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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Said guy and I became friends through another friend a few semesters ago and started dating each other around October. We all go to the same college. He abruptly stopped inviting me over/accepting invitations to my place about two weeks ago, but still texts me fairly often and gets lunch with me a couple times a week. We never actually established if we were dating, and the recent development of \"we're probably not\" is starting to hurt like hell. Not sure what's going on in his head or what I should actually think about this. Mutual friend is not helpful since they had a falling out over a group project, and mutual friend just chocks it up to him being a closeted bastard.\n\nI had a few bad incidents that probably turned him off (got alcohol poisoning and he wound up saving me at the start this, had a couple bad anxiety attacks that resulted in me not being a fun person a week later). As far as I know though, he hasn't had much homework keeping him busy, because he's in one class and always doing nonschool things when we're texting.\n\nI'd talk to him about it, but he started going to bed ridiculously early (before 10pm, when I get out of work) and I don't have a schedule that allows me to see him during the day. On weekends he's been booked up with other stuff to do (recent development this semester. he hardly left his room previous semesters). Is there any good way I can deal with this aside from just accepting he lost interest?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had a crush on my friend Carl. We were hanging out together at a party (drinking together, hugging etc), when our mutual friend Sandra pulls him away from me and starts having a \"serious\" conversation with him.\n\nLater, Sandra tells me that she has made out with Carl a couple times. I was very surprised because Sandra has a boyfriend and I thought she loved him and it sounded like she regretted cheating on him. She also tells me that she is sorry for pulling Carl away (she did it because she was jealous) and that it would be okay if Carl and I started dating and she would be happy for us. \n\nFast forward a few weeks, Carl and I start dating. (Yay!) \nSandra tells me she's happy for us and then she goes and tells Carl that he should break up with me, he only chose me because I'm prettier and she would even consider breaking up with her boyfriend for him. (He said no.)\n\nI felt so betrayed because I'd always considered her a good friend. To this day Sandra doesn't know I know she did this. Since I found out about all this a few days before Sandra was moving to a different country, I decided I didn't want to start a big fight and just let it go and not trust Sandra with anything anymore.\n\nAll of this happened a year ago and I now live close to Sandra again and she keeps messaging me and trying to be my friend and I am nice to her but I just don't trust her anymore. I don't know what to do. I don't want to bring up what happened but I feel bad going NC after all this time. \n\nShould I try to forget what she did and try to be a friend again (I used to really, really like her and sometimes I miss her)? Or should I keep being kinda distant? Or go completely NC?\n\nAny advice would be appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had a crush on my friend Carl. We were hanging out together at a party (drinking together, hugging etc), when our mutual friend Sandra pulls him away from me and starts having a \"serious\" conversation with him.\n\nLater, Sandra tells me that she has made out with Carl a couple times. I was very surprised because Sandra has a boyfriend and I thought she loved him and it sounded like she regretted cheating on him. She also tells me that she is sorry for pulling Carl away (she did it because she was jealous) and that it would be okay if Carl and I started dating and she would be happy for us. \n\nFast forward a few weeks, Carl and I start dating. (Yay!) \nSandra tells me she's happy for us and then she goes and tells Carl that he should break up with me, he only chose me because I'm prettier and she would even consider breaking up with her boyfriend for him. (He said no.)\n\nI felt so betrayed because I'd always considered her a good friend. To this day Sandra doesn't know I know she did this. Since I found out about all this a few days before Sandra was moving to a different country, I decided I didn't want to start a big fight and just let it go and not trust Sandra with anything anymore.\n\nAll of this happened a year ago and I now live close to Sandra again and she keeps messaging me and trying to be my friend and I am nice to her but I just don't trust her anymore. I don't know what to do. I don't want to bring up what happened but I feel bad going NC after all this time. \n\nShould I try to forget what she did and try to be a friend again (I used to really, really like her and sometimes I miss her)? Or should I keep being kinda distant? Or go completely NC?\n\nAny advice would be appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had a crush on my friend Carl. We were hanging out together at a party (drinking together, hugging etc), when our mutual friend Sandra pulls him away from me and starts having a \"serious\" conversation with him.\n\nLater, Sandra tells me that she has made out with Carl a couple times. I was very surprised because Sandra has a boyfriend and I thought she loved him and it sounded like she regretted cheating on him. She also tells me that she is sorry for pulling Carl away (she did it because she was jealous) and that it would be okay if Carl and I started dating and she would be happy for us. \n\nFast forward a few weeks, Carl and I start dating. (Yay!) \nSandra tells me she's happy for us and then she goes and tells Carl that he should break up with me, he only chose me because I'm prettier and she would even consider breaking up with her boyfriend for him. (He said no.)\n\nI felt so betrayed because I'd always considered her a good friend. To this day Sandra doesn't know I know she did this. Since I found out about all this a few days before Sandra was moving to a different country, I decided I didn't want to start a big fight and just let it go and not trust Sandra with anything anymore.\n\nAll of this happened a year ago and I now live close to Sandra again and she keeps messaging me and trying to be my friend and I am nice to her but I just don't trust her anymore. I don't know what to do. I don't want to bring up what happened but I feel bad going NC after all this time. \n\nShould I try to forget what she did and try to be a friend again (I used to really, really like her and sometimes I miss her)? Or should I keep being kinda distant? Or go completely NC?\n\nAny advice would be appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had a crush on my friend Carl. We were hanging out together at a party (drinking together, hugging etc), when our mutual friend Sandra pulls him away from me and starts having a \"serious\" conversation with him.\n\nLater, Sandra tells me that she has made out with Carl a couple times. I was very surprised because Sandra has a boyfriend and I thought she loved him and it sounded like she regretted cheating on him. She also tells me that she is sorry for pulling Carl away (she did it because she was jealous) and that it would be okay if Carl and I started dating and she would be happy for us. \n\nFast forward a few weeks, Carl and I start dating. (Yay!) \nSandra tells me she's happy for us and then she goes and tells Carl that he should break up with me, he only chose me because I'm prettier and she would even consider breaking up with her boyfriend for him. (He said no.)\n\nI felt so betrayed because I'd always considered her a good friend. To this day Sandra doesn't know I know she did this. Since I found out about all this a few days before Sandra was moving to a different country, I decided I didn't want to start a big fight and just let it go and not trust Sandra with anything anymore.\n\nAll of this happened a year ago and I now live close to Sandra again and she keeps messaging me and trying to be my friend and I am nice to her but I just don't trust her anymore. I don't know what to do. I don't want to bring up what happened but I feel bad going NC after all this time. \n\nShould I try to forget what she did and try to be a friend again (I used to really, really like her and sometimes I miss her)? Or should I keep being kinda distant? Or go completely NC?\n\nAny advice would be appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi,\n\nI'm sorry this might get a little off topic but I needed to write this somewhere.\n\nSo I am interested in asking this girl out but I'm having some trouble actually going about it. I have known her for almost a year now and have communicated on and off in person, never really online. And before everyone goes and tells me, since you hardly see her why would you want to ask her out? We spent a good amount of time together 6-9 months ago which at least I enjoyed quite a bit, but I was in a relationship at the time. \n\nSince then I have seen her around campus, we go to the same Uni, and we've chatted but she is always with a friend which makes me hesitant to make a move. The real problem is that I know that we connect, just havn't spent that much time alone. On top of that I barely see her so asking her out or anything is hard, so this brings me to my question really. Since I don't have her cell phone # It seems my only option is to talk to her on facebook or email, and I don't really want to use email.\n\nI'm usually fine talking to girls but this is where I get lost. Is it too innaproioate or creepy or etc. to ask someone out via facebook? I have really no other means of communication and have a slim chance of running into her for a while."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi,\n\nI'm sorry this might get a little off topic but I needed to write this somewhere.\n\nSo I am interested in asking this girl out but I'm having some trouble actually going about it. I have known her for almost a year now and have communicated on and off in person, never really online. And before everyone goes and tells me, since you hardly see her why would you want to ask her out? We spent a good amount of time together 6-9 months ago which at least I enjoyed quite a bit, but I was in a relationship at the time. \n\nSince then I have seen her around campus, we go to the same Uni, and we've chatted but she is always with a friend which makes me hesitant to make a move. The real problem is that I know that we connect, just havn't spent that much time alone. On top of that I barely see her so asking her out or anything is hard, so this brings me to my question really. Since I don't have her cell phone # It seems my only option is to talk to her on facebook or email, and I don't really want to use email.\n\nI'm usually fine talking to girls but this is where I get lost. Is it too innaproioate or creepy or etc. to ask someone out via facebook? I have really no other means of communication and have a slim chance of running into her for a while."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi,\n\nI'm sorry this might get a little off topic but I needed to write this somewhere.\n\nSo I am interested in asking this girl out but I'm having some trouble actually going about it. I have known her for almost a year now and have communicated on and off in person, never really online. And before everyone goes and tells me, since you hardly see her why would you want to ask her out? We spent a good amount of time together 6-9 months ago which at least I enjoyed quite a bit, but I was in a relationship at the time. \n\nSince then I have seen her around campus, we go to the same Uni, and we've chatted but she is always with a friend which makes me hesitant to make a move. The real problem is that I know that we connect, just havn't spent that much time alone. On top of that I barely see her so asking her out or anything is hard, so this brings me to my question really. Since I don't have her cell phone # It seems my only option is to talk to her on facebook or email, and I don't really want to use email.\n\nI'm usually fine talking to girls but this is where I get lost. Is it too innaproioate or creepy or etc. to ask someone out via facebook? I have really no other means of communication and have a slim chance of running into her for a while."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi,\n\nI'm sorry this might get a little off topic but I needed to write this somewhere.\n\nSo I am interested in asking this girl out but I'm having some trouble actually going about it. I have known her for almost a year now and have communicated on and off in person, never really online. And before everyone goes and tells me, since you hardly see her why would you want to ask her out? We spent a good amount of time together 6-9 months ago which at least I enjoyed quite a bit, but I was in a relationship at the time. \n\nSince then I have seen her around campus, we go to the same Uni, and we've chatted but she is always with a friend which makes me hesitant to make a move. The real problem is that I know that we connect, just havn't spent that much time alone. On top of that I barely see her so asking her out or anything is hard, so this brings me to my question really. Since I don't have her cell phone # It seems my only option is to talk to her on facebook or email, and I don't really want to use email.\n\nI'm usually fine talking to girls but this is where I get lost. Is it too innaproioate or creepy or etc. to ask someone out via facebook? I have really no other means of communication and have a slim chance of running into her for a while."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with my girlfriend for just under a year and a half now, and I am realizing that she has never initiated or shown any desire to have sex. We have sex fairly often maybe once or twice a week, but after I brought this up she told me that she has never felt the urge to have sex or even masturbate. She only does it because she knows that I want to. I have a normal sex drive and I know that she would let me satisfy it when I need to but I just really want her to want sex and to enjoy sex so that it's something we do together rather than just for me. We are both only 20 so our hormones should be stronger now than ever right? It makes me feel uncomfortable about the thought have having sex with her knowing that she's not really interested and it makes me feel unwanted when I'm the only one who ever initiates it. I love her and I'm not leaving her (in case that's a suggestion) but I'd really like some advice on where to go from here. Also she's not on any hormones or birth control."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with my girlfriend for just under a year and a half now, and I am realizing that she has never initiated or shown any desire to have sex. We have sex fairly often maybe once or twice a week, but after I brought this up she told me that she has never felt the urge to have sex or even masturbate. She only does it because she knows that I want to. I have a normal sex drive and I know that she would let me satisfy it when I need to but I just really want her to want sex and to enjoy sex so that it's something we do together rather than just for me. We are both only 20 so our hormones should be stronger now than ever right? It makes me feel uncomfortable about the thought have having sex with her knowing that she's not really interested and it makes me feel unwanted when I'm the only one who ever initiates it. I love her and I'm not leaving her (in case that's a suggestion) but I'd really like some advice on where to go from here. Also she's not on any hormones or birth control."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with my girlfriend for just under a year and a half now, and I am realizing that she has never initiated or shown any desire to have sex. We have sex fairly often maybe once or twice a week, but after I brought this up she told me that she has never felt the urge to have sex or even masturbate. She only does it because she knows that I want to. I have a normal sex drive and I know that she would let me satisfy it when I need to but I just really want her to want sex and to enjoy sex so that it's something we do together rather than just for me. We are both only 20 so our hormones should be stronger now than ever right? It makes me feel uncomfortable about the thought have having sex with her knowing that she's not really interested and it makes me feel unwanted when I'm the only one who ever initiates it. I love her and I'm not leaving her (in case that's a suggestion) but I'd really like some advice on where to go from here. Also she's not on any hormones or birth control."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with my girlfriend for just under a year and a half now, and I am realizing that she has never initiated or shown any desire to have sex. We have sex fairly often maybe once or twice a week, but after I brought this up she told me that she has never felt the urge to have sex or even masturbate. She only does it because she knows that I want to. I have a normal sex drive and I know that she would let me satisfy it when I need to but I just really want her to want sex and to enjoy sex so that it's something we do together rather than just for me. We are both only 20 so our hormones should be stronger now than ever right? It makes me feel uncomfortable about the thought have having sex with her knowing that she's not really interested and it makes me feel unwanted when I'm the only one who ever initiates it. I love her and I'm not leaving her (in case that's a suggestion) but I'd really like some advice on where to go from here. Also she's not on any hormones or birth control."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi /r/relationships,\n\nI am a normal college student except by that fact that I don't like spending a lot of time out in the campus but rather in the library or labs where there is peace and silence. There is this girl whom I noticed is coming to the library a lot lately and I think she is pretty cute but since the library is full silence mode I dare not approach her about anything. I don't know the least information about her other than her major(because of the books). Normally I would talk to girls when we are on the same class or through mutual relationships but when it comes to 0 connection I don't know how I can not look like a creep.\n\nHow do you guys/girls go through with this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi /r/relationships,\n\nI am a normal college student except by that fact that I don't like spending a lot of time out in the campus but rather in the library or labs where there is peace and silence. There is this girl whom I noticed is coming to the library a lot lately and I think she is pretty cute but since the library is full silence mode I dare not approach her about anything. I don't know the least information about her other than her major(because of the books). Normally I would talk to girls when we are on the same class or through mutual relationships but when it comes to 0 connection I don't know how I can not look like a creep.\n\nHow do you guys/girls go through with this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi /r/relationships,\n\nI am a normal college student except by that fact that I don't like spending a lot of time out in the campus but rather in the library or labs where there is peace and silence. There is this girl whom I noticed is coming to the library a lot lately and I think she is pretty cute but since the library is full silence mode I dare not approach her about anything. I don't know the least information about her other than her major(because of the books). Normally I would talk to girls when we are on the same class or through mutual relationships but when it comes to 0 connection I don't know how I can not look like a creep.\n\nHow do you guys/girls go through with this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi /r/relationships,\n\nI am a normal college student except by that fact that I don't like spending a lot of time out in the campus but rather in the library or labs where there is peace and silence. There is this girl whom I noticed is coming to the library a lot lately and I think she is pretty cute but since the library is full silence mode I dare not approach her about anything. I don't know the least information about her other than her major(because of the books). Normally I would talk to girls when we are on the same class or through mutual relationships but when it comes to 0 connection I don't know how I can not look like a creep.\n\nHow do you guys/girls go through with this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been together for 2 and a half years. Smooth sailing throughout most of the relationship. Until she started getting busy with work when we moved together a month ago. She usually comes back home at 10 pm. One day when she came back she said let's manually stimulate each other but I could tell she didn't really want to, I felt like she just wanted to do it out of an obligation to satisfy me so I refused her. I was right, we fought and it turns out this whole time she hasn't enjoyed having sex or giving oral but still did it anyway because she thought that's what it meant to be a good girlfriend (she was a virgin before me). We broke up last week and got back together in a jiffy. But then yesterday she messaged me out of the blue again saying she was not so sure about being together with me. I just said if you're not sure lets break up. Our rent contract expires in february. How do I deal with living with an ex girlfriend for this amount of time? I'm not a marriage kind of guy but I definitely would have been happy with her as my wife."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been together for 2 and a half years. Smooth sailing throughout most of the relationship. Until she started getting busy with work when we moved together a month ago. She usually comes back home at 10 pm. One day when she came back she said let's manually stimulate each other but I could tell she didn't really want to, I felt like she just wanted to do it out of an obligation to satisfy me so I refused her. I was right, we fought and it turns out this whole time she hasn't enjoyed having sex or giving oral but still did it anyway because she thought that's what it meant to be a good girlfriend (she was a virgin before me). We broke up last week and got back together in a jiffy. But then yesterday she messaged me out of the blue again saying she was not so sure about being together with me. I just said if you're not sure lets break up. Our rent contract expires in february. How do I deal with living with an ex girlfriend for this amount of time? I'm not a marriage kind of guy but I definitely would have been happy with her as my wife."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been together for 2 and a half years. Smooth sailing throughout most of the relationship. Until she started getting busy with work when we moved together a month ago. She usually comes back home at 10 pm. One day when she came back she said let's manually stimulate each other but I could tell she didn't really want to, I felt like she just wanted to do it out of an obligation to satisfy me so I refused her. I was right, we fought and it turns out this whole time she hasn't enjoyed having sex or giving oral but still did it anyway because she thought that's what it meant to be a good girlfriend (she was a virgin before me). We broke up last week and got back together in a jiffy. But then yesterday she messaged me out of the blue again saying she was not so sure about being together with me. I just said if you're not sure lets break up. Our rent contract expires in february. How do I deal with living with an ex girlfriend for this amount of time? I'm not a marriage kind of guy but I definitely would have been happy with her as my wife."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been together for 2 and a half years. Smooth sailing throughout most of the relationship. Until she started getting busy with work when we moved together a month ago. She usually comes back home at 10 pm. One day when she came back she said let's manually stimulate each other but I could tell she didn't really want to, I felt like she just wanted to do it out of an obligation to satisfy me so I refused her. I was right, we fought and it turns out this whole time she hasn't enjoyed having sex or giving oral but still did it anyway because she thought that's what it meant to be a good girlfriend (she was a virgin before me). We broke up last week and got back together in a jiffy. But then yesterday she messaged me out of the blue again saying she was not so sure about being together with me. I just said if you're not sure lets break up. Our rent contract expires in february. How do I deal with living with an ex girlfriend for this amount of time? I'm not a marriage kind of guy but I definitely would have been happy with her as my wife."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been in a relationship with this girl for 4 months now. So far we've been getting along really well, share the same views on issues but cultivate different interests (which has been good for widening horizons), and all that jazz. It has felt amazing to finally liberate from some former relationship issues which kept tormenting me for around 3 years. \n\nHowever, it turns out she had my birthdate wrong when scheduling a 10-day trip with her friends to Iceland. Yesterday, she asked me to confirm my birthday as she was thinking of coming back 2 days early to be with me - because she had the date wrong, it turns out the day is actually in the middle of their trip (the dates for the trip are, apparently, non-negotiable). Consequently, she asked me I'd mind her not being present for my birthday.\n\nNow, I don't want to be a drama queen or to be an ass about it. I'm all for her having her own friends, plans, ideas, projects (same applies to me). I also realize she did try to plan her trip so that she could be with me on the date she thought right, and I do feel like it was an honest mistake. But because of my former relationship, I now fear being too understanding and being taken advantage of or disrespected beyond what's acceptable.\n\nI definitely feel sad about it. That's one thing. But Reddit, am I \"entitled\" to feeling mad at her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been in a relationship with this girl for 4 months now. So far we've been getting along really well, share the same views on issues but cultivate different interests (which has been good for widening horizons), and all that jazz. It has felt amazing to finally liberate from some former relationship issues which kept tormenting me for around 3 years. \n\nHowever, it turns out she had my birthdate wrong when scheduling a 10-day trip with her friends to Iceland. Yesterday, she asked me to confirm my birthday as she was thinking of coming back 2 days early to be with me - because she had the date wrong, it turns out the day is actually in the middle of their trip (the dates for the trip are, apparently, non-negotiable). Consequently, she asked me I'd mind her not being present for my birthday.\n\nNow, I don't want to be a drama queen or to be an ass about it. I'm all for her having her own friends, plans, ideas, projects (same applies to me). I also realize she did try to plan her trip so that she could be with me on the date she thought right, and I do feel like it was an honest mistake. But because of my former relationship, I now fear being too understanding and being taken advantage of or disrespected beyond what's acceptable.\n\nI definitely feel sad about it. That's one thing. But Reddit, am I \"entitled\" to feeling mad at her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been in a relationship with this girl for 4 months now. So far we've been getting along really well, share the same views on issues but cultivate different interests (which has been good for widening horizons), and all that jazz. It has felt amazing to finally liberate from some former relationship issues which kept tormenting me for around 3 years. \n\nHowever, it turns out she had my birthdate wrong when scheduling a 10-day trip with her friends to Iceland. Yesterday, she asked me to confirm my birthday as she was thinking of coming back 2 days early to be with me - because she had the date wrong, it turns out the day is actually in the middle of their trip (the dates for the trip are, apparently, non-negotiable). Consequently, she asked me I'd mind her not being present for my birthday.\n\nNow, I don't want to be a drama queen or to be an ass about it. I'm all for her having her own friends, plans, ideas, projects (same applies to me). I also realize she did try to plan her trip so that she could be with me on the date she thought right, and I do feel like it was an honest mistake. But because of my former relationship, I now fear being too understanding and being taken advantage of or disrespected beyond what's acceptable.\n\nI definitely feel sad about it. That's one thing. But Reddit, am I \"entitled\" to feeling mad at her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been in a relationship with this girl for 4 months now. So far we've been getting along really well, share the same views on issues but cultivate different interests (which has been good for widening horizons), and all that jazz. It has felt amazing to finally liberate from some former relationship issues which kept tormenting me for around 3 years. \n\nHowever, it turns out she had my birthdate wrong when scheduling a 10-day trip with her friends to Iceland. Yesterday, she asked me to confirm my birthday as she was thinking of coming back 2 days early to be with me - because she had the date wrong, it turns out the day is actually in the middle of their trip (the dates for the trip are, apparently, non-negotiable). Consequently, she asked me I'd mind her not being present for my birthday.\n\nNow, I don't want to be a drama queen or to be an ass about it. I'm all for her having her own friends, plans, ideas, projects (same applies to me). I also realize she did try to plan her trip so that she could be with me on the date she thought right, and I do feel like it was an honest mistake. But because of my former relationship, I now fear being too understanding and being taken advantage of or disrespected beyond what's acceptable.\n\nI definitely feel sad about it. That's one thing. But Reddit, am I \"entitled\" to feeling mad at her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me: F Early 20s Him: M Early 20s\n\nWe'll call my boyfriend \"T\".\n\nT and I started dating exclusively about a month and a half ago, and things have been going swimmingly! The entire time we've been dating we've both been having tons of fun, everything is so positive and enjoyable, it's great. The sex is phenomenal, we have a lot of the same opinions and views, and not to mention we're able to keep each other intellectually stimulated as well. We've even met some of each others family. In short, this is serious long term relationship material.\n\nThe thing is, I'm leaving to go to England in about a week. It's a study abroad program that lasts for three weeks, and I've had it planned for about a year now. T and I have talked about it, considering it's happening so early on in our relationship, and we both agree that we want to keep our relationship exclusive and stay together. \n\nGranted, I'll only be gone for three weeks, which is a lot less than other couples have to deal with, but I've never tried anything \"long-distance\" before, and I'm not exactly sure how to keep this great relationship up and running while I'm a whole ocean away. (Ex. Should we talk every day? What, besides just talking, could I do to keep some flirtatiousness/ romance alive? Etc.) In addition, T is being extremely supportive of me, but I can tell that he feels a bit sad that I'll be going away. (I honestly feel a bit bad too, haha. I'm really going to miss him!) Is there any way I can reassure him that I'll still be coming home \"to him\"? I somewhat have a hard time talking about my feelings. I really want this whole thing to work out, he is absolutely amazing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me: F Early 20s Him: M Early 20s\n\nWe'll call my boyfriend \"T\".\n\nT and I started dating exclusively about a month and a half ago, and things have been going swimmingly! The entire time we've been dating we've both been having tons of fun, everything is so positive and enjoyable, it's great. The sex is phenomenal, we have a lot of the same opinions and views, and not to mention we're able to keep each other intellectually stimulated as well. We've even met some of each others family. In short, this is serious long term relationship material.\n\nThe thing is, I'm leaving to go to England in about a week. It's a study abroad program that lasts for three weeks, and I've had it planned for about a year now. T and I have talked about it, considering it's happening so early on in our relationship, and we both agree that we want to keep our relationship exclusive and stay together. \n\nGranted, I'll only be gone for three weeks, which is a lot less than other couples have to deal with, but I've never tried anything \"long-distance\" before, and I'm not exactly sure how to keep this great relationship up and running while I'm a whole ocean away. (Ex. Should we talk every day? What, besides just talking, could I do to keep some flirtatiousness/ romance alive? Etc.) In addition, T is being extremely supportive of me, but I can tell that he feels a bit sad that I'll be going away. (I honestly feel a bit bad too, haha. I'm really going to miss him!) Is there any way I can reassure him that I'll still be coming home \"to him\"? I somewhat have a hard time talking about my feelings. I really want this whole thing to work out, he is absolutely amazing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me: F Early 20s Him: M Early 20s\n\nWe'll call my boyfriend \"T\".\n\nT and I started dating exclusively about a month and a half ago, and things have been going swimmingly! The entire time we've been dating we've both been having tons of fun, everything is so positive and enjoyable, it's great. The sex is phenomenal, we have a lot of the same opinions and views, and not to mention we're able to keep each other intellectually stimulated as well. We've even met some of each others family. In short, this is serious long term relationship material.\n\nThe thing is, I'm leaving to go to England in about a week. It's a study abroad program that lasts for three weeks, and I've had it planned for about a year now. T and I have talked about it, considering it's happening so early on in our relationship, and we both agree that we want to keep our relationship exclusive and stay together. \n\nGranted, I'll only be gone for three weeks, which is a lot less than other couples have to deal with, but I've never tried anything \"long-distance\" before, and I'm not exactly sure how to keep this great relationship up and running while I'm a whole ocean away. (Ex. Should we talk every day? What, besides just talking, could I do to keep some flirtatiousness/ romance alive? Etc.) In addition, T is being extremely supportive of me, but I can tell that he feels a bit sad that I'll be going away. (I honestly feel a bit bad too, haha. I'm really going to miss him!) Is there any way I can reassure him that I'll still be coming home \"to him\"? I somewhat have a hard time talking about my feelings. I really want this whole thing to work out, he is absolutely amazing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me: F Early 20s Him: M Early 20s\n\nWe'll call my boyfriend \"T\".\n\nT and I started dating exclusively about a month and a half ago, and things have been going swimmingly! The entire time we've been dating we've both been having tons of fun, everything is so positive and enjoyable, it's great. The sex is phenomenal, we have a lot of the same opinions and views, and not to mention we're able to keep each other intellectually stimulated as well. We've even met some of each others family. In short, this is serious long term relationship material.\n\nThe thing is, I'm leaving to go to England in about a week. It's a study abroad program that lasts for three weeks, and I've had it planned for about a year now. T and I have talked about it, considering it's happening so early on in our relationship, and we both agree that we want to keep our relationship exclusive and stay together. \n\nGranted, I'll only be gone for three weeks, which is a lot less than other couples have to deal with, but I've never tried anything \"long-distance\" before, and I'm not exactly sure how to keep this great relationship up and running while I'm a whole ocean away. (Ex. Should we talk every day? What, besides just talking, could I do to keep some flirtatiousness/ romance alive? Etc.) In addition, T is being extremely supportive of me, but I can tell that he feels a bit sad that I'll be going away. (I honestly feel a bit bad too, haha. I'm really going to miss him!) Is there any way I can reassure him that I'll still be coming home \"to him\"? I somewhat have a hard time talking about my feelings. I really want this whole thing to work out, he is absolutely amazing."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Edit: didn't realize I forgot to delete the default title after typing my own, woops.\n-\n\nI've realized that my inability to talk about my feelings is hindering my two year relationship with my SO [22 M]. The other day was the first time I was able to confront him about something I had an issue with, and it took me hours of me pouting and him probing me before I was able to say anything.\n\nI grew up in a household where my feelings were not welcomed or even valid; I was punished for feeling anything, or so it feels as I look back. I've never, ever dealt with years of physical abuse and emotional manipulation by my mother. By dealt with, I mean I have never openly discussed it or sought professional help, though I have contemplated it.\n\nI'm worried because I know it is so important for us to be able to communicate honestly and I know if I don't deal with this issue that I will lose him and so I'm looking for some insight.\n\nWhen I'm upset I bottle it up, shrug it off, let it fester, shut off, or hide. Or I'll just cry and say it's anxiety. I'll become condescending and standoffish towards my SO without saying what's wrong. I don't know why; I guess I'm afraid he won't understand where I'm coming from, or I'm afraid that my own feelings are incredibly stupid or irrational.\n\nNot only is it hard for me to express my thoughts and feelings to him, my unpredictable reactions make it hard for him to feel comfortable telling me things as well.\n\nWhile during our recent discussion we did agree to try and be more open with each other, I have no idea how to start."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Edit: didn't realize I forgot to delete the default title after typing my own, woops.\n-\n\nI've realized that my inability to talk about my feelings is hindering my two year relationship with my SO [22 M]. The other day was the first time I was able to confront him about something I had an issue with, and it took me hours of me pouting and him probing me before I was able to say anything.\n\nI grew up in a household where my feelings were not welcomed or even valid; I was punished for feeling anything, or so it feels as I look back. I've never, ever dealt with years of physical abuse and emotional manipulation by my mother. By dealt with, I mean I have never openly discussed it or sought professional help, though I have contemplated it.\n\nI'm worried because I know it is so important for us to be able to communicate honestly and I know if I don't deal with this issue that I will lose him and so I'm looking for some insight.\n\nWhen I'm upset I bottle it up, shrug it off, let it fester, shut off, or hide. Or I'll just cry and say it's anxiety. I'll become condescending and standoffish towards my SO without saying what's wrong. I don't know why; I guess I'm afraid he won't understand where I'm coming from, or I'm afraid that my own feelings are incredibly stupid or irrational.\n\nNot only is it hard for me to express my thoughts and feelings to him, my unpredictable reactions make it hard for him to feel comfortable telling me things as well.\n\nWhile during our recent discussion we did agree to try and be more open with each other, I have no idea how to start."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Edit: didn't realize I forgot to delete the default title after typing my own, woops.\n-\n\nI've realized that my inability to talk about my feelings is hindering my two year relationship with my SO [22 M]. The other day was the first time I was able to confront him about something I had an issue with, and it took me hours of me pouting and him probing me before I was able to say anything.\n\nI grew up in a household where my feelings were not welcomed or even valid; I was punished for feeling anything, or so it feels as I look back. I've never, ever dealt with years of physical abuse and emotional manipulation by my mother. By dealt with, I mean I have never openly discussed it or sought professional help, though I have contemplated it.\n\nI'm worried because I know it is so important for us to be able to communicate honestly and I know if I don't deal with this issue that I will lose him and so I'm looking for some insight.\n\nWhen I'm upset I bottle it up, shrug it off, let it fester, shut off, or hide. Or I'll just cry and say it's anxiety. I'll become condescending and standoffish towards my SO without saying what's wrong. I don't know why; I guess I'm afraid he won't understand where I'm coming from, or I'm afraid that my own feelings are incredibly stupid or irrational.\n\nNot only is it hard for me to express my thoughts and feelings to him, my unpredictable reactions make it hard for him to feel comfortable telling me things as well.\n\nWhile during our recent discussion we did agree to try and be more open with each other, I have no idea how to start."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Edit: didn't realize I forgot to delete the default title after typing my own, woops.\n-\n\nI've realized that my inability to talk about my feelings is hindering my two year relationship with my SO [22 M]. The other day was the first time I was able to confront him about something I had an issue with, and it took me hours of me pouting and him probing me before I was able to say anything.\n\nI grew up in a household where my feelings were not welcomed or even valid; I was punished for feeling anything, or so it feels as I look back. I've never, ever dealt with years of physical abuse and emotional manipulation by my mother. By dealt with, I mean I have never openly discussed it or sought professional help, though I have contemplated it.\n\nI'm worried because I know it is so important for us to be able to communicate honestly and I know if I don't deal with this issue that I will lose him and so I'm looking for some insight.\n\nWhen I'm upset I bottle it up, shrug it off, let it fester, shut off, or hide. Or I'll just cry and say it's anxiety. I'll become condescending and standoffish towards my SO without saying what's wrong. I don't know why; I guess I'm afraid he won't understand where I'm coming from, or I'm afraid that my own feelings are incredibly stupid or irrational.\n\nNot only is it hard for me to express my thoughts and feelings to him, my unpredictable reactions make it hard for him to feel comfortable telling me things as well.\n\nWhile during our recent discussion we did agree to try and be more open with each other, I have no idea how to start."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work at a public library with a slightly slow guy who seems unusually interested in me. For instance, I received a huge bouquet of roses as big as my fists for my birthday a month in advance. He has my schedule memorized. I recently got engaged, and he gave me a congratulations card with a hundred dollar bill inside. We have never socialized outside of work and I will probably not invite him to the wedding. I don't feel comfortable accepting the money as a gift but I don't want to offend or embarrass him by giving it back. We've worked together for only about 8 months. I haven't even gotten engagement cards from family members. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work at a public library with a slightly slow guy who seems unusually interested in me. For instance, I received a huge bouquet of roses as big as my fists for my birthday a month in advance. He has my schedule memorized. I recently got engaged, and he gave me a congratulations card with a hundred dollar bill inside. We have never socialized outside of work and I will probably not invite him to the wedding. I don't feel comfortable accepting the money as a gift but I don't want to offend or embarrass him by giving it back. We've worked together for only about 8 months. I haven't even gotten engagement cards from family members. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work at a public library with a slightly slow guy who seems unusually interested in me. For instance, I received a huge bouquet of roses as big as my fists for my birthday a month in advance. He has my schedule memorized. I recently got engaged, and he gave me a congratulations card with a hundred dollar bill inside. We have never socialized outside of work and I will probably not invite him to the wedding. I don't feel comfortable accepting the money as a gift but I don't want to offend or embarrass him by giving it back. We've worked together for only about 8 months. I haven't even gotten engagement cards from family members. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work at a public library with a slightly slow guy who seems unusually interested in me. For instance, I received a huge bouquet of roses as big as my fists for my birthday a month in advance. He has my schedule memorized. I recently got engaged, and he gave me a congratulations card with a hundred dollar bill inside. We have never socialized outside of work and I will probably not invite him to the wedding. I don't feel comfortable accepting the money as a gift but I don't want to offend or embarrass him by giving it back. We've worked together for only about 8 months. I haven't even gotten engagement cards from family members. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dont even know if I want to tell the whole story on here because it's so personal. I dont meet with my therapist until wed so I have a couple options. Cry and wonder, or reach out for help.\n\nI messed up and said some things that may have damaged the relationship between her and her tween daughter. The daughter has already had a hard life with 2 fathers ditching her, her mom is the only person she has that cares about her (besides grandparents). I was showing interest and helping the daughter learn how to program and design games. I feel like I was an awesome roll model and wanted to become her step dad if not adopt her completely to transition out of the last name of the guy who wants nothing to do with her. When things went down hill with me and her mom, I said things to the daughter about the mom that I shouldn't have.\n\nI've sent her money to take her daughter on a flight and stay out in Monterey and visit the aquarium. She's so mad I'm not even sure if she plans on going.\n\nI'm doing everything I can, sending flowers, saying I'm sorry, but it's almost like she thinks I don't mean it, or that I dont understand the gravity of the situation. I dont sleep at night I feel so much guilt, and if I do, I'm up at 4am in a cold sweet, turning over to see she's not there.\n\nHow do I make this right? I'll take however long, and spend every penny I have and write 1000's of apology notes if I have too.\n\nIs there anything that would stand out to any parents our there to help make fix this or to move forward from it? I wont quit, it's just not who I am."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dont even know if I want to tell the whole story on here because it's so personal. I dont meet with my therapist until wed so I have a couple options. Cry and wonder, or reach out for help.\n\nI messed up and said some things that may have damaged the relationship between her and her tween daughter. The daughter has already had a hard life with 2 fathers ditching her, her mom is the only person she has that cares about her (besides grandparents). I was showing interest and helping the daughter learn how to program and design games. I feel like I was an awesome roll model and wanted to become her step dad if not adopt her completely to transition out of the last name of the guy who wants nothing to do with her. When things went down hill with me and her mom, I said things to the daughter about the mom that I shouldn't have.\n\nI've sent her money to take her daughter on a flight and stay out in Monterey and visit the aquarium. She's so mad I'm not even sure if she plans on going.\n\nI'm doing everything I can, sending flowers, saying I'm sorry, but it's almost like she thinks I don't mean it, or that I dont understand the gravity of the situation. I dont sleep at night I feel so much guilt, and if I do, I'm up at 4am in a cold sweet, turning over to see she's not there.\n\nHow do I make this right? I'll take however long, and spend every penny I have and write 1000's of apology notes if I have too.\n\nIs there anything that would stand out to any parents our there to help make fix this or to move forward from it? I wont quit, it's just not who I am."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dont even know if I want to tell the whole story on here because it's so personal. I dont meet with my therapist until wed so I have a couple options. Cry and wonder, or reach out for help.\n\nI messed up and said some things that may have damaged the relationship between her and her tween daughter. The daughter has already had a hard life with 2 fathers ditching her, her mom is the only person she has that cares about her (besides grandparents). I was showing interest and helping the daughter learn how to program and design games. I feel like I was an awesome roll model and wanted to become her step dad if not adopt her completely to transition out of the last name of the guy who wants nothing to do with her. When things went down hill with me and her mom, I said things to the daughter about the mom that I shouldn't have.\n\nI've sent her money to take her daughter on a flight and stay out in Monterey and visit the aquarium. She's so mad I'm not even sure if she plans on going.\n\nI'm doing everything I can, sending flowers, saying I'm sorry, but it's almost like she thinks I don't mean it, or that I dont understand the gravity of the situation. I dont sleep at night I feel so much guilt, and if I do, I'm up at 4am in a cold sweet, turning over to see she's not there.\n\nHow do I make this right? I'll take however long, and spend every penny I have and write 1000's of apology notes if I have too.\n\nIs there anything that would stand out to any parents our there to help make fix this or to move forward from it? I wont quit, it's just not who I am."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I dont even know if I want to tell the whole story on here because it's so personal. I dont meet with my therapist until wed so I have a couple options. Cry and wonder, or reach out for help.\n\nI messed up and said some things that may have damaged the relationship between her and her tween daughter. The daughter has already had a hard life with 2 fathers ditching her, her mom is the only person she has that cares about her (besides grandparents). I was showing interest and helping the daughter learn how to program and design games. I feel like I was an awesome roll model and wanted to become her step dad if not adopt her completely to transition out of the last name of the guy who wants nothing to do with her. When things went down hill with me and her mom, I said things to the daughter about the mom that I shouldn't have.\n\nI've sent her money to take her daughter on a flight and stay out in Monterey and visit the aquarium. She's so mad I'm not even sure if she plans on going.\n\nI'm doing everything I can, sending flowers, saying I'm sorry, but it's almost like she thinks I don't mean it, or that I dont understand the gravity of the situation. I dont sleep at night I feel so much guilt, and if I do, I'm up at 4am in a cold sweet, turning over to see she's not there.\n\nHow do I make this right? I'll take however long, and spend every penny I have and write 1000's of apology notes if I have too.\n\nIs there anything that would stand out to any parents our there to help make fix this or to move forward from it? I wont quit, it's just not who I am."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, a quick little back story about myself first I guess. \n\nIn highschool (and now too I guess haha) I was clueless about whether a girl liked me or not so I never made any advances because I'd rather stay friends without it getting awkward if she didn't like me, had a couple of them tell me they liked me about a couple months or year later (ouch).\n\nFast forward to now and I meet this girl, I've known her for couple months now and finally got the courage to ask her to movies (because a friend of mine told me he thought she liked me) then about a week later we go out for coffee/hang out for couple hours.\n\nI'm thinking she likes me but how do I bring up/ask if we are going to make this serious, or if we are already on that track. With VDay coming up she might want to take it slow, she doesn't seem to like romantic things from things she's mentioned and maybe she just doesn't want to rush into a relationship. \n\nLike I mentioned before I don't want to make it awkward if she just wants to be friends as opposed to a couple."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, a quick little back story about myself first I guess. \n\nIn highschool (and now too I guess haha) I was clueless about whether a girl liked me or not so I never made any advances because I'd rather stay friends without it getting awkward if she didn't like me, had a couple of them tell me they liked me about a couple months or year later (ouch).\n\nFast forward to now and I meet this girl, I've known her for couple months now and finally got the courage to ask her to movies (because a friend of mine told me he thought she liked me) then about a week later we go out for coffee/hang out for couple hours.\n\nI'm thinking she likes me but how do I bring up/ask if we are going to make this serious, or if we are already on that track. With VDay coming up she might want to take it slow, she doesn't seem to like romantic things from things she's mentioned and maybe she just doesn't want to rush into a relationship. \n\nLike I mentioned before I don't want to make it awkward if she just wants to be friends as opposed to a couple."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, a quick little back story about myself first I guess. \n\nIn highschool (and now too I guess haha) I was clueless about whether a girl liked me or not so I never made any advances because I'd rather stay friends without it getting awkward if she didn't like me, had a couple of them tell me they liked me about a couple months or year later (ouch).\n\nFast forward to now and I meet this girl, I've known her for couple months now and finally got the courage to ask her to movies (because a friend of mine told me he thought she liked me) then about a week later we go out for coffee/hang out for couple hours.\n\nI'm thinking she likes me but how do I bring up/ask if we are going to make this serious, or if we are already on that track. With VDay coming up she might want to take it slow, she doesn't seem to like romantic things from things she's mentioned and maybe she just doesn't want to rush into a relationship. \n\nLike I mentioned before I don't want to make it awkward if she just wants to be friends as opposed to a couple."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, a quick little back story about myself first I guess. \n\nIn highschool (and now too I guess haha) I was clueless about whether a girl liked me or not so I never made any advances because I'd rather stay friends without it getting awkward if she didn't like me, had a couple of them tell me they liked me about a couple months or year later (ouch).\n\nFast forward to now and I meet this girl, I've known her for couple months now and finally got the courage to ask her to movies (because a friend of mine told me he thought she liked me) then about a week later we go out for coffee/hang out for couple hours.\n\nI'm thinking she likes me but how do I bring up/ask if we are going to make this serious, or if we are already on that track. With VDay coming up she might want to take it slow, she doesn't seem to like romantic things from things she's mentioned and maybe she just doesn't want to rush into a relationship. \n\nLike I mentioned before I don't want to make it awkward if she just wants to be friends as opposed to a couple."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Bit of background, I am 18, male, and he is 18, nearly 19, and also male. We've known each other for about 2 and a half years and have grown super close. We are both LDS (Mormons) and happily so. Both of us are actually preparing to go serve as missionaries.\n\nI've been questioning my sexuality for a couple of years now and pretty much still am. I think of myself as straight because I'm very attracted to girls but I've also had a few occasions where I've felt attracted to another guy. I don't really like putting a label on myself though.\n\nThat said I invited my best friend over because we haven't seen each other in a while and just wanted to hang out. I was going to invite some other friends but I got lazy and it ended up as just the two of us. We were watching the movie Groundhog Day, starring Bill Murray, because he'd never seen it and it's one of my all time favorites.\n\n Every now and then there would be a funny moment in the film and I'd look over at him and we'd lock eyes briefly and sometimes if have a quick intrusive thought about getting physical with him. Nothing specific or anything just sort of us, together.\n\n He's my best friend and I love him like a brother but these intrusive thoughts make me pretty uncomfortable. I think it's just because he's my best friend, like if I had this sort of thing happen with a different guy I don't think I'd be as weirded out but because my friend and I are so close I just feel really confused.\n\nWe we're both raised in very religious families and like I said are both very religious ourselves. Personally I pretty much have always been at peace with who I am and if I'm attracted to the same sex then I don't really have any conflict, spiritually speaking or whatever. I don't doubt that being LDS has some part in how uncomfortable I feel about all of this but I think that over 90% of it comes from thinking of my best friend in a sexual way.\n\nShould I confront my friend about this? I don't actually want to be anything more than friends with him and I feel like if I told him I might damage our friendship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Bit of background, I am 18, male, and he is 18, nearly 19, and also male. We've known each other for about 2 and a half years and have grown super close. We are both LDS (Mormons) and happily so. Both of us are actually preparing to go serve as missionaries.\n\nI've been questioning my sexuality for a couple of years now and pretty much still am. I think of myself as straight because I'm very attracted to girls but I've also had a few occasions where I've felt attracted to another guy. I don't really like putting a label on myself though.\n\nThat said I invited my best friend over because we haven't seen each other in a while and just wanted to hang out. I was going to invite some other friends but I got lazy and it ended up as just the two of us. We were watching the movie Groundhog Day, starring Bill Murray, because he'd never seen it and it's one of my all time favorites.\n\n Every now and then there would be a funny moment in the film and I'd look over at him and we'd lock eyes briefly and sometimes if have a quick intrusive thought about getting physical with him. Nothing specific or anything just sort of us, together.\n\n He's my best friend and I love him like a brother but these intrusive thoughts make me pretty uncomfortable. I think it's just because he's my best friend, like if I had this sort of thing happen with a different guy I don't think I'd be as weirded out but because my friend and I are so close I just feel really confused.\n\nWe we're both raised in very religious families and like I said are both very religious ourselves. Personally I pretty much have always been at peace with who I am and if I'm attracted to the same sex then I don't really have any conflict, spiritually speaking or whatever. I don't doubt that being LDS has some part in how uncomfortable I feel about all of this but I think that over 90% of it comes from thinking of my best friend in a sexual way.\n\nShould I confront my friend about this? I don't actually want to be anything more than friends with him and I feel like if I told him I might damage our friendship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Bit of background, I am 18, male, and he is 18, nearly 19, and also male. We've known each other for about 2 and a half years and have grown super close. We are both LDS (Mormons) and happily so. Both of us are actually preparing to go serve as missionaries.\n\nI've been questioning my sexuality for a couple of years now and pretty much still am. I think of myself as straight because I'm very attracted to girls but I've also had a few occasions where I've felt attracted to another guy. I don't really like putting a label on myself though.\n\nThat said I invited my best friend over because we haven't seen each other in a while and just wanted to hang out. I was going to invite some other friends but I got lazy and it ended up as just the two of us. We were watching the movie Groundhog Day, starring Bill Murray, because he'd never seen it and it's one of my all time favorites.\n\n Every now and then there would be a funny moment in the film and I'd look over at him and we'd lock eyes briefly and sometimes if have a quick intrusive thought about getting physical with him. Nothing specific or anything just sort of us, together.\n\n He's my best friend and I love him like a brother but these intrusive thoughts make me pretty uncomfortable. I think it's just because he's my best friend, like if I had this sort of thing happen with a different guy I don't think I'd be as weirded out but because my friend and I are so close I just feel really confused.\n\nWe we're both raised in very religious families and like I said are both very religious ourselves. Personally I pretty much have always been at peace with who I am and if I'm attracted to the same sex then I don't really have any conflict, spiritually speaking or whatever. I don't doubt that being LDS has some part in how uncomfortable I feel about all of this but I think that over 90% of it comes from thinking of my best friend in a sexual way.\n\nShould I confront my friend about this? I don't actually want to be anything more than friends with him and I feel like if I told him I might damage our friendship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Bit of background, I am 18, male, and he is 18, nearly 19, and also male. We've known each other for about 2 and a half years and have grown super close. We are both LDS (Mormons) and happily so. Both of us are actually preparing to go serve as missionaries.\n\nI've been questioning my sexuality for a couple of years now and pretty much still am. I think of myself as straight because I'm very attracted to girls but I've also had a few occasions where I've felt attracted to another guy. I don't really like putting a label on myself though.\n\nThat said I invited my best friend over because we haven't seen each other in a while and just wanted to hang out. I was going to invite some other friends but I got lazy and it ended up as just the two of us. We were watching the movie Groundhog Day, starring Bill Murray, because he'd never seen it and it's one of my all time favorites.\n\n Every now and then there would be a funny moment in the film and I'd look over at him and we'd lock eyes briefly and sometimes if have a quick intrusive thought about getting physical with him. Nothing specific or anything just sort of us, together.\n\n He's my best friend and I love him like a brother but these intrusive thoughts make me pretty uncomfortable. I think it's just because he's my best friend, like if I had this sort of thing happen with a different guy I don't think I'd be as weirded out but because my friend and I are so close I just feel really confused.\n\nWe we're both raised in very religious families and like I said are both very religious ourselves. Personally I pretty much have always been at peace with who I am and if I'm attracted to the same sex then I don't really have any conflict, spiritually speaking or whatever. I don't doubt that being LDS has some part in how uncomfortable I feel about all of this but I think that over 90% of it comes from thinking of my best friend in a sexual way.\n\nShould I confront my friend about this? I don't actually want to be anything more than friends with him and I feel like if I told him I might damage our friendship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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