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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was trying to find a link to something I was looking at a few days ago, and found a LOT of porn my boyfriend has been looking at recently. Don't get me wrong, we are very sexually active and he tells me constantly that he loves my body and the way I look. \n\nThe thing is, we have looked at porn together before. I've even given him head while he watched it and I had no problem with it. But when I saw all these links there were things like girls with HUGE boobs, (I'm a large C cup. I'm talking like G cups.) And even a pregnant chicks camera, and that's just weird.\n\nI ended up just feeling hurt by all this, and crazy self conscious. Is this horribly wrong of me? Or do I have some reasoning to all this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was trying to find a link to something I was looking at a few days ago, and found a LOT of porn my boyfriend has been looking at recently. Don't get me wrong, we are very sexually active and he tells me constantly that he loves my body and the way I look. \n\nThe thing is, we have looked at porn together before. I've even given him head while he watched it and I had no problem with it. But when I saw all these links there were things like girls with HUGE boobs, (I'm a large C cup. I'm talking like G cups.) And even a pregnant chicks camera, and that's just weird.\n\nI ended up just feeling hurt by all this, and crazy self conscious. Is this horribly wrong of me? Or do I have some reasoning to all this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was trying to find a link to something I was looking at a few days ago, and found a LOT of porn my boyfriend has been looking at recently. Don't get me wrong, we are very sexually active and he tells me constantly that he loves my body and the way I look. \n\nThe thing is, we have looked at porn together before. I've even given him head while he watched it and I had no problem with it. But when I saw all these links there were things like girls with HUGE boobs, (I'm a large C cup. I'm talking like G cups.) And even a pregnant chicks camera, and that's just weird.\n\nI ended up just feeling hurt by all this, and crazy self conscious. Is this horribly wrong of me? Or do I have some reasoning to all this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was trying to find a link to something I was looking at a few days ago, and found a LOT of porn my boyfriend has been looking at recently. Don't get me wrong, we are very sexually active and he tells me constantly that he loves my body and the way I look. \n\nThe thing is, we have looked at porn together before. I've even given him head while he watched it and I had no problem with it. But when I saw all these links there were things like girls with HUGE boobs, (I'm a large C cup. I'm talking like G cups.) And even a pregnant chicks camera, and that's just weird.\n\nI ended up just feeling hurt by all this, and crazy self conscious. Is this horribly wrong of me? Or do I have some reasoning to all this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was trying to find a link to something I was looking at a few days ago, and found a LOT of porn my boyfriend has been looking at recently. Don't get me wrong, we are very sexually active and he tells me constantly that he loves my body and the way I look. \n\nThe thing is, we have looked at porn together before. I've even given him head while he watched it and I had no problem with it. But when I saw all these links there were things like girls with HUGE boobs, (I'm a large C cup. I'm talking like G cups.) And even a pregnant chicks camera, and that's just weird.\n\nI ended up just feeling hurt by all this, and crazy self conscious. Is this horribly wrong of me? Or do I have some reasoning to all this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was trying to find a link to something I was looking at a few days ago, and found a LOT of porn my boyfriend has been looking at recently. Don't get me wrong, we are very sexually active and he tells me constantly that he loves my body and the way I look. \n\nThe thing is, we have looked at porn together before. I've even given him head while he watched it and I had no problem with it. But when I saw all these links there were things like girls with HUGE boobs, (I'm a large C cup. I'm talking like G cups.) And even a pregnant chicks camera, and that's just weird.\n\nI ended up just feeling hurt by all this, and crazy self conscious. Is this horribly wrong of me? Or do I have some reasoning to all this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So spring break is coming up an I have almost nothing to do. My college does these service trips over the week long break, but chances are I won't be accepted to those because I've already gone once (plus, they're not superbly fun). My friends are either going on one of those trips or going home to stay with their boyfriends so that leaves me all alone.\n\nI can always go home and hang with the family, but really that's boring so I'm looking for a trip somewhere that is fun, adventurous, and cheap(ish) for a lone college gal.\n\nI go to school in the Tampa Bay area (FL, USA) so if there are any great spots around there for some day trips, too. I'm not a big party person so I'm not looking for a beachy, alcoholic spring break (since I'm already in a beachy, alcoholic atmosphere at school). I'm an adventurous type, so I'm up for kayaking, hiking, what have you.\n\nThis is starting to sound like an online dating site profile, so I'll stop."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So spring break is coming up an I have almost nothing to do. My college does these service trips over the week long break, but chances are I won't be accepted to those because I've already gone once (plus, they're not superbly fun). My friends are either going on one of those trips or going home to stay with their boyfriends so that leaves me all alone.\n\nI can always go home and hang with the family, but really that's boring so I'm looking for a trip somewhere that is fun, adventurous, and cheap(ish) for a lone college gal.\n\nI go to school in the Tampa Bay area (FL, USA) so if there are any great spots around there for some day trips, too. I'm not a big party person so I'm not looking for a beachy, alcoholic spring break (since I'm already in a beachy, alcoholic atmosphere at school). I'm an adventurous type, so I'm up for kayaking, hiking, what have you.\n\nThis is starting to sound like an online dating site profile, so I'll stop."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So spring break is coming up an I have almost nothing to do. My college does these service trips over the week long break, but chances are I won't be accepted to those because I've already gone once (plus, they're not superbly fun). My friends are either going on one of those trips or going home to stay with their boyfriends so that leaves me all alone.\n\nI can always go home and hang with the family, but really that's boring so I'm looking for a trip somewhere that is fun, adventurous, and cheap(ish) for a lone college gal.\n\nI go to school in the Tampa Bay area (FL, USA) so if there are any great spots around there for some day trips, too. I'm not a big party person so I'm not looking for a beachy, alcoholic spring break (since I'm already in a beachy, alcoholic atmosphere at school). I'm an adventurous type, so I'm up for kayaking, hiking, what have you.\n\nThis is starting to sound like an online dating site profile, so I'll stop."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So spring break is coming up an I have almost nothing to do. My college does these service trips over the week long break, but chances are I won't be accepted to those because I've already gone once (plus, they're not superbly fun). My friends are either going on one of those trips or going home to stay with their boyfriends so that leaves me all alone.\n\nI can always go home and hang with the family, but really that's boring so I'm looking for a trip somewhere that is fun, adventurous, and cheap(ish) for a lone college gal.\n\nI go to school in the Tampa Bay area (FL, USA) so if there are any great spots around there for some day trips, too. I'm not a big party person so I'm not looking for a beachy, alcoholic spring break (since I'm already in a beachy, alcoholic atmosphere at school). I'm an adventurous type, so I'm up for kayaking, hiking, what have you.\n\nThis is starting to sound like an online dating site profile, so I'll stop."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So spring break is coming up an I have almost nothing to do. My college does these service trips over the week long break, but chances are I won't be accepted to those because I've already gone once (plus, they're not superbly fun). My friends are either going on one of those trips or going home to stay with their boyfriends so that leaves me all alone.\n\nI can always go home and hang with the family, but really that's boring so I'm looking for a trip somewhere that is fun, adventurous, and cheap(ish) for a lone college gal.\n\nI go to school in the Tampa Bay area (FL, USA) so if there are any great spots around there for some day trips, too. I'm not a big party person so I'm not looking for a beachy, alcoholic spring break (since I'm already in a beachy, alcoholic atmosphere at school). I'm an adventurous type, so I'm up for kayaking, hiking, what have you.\n\nThis is starting to sound like an online dating site profile, so I'll stop."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So spring break is coming up an I have almost nothing to do. My college does these service trips over the week long break, but chances are I won't be accepted to those because I've already gone once (plus, they're not superbly fun). My friends are either going on one of those trips or going home to stay with their boyfriends so that leaves me all alone.\n\nI can always go home and hang with the family, but really that's boring so I'm looking for a trip somewhere that is fun, adventurous, and cheap(ish) for a lone college gal.\n\nI go to school in the Tampa Bay area (FL, USA) so if there are any great spots around there for some day trips, too. I'm not a big party person so I'm not looking for a beachy, alcoholic spring break (since I'm already in a beachy, alcoholic atmosphere at school). I'm an adventurous type, so I'm up for kayaking, hiking, what have you.\n\nThis is starting to sound like an online dating site profile, so I'll stop."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a guy[25m] I[24f] met at a coffee shop asked me out for a date few weeks ago. I went out with him to a bar, I got kind of drunk and slept with him on a first date.\n\nI've never slept with anyone on a first date. I was actually raped in May by a former FWB while visiting him in San Francisco, and after that I've been suffering from depression, it impacted me a lot and I just didn't care anymore, which led to first date sex; which is out of my usual character (I didn't tell him that it was my first time that I had sex on a first date).\n\nAnyway, I see him often at a coffee shop (Almost every day), we exchanged numbers but he never texts me (he texted me only once), we talk at a coffee shop and do our own things and sit at the same table, but he never asked me out again on a date.\n\nI slept with him again 2 weeks ago, I invited him to my place, it was second time we had sex.\n\nAfter that, I still see him almost every day at a coffee shop, but we never talk about what's going on between us. I called him last night to talk to him about it, was going to ask him about how he feels about me and if he would just want to remain friends and nothing more.\n\nHe didn't pick up the phone, didn't call me back.\n\nShould I try to talk to him again today or should I just leave it?\n\nI go to the coffee shop almost every day to study and I don't want anything awkward. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a guy[25m] I[24f] met at a coffee shop asked me out for a date few weeks ago. I went out with him to a bar, I got kind of drunk and slept with him on a first date.\n\nI've never slept with anyone on a first date. I was actually raped in May by a former FWB while visiting him in San Francisco, and after that I've been suffering from depression, it impacted me a lot and I just didn't care anymore, which led to first date sex; which is out of my usual character (I didn't tell him that it was my first time that I had sex on a first date).\n\nAnyway, I see him often at a coffee shop (Almost every day), we exchanged numbers but he never texts me (he texted me only once), we talk at a coffee shop and do our own things and sit at the same table, but he never asked me out again on a date.\n\nI slept with him again 2 weeks ago, I invited him to my place, it was second time we had sex.\n\nAfter that, I still see him almost every day at a coffee shop, but we never talk about what's going on between us. I called him last night to talk to him about it, was going to ask him about how he feels about me and if he would just want to remain friends and nothing more.\n\nHe didn't pick up the phone, didn't call me back.\n\nShould I try to talk to him again today or should I just leave it?\n\nI go to the coffee shop almost every day to study and I don't want anything awkward. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a guy[25m] I[24f] met at a coffee shop asked me out for a date few weeks ago. I went out with him to a bar, I got kind of drunk and slept with him on a first date.\n\nI've never slept with anyone on a first date. I was actually raped in May by a former FWB while visiting him in San Francisco, and after that I've been suffering from depression, it impacted me a lot and I just didn't care anymore, which led to first date sex; which is out of my usual character (I didn't tell him that it was my first time that I had sex on a first date).\n\nAnyway, I see him often at a coffee shop (Almost every day), we exchanged numbers but he never texts me (he texted me only once), we talk at a coffee shop and do our own things and sit at the same table, but he never asked me out again on a date.\n\nI slept with him again 2 weeks ago, I invited him to my place, it was second time we had sex.\n\nAfter that, I still see him almost every day at a coffee shop, but we never talk about what's going on between us. I called him last night to talk to him about it, was going to ask him about how he feels about me and if he would just want to remain friends and nothing more.\n\nHe didn't pick up the phone, didn't call me back.\n\nShould I try to talk to him again today or should I just leave it?\n\nI go to the coffee shop almost every day to study and I don't want anything awkward. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a guy[25m] I[24f] met at a coffee shop asked me out for a date few weeks ago. I went out with him to a bar, I got kind of drunk and slept with him on a first date.\n\nI've never slept with anyone on a first date. I was actually raped in May by a former FWB while visiting him in San Francisco, and after that I've been suffering from depression, it impacted me a lot and I just didn't care anymore, which led to first date sex; which is out of my usual character (I didn't tell him that it was my first time that I had sex on a first date).\n\nAnyway, I see him often at a coffee shop (Almost every day), we exchanged numbers but he never texts me (he texted me only once), we talk at a coffee shop and do our own things and sit at the same table, but he never asked me out again on a date.\n\nI slept with him again 2 weeks ago, I invited him to my place, it was second time we had sex.\n\nAfter that, I still see him almost every day at a coffee shop, but we never talk about what's going on between us. I called him last night to talk to him about it, was going to ask him about how he feels about me and if he would just want to remain friends and nothing more.\n\nHe didn't pick up the phone, didn't call me back.\n\nShould I try to talk to him again today or should I just leave it?\n\nI go to the coffee shop almost every day to study and I don't want anything awkward. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a guy[25m] I[24f] met at a coffee shop asked me out for a date few weeks ago. I went out with him to a bar, I got kind of drunk and slept with him on a first date.\n\nI've never slept with anyone on a first date. I was actually raped in May by a former FWB while visiting him in San Francisco, and after that I've been suffering from depression, it impacted me a lot and I just didn't care anymore, which led to first date sex; which is out of my usual character (I didn't tell him that it was my first time that I had sex on a first date).\n\nAnyway, I see him often at a coffee shop (Almost every day), we exchanged numbers but he never texts me (he texted me only once), we talk at a coffee shop and do our own things and sit at the same table, but he never asked me out again on a date.\n\nI slept with him again 2 weeks ago, I invited him to my place, it was second time we had sex.\n\nAfter that, I still see him almost every day at a coffee shop, but we never talk about what's going on between us. I called him last night to talk to him about it, was going to ask him about how he feels about me and if he would just want to remain friends and nothing more.\n\nHe didn't pick up the phone, didn't call me back.\n\nShould I try to talk to him again today or should I just leave it?\n\nI go to the coffee shop almost every day to study and I don't want anything awkward. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So a guy[25m] I[24f] met at a coffee shop asked me out for a date few weeks ago. I went out with him to a bar, I got kind of drunk and slept with him on a first date.\n\nI've never slept with anyone on a first date. I was actually raped in May by a former FWB while visiting him in San Francisco, and after that I've been suffering from depression, it impacted me a lot and I just didn't care anymore, which led to first date sex; which is out of my usual character (I didn't tell him that it was my first time that I had sex on a first date).\n\nAnyway, I see him often at a coffee shop (Almost every day), we exchanged numbers but he never texts me (he texted me only once), we talk at a coffee shop and do our own things and sit at the same table, but he never asked me out again on a date.\n\nI slept with him again 2 weeks ago, I invited him to my place, it was second time we had sex.\n\nAfter that, I still see him almost every day at a coffee shop, but we never talk about what's going on between us. I called him last night to talk to him about it, was going to ask him about how he feels about me and if he would just want to remain friends and nothing more.\n\nHe didn't pick up the phone, didn't call me back.\n\nShould I try to talk to him again today or should I just leave it?\n\nI go to the coffee shop almost every day to study and I don't want anything awkward. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for around nine months. Things have been going well, we have great physical chemistry and have a similar sense of humor, and we connect really well when we're around each other. We're both communicators and not fighters who try to work through our problems instead of arguing, and we try to compromise. \n\nRecently, our biggest problems include an ex he wants to keep around as a friend (which, I think as people get older is a pretty commonplace thing) and me letting it slip that I loved him. \n\nWe had many discussions about this and how it made him feel uncomfortable because it made him feel like he had to be more committed, and it frightened him because he spent a lot of time on some of his other relationships that all ended up leading to nothing. He's afraid that he won't eventually feel the same way (which would be unfair to me) or that this would end up amounting to nothing.\n\nIt also made him uncomfortable that it felt pressured to cut off communications with his ex when he didn't want to do that yet. (There are plenty of reasons why he wouldn't want to go out with her, but it remains that they spent a lot of time together and have a lot of mutual friends)\n\nSo we broke it off with a kiss, and called to talk to each other the very next day. We both missed each other and I suggested that we meet up a couple weeks or so later so that we could see how we felt after not seeing each other for a bit.\n\nI really like this guy and I really want to make things work but I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for around nine months. Things have been going well, we have great physical chemistry and have a similar sense of humor, and we connect really well when we're around each other. We're both communicators and not fighters who try to work through our problems instead of arguing, and we try to compromise. \n\nRecently, our biggest problems include an ex he wants to keep around as a friend (which, I think as people get older is a pretty commonplace thing) and me letting it slip that I loved him. \n\nWe had many discussions about this and how it made him feel uncomfortable because it made him feel like he had to be more committed, and it frightened him because he spent a lot of time on some of his other relationships that all ended up leading to nothing. He's afraid that he won't eventually feel the same way (which would be unfair to me) or that this would end up amounting to nothing.\n\nIt also made him uncomfortable that it felt pressured to cut off communications with his ex when he didn't want to do that yet. (There are plenty of reasons why he wouldn't want to go out with her, but it remains that they spent a lot of time together and have a lot of mutual friends)\n\nSo we broke it off with a kiss, and called to talk to each other the very next day. We both missed each other and I suggested that we meet up a couple weeks or so later so that we could see how we felt after not seeing each other for a bit.\n\nI really like this guy and I really want to make things work but I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for around nine months. Things have been going well, we have great physical chemistry and have a similar sense of humor, and we connect really well when we're around each other. We're both communicators and not fighters who try to work through our problems instead of arguing, and we try to compromise. \n\nRecently, our biggest problems include an ex he wants to keep around as a friend (which, I think as people get older is a pretty commonplace thing) and me letting it slip that I loved him. \n\nWe had many discussions about this and how it made him feel uncomfortable because it made him feel like he had to be more committed, and it frightened him because he spent a lot of time on some of his other relationships that all ended up leading to nothing. He's afraid that he won't eventually feel the same way (which would be unfair to me) or that this would end up amounting to nothing.\n\nIt also made him uncomfortable that it felt pressured to cut off communications with his ex when he didn't want to do that yet. (There are plenty of reasons why he wouldn't want to go out with her, but it remains that they spent a lot of time together and have a lot of mutual friends)\n\nSo we broke it off with a kiss, and called to talk to each other the very next day. We both missed each other and I suggested that we meet up a couple weeks or so later so that we could see how we felt after not seeing each other for a bit.\n\nI really like this guy and I really want to make things work but I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for around nine months. Things have been going well, we have great physical chemistry and have a similar sense of humor, and we connect really well when we're around each other. We're both communicators and not fighters who try to work through our problems instead of arguing, and we try to compromise. \n\nRecently, our biggest problems include an ex he wants to keep around as a friend (which, I think as people get older is a pretty commonplace thing) and me letting it slip that I loved him. \n\nWe had many discussions about this and how it made him feel uncomfortable because it made him feel like he had to be more committed, and it frightened him because he spent a lot of time on some of his other relationships that all ended up leading to nothing. He's afraid that he won't eventually feel the same way (which would be unfair to me) or that this would end up amounting to nothing.\n\nIt also made him uncomfortable that it felt pressured to cut off communications with his ex when he didn't want to do that yet. (There are plenty of reasons why he wouldn't want to go out with her, but it remains that they spent a lot of time together and have a lot of mutual friends)\n\nSo we broke it off with a kiss, and called to talk to each other the very next day. We both missed each other and I suggested that we meet up a couple weeks or so later so that we could see how we felt after not seeing each other for a bit.\n\nI really like this guy and I really want to make things work but I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for around nine months. Things have been going well, we have great physical chemistry and have a similar sense of humor, and we connect really well when we're around each other. We're both communicators and not fighters who try to work through our problems instead of arguing, and we try to compromise. \n\nRecently, our biggest problems include an ex he wants to keep around as a friend (which, I think as people get older is a pretty commonplace thing) and me letting it slip that I loved him. \n\nWe had many discussions about this and how it made him feel uncomfortable because it made him feel like he had to be more committed, and it frightened him because he spent a lot of time on some of his other relationships that all ended up leading to nothing. He's afraid that he won't eventually feel the same way (which would be unfair to me) or that this would end up amounting to nothing.\n\nIt also made him uncomfortable that it felt pressured to cut off communications with his ex when he didn't want to do that yet. (There are plenty of reasons why he wouldn't want to go out with her, but it remains that they spent a lot of time together and have a lot of mutual friends)\n\nSo we broke it off with a kiss, and called to talk to each other the very next day. We both missed each other and I suggested that we meet up a couple weeks or so later so that we could see how we felt after not seeing each other for a bit.\n\nI really like this guy and I really want to make things work but I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for around nine months. Things have been going well, we have great physical chemistry and have a similar sense of humor, and we connect really well when we're around each other. We're both communicators and not fighters who try to work through our problems instead of arguing, and we try to compromise. \n\nRecently, our biggest problems include an ex he wants to keep around as a friend (which, I think as people get older is a pretty commonplace thing) and me letting it slip that I loved him. \n\nWe had many discussions about this and how it made him feel uncomfortable because it made him feel like he had to be more committed, and it frightened him because he spent a lot of time on some of his other relationships that all ended up leading to nothing. He's afraid that he won't eventually feel the same way (which would be unfair to me) or that this would end up amounting to nothing.\n\nIt also made him uncomfortable that it felt pressured to cut off communications with his ex when he didn't want to do that yet. (There are plenty of reasons why he wouldn't want to go out with her, but it remains that they spent a lot of time together and have a lot of mutual friends)\n\nSo we broke it off with a kiss, and called to talk to each other the very next day. We both missed each other and I suggested that we meet up a couple weeks or so later so that we could see how we felt after not seeing each other for a bit.\n\nI really like this guy and I really want to make things work but I don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know I shouldn't have snooped, but last night I looked at my bf's phone pictures, and found out 3 new selfies of his two exes (two are pics of his hotter ex). I knew they haven't talked in 2 years and he probably wasn't planning to contact them, but this still makes me sad. \n\nHe used to save pictures from his hot ex when we first dated but stopped after we got serious (and after his ex deleted him from the social media). We had a big fight 2 months ago, almost broke up, and haven't had sex in 3 months. We're doing almost as good as when things used to be, but now this. \n\nI don't know what this is - am I making too big of a deal into this if I begin to think about giving up our relationship again? or should I just let this go and pretend nothing happened(just pictures after all)?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know I shouldn't have snooped, but last night I looked at my bf's phone pictures, and found out 3 new selfies of his two exes (two are pics of his hotter ex). I knew they haven't talked in 2 years and he probably wasn't planning to contact them, but this still makes me sad. \n\nHe used to save pictures from his hot ex when we first dated but stopped after we got serious (and after his ex deleted him from the social media). We had a big fight 2 months ago, almost broke up, and haven't had sex in 3 months. We're doing almost as good as when things used to be, but now this. \n\nI don't know what this is - am I making too big of a deal into this if I begin to think about giving up our relationship again? or should I just let this go and pretend nothing happened(just pictures after all)?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know I shouldn't have snooped, but last night I looked at my bf's phone pictures, and found out 3 new selfies of his two exes (two are pics of his hotter ex). I knew they haven't talked in 2 years and he probably wasn't planning to contact them, but this still makes me sad. \n\nHe used to save pictures from his hot ex when we first dated but stopped after we got serious (and after his ex deleted him from the social media). We had a big fight 2 months ago, almost broke up, and haven't had sex in 3 months. We're doing almost as good as when things used to be, but now this. \n\nI don't know what this is - am I making too big of a deal into this if I begin to think about giving up our relationship again? or should I just let this go and pretend nothing happened(just pictures after all)?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know I shouldn't have snooped, but last night I looked at my bf's phone pictures, and found out 3 new selfies of his two exes (two are pics of his hotter ex). I knew they haven't talked in 2 years and he probably wasn't planning to contact them, but this still makes me sad. \n\nHe used to save pictures from his hot ex when we first dated but stopped after we got serious (and after his ex deleted him from the social media). We had a big fight 2 months ago, almost broke up, and haven't had sex in 3 months. We're doing almost as good as when things used to be, but now this. \n\nI don't know what this is - am I making too big of a deal into this if I begin to think about giving up our relationship again? or should I just let this go and pretend nothing happened(just pictures after all)?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F25 have been with my boyfriend M26 officially for 1.5 years. I feel like I have invested a lot of time into him already, because we were friends with benefits on and off for several years beforehand. \n\nThings have been going well. We both love each other and are planning on moving in together in March. However, every time I mention the future he clams up. He has previously said regarding marriage \"I don't know what I want\" \"I don't want to give you a time line, because you'll just get mad the longer you wait\"\n\nThese answers made me feel like he had no interest in marrying me. I was upfront with him and told him, I don't want to wait 10 years for him to decide. He eventually said \"I won't even make you wait 5\" This made me feel better and like things were going to progress in the right direction. \n\nI have now began thinking that he is just telling me what I want to hear. In conversations, I have been mentioning our future. I guess I thought it would be ok to talk about our future marriage/wedding. He was very annoyed by this and said \"is that all you're going to talk about now?\" It has also worried me when I have said something like \"I can't wait to spend my life with you\" and he just says \"aww thanks\" \n\nI'm a type A, planner type. I want to make sure that I'm not going to spend a bunch of time with him hoping someday he will want to get married. However, he is very laid back, go with the flow. He sees this as a 1.5 year relationship, and I'm planning too far ahead. \n\nI want to get married, eventually. I was hoping around 28/29. I realize I'm probably putting unnecessary pressure on him. I also feel like I can't be open and talk about things without him putting up a wall. I guess I'm having serious doubts. I'm excited to move in with him, but should I even bother if there is no future?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F25 have been with my boyfriend M26 officially for 1.5 years. I feel like I have invested a lot of time into him already, because we were friends with benefits on and off for several years beforehand. \n\nThings have been going well. We both love each other and are planning on moving in together in March. However, every time I mention the future he clams up. He has previously said regarding marriage \"I don't know what I want\" \"I don't want to give you a time line, because you'll just get mad the longer you wait\"\n\nThese answers made me feel like he had no interest in marrying me. I was upfront with him and told him, I don't want to wait 10 years for him to decide. He eventually said \"I won't even make you wait 5\" This made me feel better and like things were going to progress in the right direction. \n\nI have now began thinking that he is just telling me what I want to hear. In conversations, I have been mentioning our future. I guess I thought it would be ok to talk about our future marriage/wedding. He was very annoyed by this and said \"is that all you're going to talk about now?\" It has also worried me when I have said something like \"I can't wait to spend my life with you\" and he just says \"aww thanks\" \n\nI'm a type A, planner type. I want to make sure that I'm not going to spend a bunch of time with him hoping someday he will want to get married. However, he is very laid back, go with the flow. He sees this as a 1.5 year relationship, and I'm planning too far ahead. \n\nI want to get married, eventually. I was hoping around 28/29. I realize I'm probably putting unnecessary pressure on him. I also feel like I can't be open and talk about things without him putting up a wall. I guess I'm having serious doubts. I'm excited to move in with him, but should I even bother if there is no future?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F25 have been with my boyfriend M26 officially for 1.5 years. I feel like I have invested a lot of time into him already, because we were friends with benefits on and off for several years beforehand. \n\nThings have been going well. We both love each other and are planning on moving in together in March. However, every time I mention the future he clams up. He has previously said regarding marriage \"I don't know what I want\" \"I don't want to give you a time line, because you'll just get mad the longer you wait\"\n\nThese answers made me feel like he had no interest in marrying me. I was upfront with him and told him, I don't want to wait 10 years for him to decide. He eventually said \"I won't even make you wait 5\" This made me feel better and like things were going to progress in the right direction. \n\nI have now began thinking that he is just telling me what I want to hear. In conversations, I have been mentioning our future. I guess I thought it would be ok to talk about our future marriage/wedding. He was very annoyed by this and said \"is that all you're going to talk about now?\" It has also worried me when I have said something like \"I can't wait to spend my life with you\" and he just says \"aww thanks\" \n\nI'm a type A, planner type. I want to make sure that I'm not going to spend a bunch of time with him hoping someday he will want to get married. However, he is very laid back, go with the flow. He sees this as a 1.5 year relationship, and I'm planning too far ahead. \n\nI want to get married, eventually. I was hoping around 28/29. I realize I'm probably putting unnecessary pressure on him. I also feel like I can't be open and talk about things without him putting up a wall. I guess I'm having serious doubts. I'm excited to move in with him, but should I even bother if there is no future?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F25 have been with my boyfriend M26 officially for 1.5 years. I feel like I have invested a lot of time into him already, because we were friends with benefits on and off for several years beforehand. \n\nThings have been going well. We both love each other and are planning on moving in together in March. However, every time I mention the future he clams up. He has previously said regarding marriage \"I don't know what I want\" \"I don't want to give you a time line, because you'll just get mad the longer you wait\"\n\nThese answers made me feel like he had no interest in marrying me. I was upfront with him and told him, I don't want to wait 10 years for him to decide. He eventually said \"I won't even make you wait 5\" This made me feel better and like things were going to progress in the right direction. \n\nI have now began thinking that he is just telling me what I want to hear. In conversations, I have been mentioning our future. I guess I thought it would be ok to talk about our future marriage/wedding. He was very annoyed by this and said \"is that all you're going to talk about now?\" It has also worried me when I have said something like \"I can't wait to spend my life with you\" and he just says \"aww thanks\" \n\nI'm a type A, planner type. I want to make sure that I'm not going to spend a bunch of time with him hoping someday he will want to get married. However, he is very laid back, go with the flow. He sees this as a 1.5 year relationship, and I'm planning too far ahead. \n\nI want to get married, eventually. I was hoping around 28/29. I realize I'm probably putting unnecessary pressure on him. I also feel like I can't be open and talk about things without him putting up a wall. I guess I'm having serious doubts. I'm excited to move in with him, but should I even bother if there is no future?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F25 have been with my boyfriend M26 officially for 1.5 years. I feel like I have invested a lot of time into him already, because we were friends with benefits on and off for several years beforehand. \n\nThings have been going well. We both love each other and are planning on moving in together in March. However, every time I mention the future he clams up. He has previously said regarding marriage \"I don't know what I want\" \"I don't want to give you a time line, because you'll just get mad the longer you wait\"\n\nThese answers made me feel like he had no interest in marrying me. I was upfront with him and told him, I don't want to wait 10 years for him to decide. He eventually said \"I won't even make you wait 5\" This made me feel better and like things were going to progress in the right direction. \n\nI have now began thinking that he is just telling me what I want to hear. In conversations, I have been mentioning our future. I guess I thought it would be ok to talk about our future marriage/wedding. He was very annoyed by this and said \"is that all you're going to talk about now?\" It has also worried me when I have said something like \"I can't wait to spend my life with you\" and he just says \"aww thanks\" \n\nI'm a type A, planner type. I want to make sure that I'm not going to spend a bunch of time with him hoping someday he will want to get married. However, he is very laid back, go with the flow. He sees this as a 1.5 year relationship, and I'm planning too far ahead. \n\nI want to get married, eventually. I was hoping around 28/29. I realize I'm probably putting unnecessary pressure on him. I also feel like I can't be open and talk about things without him putting up a wall. I guess I'm having serious doubts. I'm excited to move in with him, but should I even bother if there is no future?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I F25 have been with my boyfriend M26 officially for 1.5 years. I feel like I have invested a lot of time into him already, because we were friends with benefits on and off for several years beforehand. \n\nThings have been going well. We both love each other and are planning on moving in together in March. However, every time I mention the future he clams up. He has previously said regarding marriage \"I don't know what I want\" \"I don't want to give you a time line, because you'll just get mad the longer you wait\"\n\nThese answers made me feel like he had no interest in marrying me. I was upfront with him and told him, I don't want to wait 10 years for him to decide. He eventually said \"I won't even make you wait 5\" This made me feel better and like things were going to progress in the right direction. \n\nI have now began thinking that he is just telling me what I want to hear. In conversations, I have been mentioning our future. I guess I thought it would be ok to talk about our future marriage/wedding. He was very annoyed by this and said \"is that all you're going to talk about now?\" It has also worried me when I have said something like \"I can't wait to spend my life with you\" and he just says \"aww thanks\" \n\nI'm a type A, planner type. I want to make sure that I'm not going to spend a bunch of time with him hoping someday he will want to get married. However, he is very laid back, go with the flow. He sees this as a 1.5 year relationship, and I'm planning too far ahead. \n\nI want to get married, eventually. I was hoping around 28/29. I realize I'm probably putting unnecessary pressure on him. I also feel like I can't be open and talk about things without him putting up a wall. I guess I'm having serious doubts. I'm excited to move in with him, but should I even bother if there is no future?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 23yo guy. One of my good friends (25f) in med school had her cousin (25f) visiting this weekend. The cousin was fucking fantastic; pretty, smart, funny, like perfect. She is dating someone right now but I don't know how serious they are.\n\nI've been serially dating for a while but haven't found anyone I really liked, and in just 2 hrs with the cousin I was already more interested in her than I have been in anyone else recently.\n\nHow do I bring this up with my friend? I basically want to tell her that I thought her cousin was amazing & to gauge how serious the cousin is with her current boyfriend. Is it weird to ask that?\n\n–––––"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 23yo guy. One of my good friends (25f) in med school had her cousin (25f) visiting this weekend. The cousin was fucking fantastic; pretty, smart, funny, like perfect. She is dating someone right now but I don't know how serious they are.\n\nI've been serially dating for a while but haven't found anyone I really liked, and in just 2 hrs with the cousin I was already more interested in her than I have been in anyone else recently.\n\nHow do I bring this up with my friend? I basically want to tell her that I thought her cousin was amazing & to gauge how serious the cousin is with her current boyfriend. Is it weird to ask that?\n\n–––––"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 23yo guy. One of my good friends (25f) in med school had her cousin (25f) visiting this weekend. The cousin was fucking fantastic; pretty, smart, funny, like perfect. She is dating someone right now but I don't know how serious they are.\n\nI've been serially dating for a while but haven't found anyone I really liked, and in just 2 hrs with the cousin I was already more interested in her than I have been in anyone else recently.\n\nHow do I bring this up with my friend? I basically want to tell her that I thought her cousin was amazing & to gauge how serious the cousin is with her current boyfriend. Is it weird to ask that?\n\n–––––"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 23yo guy. One of my good friends (25f) in med school had her cousin (25f) visiting this weekend. The cousin was fucking fantastic; pretty, smart, funny, like perfect. She is dating someone right now but I don't know how serious they are.\n\nI've been serially dating for a while but haven't found anyone I really liked, and in just 2 hrs with the cousin I was already more interested in her than I have been in anyone else recently.\n\nHow do I bring this up with my friend? I basically want to tell her that I thought her cousin was amazing & to gauge how serious the cousin is with her current boyfriend. Is it weird to ask that?\n\n–––––"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 23yo guy. One of my good friends (25f) in med school had her cousin (25f) visiting this weekend. The cousin was fucking fantastic; pretty, smart, funny, like perfect. She is dating someone right now but I don't know how serious they are.\n\nI've been serially dating for a while but haven't found anyone I really liked, and in just 2 hrs with the cousin I was already more interested in her than I have been in anyone else recently.\n\nHow do I bring this up with my friend? I basically want to tell her that I thought her cousin was amazing & to gauge how serious the cousin is with her current boyfriend. Is it weird to ask that?\n\n–––––"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 23yo guy. One of my good friends (25f) in med school had her cousin (25f) visiting this weekend. The cousin was fucking fantastic; pretty, smart, funny, like perfect. She is dating someone right now but I don't know how serious they are.\n\nI've been serially dating for a while but haven't found anyone I really liked, and in just 2 hrs with the cousin I was already more interested in her than I have been in anyone else recently.\n\nHow do I bring this up with my friend? I basically want to tell her that I thought her cousin was amazing & to gauge how serious the cousin is with her current boyfriend. Is it weird to ask that?\n\n–––––"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a friend via other mutual friends on twitter, and we've been chatting for about a month. I wouldn't consider him a particular good friend, but we get along. We found out we live in the same city, and he wants to hang out. At first I thought it would be kind of fun, but I became a bit nervous and concerned at the thought of meeting someone I've only known for a few months. We had already discussed when and where we could meet up when I had these feelings. I suggested bringing my boyfriend along, or hanging out with some friends of mine, but he said he's uncomfortable meeting new people- which I respect. How do I politely tell him that I'm not so sure I want to meet after all, and that I might be willing to meet after we're friends for a bit long?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a friend via other mutual friends on twitter, and we've been chatting for about a month. I wouldn't consider him a particular good friend, but we get along. We found out we live in the same city, and he wants to hang out. At first I thought it would be kind of fun, but I became a bit nervous and concerned at the thought of meeting someone I've only known for a few months. We had already discussed when and where we could meet up when I had these feelings. I suggested bringing my boyfriend along, or hanging out with some friends of mine, but he said he's uncomfortable meeting new people- which I respect. How do I politely tell him that I'm not so sure I want to meet after all, and that I might be willing to meet after we're friends for a bit long?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a friend via other mutual friends on twitter, and we've been chatting for about a month. I wouldn't consider him a particular good friend, but we get along. We found out we live in the same city, and he wants to hang out. At first I thought it would be kind of fun, but I became a bit nervous and concerned at the thought of meeting someone I've only known for a few months. We had already discussed when and where we could meet up when I had these feelings. I suggested bringing my boyfriend along, or hanging out with some friends of mine, but he said he's uncomfortable meeting new people- which I respect. How do I politely tell him that I'm not so sure I want to meet after all, and that I might be willing to meet after we're friends for a bit long?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a friend via other mutual friends on twitter, and we've been chatting for about a month. I wouldn't consider him a particular good friend, but we get along. We found out we live in the same city, and he wants to hang out. At first I thought it would be kind of fun, but I became a bit nervous and concerned at the thought of meeting someone I've only known for a few months. We had already discussed when and where we could meet up when I had these feelings. I suggested bringing my boyfriend along, or hanging out with some friends of mine, but he said he's uncomfortable meeting new people- which I respect. How do I politely tell him that I'm not so sure I want to meet after all, and that I might be willing to meet after we're friends for a bit long?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a friend via other mutual friends on twitter, and we've been chatting for about a month. I wouldn't consider him a particular good friend, but we get along. We found out we live in the same city, and he wants to hang out. At first I thought it would be kind of fun, but I became a bit nervous and concerned at the thought of meeting someone I've only known for a few months. We had already discussed when and where we could meet up when I had these feelings. I suggested bringing my boyfriend along, or hanging out with some friends of mine, but he said he's uncomfortable meeting new people- which I respect. How do I politely tell him that I'm not so sure I want to meet after all, and that I might be willing to meet after we're friends for a bit long?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a friend via other mutual friends on twitter, and we've been chatting for about a month. I wouldn't consider him a particular good friend, but we get along. We found out we live in the same city, and he wants to hang out. At first I thought it would be kind of fun, but I became a bit nervous and concerned at the thought of meeting someone I've only known for a few months. We had already discussed when and where we could meet up when I had these feelings. I suggested bringing my boyfriend along, or hanging out with some friends of mine, but he said he's uncomfortable meeting new people- which I respect. How do I politely tell him that I'm not so sure I want to meet after all, and that I might be willing to meet after we're friends for a bit long?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I met through family friends a year and a half ago. We've been dating since then, and things have been great. Early on I asked her almost every week if the age gap made her uncomfortable, and she always would say no. She definitely \"wears the pants\" in our relationship, and I almost never feel like I'm making her do something she doesn't want to do. The age gap used to bother me for the first 6 months of us going out, but now I completely believe 100% that she's OK with it and she loves me anyway.\n\n.at least I did until last week. I have met her parents before, and they were always very friendly towards me (they are friends of my cousin). My girlfriend always told me that they liked me a lot, and my parents like her too. The problem is that out of the blue, they called her last week and told her I'm much too old for her and that I need to break up with her. I don't understand why they changed their minds - they have always known about our age gap. My girlfriend and I love each other dearly, and have even seriously discussed the possibility of marriage in a year or two, but she also has a lot of respect for what her parents say, and it's clear that this has got her shaken up.\n\nI don't think the age gap is a problem - like I said, it used to bother me but I am now over it. And she never really thought it was a problem until now. I've tried telling her this and she kinda agrees, but she says that it really bothers her that her parents don't approve and that's really important to her. I don't know what changed, or how I can win their support back. Reddit, what should I do?\n\nI should also mention that neither of us want kids, and that her parents are OK with this (her older sister has 2 adorable little children who love their grandparents very much), so that can't be the reason. Also, if it matters, I'm Indian (but born and raised in the US) and she's white.\n\nEdit: I removed \"please, no judging remarks about the age gap between us\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I met through family friends a year and a half ago. We've been dating since then, and things have been great. Early on I asked her almost every week if the age gap made her uncomfortable, and she always would say no. She definitely \"wears the pants\" in our relationship, and I almost never feel like I'm making her do something she doesn't want to do. The age gap used to bother me for the first 6 months of us going out, but now I completely believe 100% that she's OK with it and she loves me anyway.\n\n.at least I did until last week. I have met her parents before, and they were always very friendly towards me (they are friends of my cousin). My girlfriend always told me that they liked me a lot, and my parents like her too. The problem is that out of the blue, they called her last week and told her I'm much too old for her and that I need to break up with her. I don't understand why they changed their minds - they have always known about our age gap. My girlfriend and I love each other dearly, and have even seriously discussed the possibility of marriage in a year or two, but she also has a lot of respect for what her parents say, and it's clear that this has got her shaken up.\n\nI don't think the age gap is a problem - like I said, it used to bother me but I am now over it. And she never really thought it was a problem until now. I've tried telling her this and she kinda agrees, but she says that it really bothers her that her parents don't approve and that's really important to her. I don't know what changed, or how I can win their support back. Reddit, what should I do?\n\nI should also mention that neither of us want kids, and that her parents are OK with this (her older sister has 2 adorable little children who love their grandparents very much), so that can't be the reason. Also, if it matters, I'm Indian (but born and raised in the US) and she's white.\n\nEdit: I removed \"please, no judging remarks about the age gap between us\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I met through family friends a year and a half ago. We've been dating since then, and things have been great. Early on I asked her almost every week if the age gap made her uncomfortable, and she always would say no. She definitely \"wears the pants\" in our relationship, and I almost never feel like I'm making her do something she doesn't want to do. The age gap used to bother me for the first 6 months of us going out, but now I completely believe 100% that she's OK with it and she loves me anyway.\n\n.at least I did until last week. I have met her parents before, and they were always very friendly towards me (they are friends of my cousin). My girlfriend always told me that they liked me a lot, and my parents like her too. The problem is that out of the blue, they called her last week and told her I'm much too old for her and that I need to break up with her. I don't understand why they changed their minds - they have always known about our age gap. My girlfriend and I love each other dearly, and have even seriously discussed the possibility of marriage in a year or two, but she also has a lot of respect for what her parents say, and it's clear that this has got her shaken up.\n\nI don't think the age gap is a problem - like I said, it used to bother me but I am now over it. And she never really thought it was a problem until now. I've tried telling her this and she kinda agrees, but she says that it really bothers her that her parents don't approve and that's really important to her. I don't know what changed, or how I can win their support back. Reddit, what should I do?\n\nI should also mention that neither of us want kids, and that her parents are OK with this (her older sister has 2 adorable little children who love their grandparents very much), so that can't be the reason. Also, if it matters, I'm Indian (but born and raised in the US) and she's white.\n\nEdit: I removed \"please, no judging remarks about the age gap between us\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I met through family friends a year and a half ago. We've been dating since then, and things have been great. Early on I asked her almost every week if the age gap made her uncomfortable, and she always would say no. She definitely \"wears the pants\" in our relationship, and I almost never feel like I'm making her do something she doesn't want to do. The age gap used to bother me for the first 6 months of us going out, but now I completely believe 100% that she's OK with it and she loves me anyway.\n\n.at least I did until last week. I have met her parents before, and they were always very friendly towards me (they are friends of my cousin). My girlfriend always told me that they liked me a lot, and my parents like her too. The problem is that out of the blue, they called her last week and told her I'm much too old for her and that I need to break up with her. I don't understand why they changed their minds - they have always known about our age gap. My girlfriend and I love each other dearly, and have even seriously discussed the possibility of marriage in a year or two, but she also has a lot of respect for what her parents say, and it's clear that this has got her shaken up.\n\nI don't think the age gap is a problem - like I said, it used to bother me but I am now over it. And she never really thought it was a problem until now. I've tried telling her this and she kinda agrees, but she says that it really bothers her that her parents don't approve and that's really important to her. I don't know what changed, or how I can win their support back. Reddit, what should I do?\n\nI should also mention that neither of us want kids, and that her parents are OK with this (her older sister has 2 adorable little children who love their grandparents very much), so that can't be the reason. Also, if it matters, I'm Indian (but born and raised in the US) and she's white.\n\nEdit: I removed \"please, no judging remarks about the age gap between us\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I met through family friends a year and a half ago. We've been dating since then, and things have been great. Early on I asked her almost every week if the age gap made her uncomfortable, and she always would say no. She definitely \"wears the pants\" in our relationship, and I almost never feel like I'm making her do something she doesn't want to do. The age gap used to bother me for the first 6 months of us going out, but now I completely believe 100% that she's OK with it and she loves me anyway.\n\n.at least I did until last week. I have met her parents before, and they were always very friendly towards me (they are friends of my cousin). My girlfriend always told me that they liked me a lot, and my parents like her too. The problem is that out of the blue, they called her last week and told her I'm much too old for her and that I need to break up with her. I don't understand why they changed their minds - they have always known about our age gap. My girlfriend and I love each other dearly, and have even seriously discussed the possibility of marriage in a year or two, but she also has a lot of respect for what her parents say, and it's clear that this has got her shaken up.\n\nI don't think the age gap is a problem - like I said, it used to bother me but I am now over it. And she never really thought it was a problem until now. I've tried telling her this and she kinda agrees, but she says that it really bothers her that her parents don't approve and that's really important to her. I don't know what changed, or how I can win their support back. Reddit, what should I do?\n\nI should also mention that neither of us want kids, and that her parents are OK with this (her older sister has 2 adorable little children who love their grandparents very much), so that can't be the reason. Also, if it matters, I'm Indian (but born and raised in the US) and she's white.\n\nEdit: I removed \"please, no judging remarks about the age gap between us\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I met through family friends a year and a half ago. We've been dating since then, and things have been great. Early on I asked her almost every week if the age gap made her uncomfortable, and she always would say no. She definitely \"wears the pants\" in our relationship, and I almost never feel like I'm making her do something she doesn't want to do. The age gap used to bother me for the first 6 months of us going out, but now I completely believe 100% that she's OK with it and she loves me anyway.\n\n.at least I did until last week. I have met her parents before, and they were always very friendly towards me (they are friends of my cousin). My girlfriend always told me that they liked me a lot, and my parents like her too. The problem is that out of the blue, they called her last week and told her I'm much too old for her and that I need to break up with her. I don't understand why they changed their minds - they have always known about our age gap. My girlfriend and I love each other dearly, and have even seriously discussed the possibility of marriage in a year or two, but she also has a lot of respect for what her parents say, and it's clear that this has got her shaken up.\n\nI don't think the age gap is a problem - like I said, it used to bother me but I am now over it. And she never really thought it was a problem until now. I've tried telling her this and she kinda agrees, but she says that it really bothers her that her parents don't approve and that's really important to her. I don't know what changed, or how I can win their support back. Reddit, what should I do?\n\nI should also mention that neither of us want kids, and that her parents are OK with this (her older sister has 2 adorable little children who love their grandparents very much), so that can't be the reason. Also, if it matters, I'm Indian (but born and raised in the US) and she's white.\n\nEdit: I removed \"please, no judging remarks about the age gap between us\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So yesterday I was out with my girlfriend and we were just talking. I asked her to tell me something new and she goes silent and says, \"I actually do have to tell you something.\" \n\n*long pause*\n\nShe tells me she's breaking up with me. Now, we have never had a fight, we are pretty relaxed, and know each other well so I thought this would last a while longer.\n\nI ask why (because of aforementioned reason) and she says, \"We aren't right for each other. I love you and I don't want to do this but I don't want to be in a relationship right now.\" \n\nI didn't want to be the guy who begs and pleads so I play it cool and let her leave. I don't know why this happen and I'm wondering if I screwed something up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So yesterday I was out with my girlfriend and we were just talking. I asked her to tell me something new and she goes silent and says, \"I actually do have to tell you something.\" \n\n*long pause*\n\nShe tells me she's breaking up with me. Now, we have never had a fight, we are pretty relaxed, and know each other well so I thought this would last a while longer.\n\nI ask why (because of aforementioned reason) and she says, \"We aren't right for each other. I love you and I don't want to do this but I don't want to be in a relationship right now.\" \n\nI didn't want to be the guy who begs and pleads so I play it cool and let her leave. I don't know why this happen and I'm wondering if I screwed something up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So yesterday I was out with my girlfriend and we were just talking. I asked her to tell me something new and she goes silent and says, \"I actually do have to tell you something.\" \n\n*long pause*\n\nShe tells me she's breaking up with me. Now, we have never had a fight, we are pretty relaxed, and know each other well so I thought this would last a while longer.\n\nI ask why (because of aforementioned reason) and she says, \"We aren't right for each other. I love you and I don't want to do this but I don't want to be in a relationship right now.\" \n\nI didn't want to be the guy who begs and pleads so I play it cool and let her leave. I don't know why this happen and I'm wondering if I screwed something up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So yesterday I was out with my girlfriend and we were just talking. I asked her to tell me something new and she goes silent and says, \"I actually do have to tell you something.\" \n\n*long pause*\n\nShe tells me she's breaking up with me. Now, we have never had a fight, we are pretty relaxed, and know each other well so I thought this would last a while longer.\n\nI ask why (because of aforementioned reason) and she says, \"We aren't right for each other. I love you and I don't want to do this but I don't want to be in a relationship right now.\" \n\nI didn't want to be the guy who begs and pleads so I play it cool and let her leave. I don't know why this happen and I'm wondering if I screwed something up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So yesterday I was out with my girlfriend and we were just talking. I asked her to tell me something new and she goes silent and says, \"I actually do have to tell you something.\" \n\n*long pause*\n\nShe tells me she's breaking up with me. Now, we have never had a fight, we are pretty relaxed, and know each other well so I thought this would last a while longer.\n\nI ask why (because of aforementioned reason) and she says, \"We aren't right for each other. I love you and I don't want to do this but I don't want to be in a relationship right now.\" \n\nI didn't want to be the guy who begs and pleads so I play it cool and let her leave. I don't know why this happen and I'm wondering if I screwed something up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So yesterday I was out with my girlfriend and we were just talking. I asked her to tell me something new and she goes silent and says, \"I actually do have to tell you something.\" \n\n*long pause*\n\nShe tells me she's breaking up with me. Now, we have never had a fight, we are pretty relaxed, and know each other well so I thought this would last a while longer.\n\nI ask why (because of aforementioned reason) and she says, \"We aren't right for each other. I love you and I don't want to do this but I don't want to be in a relationship right now.\" \n\nI didn't want to be the guy who begs and pleads so I play it cool and let her leave. I don't know why this happen and I'm wondering if I screwed something up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It all started when our aunt gave me money to give to my brother. I gave him the said cash a long time ago-probably months ago, it was ages ago i can't remember specifically when-and my brother told me just earlier that he didn't remember me giving it to him. I went off on him because I don't like being accused of stealing someone's money. Then I proceeded to make jabs at him when he went upstairs, I think he was still within earshot so I made my voice louder. I know I shouldn't say things when I'm mad because I'll only say things I don't mean and I'll just say something-anything-just to hurt the other person to satisfy my anger. Now I feel really bad, but I don't want to apologize to him because I don't want to make it look like I'm apologizing for taking his money because I didn't. Should I just wait until we both cool off and we forget this, or should I say sorry (even if he's probably still hurt or angry and I'll risk being shoved off)?\n\nTo give more insight into our relationship, me and my siblings aren't really the type of family who would say I love you or say sorry. We appreciate each other, but we don't really say words to express it, we find it awkward to do that. It may seem weird for some, but it's just really normal for us. Also, I don't know if I should consider this fight of ours as a way for him to mature more. That maybe he can learn something from this? He's very immature and very sheltered."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It all started when our aunt gave me money to give to my brother. I gave him the said cash a long time ago-probably months ago, it was ages ago i can't remember specifically when-and my brother told me just earlier that he didn't remember me giving it to him. I went off on him because I don't like being accused of stealing someone's money. Then I proceeded to make jabs at him when he went upstairs, I think he was still within earshot so I made my voice louder. I know I shouldn't say things when I'm mad because I'll only say things I don't mean and I'll just say something-anything-just to hurt the other person to satisfy my anger. Now I feel really bad, but I don't want to apologize to him because I don't want to make it look like I'm apologizing for taking his money because I didn't. Should I just wait until we both cool off and we forget this, or should I say sorry (even if he's probably still hurt or angry and I'll risk being shoved off)?\n\nTo give more insight into our relationship, me and my siblings aren't really the type of family who would say I love you or say sorry. We appreciate each other, but we don't really say words to express it, we find it awkward to do that. It may seem weird for some, but it's just really normal for us. Also, I don't know if I should consider this fight of ours as a way for him to mature more. That maybe he can learn something from this? He's very immature and very sheltered."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It all started when our aunt gave me money to give to my brother. I gave him the said cash a long time ago-probably months ago, it was ages ago i can't remember specifically when-and my brother told me just earlier that he didn't remember me giving it to him. I went off on him because I don't like being accused of stealing someone's money. Then I proceeded to make jabs at him when he went upstairs, I think he was still within earshot so I made my voice louder. I know I shouldn't say things when I'm mad because I'll only say things I don't mean and I'll just say something-anything-just to hurt the other person to satisfy my anger. Now I feel really bad, but I don't want to apologize to him because I don't want to make it look like I'm apologizing for taking his money because I didn't. Should I just wait until we both cool off and we forget this, or should I say sorry (even if he's probably still hurt or angry and I'll risk being shoved off)?\n\nTo give more insight into our relationship, me and my siblings aren't really the type of family who would say I love you or say sorry. We appreciate each other, but we don't really say words to express it, we find it awkward to do that. It may seem weird for some, but it's just really normal for us. Also, I don't know if I should consider this fight of ours as a way for him to mature more. That maybe he can learn something from this? He's very immature and very sheltered."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It all started when our aunt gave me money to give to my brother. I gave him the said cash a long time ago-probably months ago, it was ages ago i can't remember specifically when-and my brother told me just earlier that he didn't remember me giving it to him. I went off on him because I don't like being accused of stealing someone's money. Then I proceeded to make jabs at him when he went upstairs, I think he was still within earshot so I made my voice louder. I know I shouldn't say things when I'm mad because I'll only say things I don't mean and I'll just say something-anything-just to hurt the other person to satisfy my anger. Now I feel really bad, but I don't want to apologize to him because I don't want to make it look like I'm apologizing for taking his money because I didn't. Should I just wait until we both cool off and we forget this, or should I say sorry (even if he's probably still hurt or angry and I'll risk being shoved off)?\n\nTo give more insight into our relationship, me and my siblings aren't really the type of family who would say I love you or say sorry. We appreciate each other, but we don't really say words to express it, we find it awkward to do that. It may seem weird for some, but it's just really normal for us. Also, I don't know if I should consider this fight of ours as a way for him to mature more. That maybe he can learn something from this? He's very immature and very sheltered."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It all started when our aunt gave me money to give to my brother. I gave him the said cash a long time ago-probably months ago, it was ages ago i can't remember specifically when-and my brother told me just earlier that he didn't remember me giving it to him. I went off on him because I don't like being accused of stealing someone's money. Then I proceeded to make jabs at him when he went upstairs, I think he was still within earshot so I made my voice louder. I know I shouldn't say things when I'm mad because I'll only say things I don't mean and I'll just say something-anything-just to hurt the other person to satisfy my anger. Now I feel really bad, but I don't want to apologize to him because I don't want to make it look like I'm apologizing for taking his money because I didn't. Should I just wait until we both cool off and we forget this, or should I say sorry (even if he's probably still hurt or angry and I'll risk being shoved off)?\n\nTo give more insight into our relationship, me and my siblings aren't really the type of family who would say I love you or say sorry. We appreciate each other, but we don't really say words to express it, we find it awkward to do that. It may seem weird for some, but it's just really normal for us. Also, I don't know if I should consider this fight of ours as a way for him to mature more. That maybe he can learn something from this? He's very immature and very sheltered."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It all started when our aunt gave me money to give to my brother. I gave him the said cash a long time ago-probably months ago, it was ages ago i can't remember specifically when-and my brother told me just earlier that he didn't remember me giving it to him. I went off on him because I don't like being accused of stealing someone's money. Then I proceeded to make jabs at him when he went upstairs, I think he was still within earshot so I made my voice louder. I know I shouldn't say things when I'm mad because I'll only say things I don't mean and I'll just say something-anything-just to hurt the other person to satisfy my anger. Now I feel really bad, but I don't want to apologize to him because I don't want to make it look like I'm apologizing for taking his money because I didn't. Should I just wait until we both cool off and we forget this, or should I say sorry (even if he's probably still hurt or angry and I'll risk being shoved off)?\n\nTo give more insight into our relationship, me and my siblings aren't really the type of family who would say I love you or say sorry. We appreciate each other, but we don't really say words to express it, we find it awkward to do that. It may seem weird for some, but it's just really normal for us. Also, I don't know if I should consider this fight of ours as a way for him to mature more. That maybe he can learn something from this? He's very immature and very sheltered."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Two months ago, I met a sweetie pie of a girl (Angela) through sheer happenstance. I immediately pounced on the opportunity to exchange contact info with her, and we went to a late-summer concert for our 1st date. It was great, but after the concert she told me that she was only going to be in town until December. I looked her dead in the eye and asked: \"so, what are hoping to get out of this?\" to which she replied: \"just some harmless fun.\" I was fully down with that, and made a mental note to shield myself emotionally.\n\nThings escalated quickly. We weren't exclusive in the beginning, but unbeknownst to each other, we both stopped seeing other people. The physical chemistry was so amazing, we kinda became exclusive unintentionally - if that makes sense. She's the bubbly extroverted type, and I'm the laid-back introvert. We can talk endlessly and our vibes naturally feed off each other.\n\nTwo weeks ago, she dropped a bombshell on me. She basically told me that she wants to be my girlfriend. I wasn't expecting that at all; in fact I specifically made an effort to not fall for her because I realized it was going to hurt me eventually.\n\nShe concedes the distance will be hard (10 hour flight), but she wants to try nonetheless. I was fully honest with her, telling her that I'd be one lucky mofo to be her BF, but that I'm deeply cynical about long-distance relationships because of a painful experience that I've had previously. \n\nShe maintains that we should give it a shot, despite how crazy it might sound to embark on an LDR with someone you met a couple of moths ago. I've already fallen for this girl; it's easy to find girls, but a girl like this only comes along once or twice per lifetime. Am I letting my cynicism get in the way of our happiness? What does Reddit think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Two months ago, I met a sweetie pie of a girl (Angela) through sheer happenstance. I immediately pounced on the opportunity to exchange contact info with her, and we went to a late-summer concert for our 1st date. It was great, but after the concert she told me that she was only going to be in town until December. I looked her dead in the eye and asked: \"so, what are hoping to get out of this?\" to which she replied: \"just some harmless fun.\" I was fully down with that, and made a mental note to shield myself emotionally.\n\nThings escalated quickly. We weren't exclusive in the beginning, but unbeknownst to each other, we both stopped seeing other people. The physical chemistry was so amazing, we kinda became exclusive unintentionally - if that makes sense. She's the bubbly extroverted type, and I'm the laid-back introvert. We can talk endlessly and our vibes naturally feed off each other.\n\nTwo weeks ago, she dropped a bombshell on me. She basically told me that she wants to be my girlfriend. I wasn't expecting that at all; in fact I specifically made an effort to not fall for her because I realized it was going to hurt me eventually.\n\nShe concedes the distance will be hard (10 hour flight), but she wants to try nonetheless. I was fully honest with her, telling her that I'd be one lucky mofo to be her BF, but that I'm deeply cynical about long-distance relationships because of a painful experience that I've had previously. \n\nShe maintains that we should give it a shot, despite how crazy it might sound to embark on an LDR with someone you met a couple of moths ago. I've already fallen for this girl; it's easy to find girls, but a girl like this only comes along once or twice per lifetime. Am I letting my cynicism get in the way of our happiness? What does Reddit think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Two months ago, I met a sweetie pie of a girl (Angela) through sheer happenstance. I immediately pounced on the opportunity to exchange contact info with her, and we went to a late-summer concert for our 1st date. It was great, but after the concert she told me that she was only going to be in town until December. I looked her dead in the eye and asked: \"so, what are hoping to get out of this?\" to which she replied: \"just some harmless fun.\" I was fully down with that, and made a mental note to shield myself emotionally.\n\nThings escalated quickly. We weren't exclusive in the beginning, but unbeknownst to each other, we both stopped seeing other people. The physical chemistry was so amazing, we kinda became exclusive unintentionally - if that makes sense. She's the bubbly extroverted type, and I'm the laid-back introvert. We can talk endlessly and our vibes naturally feed off each other.\n\nTwo weeks ago, she dropped a bombshell on me. She basically told me that she wants to be my girlfriend. I wasn't expecting that at all; in fact I specifically made an effort to not fall for her because I realized it was going to hurt me eventually.\n\nShe concedes the distance will be hard (10 hour flight), but she wants to try nonetheless. I was fully honest with her, telling her that I'd be one lucky mofo to be her BF, but that I'm deeply cynical about long-distance relationships because of a painful experience that I've had previously. \n\nShe maintains that we should give it a shot, despite how crazy it might sound to embark on an LDR with someone you met a couple of moths ago. I've already fallen for this girl; it's easy to find girls, but a girl like this only comes along once or twice per lifetime. Am I letting my cynicism get in the way of our happiness? What does Reddit think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Two months ago, I met a sweetie pie of a girl (Angela) through sheer happenstance. I immediately pounced on the opportunity to exchange contact info with her, and we went to a late-summer concert for our 1st date. It was great, but after the concert she told me that she was only going to be in town until December. I looked her dead in the eye and asked: \"so, what are hoping to get out of this?\" to which she replied: \"just some harmless fun.\" I was fully down with that, and made a mental note to shield myself emotionally.\n\nThings escalated quickly. We weren't exclusive in the beginning, but unbeknownst to each other, we both stopped seeing other people. The physical chemistry was so amazing, we kinda became exclusive unintentionally - if that makes sense. She's the bubbly extroverted type, and I'm the laid-back introvert. We can talk endlessly and our vibes naturally feed off each other.\n\nTwo weeks ago, she dropped a bombshell on me. She basically told me that she wants to be my girlfriend. I wasn't expecting that at all; in fact I specifically made an effort to not fall for her because I realized it was going to hurt me eventually.\n\nShe concedes the distance will be hard (10 hour flight), but she wants to try nonetheless. I was fully honest with her, telling her that I'd be one lucky mofo to be her BF, but that I'm deeply cynical about long-distance relationships because of a painful experience that I've had previously. \n\nShe maintains that we should give it a shot, despite how crazy it might sound to embark on an LDR with someone you met a couple of moths ago. I've already fallen for this girl; it's easy to find girls, but a girl like this only comes along once or twice per lifetime. Am I letting my cynicism get in the way of our happiness? What does Reddit think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Two months ago, I met a sweetie pie of a girl (Angela) through sheer happenstance. I immediately pounced on the opportunity to exchange contact info with her, and we went to a late-summer concert for our 1st date. It was great, but after the concert she told me that she was only going to be in town until December. I looked her dead in the eye and asked: \"so, what are hoping to get out of this?\" to which she replied: \"just some harmless fun.\" I was fully down with that, and made a mental note to shield myself emotionally.\n\nThings escalated quickly. We weren't exclusive in the beginning, but unbeknownst to each other, we both stopped seeing other people. The physical chemistry was so amazing, we kinda became exclusive unintentionally - if that makes sense. She's the bubbly extroverted type, and I'm the laid-back introvert. We can talk endlessly and our vibes naturally feed off each other.\n\nTwo weeks ago, she dropped a bombshell on me. She basically told me that she wants to be my girlfriend. I wasn't expecting that at all; in fact I specifically made an effort to not fall for her because I realized it was going to hurt me eventually.\n\nShe concedes the distance will be hard (10 hour flight), but she wants to try nonetheless. I was fully honest with her, telling her that I'd be one lucky mofo to be her BF, but that I'm deeply cynical about long-distance relationships because of a painful experience that I've had previously. \n\nShe maintains that we should give it a shot, despite how crazy it might sound to embark on an LDR with someone you met a couple of moths ago. I've already fallen for this girl; it's easy to find girls, but a girl like this only comes along once or twice per lifetime. Am I letting my cynicism get in the way of our happiness? What does Reddit think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Two months ago, I met a sweetie pie of a girl (Angela) through sheer happenstance. I immediately pounced on the opportunity to exchange contact info with her, and we went to a late-summer concert for our 1st date. It was great, but after the concert she told me that she was only going to be in town until December. I looked her dead in the eye and asked: \"so, what are hoping to get out of this?\" to which she replied: \"just some harmless fun.\" I was fully down with that, and made a mental note to shield myself emotionally.\n\nThings escalated quickly. We weren't exclusive in the beginning, but unbeknownst to each other, we both stopped seeing other people. The physical chemistry was so amazing, we kinda became exclusive unintentionally - if that makes sense. She's the bubbly extroverted type, and I'm the laid-back introvert. We can talk endlessly and our vibes naturally feed off each other.\n\nTwo weeks ago, she dropped a bombshell on me. She basically told me that she wants to be my girlfriend. I wasn't expecting that at all; in fact I specifically made an effort to not fall for her because I realized it was going to hurt me eventually.\n\nShe concedes the distance will be hard (10 hour flight), but she wants to try nonetheless. I was fully honest with her, telling her that I'd be one lucky mofo to be her BF, but that I'm deeply cynical about long-distance relationships because of a painful experience that I've had previously. \n\nShe maintains that we should give it a shot, despite how crazy it might sound to embark on an LDR with someone you met a couple of moths ago. I've already fallen for this girl; it's easy to find girls, but a girl like this only comes along once or twice per lifetime. Am I letting my cynicism get in the way of our happiness? What does Reddit think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the story. my girlfriend's dad is a businessman, but has in the past year or so become a drunk of epic proportions. He's not abusive, but he is useless and destructive to the family and business. He spends recklessly, cannot take care of himself (most recently he shit his pants and bed) and causes my girlfriend endless emotional and psychological distress. His wife will not leave him out of loyalty and their finances are all intertwined. He spends a ton of money on things they don't need (toilet in the backyard, why not!) and leaves the bills up to his wife and his oldest daughter (my girlfriend). The question is, what can she do? She's all for her mom kicking him out, but she won't. Is there any kind of legal action she could take to prove he's out of his mind and could take control of things? Any advice is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the story. my girlfriend's dad is a businessman, but has in the past year or so become a drunk of epic proportions. He's not abusive, but he is useless and destructive to the family and business. He spends recklessly, cannot take care of himself (most recently he shit his pants and bed) and causes my girlfriend endless emotional and psychological distress. His wife will not leave him out of loyalty and their finances are all intertwined. He spends a ton of money on things they don't need (toilet in the backyard, why not!) and leaves the bills up to his wife and his oldest daughter (my girlfriend). The question is, what can she do? She's all for her mom kicking him out, but she won't. Is there any kind of legal action she could take to prove he's out of his mind and could take control of things? Any advice is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the story. my girlfriend's dad is a businessman, but has in the past year or so become a drunk of epic proportions. He's not abusive, but he is useless and destructive to the family and business. He spends recklessly, cannot take care of himself (most recently he shit his pants and bed) and causes my girlfriend endless emotional and psychological distress. His wife will not leave him out of loyalty and their finances are all intertwined. He spends a ton of money on things they don't need (toilet in the backyard, why not!) and leaves the bills up to his wife and his oldest daughter (my girlfriend). The question is, what can she do? She's all for her mom kicking him out, but she won't. Is there any kind of legal action she could take to prove he's out of his mind and could take control of things? Any advice is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the story. my girlfriend's dad is a businessman, but has in the past year or so become a drunk of epic proportions. He's not abusive, but he is useless and destructive to the family and business. He spends recklessly, cannot take care of himself (most recently he shit his pants and bed) and causes my girlfriend endless emotional and psychological distress. His wife will not leave him out of loyalty and their finances are all intertwined. He spends a ton of money on things they don't need (toilet in the backyard, why not!) and leaves the bills up to his wife and his oldest daughter (my girlfriend). The question is, what can she do? She's all for her mom kicking him out, but she won't. Is there any kind of legal action she could take to prove he's out of his mind and could take control of things? Any advice is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the story. my girlfriend's dad is a businessman, but has in the past year or so become a drunk of epic proportions. He's not abusive, but he is useless and destructive to the family and business. He spends recklessly, cannot take care of himself (most recently he shit his pants and bed) and causes my girlfriend endless emotional and psychological distress. His wife will not leave him out of loyalty and their finances are all intertwined. He spends a ton of money on things they don't need (toilet in the backyard, why not!) and leaves the bills up to his wife and his oldest daughter (my girlfriend). The question is, what can she do? She's all for her mom kicking him out, but she won't. Is there any kind of legal action she could take to prove he's out of his mind and could take control of things? Any advice is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the story. my girlfriend's dad is a businessman, but has in the past year or so become a drunk of epic proportions. He's not abusive, but he is useless and destructive to the family and business. He spends recklessly, cannot take care of himself (most recently he shit his pants and bed) and causes my girlfriend endless emotional and psychological distress. His wife will not leave him out of loyalty and their finances are all intertwined. He spends a ton of money on things they don't need (toilet in the backyard, why not!) and leaves the bills up to his wife and his oldest daughter (my girlfriend). The question is, what can she do? She's all for her mom kicking him out, but she won't. Is there any kind of legal action she could take to prove he's out of his mind and could take control of things? Any advice is greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am in my last year of college and have been dating my SO for almost 2.5 years now. I am 22 and he is 24.\n\n Being in the college of engineering most of the friends I meet are predominantly male. Every so often they invite me to go out places with them or a situation where they would be coming over to my place. My boyfriend has expressed to me that he would very much so like to meet my guy friends before I hang out with or invite them to my house so that he feels more comfortable with who I am with when he is not present. (We are somewhat long distance and only see one another on the weekends by the way) \n\nHe is not restricting me or saying what I can or cannot do, just asking to meet them first.\n\nHave any of you other ladies (or men) experienced this in your relationships? Is it as simple as just knowing who your SO is spending some of their time with? Is it to see the intent of the relationship from the friend to the SO? Do some of you view it as being over controlling?\n\nThanks everyone, your opinions are highly appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am in my last year of college and have been dating my SO for almost 2.5 years now. I am 22 and he is 24.\n\n Being in the college of engineering most of the friends I meet are predominantly male. Every so often they invite me to go out places with them or a situation where they would be coming over to my place. My boyfriend has expressed to me that he would very much so like to meet my guy friends before I hang out with or invite them to my house so that he feels more comfortable with who I am with when he is not present. (We are somewhat long distance and only see one another on the weekends by the way) \n\nHe is not restricting me or saying what I can or cannot do, just asking to meet them first.\n\nHave any of you other ladies (or men) experienced this in your relationships? Is it as simple as just knowing who your SO is spending some of their time with? Is it to see the intent of the relationship from the friend to the SO? Do some of you view it as being over controlling?\n\nThanks everyone, your opinions are highly appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am in my last year of college and have been dating my SO for almost 2.5 years now. I am 22 and he is 24.\n\n Being in the college of engineering most of the friends I meet are predominantly male. Every so often they invite me to go out places with them or a situation where they would be coming over to my place. My boyfriend has expressed to me that he would very much so like to meet my guy friends before I hang out with or invite them to my house so that he feels more comfortable with who I am with when he is not present. (We are somewhat long distance and only see one another on the weekends by the way) \n\nHe is not restricting me or saying what I can or cannot do, just asking to meet them first.\n\nHave any of you other ladies (or men) experienced this in your relationships? Is it as simple as just knowing who your SO is spending some of their time with? Is it to see the intent of the relationship from the friend to the SO? Do some of you view it as being over controlling?\n\nThanks everyone, your opinions are highly appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am in my last year of college and have been dating my SO for almost 2.5 years now. I am 22 and he is 24.\n\n Being in the college of engineering most of the friends I meet are predominantly male. Every so often they invite me to go out places with them or a situation where they would be coming over to my place. My boyfriend has expressed to me that he would very much so like to meet my guy friends before I hang out with or invite them to my house so that he feels more comfortable with who I am with when he is not present. (We are somewhat long distance and only see one another on the weekends by the way) \n\nHe is not restricting me or saying what I can or cannot do, just asking to meet them first.\n\nHave any of you other ladies (or men) experienced this in your relationships? Is it as simple as just knowing who your SO is spending some of their time with? Is it to see the intent of the relationship from the friend to the SO? Do some of you view it as being over controlling?\n\nThanks everyone, your opinions are highly appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am in my last year of college and have been dating my SO for almost 2.5 years now. I am 22 and he is 24.\n\n Being in the college of engineering most of the friends I meet are predominantly male. Every so often they invite me to go out places with them or a situation where they would be coming over to my place. My boyfriend has expressed to me that he would very much so like to meet my guy friends before I hang out with or invite them to my house so that he feels more comfortable with who I am with when he is not present. (We are somewhat long distance and only see one another on the weekends by the way) \n\nHe is not restricting me or saying what I can or cannot do, just asking to meet them first.\n\nHave any of you other ladies (or men) experienced this in your relationships? Is it as simple as just knowing who your SO is spending some of their time with? Is it to see the intent of the relationship from the friend to the SO? Do some of you view it as being over controlling?\n\nThanks everyone, your opinions are highly appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am in my last year of college and have been dating my SO for almost 2.5 years now. I am 22 and he is 24.\n\n Being in the college of engineering most of the friends I meet are predominantly male. Every so often they invite me to go out places with them or a situation where they would be coming over to my place. My boyfriend has expressed to me that he would very much so like to meet my guy friends before I hang out with or invite them to my house so that he feels more comfortable with who I am with when he is not present. (We are somewhat long distance and only see one another on the weekends by the way) \n\nHe is not restricting me or saying what I can or cannot do, just asking to meet them first.\n\nHave any of you other ladies (or men) experienced this in your relationships? Is it as simple as just knowing who your SO is spending some of their time with? Is it to see the intent of the relationship from the friend to the SO? Do some of you view it as being over controlling?\n\nThanks everyone, your opinions are highly appreciated :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Evening Reddit. About a month ago I [23M] met this amazing girl [22F] at school. I invited her out for dinner and she accepted. Day of, she canceled saying she has too much school work. Some time passed and I saw her at school again, asked her out again and this time we went out. The evening went great and we made plans to go out for coffee the next day. Same as before, we had a great time and she said she has no plans for Thanksgiving, same as me, so I invited her to my place and offered to cook dinner. She accepted and a few days later said that something came up and she canceled. Today I asked her out for coffee and she told me that she recently got out of something and can't do this now. Now I'm nuts about this girl and I'm fairly sure that she is into me so what should I do? Should I give her space and time? Should I tell her how I feel and that I'm willing to wait for her? Should I ask if she wants to be friends for now? Have any ladies here been in the same situation as she and what would you recommend? Have any guys here been in my situation and what did you do? Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Evening Reddit. About a month ago I [23M] met this amazing girl [22F] at school. I invited her out for dinner and she accepted. Day of, she canceled saying she has too much school work. Some time passed and I saw her at school again, asked her out again and this time we went out. The evening went great and we made plans to go out for coffee the next day. Same as before, we had a great time and she said she has no plans for Thanksgiving, same as me, so I invited her to my place and offered to cook dinner. She accepted and a few days later said that something came up and she canceled. Today I asked her out for coffee and she told me that she recently got out of something and can't do this now. Now I'm nuts about this girl and I'm fairly sure that she is into me so what should I do? Should I give her space and time? Should I tell her how I feel and that I'm willing to wait for her? Should I ask if she wants to be friends for now? Have any ladies here been in the same situation as she and what would you recommend? Have any guys here been in my situation and what did you do? Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Evening Reddit. About a month ago I [23M] met this amazing girl [22F] at school. I invited her out for dinner and she accepted. Day of, she canceled saying she has too much school work. Some time passed and I saw her at school again, asked her out again and this time we went out. The evening went great and we made plans to go out for coffee the next day. Same as before, we had a great time and she said she has no plans for Thanksgiving, same as me, so I invited her to my place and offered to cook dinner. She accepted and a few days later said that something came up and she canceled. Today I asked her out for coffee and she told me that she recently got out of something and can't do this now. Now I'm nuts about this girl and I'm fairly sure that she is into me so what should I do? Should I give her space and time? Should I tell her how I feel and that I'm willing to wait for her? Should I ask if she wants to be friends for now? Have any ladies here been in the same situation as she and what would you recommend? Have any guys here been in my situation and what did you do? Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Evening Reddit. About a month ago I [23M] met this amazing girl [22F] at school. I invited her out for dinner and she accepted. Day of, she canceled saying she has too much school work. Some time passed and I saw her at school again, asked her out again and this time we went out. The evening went great and we made plans to go out for coffee the next day. Same as before, we had a great time and she said she has no plans for Thanksgiving, same as me, so I invited her to my place and offered to cook dinner. She accepted and a few days later said that something came up and she canceled. Today I asked her out for coffee and she told me that she recently got out of something and can't do this now. Now I'm nuts about this girl and I'm fairly sure that she is into me so what should I do? Should I give her space and time? Should I tell her how I feel and that I'm willing to wait for her? Should I ask if she wants to be friends for now? Have any ladies here been in the same situation as she and what would you recommend? Have any guys here been in my situation and what did you do? Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Evening Reddit. About a month ago I [23M] met this amazing girl [22F] at school. I invited her out for dinner and she accepted. Day of, she canceled saying she has too much school work. Some time passed and I saw her at school again, asked her out again and this time we went out. The evening went great and we made plans to go out for coffee the next day. Same as before, we had a great time and she said she has no plans for Thanksgiving, same as me, so I invited her to my place and offered to cook dinner. She accepted and a few days later said that something came up and she canceled. Today I asked her out for coffee and she told me that she recently got out of something and can't do this now. Now I'm nuts about this girl and I'm fairly sure that she is into me so what should I do? Should I give her space and time? Should I tell her how I feel and that I'm willing to wait for her? Should I ask if she wants to be friends for now? Have any ladies here been in the same situation as she and what would you recommend? Have any guys here been in my situation and what did you do? Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Evening Reddit. About a month ago I [23M] met this amazing girl [22F] at school. I invited her out for dinner and she accepted. Day of, she canceled saying she has too much school work. Some time passed and I saw her at school again, asked her out again and this time we went out. The evening went great and we made plans to go out for coffee the next day. Same as before, we had a great time and she said she has no plans for Thanksgiving, same as me, so I invited her to my place and offered to cook dinner. She accepted and a few days later said that something came up and she canceled. Today I asked her out for coffee and she told me that she recently got out of something and can't do this now. Now I'm nuts about this girl and I'm fairly sure that she is into me so what should I do? Should I give her space and time? Should I tell her how I feel and that I'm willing to wait for her? Should I ask if she wants to be friends for now? Have any ladies here been in the same situation as she and what would you recommend? Have any guys here been in my situation and what did you do? Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About six months ago, my ex-fiancee [23/F] broke up with me about 6 weeks before our wedding. In September, I found out about how she had been cheating on me, which sent me into a pretty serious depression that I'm still recovering from (but doing much better.) In October, my cousin set me up on a date with his wife's sister. We hit it off and have been talking and hanging out constantly since. \n\nMy problem is that I'm absolutely and equally terrified of two things- that I'll fall head over heels in love far too quickly, or that I won't allow myself to trust anyone. This past weekend she went on hike for a few hours with a male friend of hers and my thoughts immediately assumed the worst (which obviously wasn't the case.) \n\nI really like this new girl. I can see myself with her for a good while- but I don't know how to deal with these trust issues. I haven't told her about my breakup other than mentioning how my ex won't let me see my dog-but her sister and my cousin know too well about what happened. Should I bring it up? I really don't want this to be a rebound, since I could see it going good places."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About six months ago, my ex-fiancee [23/F] broke up with me about 6 weeks before our wedding. In September, I found out about how she had been cheating on me, which sent me into a pretty serious depression that I'm still recovering from (but doing much better.) In October, my cousin set me up on a date with his wife's sister. We hit it off and have been talking and hanging out constantly since. \n\nMy problem is that I'm absolutely and equally terrified of two things- that I'll fall head over heels in love far too quickly, or that I won't allow myself to trust anyone. This past weekend she went on hike for a few hours with a male friend of hers and my thoughts immediately assumed the worst (which obviously wasn't the case.) \n\nI really like this new girl. I can see myself with her for a good while- but I don't know how to deal with these trust issues. I haven't told her about my breakup other than mentioning how my ex won't let me see my dog-but her sister and my cousin know too well about what happened. Should I bring it up? I really don't want this to be a rebound, since I could see it going good places."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About six months ago, my ex-fiancee [23/F] broke up with me about 6 weeks before our wedding. In September, I found out about how she had been cheating on me, which sent me into a pretty serious depression that I'm still recovering from (but doing much better.) In October, my cousin set me up on a date with his wife's sister. We hit it off and have been talking and hanging out constantly since. \n\nMy problem is that I'm absolutely and equally terrified of two things- that I'll fall head over heels in love far too quickly, or that I won't allow myself to trust anyone. This past weekend she went on hike for a few hours with a male friend of hers and my thoughts immediately assumed the worst (which obviously wasn't the case.) \n\nI really like this new girl. I can see myself with her for a good while- but I don't know how to deal with these trust issues. I haven't told her about my breakup other than mentioning how my ex won't let me see my dog-but her sister and my cousin know too well about what happened. Should I bring it up? I really don't want this to be a rebound, since I could see it going good places."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About six months ago, my ex-fiancee [23/F] broke up with me about 6 weeks before our wedding. In September, I found out about how she had been cheating on me, which sent me into a pretty serious depression that I'm still recovering from (but doing much better.) In October, my cousin set me up on a date with his wife's sister. We hit it off and have been talking and hanging out constantly since. \n\nMy problem is that I'm absolutely and equally terrified of two things- that I'll fall head over heels in love far too quickly, or that I won't allow myself to trust anyone. This past weekend she went on hike for a few hours with a male friend of hers and my thoughts immediately assumed the worst (which obviously wasn't the case.) \n\nI really like this new girl. I can see myself with her for a good while- but I don't know how to deal with these trust issues. I haven't told her about my breakup other than mentioning how my ex won't let me see my dog-but her sister and my cousin know too well about what happened. Should I bring it up? I really don't want this to be a rebound, since I could see it going good places."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About six months ago, my ex-fiancee [23/F] broke up with me about 6 weeks before our wedding. In September, I found out about how she had been cheating on me, which sent me into a pretty serious depression that I'm still recovering from (but doing much better.) In October, my cousin set me up on a date with his wife's sister. We hit it off and have been talking and hanging out constantly since. \n\nMy problem is that I'm absolutely and equally terrified of two things- that I'll fall head over heels in love far too quickly, or that I won't allow myself to trust anyone. This past weekend she went on hike for a few hours with a male friend of hers and my thoughts immediately assumed the worst (which obviously wasn't the case.) \n\nI really like this new girl. I can see myself with her for a good while- but I don't know how to deal with these trust issues. I haven't told her about my breakup other than mentioning how my ex won't let me see my dog-but her sister and my cousin know too well about what happened. Should I bring it up? I really don't want this to be a rebound, since I could see it going good places."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About six months ago, my ex-fiancee [23/F] broke up with me about 6 weeks before our wedding. In September, I found out about how she had been cheating on me, which sent me into a pretty serious depression that I'm still recovering from (but doing much better.) In October, my cousin set me up on a date with his wife's sister. We hit it off and have been talking and hanging out constantly since. \n\nMy problem is that I'm absolutely and equally terrified of two things- that I'll fall head over heels in love far too quickly, or that I won't allow myself to trust anyone. This past weekend she went on hike for a few hours with a male friend of hers and my thoughts immediately assumed the worst (which obviously wasn't the case.) \n\nI really like this new girl. I can see myself with her for a good while- but I don't know how to deal with these trust issues. I haven't told her about my breakup other than mentioning how my ex won't let me see my dog-but her sister and my cousin know too well about what happened. Should I bring it up? I really don't want this to be a rebound, since I could see it going good places."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl a few months back, and we fell for each other. We really want to date, but we have a few problems in the way. I row on a crew team, and row for 3 hours after school, whilst she is on a dance team, and dances for 3 hours after school. To top it all off, we also go to different (but quite close) schools. We both have been dumped in the past by ex gfs/bfs who complain that we don't have time for them. I really want to pursue this relationship, and so does she, but we are stumped on \"actual seeing each other time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl a few months back, and we fell for each other. We really want to date, but we have a few problems in the way. I row on a crew team, and row for 3 hours after school, whilst she is on a dance team, and dances for 3 hours after school. To top it all off, we also go to different (but quite close) schools. We both have been dumped in the past by ex gfs/bfs who complain that we don't have time for them. I really want to pursue this relationship, and so does she, but we are stumped on \"actual seeing each other time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl a few months back, and we fell for each other. We really want to date, but we have a few problems in the way. I row on a crew team, and row for 3 hours after school, whilst she is on a dance team, and dances for 3 hours after school. To top it all off, we also go to different (but quite close) schools. We both have been dumped in the past by ex gfs/bfs who complain that we don't have time for them. I really want to pursue this relationship, and so does she, but we are stumped on \"actual seeing each other time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl a few months back, and we fell for each other. We really want to date, but we have a few problems in the way. I row on a crew team, and row for 3 hours after school, whilst she is on a dance team, and dances for 3 hours after school. To top it all off, we also go to different (but quite close) schools. We both have been dumped in the past by ex gfs/bfs who complain that we don't have time for them. I really want to pursue this relationship, and so does she, but we are stumped on \"actual seeing each other time."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl a few months back, and we fell for each other. We really want to date, but we have a few problems in the way. I row on a crew team, and row for 3 hours after school, whilst she is on a dance team, and dances for 3 hours after school. To top it all off, we also go to different (but quite close) schools. We both have been dumped in the past by ex gfs/bfs who complain that we don't have time for them. I really want to pursue this relationship, and so does she, but we are stumped on \"actual seeing each other time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl a few months back, and we fell for each other. We really want to date, but we have a few problems in the way. I row on a crew team, and row for 3 hours after school, whilst she is on a dance team, and dances for 3 hours after school. To top it all off, we also go to different (but quite close) schools. We both have been dumped in the past by ex gfs/bfs who complain that we don't have time for them. I really want to pursue this relationship, and so does she, but we are stumped on \"actual seeing each other time."
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