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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Have you ever been mistaken for somebody or something else? Such as a celebrity, an ex, an girlfriend/boyfriend, a stalker? \n\nMY STORY: I was staying at my partner's place who is roughly just over an hour from my work. To avoid peak hour I generally drive through back streets to get to the freeway and then do the same thing once I've gotten off the freeway. From the second I turned out of his street to when I got to my workplace, there was a car in front of me following the exact same route.\n\nI thought it to be quite funny, so when I finally pulled into my work's car park I got out of my car and went to ask her if she noticed that we had followed the exact same route for the past hour, but she most definitely noticed. She turned the car around screeching and sped away, weaving through cars parked in the car park and out through the entry ramp, obviously that terrified she hadn't cared to notice. \n\nI was relaying this story to a friend who told me he once went to the chemist to get his girlfriend medicine. He then took the tram back to hers and got off the same stop as this girl. They ended up walking the same way home, cutting through the same streets and alleyways until he got to his girlfriend's street. where this girl turned out to live as well. In the same apartment building as his girlfriend. Apparently once they got to her street she began to run so once he reached the complex she was already running up the stairs and screamed at him IF YOU COME ANY CLOSER I'LL CALL THE POLICE! and hurried herself into her apartment. He has felt so guilty he's been waiting to run into her again to apologize as he thinks he may give her a heart attack if he knocks on her door."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Have you ever been mistaken for somebody or something else? Such as a celebrity, an ex, an girlfriend/boyfriend, a stalker? \n\nMY STORY: I was staying at my partner's place who is roughly just over an hour from my work. To avoid peak hour I generally drive through back streets to get to the freeway and then do the same thing once I've gotten off the freeway. From the second I turned out of his street to when I got to my workplace, there was a car in front of me following the exact same route.\n\nI thought it to be quite funny, so when I finally pulled into my work's car park I got out of my car and went to ask her if she noticed that we had followed the exact same route for the past hour, but she most definitely noticed. She turned the car around screeching and sped away, weaving through cars parked in the car park and out through the entry ramp, obviously that terrified she hadn't cared to notice. \n\nI was relaying this story to a friend who told me he once went to the chemist to get his girlfriend medicine. He then took the tram back to hers and got off the same stop as this girl. They ended up walking the same way home, cutting through the same streets and alleyways until he got to his girlfriend's street. where this girl turned out to live as well. In the same apartment building as his girlfriend. Apparently once they got to her street she began to run so once he reached the complex she was already running up the stairs and screamed at him IF YOU COME ANY CLOSER I'LL CALL THE POLICE! and hurried herself into her apartment. He has felt so guilty he's been waiting to run into her again to apologize as he thinks he may give her a heart attack if he knocks on her door."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Have you ever been mistaken for somebody or something else? Such as a celebrity, an ex, an girlfriend/boyfriend, a stalker? \n\nMY STORY: I was staying at my partner's place who is roughly just over an hour from my work. To avoid peak hour I generally drive through back streets to get to the freeway and then do the same thing once I've gotten off the freeway. From the second I turned out of his street to when I got to my workplace, there was a car in front of me following the exact same route.\n\nI thought it to be quite funny, so when I finally pulled into my work's car park I got out of my car and went to ask her if she noticed that we had followed the exact same route for the past hour, but she most definitely noticed. She turned the car around screeching and sped away, weaving through cars parked in the car park and out through the entry ramp, obviously that terrified she hadn't cared to notice. \n\nI was relaying this story to a friend who told me he once went to the chemist to get his girlfriend medicine. He then took the tram back to hers and got off the same stop as this girl. They ended up walking the same way home, cutting through the same streets and alleyways until he got to his girlfriend's street. where this girl turned out to live as well. In the same apartment building as his girlfriend. Apparently once they got to her street she began to run so once he reached the complex she was already running up the stairs and screamed at him IF YOU COME ANY CLOSER I'LL CALL THE POLICE! and hurried herself into her apartment. He has felt so guilty he's been waiting to run into her again to apologize as he thinks he may give her a heart attack if he knocks on her door."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Have you ever been mistaken for somebody or something else? Such as a celebrity, an ex, an girlfriend/boyfriend, a stalker? \n\nMY STORY: I was staying at my partner's place who is roughly just over an hour from my work. To avoid peak hour I generally drive through back streets to get to the freeway and then do the same thing once I've gotten off the freeway. From the second I turned out of his street to when I got to my workplace, there was a car in front of me following the exact same route.\n\nI thought it to be quite funny, so when I finally pulled into my work's car park I got out of my car and went to ask her if she noticed that we had followed the exact same route for the past hour, but she most definitely noticed. She turned the car around screeching and sped away, weaving through cars parked in the car park and out through the entry ramp, obviously that terrified she hadn't cared to notice. \n\nI was relaying this story to a friend who told me he once went to the chemist to get his girlfriend medicine. He then took the tram back to hers and got off the same stop as this girl. They ended up walking the same way home, cutting through the same streets and alleyways until he got to his girlfriend's street. where this girl turned out to live as well. In the same apartment building as his girlfriend. Apparently once they got to her street she began to run so once he reached the complex she was already running up the stairs and screamed at him IF YOU COME ANY CLOSER I'LL CALL THE POLICE! and hurried herself into her apartment. He has felt so guilty he's been waiting to run into her again to apologize as he thinks he may give her a heart attack if he knocks on her door."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically we have been dating for almost 7 months now. She's my first relationship and its been pretty amazing. I love her with all my heart and when were together I think she feels the same way. When were apart however, shell get depressed and call me and say were having problems. Lately she's been telling me I'm too intense for her. That she wants me to change and act differently. I come from a loud and opinionated family. When someone gets in our face we get defensive and while we may not realize it at the time, we start yelliing. Were emotional. She tells me she feels like she cant talk to me wothout me getting.emotional and shes tired of it. And for the most part i do ok. But sometimes the things she tells me really hurt. Like she is unattracted to me and she doesnt love me anymore becauese of my personality. and while she doesn't want to break up she feels like it wont work. We also both live with our parents. Hers are very conservative and authoritarian and I think a lot of her depression stems from them. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her and she saw she doesn't want to lose me. She also has a history of mental illness. (Bi-polar and depression)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically we have been dating for almost 7 months now. She's my first relationship and its been pretty amazing. I love her with all my heart and when were together I think she feels the same way. When were apart however, shell get depressed and call me and say were having problems. Lately she's been telling me I'm too intense for her. That she wants me to change and act differently. I come from a loud and opinionated family. When someone gets in our face we get defensive and while we may not realize it at the time, we start yelliing. Were emotional. She tells me she feels like she cant talk to me wothout me getting.emotional and shes tired of it. And for the most part i do ok. But sometimes the things she tells me really hurt. Like she is unattracted to me and she doesnt love me anymore becauese of my personality. and while she doesn't want to break up she feels like it wont work. We also both live with our parents. Hers are very conservative and authoritarian and I think a lot of her depression stems from them. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her and she saw she doesn't want to lose me. She also has a history of mental illness. (Bi-polar and depression)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically we have been dating for almost 7 months now. She's my first relationship and its been pretty amazing. I love her with all my heart and when were together I think she feels the same way. When were apart however, shell get depressed and call me and say were having problems. Lately she's been telling me I'm too intense for her. That she wants me to change and act differently. I come from a loud and opinionated family. When someone gets in our face we get defensive and while we may not realize it at the time, we start yelliing. Were emotional. She tells me she feels like she cant talk to me wothout me getting.emotional and shes tired of it. And for the most part i do ok. But sometimes the things she tells me really hurt. Like she is unattracted to me and she doesnt love me anymore becauese of my personality. and while she doesn't want to break up she feels like it wont work. We also both live with our parents. Hers are very conservative and authoritarian and I think a lot of her depression stems from them. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her and she saw she doesn't want to lose me. She also has a history of mental illness. (Bi-polar and depression)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically we have been dating for almost 7 months now. She's my first relationship and its been pretty amazing. I love her with all my heart and when were together I think she feels the same way. When were apart however, shell get depressed and call me and say were having problems. Lately she's been telling me I'm too intense for her. That she wants me to change and act differently. I come from a loud and opinionated family. When someone gets in our face we get defensive and while we may not realize it at the time, we start yelliing. Were emotional. She tells me she feels like she cant talk to me wothout me getting.emotional and shes tired of it. And for the most part i do ok. But sometimes the things she tells me really hurt. Like she is unattracted to me and she doesnt love me anymore becauese of my personality. and while she doesn't want to break up she feels like it wont work. We also both live with our parents. Hers are very conservative and authoritarian and I think a lot of her depression stems from them. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her and she saw she doesn't want to lose me. She also has a history of mental illness. (Bi-polar and depression)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically we have been dating for almost 7 months now. She's my first relationship and its been pretty amazing. I love her with all my heart and when were together I think she feels the same way. When were apart however, shell get depressed and call me and say were having problems. Lately she's been telling me I'm too intense for her. That she wants me to change and act differently. I come from a loud and opinionated family. When someone gets in our face we get defensive and while we may not realize it at the time, we start yelliing. Were emotional. She tells me she feels like she cant talk to me wothout me getting.emotional and shes tired of it. And for the most part i do ok. But sometimes the things she tells me really hurt. Like she is unattracted to me and she doesnt love me anymore becauese of my personality. and while she doesn't want to break up she feels like it wont work. We also both live with our parents. Hers are very conservative and authoritarian and I think a lot of her depression stems from them. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her and she saw she doesn't want to lose me. She also has a history of mental illness. (Bi-polar and depression)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically we have been dating for almost 7 months now. She's my first relationship and its been pretty amazing. I love her with all my heart and when were together I think she feels the same way. When were apart however, shell get depressed and call me and say were having problems. Lately she's been telling me I'm too intense for her. That she wants me to change and act differently. I come from a loud and opinionated family. When someone gets in our face we get defensive and while we may not realize it at the time, we start yelliing. Were emotional. She tells me she feels like she cant talk to me wothout me getting.emotional and shes tired of it. And for the most part i do ok. But sometimes the things she tells me really hurt. Like she is unattracted to me and she doesnt love me anymore becauese of my personality. and while she doesn't want to break up she feels like it wont work. We also both live with our parents. Hers are very conservative and authoritarian and I think a lot of her depression stems from them. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her and she saw she doesn't want to lose me. She also has a history of mental illness. (Bi-polar and depression)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I realize this might sound a bit ridiculous, but, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost half a year now. He's seriously wonderful and I've always been really loyal to him. \n\nBefore we were a couple and in the weeks building up to a relationship (I guess you'd call it that), my ex contacted me and said he wanted to get back together. He told me that he loved me, wanted to marry me, yada-yada. We talked for a day or two so I could give him some closure, and I did tell him that I was with someone. \n\nFor some reason, I'm feeling really guilty and like I did something wrong. I did tell my boyfriend about it in a vague way (during an argument which was a bad idea)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I realize this might sound a bit ridiculous, but, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost half a year now. He's seriously wonderful and I've always been really loyal to him. \n\nBefore we were a couple and in the weeks building up to a relationship (I guess you'd call it that), my ex contacted me and said he wanted to get back together. He told me that he loved me, wanted to marry me, yada-yada. We talked for a day or two so I could give him some closure, and I did tell him that I was with someone. \n\nFor some reason, I'm feeling really guilty and like I did something wrong. I did tell my boyfriend about it in a vague way (during an argument which was a bad idea)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I realize this might sound a bit ridiculous, but, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost half a year now. He's seriously wonderful and I've always been really loyal to him. \n\nBefore we were a couple and in the weeks building up to a relationship (I guess you'd call it that), my ex contacted me and said he wanted to get back together. He told me that he loved me, wanted to marry me, yada-yada. We talked for a day or two so I could give him some closure, and I did tell him that I was with someone. \n\nFor some reason, I'm feeling really guilty and like I did something wrong. I did tell my boyfriend about it in a vague way (during an argument which was a bad idea)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I realize this might sound a bit ridiculous, but, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost half a year now. He's seriously wonderful and I've always been really loyal to him. \n\nBefore we were a couple and in the weeks building up to a relationship (I guess you'd call it that), my ex contacted me and said he wanted to get back together. He told me that he loved me, wanted to marry me, yada-yada. We talked for a day or two so I could give him some closure, and I did tell him that I was with someone. \n\nFor some reason, I'm feeling really guilty and like I did something wrong. I did tell my boyfriend about it in a vague way (during an argument which was a bad idea)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some backstory: My friend Kelsey [22F] and I dated for a few weeks in summer before she went to Spain for a year. I was very interested in her but we both understood that she was going to be gone for a long time so our dating was just a temporary thing. We both knew this going into it. Fast forward into the year a bit and I started dating her close friend, Mary [20F]. I had been interested in her before as well but I felt she was too young for me at the time. We dated on and off for 3 years, her family hated me the entire time, especially her mother.\n\nNow Mary and I are broken up and Kelsey has helped me through it all. It's only been a week, but we've gone out to lunch, went for a hike, went rollerblading, and watched the night sky during a meteor shower, together, all within that time.\n\nI just wish I knew what to do in this situation; currently I'm just hanging out with her every chance I can get, but I'm not sure she would even remotely feel the same way about me as I do about her. I really care for her and I don't want to mess that up, but I want to have more than a friendship; even if we aren't in a relationship I want to spend a lot of my time with her and be more than just friends. I want to tell her how I feel about her and how much she has helped make my life better, but I feel like that would freak her out and make her want to stop talking to me. I'm not sure if she is hanging out with me because she sympathizes with me or because she is kind of interested in me.\n\nI suck at typing up my thoughts so please let me know if anything is unclear or you have any questions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some backstory: My friend Kelsey [22F] and I dated for a few weeks in summer before she went to Spain for a year. I was very interested in her but we both understood that she was going to be gone for a long time so our dating was just a temporary thing. We both knew this going into it. Fast forward into the year a bit and I started dating her close friend, Mary [20F]. I had been interested in her before as well but I felt she was too young for me at the time. We dated on and off for 3 years, her family hated me the entire time, especially her mother.\n\nNow Mary and I are broken up and Kelsey has helped me through it all. It's only been a week, but we've gone out to lunch, went for a hike, went rollerblading, and watched the night sky during a meteor shower, together, all within that time.\n\nI just wish I knew what to do in this situation; currently I'm just hanging out with her every chance I can get, but I'm not sure she would even remotely feel the same way about me as I do about her. I really care for her and I don't want to mess that up, but I want to have more than a friendship; even if we aren't in a relationship I want to spend a lot of my time with her and be more than just friends. I want to tell her how I feel about her and how much she has helped make my life better, but I feel like that would freak her out and make her want to stop talking to me. I'm not sure if she is hanging out with me because she sympathizes with me or because she is kind of interested in me.\n\nI suck at typing up my thoughts so please let me know if anything is unclear or you have any questions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some backstory: My friend Kelsey [22F] and I dated for a few weeks in summer before she went to Spain for a year. I was very interested in her but we both understood that she was going to be gone for a long time so our dating was just a temporary thing. We both knew this going into it. Fast forward into the year a bit and I started dating her close friend, Mary [20F]. I had been interested in her before as well but I felt she was too young for me at the time. We dated on and off for 3 years, her family hated me the entire time, especially her mother.\n\nNow Mary and I are broken up and Kelsey has helped me through it all. It's only been a week, but we've gone out to lunch, went for a hike, went rollerblading, and watched the night sky during a meteor shower, together, all within that time.\n\nI just wish I knew what to do in this situation; currently I'm just hanging out with her every chance I can get, but I'm not sure she would even remotely feel the same way about me as I do about her. I really care for her and I don't want to mess that up, but I want to have more than a friendship; even if we aren't in a relationship I want to spend a lot of my time with her and be more than just friends. I want to tell her how I feel about her and how much she has helped make my life better, but I feel like that would freak her out and make her want to stop talking to me. I'm not sure if she is hanging out with me because she sympathizes with me or because she is kind of interested in me.\n\nI suck at typing up my thoughts so please let me know if anything is unclear or you have any questions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some backstory: My friend Kelsey [22F] and I dated for a few weeks in summer before she went to Spain for a year. I was very interested in her but we both understood that she was going to be gone for a long time so our dating was just a temporary thing. We both knew this going into it. Fast forward into the year a bit and I started dating her close friend, Mary [20F]. I had been interested in her before as well but I felt she was too young for me at the time. We dated on and off for 3 years, her family hated me the entire time, especially her mother.\n\nNow Mary and I are broken up and Kelsey has helped me through it all. It's only been a week, but we've gone out to lunch, went for a hike, went rollerblading, and watched the night sky during a meteor shower, together, all within that time.\n\nI just wish I knew what to do in this situation; currently I'm just hanging out with her every chance I can get, but I'm not sure she would even remotely feel the same way about me as I do about her. I really care for her and I don't want to mess that up, but I want to have more than a friendship; even if we aren't in a relationship I want to spend a lot of my time with her and be more than just friends. I want to tell her how I feel about her and how much she has helped make my life better, but I feel like that would freak her out and make her want to stop talking to me. I'm not sure if she is hanging out with me because she sympathizes with me or because she is kind of interested in me.\n\nI suck at typing up my thoughts so please let me know if anything is unclear or you have any questions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've (17F) been seeing this guy (18M) on/off for a few months. We weren't always LD, but now we're in Texas and New Mexico, respectively, until August. He recently told me that he really wants to be there for me emotionally, and that he'd like it if I came to him with my feelings, but I'm still worried about overloading him with it (especially as it's so fresh, it happened at the start of September). \n\nOn the other hand, a conversation is necessary as it's definitely going to affect the relationship (especially sexually, but also in regards to how I develop trust). \n\nI've only mentioned it once to him, but not in an emotional way, almost flippantly off-handed. I feel like I trust him now enough to open up about the ways it's affected my life and mind.\n\nTo complicate matters further, it'll be long-distance until August and I'm not sure when I'm going to see him in person before that (potentially as early as mid-Jan or as late as spring break). How do I bring it up? Send a lengthy email? Spring it unexpectedly during a phone call? Write a letter? How would you like to be told if you were him? \n\nI want to do this tactfully, and realize it will probably be different than telling my friends.\n#."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've (17F) been seeing this guy (18M) on/off for a few months. We weren't always LD, but now we're in Texas and New Mexico, respectively, until August. He recently told me that he really wants to be there for me emotionally, and that he'd like it if I came to him with my feelings, but I'm still worried about overloading him with it (especially as it's so fresh, it happened at the start of September). \n\nOn the other hand, a conversation is necessary as it's definitely going to affect the relationship (especially sexually, but also in regards to how I develop trust). \n\nI've only mentioned it once to him, but not in an emotional way, almost flippantly off-handed. I feel like I trust him now enough to open up about the ways it's affected my life and mind.\n\nTo complicate matters further, it'll be long-distance until August and I'm not sure when I'm going to see him in person before that (potentially as early as mid-Jan or as late as spring break). How do I bring it up? Send a lengthy email? Spring it unexpectedly during a phone call? Write a letter? How would you like to be told if you were him? \n\nI want to do this tactfully, and realize it will probably be different than telling my friends.\n#."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've (17F) been seeing this guy (18M) on/off for a few months. We weren't always LD, but now we're in Texas and New Mexico, respectively, until August. He recently told me that he really wants to be there for me emotionally, and that he'd like it if I came to him with my feelings, but I'm still worried about overloading him with it (especially as it's so fresh, it happened at the start of September). \n\nOn the other hand, a conversation is necessary as it's definitely going to affect the relationship (especially sexually, but also in regards to how I develop trust). \n\nI've only mentioned it once to him, but not in an emotional way, almost flippantly off-handed. I feel like I trust him now enough to open up about the ways it's affected my life and mind.\n\nTo complicate matters further, it'll be long-distance until August and I'm not sure when I'm going to see him in person before that (potentially as early as mid-Jan or as late as spring break). How do I bring it up? Send a lengthy email? Spring it unexpectedly during a phone call? Write a letter? How would you like to be told if you were him? \n\nI want to do this tactfully, and realize it will probably be different than telling my friends.\n#."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've (17F) been seeing this guy (18M) on/off for a few months. We weren't always LD, but now we're in Texas and New Mexico, respectively, until August. He recently told me that he really wants to be there for me emotionally, and that he'd like it if I came to him with my feelings, but I'm still worried about overloading him with it (especially as it's so fresh, it happened at the start of September). \n\nOn the other hand, a conversation is necessary as it's definitely going to affect the relationship (especially sexually, but also in regards to how I develop trust). \n\nI've only mentioned it once to him, but not in an emotional way, almost flippantly off-handed. I feel like I trust him now enough to open up about the ways it's affected my life and mind.\n\nTo complicate matters further, it'll be long-distance until August and I'm not sure when I'm going to see him in person before that (potentially as early as mid-Jan or as late as spring break). How do I bring it up? Send a lengthy email? Spring it unexpectedly during a phone call? Write a letter? How would you like to be told if you were him? \n\nI want to do this tactfully, and realize it will probably be different than telling my friends.\n#."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've (17F) been seeing this guy (18M) on/off for a few months. We weren't always LD, but now we're in Texas and New Mexico, respectively, until August. He recently told me that he really wants to be there for me emotionally, and that he'd like it if I came to him with my feelings, but I'm still worried about overloading him with it (especially as it's so fresh, it happened at the start of September). \n\nOn the other hand, a conversation is necessary as it's definitely going to affect the relationship (especially sexually, but also in regards to how I develop trust). \n\nI've only mentioned it once to him, but not in an emotional way, almost flippantly off-handed. I feel like I trust him now enough to open up about the ways it's affected my life and mind.\n\nTo complicate matters further, it'll be long-distance until August and I'm not sure when I'm going to see him in person before that (potentially as early as mid-Jan or as late as spring break). How do I bring it up? Send a lengthy email? Spring it unexpectedly during a phone call? Write a letter? How would you like to be told if you were him? \n\nI want to do this tactfully, and realize it will probably be different than telling my friends.\n#."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've (17F) been seeing this guy (18M) on/off for a few months. We weren't always LD, but now we're in Texas and New Mexico, respectively, until August. He recently told me that he really wants to be there for me emotionally, and that he'd like it if I came to him with my feelings, but I'm still worried about overloading him with it (especially as it's so fresh, it happened at the start of September). \n\nOn the other hand, a conversation is necessary as it's definitely going to affect the relationship (especially sexually, but also in regards to how I develop trust). \n\nI've only mentioned it once to him, but not in an emotional way, almost flippantly off-handed. I feel like I trust him now enough to open up about the ways it's affected my life and mind.\n\nTo complicate matters further, it'll be long-distance until August and I'm not sure when I'm going to see him in person before that (potentially as early as mid-Jan or as late as spring break). How do I bring it up? Send a lengthy email? Spring it unexpectedly during a phone call? Write a letter? How would you like to be told if you were him? \n\nI want to do this tactfully, and realize it will probably be different than telling my friends.\n#."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all,\n\nSo yesterday I found out that the guy I like likes me too. However, my last relationship has made me so mistrustful of men. My ex told me so lies and basically used me as an emotional sponge. We broke up in May 2014 and whilst I'm over him I'm still sceptical about relationships. I explained to the new guy who was so understanding and amazing about it and agreed we could take it slow. I don't want to miss out on a chance at happiness with a great guy because of what an asshole did to me. But the fear is still very much there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all,\n\nSo yesterday I found out that the guy I like likes me too. However, my last relationship has made me so mistrustful of men. My ex told me so lies and basically used me as an emotional sponge. We broke up in May 2014 and whilst I'm over him I'm still sceptical about relationships. I explained to the new guy who was so understanding and amazing about it and agreed we could take it slow. I don't want to miss out on a chance at happiness with a great guy because of what an asshole did to me. But the fear is still very much there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all,\n\nSo yesterday I found out that the guy I like likes me too. However, my last relationship has made me so mistrustful of men. My ex told me so lies and basically used me as an emotional sponge. We broke up in May 2014 and whilst I'm over him I'm still sceptical about relationships. I explained to the new guy who was so understanding and amazing about it and agreed we could take it slow. I don't want to miss out on a chance at happiness with a great guy because of what an asshole did to me. But the fear is still very much there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I are soon turning 40 and it's caused us to re-evaluate our financial plan. Simply put we make a very good living and have been lucky enough to never have to worry about bills and daily expenses.\n\nWhile, we are certainly in good financial health, my feeling is that we can be doing much more with the resources we have. For example we have a lot of money sitting in a savings account and not being put to work. We also have a lot saved in 401ks but relatively little in IRAs. While I believe we've made good financial decisions individually, I think we fall short of having a well thought out plan.\n\nI'm not looking for an investment adviser to help choose which stocks to buy. Instead I'm looking for someone who can help me plan my wealth strategy including investments, real estate, insurance, and estate planning. The goal would be to put money to work to accelerate time to retirement but in a tax (and ultimately estate) efficient way. I've seen examples of comprehensive wealth managers for very rich folks but is there such a person for \"normal people\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I are soon turning 40 and it's caused us to re-evaluate our financial plan. Simply put we make a very good living and have been lucky enough to never have to worry about bills and daily expenses.\n\nWhile, we are certainly in good financial health, my feeling is that we can be doing much more with the resources we have. For example we have a lot of money sitting in a savings account and not being put to work. We also have a lot saved in 401ks but relatively little in IRAs. While I believe we've made good financial decisions individually, I think we fall short of having a well thought out plan.\n\nI'm not looking for an investment adviser to help choose which stocks to buy. Instead I'm looking for someone who can help me plan my wealth strategy including investments, real estate, insurance, and estate planning. The goal would be to put money to work to accelerate time to retirement but in a tax (and ultimately estate) efficient way. I've seen examples of comprehensive wealth managers for very rich folks but is there such a person for \"normal people\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I are soon turning 40 and it's caused us to re-evaluate our financial plan. Simply put we make a very good living and have been lucky enough to never have to worry about bills and daily expenses.\n\nWhile, we are certainly in good financial health, my feeling is that we can be doing much more with the resources we have. For example we have a lot of money sitting in a savings account and not being put to work. We also have a lot saved in 401ks but relatively little in IRAs. While I believe we've made good financial decisions individually, I think we fall short of having a well thought out plan.\n\nI'm not looking for an investment adviser to help choose which stocks to buy. Instead I'm looking for someone who can help me plan my wealth strategy including investments, real estate, insurance, and estate planning. The goal would be to put money to work to accelerate time to retirement but in a tax (and ultimately estate) efficient way. I've seen examples of comprehensive wealth managers for very rich folks but is there such a person for \"normal people\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I are soon turning 40 and it's caused us to re-evaluate our financial plan. Simply put we make a very good living and have been lucky enough to never have to worry about bills and daily expenses.\n\nWhile, we are certainly in good financial health, my feeling is that we can be doing much more with the resources we have. For example we have a lot of money sitting in a savings account and not being put to work. We also have a lot saved in 401ks but relatively little in IRAs. While I believe we've made good financial decisions individually, I think we fall short of having a well thought out plan.\n\nI'm not looking for an investment adviser to help choose which stocks to buy. Instead I'm looking for someone who can help me plan my wealth strategy including investments, real estate, insurance, and estate planning. The goal would be to put money to work to accelerate time to retirement but in a tax (and ultimately estate) efficient way. I've seen examples of comprehensive wealth managers for very rich folks but is there such a person for \"normal people\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I are soon turning 40 and it's caused us to re-evaluate our financial plan. Simply put we make a very good living and have been lucky enough to never have to worry about bills and daily expenses.\n\nWhile, we are certainly in good financial health, my feeling is that we can be doing much more with the resources we have. For example we have a lot of money sitting in a savings account and not being put to work. We also have a lot saved in 401ks but relatively little in IRAs. While I believe we've made good financial decisions individually, I think we fall short of having a well thought out plan.\n\nI'm not looking for an investment adviser to help choose which stocks to buy. Instead I'm looking for someone who can help me plan my wealth strategy including investments, real estate, insurance, and estate planning. The goal would be to put money to work to accelerate time to retirement but in a tax (and ultimately estate) efficient way. I've seen examples of comprehensive wealth managers for very rich folks but is there such a person for \"normal people\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I are soon turning 40 and it's caused us to re-evaluate our financial plan. Simply put we make a very good living and have been lucky enough to never have to worry about bills and daily expenses.\n\nWhile, we are certainly in good financial health, my feeling is that we can be doing much more with the resources we have. For example we have a lot of money sitting in a savings account and not being put to work. We also have a lot saved in 401ks but relatively little in IRAs. While I believe we've made good financial decisions individually, I think we fall short of having a well thought out plan.\n\nI'm not looking for an investment adviser to help choose which stocks to buy. Instead I'm looking for someone who can help me plan my wealth strategy including investments, real estate, insurance, and estate planning. The goal would be to put money to work to accelerate time to retirement but in a tax (and ultimately estate) efficient way. I've seen examples of comprehensive wealth managers for very rich folks but is there such a person for \"normal people\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all. I'm super upset and would like to talk to you all for advice. \n\nI 28f year old female, was in a monogamous approximate 2 year long relationship with a 29 year old man. After a time, we decided to get tested and go condomless. We had sex without condoms (I was on the pill) and had no problems with this due to trust and monogamy. We were living together for the past year and, a month ago, we decided to part due to relationship problems. We were broken up and free to see other people.\n\nWe were separated for approximately a month before we decided to meet and talk again starting to rekindle our relationship. We were heading in a sexual direction so I asked him if he had slept with anyone else while we were apart or done anything that we should be using condoms for. I told him it was ok if he had had sex because we were not together, but if he had, we needed to be safe and use condoms again. He assured me he had only kissed a woman and nothing else. I told him I hadn't had sex either so we got down to having sex. Right before the act, I once again asked him to confirm asking him if he promised I was safe. He said yes. \n\nWe had sex a few times the next few days. After a few days he confesses to me he did sleep with a woman he met in a bar one night a few weeks ago and had felt terrible about lying (but not bad enough to stop me any of these times we engaged in sex, of course). He had gone out to get an STD test, but the results aren't back yet. He said we \"shouldn't worry about this unless something comes up with [his] results\" which is insensitive beyond belief. I was livid for the breach of trust and I left and will not be speaking to him again. He thinks I'm overreacting.\n\nReddit, I feel betrayed. How soon before I should get myself tested and symptoms of anything I could catch could possibly show? I'm really concerned."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all. I'm super upset and would like to talk to you all for advice. \n\nI 28f year old female, was in a monogamous approximate 2 year long relationship with a 29 year old man. After a time, we decided to get tested and go condomless. We had sex without condoms (I was on the pill) and had no problems with this due to trust and monogamy. We were living together for the past year and, a month ago, we decided to part due to relationship problems. We were broken up and free to see other people.\n\nWe were separated for approximately a month before we decided to meet and talk again starting to rekindle our relationship. We were heading in a sexual direction so I asked him if he had slept with anyone else while we were apart or done anything that we should be using condoms for. I told him it was ok if he had had sex because we were not together, but if he had, we needed to be safe and use condoms again. He assured me he had only kissed a woman and nothing else. I told him I hadn't had sex either so we got down to having sex. Right before the act, I once again asked him to confirm asking him if he promised I was safe. He said yes. \n\nWe had sex a few times the next few days. After a few days he confesses to me he did sleep with a woman he met in a bar one night a few weeks ago and had felt terrible about lying (but not bad enough to stop me any of these times we engaged in sex, of course). He had gone out to get an STD test, but the results aren't back yet. He said we \"shouldn't worry about this unless something comes up with [his] results\" which is insensitive beyond belief. I was livid for the breach of trust and I left and will not be speaking to him again. He thinks I'm overreacting.\n\nReddit, I feel betrayed. How soon before I should get myself tested and symptoms of anything I could catch could possibly show? I'm really concerned."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all. I'm super upset and would like to talk to you all for advice. \n\nI 28f year old female, was in a monogamous approximate 2 year long relationship with a 29 year old man. After a time, we decided to get tested and go condomless. We had sex without condoms (I was on the pill) and had no problems with this due to trust and monogamy. We were living together for the past year and, a month ago, we decided to part due to relationship problems. We were broken up and free to see other people.\n\nWe were separated for approximately a month before we decided to meet and talk again starting to rekindle our relationship. We were heading in a sexual direction so I asked him if he had slept with anyone else while we were apart or done anything that we should be using condoms for. I told him it was ok if he had had sex because we were not together, but if he had, we needed to be safe and use condoms again. He assured me he had only kissed a woman and nothing else. I told him I hadn't had sex either so we got down to having sex. Right before the act, I once again asked him to confirm asking him if he promised I was safe. He said yes. \n\nWe had sex a few times the next few days. After a few days he confesses to me he did sleep with a woman he met in a bar one night a few weeks ago and had felt terrible about lying (but not bad enough to stop me any of these times we engaged in sex, of course). He had gone out to get an STD test, but the results aren't back yet. He said we \"shouldn't worry about this unless something comes up with [his] results\" which is insensitive beyond belief. I was livid for the breach of trust and I left and will not be speaking to him again. He thinks I'm overreacting.\n\nReddit, I feel betrayed. How soon before I should get myself tested and symptoms of anything I could catch could possibly show? I'm really concerned."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all. I'm super upset and would like to talk to you all for advice. \n\nI 28f year old female, was in a monogamous approximate 2 year long relationship with a 29 year old man. After a time, we decided to get tested and go condomless. We had sex without condoms (I was on the pill) and had no problems with this due to trust and monogamy. We were living together for the past year and, a month ago, we decided to part due to relationship problems. We were broken up and free to see other people.\n\nWe were separated for approximately a month before we decided to meet and talk again starting to rekindle our relationship. We were heading in a sexual direction so I asked him if he had slept with anyone else while we were apart or done anything that we should be using condoms for. I told him it was ok if he had had sex because we were not together, but if he had, we needed to be safe and use condoms again. He assured me he had only kissed a woman and nothing else. I told him I hadn't had sex either so we got down to having sex. Right before the act, I once again asked him to confirm asking him if he promised I was safe. He said yes. \n\nWe had sex a few times the next few days. After a few days he confesses to me he did sleep with a woman he met in a bar one night a few weeks ago and had felt terrible about lying (but not bad enough to stop me any of these times we engaged in sex, of course). He had gone out to get an STD test, but the results aren't back yet. He said we \"shouldn't worry about this unless something comes up with [his] results\" which is insensitive beyond belief. I was livid for the breach of trust and I left and will not be speaking to him again. He thinks I'm overreacting.\n\nReddit, I feel betrayed. How soon before I should get myself tested and symptoms of anything I could catch could possibly show? I'm really concerned."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all. I'm super upset and would like to talk to you all for advice. \n\nI 28f year old female, was in a monogamous approximate 2 year long relationship with a 29 year old man. After a time, we decided to get tested and go condomless. We had sex without condoms (I was on the pill) and had no problems with this due to trust and monogamy. We were living together for the past year and, a month ago, we decided to part due to relationship problems. We were broken up and free to see other people.\n\nWe were separated for approximately a month before we decided to meet and talk again starting to rekindle our relationship. We were heading in a sexual direction so I asked him if he had slept with anyone else while we were apart or done anything that we should be using condoms for. I told him it was ok if he had had sex because we were not together, but if he had, we needed to be safe and use condoms again. He assured me he had only kissed a woman and nothing else. I told him I hadn't had sex either so we got down to having sex. Right before the act, I once again asked him to confirm asking him if he promised I was safe. He said yes. \n\nWe had sex a few times the next few days. After a few days he confesses to me he did sleep with a woman he met in a bar one night a few weeks ago and had felt terrible about lying (but not bad enough to stop me any of these times we engaged in sex, of course). He had gone out to get an STD test, but the results aren't back yet. He said we \"shouldn't worry about this unless something comes up with [his] results\" which is insensitive beyond belief. I was livid for the breach of trust and I left and will not be speaking to him again. He thinks I'm overreacting.\n\nReddit, I feel betrayed. How soon before I should get myself tested and symptoms of anything I could catch could possibly show? I'm really concerned."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all. I'm super upset and would like to talk to you all for advice. \n\nI 28f year old female, was in a monogamous approximate 2 year long relationship with a 29 year old man. After a time, we decided to get tested and go condomless. We had sex without condoms (I was on the pill) and had no problems with this due to trust and monogamy. We were living together for the past year and, a month ago, we decided to part due to relationship problems. We were broken up and free to see other people.\n\nWe were separated for approximately a month before we decided to meet and talk again starting to rekindle our relationship. We were heading in a sexual direction so I asked him if he had slept with anyone else while we were apart or done anything that we should be using condoms for. I told him it was ok if he had had sex because we were not together, but if he had, we needed to be safe and use condoms again. He assured me he had only kissed a woman and nothing else. I told him I hadn't had sex either so we got down to having sex. Right before the act, I once again asked him to confirm asking him if he promised I was safe. He said yes. \n\nWe had sex a few times the next few days. After a few days he confesses to me he did sleep with a woman he met in a bar one night a few weeks ago and had felt terrible about lying (but not bad enough to stop me any of these times we engaged in sex, of course). He had gone out to get an STD test, but the results aren't back yet. He said we \"shouldn't worry about this unless something comes up with [his] results\" which is insensitive beyond belief. I was livid for the breach of trust and I left and will not be speaking to him again. He thinks I'm overreacting.\n\nReddit, I feel betrayed. How soon before I should get myself tested and symptoms of anything I could catch could possibly show? I'm really concerned."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to do.\n\nShe left on Apr 8 and never came home. Went back to her son's father who had been abusive. She left the way she showed - just disappeared. One phone call. The lies, lies, lies.\n\nThen last night as we are still trying to sort out how she'll get her belongings by email, this \"I've made many mistakes. This is the worst.I'll have to live with my choice for the rest of my life. \"\n\nI woke up like it was yesterday she left - in tears, beside myself. I want to marry her again. I don't know how to go on without her.\n\nI've never been so certain of anything in my life - we belong together.\n\nI've never been so miserable - even during my divorce. I saved her life when she tried to commit suicide in December. Let her move in with me because she totaled her car.\n\nI think I'm losing my mind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to do.\n\nShe left on Apr 8 and never came home. Went back to her son's father who had been abusive. She left the way she showed - just disappeared. One phone call. The lies, lies, lies.\n\nThen last night as we are still trying to sort out how she'll get her belongings by email, this \"I've made many mistakes. This is the worst.I'll have to live with my choice for the rest of my life. \"\n\nI woke up like it was yesterday she left - in tears, beside myself. I want to marry her again. I don't know how to go on without her.\n\nI've never been so certain of anything in my life - we belong together.\n\nI've never been so miserable - even during my divorce. I saved her life when she tried to commit suicide in December. Let her move in with me because she totaled her car.\n\nI think I'm losing my mind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to do.\n\nShe left on Apr 8 and never came home. Went back to her son's father who had been abusive. She left the way she showed - just disappeared. One phone call. The lies, lies, lies.\n\nThen last night as we are still trying to sort out how she'll get her belongings by email, this \"I've made many mistakes. This is the worst.I'll have to live with my choice for the rest of my life. \"\n\nI woke up like it was yesterday she left - in tears, beside myself. I want to marry her again. I don't know how to go on without her.\n\nI've never been so certain of anything in my life - we belong together.\n\nI've never been so miserable - even during my divorce. I saved her life when she tried to commit suicide in December. Let her move in with me because she totaled her car.\n\nI think I'm losing my mind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to do.\n\nShe left on Apr 8 and never came home. Went back to her son's father who had been abusive. She left the way she showed - just disappeared. One phone call. The lies, lies, lies.\n\nThen last night as we are still trying to sort out how she'll get her belongings by email, this \"I've made many mistakes. This is the worst.I'll have to live with my choice for the rest of my life. \"\n\nI woke up like it was yesterday she left - in tears, beside myself. I want to marry her again. I don't know how to go on without her.\n\nI've never been so certain of anything in my life - we belong together.\n\nI've never been so miserable - even during my divorce. I saved her life when she tried to commit suicide in December. Let her move in with me because she totaled her car.\n\nI think I'm losing my mind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to do.\n\nShe left on Apr 8 and never came home. Went back to her son's father who had been abusive. She left the way she showed - just disappeared. One phone call. The lies, lies, lies.\n\nThen last night as we are still trying to sort out how she'll get her belongings by email, this \"I've made many mistakes. This is the worst.I'll have to live with my choice for the rest of my life. \"\n\nI woke up like it was yesterday she left - in tears, beside myself. I want to marry her again. I don't know how to go on without her.\n\nI've never been so certain of anything in my life - we belong together.\n\nI've never been so miserable - even during my divorce. I saved her life when she tried to commit suicide in December. Let her move in with me because she totaled her car.\n\nI think I'm losing my mind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I don't know what to do.\n\nShe left on Apr 8 and never came home. Went back to her son's father who had been abusive. She left the way she showed - just disappeared. One phone call. The lies, lies, lies.\n\nThen last night as we are still trying to sort out how she'll get her belongings by email, this \"I've made many mistakes. This is the worst.I'll have to live with my choice for the rest of my life. \"\n\nI woke up like it was yesterday she left - in tears, beside myself. I want to marry her again. I don't know how to go on without her.\n\nI've never been so certain of anything in my life - we belong together.\n\nI've never been so miserable - even during my divorce. I saved her life when she tried to commit suicide in December. Let her move in with me because she totaled her car.\n\nI think I'm losing my mind."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together 2 years and are very much in love. We have a normal relationship, very happy, with the occasional disagreement. Lately we've been bickering more than normal however, mainly because I'm so busy with work and school that I haven't invested as much time as she expects into our relationship. Which I understand, it's reasonable in my eyes. I've been working on it and I thought we were making great progress.\n\nSo getting to the issue.\nShe was upset with me about contact with an old female friend (strictly friendship, never developed further).I did have feelings for her back in the day, but we have moved on and are different people with loving SO's. We do talk every once and a while to see how things are going and whats new. My gf doesn't know who she is or her relationship with me, so I think shes threatened by her (she has been brought up in drunken anger before). Again, understandable that was wrong on my part. \n\nBut then one day she told me that she had a male coworker confess feelings for her, and in which she said she was flattered but she had a bf. So the dude gets mad with her and stop talking to her. About a week later, my gf tell mes what happened and I just brushed it off, she did the right thing and because we are guys, she will have other men make moves, it happens. \n\nSo long story short, shes been talking to the dude for a while after the event. She has been me blowing me off to go to the bar with him and all her coworkers. She has also been distant with me, and much less sexual than we usually are. Not to mention how much they've been texting, and just as much, she's been hiding her phone. We usually don't mind letting each other use the others phone also.\n\nAm I crazy for assuming my gf is cheating on me, or do I have grounds to make this assumption? And how do I approach this appropriately?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together 2 years and are very much in love. We have a normal relationship, very happy, with the occasional disagreement. Lately we've been bickering more than normal however, mainly because I'm so busy with work and school that I haven't invested as much time as she expects into our relationship. Which I understand, it's reasonable in my eyes. I've been working on it and I thought we were making great progress.\n\nSo getting to the issue.\nShe was upset with me about contact with an old female friend (strictly friendship, never developed further).I did have feelings for her back in the day, but we have moved on and are different people with loving SO's. We do talk every once and a while to see how things are going and whats new. My gf doesn't know who she is or her relationship with me, so I think shes threatened by her (she has been brought up in drunken anger before). Again, understandable that was wrong on my part. \n\nBut then one day she told me that she had a male coworker confess feelings for her, and in which she said she was flattered but she had a bf. So the dude gets mad with her and stop talking to her. About a week later, my gf tell mes what happened and I just brushed it off, she did the right thing and because we are guys, she will have other men make moves, it happens. \n\nSo long story short, shes been talking to the dude for a while after the event. She has been me blowing me off to go to the bar with him and all her coworkers. She has also been distant with me, and much less sexual than we usually are. Not to mention how much they've been texting, and just as much, she's been hiding her phone. We usually don't mind letting each other use the others phone also.\n\nAm I crazy for assuming my gf is cheating on me, or do I have grounds to make this assumption? And how do I approach this appropriately?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together 2 years and are very much in love. We have a normal relationship, very happy, with the occasional disagreement. Lately we've been bickering more than normal however, mainly because I'm so busy with work and school that I haven't invested as much time as she expects into our relationship. Which I understand, it's reasonable in my eyes. I've been working on it and I thought we were making great progress.\n\nSo getting to the issue.\nShe was upset with me about contact with an old female friend (strictly friendship, never developed further).I did have feelings for her back in the day, but we have moved on and are different people with loving SO's. We do talk every once and a while to see how things are going and whats new. My gf doesn't know who she is or her relationship with me, so I think shes threatened by her (she has been brought up in drunken anger before). Again, understandable that was wrong on my part. \n\nBut then one day she told me that she had a male coworker confess feelings for her, and in which she said she was flattered but she had a bf. So the dude gets mad with her and stop talking to her. About a week later, my gf tell mes what happened and I just brushed it off, she did the right thing and because we are guys, she will have other men make moves, it happens. \n\nSo long story short, shes been talking to the dude for a while after the event. She has been me blowing me off to go to the bar with him and all her coworkers. She has also been distant with me, and much less sexual than we usually are. Not to mention how much they've been texting, and just as much, she's been hiding her phone. We usually don't mind letting each other use the others phone also.\n\nAm I crazy for assuming my gf is cheating on me, or do I have grounds to make this assumption? And how do I approach this appropriately?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together 2 years and are very much in love. We have a normal relationship, very happy, with the occasional disagreement. Lately we've been bickering more than normal however, mainly because I'm so busy with work and school that I haven't invested as much time as she expects into our relationship. Which I understand, it's reasonable in my eyes. I've been working on it and I thought we were making great progress.\n\nSo getting to the issue.\nShe was upset with me about contact with an old female friend (strictly friendship, never developed further).I did have feelings for her back in the day, but we have moved on and are different people with loving SO's. We do talk every once and a while to see how things are going and whats new. My gf doesn't know who she is or her relationship with me, so I think shes threatened by her (she has been brought up in drunken anger before). Again, understandable that was wrong on my part. \n\nBut then one day she told me that she had a male coworker confess feelings for her, and in which she said she was flattered but she had a bf. So the dude gets mad with her and stop talking to her. About a week later, my gf tell mes what happened and I just brushed it off, she did the right thing and because we are guys, she will have other men make moves, it happens. \n\nSo long story short, shes been talking to the dude for a while after the event. She has been me blowing me off to go to the bar with him and all her coworkers. She has also been distant with me, and much less sexual than we usually are. Not to mention how much they've been texting, and just as much, she's been hiding her phone. We usually don't mind letting each other use the others phone also.\n\nAm I crazy for assuming my gf is cheating on me, or do I have grounds to make this assumption? And how do I approach this appropriately?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together 2 years and are very much in love. We have a normal relationship, very happy, with the occasional disagreement. Lately we've been bickering more than normal however, mainly because I'm so busy with work and school that I haven't invested as much time as she expects into our relationship. Which I understand, it's reasonable in my eyes. I've been working on it and I thought we were making great progress.\n\nSo getting to the issue.\nShe was upset with me about contact with an old female friend (strictly friendship, never developed further).I did have feelings for her back in the day, but we have moved on and are different people with loving SO's. We do talk every once and a while to see how things are going and whats new. My gf doesn't know who she is or her relationship with me, so I think shes threatened by her (she has been brought up in drunken anger before). Again, understandable that was wrong on my part. \n\nBut then one day she told me that she had a male coworker confess feelings for her, and in which she said she was flattered but she had a bf. So the dude gets mad with her and stop talking to her. About a week later, my gf tell mes what happened and I just brushed it off, she did the right thing and because we are guys, she will have other men make moves, it happens. \n\nSo long story short, shes been talking to the dude for a while after the event. She has been me blowing me off to go to the bar with him and all her coworkers. She has also been distant with me, and much less sexual than we usually are. Not to mention how much they've been texting, and just as much, she's been hiding her phone. We usually don't mind letting each other use the others phone also.\n\nAm I crazy for assuming my gf is cheating on me, or do I have grounds to make this assumption? And how do I approach this appropriately?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together 2 years and are very much in love. We have a normal relationship, very happy, with the occasional disagreement. Lately we've been bickering more than normal however, mainly because I'm so busy with work and school that I haven't invested as much time as she expects into our relationship. Which I understand, it's reasonable in my eyes. I've been working on it and I thought we were making great progress.\n\nSo getting to the issue.\nShe was upset with me about contact with an old female friend (strictly friendship, never developed further).I did have feelings for her back in the day, but we have moved on and are different people with loving SO's. We do talk every once and a while to see how things are going and whats new. My gf doesn't know who she is or her relationship with me, so I think shes threatened by her (she has been brought up in drunken anger before). Again, understandable that was wrong on my part. \n\nBut then one day she told me that she had a male coworker confess feelings for her, and in which she said she was flattered but she had a bf. So the dude gets mad with her and stop talking to her. About a week later, my gf tell mes what happened and I just brushed it off, she did the right thing and because we are guys, she will have other men make moves, it happens. \n\nSo long story short, shes been talking to the dude for a while after the event. She has been me blowing me off to go to the bar with him and all her coworkers. She has also been distant with me, and much less sexual than we usually are. Not to mention how much they've been texting, and just as much, she's been hiding her phone. We usually don't mind letting each other use the others phone also.\n\nAm I crazy for assuming my gf is cheating on me, or do I have grounds to make this assumption? And how do I approach this appropriately?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend[21/m] and I[22/f] have been dating for two months and friends for three before that. Just like the title says, we are both very jealous people, but for good reason!\n\nWe're both pretty nerdy. He's big into Warhammer 40k, video games, and the like. I'm a tomboy who works at a board game store, consequently I have lots of male friends. Both of us are at least moderately attractive. I have had repeated problems with guys wanting to be friends (maybe even with completely pure intentions) then having some variety of crush on me. It's been a running problem.\n\nA little back story! Before dating, we had almost gotten together before when I was between relationships. He expressed interest, I thought I wanted someone else, we stay friends but he's still interested, a good number of months later I'm single again, and suddenly he's an option again. And so we start dating! He has had (understandable) insecurities about my ex since then, we have discussed it in depth and it has gotten a lot better, but it's still something to consider.\n\nWhich brings us to our current problem, but first a few inalienable truths about our relationship: We trust each other, we want each other to have friends of the opposite sex, we are both equally jealous types, and we both don't intend to fix that. \n\nHow do we express to all opposite gendered parties surrounding our SO or ourselves that they/we are off limits? How do we do this when it's just quiet crushes a lot of the time and they're friends of ours? We need strategy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend[21/m] and I[22/f] have been dating for two months and friends for three before that. Just like the title says, we are both very jealous people, but for good reason!\n\nWe're both pretty nerdy. He's big into Warhammer 40k, video games, and the like. I'm a tomboy who works at a board game store, consequently I have lots of male friends. Both of us are at least moderately attractive. I have had repeated problems with guys wanting to be friends (maybe even with completely pure intentions) then having some variety of crush on me. It's been a running problem.\n\nA little back story! Before dating, we had almost gotten together before when I was between relationships. He expressed interest, I thought I wanted someone else, we stay friends but he's still interested, a good number of months later I'm single again, and suddenly he's an option again. And so we start dating! He has had (understandable) insecurities about my ex since then, we have discussed it in depth and it has gotten a lot better, but it's still something to consider.\n\nWhich brings us to our current problem, but first a few inalienable truths about our relationship: We trust each other, we want each other to have friends of the opposite sex, we are both equally jealous types, and we both don't intend to fix that. \n\nHow do we express to all opposite gendered parties surrounding our SO or ourselves that they/we are off limits? How do we do this when it's just quiet crushes a lot of the time and they're friends of ours? We need strategy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend[21/m] and I[22/f] have been dating for two months and friends for three before that. Just like the title says, we are both very jealous people, but for good reason!\n\nWe're both pretty nerdy. He's big into Warhammer 40k, video games, and the like. I'm a tomboy who works at a board game store, consequently I have lots of male friends. Both of us are at least moderately attractive. I have had repeated problems with guys wanting to be friends (maybe even with completely pure intentions) then having some variety of crush on me. It's been a running problem.\n\nA little back story! Before dating, we had almost gotten together before when I was between relationships. He expressed interest, I thought I wanted someone else, we stay friends but he's still interested, a good number of months later I'm single again, and suddenly he's an option again. And so we start dating! He has had (understandable) insecurities about my ex since then, we have discussed it in depth and it has gotten a lot better, but it's still something to consider.\n\nWhich brings us to our current problem, but first a few inalienable truths about our relationship: We trust each other, we want each other to have friends of the opposite sex, we are both equally jealous types, and we both don't intend to fix that. \n\nHow do we express to all opposite gendered parties surrounding our SO or ourselves that they/we are off limits? How do we do this when it's just quiet crushes a lot of the time and they're friends of ours? We need strategy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend[21/m] and I[22/f] have been dating for two months and friends for three before that. Just like the title says, we are both very jealous people, but for good reason!\n\nWe're both pretty nerdy. He's big into Warhammer 40k, video games, and the like. I'm a tomboy who works at a board game store, consequently I have lots of male friends. Both of us are at least moderately attractive. I have had repeated problems with guys wanting to be friends (maybe even with completely pure intentions) then having some variety of crush on me. It's been a running problem.\n\nA little back story! Before dating, we had almost gotten together before when I was between relationships. He expressed interest, I thought I wanted someone else, we stay friends but he's still interested, a good number of months later I'm single again, and suddenly he's an option again. And so we start dating! He has had (understandable) insecurities about my ex since then, we have discussed it in depth and it has gotten a lot better, but it's still something to consider.\n\nWhich brings us to our current problem, but first a few inalienable truths about our relationship: We trust each other, we want each other to have friends of the opposite sex, we are both equally jealous types, and we both don't intend to fix that. \n\nHow do we express to all opposite gendered parties surrounding our SO or ourselves that they/we are off limits? How do we do this when it's just quiet crushes a lot of the time and they're friends of ours? We need strategy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend[21/m] and I[22/f] have been dating for two months and friends for three before that. Just like the title says, we are both very jealous people, but for good reason!\n\nWe're both pretty nerdy. He's big into Warhammer 40k, video games, and the like. I'm a tomboy who works at a board game store, consequently I have lots of male friends. Both of us are at least moderately attractive. I have had repeated problems with guys wanting to be friends (maybe even with completely pure intentions) then having some variety of crush on me. It's been a running problem.\n\nA little back story! Before dating, we had almost gotten together before when I was between relationships. He expressed interest, I thought I wanted someone else, we stay friends but he's still interested, a good number of months later I'm single again, and suddenly he's an option again. And so we start dating! He has had (understandable) insecurities about my ex since then, we have discussed it in depth and it has gotten a lot better, but it's still something to consider.\n\nWhich brings us to our current problem, but first a few inalienable truths about our relationship: We trust each other, we want each other to have friends of the opposite sex, we are both equally jealous types, and we both don't intend to fix that. \n\nHow do we express to all opposite gendered parties surrounding our SO or ourselves that they/we are off limits? How do we do this when it's just quiet crushes a lot of the time and they're friends of ours? We need strategy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been flirting on and off with a bartender at a bar I go to after work in town. We seem compatible, she's got a great personality, and is very attractive. I was a little tipsy but I had enough courage to tell her I'd like to take her to dinner. She said she had a busy next few days, but she handed me a slip of paper with her number on it and gave me a smile.\n\nIt's been a while since I've been in the dating scene . I tend to be a bit of a loner. And now that the liquid confidence is gone, I need your help. Are there general guidelines to follow when it comes to following-up after a woman has given you her number? I know this may sound like an incredibly immature question but I have very little experience when it comes to dating.\n\nI figured I would wait until maybe tomorrow, and follow-up with her via (text? phone call?) about when she might be free? She won't be working again until Friday. Appreciate your help, thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been flirting on and off with a bartender at a bar I go to after work in town. We seem compatible, she's got a great personality, and is very attractive. I was a little tipsy but I had enough courage to tell her I'd like to take her to dinner. She said she had a busy next few days, but she handed me a slip of paper with her number on it and gave me a smile.\n\nIt's been a while since I've been in the dating scene . I tend to be a bit of a loner. And now that the liquid confidence is gone, I need your help. Are there general guidelines to follow when it comes to following-up after a woman has given you her number? I know this may sound like an incredibly immature question but I have very little experience when it comes to dating.\n\nI figured I would wait until maybe tomorrow, and follow-up with her via (text? phone call?) about when she might be free? She won't be working again until Friday. Appreciate your help, thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been flirting on and off with a bartender at a bar I go to after work in town. We seem compatible, she's got a great personality, and is very attractive. I was a little tipsy but I had enough courage to tell her I'd like to take her to dinner. She said she had a busy next few days, but she handed me a slip of paper with her number on it and gave me a smile.\n\nIt's been a while since I've been in the dating scene . I tend to be a bit of a loner. And now that the liquid confidence is gone, I need your help. Are there general guidelines to follow when it comes to following-up after a woman has given you her number? I know this may sound like an incredibly immature question but I have very little experience when it comes to dating.\n\nI figured I would wait until maybe tomorrow, and follow-up with her via (text? phone call?) about when she might be free? She won't be working again until Friday. Appreciate your help, thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been flirting on and off with a bartender at a bar I go to after work in town. We seem compatible, she's got a great personality, and is very attractive. I was a little tipsy but I had enough courage to tell her I'd like to take her to dinner. She said she had a busy next few days, but she handed me a slip of paper with her number on it and gave me a smile.\n\nIt's been a while since I've been in the dating scene . I tend to be a bit of a loner. And now that the liquid confidence is gone, I need your help. Are there general guidelines to follow when it comes to following-up after a woman has given you her number? I know this may sound like an incredibly immature question but I have very little experience when it comes to dating.\n\nI figured I would wait until maybe tomorrow, and follow-up with her via (text? phone call?) about when she might be free? She won't be working again until Friday. Appreciate your help, thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been flirting on and off with a bartender at a bar I go to after work in town. We seem compatible, she's got a great personality, and is very attractive. I was a little tipsy but I had enough courage to tell her I'd like to take her to dinner. She said she had a busy next few days, but she handed me a slip of paper with her number on it and gave me a smile.\n\nIt's been a while since I've been in the dating scene . I tend to be a bit of a loner. And now that the liquid confidence is gone, I need your help. Are there general guidelines to follow when it comes to following-up after a woman has given you her number? I know this may sound like an incredibly immature question but I have very little experience when it comes to dating.\n\nI figured I would wait until maybe tomorrow, and follow-up with her via (text? phone call?) about when she might be free? She won't be working again until Friday. Appreciate your help, thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been flirting on and off with a bartender at a bar I go to after work in town. We seem compatible, she's got a great personality, and is very attractive. I was a little tipsy but I had enough courage to tell her I'd like to take her to dinner. She said she had a busy next few days, but she handed me a slip of paper with her number on it and gave me a smile.\n\nIt's been a while since I've been in the dating scene . I tend to be a bit of a loner. And now that the liquid confidence is gone, I need your help. Are there general guidelines to follow when it comes to following-up after a woman has given you her number? I know this may sound like an incredibly immature question but I have very little experience when it comes to dating.\n\nI figured I would wait until maybe tomorrow, and follow-up with her via (text? phone call?) about when she might be free? She won't be working again until Friday. Appreciate your help, thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this is the right subreddit for this but I've seen stuff on immigration here and [r/visas]( has like 17 subscribers soo.\n\nWe have a close friend who is a Russian citizen but lives abroad; we met her when we were living in China but now she lives in Germany. We really want her to come to our wedding in August, and she has a visa interview later this month. I am worried that she will not get the visa or it will be delayed because of all the horror stories I have heard lately about US visas for non-US citizens, and the current issues with Russia, etc. \n\nI am wondering, is there any point in me and my fiance contacting the embassy she is visiting before her interview to try and legitimize her visa? Does that kind of thing help or could it potentially hurt her chances?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this is the right subreddit for this but I've seen stuff on immigration here and [r/visas]( has like 17 subscribers soo.\n\nWe have a close friend who is a Russian citizen but lives abroad; we met her when we were living in China but now she lives in Germany. We really want her to come to our wedding in August, and she has a visa interview later this month. I am worried that she will not get the visa or it will be delayed because of all the horror stories I have heard lately about US visas for non-US citizens, and the current issues with Russia, etc. \n\nI am wondering, is there any point in me and my fiance contacting the embassy she is visiting before her interview to try and legitimize her visa? Does that kind of thing help or could it potentially hurt her chances?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this is the right subreddit for this but I've seen stuff on immigration here and [r/visas]( has like 17 subscribers soo.\n\nWe have a close friend who is a Russian citizen but lives abroad; we met her when we were living in China but now she lives in Germany. We really want her to come to our wedding in August, and she has a visa interview later this month. I am worried that she will not get the visa or it will be delayed because of all the horror stories I have heard lately about US visas for non-US citizens, and the current issues with Russia, etc. \n\nI am wondering, is there any point in me and my fiance contacting the embassy she is visiting before her interview to try and legitimize her visa? Does that kind of thing help or could it potentially hurt her chances?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this is the right subreddit for this but I've seen stuff on immigration here and [r/visas]( has like 17 subscribers soo.\n\nWe have a close friend who is a Russian citizen but lives abroad; we met her when we were living in China but now she lives in Germany. We really want her to come to our wedding in August, and she has a visa interview later this month. I am worried that she will not get the visa or it will be delayed because of all the horror stories I have heard lately about US visas for non-US citizens, and the current issues with Russia, etc. \n\nI am wondering, is there any point in me and my fiance contacting the embassy she is visiting before her interview to try and legitimize her visa? Does that kind of thing help or could it potentially hurt her chances?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met this awesome guy, we really liked each other hooked up the whole 9 yada yada. Said something kind of bitchy then felt ridiculously bad and got kind of weird trying to apologize to salvage things. He told me he would be free after 4 and he would see me tonight but he is ignoring my texts and calls (it's now 7:30 here) and I know he is home because he has been online. The last text I sent him I said \"If you don't tell me whether to come over or not I'm just going to come over anyways >;)\" and I'm considering doing so. Should I go over there or would that just be weird/stalker/crazy? I seriously like this guy and I feel like if I could just see him and explain things could get back on track and dandy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met this awesome guy, we really liked each other hooked up the whole 9 yada yada. Said something kind of bitchy then felt ridiculously bad and got kind of weird trying to apologize to salvage things. He told me he would be free after 4 and he would see me tonight but he is ignoring my texts and calls (it's now 7:30 here) and I know he is home because he has been online. The last text I sent him I said \"If you don't tell me whether to come over or not I'm just going to come over anyways >;)\" and I'm considering doing so. Should I go over there or would that just be weird/stalker/crazy? I seriously like this guy and I feel like if I could just see him and explain things could get back on track and dandy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met this awesome guy, we really liked each other hooked up the whole 9 yada yada. Said something kind of bitchy then felt ridiculously bad and got kind of weird trying to apologize to salvage things. He told me he would be free after 4 and he would see me tonight but he is ignoring my texts and calls (it's now 7:30 here) and I know he is home because he has been online. The last text I sent him I said \"If you don't tell me whether to come over or not I'm just going to come over anyways >;)\" and I'm considering doing so. Should I go over there or would that just be weird/stalker/crazy? I seriously like this guy and I feel like if I could just see him and explain things could get back on track and dandy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met this awesome guy, we really liked each other hooked up the whole 9 yada yada. Said something kind of bitchy then felt ridiculously bad and got kind of weird trying to apologize to salvage things. He told me he would be free after 4 and he would see me tonight but he is ignoring my texts and calls (it's now 7:30 here) and I know he is home because he has been online. The last text I sent him I said \"If you don't tell me whether to come over or not I'm just going to come over anyways >;)\" and I'm considering doing so. Should I go over there or would that just be weird/stalker/crazy? I seriously like this guy and I feel like if I could just see him and explain things could get back on track and dandy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met this awesome guy, we really liked each other hooked up the whole 9 yada yada. Said something kind of bitchy then felt ridiculously bad and got kind of weird trying to apologize to salvage things. He told me he would be free after 4 and he would see me tonight but he is ignoring my texts and calls (it's now 7:30 here) and I know he is home because he has been online. The last text I sent him I said \"If you don't tell me whether to come over or not I'm just going to come over anyways >;)\" and I'm considering doing so. Should I go over there or would that just be weird/stalker/crazy? I seriously like this guy and I feel like if I could just see him and explain things could get back on track and dandy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met this awesome guy, we really liked each other hooked up the whole 9 yada yada. Said something kind of bitchy then felt ridiculously bad and got kind of weird trying to apologize to salvage things. He told me he would be free after 4 and he would see me tonight but he is ignoring my texts and calls (it's now 7:30 here) and I know he is home because he has been online. The last text I sent him I said \"If you don't tell me whether to come over or not I'm just going to come over anyways >;)\" and I'm considering doing so. Should I go over there or would that just be weird/stalker/crazy? I seriously like this guy and I feel like if I could just see him and explain things could get back on track and dandy"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: x-posted to /r/relationships\n\nI started my own company approx five years ago. I was working as a Business Intelligence consultant, analytics software design and implementation etc. As more and more jobs were being awarded to offshore consultants, I decided to start a \"rural outsourcing\" company. Basically, I based consultants in mid sized towns, had them work remotely at a reasonable price, and only sent out on site consultants when absolutely needed.\n\nIt took off, I now employ 39 full time employees. \n\nMost of my employees are men, a couple women, and we all get along very well professionally. I also have a number of close male and female friends, and don't feel like I suffer socially at all. But when it comes to dating, I have a tough time getting past what I do and how much I make. \n\nI'm at the point where I can be in the office as much or as little as I like. I usually work 30 hours, give or take. This leaves me plenty of time to participate in outdoor activities and indulge my other hobbies too. I meet a lot of great people socially, I do get asked out on a regular basis, and I've had great dates and short term relationships, but as soon as the conversation turns to \"so what do you do?\" things tend to stall. I've flat out had men tell me they can't/won't be with someone who makes more than them. It's not a contest to me, I don't find a man who makes less than me to be less of a man, so.?\n\nThe advice I've gotten so far is not to even talk about my work/business. The problem is I don't want to flat out lie, but even if I don't and just avoid mentioning it, it's *eventually* going to come out. You can't date someone without figuring out little tidbits about them like, oh I dunno, *their livelihood*. \n\nSo what insight do you have, Reddit? I'm stumped."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: x-posted to /r/relationships\n\nI started my own company approx five years ago. I was working as a Business Intelligence consultant, analytics software design and implementation etc. As more and more jobs were being awarded to offshore consultants, I decided to start a \"rural outsourcing\" company. Basically, I based consultants in mid sized towns, had them work remotely at a reasonable price, and only sent out on site consultants when absolutely needed.\n\nIt took off, I now employ 39 full time employees. \n\nMost of my employees are men, a couple women, and we all get along very well professionally. I also have a number of close male and female friends, and don't feel like I suffer socially at all. But when it comes to dating, I have a tough time getting past what I do and how much I make. \n\nI'm at the point where I can be in the office as much or as little as I like. I usually work 30 hours, give or take. This leaves me plenty of time to participate in outdoor activities and indulge my other hobbies too. I meet a lot of great people socially, I do get asked out on a regular basis, and I've had great dates and short term relationships, but as soon as the conversation turns to \"so what do you do?\" things tend to stall. I've flat out had men tell me they can't/won't be with someone who makes more than them. It's not a contest to me, I don't find a man who makes less than me to be less of a man, so.?\n\nThe advice I've gotten so far is not to even talk about my work/business. The problem is I don't want to flat out lie, but even if I don't and just avoid mentioning it, it's *eventually* going to come out. You can't date someone without figuring out little tidbits about them like, oh I dunno, *their livelihood*. \n\nSo what insight do you have, Reddit? I'm stumped."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: x-posted to /r/relationships\n\nI started my own company approx five years ago. I was working as a Business Intelligence consultant, analytics software design and implementation etc. As more and more jobs were being awarded to offshore consultants, I decided to start a \"rural outsourcing\" company. Basically, I based consultants in mid sized towns, had them work remotely at a reasonable price, and only sent out on site consultants when absolutely needed.\n\nIt took off, I now employ 39 full time employees. \n\nMost of my employees are men, a couple women, and we all get along very well professionally. I also have a number of close male and female friends, and don't feel like I suffer socially at all. But when it comes to dating, I have a tough time getting past what I do and how much I make. \n\nI'm at the point where I can be in the office as much or as little as I like. I usually work 30 hours, give or take. This leaves me plenty of time to participate in outdoor activities and indulge my other hobbies too. I meet a lot of great people socially, I do get asked out on a regular basis, and I've had great dates and short term relationships, but as soon as the conversation turns to \"so what do you do?\" things tend to stall. I've flat out had men tell me they can't/won't be with someone who makes more than them. It's not a contest to me, I don't find a man who makes less than me to be less of a man, so.?\n\nThe advice I've gotten so far is not to even talk about my work/business. The problem is I don't want to flat out lie, but even if I don't and just avoid mentioning it, it's *eventually* going to come out. You can't date someone without figuring out little tidbits about them like, oh I dunno, *their livelihood*. \n\nSo what insight do you have, Reddit? I'm stumped."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: x-posted to /r/relationships\n\nI started my own company approx five years ago. I was working as a Business Intelligence consultant, analytics software design and implementation etc. As more and more jobs were being awarded to offshore consultants, I decided to start a \"rural outsourcing\" company. Basically, I based consultants in mid sized towns, had them work remotely at a reasonable price, and only sent out on site consultants when absolutely needed.\n\nIt took off, I now employ 39 full time employees. \n\nMost of my employees are men, a couple women, and we all get along very well professionally. I also have a number of close male and female friends, and don't feel like I suffer socially at all. But when it comes to dating, I have a tough time getting past what I do and how much I make. \n\nI'm at the point where I can be in the office as much or as little as I like. I usually work 30 hours, give or take. This leaves me plenty of time to participate in outdoor activities and indulge my other hobbies too. I meet a lot of great people socially, I do get asked out on a regular basis, and I've had great dates and short term relationships, but as soon as the conversation turns to \"so what do you do?\" things tend to stall. I've flat out had men tell me they can't/won't be with someone who makes more than them. It's not a contest to me, I don't find a man who makes less than me to be less of a man, so.?\n\nThe advice I've gotten so far is not to even talk about my work/business. The problem is I don't want to flat out lie, but even if I don't and just avoid mentioning it, it's *eventually* going to come out. You can't date someone without figuring out little tidbits about them like, oh I dunno, *their livelihood*. \n\nSo what insight do you have, Reddit? I'm stumped."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: x-posted to /r/relationships\n\nI started my own company approx five years ago. I was working as a Business Intelligence consultant, analytics software design and implementation etc. As more and more jobs were being awarded to offshore consultants, I decided to start a \"rural outsourcing\" company. Basically, I based consultants in mid sized towns, had them work remotely at a reasonable price, and only sent out on site consultants when absolutely needed.\n\nIt took off, I now employ 39 full time employees. \n\nMost of my employees are men, a couple women, and we all get along very well professionally. I also have a number of close male and female friends, and don't feel like I suffer socially at all. But when it comes to dating, I have a tough time getting past what I do and how much I make. \n\nI'm at the point where I can be in the office as much or as little as I like. I usually work 30 hours, give or take. This leaves me plenty of time to participate in outdoor activities and indulge my other hobbies too. I meet a lot of great people socially, I do get asked out on a regular basis, and I've had great dates and short term relationships, but as soon as the conversation turns to \"so what do you do?\" things tend to stall. I've flat out had men tell me they can't/won't be with someone who makes more than them. It's not a contest to me, I don't find a man who makes less than me to be less of a man, so.?\n\nThe advice I've gotten so far is not to even talk about my work/business. The problem is I don't want to flat out lie, but even if I don't and just avoid mentioning it, it's *eventually* going to come out. You can't date someone without figuring out little tidbits about them like, oh I dunno, *their livelihood*. \n\nSo what insight do you have, Reddit? I'm stumped."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: x-posted to /r/relationships\n\nI started my own company approx five years ago. I was working as a Business Intelligence consultant, analytics software design and implementation etc. As more and more jobs were being awarded to offshore consultants, I decided to start a \"rural outsourcing\" company. Basically, I based consultants in mid sized towns, had them work remotely at a reasonable price, and only sent out on site consultants when absolutely needed.\n\nIt took off, I now employ 39 full time employees. \n\nMost of my employees are men, a couple women, and we all get along very well professionally. I also have a number of close male and female friends, and don't feel like I suffer socially at all. But when it comes to dating, I have a tough time getting past what I do and how much I make. \n\nI'm at the point where I can be in the office as much or as little as I like. I usually work 30 hours, give or take. This leaves me plenty of time to participate in outdoor activities and indulge my other hobbies too. I meet a lot of great people socially, I do get asked out on a regular basis, and I've had great dates and short term relationships, but as soon as the conversation turns to \"so what do you do?\" things tend to stall. I've flat out had men tell me they can't/won't be with someone who makes more than them. It's not a contest to me, I don't find a man who makes less than me to be less of a man, so.?\n\nThe advice I've gotten so far is not to even talk about my work/business. The problem is I don't want to flat out lie, but even if I don't and just avoid mentioning it, it's *eventually* going to come out. You can't date someone without figuring out little tidbits about them like, oh I dunno, *their livelihood*. \n\nSo what insight do you have, Reddit? I'm stumped."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for 1.5 years. We met online 2.5 years ago, since then we've spoken almost every day and got very interested in each other. So much I flew to see her in her town, and after that we decided to go for a relationship. Since then, we've been flying to see each other 7 times in the past 1.5 years. It has been amazing and we've made so many memories together. I have soo many letter she has written to me, so many pictures from our meeting, gifts from her. \n\nNow, I'm struggling to see how we are going to work around this. We probably have to move to live closer one day. We have to stay long-distance for the amount of time that we are actually ready to make a move. \n\nI said that all of this was too hard for me to continue and I've considered breaking up. That has.destroyed her. Since I told her, she hasn't even been out, she tells me she doesn't eat and that her life is such a big mess. Every time we talk, she cries. \n\nI love her and I wasn't even sure I could go through breaking up with her, and I just can't make myself do it because I'm stuck in the middle of either breaking up, lose her, lose the person that always supports me and whom I love or staying and still deals with all the stress that goes through doing that. I can't see myself moving, I can't see her moving. I'm lost with what to do as I can't see myself dealing with either consequence of my choice. This is stressful for me, and it's putting her in a big emotional stress, too. \n\nI would really like some advice on how to choose what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for 1.5 years. We met online 2.5 years ago, since then we've spoken almost every day and got very interested in each other. So much I flew to see her in her town, and after that we decided to go for a relationship. Since then, we've been flying to see each other 7 times in the past 1.5 years. It has been amazing and we've made so many memories together. I have soo many letter she has written to me, so many pictures from our meeting, gifts from her. \n\nNow, I'm struggling to see how we are going to work around this. We probably have to move to live closer one day. We have to stay long-distance for the amount of time that we are actually ready to make a move. \n\nI said that all of this was too hard for me to continue and I've considered breaking up. That has.destroyed her. Since I told her, she hasn't even been out, she tells me she doesn't eat and that her life is such a big mess. Every time we talk, she cries. \n\nI love her and I wasn't even sure I could go through breaking up with her, and I just can't make myself do it because I'm stuck in the middle of either breaking up, lose her, lose the person that always supports me and whom I love or staying and still deals with all the stress that goes through doing that. I can't see myself moving, I can't see her moving. I'm lost with what to do as I can't see myself dealing with either consequence of my choice. This is stressful for me, and it's putting her in a big emotional stress, too. \n\nI would really like some advice on how to choose what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for 1.5 years. We met online 2.5 years ago, since then we've spoken almost every day and got very interested in each other. So much I flew to see her in her town, and after that we decided to go for a relationship. Since then, we've been flying to see each other 7 times in the past 1.5 years. It has been amazing and we've made so many memories together. I have soo many letter she has written to me, so many pictures from our meeting, gifts from her. \n\nNow, I'm struggling to see how we are going to work around this. We probably have to move to live closer one day. We have to stay long-distance for the amount of time that we are actually ready to make a move. \n\nI said that all of this was too hard for me to continue and I've considered breaking up. That has.destroyed her. Since I told her, she hasn't even been out, she tells me she doesn't eat and that her life is such a big mess. Every time we talk, she cries. \n\nI love her and I wasn't even sure I could go through breaking up with her, and I just can't make myself do it because I'm stuck in the middle of either breaking up, lose her, lose the person that always supports me and whom I love or staying and still deals with all the stress that goes through doing that. I can't see myself moving, I can't see her moving. I'm lost with what to do as I can't see myself dealing with either consequence of my choice. This is stressful for me, and it's putting her in a big emotional stress, too. \n\nI would really like some advice on how to choose what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for 1.5 years. We met online 2.5 years ago, since then we've spoken almost every day and got very interested in each other. So much I flew to see her in her town, and after that we decided to go for a relationship. Since then, we've been flying to see each other 7 times in the past 1.5 years. It has been amazing and we've made so many memories together. I have soo many letter she has written to me, so many pictures from our meeting, gifts from her. \n\nNow, I'm struggling to see how we are going to work around this. We probably have to move to live closer one day. We have to stay long-distance for the amount of time that we are actually ready to make a move. \n\nI said that all of this was too hard for me to continue and I've considered breaking up. That has.destroyed her. Since I told her, she hasn't even been out, she tells me she doesn't eat and that her life is such a big mess. Every time we talk, she cries. \n\nI love her and I wasn't even sure I could go through breaking up with her, and I just can't make myself do it because I'm stuck in the middle of either breaking up, lose her, lose the person that always supports me and whom I love or staying and still deals with all the stress that goes through doing that. I can't see myself moving, I can't see her moving. I'm lost with what to do as I can't see myself dealing with either consequence of my choice. This is stressful for me, and it's putting her in a big emotional stress, too. \n\nI would really like some advice on how to choose what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for 1.5 years. We met online 2.5 years ago, since then we've spoken almost every day and got very interested in each other. So much I flew to see her in her town, and after that we decided to go for a relationship. Since then, we've been flying to see each other 7 times in the past 1.5 years. It has been amazing and we've made so many memories together. I have soo many letter she has written to me, so many pictures from our meeting, gifts from her. \n\nNow, I'm struggling to see how we are going to work around this. We probably have to move to live closer one day. We have to stay long-distance for the amount of time that we are actually ready to make a move. \n\nI said that all of this was too hard for me to continue and I've considered breaking up. That has.destroyed her. Since I told her, she hasn't even been out, she tells me she doesn't eat and that her life is such a big mess. Every time we talk, she cries. \n\nI love her and I wasn't even sure I could go through breaking up with her, and I just can't make myself do it because I'm stuck in the middle of either breaking up, lose her, lose the person that always supports me and whom I love or staying and still deals with all the stress that goes through doing that. I can't see myself moving, I can't see her moving. I'm lost with what to do as I can't see myself dealing with either consequence of my choice. This is stressful for me, and it's putting her in a big emotional stress, too. \n\nI would really like some advice on how to choose what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for 1.5 years. We met online 2.5 years ago, since then we've spoken almost every day and got very interested in each other. So much I flew to see her in her town, and after that we decided to go for a relationship. Since then, we've been flying to see each other 7 times in the past 1.5 years. It has been amazing and we've made so many memories together. I have soo many letter she has written to me, so many pictures from our meeting, gifts from her. \n\nNow, I'm struggling to see how we are going to work around this. We probably have to move to live closer one day. We have to stay long-distance for the amount of time that we are actually ready to make a move. \n\nI said that all of this was too hard for me to continue and I've considered breaking up. That has.destroyed her. Since I told her, she hasn't even been out, she tells me she doesn't eat and that her life is such a big mess. Every time we talk, she cries. \n\nI love her and I wasn't even sure I could go through breaking up with her, and I just can't make myself do it because I'm stuck in the middle of either breaking up, lose her, lose the person that always supports me and whom I love or staying and still deals with all the stress that goes through doing that. I can't see myself moving, I can't see her moving. I'm lost with what to do as I can't see myself dealing with either consequence of my choice. This is stressful for me, and it's putting her in a big emotional stress, too. \n\nI would really like some advice on how to choose what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and gf are in a loving relationship and very compatible!\n\nSadly, we are incompatible on some pretty important stuff.\n\nWe are sexually incompatible and feel differently leaving our home state (our jobs make us move next year - she wants to stay in California and I want to leave).\n\nNonetheless, we are both very logical people and compromise to overcome differences.\n\n(Mainly because we both agree that we care about each other most).\n\nAt some point, however, I'm wondering if compromise isn't enough especially with core differences. \n\nI can't help but think each of our lives may be easier we had more compatible partners. \n\nThoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and gf are in a loving relationship and very compatible!\n\nSadly, we are incompatible on some pretty important stuff.\n\nWe are sexually incompatible and feel differently leaving our home state (our jobs make us move next year - she wants to stay in California and I want to leave).\n\nNonetheless, we are both very logical people and compromise to overcome differences.\n\n(Mainly because we both agree that we care about each other most).\n\nAt some point, however, I'm wondering if compromise isn't enough especially with core differences. \n\nI can't help but think each of our lives may be easier we had more compatible partners. \n\nThoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and gf are in a loving relationship and very compatible!\n\nSadly, we are incompatible on some pretty important stuff.\n\nWe are sexually incompatible and feel differently leaving our home state (our jobs make us move next year - she wants to stay in California and I want to leave).\n\nNonetheless, we are both very logical people and compromise to overcome differences.\n\n(Mainly because we both agree that we care about each other most).\n\nAt some point, however, I'm wondering if compromise isn't enough especially with core differences. \n\nI can't help but think each of our lives may be easier we had more compatible partners. \n\nThoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and gf are in a loving relationship and very compatible!\n\nSadly, we are incompatible on some pretty important stuff.\n\nWe are sexually incompatible and feel differently leaving our home state (our jobs make us move next year - she wants to stay in California and I want to leave).\n\nNonetheless, we are both very logical people and compromise to overcome differences.\n\n(Mainly because we both agree that we care about each other most).\n\nAt some point, however, I'm wondering if compromise isn't enough especially with core differences. \n\nI can't help but think each of our lives may be easier we had more compatible partners. \n\nThoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and gf are in a loving relationship and very compatible!\n\nSadly, we are incompatible on some pretty important stuff.\n\nWe are sexually incompatible and feel differently leaving our home state (our jobs make us move next year - she wants to stay in California and I want to leave).\n\nNonetheless, we are both very logical people and compromise to overcome differences.\n\n(Mainly because we both agree that we care about each other most).\n\nAt some point, however, I'm wondering if compromise isn't enough especially with core differences. \n\nI can't help but think each of our lives may be easier we had more compatible partners. \n\nThoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 4 months now, and became exclusive pretty much straight away (his decision). It started off so well, he'd text me fairly often, he seemed to care about how my day was going and how I was feeling. stuff like that. But after a few weeks he said he felt like it was going too quickly and he wanted to slow things down. That was fine with me.\n\nBut now I just feel like he doesn't really give a shit about me or my feelings. In person he's a bit different, but over text I always feel like I'm annoying him by ever trying to talk to him. If he's feeling down or having a bad day I'll ask him what's up and try to make him feel better. If I say I'm feeling down he'll just respond with some stupid sad emoji. If I start talking about why I'm sad etc. he'll hardly say anything at all. \n\nEven stupid things like saying goodnight and good morning. There seems to be no affection behind anything he messages me. It's hurting me so much right now. I've not been feeling too great these last few days, and he hasn't been there for me at all. Maybe it'd be different if we were together in person but over text I just feel so lonely. I see him once or twice a week and it's fine then, but I don't normally feel sad when he's around so it wouldn't come up anyway. \n\nAnd then when I see my friends and their SOs, I just feel so sad because they seem like they care so much about each other."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 4 months now, and became exclusive pretty much straight away (his decision). It started off so well, he'd text me fairly often, he seemed to care about how my day was going and how I was feeling. stuff like that. But after a few weeks he said he felt like it was going too quickly and he wanted to slow things down. That was fine with me.\n\nBut now I just feel like he doesn't really give a shit about me or my feelings. In person he's a bit different, but over text I always feel like I'm annoying him by ever trying to talk to him. If he's feeling down or having a bad day I'll ask him what's up and try to make him feel better. If I say I'm feeling down he'll just respond with some stupid sad emoji. If I start talking about why I'm sad etc. he'll hardly say anything at all. \n\nEven stupid things like saying goodnight and good morning. There seems to be no affection behind anything he messages me. It's hurting me so much right now. I've not been feeling too great these last few days, and he hasn't been there for me at all. Maybe it'd be different if we were together in person but over text I just feel so lonely. I see him once or twice a week and it's fine then, but I don't normally feel sad when he's around so it wouldn't come up anyway. \n\nAnd then when I see my friends and their SOs, I just feel so sad because they seem like they care so much about each other."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 4 months now, and became exclusive pretty much straight away (his decision). It started off so well, he'd text me fairly often, he seemed to care about how my day was going and how I was feeling. stuff like that. But after a few weeks he said he felt like it was going too quickly and he wanted to slow things down. That was fine with me.\n\nBut now I just feel like he doesn't really give a shit about me or my feelings. In person he's a bit different, but over text I always feel like I'm annoying him by ever trying to talk to him. If he's feeling down or having a bad day I'll ask him what's up and try to make him feel better. If I say I'm feeling down he'll just respond with some stupid sad emoji. If I start talking about why I'm sad etc. he'll hardly say anything at all. \n\nEven stupid things like saying goodnight and good morning. There seems to be no affection behind anything he messages me. It's hurting me so much right now. I've not been feeling too great these last few days, and he hasn't been there for me at all. Maybe it'd be different if we were together in person but over text I just feel so lonely. I see him once or twice a week and it's fine then, but I don't normally feel sad when he's around so it wouldn't come up anyway. \n\nAnd then when I see my friends and their SOs, I just feel so sad because they seem like they care so much about each other."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 4 months now, and became exclusive pretty much straight away (his decision). It started off so well, he'd text me fairly often, he seemed to care about how my day was going and how I was feeling. stuff like that. But after a few weeks he said he felt like it was going too quickly and he wanted to slow things down. That was fine with me.\n\nBut now I just feel like he doesn't really give a shit about me or my feelings. In person he's a bit different, but over text I always feel like I'm annoying him by ever trying to talk to him. If he's feeling down or having a bad day I'll ask him what's up and try to make him feel better. If I say I'm feeling down he'll just respond with some stupid sad emoji. If I start talking about why I'm sad etc. he'll hardly say anything at all. \n\nEven stupid things like saying goodnight and good morning. There seems to be no affection behind anything he messages me. It's hurting me so much right now. I've not been feeling too great these last few days, and he hasn't been there for me at all. Maybe it'd be different if we were together in person but over text I just feel so lonely. I see him once or twice a week and it's fine then, but I don't normally feel sad when he's around so it wouldn't come up anyway. \n\nAnd then when I see my friends and their SOs, I just feel so sad because they seem like they care so much about each other."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 4 months now, and became exclusive pretty much straight away (his decision). It started off so well, he'd text me fairly often, he seemed to care about how my day was going and how I was feeling. stuff like that. But after a few weeks he said he felt like it was going too quickly and he wanted to slow things down. That was fine with me.\n\nBut now I just feel like he doesn't really give a shit about me or my feelings. In person he's a bit different, but over text I always feel like I'm annoying him by ever trying to talk to him. If he's feeling down or having a bad day I'll ask him what's up and try to make him feel better. If I say I'm feeling down he'll just respond with some stupid sad emoji. If I start talking about why I'm sad etc. he'll hardly say anything at all. \n\nEven stupid things like saying goodnight and good morning. There seems to be no affection behind anything he messages me. It's hurting me so much right now. I've not been feeling too great these last few days, and he hasn't been there for me at all. Maybe it'd be different if we were together in person but over text I just feel so lonely. I see him once or twice a week and it's fine then, but I don't normally feel sad when he's around so it wouldn't come up anyway. \n\nAnd then when I see my friends and their SOs, I just feel so sad because they seem like they care so much about each other."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 4 months now, and became exclusive pretty much straight away (his decision). It started off so well, he'd text me fairly often, he seemed to care about how my day was going and how I was feeling. stuff like that. But after a few weeks he said he felt like it was going too quickly and he wanted to slow things down. That was fine with me.\n\nBut now I just feel like he doesn't really give a shit about me or my feelings. In person he's a bit different, but over text I always feel like I'm annoying him by ever trying to talk to him. If he's feeling down or having a bad day I'll ask him what's up and try to make him feel better. If I say I'm feeling down he'll just respond with some stupid sad emoji. If I start talking about why I'm sad etc. he'll hardly say anything at all. \n\nEven stupid things like saying goodnight and good morning. There seems to be no affection behind anything he messages me. It's hurting me so much right now. I've not been feeling too great these last few days, and he hasn't been there for me at all. Maybe it'd be different if we were together in person but over text I just feel so lonely. I see him once or twice a week and it's fine then, but I don't normally feel sad when he's around so it wouldn't come up anyway. \n\nAnd then when I see my friends and their SOs, I just feel so sad because they seem like they care so much about each other."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we have been dating for ~7 months and it has been pretty great, but due to where we are in life (me- college grad working full time; her- unemployed, looking for job so she can afford school) i know there isnt a future between us. \n\ni know that this is going to hurt her, but i want to make the conversation as smooth as possible. i know there isnt a great way to be broken up with but (if possible) i would like to remain friends because she is an awesome girl.it's just that i want a relationship with someone where we can start building a life together and i just can't commit to a relationship with someone who is just starting to build their own life. we have had small talks about this in the past, but its always something we put off to deal with later and i cant deal with it anymore. since i know there isnt a future, its hard to stay enthusiastic about the relationship in the short term and i dont want us to leave on a sour note.\n\nive been thinking of talking about it with her and saying something to the extent of \"[lady friend], these past 7 months with you have been awesome, but i can't help but shake the idea that we have an expiration date. you are an amazing girl i have been honored to get to know and date for the past several months, but i can't commit to being in a relationship with you anymore. you have made some great personal strides since i have met you and you are on the right path, but you still have a lot to accomplish. between your schooling, figuring out your career path, and eventually finding a job you have a lot of life changing experiences in front of you, which is awesome, but i need to be with someone where we can start building a life together. if possible, i would like you to remain in life as a friend, but i cant be with you anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we have been dating for ~7 months and it has been pretty great, but due to where we are in life (me- college grad working full time; her- unemployed, looking for job so she can afford school) i know there isnt a future between us. \n\ni know that this is going to hurt her, but i want to make the conversation as smooth as possible. i know there isnt a great way to be broken up with but (if possible) i would like to remain friends because she is an awesome girl.it's just that i want a relationship with someone where we can start building a life together and i just can't commit to a relationship with someone who is just starting to build their own life. we have had small talks about this in the past, but its always something we put off to deal with later and i cant deal with it anymore. since i know there isnt a future, its hard to stay enthusiastic about the relationship in the short term and i dont want us to leave on a sour note.\n\nive been thinking of talking about it with her and saying something to the extent of \"[lady friend], these past 7 months with you have been awesome, but i can't help but shake the idea that we have an expiration date. you are an amazing girl i have been honored to get to know and date for the past several months, but i can't commit to being in a relationship with you anymore. you have made some great personal strides since i have met you and you are on the right path, but you still have a lot to accomplish. between your schooling, figuring out your career path, and eventually finding a job you have a lot of life changing experiences in front of you, which is awesome, but i need to be with someone where we can start building a life together. if possible, i would like you to remain in life as a friend, but i cant be with you anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we have been dating for ~7 months and it has been pretty great, but due to where we are in life (me- college grad working full time; her- unemployed, looking for job so she can afford school) i know there isnt a future between us. \n\ni know that this is going to hurt her, but i want to make the conversation as smooth as possible. i know there isnt a great way to be broken up with but (if possible) i would like to remain friends because she is an awesome girl.it's just that i want a relationship with someone where we can start building a life together and i just can't commit to a relationship with someone who is just starting to build their own life. we have had small talks about this in the past, but its always something we put off to deal with later and i cant deal with it anymore. since i know there isnt a future, its hard to stay enthusiastic about the relationship in the short term and i dont want us to leave on a sour note.\n\nive been thinking of talking about it with her and saying something to the extent of \"[lady friend], these past 7 months with you have been awesome, but i can't help but shake the idea that we have an expiration date. you are an amazing girl i have been honored to get to know and date for the past several months, but i can't commit to being in a relationship with you anymore. you have made some great personal strides since i have met you and you are on the right path, but you still have a lot to accomplish. between your schooling, figuring out your career path, and eventually finding a job you have a lot of life changing experiences in front of you, which is awesome, but i need to be with someone where we can start building a life together. if possible, i would like you to remain in life as a friend, but i cant be with you anymore."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we have been dating for ~7 months and it has been pretty great, but due to where we are in life (me- college grad working full time; her- unemployed, looking for job so she can afford school) i know there isnt a future between us. \n\ni know that this is going to hurt her, but i want to make the conversation as smooth as possible. i know there isnt a great way to be broken up with but (if possible) i would like to remain friends because she is an awesome girl.it's just that i want a relationship with someone where we can start building a life together and i just can't commit to a relationship with someone who is just starting to build their own life. we have had small talks about this in the past, but its always something we put off to deal with later and i cant deal with it anymore. since i know there isnt a future, its hard to stay enthusiastic about the relationship in the short term and i dont want us to leave on a sour note.\n\nive been thinking of talking about it with her and saying something to the extent of \"[lady friend], these past 7 months with you have been awesome, but i can't help but shake the idea that we have an expiration date. you are an amazing girl i have been honored to get to know and date for the past several months, but i can't commit to being in a relationship with you anymore. you have made some great personal strides since i have met you and you are on the right path, but you still have a lot to accomplish. between your schooling, figuring out your career path, and eventually finding a job you have a lot of life changing experiences in front of you, which is awesome, but i need to be with someone where we can start building a life together. if possible, i would like you to remain in life as a friend, but i cant be with you anymore."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we have been dating for ~7 months and it has been pretty great, but due to where we are in life (me- college grad working full time; her- unemployed, looking for job so she can afford school) i know there isnt a future between us. \n\ni know that this is going to hurt her, but i want to make the conversation as smooth as possible. i know there isnt a great way to be broken up with but (if possible) i would like to remain friends because she is an awesome girl.it's just that i want a relationship with someone where we can start building a life together and i just can't commit to a relationship with someone who is just starting to build their own life. we have had small talks about this in the past, but its always something we put off to deal with later and i cant deal with it anymore. since i know there isnt a future, its hard to stay enthusiastic about the relationship in the short term and i dont want us to leave on a sour note.\n\nive been thinking of talking about it with her and saying something to the extent of \"[lady friend], these past 7 months with you have been awesome, but i can't help but shake the idea that we have an expiration date. you are an amazing girl i have been honored to get to know and date for the past several months, but i can't commit to being in a relationship with you anymore. you have made some great personal strides since i have met you and you are on the right path, but you still have a lot to accomplish. between your schooling, figuring out your career path, and eventually finding a job you have a lot of life changing experiences in front of you, which is awesome, but i need to be with someone where we can start building a life together. if possible, i would like you to remain in life as a friend, but i cant be with you anymore."
} |
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