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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dear Reddit Community,\n\nI am currently looking at changing jobs and am not sure whether it would be a good idea to mention the real reason why I changed my previous job in the first place. I could do more harm than good. I would like your opinion on the subject.\n\nPerviously, I was working a job with lesser pay and somewhat financially unstable. However, the work was very interesting. Sadly, my Mother and Brother depend financially on the divorce settlement payed out by my Father, who since then became unemployed. Having a new family of his own, he stopped sending help.\nBeing the only member with some financial income, I was left with a choice. Stay where I am, have trouble helping them or change jobs to something far less interesting but with a very increased and stable income so that I could help them out. I opted to go for the latter.\n\nPass forward 1.5 years. My family is almost financially independent and my help is now minimal, leading me to start looking for another job which appeals more to my interests.\n\nWhat I would like to know is, would you consider this something you would share in an interview or will this, for some reason, put me in a bad light? As in, the only reason I took the job I have now is to pay the bills and nothing more and now I'm finally out to get a job that genuinely interests me?\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dear Reddit Community,\n\nI am currently looking at changing jobs and am not sure whether it would be a good idea to mention the real reason why I changed my previous job in the first place. I could do more harm than good. I would like your opinion on the subject.\n\nPerviously, I was working a job with lesser pay and somewhat financially unstable. However, the work was very interesting. Sadly, my Mother and Brother depend financially on the divorce settlement payed out by my Father, who since then became unemployed. Having a new family of his own, he stopped sending help.\nBeing the only member with some financial income, I was left with a choice. Stay where I am, have trouble helping them or change jobs to something far less interesting but with a very increased and stable income so that I could help them out. I opted to go for the latter.\n\nPass forward 1.5 years. My family is almost financially independent and my help is now minimal, leading me to start looking for another job which appeals more to my interests.\n\nWhat I would like to know is, would you consider this something you would share in an interview or will this, for some reason, put me in a bad light? As in, the only reason I took the job I have now is to pay the bills and nothing more and now I'm finally out to get a job that genuinely interests me?\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dear Reddit Community,\n\nI am currently looking at changing jobs and am not sure whether it would be a good idea to mention the real reason why I changed my previous job in the first place. I could do more harm than good. I would like your opinion on the subject.\n\nPerviously, I was working a job with lesser pay and somewhat financially unstable. However, the work was very interesting. Sadly, my Mother and Brother depend financially on the divorce settlement payed out by my Father, who since then became unemployed. Having a new family of his own, he stopped sending help.\nBeing the only member with some financial income, I was left with a choice. Stay where I am, have trouble helping them or change jobs to something far less interesting but with a very increased and stable income so that I could help them out. I opted to go for the latter.\n\nPass forward 1.5 years. My family is almost financially independent and my help is now minimal, leading me to start looking for another job which appeals more to my interests.\n\nWhat I would like to know is, would you consider this something you would share in an interview or will this, for some reason, put me in a bad light? As in, the only reason I took the job I have now is to pay the bills and nothing more and now I'm finally out to get a job that genuinely interests me?\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dear Reddit Community,\n\nI am currently looking at changing jobs and am not sure whether it would be a good idea to mention the real reason why I changed my previous job in the first place. I could do more harm than good. I would like your opinion on the subject.\n\nPerviously, I was working a job with lesser pay and somewhat financially unstable. However, the work was very interesting. Sadly, my Mother and Brother depend financially on the divorce settlement payed out by my Father, who since then became unemployed. Having a new family of his own, he stopped sending help.\nBeing the only member with some financial income, I was left with a choice. Stay where I am, have trouble helping them or change jobs to something far less interesting but with a very increased and stable income so that I could help them out. I opted to go for the latter.\n\nPass forward 1.5 years. My family is almost financially independent and my help is now minimal, leading me to start looking for another job which appeals more to my interests.\n\nWhat I would like to know is, would you consider this something you would share in an interview or will this, for some reason, put me in a bad light? As in, the only reason I took the job I have now is to pay the bills and nothing more and now I'm finally out to get a job that genuinely interests me?\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF dumped me the Tuesday before Valentines Day. We had been together for 9 months and both expressed or love for each other. She claimed she didn't get to see me enough ( we live an hour away and both have kids). I told her I understood but I was still pretty angry and I got the feeling there was more to it then that, like another guy. She assured me that was not the case and that she really still loved me.\n\nFrom Tuesday to Saturday I hoped she would change her mind, and being a prideful person, I did not make the first contact. She finally texted me Saturday night, explaining she would like to remain friendly. Again, I am a prideful person and explained that I could not remain friends with somebody who dumped me, regardless of the reason. \n\nI deleted all info of her so as I could not contact her in a moment of weakness and worked on getting over her ( I really did love her). About a week later she sends me a text saying she misses talking to me and wants to talk on the phone, which we do for two hours. \n\nWe text over the next few days and sex is a topic that comes up much. We pretty much get to the point of sexting and talking about getting together. During the conversation I mention something to the effect that I could never have sex with a chick that recently slept with another guy. Her response (text) \"oh\". She precedes to tell me she hooked up with a high school teacher she met online the day after valentines day. She said because she was \"so horny\" from seeing 50 Shades of Grey. \n\nBefore that point I was thinking about trying to get back with her. Now I am just a little disgusted by her and wonder how anybody could claim to love somebody, but screw some stranger the day after breaking up with you. I might add that she said she still loved me and would like to make it work. I pretty much told her her there is no chance in hell I would ever get over that and could never have sex with her again. Again, my pride.\n\nMy question?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF dumped me the Tuesday before Valentines Day. We had been together for 9 months and both expressed or love for each other. She claimed she didn't get to see me enough ( we live an hour away and both have kids). I told her I understood but I was still pretty angry and I got the feeling there was more to it then that, like another guy. She assured me that was not the case and that she really still loved me.\n\nFrom Tuesday to Saturday I hoped she would change her mind, and being a prideful person, I did not make the first contact. She finally texted me Saturday night, explaining she would like to remain friendly. Again, I am a prideful person and explained that I could not remain friends with somebody who dumped me, regardless of the reason. \n\nI deleted all info of her so as I could not contact her in a moment of weakness and worked on getting over her ( I really did love her). About a week later she sends me a text saying she misses talking to me and wants to talk on the phone, which we do for two hours. \n\nWe text over the next few days and sex is a topic that comes up much. We pretty much get to the point of sexting and talking about getting together. During the conversation I mention something to the effect that I could never have sex with a chick that recently slept with another guy. Her response (text) \"oh\". She precedes to tell me she hooked up with a high school teacher she met online the day after valentines day. She said because she was \"so horny\" from seeing 50 Shades of Grey. \n\nBefore that point I was thinking about trying to get back with her. Now I am just a little disgusted by her and wonder how anybody could claim to love somebody, but screw some stranger the day after breaking up with you. I might add that she said she still loved me and would like to make it work. I pretty much told her her there is no chance in hell I would ever get over that and could never have sex with her again. Again, my pride.\n\nMy question?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF dumped me the Tuesday before Valentines Day. We had been together for 9 months and both expressed or love for each other. She claimed she didn't get to see me enough ( we live an hour away and both have kids). I told her I understood but I was still pretty angry and I got the feeling there was more to it then that, like another guy. She assured me that was not the case and that she really still loved me.\n\nFrom Tuesday to Saturday I hoped she would change her mind, and being a prideful person, I did not make the first contact. She finally texted me Saturday night, explaining she would like to remain friendly. Again, I am a prideful person and explained that I could not remain friends with somebody who dumped me, regardless of the reason. \n\nI deleted all info of her so as I could not contact her in a moment of weakness and worked on getting over her ( I really did love her). About a week later she sends me a text saying she misses talking to me and wants to talk on the phone, which we do for two hours. \n\nWe text over the next few days and sex is a topic that comes up much. We pretty much get to the point of sexting and talking about getting together. During the conversation I mention something to the effect that I could never have sex with a chick that recently slept with another guy. Her response (text) \"oh\". She precedes to tell me she hooked up with a high school teacher she met online the day after valentines day. She said because she was \"so horny\" from seeing 50 Shades of Grey. \n\nBefore that point I was thinking about trying to get back with her. Now I am just a little disgusted by her and wonder how anybody could claim to love somebody, but screw some stranger the day after breaking up with you. I might add that she said she still loved me and would like to make it work. I pretty much told her her there is no chance in hell I would ever get over that and could never have sex with her again. Again, my pride.\n\nMy question?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF dumped me the Tuesday before Valentines Day. We had been together for 9 months and both expressed or love for each other. She claimed she didn't get to see me enough ( we live an hour away and both have kids). I told her I understood but I was still pretty angry and I got the feeling there was more to it then that, like another guy. She assured me that was not the case and that she really still loved me.\n\nFrom Tuesday to Saturday I hoped she would change her mind, and being a prideful person, I did not make the first contact. She finally texted me Saturday night, explaining she would like to remain friendly. Again, I am a prideful person and explained that I could not remain friends with somebody who dumped me, regardless of the reason. \n\nI deleted all info of her so as I could not contact her in a moment of weakness and worked on getting over her ( I really did love her). About a week later she sends me a text saying she misses talking to me and wants to talk on the phone, which we do for two hours. \n\nWe text over the next few days and sex is a topic that comes up much. We pretty much get to the point of sexting and talking about getting together. During the conversation I mention something to the effect that I could never have sex with a chick that recently slept with another guy. Her response (text) \"oh\". She precedes to tell me she hooked up with a high school teacher she met online the day after valentines day. She said because she was \"so horny\" from seeing 50 Shades of Grey. \n\nBefore that point I was thinking about trying to get back with her. Now I am just a little disgusted by her and wonder how anybody could claim to love somebody, but screw some stranger the day after breaking up with you. I might add that she said she still loved me and would like to make it work. I pretty much told her her there is no chance in hell I would ever get over that and could never have sex with her again. Again, my pride.\n\nMy question?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My GF dumped me the Tuesday before Valentines Day. We had been together for 9 months and both expressed or love for each other. She claimed she didn't get to see me enough ( we live an hour away and both have kids). I told her I understood but I was still pretty angry and I got the feeling there was more to it then that, like another guy. She assured me that was not the case and that she really still loved me.\n\nFrom Tuesday to Saturday I hoped she would change her mind, and being a prideful person, I did not make the first contact. She finally texted me Saturday night, explaining she would like to remain friendly. Again, I am a prideful person and explained that I could not remain friends with somebody who dumped me, regardless of the reason. \n\nI deleted all info of her so as I could not contact her in a moment of weakness and worked on getting over her ( I really did love her). About a week later she sends me a text saying she misses talking to me and wants to talk on the phone, which we do for two hours. \n\nWe text over the next few days and sex is a topic that comes up much. We pretty much get to the point of sexting and talking about getting together. During the conversation I mention something to the effect that I could never have sex with a chick that recently slept with another guy. Her response (text) \"oh\". She precedes to tell me she hooked up with a high school teacher she met online the day after valentines day. She said because she was \"so horny\" from seeing 50 Shades of Grey. \n\nBefore that point I was thinking about trying to get back with her. Now I am just a little disgusted by her and wonder how anybody could claim to love somebody, but screw some stranger the day after breaking up with you. I might add that she said she still loved me and would like to make it work. I pretty much told her her there is no chance in hell I would ever get over that and could never have sex with her again. Again, my pride.\n\nMy question?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little back story - My girlfriend and I are both 16 and this is my first major serious relationship. We've been \"official\" since February 26th and she's met my parents and I've met hers.\n\nSo she picks me up from school today and we finished up some math and English homework together. After that my bestfriend and his girlfriend come over and we head upstairs to my room and look at yearbooks and listen to music. We eat dinner and then my friend leaves and my gf and I go downstairs and watch Drive, make out here and there and then I grab a blanket because she was cold and lay it over us. The movie finishes and we start another movie with only 30 minutes until she has to go home. We start making out more and soon enough she is riding me (we still have clothes on) and I start feeling her up her shirt when all of a sudden I see a dark figure out of the corner of my right eye and my heart stops. Time slows and my gf squeals and hops off and pulls her shirt back up.\n\nIt was my dad.\n\nHe says that he is going to leave soon and that she needs to start packing up to head home. (It was true, but he said it in a very weird way) She's laying on the couch staring and me and I'm staring at her. She was so embarrassed. I walk her to her car and tell I'm sorry and that we'll make it through this and stuff. As soon as I walk back into my house my dad is right there and talks about how she isn't allowed upstairs at all and how the room will have all of the lights on and no blanket will be covering her. He says he is dissapointed in me and I'm certain he doesn't respect me or her as much anymore. She calls her best friend (my best friend's gf) crying and now I'm trying to talk to her and tell her it's O.K. TIFU"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little back story - My girlfriend and I are both 16 and this is my first major serious relationship. We've been \"official\" since February 26th and she's met my parents and I've met hers.\n\nSo she picks me up from school today and we finished up some math and English homework together. After that my bestfriend and his girlfriend come over and we head upstairs to my room and look at yearbooks and listen to music. We eat dinner and then my friend leaves and my gf and I go downstairs and watch Drive, make out here and there and then I grab a blanket because she was cold and lay it over us. The movie finishes and we start another movie with only 30 minutes until she has to go home. We start making out more and soon enough she is riding me (we still have clothes on) and I start feeling her up her shirt when all of a sudden I see a dark figure out of the corner of my right eye and my heart stops. Time slows and my gf squeals and hops off and pulls her shirt back up.\n\nIt was my dad.\n\nHe says that he is going to leave soon and that she needs to start packing up to head home. (It was true, but he said it in a very weird way) She's laying on the couch staring and me and I'm staring at her. She was so embarrassed. I walk her to her car and tell I'm sorry and that we'll make it through this and stuff. As soon as I walk back into my house my dad is right there and talks about how she isn't allowed upstairs at all and how the room will have all of the lights on and no blanket will be covering her. He says he is dissapointed in me and I'm certain he doesn't respect me or her as much anymore. She calls her best friend (my best friend's gf) crying and now I'm trying to talk to her and tell her it's O.K. TIFU"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little back story - My girlfriend and I are both 16 and this is my first major serious relationship. We've been \"official\" since February 26th and she's met my parents and I've met hers.\n\nSo she picks me up from school today and we finished up some math and English homework together. After that my bestfriend and his girlfriend come over and we head upstairs to my room and look at yearbooks and listen to music. We eat dinner and then my friend leaves and my gf and I go downstairs and watch Drive, make out here and there and then I grab a blanket because she was cold and lay it over us. The movie finishes and we start another movie with only 30 minutes until she has to go home. We start making out more and soon enough she is riding me (we still have clothes on) and I start feeling her up her shirt when all of a sudden I see a dark figure out of the corner of my right eye and my heart stops. Time slows and my gf squeals and hops off and pulls her shirt back up.\n\nIt was my dad.\n\nHe says that he is going to leave soon and that she needs to start packing up to head home. (It was true, but he said it in a very weird way) She's laying on the couch staring and me and I'm staring at her. She was so embarrassed. I walk her to her car and tell I'm sorry and that we'll make it through this and stuff. As soon as I walk back into my house my dad is right there and talks about how she isn't allowed upstairs at all and how the room will have all of the lights on and no blanket will be covering her. He says he is dissapointed in me and I'm certain he doesn't respect me or her as much anymore. She calls her best friend (my best friend's gf) crying and now I'm trying to talk to her and tell her it's O.K. TIFU"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little back story - My girlfriend and I are both 16 and this is my first major serious relationship. We've been \"official\" since February 26th and she's met my parents and I've met hers.\n\nSo she picks me up from school today and we finished up some math and English homework together. After that my bestfriend and his girlfriend come over and we head upstairs to my room and look at yearbooks and listen to music. We eat dinner and then my friend leaves and my gf and I go downstairs and watch Drive, make out here and there and then I grab a blanket because she was cold and lay it over us. The movie finishes and we start another movie with only 30 minutes until she has to go home. We start making out more and soon enough she is riding me (we still have clothes on) and I start feeling her up her shirt when all of a sudden I see a dark figure out of the corner of my right eye and my heart stops. Time slows and my gf squeals and hops off and pulls her shirt back up.\n\nIt was my dad.\n\nHe says that he is going to leave soon and that she needs to start packing up to head home. (It was true, but he said it in a very weird way) She's laying on the couch staring and me and I'm staring at her. She was so embarrassed. I walk her to her car and tell I'm sorry and that we'll make it through this and stuff. As soon as I walk back into my house my dad is right there and talks about how she isn't allowed upstairs at all and how the room will have all of the lights on and no blanket will be covering her. He says he is dissapointed in me and I'm certain he doesn't respect me or her as much anymore. She calls her best friend (my best friend's gf) crying and now I'm trying to talk to her and tell her it's O.K. TIFU"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little back story - My girlfriend and I are both 16 and this is my first major serious relationship. We've been \"official\" since February 26th and she's met my parents and I've met hers.\n\nSo she picks me up from school today and we finished up some math and English homework together. After that my bestfriend and his girlfriend come over and we head upstairs to my room and look at yearbooks and listen to music. We eat dinner and then my friend leaves and my gf and I go downstairs and watch Drive, make out here and there and then I grab a blanket because she was cold and lay it over us. The movie finishes and we start another movie with only 30 minutes until she has to go home. We start making out more and soon enough she is riding me (we still have clothes on) and I start feeling her up her shirt when all of a sudden I see a dark figure out of the corner of my right eye and my heart stops. Time slows and my gf squeals and hops off and pulls her shirt back up.\n\nIt was my dad.\n\nHe says that he is going to leave soon and that she needs to start packing up to head home. (It was true, but he said it in a very weird way) She's laying on the couch staring and me and I'm staring at her. She was so embarrassed. I walk her to her car and tell I'm sorry and that we'll make it through this and stuff. As soon as I walk back into my house my dad is right there and talks about how she isn't allowed upstairs at all and how the room will have all of the lights on and no blanket will be covering her. He says he is dissapointed in me and I'm certain he doesn't respect me or her as much anymore. She calls her best friend (my best friend's gf) crying and now I'm trying to talk to her and tell her it's O.K. TIFU"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: A little back story - My girlfriend and I are both 16 and this is my first major serious relationship. We've been \"official\" since February 26th and she's met my parents and I've met hers.\n\nSo she picks me up from school today and we finished up some math and English homework together. After that my bestfriend and his girlfriend come over and we head upstairs to my room and look at yearbooks and listen to music. We eat dinner and then my friend leaves and my gf and I go downstairs and watch Drive, make out here and there and then I grab a blanket because she was cold and lay it over us. The movie finishes and we start another movie with only 30 minutes until she has to go home. We start making out more and soon enough she is riding me (we still have clothes on) and I start feeling her up her shirt when all of a sudden I see a dark figure out of the corner of my right eye and my heart stops. Time slows and my gf squeals and hops off and pulls her shirt back up.\n\nIt was my dad.\n\nHe says that he is going to leave soon and that she needs to start packing up to head home. (It was true, but he said it in a very weird way) She's laying on the couch staring and me and I'm staring at her. She was so embarrassed. I walk her to her car and tell I'm sorry and that we'll make it through this and stuff. As soon as I walk back into my house my dad is right there and talks about how she isn't allowed upstairs at all and how the room will have all of the lights on and no blanket will be covering her. He says he is dissapointed in me and I'm certain he doesn't respect me or her as much anymore. She calls her best friend (my best friend's gf) crying and now I'm trying to talk to her and tell her it's O.K. TIFU"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd like to start this off by saying that I would never cheat. Ever. \n\nMy girlfriend, let's call her T, and I transferred to the same school last year and live in the same dorm building on campus. Last fall we had a rough patch and I almost broke up with her for reasons during the Winter. She told me that she would change and I believed her. \n\nEver since then things have been great. Our relationship really bloomed. Besides some small things (she's Christian I'm agnostic, she can be cynical sometimes, etc) I've really been enjoying this era of our relationship. \n\nAlright, so flashback to last Fall. I was joining some clubs and meeting new people, including the person I mentioned in the title, let's call her A. I was immediately attracted to A. She seemed ambitious (something I am) and intelligent. We clicked. \n\nDespite wanting to get to know her better as a friend, I knew I couldn't see her alone because of my relationship and the temptation of falling hard for her. So our time with each other was limited to club events and other gatherings with mutual friends.\n\nFlash forward to now. Me and T moved back to college and everything seems great. I see A around and we are still good friends, but my little crush seems to have faded, that is, until we spent some time alone after a club meeting. She opened up to me about some guy she was seeing but was conflicted about their relationship. This was the first time we had a serious heart to heart, and it felt great. It was like taking a sip from a delicious cup of tea but having to leave the rest on the table. \n\nThis was last week and I have been thinking about her nonstop. These feelings frighten me because I DO love my girlfriend, but I also crave more time with A. Sometimes I feel like I've been emotionally cheating on her and it feels awful.\n\nI guess my question is.\n\nDo you guys think I should wait out these feelings and see if they go away? Any advise or input is appreciated. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd like to start this off by saying that I would never cheat. Ever. \n\nMy girlfriend, let's call her T, and I transferred to the same school last year and live in the same dorm building on campus. Last fall we had a rough patch and I almost broke up with her for reasons during the Winter. She told me that she would change and I believed her. \n\nEver since then things have been great. Our relationship really bloomed. Besides some small things (she's Christian I'm agnostic, she can be cynical sometimes, etc) I've really been enjoying this era of our relationship. \n\nAlright, so flashback to last Fall. I was joining some clubs and meeting new people, including the person I mentioned in the title, let's call her A. I was immediately attracted to A. She seemed ambitious (something I am) and intelligent. We clicked. \n\nDespite wanting to get to know her better as a friend, I knew I couldn't see her alone because of my relationship and the temptation of falling hard for her. So our time with each other was limited to club events and other gatherings with mutual friends.\n\nFlash forward to now. Me and T moved back to college and everything seems great. I see A around and we are still good friends, but my little crush seems to have faded, that is, until we spent some time alone after a club meeting. She opened up to me about some guy she was seeing but was conflicted about their relationship. This was the first time we had a serious heart to heart, and it felt great. It was like taking a sip from a delicious cup of tea but having to leave the rest on the table. \n\nThis was last week and I have been thinking about her nonstop. These feelings frighten me because I DO love my girlfriend, but I also crave more time with A. Sometimes I feel like I've been emotionally cheating on her and it feels awful.\n\nI guess my question is.\n\nDo you guys think I should wait out these feelings and see if they go away? Any advise or input is appreciated. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd like to start this off by saying that I would never cheat. Ever. \n\nMy girlfriend, let's call her T, and I transferred to the same school last year and live in the same dorm building on campus. Last fall we had a rough patch and I almost broke up with her for reasons during the Winter. She told me that she would change and I believed her. \n\nEver since then things have been great. Our relationship really bloomed. Besides some small things (she's Christian I'm agnostic, she can be cynical sometimes, etc) I've really been enjoying this era of our relationship. \n\nAlright, so flashback to last Fall. I was joining some clubs and meeting new people, including the person I mentioned in the title, let's call her A. I was immediately attracted to A. She seemed ambitious (something I am) and intelligent. We clicked. \n\nDespite wanting to get to know her better as a friend, I knew I couldn't see her alone because of my relationship and the temptation of falling hard for her. So our time with each other was limited to club events and other gatherings with mutual friends.\n\nFlash forward to now. Me and T moved back to college and everything seems great. I see A around and we are still good friends, but my little crush seems to have faded, that is, until we spent some time alone after a club meeting. She opened up to me about some guy she was seeing but was conflicted about their relationship. This was the first time we had a serious heart to heart, and it felt great. It was like taking a sip from a delicious cup of tea but having to leave the rest on the table. \n\nThis was last week and I have been thinking about her nonstop. These feelings frighten me because I DO love my girlfriend, but I also crave more time with A. Sometimes I feel like I've been emotionally cheating on her and it feels awful.\n\nI guess my question is.\n\nDo you guys think I should wait out these feelings and see if they go away? Any advise or input is appreciated. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd like to start this off by saying that I would never cheat. Ever. \n\nMy girlfriend, let's call her T, and I transferred to the same school last year and live in the same dorm building on campus. Last fall we had a rough patch and I almost broke up with her for reasons during the Winter. She told me that she would change and I believed her. \n\nEver since then things have been great. Our relationship really bloomed. Besides some small things (she's Christian I'm agnostic, she can be cynical sometimes, etc) I've really been enjoying this era of our relationship. \n\nAlright, so flashback to last Fall. I was joining some clubs and meeting new people, including the person I mentioned in the title, let's call her A. I was immediately attracted to A. She seemed ambitious (something I am) and intelligent. We clicked. \n\nDespite wanting to get to know her better as a friend, I knew I couldn't see her alone because of my relationship and the temptation of falling hard for her. So our time with each other was limited to club events and other gatherings with mutual friends.\n\nFlash forward to now. Me and T moved back to college and everything seems great. I see A around and we are still good friends, but my little crush seems to have faded, that is, until we spent some time alone after a club meeting. She opened up to me about some guy she was seeing but was conflicted about their relationship. This was the first time we had a serious heart to heart, and it felt great. It was like taking a sip from a delicious cup of tea but having to leave the rest on the table. \n\nThis was last week and I have been thinking about her nonstop. These feelings frighten me because I DO love my girlfriend, but I also crave more time with A. Sometimes I feel like I've been emotionally cheating on her and it feels awful.\n\nI guess my question is.\n\nDo you guys think I should wait out these feelings and see if they go away? Any advise or input is appreciated. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd like to start this off by saying that I would never cheat. Ever. \n\nMy girlfriend, let's call her T, and I transferred to the same school last year and live in the same dorm building on campus. Last fall we had a rough patch and I almost broke up with her for reasons during the Winter. She told me that she would change and I believed her. \n\nEver since then things have been great. Our relationship really bloomed. Besides some small things (she's Christian I'm agnostic, she can be cynical sometimes, etc) I've really been enjoying this era of our relationship. \n\nAlright, so flashback to last Fall. I was joining some clubs and meeting new people, including the person I mentioned in the title, let's call her A. I was immediately attracted to A. She seemed ambitious (something I am) and intelligent. We clicked. \n\nDespite wanting to get to know her better as a friend, I knew I couldn't see her alone because of my relationship and the temptation of falling hard for her. So our time with each other was limited to club events and other gatherings with mutual friends.\n\nFlash forward to now. Me and T moved back to college and everything seems great. I see A around and we are still good friends, but my little crush seems to have faded, that is, until we spent some time alone after a club meeting. She opened up to me about some guy she was seeing but was conflicted about their relationship. This was the first time we had a serious heart to heart, and it felt great. It was like taking a sip from a delicious cup of tea but having to leave the rest on the table. \n\nThis was last week and I have been thinking about her nonstop. These feelings frighten me because I DO love my girlfriend, but I also crave more time with A. Sometimes I feel like I've been emotionally cheating on her and it feels awful.\n\nI guess my question is.\n\nDo you guys think I should wait out these feelings and see if they go away? Any advise or input is appreciated. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'd like to start this off by saying that I would never cheat. Ever. \n\nMy girlfriend, let's call her T, and I transferred to the same school last year and live in the same dorm building on campus. Last fall we had a rough patch and I almost broke up with her for reasons during the Winter. She told me that she would change and I believed her. \n\nEver since then things have been great. Our relationship really bloomed. Besides some small things (she's Christian I'm agnostic, she can be cynical sometimes, etc) I've really been enjoying this era of our relationship. \n\nAlright, so flashback to last Fall. I was joining some clubs and meeting new people, including the person I mentioned in the title, let's call her A. I was immediately attracted to A. She seemed ambitious (something I am) and intelligent. We clicked. \n\nDespite wanting to get to know her better as a friend, I knew I couldn't see her alone because of my relationship and the temptation of falling hard for her. So our time with each other was limited to club events and other gatherings with mutual friends.\n\nFlash forward to now. Me and T moved back to college and everything seems great. I see A around and we are still good friends, but my little crush seems to have faded, that is, until we spent some time alone after a club meeting. She opened up to me about some guy she was seeing but was conflicted about their relationship. This was the first time we had a serious heart to heart, and it felt great. It was like taking a sip from a delicious cup of tea but having to leave the rest on the table. \n\nThis was last week and I have been thinking about her nonstop. These feelings frighten me because I DO love my girlfriend, but I also crave more time with A. Sometimes I feel like I've been emotionally cheating on her and it feels awful.\n\nI guess my question is.\n\nDo you guys think I should wait out these feelings and see if they go away? Any advise or input is appreciated. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (I'll be using the term boyfriend throughout this post because I'm not really sure what the status of our relationship is at the moment).\n\nI've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. It's been a generally pleasant relationship, but I'm not really sure we have a future together. We used to have a lot of fun, and there was a time where I thought maybe I loved him, but things have changed.\n\nHe took on a second job, and I started fall classes. He lives about 90 minutes away in another state, so it's already difficult to set time aside to see each other. Now, I spend most of my time off studying or sleeping. I don't really have the motivation or time for a relationship. I told my boyfriend this about a week or two ago, and while he was initially upset, he said he'd wait things out.\n\nI don't really want to wait things out. I like him, I care about him, and I do enjoy his company.I just don't have the strong romantic feelings that I used to. Traveling out to see him takes a good chunk of time, and because of our schedules, we usually only get to hang out late at night when we're both exhausted. We don't really go out or spend time with his friends anymore. We just grab food at the store, turn on the tv, and go to sleep.\n\nWhat do I do? I've explicitly said that now is not a good time for me to be in a relationship, that I'd like to be alone, and yet we're still not really broken up. I don't want things to be ugly, and I'd still like to hang out on occasion, but I just don't have the energy to treat him like I should at this point in time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (I'll be using the term boyfriend throughout this post because I'm not really sure what the status of our relationship is at the moment).\n\nI've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. It's been a generally pleasant relationship, but I'm not really sure we have a future together. We used to have a lot of fun, and there was a time where I thought maybe I loved him, but things have changed.\n\nHe took on a second job, and I started fall classes. He lives about 90 minutes away in another state, so it's already difficult to set time aside to see each other. Now, I spend most of my time off studying or sleeping. I don't really have the motivation or time for a relationship. I told my boyfriend this about a week or two ago, and while he was initially upset, he said he'd wait things out.\n\nI don't really want to wait things out. I like him, I care about him, and I do enjoy his company.I just don't have the strong romantic feelings that I used to. Traveling out to see him takes a good chunk of time, and because of our schedules, we usually only get to hang out late at night when we're both exhausted. We don't really go out or spend time with his friends anymore. We just grab food at the store, turn on the tv, and go to sleep.\n\nWhat do I do? I've explicitly said that now is not a good time for me to be in a relationship, that I'd like to be alone, and yet we're still not really broken up. I don't want things to be ugly, and I'd still like to hang out on occasion, but I just don't have the energy to treat him like I should at this point in time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (I'll be using the term boyfriend throughout this post because I'm not really sure what the status of our relationship is at the moment).\n\nI've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. It's been a generally pleasant relationship, but I'm not really sure we have a future together. We used to have a lot of fun, and there was a time where I thought maybe I loved him, but things have changed.\n\nHe took on a second job, and I started fall classes. He lives about 90 minutes away in another state, so it's already difficult to set time aside to see each other. Now, I spend most of my time off studying or sleeping. I don't really have the motivation or time for a relationship. I told my boyfriend this about a week or two ago, and while he was initially upset, he said he'd wait things out.\n\nI don't really want to wait things out. I like him, I care about him, and I do enjoy his company.I just don't have the strong romantic feelings that I used to. Traveling out to see him takes a good chunk of time, and because of our schedules, we usually only get to hang out late at night when we're both exhausted. We don't really go out or spend time with his friends anymore. We just grab food at the store, turn on the tv, and go to sleep.\n\nWhat do I do? I've explicitly said that now is not a good time for me to be in a relationship, that I'd like to be alone, and yet we're still not really broken up. I don't want things to be ugly, and I'd still like to hang out on occasion, but I just don't have the energy to treat him like I should at this point in time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (I'll be using the term boyfriend throughout this post because I'm not really sure what the status of our relationship is at the moment).\n\nI've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. It's been a generally pleasant relationship, but I'm not really sure we have a future together. We used to have a lot of fun, and there was a time where I thought maybe I loved him, but things have changed.\n\nHe took on a second job, and I started fall classes. He lives about 90 minutes away in another state, so it's already difficult to set time aside to see each other. Now, I spend most of my time off studying or sleeping. I don't really have the motivation or time for a relationship. I told my boyfriend this about a week or two ago, and while he was initially upset, he said he'd wait things out.\n\nI don't really want to wait things out. I like him, I care about him, and I do enjoy his company.I just don't have the strong romantic feelings that I used to. Traveling out to see him takes a good chunk of time, and because of our schedules, we usually only get to hang out late at night when we're both exhausted. We don't really go out or spend time with his friends anymore. We just grab food at the store, turn on the tv, and go to sleep.\n\nWhat do I do? I've explicitly said that now is not a good time for me to be in a relationship, that I'd like to be alone, and yet we're still not really broken up. I don't want things to be ugly, and I'd still like to hang out on occasion, but I just don't have the energy to treat him like I should at this point in time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (I'll be using the term boyfriend throughout this post because I'm not really sure what the status of our relationship is at the moment).\n\nI've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. It's been a generally pleasant relationship, but I'm not really sure we have a future together. We used to have a lot of fun, and there was a time where I thought maybe I loved him, but things have changed.\n\nHe took on a second job, and I started fall classes. He lives about 90 minutes away in another state, so it's already difficult to set time aside to see each other. Now, I spend most of my time off studying or sleeping. I don't really have the motivation or time for a relationship. I told my boyfriend this about a week or two ago, and while he was initially upset, he said he'd wait things out.\n\nI don't really want to wait things out. I like him, I care about him, and I do enjoy his company.I just don't have the strong romantic feelings that I used to. Traveling out to see him takes a good chunk of time, and because of our schedules, we usually only get to hang out late at night when we're both exhausted. We don't really go out or spend time with his friends anymore. We just grab food at the store, turn on the tv, and go to sleep.\n\nWhat do I do? I've explicitly said that now is not a good time for me to be in a relationship, that I'd like to be alone, and yet we're still not really broken up. I don't want things to be ugly, and I'd still like to hang out on occasion, but I just don't have the energy to treat him like I should at this point in time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (I'll be using the term boyfriend throughout this post because I'm not really sure what the status of our relationship is at the moment).\n\nI've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. It's been a generally pleasant relationship, but I'm not really sure we have a future together. We used to have a lot of fun, and there was a time where I thought maybe I loved him, but things have changed.\n\nHe took on a second job, and I started fall classes. He lives about 90 minutes away in another state, so it's already difficult to set time aside to see each other. Now, I spend most of my time off studying or sleeping. I don't really have the motivation or time for a relationship. I told my boyfriend this about a week or two ago, and while he was initially upset, he said he'd wait things out.\n\nI don't really want to wait things out. I like him, I care about him, and I do enjoy his company.I just don't have the strong romantic feelings that I used to. Traveling out to see him takes a good chunk of time, and because of our schedules, we usually only get to hang out late at night when we're both exhausted. We don't really go out or spend time with his friends anymore. We just grab food at the store, turn on the tv, and go to sleep.\n\nWhat do I do? I've explicitly said that now is not a good time for me to be in a relationship, that I'd like to be alone, and yet we're still not really broken up. I don't want things to be ugly, and I'd still like to hang out on occasion, but I just don't have the energy to treat him like I should at this point in time."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background: My mom converted to Mormonism when I was 2 and I was brought up in the church. After thirteen years of hypocrisy, bigotry, and endless amounts of guilt every time I didn't \"Choose the Right\" I apostatized at 15. I'm now 23 and haven't set foot in a church since then.\n\nMy mom still goes to church and I don't have a problem with it, she's an adult and can make her own decisions. However I decided early on that I don't want my five year old son brought up to be religious because of my experiences with religion. I recently discovered that when she babysits him overnight she makes him pray with her before bed. \n\nWhen I found this out I immediately stated that I was uncomfortable with it, which led to my son having a melt down because he suddenly wants to pray. She's indoctrinating him against my will and I don't know how to get her to stop without severing contact. If anyone has any ideas about how I can deal wit this I would deeply appreciate input."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background: My mom converted to Mormonism when I was 2 and I was brought up in the church. After thirteen years of hypocrisy, bigotry, and endless amounts of guilt every time I didn't \"Choose the Right\" I apostatized at 15. I'm now 23 and haven't set foot in a church since then.\n\nMy mom still goes to church and I don't have a problem with it, she's an adult and can make her own decisions. However I decided early on that I don't want my five year old son brought up to be religious because of my experiences with religion. I recently discovered that when she babysits him overnight she makes him pray with her before bed. \n\nWhen I found this out I immediately stated that I was uncomfortable with it, which led to my son having a melt down because he suddenly wants to pray. She's indoctrinating him against my will and I don't know how to get her to stop without severing contact. If anyone has any ideas about how I can deal wit this I would deeply appreciate input."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background: My mom converted to Mormonism when I was 2 and I was brought up in the church. After thirteen years of hypocrisy, bigotry, and endless amounts of guilt every time I didn't \"Choose the Right\" I apostatized at 15. I'm now 23 and haven't set foot in a church since then.\n\nMy mom still goes to church and I don't have a problem with it, she's an adult and can make her own decisions. However I decided early on that I don't want my five year old son brought up to be religious because of my experiences with religion. I recently discovered that when she babysits him overnight she makes him pray with her before bed. \n\nWhen I found this out I immediately stated that I was uncomfortable with it, which led to my son having a melt down because he suddenly wants to pray. She's indoctrinating him against my will and I don't know how to get her to stop without severing contact. If anyone has any ideas about how I can deal wit this I would deeply appreciate input."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background: My mom converted to Mormonism when I was 2 and I was brought up in the church. After thirteen years of hypocrisy, bigotry, and endless amounts of guilt every time I didn't \"Choose the Right\" I apostatized at 15. I'm now 23 and haven't set foot in a church since then.\n\nMy mom still goes to church and I don't have a problem with it, she's an adult and can make her own decisions. However I decided early on that I don't want my five year old son brought up to be religious because of my experiences with religion. I recently discovered that when she babysits him overnight she makes him pray with her before bed. \n\nWhen I found this out I immediately stated that I was uncomfortable with it, which led to my son having a melt down because he suddenly wants to pray. She's indoctrinating him against my will and I don't know how to get her to stop without severing contact. If anyone has any ideas about how I can deal wit this I would deeply appreciate input."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background: My mom converted to Mormonism when I was 2 and I was brought up in the church. After thirteen years of hypocrisy, bigotry, and endless amounts of guilt every time I didn't \"Choose the Right\" I apostatized at 15. I'm now 23 and haven't set foot in a church since then.\n\nMy mom still goes to church and I don't have a problem with it, she's an adult and can make her own decisions. However I decided early on that I don't want my five year old son brought up to be religious because of my experiences with religion. I recently discovered that when she babysits him overnight she makes him pray with her before bed. \n\nWhen I found this out I immediately stated that I was uncomfortable with it, which led to my son having a melt down because he suddenly wants to pray. She's indoctrinating him against my will and I don't know how to get her to stop without severing contact. If anyone has any ideas about how I can deal wit this I would deeply appreciate input."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Some background: My mom converted to Mormonism when I was 2 and I was brought up in the church. After thirteen years of hypocrisy, bigotry, and endless amounts of guilt every time I didn't \"Choose the Right\" I apostatized at 15. I'm now 23 and haven't set foot in a church since then.\n\nMy mom still goes to church and I don't have a problem with it, she's an adult and can make her own decisions. However I decided early on that I don't want my five year old son brought up to be religious because of my experiences with religion. I recently discovered that when she babysits him overnight she makes him pray with her before bed. \n\nWhen I found this out I immediately stated that I was uncomfortable with it, which led to my son having a melt down because he suddenly wants to pray. She's indoctrinating him against my will and I don't know how to get her to stop without severing contact. If anyone has any ideas about how I can deal wit this I would deeply appreciate input."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just moved into a one-bedroom apartment. The property was just built and there are still some workers finishing up landscaping and some pavement outside. I was warned by my landlord that some of those workers might come in to do some last minute inspections this afternoon. Which is fine except.\n\nI'm at work currently and my GF is in my apartment. She just texted me and told me that some workers came in and asked if they could take a picture of the apartment. She didn't really convey the context of the conversation very well (if they were taking it for their records to document that the apartment is finished, taking pictures of defects or blemishes etc.). But she did say that it seemed like they were just taking a general picture of my living room. Which I find a bit disturbing. On the innocent side, my GF just said he mentioned that he didn't think anyone had moved in yet. So he's either lying to make it sound innocent or wasn't expecting anyone to be in and just needed a picture for documentation.\n\nThere is a keypad entry to the only door into my building, and my door has a deadbolt. I'm worried that the construction worker may be planning on selling the picture and keypad combination to a thief. Leaving only my deadbolt to be pried open with a pry bar. Should I be worried, or am I overreacting? What should I do besides make sure my door is always locked? Thanks in advance!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just moved into a one-bedroom apartment. The property was just built and there are still some workers finishing up landscaping and some pavement outside. I was warned by my landlord that some of those workers might come in to do some last minute inspections this afternoon. Which is fine except.\n\nI'm at work currently and my GF is in my apartment. She just texted me and told me that some workers came in and asked if they could take a picture of the apartment. She didn't really convey the context of the conversation very well (if they were taking it for their records to document that the apartment is finished, taking pictures of defects or blemishes etc.). But she did say that it seemed like they were just taking a general picture of my living room. Which I find a bit disturbing. On the innocent side, my GF just said he mentioned that he didn't think anyone had moved in yet. So he's either lying to make it sound innocent or wasn't expecting anyone to be in and just needed a picture for documentation.\n\nThere is a keypad entry to the only door into my building, and my door has a deadbolt. I'm worried that the construction worker may be planning on selling the picture and keypad combination to a thief. Leaving only my deadbolt to be pried open with a pry bar. Should I be worried, or am I overreacting? What should I do besides make sure my door is always locked? Thanks in advance!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just moved into a one-bedroom apartment. The property was just built and there are still some workers finishing up landscaping and some pavement outside. I was warned by my landlord that some of those workers might come in to do some last minute inspections this afternoon. Which is fine except.\n\nI'm at work currently and my GF is in my apartment. She just texted me and told me that some workers came in and asked if they could take a picture of the apartment. She didn't really convey the context of the conversation very well (if they were taking it for their records to document that the apartment is finished, taking pictures of defects or blemishes etc.). But she did say that it seemed like they were just taking a general picture of my living room. Which I find a bit disturbing. On the innocent side, my GF just said he mentioned that he didn't think anyone had moved in yet. So he's either lying to make it sound innocent or wasn't expecting anyone to be in and just needed a picture for documentation.\n\nThere is a keypad entry to the only door into my building, and my door has a deadbolt. I'm worried that the construction worker may be planning on selling the picture and keypad combination to a thief. Leaving only my deadbolt to be pried open with a pry bar. Should I be worried, or am I overreacting? What should I do besides make sure my door is always locked? Thanks in advance!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just moved into a one-bedroom apartment. The property was just built and there are still some workers finishing up landscaping and some pavement outside. I was warned by my landlord that some of those workers might come in to do some last minute inspections this afternoon. Which is fine except.\n\nI'm at work currently and my GF is in my apartment. She just texted me and told me that some workers came in and asked if they could take a picture of the apartment. She didn't really convey the context of the conversation very well (if they were taking it for their records to document that the apartment is finished, taking pictures of defects or blemishes etc.). But she did say that it seemed like they were just taking a general picture of my living room. Which I find a bit disturbing. On the innocent side, my GF just said he mentioned that he didn't think anyone had moved in yet. So he's either lying to make it sound innocent or wasn't expecting anyone to be in and just needed a picture for documentation.\n\nThere is a keypad entry to the only door into my building, and my door has a deadbolt. I'm worried that the construction worker may be planning on selling the picture and keypad combination to a thief. Leaving only my deadbolt to be pried open with a pry bar. Should I be worried, or am I overreacting? What should I do besides make sure my door is always locked? Thanks in advance!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just moved into a one-bedroom apartment. The property was just built and there are still some workers finishing up landscaping and some pavement outside. I was warned by my landlord that some of those workers might come in to do some last minute inspections this afternoon. Which is fine except.\n\nI'm at work currently and my GF is in my apartment. She just texted me and told me that some workers came in and asked if they could take a picture of the apartment. She didn't really convey the context of the conversation very well (if they were taking it for their records to document that the apartment is finished, taking pictures of defects or blemishes etc.). But she did say that it seemed like they were just taking a general picture of my living room. Which I find a bit disturbing. On the innocent side, my GF just said he mentioned that he didn't think anyone had moved in yet. So he's either lying to make it sound innocent or wasn't expecting anyone to be in and just needed a picture for documentation.\n\nThere is a keypad entry to the only door into my building, and my door has a deadbolt. I'm worried that the construction worker may be planning on selling the picture and keypad combination to a thief. Leaving only my deadbolt to be pried open with a pry bar. Should I be worried, or am I overreacting? What should I do besides make sure my door is always locked? Thanks in advance!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just moved into a one-bedroom apartment. The property was just built and there are still some workers finishing up landscaping and some pavement outside. I was warned by my landlord that some of those workers might come in to do some last minute inspections this afternoon. Which is fine except.\n\nI'm at work currently and my GF is in my apartment. She just texted me and told me that some workers came in and asked if they could take a picture of the apartment. She didn't really convey the context of the conversation very well (if they were taking it for their records to document that the apartment is finished, taking pictures of defects or blemishes etc.). But she did say that it seemed like they were just taking a general picture of my living room. Which I find a bit disturbing. On the innocent side, my GF just said he mentioned that he didn't think anyone had moved in yet. So he's either lying to make it sound innocent or wasn't expecting anyone to be in and just needed a picture for documentation.\n\nThere is a keypad entry to the only door into my building, and my door has a deadbolt. I'm worried that the construction worker may be planning on selling the picture and keypad combination to a thief. Leaving only my deadbolt to be pried open with a pry bar. Should I be worried, or am I overreacting? What should I do besides make sure my door is always locked? Thanks in advance!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 21 years old and about to graduate college. My parents have taken out a large sum of federal PLUS loans for my education, and I would like to give them some money that I made over the summer to help pay off these loans. The amount in question is about $5,000, and I know that my parents are able to receive paid interest exemption on their federal loan. Is there any way for me to give my parents this amount without having to include it in my personal income tax return, and are there any other rules I need to keep in mind for my parents and myself when filling taxes?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 21 years old and about to graduate college. My parents have taken out a large sum of federal PLUS loans for my education, and I would like to give them some money that I made over the summer to help pay off these loans. The amount in question is about $5,000, and I know that my parents are able to receive paid interest exemption on their federal loan. Is there any way for me to give my parents this amount without having to include it in my personal income tax return, and are there any other rules I need to keep in mind for my parents and myself when filling taxes?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 21 years old and about to graduate college. My parents have taken out a large sum of federal PLUS loans for my education, and I would like to give them some money that I made over the summer to help pay off these loans. The amount in question is about $5,000, and I know that my parents are able to receive paid interest exemption on their federal loan. Is there any way for me to give my parents this amount without having to include it in my personal income tax return, and are there any other rules I need to keep in mind for my parents and myself when filling taxes?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 21 years old and about to graduate college. My parents have taken out a large sum of federal PLUS loans for my education, and I would like to give them some money that I made over the summer to help pay off these loans. The amount in question is about $5,000, and I know that my parents are able to receive paid interest exemption on their federal loan. Is there any way for me to give my parents this amount without having to include it in my personal income tax return, and are there any other rules I need to keep in mind for my parents and myself when filling taxes?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 21 years old and about to graduate college. My parents have taken out a large sum of federal PLUS loans for my education, and I would like to give them some money that I made over the summer to help pay off these loans. The amount in question is about $5,000, and I know that my parents are able to receive paid interest exemption on their federal loan. Is there any way for me to give my parents this amount without having to include it in my personal income tax return, and are there any other rules I need to keep in mind for my parents and myself when filling taxes?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 21 years old and about to graduate college. My parents have taken out a large sum of federal PLUS loans for my education, and I would like to give them some money that I made over the summer to help pay off these loans. The amount in question is about $5,000, and I know that my parents are able to receive paid interest exemption on their federal loan. Is there any way for me to give my parents this amount without having to include it in my personal income tax return, and are there any other rules I need to keep in mind for my parents and myself when filling taxes?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. I'm looking for advice and a place to write this all down. \n\nI've had this feelings since sophomore year and we're seniors going off to college soon. We're close friends, but it'll never work out. I've accepted that I'm gay and it's no big deal to me, but I go to a private Catholic school where it'd be a big deal. For this reason I'm only out to a close but separate group of friends. He does not know.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do. I try to get it over it, but I just feel numb. I want to cut contact with him, but then I see him and I just can't bring myself to do it. So I keep doing what I'm doing, and I end up feeling worse. I can't breathe when I see him with someone else.\n\nI'm graduating very soon and will soon be in a better, more accepting environment. He's going to want to keep in touch, but I know if I do, I'll never get over him. I know I sound dumb and childish, but I'm just so tired of feeling this way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. I'm looking for advice and a place to write this all down. \n\nI've had this feelings since sophomore year and we're seniors going off to college soon. We're close friends, but it'll never work out. I've accepted that I'm gay and it's no big deal to me, but I go to a private Catholic school where it'd be a big deal. For this reason I'm only out to a close but separate group of friends. He does not know.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do. I try to get it over it, but I just feel numb. I want to cut contact with him, but then I see him and I just can't bring myself to do it. So I keep doing what I'm doing, and I end up feeling worse. I can't breathe when I see him with someone else.\n\nI'm graduating very soon and will soon be in a better, more accepting environment. He's going to want to keep in touch, but I know if I do, I'll never get over him. I know I sound dumb and childish, but I'm just so tired of feeling this way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. I'm looking for advice and a place to write this all down. \n\nI've had this feelings since sophomore year and we're seniors going off to college soon. We're close friends, but it'll never work out. I've accepted that I'm gay and it's no big deal to me, but I go to a private Catholic school where it'd be a big deal. For this reason I'm only out to a close but separate group of friends. He does not know.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do. I try to get it over it, but I just feel numb. I want to cut contact with him, but then I see him and I just can't bring myself to do it. So I keep doing what I'm doing, and I end up feeling worse. I can't breathe when I see him with someone else.\n\nI'm graduating very soon and will soon be in a better, more accepting environment. He's going to want to keep in touch, but I know if I do, I'll never get over him. I know I sound dumb and childish, but I'm just so tired of feeling this way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. I'm looking for advice and a place to write this all down. \n\nI've had this feelings since sophomore year and we're seniors going off to college soon. We're close friends, but it'll never work out. I've accepted that I'm gay and it's no big deal to me, but I go to a private Catholic school where it'd be a big deal. For this reason I'm only out to a close but separate group of friends. He does not know.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do. I try to get it over it, but I just feel numb. I want to cut contact with him, but then I see him and I just can't bring myself to do it. So I keep doing what I'm doing, and I end up feeling worse. I can't breathe when I see him with someone else.\n\nI'm graduating very soon and will soon be in a better, more accepting environment. He's going to want to keep in touch, but I know if I do, I'll never get over him. I know I sound dumb and childish, but I'm just so tired of feeling this way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. I'm looking for advice and a place to write this all down. \n\nI've had this feelings since sophomore year and we're seniors going off to college soon. We're close friends, but it'll never work out. I've accepted that I'm gay and it's no big deal to me, but I go to a private Catholic school where it'd be a big deal. For this reason I'm only out to a close but separate group of friends. He does not know.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do. I try to get it over it, but I just feel numb. I want to cut contact with him, but then I see him and I just can't bring myself to do it. So I keep doing what I'm doing, and I end up feeling worse. I can't breathe when I see him with someone else.\n\nI'm graduating very soon and will soon be in a better, more accepting environment. He's going to want to keep in touch, but I know if I do, I'll never get over him. I know I sound dumb and childish, but I'm just so tired of feeling this way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway. I'm looking for advice and a place to write this all down. \n\nI've had this feelings since sophomore year and we're seniors going off to college soon. We're close friends, but it'll never work out. I've accepted that I'm gay and it's no big deal to me, but I go to a private Catholic school where it'd be a big deal. For this reason I'm only out to a close but separate group of friends. He does not know.\n\nAnyways, I don't know what to do. I try to get it over it, but I just feel numb. I want to cut contact with him, but then I see him and I just can't bring myself to do it. So I keep doing what I'm doing, and I end up feeling worse. I can't breathe when I see him with someone else.\n\nI'm graduating very soon and will soon be in a better, more accepting environment. He's going to want to keep in touch, but I know if I do, I'll never get over him. I know I sound dumb and childish, but I'm just so tired of feeling this way."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had been with my now ex, for 5 years. We've had plenty of ups and downs. 4 of those 5 years where long distance. I'll spare all the details and just say our break up wasn't pretty. It literally tore me apart.\n\nAs humans of Chinese descent, her parents detest (I do mean detest) me. Why? I'm not sure, they barely know me. They just do.\n\nSo on a cold winters night, she said she wanted to meet me, and ended it. Stating that our relationship will never work, all because her parents won't approve.\n\nI spent a while in depression. Mainly because, to me, we've been through so much, and it ultimately came to nothing. The past few months I've pulled myself back on track and just tried to carry on with my life, but part of me just won't let go. \n\nI've never been one to open up about my problems, but after hearing that she has found someone new, I really want to try and put her behind me. My heart still sinks whenever someone mentions her.\n\nHas anyone been through the same situation? How did you move on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had been with my now ex, for 5 years. We've had plenty of ups and downs. 4 of those 5 years where long distance. I'll spare all the details and just say our break up wasn't pretty. It literally tore me apart.\n\nAs humans of Chinese descent, her parents detest (I do mean detest) me. Why? I'm not sure, they barely know me. They just do.\n\nSo on a cold winters night, she said she wanted to meet me, and ended it. Stating that our relationship will never work, all because her parents won't approve.\n\nI spent a while in depression. Mainly because, to me, we've been through so much, and it ultimately came to nothing. The past few months I've pulled myself back on track and just tried to carry on with my life, but part of me just won't let go. \n\nI've never been one to open up about my problems, but after hearing that she has found someone new, I really want to try and put her behind me. My heart still sinks whenever someone mentions her.\n\nHas anyone been through the same situation? How did you move on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had been with my now ex, for 5 years. We've had plenty of ups and downs. 4 of those 5 years where long distance. I'll spare all the details and just say our break up wasn't pretty. It literally tore me apart.\n\nAs humans of Chinese descent, her parents detest (I do mean detest) me. Why? I'm not sure, they barely know me. They just do.\n\nSo on a cold winters night, she said she wanted to meet me, and ended it. Stating that our relationship will never work, all because her parents won't approve.\n\nI spent a while in depression. Mainly because, to me, we've been through so much, and it ultimately came to nothing. The past few months I've pulled myself back on track and just tried to carry on with my life, but part of me just won't let go. \n\nI've never been one to open up about my problems, but after hearing that she has found someone new, I really want to try and put her behind me. My heart still sinks whenever someone mentions her.\n\nHas anyone been through the same situation? How did you move on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had been with my now ex, for 5 years. We've had plenty of ups and downs. 4 of those 5 years where long distance. I'll spare all the details and just say our break up wasn't pretty. It literally tore me apart.\n\nAs humans of Chinese descent, her parents detest (I do mean detest) me. Why? I'm not sure, they barely know me. They just do.\n\nSo on a cold winters night, she said she wanted to meet me, and ended it. Stating that our relationship will never work, all because her parents won't approve.\n\nI spent a while in depression. Mainly because, to me, we've been through so much, and it ultimately came to nothing. The past few months I've pulled myself back on track and just tried to carry on with my life, but part of me just won't let go. \n\nI've never been one to open up about my problems, but after hearing that she has found someone new, I really want to try and put her behind me. My heart still sinks whenever someone mentions her.\n\nHas anyone been through the same situation? How did you move on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had been with my now ex, for 5 years. We've had plenty of ups and downs. 4 of those 5 years where long distance. I'll spare all the details and just say our break up wasn't pretty. It literally tore me apart.\n\nAs humans of Chinese descent, her parents detest (I do mean detest) me. Why? I'm not sure, they barely know me. They just do.\n\nSo on a cold winters night, she said she wanted to meet me, and ended it. Stating that our relationship will never work, all because her parents won't approve.\n\nI spent a while in depression. Mainly because, to me, we've been through so much, and it ultimately came to nothing. The past few months I've pulled myself back on track and just tried to carry on with my life, but part of me just won't let go. \n\nI've never been one to open up about my problems, but after hearing that she has found someone new, I really want to try and put her behind me. My heart still sinks whenever someone mentions her.\n\nHas anyone been through the same situation? How did you move on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had been with my now ex, for 5 years. We've had plenty of ups and downs. 4 of those 5 years where long distance. I'll spare all the details and just say our break up wasn't pretty. It literally tore me apart.\n\nAs humans of Chinese descent, her parents detest (I do mean detest) me. Why? I'm not sure, they barely know me. They just do.\n\nSo on a cold winters night, she said she wanted to meet me, and ended it. Stating that our relationship will never work, all because her parents won't approve.\n\nI spent a while in depression. Mainly because, to me, we've been through so much, and it ultimately came to nothing. The past few months I've pulled myself back on track and just tried to carry on with my life, but part of me just won't let go. \n\nI've never been one to open up about my problems, but after hearing that she has found someone new, I really want to try and put her behind me. My heart still sinks whenever someone mentions her.\n\nHas anyone been through the same situation? How did you move on?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I read through some previous threads on this sub but couldn't find anything quite like my situation, so here goes. \n\nI [M 23] am seeing and starting to get very serious with another guy [M 29] who makes much, MUCH more than I do. Last night, we went out for a date and he chose the place. I managed to get a sneak at the bill before he quickly grabbed it up, refused to let me put my debit card down as well to split the bill, and gave it back to the server. It was an almost $200 bill. I'm recently out of university and not earning much yet, so $200 is about how much I have to spend a month for nights out, entertainment, etc. Everything else goes to rent and other bills. Basically, what he can drop in a night is what I've got for a whole month.\n\nIt's very nice of him to do that and I do appreciate it, but here's my dilemma. If I try to \"keep up\" with him, I'm going to break my bank. I just don't have that kind of money power right now. We could go to cheaper places, but I know that he enjoys the places that he takes me much more than the dive bars I go to for a cheap beer. I also don't want him to have to not visit his favorite places when we go out together just because I can't afford it. \n\nFurthermore, it's a bit awkward for me to have him paying so much. It's happening fairly often, and I know that he likes to feel like he can \"take care of me\", but I don't need or want that. And, because he's covered so much, it makes me feel like I have to make it up to him. Obviously, I can't reciprocate with money, gifts, nights out, so how do I even the score? Do I have to even the score? And finally, how would you bring his up?\n\nI've had a friend say that I should just sit back and let him pay. Is she right? I feel like that would just be me taking advantage of him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I read through some previous threads on this sub but couldn't find anything quite like my situation, so here goes. \n\nI [M 23] am seeing and starting to get very serious with another guy [M 29] who makes much, MUCH more than I do. Last night, we went out for a date and he chose the place. I managed to get a sneak at the bill before he quickly grabbed it up, refused to let me put my debit card down as well to split the bill, and gave it back to the server. It was an almost $200 bill. I'm recently out of university and not earning much yet, so $200 is about how much I have to spend a month for nights out, entertainment, etc. Everything else goes to rent and other bills. Basically, what he can drop in a night is what I've got for a whole month.\n\nIt's very nice of him to do that and I do appreciate it, but here's my dilemma. If I try to \"keep up\" with him, I'm going to break my bank. I just don't have that kind of money power right now. We could go to cheaper places, but I know that he enjoys the places that he takes me much more than the dive bars I go to for a cheap beer. I also don't want him to have to not visit his favorite places when we go out together just because I can't afford it. \n\nFurthermore, it's a bit awkward for me to have him paying so much. It's happening fairly often, and I know that he likes to feel like he can \"take care of me\", but I don't need or want that. And, because he's covered so much, it makes me feel like I have to make it up to him. Obviously, I can't reciprocate with money, gifts, nights out, so how do I even the score? Do I have to even the score? And finally, how would you bring his up?\n\nI've had a friend say that I should just sit back and let him pay. Is she right? I feel like that would just be me taking advantage of him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I read through some previous threads on this sub but couldn't find anything quite like my situation, so here goes. \n\nI [M 23] am seeing and starting to get very serious with another guy [M 29] who makes much, MUCH more than I do. Last night, we went out for a date and he chose the place. I managed to get a sneak at the bill before he quickly grabbed it up, refused to let me put my debit card down as well to split the bill, and gave it back to the server. It was an almost $200 bill. I'm recently out of university and not earning much yet, so $200 is about how much I have to spend a month for nights out, entertainment, etc. Everything else goes to rent and other bills. Basically, what he can drop in a night is what I've got for a whole month.\n\nIt's very nice of him to do that and I do appreciate it, but here's my dilemma. If I try to \"keep up\" with him, I'm going to break my bank. I just don't have that kind of money power right now. We could go to cheaper places, but I know that he enjoys the places that he takes me much more than the dive bars I go to for a cheap beer. I also don't want him to have to not visit his favorite places when we go out together just because I can't afford it. \n\nFurthermore, it's a bit awkward for me to have him paying so much. It's happening fairly often, and I know that he likes to feel like he can \"take care of me\", but I don't need or want that. And, because he's covered so much, it makes me feel like I have to make it up to him. Obviously, I can't reciprocate with money, gifts, nights out, so how do I even the score? Do I have to even the score? And finally, how would you bring his up?\n\nI've had a friend say that I should just sit back and let him pay. Is she right? I feel like that would just be me taking advantage of him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I read through some previous threads on this sub but couldn't find anything quite like my situation, so here goes. \n\nI [M 23] am seeing and starting to get very serious with another guy [M 29] who makes much, MUCH more than I do. Last night, we went out for a date and he chose the place. I managed to get a sneak at the bill before he quickly grabbed it up, refused to let me put my debit card down as well to split the bill, and gave it back to the server. It was an almost $200 bill. I'm recently out of university and not earning much yet, so $200 is about how much I have to spend a month for nights out, entertainment, etc. Everything else goes to rent and other bills. Basically, what he can drop in a night is what I've got for a whole month.\n\nIt's very nice of him to do that and I do appreciate it, but here's my dilemma. If I try to \"keep up\" with him, I'm going to break my bank. I just don't have that kind of money power right now. We could go to cheaper places, but I know that he enjoys the places that he takes me much more than the dive bars I go to for a cheap beer. I also don't want him to have to not visit his favorite places when we go out together just because I can't afford it. \n\nFurthermore, it's a bit awkward for me to have him paying so much. It's happening fairly often, and I know that he likes to feel like he can \"take care of me\", but I don't need or want that. And, because he's covered so much, it makes me feel like I have to make it up to him. Obviously, I can't reciprocate with money, gifts, nights out, so how do I even the score? Do I have to even the score? And finally, how would you bring his up?\n\nI've had a friend say that I should just sit back and let him pay. Is she right? I feel like that would just be me taking advantage of him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I read through some previous threads on this sub but couldn't find anything quite like my situation, so here goes. \n\nI [M 23] am seeing and starting to get very serious with another guy [M 29] who makes much, MUCH more than I do. Last night, we went out for a date and he chose the place. I managed to get a sneak at the bill before he quickly grabbed it up, refused to let me put my debit card down as well to split the bill, and gave it back to the server. It was an almost $200 bill. I'm recently out of university and not earning much yet, so $200 is about how much I have to spend a month for nights out, entertainment, etc. Everything else goes to rent and other bills. Basically, what he can drop in a night is what I've got for a whole month.\n\nIt's very nice of him to do that and I do appreciate it, but here's my dilemma. If I try to \"keep up\" with him, I'm going to break my bank. I just don't have that kind of money power right now. We could go to cheaper places, but I know that he enjoys the places that he takes me much more than the dive bars I go to for a cheap beer. I also don't want him to have to not visit his favorite places when we go out together just because I can't afford it. \n\nFurthermore, it's a bit awkward for me to have him paying so much. It's happening fairly often, and I know that he likes to feel like he can \"take care of me\", but I don't need or want that. And, because he's covered so much, it makes me feel like I have to make it up to him. Obviously, I can't reciprocate with money, gifts, nights out, so how do I even the score? Do I have to even the score? And finally, how would you bring his up?\n\nI've had a friend say that I should just sit back and let him pay. Is she right? I feel like that would just be me taking advantage of him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the situation. All my friends (including my girlfriend) are in a clan in a game called Clash of Clans. For those who don't know, it's basically a village building game where you can train troops to attack other villages, and wage wars between other clans.\n\nIt often happens that when I am at a social event, my friends and I discuss the game and open it up, usually to plan attack strategies and coordinate attacks.\n\nThis makes my girlfriend very angry. If I'm at a social event without her, and we do this, she will fight with me for days, claiming that because I chose to do that instead of texting her, I don't love her, and I prioritize video games over her.\n\nThis doesn't make a lot of sense. I mean, I'm at a social event, talking to my friends about a game. It just so happens that we have it open so we can point and strategize more easily. It's not like I go off in a corner to play an RPG or something anti-social.\n\nIf we didn't have the game, it's not like I would have texted her anyway because I'm talking with friends.\n\nShe has claimed that all women would agree with her. What do you all think? Do you think my actions imply that I don't really love her and value video games more than her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the situation. All my friends (including my girlfriend) are in a clan in a game called Clash of Clans. For those who don't know, it's basically a village building game where you can train troops to attack other villages, and wage wars between other clans.\n\nIt often happens that when I am at a social event, my friends and I discuss the game and open it up, usually to plan attack strategies and coordinate attacks.\n\nThis makes my girlfriend very angry. If I'm at a social event without her, and we do this, she will fight with me for days, claiming that because I chose to do that instead of texting her, I don't love her, and I prioritize video games over her.\n\nThis doesn't make a lot of sense. I mean, I'm at a social event, talking to my friends about a game. It just so happens that we have it open so we can point and strategize more easily. It's not like I go off in a corner to play an RPG or something anti-social.\n\nIf we didn't have the game, it's not like I would have texted her anyway because I'm talking with friends.\n\nShe has claimed that all women would agree with her. What do you all think? Do you think my actions imply that I don't really love her and value video games more than her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the situation. All my friends (including my girlfriend) are in a clan in a game called Clash of Clans. For those who don't know, it's basically a village building game where you can train troops to attack other villages, and wage wars between other clans.\n\nIt often happens that when I am at a social event, my friends and I discuss the game and open it up, usually to plan attack strategies and coordinate attacks.\n\nThis makes my girlfriend very angry. If I'm at a social event without her, and we do this, she will fight with me for days, claiming that because I chose to do that instead of texting her, I don't love her, and I prioritize video games over her.\n\nThis doesn't make a lot of sense. I mean, I'm at a social event, talking to my friends about a game. It just so happens that we have it open so we can point and strategize more easily. It's not like I go off in a corner to play an RPG or something anti-social.\n\nIf we didn't have the game, it's not like I would have texted her anyway because I'm talking with friends.\n\nShe has claimed that all women would agree with her. What do you all think? Do you think my actions imply that I don't really love her and value video games more than her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the situation. All my friends (including my girlfriend) are in a clan in a game called Clash of Clans. For those who don't know, it's basically a village building game where you can train troops to attack other villages, and wage wars between other clans.\n\nIt often happens that when I am at a social event, my friends and I discuss the game and open it up, usually to plan attack strategies and coordinate attacks.\n\nThis makes my girlfriend very angry. If I'm at a social event without her, and we do this, she will fight with me for days, claiming that because I chose to do that instead of texting her, I don't love her, and I prioritize video games over her.\n\nThis doesn't make a lot of sense. I mean, I'm at a social event, talking to my friends about a game. It just so happens that we have it open so we can point and strategize more easily. It's not like I go off in a corner to play an RPG or something anti-social.\n\nIf we didn't have the game, it's not like I would have texted her anyway because I'm talking with friends.\n\nShe has claimed that all women would agree with her. What do you all think? Do you think my actions imply that I don't really love her and value video games more than her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So he and I have been together for a year and a few months. After four months, we both moved in and moved out of state together. It wasn't ideal, but he didn't know anyone here, and I figured it'd be hard but we could give it a shot.\n\nI love him, but most of our issues are because we live together. He doesn't really tend to do his share of household chores, he spends kind of frivolously and sometimes is short on rent because of it, and he doesn't really contribute to apartment needs. One of the other major problems is that we work completely different schedules. I work a day job 9-5. He works second shift and his weekends are usually a Wednesday and Thursday. This means we never have a full day off together, and when he goes out with friends sometimes he comes in at 3 in the morning and it wakes me up. He gets to sleep all day before work, and I do not, so when it wakes me up, I'm getting only a few hours of sleep sometimes.\n\nTo make a long story short (too late.), I know we care about each other, but I don't feel like he respects my time, space and boundaries sometimes. Most of the problems we have (but not all of them) come from living together. I want to stay together but live in different apartments this year with our best friends. I figured if our relationship kind of irons itself out then we could always move back in together down the line, and if it doesn't then at least we're not stuck in a lease together. Has anyone tried this? Anyone have any tips for how to gently and lovingly have that conversation?\n\nThanks folks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So he and I have been together for a year and a few months. After four months, we both moved in and moved out of state together. It wasn't ideal, but he didn't know anyone here, and I figured it'd be hard but we could give it a shot.\n\nI love him, but most of our issues are because we live together. He doesn't really tend to do his share of household chores, he spends kind of frivolously and sometimes is short on rent because of it, and he doesn't really contribute to apartment needs. One of the other major problems is that we work completely different schedules. I work a day job 9-5. He works second shift and his weekends are usually a Wednesday and Thursday. This means we never have a full day off together, and when he goes out with friends sometimes he comes in at 3 in the morning and it wakes me up. He gets to sleep all day before work, and I do not, so when it wakes me up, I'm getting only a few hours of sleep sometimes.\n\nTo make a long story short (too late.), I know we care about each other, but I don't feel like he respects my time, space and boundaries sometimes. Most of the problems we have (but not all of them) come from living together. I want to stay together but live in different apartments this year with our best friends. I figured if our relationship kind of irons itself out then we could always move back in together down the line, and if it doesn't then at least we're not stuck in a lease together. Has anyone tried this? Anyone have any tips for how to gently and lovingly have that conversation?\n\nThanks folks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So he and I have been together for a year and a few months. After four months, we both moved in and moved out of state together. It wasn't ideal, but he didn't know anyone here, and I figured it'd be hard but we could give it a shot.\n\nI love him, but most of our issues are because we live together. He doesn't really tend to do his share of household chores, he spends kind of frivolously and sometimes is short on rent because of it, and he doesn't really contribute to apartment needs. One of the other major problems is that we work completely different schedules. I work a day job 9-5. He works second shift and his weekends are usually a Wednesday and Thursday. This means we never have a full day off together, and when he goes out with friends sometimes he comes in at 3 in the morning and it wakes me up. He gets to sleep all day before work, and I do not, so when it wakes me up, I'm getting only a few hours of sleep sometimes.\n\nTo make a long story short (too late.), I know we care about each other, but I don't feel like he respects my time, space and boundaries sometimes. Most of the problems we have (but not all of them) come from living together. I want to stay together but live in different apartments this year with our best friends. I figured if our relationship kind of irons itself out then we could always move back in together down the line, and if it doesn't then at least we're not stuck in a lease together. Has anyone tried this? Anyone have any tips for how to gently and lovingly have that conversation?\n\nThanks folks!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi. I'm going to make this short, so hopefully more people may read it.\n\nMy husband's friends (mid to late twenties F and M) are at an event. I went to the same event 7 years ago. We plus other friends of my husband are in a chat where they're discussing how much they dislike the event. I'm making comments about it. Their response is how they don't give a fuck about when I went, and the other friend of my husband's went on to say how my comments are retarded. \n\nIn response to the first comment I said no one forces her to read my messages, and in response to the second I said that I'm just passing the time (i.e. just talking in the chat for funzies), and there is no need to be rude to me. My husband said nothing and plans on saying nothing nor doing anything about his friend's comments. \n\nI've tried for years to be friends with them. Some of his friends are nice, but these two are not. Should I even bother? I feel like I'm suppose to just let it go, let them curse at me and insult me and not let it affect me. The truth is though it does hurt. I use to have very low self-essteem, and to hear that from people my husband views as his closest and oldest friends hurt so much.\n\nSeriously, I was about to start crying in public during a break from my work. I did deep breathing exercises and didn't cry though. But, it shouldn't be like this! Why can't they be nice like my own friends? Or my in-laws? Or my family? I don't understand. \n\nI can post a screen cap of the convo if that helps. Thanks everyone.\n\nAlso, we may go on a international trip with them. My husband also plans on going cross-country to see them for 4 days plus the annual 5 day long trip we take with them. These people I can't exactly ignore. But how can I work with people who are, well, mean?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi. I'm going to make this short, so hopefully more people may read it.\n\nMy husband's friends (mid to late twenties F and M) are at an event. I went to the same event 7 years ago. We plus other friends of my husband are in a chat where they're discussing how much they dislike the event. I'm making comments about it. Their response is how they don't give a fuck about when I went, and the other friend of my husband's went on to say how my comments are retarded. \n\nIn response to the first comment I said no one forces her to read my messages, and in response to the second I said that I'm just passing the time (i.e. just talking in the chat for funzies), and there is no need to be rude to me. My husband said nothing and plans on saying nothing nor doing anything about his friend's comments. \n\nI've tried for years to be friends with them. Some of his friends are nice, but these two are not. Should I even bother? I feel like I'm suppose to just let it go, let them curse at me and insult me and not let it affect me. The truth is though it does hurt. I use to have very low self-essteem, and to hear that from people my husband views as his closest and oldest friends hurt so much.\n\nSeriously, I was about to start crying in public during a break from my work. I did deep breathing exercises and didn't cry though. But, it shouldn't be like this! Why can't they be nice like my own friends? Or my in-laws? Or my family? I don't understand. \n\nI can post a screen cap of the convo if that helps. Thanks everyone.\n\nAlso, we may go on a international trip with them. My husband also plans on going cross-country to see them for 4 days plus the annual 5 day long trip we take with them. These people I can't exactly ignore. But how can I work with people who are, well, mean?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi. I'm going to make this short, so hopefully more people may read it.\n\nMy husband's friends (mid to late twenties F and M) are at an event. I went to the same event 7 years ago. We plus other friends of my husband are in a chat where they're discussing how much they dislike the event. I'm making comments about it. Their response is how they don't give a fuck about when I went, and the other friend of my husband's went on to say how my comments are retarded. \n\nIn response to the first comment I said no one forces her to read my messages, and in response to the second I said that I'm just passing the time (i.e. just talking in the chat for funzies), and there is no need to be rude to me. My husband said nothing and plans on saying nothing nor doing anything about his friend's comments. \n\nI've tried for years to be friends with them. Some of his friends are nice, but these two are not. Should I even bother? I feel like I'm suppose to just let it go, let them curse at me and insult me and not let it affect me. The truth is though it does hurt. I use to have very low self-essteem, and to hear that from people my husband views as his closest and oldest friends hurt so much.\n\nSeriously, I was about to start crying in public during a break from my work. I did deep breathing exercises and didn't cry though. But, it shouldn't be like this! Why can't they be nice like my own friends? Or my in-laws? Or my family? I don't understand. \n\nI can post a screen cap of the convo if that helps. Thanks everyone.\n\nAlso, we may go on a international trip with them. My husband also plans on going cross-country to see them for 4 days plus the annual 5 day long trip we take with them. These people I can't exactly ignore. But how can I work with people who are, well, mean?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi. I'm going to make this short, so hopefully more people may read it.\n\nMy husband's friends (mid to late twenties F and M) are at an event. I went to the same event 7 years ago. We plus other friends of my husband are in a chat where they're discussing how much they dislike the event. I'm making comments about it. Their response is how they don't give a fuck about when I went, and the other friend of my husband's went on to say how my comments are retarded. \n\nIn response to the first comment I said no one forces her to read my messages, and in response to the second I said that I'm just passing the time (i.e. just talking in the chat for funzies), and there is no need to be rude to me. My husband said nothing and plans on saying nothing nor doing anything about his friend's comments. \n\nI've tried for years to be friends with them. Some of his friends are nice, but these two are not. Should I even bother? I feel like I'm suppose to just let it go, let them curse at me and insult me and not let it affect me. The truth is though it does hurt. I use to have very low self-essteem, and to hear that from people my husband views as his closest and oldest friends hurt so much.\n\nSeriously, I was about to start crying in public during a break from my work. I did deep breathing exercises and didn't cry though. But, it shouldn't be like this! Why can't they be nice like my own friends? Or my in-laws? Or my family? I don't understand. \n\nI can post a screen cap of the convo if that helps. Thanks everyone.\n\nAlso, we may go on a international trip with them. My husband also plans on going cross-country to see them for 4 days plus the annual 5 day long trip we take with them. These people I can't exactly ignore. But how can I work with people who are, well, mean?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi. I'm going to make this short, so hopefully more people may read it.\n\nMy husband's friends (mid to late twenties F and M) are at an event. I went to the same event 7 years ago. We plus other friends of my husband are in a chat where they're discussing how much they dislike the event. I'm making comments about it. Their response is how they don't give a fuck about when I went, and the other friend of my husband's went on to say how my comments are retarded. \n\nIn response to the first comment I said no one forces her to read my messages, and in response to the second I said that I'm just passing the time (i.e. just talking in the chat for funzies), and there is no need to be rude to me. My husband said nothing and plans on saying nothing nor doing anything about his friend's comments. \n\nI've tried for years to be friends with them. Some of his friends are nice, but these two are not. Should I even bother? I feel like I'm suppose to just let it go, let them curse at me and insult me and not let it affect me. The truth is though it does hurt. I use to have very low self-essteem, and to hear that from people my husband views as his closest and oldest friends hurt so much.\n\nSeriously, I was about to start crying in public during a break from my work. I did deep breathing exercises and didn't cry though. But, it shouldn't be like this! Why can't they be nice like my own friends? Or my in-laws? Or my family? I don't understand. \n\nI can post a screen cap of the convo if that helps. Thanks everyone.\n\nAlso, we may go on a international trip with them. My husband also plans on going cross-country to see them for 4 days plus the annual 5 day long trip we take with them. These people I can't exactly ignore. But how can I work with people who are, well, mean?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi. I'm going to make this short, so hopefully more people may read it.\n\nMy husband's friends (mid to late twenties F and M) are at an event. I went to the same event 7 years ago. We plus other friends of my husband are in a chat where they're discussing how much they dislike the event. I'm making comments about it. Their response is how they don't give a fuck about when I went, and the other friend of my husband's went on to say how my comments are retarded. \n\nIn response to the first comment I said no one forces her to read my messages, and in response to the second I said that I'm just passing the time (i.e. just talking in the chat for funzies), and there is no need to be rude to me. My husband said nothing and plans on saying nothing nor doing anything about his friend's comments. \n\nI've tried for years to be friends with them. Some of his friends are nice, but these two are not. Should I even bother? I feel like I'm suppose to just let it go, let them curse at me and insult me and not let it affect me. The truth is though it does hurt. I use to have very low self-essteem, and to hear that from people my husband views as his closest and oldest friends hurt so much.\n\nSeriously, I was about to start crying in public during a break from my work. I did deep breathing exercises and didn't cry though. But, it shouldn't be like this! Why can't they be nice like my own friends? Or my in-laws? Or my family? I don't understand. \n\nI can post a screen cap of the convo if that helps. Thanks everyone.\n\nAlso, we may go on a international trip with them. My husband also plans on going cross-country to see them for 4 days plus the annual 5 day long trip we take with them. These people I can't exactly ignore. But how can I work with people who are, well, mean?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Context: Today was Movember and some of us wore a moustache to school today. I didn't wear a moustache but my friend had a toothbrush moustache.\n\nSchool ends and we wait for the bus, longing for the weekend. While we're waiting for it, he decided to show it to me and let me wear it for a while. A couple of Hitler jokes were thrown around.\n\nThe unforgettable sound of the bus came and I raised my hand to 'catch' the bus. *It wasn't a bus. It was a truck.* And then a teacher's car drives out and stops besides me, letting the truck go first. *SHIT.* I just did a nazi salute and she's staring at me. My friend quickly took off the moustache and she drove off.\n\nThe teacher in question doesn't *particularly* like me, or a couple of my friends for that matter. On Monday I find out whether she remembers or not. I hope she doesn't."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Context: Today was Movember and some of us wore a moustache to school today. I didn't wear a moustache but my friend had a toothbrush moustache.\n\nSchool ends and we wait for the bus, longing for the weekend. While we're waiting for it, he decided to show it to me and let me wear it for a while. A couple of Hitler jokes were thrown around.\n\nThe unforgettable sound of the bus came and I raised my hand to 'catch' the bus. *It wasn't a bus. It was a truck.* And then a teacher's car drives out and stops besides me, letting the truck go first. *SHIT.* I just did a nazi salute and she's staring at me. My friend quickly took off the moustache and she drove off.\n\nThe teacher in question doesn't *particularly* like me, or a couple of my friends for that matter. On Monday I find out whether she remembers or not. I hope she doesn't."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Context: Today was Movember and some of us wore a moustache to school today. I didn't wear a moustache but my friend had a toothbrush moustache.\n\nSchool ends and we wait for the bus, longing for the weekend. While we're waiting for it, he decided to show it to me and let me wear it for a while. A couple of Hitler jokes were thrown around.\n\nThe unforgettable sound of the bus came and I raised my hand to 'catch' the bus. *It wasn't a bus. It was a truck.* And then a teacher's car drives out and stops besides me, letting the truck go first. *SHIT.* I just did a nazi salute and she's staring at me. My friend quickly took off the moustache and she drove off.\n\nThe teacher in question doesn't *particularly* like me, or a couple of my friends for that matter. On Monday I find out whether she remembers or not. I hope she doesn't."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Context: Today was Movember and some of us wore a moustache to school today. I didn't wear a moustache but my friend had a toothbrush moustache.\n\nSchool ends and we wait for the bus, longing for the weekend. While we're waiting for it, he decided to show it to me and let me wear it for a while. A couple of Hitler jokes were thrown around.\n\nThe unforgettable sound of the bus came and I raised my hand to 'catch' the bus. *It wasn't a bus. It was a truck.* And then a teacher's car drives out and stops besides me, letting the truck go first. *SHIT.* I just did a nazi salute and she's staring at me. My friend quickly took off the moustache and she drove off.\n\nThe teacher in question doesn't *particularly* like me, or a couple of my friends for that matter. On Monday I find out whether she remembers or not. I hope she doesn't."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Context: Today was Movember and some of us wore a moustache to school today. I didn't wear a moustache but my friend had a toothbrush moustache.\n\nSchool ends and we wait for the bus, longing for the weekend. While we're waiting for it, he decided to show it to me and let me wear it for a while. A couple of Hitler jokes were thrown around.\n\nThe unforgettable sound of the bus came and I raised my hand to 'catch' the bus. *It wasn't a bus. It was a truck.* And then a teacher's car drives out and stops besides me, letting the truck go first. *SHIT.* I just did a nazi salute and she's staring at me. My friend quickly took off the moustache and she drove off.\n\nThe teacher in question doesn't *particularly* like me, or a couple of my friends for that matter. On Monday I find out whether she remembers or not. I hope she doesn't."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Context: Today was Movember and some of us wore a moustache to school today. I didn't wear a moustache but my friend had a toothbrush moustache.\n\nSchool ends and we wait for the bus, longing for the weekend. While we're waiting for it, he decided to show it to me and let me wear it for a while. A couple of Hitler jokes were thrown around.\n\nThe unforgettable sound of the bus came and I raised my hand to 'catch' the bus. *It wasn't a bus. It was a truck.* And then a teacher's car drives out and stops besides me, letting the truck go first. *SHIT.* I just did a nazi salute and she's staring at me. My friend quickly took off the moustache and she drove off.\n\nThe teacher in question doesn't *particularly* like me, or a couple of my friends for that matter. On Monday I find out whether she remembers or not. I hope she doesn't."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm getting into a relationship that I [22M] never really thought would happen. I'm a guy and I've known this girl [22F] since high school. We were in the same graduating class, and we worked at the same place after high school. We even went to the same college and had a few classes together. We had been friends through all of this but she had an on/off boyfriend the whole time, and i had been in a semi-serious relationship for 3 years. Anyway she joined the military and was gone for 6 or so months and her and said boyfriend break up for real. \n\nDuring this break up we get a lot closer and start kind of getting closer sexually too. At this point for me she was just that friend I always had, but I felt like it was becoming more. Then, brace for it, she gets back with her ex and ends up getting pregnant. So they try to work it out for the sake of the baby. But like a thousand times before, they broke up. Now we are getting close like we were before, and this has been going on for a month and a half or so.\n\nWhat I need advice on is if I should continue to further my relationship with her and how? I mean I do like her and care about her. But idk how we could possibly have anything real with her having another guys kid. I don't want to get invested with her, and then end up getting hurt by her going back to the baby daddy. I don't know what to do. Help me please."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm getting into a relationship that I [22M] never really thought would happen. I'm a guy and I've known this girl [22F] since high school. We were in the same graduating class, and we worked at the same place after high school. We even went to the same college and had a few classes together. We had been friends through all of this but she had an on/off boyfriend the whole time, and i had been in a semi-serious relationship for 3 years. Anyway she joined the military and was gone for 6 or so months and her and said boyfriend break up for real. \n\nDuring this break up we get a lot closer and start kind of getting closer sexually too. At this point for me she was just that friend I always had, but I felt like it was becoming more. Then, brace for it, she gets back with her ex and ends up getting pregnant. So they try to work it out for the sake of the baby. But like a thousand times before, they broke up. Now we are getting close like we were before, and this has been going on for a month and a half or so.\n\nWhat I need advice on is if I should continue to further my relationship with her and how? I mean I do like her and care about her. But idk how we could possibly have anything real with her having another guys kid. I don't want to get invested with her, and then end up getting hurt by her going back to the baby daddy. I don't know what to do. Help me please."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm getting into a relationship that I [22M] never really thought would happen. I'm a guy and I've known this girl [22F] since high school. We were in the same graduating class, and we worked at the same place after high school. We even went to the same college and had a few classes together. We had been friends through all of this but she had an on/off boyfriend the whole time, and i had been in a semi-serious relationship for 3 years. Anyway she joined the military and was gone for 6 or so months and her and said boyfriend break up for real. \n\nDuring this break up we get a lot closer and start kind of getting closer sexually too. At this point for me she was just that friend I always had, but I felt like it was becoming more. Then, brace for it, she gets back with her ex and ends up getting pregnant. So they try to work it out for the sake of the baby. But like a thousand times before, they broke up. Now we are getting close like we were before, and this has been going on for a month and a half or so.\n\nWhat I need advice on is if I should continue to further my relationship with her and how? I mean I do like her and care about her. But idk how we could possibly have anything real with her having another guys kid. I don't want to get invested with her, and then end up getting hurt by her going back to the baby daddy. I don't know what to do. Help me please."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm getting into a relationship that I [22M] never really thought would happen. I'm a guy and I've known this girl [22F] since high school. We were in the same graduating class, and we worked at the same place after high school. We even went to the same college and had a few classes together. We had been friends through all of this but she had an on/off boyfriend the whole time, and i had been in a semi-serious relationship for 3 years. Anyway she joined the military and was gone for 6 or so months and her and said boyfriend break up for real. \n\nDuring this break up we get a lot closer and start kind of getting closer sexually too. At this point for me she was just that friend I always had, but I felt like it was becoming more. Then, brace for it, she gets back with her ex and ends up getting pregnant. So they try to work it out for the sake of the baby. But like a thousand times before, they broke up. Now we are getting close like we were before, and this has been going on for a month and a half or so.\n\nWhat I need advice on is if I should continue to further my relationship with her and how? I mean I do like her and care about her. But idk how we could possibly have anything real with her having another guys kid. I don't want to get invested with her, and then end up getting hurt by her going back to the baby daddy. I don't know what to do. Help me please."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm getting into a relationship that I [22M] never really thought would happen. I'm a guy and I've known this girl [22F] since high school. We were in the same graduating class, and we worked at the same place after high school. We even went to the same college and had a few classes together. We had been friends through all of this but she had an on/off boyfriend the whole time, and i had been in a semi-serious relationship for 3 years. Anyway she joined the military and was gone for 6 or so months and her and said boyfriend break up for real. \n\nDuring this break up we get a lot closer and start kind of getting closer sexually too. At this point for me she was just that friend I always had, but I felt like it was becoming more. Then, brace for it, she gets back with her ex and ends up getting pregnant. So they try to work it out for the sake of the baby. But like a thousand times before, they broke up. Now we are getting close like we were before, and this has been going on for a month and a half or so.\n\nWhat I need advice on is if I should continue to further my relationship with her and how? I mean I do like her and care about her. But idk how we could possibly have anything real with her having another guys kid. I don't want to get invested with her, and then end up getting hurt by her going back to the baby daddy. I don't know what to do. Help me please."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello r/Relationships! This is my first time posting here! Anyways, I am at a point in my life where I am finally feeling ready to start dating again. When was the last time you ask?.9th grade. It's been a while. We dated for a year then she cheated me. That was the beginning of a series of unfortunate almost-relationships where I never quite found my footing again. I was turned down a lot because of the way I looked. I was kind of the funny guy in high school, but I was also pretty pudgy and really greasy/pimply. I guess I had the charm just not the looks. Still didn't stop me from trying, but after being turned down many times it tore down my confidence bit by bit until there was nothing left. It got so bad that I was ashamed to show myself in public. I would purposely avoid a lot of social events because of the way I looked. So I said to myself, \"no one is ever going to hurt you again because of the way you look\". I actively avoided relationships while I worked on self improvement (working out, and clearing up my face). I think I look pretty decent now :) (pics If you guys want? ,but I don't think its that important) Anyways, I'm 21, still a virgin, and have a complete lack of relationship experience. I really want to start trying again, but I still can't shake this lack of self worth. I don't have any confidence and thats what makes me unattractive now. Does anyone know what I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello r/Relationships! This is my first time posting here! Anyways, I am at a point in my life where I am finally feeling ready to start dating again. When was the last time you ask?.9th grade. It's been a while. We dated for a year then she cheated me. That was the beginning of a series of unfortunate almost-relationships where I never quite found my footing again. I was turned down a lot because of the way I looked. I was kind of the funny guy in high school, but I was also pretty pudgy and really greasy/pimply. I guess I had the charm just not the looks. Still didn't stop me from trying, but after being turned down many times it tore down my confidence bit by bit until there was nothing left. It got so bad that I was ashamed to show myself in public. I would purposely avoid a lot of social events because of the way I looked. So I said to myself, \"no one is ever going to hurt you again because of the way you look\". I actively avoided relationships while I worked on self improvement (working out, and clearing up my face). I think I look pretty decent now :) (pics If you guys want? ,but I don't think its that important) Anyways, I'm 21, still a virgin, and have a complete lack of relationship experience. I really want to start trying again, but I still can't shake this lack of self worth. I don't have any confidence and thats what makes me unattractive now. Does anyone know what I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello r/Relationships! This is my first time posting here! Anyways, I am at a point in my life where I am finally feeling ready to start dating again. When was the last time you ask?.9th grade. It's been a while. We dated for a year then she cheated me. That was the beginning of a series of unfortunate almost-relationships where I never quite found my footing again. I was turned down a lot because of the way I looked. I was kind of the funny guy in high school, but I was also pretty pudgy and really greasy/pimply. I guess I had the charm just not the looks. Still didn't stop me from trying, but after being turned down many times it tore down my confidence bit by bit until there was nothing left. It got so bad that I was ashamed to show myself in public. I would purposely avoid a lot of social events because of the way I looked. So I said to myself, \"no one is ever going to hurt you again because of the way you look\". I actively avoided relationships while I worked on self improvement (working out, and clearing up my face). I think I look pretty decent now :) (pics If you guys want? ,but I don't think its that important) Anyways, I'm 21, still a virgin, and have a complete lack of relationship experience. I really want to start trying again, but I still can't shake this lack of self worth. I don't have any confidence and thats what makes me unattractive now. Does anyone know what I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello r/Relationships! This is my first time posting here! Anyways, I am at a point in my life where I am finally feeling ready to start dating again. When was the last time you ask?.9th grade. It's been a while. We dated for a year then she cheated me. That was the beginning of a series of unfortunate almost-relationships where I never quite found my footing again. I was turned down a lot because of the way I looked. I was kind of the funny guy in high school, but I was also pretty pudgy and really greasy/pimply. I guess I had the charm just not the looks. Still didn't stop me from trying, but after being turned down many times it tore down my confidence bit by bit until there was nothing left. It got so bad that I was ashamed to show myself in public. I would purposely avoid a lot of social events because of the way I looked. So I said to myself, \"no one is ever going to hurt you again because of the way you look\". I actively avoided relationships while I worked on self improvement (working out, and clearing up my face). I think I look pretty decent now :) (pics If you guys want? ,but I don't think its that important) Anyways, I'm 21, still a virgin, and have a complete lack of relationship experience. I really want to start trying again, but I still can't shake this lack of self worth. I don't have any confidence and thats what makes me unattractive now. Does anyone know what I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello r/Relationships! This is my first time posting here! Anyways, I am at a point in my life where I am finally feeling ready to start dating again. When was the last time you ask?.9th grade. It's been a while. We dated for a year then she cheated me. That was the beginning of a series of unfortunate almost-relationships where I never quite found my footing again. I was turned down a lot because of the way I looked. I was kind of the funny guy in high school, but I was also pretty pudgy and really greasy/pimply. I guess I had the charm just not the looks. Still didn't stop me from trying, but after being turned down many times it tore down my confidence bit by bit until there was nothing left. It got so bad that I was ashamed to show myself in public. I would purposely avoid a lot of social events because of the way I looked. So I said to myself, \"no one is ever going to hurt you again because of the way you look\". I actively avoided relationships while I worked on self improvement (working out, and clearing up my face). I think I look pretty decent now :) (pics If you guys want? ,but I don't think its that important) Anyways, I'm 21, still a virgin, and have a complete lack of relationship experience. I really want to start trying again, but I still can't shake this lack of self worth. I don't have any confidence and thats what makes me unattractive now. Does anyone know what I should do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright, the deets, I'm 23M, girlfriend is 30F, together for a little over three years on/off. We've been planning a vacation to a particular big city for a while, saving up, we're both really busy all the time with work and school so we're looking forward to getting away and relaxing/exploring somewhere we don't know very well. \nI have a friend who lives in the city (22F) and when I told her we were coming to visit (the city, not her in particular), she got excited, wondered where we were staying, etc. I was just and still am thinking we'll hook up for lunch or drinks or something like that. When I told her the days we were coming, she took note, and then a few days later asked if she could get a ride back to town with us when we leave (we're from the same hometown). I said I'm not so sure about it; she's been getting pushy about it.\n\nMy girlfriend and her have only met briefly, never hung out, and the car ride is about 7 hours. For some reason I'm apprehensive about all of this (I have a history of high anxiety and what many seem to enjoy calling 'overthinking'), and in a way, kind of annoyed that my friend would get all pushy about it. The trip is only three weeks away - it seems like if she was wanting to go home at a particular time she would've planned a little better for it? I don't know what to do, because I think if I tell her no, she'll think it's because of my gf and wrongly hold a grudge against her, but if I tell her that it's actually my decision, I think it might hurt her feelings and our friendship. Would I be a dick to say 'no' to my friend? Is it possible that I am way overthinking this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright, the deets, I'm 23M, girlfriend is 30F, together for a little over three years on/off. We've been planning a vacation to a particular big city for a while, saving up, we're both really busy all the time with work and school so we're looking forward to getting away and relaxing/exploring somewhere we don't know very well. \nI have a friend who lives in the city (22F) and when I told her we were coming to visit (the city, not her in particular), she got excited, wondered where we were staying, etc. I was just and still am thinking we'll hook up for lunch or drinks or something like that. When I told her the days we were coming, she took note, and then a few days later asked if she could get a ride back to town with us when we leave (we're from the same hometown). I said I'm not so sure about it; she's been getting pushy about it.\n\nMy girlfriend and her have only met briefly, never hung out, and the car ride is about 7 hours. For some reason I'm apprehensive about all of this (I have a history of high anxiety and what many seem to enjoy calling 'overthinking'), and in a way, kind of annoyed that my friend would get all pushy about it. The trip is only three weeks away - it seems like if she was wanting to go home at a particular time she would've planned a little better for it? I don't know what to do, because I think if I tell her no, she'll think it's because of my gf and wrongly hold a grudge against her, but if I tell her that it's actually my decision, I think it might hurt her feelings and our friendship. Would I be a dick to say 'no' to my friend? Is it possible that I am way overthinking this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright, the deets, I'm 23M, girlfriend is 30F, together for a little over three years on/off. We've been planning a vacation to a particular big city for a while, saving up, we're both really busy all the time with work and school so we're looking forward to getting away and relaxing/exploring somewhere we don't know very well. \nI have a friend who lives in the city (22F) and when I told her we were coming to visit (the city, not her in particular), she got excited, wondered where we were staying, etc. I was just and still am thinking we'll hook up for lunch or drinks or something like that. When I told her the days we were coming, she took note, and then a few days later asked if she could get a ride back to town with us when we leave (we're from the same hometown). I said I'm not so sure about it; she's been getting pushy about it.\n\nMy girlfriend and her have only met briefly, never hung out, and the car ride is about 7 hours. For some reason I'm apprehensive about all of this (I have a history of high anxiety and what many seem to enjoy calling 'overthinking'), and in a way, kind of annoyed that my friend would get all pushy about it. The trip is only three weeks away - it seems like if she was wanting to go home at a particular time she would've planned a little better for it? I don't know what to do, because I think if I tell her no, she'll think it's because of my gf and wrongly hold a grudge against her, but if I tell her that it's actually my decision, I think it might hurt her feelings and our friendship. Would I be a dick to say 'no' to my friend? Is it possible that I am way overthinking this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright, the deets, I'm 23M, girlfriend is 30F, together for a little over three years on/off. We've been planning a vacation to a particular big city for a while, saving up, we're both really busy all the time with work and school so we're looking forward to getting away and relaxing/exploring somewhere we don't know very well. \nI have a friend who lives in the city (22F) and when I told her we were coming to visit (the city, not her in particular), she got excited, wondered where we were staying, etc. I was just and still am thinking we'll hook up for lunch or drinks or something like that. When I told her the days we were coming, she took note, and then a few days later asked if she could get a ride back to town with us when we leave (we're from the same hometown). I said I'm not so sure about it; she's been getting pushy about it.\n\nMy girlfriend and her have only met briefly, never hung out, and the car ride is about 7 hours. For some reason I'm apprehensive about all of this (I have a history of high anxiety and what many seem to enjoy calling 'overthinking'), and in a way, kind of annoyed that my friend would get all pushy about it. The trip is only three weeks away - it seems like if she was wanting to go home at a particular time she would've planned a little better for it? I don't know what to do, because I think if I tell her no, she'll think it's because of my gf and wrongly hold a grudge against her, but if I tell her that it's actually my decision, I think it might hurt her feelings and our friendship. Would I be a dick to say 'no' to my friend? Is it possible that I am way overthinking this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright, the deets, I'm 23M, girlfriend is 30F, together for a little over three years on/off. We've been planning a vacation to a particular big city for a while, saving up, we're both really busy all the time with work and school so we're looking forward to getting away and relaxing/exploring somewhere we don't know very well. \nI have a friend who lives in the city (22F) and when I told her we were coming to visit (the city, not her in particular), she got excited, wondered where we were staying, etc. I was just and still am thinking we'll hook up for lunch or drinks or something like that. When I told her the days we were coming, she took note, and then a few days later asked if she could get a ride back to town with us when we leave (we're from the same hometown). I said I'm not so sure about it; she's been getting pushy about it.\n\nMy girlfriend and her have only met briefly, never hung out, and the car ride is about 7 hours. For some reason I'm apprehensive about all of this (I have a history of high anxiety and what many seem to enjoy calling 'overthinking'), and in a way, kind of annoyed that my friend would get all pushy about it. The trip is only three weeks away - it seems like if she was wanting to go home at a particular time she would've planned a little better for it? I don't know what to do, because I think if I tell her no, she'll think it's because of my gf and wrongly hold a grudge against her, but if I tell her that it's actually my decision, I think it might hurt her feelings and our friendship. Would I be a dick to say 'no' to my friend? Is it possible that I am way overthinking this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a ~15 lb 2 year old Papillon and a 5 lb eight month Japanese Chin/Pom mix. Both of them are fixed. We take them hiking and to the dog park every weekend, but the park has a very small little dog park which is almost always empty and the big dog park where there's a whole bunch of space but it's always bustling. We've been letting our Pap off leash and walking around where he has the chance to sniff other dogs and let them sniff him, but he mostly follows us. We keep our little mix on leash because she's still fairly young and gets too easily distracted still. Should we not be taking them in there at all? We only did the first time because the small dog park was closed and there were a ton of little dogs in the park. The guidelines say > 20 lbs, but there are a bunch of shih-tzu and other smaller dogs in there and so far there hasn't been an incident? We also play it by ear as to which park we go into, but there just isn't enough space for them to run or play in the little park and there are hardly ever any other dogs in there. I just read a bunch of posts about little doggies being injured and now I'm super-concerned even though so far there's been no incident with my dogs (although there's a lot of humping with other dogs that owners don't pay attention to, which pisses me off)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a ~15 lb 2 year old Papillon and a 5 lb eight month Japanese Chin/Pom mix. Both of them are fixed. We take them hiking and to the dog park every weekend, but the park has a very small little dog park which is almost always empty and the big dog park where there's a whole bunch of space but it's always bustling. We've been letting our Pap off leash and walking around where he has the chance to sniff other dogs and let them sniff him, but he mostly follows us. We keep our little mix on leash because she's still fairly young and gets too easily distracted still. Should we not be taking them in there at all? We only did the first time because the small dog park was closed and there were a ton of little dogs in the park. The guidelines say > 20 lbs, but there are a bunch of shih-tzu and other smaller dogs in there and so far there hasn't been an incident? We also play it by ear as to which park we go into, but there just isn't enough space for them to run or play in the little park and there are hardly ever any other dogs in there. I just read a bunch of posts about little doggies being injured and now I'm super-concerned even though so far there's been no incident with my dogs (although there's a lot of humping with other dogs that owners don't pay attention to, which pisses me off)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a ~15 lb 2 year old Papillon and a 5 lb eight month Japanese Chin/Pom mix. Both of them are fixed. We take them hiking and to the dog park every weekend, but the park has a very small little dog park which is almost always empty and the big dog park where there's a whole bunch of space but it's always bustling. We've been letting our Pap off leash and walking around where he has the chance to sniff other dogs and let them sniff him, but he mostly follows us. We keep our little mix on leash because she's still fairly young and gets too easily distracted still. Should we not be taking them in there at all? We only did the first time because the small dog park was closed and there were a ton of little dogs in the park. The guidelines say > 20 lbs, but there are a bunch of shih-tzu and other smaller dogs in there and so far there hasn't been an incident? We also play it by ear as to which park we go into, but there just isn't enough space for them to run or play in the little park and there are hardly ever any other dogs in there. I just read a bunch of posts about little doggies being injured and now I'm super-concerned even though so far there's been no incident with my dogs (although there's a lot of humping with other dogs that owners don't pay attention to, which pisses me off)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a ~15 lb 2 year old Papillon and a 5 lb eight month Japanese Chin/Pom mix. Both of them are fixed. We take them hiking and to the dog park every weekend, but the park has a very small little dog park which is almost always empty and the big dog park where there's a whole bunch of space but it's always bustling. We've been letting our Pap off leash and walking around where he has the chance to sniff other dogs and let them sniff him, but he mostly follows us. We keep our little mix on leash because she's still fairly young and gets too easily distracted still. Should we not be taking them in there at all? We only did the first time because the small dog park was closed and there were a ton of little dogs in the park. The guidelines say > 20 lbs, but there are a bunch of shih-tzu and other smaller dogs in there and so far there hasn't been an incident? We also play it by ear as to which park we go into, but there just isn't enough space for them to run or play in the little park and there are hardly ever any other dogs in there. I just read a bunch of posts about little doggies being injured and now I'm super-concerned even though so far there's been no incident with my dogs (although there's a lot of humping with other dogs that owners don't pay attention to, which pisses me off)."
} |
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