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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd bought some stuff which I knew she'd like for her birthday. I want to show her that I like her, but I was not certain if it'd be okay to gift her something not entirely cheap lest she felt it's a bit too much! In any event my friend group is getting together to throw a party for her in a week as well. Should I just gift the stuff on behalf of the group? She'll know I bought it and that I was thoughtful. But would that in anyway mean that I am signalling that I like her only as a friend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd bought some stuff which I knew she'd like for her birthday. I want to show her that I like her, but I was not certain if it'd be okay to gift her something not entirely cheap lest she felt it's a bit too much! In any event my friend group is getting together to throw a party for her in a week as well. Should I just gift the stuff on behalf of the group? She'll know I bought it and that I was thoughtful. But would that in anyway mean that I am signalling that I like her only as a friend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend [23m] of 2.5 years and I [20f] seem to be disagreeing on something that I think is pretty fundamental to a relationship, and I wanted to get some outside input. In my opinion, as somebody in a committed relationship, if you're going to a social setting where both genders are attending, it's appropriate to invite your significant other. For example, I don't think it would be appropriate to go to hang out with a group of people, both genders, and not extend an invite (of course there's the potential that I would decline). It's one thing if I'm not invited to a guys night or if I don't invite him to girls night, but I believe that (unless it's work related) couples should go out as couples. He feels differently-he thinks that unless all of the people attending are our mutual friends, I don't have a place there. In other words, if I don't know the females who will be there, even though I know his male friends, I don't get an invite. \n\nWhat's your opinion on this aspect of relationships?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend [23m] of 2.5 years and I [20f] seem to be disagreeing on something that I think is pretty fundamental to a relationship, and I wanted to get some outside input. In my opinion, as somebody in a committed relationship, if you're going to a social setting where both genders are attending, it's appropriate to invite your significant other. For example, I don't think it would be appropriate to go to hang out with a group of people, both genders, and not extend an invite (of course there's the potential that I would decline). It's one thing if I'm not invited to a guys night or if I don't invite him to girls night, but I believe that (unless it's work related) couples should go out as couples. He feels differently-he thinks that unless all of the people attending are our mutual friends, I don't have a place there. In other words, if I don't know the females who will be there, even though I know his male friends, I don't get an invite. \n\nWhat's your opinion on this aspect of relationships?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend [23m] of 2.5 years and I [20f] seem to be disagreeing on something that I think is pretty fundamental to a relationship, and I wanted to get some outside input. In my opinion, as somebody in a committed relationship, if you're going to a social setting where both genders are attending, it's appropriate to invite your significant other. For example, I don't think it would be appropriate to go to hang out with a group of people, both genders, and not extend an invite (of course there's the potential that I would decline). It's one thing if I'm not invited to a guys night or if I don't invite him to girls night, but I believe that (unless it's work related) couples should go out as couples. He feels differently-he thinks that unless all of the people attending are our mutual friends, I don't have a place there. In other words, if I don't know the females who will be there, even though I know his male friends, I don't get an invite. \n\nWhat's your opinion on this aspect of relationships?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend [23m] of 2.5 years and I [20f] seem to be disagreeing on something that I think is pretty fundamental to a relationship, and I wanted to get some outside input. In my opinion, as somebody in a committed relationship, if you're going to a social setting where both genders are attending, it's appropriate to invite your significant other. For example, I don't think it would be appropriate to go to hang out with a group of people, both genders, and not extend an invite (of course there's the potential that I would decline). It's one thing if I'm not invited to a guys night or if I don't invite him to girls night, but I believe that (unless it's work related) couples should go out as couples. He feels differently-he thinks that unless all of the people attending are our mutual friends, I don't have a place there. In other words, if I don't know the females who will be there, even though I know his male friends, I don't get an invite. \n\nWhat's your opinion on this aspect of relationships?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not 100% sure if this is the right place but here we go.\n\nOkay so Last week I (M21) met a girl (23) while riding a bus home from hanging out with some friends. We hit it off and she asks me if I have a girlfriend, I say no and eventually ask if she has a boyfriend, also no. \n\nSo we keep talking, I get to my stop and ask for her number, she had told me earlier that she had lost her phone, so she gave me her facebook. I send her a friend request, we talk a little more, and on Teusday I asked her if she would want to see a movie sometime, the nothing.\n\nSo my question is, should I wait a little longer to start trying to talk to her again, say something now, or just give up as a lost cause?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not 100% sure if this is the right place but here we go.\n\nOkay so Last week I (M21) met a girl (23) while riding a bus home from hanging out with some friends. We hit it off and she asks me if I have a girlfriend, I say no and eventually ask if she has a boyfriend, also no. \n\nSo we keep talking, I get to my stop and ask for her number, she had told me earlier that she had lost her phone, so she gave me her facebook. I send her a friend request, we talk a little more, and on Teusday I asked her if she would want to see a movie sometime, the nothing.\n\nSo my question is, should I wait a little longer to start trying to talk to her again, say something now, or just give up as a lost cause?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not 100% sure if this is the right place but here we go.\n\nOkay so Last week I (M21) met a girl (23) while riding a bus home from hanging out with some friends. We hit it off and she asks me if I have a girlfriend, I say no and eventually ask if she has a boyfriend, also no. \n\nSo we keep talking, I get to my stop and ask for her number, she had told me earlier that she had lost her phone, so she gave me her facebook. I send her a friend request, we talk a little more, and on Teusday I asked her if she would want to see a movie sometime, the nothing.\n\nSo my question is, should I wait a little longer to start trying to talk to her again, say something now, or just give up as a lost cause?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not 100% sure if this is the right place but here we go.\n\nOkay so Last week I (M21) met a girl (23) while riding a bus home from hanging out with some friends. We hit it off and she asks me if I have a girlfriend, I say no and eventually ask if she has a boyfriend, also no. \n\nSo we keep talking, I get to my stop and ask for her number, she had told me earlier that she had lost her phone, so she gave me her facebook. I send her a friend request, we talk a little more, and on Teusday I asked her if she would want to see a movie sometime, the nothing.\n\nSo my question is, should I wait a little longer to start trying to talk to her again, say something now, or just give up as a lost cause?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We broke up around February and it was pretty hard for us both. I started dating him when I was 19 and he was 23. We grew up together and we have been through thick and thin. Seriously, he supported me through school and stress and I was there during his darkest times as well. We raised my 2 siblings for about 2-3 years and we own many properties and adopted a dog together as well. \n\nProblem is that we got busy with life and forgot about nurturing our relationship. We had our set of issues but none ever got resolved. Culture, attraction, ambition were just a few things that wrecked us. I know we are both better of apart. We can find people that are more compatible and I am sure we can both be happy again. \n\nAfter being in the dating pool for a bit now, I seriously question whether I can find someone that loved me as much as he did. Yeah, we may not be the most compatible for each other, but we had chemistry and we loved each other. \n\nI feel like shit today. Knowing that I lost someone that truly cared and loved me. I lost my best friend. I lost my soul mate. I lost someone who truly understood me. (We are on good terms but can't really be friends due to new gf/bf in the picture) Every guy I date now just doesn't live up to him in any way. These guys are more compatible with me, but just no chemistry. I look at our pictures or memories and it seriously hurts. I miss him, but more so I miss my partner in crime, my shoulder, my safe haven, my protector, my mentor, my punching bag, my lover, my support, my love."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We broke up around February and it was pretty hard for us both. I started dating him when I was 19 and he was 23. We grew up together and we have been through thick and thin. Seriously, he supported me through school and stress and I was there during his darkest times as well. We raised my 2 siblings for about 2-3 years and we own many properties and adopted a dog together as well. \n\nProblem is that we got busy with life and forgot about nurturing our relationship. We had our set of issues but none ever got resolved. Culture, attraction, ambition were just a few things that wrecked us. I know we are both better of apart. We can find people that are more compatible and I am sure we can both be happy again. \n\nAfter being in the dating pool for a bit now, I seriously question whether I can find someone that loved me as much as he did. Yeah, we may not be the most compatible for each other, but we had chemistry and we loved each other. \n\nI feel like shit today. Knowing that I lost someone that truly cared and loved me. I lost my best friend. I lost my soul mate. I lost someone who truly understood me. (We are on good terms but can't really be friends due to new gf/bf in the picture) Every guy I date now just doesn't live up to him in any way. These guys are more compatible with me, but just no chemistry. I look at our pictures or memories and it seriously hurts. I miss him, but more so I miss my partner in crime, my shoulder, my safe haven, my protector, my mentor, my punching bag, my lover, my support, my love."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We broke up around February and it was pretty hard for us both. I started dating him when I was 19 and he was 23. We grew up together and we have been through thick and thin. Seriously, he supported me through school and stress and I was there during his darkest times as well. We raised my 2 siblings for about 2-3 years and we own many properties and adopted a dog together as well. \n\nProblem is that we got busy with life and forgot about nurturing our relationship. We had our set of issues but none ever got resolved. Culture, attraction, ambition were just a few things that wrecked us. I know we are both better of apart. We can find people that are more compatible and I am sure we can both be happy again. \n\nAfter being in the dating pool for a bit now, I seriously question whether I can find someone that loved me as much as he did. Yeah, we may not be the most compatible for each other, but we had chemistry and we loved each other. \n\nI feel like shit today. Knowing that I lost someone that truly cared and loved me. I lost my best friend. I lost my soul mate. I lost someone who truly understood me. (We are on good terms but can't really be friends due to new gf/bf in the picture) Every guy I date now just doesn't live up to him in any way. These guys are more compatible with me, but just no chemistry. I look at our pictures or memories and it seriously hurts. I miss him, but more so I miss my partner in crime, my shoulder, my safe haven, my protector, my mentor, my punching bag, my lover, my support, my love."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We broke up around February and it was pretty hard for us both. I started dating him when I was 19 and he was 23. We grew up together and we have been through thick and thin. Seriously, he supported me through school and stress and I was there during his darkest times as well. We raised my 2 siblings for about 2-3 years and we own many properties and adopted a dog together as well. \n\nProblem is that we got busy with life and forgot about nurturing our relationship. We had our set of issues but none ever got resolved. Culture, attraction, ambition were just a few things that wrecked us. I know we are both better of apart. We can find people that are more compatible and I am sure we can both be happy again. \n\nAfter being in the dating pool for a bit now, I seriously question whether I can find someone that loved me as much as he did. Yeah, we may not be the most compatible for each other, but we had chemistry and we loved each other. \n\nI feel like shit today. Knowing that I lost someone that truly cared and loved me. I lost my best friend. I lost my soul mate. I lost someone who truly understood me. (We are on good terms but can't really be friends due to new gf/bf in the picture) Every guy I date now just doesn't live up to him in any way. These guys are more compatible with me, but just no chemistry. I look at our pictures or memories and it seriously hurts. I miss him, but more so I miss my partner in crime, my shoulder, my safe haven, my protector, my mentor, my punching bag, my lover, my support, my love."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I attempted suicide a while back after a downward spiral initiated by a bad woman I fell in love with. I'm fine now and happy, getting a sweet, new job and travelling frequently. Before my attempt, I dated frequently and I was looking to settle down and get married or, at least, find a long-term partner. Now, I have a problem: I am emotionally terrified of any sort of intimate relationship; yet I retain a desire for a companion. I have had a few dates over the last 6 months but I have not been able to get past the third date, I just don't call them. How do I work through these trust issues, or whatever they are, so I can begin a healthy relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I attempted suicide a while back after a downward spiral initiated by a bad woman I fell in love with. I'm fine now and happy, getting a sweet, new job and travelling frequently. Before my attempt, I dated frequently and I was looking to settle down and get married or, at least, find a long-term partner. Now, I have a problem: I am emotionally terrified of any sort of intimate relationship; yet I retain a desire for a companion. I have had a few dates over the last 6 months but I have not been able to get past the third date, I just don't call them. How do I work through these trust issues, or whatever they are, so I can begin a healthy relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I attempted suicide a while back after a downward spiral initiated by a bad woman I fell in love with. I'm fine now and happy, getting a sweet, new job and travelling frequently. Before my attempt, I dated frequently and I was looking to settle down and get married or, at least, find a long-term partner. Now, I have a problem: I am emotionally terrified of any sort of intimate relationship; yet I retain a desire for a companion. I have had a few dates over the last 6 months but I have not been able to get past the third date, I just don't call them. How do I work through these trust issues, or whatever they are, so I can begin a healthy relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I attempted suicide a while back after a downward spiral initiated by a bad woman I fell in love with. I'm fine now and happy, getting a sweet, new job and travelling frequently. Before my attempt, I dated frequently and I was looking to settle down and get married or, at least, find a long-term partner. Now, I have a problem: I am emotionally terrified of any sort of intimate relationship; yet I retain a desire for a companion. I have had a few dates over the last 6 months but I have not been able to get past the third date, I just don't call them. How do I work through these trust issues, or whatever they are, so I can begin a healthy relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: my wife and I met when we were in our late 20s, so we both came with some experience. We have a pretty incredible relationship in terms of honesty and openness which has led to my current issues.\n\nA while back, she went to a bachelorette party with strippers (which I knew about before and I'm fine with). We talked about it afterwards and she was candid about the freakishly large penises the strippers had.\n\nWhere it gets awkward is that a couple times that night has come up while we were fooling around and she came way harder than usual. It's pretty obvious that thinking about the 12\" black stripper cock gets her off.\n\nOn one hand, I love seeing her so horny and cumming so fast and hard. But I'm human and so there are other emotions involved knowing she's thinking about that night and that person while we're having sex.\n\nGoing forward, I could just avoid the topic and try to forget about it, but it also seems pretty harmless to endulge her in a fantasy if she enjoys it. Is there anything bad or unhealthy about occasionally bringing up that night to spice up the bedroom?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: my wife and I met when we were in our late 20s, so we both came with some experience. We have a pretty incredible relationship in terms of honesty and openness which has led to my current issues.\n\nA while back, she went to a bachelorette party with strippers (which I knew about before and I'm fine with). We talked about it afterwards and she was candid about the freakishly large penises the strippers had.\n\nWhere it gets awkward is that a couple times that night has come up while we were fooling around and she came way harder than usual. It's pretty obvious that thinking about the 12\" black stripper cock gets her off.\n\nOn one hand, I love seeing her so horny and cumming so fast and hard. But I'm human and so there are other emotions involved knowing she's thinking about that night and that person while we're having sex.\n\nGoing forward, I could just avoid the topic and try to forget about it, but it also seems pretty harmless to endulge her in a fantasy if she enjoys it. Is there anything bad or unhealthy about occasionally bringing up that night to spice up the bedroom?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: my wife and I met when we were in our late 20s, so we both came with some experience. We have a pretty incredible relationship in terms of honesty and openness which has led to my current issues.\n\nA while back, she went to a bachelorette party with strippers (which I knew about before and I'm fine with). We talked about it afterwards and she was candid about the freakishly large penises the strippers had.\n\nWhere it gets awkward is that a couple times that night has come up while we were fooling around and she came way harder than usual. It's pretty obvious that thinking about the 12\" black stripper cock gets her off.\n\nOn one hand, I love seeing her so horny and cumming so fast and hard. But I'm human and so there are other emotions involved knowing she's thinking about that night and that person while we're having sex.\n\nGoing forward, I could just avoid the topic and try to forget about it, but it also seems pretty harmless to endulge her in a fantasy if she enjoys it. Is there anything bad or unhealthy about occasionally bringing up that night to spice up the bedroom?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: my wife and I met when we were in our late 20s, so we both came with some experience. We have a pretty incredible relationship in terms of honesty and openness which has led to my current issues.\n\nA while back, she went to a bachelorette party with strippers (which I knew about before and I'm fine with). We talked about it afterwards and she was candid about the freakishly large penises the strippers had.\n\nWhere it gets awkward is that a couple times that night has come up while we were fooling around and she came way harder than usual. It's pretty obvious that thinking about the 12\" black stripper cock gets her off.\n\nOn one hand, I love seeing her so horny and cumming so fast and hard. But I'm human and so there are other emotions involved knowing she's thinking about that night and that person while we're having sex.\n\nGoing forward, I could just avoid the topic and try to forget about it, but it also seems pretty harmless to endulge her in a fantasy if she enjoys it. Is there anything bad or unhealthy about occasionally bringing up that night to spice up the bedroom?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello /r/loseit ! You people have been a great motivation for me, and thats what i come today to ask for some help.\n\n21F/5'5\"/CW152 lbs GW:130lbs\n\nMy weight loss journey began 3 months ago in my summer vacations where i found myself wearing a bikini and feeling more uncomfortable than ever, not that I have ever been 100% confident with my body image. Thanks to this I decided to really make a change in my life, no more lousy diets I had to take this seriously.\n\nSo I did.\n\nI downloaded MFP and set it to lose 1.5lbs per week given that I don't have that much weight to lose (20lbs would be optimum). I started eating 1200kcal a day which gave great results at first. I lost 4kg (around 8-9lbs) the first two months. At the beginning of the thirds month i plateaued. for 3 weeks. No matter how healthy i ate or how much i exercised (avg burning 1400kcal p/week) i was stuck.\n\nOn top of the plateau i started having a lot of stress from my studies, working on several projects and working at the same time i was roughly getting 4-5hs of sleep a night if i was lucky, which derailed me in several other things. \n\nI started seeking confort in food, late nights working i thought \"what could be better than some chocolate or peanut butter\". Also being so distracted i do not pay so much attention to what i eat, i drink too few amounts of water.\n\nI have not super exeded my calorie goal, maybe 400-500kcal a day? i guess that would be close to maintanance but i feel soo bloated.\n\nI really need motivation to help me get back on the wagon, and get to my goal!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello /r/loseit ! You people have been a great motivation for me, and thats what i come today to ask for some help.\n\n21F/5'5\"/CW152 lbs GW:130lbs\n\nMy weight loss journey began 3 months ago in my summer vacations where i found myself wearing a bikini and feeling more uncomfortable than ever, not that I have ever been 100% confident with my body image. Thanks to this I decided to really make a change in my life, no more lousy diets I had to take this seriously.\n\nSo I did.\n\nI downloaded MFP and set it to lose 1.5lbs per week given that I don't have that much weight to lose (20lbs would be optimum). I started eating 1200kcal a day which gave great results at first. I lost 4kg (around 8-9lbs) the first two months. At the beginning of the thirds month i plateaued. for 3 weeks. No matter how healthy i ate or how much i exercised (avg burning 1400kcal p/week) i was stuck.\n\nOn top of the plateau i started having a lot of stress from my studies, working on several projects and working at the same time i was roughly getting 4-5hs of sleep a night if i was lucky, which derailed me in several other things. \n\nI started seeking confort in food, late nights working i thought \"what could be better than some chocolate or peanut butter\". Also being so distracted i do not pay so much attention to what i eat, i drink too few amounts of water.\n\nI have not super exeded my calorie goal, maybe 400-500kcal a day? i guess that would be close to maintanance but i feel soo bloated.\n\nI really need motivation to help me get back on the wagon, and get to my goal!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello /r/loseit ! You people have been a great motivation for me, and thats what i come today to ask for some help.\n\n21F/5'5\"/CW152 lbs GW:130lbs\n\nMy weight loss journey began 3 months ago in my summer vacations where i found myself wearing a bikini and feeling more uncomfortable than ever, not that I have ever been 100% confident with my body image. Thanks to this I decided to really make a change in my life, no more lousy diets I had to take this seriously.\n\nSo I did.\n\nI downloaded MFP and set it to lose 1.5lbs per week given that I don't have that much weight to lose (20lbs would be optimum). I started eating 1200kcal a day which gave great results at first. I lost 4kg (around 8-9lbs) the first two months. At the beginning of the thirds month i plateaued. for 3 weeks. No matter how healthy i ate or how much i exercised (avg burning 1400kcal p/week) i was stuck.\n\nOn top of the plateau i started having a lot of stress from my studies, working on several projects and working at the same time i was roughly getting 4-5hs of sleep a night if i was lucky, which derailed me in several other things. \n\nI started seeking confort in food, late nights working i thought \"what could be better than some chocolate or peanut butter\". Also being so distracted i do not pay so much attention to what i eat, i drink too few amounts of water.\n\nI have not super exeded my calorie goal, maybe 400-500kcal a day? i guess that would be close to maintanance but i feel soo bloated.\n\nI really need motivation to help me get back on the wagon, and get to my goal!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello /r/loseit ! You people have been a great motivation for me, and thats what i come today to ask for some help.\n\n21F/5'5\"/CW152 lbs GW:130lbs\n\nMy weight loss journey began 3 months ago in my summer vacations where i found myself wearing a bikini and feeling more uncomfortable than ever, not that I have ever been 100% confident with my body image. Thanks to this I decided to really make a change in my life, no more lousy diets I had to take this seriously.\n\nSo I did.\n\nI downloaded MFP and set it to lose 1.5lbs per week given that I don't have that much weight to lose (20lbs would be optimum). I started eating 1200kcal a day which gave great results at first. I lost 4kg (around 8-9lbs) the first two months. At the beginning of the thirds month i plateaued. for 3 weeks. No matter how healthy i ate or how much i exercised (avg burning 1400kcal p/week) i was stuck.\n\nOn top of the plateau i started having a lot of stress from my studies, working on several projects and working at the same time i was roughly getting 4-5hs of sleep a night if i was lucky, which derailed me in several other things. \n\nI started seeking confort in food, late nights working i thought \"what could be better than some chocolate or peanut butter\". Also being so distracted i do not pay so much attention to what i eat, i drink too few amounts of water.\n\nI have not super exeded my calorie goal, maybe 400-500kcal a day? i guess that would be close to maintanance but i feel soo bloated.\n\nI really need motivation to help me get back on the wagon, and get to my goal!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been fighting depression and anxiety for my entire life, although it wasn't diagnosed or taken seriously until the last two years. I currently work a shitty job, and get shit for it. I make decent money, but I also get screamed at all shift and am constantly told I'm not doing well enough. I'm at a university studying something I enjoy, but I'm stuck here even though I'm upset with the University. I'm on a form of probation that prohibits me from transferring. I'm also unable to get into any of the classes I need, and am being swept under the rug despite my cries to the university or my advisors. I'm being forced to remain at this University for far longer than I wish because of this probation. Yes, I acknowledge that I fucked up. I have court Friday. I shouldn't have to be punished by my institution as well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been fighting depression and anxiety for my entire life, although it wasn't diagnosed or taken seriously until the last two years. I currently work a shitty job, and get shit for it. I make decent money, but I also get screamed at all shift and am constantly told I'm not doing well enough. I'm at a university studying something I enjoy, but I'm stuck here even though I'm upset with the University. I'm on a form of probation that prohibits me from transferring. I'm also unable to get into any of the classes I need, and am being swept under the rug despite my cries to the university or my advisors. I'm being forced to remain at this University for far longer than I wish because of this probation. Yes, I acknowledge that I fucked up. I have court Friday. I shouldn't have to be punished by my institution as well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been fighting depression and anxiety for my entire life, although it wasn't diagnosed or taken seriously until the last two years. I currently work a shitty job, and get shit for it. I make decent money, but I also get screamed at all shift and am constantly told I'm not doing well enough. I'm at a university studying something I enjoy, but I'm stuck here even though I'm upset with the University. I'm on a form of probation that prohibits me from transferring. I'm also unable to get into any of the classes I need, and am being swept under the rug despite my cries to the university or my advisors. I'm being forced to remain at this University for far longer than I wish because of this probation. Yes, I acknowledge that I fucked up. I have court Friday. I shouldn't have to be punished by my institution as well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been fighting depression and anxiety for my entire life, although it wasn't diagnosed or taken seriously until the last two years. I currently work a shitty job, and get shit for it. I make decent money, but I also get screamed at all shift and am constantly told I'm not doing well enough. I'm at a university studying something I enjoy, but I'm stuck here even though I'm upset with the University. I'm on a form of probation that prohibits me from transferring. I'm also unable to get into any of the classes I need, and am being swept under the rug despite my cries to the university or my advisors. I'm being forced to remain at this University for far longer than I wish because of this probation. Yes, I acknowledge that I fucked up. I have court Friday. I shouldn't have to be punished by my institution as well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks.\n\nSo I ve been dating this girl since high school and we practically grew up together. During the latter part of high school I wasn’t faithful but I tried to make amends for that when she decided to give me a second chance. Our relationship during college was a long distance one. None the less, during our time away at college majority of time we spoke in college we argued about her needs and wants. How I wasn’t meeting them and how she wanted to move on and me convincing her that she should stay with me. Please don’t get me wrong we have/had fun together(lots of good memories) as well but a larger part of the hinders on the relationship is a the lack of communication.\n\nFast forward we have graduated and decide to move in together but since we move in together it seem like every other day we are arguing about something. I recently proposed to her going on leap faith hoping that it change the dynamic of the relationship and stop some of the arguing. For the first couple weeks it work but then the old habits set back in. So now we are at the point were she wants space and because she want space I want to end the relationship all together. Please advise\n\nSide note: We have tried therapy multiple time. We both are individual therapy as we speak. Yet we nothing seem to work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks.\n\nSo I ve been dating this girl since high school and we practically grew up together. During the latter part of high school I wasn’t faithful but I tried to make amends for that when she decided to give me a second chance. Our relationship during college was a long distance one. None the less, during our time away at college majority of time we spoke in college we argued about her needs and wants. How I wasn’t meeting them and how she wanted to move on and me convincing her that she should stay with me. Please don’t get me wrong we have/had fun together(lots of good memories) as well but a larger part of the hinders on the relationship is a the lack of communication.\n\nFast forward we have graduated and decide to move in together but since we move in together it seem like every other day we are arguing about something. I recently proposed to her going on leap faith hoping that it change the dynamic of the relationship and stop some of the arguing. For the first couple weeks it work but then the old habits set back in. So now we are at the point were she wants space and because she want space I want to end the relationship all together. Please advise\n\nSide note: We have tried therapy multiple time. We both are individual therapy as we speak. Yet we nothing seem to work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was fine when she was first pregnant because there weren't any visible signs that she was pregnant, but now that she's showing, I just can't get into sex. The constant reminder that our kid is literally right there next to us gives me the heeby jeebies and is just about the least sexy thing in the world. I don't even know how she can enjoy it because it's all I can think about, and that's a total buzzkill. \n\nShe's upset with me, especially since she is so.ravenous now, because we haven't had relations in a month, but I just can't enjoy it anymore. If I'm honest, I just don't find the pregnant body attractive. I wish I could, but every time we try to get things started, nothing happens. I physically can't make myself want or enjoy this, so it's not even a matter of it all being in my head. \n\nI can understand why she is hurt, especially since I always decline, but I've told her repeatedly that it has nothing to do with her. Is there a better way to explain this to her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was fine when she was first pregnant because there weren't any visible signs that she was pregnant, but now that she's showing, I just can't get into sex. The constant reminder that our kid is literally right there next to us gives me the heeby jeebies and is just about the least sexy thing in the world. I don't even know how she can enjoy it because it's all I can think about, and that's a total buzzkill. \n\nShe's upset with me, especially since she is so.ravenous now, because we haven't had relations in a month, but I just can't enjoy it anymore. If I'm honest, I just don't find the pregnant body attractive. I wish I could, but every time we try to get things started, nothing happens. I physically can't make myself want or enjoy this, so it's not even a matter of it all being in my head. \n\nI can understand why she is hurt, especially since I always decline, but I've told her repeatedly that it has nothing to do with her. Is there a better way to explain this to her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was fine when she was first pregnant because there weren't any visible signs that she was pregnant, but now that she's showing, I just can't get into sex. The constant reminder that our kid is literally right there next to us gives me the heeby jeebies and is just about the least sexy thing in the world. I don't even know how she can enjoy it because it's all I can think about, and that's a total buzzkill. \n\nShe's upset with me, especially since she is so.ravenous now, because we haven't had relations in a month, but I just can't enjoy it anymore. If I'm honest, I just don't find the pregnant body attractive. I wish I could, but every time we try to get things started, nothing happens. I physically can't make myself want or enjoy this, so it's not even a matter of it all being in my head. \n\nI can understand why she is hurt, especially since I always decline, but I've told her repeatedly that it has nothing to do with her. Is there a better way to explain this to her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was fine when she was first pregnant because there weren't any visible signs that she was pregnant, but now that she's showing, I just can't get into sex. The constant reminder that our kid is literally right there next to us gives me the heeby jeebies and is just about the least sexy thing in the world. I don't even know how she can enjoy it because it's all I can think about, and that's a total buzzkill. \n\nShe's upset with me, especially since she is so.ravenous now, because we haven't had relations in a month, but I just can't enjoy it anymore. If I'm honest, I just don't find the pregnant body attractive. I wish I could, but every time we try to get things started, nothing happens. I physically can't make myself want or enjoy this, so it's not even a matter of it all being in my head. \n\nI can understand why she is hurt, especially since I always decline, but I've told her repeatedly that it has nothing to do with her. Is there a better way to explain this to her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little background. I was traveling in the left lane on a main street that is 4 lanes total and I am doing the speed limit. I start nearing a fairly busy intersection that comes out of a Costco parking lot. The light is green as I go through it like any normal driver should. About half-way through the intersection, a car takes a right into the right lane and then proceeds to drift in my lane. I only had enough time to barely tap my breaks and my horn simultaneously.\n\nThe car then slams into the right side of my car, knocking the mirror off and pushing me into the center divider. The center divider is just a 6 inch triangular shaped [curb]( We then both proceed to pull over.\n\nLong story short, the driver, as nice as she was (although her mom was a crazy nutcase), was at fault but was unwilling to admit fault, so I called the cops. The police officer came, determined she was at fault and proceeded to give the other driver a citation for unsafe lane change.\n\nNow, my car only has liability insurance, and since there weren't any witnesses that stopped (jackasses), the insurance company says there is insufficient evidence to admit fault and now I am left to pay for the damages. Or am I?\n\nI am considering taking her to small claims. But are there other means of action in which I have not taken?\n\nI also thought about calling her and telling her I am going to sue her if she doesn't call the insurance company and admit fault. Is that a good idea?\n\nPlease help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little background. I was traveling in the left lane on a main street that is 4 lanes total and I am doing the speed limit. I start nearing a fairly busy intersection that comes out of a Costco parking lot. The light is green as I go through it like any normal driver should. About half-way through the intersection, a car takes a right into the right lane and then proceeds to drift in my lane. I only had enough time to barely tap my breaks and my horn simultaneously.\n\nThe car then slams into the right side of my car, knocking the mirror off and pushing me into the center divider. The center divider is just a 6 inch triangular shaped [curb]( We then both proceed to pull over.\n\nLong story short, the driver, as nice as she was (although her mom was a crazy nutcase), was at fault but was unwilling to admit fault, so I called the cops. The police officer came, determined she was at fault and proceeded to give the other driver a citation for unsafe lane change.\n\nNow, my car only has liability insurance, and since there weren't any witnesses that stopped (jackasses), the insurance company says there is insufficient evidence to admit fault and now I am left to pay for the damages. Or am I?\n\nI am considering taking her to small claims. But are there other means of action in which I have not taken?\n\nI also thought about calling her and telling her I am going to sue her if she doesn't call the insurance company and admit fault. Is that a good idea?\n\nPlease help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little background. I was traveling in the left lane on a main street that is 4 lanes total and I am doing the speed limit. I start nearing a fairly busy intersection that comes out of a Costco parking lot. The light is green as I go through it like any normal driver should. About half-way through the intersection, a car takes a right into the right lane and then proceeds to drift in my lane. I only had enough time to barely tap my breaks and my horn simultaneously.\n\nThe car then slams into the right side of my car, knocking the mirror off and pushing me into the center divider. The center divider is just a 6 inch triangular shaped [curb]( We then both proceed to pull over.\n\nLong story short, the driver, as nice as she was (although her mom was a crazy nutcase), was at fault but was unwilling to admit fault, so I called the cops. The police officer came, determined she was at fault and proceeded to give the other driver a citation for unsafe lane change.\n\nNow, my car only has liability insurance, and since there weren't any witnesses that stopped (jackasses), the insurance company says there is insufficient evidence to admit fault and now I am left to pay for the damages. Or am I?\n\nI am considering taking her to small claims. But are there other means of action in which I have not taken?\n\nI also thought about calling her and telling her I am going to sue her if she doesn't call the insurance company and admit fault. Is that a good idea?\n\nPlease help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little background. I was traveling in the left lane on a main street that is 4 lanes total and I am doing the speed limit. I start nearing a fairly busy intersection that comes out of a Costco parking lot. The light is green as I go through it like any normal driver should. About half-way through the intersection, a car takes a right into the right lane and then proceeds to drift in my lane. I only had enough time to barely tap my breaks and my horn simultaneously.\n\nThe car then slams into the right side of my car, knocking the mirror off and pushing me into the center divider. The center divider is just a 6 inch triangular shaped [curb]( We then both proceed to pull over.\n\nLong story short, the driver, as nice as she was (although her mom was a crazy nutcase), was at fault but was unwilling to admit fault, so I called the cops. The police officer came, determined she was at fault and proceeded to give the other driver a citation for unsafe lane change.\n\nNow, my car only has liability insurance, and since there weren't any witnesses that stopped (jackasses), the insurance company says there is insufficient evidence to admit fault and now I am left to pay for the damages. Or am I?\n\nI am considering taking her to small claims. But are there other means of action in which I have not taken?\n\nI also thought about calling her and telling her I am going to sue her if she doesn't call the insurance company and admit fault. Is that a good idea?\n\nPlease help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this belongs here but I was just wondering if I could get some advice about my employer. Right now I’m in a contracted position that keeps getting extended every three months. I’ve been told I’m budgeted as a contractor for fiscal 2011. Recently, a job opened up that would be a permanent position. I am in HR (an HR Asst.) and this was an Admin Assistant supporting two Directors. I have had some recent life changes where I need a more permanent position (really rough breakup) and I am now living on my own and have a lot more expenses than I did before. \n \nI was actively recruited by Director A saying “I can offer you a permanent position!” and “I can offer you higher pay!” and “I don’t take credit for my AA’s work!” (a joke because of something my current boss said in a meeting). At first (because the new job wasn’t in HR) I said that I was flattered that he liked my abilities, but no thanks. Then the bad stuff happened and I thought that “hey…I need to take care of *me* right now so this wouldn’t be so bad”. \nWell, I applied and didn’t hear anything for a week – and then I went in and checked the system (a little sneaky behavior, I know) and I was rejected by Director B saying “long-term career goals do not align with this position”. \n \nI’m a little bummed (ok a lot bummed). I obviously had to tell my current bosses that I was applying elsewhere and now I feel like its a little weird…they know I need more from my job right now and they can’t get the headcount to support me in a permanent position. I feel stuck. Should I stick it out in this temp position or start applying to new places of employment?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this belongs here but I was just wondering if I could get some advice about my employer. Right now I’m in a contracted position that keeps getting extended every three months. I’ve been told I’m budgeted as a contractor for fiscal 2011. Recently, a job opened up that would be a permanent position. I am in HR (an HR Asst.) and this was an Admin Assistant supporting two Directors. I have had some recent life changes where I need a more permanent position (really rough breakup) and I am now living on my own and have a lot more expenses than I did before. \n \nI was actively recruited by Director A saying “I can offer you a permanent position!” and “I can offer you higher pay!” and “I don’t take credit for my AA’s work!” (a joke because of something my current boss said in a meeting). At first (because the new job wasn’t in HR) I said that I was flattered that he liked my abilities, but no thanks. Then the bad stuff happened and I thought that “hey…I need to take care of *me* right now so this wouldn’t be so bad”. \nWell, I applied and didn’t hear anything for a week – and then I went in and checked the system (a little sneaky behavior, I know) and I was rejected by Director B saying “long-term career goals do not align with this position”. \n \nI’m a little bummed (ok a lot bummed). I obviously had to tell my current bosses that I was applying elsewhere and now I feel like its a little weird…they know I need more from my job right now and they can’t get the headcount to support me in a permanent position. I feel stuck. Should I stick it out in this temp position or start applying to new places of employment?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this belongs here but I was just wondering if I could get some advice about my employer. Right now I’m in a contracted position that keeps getting extended every three months. I’ve been told I’m budgeted as a contractor for fiscal 2011. Recently, a job opened up that would be a permanent position. I am in HR (an HR Asst.) and this was an Admin Assistant supporting two Directors. I have had some recent life changes where I need a more permanent position (really rough breakup) and I am now living on my own and have a lot more expenses than I did before. \n \nI was actively recruited by Director A saying “I can offer you a permanent position!” and “I can offer you higher pay!” and “I don’t take credit for my AA’s work!” (a joke because of something my current boss said in a meeting). At first (because the new job wasn’t in HR) I said that I was flattered that he liked my abilities, but no thanks. Then the bad stuff happened and I thought that “hey…I need to take care of *me* right now so this wouldn’t be so bad”. \nWell, I applied and didn’t hear anything for a week – and then I went in and checked the system (a little sneaky behavior, I know) and I was rejected by Director B saying “long-term career goals do not align with this position”. \n \nI’m a little bummed (ok a lot bummed). I obviously had to tell my current bosses that I was applying elsewhere and now I feel like its a little weird…they know I need more from my job right now and they can’t get the headcount to support me in a permanent position. I feel stuck. Should I stick it out in this temp position or start applying to new places of employment?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this belongs here but I was just wondering if I could get some advice about my employer. Right now I’m in a contracted position that keeps getting extended every three months. I’ve been told I’m budgeted as a contractor for fiscal 2011. Recently, a job opened up that would be a permanent position. I am in HR (an HR Asst.) and this was an Admin Assistant supporting two Directors. I have had some recent life changes where I need a more permanent position (really rough breakup) and I am now living on my own and have a lot more expenses than I did before. \n \nI was actively recruited by Director A saying “I can offer you a permanent position!” and “I can offer you higher pay!” and “I don’t take credit for my AA’s work!” (a joke because of something my current boss said in a meeting). At first (because the new job wasn’t in HR) I said that I was flattered that he liked my abilities, but no thanks. Then the bad stuff happened and I thought that “hey…I need to take care of *me* right now so this wouldn’t be so bad”. \nWell, I applied and didn’t hear anything for a week – and then I went in and checked the system (a little sneaky behavior, I know) and I was rejected by Director B saying “long-term career goals do not align with this position”. \n \nI’m a little bummed (ok a lot bummed). I obviously had to tell my current bosses that I was applying elsewhere and now I feel like its a little weird…they know I need more from my job right now and they can’t get the headcount to support me in a permanent position. I feel stuck. Should I stick it out in this temp position or start applying to new places of employment?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this belongs here but I was just wondering if I could get some advice about my employer. Right now I’m in a contracted position that keeps getting extended every three months. I’ve been told I’m budgeted as a contractor for fiscal 2011. Recently, a job opened up that would be a permanent position. I am in HR (an HR Asst.) and this was an Admin Assistant supporting two Directors. I have had some recent life changes where I need a more permanent position (really rough breakup) and I am now living on my own and have a lot more expenses than I did before. \n \nI was actively recruited by Director A saying “I can offer you a permanent position!” and “I can offer you higher pay!” and “I don’t take credit for my AA’s work!” (a joke because of something my current boss said in a meeting). At first (because the new job wasn’t in HR) I said that I was flattered that he liked my abilities, but no thanks. Then the bad stuff happened and I thought that “hey…I need to take care of *me* right now so this wouldn’t be so bad”. \nWell, I applied and didn’t hear anything for a week – and then I went in and checked the system (a little sneaky behavior, I know) and I was rejected by Director B saying “long-term career goals do not align with this position”. \n \nI’m a little bummed (ok a lot bummed). I obviously had to tell my current bosses that I was applying elsewhere and now I feel like its a little weird…they know I need more from my job right now and they can’t get the headcount to support me in a permanent position. I feel stuck. Should I stick it out in this temp position or start applying to new places of employment?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this belongs here but I was just wondering if I could get some advice about my employer. Right now I’m in a contracted position that keeps getting extended every three months. I’ve been told I’m budgeted as a contractor for fiscal 2011. Recently, a job opened up that would be a permanent position. I am in HR (an HR Asst.) and this was an Admin Assistant supporting two Directors. I have had some recent life changes where I need a more permanent position (really rough breakup) and I am now living on my own and have a lot more expenses than I did before. \n \nI was actively recruited by Director A saying “I can offer you a permanent position!” and “I can offer you higher pay!” and “I don’t take credit for my AA’s work!” (a joke because of something my current boss said in a meeting). At first (because the new job wasn’t in HR) I said that I was flattered that he liked my abilities, but no thanks. Then the bad stuff happened and I thought that “hey…I need to take care of *me* right now so this wouldn’t be so bad”. \nWell, I applied and didn’t hear anything for a week – and then I went in and checked the system (a little sneaky behavior, I know) and I was rejected by Director B saying “long-term career goals do not align with this position”. \n \nI’m a little bummed (ok a lot bummed). I obviously had to tell my current bosses that I was applying elsewhere and now I feel like its a little weird…they know I need more from my job right now and they can’t get the headcount to support me in a permanent position. I feel stuck. Should I stick it out in this temp position or start applying to new places of employment?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this belongs here but I was just wondering if I could get some advice about my employer. Right now I’m in a contracted position that keeps getting extended every three months. I’ve been told I’m budgeted as a contractor for fiscal 2011. Recently, a job opened up that would be a permanent position. I am in HR (an HR Asst.) and this was an Admin Assistant supporting two Directors. I have had some recent life changes where I need a more permanent position (really rough breakup) and I am now living on my own and have a lot more expenses than I did before. \n \nI was actively recruited by Director A saying “I can offer you a permanent position!” and “I can offer you higher pay!” and “I don’t take credit for my AA’s work!” (a joke because of something my current boss said in a meeting). At first (because the new job wasn’t in HR) I said that I was flattered that he liked my abilities, but no thanks. Then the bad stuff happened and I thought that “hey…I need to take care of *me* right now so this wouldn’t be so bad”. \nWell, I applied and didn’t hear anything for a week – and then I went in and checked the system (a little sneaky behavior, I know) and I was rejected by Director B saying “long-term career goals do not align with this position”. \n \nI’m a little bummed (ok a lot bummed). I obviously had to tell my current bosses that I was applying elsewhere and now I feel like its a little weird…they know I need more from my job right now and they can’t get the headcount to support me in a permanent position. I feel stuck. Should I stick it out in this temp position or start applying to new places of employment?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Not sure if this belongs here but I was just wondering if I could get some advice about my employer. Right now I’m in a contracted position that keeps getting extended every three months. I’ve been told I’m budgeted as a contractor for fiscal 2011. Recently, a job opened up that would be a permanent position. I am in HR (an HR Asst.) and this was an Admin Assistant supporting two Directors. I have had some recent life changes where I need a more permanent position (really rough breakup) and I am now living on my own and have a lot more expenses than I did before. \n \nI was actively recruited by Director A saying “I can offer you a permanent position!” and “I can offer you higher pay!” and “I don’t take credit for my AA’s work!” (a joke because of something my current boss said in a meeting). At first (because the new job wasn’t in HR) I said that I was flattered that he liked my abilities, but no thanks. Then the bad stuff happened and I thought that “hey…I need to take care of *me* right now so this wouldn’t be so bad”. \nWell, I applied and didn’t hear anything for a week – and then I went in and checked the system (a little sneaky behavior, I know) and I was rejected by Director B saying “long-term career goals do not align with this position”. \n \nI’m a little bummed (ok a lot bummed). I obviously had to tell my current bosses that I was applying elsewhere and now I feel like its a little weird…they know I need more from my job right now and they can’t get the headcount to support me in a permanent position. I feel stuck. Should I stick it out in this temp position or start applying to new places of employment?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, obviously, I'm a recently new Redditor. I was exploring through the lists of sub-reddits, adding ones I found interesting as I went along, when I stumbled upon /r/gonewild. Naturally, I started browsing and ended up finding a post by a girl that I knew. And I know that I know who she is because she included her face. \n\n I have known her for several years now. We went to high school together, went to the same college, and saw her every now and then. There wasn't much conversation between us, just the normal \"Hello\" and \"How are you doing?\" \n\nI've never thought of her as more than a friend/acquaintance, but seeing those pictures kind of made me a bit more attracted to her. It's probably nothing, but the thing is though, is I don't think anything would work out between us. Not an age difference (I'm 22, she's 20) but just because I barely talk to her. If I ever saw her, it would always be a casual conversation, which is fine. \n\nI'm just wondering though, do I say something to her about it all? Say that I saw her pictures, that they looked good? Or do I just keep my mouth shut. I don't really want anything to get awkward, although I don't think she'd be THAT weirded out that I saw her considering she put them on Reddit. But I can't imagine she expected any of her friends, especially not me, to see them. I'm pretty sure she has no idea I'm a Redditor. \n\nIt's kind of a conflicting ordeal. And obviously, I'm not using a throwaway account. If this somehow makes it to the front page and she sees that it's me, then I won't have to say anything anyways. \n\nWhat's the consensus from the great Reddit community?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, obviously, I'm a recently new Redditor. I was exploring through the lists of sub-reddits, adding ones I found interesting as I went along, when I stumbled upon /r/gonewild. Naturally, I started browsing and ended up finding a post by a girl that I knew. And I know that I know who she is because she included her face. \n\n I have known her for several years now. We went to high school together, went to the same college, and saw her every now and then. There wasn't much conversation between us, just the normal \"Hello\" and \"How are you doing?\" \n\nI've never thought of her as more than a friend/acquaintance, but seeing those pictures kind of made me a bit more attracted to her. It's probably nothing, but the thing is though, is I don't think anything would work out between us. Not an age difference (I'm 22, she's 20) but just because I barely talk to her. If I ever saw her, it would always be a casual conversation, which is fine. \n\nI'm just wondering though, do I say something to her about it all? Say that I saw her pictures, that they looked good? Or do I just keep my mouth shut. I don't really want anything to get awkward, although I don't think she'd be THAT weirded out that I saw her considering she put them on Reddit. But I can't imagine she expected any of her friends, especially not me, to see them. I'm pretty sure she has no idea I'm a Redditor. \n\nIt's kind of a conflicting ordeal. And obviously, I'm not using a throwaway account. If this somehow makes it to the front page and she sees that it's me, then I won't have to say anything anyways. \n\nWhat's the consensus from the great Reddit community?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, obviously, I'm a recently new Redditor. I was exploring through the lists of sub-reddits, adding ones I found interesting as I went along, when I stumbled upon /r/gonewild. Naturally, I started browsing and ended up finding a post by a girl that I knew. And I know that I know who she is because she included her face. \n\n I have known her for several years now. We went to high school together, went to the same college, and saw her every now and then. There wasn't much conversation between us, just the normal \"Hello\" and \"How are you doing?\" \n\nI've never thought of her as more than a friend/acquaintance, but seeing those pictures kind of made me a bit more attracted to her. It's probably nothing, but the thing is though, is I don't think anything would work out between us. Not an age difference (I'm 22, she's 20) but just because I barely talk to her. If I ever saw her, it would always be a casual conversation, which is fine. \n\nI'm just wondering though, do I say something to her about it all? Say that I saw her pictures, that they looked good? Or do I just keep my mouth shut. I don't really want anything to get awkward, although I don't think she'd be THAT weirded out that I saw her considering she put them on Reddit. But I can't imagine she expected any of her friends, especially not me, to see them. I'm pretty sure she has no idea I'm a Redditor. \n\nIt's kind of a conflicting ordeal. And obviously, I'm not using a throwaway account. If this somehow makes it to the front page and she sees that it's me, then I won't have to say anything anyways. \n\nWhat's the consensus from the great Reddit community?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, obviously, I'm a recently new Redditor. I was exploring through the lists of sub-reddits, adding ones I found interesting as I went along, when I stumbled upon /r/gonewild. Naturally, I started browsing and ended up finding a post by a girl that I knew. And I know that I know who she is because she included her face. \n\n I have known her for several years now. We went to high school together, went to the same college, and saw her every now and then. There wasn't much conversation between us, just the normal \"Hello\" and \"How are you doing?\" \n\nI've never thought of her as more than a friend/acquaintance, but seeing those pictures kind of made me a bit more attracted to her. It's probably nothing, but the thing is though, is I don't think anything would work out between us. Not an age difference (I'm 22, she's 20) but just because I barely talk to her. If I ever saw her, it would always be a casual conversation, which is fine. \n\nI'm just wondering though, do I say something to her about it all? Say that I saw her pictures, that they looked good? Or do I just keep my mouth shut. I don't really want anything to get awkward, although I don't think she'd be THAT weirded out that I saw her considering she put them on Reddit. But I can't imagine she expected any of her friends, especially not me, to see them. I'm pretty sure she has no idea I'm a Redditor. \n\nIt's kind of a conflicting ordeal. And obviously, I'm not using a throwaway account. If this somehow makes it to the front page and she sees that it's me, then I won't have to say anything anyways. \n\nWhat's the consensus from the great Reddit community?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my younger sister got married, and it was a miserable experience for the whole family. Calling her bridezilla would be an understatement. In addition to being uber-demanding and hysterical, she was also paranoid. She believed the family was coercing her into making certain decisions she alone had made (example, she asked for the family's opinion between 2 dresses, chose the family's favorite, then regretted the decision and blamed the family for ruining her wedding).\n\nDespite her outrageous behavior, I made a reception toast as requested by her. My speech emphasized her true personality - how she walks to the beat of her own drum, and broke all traditional/cultural norms and despite facing pushback from conservative parents, was able to make herself successful, independent, and find true love. I earnestly concluded with how happy the family is for her. However, she took this as an affront. She ceased all communications with me, but she emailed my husband telling him that she is extremely insulted. She claimed that her in-laws and friends' parents are offering their condolences for the mean-spirited speech by her wicked sister, and that she goes to bed every night hoping to wake up with no memory of the horrible wedding. I'm at a lost. She isolated and demonized so many family members, and now she's turned my admiration into an insult. I want to reach out to her, but I didn't do anything wrong. What can I even apologize for? She has the tendency to take everything negatively and has a propensity to be insulted. How can I convince her that her perception of the speech is wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throw any ideas you have at me here. I think about how to get ahead of my situation every day, but i need some more brain power. \n\nHere is the paradigm/background;\n\nI am 24, I have a BFA with a major in film production. I worked in the film industry for 2 years after graduating and realized it was far too stressful for the reward. I have no qualms about dropping the field all together if i can find something better to replace it with. I currently work as a background digital painter for an animation company. I average lets say $1600-1700 CAD a month. I have no rent currently, no car payments, i have a student loan of $9,200, aside from that the only expense i have is a $45/month gym membership. \n\nI'm in a fairly good position considering. Now it's time to capitalize.\n\nWhile i have artistic passions, at this point I've fulfilled my dreams of being an artist, and now i want money. I am lucky in that I have an above average intelligence, and a ridiculous drive to be better than i think i can be. I know I can do anything I want. Question is, how to best aim this. \n\nIdeas so far: I've looked into medicine, however the amount of time involved, and the debt, in the end will not be worth it. My father is a doctor and half the reason I want wealth is to help with his massive debt. \n\nA more realistic option is going back for a part time MBA, of which in a worst case scenario will allow me to fall back onto most large corporations as a marketing lead of some kind. (MBA + Film and television and advertising experience) \n\nInvesting, although unless I'm mistaken it seems far less lucrative than it was in the past 20 years. My knowledge of investing is fairly minimal, so this is a bit of an ignorant statement."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throw any ideas you have at me here. I think about how to get ahead of my situation every day, but i need some more brain power. \n\nHere is the paradigm/background;\n\nI am 24, I have a BFA with a major in film production. I worked in the film industry for 2 years after graduating and realized it was far too stressful for the reward. I have no qualms about dropping the field all together if i can find something better to replace it with. I currently work as a background digital painter for an animation company. I average lets say $1600-1700 CAD a month. I have no rent currently, no car payments, i have a student loan of $9,200, aside from that the only expense i have is a $45/month gym membership. \n\nI'm in a fairly good position considering. Now it's time to capitalize.\n\nWhile i have artistic passions, at this point I've fulfilled my dreams of being an artist, and now i want money. I am lucky in that I have an above average intelligence, and a ridiculous drive to be better than i think i can be. I know I can do anything I want. Question is, how to best aim this. \n\nIdeas so far: I've looked into medicine, however the amount of time involved, and the debt, in the end will not be worth it. My father is a doctor and half the reason I want wealth is to help with his massive debt. \n\nA more realistic option is going back for a part time MBA, of which in a worst case scenario will allow me to fall back onto most large corporations as a marketing lead of some kind. (MBA + Film and television and advertising experience) \n\nInvesting, although unless I'm mistaken it seems far less lucrative than it was in the past 20 years. My knowledge of investing is fairly minimal, so this is a bit of an ignorant statement."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throw any ideas you have at me here. I think about how to get ahead of my situation every day, but i need some more brain power. \n\nHere is the paradigm/background;\n\nI am 24, I have a BFA with a major in film production. I worked in the film industry for 2 years after graduating and realized it was far too stressful for the reward. I have no qualms about dropping the field all together if i can find something better to replace it with. I currently work as a background digital painter for an animation company. I average lets say $1600-1700 CAD a month. I have no rent currently, no car payments, i have a student loan of $9,200, aside from that the only expense i have is a $45/month gym membership. \n\nI'm in a fairly good position considering. Now it's time to capitalize.\n\nWhile i have artistic passions, at this point I've fulfilled my dreams of being an artist, and now i want money. I am lucky in that I have an above average intelligence, and a ridiculous drive to be better than i think i can be. I know I can do anything I want. Question is, how to best aim this. \n\nIdeas so far: I've looked into medicine, however the amount of time involved, and the debt, in the end will not be worth it. My father is a doctor and half the reason I want wealth is to help with his massive debt. \n\nA more realistic option is going back for a part time MBA, of which in a worst case scenario will allow me to fall back onto most large corporations as a marketing lead of some kind. (MBA + Film and television and advertising experience) \n\nInvesting, although unless I'm mistaken it seems far less lucrative than it was in the past 20 years. My knowledge of investing is fairly minimal, so this is a bit of an ignorant statement."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throw any ideas you have at me here. I think about how to get ahead of my situation every day, but i need some more brain power. \n\nHere is the paradigm/background;\n\nI am 24, I have a BFA with a major in film production. I worked in the film industry for 2 years after graduating and realized it was far too stressful for the reward. I have no qualms about dropping the field all together if i can find something better to replace it with. I currently work as a background digital painter for an animation company. I average lets say $1600-1700 CAD a month. I have no rent currently, no car payments, i have a student loan of $9,200, aside from that the only expense i have is a $45/month gym membership. \n\nI'm in a fairly good position considering. Now it's time to capitalize.\n\nWhile i have artistic passions, at this point I've fulfilled my dreams of being an artist, and now i want money. I am lucky in that I have an above average intelligence, and a ridiculous drive to be better than i think i can be. I know I can do anything I want. Question is, how to best aim this. \n\nIdeas so far: I've looked into medicine, however the amount of time involved, and the debt, in the end will not be worth it. My father is a doctor and half the reason I want wealth is to help with his massive debt. \n\nA more realistic option is going back for a part time MBA, of which in a worst case scenario will allow me to fall back onto most large corporations as a marketing lead of some kind. (MBA + Film and television and advertising experience) \n\nInvesting, although unless I'm mistaken it seems far less lucrative than it was in the past 20 years. My knowledge of investing is fairly minimal, so this is a bit of an ignorant statement."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Wife (Jenna) works with an adult that needs to go to a therapist a couple times a week. Jenna helps the adult open up during sessions and communicates with the therapist on how to help them with plans, opening up, etc. \n\nI trust my wife - no question about it. I'm not worried about what's happening - we are having fun between us because we both think this (situation) is something different from one another. I'm just trying to see what outside perspectives think. \n\nAt first it he was strictly work via email (therapist contacting Jenna). Then he started texting. In between the work texts he would say - is it ok to tell you that I miss you. Tells her that she's an amazing person (true). He adds little things that aren't work related. He has gotten her small gifts. He now is asking her to go out for coffee or lunch. \n\nWife thinks he just needs a friend. I think.otherwise. \n\nReddit - weigh in."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Wife (Jenna) works with an adult that needs to go to a therapist a couple times a week. Jenna helps the adult open up during sessions and communicates with the therapist on how to help them with plans, opening up, etc. \n\nI trust my wife - no question about it. I'm not worried about what's happening - we are having fun between us because we both think this (situation) is something different from one another. I'm just trying to see what outside perspectives think. \n\nAt first it he was strictly work via email (therapist contacting Jenna). Then he started texting. In between the work texts he would say - is it ok to tell you that I miss you. Tells her that she's an amazing person (true). He adds little things that aren't work related. He has gotten her small gifts. He now is asking her to go out for coffee or lunch. \n\nWife thinks he just needs a friend. I think.otherwise. \n\nReddit - weigh in."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Wife (Jenna) works with an adult that needs to go to a therapist a couple times a week. Jenna helps the adult open up during sessions and communicates with the therapist on how to help them with plans, opening up, etc. \n\nI trust my wife - no question about it. I'm not worried about what's happening - we are having fun between us because we both think this (situation) is something different from one another. I'm just trying to see what outside perspectives think. \n\nAt first it he was strictly work via email (therapist contacting Jenna). Then he started texting. In between the work texts he would say - is it ok to tell you that I miss you. Tells her that she's an amazing person (true). He adds little things that aren't work related. He has gotten her small gifts. He now is asking her to go out for coffee or lunch. \n\nWife thinks he just needs a friend. I think.otherwise. \n\nReddit - weigh in."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Wife (Jenna) works with an adult that needs to go to a therapist a couple times a week. Jenna helps the adult open up during sessions and communicates with the therapist on how to help them with plans, opening up, etc. \n\nI trust my wife - no question about it. I'm not worried about what's happening - we are having fun between us because we both think this (situation) is something different from one another. I'm just trying to see what outside perspectives think. \n\nAt first it he was strictly work via email (therapist contacting Jenna). Then he started texting. In between the work texts he would say - is it ok to tell you that I miss you. Tells her that she's an amazing person (true). He adds little things that aren't work related. He has gotten her small gifts. He now is asking her to go out for coffee or lunch. \n\nWife thinks he just needs a friend. I think.otherwise. \n\nReddit - weigh in."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A girl that I think I am falling in love with who I know has some feelings for me could end up in a relationship with me. She has told me more than she tells anyone else, even past relationships, but she has some issues that I really want to help her to get through and I don't know how to help her, these issues are part of the reason we might not get together too because shes afraid of bogging me down. \n\n*The main issues that she has are:*\n*After a long relationship she feels over sexual (not enough to cheat)\n*She feels that she can only 'feel something' for 6 months and then goes numb \n*She doesn't trust people's compliments to her, even mine\n*She interprets kind gestures as being 'a damsel in distress' (I think this is changing already with time)\n*Sometimes the only way she can feel is through extreme feeling\n*Shes worried about the summer and seeing eachother (we live an hour away and I'll likely be able to visit once a week) \n\nHer dating history isn't the best, all but maybe one of the people she has dated have been jerks and the longest relationship was verbally and emotionally abusive, I'm pretty sure she has never even gotten flowers from any of them. The thing is that she seems to think a relationship between us might be good for her but she seems to fluctuate a lot. I really want to help her become someone who realizes how special she is."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A girl that I think I am falling in love with who I know has some feelings for me could end up in a relationship with me. She has told me more than she tells anyone else, even past relationships, but she has some issues that I really want to help her to get through and I don't know how to help her, these issues are part of the reason we might not get together too because shes afraid of bogging me down. \n\n*The main issues that she has are:*\n*After a long relationship she feels over sexual (not enough to cheat)\n*She feels that she can only 'feel something' for 6 months and then goes numb \n*She doesn't trust people's compliments to her, even mine\n*She interprets kind gestures as being 'a damsel in distress' (I think this is changing already with time)\n*Sometimes the only way she can feel is through extreme feeling\n*Shes worried about the summer and seeing eachother (we live an hour away and I'll likely be able to visit once a week) \n\nHer dating history isn't the best, all but maybe one of the people she has dated have been jerks and the longest relationship was verbally and emotionally abusive, I'm pretty sure she has never even gotten flowers from any of them. The thing is that she seems to think a relationship between us might be good for her but she seems to fluctuate a lot. I really want to help her become someone who realizes how special she is."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A girl that I think I am falling in love with who I know has some feelings for me could end up in a relationship with me. She has told me more than she tells anyone else, even past relationships, but she has some issues that I really want to help her to get through and I don't know how to help her, these issues are part of the reason we might not get together too because shes afraid of bogging me down. \n\n*The main issues that she has are:*\n*After a long relationship she feels over sexual (not enough to cheat)\n*She feels that she can only 'feel something' for 6 months and then goes numb \n*She doesn't trust people's compliments to her, even mine\n*She interprets kind gestures as being 'a damsel in distress' (I think this is changing already with time)\n*Sometimes the only way she can feel is through extreme feeling\n*Shes worried about the summer and seeing eachother (we live an hour away and I'll likely be able to visit once a week) \n\nHer dating history isn't the best, all but maybe one of the people she has dated have been jerks and the longest relationship was verbally and emotionally abusive, I'm pretty sure she has never even gotten flowers from any of them. The thing is that she seems to think a relationship between us might be good for her but she seems to fluctuate a lot. I really want to help her become someone who realizes how special she is."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A girl that I think I am falling in love with who I know has some feelings for me could end up in a relationship with me. She has told me more than she tells anyone else, even past relationships, but she has some issues that I really want to help her to get through and I don't know how to help her, these issues are part of the reason we might not get together too because shes afraid of bogging me down. \n\n*The main issues that she has are:*\n*After a long relationship she feels over sexual (not enough to cheat)\n*She feels that she can only 'feel something' for 6 months and then goes numb \n*She doesn't trust people's compliments to her, even mine\n*She interprets kind gestures as being 'a damsel in distress' (I think this is changing already with time)\n*Sometimes the only way she can feel is through extreme feeling\n*Shes worried about the summer and seeing eachother (we live an hour away and I'll likely be able to visit once a week) \n\nHer dating history isn't the best, all but maybe one of the people she has dated have been jerks and the longest relationship was verbally and emotionally abusive, I'm pretty sure she has never even gotten flowers from any of them. The thing is that she seems to think a relationship between us might be good for her but she seems to fluctuate a lot. I really want to help her become someone who realizes how special she is."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first ever serious relationship. My girlfriend and I have been going through a rough patch lately. We've been dating for 2 years now and throughout the past year you could say I've gotten comfortable. I stopped doing the nice things I did when we first started dating, and I've fallen into a more routine lifestyle. We've gotten into fights over this, she says I'm different and she just wants to know that I would do things for her. So I've decided to change. I tried to do things I used to. Eg; Leaving a love note around, hang with her and her family more, holding doors open, taking her out, filling her gas. \n\nBut I seem to never be doing enough. I keep trying but it's never enough. I tried talking to my girlfriend about it and asked her what she wants me to do and what do I keep messing up on. She told me \"You're a smart guy, figure it out.\" She also told me that she shouldn't have to say anything because this should all come naturally to me, especially if I love her. I tried explaining to her that it really isn't coming naturally to me. Which made me feel terrible, because I do love her. Otherwise why would I try to be changing. I bought that Five language of love book too. \n\nIt hasn't been coming naturally so I asked questions. She got mad when I asked a question on the internet (hence this throwaway), she even got mad when I set reminders in my phone to help remember that it's our day of the month. \n\nIs it true that all this should just come naturally to me? \nI just want to fix this relationship but I'm not too sure on what to do anymore. Could any of you help me out?\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first ever serious relationship. My girlfriend and I have been going through a rough patch lately. We've been dating for 2 years now and throughout the past year you could say I've gotten comfortable. I stopped doing the nice things I did when we first started dating, and I've fallen into a more routine lifestyle. We've gotten into fights over this, she says I'm different and she just wants to know that I would do things for her. So I've decided to change. I tried to do things I used to. Eg; Leaving a love note around, hang with her and her family more, holding doors open, taking her out, filling her gas. \n\nBut I seem to never be doing enough. I keep trying but it's never enough. I tried talking to my girlfriend about it and asked her what she wants me to do and what do I keep messing up on. She told me \"You're a smart guy, figure it out.\" She also told me that she shouldn't have to say anything because this should all come naturally to me, especially if I love her. I tried explaining to her that it really isn't coming naturally to me. Which made me feel terrible, because I do love her. Otherwise why would I try to be changing. I bought that Five language of love book too. \n\nIt hasn't been coming naturally so I asked questions. She got mad when I asked a question on the internet (hence this throwaway), she even got mad when I set reminders in my phone to help remember that it's our day of the month. \n\nIs it true that all this should just come naturally to me? \nI just want to fix this relationship but I'm not too sure on what to do anymore. Could any of you help me out?\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first ever serious relationship. My girlfriend and I have been going through a rough patch lately. We've been dating for 2 years now and throughout the past year you could say I've gotten comfortable. I stopped doing the nice things I did when we first started dating, and I've fallen into a more routine lifestyle. We've gotten into fights over this, she says I'm different and she just wants to know that I would do things for her. So I've decided to change. I tried to do things I used to. Eg; Leaving a love note around, hang with her and her family more, holding doors open, taking her out, filling her gas. \n\nBut I seem to never be doing enough. I keep trying but it's never enough. I tried talking to my girlfriend about it and asked her what she wants me to do and what do I keep messing up on. She told me \"You're a smart guy, figure it out.\" She also told me that she shouldn't have to say anything because this should all come naturally to me, especially if I love her. I tried explaining to her that it really isn't coming naturally to me. Which made me feel terrible, because I do love her. Otherwise why would I try to be changing. I bought that Five language of love book too. \n\nIt hasn't been coming naturally so I asked questions. She got mad when I asked a question on the internet (hence this throwaway), she even got mad when I set reminders in my phone to help remember that it's our day of the month. \n\nIs it true that all this should just come naturally to me? \nI just want to fix this relationship but I'm not too sure on what to do anymore. Could any of you help me out?\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first ever serious relationship. My girlfriend and I have been going through a rough patch lately. We've been dating for 2 years now and throughout the past year you could say I've gotten comfortable. I stopped doing the nice things I did when we first started dating, and I've fallen into a more routine lifestyle. We've gotten into fights over this, she says I'm different and she just wants to know that I would do things for her. So I've decided to change. I tried to do things I used to. Eg; Leaving a love note around, hang with her and her family more, holding doors open, taking her out, filling her gas. \n\nBut I seem to never be doing enough. I keep trying but it's never enough. I tried talking to my girlfriend about it and asked her what she wants me to do and what do I keep messing up on. She told me \"You're a smart guy, figure it out.\" She also told me that she shouldn't have to say anything because this should all come naturally to me, especially if I love her. I tried explaining to her that it really isn't coming naturally to me. Which made me feel terrible, because I do love her. Otherwise why would I try to be changing. I bought that Five language of love book too. \n\nIt hasn't been coming naturally so I asked questions. She got mad when I asked a question on the internet (hence this throwaway), she even got mad when I set reminders in my phone to help remember that it's our day of the month. \n\nIs it true that all this should just come naturally to me? \nI just want to fix this relationship but I'm not too sure on what to do anymore. Could any of you help me out?\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, a little backstory. I moved to a new city far away from where I had lived my whole life. Like the other side of the country. Not knowing anyone was hard, especially since I worked all the time, so I didn't really have time to go out and meet people. Well, i went on a classified site, looked up a private massage provider, and went to see her.\n\nShe is amazing. She is beautiful, intellegent, sweet, really everything I have ever looked for in a woman. The only problem is that I paid her for her services on more than one occasion.\n\nLast time we got together, I pay for my massage, and after the massage, she asks if I would like to stay. Of course I said yes. We have an incredible weekend together. Incredible. She makes me feel so good.\n\nThe last day we spent together, she said that she is falling for me. That she is rapidly starting to love me and that she wants to be with me.\n\nAnd I I would be ok with that, in fact I feel that I am falling for her, too. The only problem is that I am not her only client. She has said that she sees 2-4 clients a day. And I don't know what happens during those other sessions, but I know what happened after mine. \n\nSo what should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, a little backstory. I moved to a new city far away from where I had lived my whole life. Like the other side of the country. Not knowing anyone was hard, especially since I worked all the time, so I didn't really have time to go out and meet people. Well, i went on a classified site, looked up a private massage provider, and went to see her.\n\nShe is amazing. She is beautiful, intellegent, sweet, really everything I have ever looked for in a woman. The only problem is that I paid her for her services on more than one occasion.\n\nLast time we got together, I pay for my massage, and after the massage, she asks if I would like to stay. Of course I said yes. We have an incredible weekend together. Incredible. She makes me feel so good.\n\nThe last day we spent together, she said that she is falling for me. That she is rapidly starting to love me and that she wants to be with me.\n\nAnd I I would be ok with that, in fact I feel that I am falling for her, too. The only problem is that I am not her only client. She has said that she sees 2-4 clients a day. And I don't know what happens during those other sessions, but I know what happened after mine. \n\nSo what should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, a little backstory. I moved to a new city far away from where I had lived my whole life. Like the other side of the country. Not knowing anyone was hard, especially since I worked all the time, so I didn't really have time to go out and meet people. Well, i went on a classified site, looked up a private massage provider, and went to see her.\n\nShe is amazing. She is beautiful, intellegent, sweet, really everything I have ever looked for in a woman. The only problem is that I paid her for her services on more than one occasion.\n\nLast time we got together, I pay for my massage, and after the massage, she asks if I would like to stay. Of course I said yes. We have an incredible weekend together. Incredible. She makes me feel so good.\n\nThe last day we spent together, she said that she is falling for me. That she is rapidly starting to love me and that she wants to be with me.\n\nAnd I I would be ok with that, in fact I feel that I am falling for her, too. The only problem is that I am not her only client. She has said that she sees 2-4 clients a day. And I don't know what happens during those other sessions, but I know what happened after mine. \n\nSo what should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok, a little backstory. I moved to a new city far away from where I had lived my whole life. Like the other side of the country. Not knowing anyone was hard, especially since I worked all the time, so I didn't really have time to go out and meet people. Well, i went on a classified site, looked up a private massage provider, and went to see her.\n\nShe is amazing. She is beautiful, intellegent, sweet, really everything I have ever looked for in a woman. The only problem is that I paid her for her services on more than one occasion.\n\nLast time we got together, I pay for my massage, and after the massage, she asks if I would like to stay. Of course I said yes. We have an incredible weekend together. Incredible. She makes me feel so good.\n\nThe last day we spent together, she said that she is falling for me. That she is rapidly starting to love me and that she wants to be with me.\n\nAnd I I would be ok with that, in fact I feel that I am falling for her, too. The only problem is that I am not her only client. She has said that she sees 2-4 clients a day. And I don't know what happens during those other sessions, but I know what happened after mine. \n\nSo what should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend has been getting very close to one of my male friends. They started talking about two months ago and claim to be nothing more than friends. She talks to him every day (snapchat and/or in person usually with another friend around). They leave flirty/clever comments on eachother's instagram pictures, just like her and I do. We will all be hanging out together and I catch them glaring at eachother. I'm not really sure if there is any attraction between them. \n\nAm I overthinking this or just being insecure? I haven't brought this up to her because I don't want to come off as insecure. Thank you for responses in advance!"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend has been getting very close to one of my male friends. They started talking about two months ago and claim to be nothing more than friends. She talks to him every day (snapchat and/or in person usually with another friend around). They leave flirty/clever comments on eachother's instagram pictures, just like her and I do. We will all be hanging out together and I catch them glaring at eachother. I'm not really sure if there is any attraction between them. \n\nAm I overthinking this or just being insecure? I haven't brought this up to her because I don't want to come off as insecure. Thank you for responses in advance!"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend has been getting very close to one of my male friends. They started talking about two months ago and claim to be nothing more than friends. She talks to him every day (snapchat and/or in person usually with another friend around). They leave flirty/clever comments on eachother's instagram pictures, just like her and I do. We will all be hanging out together and I catch them glaring at eachother. I'm not really sure if there is any attraction between them. \n\nAm I overthinking this or just being insecure? I haven't brought this up to her because I don't want to come off as insecure. Thank you for responses in advance!"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend has been getting very close to one of my male friends. They started talking about two months ago and claim to be nothing more than friends. She talks to him every day (snapchat and/or in person usually with another friend around). They leave flirty/clever comments on eachother's instagram pictures, just like her and I do. We will all be hanging out together and I catch them glaring at eachother. I'm not really sure if there is any attraction between them. \n\nAm I overthinking this or just being insecure? I haven't brought this up to her because I don't want to come off as insecure. Thank you for responses in advance!"
} |
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