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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My fiancee today had a bit of a breakdown and at first kept saying I didn't really love her, I was just staying with her ( my first gf ) because I hadn't experienced anyone else. I told her this wasn't true, and I loved her and was happy with her. Then it turned into a \"its always about you, you, you.\" and how she always does so much for me as if I don't do anything for her, don't adequately show her affection and don't make her feel loved. I asked what I could do differently, what more she was needing / wanting and she couldn't answer. I do my best, and I know I'm busy with school and work, but it's certainly not a 1-sided relationship. Later on I lay down next to her and after a while she says she is afraid of only being with 1 person, and missing out on experiences. \n\nI feel like she is really wanting to break up with me, but I think she is afraid to. We've been together for 5 years now, and haven't had any big relationship problems. I don't know where this is all coming from. She did just take a 3 day trip to see a friend from high-school in a different state, but I trust her and don't think she cheated on me. Maybe I'm just ignorant and missed a lot of the signs, but I feel like this is all a really quick turn around on how I thought things were going. I'm really scared to bring up the topic with her, and we haven't spoken for about 5 hours now, I've only seen her when she walks past me to go to the restroom where she closes the door (which we never do. no idea what shes doing in there.) and stays inside for 10 minutes. Any advice /r/relationships ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I asked out my ex to prom, I was a junior and she was a senior, we dated for a while but when she started her sophomore year (around september 2012) she said that she just wasn't into me as much as I was into her. I was/am in love with her, I see her as my soul mate; however she on multiple occasions has told me that I am not her soul mate, and there is nothing I can change to become her soul mate.\n \nFast forward 1 year and I still love her, she is tired of me still being in love with her. I wait for her to facebook message me back and just stare at my phone waiting (sometimes, she replies 6 hours later with just a simple \"lol\"). A few days ago she said that she doesn't want to be friends if I keep pining for her. What should I do reddit? I love this girl, and for now I just want to be my friend. I haven't gone a day with texting her. I haven't gone a day without thinking about her. My friend tells me to delete her from my phone and just give her some time to reapproach me as a friend. Like he says to wait 6 months; without texting her, contacting her, or anything related to her. I want to try to get over her but it seems impossible. She was the first and only love of my life. It is affecting my school work, my personal relationships, and mentally straining for me. \n\nAny advice for me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I asked out my ex to prom, I was a junior and she was a senior, we dated for a while but when she started her sophomore year (around september 2012) she said that she just wasn't into me as much as I was into her. I was/am in love with her, I see her as my soul mate; however she on multiple occasions has told me that I am not her soul mate, and there is nothing I can change to become her soul mate.\n \nFast forward 1 year and I still love her, she is tired of me still being in love with her. I wait for her to facebook message me back and just stare at my phone waiting (sometimes, she replies 6 hours later with just a simple \"lol\"). A few days ago she said that she doesn't want to be friends if I keep pining for her. What should I do reddit? I love this girl, and for now I just want to be my friend. I haven't gone a day with texting her. I haven't gone a day without thinking about her. My friend tells me to delete her from my phone and just give her some time to reapproach me as a friend. Like he says to wait 6 months; without texting her, contacting her, or anything related to her. I want to try to get over her but it seems impossible. She was the first and only love of my life. It is affecting my school work, my personal relationships, and mentally straining for me. \n\nAny advice for me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I asked out my ex to prom, I was a junior and she was a senior, we dated for a while but when she started her sophomore year (around september 2012) she said that she just wasn't into me as much as I was into her. I was/am in love with her, I see her as my soul mate; however she on multiple occasions has told me that I am not her soul mate, and there is nothing I can change to become her soul mate.\n \nFast forward 1 year and I still love her, she is tired of me still being in love with her. I wait for her to facebook message me back and just stare at my phone waiting (sometimes, she replies 6 hours later with just a simple \"lol\"). A few days ago she said that she doesn't want to be friends if I keep pining for her. What should I do reddit? I love this girl, and for now I just want to be my friend. I haven't gone a day with texting her. I haven't gone a day without thinking about her. My friend tells me to delete her from my phone and just give her some time to reapproach me as a friend. Like he says to wait 6 months; without texting her, contacting her, or anything related to her. I want to try to get over her but it seems impossible. She was the first and only love of my life. It is affecting my school work, my personal relationships, and mentally straining for me. \n\nAny advice for me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I asked out my ex to prom, I was a junior and she was a senior, we dated for a while but when she started her sophomore year (around september 2012) she said that she just wasn't into me as much as I was into her. I was/am in love with her, I see her as my soul mate; however she on multiple occasions has told me that I am not her soul mate, and there is nothing I can change to become her soul mate.\n \nFast forward 1 year and I still love her, she is tired of me still being in love with her. I wait for her to facebook message me back and just stare at my phone waiting (sometimes, she replies 6 hours later with just a simple \"lol\"). A few days ago she said that she doesn't want to be friends if I keep pining for her. What should I do reddit? I love this girl, and for now I just want to be my friend. I haven't gone a day with texting her. I haven't gone a day without thinking about her. My friend tells me to delete her from my phone and just give her some time to reapproach me as a friend. Like he says to wait 6 months; without texting her, contacting her, or anything related to her. I want to try to get over her but it seems impossible. She was the first and only love of my life. It is affecting my school work, my personal relationships, and mentally straining for me. \n\nAny advice for me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Allow me to begin by saying that this isn't a plea for help because I just found out that the girl I've been with for five years is a pathological liar. I've known since the first few months. The problem is that everywhere I look and everyone I ask tells me that seeing a therapist is the only way to help her work this out. While I agree that professional psychiatric help is necessary in our situation, seeing someone once a week has not helped at all in the five years that I've known her, and we simply cannot afford any more time with a therapist while we are struggling to pay for college. The therapists we've seen ( eight thus far ) can offer me no new ideas, as compulsive lying is very tricky to deal with.\n\nDoes ANYONE have ideas of what I can do with her one-on-one to work on this? I know there must be something more I can do to help.\n\nFollow-up info:\n\n1. I know her tells, but in some situations she can lie without showing any sign of it not being the truth. The most problematic instance being when she says that she wants to stop lying. I want to believe it.\n\n2. I have tried everything I can find or think of, from \"show no reaction to lies\", to \"call her out on every lie\" and \"set up a system of reprimands and rewards\" etc etc etc\n\n3. We have figured out the reasons why she became a compulsive liar, and all of the therapists ( and I, if my opinion means anything at all ) believe that she has come to terms with the underlying issues, so what remains is that she can't break the addiction."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Allow me to begin by saying that this isn't a plea for help because I just found out that the girl I've been with for five years is a pathological liar. I've known since the first few months. The problem is that everywhere I look and everyone I ask tells me that seeing a therapist is the only way to help her work this out. While I agree that professional psychiatric help is necessary in our situation, seeing someone once a week has not helped at all in the five years that I've known her, and we simply cannot afford any more time with a therapist while we are struggling to pay for college. The therapists we've seen ( eight thus far ) can offer me no new ideas, as compulsive lying is very tricky to deal with.\n\nDoes ANYONE have ideas of what I can do with her one-on-one to work on this? I know there must be something more I can do to help.\n\nFollow-up info:\n\n1. I know her tells, but in some situations she can lie without showing any sign of it not being the truth. The most problematic instance being when she says that she wants to stop lying. I want to believe it.\n\n2. I have tried everything I can find or think of, from \"show no reaction to lies\", to \"call her out on every lie\" and \"set up a system of reprimands and rewards\" etc etc etc\n\n3. We have figured out the reasons why she became a compulsive liar, and all of the therapists ( and I, if my opinion means anything at all ) believe that she has come to terms with the underlying issues, so what remains is that she can't break the addiction."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Allow me to begin by saying that this isn't a plea for help because I just found out that the girl I've been with for five years is a pathological liar. I've known since the first few months. The problem is that everywhere I look and everyone I ask tells me that seeing a therapist is the only way to help her work this out. While I agree that professional psychiatric help is necessary in our situation, seeing someone once a week has not helped at all in the five years that I've known her, and we simply cannot afford any more time with a therapist while we are struggling to pay for college. The therapists we've seen ( eight thus far ) can offer me no new ideas, as compulsive lying is very tricky to deal with.\n\nDoes ANYONE have ideas of what I can do with her one-on-one to work on this? I know there must be something more I can do to help.\n\nFollow-up info:\n\n1. I know her tells, but in some situations she can lie without showing any sign of it not being the truth. The most problematic instance being when she says that she wants to stop lying. I want to believe it.\n\n2. I have tried everything I can find or think of, from \"show no reaction to lies\", to \"call her out on every lie\" and \"set up a system of reprimands and rewards\" etc etc etc\n\n3. We have figured out the reasons why she became a compulsive liar, and all of the therapists ( and I, if my opinion means anything at all ) believe that she has come to terms with the underlying issues, so what remains is that she can't break the addiction."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Allow me to begin by saying that this isn't a plea for help because I just found out that the girl I've been with for five years is a pathological liar. I've known since the first few months. The problem is that everywhere I look and everyone I ask tells me that seeing a therapist is the only way to help her work this out. While I agree that professional psychiatric help is necessary in our situation, seeing someone once a week has not helped at all in the five years that I've known her, and we simply cannot afford any more time with a therapist while we are struggling to pay for college. The therapists we've seen ( eight thus far ) can offer me no new ideas, as compulsive lying is very tricky to deal with.\n\nDoes ANYONE have ideas of what I can do with her one-on-one to work on this? I know there must be something more I can do to help.\n\nFollow-up info:\n\n1. I know her tells, but in some situations she can lie without showing any sign of it not being the truth. The most problematic instance being when she says that she wants to stop lying. I want to believe it.\n\n2. I have tried everything I can find or think of, from \"show no reaction to lies\", to \"call her out on every lie\" and \"set up a system of reprimands and rewards\" etc etc etc\n\n3. We have figured out the reasons why she became a compulsive liar, and all of the therapists ( and I, if my opinion means anything at all ) believe that she has come to terms with the underlying issues, so what remains is that she can't break the addiction."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dear Reddit,\n\nIn one of my fondest classes sits another student who is killing the class for me, other students, and even the teacher. He asks questions constantly and they are of a long & rambling nature, which he often then goes on to answer himself in the same question. He points out sections of the reading that he finds fascinating without contributing anything further.\n\nThis is a discussion-based LGBT Studies class, and as soon as a good discussion gets rolling, you can count on him to raise his hand and create a long-winded divergence. Eyes glaze, heads drop, and we spend ten minutes (clocked it.) on stall, rather than learning.\n\nI understand that it's a question-based class and every student has the right to blah blah blah, but seriously there is a limit. We're three days behind schedule solely because of him. So short of cutting him off and telling him to STFU, how can I get him to talk less or more pointedly?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dear Reddit,\n\nIn one of my fondest classes sits another student who is killing the class for me, other students, and even the teacher. He asks questions constantly and they are of a long & rambling nature, which he often then goes on to answer himself in the same question. He points out sections of the reading that he finds fascinating without contributing anything further.\n\nThis is a discussion-based LGBT Studies class, and as soon as a good discussion gets rolling, you can count on him to raise his hand and create a long-winded divergence. Eyes glaze, heads drop, and we spend ten minutes (clocked it.) on stall, rather than learning.\n\nI understand that it's a question-based class and every student has the right to blah blah blah, but seriously there is a limit. We're three days behind schedule solely because of him. So short of cutting him off and telling him to STFU, how can I get him to talk less or more pointedly?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dear Reddit,\n\nIn one of my fondest classes sits another student who is killing the class for me, other students, and even the teacher. He asks questions constantly and they are of a long & rambling nature, which he often then goes on to answer himself in the same question. He points out sections of the reading that he finds fascinating without contributing anything further.\n\nThis is a discussion-based LGBT Studies class, and as soon as a good discussion gets rolling, you can count on him to raise his hand and create a long-winded divergence. Eyes glaze, heads drop, and we spend ten minutes (clocked it.) on stall, rather than learning.\n\nI understand that it's a question-based class and every student has the right to blah blah blah, but seriously there is a limit. We're three days behind schedule solely because of him. So short of cutting him off and telling him to STFU, how can I get him to talk less or more pointedly?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dear Reddit,\n\nIn one of my fondest classes sits another student who is killing the class for me, other students, and even the teacher. He asks questions constantly and they are of a long & rambling nature, which he often then goes on to answer himself in the same question. He points out sections of the reading that he finds fascinating without contributing anything further.\n\nThis is a discussion-based LGBT Studies class, and as soon as a good discussion gets rolling, you can count on him to raise his hand and create a long-winded divergence. Eyes glaze, heads drop, and we spend ten minutes (clocked it.) on stall, rather than learning.\n\nI understand that it's a question-based class and every student has the right to blah blah blah, but seriously there is a limit. We're three days behind schedule solely because of him. So short of cutting him off and telling him to STFU, how can I get him to talk less or more pointedly?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My parents divorced when me and my 2 siblings were very young (I was like 4-5). My dad won full custody and raised us better then anything I could ever ask for. Meanwhile my mother on the other hand was very out of the picture. She had a long arrest history, multiple boyfriends, etc. Whenever we had visitation with her on the occasional holiday they were never enjoyable. To put it bluntly, she was a terrible mother growing up. Tried to runaway with us once, forgot birthdays, etc. My 2 siblings around my age (within a year each) excommunicated her in high school, my half brother on her side did about 5 years ago. I never did though.\n\nI don't know what it is about me but I just can't remove her from my life. I'm the only child she has that talks to her. However, the relationship is really starting to strain on me. She is still a mess (alcoholic, unemployed, I think she just got evicted, etc). She'll call me and almost every time I'm too burnt out to deal with the conversation. I'm in the Army and have moved away from home currently here and soon will be overseas for 1-2 years. Therefore, realistically I won't see her much and even talking on the phone is just a depressing event.\n\nEvery conversation with her consists of like three things. 1) Her telling me about how shitty her life is makes up about 80%. 2) 10% is her asking me why my siblings wont talk to her. 3) 8% is her badmouthing my dad (who has gone out of his way to help her the last 15 years no matter the divorce). And then the last 2% is her actually wanting to hear about what I'm doing.\n\nI realize it's a toxic relationship. I want her to know how I feel and how these conversations are terrible to endure. But then again, I'm the only family she has left and I'm so afraid of breaking the last of my mom's heart. \n\nSorry for the sob story, I've been drinking and just had to dump this out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My parents divorced when me and my 2 siblings were very young (I was like 4-5). My dad won full custody and raised us better then anything I could ever ask for. Meanwhile my mother on the other hand was very out of the picture. She had a long arrest history, multiple boyfriends, etc. Whenever we had visitation with her on the occasional holiday they were never enjoyable. To put it bluntly, she was a terrible mother growing up. Tried to runaway with us once, forgot birthdays, etc. My 2 siblings around my age (within a year each) excommunicated her in high school, my half brother on her side did about 5 years ago. I never did though.\n\nI don't know what it is about me but I just can't remove her from my life. I'm the only child she has that talks to her. However, the relationship is really starting to strain on me. She is still a mess (alcoholic, unemployed, I think she just got evicted, etc). She'll call me and almost every time I'm too burnt out to deal with the conversation. I'm in the Army and have moved away from home currently here and soon will be overseas for 1-2 years. Therefore, realistically I won't see her much and even talking on the phone is just a depressing event.\n\nEvery conversation with her consists of like three things. 1) Her telling me about how shitty her life is makes up about 80%. 2) 10% is her asking me why my siblings wont talk to her. 3) 8% is her badmouthing my dad (who has gone out of his way to help her the last 15 years no matter the divorce). And then the last 2% is her actually wanting to hear about what I'm doing.\n\nI realize it's a toxic relationship. I want her to know how I feel and how these conversations are terrible to endure. But then again, I'm the only family she has left and I'm so afraid of breaking the last of my mom's heart. \n\nSorry for the sob story, I've been drinking and just had to dump this out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My parents divorced when me and my 2 siblings were very young (I was like 4-5). My dad won full custody and raised us better then anything I could ever ask for. Meanwhile my mother on the other hand was very out of the picture. She had a long arrest history, multiple boyfriends, etc. Whenever we had visitation with her on the occasional holiday they were never enjoyable. To put it bluntly, she was a terrible mother growing up. Tried to runaway with us once, forgot birthdays, etc. My 2 siblings around my age (within a year each) excommunicated her in high school, my half brother on her side did about 5 years ago. I never did though.\n\nI don't know what it is about me but I just can't remove her from my life. I'm the only child she has that talks to her. However, the relationship is really starting to strain on me. She is still a mess (alcoholic, unemployed, I think she just got evicted, etc). She'll call me and almost every time I'm too burnt out to deal with the conversation. I'm in the Army and have moved away from home currently here and soon will be overseas for 1-2 years. Therefore, realistically I won't see her much and even talking on the phone is just a depressing event.\n\nEvery conversation with her consists of like three things. 1) Her telling me about how shitty her life is makes up about 80%. 2) 10% is her asking me why my siblings wont talk to her. 3) 8% is her badmouthing my dad (who has gone out of his way to help her the last 15 years no matter the divorce). And then the last 2% is her actually wanting to hear about what I'm doing.\n\nI realize it's a toxic relationship. I want her to know how I feel and how these conversations are terrible to endure. But then again, I'm the only family she has left and I'm so afraid of breaking the last of my mom's heart. \n\nSorry for the sob story, I've been drinking and just had to dump this out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My parents divorced when me and my 2 siblings were very young (I was like 4-5). My dad won full custody and raised us better then anything I could ever ask for. Meanwhile my mother on the other hand was very out of the picture. She had a long arrest history, multiple boyfriends, etc. Whenever we had visitation with her on the occasional holiday they were never enjoyable. To put it bluntly, she was a terrible mother growing up. Tried to runaway with us once, forgot birthdays, etc. My 2 siblings around my age (within a year each) excommunicated her in high school, my half brother on her side did about 5 years ago. I never did though.\n\nI don't know what it is about me but I just can't remove her from my life. I'm the only child she has that talks to her. However, the relationship is really starting to strain on me. She is still a mess (alcoholic, unemployed, I think she just got evicted, etc). She'll call me and almost every time I'm too burnt out to deal with the conversation. I'm in the Army and have moved away from home currently here and soon will be overseas for 1-2 years. Therefore, realistically I won't see her much and even talking on the phone is just a depressing event.\n\nEvery conversation with her consists of like three things. 1) Her telling me about how shitty her life is makes up about 80%. 2) 10% is her asking me why my siblings wont talk to her. 3) 8% is her badmouthing my dad (who has gone out of his way to help her the last 15 years no matter the divorce). And then the last 2% is her actually wanting to hear about what I'm doing.\n\nI realize it's a toxic relationship. I want her to know how I feel and how these conversations are terrible to endure. But then again, I'm the only family she has left and I'm so afraid of breaking the last of my mom's heart. \n\nSorry for the sob story, I've been drinking and just had to dump this out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband (32M) and I (32F) recently moved back to our hometown with our son (1M) due to personal reasons. Both of us were working before and our son stays at home with a live-in nanny/housekeeper. I left my job 3 months before we moved out and have been a SAHM since then. \n\nWe have some money saved up that is enough to cover all our expenses for more or less a year. My husband is now actively job-hunting. I have also sent out my CV, but I can't seem to bring myself to be thrilled with the idea of running in the rat race again. \n\nI loved being a SAHM. I had issues with our nanny and, as grateful as I am for all the things she had done for our family, I was quite relieved when I finally let her go. I find joy in personally taking care of our son, however taxing it might be on some days (he is kind of a high-need child). Also, I am not very domesticated so housekeeping on my own is a new and exciting experience for me. \n\nWith all this said, there is also the thing of our financial needs. It is difficult for us to know whether or not we can live on a single income or not since my husband has yet to land a job. He, however, has selflessly given me the freedom to choose and said that we can adjust accordingly. But I know that this is an understatement, since our lifestyle has been well-adjusted to that of a double income household. \n\nI am also open to the idea of freelancing from home but I don't know how WAHMs actually make it work. My previous job allowed me to work from home once or twice a week and I know that I couldn't have had any work done if my nanny wasn't there. \n\nIs being a SAHM really worth the sacrifice of my career and the extra income? Is there a way I can get the best of both worlds? Not sure if this is the right thread to post this but any advice/comment/suggestion is welcome. I am truly losing sleep over this and I know that I have to decide soon. Thank you very much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband (32M) and I (32F) recently moved back to our hometown with our son (1M) due to personal reasons. Both of us were working before and our son stays at home with a live-in nanny/housekeeper. I left my job 3 months before we moved out and have been a SAHM since then. \n\nWe have some money saved up that is enough to cover all our expenses for more or less a year. My husband is now actively job-hunting. I have also sent out my CV, but I can't seem to bring myself to be thrilled with the idea of running in the rat race again. \n\nI loved being a SAHM. I had issues with our nanny and, as grateful as I am for all the things she had done for our family, I was quite relieved when I finally let her go. I find joy in personally taking care of our son, however taxing it might be on some days (he is kind of a high-need child). Also, I am not very domesticated so housekeeping on my own is a new and exciting experience for me. \n\nWith all this said, there is also the thing of our financial needs. It is difficult for us to know whether or not we can live on a single income or not since my husband has yet to land a job. He, however, has selflessly given me the freedom to choose and said that we can adjust accordingly. But I know that this is an understatement, since our lifestyle has been well-adjusted to that of a double income household. \n\nI am also open to the idea of freelancing from home but I don't know how WAHMs actually make it work. My previous job allowed me to work from home once or twice a week and I know that I couldn't have had any work done if my nanny wasn't there. \n\nIs being a SAHM really worth the sacrifice of my career and the extra income? Is there a way I can get the best of both worlds? Not sure if this is the right thread to post this but any advice/comment/suggestion is welcome. I am truly losing sleep over this and I know that I have to decide soon. Thank you very much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband (32M) and I (32F) recently moved back to our hometown with our son (1M) due to personal reasons. Both of us were working before and our son stays at home with a live-in nanny/housekeeper. I left my job 3 months before we moved out and have been a SAHM since then. \n\nWe have some money saved up that is enough to cover all our expenses for more or less a year. My husband is now actively job-hunting. I have also sent out my CV, but I can't seem to bring myself to be thrilled with the idea of running in the rat race again. \n\nI loved being a SAHM. I had issues with our nanny and, as grateful as I am for all the things she had done for our family, I was quite relieved when I finally let her go. I find joy in personally taking care of our son, however taxing it might be on some days (he is kind of a high-need child). Also, I am not very domesticated so housekeeping on my own is a new and exciting experience for me. \n\nWith all this said, there is also the thing of our financial needs. It is difficult for us to know whether or not we can live on a single income or not since my husband has yet to land a job. He, however, has selflessly given me the freedom to choose and said that we can adjust accordingly. But I know that this is an understatement, since our lifestyle has been well-adjusted to that of a double income household. \n\nI am also open to the idea of freelancing from home but I don't know how WAHMs actually make it work. My previous job allowed me to work from home once or twice a week and I know that I couldn't have had any work done if my nanny wasn't there. \n\nIs being a SAHM really worth the sacrifice of my career and the extra income? Is there a way I can get the best of both worlds? Not sure if this is the right thread to post this but any advice/comment/suggestion is welcome. I am truly losing sleep over this and I know that I have to decide soon. Thank you very much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My husband (32M) and I (32F) recently moved back to our hometown with our son (1M) due to personal reasons. Both of us were working before and our son stays at home with a live-in nanny/housekeeper. I left my job 3 months before we moved out and have been a SAHM since then. \n\nWe have some money saved up that is enough to cover all our expenses for more or less a year. My husband is now actively job-hunting. I have also sent out my CV, but I can't seem to bring myself to be thrilled with the idea of running in the rat race again. \n\nI loved being a SAHM. I had issues with our nanny and, as grateful as I am for all the things she had done for our family, I was quite relieved when I finally let her go. I find joy in personally taking care of our son, however taxing it might be on some days (he is kind of a high-need child). Also, I am not very domesticated so housekeeping on my own is a new and exciting experience for me. \n\nWith all this said, there is also the thing of our financial needs. It is difficult for us to know whether or not we can live on a single income or not since my husband has yet to land a job. He, however, has selflessly given me the freedom to choose and said that we can adjust accordingly. But I know that this is an understatement, since our lifestyle has been well-adjusted to that of a double income household. \n\nI am also open to the idea of freelancing from home but I don't know how WAHMs actually make it work. My previous job allowed me to work from home once or twice a week and I know that I couldn't have had any work done if my nanny wasn't there. \n\nIs being a SAHM really worth the sacrifice of my career and the extra income? Is there a way I can get the best of both worlds? Not sure if this is the right thread to post this but any advice/comment/suggestion is welcome. I am truly losing sleep over this and I know that I have to decide soon. Thank you very much."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Female, turning 30 in six months. I am working a little more than part time (25 hours) in a job I love, that pays around $22 an hour, full benefits, retirement, investing options, etc. They were thinking of promoting me in the next few months as well, until we got a new Chief Financial Officer, who wants to cut my job among a few other newer hires. Our department runs in a way where new blood gets cut first, even if I am more qualified than some of my older coworkers. Such is life.\n\nI also work in a very competitive field and am not sure I'll be able to get another job right away (yes, I started applying. 6 cover letters and applications a week). I should probably get a weekend job (restaurant/bar work) at this point to cushion my savings for the impending lay off in 3 months. I put all my eggs in this basket since my boss promised me about 6 months ago that he would open a full time position for me eventually. And no savings since I needed to quit my other part time to be flexible in my hours.\n\n*Here is the dating issue.* I just got out of a LTR about 2 months ago, and as I have started feeling better and looking toward the future, I realize even if I start emotionally feeling okay with dating, who would want to date a 30 year old woman with almost no savings, about to be laid off, and no real assurance that she'll find another decent job anytime soon?\n\nShould I hold off on dating until I am more financially sound and secure in the career realm? If I did start dating how would I let potential dates/partners know about my situation up front so they know I can't go to Greece with them, and that financial freedom is lacking for me? \n\nI live in an area where a lot of people make a lot of money and I know that this might be a huge issue for people who have a lot of financial flexibility. \n\nAny ideas? Advice? Should I just hold off all together for a while? And how should I approach this topic with people if I do date?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Female, turning 30 in six months. I am working a little more than part time (25 hours) in a job I love, that pays around $22 an hour, full benefits, retirement, investing options, etc. They were thinking of promoting me in the next few months as well, until we got a new Chief Financial Officer, who wants to cut my job among a few other newer hires. Our department runs in a way where new blood gets cut first, even if I am more qualified than some of my older coworkers. Such is life.\n\nI also work in a very competitive field and am not sure I'll be able to get another job right away (yes, I started applying. 6 cover letters and applications a week). I should probably get a weekend job (restaurant/bar work) at this point to cushion my savings for the impending lay off in 3 months. I put all my eggs in this basket since my boss promised me about 6 months ago that he would open a full time position for me eventually. And no savings since I needed to quit my other part time to be flexible in my hours.\n\n*Here is the dating issue.* I just got out of a LTR about 2 months ago, and as I have started feeling better and looking toward the future, I realize even if I start emotionally feeling okay with dating, who would want to date a 30 year old woman with almost no savings, about to be laid off, and no real assurance that she'll find another decent job anytime soon?\n\nShould I hold off on dating until I am more financially sound and secure in the career realm? If I did start dating how would I let potential dates/partners know about my situation up front so they know I can't go to Greece with them, and that financial freedom is lacking for me? \n\nI live in an area where a lot of people make a lot of money and I know that this might be a huge issue for people who have a lot of financial flexibility. \n\nAny ideas? Advice? Should I just hold off all together for a while? And how should I approach this topic with people if I do date?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Female, turning 30 in six months. I am working a little more than part time (25 hours) in a job I love, that pays around $22 an hour, full benefits, retirement, investing options, etc. They were thinking of promoting me in the next few months as well, until we got a new Chief Financial Officer, who wants to cut my job among a few other newer hires. Our department runs in a way where new blood gets cut first, even if I am more qualified than some of my older coworkers. Such is life.\n\nI also work in a very competitive field and am not sure I'll be able to get another job right away (yes, I started applying. 6 cover letters and applications a week). I should probably get a weekend job (restaurant/bar work) at this point to cushion my savings for the impending lay off in 3 months. I put all my eggs in this basket since my boss promised me about 6 months ago that he would open a full time position for me eventually. And no savings since I needed to quit my other part time to be flexible in my hours.\n\n*Here is the dating issue.* I just got out of a LTR about 2 months ago, and as I have started feeling better and looking toward the future, I realize even if I start emotionally feeling okay with dating, who would want to date a 30 year old woman with almost no savings, about to be laid off, and no real assurance that she'll find another decent job anytime soon?\n\nShould I hold off on dating until I am more financially sound and secure in the career realm? If I did start dating how would I let potential dates/partners know about my situation up front so they know I can't go to Greece with them, and that financial freedom is lacking for me? \n\nI live in an area where a lot of people make a lot of money and I know that this might be a huge issue for people who have a lot of financial flexibility. \n\nAny ideas? Advice? Should I just hold off all together for a while? And how should I approach this topic with people if I do date?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Female, turning 30 in six months. I am working a little more than part time (25 hours) in a job I love, that pays around $22 an hour, full benefits, retirement, investing options, etc. They were thinking of promoting me in the next few months as well, until we got a new Chief Financial Officer, who wants to cut my job among a few other newer hires. Our department runs in a way where new blood gets cut first, even if I am more qualified than some of my older coworkers. Such is life.\n\nI also work in a very competitive field and am not sure I'll be able to get another job right away (yes, I started applying. 6 cover letters and applications a week). I should probably get a weekend job (restaurant/bar work) at this point to cushion my savings for the impending lay off in 3 months. I put all my eggs in this basket since my boss promised me about 6 months ago that he would open a full time position for me eventually. And no savings since I needed to quit my other part time to be flexible in my hours.\n\n*Here is the dating issue.* I just got out of a LTR about 2 months ago, and as I have started feeling better and looking toward the future, I realize even if I start emotionally feeling okay with dating, who would want to date a 30 year old woman with almost no savings, about to be laid off, and no real assurance that she'll find another decent job anytime soon?\n\nShould I hold off on dating until I am more financially sound and secure in the career realm? If I did start dating how would I let potential dates/partners know about my situation up front so they know I can't go to Greece with them, and that financial freedom is lacking for me? \n\nI live in an area where a lot of people make a lot of money and I know that this might be a huge issue for people who have a lot of financial flexibility. \n\nAny ideas? Advice? Should I just hold off all together for a while? And how should I approach this topic with people if I do date?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a dinner date tomorrow night at this girl's apartment, and I'm incredibly nervous. This is my first date since my last relationship fell apart, a month ago. I've known the girl for the past 8 months, we tried dating 7 months ago, but I ended up making a series of cringe worthy and desperate mistakes which killed any chance of anything happening. Now, we're gonna try again, so I need help on how to not make a fool of myself. What are something's I can do, or say to keep her attention? What are something's that guys do that are turn offs during a first date? What are things that would help make the date a more enjoyable time for both of us? \nSome more details on her: She recently moved into her own place after a big falling out with her family. Her family is a devote Muslim family, although she's not to serious about it. She is so beautiful that it makes me a little nervous to talk to her sometimes."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a dinner date tomorrow night at this girl's apartment, and I'm incredibly nervous. This is my first date since my last relationship fell apart, a month ago. I've known the girl for the past 8 months, we tried dating 7 months ago, but I ended up making a series of cringe worthy and desperate mistakes which killed any chance of anything happening. Now, we're gonna try again, so I need help on how to not make a fool of myself. What are something's I can do, or say to keep her attention? What are something's that guys do that are turn offs during a first date? What are things that would help make the date a more enjoyable time for both of us? \nSome more details on her: She recently moved into her own place after a big falling out with her family. Her family is a devote Muslim family, although she's not to serious about it. She is so beautiful that it makes me a little nervous to talk to her sometimes."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a dinner date tomorrow night at this girl's apartment, and I'm incredibly nervous. This is my first date since my last relationship fell apart, a month ago. I've known the girl for the past 8 months, we tried dating 7 months ago, but I ended up making a series of cringe worthy and desperate mistakes which killed any chance of anything happening. Now, we're gonna try again, so I need help on how to not make a fool of myself. What are something's I can do, or say to keep her attention? What are something's that guys do that are turn offs during a first date? What are things that would help make the date a more enjoyable time for both of us? \nSome more details on her: She recently moved into her own place after a big falling out with her family. Her family is a devote Muslim family, although she's not to serious about it. She is so beautiful that it makes me a little nervous to talk to her sometimes."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a dinner date tomorrow night at this girl's apartment, and I'm incredibly nervous. This is my first date since my last relationship fell apart, a month ago. I've known the girl for the past 8 months, we tried dating 7 months ago, but I ended up making a series of cringe worthy and desperate mistakes which killed any chance of anything happening. Now, we're gonna try again, so I need help on how to not make a fool of myself. What are something's I can do, or say to keep her attention? What are something's that guys do that are turn offs during a first date? What are things that would help make the date a more enjoyable time for both of us? \nSome more details on her: She recently moved into her own place after a big falling out with her family. Her family is a devote Muslim family, although she's not to serious about it. She is so beautiful that it makes me a little nervous to talk to her sometimes."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had been seeing a very cool girl I met in one of my hobbies on and off over the last two years. The relationship was tumultuous, in part because neither of us were particularly ready to commit, we were at times volatile about our feelings, and it was a constant flash-in-the-pan on repeat.\n\nAfter a good 2-3 month break, some therapy, and some self searching, I am back in the game and was set up on a great date with another seemingly great girl. We went out once. But here's the problem: these two girls are in a relatively loose social circle. They don't know each other directly, but they are only one person removed from mutual friends, and information leak is probably inevitable. In addition, my volatile ex friend just got even more volatile, and has been lashing out by spreading rumors and talking smack in my hobby circle of friends. There is a risk my new interest could catch a confrontation from my ex, or at least hear hyperbolic and destructive gossip about our time together.\n\nTwo of my friends have opposite advice. My co-worker says I should head this off at the pass and tell the new girl to brace herself for a drama bomb. Anything she hears from outside will be worse than an honest admission from me, right from the start. My best guy friend thinks I should not say anything, because bringing it up at the start seeds unnecessary doubt about my life complications. If it comes up in back channels, I should write it off as my volatile ex, \"past is the past,\" and not part of my life now. There's not even a guarantee that my ex would even do or say anything.\n\nI am leaning towards the up front honesty, because that's more my speed. If you were the new girl, what would influence your impression most?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had been seeing a very cool girl I met in one of my hobbies on and off over the last two years. The relationship was tumultuous, in part because neither of us were particularly ready to commit, we were at times volatile about our feelings, and it was a constant flash-in-the-pan on repeat.\n\nAfter a good 2-3 month break, some therapy, and some self searching, I am back in the game and was set up on a great date with another seemingly great girl. We went out once. But here's the problem: these two girls are in a relatively loose social circle. They don't know each other directly, but they are only one person removed from mutual friends, and information leak is probably inevitable. In addition, my volatile ex friend just got even more volatile, and has been lashing out by spreading rumors and talking smack in my hobby circle of friends. There is a risk my new interest could catch a confrontation from my ex, or at least hear hyperbolic and destructive gossip about our time together.\n\nTwo of my friends have opposite advice. My co-worker says I should head this off at the pass and tell the new girl to brace herself for a drama bomb. Anything she hears from outside will be worse than an honest admission from me, right from the start. My best guy friend thinks I should not say anything, because bringing it up at the start seeds unnecessary doubt about my life complications. If it comes up in back channels, I should write it off as my volatile ex, \"past is the past,\" and not part of my life now. There's not even a guarantee that my ex would even do or say anything.\n\nI am leaning towards the up front honesty, because that's more my speed. If you were the new girl, what would influence your impression most?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had been seeing a very cool girl I met in one of my hobbies on and off over the last two years. The relationship was tumultuous, in part because neither of us were particularly ready to commit, we were at times volatile about our feelings, and it was a constant flash-in-the-pan on repeat.\n\nAfter a good 2-3 month break, some therapy, and some self searching, I am back in the game and was set up on a great date with another seemingly great girl. We went out once. But here's the problem: these two girls are in a relatively loose social circle. They don't know each other directly, but they are only one person removed from mutual friends, and information leak is probably inevitable. In addition, my volatile ex friend just got even more volatile, and has been lashing out by spreading rumors and talking smack in my hobby circle of friends. There is a risk my new interest could catch a confrontation from my ex, or at least hear hyperbolic and destructive gossip about our time together.\n\nTwo of my friends have opposite advice. My co-worker says I should head this off at the pass and tell the new girl to brace herself for a drama bomb. Anything she hears from outside will be worse than an honest admission from me, right from the start. My best guy friend thinks I should not say anything, because bringing it up at the start seeds unnecessary doubt about my life complications. If it comes up in back channels, I should write it off as my volatile ex, \"past is the past,\" and not part of my life now. There's not even a guarantee that my ex would even do or say anything.\n\nI am leaning towards the up front honesty, because that's more my speed. If you were the new girl, what would influence your impression most?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had been seeing a very cool girl I met in one of my hobbies on and off over the last two years. The relationship was tumultuous, in part because neither of us were particularly ready to commit, we were at times volatile about our feelings, and it was a constant flash-in-the-pan on repeat.\n\nAfter a good 2-3 month break, some therapy, and some self searching, I am back in the game and was set up on a great date with another seemingly great girl. We went out once. But here's the problem: these two girls are in a relatively loose social circle. They don't know each other directly, but they are only one person removed from mutual friends, and information leak is probably inevitable. In addition, my volatile ex friend just got even more volatile, and has been lashing out by spreading rumors and talking smack in my hobby circle of friends. There is a risk my new interest could catch a confrontation from my ex, or at least hear hyperbolic and destructive gossip about our time together.\n\nTwo of my friends have opposite advice. My co-worker says I should head this off at the pass and tell the new girl to brace herself for a drama bomb. Anything she hears from outside will be worse than an honest admission from me, right from the start. My best guy friend thinks I should not say anything, because bringing it up at the start seeds unnecessary doubt about my life complications. If it comes up in back channels, I should write it off as my volatile ex, \"past is the past,\" and not part of my life now. There's not even a guarantee that my ex would even do or say anything.\n\nI am leaning towards the up front honesty, because that's more my speed. If you were the new girl, what would influence your impression most?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been seeing this girl for the last 6 months. We've gotten very close. I like her a lot. The only problem is I've noticed she gets very protective when it comes to her phone. Not always, but sometimes. \n\nFor example: If her phone is on the table, and I walk close to it she will immediately flip it over. \n\nAnother time while we were cooking, she had the recipe open on her phone on the counter, I went over to go look at the recipe and she quickly came over and grabbed the phone from me.\n\nAlso if I go to grab something close to her phone, she sometimes will move her hand quickly to grab her phone.\n\nShe knows my phone password, and she uses my phone when we are in my car (for music, GPS etc.). I have no problem with her having access to my phone,. I have nothing to hide from her.\n\nI want to talk to her about it next time I see her. I was wondering if any of you have had similar situations and what you did about it.\n\nOne thing to note, she is a very social person and has a huge social circle. She is a very friendly person but not flirty."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been seeing this girl for the last 6 months. We've gotten very close. I like her a lot. The only problem is I've noticed she gets very protective when it comes to her phone. Not always, but sometimes. \n\nFor example: If her phone is on the table, and I walk close to it she will immediately flip it over. \n\nAnother time while we were cooking, she had the recipe open on her phone on the counter, I went over to go look at the recipe and she quickly came over and grabbed the phone from me.\n\nAlso if I go to grab something close to her phone, she sometimes will move her hand quickly to grab her phone.\n\nShe knows my phone password, and she uses my phone when we are in my car (for music, GPS etc.). I have no problem with her having access to my phone,. I have nothing to hide from her.\n\nI want to talk to her about it next time I see her. I was wondering if any of you have had similar situations and what you did about it.\n\nOne thing to note, she is a very social person and has a huge social circle. She is a very friendly person but not flirty."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been seeing this girl for the last 6 months. We've gotten very close. I like her a lot. The only problem is I've noticed she gets very protective when it comes to her phone. Not always, but sometimes. \n\nFor example: If her phone is on the table, and I walk close to it she will immediately flip it over. \n\nAnother time while we were cooking, she had the recipe open on her phone on the counter, I went over to go look at the recipe and she quickly came over and grabbed the phone from me.\n\nAlso if I go to grab something close to her phone, she sometimes will move her hand quickly to grab her phone.\n\nShe knows my phone password, and she uses my phone when we are in my car (for music, GPS etc.). I have no problem with her having access to my phone,. I have nothing to hide from her.\n\nI want to talk to her about it next time I see her. I was wondering if any of you have had similar situations and what you did about it.\n\nOne thing to note, she is a very social person and has a huge social circle. She is a very friendly person but not flirty."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been seeing this girl for the last 6 months. We've gotten very close. I like her a lot. The only problem is I've noticed she gets very protective when it comes to her phone. Not always, but sometimes. \n\nFor example: If her phone is on the table, and I walk close to it she will immediately flip it over. \n\nAnother time while we were cooking, she had the recipe open on her phone on the counter, I went over to go look at the recipe and she quickly came over and grabbed the phone from me.\n\nAlso if I go to grab something close to her phone, she sometimes will move her hand quickly to grab her phone.\n\nShe knows my phone password, and she uses my phone when we are in my car (for music, GPS etc.). I have no problem with her having access to my phone,. I have nothing to hide from her.\n\nI want to talk to her about it next time I see her. I was wondering if any of you have had similar situations and what you did about it.\n\nOne thing to note, she is a very social person and has a huge social circle. She is a very friendly person but not flirty."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been together for 5 months and its very nice since its the first serious relationship for both of us. Both new to sex and love etc.\n\nHowever, I had this feeling from the start that I wouldn't want anything to last too long - just wanted to \"try out\" being in a relationships. This didn't work out too well as I've fallen in love with this girl pretty bad but I'm not sure if she likes me as much.\n\nShe's slightly unstable emotionally and I try to console her when I can but it is hard when she gets really upset about random things. I have this \"feeling\" that shes kind of in the same situation as me that she wants to break up but still has feelings for me. You know we're young and want to party and so forth so its a tough time to be in a relationship.\n\nI guess the question I want to ask you reddit is; I know I'll be better off if I break up with this girl but I like her too much to do it right now. And she will probably be sad for a long time if I do it and I wouldn't want to screw up her final exam."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been together for 5 months and its very nice since its the first serious relationship for both of us. Both new to sex and love etc.\n\nHowever, I had this feeling from the start that I wouldn't want anything to last too long - just wanted to \"try out\" being in a relationships. This didn't work out too well as I've fallen in love with this girl pretty bad but I'm not sure if she likes me as much.\n\nShe's slightly unstable emotionally and I try to console her when I can but it is hard when she gets really upset about random things. I have this \"feeling\" that shes kind of in the same situation as me that she wants to break up but still has feelings for me. You know we're young and want to party and so forth so its a tough time to be in a relationship.\n\nI guess the question I want to ask you reddit is; I know I'll be better off if I break up with this girl but I like her too much to do it right now. And she will probably be sad for a long time if I do it and I wouldn't want to screw up her final exam."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been together for 5 months and its very nice since its the first serious relationship for both of us. Both new to sex and love etc.\n\nHowever, I had this feeling from the start that I wouldn't want anything to last too long - just wanted to \"try out\" being in a relationships. This didn't work out too well as I've fallen in love with this girl pretty bad but I'm not sure if she likes me as much.\n\nShe's slightly unstable emotionally and I try to console her when I can but it is hard when she gets really upset about random things. I have this \"feeling\" that shes kind of in the same situation as me that she wants to break up but still has feelings for me. You know we're young and want to party and so forth so its a tough time to be in a relationship.\n\nI guess the question I want to ask you reddit is; I know I'll be better off if I break up with this girl but I like her too much to do it right now. And she will probably be sad for a long time if I do it and I wouldn't want to screw up her final exam."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been together for 5 months and its very nice since its the first serious relationship for both of us. Both new to sex and love etc.\n\nHowever, I had this feeling from the start that I wouldn't want anything to last too long - just wanted to \"try out\" being in a relationships. This didn't work out too well as I've fallen in love with this girl pretty bad but I'm not sure if she likes me as much.\n\nShe's slightly unstable emotionally and I try to console her when I can but it is hard when she gets really upset about random things. I have this \"feeling\" that shes kind of in the same situation as me that she wants to break up but still has feelings for me. You know we're young and want to party and so forth so its a tough time to be in a relationship.\n\nI guess the question I want to ask you reddit is; I know I'll be better off if I break up with this girl but I like her too much to do it right now. And she will probably be sad for a long time if I do it and I wouldn't want to screw up her final exam."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Even though I've been in a relationship for a month, I haven't actually had sex with my girlfriend yet. Basically, what I want to do, is see what my girlfriend thinks about sex, like how long to wait and such. \nWe've fooled around before and I'll ask if she wants anything else, but she'll say \"no, I'm good.\" \n\nI don't mind waiting with this girl, but I want to make sure it isn't a til marriage kind of thing, because that's not what I'm looking for (in case we're not compatible). I'd like to find out sooner, as opposed to later, but I don't know how to bring it up and if I should wait to talk to her about it (e.g., until we've been in a committed relationship for two months). So, Redditors of r/Relationships, what should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Even though I've been in a relationship for a month, I haven't actually had sex with my girlfriend yet. Basically, what I want to do, is see what my girlfriend thinks about sex, like how long to wait and such. \nWe've fooled around before and I'll ask if she wants anything else, but she'll say \"no, I'm good.\" \n\nI don't mind waiting with this girl, but I want to make sure it isn't a til marriage kind of thing, because that's not what I'm looking for (in case we're not compatible). I'd like to find out sooner, as opposed to later, but I don't know how to bring it up and if I should wait to talk to her about it (e.g., until we've been in a committed relationship for two months). So, Redditors of r/Relationships, what should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Even though I've been in a relationship for a month, I haven't actually had sex with my girlfriend yet. Basically, what I want to do, is see what my girlfriend thinks about sex, like how long to wait and such. \nWe've fooled around before and I'll ask if she wants anything else, but she'll say \"no, I'm good.\" \n\nI don't mind waiting with this girl, but I want to make sure it isn't a til marriage kind of thing, because that's not what I'm looking for (in case we're not compatible). I'd like to find out sooner, as opposed to later, but I don't know how to bring it up and if I should wait to talk to her about it (e.g., until we've been in a committed relationship for two months). So, Redditors of r/Relationships, what should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Even though I've been in a relationship for a month, I haven't actually had sex with my girlfriend yet. Basically, what I want to do, is see what my girlfriend thinks about sex, like how long to wait and such. \nWe've fooled around before and I'll ask if she wants anything else, but she'll say \"no, I'm good.\" \n\nI don't mind waiting with this girl, but I want to make sure it isn't a til marriage kind of thing, because that's not what I'm looking for (in case we're not compatible). I'd like to find out sooner, as opposed to later, but I don't know how to bring it up and if I should wait to talk to her about it (e.g., until we've been in a committed relationship for two months). So, Redditors of r/Relationships, what should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 28 (I'm aware that the age difference is pretty large but stick with me) and we've been together happily for 6 months. For the past couple of months, my feelings toward him have become much more intense and I've come to the conclusion that I'm experiencing true love. However, I understand that I'm much younger than him, and I fear that if I reveal my feelings to him he won't take me seriously. I also don't want him to be scared off or anything of the sort. But I don't want to keep this to myself anymore. Is the relationship worth the effort if he's uncomfortable hearing \"I love you\" after 6 steady months? How do I bring it up?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 28 (I'm aware that the age difference is pretty large but stick with me) and we've been together happily for 6 months. For the past couple of months, my feelings toward him have become much more intense and I've come to the conclusion that I'm experiencing true love. However, I understand that I'm much younger than him, and I fear that if I reveal my feelings to him he won't take me seriously. I also don't want him to be scared off or anything of the sort. But I don't want to keep this to myself anymore. Is the relationship worth the effort if he's uncomfortable hearing \"I love you\" after 6 steady months? How do I bring it up?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 28 (I'm aware that the age difference is pretty large but stick with me) and we've been together happily for 6 months. For the past couple of months, my feelings toward him have become much more intense and I've come to the conclusion that I'm experiencing true love. However, I understand that I'm much younger than him, and I fear that if I reveal my feelings to him he won't take me seriously. I also don't want him to be scared off or anything of the sort. But I don't want to keep this to myself anymore. Is the relationship worth the effort if he's uncomfortable hearing \"I love you\" after 6 steady months? How do I bring it up?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 28 (I'm aware that the age difference is pretty large but stick with me) and we've been together happily for 6 months. For the past couple of months, my feelings toward him have become much more intense and I've come to the conclusion that I'm experiencing true love. However, I understand that I'm much younger than him, and I fear that if I reveal my feelings to him he won't take me seriously. I also don't want him to be scared off or anything of the sort. But I don't want to keep this to myself anymore. Is the relationship worth the effort if he's uncomfortable hearing \"I love you\" after 6 steady months? How do I bring it up?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had a car accident on friday, other party involved was speeding and hit me. but because he denies it it seems like I was wrong because he was supposed to go first under normal circumstances. ( give way road markings ) \n\nbut because it was clear when I checked it I drove on, and when I was almost past the intersection he slammed me in the side near the back seat. and caused me to slide across the road for 2-3 meters hit a street light and then bounce back a meter. both doors completely jammed so i had to climb out the window.\n\ncan I somehow get an investigation going about this to see how fast he had to be driving to get this much force in the collision?\nbecause the damage on my car would suggest that he was driving way faster than the legal limit there. ( which is 50 km/h )\n\nalso another reason why i think he was going way faster than admitted is because he could never have reached the intersection from such a distance as where i could not even see him yet\n\n(pictures of the damage: ) as you can see with the damage, I am lucky to be alive and unharmed right now. 1ft further forward and it could have been my end.\n\nhelp would be appeciated on this :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had a car accident on friday, other party involved was speeding and hit me. but because he denies it it seems like I was wrong because he was supposed to go first under normal circumstances. ( give way road markings ) \n\nbut because it was clear when I checked it I drove on, and when I was almost past the intersection he slammed me in the side near the back seat. and caused me to slide across the road for 2-3 meters hit a street light and then bounce back a meter. both doors completely jammed so i had to climb out the window.\n\ncan I somehow get an investigation going about this to see how fast he had to be driving to get this much force in the collision?\nbecause the damage on my car would suggest that he was driving way faster than the legal limit there. ( which is 50 km/h )\n\nalso another reason why i think he was going way faster than admitted is because he could never have reached the intersection from such a distance as where i could not even see him yet\n\n(pictures of the damage: ) as you can see with the damage, I am lucky to be alive and unharmed right now. 1ft further forward and it could have been my end.\n\nhelp would be appeciated on this :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had a car accident on friday, other party involved was speeding and hit me. but because he denies it it seems like I was wrong because he was supposed to go first under normal circumstances. ( give way road markings ) \n\nbut because it was clear when I checked it I drove on, and when I was almost past the intersection he slammed me in the side near the back seat. and caused me to slide across the road for 2-3 meters hit a street light and then bounce back a meter. both doors completely jammed so i had to climb out the window.\n\ncan I somehow get an investigation going about this to see how fast he had to be driving to get this much force in the collision?\nbecause the damage on my car would suggest that he was driving way faster than the legal limit there. ( which is 50 km/h )\n\nalso another reason why i think he was going way faster than admitted is because he could never have reached the intersection from such a distance as where i could not even see him yet\n\n(pictures of the damage: ) as you can see with the damage, I am lucky to be alive and unharmed right now. 1ft further forward and it could have been my end.\n\nhelp would be appeciated on this :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had a car accident on friday, other party involved was speeding and hit me. but because he denies it it seems like I was wrong because he was supposed to go first under normal circumstances. ( give way road markings ) \n\nbut because it was clear when I checked it I drove on, and when I was almost past the intersection he slammed me in the side near the back seat. and caused me to slide across the road for 2-3 meters hit a street light and then bounce back a meter. both doors completely jammed so i had to climb out the window.\n\ncan I somehow get an investigation going about this to see how fast he had to be driving to get this much force in the collision?\nbecause the damage on my car would suggest that he was driving way faster than the legal limit there. ( which is 50 km/h )\n\nalso another reason why i think he was going way faster than admitted is because he could never have reached the intersection from such a distance as where i could not even see him yet\n\n(pictures of the damage: ) as you can see with the damage, I am lucky to be alive and unharmed right now. 1ft further forward and it could have been my end.\n\nhelp would be appeciated on this :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had a car accident on friday, other party involved was speeding and hit me. but because he denies it it seems like I was wrong because he was supposed to go first under normal circumstances. ( give way road markings ) \n\nbut because it was clear when I checked it I drove on, and when I was almost past the intersection he slammed me in the side near the back seat. and caused me to slide across the road for 2-3 meters hit a street light and then bounce back a meter. both doors completely jammed so i had to climb out the window.\n\ncan I somehow get an investigation going about this to see how fast he had to be driving to get this much force in the collision?\nbecause the damage on my car would suggest that he was driving way faster than the legal limit there. ( which is 50 km/h )\n\nalso another reason why i think he was going way faster than admitted is because he could never have reached the intersection from such a distance as where i could not even see him yet\n\n(pictures of the damage: ) as you can see with the damage, I am lucky to be alive and unharmed right now. 1ft further forward and it could have been my end.\n\nhelp would be appeciated on this :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had a car accident on friday, other party involved was speeding and hit me. but because he denies it it seems like I was wrong because he was supposed to go first under normal circumstances. ( give way road markings ) \n\nbut because it was clear when I checked it I drove on, and when I was almost past the intersection he slammed me in the side near the back seat. and caused me to slide across the road for 2-3 meters hit a street light and then bounce back a meter. both doors completely jammed so i had to climb out the window.\n\ncan I somehow get an investigation going about this to see how fast he had to be driving to get this much force in the collision?\nbecause the damage on my car would suggest that he was driving way faster than the legal limit there. ( which is 50 km/h )\n\nalso another reason why i think he was going way faster than admitted is because he could never have reached the intersection from such a distance as where i could not even see him yet\n\n(pictures of the damage: ) as you can see with the damage, I am lucky to be alive and unharmed right now. 1ft further forward and it could have been my end.\n\nhelp would be appeciated on this :)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a third year college student, who lives off campus and for the past 2 years the way it has worked is that my parents have payed the rent and I take care of the utilities and spending money. That changed this year when they required half of the rent from me (so I learned more \"responsibility\"), and I agreed.\n\nTurns out that the amount of money I have to make per month leaves me with little to none extra money, at least with the job I currently have (I work with my father).\n\nBecause of this, I spoke with my dad and his response was basically \"work more\". I explained to him that I was working as much as possible whilst also keeping up with my schoolwork. I spoke to my mom, and that conversation ended in her calling me a bum and a \"parasite\" and that she refuses to have me live off of them, so I need to man up and figure it out.\n\nMy frustrations lie in that thankfully my parents can afford to help me out more, and while they are not obligated to do anything, nor should I expect them to, a little more help from them would help me sleep better at night. I tried to explain this to them and again, the conversation ended with them saying I need to grow up and work more.\n\nWhat should I do in this situation? I am tempted to look for another job that would perhaps pay more but I feel as though I would be betraying my dad. I work for him both for money and to help him out, but unfortunately he doesn't always pay me as much as he does his \"real\" employees. Should I ask my dad to pay me more fairly? Or are they right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a third year college student, who lives off campus and for the past 2 years the way it has worked is that my parents have payed the rent and I take care of the utilities and spending money. That changed this year when they required half of the rent from me (so I learned more \"responsibility\"), and I agreed.\n\nTurns out that the amount of money I have to make per month leaves me with little to none extra money, at least with the job I currently have (I work with my father).\n\nBecause of this, I spoke with my dad and his response was basically \"work more\". I explained to him that I was working as much as possible whilst also keeping up with my schoolwork. I spoke to my mom, and that conversation ended in her calling me a bum and a \"parasite\" and that she refuses to have me live off of them, so I need to man up and figure it out.\n\nMy frustrations lie in that thankfully my parents can afford to help me out more, and while they are not obligated to do anything, nor should I expect them to, a little more help from them would help me sleep better at night. I tried to explain this to them and again, the conversation ended with them saying I need to grow up and work more.\n\nWhat should I do in this situation? I am tempted to look for another job that would perhaps pay more but I feel as though I would be betraying my dad. I work for him both for money and to help him out, but unfortunately he doesn't always pay me as much as he does his \"real\" employees. Should I ask my dad to pay me more fairly? Or are they right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a third year college student, who lives off campus and for the past 2 years the way it has worked is that my parents have payed the rent and I take care of the utilities and spending money. That changed this year when they required half of the rent from me (so I learned more \"responsibility\"), and I agreed.\n\nTurns out that the amount of money I have to make per month leaves me with little to none extra money, at least with the job I currently have (I work with my father).\n\nBecause of this, I spoke with my dad and his response was basically \"work more\". I explained to him that I was working as much as possible whilst also keeping up with my schoolwork. I spoke to my mom, and that conversation ended in her calling me a bum and a \"parasite\" and that she refuses to have me live off of them, so I need to man up and figure it out.\n\nMy frustrations lie in that thankfully my parents can afford to help me out more, and while they are not obligated to do anything, nor should I expect them to, a little more help from them would help me sleep better at night. I tried to explain this to them and again, the conversation ended with them saying I need to grow up and work more.\n\nWhat should I do in this situation? I am tempted to look for another job that would perhaps pay more but I feel as though I would be betraying my dad. I work for him both for money and to help him out, but unfortunately he doesn't always pay me as much as he does his \"real\" employees. Should I ask my dad to pay me more fairly? Or are they right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a third year college student, who lives off campus and for the past 2 years the way it has worked is that my parents have payed the rent and I take care of the utilities and spending money. That changed this year when they required half of the rent from me (so I learned more \"responsibility\"), and I agreed.\n\nTurns out that the amount of money I have to make per month leaves me with little to none extra money, at least with the job I currently have (I work with my father).\n\nBecause of this, I spoke with my dad and his response was basically \"work more\". I explained to him that I was working as much as possible whilst also keeping up with my schoolwork. I spoke to my mom, and that conversation ended in her calling me a bum and a \"parasite\" and that she refuses to have me live off of them, so I need to man up and figure it out.\n\nMy frustrations lie in that thankfully my parents can afford to help me out more, and while they are not obligated to do anything, nor should I expect them to, a little more help from them would help me sleep better at night. I tried to explain this to them and again, the conversation ended with them saying I need to grow up and work more.\n\nWhat should I do in this situation? I am tempted to look for another job that would perhaps pay more but I feel as though I would be betraying my dad. I work for him both for money and to help him out, but unfortunately he doesn't always pay me as much as he does his \"real\" employees. Should I ask my dad to pay me more fairly? Or are they right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a third year college student, who lives off campus and for the past 2 years the way it has worked is that my parents have payed the rent and I take care of the utilities and spending money. That changed this year when they required half of the rent from me (so I learned more \"responsibility\"), and I agreed.\n\nTurns out that the amount of money I have to make per month leaves me with little to none extra money, at least with the job I currently have (I work with my father).\n\nBecause of this, I spoke with my dad and his response was basically \"work more\". I explained to him that I was working as much as possible whilst also keeping up with my schoolwork. I spoke to my mom, and that conversation ended in her calling me a bum and a \"parasite\" and that she refuses to have me live off of them, so I need to man up and figure it out.\n\nMy frustrations lie in that thankfully my parents can afford to help me out more, and while they are not obligated to do anything, nor should I expect them to, a little more help from them would help me sleep better at night. I tried to explain this to them and again, the conversation ended with them saying I need to grow up and work more.\n\nWhat should I do in this situation? I am tempted to look for another job that would perhaps pay more but I feel as though I would be betraying my dad. I work for him both for money and to help him out, but unfortunately he doesn't always pay me as much as he does his \"real\" employees. Should I ask my dad to pay me more fairly? Or are they right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a third year college student, who lives off campus and for the past 2 years the way it has worked is that my parents have payed the rent and I take care of the utilities and spending money. That changed this year when they required half of the rent from me (so I learned more \"responsibility\"), and I agreed.\n\nTurns out that the amount of money I have to make per month leaves me with little to none extra money, at least with the job I currently have (I work with my father).\n\nBecause of this, I spoke with my dad and his response was basically \"work more\". I explained to him that I was working as much as possible whilst also keeping up with my schoolwork. I spoke to my mom, and that conversation ended in her calling me a bum and a \"parasite\" and that she refuses to have me live off of them, so I need to man up and figure it out.\n\nMy frustrations lie in that thankfully my parents can afford to help me out more, and while they are not obligated to do anything, nor should I expect them to, a little more help from them would help me sleep better at night. I tried to explain this to them and again, the conversation ended with them saying I need to grow up and work more.\n\nWhat should I do in this situation? I am tempted to look for another job that would perhaps pay more but I feel as though I would be betraying my dad. I work for him both for money and to help him out, but unfortunately he doesn't always pay me as much as he does his \"real\" employees. Should I ask my dad to pay me more fairly? Or are they right?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had doubts during our time apart but have rationalised these as typical feelings for a long term relationship. This is my first future prospects relationship and I chalked this down to the ebbs and flows that come with that. Firstly is this normal?\n\nSecondly, she's found out recently that her sister is unable to have children and will be getting a test soon to see if the same is true for her. If it is she might have a chance if she tries sooner as her sister is a little older than her. We discussed the prospects of children before entering the distance and we agreed not for another 5 years. \n\nI don't know if I'm ready to have kids so soon, am I stringing her along by waiting till we are back together in a geographical sense to see if my doubts dissipate?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had doubts during our time apart but have rationalised these as typical feelings for a long term relationship. This is my first future prospects relationship and I chalked this down to the ebbs and flows that come with that. Firstly is this normal?\n\nSecondly, she's found out recently that her sister is unable to have children and will be getting a test soon to see if the same is true for her. If it is she might have a chance if she tries sooner as her sister is a little older than her. We discussed the prospects of children before entering the distance and we agreed not for another 5 years. \n\nI don't know if I'm ready to have kids so soon, am I stringing her along by waiting till we are back together in a geographical sense to see if my doubts dissipate?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had doubts during our time apart but have rationalised these as typical feelings for a long term relationship. This is my first future prospects relationship and I chalked this down to the ebbs and flows that come with that. Firstly is this normal?\n\nSecondly, she's found out recently that her sister is unable to have children and will be getting a test soon to see if the same is true for her. If it is she might have a chance if she tries sooner as her sister is a little older than her. We discussed the prospects of children before entering the distance and we agreed not for another 5 years. \n\nI don't know if I'm ready to have kids so soon, am I stringing her along by waiting till we are back together in a geographical sense to see if my doubts dissipate?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had doubts during our time apart but have rationalised these as typical feelings for a long term relationship. This is my first future prospects relationship and I chalked this down to the ebbs and flows that come with that. Firstly is this normal?\n\nSecondly, she's found out recently that her sister is unable to have children and will be getting a test soon to see if the same is true for her. If it is she might have a chance if she tries sooner as her sister is a little older than her. We discussed the prospects of children before entering the distance and we agreed not for another 5 years. \n\nI don't know if I'm ready to have kids so soon, am I stringing her along by waiting till we are back together in a geographical sense to see if my doubts dissipate?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had doubts during our time apart but have rationalised these as typical feelings for a long term relationship. This is my first future prospects relationship and I chalked this down to the ebbs and flows that come with that. Firstly is this normal?\n\nSecondly, she's found out recently that her sister is unable to have children and will be getting a test soon to see if the same is true for her. If it is she might have a chance if she tries sooner as her sister is a little older than her. We discussed the prospects of children before entering the distance and we agreed not for another 5 years. \n\nI don't know if I'm ready to have kids so soon, am I stringing her along by waiting till we are back together in a geographical sense to see if my doubts dissipate?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've had doubts during our time apart but have rationalised these as typical feelings for a long term relationship. This is my first future prospects relationship and I chalked this down to the ebbs and flows that come with that. Firstly is this normal?\n\nSecondly, she's found out recently that her sister is unable to have children and will be getting a test soon to see if the same is true for her. If it is she might have a chance if she tries sooner as her sister is a little older than her. We discussed the prospects of children before entering the distance and we agreed not for another 5 years. \n\nI don't know if I'm ready to have kids so soon, am I stringing her along by waiting till we are back together in a geographical sense to see if my doubts dissipate?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started dating this girl about 4 months ago, right before school ended and everything was great. Then school started and then her personality took a complete 180. I don't have any classes with her this semester, so I see her in the hallway between some classes and I walk her to one of them. She used to be super perky and happy and now she acts like she hates me when she sees me. I sit outside of some of her classes and talk to her about things before class, and I try and just play with her hands and be all flirty but she literally will hold her hands so I can't do it. It's embarrassing because she makes me look like an idiot, I feel like some loser around her. She jokes and laughs with her friends, and then I'll walk up and she'll ignore me and just keep talking to her friends. It's insane. No hello, no nothing. Her friends and I talk more then me and her do. I'll hold my hand out or put my arm up as a gesture for her to come walk by me or hold my hand, but she'll just deny it and keep walking. It's a joke with my friends how my girlfriend hates me. The only reason I haven't broken up with her yet, is the fact that she acts pretty normal and tells me how she likes me and blah blah blah over text and snapchat. \n\nShe'll occasionally act like she's actually my girlfriend, but that's only after I complain about how she's not holding my hand or doing any of that mushy dumb stuff. I just find it really stupid how I have to rat her out for her to start acting like she wants to be around me. I've brought it up plenty of times before, and her excuse is \"I'm just not like that. I'm not gonna change for anyone.\" I feel like if I bring it up again it will be just too much. I've talked about it so much and really can't figure out how a sane human can act this way. She's causing me so much stress and I've honestly lost feelings. It pisses me off because I know she's a great girl, and I know how she used to act and I'm just hanging onto that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started dating this girl about 4 months ago, right before school ended and everything was great. Then school started and then her personality took a complete 180. I don't have any classes with her this semester, so I see her in the hallway between some classes and I walk her to one of them. She used to be super perky and happy and now she acts like she hates me when she sees me. I sit outside of some of her classes and talk to her about things before class, and I try and just play with her hands and be all flirty but she literally will hold her hands so I can't do it. It's embarrassing because she makes me look like an idiot, I feel like some loser around her. She jokes and laughs with her friends, and then I'll walk up and she'll ignore me and just keep talking to her friends. It's insane. No hello, no nothing. Her friends and I talk more then me and her do. I'll hold my hand out or put my arm up as a gesture for her to come walk by me or hold my hand, but she'll just deny it and keep walking. It's a joke with my friends how my girlfriend hates me. The only reason I haven't broken up with her yet, is the fact that she acts pretty normal and tells me how she likes me and blah blah blah over text and snapchat. \n\nShe'll occasionally act like she's actually my girlfriend, but that's only after I complain about how she's not holding my hand or doing any of that mushy dumb stuff. I just find it really stupid how I have to rat her out for her to start acting like she wants to be around me. I've brought it up plenty of times before, and her excuse is \"I'm just not like that. I'm not gonna change for anyone.\" I feel like if I bring it up again it will be just too much. I've talked about it so much and really can't figure out how a sane human can act this way. She's causing me so much stress and I've honestly lost feelings. It pisses me off because I know she's a great girl, and I know how she used to act and I'm just hanging onto that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started dating this girl about 4 months ago, right before school ended and everything was great. Then school started and then her personality took a complete 180. I don't have any classes with her this semester, so I see her in the hallway between some classes and I walk her to one of them. She used to be super perky and happy and now she acts like she hates me when she sees me. I sit outside of some of her classes and talk to her about things before class, and I try and just play with her hands and be all flirty but she literally will hold her hands so I can't do it. It's embarrassing because she makes me look like an idiot, I feel like some loser around her. She jokes and laughs with her friends, and then I'll walk up and she'll ignore me and just keep talking to her friends. It's insane. No hello, no nothing. Her friends and I talk more then me and her do. I'll hold my hand out or put my arm up as a gesture for her to come walk by me or hold my hand, but she'll just deny it and keep walking. It's a joke with my friends how my girlfriend hates me. The only reason I haven't broken up with her yet, is the fact that she acts pretty normal and tells me how she likes me and blah blah blah over text and snapchat. \n\nShe'll occasionally act like she's actually my girlfriend, but that's only after I complain about how she's not holding my hand or doing any of that mushy dumb stuff. I just find it really stupid how I have to rat her out for her to start acting like she wants to be around me. I've brought it up plenty of times before, and her excuse is \"I'm just not like that. I'm not gonna change for anyone.\" I feel like if I bring it up again it will be just too much. I've talked about it so much and really can't figure out how a sane human can act this way. She's causing me so much stress and I've honestly lost feelings. It pisses me off because I know she's a great girl, and I know how she used to act and I'm just hanging onto that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started dating this girl about 4 months ago, right before school ended and everything was great. Then school started and then her personality took a complete 180. I don't have any classes with her this semester, so I see her in the hallway between some classes and I walk her to one of them. She used to be super perky and happy and now she acts like she hates me when she sees me. I sit outside of some of her classes and talk to her about things before class, and I try and just play with her hands and be all flirty but she literally will hold her hands so I can't do it. It's embarrassing because she makes me look like an idiot, I feel like some loser around her. She jokes and laughs with her friends, and then I'll walk up and she'll ignore me and just keep talking to her friends. It's insane. No hello, no nothing. Her friends and I talk more then me and her do. I'll hold my hand out or put my arm up as a gesture for her to come walk by me or hold my hand, but she'll just deny it and keep walking. It's a joke with my friends how my girlfriend hates me. The only reason I haven't broken up with her yet, is the fact that she acts pretty normal and tells me how she likes me and blah blah blah over text and snapchat. \n\nShe'll occasionally act like she's actually my girlfriend, but that's only after I complain about how she's not holding my hand or doing any of that mushy dumb stuff. I just find it really stupid how I have to rat her out for her to start acting like she wants to be around me. I've brought it up plenty of times before, and her excuse is \"I'm just not like that. I'm not gonna change for anyone.\" I feel like if I bring it up again it will be just too much. I've talked about it so much and really can't figure out how a sane human can act this way. She's causing me so much stress and I've honestly lost feelings. It pisses me off because I know she's a great girl, and I know how she used to act and I'm just hanging onto that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I started dating this girl about 4 months ago, right before school ended and everything was great. Then school started and then her personality took a complete 180. I don't have any classes with her this semester, so I see her in the hallway between some classes and I walk her to one of them. She used to be super perky and happy and now she acts like she hates me when she sees me. I sit outside of some of her classes and talk to her about things before class, and I try and just play with her hands and be all flirty but she literally will hold her hands so I can't do it. It's embarrassing because she makes me look like an idiot, I feel like some loser around her. She jokes and laughs with her friends, and then I'll walk up and she'll ignore me and just keep talking to her friends. It's insane. No hello, no nothing. Her friends and I talk more then me and her do. I'll hold my hand out or put my arm up as a gesture for her to come walk by me or hold my hand, but she'll just deny it and keep walking. It's a joke with my friends how my girlfriend hates me. The only reason I haven't broken up with her yet, is the fact that she acts pretty normal and tells me how she likes me and blah blah blah over text and snapchat. \n\nShe'll occasionally act like she's actually my girlfriend, but that's only after I complain about how she's not holding my hand or doing any of that mushy dumb stuff. I just find it really stupid how I have to rat her out for her to start acting like she wants to be around me. I've brought it up plenty of times before, and her excuse is \"I'm just not like that. I'm not gonna change for anyone.\" I feel like if I bring it up again it will be just too much. I've talked about it so much and really can't figure out how a sane human can act this way. She's causing me so much stress and I've honestly lost feelings. It pisses me off because I know she's a great girl, and I know how she used to act and I'm just hanging onto that."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's not a lot to say, but I was just coming to this sub to see if anyone had any insight on how I'm supposed to feel or act.\n\nMy parents have been happily married for 20 years, but earlier this week my mom kicked my Dad out of the house for practically no reason other than her needing space. I'm extremely close to my parents and have gotten to know their personalities very well, and this came to surprise to me.\n\nMy dad, after being out of the house for a few days, came back today and sat my brother and I down to tell him that we may have to be ready to accept divorce, and he doesn't really even know what's going on either. I've been sitting in my room crying ever since because this makes me extremely nervous and scared.\n\nMy mom has gotten home from work and has been acting normal, and when asking why I'm crying, I just can't say why because I'm so afraid of blowing up in anger and demanding answers.\n\nAnyone got any thing for me? Maybe a way to approach my parents to find out what's going on?\n\nThanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's not a lot to say, but I was just coming to this sub to see if anyone had any insight on how I'm supposed to feel or act.\n\nMy parents have been happily married for 20 years, but earlier this week my mom kicked my Dad out of the house for practically no reason other than her needing space. I'm extremely close to my parents and have gotten to know their personalities very well, and this came to surprise to me.\n\nMy dad, after being out of the house for a few days, came back today and sat my brother and I down to tell him that we may have to be ready to accept divorce, and he doesn't really even know what's going on either. I've been sitting in my room crying ever since because this makes me extremely nervous and scared.\n\nMy mom has gotten home from work and has been acting normal, and when asking why I'm crying, I just can't say why because I'm so afraid of blowing up in anger and demanding answers.\n\nAnyone got any thing for me? Maybe a way to approach my parents to find out what's going on?\n\nThanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's not a lot to say, but I was just coming to this sub to see if anyone had any insight on how I'm supposed to feel or act.\n\nMy parents have been happily married for 20 years, but earlier this week my mom kicked my Dad out of the house for practically no reason other than her needing space. I'm extremely close to my parents and have gotten to know their personalities very well, and this came to surprise to me.\n\nMy dad, after being out of the house for a few days, came back today and sat my brother and I down to tell him that we may have to be ready to accept divorce, and he doesn't really even know what's going on either. I've been sitting in my room crying ever since because this makes me extremely nervous and scared.\n\nMy mom has gotten home from work and has been acting normal, and when asking why I'm crying, I just can't say why because I'm so afraid of blowing up in anger and demanding answers.\n\nAnyone got any thing for me? Maybe a way to approach my parents to find out what's going on?\n\nThanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's not a lot to say, but I was just coming to this sub to see if anyone had any insight on how I'm supposed to feel or act.\n\nMy parents have been happily married for 20 years, but earlier this week my mom kicked my Dad out of the house for practically no reason other than her needing space. I'm extremely close to my parents and have gotten to know their personalities very well, and this came to surprise to me.\n\nMy dad, after being out of the house for a few days, came back today and sat my brother and I down to tell him that we may have to be ready to accept divorce, and he doesn't really even know what's going on either. I've been sitting in my room crying ever since because this makes me extremely nervous and scared.\n\nMy mom has gotten home from work and has been acting normal, and when asking why I'm crying, I just can't say why because I'm so afraid of blowing up in anger and demanding answers.\n\nAnyone got any thing for me? Maybe a way to approach my parents to find out what's going on?\n\nThanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's not a lot to say, but I was just coming to this sub to see if anyone had any insight on how I'm supposed to feel or act.\n\nMy parents have been happily married for 20 years, but earlier this week my mom kicked my Dad out of the house for practically no reason other than her needing space. I'm extremely close to my parents and have gotten to know their personalities very well, and this came to surprise to me.\n\nMy dad, after being out of the house for a few days, came back today and sat my brother and I down to tell him that we may have to be ready to accept divorce, and he doesn't really even know what's going on either. I've been sitting in my room crying ever since because this makes me extremely nervous and scared.\n\nMy mom has gotten home from work and has been acting normal, and when asking why I'm crying, I just can't say why because I'm so afraid of blowing up in anger and demanding answers.\n\nAnyone got any thing for me? Maybe a way to approach my parents to find out what's going on?\n\nThanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's not a lot to say, but I was just coming to this sub to see if anyone had any insight on how I'm supposed to feel or act.\n\nMy parents have been happily married for 20 years, but earlier this week my mom kicked my Dad out of the house for practically no reason other than her needing space. I'm extremely close to my parents and have gotten to know their personalities very well, and this came to surprise to me.\n\nMy dad, after being out of the house for a few days, came back today and sat my brother and I down to tell him that we may have to be ready to accept divorce, and he doesn't really even know what's going on either. I've been sitting in my room crying ever since because this makes me extremely nervous and scared.\n\nMy mom has gotten home from work and has been acting normal, and when asking why I'm crying, I just can't say why because I'm so afraid of blowing up in anger and demanding answers.\n\nAnyone got any thing for me? Maybe a way to approach my parents to find out what's going on?\n\nThanks in advance."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating since July or so, and for the duration of our relationship sex has NOT at all been a prominent thing in our relationship. It does bother me from time to time, but for some reason not as much as I figured it would. In the beginning (before we had sex the first time) every time we were together we would always stay up and act sexual to one another. We had sex the first time before I went on a trip for two weeks, and as soon as I got home he left for a trip for two weeks (unfortunate timing, we planned our trips before we met). So, after we were back together sexual activity fizzled out probably rather significantly. And, sometimes when we would try to have sex, he would have trouble even just getting hard. But, there were also times when that was not an issue at all, and it would be normal. At one point, I pointed out to him that I thought we should be having sex more, and we did that night, then just fizzled out again. I'm a full time student who commutes to school (30 minutes away), so I often need to go to bed early, and he insists on staying up. So, sometimes he'll stay up so late that I just can't do anything, because I need sleep in order to focus on my classes in the morning (I have 3 everyday, so it's a big load). So, sex has become somewhat of an ordeal for us, I guess. We are otherwise very happy with one another, and very close. But, I'm really not sure what to do here. Because, I feel like maybe neither of us are putting forth the effort we need to. But, last night, (for one of the first times) my boyfriend instigated sex, and he was hard, but for someone reason I just wasn't wet enough for him to be able to get inside. Then after that he lost his erection, and I still wasn't turned on (i guess). Now that that has happened, the issue has been bothering me even more. Are we just not sexually compatible? What is deal?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating since July or so, and for the duration of our relationship sex has NOT at all been a prominent thing in our relationship. It does bother me from time to time, but for some reason not as much as I figured it would. In the beginning (before we had sex the first time) every time we were together we would always stay up and act sexual to one another. We had sex the first time before I went on a trip for two weeks, and as soon as I got home he left for a trip for two weeks (unfortunate timing, we planned our trips before we met). So, after we were back together sexual activity fizzled out probably rather significantly. And, sometimes when we would try to have sex, he would have trouble even just getting hard. But, there were also times when that was not an issue at all, and it would be normal. At one point, I pointed out to him that I thought we should be having sex more, and we did that night, then just fizzled out again. I'm a full time student who commutes to school (30 minutes away), so I often need to go to bed early, and he insists on staying up. So, sometimes he'll stay up so late that I just can't do anything, because I need sleep in order to focus on my classes in the morning (I have 3 everyday, so it's a big load). So, sex has become somewhat of an ordeal for us, I guess. We are otherwise very happy with one another, and very close. But, I'm really not sure what to do here. Because, I feel like maybe neither of us are putting forth the effort we need to. But, last night, (for one of the first times) my boyfriend instigated sex, and he was hard, but for someone reason I just wasn't wet enough for him to be able to get inside. Then after that he lost his erection, and I still wasn't turned on (i guess). Now that that has happened, the issue has been bothering me even more. Are we just not sexually compatible? What is deal?"
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