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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: OK, so the story is, I (31/m) am engaged to an amazing woman (24/f) and we're planning on tying the knot in March. She's smart, funny, everything I love in a woman. We've been together for 3 years.\n\nNow, before we got together, she had a tendency to go on cam sites like CamFrog and \"tease\" guys. Mind you, that's not how we met, but whatever. She has a bit of a \"body image\" issue, and no matter how much I tell her she's beautiful, she always disagrees. Lately, she's wanted to go back to doing that and confessed to me she has been while I'm gone/asleep/etc. She wants my blessing to do this sort of thing without having to \"hide\" it from me, and claims it gets her turned on and wanting to have sex with me more (which I can't deny, our sex life has been great lately).\n\nShe claims that she doesn't go into private chats or \"get off\" on other guys. Now, I trust her enough to believe her, but I've also read this subreddit enough to know that behavior like this sometimes leads to rather unpleasant results such as emotional attachments to other guys. I know of at least one instance when she was on foreign exchange to France during college where she hooked up with a guy from Camfrog (we weren't together at the time) but she claims she is no longer in contact with him.\n\nReddit, should I be concerned about this? Should I just \"go with it\" for the sake of sprucing up our sex life, or put my foot down and possibly prevent future mishaps?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: OK, so the story is, I (31/m) am engaged to an amazing woman (24/f) and we're planning on tying the knot in March. She's smart, funny, everything I love in a woman. We've been together for 3 years.\n\nNow, before we got together, she had a tendency to go on cam sites like CamFrog and \"tease\" guys. Mind you, that's not how we met, but whatever. She has a bit of a \"body image\" issue, and no matter how much I tell her she's beautiful, she always disagrees. Lately, she's wanted to go back to doing that and confessed to me she has been while I'm gone/asleep/etc. She wants my blessing to do this sort of thing without having to \"hide\" it from me, and claims it gets her turned on and wanting to have sex with me more (which I can't deny, our sex life has been great lately).\n\nShe claims that she doesn't go into private chats or \"get off\" on other guys. Now, I trust her enough to believe her, but I've also read this subreddit enough to know that behavior like this sometimes leads to rather unpleasant results such as emotional attachments to other guys. I know of at least one instance when she was on foreign exchange to France during college where she hooked up with a guy from Camfrog (we weren't together at the time) but she claims she is no longer in contact with him.\n\nReddit, should I be concerned about this? Should I just \"go with it\" for the sake of sprucing up our sex life, or put my foot down and possibly prevent future mishaps?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all! I'm working with a team to create a new app called Zofari that does for places what Pandora does for music. The basic idea being that if you find yourself in a place you're unfamiliar with, you can use the app to search for bars or resturants you know from your hometown and it'll find a similar place nearby. It's a new way to explore, and we're really excited about it.\n\nNow here's where you come in: In order to bring this app to the next level, we need to get a sense for how travelers are using it. So we'd love if you'd take a look and let us know what you think. What do you like? what do you not? are you getting accurate results? does it make sense? etc. \n\nWe'll be taking all of your input to make this thing as useful as possible.\n\n*Download the app here:* [iPhone]( / [Android] ( \n\nCurrently the app only works for select US cities (Atlanta/ Austin/ Berkeley/ Boston/ Chicago/ London/ Los Angeles/ NYC/ New Orleans/ Oakland/ Philadelphia/ San Francisco/ Seattle/ Washington D.C.) But we're hoping to expand soon.\n\n-\nIf you have any questions, my email address is [email protected]\n\nMore Info at \n\nThanks from all of us!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all! I'm working with a team to create a new app called Zofari that does for places what Pandora does for music. The basic idea being that if you find yourself in a place you're unfamiliar with, you can use the app to search for bars or resturants you know from your hometown and it'll find a similar place nearby. It's a new way to explore, and we're really excited about it.\n\nNow here's where you come in: In order to bring this app to the next level, we need to get a sense for how travelers are using it. So we'd love if you'd take a look and let us know what you think. What do you like? what do you not? are you getting accurate results? does it make sense? etc. \n\nWe'll be taking all of your input to make this thing as useful as possible.\n\n*Download the app here:* [iPhone]( / [Android] ( \n\nCurrently the app only works for select US cities (Atlanta/ Austin/ Berkeley/ Boston/ Chicago/ London/ Los Angeles/ NYC/ New Orleans/ Oakland/ Philadelphia/ San Francisco/ Seattle/ Washington D.C.) But we're hoping to expand soon.\n\n-\nIf you have any questions, my email address is [email protected]\n\nMore Info at \n\nThanks from all of us!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all! I'm working with a team to create a new app called Zofari that does for places what Pandora does for music. The basic idea being that if you find yourself in a place you're unfamiliar with, you can use the app to search for bars or resturants you know from your hometown and it'll find a similar place nearby. It's a new way to explore, and we're really excited about it.\n\nNow here's where you come in: In order to bring this app to the next level, we need to get a sense for how travelers are using it. So we'd love if you'd take a look and let us know what you think. What do you like? what do you not? are you getting accurate results? does it make sense? etc. \n\nWe'll be taking all of your input to make this thing as useful as possible.\n\n*Download the app here:* [iPhone]( / [Android] ( \n\nCurrently the app only works for select US cities (Atlanta/ Austin/ Berkeley/ Boston/ Chicago/ London/ Los Angeles/ NYC/ New Orleans/ Oakland/ Philadelphia/ San Francisco/ Seattle/ Washington D.C.) But we're hoping to expand soon.\n\n-\nIf you have any questions, my email address is [email protected]\n\nMore Info at \n\nThanks from all of us!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all! I'm working with a team to create a new app called Zofari that does for places what Pandora does for music. The basic idea being that if you find yourself in a place you're unfamiliar with, you can use the app to search for bars or resturants you know from your hometown and it'll find a similar place nearby. It's a new way to explore, and we're really excited about it.\n\nNow here's where you come in: In order to bring this app to the next level, we need to get a sense for how travelers are using it. So we'd love if you'd take a look and let us know what you think. What do you like? what do you not? are you getting accurate results? does it make sense? etc. \n\nWe'll be taking all of your input to make this thing as useful as possible.\n\n*Download the app here:* [iPhone]( / [Android] ( \n\nCurrently the app only works for select US cities (Atlanta/ Austin/ Berkeley/ Boston/ Chicago/ London/ Los Angeles/ NYC/ New Orleans/ Oakland/ Philadelphia/ San Francisco/ Seattle/ Washington D.C.) But we're hoping to expand soon.\n\n-\nIf you have any questions, my email address is [email protected]\n\nMore Info at \n\nThanks from all of us!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all! I'm working with a team to create a new app called Zofari that does for places what Pandora does for music. The basic idea being that if you find yourself in a place you're unfamiliar with, you can use the app to search for bars or resturants you know from your hometown and it'll find a similar place nearby. It's a new way to explore, and we're really excited about it.\n\nNow here's where you come in: In order to bring this app to the next level, we need to get a sense for how travelers are using it. So we'd love if you'd take a look and let us know what you think. What do you like? what do you not? are you getting accurate results? does it make sense? etc. \n\nWe'll be taking all of your input to make this thing as useful as possible.\n\n*Download the app here:* [iPhone]( / [Android] ( \n\nCurrently the app only works for select US cities (Atlanta/ Austin/ Berkeley/ Boston/ Chicago/ London/ Los Angeles/ NYC/ New Orleans/ Oakland/ Philadelphia/ San Francisco/ Seattle/ Washington D.C.) But we're hoping to expand soon.\n\n-\nIf you have any questions, my email address is [email protected]\n\nMore Info at \n\nThanks from all of us!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all! I'm working with a team to create a new app called Zofari that does for places what Pandora does for music. The basic idea being that if you find yourself in a place you're unfamiliar with, you can use the app to search for bars or resturants you know from your hometown and it'll find a similar place nearby. It's a new way to explore, and we're really excited about it.\n\nNow here's where you come in: In order to bring this app to the next level, we need to get a sense for how travelers are using it. So we'd love if you'd take a look and let us know what you think. What do you like? what do you not? are you getting accurate results? does it make sense? etc. \n\nWe'll be taking all of your input to make this thing as useful as possible.\n\n*Download the app here:* [iPhone]( / [Android] ( \n\nCurrently the app only works for select US cities (Atlanta/ Austin/ Berkeley/ Boston/ Chicago/ London/ Los Angeles/ NYC/ New Orleans/ Oakland/ Philadelphia/ San Francisco/ Seattle/ Washington D.C.) But we're hoping to expand soon.\n\n-\nIf you have any questions, my email address is [email protected]\n\nMore Info at \n\nThanks from all of us!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've(F17) been with my boyfriend(M18) for 3 years and 5 months. Throughout the entire relationship I haven't had one guy friend and I became distant with my old friends. But recently I met this guy(17) online and I made it very clear that I have a boyfriend and that I only want to be friends. (The guy lives more than a thousand miles away from me btw). After an hour of talking we exchanged numbers and trust me I made sure I wasn't being catfished before we did this. I told my boyfriend I made a new friend online. My bf wasn't completely ok with it but I kept talking to the guy anyway. Next day my boyfriend and I were back on good terms. At this point I'm having a conversation with both my bf and the new friend. Now here's the problem I accidentally sent an inappropriate picture to the new friend when it was supposed to go to my bf. What do I do. Should I tell my bf and never talk to the other guy again. Or should I just tell the guy that the pic wasn't for him and hope we can still be friends. And even if we remain friends how can we recover from that? Please help I know I'm an idiot for this but please help me. I really really love my boyfriend I really don't want to ruin anything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've(F17) been with my boyfriend(M18) for 3 years and 5 months. Throughout the entire relationship I haven't had one guy friend and I became distant with my old friends. But recently I met this guy(17) online and I made it very clear that I have a boyfriend and that I only want to be friends. (The guy lives more than a thousand miles away from me btw). After an hour of talking we exchanged numbers and trust me I made sure I wasn't being catfished before we did this. I told my boyfriend I made a new friend online. My bf wasn't completely ok with it but I kept talking to the guy anyway. Next day my boyfriend and I were back on good terms. At this point I'm having a conversation with both my bf and the new friend. Now here's the problem I accidentally sent an inappropriate picture to the new friend when it was supposed to go to my bf. What do I do. Should I tell my bf and never talk to the other guy again. Or should I just tell the guy that the pic wasn't for him and hope we can still be friends. And even if we remain friends how can we recover from that? Please help I know I'm an idiot for this but please help me. I really really love my boyfriend I really don't want to ruin anything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've(F17) been with my boyfriend(M18) for 3 years and 5 months. Throughout the entire relationship I haven't had one guy friend and I became distant with my old friends. But recently I met this guy(17) online and I made it very clear that I have a boyfriend and that I only want to be friends. (The guy lives more than a thousand miles away from me btw). After an hour of talking we exchanged numbers and trust me I made sure I wasn't being catfished before we did this. I told my boyfriend I made a new friend online. My bf wasn't completely ok with it but I kept talking to the guy anyway. Next day my boyfriend and I were back on good terms. At this point I'm having a conversation with both my bf and the new friend. Now here's the problem I accidentally sent an inappropriate picture to the new friend when it was supposed to go to my bf. What do I do. Should I tell my bf and never talk to the other guy again. Or should I just tell the guy that the pic wasn't for him and hope we can still be friends. And even if we remain friends how can we recover from that? Please help I know I'm an idiot for this but please help me. I really really love my boyfriend I really don't want to ruin anything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've(F17) been with my boyfriend(M18) for 3 years and 5 months. Throughout the entire relationship I haven't had one guy friend and I became distant with my old friends. But recently I met this guy(17) online and I made it very clear that I have a boyfriend and that I only want to be friends. (The guy lives more than a thousand miles away from me btw). After an hour of talking we exchanged numbers and trust me I made sure I wasn't being catfished before we did this. I told my boyfriend I made a new friend online. My bf wasn't completely ok with it but I kept talking to the guy anyway. Next day my boyfriend and I were back on good terms. At this point I'm having a conversation with both my bf and the new friend. Now here's the problem I accidentally sent an inappropriate picture to the new friend when it was supposed to go to my bf. What do I do. Should I tell my bf and never talk to the other guy again. Or should I just tell the guy that the pic wasn't for him and hope we can still be friends. And even if we remain friends how can we recover from that? Please help I know I'm an idiot for this but please help me. I really really love my boyfriend I really don't want to ruin anything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've(F17) been with my boyfriend(M18) for 3 years and 5 months. Throughout the entire relationship I haven't had one guy friend and I became distant with my old friends. But recently I met this guy(17) online and I made it very clear that I have a boyfriend and that I only want to be friends. (The guy lives more than a thousand miles away from me btw). After an hour of talking we exchanged numbers and trust me I made sure I wasn't being catfished before we did this. I told my boyfriend I made a new friend online. My bf wasn't completely ok with it but I kept talking to the guy anyway. Next day my boyfriend and I were back on good terms. At this point I'm having a conversation with both my bf and the new friend. Now here's the problem I accidentally sent an inappropriate picture to the new friend when it was supposed to go to my bf. What do I do. Should I tell my bf and never talk to the other guy again. Or should I just tell the guy that the pic wasn't for him and hope we can still be friends. And even if we remain friends how can we recover from that? Please help I know I'm an idiot for this but please help me. I really really love my boyfriend I really don't want to ruin anything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've(F17) been with my boyfriend(M18) for 3 years and 5 months. Throughout the entire relationship I haven't had one guy friend and I became distant with my old friends. But recently I met this guy(17) online and I made it very clear that I have a boyfriend and that I only want to be friends. (The guy lives more than a thousand miles away from me btw). After an hour of talking we exchanged numbers and trust me I made sure I wasn't being catfished before we did this. I told my boyfriend I made a new friend online. My bf wasn't completely ok with it but I kept talking to the guy anyway. Next day my boyfriend and I were back on good terms. At this point I'm having a conversation with both my bf and the new friend. Now here's the problem I accidentally sent an inappropriate picture to the new friend when it was supposed to go to my bf. What do I do. Should I tell my bf and never talk to the other guy again. Or should I just tell the guy that the pic wasn't for him and hope we can still be friends. And even if we remain friends how can we recover from that? Please help I know I'm an idiot for this but please help me. I really really love my boyfriend I really don't want to ruin anything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend (16/F) went to a party at a friend's house the other night, and got pretty wasted. There were a few girls, and a few more guys (I know that at least one of them has a crush on her). She didn't tell me she was going to the party or that she was drinking (it was her first time drinking heavily). She told me that she shared a bed with one of the other guys there, but I'm not really worried about him. I trust her completely, but the guy that likes her was supplying her with a lot of drinks, which I'm not happy with. We've been dating a bit over 2 years, and this is the first real disagreement we've had. I just don't know what to think. I'm generally pretty protective of her, but I don't want her to stop socialising. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend (16/F) went to a party at a friend's house the other night, and got pretty wasted. There were a few girls, and a few more guys (I know that at least one of them has a crush on her). She didn't tell me she was going to the party or that she was drinking (it was her first time drinking heavily). She told me that she shared a bed with one of the other guys there, but I'm not really worried about him. I trust her completely, but the guy that likes her was supplying her with a lot of drinks, which I'm not happy with. We've been dating a bit over 2 years, and this is the first real disagreement we've had. I just don't know what to think. I'm generally pretty protective of her, but I don't want her to stop socialising. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend (16/F) went to a party at a friend's house the other night, and got pretty wasted. There were a few girls, and a few more guys (I know that at least one of them has a crush on her). She didn't tell me she was going to the party or that she was drinking (it was her first time drinking heavily). She told me that she shared a bed with one of the other guys there, but I'm not really worried about him. I trust her completely, but the guy that likes her was supplying her with a lot of drinks, which I'm not happy with. We've been dating a bit over 2 years, and this is the first real disagreement we've had. I just don't know what to think. I'm generally pretty protective of her, but I don't want her to stop socialising. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend (16/F) went to a party at a friend's house the other night, and got pretty wasted. There were a few girls, and a few more guys (I know that at least one of them has a crush on her). She didn't tell me she was going to the party or that she was drinking (it was her first time drinking heavily). She told me that she shared a bed with one of the other guys there, but I'm not really worried about him. I trust her completely, but the guy that likes her was supplying her with a lot of drinks, which I'm not happy with. We've been dating a bit over 2 years, and this is the first real disagreement we've had. I just don't know what to think. I'm generally pretty protective of her, but I don't want her to stop socialising. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend (16/F) went to a party at a friend's house the other night, and got pretty wasted. There were a few girls, and a few more guys (I know that at least one of them has a crush on her). She didn't tell me she was going to the party or that she was drinking (it was her first time drinking heavily). She told me that she shared a bed with one of the other guys there, but I'm not really worried about him. I trust her completely, but the guy that likes her was supplying her with a lot of drinks, which I'm not happy with. We've been dating a bit over 2 years, and this is the first real disagreement we've had. I just don't know what to think. I'm generally pretty protective of her, but I don't want her to stop socialising. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend (16/F) went to a party at a friend's house the other night, and got pretty wasted. There were a few girls, and a few more guys (I know that at least one of them has a crush on her). She didn't tell me she was going to the party or that she was drinking (it was her first time drinking heavily). She told me that she shared a bed with one of the other guys there, but I'm not really worried about him. I trust her completely, but the guy that likes her was supplying her with a lot of drinks, which I'm not happy with. We've been dating a bit over 2 years, and this is the first real disagreement we've had. I just don't know what to think. I'm generally pretty protective of her, but I don't want her to stop socialising. Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every now and then I will randomly go through my girl's phone as a joke and say how boring it is. earlier this week day she told me that she had just started texting one of my old friends who she called \"cute\" a little while back. I went to grab her phone and she went all wild-eyed and said \"one sec\" and started to blush. At this point as you can tell I'm suspicious of what she might have on her phone. She finishes up and I take her phone, her pictures are open so I looked through them and I saw a dark picture of her in a tank top. I question it by saying \"you missed one\" and she replies with \"that's nothing compared.\" And then just stopped. Me and my girl are not on a nudes type relationship ATM. The reason why I am so suspicious about her is that her ex floated a roumor about her that she sexted this dude that she started to text that day while in a relationship with him. I also asked around and he aparantly had fantasy's for my girl. When I confronted her about those roumors she said that they were true. Idk what to do right now. I'm scared of accousing her of something she didn't do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every now and then I will randomly go through my girl's phone as a joke and say how boring it is. earlier this week day she told me that she had just started texting one of my old friends who she called \"cute\" a little while back. I went to grab her phone and she went all wild-eyed and said \"one sec\" and started to blush. At this point as you can tell I'm suspicious of what she might have on her phone. She finishes up and I take her phone, her pictures are open so I looked through them and I saw a dark picture of her in a tank top. I question it by saying \"you missed one\" and she replies with \"that's nothing compared.\" And then just stopped. Me and my girl are not on a nudes type relationship ATM. The reason why I am so suspicious about her is that her ex floated a roumor about her that she sexted this dude that she started to text that day while in a relationship with him. I also asked around and he aparantly had fantasy's for my girl. When I confronted her about those roumors she said that they were true. Idk what to do right now. I'm scared of accousing her of something she didn't do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every now and then I will randomly go through my girl's phone as a joke and say how boring it is. earlier this week day she told me that she had just started texting one of my old friends who she called \"cute\" a little while back. I went to grab her phone and she went all wild-eyed and said \"one sec\" and started to blush. At this point as you can tell I'm suspicious of what she might have on her phone. She finishes up and I take her phone, her pictures are open so I looked through them and I saw a dark picture of her in a tank top. I question it by saying \"you missed one\" and she replies with \"that's nothing compared.\" And then just stopped. Me and my girl are not on a nudes type relationship ATM. The reason why I am so suspicious about her is that her ex floated a roumor about her that she sexted this dude that she started to text that day while in a relationship with him. I also asked around and he aparantly had fantasy's for my girl. When I confronted her about those roumors she said that they were true. Idk what to do right now. I'm scared of accousing her of something she didn't do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every now and then I will randomly go through my girl's phone as a joke and say how boring it is. earlier this week day she told me that she had just started texting one of my old friends who she called \"cute\" a little while back. I went to grab her phone and she went all wild-eyed and said \"one sec\" and started to blush. At this point as you can tell I'm suspicious of what she might have on her phone. She finishes up and I take her phone, her pictures are open so I looked through them and I saw a dark picture of her in a tank top. I question it by saying \"you missed one\" and she replies with \"that's nothing compared.\" And then just stopped. Me and my girl are not on a nudes type relationship ATM. The reason why I am so suspicious about her is that her ex floated a roumor about her that she sexted this dude that she started to text that day while in a relationship with him. I also asked around and he aparantly had fantasy's for my girl. When I confronted her about those roumors she said that they were true. Idk what to do right now. I'm scared of accousing her of something she didn't do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every now and then I will randomly go through my girl's phone as a joke and say how boring it is. earlier this week day she told me that she had just started texting one of my old friends who she called \"cute\" a little while back. I went to grab her phone and she went all wild-eyed and said \"one sec\" and started to blush. At this point as you can tell I'm suspicious of what she might have on her phone. She finishes up and I take her phone, her pictures are open so I looked through them and I saw a dark picture of her in a tank top. I question it by saying \"you missed one\" and she replies with \"that's nothing compared.\" And then just stopped. Me and my girl are not on a nudes type relationship ATM. The reason why I am so suspicious about her is that her ex floated a roumor about her that she sexted this dude that she started to text that day while in a relationship with him. I also asked around and he aparantly had fantasy's for my girl. When I confronted her about those roumors she said that they were true. Idk what to do right now. I'm scared of accousing her of something she didn't do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Every now and then I will randomly go through my girl's phone as a joke and say how boring it is. earlier this week day she told me that she had just started texting one of my old friends who she called \"cute\" a little while back. I went to grab her phone and she went all wild-eyed and said \"one sec\" and started to blush. At this point as you can tell I'm suspicious of what she might have on her phone. She finishes up and I take her phone, her pictures are open so I looked through them and I saw a dark picture of her in a tank top. I question it by saying \"you missed one\" and she replies with \"that's nothing compared.\" And then just stopped. Me and my girl are not on a nudes type relationship ATM. The reason why I am so suspicious about her is that her ex floated a roumor about her that she sexted this dude that she started to text that day while in a relationship with him. I also asked around and he aparantly had fantasy's for my girl. When I confronted her about those roumors she said that they were true. Idk what to do right now. I'm scared of accousing her of something she didn't do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 27M here with a friend of mine 25F I've known for 5 years. We have the same social circle so in past outings in previous years she'd always be flirty with me and the telltale signs were there. I didn't do anything about it then since she was in a LTR with her boyfriend of 5 years at the time and that's something I don't tread around. Well they broke up. \n \n\nHer friends, and my friends say it's dead obvious that she likes me. Back when we met, and even now. However, I hadn't seen her for about half a year and a group of our friends went out that night. She didn't know I'd be there and when she saw me she was ecstatic, gave me a huge hug and complimented me on my attire and all that. \n \n\nSince her breakup she's kind of been doing a complete 180 and is sowing her oats. Nothing wrong with that, I completely understand. However, we've only met in a group setting and she is all flirty, laughs at my jokes etc, but when I straight up asked her for coffee sometime I got shot down. Even her best friend tried to hook us up and that was no go. From her friend told me she still feels like she can get back with her ex (they're still \"friends\" on FB). \n \n\nI'm at a very good place in my life right now, stable career and am pursuing my passions in life and taking care of myself. I'm looking for something slow and steady, build a relationship and not rush things. I would really like to hook up with her, but I feel like I am wasting my time waiting for her to come around. \n "
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 27M here with a friend of mine 25F I've known for 5 years. We have the same social circle so in past outings in previous years she'd always be flirty with me and the telltale signs were there. I didn't do anything about it then since she was in a LTR with her boyfriend of 5 years at the time and that's something I don't tread around. Well they broke up. \n \n\nHer friends, and my friends say it's dead obvious that she likes me. Back when we met, and even now. However, I hadn't seen her for about half a year and a group of our friends went out that night. She didn't know I'd be there and when she saw me she was ecstatic, gave me a huge hug and complimented me on my attire and all that. \n \n\nSince her breakup she's kind of been doing a complete 180 and is sowing her oats. Nothing wrong with that, I completely understand. However, we've only met in a group setting and she is all flirty, laughs at my jokes etc, but when I straight up asked her for coffee sometime I got shot down. Even her best friend tried to hook us up and that was no go. From her friend told me she still feels like she can get back with her ex (they're still \"friends\" on FB). \n \n\nI'm at a very good place in my life right now, stable career and am pursuing my passions in life and taking care of myself. I'm looking for something slow and steady, build a relationship and not rush things. I would really like to hook up with her, but I feel like I am wasting my time waiting for her to come around. \n "
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 27M here with a friend of mine 25F I've known for 5 years. We have the same social circle so in past outings in previous years she'd always be flirty with me and the telltale signs were there. I didn't do anything about it then since she was in a LTR with her boyfriend of 5 years at the time and that's something I don't tread around. Well they broke up. \n \n\nHer friends, and my friends say it's dead obvious that she likes me. Back when we met, and even now. However, I hadn't seen her for about half a year and a group of our friends went out that night. She didn't know I'd be there and when she saw me she was ecstatic, gave me a huge hug and complimented me on my attire and all that. \n \n\nSince her breakup she's kind of been doing a complete 180 and is sowing her oats. Nothing wrong with that, I completely understand. However, we've only met in a group setting and she is all flirty, laughs at my jokes etc, but when I straight up asked her for coffee sometime I got shot down. Even her best friend tried to hook us up and that was no go. From her friend told me she still feels like she can get back with her ex (they're still \"friends\" on FB). \n \n\nI'm at a very good place in my life right now, stable career and am pursuing my passions in life and taking care of myself. I'm looking for something slow and steady, build a relationship and not rush things. I would really like to hook up with her, but I feel like I am wasting my time waiting for her to come around. \n "
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 27M here with a friend of mine 25F I've known for 5 years. We have the same social circle so in past outings in previous years she'd always be flirty with me and the telltale signs were there. I didn't do anything about it then since she was in a LTR with her boyfriend of 5 years at the time and that's something I don't tread around. Well they broke up. \n \n\nHer friends, and my friends say it's dead obvious that she likes me. Back when we met, and even now. However, I hadn't seen her for about half a year and a group of our friends went out that night. She didn't know I'd be there and when she saw me she was ecstatic, gave me a huge hug and complimented me on my attire and all that. \n \n\nSince her breakup she's kind of been doing a complete 180 and is sowing her oats. Nothing wrong with that, I completely understand. However, we've only met in a group setting and she is all flirty, laughs at my jokes etc, but when I straight up asked her for coffee sometime I got shot down. Even her best friend tried to hook us up and that was no go. From her friend told me she still feels like she can get back with her ex (they're still \"friends\" on FB). \n \n\nI'm at a very good place in my life right now, stable career and am pursuing my passions in life and taking care of myself. I'm looking for something slow and steady, build a relationship and not rush things. I would really like to hook up with her, but I feel like I am wasting my time waiting for her to come around. \n "
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 27M here with a friend of mine 25F I've known for 5 years. We have the same social circle so in past outings in previous years she'd always be flirty with me and the telltale signs were there. I didn't do anything about it then since she was in a LTR with her boyfriend of 5 years at the time and that's something I don't tread around. Well they broke up. \n \n\nHer friends, and my friends say it's dead obvious that she likes me. Back when we met, and even now. However, I hadn't seen her for about half a year and a group of our friends went out that night. She didn't know I'd be there and when she saw me she was ecstatic, gave me a huge hug and complimented me on my attire and all that. \n \n\nSince her breakup she's kind of been doing a complete 180 and is sowing her oats. Nothing wrong with that, I completely understand. However, we've only met in a group setting and she is all flirty, laughs at my jokes etc, but when I straight up asked her for coffee sometime I got shot down. Even her best friend tried to hook us up and that was no go. From her friend told me she still feels like she can get back with her ex (they're still \"friends\" on FB). \n \n\nI'm at a very good place in my life right now, stable career and am pursuing my passions in life and taking care of myself. I'm looking for something slow and steady, build a relationship and not rush things. I would really like to hook up with her, but I feel like I am wasting my time waiting for her to come around. \n "
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 27M here with a friend of mine 25F I've known for 5 years. We have the same social circle so in past outings in previous years she'd always be flirty with me and the telltale signs were there. I didn't do anything about it then since she was in a LTR with her boyfriend of 5 years at the time and that's something I don't tread around. Well they broke up. \n \n\nHer friends, and my friends say it's dead obvious that she likes me. Back when we met, and even now. However, I hadn't seen her for about half a year and a group of our friends went out that night. She didn't know I'd be there and when she saw me she was ecstatic, gave me a huge hug and complimented me on my attire and all that. \n \n\nSince her breakup she's kind of been doing a complete 180 and is sowing her oats. Nothing wrong with that, I completely understand. However, we've only met in a group setting and she is all flirty, laughs at my jokes etc, but when I straight up asked her for coffee sometime I got shot down. Even her best friend tried to hook us up and that was no go. From her friend told me she still feels like she can get back with her ex (they're still \"friends\" on FB). \n \n\nI'm at a very good place in my life right now, stable career and am pursuing my passions in life and taking care of myself. I'm looking for something slow and steady, build a relationship and not rush things. I would really like to hook up with her, but I feel like I am wasting my time waiting for her to come around. \n "
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: EDIT/UPDATE: I Just dropped her at her moms. I was in a moment of panic when writing this and regurgitated all the things going through my head. On the way there we made the necessary phone calls and I got the contact info I need for some of the vendors. I also called my mom and got her on board to help me out. I just told her to do what she needs to do and I love her. \n\nOn mobile.\n\nmy fiancee got the call this morning that her grandpa has only a few hours to live. She is Mexican and really close with her whole family and plans to fly to Mexico today-coming back 2-3 days before the wedding.\n\nI'm at a loss and don't know what to do or how to react. The wedding can't be pushed as all the deposits have been paid, and we really can't even afford this spontaneous trip for her to Mexico because the wedding has drained our banks. Also family/friends already has their plane tickets/hotels booked for the wedding.\n\nShe was handling some of the larger aspects like catering (through the company she works for), and I have a feeling that things won't line up. \n\nI'm being understanding at the moment but I'm going to be dropping her off at her moms and I feel like I need to press the issue about money, getting married in 9 days, etc, but don't know how, or even if I should."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: EDIT/UPDATE: I Just dropped her at her moms. I was in a moment of panic when writing this and regurgitated all the things going through my head. On the way there we made the necessary phone calls and I got the contact info I need for some of the vendors. I also called my mom and got her on board to help me out. I just told her to do what she needs to do and I love her. \n\nOn mobile.\n\nmy fiancee got the call this morning that her grandpa has only a few hours to live. She is Mexican and really close with her whole family and plans to fly to Mexico today-coming back 2-3 days before the wedding.\n\nI'm at a loss and don't know what to do or how to react. The wedding can't be pushed as all the deposits have been paid, and we really can't even afford this spontaneous trip for her to Mexico because the wedding has drained our banks. Also family/friends already has their plane tickets/hotels booked for the wedding.\n\nShe was handling some of the larger aspects like catering (through the company she works for), and I have a feeling that things won't line up. \n\nI'm being understanding at the moment but I'm going to be dropping her off at her moms and I feel like I need to press the issue about money, getting married in 9 days, etc, but don't know how, or even if I should."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: EDIT/UPDATE: I Just dropped her at her moms. I was in a moment of panic when writing this and regurgitated all the things going through my head. On the way there we made the necessary phone calls and I got the contact info I need for some of the vendors. I also called my mom and got her on board to help me out. I just told her to do what she needs to do and I love her. \n\nOn mobile.\n\nmy fiancee got the call this morning that her grandpa has only a few hours to live. She is Mexican and really close with her whole family and plans to fly to Mexico today-coming back 2-3 days before the wedding.\n\nI'm at a loss and don't know what to do or how to react. The wedding can't be pushed as all the deposits have been paid, and we really can't even afford this spontaneous trip for her to Mexico because the wedding has drained our banks. Also family/friends already has their plane tickets/hotels booked for the wedding.\n\nShe was handling some of the larger aspects like catering (through the company she works for), and I have a feeling that things won't line up. \n\nI'm being understanding at the moment but I'm going to be dropping her off at her moms and I feel like I need to press the issue about money, getting married in 9 days, etc, but don't know how, or even if I should."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: EDIT/UPDATE: I Just dropped her at her moms. I was in a moment of panic when writing this and regurgitated all the things going through my head. On the way there we made the necessary phone calls and I got the contact info I need for some of the vendors. I also called my mom and got her on board to help me out. I just told her to do what she needs to do and I love her. \n\nOn mobile.\n\nmy fiancee got the call this morning that her grandpa has only a few hours to live. She is Mexican and really close with her whole family and plans to fly to Mexico today-coming back 2-3 days before the wedding.\n\nI'm at a loss and don't know what to do or how to react. The wedding can't be pushed as all the deposits have been paid, and we really can't even afford this spontaneous trip for her to Mexico because the wedding has drained our banks. Also family/friends already has their plane tickets/hotels booked for the wedding.\n\nShe was handling some of the larger aspects like catering (through the company she works for), and I have a feeling that things won't line up. \n\nI'm being understanding at the moment but I'm going to be dropping her off at her moms and I feel like I need to press the issue about money, getting married in 9 days, etc, but don't know how, or even if I should."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: EDIT/UPDATE: I Just dropped her at her moms. I was in a moment of panic when writing this and regurgitated all the things going through my head. On the way there we made the necessary phone calls and I got the contact info I need for some of the vendors. I also called my mom and got her on board to help me out. I just told her to do what she needs to do and I love her. \n\nOn mobile.\n\nmy fiancee got the call this morning that her grandpa has only a few hours to live. She is Mexican and really close with her whole family and plans to fly to Mexico today-coming back 2-3 days before the wedding.\n\nI'm at a loss and don't know what to do or how to react. The wedding can't be pushed as all the deposits have been paid, and we really can't even afford this spontaneous trip for her to Mexico because the wedding has drained our banks. Also family/friends already has their plane tickets/hotels booked for the wedding.\n\nShe was handling some of the larger aspects like catering (through the company she works for), and I have a feeling that things won't line up. \n\nI'm being understanding at the moment but I'm going to be dropping her off at her moms and I feel like I need to press the issue about money, getting married in 9 days, etc, but don't know how, or even if I should."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: EDIT/UPDATE: I Just dropped her at her moms. I was in a moment of panic when writing this and regurgitated all the things going through my head. On the way there we made the necessary phone calls and I got the contact info I need for some of the vendors. I also called my mom and got her on board to help me out. I just told her to do what she needs to do and I love her. \n\nOn mobile.\n\nmy fiancee got the call this morning that her grandpa has only a few hours to live. She is Mexican and really close with her whole family and plans to fly to Mexico today-coming back 2-3 days before the wedding.\n\nI'm at a loss and don't know what to do or how to react. The wedding can't be pushed as all the deposits have been paid, and we really can't even afford this spontaneous trip for her to Mexico because the wedding has drained our banks. Also family/friends already has their plane tickets/hotels booked for the wedding.\n\nShe was handling some of the larger aspects like catering (through the company she works for), and I have a feeling that things won't line up. \n\nI'm being understanding at the moment but I'm going to be dropping her off at her moms and I feel like I need to press the issue about money, getting married in 9 days, etc, but don't know how, or even if I should."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've [22] been seeing this girl [20] for the past month, and it's been going very well. We're separate for winter break right now, but after some talking since being apart, we've decided to make it official next time we see each other. That's tomorrow.\n\nSo my question is, how should I go about asking someone to be my girlfriend who I know will say yes? I haven't done this in a long time - my last relationship lasted four years. Also, it should be noted that she's super low maintenance, so nothing overly romantic is necessary.\n\nI'd prefer not to just straight up ask, but also don't want to make a big show of it. So is there any middle ground there that anyone can think of? Just a smooth way to ask her. Thanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've [22] been seeing this girl [20] for the past month, and it's been going very well. We're separate for winter break right now, but after some talking since being apart, we've decided to make it official next time we see each other. That's tomorrow.\n\nSo my question is, how should I go about asking someone to be my girlfriend who I know will say yes? I haven't done this in a long time - my last relationship lasted four years. Also, it should be noted that she's super low maintenance, so nothing overly romantic is necessary.\n\nI'd prefer not to just straight up ask, but also don't want to make a big show of it. So is there any middle ground there that anyone can think of? Just a smooth way to ask her. Thanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've [22] been seeing this girl [20] for the past month, and it's been going very well. We're separate for winter break right now, but after some talking since being apart, we've decided to make it official next time we see each other. That's tomorrow.\n\nSo my question is, how should I go about asking someone to be my girlfriend who I know will say yes? I haven't done this in a long time - my last relationship lasted four years. Also, it should be noted that she's super low maintenance, so nothing overly romantic is necessary.\n\nI'd prefer not to just straight up ask, but also don't want to make a big show of it. So is there any middle ground there that anyone can think of? Just a smooth way to ask her. Thanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've [22] been seeing this girl [20] for the past month, and it's been going very well. We're separate for winter break right now, but after some talking since being apart, we've decided to make it official next time we see each other. That's tomorrow.\n\nSo my question is, how should I go about asking someone to be my girlfriend who I know will say yes? I haven't done this in a long time - my last relationship lasted four years. Also, it should be noted that she's super low maintenance, so nothing overly romantic is necessary.\n\nI'd prefer not to just straight up ask, but also don't want to make a big show of it. So is there any middle ground there that anyone can think of? Just a smooth way to ask her. Thanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've [22] been seeing this girl [20] for the past month, and it's been going very well. We're separate for winter break right now, but after some talking since being apart, we've decided to make it official next time we see each other. That's tomorrow.\n\nSo my question is, how should I go about asking someone to be my girlfriend who I know will say yes? I haven't done this in a long time - my last relationship lasted four years. Also, it should be noted that she's super low maintenance, so nothing overly romantic is necessary.\n\nI'd prefer not to just straight up ask, but also don't want to make a big show of it. So is there any middle ground there that anyone can think of? Just a smooth way to ask her. Thanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've [22] been seeing this girl [20] for the past month, and it's been going very well. We're separate for winter break right now, but after some talking since being apart, we've decided to make it official next time we see each other. That's tomorrow.\n\nSo my question is, how should I go about asking someone to be my girlfriend who I know will say yes? I haven't done this in a long time - my last relationship lasted four years. Also, it should be noted that she's super low maintenance, so nothing overly romantic is necessary.\n\nI'd prefer not to just straight up ask, but also don't want to make a big show of it. So is there any middle ground there that anyone can think of? Just a smooth way to ask her. Thanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I started a degree a few months ago and there is this guy in the same course as I, and I felt very deeply attracted to him. I am very shy (read INSECURE) so I have been playing hot and cold with him to protect myself, in case he doesn't like me (though I think he is interested - he is, actually).\nBecause I like him, I am of course a complete retard about it, so I am very very shy, sometimes even cold and ignoring him. He made an effort to be around me a lot on Tuesday, but beyond saying \"hey\" to him, I barely looked at him, barely spoke to him. I was angry with myself, but I thought, I'll see him Wednesday and right things between us. He didn't show. Turns out he has already gone home for the two week break. I felt my heart breaking. I was crying. I am furious with myself now. Have I blown it between us, or can I still salvage this tentative like between us? Will he respond to me when in January I will try again, being CONSISTENTLY warm and kind to him. Please, it is not too late is it? Have I blown it? Please tell me what to do next/your advise. I feel I am going to go mad. We have known of each other's existence for two months, and we have been engaged in this scoping out how the other feels for one another for a month or so now. He went away on Tuesday, class resumes in early January.\nI will be more honest then towards him, I just need to know I haven't blown it.\nI did like his status (saying he was heading to his home country) and I wished him a great trip. Is that enough? Should I email him? I don't even know if we are friends though, because we have spoken only little - it is the strength of attraction between us that makes it so intimate. Please, please help me with this situation!\nThank-you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I started a degree a few months ago and there is this guy in the same course as I, and I felt very deeply attracted to him. I am very shy (read INSECURE) so I have been playing hot and cold with him to protect myself, in case he doesn't like me (though I think he is interested - he is, actually).\nBecause I like him, I am of course a complete retard about it, so I am very very shy, sometimes even cold and ignoring him. He made an effort to be around me a lot on Tuesday, but beyond saying \"hey\" to him, I barely looked at him, barely spoke to him. I was angry with myself, but I thought, I'll see him Wednesday and right things between us. He didn't show. Turns out he has already gone home for the two week break. I felt my heart breaking. I was crying. I am furious with myself now. Have I blown it between us, or can I still salvage this tentative like between us? Will he respond to me when in January I will try again, being CONSISTENTLY warm and kind to him. Please, it is not too late is it? Have I blown it? Please tell me what to do next/your advise. I feel I am going to go mad. We have known of each other's existence for two months, and we have been engaged in this scoping out how the other feels for one another for a month or so now. He went away on Tuesday, class resumes in early January.\nI will be more honest then towards him, I just need to know I haven't blown it.\nI did like his status (saying he was heading to his home country) and I wished him a great trip. Is that enough? Should I email him? I don't even know if we are friends though, because we have spoken only little - it is the strength of attraction between us that makes it so intimate. Please, please help me with this situation!\nThank-you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I started a degree a few months ago and there is this guy in the same course as I, and I felt very deeply attracted to him. I am very shy (read INSECURE) so I have been playing hot and cold with him to protect myself, in case he doesn't like me (though I think he is interested - he is, actually).\nBecause I like him, I am of course a complete retard about it, so I am very very shy, sometimes even cold and ignoring him. He made an effort to be around me a lot on Tuesday, but beyond saying \"hey\" to him, I barely looked at him, barely spoke to him. I was angry with myself, but I thought, I'll see him Wednesday and right things between us. He didn't show. Turns out he has already gone home for the two week break. I felt my heart breaking. I was crying. I am furious with myself now. Have I blown it between us, or can I still salvage this tentative like between us? Will he respond to me when in January I will try again, being CONSISTENTLY warm and kind to him. Please, it is not too late is it? Have I blown it? Please tell me what to do next/your advise. I feel I am going to go mad. We have known of each other's existence for two months, and we have been engaged in this scoping out how the other feels for one another for a month or so now. He went away on Tuesday, class resumes in early January.\nI will be more honest then towards him, I just need to know I haven't blown it.\nI did like his status (saying he was heading to his home country) and I wished him a great trip. Is that enough? Should I email him? I don't even know if we are friends though, because we have spoken only little - it is the strength of attraction between us that makes it so intimate. Please, please help me with this situation!\nThank-you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I started a degree a few months ago and there is this guy in the same course as I, and I felt very deeply attracted to him. I am very shy (read INSECURE) so I have been playing hot and cold with him to protect myself, in case he doesn't like me (though I think he is interested - he is, actually).\nBecause I like him, I am of course a complete retard about it, so I am very very shy, sometimes even cold and ignoring him. He made an effort to be around me a lot on Tuesday, but beyond saying \"hey\" to him, I barely looked at him, barely spoke to him. I was angry with myself, but I thought, I'll see him Wednesday and right things between us. He didn't show. Turns out he has already gone home for the two week break. I felt my heart breaking. I was crying. I am furious with myself now. Have I blown it between us, or can I still salvage this tentative like between us? Will he respond to me when in January I will try again, being CONSISTENTLY warm and kind to him. Please, it is not too late is it? Have I blown it? Please tell me what to do next/your advise. I feel I am going to go mad. We have known of each other's existence for two months, and we have been engaged in this scoping out how the other feels for one another for a month or so now. He went away on Tuesday, class resumes in early January.\nI will be more honest then towards him, I just need to know I haven't blown it.\nI did like his status (saying he was heading to his home country) and I wished him a great trip. Is that enough? Should I email him? I don't even know if we are friends though, because we have spoken only little - it is the strength of attraction between us that makes it so intimate. Please, please help me with this situation!\nThank-you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I started a degree a few months ago and there is this guy in the same course as I, and I felt very deeply attracted to him. I am very shy (read INSECURE) so I have been playing hot and cold with him to protect myself, in case he doesn't like me (though I think he is interested - he is, actually).\nBecause I like him, I am of course a complete retard about it, so I am very very shy, sometimes even cold and ignoring him. He made an effort to be around me a lot on Tuesday, but beyond saying \"hey\" to him, I barely looked at him, barely spoke to him. I was angry with myself, but I thought, I'll see him Wednesday and right things between us. He didn't show. Turns out he has already gone home for the two week break. I felt my heart breaking. I was crying. I am furious with myself now. Have I blown it between us, or can I still salvage this tentative like between us? Will he respond to me when in January I will try again, being CONSISTENTLY warm and kind to him. Please, it is not too late is it? Have I blown it? Please tell me what to do next/your advise. I feel I am going to go mad. We have known of each other's existence for two months, and we have been engaged in this scoping out how the other feels for one another for a month or so now. He went away on Tuesday, class resumes in early January.\nI will be more honest then towards him, I just need to know I haven't blown it.\nI did like his status (saying he was heading to his home country) and I wished him a great trip. Is that enough? Should I email him? I don't even know if we are friends though, because we have spoken only little - it is the strength of attraction between us that makes it so intimate. Please, please help me with this situation!\nThank-you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I started a degree a few months ago and there is this guy in the same course as I, and I felt very deeply attracted to him. I am very shy (read INSECURE) so I have been playing hot and cold with him to protect myself, in case he doesn't like me (though I think he is interested - he is, actually).\nBecause I like him, I am of course a complete retard about it, so I am very very shy, sometimes even cold and ignoring him. He made an effort to be around me a lot on Tuesday, but beyond saying \"hey\" to him, I barely looked at him, barely spoke to him. I was angry with myself, but I thought, I'll see him Wednesday and right things between us. He didn't show. Turns out he has already gone home for the two week break. I felt my heart breaking. I was crying. I am furious with myself now. Have I blown it between us, or can I still salvage this tentative like between us? Will he respond to me when in January I will try again, being CONSISTENTLY warm and kind to him. Please, it is not too late is it? Have I blown it? Please tell me what to do next/your advise. I feel I am going to go mad. We have known of each other's existence for two months, and we have been engaged in this scoping out how the other feels for one another for a month or so now. He went away on Tuesday, class resumes in early January.\nI will be more honest then towards him, I just need to know I haven't blown it.\nI did like his status (saying he was heading to his home country) and I wished him a great trip. Is that enough? Should I email him? I don't even know if we are friends though, because we have spoken only little - it is the strength of attraction between us that makes it so intimate. Please, please help me with this situation!\nThank-you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is a question for all those redditors who genuinely enjoy the fucked up side of the internet. Why?\n\nI understand there's a bit of gross out fun to be had. I've seen two girls one cup, I found it amusing in a oh my god what the fuck kinda way but went away feeling sorry for the girls doing it.\n\nWhat I really don't get is the idea of watching videos/pictures of people dying or being killed. In a search of a catch all term for the title I found this blog post\n\n(apologies for the long link, can never remember the formatting when posting from my phone)\n\nReading the descriptions within I just don't know why anyone would ever want to watch any of this.\n\nSo fans of the kind of videos/pics described, what drives you to watch this kind of thing? There's an endless flood of information and knowledge on the internet. Pictures from around the world of the most beautiful natural and man made vistas in existence. Why would you pass on this and go watch someone getting beheaded?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is a question for all those redditors who genuinely enjoy the fucked up side of the internet. Why?\n\nI understand there's a bit of gross out fun to be had. I've seen two girls one cup, I found it amusing in a oh my god what the fuck kinda way but went away feeling sorry for the girls doing it.\n\nWhat I really don't get is the idea of watching videos/pictures of people dying or being killed. In a search of a catch all term for the title I found this blog post\n\n(apologies for the long link, can never remember the formatting when posting from my phone)\n\nReading the descriptions within I just don't know why anyone would ever want to watch any of this.\n\nSo fans of the kind of videos/pics described, what drives you to watch this kind of thing? There's an endless flood of information and knowledge on the internet. Pictures from around the world of the most beautiful natural and man made vistas in existence. Why would you pass on this and go watch someone getting beheaded?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is a question for all those redditors who genuinely enjoy the fucked up side of the internet. Why?\n\nI understand there's a bit of gross out fun to be had. I've seen two girls one cup, I found it amusing in a oh my god what the fuck kinda way but went away feeling sorry for the girls doing it.\n\nWhat I really don't get is the idea of watching videos/pictures of people dying or being killed. In a search of a catch all term for the title I found this blog post\n\n(apologies for the long link, can never remember the formatting when posting from my phone)\n\nReading the descriptions within I just don't know why anyone would ever want to watch any of this.\n\nSo fans of the kind of videos/pics described, what drives you to watch this kind of thing? There's an endless flood of information and knowledge on the internet. Pictures from around the world of the most beautiful natural and man made vistas in existence. Why would you pass on this and go watch someone getting beheaded?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is a question for all those redditors who genuinely enjoy the fucked up side of the internet. Why?\n\nI understand there's a bit of gross out fun to be had. I've seen two girls one cup, I found it amusing in a oh my god what the fuck kinda way but went away feeling sorry for the girls doing it.\n\nWhat I really don't get is the idea of watching videos/pictures of people dying or being killed. In a search of a catch all term for the title I found this blog post\n\n(apologies for the long link, can never remember the formatting when posting from my phone)\n\nReading the descriptions within I just don't know why anyone would ever want to watch any of this.\n\nSo fans of the kind of videos/pics described, what drives you to watch this kind of thing? There's an endless flood of information and knowledge on the internet. Pictures from around the world of the most beautiful natural and man made vistas in existence. Why would you pass on this and go watch someone getting beheaded?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is a question for all those redditors who genuinely enjoy the fucked up side of the internet. Why?\n\nI understand there's a bit of gross out fun to be had. I've seen two girls one cup, I found it amusing in a oh my god what the fuck kinda way but went away feeling sorry for the girls doing it.\n\nWhat I really don't get is the idea of watching videos/pictures of people dying or being killed. In a search of a catch all term for the title I found this blog post\n\n(apologies for the long link, can never remember the formatting when posting from my phone)\n\nReading the descriptions within I just don't know why anyone would ever want to watch any of this.\n\nSo fans of the kind of videos/pics described, what drives you to watch this kind of thing? There's an endless flood of information and knowledge on the internet. Pictures from around the world of the most beautiful natural and man made vistas in existence. Why would you pass on this and go watch someone getting beheaded?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is a question for all those redditors who genuinely enjoy the fucked up side of the internet. Why?\n\nI understand there's a bit of gross out fun to be had. I've seen two girls one cup, I found it amusing in a oh my god what the fuck kinda way but went away feeling sorry for the girls doing it.\n\nWhat I really don't get is the idea of watching videos/pictures of people dying or being killed. In a search of a catch all term for the title I found this blog post\n\n(apologies for the long link, can never remember the formatting when posting from my phone)\n\nReading the descriptions within I just don't know why anyone would ever want to watch any of this.\n\nSo fans of the kind of videos/pics described, what drives you to watch this kind of thing? There's an endless flood of information and knowledge on the internet. Pictures from around the world of the most beautiful natural and man made vistas in existence. Why would you pass on this and go watch someone getting beheaded?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have been powerlifting for a little over a year and a half. Sophomore year of school I joined the school's powerlifting team, and shortly after, I got my girlfriend into it. Needless to say, she loves the team atmosphere. I, on the other hand, was not a huge fan of many of the guys on the team and, coupled with the fact that I will be extremely busy come January, cannot afford to go to 4 hour long practices 3 days a week. So, I left. The problem is, my girlfriend and I will both be very busy come the spring semester (which starts in january) and powerlifting was going to be one of the ways we spend time together and for me to support her. Now, I will have trouble seeing her competitions and travelling alongside the team, not to mention I lose time with her during the week. So my question is. how can I show her that I love and support her in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have been powerlifting for a little over a year and a half. Sophomore year of school I joined the school's powerlifting team, and shortly after, I got my girlfriend into it. Needless to say, she loves the team atmosphere. I, on the other hand, was not a huge fan of many of the guys on the team and, coupled with the fact that I will be extremely busy come January, cannot afford to go to 4 hour long practices 3 days a week. So, I left. The problem is, my girlfriend and I will both be very busy come the spring semester (which starts in january) and powerlifting was going to be one of the ways we spend time together and for me to support her. Now, I will have trouble seeing her competitions and travelling alongside the team, not to mention I lose time with her during the week. So my question is. how can I show her that I love and support her in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have been powerlifting for a little over a year and a half. Sophomore year of school I joined the school's powerlifting team, and shortly after, I got my girlfriend into it. Needless to say, she loves the team atmosphere. I, on the other hand, was not a huge fan of many of the guys on the team and, coupled with the fact that I will be extremely busy come January, cannot afford to go to 4 hour long practices 3 days a week. So, I left. The problem is, my girlfriend and I will both be very busy come the spring semester (which starts in january) and powerlifting was going to be one of the ways we spend time together and for me to support her. Now, I will have trouble seeing her competitions and travelling alongside the team, not to mention I lose time with her during the week. So my question is. how can I show her that I love and support her in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have been powerlifting for a little over a year and a half. Sophomore year of school I joined the school's powerlifting team, and shortly after, I got my girlfriend into it. Needless to say, she loves the team atmosphere. I, on the other hand, was not a huge fan of many of the guys on the team and, coupled with the fact that I will be extremely busy come January, cannot afford to go to 4 hour long practices 3 days a week. So, I left. The problem is, my girlfriend and I will both be very busy come the spring semester (which starts in january) and powerlifting was going to be one of the ways we spend time together and for me to support her. Now, I will have trouble seeing her competitions and travelling alongside the team, not to mention I lose time with her during the week. So my question is. how can I show her that I love and support her in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have been powerlifting for a little over a year and a half. Sophomore year of school I joined the school's powerlifting team, and shortly after, I got my girlfriend into it. Needless to say, she loves the team atmosphere. I, on the other hand, was not a huge fan of many of the guys on the team and, coupled with the fact that I will be extremely busy come January, cannot afford to go to 4 hour long practices 3 days a week. So, I left. The problem is, my girlfriend and I will both be very busy come the spring semester (which starts in january) and powerlifting was going to be one of the ways we spend time together and for me to support her. Now, I will have trouble seeing her competitions and travelling alongside the team, not to mention I lose time with her during the week. So my question is. how can I show her that I love and support her in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I have been powerlifting for a little over a year and a half. Sophomore year of school I joined the school's powerlifting team, and shortly after, I got my girlfriend into it. Needless to say, she loves the team atmosphere. I, on the other hand, was not a huge fan of many of the guys on the team and, coupled with the fact that I will be extremely busy come January, cannot afford to go to 4 hour long practices 3 days a week. So, I left. The problem is, my girlfriend and I will both be very busy come the spring semester (which starts in january) and powerlifting was going to be one of the ways we spend time together and for me to support her. Now, I will have trouble seeing her competitions and travelling alongside the team, not to mention I lose time with her during the week. So my question is. how can I show her that I love and support her in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit.\n\nGetting the details out the way, mid-20's couple, lived together for about 4 years. \n\nFirst 2 years = great sex life\n\n3rd year = so so\n\n4th year = not doing well.\n\nWe've talked about it a fair bit, and she claims to find sex kind of disgusting and says she feels bad at it, but that she doesn't really have any desire to improve or to the willingness to really make any attempt at changing anything. She's fairly unadventurous in bed, but I was certainly happy enough in the first few years.\n\nWe've gotten to a situation though where I want sex, regularly, and she doesn't - we do have sex, just not on a daily or at least 4-5 times a week basis, which is what I'd want. She's started to say now on several occasions that she would understand if I had sex with other people, and thinks it'd be OK - that sex doesn't intrinsically need to be tied to a relationship. Before anyone says it, I'm perfectly sure she's not cheating, and she isn't angling to have sex with others herself, this is about me.\n\nThe first few times she said this, I just said \"of course not\" and kind of left it at that, but having heard this a good few times now when we're having serious discussions about our sex life, I'm starting to think she's genuinely serious.\n\nSo reddit, I have no idea what to think about this, anyone got any experience with similar situations or circumstances?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit.\n\nGetting the details out the way, mid-20's couple, lived together for about 4 years. \n\nFirst 2 years = great sex life\n\n3rd year = so so\n\n4th year = not doing well.\n\nWe've talked about it a fair bit, and she claims to find sex kind of disgusting and says she feels bad at it, but that she doesn't really have any desire to improve or to the willingness to really make any attempt at changing anything. She's fairly unadventurous in bed, but I was certainly happy enough in the first few years.\n\nWe've gotten to a situation though where I want sex, regularly, and she doesn't - we do have sex, just not on a daily or at least 4-5 times a week basis, which is what I'd want. She's started to say now on several occasions that she would understand if I had sex with other people, and thinks it'd be OK - that sex doesn't intrinsically need to be tied to a relationship. Before anyone says it, I'm perfectly sure she's not cheating, and she isn't angling to have sex with others herself, this is about me.\n\nThe first few times she said this, I just said \"of course not\" and kind of left it at that, but having heard this a good few times now when we're having serious discussions about our sex life, I'm starting to think she's genuinely serious.\n\nSo reddit, I have no idea what to think about this, anyone got any experience with similar situations or circumstances?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit.\n\nGetting the details out the way, mid-20's couple, lived together for about 4 years. \n\nFirst 2 years = great sex life\n\n3rd year = so so\n\n4th year = not doing well.\n\nWe've talked about it a fair bit, and she claims to find sex kind of disgusting and says she feels bad at it, but that she doesn't really have any desire to improve or to the willingness to really make any attempt at changing anything. She's fairly unadventurous in bed, but I was certainly happy enough in the first few years.\n\nWe've gotten to a situation though where I want sex, regularly, and she doesn't - we do have sex, just not on a daily or at least 4-5 times a week basis, which is what I'd want. She's started to say now on several occasions that she would understand if I had sex with other people, and thinks it'd be OK - that sex doesn't intrinsically need to be tied to a relationship. Before anyone says it, I'm perfectly sure she's not cheating, and she isn't angling to have sex with others herself, this is about me.\n\nThe first few times she said this, I just said \"of course not\" and kind of left it at that, but having heard this a good few times now when we're having serious discussions about our sex life, I'm starting to think she's genuinely serious.\n\nSo reddit, I have no idea what to think about this, anyone got any experience with similar situations or circumstances?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit.\n\nGetting the details out the way, mid-20's couple, lived together for about 4 years. \n\nFirst 2 years = great sex life\n\n3rd year = so so\n\n4th year = not doing well.\n\nWe've talked about it a fair bit, and she claims to find sex kind of disgusting and says she feels bad at it, but that she doesn't really have any desire to improve or to the willingness to really make any attempt at changing anything. She's fairly unadventurous in bed, but I was certainly happy enough in the first few years.\n\nWe've gotten to a situation though where I want sex, regularly, and she doesn't - we do have sex, just not on a daily or at least 4-5 times a week basis, which is what I'd want. She's started to say now on several occasions that she would understand if I had sex with other people, and thinks it'd be OK - that sex doesn't intrinsically need to be tied to a relationship. Before anyone says it, I'm perfectly sure she's not cheating, and she isn't angling to have sex with others herself, this is about me.\n\nThe first few times she said this, I just said \"of course not\" and kind of left it at that, but having heard this a good few times now when we're having serious discussions about our sex life, I'm starting to think she's genuinely serious.\n\nSo reddit, I have no idea what to think about this, anyone got any experience with similar situations or circumstances?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit.\n\nGetting the details out the way, mid-20's couple, lived together for about 4 years. \n\nFirst 2 years = great sex life\n\n3rd year = so so\n\n4th year = not doing well.\n\nWe've talked about it a fair bit, and she claims to find sex kind of disgusting and says she feels bad at it, but that she doesn't really have any desire to improve or to the willingness to really make any attempt at changing anything. She's fairly unadventurous in bed, but I was certainly happy enough in the first few years.\n\nWe've gotten to a situation though where I want sex, regularly, and she doesn't - we do have sex, just not on a daily or at least 4-5 times a week basis, which is what I'd want. She's started to say now on several occasions that she would understand if I had sex with other people, and thinks it'd be OK - that sex doesn't intrinsically need to be tied to a relationship. Before anyone says it, I'm perfectly sure she's not cheating, and she isn't angling to have sex with others herself, this is about me.\n\nThe first few times she said this, I just said \"of course not\" and kind of left it at that, but having heard this a good few times now when we're having serious discussions about our sex life, I'm starting to think she's genuinely serious.\n\nSo reddit, I have no idea what to think about this, anyone got any experience with similar situations or circumstances?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit.\n\nGetting the details out the way, mid-20's couple, lived together for about 4 years. \n\nFirst 2 years = great sex life\n\n3rd year = so so\n\n4th year = not doing well.\n\nWe've talked about it a fair bit, and she claims to find sex kind of disgusting and says she feels bad at it, but that she doesn't really have any desire to improve or to the willingness to really make any attempt at changing anything. She's fairly unadventurous in bed, but I was certainly happy enough in the first few years.\n\nWe've gotten to a situation though where I want sex, regularly, and she doesn't - we do have sex, just not on a daily or at least 4-5 times a week basis, which is what I'd want. She's started to say now on several occasions that she would understand if I had sex with other people, and thinks it'd be OK - that sex doesn't intrinsically need to be tied to a relationship. Before anyone says it, I'm perfectly sure she's not cheating, and she isn't angling to have sex with others herself, this is about me.\n\nThe first few times she said this, I just said \"of course not\" and kind of left it at that, but having heard this a good few times now when we're having serious discussions about our sex life, I'm starting to think she's genuinely serious.\n\nSo reddit, I have no idea what to think about this, anyone got any experience with similar situations or circumstances?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need help here reddit because I don't know what to do. \n\nI met this girl about a month and a half ago and I liked her immediately. We talked non stop every single day for about a month and found out that we have A LOT in common. She's going to the same college as me and blah blah blah. Well I went to go visit here last weekend and she lives about 3 hours away and we had a pretty good time and as of now I plan on going back in about a month. Here's the tricky part, ever since I visited her she has stopped everything that she did before, she used to favorite and reply to EVERY tweet I sent out and would reply to every snapchat. She still texts me back but it's not the same at all and it's depressing because I really like this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need help here reddit because I don't know what to do. \n\nI met this girl about a month and a half ago and I liked her immediately. We talked non stop every single day for about a month and found out that we have A LOT in common. She's going to the same college as me and blah blah blah. Well I went to go visit here last weekend and she lives about 3 hours away and we had a pretty good time and as of now I plan on going back in about a month. Here's the tricky part, ever since I visited her she has stopped everything that she did before, she used to favorite and reply to EVERY tweet I sent out and would reply to every snapchat. She still texts me back but it's not the same at all and it's depressing because I really like this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need help here reddit because I don't know what to do. \n\nI met this girl about a month and a half ago and I liked her immediately. We talked non stop every single day for about a month and found out that we have A LOT in common. She's going to the same college as me and blah blah blah. Well I went to go visit here last weekend and she lives about 3 hours away and we had a pretty good time and as of now I plan on going back in about a month. Here's the tricky part, ever since I visited her she has stopped everything that she did before, she used to favorite and reply to EVERY tweet I sent out and would reply to every snapchat. She still texts me back but it's not the same at all and it's depressing because I really like this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need help here reddit because I don't know what to do. \n\nI met this girl about a month and a half ago and I liked her immediately. We talked non stop every single day for about a month and found out that we have A LOT in common. She's going to the same college as me and blah blah blah. Well I went to go visit here last weekend and she lives about 3 hours away and we had a pretty good time and as of now I plan on going back in about a month. Here's the tricky part, ever since I visited her she has stopped everything that she did before, she used to favorite and reply to EVERY tweet I sent out and would reply to every snapchat. She still texts me back but it's not the same at all and it's depressing because I really like this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need help here reddit because I don't know what to do. \n\nI met this girl about a month and a half ago and I liked her immediately. We talked non stop every single day for about a month and found out that we have A LOT in common. She's going to the same college as me and blah blah blah. Well I went to go visit here last weekend and she lives about 3 hours away and we had a pretty good time and as of now I plan on going back in about a month. Here's the tricky part, ever since I visited her she has stopped everything that she did before, she used to favorite and reply to EVERY tweet I sent out and would reply to every snapchat. She still texts me back but it's not the same at all and it's depressing because I really like this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I need help here reddit because I don't know what to do. \n\nI met this girl about a month and a half ago and I liked her immediately. We talked non stop every single day for about a month and found out that we have A LOT in common. She's going to the same college as me and blah blah blah. Well I went to go visit here last weekend and she lives about 3 hours away and we had a pretty good time and as of now I plan on going back in about a month. Here's the tricky part, ever since I visited her she has stopped everything that she did before, she used to favorite and reply to EVERY tweet I sent out and would reply to every snapchat. She still texts me back but it's not the same at all and it's depressing because I really like this girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine)\n\nIn the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. \n\nAnd well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that)\n\nThe problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. \n\nSo the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well.\n\nFirst she tried to convince me not to break up. A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you)\n\nThe thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her.\nFrankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal.\n\nWhat am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine)\n\nIn the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. \n\nAnd well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that)\n\nThe problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. \n\nSo the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well.\n\nFirst she tried to convince me not to break up. A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you)\n\nThe thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her.\nFrankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal.\n\nWhat am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine)\n\nIn the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. \n\nAnd well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that)\n\nThe problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. \n\nSo the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well.\n\nFirst she tried to convince me not to break up. A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you)\n\nThe thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her.\nFrankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal.\n\nWhat am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine)\n\nIn the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. \n\nAnd well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that)\n\nThe problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. \n\nSo the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well.\n\nFirst she tried to convince me not to break up. A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you)\n\nThe thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her.\nFrankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal.\n\nWhat am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine)\n\nIn the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. \n\nAnd well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that)\n\nThe problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. \n\nSo the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well.\n\nFirst she tried to convince me not to break up. A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you)\n\nThe thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her.\nFrankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal.\n\nWhat am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine)\n\nIn the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. \n\nAnd well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that)\n\nThe problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. \n\nSo the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well.\n\nFirst she tried to convince me not to break up. A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you)\n\nThe thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her.\nFrankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal.\n\nWhat am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long. I apologize in advance, and thank everyone who reads.\n\n* My boyfriend and I met in highschool. He has always been chubby, I was very fit. We fell in love, we were each other's first everything. Our relationship was so solid. We watched other couples get together and break up while we stood together strong. We started having sex 6 months into the relationship. We lived in different towns, so every weekend he would come to visit and we would go at it. It was heaven, always incredible.\n\n* Fast forward 2 years. We started living together around 6 months after we graduated. The sex continued to be constant, almost every day. That was how I liked it, I have a very high sex drive. But I had never lived in a city before, and I started working in fast food. It was quick and easy. I gained weight. I'm as chubby as my boyfriend now.\n\n* Recently I noticed that the sex is not as constant. It feels forced on his part. I confront him. After weeks of fighting about it, he confesses he misses my 17 year old body. I'm crushed. I never realized that he cared so much about my weight, when I have never cared about his.\n\n* I don't know what to do, I'm just so shocked. He is still more unfit than I, yet he complains about my weight? Is this normal? I need help. :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long. I apologize in advance, and thank everyone who reads.\n\n* My boyfriend and I met in highschool. He has always been chubby, I was very fit. We fell in love, we were each other's first everything. Our relationship was so solid. We watched other couples get together and break up while we stood together strong. We started having sex 6 months into the relationship. We lived in different towns, so every weekend he would come to visit and we would go at it. It was heaven, always incredible.\n\n* Fast forward 2 years. We started living together around 6 months after we graduated. The sex continued to be constant, almost every day. That was how I liked it, I have a very high sex drive. But I had never lived in a city before, and I started working in fast food. It was quick and easy. I gained weight. I'm as chubby as my boyfriend now.\n\n* Recently I noticed that the sex is not as constant. It feels forced on his part. I confront him. After weeks of fighting about it, he confesses he misses my 17 year old body. I'm crushed. I never realized that he cared so much about my weight, when I have never cared about his.\n\n* I don't know what to do, I'm just so shocked. He is still more unfit than I, yet he complains about my weight? Is this normal? I need help. :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long. I apologize in advance, and thank everyone who reads.\n\n* My boyfriend and I met in highschool. He has always been chubby, I was very fit. We fell in love, we were each other's first everything. Our relationship was so solid. We watched other couples get together and break up while we stood together strong. We started having sex 6 months into the relationship. We lived in different towns, so every weekend he would come to visit and we would go at it. It was heaven, always incredible.\n\n* Fast forward 2 years. We started living together around 6 months after we graduated. The sex continued to be constant, almost every day. That was how I liked it, I have a very high sex drive. But I had never lived in a city before, and I started working in fast food. It was quick and easy. I gained weight. I'm as chubby as my boyfriend now.\n\n* Recently I noticed that the sex is not as constant. It feels forced on his part. I confront him. After weeks of fighting about it, he confesses he misses my 17 year old body. I'm crushed. I never realized that he cared so much about my weight, when I have never cared about his.\n\n* I don't know what to do, I'm just so shocked. He is still more unfit than I, yet he complains about my weight? Is this normal? I need help. :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long. I apologize in advance, and thank everyone who reads.\n\n* My boyfriend and I met in highschool. He has always been chubby, I was very fit. We fell in love, we were each other's first everything. Our relationship was so solid. We watched other couples get together and break up while we stood together strong. We started having sex 6 months into the relationship. We lived in different towns, so every weekend he would come to visit and we would go at it. It was heaven, always incredible.\n\n* Fast forward 2 years. We started living together around 6 months after we graduated. The sex continued to be constant, almost every day. That was how I liked it, I have a very high sex drive. But I had never lived in a city before, and I started working in fast food. It was quick and easy. I gained weight. I'm as chubby as my boyfriend now.\n\n* Recently I noticed that the sex is not as constant. It feels forced on his part. I confront him. After weeks of fighting about it, he confesses he misses my 17 year old body. I'm crushed. I never realized that he cared so much about my weight, when I have never cared about his.\n\n* I don't know what to do, I'm just so shocked. He is still more unfit than I, yet he complains about my weight? Is this normal? I need help. :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long. I apologize in advance, and thank everyone who reads.\n\n* My boyfriend and I met in highschool. He has always been chubby, I was very fit. We fell in love, we were each other's first everything. Our relationship was so solid. We watched other couples get together and break up while we stood together strong. We started having sex 6 months into the relationship. We lived in different towns, so every weekend he would come to visit and we would go at it. It was heaven, always incredible.\n\n* Fast forward 2 years. We started living together around 6 months after we graduated. The sex continued to be constant, almost every day. That was how I liked it, I have a very high sex drive. But I had never lived in a city before, and I started working in fast food. It was quick and easy. I gained weight. I'm as chubby as my boyfriend now.\n\n* Recently I noticed that the sex is not as constant. It feels forced on his part. I confront him. After weeks of fighting about it, he confesses he misses my 17 year old body. I'm crushed. I never realized that he cared so much about my weight, when I have never cared about his.\n\n* I don't know what to do, I'm just so shocked. He is still more unfit than I, yet he complains about my weight? Is this normal? I need help. :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long. I apologize in advance, and thank everyone who reads.\n\n* My boyfriend and I met in highschool. He has always been chubby, I was very fit. We fell in love, we were each other's first everything. Our relationship was so solid. We watched other couples get together and break up while we stood together strong. We started having sex 6 months into the relationship. We lived in different towns, so every weekend he would come to visit and we would go at it. It was heaven, always incredible.\n\n* Fast forward 2 years. We started living together around 6 months after we graduated. The sex continued to be constant, almost every day. That was how I liked it, I have a very high sex drive. But I had never lived in a city before, and I started working in fast food. It was quick and easy. I gained weight. I'm as chubby as my boyfriend now.\n\n* Recently I noticed that the sex is not as constant. It feels forced on his part. I confront him. After weeks of fighting about it, he confesses he misses my 17 year old body. I'm crushed. I never realized that he cared so much about my weight, when I have never cared about his.\n\n* I don't know what to do, I'm just so shocked. He is still more unfit than I, yet he complains about my weight? Is this normal? I need help. :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We first started dating the summer before she had to leave for university. She wanted to go to Ottawa (5 hours from Toronto) long before I was in the picture. Supporting her all the way, I promised to keep in touch with her and remain her boyfriend as she takes off. It wasn't easy but we got used to it and had something really nice going on. We would see each other roughly every 3 months including winter break and summer vacation. School became more challenging and taxing for us but we still pulled through. She got an internship one summer which kept her from coming home but we still pulled through (I would drive down every now and then). The next summer we BOTH got internships that kept us in our cities but we still pulled through (skype is great).\n\nSo we've conquered various levels of LDR but now I'm facing our biggest challenge yet. She moved to Amsterdam for another 4-month internship (during the semester, for credits). I stayed in Canada for a job offer and to finish school. Now there is a 6 hour time difference between us and it's brutal. We are accustomed to not seeing much of each other but this is ridiculous. When I wake up, she's already busy at work. When I'm at work, she's free to skype/phone. When I'm done work (and classes) I'm free to skype/phone but she's usually fast-asleep. When she wakes up, she has little time to talk as she has to get ready for work. I savour this time, despite it being 2am for me.\n\nSo, I just got an email from her saying that she is angry with me, due to the fact that we don't talk much (we've spoken maybe 40 words to each other in the past 3 weeks). She said she doesn't feel like there isn't anything left in this relationship.\n\nReddit, please advise. I'm caught in a downward spiral of having no time for my girlfriend and not being able to do anything about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We first started dating the summer before she had to leave for university. She wanted to go to Ottawa (5 hours from Toronto) long before I was in the picture. Supporting her all the way, I promised to keep in touch with her and remain her boyfriend as she takes off. It wasn't easy but we got used to it and had something really nice going on. We would see each other roughly every 3 months including winter break and summer vacation. School became more challenging and taxing for us but we still pulled through. She got an internship one summer which kept her from coming home but we still pulled through (I would drive down every now and then). The next summer we BOTH got internships that kept us in our cities but we still pulled through (skype is great).\n\nSo we've conquered various levels of LDR but now I'm facing our biggest challenge yet. She moved to Amsterdam for another 4-month internship (during the semester, for credits). I stayed in Canada for a job offer and to finish school. Now there is a 6 hour time difference between us and it's brutal. We are accustomed to not seeing much of each other but this is ridiculous. When I wake up, she's already busy at work. When I'm at work, she's free to skype/phone. When I'm done work (and classes) I'm free to skype/phone but she's usually fast-asleep. When she wakes up, she has little time to talk as she has to get ready for work. I savour this time, despite it being 2am for me.\n\nSo, I just got an email from her saying that she is angry with me, due to the fact that we don't talk much (we've spoken maybe 40 words to each other in the past 3 weeks). She said she doesn't feel like there isn't anything left in this relationship.\n\nReddit, please advise. I'm caught in a downward spiral of having no time for my girlfriend and not being able to do anything about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We first started dating the summer before she had to leave for university. She wanted to go to Ottawa (5 hours from Toronto) long before I was in the picture. Supporting her all the way, I promised to keep in touch with her and remain her boyfriend as she takes off. It wasn't easy but we got used to it and had something really nice going on. We would see each other roughly every 3 months including winter break and summer vacation. School became more challenging and taxing for us but we still pulled through. She got an internship one summer which kept her from coming home but we still pulled through (I would drive down every now and then). The next summer we BOTH got internships that kept us in our cities but we still pulled through (skype is great).\n\nSo we've conquered various levels of LDR but now I'm facing our biggest challenge yet. She moved to Amsterdam for another 4-month internship (during the semester, for credits). I stayed in Canada for a job offer and to finish school. Now there is a 6 hour time difference between us and it's brutal. We are accustomed to not seeing much of each other but this is ridiculous. When I wake up, she's already busy at work. When I'm at work, she's free to skype/phone. When I'm done work (and classes) I'm free to skype/phone but she's usually fast-asleep. When she wakes up, she has little time to talk as she has to get ready for work. I savour this time, despite it being 2am for me.\n\nSo, I just got an email from her saying that she is angry with me, due to the fact that we don't talk much (we've spoken maybe 40 words to each other in the past 3 weeks). She said she doesn't feel like there isn't anything left in this relationship.\n\nReddit, please advise. I'm caught in a downward spiral of having no time for my girlfriend and not being able to do anything about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We first started dating the summer before she had to leave for university. She wanted to go to Ottawa (5 hours from Toronto) long before I was in the picture. Supporting her all the way, I promised to keep in touch with her and remain her boyfriend as she takes off. It wasn't easy but we got used to it and had something really nice going on. We would see each other roughly every 3 months including winter break and summer vacation. School became more challenging and taxing for us but we still pulled through. She got an internship one summer which kept her from coming home but we still pulled through (I would drive down every now and then). The next summer we BOTH got internships that kept us in our cities but we still pulled through (skype is great).\n\nSo we've conquered various levels of LDR but now I'm facing our biggest challenge yet. She moved to Amsterdam for another 4-month internship (during the semester, for credits). I stayed in Canada for a job offer and to finish school. Now there is a 6 hour time difference between us and it's brutal. We are accustomed to not seeing much of each other but this is ridiculous. When I wake up, she's already busy at work. When I'm at work, she's free to skype/phone. When I'm done work (and classes) I'm free to skype/phone but she's usually fast-asleep. When she wakes up, she has little time to talk as she has to get ready for work. I savour this time, despite it being 2am for me.\n\nSo, I just got an email from her saying that she is angry with me, due to the fact that we don't talk much (we've spoken maybe 40 words to each other in the past 3 weeks). She said she doesn't feel like there isn't anything left in this relationship.\n\nReddit, please advise. I'm caught in a downward spiral of having no time for my girlfriend and not being able to do anything about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We first started dating the summer before she had to leave for university. She wanted to go to Ottawa (5 hours from Toronto) long before I was in the picture. Supporting her all the way, I promised to keep in touch with her and remain her boyfriend as she takes off. It wasn't easy but we got used to it and had something really nice going on. We would see each other roughly every 3 months including winter break and summer vacation. School became more challenging and taxing for us but we still pulled through. She got an internship one summer which kept her from coming home but we still pulled through (I would drive down every now and then). The next summer we BOTH got internships that kept us in our cities but we still pulled through (skype is great).\n\nSo we've conquered various levels of LDR but now I'm facing our biggest challenge yet. She moved to Amsterdam for another 4-month internship (during the semester, for credits). I stayed in Canada for a job offer and to finish school. Now there is a 6 hour time difference between us and it's brutal. We are accustomed to not seeing much of each other but this is ridiculous. When I wake up, she's already busy at work. When I'm at work, she's free to skype/phone. When I'm done work (and classes) I'm free to skype/phone but she's usually fast-asleep. When she wakes up, she has little time to talk as she has to get ready for work. I savour this time, despite it being 2am for me.\n\nSo, I just got an email from her saying that she is angry with me, due to the fact that we don't talk much (we've spoken maybe 40 words to each other in the past 3 weeks). She said she doesn't feel like there isn't anything left in this relationship.\n\nReddit, please advise. I'm caught in a downward spiral of having no time for my girlfriend and not being able to do anything about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We first started dating the summer before she had to leave for university. She wanted to go to Ottawa (5 hours from Toronto) long before I was in the picture. Supporting her all the way, I promised to keep in touch with her and remain her boyfriend as she takes off. It wasn't easy but we got used to it and had something really nice going on. We would see each other roughly every 3 months including winter break and summer vacation. School became more challenging and taxing for us but we still pulled through. She got an internship one summer which kept her from coming home but we still pulled through (I would drive down every now and then). The next summer we BOTH got internships that kept us in our cities but we still pulled through (skype is great).\n\nSo we've conquered various levels of LDR but now I'm facing our biggest challenge yet. She moved to Amsterdam for another 4-month internship (during the semester, for credits). I stayed in Canada for a job offer and to finish school. Now there is a 6 hour time difference between us and it's brutal. We are accustomed to not seeing much of each other but this is ridiculous. When I wake up, she's already busy at work. When I'm at work, she's free to skype/phone. When I'm done work (and classes) I'm free to skype/phone but she's usually fast-asleep. When she wakes up, she has little time to talk as she has to get ready for work. I savour this time, despite it being 2am for me.\n\nSo, I just got an email from her saying that she is angry with me, due to the fact that we don't talk much (we've spoken maybe 40 words to each other in the past 3 weeks). She said she doesn't feel like there isn't anything left in this relationship.\n\nReddit, please advise. I'm caught in a downward spiral of having no time for my girlfriend and not being able to do anything about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is in Utah, USA\n\nI have had all kinds of issues with management at my apartment complex ever since a new management company bought it, this is just the latest installment. \nMy apartment had an electrical inspection while I was at work and I came home to a note on my door from management that said \"After initial inspections this week of the AC units, -name of plumbing company- has determined they have to make repairs/replacements for each one. They will be entering your apartment starting December 3, 2015 to December 12, 2015 for these repairs/replacements. If you have any pets, make sure they are put in there kennels.\"\n\nI know that I need to be given 24 hours notice for anyone to enter my apartment, but doesn't that have to be for a specific time and date? I don't want my dog to have to be in a kennel for 10 hours a day for over a week. I don't want strangers in my home alone, unsupervised, and with full access to everything I own. But is the law on my side? If it is what can I do? Ideally they would just make an appointment for a specific time and day."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is in Utah, USA\n\nI have had all kinds of issues with management at my apartment complex ever since a new management company bought it, this is just the latest installment. \nMy apartment had an electrical inspection while I was at work and I came home to a note on my door from management that said \"After initial inspections this week of the AC units, -name of plumbing company- has determined they have to make repairs/replacements for each one. They will be entering your apartment starting December 3, 2015 to December 12, 2015 for these repairs/replacements. If you have any pets, make sure they are put in there kennels.\"\n\nI know that I need to be given 24 hours notice for anyone to enter my apartment, but doesn't that have to be for a specific time and date? I don't want my dog to have to be in a kennel for 10 hours a day for over a week. I don't want strangers in my home alone, unsupervised, and with full access to everything I own. But is the law on my side? If it is what can I do? Ideally they would just make an appointment for a specific time and day."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is in Utah, USA\n\nI have had all kinds of issues with management at my apartment complex ever since a new management company bought it, this is just the latest installment. \nMy apartment had an electrical inspection while I was at work and I came home to a note on my door from management that said \"After initial inspections this week of the AC units, -name of plumbing company- has determined they have to make repairs/replacements for each one. They will be entering your apartment starting December 3, 2015 to December 12, 2015 for these repairs/replacements. If you have any pets, make sure they are put in there kennels.\"\n\nI know that I need to be given 24 hours notice for anyone to enter my apartment, but doesn't that have to be for a specific time and date? I don't want my dog to have to be in a kennel for 10 hours a day for over a week. I don't want strangers in my home alone, unsupervised, and with full access to everything I own. But is the law on my side? If it is what can I do? Ideally they would just make an appointment for a specific time and day."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is in Utah, USA\n\nI have had all kinds of issues with management at my apartment complex ever since a new management company bought it, this is just the latest installment. \nMy apartment had an electrical inspection while I was at work and I came home to a note on my door from management that said \"After initial inspections this week of the AC units, -name of plumbing company- has determined they have to make repairs/replacements for each one. They will be entering your apartment starting December 3, 2015 to December 12, 2015 for these repairs/replacements. If you have any pets, make sure they are put in there kennels.\"\n\nI know that I need to be given 24 hours notice for anyone to enter my apartment, but doesn't that have to be for a specific time and date? I don't want my dog to have to be in a kennel for 10 hours a day for over a week. I don't want strangers in my home alone, unsupervised, and with full access to everything I own. But is the law on my side? If it is what can I do? Ideally they would just make an appointment for a specific time and day."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is in Utah, USA\n\nI have had all kinds of issues with management at my apartment complex ever since a new management company bought it, this is just the latest installment. \nMy apartment had an electrical inspection while I was at work and I came home to a note on my door from management that said \"After initial inspections this week of the AC units, -name of plumbing company- has determined they have to make repairs/replacements for each one. They will be entering your apartment starting December 3, 2015 to December 12, 2015 for these repairs/replacements. If you have any pets, make sure they are put in there kennels.\"\n\nI know that I need to be given 24 hours notice for anyone to enter my apartment, but doesn't that have to be for a specific time and date? I don't want my dog to have to be in a kennel for 10 hours a day for over a week. I don't want strangers in my home alone, unsupervised, and with full access to everything I own. But is the law on my side? If it is what can I do? Ideally they would just make an appointment for a specific time and day."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is in Utah, USA\n\nI have had all kinds of issues with management at my apartment complex ever since a new management company bought it, this is just the latest installment. \nMy apartment had an electrical inspection while I was at work and I came home to a note on my door from management that said \"After initial inspections this week of the AC units, -name of plumbing company- has determined they have to make repairs/replacements for each one. They will be entering your apartment starting December 3, 2015 to December 12, 2015 for these repairs/replacements. If you have any pets, make sure they are put in there kennels.\"\n\nI know that I need to be given 24 hours notice for anyone to enter my apartment, but doesn't that have to be for a specific time and date? I don't want my dog to have to be in a kennel for 10 hours a day for over a week. I don't want strangers in my home alone, unsupervised, and with full access to everything I own. But is the law on my side? If it is what can I do? Ideally they would just make an appointment for a specific time and day."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met in League of Legends. Pretty much instantly clicked and got along really well. I DID NOT know her age when we started chatting. It was a couple of days after we had chatted non-stop. I really had a crush on her, but when she told me I realized I had to back off quite a bit. Only problem is, now she really likes ME. I still really like her too, but this age difference is making things ridiculously complicated. I live in Chicago and she lives in Colorado. I'm aware of the laws in both and I'm (stupidly) trying to plan on waiting the 3-4 years. Any help in my situation would be greatly appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met in League of Legends. Pretty much instantly clicked and got along really well. I DID NOT know her age when we started chatting. It was a couple of days after we had chatted non-stop. I really had a crush on her, but when she told me I realized I had to back off quite a bit. Only problem is, now she really likes ME. I still really like her too, but this age difference is making things ridiculously complicated. I live in Chicago and she lives in Colorado. I'm aware of the laws in both and I'm (stupidly) trying to plan on waiting the 3-4 years. Any help in my situation would be greatly appreciated"
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