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I need to create graphs/charts for each of these questions, then report the results on them.
I'm fine with the report part, once I have the graphs, but I just don't know what type of graph to use for each of these questions. A histogram? Scatter? Bar? Line? Pie (probably not)?
I don't need answers (though they would not be unwelcome) I just need a push in the right direction.
I'll highlight the most important parts in each question in case some of you don't want to trawl through the whole text.
QUESTION 1:
Canada lynx, Lynx canadensis, are North American felids that have important ecosystem effects and were previously hunted for their pelts. The Hudson’s Bay Company has recorded the number of pelts returned by hunters each year across Canada for around 2 centuries. The data provided in worksheet Q1 show historic fur returns from the Athabasca Basin region. Plot the time-series of lynx pelt returns and describe any clear patterns that emerge from this data.
QUESTION 2:
Researchers hypothesised that there was a relationship between the weight of individual birds in a given species and their tarsus (leg) length. They took measurements of both of these variables from 11 birds during a routine ringing survey. Using the data provided in worksheet Q2, explore the relationship between these two variables graphically and describe any obvious patterns that might exist.
QUESTION 3:
A health researcher wants to compare the time taken to perform 4 different exercises under 2 different diet regimes, to determine whether diet appears to influence different types of fitness. Ten volunteers each carried out the four exercises under the different diets, with the amount of time required for each to complete an exercise recorded under the different conditions.
Data corresponding to this investigation is presented in worksheet Q3. Plot the total time taken for all volunteers to complete a given exercise under each diet, and report whether any clear patterns emerge.
QUESTION 4:
Population densities (N, in log units) of 2 plankton species were monitored over 50 generations (i.e., N(t) = the natural logarithm of the population density recorded at time t). Data is presented from these 2 species population time series in worksheet Q4. For each series, illustrate the relationship between consecutive population densities, N(t) vs. N(t+1), graphically, describing whether there is a positive, negative or no obvious pattern between consecutive time points in the relationship, for each species
Thanks in advance, if anyone can be bothered reading this. :) | I've highlighted the most important parts of each question. What type of graph should I be using for each? | [
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sigh> The point was to show that you said it was the dancing was the "first step." I was pointing out you can draw that "first step" line in many places. I didn't say or imply that you said talking was the first step, and as such it was not a straw man. If you're going to pick some random bit as the "first step" and then ban girlfriends from doing it based on that, one could just as easily say the exact same thing you did, but with talking instead of dancing.
I'm sorry if you can't trust your girlfriend to dance with other guys and drink at the same time. That doesn't mean the relationship is ending for everyone else.
Is it always totally innocent? No. Can it be? Yes. 100% yes.
Great, you've dated some untrustworthy girls, and banged some untrustworthy girls. OBVIOUSLY that means all women ever can't drink and dance without getting all weak in the knees. | Your experience with women with loose morals does not mean all women are that way. Maybe you should evaluate the type of girls you date, instead of assuming all girls are like that? | [
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I got a speeding ticket at the ass crack of dawn the other day, when we were done I realized my car wouldn't start because I had left my headlights on. I got out and kindly asked the cop if he had some jumper cables and he cheerfully helped me start my car. | cops are nice people most of the time and they will help you out. | [
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At a large date party in a venue with a bar. Late in the night everyone is very drunk, including an Asian friend of mine who is especially black out. He is dancing with his girl up against the bar when he decides to start finger blasting her right then and there. This must have made him pretty hungry (it's a great forearm workout) because he then started to alternate between the fingering and feeding himself pretzels from the bowl on the bar WITH THE SAME HAND. This goes on for about 5 minutes. Then after they have cleared out, a second friend, having no knowledge of what has taken place here, wanders in and eats himself some pretzels from the aforementioned bowl. So disgusting on so many levels. | VAGINA PRETZELS | [
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Grad student in plant pathology with an extensive background in plant physiology here :)
Molecular clocks have estimated that angiosperms (flowering/fruiting plants) diverged from gymnosperms (conifers/cycads/ginkgoes) about 200 million years ago (mya), but the earliest actual fossil we have of an angiosperm is from about 150 mya (around the beginning of the early Cretaceous.) We see a HUGE burst of diversification in these plants in the fossil record throughout the early cretaceous (150-100 mya) and they ultimately became predominant towards the end of the late Cretaceous (100-65 mya).
For reference, many of the "charismatic" dinosaurs lived during the Cretaceous.... Tyrannosaurus , Triceratops , Iguanadon , Velociraptor the later sauropods and many pterosaurs all lived during the Cretaceous (most in the late Cretaceous).
So... yeah. The show is wrong. Also, might as well throw in that interestingly, grasses ( Poaceae ) are thought to not have evolved until after the Cretaceous (okay, there is some debate about this but I would be confident in saying that the grasses that you and I know and love didn't show up until after the K-T extinction event.) So if there are any verdant, grassy lawns in the show, they be fibbin'. | JURASSIC PARK IS A LIE! Also, Terra Nova should hire me as a consultant and pay me a lot of money because I am a starving grad student. | [
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I won't believe this'll be playable just yet as I think there are some issues that needs explaining first.
As an example idk if Riot will actually approve of this mod and even so I find it very unlikely too be implemented in the client since it seems way different and might need a lot of preparation work to mesh with the client.
Also the art style of the map compared to the League style doesn't match so I think there is a need too implement custom models or have a Riot remake of this.
Another point to make is that a Zombie mod seems very out of character for League of Legends, considering the lore I could see it being a thing if it was void monsters and a wave defense but Zombies is something I just won't buy.
Something I do wanna point out though is that if this thread catches their attention there might be some talking about a wave defense mode in Riot HQ. | While the mod itself has some nice properties I recommend you don't get your hopes up at it is very unlikely to happen | [
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through a friend i met in middle school on a forum. me and my current SO "met" when i was freshly 17 and her freshly 16. started dating soon after (we have birthdays 2 weeks apart) Now I freshly 21 her freshly 20. And i moved her half way across the country two years back. We live in an apartment with a female friend. | Went well. | [
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Everything about the Boston Tea Party.
The protest wasn't over a price hike on the tax of tea. It wasn't even about the tea being expensive.
In fact, British tea cost less than the non-taxed smuggled teas to which the Colonialists has access. And that was the problem; the British tea was putting the American 'entrepreneurs' (smugglers) out of business.
The act you need to know about to understand the tea party is the Indemnity Act (1767), which made an exception to the high tariffs on English/Dutch tea to make it competitive with the illegal Colonial teas. In fact, making it really competitive. Cheaper. | The Boston Tea Party was NOT a protest of high taxes. It was a protest of low tariffs! | [
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They're employing a basic theory by which employers avoid vicarious liability all the time. If an employee is acting within the scope of his employment, then the employer can generally be held liable for the tortious conduct of their employee.
However, where the employee, even in the midst of acting within the scope of his duties, all of the sudden stops acting within those confines, or engages in intentionally tortious conduct (save for a few exceptions that don't apply here), and goes on what is referred to as a "frolic," the employer is not liable for the tortious acts of the employee during that "frolic."
The church is arguing that sexual assault is outside the scope of the duties of a priest. Furthermore, the acts perpetrated on these kids are clearly intentional. Thus, any occurrences of sexual assault that occur are to be categorized as frolics, and the church won't be liable under that particular theory .
The church, like any business, can't admit liability. Everybody knows that they have the absolute deepest pockets on earth. If they start settling cases now, whether they in doing so admit fault or not, then everybody everywhere will file suit and collect a check. Even if they sue the perpetrators to recover the costs associated with those settlements, they're going to lose a lot of money.
Is it what's right, morally? No. But then again, why would the Catholic church be interested in setting a modern real-world example of how to properly coexist within the community when, instead, they could adhere to rigid traditionalism?
The right, and judicially expedient thing to do would be for the church to engage various national governments to establish standardized settlement procedures/amounts. Keep the cases out of the courts, keep the victims from having to relive their horrors in open court or depositions, and keep damages from getting out of control.
But hey, I've been studying for the bar exam for a few weeks and my brain is like 98% extra-jiggly jello, so what the hell do I know. | The church's lawyer is just trying to earn his hourly fee, but obviously the church needs to actually show people they practice what they preach, and set an example by ponying up. | [
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Hey everybody. I'm trying to help my girlfriend get more into fitness, but all she used to do was run and do crunches, and now she wants to get more into gymnastics and weightlifting. My problem is that she doesn't believe anything she reads online yet, but will believe anything written in a book.
I'm going to buy some books for us to read so that we're both on the same page about different exercises.
I am going to buy Starting Strength. I am thinking about buying Convict Conditioning, and/or Convict Conditioning 2. I already know all the stuff From Convict Conditioning 1 though, and I don't really want her to read anything with broscience, or semi-broscience in it. She's super gullible and super stubborn meaning if she reads it in one book she'll believe it, and if she reads a contradictory statement in another book she will either always believe the first statement or blow off all the information and stop doing the work out.
I was wondering if there is a top five recommendation list, or if anybody here even buys other books.
Convict Conditioning
Convict Conditioning 2
Super Joints
Relax into Flexibility
Building the Gymnastics Body
These are some of the books I'm considering getting, but I am also looking for recommendations.
Oh, and the swanson vitamins thing is not related, Just curious if anyone ever read Jack La Lanne's book Live Young Forever, and what you think about his multivitamin drink. | I'm just looking for a Recommended reading list for my girlfriend, Top 3-5 please. And feel free to add books that aren't on my list. | [
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Why is everyone trying to find a deeper meaning in Chara?
At first, everyone just thought that it was exactly like what the game presented to you: This evil, genocidal child that ends the timeline when you gain enough power.
The portrayals of them as the narrator actually make sense, since it seems like it's being said from a second person place.
It also makes sense that they have been planning out this big, elaborate scheme to restart the war with humanity.
But recently, I've noticed a lot of people deciding that maybe they're just troubled, and that even they could be fixed, and that even Chara can be a hero.
Sure, that's EXACTLY the point that the game is trying to get across, but it doesn't make sense for Chara.
The only context you see them in is at the very end of a Genocide run, and you almost always hear bad things about them.
I get that people might just really want to save everyone, but they're kind of jumping the shark with some of the more recent claims (like that they're deeply depressed (I've noticed a lot of artwork with Chara having cuts on their arms recently)).
Shouldn't we have even one 100% evil character?
I mean, even Flowey has a bit of good in him, but still, we need to have SOMETHING as an "ultimate evil" of sorts.
Sorry for the rant, but I've just been perplexed by this.
It's 5 in the morning, and I should be asleep, but here I am, wondering why everyone is showing Chara as being depressed more than sociopathic/psychotic.
I mean, it doesn't mean that depression/a bad upbringing/any tragicness that we'll most likely never know about can't be one of the main factors, but still, it seems like we're trying to defend someone that wasn't meant to be defended. | I still believe that Chara is the sociopathic/psychotic individual that we saw them as originally instead of a deeply troubled depressed person that is just mad at the world for treating them the way they've been treated. | [
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I'm not even sure that the lack of combat scaling is an issue. Each different play style has a role to fill in game balance. If they were all the same, there would be no incentive to try anything else. | Every CMDR has the exact same game available to them. | [
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We have sex somewhat frequently, 2-5 times a week, but it's never what I hope for. She is a "destination girl", as she likes to say. I get her to cum all the time, that's not the problem. But I personally like the journey. I enjoy foreplay and like to go on for awhile before getting to the destination. She wants to just get it over with. She hates when we go on for more than 15 minutes because we "could be doing other things." I want to try other things than only missionary and her being on top- our two solid moves. I would like spontaneity in the bedroom and not have it be so planned out every time. Maybe use some toys, or dress up, or do literally ANYTHING different! She rarely gets horny on her own unless she sees other people doing it on tv so there's that... It's just getting to be too much. She did try oral a couple times recently but only for 20 strokes before stopping and asking if we could just do it. Same goes for handjobs which last all of 12 seconds before she's over it. I'm willing to go down on her, but she doesn't want that because she says sex feels way better to her. She is so closed minded but I don't want to break up over sex. I don't know what to do. I can't imagine this type of sex life to be something I want for the rest of my life. I just wonder if this is normal. She is well aware of my concerns. She has promised to make an effort to try new things but we never do. | Girlfriend likes to get there fast and is unadventurous. I like to take my time and try new things. | [
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Whilst journeying to my dwelling, I stumbled past an aroma so overpowering, it was almost as if my stomach was literally trying to eat the smell. Of course this smell was none other than a KFC, which I totally couldn't afford. Disappointed, and blazed to shit, the quest continues.
I hit the intersection connecting my street to the main road, and without even noticing I passed my turn and kept walking.
Next tthing I know, I'm standing at the Macs counter with a box of stuffing and a couple of Toonies I didn't even know I had. Naturally, I raced home, anticipating the soft warm stuffing that would soon be mine, inside of the short cooking time of 4 minutes.
The NEXT thing I know, I'm awake on my couch, it's 1:30pm, and there's untouched, stale stuffing sitting in my microwave.
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I still ate the stuffing. | I got really high, bought stuffing for munch, cooked it and fell asleep. Woke up to stale stuffing, totally worth every penny. | [
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UK) Before starting Year 10 we had to decide which 'options' we would take which was essentially like a menu of different subjects we could choose from for the final 2 years of school, but segregated off so that, for instance, the humanities subjects were in one block and you couldn't take geography and history, only one or the other.
Anyway, mostly this was fine, except that in one block I had to choose between music and informations systems. Now, to my 14 year old mind this was utterly ridiculous and entirely unfair given they were two subjects I completely excelled at. Anyway, I grudgingly chose information systems for it's 'future employability' potential and then quietly seethed about it all summer holiday.
Now aside from these 'options' there were also a number of subjects that were mandatory. Obviously maths, english and science were in there, but also (for reasons I will never understand to this day) we had to take 'design technology'. This was a subject that included things like cooking, graphic design, textiles etc. Essentially all subjects I utterly hated and had precisely zero interest in learning about.
Cue first week of school, and first design technology lesson. I turn up to class about as enthusiastic as a turkey in December and as they get to the end of the attendance register at the start I realise my name hasn't been called. I go to the teacher and ask if I didn't hear my name and she checks and tells me that I'm not on the register so I must be in the wrong class. "Hmmm" I think, "that's odd". So off I trot to the other DT class and walk in and ask that teacher if my name is on his register. He checks.... Nope, my name isn't on that one either.
At that point a wild idea appears from the long grass.
I realise that due to some administrative mix up, my name hasn't been put on to any DT attendance register so, theoretically, I literally have nowhere I should be for the duration of DT lessons...
Now, in order for this next bit to make sense you need to know that at that time the music block for my school was in a separate portacabin type building a little away from the main school building and that it had two large classrooms but also about 15 small rooms, each with a piano, each lockable from the inside.
So, off I went to the music block and used the time I should be in DT to lock myself in a small room, play my guitar, write songs and generally teach myself music theory and technique. I was constantly expecting someone to notice that first time and was nervous as anything, but nope, the bell went for lunch, I rejoined my friends and no one said a thing. Everybody from students to teachers just assumed I was in the class that they weren't.
I then proceeded to do exactly the same thing for every single DT lesson for the next 2 years, completely unnoticed..... until....
Three weeks before we were due to go on study leave for the GCSE exams my form tutor happened to be walking to the music block when he knew I should be in DT and caught me completely red handed. Words cannot describe how much I was pooping my pants at that moment as the whole story unfolded, and it was discovered I'd not attended a single DT lesson in the last 2 years.
A meeting was called with my dad, the headmaster, the DT teachers and the music teacher after school the next day.
So I turn up for this meeting pretty much terrified of what might happen. Everyone was there except the music teacher who was running late. Various sanctions were being thrown around - expulsion being seriously discussed. I really thought I was going to have completely screwed up my academic record. Then the music teacher came bursting in, and I don't say this lightly, but I think in what has to rank in the top three greatest moments of my life proclaimed that he couldn't believe they were even considering punishing me. That he would personally vouch that I had a singular talent for music he had rarely witnessed before and if anything he thought I should be rewarded for my ingenuity. I swear, as a heterosexual male I think that's the closest I've ever come to loving another man in a sexy sexy way, even despite the beard.
I was sent out at that point, I couldn't really make out exactly what was said but the upshot was I ended up not being punished except I was still to sit the DT GCSE exams despite not doing the classes.
So I sat the exams, completely winging them but shocked at how basic they were.
Got a C in both, so passed. | skipped a subject I hated for two years to do something I loved instead. Got caught at the last moment. Still passed the exams and went completely unpunished. | [
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When I was 16 I had sex with this girl from one of my classes. Couple weeks pass and she tells me that she's pregnant. I lose it. I have never been more scared in my teenage life. I was thinking about going to school and getting a good job and all the normal stuff.. and me being 16 it's like the world is ending. This goes on for a couple weeks. Deep depression, suicidal thoughts, all of it.
Then after another few weeks goes by one of her friends tells me that she lied and that she was trying to get pregnant with some other guy and then say it's mine. I guess she thought my family was rich or something. That was one crazy bitch, and my life would have been totally different if I would have been a father. | Girl lied and told me I got her pregnant, tried to get pregnant with another dude and claim me as the father for child support. | [
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Right? I was talking to this older dude and he was baffled when I brought that up. I said that noone would care if 45 yr old woman was dating a 65 yr old man, but people would question a 45 yr old man dating a 65 yr old woman. | the only people who talk about ~ageless-ness~ are Creeps | [
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My dad taught me how to drive, but it wasn't until I was much older that I realized the ways his simple advice carried over into other aspects of life. He would say these things, even outside the context of driving.
Watch out for the idiots. = I trust you to do the right thing, but look out for those around you, who might not do the right thing, intentionally or otherwise.
Don't look into their lights, watch your lines. = Don't be blinded by the headlights of oncoming cars, use your lane markers to keep your bearings. =Don't let others distract you from your own path. Also helpful for speaking situations, when the lights can be intimidating.
Steer into the skid. = Excellent advice when you hit ice, also, remain calm when things go wrong. Don't panic. Don't overcorrect. Just do what you need to, when the moment calls for it.
If you're rushing, you're already late. Leave enough time to enjoy the drive. = My dad was not only committed to me getting where I was going, in one piece, but he was always pointing out interesting.things along a road...things most of us missed.
Know where you fit, and be there every chance you get. = He first said this while teaching me to.parallel park. I used to call him, triumphant, when I was able to park in a spot most wouldn't take because they didn't have the skills. I didn't realize until much later, that my dad noticed when I talked about people who understood and cared about me,vs the people I had more limited friendships with. Know where you fit and be there every chance you get was his way of encouraging me in the meaningful relationships.
Always tell someone where you're going. = This applied to turn signals, going out on dates, hiking, and goal setting. Brilliant.
My dad was fucking awesome. I miss him every day. | I thought my dad was just teaching me how to drive, instead he taught me to navigate anything. | [
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I can't believe I let it get this bad. I feel horrible knowing the pain I've caused you. No one deserves to be treated that way, and I don't blame you one bit for leaving me. I smothered you, I was controlling, I squeezed and pushed, and on top of it all, after every chance you gave me, I was jealous. Writing this all now is embarrassing. I see how disgustingly selfish and awful I was to you. I'm so ashamed. And I can't believe I ever did that. I took you and your love for granted. Losing you has made me realize that is not to be put up with, by anyone.
I want to stop focusing on the negative. I feel awful, as I should, but I want to put forth all I have in an effort to change. Here is how I'm changing:
From now on I only want to be happy and to have fun. You have said you want to enjoy life, and you're absolutely right, it's too short to be miserable.
An extension of this, I want to start LIVING life. Going out and doing things. No more homebody. I've joined the gym, I'm going to take a few classes there a week, I want to hike, and before this whole thing started I had been wanting to go back to the range, just you and I. I want to walk along the beach during the sunrise. I want to enjoy more music. I want to do more art. I have goals and dreams and I want to share yours.
I swear to you I will control my jealousy until it ends. You don't believe me, I'm sure. Another spurt of jealousy and you can throw me out. THAT is how confident I am that I'm done with it. It's pointless. It has ruined us. I have ruined us. It's the worst thing about me, and I'm so sorry you had to deal with it. I'm serious. I'm through with it. Look at what it has cost me.
I will not be so concerned with where you are/who you're with. That is none of my concern. It is your life. You are free to live it how you please, and I do not need to be so clingy. If you give me this second chance, or even a trial period, you will see. Take as many days as you want for you and your friends. Go out as much as you like. That is who you are. You love your friends and you want to be with them. There is no reason I should ever try to stop you from enjoying the things that you enjoy.
I will not push. I intend to not fight with you at all, ever, anymore. Of course people have their spats, but no more jealously, no more pushing, no more controlling. I want you to feel free and happy. If I ever have an issue I have learned it's never as bad as I think it is. I'm not going to get caught up on petty things anymore.
I will respect your privacy and your space.
I will become a delight to be with, and nothing else. No stress. If at any point I become a burden or a stress in your life, I will leave. But please give me a chance to show you the new me.
I've taken a good long look at myself. I can't believe I did this.
You may be thinking that it doesn't make sense for me to just magically be able to see all of my wrongs and to fix them all at once so I want to explain how I got here.
I always thought of what you were doing to me. How you were affecting me. My feelings, MY wants MY needs, ME ME ME. I would always look at things and think "I wouldn't do that to him" "I wouldn't have said that" and I thought that this was putting myself in your shoes, looking at it from your perspective. When the redditors started calling me selfish and self centered I didn't understand. I thought that I always put you first and there was no way I was selfish. I was wrong. I never truly looked at it from your perspective. I thought I was, but I didn't see how I was acting and treating you. I can see it now, and when I first did it was a shock. I was completely selfish. Never giving you what you needed because of how I felt, what I needed, what I wanted. And all of those things that I thought I needed and wanted were me being clingy and controlling. I couldn't understand for the longest time how I was affecting you, I could only think "How can he do this to ME".
I've been shown how ridiculous I was. I'm truly disgusted and remorseful and I never wish to be anything like that ever again.
I'm not asking you to take me back. I'm asking you to give me a chance to show you how I have changed, and how I will be if you will take me back. Let me be on a trial as your girlfriend for a week and I will show you. I'm so confident in how I've changed. I would not want to you be with the old me, it would not be fair to ask that. But I think that you are great and I want you in my life and you said you felt the same way so it would be perfect if I could be the girlfriend you want.
Changing was not as hard as it seems it would be. Yes, I'm making huge changes in the way I act, but after seeing it and how bad it was it was not hard to do at all. It was like an overweight person seeing themselves in a mirror for the first time. I felt disgusted, and wanted to change. And I mean it, if at anytime you feel as though I haven't changed or I can't make you happy, I will leave. I don't want you to be with me if it's not good. But please give me this chance to show you how I've changed, and how it can be good. | I'm sorry. | [
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Once he saw there was a bigass storm coming that would crimp the boat schedule, why didn't he just call it off for that night and plan it for another time? I feel like I recall hearing someone (maybe the Samuel Jackson technician, or maybe Nedry himself) saying that there wouldn't be another boat out of the island for another X days/weeks/months, and that's why he wanted to get it done that night, but I searched the script and didn't find anything like that. Or did he feel a desire to synchronize the theft with the visit of the others (generally a time when the park's technicians and Hammond would be busier)? Or was BioSyn pushing him with a tight deadline (which doesn't make sense; he has access to the embryos, so he's the one in power). Maybe the novel has details that answers this question? | Why did Nedry insist (to himself) to do the job that stormy night? | [
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I currently have this cpu ( on a LGA1366 Socket, would the upgrade to this ( and a new mobo be worth the cost for the performance increase? Will I notice or should I just upgrade the video cards and call it a day?
I'm not a hardcore gamer, but I do play every now and then, my cards right now don't perform as well as i'd like. This was built in 2010, so it is getting old and I am getting the bug to do a new build, but I don't think I'll gain much noticeable performance.
Speccy link: [Imgur]( | Should I upgrade LGA1366 6core i7x to LGA2011 6core i7x?
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They came out much faster and darker than anticipated. So much so that this morning, I boiled a pot of water with the mechanical thermometer I used last night, and my fancy digital one.
According to the mechanical, I reached rolling boil at 160 deg. F.
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I just bought a new Dell Inspiron 15 7537 with built-in touchscreen for college, which starts early next week for me. About an hour into first turning on the laptop the desktop and all windows on it became unresponsive to my touchpad/mouse and touchscreen. The cursor responded just fine and touchscreen registered input, but it neither affected the windows, icons, or the desktop interface itself. Opening the start screen with the keyboard worked fine, and the start screen and all apps responded perfectly with the touchpad/mouse and touchscreen. I can also navigate the desktop and windows using the keyboard in a limited fashion. Hardware diagnostic passed and I updated touchpad and video drivers. Restarting the latop fixes this problem until it occurs again. Any help on resolving this issue would be amazing! Thanks. | My desktop interface stops responding to any mouse cursor input. Start screen/menu responds to it just fine.
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I used to work for my family business, which happens to be the largest collection of reptiles in the western hemisphere.
As is the nature of our temporary existence, some of the animals would occasionally die. When this would happen,
fortunately not very often, you have to do something with the body. Basically our solution was a rather large hole in the ground.
One summer working there one of the gators died. It fell upon me to load the fella up in the back of a truck and drive him
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Hey! I'm James. I'm from the Chicago area and have been out for about 8 months now. I come from a very conservative, Catholic area and let's just say it isn't the best place to be out.
Besides that, I came here for some advice. A semi-close friend of mine that I've lost touch with (just graduated high school) has gone all Jesus and has started telling me that I can be saved by the Lord and all of that stuff. He even told me that being gay is a choice.
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So I just ended a 3 year relationship with my boyfriend today. I don't feel particularly heartbroken or anything like that, and I did love him. I think what I'm feeling now is just extreme emptiness/loneliness. I was so used to being on Skype with him all day every day. It's been a long time since I've just been by myself, and I think this is what's actually making me sad. Will this feeling of loneliness go away or get better...? | broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years due to school/not doing much together anymore. feeling super lonely. does it get better? | [
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I have heard men in the past really freak out over the idea of neutering a male dog, while I have never heard a man object to spaying a bitch. I recently got into an argument that seemed to me to make zero sense. It was basically like "well I wouldn't be myself without my balls and I can't imagine doing that to a dog". But I have a neutered male dog who is an amazing animal and seems happy and fulfilled, as much as a dog could be so I was just like "Look at Moose. He is fine. I don't get it". I think it's better for a male dog to be neutered, and safer, because they don't roam and don't have strong sexual impulses they can't act on. I have also been told they are less prone to aggressive behaviour and I believe all the books on the subject back me up.
Didn't make a difference...
The conversation went on and on and I don't think he had any reasonable ground to stand on. Can anyone here prove me wrong? Thanks guys! | explain to me why it's such a sin to rob a male dog of it's balls.
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I am a 19 year old male who has always seemed to have issues lasting longer than 2 minutes during sex. I know how to fix this and why it happens, so don't worry about that. But my question is (for males or females), how long can you masturbate without feeling the urge of orgasming while you are not looking at porn/having sex? How about when you watch porn?
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Steering Sensitivity: 20
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Brake: 0
Sensitivity: 30
Speed Sensitivity: 65
Controller Filtering Sensitivity: 45
Input mode: 3
Advanced: On
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Visual Wheel Filtering: Off
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Keep in mind that these settings offer, for me at least, a comfortable long distance drive upwards of 20+ laps as I race only in Multi-Class unless I do some Spec race sprints. It also allows you to skip creating setups unless you end up like me with the Radical. | Just copy the settings and enjoy the best racer Xbox One has to offer. | [
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I'm sure many of us here, including myself, have received a ban (no matter how long, for a silly reason, such as: Computer crash, csgo crash, internet disconnection, and many other reasons.
In my case, I had a corrupted texture. The server proceeded to kick me, and told me my file didn't match the servers file .
This is not the first time that this had happened (not sure of why it was, but that isn't the problem here) So, I quit CS:GO, verified my game cache, re-downloaded the missing/corrupted ones, and re-launched csgo.
Upon entering the menu, it allowed me to re-enter my game (with the standard "You have disconnected from your match" giving me the option to reconnect, or abandon the match) so I clicked reconnect.
I played a few more rounds with my team, and then they surrendered, because they were getting beat fairly badly, and I'm sure it was my fault. So, the match ended, and upon getting sent back to the main menu, it told me that I had a 7 day ban.
Yes. These bans are irreversible, that isn't what I'm talking about, I don't need the ban to be reversed.
My original thought would just have a system where you could talk to someone at valve/steam who you could talk to about the reason you were banned. But, instantly, the tough came to me that this system would just be abused by people who deserve it, making up reasons for being kicked.
I have a suggestion, that as, either before issued with an official ban, or very soon after that, similar, to the Overwatch program, their match is sent to a person who watches the match, complete with text box (as this could help with seeing a players thought process and maybe the reasoning for their actions) and the console to see why a person was kicked. (if they just clicked leave game/attacked your teammates viciously vs. "Your file doesn't match servers file ) The person watching, could determine the reason they left, and in my case, see that I joined back in, and then was issued the ban. And have a way to rule that the ban was undeserved, resulting in the removal of a ban.
There are a few problems with this system, maybe it would get bogged down because too many people are getting banned daily, and the people couldn't watch these matches quickly enough.
Maybe his system would not allow accounts that have been banned via the Overwatch system. And, not for any ban that requires a cool down of less than 2 hours. (because, 2 hours, you can deal with for your computer crashing, but 24h and 7 days is just a bit ridiculous for when you did nothing wrong)
Please, let me know what you think of this idea. Why it wouldn't work, and why it might.
Maybe tell of the times you have been banned unreasonably, and for how long.
Lets start a discussion on how to have a system where people who get banned undeservingly, can have their bans removed. | A system similar to overwatch where the text box and console are visible, the person(s) watching would determine the reason for a players action, and determine wether or not they deserve the ban they were issued. (this does not apply for bans issued via overwatch/suspected hacking, nor bans less than 2 hours)
Thank you for reading.
-Drewshoo | [
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I was dating my ex-girlfriend and things were going visibly great. She loved me, I loved her. I loved her considerably more than she loved me, but I let this slide. I am quite a loving person, as you'll find out later. Probably because I loved her so much, I was not keen on letting her go. We spoke every single day and we were both totally cool with that. It was nice.
But here's where the word "visibly" comes into play; she was a two-faced girl. I noticed this too late. She said one thing and meant another...in simple terms; she lied to me a lot. And often times I found out but I still loved her too much to care or act. We argued a little but we resolved anything in a matter of hours.
Sometimes her lying was to “protect me”; sometimes it was just to lie. And by lie, I mean she talked about me behind my back. She nonchalantly spoke about my shortcomings as if I was born to be perfect. It was harmful enough that she did it, even worse that she then tried to brush it off and say she was actually talking generic girl things such as Tumblr. She wasn't and I could tell.
My girlfriend put me through quite a lot, but being a good boyfriend I loved her and ignored her flaws because if I couldn't accept her at her worst, I didn't deserve her at her best, right? Unfortunately, my ex-girlfriend had a habit of ignoring me sometimes and instead speaking to her male friend of whom we'll call Jake.
Now, I have absolutely no problem with my girlfriends having (male) friends, I'm not nearly as possessive as that. I tried to be understanding and sincere, but when I actually had to lose my private time with her just so she could speak to him, in all honesty it pissed me off. And she wanted to speak to him more than me from where I was standing and she got fucking mad when I called her on it.
I don't think she has feelings for him, so I kept that in mind. Now don’t get me wrong and I will re-establish this fact: Jake is a nice guy and I can see why they’re friends. It wasn’t his fault at all; she was just showing disrespect towards me, her boyfriend, given the circumstances. I hope you don’t see me as an overly attached boyfriend, because in writing it seems that way. I wasn’t that bad.
Moving on. With every little thing building up, the stress was really starting to hit heavy. On top of this, my girlfriend began to imply that she needed space. Understandably, I gave her space. It was probably good for me too – I didn’t cling to her like you guys probably think I did by now, but we were close. We spoke less frequently but still rather frequently none the less. I was okay with this. Maybe this was where we first started drifting apart; we spoke less. I don’t know.
My girlfriend also noted that sometimes she felt confused about her emotions, for example she still had feelings for her ex-boyfriend during the entire relationship, despite the fact that they broke up two years ago and he hates her currently. This is the sort of behaviour which fucked us over. Naturally, I put this past us and I loved her all the same and she told me that she still did in fact love me. She told me that her ex-boyfriend was not as good as me. Even though she dreamed about the good times her ex-boyfriend had with her, I tried not to care but it was really killing me inside. And yes, she did dream about him.
All the little things. Every little thing built up inside of me and emotionally I was a fucking wreck. Looking back, it doesn’t seem like it was all that bad in writing, but imagine the heart ache lasting for an extended period of time, especially for a sensitive person such as myself. Okay, it was pretty painful. But again, I loved her too much to let her go.
Then the time come, she finished with me. Because I was so used to having her in my life, the lack of her came as a shock and naturally we both felt pretty sad. For some reason, I had experienced so many emotions with her prior to the break up that when she did in fact finish with me, I barely even cried. All of the feelings were inside of me and I only shared them with about two of my friends. One of these friends of which actually brought me to my senses into realising how much of a bitch this girl actually was to me beneath the surface.
Naturally with most break ups, I WAS sad. I felt like everything that happened was my fault and to be fair, a lot of the arguments we had were down to my insecurities, branching from her making me insecure. But the sadness only lasted a week and now I’m so happy because my feelings are all under control and I can continue living. | Girlfriend was a bitch to me for ages and I took her shit because I loved her. Eventually she had enough with me, dumped me and I was sad for like a week. My friends brought me to my senses and now I realise she was a huge bitch and doesn’t deserve me. | [
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Sorry to be that guy, but to all the supposed grammar police in this thread, me isn't correct either. The sentence should be "My friend, who is a tiny bit afraid of heights, and myself at the Grand Canyon". Me is not the proper form for a subjective noun. Me is generally only used in prepositional clauses such as "Don't make fun (of me)" or "A picture (of me) at the Grand Canyon)". You aren't the Hulk, so stop trying to speak like a caveman. | Know your grammar before attempting to be a grammar nazi.
Edit: My apologies, myself is not correct either. The subject in these kind of cases is understood. "(A picture) of my friend and me/myself at the Grand Canyon" Me and myself are generally interchangable. | [
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Define "skinhead gear"?
I mean, if you are wearing a pair of work boots with red laces, a Bound For Glory shirt and dockers "work shorts" then yea...I would assume that you were a bonehead...but then again, I have seen freshcuts do this same exact thing who were extremely confused about what it really means to be in that particular subculture.
That's what makes them so easy to pick them out - They are usually the only ones wearing their politics in the form of clothing. They WANT people to know that they have garbage political views because they are hoping to "contribute to the cause" through violence.
If you walk into a show in Seattle like that though, or even a show in Boise, I promise you, you wont walk out on your own.
At the end of the day, a huge part of the scene is having pride in yourself and the community that you contribute to, which also means keeping it drama free and safe for the younger generations who want to see what it's about. Its not about your color. Its not your politics. Its not your religion. Its you and what you are doing for your scene.
I have lived in many places and have been in the scene for almost 20 years now. If people want to assume that someone else that they have never met before is a Nazi based solely on the fact that they have a shaved head and is wearing boots, then until proven otherwise I put them into the same category of people that think just because a person has tattoos they will never be a contributing member of society. | What you are arguing is no different that thinking that all black people are bad just because you grew up in a predominantly black neighborhood and got jumped a few times. At the end of the day, its ignorant, no matter how you want to spin it or what your justification for it is. | [
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I find it hard to find anyone who is interested in the same kinds of things as me... Anyone know some good basics to meeting girls with the same interests?
Thanks to everyone who comments... I really appreciate it!
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For all who want to read my story:
I was at a restaurant with some friends, and I had ordered a cup of lukewarm Iced Tea (because I have some minor sensitivity with cold/hot liquids). A bit later on the waitress came back with a cup of cold Iced Tea with ice cubes in it. I mentioned that I had ordered a cup of lukewarm Iced Tea and also told her about my teeth's sensitivity. She half-heartedly apologized and left with my cup. A little later, a different waitress had came back with (I'm assuming) the same cup of cold Iced Tea, filled with ice cubes. I told this waitress the same thing I told the last one (note, that I'm still being friendly). About 15 minutes pass and still no drink, by this time my patience was kind of running thin. I then see the original waitress walk by and I called her over and said that I still haven't gotten the Iced tea I ordered, and she told me she would get it for me, and left. 10 minutes later she comes back with some of our food and angrily and hurriedly placed the plates down and then when she went to place the cup down by me, it slipped out of her hand and into my lap. Yup. Not Iced Tea, water. | Asked a waitress for lukewarm iced tea, and despite several attempts, it never was lukewarm but really cold. On the third attempt, (clearly angry), she came back with a drink, and it "slipped" out of her hand, and into my lap (and as a bonus, it was only water) | [
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Please don't select dungeon leader when you que for a dungeon unless you are prepared to teach people any/all mechanics if need be.
So many times (increasingly lately for some reason) people que for leader and are not willing to explain to less experienced team mates the tactics, or even worse - flame people for not knowing the tactics.
I've been playing this game for a long time, and I have patience to teach people mechanics if need be - please only que for leader if you're like minded. | Don't que for leader unless you are prepared to do exactly that. | [
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I hope the "1997" in your username isn't your birthday because I really shouldn't even be arguing finances with someone your age.
To put it briefly:
Saving money doesn't build credit. Large ticket items (car, house, etc.) are often quite expensive and it would be difficult to simply save up enough to buy these things outright. This is where credit comes in. If I have no credit, I will be spending a LOT of money to finance a car/house. If I have good credit, I am seen as a lower risk to the bank and will receive much better rates. | Using credit cards can save you money in the long term. | [
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Hey Ladies! I had originally posted this in /r/loseit, but for some reason it didn't actually get posted on the subreddit until 9 hours later so almost no one saw it. I thought I would share my weight loss and fitness journey with you to give motivation to some of you. It is possible to lose weight and get fit! :) Enjoy!
[Progress Pictures](
I know that the pictures from 149lbs to 139lbs don’t look a whole lot different, but trust me, there is a huge difference! My legs are smaller and my midsection has also shrunken. I wish I would have taken better pictures that were consistent, but I can't go back into time now! I also wished I would have measured myself. Oh well I guess!
September 2011
My husband and I went to go visit his parents over Labor Day weekend and made a mini-vacation out of it since we rarely make the 8-9 hour trip there. They live on a gorgeous private lake so anytime we are there during the summer we are always in our bathing suits enjoying the sun. I was already uncomfortable at the weight I was at and being in a swimming suit the whole 5 days was almost painful. I was surrounded by my in-laws who are all very fit and active and I just felt like a blob. My mother-in-law also loves to cook and have food readily available at all times so we were constantly eating. I don’t even want to know how much food and alcohol I consumed over those few days.
Once we get home from the vacation, I decide to weigh myself. 164.8lbs. I was speechless. I knew that the numbers on the scale would be more than what I would normally like to see, but DAMNIT! How did I let myself get this heavy? I know that it is not that overweight for a female coming in at 5’5” but it was the heaviest I have ever been in my entire 25 years of living. That was the day that I knew I needed to start changing my life.
I started buying more vegetables, lean meats, and fruits at the grocery store. My husband and I love to grill, so grilled chicken breasts was becoming a weekly dinner. I started eating a spinach salad for lunch almost every day. I started taking my dog for 3+ mile walks almost every day. This was about the most physical thing I could do since I was recovering from a lower back injury that happened back in July.
October
My husband is an engineer for a very well known cycling company and was able to [get this pretty lady]( for me for a really good price. I started riding the bicycle everywhere. I started doing some longer rides on a few of the highways around here and even went for a ~30 mile bike ride one day when I was really bored.
Mid-October I decided that I wanted to have a steady workout schedule so I [came up with this schedule]( I was doing 20-30 minute yoga videos right when I rolled out of bed every morning. I had P90X for quite some time and actually finished the program my last year of college. I decided that I wanted to do some sort of weight lifting so I incorporated the P90X videos into my work outs. I wanted to get some good cardio by bike riding or running. Did I mention that I had been unemployed since May? That is how I had so much time to do all of this. I decided to make working out, getting healthy and losing weight my JOB.
The end of October a friend of mine and my husband’s wanted to start doing an online calorie counting diary. By this time I had lost about 5lbs and wanted to lose another 20. I thought I was eating healthy so why not? It can’t hurt. Right before this, I had found reddit and accidentally found /r/loseit. I told him that the reddit community really liked myfitnesspal.com started tracking calories every day and I had mine set to lose a pound per week (so a 500 calorie daily deficit). HOLY COW! I never ever EVER realized how much I was overeating EVERY SINGLE DAY! So I started measuring EVERYTHING I ate, not eyeballing the portion size. My husband and I invested in a food scale and this helped tremendously. Even though I was eating healthy foods, I was eating A LOT of them.
I also decided that I wanted to get into running. After searching different running programs, I found /r/c25k. I figured this would be a great program that would slowly build me into a runner. Shortly after I started this, a friend of mine that regularly runs half marathons talked me into registering for a half marathon in June 2012.
November & December
From October 23 (the day we started counting calories) until November 23 I had lost a little over 10lbs. I was ecstatic that this was actually working! I was drinking a ton of water, eating healthy foods and the appropriate portions of the foods and I never really felt hungry. I think my thought processes about food have changed by this point. Food is more for energy than enjoyment.
Like everyone else I had a slight mishap with Thanksgiving and ate a little bit more than I should but I decided as long as I still worked out I would be OK. Christmas was another story as we went to my in-laws place for an extended stay again. Even though we told my mother-in-law that we were trying to diet and eat well, she still made a ton of food and desserts. I am pretty sure I went over my calorie limit almost every day we were there.
I have known that I had celiac's disease for over a year but had a ton of issues going onto a gluten free day. Finally in December I decided that it was time that I start this. I started buying gluten free noodles, breads, flour, baking mixes, etc. My mom has been eating gluten free for about 10 years so being gluten free was nothing foreign to me. I started finding great recipes that tasted no different than regular foods. My husband even likes the gluten free pizza crust better than the regular crust I used to make.
Right after we got back from Christmas with the in-laws I received a great job offer. I took the job and started immediately. This has affected my workout schedule slightly as I have stopped doing the morning yoga. Most days I get home from work and just don’t want to do anything, but I have this little voice in the back of my mind that tells me I have to do it to get to where I want to be. I finished C25K right before Christmas and have kept running since then. I was right at 10 minute miles and running about 3 miles per day, 3 times a week.
January
This month started about by completing a Resolution 5K on the morning of the 1st. My goal was to finish under 30 minutes and was able to do it in 29:56. I joined a group of runners that run together every Tuesday and feel that this has aided me in getting a faster pace. At the moment I am closer to a 9-9:30 mile and am slowly adding mileage to my runs each week. I am still lifting weights 3 times a week by using the P90X videos. I have never been so in shape in my entire life.
When I woke up this morning I decided to just weigh myself for the hell of it and -the scale said 139.8lbs. I almost could not believe my eyes! 139lbs has been my goal weight since I started this journey and am just amazed that I finally reached it.
With my new job, I get a great discount to one of the local (and the largest) gym in my area. Once I get my first pay check (we only get paid once a month at the end of the month), I am going to get a membership for my husband and I so I can start doing some more lifting than with just dumbbells. I have briefly looked into Starting Strength and want to try this out.
I am so proud of myself and now I have a new goal: be a happy, healthy woman who has tons of self confidence. Yes, I would like to lose even more weight now since I have experienced that I CAN DO THIS, but it is not as important anymore (ok, I want to try to get down to 135lbs now!! :). I have so much more confidence than I have had in quite some time. I have a great job, a great husband, great family and friends, and a great support community. If it was not for YOU, REDDIT (people of /r/loseit, /r/fitness, /r/c25k, /r/xxfitnes), I would not be where I am today. Everyone here is so inspirational and helpful. THANK YOU REDDIT FOR GETTING ME HERE!! | THANK YOU REDDIT FOR HELPING ME LOSE 25lbs! :) | [
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They live on a gorgeous private lake so anytime we are there during the summer we are always in our bathing suits enjoying the sun. I was already uncomfortable at the weight I was at and being in a swimming suit the whole 5 days was almost painful. I was surrounded by my in-laws who are all very fit and active and I just felt like a blob. My mother-in-law also loves to cook and have food readily available at all times so we were constantly eating. I don’t even want to know how much food and alcohol I consumed over those few days. \n Once we get home from the vacation, I decide to weigh myself. 164.8lbs. I was speechless. I knew that the numbers on the scale would be more than what I would normally like to see, but DAMNIT! How did I let myself get this heavy? I know that it is not that overweight for a female coming in at 5’5” but it was the heaviest I have ever been in my entire 25 years of living. That was the day that I knew I needed to start changing my life. \n I started buying more vegetables, lean meats, and fruits at the grocery store. My husband and I love to grill, so grilled chicken breasts was becoming a weekly dinner. I started eating a spinach salad for lunch almost every day. I started taking my dog for 3+ mile walks almost every day. This was about the most physical thing I could do since I was recovering from a lower back injury that happened back in July. \n October \n My husband is an engineer for a very well known cycling company and was able to [get this pretty lady]( for me for a really good price. I started riding the bicycle everywhere. I started doing some longer rides on a few of the highways around here and even went for a ~30 mile bike ride one day when I was really bored. \n Mid-October I decided that I wanted to have a steady workout schedule so I [came up with this schedule]( I was doing 20-30 minute yoga videos right when I rolled out of bed every morning. I had P90X for quite some time and actually finished the program my last year of college. I decided that I wanted to do some sort of weight lifting so I incorporated the P90X videos into my work outs. I wanted to get some good cardio by bike riding or running. Did I mention that I had been unemployed since May? That is how I had so much time to do all of this. I decided to make working out, getting healthy and losing weight my JOB. \n The end of October a friend of mine and my husband’s wanted to start doing an online calorie counting diary. By this time I had lost about 5lbs and wanted to lose another 20. I thought I was eating healthy so why not? It can’t hurt. Right before this, I had found reddit and accidentally found /r/loseit. I told him that the reddit community really liked myfitnesspal.com started tracking calories every day and I had mine set to lose a pound per week (so a 500 calorie daily deficit). HOLY COW! I never ever EVER realized how much I was overeating EVERY SINGLE DAY! So I started measuring EVERYTHING I ate, not eyeballing the portion size. My husband and I invested in a food scale and this helped tremendously. Even though I was eating healthy foods, I was eating A LOT of them. \n I also decided that I wanted to get into running. After searching different running programs, I found /r/c25k. I figured this would be a great program that would slowly build me into a runner. 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I am pretty sure I went over my calorie limit almost every day we were there. \n I have known that I had celiac's disease for over a year but had a ton of issues going onto a gluten free day. Finally in December I decided that it was time that I start this. I started buying gluten free noodles, breads, flour, baking mixes, etc. My mom has been eating gluten free for about 10 years so being gluten free was nothing foreign to me. I started finding great recipes that tasted no different than regular foods. My husband even likes the gluten free pizza crust better than the regular crust I used to make. \n Right after we got back from Christmas with the in-laws I received a great job offer. I took the job and started immediately. This has affected my workout schedule slightly as I have stopped doing the morning yoga. Most days I get home from work and just don’t want to do anything, but I have this little voice in the back of my mind that tells me I have to do it to get to where I want to be. I finished C25K right before Christmas and have kept running since then. I was right at 10 minute miles and running about 3 miles per day, 3 times a week. \n January \n This month started about by completing a Resolution 5K on the morning of the 1st. My goal was to finish under 30 minutes and was able to do it in 29:56. I joined a group of runners that run together every Tuesday and feel that this has aided me in getting a faster pace. At the moment I am closer to a 9-9:30 mile and am slowly adding mileage to my runs each week. I am still lifting weights 3 times a week by using the P90X videos. I have never been so in shape in my entire life. \n When I woke up this morning I decided to just weigh myself for the hell of it and -the scale said 139.8lbs. I almost could not believe my eyes! 139lbs has been my goal weight since I started this journey and am just amazed that I finally reached it. \n With my new job, I get a great discount to one of the local (and the largest) gym in my area. Once I get my first pay check (we only get paid once a month at the end of the month), I am going to get a membership for my husband and I so I can start doing some more lifting than with just dumbbells. I have briefly looked into Starting Strength and want to try this out. \n I am so proud of myself and now I have a new goal: be a happy, healthy woman who has tons of self confidence. Yes, I would like to lose even more weight now since I have experienced that I CAN DO THIS, but it is not as important anymore (ok, I want to try to get down to 135lbs now!! :). I have so much more confidence than I have had in quite some time. I have a great job, a great husband, great family and friends, and a great support community. 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You may have read some of my posts before. (33 HL here with a 35 LL hubby). Seriously realized today it's been over two years since I discovered DB. Thanks all. While I've experimented with ways to feel better or have some confidence back in myself I put the libdio on hold for the past six months or so. Yes. I've gone without the thought of sex for over six months. Not saying I havent craved or wanted it. But I've bit pressured or initiated. It hasn't happened. I'm definitely in a DB.
So with all that I've really been developing other friendships. Spending time with a dear friend and finding happiness without sex. Yesterday I was at work. I had three things happen I'm not sure how to take.
I had a repair guy coming to fix something his company previously bid on. Anyway he immediately came into my office and said he was excited to be on the job, as previously coming in he wanted to know if I was willing to go out with him. Ummmmm what?
(Update since my previous trying phase of waxing, wearing makeup everyday,doing my hair I've pretty much given up. I haven't worn makeup in months. I actually had not showered that morning. I am sick and was hacking up a lung.)
I thanked him but told him I have been in a relationship for 13 years. He put his head down and went to work.
About an hour later one of the estimators who had left the company but was there previously to look over the repairs with the first guy knocked on my office door (forgetting he left the company I let him know the guys started a few hours earlier). He stood in my doorway with his hand in his jacket and said he had come by Friday but I was in another office, and that he waited all weekend to come back. He pulled his hand from his jacket and held a single long stem red rose and promptly asked me on a date. I thanked him and let him know I was in fact in a relationship. I saw his marine patch on his jacket and thanked him for his service and wished him a happy birthday.
Later that day the repairs were done. The first guy asked if I was happy in my relationship or if I needed someone to "get away with" I told him no.
I still don't get what to make of this. I don't know if I feel flattered or if I feel like I am creating more misery for myself by sitting here wallowing.
I went home and told the Hubbs about this and his response "well gotta give the guy credit for trying".
Yea. | 2+ years of DB and I get propositioned 3 times in one day by someone other than my Hubbs.
What the hell do I do? | [
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Hey everyone, first post.
I've read a lot about the drug online and even about possible research of its healing effects on PTSD patients and people with anxiety. A friend of mine regularly gets crystals and has been asking me to try. I'm a marijuana and shrooms kinda gal - I prefer what grows in the ground over what's produced in the lab. When I was younger I tried cocaine, and it was indescribably unique and an amazing experience, but the week of congestion and coughing afterwards make me say nay for the future.
With that being said, I don't plan on taking the MDMA, going to a rave, and dancing until my heart rate sky-rockets and I drop dead on the floor, so I don't think I have to worry about having a seizure or something. However, I'm still concerned about side-effects : short and long-term.
Anyone willing to share their opinions/experiences in as much of a non-biased way as possible? :D | Is MDMA as dangerous as everyone makes it out to be? Why or why not? | [
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Hello Everyone,
Recently, I heard of a way to potentially stop a drop hack from working, and after recently getting drop hacked in a game and testing the theory, it worked. So I decided to bring it to the forums for any player persistent enough to win a match and thwart drop hackers.
Granted, this method does take time but it was successful when me and a friend tested it after getting dropped. The theory was that if you keep clicking intermittently, the game will never remove you along with the rest of the players in the match and the game will not be removed from the server. In the game that I just got out of, we did this for approximately 30 minutes, and after a long while the game did in fact resume with only me, my friend, and the drop hackers in the match. Because of this, we were able to actually push the enemy nexus and get a win that stayed on our match history. | If a game is drop hacked and you click intermittently for a period of time, the game cannot end unless you give up and get booted for afk or the drop hacker stops the attack.
Since some people seem to be confused, you do not have to spam click like starless below me, you just have to often enough to not be marked afk. Just stay in game with the attempting to reconnect box and click every minute or 2 (or download an auto clicker)
this is not my text jsut copied it from the lol forum! the right parts triplamp
link: | [
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I have been dating my new GF for the past 3 weeks. I am 23, she is 21. We were friends in high school but after she broke up with her long time BF a few months ago I knew I had to go for it.
We have amazing chemistry, stay up all night talking, are completely connected and similar in every way.
So whats the problem? I am incredibly attracted to her, more so than I have been with any of my previous GF's and I make sure she knows. So you can imagine my frustration when every time I try to escalate she stops me. There have also been 2 times in my bed where she clearly was getting turned on and what would normally be the invitation to start with most girls it turns into her saying "not yet."
It's the boyfriend deliema. She has said as much. "I really really like you, I don't want to rush things." until last night she admitted she has only had sex with her only boyfriend. I was not expecting that. Help? | New GF of 3 weeks suddenly tells me shes only had sex with 1 other person. Don't know how to approach. | [
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So I have now agreed to do nearly every single bit of house work until I get enough money to pre-order sm4sh.
The hype simply just over took me and said "fuck it" and here I am now posting this. Hopefully it won't be too hard, I suck at everything but using a computer. I'm really looking forward to play sm4sh with all of you on the day of release, Palutena and Pac-man look really fun to play so I'm thinking of maining them. Wish me luck everyone! | Agreed to do every bit of house work to get sm4sh, hype is too stronk. | [
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I recently celebrated my 20th birthday, meaning I still have a small wait before I can purchase NFA items. It's been my impression that the minimum age of possession for an NFA item was 21. However, [this]( thread over at m4carbine.net has me a bit confused.
To summarize, the thread suggests that NFA items (machine guns excluded) can be legally constructed and/or purchased in private sales by individuals 18 years or older so long as state regulations don't say otherwise. And, even more important for my question, it suggests an 18 year old can be in possession of an NFA item assuming they are a member of a trust.
Can I (at 20) set up my own trust including, say, my dad and myself, then have my dad sign and turn in any paper work as well as purchase a suppressor (non-firearm item NFA item) from a dealer with cash I provide to him? Since it's not a firearm would it still be a straw purchase? Can I even set up an NFA trust? | Can I (20 years old) legally set up an NFA trust, then have my dad sign/file paperwork and purchase a suppressor with money I provide him with?
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So as a college student, I hold a work-study job as a custodial assistant, and most of what I do is vacuuming rooms. There was a break room that needed to be vacuumed, so I went up the elevator, walked into the room (the light was already on), and plugged in the vacuum cleaner. I turned it on and started in one direction that covered most of the floor. When I went back for what was left, I somehow failed to notice the cords for the window blinds and sucked them in, creating a screech and pulling up one side of the blinds.
I flipped the switch back off and laid it on the side to try to pull the cords back out. I initially made some progress and got the blinds themselves to where they were, but I couldn't get past a point and called the person in charge of day-to-day tasks in that building, who in turn called someone who actually knew how to take the vacuum cleaner apart.
Fortunately, that vacuum cleaner was brought from the first floor, and there was another on the third; furthermore, all I got so far for that fuckup was a warning from my boss to stop thinking of my nonexistent girlfriend while vacuuming. | Vacuumed blind cords; probably would have made more money staying in my dorm room that day. | [
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In an AP World History class, we had a teacher named Mrs. Lawrence who seemed to have little room for fun in her day. But one day, we all arrived nerve-wracked for the big midterm we had been studying for. She handed out a study guide that was remarkably vague a few weeks earlier. When we all got to our seats, she was not there. We talked about school policy over what to do if your teacher doesn't show up, and elected that if in 15 minutes she was still absent, we were entitled to leave.
About 10 minutes into class, she bursts through the door, arms overflowing with boxes and bags. We were all confused as to what was going on. She set everything down and began to apologize profusely. She then explained that the midterm we were taking today didn't exist. That she knew those of us with any desire to do well on the test at the end of the year would have studied anyway, so the actual test was of little consequence. With a normal class, I would object to this. But considering this was an advanced class, she was right.
She then began walking around, talking of history and governments throughout history. She was dropping poker chips on our desks this whole time, and she had not explained why. When she was done, she turned around and announced our lesson. It turns out that our midterm was a practical experiment. The chips on our desks were of varying colors, and some had stickers and things on them. This was supposed to represent how much money we had. There was a chart on the board that she put up, explaining exactly what each chip means. I had five in total. One of them was white with a gold sticker, two were emerald colored, and the last two were white with no sticker. This meant I was on of the top 5 richest people in the classroom. I was excited, but I had no idea what this meant. None of us did. She then told us that it was our job to go about trading, and try to become as rich as is possible. Trading seemed useless. Why would anyone trade down? Mostly people kept their own chips, and we all sat back down after the few minute round.
Next round was about to start, and this time she explained that for every chip you have in a set, the value doubles. For example, emerald chips (valued at 20 points) would be worth 60 points in a set of 3. This added a new dynamic to the game, and trading exploded. She then explained in the next round that values were dependent. The emeralds would only be worth 60 if you had 3 of them as well as some degree of whites. This was all coming together. We all began to see the implication of trading, and dependent surplus and the like. The chips were representative of different resources, and you need a variance of resources. But before we took lunch, she told us that the rest of the game was going to be of governmental application. We all theorized as to how the game would change.
But I took my friends aside. We were all deeply invested in the game. I told them that I wanted to organize our wealth. They hesitated, but I convinced them with an act of good faith. I gave out almost all of my chips, each of them got the ones that would treat them the best. They were all very rich as a result. When we returned, this paid off immediately. We were organized into groupings. There was a lower class, middle class, and governmental class. The very richest were in the government, and they could suddenly change the rules of the game. We could suggest rules, but they determined all of them. We had each group stand up before each trading round in order to issue requests for rule changes. Nearly all were rejected outright. The governmental group did everything within their power to maintain their own wealth. Suddenly taxes. Suddenly trading was replaced with government having the power to take anything they wanted. Suddenly the rich got richer and the poor got poorer. I was on the very poor end, because I gave all of my things away. But I had friends in the middle group, and many in the governmental group.
Three rounds before the game ended, I suggested a new rule. Nobody had suggested a rule in a dozen rounds. It wouldn't matter. It would be rejected. But I stood, and I suggested that we be given the ability to combine assets. Originally it was rejected by a few, but the majority agreed. What was the harm? My numbers in the top party helped as well. So next round, I tell each of my friends that it's time they payed me back. They had all made it to the government party, and I was the poorest of the poor. They each began to pour their wealth onto my own, and they all were brought to 0. I rose higher than anyone. Each of my friends believed they were a part of my wealth, and began to call it the [Yasupra] Corporation. So then people in the top group began to collect their assets and pool them into corporations, but each was too invested in their own personal empire to be able to give anything substantial to anyone else. One by one the middle and lower classes collected into a few corporations of their own. I sent out my investors to each of them, and they were brought under the Yasupra Corporation.
Mrs. Lawrence was awestruck, of course. She thought that she'd point out the folly of man and government, then we would be on our merry way. She didn't dream that every single point in that game would be brought under one individual, nor did she dream that everyone would be at a 0, save for me. She explained that the game had never taken such a drastic turn. Either it ended up with the governmental party having all or most of the money, or the governmental party took a communist approach. But never had someone so poor rigged the system like that. | Teacher tricked us into thinking we had a hard test. We played a trading/government game instead. I emptied out the account of every single player in the classroom. | [
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Why would anyone trade down? Mostly people kept their own chips, and we all sat back down after the few minute round. \n Next round was about to start, and this time she explained that for every chip you have in a set, the value doubles. For example, emerald chips (valued at 20 points) would be worth 60 points in a set of 3. This added a new dynamic to the game, and trading exploded. She then explained in the next round that values were dependent. The emeralds would only be worth 60 if you had 3 of them as well as some degree of whites. This was all coming together. We all began to see the implication of trading, and dependent surplus and the like. The chips were representative of different resources, and you need a variance of resources. But before we took lunch, she told us that the rest of the game was going to be of governmental application. We all theorized as to how the game would change. \n But I took my friends aside. We were all deeply invested in the game. I told them that I wanted to organize our wealth. They hesitated, but I convinced them with an act of good faith. I gave out almost all of my chips, each of them got the ones that would treat them the best. They were all very rich as a result. When we returned, this paid off immediately. We were organized into groupings. There was a lower class, middle class, and governmental class. The very richest were in the government, and they could suddenly change the rules of the game. We could suggest rules, but they determined all of them. We had each group stand up before each trading round in order to issue requests for rule changes. Nearly all were rejected outright. The governmental group did everything within their power to maintain their own wealth. Suddenly taxes. Suddenly trading was replaced with government having the power to take anything they wanted. Suddenly the rich got richer and the poor got poorer. I was on the very poor end, because I gave all of my things away. 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Here is where I write some inspirational text about how my dog (tibetan mastiff) went from 240 pounds to 90 pounds, whilst humblebragging about how I subtlety suggested a diet and exercise plan to him. I knew he would love olympic lifting so I wasn't surprised when he started deadlifting huuuuge weight.
of course here his before and after:
and here is a most recent picture: | Mydog'sjackked (PS shut up /r/fitness) | [
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Introduction:
Greetings, friends! How was your winter? Mine was cold, snowy, and miserable, I really hope yours was better. Lets not think about that though, Spring Training is here! Professional baseball teams are once again meeting up in a pre-determined, agreed upon place, and throwing/hitting a small ball around! This is truly a great time of the year. As I discussed about a month ago here beta testing their team, I will do the same with the Nightly Pick 'em system over the next few weeks. I've worked very closely with the ( godlike Mike Trout-like) /u/vacuum2440 on converting the hockey system to a baseball system, and I think the results are quite fantastic.
Overview:
That brings me to the Soft/Beta launch of /r/baseball's Nightly Pick 'em Game 2015! Now during this testing time the system should be running pretty well, but I will not rule out some bugs, and hiccups, hence why during Spring Training, things will be pretty informal (like why this is going to be starting a few days into spring training). During this soft launch, leaderboards will be kept, but rewards, and awards (which I'm still discussing with the mod team) will not take effect until the ultimate launch on opening day. This is strictly a testing period, and I seriously appreciate everybody who participates, and gives suggestions.
How to Play:
(Hopefully) Every day staring this Friday March 6th I will be posting a daily thread about todays game of choice. I will include not only a link to a Google Doc form where you can make your pick, as well as some other information and fun facts. Then rinse, and repeat the next day until the end of time. I do have a few questions I would like feedback on, but let's talk in the comments about that. In the mean time, please [vote here]( on the game we should pick on friday . After making your pick, you're also encouraged to confirm it in the comments of that days pick thread, just in case you misspell your username (but please don't), or make the wrong pick (please try not to do that either).
Other Random Info:
Huge shoutout to /u/vacuum2440, he's the mastermind behind the whole system. Without him this wouldn't be possible, because I'm literally too stupid to figure it out myself.
I'm also looking for one or two volunteers that could do the daily duty of posting the daily threads, and changing the presets inside the actual system in the off chance I am unable to do either one for a day or two for some reason. Please message me if you're interested.
That's about it, really. I'm looking forward to Friday! | Version:
Nightly Pick test run starts this Friday, March 6th .
Be sure to [vote here]( on which game we should pick Friday.
If this is the first time seeing this, [read part 1 here](
Please comment with any suggestions or issues you encounter. | [
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After a positive response to "[Is stretching other muscle groups between work sets okay?] ( I had organize. I'm planning on doing the [Starting Stretching] ( routine with a few additions for my weaknesses.
In each workout I have different stretches that I figure are best done
Between work sets
Between assistance sets
Only after the workout is complete
Warm up is kept simple with body weight push ups and squats, skipping if upper/lower body is already warm from the workout.
I organized my stretches into [this spreadsheet] ( Not much I can statically stretch while jogging / walking, but beyond that I think the routine will keep me pretty busy at rest times. I'd love any feedback if I've had an oversight somewhere, etc.
Thanks! | Spreadsheet for mixing Starting Stretching with workouts] ( | [
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I am on board with most everything smackshaw is saying. Additionally, I want to point out that reddit fantasy leagues have been notorious for having inactive owners. I know the upper divisions will have more dedicated fantasy players, but it will be so much easier for owners to lose interest in a 16 team league. This stands two-fold for roto-leagues. Can you imagine a season ending injury to a 1st or 2nd round pick (or both) in a deep roto league. There's no coming back from that in a deep league. It's not like you would be able to pick up a worthy free-agent replacement because they'd surely be taken.
I understand that roto is much more fair and probably easier to have league wide standings, but I don't think it is sustainable. You should ask the guys over at /r/SultansOfStats about inactives. This year in my reddit baseball roto league, we've had 6 inactive/replacements - and most people at the bottom have rarely been checking their lineups. And I don't blame them because they've had no chance at taking the #1 spot for months. In H2H leagues it seems that owners remain competitive throughout most of the year. This is because there is almost always a chance to claim a playoff spot, where almost any given team has a chance to win.
Being in Division 1 this year, I can say that I will play the whole year through, no matter the circumstances. However, I feel if I ever under up below 10th place it will be very hard for me to stay competitive and passionate about my team. It will be even harder for me to actually improve my team because every viable fantasy player will be long gone. | Roto leagues will be less competitive and more mangers will lose interest, especially in deeper leagues | [
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Good morning!
I was wondering how other people "lay out" their study habits. Right now I'm dropping around 100 anki cards per lecture which is becoming cumbersome quickly (i.e., Biochem and Physio). From what I've read using the search function here on Reddit is that I should be averaging around 20-40 cards per lecture max (unless it's anatomy or a very dense lecture).
I've been thinking of studying hardcore on the material before generating Anki cards, that way I only focus on stuff I have a hard time retaining with Anki. Is this the way others do it who utilize Anki?
Thanks for your time, and I hope everyone has a good weekend! | Those who use Anki, how do you balance studying and lecture? All through Anki? Using Anki for only difficult to remember topics? Thanks! | [
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Well in the context of this discussion Western ideals seems to be related to culture - ways of speaking, talking, dressing and relating to each other. It's difficult to really pin down because it clearly means different things depending on where you're coming from.
My perspective is probably biased because i haven't been out of Australia much, but i believe Western ideals to be most relevant to economic organisation of the self. The ideals of individualism and neo-liberalism are key to understanding the 'ideal' western citizen.
Also the influence of various international monetary bodies that are based upon, and operate out of European countries or the U.S.. Countries have to fit the western paradigm to be granted money from these institutions. I'm not really satisfied with this answer but i'll leave it for now i guess.
If you go back to pre-industrial era there have long been the water-management systems, as you pointed out. I think i am more referring to empowerment of and investment in the locals and their already existing irrigation systems, rather than the national Indian government coming in with all these big plans that may not have the best consequences. | main point is that i'm looking for a distinction here from someone who is not from a western background. | [
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In my highschool physics class we did an experiment with lenses and candles, adjusting the focal length and measuring the size of the image produced. Part of the experiment involved (if I remember correctly) placing the candle between the lens and it's focal point, which was supposed to result in the lens not producing an image. Being the inquisitive kid that I was, rather than accept what I was told, I pointed my lens at a wall and found that I could make out a much larger version of the image (upside-down and blurry, but clearly the candle). Later when I told my teacher mine produced an image she said I was wrong and that it was impossible, and then refused to address my questions as I tried to figure out why she was telling me something I saw with my own two eyes couldn't possibly exist. I later figured she just had a different definition of 'image', but could never get over the fact that she refused to explain it to me, and basically told me to stop questioning her. | In a lens experiment my teacher told me the image I saw couldn't possibly exist, and then wouldn't explain why. | [
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Ah my case, its a nice case. Bought it from a mate who had just upgraded in a plan to build my own. Instead things like motorbikes needed maintenance leaving no money to build my own, but the case it much quieter and enabled me to fit a new CPU cooler that is silent.
And regarding fast tech I'm prepared for a wait just kicking up a bit of a fuss with the customer support as the kit form is instock which has batteries and charger, why can't they take that out and just ship me the mod and because it said it was in stock and would ship same day when I purchased it. I've gone for the brass m16 as I've read the threads will be great with brass but strip with aluminium. I would order from other stockists but from the UK and I really can't afford to shell out the extra. I will do when I find what I like but this fast tech order was mainly a move from the ego into RDAs mech mods and VV/VW mod and find what you like best when I find what I like I'll probably stick with that for a few months and if I'm still using it as much as I do now maybe then spend a bit more for something nice I'm possibly thinking doing my own box mod on the cheap too. Anyways I've literally just thrown my whole brain at you to read, enjoy! | lots of stuff that no one really cares about but I've typed it all now and I'm not deleting it | [
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Dear Reddit Diary,
It turns out, after nearly twenty years, I was the only one in the friendship who had hoped for it to be something more if we ever had the opportunity. Tonight, I finally talked to my dream in real life over the phone.
My online Internet, childhood friend who I finally met in person as young adults, doesn't believe me that I've been waiting for him all these years thinking we'd never meet when we were far away. We just "lucked out" that we're both still single and in the same area. No, I really was waiting for him. I told him before it freaked me out that we actually got to meet in person and I always had a feeling we would meet but I knew when we were older and could do what we wanted as young adults and not have to get our parents' permissions.
I wish we would have met as children when we first started talking online, so at least I would have known then if it would have worked out or not...but I didn't see our parents giving us permission to meet an online friend who lives far away. They'd be monitoring us every minute of the day as 13 and 14-year-olds.
He questions why I've never been in an actual relationship with someone and I told him it's because I was thinking of him all this time far away and I wasn't into anyone nearby for it to ever last. He doesn't get it. I always pushed, and pushed the guys I liked nearby me to where it scared them away I just wanted to forget my far away friend so badly I thought I would never meet him and that I was only dreaming that I would get to meet him...but because I became obsessive about my nearby crushes, they didn't like me back. I didn't know what to do.
I keep telling myself why do I want a friend who lies to himself and to me about our friendship, about "what we had/didn't have." I don't want him, but I do...if that makes sense.
I told him when he didn't talk to me as soon as I flew back to my old hometown, it looked like he just thought of me as a hook-up and didn't care about the number of years we talked. He said in a sad voice that wasn't true and he had his reasoning for doing that...partly because I was going to move there in a few months anyway and we would talk when I got here, he says. Still, it made me feel like I was just a hook up when he didn't talk to me at all before I moved here.
I said things would have been so different if I never hooked up with him the first day we met in person, but I didn't know if I would ever see him again or if I would even move here at all so that's why I gave it up just like that.
He says I can't predict what would have happened because it's already happened and not in that way. I told him I know exactly what would have happened: he would still be wondering what I'm like hooking up had we not hooked up too soon and he would still be talking to me.
I've been right about everything so far how he would act after I got back to my old hometown, and after I moved here...the only thing I was wrong about was that I thought he was always The One for me. I'm not surprised we are at where we're at...whether or not I blew up his phone.
Signed,
Confused | Thought a so-called "friend" would give this more of a chance since we talked all these years. I didn't think he'd make a "decision" in one day. He gave more of a chance to someone he met just last year over someone he's talked to online all these years. Oh well, life is never fair. | [
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"content": "Thought a so-called \"friend\" would give this more of a chance since we talked all these years. I didn't think he'd make a \"decision\" in one day. He gave more of a chance to someone he met just last year over someone he's talked to online all these years. Oh well, life is never fair.",
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Me and my little brother played gears of war 1-3 split-screen through all the campaigns. When Dom died sacrificing himself to save his best friend Marcus and then later Marcus said he lost his brother instead of saying he lost his friend we cried and hugged it out. It impacted us a lot because we do everything together and my brother is my best friend. | Dom died saving Marcus and and my bro cried like bitches | [
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What you're not getting is that literally no one gives a shit that they aren't Little Miss Sunshine or Blazing Saddles. They're Adam Sandler movies, you should know what you're getting when you're going to see one.
Some of his movies are good. Some aren't. But he has an audience that loves his movies. Hell, I fucking love Little Nicky! Even paid to see That's My Boy and got a laugh or two out of it. But holy shit, some people take movies waaay too seriously. | no one gives a shit. | [
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Bio major here.
It's due to the fact that for optimum sperm generation, the testicles must remain a few degrees colder than the body. The scrotum will shrink or expand in size in response to temperature changes in the environment (smaller when it's cold, to get closer to the legs and body warmth, larger when it's warm to get the testicles away from heat which is given off by your body.)
In order for this thermoregulation to take place, they must be able to hang, in order to get closer and further away from the body. That being said, in between the legs is actually the safest place to keep them. | It's because of thermoregulation. In cold weather, they will shrink to gain heat. In warm weather, they will expand to get away from the body to cool down.
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Not sure what it's called, but I find in a lot of PvP games there tend to be classes which have a marked advantage or disadvantage against another particular class. I missed out on the beta, so has anyone experienced that? It seems like GW2 has done an excellent job of leveling the playing field and emphasizing player skill (given the mandatory balancing tweaks). | anyone experience a rock/paper/scissors element at all? e.g. elementalists suffer against warriors who suffer against thieves etc. | [
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As far as I know, symbolism in dreams varies from person to person. So really it depends on you and what those particular things mean in your mind.
However, many symbols are very similar for different people as many people tend to think in similar ways & patterns. So your dream could have something to do with a journey you are in the midst of, or one that will be starting soon. (the boat, representing traveling, journeying etc.) the door could be significant in that it is representing that you decide when this journey will start (you choose to go through the door or not)
Lighthouse may be some sort of guide, or signifying that once you start down the path you have been avoiding the way will become very clear. (I'd be interested to hear if there is an important life decision or something you've been putting off or something like that)
Keep in mind these are SUPER general interpretations that would probably be more accurate if I was the one having the dream, (I am in no ways an expert, just interested in dream interpretation) the symbols could mean a huge number of things.
The colours are important, the material the boat is made of could have significance. The fact you are traveling the ocean and not some other body of water has meaning.
The silence could be a big one, I'm not sure though. Also if the water is calm or stormy might have meaning.
You are lucky in the fact that you have many chances to see these symbols repeatedly and have such a great opportunity to commit them to memory. And remember, the most important thing about this dream is that you have been having the same one (if slightly longer each time) for over a month. This (as far as I know) is really really rare, and probably means that the dream has a large significance, probably trying to point out a very important aspect in your life that you are missing/ not picking up on. (Like many of us haha)
There is an excellent dream interpretation book that is kind of a big symbol dictionary that would be undoubtedly helpful for you (a very complete list of symbols, plus helpful info on how to interpret for yourself), but for the life of me I can't remember the title or author.. FML but I will think about it and let you know the title when I remember!
Good luck! and keep us posted when you get inside that lighthouse!
EDIT | It's hard to say for sure what those symbols are, as they would mean different things for different people, but if you look into it you can find examples of what those symbols prominently mean for a large number of people, which could possibly applied to you. | [
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I am currently renting a home from my landlord. I will call him Greg. Greg is a younger landlord who use to rent to his buddies. No lease, just a pay-as-you-go sort of thing. About eleven months ago, my roommate, another lady, and I started renting from Greg.
I'm pretty sure he wanted to collect passive income or mortgage payments without doing any of the requirements of a landlord. We had to fight to get repairs done on the house. There were many repairs needed. To name a few, some of the outlets in the house didn't work, the faucet on the bathtub leaked, the roof leaked inside the house. All of these problems were a result of the house being old. A few months ago, Greg told us he's going to do construction on the house so he can sell it. That's fair. It's his house. I don't want to rent from him anymore, anyway.
My main concern and reason for writing this post is that Greg doesn't follow tenant/landlord laws. He's made many unannounced visits to the house without notify us. He's sent surveyors to the house without letting us know. I've asked him to let us know with text or email before coming. My roommate moved out early and got someone to sublet her room. I've moved in with my boyfriend a few weeks ago. I still pay Greg rent because I signed a lease and plan to honor it. I've told him several times I'll pay him until the end of June when the lease expires because fair is fair.
Today I got a text message from him asking me to clean the kitchen and the bathroom. This pissed me off. How does he know, without being inside the home, that I need to clean? He did my roommate's move-out inspection last Tuesday. He said everything was fine. He has no reason to be there. I called him to let him know his text was unnecessary, passive-aggressive and rude. His coming over unannounced is a bit creepy.
Today he told me, "it's my house." I'm at the end of my rope because I don't know what to do to get him to understand I have certain rights as a tenant. He can't boss me around as if I don't pay him rent and he certainly shouldn't come by without letting me know beforehand. | I think my landlord is violating my rights as a tenant with unannounced visits and other bullshit. I'm still paying rent until the end of June. I need advice on how to get him to understand my legal rights as a tenant. | [
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Isn't that the point though? The cops are pretty much the only people we give permission to use physical force inside our borders.
The whole deal is that they are allowed to use force, but they also have to protect people from force, which produced the eternal conflict of how do you stop people required to use force from using it every situation they are required to be in.
I dunno, I don't find it strange that people who use force to get what they want find cops to be their equal, it is basically the point. We should never forget that. The police are government thugs, and not by some loophole, they are entrusted with the ability to be thugs, only restrained by the fact we make the rules.
But like any gang, each member is out to get theirs, and if want the government to really control them, we need to have smart rules for them.
Ok, this turned into a little rant, sorry. | aren't the cops supposed to be thugs but thugs whose bosses we can control through our elected representatives? | [
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When I was 8 years old, my little brother was annoying me, so I decided it would be a good idea to hide in the shower.
So as I was stepping in the tub, I tripped over it and went head first into this inch-thick ceramic soapdish everywhere, smashing right through it, resulting in a gash in my head the size of a broken window, straight to the skull.
Long story short, I screamed for my mom, my mom screamed for an ambulance, the ambulance very calmly escorted me to the hospital, and the doctor lost count of my stitches after 40. I now have a giant permanent diagonal scar across my entire forehead. | Got the worst injury of my life falling into a bathtub | [
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I really don't know shit about the pseudo-AI/SERMs out there that are brand named by these supplement companies. From what I read, Forma-Stanzol is an AI, which doesn't make sense to take it post cycle, you want a SERM. Something that will restart your HPTA. (Clomid or Nolvadex) which can be found by the simplest MAN who uses his brain POWER to RESEARCH these products.
I have never bothered with PH's except for Superdrol which gave insane pumps even walking. As far as AI/SERMs I just buy the actual shit and not some secondary product that may or may not have the dose that I am looking for.
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I slept on the floor of my parents bedroom until an absurd age because I thought my room was haunted. The event that finally broke me was one night I was sleeping on their floor (because company protects you from ghosts obviously) when I heard the noise of their bedroom door opening. I open my eyes to see a dozen or so pairs of feet entering the room silently, as nit to wake anyone else up. I tried to sit up to see what was going on, only to find myself unable to move. I looked above me and there was a figure, clad in a black suit holding me down.
That alone would have scared most people but what paralyzed m with fear was his face. Or rather, a lack of face. It was blank, as if someone had stole it. All that was left was a mouth, a ragged oval that sucked at the air and stole my breath. I glanced down at the figures standing at my feet to see that they too had no faces. They knelt down and held me to the floor as one put on a pair of gloves. They were going to take my face. They had theirs stolen and wanted mine to replace it. I would become one of them.
I saw my mother's hand, hanging over the bed, just out of reach. I tried to move, to wake her. Maybe if I got to her in time, she and my father could escape. They could take my sister and get out before the faceless men came for them. But the men held me down as the gloved man placed a knife to my temple. He made a small incision and slipped his finger inside, pulling at the skin and tearing my face away. I struggled to warn my mother but I couldn't move, couldn't breathe, vision fading as my face was torn away.
I awoke to find my parents standing over me, lights on, dog going bonkers and my sister standing in the doorway. Apparently, I had started shrieking in my sleep and they couldn't wake me, before my heart finally gave out. My mother, who was trained in CPR, had to revive me as my heart had stopped beating out of sheer terror. After this incident, we went to the hospital where it was discovered that I suffer from pretty severe sleep paralysis. That, coupled with a birth defect that makes my heart weak, had nearly killed me.
Don't believe what they tell you kids, you dreams can hurt you. | Sleep paralysis made me think my house was haunted for most of my young life when finally a very severe episode managed to stop my (already weakened) heart. | [
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Hey /r/relationships,
I am just posting because I want some advice. I am on an art course for a week with a really cute girl and I am wondering how is the best way to ask her out? I'm not 100% sure she likes me but I think she could... I was thinking of asking her to come to a photography exhibition with me at the weekend or to go to the movies, but I'm not sure how I should really phrase it to her, and how to do it without being awkward..
If anyone has any help it'd be really appreciated | I'm crushing on a girl and need some advice on what to do next! | [
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I will now tell you my stripper story:
We have a local, alternative paper in my town that often has a lot of coupons and specials in it. One day while simultaneously thumbing through this paper and thinking of ideas for my friend 20th birthday party I stumbled across a coupon for free admission to a new strip club whit the purchase of two drinks. I realized that I was sitting next to a huge fucking stack of these papers so I nabbed as many coupons as I could and called my friend to let him know that we were going to a strip club and that it was my treat.
It ended up being the birthday boy and three of my other friends (one of whom is now gay and was totally uncomfortable the whole night) When we arrived a big, scary man dressed in all black glared at us and ripped the free passes from our hands but let us in after careful scrutiny of our IDs.
Inside it smelled like cinnamon and girl. It was wonderful. The entire main room was bathed in a soft, purple light. A completely nude vixen with long dark hair and high heels lead us to our seats and took our drink orders.
An enticing temptress named Jasmine came onto the stage. She teased us to A Friend in Need by Placebo, and I kid you not, reddit, I was in love. So in love that I didn’t notice our drinks had arrived. I gulped down generous amounts of $12 orange juice and took in all of her beauty.
As I attempted to pick my jaw up, off the floor and compose myself, another, tall and abrasive server waived a can of pineapple juice in my face. “No thanks, I already ordered my drink.” I tried saying to her, but she continued waiving. The music was so loud. She attempted to say something but I couldn’t hear her. She put the can directly in front of me and tapped on the pop tap with her thumb, confused, I took the can from her and opened it. She went to take it from me but I was already putting it to my lips and drinking from it. She glared at me and demanded another $12 and called me a dick. I only noticed after that she had long, fake nails and couldn't open the can on her own and was simply asking me if I could open the can for her so she could enjoy a beverage too. | I took a stripper’s can of pineapple juice. | [
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Since I broke my elbow for an elbow pad that didn't hurt more to wear than it did not to. That's the case for all [standard elbow pads]( Normally, I just tuck and roll around that beast, but it still worries me.
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For the most part it has nothing to do with Western titans of industry. Look at the countries with the poorest people. Most have very little developed industry, so the western companies exploiting the population for profit argument is not very applicable.
I took a motorcycle trip through rural Vietnam. You would see lots of farmers barely surviving than a huge house with several expensive cars in the middle of it all. I asked someone why that was and they explained to me the communist party members were the only people allowed to borrow money from the state owned banks at below market rates. They would buy up huge swaths of land and lease it back to farmers. They would essentially create serfdoms where farmers are barely making a subsistence living, while they get rich. Factories making Western goods would arguably be a huge improvement to their lives.
In neighboring Cambodia a very large percentage of the population makes US$20 per month or less. Granted this buys more than in the west, but even there it only buys a shitty existence. I was going through rural Cambodia I passed a massive house that was walled off. There was well over $1 million worth of cars in the driveway. Leaning up against the wall of the home were shanties. Prominently displayed out front was the flag of the "Cambodian People's Party."
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I'm not blaming being born poor or whatever for my lack of social success or whatever. I fully concede that it's my own fault I'm "FA" for not being more ambitious or outgoing. Still, it would certainly be easier to be social if I had money for a car, didn't fear going into debt if I traveled, had more social pressure to be presentable, etc. When you have to work double shifts (more like 1.25 in my case) a lot of your coworkers don't really get to know you or you don't have as much energy to hang out and all the other obvious reasons cash problems would fuck up your ability to make friends in adulthood | we've pretty much all got cash problems, right? | [
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I had (still have) the same problem : I'm pacific and take a lot upon myself instead of lashing back at problems... Ideally, I'd like to still be peaceful, BUT able to set clear limits and push back when someone wants to trespass them.
But I don't know how to speak clearly and I often don't even know what I want (since I accustomed myself into not thinking about it)... Being angry is a good first step towards knowing what I want for myself, and expressing it. And as I grow more comfortable, I don't need to get angry as much because I can set boundaries with more strength and get people to listen to what I want.
I can also formulate my wishes more clearly, know when I don't know vs. have been trained not to know. On the long run, I'm much less often sad, frustrated or angry, because dealing with anger forces me to solve my problems : solved problems don't bother anymore :) | Anger lets you know about yourself and tells others when they're bothering you. Necessary and helpful, but should be a pathway towards solutions and better communication. If no solution comes out of an angry episode, it will likely return ! | [
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This is going to be long, so please bare with me.
First some background and to feed the mods: my wife (FEMALE) is 33 and I’m (MALE) 32 and met online about 10 years ago and met in real life a couple months later. We have been married for almost 6 years. She lived on the opposite side of the country that I do, but came here often because she has family that lives in my area. We saw each other probably 6 times a year for a week or so at a time. It was ok with us because we were both in college. When I graduated in 2005, I immediately found a job working for a mortgage company as an accountant and she graduated a few months later and became a preschool teacher – we still lived on opposite sides of the country. Two weeks after starting my job, I flew out to surprise her and proposed to her. Red flag number 1: her mother ruined the surprise for me and told her, in front of me, that I was here to propose to her. When she asked if it was true I said “yes” and she stormed off thinking I was playing a joke on her. Whatever, I got over it and we got married a couple of years later. Her whole family moved out to my area because her mom wanted to live near her sisters, who lived about 30 minutes from me.
Red flag number 2: from the beginning of our relationship my wife thought it was appropriate to insult me whenever she felt the need to. She’s called me “d ck head,” and “asshole” a few times, but her go-to insults are “moron” and “idiot.” The few times I’ve called her a b tch ( which I know is wrong and not something I’m proud of ) she flew off the handle, but when I’ve pointed out to her that I get called “moron” and “idiot” often she justifies it by saying that those aren’t as bad as being called a “b*tch.” WHAT?!? To me, an insult is an insult and it doesn’t matter what word you use - the intent is to injure the other person. The name calling has improved, but it’s still there.
In the beginning our sex life was OK – nothing more – just OK. We had sex maybe once a week, maybe once every other week and I should add that she was a virgin when we got married but was always willing and eager to give me oral and manual sex but once we got married those virtually stopped. This went on until last year when I told her that sex is important to me – I need it in order to feel a physical and emotional connection with her. Things needed to improve or I was out the door and she seemed to understand this. It changed…for about 6 months, and then went back to the same old routine – I think our longest dry spell was 9 months but she refuses to believe this. I again reminded her how important sex is to me and why it’s important to me. We are now going on week 6 without any sort of sexual contact. To be honest, I’m over it – I don’t try to initiate anymore, I don’t bring it up, I don’t ask. In my mind, sex is something married couples do for each other and it shouldn’t be fought about.
Affection is another area which has always been lacking. I’m an extremely affectionate person and in the beginning I showered her with affection. Hugs, kisses, arm squeezes…you name it, she received it, but again there was no reciprocity so I just stopped. This was also addressed when the sex issue was addressed and followed the same pattern of improvement then decline as the sex issue. Now I find myself not wanting any sort of affection from her.
In the beginning of our marriage, and until 2010 I worked a high-paying, stressful job for a mortgage lender. I hated it and was a shell of my former self. In early 2010, I started thinking about going to nursing school – I had originally started college premed and found that I was again drawn to something in the medical field. WITH HER BLESSING, UNDERSTANDING, AND SUPPORT I quit school, finished up my pre-requisites and started nursing school last fall. Now when she gets mad at me, it’s like she completely forgot I had her blessing, support, and understanding. She thinks all our marital problems started when I quit my job. I get the “we never fought before you quit your job,” line so often I know when she’s going to say it. She completely forgets all the arguments and problems we had before I quit my job to go back to school. She finds every excuse in the book to say that our problems originated when I left my old job. We do OK financially. I go to school full time, work about 20 – 30 hours per week and have great health insurance through my job. We don’t travel, but we also don’t really want for anything (we live in a house my parents inherited rent free until I’m done with school).
I come home from school, work, or a clinical and I need to debrief. When I start talking she puts her TV show (usually something on TLC or E) on pause and gives me a look that says “can you hurry this up so I can finish my show?” Everything I do seems like an inconvenience to her.
I’m at the end of my rope here. I’ve talked to her at length about our marital problems but she takes the occasion to justify herself by saying “well now you know how I feel,” or “and who do you think you are? Mr. Perfect?” I have no idea how she feels…about anything – she doesn’t begin to talk about problems unless I bring up a problem I have. Then, in my book, it’s just justification for her behavior towards me and/or grandstanding on her part. In her mind, if we’re not fighting we don’t have any marital problems – what she doesn’t realize (and I’ve tried to tell her) is that I’m not fighting anymore because I’ve completely given up. There’s no emotional, physical or intellectual connection between us. She doesn’t realize it. Our vacuum recently broke – it’s all she talked about for more than a couple of days. Every. Single. Conversation was brought back around to the vacuum!
When I bring up the idea of marriage counseling she laughs it off, says that we don’t have any serious issues that require marriage counseling, or says she’s not going to a shrink. When I’ve told her she has to change, she SAYS she’ll change but really doesn’t. She says I don’t trust her and it’s because her actions and her words do not line up. I find that now I just resent her. I find myself thinking that even if she truly does change this one last time that I won’t care. She’s had enough chances – 6 years of chances (that’s how long we’ve been married) and I feel like she’s only doing it to stay married to me, not because she really wants to be with me.
My heart hurts every day and I cry myself to sleep at night sometimes (I will NOT let her see me cry over this – EVER). I find myself yearning to be with someone who can show me she loves me, but I also feel that I won’t ever want to get married again if we do get divorced – it’s like she’s ruined marriage for me. I also find myself racked with guilt – I promised to support her and take care of her but now I want to go back on that promise. She made promise to love and cherish me – I feel neither from her. She also desperately want’s children, I do too, but her being 33 would make it near impossible for her to have children if we were to split. I know intellectually that this isn’t really my fault and that I’ve given her so many chances, but emotionally I would be devastated for her.
Wow, I didn’t know this would end up being so long. If you’ve stuck around through the whole thing, thank you. If you’ve been in my situation or feel you can offer some useful advice, please do so. I’m at my witts end here…I know the default advice here is divorce, but I don’t feel like I’m quite there…yet…
I’m very busy and may not be able to respond to everyone, but please know that I will be reading and responding to as many questions/comments as I can. Thanks again. | wife is emotionally neglectful, sex life is non-existent. I no longer feel a connection to her, but am not quite ready for the big D yet. | [
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When she asked if it was true I said “yes” and she stormed off thinking I was playing a joke on her. Whatever, I got over it and we got married a couple of years later. Her whole family moved out to my area because her mom wanted to live near her sisters, who lived about 30 minutes from me. \n Red flag number 2: from the beginning of our relationship my wife thought it was appropriate to insult me whenever she felt the need to. She’s called me “d ck head,” and “asshole” a few times, but her go-to insults are “moron” and “idiot.” The few times I’ve called her a b tch ( which I know is wrong and not something I’m proud of ) she flew off the handle, but when I’ve pointed out to her that I get called “moron” and “idiot” often she justifies it by saying that those aren’t as bad as being called a “b*tch.” WHAT?!? To me, an insult is an insult and it doesn’t matter what word you use - the intent is to injure the other person. The name calling has improved, but it’s still there. \n In the beginning our sex life was OK – nothing more – just OK. We had sex maybe once a week, maybe once every other week and I should add that she was a virgin when we got married but was always willing and eager to give me oral and manual sex but once we got married those virtually stopped. This went on until last year when I told her that sex is important to me – I need it in order to feel a physical and emotional connection with her. Things needed to improve or I was out the door and she seemed to understand this. It changed…for about 6 months, and then went back to the same old routine – I think our longest dry spell was 9 months but she refuses to believe this. I again reminded her how important sex is to me and why it’s important to me. We are now going on week 6 without any sort of sexual contact. To be honest, I’m over it – I don’t try to initiate anymore, I don’t bring it up, I don’t ask. In my mind, sex is something married couples do for each other and it shouldn’t be fought about. \n Affection is another area which has always been lacking. I’m an extremely affectionate person and in the beginning I showered her with affection. Hugs, kisses, arm squeezes…you name it, she received it, but again there was no reciprocity so I just stopped. This was also addressed when the sex issue was addressed and followed the same pattern of improvement then decline as the sex issue. Now I find myself not wanting any sort of affection from her. \n In the beginning of our marriage, and until 2010 I worked a high-paying, stressful job for a mortgage lender. I hated it and was a shell of my former self. In early 2010, I started thinking about going to nursing school – I had originally started college premed and found that I was again drawn to something in the medical field. WITH HER BLESSING, UNDERSTANDING, AND SUPPORT I quit school, finished up my pre-requisites and started nursing school last fall. Now when she gets mad at me, it’s like she completely forgot I had her blessing, support, and understanding. She thinks all our marital problems started when I quit my job. I get the “we never fought before you quit your job,” line so often I know when she’s going to say it. She completely forgets all the arguments and problems we had before I quit my job to go back to school. She finds every excuse in the book to say that our problems originated when I left my old job. We do OK financially. I go to school full time, work about 20 – 30 hours per week and have great health insurance through my job. We don’t travel, but we also don’t really want for anything (we live in a house my parents inherited rent free until I’m done with school). \n I come home from school, work, or a clinical and I need to debrief. When I start talking she puts her TV show (usually something on TLC or E) on pause and gives me a look that says “can you hurry this up so I can finish my show?” Everything I do seems like an inconvenience to her. \n I’m at the end of my rope here. I’ve talked to her at length about our marital problems but she takes the occasion to justify herself by saying “well now you know how I feel,” or “and who do you think you are? Mr. Perfect?” I have no idea how she feels…about anything – she doesn’t begin to talk about problems unless I bring up a problem I have. Then, in my book, it’s just justification for her behavior towards me and/or grandstanding on her part. In her mind, if we’re not fighting we don’t have any marital problems – what she doesn’t realize (and I’ve tried to tell her) is that I’m not fighting anymore because I’ve completely given up. There’s no emotional, physical or intellectual connection between us. She doesn’t realize it. Our vacuum recently broke – it’s all she talked about for more than a couple of days. Every. Single. Conversation was brought back around to the vacuum! \n When I bring up the idea of marriage counseling she laughs it off, says that we don’t have any serious issues that require marriage counseling, or says she’s not going to a shrink. When I’ve told her she has to change, she SAYS she’ll change but really doesn’t. She says I don’t trust her and it’s because her actions and her words do not line up. I find that now I just resent her. I find myself thinking that even if she truly does change this one last time that I won’t care. She’s had enough chances – 6 years of chances (that’s how long we’ve been married) and I feel like she’s only doing it to stay married to me, not because she really wants to be with me. \n My heart hurts every day and I cry myself to sleep at night sometimes (I will NOT let her see me cry over this – EVER). I find myself yearning to be with someone who can show me she loves me, but I also feel that I won’t ever want to get married again if we do get divorced – it’s like she’s ruined marriage for me. I also find myself racked with guilt – I promised to support her and take care of her but now I want to go back on that promise. She made promise to love and cherish me – I feel neither from her. She also desperately want’s children, I do too, but her being 33 would make it near impossible for her to have children if we were to split. I know intellectually that this isn’t really my fault and that I’ve given her so many chances, but emotionally I would be devastated for her. \n Wow, I didn’t know this would end up being so long. If you’ve stuck around through the whole thing, thank you. If you’ve been in my situation or feel you can offer some useful advice, please do so. 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I met a girl in college that I really liked and wanted to ask out, but the timing was always bad. I used to be pretty sure that she was interested too (classic stuff: arm touching, ridiculous but adorable excuses to buy me drinks, asking me questions I know she already knew the answer to, etc.).
Then we graduated and now live too far away to make anything feasible. One time I was in her area and we met up, I thought maybe I would bring up the subject and see what happens. Before I got a chance, she started talking to another friend who was with us about someone she dated a while ago, and casually dropped that it was a woman.
That's all fine and good with me, it's 2015. But as my trip wore on there were a couple other mentions of female exes, and I realized that as far as I knew, she has only ever dated girls. So now I don't know if she'd even be interested on principal. Before I knew this about her, I was 100% sure she was into me, but now I'm just confused. I don't know how I would bring up the subject even without the long distance aspect.
I feel like I should probably just give up and move on. Even if she is interested, the distance right now is pretty much unmanageable. I feel like I'm just going to wait around for some bullshit Nicholas Sparks magic to happen if I don't give up, but giving up is the last thing I want to do here.
Hoping someone has some words of wisdom or pertinent advice from a similar situation. | Was confident this girl liked me, now I don't even know if she's into dudes. That plus distance makes me feel like I should move on, but I really don't want to or know if I should. | [
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So last night I was a bit fed up. I had been struggling to get the claptons in my velocity clone on my skeleton key mech mod to produce the vapor and flavor I knew it could. Running at about .3 ohms it was just ok. So last night I swapped them out for 5/4 wraps of 24 gauge kanthal at 3mm.
Dudes and dudettes, it's awesome. I wicked those bad boys up and it was fantastic. No ramp up time, no residual heat, full clouds and great flavor.
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So this isn't necessarily medicine related and I'm not even sure if this is the right place for this, but here goes. I understand why MRIs make loud noises in a very basic sense. But my question, that I can't seem to find an answer to is why they make such a wide VARIETY of different noises. I could see it making a buzzing noise or something because of electrically charged coils and all that jazz, but they make so many varied noises. I've heard them buzz and beep and bang, they go from a jackhammer to an 80's arcade cabinet. What is the explanation behind this plethora of different sounds? | why do MRIs make so many different sounds, beeps, bangs, buzzes etc. | [
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So an American guy in his mid 40's came in to buy some gas. He walked up to the other guy working with me that night (who was new btw, and I was helping train him). I started to hear a little discussion going on and decided to help the poor worker out. The guy threw his credit card at the worker and said "just turn the pump on; he wanted to fill up" and he didn't know how much it would take. I explained, as the other worker did, that we cant do that; literally, the system is either prepay a certain amount or pay at pump. The man said his card was not working at the pump and that's why he came in. So I asked how much he would like, to which he responded "I don't know, I want to fill it up". I then explained that he can prepay over what the tank would take, then the remainder would be refunded to his card. "What does that mean?" the man replied, I calmly said the money would be put back. He then handed me his card again, to which I asked, how much would he like to prepay; to then which he replied "I don't know I want to fill it up, so just turn the damn pump on". I calmly replied that I just explained why I can't do that, and to prepay a large amount, such as $75. He then replied "well I know it won't take that". I once again replied and explained that the rest would be refunded. He angrily replied "What does that mean?!?" once again, I replied and explained "refunded". The man then proceeded to take out a $100 bill, and asked "now can you turn the pump on?" I said, OK, I will put $100 on pump 4. The man said "it won't take that much, I just want to fill it up!". Mildly I replied that he can come back in when he is finished for a refund; then the famous phrase was said: "What does that mean?!?". And then the discussion started all over again as he tried to use his credit card instead after snatching the bill from my hand, and didn't know what refund meant after I explained it 5 more times. The man kept threatening to take his business to the station across the street (which I almost sent him over there knowing that have the same policies) and I wished he had.
Come to find out, his card was being declined outside; which it was inside as well. So after almost another 20 minuets of discussion of why we were declining (when it was his card company), he tried a different card, which worked, and prepaid $75. The car took around $45, and I refunded back to his card. He then came in and had me print a new receipt and show I refunded it. On his way out, he said "I'm never coming here again, this is ridiculous how you won't just turn the pumps on. Other gas stations do that ya'know" to which I replied "they haven't for a long time" (In fact I know the company I work for was THE last major chain to eliminate pump then pay inside procedures, and finally did due to countless drive-offs). | 40 year old American man in America didn't know what "refunded" meant, even after explaining it 5 times | [
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I [f26] have been with my bf [m, 30] for 3 years now . when we first started dating we talked about our past relationships. i said i had had a few relationships [which i had]. the only thing is, one of these relationships wasn't an official bf/gf situation and i didn't tell my bf this... it was more of a really intense long fwb relationship, that lasted 3 years. my friends knew about this guy i was in a fwb with and we used to hang out, he even told me he loved me and we hung out as much as i see my bf. I loved him a lot and hence why this went on for so long .
i feel guilty that my bf thinks this guy was officially my bf when he technically wasn't, even though it was pretty much a relationship and my friends even call him my ex-boyfriend. my mom never knew too much about this guy (she knew i saw him from time to time but didn't know the extent of the relationship) . do you think this is something i should fess up to/could cause issues in the future, or is it just a small lie which really doesn't even matter? i don't know what to do . | lied about the details of past relationship to my bf and dont know what to do | [
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My knee-jerk response was to say SO, but after I thought about it a bit I would say job.
You work 40+ hours a week, and it's a big part of who you are. If you're not fulfilled/happy at your job (or at least something besides completely miserable there), it can affect all parts of your life. I've been there. A bad job will affect you outside of the job, and it will start to take its toll on your life and ultimately your relationship. | dream job. You and SO will work it out if it's meant to be. | [
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b) if it is, what kinds of things do I have to worry about with this car at this age?
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BF4 launch was terrible, it would not have been that awful if EA had a decent Quality Assurance. Even their own shareholders were very unpleased, which led them to sue EA. "It will never be perfect," you're right, but the launch was not even remotely good. | EA bad QA. | [
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I was first diagnosed in 6th grade by my primary care physician who, although does not specialize in psychology, ran some tests by my teachers and parents to confirm his diagnoses. I was prescribed focalin 10 mg and took it mostly every day until 8th grade when I got extremely tired of emptying the contents of the pill onto a spoonful of pudding because I refused to swallow pills. When I got the 9th grade I started taking my medicine again after I FINALLY learned how to swallow pills. I kept taking my meds all the way through high school and when I moved to Houston for college, I had to go see a new doctor for my prescription. Lets call him Dr. Bill. So Dr. Bill gave me my prescription at the beginning of my freshman year of college, but since I didn't have class every day, my medicine lasted quite a long time. I got one refill close to the middle of the year, which lasted all the way till summer and a little left over. I go back to see Dr. Bill since I am about to start school again for my sophomore year and this is how it goes:
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"Okay thats fine, how often do you take your medication?"
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Sorry for the wall of text, I'm trying to make this short but I'm not sure which details are irrelevant.
Backstory: "Chris" is one of my oldest friends, I've known him since third grade and we went to middle and high school together. We didn't become super close until 8th grade/beginning of high school, but once we did I was over at his house all the time and his parents were like my parents. Part of it was because my home life wasn't that great (only child of single narcissistic mom) and his parents tried to look out for me like their own daughter. They were super supportive and friendly and I think they are the kind of parents that I want to be someday. The other part was just that we had great conversations, we could talk about anything and he could always find a way to make it humorous or thoughtful. In middle school both Chris and I had huge crushes on each other. I was shy and waiting for him to notice me in that way (it never occurred to me to ask him out). He was also shy and waiting for me to make the first move or give some sort of sign. In time the moment passed and it never happened, we both got over our feelings and became best friends instead.
In our senior year of college Chris met a girl who was a freshman. He had a huge crush on her and he eventually asked her out with some encouragement from me (we went to colleges in different states but Skyped regularly). They entered a relationship - Chris's first ever serious relationship. Within a week of Chris's college graduation they were engaged. She still has several years of schooling left because she is on track to enter med school. Chris graduated with a degree that he planned to use to enter public service. He spoke with me excitedly about how he had plans to move back to our hometown and get a job here. He applied for a prestigious internship here and was going to hear back by the end of the summer. At the end of the summer, we were catching up and I asked if he got in. He told me that he did, but he turned it down. I was shocked, because this was something he had spoken about for years. He told me that this public service job was something that he wanted to do, but not for his entire life. His fiancee ("Cathy") expressed concern about him entering such a dangerous profession, and he decided that it wasn't worth causing Cathy distress over something that would only be a few years out of his long life with her. He abandoned the idea and now he is working in a regular office job. It's not something he is passionate about, he's just treading water and paying off loans until he decides what he wants to do next.
The Issue: This past Valentine's Day, Chris and Cathy celebrated their 2 year anniversary of being together (and they have been engaged for around 10 months). These days, I hardly hear from him at all, and usually not unless I initiate conversation. In college we used to talk all the time, not daily but we would have long Skype sessions every month. He even visited me a few times and spent the weekend. Now I don't really hear from him that often and I think I've only seen him twice in the past year. When we do talk, he seems genuinely interested in my life and asks questions about my job and family that show that he remembers our previous discussions. But these are becoming more and more rare and I'm not sure if it's due to the way his life has changed or if it's just a sign of people drifting apart after college.
Cathy is starting to shop for wedding dresses. I met her twice, she seems like a fine person but I don't really understand how he can be sure she is "the one". To be perfectly frank, I think part of the attraction he sees in her is that he gets to feel smart and take care of someone younger than him. When we were kids our friend group comprised a lot of intelligent people, who are now working for Google or other engineering firms. With Cathy he gets to be smarter and wiser and take care of someone. There's also the fact that he hasn't been in a relationship before and this could be First Girlfriend Syndrome. On the other hand, I know it's perfectly possible for two people to get it right on the first try and end up together forever. Here's the thing, Reddit: I know that my feelings are due to jealousy. Objectively, I know that Chris and I would not be good in a relationship together: he is flaky and condescending to values that don't line up with his own. However, I think the little 8th grader in me is still waiting for him to notice me. If he wants to spend his life with Cathy that is great, I think he deserves happiness.
My issue is that I don't know how to handle these feelings. I want Chris to be happy but I don't think that Cathy is right for him - however, I know that my opinion is 100% irrelevant and I have said nothing about it, nor will I ever. And when it's all said and done, I want to be there for his wedding no matter who he gets married to, I want to celebrate that moment in his life with his family. I think I can do that even if I still feel this way. I just can't figure out how to accept Cathy or get rid of my jealousy without cutting out one of my oldest friends. True, we aren't as close as we used to be and we haven't been that way for some time. Sometimes I feel like I'm more invested in this friendship than he is, considering how rare our contact is. However, when we do catch up, he offers all the same consideration and friendliness that he did when we were kids. I'm not sure what I'm more afraid of: that I'll have to cut him out in order to get over these feelings, or that he won't even notice if I do. Reddit, what should I do? Give it to me straight. | One of my oldest friends, whom I used to have a massive crush on, is now engaged to be married and I don't think his fiancee is right for him. I know this is partly due to jealousy, and I'm not sure how to resolve these feelings without cutting him out.
Edit: clarity. | [
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In college we used to talk all the time, not daily but we would have long Skype sessions every month. He even visited me a few times and spent the weekend. Now I don't really hear from him that often and I think I've only seen him twice in the past year. When we do talk, he seems genuinely interested in my life and asks questions about my job and family that show that he remembers our previous discussions. But these are becoming more and more rare and I'm not sure if it's due to the way his life has changed or if it's just a sign of people drifting apart after college. \n Cathy is starting to shop for wedding dresses. I met her twice, she seems like a fine person but I don't really understand how he can be sure she is \"the one\". To be perfectly frank, I think part of the attraction he sees in her is that he gets to feel smart and take care of someone younger than him. 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I want Chris to be happy but I don't think that Cathy is right for him - however, I know that my opinion is 100% irrelevant and I have said nothing about it, nor will I ever. And when it's all said and done, I want to be there for his wedding no matter who he gets married to, I want to celebrate that moment in his life with his family. I think I can do that even if I still feel this way. I just can't figure out how to accept Cathy or get rid of my jealousy without cutting out one of my oldest friends. True, we aren't as close as we used to be and we haven't been that way for some time. Sometimes I feel like I'm more invested in this friendship than he is, considering how rare our contact is. However, when we do catch up, he offers all the same consideration and friendliness that he did when we were kids. I'm not sure what I'm more afraid of: that I'll have to cut him out in order to get over these feelings, or that he won't even notice if I do. Reddit, what should I do? 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The solution was re-installing MO and all mods.
Started playing Skyrim again, and enjoying it. I'm using MO. Was using mods and everything, worked fine. When I installed Bodyslider and ran the executable from inside MO like it said on the modpage, I was asked for admin rights. My main account does not have admin rights. I entered the password, made a new body.
Then when I tried running Skyrim via SKSE via MO like usual, no mods were loaded. It was just vanilla Skyrim, but SKSE DID load. I exited MO and tried starting it again and now it gave an error. /ModOrganizer/profiles/Default/modlist.txt is missing or inaccessible. I went to that path and the modlist.txt was right there. I couldn't open it however, it gave an error, no permission.
So then I tried to run MO as an admin. It worked, but now my load order was reset, and all plugins were unchecked for some reason. I tried to restore it all, and I deleted Bodyslider, but still Skyrim was loaded vanilla. It now went to the vanilla launcher first. I have a feeling it has to do with admin rights on my computer. However, here is my load order and plugin order and stuff:
I then moved MO to inside the Skyrim folder from Steam, inside program files. I could now run MO without admin rights but starting SKSE asked for elevation. Entering the password made vanilla Skyrim run again. I have now moved the entirety of Skyrim to outside the program files. Nothing is inside program files now, and now I get the same errors as before again: modlist.txt is missing or inaccessible. Running as an admin it starts but vanilla Skyrim is loaded. When I'm inside vanilla Skyrim, SKSE is loaded, however no mods are.
Does anyone know a solution? Thanks! | MO has recognised all mods, checked all the boxes in front of the mods. When starting SKSE from inside MO it doesn't load any mods. | [
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This isn't staged. I'm one of OPs best friends and one of two people who he can manage to convince to play with him within our friend group. I work for weeks at a time without internet access and the other guy doesn't play nearly as much as OP. | OP has no real friends to play with. It isn't staged. | [
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So this happened about a month ago.
A little backstory: I recently had the amazing opportunity to travel with my sister around Europe. While traveling to different cities and whatnot we would fly through cheap airlines and I would bring snacks along for the ride. I assume that no snacks were taken from me (fruit and cut veggies) because I was always traveling around the EU or maybe they just didn't care/notice.
But anyways, cut to me flying home to California and as I am packing to leave my hostel I grab a free apple to eat on the plane. This apple stays in my Purse basically forgotten.
I have a connecting flight in Chicago and for those unaware, ever since 9/11 your first stop in America is where you go through customs. I had completely forgotten to eat my apple in the first plane and thought I would just eat it on my way to California. I only had 1 1/2 hours in Chicago to connect.
When I get to Chicago at every stopping point I am asked something along the lines of: "do you have any fruit or vegetables with you?" And stupidly I keep going "just this apple?" Thinking it's no big deal and that obviously I could just bring it with me.
Well guys, it was a big fucking deal and when I eventually get taken to agriculture I end up having to wait an hour just so they can take my apple away from me. When I finally reach the front of the line I get asked to present what I have and I put my single apple on the belt and just go "here, take this away from me!"
That did get a laugh from the people in agriculture when I explained the situation though, so there's that¯_(ツ)_/¯.
Also, while in line I had half a mind to just eat the damn thing while I waited but I was afraid of what would happen if I could not produce an apple on command.
Anyways after that I end up missing my flight and staying in Chicago for an extra 5 hours. | tried to bring an apple from Europe into the United States and and end up getting laughed at and missing my connecting flight because of it. | [
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Call half a dozen of your closest family members - parents (if you don't live with them), siblings, grandparents, etc. Set aside about ten minutes with each one, and just ask them how their life is going, and what sorts of things they're up to these days. Listen attentively, tell them a bit about what you're doing, and close by saying "Hey, it was great to talk to you - the next time you're in town, give me a call, and we'll go out for lunch. I love you, [Grandma/Dad/Aunt Susan]."
After an hour, you will have renewed and strengthened familial ties. You will have re-integrated yourself into your family community, you will have received affirmations of love and support, and you will have brightened the days of half a dozen other people by showing them that you care enough to call and ask about them. You'll feel better, they'll feel better, and it won't cost you anything but time. | Call your mother. She misses you. | [
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A few weeks ago I was driving home from university and it is a 2 hour drive. Then I was going to drive another 2 hours to see my gf at her school. Anyway I was driving with expired tags. My tags had just expired and my mom had the new ones at home. I was extremely tired and just wanted to get home so I was going about 85 mph in a 75 mph zone. I saw a cop parked in a blind spot behind a bridge and I slowed down a bit and we made eye contact.
I keep driving and after about 5 miles and constantly checking my mirrors I didn't see him so I kicked the speed back up. The road was really open too. Pretty soon I see a car hauling ass to catch up to me. Soon I notice it was the cop. I slow down again. He gets right up on my ass and I know he saw my expired tags and he knew I was speeding. He pulls right up along side of me and we make eye contact. He was just staring at me and he picked up his CB and said something into it. Next thing I know he turns on his lights and starts hauling ass again. I don't know what was going on but I knew for sure I was going to get pulled over. | Expired tags and Insurance, speeding, on a 2 hour drive home to get it when a cop freaks me out then speeds off | [
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I got cheated on for a few months. Me and my girlfriend got back together because I forgave her and I love her. However at random times I get upset with her because I remember all the stuff she lied to me about. This causes me to be sort of an asshole at times because I remember she did this to me. I love her and everything but how do I move on? | got cheated on, forgave my gf, but still upset at the lies she told me. | [
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This isn't about a stalker I had, but one my then roommate had.
He was in a pretty much fuck-buddy relationship with this girl (who shall be named crazy bitch from now on) from what I understand, maybe something slightly more involved, not sure. Anyway, after about 2 and half to 3 months he calls it off with her. When he did it, was weird because he disappeared for about 3 hours after saying he was just gonna go find a parking space for her (since parking at my apartment area is terrible). When he got back he told that she wouldn't get out of the car and basically just bitched and hit him (just shoulder punching and what not) the entire time, which wasn't that weird because she was really into him and it hurt her...
Anyway, this is when the annoying stalker-ish stuff started happening. After a couple weeks he had begun to move on some other chick who happened to be a mutual friend of theirs so crazy bitch knew about it. Crazy bitch began just showing up wherever he was when he went out drinking and stuff, which isn't too weird cause its not a huge town, but she'd always try and spend time with him and shit. Basically, her intent was to scare off this other girl in hopes of getting my roommate back and on a few occasions she actually started yelling at girl #2.
This continued for awhile, and throughout this my roommate kept telling her to leave him alone and that they were done. He's a nice guy so it's not like he did it in a mean way. But she wouldn't leave him alone. Oh, and she also started showing up super late at night looking for him... I'm talking 2-3am waking me up and shit, was very irritating. This happened like 3 or 4 times total.
The final time was when my roommate had girl #2 over and they were watching a movie, nothing serious. Crazy bitch shows up and just starts pounding on the door, and because of this my roommate knew who it was and just ignored it because he didn't want to have to deal with it. Meanwhile, I was in my room playing WoW or something ( :P stfu ) and for the next like 20min crazy bitch is just beating on the door going "I KNOW YOU'RE IN THERE <roommate's name> AND I KNOW YOU'RE WITH THAT BITCH!" So, I can't take anymore and per my suggestion they hid in my room and I shut the door. Yes, I know this wasn't the best idea, but talking to her just didn't seem to work and I figured I could get her to go away... so I opened the door and proceeded to tell her that he wasn't home and blah blah.
After about 10min of trying to get her to go and her insisting he was in there, she goes "Ok, fine, I'll go if you just let me look around..." Tried to convince her no, she did anyway. She looks around... finds nothing because she doesn't check my room. I can't convince her not to look in my room (as I am not the quickest on my feet in this type of situation) and she looks in and finds my roommate. Ends up screaming at all 3 of us for 30min, and my roommate threatened to call the cops if she came back again.. so we didn't see her again after that.... | Roommate breaks up with crazy bitch, she doesn't let go and stalks him at bars and tries scaring off other girls, she starts showing up late at our apt, shows up when he has another girl over and we failed at getting her to go away and had to endure like an hour of her shenanigans. | [
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This happened last night so it's technically today.
My friend, we'll call him James, has always been a bigger guy, never really took care of himself until recently. He started boxing to get into better shape and I have been doing it for about 4 years.
After a drunken night a few weeks ago, he punched a hole in a wall because he's an idiot and got mad that we didn't order pizza after the bar.
So last night as we're walking home from the bar we start making fun of him and he says he'll do it again. So he fake punched a wall and didn't break it and we all laughed at him.
So I said to him, that's not how you punch, and went for the wall hitting it as hard as I could... Not realizing that it was a cement wall I went all out and broke my wrist, and thee bones in my hand. | Broke my hand punching a wall. | [
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I know most of you have probably noticed this, but for those that haven't, this post is for you.
By looking at the caps of the various bottles, you can instantly assess their value. The following screenshot shows the four different types of bottles: Blackberry Juice, Purified Water, Stagnant Water(Dirty Water) and Empty Bottle
From Right to Left, they are:
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First, the resellers can only make that profit if the event sells out. Do they sometimes pull nonsense to force the sellout? Yes. But if they mess up, they lose money.
Second, they provide a service. Much like the people who stand in line for new video game systems and then sell them to the highest bidder, the resellers provide a service at a price. Do they cheat? More and more, yes. But someone working from nine to five has less time and more money than a college student, but both are desired patrons.
Now, why don't venues try and "price the tickets correctly" in the first place?
First, it's really hard to do. Venues aren't going to hire an economist full time to hunt down all the band's old sales records, cross reference them with the city's demographics, account for other events across town, and carry the employment level to find the perfect equilibrium price that just sells out the venue. Even if they did scalpers would still be able to make money on half the tickets, because half the market would be willing to pay more than the median price, you know?
The only real way to avoid (other than differing pricing levels) this would be with some kind of auction system, where everyone can bid on tickets and get it closer to the proper market level for everyone. But that kind of system is expensive, has it's own flaws, and basically just isn't worth it for the venue itself to do, but perhaps worth it for a third party to exploit (especially one like ticketmaster that can tackle the entire country instead of just a single venue.)
Second is simple fairness. Bands don't want teenagers to be left out. They don't. There's a reason why Fugazi kept their shows at $5 a ticket for as long as they possibly could. Most musicians started into music when they are young, have a connection to music that is young, and have a target audience in mind that is young. So they want to know that young people can make their shows. Double the price of already expensive tickets, and you've got a huge problem.
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My situation is probably different from yours since I am older and haven't been claimed as a dependent in over a decade. Hopefully you do not get screwed over as much as I have.
Anyway, to claim "hardship" or something similar is probably not going to work. I have never made over $30,000 in my lifetime and lived in a state with a much higher cost of living than Georgia while paying for school and supporting myself. I also lost my job right around the time my payment was due while having a very low EFC and I never received any exceptions or leniency for being a broke ass. Yes, it really sucked.
As for the financial aid office, haha good luck with that. I went to speak with someone during the summer semester and she was no help. I knew more than she did...Very frustrating. I suggest that during the break you bust your ass searching for scholarships. Try [Fastweb]( [ScholarshipExperts]( or anything else you can find. Yes, writing essays blows, but it's free money and worth a shot. Plus, most of them are kinda fun and don't require too much work. However, a lot require a GPA of 3.0 or around that area. You may still be able to find some scholarships offering aid for spring, but most are probably going to be for summer or fall.
Sadly, it looks like you're probably going to have to take out a loan or kiss your parents' ass. However, like another user posted, you are most definitely going to require a co-signer. I'm guessing that you're very young and have little to no credit. I highly doubt that anyone will give you a loan without a co-signer. However, if a bank/company/whatever is willing to issue a loan without one, I would stay away...It is either a scam or your interest rate is going to be ridiculously high and not even worth it. Perhaps showing your parents the consequences that taking out a private loan has on your future will garner some sympathy.
Good luck and stop failing classes. | Read my novel. | [
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With the Honor System now online I'd like to propose an idea that would make team-players and kind summoners enjoy games together. Summoners who are working well with the team and being helpful to their team mates will most likely earn honor points, the summoners who get a lot of these honor points should be matched with other people of the same quality to ensure a pleasant game.
People who do not contribute to team or positive atmosphere of the game will then be playing with other people with the same mindset.
This would encourage people to reduce their rage and become more polite. I've played multiple games and the sole reason why we lost was because we had people focusing on raging then actually playing the game. Within an hour of the Honor System release I've heard my friends and random summoners saying that this system is actually helping them not to rage as frequently.
Good job, Riot. I'm interested what kind of bonus features we will see in the future for summoners who are being polite and playing in the best interest of their team. | People who receive X amount of Honor points are matched up with people who have the same amount of points. Pleasant people play with pleasant people. Haters play with haters. | [
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So today after class this guy and I both got on the same bus and were the only ones on there. We kept making eye contact and smiling at each other for a good 4 or 5 minutes. Then, he reached out his hand and introduced himself. We began talking and he seemed to be real into me. (Surprising because this doesn't usually happen and I was having a crazy hair day) I ended up telling him I was studying music and that I played guitar and sang. He said "I don't play an instrument, but maybe you can show me some time." Then the bus stopped at my spot. I didn't even give him my number or anything. I feel so dumb! He just kept looking into my eyes and smiling. He was so cute. I probably won't see him again because it's a big campus and he's not even a student -.- | super cute guy into me and I didn't make a move. | [
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