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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So ill try to keep this story short but i dont think i can, anyone who wants more insight be free to pm me.\n\nHi everyone!\n\nThanks for reading this in the first place. Now i've dated this girl about 6 months ago, we broke up and then continued being friends. Tried dating again but she didnt want to because she was not in love with me.\n\nWe continued being friends and up until now i am fine with that, i enjoy being friends with her and we have fun and i am content with the current situation.\n\nHowever i still have this feeling for her. I cant describe it, it's kinda stupid because i dont love her like i used to but i do still like and think about her. Last weekend we went to a bar and even though she has a boyfriend now which was her ex at the time she met me, we still had amazing fun and we were kinda touchy with each other.\n\nNothing like kissing or anything but just kinda dancing and like giving an arm etc. Nothing special in any way.\n\nNow there is allot of backstory but lets just say she and her current bf dont get along always. Mostly she is angry at him because he is selfish. She doesnt always looks happy and it hurts me to see her that way. I just simply wish her to be happy. \n\nSo i give her advice allot of times and she even thinks of me like a Dr Phill or something. Now i would like to express my thoughts and feelings to her but i am afraid that she will back off and just end our friendship since she doesnt feel that way.\n\nBut at the same time if i keep getting that feeling whenever we do something i just cant go on. It will kill me from the inside since i see so much more in her then just a friend. The whole situation is confusing for me and im lost. \n\nI know most of you will say to break it off and move on but i want to find a way to keep being friends while getting rid of this feeling. That would obviously be the best outcome.\n\nAnyways share your thoughts and let me know :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So ill try to keep this story short but i dont think i can, anyone who wants more insight be free to pm me.\n\nHi everyone!\n\nThanks for reading this in the first place. Now i've dated this girl about 6 months ago, we broke up and then continued being friends. Tried dating again but she didnt want to because she was not in love with me.\n\nWe continued being friends and up until now i am fine with that, i enjoy being friends with her and we have fun and i am content with the current situation.\n\nHowever i still have this feeling for her. I cant describe it, it's kinda stupid because i dont love her like i used to but i do still like and think about her. Last weekend we went to a bar and even though she has a boyfriend now which was her ex at the time she met me, we still had amazing fun and we were kinda touchy with each other.\n\nNothing like kissing or anything but just kinda dancing and like giving an arm etc. Nothing special in any way.\n\nNow there is allot of backstory but lets just say she and her current bf dont get along always. Mostly she is angry at him because he is selfish. She doesnt always looks happy and it hurts me to see her that way. I just simply wish her to be happy. \n\nSo i give her advice allot of times and she even thinks of me like a Dr Phill or something. Now i would like to express my thoughts and feelings to her but i am afraid that she will back off and just end our friendship since she doesnt feel that way.\n\nBut at the same time if i keep getting that feeling whenever we do something i just cant go on. It will kill me from the inside since i see so much more in her then just a friend. The whole situation is confusing for me and im lost. \n\nI know most of you will say to break it off and move on but i want to find a way to keep being friends while getting rid of this feeling. That would obviously be the best outcome.\n\nAnyways share your thoughts and let me know :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So ill try to keep this story short but i dont think i can, anyone who wants more insight be free to pm me.\n\nHi everyone!\n\nThanks for reading this in the first place. Now i've dated this girl about 6 months ago, we broke up and then continued being friends. Tried dating again but she didnt want to because she was not in love with me.\n\nWe continued being friends and up until now i am fine with that, i enjoy being friends with her and we have fun and i am content with the current situation.\n\nHowever i still have this feeling for her. I cant describe it, it's kinda stupid because i dont love her like i used to but i do still like and think about her. Last weekend we went to a bar and even though she has a boyfriend now which was her ex at the time she met me, we still had amazing fun and we were kinda touchy with each other.\n\nNothing like kissing or anything but just kinda dancing and like giving an arm etc. Nothing special in any way.\n\nNow there is allot of backstory but lets just say she and her current bf dont get along always. Mostly she is angry at him because he is selfish. She doesnt always looks happy and it hurts me to see her that way. I just simply wish her to be happy. \n\nSo i give her advice allot of times and she even thinks of me like a Dr Phill or something. Now i would like to express my thoughts and feelings to her but i am afraid that she will back off and just end our friendship since she doesnt feel that way.\n\nBut at the same time if i keep getting that feeling whenever we do something i just cant go on. It will kill me from the inside since i see so much more in her then just a friend. The whole situation is confusing for me and im lost. \n\nI know most of you will say to break it off and move on but i want to find a way to keep being friends while getting rid of this feeling. That would obviously be the best outcome.\n\nAnyways share your thoughts and let me know :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So ill try to keep this story short but i dont think i can, anyone who wants more insight be free to pm me.\n\nHi everyone!\n\nThanks for reading this in the first place. Now i've dated this girl about 6 months ago, we broke up and then continued being friends. Tried dating again but she didnt want to because she was not in love with me.\n\nWe continued being friends and up until now i am fine with that, i enjoy being friends with her and we have fun and i am content with the current situation.\n\nHowever i still have this feeling for her. I cant describe it, it's kinda stupid because i dont love her like i used to but i do still like and think about her. Last weekend we went to a bar and even though she has a boyfriend now which was her ex at the time she met me, we still had amazing fun and we were kinda touchy with each other.\n\nNothing like kissing or anything but just kinda dancing and like giving an arm etc. Nothing special in any way.\n\nNow there is allot of backstory but lets just say she and her current bf dont get along always. Mostly she is angry at him because he is selfish. She doesnt always looks happy and it hurts me to see her that way. I just simply wish her to be happy. \n\nSo i give her advice allot of times and she even thinks of me like a Dr Phill or something. Now i would like to express my thoughts and feelings to her but i am afraid that she will back off and just end our friendship since she doesnt feel that way.\n\nBut at the same time if i keep getting that feeling whenever we do something i just cant go on. It will kill me from the inside since i see so much more in her then just a friend. The whole situation is confusing for me and im lost. \n\nI know most of you will say to break it off and move on but i want to find a way to keep being friends while getting rid of this feeling. That would obviously be the best outcome.\n\nAnyways share your thoughts and let me know :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've posted here and on a few other subs before about how she's forcing herself to have sex with me in order to make sure I won't leave her. But lately it's been even worse, she says things that make it clear that she expects me to want to hurt or belittle her as a matter of course. Her self esteem is low enough as it is, so is there something besides therapy that I can do to make her understand that I just want her to be happy? I've come to accept the tears, shaking, and dissociation during sex, but now I can't even be alone with her, talk to her, or text her without this kind of self-destructive behavior."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've posted here and on a few other subs before about how she's forcing herself to have sex with me in order to make sure I won't leave her. But lately it's been even worse, she says things that make it clear that she expects me to want to hurt or belittle her as a matter of course. Her self esteem is low enough as it is, so is there something besides therapy that I can do to make her understand that I just want her to be happy? I've come to accept the tears, shaking, and dissociation during sex, but now I can't even be alone with her, talk to her, or text her without this kind of self-destructive behavior."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've posted here and on a few other subs before about how she's forcing herself to have sex with me in order to make sure I won't leave her. But lately it's been even worse, she says things that make it clear that she expects me to want to hurt or belittle her as a matter of course. Her self esteem is low enough as it is, so is there something besides therapy that I can do to make her understand that I just want her to be happy? I've come to accept the tears, shaking, and dissociation during sex, but now I can't even be alone with her, talk to her, or text her without this kind of self-destructive behavior."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've posted here and on a few other subs before about how she's forcing herself to have sex with me in order to make sure I won't leave her. But lately it's been even worse, she says things that make it clear that she expects me to want to hurt or belittle her as a matter of course. Her self esteem is low enough as it is, so is there something besides therapy that I can do to make her understand that I just want her to be happy? I've come to accept the tears, shaking, and dissociation during sex, but now I can't even be alone with her, talk to her, or text her without this kind of self-destructive behavior."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's a brief summary. I'm 25, I graduated in August of 2010 with a degree in Management Information Systems. I've been bartending since then. I feel like i'm getting sucked into the lifestyle. I'm actually about to move back in with my parents next week. I have no idea what I want to do with my life. I have a successful sister and cousins all living in NYC. \n\nAs of now my plan is to live with the parents for a month or so then pack everything up and move to Cali or NY, in hopes of finding a job. The thing is, I feel like i'm being pressured by my family to do what they expect. Which is find a good job, get married have kids and all that. I see my sister, who is successful, happy and I feel like I have to live up to that. I don't think that is for me. I would just like to get some insight/thoughts on anyone who is going through a similar situation.\n\nIn a sense I have no idea what the hell i'm doing with my life,"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's a brief summary. I'm 25, I graduated in August of 2010 with a degree in Management Information Systems. I've been bartending since then. I feel like i'm getting sucked into the lifestyle. I'm actually about to move back in with my parents next week. I have no idea what I want to do with my life. I have a successful sister and cousins all living in NYC. \n\nAs of now my plan is to live with the parents for a month or so then pack everything up and move to Cali or NY, in hopes of finding a job. The thing is, I feel like i'm being pressured by my family to do what they expect. Which is find a good job, get married have kids and all that. I see my sister, who is successful, happy and I feel like I have to live up to that. I don't think that is for me. I would just like to get some insight/thoughts on anyone who is going through a similar situation.\n\nIn a sense I have no idea what the hell i'm doing with my life,"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's a brief summary. I'm 25, I graduated in August of 2010 with a degree in Management Information Systems. I've been bartending since then. I feel like i'm getting sucked into the lifestyle. I'm actually about to move back in with my parents next week. I have no idea what I want to do with my life. I have a successful sister and cousins all living in NYC. \n\nAs of now my plan is to live with the parents for a month or so then pack everything up and move to Cali or NY, in hopes of finding a job. The thing is, I feel like i'm being pressured by my family to do what they expect. Which is find a good job, get married have kids and all that. I see my sister, who is successful, happy and I feel like I have to live up to that. I don't think that is for me. I would just like to get some insight/thoughts on anyone who is going through a similar situation.\n\nIn a sense I have no idea what the hell i'm doing with my life,"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's a brief summary. I'm 25, I graduated in August of 2010 with a degree in Management Information Systems. I've been bartending since then. I feel like i'm getting sucked into the lifestyle. I'm actually about to move back in with my parents next week. I have no idea what I want to do with my life. I have a successful sister and cousins all living in NYC. \n\nAs of now my plan is to live with the parents for a month or so then pack everything up and move to Cali or NY, in hopes of finding a job. The thing is, I feel like i'm being pressured by my family to do what they expect. Which is find a good job, get married have kids and all that. I see my sister, who is successful, happy and I feel like I have to live up to that. I don't think that is for me. I would just like to get some insight/thoughts on anyone who is going through a similar situation.\n\nIn a sense I have no idea what the hell i'm doing with my life,"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: at the end of the week I will be heading on a trip to norway and am just realizing now that my current bag is insufficient for the trip. (its only 25L).\n\nI prefer a backpack that i can carry on a plane (i honestly dont know the last time i checked a bag) and is large enough to accommodate some warmer clothes. My stay will be primarily in hostels/couchsurfing and prefer to use only 1 bag (no detached day pack). It would be nice if the pack would deal well with mild hiking/camping via the addition of extra lash points and external pockets, rain cover, sleeping bag pocket, etc. (though this isnt a must, its just future me being too cheap to buy another bag just for domestic hiking and camping) I normally pack very light, my 25L bag can normally do just fine for 10 days for a warm weather trip. I was hoping you all might be able to recommend me a backpack, why do you like what you have, what packs have you heard good things about, pros, cons, etc.\n\nand if anyone has suggestions of what i should see or do in norway im all ears!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: at the end of the week I will be heading on a trip to norway and am just realizing now that my current bag is insufficient for the trip. (its only 25L).\n\nI prefer a backpack that i can carry on a plane (i honestly dont know the last time i checked a bag) and is large enough to accommodate some warmer clothes. My stay will be primarily in hostels/couchsurfing and prefer to use only 1 bag (no detached day pack). It would be nice if the pack would deal well with mild hiking/camping via the addition of extra lash points and external pockets, rain cover, sleeping bag pocket, etc. (though this isnt a must, its just future me being too cheap to buy another bag just for domestic hiking and camping) I normally pack very light, my 25L bag can normally do just fine for 10 days for a warm weather trip. I was hoping you all might be able to recommend me a backpack, why do you like what you have, what packs have you heard good things about, pros, cons, etc.\n\nand if anyone has suggestions of what i should see or do in norway im all ears!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: at the end of the week I will be heading on a trip to norway and am just realizing now that my current bag is insufficient for the trip. (its only 25L).\n\nI prefer a backpack that i can carry on a plane (i honestly dont know the last time i checked a bag) and is large enough to accommodate some warmer clothes. My stay will be primarily in hostels/couchsurfing and prefer to use only 1 bag (no detached day pack). It would be nice if the pack would deal well with mild hiking/camping via the addition of extra lash points and external pockets, rain cover, sleeping bag pocket, etc. (though this isnt a must, its just future me being too cheap to buy another bag just for domestic hiking and camping) I normally pack very light, my 25L bag can normally do just fine for 10 days for a warm weather trip. I was hoping you all might be able to recommend me a backpack, why do you like what you have, what packs have you heard good things about, pros, cons, etc.\n\nand if anyone has suggestions of what i should see or do in norway im all ears!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: at the end of the week I will be heading on a trip to norway and am just realizing now that my current bag is insufficient for the trip. (its only 25L).\n\nI prefer a backpack that i can carry on a plane (i honestly dont know the last time i checked a bag) and is large enough to accommodate some warmer clothes. My stay will be primarily in hostels/couchsurfing and prefer to use only 1 bag (no detached day pack). It would be nice if the pack would deal well with mild hiking/camping via the addition of extra lash points and external pockets, rain cover, sleeping bag pocket, etc. (though this isnt a must, its just future me being too cheap to buy another bag just for domestic hiking and camping) I normally pack very light, my 25L bag can normally do just fine for 10 days for a warm weather trip. I was hoping you all might be able to recommend me a backpack, why do you like what you have, what packs have you heard good things about, pros, cons, etc.\n\nand if anyone has suggestions of what i should see or do in norway im all ears!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A family trust from the 1960's is being dispersed. The trust will be evenly distributed among 16 families. My parents will receive approximately $650k. The assets in the trust will be evenly distributed (mostly blue chip, low risk stocks and MF's). Any assets that are not easily split will be sold. The trust has yet to dispersed (not sure how long that process will take), but they are looking to me to manage their money.\n\nI have my degree in Finance and Commercial law, but after graduation my career shifted to IT. I want to make sure I am prepared and thought I would ask Reddit for input. My parents are 67 and 64, respectively. The main goal is to have this money support my mother for the rest of her life in the event that my father passes away. My dad is a cancer survivor and has chronic emphysema and COPD. My mom is admittedly terrible with money and fully supports handing the reigns over to me. My dad is a builder and plans on working as long as he is physically able (he's not one for retirement in the classic sense). He pulls in about 60-80k, along with social security. My grandmother (mothers side, 84 years old) has an estate worth approximate $1M that will eventually be split among her found children. Eventually, I will manage this money as well. \n\nI interned for a personal financial planning company in college and have some exposure to that world. What options do I have to manage this portfolio? Are there options that do not require annual percentage fees? I have never managed anything besides my own personal 401k. Any advice, strategies or cautionary tales would be much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A family trust from the 1960's is being dispersed. The trust will be evenly distributed among 16 families. My parents will receive approximately $650k. The assets in the trust will be evenly distributed (mostly blue chip, low risk stocks and MF's). Any assets that are not easily split will be sold. The trust has yet to dispersed (not sure how long that process will take), but they are looking to me to manage their money.\n\nI have my degree in Finance and Commercial law, but after graduation my career shifted to IT. I want to make sure I am prepared and thought I would ask Reddit for input. My parents are 67 and 64, respectively. The main goal is to have this money support my mother for the rest of her life in the event that my father passes away. My dad is a cancer survivor and has chronic emphysema and COPD. My mom is admittedly terrible with money and fully supports handing the reigns over to me. My dad is a builder and plans on working as long as he is physically able (he's not one for retirement in the classic sense). He pulls in about 60-80k, along with social security. My grandmother (mothers side, 84 years old) has an estate worth approximate $1M that will eventually be split among her found children. Eventually, I will manage this money as well. \n\nI interned for a personal financial planning company in college and have some exposure to that world. What options do I have to manage this portfolio? Are there options that do not require annual percentage fees? I have never managed anything besides my own personal 401k. Any advice, strategies or cautionary tales would be much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A family trust from the 1960's is being dispersed. The trust will be evenly distributed among 16 families. My parents will receive approximately $650k. The assets in the trust will be evenly distributed (mostly blue chip, low risk stocks and MF's). Any assets that are not easily split will be sold. The trust has yet to dispersed (not sure how long that process will take), but they are looking to me to manage their money.\n\nI have my degree in Finance and Commercial law, but after graduation my career shifted to IT. I want to make sure I am prepared and thought I would ask Reddit for input. My parents are 67 and 64, respectively. The main goal is to have this money support my mother for the rest of her life in the event that my father passes away. My dad is a cancer survivor and has chronic emphysema and COPD. My mom is admittedly terrible with money and fully supports handing the reigns over to me. My dad is a builder and plans on working as long as he is physically able (he's not one for retirement in the classic sense). He pulls in about 60-80k, along with social security. My grandmother (mothers side, 84 years old) has an estate worth approximate $1M that will eventually be split among her found children. Eventually, I will manage this money as well. \n\nI interned for a personal financial planning company in college and have some exposure to that world. What options do I have to manage this portfolio? Are there options that do not require annual percentage fees? I have never managed anything besides my own personal 401k. Any advice, strategies or cautionary tales would be much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A family trust from the 1960's is being dispersed. The trust will be evenly distributed among 16 families. My parents will receive approximately $650k. The assets in the trust will be evenly distributed (mostly blue chip, low risk stocks and MF's). Any assets that are not easily split will be sold. The trust has yet to dispersed (not sure how long that process will take), but they are looking to me to manage their money.\n\nI have my degree in Finance and Commercial law, but after graduation my career shifted to IT. I want to make sure I am prepared and thought I would ask Reddit for input. My parents are 67 and 64, respectively. The main goal is to have this money support my mother for the rest of her life in the event that my father passes away. My dad is a cancer survivor and has chronic emphysema and COPD. My mom is admittedly terrible with money and fully supports handing the reigns over to me. My dad is a builder and plans on working as long as he is physically able (he's not one for retirement in the classic sense). He pulls in about 60-80k, along with social security. My grandmother (mothers side, 84 years old) has an estate worth approximate $1M that will eventually be split among her found children. Eventually, I will manage this money as well. \n\nI interned for a personal financial planning company in college and have some exposure to that world. What options do I have to manage this portfolio? Are there options that do not require annual percentage fees? I have never managed anything besides my own personal 401k. Any advice, strategies or cautionary tales would be much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend and I have been going out for around 6 months. We met during the summer and slowly developed feelings for each other. We text constantly and when we are alone things are great. There is obvious chemistry and affection between both of us however when in school or with friends things are different.\n\nWhenever we are in school she is very cold towards me. We share a science class and while i try to talk to her or anything in that regard she kind of half answers me and then resumes talking to her girlfriends, I am ok with this. However, things are different when not in class. In the halls we walk together from class to class and while she is not the most affectionate person, I am and want some sort of affection from her. I have tried in the past holding her hand but she flat out told me she will not do anything in the area of PDA in the school. \n\nWhen we are together with our friends she will be a little more affectionate but not much. No kissing hello or goodbye, no hugging, either just me having an arm around her or nothing. Again this bothers me a lot but I can not do anything about it. I have brought this to her attention in the past and she says that she will try to work with me on this but she hasn't changed at all in this respect. \n\nRecently I have been having dreams of texts or situations where she does show me this public affection and I wake up to extreme pleasure. When I realized these moments were just dreams I instantly felt extreme disappointment and I know that I can not continue in this relationship like this. This girl is beautiful, funny, and i am head over heels for her but for some reason I can not get over this. Is there any way I can help fix or change this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend and I have been going out for around 6 months. We met during the summer and slowly developed feelings for each other. We text constantly and when we are alone things are great. There is obvious chemistry and affection between both of us however when in school or with friends things are different.\n\nWhenever we are in school she is very cold towards me. We share a science class and while i try to talk to her or anything in that regard she kind of half answers me and then resumes talking to her girlfriends, I am ok with this. However, things are different when not in class. In the halls we walk together from class to class and while she is not the most affectionate person, I am and want some sort of affection from her. I have tried in the past holding her hand but she flat out told me she will not do anything in the area of PDA in the school. \n\nWhen we are together with our friends she will be a little more affectionate but not much. No kissing hello or goodbye, no hugging, either just me having an arm around her or nothing. Again this bothers me a lot but I can not do anything about it. I have brought this to her attention in the past and she says that she will try to work with me on this but she hasn't changed at all in this respect. \n\nRecently I have been having dreams of texts or situations where she does show me this public affection and I wake up to extreme pleasure. When I realized these moments were just dreams I instantly felt extreme disappointment and I know that I can not continue in this relationship like this. This girl is beautiful, funny, and i am head over heels for her but for some reason I can not get over this. Is there any way I can help fix or change this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend and I have been going out for around 6 months. We met during the summer and slowly developed feelings for each other. We text constantly and when we are alone things are great. There is obvious chemistry and affection between both of us however when in school or with friends things are different.\n\nWhenever we are in school she is very cold towards me. We share a science class and while i try to talk to her or anything in that regard she kind of half answers me and then resumes talking to her girlfriends, I am ok with this. However, things are different when not in class. In the halls we walk together from class to class and while she is not the most affectionate person, I am and want some sort of affection from her. I have tried in the past holding her hand but she flat out told me she will not do anything in the area of PDA in the school. \n\nWhen we are together with our friends she will be a little more affectionate but not much. No kissing hello or goodbye, no hugging, either just me having an arm around her or nothing. Again this bothers me a lot but I can not do anything about it. I have brought this to her attention in the past and she says that she will try to work with me on this but she hasn't changed at all in this respect. \n\nRecently I have been having dreams of texts or situations where she does show me this public affection and I wake up to extreme pleasure. When I realized these moments were just dreams I instantly felt extreme disappointment and I know that I can not continue in this relationship like this. This girl is beautiful, funny, and i am head over heels for her but for some reason I can not get over this. Is there any way I can help fix or change this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my girlfriend and I have been going out for around 6 months. We met during the summer and slowly developed feelings for each other. We text constantly and when we are alone things are great. There is obvious chemistry and affection between both of us however when in school or with friends things are different.\n\nWhenever we are in school she is very cold towards me. We share a science class and while i try to talk to her or anything in that regard she kind of half answers me and then resumes talking to her girlfriends, I am ok with this. However, things are different when not in class. In the halls we walk together from class to class and while she is not the most affectionate person, I am and want some sort of affection from her. I have tried in the past holding her hand but she flat out told me she will not do anything in the area of PDA in the school. \n\nWhen we are together with our friends she will be a little more affectionate but not much. No kissing hello or goodbye, no hugging, either just me having an arm around her or nothing. Again this bothers me a lot but I can not do anything about it. I have brought this to her attention in the past and she says that she will try to work with me on this but she hasn't changed at all in this respect. \n\nRecently I have been having dreams of texts or situations where she does show me this public affection and I wake up to extreme pleasure. When I realized these moments were just dreams I instantly felt extreme disappointment and I know that I can not continue in this relationship like this. This girl is beautiful, funny, and i am head over heels for her but for some reason I can not get over this. Is there any way I can help fix or change this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For reasons that I'd rather not get into now, I [17/M] have a ton of disposable income (in the tens of thousands of dollars). Pretty much everybody (friends, girls, etc.) knows this.\n\nNow, when I hang out with friends or go on dates with girls, I'm literally always expected to pay for everything. My friends want to go go-karting, for example, and they'll say \"Ok, /u/WeekendAfterparty will pay for it\". I've done that in the past, because the money isn't a big deal to me, but its gotten really annoying. I don't want to be seen as everyone's ATM.\n\nI'm kind of a \"yes man\". I don't like disappointing people, so I have a tough time saying no. How can I say no nicely?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For reasons that I'd rather not get into now, I [17/M] have a ton of disposable income (in the tens of thousands of dollars). Pretty much everybody (friends, girls, etc.) knows this.\n\nNow, when I hang out with friends or go on dates with girls, I'm literally always expected to pay for everything. My friends want to go go-karting, for example, and they'll say \"Ok, /u/WeekendAfterparty will pay for it\". I've done that in the past, because the money isn't a big deal to me, but its gotten really annoying. I don't want to be seen as everyone's ATM.\n\nI'm kind of a \"yes man\". I don't like disappointing people, so I have a tough time saying no. How can I say no nicely?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For reasons that I'd rather not get into now, I [17/M] have a ton of disposable income (in the tens of thousands of dollars). Pretty much everybody (friends, girls, etc.) knows this.\n\nNow, when I hang out with friends or go on dates with girls, I'm literally always expected to pay for everything. My friends want to go go-karting, for example, and they'll say \"Ok, /u/WeekendAfterparty will pay for it\". I've done that in the past, because the money isn't a big deal to me, but its gotten really annoying. I don't want to be seen as everyone's ATM.\n\nI'm kind of a \"yes man\". I don't like disappointing people, so I have a tough time saying no. How can I say no nicely?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For reasons that I'd rather not get into now, I [17/M] have a ton of disposable income (in the tens of thousands of dollars). Pretty much everybody (friends, girls, etc.) knows this.\n\nNow, when I hang out with friends or go on dates with girls, I'm literally always expected to pay for everything. My friends want to go go-karting, for example, and they'll say \"Ok, /u/WeekendAfterparty will pay for it\". I've done that in the past, because the money isn't a big deal to me, but its gotten really annoying. I don't want to be seen as everyone's ATM.\n\nI'm kind of a \"yes man\". I don't like disappointing people, so I have a tough time saying no. How can I say no nicely?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For reasons that I'd rather not get into now, I [17/M] have a ton of disposable income (in the tens of thousands of dollars). Pretty much everybody (friends, girls, etc.) knows this.\n\nNow, when I hang out with friends or go on dates with girls, I'm literally always expected to pay for everything. My friends want to go go-karting, for example, and they'll say \"Ok, /u/WeekendAfterparty will pay for it\". I've done that in the past, because the money isn't a big deal to me, but its gotten really annoying. I don't want to be seen as everyone's ATM.\n\nI'm kind of a \"yes man\". I don't like disappointing people, so I have a tough time saying no. How can I say no nicely?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For reasons that I'd rather not get into now, I [17/M] have a ton of disposable income (in the tens of thousands of dollars). Pretty much everybody (friends, girls, etc.) knows this.\n\nNow, when I hang out with friends or go on dates with girls, I'm literally always expected to pay for everything. My friends want to go go-karting, for example, and they'll say \"Ok, /u/WeekendAfterparty will pay for it\". I've done that in the past, because the money isn't a big deal to me, but its gotten really annoying. I don't want to be seen as everyone's ATM.\n\nI'm kind of a \"yes man\". I don't like disappointing people, so I have a tough time saying no. How can I say no nicely?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For reasons that I'd rather not get into now, I [17/M] have a ton of disposable income (in the tens of thousands of dollars). Pretty much everybody (friends, girls, etc.) knows this.\n\nNow, when I hang out with friends or go on dates with girls, I'm literally always expected to pay for everything. My friends want to go go-karting, for example, and they'll say \"Ok, /u/WeekendAfterparty will pay for it\". I've done that in the past, because the money isn't a big deal to me, but its gotten really annoying. I don't want to be seen as everyone's ATM.\n\nI'm kind of a \"yes man\". I don't like disappointing people, so I have a tough time saying no. How can I say no nicely?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For reasons that I'd rather not get into now, I [17/M] have a ton of disposable income (in the tens of thousands of dollars). Pretty much everybody (friends, girls, etc.) knows this.\n\nNow, when I hang out with friends or go on dates with girls, I'm literally always expected to pay for everything. My friends want to go go-karting, for example, and they'll say \"Ok, /u/WeekendAfterparty will pay for it\". I've done that in the past, because the money isn't a big deal to me, but its gotten really annoying. I don't want to be seen as everyone's ATM.\n\nI'm kind of a \"yes man\". I don't like disappointing people, so I have a tough time saying no. How can I say no nicely?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For reasons that I'd rather not get into now, I [17/M] have a ton of disposable income (in the tens of thousands of dollars). Pretty much everybody (friends, girls, etc.) knows this.\n\nNow, when I hang out with friends or go on dates with girls, I'm literally always expected to pay for everything. My friends want to go go-karting, for example, and they'll say \"Ok, /u/WeekendAfterparty will pay for it\". I've done that in the past, because the money isn't a big deal to me, but its gotten really annoying. I don't want to be seen as everyone's ATM.\n\nI'm kind of a \"yes man\". I don't like disappointing people, so I have a tough time saying no. How can I say no nicely?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For reasons that I'd rather not get into now, I [17/M] have a ton of disposable income (in the tens of thousands of dollars). Pretty much everybody (friends, girls, etc.) knows this.\n\nNow, when I hang out with friends or go on dates with girls, I'm literally always expected to pay for everything. My friends want to go go-karting, for example, and they'll say \"Ok, /u/WeekendAfterparty will pay for it\". I've done that in the past, because the money isn't a big deal to me, but its gotten really annoying. I don't want to be seen as everyone's ATM.\n\nI'm kind of a \"yes man\". I don't like disappointing people, so I have a tough time saying no. How can I say no nicely?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For reasons that I'd rather not get into now, I [17/M] have a ton of disposable income (in the tens of thousands of dollars). Pretty much everybody (friends, girls, etc.) knows this.\n\nNow, when I hang out with friends or go on dates with girls, I'm literally always expected to pay for everything. My friends want to go go-karting, for example, and they'll say \"Ok, /u/WeekendAfterparty will pay for it\". I've done that in the past, because the money isn't a big deal to me, but its gotten really annoying. I don't want to be seen as everyone's ATM.\n\nI'm kind of a \"yes man\". I don't like disappointing people, so I have a tough time saying no. How can I say no nicely?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For reasons that I'd rather not get into now, I [17/M] have a ton of disposable income (in the tens of thousands of dollars). Pretty much everybody (friends, girls, etc.) knows this.\n\nNow, when I hang out with friends or go on dates with girls, I'm literally always expected to pay for everything. My friends want to go go-karting, for example, and they'll say \"Ok, /u/WeekendAfterparty will pay for it\". I've done that in the past, because the money isn't a big deal to me, but its gotten really annoying. I don't want to be seen as everyone's ATM.\n\nI'm kind of a \"yes man\". I don't like disappointing people, so I have a tough time saying no. How can I say no nicely?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For reasons that I'd rather not get into now, I [17/M] have a ton of disposable income (in the tens of thousands of dollars). Pretty much everybody (friends, girls, etc.) knows this.\n\nNow, when I hang out with friends or go on dates with girls, I'm literally always expected to pay for everything. My friends want to go go-karting, for example, and they'll say \"Ok, /u/WeekendAfterparty will pay for it\". I've done that in the past, because the money isn't a big deal to me, but its gotten really annoying. I don't want to be seen as everyone's ATM.\n\nI'm kind of a \"yes man\". I don't like disappointing people, so I have a tough time saying no. How can I say no nicely?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For reasons that I'd rather not get into now, I [17/M] have a ton of disposable income (in the tens of thousands of dollars). Pretty much everybody (friends, girls, etc.) knows this.\n\nNow, when I hang out with friends or go on dates with girls, I'm literally always expected to pay for everything. My friends want to go go-karting, for example, and they'll say \"Ok, /u/WeekendAfterparty will pay for it\". I've done that in the past, because the money isn't a big deal to me, but its gotten really annoying. I don't want to be seen as everyone's ATM.\n\nI'm kind of a \"yes man\". I don't like disappointing people, so I have a tough time saying no. How can I say no nicely?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For reasons that I'd rather not get into now, I [17/M] have a ton of disposable income (in the tens of thousands of dollars). Pretty much everybody (friends, girls, etc.) knows this.\n\nNow, when I hang out with friends or go on dates with girls, I'm literally always expected to pay for everything. My friends want to go go-karting, for example, and they'll say \"Ok, /u/WeekendAfterparty will pay for it\". I've done that in the past, because the money isn't a big deal to me, but its gotten really annoying. I don't want to be seen as everyone's ATM.\n\nI'm kind of a \"yes man\". I don't like disappointing people, so I have a tough time saying no. How can I say no nicely?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For reasons that I'd rather not get into now, I [17/M] have a ton of disposable income (in the tens of thousands of dollars). Pretty much everybody (friends, girls, etc.) knows this.\n\nNow, when I hang out with friends or go on dates with girls, I'm literally always expected to pay for everything. My friends want to go go-karting, for example, and they'll say \"Ok, /u/WeekendAfterparty will pay for it\". I've done that in the past, because the money isn't a big deal to me, but its gotten really annoying. I don't want to be seen as everyone's ATM.\n\nI'm kind of a \"yes man\". I don't like disappointing people, so I have a tough time saying no. How can I say no nicely?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm studying abroad this semester and I broke up with my bf of a year about halfway through. Shortly after, this guy and I decided to let our relationship develop as it will, basically see where things went. I was the one that suggested it to him (we'd both noticed the chemistry we had before my breakup) and made it very clear that it was just a casual thing since we'd probably never see each other again after the semester ends. \n\nI honestly don't really know what to call our relationship, its not just FWB or fuckbuddies, we go out to eat lunch together and hang out with his friends. Neither of us is dating anyone else at the moment either (but we never stated that we're exclusive so we could in theory I guess). \n\nWhen we're by ourselves or with a couple of his friends, he's more affectionate (kisses, stroking my back, holding hands etc.) but when we're out in public he's a lot more withdrawn and there tends to be some physical distance between us. All of his friends and mine know that we're having a thing, we're not really being secretive about it at all.\n\nNow, my problem with this right now is that I'm worried about developing some deeper feelings for him. We both know that our lives are headed on very different paths and this thing has always been kind of fling-like in nature. I've thought about an LDR but I don't feel like I'm in a place where I can do a serious relationship (part of why I broke up with the ex and started this fling).\n\n Is there a way to avoid falling for him without cutting the chord in the relationship? And if not, what can I do to help enjoy the time I get with him and minimize the effects of falling for him?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm studying abroad this semester and I broke up with my bf of a year about halfway through. Shortly after, this guy and I decided to let our relationship develop as it will, basically see where things went. I was the one that suggested it to him (we'd both noticed the chemistry we had before my breakup) and made it very clear that it was just a casual thing since we'd probably never see each other again after the semester ends. \n\nI honestly don't really know what to call our relationship, its not just FWB or fuckbuddies, we go out to eat lunch together and hang out with his friends. Neither of us is dating anyone else at the moment either (but we never stated that we're exclusive so we could in theory I guess). \n\nWhen we're by ourselves or with a couple of his friends, he's more affectionate (kisses, stroking my back, holding hands etc.) but when we're out in public he's a lot more withdrawn and there tends to be some physical distance between us. All of his friends and mine know that we're having a thing, we're not really being secretive about it at all.\n\nNow, my problem with this right now is that I'm worried about developing some deeper feelings for him. We both know that our lives are headed on very different paths and this thing has always been kind of fling-like in nature. I've thought about an LDR but I don't feel like I'm in a place where I can do a serious relationship (part of why I broke up with the ex and started this fling).\n\n Is there a way to avoid falling for him without cutting the chord in the relationship? And if not, what can I do to help enjoy the time I get with him and minimize the effects of falling for him?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm studying abroad this semester and I broke up with my bf of a year about halfway through. Shortly after, this guy and I decided to let our relationship develop as it will, basically see where things went. I was the one that suggested it to him (we'd both noticed the chemistry we had before my breakup) and made it very clear that it was just a casual thing since we'd probably never see each other again after the semester ends. \n\nI honestly don't really know what to call our relationship, its not just FWB or fuckbuddies, we go out to eat lunch together and hang out with his friends. Neither of us is dating anyone else at the moment either (but we never stated that we're exclusive so we could in theory I guess). \n\nWhen we're by ourselves or with a couple of his friends, he's more affectionate (kisses, stroking my back, holding hands etc.) but when we're out in public he's a lot more withdrawn and there tends to be some physical distance between us. All of his friends and mine know that we're having a thing, we're not really being secretive about it at all.\n\nNow, my problem with this right now is that I'm worried about developing some deeper feelings for him. We both know that our lives are headed on very different paths and this thing has always been kind of fling-like in nature. I've thought about an LDR but I don't feel like I'm in a place where I can do a serious relationship (part of why I broke up with the ex and started this fling).\n\n Is there a way to avoid falling for him without cutting the chord in the relationship? And if not, what can I do to help enjoy the time I get with him and minimize the effects of falling for him?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm studying abroad this semester and I broke up with my bf of a year about halfway through. Shortly after, this guy and I decided to let our relationship develop as it will, basically see where things went. I was the one that suggested it to him (we'd both noticed the chemistry we had before my breakup) and made it very clear that it was just a casual thing since we'd probably never see each other again after the semester ends. \n\nI honestly don't really know what to call our relationship, its not just FWB or fuckbuddies, we go out to eat lunch together and hang out with his friends. Neither of us is dating anyone else at the moment either (but we never stated that we're exclusive so we could in theory I guess). \n\nWhen we're by ourselves or with a couple of his friends, he's more affectionate (kisses, stroking my back, holding hands etc.) but when we're out in public he's a lot more withdrawn and there tends to be some physical distance between us. All of his friends and mine know that we're having a thing, we're not really being secretive about it at all.\n\nNow, my problem with this right now is that I'm worried about developing some deeper feelings for him. We both know that our lives are headed on very different paths and this thing has always been kind of fling-like in nature. I've thought about an LDR but I don't feel like I'm in a place where I can do a serious relationship (part of why I broke up with the ex and started this fling).\n\n Is there a way to avoid falling for him without cutting the chord in the relationship? And if not, what can I do to help enjoy the time I get with him and minimize the effects of falling for him?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: this small dealer actually got my check on 7/10, thirty one days ago . \n\ni had the car shipped by trailer, it arrived in my driveway on friday 7/24 and it's sat there since, waiting for plates which i cannot get because dont have the title.\n\ni have the signed copy of the bill of sale and everything, the monetary transaction went through fine.\n\nbut whenever i call them to ask where the title is, they say it's \"stuck in corporate\", which is silly because this is a tiny little LA dealer and i guarantee they dont have a corporate office of any kind. \n\nis there any legal levers i can pull to get them to send it? just something to spook them into action.i thought in MA there was a thirty day grace period in which they had time to send the title but after that you could sue for damages.\n\ni REALLY REALLY need to register this car!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: this small dealer actually got my check on 7/10, thirty one days ago . \n\ni had the car shipped by trailer, it arrived in my driveway on friday 7/24 and it's sat there since, waiting for plates which i cannot get because dont have the title.\n\ni have the signed copy of the bill of sale and everything, the monetary transaction went through fine.\n\nbut whenever i call them to ask where the title is, they say it's \"stuck in corporate\", which is silly because this is a tiny little LA dealer and i guarantee they dont have a corporate office of any kind. \n\nis there any legal levers i can pull to get them to send it? just something to spook them into action.i thought in MA there was a thirty day grace period in which they had time to send the title but after that you could sue for damages.\n\ni REALLY REALLY need to register this car!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: this small dealer actually got my check on 7/10, thirty one days ago . \n\ni had the car shipped by trailer, it arrived in my driveway on friday 7/24 and it's sat there since, waiting for plates which i cannot get because dont have the title.\n\ni have the signed copy of the bill of sale and everything, the monetary transaction went through fine.\n\nbut whenever i call them to ask where the title is, they say it's \"stuck in corporate\", which is silly because this is a tiny little LA dealer and i guarantee they dont have a corporate office of any kind. \n\nis there any legal levers i can pull to get them to send it? just something to spook them into action.i thought in MA there was a thirty day grace period in which they had time to send the title but after that you could sue for damages.\n\ni REALLY REALLY need to register this car!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: this small dealer actually got my check on 7/10, thirty one days ago . \n\ni had the car shipped by trailer, it arrived in my driveway on friday 7/24 and it's sat there since, waiting for plates which i cannot get because dont have the title.\n\ni have the signed copy of the bill of sale and everything, the monetary transaction went through fine.\n\nbut whenever i call them to ask where the title is, they say it's \"stuck in corporate\", which is silly because this is a tiny little LA dealer and i guarantee they dont have a corporate office of any kind. \n\nis there any legal levers i can pull to get them to send it? just something to spook them into action.i thought in MA there was a thirty day grace period in which they had time to send the title but after that you could sue for damages.\n\ni REALLY REALLY need to register this car!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started talking to this girl I met in class about 2 months ago (we're in our early 20s). Since then we have been texting everyday nonstop. We do some obvious flirting via text so I know for sure I'm not delusional and that she's just a really nice person. Both her and I know that I will be leaving to a different state in 5 months due to work. We hung out around 4-5 times, sometimes at parties. I have not made a move on her because I never felt like it would work, but I'm not inexperienced with women either. Everytime we hang out she tends to leave around 2am but when she goes out with her friends she always stays out until like 4-5am. She says she needs to be home early because she lives with her parents but can go out til 4-5am when shes with her friends. Anyways as of now, it's always been me asking her out and such. She never invites me to go out with her which i dont mind, I get that men should be the ones initiating everything. However, my logic is, if you are truly interested in someone, wouldn't you try to spend as much time with them as possible? We are currently scheduled for a date on valentines day but I would like to hear you girl's opinions before proceeding. I don't mind if she's not interested, but I just dont want to spend my last couple of months investing in this girl when there was no real possibility of a return.\n\nHow would you girls react to a guy you're interested in but is leaving in 5 months? I dont know what she's after. Does she just want to continue texting cause she likes the attention?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started talking to this girl I met in class about 2 months ago (we're in our early 20s). Since then we have been texting everyday nonstop. We do some obvious flirting via text so I know for sure I'm not delusional and that she's just a really nice person. Both her and I know that I will be leaving to a different state in 5 months due to work. We hung out around 4-5 times, sometimes at parties. I have not made a move on her because I never felt like it would work, but I'm not inexperienced with women either. Everytime we hang out she tends to leave around 2am but when she goes out with her friends she always stays out until like 4-5am. She says she needs to be home early because she lives with her parents but can go out til 4-5am when shes with her friends. Anyways as of now, it's always been me asking her out and such. She never invites me to go out with her which i dont mind, I get that men should be the ones initiating everything. However, my logic is, if you are truly interested in someone, wouldn't you try to spend as much time with them as possible? We are currently scheduled for a date on valentines day but I would like to hear you girl's opinions before proceeding. I don't mind if she's not interested, but I just dont want to spend my last couple of months investing in this girl when there was no real possibility of a return.\n\nHow would you girls react to a guy you're interested in but is leaving in 5 months? I dont know what she's after. Does she just want to continue texting cause she likes the attention?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started talking to this girl I met in class about 2 months ago (we're in our early 20s). Since then we have been texting everyday nonstop. We do some obvious flirting via text so I know for sure I'm not delusional and that she's just a really nice person. Both her and I know that I will be leaving to a different state in 5 months due to work. We hung out around 4-5 times, sometimes at parties. I have not made a move on her because I never felt like it would work, but I'm not inexperienced with women either. Everytime we hang out she tends to leave around 2am but when she goes out with her friends she always stays out until like 4-5am. She says she needs to be home early because she lives with her parents but can go out til 4-5am when shes with her friends. Anyways as of now, it's always been me asking her out and such. She never invites me to go out with her which i dont mind, I get that men should be the ones initiating everything. However, my logic is, if you are truly interested in someone, wouldn't you try to spend as much time with them as possible? We are currently scheduled for a date on valentines day but I would like to hear you girl's opinions before proceeding. I don't mind if she's not interested, but I just dont want to spend my last couple of months investing in this girl when there was no real possibility of a return.\n\nHow would you girls react to a guy you're interested in but is leaving in 5 months? I dont know what she's after. Does she just want to continue texting cause she likes the attention?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started talking to this girl I met in class about 2 months ago (we're in our early 20s). Since then we have been texting everyday nonstop. We do some obvious flirting via text so I know for sure I'm not delusional and that she's just a really nice person. Both her and I know that I will be leaving to a different state in 5 months due to work. We hung out around 4-5 times, sometimes at parties. I have not made a move on her because I never felt like it would work, but I'm not inexperienced with women either. Everytime we hang out she tends to leave around 2am but when she goes out with her friends she always stays out until like 4-5am. She says she needs to be home early because she lives with her parents but can go out til 4-5am when shes with her friends. Anyways as of now, it's always been me asking her out and such. She never invites me to go out with her which i dont mind, I get that men should be the ones initiating everything. However, my logic is, if you are truly interested in someone, wouldn't you try to spend as much time with them as possible? We are currently scheduled for a date on valentines day but I would like to hear you girl's opinions before proceeding. I don't mind if she's not interested, but I just dont want to spend my last couple of months investing in this girl when there was no real possibility of a return.\n\nHow would you girls react to a guy you're interested in but is leaving in 5 months? I dont know what she's after. Does she just want to continue texting cause she likes the attention?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My[22F] SO[22M] of 6 years has brought up the idea of an open relationship-He's been really suggesting it the past couple months. Obviously initially I was really upset and insulted, but once he explained himself and reasons it makes a little more sense. \n\nAlthough our sex life is alright, I don't really have a high drive unlike him. I am also strongly considering the military which would have us separated for long periods of time during training and when I get stationed wherever they put me. We're also very young and haven't experienced anything outside of high school and our relationship, but we both love each other very deeply. I think his fear is regret of not having any other experiences - where I don't really care (sex really doesn't interest me much at all). \n\nSo I thought I'd ask the good people of Reddit who has had a successful experience, what the benefits were, how did you make it work, did you have any regrets? \n\nI am hesitant, but I believe that's a normal reaction - I'm a pretty sheltered person and am very recently coming out of my shell - so this is a little much for me. I'd love to hear all your advice. Thanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My[22F] SO[22M] of 6 years has brought up the idea of an open relationship-He's been really suggesting it the past couple months. Obviously initially I was really upset and insulted, but once he explained himself and reasons it makes a little more sense. \n\nAlthough our sex life is alright, I don't really have a high drive unlike him. I am also strongly considering the military which would have us separated for long periods of time during training and when I get stationed wherever they put me. We're also very young and haven't experienced anything outside of high school and our relationship, but we both love each other very deeply. I think his fear is regret of not having any other experiences - where I don't really care (sex really doesn't interest me much at all). \n\nSo I thought I'd ask the good people of Reddit who has had a successful experience, what the benefits were, how did you make it work, did you have any regrets? \n\nI am hesitant, but I believe that's a normal reaction - I'm a pretty sheltered person and am very recently coming out of my shell - so this is a little much for me. I'd love to hear all your advice. Thanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My[22F] SO[22M] of 6 years has brought up the idea of an open relationship-He's been really suggesting it the past couple months. Obviously initially I was really upset and insulted, but once he explained himself and reasons it makes a little more sense. \n\nAlthough our sex life is alright, I don't really have a high drive unlike him. I am also strongly considering the military which would have us separated for long periods of time during training and when I get stationed wherever they put me. We're also very young and haven't experienced anything outside of high school and our relationship, but we both love each other very deeply. I think his fear is regret of not having any other experiences - where I don't really care (sex really doesn't interest me much at all). \n\nSo I thought I'd ask the good people of Reddit who has had a successful experience, what the benefits were, how did you make it work, did you have any regrets? \n\nI am hesitant, but I believe that's a normal reaction - I'm a pretty sheltered person and am very recently coming out of my shell - so this is a little much for me. I'd love to hear all your advice. Thanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My[22F] SO[22M] of 6 years has brought up the idea of an open relationship-He's been really suggesting it the past couple months. Obviously initially I was really upset and insulted, but once he explained himself and reasons it makes a little more sense. \n\nAlthough our sex life is alright, I don't really have a high drive unlike him. I am also strongly considering the military which would have us separated for long periods of time during training and when I get stationed wherever they put me. We're also very young and haven't experienced anything outside of high school and our relationship, but we both love each other very deeply. I think his fear is regret of not having any other experiences - where I don't really care (sex really doesn't interest me much at all). \n\nSo I thought I'd ask the good people of Reddit who has had a successful experience, what the benefits were, how did you make it work, did you have any regrets? \n\nI am hesitant, but I believe that's a normal reaction - I'm a pretty sheltered person and am very recently coming out of my shell - so this is a little much for me. I'd love to hear all your advice. Thanks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit! Long time lurker on here but now i have a reason to get all your lovely opinions :) \n\nSo here's the background: Me and my girlfriend have been together for closing in on three years and we started like any good old angsty teen story. We were best friends since the beginning, supported each other through everything including primary and secondary school, but only dated when we both saw something else in each other, had bad relationships, you get the deal.\n\nBeing with her is awesome, like I said she was already my best friend so everything in our relationship has flowed so damn smoothly. We argue, but we admit when we're wrong and solve it. We have different interests (science v music) but we always share and conversation is always interesting. Safe to say i know her and she knows me and I feel like we are definitely in love (so much angst) \n\nHere's the deal, with university and what's coming next, we plan on being together, we're saving up to move in together and i feel like im getting washed in the feeling of it because sometimes i even think of spending the rest of our lives together. The relationship we have is like nothing I've had before, but i know how stupid this all sounds just from editing the post, especially given our age. But i just can't help but feel sometimes like this is legit, shes it. (aangst)\n\nMy problem is I don't know wether this is warranted, if it could be true or wether we're being idiots. For the record we're nearly twenty and i have had stellar relationships in the past, the last one only ending because she moved away. I would love to hear what everybody here has to say and what their opinions are and if anyone else has been in this kind of situation (sorry for the lengthy post!)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit! Long time lurker on here but now i have a reason to get all your lovely opinions :) \n\nSo here's the background: Me and my girlfriend have been together for closing in on three years and we started like any good old angsty teen story. We were best friends since the beginning, supported each other through everything including primary and secondary school, but only dated when we both saw something else in each other, had bad relationships, you get the deal.\n\nBeing with her is awesome, like I said she was already my best friend so everything in our relationship has flowed so damn smoothly. We argue, but we admit when we're wrong and solve it. We have different interests (science v music) but we always share and conversation is always interesting. Safe to say i know her and she knows me and I feel like we are definitely in love (so much angst) \n\nHere's the deal, with university and what's coming next, we plan on being together, we're saving up to move in together and i feel like im getting washed in the feeling of it because sometimes i even think of spending the rest of our lives together. The relationship we have is like nothing I've had before, but i know how stupid this all sounds just from editing the post, especially given our age. But i just can't help but feel sometimes like this is legit, shes it. (aangst)\n\nMy problem is I don't know wether this is warranted, if it could be true or wether we're being idiots. For the record we're nearly twenty and i have had stellar relationships in the past, the last one only ending because she moved away. I would love to hear what everybody here has to say and what their opinions are and if anyone else has been in this kind of situation (sorry for the lengthy post!)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit! Long time lurker on here but now i have a reason to get all your lovely opinions :) \n\nSo here's the background: Me and my girlfriend have been together for closing in on three years and we started like any good old angsty teen story. We were best friends since the beginning, supported each other through everything including primary and secondary school, but only dated when we both saw something else in each other, had bad relationships, you get the deal.\n\nBeing with her is awesome, like I said she was already my best friend so everything in our relationship has flowed so damn smoothly. We argue, but we admit when we're wrong and solve it. We have different interests (science v music) but we always share and conversation is always interesting. Safe to say i know her and she knows me and I feel like we are definitely in love (so much angst) \n\nHere's the deal, with university and what's coming next, we plan on being together, we're saving up to move in together and i feel like im getting washed in the feeling of it because sometimes i even think of spending the rest of our lives together. The relationship we have is like nothing I've had before, but i know how stupid this all sounds just from editing the post, especially given our age. But i just can't help but feel sometimes like this is legit, shes it. (aangst)\n\nMy problem is I don't know wether this is warranted, if it could be true or wether we're being idiots. For the record we're nearly twenty and i have had stellar relationships in the past, the last one only ending because she moved away. I would love to hear what everybody here has to say and what their opinions are and if anyone else has been in this kind of situation (sorry for the lengthy post!)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello reddit! Long time lurker on here but now i have a reason to get all your lovely opinions :) \n\nSo here's the background: Me and my girlfriend have been together for closing in on three years and we started like any good old angsty teen story. We were best friends since the beginning, supported each other through everything including primary and secondary school, but only dated when we both saw something else in each other, had bad relationships, you get the deal.\n\nBeing with her is awesome, like I said she was already my best friend so everything in our relationship has flowed so damn smoothly. We argue, but we admit when we're wrong and solve it. We have different interests (science v music) but we always share and conversation is always interesting. Safe to say i know her and she knows me and I feel like we are definitely in love (so much angst) \n\nHere's the deal, with university and what's coming next, we plan on being together, we're saving up to move in together and i feel like im getting washed in the feeling of it because sometimes i even think of spending the rest of our lives together. The relationship we have is like nothing I've had before, but i know how stupid this all sounds just from editing the post, especially given our age. But i just can't help but feel sometimes like this is legit, shes it. (aangst)\n\nMy problem is I don't know wether this is warranted, if it could be true or wether we're being idiots. For the record we're nearly twenty and i have had stellar relationships in the past, the last one only ending because she moved away. I would love to hear what everybody here has to say and what their opinions are and if anyone else has been in this kind of situation (sorry for the lengthy post!)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Originally, I was supposed to be at her house this morning nearing on 8 AM. We were going to fall back asleep, shower, cook breakfast, and spend the day together. I wake up at 8 AM and text her - no answer. I call her - no answer. I figure she's still sleeping and set my alarm for 9 AM (I have no way of letting myself into her house.) I wake up again and same thing - no answer. I go back to sleep and don't set an alarm because I figure she's decided to sleep in. I wake up around 10:30 and she's finally awake, and seems a little peeved I wasn't awake at 9:30 like she was. I tell her I'm going to shower at my place because it's already getting late and makes more sense, then we'll continue our day. I'm about to leave for her house and she seems very upset with me. Was I in the wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Originally, I was supposed to be at her house this morning nearing on 8 AM. We were going to fall back asleep, shower, cook breakfast, and spend the day together. I wake up at 8 AM and text her - no answer. I call her - no answer. I figure she's still sleeping and set my alarm for 9 AM (I have no way of letting myself into her house.) I wake up again and same thing - no answer. I go back to sleep and don't set an alarm because I figure she's decided to sleep in. I wake up around 10:30 and she's finally awake, and seems a little peeved I wasn't awake at 9:30 like she was. I tell her I'm going to shower at my place because it's already getting late and makes more sense, then we'll continue our day. I'm about to leave for her house and she seems very upset with me. Was I in the wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Originally, I was supposed to be at her house this morning nearing on 8 AM. We were going to fall back asleep, shower, cook breakfast, and spend the day together. I wake up at 8 AM and text her - no answer. I call her - no answer. I figure she's still sleeping and set my alarm for 9 AM (I have no way of letting myself into her house.) I wake up again and same thing - no answer. I go back to sleep and don't set an alarm because I figure she's decided to sleep in. I wake up around 10:30 and she's finally awake, and seems a little peeved I wasn't awake at 9:30 like she was. I tell her I'm going to shower at my place because it's already getting late and makes more sense, then we'll continue our day. I'm about to leave for her house and she seems very upset with me. Was I in the wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Originally, I was supposed to be at her house this morning nearing on 8 AM. We were going to fall back asleep, shower, cook breakfast, and spend the day together. I wake up at 8 AM and text her - no answer. I call her - no answer. I figure she's still sleeping and set my alarm for 9 AM (I have no way of letting myself into her house.) I wake up again and same thing - no answer. I go back to sleep and don't set an alarm because I figure she's decided to sleep in. I wake up around 10:30 and she's finally awake, and seems a little peeved I wasn't awake at 9:30 like she was. I tell her I'm going to shower at my place because it's already getting late and makes more sense, then we'll continue our day. I'm about to leave for her house and she seems very upset with me. Was I in the wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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