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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year.\n\nThe night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it.\n\nBut its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall.\n\nI'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests.\n\nI really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year.\n\nThe night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it.\n\nBut its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall.\n\nI'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests.\n\nI really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year.\n\nThe night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it.\n\nBut its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall.\n\nI'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests.\n\nI really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year.\n\nThe night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it.\n\nBut its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall.\n\nI'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests.\n\nI really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year.\n\nThe night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it.\n\nBut its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall.\n\nI'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests.\n\nI really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year.\n\nThe night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it.\n\nBut its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall.\n\nI'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests.\n\nI really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year.\n\nThe night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it.\n\nBut its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall.\n\nI'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests.\n\nI really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year.\n\nThe night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it.\n\nBut its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall.\n\nI'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests.\n\nI really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year.\n\nThe night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it.\n\nBut its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall.\n\nI'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests.\n\nI really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year.\n\nThe night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it.\n\nBut its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall.\n\nI'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests.\n\nI really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year.\n\nThe night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it.\n\nBut its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall.\n\nI'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests.\n\nI really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year.\n\nThe night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it.\n\nBut its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall.\n\nI'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests.\n\nI really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year.\n\nThe night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it.\n\nBut its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall.\n\nI'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests.\n\nI really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met Ryan, 4 months ago on OKC. It certainly wasn't love at first sight but after 3 months I started falling for him and he eventually told me he loved me. However within two weeks he had to move to take a job in SE Asia for a year.\n\nThe night before he left I cried, and even though he claimed that I should just see other people now, he also said he'd be happy to move to wherever I was in a year. During this time in our relationship, he became increasingly affectionate, telling me he loved me everyday, wanting me to come over, etc. At first, I was into it.\n\nBut its been a month since he left and I really don't want to hold on anymore. He Gchats me several times a day (with nothing but hearts) tries to push me to Skype MORE than once a day, becomes increasingly sad when I refuse. He also sends me sappy emails and tells me how much he misses me and loves me and pushes me to come visit him either this summer or in the fall.\n\nI'm growing resentful because while I truly did care for him when he was here, he has grown increasingly clingy and obsessed with me to the point where he'll insist to watch me fall asleep on camera! I would like to pursue other romantic interests.\n\nI really want/need to break up with this boy but I don't want to crush him. He is sensitive and while he told me I was the 2nd girl he slept with, i strongly suspect I was the first. I would just like some tips on how to breakup as unfortunately I've been talked out of breakups in the past."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a \"date\" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about-a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway).\n\nI had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away.\n\nFor the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I-she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored.\n\nBasically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all.\n\nSo, what would Reddit do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a \"date\" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about-a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway).\n\nI had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away.\n\nFor the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I-she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored.\n\nBasically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all.\n\nSo, what would Reddit do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a \"date\" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about-a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway).\n\nI had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away.\n\nFor the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I-she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored.\n\nBasically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all.\n\nSo, what would Reddit do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a \"date\" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about-a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway).\n\nI had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away.\n\nFor the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I-she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored.\n\nBasically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all.\n\nSo, what would Reddit do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a \"date\" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about-a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway).\n\nI had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away.\n\nFor the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I-she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored.\n\nBasically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all.\n\nSo, what would Reddit do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met a really awesome girl this past weekend and I'd like nothing more than to end up dating her long-term. I'm 22 and she is 20. We met through mutual friends and I asked her to accompany me as a as a \"date\" to a wedding, expecting to be nothing more than friends and didn't take it too seriously. To make a long story short, we had an amazing time together. I ended up sleeping over at her place that night. We fooled around a little but didn't have sex (which I am happy about-a girl that fucks on the first date isn't usually good relationship material and has low self-esteem, in my experience anyway).\n\nI had to leave the following day (this past Sunday) and return home. I live about 2 hours away.\n\nFor the most part, I'm a pretty typical guy, but with a weird streak (like everyone here on Reddit). I'd consider myself a bit quirky, but nothing too strange. This girl is a bit more quirky than I-she is the artsy type, and somewhat of a hippie. This is probably the reason I don't quite know what to do. Most girls I've dated have been more average in their personalities than me, which eventually left me bored.\n\nBasically what I'm wondering here is how to play my next move. Should I text her and tell her again what an awesome time I had and that I'd like to see her again? Or should I not contact her until I'm in her town in a week and a half to see our mutual friends? I don't want to scare her away by telling her how much I like her and creep her out, but I also don't want to play it off and make her think I don't like her at all.\n\nSo, what would Reddit do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything.so.anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex.\n\nSome clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything.so.anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex.\n\nSome clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything.so.anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex.\n\nSome clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything.so.anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex.\n\nSome clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything.so.anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex.\n\nSome clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, so, I have been with a few female friends recently, but I have found that any time we get to the point of making out or so, I get nervous. I think about what I am doing with my body, rather than just letting it happen. I'm sure I can't be the only person who has a problem over-thinking everything.so.anyone got any ideas to help me relax more/not think as much/just let things happen when with the opposite sex.\n\nSome clarification, I am not nervous talking to females. However, I do feel like I am inexperienced, which is where I believe this is stemming from. But it is hard to get experience when I am over-thinking everything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was \"the one\" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was \"the one\" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was \"the one\" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was \"the one\" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was \"the one\" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I think I'm going insane. I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and were moving in together in a few short months. We are currently (and always have been) in a long distance relationship that is far enough apart to require planes. I knew from the very beginning he was \"the one\" yadda yadda yadda. After we were dating about three months we got into some serious fights mostly because he was stubborn and upset with his own life. This in turn ended up making me really fucked up and emotionally compromised. Although in a way I'm glad he had the balls to call me out on some things I probably did wrong, in the end I've been more upset about it than pleased. I feel like he changed me in a way I guess. I am definitely a better person now , but I am not sure that is exactly who I want to be. Anyway. I love him very very very much and I like a very exclusive set of boys which are quite hard to come by with all my requirements. I am afraid that this, Including his good looks, and impending plans of moving in together, is what is keeping me bound to him. Am I waiting for a disaster to happen by letting him move in with me now? Or am I just getting normal cold feet for me being an attention-seeking flirty commitophobe ?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. \n\nHe's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). \n\nI know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. \n\nHe's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). \n\nI know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. \n\nHe's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). \n\nI know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. \n\nHe's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). \n\nI know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. \n\nHe's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). \n\nI know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This might seem like a small problem but it's affecting me a lot. Our relationship is great, no major issues. But I get a feeling of dread whenever he talks to female friends or says good things about them, even if it's the same kinds of things that he says about his male friends. I'm not worried he'll cheat on me, but I'm worried he'll develop feelings for one of them. \n\nHe's super affectionate with me and we're very passionate together, but I think he's kind of clingy and the type of guy to fall for girls quickly, although it hasn't happened with anyone else since we got together. But because of this I get nervous when he makes friends with someone new even though he's completely open about it. Today he reconnected with an old friend through Skype chat, and I was so worried that I signed into his account and read the conversation (I know this was horrible of me and I should never do it again). \n\nI know I'm in the wrong here. Rationally, I want him to have his own life and I actually think it's good for a guy to have female friends. Up until now I've been holding it in because I realise how irrational my feelings are. I haven't told him because I don't want him to feel weird about hanging out with friends. So how can I stop being so jealous for no reason? Should I tell him that I have this problem, or just deal with it myself?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this ."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this ."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this ."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this ."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this ."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have major trust issues. My boyfriend in the past has cheated on me so im paranoid. I have developed a bad habit of looking at his fb/private messages. We have had the discussion about not looking into it BC it was his past. I have looked 5 times. Today I looked all the way back a few days before dating BC I was curios I found out he had a fling 3 days for we started dating . I stabbed him in the back do to me bringing it up. I am a terrible person how can I fix this ."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: All, \nI am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. \n\nHere are the details:\nI put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from \"New Venture Fund\" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. \n\n- What should I look out for?\n- Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: All, \nI am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. \n\nHere are the details:\nI put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from \"New Venture Fund\" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. \n\n- What should I look out for?\n- Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: All, \nI am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. \n\nHere are the details:\nI put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from \"New Venture Fund\" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. \n\n- What should I look out for?\n- Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: All, \nI am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. \n\nHere are the details:\nI put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from \"New Venture Fund\" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. \n\n- What should I look out for?\n- Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: All, \nI am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. \n\nHere are the details:\nI put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from \"New Venture Fund\" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. \n\n- What should I look out for?\n- Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: All, \nI am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. \n\nHere are the details:\nI put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from \"New Venture Fund\" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. \n\n- What should I look out for?\n- Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: All, \nI am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. \n\nHere are the details:\nI put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from \"New Venture Fund\" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. \n\n- What should I look out for?\n- Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: All, \nI am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. \n\nHere are the details:\nI put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from \"New Venture Fund\" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. \n\n- What should I look out for?\n- Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: All, \nI am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. \n\nHere are the details:\nI put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from \"New Venture Fund\" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. \n\n- What should I look out for?\n- Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: All, \nI am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. \n\nHere are the details:\nI put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from \"New Venture Fund\" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. \n\n- What should I look out for?\n- Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: All, \nI am uneasy about a financial situation I have gotten myself in. I am worried that I could be being scammed but I don't see how yet. Can someone please help me and tell me if I am missing anything? I realize at this point is may/may not be too late, I probably should have asked earlier. \n\nHere are the details:\nI put an add on craigslist for tutoring, I am not a certified professional and did not claim to be, so I offered some cheap math/science tutoring at a low price since I am an engineering grad student. I get a reply, a lady that lives in D.C. and works for the U.N. wants me to tutor her son while he is vising internationally. OK, fine. So she proposes this arrangement where she sends me some additional money on top of the proposed fee and I am to send this money to her son's caretaker via moneygram when I receive it. All she asked for is my address. I reluctantly provide it. Well today I received a check from \"New Venture Fund\" for about $3000. I am charging her $200 for 20 hours of tutoring over the next 1 month, none of which I have actually provided yet. I have not received the instructions for forwarding the remainder. \n\n- What should I look out for?\n- Did I already get mixed in something sketchy?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying. He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. \n\nBUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up.\n\n He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart. I just don't know what to do with the other guys. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying. He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. \n\nBUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up.\n\n He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart. I just don't know what to do with the other guys. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying. He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. \n\nBUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up.\n\n He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart. I just don't know what to do with the other guys. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying. He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. \n\nBUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up.\n\n He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart. I just don't know what to do with the other guys. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me 18 yr female my boyfriend 19 year old male. So we haven't been together for long, only about 6 months. Now my boyfriend is probably the most amazing sweet guy on the planet, though this can get annoying. He says I love you 5 times a day and constantly calls me beautiful. Sometimes this drives me nuts, I rather he show me that he loves me opposed to just tell me. I love how deep my boyfriend can get but he never does anything, always I have to talk to him first or ask to hang out because he has social anxiety and lots of issues. I'm always there for him but I like a guy who can take control who likes to touch me and hold me tight and my boyfriend isn't that kind of guy, which is alright I guess. \n\nBUT lately this guy I know started talking to me at first it was innocent but then it got more flirty and I was sure he was starting to hit on me. He then said what he wants to do with me how he wants to make-out and feel me up which made me uncomfortable but I went along with it. The problem is I cannot say no to guys. So essentially I was sexting this guy and he wants to meet up to hook up.\n\n He's so much more manly and he always makes the first move which is what I love in comparison to my boyfriend. But I love my boyfriend more than anything I love him so much it hurts thinking about us being apart. I just don't know what to do with the other guys. Have I already cheated on my boyfriend? How do you say no to guys?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is my first post here so I'll try to follow the rules as best I can. I am a 23 y/o male and she is 25. We dated for a year and then broke up. Because of the break up, I don't think her family is too fond of me, so that adds a little more to the toughness. It's been about a year since then, but recently we started talking. She basically is saying that she doesn't want to be friends unless we get back together because it's too hard for her. I am just really back and forth here because she is my only relationship I'be ever had so I don't really have much to compare it to. I do really like spending time with her and the idea of not seeing her anymore kind of tears me up, but I kind of feel like it's all or nothing. I'm kind of a commitmentphobe anyway so I know that plays a role. I know I'm fairly young, but in the year apart I didn't find anyone that I was very interested in and I think we're both getting close to the age when you look to start settling down. And that part freaks me out a bit because, like I said, I haven't been with anyone else so I don't know how strong a relationship it is/was. Basically I'm just wondering if this is a normal amount of doubt in a relationship or if it seems like I should just let it go? Also, am I over-thinking it? Because I tend to do a lot of that too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Apologies in advance for formatting and spelling errors, on mobile.\n\nSo this girl [16] and I have been talking literally every single day for almost 8 weeks. We met on tinder. And maybe you just face palmed at that, but we clicked you know? I added her on facebook and snapchat and deleted my tinder. She lives about 100km away and neither of us drive. \n\nWe spoke for so so long every day. She needed someone I think. Her dad left before she was born and she gets really anxious about stuff. I cared about her. So I've been busy for the last couple of days and our conversations haven't been very intriguing because of it. She gave me the impression last night that we should take a break, but today she said she can't anymore. She can't think of not being with me without crying. She said she might even have loved me. I might have loved her too. \n\nSo she said goodbye and blocked me on both snapchat and facebook. I'm lost, guys. I cried. I've never lost someone close to me. Ive never even need to a funeral for close family members or anything. I feel lost. She's just gone.\n\nSo what the fuck do I even do? Do I try and go after her? I feel like that would just hurt her further. I know we're young and probably stupid but this was real. Is there anything I can do other than delete all my screenshots of her and her messages? Is this even a worthy post? I'm lost, guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Apologies in advance for formatting and spelling errors, on mobile.\n\nSo this girl [16] and I have been talking literally every single day for almost 8 weeks. We met on tinder. And maybe you just face palmed at that, but we clicked you know? I added her on facebook and snapchat and deleted my tinder. She lives about 100km away and neither of us drive. \n\nWe spoke for so so long every day. She needed someone I think. Her dad left before she was born and she gets really anxious about stuff. I cared about her. So I've been busy for the last couple of days and our conversations haven't been very intriguing because of it. She gave me the impression last night that we should take a break, but today she said she can't anymore. She can't think of not being with me without crying. She said she might even have loved me. I might have loved her too. \n\nSo she said goodbye and blocked me on both snapchat and facebook. I'm lost, guys. I cried. I've never lost someone close to me. Ive never even need to a funeral for close family members or anything. I feel lost. She's just gone.\n\nSo what the fuck do I even do? Do I try and go after her? I feel like that would just hurt her further. I know we're young and probably stupid but this was real. Is there anything I can do other than delete all my screenshots of her and her messages? Is this even a worthy post? I'm lost, guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Apologies in advance for formatting and spelling errors, on mobile.\n\nSo this girl [16] and I have been talking literally every single day for almost 8 weeks. We met on tinder. And maybe you just face palmed at that, but we clicked you know? I added her on facebook and snapchat and deleted my tinder. She lives about 100km away and neither of us drive. \n\nWe spoke for so so long every day. She needed someone I think. Her dad left before she was born and she gets really anxious about stuff. I cared about her. So I've been busy for the last couple of days and our conversations haven't been very intriguing because of it. She gave me the impression last night that we should take a break, but today she said she can't anymore. She can't think of not being with me without crying. She said she might even have loved me. I might have loved her too. \n\nSo she said goodbye and blocked me on both snapchat and facebook. I'm lost, guys. I cried. I've never lost someone close to me. Ive never even need to a funeral for close family members or anything. I feel lost. She's just gone.\n\nSo what the fuck do I even do? Do I try and go after her? I feel like that would just hurt her further. I know we're young and probably stupid but this was real. Is there anything I can do other than delete all my screenshots of her and her messages? Is this even a worthy post? I'm lost, guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Apologies in advance for formatting and spelling errors, on mobile.\n\nSo this girl [16] and I have been talking literally every single day for almost 8 weeks. We met on tinder. And maybe you just face palmed at that, but we clicked you know? I added her on facebook and snapchat and deleted my tinder. She lives about 100km away and neither of us drive. \n\nWe spoke for so so long every day. She needed someone I think. Her dad left before she was born and she gets really anxious about stuff. I cared about her. So I've been busy for the last couple of days and our conversations haven't been very intriguing because of it. She gave me the impression last night that we should take a break, but today she said she can't anymore. She can't think of not being with me without crying. She said she might even have loved me. I might have loved her too. \n\nSo she said goodbye and blocked me on both snapchat and facebook. I'm lost, guys. I cried. I've never lost someone close to me. Ive never even need to a funeral for close family members or anything. I feel lost. She's just gone.\n\nSo what the fuck do I even do? Do I try and go after her? I feel like that would just hurt her further. I know we're young and probably stupid but this was real. Is there anything I can do other than delete all my screenshots of her and her messages? Is this even a worthy post? I'm lost, guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Apologies in advance for formatting and spelling errors, on mobile.\n\nSo this girl [16] and I have been talking literally every single day for almost 8 weeks. We met on tinder. And maybe you just face palmed at that, but we clicked you know? I added her on facebook and snapchat and deleted my tinder. She lives about 100km away and neither of us drive. \n\nWe spoke for so so long every day. She needed someone I think. Her dad left before she was born and she gets really anxious about stuff. I cared about her. So I've been busy for the last couple of days and our conversations haven't been very intriguing because of it. She gave me the impression last night that we should take a break, but today she said she can't anymore. She can't think of not being with me without crying. She said she might even have loved me. I might have loved her too. \n\nSo she said goodbye and blocked me on both snapchat and facebook. I'm lost, guys. I cried. I've never lost someone close to me. Ive never even need to a funeral for close family members or anything. I feel lost. She's just gone.\n\nSo what the fuck do I even do? Do I try and go after her? I feel like that would just hurt her further. I know we're young and probably stupid but this was real. Is there anything I can do other than delete all my screenshots of her and her messages? Is this even a worthy post? I'm lost, guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Apologies in advance for formatting and spelling errors, on mobile.\n\nSo this girl [16] and I have been talking literally every single day for almost 8 weeks. We met on tinder. And maybe you just face palmed at that, but we clicked you know? I added her on facebook and snapchat and deleted my tinder. She lives about 100km away and neither of us drive. \n\nWe spoke for so so long every day. She needed someone I think. Her dad left before she was born and she gets really anxious about stuff. I cared about her. So I've been busy for the last couple of days and our conversations haven't been very intriguing because of it. She gave me the impression last night that we should take a break, but today she said she can't anymore. She can't think of not being with me without crying. She said she might even have loved me. I might have loved her too. \n\nSo she said goodbye and blocked me on both snapchat and facebook. I'm lost, guys. I cried. I've never lost someone close to me. Ive never even need to a funeral for close family members or anything. I feel lost. She's just gone.\n\nSo what the fuck do I even do? Do I try and go after her? I feel like that would just hurt her further. I know we're young and probably stupid but this was real. Is there anything I can do other than delete all my screenshots of her and her messages? Is this even a worthy post? I'm lost, guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I let hormones get the better of me and randomly asked out a tutor in school (for a different subject) because they helped me and I thought they liked me. This created an awkward environment as expected when they said no. I mean I don't know, they handled it pretty well by becoming really loud and overconfident but it was uncomfortable for me. I know I should have waited. \n\nIs it a good idea to anonymously post on my school fb page apologizing? I felt bad for putting him in that position, but then again he seemed to handle it well. he is a nice guy and i want him to know that I understand and that there was no hard feelings"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I let hormones get the better of me and randomly asked out a tutor in school (for a different subject) because they helped me and I thought they liked me. This created an awkward environment as expected when they said no. I mean I don't know, they handled it pretty well by becoming really loud and overconfident but it was uncomfortable for me. I know I should have waited. \n\nIs it a good idea to anonymously post on my school fb page apologizing? I felt bad for putting him in that position, but then again he seemed to handle it well. he is a nice guy and i want him to know that I understand and that there was no hard feelings"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I let hormones get the better of me and randomly asked out a tutor in school (for a different subject) because they helped me and I thought they liked me. This created an awkward environment as expected when they said no. I mean I don't know, they handled it pretty well by becoming really loud and overconfident but it was uncomfortable for me. I know I should have waited. \n\nIs it a good idea to anonymously post on my school fb page apologizing? I felt bad for putting him in that position, but then again he seemed to handle it well. he is a nice guy and i want him to know that I understand and that there was no hard feelings"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I let hormones get the better of me and randomly asked out a tutor in school (for a different subject) because they helped me and I thought they liked me. This created an awkward environment as expected when they said no. I mean I don't know, they handled it pretty well by becoming really loud and overconfident but it was uncomfortable for me. I know I should have waited. \n\nIs it a good idea to anonymously post on my school fb page apologizing? I felt bad for putting him in that position, but then again he seemed to handle it well. he is a nice guy and i want him to know that I understand and that there was no hard feelings"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I let hormones get the better of me and randomly asked out a tutor in school (for a different subject) because they helped me and I thought they liked me. This created an awkward environment as expected when they said no. I mean I don't know, they handled it pretty well by becoming really loud and overconfident but it was uncomfortable for me. I know I should have waited. \n\nIs it a good idea to anonymously post on my school fb page apologizing? I felt bad for putting him in that position, but then again he seemed to handle it well. he is a nice guy and i want him to know that I understand and that there was no hard feelings"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I let hormones get the better of me and randomly asked out a tutor in school (for a different subject) because they helped me and I thought they liked me. This created an awkward environment as expected when they said no. I mean I don't know, they handled it pretty well by becoming really loud and overconfident but it was uncomfortable for me. I know I should have waited. \n\nIs it a good idea to anonymously post on my school fb page apologizing? I felt bad for putting him in that position, but then again he seemed to handle it well. he is a nice guy and i want him to know that I understand and that there was no hard feelings"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A good friend of mine from college is going through a tough time. Financial stress, dealing with a new job, etc. We live in different cities so I don't see her too often, but we've been texting or Facebook messaging at least weekly for a long time.\n\nThe problem is that when she's in a relationship that's going well, she tends to put all her energy into that. To me, someone is your friend all the time or not at all. For the past few months she's been taking longer and longer to write back to me on Facebook - and I can SEE that she's still active on the app on her phone and posting things on her wall, just not responding to me. I wished her a happy birthday and it took her three days to acknowledge it, and even then all she wrote was thanks. \n\nI feel really hurt whenever I think about it, but I've decided I just want to put it past me and not message her anymore. The thing is, she still messages me every few weeks or so - and every time she does, it brings back all the hurt and insecurity for me. I'll still talk to her when she reaches out (usually with a problem she's having), but after we exchange a few messages, I'll get radio silence, leaving me feeling freshly rejected AND worried about whatever problem she's having.\n\nI'm trying to decide whether it's worth it to just message her saying how I feel. I know she'd think it's petty of me and that she'd be mad - we've fought about this before during her last relationship when she kept abruptly canceling plans to hang out so she could spend time with her boyfriend, and she got crazy mad at me when I confronted her about it.\n\nHonestly, I feel like I'm ok with drifting apart from her, but I can't put it behind me when she keeps messaging me out of the blue. I want her to message me consistently or not at all, or else I want to learn how to be less upset when she does message and (inevitably) ignore me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A good friend of mine from college is going through a tough time. Financial stress, dealing with a new job, etc. We live in different cities so I don't see her too often, but we've been texting or Facebook messaging at least weekly for a long time.\n\nThe problem is that when she's in a relationship that's going well, she tends to put all her energy into that. To me, someone is your friend all the time or not at all. For the past few months she's been taking longer and longer to write back to me on Facebook - and I can SEE that she's still active on the app on her phone and posting things on her wall, just not responding to me. I wished her a happy birthday and it took her three days to acknowledge it, and even then all she wrote was thanks. \n\nI feel really hurt whenever I think about it, but I've decided I just want to put it past me and not message her anymore. The thing is, she still messages me every few weeks or so - and every time she does, it brings back all the hurt and insecurity for me. I'll still talk to her when she reaches out (usually with a problem she's having), but after we exchange a few messages, I'll get radio silence, leaving me feeling freshly rejected AND worried about whatever problem she's having.\n\nI'm trying to decide whether it's worth it to just message her saying how I feel. I know she'd think it's petty of me and that she'd be mad - we've fought about this before during her last relationship when she kept abruptly canceling plans to hang out so she could spend time with her boyfriend, and she got crazy mad at me when I confronted her about it.\n\nHonestly, I feel like I'm ok with drifting apart from her, but I can't put it behind me when she keeps messaging me out of the blue. I want her to message me consistently or not at all, or else I want to learn how to be less upset when she does message and (inevitably) ignore me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A good friend of mine from college is going through a tough time. Financial stress, dealing with a new job, etc. We live in different cities so I don't see her too often, but we've been texting or Facebook messaging at least weekly for a long time.\n\nThe problem is that when she's in a relationship that's going well, she tends to put all her energy into that. To me, someone is your friend all the time or not at all. For the past few months she's been taking longer and longer to write back to me on Facebook - and I can SEE that she's still active on the app on her phone and posting things on her wall, just not responding to me. I wished her a happy birthday and it took her three days to acknowledge it, and even then all she wrote was thanks. \n\nI feel really hurt whenever I think about it, but I've decided I just want to put it past me and not message her anymore. The thing is, she still messages me every few weeks or so - and every time she does, it brings back all the hurt and insecurity for me. I'll still talk to her when she reaches out (usually with a problem she's having), but after we exchange a few messages, I'll get radio silence, leaving me feeling freshly rejected AND worried about whatever problem she's having.\n\nI'm trying to decide whether it's worth it to just message her saying how I feel. I know she'd think it's petty of me and that she'd be mad - we've fought about this before during her last relationship when she kept abruptly canceling plans to hang out so she could spend time with her boyfriend, and she got crazy mad at me when I confronted her about it.\n\nHonestly, I feel like I'm ok with drifting apart from her, but I can't put it behind me when she keeps messaging me out of the blue. I want her to message me consistently or not at all, or else I want to learn how to be less upset when she does message and (inevitably) ignore me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A good friend of mine from college is going through a tough time. Financial stress, dealing with a new job, etc. We live in different cities so I don't see her too often, but we've been texting or Facebook messaging at least weekly for a long time.\n\nThe problem is that when she's in a relationship that's going well, she tends to put all her energy into that. To me, someone is your friend all the time or not at all. For the past few months she's been taking longer and longer to write back to me on Facebook - and I can SEE that she's still active on the app on her phone and posting things on her wall, just not responding to me. I wished her a happy birthday and it took her three days to acknowledge it, and even then all she wrote was thanks. \n\nI feel really hurt whenever I think about it, but I've decided I just want to put it past me and not message her anymore. The thing is, she still messages me every few weeks or so - and every time she does, it brings back all the hurt and insecurity for me. I'll still talk to her when she reaches out (usually with a problem she's having), but after we exchange a few messages, I'll get radio silence, leaving me feeling freshly rejected AND worried about whatever problem she's having.\n\nI'm trying to decide whether it's worth it to just message her saying how I feel. I know she'd think it's petty of me and that she'd be mad - we've fought about this before during her last relationship when she kept abruptly canceling plans to hang out so she could spend time with her boyfriend, and she got crazy mad at me when I confronted her about it.\n\nHonestly, I feel like I'm ok with drifting apart from her, but I can't put it behind me when she keeps messaging me out of the blue. I want her to message me consistently or not at all, or else I want to learn how to be less upset when she does message and (inevitably) ignore me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A good friend of mine from college is going through a tough time. Financial stress, dealing with a new job, etc. We live in different cities so I don't see her too often, but we've been texting or Facebook messaging at least weekly for a long time.\n\nThe problem is that when she's in a relationship that's going well, she tends to put all her energy into that. To me, someone is your friend all the time or not at all. For the past few months she's been taking longer and longer to write back to me on Facebook - and I can SEE that she's still active on the app on her phone and posting things on her wall, just not responding to me. I wished her a happy birthday and it took her three days to acknowledge it, and even then all she wrote was thanks. \n\nI feel really hurt whenever I think about it, but I've decided I just want to put it past me and not message her anymore. The thing is, she still messages me every few weeks or so - and every time she does, it brings back all the hurt and insecurity for me. I'll still talk to her when she reaches out (usually with a problem she's having), but after we exchange a few messages, I'll get radio silence, leaving me feeling freshly rejected AND worried about whatever problem she's having.\n\nI'm trying to decide whether it's worth it to just message her saying how I feel. I know she'd think it's petty of me and that she'd be mad - we've fought about this before during her last relationship when she kept abruptly canceling plans to hang out so she could spend time with her boyfriend, and she got crazy mad at me when I confronted her about it.\n\nHonestly, I feel like I'm ok with drifting apart from her, but I can't put it behind me when she keeps messaging me out of the blue. I want her to message me consistently or not at all, or else I want to learn how to be less upset when she does message and (inevitably) ignore me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A good friend of mine from college is going through a tough time. Financial stress, dealing with a new job, etc. We live in different cities so I don't see her too often, but we've been texting or Facebook messaging at least weekly for a long time.\n\nThe problem is that when she's in a relationship that's going well, she tends to put all her energy into that. To me, someone is your friend all the time or not at all. For the past few months she's been taking longer and longer to write back to me on Facebook - and I can SEE that she's still active on the app on her phone and posting things on her wall, just not responding to me. I wished her a happy birthday and it took her three days to acknowledge it, and even then all she wrote was thanks. \n\nI feel really hurt whenever I think about it, but I've decided I just want to put it past me and not message her anymore. The thing is, she still messages me every few weeks or so - and every time she does, it brings back all the hurt and insecurity for me. I'll still talk to her when she reaches out (usually with a problem she's having), but after we exchange a few messages, I'll get radio silence, leaving me feeling freshly rejected AND worried about whatever problem she's having.\n\nI'm trying to decide whether it's worth it to just message her saying how I feel. I know she'd think it's petty of me and that she'd be mad - we've fought about this before during her last relationship when she kept abruptly canceling plans to hang out so she could spend time with her boyfriend, and she got crazy mad at me when I confronted her about it.\n\nHonestly, I feel like I'm ok with drifting apart from her, but I can't put it behind me when she keeps messaging me out of the blue. I want her to message me consistently or not at all, or else I want to learn how to be less upset when she does message and (inevitably) ignore me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So two years ago I met this wonderful girl over the internet, and we have been friends ever since. I immediately liked her and she confessed to me that she liked me to, but the only catch is that I live in Scotland, and she lives in Connecticut. We talked for months and became really close, then she went and found a boyfriend and acted like nothing happened between us. \n\nSo lately we've got really close again, much closer, and more serious than before. We know each other so much better this time and the love is more real. The only problem is that she is still with her boyfriend, who she is contemplating leaving. I've never pressured her to make a decision, out of respect for her but lately I feel that I need to get an answer, even if it's not what I want to hear. Should I confront her and ask for an answer, so I can move on with my life or not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So two years ago I met this wonderful girl over the internet, and we have been friends ever since. I immediately liked her and she confessed to me that she liked me to, but the only catch is that I live in Scotland, and she lives in Connecticut. We talked for months and became really close, then she went and found a boyfriend and acted like nothing happened between us. \n\nSo lately we've got really close again, much closer, and more serious than before. We know each other so much better this time and the love is more real. The only problem is that she is still with her boyfriend, who she is contemplating leaving. I've never pressured her to make a decision, out of respect for her but lately I feel that I need to get an answer, even if it's not what I want to hear. Should I confront her and ask for an answer, so I can move on with my life or not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So two years ago I met this wonderful girl over the internet, and we have been friends ever since. I immediately liked her and she confessed to me that she liked me to, but the only catch is that I live in Scotland, and she lives in Connecticut. We talked for months and became really close, then she went and found a boyfriend and acted like nothing happened between us. \n\nSo lately we've got really close again, much closer, and more serious than before. We know each other so much better this time and the love is more real. The only problem is that she is still with her boyfriend, who she is contemplating leaving. I've never pressured her to make a decision, out of respect for her but lately I feel that I need to get an answer, even if it's not what I want to hear. Should I confront her and ask for an answer, so I can move on with my life or not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So two years ago I met this wonderful girl over the internet, and we have been friends ever since. I immediately liked her and she confessed to me that she liked me to, but the only catch is that I live in Scotland, and she lives in Connecticut. We talked for months and became really close, then she went and found a boyfriend and acted like nothing happened between us. \n\nSo lately we've got really close again, much closer, and more serious than before. We know each other so much better this time and the love is more real. The only problem is that she is still with her boyfriend, who she is contemplating leaving. I've never pressured her to make a decision, out of respect for her but lately I feel that I need to get an answer, even if it's not what I want to hear. Should I confront her and ask for an answer, so I can move on with my life or not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So two years ago I met this wonderful girl over the internet, and we have been friends ever since. I immediately liked her and she confessed to me that she liked me to, but the only catch is that I live in Scotland, and she lives in Connecticut. We talked for months and became really close, then she went and found a boyfriend and acted like nothing happened between us. \n\nSo lately we've got really close again, much closer, and more serious than before. We know each other so much better this time and the love is more real. The only problem is that she is still with her boyfriend, who she is contemplating leaving. I've never pressured her to make a decision, out of respect for her but lately I feel that I need to get an answer, even if it's not what I want to hear. Should I confront her and ask for an answer, so I can move on with my life or not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So two years ago I met this wonderful girl over the internet, and we have been friends ever since. I immediately liked her and she confessed to me that she liked me to, but the only catch is that I live in Scotland, and she lives in Connecticut. We talked for months and became really close, then she went and found a boyfriend and acted like nothing happened between us. \n\nSo lately we've got really close again, much closer, and more serious than before. We know each other so much better this time and the love is more real. The only problem is that she is still with her boyfriend, who she is contemplating leaving. I've never pressured her to make a decision, out of respect for her but lately I feel that I need to get an answer, even if it's not what I want to hear. Should I confront her and ask for an answer, so I can move on with my life or not?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend is receiving injections to \"help him lose weight easily.\" He's mentioned being self-conscious about his body and I think weight loss would be fantastic for his confidence and his health. And although I'm definitely attracted to him as is, I think he'd look a lot better without so much excess weight. I've avoided the topic though, since he seemed interested in losing weight without me saying anything (so why hurt his feelings unnecessarily right?)\n\nMy issue is that he is horribly sabotaging his own weight loss. He will take the elevator for 1 floor. He will eat past when he admits to being full, apparently just for the sake of finishing (this happens often). He eats fast food on a daily basis. It's painful to watch, really.\n\nI'm opposed to the injections, honestly. They seem like a really lazy way to handle a health issue. I think I'd be able to put up with the injections if he made an effort as well, but its infuriating to watch him treat the injections like magic fat removers.\n\nI brought it up once and he kind of shrugged it off. His attitude was basically \"yeah, you're probably right.\" but then went back to the same thing. I don't want to nag him too much. I've already been on his ass about needing to get a job, so I'm afraid additional nagging will be bad for the relationship. He already has a mother and sister who nag him a lot and I don't want to be another critical opinion in his life. We've only been together for about 6 months, so maybe it's just not my place.\n\nShould I just shut up? Should I bring it up again? What should I say differently, if I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend is receiving injections to \"help him lose weight easily.\" He's mentioned being self-conscious about his body and I think weight loss would be fantastic for his confidence and his health. And although I'm definitely attracted to him as is, I think he'd look a lot better without so much excess weight. I've avoided the topic though, since he seemed interested in losing weight without me saying anything (so why hurt his feelings unnecessarily right?)\n\nMy issue is that he is horribly sabotaging his own weight loss. He will take the elevator for 1 floor. He will eat past when he admits to being full, apparently just for the sake of finishing (this happens often). He eats fast food on a daily basis. It's painful to watch, really.\n\nI'm opposed to the injections, honestly. They seem like a really lazy way to handle a health issue. I think I'd be able to put up with the injections if he made an effort as well, but its infuriating to watch him treat the injections like magic fat removers.\n\nI brought it up once and he kind of shrugged it off. His attitude was basically \"yeah, you're probably right.\" but then went back to the same thing. I don't want to nag him too much. I've already been on his ass about needing to get a job, so I'm afraid additional nagging will be bad for the relationship. He already has a mother and sister who nag him a lot and I don't want to be another critical opinion in his life. We've only been together for about 6 months, so maybe it's just not my place.\n\nShould I just shut up? Should I bring it up again? What should I say differently, if I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend is receiving injections to \"help him lose weight easily.\" He's mentioned being self-conscious about his body and I think weight loss would be fantastic for his confidence and his health. And although I'm definitely attracted to him as is, I think he'd look a lot better without so much excess weight. I've avoided the topic though, since he seemed interested in losing weight without me saying anything (so why hurt his feelings unnecessarily right?)\n\nMy issue is that he is horribly sabotaging his own weight loss. He will take the elevator for 1 floor. He will eat past when he admits to being full, apparently just for the sake of finishing (this happens often). He eats fast food on a daily basis. It's painful to watch, really.\n\nI'm opposed to the injections, honestly. They seem like a really lazy way to handle a health issue. I think I'd be able to put up with the injections if he made an effort as well, but its infuriating to watch him treat the injections like magic fat removers.\n\nI brought it up once and he kind of shrugged it off. His attitude was basically \"yeah, you're probably right.\" but then went back to the same thing. I don't want to nag him too much. I've already been on his ass about needing to get a job, so I'm afraid additional nagging will be bad for the relationship. He already has a mother and sister who nag him a lot and I don't want to be another critical opinion in his life. We've only been together for about 6 months, so maybe it's just not my place.\n\nShould I just shut up? Should I bring it up again? What should I say differently, if I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend is receiving injections to \"help him lose weight easily.\" He's mentioned being self-conscious about his body and I think weight loss would be fantastic for his confidence and his health. And although I'm definitely attracted to him as is, I think he'd look a lot better without so much excess weight. I've avoided the topic though, since he seemed interested in losing weight without me saying anything (so why hurt his feelings unnecessarily right?)\n\nMy issue is that he is horribly sabotaging his own weight loss. He will take the elevator for 1 floor. He will eat past when he admits to being full, apparently just for the sake of finishing (this happens often). He eats fast food on a daily basis. It's painful to watch, really.\n\nI'm opposed to the injections, honestly. They seem like a really lazy way to handle a health issue. I think I'd be able to put up with the injections if he made an effort as well, but its infuriating to watch him treat the injections like magic fat removers.\n\nI brought it up once and he kind of shrugged it off. His attitude was basically \"yeah, you're probably right.\" but then went back to the same thing. I don't want to nag him too much. I've already been on his ass about needing to get a job, so I'm afraid additional nagging will be bad for the relationship. He already has a mother and sister who nag him a lot and I don't want to be another critical opinion in his life. We've only been together for about 6 months, so maybe it's just not my place.\n\nShould I just shut up? Should I bring it up again? What should I say differently, if I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend is receiving injections to \"help him lose weight easily.\" He's mentioned being self-conscious about his body and I think weight loss would be fantastic for his confidence and his health. And although I'm definitely attracted to him as is, I think he'd look a lot better without so much excess weight. I've avoided the topic though, since he seemed interested in losing weight without me saying anything (so why hurt his feelings unnecessarily right?)\n\nMy issue is that he is horribly sabotaging his own weight loss. He will take the elevator for 1 floor. He will eat past when he admits to being full, apparently just for the sake of finishing (this happens often). He eats fast food on a daily basis. It's painful to watch, really.\n\nI'm opposed to the injections, honestly. They seem like a really lazy way to handle a health issue. I think I'd be able to put up with the injections if he made an effort as well, but its infuriating to watch him treat the injections like magic fat removers.\n\nI brought it up once and he kind of shrugged it off. His attitude was basically \"yeah, you're probably right.\" but then went back to the same thing. I don't want to nag him too much. I've already been on his ass about needing to get a job, so I'm afraid additional nagging will be bad for the relationship. He already has a mother and sister who nag him a lot and I don't want to be another critical opinion in his life. We've only been together for about 6 months, so maybe it's just not my place.\n\nShould I just shut up? Should I bring it up again? What should I say differently, if I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend is receiving injections to \"help him lose weight easily.\" He's mentioned being self-conscious about his body and I think weight loss would be fantastic for his confidence and his health. And although I'm definitely attracted to him as is, I think he'd look a lot better without so much excess weight. I've avoided the topic though, since he seemed interested in losing weight without me saying anything (so why hurt his feelings unnecessarily right?)\n\nMy issue is that he is horribly sabotaging his own weight loss. He will take the elevator for 1 floor. He will eat past when he admits to being full, apparently just for the sake of finishing (this happens often). He eats fast food on a daily basis. It's painful to watch, really.\n\nI'm opposed to the injections, honestly. They seem like a really lazy way to handle a health issue. I think I'd be able to put up with the injections if he made an effort as well, but its infuriating to watch him treat the injections like magic fat removers.\n\nI brought it up once and he kind of shrugged it off. His attitude was basically \"yeah, you're probably right.\" but then went back to the same thing. I don't want to nag him too much. I've already been on his ass about needing to get a job, so I'm afraid additional nagging will be bad for the relationship. He already has a mother and sister who nag him a lot and I don't want to be another critical opinion in his life. We've only been together for about 6 months, so maybe it's just not my place.\n\nShould I just shut up? Should I bring it up again? What should I say differently, if I do?"
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