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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl 7 weeks ago. We started talking, and soon enough we were on our third date. She's very quiet, only had one boyfriend, and has a hard time even talking on the phone with me. We're not officially calling each other bf/gf. But we hold hands and have talked about it becoming a title soon. She lives in a city 3 hours away.\n\nShe has shared with me that she clearly wants to move forward, but she shuts down any time I want to talk to her on the phone, skype, or anything like that. We do really well when we have small talk over SMS, or in facebook messages that detail more complex feelings. \n\nWhat I'm trying to figure out is how to move forward with this. I really enjoy her, and I want to be a good thing in her life, not a stress. So how do I continue to express my desire to connect with her, and not be a stress on her life? I don't want to grow slowly apart because we don't talk and end up having a flop on the relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl 7 weeks ago. We started talking, and soon enough we were on our third date. She's very quiet, only had one boyfriend, and has a hard time even talking on the phone with me. We're not officially calling each other bf/gf. But we hold hands and have talked about it becoming a title soon. She lives in a city 3 hours away.\n\nShe has shared with me that she clearly wants to move forward, but she shuts down any time I want to talk to her on the phone, skype, or anything like that. We do really well when we have small talk over SMS, or in facebook messages that detail more complex feelings. \n\nWhat I'm trying to figure out is how to move forward with this. I really enjoy her, and I want to be a good thing in her life, not a stress. So how do I continue to express my desire to connect with her, and not be a stress on her life? I don't want to grow slowly apart because we don't talk and end up having a flop on the relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was with my wife for 7 years but it ended up falling apart. Though near the end we had a child, not a planned one by any means, but we kept it. We've always lived close to each other, and see him about 50/50 or as close to that. The thing is before all this I was planning to move, I don't like this town, it's boring and tiny, I wanna move to a big city or even move country. After the seperation I met another woman and we got along perfectly and I knew that seperating was for the best. The thing is she also wants to move with me but also HAS to move. Her career is taking her to another country next year and it might be a few years, it might be 10, it might be forever. I love her and really want to go with her.\nThe problem is I'm worried about my son. He's 3 now and I know as much as I stay in contact with him I won't physically see him for months at a time. I doubt his mom would ever want me taking him with us(though my girlfriend mentioned it would be ok with her) and either way means one of us won't see him as much.\nWhat can I do in this situation? Stay for the 50% I get with my son and leave my girlfriend, or go with her and leave this place like I always wanted but not see my son as much anymore? Either way I feel like I lose. :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was with my wife for 7 years but it ended up falling apart. Though near the end we had a child, not a planned one by any means, but we kept it. We've always lived close to each other, and see him about 50/50 or as close to that. The thing is before all this I was planning to move, I don't like this town, it's boring and tiny, I wanna move to a big city or even move country. After the seperation I met another woman and we got along perfectly and I knew that seperating was for the best. The thing is she also wants to move with me but also HAS to move. Her career is taking her to another country next year and it might be a few years, it might be 10, it might be forever. I love her and really want to go with her.\nThe problem is I'm worried about my son. He's 3 now and I know as much as I stay in contact with him I won't physically see him for months at a time. I doubt his mom would ever want me taking him with us(though my girlfriend mentioned it would be ok with her) and either way means one of us won't see him as much.\nWhat can I do in this situation? Stay for the 50% I get with my son and leave my girlfriend, or go with her and leave this place like I always wanted but not see my son as much anymore? Either way I feel like I lose. :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was with my wife for 7 years but it ended up falling apart. Though near the end we had a child, not a planned one by any means, but we kept it. We've always lived close to each other, and see him about 50/50 or as close to that. The thing is before all this I was planning to move, I don't like this town, it's boring and tiny, I wanna move to a big city or even move country. After the seperation I met another woman and we got along perfectly and I knew that seperating was for the best. The thing is she also wants to move with me but also HAS to move. Her career is taking her to another country next year and it might be a few years, it might be 10, it might be forever. I love her and really want to go with her.\nThe problem is I'm worried about my son. He's 3 now and I know as much as I stay in contact with him I won't physically see him for months at a time. I doubt his mom would ever want me taking him with us(though my girlfriend mentioned it would be ok with her) and either way means one of us won't see him as much.\nWhat can I do in this situation? Stay for the 50% I get with my son and leave my girlfriend, or go with her and leave this place like I always wanted but not see my son as much anymore? Either way I feel like I lose. :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was with my wife for 7 years but it ended up falling apart. Though near the end we had a child, not a planned one by any means, but we kept it. We've always lived close to each other, and see him about 50/50 or as close to that. The thing is before all this I was planning to move, I don't like this town, it's boring and tiny, I wanna move to a big city or even move country. After the seperation I met another woman and we got along perfectly and I knew that seperating was for the best. The thing is she also wants to move with me but also HAS to move. Her career is taking her to another country next year and it might be a few years, it might be 10, it might be forever. I love her and really want to go with her.\nThe problem is I'm worried about my son. He's 3 now and I know as much as I stay in contact with him I won't physically see him for months at a time. I doubt his mom would ever want me taking him with us(though my girlfriend mentioned it would be ok with her) and either way means one of us won't see him as much.\nWhat can I do in this situation? Stay for the 50% I get with my son and leave my girlfriend, or go with her and leave this place like I always wanted but not see my son as much anymore? Either way I feel like I lose. :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was with my wife for 7 years but it ended up falling apart. Though near the end we had a child, not a planned one by any means, but we kept it. We've always lived close to each other, and see him about 50/50 or as close to that. The thing is before all this I was planning to move, I don't like this town, it's boring and tiny, I wanna move to a big city or even move country. After the seperation I met another woman and we got along perfectly and I knew that seperating was for the best. The thing is she also wants to move with me but also HAS to move. Her career is taking her to another country next year and it might be a few years, it might be 10, it might be forever. I love her and really want to go with her.\nThe problem is I'm worried about my son. He's 3 now and I know as much as I stay in contact with him I won't physically see him for months at a time. I doubt his mom would ever want me taking him with us(though my girlfriend mentioned it would be ok with her) and either way means one of us won't see him as much.\nWhat can I do in this situation? Stay for the 50% I get with my son and leave my girlfriend, or go with her and leave this place like I always wanted but not see my son as much anymore? Either way I feel like I lose. :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was with my wife for 7 years but it ended up falling apart. Though near the end we had a child, not a planned one by any means, but we kept it. We've always lived close to each other, and see him about 50/50 or as close to that. The thing is before all this I was planning to move, I don't like this town, it's boring and tiny, I wanna move to a big city or even move country. After the seperation I met another woman and we got along perfectly and I knew that seperating was for the best. The thing is she also wants to move with me but also HAS to move. Her career is taking her to another country next year and it might be a few years, it might be 10, it might be forever. I love her and really want to go with her.\nThe problem is I'm worried about my son. He's 3 now and I know as much as I stay in contact with him I won't physically see him for months at a time. I doubt his mom would ever want me taking him with us(though my girlfriend mentioned it would be ok with her) and either way means one of us won't see him as much.\nWhat can I do in this situation? Stay for the 50% I get with my son and leave my girlfriend, or go with her and leave this place like I always wanted but not see my son as much anymore? Either way I feel like I lose. :("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My *gf(18)* started taking *birth control almost a month ago(3 month relationship; ongoing)*. A couple days after she started shes been less happy, more tired, and completely pissed, at *me(20)* thou. She claims everything I do is wrong and always my fault. If I bring the thought of maybe its the pills she rages on me. She tells me I'm lucky if she lets me even see her. I ask her what I do that is wrong but its always 'everything'. She hasn't went through a full day without getting at me for something random even if I wasn't there. She seems to *only attack me* with this anger and lately its so emotional it's making me want to leave but I do love her. Even a happy \"I love you text\" once in a while is *now considered 'CLINGY'*. She never started this way. I'm hoping it's the pills because I don't want to leave her. Any ideas?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My *gf(18)* started taking *birth control almost a month ago(3 month relationship; ongoing)*. A couple days after she started shes been less happy, more tired, and completely pissed, at *me(20)* thou. She claims everything I do is wrong and always my fault. If I bring the thought of maybe its the pills she rages on me. She tells me I'm lucky if she lets me even see her. I ask her what I do that is wrong but its always 'everything'. She hasn't went through a full day without getting at me for something random even if I wasn't there. She seems to *only attack me* with this anger and lately its so emotional it's making me want to leave but I do love her. Even a happy \"I love you text\" once in a while is *now considered 'CLINGY'*. She never started this way. I'm hoping it's the pills because I don't want to leave her. Any ideas?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My *gf(18)* started taking *birth control almost a month ago(3 month relationship; ongoing)*. A couple days after she started shes been less happy, more tired, and completely pissed, at *me(20)* thou. She claims everything I do is wrong and always my fault. If I bring the thought of maybe its the pills she rages on me. She tells me I'm lucky if she lets me even see her. I ask her what I do that is wrong but its always 'everything'. She hasn't went through a full day without getting at me for something random even if I wasn't there. She seems to *only attack me* with this anger and lately its so emotional it's making me want to leave but I do love her. Even a happy \"I love you text\" once in a while is *now considered 'CLINGY'*. She never started this way. I'm hoping it's the pills because I don't want to leave her. Any ideas?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My *gf(18)* started taking *birth control almost a month ago(3 month relationship; ongoing)*. A couple days after she started shes been less happy, more tired, and completely pissed, at *me(20)* thou. She claims everything I do is wrong and always my fault. If I bring the thought of maybe its the pills she rages on me. She tells me I'm lucky if she lets me even see her. I ask her what I do that is wrong but its always 'everything'. She hasn't went through a full day without getting at me for something random even if I wasn't there. She seems to *only attack me* with this anger and lately its so emotional it's making me want to leave but I do love her. Even a happy \"I love you text\" once in a while is *now considered 'CLINGY'*. She never started this way. I'm hoping it's the pills because I don't want to leave her. Any ideas?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My *gf(18)* started taking *birth control almost a month ago(3 month relationship; ongoing)*. A couple days after she started shes been less happy, more tired, and completely pissed, at *me(20)* thou. She claims everything I do is wrong and always my fault. If I bring the thought of maybe its the pills she rages on me. She tells me I'm lucky if she lets me even see her. I ask her what I do that is wrong but its always 'everything'. She hasn't went through a full day without getting at me for something random even if I wasn't there. She seems to *only attack me* with this anger and lately its so emotional it's making me want to leave but I do love her. Even a happy \"I love you text\" once in a while is *now considered 'CLINGY'*. She never started this way. I'm hoping it's the pills because I don't want to leave her. Any ideas?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My *gf(18)* started taking *birth control almost a month ago(3 month relationship; ongoing)*. A couple days after she started shes been less happy, more tired, and completely pissed, at *me(20)* thou. She claims everything I do is wrong and always my fault. If I bring the thought of maybe its the pills she rages on me. She tells me I'm lucky if she lets me even see her. I ask her what I do that is wrong but its always 'everything'. She hasn't went through a full day without getting at me for something random even if I wasn't there. She seems to *only attack me* with this anger and lately its so emotional it's making me want to leave but I do love her. Even a happy \"I love you text\" once in a while is *now considered 'CLINGY'*. She never started this way. I'm hoping it's the pills because I don't want to leave her. Any ideas?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Iv talked to a few of my friends about this but i need a neutral partys input aswell. This is driving me crazy.\n\nSo heres the problem. Im dating this girl ( dur ) but in the process of dating her, i lost who use to be my best friend. He stabbed me in the back multiple times, and i did the same to him. But since we started dating he is always trying to get her to change her mind and dump me. It wouldnt be so bad but she texts him 24/7 it seems, she texts him even when shes with me. This is making me really unhappy in the relationship and im not sure what to do"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Iv talked to a few of my friends about this but i need a neutral partys input aswell. This is driving me crazy.\n\nSo heres the problem. Im dating this girl ( dur ) but in the process of dating her, i lost who use to be my best friend. He stabbed me in the back multiple times, and i did the same to him. But since we started dating he is always trying to get her to change her mind and dump me. It wouldnt be so bad but she texts him 24/7 it seems, she texts him even when shes with me. This is making me really unhappy in the relationship and im not sure what to do"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Iv talked to a few of my friends about this but i need a neutral partys input aswell. This is driving me crazy.\n\nSo heres the problem. Im dating this girl ( dur ) but in the process of dating her, i lost who use to be my best friend. He stabbed me in the back multiple times, and i did the same to him. But since we started dating he is always trying to get her to change her mind and dump me. It wouldnt be so bad but she texts him 24/7 it seems, she texts him even when shes with me. This is making me really unhappy in the relationship and im not sure what to do"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\nMy boyfriend is one of the greatest men I have ever been with and we have both even discussed spending our lives together. That being said, I have trust issues. I snooped on his facebook profile about two months ago and saw a conversation between him and a 17 year old girl from his work (he works at a grocery store). She was attractive and flirty with him, but it was all pretty innocent. My boyfriend messaged her first so it made me wonder if he messaged her because he liked her or something, and I have been obsessing about it ever since. \n\nI actually admitted to him what I did shortly after. He explained that she is just a friend and that he didn't really realize that the messages were as flirty as they were. He said he just saw she was online and they had talked at work earlier that day and he wanted to say hello.\n\nOne thing that is important to note about my boyfriend is that he is VERY friendly. At his job, everyone knows him and likes him. He talks to guys and girls alike. \n\nI do know deep down that he loves me and we have a great relationship. I feel like I am going to ruin the wonderful thing we have if I can't get passed this. Why can't I just let it go? I know this is all my fault because I snooped. \n\nI guess my question is how can I let this go? And I SHOULD let it go right? He hasn't given me a real reason not to trust him right? Can guys and girls really be just friends like that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\nMy boyfriend is one of the greatest men I have ever been with and we have both even discussed spending our lives together. That being said, I have trust issues. I snooped on his facebook profile about two months ago and saw a conversation between him and a 17 year old girl from his work (he works at a grocery store). She was attractive and flirty with him, but it was all pretty innocent. My boyfriend messaged her first so it made me wonder if he messaged her because he liked her or something, and I have been obsessing about it ever since. \n\nI actually admitted to him what I did shortly after. He explained that she is just a friend and that he didn't really realize that the messages were as flirty as they were. He said he just saw she was online and they had talked at work earlier that day and he wanted to say hello.\n\nOne thing that is important to note about my boyfriend is that he is VERY friendly. At his job, everyone knows him and likes him. He talks to guys and girls alike. \n\nI do know deep down that he loves me and we have a great relationship. I feel like I am going to ruin the wonderful thing we have if I can't get passed this. Why can't I just let it go? I know this is all my fault because I snooped. \n\nI guess my question is how can I let this go? And I SHOULD let it go right? He hasn't given me a real reason not to trust him right? Can guys and girls really be just friends like that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\nMy boyfriend is one of the greatest men I have ever been with and we have both even discussed spending our lives together. That being said, I have trust issues. I snooped on his facebook profile about two months ago and saw a conversation between him and a 17 year old girl from his work (he works at a grocery store). She was attractive and flirty with him, but it was all pretty innocent. My boyfriend messaged her first so it made me wonder if he messaged her because he liked her or something, and I have been obsessing about it ever since. \n\nI actually admitted to him what I did shortly after. He explained that she is just a friend and that he didn't really realize that the messages were as flirty as they were. He said he just saw she was online and they had talked at work earlier that day and he wanted to say hello.\n\nOne thing that is important to note about my boyfriend is that he is VERY friendly. At his job, everyone knows him and likes him. He talks to guys and girls alike. \n\nI do know deep down that he loves me and we have a great relationship. I feel like I am going to ruin the wonderful thing we have if I can't get passed this. Why can't I just let it go? I know this is all my fault because I snooped. \n\nI guess my question is how can I let this go? And I SHOULD let it go right? He hasn't given me a real reason not to trust him right? Can guys and girls really be just friends like that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\nMy boyfriend is one of the greatest men I have ever been with and we have both even discussed spending our lives together. That being said, I have trust issues. I snooped on his facebook profile about two months ago and saw a conversation between him and a 17 year old girl from his work (he works at a grocery store). She was attractive and flirty with him, but it was all pretty innocent. My boyfriend messaged her first so it made me wonder if he messaged her because he liked her or something, and I have been obsessing about it ever since. \n\nI actually admitted to him what I did shortly after. He explained that she is just a friend and that he didn't really realize that the messages were as flirty as they were. He said he just saw she was online and they had talked at work earlier that day and he wanted to say hello.\n\nOne thing that is important to note about my boyfriend is that he is VERY friendly. At his job, everyone knows him and likes him. He talks to guys and girls alike. \n\nI do know deep down that he loves me and we have a great relationship. I feel like I am going to ruin the wonderful thing we have if I can't get passed this. Why can't I just let it go? I know this is all my fault because I snooped. \n\nI guess my question is how can I let this go? And I SHOULD let it go right? He hasn't given me a real reason not to trust him right? Can guys and girls really be just friends like that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\nMy boyfriend is one of the greatest men I have ever been with and we have both even discussed spending our lives together. That being said, I have trust issues. I snooped on his facebook profile about two months ago and saw a conversation between him and a 17 year old girl from his work (he works at a grocery store). She was attractive and flirty with him, but it was all pretty innocent. My boyfriend messaged her first so it made me wonder if he messaged her because he liked her or something, and I have been obsessing about it ever since. \n\nI actually admitted to him what I did shortly after. He explained that she is just a friend and that he didn't really realize that the messages were as flirty as they were. He said he just saw she was online and they had talked at work earlier that day and he wanted to say hello.\n\nOne thing that is important to note about my boyfriend is that he is VERY friendly. At his job, everyone knows him and likes him. He talks to guys and girls alike. \n\nI do know deep down that he loves me and we have a great relationship. I feel like I am going to ruin the wonderful thing we have if I can't get passed this. Why can't I just let it go? I know this is all my fault because I snooped. \n\nI guess my question is how can I let this go? And I SHOULD let it go right? He hasn't given me a real reason not to trust him right? Can guys and girls really be just friends like that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\nMy boyfriend is one of the greatest men I have ever been with and we have both even discussed spending our lives together. That being said, I have trust issues. I snooped on his facebook profile about two months ago and saw a conversation between him and a 17 year old girl from his work (he works at a grocery store). She was attractive and flirty with him, but it was all pretty innocent. My boyfriend messaged her first so it made me wonder if he messaged her because he liked her or something, and I have been obsessing about it ever since. \n\nI actually admitted to him what I did shortly after. He explained that she is just a friend and that he didn't really realize that the messages were as flirty as they were. He said he just saw she was online and they had talked at work earlier that day and he wanted to say hello.\n\nOne thing that is important to note about my boyfriend is that he is VERY friendly. At his job, everyone knows him and likes him. He talks to guys and girls alike. \n\nI do know deep down that he loves me and we have a great relationship. I feel like I am going to ruin the wonderful thing we have if I can't get passed this. Why can't I just let it go? I know this is all my fault because I snooped. \n\nI guess my question is how can I let this go? And I SHOULD let it go right? He hasn't given me a real reason not to trust him right? Can guys and girls really be just friends like that?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm actually posting this for my little sister who doesn't reddit, she typed the following:\n\nSo I'm in grade 12 and facing a lot of problems with prom. \n\nMy friend Nancy had an assumption that she was going to go to prom with a guy named Zach. They're not dating or anything and hadn't even talked about prom. \n\nMe and the rest of Nancy's friends knew she wanted to go with him, but we didn't know if Zach actually wanted to go with her.\n\nAs a joke, I told Zach that we should go to prom together. He took it seriously, and told me he wanted to go with me. I said yes. \n\nNancy was really upset with me because she knew that I knew she wanted to go with him. But he told me that he was not even thinking about her and didn't want to go with her.\n\nAll of my friends are pissed at me for doing this to her, and they are telling me to tell Zach I can't go with him anymore. But if I do that, they probably still won't forgive me, and then I won't have a date. They refuse to talk to me because of this. I have other friends so it's not like I'm completely alone, but I'm trying to decide what I should do?\n\nShould I tell Zach I can't go with him so that my friends might forgive me, or should I just go with him and forget about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm actually posting this for my little sister who doesn't reddit, she typed the following:\n\nSo I'm in grade 12 and facing a lot of problems with prom. \n\nMy friend Nancy had an assumption that she was going to go to prom with a guy named Zach. They're not dating or anything and hadn't even talked about prom. \n\nMe and the rest of Nancy's friends knew she wanted to go with him, but we didn't know if Zach actually wanted to go with her.\n\nAs a joke, I told Zach that we should go to prom together. He took it seriously, and told me he wanted to go with me. I said yes. \n\nNancy was really upset with me because she knew that I knew she wanted to go with him. But he told me that he was not even thinking about her and didn't want to go with her.\n\nAll of my friends are pissed at me for doing this to her, and they are telling me to tell Zach I can't go with him anymore. But if I do that, they probably still won't forgive me, and then I won't have a date. They refuse to talk to me because of this. I have other friends so it's not like I'm completely alone, but I'm trying to decide what I should do?\n\nShould I tell Zach I can't go with him so that my friends might forgive me, or should I just go with him and forget about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm actually posting this for my little sister who doesn't reddit, she typed the following:\n\nSo I'm in grade 12 and facing a lot of problems with prom. \n\nMy friend Nancy had an assumption that she was going to go to prom with a guy named Zach. They're not dating or anything and hadn't even talked about prom. \n\nMe and the rest of Nancy's friends knew she wanted to go with him, but we didn't know if Zach actually wanted to go with her.\n\nAs a joke, I told Zach that we should go to prom together. He took it seriously, and told me he wanted to go with me. I said yes. \n\nNancy was really upset with me because she knew that I knew she wanted to go with him. But he told me that he was not even thinking about her and didn't want to go with her.\n\nAll of my friends are pissed at me for doing this to her, and they are telling me to tell Zach I can't go with him anymore. But if I do that, they probably still won't forgive me, and then I won't have a date. They refuse to talk to me because of this. I have other friends so it's not like I'm completely alone, but I'm trying to decide what I should do?\n\nShould I tell Zach I can't go with him so that my friends might forgive me, or should I just go with him and forget about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm actually posting this for my little sister who doesn't reddit, she typed the following:\n\nSo I'm in grade 12 and facing a lot of problems with prom. \n\nMy friend Nancy had an assumption that she was going to go to prom with a guy named Zach. They're not dating or anything and hadn't even talked about prom. \n\nMe and the rest of Nancy's friends knew she wanted to go with him, but we didn't know if Zach actually wanted to go with her.\n\nAs a joke, I told Zach that we should go to prom together. He took it seriously, and told me he wanted to go with me. I said yes. \n\nNancy was really upset with me because she knew that I knew she wanted to go with him. But he told me that he was not even thinking about her and didn't want to go with her.\n\nAll of my friends are pissed at me for doing this to her, and they are telling me to tell Zach I can't go with him anymore. But if I do that, they probably still won't forgive me, and then I won't have a date. They refuse to talk to me because of this. I have other friends so it's not like I'm completely alone, but I'm trying to decide what I should do?\n\nShould I tell Zach I can't go with him so that my friends might forgive me, or should I just go with him and forget about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm actually posting this for my little sister who doesn't reddit, she typed the following:\n\nSo I'm in grade 12 and facing a lot of problems with prom. \n\nMy friend Nancy had an assumption that she was going to go to prom with a guy named Zach. They're not dating or anything and hadn't even talked about prom. \n\nMe and the rest of Nancy's friends knew she wanted to go with him, but we didn't know if Zach actually wanted to go with her.\n\nAs a joke, I told Zach that we should go to prom together. He took it seriously, and told me he wanted to go with me. I said yes. \n\nNancy was really upset with me because she knew that I knew she wanted to go with him. But he told me that he was not even thinking about her and didn't want to go with her.\n\nAll of my friends are pissed at me for doing this to her, and they are telling me to tell Zach I can't go with him anymore. But if I do that, they probably still won't forgive me, and then I won't have a date. They refuse to talk to me because of this. I have other friends so it's not like I'm completely alone, but I'm trying to decide what I should do?\n\nShould I tell Zach I can't go with him so that my friends might forgive me, or should I just go with him and forget about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm actually posting this for my little sister who doesn't reddit, she typed the following:\n\nSo I'm in grade 12 and facing a lot of problems with prom. \n\nMy friend Nancy had an assumption that she was going to go to prom with a guy named Zach. They're not dating or anything and hadn't even talked about prom. \n\nMe and the rest of Nancy's friends knew she wanted to go with him, but we didn't know if Zach actually wanted to go with her.\n\nAs a joke, I told Zach that we should go to prom together. He took it seriously, and told me he wanted to go with me. I said yes. \n\nNancy was really upset with me because she knew that I knew she wanted to go with him. But he told me that he was not even thinking about her and didn't want to go with her.\n\nAll of my friends are pissed at me for doing this to her, and they are telling me to tell Zach I can't go with him anymore. But if I do that, they probably still won't forgive me, and then I won't have a date. They refuse to talk to me because of this. I have other friends so it's not like I'm completely alone, but I'm trying to decide what I should do?\n\nShould I tell Zach I can't go with him so that my friends might forgive me, or should I just go with him and forget about it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm feel extremely bad for the guy I'm currently seeing. We've been on-off for about a year now.\n\nAfter we went on a date, I noticed that suddenly his mood changed for the worse while he was texting someone. I asked if I could help him or what was wrong but he brushed it off saying that he could handle it. I didn't want to bother him furthermore so I left it at that.\nAfter I left his apartment, I found out that his crazy ex-gf \nwent to his place and then jumped through the window and died.\n\nHe saw her died, and I cannot imagine what went through his mind. This happened a couple months ago.\n\nI don't know how to approach the situation with him. \nIs it okay for me to ask about his relationship with her? Is it okay to ask what she said in the texts?\nShould I just leave him alone? Do I have any right to know what went on between them?\nHow should I be supportive?\n\nSorry for so many questions. It's just very confusing and saddening. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm feel extremely bad for the guy I'm currently seeing. We've been on-off for about a year now.\n\nAfter we went on a date, I noticed that suddenly his mood changed for the worse while he was texting someone. I asked if I could help him or what was wrong but he brushed it off saying that he could handle it. I didn't want to bother him furthermore so I left it at that.\nAfter I left his apartment, I found out that his crazy ex-gf \nwent to his place and then jumped through the window and died.\n\nHe saw her died, and I cannot imagine what went through his mind. This happened a couple months ago.\n\nI don't know how to approach the situation with him. \nIs it okay for me to ask about his relationship with her? Is it okay to ask what she said in the texts?\nShould I just leave him alone? Do I have any right to know what went on between them?\nHow should I be supportive?\n\nSorry for so many questions. It's just very confusing and saddening. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm feel extremely bad for the guy I'm currently seeing. We've been on-off for about a year now.\n\nAfter we went on a date, I noticed that suddenly his mood changed for the worse while he was texting someone. I asked if I could help him or what was wrong but he brushed it off saying that he could handle it. I didn't want to bother him furthermore so I left it at that.\nAfter I left his apartment, I found out that his crazy ex-gf \nwent to his place and then jumped through the window and died.\n\nHe saw her died, and I cannot imagine what went through his mind. This happened a couple months ago.\n\nI don't know how to approach the situation with him. \nIs it okay for me to ask about his relationship with her? Is it okay to ask what she said in the texts?\nShould I just leave him alone? Do I have any right to know what went on between them?\nHow should I be supportive?\n\nSorry for so many questions. It's just very confusing and saddening. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm feel extremely bad for the guy I'm currently seeing. We've been on-off for about a year now.\n\nAfter we went on a date, I noticed that suddenly his mood changed for the worse while he was texting someone. I asked if I could help him or what was wrong but he brushed it off saying that he could handle it. I didn't want to bother him furthermore so I left it at that.\nAfter I left his apartment, I found out that his crazy ex-gf \nwent to his place and then jumped through the window and died.\n\nHe saw her died, and I cannot imagine what went through his mind. This happened a couple months ago.\n\nI don't know how to approach the situation with him. \nIs it okay for me to ask about his relationship with her? Is it okay to ask what she said in the texts?\nShould I just leave him alone? Do I have any right to know what went on between them?\nHow should I be supportive?\n\nSorry for so many questions. It's just very confusing and saddening. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm feel extremely bad for the guy I'm currently seeing. We've been on-off for about a year now.\n\nAfter we went on a date, I noticed that suddenly his mood changed for the worse while he was texting someone. I asked if I could help him or what was wrong but he brushed it off saying that he could handle it. I didn't want to bother him furthermore so I left it at that.\nAfter I left his apartment, I found out that his crazy ex-gf \nwent to his place and then jumped through the window and died.\n\nHe saw her died, and I cannot imagine what went through his mind. This happened a couple months ago.\n\nI don't know how to approach the situation with him. \nIs it okay for me to ask about his relationship with her? Is it okay to ask what she said in the texts?\nShould I just leave him alone? Do I have any right to know what went on between them?\nHow should I be supportive?\n\nSorry for so many questions. It's just very confusing and saddening. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: People of the General Public,\n\nWhen you witness a Mother struggling with the biggest, fuckall, dragout, knockdown, galaxy bursting, rubber room inducing, deathmatch grand mal tantrum of her small child in public (namely, the market.a necessary evil).please don't think that you're helping matters by making funny faces at or otherwise attempting contact with said small child. Said Mother is trying everything within her tactical means, short of cataclysmic blowup, to calm said child. Do not interrupt. Should you feel that you are somehow \"helping\" this Mother or that you in some way find this Mother mean because she is simply trying to calmly quell this level 3 hurricane-like event.please search your innermost for another feeling or something else to uselessly conquest. In fact, you are being a douchecanoe of epic proportion. Also, on the sticky note next to this fun reminder, please address the parent first before you creepily address a small child in public. Those of you who feel that you have some sort of special stranger magic are delusional. You are strangers, and not making eye contact with or acknowledging the guardian of a fledgling is just plain disrespectful. Also, physically removing your eyeballs and shoving them in our general direction for a prolonged period as if this is a new and exciting thing in the daily regimen of life is just plain rude."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: People of the General Public,\n\nWhen you witness a Mother struggling with the biggest, fuckall, dragout, knockdown, galaxy bursting, rubber room inducing, deathmatch grand mal tantrum of her small child in public (namely, the market.a necessary evil).please don't think that you're helping matters by making funny faces at or otherwise attempting contact with said small child. Said Mother is trying everything within her tactical means, short of cataclysmic blowup, to calm said child. Do not interrupt. Should you feel that you are somehow \"helping\" this Mother or that you in some way find this Mother mean because she is simply trying to calmly quell this level 3 hurricane-like event.please search your innermost for another feeling or something else to uselessly conquest. In fact, you are being a douchecanoe of epic proportion. Also, on the sticky note next to this fun reminder, please address the parent first before you creepily address a small child in public. Those of you who feel that you have some sort of special stranger magic are delusional. You are strangers, and not making eye contact with or acknowledging the guardian of a fledgling is just plain disrespectful. Also, physically removing your eyeballs and shoving them in our general direction for a prolonged period as if this is a new and exciting thing in the daily regimen of life is just plain rude."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: People of the General Public,\n\nWhen you witness a Mother struggling with the biggest, fuckall, dragout, knockdown, galaxy bursting, rubber room inducing, deathmatch grand mal tantrum of her small child in public (namely, the market.a necessary evil).please don't think that you're helping matters by making funny faces at or otherwise attempting contact with said small child. Said Mother is trying everything within her tactical means, short of cataclysmic blowup, to calm said child. Do not interrupt. Should you feel that you are somehow \"helping\" this Mother or that you in some way find this Mother mean because she is simply trying to calmly quell this level 3 hurricane-like event.please search your innermost for another feeling or something else to uselessly conquest. In fact, you are being a douchecanoe of epic proportion. Also, on the sticky note next to this fun reminder, please address the parent first before you creepily address a small child in public. Those of you who feel that you have some sort of special stranger magic are delusional. You are strangers, and not making eye contact with or acknowledging the guardian of a fledgling is just plain disrespectful. Also, physically removing your eyeballs and shoving them in our general direction for a prolonged period as if this is a new and exciting thing in the daily regimen of life is just plain rude."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: People of the General Public,\n\nWhen you witness a Mother struggling with the biggest, fuckall, dragout, knockdown, galaxy bursting, rubber room inducing, deathmatch grand mal tantrum of her small child in public (namely, the market.a necessary evil).please don't think that you're helping matters by making funny faces at or otherwise attempting contact with said small child. Said Mother is trying everything within her tactical means, short of cataclysmic blowup, to calm said child. Do not interrupt. Should you feel that you are somehow \"helping\" this Mother or that you in some way find this Mother mean because she is simply trying to calmly quell this level 3 hurricane-like event.please search your innermost for another feeling or something else to uselessly conquest. In fact, you are being a douchecanoe of epic proportion. Also, on the sticky note next to this fun reminder, please address the parent first before you creepily address a small child in public. Those of you who feel that you have some sort of special stranger magic are delusional. You are strangers, and not making eye contact with or acknowledging the guardian of a fledgling is just plain disrespectful. Also, physically removing your eyeballs and shoving them in our general direction for a prolonged period as if this is a new and exciting thing in the daily regimen of life is just plain rude."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: People of the General Public,\n\nWhen you witness a Mother struggling with the biggest, fuckall, dragout, knockdown, galaxy bursting, rubber room inducing, deathmatch grand mal tantrum of her small child in public (namely, the market.a necessary evil).please don't think that you're helping matters by making funny faces at or otherwise attempting contact with said small child. Said Mother is trying everything within her tactical means, short of cataclysmic blowup, to calm said child. Do not interrupt. Should you feel that you are somehow \"helping\" this Mother or that you in some way find this Mother mean because she is simply trying to calmly quell this level 3 hurricane-like event.please search your innermost for another feeling or something else to uselessly conquest. In fact, you are being a douchecanoe of epic proportion. Also, on the sticky note next to this fun reminder, please address the parent first before you creepily address a small child in public. Those of you who feel that you have some sort of special stranger magic are delusional. You are strangers, and not making eye contact with or acknowledging the guardian of a fledgling is just plain disrespectful. Also, physically removing your eyeballs and shoving them in our general direction for a prolonged period as if this is a new and exciting thing in the daily regimen of life is just plain rude."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: People of the General Public,\n\nWhen you witness a Mother struggling with the biggest, fuckall, dragout, knockdown, galaxy bursting, rubber room inducing, deathmatch grand mal tantrum of her small child in public (namely, the market.a necessary evil).please don't think that you're helping matters by making funny faces at or otherwise attempting contact with said small child. Said Mother is trying everything within her tactical means, short of cataclysmic blowup, to calm said child. Do not interrupt. Should you feel that you are somehow \"helping\" this Mother or that you in some way find this Mother mean because she is simply trying to calmly quell this level 3 hurricane-like event.please search your innermost for another feeling or something else to uselessly conquest. In fact, you are being a douchecanoe of epic proportion. Also, on the sticky note next to this fun reminder, please address the parent first before you creepily address a small child in public. Those of you who feel that you have some sort of special stranger magic are delusional. You are strangers, and not making eye contact with or acknowledging the guardian of a fledgling is just plain disrespectful. Also, physically removing your eyeballs and shoving them in our general direction for a prolonged period as if this is a new and exciting thing in the daily regimen of life is just plain rude."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/running\nI’m a blank slate for you. A 19 year old male college student, physically fit in terms of strength, fairly lean, but absolutely crap cardio. Assume I haven't played sports regularly or ran since high school, and even then, I was bad. Right now, assume that I have a 8:30 mile without straining that hard.\n\nNow assume that I want to improve my cardiovascular health, to be able to do simple stuff like go on hikes and play sports without getting winded. What program would you recommend for this? Running gradually longer distances at a comfortable pace? Aiming to get a better time on smaller distance (1-2 miles)? Even HIIT?\n\nNote: I don't want the obvious answers like 'Just go do what you want to do- you'll get better at them by doing. Do what's fun.' Assume I'm dedicated to what you'd give me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/running\nI’m a blank slate for you. A 19 year old male college student, physically fit in terms of strength, fairly lean, but absolutely crap cardio. Assume I haven't played sports regularly or ran since high school, and even then, I was bad. Right now, assume that I have a 8:30 mile without straining that hard.\n\nNow assume that I want to improve my cardiovascular health, to be able to do simple stuff like go on hikes and play sports without getting winded. What program would you recommend for this? Running gradually longer distances at a comfortable pace? Aiming to get a better time on smaller distance (1-2 miles)? Even HIIT?\n\nNote: I don't want the obvious answers like 'Just go do what you want to do- you'll get better at them by doing. Do what's fun.' Assume I'm dedicated to what you'd give me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/running\nI’m a blank slate for you. A 19 year old male college student, physically fit in terms of strength, fairly lean, but absolutely crap cardio. Assume I haven't played sports regularly or ran since high school, and even then, I was bad. Right now, assume that I have a 8:30 mile without straining that hard.\n\nNow assume that I want to improve my cardiovascular health, to be able to do simple stuff like go on hikes and play sports without getting winded. What program would you recommend for this? Running gradually longer distances at a comfortable pace? Aiming to get a better time on smaller distance (1-2 miles)? Even HIIT?\n\nNote: I don't want the obvious answers like 'Just go do what you want to do- you'll get better at them by doing. Do what's fun.' Assume I'm dedicated to what you'd give me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/running\nI’m a blank slate for you. A 19 year old male college student, physically fit in terms of strength, fairly lean, but absolutely crap cardio. Assume I haven't played sports regularly or ran since high school, and even then, I was bad. Right now, assume that I have a 8:30 mile without straining that hard.\n\nNow assume that I want to improve my cardiovascular health, to be able to do simple stuff like go on hikes and play sports without getting winded. What program would you recommend for this? Running gradually longer distances at a comfortable pace? Aiming to get a better time on smaller distance (1-2 miles)? Even HIIT?\n\nNote: I don't want the obvious answers like 'Just go do what you want to do- you'll get better at them by doing. Do what's fun.' Assume I'm dedicated to what you'd give me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/running\nI’m a blank slate for you. A 19 year old male college student, physically fit in terms of strength, fairly lean, but absolutely crap cardio. Assume I haven't played sports regularly or ran since high school, and even then, I was bad. Right now, assume that I have a 8:30 mile without straining that hard.\n\nNow assume that I want to improve my cardiovascular health, to be able to do simple stuff like go on hikes and play sports without getting winded. What program would you recommend for this? Running gradually longer distances at a comfortable pace? Aiming to get a better time on smaller distance (1-2 miles)? Even HIIT?\n\nNote: I don't want the obvious answers like 'Just go do what you want to do- you'll get better at them by doing. Do what's fun.' Assume I'm dedicated to what you'd give me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/running\nI’m a blank slate for you. A 19 year old male college student, physically fit in terms of strength, fairly lean, but absolutely crap cardio. Assume I haven't played sports regularly or ran since high school, and even then, I was bad. Right now, assume that I have a 8:30 mile without straining that hard.\n\nNow assume that I want to improve my cardiovascular health, to be able to do simple stuff like go on hikes and play sports without getting winded. What program would you recommend for this? Running gradually longer distances at a comfortable pace? Aiming to get a better time on smaller distance (1-2 miles)? Even HIIT?\n\nNote: I don't want the obvious answers like 'Just go do what you want to do- you'll get better at them by doing. Do what's fun.' Assume I'm dedicated to what you'd give me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my girlfriend for one year. We had a very romantic beginning and have gone from long distance to living together in that time. We have lived together for 6 months and we are amazing together.\n\nWe are both very much in love and tell each other so on a daily basis. We argue over small things occasionally and it has finally dawned on me why.\n\n She is an extremely committed christian. I was luke warm about it at best when we got together. Now after attending church with her and studying the bible with her i am more certain than ever in my life that i have no belief in any of it and i have no desire to live my life with any religious focus. \n\nI have come to the conclusion that despite still being in love with her i need to come clean and break it off. She is already talking about marriage and kids and i know that my thoughts are totally incompatible with her view of the future. Its now or never and i have decided its the right thing.\n\nMy question to reddit is how do i do it? She is going home in 2 weeks and we are going long distance again (by necessity) for a short time. The problem is that since i have come to this realization i want to tell her and get it over with as soon as possible :( Do i tell her all this now, do i let her enjoy our 2 weeks and do it right before she leaves? Or do i do it over the phone or skype once she is gone? \n\nI dont want it to seem like i am just taking the easiest route for me, i want the path which will result in absolute minimum heartbreak for this girl. I truly love her and this whole thing completely sucks. :(\n\n Thanks for any replies."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my girlfriend for one year. We had a very romantic beginning and have gone from long distance to living together in that time. We have lived together for 6 months and we are amazing together.\n\nWe are both very much in love and tell each other so on a daily basis. We argue over small things occasionally and it has finally dawned on me why.\n\n She is an extremely committed christian. I was luke warm about it at best when we got together. Now after attending church with her and studying the bible with her i am more certain than ever in my life that i have no belief in any of it and i have no desire to live my life with any religious focus. \n\nI have come to the conclusion that despite still being in love with her i need to come clean and break it off. She is already talking about marriage and kids and i know that my thoughts are totally incompatible with her view of the future. Its now or never and i have decided its the right thing.\n\nMy question to reddit is how do i do it? She is going home in 2 weeks and we are going long distance again (by necessity) for a short time. The problem is that since i have come to this realization i want to tell her and get it over with as soon as possible :( Do i tell her all this now, do i let her enjoy our 2 weeks and do it right before she leaves? Or do i do it over the phone or skype once she is gone? \n\nI dont want it to seem like i am just taking the easiest route for me, i want the path which will result in absolute minimum heartbreak for this girl. I truly love her and this whole thing completely sucks. :(\n\n Thanks for any replies."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my girlfriend for one year. We had a very romantic beginning and have gone from long distance to living together in that time. We have lived together for 6 months and we are amazing together.\n\nWe are both very much in love and tell each other so on a daily basis. We argue over small things occasionally and it has finally dawned on me why.\n\n She is an extremely committed christian. I was luke warm about it at best when we got together. Now after attending church with her and studying the bible with her i am more certain than ever in my life that i have no belief in any of it and i have no desire to live my life with any religious focus. \n\nI have come to the conclusion that despite still being in love with her i need to come clean and break it off. She is already talking about marriage and kids and i know that my thoughts are totally incompatible with her view of the future. Its now or never and i have decided its the right thing.\n\nMy question to reddit is how do i do it? She is going home in 2 weeks and we are going long distance again (by necessity) for a short time. The problem is that since i have come to this realization i want to tell her and get it over with as soon as possible :( Do i tell her all this now, do i let her enjoy our 2 weeks and do it right before she leaves? Or do i do it over the phone or skype once she is gone? \n\nI dont want it to seem like i am just taking the easiest route for me, i want the path which will result in absolute minimum heartbreak for this girl. I truly love her and this whole thing completely sucks. :(\n\n Thanks for any replies."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my girlfriend for one year. We had a very romantic beginning and have gone from long distance to living together in that time. We have lived together for 6 months and we are amazing together.\n\nWe are both very much in love and tell each other so on a daily basis. We argue over small things occasionally and it has finally dawned on me why.\n\n She is an extremely committed christian. I was luke warm about it at best when we got together. Now after attending church with her and studying the bible with her i am more certain than ever in my life that i have no belief in any of it and i have no desire to live my life with any religious focus. \n\nI have come to the conclusion that despite still being in love with her i need to come clean and break it off. She is already talking about marriage and kids and i know that my thoughts are totally incompatible with her view of the future. Its now or never and i have decided its the right thing.\n\nMy question to reddit is how do i do it? She is going home in 2 weeks and we are going long distance again (by necessity) for a short time. The problem is that since i have come to this realization i want to tell her and get it over with as soon as possible :( Do i tell her all this now, do i let her enjoy our 2 weeks and do it right before she leaves? Or do i do it over the phone or skype once she is gone? \n\nI dont want it to seem like i am just taking the easiest route for me, i want the path which will result in absolute minimum heartbreak for this girl. I truly love her and this whole thing completely sucks. :(\n\n Thanks for any replies."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my girlfriend for one year. We had a very romantic beginning and have gone from long distance to living together in that time. We have lived together for 6 months and we are amazing together.\n\nWe are both very much in love and tell each other so on a daily basis. We argue over small things occasionally and it has finally dawned on me why.\n\n She is an extremely committed christian. I was luke warm about it at best when we got together. Now after attending church with her and studying the bible with her i am more certain than ever in my life that i have no belief in any of it and i have no desire to live my life with any religious focus. \n\nI have come to the conclusion that despite still being in love with her i need to come clean and break it off. She is already talking about marriage and kids and i know that my thoughts are totally incompatible with her view of the future. Its now or never and i have decided its the right thing.\n\nMy question to reddit is how do i do it? She is going home in 2 weeks and we are going long distance again (by necessity) for a short time. The problem is that since i have come to this realization i want to tell her and get it over with as soon as possible :( Do i tell her all this now, do i let her enjoy our 2 weeks and do it right before she leaves? Or do i do it over the phone or skype once she is gone? \n\nI dont want it to seem like i am just taking the easiest route for me, i want the path which will result in absolute minimum heartbreak for this girl. I truly love her and this whole thing completely sucks. :(\n\n Thanks for any replies."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my girlfriend for one year. We had a very romantic beginning and have gone from long distance to living together in that time. We have lived together for 6 months and we are amazing together.\n\nWe are both very much in love and tell each other so on a daily basis. We argue over small things occasionally and it has finally dawned on me why.\n\n She is an extremely committed christian. I was luke warm about it at best when we got together. Now after attending church with her and studying the bible with her i am more certain than ever in my life that i have no belief in any of it and i have no desire to live my life with any religious focus. \n\nI have come to the conclusion that despite still being in love with her i need to come clean and break it off. She is already talking about marriage and kids and i know that my thoughts are totally incompatible with her view of the future. Its now or never and i have decided its the right thing.\n\nMy question to reddit is how do i do it? She is going home in 2 weeks and we are going long distance again (by necessity) for a short time. The problem is that since i have come to this realization i want to tell her and get it over with as soon as possible :( Do i tell her all this now, do i let her enjoy our 2 weeks and do it right before she leaves? Or do i do it over the phone or skype once she is gone? \n\nI dont want it to seem like i am just taking the easiest route for me, i want the path which will result in absolute minimum heartbreak for this girl. I truly love her and this whole thing completely sucks. :(\n\n Thanks for any replies."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Wife and I have been married for just under two years. About six months ago, we decided to start trying for a kid. No luck yet. The doctor says nothing seems wrong and sometimes it takes awhile. \n\nAbout a month ago, my wife's best friend got pregnant. I wouldn't call it an accident, but the friend and her husband weren't actively 'trying' either. Life, uh, found a way.\n\nThat sent my wife into a huge depression. She's been having an incredibly hard time with it, due to a combination of jealousy and some not-so-tactful remarks by the best friend (i.e. saying \"god, sometimes I wish this never happened\" to a woman who really wants it to happen). My wife has basically cut off all contact with her friend and has been existing in a state of perpetual sadness for the past few weeks. \n\nShe cries all the time. Whenever she sees ANYTHING pregnancy or baby related, she just curls up and sobs. At our age, that's virtually every other Facebook post. When the sadness abates, it turns to anger. She's lashed out at virtually everyone in her life in the past month. I, obviously, have been getting the brunt of it.\n\nI don't know what to do. Obviously getting pregnant would go a long way to solving this problem, but there's an issue with that. Her depression and anger has caused our sex life to suffer, which exacerbates the problem. And what if we can't have them? I love my wife and could lead a happy life without kids, but after this, I'm not sure if she could. \n\nHas anyone been through this? Is there anything I can do? Drag her to therapy? I know it's selfish, but I'm honestly getting tired of it. This isn't the person I married."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Wife and I have been married for just under two years. About six months ago, we decided to start trying for a kid. No luck yet. The doctor says nothing seems wrong and sometimes it takes awhile. \n\nAbout a month ago, my wife's best friend got pregnant. I wouldn't call it an accident, but the friend and her husband weren't actively 'trying' either. Life, uh, found a way.\n\nThat sent my wife into a huge depression. She's been having an incredibly hard time with it, due to a combination of jealousy and some not-so-tactful remarks by the best friend (i.e. saying \"god, sometimes I wish this never happened\" to a woman who really wants it to happen). My wife has basically cut off all contact with her friend and has been existing in a state of perpetual sadness for the past few weeks. \n\nShe cries all the time. Whenever she sees ANYTHING pregnancy or baby related, she just curls up and sobs. At our age, that's virtually every other Facebook post. When the sadness abates, it turns to anger. She's lashed out at virtually everyone in her life in the past month. I, obviously, have been getting the brunt of it.\n\nI don't know what to do. Obviously getting pregnant would go a long way to solving this problem, but there's an issue with that. Her depression and anger has caused our sex life to suffer, which exacerbates the problem. And what if we can't have them? I love my wife and could lead a happy life without kids, but after this, I'm not sure if she could. \n\nHas anyone been through this? Is there anything I can do? Drag her to therapy? I know it's selfish, but I'm honestly getting tired of it. This isn't the person I married."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Wife and I have been married for just under two years. About six months ago, we decided to start trying for a kid. No luck yet. The doctor says nothing seems wrong and sometimes it takes awhile. \n\nAbout a month ago, my wife's best friend got pregnant. I wouldn't call it an accident, but the friend and her husband weren't actively 'trying' either. Life, uh, found a way.\n\nThat sent my wife into a huge depression. She's been having an incredibly hard time with it, due to a combination of jealousy and some not-so-tactful remarks by the best friend (i.e. saying \"god, sometimes I wish this never happened\" to a woman who really wants it to happen). My wife has basically cut off all contact with her friend and has been existing in a state of perpetual sadness for the past few weeks. \n\nShe cries all the time. Whenever she sees ANYTHING pregnancy or baby related, she just curls up and sobs. At our age, that's virtually every other Facebook post. When the sadness abates, it turns to anger. She's lashed out at virtually everyone in her life in the past month. I, obviously, have been getting the brunt of it.\n\nI don't know what to do. Obviously getting pregnant would go a long way to solving this problem, but there's an issue with that. Her depression and anger has caused our sex life to suffer, which exacerbates the problem. And what if we can't have them? I love my wife and could lead a happy life without kids, but after this, I'm not sure if she could. \n\nHas anyone been through this? Is there anything I can do? Drag her to therapy? I know it's selfish, but I'm honestly getting tired of it. This isn't the person I married."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Wife and I have been married for just under two years. About six months ago, we decided to start trying for a kid. No luck yet. The doctor says nothing seems wrong and sometimes it takes awhile. \n\nAbout a month ago, my wife's best friend got pregnant. I wouldn't call it an accident, but the friend and her husband weren't actively 'trying' either. Life, uh, found a way.\n\nThat sent my wife into a huge depression. She's been having an incredibly hard time with it, due to a combination of jealousy and some not-so-tactful remarks by the best friend (i.e. saying \"god, sometimes I wish this never happened\" to a woman who really wants it to happen). My wife has basically cut off all contact with her friend and has been existing in a state of perpetual sadness for the past few weeks. \n\nShe cries all the time. Whenever she sees ANYTHING pregnancy or baby related, she just curls up and sobs. At our age, that's virtually every other Facebook post. When the sadness abates, it turns to anger. She's lashed out at virtually everyone in her life in the past month. I, obviously, have been getting the brunt of it.\n\nI don't know what to do. Obviously getting pregnant would go a long way to solving this problem, but there's an issue with that. Her depression and anger has caused our sex life to suffer, which exacerbates the problem. And what if we can't have them? I love my wife and could lead a happy life without kids, but after this, I'm not sure if she could. \n\nHas anyone been through this? Is there anything I can do? Drag her to therapy? I know it's selfish, but I'm honestly getting tired of it. This isn't the person I married."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Wife and I have been married for just under two years. About six months ago, we decided to start trying for a kid. No luck yet. The doctor says nothing seems wrong and sometimes it takes awhile. \n\nAbout a month ago, my wife's best friend got pregnant. I wouldn't call it an accident, but the friend and her husband weren't actively 'trying' either. Life, uh, found a way.\n\nThat sent my wife into a huge depression. She's been having an incredibly hard time with it, due to a combination of jealousy and some not-so-tactful remarks by the best friend (i.e. saying \"god, sometimes I wish this never happened\" to a woman who really wants it to happen). My wife has basically cut off all contact with her friend and has been existing in a state of perpetual sadness for the past few weeks. \n\nShe cries all the time. Whenever she sees ANYTHING pregnancy or baby related, she just curls up and sobs. At our age, that's virtually every other Facebook post. When the sadness abates, it turns to anger. She's lashed out at virtually everyone in her life in the past month. I, obviously, have been getting the brunt of it.\n\nI don't know what to do. Obviously getting pregnant would go a long way to solving this problem, but there's an issue with that. Her depression and anger has caused our sex life to suffer, which exacerbates the problem. And what if we can't have them? I love my wife and could lead a happy life without kids, but after this, I'm not sure if she could. \n\nHas anyone been through this? Is there anything I can do? Drag her to therapy? I know it's selfish, but I'm honestly getting tired of it. This isn't the person I married."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Wife and I have been married for just under two years. About six months ago, we decided to start trying for a kid. No luck yet. The doctor says nothing seems wrong and sometimes it takes awhile. \n\nAbout a month ago, my wife's best friend got pregnant. I wouldn't call it an accident, but the friend and her husband weren't actively 'trying' either. Life, uh, found a way.\n\nThat sent my wife into a huge depression. She's been having an incredibly hard time with it, due to a combination of jealousy and some not-so-tactful remarks by the best friend (i.e. saying \"god, sometimes I wish this never happened\" to a woman who really wants it to happen). My wife has basically cut off all contact with her friend and has been existing in a state of perpetual sadness for the past few weeks. \n\nShe cries all the time. Whenever she sees ANYTHING pregnancy or baby related, she just curls up and sobs. At our age, that's virtually every other Facebook post. When the sadness abates, it turns to anger. She's lashed out at virtually everyone in her life in the past month. I, obviously, have been getting the brunt of it.\n\nI don't know what to do. Obviously getting pregnant would go a long way to solving this problem, but there's an issue with that. Her depression and anger has caused our sex life to suffer, which exacerbates the problem. And what if we can't have them? I love my wife and could lead a happy life without kids, but after this, I'm not sure if she could. \n\nHas anyone been through this? Is there anything I can do? Drag her to therapy? I know it's selfish, but I'm honestly getting tired of it. This isn't the person I married."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my boyfriend and I of 4 years were having trouble in our relation ship and considering taking a break but kept putting it off. I found texts on his phone from my best friend telling him she wanted him (nothing happened between them before we broke up though) but this triggered a break up. \n Now we had been broken up for two day and the \"ex friend\" invited him to her house to talk, when he got there she through her self at him and they had sex. Now after they did it he left and felt totally disgusting and ashamed and he said he didn't enjoy it. (you should also know that I was pretty much his first sexual partner and I was worried that he need to \"test the waters\") \n Now he is saying he feels like the worst person for what he did to me and that he loves me and knows NOW that he only want to be with me sexually and that I'm the only girl for him and that he thinks I'm his perfect match and he would never ever ever hurt me this way again and that he is going to do every thing to make it up to me and make me trust him again. \n It has been a week and a half sense we broke up and we do need to spend more time apart I know that. I love him very much I just don't know how to feel. Oh and he is 24 and I am 22. \n\nWhat does every one here think? I need advice! I don't know what to think of any of this!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my boyfriend and I of 4 years were having trouble in our relation ship and considering taking a break but kept putting it off. I found texts on his phone from my best friend telling him she wanted him (nothing happened between them before we broke up though) but this triggered a break up. \n Now we had been broken up for two day and the \"ex friend\" invited him to her house to talk, when he got there she through her self at him and they had sex. Now after they did it he left and felt totally disgusting and ashamed and he said he didn't enjoy it. (you should also know that I was pretty much his first sexual partner and I was worried that he need to \"test the waters\") \n Now he is saying he feels like the worst person for what he did to me and that he loves me and knows NOW that he only want to be with me sexually and that I'm the only girl for him and that he thinks I'm his perfect match and he would never ever ever hurt me this way again and that he is going to do every thing to make it up to me and make me trust him again. \n It has been a week and a half sense we broke up and we do need to spend more time apart I know that. I love him very much I just don't know how to feel. Oh and he is 24 and I am 22. \n\nWhat does every one here think? I need advice! I don't know what to think of any of this!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my boyfriend and I of 4 years were having trouble in our relation ship and considering taking a break but kept putting it off. I found texts on his phone from my best friend telling him she wanted him (nothing happened between them before we broke up though) but this triggered a break up. \n Now we had been broken up for two day and the \"ex friend\" invited him to her house to talk, when he got there she through her self at him and they had sex. Now after they did it he left and felt totally disgusting and ashamed and he said he didn't enjoy it. (you should also know that I was pretty much his first sexual partner and I was worried that he need to \"test the waters\") \n Now he is saying he feels like the worst person for what he did to me and that he loves me and knows NOW that he only want to be with me sexually and that I'm the only girl for him and that he thinks I'm his perfect match and he would never ever ever hurt me this way again and that he is going to do every thing to make it up to me and make me trust him again. \n It has been a week and a half sense we broke up and we do need to spend more time apart I know that. I love him very much I just don't know how to feel. Oh and he is 24 and I am 22. \n\nWhat does every one here think? I need advice! I don't know what to think of any of this!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my boyfriend and I of 4 years were having trouble in our relation ship and considering taking a break but kept putting it off. I found texts on his phone from my best friend telling him she wanted him (nothing happened between them before we broke up though) but this triggered a break up. \n Now we had been broken up for two day and the \"ex friend\" invited him to her house to talk, when he got there she through her self at him and they had sex. Now after they did it he left and felt totally disgusting and ashamed and he said he didn't enjoy it. (you should also know that I was pretty much his first sexual partner and I was worried that he need to \"test the waters\") \n Now he is saying he feels like the worst person for what he did to me and that he loves me and knows NOW that he only want to be with me sexually and that I'm the only girl for him and that he thinks I'm his perfect match and he would never ever ever hurt me this way again and that he is going to do every thing to make it up to me and make me trust him again. \n It has been a week and a half sense we broke up and we do need to spend more time apart I know that. I love him very much I just don't know how to feel. Oh and he is 24 and I am 22. \n\nWhat does every one here think? I need advice! I don't know what to think of any of this!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my boyfriend and I of 4 years were having trouble in our relation ship and considering taking a break but kept putting it off. I found texts on his phone from my best friend telling him she wanted him (nothing happened between them before we broke up though) but this triggered a break up. \n Now we had been broken up for two day and the \"ex friend\" invited him to her house to talk, when he got there she through her self at him and they had sex. Now after they did it he left and felt totally disgusting and ashamed and he said he didn't enjoy it. (you should also know that I was pretty much his first sexual partner and I was worried that he need to \"test the waters\") \n Now he is saying he feels like the worst person for what he did to me and that he loves me and knows NOW that he only want to be with me sexually and that I'm the only girl for him and that he thinks I'm his perfect match and he would never ever ever hurt me this way again and that he is going to do every thing to make it up to me and make me trust him again. \n It has been a week and a half sense we broke up and we do need to spend more time apart I know that. I love him very much I just don't know how to feel. Oh and he is 24 and I am 22. \n\nWhat does every one here think? I need advice! I don't know what to think of any of this!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my boyfriend and I of 4 years were having trouble in our relation ship and considering taking a break but kept putting it off. I found texts on his phone from my best friend telling him she wanted him (nothing happened between them before we broke up though) but this triggered a break up. \n Now we had been broken up for two day and the \"ex friend\" invited him to her house to talk, when he got there she through her self at him and they had sex. Now after they did it he left and felt totally disgusting and ashamed and he said he didn't enjoy it. (you should also know that I was pretty much his first sexual partner and I was worried that he need to \"test the waters\") \n Now he is saying he feels like the worst person for what he did to me and that he loves me and knows NOW that he only want to be with me sexually and that I'm the only girl for him and that he thinks I'm his perfect match and he would never ever ever hurt me this way again and that he is going to do every thing to make it up to me and make me trust him again. \n It has been a week and a half sense we broke up and we do need to spend more time apart I know that. I love him very much I just don't know how to feel. Oh and he is 24 and I am 22. \n\nWhat does every one here think? I need advice! I don't know what to think of any of this!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Wall of text, sorry.\n\nI'm 20 years old, currently living with my grandmother as I have for basically my entire life. When I was around 12, my grandparents legally adopted me and my two cousins (one same age, other is recently 13). My grandfather passed away about 3 years ago, and since then, my grandmother's mental health has just been sharply declining. Right now, the living conditions of the house are pretty unbearable. The air is basically all cigarette smoke from my grandmother's chain-smoking (people ask me all the time if I smoke because I smell like an ash tray), there's mold in the bathroom (and probably in the roof. attic? after having some kind of infestation) that she refuses to do anything about, there's hardly ever any food in the house, the place is NEVER cleaned (I try, but it's always trashed in a matter of hours), and now there's an unbearable flea infestation that she simply ignores - and the dogs are in awful shape, too. I don't make enough money to live on my own. I just recently got a raise up to $9.50 an hour, and I work about 32 hours a week. Between insurance and my actual car note, I have $355 a month to pay for my car and $50 for my phone. I'm in the process of looking for a second job so that I can try to support myself, but so far, having a job already is an issue for most employers I've talked to.\n\nAge of majority in my state is 21, which I will be in November. However, another 5 months of dealing with fleas and the constant fear of an asthma attack from the mold and cigarettes is unbearable. Since I was legally adopted and there is a 13-year-old living in the house (again, also adopted), should I contact DHS or something? I don't really have anyone I could become roommates with, as pretty much all of my friends are moving out of state or several hours away from here to pursue other jobs or continuing their education."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Wall of text, sorry.\n\nI'm 20 years old, currently living with my grandmother as I have for basically my entire life. When I was around 12, my grandparents legally adopted me and my two cousins (one same age, other is recently 13). My grandfather passed away about 3 years ago, and since then, my grandmother's mental health has just been sharply declining. Right now, the living conditions of the house are pretty unbearable. The air is basically all cigarette smoke from my grandmother's chain-smoking (people ask me all the time if I smoke because I smell like an ash tray), there's mold in the bathroom (and probably in the roof. attic? after having some kind of infestation) that she refuses to do anything about, there's hardly ever any food in the house, the place is NEVER cleaned (I try, but it's always trashed in a matter of hours), and now there's an unbearable flea infestation that she simply ignores - and the dogs are in awful shape, too. I don't make enough money to live on my own. I just recently got a raise up to $9.50 an hour, and I work about 32 hours a week. Between insurance and my actual car note, I have $355 a month to pay for my car and $50 for my phone. I'm in the process of looking for a second job so that I can try to support myself, but so far, having a job already is an issue for most employers I've talked to.\n\nAge of majority in my state is 21, which I will be in November. However, another 5 months of dealing with fleas and the constant fear of an asthma attack from the mold and cigarettes is unbearable. Since I was legally adopted and there is a 13-year-old living in the house (again, also adopted), should I contact DHS or something? I don't really have anyone I could become roommates with, as pretty much all of my friends are moving out of state or several hours away from here to pursue other jobs or continuing their education."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Wall of text, sorry.\n\nI'm 20 years old, currently living with my grandmother as I have for basically my entire life. When I was around 12, my grandparents legally adopted me and my two cousins (one same age, other is recently 13). My grandfather passed away about 3 years ago, and since then, my grandmother's mental health has just been sharply declining. Right now, the living conditions of the house are pretty unbearable. The air is basically all cigarette smoke from my grandmother's chain-smoking (people ask me all the time if I smoke because I smell like an ash tray), there's mold in the bathroom (and probably in the roof. attic? after having some kind of infestation) that she refuses to do anything about, there's hardly ever any food in the house, the place is NEVER cleaned (I try, but it's always trashed in a matter of hours), and now there's an unbearable flea infestation that she simply ignores - and the dogs are in awful shape, too. I don't make enough money to live on my own. I just recently got a raise up to $9.50 an hour, and I work about 32 hours a week. Between insurance and my actual car note, I have $355 a month to pay for my car and $50 for my phone. I'm in the process of looking for a second job so that I can try to support myself, but so far, having a job already is an issue for most employers I've talked to.\n\nAge of majority in my state is 21, which I will be in November. However, another 5 months of dealing with fleas and the constant fear of an asthma attack from the mold and cigarettes is unbearable. Since I was legally adopted and there is a 13-year-old living in the house (again, also adopted), should I contact DHS or something? I don't really have anyone I could become roommates with, as pretty much all of my friends are moving out of state or several hours away from here to pursue other jobs or continuing their education."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Wall of text, sorry.\n\nI'm 20 years old, currently living with my grandmother as I have for basically my entire life. When I was around 12, my grandparents legally adopted me and my two cousins (one same age, other is recently 13). My grandfather passed away about 3 years ago, and since then, my grandmother's mental health has just been sharply declining. Right now, the living conditions of the house are pretty unbearable. The air is basically all cigarette smoke from my grandmother's chain-smoking (people ask me all the time if I smoke because I smell like an ash tray), there's mold in the bathroom (and probably in the roof. attic? after having some kind of infestation) that she refuses to do anything about, there's hardly ever any food in the house, the place is NEVER cleaned (I try, but it's always trashed in a matter of hours), and now there's an unbearable flea infestation that she simply ignores - and the dogs are in awful shape, too. I don't make enough money to live on my own. I just recently got a raise up to $9.50 an hour, and I work about 32 hours a week. Between insurance and my actual car note, I have $355 a month to pay for my car and $50 for my phone. I'm in the process of looking for a second job so that I can try to support myself, but so far, having a job already is an issue for most employers I've talked to.\n\nAge of majority in my state is 21, which I will be in November. However, another 5 months of dealing with fleas and the constant fear of an asthma attack from the mold and cigarettes is unbearable. Since I was legally adopted and there is a 13-year-old living in the house (again, also adopted), should I contact DHS or something? I don't really have anyone I could become roommates with, as pretty much all of my friends are moving out of state or several hours away from here to pursue other jobs or continuing their education."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 22 Male (me), Female (21). Met a girl, we really got along well and have been dating for a few weeks. She told me she was recently out of a relationship when we first started going out but I sort of ignored it cause I really liked her. She really liked me to and I had no clue things were going to end.\n\nShe broke it off suddenly saying she needs to be single because she's been contacting her ex this whole time and is still not over him even though he treats her very badly.\n\nNow I find out I'm a rebound (but she still wishes she could be with me) but it's also my own fault for getting too attached. I'm feeling really, really hurt and want to move on if I can but it seems so difficult. Any good words of advice would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 22 Male (me), Female (21). Met a girl, we really got along well and have been dating for a few weeks. She told me she was recently out of a relationship when we first started going out but I sort of ignored it cause I really liked her. She really liked me to and I had no clue things were going to end.\n\nShe broke it off suddenly saying she needs to be single because she's been contacting her ex this whole time and is still not over him even though he treats her very badly.\n\nNow I find out I'm a rebound (but she still wishes she could be with me) but it's also my own fault for getting too attached. I'm feeling really, really hurt and want to move on if I can but it seems so difficult. Any good words of advice would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 22 Male (me), Female (21). Met a girl, we really got along well and have been dating for a few weeks. She told me she was recently out of a relationship when we first started going out but I sort of ignored it cause I really liked her. She really liked me to and I had no clue things were going to end.\n\nShe broke it off suddenly saying she needs to be single because she's been contacting her ex this whole time and is still not over him even though he treats her very badly.\n\nNow I find out I'm a rebound (but she still wishes she could be with me) but it's also my own fault for getting too attached. I'm feeling really, really hurt and want to move on if I can but it seems so difficult. Any good words of advice would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 22 Male (me), Female (21). Met a girl, we really got along well and have been dating for a few weeks. She told me she was recently out of a relationship when we first started going out but I sort of ignored it cause I really liked her. She really liked me to and I had no clue things were going to end.\n\nShe broke it off suddenly saying she needs to be single because she's been contacting her ex this whole time and is still not over him even though he treats her very badly.\n\nNow I find out I'm a rebound (but she still wishes she could be with me) but it's also my own fault for getting too attached. I'm feeling really, really hurt and want to move on if I can but it seems so difficult. Any good words of advice would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 22 Male (me), Female (21). Met a girl, we really got along well and have been dating for a few weeks. She told me she was recently out of a relationship when we first started going out but I sort of ignored it cause I really liked her. She really liked me to and I had no clue things were going to end.\n\nShe broke it off suddenly saying she needs to be single because she's been contacting her ex this whole time and is still not over him even though he treats her very badly.\n\nNow I find out I'm a rebound (but she still wishes she could be with me) but it's also my own fault for getting too attached. I'm feeling really, really hurt and want to move on if I can but it seems so difficult. Any good words of advice would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 22 Male (me), Female (21). Met a girl, we really got along well and have been dating for a few weeks. She told me she was recently out of a relationship when we first started going out but I sort of ignored it cause I really liked her. She really liked me to and I had no clue things were going to end.\n\nShe broke it off suddenly saying she needs to be single because she's been contacting her ex this whole time and is still not over him even though he treats her very badly.\n\nNow I find out I'm a rebound (but she still wishes she could be with me) but it's also my own fault for getting too attached. I'm feeling really, really hurt and want to move on if I can but it seems so difficult. Any good words of advice would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I(20F) got offer from a university, which is far from our home (airplane ticket will cost half of monthly stipend of the course), I will have to stay there for 7 years (Integrated PhD). I absolutely want to go, I am excited about it. But I am feeling selfish, that I am deciding to live so far, when my father(55M) has cancer, and he won't probably live many days. And it doesn't help that my mom(45F) is going to hospital tomorrow, because she discovered a large lump in her breast. I am from india, and here it is common that children take care of their parents, and live with them (I am the only child)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I(20F) got offer from a university, which is far from our home (airplane ticket will cost half of monthly stipend of the course), I will have to stay there for 7 years (Integrated PhD). I absolutely want to go, I am excited about it. But I am feeling selfish, that I am deciding to live so far, when my father(55M) has cancer, and he won't probably live many days. And it doesn't help that my mom(45F) is going to hospital tomorrow, because she discovered a large lump in her breast. I am from india, and here it is common that children take care of their parents, and live with them (I am the only child)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I(20F) got offer from a university, which is far from our home (airplane ticket will cost half of monthly stipend of the course), I will have to stay there for 7 years (Integrated PhD). I absolutely want to go, I am excited about it. But I am feeling selfish, that I am deciding to live so far, when my father(55M) has cancer, and he won't probably live many days. And it doesn't help that my mom(45F) is going to hospital tomorrow, because she discovered a large lump in her breast. I am from india, and here it is common that children take care of their parents, and live with them (I am the only child)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I(20F) got offer from a university, which is far from our home (airplane ticket will cost half of monthly stipend of the course), I will have to stay there for 7 years (Integrated PhD). I absolutely want to go, I am excited about it. But I am feeling selfish, that I am deciding to live so far, when my father(55M) has cancer, and he won't probably live many days. And it doesn't help that my mom(45F) is going to hospital tomorrow, because she discovered a large lump in her breast. I am from india, and here it is common that children take care of their parents, and live with them (I am the only child)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I(20F) got offer from a university, which is far from our home (airplane ticket will cost half of monthly stipend of the course), I will have to stay there for 7 years (Integrated PhD). I absolutely want to go, I am excited about it. But I am feeling selfish, that I am deciding to live so far, when my father(55M) has cancer, and he won't probably live many days. And it doesn't help that my mom(45F) is going to hospital tomorrow, because she discovered a large lump in her breast. I am from india, and here it is common that children take care of their parents, and live with them (I am the only child)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I(20F) got offer from a university, which is far from our home (airplane ticket will cost half of monthly stipend of the course), I will have to stay there for 7 years (Integrated PhD). I absolutely want to go, I am excited about it. But I am feeling selfish, that I am deciding to live so far, when my father(55M) has cancer, and he won't probably live many days. And it doesn't help that my mom(45F) is going to hospital tomorrow, because she discovered a large lump in her breast. I am from india, and here it is common that children take care of their parents, and live with them (I am the only child)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone!\n\nOriginal post: \n\nThe update:\n\nSomeone told the principals I was coming at the school after being told not to come when I was not working (substitute teacher). That is absolutely false. The one responsible for calling me in case someone is sick has been told not to call me because of that. That is probably why they did not want me to judge at the science fair. Where did they hear I was still coming in? I am so mad!\n\nI am extremely sad. What should I do? I am even more sad than I was this week. :'("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone!\n\nOriginal post: \n\nThe update:\n\nSomeone told the principals I was coming at the school after being told not to come when I was not working (substitute teacher). That is absolutely false. The one responsible for calling me in case someone is sick has been told not to call me because of that. That is probably why they did not want me to judge at the science fair. Where did they hear I was still coming in? I am so mad!\n\nI am extremely sad. What should I do? I am even more sad than I was this week. :'("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone!\n\nOriginal post: \n\nThe update:\n\nSomeone told the principals I was coming at the school after being told not to come when I was not working (substitute teacher). That is absolutely false. The one responsible for calling me in case someone is sick has been told not to call me because of that. That is probably why they did not want me to judge at the science fair. Where did they hear I was still coming in? I am so mad!\n\nI am extremely sad. What should I do? I am even more sad than I was this week. :'("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone!\n\nOriginal post: \n\nThe update:\n\nSomeone told the principals I was coming at the school after being told not to come when I was not working (substitute teacher). That is absolutely false. The one responsible for calling me in case someone is sick has been told not to call me because of that. That is probably why they did not want me to judge at the science fair. Where did they hear I was still coming in? I am so mad!\n\nI am extremely sad. What should I do? I am even more sad than I was this week. :'("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone!\n\nOriginal post: \n\nThe update:\n\nSomeone told the principals I was coming at the school after being told not to come when I was not working (substitute teacher). That is absolutely false. The one responsible for calling me in case someone is sick has been told not to call me because of that. That is probably why they did not want me to judge at the science fair. Where did they hear I was still coming in? I am so mad!\n\nI am extremely sad. What should I do? I am even more sad than I was this week. :'("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone!\n\nOriginal post: \n\nThe update:\n\nSomeone told the principals I was coming at the school after being told not to come when I was not working (substitute teacher). That is absolutely false. The one responsible for calling me in case someone is sick has been told not to call me because of that. That is probably why they did not want me to judge at the science fair. Where did they hear I was still coming in? I am so mad!\n\nI am extremely sad. What should I do? I am even more sad than I was this week. :'("
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was just the end of dragon boat practice and just found out that a girl that was on the team went to my high school. She was telling me about how graduates were getting kicked out of my high school when they came to visit. I responded with \"yeah admin is being really gay.\" Right after I said that 2 girls were in complete disgust and said please don't say that, its a really vulgar term. I agreed obviously cause I'm not going to start an argument right after practise. So reddit what are your thoughts on the word gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was just the end of dragon boat practice and just found out that a girl that was on the team went to my high school. She was telling me about how graduates were getting kicked out of my high school when they came to visit. I responded with \"yeah admin is being really gay.\" Right after I said that 2 girls were in complete disgust and said please don't say that, its a really vulgar term. I agreed obviously cause I'm not going to start an argument right after practise. So reddit what are your thoughts on the word gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was just the end of dragon boat practice and just found out that a girl that was on the team went to my high school. She was telling me about how graduates were getting kicked out of my high school when they came to visit. I responded with \"yeah admin is being really gay.\" Right after I said that 2 girls were in complete disgust and said please don't say that, its a really vulgar term. I agreed obviously cause I'm not going to start an argument right after practise. So reddit what are your thoughts on the word gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was just the end of dragon boat practice and just found out that a girl that was on the team went to my high school. She was telling me about how graduates were getting kicked out of my high school when they came to visit. I responded with \"yeah admin is being really gay.\" Right after I said that 2 girls were in complete disgust and said please don't say that, its a really vulgar term. I agreed obviously cause I'm not going to start an argument right after practise. So reddit what are your thoughts on the word gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was just the end of dragon boat practice and just found out that a girl that was on the team went to my high school. She was telling me about how graduates were getting kicked out of my high school when they came to visit. I responded with \"yeah admin is being really gay.\" Right after I said that 2 girls were in complete disgust and said please don't say that, its a really vulgar term. I agreed obviously cause I'm not going to start an argument right after practise. So reddit what are your thoughts on the word gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was just the end of dragon boat practice and just found out that a girl that was on the team went to my high school. She was telling me about how graduates were getting kicked out of my high school when they came to visit. I responded with \"yeah admin is being really gay.\" Right after I said that 2 girls were in complete disgust and said please don't say that, its a really vulgar term. I agreed obviously cause I'm not going to start an argument right after practise. So reddit what are your thoughts on the word gay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, \n\nI'm writing on behalf of my 80 year-old grandmother, a U.K. native who's lived in the U.S. (MD) for ~30 years now. Most of her family is still in the U.K., which is why this question concerns the law over there. Kind of a complicated story: \n\nJust a few weeks ago, her older brother (Let's call him Charles) passed away. He was 82 and lived alone, as his wife passed away years ago and they had no children. About 6 weeks before his death, (this is where it gets weird) his wife's estranged step-brother appeared to \"help\" and take on a caretaker role. Prior to this, they had not spoken in years. \n\nAfter his death, we found out that the step-brother (Let's call him Dave) is, for some very odd reason, the executor of the Will. The will was written in Charles' home and witnessed by a notary, but no lawyer was present. In the will, the entire estate is left to Dave. This wouldn't be as weird, except Charles had repeatedly assured my grandmother and her sisters that he would \"make sure they were cared for\" when he was gone. We also have doubts about Charles' mental state towards the end, when this will was created. Also, Dave is refusing to share a copy of the will, despite several requests. This reeks of a con to us.\n\nBasically, the question is regarding what legal ground my grandmother (as next of kin) has to support appealing the will. What kind of proof is required to overturn the will? She is planning to go to England if necessary, but since she's also not in the greatest health she would like to make sure there is a possibility of results."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, \n\nI'm writing on behalf of my 80 year-old grandmother, a U.K. native who's lived in the U.S. (MD) for ~30 years now. Most of her family is still in the U.K., which is why this question concerns the law over there. Kind of a complicated story: \n\nJust a few weeks ago, her older brother (Let's call him Charles) passed away. He was 82 and lived alone, as his wife passed away years ago and they had no children. About 6 weeks before his death, (this is where it gets weird) his wife's estranged step-brother appeared to \"help\" and take on a caretaker role. Prior to this, they had not spoken in years. \n\nAfter his death, we found out that the step-brother (Let's call him Dave) is, for some very odd reason, the executor of the Will. The will was written in Charles' home and witnessed by a notary, but no lawyer was present. In the will, the entire estate is left to Dave. This wouldn't be as weird, except Charles had repeatedly assured my grandmother and her sisters that he would \"make sure they were cared for\" when he was gone. We also have doubts about Charles' mental state towards the end, when this will was created. Also, Dave is refusing to share a copy of the will, despite several requests. This reeks of a con to us.\n\nBasically, the question is regarding what legal ground my grandmother (as next of kin) has to support appealing the will. What kind of proof is required to overturn the will? She is planning to go to England if necessary, but since she's also not in the greatest health she would like to make sure there is a possibility of results."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, \n\nI'm writing on behalf of my 80 year-old grandmother, a U.K. native who's lived in the U.S. (MD) for ~30 years now. Most of her family is still in the U.K., which is why this question concerns the law over there. Kind of a complicated story: \n\nJust a few weeks ago, her older brother (Let's call him Charles) passed away. He was 82 and lived alone, as his wife passed away years ago and they had no children. About 6 weeks before his death, (this is where it gets weird) his wife's estranged step-brother appeared to \"help\" and take on a caretaker role. Prior to this, they had not spoken in years. \n\nAfter his death, we found out that the step-brother (Let's call him Dave) is, for some very odd reason, the executor of the Will. The will was written in Charles' home and witnessed by a notary, but no lawyer was present. In the will, the entire estate is left to Dave. This wouldn't be as weird, except Charles had repeatedly assured my grandmother and her sisters that he would \"make sure they were cared for\" when he was gone. We also have doubts about Charles' mental state towards the end, when this will was created. Also, Dave is refusing to share a copy of the will, despite several requests. This reeks of a con to us.\n\nBasically, the question is regarding what legal ground my grandmother (as next of kin) has to support appealing the will. What kind of proof is required to overturn the will? She is planning to go to England if necessary, but since she's also not in the greatest health she would like to make sure there is a possibility of results."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, \n\nI'm writing on behalf of my 80 year-old grandmother, a U.K. native who's lived in the U.S. (MD) for ~30 years now. Most of her family is still in the U.K., which is why this question concerns the law over there. Kind of a complicated story: \n\nJust a few weeks ago, her older brother (Let's call him Charles) passed away. He was 82 and lived alone, as his wife passed away years ago and they had no children. About 6 weeks before his death, (this is where it gets weird) his wife's estranged step-brother appeared to \"help\" and take on a caretaker role. Prior to this, they had not spoken in years. \n\nAfter his death, we found out that the step-brother (Let's call him Dave) is, for some very odd reason, the executor of the Will. The will was written in Charles' home and witnessed by a notary, but no lawyer was present. In the will, the entire estate is left to Dave. This wouldn't be as weird, except Charles had repeatedly assured my grandmother and her sisters that he would \"make sure they were cared for\" when he was gone. We also have doubts about Charles' mental state towards the end, when this will was created. Also, Dave is refusing to share a copy of the will, despite several requests. This reeks of a con to us.\n\nBasically, the question is regarding what legal ground my grandmother (as next of kin) has to support appealing the will. What kind of proof is required to overturn the will? She is planning to go to England if necessary, but since she's also not in the greatest health she would like to make sure there is a possibility of results."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, \n\nI'm writing on behalf of my 80 year-old grandmother, a U.K. native who's lived in the U.S. (MD) for ~30 years now. Most of her family is still in the U.K., which is why this question concerns the law over there. Kind of a complicated story: \n\nJust a few weeks ago, her older brother (Let's call him Charles) passed away. He was 82 and lived alone, as his wife passed away years ago and they had no children. About 6 weeks before his death, (this is where it gets weird) his wife's estranged step-brother appeared to \"help\" and take on a caretaker role. Prior to this, they had not spoken in years. \n\nAfter his death, we found out that the step-brother (Let's call him Dave) is, for some very odd reason, the executor of the Will. The will was written in Charles' home and witnessed by a notary, but no lawyer was present. In the will, the entire estate is left to Dave. This wouldn't be as weird, except Charles had repeatedly assured my grandmother and her sisters that he would \"make sure they were cared for\" when he was gone. We also have doubts about Charles' mental state towards the end, when this will was created. Also, Dave is refusing to share a copy of the will, despite several requests. This reeks of a con to us.\n\nBasically, the question is regarding what legal ground my grandmother (as next of kin) has to support appealing the will. What kind of proof is required to overturn the will? She is planning to go to England if necessary, but since she's also not in the greatest health she would like to make sure there is a possibility of results."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi all, \n\nI'm writing on behalf of my 80 year-old grandmother, a U.K. native who's lived in the U.S. (MD) for ~30 years now. Most of her family is still in the U.K., which is why this question concerns the law over there. Kind of a complicated story: \n\nJust a few weeks ago, her older brother (Let's call him Charles) passed away. He was 82 and lived alone, as his wife passed away years ago and they had no children. About 6 weeks before his death, (this is where it gets weird) his wife's estranged step-brother appeared to \"help\" and take on a caretaker role. Prior to this, they had not spoken in years. \n\nAfter his death, we found out that the step-brother (Let's call him Dave) is, for some very odd reason, the executor of the Will. The will was written in Charles' home and witnessed by a notary, but no lawyer was present. In the will, the entire estate is left to Dave. This wouldn't be as weird, except Charles had repeatedly assured my grandmother and her sisters that he would \"make sure they were cared for\" when he was gone. We also have doubts about Charles' mental state towards the end, when this will was created. Also, Dave is refusing to share a copy of the will, despite several requests. This reeks of a con to us.\n\nBasically, the question is regarding what legal ground my grandmother (as next of kin) has to support appealing the will. What kind of proof is required to overturn the will? She is planning to go to England if necessary, but since she's also not in the greatest health she would like to make sure there is a possibility of results."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Have you ever been mistaken for somebody or something else? Such as a celebrity, an ex, an girlfriend/boyfriend, a stalker? \n\nMY STORY: I was staying at my partner's place who is roughly just over an hour from my work. To avoid peak hour I generally drive through back streets to get to the freeway and then do the same thing once I've gotten off the freeway. From the second I turned out of his street to when I got to my workplace, there was a car in front of me following the exact same route.\n\nI thought it to be quite funny, so when I finally pulled into my work's car park I got out of my car and went to ask her if she noticed that we had followed the exact same route for the past hour, but she most definitely noticed. She turned the car around screeching and sped away, weaving through cars parked in the car park and out through the entry ramp, obviously that terrified she hadn't cared to notice. \n\nI was relaying this story to a friend who told me he once went to the chemist to get his girlfriend medicine. He then took the tram back to hers and got off the same stop as this girl. They ended up walking the same way home, cutting through the same streets and alleyways until he got to his girlfriend's street. where this girl turned out to live as well. In the same apartment building as his girlfriend. Apparently once they got to her street she began to run so once he reached the complex she was already running up the stairs and screamed at him IF YOU COME ANY CLOSER I'LL CALL THE POLICE! and hurried herself into her apartment. He has felt so guilty he's been waiting to run into her again to apologize as he thinks he may give her a heart attack if he knocks on her door."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Have you ever been mistaken for somebody or something else? Such as a celebrity, an ex, an girlfriend/boyfriend, a stalker? \n\nMY STORY: I was staying at my partner's place who is roughly just over an hour from my work. To avoid peak hour I generally drive through back streets to get to the freeway and then do the same thing once I've gotten off the freeway. From the second I turned out of his street to when I got to my workplace, there was a car in front of me following the exact same route.\n\nI thought it to be quite funny, so when I finally pulled into my work's car park I got out of my car and went to ask her if she noticed that we had followed the exact same route for the past hour, but she most definitely noticed. She turned the car around screeching and sped away, weaving through cars parked in the car park and out through the entry ramp, obviously that terrified she hadn't cared to notice. \n\nI was relaying this story to a friend who told me he once went to the chemist to get his girlfriend medicine. He then took the tram back to hers and got off the same stop as this girl. They ended up walking the same way home, cutting through the same streets and alleyways until he got to his girlfriend's street. where this girl turned out to live as well. In the same apartment building as his girlfriend. Apparently once they got to her street she began to run so once he reached the complex she was already running up the stairs and screamed at him IF YOU COME ANY CLOSER I'LL CALL THE POLICE! and hurried herself into her apartment. He has felt so guilty he's been waiting to run into her again to apologize as he thinks he may give her a heart attack if he knocks on her door."
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