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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll shorten it down, but when I was 14, I was approached by a girl my age at my local shopping centre, asking me \"why I looked so sad\". I guess I was just in awe that anybody cared, that anybody actually noticed.\n\nAt the time I had just lost a girlfriend to cheating (you remember what it's like to be a kid Reddit? Everything seemed so much worse) and she just kind of came in and picked me up. It's her eyes and smile I'll never forget.\n\nThroughout the six months I'd gotten to know her, she gave me something I still cherish dearly, on top of that, she gave me guidance and hope. It was hanging out late at night, when she couldn't handle her life, and just looking up at the stars at the local bridge, asking me questions I was too dumb to answer, or too inexperienced.\n\nOne day I received a message saying she was sorry for not being strong enough, and that she was sorry, and that she loved me. I panicked, and ran to her house only to realise I was just simply to late. She had bled out by the time I got there, and the worst part of it all was, no one was even home to notice.\n\nHer dad drank heavily, and abused her; her brother was a judgemental prick, laying blame on her all day, everyday; and her mother was simply oblivious to any wrong doing in their house. All she wanted was someone to love her, and that was her weakness.\n\ntwo weeks later, they buried her in an undisclosed location, packed up and moved away, as if it never happened.\n\nI guess if I had the chance to say one last thing that it would be I loved her undoubtedly, and that I wish I was stronger, smarter and that I was there for her when she needed me the most; and that I wish I could've protected her from it all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll shorten it down, but when I was 14, I was approached by a girl my age at my local shopping centre, asking me \"why I looked so sad\". I guess I was just in awe that anybody cared, that anybody actually noticed.\n\nAt the time I had just lost a girlfriend to cheating (you remember what it's like to be a kid Reddit? Everything seemed so much worse) and she just kind of came in and picked me up. It's her eyes and smile I'll never forget.\n\nThroughout the six months I'd gotten to know her, she gave me something I still cherish dearly, on top of that, she gave me guidance and hope. It was hanging out late at night, when she couldn't handle her life, and just looking up at the stars at the local bridge, asking me questions I was too dumb to answer, or too inexperienced.\n\nOne day I received a message saying she was sorry for not being strong enough, and that she was sorry, and that she loved me. I panicked, and ran to her house only to realise I was just simply to late. She had bled out by the time I got there, and the worst part of it all was, no one was even home to notice.\n\nHer dad drank heavily, and abused her; her brother was a judgemental prick, laying blame on her all day, everyday; and her mother was simply oblivious to any wrong doing in their house. All she wanted was someone to love her, and that was her weakness.\n\ntwo weeks later, they buried her in an undisclosed location, packed up and moved away, as if it never happened.\n\nI guess if I had the chance to say one last thing that it would be I loved her undoubtedly, and that I wish I was stronger, smarter and that I was there for her when she needed me the most; and that I wish I could've protected her from it all."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm weak, absolutely pathetic when it comes to my ex. He was the closest person to me in my life, after the breakup we remained friends. I struggle, get emotional and all that stuff, he's totally fine of course. I don't let my emotions affect or even show themselves in our conversations. It hurts so much being treated like an acquaintance sometimes. I don't know what to do. Sometimes he makes me feel so important to him, he'll tell me how important I am, other times he's ignoring me and just disappears for awhile. I buy into it always, then feel like shit when he deserts me. Its a neverending cycle. Help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm weak, absolutely pathetic when it comes to my ex. He was the closest person to me in my life, after the breakup we remained friends. I struggle, get emotional and all that stuff, he's totally fine of course. I don't let my emotions affect or even show themselves in our conversations. It hurts so much being treated like an acquaintance sometimes. I don't know what to do. Sometimes he makes me feel so important to him, he'll tell me how important I am, other times he's ignoring me and just disappears for awhile. I buy into it always, then feel like shit when he deserts me. Its a neverending cycle. Help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm weak, absolutely pathetic when it comes to my ex. He was the closest person to me in my life, after the breakup we remained friends. I struggle, get emotional and all that stuff, he's totally fine of course. I don't let my emotions affect or even show themselves in our conversations. It hurts so much being treated like an acquaintance sometimes. I don't know what to do. Sometimes he makes me feel so important to him, he'll tell me how important I am, other times he's ignoring me and just disappears for awhile. I buy into it always, then feel like shit when he deserts me. Its a neverending cycle. Help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm weak, absolutely pathetic when it comes to my ex. He was the closest person to me in my life, after the breakup we remained friends. I struggle, get emotional and all that stuff, he's totally fine of course. I don't let my emotions affect or even show themselves in our conversations. It hurts so much being treated like an acquaintance sometimes. I don't know what to do. Sometimes he makes me feel so important to him, he'll tell me how important I am, other times he's ignoring me and just disappears for awhile. I buy into it always, then feel like shit when he deserts me. Its a neverending cycle. Help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A month ago or so my girlfriend told me how she was scared about going to college and how it would effect our relationship.\n\nAt first I thought that she thought I would become distant to her or something, but I promised to her I would never become distant and I would be there for her as much as I possibly could.\n\nAlthough, the other night, she admitted to me that she's concerned that she might become distant and that she's not sure how it's going to effect her being in a new environment, but I don't know what I could say or anything I could do because she told me that the last thing she'd want to do is hurt me, but if she fell in love with someone else I'd be heartbroken.\n\nAny advice on something I could say to her or even do for her to just calm her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A month ago or so my girlfriend told me how she was scared about going to college and how it would effect our relationship.\n\nAt first I thought that she thought I would become distant to her or something, but I promised to her I would never become distant and I would be there for her as much as I possibly could.\n\nAlthough, the other night, she admitted to me that she's concerned that she might become distant and that she's not sure how it's going to effect her being in a new environment, but I don't know what I could say or anything I could do because she told me that the last thing she'd want to do is hurt me, but if she fell in love with someone else I'd be heartbroken.\n\nAny advice on something I could say to her or even do for her to just calm her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A month ago or so my girlfriend told me how she was scared about going to college and how it would effect our relationship.\n\nAt first I thought that she thought I would become distant to her or something, but I promised to her I would never become distant and I would be there for her as much as I possibly could.\n\nAlthough, the other night, she admitted to me that she's concerned that she might become distant and that she's not sure how it's going to effect her being in a new environment, but I don't know what I could say or anything I could do because she told me that the last thing she'd want to do is hurt me, but if she fell in love with someone else I'd be heartbroken.\n\nAny advice on something I could say to her or even do for her to just calm her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A month ago or so my girlfriend told me how she was scared about going to college and how it would effect our relationship.\n\nAt first I thought that she thought I would become distant to her or something, but I promised to her I would never become distant and I would be there for her as much as I possibly could.\n\nAlthough, the other night, she admitted to me that she's concerned that she might become distant and that she's not sure how it's going to effect her being in a new environment, but I don't know what I could say or anything I could do because she told me that the last thing she'd want to do is hurt me, but if she fell in love with someone else I'd be heartbroken.\n\nAny advice on something I could say to her or even do for her to just calm her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For our own differences about, cleaning around the house, remembering chores without being reminded constantly, how she talks to me when we argue about things little or small, lack of sex because of her own problems (birthcontrol in her arm gives her 2 1/2 week long periods); She wants a break.\n\nTerms of this breakup are: \n\nI move out in 30 days.\n\nShe wants me to live close by instead of moving back home 600 miles away. \n\nShe would like to stay close friends until she is ready for a relationship with me.\n\nShe would think its great for me to come over and take care of the house still (yard work, walk the dog, etc) \n\nShe said just because Im moving out doesnt mean its the end of the relationship and there is a definite possibility of us getting back together, she just doesnt know when that could be. A month, a year, or more.\n\nHer view: She wants to live on her own and know she can live on her own.she wants to be happy on her own and feel more like herself.\n\nMine: We do things she likes all the time, Ive shown her I am willing to step up the chores and explore options for the rest. I told her I dont care that she calls me things when shes mad, thats why its called being mad, etc.\n\nShe has her own space without me every day when I go to sleep at 10pm and she stays up til 2-3-4am. I work, she goes to school. \n\nWe spend plenty of time apart, but obviously we could do more to never see each other?\n\nEDIT: In the last 2 weeks Ive done everything she has asked, but still she wont accept a reconcile, after asking her if everything was good, she told me things were great but I should still move out.\n\nI feel like shes either been with someone else or wants me to leave so she can be."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For our own differences about, cleaning around the house, remembering chores without being reminded constantly, how she talks to me when we argue about things little or small, lack of sex because of her own problems (birthcontrol in her arm gives her 2 1/2 week long periods); She wants a break.\n\nTerms of this breakup are: \n\nI move out in 30 days.\n\nShe wants me to live close by instead of moving back home 600 miles away. \n\nShe would like to stay close friends until she is ready for a relationship with me.\n\nShe would think its great for me to come over and take care of the house still (yard work, walk the dog, etc) \n\nShe said just because Im moving out doesnt mean its the end of the relationship and there is a definite possibility of us getting back together, she just doesnt know when that could be. A month, a year, or more.\n\nHer view: She wants to live on her own and know she can live on her own.she wants to be happy on her own and feel more like herself.\n\nMine: We do things she likes all the time, Ive shown her I am willing to step up the chores and explore options for the rest. I told her I dont care that she calls me things when shes mad, thats why its called being mad, etc.\n\nShe has her own space without me every day when I go to sleep at 10pm and she stays up til 2-3-4am. I work, she goes to school. \n\nWe spend plenty of time apart, but obviously we could do more to never see each other?\n\nEDIT: In the last 2 weeks Ive done everything she has asked, but still she wont accept a reconcile, after asking her if everything was good, she told me things were great but I should still move out.\n\nI feel like shes either been with someone else or wants me to leave so she can be."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For our own differences about, cleaning around the house, remembering chores without being reminded constantly, how she talks to me when we argue about things little or small, lack of sex because of her own problems (birthcontrol in her arm gives her 2 1/2 week long periods); She wants a break.\n\nTerms of this breakup are: \n\nI move out in 30 days.\n\nShe wants me to live close by instead of moving back home 600 miles away. \n\nShe would like to stay close friends until she is ready for a relationship with me.\n\nShe would think its great for me to come over and take care of the house still (yard work, walk the dog, etc) \n\nShe said just because Im moving out doesnt mean its the end of the relationship and there is a definite possibility of us getting back together, she just doesnt know when that could be. A month, a year, or more.\n\nHer view: She wants to live on her own and know she can live on her own.she wants to be happy on her own and feel more like herself.\n\nMine: We do things she likes all the time, Ive shown her I am willing to step up the chores and explore options for the rest. I told her I dont care that she calls me things when shes mad, thats why its called being mad, etc.\n\nShe has her own space without me every day when I go to sleep at 10pm and she stays up til 2-3-4am. I work, she goes to school. \n\nWe spend plenty of time apart, but obviously we could do more to never see each other?\n\nEDIT: In the last 2 weeks Ive done everything she has asked, but still she wont accept a reconcile, after asking her if everything was good, she told me things were great but I should still move out.\n\nI feel like shes either been with someone else or wants me to leave so she can be."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For our own differences about, cleaning around the house, remembering chores without being reminded constantly, how she talks to me when we argue about things little or small, lack of sex because of her own problems (birthcontrol in her arm gives her 2 1/2 week long periods); She wants a break.\n\nTerms of this breakup are: \n\nI move out in 30 days.\n\nShe wants me to live close by instead of moving back home 600 miles away. \n\nShe would like to stay close friends until she is ready for a relationship with me.\n\nShe would think its great for me to come over and take care of the house still (yard work, walk the dog, etc) \n\nShe said just because Im moving out doesnt mean its the end of the relationship and there is a definite possibility of us getting back together, she just doesnt know when that could be. A month, a year, or more.\n\nHer view: She wants to live on her own and know she can live on her own.she wants to be happy on her own and feel more like herself.\n\nMine: We do things she likes all the time, Ive shown her I am willing to step up the chores and explore options for the rest. I told her I dont care that she calls me things when shes mad, thats why its called being mad, etc.\n\nShe has her own space without me every day when I go to sleep at 10pm and she stays up til 2-3-4am. I work, she goes to school. \n\nWe spend plenty of time apart, but obviously we could do more to never see each other?\n\nEDIT: In the last 2 weeks Ive done everything she has asked, but still she wont accept a reconcile, after asking her if everything was good, she told me things were great but I should still move out.\n\nI feel like shes either been with someone else or wants me to leave so she can be."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The person that I'm trying to get advice about is a friend I've known since middle school and I have always been with him since. The one thing my friend is notorious for doing is acting like a robot. Not in a weird autonomous movement thing, but that he honestly doesn't care about things. When someone asks him about an opinion he just shrugs because it's not something he agrees or disagrees with. He doesn't do anything special or different. He wears similar clothes everyday with the same black jacket and black shoes and jeans. He's an avid redditor as well but I doubt he subscribes to this subreddit. We've spent a lot of time together because of things like band and advanced placement classes. My mom knows his family well because my mom just happens to know most of my friends family and told me to get something for my friend for christmas. Yet this is one of the most challenging things I have done because for as long as I have known my friend I do not have a clue on what to get him for christmas. I even gave up and asked him what he wanted for christmas and told him it couldn't be money. He said he didn't really celebrate Christmas (which is something I knew) but I had asked him to think of it as a gift and if he wanted anything because he doesn't want or need anything. I started feeling bad because he does deserve something this Christmas because he has a weird tendency to start openly helping people whenever they become really emotional. It is a rare occurrence that I haven't truly experienced myself. I just want to get a moment like that for him to open up and tell me things that he does have an opinion for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The person that I'm trying to get advice about is a friend I've known since middle school and I have always been with him since. The one thing my friend is notorious for doing is acting like a robot. Not in a weird autonomous movement thing, but that he honestly doesn't care about things. When someone asks him about an opinion he just shrugs because it's not something he agrees or disagrees with. He doesn't do anything special or different. He wears similar clothes everyday with the same black jacket and black shoes and jeans. He's an avid redditor as well but I doubt he subscribes to this subreddit. We've spent a lot of time together because of things like band and advanced placement classes. My mom knows his family well because my mom just happens to know most of my friends family and told me to get something for my friend for christmas. Yet this is one of the most challenging things I have done because for as long as I have known my friend I do not have a clue on what to get him for christmas. I even gave up and asked him what he wanted for christmas and told him it couldn't be money. He said he didn't really celebrate Christmas (which is something I knew) but I had asked him to think of it as a gift and if he wanted anything because he doesn't want or need anything. I started feeling bad because he does deserve something this Christmas because he has a weird tendency to start openly helping people whenever they become really emotional. It is a rare occurrence that I haven't truly experienced myself. I just want to get a moment like that for him to open up and tell me things that he does have an opinion for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The person that I'm trying to get advice about is a friend I've known since middle school and I have always been with him since. The one thing my friend is notorious for doing is acting like a robot. Not in a weird autonomous movement thing, but that he honestly doesn't care about things. When someone asks him about an opinion he just shrugs because it's not something he agrees or disagrees with. He doesn't do anything special or different. He wears similar clothes everyday with the same black jacket and black shoes and jeans. He's an avid redditor as well but I doubt he subscribes to this subreddit. We've spent a lot of time together because of things like band and advanced placement classes. My mom knows his family well because my mom just happens to know most of my friends family and told me to get something for my friend for christmas. Yet this is one of the most challenging things I have done because for as long as I have known my friend I do not have a clue on what to get him for christmas. I even gave up and asked him what he wanted for christmas and told him it couldn't be money. He said he didn't really celebrate Christmas (which is something I knew) but I had asked him to think of it as a gift and if he wanted anything because he doesn't want or need anything. I started feeling bad because he does deserve something this Christmas because he has a weird tendency to start openly helping people whenever they become really emotional. It is a rare occurrence that I haven't truly experienced myself. I just want to get a moment like that for him to open up and tell me things that he does have an opinion for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The person that I'm trying to get advice about is a friend I've known since middle school and I have always been with him since. The one thing my friend is notorious for doing is acting like a robot. Not in a weird autonomous movement thing, but that he honestly doesn't care about things. When someone asks him about an opinion he just shrugs because it's not something he agrees or disagrees with. He doesn't do anything special or different. He wears similar clothes everyday with the same black jacket and black shoes and jeans. He's an avid redditor as well but I doubt he subscribes to this subreddit. We've spent a lot of time together because of things like band and advanced placement classes. My mom knows his family well because my mom just happens to know most of my friends family and told me to get something for my friend for christmas. Yet this is one of the most challenging things I have done because for as long as I have known my friend I do not have a clue on what to get him for christmas. I even gave up and asked him what he wanted for christmas and told him it couldn't be money. He said he didn't really celebrate Christmas (which is something I knew) but I had asked him to think of it as a gift and if he wanted anything because he doesn't want or need anything. I started feeling bad because he does deserve something this Christmas because he has a weird tendency to start openly helping people whenever they become really emotional. It is a rare occurrence that I haven't truly experienced myself. I just want to get a moment like that for him to open up and tell me things that he does have an opinion for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this just happened last night. My (23f) boyfriend (26m) have been together almost 1 year. We used to fight alot because of my insecurities but not anymore. Everything's been really great for the most part. We have so much fun together and can just be our silly selves. We love each other. However, sometimes he gets really angry. I think he has slight anger issues and can be very negative about life sometimes. Don't get me wrong I can be that way too but I'm a bit more positive\n\nLast night he got annoyed at me because he says I was being moody. What I remember is i got mad because we were doing something together and he left to go on his phone. When I expressed that I was upset, he called me a cunt and told me to stfu. Kinda seemed like he just got really angry out of nowhere. This behavior doesnt happen very often but i felt very disrespected and hurt by what he said. I stooped down to his level and asked him why he was being a dick and told him to stfu.\n\nI tried to ask him what it was exactly that I did to cause him to go off like that but he literally would not talk to me no matter how hard i tried to get a word out of him. He just ignored me and played games on his phone. I thought this was extremely disrespectful but didn't leave his house because I was supposed to sleep over. I kept trying to get his attention so he literally got up and sat in his closet. After that I left him alone and kept myself busy on my phone and then fell asleep.\n\nCut to morning after, he's still sleeping and I'm not sure what to do this morning. I want to completely ignore him and hurt him like he hurt me, but another part of me wants to amend things. Help!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this just happened last night. My (23f) boyfriend (26m) have been together almost 1 year. We used to fight alot because of my insecurities but not anymore. Everything's been really great for the most part. We have so much fun together and can just be our silly selves. We love each other. However, sometimes he gets really angry. I think he has slight anger issues and can be very negative about life sometimes. Don't get me wrong I can be that way too but I'm a bit more positive\n\nLast night he got annoyed at me because he says I was being moody. What I remember is i got mad because we were doing something together and he left to go on his phone. When I expressed that I was upset, he called me a cunt and told me to stfu. Kinda seemed like he just got really angry out of nowhere. This behavior doesnt happen very often but i felt very disrespected and hurt by what he said. I stooped down to his level and asked him why he was being a dick and told him to stfu.\n\nI tried to ask him what it was exactly that I did to cause him to go off like that but he literally would not talk to me no matter how hard i tried to get a word out of him. He just ignored me and played games on his phone. I thought this was extremely disrespectful but didn't leave his house because I was supposed to sleep over. I kept trying to get his attention so he literally got up and sat in his closet. After that I left him alone and kept myself busy on my phone and then fell asleep.\n\nCut to morning after, he's still sleeping and I'm not sure what to do this morning. I want to completely ignore him and hurt him like he hurt me, but another part of me wants to amend things. Help!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this just happened last night. My (23f) boyfriend (26m) have been together almost 1 year. We used to fight alot because of my insecurities but not anymore. Everything's been really great for the most part. We have so much fun together and can just be our silly selves. We love each other. However, sometimes he gets really angry. I think he has slight anger issues and can be very negative about life sometimes. Don't get me wrong I can be that way too but I'm a bit more positive\n\nLast night he got annoyed at me because he says I was being moody. What I remember is i got mad because we were doing something together and he left to go on his phone. When I expressed that I was upset, he called me a cunt and told me to stfu. Kinda seemed like he just got really angry out of nowhere. This behavior doesnt happen very often but i felt very disrespected and hurt by what he said. I stooped down to his level and asked him why he was being a dick and told him to stfu.\n\nI tried to ask him what it was exactly that I did to cause him to go off like that but he literally would not talk to me no matter how hard i tried to get a word out of him. He just ignored me and played games on his phone. I thought this was extremely disrespectful but didn't leave his house because I was supposed to sleep over. I kept trying to get his attention so he literally got up and sat in his closet. After that I left him alone and kept myself busy on my phone and then fell asleep.\n\nCut to morning after, he's still sleeping and I'm not sure what to do this morning. I want to completely ignore him and hurt him like he hurt me, but another part of me wants to amend things. Help!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this just happened last night. My (23f) boyfriend (26m) have been together almost 1 year. We used to fight alot because of my insecurities but not anymore. Everything's been really great for the most part. We have so much fun together and can just be our silly selves. We love each other. However, sometimes he gets really angry. I think he has slight anger issues and can be very negative about life sometimes. Don't get me wrong I can be that way too but I'm a bit more positive\n\nLast night he got annoyed at me because he says I was being moody. What I remember is i got mad because we were doing something together and he left to go on his phone. When I expressed that I was upset, he called me a cunt and told me to stfu. Kinda seemed like he just got really angry out of nowhere. This behavior doesnt happen very often but i felt very disrespected and hurt by what he said. I stooped down to his level and asked him why he was being a dick and told him to stfu.\n\nI tried to ask him what it was exactly that I did to cause him to go off like that but he literally would not talk to me no matter how hard i tried to get a word out of him. He just ignored me and played games on his phone. I thought this was extremely disrespectful but didn't leave his house because I was supposed to sleep over. I kept trying to get his attention so he literally got up and sat in his closet. After that I left him alone and kept myself busy on my phone and then fell asleep.\n\nCut to morning after, he's still sleeping and I'm not sure what to do this morning. I want to completely ignore him and hurt him like he hurt me, but another part of me wants to amend things. Help!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well I tried to check my gmail and my password was changed(weird already) So I change it to something different using a different email and 2 minutes after that it was changed again, So I panicked and deleted my gmail, hotmail, and fb. \n\nI was wondering how bad I screwed up? I'm running scans with MSE and Malwarebytes, I think they may come up clean. Problem is that now I have no way of getting emails from any place I've registered in the past 7 years, including Steam where I have about $100 worth of games.\n\nWhat can I do if Steam sends me a confirmation code to my deleted email when it gives me the \"Sign-in from different computer\" message?\n\nedit"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well I tried to check my gmail and my password was changed(weird already) So I change it to something different using a different email and 2 minutes after that it was changed again, So I panicked and deleted my gmail, hotmail, and fb. \n\nI was wondering how bad I screwed up? I'm running scans with MSE and Malwarebytes, I think they may come up clean. Problem is that now I have no way of getting emails from any place I've registered in the past 7 years, including Steam where I have about $100 worth of games.\n\nWhat can I do if Steam sends me a confirmation code to my deleted email when it gives me the \"Sign-in from different computer\" message?\n\nedit"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well I tried to check my gmail and my password was changed(weird already) So I change it to something different using a different email and 2 minutes after that it was changed again, So I panicked and deleted my gmail, hotmail, and fb. \n\nI was wondering how bad I screwed up? I'm running scans with MSE and Malwarebytes, I think they may come up clean. Problem is that now I have no way of getting emails from any place I've registered in the past 7 years, including Steam where I have about $100 worth of games.\n\nWhat can I do if Steam sends me a confirmation code to my deleted email when it gives me the \"Sign-in from different computer\" message?\n\nedit"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well I tried to check my gmail and my password was changed(weird already) So I change it to something different using a different email and 2 minutes after that it was changed again, So I panicked and deleted my gmail, hotmail, and fb. \n\nI was wondering how bad I screwed up? I'm running scans with MSE and Malwarebytes, I think they may come up clean. Problem is that now I have no way of getting emails from any place I've registered in the past 7 years, including Steam where I have about $100 worth of games.\n\nWhat can I do if Steam sends me a confirmation code to my deleted email when it gives me the \"Sign-in from different computer\" message?\n\nedit"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I apologize in advance for any unnecessary exposition, just want to give a clear picture of the situation.\n\nI have a year old male cat, neutered, who has been living with me at my parents house this summer. He is very sweet and very friendly. He's never made an aggressive move towards another cat, or any of our landlord's dogs when I was still out at school. Whenever another cat comes towards him, he either simply sits or lies down, and waits for them to approach.\n\nMy brother just rescued a Brittany from the New England Brittany Rescue. I met her this past weekend. She's a year and a half, and also very sweet and gentle. She still has poor leash manners. On leash, she will bark at passing dogs if you don't grab her attention elsewhere. However, I brought her to the dog park myself, and she was social and playful with everything from the little Bichon to the Newfie. She has had interactions with cats before. She occasionally has barked, but more often, just ignores it.\n\nNext weekend, they will meet at my parents house, and I will not be here to witness it, so of course I'm trying to prepare my cat, and those that will be here, to make the introduction a good one. I brought the towel that the cat always sleeps on and brought it to my brother's place. Now it resides in the dog's crate where she sleeps next to it every night.\n\nThe only recommendation I gave to my brother was to make sure the dog does not corner the cat, or she will end up getting bitch slapped. Do other dual dog & cat owners have good suggestions on make the introduction as pleasant as possible?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I apologize in advance for any unnecessary exposition, just want to give a clear picture of the situation.\n\nI have a year old male cat, neutered, who has been living with me at my parents house this summer. He is very sweet and very friendly. He's never made an aggressive move towards another cat, or any of our landlord's dogs when I was still out at school. Whenever another cat comes towards him, he either simply sits or lies down, and waits for them to approach.\n\nMy brother just rescued a Brittany from the New England Brittany Rescue. I met her this past weekend. She's a year and a half, and also very sweet and gentle. She still has poor leash manners. On leash, she will bark at passing dogs if you don't grab her attention elsewhere. However, I brought her to the dog park myself, and she was social and playful with everything from the little Bichon to the Newfie. She has had interactions with cats before. She occasionally has barked, but more often, just ignores it.\n\nNext weekend, they will meet at my parents house, and I will not be here to witness it, so of course I'm trying to prepare my cat, and those that will be here, to make the introduction a good one. I brought the towel that the cat always sleeps on and brought it to my brother's place. Now it resides in the dog's crate where she sleeps next to it every night.\n\nThe only recommendation I gave to my brother was to make sure the dog does not corner the cat, or she will end up getting bitch slapped. Do other dual dog & cat owners have good suggestions on make the introduction as pleasant as possible?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I apologize in advance for any unnecessary exposition, just want to give a clear picture of the situation.\n\nI have a year old male cat, neutered, who has been living with me at my parents house this summer. He is very sweet and very friendly. He's never made an aggressive move towards another cat, or any of our landlord's dogs when I was still out at school. Whenever another cat comes towards him, he either simply sits or lies down, and waits for them to approach.\n\nMy brother just rescued a Brittany from the New England Brittany Rescue. I met her this past weekend. She's a year and a half, and also very sweet and gentle. She still has poor leash manners. On leash, she will bark at passing dogs if you don't grab her attention elsewhere. However, I brought her to the dog park myself, and she was social and playful with everything from the little Bichon to the Newfie. She has had interactions with cats before. She occasionally has barked, but more often, just ignores it.\n\nNext weekend, they will meet at my parents house, and I will not be here to witness it, so of course I'm trying to prepare my cat, and those that will be here, to make the introduction a good one. I brought the towel that the cat always sleeps on and brought it to my brother's place. Now it resides in the dog's crate where she sleeps next to it every night.\n\nThe only recommendation I gave to my brother was to make sure the dog does not corner the cat, or she will end up getting bitch slapped. Do other dual dog & cat owners have good suggestions on make the introduction as pleasant as possible?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I apologize in advance for any unnecessary exposition, just want to give a clear picture of the situation.\n\nI have a year old male cat, neutered, who has been living with me at my parents house this summer. He is very sweet and very friendly. He's never made an aggressive move towards another cat, or any of our landlord's dogs when I was still out at school. Whenever another cat comes towards him, he either simply sits or lies down, and waits for them to approach.\n\nMy brother just rescued a Brittany from the New England Brittany Rescue. I met her this past weekend. She's a year and a half, and also very sweet and gentle. She still has poor leash manners. On leash, she will bark at passing dogs if you don't grab her attention elsewhere. However, I brought her to the dog park myself, and she was social and playful with everything from the little Bichon to the Newfie. She has had interactions with cats before. She occasionally has barked, but more often, just ignores it.\n\nNext weekend, they will meet at my parents house, and I will not be here to witness it, so of course I'm trying to prepare my cat, and those that will be here, to make the introduction a good one. I brought the towel that the cat always sleeps on and brought it to my brother's place. Now it resides in the dog's crate where she sleeps next to it every night.\n\nThe only recommendation I gave to my brother was to make sure the dog does not corner the cat, or she will end up getting bitch slapped. Do other dual dog & cat owners have good suggestions on make the introduction as pleasant as possible?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know I'm young but college is quickly approaching which means it's getting time to choose what I want to do with my life. My boyfriend isn't going to college and plans to live his life free spirited and unplanned (where the wind takes him so to speak) and I'm considering a field in the sciences. \nI always had medical school or a masters degree open as an option but I know it would be extremely difficult to continue the relationship if I went that route and I don't think I want to give it up for a career. Some of you are probably reading this thinking about what a silly teenager I am for even considering this so let me give some background:\n\nWe met my junior (his senior) year of high school and became best friends very quickly. After a few weeks we started dating. After 2 months we broke up for reasons that would take me paragraphs to explain but we pretty much cut ties for about a year. \nI was in love with him so I was crushed over this even after only 2 months. Even though after a year of barely any communication, a series of events led us back together. Everything in the universe pointed toward us never interacting again but here we are more in love than I even thought possible. \nIt's been almost 3 months since we've been together again and the feelings I had for him before never went away and are only growing stronger as time goes on. \nI could seriously see myself spending the rest of my life with him, so I ask my fellow redditors: would it be insane to take a less time consuming career (that I still like) so that I can be with him and travel as we want to and live a free minimalistic life?\n\nIt's risky and most people (my parents and societal standards) would call me crazy, but if he makes me so happy why would I give that up for something that might make me happy in the far far future? I've grown up with a set of expectations and have a hard time finding outside perspectives on this choice which is why I'm posting here. I'm not asking for anyone to make this decision for me I just want opinions from people who have experienced either side of this scenario!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know I'm young but college is quickly approaching which means it's getting time to choose what I want to do with my life. My boyfriend isn't going to college and plans to live his life free spirited and unplanned (where the wind takes him so to speak) and I'm considering a field in the sciences. \nI always had medical school or a masters degree open as an option but I know it would be extremely difficult to continue the relationship if I went that route and I don't think I want to give it up for a career. Some of you are probably reading this thinking about what a silly teenager I am for even considering this so let me give some background:\n\nWe met my junior (his senior) year of high school and became best friends very quickly. After a few weeks we started dating. After 2 months we broke up for reasons that would take me paragraphs to explain but we pretty much cut ties for about a year. \nI was in love with him so I was crushed over this even after only 2 months. Even though after a year of barely any communication, a series of events led us back together. Everything in the universe pointed toward us never interacting again but here we are more in love than I even thought possible. \nIt's been almost 3 months since we've been together again and the feelings I had for him before never went away and are only growing stronger as time goes on. \nI could seriously see myself spending the rest of my life with him, so I ask my fellow redditors: would it be insane to take a less time consuming career (that I still like) so that I can be with him and travel as we want to and live a free minimalistic life?\n\nIt's risky and most people (my parents and societal standards) would call me crazy, but if he makes me so happy why would I give that up for something that might make me happy in the far far future? I've grown up with a set of expectations and have a hard time finding outside perspectives on this choice which is why I'm posting here. I'm not asking for anyone to make this decision for me I just want opinions from people who have experienced either side of this scenario!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know I'm young but college is quickly approaching which means it's getting time to choose what I want to do with my life. My boyfriend isn't going to college and plans to live his life free spirited and unplanned (where the wind takes him so to speak) and I'm considering a field in the sciences. \nI always had medical school or a masters degree open as an option but I know it would be extremely difficult to continue the relationship if I went that route and I don't think I want to give it up for a career. Some of you are probably reading this thinking about what a silly teenager I am for even considering this so let me give some background:\n\nWe met my junior (his senior) year of high school and became best friends very quickly. After a few weeks we started dating. After 2 months we broke up for reasons that would take me paragraphs to explain but we pretty much cut ties for about a year. \nI was in love with him so I was crushed over this even after only 2 months. Even though after a year of barely any communication, a series of events led us back together. Everything in the universe pointed toward us never interacting again but here we are more in love than I even thought possible. \nIt's been almost 3 months since we've been together again and the feelings I had for him before never went away and are only growing stronger as time goes on. \nI could seriously see myself spending the rest of my life with him, so I ask my fellow redditors: would it be insane to take a less time consuming career (that I still like) so that I can be with him and travel as we want to and live a free minimalistic life?\n\nIt's risky and most people (my parents and societal standards) would call me crazy, but if he makes me so happy why would I give that up for something that might make me happy in the far far future? I've grown up with a set of expectations and have a hard time finding outside perspectives on this choice which is why I'm posting here. I'm not asking for anyone to make this decision for me I just want opinions from people who have experienced either side of this scenario!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know I'm young but college is quickly approaching which means it's getting time to choose what I want to do with my life. My boyfriend isn't going to college and plans to live his life free spirited and unplanned (where the wind takes him so to speak) and I'm considering a field in the sciences. \nI always had medical school or a masters degree open as an option but I know it would be extremely difficult to continue the relationship if I went that route and I don't think I want to give it up for a career. Some of you are probably reading this thinking about what a silly teenager I am for even considering this so let me give some background:\n\nWe met my junior (his senior) year of high school and became best friends very quickly. After a few weeks we started dating. After 2 months we broke up for reasons that would take me paragraphs to explain but we pretty much cut ties for about a year. \nI was in love with him so I was crushed over this even after only 2 months. Even though after a year of barely any communication, a series of events led us back together. Everything in the universe pointed toward us never interacting again but here we are more in love than I even thought possible. \nIt's been almost 3 months since we've been together again and the feelings I had for him before never went away and are only growing stronger as time goes on. \nI could seriously see myself spending the rest of my life with him, so I ask my fellow redditors: would it be insane to take a less time consuming career (that I still like) so that I can be with him and travel as we want to and live a free minimalistic life?\n\nIt's risky and most people (my parents and societal standards) would call me crazy, but if he makes me so happy why would I give that up for something that might make me happy in the far far future? I've grown up with a set of expectations and have a hard time finding outside perspectives on this choice which is why I'm posting here. I'm not asking for anyone to make this decision for me I just want opinions from people who have experienced either side of this scenario!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I confessed to her by basically asking her out for some coffee alone, at the end of the day I told her I liked her as we were about to part. She smiled and said yes, and we both went home. I was trilled, of course, so that night I texted her the usual 'did you get home safe' and 'did you have fun'. She answered, said it was interesting, and did attempt to also ask me a few questions, but overall felt very stiff. (she's usually very 'cute' with her text before I asked her out)\n\nA day later, I tried to ask her out again, but during the call she said she is willing to go out with me, but want me to know that she doesn't want a 'serious' relationship. This got me thinking, I asked some of my friends and realized that it could potentially mean a rejection. I confronted her about it, basically saying that 'do you actually like me or.', she said yes, she would still love to go out with me (I mean, its not like I'm looking for a serious relationship either). But overall it felt very.awkward.\n\nI'm meeting with her again in two days, and we have only been in one date really, am I thinking too much? What can I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I confessed to her by basically asking her out for some coffee alone, at the end of the day I told her I liked her as we were about to part. She smiled and said yes, and we both went home. I was trilled, of course, so that night I texted her the usual 'did you get home safe' and 'did you have fun'. She answered, said it was interesting, and did attempt to also ask me a few questions, but overall felt very stiff. (she's usually very 'cute' with her text before I asked her out)\n\nA day later, I tried to ask her out again, but during the call she said she is willing to go out with me, but want me to know that she doesn't want a 'serious' relationship. This got me thinking, I asked some of my friends and realized that it could potentially mean a rejection. I confronted her about it, basically saying that 'do you actually like me or.', she said yes, she would still love to go out with me (I mean, its not like I'm looking for a serious relationship either). But overall it felt very.awkward.\n\nI'm meeting with her again in two days, and we have only been in one date really, am I thinking too much? What can I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I confessed to her by basically asking her out for some coffee alone, at the end of the day I told her I liked her as we were about to part. She smiled and said yes, and we both went home. I was trilled, of course, so that night I texted her the usual 'did you get home safe' and 'did you have fun'. She answered, said it was interesting, and did attempt to also ask me a few questions, but overall felt very stiff. (she's usually very 'cute' with her text before I asked her out)\n\nA day later, I tried to ask her out again, but during the call she said she is willing to go out with me, but want me to know that she doesn't want a 'serious' relationship. This got me thinking, I asked some of my friends and realized that it could potentially mean a rejection. I confronted her about it, basically saying that 'do you actually like me or.', she said yes, she would still love to go out with me (I mean, its not like I'm looking for a serious relationship either). But overall it felt very.awkward.\n\nI'm meeting with her again in two days, and we have only been in one date really, am I thinking too much? What can I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I confessed to her by basically asking her out for some coffee alone, at the end of the day I told her I liked her as we were about to part. She smiled and said yes, and we both went home. I was trilled, of course, so that night I texted her the usual 'did you get home safe' and 'did you have fun'. She answered, said it was interesting, and did attempt to also ask me a few questions, but overall felt very stiff. (she's usually very 'cute' with her text before I asked her out)\n\nA day later, I tried to ask her out again, but during the call she said she is willing to go out with me, but want me to know that she doesn't want a 'serious' relationship. This got me thinking, I asked some of my friends and realized that it could potentially mean a rejection. I confronted her about it, basically saying that 'do you actually like me or.', she said yes, she would still love to go out with me (I mean, its not like I'm looking for a serious relationship either). But overall it felt very.awkward.\n\nI'm meeting with her again in two days, and we have only been in one date really, am I thinking too much? What can I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I googled some things and couldn't find anything that was close to my situation. Driving my car ( 91 Toyota Celica) I noticed the voltage gauge on my dashboard was a little bit lower than normal but still within the respectable range. \n\nI make it to work and as I'm pulling in the battery light cuts on although the voltage meter is still in the same range. So I talk to my boss and maybe a few minutes pass and I get back in my car to take it to advance auto parts down the street to get everything tested. When I turn on my car the voltage meter is where it normally is and no battery light. \n\nI take it to AAP and they test the alternator and the battery and both are fine. \n\nLater I go to lunch and the battery light is back on and the voltage meter is down to where it was this morning."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I googled some things and couldn't find anything that was close to my situation. Driving my car ( 91 Toyota Celica) I noticed the voltage gauge on my dashboard was a little bit lower than normal but still within the respectable range. \n\nI make it to work and as I'm pulling in the battery light cuts on although the voltage meter is still in the same range. So I talk to my boss and maybe a few minutes pass and I get back in my car to take it to advance auto parts down the street to get everything tested. When I turn on my car the voltage meter is where it normally is and no battery light. \n\nI take it to AAP and they test the alternator and the battery and both are fine. \n\nLater I go to lunch and the battery light is back on and the voltage meter is down to where it was this morning."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I googled some things and couldn't find anything that was close to my situation. Driving my car ( 91 Toyota Celica) I noticed the voltage gauge on my dashboard was a little bit lower than normal but still within the respectable range. \n\nI make it to work and as I'm pulling in the battery light cuts on although the voltage meter is still in the same range. So I talk to my boss and maybe a few minutes pass and I get back in my car to take it to advance auto parts down the street to get everything tested. When I turn on my car the voltage meter is where it normally is and no battery light. \n\nI take it to AAP and they test the alternator and the battery and both are fine. \n\nLater I go to lunch and the battery light is back on and the voltage meter is down to where it was this morning."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I googled some things and couldn't find anything that was close to my situation. Driving my car ( 91 Toyota Celica) I noticed the voltage gauge on my dashboard was a little bit lower than normal but still within the respectable range. \n\nI make it to work and as I'm pulling in the battery light cuts on although the voltage meter is still in the same range. So I talk to my boss and maybe a few minutes pass and I get back in my car to take it to advance auto parts down the street to get everything tested. When I turn on my car the voltage meter is where it normally is and no battery light. \n\nI take it to AAP and they test the alternator and the battery and both are fine. \n\nLater I go to lunch and the battery light is back on and the voltage meter is down to where it was this morning."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known her for about 5 years as we always were in the same class since grade 5, and we are now going into grade 10. Only around 2 years ago did we learn we had a lot in common and we enjoyed talking to each other. Over the course of several months we began to get to know each other and tell each other a lot of things, and soon we were close as could be and no one would see us in school separate from one another. Then last year, her dad was killed in a tragic car accident. It was devastating. I'm going to skip on the details, but after that she clung to me even more. She's a very strong young girl whose went through a lot, and maybe most of the people on here on right when they say a 15 year old can't feel something for another 15 year old. But I care about her, and I want to be with her and she wants to be with me too, but we're both (trying) to being smart about it and only talking about it, dating has never been a priority at all. However, her family decided to move to a nearby city where she and her mom and 4 daughters have lots of relatives on both the mom's and dad's side. She is moving in a few days. This complicates things a lot and we won't be seeing much of each other, except when we can visit during holidays or if I'm in her town for sports. Is it possible a long distance relationship like that can work, or should we even try and pursue that? Any advice is welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known her for about 5 years as we always were in the same class since grade 5, and we are now going into grade 10. Only around 2 years ago did we learn we had a lot in common and we enjoyed talking to each other. Over the course of several months we began to get to know each other and tell each other a lot of things, and soon we were close as could be and no one would see us in school separate from one another. Then last year, her dad was killed in a tragic car accident. It was devastating. I'm going to skip on the details, but after that she clung to me even more. She's a very strong young girl whose went through a lot, and maybe most of the people on here on right when they say a 15 year old can't feel something for another 15 year old. But I care about her, and I want to be with her and she wants to be with me too, but we're both (trying) to being smart about it and only talking about it, dating has never been a priority at all. However, her family decided to move to a nearby city where she and her mom and 4 daughters have lots of relatives on both the mom's and dad's side. She is moving in a few days. This complicates things a lot and we won't be seeing much of each other, except when we can visit during holidays or if I'm in her town for sports. Is it possible a long distance relationship like that can work, or should we even try and pursue that? Any advice is welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known her for about 5 years as we always were in the same class since grade 5, and we are now going into grade 10. Only around 2 years ago did we learn we had a lot in common and we enjoyed talking to each other. Over the course of several months we began to get to know each other and tell each other a lot of things, and soon we were close as could be and no one would see us in school separate from one another. Then last year, her dad was killed in a tragic car accident. It was devastating. I'm going to skip on the details, but after that she clung to me even more. She's a very strong young girl whose went through a lot, and maybe most of the people on here on right when they say a 15 year old can't feel something for another 15 year old. But I care about her, and I want to be with her and she wants to be with me too, but we're both (trying) to being smart about it and only talking about it, dating has never been a priority at all. However, her family decided to move to a nearby city where she and her mom and 4 daughters have lots of relatives on both the mom's and dad's side. She is moving in a few days. This complicates things a lot and we won't be seeing much of each other, except when we can visit during holidays or if I'm in her town for sports. Is it possible a long distance relationship like that can work, or should we even try and pursue that? Any advice is welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've known her for about 5 years as we always were in the same class since grade 5, and we are now going into grade 10. Only around 2 years ago did we learn we had a lot in common and we enjoyed talking to each other. Over the course of several months we began to get to know each other and tell each other a lot of things, and soon we were close as could be and no one would see us in school separate from one another. Then last year, her dad was killed in a tragic car accident. It was devastating. I'm going to skip on the details, but after that she clung to me even more. She's a very strong young girl whose went through a lot, and maybe most of the people on here on right when they say a 15 year old can't feel something for another 15 year old. But I care about her, and I want to be with her and she wants to be with me too, but we're both (trying) to being smart about it and only talking about it, dating has never been a priority at all. However, her family decided to move to a nearby city where she and her mom and 4 daughters have lots of relatives on both the mom's and dad's side. She is moving in a few days. This complicates things a lot and we won't be seeing much of each other, except when we can visit during holidays or if I'm in her town for sports. Is it possible a long distance relationship like that can work, or should we even try and pursue that? Any advice is welcome."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We started dating shortly after she broke up with another guy. I had a hand to play in that so it did not fail organically. That was a mistake because she had no closure or recovery time. We moved really fast but she couldn't get over him. \n\n Her friends didn't like me so they rekindled their spark behind my back. Disclaimer : the night she slept with him I found out she had went over to his house with a friend and I told her it was over. She slept with him after i sent that message.\n\nSo we break up, they rekindle and it fails organically this time. She was completely honest about everything that happened and what she was feeling at the time and why she made the decisions she did. Brutally honest actually. \n\nNow she is completely different though. Much more affectionate and attentive. She blocked him and doesn't speak to him. \n \n She jumped through hurdles to prove that doing that to me was a mistake and that i was everything she was looking for, just took her losing me to realize it. \n\nNow i do trust her. But i tend to over think stuff. And i catch myself lingering on the past or getting anxious when she is out with those same friends. I've never accused her off anything and honesty believe she's really in it this time around. \n\n Any advice on how to shake the over thinking and lingering or any outside unbiased perspective that i might find useful. First post ever so i apologize in advance if the format is wrong."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This post was born of frustration sparked by a number of mediocre meals recently at top-rated places (all mediocre in the same way - very fancy plating in a very fancy venue with so-so ingredients), by conversations with one too many people who are unable to even conceive of food in terms other than price or \"health\"; and even by Netflix latest food documentary which barely mentions food at all but has 20 minute interviews with chefs' wives instead.\n\nCan fine dining survive this crisis? \n\nAnd if fine dining dies, will fine home cooking survive? Fine dining is critical to fine cooking I think, as, ideally, something aspirational.\n\nDo people even value good food any more? Do people know what it means?\n\nI mean *good* food. That tastes great, that's better than one can normally make at home. \n\nNot food that is \"healthy\" according to some theory; not food that is cheap or \"a good value\"; not food that is sculpted into a work of art; not food that is served by platoons of unctuous waiters; not food that is some kind of fusion: just food that tastes as good as food can taste.\n\nWhere I live, almost no one seems to care about taste. Some of the best restaurants have gone out of business. The best-reviewed restaurants generally seem to care mainly about plating and presentation. \n\nThe most popular review sites don't seem to care. Yelp reviewers care mainly about price, how sycophantic the service is, random features addressing their own neuroses, and the plating. Michelin seems run by people who care exclusively about the size of the wine list and the number of ingredients in each plate. \n\nIt used to be restaurants had an incentive to make good food because presumably some professional reviewers were knowledgeable and would guide customers to their doors. I get the sense nowadays that that incentive is dissipating. Not only that, just talking to people, people just don't seem to even understand what it means to have food that tastes good."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This post was born of frustration sparked by a number of mediocre meals recently at top-rated places (all mediocre in the same way - very fancy plating in a very fancy venue with so-so ingredients), by conversations with one too many people who are unable to even conceive of food in terms other than price or \"health\"; and even by Netflix latest food documentary which barely mentions food at all but has 20 minute interviews with chefs' wives instead.\n\nCan fine dining survive this crisis? \n\nAnd if fine dining dies, will fine home cooking survive? Fine dining is critical to fine cooking I think, as, ideally, something aspirational.\n\nDo people even value good food any more? Do people know what it means?\n\nI mean *good* food. That tastes great, that's better than one can normally make at home. \n\nNot food that is \"healthy\" according to some theory; not food that is cheap or \"a good value\"; not food that is sculpted into a work of art; not food that is served by platoons of unctuous waiters; not food that is some kind of fusion: just food that tastes as good as food can taste.\n\nWhere I live, almost no one seems to care about taste. Some of the best restaurants have gone out of business. The best-reviewed restaurants generally seem to care mainly about plating and presentation. \n\nThe most popular review sites don't seem to care. Yelp reviewers care mainly about price, how sycophantic the service is, random features addressing their own neuroses, and the plating. Michelin seems run by people who care exclusively about the size of the wine list and the number of ingredients in each plate. \n\nIt used to be restaurants had an incentive to make good food because presumably some professional reviewers were knowledgeable and would guide customers to their doors. I get the sense nowadays that that incentive is dissipating. Not only that, just talking to people, people just don't seem to even understand what it means to have food that tastes good."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This post was born of frustration sparked by a number of mediocre meals recently at top-rated places (all mediocre in the same way - very fancy plating in a very fancy venue with so-so ingredients), by conversations with one too many people who are unable to even conceive of food in terms other than price or \"health\"; and even by Netflix latest food documentary which barely mentions food at all but has 20 minute interviews with chefs' wives instead.\n\nCan fine dining survive this crisis? \n\nAnd if fine dining dies, will fine home cooking survive? Fine dining is critical to fine cooking I think, as, ideally, something aspirational.\n\nDo people even value good food any more? Do people know what it means?\n\nI mean *good* food. That tastes great, that's better than one can normally make at home. \n\nNot food that is \"healthy\" according to some theory; not food that is cheap or \"a good value\"; not food that is sculpted into a work of art; not food that is served by platoons of unctuous waiters; not food that is some kind of fusion: just food that tastes as good as food can taste.\n\nWhere I live, almost no one seems to care about taste. Some of the best restaurants have gone out of business. The best-reviewed restaurants generally seem to care mainly about plating and presentation. \n\nThe most popular review sites don't seem to care. Yelp reviewers care mainly about price, how sycophantic the service is, random features addressing their own neuroses, and the plating. Michelin seems run by people who care exclusively about the size of the wine list and the number of ingredients in each plate. \n\nIt used to be restaurants had an incentive to make good food because presumably some professional reviewers were knowledgeable and would guide customers to their doors. I get the sense nowadays that that incentive is dissipating. Not only that, just talking to people, people just don't seem to even understand what it means to have food that tastes good."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This post was born of frustration sparked by a number of mediocre meals recently at top-rated places (all mediocre in the same way - very fancy plating in a very fancy venue with so-so ingredients), by conversations with one too many people who are unable to even conceive of food in terms other than price or \"health\"; and even by Netflix latest food documentary which barely mentions food at all but has 20 minute interviews with chefs' wives instead.\n\nCan fine dining survive this crisis? \n\nAnd if fine dining dies, will fine home cooking survive? Fine dining is critical to fine cooking I think, as, ideally, something aspirational.\n\nDo people even value good food any more? Do people know what it means?\n\nI mean *good* food. That tastes great, that's better than one can normally make at home. \n\nNot food that is \"healthy\" according to some theory; not food that is cheap or \"a good value\"; not food that is sculpted into a work of art; not food that is served by platoons of unctuous waiters; not food that is some kind of fusion: just food that tastes as good as food can taste.\n\nWhere I live, almost no one seems to care about taste. Some of the best restaurants have gone out of business. The best-reviewed restaurants generally seem to care mainly about plating and presentation. \n\nThe most popular review sites don't seem to care. Yelp reviewers care mainly about price, how sycophantic the service is, random features addressing their own neuroses, and the plating. Michelin seems run by people who care exclusively about the size of the wine list and the number of ingredients in each plate. \n\nIt used to be restaurants had an incentive to make good food because presumably some professional reviewers were knowledgeable and would guide customers to their doors. I get the sense nowadays that that incentive is dissipating. Not only that, just talking to people, people just don't seem to even understand what it means to have food that tastes good."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's starting to have a real impact on our relationship. She has been than content to let me do what I want with her body as long as it doesn't involve taking off her pants or bringing her to orgasm. I think that's kind of silly, but it's her body, and she's happy as long as I listen to her when she tells me to stop. Her views on sex come mostly from being a Christian for her whole life. I've recently become an atheist, so I don't feel constrained to those same laws anymore, but I can understand where she's coming from.\n\nThe biggest problem I have with this, though, is she holds these same standards for me, and won't bring me to orgasm either. Before, she was perfectly fine with doing whatever to my body, but not having as sensitive a body as her, it wasn't all that fun unless she focused on my penis. She was fine with that for a while, until it became apparent that getting blue balls wasn't exactly my favorite way to round out the night. So what we've decided to do is ignore my penis altogether. Since that point, my sex drive has almost completely died down, to the point that kissing her isn't even fun anymore.\n\nAll this to ask, what are your suggestions? It seems childish to break up with her just because she won't have sex with me, but it's becoming more and more of an issue for me. I asked /r/sex, and they all told me to break up with her. Has anyone else gone through a similar thing? Is breaking up the best thing to do in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's starting to have a real impact on our relationship. She has been than content to let me do what I want with her body as long as it doesn't involve taking off her pants or bringing her to orgasm. I think that's kind of silly, but it's her body, and she's happy as long as I listen to her when she tells me to stop. Her views on sex come mostly from being a Christian for her whole life. I've recently become an atheist, so I don't feel constrained to those same laws anymore, but I can understand where she's coming from.\n\nThe biggest problem I have with this, though, is she holds these same standards for me, and won't bring me to orgasm either. Before, she was perfectly fine with doing whatever to my body, but not having as sensitive a body as her, it wasn't all that fun unless she focused on my penis. She was fine with that for a while, until it became apparent that getting blue balls wasn't exactly my favorite way to round out the night. So what we've decided to do is ignore my penis altogether. Since that point, my sex drive has almost completely died down, to the point that kissing her isn't even fun anymore.\n\nAll this to ask, what are your suggestions? It seems childish to break up with her just because she won't have sex with me, but it's becoming more and more of an issue for me. I asked /r/sex, and they all told me to break up with her. Has anyone else gone through a similar thing? Is breaking up the best thing to do in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's starting to have a real impact on our relationship. She has been than content to let me do what I want with her body as long as it doesn't involve taking off her pants or bringing her to orgasm. I think that's kind of silly, but it's her body, and she's happy as long as I listen to her when she tells me to stop. Her views on sex come mostly from being a Christian for her whole life. I've recently become an atheist, so I don't feel constrained to those same laws anymore, but I can understand where she's coming from.\n\nThe biggest problem I have with this, though, is she holds these same standards for me, and won't bring me to orgasm either. Before, she was perfectly fine with doing whatever to my body, but not having as sensitive a body as her, it wasn't all that fun unless she focused on my penis. She was fine with that for a while, until it became apparent that getting blue balls wasn't exactly my favorite way to round out the night. So what we've decided to do is ignore my penis altogether. Since that point, my sex drive has almost completely died down, to the point that kissing her isn't even fun anymore.\n\nAll this to ask, what are your suggestions? It seems childish to break up with her just because she won't have sex with me, but it's becoming more and more of an issue for me. I asked /r/sex, and they all told me to break up with her. Has anyone else gone through a similar thing? Is breaking up the best thing to do in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It's starting to have a real impact on our relationship. She has been than content to let me do what I want with her body as long as it doesn't involve taking off her pants or bringing her to orgasm. I think that's kind of silly, but it's her body, and she's happy as long as I listen to her when she tells me to stop. Her views on sex come mostly from being a Christian for her whole life. I've recently become an atheist, so I don't feel constrained to those same laws anymore, but I can understand where she's coming from.\n\nThe biggest problem I have with this, though, is she holds these same standards for me, and won't bring me to orgasm either. Before, she was perfectly fine with doing whatever to my body, but not having as sensitive a body as her, it wasn't all that fun unless she focused on my penis. She was fine with that for a while, until it became apparent that getting blue balls wasn't exactly my favorite way to round out the night. So what we've decided to do is ignore my penis altogether. Since that point, my sex drive has almost completely died down, to the point that kissing her isn't even fun anymore.\n\nAll this to ask, what are your suggestions? It seems childish to break up with her just because she won't have sex with me, but it's becoming more and more of an issue for me. I asked /r/sex, and they all told me to break up with her. Has anyone else gone through a similar thing? Is breaking up the best thing to do in this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Firstly, I want to say that Ive spent a while on this subreddit because I felt like I was a bit young compared to the others on here. But then I felt that it would feel good to atleast tell someone so here goes. I would just greatly appreciate it if you could help me.\n\nI have been dating a girl for just under a month now. When shes with me she sounds as if she really likes me, watching out for me. We havent really gone that far, just light kissing and cuddling. I really like her, and compared to my few previous relationships, I would say this is heaps better.\n\nHowever the problem is when Im not with her. I dont know if it is normal or not, but I feel really depressed when shes not around. I instantly reply to her texts and messages, and call her any chance I get. I find myself checking my phone every few minutes to see if shes said anything and its I just feel so negative without her. While Im like this, she seems very chill without me, often not contacting me for days. We see each other around once and when we do, it feels like heaven, but it just hurts when shes away.\n\nIs this normal? I would like to think that this relationship differs from my previous one due to us being (ever so slightly) more mature than before, but it really frustrates me when she takes years to reply. Am I just more attached than the average person?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Firstly, I want to say that Ive spent a while on this subreddit because I felt like I was a bit young compared to the others on here. But then I felt that it would feel good to atleast tell someone so here goes. I would just greatly appreciate it if you could help me.\n\nI have been dating a girl for just under a month now. When shes with me she sounds as if she really likes me, watching out for me. We havent really gone that far, just light kissing and cuddling. I really like her, and compared to my few previous relationships, I would say this is heaps better.\n\nHowever the problem is when Im not with her. I dont know if it is normal or not, but I feel really depressed when shes not around. I instantly reply to her texts and messages, and call her any chance I get. I find myself checking my phone every few minutes to see if shes said anything and its I just feel so negative without her. While Im like this, she seems very chill without me, often not contacting me for days. We see each other around once and when we do, it feels like heaven, but it just hurts when shes away.\n\nIs this normal? I would like to think that this relationship differs from my previous one due to us being (ever so slightly) more mature than before, but it really frustrates me when she takes years to reply. Am I just more attached than the average person?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Firstly, I want to say that Ive spent a while on this subreddit because I felt like I was a bit young compared to the others on here. But then I felt that it would feel good to atleast tell someone so here goes. I would just greatly appreciate it if you could help me.\n\nI have been dating a girl for just under a month now. When shes with me she sounds as if she really likes me, watching out for me. We havent really gone that far, just light kissing and cuddling. I really like her, and compared to my few previous relationships, I would say this is heaps better.\n\nHowever the problem is when Im not with her. I dont know if it is normal or not, but I feel really depressed when shes not around. I instantly reply to her texts and messages, and call her any chance I get. I find myself checking my phone every few minutes to see if shes said anything and its I just feel so negative without her. While Im like this, she seems very chill without me, often not contacting me for days. We see each other around once and when we do, it feels like heaven, but it just hurts when shes away.\n\nIs this normal? I would like to think that this relationship differs from my previous one due to us being (ever so slightly) more mature than before, but it really frustrates me when she takes years to reply. Am I just more attached than the average person?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Firstly, I want to say that Ive spent a while on this subreddit because I felt like I was a bit young compared to the others on here. But then I felt that it would feel good to atleast tell someone so here goes. I would just greatly appreciate it if you could help me.\n\nI have been dating a girl for just under a month now. When shes with me she sounds as if she really likes me, watching out for me. We havent really gone that far, just light kissing and cuddling. I really like her, and compared to my few previous relationships, I would say this is heaps better.\n\nHowever the problem is when Im not with her. I dont know if it is normal or not, but I feel really depressed when shes not around. I instantly reply to her texts and messages, and call her any chance I get. I find myself checking my phone every few minutes to see if shes said anything and its I just feel so negative without her. While Im like this, she seems very chill without me, often not contacting me for days. We see each other around once and when we do, it feels like heaven, but it just hurts when shes away.\n\nIs this normal? I would like to think that this relationship differs from my previous one due to us being (ever so slightly) more mature than before, but it really frustrates me when she takes years to reply. Am I just more attached than the average person?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I(20M) came to college a few months ago, and while I was initially worried I wouldn't make very many friends, I fit in quite nicely. In particular, I made very good friends with one girl(20F). We've got great chemistry in whatever we do, but she had a boyfriend so I was content with just being friends with her for a while. Even while she had a boyfriend, we flirted a lot together.\n\nSo skip forward a few months to now. We're still flirting pretty heavily, but we refuse to go past that. However, suddenly she just breaks up with her boyfriend of 4 years and starts dating this douche. There was a point where she thought this guy had seriously betrayed her and hurt her, and I was there for her then, too. We got extraordinarily close then, and my new intentions became clear through my actions.\n\nWell, it turns out that he got back to school last night with some bullshit story and she ate it up like candy. I'm still very much infatuated with her, but she seems to have taken me down a few steps since then.\n\nI wish so very much that I could just go back to being friends with her, but I really don't approve of the guy she's soon-to-be-dating. That, coupled with the fact that I like her a lot now, are making this a lot more difficult than I think it has to be. I think I'm going to talk to her tomorrow and tell her than I don't think we should be friends anymore, but I don't know how she'll take that and I care about her a whole lot."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I(20M) came to college a few months ago, and while I was initially worried I wouldn't make very many friends, I fit in quite nicely. In particular, I made very good friends with one girl(20F). We've got great chemistry in whatever we do, but she had a boyfriend so I was content with just being friends with her for a while. Even while she had a boyfriend, we flirted a lot together.\n\nSo skip forward a few months to now. We're still flirting pretty heavily, but we refuse to go past that. However, suddenly she just breaks up with her boyfriend of 4 years and starts dating this douche. There was a point where she thought this guy had seriously betrayed her and hurt her, and I was there for her then, too. We got extraordinarily close then, and my new intentions became clear through my actions.\n\nWell, it turns out that he got back to school last night with some bullshit story and she ate it up like candy. I'm still very much infatuated with her, but she seems to have taken me down a few steps since then.\n\nI wish so very much that I could just go back to being friends with her, but I really don't approve of the guy she's soon-to-be-dating. That, coupled with the fact that I like her a lot now, are making this a lot more difficult than I think it has to be. I think I'm going to talk to her tomorrow and tell her than I don't think we should be friends anymore, but I don't know how she'll take that and I care about her a whole lot."
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