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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So yesterday I bought my b/f some new running shoes because his feet hurt so bad when he run that it made it impossible for him to do it at all. The shoes were $90 and I bought them on the condition that his mom would pay me back next month (he doesn't have a job yet and all my money's from my mom specifically meant for college, so that leaves his mom to pay for things) which was fine. But since i wanted my money back sooner I asked if I could take $100 from his savings that nobody's supposed to touch and that his mom could pay him back instead.\n\nThis is where the issue happens. I suggested that maybe he should tell him mom that she's still paying me back so that she would pay him the money back faster, since I know she would pay me back ASAP but she might put off paying him back. He is obviously apprehensive but says 'well if you think it's best' (mind you I told him if he thought it was a bad idea we didn't have to do it, it was just a suggestion).\n\n So I find out later that day that he went behind my back, told his mom about the shoes and that she has to pay him back for them. BUT of fucking course he adds the extra information that I wanted to lie to her. She was obviously hurt, and now I can't fucking look her in the eye even though we had a really good relationship before this.\n\n He absolutely doesn't understand why I'm mad, 'what do you want me to lie to her?' he says. Am I in the wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So yesterday I bought my b/f some new running shoes because his feet hurt so bad when he run that it made it impossible for him to do it at all. The shoes were $90 and I bought them on the condition that his mom would pay me back next month (he doesn't have a job yet and all my money's from my mom specifically meant for college, so that leaves his mom to pay for things) which was fine. But since i wanted my money back sooner I asked if I could take $100 from his savings that nobody's supposed to touch and that his mom could pay him back instead.\n\nThis is where the issue happens. I suggested that maybe he should tell him mom that she's still paying me back so that she would pay him the money back faster, since I know she would pay me back ASAP but she might put off paying him back. He is obviously apprehensive but says 'well if you think it's best' (mind you I told him if he thought it was a bad idea we didn't have to do it, it was just a suggestion).\n\n So I find out later that day that he went behind my back, told his mom about the shoes and that she has to pay him back for them. BUT of fucking course he adds the extra information that I wanted to lie to her. She was obviously hurt, and now I can't fucking look her in the eye even though we had a really good relationship before this.\n\n He absolutely doesn't understand why I'm mad, 'what do you want me to lie to her?' he says. Am I in the wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So yesterday I bought my b/f some new running shoes because his feet hurt so bad when he run that it made it impossible for him to do it at all. The shoes were $90 and I bought them on the condition that his mom would pay me back next month (he doesn't have a job yet and all my money's from my mom specifically meant for college, so that leaves his mom to pay for things) which was fine. But since i wanted my money back sooner I asked if I could take $100 from his savings that nobody's supposed to touch and that his mom could pay him back instead.\n\nThis is where the issue happens. I suggested that maybe he should tell him mom that she's still paying me back so that she would pay him the money back faster, since I know she would pay me back ASAP but she might put off paying him back. He is obviously apprehensive but says 'well if you think it's best' (mind you I told him if he thought it was a bad idea we didn't have to do it, it was just a suggestion).\n\n So I find out later that day that he went behind my back, told his mom about the shoes and that she has to pay him back for them. BUT of fucking course he adds the extra information that I wanted to lie to her. She was obviously hurt, and now I can't fucking look her in the eye even though we had a really good relationship before this.\n\n He absolutely doesn't understand why I'm mad, 'what do you want me to lie to her?' he says. Am I in the wrong here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I have barely told anyone yet. She broke up with me early on in the relationship but she came back after a couple days, later she said she had wished i made an attempt to get her back. immature of the time, and this time around I don't think I will get her back, but i want to put in a little effort just to make her feel like she mattered to me. I was thinking of just putting a rose on her car for when she gets out of work and call it good"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit\n\nI'll just jump right into it. I was on and off dating one girl (Let's call her Ann) privately for well over 5 years now. We had a mutual group of friends, but none of our friends knew that we were dating. Ann always said that she didn't want others to know about us and she liked having us as a secret. I wasn't really into this idea, but I figured whatever I'll go with it.\n\nWe were both into each other in the beginning, but after a while I stated feeling like I was just putting in more work than I felt necessary. And what was really frustrating was that it always felt like I was just living to make her happy, but I never really felt that reciprocity. \n\nSo as of April 2015, I decided to end things with her. As I initially mentioned, we'd broken up and gotten back together multiple times. But with this time, I really felt like it was actually time. So I cut her out completely. And Reddit when I say completely, I mean entirely. No calls/snapchats/friends on FB/instagram- all that shit. Unfortunately because we had a mutual group of friends, I also found myself moving away from a good amount of them just because they'd remind me too much of her. \n\nAnd this brings me to my point and why I'm asking for advice. Nearly one year later, I still think of her a good amount of times. I still think of sending her a text (deleted contact but i memorized her number like 911), refriending her, and all of that shit. I know very well that it's in my best interest not to speak to her. Yet even with all this logic of why her and I don't work well for the long term, I still keep thinking of Ann and sometimes missing her. Any thing I'm not doing right to make this longing go away?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit\n\nI'll just jump right into it. I was on and off dating one girl (Let's call her Ann) privately for well over 5 years now. We had a mutual group of friends, but none of our friends knew that we were dating. Ann always said that she didn't want others to know about us and she liked having us as a secret. I wasn't really into this idea, but I figured whatever I'll go with it.\n\nWe were both into each other in the beginning, but after a while I stated feeling like I was just putting in more work than I felt necessary. And what was really frustrating was that it always felt like I was just living to make her happy, but I never really felt that reciprocity. \n\nSo as of April 2015, I decided to end things with her. As I initially mentioned, we'd broken up and gotten back together multiple times. But with this time, I really felt like it was actually time. So I cut her out completely. And Reddit when I say completely, I mean entirely. No calls/snapchats/friends on FB/instagram- all that shit. Unfortunately because we had a mutual group of friends, I also found myself moving away from a good amount of them just because they'd remind me too much of her. \n\nAnd this brings me to my point and why I'm asking for advice. Nearly one year later, I still think of her a good amount of times. I still think of sending her a text (deleted contact but i memorized her number like 911), refriending her, and all of that shit. I know very well that it's in my best interest not to speak to her. Yet even with all this logic of why her and I don't work well for the long term, I still keep thinking of Ann and sometimes missing her. Any thing I'm not doing right to make this longing go away?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit\n\nI'll just jump right into it. I was on and off dating one girl (Let's call her Ann) privately for well over 5 years now. We had a mutual group of friends, but none of our friends knew that we were dating. Ann always said that she didn't want others to know about us and she liked having us as a secret. I wasn't really into this idea, but I figured whatever I'll go with it.\n\nWe were both into each other in the beginning, but after a while I stated feeling like I was just putting in more work than I felt necessary. And what was really frustrating was that it always felt like I was just living to make her happy, but I never really felt that reciprocity. \n\nSo as of April 2015, I decided to end things with her. As I initially mentioned, we'd broken up and gotten back together multiple times. But with this time, I really felt like it was actually time. So I cut her out completely. And Reddit when I say completely, I mean entirely. No calls/snapchats/friends on FB/instagram- all that shit. Unfortunately because we had a mutual group of friends, I also found myself moving away from a good amount of them just because they'd remind me too much of her. \n\nAnd this brings me to my point and why I'm asking for advice. Nearly one year later, I still think of her a good amount of times. I still think of sending her a text (deleted contact but i memorized her number like 911), refriending her, and all of that shit. I know very well that it's in my best interest not to speak to her. Yet even with all this logic of why her and I don't work well for the long term, I still keep thinking of Ann and sometimes missing her. Any thing I'm not doing right to make this longing go away?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit\n\nI'll just jump right into it. I was on and off dating one girl (Let's call her Ann) privately for well over 5 years now. We had a mutual group of friends, but none of our friends knew that we were dating. Ann always said that she didn't want others to know about us and she liked having us as a secret. I wasn't really into this idea, but I figured whatever I'll go with it.\n\nWe were both into each other in the beginning, but after a while I stated feeling like I was just putting in more work than I felt necessary. And what was really frustrating was that it always felt like I was just living to make her happy, but I never really felt that reciprocity. \n\nSo as of April 2015, I decided to end things with her. As I initially mentioned, we'd broken up and gotten back together multiple times. But with this time, I really felt like it was actually time. So I cut her out completely. And Reddit when I say completely, I mean entirely. No calls/snapchats/friends on FB/instagram- all that shit. Unfortunately because we had a mutual group of friends, I also found myself moving away from a good amount of them just because they'd remind me too much of her. \n\nAnd this brings me to my point and why I'm asking for advice. Nearly one year later, I still think of her a good amount of times. I still think of sending her a text (deleted contact but i memorized her number like 911), refriending her, and all of that shit. I know very well that it's in my best interest not to speak to her. Yet even with all this logic of why her and I don't work well for the long term, I still keep thinking of Ann and sometimes missing her. Any thing I'm not doing right to make this longing go away?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I go to college in a different city. In the last week of school, I met a girl who is absolutely amazing and I like more than I've ever liked a girl before. \n\nI asked her out, and we went on a date which went fantastic. I've since had to go home for the summer, and I'm worried about losing her or idealizing. We've been talking online for a bit, but it seems like we are going to drift apart. Do you guys have any advice for this? I don't know how she feels about me, but I like her so, so much, I feel insane, just thinking about her makes me feel emotions I've never felt before lol. We've talked a bit and decided to keep in touch and maybe try long distance, but I'm just terrified of losing her.Mostly just want to talk, but any advice would be so much appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I go to college in a different city. In the last week of school, I met a girl who is absolutely amazing and I like more than I've ever liked a girl before. \n\nI asked her out, and we went on a date which went fantastic. I've since had to go home for the summer, and I'm worried about losing her or idealizing. We've been talking online for a bit, but it seems like we are going to drift apart. Do you guys have any advice for this? I don't know how she feels about me, but I like her so, so much, I feel insane, just thinking about her makes me feel emotions I've never felt before lol. We've talked a bit and decided to keep in touch and maybe try long distance, but I'm just terrified of losing her.Mostly just want to talk, but any advice would be so much appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I go to college in a different city. In the last week of school, I met a girl who is absolutely amazing and I like more than I've ever liked a girl before. \n\nI asked her out, and we went on a date which went fantastic. I've since had to go home for the summer, and I'm worried about losing her or idealizing. We've been talking online for a bit, but it seems like we are going to drift apart. Do you guys have any advice for this? I don't know how she feels about me, but I like her so, so much, I feel insane, just thinking about her makes me feel emotions I've never felt before lol. We've talked a bit and decided to keep in touch and maybe try long distance, but I'm just terrified of losing her.Mostly just want to talk, but any advice would be so much appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I go to college in a different city. In the last week of school, I met a girl who is absolutely amazing and I like more than I've ever liked a girl before. \n\nI asked her out, and we went on a date which went fantastic. I've since had to go home for the summer, and I'm worried about losing her or idealizing. We've been talking online for a bit, but it seems like we are going to drift apart. Do you guys have any advice for this? I don't know how she feels about me, but I like her so, so much, I feel insane, just thinking about her makes me feel emotions I've never felt before lol. We've talked a bit and decided to keep in touch and maybe try long distance, but I'm just terrified of losing her.Mostly just want to talk, but any advice would be so much appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I dated for 3 years and it was some of the best times of my life. Towards the end, she started to lose her feelings for me. We've had rough patches before, like any other relationship and we usually figured I out. This time though, I felt that she didn't even try to fix anything while I busted my ass trying to save our relationship. Eventually I said this isn't something that I want, to be stuck in limbo, and she chose to end it. This sounds like it's mutual and I think that we actually made the right decision but the problem is we have the same group of friends and it's hard to really get over her when I see her everyday. It also doesn't make me feel comfortable that she's been hanging out with one of my closer friends pretty much everyday. I called her out on this and she said it was nothing and she promised not to date anyone in our group. \n\nI'm going out of state for a bit for my job so all my friends and I (and her) went bar hopping. I was having a great time until my ex started flirting and dancing with other guys right in front of my face. She seems to have gotten over me already but I admit I still have some lingering feelings for her. I told my friends that I wasn't going to try to pick up any chicks out of respect for her and also that I really just wanted to have a good time with my pals before I left. I left for the new state today and I just feel lonley now because while I'm in another state distancing myself from my friends, she's getting closer to them and I feel like I shouldn't see her anymore (at least until I'm over her completely). I feel like I'm going to lose my friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I dated for 3 years and it was some of the best times of my life. Towards the end, she started to lose her feelings for me. We've had rough patches before, like any other relationship and we usually figured I out. This time though, I felt that she didn't even try to fix anything while I busted my ass trying to save our relationship. Eventually I said this isn't something that I want, to be stuck in limbo, and she chose to end it. This sounds like it's mutual and I think that we actually made the right decision but the problem is we have the same group of friends and it's hard to really get over her when I see her everyday. It also doesn't make me feel comfortable that she's been hanging out with one of my closer friends pretty much everyday. I called her out on this and she said it was nothing and she promised not to date anyone in our group. \n\nI'm going out of state for a bit for my job so all my friends and I (and her) went bar hopping. I was having a great time until my ex started flirting and dancing with other guys right in front of my face. She seems to have gotten over me already but I admit I still have some lingering feelings for her. I told my friends that I wasn't going to try to pick up any chicks out of respect for her and also that I really just wanted to have a good time with my pals before I left. I left for the new state today and I just feel lonley now because while I'm in another state distancing myself from my friends, she's getting closer to them and I feel like I shouldn't see her anymore (at least until I'm over her completely). I feel like I'm going to lose my friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I dated for 3 years and it was some of the best times of my life. Towards the end, she started to lose her feelings for me. We've had rough patches before, like any other relationship and we usually figured I out. This time though, I felt that she didn't even try to fix anything while I busted my ass trying to save our relationship. Eventually I said this isn't something that I want, to be stuck in limbo, and she chose to end it. This sounds like it's mutual and I think that we actually made the right decision but the problem is we have the same group of friends and it's hard to really get over her when I see her everyday. It also doesn't make me feel comfortable that she's been hanging out with one of my closer friends pretty much everyday. I called her out on this and she said it was nothing and she promised not to date anyone in our group. \n\nI'm going out of state for a bit for my job so all my friends and I (and her) went bar hopping. I was having a great time until my ex started flirting and dancing with other guys right in front of my face. She seems to have gotten over me already but I admit I still have some lingering feelings for her. I told my friends that I wasn't going to try to pick up any chicks out of respect for her and also that I really just wanted to have a good time with my pals before I left. I left for the new state today and I just feel lonley now because while I'm in another state distancing myself from my friends, she's getting closer to them and I feel like I shouldn't see her anymore (at least until I'm over her completely). I feel like I'm going to lose my friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I dated for 3 years and it was some of the best times of my life. Towards the end, she started to lose her feelings for me. We've had rough patches before, like any other relationship and we usually figured I out. This time though, I felt that she didn't even try to fix anything while I busted my ass trying to save our relationship. Eventually I said this isn't something that I want, to be stuck in limbo, and she chose to end it. This sounds like it's mutual and I think that we actually made the right decision but the problem is we have the same group of friends and it's hard to really get over her when I see her everyday. It also doesn't make me feel comfortable that she's been hanging out with one of my closer friends pretty much everyday. I called her out on this and she said it was nothing and she promised not to date anyone in our group. \n\nI'm going out of state for a bit for my job so all my friends and I (and her) went bar hopping. I was having a great time until my ex started flirting and dancing with other guys right in front of my face. She seems to have gotten over me already but I admit I still have some lingering feelings for her. I told my friends that I wasn't going to try to pick up any chicks out of respect for her and also that I really just wanted to have a good time with my pals before I left. I left for the new state today and I just feel lonley now because while I'm in another state distancing myself from my friends, she's getting closer to them and I feel like I shouldn't see her anymore (at least until I'm over her completely). I feel like I'm going to lose my friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I dated for 3 years and it was some of the best times of my life. Towards the end, she started to lose her feelings for me. We've had rough patches before, like any other relationship and we usually figured I out. This time though, I felt that she didn't even try to fix anything while I busted my ass trying to save our relationship. Eventually I said this isn't something that I want, to be stuck in limbo, and she chose to end it. This sounds like it's mutual and I think that we actually made the right decision but the problem is we have the same group of friends and it's hard to really get over her when I see her everyday. It also doesn't make me feel comfortable that she's been hanging out with one of my closer friends pretty much everyday. I called her out on this and she said it was nothing and she promised not to date anyone in our group. \n\nI'm going out of state for a bit for my job so all my friends and I (and her) went bar hopping. I was having a great time until my ex started flirting and dancing with other guys right in front of my face. She seems to have gotten over me already but I admit I still have some lingering feelings for her. I told my friends that I wasn't going to try to pick up any chicks out of respect for her and also that I really just wanted to have a good time with my pals before I left. I left for the new state today and I just feel lonley now because while I'm in another state distancing myself from my friends, she's getting closer to them and I feel like I shouldn't see her anymore (at least until I'm over her completely). I feel like I'm going to lose my friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I dated for 3 years and it was some of the best times of my life. Towards the end, she started to lose her feelings for me. We've had rough patches before, like any other relationship and we usually figured I out. This time though, I felt that she didn't even try to fix anything while I busted my ass trying to save our relationship. Eventually I said this isn't something that I want, to be stuck in limbo, and she chose to end it. This sounds like it's mutual and I think that we actually made the right decision but the problem is we have the same group of friends and it's hard to really get over her when I see her everyday. It also doesn't make me feel comfortable that she's been hanging out with one of my closer friends pretty much everyday. I called her out on this and she said it was nothing and she promised not to date anyone in our group. \n\nI'm going out of state for a bit for my job so all my friends and I (and her) went bar hopping. I was having a great time until my ex started flirting and dancing with other guys right in front of my face. She seems to have gotten over me already but I admit I still have some lingering feelings for her. I told my friends that I wasn't going to try to pick up any chicks out of respect for her and also that I really just wanted to have a good time with my pals before I left. I left for the new state today and I just feel lonley now because while I'm in another state distancing myself from my friends, she's getting closer to them and I feel like I shouldn't see her anymore (at least until I'm over her completely). I feel like I'm going to lose my friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I dated for 3 years and it was some of the best times of my life. Towards the end, she started to lose her feelings for me. We've had rough patches before, like any other relationship and we usually figured I out. This time though, I felt that she didn't even try to fix anything while I busted my ass trying to save our relationship. Eventually I said this isn't something that I want, to be stuck in limbo, and she chose to end it. This sounds like it's mutual and I think that we actually made the right decision but the problem is we have the same group of friends and it's hard to really get over her when I see her everyday. It also doesn't make me feel comfortable that she's been hanging out with one of my closer friends pretty much everyday. I called her out on this and she said it was nothing and she promised not to date anyone in our group. \n\nI'm going out of state for a bit for my job so all my friends and I (and her) went bar hopping. I was having a great time until my ex started flirting and dancing with other guys right in front of my face. She seems to have gotten over me already but I admit I still have some lingering feelings for her. I told my friends that I wasn't going to try to pick up any chicks out of respect for her and also that I really just wanted to have a good time with my pals before I left. I left for the new state today and I just feel lonley now because while I'm in another state distancing myself from my friends, she's getting closer to them and I feel like I shouldn't see her anymore (at least until I'm over her completely). I feel like I'm going to lose my friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I dated for 3 years and it was some of the best times of my life. Towards the end, she started to lose her feelings for me. We've had rough patches before, like any other relationship and we usually figured I out. This time though, I felt that she didn't even try to fix anything while I busted my ass trying to save our relationship. Eventually I said this isn't something that I want, to be stuck in limbo, and she chose to end it. This sounds like it's mutual and I think that we actually made the right decision but the problem is we have the same group of friends and it's hard to really get over her when I see her everyday. It also doesn't make me feel comfortable that she's been hanging out with one of my closer friends pretty much everyday. I called her out on this and she said it was nothing and she promised not to date anyone in our group. \n\nI'm going out of state for a bit for my job so all my friends and I (and her) went bar hopping. I was having a great time until my ex started flirting and dancing with other guys right in front of my face. She seems to have gotten over me already but I admit I still have some lingering feelings for her. I told my friends that I wasn't going to try to pick up any chicks out of respect for her and also that I really just wanted to have a good time with my pals before I left. I left for the new state today and I just feel lonley now because while I'm in another state distancing myself from my friends, she's getting closer to them and I feel like I shouldn't see her anymore (at least until I'm over her completely). I feel like I'm going to lose my friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Question One:\nHhhokay, so, I have a major project I was just assigned, and it kinda sounds like it would have a simple solution to it. I work for a company that utilizes direct mail as part of their marketing campaign. Unfortunately, they're pretty dumb and manual about it. I'm hoping to create a system that automates the whole process.\nHere are some details:\nOur clientele includes nursing home and assisted living facilities. In each state, there are different standards regarding number of hours of training/ when to renew ones license, etc. I have all of that in one enormous binder, but I need a program (something like a really smart calendar) that holds all of the deadline information for facilities in each state, and will remind us when to start sending out our reminder mail for them to renew their licenses through us. Thus, I need a program that does three things: clearly organizes all regulatory requirements for each state, the addresses and contact information for each facility we mail to, and reminds us at least once a week with something like \"Send 2000 postcards to these facilities in Colorado because their licenses are almost up.\" and, if it were really cool, the reminder would simply pop up with all of the addresses so that I could just print them and mail them\n\n["
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Question One:\nHhhokay, so, I have a major project I was just assigned, and it kinda sounds like it would have a simple solution to it. I work for a company that utilizes direct mail as part of their marketing campaign. Unfortunately, they're pretty dumb and manual about it. I'm hoping to create a system that automates the whole process.\nHere are some details:\nOur clientele includes nursing home and assisted living facilities. In each state, there are different standards regarding number of hours of training/ when to renew ones license, etc. I have all of that in one enormous binder, but I need a program (something like a really smart calendar) that holds all of the deadline information for facilities in each state, and will remind us when to start sending out our reminder mail for them to renew their licenses through us. Thus, I need a program that does three things: clearly organizes all regulatory requirements for each state, the addresses and contact information for each facility we mail to, and reminds us at least once a week with something like \"Send 2000 postcards to these facilities in Colorado because their licenses are almost up.\" and, if it were really cool, the reminder would simply pop up with all of the addresses so that I could just print them and mail them\n\n["
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, I dated my ex for 5 months before she dumped me 2 weeks ago claiming she was depressed. I believe that as soon as the next day, she was hooking up with her ex, who she was on again/off again for a year and a half.\n\nWe started dating 4 months after they were \"officially\" done, and even during their relationship, apparently I became a point of argument because she was really into me even when she was seeing him. (and while we were together, she told me things about her past she never even told him)\n\nI can't help but feel like I'm the rebound, although I'm not sure if he is. Either way, I'm not entirely sure it matters at this point (she's not with me, and is now hooking up with him) but how do I get over this confidence crushing thing? It feels pretty shitty, especially when you thought someone cared about you like that (she was the first with the I Love Yous, etc). Also disappointed because for the first time in 4 years since my last \"real\" relationship (I had plenty of girls want to date me, but I kept it casual) I finally felt that spark with someone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, I dated my ex for 5 months before she dumped me 2 weeks ago claiming she was depressed. I believe that as soon as the next day, she was hooking up with her ex, who she was on again/off again for a year and a half.\n\nWe started dating 4 months after they were \"officially\" done, and even during their relationship, apparently I became a point of argument because she was really into me even when she was seeing him. (and while we were together, she told me things about her past she never even told him)\n\nI can't help but feel like I'm the rebound, although I'm not sure if he is. Either way, I'm not entirely sure it matters at this point (she's not with me, and is now hooking up with him) but how do I get over this confidence crushing thing? It feels pretty shitty, especially when you thought someone cared about you like that (she was the first with the I Love Yous, etc). Also disappointed because for the first time in 4 years since my last \"real\" relationship (I had plenty of girls want to date me, but I kept it casual) I finally felt that spark with someone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, I dated my ex for 5 months before she dumped me 2 weeks ago claiming she was depressed. I believe that as soon as the next day, she was hooking up with her ex, who she was on again/off again for a year and a half.\n\nWe started dating 4 months after they were \"officially\" done, and even during their relationship, apparently I became a point of argument because she was really into me even when she was seeing him. (and while we were together, she told me things about her past she never even told him)\n\nI can't help but feel like I'm the rebound, although I'm not sure if he is. Either way, I'm not entirely sure it matters at this point (she's not with me, and is now hooking up with him) but how do I get over this confidence crushing thing? It feels pretty shitty, especially when you thought someone cared about you like that (she was the first with the I Love Yous, etc). Also disappointed because for the first time in 4 years since my last \"real\" relationship (I had plenty of girls want to date me, but I kept it casual) I finally felt that spark with someone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short, I dated my ex for 5 months before she dumped me 2 weeks ago claiming she was depressed. I believe that as soon as the next day, she was hooking up with her ex, who she was on again/off again for a year and a half.\n\nWe started dating 4 months after they were \"officially\" done, and even during their relationship, apparently I became a point of argument because she was really into me even when she was seeing him. (and while we were together, she told me things about her past she never even told him)\n\nI can't help but feel like I'm the rebound, although I'm not sure if he is. Either way, I'm not entirely sure it matters at this point (she's not with me, and is now hooking up with him) but how do I get over this confidence crushing thing? It feels pretty shitty, especially when you thought someone cared about you like that (she was the first with the I Love Yous, etc). Also disappointed because for the first time in 4 years since my last \"real\" relationship (I had plenty of girls want to date me, but I kept it casual) I finally felt that spark with someone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend treats me better than I could ever deserve. He's shows his love through everything he does, is incredibly nice to me, etc. He adores me. Although, I think he might have the Madonna/Whore Complex where he can't see me as a sexual object. I think he has sorted sex in his head to only be associated with non self-respecting whores, and he doesn't mentally want to degrade me in that way, I guess?\n\nAnyway, last year was rough for me and I was pretty depressed, which only made him look at me even less sexually. I'm much better now and things have started to pick up again in the bedroom but he always needs to add something to disassociate me from myself. For example, he puts me in heels/lipstick/pigtails, or he'll call me a slut, or be rougher with me. I don't mind, I'm just happy I'm getting some, but I'm starting to worry if it will be like this forever. I want him to passionately make love to me, and just me. I want to be sexier to him being myself. Is there anything I could say to him or do that could help? Is this a non-issue? I tend to worry about things that are non-problems and anticipating them escalating."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend treats me better than I could ever deserve. He's shows his love through everything he does, is incredibly nice to me, etc. He adores me. Although, I think he might have the Madonna/Whore Complex where he can't see me as a sexual object. I think he has sorted sex in his head to only be associated with non self-respecting whores, and he doesn't mentally want to degrade me in that way, I guess?\n\nAnyway, last year was rough for me and I was pretty depressed, which only made him look at me even less sexually. I'm much better now and things have started to pick up again in the bedroom but he always needs to add something to disassociate me from myself. For example, he puts me in heels/lipstick/pigtails, or he'll call me a slut, or be rougher with me. I don't mind, I'm just happy I'm getting some, but I'm starting to worry if it will be like this forever. I want him to passionately make love to me, and just me. I want to be sexier to him being myself. Is there anything I could say to him or do that could help? Is this a non-issue? I tend to worry about things that are non-problems and anticipating them escalating."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend treats me better than I could ever deserve. He's shows his love through everything he does, is incredibly nice to me, etc. He adores me. Although, I think he might have the Madonna/Whore Complex where he can't see me as a sexual object. I think he has sorted sex in his head to only be associated with non self-respecting whores, and he doesn't mentally want to degrade me in that way, I guess?\n\nAnyway, last year was rough for me and I was pretty depressed, which only made him look at me even less sexually. I'm much better now and things have started to pick up again in the bedroom but he always needs to add something to disassociate me from myself. For example, he puts me in heels/lipstick/pigtails, or he'll call me a slut, or be rougher with me. I don't mind, I'm just happy I'm getting some, but I'm starting to worry if it will be like this forever. I want him to passionately make love to me, and just me. I want to be sexier to him being myself. Is there anything I could say to him or do that could help? Is this a non-issue? I tend to worry about things that are non-problems and anticipating them escalating."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend treats me better than I could ever deserve. He's shows his love through everything he does, is incredibly nice to me, etc. He adores me. Although, I think he might have the Madonna/Whore Complex where he can't see me as a sexual object. I think he has sorted sex in his head to only be associated with non self-respecting whores, and he doesn't mentally want to degrade me in that way, I guess?\n\nAnyway, last year was rough for me and I was pretty depressed, which only made him look at me even less sexually. I'm much better now and things have started to pick up again in the bedroom but he always needs to add something to disassociate me from myself. For example, he puts me in heels/lipstick/pigtails, or he'll call me a slut, or be rougher with me. I don't mind, I'm just happy I'm getting some, but I'm starting to worry if it will be like this forever. I want him to passionately make love to me, and just me. I want to be sexier to him being myself. Is there anything I could say to him or do that could help? Is this a non-issue? I tend to worry about things that are non-problems and anticipating them escalating."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, so I was just kicked out of my boarding school, but that's another story and not what I need advice on. What I need help with is the next part of the story, what comes after. \n\nI need help with ideas on what to do next. My transcript will maintain my grades, and it only says I withdrew. For now, my parents have decided that I should still go to school for now (which I fully support), and the public schools in NoVA are actually fairly nice. \n\nWhat bothers me though is that I'm feeling this is the best opportunity i'll have to deviate from the typical life. I feel like this could be a time that I could really change my life and have a unique, real, and beautiful experience, as well as grow myself in ways that I could never by just going to high school. My parents are open to ideas, even bringing up the idea of immersing me into a different country, and then returning and getting my GED, but other than variations of that, i'm pretty much empty for ideas.\n\nI can play guitar, I took two semesters of Linux, and can be resourceful and insightful IMHO. I just don't know where to start with looking for something.\n\nSo my question, redditors, Is what would you do? If you had this choice as a kid, what would you have tried for? I would really love to give my life some real meaning, and I hope that youse guise might have some ideas for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, so I was just kicked out of my boarding school, but that's another story and not what I need advice on. What I need help with is the next part of the story, what comes after. \n\nI need help with ideas on what to do next. My transcript will maintain my grades, and it only says I withdrew. For now, my parents have decided that I should still go to school for now (which I fully support), and the public schools in NoVA are actually fairly nice. \n\nWhat bothers me though is that I'm feeling this is the best opportunity i'll have to deviate from the typical life. I feel like this could be a time that I could really change my life and have a unique, real, and beautiful experience, as well as grow myself in ways that I could never by just going to high school. My parents are open to ideas, even bringing up the idea of immersing me into a different country, and then returning and getting my GED, but other than variations of that, i'm pretty much empty for ideas.\n\nI can play guitar, I took two semesters of Linux, and can be resourceful and insightful IMHO. I just don't know where to start with looking for something.\n\nSo my question, redditors, Is what would you do? If you had this choice as a kid, what would you have tried for? I would really love to give my life some real meaning, and I hope that youse guise might have some ideas for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, so I was just kicked out of my boarding school, but that's another story and not what I need advice on. What I need help with is the next part of the story, what comes after. \n\nI need help with ideas on what to do next. My transcript will maintain my grades, and it only says I withdrew. For now, my parents have decided that I should still go to school for now (which I fully support), and the public schools in NoVA are actually fairly nice. \n\nWhat bothers me though is that I'm feeling this is the best opportunity i'll have to deviate from the typical life. I feel like this could be a time that I could really change my life and have a unique, real, and beautiful experience, as well as grow myself in ways that I could never by just going to high school. My parents are open to ideas, even bringing up the idea of immersing me into a different country, and then returning and getting my GED, but other than variations of that, i'm pretty much empty for ideas.\n\nI can play guitar, I took two semesters of Linux, and can be resourceful and insightful IMHO. I just don't know where to start with looking for something.\n\nSo my question, redditors, Is what would you do? If you had this choice as a kid, what would you have tried for? I would really love to give my life some real meaning, and I hope that youse guise might have some ideas for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, so I was just kicked out of my boarding school, but that's another story and not what I need advice on. What I need help with is the next part of the story, what comes after. \n\nI need help with ideas on what to do next. My transcript will maintain my grades, and it only says I withdrew. For now, my parents have decided that I should still go to school for now (which I fully support), and the public schools in NoVA are actually fairly nice. \n\nWhat bothers me though is that I'm feeling this is the best opportunity i'll have to deviate from the typical life. I feel like this could be a time that I could really change my life and have a unique, real, and beautiful experience, as well as grow myself in ways that I could never by just going to high school. My parents are open to ideas, even bringing up the idea of immersing me into a different country, and then returning and getting my GED, but other than variations of that, i'm pretty much empty for ideas.\n\nI can play guitar, I took two semesters of Linux, and can be resourceful and insightful IMHO. I just don't know where to start with looking for something.\n\nSo my question, redditors, Is what would you do? If you had this choice as a kid, what would you have tried for? I would really love to give my life some real meaning, and I hope that youse guise might have some ideas for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my SO and I have been together for nearly 5 years. Very good relationship, we love each other very much. We are also in an open relationship, which I thought I would be fine with. And as far as what he has done, it is totally fine. However, I messed up. I fell pretty hard for another guy, and when he wanted more from me, I said I couldn't and he broke it off. Only now, I find myself struggling with a part of me that wants to leave my SO for the other guy. Even though, my SO is a way better match for me, and consciously I'm aware of that, but I can't get these desires out of my head. \n\nNot only that, but I ended up doing this before with another guy. I did actually leave, realized my mistake and he took me back. So, I am two for three (there was another that I did fine with, no messy feelings or anything). \n\nI told him about how I felt, and he was understandably upset. When it's just us, he makes me SO happy. He's kind, intelligent, beautiful, patient, and I love him dearly. Then, once in a while, I get this stupid desire for another guy, even though consciously I know it's a dumb idea on multiple levels, and it is a struggle. When we were talking, he suggested I might be polyamorous, as I would be happiest if I could keep both my SO and this other guy. I don't know. but my questions are:\n\n1) Does anyone else struggle with seemingly cyclical doubts about the future?\n\n2) Does anyone else have significant trouble with desires for other people (whether open relationship or not) and have everything be okay?\n\n3) Does this necessarily mean my SO and I are not suitable for the long term? Or is this just an unavoidable part of the experience for some people?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my SO and I have been together for nearly 5 years. Very good relationship, we love each other very much. We are also in an open relationship, which I thought I would be fine with. And as far as what he has done, it is totally fine. However, I messed up. I fell pretty hard for another guy, and when he wanted more from me, I said I couldn't and he broke it off. Only now, I find myself struggling with a part of me that wants to leave my SO for the other guy. Even though, my SO is a way better match for me, and consciously I'm aware of that, but I can't get these desires out of my head. \n\nNot only that, but I ended up doing this before with another guy. I did actually leave, realized my mistake and he took me back. So, I am two for three (there was another that I did fine with, no messy feelings or anything). \n\nI told him about how I felt, and he was understandably upset. When it's just us, he makes me SO happy. He's kind, intelligent, beautiful, patient, and I love him dearly. Then, once in a while, I get this stupid desire for another guy, even though consciously I know it's a dumb idea on multiple levels, and it is a struggle. When we were talking, he suggested I might be polyamorous, as I would be happiest if I could keep both my SO and this other guy. I don't know. but my questions are:\n\n1) Does anyone else struggle with seemingly cyclical doubts about the future?\n\n2) Does anyone else have significant trouble with desires for other people (whether open relationship or not) and have everything be okay?\n\n3) Does this necessarily mean my SO and I are not suitable for the long term? Or is this just an unavoidable part of the experience for some people?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, my SO and I have been together for nearly 5 years. Very good relationship, we love each other very much. We are also in an open relationship, which I thought I would be fine with. And as far as what he has done, it is totally fine. However, I messed up. I fell pretty hard for another guy, and when he wanted more from me, I said I couldn't and he broke it off. Only now, I find myself struggling with a part of me that wants to leave my SO for the other guy. Even though, my SO is a way better match for me, and consciously I'm aware of that, but I can't get these desires out of my head. \n\nNot only that, but I ended up doing this before with another guy. I did actually leave, realized my mistake and he took me back. So, I am two for three (there was another that I did fine with, no messy feelings or anything). \n\nI told him about how I felt, and he was understandably upset. When it's just us, he makes me SO happy. He's kind, intelligent, beautiful, patient, and I love him dearly. Then, once in a while, I get this stupid desire for another guy, even though consciously I know it's a dumb idea on multiple levels, and it is a struggle. When we were talking, he suggested I might be polyamorous, as I would be happiest if I could keep both my SO and this other guy. I don't know. but my questions are:\n\n1) Does anyone else struggle with seemingly cyclical doubts about the future?\n\n2) Does anyone else have significant trouble with desires for other people (whether open relationship or not) and have everything be okay?\n\n3) Does this necessarily mean my SO and I are not suitable for the long term? Or is this just an unavoidable part of the experience for some people?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few days ago a few friends of mine invited me if I wanted to go hang out with them. I had to decline because I needed to wake up early. A few minutes after this conversation I got a text message from one of my friends [24F] texts me jokingly annoyed that I am not coming. \nI honestly don't remember how it happened but she ended up telling me that she and her boyfriend of 3 years broke up about a week ago and was sort of pooring her heart out (her words) to me about it. I did the normal thing of saying sorry and telling her everything will be okay. The things you do to try and make a person feel better. \nI have been texting her a bit over the past couple of days just kind of casually talking and joking, mostly just trying to distract her from being upset. Past that I don't know how to move forward with her. I've known her for a few years and have wanted to spend more time with her for a while was never able to because she has always had a boyfriend."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few days ago a few friends of mine invited me if I wanted to go hang out with them. I had to decline because I needed to wake up early. A few minutes after this conversation I got a text message from one of my friends [24F] texts me jokingly annoyed that I am not coming. \nI honestly don't remember how it happened but she ended up telling me that she and her boyfriend of 3 years broke up about a week ago and was sort of pooring her heart out (her words) to me about it. I did the normal thing of saying sorry and telling her everything will be okay. The things you do to try and make a person feel better. \nI have been texting her a bit over the past couple of days just kind of casually talking and joking, mostly just trying to distract her from being upset. Past that I don't know how to move forward with her. I've known her for a few years and have wanted to spend more time with her for a while was never able to because she has always had a boyfriend."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few days ago a few friends of mine invited me if I wanted to go hang out with them. I had to decline because I needed to wake up early. A few minutes after this conversation I got a text message from one of my friends [24F] texts me jokingly annoyed that I am not coming. \nI honestly don't remember how it happened but she ended up telling me that she and her boyfriend of 3 years broke up about a week ago and was sort of pooring her heart out (her words) to me about it. I did the normal thing of saying sorry and telling her everything will be okay. The things you do to try and make a person feel better. \nI have been texting her a bit over the past couple of days just kind of casually talking and joking, mostly just trying to distract her from being upset. Past that I don't know how to move forward with her. I've known her for a few years and have wanted to spend more time with her for a while was never able to because she has always had a boyfriend."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A few days ago a few friends of mine invited me if I wanted to go hang out with them. I had to decline because I needed to wake up early. A few minutes after this conversation I got a text message from one of my friends [24F] texts me jokingly annoyed that I am not coming. \nI honestly don't remember how it happened but she ended up telling me that she and her boyfriend of 3 years broke up about a week ago and was sort of pooring her heart out (her words) to me about it. I did the normal thing of saying sorry and telling her everything will be okay. The things you do to try and make a person feel better. \nI have been texting her a bit over the past couple of days just kind of casually talking and joking, mostly just trying to distract her from being upset. Past that I don't know how to move forward with her. I've known her for a few years and have wanted to spend more time with her for a while was never able to because she has always had a boyfriend."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been wanting a dog ever since I moved out on my own 4 years ago. I grew up with dogs and have worked as a dog trainer, pet sitter, and vet tech for the last several years. I've been waiting for the perfect dog at the perfect time. I think this may finally be it.\n\nMy neighbors have a puppy (8 mos) heeler mix that is way too much energy for them. She's exactly what I want. However I have to think reasonably about the costs of owning a dog. She's almost a year now, and she's never been to the vet. She is in great shape and has been treated with a lot of love, but she'll need her vaccines and need to be spayed, as well as flea and heartworm medicine. I have no idea how much the first month of owning her will cost me, so i'm hoping to get some wisdom of experienced owners."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been wanting a dog ever since I moved out on my own 4 years ago. I grew up with dogs and have worked as a dog trainer, pet sitter, and vet tech for the last several years. I've been waiting for the perfect dog at the perfect time. I think this may finally be it.\n\nMy neighbors have a puppy (8 mos) heeler mix that is way too much energy for them. She's exactly what I want. However I have to think reasonably about the costs of owning a dog. She's almost a year now, and she's never been to the vet. She is in great shape and has been treated with a lot of love, but she'll need her vaccines and need to be spayed, as well as flea and heartworm medicine. I have no idea how much the first month of owning her will cost me, so i'm hoping to get some wisdom of experienced owners."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been wanting a dog ever since I moved out on my own 4 years ago. I grew up with dogs and have worked as a dog trainer, pet sitter, and vet tech for the last several years. I've been waiting for the perfect dog at the perfect time. I think this may finally be it.\n\nMy neighbors have a puppy (8 mos) heeler mix that is way too much energy for them. She's exactly what I want. However I have to think reasonably about the costs of owning a dog. She's almost a year now, and she's never been to the vet. She is in great shape and has been treated with a lot of love, but she'll need her vaccines and need to be spayed, as well as flea and heartworm medicine. I have no idea how much the first month of owning her will cost me, so i'm hoping to get some wisdom of experienced owners."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been wanting a dog ever since I moved out on my own 4 years ago. I grew up with dogs and have worked as a dog trainer, pet sitter, and vet tech for the last several years. I've been waiting for the perfect dog at the perfect time. I think this may finally be it.\n\nMy neighbors have a puppy (8 mos) heeler mix that is way too much energy for them. She's exactly what I want. However I have to think reasonably about the costs of owning a dog. She's almost a year now, and she's never been to the vet. She is in great shape and has been treated with a lot of love, but she'll need her vaccines and need to be spayed, as well as flea and heartworm medicine. I have no idea how much the first month of owning her will cost me, so i'm hoping to get some wisdom of experienced owners."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let me start off by saying I have mild anxiety which is what I'm assuming is a large factor in this. This is my first relationship and hers. We've been together for four months but since mid-June it's been long distance because of summer vacation. We message pretty much the entire time we are awake and skype every few days. I did visit her for 5 days a couple weeks ago. Overall its been great and I really like her and I can't wait to see her again. \n\nLately I've been having these insecure thoughts about her. Such as just thoughts of her cheating with no reason to think in such a way. Sometimes its gets pretty dumb. For example, earlier today she was saying how she wanted to pet a dog at the store but couldn't because of her dress. Then my mind starts thinking: \"Why does she need to wear a dress? Is it just in case she meets a guy that she likes?\" Another example is a couple days ago I messaged her what she was doing and she replied with \"nathin\". This thought popped into my head that maybe she spelled nothing that way because she had some guy named Nathan over. \n\nI know that its stupid to have these thoughts but it's really hard not to keep thinking about it. I tell myself how dumb it is to think this way but it almost never helps. I've been doing this for years about other things but now it's translated into my relationship. How can I stop this? I'm planning on seeing a therapist when school starts."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let me start off by saying I have mild anxiety which is what I'm assuming is a large factor in this. This is my first relationship and hers. We've been together for four months but since mid-June it's been long distance because of summer vacation. We message pretty much the entire time we are awake and skype every few days. I did visit her for 5 days a couple weeks ago. Overall its been great and I really like her and I can't wait to see her again. \n\nLately I've been having these insecure thoughts about her. Such as just thoughts of her cheating with no reason to think in such a way. Sometimes its gets pretty dumb. For example, earlier today she was saying how she wanted to pet a dog at the store but couldn't because of her dress. Then my mind starts thinking: \"Why does she need to wear a dress? Is it just in case she meets a guy that she likes?\" Another example is a couple days ago I messaged her what she was doing and she replied with \"nathin\". This thought popped into my head that maybe she spelled nothing that way because she had some guy named Nathan over. \n\nI know that its stupid to have these thoughts but it's really hard not to keep thinking about it. I tell myself how dumb it is to think this way but it almost never helps. I've been doing this for years about other things but now it's translated into my relationship. How can I stop this? I'm planning on seeing a therapist when school starts."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let me start off by saying I have mild anxiety which is what I'm assuming is a large factor in this. This is my first relationship and hers. We've been together for four months but since mid-June it's been long distance because of summer vacation. We message pretty much the entire time we are awake and skype every few days. I did visit her for 5 days a couple weeks ago. Overall its been great and I really like her and I can't wait to see her again. \n\nLately I've been having these insecure thoughts about her. Such as just thoughts of her cheating with no reason to think in such a way. Sometimes its gets pretty dumb. For example, earlier today she was saying how she wanted to pet a dog at the store but couldn't because of her dress. Then my mind starts thinking: \"Why does she need to wear a dress? Is it just in case she meets a guy that she likes?\" Another example is a couple days ago I messaged her what she was doing and she replied with \"nathin\". This thought popped into my head that maybe she spelled nothing that way because she had some guy named Nathan over. \n\nI know that its stupid to have these thoughts but it's really hard not to keep thinking about it. I tell myself how dumb it is to think this way but it almost never helps. I've been doing this for years about other things but now it's translated into my relationship. How can I stop this? I'm planning on seeing a therapist when school starts."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Let me start off by saying I have mild anxiety which is what I'm assuming is a large factor in this. This is my first relationship and hers. We've been together for four months but since mid-June it's been long distance because of summer vacation. We message pretty much the entire time we are awake and skype every few days. I did visit her for 5 days a couple weeks ago. Overall its been great and I really like her and I can't wait to see her again. \n\nLately I've been having these insecure thoughts about her. Such as just thoughts of her cheating with no reason to think in such a way. Sometimes its gets pretty dumb. For example, earlier today she was saying how she wanted to pet a dog at the store but couldn't because of her dress. Then my mind starts thinking: \"Why does she need to wear a dress? Is it just in case she meets a guy that she likes?\" Another example is a couple days ago I messaged her what she was doing and she replied with \"nathin\". This thought popped into my head that maybe she spelled nothing that way because she had some guy named Nathan over. \n\nI know that its stupid to have these thoughts but it's really hard not to keep thinking about it. I tell myself how dumb it is to think this way but it almost never helps. I've been doing this for years about other things but now it's translated into my relationship. How can I stop this? I'm planning on seeing a therapist when school starts."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: While I was grocery shopping about 45 minutes ago, I received a text from my mom that a growth removed from her nose had proven to be cancerous. I called her immediately, however she was too upset and also still in the middle of her work day so we couldn't talk. I'm very worried and want to provide as much support as I can right now. \n\nI know skin cancer survival rates are very high when it is detected early and furthermore that the recovery from Mohs surgery (what looks like the most common surgery in this case) leaves very little scarring. To me this is good news, as her biggest fear is that the surgery will leave her with a terrible scar on her face. I have a feeling that, especially coming from her not doctor, no medical expertise son, this information will provide little comfort however. \n\nI currently live across the country and am moving back home for a short period in another few months. This past year has not been kind to my family and with this added stress, I want to be as sensitive and helpful as possible. Can anyone who has gone through something similar offer any advice? \n\nEdit: Many thanks to everyone that replied. It's been several days now and my mom has returned to her cheerful self. Her doctor scared her with the suggestion that she may need plastic surgery after the cancer is removed, but the support of others who've experienced the same thing as well as the support I was able to give, informed by many of your suggestions here, have given her a much more positive outlook."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: While I was grocery shopping about 45 minutes ago, I received a text from my mom that a growth removed from her nose had proven to be cancerous. I called her immediately, however she was too upset and also still in the middle of her work day so we couldn't talk. I'm very worried and want to provide as much support as I can right now. \n\nI know skin cancer survival rates are very high when it is detected early and furthermore that the recovery from Mohs surgery (what looks like the most common surgery in this case) leaves very little scarring. To me this is good news, as her biggest fear is that the surgery will leave her with a terrible scar on her face. I have a feeling that, especially coming from her not doctor, no medical expertise son, this information will provide little comfort however. \n\nI currently live across the country and am moving back home for a short period in another few months. This past year has not been kind to my family and with this added stress, I want to be as sensitive and helpful as possible. Can anyone who has gone through something similar offer any advice? \n\nEdit: Many thanks to everyone that replied. It's been several days now and my mom has returned to her cheerful self. Her doctor scared her with the suggestion that she may need plastic surgery after the cancer is removed, but the support of others who've experienced the same thing as well as the support I was able to give, informed by many of your suggestions here, have given her a much more positive outlook."
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