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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little short story of my past relationship nearly 2 years ago now.\n\nI was 16 and my girlfriend cheated on me at parties. Several times. and I knew about each time she did them. But idiot me stayed with her thinking she'd change each time. So before every party she went to, i'd get very paranoid. Couldn't eat, nothing entertained me, became very down and of course she cheated on me, everything came out, back bf and gf (We actually never broke up until the final time she did it.) and then a couple month later we're back to square one.\n\nNow i'm with my new girlfriend of 6+ months [F17] And she is amazing. I think the world of her, she thinks the world of me, and so forth, all the gooey stuff. Sexual life is good, talking is good.\n\nSo, tomorrow, she's going to someone's 18th Party. and it's starting again. I having no reason not to trust her. it's just. that's what happened last time, and my heart got broke. Why do I still feel like this? I don't want to become paranoid like last time and ask her questions like \"Did any kiss/touch/etc you?\" No. nonono. I can't do that again. I have said a couple things like, make sure no boys do anything and of course she said \"no of course not\", and the all the sexy, cute stuff comes out like yours is the only one for me etc.\n\nHow can I stop feeling like this? I don't want to be feeling paranoid like this everytime she goes out to partys. It's been 2 freaking years since the last time too. My head is just a complete mess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little short story of my past relationship nearly 2 years ago now.\n\nI was 16 and my girlfriend cheated on me at parties. Several times. and I knew about each time she did them. But idiot me stayed with her thinking she'd change each time. So before every party she went to, i'd get very paranoid. Couldn't eat, nothing entertained me, became very down and of course she cheated on me, everything came out, back bf and gf (We actually never broke up until the final time she did it.) and then a couple month later we're back to square one.\n\nNow i'm with my new girlfriend of 6+ months [F17] And she is amazing. I think the world of her, she thinks the world of me, and so forth, all the gooey stuff. Sexual life is good, talking is good.\n\nSo, tomorrow, she's going to someone's 18th Party. and it's starting again. I having no reason not to trust her. it's just. that's what happened last time, and my heart got broke. Why do I still feel like this? I don't want to become paranoid like last time and ask her questions like \"Did any kiss/touch/etc you?\" No. nonono. I can't do that again. I have said a couple things like, make sure no boys do anything and of course she said \"no of course not\", and the all the sexy, cute stuff comes out like yours is the only one for me etc.\n\nHow can I stop feeling like this? I don't want to be feeling paranoid like this everytime she goes out to partys. It's been 2 freaking years since the last time too. My head is just a complete mess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the story: \n\nI am a 20 year old American female in my second year at college (in the southeast). I'm the oldest child and the only girl of 3 children (two younger brothers, 19 and 14). I am an English major, an A student, have been published in the New York Times, and have worked as an editing intern for several major publishing companies. I have glowing recommendation letters from professors and past employers. I have never been arrested, and I have had only one traffic ticket (for failing to turn my brights down within 1500 feet of an oncoming vehicle). I vacuum my room regularly, do laundry once a week, and call my parents every day. \n\nI do drink, moderately, being in college. My parents don't know this-or didn't, until this past weekend. They were going through my room and found some beer bottles I had stashed behind some books on my bookshelf (bad move, I realize, but I was home for the summer, took a few beers from the fridge to drink while I read a book, and didn't know how to throw them out without them realizing I'd taken them). Now they think I'm a deceptive alcoholic and am on my way to certain death. \n\nIn high school I had some trouble with eating disorders and depression, but some medication helped tremendously, and now I'm an obviously fully functional and healthy person. My parents are flipping their shit. They've told me that they are going to make my Christmas break miserable, and I'm so scared to go home for Christmas in a week and a half that I am literally sick with dread. I spent all weekend crying and throwing up-because my dad told me that he should have given up on me a long time ago, as \"it's one thing after another with you\". \n\nWhat can I do to make them realize that this is insane? I am so tired of being the problem child, and I wish they could see that I am not as bad as they think."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the story: \n\nI am a 20 year old American female in my second year at college (in the southeast). I'm the oldest child and the only girl of 3 children (two younger brothers, 19 and 14). I am an English major, an A student, have been published in the New York Times, and have worked as an editing intern for several major publishing companies. I have glowing recommendation letters from professors and past employers. I have never been arrested, and I have had only one traffic ticket (for failing to turn my brights down within 1500 feet of an oncoming vehicle). I vacuum my room regularly, do laundry once a week, and call my parents every day. \n\nI do drink, moderately, being in college. My parents don't know this-or didn't, until this past weekend. They were going through my room and found some beer bottles I had stashed behind some books on my bookshelf (bad move, I realize, but I was home for the summer, took a few beers from the fridge to drink while I read a book, and didn't know how to throw them out without them realizing I'd taken them). Now they think I'm a deceptive alcoholic and am on my way to certain death. \n\nIn high school I had some trouble with eating disorders and depression, but some medication helped tremendously, and now I'm an obviously fully functional and healthy person. My parents are flipping their shit. They've told me that they are going to make my Christmas break miserable, and I'm so scared to go home for Christmas in a week and a half that I am literally sick with dread. I spent all weekend crying and throwing up-because my dad told me that he should have given up on me a long time ago, as \"it's one thing after another with you\". \n\nWhat can I do to make them realize that this is insane? I am so tired of being the problem child, and I wish they could see that I am not as bad as they think."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the story: \n\nI am a 20 year old American female in my second year at college (in the southeast). I'm the oldest child and the only girl of 3 children (two younger brothers, 19 and 14). I am an English major, an A student, have been published in the New York Times, and have worked as an editing intern for several major publishing companies. I have glowing recommendation letters from professors and past employers. I have never been arrested, and I have had only one traffic ticket (for failing to turn my brights down within 1500 feet of an oncoming vehicle). I vacuum my room regularly, do laundry once a week, and call my parents every day. \n\nI do drink, moderately, being in college. My parents don't know this-or didn't, until this past weekend. They were going through my room and found some beer bottles I had stashed behind some books on my bookshelf (bad move, I realize, but I was home for the summer, took a few beers from the fridge to drink while I read a book, and didn't know how to throw them out without them realizing I'd taken them). Now they think I'm a deceptive alcoholic and am on my way to certain death. \n\nIn high school I had some trouble with eating disorders and depression, but some medication helped tremendously, and now I'm an obviously fully functional and healthy person. My parents are flipping their shit. They've told me that they are going to make my Christmas break miserable, and I'm so scared to go home for Christmas in a week and a half that I am literally sick with dread. I spent all weekend crying and throwing up-because my dad told me that he should have given up on me a long time ago, as \"it's one thing after another with you\". \n\nWhat can I do to make them realize that this is insane? I am so tired of being the problem child, and I wish they could see that I am not as bad as they think."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the story: \n\nI am a 20 year old American female in my second year at college (in the southeast). I'm the oldest child and the only girl of 3 children (two younger brothers, 19 and 14). I am an English major, an A student, have been published in the New York Times, and have worked as an editing intern for several major publishing companies. I have glowing recommendation letters from professors and past employers. I have never been arrested, and I have had only one traffic ticket (for failing to turn my brights down within 1500 feet of an oncoming vehicle). I vacuum my room regularly, do laundry once a week, and call my parents every day. \n\nI do drink, moderately, being in college. My parents don't know this-or didn't, until this past weekend. They were going through my room and found some beer bottles I had stashed behind some books on my bookshelf (bad move, I realize, but I was home for the summer, took a few beers from the fridge to drink while I read a book, and didn't know how to throw them out without them realizing I'd taken them). Now they think I'm a deceptive alcoholic and am on my way to certain death. \n\nIn high school I had some trouble with eating disorders and depression, but some medication helped tremendously, and now I'm an obviously fully functional and healthy person. My parents are flipping their shit. They've told me that they are going to make my Christmas break miserable, and I'm so scared to go home for Christmas in a week and a half that I am literally sick with dread. I spent all weekend crying and throwing up-because my dad told me that he should have given up on me a long time ago, as \"it's one thing after another with you\". \n\nWhat can I do to make them realize that this is insane? I am so tired of being the problem child, and I wish they could see that I am not as bad as they think."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the story: \n\nI am a 20 year old American female in my second year at college (in the southeast). I'm the oldest child and the only girl of 3 children (two younger brothers, 19 and 14). I am an English major, an A student, have been published in the New York Times, and have worked as an editing intern for several major publishing companies. I have glowing recommendation letters from professors and past employers. I have never been arrested, and I have had only one traffic ticket (for failing to turn my brights down within 1500 feet of an oncoming vehicle). I vacuum my room regularly, do laundry once a week, and call my parents every day. \n\nI do drink, moderately, being in college. My parents don't know this-or didn't, until this past weekend. They were going through my room and found some beer bottles I had stashed behind some books on my bookshelf (bad move, I realize, but I was home for the summer, took a few beers from the fridge to drink while I read a book, and didn't know how to throw them out without them realizing I'd taken them). Now they think I'm a deceptive alcoholic and am on my way to certain death. \n\nIn high school I had some trouble with eating disorders and depression, but some medication helped tremendously, and now I'm an obviously fully functional and healthy person. My parents are flipping their shit. They've told me that they are going to make my Christmas break miserable, and I'm so scared to go home for Christmas in a week and a half that I am literally sick with dread. I spent all weekend crying and throwing up-because my dad told me that he should have given up on me a long time ago, as \"it's one thing after another with you\". \n\nWhat can I do to make them realize that this is insane? I am so tired of being the problem child, and I wish they could see that I am not as bad as they think."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the story: \n\nI am a 20 year old American female in my second year at college (in the southeast). I'm the oldest child and the only girl of 3 children (two younger brothers, 19 and 14). I am an English major, an A student, have been published in the New York Times, and have worked as an editing intern for several major publishing companies. I have glowing recommendation letters from professors and past employers. I have never been arrested, and I have had only one traffic ticket (for failing to turn my brights down within 1500 feet of an oncoming vehicle). I vacuum my room regularly, do laundry once a week, and call my parents every day. \n\nI do drink, moderately, being in college. My parents don't know this-or didn't, until this past weekend. They were going through my room and found some beer bottles I had stashed behind some books on my bookshelf (bad move, I realize, but I was home for the summer, took a few beers from the fridge to drink while I read a book, and didn't know how to throw them out without them realizing I'd taken them). Now they think I'm a deceptive alcoholic and am on my way to certain death. \n\nIn high school I had some trouble with eating disorders and depression, but some medication helped tremendously, and now I'm an obviously fully functional and healthy person. My parents are flipping their shit. They've told me that they are going to make my Christmas break miserable, and I'm so scared to go home for Christmas in a week and a half that I am literally sick with dread. I spent all weekend crying and throwing up-because my dad told me that he should have given up on me a long time ago, as \"it's one thing after another with you\". \n\nWhat can I do to make them realize that this is insane? I am so tired of being the problem child, and I wish they could see that I am not as bad as they think."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the story: \n\nI am a 20 year old American female in my second year at college (in the southeast). I'm the oldest child and the only girl of 3 children (two younger brothers, 19 and 14). I am an English major, an A student, have been published in the New York Times, and have worked as an editing intern for several major publishing companies. I have glowing recommendation letters from professors and past employers. I have never been arrested, and I have had only one traffic ticket (for failing to turn my brights down within 1500 feet of an oncoming vehicle). I vacuum my room regularly, do laundry once a week, and call my parents every day. \n\nI do drink, moderately, being in college. My parents don't know this-or didn't, until this past weekend. They were going through my room and found some beer bottles I had stashed behind some books on my bookshelf (bad move, I realize, but I was home for the summer, took a few beers from the fridge to drink while I read a book, and didn't know how to throw them out without them realizing I'd taken them). Now they think I'm a deceptive alcoholic and am on my way to certain death. \n\nIn high school I had some trouble with eating disorders and depression, but some medication helped tremendously, and now I'm an obviously fully functional and healthy person. My parents are flipping their shit. They've told me that they are going to make my Christmas break miserable, and I'm so scared to go home for Christmas in a week and a half that I am literally sick with dread. I spent all weekend crying and throwing up-because my dad told me that he should have given up on me a long time ago, as \"it's one thing after another with you\". \n\nWhat can I do to make them realize that this is insane? I am so tired of being the problem child, and I wish they could see that I am not as bad as they think."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here's the story: \n\nI am a 20 year old American female in my second year at college (in the southeast). I'm the oldest child and the only girl of 3 children (two younger brothers, 19 and 14). I am an English major, an A student, have been published in the New York Times, and have worked as an editing intern for several major publishing companies. I have glowing recommendation letters from professors and past employers. I have never been arrested, and I have had only one traffic ticket (for failing to turn my brights down within 1500 feet of an oncoming vehicle). I vacuum my room regularly, do laundry once a week, and call my parents every day. \n\nI do drink, moderately, being in college. My parents don't know this-or didn't, until this past weekend. They were going through my room and found some beer bottles I had stashed behind some books on my bookshelf (bad move, I realize, but I was home for the summer, took a few beers from the fridge to drink while I read a book, and didn't know how to throw them out without them realizing I'd taken them). Now they think I'm a deceptive alcoholic and am on my way to certain death. \n\nIn high school I had some trouble with eating disorders and depression, but some medication helped tremendously, and now I'm an obviously fully functional and healthy person. My parents are flipping their shit. They've told me that they are going to make my Christmas break miserable, and I'm so scared to go home for Christmas in a week and a half that I am literally sick with dread. I spent all weekend crying and throwing up-because my dad told me that he should have given up on me a long time ago, as \"it's one thing after another with you\". \n\nWhat can I do to make them realize that this is insane? I am so tired of being the problem child, and I wish they could see that I am not as bad as they think."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This past Wednesday I made a incredibly stupid decision and stole a $20 bag of dog food from Wal Mart. When I got outside and went to put it in my truck I saw that I was a victim of a hit and run. So I called the police to file a report on the hit and run and went about my business. Next thing I knew the policeman said he would check the security cameras for me and I could use a case number to check on the investigation. Well I got a call yesterday from Wal Mart's LP department asking for me by name and saying I had been caught on camera shoplifting. Apparently when the policeman came inside they got my information from him and a filed a report. The LP worker said that they would sent me a letter for civil restitution asking for $225 to not press charges. Is this something I really have to pay? I am a college student and will lose my financial aid if I get a misdemeanor"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This past Wednesday I made a incredibly stupid decision and stole a $20 bag of dog food from Wal Mart. When I got outside and went to put it in my truck I saw that I was a victim of a hit and run. So I called the police to file a report on the hit and run and went about my business. Next thing I knew the policeman said he would check the security cameras for me and I could use a case number to check on the investigation. Well I got a call yesterday from Wal Mart's LP department asking for me by name and saying I had been caught on camera shoplifting. Apparently when the policeman came inside they got my information from him and a filed a report. The LP worker said that they would sent me a letter for civil restitution asking for $225 to not press charges. Is this something I really have to pay? I am a college student and will lose my financial aid if I get a misdemeanor"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This past Wednesday I made a incredibly stupid decision and stole a $20 bag of dog food from Wal Mart. When I got outside and went to put it in my truck I saw that I was a victim of a hit and run. So I called the police to file a report on the hit and run and went about my business. Next thing I knew the policeman said he would check the security cameras for me and I could use a case number to check on the investigation. Well I got a call yesterday from Wal Mart's LP department asking for me by name and saying I had been caught on camera shoplifting. Apparently when the policeman came inside they got my information from him and a filed a report. The LP worker said that they would sent me a letter for civil restitution asking for $225 to not press charges. Is this something I really have to pay? I am a college student and will lose my financial aid if I get a misdemeanor"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This past Wednesday I made a incredibly stupid decision and stole a $20 bag of dog food from Wal Mart. When I got outside and went to put it in my truck I saw that I was a victim of a hit and run. So I called the police to file a report on the hit and run and went about my business. Next thing I knew the policeman said he would check the security cameras for me and I could use a case number to check on the investigation. Well I got a call yesterday from Wal Mart's LP department asking for me by name and saying I had been caught on camera shoplifting. Apparently when the policeman came inside they got my information from him and a filed a report. The LP worker said that they would sent me a letter for civil restitution asking for $225 to not press charges. Is this something I really have to pay? I am a college student and will lose my financial aid if I get a misdemeanor"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing my new partner for about a month now. \n\nThings between us have progressed quickly, yet also calmly. We communicate well, give each other space, and truly appreciate the time we share. \n\nOur feelings for each other are mutual and progressing at an equal rate. Kindness is reciprocated- truly I've found a match that is compatible with me on nearly every level.\n\nYet I have a feeling I can't shake that something is missing. I've been digging deep to find the source of the 'gut feeling'. I think it comes from our inability to maintain conversation. We communicate well- but actually talking to each other? Sometimes it feels like we have \"run out\" of things to talk about over the course of spending a day and night together.\n\nHe tends to be more on the quiet side, though he opens up. He also contains depth- so it's not a \"surface level\" issue.\n\nI tend to be quite expressive, speaking often. Yet I seem to yearn for a depth of interaction we're just not having.\n\nI truly care about this person- and would love to learn how to have conversations with him and perhaps get him to open up more.\nWe have amazing chemistry, are positive influences for each another, and I'd like to think we may have a shot for the long run. \n\nAny advice would be greatly appreciated. Suggestions of any kind, shared experience would be welcome. \nHelp save my happy ending, Reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing my new partner for about a month now. \n\nThings between us have progressed quickly, yet also calmly. We communicate well, give each other space, and truly appreciate the time we share. \n\nOur feelings for each other are mutual and progressing at an equal rate. Kindness is reciprocated- truly I've found a match that is compatible with me on nearly every level.\n\nYet I have a feeling I can't shake that something is missing. I've been digging deep to find the source of the 'gut feeling'. I think it comes from our inability to maintain conversation. We communicate well- but actually talking to each other? Sometimes it feels like we have \"run out\" of things to talk about over the course of spending a day and night together.\n\nHe tends to be more on the quiet side, though he opens up. He also contains depth- so it's not a \"surface level\" issue.\n\nI tend to be quite expressive, speaking often. Yet I seem to yearn for a depth of interaction we're just not having.\n\nI truly care about this person- and would love to learn how to have conversations with him and perhaps get him to open up more.\nWe have amazing chemistry, are positive influences for each another, and I'd like to think we may have a shot for the long run. \n\nAny advice would be greatly appreciated. Suggestions of any kind, shared experience would be welcome. \nHelp save my happy ending, Reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing my new partner for about a month now. \n\nThings between us have progressed quickly, yet also calmly. We communicate well, give each other space, and truly appreciate the time we share. \n\nOur feelings for each other are mutual and progressing at an equal rate. Kindness is reciprocated- truly I've found a match that is compatible with me on nearly every level.\n\nYet I have a feeling I can't shake that something is missing. I've been digging deep to find the source of the 'gut feeling'. I think it comes from our inability to maintain conversation. We communicate well- but actually talking to each other? Sometimes it feels like we have \"run out\" of things to talk about over the course of spending a day and night together.\n\nHe tends to be more on the quiet side, though he opens up. He also contains depth- so it's not a \"surface level\" issue.\n\nI tend to be quite expressive, speaking often. Yet I seem to yearn for a depth of interaction we're just not having.\n\nI truly care about this person- and would love to learn how to have conversations with him and perhaps get him to open up more.\nWe have amazing chemistry, are positive influences for each another, and I'd like to think we may have a shot for the long run. \n\nAny advice would be greatly appreciated. Suggestions of any kind, shared experience would be welcome. \nHelp save my happy ending, Reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been seeing my new partner for about a month now. \n\nThings between us have progressed quickly, yet also calmly. We communicate well, give each other space, and truly appreciate the time we share. \n\nOur feelings for each other are mutual and progressing at an equal rate. Kindness is reciprocated- truly I've found a match that is compatible with me on nearly every level.\n\nYet I have a feeling I can't shake that something is missing. I've been digging deep to find the source of the 'gut feeling'. I think it comes from our inability to maintain conversation. We communicate well- but actually talking to each other? Sometimes it feels like we have \"run out\" of things to talk about over the course of spending a day and night together.\n\nHe tends to be more on the quiet side, though he opens up. He also contains depth- so it's not a \"surface level\" issue.\n\nI tend to be quite expressive, speaking often. Yet I seem to yearn for a depth of interaction we're just not having.\n\nI truly care about this person- and would love to learn how to have conversations with him and perhaps get him to open up more.\nWe have amazing chemistry, are positive influences for each another, and I'd like to think we may have a shot for the long run. \n\nAny advice would be greatly appreciated. Suggestions of any kind, shared experience would be welcome. \nHelp save my happy ending, Reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well there's this really beautiful filipina I'm talking to, I've known her for roughly 2 1/2 - 3 years, and the past couple of weeks we started to text regularly. However all that it's really been is just a bunch of questions thrown both ways and I have a feeling that she is getting bored of it, since she doesn't reply for a couple of hours or not at all. \n\nTherefore I need your guys' help to keep this alive, I'm kinda awkward around girls when I talk via text, in person I have no problem. So I need your guys' help to give me advice on how to carry a decent conversation (that doesn't involve questions back on forth) with the girl. It seems kinda pathetic but I have a hard time with almost all girls when I message them because theres nothing to talk about."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well there's this really beautiful filipina I'm talking to, I've known her for roughly 2 1/2 - 3 years, and the past couple of weeks we started to text regularly. However all that it's really been is just a bunch of questions thrown both ways and I have a feeling that she is getting bored of it, since she doesn't reply for a couple of hours or not at all. \n\nTherefore I need your guys' help to keep this alive, I'm kinda awkward around girls when I talk via text, in person I have no problem. So I need your guys' help to give me advice on how to carry a decent conversation (that doesn't involve questions back on forth) with the girl. It seems kinda pathetic but I have a hard time with almost all girls when I message them because theres nothing to talk about."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well there's this really beautiful filipina I'm talking to, I've known her for roughly 2 1/2 - 3 years, and the past couple of weeks we started to text regularly. However all that it's really been is just a bunch of questions thrown both ways and I have a feeling that she is getting bored of it, since she doesn't reply for a couple of hours or not at all. \n\nTherefore I need your guys' help to keep this alive, I'm kinda awkward around girls when I talk via text, in person I have no problem. So I need your guys' help to give me advice on how to carry a decent conversation (that doesn't involve questions back on forth) with the girl. It seems kinda pathetic but I have a hard time with almost all girls when I message them because theres nothing to talk about."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well there's this really beautiful filipina I'm talking to, I've known her for roughly 2 1/2 - 3 years, and the past couple of weeks we started to text regularly. However all that it's really been is just a bunch of questions thrown both ways and I have a feeling that she is getting bored of it, since she doesn't reply for a couple of hours or not at all. \n\nTherefore I need your guys' help to keep this alive, I'm kinda awkward around girls when I talk via text, in person I have no problem. So I need your guys' help to give me advice on how to carry a decent conversation (that doesn't involve questions back on forth) with the girl. It seems kinda pathetic but I have a hard time with almost all girls when I message them because theres nothing to talk about."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, Full disclosure, my girlfriend and I are teenagers. \n\nWe've known each other for 3 years, we've been mutually attracted to each other for those three years, but we live 5 hours away from each other, so we decided not to date. Within the last 6 months, we've fallen deeply in love, and made it official. We visit each other about once a month. But there's a problem. Last night, she called me crying (this happens quite often, she has an anxiety disorder) and telling me she was scared. She decided that she wasn't going to be with a guy by the time she goes to college when she was a freshman in high school. We're 16, so we have about 2 years before that happens, but now I'm scared because she's getting distant.\n\nWe have amazing moments still, and we love each other, but it's really painful. She's said repeatedly how happy I still make her, and that she doesn't know what to do. I keep telling her it's because of the transitions in our lives that it feels like we're getting distant (we both just got new jobs) but I don't know if it's helping. I know that it's a \"teenage relationship\", but the thought of us breaking up right now is devastating, no matter the age. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you so much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, Full disclosure, my girlfriend and I are teenagers. \n\nWe've known each other for 3 years, we've been mutually attracted to each other for those three years, but we live 5 hours away from each other, so we decided not to date. Within the last 6 months, we've fallen deeply in love, and made it official. We visit each other about once a month. But there's a problem. Last night, she called me crying (this happens quite often, she has an anxiety disorder) and telling me she was scared. She decided that she wasn't going to be with a guy by the time she goes to college when she was a freshman in high school. We're 16, so we have about 2 years before that happens, but now I'm scared because she's getting distant.\n\nWe have amazing moments still, and we love each other, but it's really painful. She's said repeatedly how happy I still make her, and that she doesn't know what to do. I keep telling her it's because of the transitions in our lives that it feels like we're getting distant (we both just got new jobs) but I don't know if it's helping. I know that it's a \"teenage relationship\", but the thought of us breaking up right now is devastating, no matter the age. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you so much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, Full disclosure, my girlfriend and I are teenagers. \n\nWe've known each other for 3 years, we've been mutually attracted to each other for those three years, but we live 5 hours away from each other, so we decided not to date. Within the last 6 months, we've fallen deeply in love, and made it official. We visit each other about once a month. But there's a problem. Last night, she called me crying (this happens quite often, she has an anxiety disorder) and telling me she was scared. She decided that she wasn't going to be with a guy by the time she goes to college when she was a freshman in high school. We're 16, so we have about 2 years before that happens, but now I'm scared because she's getting distant.\n\nWe have amazing moments still, and we love each other, but it's really painful. She's said repeatedly how happy I still make her, and that she doesn't know what to do. I keep telling her it's because of the transitions in our lives that it feels like we're getting distant (we both just got new jobs) but I don't know if it's helping. I know that it's a \"teenage relationship\", but the thought of us breaking up right now is devastating, no matter the age. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you so much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, Full disclosure, my girlfriend and I are teenagers. \n\nWe've known each other for 3 years, we've been mutually attracted to each other for those three years, but we live 5 hours away from each other, so we decided not to date. Within the last 6 months, we've fallen deeply in love, and made it official. We visit each other about once a month. But there's a problem. Last night, she called me crying (this happens quite often, she has an anxiety disorder) and telling me she was scared. She decided that she wasn't going to be with a guy by the time she goes to college when she was a freshman in high school. We're 16, so we have about 2 years before that happens, but now I'm scared because she's getting distant.\n\nWe have amazing moments still, and we love each other, but it's really painful. She's said repeatedly how happy I still make her, and that she doesn't know what to do. I keep telling her it's because of the transitions in our lives that it feels like we're getting distant (we both just got new jobs) but I don't know if it's helping. I know that it's a \"teenage relationship\", but the thought of us breaking up right now is devastating, no matter the age. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you so much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband is sweet, funny, intelligent, and caring. However, I find myself becoming increasingly resentful over his chronic unemployment. \n\nI know he is younger than me and not as advanced in his career as I am. However, it seems like he can't keep a job down for more than a couple of weeks because he refuses to lower his imaginary standards of what his job in a workplace should be. \n\nHe does vacuum and do the dishes once in a while. Otherwise he is playing games and not even applying to places. (Note: I have no problems with video games, I play them as well but in more moderation. not to mention its my job industry.) \n\nWe have had discussions on this topic before and it seems it takes me crying before he really does anything. This happens every single time. \n\nIt is really coming to a head now since my game studio went under and had massive layoffs. Now I do not have a job or income. I am applying to places (bunch of interviews etc) while he has nothing. I keep thinking \"whats wrong with him. I can do this, why can't he?\". Its eating horribly into my savings and putting me slowly into credit card debt in order to feed and house us. I probably have about 2-3 months left until I can't afford rent. I hope to have a job by then but its not guaranteed. Right now he isn't helping out with any of the bills and its driving me crazy. Its so much stress and he doesn't or refuses to understand it. \n\nAm I a bad wife to feel resentful in this situation? I don't know what to do in order to light a fire under his ass."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband is sweet, funny, intelligent, and caring. However, I find myself becoming increasingly resentful over his chronic unemployment. \n\nI know he is younger than me and not as advanced in his career as I am. However, it seems like he can't keep a job down for more than a couple of weeks because he refuses to lower his imaginary standards of what his job in a workplace should be. \n\nHe does vacuum and do the dishes once in a while. Otherwise he is playing games and not even applying to places. (Note: I have no problems with video games, I play them as well but in more moderation. not to mention its my job industry.) \n\nWe have had discussions on this topic before and it seems it takes me crying before he really does anything. This happens every single time. \n\nIt is really coming to a head now since my game studio went under and had massive layoffs. Now I do not have a job or income. I am applying to places (bunch of interviews etc) while he has nothing. I keep thinking \"whats wrong with him. I can do this, why can't he?\". Its eating horribly into my savings and putting me slowly into credit card debt in order to feed and house us. I probably have about 2-3 months left until I can't afford rent. I hope to have a job by then but its not guaranteed. Right now he isn't helping out with any of the bills and its driving me crazy. Its so much stress and he doesn't or refuses to understand it. \n\nAm I a bad wife to feel resentful in this situation? I don't know what to do in order to light a fire under his ass."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband is sweet, funny, intelligent, and caring. However, I find myself becoming increasingly resentful over his chronic unemployment. \n\nI know he is younger than me and not as advanced in his career as I am. However, it seems like he can't keep a job down for more than a couple of weeks because he refuses to lower his imaginary standards of what his job in a workplace should be. \n\nHe does vacuum and do the dishes once in a while. Otherwise he is playing games and not even applying to places. (Note: I have no problems with video games, I play them as well but in more moderation. not to mention its my job industry.) \n\nWe have had discussions on this topic before and it seems it takes me crying before he really does anything. This happens every single time. \n\nIt is really coming to a head now since my game studio went under and had massive layoffs. Now I do not have a job or income. I am applying to places (bunch of interviews etc) while he has nothing. I keep thinking \"whats wrong with him. I can do this, why can't he?\". Its eating horribly into my savings and putting me slowly into credit card debt in order to feed and house us. I probably have about 2-3 months left until I can't afford rent. I hope to have a job by then but its not guaranteed. Right now he isn't helping out with any of the bills and its driving me crazy. Its so much stress and he doesn't or refuses to understand it. \n\nAm I a bad wife to feel resentful in this situation? I don't know what to do in order to light a fire under his ass."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband is sweet, funny, intelligent, and caring. However, I find myself becoming increasingly resentful over his chronic unemployment. \n\nI know he is younger than me and not as advanced in his career as I am. However, it seems like he can't keep a job down for more than a couple of weeks because he refuses to lower his imaginary standards of what his job in a workplace should be. \n\nHe does vacuum and do the dishes once in a while. Otherwise he is playing games and not even applying to places. (Note: I have no problems with video games, I play them as well but in more moderation. not to mention its my job industry.) \n\nWe have had discussions on this topic before and it seems it takes me crying before he really does anything. This happens every single time. \n\nIt is really coming to a head now since my game studio went under and had massive layoffs. Now I do not have a job or income. I am applying to places (bunch of interviews etc) while he has nothing. I keep thinking \"whats wrong with him. I can do this, why can't he?\". Its eating horribly into my savings and putting me slowly into credit card debt in order to feed and house us. I probably have about 2-3 months left until I can't afford rent. I hope to have a job by then but its not guaranteed. Right now he isn't helping out with any of the bills and its driving me crazy. Its so much stress and he doesn't or refuses to understand it. \n\nAm I a bad wife to feel resentful in this situation? I don't know what to do in order to light a fire under his ass."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Before I post this, this in no way reflects my opinions on birth-control/abortion/women's rights, be objective please.*\n\nAs stated, my question is should men be able to opt-out of a child, particularly within the months within abortion is safe? I understand women have the right to choose to have an abortion or not (laws pending), but should men have the equal opportunity for children they do not want to have? In the spirit of equality, women can choose whether or not they want to have a child, so should men not have the choice too? I understand when you have sex, you're basically acknowledging the fact that a child can be conceived, but why is their more burden of responsibility on the man to not have sex if he doesn't want a child/be responsible for a child if the women decides to keep him? \nBasically, I think the guy should have some option out if there's acknowledgement that precautions were taken (used a condom, etc.), if the woman claimed to use contraception but didn't or if she just cray and got herself impregnated (not saying all women are cray). \n \nI know this system could not be *perfect* or even functional in practice, but it's an idea. Seems a bit unfair that one person's decision determines how another's finances/income and responsibilities will be adjusted for 18 years without them having a say in it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Before I post this, this in no way reflects my opinions on birth-control/abortion/women's rights, be objective please.*\n\nAs stated, my question is should men be able to opt-out of a child, particularly within the months within abortion is safe? I understand women have the right to choose to have an abortion or not (laws pending), but should men have the equal opportunity for children they do not want to have? In the spirit of equality, women can choose whether or not they want to have a child, so should men not have the choice too? I understand when you have sex, you're basically acknowledging the fact that a child can be conceived, but why is their more burden of responsibility on the man to not have sex if he doesn't want a child/be responsible for a child if the women decides to keep him? \nBasically, I think the guy should have some option out if there's acknowledgement that precautions were taken (used a condom, etc.), if the woman claimed to use contraception but didn't or if she just cray and got herself impregnated (not saying all women are cray). \n \nI know this system could not be *perfect* or even functional in practice, but it's an idea. Seems a bit unfair that one person's decision determines how another's finances/income and responsibilities will be adjusted for 18 years without them having a say in it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Before I post this, this in no way reflects my opinions on birth-control/abortion/women's rights, be objective please.*\n\nAs stated, my question is should men be able to opt-out of a child, particularly within the months within abortion is safe? I understand women have the right to choose to have an abortion or not (laws pending), but should men have the equal opportunity for children they do not want to have? In the spirit of equality, women can choose whether or not they want to have a child, so should men not have the choice too? I understand when you have sex, you're basically acknowledging the fact that a child can be conceived, but why is their more burden of responsibility on the man to not have sex if he doesn't want a child/be responsible for a child if the women decides to keep him? \nBasically, I think the guy should have some option out if there's acknowledgement that precautions were taken (used a condom, etc.), if the woman claimed to use contraception but didn't or if she just cray and got herself impregnated (not saying all women are cray). \n \nI know this system could not be *perfect* or even functional in practice, but it's an idea. Seems a bit unfair that one person's decision determines how another's finances/income and responsibilities will be adjusted for 18 years without them having a say in it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *Before I post this, this in no way reflects my opinions on birth-control/abortion/women's rights, be objective please.*\n\nAs stated, my question is should men be able to opt-out of a child, particularly within the months within abortion is safe? I understand women have the right to choose to have an abortion or not (laws pending), but should men have the equal opportunity for children they do not want to have? In the spirit of equality, women can choose whether or not they want to have a child, so should men not have the choice too? I understand when you have sex, you're basically acknowledging the fact that a child can be conceived, but why is their more burden of responsibility on the man to not have sex if he doesn't want a child/be responsible for a child if the women decides to keep him? \nBasically, I think the guy should have some option out if there's acknowledgement that precautions were taken (used a condom, etc.), if the woman claimed to use contraception but didn't or if she just cray and got herself impregnated (not saying all women are cray). \n \nI know this system could not be *perfect* or even functional in practice, but it's an idea. Seems a bit unfair that one person's decision determines how another's finances/income and responsibilities will be adjusted for 18 years without them having a say in it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I currently am temporarily living in a different state from where I go to school but will be moving back in a few months, thus starting a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for 2.5 months but feel very good about things, have had no issues, and since I plan to move back to this state and visit on occasion will attempt long distance. We are serious about our relationship.\n\nWhere I come from, weed is now legal. When I move back I fully plan on smoking/consuming it on occasion because, though I only have a few times before, it is fun and I enjoy it and it is legal. I have no moral issues against it whatsoever, but he has mentioned that he looks down on weed on our very first date.\n\nI've never told him I've done it before and don't know how he would respond but I doubt he would be super comfortable with it. I also doubt he would break up with me over it.\n\nI would not actively hide the fact that I would do it while I'm there, but do you think I need to get his \"approval\" or at least let him know?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I currently am temporarily living in a different state from where I go to school but will be moving back in a few months, thus starting a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for 2.5 months but feel very good about things, have had no issues, and since I plan to move back to this state and visit on occasion will attempt long distance. We are serious about our relationship.\n\nWhere I come from, weed is now legal. When I move back I fully plan on smoking/consuming it on occasion because, though I only have a few times before, it is fun and I enjoy it and it is legal. I have no moral issues against it whatsoever, but he has mentioned that he looks down on weed on our very first date.\n\nI've never told him I've done it before and don't know how he would respond but I doubt he would be super comfortable with it. I also doubt he would break up with me over it.\n\nI would not actively hide the fact that I would do it while I'm there, but do you think I need to get his \"approval\" or at least let him know?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I currently am temporarily living in a different state from where I go to school but will be moving back in a few months, thus starting a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for 2.5 months but feel very good about things, have had no issues, and since I plan to move back to this state and visit on occasion will attempt long distance. We are serious about our relationship.\n\nWhere I come from, weed is now legal. When I move back I fully plan on smoking/consuming it on occasion because, though I only have a few times before, it is fun and I enjoy it and it is legal. I have no moral issues against it whatsoever, but he has mentioned that he looks down on weed on our very first date.\n\nI've never told him I've done it before and don't know how he would respond but I doubt he would be super comfortable with it. I also doubt he would break up with me over it.\n\nI would not actively hide the fact that I would do it while I'm there, but do you think I need to get his \"approval\" or at least let him know?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I currently am temporarily living in a different state from where I go to school but will be moving back in a few months, thus starting a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for 2.5 months but feel very good about things, have had no issues, and since I plan to move back to this state and visit on occasion will attempt long distance. We are serious about our relationship.\n\nWhere I come from, weed is now legal. When I move back I fully plan on smoking/consuming it on occasion because, though I only have a few times before, it is fun and I enjoy it and it is legal. I have no moral issues against it whatsoever, but he has mentioned that he looks down on weed on our very first date.\n\nI've never told him I've done it before and don't know how he would respond but I doubt he would be super comfortable with it. I also doubt he would break up with me over it.\n\nI would not actively hide the fact that I would do it while I'm there, but do you think I need to get his \"approval\" or at least let him know?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, i will try to explain the situation.\n\nMe : I'm a young male, fairly inexperienced about relationships. I'm living in a place and i work at another one, so my daily commute is quite long ( 3 to 4 hours each day)\n\nHer : One day while taking a bus i saw a really good looking girl (she seems to be a bit older than me 3 to 4 years maximum, she could be only 1 year older than me, quite hard to tell) and surprise she work at the same place as me ( we are coworker but we will never work together and we aren't even working in the same building). So we are taking the same bus eveyday for a few minutes and then we walk together for like 3/4 min each morning.\n\nI'm actually 2 weeks off work, and i'm \"planning\" what I could do to know her better. The principal problem is my inexperience ! \n\nNote : I don't know yet if she is single, we just started to speak one or two days ago, and i'm currently busy in another city"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, i will try to explain the situation.\n\nMe : I'm a young male, fairly inexperienced about relationships. I'm living in a place and i work at another one, so my daily commute is quite long ( 3 to 4 hours each day)\n\nHer : One day while taking a bus i saw a really good looking girl (she seems to be a bit older than me 3 to 4 years maximum, she could be only 1 year older than me, quite hard to tell) and surprise she work at the same place as me ( we are coworker but we will never work together and we aren't even working in the same building). So we are taking the same bus eveyday for a few minutes and then we walk together for like 3/4 min each morning.\n\nI'm actually 2 weeks off work, and i'm \"planning\" what I could do to know her better. The principal problem is my inexperience ! \n\nNote : I don't know yet if she is single, we just started to speak one or two days ago, and i'm currently busy in another city"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, i will try to explain the situation.\n\nMe : I'm a young male, fairly inexperienced about relationships. I'm living in a place and i work at another one, so my daily commute is quite long ( 3 to 4 hours each day)\n\nHer : One day while taking a bus i saw a really good looking girl (she seems to be a bit older than me 3 to 4 years maximum, she could be only 1 year older than me, quite hard to tell) and surprise she work at the same place as me ( we are coworker but we will never work together and we aren't even working in the same building). So we are taking the same bus eveyday for a few minutes and then we walk together for like 3/4 min each morning.\n\nI'm actually 2 weeks off work, and i'm \"planning\" what I could do to know her better. The principal problem is my inexperience ! \n\nNote : I don't know yet if she is single, we just started to speak one or two days ago, and i'm currently busy in another city"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, i will try to explain the situation.\n\nMe : I'm a young male, fairly inexperienced about relationships. I'm living in a place and i work at another one, so my daily commute is quite long ( 3 to 4 hours each day)\n\nHer : One day while taking a bus i saw a really good looking girl (she seems to be a bit older than me 3 to 4 years maximum, she could be only 1 year older than me, quite hard to tell) and surprise she work at the same place as me ( we are coworker but we will never work together and we aren't even working in the same building). So we are taking the same bus eveyday for a few minutes and then we walk together for like 3/4 min each morning.\n\nI'm actually 2 weeks off work, and i'm \"planning\" what I could do to know her better. The principal problem is my inexperience ! \n\nNote : I don't know yet if she is single, we just started to speak one or two days ago, and i'm currently busy in another city"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together (very long distance) for nearly 3 years and we've been planning for her to move to my city in 2 months.\n\nShe prefers her current city, definitely, but she is currently unemployed and I have my dream job, which is why she has long since agreed to move here.\n\nBut tonight she just applied to a job in her current city that is *her* dream job. I know she will take it if she gets it, and I also know for certain we couldn't survive indefinite long distance. We both know that if she takes the job, she's throwing away the future we have planned (we have most definitely planned to get married in the next few years).\n\nThe job itself is a little bit of a longshot, maybe she won't get it, and then I \"don't have to worry about it.\" But I fear the damage has already been done. How could she do this, she knows we will break up if she takes this job, so by applying, she is essentially already trying to break up; if it doesn't work out, she will fall back on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together (very long distance) for nearly 3 years and we've been planning for her to move to my city in 2 months.\n\nShe prefers her current city, definitely, but she is currently unemployed and I have my dream job, which is why she has long since agreed to move here.\n\nBut tonight she just applied to a job in her current city that is *her* dream job. I know she will take it if she gets it, and I also know for certain we couldn't survive indefinite long distance. We both know that if she takes the job, she's throwing away the future we have planned (we have most definitely planned to get married in the next few years).\n\nThe job itself is a little bit of a longshot, maybe she won't get it, and then I \"don't have to worry about it.\" But I fear the damage has already been done. How could she do this, she knows we will break up if she takes this job, so by applying, she is essentially already trying to break up; if it doesn't work out, she will fall back on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together (very long distance) for nearly 3 years and we've been planning for her to move to my city in 2 months.\n\nShe prefers her current city, definitely, but she is currently unemployed and I have my dream job, which is why she has long since agreed to move here.\n\nBut tonight she just applied to a job in her current city that is *her* dream job. I know she will take it if she gets it, and I also know for certain we couldn't survive indefinite long distance. We both know that if she takes the job, she's throwing away the future we have planned (we have most definitely planned to get married in the next few years).\n\nThe job itself is a little bit of a longshot, maybe she won't get it, and then I \"don't have to worry about it.\" But I fear the damage has already been done. How could she do this, she knows we will break up if she takes this job, so by applying, she is essentially already trying to break up; if it doesn't work out, she will fall back on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together (very long distance) for nearly 3 years and we've been planning for her to move to my city in 2 months.\n\nShe prefers her current city, definitely, but she is currently unemployed and I have my dream job, which is why she has long since agreed to move here.\n\nBut tonight she just applied to a job in her current city that is *her* dream job. I know she will take it if she gets it, and I also know for certain we couldn't survive indefinite long distance. We both know that if she takes the job, she's throwing away the future we have planned (we have most definitely planned to get married in the next few years).\n\nThe job itself is a little bit of a longshot, maybe she won't get it, and then I \"don't have to worry about it.\" But I fear the damage has already been done. How could she do this, she knows we will break up if she takes this job, so by applying, she is essentially already trying to break up; if it doesn't work out, she will fall back on me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and some. We love(d) each other dearly.\n Recently we have been having more and more fights. After thinking on it, I told him that it would be better for us both if we went separate ways. No more tears, so to speak.\n Leaving was very hard (as most of the time it is). I was a mess, I can only imagine what he went through, and after the reality of it hit me, my dumb head finally realised, that that's it, I would never see or hear from him again, it became even worse.\n I called him, hoping he didn't hate me, and if he could give me another chance. And he did, but as a chance to remain in each others' lives, as friends. I didn't expect it at all, but I did hurt him, and I was the one to break things off, and not being able to stop acting so childishly. \n I love him a lot, and if it means remaining in his life as friends, that means a lot to me. I want to support him in all of his life achievements, I want to be there for him when he needs me. Without a doubt, he wants the same. But it will be very difficult, thinking each day how lucky I was (and still am) to have his love and support. How lucky I was to have someone who loved me, who is unselfish, kind and calm. And I gave it all away because I couldn't stand to argue with him so often.\n I am writing here because I want to ask Reddit if there is any advice for me. If staying friends is a good idea, and I need to look at the positives, or is it a bad one, and maybe distancing myself from him would be the best.\n Thank you all in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and some. We love(d) each other dearly.\n Recently we have been having more and more fights. After thinking on it, I told him that it would be better for us both if we went separate ways. No more tears, so to speak.\n Leaving was very hard (as most of the time it is). I was a mess, I can only imagine what he went through, and after the reality of it hit me, my dumb head finally realised, that that's it, I would never see or hear from him again, it became even worse.\n I called him, hoping he didn't hate me, and if he could give me another chance. And he did, but as a chance to remain in each others' lives, as friends. I didn't expect it at all, but I did hurt him, and I was the one to break things off, and not being able to stop acting so childishly. \n I love him a lot, and if it means remaining in his life as friends, that means a lot to me. I want to support him in all of his life achievements, I want to be there for him when he needs me. Without a doubt, he wants the same. But it will be very difficult, thinking each day how lucky I was (and still am) to have his love and support. How lucky I was to have someone who loved me, who is unselfish, kind and calm. And I gave it all away because I couldn't stand to argue with him so often.\n I am writing here because I want to ask Reddit if there is any advice for me. If staying friends is a good idea, and I need to look at the positives, or is it a bad one, and maybe distancing myself from him would be the best.\n Thank you all in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and some. We love(d) each other dearly.\n Recently we have been having more and more fights. After thinking on it, I told him that it would be better for us both if we went separate ways. No more tears, so to speak.\n Leaving was very hard (as most of the time it is). I was a mess, I can only imagine what he went through, and after the reality of it hit me, my dumb head finally realised, that that's it, I would never see or hear from him again, it became even worse.\n I called him, hoping he didn't hate me, and if he could give me another chance. And he did, but as a chance to remain in each others' lives, as friends. I didn't expect it at all, but I did hurt him, and I was the one to break things off, and not being able to stop acting so childishly. \n I love him a lot, and if it means remaining in his life as friends, that means a lot to me. I want to support him in all of his life achievements, I want to be there for him when he needs me. Without a doubt, he wants the same. But it will be very difficult, thinking each day how lucky I was (and still am) to have his love and support. How lucky I was to have someone who loved me, who is unselfish, kind and calm. And I gave it all away because I couldn't stand to argue with him so often.\n I am writing here because I want to ask Reddit if there is any advice for me. If staying friends is a good idea, and I need to look at the positives, or is it a bad one, and maybe distancing myself from him would be the best.\n Thank you all in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and some. We love(d) each other dearly.\n Recently we have been having more and more fights. After thinking on it, I told him that it would be better for us both if we went separate ways. No more tears, so to speak.\n Leaving was very hard (as most of the time it is). I was a mess, I can only imagine what he went through, and after the reality of it hit me, my dumb head finally realised, that that's it, I would never see or hear from him again, it became even worse.\n I called him, hoping he didn't hate me, and if he could give me another chance. And he did, but as a chance to remain in each others' lives, as friends. I didn't expect it at all, but I did hurt him, and I was the one to break things off, and not being able to stop acting so childishly. \n I love him a lot, and if it means remaining in his life as friends, that means a lot to me. I want to support him in all of his life achievements, I want to be there for him when he needs me. Without a doubt, he wants the same. But it will be very difficult, thinking each day how lucky I was (and still am) to have his love and support. How lucky I was to have someone who loved me, who is unselfish, kind and calm. And I gave it all away because I couldn't stand to argue with him so often.\n I am writing here because I want to ask Reddit if there is any advice for me. If staying friends is a good idea, and I need to look at the positives, or is it a bad one, and maybe distancing myself from him would be the best.\n Thank you all in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half now. He has always suffered from depression but things have taken a turn for the worse lately. He has been extremely angry and sad constantly. It has gotten to the point where he has actually gotten slightly physical with me. He puts me on an emotional roller coaster and I feel as if I can never get off. I am always reassuring him and comforting him, even when he is being totally out of line. It is exhausting. \n\nHowever, he knows that he needs help and he is finally starting to see a therapist. I know he needs my support right now but I am not sure how much I have left in me. \n\nShould I stay and help him through this difficult time? Or can I just walk away? I don't know what to do and I am so grateful for any advice you can give me. I truly love him and want to see him well again but I don't know how much time to give him to change. Please help me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half now. He has always suffered from depression but things have taken a turn for the worse lately. He has been extremely angry and sad constantly. It has gotten to the point where he has actually gotten slightly physical with me. He puts me on an emotional roller coaster and I feel as if I can never get off. I am always reassuring him and comforting him, even when he is being totally out of line. It is exhausting. \n\nHowever, he knows that he needs help and he is finally starting to see a therapist. I know he needs my support right now but I am not sure how much I have left in me. \n\nShould I stay and help him through this difficult time? Or can I just walk away? I don't know what to do and I am so grateful for any advice you can give me. I truly love him and want to see him well again but I don't know how much time to give him to change. Please help me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half now. He has always suffered from depression but things have taken a turn for the worse lately. He has been extremely angry and sad constantly. It has gotten to the point where he has actually gotten slightly physical with me. He puts me on an emotional roller coaster and I feel as if I can never get off. I am always reassuring him and comforting him, even when he is being totally out of line. It is exhausting. \n\nHowever, he knows that he needs help and he is finally starting to see a therapist. I know he needs my support right now but I am not sure how much I have left in me. \n\nShould I stay and help him through this difficult time? Or can I just walk away? I don't know what to do and I am so grateful for any advice you can give me. I truly love him and want to see him well again but I don't know how much time to give him to change. Please help me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half now. He has always suffered from depression but things have taken a turn for the worse lately. He has been extremely angry and sad constantly. It has gotten to the point where he has actually gotten slightly physical with me. He puts me on an emotional roller coaster and I feel as if I can never get off. I am always reassuring him and comforting him, even when he is being totally out of line. It is exhausting. \n\nHowever, he knows that he needs help and he is finally starting to see a therapist. I know he needs my support right now but I am not sure how much I have left in me. \n\nShould I stay and help him through this difficult time? Or can I just walk away? I don't know what to do and I am so grateful for any advice you can give me. I truly love him and want to see him well again but I don't know how much time to give him to change. Please help me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am posting on a throwaway, obvious reasons\n\nI ended a 3 year relationship with my girlfriend \"Wanda\" about a month ago. I loved her, love her still, but we had recurring problems that kept coming up and that I realized were never going to change.\n\nThe breakup was devestating for both of us, and for my own sanity I immediately went no contact and blocked her on my phone, email and all social media.\n\nThis weekend I heard from long time close mutual friends that on Friday Wanda committed suicide. Apparently she left a note, and in it she wrote a lot about me. While I was not the ONLY reason she decided to kill herself, our breakup and the loss of me were definitely a factor.\n\nI am in shock. I haven't eaten in two days and am now typing this for just something to do.\n\nHer funeral is in a couple of days. I guess my main question is, do I go? Just send flowers and/or a card? Do nothing?\n\nShe was my ex so I have no idea what the proper protocol is here. I was not close with her parents, not unfriendly though, but since she listed our breakup as one of the reasons she decided to kill herself I'm thinking my presence might upset her family more.\n\nOn the other hand if I don't go I don't want to appear as a cold unfeeling monster who doesn't care. I really truly do. I truly loved her even though things didn't work out between us. I just have no idea what the right thing to do is.\n\nI'm really fucked up and feeling beyond guilty. If I hadn't broken up with her she might still be alive, or if I hadn't been selfish and gone no contact. \n\n I want to pay my respects but I don't want to be disrespectful to her family in the process. What is the right thing to do in regards to Wanda's funeral?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am posting on a throwaway, obvious reasons\n\nI ended a 3 year relationship with my girlfriend \"Wanda\" about a month ago. I loved her, love her still, but we had recurring problems that kept coming up and that I realized were never going to change.\n\nThe breakup was devestating for both of us, and for my own sanity I immediately went no contact and blocked her on my phone, email and all social media.\n\nThis weekend I heard from long time close mutual friends that on Friday Wanda committed suicide. Apparently she left a note, and in it she wrote a lot about me. While I was not the ONLY reason she decided to kill herself, our breakup and the loss of me were definitely a factor.\n\nI am in shock. I haven't eaten in two days and am now typing this for just something to do.\n\nHer funeral is in a couple of days. I guess my main question is, do I go? Just send flowers and/or a card? Do nothing?\n\nShe was my ex so I have no idea what the proper protocol is here. I was not close with her parents, not unfriendly though, but since she listed our breakup as one of the reasons she decided to kill herself I'm thinking my presence might upset her family more.\n\nOn the other hand if I don't go I don't want to appear as a cold unfeeling monster who doesn't care. I really truly do. I truly loved her even though things didn't work out between us. I just have no idea what the right thing to do is.\n\nI'm really fucked up and feeling beyond guilty. If I hadn't broken up with her she might still be alive, or if I hadn't been selfish and gone no contact. \n\n I want to pay my respects but I don't want to be disrespectful to her family in the process. What is the right thing to do in regards to Wanda's funeral?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am posting on a throwaway, obvious reasons\n\nI ended a 3 year relationship with my girlfriend \"Wanda\" about a month ago. I loved her, love her still, but we had recurring problems that kept coming up and that I realized were never going to change.\n\nThe breakup was devestating for both of us, and for my own sanity I immediately went no contact and blocked her on my phone, email and all social media.\n\nThis weekend I heard from long time close mutual friends that on Friday Wanda committed suicide. Apparently she left a note, and in it she wrote a lot about me. While I was not the ONLY reason she decided to kill herself, our breakup and the loss of me were definitely a factor.\n\nI am in shock. I haven't eaten in two days and am now typing this for just something to do.\n\nHer funeral is in a couple of days. I guess my main question is, do I go? Just send flowers and/or a card? Do nothing?\n\nShe was my ex so I have no idea what the proper protocol is here. I was not close with her parents, not unfriendly though, but since she listed our breakup as one of the reasons she decided to kill herself I'm thinking my presence might upset her family more.\n\nOn the other hand if I don't go I don't want to appear as a cold unfeeling monster who doesn't care. I really truly do. I truly loved her even though things didn't work out between us. I just have no idea what the right thing to do is.\n\nI'm really fucked up and feeling beyond guilty. If I hadn't broken up with her she might still be alive, or if I hadn't been selfish and gone no contact. \n\n I want to pay my respects but I don't want to be disrespectful to her family in the process. What is the right thing to do in regards to Wanda's funeral?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am posting on a throwaway, obvious reasons\n\nI ended a 3 year relationship with my girlfriend \"Wanda\" about a month ago. I loved her, love her still, but we had recurring problems that kept coming up and that I realized were never going to change.\n\nThe breakup was devestating for both of us, and for my own sanity I immediately went no contact and blocked her on my phone, email and all social media.\n\nThis weekend I heard from long time close mutual friends that on Friday Wanda committed suicide. Apparently she left a note, and in it she wrote a lot about me. While I was not the ONLY reason she decided to kill herself, our breakup and the loss of me were definitely a factor.\n\nI am in shock. I haven't eaten in two days and am now typing this for just something to do.\n\nHer funeral is in a couple of days. I guess my main question is, do I go? Just send flowers and/or a card? Do nothing?\n\nShe was my ex so I have no idea what the proper protocol is here. I was not close with her parents, not unfriendly though, but since she listed our breakup as one of the reasons she decided to kill herself I'm thinking my presence might upset her family more.\n\nOn the other hand if I don't go I don't want to appear as a cold unfeeling monster who doesn't care. I really truly do. I truly loved her even though things didn't work out between us. I just have no idea what the right thing to do is.\n\nI'm really fucked up and feeling beyond guilty. If I hadn't broken up with her she might still be alive, or if I hadn't been selfish and gone no contact. \n\n I want to pay my respects but I don't want to be disrespectful to her family in the process. What is the right thing to do in regards to Wanda's funeral?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi,\n\nI am a average looking freshman student at a good university in the US. I've never had a girlfriend, gotten as far as hooking up with someone but nothing else and am now thrown into this huge dating scene. I have the confidence to dance with random girls, but there is one in particular who lives a floor above me.\n\nWe are best friends, but I know we aren't stuck in the 'friend zone'. The only problem is that she has a boyfriend who lives in her town and also goes to this school (he lives pretty far off campus though). Anyways, we usually hang out/drink/party together during the weekends with a few other kids, apparently we kissed once when she temporarily broke up with her bf and I confessed my feelings to her after I drank way to much. \n\nThat leads me to my main point, she has a boyfriend that is a dick but she still sticks with him for the most part. He reads through her phone and email, accuses her of flirting with other guys while hitting on girls himself (we walked past him holding someone elses hand once) and she's broken up with him at least twice so far. \n\nI want nothing more than for her to be happy, but me, all of her best friends at home and all of her friends here think she should break up with John. Yet even after pushing/shoving/grabbing/holding, making her cry, stealing her phone and computer and everything else they always get back together.\n\nI'm really sorry this is unorganized, I've been a contributing member of reddit for 2 years (this is obviously a throwaway), and although my thoughts are usually organized and well presented I cant quite seem to organize my thoughts on this topic, especially in a message."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi,\n\nI am a average looking freshman student at a good university in the US. I've never had a girlfriend, gotten as far as hooking up with someone but nothing else and am now thrown into this huge dating scene. I have the confidence to dance with random girls, but there is one in particular who lives a floor above me.\n\nWe are best friends, but I know we aren't stuck in the 'friend zone'. The only problem is that she has a boyfriend who lives in her town and also goes to this school (he lives pretty far off campus though). Anyways, we usually hang out/drink/party together during the weekends with a few other kids, apparently we kissed once when she temporarily broke up with her bf and I confessed my feelings to her after I drank way to much. \n\nThat leads me to my main point, she has a boyfriend that is a dick but she still sticks with him for the most part. He reads through her phone and email, accuses her of flirting with other guys while hitting on girls himself (we walked past him holding someone elses hand once) and she's broken up with him at least twice so far. \n\nI want nothing more than for her to be happy, but me, all of her best friends at home and all of her friends here think she should break up with John. Yet even after pushing/shoving/grabbing/holding, making her cry, stealing her phone and computer and everything else they always get back together.\n\nI'm really sorry this is unorganized, I've been a contributing member of reddit for 2 years (this is obviously a throwaway), and although my thoughts are usually organized and well presented I cant quite seem to organize my thoughts on this topic, especially in a message."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi,\n\nI am a average looking freshman student at a good university in the US. I've never had a girlfriend, gotten as far as hooking up with someone but nothing else and am now thrown into this huge dating scene. I have the confidence to dance with random girls, but there is one in particular who lives a floor above me.\n\nWe are best friends, but I know we aren't stuck in the 'friend zone'. The only problem is that she has a boyfriend who lives in her town and also goes to this school (he lives pretty far off campus though). Anyways, we usually hang out/drink/party together during the weekends with a few other kids, apparently we kissed once when she temporarily broke up with her bf and I confessed my feelings to her after I drank way to much. \n\nThat leads me to my main point, she has a boyfriend that is a dick but she still sticks with him for the most part. He reads through her phone and email, accuses her of flirting with other guys while hitting on girls himself (we walked past him holding someone elses hand once) and she's broken up with him at least twice so far. \n\nI want nothing more than for her to be happy, but me, all of her best friends at home and all of her friends here think she should break up with John. Yet even after pushing/shoving/grabbing/holding, making her cry, stealing her phone and computer and everything else they always get back together.\n\nI'm really sorry this is unorganized, I've been a contributing member of reddit for 2 years (this is obviously a throwaway), and although my thoughts are usually organized and well presented I cant quite seem to organize my thoughts on this topic, especially in a message."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi,\n\nI am a average looking freshman student at a good university in the US. I've never had a girlfriend, gotten as far as hooking up with someone but nothing else and am now thrown into this huge dating scene. I have the confidence to dance with random girls, but there is one in particular who lives a floor above me.\n\nWe are best friends, but I know we aren't stuck in the 'friend zone'. The only problem is that she has a boyfriend who lives in her town and also goes to this school (he lives pretty far off campus though). Anyways, we usually hang out/drink/party together during the weekends with a few other kids, apparently we kissed once when she temporarily broke up with her bf and I confessed my feelings to her after I drank way to much. \n\nThat leads me to my main point, she has a boyfriend that is a dick but she still sticks with him for the most part. He reads through her phone and email, accuses her of flirting with other guys while hitting on girls himself (we walked past him holding someone elses hand once) and she's broken up with him at least twice so far. \n\nI want nothing more than for her to be happy, but me, all of her best friends at home and all of her friends here think she should break up with John. Yet even after pushing/shoving/grabbing/holding, making her cry, stealing her phone and computer and everything else they always get back together.\n\nI'm really sorry this is unorganized, I've been a contributing member of reddit for 2 years (this is obviously a throwaway), and although my thoughts are usually organized and well presented I cant quite seem to organize my thoughts on this topic, especially in a message."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story from the beginning. I have a friend who is gay. for the past 6 months he has been receiving phone calls from two different men that do nothing but harass him when he answers. It's seriously evil shit too (think Westboro Baptist Church, without the churchy stuff). He has received numerous death threats and countless threats of physical violence. Mind you, they have thus far been empty threats, but that is hardly important. He receives several calls EVERY SINGLE DAY from these people. He stopped answering the calls months ago when I told him if he stopped answering they would get bored and just go away, but they didn't. He has changed his phone number twice but they have found the new number ever since. This leads me to believe they are a member of his social circle somewhere, probably on facebook or some other social network.\nMy friend has called the police several times, but they can't (or won't) help. The numbers come through as UNKNOWN when they call, obviously they are blocking their numbers. I am at a loss as to what to do at this point. He has managed to find out what the numbers are, but I will not post them here because I have no way of being absolutely 100% certain that they are actually the right numbers, and it's against the rules."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story from the beginning. I have a friend who is gay. for the past 6 months he has been receiving phone calls from two different men that do nothing but harass him when he answers. It's seriously evil shit too (think Westboro Baptist Church, without the churchy stuff). He has received numerous death threats and countless threats of physical violence. Mind you, they have thus far been empty threats, but that is hardly important. He receives several calls EVERY SINGLE DAY from these people. He stopped answering the calls months ago when I told him if he stopped answering they would get bored and just go away, but they didn't. He has changed his phone number twice but they have found the new number ever since. This leads me to believe they are a member of his social circle somewhere, probably on facebook or some other social network.\nMy friend has called the police several times, but they can't (or won't) help. The numbers come through as UNKNOWN when they call, obviously they are blocking their numbers. I am at a loss as to what to do at this point. He has managed to find out what the numbers are, but I will not post them here because I have no way of being absolutely 100% certain that they are actually the right numbers, and it's against the rules."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story from the beginning. I have a friend who is gay. for the past 6 months he has been receiving phone calls from two different men that do nothing but harass him when he answers. It's seriously evil shit too (think Westboro Baptist Church, without the churchy stuff). He has received numerous death threats and countless threats of physical violence. Mind you, they have thus far been empty threats, but that is hardly important. He receives several calls EVERY SINGLE DAY from these people. He stopped answering the calls months ago when I told him if he stopped answering they would get bored and just go away, but they didn't. He has changed his phone number twice but they have found the new number ever since. This leads me to believe they are a member of his social circle somewhere, probably on facebook or some other social network.\nMy friend has called the police several times, but they can't (or won't) help. The numbers come through as UNKNOWN when they call, obviously they are blocking their numbers. I am at a loss as to what to do at this point. He has managed to find out what the numbers are, but I will not post them here because I have no way of being absolutely 100% certain that they are actually the right numbers, and it's against the rules."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the story from the beginning. I have a friend who is gay. for the past 6 months he has been receiving phone calls from two different men that do nothing but harass him when he answers. It's seriously evil shit too (think Westboro Baptist Church, without the churchy stuff). He has received numerous death threats and countless threats of physical violence. Mind you, they have thus far been empty threats, but that is hardly important. He receives several calls EVERY SINGLE DAY from these people. He stopped answering the calls months ago when I told him if he stopped answering they would get bored and just go away, but they didn't. He has changed his phone number twice but they have found the new number ever since. This leads me to believe they are a member of his social circle somewhere, probably on facebook or some other social network.\nMy friend has called the police several times, but they can't (or won't) help. The numbers come through as UNKNOWN when they call, obviously they are blocking their numbers. I am at a loss as to what to do at this point. He has managed to find out what the numbers are, but I will not post them here because I have no way of being absolutely 100% certain that they are actually the right numbers, and it's against the rules."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this has been occurring for quite some time, with no end in sight. It's gotten a bit overbearing now, and well, let me tell you the story.\n\nQuite some time ago, my mom and dad got divorced. Before that, it was my mom going through my room. It annoyed me - but she's female, not too bad. Once she left, my dad started doing it. It was only occasional and was more like taking out my trash and opening the blinds. \n\nFor the past couple of years now, its been him moving stuff around, throwing away things he \"thinks\" is trash (but really, it isn't), and literally going through my room like he's looking for something specific. Now, this should be noted that I'm not one to clean up my room, so I have bras and underwear lying around. Literally there have been times when I have set a couple of bras right there on my bed, completely visible to someone going into my room, yet he still went into my room. \n\nAnd now it's occurring every time I leave the house. Even for a couple of hours. It's really starting to creep me out, to the point where I can't be around him because I feel violated in a sense that he's basically seen my all of my undergarments.\n\nI've tried talking to him. Every time it's happened, I've come to him asking him to stop and not do it and explaining why. And he completely ignores me to the point that I go back into my room feeling completely shitty, ignored, and as I mentioned, slightly violated to the point that it's made me cry on more than a few occasions (should also be noted that I hardly cry).\n\nDoes anyone have any advice on how to make this stop, please? I can't handle this anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this has been occurring for quite some time, with no end in sight. It's gotten a bit overbearing now, and well, let me tell you the story.\n\nQuite some time ago, my mom and dad got divorced. Before that, it was my mom going through my room. It annoyed me - but she's female, not too bad. Once she left, my dad started doing it. It was only occasional and was more like taking out my trash and opening the blinds. \n\nFor the past couple of years now, its been him moving stuff around, throwing away things he \"thinks\" is trash (but really, it isn't), and literally going through my room like he's looking for something specific. Now, this should be noted that I'm not one to clean up my room, so I have bras and underwear lying around. Literally there have been times when I have set a couple of bras right there on my bed, completely visible to someone going into my room, yet he still went into my room. \n\nAnd now it's occurring every time I leave the house. Even for a couple of hours. It's really starting to creep me out, to the point where I can't be around him because I feel violated in a sense that he's basically seen my all of my undergarments.\n\nI've tried talking to him. Every time it's happened, I've come to him asking him to stop and not do it and explaining why. And he completely ignores me to the point that I go back into my room feeling completely shitty, ignored, and as I mentioned, slightly violated to the point that it's made me cry on more than a few occasions (should also be noted that I hardly cry).\n\nDoes anyone have any advice on how to make this stop, please? I can't handle this anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this has been occurring for quite some time, with no end in sight. It's gotten a bit overbearing now, and well, let me tell you the story.\n\nQuite some time ago, my mom and dad got divorced. Before that, it was my mom going through my room. It annoyed me - but she's female, not too bad. Once she left, my dad started doing it. It was only occasional and was more like taking out my trash and opening the blinds. \n\nFor the past couple of years now, its been him moving stuff around, throwing away things he \"thinks\" is trash (but really, it isn't), and literally going through my room like he's looking for something specific. Now, this should be noted that I'm not one to clean up my room, so I have bras and underwear lying around. Literally there have been times when I have set a couple of bras right there on my bed, completely visible to someone going into my room, yet he still went into my room. \n\nAnd now it's occurring every time I leave the house. Even for a couple of hours. It's really starting to creep me out, to the point where I can't be around him because I feel violated in a sense that he's basically seen my all of my undergarments.\n\nI've tried talking to him. Every time it's happened, I've come to him asking him to stop and not do it and explaining why. And he completely ignores me to the point that I go back into my room feeling completely shitty, ignored, and as I mentioned, slightly violated to the point that it's made me cry on more than a few occasions (should also be noted that I hardly cry).\n\nDoes anyone have any advice on how to make this stop, please? I can't handle this anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this has been occurring for quite some time, with no end in sight. It's gotten a bit overbearing now, and well, let me tell you the story.\n\nQuite some time ago, my mom and dad got divorced. Before that, it was my mom going through my room. It annoyed me - but she's female, not too bad. Once she left, my dad started doing it. It was only occasional and was more like taking out my trash and opening the blinds. \n\nFor the past couple of years now, its been him moving stuff around, throwing away things he \"thinks\" is trash (but really, it isn't), and literally going through my room like he's looking for something specific. Now, this should be noted that I'm not one to clean up my room, so I have bras and underwear lying around. Literally there have been times when I have set a couple of bras right there on my bed, completely visible to someone going into my room, yet he still went into my room. \n\nAnd now it's occurring every time I leave the house. Even for a couple of hours. It's really starting to creep me out, to the point where I can't be around him because I feel violated in a sense that he's basically seen my all of my undergarments.\n\nI've tried talking to him. Every time it's happened, I've come to him asking him to stop and not do it and explaining why. And he completely ignores me to the point that I go back into my room feeling completely shitty, ignored, and as I mentioned, slightly violated to the point that it's made me cry on more than a few occasions (should also be noted that I hardly cry).\n\nDoes anyone have any advice on how to make this stop, please? I can't handle this anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I advised my landlord several months ahead of time that I was going to have a visitor for the duration of the summer, and offered to increase my share of the electric bill for the duration. He agreed, and I have all our text exchanges.\n\nWe ended up getting married, my visitor and I, and her visit will be extending 1 month past the end of summer in total, leaving mid-October. Now my landlord has said he wants $100/month for the whole time she's been here.\n\nI counter-offered $50/month on top of the extra utilities I already offered. He said he wants $100/month. \n\nI would be okay with paying for the additional month over the original planned visit, I guess, but I don't think it's fair to change the terms like that retroactively, and I don't want to just hand my landlord an extra $600 for no real reason. I also kind of suspect that a major reason I'm being asked for this money is that there's a suite on the property the landlord is having a hard time renting out (b/c it costs too much imho), and they want to recoup some of that from me.\n\nAm I in the wrong? I have historically had a good relationship with my landlord and I want to keep it that way. I also don't want to be a pushover, though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I advised my landlord several months ahead of time that I was going to have a visitor for the duration of the summer, and offered to increase my share of the electric bill for the duration. He agreed, and I have all our text exchanges.\n\nWe ended up getting married, my visitor and I, and her visit will be extending 1 month past the end of summer in total, leaving mid-October. Now my landlord has said he wants $100/month for the whole time she's been here.\n\nI counter-offered $50/month on top of the extra utilities I already offered. He said he wants $100/month. \n\nI would be okay with paying for the additional month over the original planned visit, I guess, but I don't think it's fair to change the terms like that retroactively, and I don't want to just hand my landlord an extra $600 for no real reason. I also kind of suspect that a major reason I'm being asked for this money is that there's a suite on the property the landlord is having a hard time renting out (b/c it costs too much imho), and they want to recoup some of that from me.\n\nAm I in the wrong? I have historically had a good relationship with my landlord and I want to keep it that way. I also don't want to be a pushover, though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I advised my landlord several months ahead of time that I was going to have a visitor for the duration of the summer, and offered to increase my share of the electric bill for the duration. He agreed, and I have all our text exchanges.\n\nWe ended up getting married, my visitor and I, and her visit will be extending 1 month past the end of summer in total, leaving mid-October. Now my landlord has said he wants $100/month for the whole time she's been here.\n\nI counter-offered $50/month on top of the extra utilities I already offered. He said he wants $100/month. \n\nI would be okay with paying for the additional month over the original planned visit, I guess, but I don't think it's fair to change the terms like that retroactively, and I don't want to just hand my landlord an extra $600 for no real reason. I also kind of suspect that a major reason I'm being asked for this money is that there's a suite on the property the landlord is having a hard time renting out (b/c it costs too much imho), and they want to recoup some of that from me.\n\nAm I in the wrong? I have historically had a good relationship with my landlord and I want to keep it that way. I also don't want to be a pushover, though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I advised my landlord several months ahead of time that I was going to have a visitor for the duration of the summer, and offered to increase my share of the electric bill for the duration. He agreed, and I have all our text exchanges.\n\nWe ended up getting married, my visitor and I, and her visit will be extending 1 month past the end of summer in total, leaving mid-October. Now my landlord has said he wants $100/month for the whole time she's been here.\n\nI counter-offered $50/month on top of the extra utilities I already offered. He said he wants $100/month. \n\nI would be okay with paying for the additional month over the original planned visit, I guess, but I don't think it's fair to change the terms like that retroactively, and I don't want to just hand my landlord an extra $600 for no real reason. I also kind of suspect that a major reason I'm being asked for this money is that there's a suite on the property the landlord is having a hard time renting out (b/c it costs too much imho), and they want to recoup some of that from me.\n\nAm I in the wrong? I have historically had a good relationship with my landlord and I want to keep it that way. I also don't want to be a pushover, though."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Here's my channel.]( As you can see, it's a channel for archiving radio and video interviews. I've been building it for some time and I've got a nice group of Radiohead fans subscribed to me as well.\n\nLong story short, exactly what I said in the thread's title happened. I uploaded one video and it got taken down almost immediately. After a few days, I noticed that I couldn't upload full-length (longer than 15 minutes, that is) videos any more. Which cripples my channel immensely.\n\nThere are a couple of things I'd like to make clear:\n\n1. Yes, I know that my channel is very much in gray area as it is. I try to be as careful as possible, though. I edit out any music or otherwise clearly copyrighted material that some of the recordings have. I also don't profit (Youtube has offered me the chance to monetize and become a partner, I have declined) off the channel, it's purely for archiving videos and audio that might otherwise be lost.\n\n2. I'm not arguing against the fact that what I uploaded infringed someone's copyright. I'm just gutted that they punished me so severely without any prior warnings, especially considering my track record (195 videos without any complaints)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Here's my channel.]( As you can see, it's a channel for archiving radio and video interviews. I've been building it for some time and I've got a nice group of Radiohead fans subscribed to me as well.\n\nLong story short, exactly what I said in the thread's title happened. I uploaded one video and it got taken down almost immediately. After a few days, I noticed that I couldn't upload full-length (longer than 15 minutes, that is) videos any more. Which cripples my channel immensely.\n\nThere are a couple of things I'd like to make clear:\n\n1. Yes, I know that my channel is very much in gray area as it is. I try to be as careful as possible, though. I edit out any music or otherwise clearly copyrighted material that some of the recordings have. I also don't profit (Youtube has offered me the chance to monetize and become a partner, I have declined) off the channel, it's purely for archiving videos and audio that might otherwise be lost.\n\n2. I'm not arguing against the fact that what I uploaded infringed someone's copyright. I'm just gutted that they punished me so severely without any prior warnings, especially considering my track record (195 videos without any complaints)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Here's my channel.]( As you can see, it's a channel for archiving radio and video interviews. I've been building it for some time and I've got a nice group of Radiohead fans subscribed to me as well.\n\nLong story short, exactly what I said in the thread's title happened. I uploaded one video and it got taken down almost immediately. After a few days, I noticed that I couldn't upload full-length (longer than 15 minutes, that is) videos any more. Which cripples my channel immensely.\n\nThere are a couple of things I'd like to make clear:\n\n1. Yes, I know that my channel is very much in gray area as it is. I try to be as careful as possible, though. I edit out any music or otherwise clearly copyrighted material that some of the recordings have. I also don't profit (Youtube has offered me the chance to monetize and become a partner, I have declined) off the channel, it's purely for archiving videos and audio that might otherwise be lost.\n\n2. I'm not arguing against the fact that what I uploaded infringed someone's copyright. I'm just gutted that they punished me so severely without any prior warnings, especially considering my track record (195 videos without any complaints)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [Here's my channel.]( As you can see, it's a channel for archiving radio and video interviews. I've been building it for some time and I've got a nice group of Radiohead fans subscribed to me as well.\n\nLong story short, exactly what I said in the thread's title happened. I uploaded one video and it got taken down almost immediately. After a few days, I noticed that I couldn't upload full-length (longer than 15 minutes, that is) videos any more. Which cripples my channel immensely.\n\nThere are a couple of things I'd like to make clear:\n\n1. Yes, I know that my channel is very much in gray area as it is. I try to be as careful as possible, though. I edit out any music or otherwise clearly copyrighted material that some of the recordings have. I also don't profit (Youtube has offered me the chance to monetize and become a partner, I have declined) off the channel, it's purely for archiving videos and audio that might otherwise be lost.\n\n2. I'm not arguing against the fact that what I uploaded infringed someone's copyright. I'm just gutted that they punished me so severely without any prior warnings, especially considering my track record (195 videos without any complaints)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright so I (M 20) really like this girl (20f). She broke up with her boyfriend a few months ago and he's done things during it to hurt her. She's pretty broken up about it, recently I asked her out and she basically said it was a bad timing because of this and she wasn't ready to date yet, which I don't think is an excuse based on how broken hearted she is. This weekend she's been texting me a lot looking for help with this situation. I recently convinced her to come up on Sunday to get out of bed and come up and see me at school to get her mind off of it. So we hung out yesterday alone for a few hours and just talked about shit, some of it pertaining to her heart ache. Some things where along the lines we made plans to hang out and do various things over the summer. So right now I feel like I'm in a good spot and i'm getting a good vibe. But having been in the friendzone before I'm afraid of being too available and getting myself in the friend zone again. What's your advice for me so I don't screw this up? Especially since I want to give her the time she needs to heal."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright so I (M 20) really like this girl (20f). She broke up with her boyfriend a few months ago and he's done things during it to hurt her. She's pretty broken up about it, recently I asked her out and she basically said it was a bad timing because of this and she wasn't ready to date yet, which I don't think is an excuse based on how broken hearted she is. This weekend she's been texting me a lot looking for help with this situation. I recently convinced her to come up on Sunday to get out of bed and come up and see me at school to get her mind off of it. So we hung out yesterday alone for a few hours and just talked about shit, some of it pertaining to her heart ache. Some things where along the lines we made plans to hang out and do various things over the summer. So right now I feel like I'm in a good spot and i'm getting a good vibe. But having been in the friendzone before I'm afraid of being too available and getting myself in the friend zone again. What's your advice for me so I don't screw this up? Especially since I want to give her the time she needs to heal."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright so I (M 20) really like this girl (20f). She broke up with her boyfriend a few months ago and he's done things during it to hurt her. She's pretty broken up about it, recently I asked her out and she basically said it was a bad timing because of this and she wasn't ready to date yet, which I don't think is an excuse based on how broken hearted she is. This weekend she's been texting me a lot looking for help with this situation. I recently convinced her to come up on Sunday to get out of bed and come up and see me at school to get her mind off of it. So we hung out yesterday alone for a few hours and just talked about shit, some of it pertaining to her heart ache. Some things where along the lines we made plans to hang out and do various things over the summer. So right now I feel like I'm in a good spot and i'm getting a good vibe. But having been in the friendzone before I'm afraid of being too available and getting myself in the friend zone again. What's your advice for me so I don't screw this up? Especially since I want to give her the time she needs to heal."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright so I (M 20) really like this girl (20f). She broke up with her boyfriend a few months ago and he's done things during it to hurt her. She's pretty broken up about it, recently I asked her out and she basically said it was a bad timing because of this and she wasn't ready to date yet, which I don't think is an excuse based on how broken hearted she is. This weekend she's been texting me a lot looking for help with this situation. I recently convinced her to come up on Sunday to get out of bed and come up and see me at school to get her mind off of it. So we hung out yesterday alone for a few hours and just talked about shit, some of it pertaining to her heart ache. Some things where along the lines we made plans to hang out and do various things over the summer. So right now I feel like I'm in a good spot and i'm getting a good vibe. But having been in the friendzone before I'm afraid of being too available and getting myself in the friend zone again. What's your advice for me so I don't screw this up? Especially since I want to give her the time she needs to heal."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I’m not looking for advice or tactics and tips. There’s plenty of that online and plenty of my friends telling me what to do. Sometimes, it just doesn’t work, no matter how awesome your advice is. Getting customers is hard. \n\nDo you or have you struggled with this? Join me as I wallow in my self pity so I don’t feel alone. Share your pain. I’ll start :)\n\nI started my own online business with much hoopla and announced it to everyone. Big mistake. Now that I’m struggling to get customers, everyone is coming out of the woodwork to tell me what to do and telling me not to quit. Ironically, their support now makes me feel like more of a failure. If I stop now, it’s like I’m letting everyone down. If I don’t, I may just be digging a deeper hole. I feel like I’ve tried everything, I invested my time and money, but it’s just not working out. None of my friends are entrepreneurial and I’m tired of getting advice. I thought there would be redditors that could relate and we could share our struggles."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I’m not looking for advice or tactics and tips. There’s plenty of that online and plenty of my friends telling me what to do. Sometimes, it just doesn’t work, no matter how awesome your advice is. Getting customers is hard. \n\nDo you or have you struggled with this? Join me as I wallow in my self pity so I don’t feel alone. Share your pain. I’ll start :)\n\nI started my own online business with much hoopla and announced it to everyone. Big mistake. Now that I’m struggling to get customers, everyone is coming out of the woodwork to tell me what to do and telling me not to quit. Ironically, their support now makes me feel like more of a failure. If I stop now, it’s like I’m letting everyone down. If I don’t, I may just be digging a deeper hole. I feel like I’ve tried everything, I invested my time and money, but it’s just not working out. None of my friends are entrepreneurial and I’m tired of getting advice. I thought there would be redditors that could relate and we could share our struggles."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I’m not looking for advice or tactics and tips. There’s plenty of that online and plenty of my friends telling me what to do. Sometimes, it just doesn’t work, no matter how awesome your advice is. Getting customers is hard. \n\nDo you or have you struggled with this? Join me as I wallow in my self pity so I don’t feel alone. Share your pain. I’ll start :)\n\nI started my own online business with much hoopla and announced it to everyone. Big mistake. Now that I’m struggling to get customers, everyone is coming out of the woodwork to tell me what to do and telling me not to quit. Ironically, their support now makes me feel like more of a failure. If I stop now, it’s like I’m letting everyone down. If I don’t, I may just be digging a deeper hole. I feel like I’ve tried everything, I invested my time and money, but it’s just not working out. None of my friends are entrepreneurial and I’m tired of getting advice. I thought there would be redditors that could relate and we could share our struggles."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I’m not looking for advice or tactics and tips. There’s plenty of that online and plenty of my friends telling me what to do. Sometimes, it just doesn’t work, no matter how awesome your advice is. Getting customers is hard. \n\nDo you or have you struggled with this? Join me as I wallow in my self pity so I don’t feel alone. Share your pain. I’ll start :)\n\nI started my own online business with much hoopla and announced it to everyone. Big mistake. Now that I’m struggling to get customers, everyone is coming out of the woodwork to tell me what to do and telling me not to quit. Ironically, their support now makes me feel like more of a failure. If I stop now, it’s like I’m letting everyone down. If I don’t, I may just be digging a deeper hole. I feel like I’ve tried everything, I invested my time and money, but it’s just not working out. None of my friends are entrepreneurial and I’m tired of getting advice. I thought there would be redditors that could relate and we could share our struggles."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well we talked it out. it turn out the friend I was talking to at the party *likes* me (which I was oblivious to) and I only found at this morning. The girl was a close friend and that kind of complicates things I guess.\n\nWhile I was writing that post my girlfriend told me she was going to go drink and we were texting (well she was sending gibberish) and talking on the phone for a bit.\n\nShe was obviously drunk and I asked her were she was and it turns out she was at a friends house (same friends house where we had the Christmas Eve Party) - just to clarify that friend is her ex-boyfriend so. yeah. They're friends still.\n\nShe went back to her house and it turns out her family was throwing a party (this is now Christmas day by the way). She reeked of booze and yea.\n\nMonths before I didn't want to fall in that \"hole\" where we're currently in where we fight immaturely and don't talk about our feelings. \n\nWe didn't break up but I admitted I screwed up. I'm going over her place now to eat with her and the first thing we'll talk about is. communication.\n\nThanks for taking your time and reading through my mess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well we talked it out. it turn out the friend I was talking to at the party *likes* me (which I was oblivious to) and I only found at this morning. The girl was a close friend and that kind of complicates things I guess.\n\nWhile I was writing that post my girlfriend told me she was going to go drink and we were texting (well she was sending gibberish) and talking on the phone for a bit.\n\nShe was obviously drunk and I asked her were she was and it turns out she was at a friends house (same friends house where we had the Christmas Eve Party) - just to clarify that friend is her ex-boyfriend so. yeah. They're friends still.\n\nShe went back to her house and it turns out her family was throwing a party (this is now Christmas day by the way). She reeked of booze and yea.\n\nMonths before I didn't want to fall in that \"hole\" where we're currently in where we fight immaturely and don't talk about our feelings. \n\nWe didn't break up but I admitted I screwed up. I'm going over her place now to eat with her and the first thing we'll talk about is. communication.\n\nThanks for taking your time and reading through my mess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well we talked it out. it turn out the friend I was talking to at the party *likes* me (which I was oblivious to) and I only found at this morning. The girl was a close friend and that kind of complicates things I guess.\n\nWhile I was writing that post my girlfriend told me she was going to go drink and we were texting (well she was sending gibberish) and talking on the phone for a bit.\n\nShe was obviously drunk and I asked her were she was and it turns out she was at a friends house (same friends house where we had the Christmas Eve Party) - just to clarify that friend is her ex-boyfriend so. yeah. They're friends still.\n\nShe went back to her house and it turns out her family was throwing a party (this is now Christmas day by the way). She reeked of booze and yea.\n\nMonths before I didn't want to fall in that \"hole\" where we're currently in where we fight immaturely and don't talk about our feelings. \n\nWe didn't break up but I admitted I screwed up. I'm going over her place now to eat with her and the first thing we'll talk about is. communication.\n\nThanks for taking your time and reading through my mess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well we talked it out. it turn out the friend I was talking to at the party *likes* me (which I was oblivious to) and I only found at this morning. The girl was a close friend and that kind of complicates things I guess.\n\nWhile I was writing that post my girlfriend told me she was going to go drink and we were texting (well she was sending gibberish) and talking on the phone for a bit.\n\nShe was obviously drunk and I asked her were she was and it turns out she was at a friends house (same friends house where we had the Christmas Eve Party) - just to clarify that friend is her ex-boyfriend so. yeah. They're friends still.\n\nShe went back to her house and it turns out her family was throwing a party (this is now Christmas day by the way). She reeked of booze and yea.\n\nMonths before I didn't want to fall in that \"hole\" where we're currently in where we fight immaturely and don't talk about our feelings. \n\nWe didn't break up but I admitted I screwed up. I'm going over her place now to eat with her and the first thing we'll talk about is. communication.\n\nThanks for taking your time and reading through my mess."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I found out my girlfriend had been developing feelings for another guy. I found her secret tumblr and it had all these posts about how she finds his scent so comforting and how she wanted to kiss him really badly. We both know the kid as he is part of our mutual friend group. She didn't act on these urges but I still felt betrayed so I left her. \n\nI should add that when I confronted her she adamantly denied these and told me that she wrote those because she was \"angry and not thinking rationally\". Was that a cop out on her part?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I found out my girlfriend had been developing feelings for another guy. I found her secret tumblr and it had all these posts about how she finds his scent so comforting and how she wanted to kiss him really badly. We both know the kid as he is part of our mutual friend group. She didn't act on these urges but I still felt betrayed so I left her. \n\nI should add that when I confronted her she adamantly denied these and told me that she wrote those because she was \"angry and not thinking rationally\". Was that a cop out on her part?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I found out my girlfriend had been developing feelings for another guy. I found her secret tumblr and it had all these posts about how she finds his scent so comforting and how she wanted to kiss him really badly. We both know the kid as he is part of our mutual friend group. She didn't act on these urges but I still felt betrayed so I left her. \n\nI should add that when I confronted her she adamantly denied these and told me that she wrote those because she was \"angry and not thinking rationally\". Was that a cop out on her part?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I found out my girlfriend had been developing feelings for another guy. I found her secret tumblr and it had all these posts about how she finds his scent so comforting and how she wanted to kiss him really badly. We both know the kid as he is part of our mutual friend group. She didn't act on these urges but I still felt betrayed so I left her. \n\nI should add that when I confronted her she adamantly denied these and told me that she wrote those because she was \"angry and not thinking rationally\". Was that a cop out on her part?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello.\n\nBefore my current girlfriend and I got together, she had a couple of flings with two of my friends (one after the other, not at the same time!). She didn't pursue anything serious with them, just casual sex, which didn't bother me at the time. I still liked her. While she was having those flings, she started to express romantic interest in me. We started talking, and she stopped hooking up with those guys. Eventually, we established a relationship.\n\nJust recently, I started being very jealous since she still hangs out with them once in a while. It's inevitable that they hang out once a while since she's a very talented hair stylist, and she cuts hair for everyone. But it still bugs me.\n\nI guess what's really bothering me is that the guy she had a longer fling with actually fell for her when they were hooking up, and I feel very uncomfortable and incredibly jealous when they're around each other.\n\nI've expressed my discomfort with her, and she didn't brush me off or disregard my concern. She was very understanding and she assures me that she loves me and that she's not a cheater. I believe her, but I can't really pinpoint whether I have distrust towards her or towards the guys.\n\nOther than that, we have a very wonderful relationship. We're practically inseparable. The only time she'll make time to cut their hair and hang out with them is when our days off from work don't align together, which happens only once every two or three weeks. Soo I get overly jealous every two or three weeks haha.\n\nI'm sorry if my description of my situation doesn't make sense. I can try to clarify any confusing parts if you have any questions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello.\n\nBefore my current girlfriend and I got together, she had a couple of flings with two of my friends (one after the other, not at the same time!). She didn't pursue anything serious with them, just casual sex, which didn't bother me at the time. I still liked her. While she was having those flings, she started to express romantic interest in me. We started talking, and she stopped hooking up with those guys. Eventually, we established a relationship.\n\nJust recently, I started being very jealous since she still hangs out with them once in a while. It's inevitable that they hang out once a while since she's a very talented hair stylist, and she cuts hair for everyone. But it still bugs me.\n\nI guess what's really bothering me is that the guy she had a longer fling with actually fell for her when they were hooking up, and I feel very uncomfortable and incredibly jealous when they're around each other.\n\nI've expressed my discomfort with her, and she didn't brush me off or disregard my concern. She was very understanding and she assures me that she loves me and that she's not a cheater. I believe her, but I can't really pinpoint whether I have distrust towards her or towards the guys.\n\nOther than that, we have a very wonderful relationship. We're practically inseparable. The only time she'll make time to cut their hair and hang out with them is when our days off from work don't align together, which happens only once every two or three weeks. Soo I get overly jealous every two or three weeks haha.\n\nI'm sorry if my description of my situation doesn't make sense. I can try to clarify any confusing parts if you have any questions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello.\n\nBefore my current girlfriend and I got together, she had a couple of flings with two of my friends (one after the other, not at the same time!). She didn't pursue anything serious with them, just casual sex, which didn't bother me at the time. I still liked her. While she was having those flings, she started to express romantic interest in me. We started talking, and she stopped hooking up with those guys. Eventually, we established a relationship.\n\nJust recently, I started being very jealous since she still hangs out with them once in a while. It's inevitable that they hang out once a while since she's a very talented hair stylist, and she cuts hair for everyone. But it still bugs me.\n\nI guess what's really bothering me is that the guy she had a longer fling with actually fell for her when they were hooking up, and I feel very uncomfortable and incredibly jealous when they're around each other.\n\nI've expressed my discomfort with her, and she didn't brush me off or disregard my concern. She was very understanding and she assures me that she loves me and that she's not a cheater. I believe her, but I can't really pinpoint whether I have distrust towards her or towards the guys.\n\nOther than that, we have a very wonderful relationship. We're practically inseparable. The only time she'll make time to cut their hair and hang out with them is when our days off from work don't align together, which happens only once every two or three weeks. Soo I get overly jealous every two or three weeks haha.\n\nI'm sorry if my description of my situation doesn't make sense. I can try to clarify any confusing parts if you have any questions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello.\n\nBefore my current girlfriend and I got together, she had a couple of flings with two of my friends (one after the other, not at the same time!). She didn't pursue anything serious with them, just casual sex, which didn't bother me at the time. I still liked her. While she was having those flings, she started to express romantic interest in me. We started talking, and she stopped hooking up with those guys. Eventually, we established a relationship.\n\nJust recently, I started being very jealous since she still hangs out with them once in a while. It's inevitable that they hang out once a while since she's a very talented hair stylist, and she cuts hair for everyone. But it still bugs me.\n\nI guess what's really bothering me is that the guy she had a longer fling with actually fell for her when they were hooking up, and I feel very uncomfortable and incredibly jealous when they're around each other.\n\nI've expressed my discomfort with her, and she didn't brush me off or disregard my concern. She was very understanding and she assures me that she loves me and that she's not a cheater. I believe her, but I can't really pinpoint whether I have distrust towards her or towards the guys.\n\nOther than that, we have a very wonderful relationship. We're practically inseparable. The only time she'll make time to cut their hair and hang out with them is when our days off from work don't align together, which happens only once every two or three weeks. Soo I get overly jealous every two or three weeks haha.\n\nI'm sorry if my description of my situation doesn't make sense. I can try to clarify any confusing parts if you have any questions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little background: My boyfriend is 10 years older than me, and has a five year old son. We have been together for 2 years and have a great relationship, but we always seem to run into the same problems regarding his son.\n\nWe were invited to a party at one of our friends houses. All of our friends , the people at the party, are around my age (20-24) while BF is 31. This party falls on one of weekends that he has his son. His band has been asked to play there as well, so there will be about a half hour of time when he will be completely unable to watch the kid. there wont be any other kids there, either.\n\nMy issue is that whenever he is with a group of kids with his son, he leaves it up to everyone to watch him, he will walk away without saying anything or get focused on something and lose sight of his son. The rest of us are still young, we want to be able to hang out and have a good time without worrying about a kid, so everyone sees it as not their responsibility. Unfortunately, this leaves me with the responsibility, because I'm the girlfriend, to make sure the kid isn't doing something dangerous or more often, getting into and potentially destroying other peoples things.\n\nI've told BF that this isn't my responsibility, and that when his son is around it's up to him to be 100% focused on what he is doing. He isn't around that often so it shouldn't be too difficult to give him the attention he needs when he is here. This always turns into \"If I wanted kids I'd have my own,\" and him telling me that I need to do more for his kid (although that's not exactly how he words it, that's what his actions imply). He also get's mad at our friends for not hanging out when his kid is around, but they don't hang out because they are also frustrated with feeling responsible for him.\n\nSo basically, I'm considering not going to this party just to avoid that. But everyone will be there and I'll just spend the day home alone if I dont go. As parents, do you have any insight into this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little background: My boyfriend is 10 years older than me, and has a five year old son. We have been together for 2 years and have a great relationship, but we always seem to run into the same problems regarding his son.\n\nWe were invited to a party at one of our friends houses. All of our friends , the people at the party, are around my age (20-24) while BF is 31. This party falls on one of weekends that he has his son. His band has been asked to play there as well, so there will be about a half hour of time when he will be completely unable to watch the kid. there wont be any other kids there, either.\n\nMy issue is that whenever he is with a group of kids with his son, he leaves it up to everyone to watch him, he will walk away without saying anything or get focused on something and lose sight of his son. The rest of us are still young, we want to be able to hang out and have a good time without worrying about a kid, so everyone sees it as not their responsibility. Unfortunately, this leaves me with the responsibility, because I'm the girlfriend, to make sure the kid isn't doing something dangerous or more often, getting into and potentially destroying other peoples things.\n\nI've told BF that this isn't my responsibility, and that when his son is around it's up to him to be 100% focused on what he is doing. He isn't around that often so it shouldn't be too difficult to give him the attention he needs when he is here. This always turns into \"If I wanted kids I'd have my own,\" and him telling me that I need to do more for his kid (although that's not exactly how he words it, that's what his actions imply). He also get's mad at our friends for not hanging out when his kid is around, but they don't hang out because they are also frustrated with feeling responsible for him.\n\nSo basically, I'm considering not going to this party just to avoid that. But everyone will be there and I'll just spend the day home alone if I dont go. As parents, do you have any insight into this?"
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