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{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are living together and have a child most things in our relationship are solid but I notice this annoying trend and though the problems eventually resolve I want to get to the root of this issue. \n\nAnytime my boyfriend is being a bit harsh and rude for whatever reason (stress, overwhelmed, etc.) I try to say \"you're behaviour is hurtful and really upsetting you are making me feel X\". When I say this I wish he would apologize for what he's doing and look at his behaviour and try to make a change. Instead, I get no apology and him saying \"I don't know why you feel that way I'm not trying to be (rude, mean, harsh, hurtful etc.) and then the behaviour continues until I act VERY upset and give him the silent treatment or cry. Which is genuine because I get so frustrated after telling him 1-2-3-6 times over a short period how I'm feeling and he ignores me. \n\nLike I said this doesn't happen often and I understand why he has been kind of short lately because our child is acting up a bit recently and he is interviewing for very important jobs and we have been travelling a lot and dealing with his family. BUT if someone calls you out on being hard on them you would think you'd look at your behaviour. I don't blame him for being stressed but I think we should support each other not push each other away. I also think we need to be mature and discuss things and not resort to sulking and fighting when we have disagreements. \n\nAny advice on how to make him realize that I AM hurt, he IS being unfairly harsh, mean, etc?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are living together and have a child most things in our relationship are solid but I notice this annoying trend and though the problems eventually resolve I want to get to the root of this issue. \n\nAnytime my boyfriend is being a bit harsh and rude for whatever reason (stress, overwhelmed, etc.) I try to say \"you're behaviour is hurtful and really upsetting you are making me feel X\". When I say this I wish he would apologize for what he's doing and look at his behaviour and try to make a change. Instead, I get no apology and him saying \"I don't know why you feel that way I'm not trying to be (rude, mean, harsh, hurtful etc.) and then the behaviour continues until I act VERY upset and give him the silent treatment or cry. Which is genuine because I get so frustrated after telling him 1-2-3-6 times over a short period how I'm feeling and he ignores me. \n\nLike I said this doesn't happen often and I understand why he has been kind of short lately because our child is acting up a bit recently and he is interviewing for very important jobs and we have been travelling a lot and dealing with his family. BUT if someone calls you out on being hard on them you would think you'd look at your behaviour. I don't blame him for being stressed but I think we should support each other not push each other away. I also think we need to be mature and discuss things and not resort to sulking and fighting when we have disagreements. \n\nAny advice on how to make him realize that I AM hurt, he IS being unfairly harsh, mean, etc?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are living together and have a child most things in our relationship are solid but I notice this annoying trend and though the problems eventually resolve I want to get to the root of this issue. \n\nAnytime my boyfriend is being a bit harsh and rude for whatever reason (stress, overwhelmed, etc.) I try to say \"you're behaviour is hurtful and really upsetting you are making me feel X\". When I say this I wish he would apologize for what he's doing and look at his behaviour and try to make a change. Instead, I get no apology and him saying \"I don't know why you feel that way I'm not trying to be (rude, mean, harsh, hurtful etc.) and then the behaviour continues until I act VERY upset and give him the silent treatment or cry. Which is genuine because I get so frustrated after telling him 1-2-3-6 times over a short period how I'm feeling and he ignores me. \n\nLike I said this doesn't happen often and I understand why he has been kind of short lately because our child is acting up a bit recently and he is interviewing for very important jobs and we have been travelling a lot and dealing with his family. BUT if someone calls you out on being hard on them you would think you'd look at your behaviour. I don't blame him for being stressed but I think we should support each other not push each other away. I also think we need to be mature and discuss things and not resort to sulking and fighting when we have disagreements. \n\nAny advice on how to make him realize that I AM hurt, he IS being unfairly harsh, mean, etc?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We are living together and have a child most things in our relationship are solid but I notice this annoying trend and though the problems eventually resolve I want to get to the root of this issue. \n\nAnytime my boyfriend is being a bit harsh and rude for whatever reason (stress, overwhelmed, etc.) I try to say \"you're behaviour is hurtful and really upsetting you are making me feel X\". When I say this I wish he would apologize for what he's doing and look at his behaviour and try to make a change. Instead, I get no apology and him saying \"I don't know why you feel that way I'm not trying to be (rude, mean, harsh, hurtful etc.) and then the behaviour continues until I act VERY upset and give him the silent treatment or cry. Which is genuine because I get so frustrated after telling him 1-2-3-6 times over a short period how I'm feeling and he ignores me. \n\nLike I said this doesn't happen often and I understand why he has been kind of short lately because our child is acting up a bit recently and he is interviewing for very important jobs and we have been travelling a lot and dealing with his family. BUT if someone calls you out on being hard on them you would think you'd look at your behaviour. I don't blame him for being stressed but I think we should support each other not push each other away. I also think we need to be mature and discuss things and not resort to sulking and fighting when we have disagreements. \n\nAny advice on how to make him realize that I AM hurt, he IS being unfairly harsh, mean, etc?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married to my wonderful husband for three years now and we have two 1 year old sons (twins).\n\nEarlier this week a woman contacted me, I know of her (I didn't know her). She is ex girlfriend of my husband. They were together for a very short time. She asked to meet to talk about something really important. So we met yesterday. She told me that after she had broken up with my husband she realized that she was pregnant and she told him that she got an abortion. My husband told me about this.\n\nIn reality, she never had that abortion. She had the baby and never told my husband. Since they didn't remain in contact my husband never knew of the child's existence. And the child has now passed away because of Neuroblastoma. She said that she couldn't live with herself if she didn't reach out to us and leaves it in my hands whether to tell my husband or not.\n\nSo now I'm left with this devastating news which I don't know whether to tell my husband or not. He'll be devastated to hear that not only he had a child that he wasn't in there for him but the child spent a long time being ill and my he didn't do anything to help, and the child is now gone. If he knew the child he would have wanted to be in his life and be there for him in his time of need. This news will destroy him. On the other hand it's the truth, and I don't know how hiding this might affect him in the long term if he ever learns.\n\nThe child's mother told me that nobody else knows my husband is the father and she herself won't ever contact us again. \n\nI don't know what I should do. It's such a huge thing and I don't know if I should keep it from my husband for the sake of sparing him the pain." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married to my wonderful husband for three years now and we have two 1 year old sons (twins).\n\nEarlier this week a woman contacted me, I know of her (I didn't know her). She is ex girlfriend of my husband. They were together for a very short time. She asked to meet to talk about something really important. So we met yesterday. She told me that after she had broken up with my husband she realized that she was pregnant and she told him that she got an abortion. My husband told me about this.\n\nIn reality, she never had that abortion. She had the baby and never told my husband. Since they didn't remain in contact my husband never knew of the child's existence. And the child has now passed away because of Neuroblastoma. She said that she couldn't live with herself if she didn't reach out to us and leaves it in my hands whether to tell my husband or not.\n\nSo now I'm left with this devastating news which I don't know whether to tell my husband or not. He'll be devastated to hear that not only he had a child that he wasn't in there for him but the child spent a long time being ill and my he didn't do anything to help, and the child is now gone. If he knew the child he would have wanted to be in his life and be there for him in his time of need. This news will destroy him. On the other hand it's the truth, and I don't know how hiding this might affect him in the long term if he ever learns.\n\nThe child's mother told me that nobody else knows my husband is the father and she herself won't ever contact us again. \n\nI don't know what I should do. It's such a huge thing and I don't know if I should keep it from my husband for the sake of sparing him the pain." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married to my wonderful husband for three years now and we have two 1 year old sons (twins).\n\nEarlier this week a woman contacted me, I know of her (I didn't know her). She is ex girlfriend of my husband. They were together for a very short time. She asked to meet to talk about something really important. So we met yesterday. She told me that after she had broken up with my husband she realized that she was pregnant and she told him that she got an abortion. My husband told me about this.\n\nIn reality, she never had that abortion. She had the baby and never told my husband. Since they didn't remain in contact my husband never knew of the child's existence. And the child has now passed away because of Neuroblastoma. She said that she couldn't live with herself if she didn't reach out to us and leaves it in my hands whether to tell my husband or not.\n\nSo now I'm left with this devastating news which I don't know whether to tell my husband or not. He'll be devastated to hear that not only he had a child that he wasn't in there for him but the child spent a long time being ill and my he didn't do anything to help, and the child is now gone. If he knew the child he would have wanted to be in his life and be there for him in his time of need. This news will destroy him. On the other hand it's the truth, and I don't know how hiding this might affect him in the long term if he ever learns.\n\nThe child's mother told me that nobody else knows my husband is the father and she herself won't ever contact us again. \n\nI don't know what I should do. It's such a huge thing and I don't know if I should keep it from my husband for the sake of sparing him the pain." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been married to my wonderful husband for three years now and we have two 1 year old sons (twins).\n\nEarlier this week a woman contacted me, I know of her (I didn't know her). She is ex girlfriend of my husband. They were together for a very short time. She asked to meet to talk about something really important. So we met yesterday. She told me that after she had broken up with my husband she realized that she was pregnant and she told him that she got an abortion. My husband told me about this.\n\nIn reality, she never had that abortion. She had the baby and never told my husband. Since they didn't remain in contact my husband never knew of the child's existence. And the child has now passed away because of Neuroblastoma. She said that she couldn't live with herself if she didn't reach out to us and leaves it in my hands whether to tell my husband or not.\n\nSo now I'm left with this devastating news which I don't know whether to tell my husband or not. He'll be devastated to hear that not only he had a child that he wasn't in there for him but the child spent a long time being ill and my he didn't do anything to help, and the child is now gone. If he knew the child he would have wanted to be in his life and be there for him in his time of need. This news will destroy him. On the other hand it's the truth, and I don't know how hiding this might affect him in the long term if he ever learns.\n\nThe child's mother told me that nobody else knows my husband is the father and she herself won't ever contact us again. \n\nI don't know what I should do. It's such a huge thing and I don't know if I should keep it from my husband for the sake of sparing him the pain." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a huge baker regardless of what the dish is. Wedding cakes are really expensive all things considered. I made my fiance's parents 25th anniversary renew vows wedding cake (almost 6 years ago?), which wasn't that bad - worse that I hadn't properly made a stacked cake before but was quite easy and not that labour intensive. And my FH was thinking cupcakes are great idea as no cutting is actually required (though the venue is not charging for cake cutting as it is part of the catering if no dessert is served). We are only having 80 guests so if I wanted to feed the DJ (friend of BM) and photographer(s) then we'll call that 84 (7 dozen) for simplicity, which is about 3.5 different recipes. I have all of the supplies necessary already (pans, tins, food colouring, piping bags and more tips than you thought existed) and ingredients aren't that expensive. I already know a few recipes where people have fought over the remaining cupcakes. I know how to make and work with edible (not disgusting) fondant. I know how to make fake sugar flowers. We have \"cake Friday\" at my school where we bake once weekly on our rotation week, which switches every week. Last Thursday it took 2.5 hours to bake 41 cupcakes when I only have 1 oven rack fitting 12 cupcakes at a time (love being in Scotland sometimes.). I'll be back at home (in California) by the wedding so I can make 24 cupcakes at a time, which will speed things along." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a huge baker regardless of what the dish is. Wedding cakes are really expensive all things considered. I made my fiance's parents 25th anniversary renew vows wedding cake (almost 6 years ago?), which wasn't that bad - worse that I hadn't properly made a stacked cake before but was quite easy and not that labour intensive. And my FH was thinking cupcakes are great idea as no cutting is actually required (though the venue is not charging for cake cutting as it is part of the catering if no dessert is served). We are only having 80 guests so if I wanted to feed the DJ (friend of BM) and photographer(s) then we'll call that 84 (7 dozen) for simplicity, which is about 3.5 different recipes. I have all of the supplies necessary already (pans, tins, food colouring, piping bags and more tips than you thought existed) and ingredients aren't that expensive. I already know a few recipes where people have fought over the remaining cupcakes. I know how to make and work with edible (not disgusting) fondant. I know how to make fake sugar flowers. We have \"cake Friday\" at my school where we bake once weekly on our rotation week, which switches every week. Last Thursday it took 2.5 hours to bake 41 cupcakes when I only have 1 oven rack fitting 12 cupcakes at a time (love being in Scotland sometimes.). I'll be back at home (in California) by the wedding so I can make 24 cupcakes at a time, which will speed things along." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a huge baker regardless of what the dish is. Wedding cakes are really expensive all things considered. I made my fiance's parents 25th anniversary renew vows wedding cake (almost 6 years ago?), which wasn't that bad - worse that I hadn't properly made a stacked cake before but was quite easy and not that labour intensive. And my FH was thinking cupcakes are great idea as no cutting is actually required (though the venue is not charging for cake cutting as it is part of the catering if no dessert is served). We are only having 80 guests so if I wanted to feed the DJ (friend of BM) and photographer(s) then we'll call that 84 (7 dozen) for simplicity, which is about 3.5 different recipes. I have all of the supplies necessary already (pans, tins, food colouring, piping bags and more tips than you thought existed) and ingredients aren't that expensive. I already know a few recipes where people have fought over the remaining cupcakes. I know how to make and work with edible (not disgusting) fondant. I know how to make fake sugar flowers. We have \"cake Friday\" at my school where we bake once weekly on our rotation week, which switches every week. Last Thursday it took 2.5 hours to bake 41 cupcakes when I only have 1 oven rack fitting 12 cupcakes at a time (love being in Scotland sometimes.). I'll be back at home (in California) by the wedding so I can make 24 cupcakes at a time, which will speed things along." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a huge baker regardless of what the dish is. Wedding cakes are really expensive all things considered. I made my fiance's parents 25th anniversary renew vows wedding cake (almost 6 years ago?), which wasn't that bad - worse that I hadn't properly made a stacked cake before but was quite easy and not that labour intensive. And my FH was thinking cupcakes are great idea as no cutting is actually required (though the venue is not charging for cake cutting as it is part of the catering if no dessert is served). We are only having 80 guests so if I wanted to feed the DJ (friend of BM) and photographer(s) then we'll call that 84 (7 dozen) for simplicity, which is about 3.5 different recipes. I have all of the supplies necessary already (pans, tins, food colouring, piping bags and more tips than you thought existed) and ingredients aren't that expensive. I already know a few recipes where people have fought over the remaining cupcakes. I know how to make and work with edible (not disgusting) fondant. I know how to make fake sugar flowers. We have \"cake Friday\" at my school where we bake once weekly on our rotation week, which switches every week. Last Thursday it took 2.5 hours to bake 41 cupcakes when I only have 1 oven rack fitting 12 cupcakes at a time (love being in Scotland sometimes.). I'll be back at home (in California) by the wedding so I can make 24 cupcakes at a time, which will speed things along." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory OP story: \nMedical help in the US. Early stories involve being left suffocating in a hallway, strapped to an ambulance bed for over an hour with a torn Trachea. After that, they sent me to a facility to wean me off the steroids, after I asked to be released to go home. This place was full of old people waiting to die. Would not buy again. \nThen there's all the times I've had kidneystones, and fuckers are stingy with pain meds when I have legitimate fucking pain, and an already high tolerance for opiates combined with years of medically prescribed use. Don't get me started on kidneystone surgery, and their stupid recovery practices, or home nurses that just never show up. \nFinally, Since my last kidney issue, I've been having problems focusing, sleeping 16+ hours a day and not responding to physical stimuli or alarms, and have pretty much every symptom of hypothyroidism, along with a blood panel confirming low levels of Thyroid Hormone. \nStupid endocrinologist I was sent to doesn't understand hormone interaction, and I'm stuck trying everything else, while begging for thyroid medication, and looking for other doctors that can see me with less than a 3 month wait. \n\nOhh, and I forgot, dealing with insurance the whole way. For the 50th fucking time, you're my only insurance policy, stop denying claims because you think an unmarried man has a spouse with insurance." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory OP story: \nMedical help in the US. Early stories involve being left suffocating in a hallway, strapped to an ambulance bed for over an hour with a torn Trachea. After that, they sent me to a facility to wean me off the steroids, after I asked to be released to go home. This place was full of old people waiting to die. Would not buy again. \nThen there's all the times I've had kidneystones, and fuckers are stingy with pain meds when I have legitimate fucking pain, and an already high tolerance for opiates combined with years of medically prescribed use. Don't get me started on kidneystone surgery, and their stupid recovery practices, or home nurses that just never show up. \nFinally, Since my last kidney issue, I've been having problems focusing, sleeping 16+ hours a day and not responding to physical stimuli or alarms, and have pretty much every symptom of hypothyroidism, along with a blood panel confirming low levels of Thyroid Hormone. \nStupid endocrinologist I was sent to doesn't understand hormone interaction, and I'm stuck trying everything else, while begging for thyroid medication, and looking for other doctors that can see me with less than a 3 month wait. \n\nOhh, and I forgot, dealing with insurance the whole way. For the 50th fucking time, you're my only insurance policy, stop denying claims because you think an unmarried man has a spouse with insurance." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory OP story: \nMedical help in the US. Early stories involve being left suffocating in a hallway, strapped to an ambulance bed for over an hour with a torn Trachea. After that, they sent me to a facility to wean me off the steroids, after I asked to be released to go home. This place was full of old people waiting to die. Would not buy again. \nThen there's all the times I've had kidneystones, and fuckers are stingy with pain meds when I have legitimate fucking pain, and an already high tolerance for opiates combined with years of medically prescribed use. Don't get me started on kidneystone surgery, and their stupid recovery practices, or home nurses that just never show up. \nFinally, Since my last kidney issue, I've been having problems focusing, sleeping 16+ hours a day and not responding to physical stimuli or alarms, and have pretty much every symptom of hypothyroidism, along with a blood panel confirming low levels of Thyroid Hormone. \nStupid endocrinologist I was sent to doesn't understand hormone interaction, and I'm stuck trying everything else, while begging for thyroid medication, and looking for other doctors that can see me with less than a 3 month wait. \n\nOhh, and I forgot, dealing with insurance the whole way. For the 50th fucking time, you're my only insurance policy, stop denying claims because you think an unmarried man has a spouse with insurance." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory OP story: \nMedical help in the US. Early stories involve being left suffocating in a hallway, strapped to an ambulance bed for over an hour with a torn Trachea. After that, they sent me to a facility to wean me off the steroids, after I asked to be released to go home. This place was full of old people waiting to die. Would not buy again. \nThen there's all the times I've had kidneystones, and fuckers are stingy with pain meds when I have legitimate fucking pain, and an already high tolerance for opiates combined with years of medically prescribed use. Don't get me started on kidneystone surgery, and their stupid recovery practices, or home nurses that just never show up. \nFinally, Since my last kidney issue, I've been having problems focusing, sleeping 16+ hours a day and not responding to physical stimuli or alarms, and have pretty much every symptom of hypothyroidism, along with a blood panel confirming low levels of Thyroid Hormone. \nStupid endocrinologist I was sent to doesn't understand hormone interaction, and I'm stuck trying everything else, while begging for thyroid medication, and looking for other doctors that can see me with less than a 3 month wait. \n\nOhh, and I forgot, dealing with insurance the whole way. For the 50th fucking time, you're my only insurance policy, stop denying claims because you think an unmarried man has a spouse with insurance." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory OP story: \nMedical help in the US. Early stories involve being left suffocating in a hallway, strapped to an ambulance bed for over an hour with a torn Trachea. After that, they sent me to a facility to wean me off the steroids, after I asked to be released to go home. This place was full of old people waiting to die. Would not buy again. \nThen there's all the times I've had kidneystones, and fuckers are stingy with pain meds when I have legitimate fucking pain, and an already high tolerance for opiates combined with years of medically prescribed use. Don't get me started on kidneystone surgery, and their stupid recovery practices, or home nurses that just never show up. \nFinally, Since my last kidney issue, I've been having problems focusing, sleeping 16+ hours a day and not responding to physical stimuli or alarms, and have pretty much every symptom of hypothyroidism, along with a blood panel confirming low levels of Thyroid Hormone. \nStupid endocrinologist I was sent to doesn't understand hormone interaction, and I'm stuck trying everything else, while begging for thyroid medication, and looking for other doctors that can see me with less than a 3 month wait. \n\nOhh, and I forgot, dealing with insurance the whole way. For the 50th fucking time, you're my only insurance policy, stop denying claims because you think an unmarried man has a spouse with insurance." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory OP story: \nMedical help in the US. Early stories involve being left suffocating in a hallway, strapped to an ambulance bed for over an hour with a torn Trachea. After that, they sent me to a facility to wean me off the steroids, after I asked to be released to go home. This place was full of old people waiting to die. Would not buy again. \nThen there's all the times I've had kidneystones, and fuckers are stingy with pain meds when I have legitimate fucking pain, and an already high tolerance for opiates combined with years of medically prescribed use. Don't get me started on kidneystone surgery, and their stupid recovery practices, or home nurses that just never show up. \nFinally, Since my last kidney issue, I've been having problems focusing, sleeping 16+ hours a day and not responding to physical stimuli or alarms, and have pretty much every symptom of hypothyroidism, along with a blood panel confirming low levels of Thyroid Hormone. \nStupid endocrinologist I was sent to doesn't understand hormone interaction, and I'm stuck trying everything else, while begging for thyroid medication, and looking for other doctors that can see me with less than a 3 month wait. \n\nOhh, and I forgot, dealing with insurance the whole way. For the 50th fucking time, you're my only insurance policy, stop denying claims because you think an unmarried man has a spouse with insurance." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory OP story: \nMedical help in the US. Early stories involve being left suffocating in a hallway, strapped to an ambulance bed for over an hour with a torn Trachea. After that, they sent me to a facility to wean me off the steroids, after I asked to be released to go home. This place was full of old people waiting to die. Would not buy again. \nThen there's all the times I've had kidneystones, and fuckers are stingy with pain meds when I have legitimate fucking pain, and an already high tolerance for opiates combined with years of medically prescribed use. Don't get me started on kidneystone surgery, and their stupid recovery practices, or home nurses that just never show up. \nFinally, Since my last kidney issue, I've been having problems focusing, sleeping 16+ hours a day and not responding to physical stimuli or alarms, and have pretty much every symptom of hypothyroidism, along with a blood panel confirming low levels of Thyroid Hormone. \nStupid endocrinologist I was sent to doesn't understand hormone interaction, and I'm stuck trying everything else, while begging for thyroid medication, and looking for other doctors that can see me with less than a 3 month wait. \n\nOhh, and I forgot, dealing with insurance the whole way. For the 50th fucking time, you're my only insurance policy, stop denying claims because you think an unmarried man has a spouse with insurance." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory OP story: \nMedical help in the US. Early stories involve being left suffocating in a hallway, strapped to an ambulance bed for over an hour with a torn Trachea. After that, they sent me to a facility to wean me off the steroids, after I asked to be released to go home. This place was full of old people waiting to die. Would not buy again. \nThen there's all the times I've had kidneystones, and fuckers are stingy with pain meds when I have legitimate fucking pain, and an already high tolerance for opiates combined with years of medically prescribed use. Don't get me started on kidneystone surgery, and their stupid recovery practices, or home nurses that just never show up. \nFinally, Since my last kidney issue, I've been having problems focusing, sleeping 16+ hours a day and not responding to physical stimuli or alarms, and have pretty much every symptom of hypothyroidism, along with a blood panel confirming low levels of Thyroid Hormone. \nStupid endocrinologist I was sent to doesn't understand hormone interaction, and I'm stuck trying everything else, while begging for thyroid medication, and looking for other doctors that can see me with less than a 3 month wait. \n\nOhh, and I forgot, dealing with insurance the whole way. For the 50th fucking time, you're my only insurance policy, stop denying claims because you think an unmarried man has a spouse with insurance." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory OP story: \nMedical help in the US. Early stories involve being left suffocating in a hallway, strapped to an ambulance bed for over an hour with a torn Trachea. After that, they sent me to a facility to wean me off the steroids, after I asked to be released to go home. This place was full of old people waiting to die. Would not buy again. \nThen there's all the times I've had kidneystones, and fuckers are stingy with pain meds when I have legitimate fucking pain, and an already high tolerance for opiates combined with years of medically prescribed use. Don't get me started on kidneystone surgery, and their stupid recovery practices, or home nurses that just never show up. \nFinally, Since my last kidney issue, I've been having problems focusing, sleeping 16+ hours a day and not responding to physical stimuli or alarms, and have pretty much every symptom of hypothyroidism, along with a blood panel confirming low levels of Thyroid Hormone. \nStupid endocrinologist I was sent to doesn't understand hormone interaction, and I'm stuck trying everything else, while begging for thyroid medication, and looking for other doctors that can see me with less than a 3 month wait. \n\nOhh, and I forgot, dealing with insurance the whole way. For the 50th fucking time, you're my only insurance policy, stop denying claims because you think an unmarried man has a spouse with insurance." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory OP story: \nMedical help in the US. Early stories involve being left suffocating in a hallway, strapped to an ambulance bed for over an hour with a torn Trachea. After that, they sent me to a facility to wean me off the steroids, after I asked to be released to go home. This place was full of old people waiting to die. Would not buy again. \nThen there's all the times I've had kidneystones, and fuckers are stingy with pain meds when I have legitimate fucking pain, and an already high tolerance for opiates combined with years of medically prescribed use. Don't get me started on kidneystone surgery, and their stupid recovery practices, or home nurses that just never show up. \nFinally, Since my last kidney issue, I've been having problems focusing, sleeping 16+ hours a day and not responding to physical stimuli or alarms, and have pretty much every symptom of hypothyroidism, along with a blood panel confirming low levels of Thyroid Hormone. \nStupid endocrinologist I was sent to doesn't understand hormone interaction, and I'm stuck trying everything else, while begging for thyroid medication, and looking for other doctors that can see me with less than a 3 month wait. \n\nOhh, and I forgot, dealing with insurance the whole way. For the 50th fucking time, you're my only insurance policy, stop denying claims because you think an unmarried man has a spouse with insurance." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory OP story: \nMedical help in the US. Early stories involve being left suffocating in a hallway, strapped to an ambulance bed for over an hour with a torn Trachea. After that, they sent me to a facility to wean me off the steroids, after I asked to be released to go home. This place was full of old people waiting to die. Would not buy again. \nThen there's all the times I've had kidneystones, and fuckers are stingy with pain meds when I have legitimate fucking pain, and an already high tolerance for opiates combined with years of medically prescribed use. Don't get me started on kidneystone surgery, and their stupid recovery practices, or home nurses that just never show up. \nFinally, Since my last kidney issue, I've been having problems focusing, sleeping 16+ hours a day and not responding to physical stimuli or alarms, and have pretty much every symptom of hypothyroidism, along with a blood panel confirming low levels of Thyroid Hormone. \nStupid endocrinologist I was sent to doesn't understand hormone interaction, and I'm stuck trying everything else, while begging for thyroid medication, and looking for other doctors that can see me with less than a 3 month wait. \n\nOhh, and I forgot, dealing with insurance the whole way. For the 50th fucking time, you're my only insurance policy, stop denying claims because you think an unmarried man has a spouse with insurance." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Obligatory OP story: \nMedical help in the US. Early stories involve being left suffocating in a hallway, strapped to an ambulance bed for over an hour with a torn Trachea. After that, they sent me to a facility to wean me off the steroids, after I asked to be released to go home. This place was full of old people waiting to die. Would not buy again. \nThen there's all the times I've had kidneystones, and fuckers are stingy with pain meds when I have legitimate fucking pain, and an already high tolerance for opiates combined with years of medically prescribed use. Don't get me started on kidneystone surgery, and their stupid recovery practices, or home nurses that just never show up. \nFinally, Since my last kidney issue, I've been having problems focusing, sleeping 16+ hours a day and not responding to physical stimuli or alarms, and have pretty much every symptom of hypothyroidism, along with a blood panel confirming low levels of Thyroid Hormone. \nStupid endocrinologist I was sent to doesn't understand hormone interaction, and I'm stuck trying everything else, while begging for thyroid medication, and looking for other doctors that can see me with less than a 3 month wait. \n\nOhh, and I forgot, dealing with insurance the whole way. For the 50th fucking time, you're my only insurance policy, stop denying claims because you think an unmarried man has a spouse with insurance." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To elaborate, she currently lives in southern CA and I in northern CA. She is enrolled in the online cohort of a university of here and apparently there is a mandatory meeting of some sort in November. Thus, she asked if she could stay at my place. \"You'll barely see me since I'll be gone to the meeting\" she said.\n\nI had mixed feelings from the second she asked to stay. The breakup was kinda rough because we had been together for six years, and I didn't want to take a step back so to speak, by having her stay around and reintroducing the emotion that was between us. It was my first relationship and thus a difficult breakup.\n\nOne mistake I made was, after the breakup, trying to be as compassionate as possible and remain friends with her, and offer to help wherever I could. So I really set myself up for this situation.\n\nUltimately I told her I'm not comfortable with her staying here, even if we barely see each other, because of what I mentioned earlier that it will bring back those emotions. I'm in graduate school right now too, so the less distractions the better.\n\nObviously she wasn't ok with it and had a pretty emotional response, now I feel guilty, but I'm trying to stay firm on this.\n\nI'd like some input on whether I made the right decision here. Also, I was thinking of reaching out to her when she is here, just to meet and chat in public, though that would seem to have the same negative effect I mentioned. What do you all think? I appreciate your responses in advance." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To elaborate, she currently lives in southern CA and I in northern CA. She is enrolled in the online cohort of a university of here and apparently there is a mandatory meeting of some sort in November. Thus, she asked if she could stay at my place. \"You'll barely see me since I'll be gone to the meeting\" she said.\n\nI had mixed feelings from the second she asked to stay. The breakup was kinda rough because we had been together for six years, and I didn't want to take a step back so to speak, by having her stay around and reintroducing the emotion that was between us. It was my first relationship and thus a difficult breakup.\n\nOne mistake I made was, after the breakup, trying to be as compassionate as possible and remain friends with her, and offer to help wherever I could. So I really set myself up for this situation.\n\nUltimately I told her I'm not comfortable with her staying here, even if we barely see each other, because of what I mentioned earlier that it will bring back those emotions. I'm in graduate school right now too, so the less distractions the better.\n\nObviously she wasn't ok with it and had a pretty emotional response, now I feel guilty, but I'm trying to stay firm on this.\n\nI'd like some input on whether I made the right decision here. Also, I was thinking of reaching out to her when she is here, just to meet and chat in public, though that would seem to have the same negative effect I mentioned. What do you all think? I appreciate your responses in advance." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To elaborate, she currently lives in southern CA and I in northern CA. She is enrolled in the online cohort of a university of here and apparently there is a mandatory meeting of some sort in November. Thus, she asked if she could stay at my place. \"You'll barely see me since I'll be gone to the meeting\" she said.\n\nI had mixed feelings from the second she asked to stay. The breakup was kinda rough because we had been together for six years, and I didn't want to take a step back so to speak, by having her stay around and reintroducing the emotion that was between us. It was my first relationship and thus a difficult breakup.\n\nOne mistake I made was, after the breakup, trying to be as compassionate as possible and remain friends with her, and offer to help wherever I could. So I really set myself up for this situation.\n\nUltimately I told her I'm not comfortable with her staying here, even if we barely see each other, because of what I mentioned earlier that it will bring back those emotions. I'm in graduate school right now too, so the less distractions the better.\n\nObviously she wasn't ok with it and had a pretty emotional response, now I feel guilty, but I'm trying to stay firm on this.\n\nI'd like some input on whether I made the right decision here. Also, I was thinking of reaching out to her when she is here, just to meet and chat in public, though that would seem to have the same negative effect I mentioned. What do you all think? I appreciate your responses in advance." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: To elaborate, she currently lives in southern CA and I in northern CA. She is enrolled in the online cohort of a university of here and apparently there is a mandatory meeting of some sort in November. Thus, she asked if she could stay at my place. \"You'll barely see me since I'll be gone to the meeting\" she said.\n\nI had mixed feelings from the second she asked to stay. The breakup was kinda rough because we had been together for six years, and I didn't want to take a step back so to speak, by having her stay around and reintroducing the emotion that was between us. It was my first relationship and thus a difficult breakup.\n\nOne mistake I made was, after the breakup, trying to be as compassionate as possible and remain friends with her, and offer to help wherever I could. So I really set myself up for this situation.\n\nUltimately I told her I'm not comfortable with her staying here, even if we barely see each other, because of what I mentioned earlier that it will bring back those emotions. I'm in graduate school right now too, so the less distractions the better.\n\nObviously she wasn't ok with it and had a pretty emotional response, now I feel guilty, but I'm trying to stay firm on this.\n\nI'd like some input on whether I made the right decision here. Also, I was thinking of reaching out to her when she is here, just to meet and chat in public, though that would seem to have the same negative effect I mentioned. What do you all think? I appreciate your responses in advance." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically I've known this girl for a long time but we didn't become involved until about 6 or 7 months ago.\n\n* We have spent a lot of time together, everything from having dinner a few times to getting drunk at parties and we've stayed with each other a few nights just watching movies or whatever. Hell we're planning a vacation for her birthday next month together.\n\n* She use to kind of blow me off but was also just getting out of a long and unhealthy relationship (From what I've gathered). Just in the last month or two have we really been spending a lot time together. I've told her that I like her and that I'm interested and she say that she feels the same. \n\n* We're also physical with each other, we've kissed a lot cuddled/etc I've stayed with her a couple times but I never tried anything because I'm nervous mostly. \n\n* I want to know how to kind of go about making her my girlfriend? I'm mostly scared she won't be ready or something but I have zero evidence to believe that's the case other than her ditching on plans months ago." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically I've known this girl for a long time but we didn't become involved until about 6 or 7 months ago.\n\n* We have spent a lot of time together, everything from having dinner a few times to getting drunk at parties and we've stayed with each other a few nights just watching movies or whatever. Hell we're planning a vacation for her birthday next month together.\n\n* She use to kind of blow me off but was also just getting out of a long and unhealthy relationship (From what I've gathered). Just in the last month or two have we really been spending a lot time together. I've told her that I like her and that I'm interested and she say that she feels the same. \n\n* We're also physical with each other, we've kissed a lot cuddled/etc I've stayed with her a couple times but I never tried anything because I'm nervous mostly. \n\n* I want to know how to kind of go about making her my girlfriend? I'm mostly scared she won't be ready or something but I have zero evidence to believe that's the case other than her ditching on plans months ago." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically I've known this girl for a long time but we didn't become involved until about 6 or 7 months ago.\n\n* We have spent a lot of time together, everything from having dinner a few times to getting drunk at parties and we've stayed with each other a few nights just watching movies or whatever. Hell we're planning a vacation for her birthday next month together.\n\n* She use to kind of blow me off but was also just getting out of a long and unhealthy relationship (From what I've gathered). Just in the last month or two have we really been spending a lot time together. I've told her that I like her and that I'm interested and she say that she feels the same. \n\n* We're also physical with each other, we've kissed a lot cuddled/etc I've stayed with her a couple times but I never tried anything because I'm nervous mostly. \n\n* I want to know how to kind of go about making her my girlfriend? I'm mostly scared she won't be ready or something but I have zero evidence to believe that's the case other than her ditching on plans months ago." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So basically I've known this girl for a long time but we didn't become involved until about 6 or 7 months ago.\n\n* We have spent a lot of time together, everything from having dinner a few times to getting drunk at parties and we've stayed with each other a few nights just watching movies or whatever. Hell we're planning a vacation for her birthday next month together.\n\n* She use to kind of blow me off but was also just getting out of a long and unhealthy relationship (From what I've gathered). Just in the last month or two have we really been spending a lot time together. I've told her that I like her and that I'm interested and she say that she feels the same. \n\n* We're also physical with each other, we've kissed a lot cuddled/etc I've stayed with her a couple times but I never tried anything because I'm nervous mostly. \n\n* I want to know how to kind of go about making her my girlfriend? I'm mostly scared she won't be ready or something but I have zero evidence to believe that's the case other than her ditching on plans months ago." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Short and sweet. hopefully.\n\nI'm separated form my wife of 10 years and we're currently having counselling to hopefully get back together. I earn very good money on a contractor basis, around £500 a day (for my *company* so plenty of tax and things get involved before it's in my bank account but still. it is a lot). Since splitting with my wife last year I have been paying for everything she needs, rent, food etc., through a large and informal child support payment of £1500 a month ($2250?). As a result she's not worked, but has had an income higher than the national average salary of the UK.\n\nI have the kids at the weekend, usually Friday evening until Monday morning, and also all Wednesday evening / night. She gets annoyed if I bring them back to hers even an hour early. I expected her to fight to see them more, not less! By my maths, I see them significantly more than she does, and she's not working. She is a wonderful mother though, and keeps her house spotless.\n\nIn my position would you think it makes sense for me to take time off over the holidays (and not earn anything on those days) to be with my kids (the ones I love having for the entire weekend each side of this week, and some of the middle) even though my wife can look after them perfectly well all week what with how she doesn't need to work in the first place, thanks to my work?\n\nIt probably sounds harsh looking back at what I wrote, but I'm trying to be concise. I know that I can afford to take the time, and do take very little time off in general, but it doesn't sit right somehow that I'm being told i need to have the kids so she can have a break for them (just like every weekend already is for her).\n\nFuck that looks terrible. It's not meant to read like that, but I'd *REALLY* appreciate some objective opinions about this situation I've tried to describe.\n\nMaybe I could take time off and suggest doing something together as an entire family? People in real life tell me I shoudln't be expected to at all, and she's abusing her position, but I can't come to terms with that." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Short and sweet. hopefully.\n\nI'm separated form my wife of 10 years and we're currently having counselling to hopefully get back together. I earn very good money on a contractor basis, around £500 a day (for my *company* so plenty of tax and things get involved before it's in my bank account but still. it is a lot). Since splitting with my wife last year I have been paying for everything she needs, rent, food etc., through a large and informal child support payment of £1500 a month ($2250?). As a result she's not worked, but has had an income higher than the national average salary of the UK.\n\nI have the kids at the weekend, usually Friday evening until Monday morning, and also all Wednesday evening / night. She gets annoyed if I bring them back to hers even an hour early. I expected her to fight to see them more, not less! By my maths, I see them significantly more than she does, and she's not working. She is a wonderful mother though, and keeps her house spotless.\n\nIn my position would you think it makes sense for me to take time off over the holidays (and not earn anything on those days) to be with my kids (the ones I love having for the entire weekend each side of this week, and some of the middle) even though my wife can look after them perfectly well all week what with how she doesn't need to work in the first place, thanks to my work?\n\nIt probably sounds harsh looking back at what I wrote, but I'm trying to be concise. I know that I can afford to take the time, and do take very little time off in general, but it doesn't sit right somehow that I'm being told i need to have the kids so she can have a break for them (just like every weekend already is for her).\n\nFuck that looks terrible. It's not meant to read like that, but I'd *REALLY* appreciate some objective opinions about this situation I've tried to describe.\n\nMaybe I could take time off and suggest doing something together as an entire family? People in real life tell me I shoudln't be expected to at all, and she's abusing her position, but I can't come to terms with that." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Short and sweet. hopefully.\n\nI'm separated form my wife of 10 years and we're currently having counselling to hopefully get back together. I earn very good money on a contractor basis, around £500 a day (for my *company* so plenty of tax and things get involved before it's in my bank account but still. it is a lot). Since splitting with my wife last year I have been paying for everything she needs, rent, food etc., through a large and informal child support payment of £1500 a month ($2250?). As a result she's not worked, but has had an income higher than the national average salary of the UK.\n\nI have the kids at the weekend, usually Friday evening until Monday morning, and also all Wednesday evening / night. She gets annoyed if I bring them back to hers even an hour early. I expected her to fight to see them more, not less! By my maths, I see them significantly more than she does, and she's not working. She is a wonderful mother though, and keeps her house spotless.\n\nIn my position would you think it makes sense for me to take time off over the holidays (and not earn anything on those days) to be with my kids (the ones I love having for the entire weekend each side of this week, and some of the middle) even though my wife can look after them perfectly well all week what with how she doesn't need to work in the first place, thanks to my work?\n\nIt probably sounds harsh looking back at what I wrote, but I'm trying to be concise. I know that I can afford to take the time, and do take very little time off in general, but it doesn't sit right somehow that I'm being told i need to have the kids so she can have a break for them (just like every weekend already is for her).\n\nFuck that looks terrible. It's not meant to read like that, but I'd *REALLY* appreciate some objective opinions about this situation I've tried to describe.\n\nMaybe I could take time off and suggest doing something together as an entire family? People in real life tell me I shoudln't be expected to at all, and she's abusing her position, but I can't come to terms with that." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Short and sweet. hopefully.\n\nI'm separated form my wife of 10 years and we're currently having counselling to hopefully get back together. I earn very good money on a contractor basis, around £500 a day (for my *company* so plenty of tax and things get involved before it's in my bank account but still. it is a lot). Since splitting with my wife last year I have been paying for everything she needs, rent, food etc., through a large and informal child support payment of £1500 a month ($2250?). As a result she's not worked, but has had an income higher than the national average salary of the UK.\n\nI have the kids at the weekend, usually Friday evening until Monday morning, and also all Wednesday evening / night. She gets annoyed if I bring them back to hers even an hour early. I expected her to fight to see them more, not less! By my maths, I see them significantly more than she does, and she's not working. She is a wonderful mother though, and keeps her house spotless.\n\nIn my position would you think it makes sense for me to take time off over the holidays (and not earn anything on those days) to be with my kids (the ones I love having for the entire weekend each side of this week, and some of the middle) even though my wife can look after them perfectly well all week what with how she doesn't need to work in the first place, thanks to my work?\n\nIt probably sounds harsh looking back at what I wrote, but I'm trying to be concise. I know that I can afford to take the time, and do take very little time off in general, but it doesn't sit right somehow that I'm being told i need to have the kids so she can have a break for them (just like every weekend already is for her).\n\nFuck that looks terrible. It's not meant to read like that, but I'd *REALLY* appreciate some objective opinions about this situation I've tried to describe.\n\nMaybe I could take time off and suggest doing something together as an entire family? People in real life tell me I shoudln't be expected to at all, and she's abusing her position, but I can't come to terms with that." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone. Back when I was younger (about 20) I was not the most confident guy around women. I eventually learned to up my confidence through the help of friends and am now a lot better. \n Back when I was younger I had my fair share of rejections. By pure happenstance I recently bumped, at a party, into two woman I use to know and who both rejected me.\n\n Now I have gotten much more confident since I last really talked much to either of them. They are friends of friends and I just rarely see them. I have gotten myself in better shape and graduated with a great career all ready underway because I did have some help from nepotism. I hit it off with both of them and got their numbers. \n I was pretty drunk, when I woke up in the morning I thought \"meh fuck it\" and didn't bother texting them. They did turn me down before and I figured it simply wasn't worth it. They both have started texting me quite aggressively. So finally here is my internal conflict:\n\nAre they genuinely attracted too me now because of changes I have made, or do they see me as a \npotential supplier and financial stability.\n\nI'm sure this seems unduly cynical. It very well could be. I have been reading this forum quite a bit and some of the stories make my heart wrench for you guys and gals. It has also made me a little cautious of peoples motives. When they turned me down neither were really rude, but it was a pretty resounding no. If I also remember correctly both asked about what I had been up to and pried about my job, memory is a little foggy. Also neither has really accomplished much in life and work pretty shitty jobs. Both want to see me again. Both are beautiful young women and have pretty great personalities. I don't begrudge people for turning me down, it happens. I refuse to let someone use me for a stable financial situation or whatever the hell people call it. What is everyone's thoughts here? Is there ways I could tell if they are interested in me or my job?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone. Back when I was younger (about 20) I was not the most confident guy around women. I eventually learned to up my confidence through the help of friends and am now a lot better. \n Back when I was younger I had my fair share of rejections. By pure happenstance I recently bumped, at a party, into two woman I use to know and who both rejected me.\n\n Now I have gotten much more confident since I last really talked much to either of them. They are friends of friends and I just rarely see them. I have gotten myself in better shape and graduated with a great career all ready underway because I did have some help from nepotism. I hit it off with both of them and got their numbers. \n I was pretty drunk, when I woke up in the morning I thought \"meh fuck it\" and didn't bother texting them. They did turn me down before and I figured it simply wasn't worth it. They both have started texting me quite aggressively. So finally here is my internal conflict:\n\nAre they genuinely attracted too me now because of changes I have made, or do they see me as a \npotential supplier and financial stability.\n\nI'm sure this seems unduly cynical. It very well could be. I have been reading this forum quite a bit and some of the stories make my heart wrench for you guys and gals. It has also made me a little cautious of peoples motives. When they turned me down neither were really rude, but it was a pretty resounding no. If I also remember correctly both asked about what I had been up to and pried about my job, memory is a little foggy. Also neither has really accomplished much in life and work pretty shitty jobs. Both want to see me again. Both are beautiful young women and have pretty great personalities. I don't begrudge people for turning me down, it happens. I refuse to let someone use me for a stable financial situation or whatever the hell people call it. What is everyone's thoughts here? Is there ways I could tell if they are interested in me or my job?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone. Back when I was younger (about 20) I was not the most confident guy around women. I eventually learned to up my confidence through the help of friends and am now a lot better. \n Back when I was younger I had my fair share of rejections. By pure happenstance I recently bumped, at a party, into two woman I use to know and who both rejected me.\n\n Now I have gotten much more confident since I last really talked much to either of them. They are friends of friends and I just rarely see them. I have gotten myself in better shape and graduated with a great career all ready underway because I did have some help from nepotism. I hit it off with both of them and got their numbers. \n I was pretty drunk, when I woke up in the morning I thought \"meh fuck it\" and didn't bother texting them. They did turn me down before and I figured it simply wasn't worth it. They both have started texting me quite aggressively. So finally here is my internal conflict:\n\nAre they genuinely attracted too me now because of changes I have made, or do they see me as a \npotential supplier and financial stability.\n\nI'm sure this seems unduly cynical. It very well could be. I have been reading this forum quite a bit and some of the stories make my heart wrench for you guys and gals. It has also made me a little cautious of peoples motives. When they turned me down neither were really rude, but it was a pretty resounding no. If I also remember correctly both asked about what I had been up to and pried about my job, memory is a little foggy. Also neither has really accomplished much in life and work pretty shitty jobs. Both want to see me again. Both are beautiful young women and have pretty great personalities. I don't begrudge people for turning me down, it happens. I refuse to let someone use me for a stable financial situation or whatever the hell people call it. What is everyone's thoughts here? Is there ways I could tell if they are interested in me or my job?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey everyone. Back when I was younger (about 20) I was not the most confident guy around women. I eventually learned to up my confidence through the help of friends and am now a lot better. \n Back when I was younger I had my fair share of rejections. By pure happenstance I recently bumped, at a party, into two woman I use to know and who both rejected me.\n\n Now I have gotten much more confident since I last really talked much to either of them. They are friends of friends and I just rarely see them. I have gotten myself in better shape and graduated with a great career all ready underway because I did have some help from nepotism. I hit it off with both of them and got their numbers. \n I was pretty drunk, when I woke up in the morning I thought \"meh fuck it\" and didn't bother texting them. They did turn me down before and I figured it simply wasn't worth it. They both have started texting me quite aggressively. So finally here is my internal conflict:\n\nAre they genuinely attracted too me now because of changes I have made, or do they see me as a \npotential supplier and financial stability.\n\nI'm sure this seems unduly cynical. It very well could be. I have been reading this forum quite a bit and some of the stories make my heart wrench for you guys and gals. It has also made me a little cautious of peoples motives. When they turned me down neither were really rude, but it was a pretty resounding no. If I also remember correctly both asked about what I had been up to and pried about my job, memory is a little foggy. Also neither has really accomplished much in life and work pretty shitty jobs. Both want to see me again. Both are beautiful young women and have pretty great personalities. I don't begrudge people for turning me down, it happens. I refuse to let someone use me for a stable financial situation or whatever the hell people call it. What is everyone's thoughts here? Is there ways I could tell if they are interested in me or my job?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I transfered colleges and a guy that I went to middle school started snap chatting me. Eventually we started hooking up on and off, but it was never anything serious.\n\nFast-forward, I hooked up with him the day before he was going to leave for abroad for a semester. We texted and snap chatted every single day and eventually started to FaceTime frequently. We shared how we felt about each other and talked about dating when he got back- he even sent me flowers! It had been 3 months and he was coming back from abroad and he seemed so excited to hangout- he even was moving into my apartment building.\n\nWhen he returned we barley hung out. The texting everyday and snap chatting stopped. I confronted him about it and he said that his friends came first, which I understood. I wasn't asking to be his first priority. \n\nI am still confused as to what I did wrong. \n\nWhat was this guys deal, am I crazy?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I transfered colleges and a guy that I went to middle school started snap chatting me. Eventually we started hooking up on and off, but it was never anything serious.\n\nFast-forward, I hooked up with him the day before he was going to leave for abroad for a semester. We texted and snap chatted every single day and eventually started to FaceTime frequently. We shared how we felt about each other and talked about dating when he got back- he even sent me flowers! It had been 3 months and he was coming back from abroad and he seemed so excited to hangout- he even was moving into my apartment building.\n\nWhen he returned we barley hung out. The texting everyday and snap chatting stopped. I confronted him about it and he said that his friends came first, which I understood. I wasn't asking to be his first priority. \n\nI am still confused as to what I did wrong. \n\nWhat was this guys deal, am I crazy?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I transfered colleges and a guy that I went to middle school started snap chatting me. Eventually we started hooking up on and off, but it was never anything serious.\n\nFast-forward, I hooked up with him the day before he was going to leave for abroad for a semester. We texted and snap chatted every single day and eventually started to FaceTime frequently. We shared how we felt about each other and talked about dating when he got back- he even sent me flowers! It had been 3 months and he was coming back from abroad and he seemed so excited to hangout- he even was moving into my apartment building.\n\nWhen he returned we barley hung out. The texting everyday and snap chatting stopped. I confronted him about it and he said that his friends came first, which I understood. I wasn't asking to be his first priority. \n\nI am still confused as to what I did wrong. \n\nWhat was this guys deal, am I crazy?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I transfered colleges and a guy that I went to middle school started snap chatting me. Eventually we started hooking up on and off, but it was never anything serious.\n\nFast-forward, I hooked up with him the day before he was going to leave for abroad for a semester. We texted and snap chatted every single day and eventually started to FaceTime frequently. We shared how we felt about each other and talked about dating when he got back- he even sent me flowers! It had been 3 months and he was coming back from abroad and he seemed so excited to hangout- he even was moving into my apartment building.\n\nWhen he returned we barley hung out. The texting everyday and snap chatting stopped. I confronted him about it and he said that his friends came first, which I understood. I wasn't asking to be his first priority. \n\nI am still confused as to what I did wrong. \n\nWhat was this guys deal, am I crazy?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It all started on Valentine's day when we were both swiping on Tinder and we got matched. We started talking. Even though he lived an hour away from the city, he said he occasionally drives down to the city so the distance wasn't a big deal for him. He seemed like a nice, career oriented (owned his marketing business) and family oriented (his facebook was full of family photos) guy and we had so much in common. After we talked about 2 hours, added each other on Facebook, he asked me on a date. Because both of our schedules were hectic, we couldn't schedule a set day & time there but we promised to keep in touch the next day. \n\nHe had the day off today and it turned out that my work place had some major flooding so we planned to meet up later today. We both liked country music, I told him I knew a country bar in the city that I can take him to. He said he wanted to make sure it's not a crazy place so we could get to talk. We finally determined a spot and time. Half an hour before I was heading to the bar, I messaged him to let him know. He replied \"OK so what time did you wanna meet?\" This was odd at first. I thought he would already be on his way here because driving takes an hour and I texted him half an hour before the set time. I asked him if he has arrived yet and he replied \"Not yet 5 min away\". I said \"great! see you in a bit\" and he replied \"ok sounds good\". \n\nI went to the bar and I ended up waiting for 45 minutes. I texted and asked him whether he is looking for a parking spot. I tried calling him. Crickets. \n\nThis was just so unexpected. He seemed like a genuine guy and we actually got to talk quite a bit before we met. Why would anyone say I'll be there in 5 min and then go in complete silence?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It all started on Valentine's day when we were both swiping on Tinder and we got matched. We started talking. Even though he lived an hour away from the city, he said he occasionally drives down to the city so the distance wasn't a big deal for him. He seemed like a nice, career oriented (owned his marketing business) and family oriented (his facebook was full of family photos) guy and we had so much in common. After we talked about 2 hours, added each other on Facebook, he asked me on a date. Because both of our schedules were hectic, we couldn't schedule a set day & time there but we promised to keep in touch the next day. \n\nHe had the day off today and it turned out that my work place had some major flooding so we planned to meet up later today. We both liked country music, I told him I knew a country bar in the city that I can take him to. He said he wanted to make sure it's not a crazy place so we could get to talk. We finally determined a spot and time. Half an hour before I was heading to the bar, I messaged him to let him know. He replied \"OK so what time did you wanna meet?\" This was odd at first. I thought he would already be on his way here because driving takes an hour and I texted him half an hour before the set time. I asked him if he has arrived yet and he replied \"Not yet 5 min away\". I said \"great! see you in a bit\" and he replied \"ok sounds good\". \n\nI went to the bar and I ended up waiting for 45 minutes. I texted and asked him whether he is looking for a parking spot. I tried calling him. Crickets. \n\nThis was just so unexpected. He seemed like a genuine guy and we actually got to talk quite a bit before we met. Why would anyone say I'll be there in 5 min and then go in complete silence?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It all started on Valentine's day when we were both swiping on Tinder and we got matched. We started talking. Even though he lived an hour away from the city, he said he occasionally drives down to the city so the distance wasn't a big deal for him. He seemed like a nice, career oriented (owned his marketing business) and family oriented (his facebook was full of family photos) guy and we had so much in common. After we talked about 2 hours, added each other on Facebook, he asked me on a date. Because both of our schedules were hectic, we couldn't schedule a set day & time there but we promised to keep in touch the next day. \n\nHe had the day off today and it turned out that my work place had some major flooding so we planned to meet up later today. We both liked country music, I told him I knew a country bar in the city that I can take him to. He said he wanted to make sure it's not a crazy place so we could get to talk. We finally determined a spot and time. Half an hour before I was heading to the bar, I messaged him to let him know. He replied \"OK so what time did you wanna meet?\" This was odd at first. I thought he would already be on his way here because driving takes an hour and I texted him half an hour before the set time. I asked him if he has arrived yet and he replied \"Not yet 5 min away\". I said \"great! see you in a bit\" and he replied \"ok sounds good\". \n\nI went to the bar and I ended up waiting for 45 minutes. I texted and asked him whether he is looking for a parking spot. I tried calling him. Crickets. \n\nThis was just so unexpected. He seemed like a genuine guy and we actually got to talk quite a bit before we met. Why would anyone say I'll be there in 5 min and then go in complete silence?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It all started on Valentine's day when we were both swiping on Tinder and we got matched. We started talking. Even though he lived an hour away from the city, he said he occasionally drives down to the city so the distance wasn't a big deal for him. He seemed like a nice, career oriented (owned his marketing business) and family oriented (his facebook was full of family photos) guy and we had so much in common. After we talked about 2 hours, added each other on Facebook, he asked me on a date. Because both of our schedules were hectic, we couldn't schedule a set day & time there but we promised to keep in touch the next day. \n\nHe had the day off today and it turned out that my work place had some major flooding so we planned to meet up later today. We both liked country music, I told him I knew a country bar in the city that I can take him to. He said he wanted to make sure it's not a crazy place so we could get to talk. We finally determined a spot and time. Half an hour before I was heading to the bar, I messaged him to let him know. He replied \"OK so what time did you wanna meet?\" This was odd at first. I thought he would already be on his way here because driving takes an hour and I texted him half an hour before the set time. I asked him if he has arrived yet and he replied \"Not yet 5 min away\". I said \"great! see you in a bit\" and he replied \"ok sounds good\". \n\nI went to the bar and I ended up waiting for 45 minutes. I texted and asked him whether he is looking for a parking spot. I tried calling him. Crickets. \n\nThis was just so unexpected. He seemed like a genuine guy and we actually got to talk quite a bit before we met. Why would anyone say I'll be there in 5 min and then go in complete silence?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: just before new years I was having trouble with my family, my mum's mum disowned her at Christmas and this set off some of my mother's brothers and sisters to take grandmas side and not come to Christmas dinner. \n\nI was tasked to picking up with the peices and trying to fix everything and so i called my girlfriend and we had a talk about how I need some space to get my head sorted and focus on my family life, I had no idea how long this would take so we decided to break up until I could give her the time and attention she needed. \n\nI met with my uncles, aunts and grandma to discuss the problems and try to fix everything and it's going well but when I have talked to my ex about making another go of it she isn't interested saying how we can just go back to dating now and see how it goes. Am I being out of order to think we could try again? it's only been two weeks and my feelings for her haven't changed. \n\nobviously it's only been two weeks but she says she needs time and distance. Should I be letting her know I'm thinking about her a lot or just leave it and hope for the best? I want to fight for her but not push her away and im confused I don't really have anyone to bounce ideas off I would greatly appreciate some advice or information as to what would be a healthy next step. We are OK as freinds, we can talk to each other." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: just before new years I was having trouble with my family, my mum's mum disowned her at Christmas and this set off some of my mother's brothers and sisters to take grandmas side and not come to Christmas dinner. \n\nI was tasked to picking up with the peices and trying to fix everything and so i called my girlfriend and we had a talk about how I need some space to get my head sorted and focus on my family life, I had no idea how long this would take so we decided to break up until I could give her the time and attention she needed. \n\nI met with my uncles, aunts and grandma to discuss the problems and try to fix everything and it's going well but when I have talked to my ex about making another go of it she isn't interested saying how we can just go back to dating now and see how it goes. Am I being out of order to think we could try again? it's only been two weeks and my feelings for her haven't changed. \n\nobviously it's only been two weeks but she says she needs time and distance. Should I be letting her know I'm thinking about her a lot or just leave it and hope for the best? I want to fight for her but not push her away and im confused I don't really have anyone to bounce ideas off I would greatly appreciate some advice or information as to what would be a healthy next step. We are OK as freinds, we can talk to each other." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: just before new years I was having trouble with my family, my mum's mum disowned her at Christmas and this set off some of my mother's brothers and sisters to take grandmas side and not come to Christmas dinner. \n\nI was tasked to picking up with the peices and trying to fix everything and so i called my girlfriend and we had a talk about how I need some space to get my head sorted and focus on my family life, I had no idea how long this would take so we decided to break up until I could give her the time and attention she needed. \n\nI met with my uncles, aunts and grandma to discuss the problems and try to fix everything and it's going well but when I have talked to my ex about making another go of it she isn't interested saying how we can just go back to dating now and see how it goes. Am I being out of order to think we could try again? it's only been two weeks and my feelings for her haven't changed. \n\nobviously it's only been two weeks but she says she needs time and distance. Should I be letting her know I'm thinking about her a lot or just leave it and hope for the best? I want to fight for her but not push her away and im confused I don't really have anyone to bounce ideas off I would greatly appreciate some advice or information as to what would be a healthy next step. We are OK as freinds, we can talk to each other." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: just before new years I was having trouble with my family, my mum's mum disowned her at Christmas and this set off some of my mother's brothers and sisters to take grandmas side and not come to Christmas dinner. \n\nI was tasked to picking up with the peices and trying to fix everything and so i called my girlfriend and we had a talk about how I need some space to get my head sorted and focus on my family life, I had no idea how long this would take so we decided to break up until I could give her the time and attention she needed. \n\nI met with my uncles, aunts and grandma to discuss the problems and try to fix everything and it's going well but when I have talked to my ex about making another go of it she isn't interested saying how we can just go back to dating now and see how it goes. Am I being out of order to think we could try again? it's only been two weeks and my feelings for her haven't changed. \n\nobviously it's only been two weeks but she says she needs time and distance. Should I be letting her know I'm thinking about her a lot or just leave it and hope for the best? I want to fight for her but not push her away and im confused I don't really have anyone to bounce ideas off I would greatly appreciate some advice or information as to what would be a healthy next step. We are OK as freinds, we can talk to each other." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been in a long distance relationship for about 6 months. I love her (we can call her Jen), but I also now have feelings for another girl (we'll call Jess). Jess goes to my university, while Jen lives and goes to school five hours away from where I live and go to school. I love Jen, but the distance is extremely difficult, and Jess and I both have shown feelings for each other, and she wants a relationship, and I am thinking I should end my current relationship with Jen. But if I leave Jen she would be destroyed. She has struggled with depression, and said she can't live without me. I care about her so so much, and I know if I end it she would not handle it well at all. I still have feelings for her, and she has already planned to spend the rest of her life with me. The problem is we won't be able to be together for at least four more years, probably more. I don't know if I can commit that much time before we can have a normal relationship, even though it could last forever. My relationship with Jen is also my first real relationship, and makes me wonder if I fell in love too fast/easily, and am missing something. But I do love her and I don't know if i should end the relationship to start a new one with Jess that I don't know will last forever. I really don't know what to do." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been in a long distance relationship for about 6 months. I love her (we can call her Jen), but I also now have feelings for another girl (we'll call Jess). Jess goes to my university, while Jen lives and goes to school five hours away from where I live and go to school. I love Jen, but the distance is extremely difficult, and Jess and I both have shown feelings for each other, and she wants a relationship, and I am thinking I should end my current relationship with Jen. But if I leave Jen she would be destroyed. She has struggled with depression, and said she can't live without me. I care about her so so much, and I know if I end it she would not handle it well at all. I still have feelings for her, and she has already planned to spend the rest of her life with me. The problem is we won't be able to be together for at least four more years, probably more. I don't know if I can commit that much time before we can have a normal relationship, even though it could last forever. My relationship with Jen is also my first real relationship, and makes me wonder if I fell in love too fast/easily, and am missing something. But I do love her and I don't know if i should end the relationship to start a new one with Jess that I don't know will last forever. I really don't know what to do." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been in a long distance relationship for about 6 months. I love her (we can call her Jen), but I also now have feelings for another girl (we'll call Jess). Jess goes to my university, while Jen lives and goes to school five hours away from where I live and go to school. I love Jen, but the distance is extremely difficult, and Jess and I both have shown feelings for each other, and she wants a relationship, and I am thinking I should end my current relationship with Jen. But if I leave Jen she would be destroyed. She has struggled with depression, and said she can't live without me. I care about her so so much, and I know if I end it she would not handle it well at all. I still have feelings for her, and she has already planned to spend the rest of her life with me. The problem is we won't be able to be together for at least four more years, probably more. I don't know if I can commit that much time before we can have a normal relationship, even though it could last forever. My relationship with Jen is also my first real relationship, and makes me wonder if I fell in love too fast/easily, and am missing something. But I do love her and I don't know if i should end the relationship to start a new one with Jess that I don't know will last forever. I really don't know what to do." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been in a long distance relationship for about 6 months. I love her (we can call her Jen), but I also now have feelings for another girl (we'll call Jess). Jess goes to my university, while Jen lives and goes to school five hours away from where I live and go to school. I love Jen, but the distance is extremely difficult, and Jess and I both have shown feelings for each other, and she wants a relationship, and I am thinking I should end my current relationship with Jen. But if I leave Jen she would be destroyed. She has struggled with depression, and said she can't live without me. I care about her so so much, and I know if I end it she would not handle it well at all. I still have feelings for her, and she has already planned to spend the rest of her life with me. The problem is we won't be able to be together for at least four more years, probably more. I don't know if I can commit that much time before we can have a normal relationship, even though it could last forever. My relationship with Jen is also my first real relationship, and makes me wonder if I fell in love too fast/easily, and am missing something. But I do love her and I don't know if i should end the relationship to start a new one with Jess that I don't know will last forever. I really don't know what to do." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [X-post from /r/relationships: \n\nThis is more a question to people who have used other people as rebounds.\n\nI [30f] recently came out of a year long relationship [41m] - realizing only toward the end that I was a rebound. Just 2 months after we broke up (we broke up 4 months ago) - he began to see another women who is now his gf.\n\nThat's fine - I don't want to be with him again but the though of being a rebound really hurts. We were together for over a year - he had a lot of problems revolving around sex and he let out a month ago that I 'fixed' him and now he has a great sex life with her (he was unable to perform with me and so I had to tolerate a dead bedroom situation among other things like his drinking). I suppose he thought that was meant to be some kind of compliment to me.\n\nI don't think I've been a rebound before - and I certainly haven't used anyone as one. But I feel like.nothing.like i meant nothing just a distraction despite all I sacrificed; which I did, and oh god it hurts! I just don't know how to feel. This is the only thing that's making me feel miserable and unable to move on - there are other things of course but THIS is the main thing, and it's devastating.\n\nSo how have you felt about the people you dated on the rebound? Both during and after you broke up? How can I move on from this?\n\nI suppose I should also ask: how do you deal with the feelings of loneliness? I have lots of friends, I have hobbies, I go out a lot. But it seems like I'm just going though the motions. I can't seem to 'connect' with anyone or the world." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [X-post from /r/relationships: \n\nThis is more a question to people who have used other people as rebounds.\n\nI [30f] recently came out of a year long relationship [41m] - realizing only toward the end that I was a rebound. Just 2 months after we broke up (we broke up 4 months ago) - he began to see another women who is now his gf.\n\nThat's fine - I don't want to be with him again but the though of being a rebound really hurts. We were together for over a year - he had a lot of problems revolving around sex and he let out a month ago that I 'fixed' him and now he has a great sex life with her (he was unable to perform with me and so I had to tolerate a dead bedroom situation among other things like his drinking). I suppose he thought that was meant to be some kind of compliment to me.\n\nI don't think I've been a rebound before - and I certainly haven't used anyone as one. But I feel like.nothing.like i meant nothing just a distraction despite all I sacrificed; which I did, and oh god it hurts! I just don't know how to feel. This is the only thing that's making me feel miserable and unable to move on - there are other things of course but THIS is the main thing, and it's devastating.\n\nSo how have you felt about the people you dated on the rebound? Both during and after you broke up? How can I move on from this?\n\nI suppose I should also ask: how do you deal with the feelings of loneliness? I have lots of friends, I have hobbies, I go out a lot. But it seems like I'm just going though the motions. I can't seem to 'connect' with anyone or the world." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [X-post from /r/relationships: \n\nThis is more a question to people who have used other people as rebounds.\n\nI [30f] recently came out of a year long relationship [41m] - realizing only toward the end that I was a rebound. Just 2 months after we broke up (we broke up 4 months ago) - he began to see another women who is now his gf.\n\nThat's fine - I don't want to be with him again but the though of being a rebound really hurts. We were together for over a year - he had a lot of problems revolving around sex and he let out a month ago that I 'fixed' him and now he has a great sex life with her (he was unable to perform with me and so I had to tolerate a dead bedroom situation among other things like his drinking). I suppose he thought that was meant to be some kind of compliment to me.\n\nI don't think I've been a rebound before - and I certainly haven't used anyone as one. But I feel like.nothing.like i meant nothing just a distraction despite all I sacrificed; which I did, and oh god it hurts! I just don't know how to feel. This is the only thing that's making me feel miserable and unable to move on - there are other things of course but THIS is the main thing, and it's devastating.\n\nSo how have you felt about the people you dated on the rebound? Both during and after you broke up? How can I move on from this?\n\nI suppose I should also ask: how do you deal with the feelings of loneliness? I have lots of friends, I have hobbies, I go out a lot. But it seems like I'm just going though the motions. I can't seem to 'connect' with anyone or the world." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [X-post from /r/relationships: \n\nThis is more a question to people who have used other people as rebounds.\n\nI [30f] recently came out of a year long relationship [41m] - realizing only toward the end that I was a rebound. Just 2 months after we broke up (we broke up 4 months ago) - he began to see another women who is now his gf.\n\nThat's fine - I don't want to be with him again but the though of being a rebound really hurts. We were together for over a year - he had a lot of problems revolving around sex and he let out a month ago that I 'fixed' him and now he has a great sex life with her (he was unable to perform with me and so I had to tolerate a dead bedroom situation among other things like his drinking). I suppose he thought that was meant to be some kind of compliment to me.\n\nI don't think I've been a rebound before - and I certainly haven't used anyone as one. But I feel like.nothing.like i meant nothing just a distraction despite all I sacrificed; which I did, and oh god it hurts! I just don't know how to feel. This is the only thing that's making me feel miserable and unable to move on - there are other things of course but THIS is the main thing, and it's devastating.\n\nSo how have you felt about the people you dated on the rebound? Both during and after you broke up? How can I move on from this?\n\nI suppose I should also ask: how do you deal with the feelings of loneliness? I have lots of friends, I have hobbies, I go out a lot. But it seems like I'm just going though the motions. I can't seem to 'connect' with anyone or the world." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone. So I've been mulling this over in my head and I'm still not sure what to do. \n\nMy mother- and father-in-law are flying in to visit us in January and my husband's mother asked him what to do with an old locket that he had purchased for his ex-wife. When they were together, he bought her a very expensive locket, which she ended up not liking and not wearing. Her family convinced her that it looked like cheap costume jewelry and she decided to mentally reject the gift. \n\nMy husband has expressed that he would like to give it to me, but I'm not sure how I do or should feel about it. We have been married for just over a year and have been together for four years. What do you guys think?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone. So I've been mulling this over in my head and I'm still not sure what to do. \n\nMy mother- and father-in-law are flying in to visit us in January and my husband's mother asked him what to do with an old locket that he had purchased for his ex-wife. When they were together, he bought her a very expensive locket, which she ended up not liking and not wearing. Her family convinced her that it looked like cheap costume jewelry and she decided to mentally reject the gift. \n\nMy husband has expressed that he would like to give it to me, but I'm not sure how I do or should feel about it. We have been married for just over a year and have been together for four years. What do you guys think?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone. So I've been mulling this over in my head and I'm still not sure what to do. \n\nMy mother- and father-in-law are flying in to visit us in January and my husband's mother asked him what to do with an old locket that he had purchased for his ex-wife. When they were together, he bought her a very expensive locket, which she ended up not liking and not wearing. Her family convinced her that it looked like cheap costume jewelry and she decided to mentally reject the gift. \n\nMy husband has expressed that he would like to give it to me, but I'm not sure how I do or should feel about it. We have been married for just over a year and have been together for four years. What do you guys think?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi everyone. So I've been mulling this over in my head and I'm still not sure what to do. \n\nMy mother- and father-in-law are flying in to visit us in January and my husband's mother asked him what to do with an old locket that he had purchased for his ex-wife. When they were together, he bought her a very expensive locket, which she ended up not liking and not wearing. Her family convinced her that it looked like cheap costume jewelry and she decided to mentally reject the gift. \n\nMy husband has expressed that he would like to give it to me, but I'm not sure how I do or should feel about it. We have been married for just over a year and have been together for four years. What do you guys think?" }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is a tale of drama and crazy bitches that went too far.\n\nThere has been a longstanding feud between my wife and the wife of her former CEO. She was finally let go due to her boss being unable to deal with the drama. No ill-will to the man he gave her a good severance deal and letter of recommendation. The problem is his wife is bat-shit crazy and will not let this go. If this was just workplace drama it would be one thing, but it gets a little more intense. Apparently one of her coworkers had a crush on her and on a day when she went up to the office to pick something up with a friend the guy made a move. She blew him off and quit talking to him, apparently this set off his psycho-chip as well and he started texting my wife saying how he would die if he couldn't talk to her. Problem is psycho dude is married. Once his wife found out, psycho guy went off the rails telling her my wife made the move on him and he just had a moment of weakness. Now we get back to psycho-chick the CEO's wife. She has apparently been feeding psycho-dude's wife full of stories about my wife slept with half the office (not true) and how she was obviously flirting with psycho-dude in public. Then she crosses the line. She gives the guys wife our address and all of my wife's info. This morning my wife gets a threatening text from psycho-dude's wife saying that when my wife leaves the house she will be coming back to nothing. I trust my wife, and whatever truth there is to the drama bs will be resolved between me and her. But, to put me and my family in danger by giving out personal information to an obviously emotionally compromised individual is wrong and hopefully illegal. Any tips from the pros or anyone who has been in a similar situation would be appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is a tale of drama and crazy bitches that went too far.\n\nThere has been a longstanding feud between my wife and the wife of her former CEO. She was finally let go due to her boss being unable to deal with the drama. No ill-will to the man he gave her a good severance deal and letter of recommendation. The problem is his wife is bat-shit crazy and will not let this go. If this was just workplace drama it would be one thing, but it gets a little more intense. Apparently one of her coworkers had a crush on her and on a day when she went up to the office to pick something up with a friend the guy made a move. She blew him off and quit talking to him, apparently this set off his psycho-chip as well and he started texting my wife saying how he would die if he couldn't talk to her. Problem is psycho dude is married. Once his wife found out, psycho guy went off the rails telling her my wife made the move on him and he just had a moment of weakness. Now we get back to psycho-chick the CEO's wife. She has apparently been feeding psycho-dude's wife full of stories about my wife slept with half the office (not true) and how she was obviously flirting with psycho-dude in public. Then she crosses the line. She gives the guys wife our address and all of my wife's info. This morning my wife gets a threatening text from psycho-dude's wife saying that when my wife leaves the house she will be coming back to nothing. I trust my wife, and whatever truth there is to the drama bs will be resolved between me and her. But, to put me and my family in danger by giving out personal information to an obviously emotionally compromised individual is wrong and hopefully illegal. Any tips from the pros or anyone who has been in a similar situation would be appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is a tale of drama and crazy bitches that went too far.\n\nThere has been a longstanding feud between my wife and the wife of her former CEO. She was finally let go due to her boss being unable to deal with the drama. No ill-will to the man he gave her a good severance deal and letter of recommendation. The problem is his wife is bat-shit crazy and will not let this go. If this was just workplace drama it would be one thing, but it gets a little more intense. Apparently one of her coworkers had a crush on her and on a day when she went up to the office to pick something up with a friend the guy made a move. She blew him off and quit talking to him, apparently this set off his psycho-chip as well and he started texting my wife saying how he would die if he couldn't talk to her. Problem is psycho dude is married. Once his wife found out, psycho guy went off the rails telling her my wife made the move on him and he just had a moment of weakness. Now we get back to psycho-chick the CEO's wife. She has apparently been feeding psycho-dude's wife full of stories about my wife slept with half the office (not true) and how she was obviously flirting with psycho-dude in public. Then she crosses the line. She gives the guys wife our address and all of my wife's info. This morning my wife gets a threatening text from psycho-dude's wife saying that when my wife leaves the house she will be coming back to nothing. I trust my wife, and whatever truth there is to the drama bs will be resolved between me and her. But, to put me and my family in danger by giving out personal information to an obviously emotionally compromised individual is wrong and hopefully illegal. Any tips from the pros or anyone who has been in a similar situation would be appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is a tale of drama and crazy bitches that went too far.\n\nThere has been a longstanding feud between my wife and the wife of her former CEO. She was finally let go due to her boss being unable to deal with the drama. No ill-will to the man he gave her a good severance deal and letter of recommendation. The problem is his wife is bat-shit crazy and will not let this go. If this was just workplace drama it would be one thing, but it gets a little more intense. Apparently one of her coworkers had a crush on her and on a day when she went up to the office to pick something up with a friend the guy made a move. She blew him off and quit talking to him, apparently this set off his psycho-chip as well and he started texting my wife saying how he would die if he couldn't talk to her. Problem is psycho dude is married. Once his wife found out, psycho guy went off the rails telling her my wife made the move on him and he just had a moment of weakness. Now we get back to psycho-chick the CEO's wife. She has apparently been feeding psycho-dude's wife full of stories about my wife slept with half the office (not true) and how she was obviously flirting with psycho-dude in public. Then she crosses the line. She gives the guys wife our address and all of my wife's info. This morning my wife gets a threatening text from psycho-dude's wife saying that when my wife leaves the house she will be coming back to nothing. I trust my wife, and whatever truth there is to the drama bs will be resolved between me and her. But, to put me and my family in danger by giving out personal information to an obviously emotionally compromised individual is wrong and hopefully illegal. Any tips from the pros or anyone who has been in a similar situation would be appreciated." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }
{ "text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not." }