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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyone in the customer service industry knows that dealing with demanding people day in and day out can wear on your nerves especially since people seem to treat those in a customer service position differently than they would treat anyone else (i.e., not like a human). I have my little ways of keeping my sanity while working in a very busy restaurant. There are two main things I do: 1) When seating someone, if they pleasantly say something like, \"Would it be possible to get a booth?\" I will probably seat them at a booth, however if they walk in and say, \"There's four of us. We want a booth.\" in a very rude and demanding manner, I will pretend to look at the reservation book and then claim that all the booths are taken and they will have to sit at a table. 2) The restaurant I work in has the option of building your own pizza (you check off all the toppings you'd like and hand in your form to your server) but people rarely read the top of the menu which states that the pizzas start with mozzarella and tomato sauce and often select the option to get extra mozzarella cheese, not realizing it already comes on the pizza. If the table has been pleasant to me, and they checked off mozzarella, I will hand in their form as it is to the kitchen but I will not charge them for the extra cheese on their bill. If they are unpleasant, I will charge them for the cheese. It really doesn't take much. Just little impolite things and the absence of basic courtesies get to me, for example \"Hello, how is everyone doing today?\" followed by the response of, \"I'll have a pint of Keiths.\" THAT, sir, is not the answer to the question I just asked. Would you ever respond to anyone else so impolitely? Probably not."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I met this woman at a baseball game in April. We exchange phone numbers, but not surnames. We send a few texts during the game, but we never end up speaking again. Fast forward 3 months to today. I get a friend request from her on Facebook.\n\nNow, here's the thing. She doesn't know my last name. She doesn't know my e-mail address. All of the information on my Facebook profile is completely \"private,\" so that any non-friend looking at my profile just sees my name, the small version of my profile picture, and my gender. Additionally, my profile picture currently isn't even a picture of me. Facebook DOES know my phone number, BUT it's only visible to friends. Also, there are over 200 people on Facebook with the same name as mine.\n\nI accept the friend request, and I ask her how the hell she was able to find me. She says (and I believe her) that over the past few days, roughly 30 people have accepted friend requests from her which she claims to have not actually sent. She has no idea how this happened.\n\nNow, being the cynic that I am, I know some of you will say that she's a stalker, and she's really into me and this is just a \"story\" to make it seem like she's not a creep for finding me 3 months after we last spoke. But, really, I can guarantee that she's not interested in me (nor me in her, otherwise I would've actually tried to contact her following the game).\n\nSo, what the hell? Has this happened to anyone else?\nDid the Facebook app on her phone somehow find me using \"private\" information and automatically send me a friend request?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I met this woman at a baseball game in April. We exchange phone numbers, but not surnames. We send a few texts during the game, but we never end up speaking again. Fast forward 3 months to today. I get a friend request from her on Facebook.\n\nNow, here's the thing. She doesn't know my last name. She doesn't know my e-mail address. All of the information on my Facebook profile is completely \"private,\" so that any non-friend looking at my profile just sees my name, the small version of my profile picture, and my gender. Additionally, my profile picture currently isn't even a picture of me. Facebook DOES know my phone number, BUT it's only visible to friends. Also, there are over 200 people on Facebook with the same name as mine.\n\nI accept the friend request, and I ask her how the hell she was able to find me. She says (and I believe her) that over the past few days, roughly 30 people have accepted friend requests from her which she claims to have not actually sent. She has no idea how this happened.\n\nNow, being the cynic that I am, I know some of you will say that she's a stalker, and she's really into me and this is just a \"story\" to make it seem like she's not a creep for finding me 3 months after we last spoke. But, really, I can guarantee that she's not interested in me (nor me in her, otherwise I would've actually tried to contact her following the game).\n\nSo, what the hell? Has this happened to anyone else?\nDid the Facebook app on her phone somehow find me using \"private\" information and automatically send me a friend request?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I met this woman at a baseball game in April. We exchange phone numbers, but not surnames. We send a few texts during the game, but we never end up speaking again. Fast forward 3 months to today. I get a friend request from her on Facebook.\n\nNow, here's the thing. She doesn't know my last name. She doesn't know my e-mail address. All of the information on my Facebook profile is completely \"private,\" so that any non-friend looking at my profile just sees my name, the small version of my profile picture, and my gender. Additionally, my profile picture currently isn't even a picture of me. Facebook DOES know my phone number, BUT it's only visible to friends. Also, there are over 200 people on Facebook with the same name as mine.\n\nI accept the friend request, and I ask her how the hell she was able to find me. She says (and I believe her) that over the past few days, roughly 30 people have accepted friend requests from her which she claims to have not actually sent. She has no idea how this happened.\n\nNow, being the cynic that I am, I know some of you will say that she's a stalker, and she's really into me and this is just a \"story\" to make it seem like she's not a creep for finding me 3 months after we last spoke. But, really, I can guarantee that she's not interested in me (nor me in her, otherwise I would've actually tried to contact her following the game).\n\nSo, what the hell? Has this happened to anyone else?\nDid the Facebook app on her phone somehow find me using \"private\" information and automatically send me a friend request?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I met this woman at a baseball game in April. We exchange phone numbers, but not surnames. We send a few texts during the game, but we never end up speaking again. Fast forward 3 months to today. I get a friend request from her on Facebook.\n\nNow, here's the thing. She doesn't know my last name. She doesn't know my e-mail address. All of the information on my Facebook profile is completely \"private,\" so that any non-friend looking at my profile just sees my name, the small version of my profile picture, and my gender. Additionally, my profile picture currently isn't even a picture of me. Facebook DOES know my phone number, BUT it's only visible to friends. Also, there are over 200 people on Facebook with the same name as mine.\n\nI accept the friend request, and I ask her how the hell she was able to find me. She says (and I believe her) that over the past few days, roughly 30 people have accepted friend requests from her which she claims to have not actually sent. She has no idea how this happened.\n\nNow, being the cynic that I am, I know some of you will say that she's a stalker, and she's really into me and this is just a \"story\" to make it seem like she's not a creep for finding me 3 months after we last spoke. But, really, I can guarantee that she's not interested in me (nor me in her, otherwise I would've actually tried to contact her following the game).\n\nSo, what the hell? Has this happened to anyone else?\nDid the Facebook app on her phone somehow find me using \"private\" information and automatically send me a friend request?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live right next to a huge university, and have been applying for a variety of jobs with them through their faceless electronic jobs portal (the \"click here to apply for this job\" type thing) for a few months. \n\nThe very first job I applied for, I got an interview that went just so-so. But then, I never heard back (I even looked up the number of the person who called me and called her back, left a voicemail, never heard anything).\n\nNow, when I'm applying for subsequent jobs - is it that same HR person who is seeing all my applications? Or are they forwarded to the specific departments?\n\nI've applied for five jobs there in the last four months, all the resumes and cover letters tailored for each open position. Is this hurting my chances? I never got another interview there, for any of the positions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live right next to a huge university, and have been applying for a variety of jobs with them through their faceless electronic jobs portal (the \"click here to apply for this job\" type thing) for a few months. \n\nThe very first job I applied for, I got an interview that went just so-so. But then, I never heard back (I even looked up the number of the person who called me and called her back, left a voicemail, never heard anything).\n\nNow, when I'm applying for subsequent jobs - is it that same HR person who is seeing all my applications? Or are they forwarded to the specific departments?\n\nI've applied for five jobs there in the last four months, all the resumes and cover letters tailored for each open position. Is this hurting my chances? I never got another interview there, for any of the positions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live right next to a huge university, and have been applying for a variety of jobs with them through their faceless electronic jobs portal (the \"click here to apply for this job\" type thing) for a few months. \n\nThe very first job I applied for, I got an interview that went just so-so. But then, I never heard back (I even looked up the number of the person who called me and called her back, left a voicemail, never heard anything).\n\nNow, when I'm applying for subsequent jobs - is it that same HR person who is seeing all my applications? Or are they forwarded to the specific departments?\n\nI've applied for five jobs there in the last four months, all the resumes and cover letters tailored for each open position. Is this hurting my chances? I never got another interview there, for any of the positions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live right next to a huge university, and have been applying for a variety of jobs with them through their faceless electronic jobs portal (the \"click here to apply for this job\" type thing) for a few months. \n\nThe very first job I applied for, I got an interview that went just so-so. But then, I never heard back (I even looked up the number of the person who called me and called her back, left a voicemail, never heard anything).\n\nNow, when I'm applying for subsequent jobs - is it that same HR person who is seeing all my applications? Or are they forwarded to the specific departments?\n\nI've applied for five jobs there in the last four months, all the resumes and cover letters tailored for each open position. Is this hurting my chances? I never got another interview there, for any of the positions."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A - client company\nB - IT staffing company\n\nSo basically I got a part time programming job through 'B' company for 'A' company's project. Due to the staffing / contract position, 'B' company is the one who actually pays me.\n\nAfter setting up program environment, analyzing project, talking with 'A' company's managers etc, 'A' company suddenly decided to drop me and go with another programmer. 'B' company informed me to sum up hours I worked then report to them so I can be paid.\n\nI reported 'B' company the hours I've worked (10 hours, extremely honest) but now 'B' company replied that they won't be able to pay anything since 'A' company doesn't honors the hours I worked on this project.\n\nNo matter how the deal between 'A' and 'B' goes, doesn't 'B' company still has to pay me anyway? For example, even though an employee only works for the first day (watching HR video, drink coffee, reading manual whole day, getting urine sample from clinic) and gets fired; the company still pays 1 day of work right?\n\nI understand that short life span of contract / part time / project job, I get it. But not getting paid at all is what I don't understand. What should I do in this case, so I can at least compensated for hours I worked on this project?\n\nThank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A - client company\nB - IT staffing company\n\nSo basically I got a part time programming job through 'B' company for 'A' company's project. Due to the staffing / contract position, 'B' company is the one who actually pays me.\n\nAfter setting up program environment, analyzing project, talking with 'A' company's managers etc, 'A' company suddenly decided to drop me and go with another programmer. 'B' company informed me to sum up hours I worked then report to them so I can be paid.\n\nI reported 'B' company the hours I've worked (10 hours, extremely honest) but now 'B' company replied that they won't be able to pay anything since 'A' company doesn't honors the hours I worked on this project.\n\nNo matter how the deal between 'A' and 'B' goes, doesn't 'B' company still has to pay me anyway? For example, even though an employee only works for the first day (watching HR video, drink coffee, reading manual whole day, getting urine sample from clinic) and gets fired; the company still pays 1 day of work right?\n\nI understand that short life span of contract / part time / project job, I get it. But not getting paid at all is what I don't understand. What should I do in this case, so I can at least compensated for hours I worked on this project?\n\nThank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A - client company\nB - IT staffing company\n\nSo basically I got a part time programming job through 'B' company for 'A' company's project. Due to the staffing / contract position, 'B' company is the one who actually pays me.\n\nAfter setting up program environment, analyzing project, talking with 'A' company's managers etc, 'A' company suddenly decided to drop me and go with another programmer. 'B' company informed me to sum up hours I worked then report to them so I can be paid.\n\nI reported 'B' company the hours I've worked (10 hours, extremely honest) but now 'B' company replied that they won't be able to pay anything since 'A' company doesn't honors the hours I worked on this project.\n\nNo matter how the deal between 'A' and 'B' goes, doesn't 'B' company still has to pay me anyway? For example, even though an employee only works for the first day (watching HR video, drink coffee, reading manual whole day, getting urine sample from clinic) and gets fired; the company still pays 1 day of work right?\n\nI understand that short life span of contract / part time / project job, I get it. But not getting paid at all is what I don't understand. What should I do in this case, so I can at least compensated for hours I worked on this project?\n\nThank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A - client company\nB - IT staffing company\n\nSo basically I got a part time programming job through 'B' company for 'A' company's project. Due to the staffing / contract position, 'B' company is the one who actually pays me.\n\nAfter setting up program environment, analyzing project, talking with 'A' company's managers etc, 'A' company suddenly decided to drop me and go with another programmer. 'B' company informed me to sum up hours I worked then report to them so I can be paid.\n\nI reported 'B' company the hours I've worked (10 hours, extremely honest) but now 'B' company replied that they won't be able to pay anything since 'A' company doesn't honors the hours I worked on this project.\n\nNo matter how the deal between 'A' and 'B' goes, doesn't 'B' company still has to pay me anyway? For example, even though an employee only works for the first day (watching HR video, drink coffee, reading manual whole day, getting urine sample from clinic) and gets fired; the company still pays 1 day of work right?\n\nI understand that short life span of contract / part time / project job, I get it. But not getting paid at all is what I don't understand. What should I do in this case, so I can at least compensated for hours I worked on this project?\n\nThank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we were in bed the other night and we hadn't had sex in a while so i was trying to initiate, kissing her neck etc. She tells me to stop and turns around and says \"I feel like if i don't pleasure you now that your going to cheat on me\" then rolls back over\n\nI apologize that i make her feel that way. I am laying there on my back feeling like an asshole for the past mistakes I've made (almost cheated once and texted other females, but I realize she is worth it and I've cut that shit out). She then rolls back over and says how she would really love to get these pajamas for Victoria Secret. I immediately felt pressured and didn't really respond. She continued on about some other things she wants.\n\nSure enough i find myself in Victoria Secret some days later buying her the pajamas, it is for her birthday that is coming up soon.\n\nAnother thing is yesterday we were texting while i was in class and it got pretty sexual. She texted me saying how she wanted me. Later that night i tried to initiate sex again but she said she was tired and wanted to just go to bed. For the next 30 minutes she just sat on her phone ignoring my want to make love to her. it is so fucking confusing. I get it if she wasn't in the mood, but why wind me up all day just to turn me down later.\n\nWith the statement she said that one night, the \"if i don't do this i feel like ur gonna cheat\" has really pressured me into trying not to initiate anything sexual now. I love having sex with her its always awesome, but now i feel like she either doesn't like it or is just going to use it to her advantage"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we were in bed the other night and we hadn't had sex in a while so i was trying to initiate, kissing her neck etc. She tells me to stop and turns around and says \"I feel like if i don't pleasure you now that your going to cheat on me\" then rolls back over\n\nI apologize that i make her feel that way. I am laying there on my back feeling like an asshole for the past mistakes I've made (almost cheated once and texted other females, but I realize she is worth it and I've cut that shit out). She then rolls back over and says how she would really love to get these pajamas for Victoria Secret. I immediately felt pressured and didn't really respond. She continued on about some other things she wants.\n\nSure enough i find myself in Victoria Secret some days later buying her the pajamas, it is for her birthday that is coming up soon.\n\nAnother thing is yesterday we were texting while i was in class and it got pretty sexual. She texted me saying how she wanted me. Later that night i tried to initiate sex again but she said she was tired and wanted to just go to bed. For the next 30 minutes she just sat on her phone ignoring my want to make love to her. it is so fucking confusing. I get it if she wasn't in the mood, but why wind me up all day just to turn me down later.\n\nWith the statement she said that one night, the \"if i don't do this i feel like ur gonna cheat\" has really pressured me into trying not to initiate anything sexual now. I love having sex with her its always awesome, but now i feel like she either doesn't like it or is just going to use it to her advantage"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we were in bed the other night and we hadn't had sex in a while so i was trying to initiate, kissing her neck etc. She tells me to stop and turns around and says \"I feel like if i don't pleasure you now that your going to cheat on me\" then rolls back over\n\nI apologize that i make her feel that way. I am laying there on my back feeling like an asshole for the past mistakes I've made (almost cheated once and texted other females, but I realize she is worth it and I've cut that shit out). She then rolls back over and says how she would really love to get these pajamas for Victoria Secret. I immediately felt pressured and didn't really respond. She continued on about some other things she wants.\n\nSure enough i find myself in Victoria Secret some days later buying her the pajamas, it is for her birthday that is coming up soon.\n\nAnother thing is yesterday we were texting while i was in class and it got pretty sexual. She texted me saying how she wanted me. Later that night i tried to initiate sex again but she said she was tired and wanted to just go to bed. For the next 30 minutes she just sat on her phone ignoring my want to make love to her. it is so fucking confusing. I get it if she wasn't in the mood, but why wind me up all day just to turn me down later.\n\nWith the statement she said that one night, the \"if i don't do this i feel like ur gonna cheat\" has really pressured me into trying not to initiate anything sexual now. I love having sex with her its always awesome, but now i feel like she either doesn't like it or is just going to use it to her advantage"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we were in bed the other night and we hadn't had sex in a while so i was trying to initiate, kissing her neck etc. She tells me to stop and turns around and says \"I feel like if i don't pleasure you now that your going to cheat on me\" then rolls back over\n\nI apologize that i make her feel that way. I am laying there on my back feeling like an asshole for the past mistakes I've made (almost cheated once and texted other females, but I realize she is worth it and I've cut that shit out). She then rolls back over and says how she would really love to get these pajamas for Victoria Secret. I immediately felt pressured and didn't really respond. She continued on about some other things she wants.\n\nSure enough i find myself in Victoria Secret some days later buying her the pajamas, it is for her birthday that is coming up soon.\n\nAnother thing is yesterday we were texting while i was in class and it got pretty sexual. She texted me saying how she wanted me. Later that night i tried to initiate sex again but she said she was tired and wanted to just go to bed. For the next 30 minutes she just sat on her phone ignoring my want to make love to her. it is so fucking confusing. I get it if she wasn't in the mood, but why wind me up all day just to turn me down later.\n\nWith the statement she said that one night, the \"if i don't do this i feel like ur gonna cheat\" has really pressured me into trying not to initiate anything sexual now. I love having sex with her its always awesome, but now i feel like she either doesn't like it or is just going to use it to her advantage"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Crosspost from r/askreddit. Here's the link: [LINK](\n\nSo this started about a month ago. We decided that every Monday we would all contribute $10 and go shopping for lunch ingredients. We brought some stuff from home to help us like a panini press, cutting board, knife, etc. Every week we have some money left over and we're saving up to buy other food prep utensils. So far we've bought a cheese grater/storage combo thing and we're part-way to a replacement panini press or grill of some sort.\n\nOne of us dropped out already as he didn't think it \"saved that much money.\" Can you give us some new ideas for easy, cheap, good food that can be made in an office so we don't burn out?\n\nAlso, I'm writing this from a group novelty account so my co-workers don't accuse me of karma whoring."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Crosspost from r/askreddit. Here's the link: [LINK](\n\nSo this started about a month ago. We decided that every Monday we would all contribute $10 and go shopping for lunch ingredients. We brought some stuff from home to help us like a panini press, cutting board, knife, etc. Every week we have some money left over and we're saving up to buy other food prep utensils. So far we've bought a cheese grater/storage combo thing and we're part-way to a replacement panini press or grill of some sort.\n\nOne of us dropped out already as he didn't think it \"saved that much money.\" Can you give us some new ideas for easy, cheap, good food that can be made in an office so we don't burn out?\n\nAlso, I'm writing this from a group novelty account so my co-workers don't accuse me of karma whoring."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Crosspost from r/askreddit. Here's the link: [LINK](\n\nSo this started about a month ago. We decided that every Monday we would all contribute $10 and go shopping for lunch ingredients. We brought some stuff from home to help us like a panini press, cutting board, knife, etc. Every week we have some money left over and we're saving up to buy other food prep utensils. So far we've bought a cheese grater/storage combo thing and we're part-way to a replacement panini press or grill of some sort.\n\nOne of us dropped out already as he didn't think it \"saved that much money.\" Can you give us some new ideas for easy, cheap, good food that can be made in an office so we don't burn out?\n\nAlso, I'm writing this from a group novelty account so my co-workers don't accuse me of karma whoring."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Crosspost from r/askreddit. Here's the link: [LINK](\n\nSo this started about a month ago. We decided that every Monday we would all contribute $10 and go shopping for lunch ingredients. We brought some stuff from home to help us like a panini press, cutting board, knife, etc. Every week we have some money left over and we're saving up to buy other food prep utensils. So far we've bought a cheese grater/storage combo thing and we're part-way to a replacement panini press or grill of some sort.\n\nOne of us dropped out already as he didn't think it \"saved that much money.\" Can you give us some new ideas for easy, cheap, good food that can be made in an office so we don't burn out?\n\nAlso, I'm writing this from a group novelty account so my co-workers don't accuse me of karma whoring."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was back in around 6th or 7th grade I was first caught. My mom would be gone when I came home from school for a few hours so I had the house to myself. I was an expert at deleting history and cookies off the computer every time I watched porn. Though once I ate a bowl of cereal while I was fapping, and the bowl was on top of the Control key. I guess I had tried to type in \"porn\" onto the search bar resulting in Ctrl+P (print) to fire. My printer wasn't connected at the time so I figured nothing happened. I finished up and left. My mom was home later that night and she plugged in the printer. Bam. 8-10 pages of dicks going into woman in all holes of various situations covered each page top to bottom. I got a hell of a yelling that night. I got my door taken off as punishment. It was a sad sad year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was back in around 6th or 7th grade I was first caught. My mom would be gone when I came home from school for a few hours so I had the house to myself. I was an expert at deleting history and cookies off the computer every time I watched porn. Though once I ate a bowl of cereal while I was fapping, and the bowl was on top of the Control key. I guess I had tried to type in \"porn\" onto the search bar resulting in Ctrl+P (print) to fire. My printer wasn't connected at the time so I figured nothing happened. I finished up and left. My mom was home later that night and she plugged in the printer. Bam. 8-10 pages of dicks going into woman in all holes of various situations covered each page top to bottom. I got a hell of a yelling that night. I got my door taken off as punishment. It was a sad sad year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was back in around 6th or 7th grade I was first caught. My mom would be gone when I came home from school for a few hours so I had the house to myself. I was an expert at deleting history and cookies off the computer every time I watched porn. Though once I ate a bowl of cereal while I was fapping, and the bowl was on top of the Control key. I guess I had tried to type in \"porn\" onto the search bar resulting in Ctrl+P (print) to fire. My printer wasn't connected at the time so I figured nothing happened. I finished up and left. My mom was home later that night and she plugged in the printer. Bam. 8-10 pages of dicks going into woman in all holes of various situations covered each page top to bottom. I got a hell of a yelling that night. I got my door taken off as punishment. It was a sad sad year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It was back in around 6th or 7th grade I was first caught. My mom would be gone when I came home from school for a few hours so I had the house to myself. I was an expert at deleting history and cookies off the computer every time I watched porn. Though once I ate a bowl of cereal while I was fapping, and the bowl was on top of the Control key. I guess I had tried to type in \"porn\" onto the search bar resulting in Ctrl+P (print) to fire. My printer wasn't connected at the time so I figured nothing happened. I finished up and left. My mom was home later that night and she plugged in the printer. Bam. 8-10 pages of dicks going into woman in all holes of various situations covered each page top to bottom. I got a hell of a yelling that night. I got my door taken off as punishment. It was a sad sad year."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: firstly I'm sorry if this is long.\n\nI'm [F]22 and my SO is [M]24 we've been together a year and a half.\nI live alone and my SO lives at home with his parents still.\n\nI feel like our relationship is at a complete stop and not going anywhere.\n\nWe met online and at first everything was good we saw each other fairly often. Lately over the last say 6-7months that has stopped now it's about once or twice a week.\n\nMy SO is a gamer and I have nothing against that at all, I would do everything for him. Make him food, get him drinks. anything he needed. I don't mind doing that for him at all.\n\nLately I barely talk to him, He rarely replies to my texts and he doesn't talk on the phone so that rules out calling him.\n\nEveryone bugs us about living together and lately I can't think of reason on why he won't. I seem like a clingy SO and I always feel like I am bugging him to see me like his forced.\n\nWe don't go on dates or do anything as a couple.\nI want to be with someone who wants to be with me and that see's a future with me.\nI do want babies and marriage.\nI don't think he does and he doesn't like discussing it. \n\nDo I walk away now?\nOr do I wait for him to walk away?\nI don't see this being long term I wish it was but he just doesn't seem interested."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: firstly I'm sorry if this is long.\n\nI'm [F]22 and my SO is [M]24 we've been together a year and a half.\nI live alone and my SO lives at home with his parents still.\n\nI feel like our relationship is at a complete stop and not going anywhere.\n\nWe met online and at first everything was good we saw each other fairly often. Lately over the last say 6-7months that has stopped now it's about once or twice a week.\n\nMy SO is a gamer and I have nothing against that at all, I would do everything for him. Make him food, get him drinks. anything he needed. I don't mind doing that for him at all.\n\nLately I barely talk to him, He rarely replies to my texts and he doesn't talk on the phone so that rules out calling him.\n\nEveryone bugs us about living together and lately I can't think of reason on why he won't. I seem like a clingy SO and I always feel like I am bugging him to see me like his forced.\n\nWe don't go on dates or do anything as a couple.\nI want to be with someone who wants to be with me and that see's a future with me.\nI do want babies and marriage.\nI don't think he does and he doesn't like discussing it. \n\nDo I walk away now?\nOr do I wait for him to walk away?\nI don't see this being long term I wish it was but he just doesn't seem interested."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: firstly I'm sorry if this is long.\n\nI'm [F]22 and my SO is [M]24 we've been together a year and a half.\nI live alone and my SO lives at home with his parents still.\n\nI feel like our relationship is at a complete stop and not going anywhere.\n\nWe met online and at first everything was good we saw each other fairly often. Lately over the last say 6-7months that has stopped now it's about once or twice a week.\n\nMy SO is a gamer and I have nothing against that at all, I would do everything for him. Make him food, get him drinks. anything he needed. I don't mind doing that for him at all.\n\nLately I barely talk to him, He rarely replies to my texts and he doesn't talk on the phone so that rules out calling him.\n\nEveryone bugs us about living together and lately I can't think of reason on why he won't. I seem like a clingy SO and I always feel like I am bugging him to see me like his forced.\n\nWe don't go on dates or do anything as a couple.\nI want to be with someone who wants to be with me and that see's a future with me.\nI do want babies and marriage.\nI don't think he does and he doesn't like discussing it. \n\nDo I walk away now?\nOr do I wait for him to walk away?\nI don't see this being long term I wish it was but he just doesn't seem interested."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: firstly I'm sorry if this is long.\n\nI'm [F]22 and my SO is [M]24 we've been together a year and a half.\nI live alone and my SO lives at home with his parents still.\n\nI feel like our relationship is at a complete stop and not going anywhere.\n\nWe met online and at first everything was good we saw each other fairly often. Lately over the last say 6-7months that has stopped now it's about once or twice a week.\n\nMy SO is a gamer and I have nothing against that at all, I would do everything for him. Make him food, get him drinks. anything he needed. I don't mind doing that for him at all.\n\nLately I barely talk to him, He rarely replies to my texts and he doesn't talk on the phone so that rules out calling him.\n\nEveryone bugs us about living together and lately I can't think of reason on why he won't. I seem like a clingy SO and I always feel like I am bugging him to see me like his forced.\n\nWe don't go on dates or do anything as a couple.\nI want to be with someone who wants to be with me and that see's a future with me.\nI do want babies and marriage.\nI don't think he does and he doesn't like discussing it. \n\nDo I walk away now?\nOr do I wait for him to walk away?\nI don't see this being long term I wish it was but he just doesn't seem interested."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First of all, I'm not stalking him.\n\nI've seen this guy around a lot. We're both in college and live within a few blocks of each other. He occasionally passes by my house but I also see him at the nearby library, on the streets, or at the nearby coffee shop. I'm out and about pretty often because I'm taking quite a few classes and have to study, as well as working a job on campus.\n\nI've seen this guy for quite a few months now but particularly this last month. If I'm out of the house I almost always see him, so I normally see him 4+ times a week.\n\nHere's the problem. The first few times we saw each other by coincidence (and recognized faces) we would smile at each other, but lately he has had a very strange and slightly angry look on his face when he sees me. It may be nothing, but I'm worried that he thinks I'm starting to stalk him because we run see each other so often. I may be over-analyzing it, and I do hope I am.\n\nAnd the best problem! I'm shy, but I've wanted to ask him out to coffee for awhile. Normally I would just approach him and ask but because of this situation I don't know if I should."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First of all, I'm not stalking him.\n\nI've seen this guy around a lot. We're both in college and live within a few blocks of each other. He occasionally passes by my house but I also see him at the nearby library, on the streets, or at the nearby coffee shop. I'm out and about pretty often because I'm taking quite a few classes and have to study, as well as working a job on campus.\n\nI've seen this guy for quite a few months now but particularly this last month. If I'm out of the house I almost always see him, so I normally see him 4+ times a week.\n\nHere's the problem. The first few times we saw each other by coincidence (and recognized faces) we would smile at each other, but lately he has had a very strange and slightly angry look on his face when he sees me. It may be nothing, but I'm worried that he thinks I'm starting to stalk him because we run see each other so often. I may be over-analyzing it, and I do hope I am.\n\nAnd the best problem! I'm shy, but I've wanted to ask him out to coffee for awhile. Normally I would just approach him and ask but because of this situation I don't know if I should."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First of all, I'm not stalking him.\n\nI've seen this guy around a lot. We're both in college and live within a few blocks of each other. He occasionally passes by my house but I also see him at the nearby library, on the streets, or at the nearby coffee shop. I'm out and about pretty often because I'm taking quite a few classes and have to study, as well as working a job on campus.\n\nI've seen this guy for quite a few months now but particularly this last month. If I'm out of the house I almost always see him, so I normally see him 4+ times a week.\n\nHere's the problem. The first few times we saw each other by coincidence (and recognized faces) we would smile at each other, but lately he has had a very strange and slightly angry look on his face when he sees me. It may be nothing, but I'm worried that he thinks I'm starting to stalk him because we run see each other so often. I may be over-analyzing it, and I do hope I am.\n\nAnd the best problem! I'm shy, but I've wanted to ask him out to coffee for awhile. Normally I would just approach him and ask but because of this situation I don't know if I should."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First of all, I'm not stalking him.\n\nI've seen this guy around a lot. We're both in college and live within a few blocks of each other. He occasionally passes by my house but I also see him at the nearby library, on the streets, or at the nearby coffee shop. I'm out and about pretty often because I'm taking quite a few classes and have to study, as well as working a job on campus.\n\nI've seen this guy for quite a few months now but particularly this last month. If I'm out of the house I almost always see him, so I normally see him 4+ times a week.\n\nHere's the problem. The first few times we saw each other by coincidence (and recognized faces) we would smile at each other, but lately he has had a very strange and slightly angry look on his face when he sees me. It may be nothing, but I'm worried that he thinks I'm starting to stalk him because we run see each other so often. I may be over-analyzing it, and I do hope I am.\n\nAnd the best problem! I'm shy, but I've wanted to ask him out to coffee for awhile. Normally I would just approach him and ask but because of this situation I don't know if I should."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this guy and me, we have been in a relationship which keep swinging on and off. It's been two years. We date for a while, then if something gets messed up, he leaves. After a month or so, he would try to reconcile and I take him back anyway because I haven't been able to bring myself to get over him completely, or maybe I am not strong enough to say no.\n\nThe sad part is, it is happening again. We broke up about a month ago, it was majorly my fault. He wasn't able to give much time to us, and I made a fuss about it one night and we had a fight where I said something rude, he doesn't let me live that down ever. \n\nI apologized back then, trying to keep him from going away but he left. Last week, we got back in touch at a common friend's party. Trust me, it was a delight to talk to him again. He later texted me, saying if I wanted to go out on a dinner with him the next day. I agreed to it. \n\nNow, as I know from the last few times, we'd end up sleeping with each other again, we'd feel like we're in love again and it'd be history repeating itself, with me getting hurt in the end like every other time. \n\nConsider that this time, I want to give this guy a shot but I don't want to get hurt either. How do I set the terms for it? How do I keep myself attached, yet safely detached from this person, so that when he leaves again, I'm not hurt or disappointed as much as I was the last few time? Or if it's worth it? Should I do it or should I put an end to it right away and not meet him again?\n\nI know it is going to hurt immensely to finally let him go, but if it's worth the pain, I'm up for it. But could it be possible that this time our relationship might survive? How do I make sure of that?\n\nIt's a lot of questions, I understand. But any advice would be much appreciated"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my girlfriend for 7 months now and it is my first relationship. It is her first real one as well and I am well and truly in love. Head over heels, want to spend the rest of my life with her love. It's an amazing feeling but it's also killing me.\n\nI have Body Dismorphic Disorder so I struggle with self esteem issues. I can't quite believe that she is happy to be with me so I always presume as soon as she realises she can do better appearance wise she'll move one. She is in Thailand for 7 weeks just now and I have absolutely zero reasons to not trust her. This whole ordeal is incredibly unfair on her but I can't help but have these thoughts. I've just seen a Snapchat story of her having a great time in a bar singing songs with her friends and a group of guys. Immediately I start imagining her getting with the guys. It's ripping me up. I know of so many guys and girls who have cheated on their partners and the partners never find out. It's awful and really having an affect on me.\n\nLike I say, she has given me absolutely no reasons to not trust her. She is amazing, lovely, caring, knows what I'm like with these thoughts and even reassured me I had nothing to worry about it before she left. I don't know why I'm posting this. I just need somewhere to vent. I'm currently sitting in my flat crying over imaginary situations. It's ridiculous. I love her so much I'm terrified about what's going to happen if/when she finishes with me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my girlfriend for 7 months now and it is my first relationship. It is her first real one as well and I am well and truly in love. Head over heels, want to spend the rest of my life with her love. It's an amazing feeling but it's also killing me.\n\nI have Body Dismorphic Disorder so I struggle with self esteem issues. I can't quite believe that she is happy to be with me so I always presume as soon as she realises she can do better appearance wise she'll move one. She is in Thailand for 7 weeks just now and I have absolutely zero reasons to not trust her. This whole ordeal is incredibly unfair on her but I can't help but have these thoughts. I've just seen a Snapchat story of her having a great time in a bar singing songs with her friends and a group of guys. Immediately I start imagining her getting with the guys. It's ripping me up. I know of so many guys and girls who have cheated on their partners and the partners never find out. It's awful and really having an affect on me.\n\nLike I say, she has given me absolutely no reasons to not trust her. She is amazing, lovely, caring, knows what I'm like with these thoughts and even reassured me I had nothing to worry about it before she left. I don't know why I'm posting this. I just need somewhere to vent. I'm currently sitting in my flat crying over imaginary situations. It's ridiculous. I love her so much I'm terrified about what's going to happen if/when she finishes with me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my girlfriend for 7 months now and it is my first relationship. It is her first real one as well and I am well and truly in love. Head over heels, want to spend the rest of my life with her love. It's an amazing feeling but it's also killing me.\n\nI have Body Dismorphic Disorder so I struggle with self esteem issues. I can't quite believe that she is happy to be with me so I always presume as soon as she realises she can do better appearance wise she'll move one. She is in Thailand for 7 weeks just now and I have absolutely zero reasons to not trust her. This whole ordeal is incredibly unfair on her but I can't help but have these thoughts. I've just seen a Snapchat story of her having a great time in a bar singing songs with her friends and a group of guys. Immediately I start imagining her getting with the guys. It's ripping me up. I know of so many guys and girls who have cheated on their partners and the partners never find out. It's awful and really having an affect on me.\n\nLike I say, she has given me absolutely no reasons to not trust her. She is amazing, lovely, caring, knows what I'm like with these thoughts and even reassured me I had nothing to worry about it before she left. I don't know why I'm posting this. I just need somewhere to vent. I'm currently sitting in my flat crying over imaginary situations. It's ridiculous. I love her so much I'm terrified about what's going to happen if/when she finishes with me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my girlfriend for 7 months now and it is my first relationship. It is her first real one as well and I am well and truly in love. Head over heels, want to spend the rest of my life with her love. It's an amazing feeling but it's also killing me.\n\nI have Body Dismorphic Disorder so I struggle with self esteem issues. I can't quite believe that she is happy to be with me so I always presume as soon as she realises she can do better appearance wise she'll move one. She is in Thailand for 7 weeks just now and I have absolutely zero reasons to not trust her. This whole ordeal is incredibly unfair on her but I can't help but have these thoughts. I've just seen a Snapchat story of her having a great time in a bar singing songs with her friends and a group of guys. Immediately I start imagining her getting with the guys. It's ripping me up. I know of so many guys and girls who have cheated on their partners and the partners never find out. It's awful and really having an affect on me.\n\nLike I say, she has given me absolutely no reasons to not trust her. She is amazing, lovely, caring, knows what I'm like with these thoughts and even reassured me I had nothing to worry about it before she left. I don't know why I'm posting this. I just need somewhere to vent. I'm currently sitting in my flat crying over imaginary situations. It's ridiculous. I love her so much I'm terrified about what's going to happen if/when she finishes with me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some back story.\n\nWe argue, daily. Little stupid things, but it's constant. We have talked about therapy - but I personally don't think it'll help as while I do care about her, I feel like I've lost the spark and I don't think it's coming back. I've been pushing off this feeling for a while now. She has a \"I'm always right\" mentality and I'm honestly looking for someone more mature. It's not my primary concern now as I'm not looking to jump into another relationship right away.\n\nShe battles depression, anxiety, and shared with me the last time she thought we were breaking up. suicidal thoughts. I honestly don't know if she has the power to do such a horrible thing, but of course I want her to be able to get through a break up and be okay.\n\nShe's not close with her family. Her best friend and her had a fight some months ago and haven't talked in a while. She lives with me, and we have 2 dogs and 1 cat. She used to live with her Dad, but has been with me the past 3 years. She brought 2 pets with her to my house when we were together for a bit. She doesn't really have anyone to talk to. I don't know how best to go about ending things.\n\nI'm just lost about how to start the conversation, because every time she's upset I cave. I console her and I give more and more hope, when deep down I always come back to these thoughts that we can't work long term. I don't know how to ensure she's okay - and keep me from caving again.\n\nI've been a jerk of a person, not being as close or loving, and I guess a part of me feels that if she hates me it'll be easier on her. I don't want her to hate me, but sometimes I'm mean when I shouldn't be. I just don't know what to do.\n\nAny thoughts and suggestions would be much appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some back story.\n\nWe argue, daily. Little stupid things, but it's constant. We have talked about therapy - but I personally don't think it'll help as while I do care about her, I feel like I've lost the spark and I don't think it's coming back. I've been pushing off this feeling for a while now. She has a \"I'm always right\" mentality and I'm honestly looking for someone more mature. It's not my primary concern now as I'm not looking to jump into another relationship right away.\n\nShe battles depression, anxiety, and shared with me the last time she thought we were breaking up. suicidal thoughts. I honestly don't know if she has the power to do such a horrible thing, but of course I want her to be able to get through a break up and be okay.\n\nShe's not close with her family. Her best friend and her had a fight some months ago and haven't talked in a while. She lives with me, and we have 2 dogs and 1 cat. She used to live with her Dad, but has been with me the past 3 years. She brought 2 pets with her to my house when we were together for a bit. She doesn't really have anyone to talk to. I don't know how best to go about ending things.\n\nI'm just lost about how to start the conversation, because every time she's upset I cave. I console her and I give more and more hope, when deep down I always come back to these thoughts that we can't work long term. I don't know how to ensure she's okay - and keep me from caving again.\n\nI've been a jerk of a person, not being as close or loving, and I guess a part of me feels that if she hates me it'll be easier on her. I don't want her to hate me, but sometimes I'm mean when I shouldn't be. I just don't know what to do.\n\nAny thoughts and suggestions would be much appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some back story.\n\nWe argue, daily. Little stupid things, but it's constant. We have talked about therapy - but I personally don't think it'll help as while I do care about her, I feel like I've lost the spark and I don't think it's coming back. I've been pushing off this feeling for a while now. She has a \"I'm always right\" mentality and I'm honestly looking for someone more mature. It's not my primary concern now as I'm not looking to jump into another relationship right away.\n\nShe battles depression, anxiety, and shared with me the last time she thought we were breaking up. suicidal thoughts. I honestly don't know if she has the power to do such a horrible thing, but of course I want her to be able to get through a break up and be okay.\n\nShe's not close with her family. Her best friend and her had a fight some months ago and haven't talked in a while. She lives with me, and we have 2 dogs and 1 cat. She used to live with her Dad, but has been with me the past 3 years. She brought 2 pets with her to my house when we were together for a bit. She doesn't really have anyone to talk to. I don't know how best to go about ending things.\n\nI'm just lost about how to start the conversation, because every time she's upset I cave. I console her and I give more and more hope, when deep down I always come back to these thoughts that we can't work long term. I don't know how to ensure she's okay - and keep me from caving again.\n\nI've been a jerk of a person, not being as close or loving, and I guess a part of me feels that if she hates me it'll be easier on her. I don't want her to hate me, but sometimes I'm mean when I shouldn't be. I just don't know what to do.\n\nAny thoughts and suggestions would be much appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some back story.\n\nWe argue, daily. Little stupid things, but it's constant. We have talked about therapy - but I personally don't think it'll help as while I do care about her, I feel like I've lost the spark and I don't think it's coming back. I've been pushing off this feeling for a while now. She has a \"I'm always right\" mentality and I'm honestly looking for someone more mature. It's not my primary concern now as I'm not looking to jump into another relationship right away.\n\nShe battles depression, anxiety, and shared with me the last time she thought we were breaking up. suicidal thoughts. I honestly don't know if she has the power to do such a horrible thing, but of course I want her to be able to get through a break up and be okay.\n\nShe's not close with her family. Her best friend and her had a fight some months ago and haven't talked in a while. She lives with me, and we have 2 dogs and 1 cat. She used to live with her Dad, but has been with me the past 3 years. She brought 2 pets with her to my house when we were together for a bit. She doesn't really have anyone to talk to. I don't know how best to go about ending things.\n\nI'm just lost about how to start the conversation, because every time she's upset I cave. I console her and I give more and more hope, when deep down I always come back to these thoughts that we can't work long term. I don't know how to ensure she's okay - and keep me from caving again.\n\nI've been a jerk of a person, not being as close or loving, and I guess a part of me feels that if she hates me it'll be easier on her. I don't want her to hate me, but sometimes I'm mean when I shouldn't be. I just don't know what to do.\n\nAny thoughts and suggestions would be much appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long time lurker, first time posting, advice welcomed.\n\nMy husband and I have been married for 13 years. We have separated a few times for 3-6 months' duration, but always got back together. (Separations were always due to his drinking getting out of control, we have 2 kids, 10/M and 8/F, and I don't want them to be subjected to his idiot behavior). We have been back together for 4 years now. \n\nThrough all this, ever since the beginning of our relationship, our sex life has always been AMAZING. I won't bore you with the details haha. I couldn't ask for better. \n\nHowever, for the past 6-8 months or so, it hasn't been the same. Our sex has gone from 2-3 times a week to MAYBE 2-3 times a month. \n\nHe says he is tired from work (he has always worked). \n\nHe says he doesn't feel good about himself and is ashamed of his body (what's changed to make him feel that way? I compliment him all the time and have never had anything bad to say about his body, I love it, it's perfect in my eyes, and I have told him so). \n\nHe says there is no one else, and other than this problem we're having, I have no reason to think that there is (besides a tarot card reading I got that said he's not cheating YET, but he seems to be looking, and she saw a girl around 21 years old in the cards. But idk if I believe in tarot or not, it was basically just for fun).\n\nI don't know what's going on and it really hurts my feelings. Just thought I'd post on here for some advice and outside opinions. Thanks for reading. I look forward to hearing from anyone.\n\nOh, and take it easy on me please, this is my first post on Reddit ever!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long time lurker, first time posting, advice welcomed.\n\nMy husband and I have been married for 13 years. We have separated a few times for 3-6 months' duration, but always got back together. (Separations were always due to his drinking getting out of control, we have 2 kids, 10/M and 8/F, and I don't want them to be subjected to his idiot behavior). We have been back together for 4 years now. \n\nThrough all this, ever since the beginning of our relationship, our sex life has always been AMAZING. I won't bore you with the details haha. I couldn't ask for better. \n\nHowever, for the past 6-8 months or so, it hasn't been the same. Our sex has gone from 2-3 times a week to MAYBE 2-3 times a month. \n\nHe says he is tired from work (he has always worked). \n\nHe says he doesn't feel good about himself and is ashamed of his body (what's changed to make him feel that way? I compliment him all the time and have never had anything bad to say about his body, I love it, it's perfect in my eyes, and I have told him so). \n\nHe says there is no one else, and other than this problem we're having, I have no reason to think that there is (besides a tarot card reading I got that said he's not cheating YET, but he seems to be looking, and she saw a girl around 21 years old in the cards. But idk if I believe in tarot or not, it was basically just for fun).\n\nI don't know what's going on and it really hurts my feelings. Just thought I'd post on here for some advice and outside opinions. Thanks for reading. I look forward to hearing from anyone.\n\nOh, and take it easy on me please, this is my first post on Reddit ever!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long time lurker, first time posting, advice welcomed.\n\nMy husband and I have been married for 13 years. We have separated a few times for 3-6 months' duration, but always got back together. (Separations were always due to his drinking getting out of control, we have 2 kids, 10/M and 8/F, and I don't want them to be subjected to his idiot behavior). We have been back together for 4 years now. \n\nThrough all this, ever since the beginning of our relationship, our sex life has always been AMAZING. I won't bore you with the details haha. I couldn't ask for better. \n\nHowever, for the past 6-8 months or so, it hasn't been the same. Our sex has gone from 2-3 times a week to MAYBE 2-3 times a month. \n\nHe says he is tired from work (he has always worked). \n\nHe says he doesn't feel good about himself and is ashamed of his body (what's changed to make him feel that way? I compliment him all the time and have never had anything bad to say about his body, I love it, it's perfect in my eyes, and I have told him so). \n\nHe says there is no one else, and other than this problem we're having, I have no reason to think that there is (besides a tarot card reading I got that said he's not cheating YET, but he seems to be looking, and she saw a girl around 21 years old in the cards. But idk if I believe in tarot or not, it was basically just for fun).\n\nI don't know what's going on and it really hurts my feelings. Just thought I'd post on here for some advice and outside opinions. Thanks for reading. I look forward to hearing from anyone.\n\nOh, and take it easy on me please, this is my first post on Reddit ever!"
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