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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original Post](\n\nIt has been 5 months since I originally posted this and it has almost exactly happened again with the same friend. After my last breakup that was 1 ½ years ago I have realized I am very introverted when it comes to relationships (In my last relationship I was broken up with for the first time.) Basically I haven't been able to have feelings for someone this entire time; I have been the epitome of single, not even having casual relationships/friends with benefits. I have avoided relationships or anything related like the plague. I am aware that I am scared to open my heart to someone because of it previously being broken and it didn't matter to me until now. After getting to know my friend more over these past 5 months he has become one of my closest friends and he is honestly one of the best human beings I have ever met in my life.\n\nMy problem is that I love him but still only as a friend. I want to reciprocate his feelings for me but it just isn't happening. This friend of mine is absolutely wonderful and I feel like a stupid person because I can't seem to have feelings for him or anyone for that matter. Even if we aren't compatible in a romantic way I would still like to get back in to dating because I am young and I know that this is the time in my life where I should be experiencing new relationships and whatnot. My heart has grown cold due being broken up with, also realizing that a substantial amount of my \"friends\" were using me for my money. How do I let myself be vulnerable again and open my heart?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original Post](\n\nIt has been 5 months since I originally posted this and it has almost exactly happened again with the same friend. After my last breakup that was 1 ½ years ago I have realized I am very introverted when it comes to relationships (In my last relationship I was broken up with for the first time.) Basically I haven't been able to have feelings for someone this entire time; I have been the epitome of single, not even having casual relationships/friends with benefits. I have avoided relationships or anything related like the plague. I am aware that I am scared to open my heart to someone because of it previously being broken and it didn't matter to me until now. After getting to know my friend more over these past 5 months he has become one of my closest friends and he is honestly one of the best human beings I have ever met in my life.\n\nMy problem is that I love him but still only as a friend. I want to reciprocate his feelings for me but it just isn't happening. This friend of mine is absolutely wonderful and I feel like a stupid person because I can't seem to have feelings for him or anyone for that matter. Even if we aren't compatible in a romantic way I would still like to get back in to dating because I am young and I know that this is the time in my life where I should be experiencing new relationships and whatnot. My heart has grown cold due being broken up with, also realizing that a substantial amount of my \"friends\" were using me for my money. How do I let myself be vulnerable again and open my heart?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Original Post](\n\nIt has been 5 months since I originally posted this and it has almost exactly happened again with the same friend. After my last breakup that was 1 ½ years ago I have realized I am very introverted when it comes to relationships (In my last relationship I was broken up with for the first time.) Basically I haven't been able to have feelings for someone this entire time; I have been the epitome of single, not even having casual relationships/friends with benefits. I have avoided relationships or anything related like the plague. I am aware that I am scared to open my heart to someone because of it previously being broken and it didn't matter to me until now. After getting to know my friend more over these past 5 months he has become one of my closest friends and he is honestly one of the best human beings I have ever met in my life.\n\nMy problem is that I love him but still only as a friend. I want to reciprocate his feelings for me but it just isn't happening. This friend of mine is absolutely wonderful and I feel like a stupid person because I can't seem to have feelings for him or anyone for that matter. Even if we aren't compatible in a romantic way I would still like to get back in to dating because I am young and I know that this is the time in my life where I should be experiencing new relationships and whatnot. My heart has grown cold due being broken up with, also realizing that a substantial amount of my \"friends\" were using me for my money. How do I let myself be vulnerable again and open my heart?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: I've gone away to another state for college for four years, during which my senior year (last year) she knew I was living with my then boyfriend because I had broken my leg and he was caring for me at the time. Circumstances had it that I moved back home and we split up last year. Since I was in physical therapy for a while, I did not get back into social activities until the past few months.\n\nI started seeing this amazing guy a month and half ago and we hit it off pretty much immediately. He works long hours and only has one day off, so we plan our hangouts on his day off and on weekends, leading me to staying out all day/late into the night (think 2-5AM). Last week he moved, and I was able to stay over at his place. I did not think much of it as I told my mom where I was going, and thought that she'd be used to the idea of it since I was living with my ex last year. But no, she proceeds to yell at me the next time I see her. Shit like me getting pregnant and ruining my future, people gossiping, how it's not ok for me to spend the time with him and stay out so late all the time, how I'm willingly putting myself in danger, etc. I get it, she's being overprotective, and I know the whole \"her house, her rules\" stuff. I'm currently looking for a job and I want to move out ASAP, but until I am financially stable, it's not happening.\n\nHere comes the awkward part. The guy I'm seeing is pretty independent and he has no issues like this. How do I tell him about my \"talk\" with my mother and that I do want to respect her feelings by not staying out so late? It would mean cutting down on our time together since he works over 60 hours a week, and I don't want him to think of me as a child simply because of that. We're both Asian, so I don't know if that would work in my favor and he would understand where I'm coming from with the helicopter parenting."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: I've gone away to another state for college for four years, during which my senior year (last year) she knew I was living with my then boyfriend because I had broken my leg and he was caring for me at the time. Circumstances had it that I moved back home and we split up last year. Since I was in physical therapy for a while, I did not get back into social activities until the past few months.\n\nI started seeing this amazing guy a month and half ago and we hit it off pretty much immediately. He works long hours and only has one day off, so we plan our hangouts on his day off and on weekends, leading me to staying out all day/late into the night (think 2-5AM). Last week he moved, and I was able to stay over at his place. I did not think much of it as I told my mom where I was going, and thought that she'd be used to the idea of it since I was living with my ex last year. But no, she proceeds to yell at me the next time I see her. Shit like me getting pregnant and ruining my future, people gossiping, how it's not ok for me to spend the time with him and stay out so late all the time, how I'm willingly putting myself in danger, etc. I get it, she's being overprotective, and I know the whole \"her house, her rules\" stuff. I'm currently looking for a job and I want to move out ASAP, but until I am financially stable, it's not happening.\n\nHere comes the awkward part. The guy I'm seeing is pretty independent and he has no issues like this. How do I tell him about my \"talk\" with my mother and that I do want to respect her feelings by not staying out so late? It would mean cutting down on our time together since he works over 60 hours a week, and I don't want him to think of me as a child simply because of that. We're both Asian, so I don't know if that would work in my favor and he would understand where I'm coming from with the helicopter parenting."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: I've gone away to another state for college for four years, during which my senior year (last year) she knew I was living with my then boyfriend because I had broken my leg and he was caring for me at the time. Circumstances had it that I moved back home and we split up last year. Since I was in physical therapy for a while, I did not get back into social activities until the past few months.\n\nI started seeing this amazing guy a month and half ago and we hit it off pretty much immediately. He works long hours and only has one day off, so we plan our hangouts on his day off and on weekends, leading me to staying out all day/late into the night (think 2-5AM). Last week he moved, and I was able to stay over at his place. I did not think much of it as I told my mom where I was going, and thought that she'd be used to the idea of it since I was living with my ex last year. But no, she proceeds to yell at me the next time I see her. Shit like me getting pregnant and ruining my future, people gossiping, how it's not ok for me to spend the time with him and stay out so late all the time, how I'm willingly putting myself in danger, etc. I get it, she's being overprotective, and I know the whole \"her house, her rules\" stuff. I'm currently looking for a job and I want to move out ASAP, but until I am financially stable, it's not happening.\n\nHere comes the awkward part. The guy I'm seeing is pretty independent and he has no issues like this. How do I tell him about my \"talk\" with my mother and that I do want to respect her feelings by not staying out so late? It would mean cutting down on our time together since he works over 60 hours a week, and I don't want him to think of me as a child simply because of that. We're both Asian, so I don't know if that would work in my favor and he would understand where I'm coming from with the helicopter parenting."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: I've gone away to another state for college for four years, during which my senior year (last year) she knew I was living with my then boyfriend because I had broken my leg and he was caring for me at the time. Circumstances had it that I moved back home and we split up last year. Since I was in physical therapy for a while, I did not get back into social activities until the past few months.\n\nI started seeing this amazing guy a month and half ago and we hit it off pretty much immediately. He works long hours and only has one day off, so we plan our hangouts on his day off and on weekends, leading me to staying out all day/late into the night (think 2-5AM). Last week he moved, and I was able to stay over at his place. I did not think much of it as I told my mom where I was going, and thought that she'd be used to the idea of it since I was living with my ex last year. But no, she proceeds to yell at me the next time I see her. Shit like me getting pregnant and ruining my future, people gossiping, how it's not ok for me to spend the time with him and stay out so late all the time, how I'm willingly putting myself in danger, etc. I get it, she's being overprotective, and I know the whole \"her house, her rules\" stuff. I'm currently looking for a job and I want to move out ASAP, but until I am financially stable, it's not happening.\n\nHere comes the awkward part. The guy I'm seeing is pretty independent and he has no issues like this. How do I tell him about my \"talk\" with my mother and that I do want to respect her feelings by not staying out so late? It would mean cutting down on our time together since he works over 60 hours a week, and I don't want him to think of me as a child simply because of that. We're both Asian, so I don't know if that would work in my favor and he would understand where I'm coming from with the helicopter parenting."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: I've gone away to another state for college for four years, during which my senior year (last year) she knew I was living with my then boyfriend because I had broken my leg and he was caring for me at the time. Circumstances had it that I moved back home and we split up last year. Since I was in physical therapy for a while, I did not get back into social activities until the past few months.\n\nI started seeing this amazing guy a month and half ago and we hit it off pretty much immediately. He works long hours and only has one day off, so we plan our hangouts on his day off and on weekends, leading me to staying out all day/late into the night (think 2-5AM). Last week he moved, and I was able to stay over at his place. I did not think much of it as I told my mom where I was going, and thought that she'd be used to the idea of it since I was living with my ex last year. But no, she proceeds to yell at me the next time I see her. Shit like me getting pregnant and ruining my future, people gossiping, how it's not ok for me to spend the time with him and stay out so late all the time, how I'm willingly putting myself in danger, etc. I get it, she's being overprotective, and I know the whole \"her house, her rules\" stuff. I'm currently looking for a job and I want to move out ASAP, but until I am financially stable, it's not happening.\n\nHere comes the awkward part. The guy I'm seeing is pretty independent and he has no issues like this. How do I tell him about my \"talk\" with my mother and that I do want to respect her feelings by not staying out so late? It would mean cutting down on our time together since he works over 60 hours a week, and I don't want him to think of me as a child simply because of that. We're both Asian, so I don't know if that would work in my favor and he would understand where I'm coming from with the helicopter parenting."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: I've gone away to another state for college for four years, during which my senior year (last year) she knew I was living with my then boyfriend because I had broken my leg and he was caring for me at the time. Circumstances had it that I moved back home and we split up last year. Since I was in physical therapy for a while, I did not get back into social activities until the past few months.\n\nI started seeing this amazing guy a month and half ago and we hit it off pretty much immediately. He works long hours and only has one day off, so we plan our hangouts on his day off and on weekends, leading me to staying out all day/late into the night (think 2-5AM). Last week he moved, and I was able to stay over at his place. I did not think much of it as I told my mom where I was going, and thought that she'd be used to the idea of it since I was living with my ex last year. But no, she proceeds to yell at me the next time I see her. Shit like me getting pregnant and ruining my future, people gossiping, how it's not ok for me to spend the time with him and stay out so late all the time, how I'm willingly putting myself in danger, etc. I get it, she's being overprotective, and I know the whole \"her house, her rules\" stuff. I'm currently looking for a job and I want to move out ASAP, but until I am financially stable, it's not happening.\n\nHere comes the awkward part. The guy I'm seeing is pretty independent and he has no issues like this. How do I tell him about my \"talk\" with my mother and that I do want to respect her feelings by not staying out so late? It would mean cutting down on our time together since he works over 60 hours a week, and I don't want him to think of me as a child simply because of that. We're both Asian, so I don't know if that would work in my favor and he would understand where I'm coming from with the helicopter parenting."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: \"Don't think of it as giving a stranger $30, think of it as a $30 bet on my faith in humanity\"\n\nThats what I told myself when I found myself giving a stranger $30 for \"gas\" after he told me a sob story about getting kicked out from his relatives' and being stranded 200 miles from home. I don't know if I just look like a sucker, but I felt bad. I didn't believe the guy in the slightest and knew as soon as I gave him money I would never see him again. I guess I may be in denial or just stupid because part of me actually wanted this guy to be telling the truth. He was driving a nice car so when he told me that he would pay me back (Western Union me the money) I naturally thought he would have the means to do it, but obviously never thought he would.\n\nI gave him my name and phone number so that he could call me back the next morning (today) and get the rest of my info to send me the money. (He promised $150 but really I said I just wanted the $30 back) Surprise surprise, I go all day today without hearing a word from him. It may be possible he just forgot and is actually planning on getting to me eventually but i seriously doubt it.\n\nHere's the fun part: As I walked away I got his license plate number, and it just so happens where I work has a direct linkup to the DMV. Long story short, I got his full name and address, and after a quick check on facebook, I am pretty sure I found the guy. (Yay technology!) Turns out he lives 20 minutes away, not 200 miles. Im not really up for breaking the law, and I couldn't care less about my $30, but is there something I can do with this info to discourage him from ripping off innocent people in the future?\n\nEDIT:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: \"Don't think of it as giving a stranger $30, think of it as a $30 bet on my faith in humanity\"\n\nThats what I told myself when I found myself giving a stranger $30 for \"gas\" after he told me a sob story about getting kicked out from his relatives' and being stranded 200 miles from home. I don't know if I just look like a sucker, but I felt bad. I didn't believe the guy in the slightest and knew as soon as I gave him money I would never see him again. I guess I may be in denial or just stupid because part of me actually wanted this guy to be telling the truth. He was driving a nice car so when he told me that he would pay me back (Western Union me the money) I naturally thought he would have the means to do it, but obviously never thought he would.\n\nI gave him my name and phone number so that he could call me back the next morning (today) and get the rest of my info to send me the money. (He promised $150 but really I said I just wanted the $30 back) Surprise surprise, I go all day today without hearing a word from him. It may be possible he just forgot and is actually planning on getting to me eventually but i seriously doubt it.\n\nHere's the fun part: As I walked away I got his license plate number, and it just so happens where I work has a direct linkup to the DMV. Long story short, I got his full name and address, and after a quick check on facebook, I am pretty sure I found the guy. (Yay technology!) Turns out he lives 20 minutes away, not 200 miles. Im not really up for breaking the law, and I couldn't care less about my $30, but is there something I can do with this info to discourage him from ripping off innocent people in the future?\n\nEDIT:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: \"Don't think of it as giving a stranger $30, think of it as a $30 bet on my faith in humanity\"\n\nThats what I told myself when I found myself giving a stranger $30 for \"gas\" after he told me a sob story about getting kicked out from his relatives' and being stranded 200 miles from home. I don't know if I just look like a sucker, but I felt bad. I didn't believe the guy in the slightest and knew as soon as I gave him money I would never see him again. I guess I may be in denial or just stupid because part of me actually wanted this guy to be telling the truth. He was driving a nice car so when he told me that he would pay me back (Western Union me the money) I naturally thought he would have the means to do it, but obviously never thought he would.\n\nI gave him my name and phone number so that he could call me back the next morning (today) and get the rest of my info to send me the money. (He promised $150 but really I said I just wanted the $30 back) Surprise surprise, I go all day today without hearing a word from him. It may be possible he just forgot and is actually planning on getting to me eventually but i seriously doubt it.\n\nHere's the fun part: As I walked away I got his license plate number, and it just so happens where I work has a direct linkup to the DMV. Long story short, I got his full name and address, and after a quick check on facebook, I am pretty sure I found the guy. (Yay technology!) Turns out he lives 20 minutes away, not 200 miles. Im not really up for breaking the law, and I couldn't care less about my $30, but is there something I can do with this info to discourage him from ripping off innocent people in the future?\n\nEDIT:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: \"Don't think of it as giving a stranger $30, think of it as a $30 bet on my faith in humanity\"\n\nThats what I told myself when I found myself giving a stranger $30 for \"gas\" after he told me a sob story about getting kicked out from his relatives' and being stranded 200 miles from home. I don't know if I just look like a sucker, but I felt bad. I didn't believe the guy in the slightest and knew as soon as I gave him money I would never see him again. I guess I may be in denial or just stupid because part of me actually wanted this guy to be telling the truth. He was driving a nice car so when he told me that he would pay me back (Western Union me the money) I naturally thought he would have the means to do it, but obviously never thought he would.\n\nI gave him my name and phone number so that he could call me back the next morning (today) and get the rest of my info to send me the money. (He promised $150 but really I said I just wanted the $30 back) Surprise surprise, I go all day today without hearing a word from him. It may be possible he just forgot and is actually planning on getting to me eventually but i seriously doubt it.\n\nHere's the fun part: As I walked away I got his license plate number, and it just so happens where I work has a direct linkup to the DMV. Long story short, I got his full name and address, and after a quick check on facebook, I am pretty sure I found the guy. (Yay technology!) Turns out he lives 20 minutes away, not 200 miles. Im not really up for breaking the law, and I couldn't care less about my $30, but is there something I can do with this info to discourage him from ripping off innocent people in the future?\n\nEDIT:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: \"Don't think of it as giving a stranger $30, think of it as a $30 bet on my faith in humanity\"\n\nThats what I told myself when I found myself giving a stranger $30 for \"gas\" after he told me a sob story about getting kicked out from his relatives' and being stranded 200 miles from home. I don't know if I just look like a sucker, but I felt bad. I didn't believe the guy in the slightest and knew as soon as I gave him money I would never see him again. I guess I may be in denial or just stupid because part of me actually wanted this guy to be telling the truth. He was driving a nice car so when he told me that he would pay me back (Western Union me the money) I naturally thought he would have the means to do it, but obviously never thought he would.\n\nI gave him my name and phone number so that he could call me back the next morning (today) and get the rest of my info to send me the money. (He promised $150 but really I said I just wanted the $30 back) Surprise surprise, I go all day today without hearing a word from him. It may be possible he just forgot and is actually planning on getting to me eventually but i seriously doubt it.\n\nHere's the fun part: As I walked away I got his license plate number, and it just so happens where I work has a direct linkup to the DMV. Long story short, I got his full name and address, and after a quick check on facebook, I am pretty sure I found the guy. (Yay technology!) Turns out he lives 20 minutes away, not 200 miles. Im not really up for breaking the law, and I couldn't care less about my $30, but is there something I can do with this info to discourage him from ripping off innocent people in the future?\n\nEDIT:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: \"Don't think of it as giving a stranger $30, think of it as a $30 bet on my faith in humanity\"\n\nThats what I told myself when I found myself giving a stranger $30 for \"gas\" after he told me a sob story about getting kicked out from his relatives' and being stranded 200 miles from home. I don't know if I just look like a sucker, but I felt bad. I didn't believe the guy in the slightest and knew as soon as I gave him money I would never see him again. I guess I may be in denial or just stupid because part of me actually wanted this guy to be telling the truth. He was driving a nice car so when he told me that he would pay me back (Western Union me the money) I naturally thought he would have the means to do it, but obviously never thought he would.\n\nI gave him my name and phone number so that he could call me back the next morning (today) and get the rest of my info to send me the money. (He promised $150 but really I said I just wanted the $30 back) Surprise surprise, I go all day today without hearing a word from him. It may be possible he just forgot and is actually planning on getting to me eventually but i seriously doubt it.\n\nHere's the fun part: As I walked away I got his license plate number, and it just so happens where I work has a direct linkup to the DMV. Long story short, I got his full name and address, and after a quick check on facebook, I am pretty sure I found the guy. (Yay technology!) Turns out he lives 20 minutes away, not 200 miles. Im not really up for breaking the law, and I couldn't care less about my $30, but is there something I can do with this info to discourage him from ripping off innocent people in the future?\n\nEDIT:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have 5 feral kittens living in our backyard. We had been feeding the mother cat since she was a kitten (and yes, we massively regret not trapping and spaying her before this happened) but she didn't move the kittens to our backyard until they were around 5 weeks. They're now about 2 months old, and have become much less skittish than they were when they first arrived, but I have a feeling they're getting to the point where it's going to be very hard to domesticate them. We're facing a lot of pressure/criticism from both our neighbors and friends. they really think we should catch them and find homes for them, but I know that undomesticated feral cats don't make the best pets and it'll be hard to find homes for all of them. I'm fine with just catching them, spaying/neutering them, putting them back outside, and continuing to feed/water them, but like I said, everyone we talk to seems to think that would be cruel and uncaring of us. We plan to be doing the TNR for the colony (which is 10 cats, including the kittens) in the next couple weeks. Has anyone here had experience domesticating kittens over 2 months old? Is it hopeless, or should we at least give it a shot?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have 5 feral kittens living in our backyard. We had been feeding the mother cat since she was a kitten (and yes, we massively regret not trapping and spaying her before this happened) but she didn't move the kittens to our backyard until they were around 5 weeks. They're now about 2 months old, and have become much less skittish than they were when they first arrived, but I have a feeling they're getting to the point where it's going to be very hard to domesticate them. We're facing a lot of pressure/criticism from both our neighbors and friends. they really think we should catch them and find homes for them, but I know that undomesticated feral cats don't make the best pets and it'll be hard to find homes for all of them. I'm fine with just catching them, spaying/neutering them, putting them back outside, and continuing to feed/water them, but like I said, everyone we talk to seems to think that would be cruel and uncaring of us. We plan to be doing the TNR for the colony (which is 10 cats, including the kittens) in the next couple weeks. Has anyone here had experience domesticating kittens over 2 months old? Is it hopeless, or should we at least give it a shot?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have 5 feral kittens living in our backyard. We had been feeding the mother cat since she was a kitten (and yes, we massively regret not trapping and spaying her before this happened) but she didn't move the kittens to our backyard until they were around 5 weeks. They're now about 2 months old, and have become much less skittish than they were when they first arrived, but I have a feeling they're getting to the point where it's going to be very hard to domesticate them. We're facing a lot of pressure/criticism from both our neighbors and friends. they really think we should catch them and find homes for them, but I know that undomesticated feral cats don't make the best pets and it'll be hard to find homes for all of them. I'm fine with just catching them, spaying/neutering them, putting them back outside, and continuing to feed/water them, but like I said, everyone we talk to seems to think that would be cruel and uncaring of us. We plan to be doing the TNR for the colony (which is 10 cats, including the kittens) in the next couple weeks. Has anyone here had experience domesticating kittens over 2 months old? Is it hopeless, or should we at least give it a shot?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, I'm kind of new to this sub reddit but I figured I'd get an opinion from here. \n\nI'm a 25 year old male, 6 foot 1 inch, around 185lbs. I have been a massage therapist for 4 years now. My health history just consists of non existent asthma, a detached retina surgery, and experienced the wonderfull thing known as rhabdo. My family has no major hereditary problems.\n\nThe problem has been my stomach for almost 2 weeks now. At random times throughout my day, usually two or three times, my stomach will begin to feel upset, not exactly painful but I just feel drained and irratible. There's no nausea or indegestion involved, just this feeling of weakness, and I can't quite target where at but it just feels like in the stomach area. \n\nAt first I thought it was just something I ate the first day. Then the next few days I realized this wasn't stopping. I monitored what I ate, tried different foods, cut certain out, cut out gluten, cut out sugars, etc etc. before all of this my diet was. decent, kind of all over, I'll eat just about anything from steamed vegetables to a bowl of ice cream. Some notable things I do drink are alcohol on social occasions and C4 (preworkout that has high caffeine and creatine I believe).\nThe C4 I will take sparingly, maybe two or three times a week before intense boxing classes. \n\nOf course you're wondering why at 2 weeks I haven't gone to the doctor and that's because I do not have health insurance. I think at this point though I'm going to break down and just see someone, I'm actually still paying my hospital bill from my rhabdo incident. Just thought I would see if anyone has heard of this kind of thing because I cannot find anything on the Internet nor do people I talk to know. \n\nI don't think"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, I'm kind of new to this sub reddit but I figured I'd get an opinion from here. \n\nI'm a 25 year old male, 6 foot 1 inch, around 185lbs. I have been a massage therapist for 4 years now. My health history just consists of non existent asthma, a detached retina surgery, and experienced the wonderfull thing known as rhabdo. My family has no major hereditary problems.\n\nThe problem has been my stomach for almost 2 weeks now. At random times throughout my day, usually two or three times, my stomach will begin to feel upset, not exactly painful but I just feel drained and irratible. There's no nausea or indegestion involved, just this feeling of weakness, and I can't quite target where at but it just feels like in the stomach area. \n\nAt first I thought it was just something I ate the first day. Then the next few days I realized this wasn't stopping. I monitored what I ate, tried different foods, cut certain out, cut out gluten, cut out sugars, etc etc. before all of this my diet was. decent, kind of all over, I'll eat just about anything from steamed vegetables to a bowl of ice cream. Some notable things I do drink are alcohol on social occasions and C4 (preworkout that has high caffeine and creatine I believe).\nThe C4 I will take sparingly, maybe two or three times a week before intense boxing classes. \n\nOf course you're wondering why at 2 weeks I haven't gone to the doctor and that's because I do not have health insurance. I think at this point though I'm going to break down and just see someone, I'm actually still paying my hospital bill from my rhabdo incident. Just thought I would see if anyone has heard of this kind of thing because I cannot find anything on the Internet nor do people I talk to know. \n\nI don't think"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, I'm kind of new to this sub reddit but I figured I'd get an opinion from here. \n\nI'm a 25 year old male, 6 foot 1 inch, around 185lbs. I have been a massage therapist for 4 years now. My health history just consists of non existent asthma, a detached retina surgery, and experienced the wonderfull thing known as rhabdo. My family has no major hereditary problems.\n\nThe problem has been my stomach for almost 2 weeks now. At random times throughout my day, usually two or three times, my stomach will begin to feel upset, not exactly painful but I just feel drained and irratible. There's no nausea or indegestion involved, just this feeling of weakness, and I can't quite target where at but it just feels like in the stomach area. \n\nAt first I thought it was just something I ate the first day. Then the next few days I realized this wasn't stopping. I monitored what I ate, tried different foods, cut certain out, cut out gluten, cut out sugars, etc etc. before all of this my diet was. decent, kind of all over, I'll eat just about anything from steamed vegetables to a bowl of ice cream. Some notable things I do drink are alcohol on social occasions and C4 (preworkout that has high caffeine and creatine I believe).\nThe C4 I will take sparingly, maybe two or three times a week before intense boxing classes. \n\nOf course you're wondering why at 2 weeks I haven't gone to the doctor and that's because I do not have health insurance. I think at this point though I'm going to break down and just see someone, I'm actually still paying my hospital bill from my rhabdo incident. Just thought I would see if anyone has heard of this kind of thing because I cannot find anything on the Internet nor do people I talk to know. \n\nI don't think"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, I'm kind of new to this sub reddit but I figured I'd get an opinion from here. \n\nI'm a 25 year old male, 6 foot 1 inch, around 185lbs. I have been a massage therapist for 4 years now. My health history just consists of non existent asthma, a detached retina surgery, and experienced the wonderfull thing known as rhabdo. My family has no major hereditary problems.\n\nThe problem has been my stomach for almost 2 weeks now. At random times throughout my day, usually two or three times, my stomach will begin to feel upset, not exactly painful but I just feel drained and irratible. There's no nausea or indegestion involved, just this feeling of weakness, and I can't quite target where at but it just feels like in the stomach area. \n\nAt first I thought it was just something I ate the first day. Then the next few days I realized this wasn't stopping. I monitored what I ate, tried different foods, cut certain out, cut out gluten, cut out sugars, etc etc. before all of this my diet was. decent, kind of all over, I'll eat just about anything from steamed vegetables to a bowl of ice cream. Some notable things I do drink are alcohol on social occasions and C4 (preworkout that has high caffeine and creatine I believe).\nThe C4 I will take sparingly, maybe two or three times a week before intense boxing classes. \n\nOf course you're wondering why at 2 weeks I haven't gone to the doctor and that's because I do not have health insurance. I think at this point though I'm going to break down and just see someone, I'm actually still paying my hospital bill from my rhabdo incident. Just thought I would see if anyone has heard of this kind of thing because I cannot find anything on the Internet nor do people I talk to know. \n\nI don't think"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, I'm kind of new to this sub reddit but I figured I'd get an opinion from here. \n\nI'm a 25 year old male, 6 foot 1 inch, around 185lbs. I have been a massage therapist for 4 years now. My health history just consists of non existent asthma, a detached retina surgery, and experienced the wonderfull thing known as rhabdo. My family has no major hereditary problems.\n\nThe problem has been my stomach for almost 2 weeks now. At random times throughout my day, usually two or three times, my stomach will begin to feel upset, not exactly painful but I just feel drained and irratible. There's no nausea or indegestion involved, just this feeling of weakness, and I can't quite target where at but it just feels like in the stomach area. \n\nAt first I thought it was just something I ate the first day. Then the next few days I realized this wasn't stopping. I monitored what I ate, tried different foods, cut certain out, cut out gluten, cut out sugars, etc etc. before all of this my diet was. decent, kind of all over, I'll eat just about anything from steamed vegetables to a bowl of ice cream. Some notable things I do drink are alcohol on social occasions and C4 (preworkout that has high caffeine and creatine I believe).\nThe C4 I will take sparingly, maybe two or three times a week before intense boxing classes. \n\nOf course you're wondering why at 2 weeks I haven't gone to the doctor and that's because I do not have health insurance. I think at this point though I'm going to break down and just see someone, I'm actually still paying my hospital bill from my rhabdo incident. Just thought I would see if anyone has heard of this kind of thing because I cannot find anything on the Internet nor do people I talk to know. \n\nI don't think"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, I'm kind of new to this sub reddit but I figured I'd get an opinion from here. \n\nI'm a 25 year old male, 6 foot 1 inch, around 185lbs. I have been a massage therapist for 4 years now. My health history just consists of non existent asthma, a detached retina surgery, and experienced the wonderfull thing known as rhabdo. My family has no major hereditary problems.\n\nThe problem has been my stomach for almost 2 weeks now. At random times throughout my day, usually two or three times, my stomach will begin to feel upset, not exactly painful but I just feel drained and irratible. There's no nausea or indegestion involved, just this feeling of weakness, and I can't quite target where at but it just feels like in the stomach area. \n\nAt first I thought it was just something I ate the first day. Then the next few days I realized this wasn't stopping. I monitored what I ate, tried different foods, cut certain out, cut out gluten, cut out sugars, etc etc. before all of this my diet was. decent, kind of all over, I'll eat just about anything from steamed vegetables to a bowl of ice cream. Some notable things I do drink are alcohol on social occasions and C4 (preworkout that has high caffeine and creatine I believe).\nThe C4 I will take sparingly, maybe two or three times a week before intense boxing classes. \n\nOf course you're wondering why at 2 weeks I haven't gone to the doctor and that's because I do not have health insurance. I think at this point though I'm going to break down and just see someone, I'm actually still paying my hospital bill from my rhabdo incident. Just thought I would see if anyone has heard of this kind of thing because I cannot find anything on the Internet nor do people I talk to know. \n\nI don't think"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl through a mutual friend and started dating her a year ago, but we both attend different schools about an hour away so I only see her on weekends. We love each other, so I wanted to see what it would be like to live together.\n\nDuring a three week period during winter break she wanted to live with me and it worked out really well. She made me breakfast every morning in bed, organized my apartment and was really fun to be with. Sex was great as well since she is a really horny girl with an insatiable sexual appetite, I make sure that she gets to orgasm once a day however I'd be satisfied with a few times a week. She sometimes would wake me up with blowjobs which is nice since she's amazing at giving them. Everything is great, however she wants to get super serious and is incredibly needy.\n\nShe can't handle me being unsatisfied or unhappy without completely turning into a wreck. She's so afraid of losing me that she'll start crying and having panic attacks whenever I'm mad about something which gets pretty annoying. Her neediness is also insane, for example I'll go to class where I lose cell service and when I get out I'll have 20 texts with her panicking apologizing thinking I'm ignoring her. She seems to think that I \"saved her\" because she was depressed before she met me and now she's always happy and ecstatic most of the time. Because of that she says things like how she'd kill herself if I ever left her. It's ridiculous, and I don't know how she's going to be in the future. \n\nI haven't been bothered by her neediness and occasional emotional outbursts, but she wants to get more serious. She wants me to propose to her, and she wants kids within the next few years. She's also wanting to move in with me when school ends in a month. I don't know if her neediness is going to be problem or not for the future."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl through a mutual friend and started dating her a year ago, but we both attend different schools about an hour away so I only see her on weekends. We love each other, so I wanted to see what it would be like to live together.\n\nDuring a three week period during winter break she wanted to live with me and it worked out really well. She made me breakfast every morning in bed, organized my apartment and was really fun to be with. Sex was great as well since she is a really horny girl with an insatiable sexual appetite, I make sure that she gets to orgasm once a day however I'd be satisfied with a few times a week. She sometimes would wake me up with blowjobs which is nice since she's amazing at giving them. Everything is great, however she wants to get super serious and is incredibly needy.\n\nShe can't handle me being unsatisfied or unhappy without completely turning into a wreck. She's so afraid of losing me that she'll start crying and having panic attacks whenever I'm mad about something which gets pretty annoying. Her neediness is also insane, for example I'll go to class where I lose cell service and when I get out I'll have 20 texts with her panicking apologizing thinking I'm ignoring her. She seems to think that I \"saved her\" because she was depressed before she met me and now she's always happy and ecstatic most of the time. Because of that she says things like how she'd kill herself if I ever left her. It's ridiculous, and I don't know how she's going to be in the future. \n\nI haven't been bothered by her neediness and occasional emotional outbursts, but she wants to get more serious. She wants me to propose to her, and she wants kids within the next few years. She's also wanting to move in with me when school ends in a month. I don't know if her neediness is going to be problem or not for the future."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl through a mutual friend and started dating her a year ago, but we both attend different schools about an hour away so I only see her on weekends. We love each other, so I wanted to see what it would be like to live together.\n\nDuring a three week period during winter break she wanted to live with me and it worked out really well. She made me breakfast every morning in bed, organized my apartment and was really fun to be with. Sex was great as well since she is a really horny girl with an insatiable sexual appetite, I make sure that she gets to orgasm once a day however I'd be satisfied with a few times a week. She sometimes would wake me up with blowjobs which is nice since she's amazing at giving them. Everything is great, however she wants to get super serious and is incredibly needy.\n\nShe can't handle me being unsatisfied or unhappy without completely turning into a wreck. She's so afraid of losing me that she'll start crying and having panic attacks whenever I'm mad about something which gets pretty annoying. Her neediness is also insane, for example I'll go to class where I lose cell service and when I get out I'll have 20 texts with her panicking apologizing thinking I'm ignoring her. She seems to think that I \"saved her\" because she was depressed before she met me and now she's always happy and ecstatic most of the time. Because of that she says things like how she'd kill herself if I ever left her. It's ridiculous, and I don't know how she's going to be in the future. \n\nI haven't been bothered by her neediness and occasional emotional outbursts, but she wants to get more serious. She wants me to propose to her, and she wants kids within the next few years. She's also wanting to move in with me when school ends in a month. I don't know if her neediness is going to be problem or not for the future."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl through a mutual friend and started dating her a year ago, but we both attend different schools about an hour away so I only see her on weekends. We love each other, so I wanted to see what it would be like to live together.\n\nDuring a three week period during winter break she wanted to live with me and it worked out really well. She made me breakfast every morning in bed, organized my apartment and was really fun to be with. Sex was great as well since she is a really horny girl with an insatiable sexual appetite, I make sure that she gets to orgasm once a day however I'd be satisfied with a few times a week. She sometimes would wake me up with blowjobs which is nice since she's amazing at giving them. Everything is great, however she wants to get super serious and is incredibly needy.\n\nShe can't handle me being unsatisfied or unhappy without completely turning into a wreck. She's so afraid of losing me that she'll start crying and having panic attacks whenever I'm mad about something which gets pretty annoying. Her neediness is also insane, for example I'll go to class where I lose cell service and when I get out I'll have 20 texts with her panicking apologizing thinking I'm ignoring her. She seems to think that I \"saved her\" because she was depressed before she met me and now she's always happy and ecstatic most of the time. Because of that she says things like how she'd kill herself if I ever left her. It's ridiculous, and I don't know how she's going to be in the future. \n\nI haven't been bothered by her neediness and occasional emotional outbursts, but she wants to get more serious. She wants me to propose to her, and she wants kids within the next few years. She's also wanting to move in with me when school ends in a month. I don't know if her neediness is going to be problem or not for the future."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl through a mutual friend and started dating her a year ago, but we both attend different schools about an hour away so I only see her on weekends. We love each other, so I wanted to see what it would be like to live together.\n\nDuring a three week period during winter break she wanted to live with me and it worked out really well. She made me breakfast every morning in bed, organized my apartment and was really fun to be with. Sex was great as well since she is a really horny girl with an insatiable sexual appetite, I make sure that she gets to orgasm once a day however I'd be satisfied with a few times a week. She sometimes would wake me up with blowjobs which is nice since she's amazing at giving them. Everything is great, however she wants to get super serious and is incredibly needy.\n\nShe can't handle me being unsatisfied or unhappy without completely turning into a wreck. She's so afraid of losing me that she'll start crying and having panic attacks whenever I'm mad about something which gets pretty annoying. Her neediness is also insane, for example I'll go to class where I lose cell service and when I get out I'll have 20 texts with her panicking apologizing thinking I'm ignoring her. She seems to think that I \"saved her\" because she was depressed before she met me and now she's always happy and ecstatic most of the time. Because of that she says things like how she'd kill herself if I ever left her. It's ridiculous, and I don't know how she's going to be in the future. \n\nI haven't been bothered by her neediness and occasional emotional outbursts, but she wants to get more serious. She wants me to propose to her, and she wants kids within the next few years. She's also wanting to move in with me when school ends in a month. I don't know if her neediness is going to be problem or not for the future."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl through a mutual friend and started dating her a year ago, but we both attend different schools about an hour away so I only see her on weekends. We love each other, so I wanted to see what it would be like to live together.\n\nDuring a three week period during winter break she wanted to live with me and it worked out really well. She made me breakfast every morning in bed, organized my apartment and was really fun to be with. Sex was great as well since she is a really horny girl with an insatiable sexual appetite, I make sure that she gets to orgasm once a day however I'd be satisfied with a few times a week. She sometimes would wake me up with blowjobs which is nice since she's amazing at giving them. Everything is great, however she wants to get super serious and is incredibly needy.\n\nShe can't handle me being unsatisfied or unhappy without completely turning into a wreck. She's so afraid of losing me that she'll start crying and having panic attacks whenever I'm mad about something which gets pretty annoying. Her neediness is also insane, for example I'll go to class where I lose cell service and when I get out I'll have 20 texts with her panicking apologizing thinking I'm ignoring her. She seems to think that I \"saved her\" because she was depressed before she met me and now she's always happy and ecstatic most of the time. Because of that she says things like how she'd kill herself if I ever left her. It's ridiculous, and I don't know how she's going to be in the future. \n\nI haven't been bothered by her neediness and occasional emotional outbursts, but she wants to get more serious. She wants me to propose to her, and she wants kids within the next few years. She's also wanting to move in with me when school ends in a month. I don't know if her neediness is going to be problem or not for the future."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On 8/31 we moved out of an apartment we'd lived in for 6 years. When we moved in there were many issues, including a carpet that we were told was 7 years old and was worn flat, and just old and run down conditions in general.\n\nToday, 11/3, we received the following in the mail: \n\nThe envelope is dated 10/23. So clearly they did not follow the 21-day law and they're trying to lie about it on the sheet.\n\nI'm not sure how much this form actually conforms to the law. There was nothing else in the envelope, no receipts, no details. There was damage to one of the doors (which was very old) which the manager knew about months before we moved and we were told it would be repaired at their cost and never was. \n\nThere was no damage to the floors that wasn't due to their age, such as cracked tiles/peeling linoleum. \n\nThe carpets were well over 10 years old, completely stained and ruined and flat when we moved in. We requested they not be replaced since we had cats and didn't want to have to worry about new carpets just in case. I also believe due to the age of the carpets and the fact that they needed replacing that they aren't entitled to cleaning them (we were also told they were going to be replaced and specifically NOT to worry about steaming them, as we do own our own steamer), but I don't know about that.\n\nI'm not necessarily against something for cleaning, although it was in good condition when we left it (I do have photos). It wasn't spotless stem to stern but I feel like $200 is excessive. \n\nThe rent I'm a bit iffy on. There were some months at the end of last year that we did pay less than the full amount, with permission. There was never any talk of repayment, they accepted our payments and never requested the rest of the money. It's now been over a year since most of those months (I believe it was September - December) and my understanding for CA is that after one year they can no longer request repayment, but I may be wrong on that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On 8/31 we moved out of an apartment we'd lived in for 6 years. When we moved in there were many issues, including a carpet that we were told was 7 years old and was worn flat, and just old and run down conditions in general.\n\nToday, 11/3, we received the following in the mail: \n\nThe envelope is dated 10/23. So clearly they did not follow the 21-day law and they're trying to lie about it on the sheet.\n\nI'm not sure how much this form actually conforms to the law. There was nothing else in the envelope, no receipts, no details. There was damage to one of the doors (which was very old) which the manager knew about months before we moved and we were told it would be repaired at their cost and never was. \n\nThere was no damage to the floors that wasn't due to their age, such as cracked tiles/peeling linoleum. \n\nThe carpets were well over 10 years old, completely stained and ruined and flat when we moved in. We requested they not be replaced since we had cats and didn't want to have to worry about new carpets just in case. I also believe due to the age of the carpets and the fact that they needed replacing that they aren't entitled to cleaning them (we were also told they were going to be replaced and specifically NOT to worry about steaming them, as we do own our own steamer), but I don't know about that.\n\nI'm not necessarily against something for cleaning, although it was in good condition when we left it (I do have photos). It wasn't spotless stem to stern but I feel like $200 is excessive. \n\nThe rent I'm a bit iffy on. There were some months at the end of last year that we did pay less than the full amount, with permission. There was never any talk of repayment, they accepted our payments and never requested the rest of the money. It's now been over a year since most of those months (I believe it was September - December) and my understanding for CA is that after one year they can no longer request repayment, but I may be wrong on that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On 8/31 we moved out of an apartment we'd lived in for 6 years. When we moved in there were many issues, including a carpet that we were told was 7 years old and was worn flat, and just old and run down conditions in general.\n\nToday, 11/3, we received the following in the mail: \n\nThe envelope is dated 10/23. So clearly they did not follow the 21-day law and they're trying to lie about it on the sheet.\n\nI'm not sure how much this form actually conforms to the law. There was nothing else in the envelope, no receipts, no details. There was damage to one of the doors (which was very old) which the manager knew about months before we moved and we were told it would be repaired at their cost and never was. \n\nThere was no damage to the floors that wasn't due to their age, such as cracked tiles/peeling linoleum. \n\nThe carpets were well over 10 years old, completely stained and ruined and flat when we moved in. We requested they not be replaced since we had cats and didn't want to have to worry about new carpets just in case. I also believe due to the age of the carpets and the fact that they needed replacing that they aren't entitled to cleaning them (we were also told they were going to be replaced and specifically NOT to worry about steaming them, as we do own our own steamer), but I don't know about that.\n\nI'm not necessarily against something for cleaning, although it was in good condition when we left it (I do have photos). It wasn't spotless stem to stern but I feel like $200 is excessive. \n\nThe rent I'm a bit iffy on. There were some months at the end of last year that we did pay less than the full amount, with permission. There was never any talk of repayment, they accepted our payments and never requested the rest of the money. It's now been over a year since most of those months (I believe it was September - December) and my understanding for CA is that after one year they can no longer request repayment, but I may be wrong on that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On 8/31 we moved out of an apartment we'd lived in for 6 years. When we moved in there were many issues, including a carpet that we were told was 7 years old and was worn flat, and just old and run down conditions in general.\n\nToday, 11/3, we received the following in the mail: \n\nThe envelope is dated 10/23. So clearly they did not follow the 21-day law and they're trying to lie about it on the sheet.\n\nI'm not sure how much this form actually conforms to the law. There was nothing else in the envelope, no receipts, no details. There was damage to one of the doors (which was very old) which the manager knew about months before we moved and we were told it would be repaired at their cost and never was. \n\nThere was no damage to the floors that wasn't due to their age, such as cracked tiles/peeling linoleum. \n\nThe carpets were well over 10 years old, completely stained and ruined and flat when we moved in. We requested they not be replaced since we had cats and didn't want to have to worry about new carpets just in case. I also believe due to the age of the carpets and the fact that they needed replacing that they aren't entitled to cleaning them (we were also told they were going to be replaced and specifically NOT to worry about steaming them, as we do own our own steamer), but I don't know about that.\n\nI'm not necessarily against something for cleaning, although it was in good condition when we left it (I do have photos). It wasn't spotless stem to stern but I feel like $200 is excessive. \n\nThe rent I'm a bit iffy on. There were some months at the end of last year that we did pay less than the full amount, with permission. There was never any talk of repayment, they accepted our payments and never requested the rest of the money. It's now been over a year since most of those months (I believe it was September - December) and my understanding for CA is that after one year they can no longer request repayment, but I may be wrong on that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On 8/31 we moved out of an apartment we'd lived in for 6 years. When we moved in there were many issues, including a carpet that we were told was 7 years old and was worn flat, and just old and run down conditions in general.\n\nToday, 11/3, we received the following in the mail: \n\nThe envelope is dated 10/23. So clearly they did not follow the 21-day law and they're trying to lie about it on the sheet.\n\nI'm not sure how much this form actually conforms to the law. There was nothing else in the envelope, no receipts, no details. There was damage to one of the doors (which was very old) which the manager knew about months before we moved and we were told it would be repaired at their cost and never was. \n\nThere was no damage to the floors that wasn't due to their age, such as cracked tiles/peeling linoleum. \n\nThe carpets were well over 10 years old, completely stained and ruined and flat when we moved in. We requested they not be replaced since we had cats and didn't want to have to worry about new carpets just in case. I also believe due to the age of the carpets and the fact that they needed replacing that they aren't entitled to cleaning them (we were also told they were going to be replaced and specifically NOT to worry about steaming them, as we do own our own steamer), but I don't know about that.\n\nI'm not necessarily against something for cleaning, although it was in good condition when we left it (I do have photos). It wasn't spotless stem to stern but I feel like $200 is excessive. \n\nThe rent I'm a bit iffy on. There were some months at the end of last year that we did pay less than the full amount, with permission. There was never any talk of repayment, they accepted our payments and never requested the rest of the money. It's now been over a year since most of those months (I believe it was September - December) and my understanding for CA is that after one year they can no longer request repayment, but I may be wrong on that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: On 8/31 we moved out of an apartment we'd lived in for 6 years. When we moved in there were many issues, including a carpet that we were told was 7 years old and was worn flat, and just old and run down conditions in general.\n\nToday, 11/3, we received the following in the mail: \n\nThe envelope is dated 10/23. So clearly they did not follow the 21-day law and they're trying to lie about it on the sheet.\n\nI'm not sure how much this form actually conforms to the law. There was nothing else in the envelope, no receipts, no details. There was damage to one of the doors (which was very old) which the manager knew about months before we moved and we were told it would be repaired at their cost and never was. \n\nThere was no damage to the floors that wasn't due to their age, such as cracked tiles/peeling linoleum. \n\nThe carpets were well over 10 years old, completely stained and ruined and flat when we moved in. We requested they not be replaced since we had cats and didn't want to have to worry about new carpets just in case. I also believe due to the age of the carpets and the fact that they needed replacing that they aren't entitled to cleaning them (we were also told they were going to be replaced and specifically NOT to worry about steaming them, as we do own our own steamer), but I don't know about that.\n\nI'm not necessarily against something for cleaning, although it was in good condition when we left it (I do have photos). It wasn't spotless stem to stern but I feel like $200 is excessive. \n\nThe rent I'm a bit iffy on. There were some months at the end of last year that we did pay less than the full amount, with permission. There was never any talk of repayment, they accepted our payments and never requested the rest of the money. It's now been over a year since most of those months (I believe it was September - December) and my understanding for CA is that after one year they can no longer request repayment, but I may be wrong on that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl two weeks ago and asked her out on a date, which we went out three days later. That night, she told me she doesn't kiss on the first date but later kissed me before I left. \n\nTwo days later, we go out again but there is no kiss. We just hug and hold hands. Then two days later, I offer to take her home from work, and she says okay. I meet up with her to take her home and we kiss. When we get to her house, we end up kissing more and then I ask her what exactly what we are doing. \n\nShe then says she's not seeing anyone else and hopefully I'm not either, but she wants to take it slow. I'm not sure what that means because I don't date too often. She told me she broke up with her ex four months ago, so maybe she's on the rebound? \n\nWe are going out tonight again, but I just don't know if she's genuinely interested, like if she's leading me on or something."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl two weeks ago and asked her out on a date, which we went out three days later. That night, she told me she doesn't kiss on the first date but later kissed me before I left. \n\nTwo days later, we go out again but there is no kiss. We just hug and hold hands. Then two days later, I offer to take her home from work, and she says okay. I meet up with her to take her home and we kiss. When we get to her house, we end up kissing more and then I ask her what exactly what we are doing. \n\nShe then says she's not seeing anyone else and hopefully I'm not either, but she wants to take it slow. I'm not sure what that means because I don't date too often. She told me she broke up with her ex four months ago, so maybe she's on the rebound? \n\nWe are going out tonight again, but I just don't know if she's genuinely interested, like if she's leading me on or something."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl two weeks ago and asked her out on a date, which we went out three days later. That night, she told me she doesn't kiss on the first date but later kissed me before I left. \n\nTwo days later, we go out again but there is no kiss. We just hug and hold hands. Then two days later, I offer to take her home from work, and she says okay. I meet up with her to take her home and we kiss. When we get to her house, we end up kissing more and then I ask her what exactly what we are doing. \n\nShe then says she's not seeing anyone else and hopefully I'm not either, but she wants to take it slow. I'm not sure what that means because I don't date too often. She told me she broke up with her ex four months ago, so maybe she's on the rebound? \n\nWe are going out tonight again, but I just don't know if she's genuinely interested, like if she's leading me on or something."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl two weeks ago and asked her out on a date, which we went out three days later. That night, she told me she doesn't kiss on the first date but later kissed me before I left. \n\nTwo days later, we go out again but there is no kiss. We just hug and hold hands. Then two days later, I offer to take her home from work, and she says okay. I meet up with her to take her home and we kiss. When we get to her house, we end up kissing more and then I ask her what exactly what we are doing. \n\nShe then says she's not seeing anyone else and hopefully I'm not either, but she wants to take it slow. I'm not sure what that means because I don't date too often. She told me she broke up with her ex four months ago, so maybe she's on the rebound? \n\nWe are going out tonight again, but I just don't know if she's genuinely interested, like if she's leading me on or something."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl two weeks ago and asked her out on a date, which we went out three days later. That night, she told me she doesn't kiss on the first date but later kissed me before I left. \n\nTwo days later, we go out again but there is no kiss. We just hug and hold hands. Then two days later, I offer to take her home from work, and she says okay. I meet up with her to take her home and we kiss. When we get to her house, we end up kissing more and then I ask her what exactly what we are doing. \n\nShe then says she's not seeing anyone else and hopefully I'm not either, but she wants to take it slow. I'm not sure what that means because I don't date too often. She told me she broke up with her ex four months ago, so maybe she's on the rebound? \n\nWe are going out tonight again, but I just don't know if she's genuinely interested, like if she's leading me on or something."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl two weeks ago and asked her out on a date, which we went out three days later. That night, she told me she doesn't kiss on the first date but later kissed me before I left. \n\nTwo days later, we go out again but there is no kiss. We just hug and hold hands. Then two days later, I offer to take her home from work, and she says okay. I meet up with her to take her home and we kiss. When we get to her house, we end up kissing more and then I ask her what exactly what we are doing. \n\nShe then says she's not seeing anyone else and hopefully I'm not either, but she wants to take it slow. I'm not sure what that means because I don't date too often. She told me she broke up with her ex four months ago, so maybe she's on the rebound? \n\nWe are going out tonight again, but I just don't know if she's genuinely interested, like if she's leading me on or something."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not talking about him making music. I don't listen to him, I don't listen to Pop at all. I don't understand why everybody hates on Justin Bieber so much. I may not like his music, but I didn't have an orgasm when he got shot on CSI (I didn't actually see that entire episode, is Bieber a decent actor?)\n\nSure, he may only sing sappy poppy love songs, and sure, he may not actually be old enough to experience the kind of love that nearly all of his songs are about, but that doesn't automatically mean that everyone should hate him with every fiber of their being. \n\nIf people have any reason to dislike Justin Bieber, it would have to be because of how naive he is, singing about true love like he's experienced it his whole life. But do you express pure hatred toward every naive person that you meet in life?\n\nI'm sure that by now I've lost any sense of coolness about me that I may have ever had here on Reddit, and I would say something along the lines of \"I'm not defending him or anything. . .\" but I am defending him. The fact of the matter is, he doesn't deserve all of the hate that everyone keeps sending his way.\n\nThe people that are hard-core metal fans are just as stupid. You know the kind, the people on YouTube that visit Justin Bieber's songs and post shit about being on the \"METAL MILITIA\" and setting dates to go around and leave hate comments on videos of pop songs. I'm sorry, but that is fucking retarded. The \"METAL MILITIA\" isn't going to get anything accomplished by posting hate comments on Justin Bieber's videos. These guys are nearly as funny as the Juggalos.\n\nIt's also retarded that when looking at nearly any music video on YouTube now, Justin Bieber's name gets mentioned."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not talking about him making music. I don't listen to him, I don't listen to Pop at all. I don't understand why everybody hates on Justin Bieber so much. I may not like his music, but I didn't have an orgasm when he got shot on CSI (I didn't actually see that entire episode, is Bieber a decent actor?)\n\nSure, he may only sing sappy poppy love songs, and sure, he may not actually be old enough to experience the kind of love that nearly all of his songs are about, but that doesn't automatically mean that everyone should hate him with every fiber of their being. \n\nIf people have any reason to dislike Justin Bieber, it would have to be because of how naive he is, singing about true love like he's experienced it his whole life. But do you express pure hatred toward every naive person that you meet in life?\n\nI'm sure that by now I've lost any sense of coolness about me that I may have ever had here on Reddit, and I would say something along the lines of \"I'm not defending him or anything. . .\" but I am defending him. The fact of the matter is, he doesn't deserve all of the hate that everyone keeps sending his way.\n\nThe people that are hard-core metal fans are just as stupid. You know the kind, the people on YouTube that visit Justin Bieber's songs and post shit about being on the \"METAL MILITIA\" and setting dates to go around and leave hate comments on videos of pop songs. I'm sorry, but that is fucking retarded. The \"METAL MILITIA\" isn't going to get anything accomplished by posting hate comments on Justin Bieber's videos. These guys are nearly as funny as the Juggalos.\n\nIt's also retarded that when looking at nearly any music video on YouTube now, Justin Bieber's name gets mentioned."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not talking about him making music. I don't listen to him, I don't listen to Pop at all. I don't understand why everybody hates on Justin Bieber so much. I may not like his music, but I didn't have an orgasm when he got shot on CSI (I didn't actually see that entire episode, is Bieber a decent actor?)\n\nSure, he may only sing sappy poppy love songs, and sure, he may not actually be old enough to experience the kind of love that nearly all of his songs are about, but that doesn't automatically mean that everyone should hate him with every fiber of their being. \n\nIf people have any reason to dislike Justin Bieber, it would have to be because of how naive he is, singing about true love like he's experienced it his whole life. But do you express pure hatred toward every naive person that you meet in life?\n\nI'm sure that by now I've lost any sense of coolness about me that I may have ever had here on Reddit, and I would say something along the lines of \"I'm not defending him or anything. . .\" but I am defending him. The fact of the matter is, he doesn't deserve all of the hate that everyone keeps sending his way.\n\nThe people that are hard-core metal fans are just as stupid. You know the kind, the people on YouTube that visit Justin Bieber's songs and post shit about being on the \"METAL MILITIA\" and setting dates to go around and leave hate comments on videos of pop songs. I'm sorry, but that is fucking retarded. The \"METAL MILITIA\" isn't going to get anything accomplished by posting hate comments on Justin Bieber's videos. These guys are nearly as funny as the Juggalos.\n\nIt's also retarded that when looking at nearly any music video on YouTube now, Justin Bieber's name gets mentioned."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not talking about him making music. I don't listen to him, I don't listen to Pop at all. I don't understand why everybody hates on Justin Bieber so much. I may not like his music, but I didn't have an orgasm when he got shot on CSI (I didn't actually see that entire episode, is Bieber a decent actor?)\n\nSure, he may only sing sappy poppy love songs, and sure, he may not actually be old enough to experience the kind of love that nearly all of his songs are about, but that doesn't automatically mean that everyone should hate him with every fiber of their being. \n\nIf people have any reason to dislike Justin Bieber, it would have to be because of how naive he is, singing about true love like he's experienced it his whole life. But do you express pure hatred toward every naive person that you meet in life?\n\nI'm sure that by now I've lost any sense of coolness about me that I may have ever had here on Reddit, and I would say something along the lines of \"I'm not defending him or anything. . .\" but I am defending him. The fact of the matter is, he doesn't deserve all of the hate that everyone keeps sending his way.\n\nThe people that are hard-core metal fans are just as stupid. You know the kind, the people on YouTube that visit Justin Bieber's songs and post shit about being on the \"METAL MILITIA\" and setting dates to go around and leave hate comments on videos of pop songs. I'm sorry, but that is fucking retarded. The \"METAL MILITIA\" isn't going to get anything accomplished by posting hate comments on Justin Bieber's videos. These guys are nearly as funny as the Juggalos.\n\nIt's also retarded that when looking at nearly any music video on YouTube now, Justin Bieber's name gets mentioned."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not talking about him making music. I don't listen to him, I don't listen to Pop at all. I don't understand why everybody hates on Justin Bieber so much. I may not like his music, but I didn't have an orgasm when he got shot on CSI (I didn't actually see that entire episode, is Bieber a decent actor?)\n\nSure, he may only sing sappy poppy love songs, and sure, he may not actually be old enough to experience the kind of love that nearly all of his songs are about, but that doesn't automatically mean that everyone should hate him with every fiber of their being. \n\nIf people have any reason to dislike Justin Bieber, it would have to be because of how naive he is, singing about true love like he's experienced it his whole life. But do you express pure hatred toward every naive person that you meet in life?\n\nI'm sure that by now I've lost any sense of coolness about me that I may have ever had here on Reddit, and I would say something along the lines of \"I'm not defending him or anything. . .\" but I am defending him. The fact of the matter is, he doesn't deserve all of the hate that everyone keeps sending his way.\n\nThe people that are hard-core metal fans are just as stupid. You know the kind, the people on YouTube that visit Justin Bieber's songs and post shit about being on the \"METAL MILITIA\" and setting dates to go around and leave hate comments on videos of pop songs. I'm sorry, but that is fucking retarded. The \"METAL MILITIA\" isn't going to get anything accomplished by posting hate comments on Justin Bieber's videos. These guys are nearly as funny as the Juggalos.\n\nIt's also retarded that when looking at nearly any music video on YouTube now, Justin Bieber's name gets mentioned."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm not talking about him making music. I don't listen to him, I don't listen to Pop at all. I don't understand why everybody hates on Justin Bieber so much. I may not like his music, but I didn't have an orgasm when he got shot on CSI (I didn't actually see that entire episode, is Bieber a decent actor?)\n\nSure, he may only sing sappy poppy love songs, and sure, he may not actually be old enough to experience the kind of love that nearly all of his songs are about, but that doesn't automatically mean that everyone should hate him with every fiber of their being. \n\nIf people have any reason to dislike Justin Bieber, it would have to be because of how naive he is, singing about true love like he's experienced it his whole life. But do you express pure hatred toward every naive person that you meet in life?\n\nI'm sure that by now I've lost any sense of coolness about me that I may have ever had here on Reddit, and I would say something along the lines of \"I'm not defending him or anything. . .\" but I am defending him. The fact of the matter is, he doesn't deserve all of the hate that everyone keeps sending his way.\n\nThe people that are hard-core metal fans are just as stupid. You know the kind, the people on YouTube that visit Justin Bieber's songs and post shit about being on the \"METAL MILITIA\" and setting dates to go around and leave hate comments on videos of pop songs. I'm sorry, but that is fucking retarded. The \"METAL MILITIA\" isn't going to get anything accomplished by posting hate comments on Justin Bieber's videos. These guys are nearly as funny as the Juggalos.\n\nIt's also retarded that when looking at nearly any music video on YouTube now, Justin Bieber's name gets mentioned."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My romantic life is a mess, and I willing to admit that I am the problem. I don't want to turn into some arrogant jerk or a PUA, but I realize that I am too much of a Nice Guy and a pushover. I know confidence plays a big role in how men are perceived by women, but I am always am afraid of coming off as some sex crazed douche. \n\nI want to stay true to myself, I want to just learn how to put myself of there more and be ok with rejection. I am not trying to take every girl I can back to my place, it's just not who I am.\n\nSome background on me:\n\nI was always overweight, and peaked at over 400 lbs. I am down to 255, and still have a ways to go. This is always what was in my way when I met new women, and killed any confidence of flirting or asking them out. Sometime some would become my friends and over time, we would be really close friends, usually inseparable. Sometimes we would be mistaken as a couple, but it always stayed platonic. I don't fault them, I lacked the confidence to ask them out and I know I am not an attractive man. Whenever I found myself in these friendships I would become numb to other women, because emotionally, I had a friend with benefits. Eventually I become too emotionally involved and it leads to hurt for both me and my friend.\n\nI now realize this is not healthy, and want to live a normal dating life. Not so much casual dating, I understand that might be necessary to eventually meet someone, but I would like to have a semi-long term relationship with someone who is mutually there for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My romantic life is a mess, and I willing to admit that I am the problem. I don't want to turn into some arrogant jerk or a PUA, but I realize that I am too much of a Nice Guy and a pushover. I know confidence plays a big role in how men are perceived by women, but I am always am afraid of coming off as some sex crazed douche. \n\nI want to stay true to myself, I want to just learn how to put myself of there more and be ok with rejection. I am not trying to take every girl I can back to my place, it's just not who I am.\n\nSome background on me:\n\nI was always overweight, and peaked at over 400 lbs. I am down to 255, and still have a ways to go. This is always what was in my way when I met new women, and killed any confidence of flirting or asking them out. Sometime some would become my friends and over time, we would be really close friends, usually inseparable. Sometimes we would be mistaken as a couple, but it always stayed platonic. I don't fault them, I lacked the confidence to ask them out and I know I am not an attractive man. Whenever I found myself in these friendships I would become numb to other women, because emotionally, I had a friend with benefits. Eventually I become too emotionally involved and it leads to hurt for both me and my friend.\n\nI now realize this is not healthy, and want to live a normal dating life. Not so much casual dating, I understand that might be necessary to eventually meet someone, but I would like to have a semi-long term relationship with someone who is mutually there for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My romantic life is a mess, and I willing to admit that I am the problem. I don't want to turn into some arrogant jerk or a PUA, but I realize that I am too much of a Nice Guy and a pushover. I know confidence plays a big role in how men are perceived by women, but I am always am afraid of coming off as some sex crazed douche. \n\nI want to stay true to myself, I want to just learn how to put myself of there more and be ok with rejection. I am not trying to take every girl I can back to my place, it's just not who I am.\n\nSome background on me:\n\nI was always overweight, and peaked at over 400 lbs. I am down to 255, and still have a ways to go. This is always what was in my way when I met new women, and killed any confidence of flirting or asking them out. Sometime some would become my friends and over time, we would be really close friends, usually inseparable. Sometimes we would be mistaken as a couple, but it always stayed platonic. I don't fault them, I lacked the confidence to ask them out and I know I am not an attractive man. Whenever I found myself in these friendships I would become numb to other women, because emotionally, I had a friend with benefits. Eventually I become too emotionally involved and it leads to hurt for both me and my friend.\n\nI now realize this is not healthy, and want to live a normal dating life. Not so much casual dating, I understand that might be necessary to eventually meet someone, but I would like to have a semi-long term relationship with someone who is mutually there for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My romantic life is a mess, and I willing to admit that I am the problem. I don't want to turn into some arrogant jerk or a PUA, but I realize that I am too much of a Nice Guy and a pushover. I know confidence plays a big role in how men are perceived by women, but I am always am afraid of coming off as some sex crazed douche. \n\nI want to stay true to myself, I want to just learn how to put myself of there more and be ok with rejection. I am not trying to take every girl I can back to my place, it's just not who I am.\n\nSome background on me:\n\nI was always overweight, and peaked at over 400 lbs. I am down to 255, and still have a ways to go. This is always what was in my way when I met new women, and killed any confidence of flirting or asking them out. Sometime some would become my friends and over time, we would be really close friends, usually inseparable. Sometimes we would be mistaken as a couple, but it always stayed platonic. I don't fault them, I lacked the confidence to ask them out and I know I am not an attractive man. Whenever I found myself in these friendships I would become numb to other women, because emotionally, I had a friend with benefits. Eventually I become too emotionally involved and it leads to hurt for both me and my friend.\n\nI now realize this is not healthy, and want to live a normal dating life. Not so much casual dating, I understand that might be necessary to eventually meet someone, but I would like to have a semi-long term relationship with someone who is mutually there for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My romantic life is a mess, and I willing to admit that I am the problem. I don't want to turn into some arrogant jerk or a PUA, but I realize that I am too much of a Nice Guy and a pushover. I know confidence plays a big role in how men are perceived by women, but I am always am afraid of coming off as some sex crazed douche. \n\nI want to stay true to myself, I want to just learn how to put myself of there more and be ok with rejection. I am not trying to take every girl I can back to my place, it's just not who I am.\n\nSome background on me:\n\nI was always overweight, and peaked at over 400 lbs. I am down to 255, and still have a ways to go. This is always what was in my way when I met new women, and killed any confidence of flirting or asking them out. Sometime some would become my friends and over time, we would be really close friends, usually inseparable. Sometimes we would be mistaken as a couple, but it always stayed platonic. I don't fault them, I lacked the confidence to ask them out and I know I am not an attractive man. Whenever I found myself in these friendships I would become numb to other women, because emotionally, I had a friend with benefits. Eventually I become too emotionally involved and it leads to hurt for both me and my friend.\n\nI now realize this is not healthy, and want to live a normal dating life. Not so much casual dating, I understand that might be necessary to eventually meet someone, but I would like to have a semi-long term relationship with someone who is mutually there for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My romantic life is a mess, and I willing to admit that I am the problem. I don't want to turn into some arrogant jerk or a PUA, but I realize that I am too much of a Nice Guy and a pushover. I know confidence plays a big role in how men are perceived by women, but I am always am afraid of coming off as some sex crazed douche. \n\nI want to stay true to myself, I want to just learn how to put myself of there more and be ok with rejection. I am not trying to take every girl I can back to my place, it's just not who I am.\n\nSome background on me:\n\nI was always overweight, and peaked at over 400 lbs. I am down to 255, and still have a ways to go. This is always what was in my way when I met new women, and killed any confidence of flirting or asking them out. Sometime some would become my friends and over time, we would be really close friends, usually inseparable. Sometimes we would be mistaken as a couple, but it always stayed platonic. I don't fault them, I lacked the confidence to ask them out and I know I am not an attractive man. Whenever I found myself in these friendships I would become numb to other women, because emotionally, I had a friend with benefits. Eventually I become too emotionally involved and it leads to hurt for both me and my friend.\n\nI now realize this is not healthy, and want to live a normal dating life. Not so much casual dating, I understand that might be necessary to eventually meet someone, but I would like to have a semi-long term relationship with someone who is mutually there for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I often think about someone, or something, and then I think about thinking about them, and then think about what I would say if someone asked me what I was thinking about, in which I would decide that something profound i.e. the work of Descartes or Plato etc.\n\nI end up thinking about thinking about things. And then thinking about thinking about thinking about things.\nSoon I am thinking about telling someone how I all this works, and then how I have thought about such conversation many times before.\n\nIt is endless.\n\nAm I the only one who does this? (Sorry I am bad at communicating)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I often think about someone, or something, and then I think about thinking about them, and then think about what I would say if someone asked me what I was thinking about, in which I would decide that something profound i.e. the work of Descartes or Plato etc.\n\nI end up thinking about thinking about things. And then thinking about thinking about thinking about things.\nSoon I am thinking about telling someone how I all this works, and then how I have thought about such conversation many times before.\n\nIt is endless.\n\nAm I the only one who does this? (Sorry I am bad at communicating)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I often think about someone, or something, and then I think about thinking about them, and then think about what I would say if someone asked me what I was thinking about, in which I would decide that something profound i.e. the work of Descartes or Plato etc.\n\nI end up thinking about thinking about things. And then thinking about thinking about thinking about things.\nSoon I am thinking about telling someone how I all this works, and then how I have thought about such conversation many times before.\n\nIt is endless.\n\nAm I the only one who does this? (Sorry I am bad at communicating)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I often think about someone, or something, and then I think about thinking about them, and then think about what I would say if someone asked me what I was thinking about, in which I would decide that something profound i.e. the work of Descartes or Plato etc.\n\nI end up thinking about thinking about things. And then thinking about thinking about thinking about things.\nSoon I am thinking about telling someone how I all this works, and then how I have thought about such conversation many times before.\n\nIt is endless.\n\nAm I the only one who does this? (Sorry I am bad at communicating)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I often think about someone, or something, and then I think about thinking about them, and then think about what I would say if someone asked me what I was thinking about, in which I would decide that something profound i.e. the work of Descartes or Plato etc.\n\nI end up thinking about thinking about things. And then thinking about thinking about thinking about things.\nSoon I am thinking about telling someone how I all this works, and then how I have thought about such conversation many times before.\n\nIt is endless.\n\nAm I the only one who does this? (Sorry I am bad at communicating)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I often think about someone, or something, and then I think about thinking about them, and then think about what I would say if someone asked me what I was thinking about, in which I would decide that something profound i.e. the work of Descartes or Plato etc.\n\nI end up thinking about thinking about things. And then thinking about thinking about thinking about things.\nSoon I am thinking about telling someone how I all this works, and then how I have thought about such conversation many times before.\n\nIt is endless.\n\nAm I the only one who does this? (Sorry I am bad at communicating)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was together with my ex \"Eve\" for about 3 years. We were best friends for 2 years prior to that. I loved her utterly and completely. I could be my genuine self around her, could express vulnerabilities, and she felt like home. Last year I found out she cheated on me with her close male friend because I went through a very hard month and wasn't available as much as she wanted. That's all there really is to say about that. \n\nI went through a month or so of feeling lower than the mariana trench, dealing with all sorts of feelings of inadequacy and betrayal. I came out the other end a spite fueled \"better\" person at the advice of my friends; far more fit and hungry like the wolf so to speak. \n\nThey advised me to get over her by getting under someone else. I went through a string of one night stands, short relationships, etc but none of them did anything for me. When I felt myself getting close to a potential partner I just got incredibly angry at myself because if someone like Eve could cheat on me, then what's stopping anyone else? \n\nAt the start of this year, I met a girl at the library while we were looking for the same book. I flirted with her a bit and she seemed incredibly receptive. When I asked her out, she told me her boyfriend wouldn't like it. As soon as she said that I got very angry that she even entertained me flirting with her and I don't know why but I told her it didn't matter because she would like it. \n\nIt disgusted me when she accepted my invitation after that. But the feeling I got when we made love was great, even if it was some sort of even more disgusting baseless quasi-revenge. Ever since that time I almost exclusively go for women in relationships. I hate this. I hate myself. \n\nI was going to have a family with Eve. Picket fence, two kids, and a dog. Now I'm some asshole goes around making women cheat on their partners."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was together with my ex \"Eve\" for about 3 years. We were best friends for 2 years prior to that. I loved her utterly and completely. I could be my genuine self around her, could express vulnerabilities, and she felt like home. Last year I found out she cheated on me with her close male friend because I went through a very hard month and wasn't available as much as she wanted. That's all there really is to say about that. \n\nI went through a month or so of feeling lower than the mariana trench, dealing with all sorts of feelings of inadequacy and betrayal. I came out the other end a spite fueled \"better\" person at the advice of my friends; far more fit and hungry like the wolf so to speak. \n\nThey advised me to get over her by getting under someone else. I went through a string of one night stands, short relationships, etc but none of them did anything for me. When I felt myself getting close to a potential partner I just got incredibly angry at myself because if someone like Eve could cheat on me, then what's stopping anyone else? \n\nAt the start of this year, I met a girl at the library while we were looking for the same book. I flirted with her a bit and she seemed incredibly receptive. When I asked her out, she told me her boyfriend wouldn't like it. As soon as she said that I got very angry that she even entertained me flirting with her and I don't know why but I told her it didn't matter because she would like it. \n\nIt disgusted me when she accepted my invitation after that. But the feeling I got when we made love was great, even if it was some sort of even more disgusting baseless quasi-revenge. Ever since that time I almost exclusively go for women in relationships. I hate this. I hate myself. \n\nI was going to have a family with Eve. Picket fence, two kids, and a dog. Now I'm some asshole goes around making women cheat on their partners."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was together with my ex \"Eve\" for about 3 years. We were best friends for 2 years prior to that. I loved her utterly and completely. I could be my genuine self around her, could express vulnerabilities, and she felt like home. Last year I found out she cheated on me with her close male friend because I went through a very hard month and wasn't available as much as she wanted. That's all there really is to say about that. \n\nI went through a month or so of feeling lower than the mariana trench, dealing with all sorts of feelings of inadequacy and betrayal. I came out the other end a spite fueled \"better\" person at the advice of my friends; far more fit and hungry like the wolf so to speak. \n\nThey advised me to get over her by getting under someone else. I went through a string of one night stands, short relationships, etc but none of them did anything for me. When I felt myself getting close to a potential partner I just got incredibly angry at myself because if someone like Eve could cheat on me, then what's stopping anyone else? \n\nAt the start of this year, I met a girl at the library while we were looking for the same book. I flirted with her a bit and she seemed incredibly receptive. When I asked her out, she told me her boyfriend wouldn't like it. As soon as she said that I got very angry that she even entertained me flirting with her and I don't know why but I told her it didn't matter because she would like it. \n\nIt disgusted me when she accepted my invitation after that. But the feeling I got when we made love was great, even if it was some sort of even more disgusting baseless quasi-revenge. Ever since that time I almost exclusively go for women in relationships. I hate this. I hate myself. \n\nI was going to have a family with Eve. Picket fence, two kids, and a dog. Now I'm some asshole goes around making women cheat on their partners."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was together with my ex \"Eve\" for about 3 years. We were best friends for 2 years prior to that. I loved her utterly and completely. I could be my genuine self around her, could express vulnerabilities, and she felt like home. Last year I found out she cheated on me with her close male friend because I went through a very hard month and wasn't available as much as she wanted. That's all there really is to say about that. \n\nI went through a month or so of feeling lower than the mariana trench, dealing with all sorts of feelings of inadequacy and betrayal. I came out the other end a spite fueled \"better\" person at the advice of my friends; far more fit and hungry like the wolf so to speak. \n\nThey advised me to get over her by getting under someone else. I went through a string of one night stands, short relationships, etc but none of them did anything for me. When I felt myself getting close to a potential partner I just got incredibly angry at myself because if someone like Eve could cheat on me, then what's stopping anyone else? \n\nAt the start of this year, I met a girl at the library while we were looking for the same book. I flirted with her a bit and she seemed incredibly receptive. When I asked her out, she told me her boyfriend wouldn't like it. As soon as she said that I got very angry that she even entertained me flirting with her and I don't know why but I told her it didn't matter because she would like it. \n\nIt disgusted me when she accepted my invitation after that. But the feeling I got when we made love was great, even if it was some sort of even more disgusting baseless quasi-revenge. Ever since that time I almost exclusively go for women in relationships. I hate this. I hate myself. \n\nI was going to have a family with Eve. Picket fence, two kids, and a dog. Now I'm some asshole goes around making women cheat on their partners."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was together with my ex \"Eve\" for about 3 years. We were best friends for 2 years prior to that. I loved her utterly and completely. I could be my genuine self around her, could express vulnerabilities, and she felt like home. Last year I found out she cheated on me with her close male friend because I went through a very hard month and wasn't available as much as she wanted. That's all there really is to say about that. \n\nI went through a month or so of feeling lower than the mariana trench, dealing with all sorts of feelings of inadequacy and betrayal. I came out the other end a spite fueled \"better\" person at the advice of my friends; far more fit and hungry like the wolf so to speak. \n\nThey advised me to get over her by getting under someone else. I went through a string of one night stands, short relationships, etc but none of them did anything for me. When I felt myself getting close to a potential partner I just got incredibly angry at myself because if someone like Eve could cheat on me, then what's stopping anyone else? \n\nAt the start of this year, I met a girl at the library while we were looking for the same book. I flirted with her a bit and she seemed incredibly receptive. When I asked her out, she told me her boyfriend wouldn't like it. As soon as she said that I got very angry that she even entertained me flirting with her and I don't know why but I told her it didn't matter because she would like it. \n\nIt disgusted me when she accepted my invitation after that. But the feeling I got when we made love was great, even if it was some sort of even more disgusting baseless quasi-revenge. Ever since that time I almost exclusively go for women in relationships. I hate this. I hate myself. \n\nI was going to have a family with Eve. Picket fence, two kids, and a dog. Now I'm some asshole goes around making women cheat on their partners."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was together with my ex \"Eve\" for about 3 years. We were best friends for 2 years prior to that. I loved her utterly and completely. I could be my genuine self around her, could express vulnerabilities, and she felt like home. Last year I found out she cheated on me with her close male friend because I went through a very hard month and wasn't available as much as she wanted. That's all there really is to say about that. \n\nI went through a month or so of feeling lower than the mariana trench, dealing with all sorts of feelings of inadequacy and betrayal. I came out the other end a spite fueled \"better\" person at the advice of my friends; far more fit and hungry like the wolf so to speak. \n\nThey advised me to get over her by getting under someone else. I went through a string of one night stands, short relationships, etc but none of them did anything for me. When I felt myself getting close to a potential partner I just got incredibly angry at myself because if someone like Eve could cheat on me, then what's stopping anyone else? \n\nAt the start of this year, I met a girl at the library while we were looking for the same book. I flirted with her a bit and she seemed incredibly receptive. When I asked her out, she told me her boyfriend wouldn't like it. As soon as she said that I got very angry that she even entertained me flirting with her and I don't know why but I told her it didn't matter because she would like it. \n\nIt disgusted me when she accepted my invitation after that. But the feeling I got when we made love was great, even if it was some sort of even more disgusting baseless quasi-revenge. Ever since that time I almost exclusively go for women in relationships. I hate this. I hate myself. \n\nI was going to have a family with Eve. Picket fence, two kids, and a dog. Now I'm some asshole goes around making women cheat on their partners."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So for the past few months I haven't been happy. I find myself crying for no reason and I barely have any motivation or energy to do anything (college, cooking, shopping etc.)\n\nI had to go to a councillor when I was about 16 and was told I had anxiety, but I only went for six or so appointments. My boyfriend is very supportive and understanding, he knows I have bad days but I try and pretend everything is okay. I think he knows something is up because I'm tired all the time and the other night when he came over he knew how tired I was because i was falling asleep and it was only nine, so we had an early night but the next day I was falling asleep again at one in the afternoon.\n\nI don't want to worry him and I feel like I'm being nothing but a burden to him. I've had issues with self harm and attempted suicide in the past, however recently I've been thinking about doing both but obviously haven't because I know he'd be heartbroken and I'd never forgive myself.\n\nI know I should probably get help for how I'm feeling but I feel like I should talk to him about it first before I do, but I don't know how to go about it or tell him without upsetting him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So for the past few months I haven't been happy. I find myself crying for no reason and I barely have any motivation or energy to do anything (college, cooking, shopping etc.)\n\nI had to go to a councillor when I was about 16 and was told I had anxiety, but I only went for six or so appointments. My boyfriend is very supportive and understanding, he knows I have bad days but I try and pretend everything is okay. I think he knows something is up because I'm tired all the time and the other night when he came over he knew how tired I was because i was falling asleep and it was only nine, so we had an early night but the next day I was falling asleep again at one in the afternoon.\n\nI don't want to worry him and I feel like I'm being nothing but a burden to him. I've had issues with self harm and attempted suicide in the past, however recently I've been thinking about doing both but obviously haven't because I know he'd be heartbroken and I'd never forgive myself.\n\nI know I should probably get help for how I'm feeling but I feel like I should talk to him about it first before I do, but I don't know how to go about it or tell him without upsetting him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So for the past few months I haven't been happy. I find myself crying for no reason and I barely have any motivation or energy to do anything (college, cooking, shopping etc.)\n\nI had to go to a councillor when I was about 16 and was told I had anxiety, but I only went for six or so appointments. My boyfriend is very supportive and understanding, he knows I have bad days but I try and pretend everything is okay. I think he knows something is up because I'm tired all the time and the other night when he came over he knew how tired I was because i was falling asleep and it was only nine, so we had an early night but the next day I was falling asleep again at one in the afternoon.\n\nI don't want to worry him and I feel like I'm being nothing but a burden to him. I've had issues with self harm and attempted suicide in the past, however recently I've been thinking about doing both but obviously haven't because I know he'd be heartbroken and I'd never forgive myself.\n\nI know I should probably get help for how I'm feeling but I feel like I should talk to him about it first before I do, but I don't know how to go about it or tell him without upsetting him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So for the past few months I haven't been happy. I find myself crying for no reason and I barely have any motivation or energy to do anything (college, cooking, shopping etc.)\n\nI had to go to a councillor when I was about 16 and was told I had anxiety, but I only went for six or so appointments. My boyfriend is very supportive and understanding, he knows I have bad days but I try and pretend everything is okay. I think he knows something is up because I'm tired all the time and the other night when he came over he knew how tired I was because i was falling asleep and it was only nine, so we had an early night but the next day I was falling asleep again at one in the afternoon.\n\nI don't want to worry him and I feel like I'm being nothing but a burden to him. I've had issues with self harm and attempted suicide in the past, however recently I've been thinking about doing both but obviously haven't because I know he'd be heartbroken and I'd never forgive myself.\n\nI know I should probably get help for how I'm feeling but I feel like I should talk to him about it first before I do, but I don't know how to go about it or tell him without upsetting him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So for the past few months I haven't been happy. I find myself crying for no reason and I barely have any motivation or energy to do anything (college, cooking, shopping etc.)\n\nI had to go to a councillor when I was about 16 and was told I had anxiety, but I only went for six or so appointments. My boyfriend is very supportive and understanding, he knows I have bad days but I try and pretend everything is okay. I think he knows something is up because I'm tired all the time and the other night when he came over he knew how tired I was because i was falling asleep and it was only nine, so we had an early night but the next day I was falling asleep again at one in the afternoon.\n\nI don't want to worry him and I feel like I'm being nothing but a burden to him. I've had issues with self harm and attempted suicide in the past, however recently I've been thinking about doing both but obviously haven't because I know he'd be heartbroken and I'd never forgive myself.\n\nI know I should probably get help for how I'm feeling but I feel like I should talk to him about it first before I do, but I don't know how to go about it or tell him without upsetting him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So for the past few months I haven't been happy. I find myself crying for no reason and I barely have any motivation or energy to do anything (college, cooking, shopping etc.)\n\nI had to go to a councillor when I was about 16 and was told I had anxiety, but I only went for six or so appointments. My boyfriend is very supportive and understanding, he knows I have bad days but I try and pretend everything is okay. I think he knows something is up because I'm tired all the time and the other night when he came over he knew how tired I was because i was falling asleep and it was only nine, so we had an early night but the next day I was falling asleep again at one in the afternoon.\n\nI don't want to worry him and I feel like I'm being nothing but a burden to him. I've had issues with self harm and attempted suicide in the past, however recently I've been thinking about doing both but obviously haven't because I know he'd be heartbroken and I'd never forgive myself.\n\nI know I should probably get help for how I'm feeling but I feel like I should talk to him about it first before I do, but I don't know how to go about it or tell him without upsetting him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me (19M) and one of my best friends(18F) who we will call M, are both going to the same college. She lives in the dorms but I got into an apartment. \n\nWhile she's been at the dorms she has met these new girls and started bringing then over to the apartment on weekends to drink and hang out. Lately me and her new friend (18F) who we will call A, have been hanging out and \"talking\" for a while, about three weeks now, and even give out about twice and hung out quite a few times. Everyone knows we are getting close and they are all sure and excited that we are going to get into an actual relationship and every thing except im not sure what I really want. \n\nBack to M the best friend, I have always had feeling for her. I just never pursued because her type is actually the douche bag type. Not even joking, she goes after wavy haired guys that are literally douche bags to girls and I'm not the only one to tell her this. \n\nAnyways lately as ive been talking to A, my feelings for M have been growing and growing. I really like her and I don't know what to do because she's one of my best friends but im talking to her best friend.\n\nAnyone have any idea what I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me (19M) and one of my best friends(18F) who we will call M, are both going to the same college. She lives in the dorms but I got into an apartment. \n\nWhile she's been at the dorms she has met these new girls and started bringing then over to the apartment on weekends to drink and hang out. Lately me and her new friend (18F) who we will call A, have been hanging out and \"talking\" for a while, about three weeks now, and even give out about twice and hung out quite a few times. Everyone knows we are getting close and they are all sure and excited that we are going to get into an actual relationship and every thing except im not sure what I really want. \n\nBack to M the best friend, I have always had feeling for her. I just never pursued because her type is actually the douche bag type. Not even joking, she goes after wavy haired guys that are literally douche bags to girls and I'm not the only one to tell her this. \n\nAnyways lately as ive been talking to A, my feelings for M have been growing and growing. I really like her and I don't know what to do because she's one of my best friends but im talking to her best friend.\n\nAnyone have any idea what I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me (19M) and one of my best friends(18F) who we will call M, are both going to the same college. She lives in the dorms but I got into an apartment. \n\nWhile she's been at the dorms she has met these new girls and started bringing then over to the apartment on weekends to drink and hang out. Lately me and her new friend (18F) who we will call A, have been hanging out and \"talking\" for a while, about three weeks now, and even give out about twice and hung out quite a few times. Everyone knows we are getting close and they are all sure and excited that we are going to get into an actual relationship and every thing except im not sure what I really want. \n\nBack to M the best friend, I have always had feeling for her. I just never pursued because her type is actually the douche bag type. Not even joking, she goes after wavy haired guys that are literally douche bags to girls and I'm not the only one to tell her this. \n\nAnyways lately as ive been talking to A, my feelings for M have been growing and growing. I really like her and I don't know what to do because she's one of my best friends but im talking to her best friend.\n\nAnyone have any idea what I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me (19M) and one of my best friends(18F) who we will call M, are both going to the same college. She lives in the dorms but I got into an apartment. \n\nWhile she's been at the dorms she has met these new girls and started bringing then over to the apartment on weekends to drink and hang out. Lately me and her new friend (18F) who we will call A, have been hanging out and \"talking\" for a while, about three weeks now, and even give out about twice and hung out quite a few times. Everyone knows we are getting close and they are all sure and excited that we are going to get into an actual relationship and every thing except im not sure what I really want. \n\nBack to M the best friend, I have always had feeling for her. I just never pursued because her type is actually the douche bag type. Not even joking, she goes after wavy haired guys that are literally douche bags to girls and I'm not the only one to tell her this. \n\nAnyways lately as ive been talking to A, my feelings for M have been growing and growing. I really like her and I don't know what to do because she's one of my best friends but im talking to her best friend.\n\nAnyone have any idea what I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me (19M) and one of my best friends(18F) who we will call M, are both going to the same college. She lives in the dorms but I got into an apartment. \n\nWhile she's been at the dorms she has met these new girls and started bringing then over to the apartment on weekends to drink and hang out. Lately me and her new friend (18F) who we will call A, have been hanging out and \"talking\" for a while, about three weeks now, and even give out about twice and hung out quite a few times. Everyone knows we are getting close and they are all sure and excited that we are going to get into an actual relationship and every thing except im not sure what I really want. \n\nBack to M the best friend, I have always had feeling for her. I just never pursued because her type is actually the douche bag type. Not even joking, she goes after wavy haired guys that are literally douche bags to girls and I'm not the only one to tell her this. \n\nAnyways lately as ive been talking to A, my feelings for M have been growing and growing. I really like her and I don't know what to do because she's one of my best friends but im talking to her best friend.\n\nAnyone have any idea what I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me (19M) and one of my best friends(18F) who we will call M, are both going to the same college. She lives in the dorms but I got into an apartment. \n\nWhile she's been at the dorms she has met these new girls and started bringing then over to the apartment on weekends to drink and hang out. Lately me and her new friend (18F) who we will call A, have been hanging out and \"talking\" for a while, about three weeks now, and even give out about twice and hung out quite a few times. Everyone knows we are getting close and they are all sure and excited that we are going to get into an actual relationship and every thing except im not sure what I really want. \n\nBack to M the best friend, I have always had feeling for her. I just never pursued because her type is actually the douche bag type. Not even joking, she goes after wavy haired guys that are literally douche bags to girls and I'm not the only one to tell her this. \n\nAnyways lately as ive been talking to A, my feelings for M have been growing and growing. I really like her and I don't know what to do because she's one of my best friends but im talking to her best friend.\n\nAnyone have any idea what I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit I want your opinion. I just got accepted to a top 3 engineering university but I have no way to pay for it. I am finishing my associates degree in engineering science and on a whim I applied for a few jobs that I was qualified for but will obviously pay less than an engineer. I was offered a position that I would enjoy (my first real job really) and it pays around 50k. My wife also works and makes 55k. We live in the midwest and have no debt so this would be a pretty good income for us. What would you do? Take the job and dont look back or take on the 70k in debt (20k a year for 3 years plus interest) and try to get a job in the engineering field."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit I want your opinion. I just got accepted to a top 3 engineering university but I have no way to pay for it. I am finishing my associates degree in engineering science and on a whim I applied for a few jobs that I was qualified for but will obviously pay less than an engineer. I was offered a position that I would enjoy (my first real job really) and it pays around 50k. My wife also works and makes 55k. We live in the midwest and have no debt so this would be a pretty good income for us. What would you do? Take the job and dont look back or take on the 70k in debt (20k a year for 3 years plus interest) and try to get a job in the engineering field."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit I want your opinion. I just got accepted to a top 3 engineering university but I have no way to pay for it. I am finishing my associates degree in engineering science and on a whim I applied for a few jobs that I was qualified for but will obviously pay less than an engineer. I was offered a position that I would enjoy (my first real job really) and it pays around 50k. My wife also works and makes 55k. We live in the midwest and have no debt so this would be a pretty good income for us. What would you do? Take the job and dont look back or take on the 70k in debt (20k a year for 3 years plus interest) and try to get a job in the engineering field."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit I want your opinion. I just got accepted to a top 3 engineering university but I have no way to pay for it. I am finishing my associates degree in engineering science and on a whim I applied for a few jobs that I was qualified for but will obviously pay less than an engineer. I was offered a position that I would enjoy (my first real job really) and it pays around 50k. My wife also works and makes 55k. We live in the midwest and have no debt so this would be a pretty good income for us. What would you do? Take the job and dont look back or take on the 70k in debt (20k a year for 3 years plus interest) and try to get a job in the engineering field."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit I want your opinion. I just got accepted to a top 3 engineering university but I have no way to pay for it. I am finishing my associates degree in engineering science and on a whim I applied for a few jobs that I was qualified for but will obviously pay less than an engineer. I was offered a position that I would enjoy (my first real job really) and it pays around 50k. My wife also works and makes 55k. We live in the midwest and have no debt so this would be a pretty good income for us. What would you do? Take the job and dont look back or take on the 70k in debt (20k a year for 3 years plus interest) and try to get a job in the engineering field."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit I want your opinion. I just got accepted to a top 3 engineering university but I have no way to pay for it. I am finishing my associates degree in engineering science and on a whim I applied for a few jobs that I was qualified for but will obviously pay less than an engineer. I was offered a position that I would enjoy (my first real job really) and it pays around 50k. My wife also works and makes 55k. We live in the midwest and have no debt so this would be a pretty good income for us. What would you do? Take the job and dont look back or take on the 70k in debt (20k a year for 3 years plus interest) and try to get a job in the engineering field."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title states, now ex boyfriend and I have been together for approx 5 months. He's 25 and I am 22.\n\nWe met on OKCupid, talked, and instantaneously hit it off. I left for out of state for a few weeks prior to actually meeting up; but when I returned back home to start college in a new town we first met. He helped me unpack and both my roommates though we'd known each other for our whole lives. That was the first day we met. We decided to become official that day\n\nEverything after that was wonderful, We did rush our relationship, but we didn't think anything and after a month of seeing each other I \"moved in\" with him in his apartment. It was comfortable and we got along like two peas in pod.\n\nThe problem was that I put all my cards on the table- including sleeping with a guy while my ex and I had started talking. At that early point in a budding relationship I had absolutely no intention of wanting to date my now ex. I was single. So was he.\n\nI fessed up and I told him, but he took it really *really* hard and considered breaking up with me then, but decided to try it out.\n\nThroughout out entire relationship, I never once cheated, thought about cheating, or anything else. *but in the back of his head, he thought I could possibly do so with my guy friend if I was drunk.* He wouldn't let that go so we broke up.\n\nA couple of days later, we agreed to take this second try slow and casually date. We want to be together. We also both want fix areas of our lives before we really commit to anything serious.\n\nI have *no* idea how to go from being in a relationship to casually dating, or even how TO casually date for that matter."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title states, now ex boyfriend and I have been together for approx 5 months. He's 25 and I am 22.\n\nWe met on OKCupid, talked, and instantaneously hit it off. I left for out of state for a few weeks prior to actually meeting up; but when I returned back home to start college in a new town we first met. He helped me unpack and both my roommates though we'd known each other for our whole lives. That was the first day we met. We decided to become official that day\n\nEverything after that was wonderful, We did rush our relationship, but we didn't think anything and after a month of seeing each other I \"moved in\" with him in his apartment. It was comfortable and we got along like two peas in pod.\n\nThe problem was that I put all my cards on the table- including sleeping with a guy while my ex and I had started talking. At that early point in a budding relationship I had absolutely no intention of wanting to date my now ex. I was single. So was he.\n\nI fessed up and I told him, but he took it really *really* hard and considered breaking up with me then, but decided to try it out.\n\nThroughout out entire relationship, I never once cheated, thought about cheating, or anything else. *but in the back of his head, he thought I could possibly do so with my guy friend if I was drunk.* He wouldn't let that go so we broke up.\n\nA couple of days later, we agreed to take this second try slow and casually date. We want to be together. We also both want fix areas of our lives before we really commit to anything serious.\n\nI have *no* idea how to go from being in a relationship to casually dating, or even how TO casually date for that matter."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title states, now ex boyfriend and I have been together for approx 5 months. He's 25 and I am 22.\n\nWe met on OKCupid, talked, and instantaneously hit it off. I left for out of state for a few weeks prior to actually meeting up; but when I returned back home to start college in a new town we first met. He helped me unpack and both my roommates though we'd known each other for our whole lives. That was the first day we met. We decided to become official that day\n\nEverything after that was wonderful, We did rush our relationship, but we didn't think anything and after a month of seeing each other I \"moved in\" with him in his apartment. It was comfortable and we got along like two peas in pod.\n\nThe problem was that I put all my cards on the table- including sleeping with a guy while my ex and I had started talking. At that early point in a budding relationship I had absolutely no intention of wanting to date my now ex. I was single. So was he.\n\nI fessed up and I told him, but he took it really *really* hard and considered breaking up with me then, but decided to try it out.\n\nThroughout out entire relationship, I never once cheated, thought about cheating, or anything else. *but in the back of his head, he thought I could possibly do so with my guy friend if I was drunk.* He wouldn't let that go so we broke up.\n\nA couple of days later, we agreed to take this second try slow and casually date. We want to be together. We also both want fix areas of our lives before we really commit to anything serious.\n\nI have *no* idea how to go from being in a relationship to casually dating, or even how TO casually date for that matter."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title states, now ex boyfriend and I have been together for approx 5 months. He's 25 and I am 22.\n\nWe met on OKCupid, talked, and instantaneously hit it off. I left for out of state for a few weeks prior to actually meeting up; but when I returned back home to start college in a new town we first met. He helped me unpack and both my roommates though we'd known each other for our whole lives. That was the first day we met. We decided to become official that day\n\nEverything after that was wonderful, We did rush our relationship, but we didn't think anything and after a month of seeing each other I \"moved in\" with him in his apartment. It was comfortable and we got along like two peas in pod.\n\nThe problem was that I put all my cards on the table- including sleeping with a guy while my ex and I had started talking. At that early point in a budding relationship I had absolutely no intention of wanting to date my now ex. I was single. So was he.\n\nI fessed up and I told him, but he took it really *really* hard and considered breaking up with me then, but decided to try it out.\n\nThroughout out entire relationship, I never once cheated, thought about cheating, or anything else. *but in the back of his head, he thought I could possibly do so with my guy friend if I was drunk.* He wouldn't let that go so we broke up.\n\nA couple of days later, we agreed to take this second try slow and casually date. We want to be together. We also both want fix areas of our lives before we really commit to anything serious.\n\nI have *no* idea how to go from being in a relationship to casually dating, or even how TO casually date for that matter."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title states, now ex boyfriend and I have been together for approx 5 months. He's 25 and I am 22.\n\nWe met on OKCupid, talked, and instantaneously hit it off. I left for out of state for a few weeks prior to actually meeting up; but when I returned back home to start college in a new town we first met. He helped me unpack and both my roommates though we'd known each other for our whole lives. That was the first day we met. We decided to become official that day\n\nEverything after that was wonderful, We did rush our relationship, but we didn't think anything and after a month of seeing each other I \"moved in\" with him in his apartment. It was comfortable and we got along like two peas in pod.\n\nThe problem was that I put all my cards on the table- including sleeping with a guy while my ex and I had started talking. At that early point in a budding relationship I had absolutely no intention of wanting to date my now ex. I was single. So was he.\n\nI fessed up and I told him, but he took it really *really* hard and considered breaking up with me then, but decided to try it out.\n\nThroughout out entire relationship, I never once cheated, thought about cheating, or anything else. *but in the back of his head, he thought I could possibly do so with my guy friend if I was drunk.* He wouldn't let that go so we broke up.\n\nA couple of days later, we agreed to take this second try slow and casually date. We want to be together. We also both want fix areas of our lives before we really commit to anything serious.\n\nI have *no* idea how to go from being in a relationship to casually dating, or even how TO casually date for that matter."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title states, now ex boyfriend and I have been together for approx 5 months. He's 25 and I am 22.\n\nWe met on OKCupid, talked, and instantaneously hit it off. I left for out of state for a few weeks prior to actually meeting up; but when I returned back home to start college in a new town we first met. He helped me unpack and both my roommates though we'd known each other for our whole lives. That was the first day we met. We decided to become official that day\n\nEverything after that was wonderful, We did rush our relationship, but we didn't think anything and after a month of seeing each other I \"moved in\" with him in his apartment. It was comfortable and we got along like two peas in pod.\n\nThe problem was that I put all my cards on the table- including sleeping with a guy while my ex and I had started talking. At that early point in a budding relationship I had absolutely no intention of wanting to date my now ex. I was single. So was he.\n\nI fessed up and I told him, but he took it really *really* hard and considered breaking up with me then, but decided to try it out.\n\nThroughout out entire relationship, I never once cheated, thought about cheating, or anything else. *but in the back of his head, he thought I could possibly do so with my guy friend if I was drunk.* He wouldn't let that go so we broke up.\n\nA couple of days later, we agreed to take this second try slow and casually date. We want to be together. We also both want fix areas of our lives before we really commit to anything serious.\n\nI have *no* idea how to go from being in a relationship to casually dating, or even how TO casually date for that matter."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: They're devout Muslims. Dating is forbidden so even though I've been with their son for 5 years I'm only meeting them now. They only found out about my existence two-three months ago. \n\nI'm a university student. I'm shy and nervous. I'm also Muslim but they don't know that. I also am not very religious. \n\nThey also do not know we're engaged as my partner hasn't proposed to me. He plans on doing it July fourth weekend. I guess we'll tell them together about the engagement when I meet them one week post proposal. His parents also think we're just friends for the last two years. We didn't knkw each other till two years ago. This is the lies he tells them.\n\nSo simply what do? I've never met parents much less future in laws! I would love some advice from those who've done it before. Also should i continue the lies? Or tell them the truth?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: They're devout Muslims. Dating is forbidden so even though I've been with their son for 5 years I'm only meeting them now. They only found out about my existence two-three months ago. \n\nI'm a university student. I'm shy and nervous. I'm also Muslim but they don't know that. I also am not very religious. \n\nThey also do not know we're engaged as my partner hasn't proposed to me. He plans on doing it July fourth weekend. I guess we'll tell them together about the engagement when I meet them one week post proposal. His parents also think we're just friends for the last two years. We didn't knkw each other till two years ago. This is the lies he tells them.\n\nSo simply what do? I've never met parents much less future in laws! I would love some advice from those who've done it before. Also should i continue the lies? Or tell them the truth?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: They're devout Muslims. Dating is forbidden so even though I've been with their son for 5 years I'm only meeting them now. They only found out about my existence two-three months ago. \n\nI'm a university student. I'm shy and nervous. I'm also Muslim but they don't know that. I also am not very religious. \n\nThey also do not know we're engaged as my partner hasn't proposed to me. He plans on doing it July fourth weekend. I guess we'll tell them together about the engagement when I meet them one week post proposal. His parents also think we're just friends for the last two years. We didn't knkw each other till two years ago. This is the lies he tells them.\n\nSo simply what do? I've never met parents much less future in laws! I would love some advice from those who've done it before. Also should i continue the lies? Or tell them the truth?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: They're devout Muslims. Dating is forbidden so even though I've been with their son for 5 years I'm only meeting them now. They only found out about my existence two-three months ago. \n\nI'm a university student. I'm shy and nervous. I'm also Muslim but they don't know that. I also am not very religious. \n\nThey also do not know we're engaged as my partner hasn't proposed to me. He plans on doing it July fourth weekend. I guess we'll tell them together about the engagement when I meet them one week post proposal. His parents also think we're just friends for the last two years. We didn't knkw each other till two years ago. This is the lies he tells them.\n\nSo simply what do? I've never met parents much less future in laws! I would love some advice from those who've done it before. Also should i continue the lies? Or tell them the truth?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: They're devout Muslims. Dating is forbidden so even though I've been with their son for 5 years I'm only meeting them now. They only found out about my existence two-three months ago. \n\nI'm a university student. I'm shy and nervous. I'm also Muslim but they don't know that. I also am not very religious. \n\nThey also do not know we're engaged as my partner hasn't proposed to me. He plans on doing it July fourth weekend. I guess we'll tell them together about the engagement when I meet them one week post proposal. His parents also think we're just friends for the last two years. We didn't knkw each other till two years ago. This is the lies he tells them.\n\nSo simply what do? I've never met parents much less future in laws! I would love some advice from those who've done it before. Also should i continue the lies? Or tell them the truth?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: They're devout Muslims. Dating is forbidden so even though I've been with their son for 5 years I'm only meeting them now. They only found out about my existence two-three months ago. \n\nI'm a university student. I'm shy and nervous. I'm also Muslim but they don't know that. I also am not very religious. \n\nThey also do not know we're engaged as my partner hasn't proposed to me. He plans on doing it July fourth weekend. I guess we'll tell them together about the engagement when I meet them one week post proposal. His parents also think we're just friends for the last two years. We didn't knkw each other till two years ago. This is the lies he tells them.\n\nSo simply what do? I've never met parents much less future in laws! I would love some advice from those who've done it before. Also should i continue the lies? Or tell them the truth?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: OK, so the story is, I (31/m) am engaged to an amazing woman (24/f) and we're planning on tying the knot in March. She's smart, funny, everything I love in a woman. We've been together for 3 years.\n\nNow, before we got together, she had a tendency to go on cam sites like CamFrog and \"tease\" guys. Mind you, that's not how we met, but whatever. She has a bit of a \"body image\" issue, and no matter how much I tell her she's beautiful, she always disagrees. Lately, she's wanted to go back to doing that and confessed to me she has been while I'm gone/asleep/etc. She wants my blessing to do this sort of thing without having to \"hide\" it from me, and claims it gets her turned on and wanting to have sex with me more (which I can't deny, our sex life has been great lately).\n\nShe claims that she doesn't go into private chats or \"get off\" on other guys. Now, I trust her enough to believe her, but I've also read this subreddit enough to know that behavior like this sometimes leads to rather unpleasant results such as emotional attachments to other guys. I know of at least one instance when she was on foreign exchange to France during college where she hooked up with a guy from Camfrog (we weren't together at the time) but she claims she is no longer in contact with him.\n\nReddit, should I be concerned about this? Should I just \"go with it\" for the sake of sprucing up our sex life, or put my foot down and possibly prevent future mishaps?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: OK, so the story is, I (31/m) am engaged to an amazing woman (24/f) and we're planning on tying the knot in March. She's smart, funny, everything I love in a woman. We've been together for 3 years.\n\nNow, before we got together, she had a tendency to go on cam sites like CamFrog and \"tease\" guys. Mind you, that's not how we met, but whatever. She has a bit of a \"body image\" issue, and no matter how much I tell her she's beautiful, she always disagrees. Lately, she's wanted to go back to doing that and confessed to me she has been while I'm gone/asleep/etc. She wants my blessing to do this sort of thing without having to \"hide\" it from me, and claims it gets her turned on and wanting to have sex with me more (which I can't deny, our sex life has been great lately).\n\nShe claims that she doesn't go into private chats or \"get off\" on other guys. Now, I trust her enough to believe her, but I've also read this subreddit enough to know that behavior like this sometimes leads to rather unpleasant results such as emotional attachments to other guys. I know of at least one instance when she was on foreign exchange to France during college where she hooked up with a guy from Camfrog (we weren't together at the time) but she claims she is no longer in contact with him.\n\nReddit, should I be concerned about this? Should I just \"go with it\" for the sake of sprucing up our sex life, or put my foot down and possibly prevent future mishaps?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: OK, so the story is, I (31/m) am engaged to an amazing woman (24/f) and we're planning on tying the knot in March. She's smart, funny, everything I love in a woman. We've been together for 3 years.\n\nNow, before we got together, she had a tendency to go on cam sites like CamFrog and \"tease\" guys. Mind you, that's not how we met, but whatever. She has a bit of a \"body image\" issue, and no matter how much I tell her she's beautiful, she always disagrees. Lately, she's wanted to go back to doing that and confessed to me she has been while I'm gone/asleep/etc. She wants my blessing to do this sort of thing without having to \"hide\" it from me, and claims it gets her turned on and wanting to have sex with me more (which I can't deny, our sex life has been great lately).\n\nShe claims that she doesn't go into private chats or \"get off\" on other guys. Now, I trust her enough to believe her, but I've also read this subreddit enough to know that behavior like this sometimes leads to rather unpleasant results such as emotional attachments to other guys. I know of at least one instance when she was on foreign exchange to France during college where she hooked up with a guy from Camfrog (we weren't together at the time) but she claims she is no longer in contact with him.\n\nReddit, should I be concerned about this? Should I just \"go with it\" for the sake of sprucing up our sex life, or put my foot down and possibly prevent future mishaps?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: OK, so the story is, I (31/m) am engaged to an amazing woman (24/f) and we're planning on tying the knot in March. She's smart, funny, everything I love in a woman. We've been together for 3 years.\n\nNow, before we got together, she had a tendency to go on cam sites like CamFrog and \"tease\" guys. Mind you, that's not how we met, but whatever. She has a bit of a \"body image\" issue, and no matter how much I tell her she's beautiful, she always disagrees. Lately, she's wanted to go back to doing that and confessed to me she has been while I'm gone/asleep/etc. She wants my blessing to do this sort of thing without having to \"hide\" it from me, and claims it gets her turned on and wanting to have sex with me more (which I can't deny, our sex life has been great lately).\n\nShe claims that she doesn't go into private chats or \"get off\" on other guys. Now, I trust her enough to believe her, but I've also read this subreddit enough to know that behavior like this sometimes leads to rather unpleasant results such as emotional attachments to other guys. I know of at least one instance when she was on foreign exchange to France during college where she hooked up with a guy from Camfrog (we weren't together at the time) but she claims she is no longer in contact with him.\n\nReddit, should I be concerned about this? Should I just \"go with it\" for the sake of sprucing up our sex life, or put my foot down and possibly prevent future mishaps?"
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