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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been looking for the link to the 4chan post. Its a very detailed and elaborate plan to have sex with a girl where the guy grows a beard and tans with a ring on his finger and then takes it off to make it look like a ring used to be there. Then he goes and lays in the girl's room naked with cuts on his back and convinces her he's from a future where he's married to her and the world is ending because of it. He tells her to not marry him to save the world, his selflessness makes her want his balls and they have sex. Link would be very much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been looking for the link to the 4chan post. Its a very detailed and elaborate plan to have sex with a girl where the guy grows a beard and tans with a ring on his finger and then takes it off to make it look like a ring used to be there. Then he goes and lays in the girl's room naked with cuts on his back and convinces her he's from a future where he's married to her and the world is ending because of it. He tells her to not marry him to save the world, his selflessness makes her want his balls and they have sex. Link would be very much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been looking for the link to the 4chan post. Its a very detailed and elaborate plan to have sex with a girl where the guy grows a beard and tans with a ring on his finger and then takes it off to make it look like a ring used to be there. Then he goes and lays in the girl's room naked with cuts on his back and convinces her he's from a future where he's married to her and the world is ending because of it. He tells her to not marry him to save the world, his selflessness makes her want his balls and they have sex. Link would be very much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been looking for the link to the 4chan post. Its a very detailed and elaborate plan to have sex with a girl where the guy grows a beard and tans with a ring on his finger and then takes it off to make it look like a ring used to be there. Then he goes and lays in the girl's room naked with cuts on his back and convinces her he's from a future where he's married to her and the world is ending because of it. He tells her to not marry him to save the world, his selflessness makes her want his balls and they have sex. Link would be very much appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, I want to share a story that has really opened my eyes on my nervous habit: Nail biting. \n\nWhen you are in a job interview either one-to-one or a group interview or an audtion, if you have a nervous habit, make sure you keep it under control. The possibility of you getting the job or losing is sometimes dependent on whether or not you make a good impression. \n\nI had applied recently for a job in a [Magnet]( status hospital. It also is one of the few hospitals that operates a [Planetree]( patient centered view of healthcare. \n\nEssentially, the premier, creme de la creme kind of hospital. \n\nI had everything going well for me!\n\n* I have an excellent resume\n* I have great interpersonal skills\n* I exude confidence\n* I knew what the job entails \n* I prioritize well in a high-stress environment\n\nI got everything down pat, but it wasn't that I wasn't qualified for the position (it was Concierge), but that I had been unconsciously biting my nails and skin picking around the fingers. This was the single most defining factor in the job audition. I lost out on a great job that paid $20/hour, full benefits, etc. The whole 9 yards. \n\nSince then, I've been so aware of my nail biting and skin picking that I haven't done so in 2 weeks, the longest time ever!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, I want to share a story that has really opened my eyes on my nervous habit: Nail biting. \n\nWhen you are in a job interview either one-to-one or a group interview or an audtion, if you have a nervous habit, make sure you keep it under control. The possibility of you getting the job or losing is sometimes dependent on whether or not you make a good impression. \n\nI had applied recently for a job in a [Magnet]( status hospital. It also is one of the few hospitals that operates a [Planetree]( patient centered view of healthcare. \n\nEssentially, the premier, creme de la creme kind of hospital. \n\nI had everything going well for me!\n\n* I have an excellent resume\n* I have great interpersonal skills\n* I exude confidence\n* I knew what the job entails \n* I prioritize well in a high-stress environment\n\nI got everything down pat, but it wasn't that I wasn't qualified for the position (it was Concierge), but that I had been unconsciously biting my nails and skin picking around the fingers. This was the single most defining factor in the job audition. I lost out on a great job that paid $20/hour, full benefits, etc. The whole 9 yards. \n\nSince then, I've been so aware of my nail biting and skin picking that I haven't done so in 2 weeks, the longest time ever!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, I want to share a story that has really opened my eyes on my nervous habit: Nail biting. \n\nWhen you are in a job interview either one-to-one or a group interview or an audtion, if you have a nervous habit, make sure you keep it under control. The possibility of you getting the job or losing is sometimes dependent on whether or not you make a good impression. \n\nI had applied recently for a job in a [Magnet]( status hospital. It also is one of the few hospitals that operates a [Planetree]( patient centered view of healthcare. \n\nEssentially, the premier, creme de la creme kind of hospital. \n\nI had everything going well for me!\n\n* I have an excellent resume\n* I have great interpersonal skills\n* I exude confidence\n* I knew what the job entails \n* I prioritize well in a high-stress environment\n\nI got everything down pat, but it wasn't that I wasn't qualified for the position (it was Concierge), but that I had been unconsciously biting my nails and skin picking around the fingers. This was the single most defining factor in the job audition. I lost out on a great job that paid $20/hour, full benefits, etc. The whole 9 yards. \n\nSince then, I've been so aware of my nail biting and skin picking that I haven't done so in 2 weeks, the longest time ever!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, I want to share a story that has really opened my eyes on my nervous habit: Nail biting. \n\nWhen you are in a job interview either one-to-one or a group interview or an audtion, if you have a nervous habit, make sure you keep it under control. The possibility of you getting the job or losing is sometimes dependent on whether or not you make a good impression. \n\nI had applied recently for a job in a [Magnet]( status hospital. It also is one of the few hospitals that operates a [Planetree]( patient centered view of healthcare. \n\nEssentially, the premier, creme de la creme kind of hospital. \n\nI had everything going well for me!\n\n* I have an excellent resume\n* I have great interpersonal skills\n* I exude confidence\n* I knew what the job entails \n* I prioritize well in a high-stress environment\n\nI got everything down pat, but it wasn't that I wasn't qualified for the position (it was Concierge), but that I had been unconsciously biting my nails and skin picking around the fingers. This was the single most defining factor in the job audition. I lost out on a great job that paid $20/hour, full benefits, etc. The whole 9 yards. \n\nSince then, I've been so aware of my nail biting and skin picking that I haven't done so in 2 weeks, the longest time ever!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all, I'm using a throwaway since my gf uses reddit. \n\nMy gf and I have been together for 5 years. She is absolutely amazing and perfect and I can't see myself spending the rest of my life with someone else other than her. She is my life and I spoil her as much as I possibly can. \n\nHowever, there is one tiny thing that's been the cause of a few complaints lately. Her libido has been going down to the point where it is almost non existent. We have sex, but it isn't often anymore. I'm okay with it, sort of, but I'm not going to force her to have sex just for me. I want her to be in the mood for it as well. When we do have sex, I thought it was pretty great, but Idk. We are both each others firsts. \n\nWe were talking about it the other day and she told me something that made my heart sink and I felt devastated. For about a year, whenever we had sex, she just wasn't aroused. She did it to make me happy. I feel so awful reddit. I don't want to have sex if she doesn't want it. I mean, of course I want sex, it's amazing, but only if she is really wanting it. \n\nI suggested we talk to her doctor maybe, or we can set something up with a sex therapist? I don't know. I love her, but I also can't go without sex either."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all, I'm using a throwaway since my gf uses reddit. \n\nMy gf and I have been together for 5 years. She is absolutely amazing and perfect and I can't see myself spending the rest of my life with someone else other than her. She is my life and I spoil her as much as I possibly can. \n\nHowever, there is one tiny thing that's been the cause of a few complaints lately. Her libido has been going down to the point where it is almost non existent. We have sex, but it isn't often anymore. I'm okay with it, sort of, but I'm not going to force her to have sex just for me. I want her to be in the mood for it as well. When we do have sex, I thought it was pretty great, but Idk. We are both each others firsts. \n\nWe were talking about it the other day and she told me something that made my heart sink and I felt devastated. For about a year, whenever we had sex, she just wasn't aroused. She did it to make me happy. I feel so awful reddit. I don't want to have sex if she doesn't want it. I mean, of course I want sex, it's amazing, but only if she is really wanting it. \n\nI suggested we talk to her doctor maybe, or we can set something up with a sex therapist? I don't know. I love her, but I also can't go without sex either."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all, I'm using a throwaway since my gf uses reddit. \n\nMy gf and I have been together for 5 years. She is absolutely amazing and perfect and I can't see myself spending the rest of my life with someone else other than her. She is my life and I spoil her as much as I possibly can. \n\nHowever, there is one tiny thing that's been the cause of a few complaints lately. Her libido has been going down to the point where it is almost non existent. We have sex, but it isn't often anymore. I'm okay with it, sort of, but I'm not going to force her to have sex just for me. I want her to be in the mood for it as well. When we do have sex, I thought it was pretty great, but Idk. We are both each others firsts. \n\nWe were talking about it the other day and she told me something that made my heart sink and I felt devastated. For about a year, whenever we had sex, she just wasn't aroused. She did it to make me happy. I feel so awful reddit. I don't want to have sex if she doesn't want it. I mean, of course I want sex, it's amazing, but only if she is really wanting it. \n\nI suggested we talk to her doctor maybe, or we can set something up with a sex therapist? I don't know. I love her, but I also can't go without sex either."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all, I'm using a throwaway since my gf uses reddit. \n\nMy gf and I have been together for 5 years. She is absolutely amazing and perfect and I can't see myself spending the rest of my life with someone else other than her. She is my life and I spoil her as much as I possibly can. \n\nHowever, there is one tiny thing that's been the cause of a few complaints lately. Her libido has been going down to the point where it is almost non existent. We have sex, but it isn't often anymore. I'm okay with it, sort of, but I'm not going to force her to have sex just for me. I want her to be in the mood for it as well. When we do have sex, I thought it was pretty great, but Idk. We are both each others firsts. \n\nWe were talking about it the other day and she told me something that made my heart sink and I felt devastated. For about a year, whenever we had sex, she just wasn't aroused. She did it to make me happy. I feel so awful reddit. I don't want to have sex if she doesn't want it. I mean, of course I want sex, it's amazing, but only if she is really wanting it. \n\nI suggested we talk to her doctor maybe, or we can set something up with a sex therapist? I don't know. I love her, but I also can't go without sex either."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit tends to focus on why this sort of technology is scary, but what are some potentially benevolent uses of this data mining? Every coin has 2 sides. And please . No tin hat theories. Just black and white pros and cons and perhaps some people can focus on how we can bend this inevitable shift in privacy towards favoring Average Joe. I.e. support an alibi of an innocent man, or pick up trends in aj individuals behavior that one can research for improvment (Bodybuilders, coaches, employers, teachers) With large aggregates of such data perhaps even predicting the spread of epidemic, famine, or war could be possible. New technology almost always has a rocky start."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit tends to focus on why this sort of technology is scary, but what are some potentially benevolent uses of this data mining? Every coin has 2 sides. And please . No tin hat theories. Just black and white pros and cons and perhaps some people can focus on how we can bend this inevitable shift in privacy towards favoring Average Joe. I.e. support an alibi of an innocent man, or pick up trends in aj individuals behavior that one can research for improvment (Bodybuilders, coaches, employers, teachers) With large aggregates of such data perhaps even predicting the spread of epidemic, famine, or war could be possible. New technology almost always has a rocky start."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit tends to focus on why this sort of technology is scary, but what are some potentially benevolent uses of this data mining? Every coin has 2 sides. And please . No tin hat theories. Just black and white pros and cons and perhaps some people can focus on how we can bend this inevitable shift in privacy towards favoring Average Joe. I.e. support an alibi of an innocent man, or pick up trends in aj individuals behavior that one can research for improvment (Bodybuilders, coaches, employers, teachers) With large aggregates of such data perhaps even predicting the spread of epidemic, famine, or war could be possible. New technology almost always has a rocky start."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Reddit tends to focus on why this sort of technology is scary, but what are some potentially benevolent uses of this data mining? Every coin has 2 sides. And please . No tin hat theories. Just black and white pros and cons and perhaps some people can focus on how we can bend this inevitable shift in privacy towards favoring Average Joe. I.e. support an alibi of an innocent man, or pick up trends in aj individuals behavior that one can research for improvment (Bodybuilders, coaches, employers, teachers) With large aggregates of such data perhaps even predicting the spread of epidemic, famine, or war could be possible. New technology almost always has a rocky start."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met playing an online game and after about a year of being good friends we decided to try things out as a relationship. We've been dating for about 6 months and these last few weeks I regret it so much, all I want to do is break up with him. I'm just too busy lately to keep in contact and I'm not really attracted to him anymore. \n\nHe's a really sensitive guy though so I know this is going to hurt him. Especially since he's coming to visit me soon and is probably expecting sex (he's a virgin). I don't mind visiting him as friends and there were a few other people we both know that were going to visit here as well. I don't know what to do. How do I break this news to him? And when is an appropriate time to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met playing an online game and after about a year of being good friends we decided to try things out as a relationship. We've been dating for about 6 months and these last few weeks I regret it so much, all I want to do is break up with him. I'm just too busy lately to keep in contact and I'm not really attracted to him anymore. \n\nHe's a really sensitive guy though so I know this is going to hurt him. Especially since he's coming to visit me soon and is probably expecting sex (he's a virgin). I don't mind visiting him as friends and there were a few other people we both know that were going to visit here as well. I don't know what to do. How do I break this news to him? And when is an appropriate time to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met playing an online game and after about a year of being good friends we decided to try things out as a relationship. We've been dating for about 6 months and these last few weeks I regret it so much, all I want to do is break up with him. I'm just too busy lately to keep in contact and I'm not really attracted to him anymore. \n\nHe's a really sensitive guy though so I know this is going to hurt him. Especially since he's coming to visit me soon and is probably expecting sex (he's a virgin). I don't mind visiting him as friends and there were a few other people we both know that were going to visit here as well. I don't know what to do. How do I break this news to him? And when is an appropriate time to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met playing an online game and after about a year of being good friends we decided to try things out as a relationship. We've been dating for about 6 months and these last few weeks I regret it so much, all I want to do is break up with him. I'm just too busy lately to keep in contact and I'm not really attracted to him anymore. \n\nHe's a really sensitive guy though so I know this is going to hurt him. Especially since he's coming to visit me soon and is probably expecting sex (he's a virgin). I don't mind visiting him as friends and there were a few other people we both know that were going to visit here as well. I don't know what to do. How do I break this news to him? And when is an appropriate time to?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend LOVES motorcycles. He's studying engineering and loves everything from the building/rebuilding to riding. His parents hate motorcycles. He is an only child which probably makes it worse. I'm not thrilled about the idea, but I'm working on it. My boyfriend is now shopping around for a motorcycle and I don't know what to do. I know it's not my responsibility to say anything to his parents, but our families grew up together and his parents have been more like my parents than my own (bad divorce) at times. I see them regularly, and lying by omission about a pretty big subject like this would feel awful. What is my responsibility in this situation? Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend LOVES motorcycles. He's studying engineering and loves everything from the building/rebuilding to riding. His parents hate motorcycles. He is an only child which probably makes it worse. I'm not thrilled about the idea, but I'm working on it. My boyfriend is now shopping around for a motorcycle and I don't know what to do. I know it's not my responsibility to say anything to his parents, but our families grew up together and his parents have been more like my parents than my own (bad divorce) at times. I see them regularly, and lying by omission about a pretty big subject like this would feel awful. What is my responsibility in this situation? Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend LOVES motorcycles. He's studying engineering and loves everything from the building/rebuilding to riding. His parents hate motorcycles. He is an only child which probably makes it worse. I'm not thrilled about the idea, but I'm working on it. My boyfriend is now shopping around for a motorcycle and I don't know what to do. I know it's not my responsibility to say anything to his parents, but our families grew up together and his parents have been more like my parents than my own (bad divorce) at times. I see them regularly, and lying by omission about a pretty big subject like this would feel awful. What is my responsibility in this situation? Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend LOVES motorcycles. He's studying engineering and loves everything from the building/rebuilding to riding. His parents hate motorcycles. He is an only child which probably makes it worse. I'm not thrilled about the idea, but I'm working on it. My boyfriend is now shopping around for a motorcycle and I don't know what to do. I know it's not my responsibility to say anything to his parents, but our families grew up together and his parents have been more like my parents than my own (bad divorce) at times. I see them regularly, and lying by omission about a pretty big subject like this would feel awful. What is my responsibility in this situation? Thanks."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A friend I've predominantly known over Facebook for the last few years came in to town for to visit. Not specifically for me alone, but just to visit with friends and hang out. Despite this we've spent most of the time hanging out together and I can't help but feel like we've really clicked. We can make each other laugh, share similar interests, and She really is almost exactly my type, but I have no idea if I'm hers or if I'm even on her radar. \n\nI would love to come straight out and ask her, but she leaves in a day or two and I can't help but feel like I'm just jumping the gun because of a really great few days together. At the same time, I can't help but feel like I'm letting a huge chance slip away. That said, I'm a little jaded from past relationships, especially LDR's. I've had several, two for around five months each and another that lasted a year and a half. The latter being one where I was in a solid enough financial position to visit multiple times a month. All three times I was cheated on. \n\nMy first inclination is to sit back and do nothing but keep contact with her through facebook and hope I didn't miss my shot. 'Pray It Safe' so to speak. Of course I'm worried that my past experience and cowardice is just keeping me from a good thing. If I were to talk to her about it, I'm not sure how to approach it without risking some sort of horrible awkwardness."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A friend I've predominantly known over Facebook for the last few years came in to town for to visit. Not specifically for me alone, but just to visit with friends and hang out. Despite this we've spent most of the time hanging out together and I can't help but feel like we've really clicked. We can make each other laugh, share similar interests, and She really is almost exactly my type, but I have no idea if I'm hers or if I'm even on her radar. \n\nI would love to come straight out and ask her, but she leaves in a day or two and I can't help but feel like I'm just jumping the gun because of a really great few days together. At the same time, I can't help but feel like I'm letting a huge chance slip away. That said, I'm a little jaded from past relationships, especially LDR's. I've had several, two for around five months each and another that lasted a year and a half. The latter being one where I was in a solid enough financial position to visit multiple times a month. All three times I was cheated on. \n\nMy first inclination is to sit back and do nothing but keep contact with her through facebook and hope I didn't miss my shot. 'Pray It Safe' so to speak. Of course I'm worried that my past experience and cowardice is just keeping me from a good thing. If I were to talk to her about it, I'm not sure how to approach it without risking some sort of horrible awkwardness."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A friend I've predominantly known over Facebook for the last few years came in to town for to visit. Not specifically for me alone, but just to visit with friends and hang out. Despite this we've spent most of the time hanging out together and I can't help but feel like we've really clicked. We can make each other laugh, share similar interests, and She really is almost exactly my type, but I have no idea if I'm hers or if I'm even on her radar. \n\nI would love to come straight out and ask her, but she leaves in a day or two and I can't help but feel like I'm just jumping the gun because of a really great few days together. At the same time, I can't help but feel like I'm letting a huge chance slip away. That said, I'm a little jaded from past relationships, especially LDR's. I've had several, two for around five months each and another that lasted a year and a half. The latter being one where I was in a solid enough financial position to visit multiple times a month. All three times I was cheated on. \n\nMy first inclination is to sit back and do nothing but keep contact with her through facebook and hope I didn't miss my shot. 'Pray It Safe' so to speak. Of course I'm worried that my past experience and cowardice is just keeping me from a good thing. If I were to talk to her about it, I'm not sure how to approach it without risking some sort of horrible awkwardness."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A friend I've predominantly known over Facebook for the last few years came in to town for to visit. Not specifically for me alone, but just to visit with friends and hang out. Despite this we've spent most of the time hanging out together and I can't help but feel like we've really clicked. We can make each other laugh, share similar interests, and She really is almost exactly my type, but I have no idea if I'm hers or if I'm even on her radar. \n\nI would love to come straight out and ask her, but she leaves in a day or two and I can't help but feel like I'm just jumping the gun because of a really great few days together. At the same time, I can't help but feel like I'm letting a huge chance slip away. That said, I'm a little jaded from past relationships, especially LDR's. I've had several, two for around five months each and another that lasted a year and a half. The latter being one where I was in a solid enough financial position to visit multiple times a month. All three times I was cheated on. \n\nMy first inclination is to sit back and do nothing but keep contact with her through facebook and hope I didn't miss my shot. 'Pray It Safe' so to speak. Of course I'm worried that my past experience and cowardice is just keeping me from a good thing. If I were to talk to her about it, I'm not sure how to approach it without risking some sort of horrible awkwardness."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last year in the late summer/fall I briefly dated someone who ended up being a bad guy. The whole thing involved several ex girlfriends of his, one of whom was my professor at the time which caused a lot of issues, as well as a lot of lying and potential cheating (I can't confirm this but I have good reason to believe it happened). He broke up with me for an ex and then continued to try and be my friend after even though I continued to tell him I wanted to date. Currently, we have zero contact which I requested of him (it took several requests for him to actually stop contacting me) and I have blocked him on all social media and his phone number. I am in no way mean towards him. I usually just pretend he isn't there when I see him. Occasionally I will return a wave hello.\n\nThe reason I want to forgive and move on is because we have a lot of mutual friends and work in the same industry and I don't want this mistake I made/his decisions to affect my life. I see him at work and all I want to do is ignore him, which I do, but honestly it's exhausting. I just hate having that weight on me.\n\nI'm hesitant to forgive and move on because I don't think he deserves forgiveness. He has expressed remorse, but I don't think he truly feels it. From my experience as well as other people's I realize this is not a one time occurrence, but a pattern. He is borderline sociopathic, amoral at best. So my forgiveness could mean nothing or could reinforce his actions as ok, which they are not.\n\nI suppose this whole thing will happen in my head and won't really affect him (I'm not going to sit him down and tell him all this). \n\nI guess my question is, has anyone else had a similar experience? How do you forgive someone who has wronged you and still feel empowered?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last year in the late summer/fall I briefly dated someone who ended up being a bad guy. The whole thing involved several ex girlfriends of his, one of whom was my professor at the time which caused a lot of issues, as well as a lot of lying and potential cheating (I can't confirm this but I have good reason to believe it happened). He broke up with me for an ex and then continued to try and be my friend after even though I continued to tell him I wanted to date. Currently, we have zero contact which I requested of him (it took several requests for him to actually stop contacting me) and I have blocked him on all social media and his phone number. I am in no way mean towards him. I usually just pretend he isn't there when I see him. Occasionally I will return a wave hello.\n\nThe reason I want to forgive and move on is because we have a lot of mutual friends and work in the same industry and I don't want this mistake I made/his decisions to affect my life. I see him at work and all I want to do is ignore him, which I do, but honestly it's exhausting. I just hate having that weight on me.\n\nI'm hesitant to forgive and move on because I don't think he deserves forgiveness. He has expressed remorse, but I don't think he truly feels it. From my experience as well as other people's I realize this is not a one time occurrence, but a pattern. He is borderline sociopathic, amoral at best. So my forgiveness could mean nothing or could reinforce his actions as ok, which they are not.\n\nI suppose this whole thing will happen in my head and won't really affect him (I'm not going to sit him down and tell him all this). \n\nI guess my question is, has anyone else had a similar experience? How do you forgive someone who has wronged you and still feel empowered?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last year in the late summer/fall I briefly dated someone who ended up being a bad guy. The whole thing involved several ex girlfriends of his, one of whom was my professor at the time which caused a lot of issues, as well as a lot of lying and potential cheating (I can't confirm this but I have good reason to believe it happened). He broke up with me for an ex and then continued to try and be my friend after even though I continued to tell him I wanted to date. Currently, we have zero contact which I requested of him (it took several requests for him to actually stop contacting me) and I have blocked him on all social media and his phone number. I am in no way mean towards him. I usually just pretend he isn't there when I see him. Occasionally I will return a wave hello.\n\nThe reason I want to forgive and move on is because we have a lot of mutual friends and work in the same industry and I don't want this mistake I made/his decisions to affect my life. I see him at work and all I want to do is ignore him, which I do, but honestly it's exhausting. I just hate having that weight on me.\n\nI'm hesitant to forgive and move on because I don't think he deserves forgiveness. He has expressed remorse, but I don't think he truly feels it. From my experience as well as other people's I realize this is not a one time occurrence, but a pattern. He is borderline sociopathic, amoral at best. So my forgiveness could mean nothing or could reinforce his actions as ok, which they are not.\n\nI suppose this whole thing will happen in my head and won't really affect him (I'm not going to sit him down and tell him all this). \n\nI guess my question is, has anyone else had a similar experience? How do you forgive someone who has wronged you and still feel empowered?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last year in the late summer/fall I briefly dated someone who ended up being a bad guy. The whole thing involved several ex girlfriends of his, one of whom was my professor at the time which caused a lot of issues, as well as a lot of lying and potential cheating (I can't confirm this but I have good reason to believe it happened). He broke up with me for an ex and then continued to try and be my friend after even though I continued to tell him I wanted to date. Currently, we have zero contact which I requested of him (it took several requests for him to actually stop contacting me) and I have blocked him on all social media and his phone number. I am in no way mean towards him. I usually just pretend he isn't there when I see him. Occasionally I will return a wave hello.\n\nThe reason I want to forgive and move on is because we have a lot of mutual friends and work in the same industry and I don't want this mistake I made/his decisions to affect my life. I see him at work and all I want to do is ignore him, which I do, but honestly it's exhausting. I just hate having that weight on me.\n\nI'm hesitant to forgive and move on because I don't think he deserves forgiveness. He has expressed remorse, but I don't think he truly feels it. From my experience as well as other people's I realize this is not a one time occurrence, but a pattern. He is borderline sociopathic, amoral at best. So my forgiveness could mean nothing or could reinforce his actions as ok, which they are not.\n\nI suppose this whole thing will happen in my head and won't really affect him (I'm not going to sit him down and tell him all this). \n\nI guess my question is, has anyone else had a similar experience? How do you forgive someone who has wronged you and still feel empowered?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family and the other family involved are both Indian. In Indian culture family friends are treated as family, and what I mean by that is that my mom calls the other mom \"sister\" and I call her my auntie. And in general my family has been really close to their family. \n\nTo expedite the story I will give names, I will call the other family's daughter Sarah. Okay so my brother wasn't very popular when it came to highschool. He had friends but they were on the nerdy side. Sarah on the other hand was pretty involved and was considered popular in highschool. They both got accepted to the same college and our folks wanted them to look out for each other since it was a 3 hour drive from school. \n\nMy brother ended up finding friends pretty quickly in school while Sarah didn't have any. My brother offered Sarah to come hang out with their friends, but she refused and as my brother said was condescending about it. Later on in the school year, my brother basically became really popular and when Sarah went to hang out with him and his friends. She basically tried to put him down (his words), by bringing up embarassing/cringey stories from highschool. \n\nMy brother got pissed and basically told his friends to not to talk to her anymore. Sarah didn't have any friends, or anyone to even hang out with. She started coming home every weekend, got depressed, did poorly in her classes. \n\nThroughout the time, I only heard through my parents what was going. Now when I came back our family friends are extremely cold towards us. They decided to tell people that my brother spread rumors about her and that's why she couldn't handle college. Right now Sarah is in therapy and she will be taking classes at a community college before going back to school. And this is after being saludicitorian in highschool.\n\nI want to resolve this so my family can be good friends with them again. This isn't just impacting our relationship with them, but with other Indian families."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So let me give you some back story. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years and things have been great (aside from the miscommunication from time to time). About 9 months ago she took a job that has her traveling all over the country some times she is gone out of state from Monday - Thursday for the entire month. (20 ,22 days gone) and is home on the weekend. She has minimal time while gone to talk and communicate while gone. Maybe 3 to 4 hours between phone calls or text. We are slated to be engaged next week and married by july. My problem is I can't stand her traveling and the lack of concern for how I feel about it. She says that's her job and that's what she has to do. I'm upset because before she took the job I told her my concerns and she dismissed them and made the job sound not so bad. Not it is almost unbearable, it like I have a long distance relationship with someone I live with. I have tried and tried to tell her how it bothers me and that we need to find a solution to it (such as making time to contact me and more effort to space out her travels) but she always takes the side that it's her job and she doesn't have the time when she is gone to message or call me. I have no worried of infidelity I don't believe she would do that. I just feel that I'm taking the back seat to her job. I'm worried that if this continues I won't be able to handle it any more, that it will be the downfall of an other wise perfect relation ship. I just need help trying to find new perspectives to try to get her to see how this makes me feel and that it's not conducive to building a family to starting a life with someone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So let me give you some back story. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years and things have been great (aside from the miscommunication from time to time). About 9 months ago she took a job that has her traveling all over the country some times she is gone out of state from Monday - Thursday for the entire month. (20 ,22 days gone) and is home on the weekend. She has minimal time while gone to talk and communicate while gone. Maybe 3 to 4 hours between phone calls or text. We are slated to be engaged next week and married by july. My problem is I can't stand her traveling and the lack of concern for how I feel about it. She says that's her job and that's what she has to do. I'm upset because before she took the job I told her my concerns and she dismissed them and made the job sound not so bad. Not it is almost unbearable, it like I have a long distance relationship with someone I live with. I have tried and tried to tell her how it bothers me and that we need to find a solution to it (such as making time to contact me and more effort to space out her travels) but she always takes the side that it's her job and she doesn't have the time when she is gone to message or call me. I have no worried of infidelity I don't believe she would do that. I just feel that I'm taking the back seat to her job. I'm worried that if this continues I won't be able to handle it any more, that it will be the downfall of an other wise perfect relation ship. I just need help trying to find new perspectives to try to get her to see how this makes me feel and that it's not conducive to building a family to starting a life with someone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So let me give you some back story. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years and things have been great (aside from the miscommunication from time to time). About 9 months ago she took a job that has her traveling all over the country some times she is gone out of state from Monday - Thursday for the entire month. (20 ,22 days gone) and is home on the weekend. She has minimal time while gone to talk and communicate while gone. Maybe 3 to 4 hours between phone calls or text. We are slated to be engaged next week and married by july. My problem is I can't stand her traveling and the lack of concern for how I feel about it. She says that's her job and that's what she has to do. I'm upset because before she took the job I told her my concerns and she dismissed them and made the job sound not so bad. Not it is almost unbearable, it like I have a long distance relationship with someone I live with. I have tried and tried to tell her how it bothers me and that we need to find a solution to it (such as making time to contact me and more effort to space out her travels) but she always takes the side that it's her job and she doesn't have the time when she is gone to message or call me. I have no worried of infidelity I don't believe she would do that. I just feel that I'm taking the back seat to her job. I'm worried that if this continues I won't be able to handle it any more, that it will be the downfall of an other wise perfect relation ship. I just need help trying to find new perspectives to try to get her to see how this makes me feel and that it's not conducive to building a family to starting a life with someone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So let me give you some back story. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years and things have been great (aside from the miscommunication from time to time). About 9 months ago she took a job that has her traveling all over the country some times she is gone out of state from Monday - Thursday for the entire month. (20 ,22 days gone) and is home on the weekend. She has minimal time while gone to talk and communicate while gone. Maybe 3 to 4 hours between phone calls or text. We are slated to be engaged next week and married by july. My problem is I can't stand her traveling and the lack of concern for how I feel about it. She says that's her job and that's what she has to do. I'm upset because before she took the job I told her my concerns and she dismissed them and made the job sound not so bad. Not it is almost unbearable, it like I have a long distance relationship with someone I live with. I have tried and tried to tell her how it bothers me and that we need to find a solution to it (such as making time to contact me and more effort to space out her travels) but she always takes the side that it's her job and she doesn't have the time when she is gone to message or call me. I have no worried of infidelity I don't believe she would do that. I just feel that I'm taking the back seat to her job. I'm worried that if this continues I won't be able to handle it any more, that it will be the downfall of an other wise perfect relation ship. I just need help trying to find new perspectives to try to get her to see how this makes me feel and that it's not conducive to building a family to starting a life with someone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mother sister and I were at Sun splash, which was a special treat for us. I wanted to go on this ride ( I can't recall the name of it) and I thought it was the coolest thing ever. My mother said it was OK, but my little sister Ista really didn't want to go on. I begged and begged until she finally complied. We waited for a half an hour before we could go, we wanted to ride as a group, but they said we would be too light, so a young couple offered to take one of each of us.\n\nThe ride was amazing! They had made it pitch black and there were lights, I screamed the whole way down. Except when I finally got down, the young couple was gone, and Ista was too.\n\nI freaked out and started screaming for her name, '\"ISTA!\" I was screaming, running around for my little sister. My mother joined in and called security.\n\nI heard snickering, and my little sister was behind the tubes you ride on. I ran over and hugged her. My mom stopped crying and hugged both of us, we both thought Ista had gotten abducted. \n\nWhat was the scariest moment you've experienced with a loved one?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mother sister and I were at Sun splash, which was a special treat for us. I wanted to go on this ride ( I can't recall the name of it) and I thought it was the coolest thing ever. My mother said it was OK, but my little sister Ista really didn't want to go on. I begged and begged until she finally complied. We waited for a half an hour before we could go, we wanted to ride as a group, but they said we would be too light, so a young couple offered to take one of each of us.\n\nThe ride was amazing! They had made it pitch black and there were lights, I screamed the whole way down. Except when I finally got down, the young couple was gone, and Ista was too.\n\nI freaked out and started screaming for her name, '\"ISTA!\" I was screaming, running around for my little sister. My mother joined in and called security.\n\nI heard snickering, and my little sister was behind the tubes you ride on. I ran over and hugged her. My mom stopped crying and hugged both of us, we both thought Ista had gotten abducted. \n\nWhat was the scariest moment you've experienced with a loved one?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mother sister and I were at Sun splash, which was a special treat for us. I wanted to go on this ride ( I can't recall the name of it) and I thought it was the coolest thing ever. My mother said it was OK, but my little sister Ista really didn't want to go on. I begged and begged until she finally complied. We waited for a half an hour before we could go, we wanted to ride as a group, but they said we would be too light, so a young couple offered to take one of each of us.\n\nThe ride was amazing! They had made it pitch black and there were lights, I screamed the whole way down. Except when I finally got down, the young couple was gone, and Ista was too.\n\nI freaked out and started screaming for her name, '\"ISTA!\" I was screaming, running around for my little sister. My mother joined in and called security.\n\nI heard snickering, and my little sister was behind the tubes you ride on. I ran over and hugged her. My mom stopped crying and hugged both of us, we both thought Ista had gotten abducted. \n\nWhat was the scariest moment you've experienced with a loved one?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mother sister and I were at Sun splash, which was a special treat for us. I wanted to go on this ride ( I can't recall the name of it) and I thought it was the coolest thing ever. My mother said it was OK, but my little sister Ista really didn't want to go on. I begged and begged until she finally complied. We waited for a half an hour before we could go, we wanted to ride as a group, but they said we would be too light, so a young couple offered to take one of each of us.\n\nThe ride was amazing! They had made it pitch black and there were lights, I screamed the whole way down. Except when I finally got down, the young couple was gone, and Ista was too.\n\nI freaked out and started screaming for her name, '\"ISTA!\" I was screaming, running around for my little sister. My mother joined in and called security.\n\nI heard snickering, and my little sister was behind the tubes you ride on. I ran over and hugged her. My mom stopped crying and hugged both of us, we both thought Ista had gotten abducted. \n\nWhat was the scariest moment you've experienced with a loved one?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend lives 4 hours away from me by train, so we don't see each other very often. When we got together, we chatted or talked on skype/the phone several hours a day. Today we talk about 1 hour a week. \n\nI know it is not possible for us to talk several hours a day, but I wish we could at least talk a little bit on the phone. When I call him and he doesn't pick up because he is either studying or playing something with his friends I wish he would call me back when he is done. \n\nI feel so lonely, we used to play and talk so much and now I just end up doing nothing or waiting for him to say something. I think I need to tell him because how is he supposed to know how I feel if I don't tell him? I just feel so needy and clingy and it makes me feel so guilty. How do I do this? I don't want to be a burden in any way, but I don't know how to handle this.\n\nEdit: I'm 18 and he is 24. We've been together for 10 months. \n\nAnother edit: In my first and previous relationship my boyfriend didn't care for me at all, my current boyfriend has been really caring for me and I'm so suprised every time he has done something nice because I'm still not used to being treated so nice. I know I have communication problems and he knows something is bothering me, but I can't talk to him about things that are hard for me face to face (this is not because I think he doesn't give me enough attention when we're apart, many things from my childhood just bothers me and makes me sad)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend lives 4 hours away from me by train, so we don't see each other very often. When we got together, we chatted or talked on skype/the phone several hours a day. Today we talk about 1 hour a week. \n\nI know it is not possible for us to talk several hours a day, but I wish we could at least talk a little bit on the phone. When I call him and he doesn't pick up because he is either studying or playing something with his friends I wish he would call me back when he is done. \n\nI feel so lonely, we used to play and talk so much and now I just end up doing nothing or waiting for him to say something. I think I need to tell him because how is he supposed to know how I feel if I don't tell him? I just feel so needy and clingy and it makes me feel so guilty. How do I do this? I don't want to be a burden in any way, but I don't know how to handle this.\n\nEdit: I'm 18 and he is 24. We've been together for 10 months. \n\nAnother edit: In my first and previous relationship my boyfriend didn't care for me at all, my current boyfriend has been really caring for me and I'm so suprised every time he has done something nice because I'm still not used to being treated so nice. I know I have communication problems and he knows something is bothering me, but I can't talk to him about things that are hard for me face to face (this is not because I think he doesn't give me enough attention when we're apart, many things from my childhood just bothers me and makes me sad)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend lives 4 hours away from me by train, so we don't see each other very often. When we got together, we chatted or talked on skype/the phone several hours a day. Today we talk about 1 hour a week. \n\nI know it is not possible for us to talk several hours a day, but I wish we could at least talk a little bit on the phone. When I call him and he doesn't pick up because he is either studying or playing something with his friends I wish he would call me back when he is done. \n\nI feel so lonely, we used to play and talk so much and now I just end up doing nothing or waiting for him to say something. I think I need to tell him because how is he supposed to know how I feel if I don't tell him? I just feel so needy and clingy and it makes me feel so guilty. How do I do this? I don't want to be a burden in any way, but I don't know how to handle this.\n\nEdit: I'm 18 and he is 24. We've been together for 10 months. \n\nAnother edit: In my first and previous relationship my boyfriend didn't care for me at all, my current boyfriend has been really caring for me and I'm so suprised every time he has done something nice because I'm still not used to being treated so nice. I know I have communication problems and he knows something is bothering me, but I can't talk to him about things that are hard for me face to face (this is not because I think he doesn't give me enough attention when we're apart, many things from my childhood just bothers me and makes me sad)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend lives 4 hours away from me by train, so we don't see each other very often. When we got together, we chatted or talked on skype/the phone several hours a day. Today we talk about 1 hour a week. \n\nI know it is not possible for us to talk several hours a day, but I wish we could at least talk a little bit on the phone. When I call him and he doesn't pick up because he is either studying or playing something with his friends I wish he would call me back when he is done. \n\nI feel so lonely, we used to play and talk so much and now I just end up doing nothing or waiting for him to say something. I think I need to tell him because how is he supposed to know how I feel if I don't tell him? I just feel so needy and clingy and it makes me feel so guilty. How do I do this? I don't want to be a burden in any way, but I don't know how to handle this.\n\nEdit: I'm 18 and he is 24. We've been together for 10 months. \n\nAnother edit: In my first and previous relationship my boyfriend didn't care for me at all, my current boyfriend has been really caring for me and I'm so suprised every time he has done something nice because I'm still not used to being treated so nice. I know I have communication problems and he knows something is bothering me, but I can't talk to him about things that are hard for me face to face (this is not because I think he doesn't give me enough attention when we're apart, many things from my childhood just bothers me and makes me sad)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work for a company with several offices distributed all along the east coast. We get together twice a year to work together in person at the main branch. \n\nDuring this time we also participate in bonding activities in addition to working. One of these activities is a series of lectures about any random thing we might find interesting. People usually share their hobbies or something work related. These talks are usually fun and interesting but very work appropriate. \n\nFor the past two sessions, one of my coworkers has been using this tradition to preach about veganism under the guise of education. For example he'll focus on a specific animal typically used for food and talk about how they're smarter than toddlers, have best friends, etc.\n\nThe first time this happened I thought it was a weird choice but didn't think much of it beyond that, but the most recent time he was much more aggressive about it. He said he believes it's not possible to be a moral person if you eat animal products and focused less on how smart and cute farm animals are and more on the gore of the meat industry. \n\nBefore you say talk to my boss, that's part of the problem. My boss is very close with my coworker and seems to have no problem with these speeches. \n\nI actually have nothing against veganism, but I think it's inappropriate to discuss it or any other divisive issue at work. If my coworker were to give a speech about how he believes it's immoral to be gay he'd probably get fired the same day, but because this isn't something that's legally protected apparently it's a-okay. \n\nI'm not the only person who feels this way at my company, but no one wants to speak up because of my coworkers relationship with our boss. If anyone has ideas on the best way to approach this, thanks in advance for the advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work for a company with several offices distributed all along the east coast. We get together twice a year to work together in person at the main branch. \n\nDuring this time we also participate in bonding activities in addition to working. One of these activities is a series of lectures about any random thing we might find interesting. People usually share their hobbies or something work related. These talks are usually fun and interesting but very work appropriate. \n\nFor the past two sessions, one of my coworkers has been using this tradition to preach about veganism under the guise of education. For example he'll focus on a specific animal typically used for food and talk about how they're smarter than toddlers, have best friends, etc.\n\nThe first time this happened I thought it was a weird choice but didn't think much of it beyond that, but the most recent time he was much more aggressive about it. He said he believes it's not possible to be a moral person if you eat animal products and focused less on how smart and cute farm animals are and more on the gore of the meat industry. \n\nBefore you say talk to my boss, that's part of the problem. My boss is very close with my coworker and seems to have no problem with these speeches. \n\nI actually have nothing against veganism, but I think it's inappropriate to discuss it or any other divisive issue at work. If my coworker were to give a speech about how he believes it's immoral to be gay he'd probably get fired the same day, but because this isn't something that's legally protected apparently it's a-okay. \n\nI'm not the only person who feels this way at my company, but no one wants to speak up because of my coworkers relationship with our boss. If anyone has ideas on the best way to approach this, thanks in advance for the advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work for a company with several offices distributed all along the east coast. We get together twice a year to work together in person at the main branch. \n\nDuring this time we also participate in bonding activities in addition to working. One of these activities is a series of lectures about any random thing we might find interesting. People usually share their hobbies or something work related. These talks are usually fun and interesting but very work appropriate. \n\nFor the past two sessions, one of my coworkers has been using this tradition to preach about veganism under the guise of education. For example he'll focus on a specific animal typically used for food and talk about how they're smarter than toddlers, have best friends, etc.\n\nThe first time this happened I thought it was a weird choice but didn't think much of it beyond that, but the most recent time he was much more aggressive about it. He said he believes it's not possible to be a moral person if you eat animal products and focused less on how smart and cute farm animals are and more on the gore of the meat industry. \n\nBefore you say talk to my boss, that's part of the problem. My boss is very close with my coworker and seems to have no problem with these speeches. \n\nI actually have nothing against veganism, but I think it's inappropriate to discuss it or any other divisive issue at work. If my coworker were to give a speech about how he believes it's immoral to be gay he'd probably get fired the same day, but because this isn't something that's legally protected apparently it's a-okay. \n\nI'm not the only person who feels this way at my company, but no one wants to speak up because of my coworkers relationship with our boss. If anyone has ideas on the best way to approach this, thanks in advance for the advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work for a company with several offices distributed all along the east coast. We get together twice a year to work together in person at the main branch. \n\nDuring this time we also participate in bonding activities in addition to working. One of these activities is a series of lectures about any random thing we might find interesting. People usually share their hobbies or something work related. These talks are usually fun and interesting but very work appropriate. \n\nFor the past two sessions, one of my coworkers has been using this tradition to preach about veganism under the guise of education. For example he'll focus on a specific animal typically used for food and talk about how they're smarter than toddlers, have best friends, etc.\n\nThe first time this happened I thought it was a weird choice but didn't think much of it beyond that, but the most recent time he was much more aggressive about it. He said he believes it's not possible to be a moral person if you eat animal products and focused less on how smart and cute farm animals are and more on the gore of the meat industry. \n\nBefore you say talk to my boss, that's part of the problem. My boss is very close with my coworker and seems to have no problem with these speeches. \n\nI actually have nothing against veganism, but I think it's inappropriate to discuss it or any other divisive issue at work. If my coworker were to give a speech about how he believes it's immoral to be gay he'd probably get fired the same day, but because this isn't something that's legally protected apparently it's a-okay. \n\nI'm not the only person who feels this way at my company, but no one wants to speak up because of my coworkers relationship with our boss. If anyone has ideas on the best way to approach this, thanks in advance for the advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, this happened in the summer after my freshman year. My parents had just got divorced, and I was moving highschools. I didn't have too many friends, so I was on the computer a lot. So I got a message from this girl and we started talking. In my lonely/sad/immature mind I sent some things. and stuff. In highschool this guy would always message me and mention his friend was into me, and it was that girl. he knows about it. Every now again he brings it up and claims \"she wants to talk to me\" which usually leads to threats of her posting them. I've never met this girl, nor seen any proof of her existence. So I think it's him trolling. I've since graduated highschool and am in college. How do I react to this? What can I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, this happened in the summer after my freshman year. My parents had just got divorced, and I was moving highschools. I didn't have too many friends, so I was on the computer a lot. So I got a message from this girl and we started talking. In my lonely/sad/immature mind I sent some things. and stuff. In highschool this guy would always message me and mention his friend was into me, and it was that girl. he knows about it. Every now again he brings it up and claims \"she wants to talk to me\" which usually leads to threats of her posting them. I've never met this girl, nor seen any proof of her existence. So I think it's him trolling. I've since graduated highschool and am in college. How do I react to this? What can I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, this happened in the summer after my freshman year. My parents had just got divorced, and I was moving highschools. I didn't have too many friends, so I was on the computer a lot. So I got a message from this girl and we started talking. In my lonely/sad/immature mind I sent some things. and stuff. In highschool this guy would always message me and mention his friend was into me, and it was that girl. he knows about it. Every now again he brings it up and claims \"she wants to talk to me\" which usually leads to threats of her posting them. I've never met this girl, nor seen any proof of her existence. So I think it's him trolling. I've since graduated highschool and am in college. How do I react to this? What can I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, this happened in the summer after my freshman year. My parents had just got divorced, and I was moving highschools. I didn't have too many friends, so I was on the computer a lot. So I got a message from this girl and we started talking. In my lonely/sad/immature mind I sent some things. and stuff. In highschool this guy would always message me and mention his friend was into me, and it was that girl. he knows about it. Every now again he brings it up and claims \"she wants to talk to me\" which usually leads to threats of her posting them. I've never met this girl, nor seen any proof of her existence. So I think it's him trolling. I've since graduated highschool and am in college. How do I react to this? What can I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Most of my relationships have been casual, so sex and physical intimacy usually comes very quickly. I think the only time I held off more than a few dates was when I was a virgin! Having had mostly casual relationships though, I'm not even sure if I know what moving \"emotionally quickly\" is like.\n\nMy acquaintance (Jeffery, let's say) broke up with his GF last month because she cheated. They were together three years. I've known Jeffery about that long, but only casually - we're in the same friend group and have maybe hung out a couple dozen times.\n\nSince the break up, he's been hanging out with the group more, and it turns out that we really get along. Our mutual friends always said we would, but he was always unavailable till now. Despite knowing he's vulnerable, maybe not in a great place, I have feelings for him and really want to see where it will go - but I have no idea how to do this while having more than a friendship but less than serious BF/GF.\n\nSo far we've gone for a very friendly coffee and dancing with friends (so, mostly silly, a little bit of grinding that added to the tension).\n\nI want to go slow to give him space to get over his relationship (though, it's been dead for the last year) and make sure his feelings for me are legitimate and not just caused by suddenly being single. What is the best way to do this? What does going slow entail? I'm mostly concerned about the sexual aspect, since I tend to move quickly there. Though, still include any other parts of \"going slow\" that would be important for someone fresh out of a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Most of my relationships have been casual, so sex and physical intimacy usually comes very quickly. I think the only time I held off more than a few dates was when I was a virgin! Having had mostly casual relationships though, I'm not even sure if I know what moving \"emotionally quickly\" is like.\n\nMy acquaintance (Jeffery, let's say) broke up with his GF last month because she cheated. They were together three years. I've known Jeffery about that long, but only casually - we're in the same friend group and have maybe hung out a couple dozen times.\n\nSince the break up, he's been hanging out with the group more, and it turns out that we really get along. Our mutual friends always said we would, but he was always unavailable till now. Despite knowing he's vulnerable, maybe not in a great place, I have feelings for him and really want to see where it will go - but I have no idea how to do this while having more than a friendship but less than serious BF/GF.\n\nSo far we've gone for a very friendly coffee and dancing with friends (so, mostly silly, a little bit of grinding that added to the tension).\n\nI want to go slow to give him space to get over his relationship (though, it's been dead for the last year) and make sure his feelings for me are legitimate and not just caused by suddenly being single. What is the best way to do this? What does going slow entail? I'm mostly concerned about the sexual aspect, since I tend to move quickly there. Though, still include any other parts of \"going slow\" that would be important for someone fresh out of a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Most of my relationships have been casual, so sex and physical intimacy usually comes very quickly. I think the only time I held off more than a few dates was when I was a virgin! Having had mostly casual relationships though, I'm not even sure if I know what moving \"emotionally quickly\" is like.\n\nMy acquaintance (Jeffery, let's say) broke up with his GF last month because she cheated. They were together three years. I've known Jeffery about that long, but only casually - we're in the same friend group and have maybe hung out a couple dozen times.\n\nSince the break up, he's been hanging out with the group more, and it turns out that we really get along. Our mutual friends always said we would, but he was always unavailable till now. Despite knowing he's vulnerable, maybe not in a great place, I have feelings for him and really want to see where it will go - but I have no idea how to do this while having more than a friendship but less than serious BF/GF.\n\nSo far we've gone for a very friendly coffee and dancing with friends (so, mostly silly, a little bit of grinding that added to the tension).\n\nI want to go slow to give him space to get over his relationship (though, it's been dead for the last year) and make sure his feelings for me are legitimate and not just caused by suddenly being single. What is the best way to do this? What does going slow entail? I'm mostly concerned about the sexual aspect, since I tend to move quickly there. Though, still include any other parts of \"going slow\" that would be important for someone fresh out of a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Most of my relationships have been casual, so sex and physical intimacy usually comes very quickly. I think the only time I held off more than a few dates was when I was a virgin! Having had mostly casual relationships though, I'm not even sure if I know what moving \"emotionally quickly\" is like.\n\nMy acquaintance (Jeffery, let's say) broke up with his GF last month because she cheated. They were together three years. I've known Jeffery about that long, but only casually - we're in the same friend group and have maybe hung out a couple dozen times.\n\nSince the break up, he's been hanging out with the group more, and it turns out that we really get along. Our mutual friends always said we would, but he was always unavailable till now. Despite knowing he's vulnerable, maybe not in a great place, I have feelings for him and really want to see where it will go - but I have no idea how to do this while having more than a friendship but less than serious BF/GF.\n\nSo far we've gone for a very friendly coffee and dancing with friends (so, mostly silly, a little bit of grinding that added to the tension).\n\nI want to go slow to give him space to get over his relationship (though, it's been dead for the last year) and make sure his feelings for me are legitimate and not just caused by suddenly being single. What is the best way to do this? What does going slow entail? I'm mostly concerned about the sexual aspect, since I tend to move quickly there. Though, still include any other parts of \"going slow\" that would be important for someone fresh out of a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So last night, hanging out at a friend's. I'd had 2 or 3 drinks so yeah I was feeling a bit uppity.\n\nWell, there was a Ferrari parked out front. Two of my friends start taking pictures. The white trash neighbors next door are ooing and ahhing. I ask, \"What the fuck are you so excited about? A Ferrari? You guys realize the only people who own Ferraris are people who have fucked over a TON of other people, in order to get that Ferrari?\"\n\nThe guy comes outside, so I yell at him, \"Nice Ferrari! How many pensions did you steal to get it?\"\n\nMy friends all turn on me. At this point I'll note my friends are 100% Democrat, watch Daily Show and Colbert religiously, and constantly bitch about how our economy has been ruined by the rich. \n\nBut, apparently, when you meet one of those rich folk who have spent the last few years fucking our economy, you aren't allowed to call them out on it. In fact, judging by my friends reactions, if you face one of those rich assholes, you're supposed to compliment them on what a great job they did and what a nice car!\n\nEach friend tells me, \"Hey, I agree with you.in theory.\" But they still call me an asshole for calling the other guy an asshole. \n\nIf this isn't the perfect example of why the class war is being lost in America, I don't know what is. We don't stand up to assholes when we see them, and we turn on each other to defend his right to fuck us over so he can have a shiny toy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So last night, hanging out at a friend's. I'd had 2 or 3 drinks so yeah I was feeling a bit uppity.\n\nWell, there was a Ferrari parked out front. Two of my friends start taking pictures. The white trash neighbors next door are ooing and ahhing. I ask, \"What the fuck are you so excited about? A Ferrari? You guys realize the only people who own Ferraris are people who have fucked over a TON of other people, in order to get that Ferrari?\"\n\nThe guy comes outside, so I yell at him, \"Nice Ferrari! How many pensions did you steal to get it?\"\n\nMy friends all turn on me. At this point I'll note my friends are 100% Democrat, watch Daily Show and Colbert religiously, and constantly bitch about how our economy has been ruined by the rich. \n\nBut, apparently, when you meet one of those rich folk who have spent the last few years fucking our economy, you aren't allowed to call them out on it. In fact, judging by my friends reactions, if you face one of those rich assholes, you're supposed to compliment them on what a great job they did and what a nice car!\n\nEach friend tells me, \"Hey, I agree with you.in theory.\" But they still call me an asshole for calling the other guy an asshole. \n\nIf this isn't the perfect example of why the class war is being lost in America, I don't know what is. We don't stand up to assholes when we see them, and we turn on each other to defend his right to fuck us over so he can have a shiny toy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with this girl for a while and it feels like the honeymoon period never ended. And the feeling is completely mutual. When we're together we're both pretty much on cloud nine. I couldn't hope for us to get along better.\n\nThe issue stems from me feeling a bit inadequate for what is pretty much no good reason. My GF teaches a foreign language and makes great money, but she has dreams and aspirations that go far beyond that, and her goal is to save to goto university despite the fact that she's already very successful and well respected at work.\n\nMe? I'm a 25 year old high school dropout who legitimately enjoys customer service and the team atmosphere that usually comes with it. To the point that I could easily see myself working at supermarkets or fast food joints forever. I'm very happy and I make enough to pay all of my expenses, pursue numerous hobbies, and still save a respectable amount.\n\nShe's told me that she doesn't care, as long as I'm happy and doing my part to help us achieve our dreams together. Which I feel like I am. But I can't help but feel like I'm letting her down a bit. Her parents love me, but they have voiced disappointed with my career choice, which is probably the root of my worries. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Did it work out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with this girl for a while and it feels like the honeymoon period never ended. And the feeling is completely mutual. When we're together we're both pretty much on cloud nine. I couldn't hope for us to get along better.\n\nThe issue stems from me feeling a bit inadequate for what is pretty much no good reason. My GF teaches a foreign language and makes great money, but she has dreams and aspirations that go far beyond that, and her goal is to save to goto university despite the fact that she's already very successful and well respected at work.\n\nMe? I'm a 25 year old high school dropout who legitimately enjoys customer service and the team atmosphere that usually comes with it. To the point that I could easily see myself working at supermarkets or fast food joints forever. I'm very happy and I make enough to pay all of my expenses, pursue numerous hobbies, and still save a respectable amount.\n\nShe's told me that she doesn't care, as long as I'm happy and doing my part to help us achieve our dreams together. Which I feel like I am. But I can't help but feel like I'm letting her down a bit. Her parents love me, but they have voiced disappointed with my career choice, which is probably the root of my worries. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Did it work out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with this girl for a while and it feels like the honeymoon period never ended. And the feeling is completely mutual. When we're together we're both pretty much on cloud nine. I couldn't hope for us to get along better.\n\nThe issue stems from me feeling a bit inadequate for what is pretty much no good reason. My GF teaches a foreign language and makes great money, but she has dreams and aspirations that go far beyond that, and her goal is to save to goto university despite the fact that she's already very successful and well respected at work.\n\nMe? I'm a 25 year old high school dropout who legitimately enjoys customer service and the team atmosphere that usually comes with it. To the point that I could easily see myself working at supermarkets or fast food joints forever. I'm very happy and I make enough to pay all of my expenses, pursue numerous hobbies, and still save a respectable amount.\n\nShe's told me that she doesn't care, as long as I'm happy and doing my part to help us achieve our dreams together. Which I feel like I am. But I can't help but feel like I'm letting her down a bit. Her parents love me, but they have voiced disappointed with my career choice, which is probably the root of my worries. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Did it work out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with this girl for a while and it feels like the honeymoon period never ended. And the feeling is completely mutual. When we're together we're both pretty much on cloud nine. I couldn't hope for us to get along better.\n\nThe issue stems from me feeling a bit inadequate for what is pretty much no good reason. My GF teaches a foreign language and makes great money, but she has dreams and aspirations that go far beyond that, and her goal is to save to goto university despite the fact that she's already very successful and well respected at work.\n\nMe? I'm a 25 year old high school dropout who legitimately enjoys customer service and the team atmosphere that usually comes with it. To the point that I could easily see myself working at supermarkets or fast food joints forever. I'm very happy and I make enough to pay all of my expenses, pursue numerous hobbies, and still save a respectable amount.\n\nShe's told me that she doesn't care, as long as I'm happy and doing my part to help us achieve our dreams together. Which I feel like I am. But I can't help but feel like I'm letting her down a bit. Her parents love me, but they have voiced disappointed with my career choice, which is probably the root of my worries. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Did it work out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating since the beginning of college. Tonight she ran off to see a friend of a friend naked. \n\nWe were walking and talking together, her friend came and said to see our acquaintance, they took off and she's still there at his initiation with him and others, having ignored me the whole time I when I got there. I'm sitting here for hours feeling like a fool. I don't even know if we still have plans tonight.\n\nI have some insecurity about the whole situation of course. But I know it's not good of me. I don't get why she did this beyond the obvious. I know she knows him but it's not about him. \n\nIt's about her reaction. And she'll give me crap for looking at pictures online for making her feel bad. She says she wants me to ask to marry her too, 4 years together, so it's not like we just met. But I didn't want to stick around like some insecure jerk but also felt really mad.\n\nAm I wrong to be upset? What do I say to her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating since the beginning of college. Tonight she ran off to see a friend of a friend naked. \n\nWe were walking and talking together, her friend came and said to see our acquaintance, they took off and she's still there at his initiation with him and others, having ignored me the whole time I when I got there. I'm sitting here for hours feeling like a fool. I don't even know if we still have plans tonight.\n\nI have some insecurity about the whole situation of course. But I know it's not good of me. I don't get why she did this beyond the obvious. I know she knows him but it's not about him. \n\nIt's about her reaction. And she'll give me crap for looking at pictures online for making her feel bad. She says she wants me to ask to marry her too, 4 years together, so it's not like we just met. But I didn't want to stick around like some insecure jerk but also felt really mad.\n\nAm I wrong to be upset? What do I say to her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating since the beginning of college. Tonight she ran off to see a friend of a friend naked. \n\nWe were walking and talking together, her friend came and said to see our acquaintance, they took off and she's still there at his initiation with him and others, having ignored me the whole time I when I got there. I'm sitting here for hours feeling like a fool. I don't even know if we still have plans tonight.\n\nI have some insecurity about the whole situation of course. But I know it's not good of me. I don't get why she did this beyond the obvious. I know she knows him but it's not about him. \n\nIt's about her reaction. And she'll give me crap for looking at pictures online for making her feel bad. She says she wants me to ask to marry her too, 4 years together, so it's not like we just met. But I didn't want to stick around like some insecure jerk but also felt really mad.\n\nAm I wrong to be upset? What do I say to her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been dating since the beginning of college. Tonight she ran off to see a friend of a friend naked. \n\nWe were walking and talking together, her friend came and said to see our acquaintance, they took off and she's still there at his initiation with him and others, having ignored me the whole time I when I got there. I'm sitting here for hours feeling like a fool. I don't even know if we still have plans tonight.\n\nI have some insecurity about the whole situation of course. But I know it's not good of me. I don't get why she did this beyond the obvious. I know she knows him but it's not about him. \n\nIt's about her reaction. And she'll give me crap for looking at pictures online for making her feel bad. She says she wants me to ask to marry her too, 4 years together, so it's not like we just met. But I didn't want to stick around like some insecure jerk but also felt really mad.\n\nAm I wrong to be upset? What do I say to her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \nI'm using a throwaway for this one. \nI need your help, everyone. You all do so well with your weightless, its outstanding and I am all so happy for. \n\nFirst a little back story and information: I[f] am 19 years old, 20 in January and I have been overweight all my life and obese for at least half of it. Currently I weigh 225lbs. My senior year in high school (fall) I was down to 178. By my freshman year in college I was back up to 225 and then by the following summer, I was at 250lb. At this point in my sophomore year, I am down again but I've come to a plateau and I'm losing hope. Also, a huge game changer has came into the picture. My weight loss partner, my mother, has jumped the natural weight loss band wagon and chose to receive weight loss surgery. Not only do I no longer have a weight loss partner, I feel like I'm in competition and have a damn near anxiety attack when I think about her being skinnier than me (I know, I know that sounds bad). \n\nBasically what I am saying is I need your help. I want to know all of your tips and tricks, your fad diets, your supplements, your go-to exercises (keeping in mind that running is not my thing.yet). I need your help guys, because I want to do this for my health, my self esteem, my family and for myself. I owe this to myself, but I need your help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone, \nI'm using a throwaway for this one. \nI need your help, everyone. You all do so well with your weightless, its outstanding and I am all so happy for. \n\nFirst a little back story and information: I[f] am 19 years old, 20 in January and I have been overweight all my life and obese for at least half of it. Currently I weigh 225lbs. My senior year in high school (fall) I was down to 178. By my freshman year in college I was back up to 225 and then by the following summer, I was at 250lb. At this point in my sophomore year, I am down again but I've come to a plateau and I'm losing hope. Also, a huge game changer has came into the picture. My weight loss partner, my mother, has jumped the natural weight loss band wagon and chose to receive weight loss surgery. Not only do I no longer have a weight loss partner, I feel like I'm in competition and have a damn near anxiety attack when I think about her being skinnier than me (I know, I know that sounds bad). \n\nBasically what I am saying is I need your help. I want to know all of your tips and tricks, your fad diets, your supplements, your go-to exercises (keeping in mind that running is not my thing.yet). I need your help guys, because I want to do this for my health, my self esteem, my family and for myself. I owe this to myself, but I need your help."
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