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I have to disagree. As a casual player of Dota I don't find myself tuning into most of the minor tournaments, but whenever the International comes around I'm excited to watch it (and contribute to through the compendium) because it's such a big event that always proves to be exciting and entertaining. Sure, the hardcore fans of CS would prefer more tournaments because there's more to watch and follow. However, I think if you want to help the game grow even bigger you need a big event like the International that you can flaunt. Also, 4 big (but not huge) tournaments from valve might discourage other potential sponsors from hosting tournaments. Definitely don't want 2 tournaments going on at once separating the teams. The first point is definitely the more important one I'm trying to make though. | 1 big tournament to flaunt might encourage more casual players to tune in and/or pay into the prize pool. | [
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Our rookie program starts with Orientation and Assessments, which will be held this Saturday from 12pm-3pm or Sunday 5pm-8pm at our warehouse located at 1801 W. Indiana Avenue, Philadelphia, PA 19132 . Come to either session. This is NOT a tryout. We accept all skaters regardless of skating experience, and will teach you everything you need to know in order to play the sport!
Bring quad skates, knee pads, elbow pads, and wrist guards. We also have loaner gear that you can borrow if you don't have your own.
Please send an email to [email protected] if you can, or just show up!
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I think that depends how much you're willing to put into it. Some tutors go above and beyond by preparing actual lectures with visual aids, code examples, etc. If you were to, for example, teach him Java, you could just say "this is a for loop, this is an if statement, now code something to print a right-triangle of *", that would be a $20/hr job. If you were to write up a few classes and a gui, then have him "fill in" the methods in the classes, that would be a significant improvement in quality of education, and the pay you receive. | you get paid what you're worth. | [
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Ok. A bit of context:
I'm a computer science major at Purdue University. I'm planning on going to Carnegie Mellon for a Masters in Human-Computer Interactions and a Masters in Entertainment Technology. My dream city is Seattle and I'm studying to become a game developer. I tend to vote liberal, and voted for President Obama this past fall. I also tend towards intellectual elitism.
To most, I am not a redneck by a long shot. So don't assume that I am one, either.
Why would you need 5 or 6 guns in your house? You don't. But why would you need 5 or 6 computers? A tablet PC? More than one TV? Hell, any TV?
I like guns. To me, there is something inherently beautiful in a mechanism capable of consistently throwing a few grams of copper and lead at faster-than-sound velocities reliably. I have never been as attracted to the form and function of a device as I have been to an original production model of a 1911A1 .45 pistol.
Off the top of my head, I could probably name over 150 weapons, their caliber, and their country of origin. Were I not a CS student, I would probably be an ME major and trying to become a gunsmith or weapons engineer.
On the flip side of that coin, I don't like hunting. I have never killed anything that didn't have less than six legs in my life and I never plan to. The thought of going out and shooting a person is, to me, sickening. But I don't deny that it is necessary in certain situations (warfare/self defense).
You think it is a simple solution, but you're focusing on something that isn't the problem; you're treating the symptom, not the cause of the violence. Why do people kill each other? I've held guns in my hand before; never have I felt compelled to shoot another human or animal. Obviously the problem isn't the gun for it doesn't make people kill people.
Why do people resort to violence? The answer is when they have no other alternative. The people who most often kill are those who have no future (gang life, drug addict) or are desperate (poor, unemployed), and they do so because they have little alternative in their minds.
Have you ever seen a middle-class man with a wife and children walk into a convenience store and shoot a clerk? Or rob a bank teller at gun point? Or fight in a gang war over turf?
Of course you havn't. Those people don't have to; they've already secured themselves financially.
Unless you tackle the huge wealth and education gaps in this country, gun control will do nothing to solve these problems. People will still kill each other regardless of the tools at hand.
You have to make people not need or want to kill others.
Also, your view of the 2nd Amendment is wrong, and unfortunately I have to side with the rednecks. The 2nd Amendment was designed with the purpose of A) enabling the creation of civilian militias, B) to defend against a tyrannical government, C) to defend civilians in the event of a non-existent government, and D) to insure the legality of hunting. | Gun restrictions will impede people like me's right to own something they enjoy. You're damn straight people will be pissed. | [
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Use Ubuntu, use Android, use anything that isn't Windows, wherever you can, whenever you can. If you have to use Windows for your job, don't pick Win8. Seriously, why pick it in the first place? What does it offer that Win7 can't give you? | treat Win8 like the Vista it is, and keep the previous Windows until the next version comes up. | [
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FC leader; we used to have a really nice married couple in our guild, both from Holland. They were super super nice, and I still speak to them today. All they would do is craft all day long, and if you asked for anything, they'd have mailed it to you within 20 minutes. If you tried paying them, they sent you angry mail back with your money + extra. Super nice people.
Then, one day, a new guy was invited. He seemed nice for a couple weeks, when all of a sudden he left. I was kinda confused, and tried to get in touch, but was ignored. Turns out, he'd left after an argument with the married couple, in which he said some horrible things, that I won't list all of here...
One of the things was, however, "I can't be in an FC with a couple of Dutch c*nts."
So, that sucked. A lot. But shortly after, the married couple left, which was also kinda sucky. I mean, still in touch now, they're great! Then shortly after, more left... and then it kinda just boiled down to me and my brother being the only active members anymore...
I was kinda disheartened. So, I took a break for about a week. Came back to discover an ex-officer had returned to the game, taken the entirety of gil in the FC chest (that we were saving as our house fund), and left the FC.
:(
But hey, things are getting back on track now - and I managed to, through many hours of work, refund the amount we lost from the chest. Hooray!
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Completely agree with you but there is a larger issue here than the "fans" not knowing what they're talking about. The WWE universe wants to be the ones to control the outcomes. Control the stories. At this rate, we're going to see Raw hijacked by the fans. We've already seen glimpses of this.
If I'm going to spend my hard earned dollars on a WWE show, yes I will cheer, yes i will jeer as well but I want to be entertained. I want see and experience the magic in the storytelling. I want to be genuinely surprised. A real "Holy shit!" moment. We won't get that if the fans continue this way. | Bigger issue at hand. Fans suck. Where's the magic. | [
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I understand the pro-life argument, but there are some circumstances in which pro-choice is necessary. I have a friend who recently became pregnant. She was super excited about it. However, during the pregnancy she found out she was had a heart problem (can't remember the exact condition), and basically her heart would most likely be unable to handle childbirth. The doctor told her she would probably die, killing the child as well, so she had to get an abortion. Needless to say, she got a lot of flak on her way in to the clinic. I can't even imagine how it made her feel. These people don't care though, all they saw was a young girl who didn't want a kid. | friend had a condition that would kill her and her child during labor, needed an abortion, got flak heading to the clinic. | [
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Pardon my extreme ignorance on this topic, as it's something I find difficult to understand from any kind of logical perspective. If it seems like you might need to explain it like I'm 5, please do. But these questions stem from reading loads and loads of painful-to-sit-through SRS posts.
When we say "he" or "she" or "his" or "hers", are we referring to the sex of a person or the gender of a person? I understand biological sex and gender are seen as two different things. But I don't understand the idea of gender that well if it is subjective, if it is something one chooses. Since when have we acknowledged people based on identities they choose ? I've never taken a course on gender studies, so my understanding of the differences between gender and sex begins and ends with Wikipedia.
If gender is something so arbitrary and subjective that one can just choose what gender they are, why does it matter? Why would pronouns refer to one's gender and not one's sex? As I understand it, we're to respect one's gender identity, and use the appropriate pronoun when speaking of them. Why can't our pronouns refer to their biological sex rather than their chosen gender? When and where did the idea that our gender identity is our distinction come into play? Furthermore, doesn't the whole idea of gender identity, whether it be male, female, androgynous, or anything else, despite your biological sex, play into the much loathed gender roles? Even if you're a man biologically, but you gender identify as female/feminine, you're following the designated gender role of women, and by virtue of the fact that you're calling it female/feminine, you're acknowledging that it's a feminine role, and accepting that it's, more or less, "for females". That seems to be putting a lot of stock in the idea of social constructs, no matter which gender identity you're choosing. Ignoring labels altogether and saying you gender identify as no gender is the only thing that makes sense, if one is opposed to gender roles.
But I guess my biggest question is: Why gender? Why does it matter as something separate from sex? Why is sex alone not enough? By acknowledging gender identity at all, one is reinforcing the importance of gender. Gender seems meaningless to me, and I can't find anything that convinces me otherwise. It's a pretty esoteric concept that seems widely open to interpretation, that can change on a whim, with no solid importance or impact. If one wants to choose what gender they identify as, and hence, what pronoun we use to describe them, why can one not choose their race or their species? In what substantial way is me species-identifying as a sabre-toothed tiger different and in any way less reasonable than someone self-identifying as whichever gender they want? I mean no disrespect, but on the level I understand it, this comparison is perfectly valid.
It seems that those who talk about gender the most (like SRS) are the only ones truly hung up on gender. They're the ones who care the most about it, who think about it nonstop, and who see it as some kind of obstacle. Yet, they strengthen this obstacle by letting it dictate who they are. By saying you choose a specific gender role, you're acknowledging that you're a victim of gender roles, and playing into that victim mindset. Even by saying, "I reject my female gender roles as a woman, and I now gender-identify as a man!" you're succumbing to the force of gender, the construct of social standards, and changing part of who you are to match this idea you have of that gender. The idea of gender only seems to enslave those who complain the most about it. | I don't get gender. | [
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I don't feel like I'm the guy I wanted to be. I feel embarrass of the guy who I am or I see myself as today.
I see myself as a uninteresting 16 year old guy (lives in Compton California) who does nothing all day everyday and has about a few friends who I chat with every now I then. It puts me down. I'm shy, have social anxiety, insecure, and nearly to no confidence for myself.
I use to always have an urge to hang with a friend or be out of the house and try to do something fun before the day ends.
I always wanted a group of friends and get invited to a social gathering or event every now and then. I want to feel confident about my appearance. Be Casanova . Be a fun interesting person to talk too and have people want to hang or chat with me.
Since I don't have any hobbies or interests and get shy and nervous on what to say in person, I can't seem to get out there and try anymore.
I tried picking up a hobby like guitar or drawing but I can't get into them and stay wanting to do this. I feel boring that I don't feel like I'm a person to get too know.
And then at times I feel like I have to make myself appear a certain way to keep myself coming off needy and a weird person.
I honestly don't know what I want or need to do to feel happy about myself or who i am. I'm failing high school and don't what's my plan on being able to have a place on my own and able to feed myself every day. School makes my anxiety rise and can never focus or stay determined to work. In this small continuation school I go too. I stand alone during a 40 Min lunch and don't have anything to occupy myself with to avoid being seen and known as the one weird loner. Had a couple girls laugh at my face seeing how lonely I am. | I'm ashamed and embarrassed who I found myself to be. Not happy with myself. Point where I don't know how to make myself be more confident, social, interesting, fun, self esteem.
I'm shy. Low self esteem. Have no hobbies. Lil to no friends. Failing high school. Awkward. Unattractive/Unappealing. See nothing interesting about myself. Can't keep a conversation. Stay interested in a hobby. Tried many times to change my persona and now feel like a joke and don't know what to do. | [
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I am about to begin my last year of my Master's in Accounting program, and I currently work for a small "part-time CFO" firm, where we do everything accounting/finance related aside from taxes for small to medium sized companies.
I'm a non-traditional student. 28 years old, with a liberal arts background, about to get married--but no kids. I would definitely appreciate work-life balance, but also job stability. Here are my career options, and I need help deciding what to do:
A) Stay with current company. I get paid hourly, but they said they could give me a base salary (to be determined), and essentially let me build my own book of business. I'd be able to leverage their name/network obviously, and commission upside could be really great. Or I could bring home nothing extra. Entrepreneurial risk, but I set my own hours. Another con--nobody on staff has a current CPA license, so I don't know how I'd get my 1 year experience after passing the exams. Oh, and ZERO benefits (insurance, vacation, etc.), although I can now get on my wife's plan at her job.
B) Go through recruitment. One of the partners I work with now is former Big 4, and he recommends the experience (although now he does option A I described above). I'm worried that I will dislike going from what I'm doing now (sometimes controller level work, financial models, even writing business plans) to filling out spreadsheets in a conference room all day while someone 5 years younger than me bosses me around...for 80 hours a week.
Pro: Can get my CPA license with 1 year experience. Guaranteed salary & benefits. Con: Work-life balance. Possibly uninteresting grunt work.
C) Industry. Might be a better fit to go right to industry, but I'm not sure how easy it will be to move up without public experience. Possibly better work-life balance? One of the partners I work with now spent 20 years in industry and he told me: "Go Big 4 or a big player in industry to get the best experience right out of school."
D) That same partner also said he could get me a job at a local investment bank, so I could get sponsored for series exams and become a FINRA rep--I'd have to ask about more details on this position, but it sounds intriguing as long as it's not purely commission. | I am in my late 20's, non-trad grad student, about to get married, and I work for a finance firm with interesting work. I'm worried that if I stay it will be too much entrepreneurial risk (find my own clients) to support me and my wife and I'm not sure I can get required CPA experience. I'm worried if I go, I will hate public accounting's long hours and monotony, but maybe appreciate the steady pay/benefits. Advice? | [
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Long-time lurker here. To everyone on nofap - you are an incredible community. Thank you.
A few weeks ago, I learned something that could be really helpful to others here. It may also be really obvious to you: When you feel out of control, you want to look at porn, as a way to make it feel like you're in control.
At the moment, I've had a low-level desire to look at porn that's been around for 24-48 hours. I'm 45 days without P or M (I'm married, and nofap is great for my marriage, but that's another post.)
Usually, when I wanted to look at porn, I'd fight it for a few days, all the while knowing that I'd eventually give into it and binge pretty hard.
It's different, now. I have no plan on looking at porn, but I am trying to use this desire for good.
Work has been a little stressful, my wife and I are moving half way across the country (USA) in a few weeks, and, while we're making more money than we spend, I feel some anxiety about money.
This all counts as stress. And I think that's why I want to fap. So, instead, I'm gonna take my wife on a date (doesn't that seem way better than fapping?) and I recently discovered www.ynab.com (budgeting software/methodology. Really useful stuff!) and I'm working on getting all our spending into that system.
I'm writing this mostly to think out loud, and reaffirm to myself that I'm not interested in fapping, but I hope it may be useful to some of you out there. I know I've been helped by so much of what I've read on here. | When I feel out of control, I want to use porn to create a false sense of being in control. If this fits you, when you want to look at porn, figure out where you feel out of control, and deal with THAT. Don't fap. | [
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Mallorca/Majorca, Balearic Islands, Spain
I had a weekend to kill in Europe after a friend in Scotland canceled plans and, due to the extreme exchange rate on the GBP at the time (2.10USD to 1GBP) I decided to stay in the European mainland as long as possible (I was doing a 2.5 week budget trip to Berlin and London). I had always wanted to check out Spain so I figured a cheap weekend in Palma de Mallorca was the ticket.
I don't do resorts or clubbing. I do not care for extremely hot weather. I went in November, thinking the temps would be in the manageable 70s, only to have a freak heatwave make it 95 degrees. I stayed right near the cathedral. I arrived on Friday and left on Monday, and that weekend everything closed late Saturday morning and didn't open back up again until I was flying out - I had severely underestimated the impact of religion on local business. I basically spent the whole weekend reading books in the shade and waiting to fly back out. There were some interesting features - the cathedral was lovely, and McGowan's Irish Pub gave me some much needed English language interaction after having been solidly immersed in German for a week, but unless you were into 11pm dinners or clubbing there wasn't much or anything to do.
I had several options available to kill that weekend and I choose Mallorca on the advice of my father who I later learned had only spent one day there, ever, and that was when his ship went into port for the afternoon and he and his buddies went to a nude beach. | Wasted a weekend in Mallorca on the advice of my father who later admitted he only spent a day there and it was on a nude beach. | [
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FWIW, the author of the piece has a pretty bombastic history, specifically with respect to Islam in general. While people in alignment with his ideology may find him informative, his detractors may find him lacking grace and objectivity in service of sensationalism. | He's a bit of a loud talking head | [
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In the show she was clearly flirting, smiling and acting coy. To then compliment his glasses. Where he clearly misses the flirtation.
He's not rejecting the flirtation but he has visible social skills missing, its his character. Where his counterpart would read too much into a compliment as flirtation. Which is reflected in the episode of the nude calendar he tries to set up to support the bosseyed afflicted. | I've watched the show too much. | [
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When I first started working at my current job, my ex was not there for the beginning of it. He is one of two managers and during the beginning of my job, he was off at corporate. When he came back, he almost instantly started flirting with me, dropping hints and such. We started to hang out, and before I knew it I was bringing him home to mom and dad.
After about a month, he really started slacking off in the relationship. We barely saw each other, he wouldn't message me for days on end and when I'd try to make plans his excuse was he was busy with work (he has two jobs). No one in the workplace knew about our relationship except his cousin, who works there also. When we broke up, work became very tense. He always assigns me to the jobs no one wants to do, if I talk to any other male coworkers he will intervene, the whole "get back to work" thing, almost as if he is jealous.
Recently, I found out he has been flirting with the other manager [19F], which surprised me because he had mentioned before they didn't like each other. She made it clear to us (the coworkers) she wasn't interested and was getting annoyed, because he was "texting and snapchatting her every day and always came in when [she] was closing". I also found out that my ex had been flirting with another coworker [18F]--who has a boyfriend--while we were together. I'm very hurt and angry and confused and I just want to get rid of these feelings and just be strictly professional with him. | Dated my boss. He's a player. I'm hurt and pissed, just want to get over him. How can I do that?
Edit : Changed "was" to "is". | [
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to quote a great mind far superior to an insect like you
> | you stupid fuck | [
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I'm still not sure what they plan to do about the batteries. With a nice drone they can probably get a 2lb package, and have like 20 minutes of flight time. They'll probably plan on closer to 15 so they don't lose drones from dying batteries, and that gives them 7 minutes of flight time to their destination. A drone can't fly very far in 7 minutes.
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Great guide. 11/10, good mise en scene, good lighting, would read again.
Just wanted to add, before everyone starts breeding HP pokemon as a new fad that pokemon using moves of their typing (i.e. Politoad with water) gets a 1.5% boost that should be taken into account. Coupled with the fact that HP only has a low 60 BP, generally moves with stab will be doing more damage because of the higher BP than a HP move that is only x2 super effective. | HP is more often than not only useful when dealing against pokemon with x4 weaknesses and stab moves are mostly preferred otherwise. | [
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If your girlfriend wants you to go to church, don't be afraid of being dishonest. As long as you don't say you believe, you will be fine, though you don't need to go out of your way and tell everyone you don't believe either. If her church is small, they'll know you're new, and will welcome you. If it's larger, then it won't matter much as you probably won't talk to a ton of people. Going to church with her will help her feel that you accept her beliefs, and are keeping an open mind. While I'm catholic, I've been to many other denominations of churches, and so far from what I've seen, they would all be fine with this. Make sure though, that if there is communion, you don't take it, unless the denomination she is in allows non-believers to eat it.
Now, about trying to win her back. First, you should make sure it isn't [eros]( love. If it is, she probaly isn't the best person for you. If, however, you think it's more [agape-like]( then you should definetly try and get back together.
So first, you could try convincing her that a christian dating a non christian is not bad/sin or whatever she thinks it is. Do you know any athiest and religiou couples who are married? That could help. If not, or if that doesn't work, try talking about love, specifically the agape type. Try reading 1 Corinthians chapter 13, just search it up online. You might also want to point out that god is love. You can do this from a purely philosophical viewpoint, but I believe there are places in the bible where this is echoed. If God is love, then as a result, it should not matter whether or not you are christian, as long as you love each other. I know that at least with Catholics, they are allowed to marry non-believers. It's probably the same with lots of other denominations.
You should probably also ask why there is such a radical change in her attitude towards dating you. It's possible that it could be her parents found out, or she's scared of christian friends finding out. Depending on what she says, it might help you. If it is because of pressure from religious friends, then point out to her that that pressure is not christian-like, as the bible teaches that we should be accepting of others, even if they have different faiths. Who knows, maybe your girlfriend, through prayer and example, will eventually help convert you. (Probbaly best not to say that to her though)
I think that you should definelty not try and become a christian. At this point, it's highly unlikely that you could make her think that you are sincere, and it's also unlikely that you would really be sincere. I don't want to say go through the motions of being one, but try to support her in her faith, so go to church with her, celebrate things like christmas (in a christian way) and easter with her.
My grandparents were Catholic and bhuddist, and they were married for over 50 years, and had 7 children, so it can definetly work. Anyway, good luck, and if I think of anything else I'll let you know.
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The quotes from the Declaration and the Constitution are very simple abbreviations of what was at that time the cutting edge of political philosphy. Immanuel Kant and others put forth the idea of "Natural Law" and the "Natural Rights" which derive from Natural Law. The founders mentioned God simply because God was thought of as the "author" of Natural Law & therefore Natural Rights. Natural Law/Rights still hold up if you remove the author.
Enlightenment thinking on politics, governance, etc. took things down to the atomic level. The individual is regarded as the atom of society. So you take an individual and place them in nature and ask "what rights does this person have?" From this thought experiment emerged "Life, Liberty, & property" (property was replaced with 'pursuit of happiness' in the declaration because some founders didn't want to endorse slavery).
Then you take the thought experiment backwards from the isolated individual in nature to thousands or millions of individuals within the political or societal "unit". From that, enlightenment era thinking came to the conclusion that about the only legitimate restrictions on the rights (natural rights) of an individual are where exercising the right would infringe on the rights of another individual.
All of this is to say that, yes, you are technically correct that "rights" are an imaginary construct invented by humans, but they are constructs grounded in reality in much the same way that the atomic theory or the germ theory were "made up" before we had the technology to confirm these ideas. It isn't like people just out of the blue said "I know my rights!" and started dumping tea in the harbor.
Edit: trying to break it down to a | It isn't so much a case of: "I say I have rights, therefore I have rights" or "God gives me rights, therefore I have rights". Its "everything we know about nature, the universe, and reality points to me having rights, therefore I have rights". | [
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Here's the monster line up the topping decks are running:
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That's exactly what I was thinking. Well not exactly I guess. I think seeing a group of companies fight with and against you would be awesome, but there needs to be something beyond two larger factions fighting. Maybe it starts out with all of the corporations (minus Torgue) against you. Then halfway through or so I'd like to see one company break away as the big bad while the others fall into a "civil war". Or the infighting breaks out and then a victor emerges.
Either way, as this happens it'd be cool to jump around between the different companies to aid them in certain areas that benefit you the most. Say Jakobs needs to destroy a Maliwan stockpile. This gets Maliwan products off the market for Jakobs, but Maliwans troops can't be armed as well to fight you. Basically as the game progresses, you're constantly breaking and forming alliances when it helps you. | 1. The big corporations on one team. 2. They turn on each other and scramble for a leg up on each other. 3. You are that leg up. 4. Mercenaries. | [
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Split Proportionally
You said the two of you have a combined [yearly] income of ~250k. You did not say the income is split evenly (both earning 125k). One of you could be earning 90k and the other 160k (or other variations).
Contribute proportionally to shared expenses based on income.
If one of you is taking home 90k/year, that person should contribute toward 36% of shared costs. (90/250 = 0.36)
Agree on a Monthly Budget
This budget should include shared fixed items (rent, cable, internet, etc.), a utilities estimate, and agreed upon estimates for variable shared items: groceries, entertainment, eating out together, etc).
Let's say your shared monthly budget comes out to 6k. If one of you is taking home 90k/year, that person would contribute $2,160 (36% of 6k) each month toward shared expenses.
Each month, both of you can put your proportional share into a joint account -OR- one of you can pay the other your share.
Some people will want to wait until they are engaged or married to have a joint account. It depends on what the two of you are comfortable with.
Both Names Should be on Shared Accounts
Lease agreement, utilities, cable/internet, shared cell phone account - both of your names should be listed on these accounts for various reasons. This way, both of you will have access to these accounts, and if one of you were to pass away unexpectedly, having both your names on the accounts could make transitioning much easier.
Hold Off on Combining Funds for Future Financial Goals
You said that neither of you have lived with a SO before. The two of you have been dating for two years. Although you might be deeply in love right now and have wonderful plans for the future, it is entirely possible that the two of you might break up. If you are thinking about buying a house in a couple of years, regardless of whether or not the two of you stay together - great! Start setting aside money for that goal on your own. Your SO can also start setting aside money for that goal on her own.
Do not combine money for future goals at this time.
If after living together for 2 or 3 years, you still love each other and want to buy a house together - great! You can combine your house savings at that time. On the other hand, if you break up, you'll probably be thankful for not having to sit down with your now ex and to figure out how much each of you contributed to your "Future House Fund."
Similarly, I would echo /u/buckets_of_ducats suggestion of not making purchases of physical items (like furniture, cars, or even pets) together. Following this rule can make breakups a lot easier. | Contribute proportionally to shared expenses based on income. Agree on a monthly budget and contribute each month based on your proportion. Put both of your names on all shared accounts (lease, utilities, internet/cable, shared phone account, etc). Do not combine funds that you're setting aside for future financial goals (like buying a house) at this time.
Edit: word choice for clarity | [
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Yeah, Artics and snow (ironically?) don't mix well. You're basically driving a Semi with rear-wheel drive. I heard one driver describe it as driving a truck with a big boat trailer, but with the trailer pushing the truck. Apparently the traction control is really wonky, too. | Be glad you're not driving an inverse-semi in the snow with 80 people onboard. | [
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and reading is definitely one of those things that take a lot of brain power
> | the guy's wrong, the Flynn effect is a proof of that.
LOL | [
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I absolutely disagree with you but can definitely see what you're talking about. I actually think Darjeeling has both his best and worse work in it (although I seriously loved Budapest, more on that later). His first few films (which I also love) are more concerned with creating a story that fits the style he created. What I think Darjeeling did differently, was to grapple with issues that were apart from the style. As though there was a force outside the movie that imposes itself. That force is death. It is powerful and IMHO struggling with that through ones work is a hallmark of a work worth considering. SPOILER ALERT: the movie is its best once they get thrown off the train to when they leave the village. Including the flashback. The film takes a serious nosedive into shit after that. That middle chunk of the film is an astonishingly adult moment from a filmmaker who had seemed to only flirt with these emotions previously (see Royal's cancer and Zissou's friend as the actual narratives at work. Without the specter of death, neither of those plots occur.) so I totally understand the hate for this film. I think it shows a lot of promise, but is frightfully uneven.
Which leads me to actual reason I came to this thread... I fucking hate the Fantastic Mr. Fox and Moonrise Kingdom. The first one is such a pile of shit I won't even try to get into it except to mention that he literally phoned that movie in. I'm not misusing that word either. He was in Paris and would skype with the animators in London to dictate what they were going to do. 'Nuff said as far as I'm concerned. The second one is nothing more than an exercise in vanity. Yes, there is still the specter of death in the danger of the storm at the end, but it's given a goddam storybook out, erasing all the consequences! Oh how I hate it when I'm robbed of a story's consequences.
To circle back briefly, Budapest had it all! Exceptional style, the aspect ratios matched dominant style if the time period they took place in, fantastic characters, roaring adventure, but unlike in Moonrise there are actual consequences to actions here. They are seen through the lens of time. These characters have very real flaws but still incredibly quirky. They get their charm and reality from the work he did in Life Aquatic.
It's late, I'm sure I rambled too much and I'm tired so I'll cut this short and hand in my | There's a line in Wes Anderson's work. On one side of it stands Grand Budapest, the Life Aquatic, the Royal Tannenbaums, and Bottle Rocket while on the other is Moonrise Kingdom, the Fantastic Mr. Fox, and an old diaper. | [
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So what you are saying is that because some people can't help themselves and drink or text and drive and kill people that cars are death machines and need to be off the road.
Not exactly. I just feel like, in general, even people without distractions are not very good at understanding how dangerous propelling a ton+ of metal at 60+ mph can be, and how quickly that danger can present itself (until they've had to react to something like a tire blowing out or a critter running across the road). Drivers have always been susceptible to dozing off at the wheel or having a pet/child demand their attention for an inopportune moment (i.a.), but that hasn't stopped driving from being a perfectly reasonable method of transportation. But we're on the verge of having a much better option.
I don't think that people are incapable of driving. I just feel like constantly-aware machines will be better at it, on the whole. Especially as distractions become more commonplace, I would feel much better knowing that whatever was commanding the vehicles around me was, at the very least, looking at the road. | I'm a paranoid driver. | [
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Okay, So I'm at my job and I hear some of my coworkers talking about an interesting topic, and in an offshoot of this conversation I mention that I find it convenient and useful that you can instantly gauge whether or not you need more rest by looking looking in a mirror and pulling down your eyelid... If there is a reasonably solid red line on the inside of the lower eyelid and your eyelid isn't normally that color, it means you should get more sleep, and that you could possibly be sick as well. If it is light red or pinkish though, you are healthy and your body is not exhausted. Using this method, when one feels slightly exhausted or has the urge to lay down, it is possible to gauge whether you should lay down for a couple minutes and relax or if you should pack and go home.
In my particular case (which led to my mentioning it later that day), I did not sleep at ALL last weekend. I was on a trip with a school club , and concluded I should go to bed RIGHT THAT SECOND, even though it was only 7:30 pm(19:30 for some of you).
In the morning I woke up VERY energetic and completely refreshed. I went to school (college) and started working on a project, and un-hacked my dad's email as well(he got phished). I got bored and went out for a cigar, having not had one ALL weekend.
It felt good. It felt SO SO SO SO good. I was zoned completely, so happy to get one finally, having been disallowed to smoke on the trip (no smoking rants please, I know it will eventually kill me). Anyway, I got really relaxed, and somewhat dizzy. A feeling I was used to... a good strong cigar can have that effect, and no I was not smoking green. I sat down on a bench outside, and leaned back. My head felt great, I was extremely relaxed and I eventually laid down for like five minutes. A janitor came by, and not wanting to look like some homeless bozo, I put out my cigar and went inside. I went to the bathroom, and as I was walking out I looked in the mirror and checked under my eyelid to see if I was tired or if it was just the cigar... Eyelids pinkish and very normal. So, I happily went on my way to the lab and continued my work.
THAT is the reason I mentioned the usefulness of this tip later that day. So, am I right in saying it's a near-perfect gauge of bodily tiredness/lack of sleep, or is it just a coincidence or something like that(personal bias, tendency of tired people to rub eyes, etc.) | I can't find anywhere online supporting my childhood-old claim that you get a red line on the inside of your lower eyelid when you're tired, and that this is a perfect gauge of tiredness from sleep deprivation(versus exhaustion from physical/mental exercise)... A coworker challenged me on this. HELP! P.S. I'm okay with being wrong. | [
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About 3 months ago, I spilled a big bowl of oatmeal all over my mom's portable DVD player. I quickly "cleaned" it up the best I could, and wrapped it in a shower towel for later inspection. A week later I found it in the towel while cleaning my room. I quickly threw it away in our dumpster in annoyance (it was taking up space) and didn't think much of it. Around Christmastime my mom bought a Christmas CD to be played in her DVD player. When she couldn't find it, she blamed my sister for losing this precious piece of shit and the CD that was apparently in it, and my sister believed it! For Christmas I bought her a new DVD player out of guilt but she hasn't even opened it and I've since found out that she was really just upset about the missing CD. Nearly everyday for the past 3 months my mom has mentioned the missing player to my sister and she's been searching fruitlessly for it. It's becoming very tense between the two and I was going to come clean but I just never got around to it and now I feel that it's impossible. Even worse, now I'm out $40 for an archaic DVD player that may never see the light of day. | trashed my moms DVD player, she thinks my sister lost it, down $40 and stuck in secrecy | [
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EDIT: I'm leaving my first sentence because people have quoted it, but I realize it sounds a little condescending. I posted a comment that clarifies my opinion on this sub, so if you have a problem with it, I would point you to that comment. Let's try to keep this on topic now.
I don't typically post on this sub, because I feel that it often slips into being an echo chamber, but I felt this was the best place to share this little story.
I'll start my story by saying this- I live in the Bible Belt, and I am the only progressive/atheist that I know. Because of this, I don't typically put my political opinions (and never my religious opinions) on social media. I know that people will just get butthurt. However, I made an exception. I expected to have some civil conversations with people who disagreed. Boy, was I wrong!
I'll explain why I made an exception. My newsfeed has been getting slammed with ridiculous memes about Hillary, claiming she is a murderer, saying she advocates abortion until 36 weeks, the next Hitler, etc. I am not the biggest Hillary fan, but I happened to see that someone I am "friends" with posted about how Hillary wants to abort full term babies. This post got 50+ likes.
I will quote my comment word for word.
"I'm not a die-hard Hillary fan, but this simply isn't true. Yes, she is pro-choice. However, she has never advocated murdering 9 month old babies."
After I posted that, I realized that the OP probably said "babies" rather than "fetuses" for effect. I originally thought she meant that Democrats wanted to kill babies after they had been born. Turns out I wasn't the only one who interpreted it that way. Once I realized that, I thought that I could at least get the OP to clarify.
Well, another person that interpreted it the way I did was insane. He felt it necessary to jump in. I'll post his comment in quotes.
"IDK you, but maybe you should do your research. Hillary is a democrat. They absolutely do believe in murdering babies, however many months. 1 is the same as 9."
My response-
"IDK you either, but Google is your friend. I know the parties. You think Democrats advocate murdering babies? Honestly?
Some people call abortion murder. I'd prefer not to get into that right as it is a very heated issue. My point was that the claim that Democrats want 36 week abortions is simply not true. If you are anti-abortion, that is fine. I don't want to talk about that right now. I just don't want something that isn't true to sway your vote."
Well, my would be challenger takes a step into the deep end of the crazy pool.
His response-
"Yes son, Democrats do advocate murdering babies. Even after they are born. They would kill the sick if they could. They even want to use Obamacare to kill old people. Obviously your parents didn't raise you right. I wish they didn't let people like you vote."
I was stunned. I don't care to post the rest of the comments because people just went bonkers, but suffice it say I maintained my nuance and civility while this guy threatened to "slap my smart mouth". I'm 17, he is 40.
I was just amazed at how divided people are (especially where I live). A man I've never met came to the conclusion someone needed to beat my ass and that I shouldn't be able to vote because of a few Facebook comments. Not to mention that the OP and several people who liked the original post agreed with him!
The irony in the rest of the comments was palpable. People would say things like "Everyone can have their own opinion, but can you unfriend me?" The crazy guy said I was immature and needed to grow up (despite the fact that he threatened physical violence once he realized I disagreed with him). People jumped in to "pray for my stupidity". In response to the prayer offer, I said "that sounds an awful lot like "bless your heart", but thanks for your willingness to be civil." I was simultaneously shocked and dying of laughter. | People surprise me with their level of craziness. | [
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My grandfather told the story that when he was in his first year of medical school, which I think would have been 1942, one of his professors gave lengthy lecture on urinalysis, at the climax of which he brought out two beakers of turgid yellow liquid.
"But of course," the professor concluded, "sometimes the most direct methods are still the best. One of these beakers contains a speciman of urine from a healthy person, the other a sample from a diabetic. If you taste them" - and here he dipped a finger into each beaker and popped it in his mouth - "you will detect a definite sweetness in the urine of the diabetic."
One by one, each of the students filed up to the desk, reluctantly tasted the two samples of urine and sat back down. When they'd all been, the professor continued, "all physicians must have two qualities: ean inquiring mind and a discerning eye. All of you are to be congratulated upon the first. Had you, however, possessed a discerning eye, you would have noted that I dipped my index finger, but licked my middle finger. Good day." | Professor Troll takes the piss. | [
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Hello!
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In Turkish, "kim" means "who". Also Kardashian is homonymic with "kardeşin", which means your sibling. So her name makes "who is your sibling". I think "kardash" in her family name comes from Turkish because of her being in Armenian descent. | Reaction of Turkish people to her name is way too different. | [
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This is somewhat just me being contrary, but I think that there are enough people in the world already. If someone wants to lead a life without having kids, I admire that person. Not just because he or she has done her part to help with the overpopulation problem, but because in many ways having a kid makes you a more selfish individual- just with regards to your family instead of yourself.
I'm far too young to put much weight behind any of this, but it seems to me that when people have kids, the necessary narrowing of their lifelstyles has an equivalent effect on their perspectives- I have no doubt that it changed the way you look at the world, but I don't think it was necessarily all for the better. What's more, the financial strain of a child significantly shifts focus away from the societal "big picture"- the political views of single people in general (as opposed to parents), tend to be less concerned with their needs and more with those of society as a whole. (I think- this may just be my personal experience). | A lot of people give up their dreams when they have kids, and a lot of single people/childless couples lead incredibly happy, adventurous, and fulfilling lives. I don't think it's as straightforward as you make it out to be. | [
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Before you start reading I'm going to tell you right now that this is going to be a rant, and I'm letting off steam due to what happened.
I was just going along slaying while completing some homework, I kept up my prayer above 40 points the entire time just in case I dc'ed due to connection issues (the world kept lagging). Well go figure, I take my prayer down to gather up a drop to save prayer points and right before the dragon respawns I click on the protect from melee prayer, but.. it doesn't work. I kept clicking it and clicking it until I see "connection lost", at this point I could tell what was going to happen, and so can you probably.
I end up dying and end up keeping my fury, dragon scim, and barrows gloves.. but what did I lose? A fire cape, dragon boots, and my slayer helmet. I mean, are you serious? How are you calculating the way things are protected? I understand alch value is a factor but you need to rethink the alch values of these untradable items.
Barrows gloves are 130k, and something that we can easily pick up from the chest in lumbridge basement, however, when I die and protect those simple to obtain gloves over something that had taken me multiple 2 hour trips to achieve that's just some bullshit. | Fix your protection on death values, your server issues, and your damn game.
/rant | [
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I know something about how you treat people if you say you label them against their will. I know what you have told me. And I know how you have treated me, which was rude from the start. You keep trying to insult me, and I keep being factual.
As I said, labeling people against their will is no different when a transphobic jerk does it to a trans woman or when a trans woman does it to someone else. That has been my point.
You don't want people doing it to you so why would you do it to other people. It's the golden rule in black and white. Different people have different beliefs and definitions. To try to force them to change their identity for you (their self definition) is ridiculous.
I've said it over and over. And I've pointed out where you have been abusive and illogical. You seem to expect something more from me, but it's not something you're going to get by being more abusive. As I said, you can keep doing it, and I can keep pointing out that you're wrong.
>No transphobic bigot will ever change the way they think because you change the definition of man or woman.
This isn't true. I've been in /r/TP long enough to change some minds. There are all sorts of ways people respond, but their definitions have been changed from time to time. (Not to mention all the work to change things like legal definitions, group / club definitions, even going so far as to add words to the English language to describe the reality of human sex, etc all in order to be inclusive should not be taken for granted.) | You don't get to define other people's identities. Continuing to be abusive won't change that. You can be a transsexual if you want. Some people just want to be women. And no amount of rudeness or abuse from you is going to change that either. Oh, and yes, definitions do get changed -- even for former transphobic jerks. | [
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We enjoy our racist jokes but most of us are nice to those of all color. The minorities that do live there full time are hard working, good people, and most people aren't mean to them. When winter turns to spring we get Mexicans for all of the crop but you can't really complain because they're gone by fall. | we tell racist jokes but the minorities that do stick around are good people we tend not to fuck with. | [
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The biggest thing for me was to get used to Flex being more "durable" than the labs I always had as a kid. Bullies are bowling balls. They are tough. They are ridiculously tough. Not tough as in you can treat them like shit and they'll be ok, but tough as in they can and will run into walls at full speed and be unfazed. They will run like a bull in a china store when they are fetching and will literally knock over everything in their way. It truly is impressive.
With that in mind, this is my real advice: It won't stay a puppy forever. Don't allow or encourage any behavior that you don't want him doing as an adult when he is a puppy. Make sure you stop the overly rough play when he's a puppy so he knows his limits, that retriever may be fluffy and look bigger, but I can promise you it won't play bite as hard or look as fierce doing it. Don't let him nip at other dogs faces, or mount/hump other dogs-- when he's an adult and does this, he'll annoy a less patient dog and he'll provoke a fight, and because he's a bully he'll be blamed. | Treat it like the big baby it will naturally be and spoil the shit out of it | [
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Because the oven and the stovetop work on different principles. If you set the oven for 350F, it will be 350F in the oven cavity. If you set the stovetop to 350F, does that mean the flame directly out of the flame-shooter is 350F, the food if kept on the stove for X minutes is 350F throughout, or what? The concept of definite temperatures makes less sense when a great deal of heat is being dissipated. That's why we have things like meat thermometers. The temperature of the food matters, not the temperature of the flame, and the stovetop can't tell that at all. The flame temperature and the middle-center food temperature are much less related than oven cavity temperature and middle-center food temperature. | When you set the oven, you're setting the temperature inside the oven, not the temperature of the flame generating that heat. Setting the temperature of a stovetop flame is really hard and depends on a lot of factors.
Edit: Sorry, this mentions flame stoves, not electric. The same principle applies, but substitute coil temperature for flame temperature. | [
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Must be used to driving Japanese or Euro cars, most of the american vehicles I've driven are under 6k with a couple trucks being around 5k. It has everything to do with the motor design and requirements. A towing vehicle needs lots of torque, that generally means lots of displacement which translates into big heavy pieces with lots of friction, if they were allowed (sometimes they aren't even capable) to go to 7k rpm they would likely tear themselves apart due to the forces and how strong the materials are (have to cut costs somewhere, you shouldn't be building a block out of unobtainium).
I know that some valve systems aren't even capable of higher rpm stock, the springs aren't strong enough to racy quick and you get valve float where they aren't closing all the way. There are thousands of factors determining "red line" but it mostly comes down to heat and lifespan, the faster it sounds the more great and punishment is being generated.
Conversely early rotary engines had no rev limiters, there was a point where air couldn't enter the chamber fast enough and it just kind of ran out of steam, the red line was about 7 or 8k but it was fully capable of 9k with few repercussions. | There isn't a simple answer, lots of factors go into engine management depending on the needs of the vehicle. Or laughably ignoring that, like my truck which shares a motor with the cult classic 240sx. | [
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As I said previously, the standard way to solve these issues is to wrap the exceptions coming from inner layers to present only what the client is interested in knowing/handling.
An API provider, can't really know what the client will be interested in. And indeed, your example with the machinery supports that: in a vast majority of cases , client doesn't care what the error is. The fact that there is an exception is sufficient. So why do you require the client to know your layer exception type à la checked exceptions?
>"too constraining for the function change in future" is not a problem in practice.
This is hand-waving just like me saying it is a problem. ;-) An honest analysis of some significant code-bases is in order.
>That's what we often see in C++, top level messages that signal that an exception occured, but practically no way to know where and when.
This, indeed, is a problem. boost::exception (or a variant thereof) is a possible cure.
The thing is, good error handling (and reporting, the two are not the same ) must have sufficient context and, indeed, if exceptions are unchecked, code is left to his own devices. But in good code the sufficient context will be added. (If exceptions are checked, they still lead to dubious practices you mention in your last paragraph). Clearly, I, coming from C++ background, am biased towards a less formal approach ;-). In a way, I believe that it's not a compiler's job to tell me how and when to add context.
By the way... I've seen Gosling's interview long before, and wasn't impressed. (My stance hasn't changed over the years ;-)). | this really is the eternal debate over checked exceptions. I've lost interest in discussing, and neither of us said anything new, so I won't be responding to you anymore here. | [
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I was at my friends house with some of my buddies in grade 9 and both of his parents were out. Now my friend had this big lot of property behind his house covered in dry overgrown grass which baked onto the QEW highway (A pretty major highway in Canada) Anyways my friend who was a bit of a sketch bag thought it would be a good idea to set a patch of grass on fire and just see what would happen. The fire spread extremely fast and engulfed anything in the way. Hose didn't reach, cups of water wouldn't do, melted my shoes stomping on it. The QEW was shut down because of the smoke and the police and firetrucks came. | Started a fire, shut down the highway, got a criminal record. | [
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Not to mention possible liability if someone follows your app and it turned out not to be cooked enough and they get sick (long shot, but this is a mass marketed app, after all). Sadly, this is the kind of bullshit you need to worry about.
Other problems are you will be writing an app for the cooking-inept to be easy to use. Stovetop instructions like "medium heat / high heat" are very broad depending on equipment. If you try to get more technical with something like a IR thermometer temp of your pan, you will probably scare away your newbie audience. You could teach the "sprinkle water on the dry pan and watch the different reactions" method, but again they might require short videos to teach properly, and they might have loading problems or seem too complicated for a simple app. | It might be more of a pain in the ass to write that app than you think. | [
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Each situation, whether international adoption or domestic, is different. In the US, it varies from state-to-state. Depending on the legal status of the child (that is, have parental rights been terminated) and the particular needs of the child (e.g. does the child have medical or emotional issues that need to be addressed, and are the adoptive parents capable of addressing them?), it can be months to years. I can't speak for other states, but in California, parents adopting out of the foster care system must qualify as foster-care parents. There are classes, home inspections, and first-aid certifications - and all of that needs to be completed before the matching process starts. There are going to be multiple over-worked social workers involved, all working within their respective bureaucratic structures.
When I adopted out of the foster care system, it took over three years from start to finish, including the final year where the kids were living in my home but weren't legally 'mine' yet. I had a social worker. The kids had a social worker. Each of the biological parents had a social worker, and a lawyer. The foster parents had a social worker. And there was a special social worker who handled placement. Combine that with the various doctors (geneticist, ophthalmologist, cardiologist, psychologist, pediatrician, occupational therapist - the kids we adopted needed some extra help), and that's a lot of people to coordinate.
Is it hard work? Absolutely. Is it ultimately worth it? Absolutely. | YMMV | [
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Here's my belief. Men are biologically engineered to want that orgasm, but the fact it is, the male orgasm pretty much sucks. Our bodies lie to us we think it's going to be fireworks and awesomeness, but in reality it's nothing like it (but for some stupid reason we still think it's going to be awesome). It's especially bad because the chase of that orgasm makes us do all kinds of stupid things.
Now if you throw emotion into the mix things get interesting. Now our bodies are telling us to go get that orgasm, but our brain wants to make sure our partner enjoys herself. We want to be worthy... hell we want to be awesome in bed... to rock her world. We need to shut down our biological need for that stupid orgasm so that we can take our time and try to make her happy.
So in regard to the question. How enjoyable and important is sex? Very. It's so much more enjoyable if you can slow down and enjoy it.
The question really should be, how satisfying is sex, or how satisfying is the male orgasm. I think sex can be very satisfying as long as you're not rushing, and as I think I've made it clear, the male orgasm is not all that satisfying. | Sex is both enjoyable and important to men, however the male orgasm is a lie that our body tells us (and it kinda sucks). | [
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A few years ago, I went on a spring break trip to the Cayman Islands with my rugby team. We were clearly all together, travelling together, throwing rugby balls back and forth in our matching jerseys and crap; but I had a Nigerian passport. At Boston Logan International Airport, I got "randomly" chosen for a search.They put me in the safety box (3 sided clear cubicle) near the luggage scan thing. They made me stand feet apart, hands on my head, while two of them frisked me in front of everyone. I was ordered not to move. Then they grabbed my luggage and proceeded to unpack the entire thing to search the seams. Then one of the officers got a knife and was about to gut my pillowpet to search for contraband (keep in mind said pillowpet had just gone through the scanner and showed nothing but fluff). Finally my coach said something along the lines, "Can't you see she's with us... rugby team... spring break trip... yadda yadda yadda..." And I was allowed to go.
I have never been so humiliated/embarrassed/scared/infuriated in my life. And I lived in the deep south before going up north for college. | Got flagged as a terrorist because of Nigerian passport. | [
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I would love to exchange it for some Japanese food. We didn't limit our package to snacks, but also included some traditional Dutch food (dessertmixes that you need to taste for instance). Don't worry though, it is still completely stuffed with sweet snacks like stroopwafels and liquorice.
My BF and I put A LOT of work into it (because we got so enthousiastic), we even wrote cards with descriptions and everything.
Also, the box is gigantic (5 kilos) and filled up pretty good, so we would like to exchange it with someone that's really enthousiastic about this as well so that we can trade equally.
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I have a 1997 Lexus ES300.
About 6 months ago, the speedometer/odometer dropped and a CEL lit up. It would disappear for a moment, then come back up. At first I thought I was seeing things, but then the speedometer would stick at 0 and the odometer would be blank for awhile.
I took it to a mechanic and they replaced the speed sensor. The issue still came up shortly after I got the car back. They told me, before doing the work, it COULD be an issue with the cluster or wiring. They refunded me the speed sensor, they poked around with the wiring harness and couldnt source the issue entirely.
It's been a bit and I didnt fully comprehend at the time, but I believe that the OBD cannot discern between a failed cluster or a bad speed sensor. It just says bad speed sensor on the CEL. I asked someone who specializes in instrument cluster repair and they dont touch 20+ old clusters because they are too likely to break further, he was the only one I could find, everyone else referred to him.
It seemed like once the winter went away, the issue went away. Speedometer/odometer never flashed or dropped until about 2 weeks ago.
In regards to the transmission, Ive always noticed that first gear is a bit gummy at times. It seems to throw in to gear at awkward times. Not always but just enough. This morning, I was getting on the freeway and it wouldnt kick out of first. I had to let off the gas a few times before it got in gear. This was the worst time it slipped gears. Everything else was just mild hesitations. | 1) Transmission has light slips up until today when it wouldnt move outta first.
2) I seem to have some sort of speed sensor/instrument cluster issue.
3) I spent $1600 on my car, and its likely worth $1200-1600 today (probably less...). I gotta keep it realistic in that I cant spend hundreds of dollars diagnosing an issue when my car just isnt worth that much. | [
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I have created a tulpa (celestia), and it has been a few weeks, but i think she may be in love with me, this is because yesterday, she stared at me for a few seconds, then when i looked at her, she smiled and gave me bedroom eyes...
today was different because when we accidentally bumped into each other... she kind of blushed... and now she studders when i try and talk to her. i just asked her "what's up" not to long ago, and she studdered when trying to say "Nothing much"
may someone here please explain to me on what is happening? is she falling in love with me or is she hiding something? if someone could help me i would be more than happy to find out. thank you. | tulpa begins acting strange, i think she's in love with me. i wanna find out. | [
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Sorry but I don't agree with you.
She made a mistake, its not OP's responsibility to correct that. He was perfectly reasonable by waiting the day.
Think of how her mistake had affected the OP, his budget sounds like it won't balance without this and its not his fault this person has left it so long to try and correct the error. | Think of the OP | [
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Hi gentlemen,
This is my first post after lurking for months.
I am currently a junior at a liberal arts college. I have a year and a half left of facing the beast at its home. After 4 red months of lifting and self-improvement, I've made considerable strides. I've figured out my dreams (they were suppressed but that's another story) and I've developed a drive that is almost threatening.
I've considered dropping out and focusing on my dreams instead but I've already devoted 2 years of my life in college. However, I am in a fortunate position because I am on a full ride scholarship so it wouldn't hurt me if I did drop out besides a few minor loans.
My plan as of now is to continue on the path I am currently on but to go full beast mode . Hit the gym, my studies and my dreams/goals harder than ever before. Feeling awake is a thrill!
I have a few friends that grasp redpill concepts in terms of game which helps maintain my sanity but I am definitely more aware in terms of the bigger picture.
Fellow redmen, how would you suggest I handle the next two years in an environment that produces the very reason the redpill exists? | Two years deep in a man-hating environment. Is it worth it? | [
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We have a static C3 and CONSTANTLY find empty or under occupied ones(see 7 man indy corp with 2 medium pos...and probly alts at that). If you just want to get your feet wet have a scanner dive into W-Space and not leave till you find one you like. Pulsars and the like with good effects will be taken and well defended, not to mention it can be tough to take C1-3 wh's due to mass limits. Many smaller corps are willing to sell their wh or even just pick up and leave if you simply disrupt their activities seriously enough. | if you really want a pulsar you're going to have to fight tooth and nail for it. But there's also plenty of empty or poorly defended wh's around. | [
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So, I have tried extensive googling and can't find people who have the same problem so maybe it is just me but when I play on dolphin it seems like there are some problems with input lag. For example when I roll or land from a jump I cannot immediately do a smash attack, or any attack sometimes, as I could when I played the game on wii. What I mean is, I have to wait a fraction of a second longer than I feel like I should to be able to do the attack. The game runs fine 60fps constant, my computer has no problems with that. It is especially noticeable after a roll, it just feels off. The thing is, there is no input lag normally, the buttons respond right when I press them so I am not sure if it is really an issue other than it just feels off.
I know this is quite a nebulous post and I apologize for that, but it has been bugging me and I am curious if anyone else has the problem. This is not exclusive to Project M, I had the same issues with the standard unmodded game. I know there is input assist, but I don't think that is the problem. I also noticed that it seems a little better, not completely, when I use the c stick for attacks. It may be that the controller is just not that good for smash, or maybe I am just not as good I as used to be, but I certainly remember being able to link attacks much more fluidly on the Wii.
I own the game, so yeah, if anyone is worried about that, I did not steal it.
Is there anyone else who plays the game on Dolphin with a non gamecube controller who can chime in, or anyone else who may have any suggestions. Thank you for your time.
I posted this here because the Project M community seems to be the most tech savvy of the smash communites and I thought someone might have some idea what is going on.
My controller setup is 100 threshold and 10 deadzone, I have tried various other settings and this seems the best. | the important bit: When I roll or land from a jump I cannot immediately do a smash attack, or any attack, as I could when I played the game on wii. | [
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I feel this is the right sub to post this to because I need some guidance and a place to some what vent and contruct my thoughts. And I don't want this to just me "bashing" my STBX on reddit but she is the bane of my existence. With that being said my marriage has been on the brink of divorce literally the day after we were married. I've since have forgot what caused the argument but I was awoken very early in the morning the day after our marriage that we should get it an annul. Right then and there I should have when the office opened up but did not.
Doesn't sound so serious but I should say an "argument" always consists of name calling, low blows, and personal attacks and we're both guilty of that. Arguements usually get very heated very quickly because of cutting at low laying insecurities. Before getting off track I just want to get the things layed out and try and find a solution: which I know needs to be divorce.
Without getting into too many details which would quickly compare her to me, the truth is, we're just not compatible anymore. Almost 5 years later we have grown so far apart we both despise each other and have regularly cheated. She filed for divorce this time last year after she had move out numerous times. It wasn't long after that I got a court summons and then two weeks later had a comfirmation that the contract had been voided. She had signed my name and hers and sent it back to her lawyer to void her divorce.
She moved back in and things used to be bad, but no where near as bad as this last time she has come back. Since she has moved back there is almost nonstop fighting, police called numerous times, and she has driven me into debt that it is sickening considering my almost 95k year salary. Everything is "hers" considering the fact that she's never worked and every martial property is solely in my name. She says she will not leave and that she doesn't have to and that I should leave her house.
The kicker being her lawyer (I assume) has filled her with all of these "tricks" to get me to completely snap. Of course her lawyer is the most sought after attorny where we live because of her dad. And everyday she's threatening me that getting a divorce she will take everything that she possibly can. The previous divorce she had filed had her getting $1200 in maintence, $800 in child-support, and other allowances adding up to a total of $3800 a month.
I'm have no idea how to approach this because she wants me to file for divorce which has a $1500 up front fee. I'm now paycheck to paycheck and have no way of coming up with that amount of money. I CANNOT TAKE THIS ANYMORE! I'm at my wits end, I've been depressed and after numerous doctor attempts I quit going and taking medication. I absoluetly hate my life and everything in it. | Facing a completely toxic marriage and can't afford an attourney at the moment. Wife is threatening to compeletly destroy me in any divorce with her dads lawyer. She has effectively backed me into a corner and I feel completely trapped that I'll be fucked either if we stay together or get a divorce.
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Initially they had him somewhere waaaaaaaay down the list. That was the same list that had Kurt Cobain somewhere in the top 30 I believe.
Eddie is among the best, but there can be good cases made for others as well. I'd say having him somewhere in the top 10 is about right. Once you get in that class, you're elite and "the best" becomes mostly a matter of preference. | Rolling Stone is a joke. | [
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The 400 levels(electives) I took were mostly 10-20 people. Class size definitely goes down as you go through the program, and I never had a class that felt too big to get the help I needed.
I agree it is very theoretical and honestly other than the intro classes you kind of need to learn programming on your own while learning the theory in class. It makes it a little harder to hit the ground running after school but I think it makes you a better programmer in the end than programs that focus on just programming.
It is not an easy major(you will get some low grades), and there are bad professors. That said there is plenty of help available to get through it, and you will be very employable at the end especially if you do a few internships or side projects for experience.
Sullivan who teaches the intro class(111) is amazing and you should take everything you can with Byers. Research the other professors ahead of time so you can schedule your classes with the good ones when possible. Sometimes taking the math department version of a requirement(algebra classes) can be a better option. Avoid professor Kfoury at all costs. Worst teacher of anything I have had in my life.
I am a bigger fan of the program looking back on it than I was while I was in it. Now that I see my competition for jobs I feel well prepared and actually just landed an amazing job as my first one out of college. That was without taking my own advice and doing side projects or internships.
Last thing I'll say is that the program seems to be moving forward a lot in the past few years, making some big and mostly positive changes. They seem to be really focused on making it better which is nice to see. | It's hard, and there are some downsides but overall it is doable and prepares you well. | [
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Hello thanks for reading and let me start by giving you some small background information: In middle school a lot
of my friends would talk about their fun times airsofting, I asked if I could go with them sometime. They said sure. I started out just borrowing other peoples weapons (usually their sidearms or "crappy backup" aeg's). We mostly played on an abandoned property that had a lot of scrap and leftover furnature we could use for cover. It was cool and free! After working a summer job and making a good amount of cash I asked my parents if I could buy an aeg. I wanted it to be good, not super expensive and aesthetically pleasing to me. I found a store only about an hour away from where I lived and after thinking it over for a week bought an SRC-G36c (because I love the way they look and I'm a sucker for my favorite Call of duty 4 gun). It cost about $250 they threw in a free mask and bag of .20 bb's. I knew it was overpriced but figured if it ever broke I had an actual store to go back to instead of dealing with online service. I wish I had discovered Reddit specifically this subreddit before I had bought the gun but its too late now. I've only used the gun a few times only had a few jams and a friend even lent me an extra battery. Recently a few of us have started airsofting at a place near where we live with other random people at a place for only $10! For ALL day use, cool game modes like plant the bomb, and prisoner rescue. The G36c clocked in at about 298fps. Now I had known for a while that this gun would be nowhere near the $800 ones I saw other people running around with suppressors and eotech sights. But I figured it should be better for the price I paid.
Bringing us to my questions
How can I make my gun have a higher fps? What is the most cost efficient way to get around 50 more fps? someone suggested some sort of barrel enhancement? I'm not sure what that means?
My friend tells me there is usually a weight in the gun that is easily taken out is this right?
I've been thinking of buying a tactical vest off of a friend or just buying a $30 one at a local big five are they worth it? (connected to the next question)
I was thinking of getting a mag conversion kit so my g36 could use m4 magazines. Is this a good idea? Worth it economically if I'm going to buy like 2-4 extra quick mags? Right now I only have one high cap mag for the gun and I like it but just for realism and a better feel I want to carry around quick mags in my vest rather than ALL my ammo in one clip.
Range is something I feel I the gun is really lacking in too. Maximum range is maybe 100-200ft. on estimate. This could just be due to the fps but I really have no idea how anything works. Like the first question what is a good way (not too costly) to increase the range of an aeg?
I just feel jealous of the other peoples guns. I want to feel more pride in my own and have it perform relatively well, while not spending hundreds or thousands of dollars. I also understand that I am kinda new at actually playing so really maybe its just me and not the gun. | New player looking for ways to upgrade his 300fps G36c without raping his checking account. | [
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I left my girlfriend in my apartment and let her borrow my pc. She acted like nothing happened when I came home that night except she was a little distant. During this time she read my hangouts messages from a girl about a month and a half ago. The girl and I were quick friends and slightly flirty but nothing blatant. There was no romance or anything physical between us. I would never cheat. I honestly was just lonely because my gf went away for the summer. I did not learn that she had read the messages until the next day when she busted into my apartment grabbed her stuff and yelled at me. She then broke up with me. I have sent her flowers the last two days and I am desperate for her to talk to me but she ignores me.
What should I do? | Gf told me she is breaking up with me because she read some messages of me flirting with another girl. I never cheated on her but she yelled at me that I did. Please help.
Edit: Please stop with the guilt trips. I feel badly enough. | [
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The problem with pre-ordering is that you're pledging to buy a product that hasn't had the chance to be reviewed and confirmed to be a good purchase.
Its this foolish ignorance that grants merit to any anti-consumer business practices a publisher deems profitable(See EA), instead of granting merit to pro-consumer practices and the highest possible quality for game development. Any trend in which consumers fail to spend money intelligently and with something significantly more substantial than some good-faith that a publisher won't screw them over too much sets sub-optimal standards across the industry. | pre-ordering is an act based on nothing more than good-faith and a successful marketing campaign which grants merit via profitability to bullshit business practices. It encourages a standard of "good enough" as opposed to a standard of "as good as possible" | [
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Me, 28/f lives with fiance, dog, and cat. I work in a very close knit family that I am not biologically part of, but am still very close to. So here's a brain-twister for you: I used to date my boss's sisters son casually. It was a FWB thing many many years ago. His mom (boss's sister) also works with me and loves me. Anywho, we went our separate ways, I'm engaged to a guy I've been with for four years and he's married to a girl he's been with for three years. His wife just had a baby so cue "workaholic_alcoholic... you're older than her and you two have been together longer! Why don't you have kids/when are you going to spawn?" My stupid response to my boss and her sister who both have multiple kids and multiple grandkids was to flat out tell them "because I fucking hate children and would resent them for existing every day of my life."
Harsh but true. I hated my sister who was born when I was 13, I hated my cousin who was born when I was 10... I just don't like interacting with kids, period!
My boss brings her 9 and 7 year old granddaughters to work with her sometimes and them leaves them in the kitchen with me while she goes to do paperwork. LEAVES THEM!!! With 4 deep fryers, a steam table full of boiling water, a five foot charbroiler of flames, a convection oven that will burn you if you touch anything but the door handle etc. etc.
So after I said I hate kids she got all defensive about her grandkids asking if I hated them. I said I don't hate them, I just hate them being in my way constantly when I'm trying to do my job. It's hard enough not to burn myself but when I'm running around with pots of boiling liquid and there are two kids slamming into me there are no guarantees that they're not going to get seriously injured. Since this conversation she has not abandoned her grandkids in the kitchen with me and I'm so glad I said what I did, even if it did make her mad | Sorry for the wall of text. Told my boss I'm a chef not a babysitter and no guarantees that I'll keep your precious babies safe in an environment full of fire knives and dead animals. | [
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Excellent advice for almost every application.
That said, this is a text only game.
If I don't do something to differentiate it from cnn.com blocks of text I'm just going to trigger | syndrome pretty quickly. | [
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Hi, and sorry for my bad english, not my first language. Anyway, I've been playing osu! for the last 2 years CONSTANTLY, and I still can't find the way to understand all of its scoring systems and all of that. Not going to get into PP, that's Quantum Physics to me, but the "S" "SS" "A" "B" etc. scores... what do they mean?. I always thought it depended on your acc. Today all my theories fell apart, in certain map I had some score, some acc, and an "S" in score, today I beat that record, the score was twice, the combo was three times and the acc was +1.00% from the last record. Still, i got an "A", when all stats of the map were higher. | What does that sh***y coloured character under "Ranking" at the end of the map mean? and what it depends on? | [
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This game will always be ingrained in my memory. When I was around 8 I had a babysitter who would help my mom take care of me. Well she had a key for when she wanted to take me out to eat some times and needed to lock the door. So I wake up one morning and go to the kitchen and I found my mom taking to the cops. Turns out my babysitter had used the key to break into our house and had stolen money from my mom. But the worst for me was she had taken a couple of cartridges and this was one of them. FOR YEARS I'VE BEEN PISSED FOR YEARS THAT I WAS NEVER ABLE TO BEAT THIS GAME! | Always have a chain lock on your door. | [
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So with the new changes an (AD) jungler, for example, will have to decide between buying the redesigned wriggles lantern, the ancient golem, or the elder lizard pretty much.
Now, wriggles lantern gives potential for more gold if you farm continuously and uninterrupted for a long period of time, but no significant combat stats whatsoever for any early game power.
On the other hand, ancient golem was previously pretty gold efficient and a good item for initiator type of junglers such as J4. Although, this item is no more so much gold efficient due to the health provided being lower. Instead, it now gives potential for more gold gained from farming.
Spirit of the elder lizard got the same treatment with the golem, except its stats remained pretty much the same as before the changes, which places it in a bad spot, just like before. (maybe good for early cheese on champs like shaco.)
So junglers now have two choices: Either go for an item with no real combat stats, and is pretty decent for farming (But will take long till it makes up for the gold lost in a waste of stats), or you can go for more combat stats and maybe diving and tanking/initiating potential in the early/mid game with spirit of the ancient golem, again, with the potential of farming better for the late game. (I will not even discuss going for the elder lizard item since this was not and will not be a viable choice for an initiator kind of jungler.
Point being, junglers are in a worse spot early game right now whatever choice they make, and will need quite a long time till they are relevant in team fights due to the farming needed to make up for the lost stats. This does not match the fact that games (And especially in soloQ) are mostly decided from the early game and in most cases decided on who controls the mid-game fights (Snowball nature of league). Moreover, in many cases, replacing jungling items with items laners usually use will become a severe issue for the farming oriented pattern that Riot is trying to pursue. (For instance skipping ancient golem or madreds after buying the machete as j4 and opting to buying dorans blades / sunfire cape) The above will create a great combat-stat differentiation between the two junglers from early to mid game which will probably cause the game in most cases to be decided before the 20-min mark. And since junglers, are more than often actually needed to participate in fights during the early game (be it 2v2 or 3v3) before they have actually farmed up with their new shiny items, farming-oriented jungling will feel extremely weak. In addition to that, counter-jungling will obviously be a pain in the ass for junglers who decide to go for the farming-oriented jungling items. | Junglers are in a worse spot right now because choosing to go for late game power with the new jungling items will most likely get them stomped if the other jungler chooses to buy items with actual combat-stats, which will actually force every jungler to ignore the jungling items and go for full early power items or regular laning-items to match each other. This will just make them weaker overall because, still, they will be getting less farm then the laners.
EDIT: - This is does not apply to junglers such as fiddle who choose to buy the Spirit of the Spectral Wraith or any jungler that previously did not even go for the jungling items such as khazix | [
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So here I am. I work two jobs, gamestop and Walmart. Trouble is, I am absolutely unhappy with Walmart right now, and at a point where I can afford to leave. What's the best way to go about this? I have no quarrel with any of the folks here, so I've considered just putting in a two week's notice, but I don't even know if I want to work here that much longer. I don't plan on going and getting myself fired, but would it be absolutely crippling for my future employment opportunities if I were to just up and quit? Feel free to discuss, or share your most amusing ways to quit a job.
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I was working in the amazon and a bug bite on my leg I kept scratching got infected. It got to the point where I could barely walk. My veins were hot and bright red against my skin as the infection began to go systemic. Work was about 400 miles by canoe from the nearest doctor or antibiotics. So when the infection got to about the size of half a tennis ball I drank some homemade jungle moonshine and took a knife to my leg. I had to cut out a big chunk of leg meat and part of a vein that had started to become necrotic. It healed up surprisingly quickly and i didnt think much of it until i got back to the states 2 months later. While getting a physical the 2nd week back i showed my doctor the photos. He said i am lucky to have my legs and my life.... So glad. I still have a large hole where the wound was and i can stick a finger almost to the bone where there is a hole through the muscle.
First photo is the wound going system and bursting through the veins in different locations on my leg. Second photo is a few days before i cut my leg open as the growth began to swell. | Cut an infection out of my own leg in the amazon to save my legs and maybe life. | [
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About a year ago, I had an idea for a website. I hired a developer who was pretty slow and crappy so I was looking from someone to replace him.
At the same time, an old roommate moved back to town who is a designer/developer who has the same passion for the city we live in (it's a lifestyle website). So it seemed like a natural fit - I handle the content and social media, and he the back-end and whatever else (he's not a native English speaker so he can't help with the content much).
At that time, I told him I was looking for a partner and, if he was putting in the same amount of work, was willing to go in 50/50 with him.
This was in October last year. We finally launched the site about a month ago and it's been going quite well. Here's where it gets a little complicated:
I have a full time job but I can work on the website for 5-6 hours a day as I don't have a particularly active social life. He is the opposite, goes out all the time, girls, booze, etc.
I know he works on the website in his spare time (he also has a part time job) but I feel like most of the time, he only works when we're having a meeting. Even then, sometimes it seems like I'm managing him more than he manages himself. For me, it's our baby.
He has said that he will start to spend "most of his time on it" after he finished some current projects.
Today I met with one of our editors who asked if we were looking for a business partner. Dude has great connections and business experience so I told him I'd talk to my partner.
To even have this conversation, I think we need to determine our shares of the business before discussing the addition of another partner. I'm just not exactly sure how to go about it.
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I was in a remarkably similar situation and my agoraphobia was getting worse because of it... so I started really getting into philosophy to try and find some answers.
I found Nihilism to be the most intellectually honest philosophy when dealing with such existential dilemmas, that and studying Zen helped me define the questions I wanted answers to. Eventually I discovered Kant and his ideas provided the answers to many of those questions. Particularly helpful were his ideas on ethics which ultimately allowed me to regain my sense of humanity, purpose and meaning.
Summary of where I stand right now:
Everything is experienced subjectively but objective truth can be gleaned through reasoning and logic. The objective truth is that the universe has no intrinsic value and no action is objectively preferable to another. However with the universe being the blank canvas that it is, we are free to impose our own values/purpose/morals onto it. Within that framework we are able to discern subjectively preferable (ethical) actions; those which assist the mutually beneficial actions of others being the noblest.
As Kant said, "No-one can compel me to be happy in accordance with his conception of the welfare of others, for each may seek his happiness in whatever way he sees fit, so long as he does not infringe upon the freedom of others to pursue a similar end which can be reconciled with the freedom of everyone else within a workable general law – i.e. he must accord to others the same right as he enjoys himself." | do unto others as you would have them do unto you... even if just for your own sake. | [
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I get caught between seeing them as weak and whiny, and being jealous.
Let me explain. I also suffer from depression, I know that it sucks, yadda yadda blah blah blah, but I also keep my own business to myself. My boyfriend, my best friend, and the therapist I saw know I'm depressed; I don't have to broadcast it to the whole world. I manage my life and my job, have friends, make it work. I know it's mean... but why can't they too? And I know that's me buying into the stigmatization of depression, which I shouldn't do because it can't help me either...
So I see them as whiny for telling me "I can't go out, I have depression and it was a rough day", when they could have gotten away with a face-saving "under the weather", and I see them as weak when I have similar problems but make myself get up. But I'm jealous that they don't feel the need to save face to me, that they're comfortable enough to be honest. | The joys of cognitive dissonance. | [
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You missed the important one, there. The roads aren't designed for cyclists to even be present . I live in a not-too-large town of 30K people, and you absolutely cannot get from uptown to downtown without some sort of gasoline-powered vehicle without risking serious injury or death. Narrow roads with 45mph speed limits, blind curves, dangerous crossings abound. | city planners in the US don't give a fuck about cyclists. | [
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Actually, yeah, looking back, S11 does have a nasty effect, but (at least for the overalls) S10 does the inverse, which was a season where he really got his PvP 'mojo' back on. For the first three seasons, he's deep in the bottom half, which is improved by his victory in S5, but he drops in S6 (with the addition of MC and AnderZ), before jumping again in S7. Not playing S8 has obviously no effect, then winning [S9 which had no effect on his position and] S10 causes him to jump 4 places, before his drop in S11. | I was probably a bit harsh on his PvE skills, but before S10 and S11 he was mid-table, so no, he's always been around mid-table. And (to me) he's at his best with teammates. | [
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This is just your typical teenage drama, I know, but I still could use some advice on how to gracefully handle this.
I have a group of friends ranging from 16 to 18, all girls. We met at a club at school and now we actually hang out outside of school and talk on social media all the time. About four months ago, I met Chelsea through one of my friends and we hit it off pretty well. We started talking a lot more and she was gladly accepted into the group where we all hung out.
However, once she got into all our group chats and such, things changed. She didn't like the stress of meeting so many people and was completely convinced that everyone in the group hated her, including myself. I can honestly say that none of us do.
A few days ago, she deleted all forms of social media where we could reach her, so I texted her asking if she was okay. After giving me short and cold responses, she said "stop lying to me, I know you hate me. I just know it!" and then didn't text back. I didn't tell anyone about this convo except my best friend.
Chelsea does take antidepressants and she hates them. I did tell her to talk to her doctor and try to get better ones, but she insisted that the doctor doesn't know anything and her parents refuse to get her a therapist. She says she wants to kill herself sometimes, but I don't know where she lives or her parents' numbers, so I don't know how to stop it.
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Two stories. One time in rush hour at Jackson I had a visitor tell me she'd just seen the entire population of her town pass in the train we'd skipped. Another time on the Brown Line a person of somewhat sheltered exposure found himself pressed face to face with a Chinese man whose face looked like it had been whipped with barbed wire. The Chinese man was an immigrant but so proud of his new homeland that we all ended up dumping our several plans and eating at the restaurant he recommended and walked us to. It was the most successful of my business escorting group dinners and even years later on my travels to other cities participants would introduce me to coworkers as the guy who'd put together this fantastic night out. | give 'em an experience they can't get at home. | [
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Hello, i've tried writing this so many times but i cant seem to get it down the way i want so i apologize if something seems unclear and ill try my best to clear it up in the comments if needed.
my girlfriend of 6 months (best friends for almost 3 years prior) just tried commiting suicide. She has chronic depression and as far as i know she has medicine for it. A few months ago doctors found out she has a malignant brain tumor, but they caught it early on so surgery isnt needed, all she needs is radiation therapy. She had to give her cat away, her best friend since she was a little girl and she was really depressed about that for a while. Her grandfather who she was extremely close to since she was young just passed away due to cancer.
I got texts from her about 3 days ago telling me that she was tired of it all and she was going to kill herself. I tried talking her out of it but it didnt end up working out obviously. This isnt the first time she's tried something like this, but the first time she tried she lived in a different state at the time and we barely talked. Im at a loss for words. She comes back either tomorrow or Saturday from suicide watch and i dont even know what to say to her. I love this girl more than anything and i may be young and naive but i really think i want to marry this girl.
Our relationship (and friendship) prior to her attempting suicide has been amazing, and these last 6 months have been the greatest 6 months of my life. | girlfriend tried killing herself for the 2nd time and comes back from suicide watch within the next 2 days. Dont know what to say to her. any advice welcome.
edit: wow everyone, i didnt expect this to get as much attention as it did. Theres a lot of different responses, some telling me to leave, some telling me to stay. Still dont know what im gonna do, but im just gonna stick with my gut and see where i end up. Thanks for all the help everyone! | [
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She's been in a 4-year relationship which ended last December and she's been with me since May. She loves me and I love her, and we're not just using that word without meaning it.
She ended that previous relationship because she says things weren't functioning and she just didn't want to be with him anymore. But, she also said that, even after breaking up, if you spend 4 years with someone and love that person for some time, you never actually stop loving them. She says she'd like to meet him for a coffee just to hear what's been happening in his life lately and she's done that before meeting me, but she can't do it anymore because he told her he wouldn't stand that because he wanted her back, so that makes her sad, she even cried. When she met him last time, she said she had no urge to go back to him, she just doesn't want him anymore, she wants to be with me.
But I can't get over the fact that she said she still loves him. I mean, I get that, you probably love someone whenever spending a lot time with them and it's weird to be strangers afterwords, but I have confused feeling.
On one hand I really understand, but on the other it makes me kind of jealous and sad.
I don't know, what do you guys think about this? | My girlfriend told me she still loves her ex, but would never be with him again. I'm confused. | [
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Is it possible that the greatest conceivable being cannot exist?
Anselm says no. Why? Because the greatest conceivable being has greatness in every possible world. And as pointed out, something cannot have greatness in a world in which it cannot exist.
>It's not even that it's not equivalent. It's that it isn't comparable at all. You can't say that a concept of a thing is more or less great than the thing, because concepts have no actual properties.
Nobody, least of all Anselm is saying they do. This is not an argument against Anselm's argument but rather your misunderstanding of it.
>I am neither taller nor shorter than the imaginary mile-high version of me, because that version of me has no actual height. It isn't possible to compare us without engaging in a referential fallacy (which is a variation of the use-mention error). That is, unless a concept has a referent, it cannot be compared to a thing. Things can only be compared to things, and concepts (including concepts of things) can only be compared to concepts.
Anselm is not doing anything like this in his argument. Anselm is not saying here is a concept of God and here is God which is greater. So attacking the argument as if that is what it is doing is fruitless.
>You didn't actually demonstrate this. Saying that Anselm understands the difference is one thing, but his argument as I quoted it equivocates the two.
You accuse the argument of the equivocation, however it does not do that.
>Our ability to conceive of a thing that would be maximally great if it existed does not necessitate the existence of that thing.
This is getting silly. Nobody is saying it does. What is being said is that something canon have greatness in some world (and certainly not maximal greatness) if it doesn't exist in that world.
>Plantinga's whole discussion only concludes that the concept of a god must include a being that is maximally great and exists in all possible worlds. We can conceive of this without it actually existing.
Can we? Not if non-existence implies it has not greatness we can't.
>I can conceive of a transcendent taco that is maximally delicious.
Can you? I don't think you can.
>This would necessitate that it exists in all possible worlds since it has no deliciousness in worlds where it doesn't exist, and a transcendent taco existing in one world more would be more delicious.
In what way does deliciousness imply anything about existence? These kinds of parodies all miss the point entirely.
>The physical limitations of the universe do not restrict the capacity of the imagination, and our ability to imagine fantastic things does not necessitate their existence.
Imagination is not the same thing as conception. I can imagine myself in my house and in my back yard at the same time; I cannot conceive such, however. Anselm is not saying he can imagine God, but rather that the greatest possible being is conceivable. In other words that The greatest possible being is not an impossibility.
>>>To say that we cannot imagine something greater than God is to say that God actually exists as more than a concept.
>>You're mistaken.
>Explain why that's wrong.
Because saying something is possible does not say that thing exists. The rest of the OA is how we come to understand this.
>>(It is plausible indeed, to go much further and hold that she has no greatness at all in worlds in which she does not exist.)
>Let's modify that to fit:
>>(It is plausible indeed, to go much further and hold that God has no greatness at all in worlds in which God does not exist.)
>To say that we cannot imagine something greater than God is to say that God has actual greatness that can be compared against. If God has greatness at all, God must exist in at least one world. This would mean that God actually exists as more than a concept. Where is the flaw in this?
This follows from argumentation and is not implied in the premise that God is possible. So your implication that P1 begs the question is false.
> | It is possible that the greatest conceivable being cannot exist.
Justify this. Something cannot be the greatest being in some world if it does not exist in that world.
>Our ability to conceive of what the greatest possible being would be like if it existed does not necessitate its existence.
You keep making that argument despite the fact that nobody disagrees or has said otherwise. Why?
>The argument confuses "what it would be like if it existed" with "what it is like."
This is false. This is your misunderstanding of the argument, not the argument itself. | [
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Thanks for bringing some perspective. Its in a thread about horrible secrets for a reason. The guy obviously feels horrible for the shitty thing he did, but it can't be changed now so stop pushing him to the point where he doesn't want to continue living. | Be appalled by all means, but try not to drive him to suicide. | [
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MY husband and I recently started the search for our first house. Today we met with a Realtor that we met at an open house that we attended. She happens to be with HUNT. She talked, AT GREAT LENGTH, about her experience. She seems to be very on top of the market that we are interested in, very organized and above board.
At the meeting she gave us 3 things to sign:
"NYS Disclosure Form for Buyer and Seller." She said that is was illegal for her to begin a relationship with us without having this signed (we did not yet sign it, because we would like a chance to look over everything before we sign it).
"HUNT Real Estate ERA Notice and Disclosure Form."
"Exclusive Right to Represent Buyer/Tenant Agency Agreement.
Also, in the meeting she informed us of the HUNT mortgage company offer of a low rate guarantee. We have a credit union that refeered us to a mortgage compny that we are in the process of getting pre-approved and finding out what rates we can get. I'm also looking into NYS assistance programs for first time home buyers (SONYMA and FHA-- any advice or info you can provide on these would be a great help). Would a company like HUNT be able to match or beat interest rates provided my state assistance programs? Is her pushing a meeting with them a red flag, or par for the course?
She also provided a list of "The Realty Club Attorneys" for potential attorneys. We happen to know one of them. After talking with my parents about the meeting, they said that they never used a buying agent, they only hired an attorney for the closing process.
What are the pros and cons of signing these forms and having exclusive representation? Is there any advantage to only hiring an attorney to handle the closing? | Not sure if we should sign with an agent or find homes on our own and hire an attorney to handle the closing.
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I'm almost certain there aren't better places you could be in terms of safety, education, sports, and recreation.
Your "almost certain" is painfully misguided. We rank terribly in terms of education, have an exceptional crime rate, sports can be found all over the world, and "recreation" is an absurdly vague term to begin with. My method of recreation can be obtained anywhere with a power outlet.
We're in the spotlight not because we're the most important, but because we're the loudest. Oh, the US is quite important for the world economy, don't get me wrong, but so are all the other super powers.
And yes, everyone knows that, but it's still an invasion of privacy so the fight is going to happen wherever it's discovered. | You're wrong, stop being so stuck up and arrogant. | [
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Once you account for dramatic liberties in the storytelling and re-fluffing existing game mechanics at the table, OPs buddy could have absolutely accomplished that in the rules of Pathfinder.
The core trick here is a thing called Golem Armor, which is an upgrade you can put on any Golem you build or acquire. The upgrade essentially converts the semi-autonomous creature into a non-autonomous suit of power armor that your character can wear. Any attack that targets you has to first penetrate/break the Golem Armor, and the armor retains all the physical and special attributes of its original form (so an Iron Golem is still mostly immune to magic, for example). It's an INCREDIBLY expensive investment (so much so that I've never seen a player invest in it), but absolutely worth it if you've been working towards it since level 1.
Mechanically, the character is probably a spellcaster of some sort, like a Wizard or possibly a Magus. The only real requirement he'd have to meet is the ability to craft magic items, which any spellcaster can learn how to do via a level-up granted Feats (in this case, Craft Construct and Craft Magic Arms and Armor).
The auto-scroll-reader could easily have been the wizard's familiar stashed inside the armor with him (if you take the Improved Familiar feat to get an angel or faerie instead of a bird or cat or whatever, they can use magic items to help you, in fact, [a Cassisian Angel might have actually BEEN the helmet]( and the enchanted boots/helmet/chestpiece are probably all applications of the "custom magic item" rules, which most groups ignore because they can easily be abused by players looking to get powerful permanent buff effects. Stuff like Darkvision and Fly are pretty standard, though - in fact, [Winged Boots]( and [Goggles of Night]( are already a thing, so he may have just described these items as being built into the armor.
Pretty much the one flaw with this plan, and the reason why magic item crafting is so difficult in Pathfinder, is that it takes a LONG time to make powerful magic items. The darkvision goggles I linked above would take a minimum of six days of work on their own - the Golem would be something more on the order of a couple months. Multiple spellcasters with the Cooperative Crafting feat can reduce this to much more reasonable levels, but that would just about account for the extended leave of absence This Guy took from his party - chances are the PLAYER still came to all the sessions, but he probably played a side character instead of his main character.
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Edit: Just found out she has another online "Boyfriend" from England
So, in January of 2013 (I was 17 then) I met the most beautiful girl I had ever seen. I don't believe in love at first sight, but I knew I had to talk to this girl. One day I get up the courage and we hit it off quite nicely.
Fast forward two weeks, we're texting every night, staying up way past when she was supposed to be up (I didn't have a curfew) and talking. I found out she was going through a break-up from a guy in Australia(We'll call him "A") (We're from Canada), and I talk her through some of it, generally trying to make her feel better. Eventually she gets over him and starts to realize how much I have been there for her etc. etc. May 22, 2013, I finally asked her to go out with me. She is delighted and hence started my first ever relationship.
A couple of months afterwards, something came up and I found out she was still talking to "A". We had some arguments and she promised me she would never talk to him again (I didn't ask her to promise this, she did it on her own accord). That was the last I heard of it. For nearly 11 months, we were together, and it was the happiest 11 months of my life. There was an issue with her and her family (Her parents are divorced and she spends equal parts with each of them) in which she lost all communication with me from November 2013 to February 2014. Her and I still talked because every day I wasn't working I would go to her Highschool and have lunch with her. It was the toughest period I had faced up until that time of my life. I didn't get to see or speak to her at all except for lunch each day I could show up. She had no laptop, no phone, nothing. Every night I would write in a journal, and her in a diary, and read them to each other at lunch so we could make sure not to leave any of our feelings unsaid. There were times during our hardship that we almost broke up, but we stuck through it together.
Fast forward again to February. Her parents discuss some things and randomly decide that her and I are allowed to see each other again, that she can have her phone and her laptop again, and that everything will go back to normal. Other than a few arguments here and there, our relationship was great after that. Again, fast forward to April 11th, 2014. Her and I were hanging out, watching movies until 12:30 (Her curfew). I brought her home on time, and she said she was tired so she was going to bed. An hour later, she texts me telling me her E-mail and Skype have been hacked and she needs her passwords reset (I am the backup E-mail on her accounts). So of course, being the good BF I am, I go ahead and reset her E-mail password, and it signs me in. The first thing I see is an E-mail from "A" in her inbox from March 13, 2014. I text her and ask if she's cheating on me and she denies, denies, denies. I explain to her that E-mail time stamps don't lie and she admits to me that she was talking to him again, but not after that last E-mail. I say fine, tell her we'll talk about it tomorrow. She then asks me to reset her Skype password. I go on and reset it, and again, as skype does when you reset the pass, it logs me in. As soon as it does, I get 168 notifications from "A" on her skype account, the most recent one was from 1 AM that night (30 mins after I dropped her back home). The next thing I see absolutely crushes me. The words "I love you" sent from her to "A". I call her and ask why she lied to me. All she says is "I still love you. Are you breaking up with me?". I scroll up a bit in the Skype chat and notice that she's been skyping with him every night since the beginning of our relationship, and every night she tells him she loves him, they exchange nudes, sext eachother and Skype call. She never Skype called me because she wasn't supposed to have her laptop after 10PM.
Of course the rest of that night is a blur, I hang up on her, throw my phone away, and don't look at it for 10 mins. After I calm down, I pick it up again, and she's threatening to cut herself if I don't answer her. It's now 2AM, and I'm not having it, so I call her Dad, tell him she's going to cut herself, and he intervenes. He then proceeds to ask me the story, I tell him everything that happened, and he took away her laptop, her Skype account, and her phone.
So, that is the story of the abrupt end of my 11 month relationship in a mere 3 hours. In 3 hours, the only girl I had ever loved, who I did everything for (She had no licence, I drove her to appts, home from school, etc.), and who I had seen a future with, had completely crushed me. Now I'm not too sure what to do. How do I proceed from this? I feel like everything I've ever known was a sham. Was I being used for sex? (I'm an overweight, average looking dude. I don't suspect this one. And she always called my name out in bed, haha).
I really just don't know what to do from this point. She claims she still loves me, and I believe that. But how could you do that to somebody? I don't know, I just need some advice, validation, something. Thank you. | My now Ex-Gf of 11 months was unfaithful throughout our entire relationship. Feeling totally used, and like a waste of skin. How do I move on? | [
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We had some arguments and she promised me she would never talk to him again (I didn't ask her to promise this, she did it on her own accord). That was the last I heard of it. For nearly 11 months, we were together, and it was the happiest 11 months of my life. There was an issue with her and her family (Her parents are divorced and she spends equal parts with each of them) in which she lost all communication with me from November 2013 to February 2014. Her and I still talked because every day I wasn't working I would go to her Highschool and have lunch with her. It was the toughest period I had faced up until that time of my life. I didn't get to see or speak to her at all except for lunch each day I could show up. She had no laptop, no phone, nothing. Every night I would write in a journal, and her in a diary, and read them to each other at lunch so we could make sure not to leave any of our feelings unsaid. There were times during our hardship that we almost broke up, but we stuck through it together. \n Fast forward again to February. Her parents discuss some things and randomly decide that her and I are allowed to see each other again, that she can have her phone and her laptop again, and that everything will go back to normal. Other than a few arguments here and there, our relationship was great after that. Again, fast forward to April 11th, 2014. Her and I were hanging out, watching movies until 12:30 (Her curfew). I brought her home on time, and she said she was tired so she was going to bed. An hour later, she texts me telling me her E-mail and Skype have been hacked and she needs her passwords reset (I am the backup E-mail on her accounts). So of course, being the good BF I am, I go ahead and reset her E-mail password, and it signs me in. The first thing I see is an E-mail from \"A\" in her inbox from March 13, 2014. I text her and ask if she's cheating on me and she denies, denies, denies. I explain to her that E-mail time stamps don't lie and she admits to me that she was talking to him again, but not after that last E-mail. I say fine, tell her we'll talk about it tomorrow. She then asks me to reset her Skype password. I go on and reset it, and again, as skype does when you reset the pass, it logs me in. As soon as it does, I get 168 notifications from \"A\" on her skype account, the most recent one was from 1 AM that night (30 mins after I dropped her back home). The next thing I see absolutely crushes me. The words \"I love you\" sent from her to \"A\". I call her and ask why she lied to me. All she says is \"I still love you. Are you breaking up with me?\". I scroll up a bit in the Skype chat and notice that she's been skyping with him every night since the beginning of our relationship, and every night she tells him she loves him, they exchange nudes, sext eachother and Skype call. She never Skype called me because she wasn't supposed to have her laptop after 10PM. \n Of course the rest of that night is a blur, I hang up on her, throw my phone away, and don't look at it for 10 mins. After I calm down, I pick it up again, and she's threatening to cut herself if I don't answer her. It's now 2AM, and I'm not having it, so I call her Dad, tell him she's going to cut herself, and he intervenes. He then proceeds to ask me the story, I tell him everything that happened, and he took away her laptop, her Skype account, and her phone. \n So, that is the story of the abrupt end of my 11 month relationship in a mere 3 hours. In 3 hours, the only girl I had ever loved, who I did everything for (She had no licence, I drove her to appts, home from school, etc.), and who I had seen a future with, had completely crushed me. Now I'm not too sure what to do. How do I proceed from this? I feel like everything I've ever known was a sham. Was I being used for sex? (I'm an overweight, average looking dude. I don't suspect this one. And she always called my name out in bed, haha). \n I really just don't know what to do from this point. She claims she still loves me, and I believe that. But how could you do that to somebody? I don't know, I just need some advice, validation, something. Thank you.",
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Please stop this whole pref mm thing for the Panther 8.8. You completely ignore it's role description. Copypasta from what I wrote in another thread:
>Everytime I read about the 8.8 and FCM people point out how the FCM's gun has better penetration and it is more mobile, but they seem to forget about a little something.
>The FCM comes with strings attached. It is a heavy tank and at least on paper it has to fulfill a certain role. IN THIS ROLE it badly needs preferential MM to have a chance to fulfill this role. I always cringe, if I see 2 or 3 FCM as top tier heavies and IS-6/T34/IS-3 on the other side. Given the same skill, the FCM will almost always be kicked hard if there is nobody there to take the beatings for them. Or they will go with the meds, leave the heavy alley open and the game will turn to fuckall anyway.
>Yesterday I did play with the T32 on Himmelsdorf. It was a T10 game and no one besides me went to the heavy alley. In the T32 I was able to hold the alley against two T10 heavies because I wiggled my cupola like a pro and the oranges being orange chose to shoot at me instead of making a push. Good luck with that in a FCM.
>Nearly all other T8 heavies are able to bounce T6/T7 quite frequently and have at least a chance to bounce carelessly aimed shots from same or higher tiers. They are able to somewhat control the enemy heavies through their sheer presence. The FCM does not.
>Meds do not come with this strings attached. The Panther 8.8 is able to fulfill it's role as a sniper/flanker in a T10 game. The penetration is on par or better with many other T8 meds (looking at you T-44!), it's at least reasonable mobile and has a good health pool for it's level.
> | The FCM does not have preferential MM because of it's gun, but because it lacks the armor for the role it has to serve on paper.
Edit: Marked my post from another thread accordingly | [
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My best friend just spent 7 1/2 months in the county jail. She was released Friday only to check herself into a 6 month rehab Monday morning.
Sunday night, after barely any food and a butt load of alcohol all weekend, our pants somehow came off. We have fooled around many of times over the passed year or two, but this is the first time we went all the way.
The sex was bad, REALLY BAD. Neither one of us were in any physical condition to be attempting to bounce around like that but for some reason we tried to anyways. It was extremely difficult from the very beginning. We tried for about 10 minutes before just saying fuck it and passing out. I could tell by the look on her face that she was extremely let down and it made me feel like shit. After spending all that time in jail, she deserved to get dicked down real good and I was an absolute failure. She had already hooked up with her ex-boyfriend Friday and told me that it fuckin sucked She had to go check into rehab with no good peen. :(
We both woke up around midnight Sunday night from the drunked weekend and just made out and kinda layed around on my bed listening to music until she had to go check into rehab at 6am. I know our relationship still stands in the same place as it ever did, but I am feeling so self-conscious about and not talking about it will just eat me up inside. So, how the hell do i go about bringing this up to her? I don't want to get into a relationship with her but I feel like I have to to prove myself next time i see her, if i just forget about it and act like nothing happened it'll eat me up inside. | By best friend had 1 weekend between jail and rehab and I gave her some of the worst dick I've ever given. | [
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I don't understand the reason to point out that "in some cases" the constitution protects against invasion of privacy and cruel and unusual punishment. That's not relevant. We're not talking about strip searching just because. We're talking about a specific case where someone is going to be incarcerated in a controlled space for any number of hours, day, months, years. While in the controlled environment it is prudent, for the safety and well-being of staff and fellow inmates, that a thorough search be conducted during the in-processing to ensure no contraband be introduced into the controlled environment. This is Jail. Don't expect a dignified experience. An inmate has no reasonable expectation of privacy, not even whilst shitting. And it certainly is not cruel or unusual to thoroughly (strip) search for contraband before allowing an individual to casually interact with fellow inmates or staff.
Edit: | for the folks downvoting without responding:
Strip Searching is not a punishment separate from the jail sentence. Inmates are not strip searched as a punishment and is therefore, in no way, a cruel and unusual punishment. The jail sentence (and the procedures that come with being in jail) is the punishment. And the constitution protects against invasion of privacy when there is a reasonable expectation of privacy (not in jail). So you can downvote, but I'm 100% correct. | [
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We were drinking, my fiancé was on his last (precious) beer and pretty drunk if you ask me. I accidentally knocked over his beer as I was on the floor, it foamed up and he grabbed it and let it pour all over me in anger. Wtf? Sure he didn't murder my family but would you consider this a "red flag" for someone you're about to marry? He has been borderline (mental/verbally) abusive in the past, but I usually let it go because it doesn't seem intentional. However, this instance just strikes me as really disrespectful. Am I overreacting?
EDIT: I just wanted to add that yes, he did say he was sorry. As I sat up in disbelief covered in beer, he went and got me a towel, took my shirt off, dried me off a bit and got me a new shirt. He started off saying that he was "REALLY mad that I spilled his beer" which has since evolved into "He didn't mean it to be mean spirited or disrespectful/he was trying to not get it all over the carpet." He is the one bringing it up, I know he feels bad. He told me he won't be buying higher % beer anymore. As for his amount of drinking, roughly he drinks 2-3 days a week.
Often I find myself walking on eggshells around him. A few months ago I told him I felt like I was constantly defending myself all day long because of what he says to me/complains about. That I'm always doing something wrong.. he took it to heart and was really upset that I felt that way. He's been better.. We have discussed his anger problems previously to this, and he is trying to work on them.
We also have two children together.. I thank you all very much for your advice. | Fiance pours beer on me, I'm worried it's a bad sign for the future.. | [
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So throwaway this happened not today but yesterday.
My english teacher, mr D we'll say is a bit of a sarcastic asshole, and i'm not saying he's a bad teacher but i'd never be friends with him. He makes bad jokes, is a little sexist, doesnt get global warming and mocks people frequently.
Now skip to the day before, a friend of mine has found his facebook account and he has left it completely non-private, open for everyone to see. There were some photos, a few instances of him saying lol - it was very funny in my opinion and me and another friend had an idea. I printed off a few copies of a photo of him at the pub, they came out in black and white and a little dark which merely added to their beauty, Everything was ready.
Come 2nd of April, not quite april fools day but no matter. My class is about to leave for assembly after which we would then come back to our english room. Once Mr D has left the class and is leading everyone to the theatre, I take my chance and slip the the photo under his keyboard, sticking out so it looks out of place.
Half an hour later we return, I sit down and do my work and await his reaction - this should be the kind of thing that pisses him off.
.
.
.
Nothing, what do you mean nothing? I mean he sat there and nothing happened. I was baffled he must of seen the picture theres no way he didnt. I wait till the lessons end and go talk to my friend, looking over at his desk, the picture isnt where i left it, but just, no reaction.
I hovered outside the room for a minute talking and expressing my disappointment, ,Mr D comes out the room for a minute looks and me and walks off. I still wonder now whether he actually saw the creepy black and white picture of himself. | Tried to mess with my English teacher and, nothing. | [
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Alright, so the deal is that me and this girl have been friends for almost half a year now. We're both in college and in our 20s. This is our texting conversation, pretty much word for word (including the smileys), from the past two days.
Saturday:
Her: Guess what? I just ate at [insert restaurant name]! nomnomnom.
Me: What the jealous. I tried to convince some friends to go to [insert another restaurant name] since I bought a Groupon deal for it but end up going to Taco Bell instead. Let's go eat at [insert another restaurant name] sometime!
Her: [insert another restaurant name]... isn't that the place [insert mutual friend name]'s been complaining about? If you buy, then maybe ;) haha jk that's something you'd say.
(At this point, it's about 1 am and I've had a few shots and stupidly worked up enough liquid courage to type what's next).
Me: Well then consider it a date. :)
She didn't respond all day Sunday, so I decided to give her a call around 9 PM. Didn't pick up so I texted.
Sunday night - Monday now
Me: Uh...haha. Lemme know if you want to talk sometime soon.
Her (when I was sleeping): Sorry! Still up?
Me: Whoops. Let's try to make it around 10 this night if you're not busy :P
Her: Hahaha phone tag. The best. Um I should have time...
Me: More like the worst kind of tag hahaha. :)
(This is where I'm slightly confused and thrown off guard).
Her: Oh wow. I have nothing to say. Except maybe the seemingly positive texts and smileys are kind of... off putting haha
Me: Uh... sorry? Wow "seemingly" positive haha. What do you mean by off putting?
This is where we're at right now; she hasn't responded yet but it's only been about an hour or so.
I think I already know where this is going, but I'd still like some perspective and advice on how to proceed.
Thanks. | Read the conversation por favor.
EDIT : Her response: I just enjoy the sarcastic bantaring :D so it's strange when you're nice :P
I guess I was just over-thinking it? I'm still on the wall of whether or not to push the issue of dinner and a date when we talk on the phone later tonight; I'm probably going to explain to her that I was sorta drunk when I suggested it, since I don't think she knows (I usually text all over the place, aka terrible typing and grammar, when I drunk text so it's damn obvious). Any tips or advice would be appreciated! | [
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I'm a 30-something father of two who gets maybe 1-2 hours any given evening to play games. Once a week I try to get one night to myself where I can extend that time to maybe 4 hours if I choose. I'm wondering what WildStar can offer me as far as rewarding progression based group content with the time I have?
I played WoW from Beta through Cataclysm. With the social/family guilds I was a member, we were never able to raid until Karazhan was released, the first 10-man raid dungeon. For those guilds, finding 10 people wasn't a logistical nightmare. So, we could do this content and it was meaningful and we had fun. Now WoW offers Flexi-Raids which is brilliant cause now once you get 10 people together, anybody else who wants to come along doesn't get turned away. Why have a game that wants to penalize you for wanted to group with more players?
For me hardcore is challenging gameplay, like Dark Souls. Having to maintain a progression based guild navigating the nightmare of keeping 40 people interested and showing up on time for raiding a 4-6 hour instance is not hardcore , that's a job. But that's how Carbine are doing it, so that's why I'm on the fence of handing over $15/month to be excluded from what could be a very fun part of the game.
I prefer more action based combat mechanics like in Guild Wars 2 and Diablo 3, so I was hoping WildStar would be a good fit for a player like me. But, with the lack-luster questing and being excluded from raiding I'm wonder what WildStar can offer me? I'm tight on time, but I'm a reasonably skilled gamer. | What progression based group content does WildStar offer for players that can't do 20/40-man raids? | [
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You need to surround yourself with the language. Even before you can understand it, you need to be hearing it constantly. Take everything you do and make it Korean.
Music? Get Korean music.
Television? Get Korean subtitled TV shows.
Drive to work? Audio lesson time.
Before you even take a single look at Rosetta Stone:
This is put out by the same guys who made JapanesePod101.com and if it's ANYthing near the quality, it will be a must-have resource. Get a month's subscription and download as much as you can.
Take a look at the Pimsleur courses. They are usually by far the best in terms of traditional audio lesson effectiveness, for very particular reasons. They're expensive, but you can buy them used and sell them later (or if you have an eye patch and a peg leg...).
Invest in the right textbooks. I haven't studied Korean to recommend any, but I'd bet | espect's advice is spot-on.
Once you've done those, THEN consider overspending for Rosetta Stone. Rosetta Stone is good at a few things, especially making you feel accomplished, but you won't find many people at all who are truly competent in a foreign language point you to it as a resource except as a supplement.
Surround yourself with it. Use it. Don't give up, as it will come in phases. You are not at a disadvantage because you're an adult. You just need to get back in that phase you were in as a kid--which is entirely possible. | [
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You guys have my utmost respect. It's not easy to be in your shoes. When men go to war, bad shit happens. Shit that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. And you guys volunteered for it. Props to you. I'm not condoning your behaviors, but I can see where they come from. And I don't think less of you for anything you did in your time serving. People deal with stress in a lot of different ways, and the possibility of dying at any moment is a pretty big stressor. Anyone who gives you shit doesn't have any sort of appreciation for the crap you have to deal with on a daily basis. So do what you need to do to stay sane out there, cause your people support you and we want to see you come home safe and sane. | Merica | [
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