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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We were together for five years. I recently left him because he became less and less involved in my and my daughter's lives. He has become a heartless prick and the last straw was when he stood up our daughter on her birthday. When I asked him what the problem was he would completely ignore me, as if I didn't even exist. I am heartbroken and utterly devastated because I have no closure. Just a million questions as to why he has just given up on us and is willing to throw it all away so easily. Unless I find out why, I will resent him for this for the rest of my life. \n\nOur daughter will be \"graduating\" from kindergarten next month and I'm not sure if I should even tell him when it is. I'm 99.9999% sure he won't show up anyway and I have already told our daughter that he probably isn't coming. He won't even call. I'm afraid if I tell him, he will just think I'm trying to open up the lines of communication again, and that's really not what I'm trying to do. I gave him a million chances to be open and honest about what's going on and he's chosen not to take me up on it. There will be no million and one'th chance. But the other half of me is worried that if I don't tell him, and he finds out that I didn't try to let him know, that he will somehow try and turn it around on me and guilt me into feeling like I'm a bad person, because that is his MO. He's a real asshole but I want him there for our child's stepping up day. She's really excited and will be very upset if he doesn't show up even after I've told her he probably won't be there. We can sit on opposite sides of the room for all I care. He just needs to do the right thing by our girl."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys i'm not sure about this plan for my life and i'm praying about it a lot but I wanted to ask you guys what you thought.\n\nI'm thinking about getting a TESL Certification, or a TESEL or whatever you call it. \n\nI want to travel the world but I have no money, this seems like a cheap way to do what I want and earn some money while i'm at it.\n\nAnyway my general questions are.\n\nHave any of you done it?\n\nWhat's the best kind of certification to get? And from where should I get it?\n\nWhat countries have you been to? Are they safe?\n\nCan you earn a lot of money by doing this?\n\nWhere do you stay when you go to another country? Do you have to find a place yourself?\n\nWhat kind of programs would you recommend I should be a part of?\n\nAnyway that's all I can think of for now. I would really appreciate some input here, I have no idea what i'm doing with my life and I want to know more about this field of work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys i'm not sure about this plan for my life and i'm praying about it a lot but I wanted to ask you guys what you thought.\n\nI'm thinking about getting a TESL Certification, or a TESEL or whatever you call it. \n\nI want to travel the world but I have no money, this seems like a cheap way to do what I want and earn some money while i'm at it.\n\nAnyway my general questions are.\n\nHave any of you done it?\n\nWhat's the best kind of certification to get? And from where should I get it?\n\nWhat countries have you been to? Are they safe?\n\nCan you earn a lot of money by doing this?\n\nWhere do you stay when you go to another country? Do you have to find a place yourself?\n\nWhat kind of programs would you recommend I should be a part of?\n\nAnyway that's all I can think of for now. I would really appreciate some input here, I have no idea what i'm doing with my life and I want to know more about this field of work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys i'm not sure about this plan for my life and i'm praying about it a lot but I wanted to ask you guys what you thought.\n\nI'm thinking about getting a TESL Certification, or a TESEL or whatever you call it. \n\nI want to travel the world but I have no money, this seems like a cheap way to do what I want and earn some money while i'm at it.\n\nAnyway my general questions are.\n\nHave any of you done it?\n\nWhat's the best kind of certification to get? And from where should I get it?\n\nWhat countries have you been to? Are they safe?\n\nCan you earn a lot of money by doing this?\n\nWhere do you stay when you go to another country? Do you have to find a place yourself?\n\nWhat kind of programs would you recommend I should be a part of?\n\nAnyway that's all I can think of for now. I would really appreciate some input here, I have no idea what i'm doing with my life and I want to know more about this field of work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys i'm not sure about this plan for my life and i'm praying about it a lot but I wanted to ask you guys what you thought.\n\nI'm thinking about getting a TESL Certification, or a TESEL or whatever you call it. \n\nI want to travel the world but I have no money, this seems like a cheap way to do what I want and earn some money while i'm at it.\n\nAnyway my general questions are.\n\nHave any of you done it?\n\nWhat's the best kind of certification to get? And from where should I get it?\n\nWhat countries have you been to? Are they safe?\n\nCan you earn a lot of money by doing this?\n\nWhere do you stay when you go to another country? Do you have to find a place yourself?\n\nWhat kind of programs would you recommend I should be a part of?\n\nAnyway that's all I can think of for now. I would really appreciate some input here, I have no idea what i'm doing with my life and I want to know more about this field of work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys i'm not sure about this plan for my life and i'm praying about it a lot but I wanted to ask you guys what you thought.\n\nI'm thinking about getting a TESL Certification, or a TESEL or whatever you call it. \n\nI want to travel the world but I have no money, this seems like a cheap way to do what I want and earn some money while i'm at it.\n\nAnyway my general questions are.\n\nHave any of you done it?\n\nWhat's the best kind of certification to get? And from where should I get it?\n\nWhat countries have you been to? Are they safe?\n\nCan you earn a lot of money by doing this?\n\nWhere do you stay when you go to another country? Do you have to find a place yourself?\n\nWhat kind of programs would you recommend I should be a part of?\n\nAnyway that's all I can think of for now. I would really appreciate some input here, I have no idea what i'm doing with my life and I want to know more about this field of work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey guys i'm not sure about this plan for my life and i'm praying about it a lot but I wanted to ask you guys what you thought.\n\nI'm thinking about getting a TESL Certification, or a TESEL or whatever you call it. \n\nI want to travel the world but I have no money, this seems like a cheap way to do what I want and earn some money while i'm at it.\n\nAnyway my general questions are.\n\nHave any of you done it?\n\nWhat's the best kind of certification to get? And from where should I get it?\n\nWhat countries have you been to? Are they safe?\n\nCan you earn a lot of money by doing this?\n\nWhere do you stay when you go to another country? Do you have to find a place yourself?\n\nWhat kind of programs would you recommend I should be a part of?\n\nAnyway that's all I can think of for now. I would really appreciate some input here, I have no idea what i'm doing with my life and I want to know more about this field of work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: x-post r/BreakUps\n\nMet an amazing guy while volunteering in Asia last January 2011. I'm a 22 y/o American and he is a 21 y/o Aussie. After leaving Asia, we both went to our respective countries but kept in touch and grew so close together and eventually fell in love. I graduated in May and came here (Melbourne AUS) for an internship but more to be with him. \n\nI am one of those girls that will do anything for the people I care about - friends, family, boyfriend. I love people carefully, but when I do, I love them unconditionally. He is one of those guys that every girl wants to date but no one believes exists. Not a jealous bone in his body, incapable of being mean or selfish, and the most gentle and loving soul you will encounter.\n\nHe just broke up with me meh 10 hours ago. He was meant to come home (USA) with me in December for Christmas to meet my family. When I asked him about it again just two days ago, he really freaked at the thought of meeting my family (though I lived with his for 2 months), thought it was too much to invest emotionally and decided that he can't 'give me what I deserve'. So yep, its over and I am now residing in a country where the number of people I know I can count on half of one hand.\n\nReddit, I'm searching for 43 ways to mend my broken heart over the next 43 days - until I go home (alone) for Christmas and am back with my family and closest friends. What would you do? What do you suggest? I have never felt so alone or scared in my life, and it doesn't help being away from everyone I know. I just want each day to have a purpose, to help me get through the next 6 weeks without him.\n\nAnything, Reddit. Really, anything helps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: x-post r/BreakUps\n\nMet an amazing guy while volunteering in Asia last January 2011. I'm a 22 y/o American and he is a 21 y/o Aussie. After leaving Asia, we both went to our respective countries but kept in touch and grew so close together and eventually fell in love. I graduated in May and came here (Melbourne AUS) for an internship but more to be with him. \n\nI am one of those girls that will do anything for the people I care about - friends, family, boyfriend. I love people carefully, but when I do, I love them unconditionally. He is one of those guys that every girl wants to date but no one believes exists. Not a jealous bone in his body, incapable of being mean or selfish, and the most gentle and loving soul you will encounter.\n\nHe just broke up with me meh 10 hours ago. He was meant to come home (USA) with me in December for Christmas to meet my family. When I asked him about it again just two days ago, he really freaked at the thought of meeting my family (though I lived with his for 2 months), thought it was too much to invest emotionally and decided that he can't 'give me what I deserve'. So yep, its over and I am now residing in a country where the number of people I know I can count on half of one hand.\n\nReddit, I'm searching for 43 ways to mend my broken heart over the next 43 days - until I go home (alone) for Christmas and am back with my family and closest friends. What would you do? What do you suggest? I have never felt so alone or scared in my life, and it doesn't help being away from everyone I know. I just want each day to have a purpose, to help me get through the next 6 weeks without him.\n\nAnything, Reddit. Really, anything helps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: x-post r/BreakUps\n\nMet an amazing guy while volunteering in Asia last January 2011. I'm a 22 y/o American and he is a 21 y/o Aussie. After leaving Asia, we both went to our respective countries but kept in touch and grew so close together and eventually fell in love. I graduated in May and came here (Melbourne AUS) for an internship but more to be with him. \n\nI am one of those girls that will do anything for the people I care about - friends, family, boyfriend. I love people carefully, but when I do, I love them unconditionally. He is one of those guys that every girl wants to date but no one believes exists. Not a jealous bone in his body, incapable of being mean or selfish, and the most gentle and loving soul you will encounter.\n\nHe just broke up with me meh 10 hours ago. He was meant to come home (USA) with me in December for Christmas to meet my family. When I asked him about it again just two days ago, he really freaked at the thought of meeting my family (though I lived with his for 2 months), thought it was too much to invest emotionally and decided that he can't 'give me what I deserve'. So yep, its over and I am now residing in a country where the number of people I know I can count on half of one hand.\n\nReddit, I'm searching for 43 ways to mend my broken heart over the next 43 days - until I go home (alone) for Christmas and am back with my family and closest friends. What would you do? What do you suggest? I have never felt so alone or scared in my life, and it doesn't help being away from everyone I know. I just want each day to have a purpose, to help me get through the next 6 weeks without him.\n\nAnything, Reddit. Really, anything helps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: x-post r/BreakUps\n\nMet an amazing guy while volunteering in Asia last January 2011. I'm a 22 y/o American and he is a 21 y/o Aussie. After leaving Asia, we both went to our respective countries but kept in touch and grew so close together and eventually fell in love. I graduated in May and came here (Melbourne AUS) for an internship but more to be with him. \n\nI am one of those girls that will do anything for the people I care about - friends, family, boyfriend. I love people carefully, but when I do, I love them unconditionally. He is one of those guys that every girl wants to date but no one believes exists. Not a jealous bone in his body, incapable of being mean or selfish, and the most gentle and loving soul you will encounter.\n\nHe just broke up with me meh 10 hours ago. He was meant to come home (USA) with me in December for Christmas to meet my family. When I asked him about it again just two days ago, he really freaked at the thought of meeting my family (though I lived with his for 2 months), thought it was too much to invest emotionally and decided that he can't 'give me what I deserve'. So yep, its over and I am now residing in a country where the number of people I know I can count on half of one hand.\n\nReddit, I'm searching for 43 ways to mend my broken heart over the next 43 days - until I go home (alone) for Christmas and am back with my family and closest friends. What would you do? What do you suggest? I have never felt so alone or scared in my life, and it doesn't help being away from everyone I know. I just want each day to have a purpose, to help me get through the next 6 weeks without him.\n\nAnything, Reddit. Really, anything helps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: x-post r/BreakUps\n\nMet an amazing guy while volunteering in Asia last January 2011. I'm a 22 y/o American and he is a 21 y/o Aussie. After leaving Asia, we both went to our respective countries but kept in touch and grew so close together and eventually fell in love. I graduated in May and came here (Melbourne AUS) for an internship but more to be with him. \n\nI am one of those girls that will do anything for the people I care about - friends, family, boyfriend. I love people carefully, but when I do, I love them unconditionally. He is one of those guys that every girl wants to date but no one believes exists. Not a jealous bone in his body, incapable of being mean or selfish, and the most gentle and loving soul you will encounter.\n\nHe just broke up with me meh 10 hours ago. He was meant to come home (USA) with me in December for Christmas to meet my family. When I asked him about it again just two days ago, he really freaked at the thought of meeting my family (though I lived with his for 2 months), thought it was too much to invest emotionally and decided that he can't 'give me what I deserve'. So yep, its over and I am now residing in a country where the number of people I know I can count on half of one hand.\n\nReddit, I'm searching for 43 ways to mend my broken heart over the next 43 days - until I go home (alone) for Christmas and am back with my family and closest friends. What would you do? What do you suggest? I have never felt so alone or scared in my life, and it doesn't help being away from everyone I know. I just want each day to have a purpose, to help me get through the next 6 weeks without him.\n\nAnything, Reddit. Really, anything helps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: x-post r/BreakUps\n\nMet an amazing guy while volunteering in Asia last January 2011. I'm a 22 y/o American and he is a 21 y/o Aussie. After leaving Asia, we both went to our respective countries but kept in touch and grew so close together and eventually fell in love. I graduated in May and came here (Melbourne AUS) for an internship but more to be with him. \n\nI am one of those girls that will do anything for the people I care about - friends, family, boyfriend. I love people carefully, but when I do, I love them unconditionally. He is one of those guys that every girl wants to date but no one believes exists. Not a jealous bone in his body, incapable of being mean or selfish, and the most gentle and loving soul you will encounter.\n\nHe just broke up with me meh 10 hours ago. He was meant to come home (USA) with me in December for Christmas to meet my family. When I asked him about it again just two days ago, he really freaked at the thought of meeting my family (though I lived with his for 2 months), thought it was too much to invest emotionally and decided that he can't 'give me what I deserve'. So yep, its over and I am now residing in a country where the number of people I know I can count on half of one hand.\n\nReddit, I'm searching for 43 ways to mend my broken heart over the next 43 days - until I go home (alone) for Christmas and am back with my family and closest friends. What would you do? What do you suggest? I have never felt so alone or scared in my life, and it doesn't help being away from everyone I know. I just want each day to have a purpose, to help me get through the next 6 weeks without him.\n\nAnything, Reddit. Really, anything helps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello /r/relationships,\nI am long time lurker that is asking for some help on deciding if I should start a friendship again to a girl that I confessed my feelings to (as the title stated). My friends have been 50/50 about this, and now I want to ask /r/relationships for their opinion on the matter.\n\nI'll try to keep it short as possible\n\nI made friends with a girl at the university. It started with her messaging me for help on homework and evolved to hanging out on our free time. I enjoyed spending time with her, and I honestly thought that it was going to end after the semester (but I'm glad that it didn't).\n\nWe had been friends for around ~2 months, and that is when I started to develop feelings for her. She's a pretty girl, but I had no intention of dating her or to be my girlfriend (she is in a relationship with a guy). It was cool going to the mall, watch a movie, or go eat lunch. But as I started liking her, hanging out with her made me feel miserable.\n\nI was miserable enough that I summed up the courage to tell her one day that I did not want to be friends with her because I liked her. I felt that it was unfair for us to have a friendship where I had feelings for her and that she has a boyfriend. She looked sad when I told her. She told me that if I wanted to be friends again that I could contact her.\n\nAfter the confession, I felt like a weight was lifted and felt glad that I was able to tell her. It's been around two weeks since that day and I miss hanging out with her. I never had a problem with the friendship, just me having feelings with her. \n\nI have asked my friends for help on making a decision. During these two weeks the puppy love-like feelings I had are gone, and I want to take her offer on re-establishing our friendship. It's been a 50/50 mix of \"Do it\" or \"Don't do it because you'll fall back\".\n\nI know it might not the same, but I want to give it a try."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello /r/relationships,\nI am long time lurker that is asking for some help on deciding if I should start a friendship again to a girl that I confessed my feelings to (as the title stated). My friends have been 50/50 about this, and now I want to ask /r/relationships for their opinion on the matter.\n\nI'll try to keep it short as possible\n\nI made friends with a girl at the university. It started with her messaging me for help on homework and evolved to hanging out on our free time. I enjoyed spending time with her, and I honestly thought that it was going to end after the semester (but I'm glad that it didn't).\n\nWe had been friends for around ~2 months, and that is when I started to develop feelings for her. She's a pretty girl, but I had no intention of dating her or to be my girlfriend (she is in a relationship with a guy). It was cool going to the mall, watch a movie, or go eat lunch. But as I started liking her, hanging out with her made me feel miserable.\n\nI was miserable enough that I summed up the courage to tell her one day that I did not want to be friends with her because I liked her. I felt that it was unfair for us to have a friendship where I had feelings for her and that she has a boyfriend. She looked sad when I told her. She told me that if I wanted to be friends again that I could contact her.\n\nAfter the confession, I felt like a weight was lifted and felt glad that I was able to tell her. It's been around two weeks since that day and I miss hanging out with her. I never had a problem with the friendship, just me having feelings with her. \n\nI have asked my friends for help on making a decision. During these two weeks the puppy love-like feelings I had are gone, and I want to take her offer on re-establishing our friendship. It's been a 50/50 mix of \"Do it\" or \"Don't do it because you'll fall back\".\n\nI know it might not the same, but I want to give it a try."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello /r/relationships,\nI am long time lurker that is asking for some help on deciding if I should start a friendship again to a girl that I confessed my feelings to (as the title stated). My friends have been 50/50 about this, and now I want to ask /r/relationships for their opinion on the matter.\n\nI'll try to keep it short as possible\n\nI made friends with a girl at the university. It started with her messaging me for help on homework and evolved to hanging out on our free time. I enjoyed spending time with her, and I honestly thought that it was going to end after the semester (but I'm glad that it didn't).\n\nWe had been friends for around ~2 months, and that is when I started to develop feelings for her. She's a pretty girl, but I had no intention of dating her or to be my girlfriend (she is in a relationship with a guy). It was cool going to the mall, watch a movie, or go eat lunch. But as I started liking her, hanging out with her made me feel miserable.\n\nI was miserable enough that I summed up the courage to tell her one day that I did not want to be friends with her because I liked her. I felt that it was unfair for us to have a friendship where I had feelings for her and that she has a boyfriend. She looked sad when I told her. She told me that if I wanted to be friends again that I could contact her.\n\nAfter the confession, I felt like a weight was lifted and felt glad that I was able to tell her. It's been around two weeks since that day and I miss hanging out with her. I never had a problem with the friendship, just me having feelings with her. \n\nI have asked my friends for help on making a decision. During these two weeks the puppy love-like feelings I had are gone, and I want to take her offer on re-establishing our friendship. It's been a 50/50 mix of \"Do it\" or \"Don't do it because you'll fall back\".\n\nI know it might not the same, but I want to give it a try."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello /r/relationships,\nI am long time lurker that is asking for some help on deciding if I should start a friendship again to a girl that I confessed my feelings to (as the title stated). My friends have been 50/50 about this, and now I want to ask /r/relationships for their opinion on the matter.\n\nI'll try to keep it short as possible\n\nI made friends with a girl at the university. It started with her messaging me for help on homework and evolved to hanging out on our free time. I enjoyed spending time with her, and I honestly thought that it was going to end after the semester (but I'm glad that it didn't).\n\nWe had been friends for around ~2 months, and that is when I started to develop feelings for her. She's a pretty girl, but I had no intention of dating her or to be my girlfriend (she is in a relationship with a guy). It was cool going to the mall, watch a movie, or go eat lunch. But as I started liking her, hanging out with her made me feel miserable.\n\nI was miserable enough that I summed up the courage to tell her one day that I did not want to be friends with her because I liked her. I felt that it was unfair for us to have a friendship where I had feelings for her and that she has a boyfriend. She looked sad when I told her. She told me that if I wanted to be friends again that I could contact her.\n\nAfter the confession, I felt like a weight was lifted and felt glad that I was able to tell her. It's been around two weeks since that day and I miss hanging out with her. I never had a problem with the friendship, just me having feelings with her. \n\nI have asked my friends for help on making a decision. During these two weeks the puppy love-like feelings I had are gone, and I want to take her offer on re-establishing our friendship. It's been a 50/50 mix of \"Do it\" or \"Don't do it because you'll fall back\".\n\nI know it might not the same, but I want to give it a try."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello /r/relationships,\nI am long time lurker that is asking for some help on deciding if I should start a friendship again to a girl that I confessed my feelings to (as the title stated). My friends have been 50/50 about this, and now I want to ask /r/relationships for their opinion on the matter.\n\nI'll try to keep it short as possible\n\nI made friends with a girl at the university. It started with her messaging me for help on homework and evolved to hanging out on our free time. I enjoyed spending time with her, and I honestly thought that it was going to end after the semester (but I'm glad that it didn't).\n\nWe had been friends for around ~2 months, and that is when I started to develop feelings for her. She's a pretty girl, but I had no intention of dating her or to be my girlfriend (she is in a relationship with a guy). It was cool going to the mall, watch a movie, or go eat lunch. But as I started liking her, hanging out with her made me feel miserable.\n\nI was miserable enough that I summed up the courage to tell her one day that I did not want to be friends with her because I liked her. I felt that it was unfair for us to have a friendship where I had feelings for her and that she has a boyfriend. She looked sad when I told her. She told me that if I wanted to be friends again that I could contact her.\n\nAfter the confession, I felt like a weight was lifted and felt glad that I was able to tell her. It's been around two weeks since that day and I miss hanging out with her. I never had a problem with the friendship, just me having feelings with her. \n\nI have asked my friends for help on making a decision. During these two weeks the puppy love-like feelings I had are gone, and I want to take her offer on re-establishing our friendship. It's been a 50/50 mix of \"Do it\" or \"Don't do it because you'll fall back\".\n\nI know it might not the same, but I want to give it a try."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello /r/relationships,\nI am long time lurker that is asking for some help on deciding if I should start a friendship again to a girl that I confessed my feelings to (as the title stated). My friends have been 50/50 about this, and now I want to ask /r/relationships for their opinion on the matter.\n\nI'll try to keep it short as possible\n\nI made friends with a girl at the university. It started with her messaging me for help on homework and evolved to hanging out on our free time. I enjoyed spending time with her, and I honestly thought that it was going to end after the semester (but I'm glad that it didn't).\n\nWe had been friends for around ~2 months, and that is when I started to develop feelings for her. She's a pretty girl, but I had no intention of dating her or to be my girlfriend (she is in a relationship with a guy). It was cool going to the mall, watch a movie, or go eat lunch. But as I started liking her, hanging out with her made me feel miserable.\n\nI was miserable enough that I summed up the courage to tell her one day that I did not want to be friends with her because I liked her. I felt that it was unfair for us to have a friendship where I had feelings for her and that she has a boyfriend. She looked sad when I told her. She told me that if I wanted to be friends again that I could contact her.\n\nAfter the confession, I felt like a weight was lifted and felt glad that I was able to tell her. It's been around two weeks since that day and I miss hanging out with her. I never had a problem with the friendship, just me having feelings with her. \n\nI have asked my friends for help on making a decision. During these two weeks the puppy love-like feelings I had are gone, and I want to take her offer on re-establishing our friendship. It's been a 50/50 mix of \"Do it\" or \"Don't do it because you'll fall back\".\n\nI know it might not the same, but I want to give it a try."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit! So I need some advice. I've been with this amazing guy for about a year and a half now. He's 20 and I'm 19. We're both virgins.\n\n A couple nights ago we were getting intimate in my bedroom. Our sessions usually include oral sex, fingering, and everything that isn't vaginal intercourse. Anyway, things were heavy and we hadn't seen each other for a couple of weeks. He turned to me and said that he wanted to \"go all the way this time\". I mentioned how we didn't have any protection. He suggested that we go out and get something. I began to say that I didn't think it was a good idea, I told him that I was afraid that he'd lose interest in me and leave. He said he understood and that there was no pressure.\n\nHe said that he loved what we already did and that I he's not going anywhere. I may have changed my mind in that instant if what he said next didn't leave me with doubts on how ready he was. I asked him why he wanted to have sex and one of his reasons were because he feels bad about ejaculating in my mouth. Also, he thinks that sex would be no different then what we do now besides the sensation. He doesn't see the difference.\n\nIs there a difference? I want to have sex with him but I'm also just worried that he'll leave me. Any advice or thoughts guys?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit! So I need some advice. I've been with this amazing guy for about a year and a half now. He's 20 and I'm 19. We're both virgins.\n\n A couple nights ago we were getting intimate in my bedroom. Our sessions usually include oral sex, fingering, and everything that isn't vaginal intercourse. Anyway, things were heavy and we hadn't seen each other for a couple of weeks. He turned to me and said that he wanted to \"go all the way this time\". I mentioned how we didn't have any protection. He suggested that we go out and get something. I began to say that I didn't think it was a good idea, I told him that I was afraid that he'd lose interest in me and leave. He said he understood and that there was no pressure.\n\nHe said that he loved what we already did and that I he's not going anywhere. I may have changed my mind in that instant if what he said next didn't leave me with doubts on how ready he was. I asked him why he wanted to have sex and one of his reasons were because he feels bad about ejaculating in my mouth. Also, he thinks that sex would be no different then what we do now besides the sensation. He doesn't see the difference.\n\nIs there a difference? I want to have sex with him but I'm also just worried that he'll leave me. Any advice or thoughts guys?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit! So I need some advice. I've been with this amazing guy for about a year and a half now. He's 20 and I'm 19. We're both virgins.\n\n A couple nights ago we were getting intimate in my bedroom. Our sessions usually include oral sex, fingering, and everything that isn't vaginal intercourse. Anyway, things were heavy and we hadn't seen each other for a couple of weeks. He turned to me and said that he wanted to \"go all the way this time\". I mentioned how we didn't have any protection. He suggested that we go out and get something. I began to say that I didn't think it was a good idea, I told him that I was afraid that he'd lose interest in me and leave. He said he understood and that there was no pressure.\n\nHe said that he loved what we already did and that I he's not going anywhere. I may have changed my mind in that instant if what he said next didn't leave me with doubts on how ready he was. I asked him why he wanted to have sex and one of his reasons were because he feels bad about ejaculating in my mouth. Also, he thinks that sex would be no different then what we do now besides the sensation. He doesn't see the difference.\n\nIs there a difference? I want to have sex with him but I'm also just worried that he'll leave me. Any advice or thoughts guys?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit! So I need some advice. I've been with this amazing guy for about a year and a half now. He's 20 and I'm 19. We're both virgins.\n\n A couple nights ago we were getting intimate in my bedroom. Our sessions usually include oral sex, fingering, and everything that isn't vaginal intercourse. Anyway, things were heavy and we hadn't seen each other for a couple of weeks. He turned to me and said that he wanted to \"go all the way this time\". I mentioned how we didn't have any protection. He suggested that we go out and get something. I began to say that I didn't think it was a good idea, I told him that I was afraid that he'd lose interest in me and leave. He said he understood and that there was no pressure.\n\nHe said that he loved what we already did and that I he's not going anywhere. I may have changed my mind in that instant if what he said next didn't leave me with doubts on how ready he was. I asked him why he wanted to have sex and one of his reasons were because he feels bad about ejaculating in my mouth. Also, he thinks that sex would be no different then what we do now besides the sensation. He doesn't see the difference.\n\nIs there a difference? I want to have sex with him but I'm also just worried that he'll leave me. Any advice or thoughts guys?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit! So I need some advice. I've been with this amazing guy for about a year and a half now. He's 20 and I'm 19. We're both virgins.\n\n A couple nights ago we were getting intimate in my bedroom. Our sessions usually include oral sex, fingering, and everything that isn't vaginal intercourse. Anyway, things were heavy and we hadn't seen each other for a couple of weeks. He turned to me and said that he wanted to \"go all the way this time\". I mentioned how we didn't have any protection. He suggested that we go out and get something. I began to say that I didn't think it was a good idea, I told him that I was afraid that he'd lose interest in me and leave. He said he understood and that there was no pressure.\n\nHe said that he loved what we already did and that I he's not going anywhere. I may have changed my mind in that instant if what he said next didn't leave me with doubts on how ready he was. I asked him why he wanted to have sex and one of his reasons were because he feels bad about ejaculating in my mouth. Also, he thinks that sex would be no different then what we do now besides the sensation. He doesn't see the difference.\n\nIs there a difference? I want to have sex with him but I'm also just worried that he'll leave me. Any advice or thoughts guys?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit! So I need some advice. I've been with this amazing guy for about a year and a half now. He's 20 and I'm 19. We're both virgins.\n\n A couple nights ago we were getting intimate in my bedroom. Our sessions usually include oral sex, fingering, and everything that isn't vaginal intercourse. Anyway, things were heavy and we hadn't seen each other for a couple of weeks. He turned to me and said that he wanted to \"go all the way this time\". I mentioned how we didn't have any protection. He suggested that we go out and get something. I began to say that I didn't think it was a good idea, I told him that I was afraid that he'd lose interest in me and leave. He said he understood and that there was no pressure.\n\nHe said that he loved what we already did and that I he's not going anywhere. I may have changed my mind in that instant if what he said next didn't leave me with doubts on how ready he was. I asked him why he wanted to have sex and one of his reasons were because he feels bad about ejaculating in my mouth. Also, he thinks that sex would be no different then what we do now besides the sensation. He doesn't see the difference.\n\nIs there a difference? I want to have sex with him but I'm also just worried that he'll leave me. Any advice or thoughts guys?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello r/relationships!\n\nI guess I am relatively new to this relationship and this is my first relationship after all. Also it feels weird being the one asking the question after giving my input to other people's relationship problems!\n\nI just have a quick question whether if I am being too clingy or not. I really would prefer NOT to be the clingy type as I know that this makes your girlfriend start to dislike you. \n\nShe and I are both students, I am currently enrolled in 3rd year of the PharmD program while she is in track for graduating with her masters in Biotech. \n\nLately she has been busy with her masters paper that so we rarely have been seeing one another for about 3-4 weeks. We used to spend 2-4 days every week but due to her paper we are lucky to have 1-2 days to spend together every 2 week or so. However, I do get to see her for 5-10 minutes 2-3 times a week, as I drop by in the library to say hi, or occasionally drop off a warm breakfast for her as she forgets to eat in the morning. \n\nIn order to make up for the inability to hang out, I text her everyday saying good morning and good night. These good morning or good night texts are just strictly saying something around the grounds of \"Good morning, I hope you have a good day!\" or \"Good Night, hope you had a good day\" or something around that ground. \n\nShe rarely responds to these texts, but I've been wondering if these texts in the morning or night may seem too excessively clingy. This relationship things are relatively new to me and I wish if you all could give me a honest response if I am being too clingy. \n\nIf I am, I will probably going to cut down on these texts."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello r/relationships!\n\nI guess I am relatively new to this relationship and this is my first relationship after all. Also it feels weird being the one asking the question after giving my input to other people's relationship problems!\n\nI just have a quick question whether if I am being too clingy or not. I really would prefer NOT to be the clingy type as I know that this makes your girlfriend start to dislike you. \n\nShe and I are both students, I am currently enrolled in 3rd year of the PharmD program while she is in track for graduating with her masters in Biotech. \n\nLately she has been busy with her masters paper that so we rarely have been seeing one another for about 3-4 weeks. We used to spend 2-4 days every week but due to her paper we are lucky to have 1-2 days to spend together every 2 week or so. However, I do get to see her for 5-10 minutes 2-3 times a week, as I drop by in the library to say hi, or occasionally drop off a warm breakfast for her as she forgets to eat in the morning. \n\nIn order to make up for the inability to hang out, I text her everyday saying good morning and good night. These good morning or good night texts are just strictly saying something around the grounds of \"Good morning, I hope you have a good day!\" or \"Good Night, hope you had a good day\" or something around that ground. \n\nShe rarely responds to these texts, but I've been wondering if these texts in the morning or night may seem too excessively clingy. This relationship things are relatively new to me and I wish if you all could give me a honest response if I am being too clingy. \n\nIf I am, I will probably going to cut down on these texts."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello r/relationships!\n\nI guess I am relatively new to this relationship and this is my first relationship after all. Also it feels weird being the one asking the question after giving my input to other people's relationship problems!\n\nI just have a quick question whether if I am being too clingy or not. I really would prefer NOT to be the clingy type as I know that this makes your girlfriend start to dislike you. \n\nShe and I are both students, I am currently enrolled in 3rd year of the PharmD program while she is in track for graduating with her masters in Biotech. \n\nLately she has been busy with her masters paper that so we rarely have been seeing one another for about 3-4 weeks. We used to spend 2-4 days every week but due to her paper we are lucky to have 1-2 days to spend together every 2 week or so. However, I do get to see her for 5-10 minutes 2-3 times a week, as I drop by in the library to say hi, or occasionally drop off a warm breakfast for her as she forgets to eat in the morning. \n\nIn order to make up for the inability to hang out, I text her everyday saying good morning and good night. These good morning or good night texts are just strictly saying something around the grounds of \"Good morning, I hope you have a good day!\" or \"Good Night, hope you had a good day\" or something around that ground. \n\nShe rarely responds to these texts, but I've been wondering if these texts in the morning or night may seem too excessively clingy. This relationship things are relatively new to me and I wish if you all could give me a honest response if I am being too clingy. \n\nIf I am, I will probably going to cut down on these texts."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello r/relationships!\n\nI guess I am relatively new to this relationship and this is my first relationship after all. Also it feels weird being the one asking the question after giving my input to other people's relationship problems!\n\nI just have a quick question whether if I am being too clingy or not. I really would prefer NOT to be the clingy type as I know that this makes your girlfriend start to dislike you. \n\nShe and I are both students, I am currently enrolled in 3rd year of the PharmD program while she is in track for graduating with her masters in Biotech. \n\nLately she has been busy with her masters paper that so we rarely have been seeing one another for about 3-4 weeks. We used to spend 2-4 days every week but due to her paper we are lucky to have 1-2 days to spend together every 2 week or so. However, I do get to see her for 5-10 minutes 2-3 times a week, as I drop by in the library to say hi, or occasionally drop off a warm breakfast for her as she forgets to eat in the morning. \n\nIn order to make up for the inability to hang out, I text her everyday saying good morning and good night. These good morning or good night texts are just strictly saying something around the grounds of \"Good morning, I hope you have a good day!\" or \"Good Night, hope you had a good day\" or something around that ground. \n\nShe rarely responds to these texts, but I've been wondering if these texts in the morning or night may seem too excessively clingy. This relationship things are relatively new to me and I wish if you all could give me a honest response if I am being too clingy. \n\nIf I am, I will probably going to cut down on these texts."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello r/relationships!\n\nI guess I am relatively new to this relationship and this is my first relationship after all. Also it feels weird being the one asking the question after giving my input to other people's relationship problems!\n\nI just have a quick question whether if I am being too clingy or not. I really would prefer NOT to be the clingy type as I know that this makes your girlfriend start to dislike you. \n\nShe and I are both students, I am currently enrolled in 3rd year of the PharmD program while she is in track for graduating with her masters in Biotech. \n\nLately she has been busy with her masters paper that so we rarely have been seeing one another for about 3-4 weeks. We used to spend 2-4 days every week but due to her paper we are lucky to have 1-2 days to spend together every 2 week or so. However, I do get to see her for 5-10 minutes 2-3 times a week, as I drop by in the library to say hi, or occasionally drop off a warm breakfast for her as she forgets to eat in the morning. \n\nIn order to make up for the inability to hang out, I text her everyday saying good morning and good night. These good morning or good night texts are just strictly saying something around the grounds of \"Good morning, I hope you have a good day!\" or \"Good Night, hope you had a good day\" or something around that ground. \n\nShe rarely responds to these texts, but I've been wondering if these texts in the morning or night may seem too excessively clingy. This relationship things are relatively new to me and I wish if you all could give me a honest response if I am being too clingy. \n\nIf I am, I will probably going to cut down on these texts."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello r/relationships!\n\nI guess I am relatively new to this relationship and this is my first relationship after all. Also it feels weird being the one asking the question after giving my input to other people's relationship problems!\n\nI just have a quick question whether if I am being too clingy or not. I really would prefer NOT to be the clingy type as I know that this makes your girlfriend start to dislike you. \n\nShe and I are both students, I am currently enrolled in 3rd year of the PharmD program while she is in track for graduating with her masters in Biotech. \n\nLately she has been busy with her masters paper that so we rarely have been seeing one another for about 3-4 weeks. We used to spend 2-4 days every week but due to her paper we are lucky to have 1-2 days to spend together every 2 week or so. However, I do get to see her for 5-10 minutes 2-3 times a week, as I drop by in the library to say hi, or occasionally drop off a warm breakfast for her as she forgets to eat in the morning. \n\nIn order to make up for the inability to hang out, I text her everyday saying good morning and good night. These good morning or good night texts are just strictly saying something around the grounds of \"Good morning, I hope you have a good day!\" or \"Good Night, hope you had a good day\" or something around that ground. \n\nShe rarely responds to these texts, but I've been wondering if these texts in the morning or night may seem too excessively clingy. This relationship things are relatively new to me and I wish if you all could give me a honest response if I am being too clingy. \n\nIf I am, I will probably going to cut down on these texts."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: GF: 18\nMe: 19\nDuration of relationship: 8 months\n\nOkay so I don't really know where to start. My GF refuses to have sex, when I asked her why she said she doesn't know why and then somehow we always start arguing and it ends with her crying and me being frustrated. She always tells me how much she loves me and I do REALLY love her the whole situation is just so damn frustrating for me (I could imagine that it really is frustrating for her aswell but I'm not sure since she seems to be able to be happy without sex). When we make out and I go down on her (which she really enjoys) she shows no interest in doing something like this to me ( I don't suggest it to her in those moments since I do not want to edge her). I don't know what I should do because I really love this girl and do not want to break up with her but for me sex is just a part of a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: GF: 18\nMe: 19\nDuration of relationship: 8 months\n\nOkay so I don't really know where to start. My GF refuses to have sex, when I asked her why she said she doesn't know why and then somehow we always start arguing and it ends with her crying and me being frustrated. She always tells me how much she loves me and I do REALLY love her the whole situation is just so damn frustrating for me (I could imagine that it really is frustrating for her aswell but I'm not sure since she seems to be able to be happy without sex). When we make out and I go down on her (which she really enjoys) she shows no interest in doing something like this to me ( I don't suggest it to her in those moments since I do not want to edge her). I don't know what I should do because I really love this girl and do not want to break up with her but for me sex is just a part of a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: GF: 18\nMe: 19\nDuration of relationship: 8 months\n\nOkay so I don't really know where to start. My GF refuses to have sex, when I asked her why she said she doesn't know why and then somehow we always start arguing and it ends with her crying and me being frustrated. She always tells me how much she loves me and I do REALLY love her the whole situation is just so damn frustrating for me (I could imagine that it really is frustrating for her aswell but I'm not sure since she seems to be able to be happy without sex). When we make out and I go down on her (which she really enjoys) she shows no interest in doing something like this to me ( I don't suggest it to her in those moments since I do not want to edge her). I don't know what I should do because I really love this girl and do not want to break up with her but for me sex is just a part of a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: GF: 18\nMe: 19\nDuration of relationship: 8 months\n\nOkay so I don't really know where to start. My GF refuses to have sex, when I asked her why she said she doesn't know why and then somehow we always start arguing and it ends with her crying and me being frustrated. She always tells me how much she loves me and I do REALLY love her the whole situation is just so damn frustrating for me (I could imagine that it really is frustrating for her aswell but I'm not sure since she seems to be able to be happy without sex). When we make out and I go down on her (which she really enjoys) she shows no interest in doing something like this to me ( I don't suggest it to her in those moments since I do not want to edge her). I don't know what I should do because I really love this girl and do not want to break up with her but for me sex is just a part of a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: GF: 18\nMe: 19\nDuration of relationship: 8 months\n\nOkay so I don't really know where to start. My GF refuses to have sex, when I asked her why she said she doesn't know why and then somehow we always start arguing and it ends with her crying and me being frustrated. She always tells me how much she loves me and I do REALLY love her the whole situation is just so damn frustrating for me (I could imagine that it really is frustrating for her aswell but I'm not sure since she seems to be able to be happy without sex). When we make out and I go down on her (which she really enjoys) she shows no interest in doing something like this to me ( I don't suggest it to her in those moments since I do not want to edge her). I don't know what I should do because I really love this girl and do not want to break up with her but for me sex is just a part of a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: GF: 18\nMe: 19\nDuration of relationship: 8 months\n\nOkay so I don't really know where to start. My GF refuses to have sex, when I asked her why she said she doesn't know why and then somehow we always start arguing and it ends with her crying and me being frustrated. She always tells me how much she loves me and I do REALLY love her the whole situation is just so damn frustrating for me (I could imagine that it really is frustrating for her aswell but I'm not sure since she seems to be able to be happy without sex). When we make out and I go down on her (which she really enjoys) she shows no interest in doing something like this to me ( I don't suggest it to her in those moments since I do not want to edge her). I don't know what I should do because I really love this girl and do not want to break up with her but for me sex is just a part of a relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My long distance GF and I have been having sex for about a year now. She lives about 4 hours away and we see each other once or twice a month for a weekend.\n\nWhenever we get into doing anything physical, whether i'm giving her oral or vaginal, once she gets worked up enough she pushes herself off/away from me.\n\nI know(at least i'm fairly certain) that she enjoys it, but it seems as if the pleasure is too much for her. She gets really out of breath and her feet/legs go numb/shake a little. When she is very out of breath it seems she reflexively pushes away from me.\n\nShe has never had an orgasm in her life, never watched porn. She refuses to masturbate. \n\nI don't know what to think. Is it something in her head? Is there something physically wrong with her? \n\nI always end up getting off, and that's great and all, but it gets old when its always a one way thing. I Don't want to stop enjoying the intimacy because she wont let me take her all the way. Does anyone have any advice for this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My long distance GF and I have been having sex for about a year now. She lives about 4 hours away and we see each other once or twice a month for a weekend.\n\nWhenever we get into doing anything physical, whether i'm giving her oral or vaginal, once she gets worked up enough she pushes herself off/away from me.\n\nI know(at least i'm fairly certain) that she enjoys it, but it seems as if the pleasure is too much for her. She gets really out of breath and her feet/legs go numb/shake a little. When she is very out of breath it seems she reflexively pushes away from me.\n\nShe has never had an orgasm in her life, never watched porn. She refuses to masturbate. \n\nI don't know what to think. Is it something in her head? Is there something physically wrong with her? \n\nI always end up getting off, and that's great and all, but it gets old when its always a one way thing. I Don't want to stop enjoying the intimacy because she wont let me take her all the way. Does anyone have any advice for this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My long distance GF and I have been having sex for about a year now. She lives about 4 hours away and we see each other once or twice a month for a weekend.\n\nWhenever we get into doing anything physical, whether i'm giving her oral or vaginal, once she gets worked up enough she pushes herself off/away from me.\n\nI know(at least i'm fairly certain) that she enjoys it, but it seems as if the pleasure is too much for her. She gets really out of breath and her feet/legs go numb/shake a little. When she is very out of breath it seems she reflexively pushes away from me.\n\nShe has never had an orgasm in her life, never watched porn. She refuses to masturbate. \n\nI don't know what to think. Is it something in her head? Is there something physically wrong with her? \n\nI always end up getting off, and that's great and all, but it gets old when its always a one way thing. I Don't want to stop enjoying the intimacy because she wont let me take her all the way. Does anyone have any advice for this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My long distance GF and I have been having sex for about a year now. She lives about 4 hours away and we see each other once or twice a month for a weekend.\n\nWhenever we get into doing anything physical, whether i'm giving her oral or vaginal, once she gets worked up enough she pushes herself off/away from me.\n\nI know(at least i'm fairly certain) that she enjoys it, but it seems as if the pleasure is too much for her. She gets really out of breath and her feet/legs go numb/shake a little. When she is very out of breath it seems she reflexively pushes away from me.\n\nShe has never had an orgasm in her life, never watched porn. She refuses to masturbate. \n\nI don't know what to think. Is it something in her head? Is there something physically wrong with her? \n\nI always end up getting off, and that's great and all, but it gets old when its always a one way thing. I Don't want to stop enjoying the intimacy because she wont let me take her all the way. Does anyone have any advice for this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My long distance GF and I have been having sex for about a year now. She lives about 4 hours away and we see each other once or twice a month for a weekend.\n\nWhenever we get into doing anything physical, whether i'm giving her oral or vaginal, once she gets worked up enough she pushes herself off/away from me.\n\nI know(at least i'm fairly certain) that she enjoys it, but it seems as if the pleasure is too much for her. She gets really out of breath and her feet/legs go numb/shake a little. When she is very out of breath it seems she reflexively pushes away from me.\n\nShe has never had an orgasm in her life, never watched porn. She refuses to masturbate. \n\nI don't know what to think. Is it something in her head? Is there something physically wrong with her? \n\nI always end up getting off, and that's great and all, but it gets old when its always a one way thing. I Don't want to stop enjoying the intimacy because she wont let me take her all the way. Does anyone have any advice for this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My long distance GF and I have been having sex for about a year now. She lives about 4 hours away and we see each other once or twice a month for a weekend.\n\nWhenever we get into doing anything physical, whether i'm giving her oral or vaginal, once she gets worked up enough she pushes herself off/away from me.\n\nI know(at least i'm fairly certain) that she enjoys it, but it seems as if the pleasure is too much for her. She gets really out of breath and her feet/legs go numb/shake a little. When she is very out of breath it seems she reflexively pushes away from me.\n\nShe has never had an orgasm in her life, never watched porn. She refuses to masturbate. \n\nI don't know what to think. Is it something in her head? Is there something physically wrong with her? \n\nI always end up getting off, and that's great and all, but it gets old when its always a one way thing. I Don't want to stop enjoying the intimacy because she wont let me take her all the way. Does anyone have any advice for this situation?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 29m. To make a long story short, we were in a serious relationship for 4+yrs, not including the long-distance relationship. All hell broke loose, and I moved back home. The break-up dragged on, but I didn't know it was happening at the time. I haven't seen her in two years and I haven't spoken to her in over a year.\n\nShe sent me an e-mail yesterday. I was very hesitant to check my e-mail because I couldn't believe that she e-mailed me, as I woke up and was somewhat disoriented when I checked my e-mail.\n\nThe message was pretty much only one sentence; she asked if I had been text messaging her recently. The answer is no. The break-up and relationship took a huge toll on me, but I'd like to say that I've moved on, even though I'm haunted by the history of it all, which is just another long story.\n\nHere's my conclusion:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 29m. To make a long story short, we were in a serious relationship for 4+yrs, not including the long-distance relationship. All hell broke loose, and I moved back home. The break-up dragged on, but I didn't know it was happening at the time. I haven't seen her in two years and I haven't spoken to her in over a year.\n\nShe sent me an e-mail yesterday. I was very hesitant to check my e-mail because I couldn't believe that she e-mailed me, as I woke up and was somewhat disoriented when I checked my e-mail.\n\nThe message was pretty much only one sentence; she asked if I had been text messaging her recently. The answer is no. The break-up and relationship took a huge toll on me, but I'd like to say that I've moved on, even though I'm haunted by the history of it all, which is just another long story.\n\nHere's my conclusion:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 29m. To make a long story short, we were in a serious relationship for 4+yrs, not including the long-distance relationship. All hell broke loose, and I moved back home. The break-up dragged on, but I didn't know it was happening at the time. I haven't seen her in two years and I haven't spoken to her in over a year.\n\nShe sent me an e-mail yesterday. I was very hesitant to check my e-mail because I couldn't believe that she e-mailed me, as I woke up and was somewhat disoriented when I checked my e-mail.\n\nThe message was pretty much only one sentence; she asked if I had been text messaging her recently. The answer is no. The break-up and relationship took a huge toll on me, but I'd like to say that I've moved on, even though I'm haunted by the history of it all, which is just another long story.\n\nHere's my conclusion:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 29m. To make a long story short, we were in a serious relationship for 4+yrs, not including the long-distance relationship. All hell broke loose, and I moved back home. The break-up dragged on, but I didn't know it was happening at the time. I haven't seen her in two years and I haven't spoken to her in over a year.\n\nShe sent me an e-mail yesterday. I was very hesitant to check my e-mail because I couldn't believe that she e-mailed me, as I woke up and was somewhat disoriented when I checked my e-mail.\n\nThe message was pretty much only one sentence; she asked if I had been text messaging her recently. The answer is no. The break-up and relationship took a huge toll on me, but I'd like to say that I've moved on, even though I'm haunted by the history of it all, which is just another long story.\n\nHere's my conclusion:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 29m. To make a long story short, we were in a serious relationship for 4+yrs, not including the long-distance relationship. All hell broke loose, and I moved back home. The break-up dragged on, but I didn't know it was happening at the time. I haven't seen her in two years and I haven't spoken to her in over a year.\n\nShe sent me an e-mail yesterday. I was very hesitant to check my e-mail because I couldn't believe that she e-mailed me, as I woke up and was somewhat disoriented when I checked my e-mail.\n\nThe message was pretty much only one sentence; she asked if I had been text messaging her recently. The answer is no. The break-up and relationship took a huge toll on me, but I'd like to say that I've moved on, even though I'm haunted by the history of it all, which is just another long story.\n\nHere's my conclusion:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 29m. To make a long story short, we were in a serious relationship for 4+yrs, not including the long-distance relationship. All hell broke loose, and I moved back home. The break-up dragged on, but I didn't know it was happening at the time. I haven't seen her in two years and I haven't spoken to her in over a year.\n\nShe sent me an e-mail yesterday. I was very hesitant to check my e-mail because I couldn't believe that she e-mailed me, as I woke up and was somewhat disoriented when I checked my e-mail.\n\nThe message was pretty much only one sentence; she asked if I had been text messaging her recently. The answer is no. The break-up and relationship took a huge toll on me, but I'd like to say that I've moved on, even though I'm haunted by the history of it all, which is just another long story.\n\nHere's my conclusion:"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well, not really. I'm not even that big of a Star Wars fan. It just seemed like a good opportunity to use that line. Here's the situation:\n\nMy fiancee and I are both social workers in our mid-30's and have decided to jump the broom. We are planning a very nontraditional wedding, and want to focus on celebrating in a way that is most meaningful to the people involved. We will get legally married at San Francisco City Hall with just our immediate families on Friday, 11/11/11, and then plan to have a casual celebration for our larger group of friends the next day. This will be not as formal as most receptions, but more towards the house party side of things. We are aiming for an event that is casual and fun, yet tasteful.\n\nOur idea is that we get a place for the long weekend. We'll have family-oriented people (i.e. families with kids) drop by during the day, and then continue on with the celebration into the night with our adult friends. In our most ideal visualization, the place will have (listed in order of priority):\n\n- a location within an hours drive of San Francisco\n- enough indoor space for a bunch (best guess 100+ ?) of people to have fun in\n- a nice looking tree, as we will create some sort of celebration ritual\n- a decent kitchen\n- a hot tub\n- a nice view\n- a garden\n\nWe have started the process of sourcing a place (mostly using VRBO.com and craigslist), and I also thought that reddit may be a good resource, given that I've seen this community do so much! If you have any suggestions or personally know of any houses/places that we could use, please let me know! If helpful, I can PM you our budget range (we are financing the wedding ourselves).\n\nThank you in advance Reddit! I promise to be a GG partner (in both the reddit meme way and the Dan Savage way) and not turn my sweety into Redditors Wife!\n\nHave a great week Reddit!\n\nM"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well, not really. I'm not even that big of a Star Wars fan. It just seemed like a good opportunity to use that line. Here's the situation:\n\nMy fiancee and I are both social workers in our mid-30's and have decided to jump the broom. We are planning a very nontraditional wedding, and want to focus on celebrating in a way that is most meaningful to the people involved. We will get legally married at San Francisco City Hall with just our immediate families on Friday, 11/11/11, and then plan to have a casual celebration for our larger group of friends the next day. This will be not as formal as most receptions, but more towards the house party side of things. We are aiming for an event that is casual and fun, yet tasteful.\n\nOur idea is that we get a place for the long weekend. We'll have family-oriented people (i.e. families with kids) drop by during the day, and then continue on with the celebration into the night with our adult friends. In our most ideal visualization, the place will have (listed in order of priority):\n\n- a location within an hours drive of San Francisco\n- enough indoor space for a bunch (best guess 100+ ?) of people to have fun in\n- a nice looking tree, as we will create some sort of celebration ritual\n- a decent kitchen\n- a hot tub\n- a nice view\n- a garden\n\nWe have started the process of sourcing a place (mostly using VRBO.com and craigslist), and I also thought that reddit may be a good resource, given that I've seen this community do so much! If you have any suggestions or personally know of any houses/places that we could use, please let me know! If helpful, I can PM you our budget range (we are financing the wedding ourselves).\n\nThank you in advance Reddit! I promise to be a GG partner (in both the reddit meme way and the Dan Savage way) and not turn my sweety into Redditors Wife!\n\nHave a great week Reddit!\n\nM"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well, not really. I'm not even that big of a Star Wars fan. It just seemed like a good opportunity to use that line. Here's the situation:\n\nMy fiancee and I are both social workers in our mid-30's and have decided to jump the broom. We are planning a very nontraditional wedding, and want to focus on celebrating in a way that is most meaningful to the people involved. We will get legally married at San Francisco City Hall with just our immediate families on Friday, 11/11/11, and then plan to have a casual celebration for our larger group of friends the next day. This will be not as formal as most receptions, but more towards the house party side of things. We are aiming for an event that is casual and fun, yet tasteful.\n\nOur idea is that we get a place for the long weekend. We'll have family-oriented people (i.e. families with kids) drop by during the day, and then continue on with the celebration into the night with our adult friends. In our most ideal visualization, the place will have (listed in order of priority):\n\n- a location within an hours drive of San Francisco\n- enough indoor space for a bunch (best guess 100+ ?) of people to have fun in\n- a nice looking tree, as we will create some sort of celebration ritual\n- a decent kitchen\n- a hot tub\n- a nice view\n- a garden\n\nWe have started the process of sourcing a place (mostly using VRBO.com and craigslist), and I also thought that reddit may be a good resource, given that I've seen this community do so much! If you have any suggestions or personally know of any houses/places that we could use, please let me know! If helpful, I can PM you our budget range (we are financing the wedding ourselves).\n\nThank you in advance Reddit! I promise to be a GG partner (in both the reddit meme way and the Dan Savage way) and not turn my sweety into Redditors Wife!\n\nHave a great week Reddit!\n\nM"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well, not really. I'm not even that big of a Star Wars fan. It just seemed like a good opportunity to use that line. Here's the situation:\n\nMy fiancee and I are both social workers in our mid-30's and have decided to jump the broom. We are planning a very nontraditional wedding, and want to focus on celebrating in a way that is most meaningful to the people involved. We will get legally married at San Francisco City Hall with just our immediate families on Friday, 11/11/11, and then plan to have a casual celebration for our larger group of friends the next day. This will be not as formal as most receptions, but more towards the house party side of things. We are aiming for an event that is casual and fun, yet tasteful.\n\nOur idea is that we get a place for the long weekend. We'll have family-oriented people (i.e. families with kids) drop by during the day, and then continue on with the celebration into the night with our adult friends. In our most ideal visualization, the place will have (listed in order of priority):\n\n- a location within an hours drive of San Francisco\n- enough indoor space for a bunch (best guess 100+ ?) of people to have fun in\n- a nice looking tree, as we will create some sort of celebration ritual\n- a decent kitchen\n- a hot tub\n- a nice view\n- a garden\n\nWe have started the process of sourcing a place (mostly using VRBO.com and craigslist), and I also thought that reddit may be a good resource, given that I've seen this community do so much! If you have any suggestions or personally know of any houses/places that we could use, please let me know! If helpful, I can PM you our budget range (we are financing the wedding ourselves).\n\nThank you in advance Reddit! I promise to be a GG partner (in both the reddit meme way and the Dan Savage way) and not turn my sweety into Redditors Wife!\n\nHave a great week Reddit!\n\nM"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well, not really. I'm not even that big of a Star Wars fan. It just seemed like a good opportunity to use that line. Here's the situation:\n\nMy fiancee and I are both social workers in our mid-30's and have decided to jump the broom. We are planning a very nontraditional wedding, and want to focus on celebrating in a way that is most meaningful to the people involved. We will get legally married at San Francisco City Hall with just our immediate families on Friday, 11/11/11, and then plan to have a casual celebration for our larger group of friends the next day. This will be not as formal as most receptions, but more towards the house party side of things. We are aiming for an event that is casual and fun, yet tasteful.\n\nOur idea is that we get a place for the long weekend. We'll have family-oriented people (i.e. families with kids) drop by during the day, and then continue on with the celebration into the night with our adult friends. In our most ideal visualization, the place will have (listed in order of priority):\n\n- a location within an hours drive of San Francisco\n- enough indoor space for a bunch (best guess 100+ ?) of people to have fun in\n- a nice looking tree, as we will create some sort of celebration ritual\n- a decent kitchen\n- a hot tub\n- a nice view\n- a garden\n\nWe have started the process of sourcing a place (mostly using VRBO.com and craigslist), and I also thought that reddit may be a good resource, given that I've seen this community do so much! If you have any suggestions or personally know of any houses/places that we could use, please let me know! If helpful, I can PM you our budget range (we are financing the wedding ourselves).\n\nThank you in advance Reddit! I promise to be a GG partner (in both the reddit meme way and the Dan Savage way) and not turn my sweety into Redditors Wife!\n\nHave a great week Reddit!\n\nM"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well, not really. I'm not even that big of a Star Wars fan. It just seemed like a good opportunity to use that line. Here's the situation:\n\nMy fiancee and I are both social workers in our mid-30's and have decided to jump the broom. We are planning a very nontraditional wedding, and want to focus on celebrating in a way that is most meaningful to the people involved. We will get legally married at San Francisco City Hall with just our immediate families on Friday, 11/11/11, and then plan to have a casual celebration for our larger group of friends the next day. This will be not as formal as most receptions, but more towards the house party side of things. We are aiming for an event that is casual and fun, yet tasteful.\n\nOur idea is that we get a place for the long weekend. We'll have family-oriented people (i.e. families with kids) drop by during the day, and then continue on with the celebration into the night with our adult friends. In our most ideal visualization, the place will have (listed in order of priority):\n\n- a location within an hours drive of San Francisco\n- enough indoor space for a bunch (best guess 100+ ?) of people to have fun in\n- a nice looking tree, as we will create some sort of celebration ritual\n- a decent kitchen\n- a hot tub\n- a nice view\n- a garden\n\nWe have started the process of sourcing a place (mostly using VRBO.com and craigslist), and I also thought that reddit may be a good resource, given that I've seen this community do so much! If you have any suggestions or personally know of any houses/places that we could use, please let me know! If helpful, I can PM you our budget range (we are financing the wedding ourselves).\n\nThank you in advance Reddit! I promise to be a GG partner (in both the reddit meme way and the Dan Savage way) and not turn my sweety into Redditors Wife!\n\nHave a great week Reddit!\n\nM"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit, So when I decided to start dating this one girl she warned me that she has borderline personality disorder.\n\nWell at first I thought what the hell it cant be that bad , but the more recently we spoke more about it and to be honest I'm kinda scared. \n\nShe told me that she could start doing everything she can in order to hurt me emotionally, or even physically. But it will not be her , it will be someone else, but they will know everything she knows.\n\nAt that point I was already freaking out because of an abusive past with my mother all of it sounded very similar, and I've started to think to myself. Why should I stand back up if I already have been shot? (hope that makes sense)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit, So when I decided to start dating this one girl she warned me that she has borderline personality disorder.\n\nWell at first I thought what the hell it cant be that bad , but the more recently we spoke more about it and to be honest I'm kinda scared. \n\nShe told me that she could start doing everything she can in order to hurt me emotionally, or even physically. But it will not be her , it will be someone else, but they will know everything she knows.\n\nAt that point I was already freaking out because of an abusive past with my mother all of it sounded very similar, and I've started to think to myself. Why should I stand back up if I already have been shot? (hope that makes sense)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit, So when I decided to start dating this one girl she warned me that she has borderline personality disorder.\n\nWell at first I thought what the hell it cant be that bad , but the more recently we spoke more about it and to be honest I'm kinda scared. \n\nShe told me that she could start doing everything she can in order to hurt me emotionally, or even physically. But it will not be her , it will be someone else, but they will know everything she knows.\n\nAt that point I was already freaking out because of an abusive past with my mother all of it sounded very similar, and I've started to think to myself. Why should I stand back up if I already have been shot? (hope that makes sense)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit, So when I decided to start dating this one girl she warned me that she has borderline personality disorder.\n\nWell at first I thought what the hell it cant be that bad , but the more recently we spoke more about it and to be honest I'm kinda scared. \n\nShe told me that she could start doing everything she can in order to hurt me emotionally, or even physically. But it will not be her , it will be someone else, but they will know everything she knows.\n\nAt that point I was already freaking out because of an abusive past with my mother all of it sounded very similar, and I've started to think to myself. Why should I stand back up if I already have been shot? (hope that makes sense)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello Reddit, So when I decided to start dating this one girl she warned me that she has borderline personality disorder.\n\nWell at first I thought what the hell it cant be that bad , but the more recently we spoke more about it and to be honest I'm kinda scared. \n\nShe told me that she could start doing everything she can in order to hurt me emotionally, or even physically. But it will not be her , it will be someone else, but they will know everything she knows.\n\nAt that point I was already freaking out because of an abusive past with my mother all of it sounded very similar, and I've started to think to myself. Why should I stand back up if I already have been shot? (hope that makes sense)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [21M] recently broke up with my boyfriend [22M] of 2 years around 4 months ago. I'm having a difficult time, not because of being single per say, but because my two best friends go to college 2 hours away, and most of my other friends are better friends with my ex so they are kind of tipping me out.\n\nI've done grindr and tinder, and none of them have really led anywhere. I don't like to have sex with random people, I'd rather just get drunk or make out or whatever.\n\nNow that I'm back in school, what would you guys suggest for finding new friends, and maybe on down the road, a new boyfriend? Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [21M] recently broke up with my boyfriend [22M] of 2 years around 4 months ago. I'm having a difficult time, not because of being single per say, but because my two best friends go to college 2 hours away, and most of my other friends are better friends with my ex so they are kind of tipping me out.\n\nI've done grindr and tinder, and none of them have really led anywhere. I don't like to have sex with random people, I'd rather just get drunk or make out or whatever.\n\nNow that I'm back in school, what would you guys suggest for finding new friends, and maybe on down the road, a new boyfriend? Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [21M] recently broke up with my boyfriend [22M] of 2 years around 4 months ago. I'm having a difficult time, not because of being single per say, but because my two best friends go to college 2 hours away, and most of my other friends are better friends with my ex so they are kind of tipping me out.\n\nI've done grindr and tinder, and none of them have really led anywhere. I don't like to have sex with random people, I'd rather just get drunk or make out or whatever.\n\nNow that I'm back in school, what would you guys suggest for finding new friends, and maybe on down the road, a new boyfriend? Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [21M] recently broke up with my boyfriend [22M] of 2 years around 4 months ago. I'm having a difficult time, not because of being single per say, but because my two best friends go to college 2 hours away, and most of my other friends are better friends with my ex so they are kind of tipping me out.\n\nI've done grindr and tinder, and none of them have really led anywhere. I don't like to have sex with random people, I'd rather just get drunk or make out or whatever.\n\nNow that I'm back in school, what would you guys suggest for finding new friends, and maybe on down the road, a new boyfriend? Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [21M] recently broke up with my boyfriend [22M] of 2 years around 4 months ago. I'm having a difficult time, not because of being single per say, but because my two best friends go to college 2 hours away, and most of my other friends are better friends with my ex so they are kind of tipping me out.\n\nI've done grindr and tinder, and none of them have really led anywhere. I don't like to have sex with random people, I'd rather just get drunk or make out or whatever.\n\nNow that I'm back in school, what would you guys suggest for finding new friends, and maybe on down the road, a new boyfriend? Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [21M] recently broke up with my boyfriend [22M] of 2 years around 4 months ago. I'm having a difficult time, not because of being single per say, but because my two best friends go to college 2 hours away, and most of my other friends are better friends with my ex so they are kind of tipping me out.\n\nI've done grindr and tinder, and none of them have really led anywhere. I don't like to have sex with random people, I'd rather just get drunk or make out or whatever.\n\nNow that I'm back in school, what would you guys suggest for finding new friends, and maybe on down the road, a new boyfriend? Any advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit !\n\n*Sorry for any grammatical mistakes I may commit , I'm typing this on my phone and English is not my mother tongue !*\n\nSo recently my biological dad showed interest in meeting me and talking to me after 6+ years of not coming to see me nor calling me at all ! \n\nMy mum's all up for me meeting him saying that he is my father after all and I should at least talk to him. \n\nNeedless to say that I don't feel any sort of connection between me and that man as my step father was the one who I deem as my dad since he really took care of me since I was really young ( my biological dad divorced my mum when she got pregnant with me , so she had to struggle to feed me and raise me and seeing that I hail from a quasi-ish 3rd world country , she didn't get much rights and the court didn't sentence my biological father to assist her in any sort of way in raising me ).\n\nRecently I moved away from my home country to study electrical engineering abroad , since that my biological father tried to contact me in many ways and I didn't give in , I never replied to any of his calls nor his messages on facebook etc. why is this sudden interest in me when he didn't contact me for like 6+ years ! I honestly don't know what to do , I'd rather not have any contact with him , but my mum's and even my stepfather keeps on telling me to go on and have a chat with him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit !\n\n*Sorry for any grammatical mistakes I may commit , I'm typing this on my phone and English is not my mother tongue !*\n\nSo recently my biological dad showed interest in meeting me and talking to me after 6+ years of not coming to see me nor calling me at all ! \n\nMy mum's all up for me meeting him saying that he is my father after all and I should at least talk to him. \n\nNeedless to say that I don't feel any sort of connection between me and that man as my step father was the one who I deem as my dad since he really took care of me since I was really young ( my biological dad divorced my mum when she got pregnant with me , so she had to struggle to feed me and raise me and seeing that I hail from a quasi-ish 3rd world country , she didn't get much rights and the court didn't sentence my biological father to assist her in any sort of way in raising me ).\n\nRecently I moved away from my home country to study electrical engineering abroad , since that my biological father tried to contact me in many ways and I didn't give in , I never replied to any of his calls nor his messages on facebook etc. why is this sudden interest in me when he didn't contact me for like 6+ years ! I honestly don't know what to do , I'd rather not have any contact with him , but my mum's and even my stepfather keeps on telling me to go on and have a chat with him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit !\n\n*Sorry for any grammatical mistakes I may commit , I'm typing this on my phone and English is not my mother tongue !*\n\nSo recently my biological dad showed interest in meeting me and talking to me after 6+ years of not coming to see me nor calling me at all ! \n\nMy mum's all up for me meeting him saying that he is my father after all and I should at least talk to him. \n\nNeedless to say that I don't feel any sort of connection between me and that man as my step father was the one who I deem as my dad since he really took care of me since I was really young ( my biological dad divorced my mum when she got pregnant with me , so she had to struggle to feed me and raise me and seeing that I hail from a quasi-ish 3rd world country , she didn't get much rights and the court didn't sentence my biological father to assist her in any sort of way in raising me ).\n\nRecently I moved away from my home country to study electrical engineering abroad , since that my biological father tried to contact me in many ways and I didn't give in , I never replied to any of his calls nor his messages on facebook etc. why is this sudden interest in me when he didn't contact me for like 6+ years ! I honestly don't know what to do , I'd rather not have any contact with him , but my mum's and even my stepfather keeps on telling me to go on and have a chat with him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit !\n\n*Sorry for any grammatical mistakes I may commit , I'm typing this on my phone and English is not my mother tongue !*\n\nSo recently my biological dad showed interest in meeting me and talking to me after 6+ years of not coming to see me nor calling me at all ! \n\nMy mum's all up for me meeting him saying that he is my father after all and I should at least talk to him. \n\nNeedless to say that I don't feel any sort of connection between me and that man as my step father was the one who I deem as my dad since he really took care of me since I was really young ( my biological dad divorced my mum when she got pregnant with me , so she had to struggle to feed me and raise me and seeing that I hail from a quasi-ish 3rd world country , she didn't get much rights and the court didn't sentence my biological father to assist her in any sort of way in raising me ).\n\nRecently I moved away from my home country to study electrical engineering abroad , since that my biological father tried to contact me in many ways and I didn't give in , I never replied to any of his calls nor his messages on facebook etc. why is this sudden interest in me when he didn't contact me for like 6+ years ! I honestly don't know what to do , I'd rather not have any contact with him , but my mum's and even my stepfather keeps on telling me to go on and have a chat with him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit !\n\n*Sorry for any grammatical mistakes I may commit , I'm typing this on my phone and English is not my mother tongue !*\n\nSo recently my biological dad showed interest in meeting me and talking to me after 6+ years of not coming to see me nor calling me at all ! \n\nMy mum's all up for me meeting him saying that he is my father after all and I should at least talk to him. \n\nNeedless to say that I don't feel any sort of connection between me and that man as my step father was the one who I deem as my dad since he really took care of me since I was really young ( my biological dad divorced my mum when she got pregnant with me , so she had to struggle to feed me and raise me and seeing that I hail from a quasi-ish 3rd world country , she didn't get much rights and the court didn't sentence my biological father to assist her in any sort of way in raising me ).\n\nRecently I moved away from my home country to study electrical engineering abroad , since that my biological father tried to contact me in many ways and I didn't give in , I never replied to any of his calls nor his messages on facebook etc. why is this sudden interest in me when he didn't contact me for like 6+ years ! I honestly don't know what to do , I'd rather not have any contact with him , but my mum's and even my stepfather keeps on telling me to go on and have a chat with him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey reddit !\n\n*Sorry for any grammatical mistakes I may commit , I'm typing this on my phone and English is not my mother tongue !*\n\nSo recently my biological dad showed interest in meeting me and talking to me after 6+ years of not coming to see me nor calling me at all ! \n\nMy mum's all up for me meeting him saying that he is my father after all and I should at least talk to him. \n\nNeedless to say that I don't feel any sort of connection between me and that man as my step father was the one who I deem as my dad since he really took care of me since I was really young ( my biological dad divorced my mum when she got pregnant with me , so she had to struggle to feed me and raise me and seeing that I hail from a quasi-ish 3rd world country , she didn't get much rights and the court didn't sentence my biological father to assist her in any sort of way in raising me ).\n\nRecently I moved away from my home country to study electrical engineering abroad , since that my biological father tried to contact me in many ways and I didn't give in , I never replied to any of his calls nor his messages on facebook etc. why is this sudden interest in me when he didn't contact me for like 6+ years ! I honestly don't know what to do , I'd rather not have any contact with him , but my mum's and even my stepfather keeps on telling me to go on and have a chat with him."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was just on the phone to my GF [17/f] and I told her that I hate being on the phone. I have already told her this previously and have emphasised that it isn't just with her it's with EVERYBODY that I know, I even hate being on the phone to my parents due to the fact that it causes me to have to stop whatever I'm doing for however long and basically makes me procrastinate even more than I already do.\n\nI told her that I'm fine when talking to her because I love her but I hate it when I have to force a conversation, which is what happens most of the time, for example *nokia ringtone* 'Hey babe what's up?' 'Oh, nothing'. This makes me feel as though I have to reply with something to start a conversation otherwise I feel stupid.\n\nNow when I told her I hate this she goes on about me being a bad boyfriend, am I really a bad boyfriend? I feel pretty shitty now to be honest as I feel I've let her down, any advice would be awesome RA.\n\nThankyou."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was just on the phone to my GF [17/f] and I told her that I hate being on the phone. I have already told her this previously and have emphasised that it isn't just with her it's with EVERYBODY that I know, I even hate being on the phone to my parents due to the fact that it causes me to have to stop whatever I'm doing for however long and basically makes me procrastinate even more than I already do.\n\nI told her that I'm fine when talking to her because I love her but I hate it when I have to force a conversation, which is what happens most of the time, for example *nokia ringtone* 'Hey babe what's up?' 'Oh, nothing'. This makes me feel as though I have to reply with something to start a conversation otherwise I feel stupid.\n\nNow when I told her I hate this she goes on about me being a bad boyfriend, am I really a bad boyfriend? I feel pretty shitty now to be honest as I feel I've let her down, any advice would be awesome RA.\n\nThankyou."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was just on the phone to my GF [17/f] and I told her that I hate being on the phone. I have already told her this previously and have emphasised that it isn't just with her it's with EVERYBODY that I know, I even hate being on the phone to my parents due to the fact that it causes me to have to stop whatever I'm doing for however long and basically makes me procrastinate even more than I already do.\n\nI told her that I'm fine when talking to her because I love her but I hate it when I have to force a conversation, which is what happens most of the time, for example *nokia ringtone* 'Hey babe what's up?' 'Oh, nothing'. This makes me feel as though I have to reply with something to start a conversation otherwise I feel stupid.\n\nNow when I told her I hate this she goes on about me being a bad boyfriend, am I really a bad boyfriend? I feel pretty shitty now to be honest as I feel I've let her down, any advice would be awesome RA.\n\nThankyou."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was just on the phone to my GF [17/f] and I told her that I hate being on the phone. I have already told her this previously and have emphasised that it isn't just with her it's with EVERYBODY that I know, I even hate being on the phone to my parents due to the fact that it causes me to have to stop whatever I'm doing for however long and basically makes me procrastinate even more than I already do.\n\nI told her that I'm fine when talking to her because I love her but I hate it when I have to force a conversation, which is what happens most of the time, for example *nokia ringtone* 'Hey babe what's up?' 'Oh, nothing'. This makes me feel as though I have to reply with something to start a conversation otherwise I feel stupid.\n\nNow when I told her I hate this she goes on about me being a bad boyfriend, am I really a bad boyfriend? I feel pretty shitty now to be honest as I feel I've let her down, any advice would be awesome RA.\n\nThankyou."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was just on the phone to my GF [17/f] and I told her that I hate being on the phone. I have already told her this previously and have emphasised that it isn't just with her it's with EVERYBODY that I know, I even hate being on the phone to my parents due to the fact that it causes me to have to stop whatever I'm doing for however long and basically makes me procrastinate even more than I already do.\n\nI told her that I'm fine when talking to her because I love her but I hate it when I have to force a conversation, which is what happens most of the time, for example *nokia ringtone* 'Hey babe what's up?' 'Oh, nothing'. This makes me feel as though I have to reply with something to start a conversation otherwise I feel stupid.\n\nNow when I told her I hate this she goes on about me being a bad boyfriend, am I really a bad boyfriend? I feel pretty shitty now to be honest as I feel I've let her down, any advice would be awesome RA.\n\nThankyou."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was just on the phone to my GF [17/f] and I told her that I hate being on the phone. I have already told her this previously and have emphasised that it isn't just with her it's with EVERYBODY that I know, I even hate being on the phone to my parents due to the fact that it causes me to have to stop whatever I'm doing for however long and basically makes me procrastinate even more than I already do.\n\nI told her that I'm fine when talking to her because I love her but I hate it when I have to force a conversation, which is what happens most of the time, for example *nokia ringtone* 'Hey babe what's up?' 'Oh, nothing'. This makes me feel as though I have to reply with something to start a conversation otherwise I feel stupid.\n\nNow when I told her I hate this she goes on about me being a bad boyfriend, am I really a bad boyfriend? I feel pretty shitty now to be honest as I feel I've let her down, any advice would be awesome RA.\n\nThankyou."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (r/askwomen told me to post this here instead)\n\nBasically, the guy I was exclusively dating for ~5 months dumped me for another girl. That doesn't sound so bad, but what makes it bad is that he lied to me about it. He used the 'ol \"I'm just not ready for another serious relationship just yet,\" and all too soon afterwards he turns up to a party with this girl and had given me no prior warning whatsoever. I felt very embarrassed, hurt, and disrespected.\n\nI'm the type of girl who, if someone actively does something to break my trust, I physically cannot be around them; it sends my anxiety straight through the roof and makes me feel sick.\n\nWe're in the same friend circle though, and it's impossible to avoid him forever.\n\nThis weekend, there's just a casual party and pretty much all of my closest friends will be there. It'll be such a fun night, but just the thought of seeing him and his new girlfriend makes me feel nauseous.\n\nI want to be the bigger person, show him that it's not bothering me and go and have fun with my friends, plus if I don't go it'll be very obvious and possibly a little awkward. However, I feel like I physically, mentally and emotionally just can't handle it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (r/askwomen told me to post this here instead)\n\nBasically, the guy I was exclusively dating for ~5 months dumped me for another girl. That doesn't sound so bad, but what makes it bad is that he lied to me about it. He used the 'ol \"I'm just not ready for another serious relationship just yet,\" and all too soon afterwards he turns up to a party with this girl and had given me no prior warning whatsoever. I felt very embarrassed, hurt, and disrespected.\n\nI'm the type of girl who, if someone actively does something to break my trust, I physically cannot be around them; it sends my anxiety straight through the roof and makes me feel sick.\n\nWe're in the same friend circle though, and it's impossible to avoid him forever.\n\nThis weekend, there's just a casual party and pretty much all of my closest friends will be there. It'll be such a fun night, but just the thought of seeing him and his new girlfriend makes me feel nauseous.\n\nI want to be the bigger person, show him that it's not bothering me and go and have fun with my friends, plus if I don't go it'll be very obvious and possibly a little awkward. However, I feel like I physically, mentally and emotionally just can't handle it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (r/askwomen told me to post this here instead)\n\nBasically, the guy I was exclusively dating for ~5 months dumped me for another girl. That doesn't sound so bad, but what makes it bad is that he lied to me about it. He used the 'ol \"I'm just not ready for another serious relationship just yet,\" and all too soon afterwards he turns up to a party with this girl and had given me no prior warning whatsoever. I felt very embarrassed, hurt, and disrespected.\n\nI'm the type of girl who, if someone actively does something to break my trust, I physically cannot be around them; it sends my anxiety straight through the roof and makes me feel sick.\n\nWe're in the same friend circle though, and it's impossible to avoid him forever.\n\nThis weekend, there's just a casual party and pretty much all of my closest friends will be there. It'll be such a fun night, but just the thought of seeing him and his new girlfriend makes me feel nauseous.\n\nI want to be the bigger person, show him that it's not bothering me and go and have fun with my friends, plus if I don't go it'll be very obvious and possibly a little awkward. However, I feel like I physically, mentally and emotionally just can't handle it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (r/askwomen told me to post this here instead)\n\nBasically, the guy I was exclusively dating for ~5 months dumped me for another girl. That doesn't sound so bad, but what makes it bad is that he lied to me about it. He used the 'ol \"I'm just not ready for another serious relationship just yet,\" and all too soon afterwards he turns up to a party with this girl and had given me no prior warning whatsoever. I felt very embarrassed, hurt, and disrespected.\n\nI'm the type of girl who, if someone actively does something to break my trust, I physically cannot be around them; it sends my anxiety straight through the roof and makes me feel sick.\n\nWe're in the same friend circle though, and it's impossible to avoid him forever.\n\nThis weekend, there's just a casual party and pretty much all of my closest friends will be there. It'll be such a fun night, but just the thought of seeing him and his new girlfriend makes me feel nauseous.\n\nI want to be the bigger person, show him that it's not bothering me and go and have fun with my friends, plus if I don't go it'll be very obvious and possibly a little awkward. However, I feel like I physically, mentally and emotionally just can't handle it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (r/askwomen told me to post this here instead)\n\nBasically, the guy I was exclusively dating for ~5 months dumped me for another girl. That doesn't sound so bad, but what makes it bad is that he lied to me about it. He used the 'ol \"I'm just not ready for another serious relationship just yet,\" and all too soon afterwards he turns up to a party with this girl and had given me no prior warning whatsoever. I felt very embarrassed, hurt, and disrespected.\n\nI'm the type of girl who, if someone actively does something to break my trust, I physically cannot be around them; it sends my anxiety straight through the roof and makes me feel sick.\n\nWe're in the same friend circle though, and it's impossible to avoid him forever.\n\nThis weekend, there's just a casual party and pretty much all of my closest friends will be there. It'll be such a fun night, but just the thought of seeing him and his new girlfriend makes me feel nauseous.\n\nI want to be the bigger person, show him that it's not bothering me and go and have fun with my friends, plus if I don't go it'll be very obvious and possibly a little awkward. However, I feel like I physically, mentally and emotionally just can't handle it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (r/askwomen told me to post this here instead)\n\nBasically, the guy I was exclusively dating for ~5 months dumped me for another girl. That doesn't sound so bad, but what makes it bad is that he lied to me about it. He used the 'ol \"I'm just not ready for another serious relationship just yet,\" and all too soon afterwards he turns up to a party with this girl and had given me no prior warning whatsoever. I felt very embarrassed, hurt, and disrespected.\n\nI'm the type of girl who, if someone actively does something to break my trust, I physically cannot be around them; it sends my anxiety straight through the roof and makes me feel sick.\n\nWe're in the same friend circle though, and it's impossible to avoid him forever.\n\nThis weekend, there's just a casual party and pretty much all of my closest friends will be there. It'll be such a fun night, but just the thought of seeing him and his new girlfriend makes me feel nauseous.\n\nI want to be the bigger person, show him that it's not bothering me and go and have fun with my friends, plus if I don't go it'll be very obvious and possibly a little awkward. However, I feel like I physically, mentally and emotionally just can't handle it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I broke up in January after about 3.5 years or so of dating (it was pretty serious). I've since moved across the country since I graduated in December, and he graduates in May. We haven't spoken in about 2 months, but when we did it was short and pleasant.\n\nI've been moving on pretty well-surprisingly well-and hadn't talked about him with anyone for a while. I told him when we broke up that I thought at least a year of no contact would be best, and then maybe we would try being friends (I've since wondered whether that's something I actually want, but that's another story).\n\nI woke up this morning to a text saying \"Are you kidding me? You're so shallow its embarassing.\" I responded \"What?\" and he replied \"You're unbelievable, I'm embarrassed for you.\" I called him twice and texted back that I had no idea what he was talking about and didn't understand why he was texting me when we hadn't been in contact for months.\n\nIt's been 5 hours now, and he hasn't responded or returned my calls. A mutual friend went to the gym with him and tried to get an answer but was shut down.\n\nI'm not sure how to handle this. I have no clue what I did (if anything), so I'd like to know what's going on. I don't want to be in contact, but I also don't want him thinking I'm a shitty person either. I think of him fondly, but as a memory and with a few bad associations (he tried to hook up with a close friend after we broke up, and I found 2 dating profiles he had used while we were still dating).\n\nStill, I want to clear this up. It's weighing on my mind. And I don't want him on my mind.\n\nAny advice is really appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I broke up in January after about 3.5 years or so of dating (it was pretty serious). I've since moved across the country since I graduated in December, and he graduates in May. We haven't spoken in about 2 months, but when we did it was short and pleasant.\n\nI've been moving on pretty well-surprisingly well-and hadn't talked about him with anyone for a while. I told him when we broke up that I thought at least a year of no contact would be best, and then maybe we would try being friends (I've since wondered whether that's something I actually want, but that's another story).\n\nI woke up this morning to a text saying \"Are you kidding me? You're so shallow its embarassing.\" I responded \"What?\" and he replied \"You're unbelievable, I'm embarrassed for you.\" I called him twice and texted back that I had no idea what he was talking about and didn't understand why he was texting me when we hadn't been in contact for months.\n\nIt's been 5 hours now, and he hasn't responded or returned my calls. A mutual friend went to the gym with him and tried to get an answer but was shut down.\n\nI'm not sure how to handle this. I have no clue what I did (if anything), so I'd like to know what's going on. I don't want to be in contact, but I also don't want him thinking I'm a shitty person either. I think of him fondly, but as a memory and with a few bad associations (he tried to hook up with a close friend after we broke up, and I found 2 dating profiles he had used while we were still dating).\n\nStill, I want to clear this up. It's weighing on my mind. And I don't want him on my mind.\n\nAny advice is really appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I broke up in January after about 3.5 years or so of dating (it was pretty serious). I've since moved across the country since I graduated in December, and he graduates in May. We haven't spoken in about 2 months, but when we did it was short and pleasant.\n\nI've been moving on pretty well-surprisingly well-and hadn't talked about him with anyone for a while. I told him when we broke up that I thought at least a year of no contact would be best, and then maybe we would try being friends (I've since wondered whether that's something I actually want, but that's another story).\n\nI woke up this morning to a text saying \"Are you kidding me? You're so shallow its embarassing.\" I responded \"What?\" and he replied \"You're unbelievable, I'm embarrassed for you.\" I called him twice and texted back that I had no idea what he was talking about and didn't understand why he was texting me when we hadn't been in contact for months.\n\nIt's been 5 hours now, and he hasn't responded or returned my calls. A mutual friend went to the gym with him and tried to get an answer but was shut down.\n\nI'm not sure how to handle this. I have no clue what I did (if anything), so I'd like to know what's going on. I don't want to be in contact, but I also don't want him thinking I'm a shitty person either. I think of him fondly, but as a memory and with a few bad associations (he tried to hook up with a close friend after we broke up, and I found 2 dating profiles he had used while we were still dating).\n\nStill, I want to clear this up. It's weighing on my mind. And I don't want him on my mind.\n\nAny advice is really appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I broke up in January after about 3.5 years or so of dating (it was pretty serious). I've since moved across the country since I graduated in December, and he graduates in May. We haven't spoken in about 2 months, but when we did it was short and pleasant.\n\nI've been moving on pretty well-surprisingly well-and hadn't talked about him with anyone for a while. I told him when we broke up that I thought at least a year of no contact would be best, and then maybe we would try being friends (I've since wondered whether that's something I actually want, but that's another story).\n\nI woke up this morning to a text saying \"Are you kidding me? You're so shallow its embarassing.\" I responded \"What?\" and he replied \"You're unbelievable, I'm embarrassed for you.\" I called him twice and texted back that I had no idea what he was talking about and didn't understand why he was texting me when we hadn't been in contact for months.\n\nIt's been 5 hours now, and he hasn't responded or returned my calls. A mutual friend went to the gym with him and tried to get an answer but was shut down.\n\nI'm not sure how to handle this. I have no clue what I did (if anything), so I'd like to know what's going on. I don't want to be in contact, but I also don't want him thinking I'm a shitty person either. I think of him fondly, but as a memory and with a few bad associations (he tried to hook up with a close friend after we broke up, and I found 2 dating profiles he had used while we were still dating).\n\nStill, I want to clear this up. It's weighing on my mind. And I don't want him on my mind.\n\nAny advice is really appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I broke up in January after about 3.5 years or so of dating (it was pretty serious). I've since moved across the country since I graduated in December, and he graduates in May. We haven't spoken in about 2 months, but when we did it was short and pleasant.\n\nI've been moving on pretty well-surprisingly well-and hadn't talked about him with anyone for a while. I told him when we broke up that I thought at least a year of no contact would be best, and then maybe we would try being friends (I've since wondered whether that's something I actually want, but that's another story).\n\nI woke up this morning to a text saying \"Are you kidding me? You're so shallow its embarassing.\" I responded \"What?\" and he replied \"You're unbelievable, I'm embarrassed for you.\" I called him twice and texted back that I had no idea what he was talking about and didn't understand why he was texting me when we hadn't been in contact for months.\n\nIt's been 5 hours now, and he hasn't responded or returned my calls. A mutual friend went to the gym with him and tried to get an answer but was shut down.\n\nI'm not sure how to handle this. I have no clue what I did (if anything), so I'd like to know what's going on. I don't want to be in contact, but I also don't want him thinking I'm a shitty person either. I think of him fondly, but as a memory and with a few bad associations (he tried to hook up with a close friend after we broke up, and I found 2 dating profiles he had used while we were still dating).\n\nStill, I want to clear this up. It's weighing on my mind. And I don't want him on my mind.\n\nAny advice is really appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex and I broke up in January after about 3.5 years or so of dating (it was pretty serious). I've since moved across the country since I graduated in December, and he graduates in May. We haven't spoken in about 2 months, but when we did it was short and pleasant.\n\nI've been moving on pretty well-surprisingly well-and hadn't talked about him with anyone for a while. I told him when we broke up that I thought at least a year of no contact would be best, and then maybe we would try being friends (I've since wondered whether that's something I actually want, but that's another story).\n\nI woke up this morning to a text saying \"Are you kidding me? You're so shallow its embarassing.\" I responded \"What?\" and he replied \"You're unbelievable, I'm embarrassed for you.\" I called him twice and texted back that I had no idea what he was talking about and didn't understand why he was texting me when we hadn't been in contact for months.\n\nIt's been 5 hours now, and he hasn't responded or returned my calls. A mutual friend went to the gym with him and tried to get an answer but was shut down.\n\nI'm not sure how to handle this. I have no clue what I did (if anything), so I'd like to know what's going on. I don't want to be in contact, but I also don't want him thinking I'm a shitty person either. I think of him fondly, but as a memory and with a few bad associations (he tried to hook up with a close friend after we broke up, and I found 2 dating profiles he had used while we were still dating).\n\nStill, I want to clear this up. It's weighing on my mind. And I don't want him on my mind.\n\nAny advice is really appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved about 2 hours away to the city where he lives half because of him (lets call him Tim), half because of an amazing job/schooling opportunity. I am not going to say things were great. When I moved there I was on my own, got a cat, and was totally ignored due to a video game addiction on Tim's part.\n\nI had a brief but serious encounter of psychosis due to extremely high stress which led to my diagnosis. I entered an intensive outpatient therapy program in my original city to develop coping skills and such so things like that don't happen again. 3 days in Tim decided it would be a good time to decide he had enough.\n\nI started dating again about a month after the program ended and I felt I could handle it dated a guy for a month(whole other post, dude was crazy) and Tim found out about it, he did NOT like it at all. Well I found out dude was crazy and ended that and started talking to Tim again after I realized that I still had serious feelings for him and serious feelings for me.\n\nWe are not back together but I suppose I wanted some advice to see if I should cut my loses after I moved near him and he abandoned me and again abandoned me when I was in therapy or give it another shot and see what comes of it.\n\nHe speaks to me about how much he fucked up and how his video game addiction has approved tremendously (his mother confirmed this to me). He even talks about the future, which we never spoke of when we were together. I am now still in therapy, medicated, and doing much better but I don't feel like I am entirely ready to jump back in the relationship.\n\nWhat do I do reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved about 2 hours away to the city where he lives half because of him (lets call him Tim), half because of an amazing job/schooling opportunity. I am not going to say things were great. When I moved there I was on my own, got a cat, and was totally ignored due to a video game addiction on Tim's part.\n\nI had a brief but serious encounter of psychosis due to extremely high stress which led to my diagnosis. I entered an intensive outpatient therapy program in my original city to develop coping skills and such so things like that don't happen again. 3 days in Tim decided it would be a good time to decide he had enough.\n\nI started dating again about a month after the program ended and I felt I could handle it dated a guy for a month(whole other post, dude was crazy) and Tim found out about it, he did NOT like it at all. Well I found out dude was crazy and ended that and started talking to Tim again after I realized that I still had serious feelings for him and serious feelings for me.\n\nWe are not back together but I suppose I wanted some advice to see if I should cut my loses after I moved near him and he abandoned me and again abandoned me when I was in therapy or give it another shot and see what comes of it.\n\nHe speaks to me about how much he fucked up and how his video game addiction has approved tremendously (his mother confirmed this to me). He even talks about the future, which we never spoke of when we were together. I am now still in therapy, medicated, and doing much better but I don't feel like I am entirely ready to jump back in the relationship.\n\nWhat do I do reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved about 2 hours away to the city where he lives half because of him (lets call him Tim), half because of an amazing job/schooling opportunity. I am not going to say things were great. When I moved there I was on my own, got a cat, and was totally ignored due to a video game addiction on Tim's part.\n\nI had a brief but serious encounter of psychosis due to extremely high stress which led to my diagnosis. I entered an intensive outpatient therapy program in my original city to develop coping skills and such so things like that don't happen again. 3 days in Tim decided it would be a good time to decide he had enough.\n\nI started dating again about a month after the program ended and I felt I could handle it dated a guy for a month(whole other post, dude was crazy) and Tim found out about it, he did NOT like it at all. Well I found out dude was crazy and ended that and started talking to Tim again after I realized that I still had serious feelings for him and serious feelings for me.\n\nWe are not back together but I suppose I wanted some advice to see if I should cut my loses after I moved near him and he abandoned me and again abandoned me when I was in therapy or give it another shot and see what comes of it.\n\nHe speaks to me about how much he fucked up and how his video game addiction has approved tremendously (his mother confirmed this to me). He even talks about the future, which we never spoke of when we were together. I am now still in therapy, medicated, and doing much better but I don't feel like I am entirely ready to jump back in the relationship.\n\nWhat do I do reddit?"
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