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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend has stated that she wants to have that surprise proposal moment. This is difficult because we've talked about it and finally decided that yes we want to be married and went ring shopping. I decided to ask her family to come into town while the ring is being resized and try to convince my girlfriend that, of course, I couldn't propose this weekend, the ring isn't ready yet.\n\nI purchased a cheapish version of her ring and planned for us to go do one of those \"escape\" puzzle rooms and then out to her favorite restraunt where I was going to propose. Well, A cluster of perfectly bad events lead to her accidentally finding the fake ring and figuring out what was happening. \n\nHer parents and sister know that I intended to propose at the dinner. Do I go ahead with the proposal or try to come up with something else?\n\nShe doesn't seem super bummed that she found out but I still want to give her the surprise proposal if I can. I am just at a loss of what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend has stated that she wants to have that surprise proposal moment. This is difficult because we've talked about it and finally decided that yes we want to be married and went ring shopping. I decided to ask her family to come into town while the ring is being resized and try to convince my girlfriend that, of course, I couldn't propose this weekend, the ring isn't ready yet.\n\nI purchased a cheapish version of her ring and planned for us to go do one of those \"escape\" puzzle rooms and then out to her favorite restraunt where I was going to propose. Well, A cluster of perfectly bad events lead to her accidentally finding the fake ring and figuring out what was happening. \n\nHer parents and sister know that I intended to propose at the dinner. Do I go ahead with the proposal or try to come up with something else?\n\nShe doesn't seem super bummed that she found out but I still want to give her the surprise proposal if I can. I am just at a loss of what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She always talked negative about him but once they stopped working together things changed. She worked as a bank teller with said guy, we'll just call him Bob. She used to always make plans with the other girls at the bank she never mentioned Bob going with. I trust her completely and dont mind her hanging out with the opposite sex but after she stopped working at the bank she would say she was making plans with the girls and Bob. I asked her, \"I thought you guys didnt like Bob\"? She would always say someone else invited him.\n\nFor me thats still not enough for me to draw the red flag. She, like every 21 year old girl, has a snapchat. She never used take pictures because shes always been camera shy. But she started send me \"flirtatious\" pictures. Which was alittle odd for me since she didnt even like taking normal pictures. I didnt think too much of it until I went onto her \"story\" thing and I clicked on her name and I see Bob's name as a favorite friend. My heart sank. \n\nShe told me they never talked outside of work. Bob has a distinctive name and im 100% certain its him. Then my mind starts running about if she sent him those flirtatious pictures as well. Im not even a favorite friend on snapchat but Bob is. I dont know what to do but this is killing me. We've been together for five years. We talk about having a family and We're thinking about getting an apartment together, then I found out about Bob."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She always talked negative about him but once they stopped working together things changed. She worked as a bank teller with said guy, we'll just call him Bob. She used to always make plans with the other girls at the bank she never mentioned Bob going with. I trust her completely and dont mind her hanging out with the opposite sex but after she stopped working at the bank she would say she was making plans with the girls and Bob. I asked her, \"I thought you guys didnt like Bob\"? She would always say someone else invited him.\n\nFor me thats still not enough for me to draw the red flag. She, like every 21 year old girl, has a snapchat. She never used take pictures because shes always been camera shy. But she started send me \"flirtatious\" pictures. Which was alittle odd for me since she didnt even like taking normal pictures. I didnt think too much of it until I went onto her \"story\" thing and I clicked on her name and I see Bob's name as a favorite friend. My heart sank. \n\nShe told me they never talked outside of work. Bob has a distinctive name and im 100% certain its him. Then my mind starts running about if she sent him those flirtatious pictures as well. Im not even a favorite friend on snapchat but Bob is. I dont know what to do but this is killing me. We've been together for five years. We talk about having a family and We're thinking about getting an apartment together, then I found out about Bob."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She always talked negative about him but once they stopped working together things changed. She worked as a bank teller with said guy, we'll just call him Bob. She used to always make plans with the other girls at the bank she never mentioned Bob going with. I trust her completely and dont mind her hanging out with the opposite sex but after she stopped working at the bank she would say she was making plans with the girls and Bob. I asked her, \"I thought you guys didnt like Bob\"? She would always say someone else invited him.\n\nFor me thats still not enough for me to draw the red flag. She, like every 21 year old girl, has a snapchat. She never used take pictures because shes always been camera shy. But she started send me \"flirtatious\" pictures. Which was alittle odd for me since she didnt even like taking normal pictures. I didnt think too much of it until I went onto her \"story\" thing and I clicked on her name and I see Bob's name as a favorite friend. My heart sank. \n\nShe told me they never talked outside of work. Bob has a distinctive name and im 100% certain its him. Then my mind starts running about if she sent him those flirtatious pictures as well. Im not even a favorite friend on snapchat but Bob is. I dont know what to do but this is killing me. We've been together for five years. We talk about having a family and We're thinking about getting an apartment together, then I found out about Bob."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She always talked negative about him but once they stopped working together things changed. She worked as a bank teller with said guy, we'll just call him Bob. She used to always make plans with the other girls at the bank she never mentioned Bob going with. I trust her completely and dont mind her hanging out with the opposite sex but after she stopped working at the bank she would say she was making plans with the girls and Bob. I asked her, \"I thought you guys didnt like Bob\"? She would always say someone else invited him.\n\nFor me thats still not enough for me to draw the red flag. She, like every 21 year old girl, has a snapchat. She never used take pictures because shes always been camera shy. But she started send me \"flirtatious\" pictures. Which was alittle odd for me since she didnt even like taking normal pictures. I didnt think too much of it until I went onto her \"story\" thing and I clicked on her name and I see Bob's name as a favorite friend. My heart sank. \n\nShe told me they never talked outside of work. Bob has a distinctive name and im 100% certain its him. Then my mind starts running about if she sent him those flirtatious pictures as well. Im not even a favorite friend on snapchat but Bob is. I dont know what to do but this is killing me. We've been together for five years. We talk about having a family and We're thinking about getting an apartment together, then I found out about Bob."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She always talked negative about him but once they stopped working together things changed. She worked as a bank teller with said guy, we'll just call him Bob. She used to always make plans with the other girls at the bank she never mentioned Bob going with. I trust her completely and dont mind her hanging out with the opposite sex but after she stopped working at the bank she would say she was making plans with the girls and Bob. I asked her, \"I thought you guys didnt like Bob\"? She would always say someone else invited him.\n\nFor me thats still not enough for me to draw the red flag. She, like every 21 year old girl, has a snapchat. She never used take pictures because shes always been camera shy. But she started send me \"flirtatious\" pictures. Which was alittle odd for me since she didnt even like taking normal pictures. I didnt think too much of it until I went onto her \"story\" thing and I clicked on her name and I see Bob's name as a favorite friend. My heart sank. \n\nShe told me they never talked outside of work. Bob has a distinctive name and im 100% certain its him. Then my mind starts running about if she sent him those flirtatious pictures as well. Im not even a favorite friend on snapchat but Bob is. I dont know what to do but this is killing me. We've been together for five years. We talk about having a family and We're thinking about getting an apartment together, then I found out about Bob."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She always talked negative about him but once they stopped working together things changed. She worked as a bank teller with said guy, we'll just call him Bob. She used to always make plans with the other girls at the bank she never mentioned Bob going with. I trust her completely and dont mind her hanging out with the opposite sex but after she stopped working at the bank she would say she was making plans with the girls and Bob. I asked her, \"I thought you guys didnt like Bob\"? She would always say someone else invited him.\n\nFor me thats still not enough for me to draw the red flag. She, like every 21 year old girl, has a snapchat. She never used take pictures because shes always been camera shy. But she started send me \"flirtatious\" pictures. Which was alittle odd for me since she didnt even like taking normal pictures. I didnt think too much of it until I went onto her \"story\" thing and I clicked on her name and I see Bob's name as a favorite friend. My heart sank. \n\nShe told me they never talked outside of work. Bob has a distinctive name and im 100% certain its him. Then my mind starts running about if she sent him those flirtatious pictures as well. Im not even a favorite friend on snapchat but Bob is. I dont know what to do but this is killing me. We've been together for five years. We talk about having a family and We're thinking about getting an apartment together, then I found out about Bob."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I are both 14 and have been dating for two months. I make sexual jokes sometimes, but they aren't very detailed and I don't make them often. Lately he has been sending me messages when he's horny basically saying that he's horny and that he's fantasizing about me, he does this more often each day. He has also been touching me constantly and when we hang out alone he attempts to kiss me the entire time. I feel like he's using me for my looks and all of my friends think that too. I know it's only a middle school relationship and I'm probably over reacting. So I'm asking you fellow redditors should I break up with him or just put up with it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I are both 14 and have been dating for two months. I make sexual jokes sometimes, but they aren't very detailed and I don't make them often. Lately he has been sending me messages when he's horny basically saying that he's horny and that he's fantasizing about me, he does this more often each day. He has also been touching me constantly and when we hang out alone he attempts to kiss me the entire time. I feel like he's using me for my looks and all of my friends think that too. I know it's only a middle school relationship and I'm probably over reacting. So I'm asking you fellow redditors should I break up with him or just put up with it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I are both 14 and have been dating for two months. I make sexual jokes sometimes, but they aren't very detailed and I don't make them often. Lately he has been sending me messages when he's horny basically saying that he's horny and that he's fantasizing about me, he does this more often each day. He has also been touching me constantly and when we hang out alone he attempts to kiss me the entire time. I feel like he's using me for my looks and all of my friends think that too. I know it's only a middle school relationship and I'm probably over reacting. So I'm asking you fellow redditors should I break up with him or just put up with it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I are both 14 and have been dating for two months. I make sexual jokes sometimes, but they aren't very detailed and I don't make them often. Lately he has been sending me messages when he's horny basically saying that he's horny and that he's fantasizing about me, he does this more often each day. He has also been touching me constantly and when we hang out alone he attempts to kiss me the entire time. I feel like he's using me for my looks and all of my friends think that too. I know it's only a middle school relationship and I'm probably over reacting. So I'm asking you fellow redditors should I break up with him or just put up with it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I are both 14 and have been dating for two months. I make sexual jokes sometimes, but they aren't very detailed and I don't make them often. Lately he has been sending me messages when he's horny basically saying that he's horny and that he's fantasizing about me, he does this more often each day. He has also been touching me constantly and when we hang out alone he attempts to kiss me the entire time. I feel like he's using me for my looks and all of my friends think that too. I know it's only a middle school relationship and I'm probably over reacting. So I'm asking you fellow redditors should I break up with him or just put up with it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I are both 14 and have been dating for two months. I make sexual jokes sometimes, but they aren't very detailed and I don't make them often. Lately he has been sending me messages when he's horny basically saying that he's horny and that he's fantasizing about me, he does this more often each day. He has also been touching me constantly and when we hang out alone he attempts to kiss me the entire time. I feel like he's using me for my looks and all of my friends think that too. I know it's only a middle school relationship and I'm probably over reacting. So I'm asking you fellow redditors should I break up with him or just put up with it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am 16. My boyfriend is 18. (Yes, I know I'm a teenager and yes, I know the age difference.) I love him very much, but this has been on my mind for awhile and I'm starting to hate him so much, I can barely look at him sometimes. \n\nMaybe I'm a deep thinker or very intuitive or just a very good listener, but I listen to everything he says when it's serious and I just give him a lot ofattention in general, but jesus christ is this kid absent minded. I can never finish anything. I've talked to him about it, but guess what guys, he forgot!I feel like a bitch, but damn. I feel like I'm dealing with an idiot. You know how stupid he is?! He said he thought girls didn't sweat, they glistended. I mean c'mon. Maybe it's the way guys are. Maybe it's just him. I don't like to be cocky or too confident, but sometimes I feel like I'm a bit more mature than him. \n\nHe's going to college soon and I don't want to end up leaveing him, because of this growing hate. Maybe I'm overreacting, but it just gets on my nerves. I can't understand and I can't relate. He just reminds me of those stereotypical guys you see in movies. \n\nThe part I feel bad is when he acts really sweet with me. He has those moments when I feel like he actually loves meand that's when I feel like a bitch. A bad girlfriend. I mean, what the hell. I've got good moments with him and then the bad moments. And seems like more bad moments are popping up. What the hell is wrong with me . him . us . Uhg."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am 16. My boyfriend is 18. (Yes, I know I'm a teenager and yes, I know the age difference.) I love him very much, but this has been on my mind for awhile and I'm starting to hate him so much, I can barely look at him sometimes. \n\nMaybe I'm a deep thinker or very intuitive or just a very good listener, but I listen to everything he says when it's serious and I just give him a lot ofattention in general, but jesus christ is this kid absent minded. I can never finish anything. I've talked to him about it, but guess what guys, he forgot!I feel like a bitch, but damn. I feel like I'm dealing with an idiot. You know how stupid he is?! He said he thought girls didn't sweat, they glistended. I mean c'mon. Maybe it's the way guys are. Maybe it's just him. I don't like to be cocky or too confident, but sometimes I feel like I'm a bit more mature than him. \n\nHe's going to college soon and I don't want to end up leaveing him, because of this growing hate. Maybe I'm overreacting, but it just gets on my nerves. I can't understand and I can't relate. He just reminds me of those stereotypical guys you see in movies. \n\nThe part I feel bad is when he acts really sweet with me. He has those moments when I feel like he actually loves meand that's when I feel like a bitch. A bad girlfriend. I mean, what the hell. I've got good moments with him and then the bad moments. And seems like more bad moments are popping up. What the hell is wrong with me . him . us . Uhg."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am 16. My boyfriend is 18. (Yes, I know I'm a teenager and yes, I know the age difference.) I love him very much, but this has been on my mind for awhile and I'm starting to hate him so much, I can barely look at him sometimes. \n\nMaybe I'm a deep thinker or very intuitive or just a very good listener, but I listen to everything he says when it's serious and I just give him a lot ofattention in general, but jesus christ is this kid absent minded. I can never finish anything. I've talked to him about it, but guess what guys, he forgot!I feel like a bitch, but damn. I feel like I'm dealing with an idiot. You know how stupid he is?! He said he thought girls didn't sweat, they glistended. I mean c'mon. Maybe it's the way guys are. Maybe it's just him. I don't like to be cocky or too confident, but sometimes I feel like I'm a bit more mature than him. \n\nHe's going to college soon and I don't want to end up leaveing him, because of this growing hate. Maybe I'm overreacting, but it just gets on my nerves. I can't understand and I can't relate. He just reminds me of those stereotypical guys you see in movies. \n\nThe part I feel bad is when he acts really sweet with me. He has those moments when I feel like he actually loves meand that's when I feel like a bitch. A bad girlfriend. I mean, what the hell. I've got good moments with him and then the bad moments. And seems like more bad moments are popping up. What the hell is wrong with me . him . us . Uhg."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am 16. My boyfriend is 18. (Yes, I know I'm a teenager and yes, I know the age difference.) I love him very much, but this has been on my mind for awhile and I'm starting to hate him so much, I can barely look at him sometimes. \n\nMaybe I'm a deep thinker or very intuitive or just a very good listener, but I listen to everything he says when it's serious and I just give him a lot ofattention in general, but jesus christ is this kid absent minded. I can never finish anything. I've talked to him about it, but guess what guys, he forgot!I feel like a bitch, but damn. I feel like I'm dealing with an idiot. You know how stupid he is?! He said he thought girls didn't sweat, they glistended. I mean c'mon. Maybe it's the way guys are. Maybe it's just him. I don't like to be cocky or too confident, but sometimes I feel like I'm a bit more mature than him. \n\nHe's going to college soon and I don't want to end up leaveing him, because of this growing hate. Maybe I'm overreacting, but it just gets on my nerves. I can't understand and I can't relate. He just reminds me of those stereotypical guys you see in movies. \n\nThe part I feel bad is when he acts really sweet with me. He has those moments when I feel like he actually loves meand that's when I feel like a bitch. A bad girlfriend. I mean, what the hell. I've got good moments with him and then the bad moments. And seems like more bad moments are popping up. What the hell is wrong with me . him . us . Uhg."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am 16. My boyfriend is 18. (Yes, I know I'm a teenager and yes, I know the age difference.) I love him very much, but this has been on my mind for awhile and I'm starting to hate him so much, I can barely look at him sometimes. \n\nMaybe I'm a deep thinker or very intuitive or just a very good listener, but I listen to everything he says when it's serious and I just give him a lot ofattention in general, but jesus christ is this kid absent minded. I can never finish anything. I've talked to him about it, but guess what guys, he forgot!I feel like a bitch, but damn. I feel like I'm dealing with an idiot. You know how stupid he is?! He said he thought girls didn't sweat, they glistended. I mean c'mon. Maybe it's the way guys are. Maybe it's just him. I don't like to be cocky or too confident, but sometimes I feel like I'm a bit more mature than him. \n\nHe's going to college soon and I don't want to end up leaveing him, because of this growing hate. Maybe I'm overreacting, but it just gets on my nerves. I can't understand and I can't relate. He just reminds me of those stereotypical guys you see in movies. \n\nThe part I feel bad is when he acts really sweet with me. He has those moments when I feel like he actually loves meand that's when I feel like a bitch. A bad girlfriend. I mean, what the hell. I've got good moments with him and then the bad moments. And seems like more bad moments are popping up. What the hell is wrong with me . him . us . Uhg."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am 16. My boyfriend is 18. (Yes, I know I'm a teenager and yes, I know the age difference.) I love him very much, but this has been on my mind for awhile and I'm starting to hate him so much, I can barely look at him sometimes. \n\nMaybe I'm a deep thinker or very intuitive or just a very good listener, but I listen to everything he says when it's serious and I just give him a lot ofattention in general, but jesus christ is this kid absent minded. I can never finish anything. I've talked to him about it, but guess what guys, he forgot!I feel like a bitch, but damn. I feel like I'm dealing with an idiot. You know how stupid he is?! He said he thought girls didn't sweat, they glistended. I mean c'mon. Maybe it's the way guys are. Maybe it's just him. I don't like to be cocky or too confident, but sometimes I feel like I'm a bit more mature than him. \n\nHe's going to college soon and I don't want to end up leaveing him, because of this growing hate. Maybe I'm overreacting, but it just gets on my nerves. I can't understand and I can't relate. He just reminds me of those stereotypical guys you see in movies. \n\nThe part I feel bad is when he acts really sweet with me. He has those moments when I feel like he actually loves meand that's when I feel like a bitch. A bad girlfriend. I mean, what the hell. I've got good moments with him and then the bad moments. And seems like more bad moments are popping up. What the hell is wrong with me . him . us . Uhg."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently going to uni and probably come back home every 2-3 weeks during the semesters. Ever since I have remembered my parents have been telling me they have been only living together because of me.\n\nMy parents sleep in separate rooms, and I don't think they love each other as a husband and wife. My mom constantly complains about my dad's smoking and drinking. My dad gets drunk almost every night and it annoys both me and my mom. They have issues which each other's parents,friends and things like that. When they argue they come to me and try to prove that one of them is right. I want them to be happy, but I don't know what to do. They act as friends when they are not arguing. I try to give them my opinion but they don't listen, and my input is useless. As soon as I graduate I want to leave this house to escape this mess but at the same time I want my parents to be happy.\n\nMy parents clearly love me and want the best for me. I have been sick with a chronic condition for about 3 years and both of them have been doing what they can to support me. My dad helps me with my career because I am following a similar career path. But their relationship is the worst. \n\nWhat are the steps I take to make this situation better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently going to uni and probably come back home every 2-3 weeks during the semesters. Ever since I have remembered my parents have been telling me they have been only living together because of me.\n\nMy parents sleep in separate rooms, and I don't think they love each other as a husband and wife. My mom constantly complains about my dad's smoking and drinking. My dad gets drunk almost every night and it annoys both me and my mom. They have issues which each other's parents,friends and things like that. When they argue they come to me and try to prove that one of them is right. I want them to be happy, but I don't know what to do. They act as friends when they are not arguing. I try to give them my opinion but they don't listen, and my input is useless. As soon as I graduate I want to leave this house to escape this mess but at the same time I want my parents to be happy.\n\nMy parents clearly love me and want the best for me. I have been sick with a chronic condition for about 3 years and both of them have been doing what they can to support me. My dad helps me with my career because I am following a similar career path. But their relationship is the worst. \n\nWhat are the steps I take to make this situation better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently going to uni and probably come back home every 2-3 weeks during the semesters. Ever since I have remembered my parents have been telling me they have been only living together because of me.\n\nMy parents sleep in separate rooms, and I don't think they love each other as a husband and wife. My mom constantly complains about my dad's smoking and drinking. My dad gets drunk almost every night and it annoys both me and my mom. They have issues which each other's parents,friends and things like that. When they argue they come to me and try to prove that one of them is right. I want them to be happy, but I don't know what to do. They act as friends when they are not arguing. I try to give them my opinion but they don't listen, and my input is useless. As soon as I graduate I want to leave this house to escape this mess but at the same time I want my parents to be happy.\n\nMy parents clearly love me and want the best for me. I have been sick with a chronic condition for about 3 years and both of them have been doing what they can to support me. My dad helps me with my career because I am following a similar career path. But their relationship is the worst. \n\nWhat are the steps I take to make this situation better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently going to uni and probably come back home every 2-3 weeks during the semesters. Ever since I have remembered my parents have been telling me they have been only living together because of me.\n\nMy parents sleep in separate rooms, and I don't think they love each other as a husband and wife. My mom constantly complains about my dad's smoking and drinking. My dad gets drunk almost every night and it annoys both me and my mom. They have issues which each other's parents,friends and things like that. When they argue they come to me and try to prove that one of them is right. I want them to be happy, but I don't know what to do. They act as friends when they are not arguing. I try to give them my opinion but they don't listen, and my input is useless. As soon as I graduate I want to leave this house to escape this mess but at the same time I want my parents to be happy.\n\nMy parents clearly love me and want the best for me. I have been sick with a chronic condition for about 3 years and both of them have been doing what they can to support me. My dad helps me with my career because I am following a similar career path. But their relationship is the worst. \n\nWhat are the steps I take to make this situation better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently going to uni and probably come back home every 2-3 weeks during the semesters. Ever since I have remembered my parents have been telling me they have been only living together because of me.\n\nMy parents sleep in separate rooms, and I don't think they love each other as a husband and wife. My mom constantly complains about my dad's smoking and drinking. My dad gets drunk almost every night and it annoys both me and my mom. They have issues which each other's parents,friends and things like that. When they argue they come to me and try to prove that one of them is right. I want them to be happy, but I don't know what to do. They act as friends when they are not arguing. I try to give them my opinion but they don't listen, and my input is useless. As soon as I graduate I want to leave this house to escape this mess but at the same time I want my parents to be happy.\n\nMy parents clearly love me and want the best for me. I have been sick with a chronic condition for about 3 years and both of them have been doing what they can to support me. My dad helps me with my career because I am following a similar career path. But their relationship is the worst. \n\nWhat are the steps I take to make this situation better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently going to uni and probably come back home every 2-3 weeks during the semesters. Ever since I have remembered my parents have been telling me they have been only living together because of me.\n\nMy parents sleep in separate rooms, and I don't think they love each other as a husband and wife. My mom constantly complains about my dad's smoking and drinking. My dad gets drunk almost every night and it annoys both me and my mom. They have issues which each other's parents,friends and things like that. When they argue they come to me and try to prove that one of them is right. I want them to be happy, but I don't know what to do. They act as friends when they are not arguing. I try to give them my opinion but they don't listen, and my input is useless. As soon as I graduate I want to leave this house to escape this mess but at the same time I want my parents to be happy.\n\nMy parents clearly love me and want the best for me. I have been sick with a chronic condition for about 3 years and both of them have been doing what they can to support me. My dad helps me with my career because I am following a similar career path. But their relationship is the worst. \n\nWhat are the steps I take to make this situation better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have had my current dog since he was 2 months old. He is almost 9 months now, so that makes it 7 months total. He is a catahoula/lab mix. He is great, finally walking great on the leash, listens to my every command, learns anything instantly, etc. etc. \n\nNow, one of the other pups from his litter is back on \"the market\" because her owner didn't do a good job taking care of her. She looks healthy in pics but I don't know what her demeanor is like yet. I have been asked if I want to take her in, which I do, but I don't know how to decide. Any chance taking in another dog from the same litter will ruin my current dog? Any stories similar to this ya'll can share? I know they say 2 dogs from the same litter can bond too much and cause trouble, but these 2 have been separated for a long time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have had my current dog since he was 2 months old. He is almost 9 months now, so that makes it 7 months total. He is a catahoula/lab mix. He is great, finally walking great on the leash, listens to my every command, learns anything instantly, etc. etc. \n\nNow, one of the other pups from his litter is back on \"the market\" because her owner didn't do a good job taking care of her. She looks healthy in pics but I don't know what her demeanor is like yet. I have been asked if I want to take her in, which I do, but I don't know how to decide. Any chance taking in another dog from the same litter will ruin my current dog? Any stories similar to this ya'll can share? I know they say 2 dogs from the same litter can bond too much and cause trouble, but these 2 have been separated for a long time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have had my current dog since he was 2 months old. He is almost 9 months now, so that makes it 7 months total. He is a catahoula/lab mix. He is great, finally walking great on the leash, listens to my every command, learns anything instantly, etc. etc. \n\nNow, one of the other pups from his litter is back on \"the market\" because her owner didn't do a good job taking care of her. She looks healthy in pics but I don't know what her demeanor is like yet. I have been asked if I want to take her in, which I do, but I don't know how to decide. Any chance taking in another dog from the same litter will ruin my current dog? Any stories similar to this ya'll can share? I know they say 2 dogs from the same litter can bond too much and cause trouble, but these 2 have been separated for a long time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have had my current dog since he was 2 months old. He is almost 9 months now, so that makes it 7 months total. He is a catahoula/lab mix. He is great, finally walking great on the leash, listens to my every command, learns anything instantly, etc. etc. \n\nNow, one of the other pups from his litter is back on \"the market\" because her owner didn't do a good job taking care of her. She looks healthy in pics but I don't know what her demeanor is like yet. I have been asked if I want to take her in, which I do, but I don't know how to decide. Any chance taking in another dog from the same litter will ruin my current dog? Any stories similar to this ya'll can share? I know they say 2 dogs from the same litter can bond too much and cause trouble, but these 2 have been separated for a long time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have had my current dog since he was 2 months old. He is almost 9 months now, so that makes it 7 months total. He is a catahoula/lab mix. He is great, finally walking great on the leash, listens to my every command, learns anything instantly, etc. etc. \n\nNow, one of the other pups from his litter is back on \"the market\" because her owner didn't do a good job taking care of her. She looks healthy in pics but I don't know what her demeanor is like yet. I have been asked if I want to take her in, which I do, but I don't know how to decide. Any chance taking in another dog from the same litter will ruin my current dog? Any stories similar to this ya'll can share? I know they say 2 dogs from the same litter can bond too much and cause trouble, but these 2 have been separated for a long time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have had my current dog since he was 2 months old. He is almost 9 months now, so that makes it 7 months total. He is a catahoula/lab mix. He is great, finally walking great on the leash, listens to my every command, learns anything instantly, etc. etc. \n\nNow, one of the other pups from his litter is back on \"the market\" because her owner didn't do a good job taking care of her. She looks healthy in pics but I don't know what her demeanor is like yet. I have been asked if I want to take her in, which I do, but I don't know how to decide. Any chance taking in another dog from the same litter will ruin my current dog? Any stories similar to this ya'll can share? I know they say 2 dogs from the same litter can bond too much and cause trouble, but these 2 have been separated for a long time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. Anyways.\n\nme=19m\nher=20f\n\nI recently (about 4 months ago) started dating this girl. We're \"in a relationship\" now and she's literally the greatest person I've ever been with.\n\nMaybe I'm still in the honeymoon phase? But I doubt it. I seriously cannot find any imperfections. She's beautiful, considerate, friendly, funny, *VERY SMART*, *VERY GENEROUS*, determined, motivated, and overall wonderful. Of course she has her quirks, but she's phenomenal.\n\nShe works 3 jobs, puts herself through school, takes summer courses to get ahead and open up more opportunities for herself, and is just incredible for this in my eyes. This productive attitude is something I love, I thrive on being busy myself.\n\nHowever, I just don't trust any girl I've ever dated. I've been cheated on, I have done the cheating, my mother cheated on my father when I was 13, and relationships have never felt right, ever. I always feel like I'm going to get cheated on or hurt. I'm over most relationships before they even begin.\n\nThis girl has NEVER ever given me any doubts, has always been incredibly open and honest about everything, and she loves me.\n\nI've never been able to fully trust someone. I want to trust her. What the fuck do I do?\n\nI always just thought it was a feeling of \"Oh, she's just not the right girl.\" At this rate, I have the perfect girl in my arms and I still get hangups over something that isn't even a problem."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. Anyways.\n\nme=19m\nher=20f\n\nI recently (about 4 months ago) started dating this girl. We're \"in a relationship\" now and she's literally the greatest person I've ever been with.\n\nMaybe I'm still in the honeymoon phase? But I doubt it. I seriously cannot find any imperfections. She's beautiful, considerate, friendly, funny, *VERY SMART*, *VERY GENEROUS*, determined, motivated, and overall wonderful. Of course she has her quirks, but she's phenomenal.\n\nShe works 3 jobs, puts herself through school, takes summer courses to get ahead and open up more opportunities for herself, and is just incredible for this in my eyes. This productive attitude is something I love, I thrive on being busy myself.\n\nHowever, I just don't trust any girl I've ever dated. I've been cheated on, I have done the cheating, my mother cheated on my father when I was 13, and relationships have never felt right, ever. I always feel like I'm going to get cheated on or hurt. I'm over most relationships before they even begin.\n\nThis girl has NEVER ever given me any doubts, has always been incredibly open and honest about everything, and she loves me.\n\nI've never been able to fully trust someone. I want to trust her. What the fuck do I do?\n\nI always just thought it was a feeling of \"Oh, she's just not the right girl.\" At this rate, I have the perfect girl in my arms and I still get hangups over something that isn't even a problem."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. Anyways.\n\nme=19m\nher=20f\n\nI recently (about 4 months ago) started dating this girl. We're \"in a relationship\" now and she's literally the greatest person I've ever been with.\n\nMaybe I'm still in the honeymoon phase? But I doubt it. I seriously cannot find any imperfections. She's beautiful, considerate, friendly, funny, *VERY SMART*, *VERY GENEROUS*, determined, motivated, and overall wonderful. Of course she has her quirks, but she's phenomenal.\n\nShe works 3 jobs, puts herself through school, takes summer courses to get ahead and open up more opportunities for herself, and is just incredible for this in my eyes. This productive attitude is something I love, I thrive on being busy myself.\n\nHowever, I just don't trust any girl I've ever dated. I've been cheated on, I have done the cheating, my mother cheated on my father when I was 13, and relationships have never felt right, ever. I always feel like I'm going to get cheated on or hurt. I'm over most relationships before they even begin.\n\nThis girl has NEVER ever given me any doubts, has always been incredibly open and honest about everything, and she loves me.\n\nI've never been able to fully trust someone. I want to trust her. What the fuck do I do?\n\nI always just thought it was a feeling of \"Oh, she's just not the right girl.\" At this rate, I have the perfect girl in my arms and I still get hangups over something that isn't even a problem."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. Anyways.\n\nme=19m\nher=20f\n\nI recently (about 4 months ago) started dating this girl. We're \"in a relationship\" now and she's literally the greatest person I've ever been with.\n\nMaybe I'm still in the honeymoon phase? But I doubt it. I seriously cannot find any imperfections. She's beautiful, considerate, friendly, funny, *VERY SMART*, *VERY GENEROUS*, determined, motivated, and overall wonderful. Of course she has her quirks, but she's phenomenal.\n\nShe works 3 jobs, puts herself through school, takes summer courses to get ahead and open up more opportunities for herself, and is just incredible for this in my eyes. This productive attitude is something I love, I thrive on being busy myself.\n\nHowever, I just don't trust any girl I've ever dated. I've been cheated on, I have done the cheating, my mother cheated on my father when I was 13, and relationships have never felt right, ever. I always feel like I'm going to get cheated on or hurt. I'm over most relationships before they even begin.\n\nThis girl has NEVER ever given me any doubts, has always been incredibly open and honest about everything, and she loves me.\n\nI've never been able to fully trust someone. I want to trust her. What the fuck do I do?\n\nI always just thought it was a feeling of \"Oh, she's just not the right girl.\" At this rate, I have the perfect girl in my arms and I still get hangups over something that isn't even a problem."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. Anyways.\n\nme=19m\nher=20f\n\nI recently (about 4 months ago) started dating this girl. We're \"in a relationship\" now and she's literally the greatest person I've ever been with.\n\nMaybe I'm still in the honeymoon phase? But I doubt it. I seriously cannot find any imperfections. She's beautiful, considerate, friendly, funny, *VERY SMART*, *VERY GENEROUS*, determined, motivated, and overall wonderful. Of course she has her quirks, but she's phenomenal.\n\nShe works 3 jobs, puts herself through school, takes summer courses to get ahead and open up more opportunities for herself, and is just incredible for this in my eyes. This productive attitude is something I love, I thrive on being busy myself.\n\nHowever, I just don't trust any girl I've ever dated. I've been cheated on, I have done the cheating, my mother cheated on my father when I was 13, and relationships have never felt right, ever. I always feel like I'm going to get cheated on or hurt. I'm over most relationships before they even begin.\n\nThis girl has NEVER ever given me any doubts, has always been incredibly open and honest about everything, and she loves me.\n\nI've never been able to fully trust someone. I want to trust her. What the fuck do I do?\n\nI always just thought it was a feeling of \"Oh, she's just not the right girl.\" At this rate, I have the perfect girl in my arms and I still get hangups over something that isn't even a problem."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. Anyways.\n\nme=19m\nher=20f\n\nI recently (about 4 months ago) started dating this girl. We're \"in a relationship\" now and she's literally the greatest person I've ever been with.\n\nMaybe I'm still in the honeymoon phase? But I doubt it. I seriously cannot find any imperfections. She's beautiful, considerate, friendly, funny, *VERY SMART*, *VERY GENEROUS*, determined, motivated, and overall wonderful. Of course she has her quirks, but she's phenomenal.\n\nShe works 3 jobs, puts herself through school, takes summer courses to get ahead and open up more opportunities for herself, and is just incredible for this in my eyes. This productive attitude is something I love, I thrive on being busy myself.\n\nHowever, I just don't trust any girl I've ever dated. I've been cheated on, I have done the cheating, my mother cheated on my father when I was 13, and relationships have never felt right, ever. I always feel like I'm going to get cheated on or hurt. I'm over most relationships before they even begin.\n\nThis girl has NEVER ever given me any doubts, has always been incredibly open and honest about everything, and she loves me.\n\nI've never been able to fully trust someone. I want to trust her. What the fuck do I do?\n\nI always just thought it was a feeling of \"Oh, she's just not the right girl.\" At this rate, I have the perfect girl in my arms and I still get hangups over something that isn't even a problem."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm pretty sure this type of question doesn't belong in this subreddit but I don't know where else to ~rant~ talk about this. You see I've been married for 3 years and I can't count how many times I've heard my wife freak out about her period and how she might be pregnant. She did it to me again the other day and was like this \"this never happened before, my period is always on time\". So of course I had to act concerned. I mean it wouldn't be good timing at all being that I'm deployed and won't be able to be with her long term for another year. I just got back from seeing her for two weeks. She had an IUD and she thought I had penetrated through it and knocked it out or something. It's not like I don't care and I don't believe her but when you get told this so much, and she isn't the first one to say that to me, but it tends to wear off its effect on me after a while. We already have a beautiful daughter who just turned 4 but right now wouldn't be good timing for another one. I love my wife to death, I'm just saying do we have to go through this again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm pretty sure this type of question doesn't belong in this subreddit but I don't know where else to ~rant~ talk about this. You see I've been married for 3 years and I can't count how many times I've heard my wife freak out about her period and how she might be pregnant. She did it to me again the other day and was like this \"this never happened before, my period is always on time\". So of course I had to act concerned. I mean it wouldn't be good timing at all being that I'm deployed and won't be able to be with her long term for another year. I just got back from seeing her for two weeks. She had an IUD and she thought I had penetrated through it and knocked it out or something. It's not like I don't care and I don't believe her but when you get told this so much, and she isn't the first one to say that to me, but it tends to wear off its effect on me after a while. We already have a beautiful daughter who just turned 4 but right now wouldn't be good timing for another one. I love my wife to death, I'm just saying do we have to go through this again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm pretty sure this type of question doesn't belong in this subreddit but I don't know where else to ~rant~ talk about this. You see I've been married for 3 years and I can't count how many times I've heard my wife freak out about her period and how she might be pregnant. She did it to me again the other day and was like this \"this never happened before, my period is always on time\". So of course I had to act concerned. I mean it wouldn't be good timing at all being that I'm deployed and won't be able to be with her long term for another year. I just got back from seeing her for two weeks. She had an IUD and she thought I had penetrated through it and knocked it out or something. It's not like I don't care and I don't believe her but when you get told this so much, and she isn't the first one to say that to me, but it tends to wear off its effect on me after a while. We already have a beautiful daughter who just turned 4 but right now wouldn't be good timing for another one. I love my wife to death, I'm just saying do we have to go through this again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm pretty sure this type of question doesn't belong in this subreddit but I don't know where else to ~rant~ talk about this. You see I've been married for 3 years and I can't count how many times I've heard my wife freak out about her period and how she might be pregnant. She did it to me again the other day and was like this \"this never happened before, my period is always on time\". So of course I had to act concerned. I mean it wouldn't be good timing at all being that I'm deployed and won't be able to be with her long term for another year. I just got back from seeing her for two weeks. She had an IUD and she thought I had penetrated through it and knocked it out or something. It's not like I don't care and I don't believe her but when you get told this so much, and she isn't the first one to say that to me, but it tends to wear off its effect on me after a while. We already have a beautiful daughter who just turned 4 but right now wouldn't be good timing for another one. I love my wife to death, I'm just saying do we have to go through this again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm pretty sure this type of question doesn't belong in this subreddit but I don't know where else to ~rant~ talk about this. You see I've been married for 3 years and I can't count how many times I've heard my wife freak out about her period and how she might be pregnant. She did it to me again the other day and was like this \"this never happened before, my period is always on time\". So of course I had to act concerned. I mean it wouldn't be good timing at all being that I'm deployed and won't be able to be with her long term for another year. I just got back from seeing her for two weeks. She had an IUD and she thought I had penetrated through it and knocked it out or something. It's not like I don't care and I don't believe her but when you get told this so much, and she isn't the first one to say that to me, but it tends to wear off its effect on me after a while. We already have a beautiful daughter who just turned 4 but right now wouldn't be good timing for another one. I love my wife to death, I'm just saying do we have to go through this again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm pretty sure this type of question doesn't belong in this subreddit but I don't know where else to ~rant~ talk about this. You see I've been married for 3 years and I can't count how many times I've heard my wife freak out about her period and how she might be pregnant. She did it to me again the other day and was like this \"this never happened before, my period is always on time\". So of course I had to act concerned. I mean it wouldn't be good timing at all being that I'm deployed and won't be able to be with her long term for another year. I just got back from seeing her for two weeks. She had an IUD and she thought I had penetrated through it and knocked it out or something. It's not like I don't care and I don't believe her but when you get told this so much, and she isn't the first one to say that to me, but it tends to wear off its effect on me after a while. We already have a beautiful daughter who just turned 4 but right now wouldn't be good timing for another one. I love my wife to death, I'm just saying do we have to go through this again?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this friend at our workplace four years ago. I had a crush on her for about a two week period after a work party where a bit of drunken grinding and groping may have occurred on the dancefloor. Apart from that, we've maintained a steady friendship after both leaving that workplace two years ago. Neither of us have held any form of SO in the time we've known each other. We catch up sporadically, sometimes twice a week, sometimes once in a couple of months. As platonic as I try to keep it, I sexualise her every now and then as she's quite attractive and my contact with other females is fairly limited.\n\nA couple of months ago we spontaneously booked cheap flights overseas (her idea) for a 6 day trip, we're sharing a room albeit twin double. As it approaches, I find myself fantasising of situations on the holiday which lead to sex (insert corny porn plots here). Are these just natural male thoughts or will this be unhealthy for my interactions with her? \n \nFor what it's worth, one of the last times I travelled with a female companion, it was a similar situation. Although I admitted having feelings for her a few weeks prior, therefore making the holiday infinitely awkward and resulting in fractured friendship post trip. She said afterwards that we could have avoided the horridness of it if we had just aired out our feelings more explicitly prior.\n\nShould I just act as normal as I can and let the next week play out? Should I pull her aside and openly discuss what can and can't occur while abroad? Or am I psychotic for still thinking there's a possibility of this trip becoming a wild sex romp?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this friend at our workplace four years ago. I had a crush on her for about a two week period after a work party where a bit of drunken grinding and groping may have occurred on the dancefloor. Apart from that, we've maintained a steady friendship after both leaving that workplace two years ago. Neither of us have held any form of SO in the time we've known each other. We catch up sporadically, sometimes twice a week, sometimes once in a couple of months. As platonic as I try to keep it, I sexualise her every now and then as she's quite attractive and my contact with other females is fairly limited.\n\nA couple of months ago we spontaneously booked cheap flights overseas (her idea) for a 6 day trip, we're sharing a room albeit twin double. As it approaches, I find myself fantasising of situations on the holiday which lead to sex (insert corny porn plots here). Are these just natural male thoughts or will this be unhealthy for my interactions with her? \n \nFor what it's worth, one of the last times I travelled with a female companion, it was a similar situation. Although I admitted having feelings for her a few weeks prior, therefore making the holiday infinitely awkward and resulting in fractured friendship post trip. She said afterwards that we could have avoided the horridness of it if we had just aired out our feelings more explicitly prior.\n\nShould I just act as normal as I can and let the next week play out? Should I pull her aside and openly discuss what can and can't occur while abroad? Or am I psychotic for still thinking there's a possibility of this trip becoming a wild sex romp?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this friend at our workplace four years ago. I had a crush on her for about a two week period after a work party where a bit of drunken grinding and groping may have occurred on the dancefloor. Apart from that, we've maintained a steady friendship after both leaving that workplace two years ago. Neither of us have held any form of SO in the time we've known each other. We catch up sporadically, sometimes twice a week, sometimes once in a couple of months. As platonic as I try to keep it, I sexualise her every now and then as she's quite attractive and my contact with other females is fairly limited.\n\nA couple of months ago we spontaneously booked cheap flights overseas (her idea) for a 6 day trip, we're sharing a room albeit twin double. As it approaches, I find myself fantasising of situations on the holiday which lead to sex (insert corny porn plots here). Are these just natural male thoughts or will this be unhealthy for my interactions with her? \n \nFor what it's worth, one of the last times I travelled with a female companion, it was a similar situation. Although I admitted having feelings for her a few weeks prior, therefore making the holiday infinitely awkward and resulting in fractured friendship post trip. She said afterwards that we could have avoided the horridness of it if we had just aired out our feelings more explicitly prior.\n\nShould I just act as normal as I can and let the next week play out? Should I pull her aside and openly discuss what can and can't occur while abroad? Or am I psychotic for still thinking there's a possibility of this trip becoming a wild sex romp?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this friend at our workplace four years ago. I had a crush on her for about a two week period after a work party where a bit of drunken grinding and groping may have occurred on the dancefloor. Apart from that, we've maintained a steady friendship after both leaving that workplace two years ago. Neither of us have held any form of SO in the time we've known each other. We catch up sporadically, sometimes twice a week, sometimes once in a couple of months. As platonic as I try to keep it, I sexualise her every now and then as she's quite attractive and my contact with other females is fairly limited.\n\nA couple of months ago we spontaneously booked cheap flights overseas (her idea) for a 6 day trip, we're sharing a room albeit twin double. As it approaches, I find myself fantasising of situations on the holiday which lead to sex (insert corny porn plots here). Are these just natural male thoughts or will this be unhealthy for my interactions with her? \n \nFor what it's worth, one of the last times I travelled with a female companion, it was a similar situation. Although I admitted having feelings for her a few weeks prior, therefore making the holiday infinitely awkward and resulting in fractured friendship post trip. She said afterwards that we could have avoided the horridness of it if we had just aired out our feelings more explicitly prior.\n\nShould I just act as normal as I can and let the next week play out? Should I pull her aside and openly discuss what can and can't occur while abroad? Or am I psychotic for still thinking there's a possibility of this trip becoming a wild sex romp?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this friend at our workplace four years ago. I had a crush on her for about a two week period after a work party where a bit of drunken grinding and groping may have occurred on the dancefloor. Apart from that, we've maintained a steady friendship after both leaving that workplace two years ago. Neither of us have held any form of SO in the time we've known each other. We catch up sporadically, sometimes twice a week, sometimes once in a couple of months. As platonic as I try to keep it, I sexualise her every now and then as she's quite attractive and my contact with other females is fairly limited.\n\nA couple of months ago we spontaneously booked cheap flights overseas (her idea) for a 6 day trip, we're sharing a room albeit twin double. As it approaches, I find myself fantasising of situations on the holiday which lead to sex (insert corny porn plots here). Are these just natural male thoughts or will this be unhealthy for my interactions with her? \n \nFor what it's worth, one of the last times I travelled with a female companion, it was a similar situation. Although I admitted having feelings for her a few weeks prior, therefore making the holiday infinitely awkward and resulting in fractured friendship post trip. She said afterwards that we could have avoided the horridness of it if we had just aired out our feelings more explicitly prior.\n\nShould I just act as normal as I can and let the next week play out? Should I pull her aside and openly discuss what can and can't occur while abroad? Or am I psychotic for still thinking there's a possibility of this trip becoming a wild sex romp?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My father passed away when he was 38 of a heart attack due to high cholesterol. I was 12years old at the time and when to get my cholesterol checked, it was 500. When I turned 23 they put me on statins and now my cholesterol is okay but my good cholesterol is low and I still often question if taking statin the rest of my life is really the answer.\n\nI went vegan for awhile and really had a lot of issues with food because I thought food was the enemy, later to learn it was actually genetics. I continue to get pretty serious chest pains and pains down my left side that lead to panic attacks (my MD has checked my heart and says there is nothing wrong with it). I'm so scared of having a heart attack despite being on meds, eating right (I do a mosly lean paleo diet now) and run 6 miles a day 4x a week. \n\nI feel like because of how little is really known about having genetically high cholesterol, taking a statin every day and how scared I am of having a heart attack as I approach the age of my dad is causing a ton of stress on me and not sure how I change any of this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My father passed away when he was 38 of a heart attack due to high cholesterol. I was 12years old at the time and when to get my cholesterol checked, it was 500. When I turned 23 they put me on statins and now my cholesterol is okay but my good cholesterol is low and I still often question if taking statin the rest of my life is really the answer.\n\nI went vegan for awhile and really had a lot of issues with food because I thought food was the enemy, later to learn it was actually genetics. I continue to get pretty serious chest pains and pains down my left side that lead to panic attacks (my MD has checked my heart and says there is nothing wrong with it). I'm so scared of having a heart attack despite being on meds, eating right (I do a mosly lean paleo diet now) and run 6 miles a day 4x a week. \n\nI feel like because of how little is really known about having genetically high cholesterol, taking a statin every day and how scared I am of having a heart attack as I approach the age of my dad is causing a ton of stress on me and not sure how I change any of this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My father passed away when he was 38 of a heart attack due to high cholesterol. I was 12years old at the time and when to get my cholesterol checked, it was 500. When I turned 23 they put me on statins and now my cholesterol is okay but my good cholesterol is low and I still often question if taking statin the rest of my life is really the answer.\n\nI went vegan for awhile and really had a lot of issues with food because I thought food was the enemy, later to learn it was actually genetics. I continue to get pretty serious chest pains and pains down my left side that lead to panic attacks (my MD has checked my heart and says there is nothing wrong with it). I'm so scared of having a heart attack despite being on meds, eating right (I do a mosly lean paleo diet now) and run 6 miles a day 4x a week. \n\nI feel like because of how little is really known about having genetically high cholesterol, taking a statin every day and how scared I am of having a heart attack as I approach the age of my dad is causing a ton of stress on me and not sure how I change any of this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My father passed away when he was 38 of a heart attack due to high cholesterol. I was 12years old at the time and when to get my cholesterol checked, it was 500. When I turned 23 they put me on statins and now my cholesterol is okay but my good cholesterol is low and I still often question if taking statin the rest of my life is really the answer.\n\nI went vegan for awhile and really had a lot of issues with food because I thought food was the enemy, later to learn it was actually genetics. I continue to get pretty serious chest pains and pains down my left side that lead to panic attacks (my MD has checked my heart and says there is nothing wrong with it). I'm so scared of having a heart attack despite being on meds, eating right (I do a mosly lean paleo diet now) and run 6 miles a day 4x a week. \n\nI feel like because of how little is really known about having genetically high cholesterol, taking a statin every day and how scared I am of having a heart attack as I approach the age of my dad is causing a ton of stress on me and not sure how I change any of this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My father passed away when he was 38 of a heart attack due to high cholesterol. I was 12years old at the time and when to get my cholesterol checked, it was 500. When I turned 23 they put me on statins and now my cholesterol is okay but my good cholesterol is low and I still often question if taking statin the rest of my life is really the answer.\n\nI went vegan for awhile and really had a lot of issues with food because I thought food was the enemy, later to learn it was actually genetics. I continue to get pretty serious chest pains and pains down my left side that lead to panic attacks (my MD has checked my heart and says there is nothing wrong with it). I'm so scared of having a heart attack despite being on meds, eating right (I do a mosly lean paleo diet now) and run 6 miles a day 4x a week. \n\nI feel like because of how little is really known about having genetically high cholesterol, taking a statin every day and how scared I am of having a heart attack as I approach the age of my dad is causing a ton of stress on me and not sure how I change any of this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My father passed away when he was 38 of a heart attack due to high cholesterol. I was 12years old at the time and when to get my cholesterol checked, it was 500. When I turned 23 they put me on statins and now my cholesterol is okay but my good cholesterol is low and I still often question if taking statin the rest of my life is really the answer.\n\nI went vegan for awhile and really had a lot of issues with food because I thought food was the enemy, later to learn it was actually genetics. I continue to get pretty serious chest pains and pains down my left side that lead to panic attacks (my MD has checked my heart and says there is nothing wrong with it). I'm so scared of having a heart attack despite being on meds, eating right (I do a mosly lean paleo diet now) and run 6 miles a day 4x a week. \n\nI feel like because of how little is really known about having genetically high cholesterol, taking a statin every day and how scared I am of having a heart attack as I approach the age of my dad is causing a ton of stress on me and not sure how I change any of this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi,\n\nJust wanted a sounding board to tell me if something's weird or not.\n\nOver the new year, my girlfriend's grandfather will be visiting from India (he is Indian, she is Indian, whole family Indian).\n\nFor six weeks I won't be able to visit her home because he is visiting and can't know she has a boyfriend. She said he probably wouldn't have a problem with it - but that when he went home and told other people in India it would be bad / they would judge. It's her dad's dad if that is relevant. She said her and her sister aren't really allowed to have boyfriends (though they both have had at least a few). She is not particularly Indian culturally - I don't know how to say it but she's just like an ordinary person from our country - doesn't hold particular cultural values/beliefs (nor do her family from what I can tell). \n\nThis didn't really bother me - like sure, it sucks I won't be able to visit and feels lame, but we can still hang at mine and I just thought I'd be able to have more free time to do other stuff anyway. Honestly, don't really mind. And it's only for six weeks.\n\nBut I told my mum and she thinks it's really bad, has started saying they have \"banned\" me from their home, that it's rude, and that the parents should not be influenced by others. She has also called it \"racist\" (which I think is wrong, to my understanding it's more ANY boyfriend than a 'white' boyfriend).\n\nNow this makes me worried I'm wrong and should be more concerned about the situation. I have depression/some anxious tendencies so sometimes it's hard for me to tell if my feelings/thoughts are right or wrong. Should I be concerned about what my parent is saying? She has a history of disliking my girlfriends, being overbearing, jealous, etc. She also has anxiety and depression. \n\nSo what do you think? Should I be concerned? Would especially like a perspective from Indian people in Western nations!\n\nCheers."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi,\n\nJust wanted a sounding board to tell me if something's weird or not.\n\nOver the new year, my girlfriend's grandfather will be visiting from India (he is Indian, she is Indian, whole family Indian).\n\nFor six weeks I won't be able to visit her home because he is visiting and can't know she has a boyfriend. She said he probably wouldn't have a problem with it - but that when he went home and told other people in India it would be bad / they would judge. It's her dad's dad if that is relevant. She said her and her sister aren't really allowed to have boyfriends (though they both have had at least a few). She is not particularly Indian culturally - I don't know how to say it but she's just like an ordinary person from our country - doesn't hold particular cultural values/beliefs (nor do her family from what I can tell). \n\nThis didn't really bother me - like sure, it sucks I won't be able to visit and feels lame, but we can still hang at mine and I just thought I'd be able to have more free time to do other stuff anyway. Honestly, don't really mind. And it's only for six weeks.\n\nBut I told my mum and she thinks it's really bad, has started saying they have \"banned\" me from their home, that it's rude, and that the parents should not be influenced by others. She has also called it \"racist\" (which I think is wrong, to my understanding it's more ANY boyfriend than a 'white' boyfriend).\n\nNow this makes me worried I'm wrong and should be more concerned about the situation. I have depression/some anxious tendencies so sometimes it's hard for me to tell if my feelings/thoughts are right or wrong. Should I be concerned about what my parent is saying? She has a history of disliking my girlfriends, being overbearing, jealous, etc. She also has anxiety and depression. \n\nSo what do you think? Should I be concerned? Would especially like a perspective from Indian people in Western nations!\n\nCheers."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi,\n\nJust wanted a sounding board to tell me if something's weird or not.\n\nOver the new year, my girlfriend's grandfather will be visiting from India (he is Indian, she is Indian, whole family Indian).\n\nFor six weeks I won't be able to visit her home because he is visiting and can't know she has a boyfriend. She said he probably wouldn't have a problem with it - but that when he went home and told other people in India it would be bad / they would judge. It's her dad's dad if that is relevant. She said her and her sister aren't really allowed to have boyfriends (though they both have had at least a few). She is not particularly Indian culturally - I don't know how to say it but she's just like an ordinary person from our country - doesn't hold particular cultural values/beliefs (nor do her family from what I can tell). \n\nThis didn't really bother me - like sure, it sucks I won't be able to visit and feels lame, but we can still hang at mine and I just thought I'd be able to have more free time to do other stuff anyway. Honestly, don't really mind. And it's only for six weeks.\n\nBut I told my mum and she thinks it's really bad, has started saying they have \"banned\" me from their home, that it's rude, and that the parents should not be influenced by others. She has also called it \"racist\" (which I think is wrong, to my understanding it's more ANY boyfriend than a 'white' boyfriend).\n\nNow this makes me worried I'm wrong and should be more concerned about the situation. I have depression/some anxious tendencies so sometimes it's hard for me to tell if my feelings/thoughts are right or wrong. Should I be concerned about what my parent is saying? She has a history of disliking my girlfriends, being overbearing, jealous, etc. She also has anxiety and depression. \n\nSo what do you think? Should I be concerned? Would especially like a perspective from Indian people in Western nations!\n\nCheers."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello experienced Redditors,\n\nI am a noobly college student who is going into my third* year of college and don't know what to definitively major in. \n\nRight now, I either stick with my biotechnology major or change to computer science. Course work and graduation time are of no concern.\n\nOn one hand, biotechnology is up and coming and there's a lot of different fields of research, a lot of start-ups, and a lot of promise for further innovation in the next 20 years. Work as a biotechnologist would probably be laboratory work, if not management work, if not.some other work.\n\nOn the other hand, computer science is a vast field more mature than biotech, has different fields of research as well, and work would be programming, or research, or management.\n\nJob prospects for both majors are decent, with computer science paying more on average for starting salaries (I think.)\n\nAs for the skill sets, becoming proficient or more at either biotech or computer science both seem feasible, and I'm not sure which I like more. I could be bored to death in a biotech lab, or in a comp sci cubicle.\n\nI feel like I could get into either field and be satisfied, but biotechnology just seems intrinsically \"cooler\" because of its promise to health and renewable energy. Thing is I don't know if I want to be on the RESEARCH/WORKING part of that coolness.or if I just can't wait for commercial stem cell and biofuel products to hit the market.\n\nWW(Y)D?\n\nWhat would you do?\n\nEDIT:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello experienced Redditors,\n\nI am a noobly college student who is going into my third* year of college and don't know what to definitively major in. \n\nRight now, I either stick with my biotechnology major or change to computer science. Course work and graduation time are of no concern.\n\nOn one hand, biotechnology is up and coming and there's a lot of different fields of research, a lot of start-ups, and a lot of promise for further innovation in the next 20 years. Work as a biotechnologist would probably be laboratory work, if not management work, if not.some other work.\n\nOn the other hand, computer science is a vast field more mature than biotech, has different fields of research as well, and work would be programming, or research, or management.\n\nJob prospects for both majors are decent, with computer science paying more on average for starting salaries (I think.)\n\nAs for the skill sets, becoming proficient or more at either biotech or computer science both seem feasible, and I'm not sure which I like more. I could be bored to death in a biotech lab, or in a comp sci cubicle.\n\nI feel like I could get into either field and be satisfied, but biotechnology just seems intrinsically \"cooler\" because of its promise to health and renewable energy. Thing is I don't know if I want to be on the RESEARCH/WORKING part of that coolness.or if I just can't wait for commercial stem cell and biofuel products to hit the market.\n\nWW(Y)D?\n\nWhat would you do?\n\nEDIT:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello experienced Redditors,\n\nI am a noobly college student who is going into my third* year of college and don't know what to definitively major in. \n\nRight now, I either stick with my biotechnology major or change to computer science. Course work and graduation time are of no concern.\n\nOn one hand, biotechnology is up and coming and there's a lot of different fields of research, a lot of start-ups, and a lot of promise for further innovation in the next 20 years. Work as a biotechnologist would probably be laboratory work, if not management work, if not.some other work.\n\nOn the other hand, computer science is a vast field more mature than biotech, has different fields of research as well, and work would be programming, or research, or management.\n\nJob prospects for both majors are decent, with computer science paying more on average for starting salaries (I think.)\n\nAs for the skill sets, becoming proficient or more at either biotech or computer science both seem feasible, and I'm not sure which I like more. I could be bored to death in a biotech lab, or in a comp sci cubicle.\n\nI feel like I could get into either field and be satisfied, but biotechnology just seems intrinsically \"cooler\" because of its promise to health and renewable energy. Thing is I don't know if I want to be on the RESEARCH/WORKING part of that coolness.or if I just can't wait for commercial stem cell and biofuel products to hit the market.\n\nWW(Y)D?\n\nWhat would you do?\n\nEDIT:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello experienced Redditors,\n\nI am a noobly college student who is going into my third* year of college and don't know what to definitively major in. \n\nRight now, I either stick with my biotechnology major or change to computer science. Course work and graduation time are of no concern.\n\nOn one hand, biotechnology is up and coming and there's a lot of different fields of research, a lot of start-ups, and a lot of promise for further innovation in the next 20 years. Work as a biotechnologist would probably be laboratory work, if not management work, if not.some other work.\n\nOn the other hand, computer science is a vast field more mature than biotech, has different fields of research as well, and work would be programming, or research, or management.\n\nJob prospects for both majors are decent, with computer science paying more on average for starting salaries (I think.)\n\nAs for the skill sets, becoming proficient or more at either biotech or computer science both seem feasible, and I'm not sure which I like more. I could be bored to death in a biotech lab, or in a comp sci cubicle.\n\nI feel like I could get into either field and be satisfied, but biotechnology just seems intrinsically \"cooler\" because of its promise to health and renewable energy. Thing is I don't know if I want to be on the RESEARCH/WORKING part of that coolness.or if I just can't wait for commercial stem cell and biofuel products to hit the market.\n\nWW(Y)D?\n\nWhat would you do?\n\nEDIT:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello experienced Redditors,\n\nI am a noobly college student who is going into my third* year of college and don't know what to definitively major in. \n\nRight now, I either stick with my biotechnology major or change to computer science. Course work and graduation time are of no concern.\n\nOn one hand, biotechnology is up and coming and there's a lot of different fields of research, a lot of start-ups, and a lot of promise for further innovation in the next 20 years. Work as a biotechnologist would probably be laboratory work, if not management work, if not.some other work.\n\nOn the other hand, computer science is a vast field more mature than biotech, has different fields of research as well, and work would be programming, or research, or management.\n\nJob prospects for both majors are decent, with computer science paying more on average for starting salaries (I think.)\n\nAs for the skill sets, becoming proficient or more at either biotech or computer science both seem feasible, and I'm not sure which I like more. I could be bored to death in a biotech lab, or in a comp sci cubicle.\n\nI feel like I could get into either field and be satisfied, but biotechnology just seems intrinsically \"cooler\" because of its promise to health and renewable energy. Thing is I don't know if I want to be on the RESEARCH/WORKING part of that coolness.or if I just can't wait for commercial stem cell and biofuel products to hit the market.\n\nWW(Y)D?\n\nWhat would you do?\n\nEDIT:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello experienced Redditors,\n\nI am a noobly college student who is going into my third* year of college and don't know what to definitively major in. \n\nRight now, I either stick with my biotechnology major or change to computer science. Course work and graduation time are of no concern.\n\nOn one hand, biotechnology is up and coming and there's a lot of different fields of research, a lot of start-ups, and a lot of promise for further innovation in the next 20 years. Work as a biotechnologist would probably be laboratory work, if not management work, if not.some other work.\n\nOn the other hand, computer science is a vast field more mature than biotech, has different fields of research as well, and work would be programming, or research, or management.\n\nJob prospects for both majors are decent, with computer science paying more on average for starting salaries (I think.)\n\nAs for the skill sets, becoming proficient or more at either biotech or computer science both seem feasible, and I'm not sure which I like more. I could be bored to death in a biotech lab, or in a comp sci cubicle.\n\nI feel like I could get into either field and be satisfied, but biotechnology just seems intrinsically \"cooler\" because of its promise to health and renewable energy. Thing is I don't know if I want to be on the RESEARCH/WORKING part of that coolness.or if I just can't wait for commercial stem cell and biofuel products to hit the market.\n\nWW(Y)D?\n\nWhat would you do?\n\nEDIT:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone! So currently, I live with my brother, my girlfriend, and some other roommates. It was originally my brother, our roommates, and myself but when my girlfriend became borderline homeless I invited her to stay with us, to which none of the roommates minded. When discussing next years plans, the thought between my girlfriend, brother, and I was the three of us getting a place. However, my brother and girlfriend do not get along very well at all. They used to, with some faults, but after some time neither want to live with each other next year and I am stuck to chose who to live with. I've decided earlier that I would chose my girlfriend, we live great together and are great partners. We have similar hobbies and we want the same thing out of life. My girlfriend moved to this state only knowing me and one other person, who is engaged, so really I am the only person she has here. \n\nRecently, my brother has been making me feel bad about not choosing him. I love my brother dearly and it is very painful to see the two people I love so much fight each other so bitterly. \n\nI would love to live with my brother too, and we could all three live together if the two just settle their differences but both are very stubborn and unapologetic, no one is stepping up to be the bigger person and I am stuck in the crossfire, left to litigate between the two. My girlfriend has told me that my brother will ruin our relationship if we live with him, and most of the times when we fight it is derived from something my brother has done. She has tried very hard to be his friend, but he has pushed her to a point where she does not feel comfortable in pursuing new efforts. \n\nI know if I choose living with my brother, I will miss living with my girlfriend and if I choose living with my girlfriend, I will miss living with my brother.\n\nWhat would you do? Any extra info needed, please feel free to ask!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone! So currently, I live with my brother, my girlfriend, and some other roommates. It was originally my brother, our roommates, and myself but when my girlfriend became borderline homeless I invited her to stay with us, to which none of the roommates minded. When discussing next years plans, the thought between my girlfriend, brother, and I was the three of us getting a place. However, my brother and girlfriend do not get along very well at all. They used to, with some faults, but after some time neither want to live with each other next year and I am stuck to chose who to live with. I've decided earlier that I would chose my girlfriend, we live great together and are great partners. We have similar hobbies and we want the same thing out of life. My girlfriend moved to this state only knowing me and one other person, who is engaged, so really I am the only person she has here. \n\nRecently, my brother has been making me feel bad about not choosing him. I love my brother dearly and it is very painful to see the two people I love so much fight each other so bitterly. \n\nI would love to live with my brother too, and we could all three live together if the two just settle their differences but both are very stubborn and unapologetic, no one is stepping up to be the bigger person and I am stuck in the crossfire, left to litigate between the two. My girlfriend has told me that my brother will ruin our relationship if we live with him, and most of the times when we fight it is derived from something my brother has done. She has tried very hard to be his friend, but he has pushed her to a point where she does not feel comfortable in pursuing new efforts. \n\nI know if I choose living with my brother, I will miss living with my girlfriend and if I choose living with my girlfriend, I will miss living with my brother.\n\nWhat would you do? Any extra info needed, please feel free to ask!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone! So currently, I live with my brother, my girlfriend, and some other roommates. It was originally my brother, our roommates, and myself but when my girlfriend became borderline homeless I invited her to stay with us, to which none of the roommates minded. When discussing next years plans, the thought between my girlfriend, brother, and I was the three of us getting a place. However, my brother and girlfriend do not get along very well at all. They used to, with some faults, but after some time neither want to live with each other next year and I am stuck to chose who to live with. I've decided earlier that I would chose my girlfriend, we live great together and are great partners. We have similar hobbies and we want the same thing out of life. My girlfriend moved to this state only knowing me and one other person, who is engaged, so really I am the only person she has here. \n\nRecently, my brother has been making me feel bad about not choosing him. I love my brother dearly and it is very painful to see the two people I love so much fight each other so bitterly. \n\nI would love to live with my brother too, and we could all three live together if the two just settle their differences but both are very stubborn and unapologetic, no one is stepping up to be the bigger person and I am stuck in the crossfire, left to litigate between the two. My girlfriend has told me that my brother will ruin our relationship if we live with him, and most of the times when we fight it is derived from something my brother has done. She has tried very hard to be his friend, but he has pushed her to a point where she does not feel comfortable in pursuing new efforts. \n\nI know if I choose living with my brother, I will miss living with my girlfriend and if I choose living with my girlfriend, I will miss living with my brother.\n\nWhat would you do? Any extra info needed, please feel free to ask!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone! So currently, I live with my brother, my girlfriend, and some other roommates. It was originally my brother, our roommates, and myself but when my girlfriend became borderline homeless I invited her to stay with us, to which none of the roommates minded. When discussing next years plans, the thought between my girlfriend, brother, and I was the three of us getting a place. However, my brother and girlfriend do not get along very well at all. They used to, with some faults, but after some time neither want to live with each other next year and I am stuck to chose who to live with. I've decided earlier that I would chose my girlfriend, we live great together and are great partners. We have similar hobbies and we want the same thing out of life. My girlfriend moved to this state only knowing me and one other person, who is engaged, so really I am the only person she has here. \n\nRecently, my brother has been making me feel bad about not choosing him. I love my brother dearly and it is very painful to see the two people I love so much fight each other so bitterly. \n\nI would love to live with my brother too, and we could all three live together if the two just settle their differences but both are very stubborn and unapologetic, no one is stepping up to be the bigger person and I am stuck in the crossfire, left to litigate between the two. My girlfriend has told me that my brother will ruin our relationship if we live with him, and most of the times when we fight it is derived from something my brother has done. She has tried very hard to be his friend, but he has pushed her to a point where she does not feel comfortable in pursuing new efforts. \n\nI know if I choose living with my brother, I will miss living with my girlfriend and if I choose living with my girlfriend, I will miss living with my brother.\n\nWhat would you do? Any extra info needed, please feel free to ask!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone! So currently, I live with my brother, my girlfriend, and some other roommates. It was originally my brother, our roommates, and myself but when my girlfriend became borderline homeless I invited her to stay with us, to which none of the roommates minded. When discussing next years plans, the thought between my girlfriend, brother, and I was the three of us getting a place. However, my brother and girlfriend do not get along very well at all. They used to, with some faults, but after some time neither want to live with each other next year and I am stuck to chose who to live with. I've decided earlier that I would chose my girlfriend, we live great together and are great partners. We have similar hobbies and we want the same thing out of life. My girlfriend moved to this state only knowing me and one other person, who is engaged, so really I am the only person she has here. \n\nRecently, my brother has been making me feel bad about not choosing him. I love my brother dearly and it is very painful to see the two people I love so much fight each other so bitterly. \n\nI would love to live with my brother too, and we could all three live together if the two just settle their differences but both are very stubborn and unapologetic, no one is stepping up to be the bigger person and I am stuck in the crossfire, left to litigate between the two. My girlfriend has told me that my brother will ruin our relationship if we live with him, and most of the times when we fight it is derived from something my brother has done. She has tried very hard to be his friend, but he has pushed her to a point where she does not feel comfortable in pursuing new efforts. \n\nI know if I choose living with my brother, I will miss living with my girlfriend and if I choose living with my girlfriend, I will miss living with my brother.\n\nWhat would you do? Any extra info needed, please feel free to ask!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone! So currently, I live with my brother, my girlfriend, and some other roommates. It was originally my brother, our roommates, and myself but when my girlfriend became borderline homeless I invited her to stay with us, to which none of the roommates minded. When discussing next years plans, the thought between my girlfriend, brother, and I was the three of us getting a place. However, my brother and girlfriend do not get along very well at all. They used to, with some faults, but after some time neither want to live with each other next year and I am stuck to chose who to live with. I've decided earlier that I would chose my girlfriend, we live great together and are great partners. We have similar hobbies and we want the same thing out of life. My girlfriend moved to this state only knowing me and one other person, who is engaged, so really I am the only person she has here. \n\nRecently, my brother has been making me feel bad about not choosing him. I love my brother dearly and it is very painful to see the two people I love so much fight each other so bitterly. \n\nI would love to live with my brother too, and we could all three live together if the two just settle their differences but both are very stubborn and unapologetic, no one is stepping up to be the bigger person and I am stuck in the crossfire, left to litigate between the two. My girlfriend has told me that my brother will ruin our relationship if we live with him, and most of the times when we fight it is derived from something my brother has done. She has tried very hard to be his friend, but he has pushed her to a point where she does not feel comfortable in pursuing new efforts. \n\nI know if I choose living with my brother, I will miss living with my girlfriend and if I choose living with my girlfriend, I will miss living with my brother.\n\nWhat would you do? Any extra info needed, please feel free to ask!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wonderful gem of an SO and I don't live together, but end up sleeping in the same place at night probably five or six times a week. Each night we fall asleep on our own halves of the bed, and sure as shit after eating Taco Bell, each night around two am I'm telling him to move back over, because he is spread eagle taking up the entire bed and I've been exiled to the six inches at the edge. He moves back over, and then I once again find myself peering into the crevasse that is the space between my bed and the wall a few hours later. This happens every time we sleep together.\n\nWe're not large people, both on the lower end of normal weight ranges, and before he falls asleep, we're both quite confortable on our respective sides. I've talked to him about it while he's conscious and he feels bad and doesn't mean to do it, but then he falls asleep and goes right back to it. How do I combat my boyfriend's nighttime quest for manifest destiny?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wonderful gem of an SO and I don't live together, but end up sleeping in the same place at night probably five or six times a week. Each night we fall asleep on our own halves of the bed, and sure as shit after eating Taco Bell, each night around two am I'm telling him to move back over, because he is spread eagle taking up the entire bed and I've been exiled to the six inches at the edge. He moves back over, and then I once again find myself peering into the crevasse that is the space between my bed and the wall a few hours later. This happens every time we sleep together.\n\nWe're not large people, both on the lower end of normal weight ranges, and before he falls asleep, we're both quite confortable on our respective sides. I've talked to him about it while he's conscious and he feels bad and doesn't mean to do it, but then he falls asleep and goes right back to it. How do I combat my boyfriend's nighttime quest for manifest destiny?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wonderful gem of an SO and I don't live together, but end up sleeping in the same place at night probably five or six times a week. Each night we fall asleep on our own halves of the bed, and sure as shit after eating Taco Bell, each night around two am I'm telling him to move back over, because he is spread eagle taking up the entire bed and I've been exiled to the six inches at the edge. He moves back over, and then I once again find myself peering into the crevasse that is the space between my bed and the wall a few hours later. This happens every time we sleep together.\n\nWe're not large people, both on the lower end of normal weight ranges, and before he falls asleep, we're both quite confortable on our respective sides. I've talked to him about it while he's conscious and he feels bad and doesn't mean to do it, but then he falls asleep and goes right back to it. How do I combat my boyfriend's nighttime quest for manifest destiny?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wonderful gem of an SO and I don't live together, but end up sleeping in the same place at night probably five or six times a week. Each night we fall asleep on our own halves of the bed, and sure as shit after eating Taco Bell, each night around two am I'm telling him to move back over, because he is spread eagle taking up the entire bed and I've been exiled to the six inches at the edge. He moves back over, and then I once again find myself peering into the crevasse that is the space between my bed and the wall a few hours later. This happens every time we sleep together.\n\nWe're not large people, both on the lower end of normal weight ranges, and before he falls asleep, we're both quite confortable on our respective sides. I've talked to him about it while he's conscious and he feels bad and doesn't mean to do it, but then he falls asleep and goes right back to it. How do I combat my boyfriend's nighttime quest for manifest destiny?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wonderful gem of an SO and I don't live together, but end up sleeping in the same place at night probably five or six times a week. Each night we fall asleep on our own halves of the bed, and sure as shit after eating Taco Bell, each night around two am I'm telling him to move back over, because he is spread eagle taking up the entire bed and I've been exiled to the six inches at the edge. He moves back over, and then I once again find myself peering into the crevasse that is the space between my bed and the wall a few hours later. This happens every time we sleep together.\n\nWe're not large people, both on the lower end of normal weight ranges, and before he falls asleep, we're both quite confortable on our respective sides. I've talked to him about it while he's conscious and he feels bad and doesn't mean to do it, but then he falls asleep and goes right back to it. How do I combat my boyfriend's nighttime quest for manifest destiny?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey r/PersonalFinance,\n\nI’m writing here to get some feedback on my financial plan for the next 10 years and my long-term financial goals. On top of that I’d like to ask whether there is anything more I could be doing, or anything I should be doing differently.\n\nSo I’m 22, and a fully payed off homeowner in the UK. Currently this home is being rented to 4 students and pulls in about £1500 a month in rental income. On top of this, I work a decent steady job, making £22500 a year before tax. I keep these 2 incomes separate, as my parents frequently need to use some or all of the rental income for the near future. My job income is how I live and all of my current savings are spent on flights to the US to see my girlfriend as often as possible.\n\nSo here is the plan; In the next 12 months I plan to move to the USA, this will be by marrying my girlfriend. Once there, I am fairly confident I can get a decent job that can provide for both of us (at that point I’d be a 1 year graduated software engineer). In the next 6 months I plan on buying a house where I work in the UK on a mortgage, living there until I move to the states then renting it out from there, using the rental income to pay off the mortgage, and whatever is left from the student rented property.\n\nEssentially, I’d like to earn my living through property eventually, and for the lifestyle I would like to live, this would mean probably making £150-£200k a year from it. In the meantime I’ll work a job to live and keep rolling property into more property until I have roughly 10 fully payed off. I’ll diversify location and size, but I plan on keeping them mostly in the UK.\n\nSo is there anything more or differently I could be doing? Does this sound responsible, or even feasible? Thanks for any replies!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey r/PersonalFinance,\n\nI’m writing here to get some feedback on my financial plan for the next 10 years and my long-term financial goals. On top of that I’d like to ask whether there is anything more I could be doing, or anything I should be doing differently.\n\nSo I’m 22, and a fully payed off homeowner in the UK. Currently this home is being rented to 4 students and pulls in about £1500 a month in rental income. On top of this, I work a decent steady job, making £22500 a year before tax. I keep these 2 incomes separate, as my parents frequently need to use some or all of the rental income for the near future. My job income is how I live and all of my current savings are spent on flights to the US to see my girlfriend as often as possible.\n\nSo here is the plan; In the next 12 months I plan to move to the USA, this will be by marrying my girlfriend. Once there, I am fairly confident I can get a decent job that can provide for both of us (at that point I’d be a 1 year graduated software engineer). In the next 6 months I plan on buying a house where I work in the UK on a mortgage, living there until I move to the states then renting it out from there, using the rental income to pay off the mortgage, and whatever is left from the student rented property.\n\nEssentially, I’d like to earn my living through property eventually, and for the lifestyle I would like to live, this would mean probably making £150-£200k a year from it. In the meantime I’ll work a job to live and keep rolling property into more property until I have roughly 10 fully payed off. I’ll diversify location and size, but I plan on keeping them mostly in the UK.\n\nSo is there anything more or differently I could be doing? Does this sound responsible, or even feasible? Thanks for any replies!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey r/PersonalFinance,\n\nI’m writing here to get some feedback on my financial plan for the next 10 years and my long-term financial goals. On top of that I’d like to ask whether there is anything more I could be doing, or anything I should be doing differently.\n\nSo I’m 22, and a fully payed off homeowner in the UK. Currently this home is being rented to 4 students and pulls in about £1500 a month in rental income. On top of this, I work a decent steady job, making £22500 a year before tax. I keep these 2 incomes separate, as my parents frequently need to use some or all of the rental income for the near future. My job income is how I live and all of my current savings are spent on flights to the US to see my girlfriend as often as possible.\n\nSo here is the plan; In the next 12 months I plan to move to the USA, this will be by marrying my girlfriend. Once there, I am fairly confident I can get a decent job that can provide for both of us (at that point I’d be a 1 year graduated software engineer). In the next 6 months I plan on buying a house where I work in the UK on a mortgage, living there until I move to the states then renting it out from there, using the rental income to pay off the mortgage, and whatever is left from the student rented property.\n\nEssentially, I’d like to earn my living through property eventually, and for the lifestyle I would like to live, this would mean probably making £150-£200k a year from it. In the meantime I’ll work a job to live and keep rolling property into more property until I have roughly 10 fully payed off. I’ll diversify location and size, but I plan on keeping them mostly in the UK.\n\nSo is there anything more or differently I could be doing? Does this sound responsible, or even feasible? Thanks for any replies!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey r/PersonalFinance,\n\nI’m writing here to get some feedback on my financial plan for the next 10 years and my long-term financial goals. On top of that I’d like to ask whether there is anything more I could be doing, or anything I should be doing differently.\n\nSo I’m 22, and a fully payed off homeowner in the UK. Currently this home is being rented to 4 students and pulls in about £1500 a month in rental income. On top of this, I work a decent steady job, making £22500 a year before tax. I keep these 2 incomes separate, as my parents frequently need to use some or all of the rental income for the near future. My job income is how I live and all of my current savings are spent on flights to the US to see my girlfriend as often as possible.\n\nSo here is the plan; In the next 12 months I plan to move to the USA, this will be by marrying my girlfriend. Once there, I am fairly confident I can get a decent job that can provide for both of us (at that point I’d be a 1 year graduated software engineer). In the next 6 months I plan on buying a house where I work in the UK on a mortgage, living there until I move to the states then renting it out from there, using the rental income to pay off the mortgage, and whatever is left from the student rented property.\n\nEssentially, I’d like to earn my living through property eventually, and for the lifestyle I would like to live, this would mean probably making £150-£200k a year from it. In the meantime I’ll work a job to live and keep rolling property into more property until I have roughly 10 fully payed off. I’ll diversify location and size, but I plan on keeping them mostly in the UK.\n\nSo is there anything more or differently I could be doing? Does this sound responsible, or even feasible? Thanks for any replies!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey r/PersonalFinance,\n\nI’m writing here to get some feedback on my financial plan for the next 10 years and my long-term financial goals. On top of that I’d like to ask whether there is anything more I could be doing, or anything I should be doing differently.\n\nSo I’m 22, and a fully payed off homeowner in the UK. Currently this home is being rented to 4 students and pulls in about £1500 a month in rental income. On top of this, I work a decent steady job, making £22500 a year before tax. I keep these 2 incomes separate, as my parents frequently need to use some or all of the rental income for the near future. My job income is how I live and all of my current savings are spent on flights to the US to see my girlfriend as often as possible.\n\nSo here is the plan; In the next 12 months I plan to move to the USA, this will be by marrying my girlfriend. Once there, I am fairly confident I can get a decent job that can provide for both of us (at that point I’d be a 1 year graduated software engineer). In the next 6 months I plan on buying a house where I work in the UK on a mortgage, living there until I move to the states then renting it out from there, using the rental income to pay off the mortgage, and whatever is left from the student rented property.\n\nEssentially, I’d like to earn my living through property eventually, and for the lifestyle I would like to live, this would mean probably making £150-£200k a year from it. In the meantime I’ll work a job to live and keep rolling property into more property until I have roughly 10 fully payed off. I’ll diversify location and size, but I plan on keeping them mostly in the UK.\n\nSo is there anything more or differently I could be doing? Does this sound responsible, or even feasible? Thanks for any replies!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey r/PersonalFinance,\n\nI’m writing here to get some feedback on my financial plan for the next 10 years and my long-term financial goals. On top of that I’d like to ask whether there is anything more I could be doing, or anything I should be doing differently.\n\nSo I’m 22, and a fully payed off homeowner in the UK. Currently this home is being rented to 4 students and pulls in about £1500 a month in rental income. On top of this, I work a decent steady job, making £22500 a year before tax. I keep these 2 incomes separate, as my parents frequently need to use some or all of the rental income for the near future. My job income is how I live and all of my current savings are spent on flights to the US to see my girlfriend as often as possible.\n\nSo here is the plan; In the next 12 months I plan to move to the USA, this will be by marrying my girlfriend. Once there, I am fairly confident I can get a decent job that can provide for both of us (at that point I’d be a 1 year graduated software engineer). In the next 6 months I plan on buying a house where I work in the UK on a mortgage, living there until I move to the states then renting it out from there, using the rental income to pay off the mortgage, and whatever is left from the student rented property.\n\nEssentially, I’d like to earn my living through property eventually, and for the lifestyle I would like to live, this would mean probably making £150-£200k a year from it. In the meantime I’ll work a job to live and keep rolling property into more property until I have roughly 10 fully payed off. I’ll diversify location and size, but I plan on keeping them mostly in the UK.\n\nSo is there anything more or differently I could be doing? Does this sound responsible, or even feasible? Thanks for any replies!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl a couple weeks ago. We went on a date last Monday and it went really well. At least it did to me. We talked a lot, had a lot of laughs, typical first date stuff. At the end I told her I'd hit her up for another one. She said yea so I figured it was ok. I waited til last Friday to ask her if she was free this week and got no immediate response. Now I'm kind of clingy I guess. I like to hear back from people in a reasonable amount of time. Before the first date we were texting each other pretty frequently. Now it's taken her at least a day to respond to me. The reason I waited til friday to ask is because I knew she was busy with work for the rest of the week. Finally I got to the point of asking if she wanted to go again on Mon/Tue/Wed. She just got back to me tonight saying sorry and she has been busy with work. She also said she can't do anything because of work tomorrow.\n\nI'm not saying she's lying about work. I just kind of have my doubts about her interest in me based on the way she was responding to my texts. Before our first date it was quick even when she was at work. Part of me likes this girl and I should try to make something happen. The other part is telling me this is not worth my time, she seems to not really wanna hang out again and probably doesn't know how to tell me. I don't know if I should just be up front at this point and ask how she feels or just see if she responds at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl a couple weeks ago. We went on a date last Monday and it went really well. At least it did to me. We talked a lot, had a lot of laughs, typical first date stuff. At the end I told her I'd hit her up for another one. She said yea so I figured it was ok. I waited til last Friday to ask her if she was free this week and got no immediate response. Now I'm kind of clingy I guess. I like to hear back from people in a reasonable amount of time. Before the first date we were texting each other pretty frequently. Now it's taken her at least a day to respond to me. The reason I waited til friday to ask is because I knew she was busy with work for the rest of the week. Finally I got to the point of asking if she wanted to go again on Mon/Tue/Wed. She just got back to me tonight saying sorry and she has been busy with work. She also said she can't do anything because of work tomorrow.\n\nI'm not saying she's lying about work. I just kind of have my doubts about her interest in me based on the way she was responding to my texts. Before our first date it was quick even when she was at work. Part of me likes this girl and I should try to make something happen. The other part is telling me this is not worth my time, she seems to not really wanna hang out again and probably doesn't know how to tell me. I don't know if I should just be up front at this point and ask how she feels or just see if she responds at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl a couple weeks ago. We went on a date last Monday and it went really well. At least it did to me. We talked a lot, had a lot of laughs, typical first date stuff. At the end I told her I'd hit her up for another one. She said yea so I figured it was ok. I waited til last Friday to ask her if she was free this week and got no immediate response. Now I'm kind of clingy I guess. I like to hear back from people in a reasonable amount of time. Before the first date we were texting each other pretty frequently. Now it's taken her at least a day to respond to me. The reason I waited til friday to ask is because I knew she was busy with work for the rest of the week. Finally I got to the point of asking if she wanted to go again on Mon/Tue/Wed. She just got back to me tonight saying sorry and she has been busy with work. She also said she can't do anything because of work tomorrow.\n\nI'm not saying she's lying about work. I just kind of have my doubts about her interest in me based on the way she was responding to my texts. Before our first date it was quick even when she was at work. Part of me likes this girl and I should try to make something happen. The other part is telling me this is not worth my time, she seems to not really wanna hang out again and probably doesn't know how to tell me. I don't know if I should just be up front at this point and ask how she feels or just see if she responds at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl a couple weeks ago. We went on a date last Monday and it went really well. At least it did to me. We talked a lot, had a lot of laughs, typical first date stuff. At the end I told her I'd hit her up for another one. She said yea so I figured it was ok. I waited til last Friday to ask her if she was free this week and got no immediate response. Now I'm kind of clingy I guess. I like to hear back from people in a reasonable amount of time. Before the first date we were texting each other pretty frequently. Now it's taken her at least a day to respond to me. The reason I waited til friday to ask is because I knew she was busy with work for the rest of the week. Finally I got to the point of asking if she wanted to go again on Mon/Tue/Wed. She just got back to me tonight saying sorry and she has been busy with work. She also said she can't do anything because of work tomorrow.\n\nI'm not saying she's lying about work. I just kind of have my doubts about her interest in me based on the way she was responding to my texts. Before our first date it was quick even when she was at work. Part of me likes this girl and I should try to make something happen. The other part is telling me this is not worth my time, she seems to not really wanna hang out again and probably doesn't know how to tell me. I don't know if I should just be up front at this point and ask how she feels or just see if she responds at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl a couple weeks ago. We went on a date last Monday and it went really well. At least it did to me. We talked a lot, had a lot of laughs, typical first date stuff. At the end I told her I'd hit her up for another one. She said yea so I figured it was ok. I waited til last Friday to ask her if she was free this week and got no immediate response. Now I'm kind of clingy I guess. I like to hear back from people in a reasonable amount of time. Before the first date we were texting each other pretty frequently. Now it's taken her at least a day to respond to me. The reason I waited til friday to ask is because I knew she was busy with work for the rest of the week. Finally I got to the point of asking if she wanted to go again on Mon/Tue/Wed. She just got back to me tonight saying sorry and she has been busy with work. She also said she can't do anything because of work tomorrow.\n\nI'm not saying she's lying about work. I just kind of have my doubts about her interest in me based on the way she was responding to my texts. Before our first date it was quick even when she was at work. Part of me likes this girl and I should try to make something happen. The other part is telling me this is not worth my time, she seems to not really wanna hang out again and probably doesn't know how to tell me. I don't know if I should just be up front at this point and ask how she feels or just see if she responds at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl a couple weeks ago. We went on a date last Monday and it went really well. At least it did to me. We talked a lot, had a lot of laughs, typical first date stuff. At the end I told her I'd hit her up for another one. She said yea so I figured it was ok. I waited til last Friday to ask her if she was free this week and got no immediate response. Now I'm kind of clingy I guess. I like to hear back from people in a reasonable amount of time. Before the first date we were texting each other pretty frequently. Now it's taken her at least a day to respond to me. The reason I waited til friday to ask is because I knew she was busy with work for the rest of the week. Finally I got to the point of asking if she wanted to go again on Mon/Tue/Wed. She just got back to me tonight saying sorry and she has been busy with work. She also said she can't do anything because of work tomorrow.\n\nI'm not saying she's lying about work. I just kind of have my doubts about her interest in me based on the way she was responding to my texts. Before our first date it was quick even when she was at work. Part of me likes this girl and I should try to make something happen. The other part is telling me this is not worth my time, she seems to not really wanna hang out again and probably doesn't know how to tell me. I don't know if I should just be up front at this point and ask how she feels or just see if she responds at all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we have been lightly discussing marriage. Neither of us are ready for it now but it's been a topic of discussion. He often tells me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.\n\nI've always been very honest about wanting to get married. I even told him I wanted to be engaged within three years. He agreed (that was months ago) although I know marriage was never something he considered important.\n\nNow marriage has been brought up multiple times in the last month (once by him, once by my nosey aunt). Both times he's said things like \"marriage is just a piece of paper\", \"as long as we're in a committed relationship, why does it matter?\". I get upset at this point and he says he messing with me.\n\nHe also says he won't get married till gay people are *not* allowed to get married. I KNOW he's joking about that. We both support equal rights for the LGBT community. \n\nMy concern is we're not on the same page when it comes to our future. We love each other but if we don't want the same things in the future, I'd rather end this now before we hurt each other more. He knows I feel this way. I can't tell if he's serious or not about not getting married. He ends all talks of marriage with \"Have I ever let you down before?\"\n\nWhat do you think? Does he just not know yet what he wants?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we have been lightly discussing marriage. Neither of us are ready for it now but it's been a topic of discussion. He often tells me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.\n\nI've always been very honest about wanting to get married. I even told him I wanted to be engaged within three years. He agreed (that was months ago) although I know marriage was never something he considered important.\n\nNow marriage has been brought up multiple times in the last month (once by him, once by my nosey aunt). Both times he's said things like \"marriage is just a piece of paper\", \"as long as we're in a committed relationship, why does it matter?\". I get upset at this point and he says he messing with me.\n\nHe also says he won't get married till gay people are *not* allowed to get married. I KNOW he's joking about that. We both support equal rights for the LGBT community. \n\nMy concern is we're not on the same page when it comes to our future. We love each other but if we don't want the same things in the future, I'd rather end this now before we hurt each other more. He knows I feel this way. I can't tell if he's serious or not about not getting married. He ends all talks of marriage with \"Have I ever let you down before?\"\n\nWhat do you think? Does he just not know yet what he wants?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we have been lightly discussing marriage. Neither of us are ready for it now but it's been a topic of discussion. He often tells me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.\n\nI've always been very honest about wanting to get married. I even told him I wanted to be engaged within three years. He agreed (that was months ago) although I know marriage was never something he considered important.\n\nNow marriage has been brought up multiple times in the last month (once by him, once by my nosey aunt). Both times he's said things like \"marriage is just a piece of paper\", \"as long as we're in a committed relationship, why does it matter?\". I get upset at this point and he says he messing with me.\n\nHe also says he won't get married till gay people are *not* allowed to get married. I KNOW he's joking about that. We both support equal rights for the LGBT community. \n\nMy concern is we're not on the same page when it comes to our future. We love each other but if we don't want the same things in the future, I'd rather end this now before we hurt each other more. He knows I feel this way. I can't tell if he's serious or not about not getting married. He ends all talks of marriage with \"Have I ever let you down before?\"\n\nWhat do you think? Does he just not know yet what he wants?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we have been lightly discussing marriage. Neither of us are ready for it now but it's been a topic of discussion. He often tells me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.\n\nI've always been very honest about wanting to get married. I even told him I wanted to be engaged within three years. He agreed (that was months ago) although I know marriage was never something he considered important.\n\nNow marriage has been brought up multiple times in the last month (once by him, once by my nosey aunt). Both times he's said things like \"marriage is just a piece of paper\", \"as long as we're in a committed relationship, why does it matter?\". I get upset at this point and he says he messing with me.\n\nHe also says he won't get married till gay people are *not* allowed to get married. I KNOW he's joking about that. We both support equal rights for the LGBT community. \n\nMy concern is we're not on the same page when it comes to our future. We love each other but if we don't want the same things in the future, I'd rather end this now before we hurt each other more. He knows I feel this way. I can't tell if he's serious or not about not getting married. He ends all talks of marriage with \"Have I ever let you down before?\"\n\nWhat do you think? Does he just not know yet what he wants?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we have been lightly discussing marriage. Neither of us are ready for it now but it's been a topic of discussion. He often tells me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.\n\nI've always been very honest about wanting to get married. I even told him I wanted to be engaged within three years. He agreed (that was months ago) although I know marriage was never something he considered important.\n\nNow marriage has been brought up multiple times in the last month (once by him, once by my nosey aunt). Both times he's said things like \"marriage is just a piece of paper\", \"as long as we're in a committed relationship, why does it matter?\". I get upset at this point and he says he messing with me.\n\nHe also says he won't get married till gay people are *not* allowed to get married. I KNOW he's joking about that. We both support equal rights for the LGBT community. \n\nMy concern is we're not on the same page when it comes to our future. We love each other but if we don't want the same things in the future, I'd rather end this now before we hurt each other more. He knows I feel this way. I can't tell if he's serious or not about not getting married. He ends all talks of marriage with \"Have I ever let you down before?\"\n\nWhat do you think? Does he just not know yet what he wants?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we have been lightly discussing marriage. Neither of us are ready for it now but it's been a topic of discussion. He often tells me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.\n\nI've always been very honest about wanting to get married. I even told him I wanted to be engaged within three years. He agreed (that was months ago) although I know marriage was never something he considered important.\n\nNow marriage has been brought up multiple times in the last month (once by him, once by my nosey aunt). Both times he's said things like \"marriage is just a piece of paper\", \"as long as we're in a committed relationship, why does it matter?\". I get upset at this point and he says he messing with me.\n\nHe also says he won't get married till gay people are *not* allowed to get married. I KNOW he's joking about that. We both support equal rights for the LGBT community. \n\nMy concern is we're not on the same page when it comes to our future. We love each other but if we don't want the same things in the future, I'd rather end this now before we hurt each other more. He knows I feel this way. I can't tell if he's serious or not about not getting married. He ends all talks of marriage with \"Have I ever let you down before?\"\n\nWhat do you think? Does he just not know yet what he wants?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, my boyfriend and I have been together over a year. I took him to my high school prom as \"just friends\" (he had graduated the year earlier), and we became closer and have been dating since!\n\nSo, I am going to be a sophomore in college, and he will be a junior. He completed his first two years at community college, and will spend two or three at a four year university. I go to school about half an hour from home, and he'll be about two hours away. Although it doesn't seem far, neither of us will have a car to come visit, and a bus ride to/from his college is actually pretty expensive. He said he thinks he'll be able to come home once a month, but personally I feel like that's wishful thinking and we'll probably be seeing each other once every 2+ months.\n\nI am a person who enjoys the attention of my SO. I don't constantly need it, but I do like to know I can get in touch with them if I needed to (ie not waiting 24+ hours for a reply/call back). He's not necessarily the opposite, but he needs less attention than I do. I feel like it's easy for me to put all the compromising on him (saying that he's the one who CHOSE to go away), but logically I know that him choosing the school he loves really has nothing to do with him choosing to go away, if that makes sense. I guess I'm saying that I don't think he should have gone to a school he didn't love just to be closer to me.\n\nWe've tried to start some discussions, but neither of us has done a long distance relationship before, so we don't know what to expect. We have talked about the possibility that distance might not work, but we both agreed we'd like to try it first.\n\nWe both have a great time together and love each other very much, so I would definitely like to make long distance work! What are things I can do to prepare? How do we make it easier on the both of us and learn to be more accepting of us not seeing each other?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, my boyfriend and I have been together over a year. I took him to my high school prom as \"just friends\" (he had graduated the year earlier), and we became closer and have been dating since!\n\nSo, I am going to be a sophomore in college, and he will be a junior. He completed his first two years at community college, and will spend two or three at a four year university. I go to school about half an hour from home, and he'll be about two hours away. Although it doesn't seem far, neither of us will have a car to come visit, and a bus ride to/from his college is actually pretty expensive. He said he thinks he'll be able to come home once a month, but personally I feel like that's wishful thinking and we'll probably be seeing each other once every 2+ months.\n\nI am a person who enjoys the attention of my SO. I don't constantly need it, but I do like to know I can get in touch with them if I needed to (ie not waiting 24+ hours for a reply/call back). He's not necessarily the opposite, but he needs less attention than I do. I feel like it's easy for me to put all the compromising on him (saying that he's the one who CHOSE to go away), but logically I know that him choosing the school he loves really has nothing to do with him choosing to go away, if that makes sense. I guess I'm saying that I don't think he should have gone to a school he didn't love just to be closer to me.\n\nWe've tried to start some discussions, but neither of us has done a long distance relationship before, so we don't know what to expect. We have talked about the possibility that distance might not work, but we both agreed we'd like to try it first.\n\nWe both have a great time together and love each other very much, so I would definitely like to make long distance work! What are things I can do to prepare? How do we make it easier on the both of us and learn to be more accepting of us not seeing each other?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, my boyfriend and I have been together over a year. I took him to my high school prom as \"just friends\" (he had graduated the year earlier), and we became closer and have been dating since!\n\nSo, I am going to be a sophomore in college, and he will be a junior. He completed his first two years at community college, and will spend two or three at a four year university. I go to school about half an hour from home, and he'll be about two hours away. Although it doesn't seem far, neither of us will have a car to come visit, and a bus ride to/from his college is actually pretty expensive. He said he thinks he'll be able to come home once a month, but personally I feel like that's wishful thinking and we'll probably be seeing each other once every 2+ months.\n\nI am a person who enjoys the attention of my SO. I don't constantly need it, but I do like to know I can get in touch with them if I needed to (ie not waiting 24+ hours for a reply/call back). He's not necessarily the opposite, but he needs less attention than I do. I feel like it's easy for me to put all the compromising on him (saying that he's the one who CHOSE to go away), but logically I know that him choosing the school he loves really has nothing to do with him choosing to go away, if that makes sense. I guess I'm saying that I don't think he should have gone to a school he didn't love just to be closer to me.\n\nWe've tried to start some discussions, but neither of us has done a long distance relationship before, so we don't know what to expect. We have talked about the possibility that distance might not work, but we both agreed we'd like to try it first.\n\nWe both have a great time together and love each other very much, so I would definitely like to make long distance work! What are things I can do to prepare? How do we make it easier on the both of us and learn to be more accepting of us not seeing each other?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, my boyfriend and I have been together over a year. I took him to my high school prom as \"just friends\" (he had graduated the year earlier), and we became closer and have been dating since!\n\nSo, I am going to be a sophomore in college, and he will be a junior. He completed his first two years at community college, and will spend two or three at a four year university. I go to school about half an hour from home, and he'll be about two hours away. Although it doesn't seem far, neither of us will have a car to come visit, and a bus ride to/from his college is actually pretty expensive. He said he thinks he'll be able to come home once a month, but personally I feel like that's wishful thinking and we'll probably be seeing each other once every 2+ months.\n\nI am a person who enjoys the attention of my SO. I don't constantly need it, but I do like to know I can get in touch with them if I needed to (ie not waiting 24+ hours for a reply/call back). He's not necessarily the opposite, but he needs less attention than I do. I feel like it's easy for me to put all the compromising on him (saying that he's the one who CHOSE to go away), but logically I know that him choosing the school he loves really has nothing to do with him choosing to go away, if that makes sense. I guess I'm saying that I don't think he should have gone to a school he didn't love just to be closer to me.\n\nWe've tried to start some discussions, but neither of us has done a long distance relationship before, so we don't know what to expect. We have talked about the possibility that distance might not work, but we both agreed we'd like to try it first.\n\nWe both have a great time together and love each other very much, so I would definitely like to make long distance work! What are things I can do to prepare? How do we make it easier on the both of us and learn to be more accepting of us not seeing each other?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, my boyfriend and I have been together over a year. I took him to my high school prom as \"just friends\" (he had graduated the year earlier), and we became closer and have been dating since!\n\nSo, I am going to be a sophomore in college, and he will be a junior. He completed his first two years at community college, and will spend two or three at a four year university. I go to school about half an hour from home, and he'll be about two hours away. Although it doesn't seem far, neither of us will have a car to come visit, and a bus ride to/from his college is actually pretty expensive. He said he thinks he'll be able to come home once a month, but personally I feel like that's wishful thinking and we'll probably be seeing each other once every 2+ months.\n\nI am a person who enjoys the attention of my SO. I don't constantly need it, but I do like to know I can get in touch with them if I needed to (ie not waiting 24+ hours for a reply/call back). He's not necessarily the opposite, but he needs less attention than I do. I feel like it's easy for me to put all the compromising on him (saying that he's the one who CHOSE to go away), but logically I know that him choosing the school he loves really has nothing to do with him choosing to go away, if that makes sense. I guess I'm saying that I don't think he should have gone to a school he didn't love just to be closer to me.\n\nWe've tried to start some discussions, but neither of us has done a long distance relationship before, so we don't know what to expect. We have talked about the possibility that distance might not work, but we both agreed we'd like to try it first.\n\nWe both have a great time together and love each other very much, so I would definitely like to make long distance work! What are things I can do to prepare? How do we make it easier on the both of us and learn to be more accepting of us not seeing each other?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, my boyfriend and I have been together over a year. I took him to my high school prom as \"just friends\" (he had graduated the year earlier), and we became closer and have been dating since!\n\nSo, I am going to be a sophomore in college, and he will be a junior. He completed his first two years at community college, and will spend two or three at a four year university. I go to school about half an hour from home, and he'll be about two hours away. Although it doesn't seem far, neither of us will have a car to come visit, and a bus ride to/from his college is actually pretty expensive. He said he thinks he'll be able to come home once a month, but personally I feel like that's wishful thinking and we'll probably be seeing each other once every 2+ months.\n\nI am a person who enjoys the attention of my SO. I don't constantly need it, but I do like to know I can get in touch with them if I needed to (ie not waiting 24+ hours for a reply/call back). He's not necessarily the opposite, but he needs less attention than I do. I feel like it's easy for me to put all the compromising on him (saying that he's the one who CHOSE to go away), but logically I know that him choosing the school he loves really has nothing to do with him choosing to go away, if that makes sense. I guess I'm saying that I don't think he should have gone to a school he didn't love just to be closer to me.\n\nWe've tried to start some discussions, but neither of us has done a long distance relationship before, so we don't know what to expect. We have talked about the possibility that distance might not work, but we both agreed we'd like to try it first.\n\nWe both have a great time together and love each other very much, so I would definitely like to make long distance work! What are things I can do to prepare? How do we make it easier on the both of us and learn to be more accepting of us not seeing each other?"
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