple of things already on the list, troubleshoot my \"graphics driver has stopped working and recovered\" issue, clean up which programs start when I boot up my computer, and uninstall some bloatware. Not sure if I need to defrag my hard drive, but I might want to.\n\nAny other simple things I can do to smooth my computer's performance without voiding my warranty or learning a coding language? I have Windows 10 and my most used programs are Chrome, Steam, MS Word and VLC Player. Thanks!", "I'm looking to spend an hour or two on my day off and make my computer more efficient. What should I do? I'm just going to block some time out to address some typical issues and do some preventative maintenance.\n\nCouple of things already on the list, troubleshoot my \"graphics driver has stopped working and recovered\" issue, clean up which programs start when I boot up my computer, and uninstall some bloatware. Not sure if I need to defrag my hard drive, but I might want to.\n\nAny other simple things I can do to smooth my computer's performance without voiding my warranty or learning a coding language? I have Windows 10 and my most used programs are Chrome, Steam, MS Word and VLC Player. Thanks!" ]

[ "You might want to use Geek Uninstaller for removing the bloatware, as it checks the pc for leftovers after using the default uninstaller, and let's you force the uninstallation of some problematic softwares", "* Run adwcleaner http://www.bleepingcomputer.com/download/adwcleaner/\n\n* See if there are any updated drivers needed for your graphic card and other devices\n\n* Install Ghostery, Facebook Disconnect, for starters\n\n* Here's a chrome cleanup tool from Google http://www.bleepingcomputer.com/download/chrome-cleanup-tool/", "if you're using windows 10 you can turn off programs that are run when the pc is booted simply through the task manager. This works particularly well if you have a lot of software on your system. If not Windows 10, type msconfig into the search.", "Do you have a good solid ssd ? If not, consider purchasing and perform a fresh Windows install onto one. A solid state boot drive can be had for relatively cheap and really breathes new life into any pc, especially the older systems. Put your OS and all your utilities and most frequently used programs onto it. Takes some time to do but so worth the investment. ", "I recommend trying out rainmeter, basically you can create a custom ui on top of your wallpaper so that you have all the immediate information you need like weather and whatnot. Plus, it makes your computer look really good" ]

[ 4, 4, 2, 2, -2 ]

[ "How to remove oil from car seat upholstery So I have fabric car seat upholstery and I accidentally left a greasy bag of food on the seat. Now there is a big ugly grease stain (oops). I've done a bit of research on this and tried a couple things, but nothing has seemed to work yet.\n\nI was hoping someone here might have a magic oil removal method.", "How to remove oil from car seat upholstery So I have fabric car seat upholstery and I accidentally left a greasy bag of food on the seat. Now there is a big ugly grease stain (oops). I've done a bit of research on this and tried a couple things, but nothing has seemed to work yet.\n\nI was hoping someone here might have a magic oil removal method.", "How to remove oil from car seat upholstery So I have fabric car seat upholstery and I accidentally left a greasy bag of food on the seat. Now there is a big ugly grease stain (oops). I've done a bit of research on this and tried a couple things, but nothing has seemed to work yet.\n\nI was hoping someone here might have a magic oil removal method." ]

[ "Try an upholstery cleaner. SpotShot is a good one, so is Resolve. You'll probably need to apply it a few times. ", "Have you tried baby powder? It may not completely get rid of the spot, but it should reduce it by absorbing a good amount of the oil. ", "Sprinkle with baby powder or cornstarch, and let it sit a couple days. Vacuum it off, and if it's not all the way gone, wash it using Dawn dish soap. Yes, Dawn specifically. It works the best." ]

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[ "Where can I donate leftover Halloween candy? Had one tricker-treater tonight. One. And I have like 60 candy bars that ideally would go to kids who would really appreciate them. Ideas?", "Where can I donate leftover Halloween candy? Had one tricker-treater tonight. One. And I have like 60 candy bars that ideally would go to kids who would really appreciate them. Ideas?", "Where can I donate leftover Halloween candy? Had one tricker-treater tonight. One. And I have like 60 candy bars that ideally would go to kids who would really appreciate them. Ideas?", "Where can I donate leftover Halloween candy? Had one tricker-treater tonight. One. And I have like 60 candy bars that ideally would go to kids who would really appreciate them. Ideas?", "Where can I donate leftover Halloween candy? Had one tricker-treater tonight. One. And I have like 60 candy bars that ideally would go to kids who would really appreciate them. Ideas?", "Where can I donate leftover Halloween candy? Had one tricker-treater tonight. One. And I have like 60 candy bars that ideally would go to kids who would really appreciate them. Ideas?", "Where can I donate leftover Halloween candy? Had one tricker-treater tonight. One. And I have like 60 candy bars that ideally would go to kids who would really appreciate them. Ideas?" ]

[ "Maybe a battered women's shelter? I'd imagine there would be a few kids in there who would appreciate it.", "I will be taking mine to work and leaving it in the break room. It will be gone by the end of the day.\n", "There's various sites that send candy to troops overseas. \n\nhttps://opgrat.wordpress.com/2013/07/18/halloween-candy-for-the-troops/. \n\nOr a local food pantry/food bank would maybe take it. ", "My dentist and the kid's orthodontist both collect candy this week and send it to the troops overseas. ", "Give it to a local church, my Mom works with the Pantry at one. Last time I visited she bought stuff for my 5 year old that he didn't eat, quite a bit. I apologized for her wasting all that money on it. \n\nShe said, \"I'll just take it to the church with me, the homeless and poor never get to have fun stuff like this.\" ", "me pls. I'm almost 22 and I don't have any kids. I love candy but don't have enough extra money to buy my own. Candy is expensive!", "If you want I'll pay for shipping and the candy cost if you will ship to me, tragically got sick two days ago and havnt moved my body.. This will make me go to mailbox." ]

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[ "How to start or sustain a conversation with someone who you know well, but don't have much in common with. ", "How to start or sustain a conversation with someone who you know well, but don't have much in common with. ", "How to start or sustain a conversation with someone who you know well, but don't have much in common with. " ]

[ "Take an interest in their interests. Even if you don't have something in common, most people are passionate about something, and will be happy to talk about it if you ask. Even if it's not something you'd normally be interested in, people that really love their job/hobbies will generally talk about it in an interesting way.\n\nWho knows, maybe you'll find some new interests too after hearing about them, then you'll have something in common.", "People *love* talking about themselves. Fake enthusiasm for one question (yeah, sucks) but will get them on a conversation train stopping at guilt station when they've rambled for long enough.", "1.\"If you could have dinner tomorrow with anyone who is ALIVE or ever lived, who would it be?\" \n\nNext. \"What real talent would you like to have?\" \n\n " ]

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[ "I can't burp. After 2 - 3 beers, the air in my throat starts to make me feel uncomfortable. How can I relieve it? I can't burp. Plenty of people have tried 'teaching' me but I just can't physically do it.\nAfter 2 to 3 beers I start to feel really uncomfortable. The only way I can feel better is by hanging over the toilet and trying to vomit, which will result in me making a horrible throaty noise so air comes out.\nIt's kinda gross though, and it doesn't always work, so I'm looking for an alternative.\nAnyone else got this problem?\n\nThanks!", "I can't burp. After 2 - 3 beers, the air in my throat starts to make me feel uncomfortable. How can I relieve it? I can't burp. Plenty of people have tried 'teaching' me but I just can't physically do it.\nAfter 2 to 3 beers I start to feel really uncomfortable. The only way I can feel better is by hanging over the toilet and trying to vomit, which will result in me making a horrible throaty noise so air comes out.\nIt's kinda gross though, and it doesn't always work, so I'm looking for an alternative.\nAnyone else got this problem?\n\nThanks!", "I can't burp. After 2 - 3 beers, the air in my throat starts to make me feel uncomfortable. How can I relieve it? I can't burp. Plenty of people have tried 'teaching' me but I just can't physically do it.\nAfter 2 to 3 beers I start to feel really uncomfortable. The only way I can feel better is by hanging over the toilet and trying to vomit, which will result in me making a horrible throaty noise so air comes out.\nIt's kinda gross though, and it doesn't always work, so I'm looking for an alternative.\nAnyone else got this problem?\n\nThanks!", "I can't burp. After 2 - 3 beers, the air in my throat starts to make me feel uncomfortable. How can I relieve it? I can't burp. Plenty of people have tried 'teaching' me but I just can't physically do it.\nAfter 2 to 3 beers I start to feel really uncomfortable. The only way I can feel better is by hanging over the toilet and trying to vomit, which will result in me making a horrible throaty noise so air comes out.\nIt's kinda gross though, and it doesn't always work, so I'm looking for an alternative.\nAnyone else got this problem?\n\nThanks!", "I can't burp. After 2 - 3 beers, the air in my throat starts to make me feel uncomfortable. How can I relieve it? I can't burp. Plenty of people have tried 'teaching' me but I just can't physically do it.\nAfter 2 to 3 beers I start to feel really uncomfortable. The only way I can feel better is by hanging over the toilet and trying to vomit, which will result in me making a horrible throaty noise so air comes out.\nIt's kinda gross though, and it doesn't always work, so I'm looking for an alternative.\nAnyone else got this problem?\n\nThanks!", "I can't burp. After 2 - 3 beers, the air in my throat starts to make me feel uncomfortable. How can I relieve it? I can't burp. Plenty of people have tried 'teaching' me but I just can't physically do it.\nAfter 2 to 3 beers I start to feel really uncomfortable. The only way I can feel better is by hanging over the toilet and trying to vomit, which will result in me making a horrible throaty noise so air comes out.\nIt's kinda gross though, and it doesn't always work, so I'm looking for an alternative.\nAnyone else got this problem?\n\nThanks!", "I can't burp. After 2 - 3 beers, the air in my throat starts to make me feel uncomfortable. How can I relieve it? I can't burp. Plenty of people have tried 'teaching' me but I just can't physically do it.\nAfter 2 to 3 beers I start to feel really uncomfortable. The only way I can feel better is by hanging over the toilet and trying to vomit, which will result in me making a horrible throaty noise so air comes out.\nIt's kinda gross though, and it doesn't always work, so I'm looking for an alternative.\nAnyone else got this problem?\n\nThanks!", "I can't burp. After 2 - 3 beers, the air in my throat starts to make me feel uncomfortable. How can I relieve it? I can't burp. Plenty of people have tried 'teaching' me but I just can't physically do it.\nAfter 2 to 3 beers I start to feel really uncomfortable. The only way I can feel better is by hanging over the toilet and trying to vomit, which will result in me making a horrible throaty noise so air comes out.\nIt's kinda gross though, and it doesn't always work, so I'm looking for an alternative.\nAnyone else got this problem?\n\nThanks!", "I can't burp. After 2 - 3 beers, the air in my throat starts to make me feel uncomfortable. How can I relieve it? I can't burp. Plenty of people have tried 'teaching' me but I just can't physically do it.\nAfter 2 to 3 beers I start to feel really uncomfortable. The only way I can feel better is by hanging over the toilet and trying to vomit, which will result in me making a horrible throaty noise so air comes out.\nIt's kinda gross though, and it doesn't always work, so I'm looking for an alternative.\nAnyone else got this problem?\n\nThanks!" ]

[ "I have the same problem. My entire life I have been unable to though very very rarely I'll accidentally burp and freak myself out. ", "Have you tried half-swallowing a piece of spaghetti (cooked)? Hold one end of it, and swallow the other. This will make a sort of channel that gasses in your stomach/esophagus can follow to escape.\n\nOf course, that might make you feel better, but not really an option in most social situations. :)", "Swallow some air down your windpipe and contract your diaphram to force it out.\n\nI'm not sure how to describe it other than like that. Forcing myself to burp even without carbonation has always come naturally.", "Not a tip unfortunately but it sounds like you may have hiatal hernia - not dangerous by itself, just means that your diaphragm doesn't cling to the outside of your esophagus as tightly as it should so you don't get the force required for burping. If you also tend to get heartburn/acid reflux, that's another side effect of the hernia. ", "Look for any OTC medication containing simethicone. Gas-X is a common one in the US.\n\nETA: it works by counteracting the surface tension of the gas bubbles in your gut, making it waaaaay easier to burp. Or fart, later. \n\nTrust me, I'm a mom.", "I have exactly the same issue. I actually gave up drinking beer because of it. I normally have club soda with tequila and lime. The club soda isn't quite as bad as beer but not far off. \n\nGasx will help and is worth a try. Target do a copy one which has the same active ingredients.\n\nThis won't help when you're out, but I find lying on my left side when in bed will often release gas. Not burping, more so just kinda bubbles you can hear popping. \n\nI feel your pain, I've had it for as long as I can remember. \n ", "I can burp, but I have this problem when drinking beer. I make a noise a low pitched Uhhhhh and after a few seconds it works like a charm and I burp. I also read about drinking baking soda in water. Tastes bad but it made me burp like crazy.\n", "Do you sometimes make a gurgling sound instead of a burp? And it isnt really satisfying? I had this all my life but there is hope. You have to start by convincing yourself that you can burp. Every time you feel the need to burp try and force itt out by tensing your diaphragm any muscle in your throat etc. You will be sick in your mouth a few times but it is well worth it. Switching to non carbonated alcoholic drinks helped me a lot (spirits and fruit juice?) ", "Use a long hollow needle and insert it into your trachea, depress and attach a enema bulb to the end, repeat until comfortable." ]

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[ "what is the best approach to take with cross-eyed people? Especially when it's hard to tell which eye is \"the good eye\"? ", "what is the best approach to take with cross-eyed people? Especially when it's hard to tell which eye is \"the good eye\"? ", "what is the best approach to take with cross-eyed people? Especially when it's hard to tell which eye is \"the good eye\"? ", "what is the best approach to take with cross-eyed people? Especially when it's hard to tell which eye is \"the good eye\"? " ]

[ "I had a buddy that was cross-eyed, both his eyes were \"the good eye\" and he could shift his focus from one to the other. I got in the habit of brushing my nose with my hand when I'd start talking with him and then seeing which eye looked at my hand.", "Don't look at their eyes. Flutter your eyes every so often between different parts of their face near their eyes (eyebrows, nose, etc) as it feels like you aren't intently staring at them or trying to avoid them. Little tip I learned in drama class. ", "Whenever I look someone in the eye, I actually try to look at the bridge of their nose between the eyes. Saves you from switching your focus back and forth. I would imagine it also works when making eye contact with cross-eyed or lazy-eyed people.", "Hi there! My eyes are just slightly off from each other and I switch focus back and forth between them. I think most people don't even notice that they are slightly off (or they just don't say).\n\nI can tell if someone is looking into my \"wrong\" eye, but it doesn't really bother me. If I am comfortable with someone, then I just point to my \"good\" eye and tell them to look at that one. \n\nSome of the telltale signs of someone's \"good\" and \"bad\" eye that you can look out for is a subtle head tilt and favoring one side. They might hold something slightly to the side or turn their head to the side to look at something. I know I turn my head to the left (bringing the right closer to an object) and hold things slightly to my right. I also try to be on specific sides of people and even tilt my head slightly when talking to someone to get a better view of their own eyes and catch their gaze. \n\nI hope this helps! If you need any more clarification, just ask!" ]

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[ "If staying over at someone's place overnight for free, find out their schedule for the next day. While Couchsurfing or staying at a friend's or relative's overnight, asking them what their schedule is for the next day/week gives you an idea of when to wake up (and maybe catch up for breakfast before they head into a work day), managing check-in/check-out/logistics, how to help them as a thank you, etc. \n\nI know this isn't always necessary but having hosted a few people myself, I found that this little chat goes a long way. I've felt heard and seen and when I did the same, I've likewise felt welcomed.", "If staying over at someone's place overnight for free, find out their schedule for the next day. While Couchsurfing or staying at a friend's or relative's overnight, asking them what their schedule is for the next day/week gives you an idea of when to wake up (and maybe catch up for breakfast before they head into a work day), managing check-in/check-out/logistics, how to help them as a thank you, etc. \n\nI know this isn't always necessary but having hosted a few people myself, I found that this little chat goes a long way. I've felt heard and seen and when I did the same, I've likewise felt welcomed.", "If staying over at someone's place overnight for free, find out their schedule for the next day. While Couchsurfing or staying at a friend's or relative's overnight, asking them what their schedule is for the next day/week gives you an idea of when to wake up (and maybe catch up for breakfast before they head into a work day), managing check-in/check-out/logistics, how to help them as a thank you, etc. \n\nI know this isn't always necessary but having hosted a few people myself, I found that this little chat goes a long way. I've felt heard and seen and when I did the same, I've likewise felt welcomed.", "If staying over at someone's place overnight for free, find out their schedule for the next day. While Couchsurfing or staying at a friend's or relative's overnight, asking them what their schedule is for the next day/week gives you an idea of when to wake up (and maybe catch up for breakfast before they head into a work day), managing check-in/check-out/logistics, how to help them as a thank you, etc. \n\nI know this isn't always necessary but having hosted a few people myself, I found that this little chat goes a long way. I've felt heard and seen and when I did the same, I've likewise felt welcomed." ]

[ "When I have people over, the *last* thing I want before work is to be social. Ugh. I actively encourage guests to sleep in", "+1\n\nDon’t be like my husband’s aunt, who, when we didn’t wake up at 6:00 am on a Sunday as she did (though unbeknownst to us), decided to just leave our house and drive back home without a goodbye or any acknowledgment because we weren’t up early enough.", "If you're an uninvited guest yes. I own a place in a major city so I end up with friends and family asking to stay all the time. I really don't mind but I had one guest who was told specifically I had a dinner party for my birthday at a specific time, she was welcome to join or leave but she made it clear she wanted to stay and just do what she wanted. I ended up just going to restaurant because she was such a pain about it, the food was really good and I didn't have to clean up so it wasn't a pain. It was just annoying because I'd set it in stone at that specific time and already told her it was a requirement of staying at mine to give me space that day- she didn't know the friends but they would have been nice to her!", "Honestly I've had too many guests over stay their welcome. Sometimes after a guest stays I'd like them to leave mid afternoon, after lunch, so I can unwind from the social occasion but they end up staying until much later and I end up not getting anything done." ]

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[ "How to focus on reading a textbook I don't know if it's just very dull material or if there is too much distraction around me, but I can not focus on reading from a textbook for the life of me. And even if I do get through a paragraph without reading it 3 times, it doesn't stick to memory.\n\nGot Tips?", "How to focus on reading a textbook I don't know if it's just very dull material or if there is too much distraction around me, but I can not focus on reading from a textbook for the life of me. And even if I do get through a paragraph without reading it 3 times, it doesn't stick to memory.\n\nGot Tips?", "How to focus on reading a textbook I don't know if it's just very dull material or if there is too much distraction around me, but I can not focus on reading from a textbook for the life of me. And even if I do get through a paragraph without reading it 3 times, it doesn't stick to memory.\n\nGot Tips?", "How to focus on reading a textbook I don't know if it's just very dull material or if there is too much distraction around me, but I can not focus on reading from a textbook for the life of me. And even if I do get through a paragraph without reading it 3 times, it doesn't stick to memory.\n\nGot Tips?" ]

[ "Usually reading a textbook is all about environment. You need to be in a place with minimal distraction BUT medium stimulation. If you're sitting in a grey room in semi-comfortable chair, your senses will soon crave for any kind of stimulation, but if you're listening to quiet music (preferably without lyrics) and you have people walking by now and then, you'll feel more relaxed and be able to concentrate more.\n\nAlso good lighting is key.", "Take notes, I write down all the information I think is necessary it keeps you focused and ''actively'' reading the material. At the end of each section in a chapter (e.i. 3.1, 3.2, 3.3 etc.) I like to write down a quick summary and then again at the end of the chapter, I also like to go through and highlight the words I defined or important topics that will also help you study and the more times you actively go over the material the better it will stick in your mind. ", "As you are reading, summarize the information in your head (maybe after each paragraph). It sounds like your problem is that you're just looking at letters and sounding out words but not comprehending and analyzing the material. You can also pretend that you are teaching whatever it is you're reading about to someone else who doesn't know the subject. This makes you think about the material on a deeper level since you have to explain it in your own words. If possible, actually explain what you are reading to someone. I would sometimes summarize my chemistry lecture notes to my girlfriend. Teaching is the best way to learn.", "I don't know if it works for everyone, but for MEEEEE, I sit somewhere comfortable. The room is normally dark except for a lamp directly next to me. Then I put headphones in and listen to \"M" ]

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I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? 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I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?", "How to quickly stop an overhead fire-sprinkler that you accidentally triggered? I was putting some stuff away in my apartment closet, noticed the fire sprinkler overhead, and realized how royally fucked I would be if I accidentally hit it.\n\nMany apartment complexes do not give residents access to the waterline that supplies the sprinklers; you need to wait for the firefighters to arrive. **It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.**\n\nObviously renters insurance is smart, but are there any quick solutions to this problem which don't require a $50 specialty clamp wrench you need to carry around all the time?" ]

[ "Trying to overlook the fact that your username is Gabe Newell and hope you take me seriously when I say you should look for the shut off VALVE. ", "A small wooden wedge. It goes in the place of the broken heat link and puts the head back into a non-flow condition. Source: trained firefighter here. ", "I install sprinkler systems for a living. Depending on your building size and whether or not it has a fire pump, your looking at 500+ gallons a minute coming out of that hole. That's an insane amount of water. \n\nI do this for a living and if I accidentally pull a live head I can't do anything to stop it except run to the valve and shut it. The amount of water coming out prevents you from catching the threads again. It's really an insane amount of water. \n\nThat being said, most valves are chained shut. But you can open the drain (should be located right next to the valve) and alleviate some pressure in the system. The control valve should be located in a stairwell. But it is required by law to have a sign. So If you don't see it in a stairwell, look for a access panel in a ceiling or on a wall labeled something like \"sprinkler control valve\" Or maybe something like \"main control valve\" sprinkler piping is supposed to be painted red but a lot of times it gets overlooked. Or painted over and no one cares. ", "Our hotel used to carry these: http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B008CGN88U/ref=pd_aw_sims_1?pi=AC_SX230_QL60\n\nIt's called the Shotgun, and it would help you to stop a sprinkler that had gone awry. \n\nSaving costly repairs from an unintentional sprinkler break. ", "There was a shark tank product invented by a fireman that was created in case this exact thing happened. Should be easy to find.", "I turned your problem over to my engineering division, which tonight consists of my buddy's 12 year old and the kid across the street. They've concluded that you're going to need some duck tape, a plastic container large enough to fit over the sprinkler and direct the water downward, and as many of these [flexible downspout extenders](http://www.homedepot.com/p/Flex-A-Spout-Stone-Downspout-Extension-85014/202091105) as you'll need to reach the closest drain or perhaps the closest window. \n\nPut the plastic container over the sprinkler to direct the water down. Tape the first flexible extender to the container and then continue attaching extenders until you send your water elsewhere. They figure if you build it all ahead of time, you can just pull it out and attach it when you finally set off the sprinkler.", "Just set the flat on fire in case you start a sprinkler accidentally.\n\nIt will make the water evaporate", "I install fire systems for a living also, and like others have said, the wedges don't work too well. The best you can do without buying a special tool is divert the water outside somehow. Most buildings have the system controls in a locked room so getting to the valve isn't easy. Not only that but you have to know which valve to shut. ", "just guessing but...\n\na bucket with a spout, like a bottling bucket, plus a hose that is long enough to get from the sprinkler to outside.\n\nhold bucket to the ceiling and let it drain through the hose. \n\n", "Well the sprinkler went off in the kitchen I work in...it was spraying water all over the place so one of us wrapped our aprons around it which did not stop it but it did keep the water more manageable to bail out ", "It doesn't really answer your question, but I've got a relevant story...\n\nOne rowdy night in college, a sprinkler got bumped in the bedroom of one of my housemates. My God! Holy shit-tons of water! One of the 2 guys who shared this room happened to be a pole vaulter on the track team. It just so happened he had a pole in the room (think it was a broken one or something). In a matter of seconds, some brilliant drunk in the room managed to shove one end over the majority of the sprinkler and the other end out the open window. It didn't catch all the water by any stretch of the imagination, but it did send the majority of it out the window instead of all over the room. \n\nSo I'd say just find a pole vaulted's pole to keep handy in case of emergencies! ", "If the sprinkler is in an area where it is likely to be hit, it will normally have a wire cage over it- dont let this fool you, a good hit to the thing will still set it off. \n\nIf you are in a multi story dwelling, near one of the stairwells there will be an valve station access panel. if you open this, you will see the zone control valve.[loos like this] (http://www.victaulic.com/assets/library/cache/assets/uploads/products/FireLock-Commercial-Zone-Control-Riser-Module-Series-747M_191_225_80.jpg) you will want to open everything that is shut and shut everything that is open on it ( close off the zone, open the drain) This is a risk/reward kind of thing because playing with a system that you are not qualified to handle can get you in big time poo poo, ( which is why residents dont normally have access to the mechanical rooms) but doing this can keep you from flooding out your entire suite- and the water is gross as hell, its black, it stinks and anything in the immediate spray range when it goes off it going to be wrecked.\n\nIn the event you break the head, it will only spray out of the sprinkler that you broke the bulb on ( common movie myth that they ALL go)\n\nSeriously though, just be mindful that its there and youll be fine. Be thankful- sprinklers save lives and believe it or not, property. The water damage from one head that puts out a fire is nothing compared to having to replace the roof and half the suites of a building because of a fire. Nobody has died because a sprinkler has accidentally gone off, but you can bet your ass that a lot of people have been saved from burning to death or smoke inhalation by them.\n\nSource: Work in the sprinkler installing business", "If the average person sets off a fire sprinkler system isn't it illegal to mess with it unless you are part of the response? ", "Get a big bucket and install a big hose in the bottom if you can't stop the flow of water redirect it. Sprinkler goes off jam hose out window and hang bucket from sprinkler . not the best but it would work.", "Firefighter here, if you turn the sprinkler head just right, you can jam a wooden doorstop into the sprinkler right where the water is coming out and stop (most of) water flow.", "Do sprinkler systems actually work? Would they put out a fire started in the kitchen for example? Just curious because I've never seen a sprinkler system anywhere here in the UK, or in Europe from what I can remember. ", "Cut down two small \"door-stop\" like wedges of wood and jam them in from each side. Like this: http://www.line2design.com/door-and-sprinkler-wedges/", "You can buy sprinkler cages. As the name suggests they attach over the sprinkler head and prevent a potentially devastating knock from ruining your day.", "Wrap a towel around the sprinkler head. Then place a bucket under the towel. Use another bucket while you empty the full one. Repeat until fire dept can shut it off. In the trade we use what is called a witches hat. But a towel will work. Source: am a pipefitter.", "They teach firefighters to use two wooden wedges to stop flow to prevent water damage. [link](http://firefighter.jbpub.com/skilldrills.cfm?skilldrill=121&chapter=18&step=2) It only serves as a temporary fix. ", "There was actually a guy (A firefighter) who made a handheld tool. I saw him on shark tank. It looked great.\n\nAnd here it is http://quickstoptool.com/\n\n", "Make a wedge of wood like a door stop. Round one side so it will follow the shape of the fixture. When It gets tripped, shove the flat side of the wedge against the water outlet and pound it in with a hammer. This will fastly slow the water but not stop it. ", "Ive broken these sprinklers accidently at my job in a warehouse and the best thing done at the moment was take a sweater or bed sheet and tie it around the sprinkler. Itll at least stop it from spraying water everywhere and instead make it go down i to a bucket.", "I swe this dude on sharktank. http://quickstoptool.com/products he makes these things specifically for what your asking. Hope it helps", "Fire sprinkler senior designer here:\n\nDo not turn off the water if a sprinkler goes off.\n\nIf you do, when the fire dept arrives, they will fine you for turning off a life safety device, for quite a lot of money. \n\nThe first thing we always tell customers when they call with emergency calls is to notify the fire dept to get there and turn off the water then call us back to get someone there for the repair. ", "Can't believe anyone has mentioned it. The only way you get around one of these, is to get one of those large hoses used to vacuum out pools. You put one end over the sprinkler and run the other to your tub or shower.\n\nGranted if you live in an apartment given the unlikely nature of this happening, it doesn't make sense to keep one on hand. But if you can find one quick when the situation arrives it may save your ass.", "BE CAREFULL!! The water pressure can have enough force to leverage your eye and blind you permanently... so say a sprinkler tech i talked to recently who had it happen to a helper who could not listen to directions. Thankfully just the one eye but still, \nBE CAREFULL!!", "At my first dorm in Uni, there were bunk beds and lots of sprinklers near my head, so the school had put a metal cage around it to keep us from accidentally hitting it.", "why not just install a cage around it so you can't hit it in the first place... also you won't disable a vital safety system\n", "run and get a plastic jug and hold it on sprinkler, make a hole under bottom of the jug, water will not get sprinkled all over the home, instead it will come down as if its falling from tap water, keep two buckets under this water flow...empty one bucket in your bathroom once its full after replacing the bucket which you have kept besides first one...this would save a lot of damage", "my radiant heating pipe exploded once. you have a right to know from your landlord. believe me if there's a shutoff valve they might *want* you to know.mine was behind a double layer of drywall. inacessable by normal means. Im essentially saying that they would be more than happy to tell you about it.", "[The perfect product for this need exists. Developed by a fireman/engineer. Seen on CNBC Shark Tank. Sold on the internet. Get one!](http://quickstoptool.com/)", "You jam a wooden wedge (like a door wedge) in the sprinkler, that's why firefighters have them on their lid", "You don't. The system is more than likely on some sort pump system that is wired to run the pumps once they've engaged until they blowup or get turned off. You're not shutting down the fire riser pumps from your apartment and that sprinkler head with be rated at over 50 gallons per minute. \n\nO also it's been mentioned but the \"water\" that comes out will probably look and smell like Satan's asshole. Normally once the system is charged with water it's never exchanged. The cage is a great option as also mentioned elsewhere in the thread to avoid this problem all together. ", "You don't. It's a shutoff only the fire department can shut off by design. It's to keep arson down. The only thing more destructive than water is fire. I recommend keeping offsite file backups and keeping anything REALLY important at a bank safety deposit box.", "Wooden wedges forced in from opposite sides will slow it down alot. It will still leak, but much less. Be ready to get soaked while you do it.", "Who's liable if you're renting? Are you responsible for your stuff and the landlord the building if you set one off accidentally or carelessly? Will I have to pay for new carpet, new sheet-rock and water that seeped through the floor? Where does renter's insurance come in and landlord's insurance end? ", "Who would be as big a worry wart as you and not have renters insurance? I would bet my life savings that you have renters insurance, you are worse than my wife. Lpt: Just relax and don't hit the damn things bro. ", "Well if you do buy the wrench, you don't have to carry it around all the time. It's not like the fire-sprinkler is going follow you around all day", "Unfortunately I have seen several sprinkler heads go off. One method to mitigate damage is to remove your toilet from the floor (after shutting off the water supply to the toilet). This creates a floor drain, and gives the water somewhere to go. This will not be ideal, or totally eliminate the damage, but it will lessen the damage.", "Two wedge shaped blocks of wood work just fine. Fit them together like the shape of a rectangle and pound each side in with your hands and it'll fix itself in there and stop the flow. ", "Two small plastic door chocks like this http://i.imgur.com/mFoNlYg.jpg\n\nIt's hard but it can be done. I did it once when going through fire training. \n \nHere's a video of it in action (not my video): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7gEy81MPYNc", "Two door-stop wedges, keep them in the closet. When you inevitably create disaster, you can invert one on the other, and slide them together/apart to change the height of the resulting shape. They should wedge right in there, wood is best.", "This is what youare looking for OP, http://www.amazon.com/QUICKSTOP-Q-COM-Talon-Fire-Sprinkler/dp/B00LZQVXGS/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1424451113&sr=8-1&keywords=sprinkler+stop", "This is very tricky, but there is a trick. If you have 2 wooden door wedges (just 2 triangular blocks of wood), you can go underneath the sprinkler (you will get very, very wet) and attempt to insert the wedges from opposite sides of the sprinkler towards each other so that when they come together it creates a square. Source: Firefighter, they made us do it in 'Firefighter I', and the success rate was pretty low, but when it worked, it worked. ", "This has happened to me before. Well, actually, it happened to my roommate, which isn't exactly much consolation to me because, you know, we share a room. \n\nI was in a meeting, and when it was over I pulled out my phone. \"17 missed calls from *doofy roommate*\" and a text from someone living in a dorm next to mine: \"Uhm, what's happening in your dorm?\"\n\nSo, I ran back to my dorm to find my sheepish roommate standing outside. Meanwhile, there is a pump sitting in the doorway of the front entrance pumping out multiple gallons into the street every second. \n\nApparently, he had been cleaning, and this tall-ass 6'5\" kid fell while standing on a chair and naturally *grabbed the fire sprinkler* to brace his fall. The water ended up flooding not only our room, but ended up seeping across the hall and through the floor into rooms below (note: especially bad because we're on the fourth floor).The water was rusty and smelled like crap because the pipes were so old, so our room still smells like rust and wet dog. \n\nOh, and to top it all off the dorm is over 250 years old and is a historic relic. Repair crews had to work for weeks to make sure everything was structurally sound and to repair the damaged drywall, etc. \n\nBut, on the bright side, I got an extension on my papers. Also, I get to hold this over my friend's head for the next three years. \"Hey, *pear40*, you owe me $5\". \"Remember the Great Flood of 2014? I owe you nothing.\"\n\nTL;DR: My clumsy-ass roommate activated the sprinkler while cleaning, destroying a historically significant dorm in the process. ", "They make wedges for this purpose. You should be able to pick them up online or at a fire safety supplier. This is what they use when they replace them so they don't have to flush the system", "There was a fireman on Shark Tank who was pitching a product that was basically a pair of pliers to pinch off the sprinkler head. He was targeting firehouses as customers but would work if you were, for example, a building engineer, maintenance person, or construction worker and this was a regular occurrence or just insurance against the major damage. \n\n[this](http://quickstoptool.com/)\n\n", "There is actually a commercially available device specifically to deal with this. They showed it on Shark Tank.", "There is a tool that fire fighter invented to shut them off. Its kind of like a can opener in appearance but basically it squeezes the metal parts of your sprinkler back together and holds it there. I have no clue what its called or if its been manufactured. I saw it on shark tank last season and Lori agreed to help get them in stores. The guy said he would sell them for around 10 bucks. ", "Sprinklers are typically made of brass, and are screwed into the water pipe, it's also constructed in such a way that the water will only start spraying if you broke the glass bulb. It's actually quite difficult to knock it in such a way that only the bulb breaks. Also, a sprinkler cage won't help if you have used so much force that you knocked the entire sprinkler off. \n\nIf that happens, it would be similar to knocking the entire tap off your basin, the only difference is that there's no nearby valve to shut it off. Not to mention most sprinklers in large buildings are powered by an automatic pump which kicks in once water starts flowing. (If not, a water tank) ", "Someone in my frat managed to fly a toy helicopter into a sprinkler and break it open, resulting in about 10k in damages. Best advice I've seen so far is to install cages over them. They're about a buck apiece and are definitely effective. \n\nIn terms of stopping it, you pretty much just have to get it shut off proper asap. I ended up attempting to catch as much water using garbage cans while we wete unlocking the shutoff valve. Not remotely effective. Water is heavy, and the pressure was breaking out the sides of the cans. \n\nInsurance is your friend.", "Someone did this in my complex, 2 buildings over, 5 days before Christmas at about 9-10pm. Caused damage to 8 apartments, displaced a few families. They're still performing restoration work.", "So late with this...\n\nIn the 80's I worked at a grocery store. I was usually on the front end, but this day they asked me to use a forklist to take a pallet of Shasta and put it wayyyy on top of the steel shelves. So I slid that baby in there nice and slow, but heard a cracking noise, then this back shit started shooting all over the place, then a torrential jet of water. I had snapped off a sprinkler head!\n\n\nSo we're all scrambling around trying to find the water valved while the store is rapidly filling with water. Finally we found it behind the building about 10' off the ground. So the loss prevention guy did a Poseidon Adventure move and hung off of it while turning it closed.\n\nHalf the store was flooded a couple inches. Customers were pushing their carts through the water leaving wakes behind them like they gave no fucks. The store manager comes in drunk and demands that I clean it by myself. Wouldn't let anyone else help clean it. When I was done, he fired me. Fucker.", "Smash it with closest available item then get a cup or bowl to hold beneath it til help arrives? If no item available and no bowl I suppose it would be possible to fist it down if you are willing to lose some blood in the process. ", "Slap a condom over the sprinkler head as soon as it goes off, and move your shit as quickly as you can before it fills up and ruptures.\n\nDisclaimer: no idea if this will work.", "Screw some pieces of wood to the ceiling around it, and install a metal grate. It will protect it from accidental impact, and still allow it to spray in the event of a fire, with some slight interference. It should do for a closet though. Check with local fire department though, as you don't want to violate fire codes. \n\nAnother option is to have a hook nearby and a hose hanging nearby that you can hook it up, with the hose covering it, then you just direct the majority of the spray to some place else. Note that this option does not mean you keep the hose attached to it, you just keep it ready in case you need to use it. ", "Saw a neat concept on a firefighting page.\n\nsmall PVC pipe that was reduced down to fit a garden hose, hang under water flow bring hose to a sink. May not work everywhere but worth a shot.", "Normally there is a heat sensitive material that will fail, allowing the positive pressure of the water system to disperse water. Physical impact should not trigger it unless against the \"red plastic\" (within reason).\n\n-> unless you can control the water system they are impossible to stop.\n\nWas volunteer firefighter from 16-18 ", "Lol I love how it sounds like it happened as he wrote this. \"How do you deactivate a overhead sprinkler the water is rising as we speak, I have run out of buckets to put under this thing, I hear these things cause 1000 dollars worth of damage every minute. I think I need renters insurance. Should I run out and get it now before the firemen arrive?\"", "Just like in this video [here!](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=35hbp9S5Pr4). The sprinkler system goes of because of a little smoke and sets the sprinkler system off in a brand new hotel restaurant. Nobody knows how the system works or how to put it off so it does tens of thousand dollars in damages in few minutes", "It would not look good, but you could rig up something similar to a beer bong. Get a funnel and hose that is long enough to route out a window. Find something good to quickly connect funnel over the sprinkler head. If there is no nearby window you could use buckets, but have fun with that. \n\nAlternatively, get a huge roll of plastic and try to cover everything while the sprinkler is going off. ", "Im pretty sure that the sprinkler system is DESIGNED to not stop untill the system runs completely out of water.", "If you've ever seen the show Shark Tank, these guys got a deal on a really innovative tool to fix this issue. I'm on mobile and can't link it right now, but it was basically just a special clamp built for the sprinklers that instantly closes them. ", "If you're that worried about it just connect a tube to a bucket that you can hang from it and reroute the water to your bathtub lol.", "I would wrap a towel or piece of cloth around the sprinkler as best I could, in hope of completely covering it. The cloth would eventually completely saturate but a run-off in the form of a stream would eventually form. Guide this into a bucket and you may be able to buy yourself some time. However, this is probably a last resort option as I'm not sure how difficult the wrapping would be.", "I was helping a friend put stuff away in his apartment closet and he hit the sprinkler head. You are right about how royally fucked you would be. It was a disaster. The water flow out of a broken sprinkler head is insane. The water was 6\" deep in his 2nd floor apartment in minutes. The fire department came and shut it off. Lots of damage.\n\nBest you could probably do if you had a hose handy, not a standard garden hose but something bigger you could slip over the end of the flow, and direct the other end either outside or into a tub. You'd have to keep like a 20' length of it lying around just for such emergencies.", "I used to work for a company that serviced them, the answer is it depends on the building. In a larger building, you cant. The pressure drop in the sprinkler line will contact the fire department and they shut it off. Usually this is dont by switching off the pumps, draining the line and replacing the glass seal. \n \nHope you didnt get charged too much for a false callout", "I remember seeing a product on shark tank for this that allows you to physically block the sprinklers with a pole device very quickly. You should look into it", "I had to use my hardhat to direct the flow into trash cans. I was working in a hospital, a busy ER. It was a disaster until they shut off the VALVE.", "I don't have anything constructive to add I just wanted to say that after reading through this thread I will spend the rest of my life lecturing people who hang things on the sprinkler heads in hotel rooms.", "Get some wedges and put them in that closet with a hammer and the rest of your tools. Most sprinkler systems are filled with compressed air. The water doesn't come out until the air leaves the line after the sprinkler glass is broken. That gives you a few seconds to about 30 seconds before you're wet to get the wedges in place. There are safety cages available that go over the sprinkler head to protect them from accidental breakage. One of these might be a better idea. ", "Get a beer bong with a long hose. Put the funnel around the sprinkler to direct the water to wherever you need using the long hose ", "First funnel the water so it's not going Fucking everywhere, then wedge it. Then aquire a sprinkler head and turn off the water. Fix it and turn it back on. ", "Firefighter here, two small wooden wedges work and are very inexpensive, yes you will get soaked but better than $1000's of dollars of water damage.. I work for a large urban department and thats all we use.", "Fire fighter here. First, is it a pre action system? If so hitting that off won't activate it. However it's likely not and is probably a wet system, so a pair of wedges shoved in so that they form a rectangle in the head is how we do it. Your going to get wet. Otherwise there's no other way. you as a resident are not Advised to turn off the system as that's a Fuckton of liability. That's the technical term. So if you hit it off, there is likely a water flow alarm and the fd will be there soon. So either shove some wedges in it or hang tight. ", "Find out where the shutoff valves are.\n\nIn my (relatively new) apartment/condo building the shutoff valves for the sprinklers are in the stairwell. There is one valve per floor.\n\nThey're tied to the building fire alarm, so closing the valve sets off the building fire alarm. It's on the same circuit as the flow sensor right next to it, which also activates the alarm if water starts flowing to an open sprinkler.", "Could you drill a hole near the bottom on the side a bucket, connect a hose to it, and keep near the sprinkler in case of accidents? worst case scenario, you have to hold the bucket there while the water drains out the hose. \n\nDrill a big hole and use a big hose to compensate for the flow rate?", "Buy one of these.\n\nhttp://www.amazon.com/QUICKSTOP-Q-COM-Talon-Fire-Sprinkler/dp/B00LZQVXGS/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1424451012&sr=8-3&keywords=fire+sprinkler", "After the am arm goes off the fire department will be enough route, but you can also call the emergency maintenance at your apartment complex. Usually one or two will live on property and may be able to get over there quicker. Most maintenance guys have access to the dog house where the water shut off is.\n\nSource: I'm in maintenance and had to do this last week, beat the fire department by a good 10-15 min, which is a lot when you see how much water those things put out.", "A heavy duty plastic garbage bag will do the trick. I have no idea if this would work but it seems like it would if you're in a jam and it's cheap. If you're worried about it breaking, just remember: Double bagging works.", "A fire hose, or a trash pump discharge hose 2\" in size will usually fit right over the head. Then you simple run the hose to a drain or outside.\n\nA cheaper alternative is make a long tube with plastic sheeting and duct tape.", "A 1\" wooden dowel sharpened to a cone/point and a hammer. You gotta knock the little metal part of the sprinkler off with the hammer and then hammer the wooden dowel into the pipe. That's our plan at work if we hit one. Haven't had to try it yet but it should work.", "> It's estimated that an open sprinkler can cause ~$1000 in water damages for every minute it runs.\n\nThis seems like a very arbitrary number depending upon what is being soaked. ", "2 small wood chalks. The width of the water output. Slide them in from opposite sides till they seal the hole. ", "Wrap the head of the sprinker in an old bedsheet, wrap it around a half dozen times and tape it up with the best tape you can find, then place a bucket under the lowest hanging point,\n\nObviously the bedsheet wont stop the water flow but it will force it to run downwards in a predicable stream, you can then concentrate your efforts on collecting the running water/emptying buckets etc \n\n:D", "I spent a summer installing sprinkler heads. You have to really mess up to set one off. The red thing on the inside has to break. It's not super exposed but will break in extreme heat, like if there's a fire. I watched the boss man chuck a basketball directly at a head, hard and nothing happened. I wouldn't worry. ", "Another option would be to divert the water with a tube, I've done this when testing sprinklers on a ship. I doubt you have a bilge in your room to divert the water down to but, you could rig something up to an open window, a vacuum cleaner hose could work if long enough.\n" ]

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[ "Moving to a big city I can't be the only one doing this for the start of the coming school year, or just in general. What do you guys know about meeting people, finding a job, staying frugal and just being generally functional in a big city?\n\n(I come from a town of 20,000 people in midwestern Kansas, moving to the Phoenix, AZ metro area in a couple months for school)", "Moving to a big city I can't be the only one doing this for the start of the coming school year, or just in general. What do you guys know about meeting people, finding a job, staying frugal and just being generally functional in a big city?\n\n(I come from a town of 20,000 people in midwestern Kansas, moving to the Phoenix, AZ metro area in a couple months for school)", "Moving to a big city I can't be the only one doing this for the start of the coming school year, or just in general. What do you guys know about meeting people, finding a job, staying frugal and just being generally functional in a big city?\n\n(I come from a town of 20,000 people in midwestern Kansas, moving to the Phoenix, AZ metro area in a couple months for school)", "Moving to a big city I can't be the only one doing this for the start of the coming school year, or just in general. What do you guys know about meeting people, finding a job, staying frugal and just being generally functional in a big city?\n\n(I come from a town of 20,000 people in midwestern Kansas, moving to the Phoenix, AZ metro area in a couple months for school)", "Moving to a big city I can't be the only one doing this for the start of the coming school year, or just in general. What do you guys know about meeting people, finding a job, staying frugal and just being generally functional in a big city?\n\n(I come from a town of 20,000 people in midwestern Kansas, moving to the Phoenix, AZ metro area in a couple months for school)" ]

[ "Use www.padmapper.com to look for a place.\n\nBuy your furniture used. Or ask if anyone has stuff to donate to you.\n\nFind stuff to do in your city. For instance. www.downtownphoenix.com is the first thing I found. I'm sure it's not cheap but if that was that easy to find, I'm sure there is plenty to do.", "My #1 tip for saving money while moving is to not take anything you can't buy cheaply at your destination. Assuming you're shipping your possesions to the new location (via plane, train or UPS,) don't bother packing food, batteries, bathroom toiletries and the sort. They just add more baggage weight that you need to pay for to have them shipped.\n\nWhen it comes to meeting people, follow some groups of upperclassmen around discretely to find out where the popular hangouts are. These people will be recognizable because they'll be the ones who look like they know where they're going. You'll probably find a lot of interesting coffee shops, book stores, parks, and bars, not to mention where people tend to gravitate on campus to hang out. When you find a place you'd like to try you can just introduce yourself to a couple people, or you could try going in with a book you enjoy (that has an interesting looking cover,) or a sketch/notepad to write or draw. Avoid taking your laptop the first few times. Most people ignore those who are on laptops, but a good book or pad makes you look more interesting.\n\nAlmost all schools have Student Service departments specifically designed to help kids find jobs. Ask around for where that is and hit them up.\n\nIf you're staying in an apartment, easiest way to cut expenses is to turn off the lights EVERY time you leave a room for longer than a bathroom break. It will save you SO much money.", "It's pretty hot over here. If you're on your own beware of high electric bills as the a/c will be running for most of the summer. We keep ours at 84*, a comfortable temp for us, which keeps the bills down ( A few of our friends drop theirs down to 70 ).\n\nSchool is your best place to meet people. ASU, I assume that's where you're going, has tons of students from all over. You really have to go out of your way to not make friends there.\n\nJobs can be tricky. It's easy to get a part-time job paying under $10/hour. I worked for Staples as an Easytech. They want to start you at $7-8/hour but if your computer savvy you should ask for $10-11. They offer part-time benefits, tuition reimbursement (as long as you pass your classes) and are flexible on hours. I'd also recommend checking [ASU's job listings](http://career.asu.edu/L/ccintro.htm).\n\nBeing frugal isn't too difficult. Phoenix is fairly suburban. Just stay out of downtown, stick with groceries and avoid the temptation of fast food. Figure fast food will run you about $10/meal x 1-3 meals/day = $70-210/week. I allot about $100/week in groceries which feeds both me, my wife and a few lunches for our niece.\n\nIt is fairly easy to get around Phoenix. Our freeways run in loops, so it's fairly hard to get lost. I live in the East Valley and used to work in Tempe. It would take about 20 minutes to get to work, even in traffic ( ASU campus is in Tempe ). I now work in Florence, which is now an hour away /grr. \n\nAnyway, good luck at ASU or whatever school you are going too. Go Sun Devils!", "* craigslist craigslist craigslist\n* bars are not a great place to make friends or save money–meet up with people who share your interests!\n* humans are key\n* explore explore explore! don't be afraid.", ">staying frugal\n\nI don't know where there would be difficulties in that. If anything, you have more chances to get what you need for cheap (e.g. second-hand-stores). \n\nOther than that, finding a job is also surprisingly easy, at least that's what I've witnessed. You have literally thousands of opportunities to choose from, just make sure you fire out lots and lots of applications. \n\nIn regard to meeting people, you can always find a bar or other social place you like and hang around there. People going out in the city are often out for adventure, what includes befriending strangers. " ]

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[ "How to maintain a conversation. As an introvert, I find it difficult to make a decent conversation, whether it be in person or over text. I feel it is also a good skill to have. All of my conversations are the same 'small talk' and are boring. Help?", "How to maintain a conversation. As an introvert, I find it difficult to make a decent conversation, whether it be in person or over text. I feel it is also a good skill to have. All of my conversations are the same 'small talk' and are boring. Help?", "How to maintain a conversation. As an introvert, I find it difficult to make a decent conversation, whether it be in person or over text. I feel it is also a good skill to have. All of my conversations are the same 'small talk' and are boring. Help?", "How to maintain a conversation. As an introvert, I find it difficult to make a decent conversation, whether it be in person or over text. I feel it is also a good skill to have. All of my conversations are the same 'small talk' and are boring. Help?", "How to maintain a conversation. As an introvert, I find it difficult to make a decent conversation, whether it be in person or over text. I feel it is also a good skill to have. All of my conversations are the same 'small talk' and are boring. Help?", "How to maintain a conversation. As an introvert, I find it difficult to make a decent conversation, whether it be in person or over text. I feel it is also a good skill to have. All of my conversations are the same 'small talk' and are boring. Help?", "How to maintain a conversation. As an introvert, I find it difficult to make a decent conversation, whether it be in person or over text. I feel it is also a good skill to have. All of my conversations are the same 'small talk' and are boring. Help?", "How to maintain a conversation. As an introvert, I find it difficult to make a decent conversation, whether it be in person or over text. I feel it is also a good skill to have. All of my conversations are the same 'small talk' and are boring. Help?" ]

[ "practice the art of bantering. http://www.reddit.com/r/bantering/comments/114arn/a_list_of_banter_types_that_you_can_use_in_most/ \nfind what works for you. use quotes from shows you like, or maybe improv rap whats going on.", "Cherry picking. This helps to really extend the conversation. When the other person is talking, listen and try to pick out and expand on their main subject line. Eg:\n\n\" I have an interest in gardening\"\n\nThe key word here is gardening. Follow up on it. Ask the person to go into greater detail about any aspect of gardening.\n\nThe trick here is to also throw some of your own stories in. Don't be afraid to talk - social interaction is a two way street, and people can often come to feel exhausted when they're doing all the talking. Recount some of your own past experiences. The key to furthet extending the conversation is to then cherry pick yourself. Look for the interesting point in your own story and ask the other person about their experiences. The conversation is constantly evolving.\n\nI will go on to say that if you're doing all the talk and recounting, and the person is still unresponsive, don't fucking waste your time on them. Even if you're the most brilliant conversationist and can have a deep and meaningful with a doorknob, nothing is going to open an unreceptive, closed person. \n\n", "Affinity Reality Communication. Scientology jokes aside... really. Ask about who you are talking to: what do you think. How does that make you feel. Whats up with you wandering eye.\n\nPeople love talking about themselves.", "Think of the one person you know that is easiest to talk to, then pretend youre talking to them. Of course you may have to filter the content of the conversation, but bring yourself to that comfort level and the conversation will just flow. ", "Read more. Watch stand-up comedy. Figure out what makes something funny or not. Visualize yourself having great conversations. Most conversations are small talk and just an exchange of pleasantries. Talk about the other person. IF you talk about yourself, try to use a bit of humor.", "As an EXTREME extrovert I would first like to point out that a lot of the time in conversations, the person you are talking to has a HUGE impact on what you should or shouldn't say, for obvious reasons! If you are talking to a girl/guy you are interested in try to smile and ask the other person about themselves! ie. \"how are you?\" \"What's up?\" \"How's the [family?]?\"... Whereas if you are talking to one of your friends or someone who you want to make friends with, still use a smile, but try to make connections with the person beyond asking how their doing. Ask about pets or any other thing that you and them might have in common! Good luck and hope I helped!:)", "Well to talk about something it's best that you guys talk about something you like. If you are not the kind of person that likes to talk about stuff, there is only one other choice: find what they want to talk about.\n\nThat is the first, natural thing to do. This is why conversations often start with \"how are you\" \"what do you do\" \"what did you do today\" \"how's school going?\" and so on. You poke and prod. \n\nIt's best if you land on something you both can relate to, however, that is rare. How often do people's interests, hobbies, majors, jobs overlap? Not much. \n\nThe trick is life; you just have to know a lot about life. Reflect, know how people are, know what it is like to be stressed out, know what it is like to lose a friend or family, etc. etc. If you have knowledge about how to live, you can apply that to anything. \n\nGL!!!", "I wouldn't stress to much, another introvert will appreciate the quiet time or lul in conversation and an extrovert can mostly keep a convo going on their own. My partner in an introvert, I'm an extrovert, we balance each other out ying yang and all that stuff" ]

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[ "How can I stop antiperspirant balm from falling out when it gets close to the end? The role-on antiperspirant that is dry and like bar soap always gets loose and becomes unusable when it gets close to the end because it falls out of the cover. Is there anyway that I can use it all the way to the end?", "How can I stop antiperspirant balm from falling out when it gets close to the end? The role-on antiperspirant that is dry and like bar soap always gets loose and becomes unusable when it gets close to the end because it falls out of the cover. Is there anyway that I can use it all the way to the end?" ]

[ "Like ketchup in an almost empty squeeze bottle, there are some things that can be accomplished for the sake of 5¢.", "If it's the plastic holder falling out you would need to glue it back in. \n\nIf it is the product itself falling out try packing it into a used lip balm container." ]

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[ "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then.", "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then.", "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then.", "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then.", "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then.", "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then.", "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then.", "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then.", "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then.", "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then.", "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then.", "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then.", "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then.", "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then.", "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then.", "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then.", "What advice would you give to someone who wants to be in a leadership position at work? I, of course, start at a job as a team member but I’m looking to get promoted to a leadership position. I want to open my own business one day and would like to get some experience as a manager before then." ]

[ "- Do not friend any of your coworkers/subordinates on any social media\n\n- Positive praise in public (or private) often, follow up in private \n\n- Positive “we”, negative “I” (as best as the situation works)\n\n- Random reach outs to your team one-on-one privately for “just checking in” work better than scheduled time for some people", "I don't know what to say other than do well at your job and be realistic about your performance. Don't undersell yourself in evaluation scenarios though. Be honest with yourself and others.\n\nMy work experience has thought me that you have to follow your own interests, don't expect to be handfeeded any raise, promotion etc.. \nIn the company I was in for 8 years I would have my future goals set together with my work targets. If possible, talk to your superior or supervisor that you want to go in that direction. They might be able to guide you towards that direction. Due to the fact that there exist multiple work environments I can't say that announcing your future goals can be good or bad for you. Do so on your own best judgement.\n\nIf the employer offers the possibility to send you, on their own money, to different soft or hard skill trainings. ( by soft I mean things like emotional intelligence, assertive communication, time management, management etc., and by hard i mean technical skills) attend those.\n\nStart working towards your future and good luck.", "Learn who is working for you and tailor your approach to each individual. Everyone comes from a different background and can't be talked to the same or meet your expectations you may have of others doing the same job.\n\n Learn to work with them and ask for thier ( individual or group) input when it comes to achieving a desired goal regardless of the severity (it makes them feel part of the decision making process and increases everyone's communication and working relationships)\n\nBe humble. Hopefully you have performed the same job as those under you. If you haven't, communicate that you haven't and acknowledge you don't have thier experience and need their help to fill you in during the decision making process. \n\nDon't forget where you came from and as stated before, be the leader you've always wanted", "Value/respect your employees and they generally will do the same. Remember: we work to live not the other way around.\n\nRespect their schedule requests if remotely possible, not doing that is the quickest route to employee resentment.\n\nDon't sit high and mighty in the office, lead by example and do some of the crappy tasks you know your employees hate.", "In my experience, great leadership has three pillars. \n\nThe first is two-way trust: if you say you’re gonna do something, it needs to get done. You should also be willing to leave the room and trust people to do their jobs. \n\nThe second is a willingness to make sacrifices for the team. That might mean staying late so somebody can go home early, covering a shift, or standing up to your direct superior on the behalf of your team. \n\nThe third is communication. The first two don’t matter if nobody knows you’re doing them - some things can be left unspoken, but sometimes it’s time to let the squad know what you’ve done for them and what you appreciate them doing for you. They also need to know what you need for them, or they can’t perform, and you need to know what they need from you in order to do their jobs. \n\nI’ve had bosses good and bad, all of them with different strengths and weaknesses, but all the good ones adhered to at least two of the above and the great ones managed all three. They did other stuff, too, but those were the unifying factors.", "I'm actually moving (in a different state) today to a new location in my company, where I am now in a senior leadership position. since I will be in charge of all new employees, and will no longer have my current coworkers in my division, I feel this is the best advice I can give if the 'friends w Subordinates' ship has sailed.", "Suggest a viable solution if bringing up a problem. Showing the initiative, not just creating more work for someone else, is a sure fire way to get yourself some more responsibility.", "Propose a project that aims to improve things on some way. Lead on that, and make sure it's a success.", "Observe people in that position (people who you think are sincere and do a good job at the position) and understand their priorities i.e why they make the decisions they make. Even if you can't make those decisions you can use those same priorities to form opinions on what you think needs to be done in different situations.", "Most organizations have a culture. Look at the other people in leadership roles, and you will be able to pick out commonalities from those that are successful. That can be from those that are getting promoted, or those that have been there for years. Also, look at what those that fail to move up, or get fired do. You can pick out what isn't valued or what they look down on really quick. \n\nI went from fresh out of school to VP before the age of 30, and that was a big part of moving up (also earned an MBA but I started moving up prior to that).", "Maybe I’m a pessimist- but if you’re in retail - you’re pretty much a babysitter. If you’re higher up- you do nothing but put out fires for the people even higher than you.", "Lots of good advice here, one little thing I've heard is dress to impress. In other words, dress for the job you wish you had.", "Listening. Often the most underused, misused tool, but listening is what helps make a good boss. \n\nCommunication is everything, but the hardest one is the first point.\n\nClarity & Patience.\n\nBe clear with your team/ subordinates. And don’t jump the gun and react too harshly until you hear an POV. Or multiple POVs!", "Lead informally first. Be the one who sets a high standard for yourself in performance. Encourage your co- workers to strive to do better, help your co-workers grow, remove barriers for them. Be the leader and you'll get the supervisor position.", "Here's what I did, retiring from the USG as a GS-15 division chief... \n\n\nI let my supervisors know that I was perfectly happy as a worker, a technician of sorts. When they told me I'd be a great manager, I'd say I'm still trying to perfect my skills as a tech...give me a couple more years. \n\n\nDidn't matter what I told them, the bastages went and made me a manager anyway.", "For me, the transition from a contributor to a leader required a few things that I luckily already had a predisposition to:\n\n1) Don't be indecisive. That doesn't mean rush decisions. Be contentious, gather the appropriate information required to make a decision, decide, and move forward. You're never going to have ALL the information you'd like and it's a kind of art form to feel when the time is right to make the decision, but analysis paralysis is real and when you're a leader it paralyzes not just you, but your entire team.\n\n2) Earn respect as a contributor by going above and beyond. Do you job exceptionally well and help those around you. Make those around you better. When you do ascend to the leadership role, those people that you lead will work for you because they respect you. And keep going above and beyond while you're a leader. I lead two teams of about 10 people each across two shifts. I came in before anyone else and got all the systems up and running and didn't leave until half way through second shift when I saw everything was going smoothly. I listed out the plan of the day on a whiteboard every morning, so expectations were set. When a backlog of work began to accumulate, I rolled up my sleeves and got in there to whittle it down. When team members were performing well, I made it a point to go to their direct chain of command (they were matrixed to me) and make them aware of the contributions and I pushed for awards and promotions, where appropriate.\n\n3) Make the environment they work in enjoyable. I made sure that lunch was provided (by the company) on occasion as a reward. To this day, I keep a big jar of candy stocked and anyone can come by and take some. I always keep the atmosphere light with humor and fun (including throwing nerf darts at each other). If your people are miserable coming to work, their productivity will show it. Keep them happy and they'll keep you happy.\n\n4) Always be responsive to their concerns; never dismiss them. Even if it's something you believe is silly/irrelevant. If they bring something to you, it's because they want to be heard and they've determined that they need you. Don't shut them down.\n\n5) TEACH those around you, especially those that work for you. That doesn't mean shove knowledge down their throat, but always be willing to share your knowledge and expertise so that they can become better.\n\n6) TRUST others unless they've proven untrustworthy. Don't get into someone's business and tell them how to do every little thing. If they have questions, always be willing to help, but back off otherwise. Some people require some hands-on and that will become evident when you see how they do with the reigns loose. Then you can target those people for a little extra attention to make sure they have what they need to be successful, even if that includes a little hand holding.", "In my experience (i.e.: been there, done that):\n\nSupervisor/Team Lead: gets 10% more pay than the minions plus 50% more headaches\n\nMiddle Manager: gets 20% more pay than the minions and 100% more headaches.\n\nIf you are willing to live with those terms, then go for it!\n\nnot at all /s" ]

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[ "Interacting with call center employees My buddy has just gone through hell with an airline call center. Multiple different people, call transfers and refusals to talk with managers. What tips do you have for navigating these call centers and getting what you want?", "Interacting with call center employees My buddy has just gone through hell with an airline call center. Multiple different people, call transfers and refusals to talk with managers. What tips do you have for navigating these call centers and getting what you want?", "Interacting with call center employees My buddy has just gone through hell with an airline call center. Multiple different people, call transfers and refusals to talk with managers. What tips do you have for navigating these call centers and getting what you want?", "Interacting with call center employees My buddy has just gone through hell with an airline call center. Multiple different people, call transfers and refusals to talk with managers. What tips do you have for navigating these call centers and getting what you want?" ]

[ "I used to work for a home security company’s billing center. Whenever I call a call center I’m always super polite. No need to scream at some person making minimum wage would doesn’t give a single shit about your problem. Be nice explain and what the issue is. If they still can’t help you say something like. I understand that you can’t help me with my problem. May I please speak to a manager or supervisor? The managers want to get off the phone with you ASAP and have more opinions then the regular employees. ", "I try to make people laugh. Make it feel off the cuff, natural, and like I'm their friend or could be. If it's nonchalant and doesn't feel anxious, a lot more gets done. \n\nSometimes it's realizing that they can't do anything though and just being graceful about that. ", "I work in the call center for the university I attend and my biggest tip is to just be nice. We try to be as welcoming and accommodating as possible, but as soon as the other end starts yelling at me for either telling them unwanted news or being unable to resolve the problem immediately I get blunt with them. If you're willing to work with them and be patient while we get everything going on our end, we will be more inclined to help you out along the way. \n\nAdditionally, I would just say that sometimes the people answering the line aren't the people you really want to speak with. It's also hard for us when we know someone else can help you in another office but they are out for lunch or in a meeting. That again ties into the theme above of just be nice and know that we really want to help you. ", "Be calm, polite and explain the problem clearly. If it's your mistake, be honest. Throw on a little good humor. Also if you have enough time, consider using the company's website contact form. Especially for airlines. They are usually staffed by more senior employees.\n\nSource: Former airline call center employee." ]

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[ "How to teach a kitten not to bite. I have a new kitten, about 3 months. She is very wild and energetic and likes to play bite your hand sometimes when you pet her. In addition when I get up in the morning with no socks or pants on she likes to jump at my ankles and bite/claw them too. While it doesn't really hurt because she is still pretty small, how do I curb this behavior before she gets older and it becomes a real problem?", "How to teach a kitten not to bite. I have a new kitten, about 3 months. She is very wild and energetic and likes to play bite your hand sometimes when you pet her. In addition when I get up in the morning with no socks or pants on she likes to jump at my ankles and bite/claw them too. While it doesn't really hurt because she is still pretty small, how do I curb this behavior before she gets older and it becomes a real problem?", "How to teach a kitten not to bite. I have a new kitten, about 3 months. She is very wild and energetic and likes to play bite your hand sometimes when you pet her. In addition when I get up in the morning with no socks or pants on she likes to jump at my ankles and bite/claw them too. While it doesn't really hurt because she is still pretty small, how do I curb this behavior before she gets older and it becomes a real problem?", "How to teach a kitten not to bite. I have a new kitten, about 3 months. She is very wild and energetic and likes to play bite your hand sometimes when you pet her. In addition when I get up in the morning with no socks or pants on she likes to jump at my ankles and bite/claw them too. While it doesn't really hurt because she is still pretty small, how do I curb this behavior before she gets older and it becomes a real problem?", "How to teach a kitten not to bite. I have a new kitten, about 3 months. She is very wild and energetic and likes to play bite your hand sometimes when you pet her. In addition when I get up in the morning with no socks or pants on she likes to jump at my ankles and bite/claw them too. While it doesn't really hurt because she is still pretty small, how do I curb this behavior before she gets older and it becomes a real problem?", "How to teach a kitten not to bite. I have a new kitten, about 3 months. She is very wild and energetic and likes to play bite your hand sometimes when you pet her. In addition when I get up in the morning with no socks or pants on she likes to jump at my ankles and bite/claw them too. While it doesn't really hurt because she is still pretty small, how do I curb this behavior before she gets older and it becomes a real problem?", "How to teach a kitten not to bite. I have a new kitten, about 3 months. She is very wild and energetic and likes to play bite your hand sometimes when you pet her. In addition when I get up in the morning with no socks or pants on she likes to jump at my ankles and bite/claw them too. While it doesn't really hurt because she is still pretty small, how do I curb this behavior before she gets older and it becomes a real problem?", "How to teach a kitten not to bite. I have a new kitten, about 3 months. She is very wild and energetic and likes to play bite your hand sometimes when you pet her. In addition when I get up in the morning with no socks or pants on she likes to jump at my ankles and bite/claw them too. While it doesn't really hurt because she is still pretty small, how do I curb this behavior before she gets older and it becomes a real problem?", "How to teach a kitten not to bite. I have a new kitten, about 3 months. She is very wild and energetic and likes to play bite your hand sometimes when you pet her. In addition when I get up in the morning with no socks or pants on she likes to jump at my ankles and bite/claw them too. While it doesn't really hurt because she is still pretty small, how do I curb this behavior before she gets older and it becomes a real problem?", "How to teach a kitten not to bite. I have a new kitten, about 3 months. She is very wild and energetic and likes to play bite your hand sometimes when you pet her. In addition when I get up in the morning with no socks or pants on she likes to jump at my ankles and bite/claw them too. While it doesn't really hurt because she is still pretty small, how do I curb this behavior before she gets older and it becomes a real problem?", "How to teach a kitten not to bite. I have a new kitten, about 3 months. She is very wild and energetic and likes to play bite your hand sometimes when you pet her. In addition when I get up in the morning with no socks or pants on she likes to jump at my ankles and bite/claw them too. While it doesn't really hurt because she is still pretty small, how do I curb this behavior before she gets older and it becomes a real problem?", "How to teach a kitten not to bite. I have a new kitten, about 3 months. She is very wild and energetic and likes to play bite your hand sometimes when you pet her. In addition when I get up in the morning with no socks or pants on she likes to jump at my ankles and bite/claw them too. While it doesn't really hurt because she is still pretty small, how do I curb this behavior before she gets older and it becomes a real problem?" ]

[ "No professional, but here are my thoughts: \n\nJust like puppies, kittens need to be socialized to learn appropriate behavior. When she bites you, don't continue to try to pet her or play with her. Simply leave her alone for some time. She wants you to play and interact with her. At some point, she will learn that certain behavior will end that interaction and she will be willing to adjust to continue getting attention. The same philosophy applies when you see two puppies playing and one yelps and stops playing with the other puppy. The other puppy will eventually learn how rough he/she can play without making other pups lose interest. \n\nIts also important to recognize your kitten's moods and adjust your own behavior/expectations. If she wants to play, you probably won't be able to pet her until she calms down and gets out of her playing mood (which for kittens seems to be 90% of the time so age is a big element). As far as biting your feet in the morning, I expect she will grow out of that behavior, especially if you make it apparent that you disapprove. \n\nTreats & Toys: I could be generalizing, but people seem to associate big responses to treats and toys primarily with dogs. These are just as useful with cats. If your kitten wants to bite or claw your hands, try using a toy to direct her attention and allow her to associate that type of behavior with something else. Use treats to give positive reinforcement to any behaviors you like. I know people who have trained their cats to sit, rollover, etc. \n\nHope this is some help. ", "A friend of mine had the same problem. He bit his cat right back. Now that fucker bites everyone but him. YMMV.", "Stick your finger into her mouth when she bites enough to make her back away from it. After about three or four times she'll stop biting your hands. As for the feet, they typically just grow out of that.", "you bop her on the head when she does it to let her know you don't like it. Or what I like to do is when playing with the kitty (or puppy) and she bites me on the hand I'll shove it further into their mouth, works really well when they bite the part between your thumb and pointer finger. ", "Make a yelp of pain when she bites. This is a standard learned behavior that she'd figure out if she had her siblings, biting hurts and her siblings wouldn't like it. You just have to do the same.", "My cat is trained with the verbal reprimand method. She is three and a half and my husband lets her get a little more rough but I don't. If she gets too rough I say \"be easy!\" And she will stop or back off. I'll let her gnaw on me as long as she's being gentle. Little love bites are normal with kitties, but it is better to train them that you don't like biting at all if they are too rough at a young age. My cat was gentle when she was a baby. Good luck!", "First cut up some onions and crush some garlic while simultaneously melting butter in an appropriately sized saute pan.\n", "She's probably teething, and this is what she'd do with her mama and siblings. Just like human babies teething, I believe it's something kittens typically grow out of on their own. In the meantime, I'd give her appropriate things to chew (toys and food) and gently replace your flesh with those when she tries to chew you.", "You're screwed. I've had two cats who bit as kittens and bite as adults. I tried everything, spray bottles, yelling/yelping when they bit, giving them more toys, smacking them on head (not hard), letting them bite hoping they'd get bored, etc. Nothing works.\n\nThey're cats. They're assholes.", "The spray bottle has always always worked for me. I have two cats and successfully trained both not to do this or claw at my furniture. One can even use the toilet now although that took much more work than a spray bottle. But for this - use a spray bottle and she will eventually get the hint. ", "This works with puppies. You take their lips when they do it and push them into those little razor teeth. They learn to be gentle by feeling what it's like.", "I agree with yelp sound or when my cat was an ambush attacker I carried around a can of pennies and would shake them when he sprang out. A bit of a pain but worked pretty quickly. " ]

[ 17, 14, 8, 6, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 2, 1, 1 ]

[ "Fixing a noisy cart wheel/castor. Many of the jobs in my life required the use of carts/u-boats/flatbeds with very noisy wheels or castors. They squeak, chirp, or make horrible noises as they move. I am sure there are many reasons for this but I was wanting to know if any novel solutions exist to remedy the chaos. I am open to less novel and more pragmatic solutions as well.", "Fixing a noisy cart wheel/castor. Many of the jobs in my life required the use of carts/u-boats/flatbeds with very noisy wheels or castors. They squeak, chirp, or make horrible noises as they move. I am sure there are many reasons for this but I was wanting to know if any novel solutions exist to remedy the chaos. I am open to less novel and more pragmatic solutions as well." ]

[ "Store use a can of PB blaster, and grease it up. After you let it sit for 5 min, spin it around, and rotate the castor. Don't use WD-40. That is a water displacer, not a penetrating oil. Your other option is to take it apart, and repack the wheel bearings with white lithium grease.\n\nSource: used to be an assembler at WM, and apartment maintenance.", "If your casters are missing a whole bunch of bearings, they'll rattle like mad. Best way is to use some heavy/thick oil/grease if you're missing bearing balls off the swivel. (lithium grease is good)." ]

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[ "How do you communicate with kids appropriately and professionally ? 23m and I’m never around kids. If anything, it’s a small amount of time that I come across friends kids/siblings etc. I don’t have younger siblings or family members. Around my friends, and even at previous jobs, I always spoke how I wanted to in regards to cursing. I am never really in any environment where I have to have a filter. I just got a new job , and I’ll be dealing with kids for picture day for 8 hours in a day. In our training sessions, there were segments of course about sexual misconduct . It did make me feel a little weird since that’s something I would never partake in, i personally like my women older. I’m worried about trying to do my job, trying to be upbeat, small talking etc and something may be misinterpreted since I’m an awkward person. For example, our first day of camera time, we practiced with coworkers acting as the subjects. I introduced myself saying, me being as serious as a heart attack, “hello children,” and everyone laughed at me lol. What the hell do I do?", "How do you communicate with kids appropriately and professionally ? 23m and I’m never around kids. If anything, it’s a small amount of time that I come across friends kids/siblings etc. I don’t have younger siblings or family members. Around my friends, and even at previous jobs, I always spoke how I wanted to in regards to cursing. I am never really in any environment where I have to have a filter. I just got a new job , and I’ll be dealing with kids for picture day for 8 hours in a day. In our training sessions, there were segments of course about sexual misconduct . It did make me feel a little weird since that’s something I would never partake in, i personally like my women older. I’m worried about trying to do my job, trying to be upbeat, small talking etc and something may be misinterpreted since I’m an awkward person. For example, our first day of camera time, we practiced with coworkers acting as the subjects. I introduced myself saying, me being as serious as a heart attack, “hello children,” and everyone laughed at me lol. What the hell do I do?", "How do you communicate with kids appropriately and professionally ? 23m and I’m never around kids. If anything, it’s a small amount of time that I come across friends kids/siblings etc. I don’t have younger siblings or family members. Around my friends, and even at previous jobs, I always spoke how I wanted to in regards to cursing. I am never really in any environment where I have to have a filter. I just got a new job , and I’ll be dealing with kids for picture day for 8 hours in a day. In our training sessions, there were segments of course about sexual misconduct . It did make me feel a little weird since that’s something I would never partake in, i personally like my women older. I’m worried about trying to do my job, trying to be upbeat, small talking etc and something may be misinterpreted since I’m an awkward person. For example, our first day of camera time, we practiced with coworkers acting as the subjects. I introduced myself saying, me being as serious as a heart attack, “hello children,” and everyone laughed at me lol. What the hell do I do?", "How do you communicate with kids appropriately and professionally ? 23m and I’m never around kids. If anything, it’s a small amount of time that I come across friends kids/siblings etc. I don’t have younger siblings or family members. Around my friends, and even at previous jobs, I always spoke how I wanted to in regards to cursing. I am never really in any environment where I have to have a filter. I just got a new job , and I’ll be dealing with kids for picture day for 8 hours in a day. In our training sessions, there were segments of course about sexual misconduct . It did make me feel a little weird since that’s something I would never partake in, i personally like my women older. I’m worried about trying to do my job, trying to be upbeat, small talking etc and something may be misinterpreted since I’m an awkward person. For example, our first day of camera time, we practiced with coworkers acting as the subjects. I introduced myself saying, me being as serious as a heart attack, “hello children,” and everyone laughed at me lol. What the hell do I do?", "How do you communicate with kids appropriately and professionally ? 23m and I’m never around kids. If anything, it’s a small amount of time that I come across friends kids/siblings etc. I don’t have younger siblings or family members. Around my friends, and even at previous jobs, I always spoke how I wanted to in regards to cursing. I am never really in any environment where I have to have a filter. I just got a new job , and I’ll be dealing with kids for picture day for 8 hours in a day. In our training sessions, there were segments of course about sexual misconduct . It did make me feel a little weird since that’s something I would never partake in, i personally like my women older. I’m worried about trying to do my job, trying to be upbeat, small talking etc and something may be misinterpreted since I’m an awkward person. For example, our first day of camera time, we practiced with coworkers acting as the subjects. I introduced myself saying, me being as serious as a heart attack, “hello children,” and everyone laughed at me lol. What the hell do I do?" ]

[ "Yes, talk to them like adults. They’re often smarter and pick up on more than we think. Think of when you were a child and how you’d like to have been talked to. “Will you please come this way?” “Thank you” and encouragement goes sooo far with kids. Any compliment, anything good about them. “I love your shirt!” “You’re a great smiler!” “Beautiful hair/shoes/etc.” “I love your name!” It makes them more comfortable and have something to connect with you on. Anything is “professional” and the things that aren’t are pretty obvious. If you have to touch them to adjust them, just ask first! “May I move your chin” or (to not touch them at all), just demonstrate with your own face where you need them to move or whatever. Kids love people who are animated and excited. It rubs off on them even if it seems not to. You’ll do better than you think you will. Being around kids comes much more natural to most of the human race than we think it does.\n\n", "Kids are usually pretty chatty once they feel comfortable, so just think of some basic questions. They’ll do the rest. And if you’re the new person in the room, they are generally super interested and they’ll ask you a million silly questions you can answer and ask back.", "Let them know if you think they should fix their hair or makeup really quick (bangs in weird position, lots of fly always, smudged mascara) and if you can bring a kinda large hand mirror for them to do one last quick once over you’ll be their favorite person!\n\nThis is coming from someone with lots of horrible school photos. Also, I don’t think I’ve ever had any school photographer say more than 10 words to me so don’t sweat it.", "I think it will be like an assembly line. \"Okay sit here. Look at the camera. Smile. Great, exit through that door. Quiet kids\". Idk don't overthink it. I never conversed with picture day people as a kid.", "Don't worry about how the sexual misconduct has you feeling. Having to confront the idea that sexual misconduct happens is unsettling, especially when you're being trained to look for it and protect from it.\n\nAlso don't worry to much about kids and interaction. Odds are the kids are more nervous then you are. \n\nIt helps to have a framework of what you want to do/say. Nothing wrong with repeating the same jokes and quips over again. \n\nThey usually have teachers around as well to help with lines and such. 50% of their jobs are crowd control and corralling kids." ]

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[ "How to purge involuntary \"filler words\" from speech? I've been told that when I speak, especially when I'm explaining complex ideas or thinking as I go, that I will constantly interject the phrase\" you know?\". This is something that I'm not aware of doing. How can I train myself to stop doing this?", "How to purge involuntary \"filler words\" from speech? I've been told that when I speak, especially when I'm explaining complex ideas or thinking as I go, that I will constantly interject the phrase\" you know?\". This is something that I'm not aware of doing. How can I train myself to stop doing this?", "How to purge involuntary \"filler words\" from speech? I've been told that when I speak, especially when I'm explaining complex ideas or thinking as I go, that I will constantly interject the phrase\" you know?\". This is something that I'm not aware of doing. How can I train myself to stop doing this?", "How to purge involuntary \"filler words\" from speech? I've been told that when I speak, especially when I'm explaining complex ideas or thinking as I go, that I will constantly interject the phrase\" you know?\". This is something that I'm not aware of doing. How can I train myself to stop doing this?", "How to purge involuntary \"filler words\" from speech? I've been told that when I speak, especially when I'm explaining complex ideas or thinking as I go, that I will constantly interject the phrase\" you know?\". This is something that I'm not aware of doing. How can I train myself to stop doing this?", "How to purge involuntary \"filler words\" from speech? I've been told that when I speak, especially when I'm explaining complex ideas or thinking as I go, that I will constantly interject the phrase\" you know?\". This is something that I'm not aware of doing. How can I train myself to stop doing this?", "How to purge involuntary \"filler words\" from speech? I've been told that when I speak, especially when I'm explaining complex ideas or thinking as I go, that I will constantly interject the phrase\" you know?\". This is something that I'm not aware of doing. How can I train myself to stop doing this?", "How to purge involuntary \"filler words\" from speech? I've been told that when I speak, especially when I'm explaining complex ideas or thinking as I go, that I will constantly interject the phrase\" you know?\". This is something that I'm not aware of doing. How can I train myself to stop doing this?", "How to purge involuntary \"filler words\" from speech? I've been told that when I speak, especially when I'm explaining complex ideas or thinking as I go, that I will constantly interject the phrase\" you know?\". This is something that I'm not aware of doing. How can I train myself to stop doing this?", "How to purge involuntary \"filler words\" from speech? I've been told that when I speak, especially when I'm explaining complex ideas or thinking as I go, that I will constantly interject the phrase\" you know?\". This is something that I'm not aware of doing. How can I train myself to stop doing this?", "How to purge involuntary \"filler words\" from speech? I've been told that when I speak, especially when I'm explaining complex ideas or thinking as I go, that I will constantly interject the phrase\" you know?\". This is something that I'm not aware of doing. How can I train myself to stop doing this?", "How to purge involuntary \"filler words\" from speech? I've been told that when I speak, especially when I'm explaining complex ideas or thinking as I go, that I will constantly interject the phrase\" you know?\". This is something that I'm not aware of doing. How can I train myself to stop doing this?" ]

[ "Talk slower. Seriously. It gives you more time to think about what you say, plus you come off as more confident. \n\nAlso, instead of saying \"um,\" before you speak, try saying \"now\" instead. This doesn't work all the time but it definitely helps in presentations.", "Slow down. Think. Take a second before you start talking and figure out what you actually want to say. We tend to fear silence and start making sounds as soon as the other person stops making sounds. It will feel like an awkward gulf of silence at first when in reality it's a second or less.", "Try not to use \"have\", \"has\", and \"had\" when it's unnecessary.\n\n* She looked over her shoulder, and realized he had left.\n* She looked over her shoulder, and realized he left.\n\nI had a book about writing perfect sentences a long time ago, and have no clue where I put it now lol. It had a ton of suggestions in it like this.", "Try writing a few paragraphs of something that you would say in an ordinary conversation, and read them exactly as you wrote them, without filler words. Do that until you can read it without adding anything. Then, try the same process with other things. With any luck, you'll have gotten used to talking like you usually do but without filler words. Worth a shot, right?", "Quite often people feel the need to fill gaps of silence as they feel this to be uncomfortable. Get used to pausing and your fillers will disappear. Also makes your character appear much stronger.", "In Toastmasters clubs they work on eliminating filler words, ums and ahs. Your filler words are counted every time you speak. Ums, Uhs, Ahs, Sos, etc. \"Y'know\" is a common one. \"Actually\" is another one. I had a coworker who often said \"n'stuff like that.\" Simply having to speak in front of others and having your filler words counted helps. Slowing down helps as well. ", "Basically, this is really relevant to me, cos' basically I have this problem too. Basically I say Basically all the time, basically. Please help!", "Every time you say the phrase the first week, drop a nickel in a piggy bank. For the second week, a dime, then a quarter for the third. When it sinks in how much money your vocabulary is costing you, it'll stop pretty damn quick, I guarantee.", "Unfold a paperclip, put it in your non dominant hand, when finishing a sentence squeeze paperclip slightly. Practus this, then practice this after a bit of time you will not need the paperclip.\n\nWhy does this work; those words are something your brain does to fill in nervous gaps, with the paper clip you are doing self hypnosis by the same principal of pavlov's dog. \n\nI personally curl my toes. ", "Pay attention to the words that come out of your mouth. When you're about to say 'you know?', don't.", "One of the best tips I ever got in school was to just pause what you're saying. Stop & think for moment. If you're having trouble finding words, it's better to take a second or two to think about a word that fits rather than saying \"umm\" and \"uhh\" all the time. It sounds better too. And I don't think people will notice it.", "I have a co-worker who punctuates every sentence with at least one \"gnome-sayin\". It's extremely annoying. But worse, it interferes with his communication. By that I mean he uses it as a crutch. Instead of explaining his point, he just says \"gnome-sayin?\" and expects the listener to figure it out. I guess I don't have any advice for you. I just wanted to get that off my chest. At least you are aware that there might be a problem and you are willing to correct it. I think that's a good first step. " ]

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[ "What to do when stitching in bags furniture or clothes begins to come undone. What do you do when you see a little thread sticking out of a line of stitches to prevent the seam from completely deteriorating? ", "What to do when stitching in bags furniture or clothes begins to come undone. What do you do when you see a little thread sticking out of a line of stitches to prevent the seam from completely deteriorating? " ]

[ "For what it's worth, I've heard clear nail polish is a good temporary fix.\n\nWould be nice if there was some simple permanent fix.", "When the fibers in thread wear out, they wear out. It is usually a sign that it is time to just get the item restitched. Clothes and some bags can go to a tailor for a restitch. Other bags, belts, and shoes can go to a cobbler. Furniture needs to go to an upholsterer. The good news is that a restitch costs considerably less than a new one of whatever it is.\n\n(Unless you have the materials and know how to do the repairs yourself. Then it is much cheaper.)" ]

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[ "How the hell are you supposed to open these things? I get things in [these](http://imgur.com/pMjyagi) type of packages all the time. Is there any way to open them *without* completely destroying them with scissors? ", "How the hell are you supposed to open these things? I get things in [these](http://imgur.com/pMjyagi) type of packages all the time. Is there any way to open them *without* completely destroying them with scissors? ", "How the hell are you supposed to open these things? I get things in [these](http://imgur.com/pMjyagi) type of packages all the time. Is there any way to open them *without* completely destroying them with scissors? ", "How the hell are you supposed to open these things? I get things in [these](http://imgur.com/pMjyagi) type of packages all the time. Is there any way to open them *without* completely destroying them with scissors? ", "How the hell are you supposed to open these things? I get things in [these](http://imgur.com/pMjyagi) type of packages all the time. Is there any way to open them *without* completely destroying them with scissors? ", "How the hell are you supposed to open these things? I get things in [these](http://imgur.com/pMjyagi) type of packages all the time. Is there any way to open them *without* completely destroying them with scissors? ", "How the hell are you supposed to open these things? I get things in [these](http://imgur.com/pMjyagi) type of packages all the time. Is there any way to open them *without* completely destroying them with scissors? " ]

[ "There are two types I think\n- the clam / clipped together that can often be prised apart\n- the \"dear god who made this\" heat sealed ones\n\nSolution: craft knife or stanley knife wins every time - it also means you can keep the insert with the instructions!!", "An X-acto knife (whatever they're called) can be used along one edge, just inside where the two sides are pressed together. You could likely find a similar (and maybe safer) knife at a craft store. A utility knife works well, too (only let the blade out one notch to be less dangerous).", "Trauma shears (the basic cheap plastic-handled ones). I've also seen others recommend the use of a hook cutter (such as a gut hook or rescue cutter) after making the initial cut, but haven't tried it myself.", "I think the point of the heat sealed packaging is that you must completely destory the package to get the item out. \nI have a heavy pair of scissors that cuts right through them in a control way. This protects my fingers some what.", "Carefully use a razor blade to cut it open. Simply turn the package over and cut as close to the edge of the inside paper packaging as possible (its hard to explain). Razors are dangerous, though, so be careful.", "cut around the perimeter just after the melted parts, only cut 3 sides...now you have a hinged storage system for your small device", "Always keep a Swiss Army Knife at your desk, i use mine at least 2 times daily. Without it you run into problems like this every day." ]

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[ "How to Perform Well in the Final Weeks of a Job You are Mentally Checked Out Of. I have been doing a finance internship for a year now. I've worked very hard, am well respected by my boss, one of the first in the office every day, etc. It was a great internship, it paid well and I got to make my own hours, essentially. \n\nHowever, I am completely checked out. I am a business student and changed my track from Finance to Marketing and frankly find the work to be extremely dry and mundane. I gave my 2 months notice well ahead of time, but I don't want to just half-ass it in the final days. ", "How to Perform Well in the Final Weeks of a Job You are Mentally Checked Out Of. I have been doing a finance internship for a year now. I've worked very hard, am well respected by my boss, one of the first in the office every day, etc. It was a great internship, it paid well and I got to make my own hours, essentially. \n\nHowever, I am completely checked out. I am a business student and changed my track from Finance to Marketing and frankly find the work to be extremely dry and mundane. I gave my 2 months notice well ahead of time, but I don't want to just half-ass it in the final days. ", "How to Perform Well in the Final Weeks of a Job You are Mentally Checked Out Of. I have been doing a finance internship for a year now. I've worked very hard, am well respected by my boss, one of the first in the office every day, etc. It was a great internship, it paid well and I got to make my own hours, essentially. \n\nHowever, I am completely checked out. I am a business student and changed my track from Finance to Marketing and frankly find the work to be extremely dry and mundane. I gave my 2 months notice well ahead of time, but I don't want to just half-ass it in the final days. ", "How to Perform Well in the Final Weeks of a Job You are Mentally Checked Out Of. I have been doing a finance internship for a year now. I've worked very hard, am well respected by my boss, one of the first in the office every day, etc. It was a great internship, it paid well and I got to make my own hours, essentially. \n\nHowever, I am completely checked out. I am a business student and changed my track from Finance to Marketing and frankly find the work to be extremely dry and mundane. I gave my 2 months notice well ahead of time, but I don't want to just half-ass it in the final days. ", "How to Perform Well in the Final Weeks of a Job You are Mentally Checked Out Of. I have been doing a finance internship for a year now. I've worked very hard, am well respected by my boss, one of the first in the office every day, etc. It was a great internship, it paid well and I got to make my own hours, essentially. \n\nHowever, I am completely checked out. I am a business student and changed my track from Finance to Marketing and frankly find the work to be extremely dry and mundane. I gave my 2 months notice well ahead of time, but I don't want to just half-ass it in the final days. ", "How to Perform Well in the Final Weeks of a Job You are Mentally Checked Out Of. I have been doing a finance internship for a year now. I've worked very hard, am well respected by my boss, one of the first in the office every day, etc. It was a great internship, it paid well and I got to make my own hours, essentially. \n\nHowever, I am completely checked out. I am a business student and changed my track from Finance to Marketing and frankly find the work to be extremely dry and mundane. I gave my 2 months notice well ahead of time, but I don't want to just half-ass it in the final days. " ]

[ "One thing you can do is complete all your pending projects. Try not to leave lots of unanswered emails or incomplete tasks for the next person.\n\nMy previous boss really appreciated that I left a little \"cheat sheet\" for the next person. It allows you to kind of escape your regular duties in a productive way. It also saves them the time that they would spend training the new employee. ", "Ok, first off lets talk about why you should still care. \n\nYou may not like the work, but you will like the reference. The work my not be the same as what you will be doing, but the experience will still be worthy of your resume. Companies employ finance and marketing people. Your coworkers are future contacts that you won't be competing with for jobs.\n\nNow you have a vested interest in not screwing it up.\n\nEnding a job, is almost like having a new job. There are different expectations, different tasks, and different interactions with your coworkers. It's an invaluable skill as these people can be leveraged for future jobs. \n\nBreak your day up into different parts. \n\nPart of your day do those things that just must be done every day. They must be done. If possible, train someone to do it. Teaching your boring task, adds the enjoyment of passing information onto another person. Even if there is no enjoyment in passing the information on, you are changing the activity up a bit.\n\nSpend time finishing projects you can. Try not to take on new projects. For projects you can't finish, write up information so the next person doesn't have to start over.\n\nPart of your day chart out knowledge bases and how to's for the next person. This is different enough that it should help you with the monotony. Do this well enough and your references will be glowing.", "Double check your personal opinion - if you worked hard and are well respected there's a good chance you being \"checked out\" is probably no worse than the people you work with who have been there for a few years. You're probably working down to the average level.\n\nIf on examination you really do feel like you're not performing up to your office standards then honestly bust your ass. Work with the people around you to transition and document things you've done; I've had people leave my teams who didn't document *anything* and have had to spend hours or days figuring out where they were on projects.\n\nRemember that each and every person you work with can pop up later on in your life, I've gotten fantastic jobs just because I was friendly with people who were leaving or with people I was leaving. Plus, you never know when a coworker today might show up as a Manager or Director tomorrow. Leave them with a good feeling about you - you want them to think \"That jaq_the_ripper, he was a great guy, when he left he told me exactly how many prostitutes he'd killed and where all the bodies were buried, and I was able to pick up right where he left off, if I ever need more organs harvested I know he'll be great, in fact, with the way he made transitioned everything I bet he'd be great at getting the public behind the Prostitute Organ Empire we're trying to get off the ground here...\"\n\nYou don't want them to think, \"That jaq - he was pretty good and quick with a knife, but left this place in shambles with those half-eaten livers...\"", "I work in food service (mostly bussing), so it's easy to mentally check out. When I do, I try to set myself simple, dumb, proxy challenges. I usually aim to take as many footsteps as possible. Just keep walking. If there's another person on (there usually is) I try to out-footstep that person.\nI dunno how that would translate to your thing, but maybe it's helpful?", "Ask if you can rotate around to other departments, or shadow somebody working on a related (but not identical job) to you. It shows that, even while you're leaving the role, you're still looking to increase your skills for your next role. If your boss hasn't given a recommendation yet, it might strengthen it.", "This thread has been linked to from another place on reddit.\n\n\n- [/r/knowyourshit] [LPT Request: How to Perform Well in the Final Weeks of a Job You are Mentally Checked Out Of. - LifeProTips](http://np.reddit.com/r/knowyourshit/comments/2y5ewg/lpt_request_how_to_perform_well_in_the_final/)\n\n\n*^If ^you ^follow ^any ^of ^the ^above ^links, ^respect ^the ^rules ^of ^reddit ^and ^don't ^vote. ^\\([Info](/r/TotesMessenger/wiki/) ^/ ^[Contact](/message/compose/?to=\\/r\\/TotesMessenger))* [](#bot)" ]

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[ "How do you connect a bluetooth headphone to more than 2 devices at a time (phone, tablet, laptop, maybe desktop computer, etc.)? ", "How do you connect a bluetooth headphone to more than 2 devices at a time (phone, tablet, laptop, maybe desktop computer, etc.)? " ]

[ "They have to support multi-point connections, I have a Blueant earpiece that can connect to two devices at the same time, but only one can be actively in use mind you (though this may be because it's an older device these days). Most simple Bluetooth headphones don't support muli-point like that.\n\nhttps://www.soundguys.com/bluetooth-multipoint-explained-28601/", "Bluetooth is intended as a point-to-point interface, similar to having a cable run between your headphones and a device, but replacing the cable with a wireless connection. Devices that can support more than one connection either have a Bluetooth \"hub\" setup (similar to how your wireless router can have multiple devices connected to its WiFi), or it scans two (or, potentially, more) different connections and switches to whichever one needs to be active. \n\nThis is normally how it works when you have a Bluetooth headset that can connect to a computer and a phone. While taking a call, the headset uses the \"connection\" to the phone. When you hang up the call and start watching a video on your computer, it switches to use the \"connection\" to the computer. However, one or the other will be prioritized, so if you get a phone call while watching a video on the computer, either the headset will continue to use the active connection, or it will prioritize the phone call and switch.\n\nA few devices either have more than one radio (or use software to act like they have more than one), or have a special kind of hub that can connect to other hubs. Some motorcycle Bluetooth systems do this, since they are designed to talk to one or two phones, a music source, a GPS device, and can potentially use Bluetooth to connect to another headset to work as a walkie-talkie between two riders. These are usually significantly more expensive.\n\nBluetooth can be used for non-audio sources as well. (Audio over Bluetooth is also commonly referred to as A2DP -- Advanced Audio Distribution Profile -- especially on device packaging.) Non-audio connections are different, and many devices support multiple non-audio connections. Most smartwatches use non-audio Bluetooth for their data connections to phones, for example. Bluetooth can also support file transfers, but does depend on the OS supporting it as well (I think Apple recently dropped support for it, for example). In fact, Bluetooth can even be used as an indoor-GPS of sorts, where a Bluetooth beacon at a known location can allow an app on a smartphone to show the user where they are in a hotel or conference center. All of this can be done simultaneously though, and with a large number of devices, as long as the device supports the protocols and features.\n\nIs this something you are trying to do, or just curious about? If you are trying to do it, are you trying to have \"more than 2 devices\" PLAYING audio at the same time, or just maintain active pairing?" ]

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[ "How to apartment hunt. My brother and I just moved to a new city, and we're at a loss on how to look for apartments. Short of craigslist, we have no other way to find a place. Any tips?", "How to apartment hunt. My brother and I just moved to a new city, and we're at a loss on how to look for apartments. Short of craigslist, we have no other way to find a place. Any tips?" ]

[ "If you use sites like Craigslist, where posters aren't verified beyond having an email, don't give in to people claiming to be on vacation and will mail the key to you after some sort of payment. A good thing to keep in mind is that if it seems too good to be true, it probably is. Flag those for removal to help weed out the garbage and fake links.", "1. If you are in the new location now, walk or bike (better idea of the area than driving) and look for \"For Rent\" signs. It's low tech but effective.\n\n2. Google management companies in the area and contact them.\n\n3. Check out a professional rental agency website, can cost more, but way more legit then craigslist.\n\n\nAs a long time renter, I highly recommend renting from a professional management company instead of a sole owner/landlord. They seem to be... well, more professional. \n\n" ]

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[ "fixing a hole in jeans Somehow managed to rip a hole along the seam of a back pocket on my favorite pair of jeans... How do I repair them?!", "fixing a hole in jeans Somehow managed to rip a hole along the seam of a back pocket on my favorite pair of jeans... How do I repair them?!" ]

[ "You can get an iron on patch (at a walmart or fabric store) and then fuse it on from the inside side of the rip, this will serve to stabilize the area, and then aquire a sewing machine, or friend with a sewing machine, and darn over the rip, securing it to the patch fabric (if the machine hasn't got a darning setting-newer often come with ridiculous lots of preloaded stich options) then disengage the feed dogs (the little metal teeth that guide the fabric under the foot) and turn your stich length to something reasonably short (like a 2, this isn't a button hole.) I also like to sew down along the perimiter of the patch, but you dont have to. With denim fabric weight isn't so big of a deal, but in general you want the patch fabric to be close to but no heavier than the rip fabric, or else the patch will cause more rips. (ex: if you patch a cotton shirt with denim or canvas, the shirt will continue to rip, if you patch it with silk organza, the patch may in time rip, if you patch it with a similar cotton, you should be ok.)\n\nAlternately, most dry cleaners will do this repair, it shouldn't be more than $15, if that.", "You can probably darn it rather than patch it. Do you have a sewing machine, or have you ever done any sewing? I'd suggest posting to /r/sewing.\n\nhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N-uPzfZHMwQ\n\nhttp://thingsweeks.blogspot.com/2008/09/darning-jeans.html" ]

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[ "I have 3 free months to do whatever, what should i do? I already go to a gym, i would like some other options.", "I have 3 free months to do whatever, what should i do? I already go to a gym, i would like some other options.", "I have 3 free months to do whatever, what should i do? I already go to a gym, i would like some other options.", "I have 3 free months to do whatever, what should i do? I already go to a gym, i would like some other options.", "I have 3 free months to do whatever, what should i do? I already go to a gym, i would like some other options.", "I have 3 free months to do whatever, what should i do? I already go to a gym, i would like some other options.", "I have 3 free months to do whatever, what should i do? I already go to a gym, i would like some other options." ]

[ "Do you have a car, OP? If so, if you're in the position to take a road trip to somewhere you've never been, it's a great experience!", "Consider traveling, three months is plenty of time to take a long backpacking trip across Europe or southeast Asia!", "learn to master the rubix cube. You will impress people at every party you go to(provided there is a rubix cube there).", "learn to sing, it actually helps with the working out; you use your abs muscles... at least the way im learning", "Make a list of things you've always wanted to do but never got around to doing, and try to do as many as you can. Not enough people take time to do these things anymore. Have fun (:\n\nMost def, though, travel if you can.", "Go take some classes at a local community college on a really cool subject, like a new language or coding. ", "Find something that interests you that you don't know much about and learn it. I learnt PHP doing this. Also recently have learnt a lot about electronics by buying an arduino. I wish I had the time to learn how to make apps." ]

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[ "Why are all my black clothes grey after a few washes? I wear a lot of black clothes but after a few washes they are a faded shade of grey instead of black. How do I prevent and/or reverse this?", "Why are all my black clothes grey after a few washes? I wear a lot of black clothes but after a few washes they are a faded shade of grey instead of black. How do I prevent and/or reverse this?", "Why are all my black clothes grey after a few washes? I wear a lot of black clothes but after a few washes they are a faded shade of grey instead of black. How do I prevent and/or reverse this?" ]

[ "Also if you wash your darks on cold and hang dry then color doesn’t fade almost at all. \nUnfortunately there’s no reversing it. :( you just gotta rock the experienced punk/metal look.", "Sounds like you might have a little bit of bleach residue in the detergent compartment. If that's the case, just give the compartment a quick wipe-down/rinse (if you can remove it), and it should go back to normal.\n\nIf, by chance, all the black clothes are from the same company, it could be a quality issue and you might be able to contact them and get a refund/exchange opportunity.", "Be sure to wash in cold water and dry on either low heat or no heat, the color lasts a lot longer that way. Also, just depends on what type of shirt you’re buying as well." ]

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[ "How to reduce amount of dust at home I usually leave my living room windows open during the day, and bedroom windows are always closed, but there are still considerable amount of dust and hair everytime I clean. I sweep twice a week.", "How to reduce amount of dust at home I usually leave my living room windows open during the day, and bedroom windows are always closed, but there are still considerable amount of dust and hair everytime I clean. I sweep twice a week.", "How to reduce amount of dust at home I usually leave my living room windows open during the day, and bedroom windows are always closed, but there are still considerable amount of dust and hair everytime I clean. I sweep twice a week.", "How to reduce amount of dust at home I usually leave my living room windows open during the day, and bedroom windows are always closed, but there are still considerable amount of dust and hair everytime I clean. I sweep twice a week.", "How to reduce amount of dust at home I usually leave my living room windows open during the day, and bedroom windows are always closed, but there are still considerable amount of dust and hair everytime I clean. I sweep twice a week." ]

[ "I would also really like to know -- so I'm waiting on other folks' responses\n\nI have only one tip that has worked well for me - a rug right inside the front door, the bigger the better. I used to have a smaller one I took it out to air it and replaced it with a much bigger one (maybe 4' x 6') and I find that lots less dirt gets tracked in, and consequently, there is less dust .", "Random ideas to help:\n\n1. I'd imagine keeping your bedroom windows closed is a bad thing. You know the whole indoor air is worse than outdoor air thing. More ventilation. Then again, when you're cleaning, maybe you dont need a breeze going through your house.\n2. Vacuum your mattress every time you change your sheets (1-2 weeks). You'll sleep better too. I do at least. Good time to flip your mattress if you're into that.\n3. What type of sweeping do you do? Steam mop? Swiffer? Certain types pick up dust better than others. \n4. I heard you can re-use Pledge dusting wipes if you wash them and they are useful for dusting furniture. I find microfiber is great at picking up and keeping dust too but it picks up everything else too, e.g. sand, which can scratch wood if you dust some furniture after.\n4. Higher qualify HVAC filters (Not sure if they're worth the money, I wait until ACE has them on sale), I get 1-2 levels above shitty blue filter level so that I still get a more reasonable pressure drop.\n5. Maybe a silly question, but how well do you scrub when you shower? Do you just stick soap on your skin and move it around? Well, get small bathing towel or real loofah or something and scrub well.\n6. How often do you properly clean your vacuum filters? Vacuums usually have 2-3 filters, a HEPA, an actual cannister filter/bag, and a motor filter. Keep them clean or replace.\n7. If you have a garage, sweep that too once in a while. Theres always a lot of dust in there that can hover in as you open the door or walk through.", "It's not for everyone but I vacuum my hardwood floors. Just make sure you are using the right type of vacuum (mine has a setting to turn off the brush bar). I find I have more success cleaning up stray dog fur with a vacuum than a broom.\nYou may also want to look into getting your air ducts cleaned.", "Sweep once a day. Mop as often as you can fit it in. Get used to dust and hair.\n\nI assume since you're sweeping you have hard surface floors. If not get a vacuum cleaner.", "Get a swiffer sweeper (generic pads work just as well and are super cheap) or a mop, regular dusters or brooms mostly move around dust, not remove it. Change your bedding frequently. Take your rugs outside and clean them frequently. " ]

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[ "How to deal with oversweating? Here it's starting to get hotter and warmer, and usually I have to walk in the morning under the sun and on campus (I'm in college) and it gets super hot. My back suddenly starts getting wet and everything and I've tried antiperspirant. I also have tried slinging my bag on one shoulder to prevent it from building up heat but still it happens. Any LPT's for this?", "How to deal with oversweating? Here it's starting to get hotter and warmer, and usually I have to walk in the morning under the sun and on campus (I'm in college) and it gets super hot. My back suddenly starts getting wet and everything and I've tried antiperspirant. I also have tried slinging my bag on one shoulder to prevent it from building up heat but still it happens. Any LPT's for this?", "How to deal with oversweating? Here it's starting to get hotter and warmer, and usually I have to walk in the morning under the sun and on campus (I'm in college) and it gets super hot. My back suddenly starts getting wet and everything and I've tried antiperspirant. I also have tried slinging my bag on one shoulder to prevent it from building up heat but still it happens. Any LPT's for this?", "How to deal with oversweating? Here it's starting to get hotter and warmer, and usually I have to walk in the morning under the sun and on campus (I'm in college) and it gets super hot. My back suddenly starts getting wet and everything and I've tried antiperspirant. I also have tried slinging my bag on one shoulder to prevent it from building up heat but still it happens. Any LPT's for this?", "How to deal with oversweating? Here it's starting to get hotter and warmer, and usually I have to walk in the morning under the sun and on campus (I'm in college) and it gets super hot. My back suddenly starts getting wet and everything and I've tried antiperspirant. I also have tried slinging my bag on one shoulder to prevent it from building up heat but still it happens. Any LPT's for this?", "How to deal with oversweating? Here it's starting to get hotter and warmer, and usually I have to walk in the morning under the sun and on campus (I'm in college) and it gets super hot. My back suddenly starts getting wet and everything and I've tried antiperspirant. I also have tried slinging my bag on one shoulder to prevent it from building up heat but still it happens. Any LPT's for this?", "How to deal with oversweating? Here it's starting to get hotter and warmer, and usually I have to walk in the morning under the sun and on campus (I'm in college) and it gets super hot. My back suddenly starts getting wet and everything and I've tried antiperspirant. I also have tried slinging my bag on one shoulder to prevent it from building up heat but still it happens. Any LPT's for this?", "How to deal with oversweating? Here it's starting to get hotter and warmer, and usually I have to walk in the morning under the sun and on campus (I'm in college) and it gets super hot. My back suddenly starts getting wet and everything and I've tried antiperspirant. I also have tried slinging my bag on one shoulder to prevent it from building up heat but still it happens. Any LPT's for this?" ]

[ "I can't help you with your back sweat problem, sorry.\n\nBut just in case someone clicked on this thread to learn about how to deal with underarm sweat:\n\n1. Buy a \"clinical strength\" antiperspirant such as [Certain Dri](http://www.amazon.com/Certain-Dri-Anti-Perspirant-Roll-On-1-2/dp/B000052X8R) (also available at local stores).\n2. Apply this antiperspirant **at night** before bed. This type of antiperspirant needs time to absorb into your skin when you're not sweating (therefore, while you sleep).\n\nI swear, I went from sweating so much that I would soak in a shirt in minutes, to almost not sweating at all using this method. It changed my life, no exaggeration.", "I have the same problem. During the summer I pour sweat out of every orifice to an abnormal degree. My ex used to call me Mr. Sweaty Guy (we watched a lot of The Critic). Getting in better shape helped a little bit, but it's still a problem. Don't think there's any answer, some people are just prone to sweat more than others, ya know?", "Lighter weight shirts. Take a look at shirts made out of materials like linen. /r/malefashionadvice has a great summer guide on the sidebar if you need some help finding other options too", "Perhaps you could try wearing a moisture wicking shirt? I know some individuals prefer polyester because of its moisture wicking abilities, but some will say cotton breathes better. Cotton doesn't wick moisture away though. ", "Maybe you could take a clean shirt with you and change when you reach university? Not ideal, but might be of some use. I face the same problem and haven't figured out anything for it.", "If you are a hardcore caffeine drinker(soda, coffee, energy drinks)....you might need to give it up on hotter days. \n\nI've always had a big problem with sweat (pit stained, and deoderant stained shirts). I used to drink soda like water. When I quit soda the issue went away. I find if I drink an AMP or some coffee, if I need it, the problem comes back.", "I have this same problem and for underarms I noticed that the clinical strength deodorant works. As for back sweat and such, stick with moisture-wicking fabrics. As for those days when absolutely nothing worked (and I live in FL, so it ll be 98 degrees with 87% humidity and worse) I would keep an extra, clean shirt in my book bag. Also, messenger bags help, as they keep your back uncovered. ", "(honestly) Try Brotanks, or take more cold showers. My hands used to sweat alot when I played violin so I used baby powder and it worked." ]

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[ "Don’t buy clothes as a gift for people with weight issues. Especially overweight people. Clothes are not made for all body types. Many things might fit in one size, but require a bigger or smaller size in a different brand. And many people go on diets where clothes fit, but then they put weight back on and clothes don’t fit. Plus, buying the wrong size can hurt feelings if the clothes are too small or too big. Just go gift card instead.", "Don’t buy clothes as a gift for people with weight issues. Especially overweight people. Clothes are not made for all body types. Many things might fit in one size, but require a bigger or smaller size in a different brand. And many people go on diets where clothes fit, but then they put weight back on and clothes don’t fit. Plus, buying the wrong size can hurt feelings if the clothes are too small or too big. Just go gift card instead." ]

[ "Here's something to grow into, you fat MFer. (Note: I am fat) That's how I view clothes. \"If this is too small , you can take it back\".", "Gift cards are mindless gifts, you might as well just give them money. Something like a shirt requires more thought for what they might like, plus you can ask them what size they are and say you might get them a shirt" ]

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[ "Moving into a apartment alone, tips about moving and organizing there? Next year I'm going to college, and I'm going into apartment searching soon, so I wanted to know any advices for the moving process and how to keep the apartment organized, things I should consider when I'm already there, and things to check out", "Moving into a apartment alone, tips about moving and organizing there? Next year I'm going to college, and I'm going into apartment searching soon, so I wanted to know any advices for the moving process and how to keep the apartment organized, things I should consider when I'm already there, and things to check out", "Moving into a apartment alone, tips about moving and organizing there? Next year I'm going to college, and I'm going into apartment searching soon, so I wanted to know any advices for the moving process and how to keep the apartment organized, things I should consider when I'm already there, and things to check out", "Moving into a apartment alone, tips about moving and organizing there? Next year I'm going to college, and I'm going into apartment searching soon, so I wanted to know any advices for the moving process and how to keep the apartment organized, things I should consider when I'm already there, and things to check out" ]

[ "When moving, I always pack last and unpack first.. toilet paper, matresses, pillows, and blankets. Also pack a suitcase with your essentials. That way while unpacking the rest of you stuff, if you are tired, you have a place to rest, and you can wash up, etc, before starting a new day. Other than that, just pack by room and label boxes appropriately. I also write list of everything in the box and attach it with tape. (Sometimes I need to find miscellaneous things.) Have fun at college!", "If you have fragile items, like decorations or dishware, use your clothes to wrap them up and cushion them instead of paper. It will save time and you will have fewer boxes to move.", "I just moved out this semester about two months ago so I definitely have some tips. But first I need to know a few things. Any roommates? How far away from home are you going ? Are you driving your self or taking public transportation? ", "I forgot to consider you might be out of the U.S, but my tips should still apply. \n\nThis might sound obvious but don't overpack clothes. Some of my roommates and myself included brought so many clothes that we don't use and it's just taking up space.\n\nFor kitchen use, take your own utensils but just one of each you're not going to need more than that trust me. For kitchen equipment like pans and pots, if your buddys do get in coordinate who takes what so you don't have multiples. \n\nIn the beginning it's all about taking what's absolutely essential, if you're able to go home during breaks that's when you bring some more stuff if you have the space. \n\nI'm gonna link some stuff in a moment that you should absolutely consider buying. They're going to be amazon links but big chain stores in your area should carry similar products. \n\nThese three products fold so they're easy to pack in any suitcase.\n\nhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B00VAP3WQS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_UmaYzbTE3WW8Z\n\nhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0007CXQQ6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_phPsFiDn7OQci\n\nhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B01N2JICUM/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_CpaYzbDRYQXFF\n\nA little bigger so you'd have to buy these once you've settled in but they help if you're low on space. \n\nhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B011AM4HI2/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_4qaYzb41J2H0N\n\n\nhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B011AM9K2K/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_EraYzbKNW12MG\n\nPlastic is your best friend if you're low on funds and can't buy dressers. I have one in my closet for T-Shirts/socks/boxers and one under my T.V desk for electronics/school stuff \n\nhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B000MPQ2S2/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_9saYzbE9D8P4Q\n\nI ship to Mexico sometimes so maybe you can ship to Chile as well." ]

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[ "How to become more mindful of how your physical and emotional feelings affect your actions. I'm becoming more aware that I allow extraneous feelings color my interactions. For example, when I get hot, I start getting really angry. That's nobody's fault, but I'll get snippy with someone over something dumb before I realize what my real issue is. That's not too say that I always react inappropriately when I'm hot, but if I'm not aware of it, I'm more inclined to be a dick than I normally would be. What are some things I can do to be more aware of things that are affecting my behavior in such a way more regularly?", "How to become more mindful of how your physical and emotional feelings affect your actions. I'm becoming more aware that I allow extraneous feelings color my interactions. For example, when I get hot, I start getting really angry. That's nobody's fault, but I'll get snippy with someone over something dumb before I realize what my real issue is. That's not too say that I always react inappropriately when I'm hot, but if I'm not aware of it, I'm more inclined to be a dick than I normally would be. What are some things I can do to be more aware of things that are affecting my behavior in such a way more regularly?", "How to become more mindful of how your physical and emotional feelings affect your actions. I'm becoming more aware that I allow extraneous feelings color my interactions. For example, when I get hot, I start getting really angry. That's nobody's fault, but I'll get snippy with someone over something dumb before I realize what my real issue is. That's not too say that I always react inappropriately when I'm hot, but if I'm not aware of it, I'm more inclined to be a dick than I normally would be. What are some things I can do to be more aware of things that are affecting my behavior in such a way more regularly?", "How to become more mindful of how your physical and emotional feelings affect your actions. I'm becoming more aware that I allow extraneous feelings color my interactions. For example, when I get hot, I start getting really angry. That's nobody's fault, but I'll get snippy with someone over something dumb before I realize what my real issue is. That's not too say that I always react inappropriately when I'm hot, but if I'm not aware of it, I'm more inclined to be a dick than I normally would be. What are some things I can do to be more aware of things that are affecting my behavior in such a way more regularly?", "How to become more mindful of how your physical and emotional feelings affect your actions. I'm becoming more aware that I allow extraneous feelings color my interactions. For example, when I get hot, I start getting really angry. That's nobody's fault, but I'll get snippy with someone over something dumb before I realize what my real issue is. That's not too say that I always react inappropriately when I'm hot, but if I'm not aware of it, I'm more inclined to be a dick than I normally would be. What are some things I can do to be more aware of things that are affecting my behavior in such a way more regularly?" ]

[ "Greetings:)\n\nMindfulness is your ticket. The way to be more mindful is to practice being mindful. But one must first built up some separation between the event.\n\nFirst and foremost- sitting in m", "I'm by no means an expert, but I've read a couple things in this realm that might help you. The first is mindfulness training, usually through m", "Your request just perfectly described the outcome of mindfulness m", "Get Don't Bite the Hook by Pema Chodron. I highly recommend getting the audio version and listening to it repeatedly while driving, taking a walk or before going to bed. Especially because you can just listen again for a refresher when you find yourself going back to your old ways. \n\nhttp://www.shambhala.com/don-t-bite-the-hook.html\n", "Check out the book Feeling Good by Dr. David Burns, MD It provides a great foundation for cognitive behavioral modification. This book greatly contributed to the creation of the \"mindful movement\". Here's his website too https://feelinggood.com\n" ]

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[ "How to deny a friend or family member a referral for a job. I don't think they are right for the job, and I don't want to strain our relationship because of it.", "How to deny a friend or family member a referral for a job. I don't think they are right for the job, and I don't want to strain our relationship because of it.", "How to deny a friend or family member a referral for a job. I don't think they are right for the job, and I don't want to strain our relationship because of it." ]

[ "It could be worse. They could be in sales and asking you to introduce them to the right people in your company so they can make a sales call.", "If you cant tell them directly and you are comfortable with \"white lies\" you can tell them you pissed your boss off recently and your word would prolly do more harm than good.", "I actually did this once. Went to my boss and said 'A friend of mine wanted to know if you were hiring... Is it okay if I just say you're not, cuz trust me, you don't want to hire him.'\n\nI then told my friend that I asked (which I did) and the boss said he's not hiring at the moment (which he did).\n\nEasy peasy" ]

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[ "Stretching, share some. It's probably been said plenty of times before, but stretching is so good for you. Im personally looking for (lower) back stretches. But all is welcome. Glutes are also a main muscle to stretch.", "Stretching, share some. It's probably been said plenty of times before, but stretching is so good for you. Im personally looking for (lower) back stretches. But all is welcome. Glutes are also a main muscle to stretch.", "Stretching, share some. It's probably been said plenty of times before, but stretching is so good for you. Im personally looking for (lower) back stretches. But all is welcome. Glutes are also a main muscle to stretch.", "Stretching, share some. It's probably been said plenty of times before, but stretching is so good for you. Im personally looking for (lower) back stretches. But all is welcome. Glutes are also a main muscle to stretch." ]

[ "[This one](http://www.racewalk.com/Stretching/IntensiveCalfStretch.jpg) here is pure calf-sex. I always do it before/after a run, or really anytime my legs are feeling tight. It's also one that you can do almost anywhere.", "[best lower back stretch](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2qZ517Rw7ME&feature=feedlik) I came across this the other week and it has helped so much. I do it a few times a day, and I am still really tight in the hips/ back but this, coupled with a few other stretches has given results.", "Office Cubicle stretch. Although we do dynamic stretching at the boxing gym, I find a solid way to get rid of some office chair/computer stare pain is [this wall stretch. (diagram)](http://www.tinajuanfitness.info/exercises/Pole-Chest%20stretch.htm) They recommend a 8\" steel I-beam judging by the draw-ring, but if you are not superhuman, standard dry wall or office cubicle wall material works.", "If you’re like most of us, you were taught the importance of warm-up exercises back in grade school, and you’ve likely continued with pretty much the same routine ever since. **[Science, however, has moved on. Researchers now believe that some of the more entrenched elements of many athletes’ warm-up regimens are not only a waste of time but actually bad for you. The old presumption that holding a stretch for 20 to 30 seconds — known as static stretching — primes muscles for a workout is dead wrong. It actually weakens them.**](http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/02/sports/playmagazine/112pewarm.html) In a recent study conducted at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas, athletes generated less force from their leg muscles after static stretching than they did after not stretching at all. Other studies have found that this stretching decreases muscle strength by as much as 30 percent. Also, stretching one leg’s muscles can reduce strength in the other leg as well, probably because the central nervous system rebels against the movements.\n\nTL:DR; The idea that stretching is necessary and/or beneficial is, apparently, incorrect." ]

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[ "Getting cigarette smell out of clothes that aren't easily washable. My boyfriend just got a really nice Columbia jacket from his dad for Christmas, but he is a heavy smoker and now it smells like cigarettes. I don't want to ruin the capabilities of this jacket (water proof, etc) by using the washing machine... Is there any way to get the smell out another way?", "Getting cigarette smell out of clothes that aren't easily washable. My boyfriend just got a really nice Columbia jacket from his dad for Christmas, but he is a heavy smoker and now it smells like cigarettes. I don't want to ruin the capabilities of this jacket (water proof, etc) by using the washing machine... Is there any way to get the smell out another way?", "Getting cigarette smell out of clothes that aren't easily washable. My boyfriend just got a really nice Columbia jacket from his dad for Christmas, but he is a heavy smoker and now it smells like cigarettes. I don't want to ruin the capabilities of this jacket (water proof, etc) by using the washing machine... Is there any way to get the smell out another way?", "Getting cigarette smell out of clothes that aren't easily washable. My boyfriend just got a really nice Columbia jacket from his dad for Christmas, but he is a heavy smoker and now it smells like cigarettes. I don't want to ruin the capabilities of this jacket (water proof, etc) by using the washing machine... Is there any way to get the smell out another way?" ]

[ "When I used to smoke or would go to bars that were heavily smoked in, I'd always put my coat outside overnight. If that didn't take care of it, which it usually did, I'd get it dry cleaned. ", "When I lived in St. Louis in the wintertime and the bars would be completely clouded with smoke, this was my strategy. When I cam up to the back porch, I would keep a clothes hanger there. I would take off my jacket, put it on the hanger, then hang it somewhere on the patio under cover. There was a light sconce hanging there that worked. Letting it air out overnight usually did the trick.", "Stuff it full of newspapers and let it rest for a few days, then toss the newspapers and spritz it with water and white vinegar. Hang outside in the sun to dry. If it still smells, lie it flat, sprinkle with baking soda inside and outside, leave for a few more days and repeat. ", "Read a few days ago that a vodka solution does the trick. can't remember the exact proportions though. Sorry " ]

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[ "What is one way you can improve your life and make it healthier? One thing you can do or a daily activity or one food you can start eating or something specific. Just wanted to ask and see what people had to say. ", "What is one way you can improve your life and make it healthier? One thing you can do or a daily activity or one food you can start eating or something specific. Just wanted to ask and see what people had to say. ", "What is one way you can improve your life and make it healthier? One thing you can do or a daily activity or one food you can start eating or something specific. Just wanted to ask and see what people had to say. ", "What is one way you can improve your life and make it healthier? One thing you can do or a daily activity or one food you can start eating or something specific. Just wanted to ask and see what people had to say. ", "What is one way you can improve your life and make it healthier? One thing you can do or a daily activity or one food you can start eating or something specific. Just wanted to ask and see what people had to say. ", "What is one way you can improve your life and make it healthier? One thing you can do or a daily activity or one food you can start eating or something specific. Just wanted to ask and see what people had to say. ", "What is one way you can improve your life and make it healthier? One thing you can do or a daily activity or one food you can start eating or something specific. Just wanted to ask and see what people had to say. ", "What is one way you can improve your life and make it healthier? One thing you can do or a daily activity or one food you can start eating or something specific. Just wanted to ask and see what people had to say. ", "What is one way you can improve your life and make it healthier? One thing you can do or a daily activity or one food you can start eating or something specific. Just wanted to ask and see what people had to say. ", "What is one way you can improve your life and make it healthier? One thing you can do or a daily activity or one food you can start eating or something specific. Just wanted to ask and see what people had to say. ", "What is one way you can improve your life and make it healthier? One thing you can do or a daily activity or one food you can start eating or something specific. Just wanted to ask and see what people had to say. " ]

[ "Walk every day. You will feel better. Your circulation will be better. Joints will feel less stiff. 30 minutes a day of walking", "Changing up my commute changed my life. \n\nI was finding myself at my desk at 6:30 PM and realized I needed to make a change. My workplace had subsidized bus passes, so I signed up. That one change had so many positive benefits: two short walks built into my day, social interaction with people I otherwise wouldn't meet, reading/chatting/knitting instead of a stressful drive. Best of all, I had a hard stop to my day. Trying to catch me on my way out the door for a few minutes that we both know will be a half hour at the least? Sorry, put me on your calendar for tomorrow, gotta catch my bus. So I guess it was good training wheels for establishing and maintaining good professional boundaries.", "Many people already said water so I recommend having 2 pieces of fruit a day - 5 a day is unrealistic and none at all can mean that you aren't processing any healthy sugar in the day so I set a target of 2 and it's really helped me. I don't really crave sweets/ junk anymore.", "Eat a handful or two of fruit every morning. Blueberries, strawberries, raspberries, and/or blackberries. Super easy if you’re not into making smoothies.", "Ride a bike, it’s great for ur mental health and it’s a low impact sport so you can ride miles on end without getting too tired", "My favourite is m", "Water!!! I drink 2-3L a day and it is truly the way.\n\nExercise! It's not very exciting to most people,but the key is to find something you enjoy. I like cycling, especially with how many sights I can see while burning calories. Local team sports, running, the gym, etc. Options are endless\n\nMindfulness! I like to sit down at the beginning and end of each day and write anything notable in my planner. I see what I've accomplished and what I must do for the day. \n\nSetting small goals is key for the long term. Instead of immediately telling yourself you will run x miles, start with a brisk walk. So on and so forth. Small goals, especially if it's something easy can help boost motivation.", "Strength training/lifting weights. \n\nDoesn’t have to be hardcore. Building muscle strength improves your metabolism and every other exercise, activity, and daily task all the way to sitting for extended periods of time.\n\nAfter years of doing cardio and some light resistance training It was a game changer for me to start consistently lift weights. I did Bodypump classes 2x a week (Les Mills programs at the gym and they have an app now too) and my body totally changed. \n\nIt had a domino effect on my overall well-being.", "Keep a bag of prunes, dried apricots, dried figs at home. When you crave to sweets, they are relatively better source of sugar.\n\nGet to know the hike routes around your town. A daily hike will be exercise, social time spent with your friends/family, opportunity to get fresh air and warm sun you need. You can plan it yourself or join ramblings groups or use apps like meetup for this.", "Everyone says fruit and water but honestly? Veggies.\n\nEat something high in fiber whenever you can. Hell one salad meal a week can severely improve your stomach happiness. \n\nAlso, treat yourself. Not every day, but reward yourself for a job well done. Made that important phone call you been dreading? Went and visited the doctor? Give yourself something nice. Allow yourself that ice cream, or a few bits of candy. Or maybe you deserve a read of a book in a hot bath tonight. \n\nEvery month or two, decide if you have the monetary ability to buy yourself something nice. Yes? Get those shoes you wanted, or maybe a nice jacket flaunting your favorite show. Or maybe that pretty necklace you saw last week. Treat yourself like a lover might treat you. 'Hey I saw this and it made me think of you', but instead 'I saw this and it made me happy'. This also cuts down on impulse purchases.\n\nGo get a massage. Once a month or more if you can. Usually it's about $60-$75 for a session (especially at chain spas, tho at home massages can be good to, they are often more expensive) and you can address a lot of things that slow you down the rest of the time. Massages aren't just for neck pain. Period cramps? Massage. Indigestion and gas? Massage. Migraine and headaches? Massage. Fell last week? Massage. Just damn tired? Massage. Chiropractors too, if you find a good one.", "It’s pretty hard to stop eating sugar everything has sugar in it from your fruits to your bread, everything. If you’re really into it I suppose you could stop refined sugar. But if you’re just looking to do some thing you may actually do start with drinking a glass of lemon water in the morning and try to walk around the block on your lunch break. It’s really small but baby steps are good." ]

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[ "Breakfast for productivity? Hi guys, do you eat breakfast? I usually skip breakfast and have sleepy, Would be the lack of food in the morning? Some people that do intermittent fasting dont eat breakfast.", "Breakfast for productivity? Hi guys, do you eat breakfast? I usually skip breakfast and have sleepy, Would be the lack of food in the morning? Some people that do intermittent fasting dont eat breakfast.", "Breakfast for productivity? Hi guys, do you eat breakfast? I usually skip breakfast and have sleepy, Would be the lack of food in the morning? Some people that do intermittent fasting dont eat breakfast.", "Breakfast for productivity? Hi guys, do you eat breakfast? I usually skip breakfast and have sleepy, Would be the lack of food in the morning? Some people that do intermittent fasting dont eat breakfast." ]

[ "I very rarely eat breakfast. At most I would drink w cup of coffee. For the most part I do that cause I am not hungry until around 10 AM.", "My therapist told me once that a breakfast with a lot of protein is better for mood later on in the day. ", "Depends on the person. Some people find any breakfast makes them lethargic. Some people prefer a light yogurt, granola or piece of fruit and some like you say intermittent fast. Some just a cup of coffee. Just gotta trial and error for yourself. And depends on overall diet. I have many days straight to the gym and breakfast after. Some days just intermittent fast and dont eat till lunch. Some days a big fatty breakfast. Especially when theres a big day a head of physical activity. Also vitamins and stuff dont hurt. I dont think individual meals affect motivation and productivity as much as overall diet and the composition of the diet. Some people are more productive (creatively) when not digesting food. ", "You have sleepy? Is this common phrase somewhere? I honestly cannot figure out what you mean, no disrespect intended. \n \n" ]

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[ "Legitimate phone number lookup I'm on the do not call list and seldom give out my phone number. However, I still get calls from numbers I don't recognize once in a while. When googling reverse phone number lookup, there is a plethora of sketchy websites, most asking for cr", "Legitimate phone number lookup I'm on the do not call list and seldom give out my phone number. However, I still get calls from numbers I don't recognize once in a while. When googling reverse phone number lookup, there is a plethora of sketchy websites, most asking for cr", "Legitimate phone number lookup I'm on the do not call list and seldom give out my phone number. However, I still get calls from numbers I don't recognize once in a while. When googling reverse phone number lookup, there is a plethora of sketchy websites, most asking for cr" ]

[ "If they are likely phone spammers, junk callers etc. those numbers are known\nHere's one:\n\nhttp://whocallsme.com/ I don't think you even have to register for that one.\n\nYou shouldn't have to pay for any of this, sure sign it's a scam.", "Do you think that a site like *Been Verified* is sketchy? (that's a well known site and has been advertised on TV in the past.) The same sites that provide instant background checks online are often times the same ones that let you look up phone numbers. You don't necessarily have to pay per report, or for each search either; an inexpensive monthly membership fee is usually available (which can be as low as $20 per month.) Sometimes, even **[free trials are available](http://backgroundcheckreviewer.blogspot.com/2013/10/where-is-truly-free-reverse-cell-phone.html)** for this. \nNow, here's the downside to it. The results are not guaranteed to be accurate or up to date. Cell phone numbers aren't published, these companies just do the best they can to gather as many phone numbers as possible from the sources available to them. For this reason, be careful about who are what you give your cell number to because of data mining. (The same thing applies to other personal information; even photos now, because of facial recognition.) \nIf you have a smartphone then Mr. Number is a good app, as others have suggested. It has been labeled as a moderate privacy threat by Clueful. It should easily screen out telemarketers and other unwanted calls. \nI don't think that reverse phone look-up websites (the kind that I described) would be very helpful for dealing with telemarketers though.", "Who cares. Just ignore them. If it turns out to be someone you know, they'll leave a message and you can call back.\n\nBonus option, signup for Google voice and get your voice mails transcribed and sent to you via SMS to decide if you even care to listen to the message.\n\nLife is far too short to worry about scammers and telemarketers" ]

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[ "How to not think on your ex after a break up? I know it will take time to get over her. I was just curious if anyone had some good tips that helped them? ", "How to not think on your ex after a break up? I know it will take time to get over her. I was just curious if anyone had some good tips that helped them? ", "How to not think on your ex after a break up? I know it will take time to get over her. I was just curious if anyone had some good tips that helped them? ", "How to not think on your ex after a break up? I know it will take time to get over her. I was just curious if anyone had some good tips that helped them? ", "How to not think on your ex after a break up? I know it will take time to get over her. I was just curious if anyone had some good tips that helped them? ", "How to not think on your ex after a break up? I know it will take time to get over her. I was just curious if anyone had some good tips that helped them? ", "How to not think on your ex after a break up? I know it will take time to get over her. I was just curious if anyone had some good tips that helped them? ", "How to not think on your ex after a break up? I know it will take time to get over her. I was just curious if anyone had some good tips that helped them? ", "How to not think on your ex after a break up? I know it will take time to get over her. I was just curious if anyone had some good tips that helped them? ", "How to not think on your ex after a break up? I know it will take time to get over her. I was just curious if anyone had some good tips that helped them? ", "How to not think on your ex after a break up? I know it will take time to get over her. I was just curious if anyone had some good tips that helped them? " ]

[ "9 year relationship just ended about a month ago, and then lost my job shortly thereafter. Not having the future you had been planning on can really kick you in the dick. Luckily right after the job thing I was offered another position elsewhere which really took a lot of stress off me on that angle, at which point I discovered that a lot of the pain I was feeling from the breakup was from the feelings of worthlessness at being the rejectee. To this end, I advise you as others have, to \"keep busy\", however I will go further and say that you should keep busy with attending to YOU. Talk with your friends, family, a counselor, or a support group about the loss and how it makes you feel. Do this until you notice that you are talking less about the breakup and more about other things. Allow yourself to feel bad/cry/sob/get angry/etc, but dont let thosr feelings consume you. Make a promise to yourself that you'll feel that way for X minutes and then you'll force yourself to think about and do something else. Then do that.\n\nGo for walks, or bike rides. Go window shopping, or get yourself a nice shirt that you look good in. Go about your day taking care of yourself and after a while things will become easier. You will still feel sad sometimes, and that's ok. You will still have to try sometimes to not think about your ex, but as time goes on it will become easier.\n\nThis isn't the end of your life, no matter how much it may feel that way sometimes. Even if you were the one who broke up with them, strive to be a better you and the next thing that comes along will be better because of it.\n\nDont be afraid to ask for help when you need it. There are people in your life who love you still, even if who you were with doesnt love you anymore.", "1) Masturbate a lot\n\n2) Stay busy\n\n3) Pick up a hobby\n\n4) If you're tempted to call or text, see 1).\n", "Regardless of what you do the only thing you can do is wait it out, you can preoccupy yourself but you'll still end up thinking about them. After time you'll notice you will go longer periods of time without thinking about them. If you're one of the cursed few, they'll pop back into your mind once every couple of weeks but it won't be as bad. \n\nThe only suggestion I can make is not jump back in to a relationship right away. If you truly cared for your ex, it will be the downfall of your relationship as you will be comparing your new SO to your EX. ", "I'm told I am weird, and have a lizard brain, but here is my thought process:\n\nThe relationship has gotten to a point where one of us doesn't really think it is a good idea to continue. \n\nI don't want to live my life with someone where this is ever looming over my head, as to me this tells me that this person isn't the one, and there is someone out there better for me. \n\nOur past experiences together do not define our relationship together. We may have changed into a person that the other cannot be with. It doesn't matter. You are where you are. The feelings are not returned, and you are probably placing them on a pedestal which they do not belong on. \n\nIf you are the one initiating, good for you, as you know where you stand. If they broke up with you, then there is no point being sad or missing them, because they clearly don't love you as much as you love them. This tells me that not only is this a terrible fit, as you shouldn't have this problem in a good relationship, but that if the breakup hadn't occurred, you'd just end up living a life you didn't truly want to for the sake of consistency/complacency. \n\nTrying to make a relationship work, in my opinion, is pointless. You should never have to make it work with the right person. It just works. That isn't to say you don't have to try to be a good partner or make an effort to do your part. You need to communicate, work through problems calmly, don't get worked up over small stuff, etc. Realize that not everyone is capable of this. \n\nThis was never going to work. You tried it out, and found out. Ultimately this is a good thing in the grand scheme of things (unless you keep dwelling), as you haven't wasted any more time on this person, and can resume your search (if that's your thing). Thinking about something lost is time and effort wasted. This person is no longer important to your life direction, and aside from some lessons learned, very likely never were (you may have MADE them important because you were lonely, wanted to check the social check boxes, or whatever reason). This person goes into the discard pile in favor of new things that have the potential to make you happy. \n\nHobbies are good. Hobbies help you meet people. \n\nIf you think you may call them, masturbate. That feeling will probably pass. If it doesn't remember that you deserve a person that can love you equally, and this person is unwilling/unable to do this. Calling or thinking about them is wasted time (and will only be viewed as pathetic if calling). It will only serve to put you into a regression pattern. \n\nTry new things. Go on a trip. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations where you can learn, grow, and become more confident. International travel is fantastic for this if you have the money, though obviously we can't all go galavanting around the world every time we break up. Doing things that boost your experiences and confidence help you forget, and reinforce a feeling of self worth that you may have lost. It also makes you more interesting for new relationship. \n\nLastly, look inward and make sure this isn't due to some ridiculous reason, such as subconsciously you feel like you have to dwell due to the length of the relationship. Assume that other person is out doing whatever the fuck they want and living life, and do the same. At the em of the day, everyone deserves a partner they not only love and look forward to seeing, but to have that feeling returned 100%. If you ever feel like you have to change yourself in a fundamental way, try excessively to make this happen, nor accept that you love them more the they love you, no way is it worth it. \n\nThat was a lot, and a little off topic, but this kind of thing isn't just about distracting yourself. It is about taking a step back to fundamentally, and objectively assess the situation, and realize it is time to live your life for you, and not this other person. You've just gotten out of a prison of the willing. Go jump in the ocean, see color again, and count your blessings it wasn't a life sentence. ", "Hit the gym. Friend of mine once told me something that's stuck with me, \"Break ups make body builders\". Hit the gym, take what ever emotions you feel, turn them into anger, and fuel your workouts. Fits into the new hobby others suggest.", "Is it your ex you miss or the routine? If it is the routine you have to break it. Hard and quick. Used to going out to eat every Monday night with your ex. Make plans that involve no eating that night. Try stuff like that. ", "Use a distraction technique. Find something else you could equally think about for hours and every time you think of them, stop, and think of that instead. Otherwise just keep yourself busy as much as possible. \n\nTrust me in a year from now you won't be thinking about them every day, it'll all be okay! ", "Not thinking about your ex may not be the best way to go about getting over her. What I mean is: you might be able to forget about her more easily if you list out a bunch of things that you didn't like about her. If you can't think of any, force yourself to think hard. This will be difficult because you'll have to dig your memory of your past relationship. There were probably some negative influence, annoyances, and habits that she had that you merely glanced over or accepted because you were infatuated. Focus on the negatives and really know that it was for the best. \n\n\nOnce you've gotten that out of your system, stay busy and preoccupied with hobbies and other relationships (family, friends). Exercise helps to improve your emotional well being, release stress, improve your body and thus your self-esteem. Relax. Focus on enhancing your own life.", "Get drunk! \n\nThe worlds oldest profession is called that for a reason and depending on where you live in the world the answer could be right down the road or just a plane ride to Nevada away\n\nRemember any girls from old jobs you had ? Maybe they remember you too!", "just give it time its normal u obviously cared about them dont ever date someone u wont think about for a couple weeks after", "Dan Savage always says the best way to get over an ex is with liberal application of someone else's bodily fluids. " ]

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[ "If I were going to get a tattoo with my blood type on my body, where should I get it? I was thinking of tattoos that can be usefull and was wondering where would be the best place to put them. Chest? Neck? Hand? Leg?", "If I were going to get a tattoo with my blood type on my body, where should I get it? I was thinking of tattoos that can be usefull and was wondering where would be the best place to put them. Chest? Neck? Hand? Leg?", "If I were going to get a tattoo with my blood type on my body, where should I get it? I was thinking of tattoos that can be usefull and was wondering where would be the best place to put them. Chest? Neck? Hand? Leg?", "If I were going to get a tattoo with my blood type on my body, where should I get it? I was thinking of tattoos that can be usefull and was wondering where would be the best place to put them. Chest? Neck? Hand? Leg?", "If I were going to get a tattoo with my blood type on my body, where should I get it? I was thinking of tattoos that can be usefull and was wondering where would be the best place to put them. Chest? Neck? Hand? Leg?", "If I were going to get a tattoo with my blood type on my body, where should I get it? I was thinking of tattoos that can be usefull and was wondering where would be the best place to put them. Chest? Neck? Hand? Leg?", "If I were going to get a tattoo with my blood type on my body, where should I get it? I was thinking of tattoos that can be usefull and was wondering where would be the best place to put them. Chest? Neck? Hand? Leg?", "If I were going to get a tattoo with my blood type on my body, where should I get it? I was thinking of tattoos that can be usefull and was wondering where would be the best place to put them. Chest? Neck? Hand? Leg?", "If I were going to get a tattoo with my blood type on my body, where should I get it? I was thinking of tattoos that can be usefull and was wondering where would be the best place to put them. Chest? Neck? Hand? Leg?" ]

[ "Im not in the medical field but I have to think they are still going to type you... Theres going to be a protocol they're not risking it on a tattoo.", "Save your money. If you need a non emergency transfusion, they'll verify your type regardless of what you tell them. In an emergency, you're getting O negative", "I would go inner arm right below the ditch because that's where you're likely to get a blood withdraw/transfusion. Most likely to be noticed if/when needed.", "You can get a \"medical tag\" with your info and tattoo it as a bracelet or necklace to look like the real thing", "Probably your chest, I would say your forehead but that wouldn't be acceptable in a lot of work places. Chest I think works because if your chest is messed up to where they can't read the tattoo well then they didn't need your blood type anyways", "Avoid the armpit, the Nazi SS all had their blood group tattooed there. It was used to identify war criminals after WW2.", "On your arm. Or where you are likely to receive that transfusion. Which is usually on the underside of your arm. Also on your chest or neck are also good locations. First responders usually check your neck for pulse first.", "I would say a place like over your heart, it's a location they will check quickly and if it's missing your fucked anyway", "Get it somewhere you know you will never have to get an MRI scan. Like the back of your neck. Try avoiding places with high probability of getting injured because MRI (Magnetic Resonance Imaging) scans basically work with metals in your body and tattoo ink contains metals. It’s better to be safe than sorry!" ]

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[ "Allergies and sinus infections. I've been sick since november, lol. I am waiting on a referral to see a specialist here. What do I do in the mean time? This summer is fucking brutal. ", "Allergies and sinus infections. I've been sick since november, lol. I am waiting on a referral to see a specialist here. What do I do in the mean time? This summer is fucking brutal. ", "Allergies and sinus infections. I've been sick since november, lol. I am waiting on a referral to see a specialist here. What do I do in the mean time? This summer is fucking brutal. " ]

[ "My best friend's husband had chronic sinus infections until he started using a nedi pot every night before bed. *shrugs* I use nedi pots every night when I've been around a lot of dust, etc. Give it a try!!", "Is there anyway you could stay away from the allergen? Also, clean your room. In the best case scenario, your room should only a bed only. That's how my room looks like and I feel much better than ever. ", "I also vote Neti Pot. Just make sure to use distilled or previously-boiled water to make sure you don't get any of those nasty amoebic infections they show on House. 1/4tsp salt to 8oz warm water. Works brilliantly." ]

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[ "how to reconnect with a friend you've stopped talking to. I had a friend a while ago who I talked to almost every day(we communicated online, so it wasn't like I saw him everyday). However, for a couple weeks, he just stopped answering his phone. Eventually he did come back (apparently something had happened in his family and he had been busy), and we started talking again, but not as often. It went from once a day to a few times a week to maybe once a week to never. I recently have wanted to start communicating with him again, but I have no idea how to go about it.\n\nTL;DR had a friend sho I talked to online, something came up and he had to leave for a while, when he got back out relationship sort of trailed off and died, and I want to become friends with him again", "how to reconnect with a friend you've stopped talking to. I had a friend a while ago who I talked to almost every day(we communicated online, so it wasn't like I saw him everyday). However, for a couple weeks, he just stopped answering his phone. Eventually he did come back (apparently something had happened in his family and he had been busy), and we started talking again, but not as often. It went from once a day to a few times a week to maybe once a week to never. I recently have wanted to start communicating with him again, but I have no idea how to go about it.\n\nTL;DR had a friend sho I talked to online, something came up and he had to leave for a while, when he got back out relationship sort of trailed off and died, and I want to become friends with him again", "how to reconnect with a friend you've stopped talking to. I had a friend a while ago who I talked to almost every day(we communicated online, so it wasn't like I saw him everyday). However, for a couple weeks, he just stopped answering his phone. Eventually he did come back (apparently something had happened in his family and he had been busy), and we started talking again, but not as often. It went from once a day to a few times a week to maybe once a week to never. I recently have wanted to start communicating with him again, but I have no idea how to go about it.\n\nTL;DR had a friend sho I talked to online, something came up and he had to leave for a while, when he got back out relationship sort of trailed off and died, and I want to become friends with him again", "how to reconnect with a friend you've stopped talking to. I had a friend a while ago who I talked to almost every day(we communicated online, so it wasn't like I saw him everyday). However, for a couple weeks, he just stopped answering his phone. Eventually he did come back (apparently something had happened in his family and he had been busy), and we started talking again, but not as often. It went from once a day to a few times a week to maybe once a week to never. I recently have wanted to start communicating with him again, but I have no idea how to go about it.\n\nTL;DR had a friend sho I talked to online, something came up and he had to leave for a while, when he got back out relationship sort of trailed off and died, and I want to become friends with him again" ]

[ "There are many ways to do this, but these are my go-to's You can ask them (politely without being too demanding) why the both of you have been so distant, if there's a specific reason, and that your eager to connect again. Or you can message them with a simple, \"Hey! How're you?\" or \"How's it going?\". Another way is by bringing up something that might excite them then keeping the conversation flowing (I once reconnected by sending them a link to a trailer for a sequel to a game, then we just got talking).\nDon't be shy or afraid. If they talk to you then you'll either have a good conversation or a bad one - but at least it'll settle your worry. If you want to keep it going then focus on your friend and their life - people love talking about themselves!\nGood luck!", "Ask them if they want to meet up for coffee. Or a beer.\n\nIf you don't get a reply within two days, move on. They might be away/out of town during that time, but better to be surprised when they respond vs still hoping after a week or two.", "Another thing to note is that your friend may feel just as equally awkward as you about not communicating. It is possible that your friend felt that you are not very interested, so he/she thought they were nuisance to you. Either way you should try to continue talking.", "Or leave them be. You are (I assume) adults. If you have more than 3 friends as an adult, you are compensating by not having your life together. Friends are distraction from your goal. You constantly need to spend time, energy on them and we know time is money. Learn to let people go as soon as possible - especially family members - so you can concentrate on your life and goals.\n\nLet your friend be. It's better to have 3 friends, you talk once a year, and enjoy every moment with them (sometimes they give you inspiration or learn something), than have 20 \"friends\" you constantly have the need to take care, while they don't contribute any meaningful to you." ]

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[ "Best ways to clean blue light computer glasses I’ve never used glasses before but have been using blue light filtering glasses a lot more in the past few years. I use a microfiber cloth for cleaning about twice a week but can never quite get it perfectly clean.", "Best ways to clean blue light computer glasses I’ve never used glasses before but have been using blue light filtering glasses a lot more in the past few years. I use a microfiber cloth for cleaning about twice a week but can never quite get it perfectly clean.", "Best ways to clean blue light computer glasses I’ve never used glasses before but have been using blue light filtering glasses a lot more in the past few years. I use a microfiber cloth for cleaning about twice a week but can never quite get it perfectly clean.", "Best ways to clean blue light computer glasses I’ve never used glasses before but have been using blue light filtering glasses a lot more in the past few years. I use a microfiber cloth for cleaning about twice a week but can never quite get it perfectly clean.", "Best ways to clean blue light computer glasses I’ve never used glasses before but have been using blue light filtering glasses a lot more in the past few years. I use a microfiber cloth for cleaning about twice a week but can never quite get it perfectly clean." ]

[ "I would recommend warm water and a little mind washing up detergent. Give each lens a gentle clean and dry with a microfiber cloth. Depending on whether your spectacles have an anti-reflective and or scratch resistant coating or not can change how hard it is to keep them clean. \nAs an optician I can assure you that it's not unusual to have patients come in just to have there glasses cleaned. Your own optom may be able to recommend a better cleaning spray than one that you would typically be able to pick up from the shelf. \nAbsolutely avoid 'glasses cleaning wipes' though as they smear and that's the opposite of your goal. Best of luck!", "Dish soap with no fragrance and warm water with a microfiber then dry with another microfiber h has worked very well for my normal glasses for many years.", "I run some warm water over both sides of my lenses and let them sit for a few minutes before wiping them with a microfiber cloth. I've found doing that makes cleaning more efficient.", "Hot breath with the lenses in the middle so you cover both the front and back... then rub with the bottom of the cotton undershirt you're wearing in a circular motion... inspect and repeat as necessary.", "These are so crappy… Make the glasses yellow’ish and provide no proven benefit. Stay away of that scam." ]

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