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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I [F, 19 and M,22] have been together for nearly 6 months. We had an intensely fiery start to our relationship, and have been very deeply in love. We are long-distance (Ireland to England), and so spend nearly every waking moment on Skype and texting. We have so many things in common, so many aspirations in life and agree on everything. We would make a perfect long-term couple, and we've discussed this.\n\nRecently though, things haven't been going as well as I'd hoped, and we officially admitted today the problem:\nHe likes to tease. I don't. \n\nIt's just me, I've always been sensitive to teasing. When someone says \"oh well that's just cause you're stupid :p\", I laugh, but inside my heart breaks a little. Every. Single. Time.\n\nAnd it's just him, he does that to every single one of his friends, and always has. He's British. It's how he communicates.\n\nI want this relationship to work out, desperately, as does he. We love each other, and we want to spend our lives together. But I've been going through a pretty bad bit of hormone-related depression recently, which is only aggravated by his occasional teasing (even though he's been incredibly supportive!) \nHe can't change how he talks, as it's what he's always done. He does tone it down a lot for me, but he's not going to change any more than that.\n\nI would love to have a thicker skin, to not be heartbroken every time he says something jokingly unkind (he's SO loving the rest of the time!). How do I do it? \n\nHelp."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit. Around 2 years ago, during my last year in collage i started having back aches, after bouncing between a ton of doctors it only grew stronger and stronger until at one point i wasn't really able to get to the collage unless it was to do the finals, and i needed the help of around 1200mg of painkillers daily just to move.\n\nObviously i was in no state to finish up the year, though i was able to get decent grades on the finals i missed around half a semester in project guiding lectures.\n\nI did my best to try and make up what i missed in the lectures, but since it was more of a workshop kinda thing, other people's notes did help me too much.\n\nI was able to implement a DB and a user account system that works fine for the most part and some html/css is in place. But after that i found myself lost and grasping at straws so i got stuck. Also, after recovering from the slipped disk i managed to find a job which occupied most of my time and the project (which is the only thing i'm lacking for the degree) kinda took a backseat to working my ass off. I kept saying to myself \"i've got time to finish it, i need to focus on being the best employee i can be\".\n\nFast forward 2 years, and the deadline for m project is coming fast. Since i've got some quiet time during the following week or two, i was hoping i could finish the damn thing. Problem is, i have no idea where to start. Any searches i do on stackoverflow (or anywhere else really) can only guide me to a solution to a certain part of my project, but what i need is an idea on what needs to be done next.\n\nSo here's the part i need your help with: Can any one of you who can find his way around an ASP.NET project be able to lend a guiding hand, look at the project, and set me on the right path to finishing it at acquiring my degree?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit. Around 2 years ago, during my last year in collage i started having back aches, after bouncing between a ton of doctors it only grew stronger and stronger until at one point i wasn't really able to get to the collage unless it was to do the finals, and i needed the help of around 1200mg of painkillers daily just to move.\n\nObviously i was in no state to finish up the year, though i was able to get decent grades on the finals i missed around half a semester in project guiding lectures.\n\nI did my best to try and make up what i missed in the lectures, but since it was more of a workshop kinda thing, other people's notes did help me too much.\n\nI was able to implement a DB and a user account system that works fine for the most part and some html/css is in place. But after that i found myself lost and grasping at straws so i got stuck. Also, after recovering from the slipped disk i managed to find a job which occupied most of my time and the project (which is the only thing i'm lacking for the degree) kinda took a backseat to working my ass off. I kept saying to myself \"i've got time to finish it, i need to focus on being the best employee i can be\".\n\nFast forward 2 years, and the deadline for m project is coming fast. Since i've got some quiet time during the following week or two, i was hoping i could finish the damn thing. Problem is, i have no idea where to start. Any searches i do on stackoverflow (or anywhere else really) can only guide me to a solution to a certain part of my project, but what i need is an idea on what needs to be done next.\n\nSo here's the part i need your help with: Can any one of you who can find his way around an ASP.NET project be able to lend a guiding hand, look at the project, and set me on the right path to finishing it at acquiring my degree?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit. Around 2 years ago, during my last year in collage i started having back aches, after bouncing between a ton of doctors it only grew stronger and stronger until at one point i wasn't really able to get to the collage unless it was to do the finals, and i needed the help of around 1200mg of painkillers daily just to move.\n\nObviously i was in no state to finish up the year, though i was able to get decent grades on the finals i missed around half a semester in project guiding lectures.\n\nI did my best to try and make up what i missed in the lectures, but since it was more of a workshop kinda thing, other people's notes did help me too much.\n\nI was able to implement a DB and a user account system that works fine for the most part and some html/css is in place. But after that i found myself lost and grasping at straws so i got stuck. Also, after recovering from the slipped disk i managed to find a job which occupied most of my time and the project (which is the only thing i'm lacking for the degree) kinda took a backseat to working my ass off. I kept saying to myself \"i've got time to finish it, i need to focus on being the best employee i can be\".\n\nFast forward 2 years, and the deadline for m project is coming fast. Since i've got some quiet time during the following week or two, i was hoping i could finish the damn thing. Problem is, i have no idea where to start. Any searches i do on stackoverflow (or anywhere else really) can only guide me to a solution to a certain part of my project, but what i need is an idea on what needs to be done next.\n\nSo here's the part i need your help with: Can any one of you who can find his way around an ASP.NET project be able to lend a guiding hand, look at the project, and set me on the right path to finishing it at acquiring my degree?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi reddit. Around 2 years ago, during my last year in collage i started having back aches, after bouncing between a ton of doctors it only grew stronger and stronger until at one point i wasn't really able to get to the collage unless it was to do the finals, and i needed the help of around 1200mg of painkillers daily just to move.\n\nObviously i was in no state to finish up the year, though i was able to get decent grades on the finals i missed around half a semester in project guiding lectures.\n\nI did my best to try and make up what i missed in the lectures, but since it was more of a workshop kinda thing, other people's notes did help me too much.\n\nI was able to implement a DB and a user account system that works fine for the most part and some html/css is in place. But after that i found myself lost and grasping at straws so i got stuck. Also, after recovering from the slipped disk i managed to find a job which occupied most of my time and the project (which is the only thing i'm lacking for the degree) kinda took a backseat to working my ass off. I kept saying to myself \"i've got time to finish it, i need to focus on being the best employee i can be\".\n\nFast forward 2 years, and the deadline for m project is coming fast. Since i've got some quiet time during the following week or two, i was hoping i could finish the damn thing. Problem is, i have no idea where to start. Any searches i do on stackoverflow (or anywhere else really) can only guide me to a solution to a certain part of my project, but what i need is an idea on what needs to be done next.\n\nSo here's the part i need your help with: Can any one of you who can find his way around an ASP.NET project be able to lend a guiding hand, look at the project, and set me on the right path to finishing it at acquiring my degree?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am not quite sure where to put this. But I feel like it was supposed to be in here. Sorry for its placed the wrongly.\n\nWe met at a job where I was one of the instructors and she was an actress working there. We instantly fell in love with each other when we met. The main problem about this is, that she is in a 7 year relationship where she is by her own words, together with \"the one true love\". Well things are complicated, as her boyfriend is a good friend of the other actors working there and as an instructor i am under strict order NOT to flirt with the \"students\". \n \nI have never been so much in love with anyone than her. I know she is my one true love. And I do really love her with all my heart. We spent one night together and several days fooling around.\n \nShe has made her decision, she stays with her boyfriend and she regrets being with me. He is her one true love, but she cannot let go of me neither. She doesnt want to loose me. \n\nToday I had to let her go. It was the hardest decision i have ever made. I have for a long time kept this stupid idiotic hope that maybe, just maybe one day would luck smile upon me, and she would choose me over him. I have never been so wrong. Today was the day i couldnt take it anymore. If i truly loved her, i would let her be with the man who made her happy. That wasn't me, so the only good thing to do because i love her. is to let her go.\n\nYou cannot be happy as long as i am there reminding you of what we had. I can see the pain in your eyes everytime you look at me, and the guilt you feel. So I choose to let you go. For you, for me, for us. Goodbye my love. \n\nEdit: sorry if my grammar and spelling is not good. English is not my first language."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am not quite sure where to put this. But I feel like it was supposed to be in here. Sorry for its placed the wrongly.\n\nWe met at a job where I was one of the instructors and she was an actress working there. We instantly fell in love with each other when we met. The main problem about this is, that she is in a 7 year relationship where she is by her own words, together with \"the one true love\". Well things are complicated, as her boyfriend is a good friend of the other actors working there and as an instructor i am under strict order NOT to flirt with the \"students\". \n \nI have never been so much in love with anyone than her. I know she is my one true love. And I do really love her with all my heart. We spent one night together and several days fooling around.\n \nShe has made her decision, she stays with her boyfriend and she regrets being with me. He is her one true love, but she cannot let go of me neither. She doesnt want to loose me. \n\nToday I had to let her go. It was the hardest decision i have ever made. I have for a long time kept this stupid idiotic hope that maybe, just maybe one day would luck smile upon me, and she would choose me over him. I have never been so wrong. Today was the day i couldnt take it anymore. If i truly loved her, i would let her be with the man who made her happy. That wasn't me, so the only good thing to do because i love her. is to let her go.\n\nYou cannot be happy as long as i am there reminding you of what we had. I can see the pain in your eyes everytime you look at me, and the guilt you feel. So I choose to let you go. For you, for me, for us. Goodbye my love. \n\nEdit: sorry if my grammar and spelling is not good. English is not my first language."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am not quite sure where to put this. But I feel like it was supposed to be in here. Sorry for its placed the wrongly.\n\nWe met at a job where I was one of the instructors and she was an actress working there. We instantly fell in love with each other when we met. The main problem about this is, that she is in a 7 year relationship where she is by her own words, together with \"the one true love\". Well things are complicated, as her boyfriend is a good friend of the other actors working there and as an instructor i am under strict order NOT to flirt with the \"students\". \n \nI have never been so much in love with anyone than her. I know she is my one true love. And I do really love her with all my heart. We spent one night together and several days fooling around.\n \nShe has made her decision, she stays with her boyfriend and she regrets being with me. He is her one true love, but she cannot let go of me neither. She doesnt want to loose me. \n\nToday I had to let her go. It was the hardest decision i have ever made. I have for a long time kept this stupid idiotic hope that maybe, just maybe one day would luck smile upon me, and she would choose me over him. I have never been so wrong. Today was the day i couldnt take it anymore. If i truly loved her, i would let her be with the man who made her happy. That wasn't me, so the only good thing to do because i love her. is to let her go.\n\nYou cannot be happy as long as i am there reminding you of what we had. I can see the pain in your eyes everytime you look at me, and the guilt you feel. So I choose to let you go. For you, for me, for us. Goodbye my love. \n\nEdit: sorry if my grammar and spelling is not good. English is not my first language."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am not quite sure where to put this. But I feel like it was supposed to be in here. Sorry for its placed the wrongly.\n\nWe met at a job where I was one of the instructors and she was an actress working there. We instantly fell in love with each other when we met. The main problem about this is, that she is in a 7 year relationship where she is by her own words, together with \"the one true love\". Well things are complicated, as her boyfriend is a good friend of the other actors working there and as an instructor i am under strict order NOT to flirt with the \"students\". \n \nI have never been so much in love with anyone than her. I know she is my one true love. And I do really love her with all my heart. We spent one night together and several days fooling around.\n \nShe has made her decision, she stays with her boyfriend and she regrets being with me. He is her one true love, but she cannot let go of me neither. She doesnt want to loose me. \n\nToday I had to let her go. It was the hardest decision i have ever made. I have for a long time kept this stupid idiotic hope that maybe, just maybe one day would luck smile upon me, and she would choose me over him. I have never been so wrong. Today was the day i couldnt take it anymore. If i truly loved her, i would let her be with the man who made her happy. That wasn't me, so the only good thing to do because i love her. is to let her go.\n\nYou cannot be happy as long as i am there reminding you of what we had. I can see the pain in your eyes everytime you look at me, and the guilt you feel. So I choose to let you go. For you, for me, for us. Goodbye my love. \n\nEdit: sorry if my grammar and spelling is not good. English is not my first language."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well first time posting here hoping to get some help. \n\nLast week I got some texts that my wife was seeing someone else. I confronted her on this and she denied it. We got into a fight about it and she told me that maybe it was a mistake we got married(together 3 years, married since may). She needed time to think about it. \n\nI went to crash at my dads place but forgot my work laptop. Went home at 11 and she wasn't there. I drove past her friends place on the way back to dads and she wasn't there. I asked her the next day that I was worried the dogs were home alone at 11 and she said she just went to her friends by name. I told her that I had stopped by. She the. Confessed she has been having an emotional affair with someone but nothing physical. She cried and stuff and begged me not to leave her. She isn't sure if she wants to stay with me though. This was Tuesday.\n\n We went out together to finish Christmas shopping and held hands and cuddled yesterday. I slept at home and we held each other. Unfortunately today we are spending apart. \n\nI don't know what the hell to do. I talked to her and she said there's nothing I am doing wrong. I am really good to her actually she just feels sad. I'm willing to work through the infidelity but damn it feels like she just doesn't want me to leave. She says she does really love me.\n\nSorry about the rambling and broken thoughts. Having a hard time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well first time posting here hoping to get some help. \n\nLast week I got some texts that my wife was seeing someone else. I confronted her on this and she denied it. We got into a fight about it and she told me that maybe it was a mistake we got married(together 3 years, married since may). She needed time to think about it. \n\nI went to crash at my dads place but forgot my work laptop. Went home at 11 and she wasn't there. I drove past her friends place on the way back to dads and she wasn't there. I asked her the next day that I was worried the dogs were home alone at 11 and she said she just went to her friends by name. I told her that I had stopped by. She the. Confessed she has been having an emotional affair with someone but nothing physical. She cried and stuff and begged me not to leave her. She isn't sure if she wants to stay with me though. This was Tuesday.\n\n We went out together to finish Christmas shopping and held hands and cuddled yesterday. I slept at home and we held each other. Unfortunately today we are spending apart. \n\nI don't know what the hell to do. I talked to her and she said there's nothing I am doing wrong. I am really good to her actually she just feels sad. I'm willing to work through the infidelity but damn it feels like she just doesn't want me to leave. She says she does really love me.\n\nSorry about the rambling and broken thoughts. Having a hard time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well first time posting here hoping to get some help. \n\nLast week I got some texts that my wife was seeing someone else. I confronted her on this and she denied it. We got into a fight about it and she told me that maybe it was a mistake we got married(together 3 years, married since may). She needed time to think about it. \n\nI went to crash at my dads place but forgot my work laptop. Went home at 11 and she wasn't there. I drove past her friends place on the way back to dads and she wasn't there. I asked her the next day that I was worried the dogs were home alone at 11 and she said she just went to her friends by name. I told her that I had stopped by. She the. Confessed she has been having an emotional affair with someone but nothing physical. She cried and stuff and begged me not to leave her. She isn't sure if she wants to stay with me though. This was Tuesday.\n\n We went out together to finish Christmas shopping and held hands and cuddled yesterday. I slept at home and we held each other. Unfortunately today we are spending apart. \n\nI don't know what the hell to do. I talked to her and she said there's nothing I am doing wrong. I am really good to her actually she just feels sad. I'm willing to work through the infidelity but damn it feels like she just doesn't want me to leave. She says she does really love me.\n\nSorry about the rambling and broken thoughts. Having a hard time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well first time posting here hoping to get some help. \n\nLast week I got some texts that my wife was seeing someone else. I confronted her on this and she denied it. We got into a fight about it and she told me that maybe it was a mistake we got married(together 3 years, married since may). She needed time to think about it. \n\nI went to crash at my dads place but forgot my work laptop. Went home at 11 and she wasn't there. I drove past her friends place on the way back to dads and she wasn't there. I asked her the next day that I was worried the dogs were home alone at 11 and she said she just went to her friends by name. I told her that I had stopped by. She the. Confessed she has been having an emotional affair with someone but nothing physical. She cried and stuff and begged me not to leave her. She isn't sure if she wants to stay with me though. This was Tuesday.\n\n We went out together to finish Christmas shopping and held hands and cuddled yesterday. I slept at home and we held each other. Unfortunately today we are spending apart. \n\nI don't know what the hell to do. I talked to her and she said there's nothing I am doing wrong. I am really good to her actually she just feels sad. I'm willing to work through the infidelity but damn it feels like she just doesn't want me to leave. She says she does really love me.\n\nSorry about the rambling and broken thoughts. Having a hard time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I(26f) found out my boyfriend(29m) of 6 years has been cheating on me for the past year while I have been in nursing school. There was 4 other women that he was with.\n\nI found out about the other women by going through his phone. I know I shouldn't have but I saw it blinking and was wondering who the message was from since it was so late and that's when I found everything. This was about 3 weeks ago. Since then we've cried, talked about it and he wanted to work on it and be a open book - all open email, phone ect. He said he was cheating because he felt that just this small thing was missing from our relationship and if he could get it somewhere else then it would be perfect. Our sexual relationship did go from 4 times a week to about once a week, at maximum once every two weeks. I realized there was a problem and it was brought up, and we decided to rekindle over the summer where we will have more time. I decided that I didn't want to be the type of woman that has to check her man's phone to make sure he isn't cheating, and that its not fair to either of us. So I broke up with him and he is moving out at the end of June.\n\nThe thing is since we decided that he has been sleeping on the couch and me in the bed. We can actually have a conversation and it feels like it did before I knew he was cheating and I am so afraid that I am making the wrong choice by breaking up with him and making him move out. I do feel very betrayed and heart broken but I feel the reason he went out and cheated was because I wasn't having sex enough. He keeps saying it wasn't my fault but I cant help but feel otherwise. We have had a wonderful relationship together and have been through a lot. I am just so afraid that I am making the wrong choice and in the end I will regret it. I felt that he was my best friend and I could go to him about everything, now I just don't know. I'm so afraid of what the future will hold."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I(26f) found out my boyfriend(29m) of 6 years has been cheating on me for the past year while I have been in nursing school. There was 4 other women that he was with.\n\nI found out about the other women by going through his phone. I know I shouldn't have but I saw it blinking and was wondering who the message was from since it was so late and that's when I found everything. This was about 3 weeks ago. Since then we've cried, talked about it and he wanted to work on it and be a open book - all open email, phone ect. He said he was cheating because he felt that just this small thing was missing from our relationship and if he could get it somewhere else then it would be perfect. Our sexual relationship did go from 4 times a week to about once a week, at maximum once every two weeks. I realized there was a problem and it was brought up, and we decided to rekindle over the summer where we will have more time. I decided that I didn't want to be the type of woman that has to check her man's phone to make sure he isn't cheating, and that its not fair to either of us. So I broke up with him and he is moving out at the end of June.\n\nThe thing is since we decided that he has been sleeping on the couch and me in the bed. We can actually have a conversation and it feels like it did before I knew he was cheating and I am so afraid that I am making the wrong choice by breaking up with him and making him move out. I do feel very betrayed and heart broken but I feel the reason he went out and cheated was because I wasn't having sex enough. He keeps saying it wasn't my fault but I cant help but feel otherwise. We have had a wonderful relationship together and have been through a lot. I am just so afraid that I am making the wrong choice and in the end I will regret it. I felt that he was my best friend and I could go to him about everything, now I just don't know. I'm so afraid of what the future will hold."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I(26f) found out my boyfriend(29m) of 6 years has been cheating on me for the past year while I have been in nursing school. There was 4 other women that he was with.\n\nI found out about the other women by going through his phone. I know I shouldn't have but I saw it blinking and was wondering who the message was from since it was so late and that's when I found everything. This was about 3 weeks ago. Since then we've cried, talked about it and he wanted to work on it and be a open book - all open email, phone ect. He said he was cheating because he felt that just this small thing was missing from our relationship and if he could get it somewhere else then it would be perfect. Our sexual relationship did go from 4 times a week to about once a week, at maximum once every two weeks. I realized there was a problem and it was brought up, and we decided to rekindle over the summer where we will have more time. I decided that I didn't want to be the type of woman that has to check her man's phone to make sure he isn't cheating, and that its not fair to either of us. So I broke up with him and he is moving out at the end of June.\n\nThe thing is since we decided that he has been sleeping on the couch and me in the bed. We can actually have a conversation and it feels like it did before I knew he was cheating and I am so afraid that I am making the wrong choice by breaking up with him and making him move out. I do feel very betrayed and heart broken but I feel the reason he went out and cheated was because I wasn't having sex enough. He keeps saying it wasn't my fault but I cant help but feel otherwise. We have had a wonderful relationship together and have been through a lot. I am just so afraid that I am making the wrong choice and in the end I will regret it. I felt that he was my best friend and I could go to him about everything, now I just don't know. I'm so afraid of what the future will hold."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I(26f) found out my boyfriend(29m) of 6 years has been cheating on me for the past year while I have been in nursing school. There was 4 other women that he was with.\n\nI found out about the other women by going through his phone. I know I shouldn't have but I saw it blinking and was wondering who the message was from since it was so late and that's when I found everything. This was about 3 weeks ago. Since then we've cried, talked about it and he wanted to work on it and be a open book - all open email, phone ect. He said he was cheating because he felt that just this small thing was missing from our relationship and if he could get it somewhere else then it would be perfect. Our sexual relationship did go from 4 times a week to about once a week, at maximum once every two weeks. I realized there was a problem and it was brought up, and we decided to rekindle over the summer where we will have more time. I decided that I didn't want to be the type of woman that has to check her man's phone to make sure he isn't cheating, and that its not fair to either of us. So I broke up with him and he is moving out at the end of June.\n\nThe thing is since we decided that he has been sleeping on the couch and me in the bed. We can actually have a conversation and it feels like it did before I knew he was cheating and I am so afraid that I am making the wrong choice by breaking up with him and making him move out. I do feel very betrayed and heart broken but I feel the reason he went out and cheated was because I wasn't having sex enough. He keeps saying it wasn't my fault but I cant help but feel otherwise. We have had a wonderful relationship together and have been through a lot. I am just so afraid that I am making the wrong choice and in the end I will regret it. I felt that he was my best friend and I could go to him about everything, now I just don't know. I'm so afraid of what the future will hold."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ladies of reddit. I'm 31M, divorced. I'd rate myself about 4 or 5 out of 10 for attractiveness. I'm big (fat) and tall. I have a decent career (aka, I don't live with my mom and I have my shit together)\n\nI'm looking to increase my number of sexual encounters with new female partners (hookups, short term dating, fwb.)\n\nI'm a bit boring on the outside, but in bed I like to please. I genuinely get off on the fact that she's enjoying every bit of what I'm doing to her.\n\n* I love going down. My partner will usually reach an orgasm (or two) just with tongue play.\n* I've been told I have great hands. Most of my partners experience multiple (anywhere from 10 to 50) g-spot orgasms throughout a play session. Usually accompanied by squirting.\n* I enjoy rough play (slapping, hitting, hair pulling, biting, choking and general domination) if my partner does as well.\n\n1."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ladies of reddit. I'm 31M, divorced. I'd rate myself about 4 or 5 out of 10 for attractiveness. I'm big (fat) and tall. I have a decent career (aka, I don't live with my mom and I have my shit together)\n\nI'm looking to increase my number of sexual encounters with new female partners (hookups, short term dating, fwb.)\n\nI'm a bit boring on the outside, but in bed I like to please. I genuinely get off on the fact that she's enjoying every bit of what I'm doing to her.\n\n* I love going down. My partner will usually reach an orgasm (or two) just with tongue play.\n* I've been told I have great hands. Most of my partners experience multiple (anywhere from 10 to 50) g-spot orgasms throughout a play session. Usually accompanied by squirting.\n* I enjoy rough play (slapping, hitting, hair pulling, biting, choking and general domination) if my partner does as well.\n\n1."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ladies of reddit. I'm 31M, divorced. I'd rate myself about 4 or 5 out of 10 for attractiveness. I'm big (fat) and tall. I have a decent career (aka, I don't live with my mom and I have my shit together)\n\nI'm looking to increase my number of sexual encounters with new female partners (hookups, short term dating, fwb.)\n\nI'm a bit boring on the outside, but in bed I like to please. I genuinely get off on the fact that she's enjoying every bit of what I'm doing to her.\n\n* I love going down. My partner will usually reach an orgasm (or two) just with tongue play.\n* I've been told I have great hands. Most of my partners experience multiple (anywhere from 10 to 50) g-spot orgasms throughout a play session. Usually accompanied by squirting.\n* I enjoy rough play (slapping, hitting, hair pulling, biting, choking and general domination) if my partner does as well.\n\n1."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ladies of reddit. I'm 31M, divorced. I'd rate myself about 4 or 5 out of 10 for attractiveness. I'm big (fat) and tall. I have a decent career (aka, I don't live with my mom and I have my shit together)\n\nI'm looking to increase my number of sexual encounters with new female partners (hookups, short term dating, fwb.)\n\nI'm a bit boring on the outside, but in bed I like to please. I genuinely get off on the fact that she's enjoying every bit of what I'm doing to her.\n\n* I love going down. My partner will usually reach an orgasm (or two) just with tongue play.\n* I've been told I have great hands. Most of my partners experience multiple (anywhere from 10 to 50) g-spot orgasms throughout a play session. Usually accompanied by squirting.\n* I enjoy rough play (slapping, hitting, hair pulling, biting, choking and general domination) if my partner does as well.\n\n1."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically it's this. I have a the HTC Arrive on Sprint. I LOVE wp7 and it's heartbreaking to hear Sprint's not loving them back. Not too heartbreaking since their terrible speeds and spotty service kills most of the enjoyment I could stand to get. Anyways, since day 1 of this phone it hasn't been able to text over 160 characters even though the user manual and feature list says specifically that it will. Many users have filed complaints about it to Sprint/MS/HTC and they fail to fix or even respond to the issue. Is there any precedent for using this to get out of a contract? I signed a contract when I purchased this phone and the phone doesn't do things it says it does."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically it's this. I have a the HTC Arrive on Sprint. I LOVE wp7 and it's heartbreaking to hear Sprint's not loving them back. Not too heartbreaking since their terrible speeds and spotty service kills most of the enjoyment I could stand to get. Anyways, since day 1 of this phone it hasn't been able to text over 160 characters even though the user manual and feature list says specifically that it will. Many users have filed complaints about it to Sprint/MS/HTC and they fail to fix or even respond to the issue. Is there any precedent for using this to get out of a contract? I signed a contract when I purchased this phone and the phone doesn't do things it says it does."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically it's this. I have a the HTC Arrive on Sprint. I LOVE wp7 and it's heartbreaking to hear Sprint's not loving them back. Not too heartbreaking since their terrible speeds and spotty service kills most of the enjoyment I could stand to get. Anyways, since day 1 of this phone it hasn't been able to text over 160 characters even though the user manual and feature list says specifically that it will. Many users have filed complaints about it to Sprint/MS/HTC and they fail to fix or even respond to the issue. Is there any precedent for using this to get out of a contract? I signed a contract when I purchased this phone and the phone doesn't do things it says it does."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically it's this. I have a the HTC Arrive on Sprint. I LOVE wp7 and it's heartbreaking to hear Sprint's not loving them back. Not too heartbreaking since their terrible speeds and spotty service kills most of the enjoyment I could stand to get. Anyways, since day 1 of this phone it hasn't been able to text over 160 characters even though the user manual and feature list says specifically that it will. Many users have filed complaints about it to Sprint/MS/HTC and they fail to fix or even respond to the issue. Is there any precedent for using this to get out of a contract? I signed a contract when I purchased this phone and the phone doesn't do things it says it does."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 29 f 201lbs, 5'4. A little background- I was an overweight child, teenager, and adult. When I moved out on my own in my early twenties I decided I was sick of being large and unhealthy and I started exercising, started eating a vegan diet, and started counting calories. After three years of this I lost 100 lbs but towards the end I admit my eating had become a bit disordered. At my lowest I probably consumed 400 calories a day while biking daily and working 50 hour work weeks. My all time lowest weight was 140lbs and my highest was 240.\n The summer of 2011 I found out I was pregnant and knew I needed to change my ways for the health of my child, and myself. I had been a smoker and I immediately quit when I found out. I ate three meals a day, snacked when I wanted to smoke, and quit eating a vegan diet (I'm lactose intolerant so I've never added dairy back ). Needless to say I gained weight quickly. By the end of my pregnancy I was up to 220 lbs. After the birth of my daughter I went back down to 185 through breastfeeding, eating healthier, and keeping busy with a child. Now, a year and a half later I am back at 201.\n For the last month and half I have been working out every other day (this week I've worked out almost everyday). My routine is something like this; 5 min rowing, 35 min arc trainer, 10 minute stair climber, 40 or so squat lifts, and 100 weighted ab crunches. I also do two yoga classes per week and practice at home whenever I can. I have a toddler so I am physically moving through most of the day. I'm loosely tracking my calories (1200-1400 per day) but don't want to fall back into old habits with eating too little so I approximate a lot. I eat an all vegan diet, 3 meals a day, and snacks if raw vegetables. I splurge on beer and wine occasionally.\n I've been doing this for a month and my scale reflects a gain. I know muscle weighs more than fat but when can I expect to see a loss on the scale ? Did I break my metabolism ? Any way to give it a boost ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 29 f 201lbs, 5'4. A little background- I was an overweight child, teenager, and adult. When I moved out on my own in my early twenties I decided I was sick of being large and unhealthy and I started exercising, started eating a vegan diet, and started counting calories. After three years of this I lost 100 lbs but towards the end I admit my eating had become a bit disordered. At my lowest I probably consumed 400 calories a day while biking daily and working 50 hour work weeks. My all time lowest weight was 140lbs and my highest was 240.\n The summer of 2011 I found out I was pregnant and knew I needed to change my ways for the health of my child, and myself. I had been a smoker and I immediately quit when I found out. I ate three meals a day, snacked when I wanted to smoke, and quit eating a vegan diet (I'm lactose intolerant so I've never added dairy back ). Needless to say I gained weight quickly. By the end of my pregnancy I was up to 220 lbs. After the birth of my daughter I went back down to 185 through breastfeeding, eating healthier, and keeping busy with a child. Now, a year and a half later I am back at 201.\n For the last month and half I have been working out every other day (this week I've worked out almost everyday). My routine is something like this; 5 min rowing, 35 min arc trainer, 10 minute stair climber, 40 or so squat lifts, and 100 weighted ab crunches. I also do two yoga classes per week and practice at home whenever I can. I have a toddler so I am physically moving through most of the day. I'm loosely tracking my calories (1200-1400 per day) but don't want to fall back into old habits with eating too little so I approximate a lot. I eat an all vegan diet, 3 meals a day, and snacks if raw vegetables. I splurge on beer and wine occasionally.\n I've been doing this for a month and my scale reflects a gain. I know muscle weighs more than fat but when can I expect to see a loss on the scale ? Did I break my metabolism ? Any way to give it a boost ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 29 f 201lbs, 5'4. A little background- I was an overweight child, teenager, and adult. When I moved out on my own in my early twenties I decided I was sick of being large and unhealthy and I started exercising, started eating a vegan diet, and started counting calories. After three years of this I lost 100 lbs but towards the end I admit my eating had become a bit disordered. At my lowest I probably consumed 400 calories a day while biking daily and working 50 hour work weeks. My all time lowest weight was 140lbs and my highest was 240.\n The summer of 2011 I found out I was pregnant and knew I needed to change my ways for the health of my child, and myself. I had been a smoker and I immediately quit when I found out. I ate three meals a day, snacked when I wanted to smoke, and quit eating a vegan diet (I'm lactose intolerant so I've never added dairy back ). Needless to say I gained weight quickly. By the end of my pregnancy I was up to 220 lbs. After the birth of my daughter I went back down to 185 through breastfeeding, eating healthier, and keeping busy with a child. Now, a year and a half later I am back at 201.\n For the last month and half I have been working out every other day (this week I've worked out almost everyday). My routine is something like this; 5 min rowing, 35 min arc trainer, 10 minute stair climber, 40 or so squat lifts, and 100 weighted ab crunches. I also do two yoga classes per week and practice at home whenever I can. I have a toddler so I am physically moving through most of the day. I'm loosely tracking my calories (1200-1400 per day) but don't want to fall back into old habits with eating too little so I approximate a lot. I eat an all vegan diet, 3 meals a day, and snacks if raw vegetables. I splurge on beer and wine occasionally.\n I've been doing this for a month and my scale reflects a gain. I know muscle weighs more than fat but when can I expect to see a loss on the scale ? Did I break my metabolism ? Any way to give it a boost ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 29 f 201lbs, 5'4. A little background- I was an overweight child, teenager, and adult. When I moved out on my own in my early twenties I decided I was sick of being large and unhealthy and I started exercising, started eating a vegan diet, and started counting calories. After three years of this I lost 100 lbs but towards the end I admit my eating had become a bit disordered. At my lowest I probably consumed 400 calories a day while biking daily and working 50 hour work weeks. My all time lowest weight was 140lbs and my highest was 240.\n The summer of 2011 I found out I was pregnant and knew I needed to change my ways for the health of my child, and myself. I had been a smoker and I immediately quit when I found out. I ate three meals a day, snacked when I wanted to smoke, and quit eating a vegan diet (I'm lactose intolerant so I've never added dairy back ). Needless to say I gained weight quickly. By the end of my pregnancy I was up to 220 lbs. After the birth of my daughter I went back down to 185 through breastfeeding, eating healthier, and keeping busy with a child. Now, a year and a half later I am back at 201.\n For the last month and half I have been working out every other day (this week I've worked out almost everyday). My routine is something like this; 5 min rowing, 35 min arc trainer, 10 minute stair climber, 40 or so squat lifts, and 100 weighted ab crunches. I also do two yoga classes per week and practice at home whenever I can. I have a toddler so I am physically moving through most of the day. I'm loosely tracking my calories (1200-1400 per day) but don't want to fall back into old habits with eating too little so I approximate a lot. I eat an all vegan diet, 3 meals a day, and snacks if raw vegetables. I splurge on beer and wine occasionally.\n I've been doing this for a month and my scale reflects a gain. I know muscle weighs more than fat but when can I expect to see a loss on the scale ? Did I break my metabolism ? Any way to give it a boost ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile now, we have also been living together for a few years now.\n Let me start by saying everyone had peeves. My two biggest peeves are being picked up, and people touching my face.\n \nI dont know why but my boyfriend always tries to pick me up and i tell him all the time how much i hate it but he still does it. He thinks its fun, and cute but i ABSOLUTELY hate it! i have to tell him multiple time dont pick me up then when he does i tell him multiple time put me down. \n \nIts not until i freak out does he then listen to me and puts me down. When i talk to him about it afterwards i tell him im not upset, but hr is visibly upset and wont want to talk to me about it. \n Im just not sure how to approach this anymore i have talked to him, he knows i hate it and he still does it, im not sure if he just forget, or thinks its cute or what but i can tell this bothers both of us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile now, we have also been living together for a few years now.\n Let me start by saying everyone had peeves. My two biggest peeves are being picked up, and people touching my face.\n \nI dont know why but my boyfriend always tries to pick me up and i tell him all the time how much i hate it but he still does it. He thinks its fun, and cute but i ABSOLUTELY hate it! i have to tell him multiple time dont pick me up then when he does i tell him multiple time put me down. \n \nIts not until i freak out does he then listen to me and puts me down. When i talk to him about it afterwards i tell him im not upset, but hr is visibly upset and wont want to talk to me about it. \n Im just not sure how to approach this anymore i have talked to him, he knows i hate it and he still does it, im not sure if he just forget, or thinks its cute or what but i can tell this bothers both of us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile now, we have also been living together for a few years now.\n Let me start by saying everyone had peeves. My two biggest peeves are being picked up, and people touching my face.\n \nI dont know why but my boyfriend always tries to pick me up and i tell him all the time how much i hate it but he still does it. He thinks its fun, and cute but i ABSOLUTELY hate it! i have to tell him multiple time dont pick me up then when he does i tell him multiple time put me down. \n \nIts not until i freak out does he then listen to me and puts me down. When i talk to him about it afterwards i tell him im not upset, but hr is visibly upset and wont want to talk to me about it. \n Im just not sure how to approach this anymore i have talked to him, he knows i hate it and he still does it, im not sure if he just forget, or thinks its cute or what but i can tell this bothers both of us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile now, we have also been living together for a few years now.\n Let me start by saying everyone had peeves. My two biggest peeves are being picked up, and people touching my face.\n \nI dont know why but my boyfriend always tries to pick me up and i tell him all the time how much i hate it but he still does it. He thinks its fun, and cute but i ABSOLUTELY hate it! i have to tell him multiple time dont pick me up then when he does i tell him multiple time put me down. \n \nIts not until i freak out does he then listen to me and puts me down. When i talk to him about it afterwards i tell him im not upset, but hr is visibly upset and wont want to talk to me about it. \n Im just not sure how to approach this anymore i have talked to him, he knows i hate it and he still does it, im not sure if he just forget, or thinks its cute or what but i can tell this bothers both of us."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *[RESOLVED]* Thanks to Looke_over_there for referring me to /r/techsupport. They suggested that I clean out my fan, which made a huge difference.\n\nHi Reddit,\n\nAbout a year ago I foolishly bought Dell's Studio XPS laptop. I was under the mistaken impression that I would be able to use it to play all my games in awesome definition. Unfortunately, the studio XPS 1330 is a piece of crap. The screen completely blocks the vent when opened to more than 90 degrees, and the laptop itself gets so hot that you could fry an egg on it (or your hand, as I've experienced). This causes the $2000 worth of stuff I paid for in the laptop to lag like hell, and I can't even get above 60 fps on absolute lowest settings and resolution for games like tf2, l4d, and hl2 (something that a laptop of my specs should be able to handle no problem). I've reinstalled my OS multiple times and updated all my drivers, so I'm pretty sure its the computer that just sucks (I've also seen a lot of reviews that say the same thing). In short, I wasted $2000 dollars on this crappy Dell. My goal is to either get my money back, or get a new computer (not the same kind) from Dell.\n\n*My question is*, does anyone have experience returning crappy electronics to Dell and/or any general advice about returning laptops? *Also is there a better subreddit for me to post a question like this on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *[RESOLVED]* Thanks to Looke_over_there for referring me to /r/techsupport. They suggested that I clean out my fan, which made a huge difference.\n\nHi Reddit,\n\nAbout a year ago I foolishly bought Dell's Studio XPS laptop. I was under the mistaken impression that I would be able to use it to play all my games in awesome definition. Unfortunately, the studio XPS 1330 is a piece of crap. The screen completely blocks the vent when opened to more than 90 degrees, and the laptop itself gets so hot that you could fry an egg on it (or your hand, as I've experienced). This causes the $2000 worth of stuff I paid for in the laptop to lag like hell, and I can't even get above 60 fps on absolute lowest settings and resolution for games like tf2, l4d, and hl2 (something that a laptop of my specs should be able to handle no problem). I've reinstalled my OS multiple times and updated all my drivers, so I'm pretty sure its the computer that just sucks (I've also seen a lot of reviews that say the same thing). In short, I wasted $2000 dollars on this crappy Dell. My goal is to either get my money back, or get a new computer (not the same kind) from Dell.\n\n*My question is*, does anyone have experience returning crappy electronics to Dell and/or any general advice about returning laptops? *Also is there a better subreddit for me to post a question like this on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *[RESOLVED]* Thanks to Looke_over_there for referring me to /r/techsupport. They suggested that I clean out my fan, which made a huge difference.\n\nHi Reddit,\n\nAbout a year ago I foolishly bought Dell's Studio XPS laptop. I was under the mistaken impression that I would be able to use it to play all my games in awesome definition. Unfortunately, the studio XPS 1330 is a piece of crap. The screen completely blocks the vent when opened to more than 90 degrees, and the laptop itself gets so hot that you could fry an egg on it (or your hand, as I've experienced). This causes the $2000 worth of stuff I paid for in the laptop to lag like hell, and I can't even get above 60 fps on absolute lowest settings and resolution for games like tf2, l4d, and hl2 (something that a laptop of my specs should be able to handle no problem). I've reinstalled my OS multiple times and updated all my drivers, so I'm pretty sure its the computer that just sucks (I've also seen a lot of reviews that say the same thing). In short, I wasted $2000 dollars on this crappy Dell. My goal is to either get my money back, or get a new computer (not the same kind) from Dell.\n\n*My question is*, does anyone have experience returning crappy electronics to Dell and/or any general advice about returning laptops? *Also is there a better subreddit for me to post a question like this on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *[RESOLVED]* Thanks to Looke_over_there for referring me to /r/techsupport. They suggested that I clean out my fan, which made a huge difference.\n\nHi Reddit,\n\nAbout a year ago I foolishly bought Dell's Studio XPS laptop. I was under the mistaken impression that I would be able to use it to play all my games in awesome definition. Unfortunately, the studio XPS 1330 is a piece of crap. The screen completely blocks the vent when opened to more than 90 degrees, and the laptop itself gets so hot that you could fry an egg on it (or your hand, as I've experienced). This causes the $2000 worth of stuff I paid for in the laptop to lag like hell, and I can't even get above 60 fps on absolute lowest settings and resolution for games like tf2, l4d, and hl2 (something that a laptop of my specs should be able to handle no problem). I've reinstalled my OS multiple times and updated all my drivers, so I'm pretty sure its the computer that just sucks (I've also seen a lot of reviews that say the same thing). In short, I wasted $2000 dollars on this crappy Dell. My goal is to either get my money back, or get a new computer (not the same kind) from Dell.\n\n*My question is*, does anyone have experience returning crappy electronics to Dell and/or any general advice about returning laptops? *Also is there a better subreddit for me to post a question like this on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *[RESOLVED]* Thanks to Looke_over_there for referring me to /r/techsupport. They suggested that I clean out my fan, which made a huge difference.\n\nHi Reddit,\n\nAbout a year ago I foolishly bought Dell's Studio XPS laptop. I was under the mistaken impression that I would be able to use it to play all my games in awesome definition. Unfortunately, the studio XPS 1330 is a piece of crap. The screen completely blocks the vent when opened to more than 90 degrees, and the laptop itself gets so hot that you could fry an egg on it (or your hand, as I've experienced). This causes the $2000 worth of stuff I paid for in the laptop to lag like hell, and I can't even get above 60 fps on absolute lowest settings and resolution for games like tf2, l4d, and hl2 (something that a laptop of my specs should be able to handle no problem). I've reinstalled my OS multiple times and updated all my drivers, so I'm pretty sure its the computer that just sucks (I've also seen a lot of reviews that say the same thing). In short, I wasted $2000 dollars on this crappy Dell. My goal is to either get my money back, or get a new computer (not the same kind) from Dell.\n\n*My question is*, does anyone have experience returning crappy electronics to Dell and/or any general advice about returning laptops? *Also is there a better subreddit for me to post a question like this on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *[RESOLVED]* Thanks to Looke_over_there for referring me to /r/techsupport. They suggested that I clean out my fan, which made a huge difference.\n\nHi Reddit,\n\nAbout a year ago I foolishly bought Dell's Studio XPS laptop. I was under the mistaken impression that I would be able to use it to play all my games in awesome definition. Unfortunately, the studio XPS 1330 is a piece of crap. The screen completely blocks the vent when opened to more than 90 degrees, and the laptop itself gets so hot that you could fry an egg on it (or your hand, as I've experienced). This causes the $2000 worth of stuff I paid for in the laptop to lag like hell, and I can't even get above 60 fps on absolute lowest settings and resolution for games like tf2, l4d, and hl2 (something that a laptop of my specs should be able to handle no problem). I've reinstalled my OS multiple times and updated all my drivers, so I'm pretty sure its the computer that just sucks (I've also seen a lot of reviews that say the same thing). In short, I wasted $2000 dollars on this crappy Dell. My goal is to either get my money back, or get a new computer (not the same kind) from Dell.\n\n*My question is*, does anyone have experience returning crappy electronics to Dell and/or any general advice about returning laptops? *Also is there a better subreddit for me to post a question like this on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *[RESOLVED]* Thanks to Looke_over_there for referring me to /r/techsupport. They suggested that I clean out my fan, which made a huge difference.\n\nHi Reddit,\n\nAbout a year ago I foolishly bought Dell's Studio XPS laptop. I was under the mistaken impression that I would be able to use it to play all my games in awesome definition. Unfortunately, the studio XPS 1330 is a piece of crap. The screen completely blocks the vent when opened to more than 90 degrees, and the laptop itself gets so hot that you could fry an egg on it (or your hand, as I've experienced). This causes the $2000 worth of stuff I paid for in the laptop to lag like hell, and I can't even get above 60 fps on absolute lowest settings and resolution for games like tf2, l4d, and hl2 (something that a laptop of my specs should be able to handle no problem). I've reinstalled my OS multiple times and updated all my drivers, so I'm pretty sure its the computer that just sucks (I've also seen a lot of reviews that say the same thing). In short, I wasted $2000 dollars on this crappy Dell. My goal is to either get my money back, or get a new computer (not the same kind) from Dell.\n\n*My question is*, does anyone have experience returning crappy electronics to Dell and/or any general advice about returning laptops? *Also is there a better subreddit for me to post a question like this on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *[RESOLVED]* Thanks to Looke_over_there for referring me to /r/techsupport. They suggested that I clean out my fan, which made a huge difference.\n\nHi Reddit,\n\nAbout a year ago I foolishly bought Dell's Studio XPS laptop. I was under the mistaken impression that I would be able to use it to play all my games in awesome definition. Unfortunately, the studio XPS 1330 is a piece of crap. The screen completely blocks the vent when opened to more than 90 degrees, and the laptop itself gets so hot that you could fry an egg on it (or your hand, as I've experienced). This causes the $2000 worth of stuff I paid for in the laptop to lag like hell, and I can't even get above 60 fps on absolute lowest settings and resolution for games like tf2, l4d, and hl2 (something that a laptop of my specs should be able to handle no problem). I've reinstalled my OS multiple times and updated all my drivers, so I'm pretty sure its the computer that just sucks (I've also seen a lot of reviews that say the same thing). In short, I wasted $2000 dollars on this crappy Dell. My goal is to either get my money back, or get a new computer (not the same kind) from Dell.\n\n*My question is*, does anyone have experience returning crappy electronics to Dell and/or any general advice about returning laptops? *Also is there a better subreddit for me to post a question like this on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone,\n\nI consider myself a pretty social guy and get along with people really well. But I can't seem to make friends that I can call \"best friends\". Like I'll see them when I see them, at uni or out and about, heck, they might even come watch a film with me, but generally speaking, none of them are as enthusiastic about doing things as I am. My invites to have road trips or driving out to explore generally go unaccepted, and the reasons aren't compelling. I might be bored on a Saturday night and message one of them to hang, and they'll say they're busy or tired or w/e. \n\nI've made it all the way to the end of uni without picking up someone that's as interested in a friendship with me as I am with them. I've tried everything, from being very enthusiastic all the way to acting I don't care. I just can't crack it. What am I doing wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone,\n\nI consider myself a pretty social guy and get along with people really well. But I can't seem to make friends that I can call \"best friends\". Like I'll see them when I see them, at uni or out and about, heck, they might even come watch a film with me, but generally speaking, none of them are as enthusiastic about doing things as I am. My invites to have road trips or driving out to explore generally go unaccepted, and the reasons aren't compelling. I might be bored on a Saturday night and message one of them to hang, and they'll say they're busy or tired or w/e. \n\nI've made it all the way to the end of uni without picking up someone that's as interested in a friendship with me as I am with them. I've tried everything, from being very enthusiastic all the way to acting I don't care. I just can't crack it. What am I doing wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone,\n\nI consider myself a pretty social guy and get along with people really well. But I can't seem to make friends that I can call \"best friends\". Like I'll see them when I see them, at uni or out and about, heck, they might even come watch a film with me, but generally speaking, none of them are as enthusiastic about doing things as I am. My invites to have road trips or driving out to explore generally go unaccepted, and the reasons aren't compelling. I might be bored on a Saturday night and message one of them to hang, and they'll say they're busy or tired or w/e. \n\nI've made it all the way to the end of uni without picking up someone that's as interested in a friendship with me as I am with them. I've tried everything, from being very enthusiastic all the way to acting I don't care. I just can't crack it. What am I doing wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone,\n\nI consider myself a pretty social guy and get along with people really well. But I can't seem to make friends that I can call \"best friends\". Like I'll see them when I see them, at uni or out and about, heck, they might even come watch a film with me, but generally speaking, none of them are as enthusiastic about doing things as I am. My invites to have road trips or driving out to explore generally go unaccepted, and the reasons aren't compelling. I might be bored on a Saturday night and message one of them to hang, and they'll say they're busy or tired or w/e. \n\nI've made it all the way to the end of uni without picking up someone that's as interested in a friendship with me as I am with them. I've tried everything, from being very enthusiastic all the way to acting I don't care. I just can't crack it. What am I doing wrong?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright, so my boyfriend and I chose to break up because I moved to Spain to teach for 9 months. The breakup was not because we hated each other though. It was simply because we have both been in long distance relationships before and they suck. So, we decided to continue to have a friendship at a minimum and when I return, he said he wants to take me on a date no matter what. He told me that he had no intentions to date and he wanted to keep in touch as much as possible with me. He said that he felt very strongly for me and he chose to buy a house in the town we live in so that we could be together in the long run. \n\nThis is not how things actually went down though. After being gone for one week, I find out that he is seeing someone else. He is now in a relationship with this girl and they are going on vacations together. I have tried to be very rational about it because we did break up, but I feel as though he was dishonest with me and it hurts a lot. The fact that he moved on within days is very upsetting to me and he also promised he would tell me if he was dating someone new and we have talked and he never says anything. I don't know what to do and I feel very betrayed and alone. \n\nI want to send him a facebook message sharing my feelings with him about how he has not been a good friend to me at all and that it upsets me because I care about him very much. I do not want to bash on him about the other girl because that is his business to tell me. It's more that he hasn't been the person I thought he was. I don't want to come off desperate or crazy though, but I really need to get this off my chest. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright, so my boyfriend and I chose to break up because I moved to Spain to teach for 9 months. The breakup was not because we hated each other though. It was simply because we have both been in long distance relationships before and they suck. So, we decided to continue to have a friendship at a minimum and when I return, he said he wants to take me on a date no matter what. He told me that he had no intentions to date and he wanted to keep in touch as much as possible with me. He said that he felt very strongly for me and he chose to buy a house in the town we live in so that we could be together in the long run. \n\nThis is not how things actually went down though. After being gone for one week, I find out that he is seeing someone else. He is now in a relationship with this girl and they are going on vacations together. I have tried to be very rational about it because we did break up, but I feel as though he was dishonest with me and it hurts a lot. The fact that he moved on within days is very upsetting to me and he also promised he would tell me if he was dating someone new and we have talked and he never says anything. I don't know what to do and I feel very betrayed and alone. \n\nI want to send him a facebook message sharing my feelings with him about how he has not been a good friend to me at all and that it upsets me because I care about him very much. I do not want to bash on him about the other girl because that is his business to tell me. It's more that he hasn't been the person I thought he was. I don't want to come off desperate or crazy though, but I really need to get this off my chest. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright, so my boyfriend and I chose to break up because I moved to Spain to teach for 9 months. The breakup was not because we hated each other though. It was simply because we have both been in long distance relationships before and they suck. So, we decided to continue to have a friendship at a minimum and when I return, he said he wants to take me on a date no matter what. He told me that he had no intentions to date and he wanted to keep in touch as much as possible with me. He said that he felt very strongly for me and he chose to buy a house in the town we live in so that we could be together in the long run. \n\nThis is not how things actually went down though. After being gone for one week, I find out that he is seeing someone else. He is now in a relationship with this girl and they are going on vacations together. I have tried to be very rational about it because we did break up, but I feel as though he was dishonest with me and it hurts a lot. The fact that he moved on within days is very upsetting to me and he also promised he would tell me if he was dating someone new and we have talked and he never says anything. I don't know what to do and I feel very betrayed and alone. \n\nI want to send him a facebook message sharing my feelings with him about how he has not been a good friend to me at all and that it upsets me because I care about him very much. I do not want to bash on him about the other girl because that is his business to tell me. It's more that he hasn't been the person I thought he was. I don't want to come off desperate or crazy though, but I really need to get this off my chest. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright, so my boyfriend and I chose to break up because I moved to Spain to teach for 9 months. The breakup was not because we hated each other though. It was simply because we have both been in long distance relationships before and they suck. So, we decided to continue to have a friendship at a minimum and when I return, he said he wants to take me on a date no matter what. He told me that he had no intentions to date and he wanted to keep in touch as much as possible with me. He said that he felt very strongly for me and he chose to buy a house in the town we live in so that we could be together in the long run. \n\nThis is not how things actually went down though. After being gone for one week, I find out that he is seeing someone else. He is now in a relationship with this girl and they are going on vacations together. I have tried to be very rational about it because we did break up, but I feel as though he was dishonest with me and it hurts a lot. The fact that he moved on within days is very upsetting to me and he also promised he would tell me if he was dating someone new and we have talked and he never says anything. I don't know what to do and I feel very betrayed and alone. \n\nI want to send him a facebook message sharing my feelings with him about how he has not been a good friend to me at all and that it upsets me because I care about him very much. I do not want to bash on him about the other girl because that is his business to tell me. It's more that he hasn't been the person I thought he was. I don't want to come off desperate or crazy though, but I really need to get this off my chest. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. I am still uncomfortable being sexual though. We have not \"had sex\" (aka vaginal) yet still, but mostly bc we're waiting until we have the opportunity and the time is right, plus a part of me wants to wait until I'm married. But we often \"fool around.\" We make out a lot and he fingers me and we engage in oral. I wont lie, I like it as we're doing it, it does feel good. But afterwards I always feel kind of dirty. Like it was wrong and \"bad\" to do, and I kind of feel like a whore.\n\nHe knows I used to feel this way, but I dont know if he realizes I still do.\n\nI also have anxiety problems, and I miss him more and feel worse after times when we've been sexual.\n\nI'm not sure what to do about this. I'm sure being sexual with my boyfriend of 4 years doesn't make me a whore, yet I still feel that way afterwards. any suggestions?\n\nWe're 20 yrs of age btw."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. I am still uncomfortable being sexual though. We have not \"had sex\" (aka vaginal) yet still, but mostly bc we're waiting until we have the opportunity and the time is right, plus a part of me wants to wait until I'm married. But we often \"fool around.\" We make out a lot and he fingers me and we engage in oral. I wont lie, I like it as we're doing it, it does feel good. But afterwards I always feel kind of dirty. Like it was wrong and \"bad\" to do, and I kind of feel like a whore.\n\nHe knows I used to feel this way, but I dont know if he realizes I still do.\n\nI also have anxiety problems, and I miss him more and feel worse after times when we've been sexual.\n\nI'm not sure what to do about this. I'm sure being sexual with my boyfriend of 4 years doesn't make me a whore, yet I still feel that way afterwards. any suggestions?\n\nWe're 20 yrs of age btw."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. I am still uncomfortable being sexual though. We have not \"had sex\" (aka vaginal) yet still, but mostly bc we're waiting until we have the opportunity and the time is right, plus a part of me wants to wait until I'm married. But we often \"fool around.\" We make out a lot and he fingers me and we engage in oral. I wont lie, I like it as we're doing it, it does feel good. But afterwards I always feel kind of dirty. Like it was wrong and \"bad\" to do, and I kind of feel like a whore.\n\nHe knows I used to feel this way, but I dont know if he realizes I still do.\n\nI also have anxiety problems, and I miss him more and feel worse after times when we've been sexual.\n\nI'm not sure what to do about this. I'm sure being sexual with my boyfriend of 4 years doesn't make me a whore, yet I still feel that way afterwards. any suggestions?\n\nWe're 20 yrs of age btw."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. I am still uncomfortable being sexual though. We have not \"had sex\" (aka vaginal) yet still, but mostly bc we're waiting until we have the opportunity and the time is right, plus a part of me wants to wait until I'm married. But we often \"fool around.\" We make out a lot and he fingers me and we engage in oral. I wont lie, I like it as we're doing it, it does feel good. But afterwards I always feel kind of dirty. Like it was wrong and \"bad\" to do, and I kind of feel like a whore.\n\nHe knows I used to feel this way, but I dont know if he realizes I still do.\n\nI also have anxiety problems, and I miss him more and feel worse after times when we've been sexual.\n\nI'm not sure what to do about this. I'm sure being sexual with my boyfriend of 4 years doesn't make me a whore, yet I still feel that way afterwards. any suggestions?\n\nWe're 20 yrs of age btw."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met Steve a while back. We exchanged numbers and got talking, and we talked a lot. He'd text me first thing when he woke up and we'd talk all day until I went to bed. There weren't any limits on our conversation and eventually we got to sex and relationships. He's had his heart broken completely by his ex. I'm always there listening to him talk about things. He's severely depressed and I've talked him out of suicide many times. \nOur friendship gradually progressed until I found myself sexting him. I trust him completely so I have no issues with this. We talk about what we'd do to each other a lot and when we can we hook up for casual sex. There's a lot of cuddles and pillow talk but we're best friends too, so I've never really thought anything of it. \n\nYesterday I realised I had feelings for him. I think I'd always known it but I know his emotional state and I know things won't work out between us like I want them to so I've always buried it. Anyway, some really stupid part of me decided to try and make him jealous. \nWe've always said that if either of us started dating we wouldn't be able to go on being friends because it'd be awkward given our sexual history. So what do I do? I text him and tell him I have a date tonight. He doesn't reply for hours (which is strange) and then only says \"have fun\". We don't talk all day and then just as I'm supposed to be going on my \"date\", I get a single text telling me that he kind of doesn't want it to go well because he wants things to stay how they are. \nI've tried talking to him since but it just feels awkward and forced between us now. I don't know how to make things go back to normal."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met Steve a while back. We exchanged numbers and got talking, and we talked a lot. He'd text me first thing when he woke up and we'd talk all day until I went to bed. There weren't any limits on our conversation and eventually we got to sex and relationships. He's had his heart broken completely by his ex. I'm always there listening to him talk about things. He's severely depressed and I've talked him out of suicide many times. \nOur friendship gradually progressed until I found myself sexting him. I trust him completely so I have no issues with this. We talk about what we'd do to each other a lot and when we can we hook up for casual sex. There's a lot of cuddles and pillow talk but we're best friends too, so I've never really thought anything of it. \n\nYesterday I realised I had feelings for him. I think I'd always known it but I know his emotional state and I know things won't work out between us like I want them to so I've always buried it. Anyway, some really stupid part of me decided to try and make him jealous. \nWe've always said that if either of us started dating we wouldn't be able to go on being friends because it'd be awkward given our sexual history. So what do I do? I text him and tell him I have a date tonight. He doesn't reply for hours (which is strange) and then only says \"have fun\". We don't talk all day and then just as I'm supposed to be going on my \"date\", I get a single text telling me that he kind of doesn't want it to go well because he wants things to stay how they are. \nI've tried talking to him since but it just feels awkward and forced between us now. I don't know how to make things go back to normal."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met Steve a while back. We exchanged numbers and got talking, and we talked a lot. He'd text me first thing when he woke up and we'd talk all day until I went to bed. There weren't any limits on our conversation and eventually we got to sex and relationships. He's had his heart broken completely by his ex. I'm always there listening to him talk about things. He's severely depressed and I've talked him out of suicide many times. \nOur friendship gradually progressed until I found myself sexting him. I trust him completely so I have no issues with this. We talk about what we'd do to each other a lot and when we can we hook up for casual sex. There's a lot of cuddles and pillow talk but we're best friends too, so I've never really thought anything of it. \n\nYesterday I realised I had feelings for him. I think I'd always known it but I know his emotional state and I know things won't work out between us like I want them to so I've always buried it. Anyway, some really stupid part of me decided to try and make him jealous. \nWe've always said that if either of us started dating we wouldn't be able to go on being friends because it'd be awkward given our sexual history. So what do I do? I text him and tell him I have a date tonight. He doesn't reply for hours (which is strange) and then only says \"have fun\". We don't talk all day and then just as I'm supposed to be going on my \"date\", I get a single text telling me that he kind of doesn't want it to go well because he wants things to stay how they are. \nI've tried talking to him since but it just feels awkward and forced between us now. I don't know how to make things go back to normal."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I met Steve a while back. We exchanged numbers and got talking, and we talked a lot. He'd text me first thing when he woke up and we'd talk all day until I went to bed. There weren't any limits on our conversation and eventually we got to sex and relationships. He's had his heart broken completely by his ex. I'm always there listening to him talk about things. He's severely depressed and I've talked him out of suicide many times. \nOur friendship gradually progressed until I found myself sexting him. I trust him completely so I have no issues with this. We talk about what we'd do to each other a lot and when we can we hook up for casual sex. There's a lot of cuddles and pillow talk but we're best friends too, so I've never really thought anything of it. \n\nYesterday I realised I had feelings for him. I think I'd always known it but I know his emotional state and I know things won't work out between us like I want them to so I've always buried it. Anyway, some really stupid part of me decided to try and make him jealous. \nWe've always said that if either of us started dating we wouldn't be able to go on being friends because it'd be awkward given our sexual history. So what do I do? I text him and tell him I have a date tonight. He doesn't reply for hours (which is strange) and then only says \"have fun\". We don't talk all day and then just as I'm supposed to be going on my \"date\", I get a single text telling me that he kind of doesn't want it to go well because he wants things to stay how they are. \nI've tried talking to him since but it just feels awkward and forced between us now. I don't know how to make things go back to normal."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been going through a terrible break up the last few months. One of those shitty, long, drawn out ones where your ex turns crazy and won't move out. Anyway, he finally moved out last week (yay!), but I've decided to leave the apartment as well because of bad memories. \n\nSo, this guy who's really good friend's with my best friend has always had a thing for me for the last 7 years or so. I've either been in a relationship, or not living in the same city so I've never had a chance to really see if we have a connection. But he's always given me that \"butterflies\" feeling. He's never been out right flirty with me (out of respect for my relationship) but my friend tells me the things he says and it makes me melt. \n\nI've had about 5 relationships in my life and a handful of FWB when I was younger but I'm pretty clueless about \"dating\" and I've been in a (terrible, emotionally abusive) relationship for the last 4 years. \n\nHe was over last night, stopping by to pick something up for our mutual friend and I told him I was finally moving. He asked if I needed a hand and that he \"really likes helping people move.\" Who the fuck likes helping people move? So I think he was just looking for an \"in\", which is fine with me because I think he's cute and I think there could be something between us.\n\nI don't really want to lug boxes with him and get all sweaty and cranky, but I also want an excuse to see him. How should I proceed? I was thinking of texting him something like: \"If you're free this weekend, I'm doing a bit of light moving. There's some wine with your name on it if you're still interested\". and then maybe we could take a car load of stuff to my new place, and then relax? I dunno. I'm over thinking this I know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been going through a terrible break up the last few months. One of those shitty, long, drawn out ones where your ex turns crazy and won't move out. Anyway, he finally moved out last week (yay!), but I've decided to leave the apartment as well because of bad memories. \n\nSo, this guy who's really good friend's with my best friend has always had a thing for me for the last 7 years or so. I've either been in a relationship, or not living in the same city so I've never had a chance to really see if we have a connection. But he's always given me that \"butterflies\" feeling. He's never been out right flirty with me (out of respect for my relationship) but my friend tells me the things he says and it makes me melt. \n\nI've had about 5 relationships in my life and a handful of FWB when I was younger but I'm pretty clueless about \"dating\" and I've been in a (terrible, emotionally abusive) relationship for the last 4 years. \n\nHe was over last night, stopping by to pick something up for our mutual friend and I told him I was finally moving. He asked if I needed a hand and that he \"really likes helping people move.\" Who the fuck likes helping people move? So I think he was just looking for an \"in\", which is fine with me because I think he's cute and I think there could be something between us.\n\nI don't really want to lug boxes with him and get all sweaty and cranky, but I also want an excuse to see him. How should I proceed? I was thinking of texting him something like: \"If you're free this weekend, I'm doing a bit of light moving. There's some wine with your name on it if you're still interested\". and then maybe we could take a car load of stuff to my new place, and then relax? I dunno. I'm over thinking this I know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been going through a terrible break up the last few months. One of those shitty, long, drawn out ones where your ex turns crazy and won't move out. Anyway, he finally moved out last week (yay!), but I've decided to leave the apartment as well because of bad memories. \n\nSo, this guy who's really good friend's with my best friend has always had a thing for me for the last 7 years or so. I've either been in a relationship, or not living in the same city so I've never had a chance to really see if we have a connection. But he's always given me that \"butterflies\" feeling. He's never been out right flirty with me (out of respect for my relationship) but my friend tells me the things he says and it makes me melt. \n\nI've had about 5 relationships in my life and a handful of FWB when I was younger but I'm pretty clueless about \"dating\" and I've been in a (terrible, emotionally abusive) relationship for the last 4 years. \n\nHe was over last night, stopping by to pick something up for our mutual friend and I told him I was finally moving. He asked if I needed a hand and that he \"really likes helping people move.\" Who the fuck likes helping people move? So I think he was just looking for an \"in\", which is fine with me because I think he's cute and I think there could be something between us.\n\nI don't really want to lug boxes with him and get all sweaty and cranky, but I also want an excuse to see him. How should I proceed? I was thinking of texting him something like: \"If you're free this weekend, I'm doing a bit of light moving. There's some wine with your name on it if you're still interested\". and then maybe we could take a car load of stuff to my new place, and then relax? I dunno. I'm over thinking this I know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been going through a terrible break up the last few months. One of those shitty, long, drawn out ones where your ex turns crazy and won't move out. Anyway, he finally moved out last week (yay!), but I've decided to leave the apartment as well because of bad memories. \n\nSo, this guy who's really good friend's with my best friend has always had a thing for me for the last 7 years or so. I've either been in a relationship, or not living in the same city so I've never had a chance to really see if we have a connection. But he's always given me that \"butterflies\" feeling. He's never been out right flirty with me (out of respect for my relationship) but my friend tells me the things he says and it makes me melt. \n\nI've had about 5 relationships in my life and a handful of FWB when I was younger but I'm pretty clueless about \"dating\" and I've been in a (terrible, emotionally abusive) relationship for the last 4 years. \n\nHe was over last night, stopping by to pick something up for our mutual friend and I told him I was finally moving. He asked if I needed a hand and that he \"really likes helping people move.\" Who the fuck likes helping people move? So I think he was just looking for an \"in\", which is fine with me because I think he's cute and I think there could be something between us.\n\nI don't really want to lug boxes with him and get all sweaty and cranky, but I also want an excuse to see him. How should I proceed? I was thinking of texting him something like: \"If you're free this weekend, I'm doing a bit of light moving. There's some wine with your name on it if you're still interested\". and then maybe we could take a car load of stuff to my new place, and then relax? I dunno. I'm over thinking this I know."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I currently live in an area of a city in West Texas that unbeknownst to us when we moved here is a part of town frequently targeted by criminals who break and enter and burglarize vehicles. There are other parts of town that I have heard are less frequently targeted and I am wondering if there is any way to get out of a lease due to being victimized twice in this area. I have spoken to neighbors as well and there is a large incidence of crime in this area with my neighbor being broken into 3-4 times, multiple houses on our street being broken into, etc. They have broken into my truck and stolen everything out of it and then also my fiancé's. \n\nI frankly am concerned about my home and my safety. I am concerned to go out of town for Christmas to visit family etc and I feel I am on edge. We have a dog that is technically a lease violation but she is one of the few things that makes me feel any safer as she is the type to bark when someone unfamiliar is around or if she hears sounds that are unfamiliar, etc. \n\nI would like to be able to possibly move into a safer area but would not like to face any penalties ideally. \n\nAny advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I currently live in an area of a city in West Texas that unbeknownst to us when we moved here is a part of town frequently targeted by criminals who break and enter and burglarize vehicles. There are other parts of town that I have heard are less frequently targeted and I am wondering if there is any way to get out of a lease due to being victimized twice in this area. I have spoken to neighbors as well and there is a large incidence of crime in this area with my neighbor being broken into 3-4 times, multiple houses on our street being broken into, etc. They have broken into my truck and stolen everything out of it and then also my fiancé's. \n\nI frankly am concerned about my home and my safety. I am concerned to go out of town for Christmas to visit family etc and I feel I am on edge. We have a dog that is technically a lease violation but she is one of the few things that makes me feel any safer as she is the type to bark when someone unfamiliar is around or if she hears sounds that are unfamiliar, etc. \n\nI would like to be able to possibly move into a safer area but would not like to face any penalties ideally. \n\nAny advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I currently live in an area of a city in West Texas that unbeknownst to us when we moved here is a part of town frequently targeted by criminals who break and enter and burglarize vehicles. There are other parts of town that I have heard are less frequently targeted and I am wondering if there is any way to get out of a lease due to being victimized twice in this area. I have spoken to neighbors as well and there is a large incidence of crime in this area with my neighbor being broken into 3-4 times, multiple houses on our street being broken into, etc. They have broken into my truck and stolen everything out of it and then also my fiancé's. \n\nI frankly am concerned about my home and my safety. I am concerned to go out of town for Christmas to visit family etc and I feel I am on edge. We have a dog that is technically a lease violation but she is one of the few things that makes me feel any safer as she is the type to bark when someone unfamiliar is around or if she hears sounds that are unfamiliar, etc. \n\nI would like to be able to possibly move into a safer area but would not like to face any penalties ideally. \n\nAny advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I currently live in an area of a city in West Texas that unbeknownst to us when we moved here is a part of town frequently targeted by criminals who break and enter and burglarize vehicles. There are other parts of town that I have heard are less frequently targeted and I am wondering if there is any way to get out of a lease due to being victimized twice in this area. I have spoken to neighbors as well and there is a large incidence of crime in this area with my neighbor being broken into 3-4 times, multiple houses on our street being broken into, etc. They have broken into my truck and stolen everything out of it and then also my fiancé's. \n\nI frankly am concerned about my home and my safety. I am concerned to go out of town for Christmas to visit family etc and I feel I am on edge. We have a dog that is technically a lease violation but she is one of the few things that makes me feel any safer as she is the type to bark when someone unfamiliar is around or if she hears sounds that are unfamiliar, etc. \n\nI would like to be able to possibly move into a safer area but would not like to face any penalties ideally. \n\nAny advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The pyramid scheme in question is [Fortune Hi-Tech Marketing]( When he called me to go to a networking event at first I thought \"okay, networking is fine\". However, I asked questions about the company and he said the following: \n \n- It's kind of hard to explain, they do a bunch of stuff and are partnered with a bunch of huge companies like telcos, health and roadside assistance - warning flag number 1 \n- I don't know much about it yet, but it sounds like a great way for us to pretty much make a good income for nothing lol (yes he actually lol'd) - warning flag number 2: no clear product or service \n- Don't worry, I asked my CMA buddy and CFA to meet the guy and they're convinced it's legit \n \nAt this point I told him to stay the hell away. I said it's a waste of time entertaining this idea any further. Before I let him continue I asked him \"let me guess, after signing up for this company they asked you to purchase an information kit / press kit / sample product kit\" and he said yes. \n \nI clearly told him that this was a pyramid scheme and that they are selling you an opportunity to make money by selling other people an opportunity to make money, by selling products and services (confusing I know but that's a good thing in the eyes of the pyramid company). \n \nI'm going to that \"networking event\" tomorrow to try to convince him and his friends to get away. I also wanted to grill whoever they meet by asking some tough questions. How do I convince them that this a huge mistake? Do any redditors know if fhtm were in any legal trouble lately? (I tried looking but they're pretty good with hijacking the keyword \"scam\" and \"legal\" for their benefit. I guess their SEO people are good.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The pyramid scheme in question is [Fortune Hi-Tech Marketing]( When he called me to go to a networking event at first I thought \"okay, networking is fine\". However, I asked questions about the company and he said the following: \n \n- It's kind of hard to explain, they do a bunch of stuff and are partnered with a bunch of huge companies like telcos, health and roadside assistance - warning flag number 1 \n- I don't know much about it yet, but it sounds like a great way for us to pretty much make a good income for nothing lol (yes he actually lol'd) - warning flag number 2: no clear product or service \n- Don't worry, I asked my CMA buddy and CFA to meet the guy and they're convinced it's legit \n \nAt this point I told him to stay the hell away. I said it's a waste of time entertaining this idea any further. Before I let him continue I asked him \"let me guess, after signing up for this company they asked you to purchase an information kit / press kit / sample product kit\" and he said yes. \n \nI clearly told him that this was a pyramid scheme and that they are selling you an opportunity to make money by selling other people an opportunity to make money, by selling products and services (confusing I know but that's a good thing in the eyes of the pyramid company). \n \nI'm going to that \"networking event\" tomorrow to try to convince him and his friends to get away. I also wanted to grill whoever they meet by asking some tough questions. How do I convince them that this a huge mistake? Do any redditors know if fhtm were in any legal trouble lately? (I tried looking but they're pretty good with hijacking the keyword \"scam\" and \"legal\" for their benefit. I guess their SEO people are good.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The pyramid scheme in question is [Fortune Hi-Tech Marketing]( When he called me to go to a networking event at first I thought \"okay, networking is fine\". However, I asked questions about the company and he said the following: \n \n- It's kind of hard to explain, they do a bunch of stuff and are partnered with a bunch of huge companies like telcos, health and roadside assistance - warning flag number 1 \n- I don't know much about it yet, but it sounds like a great way for us to pretty much make a good income for nothing lol (yes he actually lol'd) - warning flag number 2: no clear product or service \n- Don't worry, I asked my CMA buddy and CFA to meet the guy and they're convinced it's legit \n \nAt this point I told him to stay the hell away. I said it's a waste of time entertaining this idea any further. Before I let him continue I asked him \"let me guess, after signing up for this company they asked you to purchase an information kit / press kit / sample product kit\" and he said yes. \n \nI clearly told him that this was a pyramid scheme and that they are selling you an opportunity to make money by selling other people an opportunity to make money, by selling products and services (confusing I know but that's a good thing in the eyes of the pyramid company). \n \nI'm going to that \"networking event\" tomorrow to try to convince him and his friends to get away. I also wanted to grill whoever they meet by asking some tough questions. How do I convince them that this a huge mistake? Do any redditors know if fhtm were in any legal trouble lately? (I tried looking but they're pretty good with hijacking the keyword \"scam\" and \"legal\" for their benefit. I guess their SEO people are good.)"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The pyramid scheme in question is [Fortune Hi-Tech Marketing]( When he called me to go to a networking event at first I thought \"okay, networking is fine\". However, I asked questions about the company and he said the following: \n \n- It's kind of hard to explain, they do a bunch of stuff and are partnered with a bunch of huge companies like telcos, health and roadside assistance - warning flag number 1 \n- I don't know much about it yet, but it sounds like a great way for us to pretty much make a good income for nothing lol (yes he actually lol'd) - warning flag number 2: no clear product or service \n- Don't worry, I asked my CMA buddy and CFA to meet the guy and they're convinced it's legit \n \nAt this point I told him to stay the hell away. I said it's a waste of time entertaining this idea any further. Before I let him continue I asked him \"let me guess, after signing up for this company they asked you to purchase an information kit / press kit / sample product kit\" and he said yes. \n \nI clearly told him that this was a pyramid scheme and that they are selling you an opportunity to make money by selling other people an opportunity to make money, by selling products and services (confusing I know but that's a good thing in the eyes of the pyramid company). \n \nI'm going to that \"networking event\" tomorrow to try to convince him and his friends to get away. I also wanted to grill whoever they meet by asking some tough questions. How do I convince them that this a huge mistake? Do any redditors know if fhtm were in any legal trouble lately? (I tried looking but they're pretty good with hijacking the keyword \"scam\" and \"legal\" for their benefit. I guess their SEO people are good.)"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years, and the relationship is great, except for what I mentioned above. A good example is from this morning. We share a car, and she had an important meeting for work. We were at my place, and because she was busy getting ready for her meeting, I told her I would take the car early in the morning so I could go to her place to feed her dog. She was pretty adamant about me being back on time, and I told her I would have plenty of time to feed the dog, and come back to pick her up. When I got to her place, her dog bolted out the door (he never does this) and I spent the next 20 minutes trying to track him down. I found him at a nearby park, fed him, and rushed back home (I ended up being about 10 minutes late). When I got home, my gf was FURIOUS. I tried to explain what happened, but she didn't let me say a word. She grabbed the keys, yelled at me for being late, and took off. The funny part is that her meeting was bout 35 minutes away, and even with me being late she still had about 50 minutes to get there. I was so upset over the way she reacted, that I yelled back, and used some choice words (I'm not proud of that).\n\nThe worst part of it is this weekend I had planned on checking out a car dealership about an hour away. Seeing as we share a car, I have been saving for months to buy a new one, and my gf said she would take me to go check it out. 10 minutes after she left, I got a text from her saying \"I'm not taking you to get the car, find your own ride.\" I texted her back with a lengthy explanation of why I was late, and called her out for lacking empathy and not understanding that I wasn't trying to disrespect her time. She texted back with \"I didn't read that last text, and I don't plan to.\"\n\nWhat can I do? I feel like anytime bad things happen, my gf automatically assumes that it is entirely my fault, when in reality it is often due to things that are out of my control?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years, and the relationship is great, except for what I mentioned above. A good example is from this morning. We share a car, and she had an important meeting for work. We were at my place, and because she was busy getting ready for her meeting, I told her I would take the car early in the morning so I could go to her place to feed her dog. She was pretty adamant about me being back on time, and I told her I would have plenty of time to feed the dog, and come back to pick her up. When I got to her place, her dog bolted out the door (he never does this) and I spent the next 20 minutes trying to track him down. I found him at a nearby park, fed him, and rushed back home (I ended up being about 10 minutes late). When I got home, my gf was FURIOUS. I tried to explain what happened, but she didn't let me say a word. She grabbed the keys, yelled at me for being late, and took off. The funny part is that her meeting was bout 35 minutes away, and even with me being late she still had about 50 minutes to get there. I was so upset over the way she reacted, that I yelled back, and used some choice words (I'm not proud of that).\n\nThe worst part of it is this weekend I had planned on checking out a car dealership about an hour away. Seeing as we share a car, I have been saving for months to buy a new one, and my gf said she would take me to go check it out. 10 minutes after she left, I got a text from her saying \"I'm not taking you to get the car, find your own ride.\" I texted her back with a lengthy explanation of why I was late, and called her out for lacking empathy and not understanding that I wasn't trying to disrespect her time. She texted back with \"I didn't read that last text, and I don't plan to.\"\n\nWhat can I do? I feel like anytime bad things happen, my gf automatically assumes that it is entirely my fault, when in reality it is often due to things that are out of my control?"
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years, and the relationship is great, except for what I mentioned above. A good example is from this morning. We share a car, and she had an important meeting for work. We were at my place, and because she was busy getting ready for her meeting, I told her I would take the car early in the morning so I could go to her place to feed her dog. She was pretty adamant about me being back on time, and I told her I would have plenty of time to feed the dog, and come back to pick her up. When I got to her place, her dog bolted out the door (he never does this) and I spent the next 20 minutes trying to track him down. I found him at a nearby park, fed him, and rushed back home (I ended up being about 10 minutes late). When I got home, my gf was FURIOUS. I tried to explain what happened, but she didn't let me say a word. She grabbed the keys, yelled at me for being late, and took off. The funny part is that her meeting was bout 35 minutes away, and even with me being late she still had about 50 minutes to get there. I was so upset over the way she reacted, that I yelled back, and used some choice words (I'm not proud of that).\n\nThe worst part of it is this weekend I had planned on checking out a car dealership about an hour away. Seeing as we share a car, I have been saving for months to buy a new one, and my gf said she would take me to go check it out. 10 minutes after she left, I got a text from her saying \"I'm not taking you to get the car, find your own ride.\" I texted her back with a lengthy explanation of why I was late, and called her out for lacking empathy and not understanding that I wasn't trying to disrespect her time. She texted back with \"I didn't read that last text, and I don't plan to.\"\n\nWhat can I do? I feel like anytime bad things happen, my gf automatically assumes that it is entirely my fault, when in reality it is often due to things that are out of my control?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years, and the relationship is great, except for what I mentioned above. A good example is from this morning. We share a car, and she had an important meeting for work. We were at my place, and because she was busy getting ready for her meeting, I told her I would take the car early in the morning so I could go to her place to feed her dog. She was pretty adamant about me being back on time, and I told her I would have plenty of time to feed the dog, and come back to pick her up. When I got to her place, her dog bolted out the door (he never does this) and I spent the next 20 minutes trying to track him down. I found him at a nearby park, fed him, and rushed back home (I ended up being about 10 minutes late). When I got home, my gf was FURIOUS. I tried to explain what happened, but she didn't let me say a word. She grabbed the keys, yelled at me for being late, and took off. The funny part is that her meeting was bout 35 minutes away, and even with me being late she still had about 50 minutes to get there. I was so upset over the way she reacted, that I yelled back, and used some choice words (I'm not proud of that).\n\nThe worst part of it is this weekend I had planned on checking out a car dealership about an hour away. Seeing as we share a car, I have been saving for months to buy a new one, and my gf said she would take me to go check it out. 10 minutes after she left, I got a text from her saying \"I'm not taking you to get the car, find your own ride.\" I texted her back with a lengthy explanation of why I was late, and called her out for lacking empathy and not understanding that I wasn't trying to disrespect her time. She texted back with \"I didn't read that last text, and I don't plan to.\"\n\nWhat can I do? I feel like anytime bad things happen, my gf automatically assumes that it is entirely my fault, when in reality it is often due to things that are out of my control?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I feel really bad about this. My 18 year old female friend that I've liked for a very long time told me last Saturday she liked this guy and kept going on about him. Without thinking my best friend called yesterday to catch up on stuff since we haven't talked in a while and I told her about it cause I was kind of frustrated about it. So she knows this guy and she knows he's talking to multiple girls, even tried hitting on her like a day ago. My 18 year old friend went to the movies with him that saturday and now he's acting like she doesn't exist and she likes him a lot. I didn't go and tell my friend that he's using her I didn't say anything because it would make me look creepy and I wasn't intending that. But I told a mutual friend of ours about him and she told me I'm a low person to have told my friend who our mutual friend is talking too and it's\nNot my business and if she dates sometime who uses her she will find out on her own. I felt bad so I talked to my 18 F friend but I didn't say anything about him I just said I told my friend. And she's mad at me now. Did I really mess up that bad? I just don't want to see her get hurt cause I care about her a lot."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I feel really bad about this. My 18 year old female friend that I've liked for a very long time told me last Saturday she liked this guy and kept going on about him. Without thinking my best friend called yesterday to catch up on stuff since we haven't talked in a while and I told her about it cause I was kind of frustrated about it. So she knows this guy and she knows he's talking to multiple girls, even tried hitting on her like a day ago. My 18 year old friend went to the movies with him that saturday and now he's acting like she doesn't exist and she likes him a lot. I didn't go and tell my friend that he's using her I didn't say anything because it would make me look creepy and I wasn't intending that. But I told a mutual friend of ours about him and she told me I'm a low person to have told my friend who our mutual friend is talking too and it's\nNot my business and if she dates sometime who uses her she will find out on her own. I felt bad so I talked to my 18 F friend but I didn't say anything about him I just said I told my friend. And she's mad at me now. Did I really mess up that bad? I just don't want to see her get hurt cause I care about her a lot."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I feel really bad about this. My 18 year old female friend that I've liked for a very long time told me last Saturday she liked this guy and kept going on about him. Without thinking my best friend called yesterday to catch up on stuff since we haven't talked in a while and I told her about it cause I was kind of frustrated about it. So she knows this guy and she knows he's talking to multiple girls, even tried hitting on her like a day ago. My 18 year old friend went to the movies with him that saturday and now he's acting like she doesn't exist and she likes him a lot. I didn't go and tell my friend that he's using her I didn't say anything because it would make me look creepy and I wasn't intending that. But I told a mutual friend of ours about him and she told me I'm a low person to have told my friend who our mutual friend is talking too and it's\nNot my business and if she dates sometime who uses her she will find out on her own. I felt bad so I talked to my 18 F friend but I didn't say anything about him I just said I told my friend. And she's mad at me now. Did I really mess up that bad? I just don't want to see her get hurt cause I care about her a lot."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I feel really bad about this. My 18 year old female friend that I've liked for a very long time told me last Saturday she liked this guy and kept going on about him. Without thinking my best friend called yesterday to catch up on stuff since we haven't talked in a while and I told her about it cause I was kind of frustrated about it. So she knows this guy and she knows he's talking to multiple girls, even tried hitting on her like a day ago. My 18 year old friend went to the movies with him that saturday and now he's acting like she doesn't exist and she likes him a lot. I didn't go and tell my friend that he's using her I didn't say anything because it would make me look creepy and I wasn't intending that. But I told a mutual friend of ours about him and she told me I'm a low person to have told my friend who our mutual friend is talking too and it's\nNot my business and if she dates sometime who uses her she will find out on her own. I felt bad so I talked to my 18 F friend but I didn't say anything about him I just said I told my friend. And she's mad at me now. Did I really mess up that bad? I just don't want to see her get hurt cause I care about her a lot."
} |
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