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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live with my bf but since his older brother moved out of his parents house & moved in with us I have been severely depressed.\n\nHis bro has OCD, anorexia, \"eats\" our food (more like makes a big plate of food then throws it out), tells us how & what we can use & drains our internet cos he plays battlefield all day long. He has no job, no goals & is hoping to find a gf soon. He listens into our conversations, wakes us up in the morning. Even having sex gets interrupted. I come home to a messy house after work, I am the only one who cleans up, cooks the meals & pretty much mother the pair of them. My bf has accepted that he won't get a job & is ok with all of this. I would never get in between family so I keep my mouth shut, though passively let my bf know my concerns. I tried approaching his brother but I get an aggressive response. He is in his 30's & his parents don't want him back because they just got him out.\n\nMy bf & I have/had a great relationship, though since his brother moved in, I am not attracted to him anymore & I feel angry all the time. I want to move out but it breaks my bf's heart. It's not fair on him. He is trying to be a good partner & brother. I do love him & I know that I am not angry with him, just the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live with my bf but since his older brother moved out of his parents house & moved in with us I have been severely depressed.\n\nHis bro has OCD, anorexia, \"eats\" our food (more like makes a big plate of food then throws it out), tells us how & what we can use & drains our internet cos he plays battlefield all day long. He has no job, no goals & is hoping to find a gf soon. He listens into our conversations, wakes us up in the morning. Even having sex gets interrupted. I come home to a messy house after work, I am the only one who cleans up, cooks the meals & pretty much mother the pair of them. My bf has accepted that he won't get a job & is ok with all of this. I would never get in between family so I keep my mouth shut, though passively let my bf know my concerns. I tried approaching his brother but I get an aggressive response. He is in his 30's & his parents don't want him back because they just got him out.\n\nMy bf & I have/had a great relationship, though since his brother moved in, I am not attracted to him anymore & I feel angry all the time. I want to move out but it breaks my bf's heart. It's not fair on him. He is trying to be a good partner & brother. I do love him & I know that I am not angry with him, just the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live with my bf but since his older brother moved out of his parents house & moved in with us I have been severely depressed.\n\nHis bro has OCD, anorexia, \"eats\" our food (more like makes a big plate of food then throws it out), tells us how & what we can use & drains our internet cos he plays battlefield all day long. He has no job, no goals & is hoping to find a gf soon. He listens into our conversations, wakes us up in the morning. Even having sex gets interrupted. I come home to a messy house after work, I am the only one who cleans up, cooks the meals & pretty much mother the pair of them. My bf has accepted that he won't get a job & is ok with all of this. I would never get in between family so I keep my mouth shut, though passively let my bf know my concerns. I tried approaching his brother but I get an aggressive response. He is in his 30's & his parents don't want him back because they just got him out.\n\nMy bf & I have/had a great relationship, though since his brother moved in, I am not attracted to him anymore & I feel angry all the time. I want to move out but it breaks my bf's heart. It's not fair on him. He is trying to be a good partner & brother. I do love him & I know that I am not angry with him, just the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live with my bf but since his older brother moved out of his parents house & moved in with us I have been severely depressed.\n\nHis bro has OCD, anorexia, \"eats\" our food (more like makes a big plate of food then throws it out), tells us how & what we can use & drains our internet cos he plays battlefield all day long. He has no job, no goals & is hoping to find a gf soon. He listens into our conversations, wakes us up in the morning. Even having sex gets interrupted. I come home to a messy house after work, I am the only one who cleans up, cooks the meals & pretty much mother the pair of them. My bf has accepted that he won't get a job & is ok with all of this. I would never get in between family so I keep my mouth shut, though passively let my bf know my concerns. I tried approaching his brother but I get an aggressive response. He is in his 30's & his parents don't want him back because they just got him out.\n\nMy bf & I have/had a great relationship, though since his brother moved in, I am not attracted to him anymore & I feel angry all the time. I want to move out but it breaks my bf's heart. It's not fair on him. He is trying to be a good partner & brother. I do love him & I know that I am not angry with him, just the situation."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19 and he is 18. We have been in a relationship for 3 years, 1 of those years in the middle being at long distance. We have a strong bond and consider each other to be our best friend as we have been through quite an outstanding and unfortunate amount of troubled times involving ourselves and our families and friends throughout our relationship so far, which has brought us closer together. \n\nThere are no serious problems in our relationship in regards to each other. The problem I have lies within myself and my emotional baggage and it is affecting moments of our relationship. With my boyfriend's assistance, I recently came to realise that because of the way my parents treated me I often find it difficult to trust people and easy to be suspicious of people's words and actions despite reassurance. \n\nMy parents seem to have bi-polar tendencies. They'll say they \"love me\" and are \"so proud of me\" in one moment and then in another moment call me all the most awful names under the sun. For this reason whenever I get the feeling that my boyfriend is unhappy with me I cannot help but react and feel in extremities, like he suddenly doesn't love me anymore because I left all my make up in his bathroom.\n\nI know how ridiculous that is considering he's been with me for over 3 years and I know without a doubt he still loves me all the same for the good and the bad yet I cannot shake this automatic reaction no matter how much I try. I thoroughly dislike being this way as it causes me anxiety for putting my boyfriend, who is so good to me, through this. I need and would much appreciate your help Redditors!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19 and he is 18. We have been in a relationship for 3 years, 1 of those years in the middle being at long distance. We have a strong bond and consider each other to be our best friend as we have been through quite an outstanding and unfortunate amount of troubled times involving ourselves and our families and friends throughout our relationship so far, which has brought us closer together. \n\nThere are no serious problems in our relationship in regards to each other. The problem I have lies within myself and my emotional baggage and it is affecting moments of our relationship. With my boyfriend's assistance, I recently came to realise that because of the way my parents treated me I often find it difficult to trust people and easy to be suspicious of people's words and actions despite reassurance. \n\nMy parents seem to have bi-polar tendencies. They'll say they \"love me\" and are \"so proud of me\" in one moment and then in another moment call me all the most awful names under the sun. For this reason whenever I get the feeling that my boyfriend is unhappy with me I cannot help but react and feel in extremities, like he suddenly doesn't love me anymore because I left all my make up in his bathroom.\n\nI know how ridiculous that is considering he's been with me for over 3 years and I know without a doubt he still loves me all the same for the good and the bad yet I cannot shake this automatic reaction no matter how much I try. I thoroughly dislike being this way as it causes me anxiety for putting my boyfriend, who is so good to me, through this. I need and would much appreciate your help Redditors!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19 and he is 18. We have been in a relationship for 3 years, 1 of those years in the middle being at long distance. We have a strong bond and consider each other to be our best friend as we have been through quite an outstanding and unfortunate amount of troubled times involving ourselves and our families and friends throughout our relationship so far, which has brought us closer together. \n\nThere are no serious problems in our relationship in regards to each other. The problem I have lies within myself and my emotional baggage and it is affecting moments of our relationship. With my boyfriend's assistance, I recently came to realise that because of the way my parents treated me I often find it difficult to trust people and easy to be suspicious of people's words and actions despite reassurance. \n\nMy parents seem to have bi-polar tendencies. They'll say they \"love me\" and are \"so proud of me\" in one moment and then in another moment call me all the most awful names under the sun. For this reason whenever I get the feeling that my boyfriend is unhappy with me I cannot help but react and feel in extremities, like he suddenly doesn't love me anymore because I left all my make up in his bathroom.\n\nI know how ridiculous that is considering he's been with me for over 3 years and I know without a doubt he still loves me all the same for the good and the bad yet I cannot shake this automatic reaction no matter how much I try. I thoroughly dislike being this way as it causes me anxiety for putting my boyfriend, who is so good to me, through this. I need and would much appreciate your help Redditors!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19 and he is 18. We have been in a relationship for 3 years, 1 of those years in the middle being at long distance. We have a strong bond and consider each other to be our best friend as we have been through quite an outstanding and unfortunate amount of troubled times involving ourselves and our families and friends throughout our relationship so far, which has brought us closer together. \n\nThere are no serious problems in our relationship in regards to each other. The problem I have lies within myself and my emotional baggage and it is affecting moments of our relationship. With my boyfriend's assistance, I recently came to realise that because of the way my parents treated me I often find it difficult to trust people and easy to be suspicious of people's words and actions despite reassurance. \n\nMy parents seem to have bi-polar tendencies. They'll say they \"love me\" and are \"so proud of me\" in one moment and then in another moment call me all the most awful names under the sun. For this reason whenever I get the feeling that my boyfriend is unhappy with me I cannot help but react and feel in extremities, like he suddenly doesn't love me anymore because I left all my make up in his bathroom.\n\nI know how ridiculous that is considering he's been with me for over 3 years and I know without a doubt he still loves me all the same for the good and the bad yet I cannot shake this automatic reaction no matter how much I try. I thoroughly dislike being this way as it causes me anxiety for putting my boyfriend, who is so good to me, through this. I need and would much appreciate your help Redditors!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19 and he is 18. We have been in a relationship for 3 years, 1 of those years in the middle being at long distance. We have a strong bond and consider each other to be our best friend as we have been through quite an outstanding and unfortunate amount of troubled times involving ourselves and our families and friends throughout our relationship so far, which has brought us closer together. \n\nThere are no serious problems in our relationship in regards to each other. The problem I have lies within myself and my emotional baggage and it is affecting moments of our relationship. With my boyfriend's assistance, I recently came to realise that because of the way my parents treated me I often find it difficult to trust people and easy to be suspicious of people's words and actions despite reassurance. \n\nMy parents seem to have bi-polar tendencies. They'll say they \"love me\" and are \"so proud of me\" in one moment and then in another moment call me all the most awful names under the sun. For this reason whenever I get the feeling that my boyfriend is unhappy with me I cannot help but react and feel in extremities, like he suddenly doesn't love me anymore because I left all my make up in his bathroom.\n\nI know how ridiculous that is considering he's been with me for over 3 years and I know without a doubt he still loves me all the same for the good and the bad yet I cannot shake this automatic reaction no matter how much I try. I thoroughly dislike being this way as it causes me anxiety for putting my boyfriend, who is so good to me, through this. I need and would much appreciate your help Redditors!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19 and he is 18. We have been in a relationship for 3 years, 1 of those years in the middle being at long distance. We have a strong bond and consider each other to be our best friend as we have been through quite an outstanding and unfortunate amount of troubled times involving ourselves and our families and friends throughout our relationship so far, which has brought us closer together. \n\nThere are no serious problems in our relationship in regards to each other. The problem I have lies within myself and my emotional baggage and it is affecting moments of our relationship. With my boyfriend's assistance, I recently came to realise that because of the way my parents treated me I often find it difficult to trust people and easy to be suspicious of people's words and actions despite reassurance. \n\nMy parents seem to have bi-polar tendencies. They'll say they \"love me\" and are \"so proud of me\" in one moment and then in another moment call me all the most awful names under the sun. For this reason whenever I get the feeling that my boyfriend is unhappy with me I cannot help but react and feel in extremities, like he suddenly doesn't love me anymore because I left all my make up in his bathroom.\n\nI know how ridiculous that is considering he's been with me for over 3 years and I know without a doubt he still loves me all the same for the good and the bad yet I cannot shake this automatic reaction no matter how much I try. I thoroughly dislike being this way as it causes me anxiety for putting my boyfriend, who is so good to me, through this. I need and would much appreciate your help Redditors!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were friends for a couple of years before we started dating, and dated for a year before we got a place together. I wouldn't have moved in with her if I wasn't serious and committed, but after a year of living together, our relationship is nothing like what I expected it to be, and I'm starting to feel down on the whole thing.\n\nI want to be supportive. I know that she's sensitive, and I believe she has self-esteem issues. It feels like every other thing she says to me is a complaint about someone who's slighted or disrespected her, or just a random negative comment about someone or something she doesn't like, and it brings me down.\n\nI've learned that she's not asking me to solve her problems, and I try not to tell her what to do, or what I would do. I used to make mean-spirited jokes about whoever she happened to be complaining about, but I don't feel like that's the person I am, and I don't like doing it. Now I feel like all I can say is, \"that sucks,\" or \"how inconsiderate,\" and I'm starting to feel like a broken record."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were friends for a couple of years before we started dating, and dated for a year before we got a place together. I wouldn't have moved in with her if I wasn't serious and committed, but after a year of living together, our relationship is nothing like what I expected it to be, and I'm starting to feel down on the whole thing.\n\nI want to be supportive. I know that she's sensitive, and I believe she has self-esteem issues. It feels like every other thing she says to me is a complaint about someone who's slighted or disrespected her, or just a random negative comment about someone or something she doesn't like, and it brings me down.\n\nI've learned that she's not asking me to solve her problems, and I try not to tell her what to do, or what I would do. I used to make mean-spirited jokes about whoever she happened to be complaining about, but I don't feel like that's the person I am, and I don't like doing it. Now I feel like all I can say is, \"that sucks,\" or \"how inconsiderate,\" and I'm starting to feel like a broken record."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were friends for a couple of years before we started dating, and dated for a year before we got a place together. I wouldn't have moved in with her if I wasn't serious and committed, but after a year of living together, our relationship is nothing like what I expected it to be, and I'm starting to feel down on the whole thing.\n\nI want to be supportive. I know that she's sensitive, and I believe she has self-esteem issues. It feels like every other thing she says to me is a complaint about someone who's slighted or disrespected her, or just a random negative comment about someone or something she doesn't like, and it brings me down.\n\nI've learned that she's not asking me to solve her problems, and I try not to tell her what to do, or what I would do. I used to make mean-spirited jokes about whoever she happened to be complaining about, but I don't feel like that's the person I am, and I don't like doing it. Now I feel like all I can say is, \"that sucks,\" or \"how inconsiderate,\" and I'm starting to feel like a broken record."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were friends for a couple of years before we started dating, and dated for a year before we got a place together. I wouldn't have moved in with her if I wasn't serious and committed, but after a year of living together, our relationship is nothing like what I expected it to be, and I'm starting to feel down on the whole thing.\n\nI want to be supportive. I know that she's sensitive, and I believe she has self-esteem issues. It feels like every other thing she says to me is a complaint about someone who's slighted or disrespected her, or just a random negative comment about someone or something she doesn't like, and it brings me down.\n\nI've learned that she's not asking me to solve her problems, and I try not to tell her what to do, or what I would do. I used to make mean-spirited jokes about whoever she happened to be complaining about, but I don't feel like that's the person I am, and I don't like doing it. Now I feel like all I can say is, \"that sucks,\" or \"how inconsiderate,\" and I'm starting to feel like a broken record."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were friends for a couple of years before we started dating, and dated for a year before we got a place together. I wouldn't have moved in with her if I wasn't serious and committed, but after a year of living together, our relationship is nothing like what I expected it to be, and I'm starting to feel down on the whole thing.\n\nI want to be supportive. I know that she's sensitive, and I believe she has self-esteem issues. It feels like every other thing she says to me is a complaint about someone who's slighted or disrespected her, or just a random negative comment about someone or something she doesn't like, and it brings me down.\n\nI've learned that she's not asking me to solve her problems, and I try not to tell her what to do, or what I would do. I used to make mean-spirited jokes about whoever she happened to be complaining about, but I don't feel like that's the person I am, and I don't like doing it. Now I feel like all I can say is, \"that sucks,\" or \"how inconsiderate,\" and I'm starting to feel like a broken record."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My story is I had my doctor accusing me of absuing me pain medication after a major surgery. I had a neurosurgery so I had to get pain medication quite often and I had difficulties healing and since I'm under 18 doctors are super hesitant to prescribe pain medicine. I had a signed contract with this doctor that I wouldn't goto another doctor for pain medication or abuse my pills. Well, she thought I was selling me pills because I was going through them so fast but truth is I HONESTLY needed them. I'm still healing, still going through it, the surgery didn't fix the problem, just to add. Anyways, I agreed to take a drug test because I had nothing to hide. My doctor wanted to make sure the medication was in my system. She made a huge deal about trust and how serious the issue is. I took the drug [urine] test. I came back about a week later for the results and she informs me my urine got spilled so there were no results.\nShe then refused to see me again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My story is I had my doctor accusing me of absuing me pain medication after a major surgery. I had a neurosurgery so I had to get pain medication quite often and I had difficulties healing and since I'm under 18 doctors are super hesitant to prescribe pain medicine. I had a signed contract with this doctor that I wouldn't goto another doctor for pain medication or abuse my pills. Well, she thought I was selling me pills because I was going through them so fast but truth is I HONESTLY needed them. I'm still healing, still going through it, the surgery didn't fix the problem, just to add. Anyways, I agreed to take a drug test because I had nothing to hide. My doctor wanted to make sure the medication was in my system. She made a huge deal about trust and how serious the issue is. I took the drug [urine] test. I came back about a week later for the results and she informs me my urine got spilled so there were no results.\nShe then refused to see me again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My story is I had my doctor accusing me of absuing me pain medication after a major surgery. I had a neurosurgery so I had to get pain medication quite often and I had difficulties healing and since I'm under 18 doctors are super hesitant to prescribe pain medicine. I had a signed contract with this doctor that I wouldn't goto another doctor for pain medication or abuse my pills. Well, she thought I was selling me pills because I was going through them so fast but truth is I HONESTLY needed them. I'm still healing, still going through it, the surgery didn't fix the problem, just to add. Anyways, I agreed to take a drug test because I had nothing to hide. My doctor wanted to make sure the medication was in my system. She made a huge deal about trust and how serious the issue is. I took the drug [urine] test. I came back about a week later for the results and she informs me my urine got spilled so there were no results.\nShe then refused to see me again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My story is I had my doctor accusing me of absuing me pain medication after a major surgery. I had a neurosurgery so I had to get pain medication quite often and I had difficulties healing and since I'm under 18 doctors are super hesitant to prescribe pain medicine. I had a signed contract with this doctor that I wouldn't goto another doctor for pain medication or abuse my pills. Well, she thought I was selling me pills because I was going through them so fast but truth is I HONESTLY needed them. I'm still healing, still going through it, the surgery didn't fix the problem, just to add. Anyways, I agreed to take a drug test because I had nothing to hide. My doctor wanted to make sure the medication was in my system. She made a huge deal about trust and how serious the issue is. I took the drug [urine] test. I came back about a week later for the results and she informs me my urine got spilled so there were no results.\nShe then refused to see me again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My story is I had my doctor accusing me of absuing me pain medication after a major surgery. I had a neurosurgery so I had to get pain medication quite often and I had difficulties healing and since I'm under 18 doctors are super hesitant to prescribe pain medicine. I had a signed contract with this doctor that I wouldn't goto another doctor for pain medication or abuse my pills. Well, she thought I was selling me pills because I was going through them so fast but truth is I HONESTLY needed them. I'm still healing, still going through it, the surgery didn't fix the problem, just to add. Anyways, I agreed to take a drug test because I had nothing to hide. My doctor wanted to make sure the medication was in my system. She made a huge deal about trust and how serious the issue is. I took the drug [urine] test. I came back about a week later for the results and she informs me my urine got spilled so there were no results.\nShe then refused to see me again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My story is I had my doctor accusing me of absuing me pain medication after a major surgery. I had a neurosurgery so I had to get pain medication quite often and I had difficulties healing and since I'm under 18 doctors are super hesitant to prescribe pain medicine. I had a signed contract with this doctor that I wouldn't goto another doctor for pain medication or abuse my pills. Well, she thought I was selling me pills because I was going through them so fast but truth is I HONESTLY needed them. I'm still healing, still going through it, the surgery didn't fix the problem, just to add. Anyways, I agreed to take a drug test because I had nothing to hide. My doctor wanted to make sure the medication was in my system. She made a huge deal about trust and how serious the issue is. I took the drug [urine] test. I came back about a week later for the results and she informs me my urine got spilled so there were no results.\nShe then refused to see me again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm new at dating really but I met a girl a few months ago that I liked for a while now. I saw her semi-often but never said much. A few weekends ago we met at a party and danced for a bit and went back to her apartment where we talked for a few hours. Later she invited me to hang out for a bit. Things went well and i asked her to go to an event but she couldn't make it. Instead she suggested we grab dinner. We did and things went well enough. \n\nI think she likes me but im not sure what I should be doing now. Should I text her or go talk to her sometime? Should I just keep going on these small \"dates\" for a bit and then tell her how I feel? I dont want to rush things but at the same time I'm really nervous and kinda just want to rush things. We also don't text in between hanging out because I dont want to seem desperate or clingy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm new at dating really but I met a girl a few months ago that I liked for a while now. I saw her semi-often but never said much. A few weekends ago we met at a party and danced for a bit and went back to her apartment where we talked for a few hours. Later she invited me to hang out for a bit. Things went well and i asked her to go to an event but she couldn't make it. Instead she suggested we grab dinner. We did and things went well enough. \n\nI think she likes me but im not sure what I should be doing now. Should I text her or go talk to her sometime? Should I just keep going on these small \"dates\" for a bit and then tell her how I feel? I dont want to rush things but at the same time I'm really nervous and kinda just want to rush things. We also don't text in between hanging out because I dont want to seem desperate or clingy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm new at dating really but I met a girl a few months ago that I liked for a while now. I saw her semi-often but never said much. A few weekends ago we met at a party and danced for a bit and went back to her apartment where we talked for a few hours. Later she invited me to hang out for a bit. Things went well and i asked her to go to an event but she couldn't make it. Instead she suggested we grab dinner. We did and things went well enough. \n\nI think she likes me but im not sure what I should be doing now. Should I text her or go talk to her sometime? Should I just keep going on these small \"dates\" for a bit and then tell her how I feel? I dont want to rush things but at the same time I'm really nervous and kinda just want to rush things. We also don't text in between hanging out because I dont want to seem desperate or clingy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm new at dating really but I met a girl a few months ago that I liked for a while now. I saw her semi-often but never said much. A few weekends ago we met at a party and danced for a bit and went back to her apartment where we talked for a few hours. Later she invited me to hang out for a bit. Things went well and i asked her to go to an event but she couldn't make it. Instead she suggested we grab dinner. We did and things went well enough. \n\nI think she likes me but im not sure what I should be doing now. Should I text her or go talk to her sometime? Should I just keep going on these small \"dates\" for a bit and then tell her how I feel? I dont want to rush things but at the same time I'm really nervous and kinda just want to rush things. We also don't text in between hanging out because I dont want to seem desperate or clingy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm new at dating really but I met a girl a few months ago that I liked for a while now. I saw her semi-often but never said much. A few weekends ago we met at a party and danced for a bit and went back to her apartment where we talked for a few hours. Later she invited me to hang out for a bit. Things went well and i asked her to go to an event but she couldn't make it. Instead she suggested we grab dinner. We did and things went well enough. \n\nI think she likes me but im not sure what I should be doing now. Should I text her or go talk to her sometime? Should I just keep going on these small \"dates\" for a bit and then tell her how I feel? I dont want to rush things but at the same time I'm really nervous and kinda just want to rush things. We also don't text in between hanging out because I dont want to seem desperate or clingy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm new at dating really but I met a girl a few months ago that I liked for a while now. I saw her semi-often but never said much. A few weekends ago we met at a party and danced for a bit and went back to her apartment where we talked for a few hours. Later she invited me to hang out for a bit. Things went well and i asked her to go to an event but she couldn't make it. Instead she suggested we grab dinner. We did and things went well enough. \n\nI think she likes me but im not sure what I should be doing now. Should I text her or go talk to her sometime? Should I just keep going on these small \"dates\" for a bit and then tell her how I feel? I dont want to rush things but at the same time I'm really nervous and kinda just want to rush things. We also don't text in between hanging out because I dont want to seem desperate or clingy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *\"Just be yourself.\"*\n\nI've most commonly heard this suggestion to guys seeking advice come from women, so while my intention wasn't really to single anyone out, I suppose this question is primarily directed at you. I was roaming around /r/AskWomen and I saw this advice pop up repeatedly, which got me thinking as to whether anyone has actually thought this advice through. I don't know about any other guys out there, but when I was younger I used to hate hearing this whenever I asked anyone for advice with dating/relationships.\n\nTo me, it seems like a mildly insensitive and frankly superficial thing to say, especially because the followup is usually a collection of other blanket directives along the lines of: \"be funny\", \"be intelligent\", \"be kind/caring\", I've even heard/seen guys told to \"just be a man/masculine\". What if they're *genuinely* not funny? What if they don't fit with what people have been socialized to deem as *masculine*? I think that if the guys \"being themselves\" was really the problem, it would have solved itself already. I mean, they've been \"being themselves\" for however long without any self-satisfactory results, and that's kind of the point. By the time they ask for advice, they've already convinced themselves that there is something wrong with them, and they need to change themselves to get results. Which is wrong. Odds are, there's nothing really \"wrong\" with the guy, he just needs to be more confident in himself, more comfortable in his own skin. He needs to *own* who and what he is and make it work for himself. Personally I think that's the problem most guys have. I know that was the main problem I had growing up. \n\nI believe that rather than telling a guy to just \"be yourself\", it would be better instead to tell them \"be *confident* being yourself\", or better still- \"be *comfortable being* yourself\".\n\nAnyway, just a thought. I could be crazy and that's actually what people have meant all this time and I just didn't get it. Either way, any thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *\"Just be yourself.\"*\n\nI've most commonly heard this suggestion to guys seeking advice come from women, so while my intention wasn't really to single anyone out, I suppose this question is primarily directed at you. I was roaming around /r/AskWomen and I saw this advice pop up repeatedly, which got me thinking as to whether anyone has actually thought this advice through. I don't know about any other guys out there, but when I was younger I used to hate hearing this whenever I asked anyone for advice with dating/relationships.\n\nTo me, it seems like a mildly insensitive and frankly superficial thing to say, especially because the followup is usually a collection of other blanket directives along the lines of: \"be funny\", \"be intelligent\", \"be kind/caring\", I've even heard/seen guys told to \"just be a man/masculine\". What if they're *genuinely* not funny? What if they don't fit with what people have been socialized to deem as *masculine*? I think that if the guys \"being themselves\" was really the problem, it would have solved itself already. I mean, they've been \"being themselves\" for however long without any self-satisfactory results, and that's kind of the point. By the time they ask for advice, they've already convinced themselves that there is something wrong with them, and they need to change themselves to get results. Which is wrong. Odds are, there's nothing really \"wrong\" with the guy, he just needs to be more confident in himself, more comfortable in his own skin. He needs to *own* who and what he is and make it work for himself. Personally I think that's the problem most guys have. I know that was the main problem I had growing up. \n\nI believe that rather than telling a guy to just \"be yourself\", it would be better instead to tell them \"be *confident* being yourself\", or better still- \"be *comfortable being* yourself\".\n\nAnyway, just a thought. I could be crazy and that's actually what people have meant all this time and I just didn't get it. Either way, any thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *\"Just be yourself.\"*\n\nI've most commonly heard this suggestion to guys seeking advice come from women, so while my intention wasn't really to single anyone out, I suppose this question is primarily directed at you. I was roaming around /r/AskWomen and I saw this advice pop up repeatedly, which got me thinking as to whether anyone has actually thought this advice through. I don't know about any other guys out there, but when I was younger I used to hate hearing this whenever I asked anyone for advice with dating/relationships.\n\nTo me, it seems like a mildly insensitive and frankly superficial thing to say, especially because the followup is usually a collection of other blanket directives along the lines of: \"be funny\", \"be intelligent\", \"be kind/caring\", I've even heard/seen guys told to \"just be a man/masculine\". What if they're *genuinely* not funny? What if they don't fit with what people have been socialized to deem as *masculine*? I think that if the guys \"being themselves\" was really the problem, it would have solved itself already. I mean, they've been \"being themselves\" for however long without any self-satisfactory results, and that's kind of the point. By the time they ask for advice, they've already convinced themselves that there is something wrong with them, and they need to change themselves to get results. Which is wrong. Odds are, there's nothing really \"wrong\" with the guy, he just needs to be more confident in himself, more comfortable in his own skin. He needs to *own* who and what he is and make it work for himself. Personally I think that's the problem most guys have. I know that was the main problem I had growing up. \n\nI believe that rather than telling a guy to just \"be yourself\", it would be better instead to tell them \"be *confident* being yourself\", or better still- \"be *comfortable being* yourself\".\n\nAnyway, just a thought. I could be crazy and that's actually what people have meant all this time and I just didn't get it. Either way, any thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *\"Just be yourself.\"*\n\nI've most commonly heard this suggestion to guys seeking advice come from women, so while my intention wasn't really to single anyone out, I suppose this question is primarily directed at you. I was roaming around /r/AskWomen and I saw this advice pop up repeatedly, which got me thinking as to whether anyone has actually thought this advice through. I don't know about any other guys out there, but when I was younger I used to hate hearing this whenever I asked anyone for advice with dating/relationships.\n\nTo me, it seems like a mildly insensitive and frankly superficial thing to say, especially because the followup is usually a collection of other blanket directives along the lines of: \"be funny\", \"be intelligent\", \"be kind/caring\", I've even heard/seen guys told to \"just be a man/masculine\". What if they're *genuinely* not funny? What if they don't fit with what people have been socialized to deem as *masculine*? I think that if the guys \"being themselves\" was really the problem, it would have solved itself already. I mean, they've been \"being themselves\" for however long without any self-satisfactory results, and that's kind of the point. By the time they ask for advice, they've already convinced themselves that there is something wrong with them, and they need to change themselves to get results. Which is wrong. Odds are, there's nothing really \"wrong\" with the guy, he just needs to be more confident in himself, more comfortable in his own skin. He needs to *own* who and what he is and make it work for himself. Personally I think that's the problem most guys have. I know that was the main problem I had growing up. \n\nI believe that rather than telling a guy to just \"be yourself\", it would be better instead to tell them \"be *confident* being yourself\", or better still- \"be *comfortable being* yourself\".\n\nAnyway, just a thought. I could be crazy and that's actually what people have meant all this time and I just didn't get it. Either way, any thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *\"Just be yourself.\"*\n\nI've most commonly heard this suggestion to guys seeking advice come from women, so while my intention wasn't really to single anyone out, I suppose this question is primarily directed at you. I was roaming around /r/AskWomen and I saw this advice pop up repeatedly, which got me thinking as to whether anyone has actually thought this advice through. I don't know about any other guys out there, but when I was younger I used to hate hearing this whenever I asked anyone for advice with dating/relationships.\n\nTo me, it seems like a mildly insensitive and frankly superficial thing to say, especially because the followup is usually a collection of other blanket directives along the lines of: \"be funny\", \"be intelligent\", \"be kind/caring\", I've even heard/seen guys told to \"just be a man/masculine\". What if they're *genuinely* not funny? What if they don't fit with what people have been socialized to deem as *masculine*? I think that if the guys \"being themselves\" was really the problem, it would have solved itself already. I mean, they've been \"being themselves\" for however long without any self-satisfactory results, and that's kind of the point. By the time they ask for advice, they've already convinced themselves that there is something wrong with them, and they need to change themselves to get results. Which is wrong. Odds are, there's nothing really \"wrong\" with the guy, he just needs to be more confident in himself, more comfortable in his own skin. He needs to *own* who and what he is and make it work for himself. Personally I think that's the problem most guys have. I know that was the main problem I had growing up. \n\nI believe that rather than telling a guy to just \"be yourself\", it would be better instead to tell them \"be *confident* being yourself\", or better still- \"be *comfortable being* yourself\".\n\nAnyway, just a thought. I could be crazy and that's actually what people have meant all this time and I just didn't get it. Either way, any thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: *\"Just be yourself.\"*\n\nI've most commonly heard this suggestion to guys seeking advice come from women, so while my intention wasn't really to single anyone out, I suppose this question is primarily directed at you. I was roaming around /r/AskWomen and I saw this advice pop up repeatedly, which got me thinking as to whether anyone has actually thought this advice through. I don't know about any other guys out there, but when I was younger I used to hate hearing this whenever I asked anyone for advice with dating/relationships.\n\nTo me, it seems like a mildly insensitive and frankly superficial thing to say, especially because the followup is usually a collection of other blanket directives along the lines of: \"be funny\", \"be intelligent\", \"be kind/caring\", I've even heard/seen guys told to \"just be a man/masculine\". What if they're *genuinely* not funny? What if they don't fit with what people have been socialized to deem as *masculine*? I think that if the guys \"being themselves\" was really the problem, it would have solved itself already. I mean, they've been \"being themselves\" for however long without any self-satisfactory results, and that's kind of the point. By the time they ask for advice, they've already convinced themselves that there is something wrong with them, and they need to change themselves to get results. Which is wrong. Odds are, there's nothing really \"wrong\" with the guy, he just needs to be more confident in himself, more comfortable in his own skin. He needs to *own* who and what he is and make it work for himself. Personally I think that's the problem most guys have. I know that was the main problem I had growing up. \n\nI believe that rather than telling a guy to just \"be yourself\", it would be better instead to tell them \"be *confident* being yourself\", or better still- \"be *comfortable being* yourself\".\n\nAnyway, just a thought. I could be crazy and that's actually what people have meant all this time and I just didn't get it. Either way, any thoughts?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend of just over a year and a half and I are looking at life after college, and we're hoping to move in together. I'm a science major so when it comes to a life decision my instinct is to research the hell out of it.\n\nWe're semi-long-distance now, about a 3 hour car ride away. We see each other often and spend about 3 days at a time together on the weekends. We feel like we know each other's habits, but obviously I'm expecting to confront things we haven't encountered yet.\n\nWhat suggestions does everyone have for partners planning on moving in together? Conversations you had, decisions you made, quirks you wish you'd discussed? The more detailed, the better—we want to talk this over really thoroughly before we make this decision!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend of just over a year and a half and I are looking at life after college, and we're hoping to move in together. I'm a science major so when it comes to a life decision my instinct is to research the hell out of it.\n\nWe're semi-long-distance now, about a 3 hour car ride away. We see each other often and spend about 3 days at a time together on the weekends. We feel like we know each other's habits, but obviously I'm expecting to confront things we haven't encountered yet.\n\nWhat suggestions does everyone have for partners planning on moving in together? Conversations you had, decisions you made, quirks you wish you'd discussed? The more detailed, the better—we want to talk this over really thoroughly before we make this decision!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend of just over a year and a half and I are looking at life after college, and we're hoping to move in together. I'm a science major so when it comes to a life decision my instinct is to research the hell out of it.\n\nWe're semi-long-distance now, about a 3 hour car ride away. We see each other often and spend about 3 days at a time together on the weekends. We feel like we know each other's habits, but obviously I'm expecting to confront things we haven't encountered yet.\n\nWhat suggestions does everyone have for partners planning on moving in together? Conversations you had, decisions you made, quirks you wish you'd discussed? The more detailed, the better—we want to talk this over really thoroughly before we make this decision!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend of just over a year and a half and I are looking at life after college, and we're hoping to move in together. I'm a science major so when it comes to a life decision my instinct is to research the hell out of it.\n\nWe're semi-long-distance now, about a 3 hour car ride away. We see each other often and spend about 3 days at a time together on the weekends. We feel like we know each other's habits, but obviously I'm expecting to confront things we haven't encountered yet.\n\nWhat suggestions does everyone have for partners planning on moving in together? Conversations you had, decisions you made, quirks you wish you'd discussed? The more detailed, the better—we want to talk this over really thoroughly before we make this decision!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend of just over a year and a half and I are looking at life after college, and we're hoping to move in together. I'm a science major so when it comes to a life decision my instinct is to research the hell out of it.\n\nWe're semi-long-distance now, about a 3 hour car ride away. We see each other often and spend about 3 days at a time together on the weekends. We feel like we know each other's habits, but obviously I'm expecting to confront things we haven't encountered yet.\n\nWhat suggestions does everyone have for partners planning on moving in together? Conversations you had, decisions you made, quirks you wish you'd discussed? The more detailed, the better—we want to talk this over really thoroughly before we make this decision!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend of just over a year and a half and I are looking at life after college, and we're hoping to move in together. I'm a science major so when it comes to a life decision my instinct is to research the hell out of it.\n\nWe're semi-long-distance now, about a 3 hour car ride away. We see each other often and spend about 3 days at a time together on the weekends. We feel like we know each other's habits, but obviously I'm expecting to confront things we haven't encountered yet.\n\nWhat suggestions does everyone have for partners planning on moving in together? Conversations you had, decisions you made, quirks you wish you'd discussed? The more detailed, the better—we want to talk this over really thoroughly before we make this decision!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mine was in 8th grade. Our seating arrangement was changed in a random order once every month. I always sat next to this really pretty girl, in fact, I probably sat next to her 75% of the year. I have this class right after lunch so usually I'm really gassy. Anyway one day I had to shit really bad, I was farting every 2 minutes. Then i felt it. I felt the turd coming slowly, I tried to hold it in as hard as I could but i could't stop it. A little bit slipped out but wasn't all the way out it was stuck. I had to sit in an awkward position because I didn't want to smear it in my pants. Finally class was over, I sprinted to the bathroom as fast as I could. The second i got in a stall that turd that was stuck in my ass got pinched off and slid all the way through my boxers and down my shorts. It hit the toilet seat on the way down and landed on the floor. Then i took the biggest shit of my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mine was in 8th grade. Our seating arrangement was changed in a random order once every month. I always sat next to this really pretty girl, in fact, I probably sat next to her 75% of the year. I have this class right after lunch so usually I'm really gassy. Anyway one day I had to shit really bad, I was farting every 2 minutes. Then i felt it. I felt the turd coming slowly, I tried to hold it in as hard as I could but i could't stop it. A little bit slipped out but wasn't all the way out it was stuck. I had to sit in an awkward position because I didn't want to smear it in my pants. Finally class was over, I sprinted to the bathroom as fast as I could. The second i got in a stall that turd that was stuck in my ass got pinched off and slid all the way through my boxers and down my shorts. It hit the toilet seat on the way down and landed on the floor. Then i took the biggest shit of my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mine was in 8th grade. Our seating arrangement was changed in a random order once every month. I always sat next to this really pretty girl, in fact, I probably sat next to her 75% of the year. I have this class right after lunch so usually I'm really gassy. Anyway one day I had to shit really bad, I was farting every 2 minutes. Then i felt it. I felt the turd coming slowly, I tried to hold it in as hard as I could but i could't stop it. A little bit slipped out but wasn't all the way out it was stuck. I had to sit in an awkward position because I didn't want to smear it in my pants. Finally class was over, I sprinted to the bathroom as fast as I could. The second i got in a stall that turd that was stuck in my ass got pinched off and slid all the way through my boxers and down my shorts. It hit the toilet seat on the way down and landed on the floor. Then i took the biggest shit of my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mine was in 8th grade. Our seating arrangement was changed in a random order once every month. I always sat next to this really pretty girl, in fact, I probably sat next to her 75% of the year. I have this class right after lunch so usually I'm really gassy. Anyway one day I had to shit really bad, I was farting every 2 minutes. Then i felt it. I felt the turd coming slowly, I tried to hold it in as hard as I could but i could't stop it. A little bit slipped out but wasn't all the way out it was stuck. I had to sit in an awkward position because I didn't want to smear it in my pants. Finally class was over, I sprinted to the bathroom as fast as I could. The second i got in a stall that turd that was stuck in my ass got pinched off and slid all the way through my boxers and down my shorts. It hit the toilet seat on the way down and landed on the floor. Then i took the biggest shit of my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mine was in 8th grade. Our seating arrangement was changed in a random order once every month. I always sat next to this really pretty girl, in fact, I probably sat next to her 75% of the year. I have this class right after lunch so usually I'm really gassy. Anyway one day I had to shit really bad, I was farting every 2 minutes. Then i felt it. I felt the turd coming slowly, I tried to hold it in as hard as I could but i could't stop it. A little bit slipped out but wasn't all the way out it was stuck. I had to sit in an awkward position because I didn't want to smear it in my pants. Finally class was over, I sprinted to the bathroom as fast as I could. The second i got in a stall that turd that was stuck in my ass got pinched off and slid all the way through my boxers and down my shorts. It hit the toilet seat on the way down and landed on the floor. Then i took the biggest shit of my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mine was in 8th grade. Our seating arrangement was changed in a random order once every month. I always sat next to this really pretty girl, in fact, I probably sat next to her 75% of the year. I have this class right after lunch so usually I'm really gassy. Anyway one day I had to shit really bad, I was farting every 2 minutes. Then i felt it. I felt the turd coming slowly, I tried to hold it in as hard as I could but i could't stop it. A little bit slipped out but wasn't all the way out it was stuck. I had to sit in an awkward position because I didn't want to smear it in my pants. Finally class was over, I sprinted to the bathroom as fast as I could. The second i got in a stall that turd that was stuck in my ass got pinched off and slid all the way through my boxers and down my shorts. It hit the toilet seat on the way down and landed on the floor. Then i took the biggest shit of my life."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex boyfriend and I broke up almost 4 years ago. The breakup wasn't easy for me but at this point we haven't talked in 3+ years and I'm 23 now and engaged to my boyfriend of 2.5 years. \n\nRecently he moved to the same city as my three best friends in California and ended up helping one of them with a project. To celebrate the completion of the project, my friend is throwing a party. He invited me so I bought a ticket to California. Then he told me he was sorry but my ex refused to show up if I did so I can't come. I was surprised, I've done nothing to make him think I'll even try to talk to him, I was prepared to be civil and figured he was too. My friends have told me he reads my blog and buys my books so I definitely didn't think he was still so fragile he couldn't even be in the same room. \n\nThere are other people going I haven't seen in years and I was really looking forward to seeing my friend's project. At first I was mad at my friend but I realize he just got put in a bad spot by my ex and I get why he picked him when he had to choose. So I've been thinking about contacting my ex and asking him to reconsider since at this point I guess it's up to him. I really didn't plan talk to him ever and I don't want to start anything but it means a lot for me to go to this thing and I already invested in it. I'm wondering if people think this is a good idea or have any other suggestions to keep the peace and still be able to go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex boyfriend and I broke up almost 4 years ago. The breakup wasn't easy for me but at this point we haven't talked in 3+ years and I'm 23 now and engaged to my boyfriend of 2.5 years. \n\nRecently he moved to the same city as my three best friends in California and ended up helping one of them with a project. To celebrate the completion of the project, my friend is throwing a party. He invited me so I bought a ticket to California. Then he told me he was sorry but my ex refused to show up if I did so I can't come. I was surprised, I've done nothing to make him think I'll even try to talk to him, I was prepared to be civil and figured he was too. My friends have told me he reads my blog and buys my books so I definitely didn't think he was still so fragile he couldn't even be in the same room. \n\nThere are other people going I haven't seen in years and I was really looking forward to seeing my friend's project. At first I was mad at my friend but I realize he just got put in a bad spot by my ex and I get why he picked him when he had to choose. So I've been thinking about contacting my ex and asking him to reconsider since at this point I guess it's up to him. I really didn't plan talk to him ever and I don't want to start anything but it means a lot for me to go to this thing and I already invested in it. I'm wondering if people think this is a good idea or have any other suggestions to keep the peace and still be able to go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex boyfriend and I broke up almost 4 years ago. The breakup wasn't easy for me but at this point we haven't talked in 3+ years and I'm 23 now and engaged to my boyfriend of 2.5 years. \n\nRecently he moved to the same city as my three best friends in California and ended up helping one of them with a project. To celebrate the completion of the project, my friend is throwing a party. He invited me so I bought a ticket to California. Then he told me he was sorry but my ex refused to show up if I did so I can't come. I was surprised, I've done nothing to make him think I'll even try to talk to him, I was prepared to be civil and figured he was too. My friends have told me he reads my blog and buys my books so I definitely didn't think he was still so fragile he couldn't even be in the same room. \n\nThere are other people going I haven't seen in years and I was really looking forward to seeing my friend's project. At first I was mad at my friend but I realize he just got put in a bad spot by my ex and I get why he picked him when he had to choose. So I've been thinking about contacting my ex and asking him to reconsider since at this point I guess it's up to him. I really didn't plan talk to him ever and I don't want to start anything but it means a lot for me to go to this thing and I already invested in it. I'm wondering if people think this is a good idea or have any other suggestions to keep the peace and still be able to go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex boyfriend and I broke up almost 4 years ago. The breakup wasn't easy for me but at this point we haven't talked in 3+ years and I'm 23 now and engaged to my boyfriend of 2.5 years. \n\nRecently he moved to the same city as my three best friends in California and ended up helping one of them with a project. To celebrate the completion of the project, my friend is throwing a party. He invited me so I bought a ticket to California. Then he told me he was sorry but my ex refused to show up if I did so I can't come. I was surprised, I've done nothing to make him think I'll even try to talk to him, I was prepared to be civil and figured he was too. My friends have told me he reads my blog and buys my books so I definitely didn't think he was still so fragile he couldn't even be in the same room. \n\nThere are other people going I haven't seen in years and I was really looking forward to seeing my friend's project. At first I was mad at my friend but I realize he just got put in a bad spot by my ex and I get why he picked him when he had to choose. So I've been thinking about contacting my ex and asking him to reconsider since at this point I guess it's up to him. I really didn't plan talk to him ever and I don't want to start anything but it means a lot for me to go to this thing and I already invested in it. I'm wondering if people think this is a good idea or have any other suggestions to keep the peace and still be able to go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex boyfriend and I broke up almost 4 years ago. The breakup wasn't easy for me but at this point we haven't talked in 3+ years and I'm 23 now and engaged to my boyfriend of 2.5 years. \n\nRecently he moved to the same city as my three best friends in California and ended up helping one of them with a project. To celebrate the completion of the project, my friend is throwing a party. He invited me so I bought a ticket to California. Then he told me he was sorry but my ex refused to show up if I did so I can't come. I was surprised, I've done nothing to make him think I'll even try to talk to him, I was prepared to be civil and figured he was too. My friends have told me he reads my blog and buys my books so I definitely didn't think he was still so fragile he couldn't even be in the same room. \n\nThere are other people going I haven't seen in years and I was really looking forward to seeing my friend's project. At first I was mad at my friend but I realize he just got put in a bad spot by my ex and I get why he picked him when he had to choose. So I've been thinking about contacting my ex and asking him to reconsider since at this point I guess it's up to him. I really didn't plan talk to him ever and I don't want to start anything but it means a lot for me to go to this thing and I already invested in it. I'm wondering if people think this is a good idea or have any other suggestions to keep the peace and still be able to go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex boyfriend and I broke up almost 4 years ago. The breakup wasn't easy for me but at this point we haven't talked in 3+ years and I'm 23 now and engaged to my boyfriend of 2.5 years. \n\nRecently he moved to the same city as my three best friends in California and ended up helping one of them with a project. To celebrate the completion of the project, my friend is throwing a party. He invited me so I bought a ticket to California. Then he told me he was sorry but my ex refused to show up if I did so I can't come. I was surprised, I've done nothing to make him think I'll even try to talk to him, I was prepared to be civil and figured he was too. My friends have told me he reads my blog and buys my books so I definitely didn't think he was still so fragile he couldn't even be in the same room. \n\nThere are other people going I haven't seen in years and I was really looking forward to seeing my friend's project. At first I was mad at my friend but I realize he just got put in a bad spot by my ex and I get why he picked him when he had to choose. So I've been thinking about contacting my ex and asking him to reconsider since at this point I guess it's up to him. I really didn't plan talk to him ever and I don't want to start anything but it means a lot for me to go to this thing and I already invested in it. I'm wondering if people think this is a good idea or have any other suggestions to keep the peace and still be able to go."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had been in a long distance relationship with a man in Australia (I am in the US) for about a month. The relationship didn't last long because it became toxic extremely quick. Constant fighting, mental abuse from both ends, and it was all around just a terrible experience. It was turning both of us into bad people and I wanted out of it, which I made abundantly clear to him. \n\nDuring our relationship we both said nasty, inhumane things to each other. In the heat of the argument I had told him to just go off himself, this has happened a couple times. I know it's extremely wrong to say stuff like that, but that's how toxic the relationship was. This brings the story to him threatening me with legal action.\n\nHim and his family have been stalking my family, trying to find out my parents contact information and social media profiles to contact them about how bad of a person their daughter is. He has been contacting my friends, harassing them about our relationship. Both him and his dad keep harassing me, telling me how it is illegal to tell people to kill themselves and that they're going to contact the FBI or whatever. This is all extremely childish in my eyes and I'm not quite sure what to make of it.\n\nI have tried blocking him on any form of social media, but he's constantly making new accounts or harassing my friends into speaking to me, which is just so he can threaten me with this legal action bullshit. I have made it so clear to him that I want him out of my life without these complications. I don't know where to go from here because I'm genuinely worried he might make this into a bigger mess than it needs to be."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had been in a long distance relationship with a man in Australia (I am in the US) for about a month. The relationship didn't last long because it became toxic extremely quick. Constant fighting, mental abuse from both ends, and it was all around just a terrible experience. It was turning both of us into bad people and I wanted out of it, which I made abundantly clear to him. \n\nDuring our relationship we both said nasty, inhumane things to each other. In the heat of the argument I had told him to just go off himself, this has happened a couple times. I know it's extremely wrong to say stuff like that, but that's how toxic the relationship was. This brings the story to him threatening me with legal action.\n\nHim and his family have been stalking my family, trying to find out my parents contact information and social media profiles to contact them about how bad of a person their daughter is. He has been contacting my friends, harassing them about our relationship. Both him and his dad keep harassing me, telling me how it is illegal to tell people to kill themselves and that they're going to contact the FBI or whatever. This is all extremely childish in my eyes and I'm not quite sure what to make of it.\n\nI have tried blocking him on any form of social media, but he's constantly making new accounts or harassing my friends into speaking to me, which is just so he can threaten me with this legal action bullshit. I have made it so clear to him that I want him out of my life without these complications. I don't know where to go from here because I'm genuinely worried he might make this into a bigger mess than it needs to be."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had been in a long distance relationship with a man in Australia (I am in the US) for about a month. The relationship didn't last long because it became toxic extremely quick. Constant fighting, mental abuse from both ends, and it was all around just a terrible experience. It was turning both of us into bad people and I wanted out of it, which I made abundantly clear to him. \n\nDuring our relationship we both said nasty, inhumane things to each other. In the heat of the argument I had told him to just go off himself, this has happened a couple times. I know it's extremely wrong to say stuff like that, but that's how toxic the relationship was. This brings the story to him threatening me with legal action.\n\nHim and his family have been stalking my family, trying to find out my parents contact information and social media profiles to contact them about how bad of a person their daughter is. He has been contacting my friends, harassing them about our relationship. Both him and his dad keep harassing me, telling me how it is illegal to tell people to kill themselves and that they're going to contact the FBI or whatever. This is all extremely childish in my eyes and I'm not quite sure what to make of it.\n\nI have tried blocking him on any form of social media, but he's constantly making new accounts or harassing my friends into speaking to me, which is just so he can threaten me with this legal action bullshit. I have made it so clear to him that I want him out of my life without these complications. I don't know where to go from here because I'm genuinely worried he might make this into a bigger mess than it needs to be."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had been in a long distance relationship with a man in Australia (I am in the US) for about a month. The relationship didn't last long because it became toxic extremely quick. Constant fighting, mental abuse from both ends, and it was all around just a terrible experience. It was turning both of us into bad people and I wanted out of it, which I made abundantly clear to him. \n\nDuring our relationship we both said nasty, inhumane things to each other. In the heat of the argument I had told him to just go off himself, this has happened a couple times. I know it's extremely wrong to say stuff like that, but that's how toxic the relationship was. This brings the story to him threatening me with legal action.\n\nHim and his family have been stalking my family, trying to find out my parents contact information and social media profiles to contact them about how bad of a person their daughter is. He has been contacting my friends, harassing them about our relationship. Both him and his dad keep harassing me, telling me how it is illegal to tell people to kill themselves and that they're going to contact the FBI or whatever. This is all extremely childish in my eyes and I'm not quite sure what to make of it.\n\nI have tried blocking him on any form of social media, but he's constantly making new accounts or harassing my friends into speaking to me, which is just so he can threaten me with this legal action bullshit. I have made it so clear to him that I want him out of my life without these complications. I don't know where to go from here because I'm genuinely worried he might make this into a bigger mess than it needs to be."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had been in a long distance relationship with a man in Australia (I am in the US) for about a month. The relationship didn't last long because it became toxic extremely quick. Constant fighting, mental abuse from both ends, and it was all around just a terrible experience. It was turning both of us into bad people and I wanted out of it, which I made abundantly clear to him. \n\nDuring our relationship we both said nasty, inhumane things to each other. In the heat of the argument I had told him to just go off himself, this has happened a couple times. I know it's extremely wrong to say stuff like that, but that's how toxic the relationship was. This brings the story to him threatening me with legal action.\n\nHim and his family have been stalking my family, trying to find out my parents contact information and social media profiles to contact them about how bad of a person their daughter is. He has been contacting my friends, harassing them about our relationship. Both him and his dad keep harassing me, telling me how it is illegal to tell people to kill themselves and that they're going to contact the FBI or whatever. This is all extremely childish in my eyes and I'm not quite sure what to make of it.\n\nI have tried blocking him on any form of social media, but he's constantly making new accounts or harassing my friends into speaking to me, which is just so he can threaten me with this legal action bullshit. I have made it so clear to him that I want him out of my life without these complications. I don't know where to go from here because I'm genuinely worried he might make this into a bigger mess than it needs to be."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had been in a long distance relationship with a man in Australia (I am in the US) for about a month. The relationship didn't last long because it became toxic extremely quick. Constant fighting, mental abuse from both ends, and it was all around just a terrible experience. It was turning both of us into bad people and I wanted out of it, which I made abundantly clear to him. \n\nDuring our relationship we both said nasty, inhumane things to each other. In the heat of the argument I had told him to just go off himself, this has happened a couple times. I know it's extremely wrong to say stuff like that, but that's how toxic the relationship was. This brings the story to him threatening me with legal action.\n\nHim and his family have been stalking my family, trying to find out my parents contact information and social media profiles to contact them about how bad of a person their daughter is. He has been contacting my friends, harassing them about our relationship. Both him and his dad keep harassing me, telling me how it is illegal to tell people to kill themselves and that they're going to contact the FBI or whatever. This is all extremely childish in my eyes and I'm not quite sure what to make of it.\n\nI have tried blocking him on any form of social media, but he's constantly making new accounts or harassing my friends into speaking to me, which is just so he can threaten me with this legal action bullshit. I have made it so clear to him that I want him out of my life without these complications. I don't know where to go from here because I'm genuinely worried he might make this into a bigger mess than it needs to be."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my boyfriend for four years. It's a solid, stable, healthy relationship and he is great. We still feel like we're in the early stages of a relationship, with all the sex, giggling, playfulness to match. Basically, lots of happiness. \n\nWe're both in graduate school pursuing difficult fields that we love, and we're both rather poverty stricken. Our parents don't financially support us in any way (a lot our friends seem to have parents who do. it seems common for our very expensive city.) So we struggle by the best we can. \n\nWe don't talk about marriage much except in fantasy terms now and then, and my boyfriend has made it clear the reason he won't propose anytime soon is because he simply doesn't have the money for a ring or to support a stable lifestyle of another human being, or if we were to decide to have a kid. Also we can't afford to get married unless we were to go to a courtroom kind of ceremony, and we both fantasize about at least a decently nice wedding with our friends and family. \n\nI am fine with it except occasionally I get paranoid about it. because every now and then, I have female friends who will say things like \"No ring after four years? Wow. I wouldn't do it, but. I mean you must be really secure in your relationship to put up with that.\" Pretty much EVERYONE I know who has been in a relationship for longer than two years seems to get engaged right away. I know half these marriages will end in divorce (just plain fact) but sometimes I start to get nervous that, am I being \"stupid\" for not wanting him to marry me after such a long time together? \n\nBasically, often acquaintances or friends will seem to suggest that he must be stringing me along for having not proposed after this long. \n\nI'd be interested to hear if anyone else has been in longterm relationships or just has advice about how to handle comments like this, or if I should be worried at all.\n\n["
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my boyfriend for four years. It's a solid, stable, healthy relationship and he is great. We still feel like we're in the early stages of a relationship, with all the sex, giggling, playfulness to match. Basically, lots of happiness. \n\nWe're both in graduate school pursuing difficult fields that we love, and we're both rather poverty stricken. Our parents don't financially support us in any way (a lot our friends seem to have parents who do. it seems common for our very expensive city.) So we struggle by the best we can. \n\nWe don't talk about marriage much except in fantasy terms now and then, and my boyfriend has made it clear the reason he won't propose anytime soon is because he simply doesn't have the money for a ring or to support a stable lifestyle of another human being, or if we were to decide to have a kid. Also we can't afford to get married unless we were to go to a courtroom kind of ceremony, and we both fantasize about at least a decently nice wedding with our friends and family. \n\nI am fine with it except occasionally I get paranoid about it. because every now and then, I have female friends who will say things like \"No ring after four years? Wow. I wouldn't do it, but. I mean you must be really secure in your relationship to put up with that.\" Pretty much EVERYONE I know who has been in a relationship for longer than two years seems to get engaged right away. I know half these marriages will end in divorce (just plain fact) but sometimes I start to get nervous that, am I being \"stupid\" for not wanting him to marry me after such a long time together? \n\nBasically, often acquaintances or friends will seem to suggest that he must be stringing me along for having not proposed after this long. \n\nI'd be interested to hear if anyone else has been in longterm relationships or just has advice about how to handle comments like this, or if I should be worried at all.\n\n["
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my boyfriend for four years. It's a solid, stable, healthy relationship and he is great. We still feel like we're in the early stages of a relationship, with all the sex, giggling, playfulness to match. Basically, lots of happiness. \n\nWe're both in graduate school pursuing difficult fields that we love, and we're both rather poverty stricken. Our parents don't financially support us in any way (a lot our friends seem to have parents who do. it seems common for our very expensive city.) So we struggle by the best we can. \n\nWe don't talk about marriage much except in fantasy terms now and then, and my boyfriend has made it clear the reason he won't propose anytime soon is because he simply doesn't have the money for a ring or to support a stable lifestyle of another human being, or if we were to decide to have a kid. Also we can't afford to get married unless we were to go to a courtroom kind of ceremony, and we both fantasize about at least a decently nice wedding with our friends and family. \n\nI am fine with it except occasionally I get paranoid about it. because every now and then, I have female friends who will say things like \"No ring after four years? Wow. I wouldn't do it, but. I mean you must be really secure in your relationship to put up with that.\" Pretty much EVERYONE I know who has been in a relationship for longer than two years seems to get engaged right away. I know half these marriages will end in divorce (just plain fact) but sometimes I start to get nervous that, am I being \"stupid\" for not wanting him to marry me after such a long time together? \n\nBasically, often acquaintances or friends will seem to suggest that he must be stringing me along for having not proposed after this long. \n\nI'd be interested to hear if anyone else has been in longterm relationships or just has advice about how to handle comments like this, or if I should be worried at all.\n\n["
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my boyfriend for four years. It's a solid, stable, healthy relationship and he is great. We still feel like we're in the early stages of a relationship, with all the sex, giggling, playfulness to match. Basically, lots of happiness. \n\nWe're both in graduate school pursuing difficult fields that we love, and we're both rather poverty stricken. Our parents don't financially support us in any way (a lot our friends seem to have parents who do. it seems common for our very expensive city.) So we struggle by the best we can. \n\nWe don't talk about marriage much except in fantasy terms now and then, and my boyfriend has made it clear the reason he won't propose anytime soon is because he simply doesn't have the money for a ring or to support a stable lifestyle of another human being, or if we were to decide to have a kid. Also we can't afford to get married unless we were to go to a courtroom kind of ceremony, and we both fantasize about at least a decently nice wedding with our friends and family. \n\nI am fine with it except occasionally I get paranoid about it. because every now and then, I have female friends who will say things like \"No ring after four years? Wow. I wouldn't do it, but. I mean you must be really secure in your relationship to put up with that.\" Pretty much EVERYONE I know who has been in a relationship for longer than two years seems to get engaged right away. I know half these marriages will end in divorce (just plain fact) but sometimes I start to get nervous that, am I being \"stupid\" for not wanting him to marry me after such a long time together? \n\nBasically, often acquaintances or friends will seem to suggest that he must be stringing me along for having not proposed after this long. \n\nI'd be interested to hear if anyone else has been in longterm relationships or just has advice about how to handle comments like this, or if I should be worried at all.\n\n["
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my boyfriend for four years. It's a solid, stable, healthy relationship and he is great. We still feel like we're in the early stages of a relationship, with all the sex, giggling, playfulness to match. Basically, lots of happiness. \n\nWe're both in graduate school pursuing difficult fields that we love, and we're both rather poverty stricken. Our parents don't financially support us in any way (a lot our friends seem to have parents who do. it seems common for our very expensive city.) So we struggle by the best we can. \n\nWe don't talk about marriage much except in fantasy terms now and then, and my boyfriend has made it clear the reason he won't propose anytime soon is because he simply doesn't have the money for a ring or to support a stable lifestyle of another human being, or if we were to decide to have a kid. Also we can't afford to get married unless we were to go to a courtroom kind of ceremony, and we both fantasize about at least a decently nice wedding with our friends and family. \n\nI am fine with it except occasionally I get paranoid about it. because every now and then, I have female friends who will say things like \"No ring after four years? Wow. I wouldn't do it, but. I mean you must be really secure in your relationship to put up with that.\" Pretty much EVERYONE I know who has been in a relationship for longer than two years seems to get engaged right away. I know half these marriages will end in divorce (just plain fact) but sometimes I start to get nervous that, am I being \"stupid\" for not wanting him to marry me after such a long time together? \n\nBasically, often acquaintances or friends will seem to suggest that he must be stringing me along for having not proposed after this long. \n\nI'd be interested to hear if anyone else has been in longterm relationships or just has advice about how to handle comments like this, or if I should be worried at all.\n\n["
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my boyfriend for four years. It's a solid, stable, healthy relationship and he is great. We still feel like we're in the early stages of a relationship, with all the sex, giggling, playfulness to match. Basically, lots of happiness. \n\nWe're both in graduate school pursuing difficult fields that we love, and we're both rather poverty stricken. Our parents don't financially support us in any way (a lot our friends seem to have parents who do. it seems common for our very expensive city.) So we struggle by the best we can. \n\nWe don't talk about marriage much except in fantasy terms now and then, and my boyfriend has made it clear the reason he won't propose anytime soon is because he simply doesn't have the money for a ring or to support a stable lifestyle of another human being, or if we were to decide to have a kid. Also we can't afford to get married unless we were to go to a courtroom kind of ceremony, and we both fantasize about at least a decently nice wedding with our friends and family. \n\nI am fine with it except occasionally I get paranoid about it. because every now and then, I have female friends who will say things like \"No ring after four years? Wow. I wouldn't do it, but. I mean you must be really secure in your relationship to put up with that.\" Pretty much EVERYONE I know who has been in a relationship for longer than two years seems to get engaged right away. I know half these marriages will end in divorce (just plain fact) but sometimes I start to get nervous that, am I being \"stupid\" for not wanting him to marry me after such a long time together? \n\nBasically, often acquaintances or friends will seem to suggest that he must be stringing me along for having not proposed after this long. \n\nI'd be interested to hear if anyone else has been in longterm relationships or just has advice about how to handle comments like this, or if I should be worried at all.\n\n["
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder about six years ago. Since then I have sought help and am now medicated and doing quite well. Though I do still have episodes, which can cause strain on my life, and those of my loved ones, they have gotten much better. \n\nI have found that whenever bpd is portrayed in TV shows or movies the person with the disorder is always shown as a complete psychopath. They go crazy, doing tons of drugs, having crazy sex, (sometimes killing people, if it is a crime show), then going into major depression and trying to kill themselves. While I have had horrible episodes where I have gone 'off the deep end', I find that these portrayals are not only incorrect, but also extremely insulting. \n\nHas anyone else noticed similar trends for your disorder/disability?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder about six years ago. Since then I have sought help and am now medicated and doing quite well. Though I do still have episodes, which can cause strain on my life, and those of my loved ones, they have gotten much better. \n\nI have found that whenever bpd is portrayed in TV shows or movies the person with the disorder is always shown as a complete psychopath. They go crazy, doing tons of drugs, having crazy sex, (sometimes killing people, if it is a crime show), then going into major depression and trying to kill themselves. While I have had horrible episodes where I have gone 'off the deep end', I find that these portrayals are not only incorrect, but also extremely insulting. \n\nHas anyone else noticed similar trends for your disorder/disability?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder about six years ago. Since then I have sought help and am now medicated and doing quite well. Though I do still have episodes, which can cause strain on my life, and those of my loved ones, they have gotten much better. \n\nI have found that whenever bpd is portrayed in TV shows or movies the person with the disorder is always shown as a complete psychopath. They go crazy, doing tons of drugs, having crazy sex, (sometimes killing people, if it is a crime show), then going into major depression and trying to kill themselves. While I have had horrible episodes where I have gone 'off the deep end', I find that these portrayals are not only incorrect, but also extremely insulting. \n\nHas anyone else noticed similar trends for your disorder/disability?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder about six years ago. Since then I have sought help and am now medicated and doing quite well. Though I do still have episodes, which can cause strain on my life, and those of my loved ones, they have gotten much better. \n\nI have found that whenever bpd is portrayed in TV shows or movies the person with the disorder is always shown as a complete psychopath. They go crazy, doing tons of drugs, having crazy sex, (sometimes killing people, if it is a crime show), then going into major depression and trying to kill themselves. While I have had horrible episodes where I have gone 'off the deep end', I find that these portrayals are not only incorrect, but also extremely insulting. \n\nHas anyone else noticed similar trends for your disorder/disability?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder about six years ago. Since then I have sought help and am now medicated and doing quite well. Though I do still have episodes, which can cause strain on my life, and those of my loved ones, they have gotten much better. \n\nI have found that whenever bpd is portrayed in TV shows or movies the person with the disorder is always shown as a complete psychopath. They go crazy, doing tons of drugs, having crazy sex, (sometimes killing people, if it is a crime show), then going into major depression and trying to kill themselves. While I have had horrible episodes where I have gone 'off the deep end', I find that these portrayals are not only incorrect, but also extremely insulting. \n\nHas anyone else noticed similar trends for your disorder/disability?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder about six years ago. Since then I have sought help and am now medicated and doing quite well. Though I do still have episodes, which can cause strain on my life, and those of my loved ones, they have gotten much better. \n\nI have found that whenever bpd is portrayed in TV shows or movies the person with the disorder is always shown as a complete psychopath. They go crazy, doing tons of drugs, having crazy sex, (sometimes killing people, if it is a crime show), then going into major depression and trying to kill themselves. While I have had horrible episodes where I have gone 'off the deep end', I find that these portrayals are not only incorrect, but also extremely insulting. \n\nHas anyone else noticed similar trends for your disorder/disability?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this guy recently who is 33 (I'm 21). He's really cool and interesting, we have a ton in common, he's good looking and we immediately had an attraction.\n\nWe've hung out about 4 times and the second time he kissed me for the first time. I was really excited about it and told my mom (she's my best friend. whatever.) and she was like is he married? i told her i didn't know and she told me that's what i needed to know before anything else.\n\nSo tonight we hung out and when i finally got the chance to ask i did: are you married? he said yes. at first i thought he was kidding. he was not.\n\nhis story is not unlike the typical story. she doesn't want to have sex anymore and as a result, they basically aren't together anymore. but they're not separated or divorced. they still live together - i couldn't bring myself to ask whether it was 2 beds or not. he says its for financial reasons because he's in school and working and she's working.\n\nso here's where i'm at: part of me is truly upset and wants to end things with him. the other part of me really likes him and connects with him. i don't know if what he said is the truth and i don't want to ruin a relationship if its not. i asked if she knew that he was looking outside the marriage and he said that she didn't and this was the first time. however, i've always been a believer that things happen for a reason. \n\ni don't know what to do. i know its wrong but i'm not sure how wrong it is. normally, i wouldn't say that there's any justification for cheating but i didn't expect to feel like i do. please help me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this guy recently who is 33 (I'm 21). He's really cool and interesting, we have a ton in common, he's good looking and we immediately had an attraction.\n\nWe've hung out about 4 times and the second time he kissed me for the first time. I was really excited about it and told my mom (she's my best friend. whatever.) and she was like is he married? i told her i didn't know and she told me that's what i needed to know before anything else.\n\nSo tonight we hung out and when i finally got the chance to ask i did: are you married? he said yes. at first i thought he was kidding. he was not.\n\nhis story is not unlike the typical story. she doesn't want to have sex anymore and as a result, they basically aren't together anymore. but they're not separated or divorced. they still live together - i couldn't bring myself to ask whether it was 2 beds or not. he says its for financial reasons because he's in school and working and she's working.\n\nso here's where i'm at: part of me is truly upset and wants to end things with him. the other part of me really likes him and connects with him. i don't know if what he said is the truth and i don't want to ruin a relationship if its not. i asked if she knew that he was looking outside the marriage and he said that she didn't and this was the first time. however, i've always been a believer that things happen for a reason. \n\ni don't know what to do. i know its wrong but i'm not sure how wrong it is. normally, i wouldn't say that there's any justification for cheating but i didn't expect to feel like i do. please help me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this guy recently who is 33 (I'm 21). He's really cool and interesting, we have a ton in common, he's good looking and we immediately had an attraction.\n\nWe've hung out about 4 times and the second time he kissed me for the first time. I was really excited about it and told my mom (she's my best friend. whatever.) and she was like is he married? i told her i didn't know and she told me that's what i needed to know before anything else.\n\nSo tonight we hung out and when i finally got the chance to ask i did: are you married? he said yes. at first i thought he was kidding. he was not.\n\nhis story is not unlike the typical story. she doesn't want to have sex anymore and as a result, they basically aren't together anymore. but they're not separated or divorced. they still live together - i couldn't bring myself to ask whether it was 2 beds or not. he says its for financial reasons because he's in school and working and she's working.\n\nso here's where i'm at: part of me is truly upset and wants to end things with him. the other part of me really likes him and connects with him. i don't know if what he said is the truth and i don't want to ruin a relationship if its not. i asked if she knew that he was looking outside the marriage and he said that she didn't and this was the first time. however, i've always been a believer that things happen for a reason. \n\ni don't know what to do. i know its wrong but i'm not sure how wrong it is. normally, i wouldn't say that there's any justification for cheating but i didn't expect to feel like i do. please help me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this guy recently who is 33 (I'm 21). He's really cool and interesting, we have a ton in common, he's good looking and we immediately had an attraction.\n\nWe've hung out about 4 times and the second time he kissed me for the first time. I was really excited about it and told my mom (she's my best friend. whatever.) and she was like is he married? i told her i didn't know and she told me that's what i needed to know before anything else.\n\nSo tonight we hung out and when i finally got the chance to ask i did: are you married? he said yes. at first i thought he was kidding. he was not.\n\nhis story is not unlike the typical story. she doesn't want to have sex anymore and as a result, they basically aren't together anymore. but they're not separated or divorced. they still live together - i couldn't bring myself to ask whether it was 2 beds or not. he says its for financial reasons because he's in school and working and she's working.\n\nso here's where i'm at: part of me is truly upset and wants to end things with him. the other part of me really likes him and connects with him. i don't know if what he said is the truth and i don't want to ruin a relationship if its not. i asked if she knew that he was looking outside the marriage and he said that she didn't and this was the first time. however, i've always been a believer that things happen for a reason. \n\ni don't know what to do. i know its wrong but i'm not sure how wrong it is. normally, i wouldn't say that there's any justification for cheating but i didn't expect to feel like i do. please help me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this guy recently who is 33 (I'm 21). He's really cool and interesting, we have a ton in common, he's good looking and we immediately had an attraction.\n\nWe've hung out about 4 times and the second time he kissed me for the first time. I was really excited about it and told my mom (she's my best friend. whatever.) and she was like is he married? i told her i didn't know and she told me that's what i needed to know before anything else.\n\nSo tonight we hung out and when i finally got the chance to ask i did: are you married? he said yes. at first i thought he was kidding. he was not.\n\nhis story is not unlike the typical story. she doesn't want to have sex anymore and as a result, they basically aren't together anymore. but they're not separated or divorced. they still live together - i couldn't bring myself to ask whether it was 2 beds or not. he says its for financial reasons because he's in school and working and she's working.\n\nso here's where i'm at: part of me is truly upset and wants to end things with him. the other part of me really likes him and connects with him. i don't know if what he said is the truth and i don't want to ruin a relationship if its not. i asked if she knew that he was looking outside the marriage and he said that she didn't and this was the first time. however, i've always been a believer that things happen for a reason. \n\ni don't know what to do. i know its wrong but i'm not sure how wrong it is. normally, i wouldn't say that there's any justification for cheating but i didn't expect to feel like i do. please help me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, I just want to hear something inspirational. I'm 24/F, my bf is 25/M and I just don't think he's the one I want to marry. After 5 years together, I don't think I should be hesitating this much, right? Please help me feel less insecure, tell me it's going to be okay. I will be ruining his life, temporarily, I'm sure, but still. He loves me so much, he doesn't really have other friends. I'm also worried about myself. Will I become a hermit? I do have friends, but not any close friends. I'm a shy introverted person. I realized recently that he's the closest I've ever been to anyone. He knows more about me than any of my friends.\n\nHave you been in my situation? How did you end it (or how were you broken up with), and do you have regrets? Are you happy now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, I just want to hear something inspirational. I'm 24/F, my bf is 25/M and I just don't think he's the one I want to marry. After 5 years together, I don't think I should be hesitating this much, right? Please help me feel less insecure, tell me it's going to be okay. I will be ruining his life, temporarily, I'm sure, but still. He loves me so much, he doesn't really have other friends. I'm also worried about myself. Will I become a hermit? I do have friends, but not any close friends. I'm a shy introverted person. I realized recently that he's the closest I've ever been to anyone. He knows more about me than any of my friends.\n\nHave you been in my situation? How did you end it (or how were you broken up with), and do you have regrets? Are you happy now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, I just want to hear something inspirational. I'm 24/F, my bf is 25/M and I just don't think he's the one I want to marry. After 5 years together, I don't think I should be hesitating this much, right? Please help me feel less insecure, tell me it's going to be okay. I will be ruining his life, temporarily, I'm sure, but still. He loves me so much, he doesn't really have other friends. I'm also worried about myself. Will I become a hermit? I do have friends, but not any close friends. I'm a shy introverted person. I realized recently that he's the closest I've ever been to anyone. He knows more about me than any of my friends.\n\nHave you been in my situation? How did you end it (or how were you broken up with), and do you have regrets? Are you happy now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, I just want to hear something inspirational. I'm 24/F, my bf is 25/M and I just don't think he's the one I want to marry. After 5 years together, I don't think I should be hesitating this much, right? Please help me feel less insecure, tell me it's going to be okay. I will be ruining his life, temporarily, I'm sure, but still. He loves me so much, he doesn't really have other friends. I'm also worried about myself. Will I become a hermit? I do have friends, but not any close friends. I'm a shy introverted person. I realized recently that he's the closest I've ever been to anyone. He knows more about me than any of my friends.\n\nHave you been in my situation? How did you end it (or how were you broken up with), and do you have regrets? Are you happy now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, I just want to hear something inspirational. I'm 24/F, my bf is 25/M and I just don't think he's the one I want to marry. After 5 years together, I don't think I should be hesitating this much, right? Please help me feel less insecure, tell me it's going to be okay. I will be ruining his life, temporarily, I'm sure, but still. He loves me so much, he doesn't really have other friends. I'm also worried about myself. Will I become a hermit? I do have friends, but not any close friends. I'm a shy introverted person. I realized recently that he's the closest I've ever been to anyone. He knows more about me than any of my friends.\n\nHave you been in my situation? How did you end it (or how were you broken up with), and do you have regrets? Are you happy now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says, I just want to hear something inspirational. I'm 24/F, my bf is 25/M and I just don't think he's the one I want to marry. After 5 years together, I don't think I should be hesitating this much, right? Please help me feel less insecure, tell me it's going to be okay. I will be ruining his life, temporarily, I'm sure, but still. He loves me so much, he doesn't really have other friends. I'm also worried about myself. Will I become a hermit? I do have friends, but not any close friends. I'm a shy introverted person. I realized recently that he's the closest I've ever been to anyone. He knows more about me than any of my friends.\n\nHave you been in my situation? How did you end it (or how were you broken up with), and do you have regrets? Are you happy now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She recently broke up with this guy. They've been together for a soild 2-3 years, but she's left him multiple times, and they've been on and off for over 5 years, total. We're not currently dating or anything, but she knows I really like her. I couldn't be happier knowing she's now single, but deep down, I'm concerned I should be cautious. Is it common for people to date on & off, and break up with who they're with to go back to that person? If her and I dated, would it possible I could get left and she go back to him? Or maybe if we date, and I'm better than he was, she'll forget him? I understand if this question is too vague of details to answer. But considering she just went through a rough break up, leaving him, I feel it's very inappropriate right now to talk to her about her previous boyfriends (or if I ever should).\n\nIf any of you have been in a similar situation as to mine, or been in her or his shoes, I'd love some help! Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She recently broke up with this guy. They've been together for a soild 2-3 years, but she's left him multiple times, and they've been on and off for over 5 years, total. We're not currently dating or anything, but she knows I really like her. I couldn't be happier knowing she's now single, but deep down, I'm concerned I should be cautious. Is it common for people to date on & off, and break up with who they're with to go back to that person? If her and I dated, would it possible I could get left and she go back to him? Or maybe if we date, and I'm better than he was, she'll forget him? I understand if this question is too vague of details to answer. But considering she just went through a rough break up, leaving him, I feel it's very inappropriate right now to talk to her about her previous boyfriends (or if I ever should).\n\nIf any of you have been in a similar situation as to mine, or been in her or his shoes, I'd love some help! Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She recently broke up with this guy. They've been together for a soild 2-3 years, but she's left him multiple times, and they've been on and off for over 5 years, total. We're not currently dating or anything, but she knows I really like her. I couldn't be happier knowing she's now single, but deep down, I'm concerned I should be cautious. Is it common for people to date on & off, and break up with who they're with to go back to that person? If her and I dated, would it possible I could get left and she go back to him? Or maybe if we date, and I'm better than he was, she'll forget him? I understand if this question is too vague of details to answer. But considering she just went through a rough break up, leaving him, I feel it's very inappropriate right now to talk to her about her previous boyfriends (or if I ever should).\n\nIf any of you have been in a similar situation as to mine, or been in her or his shoes, I'd love some help! Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She recently broke up with this guy. They've been together for a soild 2-3 years, but she's left him multiple times, and they've been on and off for over 5 years, total. We're not currently dating or anything, but she knows I really like her. I couldn't be happier knowing she's now single, but deep down, I'm concerned I should be cautious. Is it common for people to date on & off, and break up with who they're with to go back to that person? If her and I dated, would it possible I could get left and she go back to him? Or maybe if we date, and I'm better than he was, she'll forget him? I understand if this question is too vague of details to answer. But considering she just went through a rough break up, leaving him, I feel it's very inappropriate right now to talk to her about her previous boyfriends (or if I ever should).\n\nIf any of you have been in a similar situation as to mine, or been in her or his shoes, I'd love some help! Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She recently broke up with this guy. They've been together for a soild 2-3 years, but she's left him multiple times, and they've been on and off for over 5 years, total. We're not currently dating or anything, but she knows I really like her. I couldn't be happier knowing she's now single, but deep down, I'm concerned I should be cautious. Is it common for people to date on & off, and break up with who they're with to go back to that person? If her and I dated, would it possible I could get left and she go back to him? Or maybe if we date, and I'm better than he was, she'll forget him? I understand if this question is too vague of details to answer. But considering she just went through a rough break up, leaving him, I feel it's very inappropriate right now to talk to her about her previous boyfriends (or if I ever should).\n\nIf any of you have been in a similar situation as to mine, or been in her or his shoes, I'd love some help! Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: She recently broke up with this guy. They've been together for a soild 2-3 years, but she's left him multiple times, and they've been on and off for over 5 years, total. We're not currently dating or anything, but she knows I really like her. I couldn't be happier knowing she's now single, but deep down, I'm concerned I should be cautious. Is it common for people to date on & off, and break up with who they're with to go back to that person? If her and I dated, would it possible I could get left and she go back to him? Or maybe if we date, and I'm better than he was, she'll forget him? I understand if this question is too vague of details to answer. But considering she just went through a rough break up, leaving him, I feel it's very inappropriate right now to talk to her about her previous boyfriends (or if I ever should).\n\nIf any of you have been in a similar situation as to mine, or been in her or his shoes, I'd love some help! Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. We were together in person for 2 months but have been long distance for the past 3 months. When we were together for the first two months everything was fine, but since we've been apart for the past three months we've had some communication issues. She said she needs to feel like I'm still chasing her. This takes me by surprise because I feel like everything is generally going well. I've honestly never been this open and talkative with any woman that I've ever dating before. She literally said \n\n>I really need you to TALK, because sometimes I just feel the same as not having a boyfriend.alone. I don't know if you think that just because I'm already your girlfriend you don't have to win me anymore or what.\n\nWhen we were together in person everything was fine. If I was going to buy lunch, I'd check and see if she wanted me to get something for her. I'd just kiss her randomly if we were out somewhere or just see if she wanted to go out for a walk. But we can't do that for now since we are long distance. \n\nThe thing is, I feel like we generally communicate really well. We text each other pretty much everyday through Whatsapp and talk a few times a week through Skype. I'm not really sure what else she wants. We agree on all of the major relationship issues (religion, kids, sex, money) so I don't think this is something to break up over.\n\nWe've talked about this before and I was never really the gushy type. When we were together she could see my actions and know that I was thinking about her so she really didn't mind that I didn't say it that much.\n\nEven though neither of us were virgins when we first started dating this is the first serious relationship for both of us. \n\nI'm not sure what to do. Does anybody have any words of advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. We were together in person for 2 months but have been long distance for the past 3 months. When we were together for the first two months everything was fine, but since we've been apart for the past three months we've had some communication issues. She said she needs to feel like I'm still chasing her. This takes me by surprise because I feel like everything is generally going well. I've honestly never been this open and talkative with any woman that I've ever dating before. She literally said \n\n>I really need you to TALK, because sometimes I just feel the same as not having a boyfriend.alone. I don't know if you think that just because I'm already your girlfriend you don't have to win me anymore or what.\n\nWhen we were together in person everything was fine. If I was going to buy lunch, I'd check and see if she wanted me to get something for her. I'd just kiss her randomly if we were out somewhere or just see if she wanted to go out for a walk. But we can't do that for now since we are long distance. \n\nThe thing is, I feel like we generally communicate really well. We text each other pretty much everyday through Whatsapp and talk a few times a week through Skype. I'm not really sure what else she wants. We agree on all of the major relationship issues (religion, kids, sex, money) so I don't think this is something to break up over.\n\nWe've talked about this before and I was never really the gushy type. When we were together she could see my actions and know that I was thinking about her so she really didn't mind that I didn't say it that much.\n\nEven though neither of us were virgins when we first started dating this is the first serious relationship for both of us. \n\nI'm not sure what to do. Does anybody have any words of advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. We were together in person for 2 months but have been long distance for the past 3 months. When we were together for the first two months everything was fine, but since we've been apart for the past three months we've had some communication issues. She said she needs to feel like I'm still chasing her. This takes me by surprise because I feel like everything is generally going well. I've honestly never been this open and talkative with any woman that I've ever dating before. She literally said \n\n>I really need you to TALK, because sometimes I just feel the same as not having a boyfriend.alone. I don't know if you think that just because I'm already your girlfriend you don't have to win me anymore or what.\n\nWhen we were together in person everything was fine. If I was going to buy lunch, I'd check and see if she wanted me to get something for her. I'd just kiss her randomly if we were out somewhere or just see if she wanted to go out for a walk. But we can't do that for now since we are long distance. \n\nThe thing is, I feel like we generally communicate really well. We text each other pretty much everyday through Whatsapp and talk a few times a week through Skype. I'm not really sure what else she wants. We agree on all of the major relationship issues (religion, kids, sex, money) so I don't think this is something to break up over.\n\nWe've talked about this before and I was never really the gushy type. When we were together she could see my actions and know that I was thinking about her so she really didn't mind that I didn't say it that much.\n\nEven though neither of us were virgins when we first started dating this is the first serious relationship for both of us. \n\nI'm not sure what to do. Does anybody have any words of advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. We were together in person for 2 months but have been long distance for the past 3 months. When we were together for the first two months everything was fine, but since we've been apart for the past three months we've had some communication issues. She said she needs to feel like I'm still chasing her. This takes me by surprise because I feel like everything is generally going well. I've honestly never been this open and talkative with any woman that I've ever dating before. She literally said \n\n>I really need you to TALK, because sometimes I just feel the same as not having a boyfriend.alone. I don't know if you think that just because I'm already your girlfriend you don't have to win me anymore or what.\n\nWhen we were together in person everything was fine. If I was going to buy lunch, I'd check and see if she wanted me to get something for her. I'd just kiss her randomly if we were out somewhere or just see if she wanted to go out for a walk. But we can't do that for now since we are long distance. \n\nThe thing is, I feel like we generally communicate really well. We text each other pretty much everyday through Whatsapp and talk a few times a week through Skype. I'm not really sure what else she wants. We agree on all of the major relationship issues (religion, kids, sex, money) so I don't think this is something to break up over.\n\nWe've talked about this before and I was never really the gushy type. When we were together she could see my actions and know that I was thinking about her so she really didn't mind that I didn't say it that much.\n\nEven though neither of us were virgins when we first started dating this is the first serious relationship for both of us. \n\nI'm not sure what to do. Does anybody have any words of advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. We were together in person for 2 months but have been long distance for the past 3 months. When we were together for the first two months everything was fine, but since we've been apart for the past three months we've had some communication issues. She said she needs to feel like I'm still chasing her. This takes me by surprise because I feel like everything is generally going well. I've honestly never been this open and talkative with any woman that I've ever dating before. She literally said \n\n>I really need you to TALK, because sometimes I just feel the same as not having a boyfriend.alone. I don't know if you think that just because I'm already your girlfriend you don't have to win me anymore or what.\n\nWhen we were together in person everything was fine. If I was going to buy lunch, I'd check and see if she wanted me to get something for her. I'd just kiss her randomly if we were out somewhere or just see if she wanted to go out for a walk. But we can't do that for now since we are long distance. \n\nThe thing is, I feel like we generally communicate really well. We text each other pretty much everyday through Whatsapp and talk a few times a week through Skype. I'm not really sure what else she wants. We agree on all of the major relationship issues (religion, kids, sex, money) so I don't think this is something to break up over.\n\nWe've talked about this before and I was never really the gushy type. When we were together she could see my actions and know that I was thinking about her so she really didn't mind that I didn't say it that much.\n\nEven though neither of us were virgins when we first started dating this is the first serious relationship for both of us. \n\nI'm not sure what to do. Does anybody have any words of advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. We were together in person for 2 months but have been long distance for the past 3 months. When we were together for the first two months everything was fine, but since we've been apart for the past three months we've had some communication issues. She said she needs to feel like I'm still chasing her. This takes me by surprise because I feel like everything is generally going well. I've honestly never been this open and talkative with any woman that I've ever dating before. She literally said \n\n>I really need you to TALK, because sometimes I just feel the same as not having a boyfriend.alone. I don't know if you think that just because I'm already your girlfriend you don't have to win me anymore or what.\n\nWhen we were together in person everything was fine. If I was going to buy lunch, I'd check and see if she wanted me to get something for her. I'd just kiss her randomly if we were out somewhere or just see if she wanted to go out for a walk. But we can't do that for now since we are long distance. \n\nThe thing is, I feel like we generally communicate really well. We text each other pretty much everyday through Whatsapp and talk a few times a week through Skype. I'm not really sure what else she wants. We agree on all of the major relationship issues (religion, kids, sex, money) so I don't think this is something to break up over.\n\nWe've talked about this before and I was never really the gushy type. When we were together she could see my actions and know that I was thinking about her so she really didn't mind that I didn't say it that much.\n\nEven though neither of us were virgins when we first started dating this is the first serious relationship for both of us. \n\nI'm not sure what to do. Does anybody have any words of advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been friends with this girl for about a year and a half, and for the first year I wasn't interested in anything romantic with her, and I just enjoyed being friends with her. Eventually over the last few months, I started to have feelings for her and ended up having sex with her one night whilst we were drunk. To cut a long story short, I had feelings for her and she didn't feel the same way. \n\nWe're still really good friends, and I want to be able to continue being friends and not have to cut her out of my life to get over this, so I'm looking for some advice to help me and to hear some peoples experiences with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been friends with this girl for about a year and a half, and for the first year I wasn't interested in anything romantic with her, and I just enjoyed being friends with her. Eventually over the last few months, I started to have feelings for her and ended up having sex with her one night whilst we were drunk. To cut a long story short, I had feelings for her and she didn't feel the same way. \n\nWe're still really good friends, and I want to be able to continue being friends and not have to cut her out of my life to get over this, so I'm looking for some advice to help me and to hear some peoples experiences with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been friends with this girl for about a year and a half, and for the first year I wasn't interested in anything romantic with her, and I just enjoyed being friends with her. Eventually over the last few months, I started to have feelings for her and ended up having sex with her one night whilst we were drunk. To cut a long story short, I had feelings for her and she didn't feel the same way. \n\nWe're still really good friends, and I want to be able to continue being friends and not have to cut her out of my life to get over this, so I'm looking for some advice to help me and to hear some peoples experiences with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been friends with this girl for about a year and a half, and for the first year I wasn't interested in anything romantic with her, and I just enjoyed being friends with her. Eventually over the last few months, I started to have feelings for her and ended up having sex with her one night whilst we were drunk. To cut a long story short, I had feelings for her and she didn't feel the same way. \n\nWe're still really good friends, and I want to be able to continue being friends and not have to cut her out of my life to get over this, so I'm looking for some advice to help me and to hear some peoples experiences with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been friends with this girl for about a year and a half, and for the first year I wasn't interested in anything romantic with her, and I just enjoyed being friends with her. Eventually over the last few months, I started to have feelings for her and ended up having sex with her one night whilst we were drunk. To cut a long story short, I had feelings for her and she didn't feel the same way. \n\nWe're still really good friends, and I want to be able to continue being friends and not have to cut her out of my life to get over this, so I'm looking for some advice to help me and to hear some peoples experiences with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been friends with this girl for about a year and a half, and for the first year I wasn't interested in anything romantic with her, and I just enjoyed being friends with her. Eventually over the last few months, I started to have feelings for her and ended up having sex with her one night whilst we were drunk. To cut a long story short, I had feelings for her and she didn't feel the same way. \n\nWe're still really good friends, and I want to be able to continue being friends and not have to cut her out of my life to get over this, so I'm looking for some advice to help me and to hear some peoples experiences with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dear Reddit Community,\n\nI am currently looking at changing jobs and am not sure whether it would be a good idea to mention the real reason why I changed my previous job in the first place. I could do more harm than good. I would like your opinion on the subject.\n\nPerviously, I was working a job with lesser pay and somewhat financially unstable. However, the work was very interesting. Sadly, my Mother and Brother depend financially on the divorce settlement payed out by my Father, who since then became unemployed. Having a new family of his own, he stopped sending help.\nBeing the only member with some financial income, I was left with a choice. Stay where I am, have trouble helping them or change jobs to something far less interesting but with a very increased and stable income so that I could help them out. I opted to go for the latter.\n\nPass forward 1.5 years. My family is almost financially independent and my help is now minimal, leading me to start looking for another job which appeals more to my interests.\n\nWhat I would like to know is, would you consider this something you would share in an interview or will this, for some reason, put me in a bad light? As in, the only reason I took the job I have now is to pay the bills and nothing more and now I'm finally out to get a job that genuinely interests me?\n\nThanks"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Dear Reddit Community,\n\nI am currently looking at changing jobs and am not sure whether it would be a good idea to mention the real reason why I changed my previous job in the first place. I could do more harm than good. I would like your opinion on the subject.\n\nPerviously, I was working a job with lesser pay and somewhat financially unstable. However, the work was very interesting. Sadly, my Mother and Brother depend financially on the divorce settlement payed out by my Father, who since then became unemployed. Having a new family of his own, he stopped sending help.\nBeing the only member with some financial income, I was left with a choice. Stay where I am, have trouble helping them or change jobs to something far less interesting but with a very increased and stable income so that I could help them out. I opted to go for the latter.\n\nPass forward 1.5 years. My family is almost financially independent and my help is now minimal, leading me to start looking for another job which appeals more to my interests.\n\nWhat I would like to know is, would you consider this something you would share in an interview or will this, for some reason, put me in a bad light? As in, the only reason I took the job I have now is to pay the bills and nothing more and now I'm finally out to get a job that genuinely interests me?\n\nThanks"
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