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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved about 2 hours away to the city where he lives half because of him (lets call him Tim), half because of an amazing job/schooling opportunity. I am not going to say things were great. When I moved there I was on my own, got a cat, and was totally ignored due to a video game addiction on Tim's part.\n\nI had a brief but serious encounter of psychosis due to extremely high stress which led to my diagnosis. I entered an intensive outpatient therapy program in my original city to develop coping skills and such so things like that don't happen again. 3 days in Tim decided it would be a good time to decide he had enough.\n\nI started dating again about a month after the program ended and I felt I could handle it dated a guy for a month(whole other post, dude was crazy) and Tim found out about it, he did NOT like it at all. Well I found out dude was crazy and ended that and started talking to Tim again after I realized that I still had serious feelings for him and serious feelings for me.\n\nWe are not back together but I suppose I wanted some advice to see if I should cut my loses after I moved near him and he abandoned me and again abandoned me when I was in therapy or give it another shot and see what comes of it.\n\nHe speaks to me about how much he fucked up and how his video game addiction has approved tremendously (his mother confirmed this to me). He even talks about the future, which we never spoke of when we were together. I am now still in therapy, medicated, and doing much better but I don't feel like I am entirely ready to jump back in the relationship.\n\nWhat do I do reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved about 2 hours away to the city where he lives half because of him (lets call him Tim), half because of an amazing job/schooling opportunity. I am not going to say things were great. When I moved there I was on my own, got a cat, and was totally ignored due to a video game addiction on Tim's part.\n\nI had a brief but serious encounter of psychosis due to extremely high stress which led to my diagnosis. I entered an intensive outpatient therapy program in my original city to develop coping skills and such so things like that don't happen again. 3 days in Tim decided it would be a good time to decide he had enough.\n\nI started dating again about a month after the program ended and I felt I could handle it dated a guy for a month(whole other post, dude was crazy) and Tim found out about it, he did NOT like it at all. Well I found out dude was crazy and ended that and started talking to Tim again after I realized that I still had serious feelings for him and serious feelings for me.\n\nWe are not back together but I suppose I wanted some advice to see if I should cut my loses after I moved near him and he abandoned me and again abandoned me when I was in therapy or give it another shot and see what comes of it.\n\nHe speaks to me about how much he fucked up and how his video game addiction has approved tremendously (his mother confirmed this to me). He even talks about the future, which we never spoke of when we were together. I am now still in therapy, medicated, and doing much better but I don't feel like I am entirely ready to jump back in the relationship.\n\nWhat do I do reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I moved about 2 hours away to the city where he lives half because of him (lets call him Tim), half because of an amazing job/schooling opportunity. I am not going to say things were great. When I moved there I was on my own, got a cat, and was totally ignored due to a video game addiction on Tim's part.\n\nI had a brief but serious encounter of psychosis due to extremely high stress which led to my diagnosis. I entered an intensive outpatient therapy program in my original city to develop coping skills and such so things like that don't happen again. 3 days in Tim decided it would be a good time to decide he had enough.\n\nI started dating again about a month after the program ended and I felt I could handle it dated a guy for a month(whole other post, dude was crazy) and Tim found out about it, he did NOT like it at all. Well I found out dude was crazy and ended that and started talking to Tim again after I realized that I still had serious feelings for him and serious feelings for me.\n\nWe are not back together but I suppose I wanted some advice to see if I should cut my loses after I moved near him and he abandoned me and again abandoned me when I was in therapy or give it another shot and see what comes of it.\n\nHe speaks to me about how much he fucked up and how his video game addiction has approved tremendously (his mother confirmed this to me). He even talks about the future, which we never spoke of when we were together. I am now still in therapy, medicated, and doing much better but I don't feel like I am entirely ready to jump back in the relationship.\n\nWhat do I do reddit?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello personal finance! I'll try to make this short as possible.\n\nI'm 24 and have a job which gives me around $70k/year with very good 6 month raises factored in my contract. I am very happy and plan on staying here for a long time (as long as they have me!). I have one car loan which I'm slowly paying off ($10k left @ ~2.4% APR), but that's the only debt I have. Here's what I'm doing with my money:\n\n- Vanguard 401K - my company doesn't match :(. I'm currently contributing 6% of my income (3% pre-tax, 3% roth). \n\n- I have about 6 months of expenses saved into my savings account for emergencies.\n\n- I have a brokerage account (mostly invested in mutual funds) that I haven't done much with.\n\nI'm starting to accumulate more excessive money in my savings account (more than the 6 month emergency fund). My original plan was to put any excess money into my brokerage account, but after reading this WIKI I was thinking about maybe opening up a ROTH IRA and maxing it out for the year, and THEN putting the rest into my brokerage account? \n\nThis seems like a lot of accounts to have (401K, Roth IRA, AND brokerage account), but I wanted to double-check that this is a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello personal finance! I'll try to make this short as possible.\n\nI'm 24 and have a job which gives me around $70k/year with very good 6 month raises factored in my contract. I am very happy and plan on staying here for a long time (as long as they have me!). I have one car loan which I'm slowly paying off ($10k left @ ~2.4% APR), but that's the only debt I have. Here's what I'm doing with my money:\n\n- Vanguard 401K - my company doesn't match :(. I'm currently contributing 6% of my income (3% pre-tax, 3% roth). \n\n- I have about 6 months of expenses saved into my savings account for emergencies.\n\n- I have a brokerage account (mostly invested in mutual funds) that I haven't done much with.\n\nI'm starting to accumulate more excessive money in my savings account (more than the 6 month emergency fund). My original plan was to put any excess money into my brokerage account, but after reading this WIKI I was thinking about maybe opening up a ROTH IRA and maxing it out for the year, and THEN putting the rest into my brokerage account? \n\nThis seems like a lot of accounts to have (401K, Roth IRA, AND brokerage account), but I wanted to double-check that this is a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello personal finance! I'll try to make this short as possible.\n\nI'm 24 and have a job which gives me around $70k/year with very good 6 month raises factored in my contract. I am very happy and plan on staying here for a long time (as long as they have me!). I have one car loan which I'm slowly paying off ($10k left @ ~2.4% APR), but that's the only debt I have. Here's what I'm doing with my money:\n\n- Vanguard 401K - my company doesn't match :(. I'm currently contributing 6% of my income (3% pre-tax, 3% roth). \n\n- I have about 6 months of expenses saved into my savings account for emergencies.\n\n- I have a brokerage account (mostly invested in mutual funds) that I haven't done much with.\n\nI'm starting to accumulate more excessive money in my savings account (more than the 6 month emergency fund). My original plan was to put any excess money into my brokerage account, but after reading this WIKI I was thinking about maybe opening up a ROTH IRA and maxing it out for the year, and THEN putting the rest into my brokerage account? \n\nThis seems like a lot of accounts to have (401K, Roth IRA, AND brokerage account), but I wanted to double-check that this is a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello personal finance! I'll try to make this short as possible.\n\nI'm 24 and have a job which gives me around $70k/year with very good 6 month raises factored in my contract. I am very happy and plan on staying here for a long time (as long as they have me!). I have one car loan which I'm slowly paying off ($10k left @ ~2.4% APR), but that's the only debt I have. Here's what I'm doing with my money:\n\n- Vanguard 401K - my company doesn't match :(. I'm currently contributing 6% of my income (3% pre-tax, 3% roth). \n\n- I have about 6 months of expenses saved into my savings account for emergencies.\n\n- I have a brokerage account (mostly invested in mutual funds) that I haven't done much with.\n\nI'm starting to accumulate more excessive money in my savings account (more than the 6 month emergency fund). My original plan was to put any excess money into my brokerage account, but after reading this WIKI I was thinking about maybe opening up a ROTH IRA and maxing it out for the year, and THEN putting the rest into my brokerage account? \n\nThis seems like a lot of accounts to have (401K, Roth IRA, AND brokerage account), but I wanted to double-check that this is a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello personal finance! I'll try to make this short as possible.\n\nI'm 24 and have a job which gives me around $70k/year with very good 6 month raises factored in my contract. I am very happy and plan on staying here for a long time (as long as they have me!). I have one car loan which I'm slowly paying off ($10k left @ ~2.4% APR), but that's the only debt I have. Here's what I'm doing with my money:\n\n- Vanguard 401K - my company doesn't match :(. I'm currently contributing 6% of my income (3% pre-tax, 3% roth). \n\n- I have about 6 months of expenses saved into my savings account for emergencies.\n\n- I have a brokerage account (mostly invested in mutual funds) that I haven't done much with.\n\nI'm starting to accumulate more excessive money in my savings account (more than the 6 month emergency fund). My original plan was to put any excess money into my brokerage account, but after reading this WIKI I was thinking about maybe opening up a ROTH IRA and maxing it out for the year, and THEN putting the rest into my brokerage account? \n\nThis seems like a lot of accounts to have (401K, Roth IRA, AND brokerage account), but I wanted to double-check that this is a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello personal finance! I'll try to make this short as possible.\n\nI'm 24 and have a job which gives me around $70k/year with very good 6 month raises factored in my contract. I am very happy and plan on staying here for a long time (as long as they have me!). I have one car loan which I'm slowly paying off ($10k left @ ~2.4% APR), but that's the only debt I have. Here's what I'm doing with my money:\n\n- Vanguard 401K - my company doesn't match :(. I'm currently contributing 6% of my income (3% pre-tax, 3% roth). \n\n- I have about 6 months of expenses saved into my savings account for emergencies.\n\n- I have a brokerage account (mostly invested in mutual funds) that I haven't done much with.\n\nI'm starting to accumulate more excessive money in my savings account (more than the 6 month emergency fund). My original plan was to put any excess money into my brokerage account, but after reading this WIKI I was thinking about maybe opening up a ROTH IRA and maxing it out for the year, and THEN putting the rest into my brokerage account? \n\nThis seems like a lot of accounts to have (401K, Roth IRA, AND brokerage account), but I wanted to double-check that this is a good idea?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The 21st January 2015 was birthday. I went out that night and met some of my close friends. We did nothing special since it was in the middle of the week, so not a good day to party. I decided to arrange something for the 23th, so i bought a bunch of booze and went out with friends to get insanely drunk. The plan worked perfectly: by 1 o' clock i was so drunk i could barely stand. When we called the night a friend of mine gently walked me to my place, despite being pretty drunk himself. As soon as i got out of the elevator i puked my soul on the stairs. Once i got home, my friend left me and i went to the bathroom, so that i wouldn't damage the wood pavements we have in the rest of the house. I woke up god only knows when having suddenly blacked out: i didn't know where i was or how the fuck i got there, and the complete darkness of the bathroom did not help; so i panicked and puked more. When i got a hold of myself again i washed my mouth and went to bed.\nThe morning after a raging hangover welcomes me and i find out that i managed to puke on the carpet outside the shower, pretty much the only thing hard to clean in the whole bathroom.\nSo i had to clean the stairwell without even being able to drink a glass of water because whatever i put in my stomach was violently expelled minutes after.\nBut it ain't over: when the civil war between my bowels ended, i found out that my mom washed my jacket. with the weed i had in a pocket"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The 21st January 2015 was birthday. I went out that night and met some of my close friends. We did nothing special since it was in the middle of the week, so not a good day to party. I decided to arrange something for the 23th, so i bought a bunch of booze and went out with friends to get insanely drunk. The plan worked perfectly: by 1 o' clock i was so drunk i could barely stand. When we called the night a friend of mine gently walked me to my place, despite being pretty drunk himself. As soon as i got out of the elevator i puked my soul on the stairs. Once i got home, my friend left me and i went to the bathroom, so that i wouldn't damage the wood pavements we have in the rest of the house. I woke up god only knows when having suddenly blacked out: i didn't know where i was or how the fuck i got there, and the complete darkness of the bathroom did not help; so i panicked and puked more. When i got a hold of myself again i washed my mouth and went to bed.\nThe morning after a raging hangover welcomes me and i find out that i managed to puke on the carpet outside the shower, pretty much the only thing hard to clean in the whole bathroom.\nSo i had to clean the stairwell without even being able to drink a glass of water because whatever i put in my stomach was violently expelled minutes after.\nBut it ain't over: when the civil war between my bowels ended, i found out that my mom washed my jacket. with the weed i had in a pocket"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The 21st January 2015 was birthday. I went out that night and met some of my close friends. We did nothing special since it was in the middle of the week, so not a good day to party. I decided to arrange something for the 23th, so i bought a bunch of booze and went out with friends to get insanely drunk. The plan worked perfectly: by 1 o' clock i was so drunk i could barely stand. When we called the night a friend of mine gently walked me to my place, despite being pretty drunk himself. As soon as i got out of the elevator i puked my soul on the stairs. Once i got home, my friend left me and i went to the bathroom, so that i wouldn't damage the wood pavements we have in the rest of the house. I woke up god only knows when having suddenly blacked out: i didn't know where i was or how the fuck i got there, and the complete darkness of the bathroom did not help; so i panicked and puked more. When i got a hold of myself again i washed my mouth and went to bed.\nThe morning after a raging hangover welcomes me and i find out that i managed to puke on the carpet outside the shower, pretty much the only thing hard to clean in the whole bathroom.\nSo i had to clean the stairwell without even being able to drink a glass of water because whatever i put in my stomach was violently expelled minutes after.\nBut it ain't over: when the civil war between my bowels ended, i found out that my mom washed my jacket. with the weed i had in a pocket"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The 21st January 2015 was birthday. I went out that night and met some of my close friends. We did nothing special since it was in the middle of the week, so not a good day to party. I decided to arrange something for the 23th, so i bought a bunch of booze and went out with friends to get insanely drunk. The plan worked perfectly: by 1 o' clock i was so drunk i could barely stand. When we called the night a friend of mine gently walked me to my place, despite being pretty drunk himself. As soon as i got out of the elevator i puked my soul on the stairs. Once i got home, my friend left me and i went to the bathroom, so that i wouldn't damage the wood pavements we have in the rest of the house. I woke up god only knows when having suddenly blacked out: i didn't know where i was or how the fuck i got there, and the complete darkness of the bathroom did not help; so i panicked and puked more. When i got a hold of myself again i washed my mouth and went to bed.\nThe morning after a raging hangover welcomes me and i find out that i managed to puke on the carpet outside the shower, pretty much the only thing hard to clean in the whole bathroom.\nSo i had to clean the stairwell without even being able to drink a glass of water because whatever i put in my stomach was violently expelled minutes after.\nBut it ain't over: when the civil war between my bowels ended, i found out that my mom washed my jacket. with the weed i had in a pocket"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The 21st January 2015 was birthday. I went out that night and met some of my close friends. We did nothing special since it was in the middle of the week, so not a good day to party. I decided to arrange something for the 23th, so i bought a bunch of booze and went out with friends to get insanely drunk. The plan worked perfectly: by 1 o' clock i was so drunk i could barely stand. When we called the night a friend of mine gently walked me to my place, despite being pretty drunk himself. As soon as i got out of the elevator i puked my soul on the stairs. Once i got home, my friend left me and i went to the bathroom, so that i wouldn't damage the wood pavements we have in the rest of the house. I woke up god only knows when having suddenly blacked out: i didn't know where i was or how the fuck i got there, and the complete darkness of the bathroom did not help; so i panicked and puked more. When i got a hold of myself again i washed my mouth and went to bed.\nThe morning after a raging hangover welcomes me and i find out that i managed to puke on the carpet outside the shower, pretty much the only thing hard to clean in the whole bathroom.\nSo i had to clean the stairwell without even being able to drink a glass of water because whatever i put in my stomach was violently expelled minutes after.\nBut it ain't over: when the civil war between my bowels ended, i found out that my mom washed my jacket. with the weed i had in a pocket"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The 21st January 2015 was birthday. I went out that night and met some of my close friends. We did nothing special since it was in the middle of the week, so not a good day to party. I decided to arrange something for the 23th, so i bought a bunch of booze and went out with friends to get insanely drunk. The plan worked perfectly: by 1 o' clock i was so drunk i could barely stand. When we called the night a friend of mine gently walked me to my place, despite being pretty drunk himself. As soon as i got out of the elevator i puked my soul on the stairs. Once i got home, my friend left me and i went to the bathroom, so that i wouldn't damage the wood pavements we have in the rest of the house. I woke up god only knows when having suddenly blacked out: i didn't know where i was or how the fuck i got there, and the complete darkness of the bathroom did not help; so i panicked and puked more. When i got a hold of myself again i washed my mouth and went to bed.\nThe morning after a raging hangover welcomes me and i find out that i managed to puke on the carpet outside the shower, pretty much the only thing hard to clean in the whole bathroom.\nSo i had to clean the stairwell without even being able to drink a glass of water because whatever i put in my stomach was violently expelled minutes after.\nBut it ain't over: when the civil war between my bowels ended, i found out that my mom washed my jacket. with the weed i had in a pocket"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I broke up with my ex last summer and soon after befriended a senior girl at my university. We ve spent countless hours at the library together, including many all nighters.\n\nLately our hangouts have become more touchy and flirty. Being around her makes me so happy and I feel at ease with her. Im so scared of breaking the friendship I have that I find myself doubting the \"feelings\" I have for her.\n\nI have creeping doubts that its my loneliness thats making me like her. Since I I recently broke up with my ex. It is making me hesitate in confessing my feelings for her. Now I feel like we re in an awkward state where shes waiting for me to make a move."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I broke up with my ex last summer and soon after befriended a senior girl at my university. We ve spent countless hours at the library together, including many all nighters.\n\nLately our hangouts have become more touchy and flirty. Being around her makes me so happy and I feel at ease with her. Im so scared of breaking the friendship I have that I find myself doubting the \"feelings\" I have for her.\n\nI have creeping doubts that its my loneliness thats making me like her. Since I I recently broke up with my ex. It is making me hesitate in confessing my feelings for her. Now I feel like we re in an awkward state where shes waiting for me to make a move."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I broke up with my ex last summer and soon after befriended a senior girl at my university. We ve spent countless hours at the library together, including many all nighters.\n\nLately our hangouts have become more touchy and flirty. Being around her makes me so happy and I feel at ease with her. Im so scared of breaking the friendship I have that I find myself doubting the \"feelings\" I have for her.\n\nI have creeping doubts that its my loneliness thats making me like her. Since I I recently broke up with my ex. It is making me hesitate in confessing my feelings for her. Now I feel like we re in an awkward state where shes waiting for me to make a move."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I broke up with my ex last summer and soon after befriended a senior girl at my university. We ve spent countless hours at the library together, including many all nighters.\n\nLately our hangouts have become more touchy and flirty. Being around her makes me so happy and I feel at ease with her. Im so scared of breaking the friendship I have that I find myself doubting the \"feelings\" I have for her.\n\nI have creeping doubts that its my loneliness thats making me like her. Since I I recently broke up with my ex. It is making me hesitate in confessing my feelings for her. Now I feel like we re in an awkward state where shes waiting for me to make a move."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I broke up with my ex last summer and soon after befriended a senior girl at my university. We ve spent countless hours at the library together, including many all nighters.\n\nLately our hangouts have become more touchy and flirty. Being around her makes me so happy and I feel at ease with her. Im so scared of breaking the friendship I have that I find myself doubting the \"feelings\" I have for her.\n\nI have creeping doubts that its my loneliness thats making me like her. Since I I recently broke up with my ex. It is making me hesitate in confessing my feelings for her. Now I feel like we re in an awkward state where shes waiting for me to make a move."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I broke up with my ex last summer and soon after befriended a senior girl at my university. We ve spent countless hours at the library together, including many all nighters.\n\nLately our hangouts have become more touchy and flirty. Being around her makes me so happy and I feel at ease with her. Im so scared of breaking the friendship I have that I find myself doubting the \"feelings\" I have for her.\n\nI have creeping doubts that its my loneliness thats making me like her. Since I I recently broke up with my ex. It is making me hesitate in confessing my feelings for her. Now I feel like we re in an awkward state where shes waiting for me to make a move."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: -Dopamine -Grey Quote -On the edge\n\nThe story behind this is that in the early hours of this morning I woke up from an amazing dream with a brilliant plot that I, at the time, felt could be made into a story or possibly a film (I'm a budding writer in the process of drafting out a script). I remember the great feeling of waking up with this amazing plot so I, in my tired state, grabbed a piece of paper and wrote something down and circled it (of course to emphasize the grandness of the dream to future me). I almost immediately fell back to sleep. This morning I woke up and remembered having this incredible dream but couldn't remember it. But ahaa! I wrote it down didn't I? I am so clever. Well, to my delight, I found I had only written down these three things ('Dopamine', 'Grey Quote' and 'On the edge'). I can't for the life of me remember what the dream was and only have these three statements left of it. What stories or ideas can you think of based off these? Do they relate at all?\n\nThe piece of paper in question ->"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: -Dopamine -Grey Quote -On the edge\n\nThe story behind this is that in the early hours of this morning I woke up from an amazing dream with a brilliant plot that I, at the time, felt could be made into a story or possibly a film (I'm a budding writer in the process of drafting out a script). I remember the great feeling of waking up with this amazing plot so I, in my tired state, grabbed a piece of paper and wrote something down and circled it (of course to emphasize the grandness of the dream to future me). I almost immediately fell back to sleep. This morning I woke up and remembered having this incredible dream but couldn't remember it. But ahaa! I wrote it down didn't I? I am so clever. Well, to my delight, I found I had only written down these three things ('Dopamine', 'Grey Quote' and 'On the edge'). I can't for the life of me remember what the dream was and only have these three statements left of it. What stories or ideas can you think of based off these? Do they relate at all?\n\nThe piece of paper in question ->"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: -Dopamine -Grey Quote -On the edge\n\nThe story behind this is that in the early hours of this morning I woke up from an amazing dream with a brilliant plot that I, at the time, felt could be made into a story or possibly a film (I'm a budding writer in the process of drafting out a script). I remember the great feeling of waking up with this amazing plot so I, in my tired state, grabbed a piece of paper and wrote something down and circled it (of course to emphasize the grandness of the dream to future me). I almost immediately fell back to sleep. This morning I woke up and remembered having this incredible dream but couldn't remember it. But ahaa! I wrote it down didn't I? I am so clever. Well, to my delight, I found I had only written down these three things ('Dopamine', 'Grey Quote' and 'On the edge'). I can't for the life of me remember what the dream was and only have these three statements left of it. What stories or ideas can you think of based off these? Do they relate at all?\n\nThe piece of paper in question ->"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: -Dopamine -Grey Quote -On the edge\n\nThe story behind this is that in the early hours of this morning I woke up from an amazing dream with a brilliant plot that I, at the time, felt could be made into a story or possibly a film (I'm a budding writer in the process of drafting out a script). I remember the great feeling of waking up with this amazing plot so I, in my tired state, grabbed a piece of paper and wrote something down and circled it (of course to emphasize the grandness of the dream to future me). I almost immediately fell back to sleep. This morning I woke up and remembered having this incredible dream but couldn't remember it. But ahaa! I wrote it down didn't I? I am so clever. Well, to my delight, I found I had only written down these three things ('Dopamine', 'Grey Quote' and 'On the edge'). I can't for the life of me remember what the dream was and only have these three statements left of it. What stories or ideas can you think of based off these? Do they relate at all?\n\nThe piece of paper in question ->"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: -Dopamine -Grey Quote -On the edge\n\nThe story behind this is that in the early hours of this morning I woke up from an amazing dream with a brilliant plot that I, at the time, felt could be made into a story or possibly a film (I'm a budding writer in the process of drafting out a script). I remember the great feeling of waking up with this amazing plot so I, in my tired state, grabbed a piece of paper and wrote something down and circled it (of course to emphasize the grandness of the dream to future me). I almost immediately fell back to sleep. This morning I woke up and remembered having this incredible dream but couldn't remember it. But ahaa! I wrote it down didn't I? I am so clever. Well, to my delight, I found I had only written down these three things ('Dopamine', 'Grey Quote' and 'On the edge'). I can't for the life of me remember what the dream was and only have these three statements left of it. What stories or ideas can you think of based off these? Do they relate at all?\n\nThe piece of paper in question ->"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: -Dopamine -Grey Quote -On the edge\n\nThe story behind this is that in the early hours of this morning I woke up from an amazing dream with a brilliant plot that I, at the time, felt could be made into a story or possibly a film (I'm a budding writer in the process of drafting out a script). I remember the great feeling of waking up with this amazing plot so I, in my tired state, grabbed a piece of paper and wrote something down and circled it (of course to emphasize the grandness of the dream to future me). I almost immediately fell back to sleep. This morning I woke up and remembered having this incredible dream but couldn't remember it. But ahaa! I wrote it down didn't I? I am so clever. Well, to my delight, I found I had only written down these three things ('Dopamine', 'Grey Quote' and 'On the edge'). I can't for the life of me remember what the dream was and only have these three statements left of it. What stories or ideas can you think of based off these? Do they relate at all?\n\nThe piece of paper in question ->"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 23 year old male that had to go into a work-mandated physical & drug test today. during the physical, a doctor who I've never seen before in a place I've never been in before, did the grabbing the nuts and cough thing, but afterwards, without asking or anything he pulled my foreskin back. i didnt say anything at the time because it'd been a long time since I'd last had a physical and didn't know it wasn't right. When I got home I looked it up and according ot the internet there's no reason for a doctor to do that without asking me first to do it myself. I'm perfectly healthy, nothing at all that he would have needed to do it. Now what? is this a big deal? do i shrug it off? if i want to report something like this who would i go to first? am i overreacting?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 23 year old male that had to go into a work-mandated physical & drug test today. during the physical, a doctor who I've never seen before in a place I've never been in before, did the grabbing the nuts and cough thing, but afterwards, without asking or anything he pulled my foreskin back. i didnt say anything at the time because it'd been a long time since I'd last had a physical and didn't know it wasn't right. When I got home I looked it up and according ot the internet there's no reason for a doctor to do that without asking me first to do it myself. I'm perfectly healthy, nothing at all that he would have needed to do it. Now what? is this a big deal? do i shrug it off? if i want to report something like this who would i go to first? am i overreacting?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 23 year old male that had to go into a work-mandated physical & drug test today. during the physical, a doctor who I've never seen before in a place I've never been in before, did the grabbing the nuts and cough thing, but afterwards, without asking or anything he pulled my foreskin back. i didnt say anything at the time because it'd been a long time since I'd last had a physical and didn't know it wasn't right. When I got home I looked it up and according ot the internet there's no reason for a doctor to do that without asking me first to do it myself. I'm perfectly healthy, nothing at all that he would have needed to do it. Now what? is this a big deal? do i shrug it off? if i want to report something like this who would i go to first? am i overreacting?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 23 year old male that had to go into a work-mandated physical & drug test today. during the physical, a doctor who I've never seen before in a place I've never been in before, did the grabbing the nuts and cough thing, but afterwards, without asking or anything he pulled my foreskin back. i didnt say anything at the time because it'd been a long time since I'd last had a physical and didn't know it wasn't right. When I got home I looked it up and according ot the internet there's no reason for a doctor to do that without asking me first to do it myself. I'm perfectly healthy, nothing at all that he would have needed to do it. Now what? is this a big deal? do i shrug it off? if i want to report something like this who would i go to first? am i overreacting?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 23 year old male that had to go into a work-mandated physical & drug test today. during the physical, a doctor who I've never seen before in a place I've never been in before, did the grabbing the nuts and cough thing, but afterwards, without asking or anything he pulled my foreskin back. i didnt say anything at the time because it'd been a long time since I'd last had a physical and didn't know it wasn't right. When I got home I looked it up and according ot the internet there's no reason for a doctor to do that without asking me first to do it myself. I'm perfectly healthy, nothing at all that he would have needed to do it. Now what? is this a big deal? do i shrug it off? if i want to report something like this who would i go to first? am i overreacting?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm a 23 year old male that had to go into a work-mandated physical & drug test today. during the physical, a doctor who I've never seen before in a place I've never been in before, did the grabbing the nuts and cough thing, but afterwards, without asking or anything he pulled my foreskin back. i didnt say anything at the time because it'd been a long time since I'd last had a physical and didn't know it wasn't right. When I got home I looked it up and according ot the internet there's no reason for a doctor to do that without asking me first to do it myself. I'm perfectly healthy, nothing at all that he would have needed to do it. Now what? is this a big deal? do i shrug it off? if i want to report something like this who would i go to first? am i overreacting?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In all the time I've known him he has always told me that he has only ever had 2 girlfriends that lasted anytime at all. One was in college and one was right after college and he ended it both times.\n\nHe is a very career driven guy, has advanced very far in his field and in fact is already an executive VP. \n\nBasically I just came out and asked him what he has done for intimacy or even basic human contact for the 8 years that he was not seeing anyone. He admitted to his share of one night stands but stated that ultimately he got tired of trying to spend time doing that so for about 7 years he had a standing account with 3 different escort company's in the 3 city's he works in and would generally have 2-4 \"dates\" a month with an escort. By date I mean they went to his room and fucked.\n\nHe said this so matter of fact like that I thought he was giving me a stock report.\n\nNow by no means am I a prude but I'm not going to lie my stomach turned when I found this out. He has been banging prostitutes for almost 7 years.\n\nI don't know why but this bothers me more than I can say. He claims that once he and I started dating that he dropped all of his accounts and has not visited any since we have been together. I want to believe him but it would be so easy for him to do this and I would never know.\n\nWhat's making my skin crawl is that we have both tested and been found clean so we are just using birth control. I know they are safe by profession but still.I just have the heebie-jeebies thinking about it.\n\nWhy is this bothering me? I'm mature, I'm even sex positive and somewhat of a feminist (I still like to have the door held open for me though, so sue me) but for some reason this is making me doubt everything.\n\nHe said that initially he would visit different girls but ultimately said he started just having 4 girls he would see regularly.\n\nTell me I'm being bat shit crazy and that there is nothing wrong with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In all the time I've known him he has always told me that he has only ever had 2 girlfriends that lasted anytime at all. One was in college and one was right after college and he ended it both times.\n\nHe is a very career driven guy, has advanced very far in his field and in fact is already an executive VP. \n\nBasically I just came out and asked him what he has done for intimacy or even basic human contact for the 8 years that he was not seeing anyone. He admitted to his share of one night stands but stated that ultimately he got tired of trying to spend time doing that so for about 7 years he had a standing account with 3 different escort company's in the 3 city's he works in and would generally have 2-4 \"dates\" a month with an escort. By date I mean they went to his room and fucked.\n\nHe said this so matter of fact like that I thought he was giving me a stock report.\n\nNow by no means am I a prude but I'm not going to lie my stomach turned when I found this out. He has been banging prostitutes for almost 7 years.\n\nI don't know why but this bothers me more than I can say. He claims that once he and I started dating that he dropped all of his accounts and has not visited any since we have been together. I want to believe him but it would be so easy for him to do this and I would never know.\n\nWhat's making my skin crawl is that we have both tested and been found clean so we are just using birth control. I know they are safe by profession but still.I just have the heebie-jeebies thinking about it.\n\nWhy is this bothering me? I'm mature, I'm even sex positive and somewhat of a feminist (I still like to have the door held open for me though, so sue me) but for some reason this is making me doubt everything.\n\nHe said that initially he would visit different girls but ultimately said he started just having 4 girls he would see regularly.\n\nTell me I'm being bat shit crazy and that there is nothing wrong with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In all the time I've known him he has always told me that he has only ever had 2 girlfriends that lasted anytime at all. One was in college and one was right after college and he ended it both times.\n\nHe is a very career driven guy, has advanced very far in his field and in fact is already an executive VP. \n\nBasically I just came out and asked him what he has done for intimacy or even basic human contact for the 8 years that he was not seeing anyone. He admitted to his share of one night stands but stated that ultimately he got tired of trying to spend time doing that so for about 7 years he had a standing account with 3 different escort company's in the 3 city's he works in and would generally have 2-4 \"dates\" a month with an escort. By date I mean they went to his room and fucked.\n\nHe said this so matter of fact like that I thought he was giving me a stock report.\n\nNow by no means am I a prude but I'm not going to lie my stomach turned when I found this out. He has been banging prostitutes for almost 7 years.\n\nI don't know why but this bothers me more than I can say. He claims that once he and I started dating that he dropped all of his accounts and has not visited any since we have been together. I want to believe him but it would be so easy for him to do this and I would never know.\n\nWhat's making my skin crawl is that we have both tested and been found clean so we are just using birth control. I know they are safe by profession but still.I just have the heebie-jeebies thinking about it.\n\nWhy is this bothering me? I'm mature, I'm even sex positive and somewhat of a feminist (I still like to have the door held open for me though, so sue me) but for some reason this is making me doubt everything.\n\nHe said that initially he would visit different girls but ultimately said he started just having 4 girls he would see regularly.\n\nTell me I'm being bat shit crazy and that there is nothing wrong with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In all the time I've known him he has always told me that he has only ever had 2 girlfriends that lasted anytime at all. One was in college and one was right after college and he ended it both times.\n\nHe is a very career driven guy, has advanced very far in his field and in fact is already an executive VP. \n\nBasically I just came out and asked him what he has done for intimacy or even basic human contact for the 8 years that he was not seeing anyone. He admitted to his share of one night stands but stated that ultimately he got tired of trying to spend time doing that so for about 7 years he had a standing account with 3 different escort company's in the 3 city's he works in and would generally have 2-4 \"dates\" a month with an escort. By date I mean they went to his room and fucked.\n\nHe said this so matter of fact like that I thought he was giving me a stock report.\n\nNow by no means am I a prude but I'm not going to lie my stomach turned when I found this out. He has been banging prostitutes for almost 7 years.\n\nI don't know why but this bothers me more than I can say. He claims that once he and I started dating that he dropped all of his accounts and has not visited any since we have been together. I want to believe him but it would be so easy for him to do this and I would never know.\n\nWhat's making my skin crawl is that we have both tested and been found clean so we are just using birth control. I know they are safe by profession but still.I just have the heebie-jeebies thinking about it.\n\nWhy is this bothering me? I'm mature, I'm even sex positive and somewhat of a feminist (I still like to have the door held open for me though, so sue me) but for some reason this is making me doubt everything.\n\nHe said that initially he would visit different girls but ultimately said he started just having 4 girls he would see regularly.\n\nTell me I'm being bat shit crazy and that there is nothing wrong with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In all the time I've known him he has always told me that he has only ever had 2 girlfriends that lasted anytime at all. One was in college and one was right after college and he ended it both times.\n\nHe is a very career driven guy, has advanced very far in his field and in fact is already an executive VP. \n\nBasically I just came out and asked him what he has done for intimacy or even basic human contact for the 8 years that he was not seeing anyone. He admitted to his share of one night stands but stated that ultimately he got tired of trying to spend time doing that so for about 7 years he had a standing account with 3 different escort company's in the 3 city's he works in and would generally have 2-4 \"dates\" a month with an escort. By date I mean they went to his room and fucked.\n\nHe said this so matter of fact like that I thought he was giving me a stock report.\n\nNow by no means am I a prude but I'm not going to lie my stomach turned when I found this out. He has been banging prostitutes for almost 7 years.\n\nI don't know why but this bothers me more than I can say. He claims that once he and I started dating that he dropped all of his accounts and has not visited any since we have been together. I want to believe him but it would be so easy for him to do this and I would never know.\n\nWhat's making my skin crawl is that we have both tested and been found clean so we are just using birth control. I know they are safe by profession but still.I just have the heebie-jeebies thinking about it.\n\nWhy is this bothering me? I'm mature, I'm even sex positive and somewhat of a feminist (I still like to have the door held open for me though, so sue me) but for some reason this is making me doubt everything.\n\nHe said that initially he would visit different girls but ultimately said he started just having 4 girls he would see regularly.\n\nTell me I'm being bat shit crazy and that there is nothing wrong with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In all the time I've known him he has always told me that he has only ever had 2 girlfriends that lasted anytime at all. One was in college and one was right after college and he ended it both times.\n\nHe is a very career driven guy, has advanced very far in his field and in fact is already an executive VP. \n\nBasically I just came out and asked him what he has done for intimacy or even basic human contact for the 8 years that he was not seeing anyone. He admitted to his share of one night stands but stated that ultimately he got tired of trying to spend time doing that so for about 7 years he had a standing account with 3 different escort company's in the 3 city's he works in and would generally have 2-4 \"dates\" a month with an escort. By date I mean they went to his room and fucked.\n\nHe said this so matter of fact like that I thought he was giving me a stock report.\n\nNow by no means am I a prude but I'm not going to lie my stomach turned when I found this out. He has been banging prostitutes for almost 7 years.\n\nI don't know why but this bothers me more than I can say. He claims that once he and I started dating that he dropped all of his accounts and has not visited any since we have been together. I want to believe him but it would be so easy for him to do this and I would never know.\n\nWhat's making my skin crawl is that we have both tested and been found clean so we are just using birth control. I know they are safe by profession but still.I just have the heebie-jeebies thinking about it.\n\nWhy is this bothering me? I'm mature, I'm even sex positive and somewhat of a feminist (I still like to have the door held open for me though, so sue me) but for some reason this is making me doubt everything.\n\nHe said that initially he would visit different girls but ultimately said he started just having 4 girls he would see regularly.\n\nTell me I'm being bat shit crazy and that there is nothing wrong with this."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my wife and I separated. The separation is fairly amicable and she and I have vowed to remain partners in raising our kids to avoid making them feel divided or abandoned. We take turns watching them when the other is busy and have an open door approach to visits. We still take them out as a \"family\" to movies and such just under the pretense that mom and dad are friends now instead of husband and wife. \nI know there must be a ton of examples of kids who had great lives despite their parents divorces and I hoping you can tell me some of the things I can do(or avoid doing) to make sure my kids know they are still the number one priority in our lives despite our lack of marriage."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my wife and I separated. The separation is fairly amicable and she and I have vowed to remain partners in raising our kids to avoid making them feel divided or abandoned. We take turns watching them when the other is busy and have an open door approach to visits. We still take them out as a \"family\" to movies and such just under the pretense that mom and dad are friends now instead of husband and wife. \nI know there must be a ton of examples of kids who had great lives despite their parents divorces and I hoping you can tell me some of the things I can do(or avoid doing) to make sure my kids know they are still the number one priority in our lives despite our lack of marriage."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my wife and I separated. The separation is fairly amicable and she and I have vowed to remain partners in raising our kids to avoid making them feel divided or abandoned. We take turns watching them when the other is busy and have an open door approach to visits. We still take them out as a \"family\" to movies and such just under the pretense that mom and dad are friends now instead of husband and wife. \nI know there must be a ton of examples of kids who had great lives despite their parents divorces and I hoping you can tell me some of the things I can do(or avoid doing) to make sure my kids know they are still the number one priority in our lives despite our lack of marriage."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my wife and I separated. The separation is fairly amicable and she and I have vowed to remain partners in raising our kids to avoid making them feel divided or abandoned. We take turns watching them when the other is busy and have an open door approach to visits. We still take them out as a \"family\" to movies and such just under the pretense that mom and dad are friends now instead of husband and wife. \nI know there must be a ton of examples of kids who had great lives despite their parents divorces and I hoping you can tell me some of the things I can do(or avoid doing) to make sure my kids know they are still the number one priority in our lives despite our lack of marriage."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my wife and I separated. The separation is fairly amicable and she and I have vowed to remain partners in raising our kids to avoid making them feel divided or abandoned. We take turns watching them when the other is busy and have an open door approach to visits. We still take them out as a \"family\" to movies and such just under the pretense that mom and dad are friends now instead of husband and wife. \nI know there must be a ton of examples of kids who had great lives despite their parents divorces and I hoping you can tell me some of the things I can do(or avoid doing) to make sure my kids know they are still the number one priority in our lives despite our lack of marriage."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently my wife and I separated. The separation is fairly amicable and she and I have vowed to remain partners in raising our kids to avoid making them feel divided or abandoned. We take turns watching them when the other is busy and have an open door approach to visits. We still take them out as a \"family\" to movies and such just under the pretense that mom and dad are friends now instead of husband and wife. \nI know there must be a ton of examples of kids who had great lives despite their parents divorces and I hoping you can tell me some of the things I can do(or avoid doing) to make sure my kids know they are still the number one priority in our lives despite our lack of marriage."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family has always done something on Thanksgiving day, Christmas Eve, and Christmas Morning. It's never just \"let's get together and see what happens\", it's been the same planned events every year. \n\nMy husband's mom has never really done that. Her family isn't as intact as mine or really in to the holidays. When asked what her plans are she never has anything concrete to share and has just insisted on sticking with my parents stuff; she'd work around their traditions. \n\nMy husband and I have a one year old. This has made her realize she wants the family traditions and all of the holiday activities to make memories with her grandson. \n\nHow do I go about planning our holiday break when I have one family that has definite plans, and another that is wishy washy with plans?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family has always done something on Thanksgiving day, Christmas Eve, and Christmas Morning. It's never just \"let's get together and see what happens\", it's been the same planned events every year. \n\nMy husband's mom has never really done that. Her family isn't as intact as mine or really in to the holidays. When asked what her plans are she never has anything concrete to share and has just insisted on sticking with my parents stuff; she'd work around their traditions. \n\nMy husband and I have a one year old. This has made her realize she wants the family traditions and all of the holiday activities to make memories with her grandson. \n\nHow do I go about planning our holiday break when I have one family that has definite plans, and another that is wishy washy with plans?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family has always done something on Thanksgiving day, Christmas Eve, and Christmas Morning. It's never just \"let's get together and see what happens\", it's been the same planned events every year. \n\nMy husband's mom has never really done that. Her family isn't as intact as mine or really in to the holidays. When asked what her plans are she never has anything concrete to share and has just insisted on sticking with my parents stuff; she'd work around their traditions. \n\nMy husband and I have a one year old. This has made her realize she wants the family traditions and all of the holiday activities to make memories with her grandson. \n\nHow do I go about planning our holiday break when I have one family that has definite plans, and another that is wishy washy with plans?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family has always done something on Thanksgiving day, Christmas Eve, and Christmas Morning. It's never just \"let's get together and see what happens\", it's been the same planned events every year. \n\nMy husband's mom has never really done that. Her family isn't as intact as mine or really in to the holidays. When asked what her plans are she never has anything concrete to share and has just insisted on sticking with my parents stuff; she'd work around their traditions. \n\nMy husband and I have a one year old. This has made her realize she wants the family traditions and all of the holiday activities to make memories with her grandson. \n\nHow do I go about planning our holiday break when I have one family that has definite plans, and another that is wishy washy with plans?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family has always done something on Thanksgiving day, Christmas Eve, and Christmas Morning. It's never just \"let's get together and see what happens\", it's been the same planned events every year. \n\nMy husband's mom has never really done that. Her family isn't as intact as mine or really in to the holidays. When asked what her plans are she never has anything concrete to share and has just insisted on sticking with my parents stuff; she'd work around their traditions. \n\nMy husband and I have a one year old. This has made her realize she wants the family traditions and all of the holiday activities to make memories with her grandson. \n\nHow do I go about planning our holiday break when I have one family that has definite plans, and another that is wishy washy with plans?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My family has always done something on Thanksgiving day, Christmas Eve, and Christmas Morning. It's never just \"let's get together and see what happens\", it's been the same planned events every year. \n\nMy husband's mom has never really done that. Her family isn't as intact as mine or really in to the holidays. When asked what her plans are she never has anything concrete to share and has just insisted on sticking with my parents stuff; she'd work around their traditions. \n\nMy husband and I have a one year old. This has made her realize she wants the family traditions and all of the holiday activities to make memories with her grandson. \n\nHow do I go about planning our holiday break when I have one family that has definite plans, and another that is wishy washy with plans?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel silly for even asking this: I have a guy friend, we hooked up several years ago -like drunken hookup, nothing more. \nI since moved on and have been in a serious relationship with a mutual friend. He and I have remained friends -not that we wouldn't- and often chat a couple of times a week via text.\n\nWhenever he gets with a girl I get a drunken text about their escapades (I dont mind). And when he is having issues with one or feels really interested in them, he tells me.\n\nReddit has ruined me and now I think all my guy friends are trying to stick it in. Am I just one of the guys or what?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel silly for even asking this: I have a guy friend, we hooked up several years ago -like drunken hookup, nothing more. \nI since moved on and have been in a serious relationship with a mutual friend. He and I have remained friends -not that we wouldn't- and often chat a couple of times a week via text.\n\nWhenever he gets with a girl I get a drunken text about their escapades (I dont mind). And when he is having issues with one or feels really interested in them, he tells me.\n\nReddit has ruined me and now I think all my guy friends are trying to stick it in. Am I just one of the guys or what?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel silly for even asking this: I have a guy friend, we hooked up several years ago -like drunken hookup, nothing more. \nI since moved on and have been in a serious relationship with a mutual friend. He and I have remained friends -not that we wouldn't- and often chat a couple of times a week via text.\n\nWhenever he gets with a girl I get a drunken text about their escapades (I dont mind). And when he is having issues with one or feels really interested in them, he tells me.\n\nReddit has ruined me and now I think all my guy friends are trying to stick it in. Am I just one of the guys or what?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel silly for even asking this: I have a guy friend, we hooked up several years ago -like drunken hookup, nothing more. \nI since moved on and have been in a serious relationship with a mutual friend. He and I have remained friends -not that we wouldn't- and often chat a couple of times a week via text.\n\nWhenever he gets with a girl I get a drunken text about their escapades (I dont mind). And when he is having issues with one or feels really interested in them, he tells me.\n\nReddit has ruined me and now I think all my guy friends are trying to stick it in. Am I just one of the guys or what?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I feel silly for even asking this: I have a guy friend, we hooked up several years ago -like drunken hookup, nothing more. \nI since moved on and have been in a serious relationship with a mutual friend. He and I have remained friends -not that we wouldn't- and often chat a couple of times a week via text.\n\nWhenever he gets with a girl I get a drunken text about their escapades (I dont mind). And when he is having issues with one or feels really interested in them, he tells me.\n\nReddit has ruined me and now I think all my guy friends are trying to stick it in. Am I just one of the guys or what?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. \n\nI guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. \n\nI guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. \n\nI guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. \n\nI guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. \n\nI guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: In a serious relationship for over 3 years, marriage has been discussed and we talk about the future all the time. It wasn't until a year in that I noticed how much he drinks. It was > 5 beers a night. If he would go out without me, inevitably it would be to go on a bender and who knows when he would get home or if I would hear back. I talked with him several times, in a variety of ways, and he cut back drinking significantly. However the binges still occur and the fighting gets vicious. He blacks out but I remember all of it. I was very supportive of this problem etc, until he finished the last of his schooling and went out of control and really started blaming me for it. He is incapable of going out with friends and controlling himself, and will drive drunk. I've pulled keys out of his hands before. \n\nI guess what I'm asking is when do you know it's time to leave? I'm having a hard time with it, because I see how life could be. Then he doesn't answer the phone disappears and blames me for making him miserable while slurring on the phone. I can answer questions if it isn't clear. I just really could use some feedback. He knows drinking is issue."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been a lurker for the longest time, and recently my friend reminded me of a FU I had not to long ago. \n\nFor some background context I am 18m and and I am black/hispanic but I am a very Derpy person. My gf has been moving from place to place recently and the place she is at now is full on ghetto town. This will be important later on\n\nSo I just dropped my gf at her house and as im backing out I see this black guy who is wearing all blue and is wearing a mask, who I can safely assume was a crib gang member. He is limping towards my car holding his stomach like he has been shot or stabbed.\n\nFucking adrenalin started coursing through my veins and my face was similar to this i am hyperventilating and shit trying to act normal. I thought this guy was either hurt really bad and was trying to get my help or he was faking it and he was going to pull out a gun and light my ass up.\n\nAt this point he is about 3/4 the way to my car and idk wtf to do. I came so close to flooring it to run this mofo over, but being the lil bitch I am I just drove past him slow af. I was pretty confident I was going to die. Needless to say once I turned the corner I fucking noped out of there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been a lurker for the longest time, and recently my friend reminded me of a FU I had not to long ago. \n\nFor some background context I am 18m and and I am black/hispanic but I am a very Derpy person. My gf has been moving from place to place recently and the place she is at now is full on ghetto town. This will be important later on\n\nSo I just dropped my gf at her house and as im backing out I see this black guy who is wearing all blue and is wearing a mask, who I can safely assume was a crib gang member. He is limping towards my car holding his stomach like he has been shot or stabbed.\n\nFucking adrenalin started coursing through my veins and my face was similar to this i am hyperventilating and shit trying to act normal. I thought this guy was either hurt really bad and was trying to get my help or he was faking it and he was going to pull out a gun and light my ass up.\n\nAt this point he is about 3/4 the way to my car and idk wtf to do. I came so close to flooring it to run this mofo over, but being the lil bitch I am I just drove past him slow af. I was pretty confident I was going to die. Needless to say once I turned the corner I fucking noped out of there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been a lurker for the longest time, and recently my friend reminded me of a FU I had not to long ago. \n\nFor some background context I am 18m and and I am black/hispanic but I am a very Derpy person. My gf has been moving from place to place recently and the place she is at now is full on ghetto town. This will be important later on\n\nSo I just dropped my gf at her house and as im backing out I see this black guy who is wearing all blue and is wearing a mask, who I can safely assume was a crib gang member. He is limping towards my car holding his stomach like he has been shot or stabbed.\n\nFucking adrenalin started coursing through my veins and my face was similar to this i am hyperventilating and shit trying to act normal. I thought this guy was either hurt really bad and was trying to get my help or he was faking it and he was going to pull out a gun and light my ass up.\n\nAt this point he is about 3/4 the way to my car and idk wtf to do. I came so close to flooring it to run this mofo over, but being the lil bitch I am I just drove past him slow af. I was pretty confident I was going to die. Needless to say once I turned the corner I fucking noped out of there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been a lurker for the longest time, and recently my friend reminded me of a FU I had not to long ago. \n\nFor some background context I am 18m and and I am black/hispanic but I am a very Derpy person. My gf has been moving from place to place recently and the place she is at now is full on ghetto town. This will be important later on\n\nSo I just dropped my gf at her house and as im backing out I see this black guy who is wearing all blue and is wearing a mask, who I can safely assume was a crib gang member. He is limping towards my car holding his stomach like he has been shot or stabbed.\n\nFucking adrenalin started coursing through my veins and my face was similar to this i am hyperventilating and shit trying to act normal. I thought this guy was either hurt really bad and was trying to get my help or he was faking it and he was going to pull out a gun and light my ass up.\n\nAt this point he is about 3/4 the way to my car and idk wtf to do. I came so close to flooring it to run this mofo over, but being the lil bitch I am I just drove past him slow af. I was pretty confident I was going to die. Needless to say once I turned the corner I fucking noped out of there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been a lurker for the longest time, and recently my friend reminded me of a FU I had not to long ago. \n\nFor some background context I am 18m and and I am black/hispanic but I am a very Derpy person. My gf has been moving from place to place recently and the place she is at now is full on ghetto town. This will be important later on\n\nSo I just dropped my gf at her house and as im backing out I see this black guy who is wearing all blue and is wearing a mask, who I can safely assume was a crib gang member. He is limping towards my car holding his stomach like he has been shot or stabbed.\n\nFucking adrenalin started coursing through my veins and my face was similar to this i am hyperventilating and shit trying to act normal. I thought this guy was either hurt really bad and was trying to get my help or he was faking it and he was going to pull out a gun and light my ass up.\n\nAt this point he is about 3/4 the way to my car and idk wtf to do. I came so close to flooring it to run this mofo over, but being the lil bitch I am I just drove past him slow af. I was pretty confident I was going to die. Needless to say once I turned the corner I fucking noped out of there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been a lurker for the longest time, and recently my friend reminded me of a FU I had not to long ago. \n\nFor some background context I am 18m and and I am black/hispanic but I am a very Derpy person. My gf has been moving from place to place recently and the place she is at now is full on ghetto town. This will be important later on\n\nSo I just dropped my gf at her house and as im backing out I see this black guy who is wearing all blue and is wearing a mask, who I can safely assume was a crib gang member. He is limping towards my car holding his stomach like he has been shot or stabbed.\n\nFucking adrenalin started coursing through my veins and my face was similar to this i am hyperventilating and shit trying to act normal. I thought this guy was either hurt really bad and was trying to get my help or he was faking it and he was going to pull out a gun and light my ass up.\n\nAt this point he is about 3/4 the way to my car and idk wtf to do. I came so close to flooring it to run this mofo over, but being the lil bitch I am I just drove past him slow af. I was pretty confident I was going to die. Needless to say once I turned the corner I fucking noped out of there."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This actually happened today so I'm in the clear with all of you! I'm writing this on a beautiful spring morning after having a small hole in my face superglued shut.\n \nLike most Saturday mornings my family was having a homemade breakfast, courtesy of my mother. Today, we were having waffles (not my favorite, but still pretty good). Being the growing young man that I am, I was eating a considerable amount of those waffles. So, I got up to get another, not bothering to push in my chair and beginning the FU. \n\nAfter retrieving my next waffle, I make my way back to the kitchen table. As I approach my seat, the waffle slips from my grasp. In my mind I knew that there was no way in hell I was losing that waffle. With lightning quick speed I lunge for the waffle, inadvertently slamming my face into the top of my chair. I now have a small hole right next to my eye, where I hit the chair. Still got the waffle though. I don't need stitches or anything but I thought this experience was too good not to share."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This actually happened today so I'm in the clear with all of you! I'm writing this on a beautiful spring morning after having a small hole in my face superglued shut.\n \nLike most Saturday mornings my family was having a homemade breakfast, courtesy of my mother. Today, we were having waffles (not my favorite, but still pretty good). Being the growing young man that I am, I was eating a considerable amount of those waffles. So, I got up to get another, not bothering to push in my chair and beginning the FU. \n\nAfter retrieving my next waffle, I make my way back to the kitchen table. As I approach my seat, the waffle slips from my grasp. In my mind I knew that there was no way in hell I was losing that waffle. With lightning quick speed I lunge for the waffle, inadvertently slamming my face into the top of my chair. I now have a small hole right next to my eye, where I hit the chair. Still got the waffle though. I don't need stitches or anything but I thought this experience was too good not to share."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This actually happened today so I'm in the clear with all of you! I'm writing this on a beautiful spring morning after having a small hole in my face superglued shut.\n \nLike most Saturday mornings my family was having a homemade breakfast, courtesy of my mother. Today, we were having waffles (not my favorite, but still pretty good). Being the growing young man that I am, I was eating a considerable amount of those waffles. So, I got up to get another, not bothering to push in my chair and beginning the FU. \n\nAfter retrieving my next waffle, I make my way back to the kitchen table. As I approach my seat, the waffle slips from my grasp. In my mind I knew that there was no way in hell I was losing that waffle. With lightning quick speed I lunge for the waffle, inadvertently slamming my face into the top of my chair. I now have a small hole right next to my eye, where I hit the chair. Still got the waffle though. I don't need stitches or anything but I thought this experience was too good not to share."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This actually happened today so I'm in the clear with all of you! I'm writing this on a beautiful spring morning after having a small hole in my face superglued shut.\n \nLike most Saturday mornings my family was having a homemade breakfast, courtesy of my mother. Today, we were having waffles (not my favorite, but still pretty good). Being the growing young man that I am, I was eating a considerable amount of those waffles. So, I got up to get another, not bothering to push in my chair and beginning the FU. \n\nAfter retrieving my next waffle, I make my way back to the kitchen table. As I approach my seat, the waffle slips from my grasp. In my mind I knew that there was no way in hell I was losing that waffle. With lightning quick speed I lunge for the waffle, inadvertently slamming my face into the top of my chair. I now have a small hole right next to my eye, where I hit the chair. Still got the waffle though. I don't need stitches or anything but I thought this experience was too good not to share."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This actually happened today so I'm in the clear with all of you! I'm writing this on a beautiful spring morning after having a small hole in my face superglued shut.\n \nLike most Saturday mornings my family was having a homemade breakfast, courtesy of my mother. Today, we were having waffles (not my favorite, but still pretty good). Being the growing young man that I am, I was eating a considerable amount of those waffles. So, I got up to get another, not bothering to push in my chair and beginning the FU. \n\nAfter retrieving my next waffle, I make my way back to the kitchen table. As I approach my seat, the waffle slips from my grasp. In my mind I knew that there was no way in hell I was losing that waffle. With lightning quick speed I lunge for the waffle, inadvertently slamming my face into the top of my chair. I now have a small hole right next to my eye, where I hit the chair. Still got the waffle though. I don't need stitches or anything but I thought this experience was too good not to share."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This actually happened today so I'm in the clear with all of you! I'm writing this on a beautiful spring morning after having a small hole in my face superglued shut.\n \nLike most Saturday mornings my family was having a homemade breakfast, courtesy of my mother. Today, we were having waffles (not my favorite, but still pretty good). Being the growing young man that I am, I was eating a considerable amount of those waffles. So, I got up to get another, not bothering to push in my chair and beginning the FU. \n\nAfter retrieving my next waffle, I make my way back to the kitchen table. As I approach my seat, the waffle slips from my grasp. In my mind I knew that there was no way in hell I was losing that waffle. With lightning quick speed I lunge for the waffle, inadvertently slamming my face into the top of my chair. I now have a small hole right next to my eye, where I hit the chair. Still got the waffle though. I don't need stitches or anything but I thought this experience was too good not to share."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know looks, ethnic background, religion, money has nothing to do with asking out a girl. I'm not rich or middle class, not poor either, money doesn't satisfy me at all. Regardless I'd say I have some \"style\" since I'm wearing the trends, however today my friend was saying something about this girl that is on our school.\n\nHe said she comes from a rich family, and looks like one of those snobby white girls that expects a lot. If I wear to describe her without showing an actual picture, to me she's pretty cute. Other people think differently. That's fine. Basically my friend was saying how she isn't my type, but he wasn't degrading me or anything. He was just telling me how usually the \"rich snobby white girls\" are always like what you see in the movies.\n\nDon't get me wrong, I don't believe that. But would you still go after a girl even after hearing something like that? Like I mentioned earlier, it's all about confidence and personality, and just being yourself. I know for a fact I'm nowhere near her family income and race, but I'd still go for it since I got nothing to lose."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know looks, ethnic background, religion, money has nothing to do with asking out a girl. I'm not rich or middle class, not poor either, money doesn't satisfy me at all. Regardless I'd say I have some \"style\" since I'm wearing the trends, however today my friend was saying something about this girl that is on our school.\n\nHe said she comes from a rich family, and looks like one of those snobby white girls that expects a lot. If I wear to describe her without showing an actual picture, to me she's pretty cute. Other people think differently. That's fine. Basically my friend was saying how she isn't my type, but he wasn't degrading me or anything. He was just telling me how usually the \"rich snobby white girls\" are always like what you see in the movies.\n\nDon't get me wrong, I don't believe that. But would you still go after a girl even after hearing something like that? Like I mentioned earlier, it's all about confidence and personality, and just being yourself. I know for a fact I'm nowhere near her family income and race, but I'd still go for it since I got nothing to lose."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know looks, ethnic background, religion, money has nothing to do with asking out a girl. I'm not rich or middle class, not poor either, money doesn't satisfy me at all. Regardless I'd say I have some \"style\" since I'm wearing the trends, however today my friend was saying something about this girl that is on our school.\n\nHe said she comes from a rich family, and looks like one of those snobby white girls that expects a lot. If I wear to describe her without showing an actual picture, to me she's pretty cute. Other people think differently. That's fine. Basically my friend was saying how she isn't my type, but he wasn't degrading me or anything. He was just telling me how usually the \"rich snobby white girls\" are always like what you see in the movies.\n\nDon't get me wrong, I don't believe that. But would you still go after a girl even after hearing something like that? Like I mentioned earlier, it's all about confidence and personality, and just being yourself. I know for a fact I'm nowhere near her family income and race, but I'd still go for it since I got nothing to lose."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know looks, ethnic background, religion, money has nothing to do with asking out a girl. I'm not rich or middle class, not poor either, money doesn't satisfy me at all. Regardless I'd say I have some \"style\" since I'm wearing the trends, however today my friend was saying something about this girl that is on our school.\n\nHe said she comes from a rich family, and looks like one of those snobby white girls that expects a lot. If I wear to describe her without showing an actual picture, to me she's pretty cute. Other people think differently. That's fine. Basically my friend was saying how she isn't my type, but he wasn't degrading me or anything. He was just telling me how usually the \"rich snobby white girls\" are always like what you see in the movies.\n\nDon't get me wrong, I don't believe that. But would you still go after a girl even after hearing something like that? Like I mentioned earlier, it's all about confidence and personality, and just being yourself. I know for a fact I'm nowhere near her family income and race, but I'd still go for it since I got nothing to lose."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know looks, ethnic background, religion, money has nothing to do with asking out a girl. I'm not rich or middle class, not poor either, money doesn't satisfy me at all. Regardless I'd say I have some \"style\" since I'm wearing the trends, however today my friend was saying something about this girl that is on our school.\n\nHe said she comes from a rich family, and looks like one of those snobby white girls that expects a lot. If I wear to describe her without showing an actual picture, to me she's pretty cute. Other people think differently. That's fine. Basically my friend was saying how she isn't my type, but he wasn't degrading me or anything. He was just telling me how usually the \"rich snobby white girls\" are always like what you see in the movies.\n\nDon't get me wrong, I don't believe that. But would you still go after a girl even after hearing something like that? Like I mentioned earlier, it's all about confidence and personality, and just being yourself. I know for a fact I'm nowhere near her family income and race, but I'd still go for it since I got nothing to lose."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know looks, ethnic background, religion, money has nothing to do with asking out a girl. I'm not rich or middle class, not poor either, money doesn't satisfy me at all. Regardless I'd say I have some \"style\" since I'm wearing the trends, however today my friend was saying something about this girl that is on our school.\n\nHe said she comes from a rich family, and looks like one of those snobby white girls that expects a lot. If I wear to describe her without showing an actual picture, to me she's pretty cute. Other people think differently. That's fine. Basically my friend was saying how she isn't my type, but he wasn't degrading me or anything. He was just telling me how usually the \"rich snobby white girls\" are always like what you see in the movies.\n\nDon't get me wrong, I don't believe that. But would you still go after a girl even after hearing something like that? Like I mentioned earlier, it's all about confidence and personality, and just being yourself. I know for a fact I'm nowhere near her family income and race, but I'd still go for it since I got nothing to lose."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello r/relationships,\n\nThe month after I graduated high-school I had my first name legally changed, or to be more specific I legally switched around my first and middle names. For the sake of this post let's say I went from Mildred Rose Lastname to Rose Mildred Lastname. \n\nI had been planning and talking about making this change for over a year before I did it as I was not fond of my first name and I wanted to distance myself from the person I was through highschool. My teenage years were very difficult for me (mental health issues, substance abuse as so on) and I saw graduation and going to university in a different province as my chance to start over all topped off with a new name to feel like a new me.\n\nMy parents (now 52/F and 62/M) were fine with the idea of changing my name and the only resistance was that as I'm only child and mom didn't want me to drop the name Mildred completely so I compromised and kept it in as a middle name instead.\n\nThe few friends I had from high school did very well adjusting to calling me Rose as well as most of the extended family but my folks (more so my mom) didn't even try. It wasn't until last year that they even started introducing me to new people as Rose, and even that is not consistent. \n\nNow, my folks are amazing parents besides that. They are not narcissistic and have been very supportive and loving of me for my whole life except for my name. *It's been 10 years!* It's embarrassing to explain to people who've only ever known me as Rose why my parents call me Mildred, which inevitably leads to questions about why I would change my name and I'd really rather not get into my past with people who don't need to know it. I've tried explaining my feelings to them many, many times but no go. After this long I find it disrespectful that they won't try not to mention it hurts me.\n\nI understand they have a sentimental attachment to Mildred, but doesn't a Rose by any other name smell as sweet? How can I convince them make the change?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello r/relationships,\n\nThe month after I graduated high-school I had my first name legally changed, or to be more specific I legally switched around my first and middle names. For the sake of this post let's say I went from Mildred Rose Lastname to Rose Mildred Lastname. \n\nI had been planning and talking about making this change for over a year before I did it as I was not fond of my first name and I wanted to distance myself from the person I was through highschool. My teenage years were very difficult for me (mental health issues, substance abuse as so on) and I saw graduation and going to university in a different province as my chance to start over all topped off with a new name to feel like a new me.\n\nMy parents (now 52/F and 62/M) were fine with the idea of changing my name and the only resistance was that as I'm only child and mom didn't want me to drop the name Mildred completely so I compromised and kept it in as a middle name instead.\n\nThe few friends I had from high school did very well adjusting to calling me Rose as well as most of the extended family but my folks (more so my mom) didn't even try. It wasn't until last year that they even started introducing me to new people as Rose, and even that is not consistent. \n\nNow, my folks are amazing parents besides that. They are not narcissistic and have been very supportive and loving of me for my whole life except for my name. *It's been 10 years!* It's embarrassing to explain to people who've only ever known me as Rose why my parents call me Mildred, which inevitably leads to questions about why I would change my name and I'd really rather not get into my past with people who don't need to know it. I've tried explaining my feelings to them many, many times but no go. After this long I find it disrespectful that they won't try not to mention it hurts me.\n\nI understand they have a sentimental attachment to Mildred, but doesn't a Rose by any other name smell as sweet? How can I convince them make the change?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello r/relationships,\n\nThe month after I graduated high-school I had my first name legally changed, or to be more specific I legally switched around my first and middle names. For the sake of this post let's say I went from Mildred Rose Lastname to Rose Mildred Lastname. \n\nI had been planning and talking about making this change for over a year before I did it as I was not fond of my first name and I wanted to distance myself from the person I was through highschool. My teenage years were very difficult for me (mental health issues, substance abuse as so on) and I saw graduation and going to university in a different province as my chance to start over all topped off with a new name to feel like a new me.\n\nMy parents (now 52/F and 62/M) were fine with the idea of changing my name and the only resistance was that as I'm only child and mom didn't want me to drop the name Mildred completely so I compromised and kept it in as a middle name instead.\n\nThe few friends I had from high school did very well adjusting to calling me Rose as well as most of the extended family but my folks (more so my mom) didn't even try. It wasn't until last year that they even started introducing me to new people as Rose, and even that is not consistent. \n\nNow, my folks are amazing parents besides that. They are not narcissistic and have been very supportive and loving of me for my whole life except for my name. *It's been 10 years!* It's embarrassing to explain to people who've only ever known me as Rose why my parents call me Mildred, which inevitably leads to questions about why I would change my name and I'd really rather not get into my past with people who don't need to know it. I've tried explaining my feelings to them many, many times but no go. After this long I find it disrespectful that they won't try not to mention it hurts me.\n\nI understand they have a sentimental attachment to Mildred, but doesn't a Rose by any other name smell as sweet? How can I convince them make the change?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello r/relationships,\n\nThe month after I graduated high-school I had my first name legally changed, or to be more specific I legally switched around my first and middle names. For the sake of this post let's say I went from Mildred Rose Lastname to Rose Mildred Lastname. \n\nI had been planning and talking about making this change for over a year before I did it as I was not fond of my first name and I wanted to distance myself from the person I was through highschool. My teenage years were very difficult for me (mental health issues, substance abuse as so on) and I saw graduation and going to university in a different province as my chance to start over all topped off with a new name to feel like a new me.\n\nMy parents (now 52/F and 62/M) were fine with the idea of changing my name and the only resistance was that as I'm only child and mom didn't want me to drop the name Mildred completely so I compromised and kept it in as a middle name instead.\n\nThe few friends I had from high school did very well adjusting to calling me Rose as well as most of the extended family but my folks (more so my mom) didn't even try. It wasn't until last year that they even started introducing me to new people as Rose, and even that is not consistent. \n\nNow, my folks are amazing parents besides that. They are not narcissistic and have been very supportive and loving of me for my whole life except for my name. *It's been 10 years!* It's embarrassing to explain to people who've only ever known me as Rose why my parents call me Mildred, which inevitably leads to questions about why I would change my name and I'd really rather not get into my past with people who don't need to know it. I've tried explaining my feelings to them many, many times but no go. After this long I find it disrespectful that they won't try not to mention it hurts me.\n\nI understand they have a sentimental attachment to Mildred, but doesn't a Rose by any other name smell as sweet? How can I convince them make the change?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello r/relationships,\n\nThe month after I graduated high-school I had my first name legally changed, or to be more specific I legally switched around my first and middle names. For the sake of this post let's say I went from Mildred Rose Lastname to Rose Mildred Lastname. \n\nI had been planning and talking about making this change for over a year before I did it as I was not fond of my first name and I wanted to distance myself from the person I was through highschool. My teenage years were very difficult for me (mental health issues, substance abuse as so on) and I saw graduation and going to university in a different province as my chance to start over all topped off with a new name to feel like a new me.\n\nMy parents (now 52/F and 62/M) were fine with the idea of changing my name and the only resistance was that as I'm only child and mom didn't want me to drop the name Mildred completely so I compromised and kept it in as a middle name instead.\n\nThe few friends I had from high school did very well adjusting to calling me Rose as well as most of the extended family but my folks (more so my mom) didn't even try. It wasn't until last year that they even started introducing me to new people as Rose, and even that is not consistent. \n\nNow, my folks are amazing parents besides that. They are not narcissistic and have been very supportive and loving of me for my whole life except for my name. *It's been 10 years!* It's embarrassing to explain to people who've only ever known me as Rose why my parents call me Mildred, which inevitably leads to questions about why I would change my name and I'd really rather not get into my past with people who don't need to know it. I've tried explaining my feelings to them many, many times but no go. After this long I find it disrespectful that they won't try not to mention it hurts me.\n\nI understand they have a sentimental attachment to Mildred, but doesn't a Rose by any other name smell as sweet? How can I convince them make the change?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My roommates had a party this weekend. I didn't attend cause I had previous engagments with my parents to have them come up and see the town I live in now.\n\nWell they decided to invite someone I had a thing with a while back. To elaborate this \"thing.\"\n\nI have been in a relationship going on four years now with my current SO. Me and her hit a rough spot in our relationship and I was feeling a bit insecure so I started to talk to this other girl, let's call her NotSO. I flirted with her while still in a relationship with my current SO and just kind of lost my mind in that world for. a week at most. I got my shit together and realised I wasn't trying hard enough in my current relationship and cut ties with NotSO before it got too deep. (All we did was flirt with each other but no touch/kissing/anything.) \n\nI broke down and told my girlfriend about it and how it happened. She got over it and understood just as long as I didn't hang out with her / see her(NotSO). Understandable.\n\nWELL, my roommates invited NOTSO to the party. Without telling me.\n\nI understand they want to hang out with her cause they work together, but I can't help but feel pissed off about it. Should I be mad? What should I do?\n\nAll I really wanted was for one of my \"friends\" to at least text me, \"Hey, soo NOTSO is at the party.\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My roommates had a party this weekend. I didn't attend cause I had previous engagments with my parents to have them come up and see the town I live in now.\n\nWell they decided to invite someone I had a thing with a while back. To elaborate this \"thing.\"\n\nI have been in a relationship going on four years now with my current SO. Me and her hit a rough spot in our relationship and I was feeling a bit insecure so I started to talk to this other girl, let's call her NotSO. I flirted with her while still in a relationship with my current SO and just kind of lost my mind in that world for. a week at most. I got my shit together and realised I wasn't trying hard enough in my current relationship and cut ties with NotSO before it got too deep. (All we did was flirt with each other but no touch/kissing/anything.) \n\nI broke down and told my girlfriend about it and how it happened. She got over it and understood just as long as I didn't hang out with her / see her(NotSO). Understandable.\n\nWELL, my roommates invited NOTSO to the party. Without telling me.\n\nI understand they want to hang out with her cause they work together, but I can't help but feel pissed off about it. Should I be mad? What should I do?\n\nAll I really wanted was for one of my \"friends\" to at least text me, \"Hey, soo NOTSO is at the party.\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My roommates had a party this weekend. I didn't attend cause I had previous engagments with my parents to have them come up and see the town I live in now.\n\nWell they decided to invite someone I had a thing with a while back. To elaborate this \"thing.\"\n\nI have been in a relationship going on four years now with my current SO. Me and her hit a rough spot in our relationship and I was feeling a bit insecure so I started to talk to this other girl, let's call her NotSO. I flirted with her while still in a relationship with my current SO and just kind of lost my mind in that world for. a week at most. I got my shit together and realised I wasn't trying hard enough in my current relationship and cut ties with NotSO before it got too deep. (All we did was flirt with each other but no touch/kissing/anything.) \n\nI broke down and told my girlfriend about it and how it happened. She got over it and understood just as long as I didn't hang out with her / see her(NotSO). Understandable.\n\nWELL, my roommates invited NOTSO to the party. Without telling me.\n\nI understand they want to hang out with her cause they work together, but I can't help but feel pissed off about it. Should I be mad? What should I do?\n\nAll I really wanted was for one of my \"friends\" to at least text me, \"Hey, soo NOTSO is at the party.\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My roommates had a party this weekend. I didn't attend cause I had previous engagments with my parents to have them come up and see the town I live in now.\n\nWell they decided to invite someone I had a thing with a while back. To elaborate this \"thing.\"\n\nI have been in a relationship going on four years now with my current SO. Me and her hit a rough spot in our relationship and I was feeling a bit insecure so I started to talk to this other girl, let's call her NotSO. I flirted with her while still in a relationship with my current SO and just kind of lost my mind in that world for. a week at most. I got my shit together and realised I wasn't trying hard enough in my current relationship and cut ties with NotSO before it got too deep. (All we did was flirt with each other but no touch/kissing/anything.) \n\nI broke down and told my girlfriend about it and how it happened. She got over it and understood just as long as I didn't hang out with her / see her(NotSO). Understandable.\n\nWELL, my roommates invited NOTSO to the party. Without telling me.\n\nI understand they want to hang out with her cause they work together, but I can't help but feel pissed off about it. Should I be mad? What should I do?\n\nAll I really wanted was for one of my \"friends\" to at least text me, \"Hey, soo NOTSO is at the party.\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My roommates had a party this weekend. I didn't attend cause I had previous engagments with my parents to have them come up and see the town I live in now.\n\nWell they decided to invite someone I had a thing with a while back. To elaborate this \"thing.\"\n\nI have been in a relationship going on four years now with my current SO. Me and her hit a rough spot in our relationship and I was feeling a bit insecure so I started to talk to this other girl, let's call her NotSO. I flirted with her while still in a relationship with my current SO and just kind of lost my mind in that world for. a week at most. I got my shit together and realised I wasn't trying hard enough in my current relationship and cut ties with NotSO before it got too deep. (All we did was flirt with each other but no touch/kissing/anything.) \n\nI broke down and told my girlfriend about it and how it happened. She got over it and understood just as long as I didn't hang out with her / see her(NotSO). Understandable.\n\nWELL, my roommates invited NOTSO to the party. Without telling me.\n\nI understand they want to hang out with her cause they work together, but I can't help but feel pissed off about it. Should I be mad? What should I do?\n\nAll I really wanted was for one of my \"friends\" to at least text me, \"Hey, soo NOTSO is at the party.\""
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yay background information and context! I knew going into the first date that he had a child, but it really didn't change how I felt about him or saw him. We immediately hit it off and literally have not stopped texting since we first started messaging. We've been seeing each other for 2 months now but have only been officially bf/gf for a month or so. \n\nPrior to meeting him I've been seeing a therapist for 2 years to deal with some of my personal issues of low self-esteem, self-worth, and some trust issues thrown in there too. Recently got on some anti-depressants for my anxiety as well. \n\nHe's super sweet all the time and always says how much he misses me and likes me when he is with his child. He has his daughter every other week and we don't see each other during that time. He says he will call after he puts her to bed but unless I specifically ask for a call that night he doesn't call. \n\nI completely understand that his child takes priority and I would never try to get in the middle of that. I respect and adore him for being such a great dad. The thing is though that I'm struggling a lot with not thinking the stupid typical \"he doesn't want to talk to you\" or \"he says all these things but doesn't mean them\". You see where this is going I'm sure. \n\nHas anyone else dated someone with a child and experienced these things? How did/do you handle it? I'm just afraid I'll screw this up and lose a great guy. \n\nI typically lurk and didn't have an account prior to this but could really use some advice from other people who have been through this. \n\nCheers!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yay background information and context! I knew going into the first date that he had a child, but it really didn't change how I felt about him or saw him. We immediately hit it off and literally have not stopped texting since we first started messaging. We've been seeing each other for 2 months now but have only been officially bf/gf for a month or so. \n\nPrior to meeting him I've been seeing a therapist for 2 years to deal with some of my personal issues of low self-esteem, self-worth, and some trust issues thrown in there too. Recently got on some anti-depressants for my anxiety as well. \n\nHe's super sweet all the time and always says how much he misses me and likes me when he is with his child. He has his daughter every other week and we don't see each other during that time. He says he will call after he puts her to bed but unless I specifically ask for a call that night he doesn't call. \n\nI completely understand that his child takes priority and I would never try to get in the middle of that. I respect and adore him for being such a great dad. The thing is though that I'm struggling a lot with not thinking the stupid typical \"he doesn't want to talk to you\" or \"he says all these things but doesn't mean them\". You see where this is going I'm sure. \n\nHas anyone else dated someone with a child and experienced these things? How did/do you handle it? I'm just afraid I'll screw this up and lose a great guy. \n\nI typically lurk and didn't have an account prior to this but could really use some advice from other people who have been through this. \n\nCheers!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yay background information and context! I knew going into the first date that he had a child, but it really didn't change how I felt about him or saw him. We immediately hit it off and literally have not stopped texting since we first started messaging. We've been seeing each other for 2 months now but have only been officially bf/gf for a month or so. \n\nPrior to meeting him I've been seeing a therapist for 2 years to deal with some of my personal issues of low self-esteem, self-worth, and some trust issues thrown in there too. Recently got on some anti-depressants for my anxiety as well. \n\nHe's super sweet all the time and always says how much he misses me and likes me when he is with his child. He has his daughter every other week and we don't see each other during that time. He says he will call after he puts her to bed but unless I specifically ask for a call that night he doesn't call. \n\nI completely understand that his child takes priority and I would never try to get in the middle of that. I respect and adore him for being such a great dad. The thing is though that I'm struggling a lot with not thinking the stupid typical \"he doesn't want to talk to you\" or \"he says all these things but doesn't mean them\". You see where this is going I'm sure. \n\nHas anyone else dated someone with a child and experienced these things? How did/do you handle it? I'm just afraid I'll screw this up and lose a great guy. \n\nI typically lurk and didn't have an account prior to this but could really use some advice from other people who have been through this. \n\nCheers!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yay background information and context! I knew going into the first date that he had a child, but it really didn't change how I felt about him or saw him. We immediately hit it off and literally have not stopped texting since we first started messaging. We've been seeing each other for 2 months now but have only been officially bf/gf for a month or so. \n\nPrior to meeting him I've been seeing a therapist for 2 years to deal with some of my personal issues of low self-esteem, self-worth, and some trust issues thrown in there too. Recently got on some anti-depressants for my anxiety as well. \n\nHe's super sweet all the time and always says how much he misses me and likes me when he is with his child. He has his daughter every other week and we don't see each other during that time. He says he will call after he puts her to bed but unless I specifically ask for a call that night he doesn't call. \n\nI completely understand that his child takes priority and I would never try to get in the middle of that. I respect and adore him for being such a great dad. The thing is though that I'm struggling a lot with not thinking the stupid typical \"he doesn't want to talk to you\" or \"he says all these things but doesn't mean them\". You see where this is going I'm sure. \n\nHas anyone else dated someone with a child and experienced these things? How did/do you handle it? I'm just afraid I'll screw this up and lose a great guy. \n\nI typically lurk and didn't have an account prior to this but could really use some advice from other people who have been through this. \n\nCheers!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yay background information and context! I knew going into the first date that he had a child, but it really didn't change how I felt about him or saw him. We immediately hit it off and literally have not stopped texting since we first started messaging. We've been seeing each other for 2 months now but have only been officially bf/gf for a month or so. \n\nPrior to meeting him I've been seeing a therapist for 2 years to deal with some of my personal issues of low self-esteem, self-worth, and some trust issues thrown in there too. Recently got on some anti-depressants for my anxiety as well. \n\nHe's super sweet all the time and always says how much he misses me and likes me when he is with his child. He has his daughter every other week and we don't see each other during that time. He says he will call after he puts her to bed but unless I specifically ask for a call that night he doesn't call. \n\nI completely understand that his child takes priority and I would never try to get in the middle of that. I respect and adore him for being such a great dad. The thing is though that I'm struggling a lot with not thinking the stupid typical \"he doesn't want to talk to you\" or \"he says all these things but doesn't mean them\". You see where this is going I'm sure. \n\nHas anyone else dated someone with a child and experienced these things? How did/do you handle it? I'm just afraid I'll screw this up and lose a great guy. \n\nI typically lurk and didn't have an account prior to this but could really use some advice from other people who have been through this. \n\nCheers!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Yay background information and context! I knew going into the first date that he had a child, but it really didn't change how I felt about him or saw him. We immediately hit it off and literally have not stopped texting since we first started messaging. We've been seeing each other for 2 months now but have only been officially bf/gf for a month or so. \n\nPrior to meeting him I've been seeing a therapist for 2 years to deal with some of my personal issues of low self-esteem, self-worth, and some trust issues thrown in there too. Recently got on some anti-depressants for my anxiety as well. \n\nHe's super sweet all the time and always says how much he misses me and likes me when he is with his child. He has his daughter every other week and we don't see each other during that time. He says he will call after he puts her to bed but unless I specifically ask for a call that night he doesn't call. \n\nI completely understand that his child takes priority and I would never try to get in the middle of that. I respect and adore him for being such a great dad. The thing is though that I'm struggling a lot with not thinking the stupid typical \"he doesn't want to talk to you\" or \"he says all these things but doesn't mean them\". You see where this is going I'm sure. \n\nHas anyone else dated someone with a child and experienced these things? How did/do you handle it? I'm just afraid I'll screw this up and lose a great guy. \n\nI typically lurk and didn't have an account prior to this but could really use some advice from other people who have been through this. \n\nCheers!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, me and this girl have been talking to each other on and off for the better part of six years. Over the course of the years, I've had multiple other relationships, as had she, but we always end up talking again. Ever since i met her, I've been in love with her, and i have not been able to stop. And everytime we would talk, we never actually did anything except kiss this one time. This past weekend, I left my college to go visit friends at another college with my roommate and i texted her saying i was near. She invited me over, and for the first time we slept together. It was fantastic, but she called me out on lies that i told her throughout my years of knowing her, and I came clean. The next morning I left and get a text a couple hours later saying \"fuck you, you betrayed my trust and i hate you and never want to talk to you again.\" I need to get her back, I can't stop thinking about her and that night and how i fucked up. How can i tell her that i'm sorry and i want to fix things. I don't know what to do. She lives 5 hours away and i'm not allowed to leave on most weekends (military college) and she's not responding to my texts/calls."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, me and this girl have been talking to each other on and off for the better part of six years. Over the course of the years, I've had multiple other relationships, as had she, but we always end up talking again. Ever since i met her, I've been in love with her, and i have not been able to stop. And everytime we would talk, we never actually did anything except kiss this one time. This past weekend, I left my college to go visit friends at another college with my roommate and i texted her saying i was near. She invited me over, and for the first time we slept together. It was fantastic, but she called me out on lies that i told her throughout my years of knowing her, and I came clean. The next morning I left and get a text a couple hours later saying \"fuck you, you betrayed my trust and i hate you and never want to talk to you again.\" I need to get her back, I can't stop thinking about her and that night and how i fucked up. How can i tell her that i'm sorry and i want to fix things. I don't know what to do. She lives 5 hours away and i'm not allowed to leave on most weekends (military college) and she's not responding to my texts/calls."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, me and this girl have been talking to each other on and off for the better part of six years. Over the course of the years, I've had multiple other relationships, as had she, but we always end up talking again. Ever since i met her, I've been in love with her, and i have not been able to stop. And everytime we would talk, we never actually did anything except kiss this one time. This past weekend, I left my college to go visit friends at another college with my roommate and i texted her saying i was near. She invited me over, and for the first time we slept together. It was fantastic, but she called me out on lies that i told her throughout my years of knowing her, and I came clean. The next morning I left and get a text a couple hours later saying \"fuck you, you betrayed my trust and i hate you and never want to talk to you again.\" I need to get her back, I can't stop thinking about her and that night and how i fucked up. How can i tell her that i'm sorry and i want to fix things. I don't know what to do. She lives 5 hours away and i'm not allowed to leave on most weekends (military college) and she's not responding to my texts/calls."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, me and this girl have been talking to each other on and off for the better part of six years. Over the course of the years, I've had multiple other relationships, as had she, but we always end up talking again. Ever since i met her, I've been in love with her, and i have not been able to stop. And everytime we would talk, we never actually did anything except kiss this one time. This past weekend, I left my college to go visit friends at another college with my roommate and i texted her saying i was near. She invited me over, and for the first time we slept together. It was fantastic, but she called me out on lies that i told her throughout my years of knowing her, and I came clean. The next morning I left and get a text a couple hours later saying \"fuck you, you betrayed my trust and i hate you and never want to talk to you again.\" I need to get her back, I can't stop thinking about her and that night and how i fucked up. How can i tell her that i'm sorry and i want to fix things. I don't know what to do. She lives 5 hours away and i'm not allowed to leave on most weekends (military college) and she's not responding to my texts/calls."
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