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{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit. We have been together for 3 years, one of which was normal and the last two have been long distance. She is in her first semester of her major and I'm currently across the country serving. We have been having communication issues for a few weeks stemming from 6 months ago. she would say that she felt like we weren't talking enough, and i didn't really understand her until recently.\n\nWe spoke last night and she said that she feels alone and unsupported and that she is so busy with school and being a Community Advisor for her dorm to even understand and analyze her emotions. I told her that I am willing to suffer, only hearing from her once a day, because this time next year I'll be home and we can start our future together. She said she doesn't know if she is willing to wait and be unhappy that long.\n\nI'm incredibly hurt because we have lasted for the last two years long distance, I feel like we owe it to our relationship to push through this last year and have a go at a real relationship.\nShe said she needs some time (a couple days is what she said) to think and she would call me. I haven't really stopped crying since the convo last night, and I gave in and texted her already telling her that I need to talk because I thought of some more things I wanted to bring up.\n\nPlease help me Reddit. I love her so much and I know that deep down she still has those feelings, the stress and anxiety of her day to day has just taken a toll. I know it sounds selfish but I don't want to sit in some limbo where we both still have feelings but we wait until she has more time, because I'm scared she will find someone else back at school and I will be replaced.\n\nSomeone please give me some advice. Sorry for the long story." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay; a quick backstory. Meet chick at club; start talking, hitting it off, dancing, got her number.\n\nNext day I asked her if she wanted to get high and watch Jurassic Park on DVD. She agrees and invites me over.\n\nDate Day finally (Today, just happened); We start smoking pot then watch Jurassic Park. I moved my hand over and she cuddled throughout the movie.\nAfter the Movie finishes; we decide to watch an Episode of Whose Line Is It Anyways. At the end if Whose Line, I move my hand over to her chin, and get her to look at me. We start kissing, and next thing she's on top of me (At this time, I'm still high-as-fuck). I then proceed to move my hand up her back to get the bra off, she didn't like it an said she was a big girl and then got off. I apologized for trying to be too quick.\n\nAt this time I should've left her place, but I decided to push my luck an stay for one more episode of Whose Line. During Whose Line I put my arm around her again and she still cuddled, etc. I didn't push for any more kisses so we just watched the end and then I left.\n\nSo did I fuck it up? Should I call her tomorrow? Opinions?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay; a quick backstory. Meet chick at club; start talking, hitting it off, dancing, got her number.\n\nNext day I asked her if she wanted to get high and watch Jurassic Park on DVD. She agrees and invites me over.\n\nDate Day finally (Today, just happened); We start smoking pot then watch Jurassic Park. I moved my hand over and she cuddled throughout the movie.\nAfter the Movie finishes; we decide to watch an Episode of Whose Line Is It Anyways. At the end if Whose Line, I move my hand over to her chin, and get her to look at me. We start kissing, and next thing she's on top of me (At this time, I'm still high-as-fuck). I then proceed to move my hand up her back to get the bra off, she didn't like it an said she was a big girl and then got off. I apologized for trying to be too quick.\n\nAt this time I should've left her place, but I decided to push my luck an stay for one more episode of Whose Line. During Whose Line I put my arm around her again and she still cuddled, etc. I didn't push for any more kisses so we just watched the end and then I left.\n\nSo did I fuck it up? Should I call her tomorrow? Opinions?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay; a quick backstory. Meet chick at club; start talking, hitting it off, dancing, got her number.\n\nNext day I asked her if she wanted to get high and watch Jurassic Park on DVD. She agrees and invites me over.\n\nDate Day finally (Today, just happened); We start smoking pot then watch Jurassic Park. I moved my hand over and she cuddled throughout the movie.\nAfter the Movie finishes; we decide to watch an Episode of Whose Line Is It Anyways. At the end if Whose Line, I move my hand over to her chin, and get her to look at me. We start kissing, and next thing she's on top of me (At this time, I'm still high-as-fuck). I then proceed to move my hand up her back to get the bra off, she didn't like it an said she was a big girl and then got off. I apologized for trying to be too quick.\n\nAt this time I should've left her place, but I decided to push my luck an stay for one more episode of Whose Line. During Whose Line I put my arm around her again and she still cuddled, etc. I didn't push for any more kisses so we just watched the end and then I left.\n\nSo did I fuck it up? Should I call her tomorrow? Opinions?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay; a quick backstory. Meet chick at club; start talking, hitting it off, dancing, got her number.\n\nNext day I asked her if she wanted to get high and watch Jurassic Park on DVD. She agrees and invites me over.\n\nDate Day finally (Today, just happened); We start smoking pot then watch Jurassic Park. I moved my hand over and she cuddled throughout the movie.\nAfter the Movie finishes; we decide to watch an Episode of Whose Line Is It Anyways. At the end if Whose Line, I move my hand over to her chin, and get her to look at me. We start kissing, and next thing she's on top of me (At this time, I'm still high-as-fuck). I then proceed to move my hand up her back to get the bra off, she didn't like it an said she was a big girl and then got off. I apologized for trying to be too quick.\n\nAt this time I should've left her place, but I decided to push my luck an stay for one more episode of Whose Line. During Whose Line I put my arm around her again and she still cuddled, etc. I didn't push for any more kisses so we just watched the end and then I left.\n\nSo did I fuck it up? Should I call her tomorrow? Opinions?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay; a quick backstory. Meet chick at club; start talking, hitting it off, dancing, got her number.\n\nNext day I asked her if she wanted to get high and watch Jurassic Park on DVD. She agrees and invites me over.\n\nDate Day finally (Today, just happened); We start smoking pot then watch Jurassic Park. I moved my hand over and she cuddled throughout the movie.\nAfter the Movie finishes; we decide to watch an Episode of Whose Line Is It Anyways. At the end if Whose Line, I move my hand over to her chin, and get her to look at me. We start kissing, and next thing she's on top of me (At this time, I'm still high-as-fuck). I then proceed to move my hand up her back to get the bra off, she didn't like it an said she was a big girl and then got off. I apologized for trying to be too quick.\n\nAt this time I should've left her place, but I decided to push my luck an stay for one more episode of Whose Line. During Whose Line I put my arm around her again and she still cuddled, etc. I didn't push for any more kisses so we just watched the end and then I left.\n\nSo did I fuck it up? Should I call her tomorrow? Opinions?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay; a quick backstory. Meet chick at club; start talking, hitting it off, dancing, got her number.\n\nNext day I asked her if she wanted to get high and watch Jurassic Park on DVD. She agrees and invites me over.\n\nDate Day finally (Today, just happened); We start smoking pot then watch Jurassic Park. I moved my hand over and she cuddled throughout the movie.\nAfter the Movie finishes; we decide to watch an Episode of Whose Line Is It Anyways. At the end if Whose Line, I move my hand over to her chin, and get her to look at me. We start kissing, and next thing she's on top of me (At this time, I'm still high-as-fuck). I then proceed to move my hand up her back to get the bra off, she didn't like it an said she was a big girl and then got off. I apologized for trying to be too quick.\n\nAt this time I should've left her place, but I decided to push my luck an stay for one more episode of Whose Line. During Whose Line I put my arm around her again and she still cuddled, etc. I didn't push for any more kisses so we just watched the end and then I left.\n\nSo did I fuck it up? Should I call her tomorrow? Opinions?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit,\n\nI have dated this girl for 5 months, she lived in my house for about 2 weeks and she had some of her belongings ( clothes, wallet and an Xbox) in my house. When I found out she cheated on me, I was heart broken and I broke up with her. Few days ago she texted me she wanted her stuff back, but I refused to drive all the way to her and drop off her stuff. I offered if she could come and pick up her stuff, but then she threatened to call the cops on me." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit,\n\nI have dated this girl for 5 months, she lived in my house for about 2 weeks and she had some of her belongings ( clothes, wallet and an Xbox) in my house. When I found out she cheated on me, I was heart broken and I broke up with her. Few days ago she texted me she wanted her stuff back, but I refused to drive all the way to her and drop off her stuff. I offered if she could come and pick up her stuff, but then she threatened to call the cops on me." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit,\n\nI have dated this girl for 5 months, she lived in my house for about 2 weeks and she had some of her belongings ( clothes, wallet and an Xbox) in my house. When I found out she cheated on me, I was heart broken and I broke up with her. Few days ago she texted me she wanted her stuff back, but I refused to drive all the way to her and drop off her stuff. I offered if she could come and pick up her stuff, but then she threatened to call the cops on me." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit,\n\nI have dated this girl for 5 months, she lived in my house for about 2 weeks and she had some of her belongings ( clothes, wallet and an Xbox) in my house. When I found out she cheated on me, I was heart broken and I broke up with her. Few days ago she texted me she wanted her stuff back, but I refused to drive all the way to her and drop off her stuff. I offered if she could come and pick up her stuff, but then she threatened to call the cops on me." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit,\n\nI have dated this girl for 5 months, she lived in my house for about 2 weeks and she had some of her belongings ( clothes, wallet and an Xbox) in my house. When I found out she cheated on me, I was heart broken and I broke up with her. Few days ago she texted me she wanted her stuff back, but I refused to drive all the way to her and drop off her stuff. I offered if she could come and pick up her stuff, but then she threatened to call the cops on me." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit,\n\nI have dated this girl for 5 months, she lived in my house for about 2 weeks and she had some of her belongings ( clothes, wallet and an Xbox) in my house. When I found out she cheated on me, I was heart broken and I broke up with her. Few days ago she texted me she wanted her stuff back, but I refused to drive all the way to her and drop off her stuff. I offered if she could come and pick up her stuff, but then she threatened to call the cops on me." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend doesn't know I'm posting this, but I just have to share how proud I am!\n\nI decided to lose weight after new years and have lost a great deal since that. I have another friend that I always go for long gaming walks (Ingress and Pokemon Go) with and she have lost a few clothing sizes. \n\nNow we have a friend visiting, he's been in town for around three weeks and have come with us for the walks, being really tired in the start, especially since his weight is mean to his back. He is a man in his early 30s, and is about 175-180 cm tall (never asked, making guesses) and he was at a minimum of 130 kg when he came here. We took the bus home from town quite often because he was exhausted and his back was really getting him. He had a step goal of 15K steps, and he barely made it in the start.\n\nNow he is more energetic, I think he looks happier and he can get further without back pain. Put him on the scale on Sunday, he's now at 125 kg, meaning that he lost minimum 5 kgs and one number in the BMI, but probably more. Yesterday he walked almost 26K steps, and was happy about walking 1.5 km extra that evening to get more steps. We are upping his step goal to 20K steps this week.\n\nHe's even going on a date on Friday, so me and my friend are taking him to shop a new fitting outfit, because his favorite shirt is too big now. It was tight on him when he came here, and now it hangs and it really looks too big for him. He got a compliment from another friend, because she saw the shirt just hang on him. \n\nIt's three weeks until he has to get home, so we are hoping to get him to lose minimum 3 kg before that. We sat a goal for him, so he's planning to get down to 115 kg before new years. But I think he can do more. We got a chat where we only post weight things, he started counting calories and I'm just so proud that he took the step to do this. :D" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend doesn't know I'm posting this, but I just have to share how proud I am!\n\nI decided to lose weight after new years and have lost a great deal since that. I have another friend that I always go for long gaming walks (Ingress and Pokemon Go) with and she have lost a few clothing sizes. \n\nNow we have a friend visiting, he's been in town for around three weeks and have come with us for the walks, being really tired in the start, especially since his weight is mean to his back. He is a man in his early 30s, and is about 175-180 cm tall (never asked, making guesses) and he was at a minimum of 130 kg when he came here. We took the bus home from town quite often because he was exhausted and his back was really getting him. He had a step goal of 15K steps, and he barely made it in the start.\n\nNow he is more energetic, I think he looks happier and he can get further without back pain. Put him on the scale on Sunday, he's now at 125 kg, meaning that he lost minimum 5 kgs and one number in the BMI, but probably more. Yesterday he walked almost 26K steps, and was happy about walking 1.5 km extra that evening to get more steps. We are upping his step goal to 20K steps this week.\n\nHe's even going on a date on Friday, so me and my friend are taking him to shop a new fitting outfit, because his favorite shirt is too big now. It was tight on him when he came here, and now it hangs and it really looks too big for him. He got a compliment from another friend, because she saw the shirt just hang on him. \n\nIt's three weeks until he has to get home, so we are hoping to get him to lose minimum 3 kg before that. We sat a goal for him, so he's planning to get down to 115 kg before new years. But I think he can do more. We got a chat where we only post weight things, he started counting calories and I'm just so proud that he took the step to do this. :D" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend doesn't know I'm posting this, but I just have to share how proud I am!\n\nI decided to lose weight after new years and have lost a great deal since that. I have another friend that I always go for long gaming walks (Ingress and Pokemon Go) with and she have lost a few clothing sizes. \n\nNow we have a friend visiting, he's been in town for around three weeks and have come with us for the walks, being really tired in the start, especially since his weight is mean to his back. He is a man in his early 30s, and is about 175-180 cm tall (never asked, making guesses) and he was at a minimum of 130 kg when he came here. We took the bus home from town quite often because he was exhausted and his back was really getting him. He had a step goal of 15K steps, and he barely made it in the start.\n\nNow he is more energetic, I think he looks happier and he can get further without back pain. Put him on the scale on Sunday, he's now at 125 kg, meaning that he lost minimum 5 kgs and one number in the BMI, but probably more. Yesterday he walked almost 26K steps, and was happy about walking 1.5 km extra that evening to get more steps. We are upping his step goal to 20K steps this week.\n\nHe's even going on a date on Friday, so me and my friend are taking him to shop a new fitting outfit, because his favorite shirt is too big now. It was tight on him when he came here, and now it hangs and it really looks too big for him. He got a compliment from another friend, because she saw the shirt just hang on him. \n\nIt's three weeks until he has to get home, so we are hoping to get him to lose minimum 3 kg before that. We sat a goal for him, so he's planning to get down to 115 kg before new years. But I think he can do more. We got a chat where we only post weight things, he started counting calories and I'm just so proud that he took the step to do this. :D" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend doesn't know I'm posting this, but I just have to share how proud I am!\n\nI decided to lose weight after new years and have lost a great deal since that. I have another friend that I always go for long gaming walks (Ingress and Pokemon Go) with and she have lost a few clothing sizes. \n\nNow we have a friend visiting, he's been in town for around three weeks and have come with us for the walks, being really tired in the start, especially since his weight is mean to his back. He is a man in his early 30s, and is about 175-180 cm tall (never asked, making guesses) and he was at a minimum of 130 kg when he came here. We took the bus home from town quite often because he was exhausted and his back was really getting him. He had a step goal of 15K steps, and he barely made it in the start.\n\nNow he is more energetic, I think he looks happier and he can get further without back pain. Put him on the scale on Sunday, he's now at 125 kg, meaning that he lost minimum 5 kgs and one number in the BMI, but probably more. Yesterday he walked almost 26K steps, and was happy about walking 1.5 km extra that evening to get more steps. We are upping his step goal to 20K steps this week.\n\nHe's even going on a date on Friday, so me and my friend are taking him to shop a new fitting outfit, because his favorite shirt is too big now. It was tight on him when he came here, and now it hangs and it really looks too big for him. He got a compliment from another friend, because she saw the shirt just hang on him. \n\nIt's three weeks until he has to get home, so we are hoping to get him to lose minimum 3 kg before that. We sat a goal for him, so he's planning to get down to 115 kg before new years. But I think he can do more. We got a chat where we only post weight things, he started counting calories and I'm just so proud that he took the step to do this. :D" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend doesn't know I'm posting this, but I just have to share how proud I am!\n\nI decided to lose weight after new years and have lost a great deal since that. I have another friend that I always go for long gaming walks (Ingress and Pokemon Go) with and she have lost a few clothing sizes. \n\nNow we have a friend visiting, he's been in town for around three weeks and have come with us for the walks, being really tired in the start, especially since his weight is mean to his back. He is a man in his early 30s, and is about 175-180 cm tall (never asked, making guesses) and he was at a minimum of 130 kg when he came here. We took the bus home from town quite often because he was exhausted and his back was really getting him. He had a step goal of 15K steps, and he barely made it in the start.\n\nNow he is more energetic, I think he looks happier and he can get further without back pain. Put him on the scale on Sunday, he's now at 125 kg, meaning that he lost minimum 5 kgs and one number in the BMI, but probably more. Yesterday he walked almost 26K steps, and was happy about walking 1.5 km extra that evening to get more steps. We are upping his step goal to 20K steps this week.\n\nHe's even going on a date on Friday, so me and my friend are taking him to shop a new fitting outfit, because his favorite shirt is too big now. It was tight on him when he came here, and now it hangs and it really looks too big for him. He got a compliment from another friend, because she saw the shirt just hang on him. \n\nIt's three weeks until he has to get home, so we are hoping to get him to lose minimum 3 kg before that. We sat a goal for him, so he's planning to get down to 115 kg before new years. But I think he can do more. We got a chat where we only post weight things, he started counting calories and I'm just so proud that he took the step to do this. :D" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend doesn't know I'm posting this, but I just have to share how proud I am!\n\nI decided to lose weight after new years and have lost a great deal since that. I have another friend that I always go for long gaming walks (Ingress and Pokemon Go) with and she have lost a few clothing sizes. \n\nNow we have a friend visiting, he's been in town for around three weeks and have come with us for the walks, being really tired in the start, especially since his weight is mean to his back. He is a man in his early 30s, and is about 175-180 cm tall (never asked, making guesses) and he was at a minimum of 130 kg when he came here. We took the bus home from town quite often because he was exhausted and his back was really getting him. He had a step goal of 15K steps, and he barely made it in the start.\n\nNow he is more energetic, I think he looks happier and he can get further without back pain. Put him on the scale on Sunday, he's now at 125 kg, meaning that he lost minimum 5 kgs and one number in the BMI, but probably more. Yesterday he walked almost 26K steps, and was happy about walking 1.5 km extra that evening to get more steps. We are upping his step goal to 20K steps this week.\n\nHe's even going on a date on Friday, so me and my friend are taking him to shop a new fitting outfit, because his favorite shirt is too big now. It was tight on him when he came here, and now it hangs and it really looks too big for him. He got a compliment from another friend, because she saw the shirt just hang on him. \n\nIt's three weeks until he has to get home, so we are hoping to get him to lose minimum 3 kg before that. We sat a goal for him, so he's planning to get down to 115 kg before new years. But I think he can do more. We got a chat where we only post weight things, he started counting calories and I'm just so proud that he took the step to do this. :D" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: so me (18/M) her (17/F) have been friends for almost 3 years until, i would say last spring. i went on a trip all summer and when i got back i was looking forward to becoming good friends again as we kinda drifted. when i got back i needed to borrow a iPod cable. at the time time she lived not to far away and i was hoping that meeting up with her would make things better between us but it didn't.\n i also wanted to give her some souvenirs from mutual of ours i saw on the trip.\n ever since i told her i was going on the trip, about 6 months before left it seems like she didnt want anything to do with me. what i do know is that she was being seen by a therapist because of something along the lines of stress/depression/trouble sleeping etc. and to the best of my knowledge still is.\n its been a long time we haven't spoken and today i decided to text her to see how she was doing. holding a conversation was extremely difficult and it seems like she wants nothing to do with me. she was really important to me as a friend for the longest time. i gave her some space to let her deal with her issues. i havnt done anything to cross you i really don't know what to do here." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: so me (18/M) her (17/F) have been friends for almost 3 years until, i would say last spring. i went on a trip all summer and when i got back i was looking forward to becoming good friends again as we kinda drifted. when i got back i needed to borrow a iPod cable. at the time time she lived not to far away and i was hoping that meeting up with her would make things better between us but it didn't.\n i also wanted to give her some souvenirs from mutual of ours i saw on the trip.\n ever since i told her i was going on the trip, about 6 months before left it seems like she didnt want anything to do with me. what i do know is that she was being seen by a therapist because of something along the lines of stress/depression/trouble sleeping etc. and to the best of my knowledge still is.\n its been a long time we haven't spoken and today i decided to text her to see how she was doing. holding a conversation was extremely difficult and it seems like she wants nothing to do with me. she was really important to me as a friend for the longest time. i gave her some space to let her deal with her issues. i havnt done anything to cross you i really don't know what to do here." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: so me (18/M) her (17/F) have been friends for almost 3 years until, i would say last spring. i went on a trip all summer and when i got back i was looking forward to becoming good friends again as we kinda drifted. when i got back i needed to borrow a iPod cable. at the time time she lived not to far away and i was hoping that meeting up with her would make things better between us but it didn't.\n i also wanted to give her some souvenirs from mutual of ours i saw on the trip.\n ever since i told her i was going on the trip, about 6 months before left it seems like she didnt want anything to do with me. what i do know is that she was being seen by a therapist because of something along the lines of stress/depression/trouble sleeping etc. and to the best of my knowledge still is.\n its been a long time we haven't spoken and today i decided to text her to see how she was doing. holding a conversation was extremely difficult and it seems like she wants nothing to do with me. she was really important to me as a friend for the longest time. i gave her some space to let her deal with her issues. i havnt done anything to cross you i really don't know what to do here." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: so me (18/M) her (17/F) have been friends for almost 3 years until, i would say last spring. i went on a trip all summer and when i got back i was looking forward to becoming good friends again as we kinda drifted. when i got back i needed to borrow a iPod cable. at the time time she lived not to far away and i was hoping that meeting up with her would make things better between us but it didn't.\n i also wanted to give her some souvenirs from mutual of ours i saw on the trip.\n ever since i told her i was going on the trip, about 6 months before left it seems like she didnt want anything to do with me. what i do know is that she was being seen by a therapist because of something along the lines of stress/depression/trouble sleeping etc. and to the best of my knowledge still is.\n its been a long time we haven't spoken and today i decided to text her to see how she was doing. holding a conversation was extremely difficult and it seems like she wants nothing to do with me. she was really important to me as a friend for the longest time. i gave her some space to let her deal with her issues. i havnt done anything to cross you i really don't know what to do here." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: so me (18/M) her (17/F) have been friends for almost 3 years until, i would say last spring. i went on a trip all summer and when i got back i was looking forward to becoming good friends again as we kinda drifted. when i got back i needed to borrow a iPod cable. at the time time she lived not to far away and i was hoping that meeting up with her would make things better between us but it didn't.\n i also wanted to give her some souvenirs from mutual of ours i saw on the trip.\n ever since i told her i was going on the trip, about 6 months before left it seems like she didnt want anything to do with me. what i do know is that she was being seen by a therapist because of something along the lines of stress/depression/trouble sleeping etc. and to the best of my knowledge still is.\n its been a long time we haven't spoken and today i decided to text her to see how she was doing. holding a conversation was extremely difficult and it seems like she wants nothing to do with me. she was really important to me as a friend for the longest time. i gave her some space to let her deal with her issues. i havnt done anything to cross you i really don't know what to do here." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: so me (18/M) her (17/F) have been friends for almost 3 years until, i would say last spring. i went on a trip all summer and when i got back i was looking forward to becoming good friends again as we kinda drifted. when i got back i needed to borrow a iPod cable. at the time time she lived not to far away and i was hoping that meeting up with her would make things better between us but it didn't.\n i also wanted to give her some souvenirs from mutual of ours i saw on the trip.\n ever since i told her i was going on the trip, about 6 months before left it seems like she didnt want anything to do with me. what i do know is that she was being seen by a therapist because of something along the lines of stress/depression/trouble sleeping etc. and to the best of my knowledge still is.\n its been a long time we haven't spoken and today i decided to text her to see how she was doing. holding a conversation was extremely difficult and it seems like she wants nothing to do with me. she was really important to me as a friend for the longest time. i gave her some space to let her deal with her issues. i havnt done anything to cross you i really don't know what to do here." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! If my formatting is weird, it's because I'm typing a little bit fast, yaddah yaddah. \nAnyway! So, a while back while on the bus, I noticed this really cute boy who I had recognised from school named Peyton. Well, my friend decided to introduce us by kind of forcing me to talk to him (she knocked me into him) & it was an awkward beginning but we all became quite close friends because of it. Peyton had always shown signs that he liked me, compliments, asking how my day was going, or just generally showing he cared about how I was/my well being. He had even asked me if I had anyone taking me to the school dance then admitted that if I didn't have anyone, he'd like to take me. People have also mentioned him asking around about me or staring at me during the classes we have together.\n\nHere's where the problem is - My friend, Sabrina, has always had a very. playful relationship with him, such as making comments about his accent, calling him names, & joking around with him. Apparently something had even happened between the two during a school trip a few weeks ago, she wouldn't really tell me what happened & I didn't want to get upset over it so we left it at that.\n\nRecently, Sabrina has admitted that she likes Peyton & when I started to mention that I had feelings too, she sort of brushed me off & told me she had plans to ask him to hang out, as in go on a date together. I was upset about it, but I let it slide & put aside my feelings for him because she's my friend & I care about her, her happiness, etc. I know I told her that she could go for it, but I'm starting to regret it. This was a few weeks ago, but she hasn't mentioned asking him out & neither has he, we've hung out several times since then as well. Should I talk to her & bring up if they went out on a date or just ask him out myself? I don't want anyone to get hurt, but I feel it'll happen either way." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! If my formatting is weird, it's because I'm typing a little bit fast, yaddah yaddah. \nAnyway! So, a while back while on the bus, I noticed this really cute boy who I had recognised from school named Peyton. Well, my friend decided to introduce us by kind of forcing me to talk to him (she knocked me into him) & it was an awkward beginning but we all became quite close friends because of it. Peyton had always shown signs that he liked me, compliments, asking how my day was going, or just generally showing he cared about how I was/my well being. He had even asked me if I had anyone taking me to the school dance then admitted that if I didn't have anyone, he'd like to take me. People have also mentioned him asking around about me or staring at me during the classes we have together.\n\nHere's where the problem is - My friend, Sabrina, has always had a very. playful relationship with him, such as making comments about his accent, calling him names, & joking around with him. Apparently something had even happened between the two during a school trip a few weeks ago, she wouldn't really tell me what happened & I didn't want to get upset over it so we left it at that.\n\nRecently, Sabrina has admitted that she likes Peyton & when I started to mention that I had feelings too, she sort of brushed me off & told me she had plans to ask him to hang out, as in go on a date together. I was upset about it, but I let it slide & put aside my feelings for him because she's my friend & I care about her, her happiness, etc. I know I told her that she could go for it, but I'm starting to regret it. This was a few weeks ago, but she hasn't mentioned asking him out & neither has he, we've hung out several times since then as well. Should I talk to her & bring up if they went out on a date or just ask him out myself? I don't want anyone to get hurt, but I feel it'll happen either way." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! If my formatting is weird, it's because I'm typing a little bit fast, yaddah yaddah. \nAnyway! So, a while back while on the bus, I noticed this really cute boy who I had recognised from school named Peyton. Well, my friend decided to introduce us by kind of forcing me to talk to him (she knocked me into him) & it was an awkward beginning but we all became quite close friends because of it. Peyton had always shown signs that he liked me, compliments, asking how my day was going, or just generally showing he cared about how I was/my well being. He had even asked me if I had anyone taking me to the school dance then admitted that if I didn't have anyone, he'd like to take me. People have also mentioned him asking around about me or staring at me during the classes we have together.\n\nHere's where the problem is - My friend, Sabrina, has always had a very. playful relationship with him, such as making comments about his accent, calling him names, & joking around with him. Apparently something had even happened between the two during a school trip a few weeks ago, she wouldn't really tell me what happened & I didn't want to get upset over it so we left it at that.\n\nRecently, Sabrina has admitted that she likes Peyton & when I started to mention that I had feelings too, she sort of brushed me off & told me she had plans to ask him to hang out, as in go on a date together. I was upset about it, but I let it slide & put aside my feelings for him because she's my friend & I care about her, her happiness, etc. I know I told her that she could go for it, but I'm starting to regret it. This was a few weeks ago, but she hasn't mentioned asking him out & neither has he, we've hung out several times since then as well. Should I talk to her & bring up if they went out on a date or just ask him out myself? I don't want anyone to get hurt, but I feel it'll happen either way." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! If my formatting is weird, it's because I'm typing a little bit fast, yaddah yaddah. \nAnyway! So, a while back while on the bus, I noticed this really cute boy who I had recognised from school named Peyton. Well, my friend decided to introduce us by kind of forcing me to talk to him (she knocked me into him) & it was an awkward beginning but we all became quite close friends because of it. Peyton had always shown signs that he liked me, compliments, asking how my day was going, or just generally showing he cared about how I was/my well being. He had even asked me if I had anyone taking me to the school dance then admitted that if I didn't have anyone, he'd like to take me. People have also mentioned him asking around about me or staring at me during the classes we have together.\n\nHere's where the problem is - My friend, Sabrina, has always had a very. playful relationship with him, such as making comments about his accent, calling him names, & joking around with him. Apparently something had even happened between the two during a school trip a few weeks ago, she wouldn't really tell me what happened & I didn't want to get upset over it so we left it at that.\n\nRecently, Sabrina has admitted that she likes Peyton & when I started to mention that I had feelings too, she sort of brushed me off & told me she had plans to ask him to hang out, as in go on a date together. I was upset about it, but I let it slide & put aside my feelings for him because she's my friend & I care about her, her happiness, etc. I know I told her that she could go for it, but I'm starting to regret it. This was a few weeks ago, but she hasn't mentioned asking him out & neither has he, we've hung out several times since then as well. Should I talk to her & bring up if they went out on a date or just ask him out myself? I don't want anyone to get hurt, but I feel it'll happen either way." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! If my formatting is weird, it's because I'm typing a little bit fast, yaddah yaddah. \nAnyway! So, a while back while on the bus, I noticed this really cute boy who I had recognised from school named Peyton. Well, my friend decided to introduce us by kind of forcing me to talk to him (she knocked me into him) & it was an awkward beginning but we all became quite close friends because of it. Peyton had always shown signs that he liked me, compliments, asking how my day was going, or just generally showing he cared about how I was/my well being. He had even asked me if I had anyone taking me to the school dance then admitted that if I didn't have anyone, he'd like to take me. People have also mentioned him asking around about me or staring at me during the classes we have together.\n\nHere's where the problem is - My friend, Sabrina, has always had a very. playful relationship with him, such as making comments about his accent, calling him names, & joking around with him. Apparently something had even happened between the two during a school trip a few weeks ago, she wouldn't really tell me what happened & I didn't want to get upset over it so we left it at that.\n\nRecently, Sabrina has admitted that she likes Peyton & when I started to mention that I had feelings too, she sort of brushed me off & told me she had plans to ask him to hang out, as in go on a date together. I was upset about it, but I let it slide & put aside my feelings for him because she's my friend & I care about her, her happiness, etc. I know I told her that she could go for it, but I'm starting to regret it. This was a few weeks ago, but she hasn't mentioned asking him out & neither has he, we've hung out several times since then as well. Should I talk to her & bring up if they went out on a date or just ask him out myself? I don't want anyone to get hurt, but I feel it'll happen either way." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello! If my formatting is weird, it's because I'm typing a little bit fast, yaddah yaddah. \nAnyway! So, a while back while on the bus, I noticed this really cute boy who I had recognised from school named Peyton. Well, my friend decided to introduce us by kind of forcing me to talk to him (she knocked me into him) & it was an awkward beginning but we all became quite close friends because of it. Peyton had always shown signs that he liked me, compliments, asking how my day was going, or just generally showing he cared about how I was/my well being. He had even asked me if I had anyone taking me to the school dance then admitted that if I didn't have anyone, he'd like to take me. People have also mentioned him asking around about me or staring at me during the classes we have together.\n\nHere's where the problem is - My friend, Sabrina, has always had a very. playful relationship with him, such as making comments about his accent, calling him names, & joking around with him. Apparently something had even happened between the two during a school trip a few weeks ago, she wouldn't really tell me what happened & I didn't want to get upset over it so we left it at that.\n\nRecently, Sabrina has admitted that she likes Peyton & when I started to mention that I had feelings too, she sort of brushed me off & told me she had plans to ask him to hang out, as in go on a date together. I was upset about it, but I let it slide & put aside my feelings for him because she's my friend & I care about her, her happiness, etc. I know I told her that she could go for it, but I'm starting to regret it. This was a few weeks ago, but she hasn't mentioned asking him out & neither has he, we've hung out several times since then as well. Should I talk to her & bring up if they went out on a date or just ask him out myself? I don't want anyone to get hurt, but I feel it'll happen either way." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few weeks ago my girlfriend and I found out we were pregnant, she had told her mother and she supported what ever choice we were going to make. When I told my mother she over reacted and said things that were quite rude, thats besides the point though. A few days after I told my mother, my girlfriend started to bleed and we found out that we miscarried. We were alotted one day to grieve together and after that we werent allowed to sleep with each other.\n\n My mother is now not letting us sleep over any more for when the previous 8 months of our relationship she had, even in the same bed. My girlfriend and I are hurting from the miscarriage and we need time to grieve together but we can't since we cannot sleep together or spend a lot of time together anymore we can't \n\nSo basically I am just wondering any advice you guys could give us to make this situation better. If you have any questions about specifics please PM me." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few weeks ago my girlfriend and I found out we were pregnant, she had told her mother and she supported what ever choice we were going to make. When I told my mother she over reacted and said things that were quite rude, thats besides the point though. A few days after I told my mother, my girlfriend started to bleed and we found out that we miscarried. We were alotted one day to grieve together and after that we werent allowed to sleep with each other.\n\n My mother is now not letting us sleep over any more for when the previous 8 months of our relationship she had, even in the same bed. My girlfriend and I are hurting from the miscarriage and we need time to grieve together but we can't since we cannot sleep together or spend a lot of time together anymore we can't \n\nSo basically I am just wondering any advice you guys could give us to make this situation better. If you have any questions about specifics please PM me." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few weeks ago my girlfriend and I found out we were pregnant, she had told her mother and she supported what ever choice we were going to make. When I told my mother she over reacted and said things that were quite rude, thats besides the point though. A few days after I told my mother, my girlfriend started to bleed and we found out that we miscarried. We were alotted one day to grieve together and after that we werent allowed to sleep with each other.\n\n My mother is now not letting us sleep over any more for when the previous 8 months of our relationship she had, even in the same bed. My girlfriend and I are hurting from the miscarriage and we need time to grieve together but we can't since we cannot sleep together or spend a lot of time together anymore we can't \n\nSo basically I am just wondering any advice you guys could give us to make this situation better. If you have any questions about specifics please PM me." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few weeks ago my girlfriend and I found out we were pregnant, she had told her mother and she supported what ever choice we were going to make. When I told my mother she over reacted and said things that were quite rude, thats besides the point though. A few days after I told my mother, my girlfriend started to bleed and we found out that we miscarried. We were alotted one day to grieve together and after that we werent allowed to sleep with each other.\n\n My mother is now not letting us sleep over any more for when the previous 8 months of our relationship she had, even in the same bed. My girlfriend and I are hurting from the miscarriage and we need time to grieve together but we can't since we cannot sleep together or spend a lot of time together anymore we can't \n\nSo basically I am just wondering any advice you guys could give us to make this situation better. If you have any questions about specifics please PM me." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few weeks ago my girlfriend and I found out we were pregnant, she had told her mother and she supported what ever choice we were going to make. When I told my mother she over reacted and said things that were quite rude, thats besides the point though. A few days after I told my mother, my girlfriend started to bleed and we found out that we miscarried. We were alotted one day to grieve together and after that we werent allowed to sleep with each other.\n\n My mother is now not letting us sleep over any more for when the previous 8 months of our relationship she had, even in the same bed. My girlfriend and I are hurting from the miscarriage and we need time to grieve together but we can't since we cannot sleep together or spend a lot of time together anymore we can't \n\nSo basically I am just wondering any advice you guys could give us to make this situation better. If you have any questions about specifics please PM me." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few weeks ago my girlfriend and I found out we were pregnant, she had told her mother and she supported what ever choice we were going to make. When I told my mother she over reacted and said things that were quite rude, thats besides the point though. A few days after I told my mother, my girlfriend started to bleed and we found out that we miscarried. We were alotted one day to grieve together and after that we werent allowed to sleep with each other.\n\n My mother is now not letting us sleep over any more for when the previous 8 months of our relationship she had, even in the same bed. My girlfriend and I are hurting from the miscarriage and we need time to grieve together but we can't since we cannot sleep together or spend a lot of time together anymore we can't \n\nSo basically I am just wondering any advice you guys could give us to make this situation better. If you have any questions about specifics please PM me." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were both studying in Europe, away from her boyfriend back home, and became very close. As time went on our relationship became physical. I did not make any active move to make that happen, but when it did happen I certainly wasn't about to stop it. \n\nJust in case this makes a difference to the way anyone reading this perceives the situation, I was not the only person in that country she has sex while she was there. However, I know for some of you that won't absolve me of any responsibility at all. \n\nTo make it clear, I'm not looking for some sort of justification for what I did. Strangely, and I know many people will not take to this idea, I would do the same thing again. I valued my relationship with her, and I think the moral responsibility lay with her, not with me. \n\nShe went back home and resumed her relationship with him, and he still has no idea. I'm definitely not going to be the one to tell him. \n\nSo, reddit, do you have any stories or opinions about being the other person in a relationship? Where does the moral responsibility lie? What sort of factors make a difference to this? Whether you know the SO being cheated on? \n\nAgain, I'm not looking for you to reassure me or condemn me (although you're welcome to do either), I'm just curious to know your thoughts on the matter. Also, some stories. I love story time." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were both studying in Europe, away from her boyfriend back home, and became very close. As time went on our relationship became physical. I did not make any active move to make that happen, but when it did happen I certainly wasn't about to stop it. \n\nJust in case this makes a difference to the way anyone reading this perceives the situation, I was not the only person in that country she has sex while she was there. However, I know for some of you that won't absolve me of any responsibility at all. \n\nTo make it clear, I'm not looking for some sort of justification for what I did. Strangely, and I know many people will not take to this idea, I would do the same thing again. I valued my relationship with her, and I think the moral responsibility lay with her, not with me. \n\nShe went back home and resumed her relationship with him, and he still has no idea. I'm definitely not going to be the one to tell him. \n\nSo, reddit, do you have any stories or opinions about being the other person in a relationship? Where does the moral responsibility lie? What sort of factors make a difference to this? Whether you know the SO being cheated on? \n\nAgain, I'm not looking for you to reassure me or condemn me (although you're welcome to do either), I'm just curious to know your thoughts on the matter. Also, some stories. I love story time." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were both studying in Europe, away from her boyfriend back home, and became very close. As time went on our relationship became physical. I did not make any active move to make that happen, but when it did happen I certainly wasn't about to stop it. \n\nJust in case this makes a difference to the way anyone reading this perceives the situation, I was not the only person in that country she has sex while she was there. However, I know for some of you that won't absolve me of any responsibility at all. \n\nTo make it clear, I'm not looking for some sort of justification for what I did. Strangely, and I know many people will not take to this idea, I would do the same thing again. I valued my relationship with her, and I think the moral responsibility lay with her, not with me. \n\nShe went back home and resumed her relationship with him, and he still has no idea. I'm definitely not going to be the one to tell him. \n\nSo, reddit, do you have any stories or opinions about being the other person in a relationship? Where does the moral responsibility lie? What sort of factors make a difference to this? Whether you know the SO being cheated on? \n\nAgain, I'm not looking for you to reassure me or condemn me (although you're welcome to do either), I'm just curious to know your thoughts on the matter. Also, some stories. I love story time." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were both studying in Europe, away from her boyfriend back home, and became very close. As time went on our relationship became physical. I did not make any active move to make that happen, but when it did happen I certainly wasn't about to stop it. \n\nJust in case this makes a difference to the way anyone reading this perceives the situation, I was not the only person in that country she has sex while she was there. However, I know for some of you that won't absolve me of any responsibility at all. \n\nTo make it clear, I'm not looking for some sort of justification for what I did. Strangely, and I know many people will not take to this idea, I would do the same thing again. I valued my relationship with her, and I think the moral responsibility lay with her, not with me. \n\nShe went back home and resumed her relationship with him, and he still has no idea. I'm definitely not going to be the one to tell him. \n\nSo, reddit, do you have any stories or opinions about being the other person in a relationship? Where does the moral responsibility lie? What sort of factors make a difference to this? Whether you know the SO being cheated on? \n\nAgain, I'm not looking for you to reassure me or condemn me (although you're welcome to do either), I'm just curious to know your thoughts on the matter. Also, some stories. I love story time." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were both studying in Europe, away from her boyfriend back home, and became very close. As time went on our relationship became physical. I did not make any active move to make that happen, but when it did happen I certainly wasn't about to stop it. \n\nJust in case this makes a difference to the way anyone reading this perceives the situation, I was not the only person in that country she has sex while she was there. However, I know for some of you that won't absolve me of any responsibility at all. \n\nTo make it clear, I'm not looking for some sort of justification for what I did. Strangely, and I know many people will not take to this idea, I would do the same thing again. I valued my relationship with her, and I think the moral responsibility lay with her, not with me. \n\nShe went back home and resumed her relationship with him, and he still has no idea. I'm definitely not going to be the one to tell him. \n\nSo, reddit, do you have any stories or opinions about being the other person in a relationship? Where does the moral responsibility lie? What sort of factors make a difference to this? Whether you know the SO being cheated on? \n\nAgain, I'm not looking for you to reassure me or condemn me (although you're welcome to do either), I'm just curious to know your thoughts on the matter. Also, some stories. I love story time." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were both studying in Europe, away from her boyfriend back home, and became very close. As time went on our relationship became physical. I did not make any active move to make that happen, but when it did happen I certainly wasn't about to stop it. \n\nJust in case this makes a difference to the way anyone reading this perceives the situation, I was not the only person in that country she has sex while she was there. However, I know for some of you that won't absolve me of any responsibility at all. \n\nTo make it clear, I'm not looking for some sort of justification for what I did. Strangely, and I know many people will not take to this idea, I would do the same thing again. I valued my relationship with her, and I think the moral responsibility lay with her, not with me. \n\nShe went back home and resumed her relationship with him, and he still has no idea. I'm definitely not going to be the one to tell him. \n\nSo, reddit, do you have any stories or opinions about being the other person in a relationship? Where does the moral responsibility lie? What sort of factors make a difference to this? Whether you know the SO being cheated on? \n\nAgain, I'm not looking for you to reassure me or condemn me (although you're welcome to do either), I'm just curious to know your thoughts on the matter. Also, some stories. I love story time." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so long story short: I don't think my brother, whose 21, has ever hooked up with a girl, or even kissed one. He goes to U of I and hes pretty awkward, shy and mumbles a lot. He looks at me weird, like all girly like, smiles flirtaciously at me sometimes, and it's really fucking awkward. I can't even look the dude in the face to be honest. Flashback to my senior year of high school - I awoke to my shorts being half off, with the lights turned on, and I heard him make this weird awkward noise. I, half-asleep and kind of scared, pulled them up and threw a blanket on me and immediately fell back asleep. Since then this has been so fucking awkward and I don't know how to deal with it. I really think he's gay and gay for me, which is really fucked up. What do I do? This is on my mind all the time, especially now because during the summer we're both home from college." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so long story short: I don't think my brother, whose 21, has ever hooked up with a girl, or even kissed one. He goes to U of I and hes pretty awkward, shy and mumbles a lot. He looks at me weird, like all girly like, smiles flirtaciously at me sometimes, and it's really fucking awkward. I can't even look the dude in the face to be honest. Flashback to my senior year of high school - I awoke to my shorts being half off, with the lights turned on, and I heard him make this weird awkward noise. I, half-asleep and kind of scared, pulled them up and threw a blanket on me and immediately fell back asleep. Since then this has been so fucking awkward and I don't know how to deal with it. I really think he's gay and gay for me, which is really fucked up. What do I do? This is on my mind all the time, especially now because during the summer we're both home from college." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so long story short: I don't think my brother, whose 21, has ever hooked up with a girl, or even kissed one. He goes to U of I and hes pretty awkward, shy and mumbles a lot. He looks at me weird, like all girly like, smiles flirtaciously at me sometimes, and it's really fucking awkward. I can't even look the dude in the face to be honest. Flashback to my senior year of high school - I awoke to my shorts being half off, with the lights turned on, and I heard him make this weird awkward noise. I, half-asleep and kind of scared, pulled them up and threw a blanket on me and immediately fell back asleep. Since then this has been so fucking awkward and I don't know how to deal with it. I really think he's gay and gay for me, which is really fucked up. What do I do? This is on my mind all the time, especially now because during the summer we're both home from college." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so long story short: I don't think my brother, whose 21, has ever hooked up with a girl, or even kissed one. He goes to U of I and hes pretty awkward, shy and mumbles a lot. He looks at me weird, like all girly like, smiles flirtaciously at me sometimes, and it's really fucking awkward. I can't even look the dude in the face to be honest. Flashback to my senior year of high school - I awoke to my shorts being half off, with the lights turned on, and I heard him make this weird awkward noise. I, half-asleep and kind of scared, pulled them up and threw a blanket on me and immediately fell back asleep. Since then this has been so fucking awkward and I don't know how to deal with it. I really think he's gay and gay for me, which is really fucked up. What do I do? This is on my mind all the time, especially now because during the summer we're both home from college." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so long story short: I don't think my brother, whose 21, has ever hooked up with a girl, or even kissed one. He goes to U of I and hes pretty awkward, shy and mumbles a lot. He looks at me weird, like all girly like, smiles flirtaciously at me sometimes, and it's really fucking awkward. I can't even look the dude in the face to be honest. Flashback to my senior year of high school - I awoke to my shorts being half off, with the lights turned on, and I heard him make this weird awkward noise. I, half-asleep and kind of scared, pulled them up and threw a blanket on me and immediately fell back asleep. Since then this has been so fucking awkward and I don't know how to deal with it. I really think he's gay and gay for me, which is really fucked up. What do I do? This is on my mind all the time, especially now because during the summer we're both home from college." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so long story short: I don't think my brother, whose 21, has ever hooked up with a girl, or even kissed one. He goes to U of I and hes pretty awkward, shy and mumbles a lot. He looks at me weird, like all girly like, smiles flirtaciously at me sometimes, and it's really fucking awkward. I can't even look the dude in the face to be honest. Flashback to my senior year of high school - I awoke to my shorts being half off, with the lights turned on, and I heard him make this weird awkward noise. I, half-asleep and kind of scared, pulled them up and threw a blanket on me and immediately fell back asleep. Since then this has been so fucking awkward and I don't know how to deal with it. I really think he's gay and gay for me, which is really fucked up. What do I do? This is on my mind all the time, especially now because during the summer we're both home from college." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiance recently enlisted in the Marines and will be leaving for boot camp in October. This leaves me alone to do most of the wedding planning (which is fine). We're having a hard time pinning down an exact date to get married since he'll only be home on leave for 10 days before he has to go back for more training. As such, we're planning a very very small wedding. \n\nMy mom has kind of been a bitch about the whole small wedding thing, and keeps presenting me a list of demands-one of which is that we throw a bridal shower for her friends, our cousins, and other long time pseudo-friends. I don't want to invite 60+ people to a bridal shower, then not invite them to the wedding. I also don't want to invite an extra 60+ people to the wedding. Mom is being really insistent though.\n\nThoughts? Suggestions? Thanks in advance!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiance recently enlisted in the Marines and will be leaving for boot camp in October. This leaves me alone to do most of the wedding planning (which is fine). We're having a hard time pinning down an exact date to get married since he'll only be home on leave for 10 days before he has to go back for more training. As such, we're planning a very very small wedding. \n\nMy mom has kind of been a bitch about the whole small wedding thing, and keeps presenting me a list of demands-one of which is that we throw a bridal shower for her friends, our cousins, and other long time pseudo-friends. I don't want to invite 60+ people to a bridal shower, then not invite them to the wedding. I also don't want to invite an extra 60+ people to the wedding. Mom is being really insistent though.\n\nThoughts? Suggestions? Thanks in advance!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiance recently enlisted in the Marines and will be leaving for boot camp in October. This leaves me alone to do most of the wedding planning (which is fine). We're having a hard time pinning down an exact date to get married since he'll only be home on leave for 10 days before he has to go back for more training. As such, we're planning a very very small wedding. \n\nMy mom has kind of been a bitch about the whole small wedding thing, and keeps presenting me a list of demands-one of which is that we throw a bridal shower for her friends, our cousins, and other long time pseudo-friends. I don't want to invite 60+ people to a bridal shower, then not invite them to the wedding. I also don't want to invite an extra 60+ people to the wedding. Mom is being really insistent though.\n\nThoughts? Suggestions? Thanks in advance!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiance recently enlisted in the Marines and will be leaving for boot camp in October. This leaves me alone to do most of the wedding planning (which is fine). We're having a hard time pinning down an exact date to get married since he'll only be home on leave for 10 days before he has to go back for more training. As such, we're planning a very very small wedding. \n\nMy mom has kind of been a bitch about the whole small wedding thing, and keeps presenting me a list of demands-one of which is that we throw a bridal shower for her friends, our cousins, and other long time pseudo-friends. I don't want to invite 60+ people to a bridal shower, then not invite them to the wedding. I also don't want to invite an extra 60+ people to the wedding. Mom is being really insistent though.\n\nThoughts? Suggestions? Thanks in advance!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiance recently enlisted in the Marines and will be leaving for boot camp in October. This leaves me alone to do most of the wedding planning (which is fine). We're having a hard time pinning down an exact date to get married since he'll only be home on leave for 10 days before he has to go back for more training. As such, we're planning a very very small wedding. \n\nMy mom has kind of been a bitch about the whole small wedding thing, and keeps presenting me a list of demands-one of which is that we throw a bridal shower for her friends, our cousins, and other long time pseudo-friends. I don't want to invite 60+ people to a bridal shower, then not invite them to the wedding. I also don't want to invite an extra 60+ people to the wedding. Mom is being really insistent though.\n\nThoughts? Suggestions? Thanks in advance!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiance recently enlisted in the Marines and will be leaving for boot camp in October. This leaves me alone to do most of the wedding planning (which is fine). We're having a hard time pinning down an exact date to get married since he'll only be home on leave for 10 days before he has to go back for more training. As such, we're planning a very very small wedding. \n\nMy mom has kind of been a bitch about the whole small wedding thing, and keeps presenting me a list of demands-one of which is that we throw a bridal shower for her friends, our cousins, and other long time pseudo-friends. I don't want to invite 60+ people to a bridal shower, then not invite them to the wedding. I also don't want to invite an extra 60+ people to the wedding. Mom is being really insistent though.\n\nThoughts? Suggestions? Thanks in advance!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway because she has Reddit.\n\nOkay so she's techincally a possible SO but for the explanation's sake I will refer to her as SO. I say possible because I have seen her most days of the last 2 months and until now she had seemed perfect for me.\n\nSo last night, my SO and I were chilling at her place in a somewhat drunken state. Now, when she's drunk, she is outrageously honest and open. She says it's because she finds me so trustworthy and that she knows I won't judge her. So right now you could say I feel pretty bad (hence the username)\n\nOKAY so what she told me was about how she's had sex with a lot of guys and done lots of heavy fkn drugs. She told me specifically about a time she fucked 2 guys in a bed and a photo was taken and spread around her school. Her parents flipped their shit and she has been forced to change and I'd like to think I have helped her.\n\nThe problem is that this was maximum 4 months ago and I don't know how she's doing. I like her a lot and she seems to be very keen on me but I don't know if I can get involved with her now.\n\nAm I a dick for these feelings? If I am please explain what you think and how I should act. I just don't know what to do or think." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway because she has Reddit.\n\nOkay so she's techincally a possible SO but for the explanation's sake I will refer to her as SO. I say possible because I have seen her most days of the last 2 months and until now she had seemed perfect for me.\n\nSo last night, my SO and I were chilling at her place in a somewhat drunken state. Now, when she's drunk, she is outrageously honest and open. She says it's because she finds me so trustworthy and that she knows I won't judge her. So right now you could say I feel pretty bad (hence the username)\n\nOKAY so what she told me was about how she's had sex with a lot of guys and done lots of heavy fkn drugs. She told me specifically about a time she fucked 2 guys in a bed and a photo was taken and spread around her school. Her parents flipped their shit and she has been forced to change and I'd like to think I have helped her.\n\nThe problem is that this was maximum 4 months ago and I don't know how she's doing. I like her a lot and she seems to be very keen on me but I don't know if I can get involved with her now.\n\nAm I a dick for these feelings? If I am please explain what you think and how I should act. I just don't know what to do or think." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway because she has Reddit.\n\nOkay so she's techincally a possible SO but for the explanation's sake I will refer to her as SO. I say possible because I have seen her most days of the last 2 months and until now she had seemed perfect for me.\n\nSo last night, my SO and I were chilling at her place in a somewhat drunken state. Now, when she's drunk, she is outrageously honest and open. She says it's because she finds me so trustworthy and that she knows I won't judge her. So right now you could say I feel pretty bad (hence the username)\n\nOKAY so what she told me was about how she's had sex with a lot of guys and done lots of heavy fkn drugs. She told me specifically about a time she fucked 2 guys in a bed and a photo was taken and spread around her school. Her parents flipped their shit and she has been forced to change and I'd like to think I have helped her.\n\nThe problem is that this was maximum 4 months ago and I don't know how she's doing. I like her a lot and she seems to be very keen on me but I don't know if I can get involved with her now.\n\nAm I a dick for these feelings? If I am please explain what you think and how I should act. I just don't know what to do or think." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway because she has Reddit.\n\nOkay so she's techincally a possible SO but for the explanation's sake I will refer to her as SO. I say possible because I have seen her most days of the last 2 months and until now she had seemed perfect for me.\n\nSo last night, my SO and I were chilling at her place in a somewhat drunken state. Now, when she's drunk, she is outrageously honest and open. She says it's because she finds me so trustworthy and that she knows I won't judge her. So right now you could say I feel pretty bad (hence the username)\n\nOKAY so what she told me was about how she's had sex with a lot of guys and done lots of heavy fkn drugs. She told me specifically about a time she fucked 2 guys in a bed and a photo was taken and spread around her school. Her parents flipped their shit and she has been forced to change and I'd like to think I have helped her.\n\nThe problem is that this was maximum 4 months ago and I don't know how she's doing. I like her a lot and she seems to be very keen on me but I don't know if I can get involved with her now.\n\nAm I a dick for these feelings? If I am please explain what you think and how I should act. I just don't know what to do or think." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway because she has Reddit.\n\nOkay so she's techincally a possible SO but for the explanation's sake I will refer to her as SO. I say possible because I have seen her most days of the last 2 months and until now she had seemed perfect for me.\n\nSo last night, my SO and I were chilling at her place in a somewhat drunken state. Now, when she's drunk, she is outrageously honest and open. She says it's because she finds me so trustworthy and that she knows I won't judge her. So right now you could say I feel pretty bad (hence the username)\n\nOKAY so what she told me was about how she's had sex with a lot of guys and done lots of heavy fkn drugs. She told me specifically about a time she fucked 2 guys in a bed and a photo was taken and spread around her school. Her parents flipped their shit and she has been forced to change and I'd like to think I have helped her.\n\nThe problem is that this was maximum 4 months ago and I don't know how she's doing. I like her a lot and she seems to be very keen on me but I don't know if I can get involved with her now.\n\nAm I a dick for these feelings? If I am please explain what you think and how I should act. I just don't know what to do or think." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway because she has Reddit.\n\nOkay so she's techincally a possible SO but for the explanation's sake I will refer to her as SO. I say possible because I have seen her most days of the last 2 months and until now she had seemed perfect for me.\n\nSo last night, my SO and I were chilling at her place in a somewhat drunken state. Now, when she's drunk, she is outrageously honest and open. She says it's because she finds me so trustworthy and that she knows I won't judge her. So right now you could say I feel pretty bad (hence the username)\n\nOKAY so what she told me was about how she's had sex with a lot of guys and done lots of heavy fkn drugs. She told me specifically about a time she fucked 2 guys in a bed and a photo was taken and spread around her school. Her parents flipped their shit and she has been forced to change and I'd like to think I have helped her.\n\nThe problem is that this was maximum 4 months ago and I don't know how she's doing. I like her a lot and she seems to be very keen on me but I don't know if I can get involved with her now.\n\nAm I a dick for these feelings? If I am please explain what you think and how I should act. I just don't know what to do or think." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Since a very young age, I have been dealing with depression and horrible self-esteem problems, causing me to be fairly inactive romantically and sexually, having only dated and slept with one guy. \n\nMy sophomore year of college, I became very active and started going to the gym every single day. At the risk of sounding vain, I think I am fairly attractive when I am consistently taking care of my health. \n\nHowever, a few months ago I went through a major depressive episode, causing me to stop exercising, develop poor hygiene, eat a garbage diet, and of course, gain lots of weight. The guy I slept with said (while angry with me) that I was an 8.5/10 on the attractiveness scale when I was exercising regularly, but am now a 6/10. \n\nI have nearly made a full recovery from my depressive episode, but I have not been able to lose the weight yet. I am interested in developing a romantic relationship and decided to ask some guys from my school out to increase my confidence and ability to handle rejection, and maybe even find someone worth dating. \n\nHowever, I know a lot of guys are strongly turned off by overweight girls. Should I even bother trying to date until I lose the weight?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Since a very young age, I have been dealing with depression and horrible self-esteem problems, causing me to be fairly inactive romantically and sexually, having only dated and slept with one guy. \n\nMy sophomore year of college, I became very active and started going to the gym every single day. At the risk of sounding vain, I think I am fairly attractive when I am consistently taking care of my health. \n\nHowever, a few months ago I went through a major depressive episode, causing me to stop exercising, develop poor hygiene, eat a garbage diet, and of course, gain lots of weight. The guy I slept with said (while angry with me) that I was an 8.5/10 on the attractiveness scale when I was exercising regularly, but am now a 6/10. \n\nI have nearly made a full recovery from my depressive episode, but I have not been able to lose the weight yet. I am interested in developing a romantic relationship and decided to ask some guys from my school out to increase my confidence and ability to handle rejection, and maybe even find someone worth dating. \n\nHowever, I know a lot of guys are strongly turned off by overweight girls. Should I even bother trying to date until I lose the weight?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Since a very young age, I have been dealing with depression and horrible self-esteem problems, causing me to be fairly inactive romantically and sexually, having only dated and slept with one guy. \n\nMy sophomore year of college, I became very active and started going to the gym every single day. At the risk of sounding vain, I think I am fairly attractive when I am consistently taking care of my health. \n\nHowever, a few months ago I went through a major depressive episode, causing me to stop exercising, develop poor hygiene, eat a garbage diet, and of course, gain lots of weight. The guy I slept with said (while angry with me) that I was an 8.5/10 on the attractiveness scale when I was exercising regularly, but am now a 6/10. \n\nI have nearly made a full recovery from my depressive episode, but I have not been able to lose the weight yet. I am interested in developing a romantic relationship and decided to ask some guys from my school out to increase my confidence and ability to handle rejection, and maybe even find someone worth dating. \n\nHowever, I know a lot of guys are strongly turned off by overweight girls. Should I even bother trying to date until I lose the weight?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Since a very young age, I have been dealing with depression and horrible self-esteem problems, causing me to be fairly inactive romantically and sexually, having only dated and slept with one guy. \n\nMy sophomore year of college, I became very active and started going to the gym every single day. At the risk of sounding vain, I think I am fairly attractive when I am consistently taking care of my health. \n\nHowever, a few months ago I went through a major depressive episode, causing me to stop exercising, develop poor hygiene, eat a garbage diet, and of course, gain lots of weight. The guy I slept with said (while angry with me) that I was an 8.5/10 on the attractiveness scale when I was exercising regularly, but am now a 6/10. \n\nI have nearly made a full recovery from my depressive episode, but I have not been able to lose the weight yet. I am interested in developing a romantic relationship and decided to ask some guys from my school out to increase my confidence and ability to handle rejection, and maybe even find someone worth dating. \n\nHowever, I know a lot of guys are strongly turned off by overweight girls. Should I even bother trying to date until I lose the weight?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Since a very young age, I have been dealing with depression and horrible self-esteem problems, causing me to be fairly inactive romantically and sexually, having only dated and slept with one guy. \n\nMy sophomore year of college, I became very active and started going to the gym every single day. At the risk of sounding vain, I think I am fairly attractive when I am consistently taking care of my health. \n\nHowever, a few months ago I went through a major depressive episode, causing me to stop exercising, develop poor hygiene, eat a garbage diet, and of course, gain lots of weight. The guy I slept with said (while angry with me) that I was an 8.5/10 on the attractiveness scale when I was exercising regularly, but am now a 6/10. \n\nI have nearly made a full recovery from my depressive episode, but I have not been able to lose the weight yet. I am interested in developing a romantic relationship and decided to ask some guys from my school out to increase my confidence and ability to handle rejection, and maybe even find someone worth dating. \n\nHowever, I know a lot of guys are strongly turned off by overweight girls. Should I even bother trying to date until I lose the weight?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Since a very young age, I have been dealing with depression and horrible self-esteem problems, causing me to be fairly inactive romantically and sexually, having only dated and slept with one guy. \n\nMy sophomore year of college, I became very active and started going to the gym every single day. At the risk of sounding vain, I think I am fairly attractive when I am consistently taking care of my health. \n\nHowever, a few months ago I went through a major depressive episode, causing me to stop exercising, develop poor hygiene, eat a garbage diet, and of course, gain lots of weight. The guy I slept with said (while angry with me) that I was an 8.5/10 on the attractiveness scale when I was exercising regularly, but am now a 6/10. \n\nI have nearly made a full recovery from my depressive episode, but I have not been able to lose the weight yet. I am interested in developing a romantic relationship and decided to ask some guys from my school out to increase my confidence and ability to handle rejection, and maybe even find someone worth dating. \n\nHowever, I know a lot of guys are strongly turned off by overweight girls. Should I even bother trying to date until I lose the weight?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We just broke up two days ago.\nI went to my parents for a night and came home last night at 9:30 and he wasn't here.\n\n \nHe goes to the bar with his coworkers every night, usually I end up having to go pick him up and bring him home, but he had the car. Or else I would have. \n\nHe texted me saying he was sleeping at work tonight.\n\nHe has a bad drinking problem, and I know he was out with his guy friends drinking all night. But I hope I just hope he wasn't with another girl.\n\nPart of me thinks he just got really really drunk and went to the office and slept. He's not the type of guy a woman desires when he's drinking anyways.\nSo there's that.\n\nI feel like when he gets home we'll end up talking it out because when he dumped me, he was drunk.and knowing him after being together for over three years, I know how he is drunk and how the next day he feels bad.\n\nWe live together, so the no contact thing doesn't work. I don't have anywhere to go. And I'm on this lease.\n\nMy goal, is to work toward repairing this relationship by the time the lease is up.\n\nI told him I was just going to my parents house for a day or so, to let us calm down. I told him we were going to talk when I get back and he said okay. \n\nI know he cares, and he has a problem.\n\nBut I just can't imagine him being with someone else. I just hope last night he just drank himself into a stupor. Because I know once we talk we'll work things out. I know how he works better than he knows how he works.and he has pushed every good thing out of his life. \nI refuse to give up on him." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We just broke up two days ago.\nI went to my parents for a night and came home last night at 9:30 and he wasn't here.\n\n \nHe goes to the bar with his coworkers every night, usually I end up having to go pick him up and bring him home, but he had the car. Or else I would have. \n\nHe texted me saying he was sleeping at work tonight.\n\nHe has a bad drinking problem, and I know he was out with his guy friends drinking all night. But I hope I just hope he wasn't with another girl.\n\nPart of me thinks he just got really really drunk and went to the office and slept. He's not the type of guy a woman desires when he's drinking anyways.\nSo there's that.\n\nI feel like when he gets home we'll end up talking it out because when he dumped me, he was drunk.and knowing him after being together for over three years, I know how he is drunk and how the next day he feels bad.\n\nWe live together, so the no contact thing doesn't work. I don't have anywhere to go. And I'm on this lease.\n\nMy goal, is to work toward repairing this relationship by the time the lease is up.\n\nI told him I was just going to my parents house for a day or so, to let us calm down. I told him we were going to talk when I get back and he said okay. \n\nI know he cares, and he has a problem.\n\nBut I just can't imagine him being with someone else. I just hope last night he just drank himself into a stupor. Because I know once we talk we'll work things out. I know how he works better than he knows how he works.and he has pushed every good thing out of his life. \nI refuse to give up on him." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We just broke up two days ago.\nI went to my parents for a night and came home last night at 9:30 and he wasn't here.\n\n \nHe goes to the bar with his coworkers every night, usually I end up having to go pick him up and bring him home, but he had the car. Or else I would have. \n\nHe texted me saying he was sleeping at work tonight.\n\nHe has a bad drinking problem, and I know he was out with his guy friends drinking all night. But I hope I just hope he wasn't with another girl.\n\nPart of me thinks he just got really really drunk and went to the office and slept. He's not the type of guy a woman desires when he's drinking anyways.\nSo there's that.\n\nI feel like when he gets home we'll end up talking it out because when he dumped me, he was drunk.and knowing him after being together for over three years, I know how he is drunk and how the next day he feels bad.\n\nWe live together, so the no contact thing doesn't work. I don't have anywhere to go. And I'm on this lease.\n\nMy goal, is to work toward repairing this relationship by the time the lease is up.\n\nI told him I was just going to my parents house for a day or so, to let us calm down. I told him we were going to talk when I get back and he said okay. \n\nI know he cares, and he has a problem.\n\nBut I just can't imagine him being with someone else. I just hope last night he just drank himself into a stupor. Because I know once we talk we'll work things out. I know how he works better than he knows how he works.and he has pushed every good thing out of his life. \nI refuse to give up on him." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We just broke up two days ago.\nI went to my parents for a night and came home last night at 9:30 and he wasn't here.\n\n \nHe goes to the bar with his coworkers every night, usually I end up having to go pick him up and bring him home, but he had the car. Or else I would have. \n\nHe texted me saying he was sleeping at work tonight.\n\nHe has a bad drinking problem, and I know he was out with his guy friends drinking all night. But I hope I just hope he wasn't with another girl.\n\nPart of me thinks he just got really really drunk and went to the office and slept. He's not the type of guy a woman desires when he's drinking anyways.\nSo there's that.\n\nI feel like when he gets home we'll end up talking it out because when he dumped me, he was drunk.and knowing him after being together for over three years, I know how he is drunk and how the next day he feels bad.\n\nWe live together, so the no contact thing doesn't work. I don't have anywhere to go. And I'm on this lease.\n\nMy goal, is to work toward repairing this relationship by the time the lease is up.\n\nI told him I was just going to my parents house for a day or so, to let us calm down. I told him we were going to talk when I get back and he said okay. \n\nI know he cares, and he has a problem.\n\nBut I just can't imagine him being with someone else. I just hope last night he just drank himself into a stupor. Because I know once we talk we'll work things out. I know how he works better than he knows how he works.and he has pushed every good thing out of his life. \nI refuse to give up on him." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We just broke up two days ago.\nI went to my parents for a night and came home last night at 9:30 and he wasn't here.\n\n \nHe goes to the bar with his coworkers every night, usually I end up having to go pick him up and bring him home, but he had the car. Or else I would have. \n\nHe texted me saying he was sleeping at work tonight.\n\nHe has a bad drinking problem, and I know he was out with his guy friends drinking all night. But I hope I just hope he wasn't with another girl.\n\nPart of me thinks he just got really really drunk and went to the office and slept. He's not the type of guy a woman desires when he's drinking anyways.\nSo there's that.\n\nI feel like when he gets home we'll end up talking it out because when he dumped me, he was drunk.and knowing him after being together for over three years, I know how he is drunk and how the next day he feels bad.\n\nWe live together, so the no contact thing doesn't work. I don't have anywhere to go. And I'm on this lease.\n\nMy goal, is to work toward repairing this relationship by the time the lease is up.\n\nI told him I was just going to my parents house for a day or so, to let us calm down. I told him we were going to talk when I get back and he said okay. \n\nI know he cares, and he has a problem.\n\nBut I just can't imagine him being with someone else. I just hope last night he just drank himself into a stupor. Because I know once we talk we'll work things out. I know how he works better than he knows how he works.and he has pushed every good thing out of his life. \nI refuse to give up on him." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We just broke up two days ago.\nI went to my parents for a night and came home last night at 9:30 and he wasn't here.\n\n \nHe goes to the bar with his coworkers every night, usually I end up having to go pick him up and bring him home, but he had the car. Or else I would have. \n\nHe texted me saying he was sleeping at work tonight.\n\nHe has a bad drinking problem, and I know he was out with his guy friends drinking all night. But I hope I just hope he wasn't with another girl.\n\nPart of me thinks he just got really really drunk and went to the office and slept. He's not the type of guy a woman desires when he's drinking anyways.\nSo there's that.\n\nI feel like when he gets home we'll end up talking it out because when he dumped me, he was drunk.and knowing him after being together for over three years, I know how he is drunk and how the next day he feels bad.\n\nWe live together, so the no contact thing doesn't work. I don't have anywhere to go. And I'm on this lease.\n\nMy goal, is to work toward repairing this relationship by the time the lease is up.\n\nI told him I was just going to my parents house for a day or so, to let us calm down. I told him we were going to talk when I get back and he said okay. \n\nI know he cares, and he has a problem.\n\nBut I just can't imagine him being with someone else. I just hope last night he just drank himself into a stupor. Because I know once we talk we'll work things out. I know how he works better than he knows how he works.and he has pushed every good thing out of his life. \nI refuse to give up on him." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (24F) met this guy (24M) on tinder and we hit it off well on our first two dates. We were constantly making each other laugh, there was touching and kissing which he initiated and just general signs that the dates are going well. \n\nHowever, in between dates I don't hear from him much except to plan the next date or general banter but even then his responses are hours later. When I ask him \"how's his day is going\", he ignored it and continued with teasing me about something else but again it makes it hard for me to build a conversation. It's been a few days since our second date and I haven't heard from him. Does this mean he is no longer interested and maybe found someone else on tinder? Should I message him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (24F) met this guy (24M) on tinder and we hit it off well on our first two dates. We were constantly making each other laugh, there was touching and kissing which he initiated and just general signs that the dates are going well. \n\nHowever, in between dates I don't hear from him much except to plan the next date or general banter but even then his responses are hours later. When I ask him \"how's his day is going\", he ignored it and continued with teasing me about something else but again it makes it hard for me to build a conversation. It's been a few days since our second date and I haven't heard from him. Does this mean he is no longer interested and maybe found someone else on tinder? Should I message him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (24F) met this guy (24M) on tinder and we hit it off well on our first two dates. We were constantly making each other laugh, there was touching and kissing which he initiated and just general signs that the dates are going well. \n\nHowever, in between dates I don't hear from him much except to plan the next date or general banter but even then his responses are hours later. When I ask him \"how's his day is going\", he ignored it and continued with teasing me about something else but again it makes it hard for me to build a conversation. It's been a few days since our second date and I haven't heard from him. Does this mean he is no longer interested and maybe found someone else on tinder? Should I message him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (24F) met this guy (24M) on tinder and we hit it off well on our first two dates. We were constantly making each other laugh, there was touching and kissing which he initiated and just general signs that the dates are going well. \n\nHowever, in between dates I don't hear from him much except to plan the next date or general banter but even then his responses are hours later. When I ask him \"how's his day is going\", he ignored it and continued with teasing me about something else but again it makes it hard for me to build a conversation. It's been a few days since our second date and I haven't heard from him. Does this mean he is no longer interested and maybe found someone else on tinder? Should I message him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (24F) met this guy (24M) on tinder and we hit it off well on our first two dates. We were constantly making each other laugh, there was touching and kissing which he initiated and just general signs that the dates are going well. \n\nHowever, in between dates I don't hear from him much except to plan the next date or general banter but even then his responses are hours later. When I ask him \"how's his day is going\", he ignored it and continued with teasing me about something else but again it makes it hard for me to build a conversation. It's been a few days since our second date and I haven't heard from him. Does this mean he is no longer interested and maybe found someone else on tinder? Should I message him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (24F) met this guy (24M) on tinder and we hit it off well on our first two dates. We were constantly making each other laugh, there was touching and kissing which he initiated and just general signs that the dates are going well. \n\nHowever, in between dates I don't hear from him much except to plan the next date or general banter but even then his responses are hours later. When I ask him \"how's his day is going\", he ignored it and continued with teasing me about something else but again it makes it hard for me to build a conversation. It's been a few days since our second date and I haven't heard from him. Does this mean he is no longer interested and maybe found someone else on tinder? Should I message him?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In my dream there was a guy who landed a hot air balloon in my backyard. He had a helmed with the Reddit logo and the balloon also said Reddit. After he landed he just packed his stuff in his backpack and walked into the forest. (My backyard leads into a forest).\n\nI also had another dream this morning. I, Vincet Vega, Jules Winnfield and another random girl was eating hamburgers in a burger joint. (And for some reason the burgers were packed in a vacuum sealed plastic bag). I can't remember what I said, but everyone got disappointed at me and I saw a blue arrow. They all left.\n\nSo what happened in your first Reddit related dream?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In my dream there was a guy who landed a hot air balloon in my backyard. He had a helmed with the Reddit logo and the balloon also said Reddit. After he landed he just packed his stuff in his backpack and walked into the forest. (My backyard leads into a forest).\n\nI also had another dream this morning. I, Vincet Vega, Jules Winnfield and another random girl was eating hamburgers in a burger joint. (And for some reason the burgers were packed in a vacuum sealed plastic bag). I can't remember what I said, but everyone got disappointed at me and I saw a blue arrow. They all left.\n\nSo what happened in your first Reddit related dream?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In my dream there was a guy who landed a hot air balloon in my backyard. He had a helmed with the Reddit logo and the balloon also said Reddit. After he landed he just packed his stuff in his backpack and walked into the forest. (My backyard leads into a forest).\n\nI also had another dream this morning. I, Vincet Vega, Jules Winnfield and another random girl was eating hamburgers in a burger joint. (And for some reason the burgers were packed in a vacuum sealed plastic bag). I can't remember what I said, but everyone got disappointed at me and I saw a blue arrow. They all left.\n\nSo what happened in your first Reddit related dream?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In my dream there was a guy who landed a hot air balloon in my backyard. He had a helmed with the Reddit logo and the balloon also said Reddit. After he landed he just packed his stuff in his backpack and walked into the forest. (My backyard leads into a forest).\n\nI also had another dream this morning. I, Vincet Vega, Jules Winnfield and another random girl was eating hamburgers in a burger joint. (And for some reason the burgers were packed in a vacuum sealed plastic bag). I can't remember what I said, but everyone got disappointed at me and I saw a blue arrow. They all left.\n\nSo what happened in your first Reddit related dream?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In my dream there was a guy who landed a hot air balloon in my backyard. He had a helmed with the Reddit logo and the balloon also said Reddit. After he landed he just packed his stuff in his backpack and walked into the forest. (My backyard leads into a forest).\n\nI also had another dream this morning. I, Vincet Vega, Jules Winnfield and another random girl was eating hamburgers in a burger joint. (And for some reason the burgers were packed in a vacuum sealed plastic bag). I can't remember what I said, but everyone got disappointed at me and I saw a blue arrow. They all left.\n\nSo what happened in your first Reddit related dream?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In my dream there was a guy who landed a hot air balloon in my backyard. He had a helmed with the Reddit logo and the balloon also said Reddit. After he landed he just packed his stuff in his backpack and walked into the forest. (My backyard leads into a forest).\n\nI also had another dream this morning. I, Vincet Vega, Jules Winnfield and another random girl was eating hamburgers in a burger joint. (And for some reason the burgers were packed in a vacuum sealed plastic bag). I can't remember what I said, but everyone got disappointed at me and I saw a blue arrow. They all left.\n\nSo what happened in your first Reddit related dream?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background - I have a 401k retirement account with Vanguard, as part of my company-sponsored plan. I wanted to open a taxable account (which I thought would be called something like \"brokerage account\") through Vanguard so that I could buy their funds (with a bunch of extra cash I have) with no fees.\n\nI was poking around my account and saw something called \"Vanguard Brokerage Option\", or \"VBO\". I just assumed this was a way to open a brokerage account, but I was wrong. Turns out, this is just a feature that lets you pick whatever stocks or funds you want in a retirement account instead of the ones specified by the company plan. Some details here (I don't work at Farmers - this is just the only public link I could find):\n\nThis really wasn't what I was looking for, and there is also a small fee of $8 per year. Now, should I call up Vanguard to take this option away, or is there some way I can make this worth my while? For example, right now all of my 401k funds are in one of Vanguard's Target Retirement funds. If I changed that to Admiral shares of total market, total int'l market, and total bond funds, and rebalance once a year, would that benefit be worth the small cost and effort? Thanks!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background - I have a 401k retirement account with Vanguard, as part of my company-sponsored plan. I wanted to open a taxable account (which I thought would be called something like \"brokerage account\") through Vanguard so that I could buy their funds (with a bunch of extra cash I have) with no fees.\n\nI was poking around my account and saw something called \"Vanguard Brokerage Option\", or \"VBO\". I just assumed this was a way to open a brokerage account, but I was wrong. Turns out, this is just a feature that lets you pick whatever stocks or funds you want in a retirement account instead of the ones specified by the company plan. Some details here (I don't work at Farmers - this is just the only public link I could find):\n\nThis really wasn't what I was looking for, and there is also a small fee of $8 per year. Now, should I call up Vanguard to take this option away, or is there some way I can make this worth my while? For example, right now all of my 401k funds are in one of Vanguard's Target Retirement funds. If I changed that to Admiral shares of total market, total int'l market, and total bond funds, and rebalance once a year, would that benefit be worth the small cost and effort? Thanks!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background - I have a 401k retirement account with Vanguard, as part of my company-sponsored plan. I wanted to open a taxable account (which I thought would be called something like \"brokerage account\") through Vanguard so that I could buy their funds (with a bunch of extra cash I have) with no fees.\n\nI was poking around my account and saw something called \"Vanguard Brokerage Option\", or \"VBO\". I just assumed this was a way to open a brokerage account, but I was wrong. Turns out, this is just a feature that lets you pick whatever stocks or funds you want in a retirement account instead of the ones specified by the company plan. Some details here (I don't work at Farmers - this is just the only public link I could find):\n\nThis really wasn't what I was looking for, and there is also a small fee of $8 per year. Now, should I call up Vanguard to take this option away, or is there some way I can make this worth my while? For example, right now all of my 401k funds are in one of Vanguard's Target Retirement funds. If I changed that to Admiral shares of total market, total int'l market, and total bond funds, and rebalance once a year, would that benefit be worth the small cost and effort? Thanks!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background - I have a 401k retirement account with Vanguard, as part of my company-sponsored plan. I wanted to open a taxable account (which I thought would be called something like \"brokerage account\") through Vanguard so that I could buy their funds (with a bunch of extra cash I have) with no fees.\n\nI was poking around my account and saw something called \"Vanguard Brokerage Option\", or \"VBO\". I just assumed this was a way to open a brokerage account, but I was wrong. Turns out, this is just a feature that lets you pick whatever stocks or funds you want in a retirement account instead of the ones specified by the company plan. Some details here (I don't work at Farmers - this is just the only public link I could find):\n\nThis really wasn't what I was looking for, and there is also a small fee of $8 per year. Now, should I call up Vanguard to take this option away, or is there some way I can make this worth my while? For example, right now all of my 401k funds are in one of Vanguard's Target Retirement funds. If I changed that to Admiral shares of total market, total int'l market, and total bond funds, and rebalance once a year, would that benefit be worth the small cost and effort? Thanks!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background - I have a 401k retirement account with Vanguard, as part of my company-sponsored plan. I wanted to open a taxable account (which I thought would be called something like \"brokerage account\") through Vanguard so that I could buy their funds (with a bunch of extra cash I have) with no fees.\n\nI was poking around my account and saw something called \"Vanguard Brokerage Option\", or \"VBO\". I just assumed this was a way to open a brokerage account, but I was wrong. Turns out, this is just a feature that lets you pick whatever stocks or funds you want in a retirement account instead of the ones specified by the company plan. Some details here (I don't work at Farmers - this is just the only public link I could find):\n\nThis really wasn't what I was looking for, and there is also a small fee of $8 per year. Now, should I call up Vanguard to take this option away, or is there some way I can make this worth my while? For example, right now all of my 401k funds are in one of Vanguard's Target Retirement funds. If I changed that to Admiral shares of total market, total int'l market, and total bond funds, and rebalance once a year, would that benefit be worth the small cost and effort? Thanks!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background - I have a 401k retirement account with Vanguard, as part of my company-sponsored plan. I wanted to open a taxable account (which I thought would be called something like \"brokerage account\") through Vanguard so that I could buy their funds (with a bunch of extra cash I have) with no fees.\n\nI was poking around my account and saw something called \"Vanguard Brokerage Option\", or \"VBO\". I just assumed this was a way to open a brokerage account, but I was wrong. Turns out, this is just a feature that lets you pick whatever stocks or funds you want in a retirement account instead of the ones specified by the company plan. Some details here (I don't work at Farmers - this is just the only public link I could find):\n\nThis really wasn't what I was looking for, and there is also a small fee of $8 per year. Now, should I call up Vanguard to take this option away, or is there some way I can make this worth my while? For example, right now all of my 401k funds are in one of Vanguard's Target Retirement funds. If I changed that to Admiral shares of total market, total int'l market, and total bond funds, and rebalance once a year, would that benefit be worth the small cost and effort? Thanks!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been dating for around a year and a half now and we have been nothing but happy, however recently we have expressed interest in seeing one another naked. We (obviously) haven't had sex yet and are both virgins, so this is a big step for us, a step I'm not sure we're ready to take.\n\nWe both have stated that we are extremely comfortable with each other and want to move to this next step, yet worry that it could mess up our relationship. Since it is so new to the both of us, we aren't sure what will happen. Will it be awkward? Will we be able to see each other in the same way from here on out? Could this ruin our relationship?\n\nThanks so much for your advice!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been dating for around a year and a half now and we have been nothing but happy, however recently we have expressed interest in seeing one another naked. We (obviously) haven't had sex yet and are both virgins, so this is a big step for us, a step I'm not sure we're ready to take.\n\nWe both have stated that we are extremely comfortable with each other and want to move to this next step, yet worry that it could mess up our relationship. Since it is so new to the both of us, we aren't sure what will happen. Will it be awkward? Will we be able to see each other in the same way from here on out? Could this ruin our relationship?\n\nThanks so much for your advice!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been dating for around a year and a half now and we have been nothing but happy, however recently we have expressed interest in seeing one another naked. We (obviously) haven't had sex yet and are both virgins, so this is a big step for us, a step I'm not sure we're ready to take.\n\nWe both have stated that we are extremely comfortable with each other and want to move to this next step, yet worry that it could mess up our relationship. Since it is so new to the both of us, we aren't sure what will happen. Will it be awkward? Will we be able to see each other in the same way from here on out? Could this ruin our relationship?\n\nThanks so much for your advice!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been dating for around a year and a half now and we have been nothing but happy, however recently we have expressed interest in seeing one another naked. We (obviously) haven't had sex yet and are both virgins, so this is a big step for us, a step I'm not sure we're ready to take.\n\nWe both have stated that we are extremely comfortable with each other and want to move to this next step, yet worry that it could mess up our relationship. Since it is so new to the both of us, we aren't sure what will happen. Will it be awkward? Will we be able to see each other in the same way from here on out? Could this ruin our relationship?\n\nThanks so much for your advice!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been dating for around a year and a half now and we have been nothing but happy, however recently we have expressed interest in seeing one another naked. We (obviously) haven't had sex yet and are both virgins, so this is a big step for us, a step I'm not sure we're ready to take.\n\nWe both have stated that we are extremely comfortable with each other and want to move to this next step, yet worry that it could mess up our relationship. Since it is so new to the both of us, we aren't sure what will happen. Will it be awkward? Will we be able to see each other in the same way from here on out? Could this ruin our relationship?\n\nThanks so much for your advice!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been dating for around a year and a half now and we have been nothing but happy, however recently we have expressed interest in seeing one another naked. We (obviously) haven't had sex yet and are both virgins, so this is a big step for us, a step I'm not sure we're ready to take.\n\nWe both have stated that we are extremely comfortable with each other and want to move to this next step, yet worry that it could mess up our relationship. Since it is so new to the both of us, we aren't sure what will happen. Will it be awkward? Will we be able to see each other in the same way from here on out? Could this ruin our relationship?\n\nThanks so much for your advice!" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original Post](\n\nIt has been 5 months since I originally posted this and it has almost exactly happened again with the same friend. After my last breakup that was 1 ½ years ago I have realized I am very introverted when it comes to relationships (In my last relationship I was broken up with for the first time.) Basically I haven't been able to have feelings for someone this entire time; I have been the epitome of single, not even having casual relationships/friends with benefits. I have avoided relationships or anything related like the plague. I am aware that I am scared to open my heart to someone because of it previously being broken and it didn't matter to me until now. After getting to know my friend more over these past 5 months he has become one of my closest friends and he is honestly one of the best human beings I have ever met in my life.\n\nMy problem is that I love him but still only as a friend. I want to reciprocate his feelings for me but it just isn't happening. This friend of mine is absolutely wonderful and I feel like a stupid person because I can't seem to have feelings for him or anyone for that matter. Even if we aren't compatible in a romantic way I would still like to get back in to dating because I am young and I know that this is the time in my life where I should be experiencing new relationships and whatnot. My heart has grown cold due being broken up with, also realizing that a substantial amount of my \"friends\" were using me for my money. How do I let myself be vulnerable again and open my heart?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original Post](\n\nIt has been 5 months since I originally posted this and it has almost exactly happened again with the same friend. After my last breakup that was 1 ½ years ago I have realized I am very introverted when it comes to relationships (In my last relationship I was broken up with for the first time.) Basically I haven't been able to have feelings for someone this entire time; I have been the epitome of single, not even having casual relationships/friends with benefits. I have avoided relationships or anything related like the plague. I am aware that I am scared to open my heart to someone because of it previously being broken and it didn't matter to me until now. After getting to know my friend more over these past 5 months he has become one of my closest friends and he is honestly one of the best human beings I have ever met in my life.\n\nMy problem is that I love him but still only as a friend. I want to reciprocate his feelings for me but it just isn't happening. This friend of mine is absolutely wonderful and I feel like a stupid person because I can't seem to have feelings for him or anyone for that matter. Even if we aren't compatible in a romantic way I would still like to get back in to dating because I am young and I know that this is the time in my life where I should be experiencing new relationships and whatnot. My heart has grown cold due being broken up with, also realizing that a substantial amount of my \"friends\" were using me for my money. How do I let myself be vulnerable again and open my heart?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original Post](\n\nIt has been 5 months since I originally posted this and it has almost exactly happened again with the same friend. After my last breakup that was 1 ½ years ago I have realized I am very introverted when it comes to relationships (In my last relationship I was broken up with for the first time.) Basically I haven't been able to have feelings for someone this entire time; I have been the epitome of single, not even having casual relationships/friends with benefits. I have avoided relationships or anything related like the plague. I am aware that I am scared to open my heart to someone because of it previously being broken and it didn't matter to me until now. After getting to know my friend more over these past 5 months he has become one of my closest friends and he is honestly one of the best human beings I have ever met in my life.\n\nMy problem is that I love him but still only as a friend. I want to reciprocate his feelings for me but it just isn't happening. This friend of mine is absolutely wonderful and I feel like a stupid person because I can't seem to have feelings for him or anyone for that matter. Even if we aren't compatible in a romantic way I would still like to get back in to dating because I am young and I know that this is the time in my life where I should be experiencing new relationships and whatnot. My heart has grown cold due being broken up with, also realizing that a substantial amount of my \"friends\" were using me for my money. How do I let myself be vulnerable again and open my heart?" }