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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I've been having lots of trouble getting into a real relationship since back in high school because I've come to realize that nearly all the women who I'm attracted to are older than me. While I'm perfectly aware that it is entirely possible for me, a 19M to date a, say, 21F, the odds of such a relationship realistically succeeding are pretty slim. \n\nI've been in two serious relationships in my life, both with older girls, and they both resulted in me being cheated on (with significantly older men), which has made me feel rather inadequate due to my age. Now, I don't date older girls because I'm sexually attracted to girls older than me, but because I find women who are mature, respectful, ambitious, and overall secure and happy with themselves to be the most attractive. Obviously there's a physical attraction too, but beauty lies in the eye of the beholder, so that aspect is entirely subjective.\n\nSo my real problem lies in the fact that I am finding it extremely difficult to find a girl who has the qualities that I find attractive, and is younger than me. So am I just unlucky here in that I can't find that girl? Or am I doing something wrong? I'm no Ryan Gosling, but I take care of my body and would consider myself at least adequately attractive. I have a job, good social life and friends, hobbies, etc. Is it really just my age that is resulting in me having no success with these older girls?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I's anniversary is coming up and he wants to get me an extravagant gift. The thing is, I'm unemployed and wouldn't be able to provide with a gift of equal value. I know these type of things shouldn't be based on price but I'd feel terrible if I didn't give him something of similar value. The gift in question is a ring which brings up another problem. I'd feel uncomfortable with receiving a ring because I'd associate it with an engagement. It's ridiculous, I know, but its just an intrusive thought. I'm no where near ready for that type of commitment, we're both still in college. I've told him many times I'd rather just spend the day with him watching movies or go bike riding together but I know he still wants to get me a ring. I don't want to hurt him, he really wants to do this, but I really don't want him to spend his money on a ring I'd be uncomfortable with. I'm not even a gift type of person, I don't like jewelry or any other typical gifts so he does get frustrated around gift giving occasions. Basically, I want to know if anyone else has had a similar problem and if they were able to get over or deal with it in a certain way. I am going to talk to him bit I'd like to know how others have dealt with similar issues."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I's anniversary is coming up and he wants to get me an extravagant gift. The thing is, I'm unemployed and wouldn't be able to provide with a gift of equal value. I know these type of things shouldn't be based on price but I'd feel terrible if I didn't give him something of similar value. The gift in question is a ring which brings up another problem. I'd feel uncomfortable with receiving a ring because I'd associate it with an engagement. It's ridiculous, I know, but its just an intrusive thought. I'm no where near ready for that type of commitment, we're both still in college. I've told him many times I'd rather just spend the day with him watching movies or go bike riding together but I know he still wants to get me a ring. I don't want to hurt him, he really wants to do this, but I really don't want him to spend his money on a ring I'd be uncomfortable with. I'm not even a gift type of person, I don't like jewelry or any other typical gifts so he does get frustrated around gift giving occasions. Basically, I want to know if anyone else has had a similar problem and if they were able to get over or deal with it in a certain way. I am going to talk to him bit I'd like to know how others have dealt with similar issues."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I's anniversary is coming up and he wants to get me an extravagant gift. The thing is, I'm unemployed and wouldn't be able to provide with a gift of equal value. I know these type of things shouldn't be based on price but I'd feel terrible if I didn't give him something of similar value. The gift in question is a ring which brings up another problem. I'd feel uncomfortable with receiving a ring because I'd associate it with an engagement. It's ridiculous, I know, but its just an intrusive thought. I'm no where near ready for that type of commitment, we're both still in college. I've told him many times I'd rather just spend the day with him watching movies or go bike riding together but I know he still wants to get me a ring. I don't want to hurt him, he really wants to do this, but I really don't want him to spend his money on a ring I'd be uncomfortable with. I'm not even a gift type of person, I don't like jewelry or any other typical gifts so he does get frustrated around gift giving occasions. Basically, I want to know if anyone else has had a similar problem and if they were able to get over or deal with it in a certain way. I am going to talk to him bit I'd like to know how others have dealt with similar issues."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My SO and I's anniversary is coming up and he wants to get me an extravagant gift. The thing is, I'm unemployed and wouldn't be able to provide with a gift of equal value. I know these type of things shouldn't be based on price but I'd feel terrible if I didn't give him something of similar value. The gift in question is a ring which brings up another problem. I'd feel uncomfortable with receiving a ring because I'd associate it with an engagement. It's ridiculous, I know, but its just an intrusive thought. I'm no where near ready for that type of commitment, we're both still in college. I've told him many times I'd rather just spend the day with him watching movies or go bike riding together but I know he still wants to get me a ring. I don't want to hurt him, he really wants to do this, but I really don't want him to spend his money on a ring I'd be uncomfortable with. I'm not even a gift type of person, I don't like jewelry or any other typical gifts so he does get frustrated around gift giving occasions. Basically, I want to know if anyone else has had a similar problem and if they were able to get over or deal with it in a certain way. I am going to talk to him bit I'd like to know how others have dealt with similar issues."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She loves the opera, and I can't stand it. I really do make an effort and go with her, keeping an open mind. We can only go occasionally because tickets are expensive! (can be several hundred dollars). We've been together 2 years\n\nThere's a particular one that I really can't stand that I've seen before, and I've told her this many times. Last week, she goes to watch it with some friends and I declined to join them. Afterwards, she tells me how badly she wanted me to be there and that it was important to her that we go together.\n\nWe had a big fight over it afterwards. I don't know why, but this really set me off because I've truly made an effort to enjoy her hobby, and I specifically told her I did NOT want to see this particular one. I feel like if my presence is that important to her, she should have chosen a different one to watch (almost any other one!). When I declined, it didn't seem like a big deal to her. She never pleaded with me or anything but now suddenly it's a big deal.\n\nI'm not quite sure where to go from here. Do I need to make a bigger effort in enjoying this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She loves the opera, and I can't stand it. I really do make an effort and go with her, keeping an open mind. We can only go occasionally because tickets are expensive! (can be several hundred dollars). We've been together 2 years\n\nThere's a particular one that I really can't stand that I've seen before, and I've told her this many times. Last week, she goes to watch it with some friends and I declined to join them. Afterwards, she tells me how badly she wanted me to be there and that it was important to her that we go together.\n\nWe had a big fight over it afterwards. I don't know why, but this really set me off because I've truly made an effort to enjoy her hobby, and I specifically told her I did NOT want to see this particular one. I feel like if my presence is that important to her, she should have chosen a different one to watch (almost any other one!). When I declined, it didn't seem like a big deal to her. She never pleaded with me or anything but now suddenly it's a big deal.\n\nI'm not quite sure where to go from here. Do I need to make a bigger effort in enjoying this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She loves the opera, and I can't stand it. I really do make an effort and go with her, keeping an open mind. We can only go occasionally because tickets are expensive! (can be several hundred dollars). We've been together 2 years\n\nThere's a particular one that I really can't stand that I've seen before, and I've told her this many times. Last week, she goes to watch it with some friends and I declined to join them. Afterwards, she tells me how badly she wanted me to be there and that it was important to her that we go together.\n\nWe had a big fight over it afterwards. I don't know why, but this really set me off because I've truly made an effort to enjoy her hobby, and I specifically told her I did NOT want to see this particular one. I feel like if my presence is that important to her, she should have chosen a different one to watch (almost any other one!). When I declined, it didn't seem like a big deal to her. She never pleaded with me or anything but now suddenly it's a big deal.\n\nI'm not quite sure where to go from here. Do I need to make a bigger effort in enjoying this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She loves the opera, and I can't stand it. I really do make an effort and go with her, keeping an open mind. We can only go occasionally because tickets are expensive! (can be several hundred dollars). We've been together 2 years\n\nThere's a particular one that I really can't stand that I've seen before, and I've told her this many times. Last week, she goes to watch it with some friends and I declined to join them. Afterwards, she tells me how badly she wanted me to be there and that it was important to her that we go together.\n\nWe had a big fight over it afterwards. I don't know why, but this really set me off because I've truly made an effort to enjoy her hobby, and I specifically told her I did NOT want to see this particular one. I feel like if my presence is that important to her, she should have chosen a different one to watch (almost any other one!). When I declined, it didn't seem like a big deal to her. She never pleaded with me or anything but now suddenly it's a big deal.\n\nI'm not quite sure where to go from here. Do I need to make a bigger effort in enjoying this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To tell you the honest truth, I broke up with him because I was scared. For about four months I had been feeling weird about being with him. The main problem was that my boyfriend loved me so much. I don't and still don't understand why he loved me that much. We didn't have a great deal in common, I didn't get on with a lot of his friends, music was a very important part of his life (he's a lead singer in a band) and I didn't like his music. Thinking about it, I was probably a pretty shitty girlfriend but he still loved me. It frightened me that although I loved him I didn't quite as much as he loved me so rather than talk it through I broke up with him.\n\nThat was 8 months ago. I spoke to him recently, probably for the first time since we broke up and feelings just came rushing back. I do still love him and talking to mutual friends I know he still loves me. I desperately regret breaking up with him and I don't really know what to do about this feeling. I want to apologise. But that could make him feel worse! I don't want to hurt him but I want him back in my life.\n\nSo my question is should I try and reach out to him or just leave him alone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To tell you the honest truth, I broke up with him because I was scared. For about four months I had been feeling weird about being with him. The main problem was that my boyfriend loved me so much. I don't and still don't understand why he loved me that much. We didn't have a great deal in common, I didn't get on with a lot of his friends, music was a very important part of his life (he's a lead singer in a band) and I didn't like his music. Thinking about it, I was probably a pretty shitty girlfriend but he still loved me. It frightened me that although I loved him I didn't quite as much as he loved me so rather than talk it through I broke up with him.\n\nThat was 8 months ago. I spoke to him recently, probably for the first time since we broke up and feelings just came rushing back. I do still love him and talking to mutual friends I know he still loves me. I desperately regret breaking up with him and I don't really know what to do about this feeling. I want to apologise. But that could make him feel worse! I don't want to hurt him but I want him back in my life.\n\nSo my question is should I try and reach out to him or just leave him alone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To tell you the honest truth, I broke up with him because I was scared. For about four months I had been feeling weird about being with him. The main problem was that my boyfriend loved me so much. I don't and still don't understand why he loved me that much. We didn't have a great deal in common, I didn't get on with a lot of his friends, music was a very important part of his life (he's a lead singer in a band) and I didn't like his music. Thinking about it, I was probably a pretty shitty girlfriend but he still loved me. It frightened me that although I loved him I didn't quite as much as he loved me so rather than talk it through I broke up with him.\n\nThat was 8 months ago. I spoke to him recently, probably for the first time since we broke up and feelings just came rushing back. I do still love him and talking to mutual friends I know he still loves me. I desperately regret breaking up with him and I don't really know what to do about this feeling. I want to apologise. But that could make him feel worse! I don't want to hurt him but I want him back in my life.\n\nSo my question is should I try and reach out to him or just leave him alone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To tell you the honest truth, I broke up with him because I was scared. For about four months I had been feeling weird about being with him. The main problem was that my boyfriend loved me so much. I don't and still don't understand why he loved me that much. We didn't have a great deal in common, I didn't get on with a lot of his friends, music was a very important part of his life (he's a lead singer in a band) and I didn't like his music. Thinking about it, I was probably a pretty shitty girlfriend but he still loved me. It frightened me that although I loved him I didn't quite as much as he loved me so rather than talk it through I broke up with him.\n\nThat was 8 months ago. I spoke to him recently, probably for the first time since we broke up and feelings just came rushing back. I do still love him and talking to mutual friends I know he still loves me. I desperately regret breaking up with him and I don't really know what to do about this feeling. I want to apologise. But that could make him feel worse! I don't want to hurt him but I want him back in my life.\n\nSo my question is should I try and reach out to him or just leave him alone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background:\n\nMe - Male, 20 years old\nHer - Female (duh), 19 years old\nLength of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school)\nLength of friendship - 2 1/2 years\n\nStory:\n\nAfter breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship.\n\nWe recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies.\n\nHow can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this morning my mom read my diary. You may ask why I even keep a diary but I have this fear of forgetting stuff and I want to read and laugh about all the shit I did when I'm an old lady. \n\nSo I write down everything I do and as a 17 year old I'm sure you can imagine all the crazy shit I do. So I wrote an entry yesterday about my crazy week and I wrote how I smoked and snuck out and basically my mom found out about all my lies and how I'm pretty much living a very crazy and secretive life. \n\nSo she tells me in the morning that she read it and I'm freaking out. My mom is super against drugs and drinking, but I don't think she has a right to ground me considering she totally invaded my privacy. What do you think? We couldn't talk in the morning because she had to leave for work and I'm writing this at school.\n\nWhat do you think of this whole situation? I hide my diary very well so she was hecka looking for it. Plus she claimed not to know it was my diary but she continued to read the whole thing. What do I do? How do I go about talking to my mom about this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this morning my mom read my diary. You may ask why I even keep a diary but I have this fear of forgetting stuff and I want to read and laugh about all the shit I did when I'm an old lady. \n\nSo I write down everything I do and as a 17 year old I'm sure you can imagine all the crazy shit I do. So I wrote an entry yesterday about my crazy week and I wrote how I smoked and snuck out and basically my mom found out about all my lies and how I'm pretty much living a very crazy and secretive life. \n\nSo she tells me in the morning that she read it and I'm freaking out. My mom is super against drugs and drinking, but I don't think she has a right to ground me considering she totally invaded my privacy. What do you think? We couldn't talk in the morning because she had to leave for work and I'm writing this at school.\n\nWhat do you think of this whole situation? I hide my diary very well so she was hecka looking for it. Plus she claimed not to know it was my diary but she continued to read the whole thing. What do I do? How do I go about talking to my mom about this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this morning my mom read my diary. You may ask why I even keep a diary but I have this fear of forgetting stuff and I want to read and laugh about all the shit I did when I'm an old lady. \n\nSo I write down everything I do and as a 17 year old I'm sure you can imagine all the crazy shit I do. So I wrote an entry yesterday about my crazy week and I wrote how I smoked and snuck out and basically my mom found out about all my lies and how I'm pretty much living a very crazy and secretive life. \n\nSo she tells me in the morning that she read it and I'm freaking out. My mom is super against drugs and drinking, but I don't think she has a right to ground me considering she totally invaded my privacy. What do you think? We couldn't talk in the morning because she had to leave for work and I'm writing this at school.\n\nWhat do you think of this whole situation? I hide my diary very well so she was hecka looking for it. Plus she claimed not to know it was my diary but she continued to read the whole thing. What do I do? How do I go about talking to my mom about this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this morning my mom read my diary. You may ask why I even keep a diary but I have this fear of forgetting stuff and I want to read and laugh about all the shit I did when I'm an old lady. \n\nSo I write down everything I do and as a 17 year old I'm sure you can imagine all the crazy shit I do. So I wrote an entry yesterday about my crazy week and I wrote how I smoked and snuck out and basically my mom found out about all my lies and how I'm pretty much living a very crazy and secretive life. \n\nSo she tells me in the morning that she read it and I'm freaking out. My mom is super against drugs and drinking, but I don't think she has a right to ground me considering she totally invaded my privacy. What do you think? We couldn't talk in the morning because she had to leave for work and I'm writing this at school.\n\nWhat do you think of this whole situation? I hide my diary very well so she was hecka looking for it. Plus she claimed not to know it was my diary but she continued to read the whole thing. What do I do? How do I go about talking to my mom about this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this morning my mom read my diary. You may ask why I even keep a diary but I have this fear of forgetting stuff and I want to read and laugh about all the shit I did when I'm an old lady. \n\nSo I write down everything I do and as a 17 year old I'm sure you can imagine all the crazy shit I do. So I wrote an entry yesterday about my crazy week and I wrote how I smoked and snuck out and basically my mom found out about all my lies and how I'm pretty much living a very crazy and secretive life. \n\nSo she tells me in the morning that she read it and I'm freaking out. My mom is super against drugs and drinking, but I don't think she has a right to ground me considering she totally invaded my privacy. What do you think? We couldn't talk in the morning because she had to leave for work and I'm writing this at school.\n\nWhat do you think of this whole situation? I hide my diary very well so she was hecka looking for it. Plus she claimed not to know it was my diary but she continued to read the whole thing. What do I do? How do I go about talking to my mom about this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this morning my mom read my diary. You may ask why I even keep a diary but I have this fear of forgetting stuff and I want to read and laugh about all the shit I did when I'm an old lady. \n\nSo I write down everything I do and as a 17 year old I'm sure you can imagine all the crazy shit I do. So I wrote an entry yesterday about my crazy week and I wrote how I smoked and snuck out and basically my mom found out about all my lies and how I'm pretty much living a very crazy and secretive life. \n\nSo she tells me in the morning that she read it and I'm freaking out. My mom is super against drugs and drinking, but I don't think she has a right to ground me considering she totally invaded my privacy. What do you think? We couldn't talk in the morning because she had to leave for work and I'm writing this at school.\n\nWhat do you think of this whole situation? I hide my diary very well so she was hecka looking for it. Plus she claimed not to know it was my diary but she continued to read the whole thing. What do I do? How do I go about talking to my mom about this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this morning my mom read my diary. You may ask why I even keep a diary but I have this fear of forgetting stuff and I want to read and laugh about all the shit I did when I'm an old lady. \n\nSo I write down everything I do and as a 17 year old I'm sure you can imagine all the crazy shit I do. So I wrote an entry yesterday about my crazy week and I wrote how I smoked and snuck out and basically my mom found out about all my lies and how I'm pretty much living a very crazy and secretive life. \n\nSo she tells me in the morning that she read it and I'm freaking out. My mom is super against drugs and drinking, but I don't think she has a right to ground me considering she totally invaded my privacy. What do you think? We couldn't talk in the morning because she had to leave for work and I'm writing this at school.\n\nWhat do you think of this whole situation? I hide my diary very well so she was hecka looking for it. Plus she claimed not to know it was my diary but she continued to read the whole thing. What do I do? How do I go about talking to my mom about this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this morning my mom read my diary. You may ask why I even keep a diary but I have this fear of forgetting stuff and I want to read and laugh about all the shit I did when I'm an old lady. \n\nSo I write down everything I do and as a 17 year old I'm sure you can imagine all the crazy shit I do. So I wrote an entry yesterday about my crazy week and I wrote how I smoked and snuck out and basically my mom found out about all my lies and how I'm pretty much living a very crazy and secretive life. \n\nSo she tells me in the morning that she read it and I'm freaking out. My mom is super against drugs and drinking, but I don't think she has a right to ground me considering she totally invaded my privacy. What do you think? We couldn't talk in the morning because she had to leave for work and I'm writing this at school.\n\nWhat do you think of this whole situation? I hide my diary very well so she was hecka looking for it. Plus she claimed not to know it was my diary but she continued to read the whole thing. What do I do? How do I go about talking to my mom about this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me [26 M] with my GF [25 F] together 6 months, found out she is clinically depressed\nPOST: I met my gf in spain 6 months ago. it was damn near love at first sight. The connection that we share is unreal, it's a love that I've never known before. \n\nWe both live in the US in separate states. we have been taking turns visiting each other and the first 5 months were perfect. Then about a month ago she got really distant, she said it was because she felt bad that she couldn't make it down for my bday for financial reasons. which I was completely fine with, and I told her that was ok and that she scared me that it was something more serious.\n\nShe the became more distant and eventually told me that she has been dealing with depresstion her whole life. I think recent financial stresses have sent her into a bout of depression. It has lasted a month now and we are still together. we just don't talk nearly as often as we used to. I try to be supportive and let her know im always here for her, and sometimes she responds and sometimes she doesn't. \n\nShe told my im one of four people that know about it. I can see through social media that she is putting on an act for work and her friends that don't know what she's going through. It's hard for me to see her post stuff like she's happy when she's shutting me out.\n\nI'm struggling because I miss her and love her but she wont communicate with me at all really except for things like, \"i love you so much and im so sorry\" or \"i am trying so hard to feel better, this is so unfair to you\".\n\nI need help because I don't want to lose her. I see a future with her and i'm want to help her through this, but I don't know how. she wont let me in and I don't know about her history with depression or what she's tried in the past and im afraid to ask right now.\n\nI need advice on how to handle this situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me [26 M] with my GF [25 F] together 6 months, found out she is clinically depressed\nPOST: I met my gf in spain 6 months ago. it was damn near love at first sight. The connection that we share is unreal, it's a love that I've never known before. \n\nWe both live in the US in separate states. we have been taking turns visiting each other and the first 5 months were perfect. Then about a month ago she got really distant, she said it was because she felt bad that she couldn't make it down for my bday for financial reasons. which I was completely fine with, and I told her that was ok and that she scared me that it was something more serious.\n\nShe the became more distant and eventually told me that she has been dealing with depresstion her whole life. I think recent financial stresses have sent her into a bout of depression. It has lasted a month now and we are still together. we just don't talk nearly as often as we used to. I try to be supportive and let her know im always here for her, and sometimes she responds and sometimes she doesn't. \n\nShe told my im one of four people that know about it. I can see through social media that she is putting on an act for work and her friends that don't know what she's going through. It's hard for me to see her post stuff like she's happy when she's shutting me out.\n\nI'm struggling because I miss her and love her but she wont communicate with me at all really except for things like, \"i love you so much and im so sorry\" or \"i am trying so hard to feel better, this is so unfair to you\".\n\nI need help because I don't want to lose her. I see a future with her and i'm want to help her through this, but I don't know how. she wont let me in and I don't know about her history with depression or what she's tried in the past and im afraid to ask right now.\n\nI need advice on how to handle this situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me [26 M] with my GF [25 F] together 6 months, found out she is clinically depressed\nPOST: I met my gf in spain 6 months ago. it was damn near love at first sight. The connection that we share is unreal, it's a love that I've never known before. \n\nWe both live in the US in separate states. we have been taking turns visiting each other and the first 5 months were perfect. Then about a month ago she got really distant, she said it was because she felt bad that she couldn't make it down for my bday for financial reasons. which I was completely fine with, and I told her that was ok and that she scared me that it was something more serious.\n\nShe the became more distant and eventually told me that she has been dealing with depresstion her whole life. I think recent financial stresses have sent her into a bout of depression. It has lasted a month now and we are still together. we just don't talk nearly as often as we used to. I try to be supportive and let her know im always here for her, and sometimes she responds and sometimes she doesn't. \n\nShe told my im one of four people that know about it. I can see through social media that she is putting on an act for work and her friends that don't know what she's going through. It's hard for me to see her post stuff like she's happy when she's shutting me out.\n\nI'm struggling because I miss her and love her but she wont communicate with me at all really except for things like, \"i love you so much and im so sorry\" or \"i am trying so hard to feel better, this is so unfair to you\".\n\nI need help because I don't want to lose her. I see a future with her and i'm want to help her through this, but I don't know how. she wont let me in and I don't know about her history with depression or what she's tried in the past and im afraid to ask right now.\n\nI need advice on how to handle this situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me [26 M] with my GF [25 F] together 6 months, found out she is clinically depressed\nPOST: I met my gf in spain 6 months ago. it was damn near love at first sight. The connection that we share is unreal, it's a love that I've never known before. \n\nWe both live in the US in separate states. we have been taking turns visiting each other and the first 5 months were perfect. Then about a month ago she got really distant, she said it was because she felt bad that she couldn't make it down for my bday for financial reasons. which I was completely fine with, and I told her that was ok and that she scared me that it was something more serious.\n\nShe the became more distant and eventually told me that she has been dealing with depresstion her whole life. I think recent financial stresses have sent her into a bout of depression. It has lasted a month now and we are still together. we just don't talk nearly as often as we used to. I try to be supportive and let her know im always here for her, and sometimes she responds and sometimes she doesn't. \n\nShe told my im one of four people that know about it. I can see through social media that she is putting on an act for work and her friends that don't know what she's going through. It's hard for me to see her post stuff like she's happy when she's shutting me out.\n\nI'm struggling because I miss her and love her but she wont communicate with me at all really except for things like, \"i love you so much and im so sorry\" or \"i am trying so hard to feel better, this is so unfair to you\".\n\nI need help because I don't want to lose her. I see a future with her and i'm want to help her through this, but I don't know how. she wont let me in and I don't know about her history with depression or what she's tried in the past and im afraid to ask right now.\n\nI need advice on how to handle this situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone,\nI will cut the story short.\nI and my GF broke up 8 months ago and we still love each other, but we cant resolve our issues(but that isn't the point of this text).\nI decided to proove her how much i love her and what she means to me, showing her that all over the world, people know how much i love her.\nSo, if you people can help, i'd like to ask you to take a picture where you live or in any location in the world with the phrase \"Monyse, here in YOURCOUNTRYNAME/WHEREYOUARE we know that João loves you more than anything.\", the phrase can be wrote in any place, a piece of paper, on the sand, that's on you.\nSo, after that, i will create a website to show her!\n\nThank you very very very much!\nAnd what you think about this idea?!?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone,\nI will cut the story short.\nI and my GF broke up 8 months ago and we still love each other, but we cant resolve our issues(but that isn't the point of this text).\nI decided to proove her how much i love her and what she means to me, showing her that all over the world, people know how much i love her.\nSo, if you people can help, i'd like to ask you to take a picture where you live or in any location in the world with the phrase \"Monyse, here in YOURCOUNTRYNAME/WHEREYOUARE we know that João loves you more than anything.\", the phrase can be wrote in any place, a piece of paper, on the sand, that's on you.\nSo, after that, i will create a website to show her!\n\nThank you very very very much!\nAnd what you think about this idea?!?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone,\nI will cut the story short.\nI and my GF broke up 8 months ago and we still love each other, but we cant resolve our issues(but that isn't the point of this text).\nI decided to proove her how much i love her and what she means to me, showing her that all over the world, people know how much i love her.\nSo, if you people can help, i'd like to ask you to take a picture where you live or in any location in the world with the phrase \"Monyse, here in YOURCOUNTRYNAME/WHEREYOUARE we know that João loves you more than anything.\", the phrase can be wrote in any place, a piece of paper, on the sand, that's on you.\nSo, after that, i will create a website to show her!\n\nThank you very very very much!\nAnd what you think about this idea?!?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone,\nI will cut the story short.\nI and my GF broke up 8 months ago and we still love each other, but we cant resolve our issues(but that isn't the point of this text).\nI decided to proove her how much i love her and what she means to me, showing her that all over the world, people know how much i love her.\nSo, if you people can help, i'd like to ask you to take a picture where you live or in any location in the world with the phrase \"Monyse, here in YOURCOUNTRYNAME/WHEREYOUARE we know that João loves you more than anything.\", the phrase can be wrote in any place, a piece of paper, on the sand, that's on you.\nSo, after that, i will create a website to show her!\n\nThank you very very very much!\nAnd what you think about this idea?!?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some friends and I were at Wal-Mart at around midnight recently (because sometimes we like to take in the show). We were minding our own business, passing through electronics, when a women passed by us, coming from the other direction. As she passed, she let out a loud sigh and said \"Get a life.\" \n \nThus began The Great War for mjdgoldeneye's Brain. She was talking to someone on the other side of a phone call, but only part of me considered this. The other part was offended, but the whole of me was kind of caught off guard. \n \nI proceeded to shout \"Get a dick!\". But, alas, that's not how I said it. I only got the \"Get\" out before my brain started reeling me back in. By the time I got to \"dick\", I was barely whispering. I have a habit of repeating words I say when I know I say them too quietly, so I repeated the \"dick\" part and then promptly apologized by impulse. Then, consumed by some sort of negative emotion, I said \"tits\", my typical \"D'oh!\" substitution. Finally, I clarified I wasn't referencing the woman.\n\nAll together now: GET^A^dick. Dick. Sorry. Tits. Not yours.\n\nLuckily, the woman wasn't quite paying attention. My friends were, though, and laughed for about 10 minutes in the aisle."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some friends and I were at Wal-Mart at around midnight recently (because sometimes we like to take in the show). We were minding our own business, passing through electronics, when a women passed by us, coming from the other direction. As she passed, she let out a loud sigh and said \"Get a life.\" \n \nThus began The Great War for mjdgoldeneye's Brain. She was talking to someone on the other side of a phone call, but only part of me considered this. The other part was offended, but the whole of me was kind of caught off guard. \n \nI proceeded to shout \"Get a dick!\". But, alas, that's not how I said it. I only got the \"Get\" out before my brain started reeling me back in. By the time I got to \"dick\", I was barely whispering. I have a habit of repeating words I say when I know I say them too quietly, so I repeated the \"dick\" part and then promptly apologized by impulse. Then, consumed by some sort of negative emotion, I said \"tits\", my typical \"D'oh!\" substitution. Finally, I clarified I wasn't referencing the woman.\n\nAll together now: GET^A^dick. Dick. Sorry. Tits. Not yours.\n\nLuckily, the woman wasn't quite paying attention. My friends were, though, and laughed for about 10 minutes in the aisle."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some friends and I were at Wal-Mart at around midnight recently (because sometimes we like to take in the show). We were minding our own business, passing through electronics, when a women passed by us, coming from the other direction. As she passed, she let out a loud sigh and said \"Get a life.\" \n \nThus began The Great War for mjdgoldeneye's Brain. She was talking to someone on the other side of a phone call, but only part of me considered this. The other part was offended, but the whole of me was kind of caught off guard. \n \nI proceeded to shout \"Get a dick!\". But, alas, that's not how I said it. I only got the \"Get\" out before my brain started reeling me back in. By the time I got to \"dick\", I was barely whispering. I have a habit of repeating words I say when I know I say them too quietly, so I repeated the \"dick\" part and then promptly apologized by impulse. Then, consumed by some sort of negative emotion, I said \"tits\", my typical \"D'oh!\" substitution. Finally, I clarified I wasn't referencing the woman.\n\nAll together now: GET^A^dick. Dick. Sorry. Tits. Not yours.\n\nLuckily, the woman wasn't quite paying attention. My friends were, though, and laughed for about 10 minutes in the aisle."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some friends and I were at Wal-Mart at around midnight recently (because sometimes we like to take in the show). We were minding our own business, passing through electronics, when a women passed by us, coming from the other direction. As she passed, she let out a loud sigh and said \"Get a life.\" \n \nThus began The Great War for mjdgoldeneye's Brain. She was talking to someone on the other side of a phone call, but only part of me considered this. The other part was offended, but the whole of me was kind of caught off guard. \n \nI proceeded to shout \"Get a dick!\". But, alas, that's not how I said it. I only got the \"Get\" out before my brain started reeling me back in. By the time I got to \"dick\", I was barely whispering. I have a habit of repeating words I say when I know I say them too quietly, so I repeated the \"dick\" part and then promptly apologized by impulse. Then, consumed by some sort of negative emotion, I said \"tits\", my typical \"D'oh!\" substitution. Finally, I clarified I wasn't referencing the woman.\n\nAll together now: GET^A^dick. Dick. Sorry. Tits. Not yours.\n\nLuckily, the woman wasn't quite paying attention. My friends were, though, and laughed for about 10 minutes in the aisle."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, let me say that I have been in my fair share of bad relationships in life and unfortunately I think it shapes a lot of the way I do things. Lately, my girlfriend has been a bit down and depressed, and I can feel her at times withdrawing from me emotionally and physically. I know she's been stressed and going through a bit of a quarter life crisis, but I am very sensitive to when people withdrawal (if anyone knows anything about attachment style, I'm your typical anxious/preoccupied attachment).\n\nI've dated someone with depression for a good 5 years, and every time my ex started to withdraw she would contemplate breaking up with me, etc. This has made me completely paranoid whenever someone is withdrawing that they are thinking of breaking up as well. I know my current girlfriend has told me she loves me, cares about me, says that she isn't upset about us at all (I asked her if there was any issues with us) but she has an incredibly hard time opening up. \n\nI try to be there for her just to hang out, talk, etc. She tells me I make her feel better many times when she's feeling down, but I know she's still upset. My insecurity in relationships due to my past and current relationship (once when feeling down she did state she thought she wanted to end it months ago, but then admitted she was subconsciously trying to push me away). \n\nI get so anxious, overthink it, and essentially take responsibility for her mood. Is this being co-dependent? How do I stop before I drive us both insane? What can I do to be there for her without becoming a caretaker and not get racked with insecurity whenever she may pull away some?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, let me say that I have been in my fair share of bad relationships in life and unfortunately I think it shapes a lot of the way I do things. Lately, my girlfriend has been a bit down and depressed, and I can feel her at times withdrawing from me emotionally and physically. I know she's been stressed and going through a bit of a quarter life crisis, but I am very sensitive to when people withdrawal (if anyone knows anything about attachment style, I'm your typical anxious/preoccupied attachment).\n\nI've dated someone with depression for a good 5 years, and every time my ex started to withdraw she would contemplate breaking up with me, etc. This has made me completely paranoid whenever someone is withdrawing that they are thinking of breaking up as well. I know my current girlfriend has told me she loves me, cares about me, says that she isn't upset about us at all (I asked her if there was any issues with us) but she has an incredibly hard time opening up. \n\nI try to be there for her just to hang out, talk, etc. She tells me I make her feel better many times when she's feeling down, but I know she's still upset. My insecurity in relationships due to my past and current relationship (once when feeling down she did state she thought she wanted to end it months ago, but then admitted she was subconsciously trying to push me away). \n\nI get so anxious, overthink it, and essentially take responsibility for her mood. Is this being co-dependent? How do I stop before I drive us both insane? What can I do to be there for her without becoming a caretaker and not get racked with insecurity whenever she may pull away some?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, let me say that I have been in my fair share of bad relationships in life and unfortunately I think it shapes a lot of the way I do things. Lately, my girlfriend has been a bit down and depressed, and I can feel her at times withdrawing from me emotionally and physically. I know she's been stressed and going through a bit of a quarter life crisis, but I am very sensitive to when people withdrawal (if anyone knows anything about attachment style, I'm your typical anxious/preoccupied attachment).\n\nI've dated someone with depression for a good 5 years, and every time my ex started to withdraw she would contemplate breaking up with me, etc. This has made me completely paranoid whenever someone is withdrawing that they are thinking of breaking up as well. I know my current girlfriend has told me she loves me, cares about me, says that she isn't upset about us at all (I asked her if there was any issues with us) but she has an incredibly hard time opening up. \n\nI try to be there for her just to hang out, talk, etc. She tells me I make her feel better many times when she's feeling down, but I know she's still upset. My insecurity in relationships due to my past and current relationship (once when feeling down she did state she thought she wanted to end it months ago, but then admitted she was subconsciously trying to push me away). \n\nI get so anxious, overthink it, and essentially take responsibility for her mood. Is this being co-dependent? How do I stop before I drive us both insane? What can I do to be there for her without becoming a caretaker and not get racked with insecurity whenever she may pull away some?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, let me say that I have been in my fair share of bad relationships in life and unfortunately I think it shapes a lot of the way I do things. Lately, my girlfriend has been a bit down and depressed, and I can feel her at times withdrawing from me emotionally and physically. I know she's been stressed and going through a bit of a quarter life crisis, but I am very sensitive to when people withdrawal (if anyone knows anything about attachment style, I'm your typical anxious/preoccupied attachment).\n\nI've dated someone with depression for a good 5 years, and every time my ex started to withdraw she would contemplate breaking up with me, etc. This has made me completely paranoid whenever someone is withdrawing that they are thinking of breaking up as well. I know my current girlfriend has told me she loves me, cares about me, says that she isn't upset about us at all (I asked her if there was any issues with us) but she has an incredibly hard time opening up. \n\nI try to be there for her just to hang out, talk, etc. She tells me I make her feel better many times when she's feeling down, but I know she's still upset. My insecurity in relationships due to my past and current relationship (once when feeling down she did state she thought she wanted to end it months ago, but then admitted she was subconsciously trying to push me away). \n\nI get so anxious, overthink it, and essentially take responsibility for her mood. Is this being co-dependent? How do I stop before I drive us both insane? What can I do to be there for her without becoming a caretaker and not get racked with insecurity whenever she may pull away some?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So its been a little over a month, this girl is honestly kind of amazing. Without getting into divulging her personal details, she told me straight up in the beginning she has baggage she is working through when it came to romantic relationships. I think I have been nothing short of supportive of them telling her I was willing to wait (I am not in a rush, life shouldn't be rushed), and whatever she needed she just need asked, I told her where I stood, and if/when she wanted to go there then she just needs to speak up.\n\nSo needless to say, we have talked, A LOT, everyday, sometimes with her messaging me, and me with her. The weekend before last we spent Friday-Monday meeting up and just hanging out. It was so very strange, but I dare not question it. For example Saturday I was at the local coffee shop studying for class, and she joined me to do her work, we had dinner after. Each of our get togethers have been dutch, or rotate who pays. \n\nSunday I kind of made a fool of myself and not dropping something I was excited to talk about, but she was not and clearly made it so and me not hearing her, I apologized and I thought we were good. Then Wednesday she tells me it really bothered her that I wasn't hearing her, and I again apologize, I honestly didn't realize it was such a big issue. I won't get in specifics, but I thought we were good. \n\nSunday she drops it on me, we're talking too much, and its freaking her out because she feels like shes falling into bad habits. Okay, she told me about these things to start, so whatever you need, when you're ready to talk again so you don't feel so claustrophobic you got my number, it will be open.\n\n12 hours, not even, she messages me and we start talking like normal. \n\nI guess where my confusion comes is she tells me one thing, and does another, then another, and its so fucking confusing. She really is an awesome woman I think, but I hate this feeling of what the fuck do I do?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So its been a little over a month, this girl is honestly kind of amazing. Without getting into divulging her personal details, she told me straight up in the beginning she has baggage she is working through when it came to romantic relationships. I think I have been nothing short of supportive of them telling her I was willing to wait (I am not in a rush, life shouldn't be rushed), and whatever she needed she just need asked, I told her where I stood, and if/when she wanted to go there then she just needs to speak up.\n\nSo needless to say, we have talked, A LOT, everyday, sometimes with her messaging me, and me with her. The weekend before last we spent Friday-Monday meeting up and just hanging out. It was so very strange, but I dare not question it. For example Saturday I was at the local coffee shop studying for class, and she joined me to do her work, we had dinner after. Each of our get togethers have been dutch, or rotate who pays. \n\nSunday I kind of made a fool of myself and not dropping something I was excited to talk about, but she was not and clearly made it so and me not hearing her, I apologized and I thought we were good. Then Wednesday she tells me it really bothered her that I wasn't hearing her, and I again apologize, I honestly didn't realize it was such a big issue. I won't get in specifics, but I thought we were good. \n\nSunday she drops it on me, we're talking too much, and its freaking her out because she feels like shes falling into bad habits. Okay, she told me about these things to start, so whatever you need, when you're ready to talk again so you don't feel so claustrophobic you got my number, it will be open.\n\n12 hours, not even, she messages me and we start talking like normal. \n\nI guess where my confusion comes is she tells me one thing, and does another, then another, and its so fucking confusing. She really is an awesome woman I think, but I hate this feeling of what the fuck do I do?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So its been a little over a month, this girl is honestly kind of amazing. Without getting into divulging her personal details, she told me straight up in the beginning she has baggage she is working through when it came to romantic relationships. I think I have been nothing short of supportive of them telling her I was willing to wait (I am not in a rush, life shouldn't be rushed), and whatever she needed she just need asked, I told her where I stood, and if/when she wanted to go there then she just needs to speak up.\n\nSo needless to say, we have talked, A LOT, everyday, sometimes with her messaging me, and me with her. The weekend before last we spent Friday-Monday meeting up and just hanging out. It was so very strange, but I dare not question it. For example Saturday I was at the local coffee shop studying for class, and she joined me to do her work, we had dinner after. Each of our get togethers have been dutch, or rotate who pays. \n\nSunday I kind of made a fool of myself and not dropping something I was excited to talk about, but she was not and clearly made it so and me not hearing her, I apologized and I thought we were good. Then Wednesday she tells me it really bothered her that I wasn't hearing her, and I again apologize, I honestly didn't realize it was such a big issue. I won't get in specifics, but I thought we were good. \n\nSunday she drops it on me, we're talking too much, and its freaking her out because she feels like shes falling into bad habits. Okay, she told me about these things to start, so whatever you need, when you're ready to talk again so you don't feel so claustrophobic you got my number, it will be open.\n\n12 hours, not even, she messages me and we start talking like normal. \n\nI guess where my confusion comes is she tells me one thing, and does another, then another, and its so fucking confusing. She really is an awesome woman I think, but I hate this feeling of what the fuck do I do?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So its been a little over a month, this girl is honestly kind of amazing. Without getting into divulging her personal details, she told me straight up in the beginning she has baggage she is working through when it came to romantic relationships. I think I have been nothing short of supportive of them telling her I was willing to wait (I am not in a rush, life shouldn't be rushed), and whatever she needed she just need asked, I told her where I stood, and if/when she wanted to go there then she just needs to speak up.\n\nSo needless to say, we have talked, A LOT, everyday, sometimes with her messaging me, and me with her. The weekend before last we spent Friday-Monday meeting up and just hanging out. It was so very strange, but I dare not question it. For example Saturday I was at the local coffee shop studying for class, and she joined me to do her work, we had dinner after. Each of our get togethers have been dutch, or rotate who pays. \n\nSunday I kind of made a fool of myself and not dropping something I was excited to talk about, but she was not and clearly made it so and me not hearing her, I apologized and I thought we were good. Then Wednesday she tells me it really bothered her that I wasn't hearing her, and I again apologize, I honestly didn't realize it was such a big issue. I won't get in specifics, but I thought we were good. \n\nSunday she drops it on me, we're talking too much, and its freaking her out because she feels like shes falling into bad habits. Okay, she told me about these things to start, so whatever you need, when you're ready to talk again so you don't feel so claustrophobic you got my number, it will be open.\n\n12 hours, not even, she messages me and we start talking like normal. \n\nI guess where my confusion comes is she tells me one thing, and does another, then another, and its so fucking confusing. She really is an awesome woman I think, but I hate this feeling of what the fuck do I do?!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I like my job(but it doesn't pay much,$19,200 a year), I have a house and car. My house is in a great spot in my opinion(it boarders on a state preserve and I can walk to work).\n\nI have no urge to party or go to concerts and I feel like people turn their noses up at me for not wanting to. I've been told to just take a year off and travel but I can't afford it, I'll probably travel more in the future after a promotion or two.\n\nI'm happy with my lifestyle. I like taking my dog for hikes and working in the vegetable garden but I feel like people see me as a boring person for not being in their mind ambitious enough. I don't want to work my way up a corparate ladder, or have a house in 12 different countries and constantly be around other people.\n\nIs it bad that I'm happy with what I have?I can't really think of much I'd even want. Ok, a tumble dryer would be great but it's not the end of the world."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I like my job(but it doesn't pay much,$19,200 a year), I have a house and car. My house is in a great spot in my opinion(it boarders on a state preserve and I can walk to work).\n\nI have no urge to party or go to concerts and I feel like people turn their noses up at me for not wanting to. I've been told to just take a year off and travel but I can't afford it, I'll probably travel more in the future after a promotion or two.\n\nI'm happy with my lifestyle. I like taking my dog for hikes and working in the vegetable garden but I feel like people see me as a boring person for not being in their mind ambitious enough. I don't want to work my way up a corparate ladder, or have a house in 12 different countries and constantly be around other people.\n\nIs it bad that I'm happy with what I have?I can't really think of much I'd even want. Ok, a tumble dryer would be great but it's not the end of the world."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I like my job(but it doesn't pay much,$19,200 a year), I have a house and car. My house is in a great spot in my opinion(it boarders on a state preserve and I can walk to work).\n\nI have no urge to party or go to concerts and I feel like people turn their noses up at me for not wanting to. I've been told to just take a year off and travel but I can't afford it, I'll probably travel more in the future after a promotion or two.\n\nI'm happy with my lifestyle. I like taking my dog for hikes and working in the vegetable garden but I feel like people see me as a boring person for not being in their mind ambitious enough. I don't want to work my way up a corparate ladder, or have a house in 12 different countries and constantly be around other people.\n\nIs it bad that I'm happy with what I have?I can't really think of much I'd even want. Ok, a tumble dryer would be great but it's not the end of the world."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I like my job(but it doesn't pay much,$19,200 a year), I have a house and car. My house is in a great spot in my opinion(it boarders on a state preserve and I can walk to work).\n\nI have no urge to party or go to concerts and I feel like people turn their noses up at me for not wanting to. I've been told to just take a year off and travel but I can't afford it, I'll probably travel more in the future after a promotion or two.\n\nI'm happy with my lifestyle. I like taking my dog for hikes and working in the vegetable garden but I feel like people see me as a boring person for not being in their mind ambitious enough. I don't want to work my way up a corparate ladder, or have a house in 12 different countries and constantly be around other people.\n\nIs it bad that I'm happy with what I have?I can't really think of much I'd even want. Ok, a tumble dryer would be great but it's not the end of the world."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had problems maintaing conversations with people my entire life. After initial small talk i just can't seem to say anything and my mind goes blank.\n\nOnce I started Univeristy I made a conscious decision to improve myself in which I decided to :\n\n- go and speak to as many people as I can anywhere and about anything\n- Join as many clubs and activities as possible \n- go see a psychiatrist \n- read lots of self improvement and confidence books\n- go out most nights during the week and socialising \n\nHaving did all these things for the last 3 years I have seen no improvement at all. It hurts so much when women approach me to only see them soon after having to awkwardly make an excuse to leave the conversation as it is not going anywhere and I'm boring her to tears. I even went to the doctors for a check up to see if I have any speech impairments or disabilities but they all tell me I'm perfectly healthy.\n\nPlease can someone in a similar situation help me? I just don't know what to do anymore. I've exhausted all avenues and I still can't get anywhere."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had problems maintaing conversations with people my entire life. After initial small talk i just can't seem to say anything and my mind goes blank.\n\nOnce I started Univeristy I made a conscious decision to improve myself in which I decided to :\n\n- go and speak to as many people as I can anywhere and about anything\n- Join as many clubs and activities as possible \n- go see a psychiatrist \n- read lots of self improvement and confidence books\n- go out most nights during the week and socialising \n\nHaving did all these things for the last 3 years I have seen no improvement at all. It hurts so much when women approach me to only see them soon after having to awkwardly make an excuse to leave the conversation as it is not going anywhere and I'm boring her to tears. I even went to the doctors for a check up to see if I have any speech impairments or disabilities but they all tell me I'm perfectly healthy.\n\nPlease can someone in a similar situation help me? I just don't know what to do anymore. I've exhausted all avenues and I still can't get anywhere."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had problems maintaing conversations with people my entire life. After initial small talk i just can't seem to say anything and my mind goes blank.\n\nOnce I started Univeristy I made a conscious decision to improve myself in which I decided to :\n\n- go and speak to as many people as I can anywhere and about anything\n- Join as many clubs and activities as possible \n- go see a psychiatrist \n- read lots of self improvement and confidence books\n- go out most nights during the week and socialising \n\nHaving did all these things for the last 3 years I have seen no improvement at all. It hurts so much when women approach me to only see them soon after having to awkwardly make an excuse to leave the conversation as it is not going anywhere and I'm boring her to tears. I even went to the doctors for a check up to see if I have any speech impairments or disabilities but they all tell me I'm perfectly healthy.\n\nPlease can someone in a similar situation help me? I just don't know what to do anymore. I've exhausted all avenues and I still can't get anywhere."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had problems maintaing conversations with people my entire life. After initial small talk i just can't seem to say anything and my mind goes blank.\n\nOnce I started Univeristy I made a conscious decision to improve myself in which I decided to :\n\n- go and speak to as many people as I can anywhere and about anything\n- Join as many clubs and activities as possible \n- go see a psychiatrist \n- read lots of self improvement and confidence books\n- go out most nights during the week and socialising \n\nHaving did all these things for the last 3 years I have seen no improvement at all. It hurts so much when women approach me to only see them soon after having to awkwardly make an excuse to leave the conversation as it is not going anywhere and I'm boring her to tears. I even went to the doctors for a check up to see if I have any speech impairments or disabilities but they all tell me I'm perfectly healthy.\n\nPlease can someone in a similar situation help me? I just don't know what to do anymore. I've exhausted all avenues and I still can't get anywhere."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the letter I plan to read to him when he wakes up:\n\nI have been bottling up a lot of things right now because I feel it is more important to support you during this difficult transition into your new career. However, if I do not say something soon, I will hate you.\n\nI am upset at the messes around the house that you leave. \n\nI re-homed the dress collection so that you would have the space you need to organize your belongings in the office closet. However, the office is a mess and your possessions are all over the dining room table and in the entryway. \n\nI day dream about someday having my dream home. I get incredibly sad when I think about the chance that it will never happen. Until I can move, I have to live here. I try to make the best of it by making the house look nice but I cant when your mess is all over the place. You need to not clutter the shared living spaces. When you are done eating, you need to throw the garage and recycling away and clean up the things left out in the kitchen.\n\nI work very long shifts and whenever I get a break I find that I am the only one doing the dishes, laundry, vacuuming, shopping, and cooking. I want you to be an equal in participating in the chores. \n\nI feel over whelmed by the amount of possessions that you have. I feel that my house is used as your storage space. Every expensive new luxury steals a little piece of our future home away. I fear planning for the future is being left just for me.\n\nI need there to be change. Or I will break up with your and you will need to leave."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the letter I plan to read to him when he wakes up:\n\nI have been bottling up a lot of things right now because I feel it is more important to support you during this difficult transition into your new career. However, if I do not say something soon, I will hate you.\n\nI am upset at the messes around the house that you leave. \n\nI re-homed the dress collection so that you would have the space you need to organize your belongings in the office closet. However, the office is a mess and your possessions are all over the dining room table and in the entryway. \n\nI day dream about someday having my dream home. I get incredibly sad when I think about the chance that it will never happen. Until I can move, I have to live here. I try to make the best of it by making the house look nice but I cant when your mess is all over the place. You need to not clutter the shared living spaces. When you are done eating, you need to throw the garage and recycling away and clean up the things left out in the kitchen.\n\nI work very long shifts and whenever I get a break I find that I am the only one doing the dishes, laundry, vacuuming, shopping, and cooking. I want you to be an equal in participating in the chores. \n\nI feel over whelmed by the amount of possessions that you have. I feel that my house is used as your storage space. Every expensive new luxury steals a little piece of our future home away. I fear planning for the future is being left just for me.\n\nI need there to be change. Or I will break up with your and you will need to leave."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the letter I plan to read to him when he wakes up:\n\nI have been bottling up a lot of things right now because I feel it is more important to support you during this difficult transition into your new career. However, if I do not say something soon, I will hate you.\n\nI am upset at the messes around the house that you leave. \n\nI re-homed the dress collection so that you would have the space you need to organize your belongings in the office closet. However, the office is a mess and your possessions are all over the dining room table and in the entryway. \n\nI day dream about someday having my dream home. I get incredibly sad when I think about the chance that it will never happen. Until I can move, I have to live here. I try to make the best of it by making the house look nice but I cant when your mess is all over the place. You need to not clutter the shared living spaces. When you are done eating, you need to throw the garage and recycling away and clean up the things left out in the kitchen.\n\nI work very long shifts and whenever I get a break I find that I am the only one doing the dishes, laundry, vacuuming, shopping, and cooking. I want you to be an equal in participating in the chores. \n\nI feel over whelmed by the amount of possessions that you have. I feel that my house is used as your storage space. Every expensive new luxury steals a little piece of our future home away. I fear planning for the future is being left just for me.\n\nI need there to be change. Or I will break up with your and you will need to leave."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is the letter I plan to read to him when he wakes up:\n\nI have been bottling up a lot of things right now because I feel it is more important to support you during this difficult transition into your new career. However, if I do not say something soon, I will hate you.\n\nI am upset at the messes around the house that you leave. \n\nI re-homed the dress collection so that you would have the space you need to organize your belongings in the office closet. However, the office is a mess and your possessions are all over the dining room table and in the entryway. \n\nI day dream about someday having my dream home. I get incredibly sad when I think about the chance that it will never happen. Until I can move, I have to live here. I try to make the best of it by making the house look nice but I cant when your mess is all over the place. You need to not clutter the shared living spaces. When you are done eating, you need to throw the garage and recycling away and clean up the things left out in the kitchen.\n\nI work very long shifts and whenever I get a break I find that I am the only one doing the dishes, laundry, vacuuming, shopping, and cooking. I want you to be an equal in participating in the chores. \n\nI feel over whelmed by the amount of possessions that you have. I feel that my house is used as your storage space. Every expensive new luxury steals a little piece of our future home away. I fear planning for the future is being left just for me.\n\nI need there to be change. Or I will break up with your and you will need to leave."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short. I got dumped after sacrificing so much for him. I was basically his personal tutor for three years. I gave up travels and career opportunities. because i loved him and thought he returned my feelings. He has always said he planned on marrying me and has never given me a reason to doubt him. \n\nwe were both very stressed with school last semester. and he dumped me. when he did he said some very hurtful things to me. and I can't seem to let go of my anger. I spend nights awake going through arguments in my head. sifting through all of the ugly. \n\nthe littlest things I remember keep me up. I was up till seven in the morning two days ago because I remembered he was trying to be nice by telling me I had \"potential\" before he left. after dating for three years, he tells me i only have potential? what does that even mean? how dare him. these are the kind of thoughts that run through I can't stop. \n\nAnd I am at a pivotal part of my schooling right now. I need to focus. but can't seem to get my mind in the right place."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short. I got dumped after sacrificing so much for him. I was basically his personal tutor for three years. I gave up travels and career opportunities. because i loved him and thought he returned my feelings. He has always said he planned on marrying me and has never given me a reason to doubt him. \n\nwe were both very stressed with school last semester. and he dumped me. when he did he said some very hurtful things to me. and I can't seem to let go of my anger. I spend nights awake going through arguments in my head. sifting through all of the ugly. \n\nthe littlest things I remember keep me up. I was up till seven in the morning two days ago because I remembered he was trying to be nice by telling me I had \"potential\" before he left. after dating for three years, he tells me i only have potential? what does that even mean? how dare him. these are the kind of thoughts that run through I can't stop. \n\nAnd I am at a pivotal part of my schooling right now. I need to focus. but can't seem to get my mind in the right place."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short. I got dumped after sacrificing so much for him. I was basically his personal tutor for three years. I gave up travels and career opportunities. because i loved him and thought he returned my feelings. He has always said he planned on marrying me and has never given me a reason to doubt him. \n\nwe were both very stressed with school last semester. and he dumped me. when he did he said some very hurtful things to me. and I can't seem to let go of my anger. I spend nights awake going through arguments in my head. sifting through all of the ugly. \n\nthe littlest things I remember keep me up. I was up till seven in the morning two days ago because I remembered he was trying to be nice by telling me I had \"potential\" before he left. after dating for three years, he tells me i only have potential? what does that even mean? how dare him. these are the kind of thoughts that run through I can't stop. \n\nAnd I am at a pivotal part of my schooling right now. I need to focus. but can't seem to get my mind in the right place."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short. I got dumped after sacrificing so much for him. I was basically his personal tutor for three years. I gave up travels and career opportunities. because i loved him and thought he returned my feelings. He has always said he planned on marrying me and has never given me a reason to doubt him. \n\nwe were both very stressed with school last semester. and he dumped me. when he did he said some very hurtful things to me. and I can't seem to let go of my anger. I spend nights awake going through arguments in my head. sifting through all of the ugly. \n\nthe littlest things I remember keep me up. I was up till seven in the morning two days ago because I remembered he was trying to be nice by telling me I had \"potential\" before he left. after dating for three years, he tells me i only have potential? what does that even mean? how dare him. these are the kind of thoughts that run through I can't stop. \n\nAnd I am at a pivotal part of my schooling right now. I need to focus. but can't seem to get my mind in the right place."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 5 years in June. I was coming out of a crazy marriage. One in which I went to couples therapy by myself, and was faithful. We had a daughter together. He lied, cheated and sold drugs. Our marriage was over before the divorce.\n\nI met a guy around that same time. My current boyfriend. My ex husband was constantly telling me he wanted our family to reunite, and tbh, I haven't been single since I was 16. So, I slept with my ex, once. Broke up with my boyfriend, had a couple of one night stands, got back together, got alcohol and drug seduced (but doesn't matter, for all intents and purposes, I cheated) and the one night stands, were people he knew. Then we broke up and, my boss gave me the attention I craved, and also bought me copious amounts of alcohol. So we \"dated\" for like 2 months, and then I went back to my ex.\n\nHe tried seeing other people, I believe he slept with a couple of people.\n\nWe hardly have sex, because he says he wants to fall in love with me again. I try not to talk about it. I'm trying to give him his space. But I suppose I'm trying to over compensate for all the wrong I did.\n\nWe fought today, about lack of sex. But came home today and ravished me. I asked if he'd rather take some time apart, and he says no.\n\nAm I crazy to think that, THIS, I'll be who I grow old with? Can a relationship come back from this? I'm clinging to the beginning. Before all my bullshit.\n\nPS. I'm medicated, and albeit my sex drive is existent, it's not looking for any strange. In fact, making me wait, is kinda a turn on. I'm used to always getting my way sexually.\n\nPSS please don't bash me. Men cheat all the time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 5 years in June. I was coming out of a crazy marriage. One in which I went to couples therapy by myself, and was faithful. We had a daughter together. He lied, cheated and sold drugs. Our marriage was over before the divorce.\n\nI met a guy around that same time. My current boyfriend. My ex husband was constantly telling me he wanted our family to reunite, and tbh, I haven't been single since I was 16. So, I slept with my ex, once. Broke up with my boyfriend, had a couple of one night stands, got back together, got alcohol and drug seduced (but doesn't matter, for all intents and purposes, I cheated) and the one night stands, were people he knew. Then we broke up and, my boss gave me the attention I craved, and also bought me copious amounts of alcohol. So we \"dated\" for like 2 months, and then I went back to my ex.\n\nHe tried seeing other people, I believe he slept with a couple of people.\n\nWe hardly have sex, because he says he wants to fall in love with me again. I try not to talk about it. I'm trying to give him his space. But I suppose I'm trying to over compensate for all the wrong I did.\n\nWe fought today, about lack of sex. But came home today and ravished me. I asked if he'd rather take some time apart, and he says no.\n\nAm I crazy to think that, THIS, I'll be who I grow old with? Can a relationship come back from this? I'm clinging to the beginning. Before all my bullshit.\n\nPS. I'm medicated, and albeit my sex drive is existent, it's not looking for any strange. In fact, making me wait, is kinda a turn on. I'm used to always getting my way sexually.\n\nPSS please don't bash me. Men cheat all the time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 5 years in June. I was coming out of a crazy marriage. One in which I went to couples therapy by myself, and was faithful. We had a daughter together. He lied, cheated and sold drugs. Our marriage was over before the divorce.\n\nI met a guy around that same time. My current boyfriend. My ex husband was constantly telling me he wanted our family to reunite, and tbh, I haven't been single since I was 16. So, I slept with my ex, once. Broke up with my boyfriend, had a couple of one night stands, got back together, got alcohol and drug seduced (but doesn't matter, for all intents and purposes, I cheated) and the one night stands, were people he knew. Then we broke up and, my boss gave me the attention I craved, and also bought me copious amounts of alcohol. So we \"dated\" for like 2 months, and then I went back to my ex.\n\nHe tried seeing other people, I believe he slept with a couple of people.\n\nWe hardly have sex, because he says he wants to fall in love with me again. I try not to talk about it. I'm trying to give him his space. But I suppose I'm trying to over compensate for all the wrong I did.\n\nWe fought today, about lack of sex. But came home today and ravished me. I asked if he'd rather take some time apart, and he says no.\n\nAm I crazy to think that, THIS, I'll be who I grow old with? Can a relationship come back from this? I'm clinging to the beginning. Before all my bullshit.\n\nPS. I'm medicated, and albeit my sex drive is existent, it's not looking for any strange. In fact, making me wait, is kinda a turn on. I'm used to always getting my way sexually.\n\nPSS please don't bash me. Men cheat all the time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 5 years in June. I was coming out of a crazy marriage. One in which I went to couples therapy by myself, and was faithful. We had a daughter together. He lied, cheated and sold drugs. Our marriage was over before the divorce.\n\nI met a guy around that same time. My current boyfriend. My ex husband was constantly telling me he wanted our family to reunite, and tbh, I haven't been single since I was 16. So, I slept with my ex, once. Broke up with my boyfriend, had a couple of one night stands, got back together, got alcohol and drug seduced (but doesn't matter, for all intents and purposes, I cheated) and the one night stands, were people he knew. Then we broke up and, my boss gave me the attention I craved, and also bought me copious amounts of alcohol. So we \"dated\" for like 2 months, and then I went back to my ex.\n\nHe tried seeing other people, I believe he slept with a couple of people.\n\nWe hardly have sex, because he says he wants to fall in love with me again. I try not to talk about it. I'm trying to give him his space. But I suppose I'm trying to over compensate for all the wrong I did.\n\nWe fought today, about lack of sex. But came home today and ravished me. I asked if he'd rather take some time apart, and he says no.\n\nAm I crazy to think that, THIS, I'll be who I grow old with? Can a relationship come back from this? I'm clinging to the beginning. Before all my bullshit.\n\nPS. I'm medicated, and albeit my sex drive is existent, it's not looking for any strange. In fact, making me wait, is kinda a turn on. I'm used to always getting my way sexually.\n\nPSS please don't bash me. Men cheat all the time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Told my current girlfriend (official 2 weeks, but seeing each other for 4 months), about a girl I was seeing a bit when we first met back in October. We spoke about it about a week ago because I didn't want to keep it a secret anymore now that its official.\n\nMet this girl a week before I met current girlfriend, and this girl moved away on exchange in December.\n\nGF isn't too happy about it and is feeling pretty upset about this situation, but it happened before we were exclusive. She says that this has tainted her view of me, which really hurts. Ive changed, and know that I want her and Ive been reassuring her this, yet it is only temporary until she gets sad about it again.\n\nI feel really shitty about it/not telling her earlier, but I cant change the past and want things to be great with my GF again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Told my current girlfriend (official 2 weeks, but seeing each other for 4 months), about a girl I was seeing a bit when we first met back in October. We spoke about it about a week ago because I didn't want to keep it a secret anymore now that its official.\n\nMet this girl a week before I met current girlfriend, and this girl moved away on exchange in December.\n\nGF isn't too happy about it and is feeling pretty upset about this situation, but it happened before we were exclusive. She says that this has tainted her view of me, which really hurts. Ive changed, and know that I want her and Ive been reassuring her this, yet it is only temporary until she gets sad about it again.\n\nI feel really shitty about it/not telling her earlier, but I cant change the past and want things to be great with my GF again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Told my current girlfriend (official 2 weeks, but seeing each other for 4 months), about a girl I was seeing a bit when we first met back in October. We spoke about it about a week ago because I didn't want to keep it a secret anymore now that its official.\n\nMet this girl a week before I met current girlfriend, and this girl moved away on exchange in December.\n\nGF isn't too happy about it and is feeling pretty upset about this situation, but it happened before we were exclusive. She says that this has tainted her view of me, which really hurts. Ive changed, and know that I want her and Ive been reassuring her this, yet it is only temporary until she gets sad about it again.\n\nI feel really shitty about it/not telling her earlier, but I cant change the past and want things to be great with my GF again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Told my current girlfriend (official 2 weeks, but seeing each other for 4 months), about a girl I was seeing a bit when we first met back in October. We spoke about it about a week ago because I didn't want to keep it a secret anymore now that its official.\n\nMet this girl a week before I met current girlfriend, and this girl moved away on exchange in December.\n\nGF isn't too happy about it and is feeling pretty upset about this situation, but it happened before we were exclusive. She says that this has tainted her view of me, which really hurts. Ive changed, and know that I want her and Ive been reassuring her this, yet it is only temporary until she gets sad about it again.\n\nI feel really shitty about it/not telling her earlier, but I cant change the past and want things to be great with my GF again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: For the first month of 2nd year uni, I basically skipped every single class and attempted to study through books and stuff. I realized this isn't good because most of the important things are taught in class. Lately I've been getting zero on almost all my assignments and unable to focus on anything. Most of the day I just click links all day, sitting at this computer for hours clicking on links, scanning through several websites, for hours, then again to check for new updates.\n\nThe only hobbies I have are breakdancing and starcraft, both of which I'm very lazy with. I find it hard to wake up earlier than noon most days. I'm I just a lazy jackass? I'm wasting thousands of my parents dollars away as I'll probably fail 2nd year uni, I know it, and I find it really hard to get the motivation to do anything about it. I'm a CS student.\n\nI worry I might be a psycho or something like that, I barely ever talk to my roommates (who are my close friends. or at least were last year) and whenever I try to meet new people they say I seem to have 'dead eyes' or 'no emotion'. Schizophrenia runs in my family."
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