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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \nI'm using a throwaway for this one. \nI need your help, everyone. You all do so well with your weightless, its outstanding and I am all so happy for. \n\nFirst a little back story and information: I[f] am 19 years old, 20 in January and I have been overweight all my life and obese for at least half of it. Currently I weigh 225lbs. My senior year in high school (fall) I was down to 178. By my freshman year in college I was back up to 225 and then by the following summer, I was at 250lb. At this point in my sophomore year, I am down again but I've come to a plateau and I'm losing hope. Also, a huge game changer has came into the picture. My weight loss partner, my mother, has jumped the natural weight loss band wagon and chose to receive weight loss surgery. Not only do I no longer have a weight loss partner, I feel like I'm in competition and have a damn near anxiety attack when I think about her being skinnier than me (I know, I know that sounds bad). \n\nBasically what I am saying is I need your help. I want to know all of your tips and tricks, your fad diets, your supplements, your go-to exercises (keeping in mind that running is not my thing.yet). I need your help guys, because I want to do this for my health, my self esteem, my family and for myself. I owe this to myself, but I need your help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \nI'm using a throwaway for this one. \nI need your help, everyone. You all do so well with your weightless, its outstanding and I am all so happy for. \n\nFirst a little back story and information: I[f] am 19 years old, 20 in January and I have been overweight all my life and obese for at least half of it. Currently I weigh 225lbs. My senior year in high school (fall) I was down to 178. By my freshman year in college I was back up to 225 and then by the following summer, I was at 250lb. At this point in my sophomore year, I am down again but I've come to a plateau and I'm losing hope. Also, a huge game changer has came into the picture. My weight loss partner, my mother, has jumped the natural weight loss band wagon and chose to receive weight loss surgery. Not only do I no longer have a weight loss partner, I feel like I'm in competition and have a damn near anxiety attack when I think about her being skinnier than me (I know, I know that sounds bad). \n\nBasically what I am saying is I need your help. I want to know all of your tips and tricks, your fad diets, your supplements, your go-to exercises (keeping in mind that running is not my thing.yet). I need your help guys, because I want to do this for my health, my self esteem, my family and for myself. I owe this to myself, but I need your help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \nI'm using a throwaway for this one. \nI need your help, everyone. You all do so well with your weightless, its outstanding and I am all so happy for. \n\nFirst a little back story and information: I[f] am 19 years old, 20 in January and I have been overweight all my life and obese for at least half of it. Currently I weigh 225lbs. My senior year in high school (fall) I was down to 178. By my freshman year in college I was back up to 225 and then by the following summer, I was at 250lb. At this point in my sophomore year, I am down again but I've come to a plateau and I'm losing hope. Also, a huge game changer has came into the picture. My weight loss partner, my mother, has jumped the natural weight loss band wagon and chose to receive weight loss surgery. Not only do I no longer have a weight loss partner, I feel like I'm in competition and have a damn near anxiety attack when I think about her being skinnier than me (I know, I know that sounds bad). \n\nBasically what I am saying is I need your help. I want to know all of your tips and tricks, your fad diets, your supplements, your go-to exercises (keeping in mind that running is not my thing.yet). I need your help guys, because I want to do this for my health, my self esteem, my family and for myself. I owe this to myself, but I need your help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \nI'm using a throwaway for this one. \nI need your help, everyone. You all do so well with your weightless, its outstanding and I am all so happy for. \n\nFirst a little back story and information: I[f] am 19 years old, 20 in January and I have been overweight all my life and obese for at least half of it. Currently I weigh 225lbs. My senior year in high school (fall) I was down to 178. By my freshman year in college I was back up to 225 and then by the following summer, I was at 250lb. At this point in my sophomore year, I am down again but I've come to a plateau and I'm losing hope. Also, a huge game changer has came into the picture. My weight loss partner, my mother, has jumped the natural weight loss band wagon and chose to receive weight loss surgery. Not only do I no longer have a weight loss partner, I feel like I'm in competition and have a damn near anxiety attack when I think about her being skinnier than me (I know, I know that sounds bad). \n\nBasically what I am saying is I need your help. I want to know all of your tips and tricks, your fad diets, your supplements, your go-to exercises (keeping in mind that running is not my thing.yet). I need your help guys, because I want to do this for my health, my self esteem, my family and for myself. I owe this to myself, but I need your help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \nI'm using a throwaway for this one. \nI need your help, everyone. You all do so well with your weightless, its outstanding and I am all so happy for. \n\nFirst a little back story and information: I[f] am 19 years old, 20 in January and I have been overweight all my life and obese for at least half of it. Currently I weigh 225lbs. My senior year in high school (fall) I was down to 178. By my freshman year in college I was back up to 225 and then by the following summer, I was at 250lb. At this point in my sophomore year, I am down again but I've come to a plateau and I'm losing hope. Also, a huge game changer has came into the picture. My weight loss partner, my mother, has jumped the natural weight loss band wagon and chose to receive weight loss surgery. Not only do I no longer have a weight loss partner, I feel like I'm in competition and have a damn near anxiety attack when I think about her being skinnier than me (I know, I know that sounds bad). \n\nBasically what I am saying is I need your help. I want to know all of your tips and tricks, your fad diets, your supplements, your go-to exercises (keeping in mind that running is not my thing.yet). I need your help guys, because I want to do this for my health, my self esteem, my family and for myself. I owe this to myself, but I need your help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \nI'm using a throwaway for this one. \nI need your help, everyone. You all do so well with your weightless, its outstanding and I am all so happy for. \n\nFirst a little back story and information: I[f] am 19 years old, 20 in January and I have been overweight all my life and obese for at least half of it. Currently I weigh 225lbs. My senior year in high school (fall) I was down to 178. By my freshman year in college I was back up to 225 and then by the following summer, I was at 250lb. At this point in my sophomore year, I am down again but I've come to a plateau and I'm losing hope. Also, a huge game changer has came into the picture. My weight loss partner, my mother, has jumped the natural weight loss band wagon and chose to receive weight loss surgery. Not only do I no longer have a weight loss partner, I feel like I'm in competition and have a damn near anxiety attack when I think about her being skinnier than me (I know, I know that sounds bad). \n\nBasically what I am saying is I need your help. I want to know all of your tips and tricks, your fad diets, your supplements, your go-to exercises (keeping in mind that running is not my thing.yet). I need your help guys, because I want to do this for my health, my self esteem, my family and for myself. I owe this to myself, but I need your help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was noodling over some of the less than savory people and companies that I've encountered over the years and was at a loss at how to deal with them in the future.\n\n*Here's the \"hypothetical\" situation:*\n\nI know of a person who had been talking about making a purchase, but she didn't have enough money to pay for it. She rents a house and sublets the rooms in the house, which puts means that she fronted the money for the deposit and then has her roommates give her money for their portion when they move in. Since she couldn't afford her purchase on her own and decided that her immediate needs were more important than being a good person, she decided to use the money her roommates gave her for their deposit to pay for her purchase.\n\nShe used her roommates' safety deposit as a small loan to pay for something that she couldn't afford.\n\nThis, to me, seems super illegal. Especially since she'll be moving in the next few months and it doesn't seem like she will have the money to return these deposits to her roommates.\n\nIf you're an outside observer seeing these things happen, is there a way to report it? Is there a way to hold people accountable before shit hits the fan?\n\nOn a larger scale, my SO works across the hall from what appears to be a pyramid scheme, of the investment fraud variety. What about them? Is there any way to play vigilante there? Can you just go to the cops and be like, \"there's a pyramid scheme going on in my office building. Please bring them to justice.\"\n\nI don't think I would ever feel so compelled to play vigilante, but it was an interesting thought experiment and continues to baffle me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was noodling over some of the less than savory people and companies that I've encountered over the years and was at a loss at how to deal with them in the future.\n\n*Here's the \"hypothetical\" situation:*\n\nI know of a person who had been talking about making a purchase, but she didn't have enough money to pay for it. She rents a house and sublets the rooms in the house, which puts means that she fronted the money for the deposit and then has her roommates give her money for their portion when they move in. Since she couldn't afford her purchase on her own and decided that her immediate needs were more important than being a good person, she decided to use the money her roommates gave her for their deposit to pay for her purchase.\n\nShe used her roommates' safety deposit as a small loan to pay for something that she couldn't afford.\n\nThis, to me, seems super illegal. Especially since she'll be moving in the next few months and it doesn't seem like she will have the money to return these deposits to her roommates.\n\nIf you're an outside observer seeing these things happen, is there a way to report it? Is there a way to hold people accountable before shit hits the fan?\n\nOn a larger scale, my SO works across the hall from what appears to be a pyramid scheme, of the investment fraud variety. What about them? Is there any way to play vigilante there? Can you just go to the cops and be like, \"there's a pyramid scheme going on in my office building. Please bring them to justice.\"\n\nI don't think I would ever feel so compelled to play vigilante, but it was an interesting thought experiment and continues to baffle me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was noodling over some of the less than savory people and companies that I've encountered over the years and was at a loss at how to deal with them in the future.\n\n*Here's the \"hypothetical\" situation:*\n\nI know of a person who had been talking about making a purchase, but she didn't have enough money to pay for it. She rents a house and sublets the rooms in the house, which puts means that she fronted the money for the deposit and then has her roommates give her money for their portion when they move in. Since she couldn't afford her purchase on her own and decided that her immediate needs were more important than being a good person, she decided to use the money her roommates gave her for their deposit to pay for her purchase.\n\nShe used her roommates' safety deposit as a small loan to pay for something that she couldn't afford.\n\nThis, to me, seems super illegal. Especially since she'll be moving in the next few months and it doesn't seem like she will have the money to return these deposits to her roommates.\n\nIf you're an outside observer seeing these things happen, is there a way to report it? Is there a way to hold people accountable before shit hits the fan?\n\nOn a larger scale, my SO works across the hall from what appears to be a pyramid scheme, of the investment fraud variety. What about them? Is there any way to play vigilante there? Can you just go to the cops and be like, \"there's a pyramid scheme going on in my office building. Please bring them to justice.\"\n\nI don't think I would ever feel so compelled to play vigilante, but it was an interesting thought experiment and continues to baffle me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was noodling over some of the less than savory people and companies that I've encountered over the years and was at a loss at how to deal with them in the future.\n\n*Here's the \"hypothetical\" situation:*\n\nI know of a person who had been talking about making a purchase, but she didn't have enough money to pay for it. She rents a house and sublets the rooms in the house, which puts means that she fronted the money for the deposit and then has her roommates give her money for their portion when they move in. Since she couldn't afford her purchase on her own and decided that her immediate needs were more important than being a good person, she decided to use the money her roommates gave her for their deposit to pay for her purchase.\n\nShe used her roommates' safety deposit as a small loan to pay for something that she couldn't afford.\n\nThis, to me, seems super illegal. Especially since she'll be moving in the next few months and it doesn't seem like she will have the money to return these deposits to her roommates.\n\nIf you're an outside observer seeing these things happen, is there a way to report it? Is there a way to hold people accountable before shit hits the fan?\n\nOn a larger scale, my SO works across the hall from what appears to be a pyramid scheme, of the investment fraud variety. What about them? Is there any way to play vigilante there? Can you just go to the cops and be like, \"there's a pyramid scheme going on in my office building. Please bring them to justice.\"\n\nI don't think I would ever feel so compelled to play vigilante, but it was an interesting thought experiment and continues to baffle me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over a year ago I was given a Wurlitzer 200 (or 200A. I had it figured out then, but I cannot recall which it is at the moment.) It was in somewhat shabby condition, quite dusty, a few keys stick, etc. so I cleaned it up quite a bit (without messing with actual wiring or conductors). A customer at the store I worked at thought of me when he found it at an estate sale, hardly paid $20 for it, and passed it on to me with the condition that I do something nice for someone else. I accepted his condition :)\n\nNow, I am not a keyboard player. I could be, but I haven't had a major urge to be (just thought it'd be cool is about it). I was excited about the type of project the Wurlitzer could be, but I still haven't attacked it yet.\n\nThree days ago, a good friend of mine and her husband visited. They are actively (and quite successfully) pursuing music. He asked me today if I would consider selling it so that he could fix it up (he's quite capable) and give it to his wife for Christmas. He was very cool about asking and isn't being pushy at all.\n\nAlthough we haven't stayed in close contact, she is one of my favorite people ever. Her husband is pretty rad, too. I'm strongly considering letting them have it, but I have no clue what to ask for (if anything.) He's gonna check it out more thoroughly tomorrow (upon my suggestion.)\n\nWhat do you suggest I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over a year ago I was given a Wurlitzer 200 (or 200A. I had it figured out then, but I cannot recall which it is at the moment.) It was in somewhat shabby condition, quite dusty, a few keys stick, etc. so I cleaned it up quite a bit (without messing with actual wiring or conductors). A customer at the store I worked at thought of me when he found it at an estate sale, hardly paid $20 for it, and passed it on to me with the condition that I do something nice for someone else. I accepted his condition :)\n\nNow, I am not a keyboard player. I could be, but I haven't had a major urge to be (just thought it'd be cool is about it). I was excited about the type of project the Wurlitzer could be, but I still haven't attacked it yet.\n\nThree days ago, a good friend of mine and her husband visited. They are actively (and quite successfully) pursuing music. He asked me today if I would consider selling it so that he could fix it up (he's quite capable) and give it to his wife for Christmas. He was very cool about asking and isn't being pushy at all.\n\nAlthough we haven't stayed in close contact, she is one of my favorite people ever. Her husband is pretty rad, too. I'm strongly considering letting them have it, but I have no clue what to ask for (if anything.) He's gonna check it out more thoroughly tomorrow (upon my suggestion.)\n\nWhat do you suggest I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over a year ago I was given a Wurlitzer 200 (or 200A. I had it figured out then, but I cannot recall which it is at the moment.) It was in somewhat shabby condition, quite dusty, a few keys stick, etc. so I cleaned it up quite a bit (without messing with actual wiring or conductors). A customer at the store I worked at thought of me when he found it at an estate sale, hardly paid $20 for it, and passed it on to me with the condition that I do something nice for someone else. I accepted his condition :)\n\nNow, I am not a keyboard player. I could be, but I haven't had a major urge to be (just thought it'd be cool is about it). I was excited about the type of project the Wurlitzer could be, but I still haven't attacked it yet.\n\nThree days ago, a good friend of mine and her husband visited. They are actively (and quite successfully) pursuing music. He asked me today if I would consider selling it so that he could fix it up (he's quite capable) and give it to his wife for Christmas. He was very cool about asking and isn't being pushy at all.\n\nAlthough we haven't stayed in close contact, she is one of my favorite people ever. Her husband is pretty rad, too. I'm strongly considering letting them have it, but I have no clue what to ask for (if anything.) He's gonna check it out more thoroughly tomorrow (upon my suggestion.)\n\nWhat do you suggest I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Over a year ago I was given a Wurlitzer 200 (or 200A. I had it figured out then, but I cannot recall which it is at the moment.) It was in somewhat shabby condition, quite dusty, a few keys stick, etc. so I cleaned it up quite a bit (without messing with actual wiring or conductors). A customer at the store I worked at thought of me when he found it at an estate sale, hardly paid $20 for it, and passed it on to me with the condition that I do something nice for someone else. I accepted his condition :)\n\nNow, I am not a keyboard player. I could be, but I haven't had a major urge to be (just thought it'd be cool is about it). I was excited about the type of project the Wurlitzer could be, but I still haven't attacked it yet.\n\nThree days ago, a good friend of mine and her husband visited. They are actively (and quite successfully) pursuing music. He asked me today if I would consider selling it so that he could fix it up (he's quite capable) and give it to his wife for Christmas. He was very cool about asking and isn't being pushy at all.\n\nAlthough we haven't stayed in close contact, she is one of my favorite people ever. Her husband is pretty rad, too. I'm strongly considering letting them have it, but I have no clue what to ask for (if anything.) He's gonna check it out more thoroughly tomorrow (upon my suggestion.)\n\nWhat do you suggest I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, everyone,\n\nI'll do my best to keep this as succinctly as possible. I, until recently, was Catholic; and I work in a Catholic parish where I teach adults looking at entering into the church and coordinate events and worship services with the church. In the past, I was married, my wife choosing to divorce me to go live with her boyfriend. In the years that have passed since, I have found someone that I love very deeply and wish to get married to. However, due to the beurocracy in the Catholic Church, I am unable to get married due to the fact that the annulment is still in process and isn't yet complete. So, we got engaged and will move forward with the wedding in due time when we can.\n\nAnyway, I just got out of a staff meeting where a rather meddling co-worker decided to stalk my facebook account and saw that we had held a small engagement party over the course of last weekend. He blew this up Infront of the entire staff and my boss, essentially outing me for \"not living church teaching\".\n\nSo, I have a feeling in a little bit my boss is going to come to my office and I'm going to get fired. What are my options? I don't suppose I can sue them for discrimination due to terminating me because I was getting married, can I? Hell, can I at least file for unemployment?\n\nNeedless to say, I don't intend to work for the Catholic Church beyond this. I'm already putting in other job applications; I'm just hoping some of you will have some insight on what my options are if I do get fired."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, everyone,\n\nI'll do my best to keep this as succinctly as possible. I, until recently, was Catholic; and I work in a Catholic parish where I teach adults looking at entering into the church and coordinate events and worship services with the church. In the past, I was married, my wife choosing to divorce me to go live with her boyfriend. In the years that have passed since, I have found someone that I love very deeply and wish to get married to. However, due to the beurocracy in the Catholic Church, I am unable to get married due to the fact that the annulment is still in process and isn't yet complete. So, we got engaged and will move forward with the wedding in due time when we can.\n\nAnyway, I just got out of a staff meeting where a rather meddling co-worker decided to stalk my facebook account and saw that we had held a small engagement party over the course of last weekend. He blew this up Infront of the entire staff and my boss, essentially outing me for \"not living church teaching\".\n\nSo, I have a feeling in a little bit my boss is going to come to my office and I'm going to get fired. What are my options? I don't suppose I can sue them for discrimination due to terminating me because I was getting married, can I? Hell, can I at least file for unemployment?\n\nNeedless to say, I don't intend to work for the Catholic Church beyond this. I'm already putting in other job applications; I'm just hoping some of you will have some insight on what my options are if I do get fired."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, everyone,\n\nI'll do my best to keep this as succinctly as possible. I, until recently, was Catholic; and I work in a Catholic parish where I teach adults looking at entering into the church and coordinate events and worship services with the church. In the past, I was married, my wife choosing to divorce me to go live with her boyfriend. In the years that have passed since, I have found someone that I love very deeply and wish to get married to. However, due to the beurocracy in the Catholic Church, I am unable to get married due to the fact that the annulment is still in process and isn't yet complete. So, we got engaged and will move forward with the wedding in due time when we can.\n\nAnyway, I just got out of a staff meeting where a rather meddling co-worker decided to stalk my facebook account and saw that we had held a small engagement party over the course of last weekend. He blew this up Infront of the entire staff and my boss, essentially outing me for \"not living church teaching\".\n\nSo, I have a feeling in a little bit my boss is going to come to my office and I'm going to get fired. What are my options? I don't suppose I can sue them for discrimination due to terminating me because I was getting married, can I? Hell, can I at least file for unemployment?\n\nNeedless to say, I don't intend to work for the Catholic Church beyond this. I'm already putting in other job applications; I'm just hoping some of you will have some insight on what my options are if I do get fired."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, everyone,\n\nI'll do my best to keep this as succinctly as possible. I, until recently, was Catholic; and I work in a Catholic parish where I teach adults looking at entering into the church and coordinate events and worship services with the church. In the past, I was married, my wife choosing to divorce me to go live with her boyfriend. In the years that have passed since, I have found someone that I love very deeply and wish to get married to. However, due to the beurocracy in the Catholic Church, I am unable to get married due to the fact that the annulment is still in process and isn't yet complete. So, we got engaged and will move forward with the wedding in due time when we can.\n\nAnyway, I just got out of a staff meeting where a rather meddling co-worker decided to stalk my facebook account and saw that we had held a small engagement party over the course of last weekend. He blew this up Infront of the entire staff and my boss, essentially outing me for \"not living church teaching\".\n\nSo, I have a feeling in a little bit my boss is going to come to my office and I'm going to get fired. What are my options? I don't suppose I can sue them for discrimination due to terminating me because I was getting married, can I? Hell, can I at least file for unemployment?\n\nNeedless to say, I don't intend to work for the Catholic Church beyond this. I'm already putting in other job applications; I'm just hoping some of you will have some insight on what my options are if I do get fired."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So tonight I've been on a music station site in the chat and I met this guy who basically says he is losing motivation in life and tired of it. \nHe is 28, living with parents, still pursuing a college degree, says he has no social life anymore, hasn't had a job in a long time, losing motivation, etc. \n\nI really think I helped him a bit tonight with support and relating to him, because I really can. The only other person he was talking with was a bit harsh to him. This first guy I'm talking about, said he liked it and needed it, to have someone be harsh on him, but I think over the long run it has silently made him worse actually. He said he's been on for 3 years and they have known each other in the chat for a couple years. \n\nAnyways, I tried to get him on reddit to talk to him more and he can get support or just some people to talk to or find some subs he likes, I think that is all he really needs, because I was in a similar position and, no matter how neckbeard it sounds, Reddit really helped me. But I kind of hit a wall, he doesn't seem interested and seems to accept his situation like it will always be like that. What else can I do? I really want to help him and can't just let him continue like this, he's not well or happy, he has expressed that and nobody seems to have don't anything about it.\n\nWhat do you guys think I should do or say? Anyone else ever had an experience or relationship like this? How did it go and what happened?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So tonight I've been on a music station site in the chat and I met this guy who basically says he is losing motivation in life and tired of it. \nHe is 28, living with parents, still pursuing a college degree, says he has no social life anymore, hasn't had a job in a long time, losing motivation, etc. \n\nI really think I helped him a bit tonight with support and relating to him, because I really can. The only other person he was talking with was a bit harsh to him. This first guy I'm talking about, said he liked it and needed it, to have someone be harsh on him, but I think over the long run it has silently made him worse actually. He said he's been on for 3 years and they have known each other in the chat for a couple years. \n\nAnyways, I tried to get him on reddit to talk to him more and he can get support or just some people to talk to or find some subs he likes, I think that is all he really needs, because I was in a similar position and, no matter how neckbeard it sounds, Reddit really helped me. But I kind of hit a wall, he doesn't seem interested and seems to accept his situation like it will always be like that. What else can I do? I really want to help him and can't just let him continue like this, he's not well or happy, he has expressed that and nobody seems to have don't anything about it.\n\nWhat do you guys think I should do or say? Anyone else ever had an experience or relationship like this? How did it go and what happened?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So tonight I've been on a music station site in the chat and I met this guy who basically says he is losing motivation in life and tired of it. \nHe is 28, living with parents, still pursuing a college degree, says he has no social life anymore, hasn't had a job in a long time, losing motivation, etc. \n\nI really think I helped him a bit tonight with support and relating to him, because I really can. The only other person he was talking with was a bit harsh to him. This first guy I'm talking about, said he liked it and needed it, to have someone be harsh on him, but I think over the long run it has silently made him worse actually. He said he's been on for 3 years and they have known each other in the chat for a couple years. \n\nAnyways, I tried to get him on reddit to talk to him more and he can get support or just some people to talk to or find some subs he likes, I think that is all he really needs, because I was in a similar position and, no matter how neckbeard it sounds, Reddit really helped me. But I kind of hit a wall, he doesn't seem interested and seems to accept his situation like it will always be like that. What else can I do? I really want to help him and can't just let him continue like this, he's not well or happy, he has expressed that and nobody seems to have don't anything about it.\n\nWhat do you guys think I should do or say? Anyone else ever had an experience or relationship like this? How did it go and what happened?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So tonight I've been on a music station site in the chat and I met this guy who basically says he is losing motivation in life and tired of it. \nHe is 28, living with parents, still pursuing a college degree, says he has no social life anymore, hasn't had a job in a long time, losing motivation, etc. \n\nI really think I helped him a bit tonight with support and relating to him, because I really can. The only other person he was talking with was a bit harsh to him. This first guy I'm talking about, said he liked it and needed it, to have someone be harsh on him, but I think over the long run it has silently made him worse actually. He said he's been on for 3 years and they have known each other in the chat for a couple years. \n\nAnyways, I tried to get him on reddit to talk to him more and he can get support or just some people to talk to or find some subs he likes, I think that is all he really needs, because I was in a similar position and, no matter how neckbeard it sounds, Reddit really helped me. But I kind of hit a wall, he doesn't seem interested and seems to accept his situation like it will always be like that. What else can I do? I really want to help him and can't just let him continue like this, he's not well or happy, he has expressed that and nobody seems to have don't anything about it.\n\nWhat do you guys think I should do or say? Anyone else ever had an experience or relationship like this? How did it go and what happened?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: hey, hope your having a nice day. barley use reddit so i might be bad at it. i feel like i need to talk to someone but i don't want to annoy someone i actually know so here i go. so 5 weeks ago i got girls number (we were both going to a camp in the wilderness in different groups) and was super happy because it was the last day of camp. she was SOO beautiful and super funny (was from britian and being Canadian that's exotic to me so its a plus) BUT when we were leaving her leader comes up to me and brings a hammer on me by saying she is already commited. i wasn't super sad cause its no big deal cause nothing had happened but i was kinda bummed. anyway i still sent here a text saying that it was cool that she had someone already but in the future dont be giving out your number. anyway fast forward 4 weeks after that im still thinking bout her and need to get her out my head so i send another text asking for a reply so i can have closure. nothing. so now its 1 week later and im still thinking bout her and need to do somthing cause at this point im thinking about calling her to see if she got the texts but i think that would be weird. so i thought id come on here and vent instead and hopefully get some relief"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: hey, hope your having a nice day. barley use reddit so i might be bad at it. i feel like i need to talk to someone but i don't want to annoy someone i actually know so here i go. so 5 weeks ago i got girls number (we were both going to a camp in the wilderness in different groups) and was super happy because it was the last day of camp. she was SOO beautiful and super funny (was from britian and being Canadian that's exotic to me so its a plus) BUT when we were leaving her leader comes up to me and brings a hammer on me by saying she is already commited. i wasn't super sad cause its no big deal cause nothing had happened but i was kinda bummed. anyway i still sent here a text saying that it was cool that she had someone already but in the future dont be giving out your number. anyway fast forward 4 weeks after that im still thinking bout her and need to get her out my head so i send another text asking for a reply so i can have closure. nothing. so now its 1 week later and im still thinking bout her and need to do somthing cause at this point im thinking about calling her to see if she got the texts but i think that would be weird. so i thought id come on here and vent instead and hopefully get some relief"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: hey, hope your having a nice day. barley use reddit so i might be bad at it. i feel like i need to talk to someone but i don't want to annoy someone i actually know so here i go. so 5 weeks ago i got girls number (we were both going to a camp in the wilderness in different groups) and was super happy because it was the last day of camp. she was SOO beautiful and super funny (was from britian and being Canadian that's exotic to me so its a plus) BUT when we were leaving her leader comes up to me and brings a hammer on me by saying she is already commited. i wasn't super sad cause its no big deal cause nothing had happened but i was kinda bummed. anyway i still sent here a text saying that it was cool that she had someone already but in the future dont be giving out your number. anyway fast forward 4 weeks after that im still thinking bout her and need to get her out my head so i send another text asking for a reply so i can have closure. nothing. so now its 1 week later and im still thinking bout her and need to do somthing cause at this point im thinking about calling her to see if she got the texts but i think that would be weird. so i thought id come on here and vent instead and hopefully get some relief"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: hey, hope your having a nice day. barley use reddit so i might be bad at it. i feel like i need to talk to someone but i don't want to annoy someone i actually know so here i go. so 5 weeks ago i got girls number (we were both going to a camp in the wilderness in different groups) and was super happy because it was the last day of camp. she was SOO beautiful and super funny (was from britian and being Canadian that's exotic to me so its a plus) BUT when we were leaving her leader comes up to me and brings a hammer on me by saying she is already commited. i wasn't super sad cause its no big deal cause nothing had happened but i was kinda bummed. anyway i still sent here a text saying that it was cool that she had someone already but in the future dont be giving out your number. anyway fast forward 4 weeks after that im still thinking bout her and need to get her out my head so i send another text asking for a reply so i can have closure. nothing. so now its 1 week later and im still thinking bout her and need to do somthing cause at this point im thinking about calling her to see if she got the texts but i think that would be weird. so i thought id come on here and vent instead and hopefully get some relief"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, so I really like this girl and we've been getting pretty close and really flirty. We've been on a couple dates and I want to ask her to be steady/in-a-relationship with me and I have an idea that I'd like to run by you. This girl really likes a certain celebrity who uses twitter a lot, so I was thinking of asking him to ask her for me over twitter (i.e. \"Hey Jane, will you go out with John?\"). I can definitely see the celebrity being a nice guy and doing it. Plus, she follows his tweets religiously, so I know she'll see it. I'm trying to be clever or do it a way she would remember (I'm NOT thinking of doing it because I feel awkward or nervous). Is this a good idea that will be well received or should I just do it myself?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, so I really like this girl and we've been getting pretty close and really flirty. We've been on a couple dates and I want to ask her to be steady/in-a-relationship with me and I have an idea that I'd like to run by you. This girl really likes a certain celebrity who uses twitter a lot, so I was thinking of asking him to ask her for me over twitter (i.e. \"Hey Jane, will you go out with John?\"). I can definitely see the celebrity being a nice guy and doing it. Plus, she follows his tweets religiously, so I know she'll see it. I'm trying to be clever or do it a way she would remember (I'm NOT thinking of doing it because I feel awkward or nervous). Is this a good idea that will be well received or should I just do it myself?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, so I really like this girl and we've been getting pretty close and really flirty. We've been on a couple dates and I want to ask her to be steady/in-a-relationship with me and I have an idea that I'd like to run by you. This girl really likes a certain celebrity who uses twitter a lot, so I was thinking of asking him to ask her for me over twitter (i.e. \"Hey Jane, will you go out with John?\"). I can definitely see the celebrity being a nice guy and doing it. Plus, she follows his tweets religiously, so I know she'll see it. I'm trying to be clever or do it a way she would remember (I'm NOT thinking of doing it because I feel awkward or nervous). Is this a good idea that will be well received or should I just do it myself?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys, so I really like this girl and we've been getting pretty close and really flirty. We've been on a couple dates and I want to ask her to be steady/in-a-relationship with me and I have an idea that I'd like to run by you. This girl really likes a certain celebrity who uses twitter a lot, so I was thinking of asking him to ask her for me over twitter (i.e. \"Hey Jane, will you go out with John?\"). I can definitely see the celebrity being a nice guy and doing it. Plus, she follows his tweets religiously, so I know she'll see it. I'm trying to be clever or do it a way she would remember (I'm NOT thinking of doing it because I feel awkward or nervous). Is this a good idea that will be well received or should I just do it myself?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My father in law, a 55 year old CEO codenamed \"David\" has a terrible temper and he verbally abuses his family. We were in the car over Thanksgiving and he got some serious road rage because of the GPS (punching the steering wheel and screaming the most disturbing words). \n\nI've seen this happen before (I've known the guy for 10 years - I'm a 25 year old woman) but I decided after that night that I wouldn't get in a car with him again. I don't deserve it, and it's dangerous. I planned to confront David about his actions before we left but I couldn't get the chance, so instead I vented my anger towards him to my husband (also 25 yrs old) on the drive home. My husband felt the need to protect me from his father, so he called him after we got home and told him that his driving terrifies me (to the point of panic attacks) and that for now we will drive separately. David's anger got completely out of control on the phone and he accused us of trying to distance ourselves from the family, he gave excuses about his unhappiness, threatened to get a divorce, threatened suicide (and would make sure that we would never see an inheritance). \n\nMy husband doesn't want to break his family apart over this, so he called his dad later and apologized for the way he phrased things. His dad accepted and told my husband how much we hurt his feelings and that he wants ME to call HIM to talk about stuff. The thought of apologizing/tolerating the excuses of this monster is nauseating and makes me shake with rage. I need to be strong for my husband's sake. \n\nAny advice for remaining calm whenever I do talk to him? It's at the point where if I criticize him in a way that offends him (even if I feel justified) we're out of the family."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My father in law, a 55 year old CEO codenamed \"David\" has a terrible temper and he verbally abuses his family. We were in the car over Thanksgiving and he got some serious road rage because of the GPS (punching the steering wheel and screaming the most disturbing words). \n\nI've seen this happen before (I've known the guy for 10 years - I'm a 25 year old woman) but I decided after that night that I wouldn't get in a car with him again. I don't deserve it, and it's dangerous. I planned to confront David about his actions before we left but I couldn't get the chance, so instead I vented my anger towards him to my husband (also 25 yrs old) on the drive home. My husband felt the need to protect me from his father, so he called him after we got home and told him that his driving terrifies me (to the point of panic attacks) and that for now we will drive separately. David's anger got completely out of control on the phone and he accused us of trying to distance ourselves from the family, he gave excuses about his unhappiness, threatened to get a divorce, threatened suicide (and would make sure that we would never see an inheritance). \n\nMy husband doesn't want to break his family apart over this, so he called his dad later and apologized for the way he phrased things. His dad accepted and told my husband how much we hurt his feelings and that he wants ME to call HIM to talk about stuff. The thought of apologizing/tolerating the excuses of this monster is nauseating and makes me shake with rage. I need to be strong for my husband's sake. \n\nAny advice for remaining calm whenever I do talk to him? It's at the point where if I criticize him in a way that offends him (even if I feel justified) we're out of the family."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have posted on r/relationships about this break-up before. A month ago, my boyfriend (25/m) of 4 months, broke up with me (24/f) over email because of my mother's extreme anger management issues that began to affect our relationship, and because he felt the relationship was too smothering (we spent a lot of time together, and he basically had stopped seeing friends-although I had not). It should be noted that he and I had a whirlwind relationship- he wanted to get married to me next year after only 4 months of dating. \n\nHe broke up with me exactly one month and 3 days ago. He refused all contact: email, text, phonecall, anything. I was broken. He broke all of his promises to me and left me without any sort of warning. It was a very bad heartbreak.\n\nLast week, I returned his belongings to him by mail (spritzed with my perfume of course). He sent me an email explaining that he was wrong to have done this to me, and what had gone on in his head (his friends and family basically convinced him the relationship was wrong for him). I emailed him back angrily, saying that I wouldn't email him anymore and he had to say this to my face. Surprisingly, he agreed and we are meeting this weekend to talk. \n\nWe have also been texting a bit and we had an hour-long conversation last night. He basically said that he's an idiot, the past month has been torture for him, and he made a huge mistake. I realize that people make mistakes of course, but I am afraid he will hurt me again. He said he realizes he has to earn my trust back, but I am skeptical. At the same time, I miss him quite a lot, and told him so.\n\nAny ideas? I know every situation like this is different, but can this work out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have posted on r/relationships about this break-up before. A month ago, my boyfriend (25/m) of 4 months, broke up with me (24/f) over email because of my mother's extreme anger management issues that began to affect our relationship, and because he felt the relationship was too smothering (we spent a lot of time together, and he basically had stopped seeing friends-although I had not). It should be noted that he and I had a whirlwind relationship- he wanted to get married to me next year after only 4 months of dating. \n\nHe broke up with me exactly one month and 3 days ago. He refused all contact: email, text, phonecall, anything. I was broken. He broke all of his promises to me and left me without any sort of warning. It was a very bad heartbreak.\n\nLast week, I returned his belongings to him by mail (spritzed with my perfume of course). He sent me an email explaining that he was wrong to have done this to me, and what had gone on in his head (his friends and family basically convinced him the relationship was wrong for him). I emailed him back angrily, saying that I wouldn't email him anymore and he had to say this to my face. Surprisingly, he agreed and we are meeting this weekend to talk. \n\nWe have also been texting a bit and we had an hour-long conversation last night. He basically said that he's an idiot, the past month has been torture for him, and he made a huge mistake. I realize that people make mistakes of course, but I am afraid he will hurt me again. He said he realizes he has to earn my trust back, but I am skeptical. At the same time, I miss him quite a lot, and told him so.\n\nAny ideas? I know every situation like this is different, but can this work out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have posted on r/relationships about this break-up before. A month ago, my boyfriend (25/m) of 4 months, broke up with me (24/f) over email because of my mother's extreme anger management issues that began to affect our relationship, and because he felt the relationship was too smothering (we spent a lot of time together, and he basically had stopped seeing friends-although I had not). It should be noted that he and I had a whirlwind relationship- he wanted to get married to me next year after only 4 months of dating. \n\nHe broke up with me exactly one month and 3 days ago. He refused all contact: email, text, phonecall, anything. I was broken. He broke all of his promises to me and left me without any sort of warning. It was a very bad heartbreak.\n\nLast week, I returned his belongings to him by mail (spritzed with my perfume of course). He sent me an email explaining that he was wrong to have done this to me, and what had gone on in his head (his friends and family basically convinced him the relationship was wrong for him). I emailed him back angrily, saying that I wouldn't email him anymore and he had to say this to my face. Surprisingly, he agreed and we are meeting this weekend to talk. \n\nWe have also been texting a bit and we had an hour-long conversation last night. He basically said that he's an idiot, the past month has been torture for him, and he made a huge mistake. I realize that people make mistakes of course, but I am afraid he will hurt me again. He said he realizes he has to earn my trust back, but I am skeptical. At the same time, I miss him quite a lot, and told him so.\n\nAny ideas? I know every situation like this is different, but can this work out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have posted on r/relationships about this break-up before. A month ago, my boyfriend (25/m) of 4 months, broke up with me (24/f) over email because of my mother's extreme anger management issues that began to affect our relationship, and because he felt the relationship was too smothering (we spent a lot of time together, and he basically had stopped seeing friends-although I had not). It should be noted that he and I had a whirlwind relationship- he wanted to get married to me next year after only 4 months of dating. \n\nHe broke up with me exactly one month and 3 days ago. He refused all contact: email, text, phonecall, anything. I was broken. He broke all of his promises to me and left me without any sort of warning. It was a very bad heartbreak.\n\nLast week, I returned his belongings to him by mail (spritzed with my perfume of course). He sent me an email explaining that he was wrong to have done this to me, and what had gone on in his head (his friends and family basically convinced him the relationship was wrong for him). I emailed him back angrily, saying that I wouldn't email him anymore and he had to say this to my face. Surprisingly, he agreed and we are meeting this weekend to talk. \n\nWe have also been texting a bit and we had an hour-long conversation last night. He basically said that he's an idiot, the past month has been torture for him, and he made a huge mistake. I realize that people make mistakes of course, but I am afraid he will hurt me again. He said he realizes he has to earn my trust back, but I am skeptical. At the same time, I miss him quite a lot, and told him so.\n\nAny ideas? I know every situation like this is different, but can this work out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So you just finished reading the [FAQ]( Is the thought of weight loss overwhelming? Feel you don't know how or where to start? Or are you having a hard time sticking to a plan?\n\nWell start by making a small change, master it then move on to the next change! The best way to tackle a large task is by breaking it down to smaller tasks and focusing on them first.\n\nThis is just a few examples of some changes:\n\n* Cutting out soda and replacing with water or diet soda\n* Logging your calories\n* Eating a 100 calorie deficit\n* Eating a 500 calorie deficit\n* Going for a walk 1 day/week\n* Going for a walk 5 days/week\n* Preparing your meals\n\nDoing all of these things at once can be a lot so instead pick one and work on it until it becomes second nature for you then move on to the next change. If one change is giving you a problem perhaps you need to split it in to 2 smaller changes or even re-evaluate that change to see if there is another way to accomplish this goal.\n\nBe patient, this is a marathon so you have to pick a pace you can maintain for a very long time - say for life?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So you just finished reading the [FAQ]( Is the thought of weight loss overwhelming? Feel you don't know how or where to start? Or are you having a hard time sticking to a plan?\n\nWell start by making a small change, master it then move on to the next change! The best way to tackle a large task is by breaking it down to smaller tasks and focusing on them first.\n\nThis is just a few examples of some changes:\n\n* Cutting out soda and replacing with water or diet soda\n* Logging your calories\n* Eating a 100 calorie deficit\n* Eating a 500 calorie deficit\n* Going for a walk 1 day/week\n* Going for a walk 5 days/week\n* Preparing your meals\n\nDoing all of these things at once can be a lot so instead pick one and work on it until it becomes second nature for you then move on to the next change. If one change is giving you a problem perhaps you need to split it in to 2 smaller changes or even re-evaluate that change to see if there is another way to accomplish this goal.\n\nBe patient, this is a marathon so you have to pick a pace you can maintain for a very long time - say for life?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So you just finished reading the [FAQ]( Is the thought of weight loss overwhelming? Feel you don't know how or where to start? Or are you having a hard time sticking to a plan?\n\nWell start by making a small change, master it then move on to the next change! The best way to tackle a large task is by breaking it down to smaller tasks and focusing on them first.\n\nThis is just a few examples of some changes:\n\n* Cutting out soda and replacing with water or diet soda\n* Logging your calories\n* Eating a 100 calorie deficit\n* Eating a 500 calorie deficit\n* Going for a walk 1 day/week\n* Going for a walk 5 days/week\n* Preparing your meals\n\nDoing all of these things at once can be a lot so instead pick one and work on it until it becomes second nature for you then move on to the next change. If one change is giving you a problem perhaps you need to split it in to 2 smaller changes or even re-evaluate that change to see if there is another way to accomplish this goal.\n\nBe patient, this is a marathon so you have to pick a pace you can maintain for a very long time - say for life?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So you just finished reading the [FAQ]( Is the thought of weight loss overwhelming? Feel you don't know how or where to start? Or are you having a hard time sticking to a plan?\n\nWell start by making a small change, master it then move on to the next change! The best way to tackle a large task is by breaking it down to smaller tasks and focusing on them first.\n\nThis is just a few examples of some changes:\n\n* Cutting out soda and replacing with water or diet soda\n* Logging your calories\n* Eating a 100 calorie deficit\n* Eating a 500 calorie deficit\n* Going for a walk 1 day/week\n* Going for a walk 5 days/week\n* Preparing your meals\n\nDoing all of these things at once can be a lot so instead pick one and work on it until it becomes second nature for you then move on to the next change. If one change is giving you a problem perhaps you need to split it in to 2 smaller changes or even re-evaluate that change to see if there is another way to accomplish this goal.\n\nBe patient, this is a marathon so you have to pick a pace you can maintain for a very long time - say for life?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mom cheated on my dad with this guy she found online who convinced her to essentially ruin her marriage and my dad emotionally and financially, get divorced, and break my family apart. I also blame him for driving my mom away from her children because he gets pissed off at her when she is away from him for more than 12 hours (that is their rule). She is now getting married to this guy who I have never met (I never agreed to meet him) but I blame for a great deal of anguish that I went through in my teenage years and I am still not over it. I don't want to upset or embarrass my mom but I also can't bear the thought of pretending to be happy in front of everyone that the man who ruined my life is now a part of it. I also think my dad would be disappointed. Also, I don't want to live with my mom during the summer when I come back from college and move in with my dad for similar reasons but my mom is afraid that she will lose child support if I do this so she is forbidding me from leaving. I am 18 so it is my choice, but she would take it as a betrayal. So, what do you guys think I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mom cheated on my dad with this guy she found online who convinced her to essentially ruin her marriage and my dad emotionally and financially, get divorced, and break my family apart. I also blame him for driving my mom away from her children because he gets pissed off at her when she is away from him for more than 12 hours (that is their rule). She is now getting married to this guy who I have never met (I never agreed to meet him) but I blame for a great deal of anguish that I went through in my teenage years and I am still not over it. I don't want to upset or embarrass my mom but I also can't bear the thought of pretending to be happy in front of everyone that the man who ruined my life is now a part of it. I also think my dad would be disappointed. Also, I don't want to live with my mom during the summer when I come back from college and move in with my dad for similar reasons but my mom is afraid that she will lose child support if I do this so she is forbidding me from leaving. I am 18 so it is my choice, but she would take it as a betrayal. So, what do you guys think I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mom cheated on my dad with this guy she found online who convinced her to essentially ruin her marriage and my dad emotionally and financially, get divorced, and break my family apart. I also blame him for driving my mom away from her children because he gets pissed off at her when she is away from him for more than 12 hours (that is their rule). She is now getting married to this guy who I have never met (I never agreed to meet him) but I blame for a great deal of anguish that I went through in my teenage years and I am still not over it. I don't want to upset or embarrass my mom but I also can't bear the thought of pretending to be happy in front of everyone that the man who ruined my life is now a part of it. I also think my dad would be disappointed. Also, I don't want to live with my mom during the summer when I come back from college and move in with my dad for similar reasons but my mom is afraid that she will lose child support if I do this so she is forbidding me from leaving. I am 18 so it is my choice, but she would take it as a betrayal. So, what do you guys think I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mom cheated on my dad with this guy she found online who convinced her to essentially ruin her marriage and my dad emotionally and financially, get divorced, and break my family apart. I also blame him for driving my mom away from her children because he gets pissed off at her when she is away from him for more than 12 hours (that is their rule). She is now getting married to this guy who I have never met (I never agreed to meet him) but I blame for a great deal of anguish that I went through in my teenage years and I am still not over it. I don't want to upset or embarrass my mom but I also can't bear the thought of pretending to be happy in front of everyone that the man who ruined my life is now a part of it. I also think my dad would be disappointed. Also, I don't want to live with my mom during the summer when I come back from college and move in with my dad for similar reasons but my mom is afraid that she will lose child support if I do this so she is forbidding me from leaving. I am 18 so it is my choice, but she would take it as a betrayal. So, what do you guys think I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was never anything serious. We only went on two dates and never slept together. We would text a fair bit and call each other every once in a while (even preceding the dates), but that has really cooled off lately. We barely talk anymore and I've generally lost interest. Meanwhile, things have started heating up with another girl who I have talked to about seeing exclusively. \n\nHowever, the first girl still hasn't completely given up. I got a text from her saying that she was puzzled as to why we don't really talk anymore and why we stopped seeing each other.\n\nI need to tell her that I'm not interested anymore. I may also need to tell her that there's someone else, just so she understands that there are boundaries and it might not be appropriate for her to text me at all anymore considering the history there.\n\nAt this point, what is the appropriate forum for communicating this? Phone call, text message, letter, in person? And I've never been in this type of situation before, so what is the most tactful way to approach the topic?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was never anything serious. We only went on two dates and never slept together. We would text a fair bit and call each other every once in a while (even preceding the dates), but that has really cooled off lately. We barely talk anymore and I've generally lost interest. Meanwhile, things have started heating up with another girl who I have talked to about seeing exclusively. \n\nHowever, the first girl still hasn't completely given up. I got a text from her saying that she was puzzled as to why we don't really talk anymore and why we stopped seeing each other.\n\nI need to tell her that I'm not interested anymore. I may also need to tell her that there's someone else, just so she understands that there are boundaries and it might not be appropriate for her to text me at all anymore considering the history there.\n\nAt this point, what is the appropriate forum for communicating this? Phone call, text message, letter, in person? And I've never been in this type of situation before, so what is the most tactful way to approach the topic?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was never anything serious. We only went on two dates and never slept together. We would text a fair bit and call each other every once in a while (even preceding the dates), but that has really cooled off lately. We barely talk anymore and I've generally lost interest. Meanwhile, things have started heating up with another girl who I have talked to about seeing exclusively. \n\nHowever, the first girl still hasn't completely given up. I got a text from her saying that she was puzzled as to why we don't really talk anymore and why we stopped seeing each other.\n\nI need to tell her that I'm not interested anymore. I may also need to tell her that there's someone else, just so she understands that there are boundaries and it might not be appropriate for her to text me at all anymore considering the history there.\n\nAt this point, what is the appropriate forum for communicating this? Phone call, text message, letter, in person? And I've never been in this type of situation before, so what is the most tactful way to approach the topic?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was never anything serious. We only went on two dates and never slept together. We would text a fair bit and call each other every once in a while (even preceding the dates), but that has really cooled off lately. We barely talk anymore and I've generally lost interest. Meanwhile, things have started heating up with another girl who I have talked to about seeing exclusively. \n\nHowever, the first girl still hasn't completely given up. I got a text from her saying that she was puzzled as to why we don't really talk anymore and why we stopped seeing each other.\n\nI need to tell her that I'm not interested anymore. I may also need to tell her that there's someone else, just so she understands that there are boundaries and it might not be appropriate for her to text me at all anymore considering the history there.\n\nAt this point, what is the appropriate forum for communicating this? Phone call, text message, letter, in person? And I've never been in this type of situation before, so what is the most tactful way to approach the topic?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I ordered \"Modern Family: Season 1\" on DVD for store pick-up from Best Buy on Sunday night. It was ready for store pick-up by yesterday morning. However, I got there tonight and, after waiting around for an hour, where they checked the pick-up items four times, then asked me another four times what my name was and what I wanted and that they'd get it from the storeroom, they finally told me it's out of stock and I'm out of luck.\n\nNow, I wouldn't care if they hadn't made me wait so long. They could have at least told me to come back later, tomorrow, etc. But that they were so nonchalant about me standing there for so long, that's what's upsetting.\n\nI want to call their customer service line and complain, but what will that accomplish? I would like at least some recognition for my time that they wasted. Anybody have any suggestions of what I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I ordered \"Modern Family: Season 1\" on DVD for store pick-up from Best Buy on Sunday night. It was ready for store pick-up by yesterday morning. However, I got there tonight and, after waiting around for an hour, where they checked the pick-up items four times, then asked me another four times what my name was and what I wanted and that they'd get it from the storeroom, they finally told me it's out of stock and I'm out of luck.\n\nNow, I wouldn't care if they hadn't made me wait so long. They could have at least told me to come back later, tomorrow, etc. But that they were so nonchalant about me standing there for so long, that's what's upsetting.\n\nI want to call their customer service line and complain, but what will that accomplish? I would like at least some recognition for my time that they wasted. Anybody have any suggestions of what I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I ordered \"Modern Family: Season 1\" on DVD for store pick-up from Best Buy on Sunday night. It was ready for store pick-up by yesterday morning. However, I got there tonight and, after waiting around for an hour, where they checked the pick-up items four times, then asked me another four times what my name was and what I wanted and that they'd get it from the storeroom, they finally told me it's out of stock and I'm out of luck.\n\nNow, I wouldn't care if they hadn't made me wait so long. They could have at least told me to come back later, tomorrow, etc. But that they were so nonchalant about me standing there for so long, that's what's upsetting.\n\nI want to call their customer service line and complain, but what will that accomplish? I would like at least some recognition for my time that they wasted. Anybody have any suggestions of what I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I ordered \"Modern Family: Season 1\" on DVD for store pick-up from Best Buy on Sunday night. It was ready for store pick-up by yesterday morning. However, I got there tonight and, after waiting around for an hour, where they checked the pick-up items four times, then asked me another four times what my name was and what I wanted and that they'd get it from the storeroom, they finally told me it's out of stock and I'm out of luck.\n\nNow, I wouldn't care if they hadn't made me wait so long. They could have at least told me to come back later, tomorrow, etc. But that they were so nonchalant about me standing there for so long, that's what's upsetting.\n\nI want to call their customer service line and complain, but what will that accomplish? I would like at least some recognition for my time that they wasted. Anybody have any suggestions of what I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am an asexual guy and I have never told anyone. Most people do not understand it and will probably just think something is wrong with me or that I am a closet gay or something ridiculous along those lines. \n\nI have had countless short term relationships and only one off and on long term relationship. I do have sex, but it isn't because I get horny or anything, it is just to please my girlfriend at the time. I think most girls I have been with think I enjoy it because I have no refectory period at all and can go essentially as long as I want, so I guess they think I am super aroused. I have been told I am very romantic and I do enjoy planning unique dates.\n\nIs it important to tell a girl I am dating that I am an asexual immediately if I am willing to have sex? If not, when would be the appropriate time.\n\nI feel that most girls do not want to be with an asexual. In life all I really want is a big happy family. Yes, I want many kids."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am an asexual guy and I have never told anyone. Most people do not understand it and will probably just think something is wrong with me or that I am a closet gay or something ridiculous along those lines. \n\nI have had countless short term relationships and only one off and on long term relationship. I do have sex, but it isn't because I get horny or anything, it is just to please my girlfriend at the time. I think most girls I have been with think I enjoy it because I have no refectory period at all and can go essentially as long as I want, so I guess they think I am super aroused. I have been told I am very romantic and I do enjoy planning unique dates.\n\nIs it important to tell a girl I am dating that I am an asexual immediately if I am willing to have sex? If not, when would be the appropriate time.\n\nI feel that most girls do not want to be with an asexual. In life all I really want is a big happy family. Yes, I want many kids."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am an asexual guy and I have never told anyone. Most people do not understand it and will probably just think something is wrong with me or that I am a closet gay or something ridiculous along those lines. \n\nI have had countless short term relationships and only one off and on long term relationship. I do have sex, but it isn't because I get horny or anything, it is just to please my girlfriend at the time. I think most girls I have been with think I enjoy it because I have no refectory period at all and can go essentially as long as I want, so I guess they think I am super aroused. I have been told I am very romantic and I do enjoy planning unique dates.\n\nIs it important to tell a girl I am dating that I am an asexual immediately if I am willing to have sex? If not, when would be the appropriate time.\n\nI feel that most girls do not want to be with an asexual. In life all I really want is a big happy family. Yes, I want many kids."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am an asexual guy and I have never told anyone. Most people do not understand it and will probably just think something is wrong with me or that I am a closet gay or something ridiculous along those lines. \n\nI have had countless short term relationships and only one off and on long term relationship. I do have sex, but it isn't because I get horny or anything, it is just to please my girlfriend at the time. I think most girls I have been with think I enjoy it because I have no refectory period at all and can go essentially as long as I want, so I guess they think I am super aroused. I have been told I am very romantic and I do enjoy planning unique dates.\n\nIs it important to tell a girl I am dating that I am an asexual immediately if I am willing to have sex? If not, when would be the appropriate time.\n\nI feel that most girls do not want to be with an asexual. In life all I really want is a big happy family. Yes, I want many kids."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was away in Germany for 6 months and while I was gone, a guy I had feelings for and had done things with ended up talking to a different girl. This girl, named Rachel, was not someone I was mad or jealous of. That is until I found my best friend of 7 years had become good friends with her.\n\nI'm okay with Rachel because if she was with a guy who sucked, more power to her. Women shouldn't be split apart by men. BUT to become good friends with the one person I confide in the most kills me.\n\nI should mention that my best friend went through a similar situation in which she was upset because a guy dumped her for someone else. BFF tells me she doesn't like that we are friends on social media and that I like this girls pictures. I think it's a but petty but I respect it. \n\nBut basically BFF tells me I have no right to feel uncomfortable with her being friends with Rachel (girl who ended up with the guy I still have feelings for). \n\nIs it weird that I'm not jealous of Rachel with the guy but with my BFF? Is BFF right and I shouldn't be upset or uncomfortable although she is with her guy situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was away in Germany for 6 months and while I was gone, a guy I had feelings for and had done things with ended up talking to a different girl. This girl, named Rachel, was not someone I was mad or jealous of. That is until I found my best friend of 7 years had become good friends with her.\n\nI'm okay with Rachel because if she was with a guy who sucked, more power to her. Women shouldn't be split apart by men. BUT to become good friends with the one person I confide in the most kills me.\n\nI should mention that my best friend went through a similar situation in which she was upset because a guy dumped her for someone else. BFF tells me she doesn't like that we are friends on social media and that I like this girls pictures. I think it's a but petty but I respect it. \n\nBut basically BFF tells me I have no right to feel uncomfortable with her being friends with Rachel (girl who ended up with the guy I still have feelings for). \n\nIs it weird that I'm not jealous of Rachel with the guy but with my BFF? Is BFF right and I shouldn't be upset or uncomfortable although she is with her guy situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was away in Germany for 6 months and while I was gone, a guy I had feelings for and had done things with ended up talking to a different girl. This girl, named Rachel, was not someone I was mad or jealous of. That is until I found my best friend of 7 years had become good friends with her.\n\nI'm okay with Rachel because if she was with a guy who sucked, more power to her. Women shouldn't be split apart by men. BUT to become good friends with the one person I confide in the most kills me.\n\nI should mention that my best friend went through a similar situation in which she was upset because a guy dumped her for someone else. BFF tells me she doesn't like that we are friends on social media and that I like this girls pictures. I think it's a but petty but I respect it. \n\nBut basically BFF tells me I have no right to feel uncomfortable with her being friends with Rachel (girl who ended up with the guy I still have feelings for). \n\nIs it weird that I'm not jealous of Rachel with the guy but with my BFF? Is BFF right and I shouldn't be upset or uncomfortable although she is with her guy situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was away in Germany for 6 months and while I was gone, a guy I had feelings for and had done things with ended up talking to a different girl. This girl, named Rachel, was not someone I was mad or jealous of. That is until I found my best friend of 7 years had become good friends with her.\n\nI'm okay with Rachel because if she was with a guy who sucked, more power to her. Women shouldn't be split apart by men. BUT to become good friends with the one person I confide in the most kills me.\n\nI should mention that my best friend went through a similar situation in which she was upset because a guy dumped her for someone else. BFF tells me she doesn't like that we are friends on social media and that I like this girls pictures. I think it's a but petty but I respect it. \n\nBut basically BFF tells me I have no right to feel uncomfortable with her being friends with Rachel (girl who ended up with the guy I still have feelings for). \n\nIs it weird that I'm not jealous of Rachel with the guy but with my BFF? Is BFF right and I shouldn't be upset or uncomfortable although she is with her guy situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4yrs married.\n\nI was invited to a party with some new work friends and I invited my wife. After the party my friend says that he doesn't like the way she talked about me and doesn't want her over anymore. My wife and I can trash talk each other a little, but it's mostly lighthearted but my friend thought she crossed a line. My wife is mad because in her view I should have her back, and that means if someone doesn't like her I should cut them off. I only have a small handful of friends, and I hate to lose a new one because they don't like my wife. I understand that my wife doesn't have a great social filter, so I can understand if my friends feels she crossed a line. I want to keep my friendship but my wife feels that I'm betraying her. Do my friends also have to befriend my wife?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4yrs married.\n\nI was invited to a party with some new work friends and I invited my wife. After the party my friend says that he doesn't like the way she talked about me and doesn't want her over anymore. My wife and I can trash talk each other a little, but it's mostly lighthearted but my friend thought she crossed a line. My wife is mad because in her view I should have her back, and that means if someone doesn't like her I should cut them off. I only have a small handful of friends, and I hate to lose a new one because they don't like my wife. I understand that my wife doesn't have a great social filter, so I can understand if my friends feels she crossed a line. I want to keep my friendship but my wife feels that I'm betraying her. Do my friends also have to befriend my wife?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4yrs married.\n\nI was invited to a party with some new work friends and I invited my wife. After the party my friend says that he doesn't like the way she talked about me and doesn't want her over anymore. My wife and I can trash talk each other a little, but it's mostly lighthearted but my friend thought she crossed a line. My wife is mad because in her view I should have her back, and that means if someone doesn't like her I should cut them off. I only have a small handful of friends, and I hate to lose a new one because they don't like my wife. I understand that my wife doesn't have a great social filter, so I can understand if my friends feels she crossed a line. I want to keep my friendship but my wife feels that I'm betraying her. Do my friends also have to befriend my wife?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4yrs married.\n\nI was invited to a party with some new work friends and I invited my wife. After the party my friend says that he doesn't like the way she talked about me and doesn't want her over anymore. My wife and I can trash talk each other a little, but it's mostly lighthearted but my friend thought she crossed a line. My wife is mad because in her view I should have her back, and that means if someone doesn't like her I should cut them off. I only have a small handful of friends, and I hate to lose a new one because they don't like my wife. I understand that my wife doesn't have a great social filter, so I can understand if my friends feels she crossed a line. I want to keep my friendship but my wife feels that I'm betraying her. Do my friends also have to befriend my wife?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4yrs married.\n\nI was invited to a party with some new work friends and I invited my wife. After the party my friend says that he doesn't like the way she talked about me and doesn't want her over anymore. My wife and I can trash talk each other a little, but it's mostly lighthearted but my friend thought she crossed a line. My wife is mad because in her view I should have her back, and that means if someone doesn't like her I should cut them off. I only have a small handful of friends, and I hate to lose a new one because they don't like my wife. I understand that my wife doesn't have a great social filter, so I can understand if my friends feels she crossed a line. I want to keep my friendship but my wife feels that I'm betraying her. Do my friends also have to befriend my wife?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4yrs married.\n\nI was invited to a party with some new work friends and I invited my wife. After the party my friend says that he doesn't like the way she talked about me and doesn't want her over anymore. My wife and I can trash talk each other a little, but it's mostly lighthearted but my friend thought she crossed a line. My wife is mad because in her view I should have her back, and that means if someone doesn't like her I should cut them off. I only have a small handful of friends, and I hate to lose a new one because they don't like my wife. I understand that my wife doesn't have a great social filter, so I can understand if my friends feels she crossed a line. I want to keep my friendship but my wife feels that I'm betraying her. Do my friends also have to befriend my wife?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4yrs married.\n\nI was invited to a party with some new work friends and I invited my wife. After the party my friend says that he doesn't like the way she talked about me and doesn't want her over anymore. My wife and I can trash talk each other a little, but it's mostly lighthearted but my friend thought she crossed a line. My wife is mad because in her view I should have her back, and that means if someone doesn't like her I should cut them off. I only have a small handful of friends, and I hate to lose a new one because they don't like my wife. I understand that my wife doesn't have a great social filter, so I can understand if my friends feels she crossed a line. I want to keep my friendship but my wife feels that I'm betraying her. Do my friends also have to befriend my wife?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4yrs married.\n\nI was invited to a party with some new work friends and I invited my wife. After the party my friend says that he doesn't like the way she talked about me and doesn't want her over anymore. My wife and I can trash talk each other a little, but it's mostly lighthearted but my friend thought she crossed a line. My wife is mad because in her view I should have her back, and that means if someone doesn't like her I should cut them off. I only have a small handful of friends, and I hate to lose a new one because they don't like my wife. I understand that my wife doesn't have a great social filter, so I can understand if my friends feels she crossed a line. I want to keep my friendship but my wife feels that I'm betraying her. Do my friends also have to befriend my wife?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4yrs married.\n\nI was invited to a party with some new work friends and I invited my wife. After the party my friend says that he doesn't like the way she talked about me and doesn't want her over anymore. My wife and I can trash talk each other a little, but it's mostly lighthearted but my friend thought she crossed a line. My wife is mad because in her view I should have her back, and that means if someone doesn't like her I should cut them off. I only have a small handful of friends, and I hate to lose a new one because they don't like my wife. I understand that my wife doesn't have a great social filter, so I can understand if my friends feels she crossed a line. I want to keep my friendship but my wife feels that I'm betraying her. Do my friends also have to befriend my wife?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4yrs married.\n\nI was invited to a party with some new work friends and I invited my wife. After the party my friend says that he doesn't like the way she talked about me and doesn't want her over anymore. My wife and I can trash talk each other a little, but it's mostly lighthearted but my friend thought she crossed a line. My wife is mad because in her view I should have her back, and that means if someone doesn't like her I should cut them off. I only have a small handful of friends, and I hate to lose a new one because they don't like my wife. I understand that my wife doesn't have a great social filter, so I can understand if my friends feels she crossed a line. I want to keep my friendship but my wife feels that I'm betraying her. Do my friends also have to befriend my wife?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4yrs married.\n\nI was invited to a party with some new work friends and I invited my wife. After the party my friend says that he doesn't like the way she talked about me and doesn't want her over anymore. My wife and I can trash talk each other a little, but it's mostly lighthearted but my friend thought she crossed a line. My wife is mad because in her view I should have her back, and that means if someone doesn't like her I should cut them off. I only have a small handful of friends, and I hate to lose a new one because they don't like my wife. I understand that my wife doesn't have a great social filter, so I can understand if my friends feels she crossed a line. I want to keep my friendship but my wife feels that I'm betraying her. Do my friends also have to befriend my wife?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: 4yrs married.\n\nI was invited to a party with some new work friends and I invited my wife. After the party my friend says that he doesn't like the way she talked about me and doesn't want her over anymore. My wife and I can trash talk each other a little, but it's mostly lighthearted but my friend thought she crossed a line. My wife is mad because in her view I should have her back, and that means if someone doesn't like her I should cut them off. I only have a small handful of friends, and I hate to lose a new one because they don't like my wife. I understand that my wife doesn't have a great social filter, so I can understand if my friends feels she crossed a line. I want to keep my friendship but my wife feels that I'm betraying her. Do my friends also have to befriend my wife?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll start.\n\nI always imagine this naked half-man with no legs (no crotch either) opening my bedroom door, hopping on to my bed just by using his hands, and stare at me. He then reaches into his belly-button, pinches it, and starts peeling his entire skin off, all of it, in one go. I can vividly see the tissues detach. As he peels it off, he proceeds to eat it. He chews and chews and chews, and he starts drooling. He does it very slowly. He even gags sometimes, but continues to chew and swallow his entire epidermis. After he's done with the whole thing, his muscle-y face just smiles at me. He turns around by pushing down against the bed and twisting his body, hops off, and closes the door behind him.\n\nI also imagine myself lying on this huge human grill, and four sharp, skeletal, demon hands pinching into the skin of my arms, eventually piercing them, all the way to my bones, and ripping them out. I see this in second person. So during this entire situation, I just have a slight smile on my face, which creeps me the fuck out. Oh, and then the bones magically grow back, and the process repeats.\n\nOne last:\nI imagine a little clown with sharp teeth (you could say a small Pennywise) laying behind me and just chewing on my hair while trying to control his maniacal laughter. \n\nAnd this is why I still haven't slept and it's 9am here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll start.\n\nI always imagine this naked half-man with no legs (no crotch either) opening my bedroom door, hopping on to my bed just by using his hands, and stare at me. He then reaches into his belly-button, pinches it, and starts peeling his entire skin off, all of it, in one go. I can vividly see the tissues detach. As he peels it off, he proceeds to eat it. He chews and chews and chews, and he starts drooling. He does it very slowly. He even gags sometimes, but continues to chew and swallow his entire epidermis. After he's done with the whole thing, his muscle-y face just smiles at me. He turns around by pushing down against the bed and twisting his body, hops off, and closes the door behind him.\n\nI also imagine myself lying on this huge human grill, and four sharp, skeletal, demon hands pinching into the skin of my arms, eventually piercing them, all the way to my bones, and ripping them out. I see this in second person. So during this entire situation, I just have a slight smile on my face, which creeps me the fuck out. Oh, and then the bones magically grow back, and the process repeats.\n\nOne last:\nI imagine a little clown with sharp teeth (you could say a small Pennywise) laying behind me and just chewing on my hair while trying to control his maniacal laughter. \n\nAnd this is why I still haven't slept and it's 9am here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll start.\n\nI always imagine this naked half-man with no legs (no crotch either) opening my bedroom door, hopping on to my bed just by using his hands, and stare at me. He then reaches into his belly-button, pinches it, and starts peeling his entire skin off, all of it, in one go. I can vividly see the tissues detach. As he peels it off, he proceeds to eat it. He chews and chews and chews, and he starts drooling. He does it very slowly. He even gags sometimes, but continues to chew and swallow his entire epidermis. After he's done with the whole thing, his muscle-y face just smiles at me. He turns around by pushing down against the bed and twisting his body, hops off, and closes the door behind him.\n\nI also imagine myself lying on this huge human grill, and four sharp, skeletal, demon hands pinching into the skin of my arms, eventually piercing them, all the way to my bones, and ripping them out. I see this in second person. So during this entire situation, I just have a slight smile on my face, which creeps me the fuck out. Oh, and then the bones magically grow back, and the process repeats.\n\nOne last:\nI imagine a little clown with sharp teeth (you could say a small Pennywise) laying behind me and just chewing on my hair while trying to control his maniacal laughter. \n\nAnd this is why I still haven't slept and it's 9am here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll start.\n\nI always imagine this naked half-man with no legs (no crotch either) opening my bedroom door, hopping on to my bed just by using his hands, and stare at me. He then reaches into his belly-button, pinches it, and starts peeling his entire skin off, all of it, in one go. I can vividly see the tissues detach. As he peels it off, he proceeds to eat it. He chews and chews and chews, and he starts drooling. He does it very slowly. He even gags sometimes, but continues to chew and swallow his entire epidermis. After he's done with the whole thing, his muscle-y face just smiles at me. He turns around by pushing down against the bed and twisting his body, hops off, and closes the door behind him.\n\nI also imagine myself lying on this huge human grill, and four sharp, skeletal, demon hands pinching into the skin of my arms, eventually piercing them, all the way to my bones, and ripping them out. I see this in second person. So during this entire situation, I just have a slight smile on my face, which creeps me the fuck out. Oh, and then the bones magically grow back, and the process repeats.\n\nOne last:\nI imagine a little clown with sharp teeth (you could say a small Pennywise) laying behind me and just chewing on my hair while trying to control his maniacal laughter. \n\nAnd this is why I still haven't slept and it's 9am here."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for about three years now off and on, let's call him Sherlock. Sherlock and I have had a troublesome relationship since the first time we dated. He's cheated on me with many of my friends and other girls (I know, should have left but I was stupid and didn't) and I can't put it behind me. We recently had a kid together and I live with him, so I'm constantly around him. I love him dearly, but when I think about when he cheated on me, which is very often, I can't look at him without feeling disgusted and hate being around him. I want to try to get over it all and move on for the sake of our kid and myself, but the past has really fucked with my head to the point where no matter how hard I try, I can't just leave it be. I'm not for sure if I can ever get over the betrayals, even years from now. How do I stop beating myself up over the past and move on with our future? \n\n(Please don't fill my inbox with \"Just leave him\", I'm trying to find another option)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for about three years now off and on, let's call him Sherlock. Sherlock and I have had a troublesome relationship since the first time we dated. He's cheated on me with many of my friends and other girls (I know, should have left but I was stupid and didn't) and I can't put it behind me. We recently had a kid together and I live with him, so I'm constantly around him. I love him dearly, but when I think about when he cheated on me, which is very often, I can't look at him without feeling disgusted and hate being around him. I want to try to get over it all and move on for the sake of our kid and myself, but the past has really fucked with my head to the point where no matter how hard I try, I can't just leave it be. I'm not for sure if I can ever get over the betrayals, even years from now. How do I stop beating myself up over the past and move on with our future? \n\n(Please don't fill my inbox with \"Just leave him\", I'm trying to find another option)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for about three years now off and on, let's call him Sherlock. Sherlock and I have had a troublesome relationship since the first time we dated. He's cheated on me with many of my friends and other girls (I know, should have left but I was stupid and didn't) and I can't put it behind me. We recently had a kid together and I live with him, so I'm constantly around him. I love him dearly, but when I think about when he cheated on me, which is very often, I can't look at him without feeling disgusted and hate being around him. I want to try to get over it all and move on for the sake of our kid and myself, but the past has really fucked with my head to the point where no matter how hard I try, I can't just leave it be. I'm not for sure if I can ever get over the betrayals, even years from now. How do I stop beating myself up over the past and move on with our future? \n\n(Please don't fill my inbox with \"Just leave him\", I'm trying to find another option)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for about three years now off and on, let's call him Sherlock. Sherlock and I have had a troublesome relationship since the first time we dated. He's cheated on me with many of my friends and other girls (I know, should have left but I was stupid and didn't) and I can't put it behind me. We recently had a kid together and I live with him, so I'm constantly around him. I love him dearly, but when I think about when he cheated on me, which is very often, I can't look at him without feeling disgusted and hate being around him. I want to try to get over it all and move on for the sake of our kid and myself, but the past has really fucked with my head to the point where no matter how hard I try, I can't just leave it be. I'm not for sure if I can ever get over the betrayals, even years from now. How do I stop beating myself up over the past and move on with our future? \n\n(Please don't fill my inbox with \"Just leave him\", I'm trying to find another option)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend broke up after 2 years. She just basically left me. No sound explanation, stopped talking to me, and after semester was over never heard of her again. Her dad called me to threaten me because apparently I wasn't allowed to contact her. It's been a month now and I just don't know how to feel. I felt like the relationship was dying the last 2 months but didn't expect what happened. Today I saw her change her profile pic to her and some guy. Raged and sent her a mean message. How do I deal with moving on? It's so messed up because we basically lived together, slept together, had family gatherings together.wtf happened? How can I believe in true love? I helped her so much and she is gone now, I damn near stood bedside with her at the hospital when she was severely ill multiple times. I have issues now trusting another person. She left and moved on after only one month. More details, just ask."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend broke up after 2 years. She just basically left me. No sound explanation, stopped talking to me, and after semester was over never heard of her again. Her dad called me to threaten me because apparently I wasn't allowed to contact her. It's been a month now and I just don't know how to feel. I felt like the relationship was dying the last 2 months but didn't expect what happened. Today I saw her change her profile pic to her and some guy. Raged and sent her a mean message. How do I deal with moving on? It's so messed up because we basically lived together, slept together, had family gatherings together.wtf happened? How can I believe in true love? I helped her so much and she is gone now, I damn near stood bedside with her at the hospital when she was severely ill multiple times. I have issues now trusting another person. She left and moved on after only one month. More details, just ask."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend broke up after 2 years. She just basically left me. No sound explanation, stopped talking to me, and after semester was over never heard of her again. Her dad called me to threaten me because apparently I wasn't allowed to contact her. It's been a month now and I just don't know how to feel. I felt like the relationship was dying the last 2 months but didn't expect what happened. Today I saw her change her profile pic to her and some guy. Raged and sent her a mean message. How do I deal with moving on? It's so messed up because we basically lived together, slept together, had family gatherings together.wtf happened? How can I believe in true love? I helped her so much and she is gone now, I damn near stood bedside with her at the hospital when she was severely ill multiple times. I have issues now trusting another person. She left and moved on after only one month. More details, just ask."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my girlfriend broke up after 2 years. She just basically left me. No sound explanation, stopped talking to me, and after semester was over never heard of her again. Her dad called me to threaten me because apparently I wasn't allowed to contact her. It's been a month now and I just don't know how to feel. I felt like the relationship was dying the last 2 months but didn't expect what happened. Today I saw her change her profile pic to her and some guy. Raged and sent her a mean message. How do I deal with moving on? It's so messed up because we basically lived together, slept together, had family gatherings together.wtf happened? How can I believe in true love? I helped her so much and she is gone now, I damn near stood bedside with her at the hospital when she was severely ill multiple times. I have issues now trusting another person. She left and moved on after only one month. More details, just ask."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I are about 6 months together and relationship wise things are going OK. Unfortunately with me personally not so much. I have some anger issues (I am not violent though!) and anxiety problems regarding a traumatic past.\n\nThe thing is normally (before relationship) I dealt with things (in conjunction with a therapist) like this on my own. For me it's the most comfortable way of doing things, especially because I don't open up that easily. The problem is that right now I'm in a relationship. So I suggested that we might take a break, only she didn't agree with this.\n\nNo she's very upset and I'm scared I worsened things. I don't really know what to do as ,A) this is my only relationship I've ever had and B) because I have so much emotions and thoughts running through my head."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I are about 6 months together and relationship wise things are going OK. Unfortunately with me personally not so much. I have some anger issues (I am not violent though!) and anxiety problems regarding a traumatic past.\n\nThe thing is normally (before relationship) I dealt with things (in conjunction with a therapist) like this on my own. For me it's the most comfortable way of doing things, especially because I don't open up that easily. The problem is that right now I'm in a relationship. So I suggested that we might take a break, only she didn't agree with this.\n\nNo she's very upset and I'm scared I worsened things. I don't really know what to do as ,A) this is my only relationship I've ever had and B) because I have so much emotions and thoughts running through my head."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I are about 6 months together and relationship wise things are going OK. Unfortunately with me personally not so much. I have some anger issues (I am not violent though!) and anxiety problems regarding a traumatic past.\n\nThe thing is normally (before relationship) I dealt with things (in conjunction with a therapist) like this on my own. For me it's the most comfortable way of doing things, especially because I don't open up that easily. The problem is that right now I'm in a relationship. So I suggested that we might take a break, only she didn't agree with this.\n\nNo she's very upset and I'm scared I worsened things. I don't really know what to do as ,A) this is my only relationship I've ever had and B) because I have so much emotions and thoughts running through my head."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I are about 6 months together and relationship wise things are going OK. Unfortunately with me personally not so much. I have some anger issues (I am not violent though!) and anxiety problems regarding a traumatic past.\n\nThe thing is normally (before relationship) I dealt with things (in conjunction with a therapist) like this on my own. For me it's the most comfortable way of doing things, especially because I don't open up that easily. The problem is that right now I'm in a relationship. So I suggested that we might take a break, only she didn't agree with this.\n\nNo she's very upset and I'm scared I worsened things. I don't really know what to do as ,A) this is my only relationship I've ever had and B) because I have so much emotions and thoughts running through my head."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all! Throwaway because I don't want my family to see this.\n\nSo I'm getting married sometime in the next two years, very new engagement, but I've been thinking of who I want to be my bridesmaids. I have my sister and my good friends from high school, but in order to match my fiance's number of groomsmen I need one more girl. \n\nMy cousin who I have known my whole life and have been fairly close to has been dating this awesome girl for about a year. Her and I get along super well and she's super fun to be around. I'd love for her to be in my wedding party, but I don't know if it would make things awkward with my cousin not being a groomsmen and him being the one I'm related to. I don't want to force anything or make anyone uncomfortable. I'm sure I could find someone else to fit into the wedding party who would fit just as good, but I just get along so well with my cousin's girlfriend I feel like she would be a great fit."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all! Throwaway because I don't want my family to see this.\n\nSo I'm getting married sometime in the next two years, very new engagement, but I've been thinking of who I want to be my bridesmaids. I have my sister and my good friends from high school, but in order to match my fiance's number of groomsmen I need one more girl. \n\nMy cousin who I have known my whole life and have been fairly close to has been dating this awesome girl for about a year. Her and I get along super well and she's super fun to be around. I'd love for her to be in my wedding party, but I don't know if it would make things awkward with my cousin not being a groomsmen and him being the one I'm related to. I don't want to force anything or make anyone uncomfortable. I'm sure I could find someone else to fit into the wedding party who would fit just as good, but I just get along so well with my cousin's girlfriend I feel like she would be a great fit."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all! Throwaway because I don't want my family to see this.\n\nSo I'm getting married sometime in the next two years, very new engagement, but I've been thinking of who I want to be my bridesmaids. I have my sister and my good friends from high school, but in order to match my fiance's number of groomsmen I need one more girl. \n\nMy cousin who I have known my whole life and have been fairly close to has been dating this awesome girl for about a year. Her and I get along super well and she's super fun to be around. I'd love for her to be in my wedding party, but I don't know if it would make things awkward with my cousin not being a groomsmen and him being the one I'm related to. I don't want to force anything or make anyone uncomfortable. I'm sure I could find someone else to fit into the wedding party who would fit just as good, but I just get along so well with my cousin's girlfriend I feel like she would be a great fit."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all! Throwaway because I don't want my family to see this.\n\nSo I'm getting married sometime in the next two years, very new engagement, but I've been thinking of who I want to be my bridesmaids. I have my sister and my good friends from high school, but in order to match my fiance's number of groomsmen I need one more girl. \n\nMy cousin who I have known my whole life and have been fairly close to has been dating this awesome girl for about a year. Her and I get along super well and she's super fun to be around. I'd love for her to be in my wedding party, but I don't know if it would make things awkward with my cousin not being a groomsmen and him being the one I'm related to. I don't want to force anything or make anyone uncomfortable. I'm sure I could find someone else to fit into the wedding party who would fit just as good, but I just get along so well with my cousin's girlfriend I feel like she would be a great fit."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now by this I mean that I would not ever say anything nice about her. I love her very much and she's a wonderful girlfriend to me. She has supported me while I finish my degree and has been a great source of happiness and direction in my life. However she actively insists that I do not post enough things about her online and it bothers her. I draw it back to her great deal of insecurity instilled by her emotionally abusive mother, and also that her small relationships while in high school all ended with her being cheated on in some form.\n\nI get it that posting on social media is the new easy way of bragging to your friends about how \"wonderful\" your life is and it is an instant gratifying aspect when someone posts a compliment that is essentially permanent and out there for the whole world to see. The problem lies that she wants me to always get so mushy gushy with the details. Like unless I constantly pour my heart out with every message that I don't love her enough.\n\nFrankly sharing that personal of info is embarrassing and breaking of privacy. I only use Instagram as an outlet to share nice things about her to make her happy. I also occasionally will do really mushy statuses on Facebook but set the privacy options to only share between me and her. Since she can't see that it she won't know.\n\nI'm not embarrassed of her at all. I'm just not comfortable sharing so much. If I bring it up with her she feels that I shouldn't ever be embarrassed about my feelings for her. I've asked her if she felt unloved when I'm around her. I've brought her flowers, shared romantics stares, hold hands and walk together and we both enjoy it. \n\nI see my newsfeed of all this oversharing and I feel it has alienated my friends or people on social media in general because no one wants to know everything that is going on in our relationship. What should I do, if anything or am I overreacting?"
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now by this I mean that I would not ever say anything nice about her. I love her very much and she's a wonderful girlfriend to me. She has supported me while I finish my degree and has been a great source of happiness and direction in my life. However she actively insists that I do not post enough things about her online and it bothers her. I draw it back to her great deal of insecurity instilled by her emotionally abusive mother, and also that her small relationships while in high school all ended with her being cheated on in some form.\n\nI get it that posting on social media is the new easy way of bragging to your friends about how \"wonderful\" your life is and it is an instant gratifying aspect when someone posts a compliment that is essentially permanent and out there for the whole world to see. The problem lies that she wants me to always get so mushy gushy with the details. Like unless I constantly pour my heart out with every message that I don't love her enough.\n\nFrankly sharing that personal of info is embarrassing and breaking of privacy. I only use Instagram as an outlet to share nice things about her to make her happy. I also occasionally will do really mushy statuses on Facebook but set the privacy options to only share between me and her. Since she can't see that it she won't know.\n\nI'm not embarrassed of her at all. I'm just not comfortable sharing so much. If I bring it up with her she feels that I shouldn't ever be embarrassed about my feelings for her. I've asked her if she felt unloved when I'm around her. I've brought her flowers, shared romantics stares, hold hands and walk together and we both enjoy it. \n\nI see my newsfeed of all this oversharing and I feel it has alienated my friends or people on social media in general because no one wants to know everything that is going on in our relationship. What should I do, if anything or am I overreacting?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now by this I mean that I would not ever say anything nice about her. I love her very much and she's a wonderful girlfriend to me. She has supported me while I finish my degree and has been a great source of happiness and direction in my life. However she actively insists that I do not post enough things about her online and it bothers her. I draw it back to her great deal of insecurity instilled by her emotionally abusive mother, and also that her small relationships while in high school all ended with her being cheated on in some form.\n\nI get it that posting on social media is the new easy way of bragging to your friends about how \"wonderful\" your life is and it is an instant gratifying aspect when someone posts a compliment that is essentially permanent and out there for the whole world to see. The problem lies that she wants me to always get so mushy gushy with the details. Like unless I constantly pour my heart out with every message that I don't love her enough.\n\nFrankly sharing that personal of info is embarrassing and breaking of privacy. I only use Instagram as an outlet to share nice things about her to make her happy. I also occasionally will do really mushy statuses on Facebook but set the privacy options to only share between me and her. Since she can't see that it she won't know.\n\nI'm not embarrassed of her at all. I'm just not comfortable sharing so much. If I bring it up with her she feels that I shouldn't ever be embarrassed about my feelings for her. I've asked her if she felt unloved when I'm around her. I've brought her flowers, shared romantics stares, hold hands and walk together and we both enjoy it. \n\nI see my newsfeed of all this oversharing and I feel it has alienated my friends or people on social media in general because no one wants to know everything that is going on in our relationship. What should I do, if anything or am I overreacting?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now by this I mean that I would not ever say anything nice about her. I love her very much and she's a wonderful girlfriend to me. She has supported me while I finish my degree and has been a great source of happiness and direction in my life. However she actively insists that I do not post enough things about her online and it bothers her. I draw it back to her great deal of insecurity instilled by her emotionally abusive mother, and also that her small relationships while in high school all ended with her being cheated on in some form.\n\nI get it that posting on social media is the new easy way of bragging to your friends about how \"wonderful\" your life is and it is an instant gratifying aspect when someone posts a compliment that is essentially permanent and out there for the whole world to see. The problem lies that she wants me to always get so mushy gushy with the details. Like unless I constantly pour my heart out with every message that I don't love her enough.\n\nFrankly sharing that personal of info is embarrassing and breaking of privacy. I only use Instagram as an outlet to share nice things about her to make her happy. I also occasionally will do really mushy statuses on Facebook but set the privacy options to only share between me and her. Since she can't see that it she won't know.\n\nI'm not embarrassed of her at all. I'm just not comfortable sharing so much. If I bring it up with her she feels that I shouldn't ever be embarrassed about my feelings for her. I've asked her if she felt unloved when I'm around her. I've brought her flowers, shared romantics stares, hold hands and walk together and we both enjoy it. \n\nI see my newsfeed of all this oversharing and I feel it has alienated my friends or people on social media in general because no one wants to know everything that is going on in our relationship. What should I do, if anything or am I overreacting?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So i have been friends with a girl now for a few years who has been in and out of some rough relationships, i like her a lot (Have been in love from time to time) and for me it has been natural to be there and comfort her after every breakup (I pretty much knew this was bad already from the get-go). So yeah i had to stick with the usual pain of her showing pictures/talking of new guys shes meeting or telling me how great time she had with them and so forth but this was a pain i tried to shut out just by turning off my own feelings (I knew that if i was in love wit her or had feelings for her, it would hurt so much so i tried to block it all). \n\nSo years passed and now that i am getting older i have tried to meet girls, but i never had any feelings for them and it never \"clicked\", this might all be coincidental, or have i fucked with my feelings so bad that i wont be able to love again?"
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So i have been friends with a girl now for a few years who has been in and out of some rough relationships, i like her a lot (Have been in love from time to time) and for me it has been natural to be there and comfort her after every breakup (I pretty much knew this was bad already from the get-go). So yeah i had to stick with the usual pain of her showing pictures/talking of new guys shes meeting or telling me how great time she had with them and so forth but this was a pain i tried to shut out just by turning off my own feelings (I knew that if i was in love wit her or had feelings for her, it would hurt so much so i tried to block it all). \n\nSo years passed and now that i am getting older i have tried to meet girls, but i never had any feelings for them and it never \"clicked\", this might all be coincidental, or have i fucked with my feelings so bad that i wont be able to love again?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So i have been friends with a girl now for a few years who has been in and out of some rough relationships, i like her a lot (Have been in love from time to time) and for me it has been natural to be there and comfort her after every breakup (I pretty much knew this was bad already from the get-go). So yeah i had to stick with the usual pain of her showing pictures/talking of new guys shes meeting or telling me how great time she had with them and so forth but this was a pain i tried to shut out just by turning off my own feelings (I knew that if i was in love wit her or had feelings for her, it would hurt so much so i tried to block it all). \n\nSo years passed and now that i am getting older i have tried to meet girls, but i never had any feelings for them and it never \"clicked\", this might all be coincidental, or have i fucked with my feelings so bad that i wont be able to love again?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So i have been friends with a girl now for a few years who has been in and out of some rough relationships, i like her a lot (Have been in love from time to time) and for me it has been natural to be there and comfort her after every breakup (I pretty much knew this was bad already from the get-go). So yeah i had to stick with the usual pain of her showing pictures/talking of new guys shes meeting or telling me how great time she had with them and so forth but this was a pain i tried to shut out just by turning off my own feelings (I knew that if i was in love wit her or had feelings for her, it would hurt so much so i tried to block it all). \n\nSo years passed and now that i am getting older i have tried to meet girls, but i never had any feelings for them and it never \"clicked\", this might all be coincidental, or have i fucked with my feelings so bad that i wont be able to love again?"
} |
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