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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 18, I was 16 or 17 when this happened. Male. Around 5 foot 9 inches right now. Around 140 pounds last I checked. African American and Caucasian. New Jersey. \n\nAbout a year or so ago, I had what I just thought to be heat exhaustion and shrugged it off. I had a pounding headache, was very dizzy and lightheaded, very nauseous, I had trouble seeing, I can't remember if I had sweat but I don't think I did, my muscles were really hard to move and I felt really really heavy, unbelievably heavy, and I blacked out briefly once or twice. Everyone around me noticed and helped cool me off as soon as they could.\n\nI never got it checked out. At all. I didn't go to the doctors about it or have blood work done or anything. I believe I only described it as heat exhaustion if anyone ever asked, since I thought it was that, although I have second thoughts after talking with someone who officially had heat stroke.\n\nThe question is, should I get it checked into now, over a year later. Sometime within the past 6 months or so I've experienced fairly consistent somewhat poor memory as well as having my speech deteriorate a little bit. Nothing major just having trouble finding the right words and stuttering a bit. I was thinking that was just from hitting my head a while back (which I also didn't get checked out.) but it may be from what may have been heat stroke."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Childhood sweethearts in its truest sense, we started our relationship in 2009 when we were in high school. Broke up when we were in 3rd year college because he cheated on me, but never really severed ties with him. We occasionally talk and hook up throughout our breakup. Had another boyfriend after a year and cheated on that boyfriend with him. Now, I moved to his city for a job in public relations last February and has been with him ever since. We were trying to rekindle the flame but he wasn't ready and I wanted more. Not to mention the fact that he recently had a thing with another girl whom he also considers his best friend. At one point, I thought he was only using me for my body because we hook up a lot. Now I'm leaving him and I was so sure about him being the guy I was going to marry. I don't know what to do. Should I move on? Also, how do I finally accept his relationship with his other \"best friend\". I just can't accept the fact that when I leave, they're going to be happy while i'll be in America, alone and miserable."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Childhood sweethearts in its truest sense, we started our relationship in 2009 when we were in high school. Broke up when we were in 3rd year college because he cheated on me, but never really severed ties with him. We occasionally talk and hook up throughout our breakup. Had another boyfriend after a year and cheated on that boyfriend with him. Now, I moved to his city for a job in public relations last February and has been with him ever since. We were trying to rekindle the flame but he wasn't ready and I wanted more. Not to mention the fact that he recently had a thing with another girl whom he also considers his best friend. At one point, I thought he was only using me for my body because we hook up a lot. Now I'm leaving him and I was so sure about him being the guy I was going to marry. I don't know what to do. Should I move on? Also, how do I finally accept his relationship with his other \"best friend\". I just can't accept the fact that when I leave, they're going to be happy while i'll be in America, alone and miserable."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Childhood sweethearts in its truest sense, we started our relationship in 2009 when we were in high school. Broke up when we were in 3rd year college because he cheated on me, but never really severed ties with him. We occasionally talk and hook up throughout our breakup. Had another boyfriend after a year and cheated on that boyfriend with him. Now, I moved to his city for a job in public relations last February and has been with him ever since. We were trying to rekindle the flame but he wasn't ready and I wanted more. Not to mention the fact that he recently had a thing with another girl whom he also considers his best friend. At one point, I thought he was only using me for my body because we hook up a lot. Now I'm leaving him and I was so sure about him being the guy I was going to marry. I don't know what to do. Should I move on? Also, how do I finally accept his relationship with his other \"best friend\". I just can't accept the fact that when I leave, they're going to be happy while i'll be in America, alone and miserable."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Childhood sweethearts in its truest sense, we started our relationship in 2009 when we were in high school. Broke up when we were in 3rd year college because he cheated on me, but never really severed ties with him. We occasionally talk and hook up throughout our breakup. Had another boyfriend after a year and cheated on that boyfriend with him. Now, I moved to his city for a job in public relations last February and has been with him ever since. We were trying to rekindle the flame but he wasn't ready and I wanted more. Not to mention the fact that he recently had a thing with another girl whom he also considers his best friend. At one point, I thought he was only using me for my body because we hook up a lot. Now I'm leaving him and I was so sure about him being the guy I was going to marry. I don't know what to do. Should I move on? Also, how do I finally accept his relationship with his other \"best friend\". I just can't accept the fact that when I leave, they're going to be happy while i'll be in America, alone and miserable."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we've been dating close to a year now and things were going pretty well. no major fights, no cheating, lots of trust between us. then the last month or so she became very short with me a lot, she would snap at me or treat me like garbage for seemingly no reason. she's been dealing with a lot of depression lately and had a trip to the hospital (her abusive father committed suicide when she was 12 and its still bothersome) so normally i understand that she's edgy or 'not herself'. \n\nlast week i asked if she wanted me anymore because i felt her distancing herself from me and almost pushing me away, she said she really loves me and cares for me and wants to be with me but she needed a break. i said ok then 6 hours later she texts saying she needs me more than anything and i need to see her that night. i met up with her and she was resentful for asking for a break and couldnt let me go. flash forward a few days and i can feel the distance again, i ask if she still wanted a break and she said its very difficult and unfair to me but yes she needs a break. i said ok. that was 6 days ago and she hasent said a word to me.\n\nso here i am, using reddit in a last ditch attempt to make some sense of all this, i desperately want to talk to her and figure this out so she's back in my life but i know she has to be the one to talk to me first. im hanging onto the hope that after a lil while she'll miss me and want me back but i dont know, she posted a picture of her and another guy and now im next to tears wondering if this is all over. can anyone lend any advice? i really dont know what to think anymore"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we've been dating close to a year now and things were going pretty well. no major fights, no cheating, lots of trust between us. then the last month or so she became very short with me a lot, she would snap at me or treat me like garbage for seemingly no reason. she's been dealing with a lot of depression lately and had a trip to the hospital (her abusive father committed suicide when she was 12 and its still bothersome) so normally i understand that she's edgy or 'not herself'. \n\nlast week i asked if she wanted me anymore because i felt her distancing herself from me and almost pushing me away, she said she really loves me and cares for me and wants to be with me but she needed a break. i said ok then 6 hours later she texts saying she needs me more than anything and i need to see her that night. i met up with her and she was resentful for asking for a break and couldnt let me go. flash forward a few days and i can feel the distance again, i ask if she still wanted a break and she said its very difficult and unfair to me but yes she needs a break. i said ok. that was 6 days ago and she hasent said a word to me.\n\nso here i am, using reddit in a last ditch attempt to make some sense of all this, i desperately want to talk to her and figure this out so she's back in my life but i know she has to be the one to talk to me first. im hanging onto the hope that after a lil while she'll miss me and want me back but i dont know, she posted a picture of her and another guy and now im next to tears wondering if this is all over. can anyone lend any advice? i really dont know what to think anymore"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we've been dating close to a year now and things were going pretty well. no major fights, no cheating, lots of trust between us. then the last month or so she became very short with me a lot, she would snap at me or treat me like garbage for seemingly no reason. she's been dealing with a lot of depression lately and had a trip to the hospital (her abusive father committed suicide when she was 12 and its still bothersome) so normally i understand that she's edgy or 'not herself'. \n\nlast week i asked if she wanted me anymore because i felt her distancing herself from me and almost pushing me away, she said she really loves me and cares for me and wants to be with me but she needed a break. i said ok then 6 hours later she texts saying she needs me more than anything and i need to see her that night. i met up with her and she was resentful for asking for a break and couldnt let me go. flash forward a few days and i can feel the distance again, i ask if she still wanted a break and she said its very difficult and unfair to me but yes she needs a break. i said ok. that was 6 days ago and she hasent said a word to me.\n\nso here i am, using reddit in a last ditch attempt to make some sense of all this, i desperately want to talk to her and figure this out so she's back in my life but i know she has to be the one to talk to me first. im hanging onto the hope that after a lil while she'll miss me and want me back but i dont know, she posted a picture of her and another guy and now im next to tears wondering if this is all over. can anyone lend any advice? i really dont know what to think anymore"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we've been dating close to a year now and things were going pretty well. no major fights, no cheating, lots of trust between us. then the last month or so she became very short with me a lot, she would snap at me or treat me like garbage for seemingly no reason. she's been dealing with a lot of depression lately and had a trip to the hospital (her abusive father committed suicide when she was 12 and its still bothersome) so normally i understand that she's edgy or 'not herself'. \n\nlast week i asked if she wanted me anymore because i felt her distancing herself from me and almost pushing me away, she said she really loves me and cares for me and wants to be with me but she needed a break. i said ok then 6 hours later she texts saying she needs me more than anything and i need to see her that night. i met up with her and she was resentful for asking for a break and couldnt let me go. flash forward a few days and i can feel the distance again, i ask if she still wanted a break and she said its very difficult and unfair to me but yes she needs a break. i said ok. that was 6 days ago and she hasent said a word to me.\n\nso here i am, using reddit in a last ditch attempt to make some sense of all this, i desperately want to talk to her and figure this out so she's back in my life but i know she has to be the one to talk to me first. im hanging onto the hope that after a lil while she'll miss me and want me back but i dont know, she posted a picture of her and another guy and now im next to tears wondering if this is all over. can anyone lend any advice? i really dont know what to think anymore"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok back when I was in Vietnam, there were these cheap toys that I always begged my parents and sister to buy for me, but one always always stayed in my memory.\n\nIt was this cheap toy bike, worth about 2 Dongs (Vietnamese currency, about a nickel now). There was this long ass key, like the ones for BeyBlades, with plastic row of teeth. On the back wheel of this bike, there was this slot for the key. You push the key in and rip it out as fast as you can and the back wheel would spin. You place the bike on the ground and it would run straight fast as hell. I lost my favorite one before I left for the US at 8. My mom told me I cried like crazy when she couldn't find it. I am now 18, this has been one of my favorite and most nostalgic memory. The simplicity and cheapness of it was just wonderful. Please help me find one on the internet or anywhere."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok back when I was in Vietnam, there were these cheap toys that I always begged my parents and sister to buy for me, but one always always stayed in my memory.\n\nIt was this cheap toy bike, worth about 2 Dongs (Vietnamese currency, about a nickel now). There was this long ass key, like the ones for BeyBlades, with plastic row of teeth. On the back wheel of this bike, there was this slot for the key. You push the key in and rip it out as fast as you can and the back wheel would spin. You place the bike on the ground and it would run straight fast as hell. I lost my favorite one before I left for the US at 8. My mom told me I cried like crazy when she couldn't find it. I am now 18, this has been one of my favorite and most nostalgic memory. The simplicity and cheapness of it was just wonderful. Please help me find one on the internet or anywhere."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok back when I was in Vietnam, there were these cheap toys that I always begged my parents and sister to buy for me, but one always always stayed in my memory.\n\nIt was this cheap toy bike, worth about 2 Dongs (Vietnamese currency, about a nickel now). There was this long ass key, like the ones for BeyBlades, with plastic row of teeth. On the back wheel of this bike, there was this slot for the key. You push the key in and rip it out as fast as you can and the back wheel would spin. You place the bike on the ground and it would run straight fast as hell. I lost my favorite one before I left for the US at 8. My mom told me I cried like crazy when she couldn't find it. I am now 18, this has been one of my favorite and most nostalgic memory. The simplicity and cheapness of it was just wonderful. Please help me find one on the internet or anywhere."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok back when I was in Vietnam, there were these cheap toys that I always begged my parents and sister to buy for me, but one always always stayed in my memory.\n\nIt was this cheap toy bike, worth about 2 Dongs (Vietnamese currency, about a nickel now). There was this long ass key, like the ones for BeyBlades, with plastic row of teeth. On the back wheel of this bike, there was this slot for the key. You push the key in and rip it out as fast as you can and the back wheel would spin. You place the bike on the ground and it would run straight fast as hell. I lost my favorite one before I left for the US at 8. My mom told me I cried like crazy when she couldn't find it. I am now 18, this has been one of my favorite and most nostalgic memory. The simplicity and cheapness of it was just wonderful. Please help me find one on the internet or anywhere."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: You might want to skip this one. It might be too boring\n But here goes\n\nIt's been months since i've been able to talk to my best friend. He's been coming and going, but i can never hold on to him for more than five minutes. Everything started in September 2012. He texted me telling me how bad of a headache he had. (let's call my friend F) Apparently, F had been out drinking and doing drugs with his friendds when someone decided that it would be a good idea to go street racing. He was in one of the racing cars, which then crashed. Someone living on the road called the police and they bailed. We talked about it for a bit and then he left. This time, he got some weird sickness and thought he was going to die. I thought he got arrested but as far as I know, he's free.\nPass one week, he's back. He was in the hospital since then. we talked once, then he left again. This time he was in some motel or something. I didn't think of it as much. \nPass another two weeks. He leaves again, after coming back. Another week after that, i get a text. He was back in the hospital, i and didn't know if he was going to get out. He's still there now. I feel lost without him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: You might want to skip this one. It might be too boring\n But here goes\n\nIt's been months since i've been able to talk to my best friend. He's been coming and going, but i can never hold on to him for more than five minutes. Everything started in September 2012. He texted me telling me how bad of a headache he had. (let's call my friend F) Apparently, F had been out drinking and doing drugs with his friendds when someone decided that it would be a good idea to go street racing. He was in one of the racing cars, which then crashed. Someone living on the road called the police and they bailed. We talked about it for a bit and then he left. This time, he got some weird sickness and thought he was going to die. I thought he got arrested but as far as I know, he's free.\nPass one week, he's back. He was in the hospital since then. we talked once, then he left again. This time he was in some motel or something. I didn't think of it as much. \nPass another two weeks. He leaves again, after coming back. Another week after that, i get a text. He was back in the hospital, i and didn't know if he was going to get out. He's still there now. I feel lost without him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: You might want to skip this one. It might be too boring\n But here goes\n\nIt's been months since i've been able to talk to my best friend. He's been coming and going, but i can never hold on to him for more than five minutes. Everything started in September 2012. He texted me telling me how bad of a headache he had. (let's call my friend F) Apparently, F had been out drinking and doing drugs with his friendds when someone decided that it would be a good idea to go street racing. He was in one of the racing cars, which then crashed. Someone living on the road called the police and they bailed. We talked about it for a bit and then he left. This time, he got some weird sickness and thought he was going to die. I thought he got arrested but as far as I know, he's free.\nPass one week, he's back. He was in the hospital since then. we talked once, then he left again. This time he was in some motel or something. I didn't think of it as much. \nPass another two weeks. He leaves again, after coming back. Another week after that, i get a text. He was back in the hospital, i and didn't know if he was going to get out. He's still there now. I feel lost without him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: You might want to skip this one. It might be too boring\n But here goes\n\nIt's been months since i've been able to talk to my best friend. He's been coming and going, but i can never hold on to him for more than five minutes. Everything started in September 2012. He texted me telling me how bad of a headache he had. (let's call my friend F) Apparently, F had been out drinking and doing drugs with his friendds when someone decided that it would be a good idea to go street racing. He was in one of the racing cars, which then crashed. Someone living on the road called the police and they bailed. We talked about it for a bit and then he left. This time, he got some weird sickness and thought he was going to die. I thought he got arrested but as far as I know, he's free.\nPass one week, he's back. He was in the hospital since then. we talked once, then he left again. This time he was in some motel or something. I didn't think of it as much. \nPass another two weeks. He leaves again, after coming back. Another week after that, i get a text. He was back in the hospital, i and didn't know if he was going to get out. He's still there now. I feel lost without him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I are separated (married 4 years, dated 5 prior) and were heading towards divorce when we learned that she was pregnant. We had had a good night together, drank some (a lot) wine and didn't expect to conceive. Regardless, we decided to keep the baby. This was 7 weeks ago. During our troubles, she unfriended me on Facebook. Last week, she called me to say she had some bleeding and we went to the ER, where we found out that she was most likely having a miscarriage. This was confirmed yesterday by her OBGYN. Afterwards, I found out that she had been posting status updates to Facebook since the first night in the ER. Now I am a very private person, I don't use Facebook to air any serious personal issues. In fact, I only told one friend about the pregnancy. Should I be angry that she's told everyone we both know all about this? Am I allowed to be?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I are separated (married 4 years, dated 5 prior) and were heading towards divorce when we learned that she was pregnant. We had had a good night together, drank some (a lot) wine and didn't expect to conceive. Regardless, we decided to keep the baby. This was 7 weeks ago. During our troubles, she unfriended me on Facebook. Last week, she called me to say she had some bleeding and we went to the ER, where we found out that she was most likely having a miscarriage. This was confirmed yesterday by her OBGYN. Afterwards, I found out that she had been posting status updates to Facebook since the first night in the ER. Now I am a very private person, I don't use Facebook to air any serious personal issues. In fact, I only told one friend about the pregnancy. Should I be angry that she's told everyone we both know all about this? Am I allowed to be?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I are separated (married 4 years, dated 5 prior) and were heading towards divorce when we learned that she was pregnant. We had had a good night together, drank some (a lot) wine and didn't expect to conceive. Regardless, we decided to keep the baby. This was 7 weeks ago. During our troubles, she unfriended me on Facebook. Last week, she called me to say she had some bleeding and we went to the ER, where we found out that she was most likely having a miscarriage. This was confirmed yesterday by her OBGYN. Afterwards, I found out that she had been posting status updates to Facebook since the first night in the ER. Now I am a very private person, I don't use Facebook to air any serious personal issues. In fact, I only told one friend about the pregnancy. Should I be angry that she's told everyone we both know all about this? Am I allowed to be?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I are separated (married 4 years, dated 5 prior) and were heading towards divorce when we learned that she was pregnant. We had had a good night together, drank some (a lot) wine and didn't expect to conceive. Regardless, we decided to keep the baby. This was 7 weeks ago. During our troubles, she unfriended me on Facebook. Last week, she called me to say she had some bleeding and we went to the ER, where we found out that she was most likely having a miscarriage. This was confirmed yesterday by her OBGYN. Afterwards, I found out that she had been posting status updates to Facebook since the first night in the ER. Now I am a very private person, I don't use Facebook to air any serious personal issues. In fact, I only told one friend about the pregnancy. Should I be angry that she's told everyone we both know all about this? Am I allowed to be?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been dating for almost 7 years and we have a 4 year old son together. When we first started dating, things were great, there was nothing to complain about. \n\nFast forward to the last 5 years and things have become increasingly volatile. We sometimes have good moments but the bad ones seem to outweigh the good. On a side note, he also hasn't had a job for about 5 years and constantly takes or asks for what little I have, so that's definitely one source of tension. \n\nSo back to us, we seem to constantly fight over the stupidest things. Like this morning, for example, when I was making a Spanish omelette and he asks me if I put eggs in that. I stare at him for a moment, unsure as to whether or not he was seriously asking if I am putting eggs in an OMELETTE, one which he's seen me make numerous times by the way, and then I decide to call him out on his dumb question. He then flips out on my \"attitude,\" and rants on and on, all this over HIS dumbass question (No, I did not use the word dumbass to his face). Seriously? \n\nAs well, he seems to be a lot more judgmental and close-minded then I thought he was when we first started going out. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells around him, constantly thinking about what he would say or complain about what I'm doing. More often than not, I'm right about what he's going to say, and it's always some form of criticism about what he thinks I've done wrong, whether he thinks I'm cleaning something the wrong way, or cooking something the wrong way (and I'm a great cook, I always get raving compliments on my food from others), to raising our child the wrong way, and on and on. It's almost like I breathe easier when he's gone. I don't even know if this relationship is worth trying to save, honestly. What does anyone else think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been dating for almost 7 years and we have a 4 year old son together. When we first started dating, things were great, there was nothing to complain about. \n\nFast forward to the last 5 years and things have become increasingly volatile. We sometimes have good moments but the bad ones seem to outweigh the good. On a side note, he also hasn't had a job for about 5 years and constantly takes or asks for what little I have, so that's definitely one source of tension. \n\nSo back to us, we seem to constantly fight over the stupidest things. Like this morning, for example, when I was making a Spanish omelette and he asks me if I put eggs in that. I stare at him for a moment, unsure as to whether or not he was seriously asking if I am putting eggs in an OMELETTE, one which he's seen me make numerous times by the way, and then I decide to call him out on his dumb question. He then flips out on my \"attitude,\" and rants on and on, all this over HIS dumbass question (No, I did not use the word dumbass to his face). Seriously? \n\nAs well, he seems to be a lot more judgmental and close-minded then I thought he was when we first started going out. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells around him, constantly thinking about what he would say or complain about what I'm doing. More often than not, I'm right about what he's going to say, and it's always some form of criticism about what he thinks I've done wrong, whether he thinks I'm cleaning something the wrong way, or cooking something the wrong way (and I'm a great cook, I always get raving compliments on my food from others), to raising our child the wrong way, and on and on. It's almost like I breathe easier when he's gone. I don't even know if this relationship is worth trying to save, honestly. What does anyone else think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been dating for almost 7 years and we have a 4 year old son together. When we first started dating, things were great, there was nothing to complain about. \n\nFast forward to the last 5 years and things have become increasingly volatile. We sometimes have good moments but the bad ones seem to outweigh the good. On a side note, he also hasn't had a job for about 5 years and constantly takes or asks for what little I have, so that's definitely one source of tension. \n\nSo back to us, we seem to constantly fight over the stupidest things. Like this morning, for example, when I was making a Spanish omelette and he asks me if I put eggs in that. I stare at him for a moment, unsure as to whether or not he was seriously asking if I am putting eggs in an OMELETTE, one which he's seen me make numerous times by the way, and then I decide to call him out on his dumb question. He then flips out on my \"attitude,\" and rants on and on, all this over HIS dumbass question (No, I did not use the word dumbass to his face). Seriously? \n\nAs well, he seems to be a lot more judgmental and close-minded then I thought he was when we first started going out. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells around him, constantly thinking about what he would say or complain about what I'm doing. More often than not, I'm right about what he's going to say, and it's always some form of criticism about what he thinks I've done wrong, whether he thinks I'm cleaning something the wrong way, or cooking something the wrong way (and I'm a great cook, I always get raving compliments on my food from others), to raising our child the wrong way, and on and on. It's almost like I breathe easier when he's gone. I don't even know if this relationship is worth trying to save, honestly. What does anyone else think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been dating for almost 7 years and we have a 4 year old son together. When we first started dating, things were great, there was nothing to complain about. \n\nFast forward to the last 5 years and things have become increasingly volatile. We sometimes have good moments but the bad ones seem to outweigh the good. On a side note, he also hasn't had a job for about 5 years and constantly takes or asks for what little I have, so that's definitely one source of tension. \n\nSo back to us, we seem to constantly fight over the stupidest things. Like this morning, for example, when I was making a Spanish omelette and he asks me if I put eggs in that. I stare at him for a moment, unsure as to whether or not he was seriously asking if I am putting eggs in an OMELETTE, one which he's seen me make numerous times by the way, and then I decide to call him out on his dumb question. He then flips out on my \"attitude,\" and rants on and on, all this over HIS dumbass question (No, I did not use the word dumbass to his face). Seriously? \n\nAs well, he seems to be a lot more judgmental and close-minded then I thought he was when we first started going out. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells around him, constantly thinking about what he would say or complain about what I'm doing. More often than not, I'm right about what he's going to say, and it's always some form of criticism about what he thinks I've done wrong, whether he thinks I'm cleaning something the wrong way, or cooking something the wrong way (and I'm a great cook, I always get raving compliments on my food from others), to raising our child the wrong way, and on and on. It's almost like I breathe easier when he's gone. I don't even know if this relationship is worth trying to save, honestly. What does anyone else think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancé and I have lived together for the past two years and we have a nine-month old baby together. I love him dearly and I am willing to work for the best relationship and partnership possible. The problem lies in our sex life. I would be satisfied with having sex two or three times a week, maybe more; he would be happy with twice a month. About 94% of the time I initiate it. This is a bit of a blow to my self-esteem since in my previous relationships, my boyfriends acted very turned on by me and wanted to fuck all the time- and frankly, I liked that. It has been this way since we have been together, and I always attributed it to stress, depression, or his being tired from work. But now I have been with him long enough that I am quite certain it is his sex drive. Whatever it is, it has left me very dissatisfied in that area of our relationship. In addition to low frequency, I also feel like our sex is boring. I rarely orgasm, and sometimes he doesn't come. \n\nI have tried to talk to him about it many times, and every time he says he will try to initiate it more often, but that never lasts for more than two weeks. Sometimes I send him sexy texts saying things like, \"I really want you to fuck me right now,\" in hopes of putting the idea in his head, but nothing ever results. Where do I go from here? Can I really commit myself to a lifetime of sexual frustration? Advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancé and I have lived together for the past two years and we have a nine-month old baby together. I love him dearly and I am willing to work for the best relationship and partnership possible. The problem lies in our sex life. I would be satisfied with having sex two or three times a week, maybe more; he would be happy with twice a month. About 94% of the time I initiate it. This is a bit of a blow to my self-esteem since in my previous relationships, my boyfriends acted very turned on by me and wanted to fuck all the time- and frankly, I liked that. It has been this way since we have been together, and I always attributed it to stress, depression, or his being tired from work. But now I have been with him long enough that I am quite certain it is his sex drive. Whatever it is, it has left me very dissatisfied in that area of our relationship. In addition to low frequency, I also feel like our sex is boring. I rarely orgasm, and sometimes he doesn't come. \n\nI have tried to talk to him about it many times, and every time he says he will try to initiate it more often, but that never lasts for more than two weeks. Sometimes I send him sexy texts saying things like, \"I really want you to fuck me right now,\" in hopes of putting the idea in his head, but nothing ever results. Where do I go from here? Can I really commit myself to a lifetime of sexual frustration? Advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancé and I have lived together for the past two years and we have a nine-month old baby together. I love him dearly and I am willing to work for the best relationship and partnership possible. The problem lies in our sex life. I would be satisfied with having sex two or three times a week, maybe more; he would be happy with twice a month. About 94% of the time I initiate it. This is a bit of a blow to my self-esteem since in my previous relationships, my boyfriends acted very turned on by me and wanted to fuck all the time- and frankly, I liked that. It has been this way since we have been together, and I always attributed it to stress, depression, or his being tired from work. But now I have been with him long enough that I am quite certain it is his sex drive. Whatever it is, it has left me very dissatisfied in that area of our relationship. In addition to low frequency, I also feel like our sex is boring. I rarely orgasm, and sometimes he doesn't come. \n\nI have tried to talk to him about it many times, and every time he says he will try to initiate it more often, but that never lasts for more than two weeks. Sometimes I send him sexy texts saying things like, \"I really want you to fuck me right now,\" in hopes of putting the idea in his head, but nothing ever results. Where do I go from here? Can I really commit myself to a lifetime of sexual frustration? Advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancé and I have lived together for the past two years and we have a nine-month old baby together. I love him dearly and I am willing to work for the best relationship and partnership possible. The problem lies in our sex life. I would be satisfied with having sex two or three times a week, maybe more; he would be happy with twice a month. About 94% of the time I initiate it. This is a bit of a blow to my self-esteem since in my previous relationships, my boyfriends acted very turned on by me and wanted to fuck all the time- and frankly, I liked that. It has been this way since we have been together, and I always attributed it to stress, depression, or his being tired from work. But now I have been with him long enough that I am quite certain it is his sex drive. Whatever it is, it has left me very dissatisfied in that area of our relationship. In addition to low frequency, I also feel like our sex is boring. I rarely orgasm, and sometimes he doesn't come. \n\nI have tried to talk to him about it many times, and every time he says he will try to initiate it more often, but that never lasts for more than two weeks. Sometimes I send him sexy texts saying things like, \"I really want you to fuck me right now,\" in hopes of putting the idea in his head, but nothing ever results. Where do I go from here? Can I really commit myself to a lifetime of sexual frustration? Advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Allow me to elaborate.\n\nToday was pretty slow at my place of employment and just like any other day at work, I start to space off. As I was spacing off I started to hum a song, the song being [Leonard Cohen's Suzanne]( Eventually the humming became singing. About three quarters through the song, a gentleman (mid sixties) approaches my register, I am oblivious to him until I finish the song. He waits and listens until I am finished, and I finally acknowledge his presence. I become very embarrassed and I apologize that I kept him waiting.\n\nHe smiles warmly and says \"That's Leonard Cohen, is it not?\"\n\nI nod and tell him how much I listen to Mr. Cohen, and that I hope to write poetry as beautiful as his one day.\n\nThe gentleman half belches, half laughs after I say this. He then proceeds to ask how old I am, I tell him 19. He has another one of his belch/laugh fits, and pats me on the shoulder and says \"Well you've got an old soul in ya, that's for sure.\" \n\nI ring him up and he's on his way.\n\nI wonder if this comes up frequently with other people that are roughly in the same age group as mine."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Allow me to elaborate.\n\nToday was pretty slow at my place of employment and just like any other day at work, I start to space off. As I was spacing off I started to hum a song, the song being [Leonard Cohen's Suzanne]( Eventually the humming became singing. About three quarters through the song, a gentleman (mid sixties) approaches my register, I am oblivious to him until I finish the song. He waits and listens until I am finished, and I finally acknowledge his presence. I become very embarrassed and I apologize that I kept him waiting.\n\nHe smiles warmly and says \"That's Leonard Cohen, is it not?\"\n\nI nod and tell him how much I listen to Mr. Cohen, and that I hope to write poetry as beautiful as his one day.\n\nThe gentleman half belches, half laughs after I say this. He then proceeds to ask how old I am, I tell him 19. He has another one of his belch/laugh fits, and pats me on the shoulder and says \"Well you've got an old soul in ya, that's for sure.\" \n\nI ring him up and he's on his way.\n\nI wonder if this comes up frequently with other people that are roughly in the same age group as mine."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Allow me to elaborate.\n\nToday was pretty slow at my place of employment and just like any other day at work, I start to space off. As I was spacing off I started to hum a song, the song being [Leonard Cohen's Suzanne]( Eventually the humming became singing. About three quarters through the song, a gentleman (mid sixties) approaches my register, I am oblivious to him until I finish the song. He waits and listens until I am finished, and I finally acknowledge his presence. I become very embarrassed and I apologize that I kept him waiting.\n\nHe smiles warmly and says \"That's Leonard Cohen, is it not?\"\n\nI nod and tell him how much I listen to Mr. Cohen, and that I hope to write poetry as beautiful as his one day.\n\nThe gentleman half belches, half laughs after I say this. He then proceeds to ask how old I am, I tell him 19. He has another one of his belch/laugh fits, and pats me on the shoulder and says \"Well you've got an old soul in ya, that's for sure.\" \n\nI ring him up and he's on his way.\n\nI wonder if this comes up frequently with other people that are roughly in the same age group as mine."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Allow me to elaborate.\n\nToday was pretty slow at my place of employment and just like any other day at work, I start to space off. As I was spacing off I started to hum a song, the song being [Leonard Cohen's Suzanne]( Eventually the humming became singing. About three quarters through the song, a gentleman (mid sixties) approaches my register, I am oblivious to him until I finish the song. He waits and listens until I am finished, and I finally acknowledge his presence. I become very embarrassed and I apologize that I kept him waiting.\n\nHe smiles warmly and says \"That's Leonard Cohen, is it not?\"\n\nI nod and tell him how much I listen to Mr. Cohen, and that I hope to write poetry as beautiful as his one day.\n\nThe gentleman half belches, half laughs after I say this. He then proceeds to ask how old I am, I tell him 19. He has another one of his belch/laugh fits, and pats me on the shoulder and says \"Well you've got an old soul in ya, that's for sure.\" \n\nI ring him up and he's on his way.\n\nI wonder if this comes up frequently with other people that are roughly in the same age group as mine."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A couple of months back I had a one-night stand with a girl I met at a nightclub. We were both drunk, I don't remember the sex and we didn't talk or meet up afterwards, she just left in the morning. I thought that was the end of it, but yesterday she messaged me on Facebook asking to meet with her. I was worried she might have gotten tested for sexual diseases and came up positive so I decided to go along.\n\nTurns out she's pregnant. She's done tests three times after she missed her period. She says it's definitely mine because I'm the only guy she's slept with since she arrived at university. I started freaking out, she gave me her mobile number if I wanted to talk. I since rang her and asked her if she wanted to keep it and she said she wasn't sure, she didn't think she'd be able to go through the abortion (which I realise is totally fine and her decision). I know that I'm not ready to be a dad, I've just started university this year, I want to get my degree and get a good job afterwards and have children with a future partner when I'm ready. \n\nWhat options do I have? I presume if she has the baby she'll have to leave university. Is it morally wrong for me to not want to have anything to do with the child when she has it? Will I have to pay child support as I have no income apart from my parents? \n\nI've spoken to my best friend about this but he's not been very helpful, he suggested I try and press for an abortion and if not tell her I want nothing to do with it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A couple of months back I had a one-night stand with a girl I met at a nightclub. We were both drunk, I don't remember the sex and we didn't talk or meet up afterwards, she just left in the morning. I thought that was the end of it, but yesterday she messaged me on Facebook asking to meet with her. I was worried she might have gotten tested for sexual diseases and came up positive so I decided to go along.\n\nTurns out she's pregnant. She's done tests three times after she missed her period. She says it's definitely mine because I'm the only guy she's slept with since she arrived at university. I started freaking out, she gave me her mobile number if I wanted to talk. I since rang her and asked her if she wanted to keep it and she said she wasn't sure, she didn't think she'd be able to go through the abortion (which I realise is totally fine and her decision). I know that I'm not ready to be a dad, I've just started university this year, I want to get my degree and get a good job afterwards and have children with a future partner when I'm ready. \n\nWhat options do I have? I presume if she has the baby she'll have to leave university. Is it morally wrong for me to not want to have anything to do with the child when she has it? Will I have to pay child support as I have no income apart from my parents? \n\nI've spoken to my best friend about this but he's not been very helpful, he suggested I try and press for an abortion and if not tell her I want nothing to do with it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A couple of months back I had a one-night stand with a girl I met at a nightclub. We were both drunk, I don't remember the sex and we didn't talk or meet up afterwards, she just left in the morning. I thought that was the end of it, but yesterday she messaged me on Facebook asking to meet with her. I was worried she might have gotten tested for sexual diseases and came up positive so I decided to go along.\n\nTurns out she's pregnant. She's done tests three times after she missed her period. She says it's definitely mine because I'm the only guy she's slept with since she arrived at university. I started freaking out, she gave me her mobile number if I wanted to talk. I since rang her and asked her if she wanted to keep it and she said she wasn't sure, she didn't think she'd be able to go through the abortion (which I realise is totally fine and her decision). I know that I'm not ready to be a dad, I've just started university this year, I want to get my degree and get a good job afterwards and have children with a future partner when I'm ready. \n\nWhat options do I have? I presume if she has the baby she'll have to leave university. Is it morally wrong for me to not want to have anything to do with the child when she has it? Will I have to pay child support as I have no income apart from my parents? \n\nI've spoken to my best friend about this but he's not been very helpful, he suggested I try and press for an abortion and if not tell her I want nothing to do with it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A couple of months back I had a one-night stand with a girl I met at a nightclub. We were both drunk, I don't remember the sex and we didn't talk or meet up afterwards, she just left in the morning. I thought that was the end of it, but yesterday she messaged me on Facebook asking to meet with her. I was worried she might have gotten tested for sexual diseases and came up positive so I decided to go along.\n\nTurns out she's pregnant. She's done tests three times after she missed her period. She says it's definitely mine because I'm the only guy she's slept with since she arrived at university. I started freaking out, she gave me her mobile number if I wanted to talk. I since rang her and asked her if she wanted to keep it and she said she wasn't sure, she didn't think she'd be able to go through the abortion (which I realise is totally fine and her decision). I know that I'm not ready to be a dad, I've just started university this year, I want to get my degree and get a good job afterwards and have children with a future partner when I'm ready. \n\nWhat options do I have? I presume if she has the baby she'll have to leave university. Is it morally wrong for me to not want to have anything to do with the child when she has it? Will I have to pay child support as I have no income apart from my parents? \n\nI've spoken to my best friend about this but he's not been very helpful, he suggested I try and press for an abortion and if not tell her I want nothing to do with it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend [20] and I [f17] have been together for over two years now and we both feel like the relationship has become unhealthy. We argue whenever we're together about heavy and petty things. Our sex life has gone to shit and he's really frustrated. and while I have a couple people to talk to about the relationship he doesn't feel like there's anyone he can trust enough to open up to and so he doesn't have the chance to vent or complain to someone which I think is making it all worse. \n\nWe've tried taking initiatives that we agreed upon to make things better and its not working. is counseling worth it? I suggested the idea but I'm doubting it. Neither one of us wants to break up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend [20] and I [f17] have been together for over two years now and we both feel like the relationship has become unhealthy. We argue whenever we're together about heavy and petty things. Our sex life has gone to shit and he's really frustrated. and while I have a couple people to talk to about the relationship he doesn't feel like there's anyone he can trust enough to open up to and so he doesn't have the chance to vent or complain to someone which I think is making it all worse. \n\nWe've tried taking initiatives that we agreed upon to make things better and its not working. is counseling worth it? I suggested the idea but I'm doubting it. Neither one of us wants to break up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend [20] and I [f17] have been together for over two years now and we both feel like the relationship has become unhealthy. We argue whenever we're together about heavy and petty things. Our sex life has gone to shit and he's really frustrated. and while I have a couple people to talk to about the relationship he doesn't feel like there's anyone he can trust enough to open up to and so he doesn't have the chance to vent or complain to someone which I think is making it all worse. \n\nWe've tried taking initiatives that we agreed upon to make things better and its not working. is counseling worth it? I suggested the idea but I'm doubting it. Neither one of us wants to break up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend [20] and I [f17] have been together for over two years now and we both feel like the relationship has become unhealthy. We argue whenever we're together about heavy and petty things. Our sex life has gone to shit and he's really frustrated. and while I have a couple people to talk to about the relationship he doesn't feel like there's anyone he can trust enough to open up to and so he doesn't have the chance to vent or complain to someone which I think is making it all worse. \n\nWe've tried taking initiatives that we agreed upon to make things better and its not working. is counseling worth it? I suggested the idea but I'm doubting it. Neither one of us wants to break up."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me, M 22, and my ex, F 20, broke up in October after being together for over a year. It was months ago, and still we miss each other. She's out of the country right now, and she'll be moving here in January. But she'll be home before she leaves for good. The entire relationship was amazing, but emotional personal stuff with me being at a low point in my life made us break up. We still get along just as well and still care even after all thats happened.\nWe don't know if it'll hurt us more to see each other and say goodbye, or if we don't see each other at all and try to ignore it.\nShould we talk and have the closure we never actually had, or should I not see her at all and just try to get over it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me, M 22, and my ex, F 20, broke up in October after being together for over a year. It was months ago, and still we miss each other. She's out of the country right now, and she'll be moving here in January. But she'll be home before she leaves for good. The entire relationship was amazing, but emotional personal stuff with me being at a low point in my life made us break up. We still get along just as well and still care even after all thats happened.\nWe don't know if it'll hurt us more to see each other and say goodbye, or if we don't see each other at all and try to ignore it.\nShould we talk and have the closure we never actually had, or should I not see her at all and just try to get over it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me, M 22, and my ex, F 20, broke up in October after being together for over a year. It was months ago, and still we miss each other. She's out of the country right now, and she'll be moving here in January. But she'll be home before she leaves for good. The entire relationship was amazing, but emotional personal stuff with me being at a low point in my life made us break up. We still get along just as well and still care even after all thats happened.\nWe don't know if it'll hurt us more to see each other and say goodbye, or if we don't see each other at all and try to ignore it.\nShould we talk and have the closure we never actually had, or should I not see her at all and just try to get over it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me, M 22, and my ex, F 20, broke up in October after being together for over a year. It was months ago, and still we miss each other. She's out of the country right now, and she'll be moving here in January. But she'll be home before she leaves for good. The entire relationship was amazing, but emotional personal stuff with me being at a low point in my life made us break up. We still get along just as well and still care even after all thats happened.\nWe don't know if it'll hurt us more to see each other and say goodbye, or if we don't see each other at all and try to ignore it.\nShould we talk and have the closure we never actually had, or should I not see her at all and just try to get over it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Out of all the people in this huge city and all the guy's I've met in the past year, it always comes back to him. It's obvious that we have feelings for each other but we've never acknowledged it. Instead, we find opportunities to go to \"work-related\" events together or work on work-related projects together and it always ends up feeling like we're hanging out like a couple. Since I've met him, I've gotten to see how he is with women in general and that's not how he is with me.\n\nLately the connection has been way more intense and closer to the surface. and I'm about to burst. I can't keep it in much longer. We work together on an almost weekly (not daily) basis and it's such a small team that I think we both realize how risky it would be if we even acknowledged our feelings for each other, let alone do something about it. He's very inaccessible as far as dating and romantic endeavors go but we've had very frank conversations about that topic in general and we both know where each other comes from. He's very open with me. We've quickly become great friends over the past year and I've never heard him speak of having close female friends and haven't met any either. We're extremely comfortable around each other and enjoy each other's company and it just feels right. We balance each other.\n\nIt kills me. I've been mostly single my whole life (and happily so) and so has he. I have other options as far as dating goes right now and they are lovely options. but compared to him, I don't want them. I don't even care. And now I have this torturous situation dangling in front of me more intensely than ever. My heart literally physically aches when I think about it. I'm at a complete loss."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Out of all the people in this huge city and all the guy's I've met in the past year, it always comes back to him. It's obvious that we have feelings for each other but we've never acknowledged it. Instead, we find opportunities to go to \"work-related\" events together or work on work-related projects together and it always ends up feeling like we're hanging out like a couple. Since I've met him, I've gotten to see how he is with women in general and that's not how he is with me.\n\nLately the connection has been way more intense and closer to the surface. and I'm about to burst. I can't keep it in much longer. We work together on an almost weekly (not daily) basis and it's such a small team that I think we both realize how risky it would be if we even acknowledged our feelings for each other, let alone do something about it. He's very inaccessible as far as dating and romantic endeavors go but we've had very frank conversations about that topic in general and we both know where each other comes from. He's very open with me. We've quickly become great friends over the past year and I've never heard him speak of having close female friends and haven't met any either. We're extremely comfortable around each other and enjoy each other's company and it just feels right. We balance each other.\n\nIt kills me. I've been mostly single my whole life (and happily so) and so has he. I have other options as far as dating goes right now and they are lovely options. but compared to him, I don't want them. I don't even care. And now I have this torturous situation dangling in front of me more intensely than ever. My heart literally physically aches when I think about it. I'm at a complete loss."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Out of all the people in this huge city and all the guy's I've met in the past year, it always comes back to him. It's obvious that we have feelings for each other but we've never acknowledged it. Instead, we find opportunities to go to \"work-related\" events together or work on work-related projects together and it always ends up feeling like we're hanging out like a couple. Since I've met him, I've gotten to see how he is with women in general and that's not how he is with me.\n\nLately the connection has been way more intense and closer to the surface. and I'm about to burst. I can't keep it in much longer. We work together on an almost weekly (not daily) basis and it's such a small team that I think we both realize how risky it would be if we even acknowledged our feelings for each other, let alone do something about it. He's very inaccessible as far as dating and romantic endeavors go but we've had very frank conversations about that topic in general and we both know where each other comes from. He's very open with me. We've quickly become great friends over the past year and I've never heard him speak of having close female friends and haven't met any either. We're extremely comfortable around each other and enjoy each other's company and it just feels right. We balance each other.\n\nIt kills me. I've been mostly single my whole life (and happily so) and so has he. I have other options as far as dating goes right now and they are lovely options. but compared to him, I don't want them. I don't even care. And now I have this torturous situation dangling in front of me more intensely than ever. My heart literally physically aches when I think about it. I'm at a complete loss."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Out of all the people in this huge city and all the guy's I've met in the past year, it always comes back to him. It's obvious that we have feelings for each other but we've never acknowledged it. Instead, we find opportunities to go to \"work-related\" events together or work on work-related projects together and it always ends up feeling like we're hanging out like a couple. Since I've met him, I've gotten to see how he is with women in general and that's not how he is with me.\n\nLately the connection has been way more intense and closer to the surface. and I'm about to burst. I can't keep it in much longer. We work together on an almost weekly (not daily) basis and it's such a small team that I think we both realize how risky it would be if we even acknowledged our feelings for each other, let alone do something about it. He's very inaccessible as far as dating and romantic endeavors go but we've had very frank conversations about that topic in general and we both know where each other comes from. He's very open with me. We've quickly become great friends over the past year and I've never heard him speak of having close female friends and haven't met any either. We're extremely comfortable around each other and enjoy each other's company and it just feels right. We balance each other.\n\nIt kills me. I've been mostly single my whole life (and happily so) and so has he. I have other options as far as dating goes right now and they are lovely options. but compared to him, I don't want them. I don't even care. And now I have this torturous situation dangling in front of me more intensely than ever. My heart literally physically aches when I think about it. I'm at a complete loss."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To start I am a 22 year old male who is currently a virgin. I’ve never been in a relationship with another guy before. I have had quasi-relationships with girls before but I didn’t want sex. I am now in what I consider my first real relationship in my new life. However, I have a big insecurity with sex because of my penis size. I have been feeling more insecure about it since I started college. I'm only a bit over 3 inches long and according to ww.penissizepredictor.com I should be over 5 inches based on my stats. It makes me feel very scared to engage in any sort of physical relationship because of my insecurity. The last 7 months I've been talking to this guy, my now bf. We met at an EDM event. We've become \"official\" as a couple but we haven't had sex yet. I felt so happy to have a relationship, being close to someone feels good. He is not a virgin though and has been comfy in his sexuality longer than I. Recently we got into an argument because he thinks I might not actually be gay and that I am just experimenting. He said that he thinks I am bi and that being bi is not a real sexual orientation. This was hurtful to me. I am not bisexual. I know I’m gay and I am fully sexually attracted only to men. I don't know if I should explain my insecurities to him. I don't think we can continue as we are. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To start I am a 22 year old male who is currently a virgin. I’ve never been in a relationship with another guy before. I have had quasi-relationships with girls before but I didn’t want sex. I am now in what I consider my first real relationship in my new life. However, I have a big insecurity with sex because of my penis size. I have been feeling more insecure about it since I started college. I'm only a bit over 3 inches long and according to ww.penissizepredictor.com I should be over 5 inches based on my stats. It makes me feel very scared to engage in any sort of physical relationship because of my insecurity. The last 7 months I've been talking to this guy, my now bf. We met at an EDM event. We've become \"official\" as a couple but we haven't had sex yet. I felt so happy to have a relationship, being close to someone feels good. He is not a virgin though and has been comfy in his sexuality longer than I. Recently we got into an argument because he thinks I might not actually be gay and that I am just experimenting. He said that he thinks I am bi and that being bi is not a real sexual orientation. This was hurtful to me. I am not bisexual. I know I’m gay and I am fully sexually attracted only to men. I don't know if I should explain my insecurities to him. I don't think we can continue as we are. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To start I am a 22 year old male who is currently a virgin. I’ve never been in a relationship with another guy before. I have had quasi-relationships with girls before but I didn’t want sex. I am now in what I consider my first real relationship in my new life. However, I have a big insecurity with sex because of my penis size. I have been feeling more insecure about it since I started college. I'm only a bit over 3 inches long and according to ww.penissizepredictor.com I should be over 5 inches based on my stats. It makes me feel very scared to engage in any sort of physical relationship because of my insecurity. The last 7 months I've been talking to this guy, my now bf. We met at an EDM event. We've become \"official\" as a couple but we haven't had sex yet. I felt so happy to have a relationship, being close to someone feels good. He is not a virgin though and has been comfy in his sexuality longer than I. Recently we got into an argument because he thinks I might not actually be gay and that I am just experimenting. He said that he thinks I am bi and that being bi is not a real sexual orientation. This was hurtful to me. I am not bisexual. I know I’m gay and I am fully sexually attracted only to men. I don't know if I should explain my insecurities to him. I don't think we can continue as we are. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To start I am a 22 year old male who is currently a virgin. I’ve never been in a relationship with another guy before. I have had quasi-relationships with girls before but I didn’t want sex. I am now in what I consider my first real relationship in my new life. However, I have a big insecurity with sex because of my penis size. I have been feeling more insecure about it since I started college. I'm only a bit over 3 inches long and according to ww.penissizepredictor.com I should be over 5 inches based on my stats. It makes me feel very scared to engage in any sort of physical relationship because of my insecurity. The last 7 months I've been talking to this guy, my now bf. We met at an EDM event. We've become \"official\" as a couple but we haven't had sex yet. I felt so happy to have a relationship, being close to someone feels good. He is not a virgin though and has been comfy in his sexuality longer than I. Recently we got into an argument because he thinks I might not actually be gay and that I am just experimenting. He said that he thinks I am bi and that being bi is not a real sexual orientation. This was hurtful to me. I am not bisexual. I know I’m gay and I am fully sexually attracted only to men. I don't know if I should explain my insecurities to him. I don't think we can continue as we are. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had this dog for close to 6 years now, we adopted her when she was young from the shelter and don't know too much about her background before that. Whenever I take the dog out on walks or to the dog park I have noticed that she doesn't get along well with other dogs sometimes, or she may even be aggressive towards other dogs. I am in the process of moving and my roommate has another dog, I'm afraid that my dog will not get along with his dog and I don't want to give her away. How can I get my dog to become friendlier around other dogs?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I’m not sure if this qualifies as an update, [but I made a previous post about the breakup]( I’m looking for some more insight on how to handle the upcoming vacation.\n\nMonths ago we planned a vacation across the country to see a special concert in May. I used to live in this city so I would be visiting family as well that I haven’t seen in nearly 9 years. I really tried but I didn’t believe I could keep our relationship together for another month before we go, but things escalated recently – I asked her to go home after she spent an evening yelling at me, and she banged on the windows and rung my doorbell for an hour – upsetting me and my roommate.\n\nShe has made it clear that she still wants to go on the trip together as friends. I’m not sure how I feel about that. I told her I was uncomfortable, and she’s accusing me of not only breaking her heart but ruining our planned vacation. The trip is in a month and I’m not sure how I will feel at that time – and I was concerned she may start arguments during the trip, one of the reasons I ended things.\n\nSome of the tickets we purchased (concert, airline) are non-refundable, but there may be ways to get credit I have to explore. Everything else is refundable, so I guess worst case scenario we would be out around $500 each, but probably less.\n\nAm I wrong for feeling uncomfortable about going on a trip with her right after breaking up? I honestly don’t know how I will feel then so I don’t want to make a commitment to go with her at this point. I was really looking forward to travelling and seeing old family, but I feel that it would be awkward to bring my ex-girlfriend to meet them. I suppose I would also feel weird going alone if I could somehow figure that out, since we planned the trip together.\n\nThanks everyone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I’m not sure if this qualifies as an update, [but I made a previous post about the breakup]( I’m looking for some more insight on how to handle the upcoming vacation.\n\nMonths ago we planned a vacation across the country to see a special concert in May. I used to live in this city so I would be visiting family as well that I haven’t seen in nearly 9 years. I really tried but I didn’t believe I could keep our relationship together for another month before we go, but things escalated recently – I asked her to go home after she spent an evening yelling at me, and she banged on the windows and rung my doorbell for an hour – upsetting me and my roommate.\n\nShe has made it clear that she still wants to go on the trip together as friends. I’m not sure how I feel about that. I told her I was uncomfortable, and she’s accusing me of not only breaking her heart but ruining our planned vacation. The trip is in a month and I’m not sure how I will feel at that time – and I was concerned she may start arguments during the trip, one of the reasons I ended things.\n\nSome of the tickets we purchased (concert, airline) are non-refundable, but there may be ways to get credit I have to explore. Everything else is refundable, so I guess worst case scenario we would be out around $500 each, but probably less.\n\nAm I wrong for feeling uncomfortable about going on a trip with her right after breaking up? I honestly don’t know how I will feel then so I don’t want to make a commitment to go with her at this point. I was really looking forward to travelling and seeing old family, but I feel that it would be awkward to bring my ex-girlfriend to meet them. I suppose I would also feel weird going alone if I could somehow figure that out, since we planned the trip together.\n\nThanks everyone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I’m not sure if this qualifies as an update, [but I made a previous post about the breakup]( I’m looking for some more insight on how to handle the upcoming vacation.\n\nMonths ago we planned a vacation across the country to see a special concert in May. I used to live in this city so I would be visiting family as well that I haven’t seen in nearly 9 years. I really tried but I didn’t believe I could keep our relationship together for another month before we go, but things escalated recently – I asked her to go home after she spent an evening yelling at me, and she banged on the windows and rung my doorbell for an hour – upsetting me and my roommate.\n\nShe has made it clear that she still wants to go on the trip together as friends. I’m not sure how I feel about that. I told her I was uncomfortable, and she’s accusing me of not only breaking her heart but ruining our planned vacation. The trip is in a month and I’m not sure how I will feel at that time – and I was concerned she may start arguments during the trip, one of the reasons I ended things.\n\nSome of the tickets we purchased (concert, airline) are non-refundable, but there may be ways to get credit I have to explore. Everything else is refundable, so I guess worst case scenario we would be out around $500 each, but probably less.\n\nAm I wrong for feeling uncomfortable about going on a trip with her right after breaking up? I honestly don’t know how I will feel then so I don’t want to make a commitment to go with her at this point. I was really looking forward to travelling and seeing old family, but I feel that it would be awkward to bring my ex-girlfriend to meet them. I suppose I would also feel weird going alone if I could somehow figure that out, since we planned the trip together.\n\nThanks everyone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I’m not sure if this qualifies as an update, [but I made a previous post about the breakup]( I’m looking for some more insight on how to handle the upcoming vacation.\n\nMonths ago we planned a vacation across the country to see a special concert in May. I used to live in this city so I would be visiting family as well that I haven’t seen in nearly 9 years. I really tried but I didn’t believe I could keep our relationship together for another month before we go, but things escalated recently – I asked her to go home after she spent an evening yelling at me, and she banged on the windows and rung my doorbell for an hour – upsetting me and my roommate.\n\nShe has made it clear that she still wants to go on the trip together as friends. I’m not sure how I feel about that. I told her I was uncomfortable, and she’s accusing me of not only breaking her heart but ruining our planned vacation. The trip is in a month and I’m not sure how I will feel at that time – and I was concerned she may start arguments during the trip, one of the reasons I ended things.\n\nSome of the tickets we purchased (concert, airline) are non-refundable, but there may be ways to get credit I have to explore. Everything else is refundable, so I guess worst case scenario we would be out around $500 each, but probably less.\n\nAm I wrong for feeling uncomfortable about going on a trip with her right after breaking up? I honestly don’t know how I will feel then so I don’t want to make a commitment to go with her at this point. I was really looking forward to travelling and seeing old family, but I feel that it would be awkward to bring my ex-girlfriend to meet them. I suppose I would also feel weird going alone if I could somehow figure that out, since we planned the trip together.\n\nThanks everyone."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been coworkers and friends with this guy for about 9 months now. We work at a camp so we live, eat, and work very close together. We started hanging out on weekends, like catching a movie, going to swing dance lessons, having talks in the office about everything under the sun, and I realized after a couple months that I was starting to develop feelings for him.\nI am not the sort of person to be blunt and go for something, especially when it runs the risk of workplace drama or anything like that. But camp ends in 2 weeks and I will be moving on to a new job. And every time I think about how I won't see him at work every day, or we won't hang out and watch movies or talk on the weekends, there's a part of my stomach that drops. So I want to tell him before we part ways.\n\nHe is an incredibly kind, outgoing, good hearted guy. I know he would be respectful and honest in the conversation, and he would be honest with me about his thoughts. I'm pretty sure he's going to say that he just wants to be friends, but I feel like I need to stop hiding this and pretending I don't care for him, and just get it off my chest. And also for that 1% chance he feels the same way.\n\nI've asked two close trusted friends for advice, and they have basically said it is a good idea to have a conversation about this, but also don't invest too much or overwhelm him. They both have no idea how he feels about me, since he is such an extrovert and loves to be close and personable with just about everyone. I simply want to let him know how I'm feeling, say I'm happy to remain friends or whatever he wants, and then continue on with the last week of work. Without freaking out and dying.\nAny advice or words I should say, how I should start the conversation, etc. would be appreciated. I'm so crazy nervous, but I think it is something that will be really good for me."
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