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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi there! \n\nUp until this past Saturday, I was the drummer for a semi serious metal band based in Guelph ON, Canada. They have recently decided that due to personality differences, I no longer have a place in that band, which is fine. During my time in this band though, I had personally created backing tracks to play with in a live setting to include musical parts not playable by the band's five piece lineup (I.E. orchestrations and sound effects set to a metronome I could drum along with). We're not registered through SOCAN or anything of the sort as all of our music has been recorded and distributed independently. Am I in the right to tell them that they may not continue to use the tracks I had created if the original compositions are not mine? I feel like a bit of a dickhead doing so but as a musician trying to make a living I feel I will have been used if they continue to utilize those tracks to play live without some sort of compensation for my work. Please help a young musician gain some knowledge about intellectual property. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been rooming with this guy for a little more than a year. He's definitely one of the chillest guys I've ever met. He's really smart, sweet, and funny. I really hate it when he brings random girls home to fuck but I can't ask him to stop without revealing how I feel about him. Does anyone know of a way I can show him I care about him in a romantic way without risking our current relationship? He already asked me if it was ok if he brought girls back to our place and I said yes (stupidly). I'm afraid if he'll try to find a new place if he has to change his lifestyle but I really enjoy living with him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm currently in a long distance relationship until October, but every day that goes by, I care about her more. I'm about 80% sure she'd say it back to me. I just don't know if I can wait. I bought us airfare for a getaway to Hawaii over Labor Day (I am in Japan and she is in the US, so it is halfway). But even at that, I'd have to wait until the end of August to tell her.\n\nI don't know if it is even a big deal for other people, but to me it is. I love her and I want her to know how I feel. It just feels so impersonal to do it via text/skype/call/Facetime."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm currently in a long distance relationship until October, but every day that goes by, I care about her more. I'm about 80% sure she'd say it back to me. I just don't know if I can wait. I bought us airfare for a getaway to Hawaii over Labor Day (I am in Japan and she is in the US, so it is halfway). But even at that, I'd have to wait until the end of August to tell her.\n\nI don't know if it is even a big deal for other people, but to me it is. I love her and I want her to know how I feel. It just feels so impersonal to do it via text/skype/call/Facetime."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm currently in a long distance relationship until October, but every day that goes by, I care about her more. I'm about 80% sure she'd say it back to me. I just don't know if I can wait. I bought us airfare for a getaway to Hawaii over Labor Day (I am in Japan and she is in the US, so it is halfway). But even at that, I'd have to wait until the end of August to tell her.\n\nI don't know if it is even a big deal for other people, but to me it is. I love her and I want her to know how I feel. It just feels so impersonal to do it via text/skype/call/Facetime."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm currently in a long distance relationship until October, but every day that goes by, I care about her more. I'm about 80% sure she'd say it back to me. I just don't know if I can wait. I bought us airfare for a getaway to Hawaii over Labor Day (I am in Japan and she is in the US, so it is halfway). But even at that, I'd have to wait until the end of August to tell her.\n\nI don't know if it is even a big deal for other people, but to me it is. I love her and I want her to know how I feel. It just feels so impersonal to do it via text/skype/call/Facetime."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm currently in a long distance relationship until October, but every day that goes by, I care about her more. I'm about 80% sure she'd say it back to me. I just don't know if I can wait. I bought us airfare for a getaway to Hawaii over Labor Day (I am in Japan and she is in the US, so it is halfway). But even at that, I'd have to wait until the end of August to tell her.\n\nI don't know if it is even a big deal for other people, but to me it is. I love her and I want her to know how I feel. It just feels so impersonal to do it via text/skype/call/Facetime."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\n\nI could really use some advice Reddit. I have younger sister which is in that specific period of her life where she thinks she's smartest kid in the world, that she can do all by her self and doesn't appreciate anyone's good deed. She'll do anything to get what she wants and after that she forgets on all stuff that we did for her. \n\nNow I'm really sorry for my parents because (normally) they will do anything for theirs kid but since she is female, she is not doing any housework, she is lousy in school. \n\nI've tried to talk with her many times, and when I talk to her she understands everything and she agrees that she needs to change and needs to help to mother and improve herself in school but I think as soon as she goes out she forgets almost everything that I've been talking to her.\n\nOne more thing which I'm worried about is that she doesn't have some crew she hangs out constantly like I did, someone who knows my parents and Vice Versa. \nWe are now in a fight and we don't talk because she told me that I ruined her birthday part since I wouldn't let her out because she came home at 3 a.m (plus she doesn't want to answer her phone, and that's usual stuff) and she went to excursion I didn't want to say goodbye to her.My father told me that she cried in a car because I act like so. \n\nI really would like to improve our relationship but I can not tolerate that kind of behavior. I think, because I'm older and mature person, I need to do something but I would like her to learn lesson and be more responsible but in other hand I am afraid of loosing her, since I know better myself and the fact that I will not let her act as she want.\n\nThank you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\n\nI could really use some advice Reddit. I have younger sister which is in that specific period of her life where she thinks she's smartest kid in the world, that she can do all by her self and doesn't appreciate anyone's good deed. She'll do anything to get what she wants and after that she forgets on all stuff that we did for her. \n\nNow I'm really sorry for my parents because (normally) they will do anything for theirs kid but since she is female, she is not doing any housework, she is lousy in school. \n\nI've tried to talk with her many times, and when I talk to her she understands everything and she agrees that she needs to change and needs to help to mother and improve herself in school but I think as soon as she goes out she forgets almost everything that I've been talking to her.\n\nOne more thing which I'm worried about is that she doesn't have some crew she hangs out constantly like I did, someone who knows my parents and Vice Versa. \nWe are now in a fight and we don't talk because she told me that I ruined her birthday part since I wouldn't let her out because she came home at 3 a.m (plus she doesn't want to answer her phone, and that's usual stuff) and she went to excursion I didn't want to say goodbye to her.My father told me that she cried in a car because I act like so. \n\nI really would like to improve our relationship but I can not tolerate that kind of behavior. I think, because I'm older and mature person, I need to do something but I would like her to learn lesson and be more responsible but in other hand I am afraid of loosing her, since I know better myself and the fact that I will not let her act as she want.\n\nThank you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\n\nI could really use some advice Reddit. I have younger sister which is in that specific period of her life where she thinks she's smartest kid in the world, that she can do all by her self and doesn't appreciate anyone's good deed. She'll do anything to get what she wants and after that she forgets on all stuff that we did for her. \n\nNow I'm really sorry for my parents because (normally) they will do anything for theirs kid but since she is female, she is not doing any housework, she is lousy in school. \n\nI've tried to talk with her many times, and when I talk to her she understands everything and she agrees that she needs to change and needs to help to mother and improve herself in school but I think as soon as she goes out she forgets almost everything that I've been talking to her.\n\nOne more thing which I'm worried about is that she doesn't have some crew she hangs out constantly like I did, someone who knows my parents and Vice Versa. \nWe are now in a fight and we don't talk because she told me that I ruined her birthday part since I wouldn't let her out because she came home at 3 a.m (plus she doesn't want to answer her phone, and that's usual stuff) and she went to excursion I didn't want to say goodbye to her.My father told me that she cried in a car because I act like so. \n\nI really would like to improve our relationship but I can not tolerate that kind of behavior. I think, because I'm older and mature person, I need to do something but I would like her to learn lesson and be more responsible but in other hand I am afraid of loosing her, since I know better myself and the fact that I will not let her act as she want.\n\nThank you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\n\nI could really use some advice Reddit. I have younger sister which is in that specific period of her life where she thinks she's smartest kid in the world, that she can do all by her self and doesn't appreciate anyone's good deed. She'll do anything to get what she wants and after that she forgets on all stuff that we did for her. \n\nNow I'm really sorry for my parents because (normally) they will do anything for theirs kid but since she is female, she is not doing any housework, she is lousy in school. \n\nI've tried to talk with her many times, and when I talk to her she understands everything and she agrees that she needs to change and needs to help to mother and improve herself in school but I think as soon as she goes out she forgets almost everything that I've been talking to her.\n\nOne more thing which I'm worried about is that she doesn't have some crew she hangs out constantly like I did, someone who knows my parents and Vice Versa. \nWe are now in a fight and we don't talk because she told me that I ruined her birthday part since I wouldn't let her out because she came home at 3 a.m (plus she doesn't want to answer her phone, and that's usual stuff) and she went to excursion I didn't want to say goodbye to her.My father told me that she cried in a car because I act like so. \n\nI really would like to improve our relationship but I can not tolerate that kind of behavior. I think, because I'm older and mature person, I need to do something but I would like her to learn lesson and be more responsible but in other hand I am afraid of loosing her, since I know better myself and the fact that I will not let her act as she want.\n\nThank you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\n\nI could really use some advice Reddit. I have younger sister which is in that specific period of her life where she thinks she's smartest kid in the world, that she can do all by her self and doesn't appreciate anyone's good deed. She'll do anything to get what she wants and after that she forgets on all stuff that we did for her. \n\nNow I'm really sorry for my parents because (normally) they will do anything for theirs kid but since she is female, she is not doing any housework, she is lousy in school. \n\nI've tried to talk with her many times, and when I talk to her she understands everything and she agrees that she needs to change and needs to help to mother and improve herself in school but I think as soon as she goes out she forgets almost everything that I've been talking to her.\n\nOne more thing which I'm worried about is that she doesn't have some crew she hangs out constantly like I did, someone who knows my parents and Vice Versa. \nWe are now in a fight and we don't talk because she told me that I ruined her birthday part since I wouldn't let her out because she came home at 3 a.m (plus she doesn't want to answer her phone, and that's usual stuff) and she went to excursion I didn't want to say goodbye to her.My father told me that she cried in a car because I act like so. \n\nI really would like to improve our relationship but I can not tolerate that kind of behavior. I think, because I'm older and mature person, I need to do something but I would like her to learn lesson and be more responsible but in other hand I am afraid of loosing her, since I know better myself and the fact that I will not let her act as she want.\n\nThank you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello,\n\nI could really use some advice Reddit. I have younger sister which is in that specific period of her life where she thinks she's smartest kid in the world, that she can do all by her self and doesn't appreciate anyone's good deed. She'll do anything to get what she wants and after that she forgets on all stuff that we did for her. \n\nNow I'm really sorry for my parents because (normally) they will do anything for theirs kid but since she is female, she is not doing any housework, she is lousy in school. \n\nI've tried to talk with her many times, and when I talk to her she understands everything and she agrees that she needs to change and needs to help to mother and improve herself in school but I think as soon as she goes out she forgets almost everything that I've been talking to her.\n\nOne more thing which I'm worried about is that she doesn't have some crew she hangs out constantly like I did, someone who knows my parents and Vice Versa. \nWe are now in a fight and we don't talk because she told me that I ruined her birthday part since I wouldn't let her out because she came home at 3 a.m (plus she doesn't want to answer her phone, and that's usual stuff) and she went to excursion I didn't want to say goodbye to her.My father told me that she cried in a car because I act like so. \n\nI really would like to improve our relationship but I can not tolerate that kind of behavior. I think, because I'm older and mature person, I need to do something but I would like her to learn lesson and be more responsible but in other hand I am afraid of loosing her, since I know better myself and the fact that I will not let her act as she want.\n\nThank you"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Technically he is my half brother, but his dad left him at a very young age, at which point when my mom (his too) and my dad got together he adopted my brother. They had a huge fight a couple years back and haven't talked since. I am about to get the new 3DS from my dad and have been talking about it non-stop. My mom later pointed out to me that it was uncool, (i didnt notice, i was just really excited) because he didn't get stuff from my dad anymore and his DS had broken down a couple of days ago. I felt really bad, and i wanted to help get him a DS. He's got a job but is going to college soon so he has to be very frugal with his money. So the real question is, if I'm a 12 year old in Ohio, how do i make money?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Technically he is my half brother, but his dad left him at a very young age, at which point when my mom (his too) and my dad got together he adopted my brother. They had a huge fight a couple years back and haven't talked since. I am about to get the new 3DS from my dad and have been talking about it non-stop. My mom later pointed out to me that it was uncool, (i didnt notice, i was just really excited) because he didn't get stuff from my dad anymore and his DS had broken down a couple of days ago. I felt really bad, and i wanted to help get him a DS. He's got a job but is going to college soon so he has to be very frugal with his money. So the real question is, if I'm a 12 year old in Ohio, how do i make money?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Technically he is my half brother, but his dad left him at a very young age, at which point when my mom (his too) and my dad got together he adopted my brother. They had a huge fight a couple years back and haven't talked since. I am about to get the new 3DS from my dad and have been talking about it non-stop. My mom later pointed out to me that it was uncool, (i didnt notice, i was just really excited) because he didn't get stuff from my dad anymore and his DS had broken down a couple of days ago. I felt really bad, and i wanted to help get him a DS. He's got a job but is going to college soon so he has to be very frugal with his money. So the real question is, if I'm a 12 year old in Ohio, how do i make money?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Technically he is my half brother, but his dad left him at a very young age, at which point when my mom (his too) and my dad got together he adopted my brother. They had a huge fight a couple years back and haven't talked since. I am about to get the new 3DS from my dad and have been talking about it non-stop. My mom later pointed out to me that it was uncool, (i didnt notice, i was just really excited) because he didn't get stuff from my dad anymore and his DS had broken down a couple of days ago. I felt really bad, and i wanted to help get him a DS. He's got a job but is going to college soon so he has to be very frugal with his money. So the real question is, if I'm a 12 year old in Ohio, how do i make money?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Technically he is my half brother, but his dad left him at a very young age, at which point when my mom (his too) and my dad got together he adopted my brother. They had a huge fight a couple years back and haven't talked since. I am about to get the new 3DS from my dad and have been talking about it non-stop. My mom later pointed out to me that it was uncool, (i didnt notice, i was just really excited) because he didn't get stuff from my dad anymore and his DS had broken down a couple of days ago. I felt really bad, and i wanted to help get him a DS. He's got a job but is going to college soon so he has to be very frugal with his money. So the real question is, if I'm a 12 year old in Ohio, how do i make money?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Technically he is my half brother, but his dad left him at a very young age, at which point when my mom (his too) and my dad got together he adopted my brother. They had a huge fight a couple years back and haven't talked since. I am about to get the new 3DS from my dad and have been talking about it non-stop. My mom later pointed out to me that it was uncool, (i didnt notice, i was just really excited) because he didn't get stuff from my dad anymore and his DS had broken down a couple of days ago. I felt really bad, and i wanted to help get him a DS. He's got a job but is going to college soon so he has to be very frugal with his money. So the real question is, if I'm a 12 year old in Ohio, how do i make money?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we have been together for almost 2 years. not living together though. he isn't overly sensitive but i don't wanna hurt him. i have been working out for over 3 weeks now and am seeing serious results already (Jillian Michaels body revolution: highly recommend). i love my boyfriend very much and want to encourage him to exercise so that he will look and feel as good as i do. he is very tall so he holds weight well but he is starting to get man boobs and a slight beer gut. and i am an arm girl and his arms are not scrawny but they aren't a turn on for me anymore like when we first got together. he is becoming more. i don't want to say unattractive but less healthy looking i guess to me since i have taken on a healthier lifestyle full on. any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we have been together for almost 2 years. not living together though. he isn't overly sensitive but i don't wanna hurt him. i have been working out for over 3 weeks now and am seeing serious results already (Jillian Michaels body revolution: highly recommend). i love my boyfriend very much and want to encourage him to exercise so that he will look and feel as good as i do. he is very tall so he holds weight well but he is starting to get man boobs and a slight beer gut. and i am an arm girl and his arms are not scrawny but they aren't a turn on for me anymore like when we first got together. he is becoming more. i don't want to say unattractive but less healthy looking i guess to me since i have taken on a healthier lifestyle full on. any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we have been together for almost 2 years. not living together though. he isn't overly sensitive but i don't wanna hurt him. i have been working out for over 3 weeks now and am seeing serious results already (Jillian Michaels body revolution: highly recommend). i love my boyfriend very much and want to encourage him to exercise so that he will look and feel as good as i do. he is very tall so he holds weight well but he is starting to get man boobs and a slight beer gut. and i am an arm girl and his arms are not scrawny but they aren't a turn on for me anymore like when we first got together. he is becoming more. i don't want to say unattractive but less healthy looking i guess to me since i have taken on a healthier lifestyle full on. any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we have been together for almost 2 years. not living together though. he isn't overly sensitive but i don't wanna hurt him. i have been working out for over 3 weeks now and am seeing serious results already (Jillian Michaels body revolution: highly recommend). i love my boyfriend very much and want to encourage him to exercise so that he will look and feel as good as i do. he is very tall so he holds weight well but he is starting to get man boobs and a slight beer gut. and i am an arm girl and his arms are not scrawny but they aren't a turn on for me anymore like when we first got together. he is becoming more. i don't want to say unattractive but less healthy looking i guess to me since i have taken on a healthier lifestyle full on. any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we have been together for almost 2 years. not living together though. he isn't overly sensitive but i don't wanna hurt him. i have been working out for over 3 weeks now and am seeing serious results already (Jillian Michaels body revolution: highly recommend). i love my boyfriend very much and want to encourage him to exercise so that he will look and feel as good as i do. he is very tall so he holds weight well but he is starting to get man boobs and a slight beer gut. and i am an arm girl and his arms are not scrawny but they aren't a turn on for me anymore like when we first got together. he is becoming more. i don't want to say unattractive but less healthy looking i guess to me since i have taken on a healthier lifestyle full on. any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: we have been together for almost 2 years. not living together though. he isn't overly sensitive but i don't wanna hurt him. i have been working out for over 3 weeks now and am seeing serious results already (Jillian Michaels body revolution: highly recommend). i love my boyfriend very much and want to encourage him to exercise so that he will look and feel as good as i do. he is very tall so he holds weight well but he is starting to get man boobs and a slight beer gut. and i am an arm girl and his arms are not scrawny but they aren't a turn on for me anymore like when we first got together. he is becoming more. i don't want to say unattractive but less healthy looking i guess to me since i have taken on a healthier lifestyle full on. any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright, so here's the story. I had downloaded BitTorrent earlier, and my dad started complaining \"blahblahblah you get nothing but viruses from that blahblahblah\". I just said \"It's my computer, I can do what I want, and I'm careful enough not to get viruses all the time. Besides, what do you prefer, when I use BitTorrent or when I ask you to buy me a $699 program?\"\nThen a couple of months later, I just get out of the shower and see my dad sitting at my pc (he needed to search something on le interwebs), and then he notices Spotify running. Again, same story, complaining how I'll get viruses and wondering what this program even does. I say it's for music. \"blahblahblah you could just use youtube\".\nIt annoys me as hell the fact that he always checks which programs I have installed and complains how I'll get viruses."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright, so here's the story. I had downloaded BitTorrent earlier, and my dad started complaining \"blahblahblah you get nothing but viruses from that blahblahblah\". I just said \"It's my computer, I can do what I want, and I'm careful enough not to get viruses all the time. Besides, what do you prefer, when I use BitTorrent or when I ask you to buy me a $699 program?\"\nThen a couple of months later, I just get out of the shower and see my dad sitting at my pc (he needed to search something on le interwebs), and then he notices Spotify running. Again, same story, complaining how I'll get viruses and wondering what this program even does. I say it's for music. \"blahblahblah you could just use youtube\".\nIt annoys me as hell the fact that he always checks which programs I have installed and complains how I'll get viruses."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Alright, so here's the story. I had downloaded BitTorrent earlier, and my dad started complaining \"blahblahblah you get nothing but viruses from that blahblahblah\". I just said \"It's my computer, I can do what I want, and I'm careful enough not to get viruses all the time. Besides, what do you prefer, when I use BitTorrent or when I ask you to buy me a $699 program?\"\nThen a couple of months later, I just get out of the shower and see my dad sitting at my pc (he needed to search something on le interwebs), and then he notices Spotify running. Again, same story, complaining how I'll get viruses and wondering what this program even does. I say it's for music. \"blahblahblah you could just use youtube\".\nIt annoys me as hell the fact that he always checks which programs I have installed and complains how I'll get viruses."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Bobby, a kid in my son's kindergarten class, seemed to be a good friend of my son's. But in the last couple of months, he has become bossy, controlling, and downright mean to my son.\n\nBobby and my son have done numerous playdates at each other's house throughout the school year, and during these playdates I've developed a friendship with Bobby's mom.\n\nBobby's mom is very outgoing and frequently invites us to do things together, like playdates and sports. But honestly, from what I've witnessed of Bobby's interaction with my son, I feel like my son should get some distance from Bobby. Bobby's constantly putting my son down, lying about him, and trying to get him in trouble. I hate to say it, but Bobby's quite an asshole.\n\nThe last couple of times Bobby's mother invited us to do something with them, I turned her down with fake excuses. But I've decided that my son's self esteem is too important, and I no longer want my son hanging out with someone like Bobby. The playdates will have to come to an end.\n\nI am torn between how I should get the point across to Bobby's mom. Should I continue evading her invitations and making up excuses or just tell her the truth about how I don't like the interaction between our sons?\n\nHave any of you been in this kind of situation? If so, how did or would you handle it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Bobby, a kid in my son's kindergarten class, seemed to be a good friend of my son's. But in the last couple of months, he has become bossy, controlling, and downright mean to my son.\n\nBobby and my son have done numerous playdates at each other's house throughout the school year, and during these playdates I've developed a friendship with Bobby's mom.\n\nBobby's mom is very outgoing and frequently invites us to do things together, like playdates and sports. But honestly, from what I've witnessed of Bobby's interaction with my son, I feel like my son should get some distance from Bobby. Bobby's constantly putting my son down, lying about him, and trying to get him in trouble. I hate to say it, but Bobby's quite an asshole.\n\nThe last couple of times Bobby's mother invited us to do something with them, I turned her down with fake excuses. But I've decided that my son's self esteem is too important, and I no longer want my son hanging out with someone like Bobby. The playdates will have to come to an end.\n\nI am torn between how I should get the point across to Bobby's mom. Should I continue evading her invitations and making up excuses or just tell her the truth about how I don't like the interaction between our sons?\n\nHave any of you been in this kind of situation? If so, how did or would you handle it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Bobby, a kid in my son's kindergarten class, seemed to be a good friend of my son's. But in the last couple of months, he has become bossy, controlling, and downright mean to my son.\n\nBobby and my son have done numerous playdates at each other's house throughout the school year, and during these playdates I've developed a friendship with Bobby's mom.\n\nBobby's mom is very outgoing and frequently invites us to do things together, like playdates and sports. But honestly, from what I've witnessed of Bobby's interaction with my son, I feel like my son should get some distance from Bobby. Bobby's constantly putting my son down, lying about him, and trying to get him in trouble. I hate to say it, but Bobby's quite an asshole.\n\nThe last couple of times Bobby's mother invited us to do something with them, I turned her down with fake excuses. But I've decided that my son's self esteem is too important, and I no longer want my son hanging out with someone like Bobby. The playdates will have to come to an end.\n\nI am torn between how I should get the point across to Bobby's mom. Should I continue evading her invitations and making up excuses or just tell her the truth about how I don't like the interaction between our sons?\n\nHave any of you been in this kind of situation? If so, how did or would you handle it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Bobby, a kid in my son's kindergarten class, seemed to be a good friend of my son's. But in the last couple of months, he has become bossy, controlling, and downright mean to my son.\n\nBobby and my son have done numerous playdates at each other's house throughout the school year, and during these playdates I've developed a friendship with Bobby's mom.\n\nBobby's mom is very outgoing and frequently invites us to do things together, like playdates and sports. But honestly, from what I've witnessed of Bobby's interaction with my son, I feel like my son should get some distance from Bobby. Bobby's constantly putting my son down, lying about him, and trying to get him in trouble. I hate to say it, but Bobby's quite an asshole.\n\nThe last couple of times Bobby's mother invited us to do something with them, I turned her down with fake excuses. But I've decided that my son's self esteem is too important, and I no longer want my son hanging out with someone like Bobby. The playdates will have to come to an end.\n\nI am torn between how I should get the point across to Bobby's mom. Should I continue evading her invitations and making up excuses or just tell her the truth about how I don't like the interaction between our sons?\n\nHave any of you been in this kind of situation? If so, how did or would you handle it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Bobby, a kid in my son's kindergarten class, seemed to be a good friend of my son's. But in the last couple of months, he has become bossy, controlling, and downright mean to my son.\n\nBobby and my son have done numerous playdates at each other's house throughout the school year, and during these playdates I've developed a friendship with Bobby's mom.\n\nBobby's mom is very outgoing and frequently invites us to do things together, like playdates and sports. But honestly, from what I've witnessed of Bobby's interaction with my son, I feel like my son should get some distance from Bobby. Bobby's constantly putting my son down, lying about him, and trying to get him in trouble. I hate to say it, but Bobby's quite an asshole.\n\nThe last couple of times Bobby's mother invited us to do something with them, I turned her down with fake excuses. But I've decided that my son's self esteem is too important, and I no longer want my son hanging out with someone like Bobby. The playdates will have to come to an end.\n\nI am torn between how I should get the point across to Bobby's mom. Should I continue evading her invitations and making up excuses or just tell her the truth about how I don't like the interaction between our sons?\n\nHave any of you been in this kind of situation? If so, how did or would you handle it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Bobby, a kid in my son's kindergarten class, seemed to be a good friend of my son's. But in the last couple of months, he has become bossy, controlling, and downright mean to my son.\n\nBobby and my son have done numerous playdates at each other's house throughout the school year, and during these playdates I've developed a friendship with Bobby's mom.\n\nBobby's mom is very outgoing and frequently invites us to do things together, like playdates and sports. But honestly, from what I've witnessed of Bobby's interaction with my son, I feel like my son should get some distance from Bobby. Bobby's constantly putting my son down, lying about him, and trying to get him in trouble. I hate to say it, but Bobby's quite an asshole.\n\nThe last couple of times Bobby's mother invited us to do something with them, I turned her down with fake excuses. But I've decided that my son's self esteem is too important, and I no longer want my son hanging out with someone like Bobby. The playdates will have to come to an end.\n\nI am torn between how I should get the point across to Bobby's mom. Should I continue evading her invitations and making up excuses or just tell her the truth about how I don't like the interaction between our sons?\n\nHave any of you been in this kind of situation? If so, how did or would you handle it?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I (25/f) have been in a great relationship with my bf (25/m) for over a year. Recently, he and an ex-girlfriend got in touch. Last week, he took a personal week off of work and went to his home state for vacation (where she lives), and naturally, they hung out together to catch up and such. \n\nHe's honest with me about it, he knows it makes me feel bad and made sure to carefully tell me about it. He wants to maintain a friendship with this ex, whom he's known for many years. He assured me there's nothing to worry about. I really respect that, and I don't want to do or say anything that makes him feel guilty (because he shouldn't!).\n\nHowever, I just can't get over it! It bothers me and I don't know how to make it go away. I think about them hanging out, having drinks, laughing together, sharing moments. Even though it's all friendly, it still makes me feel really sad. She and I are very different, and I knew her a little bit in school (we all went to college together), but I never hung out with her because we just didn't click. I know he values her friendship and I respect that. However, now I find myself acting distant from him because I feel bad and don't feel like hanging out with him now, because I somehow feel like he's hurt me - even though he didn't do anything! He doesn't deserve to be treated like this. I don't want to be the unreasonable girlfriend who makes her bf feel weirdly guilty even though he's done nothing wrong. I don't want him to feel like I'm trying to control him. He can have healthy friendships with anyone he wants. I just want this upset feeling in ME to go away so I can be normal again!\n\nIf you have any advice on how to get over something like this fast, please share it!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I (25/f) have been in a great relationship with my bf (25/m) for over a year. Recently, he and an ex-girlfriend got in touch. Last week, he took a personal week off of work and went to his home state for vacation (where she lives), and naturally, they hung out together to catch up and such. \n\nHe's honest with me about it, he knows it makes me feel bad and made sure to carefully tell me about it. He wants to maintain a friendship with this ex, whom he's known for many years. He assured me there's nothing to worry about. I really respect that, and I don't want to do or say anything that makes him feel guilty (because he shouldn't!).\n\nHowever, I just can't get over it! It bothers me and I don't know how to make it go away. I think about them hanging out, having drinks, laughing together, sharing moments. Even though it's all friendly, it still makes me feel really sad. She and I are very different, and I knew her a little bit in school (we all went to college together), but I never hung out with her because we just didn't click. I know he values her friendship and I respect that. However, now I find myself acting distant from him because I feel bad and don't feel like hanging out with him now, because I somehow feel like he's hurt me - even though he didn't do anything! He doesn't deserve to be treated like this. I don't want to be the unreasonable girlfriend who makes her bf feel weirdly guilty even though he's done nothing wrong. I don't want him to feel like I'm trying to control him. He can have healthy friendships with anyone he wants. I just want this upset feeling in ME to go away so I can be normal again!\n\nIf you have any advice on how to get over something like this fast, please share it!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I (25/f) have been in a great relationship with my bf (25/m) for over a year. Recently, he and an ex-girlfriend got in touch. Last week, he took a personal week off of work and went to his home state for vacation (where she lives), and naturally, they hung out together to catch up and such. \n\nHe's honest with me about it, he knows it makes me feel bad and made sure to carefully tell me about it. He wants to maintain a friendship with this ex, whom he's known for many years. He assured me there's nothing to worry about. I really respect that, and I don't want to do or say anything that makes him feel guilty (because he shouldn't!).\n\nHowever, I just can't get over it! It bothers me and I don't know how to make it go away. I think about them hanging out, having drinks, laughing together, sharing moments. Even though it's all friendly, it still makes me feel really sad. She and I are very different, and I knew her a little bit in school (we all went to college together), but I never hung out with her because we just didn't click. I know he values her friendship and I respect that. However, now I find myself acting distant from him because I feel bad and don't feel like hanging out with him now, because I somehow feel like he's hurt me - even though he didn't do anything! He doesn't deserve to be treated like this. I don't want to be the unreasonable girlfriend who makes her bf feel weirdly guilty even though he's done nothing wrong. I don't want him to feel like I'm trying to control him. He can have healthy friendships with anyone he wants. I just want this upset feeling in ME to go away so I can be normal again!\n\nIf you have any advice on how to get over something like this fast, please share it!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I (25/f) have been in a great relationship with my bf (25/m) for over a year. Recently, he and an ex-girlfriend got in touch. Last week, he took a personal week off of work and went to his home state for vacation (where she lives), and naturally, they hung out together to catch up and such. \n\nHe's honest with me about it, he knows it makes me feel bad and made sure to carefully tell me about it. He wants to maintain a friendship with this ex, whom he's known for many years. He assured me there's nothing to worry about. I really respect that, and I don't want to do or say anything that makes him feel guilty (because he shouldn't!).\n\nHowever, I just can't get over it! It bothers me and I don't know how to make it go away. I think about them hanging out, having drinks, laughing together, sharing moments. Even though it's all friendly, it still makes me feel really sad. She and I are very different, and I knew her a little bit in school (we all went to college together), but I never hung out with her because we just didn't click. I know he values her friendship and I respect that. However, now I find myself acting distant from him because I feel bad and don't feel like hanging out with him now, because I somehow feel like he's hurt me - even though he didn't do anything! He doesn't deserve to be treated like this. I don't want to be the unreasonable girlfriend who makes her bf feel weirdly guilty even though he's done nothing wrong. I don't want him to feel like I'm trying to control him. He can have healthy friendships with anyone he wants. I just want this upset feeling in ME to go away so I can be normal again!\n\nIf you have any advice on how to get over something like this fast, please share it!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I (25/f) have been in a great relationship with my bf (25/m) for over a year. Recently, he and an ex-girlfriend got in touch. Last week, he took a personal week off of work and went to his home state for vacation (where she lives), and naturally, they hung out together to catch up and such. \n\nHe's honest with me about it, he knows it makes me feel bad and made sure to carefully tell me about it. He wants to maintain a friendship with this ex, whom he's known for many years. He assured me there's nothing to worry about. I really respect that, and I don't want to do or say anything that makes him feel guilty (because he shouldn't!).\n\nHowever, I just can't get over it! It bothers me and I don't know how to make it go away. I think about them hanging out, having drinks, laughing together, sharing moments. Even though it's all friendly, it still makes me feel really sad. She and I are very different, and I knew her a little bit in school (we all went to college together), but I never hung out with her because we just didn't click. I know he values her friendship and I respect that. However, now I find myself acting distant from him because I feel bad and don't feel like hanging out with him now, because I somehow feel like he's hurt me - even though he didn't do anything! He doesn't deserve to be treated like this. I don't want to be the unreasonable girlfriend who makes her bf feel weirdly guilty even though he's done nothing wrong. I don't want him to feel like I'm trying to control him. He can have healthy friendships with anyone he wants. I just want this upset feeling in ME to go away so I can be normal again!\n\nIf you have any advice on how to get over something like this fast, please share it!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically, I (25/f) have been in a great relationship with my bf (25/m) for over a year. Recently, he and an ex-girlfriend got in touch. Last week, he took a personal week off of work and went to his home state for vacation (where she lives), and naturally, they hung out together to catch up and such. \n\nHe's honest with me about it, he knows it makes me feel bad and made sure to carefully tell me about it. He wants to maintain a friendship with this ex, whom he's known for many years. He assured me there's nothing to worry about. I really respect that, and I don't want to do or say anything that makes him feel guilty (because he shouldn't!).\n\nHowever, I just can't get over it! It bothers me and I don't know how to make it go away. I think about them hanging out, having drinks, laughing together, sharing moments. Even though it's all friendly, it still makes me feel really sad. She and I are very different, and I knew her a little bit in school (we all went to college together), but I never hung out with her because we just didn't click. I know he values her friendship and I respect that. However, now I find myself acting distant from him because I feel bad and don't feel like hanging out with him now, because I somehow feel like he's hurt me - even though he didn't do anything! He doesn't deserve to be treated like this. I don't want to be the unreasonable girlfriend who makes her bf feel weirdly guilty even though he's done nothing wrong. I don't want him to feel like I'm trying to control him. He can have healthy friendships with anyone he wants. I just want this upset feeling in ME to go away so I can be normal again!\n\nIf you have any advice on how to get over something like this fast, please share it!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel really awful for feeling this. I've never smoked anything and I've never had marijuana in my system before. He used to smoke with his friends right after he graduated from high school and hasn't done it in a while. He's been wanting to do this with me since we started dating and lately he's gotten more excited about doing it with me. \n\nLast night he told me he wanted to get high with me after work tonight. We live with his parents and they're out of town for a few days so he thought this would be the perfect time. He bought a couple grams and since I have asthma, he suggested we make brownies and then he proceeded to get all of the stuff ready last night and finished this morning. \n\nI'm really really nervous about this. Marijauna is the only drug I've ever considered doing but I've never done anything before. I feel a little bit pressured into it right now because of how excited he is about it and I'm considering not trying it yet. I'm scared or nervous, I can't tell which. I still want to do it with him but I'm not sure if I want to do it today. I thought I'd be more into this than I am. I really want to talk to him but I don't want to crush his spirit either. His parents don't go out of town much so we wouldn't get another opportunity for a while. (They would be furious if they found out we were even interested in using marijuana even though it's legal where we live.) \n\nHow can I bring this up to him or should I bring it up at all?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel really awful for feeling this. I've never smoked anything and I've never had marijuana in my system before. He used to smoke with his friends right after he graduated from high school and hasn't done it in a while. He's been wanting to do this with me since we started dating and lately he's gotten more excited about doing it with me. \n\nLast night he told me he wanted to get high with me after work tonight. We live with his parents and they're out of town for a few days so he thought this would be the perfect time. He bought a couple grams and since I have asthma, he suggested we make brownies and then he proceeded to get all of the stuff ready last night and finished this morning. \n\nI'm really really nervous about this. Marijauna is the only drug I've ever considered doing but I've never done anything before. I feel a little bit pressured into it right now because of how excited he is about it and I'm considering not trying it yet. I'm scared or nervous, I can't tell which. I still want to do it with him but I'm not sure if I want to do it today. I thought I'd be more into this than I am. I really want to talk to him but I don't want to crush his spirit either. His parents don't go out of town much so we wouldn't get another opportunity for a while. (They would be furious if they found out we were even interested in using marijuana even though it's legal where we live.) \n\nHow can I bring this up to him or should I bring it up at all?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel really awful for feeling this. I've never smoked anything and I've never had marijuana in my system before. He used to smoke with his friends right after he graduated from high school and hasn't done it in a while. He's been wanting to do this with me since we started dating and lately he's gotten more excited about doing it with me. \n\nLast night he told me he wanted to get high with me after work tonight. We live with his parents and they're out of town for a few days so he thought this would be the perfect time. He bought a couple grams and since I have asthma, he suggested we make brownies and then he proceeded to get all of the stuff ready last night and finished this morning. \n\nI'm really really nervous about this. Marijauna is the only drug I've ever considered doing but I've never done anything before. I feel a little bit pressured into it right now because of how excited he is about it and I'm considering not trying it yet. I'm scared or nervous, I can't tell which. I still want to do it with him but I'm not sure if I want to do it today. I thought I'd be more into this than I am. I really want to talk to him but I don't want to crush his spirit either. His parents don't go out of town much so we wouldn't get another opportunity for a while. (They would be furious if they found out we were even interested in using marijuana even though it's legal where we live.) \n\nHow can I bring this up to him or should I bring it up at all?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel really awful for feeling this. I've never smoked anything and I've never had marijuana in my system before. He used to smoke with his friends right after he graduated from high school and hasn't done it in a while. He's been wanting to do this with me since we started dating and lately he's gotten more excited about doing it with me. \n\nLast night he told me he wanted to get high with me after work tonight. We live with his parents and they're out of town for a few days so he thought this would be the perfect time. He bought a couple grams and since I have asthma, he suggested we make brownies and then he proceeded to get all of the stuff ready last night and finished this morning. \n\nI'm really really nervous about this. Marijauna is the only drug I've ever considered doing but I've never done anything before. I feel a little bit pressured into it right now because of how excited he is about it and I'm considering not trying it yet. I'm scared or nervous, I can't tell which. I still want to do it with him but I'm not sure if I want to do it today. I thought I'd be more into this than I am. I really want to talk to him but I don't want to crush his spirit either. His parents don't go out of town much so we wouldn't get another opportunity for a while. (They would be furious if they found out we were even interested in using marijuana even though it's legal where we live.) \n\nHow can I bring this up to him or should I bring it up at all?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel really awful for feeling this. I've never smoked anything and I've never had marijuana in my system before. He used to smoke with his friends right after he graduated from high school and hasn't done it in a while. He's been wanting to do this with me since we started dating and lately he's gotten more excited about doing it with me. \n\nLast night he told me he wanted to get high with me after work tonight. We live with his parents and they're out of town for a few days so he thought this would be the perfect time. He bought a couple grams and since I have asthma, he suggested we make brownies and then he proceeded to get all of the stuff ready last night and finished this morning. \n\nI'm really really nervous about this. Marijauna is the only drug I've ever considered doing but I've never done anything before. I feel a little bit pressured into it right now because of how excited he is about it and I'm considering not trying it yet. I'm scared or nervous, I can't tell which. I still want to do it with him but I'm not sure if I want to do it today. I thought I'd be more into this than I am. I really want to talk to him but I don't want to crush his spirit either. His parents don't go out of town much so we wouldn't get another opportunity for a while. (They would be furious if they found out we were even interested in using marijuana even though it's legal where we live.) \n\nHow can I bring this up to him or should I bring it up at all?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend[22] and I[22] have been together for two years. We've recently opened our relationship and after taking some time to adjust I've become quite comfortable with it.\nHe met a girl at his work who is 23, engaged and also open. They slept together earlier this week on the same day my boyfriend and I had a huge fight and I ended things. Before anyone answers with \"Well you two were broken up so everything is fair game\" I feel I should mention that whenever we fight it ends in a breakup that neither of us takes seriously.\n\nAfter they slept together, I was more comfortable with the track our relationship was on. I consider myself friends with the woman he slept with and she's prided herself on being an honest person so I took her word for it when she said that they had used a condom.\nTonight I went to log onto facebook and my boyfriend was still logged in. His conversation with this other woman had been left open and displayed a message that made it quite clear to me that they had not used protection. When we agreed to be open my boyfriend and I had made a 'no condom, no sex' rule and I am extremely bothered by the fact that he broke this rule.\n\nI've considered just flat out telling him that I know what he did, but in the past he did something less than honorable, but not so serious and I found out in the same way. The fact that he'd overstepped a boundary was shadowed by the fact that I saw it on his facebook.\nMy question for you Reddit, is this: how should I confront him about this without bringing up where I found out? I've considered asking her if they used one of our condoms because we're short (we don't use condoms), but this could backfire. \n\nI should also add that due to my boyfriend being an avid Redditor, I will be deleting this post in a couple of hours."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend[22] and I[22] have been together for two years. We've recently opened our relationship and after taking some time to adjust I've become quite comfortable with it.\nHe met a girl at his work who is 23, engaged and also open. They slept together earlier this week on the same day my boyfriend and I had a huge fight and I ended things. Before anyone answers with \"Well you two were broken up so everything is fair game\" I feel I should mention that whenever we fight it ends in a breakup that neither of us takes seriously.\n\nAfter they slept together, I was more comfortable with the track our relationship was on. I consider myself friends with the woman he slept with and she's prided herself on being an honest person so I took her word for it when she said that they had used a condom.\nTonight I went to log onto facebook and my boyfriend was still logged in. His conversation with this other woman had been left open and displayed a message that made it quite clear to me that they had not used protection. When we agreed to be open my boyfriend and I had made a 'no condom, no sex' rule and I am extremely bothered by the fact that he broke this rule.\n\nI've considered just flat out telling him that I know what he did, but in the past he did something less than honorable, but not so serious and I found out in the same way. The fact that he'd overstepped a boundary was shadowed by the fact that I saw it on his facebook.\nMy question for you Reddit, is this: how should I confront him about this without bringing up where I found out? I've considered asking her if they used one of our condoms because we're short (we don't use condoms), but this could backfire. \n\nI should also add that due to my boyfriend being an avid Redditor, I will be deleting this post in a couple of hours."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend[22] and I[22] have been together for two years. We've recently opened our relationship and after taking some time to adjust I've become quite comfortable with it.\nHe met a girl at his work who is 23, engaged and also open. They slept together earlier this week on the same day my boyfriend and I had a huge fight and I ended things. Before anyone answers with \"Well you two were broken up so everything is fair game\" I feel I should mention that whenever we fight it ends in a breakup that neither of us takes seriously.\n\nAfter they slept together, I was more comfortable with the track our relationship was on. I consider myself friends with the woman he slept with and she's prided herself on being an honest person so I took her word for it when she said that they had used a condom.\nTonight I went to log onto facebook and my boyfriend was still logged in. His conversation with this other woman had been left open and displayed a message that made it quite clear to me that they had not used protection. When we agreed to be open my boyfriend and I had made a 'no condom, no sex' rule and I am extremely bothered by the fact that he broke this rule.\n\nI've considered just flat out telling him that I know what he did, but in the past he did something less than honorable, but not so serious and I found out in the same way. The fact that he'd overstepped a boundary was shadowed by the fact that I saw it on his facebook.\nMy question for you Reddit, is this: how should I confront him about this without bringing up where I found out? I've considered asking her if they used one of our condoms because we're short (we don't use condoms), but this could backfire. \n\nI should also add that due to my boyfriend being an avid Redditor, I will be deleting this post in a couple of hours."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend[22] and I[22] have been together for two years. We've recently opened our relationship and after taking some time to adjust I've become quite comfortable with it.\nHe met a girl at his work who is 23, engaged and also open. They slept together earlier this week on the same day my boyfriend and I had a huge fight and I ended things. Before anyone answers with \"Well you two were broken up so everything is fair game\" I feel I should mention that whenever we fight it ends in a breakup that neither of us takes seriously.\n\nAfter they slept together, I was more comfortable with the track our relationship was on. I consider myself friends with the woman he slept with and she's prided herself on being an honest person so I took her word for it when she said that they had used a condom.\nTonight I went to log onto facebook and my boyfriend was still logged in. His conversation with this other woman had been left open and displayed a message that made it quite clear to me that they had not used protection. When we agreed to be open my boyfriend and I had made a 'no condom, no sex' rule and I am extremely bothered by the fact that he broke this rule.\n\nI've considered just flat out telling him that I know what he did, but in the past he did something less than honorable, but not so serious and I found out in the same way. The fact that he'd overstepped a boundary was shadowed by the fact that I saw it on his facebook.\nMy question for you Reddit, is this: how should I confront him about this without bringing up where I found out? I've considered asking her if they used one of our condoms because we're short (we don't use condoms), but this could backfire. \n\nI should also add that due to my boyfriend being an avid Redditor, I will be deleting this post in a couple of hours."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend[22] and I[22] have been together for two years. We've recently opened our relationship and after taking some time to adjust I've become quite comfortable with it.\nHe met a girl at his work who is 23, engaged and also open. They slept together earlier this week on the same day my boyfriend and I had a huge fight and I ended things. Before anyone answers with \"Well you two were broken up so everything is fair game\" I feel I should mention that whenever we fight it ends in a breakup that neither of us takes seriously.\n\nAfter they slept together, I was more comfortable with the track our relationship was on. I consider myself friends with the woman he slept with and she's prided herself on being an honest person so I took her word for it when she said that they had used a condom.\nTonight I went to log onto facebook and my boyfriend was still logged in. His conversation with this other woman had been left open and displayed a message that made it quite clear to me that they had not used protection. When we agreed to be open my boyfriend and I had made a 'no condom, no sex' rule and I am extremely bothered by the fact that he broke this rule.\n\nI've considered just flat out telling him that I know what he did, but in the past he did something less than honorable, but not so serious and I found out in the same way. The fact that he'd overstepped a boundary was shadowed by the fact that I saw it on his facebook.\nMy question for you Reddit, is this: how should I confront him about this without bringing up where I found out? I've considered asking her if they used one of our condoms because we're short (we don't use condoms), but this could backfire. \n\nI should also add that due to my boyfriend being an avid Redditor, I will be deleting this post in a couple of hours."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend[22] and I[22] have been together for two years. We've recently opened our relationship and after taking some time to adjust I've become quite comfortable with it.\nHe met a girl at his work who is 23, engaged and also open. They slept together earlier this week on the same day my boyfriend and I had a huge fight and I ended things. Before anyone answers with \"Well you two were broken up so everything is fair game\" I feel I should mention that whenever we fight it ends in a breakup that neither of us takes seriously.\n\nAfter they slept together, I was more comfortable with the track our relationship was on. I consider myself friends with the woman he slept with and she's prided herself on being an honest person so I took her word for it when she said that they had used a condom.\nTonight I went to log onto facebook and my boyfriend was still logged in. His conversation with this other woman had been left open and displayed a message that made it quite clear to me that they had not used protection. When we agreed to be open my boyfriend and I had made a 'no condom, no sex' rule and I am extremely bothered by the fact that he broke this rule.\n\nI've considered just flat out telling him that I know what he did, but in the past he did something less than honorable, but not so serious and I found out in the same way. The fact that he'd overstepped a boundary was shadowed by the fact that I saw it on his facebook.\nMy question for you Reddit, is this: how should I confront him about this without bringing up where I found out? I've considered asking her if they used one of our condoms because we're short (we don't use condoms), but this could backfire. \n\nI should also add that due to my boyfriend being an avid Redditor, I will be deleting this post in a couple of hours."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I received a sudden email from Skype a month or two ago saying my account had been suspended due to it bring \"possibly comprised\". I was not directed as to what steps to take so I looked it up and filled out their online form requesting my account to be reactivated. This form asks very specific questions about the details of the account, to which I'm confident I answered more than half correctly including the credit card number. \nI received an email response stating that security is paramount and that they would like me to fill out the form a second time. Over the course the next two weeks I sent the replies by email asking why, to which I received no reply. \nI finally got around to filling out the form a second time on Monday this week. The automated program prevention system (captcha) failed me over 20 times and I was never able to submit. I took screenshots of the filled-out boxes and sent another email reply to Skype informing them of the situation and notifying them I had filled it out a second time. \nI received an email response asking me to fill out the form (same questions) a third time. That was yesterday. I filled it out quickly and got a response today by email asking me to fill out the form a fourth time. I filled it out again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I received a sudden email from Skype a month or two ago saying my account had been suspended due to it bring \"possibly comprised\". I was not directed as to what steps to take so I looked it up and filled out their online form requesting my account to be reactivated. This form asks very specific questions about the details of the account, to which I'm confident I answered more than half correctly including the credit card number. \nI received an email response stating that security is paramount and that they would like me to fill out the form a second time. Over the course the next two weeks I sent the replies by email asking why, to which I received no reply. \nI finally got around to filling out the form a second time on Monday this week. The automated program prevention system (captcha) failed me over 20 times and I was never able to submit. I took screenshots of the filled-out boxes and sent another email reply to Skype informing them of the situation and notifying them I had filled it out a second time. \nI received an email response asking me to fill out the form (same questions) a third time. That was yesterday. I filled it out quickly and got a response today by email asking me to fill out the form a fourth time. I filled it out again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I received a sudden email from Skype a month or two ago saying my account had been suspended due to it bring \"possibly comprised\". I was not directed as to what steps to take so I looked it up and filled out their online form requesting my account to be reactivated. This form asks very specific questions about the details of the account, to which I'm confident I answered more than half correctly including the credit card number. \nI received an email response stating that security is paramount and that they would like me to fill out the form a second time. Over the course the next two weeks I sent the replies by email asking why, to which I received no reply. \nI finally got around to filling out the form a second time on Monday this week. The automated program prevention system (captcha) failed me over 20 times and I was never able to submit. I took screenshots of the filled-out boxes and sent another email reply to Skype informing them of the situation and notifying them I had filled it out a second time. \nI received an email response asking me to fill out the form (same questions) a third time. That was yesterday. I filled it out quickly and got a response today by email asking me to fill out the form a fourth time. I filled it out again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I received a sudden email from Skype a month or two ago saying my account had been suspended due to it bring \"possibly comprised\". I was not directed as to what steps to take so I looked it up and filled out their online form requesting my account to be reactivated. This form asks very specific questions about the details of the account, to which I'm confident I answered more than half correctly including the credit card number. \nI received an email response stating that security is paramount and that they would like me to fill out the form a second time. Over the course the next two weeks I sent the replies by email asking why, to which I received no reply. \nI finally got around to filling out the form a second time on Monday this week. The automated program prevention system (captcha) failed me over 20 times and I was never able to submit. I took screenshots of the filled-out boxes and sent another email reply to Skype informing them of the situation and notifying them I had filled it out a second time. \nI received an email response asking me to fill out the form (same questions) a third time. That was yesterday. I filled it out quickly and got a response today by email asking me to fill out the form a fourth time. I filled it out again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I received a sudden email from Skype a month or two ago saying my account had been suspended due to it bring \"possibly comprised\". I was not directed as to what steps to take so I looked it up and filled out their online form requesting my account to be reactivated. This form asks very specific questions about the details of the account, to which I'm confident I answered more than half correctly including the credit card number. \nI received an email response stating that security is paramount and that they would like me to fill out the form a second time. Over the course the next two weeks I sent the replies by email asking why, to which I received no reply. \nI finally got around to filling out the form a second time on Monday this week. The automated program prevention system (captcha) failed me over 20 times and I was never able to submit. I took screenshots of the filled-out boxes and sent another email reply to Skype informing them of the situation and notifying them I had filled it out a second time. \nI received an email response asking me to fill out the form (same questions) a third time. That was yesterday. I filled it out quickly and got a response today by email asking me to fill out the form a fourth time. I filled it out again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I received a sudden email from Skype a month or two ago saying my account had been suspended due to it bring \"possibly comprised\". I was not directed as to what steps to take so I looked it up and filled out their online form requesting my account to be reactivated. This form asks very specific questions about the details of the account, to which I'm confident I answered more than half correctly including the credit card number. \nI received an email response stating that security is paramount and that they would like me to fill out the form a second time. Over the course the next two weeks I sent the replies by email asking why, to which I received no reply. \nI finally got around to filling out the form a second time on Monday this week. The automated program prevention system (captcha) failed me over 20 times and I was never able to submit. I took screenshots of the filled-out boxes and sent another email reply to Skype informing them of the situation and notifying them I had filled it out a second time. \nI received an email response asking me to fill out the form (same questions) a third time. That was yesterday. I filled it out quickly and got a response today by email asking me to fill out the form a fourth time. I filled it out again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He's a senior in high school and I dorm so I'm not at home most of the time. Basically he's become quite rude and aggressive in his behavior towards my parents. He also does not respect their wishes. They give him everything, car, gas, money etc. He'll be out all night, or disappear for a few days at a time, without telling anyone. He doesn't do anything around the house to help out nor does he have a job. He had a good paying job (under the table) but he quit that so he could have fun (It's fine he's a kid but he takes on no responsibility). He spends important family holidays (Thanksgiving) with his friends rather than us. He bought his friends mom a mother's day present but does nothing for our own mom. He's barely graduating and doesn't care about applying to colleges or his SATs. On top of that he refuses to see what's wrong with his behavior. He doesn't often open up to me but he told me he used to cut because he felt like our parents weren't proud of him and compared him to more successful kids.\n\nI know I'm not his mom but this has really been stressing my parents out and they work day and night to make ends meet. I recognize we're different people and I respect that. What can I do to positively influence him and help see what he's doing wrong and how it affects the people around him?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He's a senior in high school and I dorm so I'm not at home most of the time. Basically he's become quite rude and aggressive in his behavior towards my parents. He also does not respect their wishes. They give him everything, car, gas, money etc. He'll be out all night, or disappear for a few days at a time, without telling anyone. He doesn't do anything around the house to help out nor does he have a job. He had a good paying job (under the table) but he quit that so he could have fun (It's fine he's a kid but he takes on no responsibility). He spends important family holidays (Thanksgiving) with his friends rather than us. He bought his friends mom a mother's day present but does nothing for our own mom. He's barely graduating and doesn't care about applying to colleges or his SATs. On top of that he refuses to see what's wrong with his behavior. He doesn't often open up to me but he told me he used to cut because he felt like our parents weren't proud of him and compared him to more successful kids.\n\nI know I'm not his mom but this has really been stressing my parents out and they work day and night to make ends meet. I recognize we're different people and I respect that. What can I do to positively influence him and help see what he's doing wrong and how it affects the people around him?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He's a senior in high school and I dorm so I'm not at home most of the time. Basically he's become quite rude and aggressive in his behavior towards my parents. He also does not respect their wishes. They give him everything, car, gas, money etc. He'll be out all night, or disappear for a few days at a time, without telling anyone. He doesn't do anything around the house to help out nor does he have a job. He had a good paying job (under the table) but he quit that so he could have fun (It's fine he's a kid but he takes on no responsibility). He spends important family holidays (Thanksgiving) with his friends rather than us. He bought his friends mom a mother's day present but does nothing for our own mom. He's barely graduating and doesn't care about applying to colleges or his SATs. On top of that he refuses to see what's wrong with his behavior. He doesn't often open up to me but he told me he used to cut because he felt like our parents weren't proud of him and compared him to more successful kids.\n\nI know I'm not his mom but this has really been stressing my parents out and they work day and night to make ends meet. I recognize we're different people and I respect that. What can I do to positively influence him and help see what he's doing wrong and how it affects the people around him?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He's a senior in high school and I dorm so I'm not at home most of the time. Basically he's become quite rude and aggressive in his behavior towards my parents. He also does not respect their wishes. They give him everything, car, gas, money etc. He'll be out all night, or disappear for a few days at a time, without telling anyone. He doesn't do anything around the house to help out nor does he have a job. He had a good paying job (under the table) but he quit that so he could have fun (It's fine he's a kid but he takes on no responsibility). He spends important family holidays (Thanksgiving) with his friends rather than us. He bought his friends mom a mother's day present but does nothing for our own mom. He's barely graduating and doesn't care about applying to colleges or his SATs. On top of that he refuses to see what's wrong with his behavior. He doesn't often open up to me but he told me he used to cut because he felt like our parents weren't proud of him and compared him to more successful kids.\n\nI know I'm not his mom but this has really been stressing my parents out and they work day and night to make ends meet. I recognize we're different people and I respect that. What can I do to positively influence him and help see what he's doing wrong and how it affects the people around him?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He's a senior in high school and I dorm so I'm not at home most of the time. Basically he's become quite rude and aggressive in his behavior towards my parents. He also does not respect their wishes. They give him everything, car, gas, money etc. He'll be out all night, or disappear for a few days at a time, without telling anyone. He doesn't do anything around the house to help out nor does he have a job. He had a good paying job (under the table) but he quit that so he could have fun (It's fine he's a kid but he takes on no responsibility). He spends important family holidays (Thanksgiving) with his friends rather than us. He bought his friends mom a mother's day present but does nothing for our own mom. He's barely graduating and doesn't care about applying to colleges or his SATs. On top of that he refuses to see what's wrong with his behavior. He doesn't often open up to me but he told me he used to cut because he felt like our parents weren't proud of him and compared him to more successful kids.\n\nI know I'm not his mom but this has really been stressing my parents out and they work day and night to make ends meet. I recognize we're different people and I respect that. What can I do to positively influence him and help see what he's doing wrong and how it affects the people around him?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: He's a senior in high school and I dorm so I'm not at home most of the time. Basically he's become quite rude and aggressive in his behavior towards my parents. He also does not respect their wishes. They give him everything, car, gas, money etc. He'll be out all night, or disappear for a few days at a time, without telling anyone. He doesn't do anything around the house to help out nor does he have a job. He had a good paying job (under the table) but he quit that so he could have fun (It's fine he's a kid but he takes on no responsibility). He spends important family holidays (Thanksgiving) with his friends rather than us. He bought his friends mom a mother's day present but does nothing for our own mom. He's barely graduating and doesn't care about applying to colleges or his SATs. On top of that he refuses to see what's wrong with his behavior. He doesn't often open up to me but he told me he used to cut because he felt like our parents weren't proud of him and compared him to more successful kids.\n\nI know I'm not his mom but this has really been stressing my parents out and they work day and night to make ends meet. I recognize we're different people and I respect that. What can I do to positively influence him and help see what he's doing wrong and how it affects the people around him?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyway, I don't like her. I don't need to go into any details. That's my opinion, and of course I have no justification to act on anything and I've never said anything about it. They've been dating for years and years now, and just got a place together. I think she genuinely makes him happy. She gets drunk and randomly slaps him sometimes, and I know you're all gonna scream abuse on this sub, but I dont see it as my problem either, and I've only seen it happen twice. He's a big boy and I believe he's handled it. \n\nAnyway, I miss just hanging out with my friend. I've noticed that as we get older, it's harder and harder to get friends to spend time away from girlfriends. I guess its mostly fine, since I am friendly with all the other girlfriends in our circle. I just don't like this one. This girlfriend generally has mixed relations within our circle. Some don't mind her, other feel like me.\n\nHow to deal? Miss my buddy quite a bit. We used to do lots of things together, but she's usually there when we hang out, and it would it, for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyway, I don't like her. I don't need to go into any details. That's my opinion, and of course I have no justification to act on anything and I've never said anything about it. They've been dating for years and years now, and just got a place together. I think she genuinely makes him happy. She gets drunk and randomly slaps him sometimes, and I know you're all gonna scream abuse on this sub, but I dont see it as my problem either, and I've only seen it happen twice. He's a big boy and I believe he's handled it. \n\nAnyway, I miss just hanging out with my friend. I've noticed that as we get older, it's harder and harder to get friends to spend time away from girlfriends. I guess its mostly fine, since I am friendly with all the other girlfriends in our circle. I just don't like this one. This girlfriend generally has mixed relations within our circle. Some don't mind her, other feel like me.\n\nHow to deal? Miss my buddy quite a bit. We used to do lots of things together, but she's usually there when we hang out, and it would it, for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyway, I don't like her. I don't need to go into any details. That's my opinion, and of course I have no justification to act on anything and I've never said anything about it. They've been dating for years and years now, and just got a place together. I think she genuinely makes him happy. She gets drunk and randomly slaps him sometimes, and I know you're all gonna scream abuse on this sub, but I dont see it as my problem either, and I've only seen it happen twice. He's a big boy and I believe he's handled it. \n\nAnyway, I miss just hanging out with my friend. I've noticed that as we get older, it's harder and harder to get friends to spend time away from girlfriends. I guess its mostly fine, since I am friendly with all the other girlfriends in our circle. I just don't like this one. This girlfriend generally has mixed relations within our circle. Some don't mind her, other feel like me.\n\nHow to deal? Miss my buddy quite a bit. We used to do lots of things together, but she's usually there when we hang out, and it would it, for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyway, I don't like her. I don't need to go into any details. That's my opinion, and of course I have no justification to act on anything and I've never said anything about it. They've been dating for years and years now, and just got a place together. I think she genuinely makes him happy. She gets drunk and randomly slaps him sometimes, and I know you're all gonna scream abuse on this sub, but I dont see it as my problem either, and I've only seen it happen twice. He's a big boy and I believe he's handled it. \n\nAnyway, I miss just hanging out with my friend. I've noticed that as we get older, it's harder and harder to get friends to spend time away from girlfriends. I guess its mostly fine, since I am friendly with all the other girlfriends in our circle. I just don't like this one. This girlfriend generally has mixed relations within our circle. Some don't mind her, other feel like me.\n\nHow to deal? Miss my buddy quite a bit. We used to do lots of things together, but she's usually there when we hang out, and it would it, for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyway, I don't like her. I don't need to go into any details. That's my opinion, and of course I have no justification to act on anything and I've never said anything about it. They've been dating for years and years now, and just got a place together. I think she genuinely makes him happy. She gets drunk and randomly slaps him sometimes, and I know you're all gonna scream abuse on this sub, but I dont see it as my problem either, and I've only seen it happen twice. He's a big boy and I believe he's handled it. \n\nAnyway, I miss just hanging out with my friend. I've noticed that as we get older, it's harder and harder to get friends to spend time away from girlfriends. I guess its mostly fine, since I am friendly with all the other girlfriends in our circle. I just don't like this one. This girlfriend generally has mixed relations within our circle. Some don't mind her, other feel like me.\n\nHow to deal? Miss my buddy quite a bit. We used to do lots of things together, but she's usually there when we hang out, and it would it, for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Anyway, I don't like her. I don't need to go into any details. That's my opinion, and of course I have no justification to act on anything and I've never said anything about it. They've been dating for years and years now, and just got a place together. I think she genuinely makes him happy. She gets drunk and randomly slaps him sometimes, and I know you're all gonna scream abuse on this sub, but I dont see it as my problem either, and I've only seen it happen twice. He's a big boy and I believe he's handled it. \n\nAnyway, I miss just hanging out with my friend. I've noticed that as we get older, it's harder and harder to get friends to spend time away from girlfriends. I guess its mostly fine, since I am friendly with all the other girlfriends in our circle. I just don't like this one. This girlfriend generally has mixed relations within our circle. Some don't mind her, other feel like me.\n\nHow to deal? Miss my buddy quite a bit. We used to do lots of things together, but she's usually there when we hang out, and it would it, for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway acc just in case.\nSo, I've never had any problems with girls. Got through both long-lasting relationships and one night stands. I didn't think I'd need your help, Reddit, but I am a bit puzzled and would like an advice. Perhaps especially from the female population of r/relationships :)\n\n*The situation*: So I got to know this girl, which is a virgin (known fact, not a rumor). The girl is gorgeous and I'm saying this having seen a lot of pretty girls here and there. Somehow though she has eluded the sexual activity, even more - she even hasn't ever been into a relationship or kissed. She's quite fun also, a bit on the shy side, doesn't go out a lot, studies and works and stays at home. She has many mutual interests with me - asian culture, tattoos, certain authors and others. She seems to like guys with beards and tattoos which I am too, heh. Not that it matters much I think. (You know we tend to like people who are the opposite to what we think we would like!)\n\nAnyway, she's getting hit on a lot because of both her looks and cool personality. I've seen some guys crash into her during parties, but as you can guess, drunken advances are not the kind of hit on a shy virgin girl would respond to. Besides I'm not in for a make-out or a one-night stand, but would rather dwell in a relationship with her.\n\nSo, any advices how to advance on her without scaring her? Virginity on this age is looked upon as a bit strange here (I don't care tbh) and there may be some fear or anxiety in her regarding that. She has some provocative tattoos and doesn't mind showing them but with the communication towards people there's nothing provocative about her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway acc just in case.\nSo, I've never had any problems with girls. Got through both long-lasting relationships and one night stands. I didn't think I'd need your help, Reddit, but I am a bit puzzled and would like an advice. Perhaps especially from the female population of r/relationships :)\n\n*The situation*: So I got to know this girl, which is a virgin (known fact, not a rumor). The girl is gorgeous and I'm saying this having seen a lot of pretty girls here and there. Somehow though she has eluded the sexual activity, even more - she even hasn't ever been into a relationship or kissed. She's quite fun also, a bit on the shy side, doesn't go out a lot, studies and works and stays at home. She has many mutual interests with me - asian culture, tattoos, certain authors and others. She seems to like guys with beards and tattoos which I am too, heh. Not that it matters much I think. (You know we tend to like people who are the opposite to what we think we would like!)\n\nAnyway, she's getting hit on a lot because of both her looks and cool personality. I've seen some guys crash into her during parties, but as you can guess, drunken advances are not the kind of hit on a shy virgin girl would respond to. Besides I'm not in for a make-out or a one-night stand, but would rather dwell in a relationship with her.\n\nSo, any advices how to advance on her without scaring her? Virginity on this age is looked upon as a bit strange here (I don't care tbh) and there may be some fear or anxiety in her regarding that. She has some provocative tattoos and doesn't mind showing them but with the communication towards people there's nothing provocative about her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throwaway acc just in case.\nSo, I've never had any problems with girls. Got through both long-lasting relationships and one night stands. I didn't think I'd need your help, Reddit, but I am a bit puzzled and would like an advice. Perhaps especially from the female population of r/relationships :)\n\n*The situation*: So I got to know this girl, which is a virgin (known fact, not a rumor). The girl is gorgeous and I'm saying this having seen a lot of pretty girls here and there. Somehow though she has eluded the sexual activity, even more - she even hasn't ever been into a relationship or kissed. She's quite fun also, a bit on the shy side, doesn't go out a lot, studies and works and stays at home. She has many mutual interests with me - asian culture, tattoos, certain authors and others. She seems to like guys with beards and tattoos which I am too, heh. Not that it matters much I think. (You know we tend to like people who are the opposite to what we think we would like!)\n\nAnyway, she's getting hit on a lot because of both her looks and cool personality. I've seen some guys crash into her during parties, but as you can guess, drunken advances are not the kind of hit on a shy virgin girl would respond to. Besides I'm not in for a make-out or a one-night stand, but would rather dwell in a relationship with her.\n\nSo, any advices how to advance on her without scaring her? Virginity on this age is looked upon as a bit strange here (I don't care tbh) and there may be some fear or anxiety in her regarding that. She has some provocative tattoos and doesn't mind showing them but with the communication towards people there's nothing provocative about her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there! I'm new here but I'd like some advice. So my now ex-girlfriend and I had broken up about 3 weeks ago because of how we were both busy and couldn't really see each other outside of school, but she was very indirect about it. (It ended in me thinking that we were just on a break but after a while, I figured out that by break she meant breaking up.) She still wanted to remain friends and walk with me to classes and chat and stuff.\n\nWell fast forward to two weeks after the break up (when I realized that she broke up with me and it wasn't just a break). I felt kind of overwhelmed and began to over-think things. A mutual friend had told me that she did the same thing to her last boyfriend (asking for space, saying that she wanted to get back together) but never did. This thought caused me to over-think even more and I felt utterly confused. So the following day, I asked my ex for some space, saying that I was going through some things.\n\nI quickly regretted it, I guess because of how foreign it felt and how I didn't fully understand the meaning of space until it was given to me. I tried talking to her 2 days after I asked for space to swallow my pride and ask for my friend back. But when I sat down with her to tell her, we kept being interrupted and I guess that point never got across. I feel so awkward with her now, since I see her everyday. \n\nI want to be on good terms with her, but I don't know how to get out of \"space\" and how to mend a friendship. She's a great person and I'd rather have a friend than no one at all. I just don't know what to do. \nAny advice would be very helpful, thank you for your time!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there! I'm new here but I'd like some advice. So my now ex-girlfriend and I had broken up about 3 weeks ago because of how we were both busy and couldn't really see each other outside of school, but she was very indirect about it. (It ended in me thinking that we were just on a break but after a while, I figured out that by break she meant breaking up.) She still wanted to remain friends and walk with me to classes and chat and stuff.\n\nWell fast forward to two weeks after the break up (when I realized that she broke up with me and it wasn't just a break). I felt kind of overwhelmed and began to over-think things. A mutual friend had told me that she did the same thing to her last boyfriend (asking for space, saying that she wanted to get back together) but never did. This thought caused me to over-think even more and I felt utterly confused. So the following day, I asked my ex for some space, saying that I was going through some things.\n\nI quickly regretted it, I guess because of how foreign it felt and how I didn't fully understand the meaning of space until it was given to me. I tried talking to her 2 days after I asked for space to swallow my pride and ask for my friend back. But when I sat down with her to tell her, we kept being interrupted and I guess that point never got across. I feel so awkward with her now, since I see her everyday. \n\nI want to be on good terms with her, but I don't know how to get out of \"space\" and how to mend a friendship. She's a great person and I'd rather have a friend than no one at all. I just don't know what to do. \nAny advice would be very helpful, thank you for your time!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there! I'm new here but I'd like some advice. So my now ex-girlfriend and I had broken up about 3 weeks ago because of how we were both busy and couldn't really see each other outside of school, but she was very indirect about it. (It ended in me thinking that we were just on a break but after a while, I figured out that by break she meant breaking up.) She still wanted to remain friends and walk with me to classes and chat and stuff.\n\nWell fast forward to two weeks after the break up (when I realized that she broke up with me and it wasn't just a break). I felt kind of overwhelmed and began to over-think things. A mutual friend had told me that she did the same thing to her last boyfriend (asking for space, saying that she wanted to get back together) but never did. This thought caused me to over-think even more and I felt utterly confused. So the following day, I asked my ex for some space, saying that I was going through some things.\n\nI quickly regretted it, I guess because of how foreign it felt and how I didn't fully understand the meaning of space until it was given to me. I tried talking to her 2 days after I asked for space to swallow my pride and ask for my friend back. But when I sat down with her to tell her, we kept being interrupted and I guess that point never got across. I feel so awkward with her now, since I see her everyday. \n\nI want to be on good terms with her, but I don't know how to get out of \"space\" and how to mend a friendship. She's a great person and I'd rather have a friend than no one at all. I just don't know what to do. \nAny advice would be very helpful, thank you for your time!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there! I'm new here but I'd like some advice. So my now ex-girlfriend and I had broken up about 3 weeks ago because of how we were both busy and couldn't really see each other outside of school, but she was very indirect about it. (It ended in me thinking that we were just on a break but after a while, I figured out that by break she meant breaking up.) She still wanted to remain friends and walk with me to classes and chat and stuff.\n\nWell fast forward to two weeks after the break up (when I realized that she broke up with me and it wasn't just a break). I felt kind of overwhelmed and began to over-think things. A mutual friend had told me that she did the same thing to her last boyfriend (asking for space, saying that she wanted to get back together) but never did. This thought caused me to over-think even more and I felt utterly confused. So the following day, I asked my ex for some space, saying that I was going through some things.\n\nI quickly regretted it, I guess because of how foreign it felt and how I didn't fully understand the meaning of space until it was given to me. I tried talking to her 2 days after I asked for space to swallow my pride and ask for my friend back. But when I sat down with her to tell her, we kept being interrupted and I guess that point never got across. I feel so awkward with her now, since I see her everyday. \n\nI want to be on good terms with her, but I don't know how to get out of \"space\" and how to mend a friendship. She's a great person and I'd rather have a friend than no one at all. I just don't know what to do. \nAny advice would be very helpful, thank you for your time!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there! I'm new here but I'd like some advice. So my now ex-girlfriend and I had broken up about 3 weeks ago because of how we were both busy and couldn't really see each other outside of school, but she was very indirect about it. (It ended in me thinking that we were just on a break but after a while, I figured out that by break she meant breaking up.) She still wanted to remain friends and walk with me to classes and chat and stuff.\n\nWell fast forward to two weeks after the break up (when I realized that she broke up with me and it wasn't just a break). I felt kind of overwhelmed and began to over-think things. A mutual friend had told me that she did the same thing to her last boyfriend (asking for space, saying that she wanted to get back together) but never did. This thought caused me to over-think even more and I felt utterly confused. So the following day, I asked my ex for some space, saying that I was going through some things.\n\nI quickly regretted it, I guess because of how foreign it felt and how I didn't fully understand the meaning of space until it was given to me. I tried talking to her 2 days after I asked for space to swallow my pride and ask for my friend back. But when I sat down with her to tell her, we kept being interrupted and I guess that point never got across. I feel so awkward with her now, since I see her everyday. \n\nI want to be on good terms with her, but I don't know how to get out of \"space\" and how to mend a friendship. She's a great person and I'd rather have a friend than no one at all. I just don't know what to do. \nAny advice would be very helpful, thank you for your time!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there! I'm new here but I'd like some advice. So my now ex-girlfriend and I had broken up about 3 weeks ago because of how we were both busy and couldn't really see each other outside of school, but she was very indirect about it. (It ended in me thinking that we were just on a break but after a while, I figured out that by break she meant breaking up.) She still wanted to remain friends and walk with me to classes and chat and stuff.\n\nWell fast forward to two weeks after the break up (when I realized that she broke up with me and it wasn't just a break). I felt kind of overwhelmed and began to over-think things. A mutual friend had told me that she did the same thing to her last boyfriend (asking for space, saying that she wanted to get back together) but never did. This thought caused me to over-think even more and I felt utterly confused. So the following day, I asked my ex for some space, saying that I was going through some things.\n\nI quickly regretted it, I guess because of how foreign it felt and how I didn't fully understand the meaning of space until it was given to me. I tried talking to her 2 days after I asked for space to swallow my pride and ask for my friend back. But when I sat down with her to tell her, we kept being interrupted and I guess that point never got across. I feel so awkward with her now, since I see her everyday. \n\nI want to be on good terms with her, but I don't know how to get out of \"space\" and how to mend a friendship. She's a great person and I'd rather have a friend than no one at all. I just don't know what to do. \nAny advice would be very helpful, thank you for your time!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I was about 8 or 9, I fell in love with pigs. I thought they were the absolute cutest things in the world. So, in my 9 year-old mind, the best way to show my love for them was to stop eating pork. I stopped eating all bacon and pork chops that my mom made for dinner. Unfortunately, my mom made me ham sandwiches for lunch most days, and since she didn't want to figure out a new lunchtime routine for me, she made sure that no one in my family told me that ham came from pigs. Needless to say, I was quite upset when i found out what ham really was. She also told me recently that my family all laughed about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I was about 8 or 9, I fell in love with pigs. I thought they were the absolute cutest things in the world. So, in my 9 year-old mind, the best way to show my love for them was to stop eating pork. I stopped eating all bacon and pork chops that my mom made for dinner. Unfortunately, my mom made me ham sandwiches for lunch most days, and since she didn't want to figure out a new lunchtime routine for me, she made sure that no one in my family told me that ham came from pigs. Needless to say, I was quite upset when i found out what ham really was. She also told me recently that my family all laughed about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I was about 8 or 9, I fell in love with pigs. I thought they were the absolute cutest things in the world. So, in my 9 year-old mind, the best way to show my love for them was to stop eating pork. I stopped eating all bacon and pork chops that my mom made for dinner. Unfortunately, my mom made me ham sandwiches for lunch most days, and since she didn't want to figure out a new lunchtime routine for me, she made sure that no one in my family told me that ham came from pigs. Needless to say, I was quite upset when i found out what ham really was. She also told me recently that my family all laughed about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I was about 8 or 9, I fell in love with pigs. I thought they were the absolute cutest things in the world. So, in my 9 year-old mind, the best way to show my love for them was to stop eating pork. I stopped eating all bacon and pork chops that my mom made for dinner. Unfortunately, my mom made me ham sandwiches for lunch most days, and since she didn't want to figure out a new lunchtime routine for me, she made sure that no one in my family told me that ham came from pigs. Needless to say, I was quite upset when i found out what ham really was. She also told me recently that my family all laughed about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I was about 8 or 9, I fell in love with pigs. I thought they were the absolute cutest things in the world. So, in my 9 year-old mind, the best way to show my love for them was to stop eating pork. I stopped eating all bacon and pork chops that my mom made for dinner. Unfortunately, my mom made me ham sandwiches for lunch most days, and since she didn't want to figure out a new lunchtime routine for me, she made sure that no one in my family told me that ham came from pigs. Needless to say, I was quite upset when i found out what ham really was. She also told me recently that my family all laughed about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: When I was about 8 or 9, I fell in love with pigs. I thought they were the absolute cutest things in the world. So, in my 9 year-old mind, the best way to show my love for them was to stop eating pork. I stopped eating all bacon and pork chops that my mom made for dinner. Unfortunately, my mom made me ham sandwiches for lunch most days, and since she didn't want to figure out a new lunchtime routine for me, she made sure that no one in my family told me that ham came from pigs. Needless to say, I was quite upset when i found out what ham really was. She also told me recently that my family all laughed about it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (18 next week,male), met her(18,female), in law class, where we kind of hit off, we talked a lot in class and online, and eventually went to a hockey game together (I'm Canadain, what else?). Long story short her and a friend of hers end up switching seats, so he is sitting beside me, and she's behind me. This was the weekend before March break(usually a week before the American spring break, if anyone cares), and I was going on vacation, so this was the last time we spoke for about a week. I brought her back a gift from where I was, then we kind of fell apart, and she started ignoring me. \n\nThats my side of the story, and its pretty much a summary of what occured, to the best of my knowledge. What would be my next step, if there is one?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (18 next week,male), met her(18,female), in law class, where we kind of hit off, we talked a lot in class and online, and eventually went to a hockey game together (I'm Canadain, what else?). Long story short her and a friend of hers end up switching seats, so he is sitting beside me, and she's behind me. This was the weekend before March break(usually a week before the American spring break, if anyone cares), and I was going on vacation, so this was the last time we spoke for about a week. I brought her back a gift from where I was, then we kind of fell apart, and she started ignoring me. \n\nThats my side of the story, and its pretty much a summary of what occured, to the best of my knowledge. What would be my next step, if there is one?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (18 next week,male), met her(18,female), in law class, where we kind of hit off, we talked a lot in class and online, and eventually went to a hockey game together (I'm Canadain, what else?). Long story short her and a friend of hers end up switching seats, so he is sitting beside me, and she's behind me. This was the weekend before March break(usually a week before the American spring break, if anyone cares), and I was going on vacation, so this was the last time we spoke for about a week. I brought her back a gift from where I was, then we kind of fell apart, and she started ignoring me. \n\nThats my side of the story, and its pretty much a summary of what occured, to the best of my knowledge. What would be my next step, if there is one?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (18 next week,male), met her(18,female), in law class, where we kind of hit off, we talked a lot in class and online, and eventually went to a hockey game together (I'm Canadain, what else?). Long story short her and a friend of hers end up switching seats, so he is sitting beside me, and she's behind me. This was the weekend before March break(usually a week before the American spring break, if anyone cares), and I was going on vacation, so this was the last time we spoke for about a week. I brought her back a gift from where I was, then we kind of fell apart, and she started ignoring me. \n\nThats my side of the story, and its pretty much a summary of what occured, to the best of my knowledge. What would be my next step, if there is one?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (18 next week,male), met her(18,female), in law class, where we kind of hit off, we talked a lot in class and online, and eventually went to a hockey game together (I'm Canadain, what else?). Long story short her and a friend of hers end up switching seats, so he is sitting beside me, and she's behind me. This was the weekend before March break(usually a week before the American spring break, if anyone cares), and I was going on vacation, so this was the last time we spoke for about a week. I brought her back a gift from where I was, then we kind of fell apart, and she started ignoring me. \n\nThats my side of the story, and its pretty much a summary of what occured, to the best of my knowledge. What would be my next step, if there is one?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (18 next week,male), met her(18,female), in law class, where we kind of hit off, we talked a lot in class and online, and eventually went to a hockey game together (I'm Canadain, what else?). Long story short her and a friend of hers end up switching seats, so he is sitting beside me, and she's behind me. This was the weekend before March break(usually a week before the American spring break, if anyone cares), and I was going on vacation, so this was the last time we spoke for about a week. I brought her back a gift from where I was, then we kind of fell apart, and she started ignoring me. \n\nThats my side of the story, and its pretty much a summary of what occured, to the best of my knowledge. What would be my next step, if there is one?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
} |
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