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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the scoop:\n\nI booked Vendor A last fall and Vendor A said they would send a few other vendors for potential Vendor B.\n\n8/29 - I sent an email asking for the list of Vendor Bs and didn’t receive a response.\n\n9/22 - No response yet, so I followed up to re-ask for the list.\n\n9/29 - Response received with one potential Vendor B and a commitment to send additional possible Vendor Bs. \n\nI look into Vendor B and it appears they are closely related, possibly even siblings. I ask a couple of other people what they think. They also say they appear to be siblings. Looking at their businesses online they appear to have personal photos of each other on their business pages. There was no disclosure about potential relationship.\n\nIt makes me feel a little funny so I email Vendor A to ask about Vendor B as well as potential other Vendors and to inquire about the relationship. I never received a response.\n\nI already submitted a partial deposit, but its really starting to make me nervous. Like, a lot nervous. Its getting down to be five months and the lack of communication and transparency is just giving me anxiety.\n\nI’ve already booked other Vendor Bs, but I’m wondering if I should go ahead and book another vendor A as well and cut my losses with the deposit.\n\nAnyone? Advice? Am I being a bridezilla here? I think 72 hours is a fair time for turnaround. Disclosure about certain things?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the scoop:\n\nI booked Vendor A last fall and Vendor A said they would send a few other vendors for potential Vendor B.\n\n8/29 - I sent an email asking for the list of Vendor Bs and didn’t receive a response.\n\n9/22 - No response yet, so I followed up to re-ask for the list.\n\n9/29 - Response received with one potential Vendor B and a commitment to send additional possible Vendor Bs. \n\nI look into Vendor B and it appears they are closely related, possibly even siblings. I ask a couple of other people what they think. They also say they appear to be siblings. Looking at their businesses online they appear to have personal photos of each other on their business pages. There was no disclosure about potential relationship.\n\nIt makes me feel a little funny so I email Vendor A to ask about Vendor B as well as potential other Vendors and to inquire about the relationship. I never received a response.\n\nI already submitted a partial deposit, but its really starting to make me nervous. Like, a lot nervous. Its getting down to be five months and the lack of communication and transparency is just giving me anxiety.\n\nI’ve already booked other Vendor Bs, but I’m wondering if I should go ahead and book another vendor A as well and cut my losses with the deposit.\n\nAnyone? Advice? Am I being a bridezilla here? I think 72 hours is a fair time for turnaround. Disclosure about certain things?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the scoop:\n\nI booked Vendor A last fall and Vendor A said they would send a few other vendors for potential Vendor B.\n\n8/29 - I sent an email asking for the list of Vendor Bs and didn’t receive a response.\n\n9/22 - No response yet, so I followed up to re-ask for the list.\n\n9/29 - Response received with one potential Vendor B and a commitment to send additional possible Vendor Bs. \n\nI look into Vendor B and it appears they are closely related, possibly even siblings. I ask a couple of other people what they think. They also say they appear to be siblings. Looking at their businesses online they appear to have personal photos of each other on their business pages. There was no disclosure about potential relationship.\n\nIt makes me feel a little funny so I email Vendor A to ask about Vendor B as well as potential other Vendors and to inquire about the relationship. I never received a response.\n\nI already submitted a partial deposit, but its really starting to make me nervous. Like, a lot nervous. Its getting down to be five months and the lack of communication and transparency is just giving me anxiety.\n\nI’ve already booked other Vendor Bs, but I’m wondering if I should go ahead and book another vendor A as well and cut my losses with the deposit.\n\nAnyone? Advice? Am I being a bridezilla here? I think 72 hours is a fair time for turnaround. Disclosure about certain things?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the scoop:\n\nI booked Vendor A last fall and Vendor A said they would send a few other vendors for potential Vendor B.\n\n8/29 - I sent an email asking for the list of Vendor Bs and didn’t receive a response.\n\n9/22 - No response yet, so I followed up to re-ask for the list.\n\n9/29 - Response received with one potential Vendor B and a commitment to send additional possible Vendor Bs. \n\nI look into Vendor B and it appears they are closely related, possibly even siblings. I ask a couple of other people what they think. They also say they appear to be siblings. Looking at their businesses online they appear to have personal photos of each other on their business pages. There was no disclosure about potential relationship.\n\nIt makes me feel a little funny so I email Vendor A to ask about Vendor B as well as potential other Vendors and to inquire about the relationship. I never received a response.\n\nI already submitted a partial deposit, but its really starting to make me nervous. Like, a lot nervous. Its getting down to be five months and the lack of communication and transparency is just giving me anxiety.\n\nI’ve already booked other Vendor Bs, but I’m wondering if I should go ahead and book another vendor A as well and cut my losses with the deposit.\n\nAnyone? Advice? Am I being a bridezilla here? I think 72 hours is a fair time for turnaround. Disclosure about certain things?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the scoop:\n\nI booked Vendor A last fall and Vendor A said they would send a few other vendors for potential Vendor B.\n\n8/29 - I sent an email asking for the list of Vendor Bs and didn’t receive a response.\n\n9/22 - No response yet, so I followed up to re-ask for the list.\n\n9/29 - Response received with one potential Vendor B and a commitment to send additional possible Vendor Bs. \n\nI look into Vendor B and it appears they are closely related, possibly even siblings. I ask a couple of other people what they think. They also say they appear to be siblings. Looking at their businesses online they appear to have personal photos of each other on their business pages. There was no disclosure about potential relationship.\n\nIt makes me feel a little funny so I email Vendor A to ask about Vendor B as well as potential other Vendors and to inquire about the relationship. I never received a response.\n\nI already submitted a partial deposit, but its really starting to make me nervous. Like, a lot nervous. Its getting down to be five months and the lack of communication and transparency is just giving me anxiety.\n\nI’ve already booked other Vendor Bs, but I’m wondering if I should go ahead and book another vendor A as well and cut my losses with the deposit.\n\nAnyone? Advice? Am I being a bridezilla here? I think 72 hours is a fair time for turnaround. Disclosure about certain things?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the scoop:\n\nI booked Vendor A last fall and Vendor A said they would send a few other vendors for potential Vendor B.\n\n8/29 - I sent an email asking for the list of Vendor Bs and didn’t receive a response.\n\n9/22 - No response yet, so I followed up to re-ask for the list.\n\n9/29 - Response received with one potential Vendor B and a commitment to send additional possible Vendor Bs. \n\nI look into Vendor B and it appears they are closely related, possibly even siblings. I ask a couple of other people what they think. They also say they appear to be siblings. Looking at their businesses online they appear to have personal photos of each other on their business pages. There was no disclosure about potential relationship.\n\nIt makes me feel a little funny so I email Vendor A to ask about Vendor B as well as potential other Vendors and to inquire about the relationship. I never received a response.\n\nI already submitted a partial deposit, but its really starting to make me nervous. Like, a lot nervous. Its getting down to be five months and the lack of communication and transparency is just giving me anxiety.\n\nI’ve already booked other Vendor Bs, but I’m wondering if I should go ahead and book another vendor A as well and cut my losses with the deposit.\n\nAnyone? Advice? Am I being a bridezilla here? I think 72 hours is a fair time for turnaround. Disclosure about certain things?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend Jesse and I have been together for around 3 months, I've known his [30 M] brother Steven for about a year with which we have become very close friends and have been through a lot. About the time I got together with my boyfriend, Steven started to say he had strong feelings for me and that he had been in love with me for a while. \n\nThis makes my boyfriend really angry and he doesn't handle his anger very well, he starts fights with his brother accuses him of things and degrades him. I don't know how I can convince my partner that Me and Steven are friends and just friends only. Steven tells me I should breakup with my jesse because he says he doesnt care about me and is only using me. I really have no idea where i should go from here because i really do not want either of them to fight but i also dont want to not be friends with someone just because my partner thinks its innapropriate if steven likes me more than friends.\n\nI should also add that before me and jessie got together i used to hang out a lot with steven but back then i didnt have any feelings for jessie. Jessie didnt like me hanging out with steven back then and he used to be violent and break his things. i.e computer, headsets, and a big dent in stevens car and a lot of other things too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend Jesse and I have been together for around 3 months, I've known his [30 M] brother Steven for about a year with which we have become very close friends and have been through a lot. About the time I got together with my boyfriend, Steven started to say he had strong feelings for me and that he had been in love with me for a while. \n\nThis makes my boyfriend really angry and he doesn't handle his anger very well, he starts fights with his brother accuses him of things and degrades him. I don't know how I can convince my partner that Me and Steven are friends and just friends only. Steven tells me I should breakup with my jesse because he says he doesnt care about me and is only using me. I really have no idea where i should go from here because i really do not want either of them to fight but i also dont want to not be friends with someone just because my partner thinks its innapropriate if steven likes me more than friends.\n\nI should also add that before me and jessie got together i used to hang out a lot with steven but back then i didnt have any feelings for jessie. Jessie didnt like me hanging out with steven back then and he used to be violent and break his things. i.e computer, headsets, and a big dent in stevens car and a lot of other things too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend Jesse and I have been together for around 3 months, I've known his [30 M] brother Steven for about a year with which we have become very close friends and have been through a lot. About the time I got together with my boyfriend, Steven started to say he had strong feelings for me and that he had been in love with me for a while. \n\nThis makes my boyfriend really angry and he doesn't handle his anger very well, he starts fights with his brother accuses him of things and degrades him. I don't know how I can convince my partner that Me and Steven are friends and just friends only. Steven tells me I should breakup with my jesse because he says he doesnt care about me and is only using me. I really have no idea where i should go from here because i really do not want either of them to fight but i also dont want to not be friends with someone just because my partner thinks its innapropriate if steven likes me more than friends.\n\nI should also add that before me and jessie got together i used to hang out a lot with steven but back then i didnt have any feelings for jessie. Jessie didnt like me hanging out with steven back then and he used to be violent and break his things. i.e computer, headsets, and a big dent in stevens car and a lot of other things too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend Jesse and I have been together for around 3 months, I've known his [30 M] brother Steven for about a year with which we have become very close friends and have been through a lot. About the time I got together with my boyfriend, Steven started to say he had strong feelings for me and that he had been in love with me for a while. \n\nThis makes my boyfriend really angry and he doesn't handle his anger very well, he starts fights with his brother accuses him of things and degrades him. I don't know how I can convince my partner that Me and Steven are friends and just friends only. Steven tells me I should breakup with my jesse because he says he doesnt care about me and is only using me. I really have no idea where i should go from here because i really do not want either of them to fight but i also dont want to not be friends with someone just because my partner thinks its innapropriate if steven likes me more than friends.\n\nI should also add that before me and jessie got together i used to hang out a lot with steven but back then i didnt have any feelings for jessie. Jessie didnt like me hanging out with steven back then and he used to be violent and break his things. i.e computer, headsets, and a big dent in stevens car and a lot of other things too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend Jesse and I have been together for around 3 months, I've known his [30 M] brother Steven for about a year with which we have become very close friends and have been through a lot. About the time I got together with my boyfriend, Steven started to say he had strong feelings for me and that he had been in love with me for a while. \n\nThis makes my boyfriend really angry and he doesn't handle his anger very well, he starts fights with his brother accuses him of things and degrades him. I don't know how I can convince my partner that Me and Steven are friends and just friends only. Steven tells me I should breakup with my jesse because he says he doesnt care about me and is only using me. I really have no idea where i should go from here because i really do not want either of them to fight but i also dont want to not be friends with someone just because my partner thinks its innapropriate if steven likes me more than friends.\n\nI should also add that before me and jessie got together i used to hang out a lot with steven but back then i didnt have any feelings for jessie. Jessie didnt like me hanging out with steven back then and he used to be violent and break his things. i.e computer, headsets, and a big dent in stevens car and a lot of other things too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend Jesse and I have been together for around 3 months, I've known his [30 M] brother Steven for about a year with which we have become very close friends and have been through a lot. About the time I got together with my boyfriend, Steven started to say he had strong feelings for me and that he had been in love with me for a while. \n\nThis makes my boyfriend really angry and he doesn't handle his anger very well, he starts fights with his brother accuses him of things and degrades him. I don't know how I can convince my partner that Me and Steven are friends and just friends only. Steven tells me I should breakup with my jesse because he says he doesnt care about me and is only using me. I really have no idea where i should go from here because i really do not want either of them to fight but i also dont want to not be friends with someone just because my partner thinks its innapropriate if steven likes me more than friends.\n\nI should also add that before me and jessie got together i used to hang out a lot with steven but back then i didnt have any feelings for jessie. Jessie didnt like me hanging out with steven back then and he used to be violent and break his things. i.e computer, headsets, and a big dent in stevens car and a lot of other things too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been dating for a rather short time(about 7-8 months) and get along marvelously. When we first started dating we were in the normal state of sexual bliss (read: sex multiple times a day) and as our relationship continued our sex life diminished somewhat due to his lower sex drive. As a person with a higher sex drive this could sometimes be frustrating but I do my best to understand his view, and we would still have sex once or twice a week. \n\nHowever, we have recently started having some problems in the bedroom, mainly in the form of him *ahem* getting it up. Although this problem presented itself early in the relationship, it never happened more than once a month and therefore really didn't affect our sex life too drastically. However, within the past month and a half, it has become a much more frequent occurrence. As in, we have not been able to have sex for about a month now. I am having trouble coping with this and his lack of interest in me is very discouraging, especially on the occasions I try to initiate things with him.\n\nAs his girlfriend I understand that this is completely beyond his control. As a woman however it is frustrating to see someone I love and am sexually attracted show no physical attraction for me. I have tried on several occasions to talk to him about this but I always end up feeling like the bad guy when he says it's not his fault. It has begun to put a strain on our relationship because I am becoming sexually frustrated with him and he does not seem to be doing anything to try to fix this situation(going to the doctor, getting in shape, talking about it to me etc). \n\nIs it unreasonable for me to ask him to seek help for this? And if it isn't how can I push him to go to the doctor or even talk to me about this? I want to be there for him but he's not talking to me about it. Also if anyone has gone through this and knows a way this could be remedied please share, I am out of my depths with this one!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been dating for a rather short time(about 7-8 months) and get along marvelously. When we first started dating we were in the normal state of sexual bliss (read: sex multiple times a day) and as our relationship continued our sex life diminished somewhat due to his lower sex drive. As a person with a higher sex drive this could sometimes be frustrating but I do my best to understand his view, and we would still have sex once or twice a week. \n\nHowever, we have recently started having some problems in the bedroom, mainly in the form of him *ahem* getting it up. Although this problem presented itself early in the relationship, it never happened more than once a month and therefore really didn't affect our sex life too drastically. However, within the past month and a half, it has become a much more frequent occurrence. As in, we have not been able to have sex for about a month now. I am having trouble coping with this and his lack of interest in me is very discouraging, especially on the occasions I try to initiate things with him.\n\nAs his girlfriend I understand that this is completely beyond his control. As a woman however it is frustrating to see someone I love and am sexually attracted show no physical attraction for me. I have tried on several occasions to talk to him about this but I always end up feeling like the bad guy when he says it's not his fault. It has begun to put a strain on our relationship because I am becoming sexually frustrated with him and he does not seem to be doing anything to try to fix this situation(going to the doctor, getting in shape, talking about it to me etc). \n\nIs it unreasonable for me to ask him to seek help for this? And if it isn't how can I push him to go to the doctor or even talk to me about this? I want to be there for him but he's not talking to me about it. Also if anyone has gone through this and knows a way this could be remedied please share, I am out of my depths with this one!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been dating for a rather short time(about 7-8 months) and get along marvelously. When we first started dating we were in the normal state of sexual bliss (read: sex multiple times a day) and as our relationship continued our sex life diminished somewhat due to his lower sex drive. As a person with a higher sex drive this could sometimes be frustrating but I do my best to understand his view, and we would still have sex once or twice a week. \n\nHowever, we have recently started having some problems in the bedroom, mainly in the form of him *ahem* getting it up. Although this problem presented itself early in the relationship, it never happened more than once a month and therefore really didn't affect our sex life too drastically. However, within the past month and a half, it has become a much more frequent occurrence. As in, we have not been able to have sex for about a month now. I am having trouble coping with this and his lack of interest in me is very discouraging, especially on the occasions I try to initiate things with him.\n\nAs his girlfriend I understand that this is completely beyond his control. As a woman however it is frustrating to see someone I love and am sexually attracted show no physical attraction for me. I have tried on several occasions to talk to him about this but I always end up feeling like the bad guy when he says it's not his fault. It has begun to put a strain on our relationship because I am becoming sexually frustrated with him and he does not seem to be doing anything to try to fix this situation(going to the doctor, getting in shape, talking about it to me etc). \n\nIs it unreasonable for me to ask him to seek help for this? And if it isn't how can I push him to go to the doctor or even talk to me about this? I want to be there for him but he's not talking to me about it. Also if anyone has gone through this and knows a way this could be remedied please share, I am out of my depths with this one!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been dating for a rather short time(about 7-8 months) and get along marvelously. When we first started dating we were in the normal state of sexual bliss (read: sex multiple times a day) and as our relationship continued our sex life diminished somewhat due to his lower sex drive. As a person with a higher sex drive this could sometimes be frustrating but I do my best to understand his view, and we would still have sex once or twice a week. \n\nHowever, we have recently started having some problems in the bedroom, mainly in the form of him *ahem* getting it up. Although this problem presented itself early in the relationship, it never happened more than once a month and therefore really didn't affect our sex life too drastically. However, within the past month and a half, it has become a much more frequent occurrence. As in, we have not been able to have sex for about a month now. I am having trouble coping with this and his lack of interest in me is very discouraging, especially on the occasions I try to initiate things with him.\n\nAs his girlfriend I understand that this is completely beyond his control. As a woman however it is frustrating to see someone I love and am sexually attracted show no physical attraction for me. I have tried on several occasions to talk to him about this but I always end up feeling like the bad guy when he says it's not his fault. It has begun to put a strain on our relationship because I am becoming sexually frustrated with him and he does not seem to be doing anything to try to fix this situation(going to the doctor, getting in shape, talking about it to me etc). \n\nIs it unreasonable for me to ask him to seek help for this? And if it isn't how can I push him to go to the doctor or even talk to me about this? I want to be there for him but he's not talking to me about it. Also if anyone has gone through this and knows a way this could be remedied please share, I am out of my depths with this one!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been dating for a rather short time(about 7-8 months) and get along marvelously. When we first started dating we were in the normal state of sexual bliss (read: sex multiple times a day) and as our relationship continued our sex life diminished somewhat due to his lower sex drive. As a person with a higher sex drive this could sometimes be frustrating but I do my best to understand his view, and we would still have sex once or twice a week. \n\nHowever, we have recently started having some problems in the bedroom, mainly in the form of him *ahem* getting it up. Although this problem presented itself early in the relationship, it never happened more than once a month and therefore really didn't affect our sex life too drastically. However, within the past month and a half, it has become a much more frequent occurrence. As in, we have not been able to have sex for about a month now. I am having trouble coping with this and his lack of interest in me is very discouraging, especially on the occasions I try to initiate things with him.\n\nAs his girlfriend I understand that this is completely beyond his control. As a woman however it is frustrating to see someone I love and am sexually attracted show no physical attraction for me. I have tried on several occasions to talk to him about this but I always end up feeling like the bad guy when he says it's not his fault. It has begun to put a strain on our relationship because I am becoming sexually frustrated with him and he does not seem to be doing anything to try to fix this situation(going to the doctor, getting in shape, talking about it to me etc). \n\nIs it unreasonable for me to ask him to seek help for this? And if it isn't how can I push him to go to the doctor or even talk to me about this? I want to be there for him but he's not talking to me about it. Also if anyone has gone through this and knows a way this could be remedied please share, I am out of my depths with this one!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit.\n\nMy boyfriend and I have been dating for a rather short time(about 7-8 months) and get along marvelously. When we first started dating we were in the normal state of sexual bliss (read: sex multiple times a day) and as our relationship continued our sex life diminished somewhat due to his lower sex drive. As a person with a higher sex drive this could sometimes be frustrating but I do my best to understand his view, and we would still have sex once or twice a week. \n\nHowever, we have recently started having some problems in the bedroom, mainly in the form of him *ahem* getting it up. Although this problem presented itself early in the relationship, it never happened more than once a month and therefore really didn't affect our sex life too drastically. However, within the past month and a half, it has become a much more frequent occurrence. As in, we have not been able to have sex for about a month now. I am having trouble coping with this and his lack of interest in me is very discouraging, especially on the occasions I try to initiate things with him.\n\nAs his girlfriend I understand that this is completely beyond his control. As a woman however it is frustrating to see someone I love and am sexually attracted show no physical attraction for me. I have tried on several occasions to talk to him about this but I always end up feeling like the bad guy when he says it's not his fault. It has begun to put a strain on our relationship because I am becoming sexually frustrated with him and he does not seem to be doing anything to try to fix this situation(going to the doctor, getting in shape, talking about it to me etc). \n\nIs it unreasonable for me to ask him to seek help for this? And if it isn't how can I push him to go to the doctor or even talk to me about this? I want to be there for him but he's not talking to me about it. Also if anyone has gone through this and knows a way this could be remedied please share, I am out of my depths with this one!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm an only child, in my 20s. Whenever something good happens or I accomplish something, my parents heap on loads and loads of praise (my mother especially). In my head, it's wrong to feel uncomfortable with it, because obviously people should feel grateful they're getting complimented.\n\nBut, there's still a part of me that wants to say, \"You don't have to keep saying you're proud of me\" - especially as I'm aging into adulthood. I'd love some honest takes on how someone can communicate this sentiment from a position of love and gratitude, while still getting across the fact the praise is unnecessary."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm an only child, in my 20s. Whenever something good happens or I accomplish something, my parents heap on loads and loads of praise (my mother especially). In my head, it's wrong to feel uncomfortable with it, because obviously people should feel grateful they're getting complimented.\n\nBut, there's still a part of me that wants to say, \"You don't have to keep saying you're proud of me\" - especially as I'm aging into adulthood. I'd love some honest takes on how someone can communicate this sentiment from a position of love and gratitude, while still getting across the fact the praise is unnecessary."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm an only child, in my 20s. Whenever something good happens or I accomplish something, my parents heap on loads and loads of praise (my mother especially). In my head, it's wrong to feel uncomfortable with it, because obviously people should feel grateful they're getting complimented.\n\nBut, there's still a part of me that wants to say, \"You don't have to keep saying you're proud of me\" - especially as I'm aging into adulthood. I'd love some honest takes on how someone can communicate this sentiment from a position of love and gratitude, while still getting across the fact the praise is unnecessary."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm an only child, in my 20s. Whenever something good happens or I accomplish something, my parents heap on loads and loads of praise (my mother especially). In my head, it's wrong to feel uncomfortable with it, because obviously people should feel grateful they're getting complimented.\n\nBut, there's still a part of me that wants to say, \"You don't have to keep saying you're proud of me\" - especially as I'm aging into adulthood. I'd love some honest takes on how someone can communicate this sentiment from a position of love and gratitude, while still getting across the fact the praise is unnecessary."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm an only child, in my 20s. Whenever something good happens or I accomplish something, my parents heap on loads and loads of praise (my mother especially). In my head, it's wrong to feel uncomfortable with it, because obviously people should feel grateful they're getting complimented.\n\nBut, there's still a part of me that wants to say, \"You don't have to keep saying you're proud of me\" - especially as I'm aging into adulthood. I'd love some honest takes on how someone can communicate this sentiment from a position of love and gratitude, while still getting across the fact the praise is unnecessary."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm an only child, in my 20s. Whenever something good happens or I accomplish something, my parents heap on loads and loads of praise (my mother especially). In my head, it's wrong to feel uncomfortable with it, because obviously people should feel grateful they're getting complimented.\n\nBut, there's still a part of me that wants to say, \"You don't have to keep saying you're proud of me\" - especially as I'm aging into adulthood. I'd love some honest takes on how someone can communicate this sentiment from a position of love and gratitude, while still getting across the fact the praise is unnecessary."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met on OKC in December and first met in early January. We immediately had a really strong connection (to the point where even though our first meeting was supposed to be at noon on a Saturday, we couldn't wait that long and I drove 2 hours to her at 5 AM that morning). \n\nWe quickly realized we have a chance at something really serious and really long-term, so we agreed that our best course of action was to take things slowly and casually, not rushing anything (because she still has 2 years of school, and I'm working a lot to save money, etc.). \n\nThe thing is, she has always had a very negative opinion about herself. She is literally the most beautiful girl I've ever seen, and I still sometimes can't believe she's mine, but she just doesn't see that about herself. I really, really want to express to her how amazing she is, but I really don't want to do anything that can be construed as \"too fast\" or \"too serious\" (I've got a relationship track record of, ahem, moving a little fast). I never want to make those mistakes again. \n\nCan any women out there offer some insight into how I can make her feel good about herself? I know that I may not be able to do much to significantly turn her self-esteem around, but I just really want to make sure she knows how I see her without making things too serious.\n\nThanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met on OKC in December and first met in early January. We immediately had a really strong connection (to the point where even though our first meeting was supposed to be at noon on a Saturday, we couldn't wait that long and I drove 2 hours to her at 5 AM that morning). \n\nWe quickly realized we have a chance at something really serious and really long-term, so we agreed that our best course of action was to take things slowly and casually, not rushing anything (because she still has 2 years of school, and I'm working a lot to save money, etc.). \n\nThe thing is, she has always had a very negative opinion about herself. She is literally the most beautiful girl I've ever seen, and I still sometimes can't believe she's mine, but she just doesn't see that about herself. I really, really want to express to her how amazing she is, but I really don't want to do anything that can be construed as \"too fast\" or \"too serious\" (I've got a relationship track record of, ahem, moving a little fast). I never want to make those mistakes again. \n\nCan any women out there offer some insight into how I can make her feel good about herself? I know that I may not be able to do much to significantly turn her self-esteem around, but I just really want to make sure she knows how I see her without making things too serious.\n\nThanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met on OKC in December and first met in early January. We immediately had a really strong connection (to the point where even though our first meeting was supposed to be at noon on a Saturday, we couldn't wait that long and I drove 2 hours to her at 5 AM that morning). \n\nWe quickly realized we have a chance at something really serious and really long-term, so we agreed that our best course of action was to take things slowly and casually, not rushing anything (because she still has 2 years of school, and I'm working a lot to save money, etc.). \n\nThe thing is, she has always had a very negative opinion about herself. She is literally the most beautiful girl I've ever seen, and I still sometimes can't believe she's mine, but she just doesn't see that about herself. I really, really want to express to her how amazing she is, but I really don't want to do anything that can be construed as \"too fast\" or \"too serious\" (I've got a relationship track record of, ahem, moving a little fast). I never want to make those mistakes again. \n\nCan any women out there offer some insight into how I can make her feel good about herself? I know that I may not be able to do much to significantly turn her self-esteem around, but I just really want to make sure she knows how I see her without making things too serious.\n\nThanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met on OKC in December and first met in early January. We immediately had a really strong connection (to the point where even though our first meeting was supposed to be at noon on a Saturday, we couldn't wait that long and I drove 2 hours to her at 5 AM that morning). \n\nWe quickly realized we have a chance at something really serious and really long-term, so we agreed that our best course of action was to take things slowly and casually, not rushing anything (because she still has 2 years of school, and I'm working a lot to save money, etc.). \n\nThe thing is, she has always had a very negative opinion about herself. She is literally the most beautiful girl I've ever seen, and I still sometimes can't believe she's mine, but she just doesn't see that about herself. I really, really want to express to her how amazing she is, but I really don't want to do anything that can be construed as \"too fast\" or \"too serious\" (I've got a relationship track record of, ahem, moving a little fast). I never want to make those mistakes again. \n\nCan any women out there offer some insight into how I can make her feel good about herself? I know that I may not be able to do much to significantly turn her self-esteem around, but I just really want to make sure she knows how I see her without making things too serious.\n\nThanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met on OKC in December and first met in early January. We immediately had a really strong connection (to the point where even though our first meeting was supposed to be at noon on a Saturday, we couldn't wait that long and I drove 2 hours to her at 5 AM that morning). \n\nWe quickly realized we have a chance at something really serious and really long-term, so we agreed that our best course of action was to take things slowly and casually, not rushing anything (because she still has 2 years of school, and I'm working a lot to save money, etc.). \n\nThe thing is, she has always had a very negative opinion about herself. She is literally the most beautiful girl I've ever seen, and I still sometimes can't believe she's mine, but she just doesn't see that about herself. I really, really want to express to her how amazing she is, but I really don't want to do anything that can be construed as \"too fast\" or \"too serious\" (I've got a relationship track record of, ahem, moving a little fast). I never want to make those mistakes again. \n\nCan any women out there offer some insight into how I can make her feel good about herself? I know that I may not be able to do much to significantly turn her self-esteem around, but I just really want to make sure she knows how I see her without making things too serious.\n\nThanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met on OKC in December and first met in early January. We immediately had a really strong connection (to the point where even though our first meeting was supposed to be at noon on a Saturday, we couldn't wait that long and I drove 2 hours to her at 5 AM that morning). \n\nWe quickly realized we have a chance at something really serious and really long-term, so we agreed that our best course of action was to take things slowly and casually, not rushing anything (because she still has 2 years of school, and I'm working a lot to save money, etc.). \n\nThe thing is, she has always had a very negative opinion about herself. She is literally the most beautiful girl I've ever seen, and I still sometimes can't believe she's mine, but she just doesn't see that about herself. I really, really want to express to her how amazing she is, but I really don't want to do anything that can be construed as \"too fast\" or \"too serious\" (I've got a relationship track record of, ahem, moving a little fast). I never want to make those mistakes again. \n\nCan any women out there offer some insight into how I can make her feel good about herself? I know that I may not be able to do much to significantly turn her self-esteem around, but I just really want to make sure she knows how I see her without making things too serious.\n\nThanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Im in my mid 20s, and a few years ago I started a business and overworked my hands. This lead to me having tendinitis.\n\nI rested for a few months and got back into working with my hands (typing) but alas it has come back and I think I should just stop having false hope that I can keep working in the line of work that involves typing all day every.\n\nIm also going to try voice recognition systems like blind people use, but I cant say that I feel comfortable relying on these to carry me through my career-Id prefer to just switch careers and not have to type a lot period.\n\nWhat do you guys think I should do with my career?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Im in my mid 20s, and a few years ago I started a business and overworked my hands. This lead to me having tendinitis.\n\nI rested for a few months and got back into working with my hands (typing) but alas it has come back and I think I should just stop having false hope that I can keep working in the line of work that involves typing all day every.\n\nIm also going to try voice recognition systems like blind people use, but I cant say that I feel comfortable relying on these to carry me through my career-Id prefer to just switch careers and not have to type a lot period.\n\nWhat do you guys think I should do with my career?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Im in my mid 20s, and a few years ago I started a business and overworked my hands. This lead to me having tendinitis.\n\nI rested for a few months and got back into working with my hands (typing) but alas it has come back and I think I should just stop having false hope that I can keep working in the line of work that involves typing all day every.\n\nIm also going to try voice recognition systems like blind people use, but I cant say that I feel comfortable relying on these to carry me through my career-Id prefer to just switch careers and not have to type a lot period.\n\nWhat do you guys think I should do with my career?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Im in my mid 20s, and a few years ago I started a business and overworked my hands. This lead to me having tendinitis.\n\nI rested for a few months and got back into working with my hands (typing) but alas it has come back and I think I should just stop having false hope that I can keep working in the line of work that involves typing all day every.\n\nIm also going to try voice recognition systems like blind people use, but I cant say that I feel comfortable relying on these to carry me through my career-Id prefer to just switch careers and not have to type a lot period.\n\nWhat do you guys think I should do with my career?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Im in my mid 20s, and a few years ago I started a business and overworked my hands. This lead to me having tendinitis.\n\nI rested for a few months and got back into working with my hands (typing) but alas it has come back and I think I should just stop having false hope that I can keep working in the line of work that involves typing all day every.\n\nIm also going to try voice recognition systems like blind people use, but I cant say that I feel comfortable relying on these to carry me through my career-Id prefer to just switch careers and not have to type a lot period.\n\nWhat do you guys think I should do with my career?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Im in my mid 20s, and a few years ago I started a business and overworked my hands. This lead to me having tendinitis.\n\nI rested for a few months and got back into working with my hands (typing) but alas it has come back and I think I should just stop having false hope that I can keep working in the line of work that involves typing all day every.\n\nIm also going to try voice recognition systems like blind people use, but I cant say that I feel comfortable relying on these to carry me through my career-Id prefer to just switch careers and not have to type a lot period.\n\nWhat do you guys think I should do with my career?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello!\n\nSo here is my story. 22M I haven't done a half marathon or more in over a year. Between 2010-2014 I did 1 full marathon and 4 halfs. The past year I was in a weird place in fitness because I lived in India for a while then gained a lot of weight when I came back.\n\nI have been training for this half marathon for about 8 weeks. But the longest length I ran was only 7 miles (3 weeks ago). The past 10 days I haven't run at all due to being hopsitalized and very sick on coming home (not a physical injury). \n\nNow my race is a few days away. I feel very unprepared. But it's non-refundable. I knew I would do poorly on it and probably hit 3 hours. I want to do it and then continue training for another half in a few months. But I am also worried that since I am already not super prepared for it that the strain of finishing will push me back into being sick."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello!\n\nSo here is my story. 22M I haven't done a half marathon or more in over a year. Between 2010-2014 I did 1 full marathon and 4 halfs. The past year I was in a weird place in fitness because I lived in India for a while then gained a lot of weight when I came back.\n\nI have been training for this half marathon for about 8 weeks. But the longest length I ran was only 7 miles (3 weeks ago). The past 10 days I haven't run at all due to being hopsitalized and very sick on coming home (not a physical injury). \n\nNow my race is a few days away. I feel very unprepared. But it's non-refundable. I knew I would do poorly on it and probably hit 3 hours. I want to do it and then continue training for another half in a few months. But I am also worried that since I am already not super prepared for it that the strain of finishing will push me back into being sick."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello!\n\nSo here is my story. 22M I haven't done a half marathon or more in over a year. Between 2010-2014 I did 1 full marathon and 4 halfs. The past year I was in a weird place in fitness because I lived in India for a while then gained a lot of weight when I came back.\n\nI have been training for this half marathon for about 8 weeks. But the longest length I ran was only 7 miles (3 weeks ago). The past 10 days I haven't run at all due to being hopsitalized and very sick on coming home (not a physical injury). \n\nNow my race is a few days away. I feel very unprepared. But it's non-refundable. I knew I would do poorly on it and probably hit 3 hours. I want to do it and then continue training for another half in a few months. But I am also worried that since I am already not super prepared for it that the strain of finishing will push me back into being sick."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello!\n\nSo here is my story. 22M I haven't done a half marathon or more in over a year. Between 2010-2014 I did 1 full marathon and 4 halfs. The past year I was in a weird place in fitness because I lived in India for a while then gained a lot of weight when I came back.\n\nI have been training for this half marathon for about 8 weeks. But the longest length I ran was only 7 miles (3 weeks ago). The past 10 days I haven't run at all due to being hopsitalized and very sick on coming home (not a physical injury). \n\nNow my race is a few days away. I feel very unprepared. But it's non-refundable. I knew I would do poorly on it and probably hit 3 hours. I want to do it and then continue training for another half in a few months. But I am also worried that since I am already not super prepared for it that the strain of finishing will push me back into being sick."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello!\n\nSo here is my story. 22M I haven't done a half marathon or more in over a year. Between 2010-2014 I did 1 full marathon and 4 halfs. The past year I was in a weird place in fitness because I lived in India for a while then gained a lot of weight when I came back.\n\nI have been training for this half marathon for about 8 weeks. But the longest length I ran was only 7 miles (3 weeks ago). The past 10 days I haven't run at all due to being hopsitalized and very sick on coming home (not a physical injury). \n\nNow my race is a few days away. I feel very unprepared. But it's non-refundable. I knew I would do poorly on it and probably hit 3 hours. I want to do it and then continue training for another half in a few months. But I am also worried that since I am already not super prepared for it that the strain of finishing will push me back into being sick."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello!\n\nSo here is my story. 22M I haven't done a half marathon or more in over a year. Between 2010-2014 I did 1 full marathon and 4 halfs. The past year I was in a weird place in fitness because I lived in India for a while then gained a lot of weight when I came back.\n\nI have been training for this half marathon for about 8 weeks. But the longest length I ran was only 7 miles (3 weeks ago). The past 10 days I haven't run at all due to being hopsitalized and very sick on coming home (not a physical injury). \n\nNow my race is a few days away. I feel very unprepared. But it's non-refundable. I knew I would do poorly on it and probably hit 3 hours. I want to do it and then continue training for another half in a few months. But I am also worried that since I am already not super prepared for it that the strain of finishing will push me back into being sick."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello redditors!\n\nAny help/advice/responses would be appreciated.\n\nBack in August, I had a couple seizures (both in the same day, the second one was a grand mal)-also the very first time I've ever had a seizure. After spending a few days in the hospital and having all the tests and such done and talking to a neurologist, it was decided that I shouldn't need to go on medication unless it happens again. At first it was believed that I was sleep-deprived and that's what triggered the seizure(s). After having a neurologist look at my MRI and such, I have what is called Gray Matter Heterotopia.\n\nAnyway.on March 29th (Tuesday morning) I had another seizure. It wasn't fully witnessed but it was extremely similar to what happened back in August; I was walking around all drunk-like, my brother said it was like I was getting ready to go to school-but I have absolutely no recollection of this. I have an appointment with a neurologist in a couple weeks, but I have a few questions for those who have \"experience\" or are knowledgeable on the topic. My first question being; is it normal after a seizure to feel sad/depressed/bummed out? It's been a few days and I feel like crap. Another question I have would be a generalized medication-related question. I'm not sure anyone would be able to answer it, but what sort of meds are used to treat seizures similar to what I have described? Side effects worry me, maybe I shouldn't be worrying so much, but it'd help if anyone had any insight or experience/advice/knowledge/anything that would put my mind at ease."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello redditors!\n\nAny help/advice/responses would be appreciated.\n\nBack in August, I had a couple seizures (both in the same day, the second one was a grand mal)-also the very first time I've ever had a seizure. After spending a few days in the hospital and having all the tests and such done and talking to a neurologist, it was decided that I shouldn't need to go on medication unless it happens again. At first it was believed that I was sleep-deprived and that's what triggered the seizure(s). After having a neurologist look at my MRI and such, I have what is called Gray Matter Heterotopia.\n\nAnyway.on March 29th (Tuesday morning) I had another seizure. It wasn't fully witnessed but it was extremely similar to what happened back in August; I was walking around all drunk-like, my brother said it was like I was getting ready to go to school-but I have absolutely no recollection of this. I have an appointment with a neurologist in a couple weeks, but I have a few questions for those who have \"experience\" or are knowledgeable on the topic. My first question being; is it normal after a seizure to feel sad/depressed/bummed out? It's been a few days and I feel like crap. Another question I have would be a generalized medication-related question. I'm not sure anyone would be able to answer it, but what sort of meds are used to treat seizures similar to what I have described? Side effects worry me, maybe I shouldn't be worrying so much, but it'd help if anyone had any insight or experience/advice/knowledge/anything that would put my mind at ease."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello redditors!\n\nAny help/advice/responses would be appreciated.\n\nBack in August, I had a couple seizures (both in the same day, the second one was a grand mal)-also the very first time I've ever had a seizure. After spending a few days in the hospital and having all the tests and such done and talking to a neurologist, it was decided that I shouldn't need to go on medication unless it happens again. At first it was believed that I was sleep-deprived and that's what triggered the seizure(s). After having a neurologist look at my MRI and such, I have what is called Gray Matter Heterotopia.\n\nAnyway.on March 29th (Tuesday morning) I had another seizure. It wasn't fully witnessed but it was extremely similar to what happened back in August; I was walking around all drunk-like, my brother said it was like I was getting ready to go to school-but I have absolutely no recollection of this. I have an appointment with a neurologist in a couple weeks, but I have a few questions for those who have \"experience\" or are knowledgeable on the topic. My first question being; is it normal after a seizure to feel sad/depressed/bummed out? It's been a few days and I feel like crap. Another question I have would be a generalized medication-related question. I'm not sure anyone would be able to answer it, but what sort of meds are used to treat seizures similar to what I have described? Side effects worry me, maybe I shouldn't be worrying so much, but it'd help if anyone had any insight or experience/advice/knowledge/anything that would put my mind at ease."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello redditors!\n\nAny help/advice/responses would be appreciated.\n\nBack in August, I had a couple seizures (both in the same day, the second one was a grand mal)-also the very first time I've ever had a seizure. After spending a few days in the hospital and having all the tests and such done and talking to a neurologist, it was decided that I shouldn't need to go on medication unless it happens again. At first it was believed that I was sleep-deprived and that's what triggered the seizure(s). After having a neurologist look at my MRI and such, I have what is called Gray Matter Heterotopia.\n\nAnyway.on March 29th (Tuesday morning) I had another seizure. It wasn't fully witnessed but it was extremely similar to what happened back in August; I was walking around all drunk-like, my brother said it was like I was getting ready to go to school-but I have absolutely no recollection of this. I have an appointment with a neurologist in a couple weeks, but I have a few questions for those who have \"experience\" or are knowledgeable on the topic. My first question being; is it normal after a seizure to feel sad/depressed/bummed out? It's been a few days and I feel like crap. Another question I have would be a generalized medication-related question. I'm not sure anyone would be able to answer it, but what sort of meds are used to treat seizures similar to what I have described? Side effects worry me, maybe I shouldn't be worrying so much, but it'd help if anyone had any insight or experience/advice/knowledge/anything that would put my mind at ease."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello redditors!\n\nAny help/advice/responses would be appreciated.\n\nBack in August, I had a couple seizures (both in the same day, the second one was a grand mal)-also the very first time I've ever had a seizure. After spending a few days in the hospital and having all the tests and such done and talking to a neurologist, it was decided that I shouldn't need to go on medication unless it happens again. At first it was believed that I was sleep-deprived and that's what triggered the seizure(s). After having a neurologist look at my MRI and such, I have what is called Gray Matter Heterotopia.\n\nAnyway.on March 29th (Tuesday morning) I had another seizure. It wasn't fully witnessed but it was extremely similar to what happened back in August; I was walking around all drunk-like, my brother said it was like I was getting ready to go to school-but I have absolutely no recollection of this. I have an appointment with a neurologist in a couple weeks, but I have a few questions for those who have \"experience\" or are knowledgeable on the topic. My first question being; is it normal after a seizure to feel sad/depressed/bummed out? It's been a few days and I feel like crap. Another question I have would be a generalized medication-related question. I'm not sure anyone would be able to answer it, but what sort of meds are used to treat seizures similar to what I have described? Side effects worry me, maybe I shouldn't be worrying so much, but it'd help if anyone had any insight or experience/advice/knowledge/anything that would put my mind at ease."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello redditors!\n\nAny help/advice/responses would be appreciated.\n\nBack in August, I had a couple seizures (both in the same day, the second one was a grand mal)-also the very first time I've ever had a seizure. After spending a few days in the hospital and having all the tests and such done and talking to a neurologist, it was decided that I shouldn't need to go on medication unless it happens again. At first it was believed that I was sleep-deprived and that's what triggered the seizure(s). After having a neurologist look at my MRI and such, I have what is called Gray Matter Heterotopia.\n\nAnyway.on March 29th (Tuesday morning) I had another seizure. It wasn't fully witnessed but it was extremely similar to what happened back in August; I was walking around all drunk-like, my brother said it was like I was getting ready to go to school-but I have absolutely no recollection of this. I have an appointment with a neurologist in a couple weeks, but I have a few questions for those who have \"experience\" or are knowledgeable on the topic. My first question being; is it normal after a seizure to feel sad/depressed/bummed out? It's been a few days and I feel like crap. Another question I have would be a generalized medication-related question. I'm not sure anyone would be able to answer it, but what sort of meds are used to treat seizures similar to what I have described? Side effects worry me, maybe I shouldn't be worrying so much, but it'd help if anyone had any insight or experience/advice/knowledge/anything that would put my mind at ease."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so here goes my story.\n\nIt has been a while since I have been in the dating world. I have a 7 yr old and have been concentrating on him up until now but have decided it is time to get back on the horse.\n\nSo I joined an online dating site and started talking to a bloke. He was really nice and we exchanged numbers. He then messages me to ask me out on a date. \n\nSo date one I thought went well. We were never short of conversation and the time went really fast. So I messaged him the next evening and asked if he would like to come for tea one night that week.\n\nI got back a msg saying yes but he would have to wait and check his schedule. So immediately that set off alarm bells in my head and I assumed that was a polite way of brushing me off. I honestly thought I wouldn't hear from him again.\n\nLow and behold a few days later I got a msg from him asking if I wanted to have dinner with him the following night. Again that went well, conversation flowed nicely, all that jazz.\n\nSo I msg'd him the following day and said how nice it was to have dinner with him and hopes he has a nice day. I got nothing back that day or for the next two days after. So again I'm thinking he is not into me.\n\nIn a vain hope I decided to send one last msg (I am one of these people who prefer people to be up front) and just asked if everything was ok. Again nothing for that day. Then the following afternoon I got one back saying so sorry been busy etc.\n\nSo I then I thought maybe he wasn't trying to blow me off. I honestly don't know. \n\nI wonder if maybe he is too polite to say go away (although I would prefer it). I need some outsiders help cause I don't want to be the pshyco chick that doesn't get the hint.\n\nAny advice is definately welcome!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so here goes my story.\n\nIt has been a while since I have been in the dating world. I have a 7 yr old and have been concentrating on him up until now but have decided it is time to get back on the horse.\n\nSo I joined an online dating site and started talking to a bloke. He was really nice and we exchanged numbers. He then messages me to ask me out on a date. \n\nSo date one I thought went well. We were never short of conversation and the time went really fast. So I messaged him the next evening and asked if he would like to come for tea one night that week.\n\nI got back a msg saying yes but he would have to wait and check his schedule. So immediately that set off alarm bells in my head and I assumed that was a polite way of brushing me off. I honestly thought I wouldn't hear from him again.\n\nLow and behold a few days later I got a msg from him asking if I wanted to have dinner with him the following night. Again that went well, conversation flowed nicely, all that jazz.\n\nSo I msg'd him the following day and said how nice it was to have dinner with him and hopes he has a nice day. I got nothing back that day or for the next two days after. So again I'm thinking he is not into me.\n\nIn a vain hope I decided to send one last msg (I am one of these people who prefer people to be up front) and just asked if everything was ok. Again nothing for that day. Then the following afternoon I got one back saying so sorry been busy etc.\n\nSo I then I thought maybe he wasn't trying to blow me off. I honestly don't know. \n\nI wonder if maybe he is too polite to say go away (although I would prefer it). I need some outsiders help cause I don't want to be the pshyco chick that doesn't get the hint.\n\nAny advice is definately welcome!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so here goes my story.\n\nIt has been a while since I have been in the dating world. I have a 7 yr old and have been concentrating on him up until now but have decided it is time to get back on the horse.\n\nSo I joined an online dating site and started talking to a bloke. He was really nice and we exchanged numbers. He then messages me to ask me out on a date. \n\nSo date one I thought went well. We were never short of conversation and the time went really fast. So I messaged him the next evening and asked if he would like to come for tea one night that week.\n\nI got back a msg saying yes but he would have to wait and check his schedule. So immediately that set off alarm bells in my head and I assumed that was a polite way of brushing me off. I honestly thought I wouldn't hear from him again.\n\nLow and behold a few days later I got a msg from him asking if I wanted to have dinner with him the following night. Again that went well, conversation flowed nicely, all that jazz.\n\nSo I msg'd him the following day and said how nice it was to have dinner with him and hopes he has a nice day. I got nothing back that day or for the next two days after. So again I'm thinking he is not into me.\n\nIn a vain hope I decided to send one last msg (I am one of these people who prefer people to be up front) and just asked if everything was ok. Again nothing for that day. Then the following afternoon I got one back saying so sorry been busy etc.\n\nSo I then I thought maybe he wasn't trying to blow me off. I honestly don't know. \n\nI wonder if maybe he is too polite to say go away (although I would prefer it). I need some outsiders help cause I don't want to be the pshyco chick that doesn't get the hint.\n\nAny advice is definately welcome!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so here goes my story.\n\nIt has been a while since I have been in the dating world. I have a 7 yr old and have been concentrating on him up until now but have decided it is time to get back on the horse.\n\nSo I joined an online dating site and started talking to a bloke. He was really nice and we exchanged numbers. He then messages me to ask me out on a date. \n\nSo date one I thought went well. We were never short of conversation and the time went really fast. So I messaged him the next evening and asked if he would like to come for tea one night that week.\n\nI got back a msg saying yes but he would have to wait and check his schedule. So immediately that set off alarm bells in my head and I assumed that was a polite way of brushing me off. I honestly thought I wouldn't hear from him again.\n\nLow and behold a few days later I got a msg from him asking if I wanted to have dinner with him the following night. Again that went well, conversation flowed nicely, all that jazz.\n\nSo I msg'd him the following day and said how nice it was to have dinner with him and hopes he has a nice day. I got nothing back that day or for the next two days after. So again I'm thinking he is not into me.\n\nIn a vain hope I decided to send one last msg (I am one of these people who prefer people to be up front) and just asked if everything was ok. Again nothing for that day. Then the following afternoon I got one back saying so sorry been busy etc.\n\nSo I then I thought maybe he wasn't trying to blow me off. I honestly don't know. \n\nI wonder if maybe he is too polite to say go away (although I would prefer it). I need some outsiders help cause I don't want to be the pshyco chick that doesn't get the hint.\n\nAny advice is definately welcome!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so here goes my story.\n\nIt has been a while since I have been in the dating world. I have a 7 yr old and have been concentrating on him up until now but have decided it is time to get back on the horse.\n\nSo I joined an online dating site and started talking to a bloke. He was really nice and we exchanged numbers. He then messages me to ask me out on a date. \n\nSo date one I thought went well. We were never short of conversation and the time went really fast. So I messaged him the next evening and asked if he would like to come for tea one night that week.\n\nI got back a msg saying yes but he would have to wait and check his schedule. So immediately that set off alarm bells in my head and I assumed that was a polite way of brushing me off. I honestly thought I wouldn't hear from him again.\n\nLow and behold a few days later I got a msg from him asking if I wanted to have dinner with him the following night. Again that went well, conversation flowed nicely, all that jazz.\n\nSo I msg'd him the following day and said how nice it was to have dinner with him and hopes he has a nice day. I got nothing back that day or for the next two days after. So again I'm thinking he is not into me.\n\nIn a vain hope I decided to send one last msg (I am one of these people who prefer people to be up front) and just asked if everything was ok. Again nothing for that day. Then the following afternoon I got one back saying so sorry been busy etc.\n\nSo I then I thought maybe he wasn't trying to blow me off. I honestly don't know. \n\nI wonder if maybe he is too polite to say go away (although I would prefer it). I need some outsiders help cause I don't want to be the pshyco chick that doesn't get the hint.\n\nAny advice is definately welcome!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so here goes my story.\n\nIt has been a while since I have been in the dating world. I have a 7 yr old and have been concentrating on him up until now but have decided it is time to get back on the horse.\n\nSo I joined an online dating site and started talking to a bloke. He was really nice and we exchanged numbers. He then messages me to ask me out on a date. \n\nSo date one I thought went well. We were never short of conversation and the time went really fast. So I messaged him the next evening and asked if he would like to come for tea one night that week.\n\nI got back a msg saying yes but he would have to wait and check his schedule. So immediately that set off alarm bells in my head and I assumed that was a polite way of brushing me off. I honestly thought I wouldn't hear from him again.\n\nLow and behold a few days later I got a msg from him asking if I wanted to have dinner with him the following night. Again that went well, conversation flowed nicely, all that jazz.\n\nSo I msg'd him the following day and said how nice it was to have dinner with him and hopes he has a nice day. I got nothing back that day or for the next two days after. So again I'm thinking he is not into me.\n\nIn a vain hope I decided to send one last msg (I am one of these people who prefer people to be up front) and just asked if everything was ok. Again nothing for that day. Then the following afternoon I got one back saying so sorry been busy etc.\n\nSo I then I thought maybe he wasn't trying to blow me off. I honestly don't know. \n\nI wonder if maybe he is too polite to say go away (although I would prefer it). I need some outsiders help cause I don't want to be the pshyco chick that doesn't get the hint.\n\nAny advice is definately welcome!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before you think I'm abusive (seriously, am I?) let me clarify. I've always been physical with my best friends. I grew up mostly being friends with guys, and we were always pushing and shoving each other or calling each other names. That's carried forward into my marriage, and I can't shake it. I'm always poking at him or calling him some new nickname, it's extremely juvenile, and he doesn't always like it, and has often asked me to stop. I make every effort to, but it always comes back to it, so here I am asking for advice.\n\nAlso, I've never been good with intimacy. I'm not a hugger or a \ncuddler, and I hate making out and foreplay. When I want sex I just want sex. These things combine together to make my husband think my feelings are wavering, despite the complete opposite in my head."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before you think I'm abusive (seriously, am I?) let me clarify. I've always been physical with my best friends. I grew up mostly being friends with guys, and we were always pushing and shoving each other or calling each other names. That's carried forward into my marriage, and I can't shake it. I'm always poking at him or calling him some new nickname, it's extremely juvenile, and he doesn't always like it, and has often asked me to stop. I make every effort to, but it always comes back to it, so here I am asking for advice.\n\nAlso, I've never been good with intimacy. I'm not a hugger or a \ncuddler, and I hate making out and foreplay. When I want sex I just want sex. These things combine together to make my husband think my feelings are wavering, despite the complete opposite in my head."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before you think I'm abusive (seriously, am I?) let me clarify. I've always been physical with my best friends. I grew up mostly being friends with guys, and we were always pushing and shoving each other or calling each other names. That's carried forward into my marriage, and I can't shake it. I'm always poking at him or calling him some new nickname, it's extremely juvenile, and he doesn't always like it, and has often asked me to stop. I make every effort to, but it always comes back to it, so here I am asking for advice.\n\nAlso, I've never been good with intimacy. I'm not a hugger or a \ncuddler, and I hate making out and foreplay. When I want sex I just want sex. These things combine together to make my husband think my feelings are wavering, despite the complete opposite in my head."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before you think I'm abusive (seriously, am I?) let me clarify. I've always been physical with my best friends. I grew up mostly being friends with guys, and we were always pushing and shoving each other or calling each other names. That's carried forward into my marriage, and I can't shake it. I'm always poking at him or calling him some new nickname, it's extremely juvenile, and he doesn't always like it, and has often asked me to stop. I make every effort to, but it always comes back to it, so here I am asking for advice.\n\nAlso, I've never been good with intimacy. I'm not a hugger or a \ncuddler, and I hate making out and foreplay. When I want sex I just want sex. These things combine together to make my husband think my feelings are wavering, despite the complete opposite in my head."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before you think I'm abusive (seriously, am I?) let me clarify. I've always been physical with my best friends. I grew up mostly being friends with guys, and we were always pushing and shoving each other or calling each other names. That's carried forward into my marriage, and I can't shake it. I'm always poking at him or calling him some new nickname, it's extremely juvenile, and he doesn't always like it, and has often asked me to stop. I make every effort to, but it always comes back to it, so here I am asking for advice.\n\nAlso, I've never been good with intimacy. I'm not a hugger or a \ncuddler, and I hate making out and foreplay. When I want sex I just want sex. These things combine together to make my husband think my feelings are wavering, despite the complete opposite in my head."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before you think I'm abusive (seriously, am I?) let me clarify. I've always been physical with my best friends. I grew up mostly being friends with guys, and we were always pushing and shoving each other or calling each other names. That's carried forward into my marriage, and I can't shake it. I'm always poking at him or calling him some new nickname, it's extremely juvenile, and he doesn't always like it, and has often asked me to stop. I make every effort to, but it always comes back to it, so here I am asking for advice.\n\nAlso, I've never been good with intimacy. I'm not a hugger or a \ncuddler, and I hate making out and foreplay. When I want sex I just want sex. These things combine together to make my husband think my feelings are wavering, despite the complete opposite in my head."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've only been seeing this new girl for a few weeks. We're only dating still and we're not actually at boy/girlfriend status yet. \n\nWe've been on a few dates and she says she has never had a boyfriend before and is a little awkward with that sort of thing. We talk every couple of days or so by text, but only when one of us needs something really.\n\nI want us to text more, I know that sounds a little weird but every girl I've been romantic with before has wanted more contact than what I have at the moment with her. We're both quite busy people and don't have time to see each other more than once or twice a week and I feel like we're not getting close enough due to the lack of conversation. \n\nHow can I get her to engage in more texting with me? Just like general \"how are you doing\" or telling each other how our day was. I don't know what I can do without appearing really clingy or attached. I really like her but as it is we don't know that much about each other."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've only been seeing this new girl for a few weeks. We're only dating still and we're not actually at boy/girlfriend status yet. \n\nWe've been on a few dates and she says she has never had a boyfriend before and is a little awkward with that sort of thing. We talk every couple of days or so by text, but only when one of us needs something really.\n\nI want us to text more, I know that sounds a little weird but every girl I've been romantic with before has wanted more contact than what I have at the moment with her. We're both quite busy people and don't have time to see each other more than once or twice a week and I feel like we're not getting close enough due to the lack of conversation. \n\nHow can I get her to engage in more texting with me? Just like general \"how are you doing\" or telling each other how our day was. I don't know what I can do without appearing really clingy or attached. I really like her but as it is we don't know that much about each other."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've only been seeing this new girl for a few weeks. We're only dating still and we're not actually at boy/girlfriend status yet. \n\nWe've been on a few dates and she says she has never had a boyfriend before and is a little awkward with that sort of thing. We talk every couple of days or so by text, but only when one of us needs something really.\n\nI want us to text more, I know that sounds a little weird but every girl I've been romantic with before has wanted more contact than what I have at the moment with her. We're both quite busy people and don't have time to see each other more than once or twice a week and I feel like we're not getting close enough due to the lack of conversation. \n\nHow can I get her to engage in more texting with me? Just like general \"how are you doing\" or telling each other how our day was. I don't know what I can do without appearing really clingy or attached. I really like her but as it is we don't know that much about each other."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've only been seeing this new girl for a few weeks. We're only dating still and we're not actually at boy/girlfriend status yet. \n\nWe've been on a few dates and she says she has never had a boyfriend before and is a little awkward with that sort of thing. We talk every couple of days or so by text, but only when one of us needs something really.\n\nI want us to text more, I know that sounds a little weird but every girl I've been romantic with before has wanted more contact than what I have at the moment with her. We're both quite busy people and don't have time to see each other more than once or twice a week and I feel like we're not getting close enough due to the lack of conversation. \n\nHow can I get her to engage in more texting with me? Just like general \"how are you doing\" or telling each other how our day was. I don't know what I can do without appearing really clingy or attached. I really like her but as it is we don't know that much about each other."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've only been seeing this new girl for a few weeks. We're only dating still and we're not actually at boy/girlfriend status yet. \n\nWe've been on a few dates and she says she has never had a boyfriend before and is a little awkward with that sort of thing. We talk every couple of days or so by text, but only when one of us needs something really.\n\nI want us to text more, I know that sounds a little weird but every girl I've been romantic with before has wanted more contact than what I have at the moment with her. We're both quite busy people and don't have time to see each other more than once or twice a week and I feel like we're not getting close enough due to the lack of conversation. \n\nHow can I get her to engage in more texting with me? Just like general \"how are you doing\" or telling each other how our day was. I don't know what I can do without appearing really clingy or attached. I really like her but as it is we don't know that much about each other."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've only been seeing this new girl for a few weeks. We're only dating still and we're not actually at boy/girlfriend status yet. \n\nWe've been on a few dates and she says she has never had a boyfriend before and is a little awkward with that sort of thing. We talk every couple of days or so by text, but only when one of us needs something really.\n\nI want us to text more, I know that sounds a little weird but every girl I've been romantic with before has wanted more contact than what I have at the moment with her. We're both quite busy people and don't have time to see each other more than once or twice a week and I feel like we're not getting close enough due to the lack of conversation. \n\nHow can I get her to engage in more texting with me? Just like general \"how are you doing\" or telling each other how our day was. I don't know what I can do without appearing really clingy or attached. I really like her but as it is we don't know that much about each other."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 19 years old. We've been together for 10 months.\n\nI love my girlfriend. She is the nicest person that I know of and is very attractive. I find her very funny and fun to be around. She feels the same way torwards me. She tells me how she has never been in love before and that I'm perfect for her. Her life long friend tells me she has never seen her as happy. This might sound insane to some people, but she told me she always wants to be with me and sees our future together (I do too, I really want to spent the rest of my life with her. just not yet). Also that if I'd leave her she would be totally crushed and would kill herself (She said it inn a sweet way).\n\nBut I'm just not quite ready yet to settle down for life. I REALLY REALLY wish we had got together a year later maybe. I feel like I need to explore some more before settling down completely. I've been thinking about this for 2 months now, and the only logical conclusion is to brake up, since I know I will always feel this way until I try something new. But I dont have it in me. I don't want to hurt her. what can I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 19 years old. We've been together for 10 months.\n\nI love my girlfriend. She is the nicest person that I know of and is very attractive. I find her very funny and fun to be around. She feels the same way torwards me. She tells me how she has never been in love before and that I'm perfect for her. Her life long friend tells me she has never seen her as happy. This might sound insane to some people, but she told me she always wants to be with me and sees our future together (I do too, I really want to spent the rest of my life with her. just not yet). Also that if I'd leave her she would be totally crushed and would kill herself (She said it inn a sweet way).\n\nBut I'm just not quite ready yet to settle down for life. I REALLY REALLY wish we had got together a year later maybe. I feel like I need to explore some more before settling down completely. I've been thinking about this for 2 months now, and the only logical conclusion is to brake up, since I know I will always feel this way until I try something new. But I dont have it in me. I don't want to hurt her. what can I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 19 years old. We've been together for 10 months.\n\nI love my girlfriend. She is the nicest person that I know of and is very attractive. I find her very funny and fun to be around. She feels the same way torwards me. She tells me how she has never been in love before and that I'm perfect for her. Her life long friend tells me she has never seen her as happy. This might sound insane to some people, but she told me she always wants to be with me and sees our future together (I do too, I really want to spent the rest of my life with her. just not yet). Also that if I'd leave her she would be totally crushed and would kill herself (She said it inn a sweet way).\n\nBut I'm just not quite ready yet to settle down for life. I REALLY REALLY wish we had got together a year later maybe. I feel like I need to explore some more before settling down completely. I've been thinking about this for 2 months now, and the only logical conclusion is to brake up, since I know I will always feel this way until I try something new. But I dont have it in me. I don't want to hurt her. what can I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 19 years old. We've been together for 10 months.\n\nI love my girlfriend. She is the nicest person that I know of and is very attractive. I find her very funny and fun to be around. She feels the same way torwards me. She tells me how she has never been in love before and that I'm perfect for her. Her life long friend tells me she has never seen her as happy. This might sound insane to some people, but she told me she always wants to be with me and sees our future together (I do too, I really want to spent the rest of my life with her. just not yet). Also that if I'd leave her she would be totally crushed and would kill herself (She said it inn a sweet way).\n\nBut I'm just not quite ready yet to settle down for life. I REALLY REALLY wish we had got together a year later maybe. I feel like I need to explore some more before settling down completely. I've been thinking about this for 2 months now, and the only logical conclusion is to brake up, since I know I will always feel this way until I try something new. But I dont have it in me. I don't want to hurt her. what can I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 19 years old. We've been together for 10 months.\n\nI love my girlfriend. She is the nicest person that I know of and is very attractive. I find her very funny and fun to be around. She feels the same way torwards me. She tells me how she has never been in love before and that I'm perfect for her. Her life long friend tells me she has never seen her as happy. This might sound insane to some people, but she told me she always wants to be with me and sees our future together (I do too, I really want to spent the rest of my life with her. just not yet). Also that if I'd leave her she would be totally crushed and would kill herself (She said it inn a sweet way).\n\nBut I'm just not quite ready yet to settle down for life. I REALLY REALLY wish we had got together a year later maybe. I feel like I need to explore some more before settling down completely. I've been thinking about this for 2 months now, and the only logical conclusion is to brake up, since I know I will always feel this way until I try something new. But I dont have it in me. I don't want to hurt her. what can I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 19 years old. We've been together for 10 months.\n\nI love my girlfriend. She is the nicest person that I know of and is very attractive. I find her very funny and fun to be around. She feels the same way torwards me. She tells me how she has never been in love before and that I'm perfect for her. Her life long friend tells me she has never seen her as happy. This might sound insane to some people, but she told me she always wants to be with me and sees our future together (I do too, I really want to spent the rest of my life with her. just not yet). Also that if I'd leave her she would be totally crushed and would kill herself (She said it inn a sweet way).\n\nBut I'm just not quite ready yet to settle down for life. I REALLY REALLY wish we had got together a year later maybe. I feel like I need to explore some more before settling down completely. I've been thinking about this for 2 months now, and the only logical conclusion is to brake up, since I know I will always feel this way until I try something new. But I dont have it in me. I don't want to hurt her. what can I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is really bothering me because it isn't what I think is normal and I think there is more to it, especially from the mother in law. If the kids were still 4 and 8. I could see the 'it is good for the kids to see we can get along' explanation. \n\nHe still does some holidays and other get togethers with kids, ex wife, ex mother in law for birthdays (not just the kids, all of them). Today wasn't a birthday or anything special. Just lunch at the ex mother in law's house. \n\nHe says there is no ulterior motive but then why go along with it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is really bothering me because it isn't what I think is normal and I think there is more to it, especially from the mother in law. If the kids were still 4 and 8. I could see the 'it is good for the kids to see we can get along' explanation. \n\nHe still does some holidays and other get togethers with kids, ex wife, ex mother in law for birthdays (not just the kids, all of them). Today wasn't a birthday or anything special. Just lunch at the ex mother in law's house. \n\nHe says there is no ulterior motive but then why go along with it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is really bothering me because it isn't what I think is normal and I think there is more to it, especially from the mother in law. If the kids were still 4 and 8. I could see the 'it is good for the kids to see we can get along' explanation. \n\nHe still does some holidays and other get togethers with kids, ex wife, ex mother in law for birthdays (not just the kids, all of them). Today wasn't a birthday or anything special. Just lunch at the ex mother in law's house. \n\nHe says there is no ulterior motive but then why go along with it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is really bothering me because it isn't what I think is normal and I think there is more to it, especially from the mother in law. If the kids were still 4 and 8. I could see the 'it is good for the kids to see we can get along' explanation. \n\nHe still does some holidays and other get togethers with kids, ex wife, ex mother in law for birthdays (not just the kids, all of them). Today wasn't a birthday or anything special. Just lunch at the ex mother in law's house. \n\nHe says there is no ulterior motive but then why go along with it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is really bothering me because it isn't what I think is normal and I think there is more to it, especially from the mother in law. If the kids were still 4 and 8. I could see the 'it is good for the kids to see we can get along' explanation. \n\nHe still does some holidays and other get togethers with kids, ex wife, ex mother in law for birthdays (not just the kids, all of them). Today wasn't a birthday or anything special. Just lunch at the ex mother in law's house. \n\nHe says there is no ulterior motive but then why go along with it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is really bothering me because it isn't what I think is normal and I think there is more to it, especially from the mother in law. If the kids were still 4 and 8. I could see the 'it is good for the kids to see we can get along' explanation. \n\nHe still does some holidays and other get togethers with kids, ex wife, ex mother in law for birthdays (not just the kids, all of them). Today wasn't a birthday or anything special. Just lunch at the ex mother in law's house. \n\nHe says there is no ulterior motive but then why go along with it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend of one year [f/16] convinced me [m/16] it would be okay that I'd come over and spend the day with her at her house alone while her \"dad\" was at work. I was hesitant but complied. We hung out 3 or 4 times but somehow he found out and less than an hour ago he showed up and yelled at me and my father threatening to \"kick the shit out of me \" and \"kill me\". I'm quite rattled because a grown man just said that to me and almost punched my father. I want to try and fix this but I have no idea what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend of one year [f/16] convinced me [m/16] it would be okay that I'd come over and spend the day with her at her house alone while her \"dad\" was at work. I was hesitant but complied. We hung out 3 or 4 times but somehow he found out and less than an hour ago he showed up and yelled at me and my father threatening to \"kick the shit out of me \" and \"kill me\". I'm quite rattled because a grown man just said that to me and almost punched my father. I want to try and fix this but I have no idea what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend of one year [f/16] convinced me [m/16] it would be okay that I'd come over and spend the day with her at her house alone while her \"dad\" was at work. I was hesitant but complied. We hung out 3 or 4 times but somehow he found out and less than an hour ago he showed up and yelled at me and my father threatening to \"kick the shit out of me \" and \"kill me\". I'm quite rattled because a grown man just said that to me and almost punched my father. I want to try and fix this but I have no idea what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend of one year [f/16] convinced me [m/16] it would be okay that I'd come over and spend the day with her at her house alone while her \"dad\" was at work. I was hesitant but complied. We hung out 3 or 4 times but somehow he found out and less than an hour ago he showed up and yelled at me and my father threatening to \"kick the shit out of me \" and \"kill me\". I'm quite rattled because a grown man just said that to me and almost punched my father. I want to try and fix this but I have no idea what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend of one year [f/16] convinced me [m/16] it would be okay that I'd come over and spend the day with her at her house alone while her \"dad\" was at work. I was hesitant but complied. We hung out 3 or 4 times but somehow he found out and less than an hour ago he showed up and yelled at me and my father threatening to \"kick the shit out of me \" and \"kill me\". I'm quite rattled because a grown man just said that to me and almost punched my father. I want to try and fix this but I have no idea what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend of one year [f/16] convinced me [m/16] it would be okay that I'd come over and spend the day with her at her house alone while her \"dad\" was at work. I was hesitant but complied. We hung out 3 or 4 times but somehow he found out and less than an hour ago he showed up and yelled at me and my father threatening to \"kick the shit out of me \" and \"kill me\". I'm quite rattled because a grown man just said that to me and almost punched my father. I want to try and fix this but I have no idea what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So 1 month ago October 26th my now ex broke up with me after 2 and half years. She said she was not in love with me anymore and that I felt more like a friend, that she felt bad beacuse she diden't have as much time as she used to have to spend with me. She is still In school and right now there is alot going on in her life and she has a small job thing and also friends. So she felt like she diden't have time for a boyfriend right now.\n\nWell in april 2015 I almost broke up with her beacuse I diden't know how I felt and had alot going on with school. but I decided that maybe I just needed a break so we spent 4 weeks apart, untill I texted her and said I missed her and we began to hang out again and I feel in love with her again and everything was great.\n\nSo to me it seems kinda like it might be the same this time, that she just needs time beacuse she got alot going on right now. And when I have asked her about it, if she thinks there is a chance of us getting back together she says that she doesen't know and just need time for herself right now. She said she will tell me when she wants to meet and talk.\n\nTo me it won't really feel like it's over untill I get to meet her and talk again and see if maybe she do want to give it another chance and see what happens. Maybe it's beacuse it's only been 1 month and that It happend so suddenly, but I haven't really accepted that it is really over. and well she haven't hinted that it is either possible or impossible. She says she doesent know and don't want to get my hopes up incase that isn't what she feel when we do meet and talk.\n\nMaybe someone has some advice to me or has been in a similar situation. Well I would be thankful for anything really beacuse this really sucks and I'm scared. But I'm trying to be optimistic beacuse it seems like anything can happen when we do meet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So 1 month ago October 26th my now ex broke up with me after 2 and half years. She said she was not in love with me anymore and that I felt more like a friend, that she felt bad beacuse she diden't have as much time as she used to have to spend with me. She is still In school and right now there is alot going on in her life and she has a small job thing and also friends. So she felt like she diden't have time for a boyfriend right now.\n\nWell in april 2015 I almost broke up with her beacuse I diden't know how I felt and had alot going on with school. but I decided that maybe I just needed a break so we spent 4 weeks apart, untill I texted her and said I missed her and we began to hang out again and I feel in love with her again and everything was great.\n\nSo to me it seems kinda like it might be the same this time, that she just needs time beacuse she got alot going on right now. And when I have asked her about it, if she thinks there is a chance of us getting back together she says that she doesen't know and just need time for herself right now. She said she will tell me when she wants to meet and talk.\n\nTo me it won't really feel like it's over untill I get to meet her and talk again and see if maybe she do want to give it another chance and see what happens. Maybe it's beacuse it's only been 1 month and that It happend so suddenly, but I haven't really accepted that it is really over. and well she haven't hinted that it is either possible or impossible. She says she doesent know and don't want to get my hopes up incase that isn't what she feel when we do meet and talk.\n\nMaybe someone has some advice to me or has been in a similar situation. Well I would be thankful for anything really beacuse this really sucks and I'm scared. But I'm trying to be optimistic beacuse it seems like anything can happen when we do meet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So 1 month ago October 26th my now ex broke up with me after 2 and half years. She said she was not in love with me anymore and that I felt more like a friend, that she felt bad beacuse she diden't have as much time as she used to have to spend with me. She is still In school and right now there is alot going on in her life and she has a small job thing and also friends. So she felt like she diden't have time for a boyfriend right now.\n\nWell in april 2015 I almost broke up with her beacuse I diden't know how I felt and had alot going on with school. but I decided that maybe I just needed a break so we spent 4 weeks apart, untill I texted her and said I missed her and we began to hang out again and I feel in love with her again and everything was great.\n\nSo to me it seems kinda like it might be the same this time, that she just needs time beacuse she got alot going on right now. And when I have asked her about it, if she thinks there is a chance of us getting back together she says that she doesen't know and just need time for herself right now. She said she will tell me when she wants to meet and talk.\n\nTo me it won't really feel like it's over untill I get to meet her and talk again and see if maybe she do want to give it another chance and see what happens. Maybe it's beacuse it's only been 1 month and that It happend so suddenly, but I haven't really accepted that it is really over. and well she haven't hinted that it is either possible or impossible. She says she doesent know and don't want to get my hopes up incase that isn't what she feel when we do meet and talk.\n\nMaybe someone has some advice to me or has been in a similar situation. Well I would be thankful for anything really beacuse this really sucks and I'm scared. But I'm trying to be optimistic beacuse it seems like anything can happen when we do meet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So 1 month ago October 26th my now ex broke up with me after 2 and half years. She said she was not in love with me anymore and that I felt more like a friend, that she felt bad beacuse she diden't have as much time as she used to have to spend with me. She is still In school and right now there is alot going on in her life and she has a small job thing and also friends. So she felt like she diden't have time for a boyfriend right now.\n\nWell in april 2015 I almost broke up with her beacuse I diden't know how I felt and had alot going on with school. but I decided that maybe I just needed a break so we spent 4 weeks apart, untill I texted her and said I missed her and we began to hang out again and I feel in love with her again and everything was great.\n\nSo to me it seems kinda like it might be the same this time, that she just needs time beacuse she got alot going on right now. And when I have asked her about it, if she thinks there is a chance of us getting back together she says that she doesen't know and just need time for herself right now. She said she will tell me when she wants to meet and talk.\n\nTo me it won't really feel like it's over untill I get to meet her and talk again and see if maybe she do want to give it another chance and see what happens. Maybe it's beacuse it's only been 1 month and that It happend so suddenly, but I haven't really accepted that it is really over. and well she haven't hinted that it is either possible or impossible. She says she doesent know and don't want to get my hopes up incase that isn't what she feel when we do meet and talk.\n\nMaybe someone has some advice to me or has been in a similar situation. Well I would be thankful for anything really beacuse this really sucks and I'm scared. But I'm trying to be optimistic beacuse it seems like anything can happen when we do meet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So 1 month ago October 26th my now ex broke up with me after 2 and half years. She said she was not in love with me anymore and that I felt more like a friend, that she felt bad beacuse she diden't have as much time as she used to have to spend with me. She is still In school and right now there is alot going on in her life and she has a small job thing and also friends. So she felt like she diden't have time for a boyfriend right now.\n\nWell in april 2015 I almost broke up with her beacuse I diden't know how I felt and had alot going on with school. but I decided that maybe I just needed a break so we spent 4 weeks apart, untill I texted her and said I missed her and we began to hang out again and I feel in love with her again and everything was great.\n\nSo to me it seems kinda like it might be the same this time, that she just needs time beacuse she got alot going on right now. And when I have asked her about it, if she thinks there is a chance of us getting back together she says that she doesen't know and just need time for herself right now. She said she will tell me when she wants to meet and talk.\n\nTo me it won't really feel like it's over untill I get to meet her and talk again and see if maybe she do want to give it another chance and see what happens. Maybe it's beacuse it's only been 1 month and that It happend so suddenly, but I haven't really accepted that it is really over. and well she haven't hinted that it is either possible or impossible. She says she doesent know and don't want to get my hopes up incase that isn't what she feel when we do meet and talk.\n\nMaybe someone has some advice to me or has been in a similar situation. Well I would be thankful for anything really beacuse this really sucks and I'm scared. But I'm trying to be optimistic beacuse it seems like anything can happen when we do meet."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been living with my girlfriend for the summer, she's been working in FL since last August, but we're both originally from the Northeast. It sucked for us both while she was gone, and now that I'm here, I can't imagine going back. I want to transfer to a school in FL to continue my education in the fall semester. Somehow I forgot that most schools charge extra money for out of state residents, and technically my \"residence\" is still in the Northeast. I would be an \"in state\" resident for the duration of my attendance of the school, but my question(s) is(are): *how do I go about doing this, proving it, and hopefully in two weeks or less.* I can't afford the out of state tuition."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been living with my girlfriend for the summer, she's been working in FL since last August, but we're both originally from the Northeast. It sucked for us both while she was gone, and now that I'm here, I can't imagine going back. I want to transfer to a school in FL to continue my education in the fall semester. Somehow I forgot that most schools charge extra money for out of state residents, and technically my \"residence\" is still in the Northeast. I would be an \"in state\" resident for the duration of my attendance of the school, but my question(s) is(are): *how do I go about doing this, proving it, and hopefully in two weeks or less.* I can't afford the out of state tuition."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been living with my girlfriend for the summer, she's been working in FL since last August, but we're both originally from the Northeast. It sucked for us both while she was gone, and now that I'm here, I can't imagine going back. I want to transfer to a school in FL to continue my education in the fall semester. Somehow I forgot that most schools charge extra money for out of state residents, and technically my \"residence\" is still in the Northeast. I would be an \"in state\" resident for the duration of my attendance of the school, but my question(s) is(are): *how do I go about doing this, proving it, and hopefully in two weeks or less.* I can't afford the out of state tuition."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been living with my girlfriend for the summer, she's been working in FL since last August, but we're both originally from the Northeast. It sucked for us both while she was gone, and now that I'm here, I can't imagine going back. I want to transfer to a school in FL to continue my education in the fall semester. Somehow I forgot that most schools charge extra money for out of state residents, and technically my \"residence\" is still in the Northeast. I would be an \"in state\" resident for the duration of my attendance of the school, but my question(s) is(are): *how do I go about doing this, proving it, and hopefully in two weeks or less.* I can't afford the out of state tuition."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been living with my girlfriend for the summer, she's been working in FL since last August, but we're both originally from the Northeast. It sucked for us both while she was gone, and now that I'm here, I can't imagine going back. I want to transfer to a school in FL to continue my education in the fall semester. Somehow I forgot that most schools charge extra money for out of state residents, and technically my \"residence\" is still in the Northeast. I would be an \"in state\" resident for the duration of my attendance of the school, but my question(s) is(are): *how do I go about doing this, proving it, and hopefully in two weeks or less.* I can't afford the out of state tuition."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been living with my girlfriend for the summer, she's been working in FL since last August, but we're both originally from the Northeast. It sucked for us both while she was gone, and now that I'm here, I can't imagine going back. I want to transfer to a school in FL to continue my education in the fall semester. Somehow I forgot that most schools charge extra money for out of state residents, and technically my \"residence\" is still in the Northeast. I would be an \"in state\" resident for the duration of my attendance of the school, but my question(s) is(are): *how do I go about doing this, proving it, and hopefully in two weeks or less.* I can't afford the out of state tuition."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit. We have been together for 3 years, one of which was normal and the last two have been long distance. She is in her first semester of her major and I'm currently across the country serving. We have been having communication issues for a few weeks stemming from 6 months ago. she would say that she felt like we weren't talking enough, and i didn't really understand her until recently.\n\nWe spoke last night and she said that she feels alone and unsupported and that she is so busy with school and being a Community Advisor for her dorm to even understand and analyze her emotions. I told her that I am willing to suffer, only hearing from her once a day, because this time next year I'll be home and we can start our future together. She said she doesn't know if she is willing to wait and be unhappy that long.\n\nI'm incredibly hurt because we have lasted for the last two years long distance, I feel like we owe it to our relationship to push through this last year and have a go at a real relationship.\nShe said she needs some time (a couple days is what she said) to think and she would call me. I haven't really stopped crying since the convo last night, and I gave in and texted her already telling her that I need to talk because I thought of some more things I wanted to bring up.\n\nPlease help me Reddit. I love her so much and I know that deep down she still has those feelings, the stress and anxiety of her day to day has just taken a toll. I know it sounds selfish but I don't want to sit in some limbo where we both still have feelings but we wait until she has more time, because I'm scared she will find someone else back at school and I will be replaced.\n\nSomeone please give me some advice. Sorry for the long story."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit. We have been together for 3 years, one of which was normal and the last two have been long distance. She is in her first semester of her major and I'm currently across the country serving. We have been having communication issues for a few weeks stemming from 6 months ago. she would say that she felt like we weren't talking enough, and i didn't really understand her until recently.\n\nWe spoke last night and she said that she feels alone and unsupported and that she is so busy with school and being a Community Advisor for her dorm to even understand and analyze her emotions. I told her that I am willing to suffer, only hearing from her once a day, because this time next year I'll be home and we can start our future together. She said she doesn't know if she is willing to wait and be unhappy that long.\n\nI'm incredibly hurt because we have lasted for the last two years long distance, I feel like we owe it to our relationship to push through this last year and have a go at a real relationship.\nShe said she needs some time (a couple days is what she said) to think and she would call me. I haven't really stopped crying since the convo last night, and I gave in and texted her already telling her that I need to talk because I thought of some more things I wanted to bring up.\n\nPlease help me Reddit. I love her so much and I know that deep down she still has those feelings, the stress and anxiety of her day to day has just taken a toll. I know it sounds selfish but I don't want to sit in some limbo where we both still have feelings but we wait until she has more time, because I'm scared she will find someone else back at school and I will be replaced.\n\nSomeone please give me some advice. Sorry for the long story."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit. We have been together for 3 years, one of which was normal and the last two have been long distance. She is in her first semester of her major and I'm currently across the country serving. We have been having communication issues for a few weeks stemming from 6 months ago. she would say that she felt like we weren't talking enough, and i didn't really understand her until recently.\n\nWe spoke last night and she said that she feels alone and unsupported and that she is so busy with school and being a Community Advisor for her dorm to even understand and analyze her emotions. I told her that I am willing to suffer, only hearing from her once a day, because this time next year I'll be home and we can start our future together. She said she doesn't know if she is willing to wait and be unhappy that long.\n\nI'm incredibly hurt because we have lasted for the last two years long distance, I feel like we owe it to our relationship to push through this last year and have a go at a real relationship.\nShe said she needs some time (a couple days is what she said) to think and she would call me. I haven't really stopped crying since the convo last night, and I gave in and texted her already telling her that I need to talk because I thought of some more things I wanted to bring up.\n\nPlease help me Reddit. I love her so much and I know that deep down she still has those feelings, the stress and anxiety of her day to day has just taken a toll. I know it sounds selfish but I don't want to sit in some limbo where we both still have feelings but we wait until she has more time, because I'm scared she will find someone else back at school and I will be replaced.\n\nSomeone please give me some advice. Sorry for the long story."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit. We have been together for 3 years, one of which was normal and the last two have been long distance. She is in her first semester of her major and I'm currently across the country serving. We have been having communication issues for a few weeks stemming from 6 months ago. she would say that she felt like we weren't talking enough, and i didn't really understand her until recently.\n\nWe spoke last night and she said that she feels alone and unsupported and that she is so busy with school and being a Community Advisor for her dorm to even understand and analyze her emotions. I told her that I am willing to suffer, only hearing from her once a day, because this time next year I'll be home and we can start our future together. She said she doesn't know if she is willing to wait and be unhappy that long.\n\nI'm incredibly hurt because we have lasted for the last two years long distance, I feel like we owe it to our relationship to push through this last year and have a go at a real relationship.\nShe said she needs some time (a couple days is what she said) to think and she would call me. I haven't really stopped crying since the convo last night, and I gave in and texted her already telling her that I need to talk because I thought of some more things I wanted to bring up.\n\nPlease help me Reddit. I love her so much and I know that deep down she still has those feelings, the stress and anxiety of her day to day has just taken a toll. I know it sounds selfish but I don't want to sit in some limbo where we both still have feelings but we wait until she has more time, because I'm scared she will find someone else back at school and I will be replaced.\n\nSomeone please give me some advice. Sorry for the long story."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit. We have been together for 3 years, one of which was normal and the last two have been long distance. She is in her first semester of her major and I'm currently across the country serving. We have been having communication issues for a few weeks stemming from 6 months ago. she would say that she felt like we weren't talking enough, and i didn't really understand her until recently.\n\nWe spoke last night and she said that she feels alone and unsupported and that she is so busy with school and being a Community Advisor for her dorm to even understand and analyze her emotions. I told her that I am willing to suffer, only hearing from her once a day, because this time next year I'll be home and we can start our future together. She said she doesn't know if she is willing to wait and be unhappy that long.\n\nI'm incredibly hurt because we have lasted for the last two years long distance, I feel like we owe it to our relationship to push through this last year and have a go at a real relationship.\nShe said she needs some time (a couple days is what she said) to think and she would call me. I haven't really stopped crying since the convo last night, and I gave in and texted her already telling her that I need to talk because I thought of some more things I wanted to bring up.\n\nPlease help me Reddit. I love her so much and I know that deep down she still has those feelings, the stress and anxiety of her day to day has just taken a toll. I know it sounds selfish but I don't want to sit in some limbo where we both still have feelings but we wait until she has more time, because I'm scared she will find someone else back at school and I will be replaced.\n\nSomeone please give me some advice. Sorry for the long story."
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