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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday was my birthday, and around lunch time, I got a text from him asking what I wanted for my birthday. I told him I didn't really know, but gave him a few ideas. I got home last night, and he said \"The under armour outlet is having a sale, I'm just going to take you down there and you can pick something.\" The gift ideas I gave him were mostly athletic stuff, so UA makes sense. But it just feels like he's not willing to put any effort into getting me something thoughtful.\n\nFor Christmas I had to tell him exactly what to buy and where because he said otherwise he just wasn't going to get me anything. For Valentine's Day I got a small bag of chocolate (not a big deal, Valentine's Day isn't that important to me). For our anniversary, I got nothing.\n\nI don't want to seem high maintenance and say that he needs to go buy me something, but I want him to put some effort into his gifts.\n\nAm I being unreasonable? How do I explain this to him without upsetting him?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday was my birthday, and around lunch time, I got a text from him asking what I wanted for my birthday. I told him I didn't really know, but gave him a few ideas. I got home last night, and he said \"The under armour outlet is having a sale, I'm just going to take you down there and you can pick something.\" The gift ideas I gave him were mostly athletic stuff, so UA makes sense. But it just feels like he's not willing to put any effort into getting me something thoughtful.\n\nFor Christmas I had to tell him exactly what to buy and where because he said otherwise he just wasn't going to get me anything. For Valentine's Day I got a small bag of chocolate (not a big deal, Valentine's Day isn't that important to me). For our anniversary, I got nothing.\n\nI don't want to seem high maintenance and say that he needs to go buy me something, but I want him to put some effort into his gifts.\n\nAm I being unreasonable? How do I explain this to him without upsetting him?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yesterday was my birthday, and around lunch time, I got a text from him asking what I wanted for my birthday. I told him I didn't really know, but gave him a few ideas. I got home last night, and he said \"The under armour outlet is having a sale, I'm just going to take you down there and you can pick something.\" The gift ideas I gave him were mostly athletic stuff, so UA makes sense. But it just feels like he's not willing to put any effort into getting me something thoughtful.\n\nFor Christmas I had to tell him exactly what to buy and where because he said otherwise he just wasn't going to get me anything. For Valentine's Day I got a small bag of chocolate (not a big deal, Valentine's Day isn't that important to me). For our anniversary, I got nothing.\n\nI don't want to seem high maintenance and say that he needs to go buy me something, but I want him to put some effort into his gifts.\n\nAm I being unreasonable? How do I explain this to him without upsetting him?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started talking to this girl I met in class about 2 months ago (we're in our early 20s). Since then we have been texting everyday nonstop. We do some obvious flirting via text so I know for sure I'm not delusional and that she's just a really nice person. Both her and I know that I will be leaving to a different state in 5 months due to work. We hung out around 4-5 times, sometimes at parties. I have not made a move on her because I never felt like it would work, but I'm not inexperienced with women either. Everytime we hang out she tends to leave around 2am but when she goes out with her friends she always stays out until like 4-5am. She says she needs to be home early because she lives with her parents but can go out til 4-5am when shes with her friends. Anyways as of now, it's always been me asking her out and such. She never invites me to go out with her which i dont mind, I get that men should be the ones initiating everything. However, my logic is, if you are truly interested in someone, wouldn't you try to spend as much time with them as possible? We are currently scheduled for a date on valentines day but I would like to hear you girl's opinions before proceeding. I don't mind if she's not interested, but I just dont want to spend my last couple of months investing in this girl when there was no real possibility of a return.\n\nHow would you girls react to a guy you're interested in but is leaving in 5 months? I dont know what she's after. Does she just want to continue texting cause she likes the attention?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started talking to this girl I met in class about 2 months ago (we're in our early 20s). Since then we have been texting everyday nonstop. We do some obvious flirting via text so I know for sure I'm not delusional and that she's just a really nice person. Both her and I know that I will be leaving to a different state in 5 months due to work. We hung out around 4-5 times, sometimes at parties. I have not made a move on her because I never felt like it would work, but I'm not inexperienced with women either. Everytime we hang out she tends to leave around 2am but when she goes out with her friends she always stays out until like 4-5am. She says she needs to be home early because she lives with her parents but can go out til 4-5am when shes with her friends. Anyways as of now, it's always been me asking her out and such. She never invites me to go out with her which i dont mind, I get that men should be the ones initiating everything. However, my logic is, if you are truly interested in someone, wouldn't you try to spend as much time with them as possible? We are currently scheduled for a date on valentines day but I would like to hear you girl's opinions before proceeding. I don't mind if she's not interested, but I just dont want to spend my last couple of months investing in this girl when there was no real possibility of a return.\n\nHow would you girls react to a guy you're interested in but is leaving in 5 months? I dont know what she's after. Does she just want to continue texting cause she likes the attention?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started talking to this girl I met in class about 2 months ago (we're in our early 20s). Since then we have been texting everyday nonstop. We do some obvious flirting via text so I know for sure I'm not delusional and that she's just a really nice person. Both her and I know that I will be leaving to a different state in 5 months due to work. We hung out around 4-5 times, sometimes at parties. I have not made a move on her because I never felt like it would work, but I'm not inexperienced with women either. Everytime we hang out she tends to leave around 2am but when she goes out with her friends she always stays out until like 4-5am. She says she needs to be home early because she lives with her parents but can go out til 4-5am when shes with her friends. Anyways as of now, it's always been me asking her out and such. She never invites me to go out with her which i dont mind, I get that men should be the ones initiating everything. However, my logic is, if you are truly interested in someone, wouldn't you try to spend as much time with them as possible? We are currently scheduled for a date on valentines day but I would like to hear you girl's opinions before proceeding. I don't mind if she's not interested, but I just dont want to spend my last couple of months investing in this girl when there was no real possibility of a return.\n\nHow would you girls react to a guy you're interested in but is leaving in 5 months? I dont know what she's after. Does she just want to continue texting cause she likes the attention?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started talking to this girl I met in class about 2 months ago (we're in our early 20s). Since then we have been texting everyday nonstop. We do some obvious flirting via text so I know for sure I'm not delusional and that she's just a really nice person. Both her and I know that I will be leaving to a different state in 5 months due to work. We hung out around 4-5 times, sometimes at parties. I have not made a move on her because I never felt like it would work, but I'm not inexperienced with women either. Everytime we hang out she tends to leave around 2am but when she goes out with her friends she always stays out until like 4-5am. She says she needs to be home early because she lives with her parents but can go out til 4-5am when shes with her friends. Anyways as of now, it's always been me asking her out and such. She never invites me to go out with her which i dont mind, I get that men should be the ones initiating everything. However, my logic is, if you are truly interested in someone, wouldn't you try to spend as much time with them as possible? We are currently scheduled for a date on valentines day but I would like to hear you girl's opinions before proceeding. I don't mind if she's not interested, but I just dont want to spend my last couple of months investing in this girl when there was no real possibility of a return.\n\nHow would you girls react to a guy you're interested in but is leaving in 5 months? I dont know what she's after. Does she just want to continue texting cause she likes the attention?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We'd been dating for about 3 months, and last week it came to that inevitable stage where we decide where it is going and if we should continue. He seemed very keen in that he stated he was 100% sure being boyfriend and girlfriend was the right thing and we began looking forward, planning a holiday together in a few months and generally acting the way couples do. \n\nWe had a great night out together on friday, he was encouraging me to open up and share things with him that I gladly did, feeling secure enough to do that now I knew this was going somewhere. The following day however, we met up quite late and he'd been out drinking with his friend all afternoon and was pretty sloshed by the stage I met with them. He kept lying to me and sneaking off for cigarettes, and after an evening of this I lost my temper a little with him and asked (for the 6th time) if he could please stop doing doing it as it was starting to upset me. \n\nIt was the first time we'd had any kind of an argument, I felt really bad about it pretty much instantly. I'm generally a very patient person, and hate when I slip up like that. His response was to walk off for one last smoke, then he disappeared. Phone turned off and everything. Three days of silence followed and he eventually sent me a text saying he didnt want to continue seeing me as we werent right for each other.\n\nThis u-turn came as a big surprise just days after he was professing such good intentions to me, and I'm totally miffed as to how one argument, and very small one at that can spook a person off so quickly.\nWorst of all was that I had been trying to contact him to talk it through and apologise for my part in losing my temper, but he refused.\n\nI didnt think it was such a big deal, people have little tiffs on occasion, but I'm starting to think I might be wrong about that. How would other people handle situations like that? Or do you have any insight as to what could have been going through his head?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We'd been dating for about 3 months, and last week it came to that inevitable stage where we decide where it is going and if we should continue. He seemed very keen in that he stated he was 100% sure being boyfriend and girlfriend was the right thing and we began looking forward, planning a holiday together in a few months and generally acting the way couples do. \n\nWe had a great night out together on friday, he was encouraging me to open up and share things with him that I gladly did, feeling secure enough to do that now I knew this was going somewhere. The following day however, we met up quite late and he'd been out drinking with his friend all afternoon and was pretty sloshed by the stage I met with them. He kept lying to me and sneaking off for cigarettes, and after an evening of this I lost my temper a little with him and asked (for the 6th time) if he could please stop doing doing it as it was starting to upset me. \n\nIt was the first time we'd had any kind of an argument, I felt really bad about it pretty much instantly. I'm generally a very patient person, and hate when I slip up like that. His response was to walk off for one last smoke, then he disappeared. Phone turned off and everything. Three days of silence followed and he eventually sent me a text saying he didnt want to continue seeing me as we werent right for each other.\n\nThis u-turn came as a big surprise just days after he was professing such good intentions to me, and I'm totally miffed as to how one argument, and very small one at that can spook a person off so quickly.\nWorst of all was that I had been trying to contact him to talk it through and apologise for my part in losing my temper, but he refused.\n\nI didnt think it was such a big deal, people have little tiffs on occasion, but I'm starting to think I might be wrong about that. How would other people handle situations like that? Or do you have any insight as to what could have been going through his head?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We'd been dating for about 3 months, and last week it came to that inevitable stage where we decide where it is going and if we should continue. He seemed very keen in that he stated he was 100% sure being boyfriend and girlfriend was the right thing and we began looking forward, planning a holiday together in a few months and generally acting the way couples do. \n\nWe had a great night out together on friday, he was encouraging me to open up and share things with him that I gladly did, feeling secure enough to do that now I knew this was going somewhere. The following day however, we met up quite late and he'd been out drinking with his friend all afternoon and was pretty sloshed by the stage I met with them. He kept lying to me and sneaking off for cigarettes, and after an evening of this I lost my temper a little with him and asked (for the 6th time) if he could please stop doing doing it as it was starting to upset me. \n\nIt was the first time we'd had any kind of an argument, I felt really bad about it pretty much instantly. I'm generally a very patient person, and hate when I slip up like that. His response was to walk off for one last smoke, then he disappeared. Phone turned off and everything. Three days of silence followed and he eventually sent me a text saying he didnt want to continue seeing me as we werent right for each other.\n\nThis u-turn came as a big surprise just days after he was professing such good intentions to me, and I'm totally miffed as to how one argument, and very small one at that can spook a person off so quickly.\nWorst of all was that I had been trying to contact him to talk it through and apologise for my part in losing my temper, but he refused.\n\nI didnt think it was such a big deal, people have little tiffs on occasion, but I'm starting to think I might be wrong about that. How would other people handle situations like that? Or do you have any insight as to what could have been going through his head?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We'd been dating for about 3 months, and last week it came to that inevitable stage where we decide where it is going and if we should continue. He seemed very keen in that he stated he was 100% sure being boyfriend and girlfriend was the right thing and we began looking forward, planning a holiday together in a few months and generally acting the way couples do. \n\nWe had a great night out together on friday, he was encouraging me to open up and share things with him that I gladly did, feeling secure enough to do that now I knew this was going somewhere. The following day however, we met up quite late and he'd been out drinking with his friend all afternoon and was pretty sloshed by the stage I met with them. He kept lying to me and sneaking off for cigarettes, and after an evening of this I lost my temper a little with him and asked (for the 6th time) if he could please stop doing doing it as it was starting to upset me. \n\nIt was the first time we'd had any kind of an argument, I felt really bad about it pretty much instantly. I'm generally a very patient person, and hate when I slip up like that. His response was to walk off for one last smoke, then he disappeared. Phone turned off and everything. Three days of silence followed and he eventually sent me a text saying he didnt want to continue seeing me as we werent right for each other.\n\nThis u-turn came as a big surprise just days after he was professing such good intentions to me, and I'm totally miffed as to how one argument, and very small one at that can spook a person off so quickly.\nWorst of all was that I had been trying to contact him to talk it through and apologise for my part in losing my temper, but he refused.\n\nI didnt think it was such a big deal, people have little tiffs on occasion, but I'm starting to think I might be wrong about that. How would other people handle situations like that? Or do you have any insight as to what could have been going through his head?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, he moved away about five weeks ago, and he's going to be in a small town in the midwest for the next several years for grad school. After some reflection, I have come to the conclusion that I will not be happy moving to this small town just to be with him. Nothing is wrong with our relationship except we're not physically together and probably won't be for a very long time. \n\nHe's coming to visit today, I attempted to end it the other night so he had some head's up before he got here, and he \"won't accept\" what I told him. I do love him but it really just seems like it's not in the cards for us to be together. I don't want to do long distance for years and years, and the logistics of visiting are also very daunting. \n\nI am trying to be practical but understandably he's very hurt and is finding this rationalization very cold. He says he doesn't recognize this cold, unfeeling person doing this to him. We are both very young and I think we both deserve to try to have our own whole, fulfilling lives. \n\nAnyway, HE'S COMING to \"try to talk me out of it.\" I have to scoop him from the airport in an hour and I'm shaking. How can I make this easier for him/explain to him/etc.? How do I stand my ground?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, he moved away about five weeks ago, and he's going to be in a small town in the midwest for the next several years for grad school. After some reflection, I have come to the conclusion that I will not be happy moving to this small town just to be with him. Nothing is wrong with our relationship except we're not physically together and probably won't be for a very long time. \n\nHe's coming to visit today, I attempted to end it the other night so he had some head's up before he got here, and he \"won't accept\" what I told him. I do love him but it really just seems like it's not in the cards for us to be together. I don't want to do long distance for years and years, and the logistics of visiting are also very daunting. \n\nI am trying to be practical but understandably he's very hurt and is finding this rationalization very cold. He says he doesn't recognize this cold, unfeeling person doing this to him. We are both very young and I think we both deserve to try to have our own whole, fulfilling lives. \n\nAnyway, HE'S COMING to \"try to talk me out of it.\" I have to scoop him from the airport in an hour and I'm shaking. How can I make this easier for him/explain to him/etc.? How do I stand my ground?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, he moved away about five weeks ago, and he's going to be in a small town in the midwest for the next several years for grad school. After some reflection, I have come to the conclusion that I will not be happy moving to this small town just to be with him. Nothing is wrong with our relationship except we're not physically together and probably won't be for a very long time. \n\nHe's coming to visit today, I attempted to end it the other night so he had some head's up before he got here, and he \"won't accept\" what I told him. I do love him but it really just seems like it's not in the cards for us to be together. I don't want to do long distance for years and years, and the logistics of visiting are also very daunting. \n\nI am trying to be practical but understandably he's very hurt and is finding this rationalization very cold. He says he doesn't recognize this cold, unfeeling person doing this to him. We are both very young and I think we both deserve to try to have our own whole, fulfilling lives. \n\nAnyway, HE'S COMING to \"try to talk me out of it.\" I have to scoop him from the airport in an hour and I'm shaking. How can I make this easier for him/explain to him/etc.? How do I stand my ground?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, he moved away about five weeks ago, and he's going to be in a small town in the midwest for the next several years for grad school. After some reflection, I have come to the conclusion that I will not be happy moving to this small town just to be with him. Nothing is wrong with our relationship except we're not physically together and probably won't be for a very long time. \n\nHe's coming to visit today, I attempted to end it the other night so he had some head's up before he got here, and he \"won't accept\" what I told him. I do love him but it really just seems like it's not in the cards for us to be together. I don't want to do long distance for years and years, and the logistics of visiting are also very daunting. \n\nI am trying to be practical but understandably he's very hurt and is finding this rationalization very cold. He says he doesn't recognize this cold, unfeeling person doing this to him. We are both very young and I think we both deserve to try to have our own whole, fulfilling lives. \n\nAnyway, HE'S COMING to \"try to talk me out of it.\" I have to scoop him from the airport in an hour and I'm shaking. How can I make this easier for him/explain to him/etc.? How do I stand my ground?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently went on a first date with a girl my age. Lets call her Anna. I felt like she and I really connected during the date and we were really honest and personal in our conversation. Today, I asked her best friend if she knows whether or not I could be something more than just friends with Anna. She replied these same exact words to me over text:\n\n\"Honestly, Anna does not want a relationship right now. She just kinda got out of one. So if I were you I would play it cool and just be friends.\"\n\nShe's typically swarmed by other guys and I don't want to be just a second option so I'm planning on giving up on her completely. Maybe I'm just overreacting. I don't know. I would really appreciate it if someone gave me an answer soon because I don't want to do any more things that are irrational.\n\nI've already opened myself up (emotionally) to Anna like I've NEVER done to anyone else in my life. She and I have been through some of the same trials in life and I feel like we can connect because of them. I don't what to do. Any advice is welcome.\n\nAlso, should I take a risk and ask her out on another date just to see if there's any more interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently went on a first date with a girl my age. Lets call her Anna. I felt like she and I really connected during the date and we were really honest and personal in our conversation. Today, I asked her best friend if she knows whether or not I could be something more than just friends with Anna. She replied these same exact words to me over text:\n\n\"Honestly, Anna does not want a relationship right now. She just kinda got out of one. So if I were you I would play it cool and just be friends.\"\n\nShe's typically swarmed by other guys and I don't want to be just a second option so I'm planning on giving up on her completely. Maybe I'm just overreacting. I don't know. I would really appreciate it if someone gave me an answer soon because I don't want to do any more things that are irrational.\n\nI've already opened myself up (emotionally) to Anna like I've NEVER done to anyone else in my life. She and I have been through some of the same trials in life and I feel like we can connect because of them. I don't what to do. Any advice is welcome.\n\nAlso, should I take a risk and ask her out on another date just to see if there's any more interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently went on a first date with a girl my age. Lets call her Anna. I felt like she and I really connected during the date and we were really honest and personal in our conversation. Today, I asked her best friend if she knows whether or not I could be something more than just friends with Anna. She replied these same exact words to me over text:\n\n\"Honestly, Anna does not want a relationship right now. She just kinda got out of one. So if I were you I would play it cool and just be friends.\"\n\nShe's typically swarmed by other guys and I don't want to be just a second option so I'm planning on giving up on her completely. Maybe I'm just overreacting. I don't know. I would really appreciate it if someone gave me an answer soon because I don't want to do any more things that are irrational.\n\nI've already opened myself up (emotionally) to Anna like I've NEVER done to anyone else in my life. She and I have been through some of the same trials in life and I feel like we can connect because of them. I don't what to do. Any advice is welcome.\n\nAlso, should I take a risk and ask her out on another date just to see if there's any more interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently went on a first date with a girl my age. Lets call her Anna. I felt like she and I really connected during the date and we were really honest and personal in our conversation. Today, I asked her best friend if she knows whether or not I could be something more than just friends with Anna. She replied these same exact words to me over text:\n\n\"Honestly, Anna does not want a relationship right now. She just kinda got out of one. So if I were you I would play it cool and just be friends.\"\n\nShe's typically swarmed by other guys and I don't want to be just a second option so I'm planning on giving up on her completely. Maybe I'm just overreacting. I don't know. I would really appreciate it if someone gave me an answer soon because I don't want to do any more things that are irrational.\n\nI've already opened myself up (emotionally) to Anna like I've NEVER done to anyone else in my life. She and I have been through some of the same trials in life and I feel like we can connect because of them. I don't what to do. Any advice is welcome.\n\nAlso, should I take a risk and ask her out on another date just to see if there's any more interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I write everything down, the choice seems obvious, but I can't shake the feeling away. About two months ago, my ex and I broke up after a two-month relationship. She ended it because she still had feelings for her ex. I totally understood and agreed that we should end things. The only problem with that is that she lives in the apartment below mine, so we see each other every day. \n-\nBetween then and now we've fought quite a bit which is something I'm not very used to. We've both seen other people since breaking up, but neither of us sees them for very long and we always go back to wanting each other again. We've tried (very half-assedly) experimenting with getting back together a few times, but there's always doubt.\n-\nI have a few problems with my ex. She can be very cynical, confrontational, manipulative, and downright mean, but she can also be very sweet and caring and she makes up for all of the areas of personality that I lack. Sometimes I really enjoy being with her, but sometimes it can be terrible. I really care about her, but sometimes it can be too much work.\n-\nIt's been a while since we've hung out and I started seeing this other girl. If I were to write down everything I'm looking for in a partner, this girl would fit almost exactly. The problem this girl isn't clicking for me. Last night we had a great time hanging out, but I couldn't stop thinking about my ex. My ex told me a few days ago that she really wanted to get back together this time and I do believe her.\n-\nI'm so confused about what to do. I know it will probably be easier in time, but I could really use some insight."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I write everything down, the choice seems obvious, but I can't shake the feeling away. About two months ago, my ex and I broke up after a two-month relationship. She ended it because she still had feelings for her ex. I totally understood and agreed that we should end things. The only problem with that is that she lives in the apartment below mine, so we see each other every day. \n-\nBetween then and now we've fought quite a bit which is something I'm not very used to. We've both seen other people since breaking up, but neither of us sees them for very long and we always go back to wanting each other again. We've tried (very half-assedly) experimenting with getting back together a few times, but there's always doubt.\n-\nI have a few problems with my ex. She can be very cynical, confrontational, manipulative, and downright mean, but she can also be very sweet and caring and she makes up for all of the areas of personality that I lack. Sometimes I really enjoy being with her, but sometimes it can be terrible. I really care about her, but sometimes it can be too much work.\n-\nIt's been a while since we've hung out and I started seeing this other girl. If I were to write down everything I'm looking for in a partner, this girl would fit almost exactly. The problem this girl isn't clicking for me. Last night we had a great time hanging out, but I couldn't stop thinking about my ex. My ex told me a few days ago that she really wanted to get back together this time and I do believe her.\n-\nI'm so confused about what to do. I know it will probably be easier in time, but I could really use some insight."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I write everything down, the choice seems obvious, but I can't shake the feeling away. About two months ago, my ex and I broke up after a two-month relationship. She ended it because she still had feelings for her ex. I totally understood and agreed that we should end things. The only problem with that is that she lives in the apartment below mine, so we see each other every day. \n-\nBetween then and now we've fought quite a bit which is something I'm not very used to. We've both seen other people since breaking up, but neither of us sees them for very long and we always go back to wanting each other again. We've tried (very half-assedly) experimenting with getting back together a few times, but there's always doubt.\n-\nI have a few problems with my ex. She can be very cynical, confrontational, manipulative, and downright mean, but she can also be very sweet and caring and she makes up for all of the areas of personality that I lack. Sometimes I really enjoy being with her, but sometimes it can be terrible. I really care about her, but sometimes it can be too much work.\n-\nIt's been a while since we've hung out and I started seeing this other girl. If I were to write down everything I'm looking for in a partner, this girl would fit almost exactly. The problem this girl isn't clicking for me. Last night we had a great time hanging out, but I couldn't stop thinking about my ex. My ex told me a few days ago that she really wanted to get back together this time and I do believe her.\n-\nI'm so confused about what to do. I know it will probably be easier in time, but I could really use some insight."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I write everything down, the choice seems obvious, but I can't shake the feeling away. About two months ago, my ex and I broke up after a two-month relationship. She ended it because she still had feelings for her ex. I totally understood and agreed that we should end things. The only problem with that is that she lives in the apartment below mine, so we see each other every day. \n-\nBetween then and now we've fought quite a bit which is something I'm not very used to. We've both seen other people since breaking up, but neither of us sees them for very long and we always go back to wanting each other again. We've tried (very half-assedly) experimenting with getting back together a few times, but there's always doubt.\n-\nI have a few problems with my ex. She can be very cynical, confrontational, manipulative, and downright mean, but she can also be very sweet and caring and she makes up for all of the areas of personality that I lack. Sometimes I really enjoy being with her, but sometimes it can be terrible. I really care about her, but sometimes it can be too much work.\n-\nIt's been a while since we've hung out and I started seeing this other girl. If I were to write down everything I'm looking for in a partner, this girl would fit almost exactly. The problem this girl isn't clicking for me. Last night we had a great time hanging out, but I couldn't stop thinking about my ex. My ex told me a few days ago that she really wanted to get back together this time and I do believe her.\n-\nI'm so confused about what to do. I know it will probably be easier in time, but I could really use some insight."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In my town there is a high Mormon population and I've always skirted around dating any Mormons due to my not-so-conservative beliefs or actions, especially concerning relationships. I just started seeing this guy who is genuinely the sweetest guy I've ever gone out with but is not pushy with his beliefs. We are getting to the point now (we've been together 6 weeks) when we are talking about our pasts and learning more about each other but I'm concerned that him knowing about my past would put stress on our relationship. I'm also concerned that if I am upfront with my beliefs or opinions that it might drive him away without him giving me a chance. \n\nWhen should I begin to push the limits of this relationship? Is there any way I could learn to be more understanding of his religion so that I understand him better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In my town there is a high Mormon population and I've always skirted around dating any Mormons due to my not-so-conservative beliefs or actions, especially concerning relationships. I just started seeing this guy who is genuinely the sweetest guy I've ever gone out with but is not pushy with his beliefs. We are getting to the point now (we've been together 6 weeks) when we are talking about our pasts and learning more about each other but I'm concerned that him knowing about my past would put stress on our relationship. I'm also concerned that if I am upfront with my beliefs or opinions that it might drive him away without him giving me a chance. \n\nWhen should I begin to push the limits of this relationship? Is there any way I could learn to be more understanding of his religion so that I understand him better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In my town there is a high Mormon population and I've always skirted around dating any Mormons due to my not-so-conservative beliefs or actions, especially concerning relationships. I just started seeing this guy who is genuinely the sweetest guy I've ever gone out with but is not pushy with his beliefs. We are getting to the point now (we've been together 6 weeks) when we are talking about our pasts and learning more about each other but I'm concerned that him knowing about my past would put stress on our relationship. I'm also concerned that if I am upfront with my beliefs or opinions that it might drive him away without him giving me a chance. \n\nWhen should I begin to push the limits of this relationship? Is there any way I could learn to be more understanding of his religion so that I understand him better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In my town there is a high Mormon population and I've always skirted around dating any Mormons due to my not-so-conservative beliefs or actions, especially concerning relationships. I just started seeing this guy who is genuinely the sweetest guy I've ever gone out with but is not pushy with his beliefs. We are getting to the point now (we've been together 6 weeks) when we are talking about our pasts and learning more about each other but I'm concerned that him knowing about my past would put stress on our relationship. I'm also concerned that if I am upfront with my beliefs or opinions that it might drive him away without him giving me a chance. \n\nWhen should I begin to push the limits of this relationship? Is there any way I could learn to be more understanding of his religion so that I understand him better?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The full story is that I went to Gamestop to get rid of a few crappy games I owned that I never played. I went inside, talked to the manager for a bit, and picked out a game that looked interesting. After finding a good game, I went up to the counter to be checked out and go on my merry way. \n\nOnce I got up there, this lady in front of me started complaining about how blunt the manager was to her. She said that she is going to have a word with her manager about this, which the manager replied she is the manager. the customer then said she will speak to the owner, which the manager said that its a franchise, hence, no owner. The customer said she will tell the whole world about how lousy her service was, and how nobody should shop there. The customer then proceeded to tell her that she shouldnt have kids and remarked about her tattoos. She finally left and I was able to buy my game. \n\nI felt bad for the manager since she did nothing wrong, all she was doing is just saying all the usual trade in offers, preorders, that sort."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The full story is that I went to Gamestop to get rid of a few crappy games I owned that I never played. I went inside, talked to the manager for a bit, and picked out a game that looked interesting. After finding a good game, I went up to the counter to be checked out and go on my merry way. \n\nOnce I got up there, this lady in front of me started complaining about how blunt the manager was to her. She said that she is going to have a word with her manager about this, which the manager replied she is the manager. the customer then said she will speak to the owner, which the manager said that its a franchise, hence, no owner. The customer said she will tell the whole world about how lousy her service was, and how nobody should shop there. The customer then proceeded to tell her that she shouldnt have kids and remarked about her tattoos. She finally left and I was able to buy my game. \n\nI felt bad for the manager since she did nothing wrong, all she was doing is just saying all the usual trade in offers, preorders, that sort."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The full story is that I went to Gamestop to get rid of a few crappy games I owned that I never played. I went inside, talked to the manager for a bit, and picked out a game that looked interesting. After finding a good game, I went up to the counter to be checked out and go on my merry way. \n\nOnce I got up there, this lady in front of me started complaining about how blunt the manager was to her. She said that she is going to have a word with her manager about this, which the manager replied she is the manager. the customer then said she will speak to the owner, which the manager said that its a franchise, hence, no owner. The customer said she will tell the whole world about how lousy her service was, and how nobody should shop there. The customer then proceeded to tell her that she shouldnt have kids and remarked about her tattoos. She finally left and I was able to buy my game. \n\nI felt bad for the manager since she did nothing wrong, all she was doing is just saying all the usual trade in offers, preorders, that sort."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The full story is that I went to Gamestop to get rid of a few crappy games I owned that I never played. I went inside, talked to the manager for a bit, and picked out a game that looked interesting. After finding a good game, I went up to the counter to be checked out and go on my merry way. \n\nOnce I got up there, this lady in front of me started complaining about how blunt the manager was to her. She said that she is going to have a word with her manager about this, which the manager replied she is the manager. the customer then said she will speak to the owner, which the manager said that its a franchise, hence, no owner. The customer said she will tell the whole world about how lousy her service was, and how nobody should shop there. The customer then proceeded to tell her that she shouldnt have kids and remarked about her tattoos. She finally left and I was able to buy my game. \n\nI felt bad for the manager since she did nothing wrong, all she was doing is just saying all the usual trade in offers, preorders, that sort."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: I've been dating my girlfriend for 3+ years and all was great for the first 2 years. We live in the same city, go to the same school etc. Over the last year I just haven't been happy because I guess in the midst of the relationship I stopped doing all the things I liked doing (hanging out with friends, enjoying my college years etc), and on top of that I've been lied to on numerous occasions and had to deal with my girlfriends jealousy issues. She claims the jealousy is because she cares and the lies were due to immature mistakes. I don't buy it and I want to end this relationship but every time I do I get this desperate girl who makes me feel bad and doesn't allow me to fully end it. I'll get phones calls and voice mails along with long messages about how everything will be ok that I just need to give it a chance. I end up falling back into it and dropping the subject until a couple days later where I get the courage to try and end things again and the cycle continues."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: I've been dating my girlfriend for 3+ years and all was great for the first 2 years. We live in the same city, go to the same school etc. Over the last year I just haven't been happy because I guess in the midst of the relationship I stopped doing all the things I liked doing (hanging out with friends, enjoying my college years etc), and on top of that I've been lied to on numerous occasions and had to deal with my girlfriends jealousy issues. She claims the jealousy is because she cares and the lies were due to immature mistakes. I don't buy it and I want to end this relationship but every time I do I get this desperate girl who makes me feel bad and doesn't allow me to fully end it. I'll get phones calls and voice mails along with long messages about how everything will be ok that I just need to give it a chance. I end up falling back into it and dropping the subject until a couple days later where I get the courage to try and end things again and the cycle continues."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: I've been dating my girlfriend for 3+ years and all was great for the first 2 years. We live in the same city, go to the same school etc. Over the last year I just haven't been happy because I guess in the midst of the relationship I stopped doing all the things I liked doing (hanging out with friends, enjoying my college years etc), and on top of that I've been lied to on numerous occasions and had to deal with my girlfriends jealousy issues. She claims the jealousy is because she cares and the lies were due to immature mistakes. I don't buy it and I want to end this relationship but every time I do I get this desperate girl who makes me feel bad and doesn't allow me to fully end it. I'll get phones calls and voice mails along with long messages about how everything will be ok that I just need to give it a chance. I end up falling back into it and dropping the subject until a couple days later where I get the courage to try and end things again and the cycle continues."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: I've been dating my girlfriend for 3+ years and all was great for the first 2 years. We live in the same city, go to the same school etc. Over the last year I just haven't been happy because I guess in the midst of the relationship I stopped doing all the things I liked doing (hanging out with friends, enjoying my college years etc), and on top of that I've been lied to on numerous occasions and had to deal with my girlfriends jealousy issues. She claims the jealousy is because she cares and the lies were due to immature mistakes. I don't buy it and I want to end this relationship but every time I do I get this desperate girl who makes me feel bad and doesn't allow me to fully end it. I'll get phones calls and voice mails along with long messages about how everything will be ok that I just need to give it a chance. I end up falling back into it and dropping the subject until a couple days later where I get the courage to try and end things again and the cycle continues."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have known the guy I consider my best friend since I was five years old. We went to elementary and high school together and also went to the same college, where we now live. We have been good friends the entire time. We lived together when we were 20 and then after that year he moved in with his current roommate. The guy is a decent person but he enjoys a good bitch fest where we complains about everything and it seems like he is doing it for attention. My friend babies him and rarely tells him he does something wrong.\n\nThe problem I am having is that I am unable to hang out with my best friend with just him and I if the guy is in town because it seems like he becomes attached to my best friends hip if he is in the city. I have invited my best friend (J from now on) to go to a board game group that I go to every week and I have a feeling that roommate (A) is going to invite himself. Now I have no problem saying no to him but I do know that the moment we leave that he will start blowing up J's phone saying that I am the bad guy.\n\nHow should I handle this? I don't want him to go to my group so I can hang out with J but I also don't want J to have to deal with constant message about how I am unfair because I didn't want to bring him into my group of friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have known the guy I consider my best friend since I was five years old. We went to elementary and high school together and also went to the same college, where we now live. We have been good friends the entire time. We lived together when we were 20 and then after that year he moved in with his current roommate. The guy is a decent person but he enjoys a good bitch fest where we complains about everything and it seems like he is doing it for attention. My friend babies him and rarely tells him he does something wrong.\n\nThe problem I am having is that I am unable to hang out with my best friend with just him and I if the guy is in town because it seems like he becomes attached to my best friends hip if he is in the city. I have invited my best friend (J from now on) to go to a board game group that I go to every week and I have a feeling that roommate (A) is going to invite himself. Now I have no problem saying no to him but I do know that the moment we leave that he will start blowing up J's phone saying that I am the bad guy.\n\nHow should I handle this? I don't want him to go to my group so I can hang out with J but I also don't want J to have to deal with constant message about how I am unfair because I didn't want to bring him into my group of friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have known the guy I consider my best friend since I was five years old. We went to elementary and high school together and also went to the same college, where we now live. We have been good friends the entire time. We lived together when we were 20 and then after that year he moved in with his current roommate. The guy is a decent person but he enjoys a good bitch fest where we complains about everything and it seems like he is doing it for attention. My friend babies him and rarely tells him he does something wrong.\n\nThe problem I am having is that I am unable to hang out with my best friend with just him and I if the guy is in town because it seems like he becomes attached to my best friends hip if he is in the city. I have invited my best friend (J from now on) to go to a board game group that I go to every week and I have a feeling that roommate (A) is going to invite himself. Now I have no problem saying no to him but I do know that the moment we leave that he will start blowing up J's phone saying that I am the bad guy.\n\nHow should I handle this? I don't want him to go to my group so I can hang out with J but I also don't want J to have to deal with constant message about how I am unfair because I didn't want to bring him into my group of friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have known the guy I consider my best friend since I was five years old. We went to elementary and high school together and also went to the same college, where we now live. We have been good friends the entire time. We lived together when we were 20 and then after that year he moved in with his current roommate. The guy is a decent person but he enjoys a good bitch fest where we complains about everything and it seems like he is doing it for attention. My friend babies him and rarely tells him he does something wrong.\n\nThe problem I am having is that I am unable to hang out with my best friend with just him and I if the guy is in town because it seems like he becomes attached to my best friends hip if he is in the city. I have invited my best friend (J from now on) to go to a board game group that I go to every week and I have a feeling that roommate (A) is going to invite himself. Now I have no problem saying no to him but I do know that the moment we leave that he will start blowing up J's phone saying that I am the bad guy.\n\nHow should I handle this? I don't want him to go to my group so I can hang out with J but I also don't want J to have to deal with constant message about how I am unfair because I didn't want to bring him into my group of friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have known the guy I consider my best friend since I was five years old. We went to elementary and high school together and also went to the same college, where we now live. We have been good friends the entire time. We lived together when we were 20 and then after that year he moved in with his current roommate. The guy is a decent person but he enjoys a good bitch fest where we complains about everything and it seems like he is doing it for attention. My friend babies him and rarely tells him he does something wrong.\n\nThe problem I am having is that I am unable to hang out with my best friend with just him and I if the guy is in town because it seems like he becomes attached to my best friends hip if he is in the city. I have invited my best friend (J from now on) to go to a board game group that I go to every week and I have a feeling that roommate (A) is going to invite himself. Now I have no problem saying no to him but I do know that the moment we leave that he will start blowing up J's phone saying that I am the bad guy.\n\nHow should I handle this? I don't want him to go to my group so I can hang out with J but I also don't want J to have to deal with constant message about how I am unfair because I didn't want to bring him into my group of friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have known the guy I consider my best friend since I was five years old. We went to elementary and high school together and also went to the same college, where we now live. We have been good friends the entire time. We lived together when we were 20 and then after that year he moved in with his current roommate. The guy is a decent person but he enjoys a good bitch fest where we complains about everything and it seems like he is doing it for attention. My friend babies him and rarely tells him he does something wrong.\n\nThe problem I am having is that I am unable to hang out with my best friend with just him and I if the guy is in town because it seems like he becomes attached to my best friends hip if he is in the city. I have invited my best friend (J from now on) to go to a board game group that I go to every week and I have a feeling that roommate (A) is going to invite himself. Now I have no problem saying no to him but I do know that the moment we leave that he will start blowing up J's phone saying that I am the bad guy.\n\nHow should I handle this? I don't want him to go to my group so I can hang out with J but I also don't want J to have to deal with constant message about how I am unfair because I didn't want to bring him into my group of friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have known the guy I consider my best friend since I was five years old. We went to elementary and high school together and also went to the same college, where we now live. We have been good friends the entire time. We lived together when we were 20 and then after that year he moved in with his current roommate. The guy is a decent person but he enjoys a good bitch fest where we complains about everything and it seems like he is doing it for attention. My friend babies him and rarely tells him he does something wrong.\n\nThe problem I am having is that I am unable to hang out with my best friend with just him and I if the guy is in town because it seems like he becomes attached to my best friends hip if he is in the city. I have invited my best friend (J from now on) to go to a board game group that I go to every week and I have a feeling that roommate (A) is going to invite himself. Now I have no problem saying no to him but I do know that the moment we leave that he will start blowing up J's phone saying that I am the bad guy.\n\nHow should I handle this? I don't want him to go to my group so I can hang out with J but I also don't want J to have to deal with constant message about how I am unfair because I didn't want to bring him into my group of friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have known the guy I consider my best friend since I was five years old. We went to elementary and high school together and also went to the same college, where we now live. We have been good friends the entire time. We lived together when we were 20 and then after that year he moved in with his current roommate. The guy is a decent person but he enjoys a good bitch fest where we complains about everything and it seems like he is doing it for attention. My friend babies him and rarely tells him he does something wrong.\n\nThe problem I am having is that I am unable to hang out with my best friend with just him and I if the guy is in town because it seems like he becomes attached to my best friends hip if he is in the city. I have invited my best friend (J from now on) to go to a board game group that I go to every week and I have a feeling that roommate (A) is going to invite himself. Now I have no problem saying no to him but I do know that the moment we leave that he will start blowing up J's phone saying that I am the bad guy.\n\nHow should I handle this? I don't want him to go to my group so I can hang out with J but I also don't want J to have to deal with constant message about how I am unfair because I didn't want to bring him into my group of friends."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Created a throwaway as have friends who know my normal account. \n\nI'll try and keep this short. I have found recently that I bear very little emotional connection to those who would appear to be my friends, family and people who generally care about me. Each time someone comments \"I've missed you\" my stomach drops after the realization that I really haven't missed them, at all. \n\nThis would seem the norm for those who are just acquaintances or the like, but this is occurring with my siblings, parents and friends who are meant to be my dearest. I feel I could easily never see them again. \n\nWhen it comes to relationships I form emotional attachments to a girl, then the next week i'll find i'm no longer interested. This is where this post stems from. I have just been listening to a girl I have developed strong feelings for sleep with another guy (the benefits of sharing a home) and instantly I no longer feel anything for her. \n\nI suppose I don't want to feel like this, I want to feel like I want to spend time with those who love me, care about me and show the same affection back.\n\nIf you've got this far I thank you for taking the time to read this post. How am I meant to cope with this or better, fix this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Created a throwaway as have friends who know my normal account. \n\nI'll try and keep this short. I have found recently that I bear very little emotional connection to those who would appear to be my friends, family and people who generally care about me. Each time someone comments \"I've missed you\" my stomach drops after the realization that I really haven't missed them, at all. \n\nThis would seem the norm for those who are just acquaintances or the like, but this is occurring with my siblings, parents and friends who are meant to be my dearest. I feel I could easily never see them again. \n\nWhen it comes to relationships I form emotional attachments to a girl, then the next week i'll find i'm no longer interested. This is where this post stems from. I have just been listening to a girl I have developed strong feelings for sleep with another guy (the benefits of sharing a home) and instantly I no longer feel anything for her. \n\nI suppose I don't want to feel like this, I want to feel like I want to spend time with those who love me, care about me and show the same affection back.\n\nIf you've got this far I thank you for taking the time to read this post. How am I meant to cope with this or better, fix this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Created a throwaway as have friends who know my normal account. \n\nI'll try and keep this short. I have found recently that I bear very little emotional connection to those who would appear to be my friends, family and people who generally care about me. Each time someone comments \"I've missed you\" my stomach drops after the realization that I really haven't missed them, at all. \n\nThis would seem the norm for those who are just acquaintances or the like, but this is occurring with my siblings, parents and friends who are meant to be my dearest. I feel I could easily never see them again. \n\nWhen it comes to relationships I form emotional attachments to a girl, then the next week i'll find i'm no longer interested. This is where this post stems from. I have just been listening to a girl I have developed strong feelings for sleep with another guy (the benefits of sharing a home) and instantly I no longer feel anything for her. \n\nI suppose I don't want to feel like this, I want to feel like I want to spend time with those who love me, care about me and show the same affection back.\n\nIf you've got this far I thank you for taking the time to read this post. How am I meant to cope with this or better, fix this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Created a throwaway as have friends who know my normal account. \n\nI'll try and keep this short. I have found recently that I bear very little emotional connection to those who would appear to be my friends, family and people who generally care about me. Each time someone comments \"I've missed you\" my stomach drops after the realization that I really haven't missed them, at all. \n\nThis would seem the norm for those who are just acquaintances or the like, but this is occurring with my siblings, parents and friends who are meant to be my dearest. I feel I could easily never see them again. \n\nWhen it comes to relationships I form emotional attachments to a girl, then the next week i'll find i'm no longer interested. This is where this post stems from. I have just been listening to a girl I have developed strong feelings for sleep with another guy (the benefits of sharing a home) and instantly I no longer feel anything for her. \n\nI suppose I don't want to feel like this, I want to feel like I want to spend time with those who love me, care about me and show the same affection back.\n\nIf you've got this far I thank you for taking the time to read this post. How am I meant to cope with this or better, fix this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here is my original post.\n\nI brought up the conversation with him. He insisted that he wasn't living with me, and that as soon as he bought a bed he wouldn't be staying as often. I was very upset, but I knew he had to get up for work in the morning so I didn't escalate the conversation. I hadn't prepared for him to respond in that way and I wanted to get my thoughts in order.\n\nThe next evening I asked how he sees our relationship and his goals for our future. He didn't answer the question. I asked if he thought about these kinds of things, like marriage and family, not necessarily in relation to me. He responded with, \"What do you want me to say?\" I was honest with him, I didn't really cared how he answered, I just wanted to know what he was thinking and how he was feeling. He got very upset and said he didn't like talking about these things and that he should have just gone home. After I started crying (more out of frustration, than sadness) he said \"I want to be with you for a long time, we are going to have little black babies.\"\n\nI ended the conversation after that, for many reasons. He often teases me about my race, while this wasn't necessarily a mean spirited thing to say, he frequently mentions or comments on my blackness in joking, condescending terms. I also don't want to be with someone who doesn't have any thoughts about their future with a long term partner. All of his goals and ideas about the future involve only himself. This is totally fine, he is a young man figuring things out, but I don't think it's unreasonable for me to ask him about our future together considering how much time we spend together/how much he relies on me in a lot of ways. \n\nShould I end this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here is my original post.\n\nI brought up the conversation with him. He insisted that he wasn't living with me, and that as soon as he bought a bed he wouldn't be staying as often. I was very upset, but I knew he had to get up for work in the morning so I didn't escalate the conversation. I hadn't prepared for him to respond in that way and I wanted to get my thoughts in order.\n\nThe next evening I asked how he sees our relationship and his goals for our future. He didn't answer the question. I asked if he thought about these kinds of things, like marriage and family, not necessarily in relation to me. He responded with, \"What do you want me to say?\" I was honest with him, I didn't really cared how he answered, I just wanted to know what he was thinking and how he was feeling. He got very upset and said he didn't like talking about these things and that he should have just gone home. After I started crying (more out of frustration, than sadness) he said \"I want to be with you for a long time, we are going to have little black babies.\"\n\nI ended the conversation after that, for many reasons. He often teases me about my race, while this wasn't necessarily a mean spirited thing to say, he frequently mentions or comments on my blackness in joking, condescending terms. I also don't want to be with someone who doesn't have any thoughts about their future with a long term partner. All of his goals and ideas about the future involve only himself. This is totally fine, he is a young man figuring things out, but I don't think it's unreasonable for me to ask him about our future together considering how much time we spend together/how much he relies on me in a lot of ways. \n\nShould I end this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here is my original post.\n\nI brought up the conversation with him. He insisted that he wasn't living with me, and that as soon as he bought a bed he wouldn't be staying as often. I was very upset, but I knew he had to get up for work in the morning so I didn't escalate the conversation. I hadn't prepared for him to respond in that way and I wanted to get my thoughts in order.\n\nThe next evening I asked how he sees our relationship and his goals for our future. He didn't answer the question. I asked if he thought about these kinds of things, like marriage and family, not necessarily in relation to me. He responded with, \"What do you want me to say?\" I was honest with him, I didn't really cared how he answered, I just wanted to know what he was thinking and how he was feeling. He got very upset and said he didn't like talking about these things and that he should have just gone home. After I started crying (more out of frustration, than sadness) he said \"I want to be with you for a long time, we are going to have little black babies.\"\n\nI ended the conversation after that, for many reasons. He often teases me about my race, while this wasn't necessarily a mean spirited thing to say, he frequently mentions or comments on my blackness in joking, condescending terms. I also don't want to be with someone who doesn't have any thoughts about their future with a long term partner. All of his goals and ideas about the future involve only himself. This is totally fine, he is a young man figuring things out, but I don't think it's unreasonable for me to ask him about our future together considering how much time we spend together/how much he relies on me in a lot of ways. \n\nShould I end this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Here is my original post.\n\nI brought up the conversation with him. He insisted that he wasn't living with me, and that as soon as he bought a bed he wouldn't be staying as often. I was very upset, but I knew he had to get up for work in the morning so I didn't escalate the conversation. I hadn't prepared for him to respond in that way and I wanted to get my thoughts in order.\n\nThe next evening I asked how he sees our relationship and his goals for our future. He didn't answer the question. I asked if he thought about these kinds of things, like marriage and family, not necessarily in relation to me. He responded with, \"What do you want me to say?\" I was honest with him, I didn't really cared how he answered, I just wanted to know what he was thinking and how he was feeling. He got very upset and said he didn't like talking about these things and that he should have just gone home. After I started crying (more out of frustration, than sadness) he said \"I want to be with you for a long time, we are going to have little black babies.\"\n\nI ended the conversation after that, for many reasons. He often teases me about my race, while this wasn't necessarily a mean spirited thing to say, he frequently mentions or comments on my blackness in joking, condescending terms. I also don't want to be with someone who doesn't have any thoughts about their future with a long term partner. All of his goals and ideas about the future involve only himself. This is totally fine, he is a young man figuring things out, but I don't think it's unreasonable for me to ask him about our future together considering how much time we spend together/how much he relies on me in a lot of ways. \n\nShould I end this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, just curious to know if other couples have experienced this. We've been together over 5 years, but it really seems in the last few months she's been drifting a way a bit. I had plans to propose in the very near future, which I have no idea what to do about any more. Anyway, we had a very emotional discussion, surrounding why she wasn't sure if the relationship was working as well as it should, followed by a 3 hour \"cuddle fest\" followed by her saying she wanted to go to her parents place for a few days to clear her mind. We live in a condo together. Anyone had similar experiences? What does this mean? So confused. Cuddling/kissing and still a (seemingly) deep emotional connection, but she's also asking for time away? She just left."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, just curious to know if other couples have experienced this. We've been together over 5 years, but it really seems in the last few months she's been drifting a way a bit. I had plans to propose in the very near future, which I have no idea what to do about any more. Anyway, we had a very emotional discussion, surrounding why she wasn't sure if the relationship was working as well as it should, followed by a 3 hour \"cuddle fest\" followed by her saying she wanted to go to her parents place for a few days to clear her mind. We live in a condo together. Anyone had similar experiences? What does this mean? So confused. Cuddling/kissing and still a (seemingly) deep emotional connection, but she's also asking for time away? She just left."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, just curious to know if other couples have experienced this. We've been together over 5 years, but it really seems in the last few months she's been drifting a way a bit. I had plans to propose in the very near future, which I have no idea what to do about any more. Anyway, we had a very emotional discussion, surrounding why she wasn't sure if the relationship was working as well as it should, followed by a 3 hour \"cuddle fest\" followed by her saying she wanted to go to her parents place for a few days to clear her mind. We live in a condo together. Anyone had similar experiences? What does this mean? So confused. Cuddling/kissing and still a (seemingly) deep emotional connection, but she's also asking for time away? She just left."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, just curious to know if other couples have experienced this. We've been together over 5 years, but it really seems in the last few months she's been drifting a way a bit. I had plans to propose in the very near future, which I have no idea what to do about any more. Anyway, we had a very emotional discussion, surrounding why she wasn't sure if the relationship was working as well as it should, followed by a 3 hour \"cuddle fest\" followed by her saying she wanted to go to her parents place for a few days to clear her mind. We live in a condo together. Anyone had similar experiences? What does this mean? So confused. Cuddling/kissing and still a (seemingly) deep emotional connection, but she's also asking for time away? She just left."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had a bad breakup with my boyfriend of 3 years last year and I decided to go travel. I put all of my stuff into storage and left right away without telling my family or friends what I was doing until I landed. It sounds crazy, it was crazy, but I just didn't want anyone to talk me out of it. Everyone was really understanding and I still talked to them a lot online or on the phone, and two friends came out to see me (at separate times). \n\nIt was the best six months of my life but I'm back now. I was really excited to see all of my friends again because we were falling out of touch towards the end of my trip. I've been trying for a week now to get together with them but no one wants to see me. Some are just completely ignoring my texts (even though I can see they read them) and others are just saying they're too busy but won't make plans for when their schedules free up. It's only the girls doing this, the guys I'm friends with who are also friends with them were happy to get together and one of them asked me to move in with him since I'm staying with my brother until I find a place. I asked them about it but they said they weren't sure what was going on. \n\nHow can I fix this? I'm not sure if I did something wrong but I really don't want to lose all my friends, I've been friends with most of them since grade school."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had a bad breakup with my boyfriend of 3 years last year and I decided to go travel. I put all of my stuff into storage and left right away without telling my family or friends what I was doing until I landed. It sounds crazy, it was crazy, but I just didn't want anyone to talk me out of it. Everyone was really understanding and I still talked to them a lot online or on the phone, and two friends came out to see me (at separate times). \n\nIt was the best six months of my life but I'm back now. I was really excited to see all of my friends again because we were falling out of touch towards the end of my trip. I've been trying for a week now to get together with them but no one wants to see me. Some are just completely ignoring my texts (even though I can see they read them) and others are just saying they're too busy but won't make plans for when their schedules free up. It's only the girls doing this, the guys I'm friends with who are also friends with them were happy to get together and one of them asked me to move in with him since I'm staying with my brother until I find a place. I asked them about it but they said they weren't sure what was going on. \n\nHow can I fix this? I'm not sure if I did something wrong but I really don't want to lose all my friends, I've been friends with most of them since grade school."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had a bad breakup with my boyfriend of 3 years last year and I decided to go travel. I put all of my stuff into storage and left right away without telling my family or friends what I was doing until I landed. It sounds crazy, it was crazy, but I just didn't want anyone to talk me out of it. Everyone was really understanding and I still talked to them a lot online or on the phone, and two friends came out to see me (at separate times). \n\nIt was the best six months of my life but I'm back now. I was really excited to see all of my friends again because we were falling out of touch towards the end of my trip. I've been trying for a week now to get together with them but no one wants to see me. Some are just completely ignoring my texts (even though I can see they read them) and others are just saying they're too busy but won't make plans for when their schedules free up. It's only the girls doing this, the guys I'm friends with who are also friends with them were happy to get together and one of them asked me to move in with him since I'm staying with my brother until I find a place. I asked them about it but they said they weren't sure what was going on. \n\nHow can I fix this? I'm not sure if I did something wrong but I really don't want to lose all my friends, I've been friends with most of them since grade school."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had a bad breakup with my boyfriend of 3 years last year and I decided to go travel. I put all of my stuff into storage and left right away without telling my family or friends what I was doing until I landed. It sounds crazy, it was crazy, but I just didn't want anyone to talk me out of it. Everyone was really understanding and I still talked to them a lot online or on the phone, and two friends came out to see me (at separate times). \n\nIt was the best six months of my life but I'm back now. I was really excited to see all of my friends again because we were falling out of touch towards the end of my trip. I've been trying for a week now to get together with them but no one wants to see me. Some are just completely ignoring my texts (even though I can see they read them) and others are just saying they're too busy but won't make plans for when their schedules free up. It's only the girls doing this, the guys I'm friends with who are also friends with them were happy to get together and one of them asked me to move in with him since I'm staying with my brother until I find a place. I asked them about it but they said they weren't sure what was going on. \n\nHow can I fix this? I'm not sure if I did something wrong but I really don't want to lose all my friends, I've been friends with most of them since grade school."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know I'm probably going to get yelled at for this, and rightfully so, I fucked up. But a few nights ago I [M28] hooked up with my good friend's ex [W29] and I feel awful. I've known both just a little over a decade, and have been friends with both of them the entire time. They were engaged for a few years before deciding to amicably call it off a few months ago.\n\nI know my friend has been seeing other girls since the breakup, and I know that technically his ex is single again, but I realize what I did was shady and shitty. Just so we're clear, there is no interest in dating on either side and it was a one time purely physical screw-up. I'm not trying to justify anything, I just think people should know as far as advice goes.\n\nNow here's the tricky part: do I bring it up with my friend? I know technically they are both single now, but at the same time I can't help but feel like I broke some unwritten \"bro-code\" (I hate that term) rule. I am really good friends with both of them, and see them both all the time. I realize I fucked up, but I'm not sure where to go from here, and IF there would be any benefit whatsoever from telling my friend (besides let go some of this crazy guilt I've been feeling)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know I'm probably going to get yelled at for this, and rightfully so, I fucked up. But a few nights ago I [M28] hooked up with my good friend's ex [W29] and I feel awful. I've known both just a little over a decade, and have been friends with both of them the entire time. They were engaged for a few years before deciding to amicably call it off a few months ago.\n\nI know my friend has been seeing other girls since the breakup, and I know that technically his ex is single again, but I realize what I did was shady and shitty. Just so we're clear, there is no interest in dating on either side and it was a one time purely physical screw-up. I'm not trying to justify anything, I just think people should know as far as advice goes.\n\nNow here's the tricky part: do I bring it up with my friend? I know technically they are both single now, but at the same time I can't help but feel like I broke some unwritten \"bro-code\" (I hate that term) rule. I am really good friends with both of them, and see them both all the time. I realize I fucked up, but I'm not sure where to go from here, and IF there would be any benefit whatsoever from telling my friend (besides let go some of this crazy guilt I've been feeling)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know I'm probably going to get yelled at for this, and rightfully so, I fucked up. But a few nights ago I [M28] hooked up with my good friend's ex [W29] and I feel awful. I've known both just a little over a decade, and have been friends with both of them the entire time. They were engaged for a few years before deciding to amicably call it off a few months ago.\n\nI know my friend has been seeing other girls since the breakup, and I know that technically his ex is single again, but I realize what I did was shady and shitty. Just so we're clear, there is no interest in dating on either side and it was a one time purely physical screw-up. I'm not trying to justify anything, I just think people should know as far as advice goes.\n\nNow here's the tricky part: do I bring it up with my friend? I know technically they are both single now, but at the same time I can't help but feel like I broke some unwritten \"bro-code\" (I hate that term) rule. I am really good friends with both of them, and see them both all the time. I realize I fucked up, but I'm not sure where to go from here, and IF there would be any benefit whatsoever from telling my friend (besides let go some of this crazy guilt I've been feeling)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know I'm probably going to get yelled at for this, and rightfully so, I fucked up. But a few nights ago I [M28] hooked up with my good friend's ex [W29] and I feel awful. I've known both just a little over a decade, and have been friends with both of them the entire time. They were engaged for a few years before deciding to amicably call it off a few months ago.\n\nI know my friend has been seeing other girls since the breakup, and I know that technically his ex is single again, but I realize what I did was shady and shitty. Just so we're clear, there is no interest in dating on either side and it was a one time purely physical screw-up. I'm not trying to justify anything, I just think people should know as far as advice goes.\n\nNow here's the tricky part: do I bring it up with my friend? I know technically they are both single now, but at the same time I can't help but feel like I broke some unwritten \"bro-code\" (I hate that term) rule. I am really good friends with both of them, and see them both all the time. I realize I fucked up, but I'm not sure where to go from here, and IF there would be any benefit whatsoever from telling my friend (besides let go some of this crazy guilt I've been feeling)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was at work today and was wasting time thinking about Skyrim when I remembered a quote that went something along the lines of \"We want to live our lives as our fore fathers did, as Nords!\" or something like that, which lead to me to start thinking about all the political stuff bouncing around thanks to the upcoming election. One of the most popular points in the debates is the idea that we need to follow the Constitution and do our fore fathers proud. But why?\n\nOnce I really started thinking about it, I could not figure out why tradition was such a big deal. When I think about tradition I think about Thanksgiving turkey, Christmas Ham, family trips to specific places every year, holidays, that sort of thing. But why does tradition play a role in decision making on a political level, especially if that tradition is 200+ years old? The problems and issues current when the Constitution was written are hardly applicable now. I'm not saying people should ignore history, that is ludicrous, but updating views to fit a more modern sense of the world only makes sense. This is only multiplied when talking about religion (and that is ANY religion). \n\nWhy not try new approaches, instead of only copying approaches that have worked in the past? Isn't that how traditions get started in the first place, when something new catches on and becomes a big deal? People are too mired in the ideas of the past. There are huge opportunities to change the world thanks to modern technology, and we are quibbling over rules that are 200+ years old. \n\nIs there any good reason you guys can come up with that supports the idea that tradition should be more important than progress and advancement?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was at work today and was wasting time thinking about Skyrim when I remembered a quote that went something along the lines of \"We want to live our lives as our fore fathers did, as Nords!\" or something like that, which lead to me to start thinking about all the political stuff bouncing around thanks to the upcoming election. One of the most popular points in the debates is the idea that we need to follow the Constitution and do our fore fathers proud. But why?\n\nOnce I really started thinking about it, I could not figure out why tradition was such a big deal. When I think about tradition I think about Thanksgiving turkey, Christmas Ham, family trips to specific places every year, holidays, that sort of thing. But why does tradition play a role in decision making on a political level, especially if that tradition is 200+ years old? The problems and issues current when the Constitution was written are hardly applicable now. I'm not saying people should ignore history, that is ludicrous, but updating views to fit a more modern sense of the world only makes sense. This is only multiplied when talking about religion (and that is ANY religion). \n\nWhy not try new approaches, instead of only copying approaches that have worked in the past? Isn't that how traditions get started in the first place, when something new catches on and becomes a big deal? People are too mired in the ideas of the past. There are huge opportunities to change the world thanks to modern technology, and we are quibbling over rules that are 200+ years old. \n\nIs there any good reason you guys can come up with that supports the idea that tradition should be more important than progress and advancement?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was at work today and was wasting time thinking about Skyrim when I remembered a quote that went something along the lines of \"We want to live our lives as our fore fathers did, as Nords!\" or something like that, which lead to me to start thinking about all the political stuff bouncing around thanks to the upcoming election. One of the most popular points in the debates is the idea that we need to follow the Constitution and do our fore fathers proud. But why?\n\nOnce I really started thinking about it, I could not figure out why tradition was such a big deal. When I think about tradition I think about Thanksgiving turkey, Christmas Ham, family trips to specific places every year, holidays, that sort of thing. But why does tradition play a role in decision making on a political level, especially if that tradition is 200+ years old? The problems and issues current when the Constitution was written are hardly applicable now. I'm not saying people should ignore history, that is ludicrous, but updating views to fit a more modern sense of the world only makes sense. This is only multiplied when talking about religion (and that is ANY religion). \n\nWhy not try new approaches, instead of only copying approaches that have worked in the past? Isn't that how traditions get started in the first place, when something new catches on and becomes a big deal? People are too mired in the ideas of the past. There are huge opportunities to change the world thanks to modern technology, and we are quibbling over rules that are 200+ years old. \n\nIs there any good reason you guys can come up with that supports the idea that tradition should be more important than progress and advancement?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was at work today and was wasting time thinking about Skyrim when I remembered a quote that went something along the lines of \"We want to live our lives as our fore fathers did, as Nords!\" or something like that, which lead to me to start thinking about all the political stuff bouncing around thanks to the upcoming election. One of the most popular points in the debates is the idea that we need to follow the Constitution and do our fore fathers proud. But why?\n\nOnce I really started thinking about it, I could not figure out why tradition was such a big deal. When I think about tradition I think about Thanksgiving turkey, Christmas Ham, family trips to specific places every year, holidays, that sort of thing. But why does tradition play a role in decision making on a political level, especially if that tradition is 200+ years old? The problems and issues current when the Constitution was written are hardly applicable now. I'm not saying people should ignore history, that is ludicrous, but updating views to fit a more modern sense of the world only makes sense. This is only multiplied when talking about religion (and that is ANY religion). \n\nWhy not try new approaches, instead of only copying approaches that have worked in the past? Isn't that how traditions get started in the first place, when something new catches on and becomes a big deal? People are too mired in the ideas of the past. There are huge opportunities to change the world thanks to modern technology, and we are quibbling over rules that are 200+ years old. \n\nIs there any good reason you guys can come up with that supports the idea that tradition should be more important than progress and advancement?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is perhaps my 2nd worst but it's the most recent experience I've had. I was at a TGI Fridays in Northern California for a late night meal with some college friends. We were seated at a table in the bar section (not directly at the bar) and waited for 15 mins before someone gave us a menu to look at. It took us another 15 minutes of waiting before we finally went to go find someone to take our order. Once we got our food we had no utensils and they didn't bring us any of the beer we ordered. So had ate with our hands before deciding we needed utensils and drink refills. Well we couldn't get anyone to come to do it so we walked around until we found where hey hide the utensils and got it for ourselves. Then we walked over to the bar and asked for our beer. To their credit they apologized and offered us the two beers for free but I still couldn't get anyone to refill our sodas. Then the bill came and we paid them with a credit card. The bill was roughly 33 dollars but they ended up charging us 46 dollars for some reason. After pointing it out to them they couldn't figure out what the problem was. Overall it wasn't a deal breaker but we basically served ourselves.\n\nI was kind of irritated about the whole situation and complained to corporate through their website. The manager has emailed me and asked me to call him. I have not called him because I don't really know what to tell him. I don't want to get anyone in trouble and I'm not really sure who is even at fault. Anyways my story wasn't that cool but I'm interested in hearing what crazy stories anyone else has regarding their bad experience. I should add I didn't make a big scene or anything and was respectful the whole time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is perhaps my 2nd worst but it's the most recent experience I've had. I was at a TGI Fridays in Northern California for a late night meal with some college friends. We were seated at a table in the bar section (not directly at the bar) and waited for 15 mins before someone gave us a menu to look at. It took us another 15 minutes of waiting before we finally went to go find someone to take our order. Once we got our food we had no utensils and they didn't bring us any of the beer we ordered. So had ate with our hands before deciding we needed utensils and drink refills. Well we couldn't get anyone to come to do it so we walked around until we found where hey hide the utensils and got it for ourselves. Then we walked over to the bar and asked for our beer. To their credit they apologized and offered us the two beers for free but I still couldn't get anyone to refill our sodas. Then the bill came and we paid them with a credit card. The bill was roughly 33 dollars but they ended up charging us 46 dollars for some reason. After pointing it out to them they couldn't figure out what the problem was. Overall it wasn't a deal breaker but we basically served ourselves.\n\nI was kind of irritated about the whole situation and complained to corporate through their website. The manager has emailed me and asked me to call him. I have not called him because I don't really know what to tell him. I don't want to get anyone in trouble and I'm not really sure who is even at fault. Anyways my story wasn't that cool but I'm interested in hearing what crazy stories anyone else has regarding their bad experience. I should add I didn't make a big scene or anything and was respectful the whole time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is perhaps my 2nd worst but it's the most recent experience I've had. I was at a TGI Fridays in Northern California for a late night meal with some college friends. We were seated at a table in the bar section (not directly at the bar) and waited for 15 mins before someone gave us a menu to look at. It took us another 15 minutes of waiting before we finally went to go find someone to take our order. Once we got our food we had no utensils and they didn't bring us any of the beer we ordered. So had ate with our hands before deciding we needed utensils and drink refills. Well we couldn't get anyone to come to do it so we walked around until we found where hey hide the utensils and got it for ourselves. Then we walked over to the bar and asked for our beer. To their credit they apologized and offered us the two beers for free but I still couldn't get anyone to refill our sodas. Then the bill came and we paid them with a credit card. The bill was roughly 33 dollars but they ended up charging us 46 dollars for some reason. After pointing it out to them they couldn't figure out what the problem was. Overall it wasn't a deal breaker but we basically served ourselves.\n\nI was kind of irritated about the whole situation and complained to corporate through their website. The manager has emailed me and asked me to call him. I have not called him because I don't really know what to tell him. I don't want to get anyone in trouble and I'm not really sure who is even at fault. Anyways my story wasn't that cool but I'm interested in hearing what crazy stories anyone else has regarding their bad experience. I should add I didn't make a big scene or anything and was respectful the whole time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is perhaps my 2nd worst but it's the most recent experience I've had. I was at a TGI Fridays in Northern California for a late night meal with some college friends. We were seated at a table in the bar section (not directly at the bar) and waited for 15 mins before someone gave us a menu to look at. It took us another 15 minutes of waiting before we finally went to go find someone to take our order. Once we got our food we had no utensils and they didn't bring us any of the beer we ordered. So had ate with our hands before deciding we needed utensils and drink refills. Well we couldn't get anyone to come to do it so we walked around until we found where hey hide the utensils and got it for ourselves. Then we walked over to the bar and asked for our beer. To their credit they apologized and offered us the two beers for free but I still couldn't get anyone to refill our sodas. Then the bill came and we paid them with a credit card. The bill was roughly 33 dollars but they ended up charging us 46 dollars for some reason. After pointing it out to them they couldn't figure out what the problem was. Overall it wasn't a deal breaker but we basically served ourselves.\n\nI was kind of irritated about the whole situation and complained to corporate through their website. The manager has emailed me and asked me to call him. I have not called him because I don't really know what to tell him. I don't want to get anyone in trouble and I'm not really sure who is even at fault. Anyways my story wasn't that cool but I'm interested in hearing what crazy stories anyone else has regarding their bad experience. I should add I didn't make a big scene or anything and was respectful the whole time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 3 years and engaged for 7 months. Everything was AMAZING up until about 6 months ago, and she agrees. We both work at the same job, well-paying jobs for that matter. We were in the midst of planning our marriage, and in July, we were informed that they are shutting down or facility and losing our hard to replace jobs. \n\nWe were both distraught and very worried about our future. She is a very anxiety ridden person, and I am the person that tries to keep everything positive and hopeful. We both have decided to go back to school in the area to become better candidates for future employment. Computer science for me and occupational therapy for her. \n\nSome background: she lives with her parents, and I live on my own. I have no one else in this state besides her and love her family like my own. She has visited my family one time in our 3 years together. \n\nEverything crashed this week because she told me many times that she will come with me to visit my parents. And she backed out. Upon asking, she said she didn't feel like it. I called her out that it was hurtful for her to say that. She got really upset and so did I. (this was over text) \n\nNow we are on thin ice because all of our problems have surfaced like everything was bottled up. She apologized profusely about not wanting to see my parents, but now she is unsure of our future together and refuses to say I love you. Help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 3 years and engaged for 7 months. Everything was AMAZING up until about 6 months ago, and she agrees. We both work at the same job, well-paying jobs for that matter. We were in the midst of planning our marriage, and in July, we were informed that they are shutting down or facility and losing our hard to replace jobs. \n\nWe were both distraught and very worried about our future. She is a very anxiety ridden person, and I am the person that tries to keep everything positive and hopeful. We both have decided to go back to school in the area to become better candidates for future employment. Computer science for me and occupational therapy for her. \n\nSome background: she lives with her parents, and I live on my own. I have no one else in this state besides her and love her family like my own. She has visited my family one time in our 3 years together. \n\nEverything crashed this week because she told me many times that she will come with me to visit my parents. And she backed out. Upon asking, she said she didn't feel like it. I called her out that it was hurtful for her to say that. She got really upset and so did I. (this was over text) \n\nNow we are on thin ice because all of our problems have surfaced like everything was bottled up. She apologized profusely about not wanting to see my parents, but now she is unsure of our future together and refuses to say I love you. Help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 3 years and engaged for 7 months. Everything was AMAZING up until about 6 months ago, and she agrees. We both work at the same job, well-paying jobs for that matter. We were in the midst of planning our marriage, and in July, we were informed that they are shutting down or facility and losing our hard to replace jobs. \n\nWe were both distraught and very worried about our future. She is a very anxiety ridden person, and I am the person that tries to keep everything positive and hopeful. We both have decided to go back to school in the area to become better candidates for future employment. Computer science for me and occupational therapy for her. \n\nSome background: she lives with her parents, and I live on my own. I have no one else in this state besides her and love her family like my own. She has visited my family one time in our 3 years together. \n\nEverything crashed this week because she told me many times that she will come with me to visit my parents. And she backed out. Upon asking, she said she didn't feel like it. I called her out that it was hurtful for her to say that. She got really upset and so did I. (this was over text) \n\nNow we are on thin ice because all of our problems have surfaced like everything was bottled up. She apologized profusely about not wanting to see my parents, but now she is unsure of our future together and refuses to say I love you. Help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been dating for 3 years and engaged for 7 months. Everything was AMAZING up until about 6 months ago, and she agrees. We both work at the same job, well-paying jobs for that matter. We were in the midst of planning our marriage, and in July, we were informed that they are shutting down or facility and losing our hard to replace jobs. \n\nWe were both distraught and very worried about our future. She is a very anxiety ridden person, and I am the person that tries to keep everything positive and hopeful. We both have decided to go back to school in the area to become better candidates for future employment. Computer science for me and occupational therapy for her. \n\nSome background: she lives with her parents, and I live on my own. I have no one else in this state besides her and love her family like my own. She has visited my family one time in our 3 years together. \n\nEverything crashed this week because she told me many times that she will come with me to visit my parents. And she backed out. Upon asking, she said she didn't feel like it. I called her out that it was hurtful for her to say that. She got really upset and so did I. (this was over text) \n\nNow we are on thin ice because all of our problems have surfaced like everything was bottled up. She apologized profusely about not wanting to see my parents, but now she is unsure of our future together and refuses to say I love you. Help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before I met my boyfriend, I dated another guy for 4 years. Unfortunately, we ended up growing apart and realized we wanted different things out of life and we broke up. The breakup was mutual and friendly. I ended up keeping the letters and gifts that my ex gave me in a box in the back of my closet. I spent about a year and a half single and then I met my current boyfriend.\n\nI have been dating my current boyfriend for one year and things have been absolutely great. I really think we are a great fit for each other and I can really see a future for us together. However, one day he was over at my place and he discovered the box with my ex's letters and gifts in my closet. He was very angry and jealous but we talked it over and eventually we both forgot about it.\n\nA month later he brought up the box again and this time he asked me to throw it out. I admit, I hesitated for a bit. I love my current boyfriend more than anything and I do want to stay with him for the long-term. I would never go back to my ex or think about dating anyone else. But I consider the time I spent with my ex to be a special time in my life. He was a good boyfriend but we just weren't the \"one\" for each other. I kept the letters and gifts for sentimental reasons, but I honestly never look through them or anything.\n\nMy boyfriend argues that my reluctance to throw the box out means that I am not over my ex and that I don't love him fully or am not committed to him fully. I really do think I am over my ex and I'm sure that I am fully devoted to my current boyfriend, but I just feel really pressured to do something I don't fully want to do. In the past couple days, he has been really ramping up the pressure for me to throw it out. Don't get me wrong, my boyfriend is a really great guy, but I'm just not sure who is right in this situation. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before I met my boyfriend, I dated another guy for 4 years. Unfortunately, we ended up growing apart and realized we wanted different things out of life and we broke up. The breakup was mutual and friendly. I ended up keeping the letters and gifts that my ex gave me in a box in the back of my closet. I spent about a year and a half single and then I met my current boyfriend.\n\nI have been dating my current boyfriend for one year and things have been absolutely great. I really think we are a great fit for each other and I can really see a future for us together. However, one day he was over at my place and he discovered the box with my ex's letters and gifts in my closet. He was very angry and jealous but we talked it over and eventually we both forgot about it.\n\nA month later he brought up the box again and this time he asked me to throw it out. I admit, I hesitated for a bit. I love my current boyfriend more than anything and I do want to stay with him for the long-term. I would never go back to my ex or think about dating anyone else. But I consider the time I spent with my ex to be a special time in my life. He was a good boyfriend but we just weren't the \"one\" for each other. I kept the letters and gifts for sentimental reasons, but I honestly never look through them or anything.\n\nMy boyfriend argues that my reluctance to throw the box out means that I am not over my ex and that I don't love him fully or am not committed to him fully. I really do think I am over my ex and I'm sure that I am fully devoted to my current boyfriend, but I just feel really pressured to do something I don't fully want to do. In the past couple days, he has been really ramping up the pressure for me to throw it out. Don't get me wrong, my boyfriend is a really great guy, but I'm just not sure who is right in this situation. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before I met my boyfriend, I dated another guy for 4 years. Unfortunately, we ended up growing apart and realized we wanted different things out of life and we broke up. The breakup was mutual and friendly. I ended up keeping the letters and gifts that my ex gave me in a box in the back of my closet. I spent about a year and a half single and then I met my current boyfriend.\n\nI have been dating my current boyfriend for one year and things have been absolutely great. I really think we are a great fit for each other and I can really see a future for us together. However, one day he was over at my place and he discovered the box with my ex's letters and gifts in my closet. He was very angry and jealous but we talked it over and eventually we both forgot about it.\n\nA month later he brought up the box again and this time he asked me to throw it out. I admit, I hesitated for a bit. I love my current boyfriend more than anything and I do want to stay with him for the long-term. I would never go back to my ex or think about dating anyone else. But I consider the time I spent with my ex to be a special time in my life. He was a good boyfriend but we just weren't the \"one\" for each other. I kept the letters and gifts for sentimental reasons, but I honestly never look through them or anything.\n\nMy boyfriend argues that my reluctance to throw the box out means that I am not over my ex and that I don't love him fully or am not committed to him fully. I really do think I am over my ex and I'm sure that I am fully devoted to my current boyfriend, but I just feel really pressured to do something I don't fully want to do. In the past couple days, he has been really ramping up the pressure for me to throw it out. Don't get me wrong, my boyfriend is a really great guy, but I'm just not sure who is right in this situation. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before I met my boyfriend, I dated another guy for 4 years. Unfortunately, we ended up growing apart and realized we wanted different things out of life and we broke up. The breakup was mutual and friendly. I ended up keeping the letters and gifts that my ex gave me in a box in the back of my closet. I spent about a year and a half single and then I met my current boyfriend.\n\nI have been dating my current boyfriend for one year and things have been absolutely great. I really think we are a great fit for each other and I can really see a future for us together. However, one day he was over at my place and he discovered the box with my ex's letters and gifts in my closet. He was very angry and jealous but we talked it over and eventually we both forgot about it.\n\nA month later he brought up the box again and this time he asked me to throw it out. I admit, I hesitated for a bit. I love my current boyfriend more than anything and I do want to stay with him for the long-term. I would never go back to my ex or think about dating anyone else. But I consider the time I spent with my ex to be a special time in my life. He was a good boyfriend but we just weren't the \"one\" for each other. I kept the letters and gifts for sentimental reasons, but I honestly never look through them or anything.\n\nMy boyfriend argues that my reluctance to throw the box out means that I am not over my ex and that I don't love him fully or am not committed to him fully. I really do think I am over my ex and I'm sure that I am fully devoted to my current boyfriend, but I just feel really pressured to do something I don't fully want to do. In the past couple days, he has been really ramping up the pressure for me to throw it out. Don't get me wrong, my boyfriend is a really great guy, but I'm just not sure who is right in this situation. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit, I need some advice. I have this girl since I was in middle school, but I only became real friends with her in the past two years. We are doing this course in a same class, and we are talking very frequently and hanging out.\nShe is my type of person and I can't stop thinking about her, since she has been someone I can joke around with and make me laugh.\nI'm not the most outgoing guy while she's actually had sex with a couple of guys in serious relationships who are all fairly confident. Plus she laughs a lot when we talk, I'm not sure whether it's just her defense mechanism or what.\nI know many people's immediate response would be to just take the occasion, but it has happened before and left a stain on those relationships.I feel like I've got so much on the line and I just don't want to loose her.\nMy impression is that she has no idea how I feel for her and she thinks of me more as a friend.I know this is corny and that I am very clingy but she's sorta grown on me.\n\nThe thing is that even if I were to make a move, I'm not a smooth guy and I wouldn't know how to tell her in a nice way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit, I need some advice. I have this girl since I was in middle school, but I only became real friends with her in the past two years. We are doing this course in a same class, and we are talking very frequently and hanging out.\nShe is my type of person and I can't stop thinking about her, since she has been someone I can joke around with and make me laugh.\nI'm not the most outgoing guy while she's actually had sex with a couple of guys in serious relationships who are all fairly confident. Plus she laughs a lot when we talk, I'm not sure whether it's just her defense mechanism or what.\nI know many people's immediate response would be to just take the occasion, but it has happened before and left a stain on those relationships.I feel like I've got so much on the line and I just don't want to loose her.\nMy impression is that she has no idea how I feel for her and she thinks of me more as a friend.I know this is corny and that I am very clingy but she's sorta grown on me.\n\nThe thing is that even if I were to make a move, I'm not a smooth guy and I wouldn't know how to tell her in a nice way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit, I need some advice. I have this girl since I was in middle school, but I only became real friends with her in the past two years. We are doing this course in a same class, and we are talking very frequently and hanging out.\nShe is my type of person and I can't stop thinking about her, since she has been someone I can joke around with and make me laugh.\nI'm not the most outgoing guy while she's actually had sex with a couple of guys in serious relationships who are all fairly confident. Plus she laughs a lot when we talk, I'm not sure whether it's just her defense mechanism or what.\nI know many people's immediate response would be to just take the occasion, but it has happened before and left a stain on those relationships.I feel like I've got so much on the line and I just don't want to loose her.\nMy impression is that she has no idea how I feel for her and she thinks of me more as a friend.I know this is corny and that I am very clingy but she's sorta grown on me.\n\nThe thing is that even if I were to make a move, I'm not a smooth guy and I wouldn't know how to tell her in a nice way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit, I need some advice. I have this girl since I was in middle school, but I only became real friends with her in the past two years. We are doing this course in a same class, and we are talking very frequently and hanging out.\nShe is my type of person and I can't stop thinking about her, since she has been someone I can joke around with and make me laugh.\nI'm not the most outgoing guy while she's actually had sex with a couple of guys in serious relationships who are all fairly confident. Plus she laughs a lot when we talk, I'm not sure whether it's just her defense mechanism or what.\nI know many people's immediate response would be to just take the occasion, but it has happened before and left a stain on those relationships.I feel like I've got so much on the line and I just don't want to loose her.\nMy impression is that she has no idea how I feel for her and she thinks of me more as a friend.I know this is corny and that I am very clingy but she's sorta grown on me.\n\nThe thing is that even if I were to make a move, I'm not a smooth guy and I wouldn't know how to tell her in a nice way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I m23 was speaking to my 22f gf of 5 months recently and we discussed what would happen and if we would end things if the other partner let themselves go so to speak.\n\nWe both work out and go to the gym several times a week, to put it bluntly she asked if I would break up with her if she got overweight, I said yes. We have a very honest relationship but this didn't phase her even though she disagreed.\n\nNow I try my best to maintain a good body and try to improve it constantly, eat healthy etc. But one of the biggest reasons I do this is for my partner, so she's always sexually attracted to me, and get more turned on when we are with each other, have sex etc. I want her to look at me and say \"yeah my boyfriend's hot\" or \"omg he has a great body\"\n\nAm I shallow to expect the same from her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I m23 was speaking to my 22f gf of 5 months recently and we discussed what would happen and if we would end things if the other partner let themselves go so to speak.\n\nWe both work out and go to the gym several times a week, to put it bluntly she asked if I would break up with her if she got overweight, I said yes. We have a very honest relationship but this didn't phase her even though she disagreed.\n\nNow I try my best to maintain a good body and try to improve it constantly, eat healthy etc. But one of the biggest reasons I do this is for my partner, so she's always sexually attracted to me, and get more turned on when we are with each other, have sex etc. I want her to look at me and say \"yeah my boyfriend's hot\" or \"omg he has a great body\"\n\nAm I shallow to expect the same from her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I m23 was speaking to my 22f gf of 5 months recently and we discussed what would happen and if we would end things if the other partner let themselves go so to speak.\n\nWe both work out and go to the gym several times a week, to put it bluntly she asked if I would break up with her if she got overweight, I said yes. We have a very honest relationship but this didn't phase her even though she disagreed.\n\nNow I try my best to maintain a good body and try to improve it constantly, eat healthy etc. But one of the biggest reasons I do this is for my partner, so she's always sexually attracted to me, and get more turned on when we are with each other, have sex etc. I want her to look at me and say \"yeah my boyfriend's hot\" or \"omg he has a great body\"\n\nAm I shallow to expect the same from her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I m23 was speaking to my 22f gf of 5 months recently and we discussed what would happen and if we would end things if the other partner let themselves go so to speak.\n\nWe both work out and go to the gym several times a week, to put it bluntly she asked if I would break up with her if she got overweight, I said yes. We have a very honest relationship but this didn't phase her even though she disagreed.\n\nNow I try my best to maintain a good body and try to improve it constantly, eat healthy etc. But one of the biggest reasons I do this is for my partner, so she's always sexually attracted to me, and get more turned on when we are with each other, have sex etc. I want her to look at me and say \"yeah my boyfriend's hot\" or \"omg he has a great body\"\n\nAm I shallow to expect the same from her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Many years ago, when I was about high school age, my uncle would fly in to visit family in the area and would stay with us. He would generally stay for about a week or so, which was fine because I did really like spending time with him. However, I was the youngest and thus lost my bed to let him stay in it. This generally didn't bother me, I knew someone his age needed a bed more than me.\n\nBack then we only had one communal computer and, at the time I really enjoyed chatting on AOL (yeah that long ago) with a bunch of my astronomy friends who would occasionally have themed nights of conversation. My uncle also really liked chatting with his online friends as well. So, one night, I really wanted to get in on a conversation that was to take place, but Uncle was already online. I asked him when he'd be off, to which he replied \"Soon\".\n\nThis goes on for quite a while before I get fed up with it. I happened to be taking an art class and decided the computer room was the place to do it. It was a stippling project. I really pounded down those dots with a purpose. He got off shortly after I started and I was able to join my discussion before it ended.\n\nI admit to being a little overly petty toward my elder, but not having a personal area for a while tends to make one less tolerant to what others want."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Many years ago, when I was about high school age, my uncle would fly in to visit family in the area and would stay with us. He would generally stay for about a week or so, which was fine because I did really like spending time with him. However, I was the youngest and thus lost my bed to let him stay in it. This generally didn't bother me, I knew someone his age needed a bed more than me.\n\nBack then we only had one communal computer and, at the time I really enjoyed chatting on AOL (yeah that long ago) with a bunch of my astronomy friends who would occasionally have themed nights of conversation. My uncle also really liked chatting with his online friends as well. So, one night, I really wanted to get in on a conversation that was to take place, but Uncle was already online. I asked him when he'd be off, to which he replied \"Soon\".\n\nThis goes on for quite a while before I get fed up with it. I happened to be taking an art class and decided the computer room was the place to do it. It was a stippling project. I really pounded down those dots with a purpose. He got off shortly after I started and I was able to join my discussion before it ended.\n\nI admit to being a little overly petty toward my elder, but not having a personal area for a while tends to make one less tolerant to what others want."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Many years ago, when I was about high school age, my uncle would fly in to visit family in the area and would stay with us. He would generally stay for about a week or so, which was fine because I did really like spending time with him. However, I was the youngest and thus lost my bed to let him stay in it. This generally didn't bother me, I knew someone his age needed a bed more than me.\n\nBack then we only had one communal computer and, at the time I really enjoyed chatting on AOL (yeah that long ago) with a bunch of my astronomy friends who would occasionally have themed nights of conversation. My uncle also really liked chatting with his online friends as well. So, one night, I really wanted to get in on a conversation that was to take place, but Uncle was already online. I asked him when he'd be off, to which he replied \"Soon\".\n\nThis goes on for quite a while before I get fed up with it. I happened to be taking an art class and decided the computer room was the place to do it. It was a stippling project. I really pounded down those dots with a purpose. He got off shortly after I started and I was able to join my discussion before it ended.\n\nI admit to being a little overly petty toward my elder, but not having a personal area for a while tends to make one less tolerant to what others want."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Many years ago, when I was about high school age, my uncle would fly in to visit family in the area and would stay with us. He would generally stay for about a week or so, which was fine because I did really like spending time with him. However, I was the youngest and thus lost my bed to let him stay in it. This generally didn't bother me, I knew someone his age needed a bed more than me.\n\nBack then we only had one communal computer and, at the time I really enjoyed chatting on AOL (yeah that long ago) with a bunch of my astronomy friends who would occasionally have themed nights of conversation. My uncle also really liked chatting with his online friends as well. So, one night, I really wanted to get in on a conversation that was to take place, but Uncle was already online. I asked him when he'd be off, to which he replied \"Soon\".\n\nThis goes on for quite a while before I get fed up with it. I happened to be taking an art class and decided the computer room was the place to do it. It was a stippling project. I really pounded down those dots with a purpose. He got off shortly after I started and I was able to join my discussion before it ended.\n\nI admit to being a little overly petty toward my elder, but not having a personal area for a while tends to make one less tolerant to what others want."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: UPDATE: Ive accepted the loss, and dealt with the shock. I know I didnt do what these people said I didand Im ok with myself. I know Im worth more than being tossed aside over unfounded rumors and lies. Thanks for the input folks.\n\nIm a 24 M and my girl a 20 F\n\nIve dated this girl for over two years, and I love her with every ounce of my heart. SHes been a great person to me, and even though weve had our issues- she has worked through every single one with me. But recently she confronted me about things shed heard at work- I dismissed them and she said she wanted to check in. Turns out 5 or 6 people have been hearing rumors about me, and have relayed them to her. I found out that there are two specific people instigating, stretching the truth and spreading personal info about my relationship to try to convince her that Im just flat out lying.\n\nI confronted one of them in facebook, as everyone involved works in the same space and I dont want to cause any problems with the job, but she said she wasnt getting in the middle of it- she then ignored my messages. I believe theyve gotten ahold of personal details by being around and nosy when we did have problems- I even confided in one once that even though sometimes we fight and im unhappy, we work through it and get better every time.\n\nThis coworker has also intimated several times that she doesnt believe I should be with my SO.\n\nMy SO wants to believe me, I think, but the overwhelming evidence is hard to dispute- especially if they are just going to try to lie their way out of it. I have trouble sleeping, I dream about my SO, I have a hard time eating and have been having next to non stop anxiety attacks- How do I vindicate myself? \nThing is, even if we stay broken up I have to make these people come clean because theyve lied about me to all sorts apparently."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: UPDATE: Ive accepted the loss, and dealt with the shock. I know I didnt do what these people said I didand Im ok with myself. I know Im worth more than being tossed aside over unfounded rumors and lies. Thanks for the input folks.\n\nIm a 24 M and my girl a 20 F\n\nIve dated this girl for over two years, and I love her with every ounce of my heart. SHes been a great person to me, and even though weve had our issues- she has worked through every single one with me. But recently she confronted me about things shed heard at work- I dismissed them and she said she wanted to check in. Turns out 5 or 6 people have been hearing rumors about me, and have relayed them to her. I found out that there are two specific people instigating, stretching the truth and spreading personal info about my relationship to try to convince her that Im just flat out lying.\n\nI confronted one of them in facebook, as everyone involved works in the same space and I dont want to cause any problems with the job, but she said she wasnt getting in the middle of it- she then ignored my messages. I believe theyve gotten ahold of personal details by being around and nosy when we did have problems- I even confided in one once that even though sometimes we fight and im unhappy, we work through it and get better every time.\n\nThis coworker has also intimated several times that she doesnt believe I should be with my SO.\n\nMy SO wants to believe me, I think, but the overwhelming evidence is hard to dispute- especially if they are just going to try to lie their way out of it. I have trouble sleeping, I dream about my SO, I have a hard time eating and have been having next to non stop anxiety attacks- How do I vindicate myself? \nThing is, even if we stay broken up I have to make these people come clean because theyve lied about me to all sorts apparently."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: UPDATE: Ive accepted the loss, and dealt with the shock. I know I didnt do what these people said I didand Im ok with myself. I know Im worth more than being tossed aside over unfounded rumors and lies. Thanks for the input folks.\n\nIm a 24 M and my girl a 20 F\n\nIve dated this girl for over two years, and I love her with every ounce of my heart. SHes been a great person to me, and even though weve had our issues- she has worked through every single one with me. But recently she confronted me about things shed heard at work- I dismissed them and she said she wanted to check in. Turns out 5 or 6 people have been hearing rumors about me, and have relayed them to her. I found out that there are two specific people instigating, stretching the truth and spreading personal info about my relationship to try to convince her that Im just flat out lying.\n\nI confronted one of them in facebook, as everyone involved works in the same space and I dont want to cause any problems with the job, but she said she wasnt getting in the middle of it- she then ignored my messages. I believe theyve gotten ahold of personal details by being around and nosy when we did have problems- I even confided in one once that even though sometimes we fight and im unhappy, we work through it and get better every time.\n\nThis coworker has also intimated several times that she doesnt believe I should be with my SO.\n\nMy SO wants to believe me, I think, but the overwhelming evidence is hard to dispute- especially if they are just going to try to lie their way out of it. I have trouble sleeping, I dream about my SO, I have a hard time eating and have been having next to non stop anxiety attacks- How do I vindicate myself? \nThing is, even if we stay broken up I have to make these people come clean because theyve lied about me to all sorts apparently."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: UPDATE: Ive accepted the loss, and dealt with the shock. I know I didnt do what these people said I didand Im ok with myself. I know Im worth more than being tossed aside over unfounded rumors and lies. Thanks for the input folks.\n\nIm a 24 M and my girl a 20 F\n\nIve dated this girl for over two years, and I love her with every ounce of my heart. SHes been a great person to me, and even though weve had our issues- she has worked through every single one with me. But recently she confronted me about things shed heard at work- I dismissed them and she said she wanted to check in. Turns out 5 or 6 people have been hearing rumors about me, and have relayed them to her. I found out that there are two specific people instigating, stretching the truth and spreading personal info about my relationship to try to convince her that Im just flat out lying.\n\nI confronted one of them in facebook, as everyone involved works in the same space and I dont want to cause any problems with the job, but she said she wasnt getting in the middle of it- she then ignored my messages. I believe theyve gotten ahold of personal details by being around and nosy when we did have problems- I even confided in one once that even though sometimes we fight and im unhappy, we work through it and get better every time.\n\nThis coworker has also intimated several times that she doesnt believe I should be with my SO.\n\nMy SO wants to believe me, I think, but the overwhelming evidence is hard to dispute- especially if they are just going to try to lie their way out of it. I have trouble sleeping, I dream about my SO, I have a hard time eating and have been having next to non stop anxiety attacks- How do I vindicate myself? \nThing is, even if we stay broken up I have to make these people come clean because theyve lied about me to all sorts apparently."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Both she and I want to take our relationship to new levels. We have been together for 2 months and, since she and I haven't been in any relationships before, everything is new to us. It's exciting, for sure, but I don't know if I can see myself having sex with her. I want her first time, as well as mine, to be special to her, with the right guy. I don't know if I am that guy. Whenever the topic comes up in talking (and we talk about it constantly), I feel guilty, like I am taking advantage of her. Every time I leave her dorm, I tell myself this can't go on, that eventually the relationship will end and I will have taken advantage and emotionally ruined her, who I thought I \"loved.\" I have no idea what that even means. It all sounds melodramatic, but it's sex, and I don't want to hurt her emotionally, but it's going to happen eventually."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Both she and I want to take our relationship to new levels. We have been together for 2 months and, since she and I haven't been in any relationships before, everything is new to us. It's exciting, for sure, but I don't know if I can see myself having sex with her. I want her first time, as well as mine, to be special to her, with the right guy. I don't know if I am that guy. Whenever the topic comes up in talking (and we talk about it constantly), I feel guilty, like I am taking advantage of her. Every time I leave her dorm, I tell myself this can't go on, that eventually the relationship will end and I will have taken advantage and emotionally ruined her, who I thought I \"loved.\" I have no idea what that even means. It all sounds melodramatic, but it's sex, and I don't want to hurt her emotionally, but it's going to happen eventually."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Both she and I want to take our relationship to new levels. We have been together for 2 months and, since she and I haven't been in any relationships before, everything is new to us. It's exciting, for sure, but I don't know if I can see myself having sex with her. I want her first time, as well as mine, to be special to her, with the right guy. I don't know if I am that guy. Whenever the topic comes up in talking (and we talk about it constantly), I feel guilty, like I am taking advantage of her. Every time I leave her dorm, I tell myself this can't go on, that eventually the relationship will end and I will have taken advantage and emotionally ruined her, who I thought I \"loved.\" I have no idea what that even means. It all sounds melodramatic, but it's sex, and I don't want to hurt her emotionally, but it's going to happen eventually."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Both she and I want to take our relationship to new levels. We have been together for 2 months and, since she and I haven't been in any relationships before, everything is new to us. It's exciting, for sure, but I don't know if I can see myself having sex with her. I want her first time, as well as mine, to be special to her, with the right guy. I don't know if I am that guy. Whenever the topic comes up in talking (and we talk about it constantly), I feel guilty, like I am taking advantage of her. Every time I leave her dorm, I tell myself this can't go on, that eventually the relationship will end and I will have taken advantage and emotionally ruined her, who I thought I \"loved.\" I have no idea what that even means. It all sounds melodramatic, but it's sex, and I don't want to hurt her emotionally, but it's going to happen eventually."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So yesterday I bought my b/f some new running shoes because his feet hurt so bad when he run that it made it impossible for him to do it at all. The shoes were $90 and I bought them on the condition that his mom would pay me back next month (he doesn't have a job yet and all my money's from my mom specifically meant for college, so that leaves his mom to pay for things) which was fine. But since i wanted my money back sooner I asked if I could take $100 from his savings that nobody's supposed to touch and that his mom could pay him back instead.\n\nThis is where the issue happens. I suggested that maybe he should tell him mom that she's still paying me back so that she would pay him the money back faster, since I know she would pay me back ASAP but she might put off paying him back. He is obviously apprehensive but says 'well if you think it's best' (mind you I told him if he thought it was a bad idea we didn't have to do it, it was just a suggestion).\n\n So I find out later that day that he went behind my back, told his mom about the shoes and that she has to pay him back for them. BUT of fucking course he adds the extra information that I wanted to lie to her. She was obviously hurt, and now I can't fucking look her in the eye even though we had a really good relationship before this.\n\n He absolutely doesn't understand why I'm mad, 'what do you want me to lie to her?' he says. Am I in the wrong here?"
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