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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little background: My boyfriend is 10 years older than me, and has a five year old son. We have been together for 2 years and have a great relationship, but we always seem to run into the same problems regarding his son.\n\nWe were invited to a party at one of our friends houses. All of our friends , the people at the party, are around my age (20-24) while BF is 31. This party falls on one of weekends that he has his son. His band has been asked to play there as well, so there will be about a half hour of time when he will be completely unable to watch the kid. there wont be any other kids there, either.\n\nMy issue is that whenever he is with a group of kids with his son, he leaves it up to everyone to watch him, he will walk away without saying anything or get focused on something and lose sight of his son. The rest of us are still young, we want to be able to hang out and have a good time without worrying about a kid, so everyone sees it as not their responsibility. Unfortunately, this leaves me with the responsibility, because I'm the girlfriend, to make sure the kid isn't doing something dangerous or more often, getting into and potentially destroying other peoples things.\n\nI've told BF that this isn't my responsibility, and that when his son is around it's up to him to be 100% focused on what he is doing. He isn't around that often so it shouldn't be too difficult to give him the attention he needs when he is here. This always turns into \"If I wanted kids I'd have my own,\" and him telling me that I need to do more for his kid (although that's not exactly how he words it, that's what his actions imply). He also get's mad at our friends for not hanging out when his kid is around, but they don't hang out because they are also frustrated with feeling responsible for him.\n\nSo basically, I'm considering not going to this party just to avoid that. But everyone will be there and I'll just spend the day home alone if I dont go. As parents, do you have any insight into this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little background: My boyfriend is 10 years older than me, and has a five year old son. We have been together for 2 years and have a great relationship, but we always seem to run into the same problems regarding his son.\n\nWe were invited to a party at one of our friends houses. All of our friends , the people at the party, are around my age (20-24) while BF is 31. This party falls on one of weekends that he has his son. His band has been asked to play there as well, so there will be about a half hour of time when he will be completely unable to watch the kid. there wont be any other kids there, either.\n\nMy issue is that whenever he is with a group of kids with his son, he leaves it up to everyone to watch him, he will walk away without saying anything or get focused on something and lose sight of his son. The rest of us are still young, we want to be able to hang out and have a good time without worrying about a kid, so everyone sees it as not their responsibility. Unfortunately, this leaves me with the responsibility, because I'm the girlfriend, to make sure the kid isn't doing something dangerous or more often, getting into and potentially destroying other peoples things.\n\nI've told BF that this isn't my responsibility, and that when his son is around it's up to him to be 100% focused on what he is doing. He isn't around that often so it shouldn't be too difficult to give him the attention he needs when he is here. This always turns into \"If I wanted kids I'd have my own,\" and him telling me that I need to do more for his kid (although that's not exactly how he words it, that's what his actions imply). He also get's mad at our friends for not hanging out when his kid is around, but they don't hang out because they are also frustrated with feeling responsible for him.\n\nSo basically, I'm considering not going to this party just to avoid that. But everyone will be there and I'll just spend the day home alone if I dont go. As parents, do you have any insight into this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend is really mean to my boyfriend and I've pretty much never said anything about it but I'm getting tired of it. She talks down to him and makes fun of how he dresses, says he's anorexic, and tons of other stuff. She has even almost broken us up once because she told him as a \"joke\" that I was thinking of breaking up with him (I wasn't)\n\nWhenever we hang out together with him she is rude to him, so much that he doesn't want to come hang out with me if shes there. I pretty much have to force him to. Once when she was calling him anorexic and stuff I spoke up and told her that I'm not okay with her talking to my boyfriend that way, but I kind of made light of the situation and she didn't take it seriously. I'm protective of him and I hate to see her act like that towards him, what should I do? It's been going on for months, we've been dating for 10 months and she's been doing it the entire time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend is really mean to my boyfriend and I've pretty much never said anything about it but I'm getting tired of it. She talks down to him and makes fun of how he dresses, says he's anorexic, and tons of other stuff. She has even almost broken us up once because she told him as a \"joke\" that I was thinking of breaking up with him (I wasn't)\n\nWhenever we hang out together with him she is rude to him, so much that he doesn't want to come hang out with me if shes there. I pretty much have to force him to. Once when she was calling him anorexic and stuff I spoke up and told her that I'm not okay with her talking to my boyfriend that way, but I kind of made light of the situation and she didn't take it seriously. I'm protective of him and I hate to see her act like that towards him, what should I do? It's been going on for months, we've been dating for 10 months and she's been doing it the entire time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend is really mean to my boyfriend and I've pretty much never said anything about it but I'm getting tired of it. She talks down to him and makes fun of how he dresses, says he's anorexic, and tons of other stuff. She has even almost broken us up once because she told him as a \"joke\" that I was thinking of breaking up with him (I wasn't)\n\nWhenever we hang out together with him she is rude to him, so much that he doesn't want to come hang out with me if shes there. I pretty much have to force him to. Once when she was calling him anorexic and stuff I spoke up and told her that I'm not okay with her talking to my boyfriend that way, but I kind of made light of the situation and she didn't take it seriously. I'm protective of him and I hate to see her act like that towards him, what should I do? It's been going on for months, we've been dating for 10 months and she's been doing it the entire time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My friend is really mean to my boyfriend and I've pretty much never said anything about it but I'm getting tired of it. She talks down to him and makes fun of how he dresses, says he's anorexic, and tons of other stuff. She has even almost broken us up once because she told him as a \"joke\" that I was thinking of breaking up with him (I wasn't)\n\nWhenever we hang out together with him she is rude to him, so much that he doesn't want to come hang out with me if shes there. I pretty much have to force him to. Once when she was calling him anorexic and stuff I spoke up and told her that I'm not okay with her talking to my boyfriend that way, but I kind of made light of the situation and she didn't take it seriously. I'm protective of him and I hate to see her act like that towards him, what should I do? It's been going on for months, we've been dating for 10 months and she's been doing it the entire time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently been talking to this really great guy over the last month and a half (he's away on long term business for the last 2 months, but he lives near me). Things were going really great. He was calling me every night and we were texting throughout the day, a mixture of normal and flirty stuff. Every morning I'd wake up to a good morning text and he'd send a good night one too.\n\nA few nights ago he open up to me that his long term girlfriend who he was with 4 years ago really messed with his head (seems she was really unwell), so much so that he had a breakdown and it took him a while to recover. He said he is now really wary as a result. He said he wanted to tell me because he has messed up potential relationships before because of it and he didn't want to make the same mistake. I was understanding and asked him if there was anything I should do to make him feel more relaxed to which he told me that I just needed to keep being me because I was doing everything right.\n\nSince then he's really dropped off. He still texts me every morning and evening to check in and out, but the amount has really dropped off. I was just wondering if this a normal thing to happen or if he's just interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently been talking to this really great guy over the last month and a half (he's away on long term business for the last 2 months, but he lives near me). Things were going really great. He was calling me every night and we were texting throughout the day, a mixture of normal and flirty stuff. Every morning I'd wake up to a good morning text and he'd send a good night one too.\n\nA few nights ago he open up to me that his long term girlfriend who he was with 4 years ago really messed with his head (seems she was really unwell), so much so that he had a breakdown and it took him a while to recover. He said he is now really wary as a result. He said he wanted to tell me because he has messed up potential relationships before because of it and he didn't want to make the same mistake. I was understanding and asked him if there was anything I should do to make him feel more relaxed to which he told me that I just needed to keep being me because I was doing everything right.\n\nSince then he's really dropped off. He still texts me every morning and evening to check in and out, but the amount has really dropped off. I was just wondering if this a normal thing to happen or if he's just interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently been talking to this really great guy over the last month and a half (he's away on long term business for the last 2 months, but he lives near me). Things were going really great. He was calling me every night and we were texting throughout the day, a mixture of normal and flirty stuff. Every morning I'd wake up to a good morning text and he'd send a good night one too.\n\nA few nights ago he open up to me that his long term girlfriend who he was with 4 years ago really messed with his head (seems she was really unwell), so much so that he had a breakdown and it took him a while to recover. He said he is now really wary as a result. He said he wanted to tell me because he has messed up potential relationships before because of it and he didn't want to make the same mistake. I was understanding and asked him if there was anything I should do to make him feel more relaxed to which he told me that I just needed to keep being me because I was doing everything right.\n\nSince then he's really dropped off. He still texts me every morning and evening to check in and out, but the amount has really dropped off. I was just wondering if this a normal thing to happen or if he's just interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently been talking to this really great guy over the last month and a half (he's away on long term business for the last 2 months, but he lives near me). Things were going really great. He was calling me every night and we were texting throughout the day, a mixture of normal and flirty stuff. Every morning I'd wake up to a good morning text and he'd send a good night one too.\n\nA few nights ago he open up to me that his long term girlfriend who he was with 4 years ago really messed with his head (seems she was really unwell), so much so that he had a breakdown and it took him a while to recover. He said he is now really wary as a result. He said he wanted to tell me because he has messed up potential relationships before because of it and he didn't want to make the same mistake. I was understanding and asked him if there was anything I should do to make him feel more relaxed to which he told me that I just needed to keep being me because I was doing everything right.\n\nSince then he's really dropped off. He still texts me every morning and evening to check in and out, but the amount has really dropped off. I was just wondering if this a normal thing to happen or if he's just interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ever since I left my heatbreaking, gut-wrenching relationship a year and a half ago (I know, it's a long time), I have gained a TON of weight, a lot of it due to low self-esteem, depression, and an inability to deal with stress unless it's through food. I am 5' 6\" and used to be 114 pounds but within a year and a half I have gained *26 pounds to finally settle at 140 pounds.* \n\n*YUP.* \n\nJust think of freshman fifteen in speed dial.\n\nI recently entered a new relationship and despite my wariness, it has been simply lovely - with one exception. My boyfriend weighs 10 pounds less than me and is well over 6 feet, and I feel ridiculously crummy whenever I think about it. \n\nI've started to exercise and eat healthier, but old habits die hard and my weight yo-yos back and forth. \n\n*Reddit, do you have any advice, words of encouragement, or any personal stories to make this fatty feel better? :(*\n\nP.S. My BF has never said a word about my weight and loves to tell me how pretty I am, but I usually steer the topic away from appearance because I don't like thinking about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ever since I left my heatbreaking, gut-wrenching relationship a year and a half ago (I know, it's a long time), I have gained a TON of weight, a lot of it due to low self-esteem, depression, and an inability to deal with stress unless it's through food. I am 5' 6\" and used to be 114 pounds but within a year and a half I have gained *26 pounds to finally settle at 140 pounds.* \n\n*YUP.* \n\nJust think of freshman fifteen in speed dial.\n\nI recently entered a new relationship and despite my wariness, it has been simply lovely - with one exception. My boyfriend weighs 10 pounds less than me and is well over 6 feet, and I feel ridiculously crummy whenever I think about it. \n\nI've started to exercise and eat healthier, but old habits die hard and my weight yo-yos back and forth. \n\n*Reddit, do you have any advice, words of encouragement, or any personal stories to make this fatty feel better? :(*\n\nP.S. My BF has never said a word about my weight and loves to tell me how pretty I am, but I usually steer the topic away from appearance because I don't like thinking about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ever since I left my heatbreaking, gut-wrenching relationship a year and a half ago (I know, it's a long time), I have gained a TON of weight, a lot of it due to low self-esteem, depression, and an inability to deal with stress unless it's through food. I am 5' 6\" and used to be 114 pounds but within a year and a half I have gained *26 pounds to finally settle at 140 pounds.* \n\n*YUP.* \n\nJust think of freshman fifteen in speed dial.\n\nI recently entered a new relationship and despite my wariness, it has been simply lovely - with one exception. My boyfriend weighs 10 pounds less than me and is well over 6 feet, and I feel ridiculously crummy whenever I think about it. \n\nI've started to exercise and eat healthier, but old habits die hard and my weight yo-yos back and forth. \n\n*Reddit, do you have any advice, words of encouragement, or any personal stories to make this fatty feel better? :(*\n\nP.S. My BF has never said a word about my weight and loves to tell me how pretty I am, but I usually steer the topic away from appearance because I don't like thinking about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ever since I left my heatbreaking, gut-wrenching relationship a year and a half ago (I know, it's a long time), I have gained a TON of weight, a lot of it due to low self-esteem, depression, and an inability to deal with stress unless it's through food. I am 5' 6\" and used to be 114 pounds but within a year and a half I have gained *26 pounds to finally settle at 140 pounds.* \n\n*YUP.* \n\nJust think of freshman fifteen in speed dial.\n\nI recently entered a new relationship and despite my wariness, it has been simply lovely - with one exception. My boyfriend weighs 10 pounds less than me and is well over 6 feet, and I feel ridiculously crummy whenever I think about it. \n\nI've started to exercise and eat healthier, but old habits die hard and my weight yo-yos back and forth. \n\n*Reddit, do you have any advice, words of encouragement, or any personal stories to make this fatty feel better? :(*\n\nP.S. My BF has never said a word about my weight and loves to tell me how pretty I am, but I usually steer the topic away from appearance because I don't like thinking about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last week, my girlfriend left for college about 4 hours away. We are both very much in love with one another and both want the relationship to work throughout college. \n\nI spoke with her yesterday, the first time in a couple of days (aside from text messages) and she told me she missed me so much that \"it feels like someone is squeezing her heart whenever she thinks about me\" (almost a direct quote). \n\nI miss her a whole lot, but I know I'll get to see her in a couple of months and I try not to think about how much I miss her.\n\nShe is having so much fun in college and now I feel like me being away from her is holding her back. I feel like shit for it. Breaking up is the last thing I want to do, but I'm willing to put her happiness above mine.\n\nDo you think this is a normal reaction for her? Am I making a big deal about it or should I take action?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last week, my girlfriend left for college about 4 hours away. We are both very much in love with one another and both want the relationship to work throughout college. \n\nI spoke with her yesterday, the first time in a couple of days (aside from text messages) and she told me she missed me so much that \"it feels like someone is squeezing her heart whenever she thinks about me\" (almost a direct quote). \n\nI miss her a whole lot, but I know I'll get to see her in a couple of months and I try not to think about how much I miss her.\n\nShe is having so much fun in college and now I feel like me being away from her is holding her back. I feel like shit for it. Breaking up is the last thing I want to do, but I'm willing to put her happiness above mine.\n\nDo you think this is a normal reaction for her? Am I making a big deal about it or should I take action?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last week, my girlfriend left for college about 4 hours away. We are both very much in love with one another and both want the relationship to work throughout college. \n\nI spoke with her yesterday, the first time in a couple of days (aside from text messages) and she told me she missed me so much that \"it feels like someone is squeezing her heart whenever she thinks about me\" (almost a direct quote). \n\nI miss her a whole lot, but I know I'll get to see her in a couple of months and I try not to think about how much I miss her.\n\nShe is having so much fun in college and now I feel like me being away from her is holding her back. I feel like shit for it. Breaking up is the last thing I want to do, but I'm willing to put her happiness above mine.\n\nDo you think this is a normal reaction for her? Am I making a big deal about it or should I take action?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last week, my girlfriend left for college about 4 hours away. We are both very much in love with one another and both want the relationship to work throughout college. \n\nI spoke with her yesterday, the first time in a couple of days (aside from text messages) and she told me she missed me so much that \"it feels like someone is squeezing her heart whenever she thinks about me\" (almost a direct quote). \n\nI miss her a whole lot, but I know I'll get to see her in a couple of months and I try not to think about how much I miss her.\n\nShe is having so much fun in college and now I feel like me being away from her is holding her back. I feel like shit for it. Breaking up is the last thing I want to do, but I'm willing to put her happiness above mine.\n\nDo you think this is a normal reaction for her? Am I making a big deal about it or should I take action?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met over 3 years ago while I was working on a 1 year contract in her hometown. We fell in love, and since then I have been renewing my contract every year.\n\nFrom the start, I always made it clear that I planned on moving back to my hometown eventually (different country, different language). We always brushed aside that discussion, saying to each other we would figure it out when it got there.\n\nFor the last year, in large part because of the living arrangement uncertainty, we grew apart little by little.\n\nFinally, 2 weeks ago, as I was getting ready to leave for a week visiting my hometown (friends and family), we had the talk, and both decided we couldn't do it anymore.\n\nI am now back in town, in the house we live in (that she owns, I pay rent). I can't leave town until the end of the year or I will lose my job. I don't really have friends here I can go stay at for a bit. I can't really rent an apartment for the rest of the year.\n\nShe's offering to let me stay there until I leave, in the guess bedroom. When we are not talking about the breakup, we are still good friends and we get along really well.\n\nIs it possible to make this situation work? Does anybody has a positive experience within these parameters?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met over 3 years ago while I was working on a 1 year contract in her hometown. We fell in love, and since then I have been renewing my contract every year.\n\nFrom the start, I always made it clear that I planned on moving back to my hometown eventually (different country, different language). We always brushed aside that discussion, saying to each other we would figure it out when it got there.\n\nFor the last year, in large part because of the living arrangement uncertainty, we grew apart little by little.\n\nFinally, 2 weeks ago, as I was getting ready to leave for a week visiting my hometown (friends and family), we had the talk, and both decided we couldn't do it anymore.\n\nI am now back in town, in the house we live in (that she owns, I pay rent). I can't leave town until the end of the year or I will lose my job. I don't really have friends here I can go stay at for a bit. I can't really rent an apartment for the rest of the year.\n\nShe's offering to let me stay there until I leave, in the guess bedroom. When we are not talking about the breakup, we are still good friends and we get along really well.\n\nIs it possible to make this situation work? Does anybody has a positive experience within these parameters?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met over 3 years ago while I was working on a 1 year contract in her hometown. We fell in love, and since then I have been renewing my contract every year.\n\nFrom the start, I always made it clear that I planned on moving back to my hometown eventually (different country, different language). We always brushed aside that discussion, saying to each other we would figure it out when it got there.\n\nFor the last year, in large part because of the living arrangement uncertainty, we grew apart little by little.\n\nFinally, 2 weeks ago, as I was getting ready to leave for a week visiting my hometown (friends and family), we had the talk, and both decided we couldn't do it anymore.\n\nI am now back in town, in the house we live in (that she owns, I pay rent). I can't leave town until the end of the year or I will lose my job. I don't really have friends here I can go stay at for a bit. I can't really rent an apartment for the rest of the year.\n\nShe's offering to let me stay there until I leave, in the guess bedroom. When we are not talking about the breakup, we are still good friends and we get along really well.\n\nIs it possible to make this situation work? Does anybody has a positive experience within these parameters?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met over 3 years ago while I was working on a 1 year contract in her hometown. We fell in love, and since then I have been renewing my contract every year.\n\nFrom the start, I always made it clear that I planned on moving back to my hometown eventually (different country, different language). We always brushed aside that discussion, saying to each other we would figure it out when it got there.\n\nFor the last year, in large part because of the living arrangement uncertainty, we grew apart little by little.\n\nFinally, 2 weeks ago, as I was getting ready to leave for a week visiting my hometown (friends and family), we had the talk, and both decided we couldn't do it anymore.\n\nI am now back in town, in the house we live in (that she owns, I pay rent). I can't leave town until the end of the year or I will lose my job. I don't really have friends here I can go stay at for a bit. I can't really rent an apartment for the rest of the year.\n\nShe's offering to let me stay there until I leave, in the guess bedroom. When we are not talking about the breakup, we are still good friends and we get along really well.\n\nIs it possible to make this situation work? Does anybody has a positive experience within these parameters?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met over 3 years ago while I was working on a 1 year contract in her hometown. We fell in love, and since then I have been renewing my contract every year.\n\nFrom the start, I always made it clear that I planned on moving back to my hometown eventually (different country, different language). We always brushed aside that discussion, saying to each other we would figure it out when it got there.\n\nFor the last year, in large part because of the living arrangement uncertainty, we grew apart little by little.\n\nFinally, 2 weeks ago, as I was getting ready to leave for a week visiting my hometown (friends and family), we had the talk, and both decided we couldn't do it anymore.\n\nI am now back in town, in the house we live in (that she owns, I pay rent). I can't leave town until the end of the year or I will lose my job. I don't really have friends here I can go stay at for a bit. I can't really rent an apartment for the rest of the year.\n\nShe's offering to let me stay there until I leave, in the guess bedroom. When we are not talking about the breakup, we are still good friends and we get along really well.\n\nIs it possible to make this situation work? Does anybody has a positive experience within these parameters?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met over 3 years ago while I was working on a 1 year contract in her hometown. We fell in love, and since then I have been renewing my contract every year.\n\nFrom the start, I always made it clear that I planned on moving back to my hometown eventually (different country, different language). We always brushed aside that discussion, saying to each other we would figure it out when it got there.\n\nFor the last year, in large part because of the living arrangement uncertainty, we grew apart little by little.\n\nFinally, 2 weeks ago, as I was getting ready to leave for a week visiting my hometown (friends and family), we had the talk, and both decided we couldn't do it anymore.\n\nI am now back in town, in the house we live in (that she owns, I pay rent). I can't leave town until the end of the year or I will lose my job. I don't really have friends here I can go stay at for a bit. I can't really rent an apartment for the rest of the year.\n\nShe's offering to let me stay there until I leave, in the guess bedroom. When we are not talking about the breakup, we are still good friends and we get along really well.\n\nIs it possible to make this situation work? Does anybody has a positive experience within these parameters?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met over 3 years ago while I was working on a 1 year contract in her hometown. We fell in love, and since then I have been renewing my contract every year.\n\nFrom the start, I always made it clear that I planned on moving back to my hometown eventually (different country, different language). We always brushed aside that discussion, saying to each other we would figure it out when it got there.\n\nFor the last year, in large part because of the living arrangement uncertainty, we grew apart little by little.\n\nFinally, 2 weeks ago, as I was getting ready to leave for a week visiting my hometown (friends and family), we had the talk, and both decided we couldn't do it anymore.\n\nI am now back in town, in the house we live in (that she owns, I pay rent). I can't leave town until the end of the year or I will lose my job. I don't really have friends here I can go stay at for a bit. I can't really rent an apartment for the rest of the year.\n\nShe's offering to let me stay there until I leave, in the guess bedroom. When we are not talking about the breakup, we are still good friends and we get along really well.\n\nIs it possible to make this situation work? Does anybody has a positive experience within these parameters?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met over 3 years ago while I was working on a 1 year contract in her hometown. We fell in love, and since then I have been renewing my contract every year.\n\nFrom the start, I always made it clear that I planned on moving back to my hometown eventually (different country, different language). We always brushed aside that discussion, saying to each other we would figure it out when it got there.\n\nFor the last year, in large part because of the living arrangement uncertainty, we grew apart little by little.\n\nFinally, 2 weeks ago, as I was getting ready to leave for a week visiting my hometown (friends and family), we had the talk, and both decided we couldn't do it anymore.\n\nI am now back in town, in the house we live in (that she owns, I pay rent). I can't leave town until the end of the year or I will lose my job. I don't really have friends here I can go stay at for a bit. I can't really rent an apartment for the rest of the year.\n\nShe's offering to let me stay there until I leave, in the guess bedroom. When we are not talking about the breakup, we are still good friends and we get along really well.\n\nIs it possible to make this situation work? Does anybody has a positive experience within these parameters?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO's step dad emotionally abuses and manipulates her, her sister, and mother. I see it and have pulled her to the side to explain what he is doing is wrong and they shouldn't feel bad about anything he is saying. One example he and his wife got into a fight. He was watching the youngest daughter who can't take care of herself yet while everyone else was at work, packed a bag and told her he was leaving and it was all her moms fault. She called my SO and her mom all three of us left work to go and make her feel better. She texts him we're all there. He comes back says he forgot his wallet then starts yelling at his wife in front of all of us. My SO begged me not to say anything but I did, I stuck up for the mom when he was trying to overpower her and interrupt her and I stuck up for the girls when he tried to drag them into it to pick sides. The wife left and he tells the girls why didn't you stop her. He blamed my SO for not doing anything to stop her mother from leaving (pretty much holding her against her will is what he wanted) I interrupted him calmly told him that was wrong and pulled my SO outside. She began crying and I explained that its not her job to fix their relationship and that he was trying to manipulate her and make her feel bad. Later on that day he goes to his wife's work tries to block her car in and yell at her in the parking lot. My SO goes over and he yells at her. \n\nThis all happened like a month ago and it only took a week for it to all blow over like nothing ever happened. He constantly manipulates them to make them feel like shit and they don't see it and actually stand up for him. I don't know what to do. This is a big issue in our otherwise great relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO's step dad emotionally abuses and manipulates her, her sister, and mother. I see it and have pulled her to the side to explain what he is doing is wrong and they shouldn't feel bad about anything he is saying. One example he and his wife got into a fight. He was watching the youngest daughter who can't take care of herself yet while everyone else was at work, packed a bag and told her he was leaving and it was all her moms fault. She called my SO and her mom all three of us left work to go and make her feel better. She texts him we're all there. He comes back says he forgot his wallet then starts yelling at his wife in front of all of us. My SO begged me not to say anything but I did, I stuck up for the mom when he was trying to overpower her and interrupt her and I stuck up for the girls when he tried to drag them into it to pick sides. The wife left and he tells the girls why didn't you stop her. He blamed my SO for not doing anything to stop her mother from leaving (pretty much holding her against her will is what he wanted) I interrupted him calmly told him that was wrong and pulled my SO outside. She began crying and I explained that its not her job to fix their relationship and that he was trying to manipulate her and make her feel bad. Later on that day he goes to his wife's work tries to block her car in and yell at her in the parking lot. My SO goes over and he yells at her. \n\nThis all happened like a month ago and it only took a week for it to all blow over like nothing ever happened. He constantly manipulates them to make them feel like shit and they don't see it and actually stand up for him. I don't know what to do. This is a big issue in our otherwise great relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO's step dad emotionally abuses and manipulates her, her sister, and mother. I see it and have pulled her to the side to explain what he is doing is wrong and they shouldn't feel bad about anything he is saying. One example he and his wife got into a fight. He was watching the youngest daughter who can't take care of herself yet while everyone else was at work, packed a bag and told her he was leaving and it was all her moms fault. She called my SO and her mom all three of us left work to go and make her feel better. She texts him we're all there. He comes back says he forgot his wallet then starts yelling at his wife in front of all of us. My SO begged me not to say anything but I did, I stuck up for the mom when he was trying to overpower her and interrupt her and I stuck up for the girls when he tried to drag them into it to pick sides. The wife left and he tells the girls why didn't you stop her. He blamed my SO for not doing anything to stop her mother from leaving (pretty much holding her against her will is what he wanted) I interrupted him calmly told him that was wrong and pulled my SO outside. She began crying and I explained that its not her job to fix their relationship and that he was trying to manipulate her and make her feel bad. Later on that day he goes to his wife's work tries to block her car in and yell at her in the parking lot. My SO goes over and he yells at her. \n\nThis all happened like a month ago and it only took a week for it to all blow over like nothing ever happened. He constantly manipulates them to make them feel like shit and they don't see it and actually stand up for him. I don't know what to do. This is a big issue in our otherwise great relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO's step dad emotionally abuses and manipulates her, her sister, and mother. I see it and have pulled her to the side to explain what he is doing is wrong and they shouldn't feel bad about anything he is saying. One example he and his wife got into a fight. He was watching the youngest daughter who can't take care of herself yet while everyone else was at work, packed a bag and told her he was leaving and it was all her moms fault. She called my SO and her mom all three of us left work to go and make her feel better. She texts him we're all there. He comes back says he forgot his wallet then starts yelling at his wife in front of all of us. My SO begged me not to say anything but I did, I stuck up for the mom when he was trying to overpower her and interrupt her and I stuck up for the girls when he tried to drag them into it to pick sides. The wife left and he tells the girls why didn't you stop her. He blamed my SO for not doing anything to stop her mother from leaving (pretty much holding her against her will is what he wanted) I interrupted him calmly told him that was wrong and pulled my SO outside. She began crying and I explained that its not her job to fix their relationship and that he was trying to manipulate her and make her feel bad. Later on that day he goes to his wife's work tries to block her car in and yell at her in the parking lot. My SO goes over and he yells at her. \n\nThis all happened like a month ago and it only took a week for it to all blow over like nothing ever happened. He constantly manipulates them to make them feel like shit and they don't see it and actually stand up for him. I don't know what to do. This is a big issue in our otherwise great relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me, F 20, and my ex, M 22, broke up in October after being together for over a year. It was months ago, and still we miss each other. Im out of the country right now, and ill be moving here in January. But i'll be home before I leave for good.\n\nThe entire relationship was amazing, but emotional personal stuff with him being at a low point in his life made us break up. We still get along just as well and still care even after all thats happened.\n\nWe don't know if it'll hurt us more to see each other and say goodbye, or if we don't see each other at all and try to ignore it.\n\nShould we talk and have the closure we never actually had, or should I not see him at all and just try to get over it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me, F 20, and my ex, M 22, broke up in October after being together for over a year. It was months ago, and still we miss each other. Im out of the country right now, and ill be moving here in January. But i'll be home before I leave for good.\n\nThe entire relationship was amazing, but emotional personal stuff with him being at a low point in his life made us break up. We still get along just as well and still care even after all thats happened.\n\nWe don't know if it'll hurt us more to see each other and say goodbye, or if we don't see each other at all and try to ignore it.\n\nShould we talk and have the closure we never actually had, or should I not see him at all and just try to get over it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me, F 20, and my ex, M 22, broke up in October after being together for over a year. It was months ago, and still we miss each other. Im out of the country right now, and ill be moving here in January. But i'll be home before I leave for good.\n\nThe entire relationship was amazing, but emotional personal stuff with him being at a low point in his life made us break up. We still get along just as well and still care even after all thats happened.\n\nWe don't know if it'll hurt us more to see each other and say goodbye, or if we don't see each other at all and try to ignore it.\n\nShould we talk and have the closure we never actually had, or should I not see him at all and just try to get over it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me, F 20, and my ex, M 22, broke up in October after being together for over a year. It was months ago, and still we miss each other. Im out of the country right now, and ill be moving here in January. But i'll be home before I leave for good.\n\nThe entire relationship was amazing, but emotional personal stuff with him being at a low point in his life made us break up. We still get along just as well and still care even after all thats happened.\n\nWe don't know if it'll hurt us more to see each other and say goodbye, or if we don't see each other at all and try to ignore it.\n\nShould we talk and have the closure we never actually had, or should I not see him at all and just try to get over it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last summer I confessed my feelings to my best female friend of 5 years. The problem - she was in love with a guy from overseas who she had met during her study abroad semester. She said they were pretty serious and they planned to marry once she acquired citizenship of US (which would take a few years). The last thing I remember her saying was her asking me where I was before in her life. She said she also had feelings for me but it was too late and that she was too emotionally attached to this guy.\n\nAnyways, I decided it was time for me to leave, to take a break. I broke all contact with her and started self-improvement, picked up new hobbies, got busy with my career etc. I thought I was over her until today when she sends me this text - \"I was passing by [some place] and it reminded me of you. I hope you are well and I miss you. How long are we not going to talk to each other?\" When I read it I feel like I thought about it for a little too long and now I am not sure how to approach this. If she is still with her boyfriend from overseas I definitely do not want to bring her back in my life. But if she is not, then there is still a part of me that wants to pursue a romantic relationship with her. I don't really know how to approach this and how to reply to the text."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last summer I confessed my feelings to my best female friend of 5 years. The problem - she was in love with a guy from overseas who she had met during her study abroad semester. She said they were pretty serious and they planned to marry once she acquired citizenship of US (which would take a few years). The last thing I remember her saying was her asking me where I was before in her life. She said she also had feelings for me but it was too late and that she was too emotionally attached to this guy.\n\nAnyways, I decided it was time for me to leave, to take a break. I broke all contact with her and started self-improvement, picked up new hobbies, got busy with my career etc. I thought I was over her until today when she sends me this text - \"I was passing by [some place] and it reminded me of you. I hope you are well and I miss you. How long are we not going to talk to each other?\" When I read it I feel like I thought about it for a little too long and now I am not sure how to approach this. If she is still with her boyfriend from overseas I definitely do not want to bring her back in my life. But if she is not, then there is still a part of me that wants to pursue a romantic relationship with her. I don't really know how to approach this and how to reply to the text."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last summer I confessed my feelings to my best female friend of 5 years. The problem - she was in love with a guy from overseas who she had met during her study abroad semester. She said they were pretty serious and they planned to marry once she acquired citizenship of US (which would take a few years). The last thing I remember her saying was her asking me where I was before in her life. She said she also had feelings for me but it was too late and that she was too emotionally attached to this guy.\n\nAnyways, I decided it was time for me to leave, to take a break. I broke all contact with her and started self-improvement, picked up new hobbies, got busy with my career etc. I thought I was over her until today when she sends me this text - \"I was passing by [some place] and it reminded me of you. I hope you are well and I miss you. How long are we not going to talk to each other?\" When I read it I feel like I thought about it for a little too long and now I am not sure how to approach this. If she is still with her boyfriend from overseas I definitely do not want to bring her back in my life. But if she is not, then there is still a part of me that wants to pursue a romantic relationship with her. I don't really know how to approach this and how to reply to the text."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last summer I confessed my feelings to my best female friend of 5 years. The problem - she was in love with a guy from overseas who she had met during her study abroad semester. She said they were pretty serious and they planned to marry once she acquired citizenship of US (which would take a few years). The last thing I remember her saying was her asking me where I was before in her life. She said she also had feelings for me but it was too late and that she was too emotionally attached to this guy.\n\nAnyways, I decided it was time for me to leave, to take a break. I broke all contact with her and started self-improvement, picked up new hobbies, got busy with my career etc. I thought I was over her until today when she sends me this text - \"I was passing by [some place] and it reminded me of you. I hope you are well and I miss you. How long are we not going to talk to each other?\" When I read it I feel like I thought about it for a little too long and now I am not sure how to approach this. If she is still with her boyfriend from overseas I definitely do not want to bring her back in my life. But if she is not, then there is still a part of me that wants to pursue a romantic relationship with her. I don't really know how to approach this and how to reply to the text."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Brief background, we've been dating for almost 3 years. Lived together over the summer but I had to move back home with my parents, about an hours drive away.\n\nI feel silly, because my boyfriend has never given me any reason to believe he would cheat on me. Two nights ago he hung out with a female friend that he rarely sees because she was visiting from a foreign country. They were together from around 7 PM to 1:30 AM and drank 2 bottles of wine together (it's what his parents had available) and smoked weed. He was visiting his parent's home and they were in the backyard. He drove her home after sobering up then came back, which took forever (about an hour, but I have no idea how far away she was) and chatted with me on the phone.\n\nI don't think I should tell him it made me uncomfortable. Like I said, he's never given me reason to think he would cheat on me. I just feel jealous and silly. We're semi-long distance and get to see each other every other weekend, so I think it's mostly jealousy that I wish I had been with him instead. However, I'm still uncomfortable that they were alone so late after drinking so much and getting cross-faded from smoking weed too. \n\nI'm not sure if I'm a bad girlfriend, because clearly I don't trust him as much as I thought I did but he does not deserve my distrust. This is the first time I've ever been jealous/insecure of his time spent with another woman. Should I just swallow my insecurities because of how unfounded they are? Should I just mention that it made me uncomfortable, and admit how silly it is? I don't feel like I would actually gain anything from admitting it, but I feel very alone and far away from him. I feel like if we were still living together, and he had come home to me, we would have cuddled and had sex and that would be the end of my insecurities."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Brief background, we've been dating for almost 3 years. Lived together over the summer but I had to move back home with my parents, about an hours drive away.\n\nI feel silly, because my boyfriend has never given me any reason to believe he would cheat on me. Two nights ago he hung out with a female friend that he rarely sees because she was visiting from a foreign country. They were together from around 7 PM to 1:30 AM and drank 2 bottles of wine together (it's what his parents had available) and smoked weed. He was visiting his parent's home and they were in the backyard. He drove her home after sobering up then came back, which took forever (about an hour, but I have no idea how far away she was) and chatted with me on the phone.\n\nI don't think I should tell him it made me uncomfortable. Like I said, he's never given me reason to think he would cheat on me. I just feel jealous and silly. We're semi-long distance and get to see each other every other weekend, so I think it's mostly jealousy that I wish I had been with him instead. However, I'm still uncomfortable that they were alone so late after drinking so much and getting cross-faded from smoking weed too. \n\nI'm not sure if I'm a bad girlfriend, because clearly I don't trust him as much as I thought I did but he does not deserve my distrust. This is the first time I've ever been jealous/insecure of his time spent with another woman. Should I just swallow my insecurities because of how unfounded they are? Should I just mention that it made me uncomfortable, and admit how silly it is? I don't feel like I would actually gain anything from admitting it, but I feel very alone and far away from him. I feel like if we were still living together, and he had come home to me, we would have cuddled and had sex and that would be the end of my insecurities."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Brief background, we've been dating for almost 3 years. Lived together over the summer but I had to move back home with my parents, about an hours drive away.\n\nI feel silly, because my boyfriend has never given me any reason to believe he would cheat on me. Two nights ago he hung out with a female friend that he rarely sees because she was visiting from a foreign country. They were together from around 7 PM to 1:30 AM and drank 2 bottles of wine together (it's what his parents had available) and smoked weed. He was visiting his parent's home and they were in the backyard. He drove her home after sobering up then came back, which took forever (about an hour, but I have no idea how far away she was) and chatted with me on the phone.\n\nI don't think I should tell him it made me uncomfortable. Like I said, he's never given me reason to think he would cheat on me. I just feel jealous and silly. We're semi-long distance and get to see each other every other weekend, so I think it's mostly jealousy that I wish I had been with him instead. However, I'm still uncomfortable that they were alone so late after drinking so much and getting cross-faded from smoking weed too. \n\nI'm not sure if I'm a bad girlfriend, because clearly I don't trust him as much as I thought I did but he does not deserve my distrust. This is the first time I've ever been jealous/insecure of his time spent with another woman. Should I just swallow my insecurities because of how unfounded they are? Should I just mention that it made me uncomfortable, and admit how silly it is? I don't feel like I would actually gain anything from admitting it, but I feel very alone and far away from him. I feel like if we were still living together, and he had come home to me, we would have cuddled and had sex and that would be the end of my insecurities."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Brief background, we've been dating for almost 3 years. Lived together over the summer but I had to move back home with my parents, about an hours drive away.\n\nI feel silly, because my boyfriend has never given me any reason to believe he would cheat on me. Two nights ago he hung out with a female friend that he rarely sees because she was visiting from a foreign country. They were together from around 7 PM to 1:30 AM and drank 2 bottles of wine together (it's what his parents had available) and smoked weed. He was visiting his parent's home and they were in the backyard. He drove her home after sobering up then came back, which took forever (about an hour, but I have no idea how far away she was) and chatted with me on the phone.\n\nI don't think I should tell him it made me uncomfortable. Like I said, he's never given me reason to think he would cheat on me. I just feel jealous and silly. We're semi-long distance and get to see each other every other weekend, so I think it's mostly jealousy that I wish I had been with him instead. However, I'm still uncomfortable that they were alone so late after drinking so much and getting cross-faded from smoking weed too. \n\nI'm not sure if I'm a bad girlfriend, because clearly I don't trust him as much as I thought I did but he does not deserve my distrust. This is the first time I've ever been jealous/insecure of his time spent with another woman. Should I just swallow my insecurities because of how unfounded they are? Should I just mention that it made me uncomfortable, and admit how silly it is? I don't feel like I would actually gain anything from admitting it, but I feel very alone and far away from him. I feel like if we were still living together, and he had come home to me, we would have cuddled and had sex and that would be the end of my insecurities."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My cousin is a real piece of work. So she had a son two years ago, and her brother [32] and his wife [29] are raising the child instead of her because she's hooked on pills and meth. We've been very supportive of her, have offered to pay for rehab, and have bought he all kinds of clothes and things she needs. Our aunt even gave her a car so she could drive to work; she's since gotten herself fired for not showing up. \n\nOur family washed our hands of her, and told her she was on her own. Cue the \"cancer\" claims. She presented her mom with fake medical papers she printed off at the library and her mom and sister went around telling everyone else in the family she had stage 4 ovarian cancer. If her mom had \"verified\" it, we thought it was true and didn't want to question it. She shaved her head, disappeared for \"chemotherapy treatment\", and our grandfather being the kind soul he is gave her $5,000. \n\nHer brother found out it was all a lie, and told our family. \n\nSo I posted a status on facebook along the lines of \"How DARE someone lie about having cancer\" and after explaining the situation ended it with, \"I have no sympathy for people like this. No excuses\". \n\nThe family is divided on the issue. Half of them think \"Poor thing had to lie to get help\" and the other half think \"What the hell is wrong with her?\" I'm in the later camp. Some of them are angry at me for posting it. \n\nAm I in the wrong to be angry and NOT forgive her? A lot of people think I'm a bad person for calling her out. She took advantage of us, in my book she's complete trash.\n\n*Update: The question asked was \"Am I in the wrong to be angry and NOT forgive her?\". I'm aware my decision to post it on Facebook is a controversial one, but that wasn't the focal point of the question. Focus less on facebook etiquette and moral, and more on the issue at hand. Thank you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My cousin is a real piece of work. So she had a son two years ago, and her brother [32] and his wife [29] are raising the child instead of her because she's hooked on pills and meth. We've been very supportive of her, have offered to pay for rehab, and have bought he all kinds of clothes and things she needs. Our aunt even gave her a car so she could drive to work; she's since gotten herself fired for not showing up. \n\nOur family washed our hands of her, and told her she was on her own. Cue the \"cancer\" claims. She presented her mom with fake medical papers she printed off at the library and her mom and sister went around telling everyone else in the family she had stage 4 ovarian cancer. If her mom had \"verified\" it, we thought it was true and didn't want to question it. She shaved her head, disappeared for \"chemotherapy treatment\", and our grandfather being the kind soul he is gave her $5,000. \n\nHer brother found out it was all a lie, and told our family. \n\nSo I posted a status on facebook along the lines of \"How DARE someone lie about having cancer\" and after explaining the situation ended it with, \"I have no sympathy for people like this. No excuses\". \n\nThe family is divided on the issue. Half of them think \"Poor thing had to lie to get help\" and the other half think \"What the hell is wrong with her?\" I'm in the later camp. Some of them are angry at me for posting it. \n\nAm I in the wrong to be angry and NOT forgive her? A lot of people think I'm a bad person for calling her out. She took advantage of us, in my book she's complete trash.\n\n*Update: The question asked was \"Am I in the wrong to be angry and NOT forgive her?\". I'm aware my decision to post it on Facebook is a controversial one, but that wasn't the focal point of the question. Focus less on facebook etiquette and moral, and more on the issue at hand. Thank you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My cousin is a real piece of work. So she had a son two years ago, and her brother [32] and his wife [29] are raising the child instead of her because she's hooked on pills and meth. We've been very supportive of her, have offered to pay for rehab, and have bought he all kinds of clothes and things she needs. Our aunt even gave her a car so she could drive to work; she's since gotten herself fired for not showing up. \n\nOur family washed our hands of her, and told her she was on her own. Cue the \"cancer\" claims. She presented her mom with fake medical papers she printed off at the library and her mom and sister went around telling everyone else in the family she had stage 4 ovarian cancer. If her mom had \"verified\" it, we thought it was true and didn't want to question it. She shaved her head, disappeared for \"chemotherapy treatment\", and our grandfather being the kind soul he is gave her $5,000. \n\nHer brother found out it was all a lie, and told our family. \n\nSo I posted a status on facebook along the lines of \"How DARE someone lie about having cancer\" and after explaining the situation ended it with, \"I have no sympathy for people like this. No excuses\". \n\nThe family is divided on the issue. Half of them think \"Poor thing had to lie to get help\" and the other half think \"What the hell is wrong with her?\" I'm in the later camp. Some of them are angry at me for posting it. \n\nAm I in the wrong to be angry and NOT forgive her? A lot of people think I'm a bad person for calling her out. She took advantage of us, in my book she's complete trash.\n\n*Update: The question asked was \"Am I in the wrong to be angry and NOT forgive her?\". I'm aware my decision to post it on Facebook is a controversial one, but that wasn't the focal point of the question. Focus less on facebook etiquette and moral, and more on the issue at hand. Thank you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My cousin is a real piece of work. So she had a son two years ago, and her brother [32] and his wife [29] are raising the child instead of her because she's hooked on pills and meth. We've been very supportive of her, have offered to pay for rehab, and have bought he all kinds of clothes and things she needs. Our aunt even gave her a car so she could drive to work; she's since gotten herself fired for not showing up. \n\nOur family washed our hands of her, and told her she was on her own. Cue the \"cancer\" claims. She presented her mom with fake medical papers she printed off at the library and her mom and sister went around telling everyone else in the family she had stage 4 ovarian cancer. If her mom had \"verified\" it, we thought it was true and didn't want to question it. She shaved her head, disappeared for \"chemotherapy treatment\", and our grandfather being the kind soul he is gave her $5,000. \n\nHer brother found out it was all a lie, and told our family. \n\nSo I posted a status on facebook along the lines of \"How DARE someone lie about having cancer\" and after explaining the situation ended it with, \"I have no sympathy for people like this. No excuses\". \n\nThe family is divided on the issue. Half of them think \"Poor thing had to lie to get help\" and the other half think \"What the hell is wrong with her?\" I'm in the later camp. Some of them are angry at me for posting it. \n\nAm I in the wrong to be angry and NOT forgive her? A lot of people think I'm a bad person for calling her out. She took advantage of us, in my book she's complete trash.\n\n*Update: The question asked was \"Am I in the wrong to be angry and NOT forgive her?\". I'm aware my decision to post it on Facebook is a controversial one, but that wasn't the focal point of the question. Focus less on facebook etiquette and moral, and more on the issue at hand. Thank you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For a while now I've been looking into the Couch Surfing community and have finally decided that I want to leave my town. I ditched my plans for college, broke the news to my girlfriend, and I am slowly developing a plan. I was thinking of getting a job and saving money to buy a board, a cheap laptop, and just going where the wind takes me. But like any idea, it is best to do your research. So anyone having any suggestions/advice to help me go by would be great (whether it be about travel, long boards, lap tops, financial situations, etc. etc.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For a while now I've been looking into the Couch Surfing community and have finally decided that I want to leave my town. I ditched my plans for college, broke the news to my girlfriend, and I am slowly developing a plan. I was thinking of getting a job and saving money to buy a board, a cheap laptop, and just going where the wind takes me. But like any idea, it is best to do your research. So anyone having any suggestions/advice to help me go by would be great (whether it be about travel, long boards, lap tops, financial situations, etc. etc.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For a while now I've been looking into the Couch Surfing community and have finally decided that I want to leave my town. I ditched my plans for college, broke the news to my girlfriend, and I am slowly developing a plan. I was thinking of getting a job and saving money to buy a board, a cheap laptop, and just going where the wind takes me. But like any idea, it is best to do your research. So anyone having any suggestions/advice to help me go by would be great (whether it be about travel, long boards, lap tops, financial situations, etc. etc.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For a while now I've been looking into the Couch Surfing community and have finally decided that I want to leave my town. I ditched my plans for college, broke the news to my girlfriend, and I am slowly developing a plan. I was thinking of getting a job and saving money to buy a board, a cheap laptop, and just going where the wind takes me. But like any idea, it is best to do your research. So anyone having any suggestions/advice to help me go by would be great (whether it be about travel, long boards, lap tops, financial situations, etc. etc.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For a while now I've been looking into the Couch Surfing community and have finally decided that I want to leave my town. I ditched my plans for college, broke the news to my girlfriend, and I am slowly developing a plan. I was thinking of getting a job and saving money to buy a board, a cheap laptop, and just going where the wind takes me. But like any idea, it is best to do your research. So anyone having any suggestions/advice to help me go by would be great (whether it be about travel, long boards, lap tops, financial situations, etc. etc.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For a while now I've been looking into the Couch Surfing community and have finally decided that I want to leave my town. I ditched my plans for college, broke the news to my girlfriend, and I am slowly developing a plan. I was thinking of getting a job and saving money to buy a board, a cheap laptop, and just going where the wind takes me. But like any idea, it is best to do your research. So anyone having any suggestions/advice to help me go by would be great (whether it be about travel, long boards, lap tops, financial situations, etc. etc.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I hope this is the right place for this, can't really figure out where else to ask this.\n\nI've got a question and I was hoping you gentlefolk might be able to answer it for me. A few months back I made friends with a girl who I met at work. We immediately hit it off and have been texting some what regularly, sometimes in to the late hours of the night, talking about all manner of nonsense. We have lots shared interests and the stuff we don't we can easily make fun of and tease each other for in good fun. It seems out friendship has quickly become very strong over our text message conversations yet it never seems to progress to anything beyond that. \n\nWe also work together at a retail store. From what I heard, she enjoys working with me the most out of all our coworkers and we'll sometimes hang out in the parking lot after work, but this is few and far between as we work at most once every 2 weeks together. This is about all the interaction we have in person. I've invited them out several times, both as a 1 on 1 hang outs and a group thing, but she seems to always be busy or always has other plans. Usually I take this as a sign that she may not be interested and back off but our conversations haven't let up and she seems genuinely sorry that she can't make it, going so far as offering to bake me cinnamon rolls from scratch (after I of course mention that cinnamon rolls are my favorite ever). I'm not sure what to think at this point. Should I even try asking her to hang out again when I almost always know the answer? Can a friendship survive through text messaging alone? Are we really not that close and am I misreading things?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I hope this is the right place for this, can't really figure out where else to ask this.\n\nI've got a question and I was hoping you gentlefolk might be able to answer it for me. A few months back I made friends with a girl who I met at work. We immediately hit it off and have been texting some what regularly, sometimes in to the late hours of the night, talking about all manner of nonsense. We have lots shared interests and the stuff we don't we can easily make fun of and tease each other for in good fun. It seems out friendship has quickly become very strong over our text message conversations yet it never seems to progress to anything beyond that. \n\nWe also work together at a retail store. From what I heard, she enjoys working with me the most out of all our coworkers and we'll sometimes hang out in the parking lot after work, but this is few and far between as we work at most once every 2 weeks together. This is about all the interaction we have in person. I've invited them out several times, both as a 1 on 1 hang outs and a group thing, but she seems to always be busy or always has other plans. Usually I take this as a sign that she may not be interested and back off but our conversations haven't let up and she seems genuinely sorry that she can't make it, going so far as offering to bake me cinnamon rolls from scratch (after I of course mention that cinnamon rolls are my favorite ever). I'm not sure what to think at this point. Should I even try asking her to hang out again when I almost always know the answer? Can a friendship survive through text messaging alone? Are we really not that close and am I misreading things?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I hope this is the right place for this, can't really figure out where else to ask this.\n\nI've got a question and I was hoping you gentlefolk might be able to answer it for me. A few months back I made friends with a girl who I met at work. We immediately hit it off and have been texting some what regularly, sometimes in to the late hours of the night, talking about all manner of nonsense. We have lots shared interests and the stuff we don't we can easily make fun of and tease each other for in good fun. It seems out friendship has quickly become very strong over our text message conversations yet it never seems to progress to anything beyond that. \n\nWe also work together at a retail store. From what I heard, she enjoys working with me the most out of all our coworkers and we'll sometimes hang out in the parking lot after work, but this is few and far between as we work at most once every 2 weeks together. This is about all the interaction we have in person. I've invited them out several times, both as a 1 on 1 hang outs and a group thing, but she seems to always be busy or always has other plans. Usually I take this as a sign that she may not be interested and back off but our conversations haven't let up and she seems genuinely sorry that she can't make it, going so far as offering to bake me cinnamon rolls from scratch (after I of course mention that cinnamon rolls are my favorite ever). I'm not sure what to think at this point. Should I even try asking her to hang out again when I almost always know the answer? Can a friendship survive through text messaging alone? Are we really not that close and am I misreading things?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I hope this is the right place for this, can't really figure out where else to ask this.\n\nI've got a question and I was hoping you gentlefolk might be able to answer it for me. A few months back I made friends with a girl who I met at work. We immediately hit it off and have been texting some what regularly, sometimes in to the late hours of the night, talking about all manner of nonsense. We have lots shared interests and the stuff we don't we can easily make fun of and tease each other for in good fun. It seems out friendship has quickly become very strong over our text message conversations yet it never seems to progress to anything beyond that. \n\nWe also work together at a retail store. From what I heard, she enjoys working with me the most out of all our coworkers and we'll sometimes hang out in the parking lot after work, but this is few and far between as we work at most once every 2 weeks together. This is about all the interaction we have in person. I've invited them out several times, both as a 1 on 1 hang outs and a group thing, but she seems to always be busy or always has other plans. Usually I take this as a sign that she may not be interested and back off but our conversations haven't let up and she seems genuinely sorry that she can't make it, going so far as offering to bake me cinnamon rolls from scratch (after I of course mention that cinnamon rolls are my favorite ever). I'm not sure what to think at this point. Should I even try asking her to hang out again when I almost always know the answer? Can a friendship survive through text messaging alone? Are we really not that close and am I misreading things?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got thinking about this when my friend told me she suffers from [Synesthesia]( In a overly brief summery it's when stimulation of one sensory pathway leads to stimulation of another. A typical example is color association with different words, letters or numbers. As in always seeing the color purple or a purple seven when thinking about that number. Later that night I was reading a thread about DJ Shadow when [talk of different colors of music]( came up. Is this a minor symptom of Synesthesia? I personally thought I associated colors with music after a couple year long habit of watching Windows Media Player's music visualization when high."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got thinking about this when my friend told me she suffers from [Synesthesia]( In a overly brief summery it's when stimulation of one sensory pathway leads to stimulation of another. A typical example is color association with different words, letters or numbers. As in always seeing the color purple or a purple seven when thinking about that number. Later that night I was reading a thread about DJ Shadow when [talk of different colors of music]( came up. Is this a minor symptom of Synesthesia? I personally thought I associated colors with music after a couple year long habit of watching Windows Media Player's music visualization when high."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got thinking about this when my friend told me she suffers from [Synesthesia]( In a overly brief summery it's when stimulation of one sensory pathway leads to stimulation of another. A typical example is color association with different words, letters or numbers. As in always seeing the color purple or a purple seven when thinking about that number. Later that night I was reading a thread about DJ Shadow when [talk of different colors of music]( came up. Is this a minor symptom of Synesthesia? I personally thought I associated colors with music after a couple year long habit of watching Windows Media Player's music visualization when high."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I got thinking about this when my friend told me she suffers from [Synesthesia]( In a overly brief summery it's when stimulation of one sensory pathway leads to stimulation of another. A typical example is color association with different words, letters or numbers. As in always seeing the color purple or a purple seven when thinking about that number. Later that night I was reading a thread about DJ Shadow when [talk of different colors of music]( came up. Is this a minor symptom of Synesthesia? I personally thought I associated colors with music after a couple year long habit of watching Windows Media Player's music visualization when high."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my wife and I split a few months ago and have filed for divorce. Since then, I have met a girl who I really like. We hung out with a group of friends and I thought we really hit it off. We have mutual friends and she knows my situation, and when I asked her if she would want to hang out again some time, she said she would, but that under the circumstances she thinks it's best we stay friends.\n\nI told her I appreciated her being direct with me and that I completely respect where she's coming from. Then I texted her saying I was thinking of getting the group together and asked if she wanted to join, but she never responded. I am a little bit concerned that I rushed to asking her on a date, since the time we had hung out and had a lot of fun was the same night I told that group of friends about my ex and I splitting, so obviously the subject was talked about some (nothing bad, we are on good terms, but I'm sure I was a little down/zoned out at some parts of the night). I wish I had waited until we hung out with a group again before asking her out, so she could see I was doing well and not talking about my ex.\n\nAm I permanently friend-zoned? It really did seem like we had some chemistry. I am also worried she might not come out with that group again to avoid anything awkward though. I have been tempted to text her again but I haven't. I assume her not responding means I should probably hold off. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my wife and I split a few months ago and have filed for divorce. Since then, I have met a girl who I really like. We hung out with a group of friends and I thought we really hit it off. We have mutual friends and she knows my situation, and when I asked her if she would want to hang out again some time, she said she would, but that under the circumstances she thinks it's best we stay friends.\n\nI told her I appreciated her being direct with me and that I completely respect where she's coming from. Then I texted her saying I was thinking of getting the group together and asked if she wanted to join, but she never responded. I am a little bit concerned that I rushed to asking her on a date, since the time we had hung out and had a lot of fun was the same night I told that group of friends about my ex and I splitting, so obviously the subject was talked about some (nothing bad, we are on good terms, but I'm sure I was a little down/zoned out at some parts of the night). I wish I had waited until we hung out with a group again before asking her out, so she could see I was doing well and not talking about my ex.\n\nAm I permanently friend-zoned? It really did seem like we had some chemistry. I am also worried she might not come out with that group again to avoid anything awkward though. I have been tempted to text her again but I haven't. I assume her not responding means I should probably hold off. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my wife and I split a few months ago and have filed for divorce. Since then, I have met a girl who I really like. We hung out with a group of friends and I thought we really hit it off. We have mutual friends and she knows my situation, and when I asked her if she would want to hang out again some time, she said she would, but that under the circumstances she thinks it's best we stay friends.\n\nI told her I appreciated her being direct with me and that I completely respect where she's coming from. Then I texted her saying I was thinking of getting the group together and asked if she wanted to join, but she never responded. I am a little bit concerned that I rushed to asking her on a date, since the time we had hung out and had a lot of fun was the same night I told that group of friends about my ex and I splitting, so obviously the subject was talked about some (nothing bad, we are on good terms, but I'm sure I was a little down/zoned out at some parts of the night). I wish I had waited until we hung out with a group again before asking her out, so she could see I was doing well and not talking about my ex.\n\nAm I permanently friend-zoned? It really did seem like we had some chemistry. I am also worried she might not come out with that group again to avoid anything awkward though. I have been tempted to text her again but I haven't. I assume her not responding means I should probably hold off. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my wife and I split a few months ago and have filed for divorce. Since then, I have met a girl who I really like. We hung out with a group of friends and I thought we really hit it off. We have mutual friends and she knows my situation, and when I asked her if she would want to hang out again some time, she said she would, but that under the circumstances she thinks it's best we stay friends.\n\nI told her I appreciated her being direct with me and that I completely respect where she's coming from. Then I texted her saying I was thinking of getting the group together and asked if she wanted to join, but she never responded. I am a little bit concerned that I rushed to asking her on a date, since the time we had hung out and had a lot of fun was the same night I told that group of friends about my ex and I splitting, so obviously the subject was talked about some (nothing bad, we are on good terms, but I'm sure I was a little down/zoned out at some parts of the night). I wish I had waited until we hung out with a group again before asking her out, so she could see I was doing well and not talking about my ex.\n\nAm I permanently friend-zoned? It really did seem like we had some chemistry. I am also worried she might not come out with that group again to avoid anything awkward though. I have been tempted to text her again but I haven't. I assume her not responding means I should probably hold off. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [The link in question](\n\nFirst off, apologies for the ATS link but the OP's arguments (unlike most of the stuff I see there) doesn't immediately come across as altogether unfeasible or illogical.\n\nThere are various points discussed, and while a few of them do strain credulity and can easily be dismissed offhand as fiction, others seem to have some solid basis.\n\nWhat does reddit have to say on this? Are these videos, images and texts all taken out of context to paint a pretty picture? Or does this viewpoint have something to it? Is this even physically possible?\n\n*One key point:*\nFrom my own understanding, it becomes quite obvious that none of the 'evidence' being shown here even touches upon the point of *plastics*. I'm curious as to whether given an alternate universe in which we never discovered plastics, would we be able to reach even comparably close to our technological prowess today?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [The link in question](\n\nFirst off, apologies for the ATS link but the OP's arguments (unlike most of the stuff I see there) doesn't immediately come across as altogether unfeasible or illogical.\n\nThere are various points discussed, and while a few of them do strain credulity and can easily be dismissed offhand as fiction, others seem to have some solid basis.\n\nWhat does reddit have to say on this? Are these videos, images and texts all taken out of context to paint a pretty picture? Or does this viewpoint have something to it? Is this even physically possible?\n\n*One key point:*\nFrom my own understanding, it becomes quite obvious that none of the 'evidence' being shown here even touches upon the point of *plastics*. I'm curious as to whether given an alternate universe in which we never discovered plastics, would we be able to reach even comparably close to our technological prowess today?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [The link in question](\n\nFirst off, apologies for the ATS link but the OP's arguments (unlike most of the stuff I see there) doesn't immediately come across as altogether unfeasible or illogical.\n\nThere are various points discussed, and while a few of them do strain credulity and can easily be dismissed offhand as fiction, others seem to have some solid basis.\n\nWhat does reddit have to say on this? Are these videos, images and texts all taken out of context to paint a pretty picture? Or does this viewpoint have something to it? Is this even physically possible?\n\n*One key point:*\nFrom my own understanding, it becomes quite obvious that none of the 'evidence' being shown here even touches upon the point of *plastics*. I'm curious as to whether given an alternate universe in which we never discovered plastics, would we be able to reach even comparably close to our technological prowess today?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [The link in question](\n\nFirst off, apologies for the ATS link but the OP's arguments (unlike most of the stuff I see there) doesn't immediately come across as altogether unfeasible or illogical.\n\nThere are various points discussed, and while a few of them do strain credulity and can easily be dismissed offhand as fiction, others seem to have some solid basis.\n\nWhat does reddit have to say on this? Are these videos, images and texts all taken out of context to paint a pretty picture? Or does this viewpoint have something to it? Is this even physically possible?\n\n*One key point:*\nFrom my own understanding, it becomes quite obvious that none of the 'evidence' being shown here even touches upon the point of *plastics*. I'm curious as to whether given an alternate universe in which we never discovered plastics, would we be able to reach even comparably close to our technological prowess today?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, so I recently got accepted into FSU as well as ended a relationship with a girl that lasted for about a year; it was an on-n-off. Told my friends that I was honestly worried that I was not going to find someone after this girl in particular because she was, as I can best describe it, a wolf in sheep's clothing. Essentially I've been told by multiple people that I am in an odd position of neither being an \"asshole\" or a \"nice guy\" and that I hover between the two. more towards the latter. To describe myself, I work hard and take care of myself mentally and physically, I do not drink because I have to maintain a certain weight for fighting. I do everything that I was raised to do by my parent i.e., be nice to everyone friends or not, hold doors open, be cordial with people and treat them how you'd expect to be treated. With this understanding, I don't let people walk over me and I have a backbone as its been pointed out and often I will bite my tongue in most situations because at the end of the day my philosophy is \"do you\"; I believe honesty supersedes all else and will have no problem saying what needs to be said rather than what is expected to be said. All in all, I don't really care about people and their day to day problems because they do not effect me directly, I will help or go out of my way if its needed but I do not entangle myself with their problems because its not my problem. So with this in mind my question is, am I screwed because of where I lay on this \"nice guy/asshole\" spectrum or are their women out there interested in someone like me. thanks in advance for the assistance it is much appreciated and sorry for errors I'm on my phone on break."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, so I recently got accepted into FSU as well as ended a relationship with a girl that lasted for about a year; it was an on-n-off. Told my friends that I was honestly worried that I was not going to find someone after this girl in particular because she was, as I can best describe it, a wolf in sheep's clothing. Essentially I've been told by multiple people that I am in an odd position of neither being an \"asshole\" or a \"nice guy\" and that I hover between the two. more towards the latter. To describe myself, I work hard and take care of myself mentally and physically, I do not drink because I have to maintain a certain weight for fighting. I do everything that I was raised to do by my parent i.e., be nice to everyone friends or not, hold doors open, be cordial with people and treat them how you'd expect to be treated. With this understanding, I don't let people walk over me and I have a backbone as its been pointed out and often I will bite my tongue in most situations because at the end of the day my philosophy is \"do you\"; I believe honesty supersedes all else and will have no problem saying what needs to be said rather than what is expected to be said. All in all, I don't really care about people and their day to day problems because they do not effect me directly, I will help or go out of my way if its needed but I do not entangle myself with their problems because its not my problem. So with this in mind my question is, am I screwed because of where I lay on this \"nice guy/asshole\" spectrum or are their women out there interested in someone like me. thanks in advance for the assistance it is much appreciated and sorry for errors I'm on my phone on break."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, so I recently got accepted into FSU as well as ended a relationship with a girl that lasted for about a year; it was an on-n-off. Told my friends that I was honestly worried that I was not going to find someone after this girl in particular because she was, as I can best describe it, a wolf in sheep's clothing. Essentially I've been told by multiple people that I am in an odd position of neither being an \"asshole\" or a \"nice guy\" and that I hover between the two. more towards the latter. To describe myself, I work hard and take care of myself mentally and physically, I do not drink because I have to maintain a certain weight for fighting. I do everything that I was raised to do by my parent i.e., be nice to everyone friends or not, hold doors open, be cordial with people and treat them how you'd expect to be treated. With this understanding, I don't let people walk over me and I have a backbone as its been pointed out and often I will bite my tongue in most situations because at the end of the day my philosophy is \"do you\"; I believe honesty supersedes all else and will have no problem saying what needs to be said rather than what is expected to be said. All in all, I don't really care about people and their day to day problems because they do not effect me directly, I will help or go out of my way if its needed but I do not entangle myself with their problems because its not my problem. So with this in mind my question is, am I screwed because of where I lay on this \"nice guy/asshole\" spectrum or are their women out there interested in someone like me. thanks in advance for the assistance it is much appreciated and sorry for errors I'm on my phone on break."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, so I recently got accepted into FSU as well as ended a relationship with a girl that lasted for about a year; it was an on-n-off. Told my friends that I was honestly worried that I was not going to find someone after this girl in particular because she was, as I can best describe it, a wolf in sheep's clothing. Essentially I've been told by multiple people that I am in an odd position of neither being an \"asshole\" or a \"nice guy\" and that I hover between the two. more towards the latter. To describe myself, I work hard and take care of myself mentally and physically, I do not drink because I have to maintain a certain weight for fighting. I do everything that I was raised to do by my parent i.e., be nice to everyone friends or not, hold doors open, be cordial with people and treat them how you'd expect to be treated. With this understanding, I don't let people walk over me and I have a backbone as its been pointed out and often I will bite my tongue in most situations because at the end of the day my philosophy is \"do you\"; I believe honesty supersedes all else and will have no problem saying what needs to be said rather than what is expected to be said. All in all, I don't really care about people and their day to day problems because they do not effect me directly, I will help or go out of my way if its needed but I do not entangle myself with their problems because its not my problem. So with this in mind my question is, am I screwed because of where I lay on this \"nice guy/asshole\" spectrum or are their women out there interested in someone like me. thanks in advance for the assistance it is much appreciated and sorry for errors I'm on my phone on break."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My bf is perfect in every single way except I've never been crazy attracted to him. I think he's good-looking, but my desire to have sex with him is very very low. I don't want to break up with him because I see a really nice future with him but when I imagine the sex it makes me rethink everything because although I can imagine a nice life with him, I also imagine a sex life with him and it feels like an obligation. We started off as friends and our friendship slowly evolved into a romance. But honestly, I don't think I ever really left the friend area to full-on relationship mode. It's weird and it feels incestuous sometimes when we're being romantic. I don't always feel this way but I feel it enough to the point that it bothers me and I'm constantly reevaluating our relationship, thinking it was a mistake to leave the friend zone in the first place. Does anyone know anyone who's felt this way?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My bf is perfect in every single way except I've never been crazy attracted to him. I think he's good-looking, but my desire to have sex with him is very very low. I don't want to break up with him because I see a really nice future with him but when I imagine the sex it makes me rethink everything because although I can imagine a nice life with him, I also imagine a sex life with him and it feels like an obligation. We started off as friends and our friendship slowly evolved into a romance. But honestly, I don't think I ever really left the friend area to full-on relationship mode. It's weird and it feels incestuous sometimes when we're being romantic. I don't always feel this way but I feel it enough to the point that it bothers me and I'm constantly reevaluating our relationship, thinking it was a mistake to leave the friend zone in the first place. Does anyone know anyone who's felt this way?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My bf is perfect in every single way except I've never been crazy attracted to him. I think he's good-looking, but my desire to have sex with him is very very low. I don't want to break up with him because I see a really nice future with him but when I imagine the sex it makes me rethink everything because although I can imagine a nice life with him, I also imagine a sex life with him and it feels like an obligation. We started off as friends and our friendship slowly evolved into a romance. But honestly, I don't think I ever really left the friend area to full-on relationship mode. It's weird and it feels incestuous sometimes when we're being romantic. I don't always feel this way but I feel it enough to the point that it bothers me and I'm constantly reevaluating our relationship, thinking it was a mistake to leave the friend zone in the first place. Does anyone know anyone who's felt this way?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My bf is perfect in every single way except I've never been crazy attracted to him. I think he's good-looking, but my desire to have sex with him is very very low. I don't want to break up with him because I see a really nice future with him but when I imagine the sex it makes me rethink everything because although I can imagine a nice life with him, I also imagine a sex life with him and it feels like an obligation. We started off as friends and our friendship slowly evolved into a romance. But honestly, I don't think I ever really left the friend area to full-on relationship mode. It's weird and it feels incestuous sometimes when we're being romantic. I don't always feel this way but I feel it enough to the point that it bothers me and I'm constantly reevaluating our relationship, thinking it was a mistake to leave the friend zone in the first place. Does anyone know anyone who's felt this way?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So long story short she didn't like where we lived and wanted to be with her parents so she moved to a different province and we had a mutual breakup, I told her she will always be my best friend.\n\nSo after she left she hung out with this guy that fucked her and then didnt want to talk to her anymore even though I've told her about those types of guys 1000 times, anyways she tried to talk to me about it because she was sad and I felt so betrayed that she would just toss me aside like a used napkin and expect pity.\n\n I am trying my hardest not to say that this makes me dislike her very much and I kind of think she deserves it. She also tried to talk to her friend that introduced them to each other but she said something along the lines of \"I told you to stay away from him\".\n\nHow should I feel, I am very conflicted because I loved her so much. I really just need an outside opinion or someone to talk to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So long story short she didn't like where we lived and wanted to be with her parents so she moved to a different province and we had a mutual breakup, I told her she will always be my best friend.\n\nSo after she left she hung out with this guy that fucked her and then didnt want to talk to her anymore even though I've told her about those types of guys 1000 times, anyways she tried to talk to me about it because she was sad and I felt so betrayed that she would just toss me aside like a used napkin and expect pity.\n\n I am trying my hardest not to say that this makes me dislike her very much and I kind of think she deserves it. She also tried to talk to her friend that introduced them to each other but she said something along the lines of \"I told you to stay away from him\".\n\nHow should I feel, I am very conflicted because I loved her so much. I really just need an outside opinion or someone to talk to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So long story short she didn't like where we lived and wanted to be with her parents so she moved to a different province and we had a mutual breakup, I told her she will always be my best friend.\n\nSo after she left she hung out with this guy that fucked her and then didnt want to talk to her anymore even though I've told her about those types of guys 1000 times, anyways she tried to talk to me about it because she was sad and I felt so betrayed that she would just toss me aside like a used napkin and expect pity.\n\n I am trying my hardest not to say that this makes me dislike her very much and I kind of think she deserves it. She also tried to talk to her friend that introduced them to each other but she said something along the lines of \"I told you to stay away from him\".\n\nHow should I feel, I am very conflicted because I loved her so much. I really just need an outside opinion or someone to talk to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So long story short she didn't like where we lived and wanted to be with her parents so she moved to a different province and we had a mutual breakup, I told her she will always be my best friend.\n\nSo after she left she hung out with this guy that fucked her and then didnt want to talk to her anymore even though I've told her about those types of guys 1000 times, anyways she tried to talk to me about it because she was sad and I felt so betrayed that she would just toss me aside like a used napkin and expect pity.\n\n I am trying my hardest not to say that this makes me dislike her very much and I kind of think she deserves it. She also tried to talk to her friend that introduced them to each other but she said something along the lines of \"I told you to stay away from him\".\n\nHow should I feel, I am very conflicted because I loved her so much. I really just need an outside opinion or someone to talk to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work (or used to work) at a major wireless service provider in Canada. I was working there since October. I believe I was past the probation period.\n\nBasically near the beginning of December, a deposit envelope filled with money went missing when it was me and my other co-worker working at the time. I wasn't given the responsibility to put it away into the safe basically since I am still pretty new there. All I remember doing to the envelope was signing it and giving it to my co-worker to put away in the safe.\n\nI got a call 2 weeks ago from the higher ups (a person I don't directly work with) saying I was suspended until they finish an \"investigation\" regarding what happened to the envelope. Basically, they're gonna think I took it since I am technically the newest employee there, compared to the co-worker who has been working there for over a year.\n\nI am on good terms with everyone that works there, even the manager. I really don't think they would suspect that I took it. But since the call was made from the higher ups, there's not much they can do. The co-worker didn't get suspended either. Feels like this whole thing is an attack on my character.\n\nSo basically I'm out of a job for something I didn't do, and I have no idea what to do about it. Should I even put it on my resume? It would be easy to get a similar job if I could, but obviously that wouldn't be the best idea. I was thinking of putting the job on my resume and saying I am still currently employed there so they don't contact them. Should I take legal action? I feel lost. I really don't wanna start back at square one trying to put my foot in the door for another sales job. Stressful time in my life. Just need advice. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work (or used to work) at a major wireless service provider in Canada. I was working there since October. I believe I was past the probation period.\n\nBasically near the beginning of December, a deposit envelope filled with money went missing when it was me and my other co-worker working at the time. I wasn't given the responsibility to put it away into the safe basically since I am still pretty new there. All I remember doing to the envelope was signing it and giving it to my co-worker to put away in the safe.\n\nI got a call 2 weeks ago from the higher ups (a person I don't directly work with) saying I was suspended until they finish an \"investigation\" regarding what happened to the envelope. Basically, they're gonna think I took it since I am technically the newest employee there, compared to the co-worker who has been working there for over a year.\n\nI am on good terms with everyone that works there, even the manager. I really don't think they would suspect that I took it. But since the call was made from the higher ups, there's not much they can do. The co-worker didn't get suspended either. Feels like this whole thing is an attack on my character.\n\nSo basically I'm out of a job for something I didn't do, and I have no idea what to do about it. Should I even put it on my resume? It would be easy to get a similar job if I could, but obviously that wouldn't be the best idea. I was thinking of putting the job on my resume and saying I am still currently employed there so they don't contact them. Should I take legal action? I feel lost. I really don't wanna start back at square one trying to put my foot in the door for another sales job. Stressful time in my life. Just need advice. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work (or used to work) at a major wireless service provider in Canada. I was working there since October. I believe I was past the probation period.\n\nBasically near the beginning of December, a deposit envelope filled with money went missing when it was me and my other co-worker working at the time. I wasn't given the responsibility to put it away into the safe basically since I am still pretty new there. All I remember doing to the envelope was signing it and giving it to my co-worker to put away in the safe.\n\nI got a call 2 weeks ago from the higher ups (a person I don't directly work with) saying I was suspended until they finish an \"investigation\" regarding what happened to the envelope. Basically, they're gonna think I took it since I am technically the newest employee there, compared to the co-worker who has been working there for over a year.\n\nI am on good terms with everyone that works there, even the manager. I really don't think they would suspect that I took it. But since the call was made from the higher ups, there's not much they can do. The co-worker didn't get suspended either. Feels like this whole thing is an attack on my character.\n\nSo basically I'm out of a job for something I didn't do, and I have no idea what to do about it. Should I even put it on my resume? It would be easy to get a similar job if I could, but obviously that wouldn't be the best idea. I was thinking of putting the job on my resume and saying I am still currently employed there so they don't contact them. Should I take legal action? I feel lost. I really don't wanna start back at square one trying to put my foot in the door for another sales job. Stressful time in my life. Just need advice. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work (or used to work) at a major wireless service provider in Canada. I was working there since October. I believe I was past the probation period.\n\nBasically near the beginning of December, a deposit envelope filled with money went missing when it was me and my other co-worker working at the time. I wasn't given the responsibility to put it away into the safe basically since I am still pretty new there. All I remember doing to the envelope was signing it and giving it to my co-worker to put away in the safe.\n\nI got a call 2 weeks ago from the higher ups (a person I don't directly work with) saying I was suspended until they finish an \"investigation\" regarding what happened to the envelope. Basically, they're gonna think I took it since I am technically the newest employee there, compared to the co-worker who has been working there for over a year.\n\nI am on good terms with everyone that works there, even the manager. I really don't think they would suspect that I took it. But since the call was made from the higher ups, there's not much they can do. The co-worker didn't get suspended either. Feels like this whole thing is an attack on my character.\n\nSo basically I'm out of a job for something I didn't do, and I have no idea what to do about it. Should I even put it on my resume? It would be easy to get a similar job if I could, but obviously that wouldn't be the best idea. I was thinking of putting the job on my resume and saying I am still currently employed there so they don't contact them. Should I take legal action? I feel lost. I really don't wanna start back at square one trying to put my foot in the door for another sales job. Stressful time in my life. Just need advice. Thanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone. My university choir from the States is doing an international tour in Spain and Portugal for about two weeks next May. The itinerary isn't final yet so i'm not sure what we will be seeing/where we will be singing, but its safe to say we'll have seen the major tourist attractions in Lisbon, Barcelona, and Madrid. My two best friends are kicking around the idea of staying around in Europe, as we will have just graduated so it's perfect timing. There is also a possibility of my family joining us post-tour and meeting up with our friend who is doing a Eurotour. She also happens to have a summer home in Croatia/is a native so she could show us around there. \n\nBasically, recommendations for how to plan for this or where to begin? Do we do a whirlwind tour of as much as possible or spend more time on \"the road less traveled\" sort of trip? If my family comes, do I spend a week with them and then do \"young people traveling\" with my friends? If I was traveling just with my friends, we are obviously more comfortable with lower quality accommodations but my parents have never seen anything in Europe. Obviously I am looking for this to be as cheap as possible, but I'm not sure what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone. My university choir from the States is doing an international tour in Spain and Portugal for about two weeks next May. The itinerary isn't final yet so i'm not sure what we will be seeing/where we will be singing, but its safe to say we'll have seen the major tourist attractions in Lisbon, Barcelona, and Madrid. My two best friends are kicking around the idea of staying around in Europe, as we will have just graduated so it's perfect timing. There is also a possibility of my family joining us post-tour and meeting up with our friend who is doing a Eurotour. She also happens to have a summer home in Croatia/is a native so she could show us around there. \n\nBasically, recommendations for how to plan for this or where to begin? Do we do a whirlwind tour of as much as possible or spend more time on \"the road less traveled\" sort of trip? If my family comes, do I spend a week with them and then do \"young people traveling\" with my friends? If I was traveling just with my friends, we are obviously more comfortable with lower quality accommodations but my parents have never seen anything in Europe. Obviously I am looking for this to be as cheap as possible, but I'm not sure what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone. My university choir from the States is doing an international tour in Spain and Portugal for about two weeks next May. The itinerary isn't final yet so i'm not sure what we will be seeing/where we will be singing, but its safe to say we'll have seen the major tourist attractions in Lisbon, Barcelona, and Madrid. My two best friends are kicking around the idea of staying around in Europe, as we will have just graduated so it's perfect timing. There is also a possibility of my family joining us post-tour and meeting up with our friend who is doing a Eurotour. She also happens to have a summer home in Croatia/is a native so she could show us around there. \n\nBasically, recommendations for how to plan for this or where to begin? Do we do a whirlwind tour of as much as possible or spend more time on \"the road less traveled\" sort of trip? If my family comes, do I spend a week with them and then do \"young people traveling\" with my friends? If I was traveling just with my friends, we are obviously more comfortable with lower quality accommodations but my parents have never seen anything in Europe. Obviously I am looking for this to be as cheap as possible, but I'm not sure what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone. My university choir from the States is doing an international tour in Spain and Portugal for about two weeks next May. The itinerary isn't final yet so i'm not sure what we will be seeing/where we will be singing, but its safe to say we'll have seen the major tourist attractions in Lisbon, Barcelona, and Madrid. My two best friends are kicking around the idea of staying around in Europe, as we will have just graduated so it's perfect timing. There is also a possibility of my family joining us post-tour and meeting up with our friend who is doing a Eurotour. She also happens to have a summer home in Croatia/is a native so she could show us around there. \n\nBasically, recommendations for how to plan for this or where to begin? Do we do a whirlwind tour of as much as possible or spend more time on \"the road less traveled\" sort of trip? If my family comes, do I spend a week with them and then do \"young people traveling\" with my friends? If I was traveling just with my friends, we are obviously more comfortable with lower quality accommodations but my parents have never seen anything in Europe. Obviously I am looking for this to be as cheap as possible, but I'm not sure what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm curious, it's been a while since I've dated anyone and I don't know what's normal. In my last serious relationship, my bf and I probably talked through FB, text, and Skype about an hour or more a day. However, I've been seeing a new guy for about 4 weeks, we've been sleeping together, but he doesn't text me much unless I text him. We see each other about once a week. The last 2 dates I planned although he mentions wanting to see me again at the end of our dates. I'll text him about my day or whatever and he'll respond but otherwise he might not text me. He's out of town this weekend and we haven't made plans to see each other when he gets back. When we said goodbye he said he'd see me next week, but no solid plans. He also didn't ask what I was doing this weekend. Bad sign?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm curious, it's been a while since I've dated anyone and I don't know what's normal. In my last serious relationship, my bf and I probably talked through FB, text, and Skype about an hour or more a day. However, I've been seeing a new guy for about 4 weeks, we've been sleeping together, but he doesn't text me much unless I text him. We see each other about once a week. The last 2 dates I planned although he mentions wanting to see me again at the end of our dates. I'll text him about my day or whatever and he'll respond but otherwise he might not text me. He's out of town this weekend and we haven't made plans to see each other when he gets back. When we said goodbye he said he'd see me next week, but no solid plans. He also didn't ask what I was doing this weekend. Bad sign?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm curious, it's been a while since I've dated anyone and I don't know what's normal. In my last serious relationship, my bf and I probably talked through FB, text, and Skype about an hour or more a day. However, I've been seeing a new guy for about 4 weeks, we've been sleeping together, but he doesn't text me much unless I text him. We see each other about once a week. The last 2 dates I planned although he mentions wanting to see me again at the end of our dates. I'll text him about my day or whatever and he'll respond but otherwise he might not text me. He's out of town this weekend and we haven't made plans to see each other when he gets back. When we said goodbye he said he'd see me next week, but no solid plans. He also didn't ask what I was doing this weekend. Bad sign?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm curious, it's been a while since I've dated anyone and I don't know what's normal. In my last serious relationship, my bf and I probably talked through FB, text, and Skype about an hour or more a day. However, I've been seeing a new guy for about 4 weeks, we've been sleeping together, but he doesn't text me much unless I text him. We see each other about once a week. The last 2 dates I planned although he mentions wanting to see me again at the end of our dates. I'll text him about my day or whatever and he'll respond but otherwise he might not text me. He's out of town this weekend and we haven't made plans to see each other when he gets back. When we said goodbye he said he'd see me next week, but no solid plans. He also didn't ask what I was doing this weekend. Bad sign?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A while back, my GF (she is 33, I am 32) took off and went and visited some family of hers. We live together as we have for 2 years, have 2 beautiful children (one is from a previous relationship of hers), and about twice a year she takes off to visit family for a week. I don't mind that and I'm glad she does it. It's good for her to go back and visit her old friends and family, etc. However, on the last trip she took out of town, she went and visited her mom's friend. \n\nApparently, her mom's friend's son is dating some chick. and she used to date some other guy. As fate would have it, my GF knows that other guy. Her mom's friend and her son's gf accuse the guy of being loopy, stalkery, or something like that. GF says she knows him, and he's not like that. Not a big deal in and of itself. \n\nAs she says it, she chanced upon him while she was down there. She told me all of this, but wouldn't tell me his name. When she returned to town, she referred to him as \"john.\" I asked her some months later, and now the guy's name is \"bill.\" We fought about it. I told her I don't care if she hangs out with a guy or has guy friends, I just want to know who they are, and if people are accusing this guy of being weird like that, I need to know where my kid's mother is in case something happens to her. \n\nShe says she won't tell me his name for two reasons. because I might mention something about it in front of her mom's friend (which I really don't intend to do, and shes not somebody I ever see or talk to anyway, a point I brought up to my GF) and because \"it's none of your business\" as I was told. The only other bit of information she's said is that I already know him/know of him. \n\nSo what's the deal with this? It's really forging a lot of trust issues in my head. Am I wrong, or should she just come out with the dude's name already?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A while back, my GF (she is 33, I am 32) took off and went and visited some family of hers. We live together as we have for 2 years, have 2 beautiful children (one is from a previous relationship of hers), and about twice a year she takes off to visit family for a week. I don't mind that and I'm glad she does it. It's good for her to go back and visit her old friends and family, etc. However, on the last trip she took out of town, she went and visited her mom's friend. \n\nApparently, her mom's friend's son is dating some chick. and she used to date some other guy. As fate would have it, my GF knows that other guy. Her mom's friend and her son's gf accuse the guy of being loopy, stalkery, or something like that. GF says she knows him, and he's not like that. Not a big deal in and of itself. \n\nAs she says it, she chanced upon him while she was down there. She told me all of this, but wouldn't tell me his name. When she returned to town, she referred to him as \"john.\" I asked her some months later, and now the guy's name is \"bill.\" We fought about it. I told her I don't care if she hangs out with a guy or has guy friends, I just want to know who they are, and if people are accusing this guy of being weird like that, I need to know where my kid's mother is in case something happens to her. \n\nShe says she won't tell me his name for two reasons. because I might mention something about it in front of her mom's friend (which I really don't intend to do, and shes not somebody I ever see or talk to anyway, a point I brought up to my GF) and because \"it's none of your business\" as I was told. The only other bit of information she's said is that I already know him/know of him. \n\nSo what's the deal with this? It's really forging a lot of trust issues in my head. Am I wrong, or should she just come out with the dude's name already?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A while back, my GF (she is 33, I am 32) took off and went and visited some family of hers. We live together as we have for 2 years, have 2 beautiful children (one is from a previous relationship of hers), and about twice a year she takes off to visit family for a week. I don't mind that and I'm glad she does it. It's good for her to go back and visit her old friends and family, etc. However, on the last trip she took out of town, she went and visited her mom's friend. \n\nApparently, her mom's friend's son is dating some chick. and she used to date some other guy. As fate would have it, my GF knows that other guy. Her mom's friend and her son's gf accuse the guy of being loopy, stalkery, or something like that. GF says she knows him, and he's not like that. Not a big deal in and of itself. \n\nAs she says it, she chanced upon him while she was down there. She told me all of this, but wouldn't tell me his name. When she returned to town, she referred to him as \"john.\" I asked her some months later, and now the guy's name is \"bill.\" We fought about it. I told her I don't care if she hangs out with a guy or has guy friends, I just want to know who they are, and if people are accusing this guy of being weird like that, I need to know where my kid's mother is in case something happens to her. \n\nShe says she won't tell me his name for two reasons. because I might mention something about it in front of her mom's friend (which I really don't intend to do, and shes not somebody I ever see or talk to anyway, a point I brought up to my GF) and because \"it's none of your business\" as I was told. The only other bit of information she's said is that I already know him/know of him. \n\nSo what's the deal with this? It's really forging a lot of trust issues in my head. Am I wrong, or should she just come out with the dude's name already?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A while back, my GF (she is 33, I am 32) took off and went and visited some family of hers. We live together as we have for 2 years, have 2 beautiful children (one is from a previous relationship of hers), and about twice a year she takes off to visit family for a week. I don't mind that and I'm glad she does it. It's good for her to go back and visit her old friends and family, etc. However, on the last trip she took out of town, she went and visited her mom's friend. \n\nApparently, her mom's friend's son is dating some chick. and she used to date some other guy. As fate would have it, my GF knows that other guy. Her mom's friend and her son's gf accuse the guy of being loopy, stalkery, or something like that. GF says she knows him, and he's not like that. Not a big deal in and of itself. \n\nAs she says it, she chanced upon him while she was down there. She told me all of this, but wouldn't tell me his name. When she returned to town, she referred to him as \"john.\" I asked her some months later, and now the guy's name is \"bill.\" We fought about it. I told her I don't care if she hangs out with a guy or has guy friends, I just want to know who they are, and if people are accusing this guy of being weird like that, I need to know where my kid's mother is in case something happens to her. \n\nShe says she won't tell me his name for two reasons. because I might mention something about it in front of her mom's friend (which I really don't intend to do, and shes not somebody I ever see or talk to anyway, a point I brought up to my GF) and because \"it's none of your business\" as I was told. The only other bit of information she's said is that I already know him/know of him. \n\nSo what's the deal with this? It's really forging a lot of trust issues in my head. Am I wrong, or should she just come out with the dude's name already?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Fack. I fucking hate my life. Fucking hate it. What a horrible day, what a horrible past 6 months.\n\nI moved back in with my parents after splitting up with my ex-fiancee. I had 7 cents to my name. I did a few courses, did a few small job contracts to get a bit of cash, but I've basically been unemployed since September.\n\nI started looking for a job in October, because I wanted to move back out and get back to independence. \n\nI cannot, for the life of me, find a fucking decent job. I started out looking for jobs that are decent paying, jobs that would allow me to start a career. No responses. I have decent and relevant experience, and lots of great references. Nothing. \n\nIt's February now. My parents have a history of fighting, particularly over stupid issues. This time, it was over a bowl of soup. My mum started making soup. He didn't like how she was making it (control freak, ass-hat). He started being a rude prick, so I told him (actually very respectfully) that perhaps you being a bit polite and nice can actually make a world of difference. This is a very condensed version. He was a reacting stupidly, over nothing.\n\nHe and I talk until 2 or 3 in the morning. Today, when I got home after I finally had an interview, he told me that I should leave and take my mother. My mother would be finished without him. She loves the man. Now, I have no money, no job, nothing. And he wants me to get out. I'm trying. I'm not a leech, I just want to fucking get out. I've applied to all sorts of jobs, but Toronto's job market is just no good. \n\nI've applied for a very decent job an hour out of the city. I hope I get it. If I do, I'm free and out in one paycheque. \n\nWish me luck?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Fack. I fucking hate my life. Fucking hate it. What a horrible day, what a horrible past 6 months.\n\nI moved back in with my parents after splitting up with my ex-fiancee. I had 7 cents to my name. I did a few courses, did a few small job contracts to get a bit of cash, but I've basically been unemployed since September.\n\nI started looking for a job in October, because I wanted to move back out and get back to independence. \n\nI cannot, for the life of me, find a fucking decent job. I started out looking for jobs that are decent paying, jobs that would allow me to start a career. No responses. I have decent and relevant experience, and lots of great references. Nothing. \n\nIt's February now. My parents have a history of fighting, particularly over stupid issues. This time, it was over a bowl of soup. My mum started making soup. He didn't like how she was making it (control freak, ass-hat). He started being a rude prick, so I told him (actually very respectfully) that perhaps you being a bit polite and nice can actually make a world of difference. This is a very condensed version. He was a reacting stupidly, over nothing.\n\nHe and I talk until 2 or 3 in the morning. Today, when I got home after I finally had an interview, he told me that I should leave and take my mother. My mother would be finished without him. She loves the man. Now, I have no money, no job, nothing. And he wants me to get out. I'm trying. I'm not a leech, I just want to fucking get out. I've applied to all sorts of jobs, but Toronto's job market is just no good. \n\nI've applied for a very decent job an hour out of the city. I hope I get it. If I do, I'm free and out in one paycheque. \n\nWish me luck?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Fack. I fucking hate my life. Fucking hate it. What a horrible day, what a horrible past 6 months.\n\nI moved back in with my parents after splitting up with my ex-fiancee. I had 7 cents to my name. I did a few courses, did a few small job contracts to get a bit of cash, but I've basically been unemployed since September.\n\nI started looking for a job in October, because I wanted to move back out and get back to independence. \n\nI cannot, for the life of me, find a fucking decent job. I started out looking for jobs that are decent paying, jobs that would allow me to start a career. No responses. I have decent and relevant experience, and lots of great references. Nothing. \n\nIt's February now. My parents have a history of fighting, particularly over stupid issues. This time, it was over a bowl of soup. My mum started making soup. He didn't like how she was making it (control freak, ass-hat). He started being a rude prick, so I told him (actually very respectfully) that perhaps you being a bit polite and nice can actually make a world of difference. This is a very condensed version. He was a reacting stupidly, over nothing.\n\nHe and I talk until 2 or 3 in the morning. Today, when I got home after I finally had an interview, he told me that I should leave and take my mother. My mother would be finished without him. She loves the man. Now, I have no money, no job, nothing. And he wants me to get out. I'm trying. I'm not a leech, I just want to fucking get out. I've applied to all sorts of jobs, but Toronto's job market is just no good. \n\nI've applied for a very decent job an hour out of the city. I hope I get it. If I do, I'm free and out in one paycheque. \n\nWish me luck?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Fack. I fucking hate my life. Fucking hate it. What a horrible day, what a horrible past 6 months.\n\nI moved back in with my parents after splitting up with my ex-fiancee. I had 7 cents to my name. I did a few courses, did a few small job contracts to get a bit of cash, but I've basically been unemployed since September.\n\nI started looking for a job in October, because I wanted to move back out and get back to independence. \n\nI cannot, for the life of me, find a fucking decent job. I started out looking for jobs that are decent paying, jobs that would allow me to start a career. No responses. I have decent and relevant experience, and lots of great references. Nothing. \n\nIt's February now. My parents have a history of fighting, particularly over stupid issues. This time, it was over a bowl of soup. My mum started making soup. He didn't like how she was making it (control freak, ass-hat). He started being a rude prick, so I told him (actually very respectfully) that perhaps you being a bit polite and nice can actually make a world of difference. This is a very condensed version. He was a reacting stupidly, over nothing.\n\nHe and I talk until 2 or 3 in the morning. Today, when I got home after I finally had an interview, he told me that I should leave and take my mother. My mother would be finished without him. She loves the man. Now, I have no money, no job, nothing. And he wants me to get out. I'm trying. I'm not a leech, I just want to fucking get out. I've applied to all sorts of jobs, but Toronto's job market is just no good. \n\nI've applied for a very decent job an hour out of the city. I hope I get it. If I do, I'm free and out in one paycheque. \n\nWish me luck?"
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