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here's my .02.. I injured my elbow climbing (yah, i know), went to PT, laid off climbing, dr says its as good as its going to get. I tried doing one of these pullups programs, which lead me straight back to the PT's office. She suggested gym rings, which I use. The elbow tweaking when right away. So, no I'm not doing bar pullups with palms out -- that option is no longer available to me. But the rings are a good alternative. | gym rings ftw. | [
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I would approach the manager responsible for the changes to your hours, show her your proof, and say there has been an oversight in your pay that HR could not resolve. This way you are not placing blame but merely stating that a mistake has been made. If she agrees to fix the mistake and give you the back pay it works out perfectly. Continue to keep track just in case though. If you makes a big deal about it, calls you out, admits she does it on purpose but refuses to remedy the situation that's when I would get someone else involved. I understand you don't want to ruin credibility but this is against the law and I would like to think that any future employer/colleague would understand you blowing the whistle. | Try and resolve the situation from within. Do not blame employer but refer to it as a mistake. If nothing is done, then report the situation; colleagues will hopefully understand.
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I used to play a lot too. Few years ago I could sit a whole week's vacation sitting and playing World of Warcraft and Call of Duty. Being the 14-15 year old kid I was at the time I knew nothing about responsibility and making something out of myself.
Fast forward 3-4 years and I'm 18 at the time. Just turned a month ago and I don't ever play any games anymore. It was really really easy to quit. All I had to do was being broke and not able to repair my broken computer. (I didn't crash it myself and I will never ask my parents to buy a new one or something along those lines.) So I have to priorities my budget, whereas computer games doesn't comes first...
I'm serious. The easiest way to quit something is having the ability to play it taken away. I have not played a game of League in a few months and can spend my time more valuable now. And I really don't miss it at all.
Though, don't look back at the time when you played games as the worst part of your life or a big mistake. You were addicted to it by a reason and most likely because it was fun to play.
So | Make it so that you by effort have to gain access to your addiction. Throw away all your CDs so IF you re-install a game, you'll have 1-5 hours to reconsider that choice, not 2 minutes of loading up the game. | [
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Same for me. My friend in middle school said he was going to get me Smash for my birthday but, like Carman, I demanded he get me Dookie. He ended up getting me Smash after all and I went out and bought Dookie with some birthday cash. | Smash was first album I owned, Dookie was the first album I bought with my own money. | [
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I figure that was the smart way to start this. I hope some of you understand what I am going through. It is not that I don’t enjoy my life, but I just wish I had more. I have discovered I am just missing that human connection. I am a very laid back guy. I enjoy movies, art, and outdoors. I work all day and when I get home I try and workout. Unfortunately I have not been doing so good. Those of you that do this too, you know how tiring life can be. Too often I have tried to be someone I am not. I think that is part of why I am trying this. I just want to be able to be myself. And on that note, I am a chronic pain patient. I had an accident a few years ago and now I deal with spine issues. The chronic pain takes its toll on my body and mind. I wish this was not the case, but it is. I have seem to become a more somber person. But I miss just having fun. Being able to talk to someone through the day, share some thoughts and feelings, and have a little fun is exactly what I am looking for. When you have someone who wants to know what you did that day, or it pushes you to do more. And that is what I need. If you are interested I would really like to hear from you. I am trying to be open and honest about who I am and what I am looking for. If you are just going to take advantage of that or only talk once and never again please don't. I am tired of being scammed. | 33m looking for a flrity girl to help make my life better. | [
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It has to do with your sleep cycle. A sleep cycle last from about 90-120 minutes depending on the person and how many cycles you've been through that night.
If you are waking up in the middle of a sleep cycle, you're interrupting the effects that cycle is having. Your body then must pull you out of that cycle without receiving the benefits of being asleep. You are also probably waking up during your REM cycle which is where the most benefits of sleep come from.
If you don't want to be groggy then you need to adjust your total sleep time by about 20 minutes in either direction. This will help push you towards waking up outside of the REM cycle which is easier to recover from and are more likely to feel rested. The amount of sleep is less important, although at least 6 is generally recommended.
Also don't hit your snooze. When you wake up in the morning, you should wake up. Falling back asleep resets your cycle which means it won't do anything for you unless it's been at least 90 minutes or so.
EDIT: | It's like cooking a bag of microwave popcorn: it needs to go for a certain amount of time for it to be done. If you try to stop and restart the microwave before it's done, you're just gunna burn the popcorn and the whole thing is wasted. | [
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First, I want to express just how awesome Evonne is. She is so sweet! It would make me want to buy all her things even if they weren't as awesome as they are.
I ordered a solid tin of Love and Sharks and a set of Bitsies in Mad as Birds, Serpentina, and Supernova Sway. Serpentina was the one I was most excited about; it sounded super cool! But then I saw all of the other perfumes and then I sort of sat around being wishy-washy for a few days and stalking the shop's FB page for no real reason at all. About eight days of this, I messaged Evonne and asked her to switch out the Serpentina Bitsy for a Supernova Sway, since I'd seen so many raves about it pretty much everywhere. She was so nice and agreed, and the package was sent out in the next couple of days! The actual shipping was slower than I expected it to be--I received the package ~fourteen days after ordering, and about six days after it was marked shipped. DC's TAT at the time was 10-14 days, I think, and my understanding is that she was on a trip for seven or eight of them. That she was able to keep her TAT and the shop open is so impressive!
The package included a sample of Serpentina!!!!!! I was so excited! It was so nice and thoughtful of her to include that. I pretty much squee'ed extremely hard all over myself and scared some neighbors.
But anyways, here are my thoughts on the scents! I'm not too experienced in perfumes, so them descriptions may be a bit nonhelpful T_T
Serpentina : a crisp, green, ethereal tea fragrance with a little opium bite.
Serpentina is kind of cold and green straight out of the bottle. It does remind me of green tea, but I have no idea what opium is supposed to smell like. But when I put the perfume on, it was like a sour bacon! I'm fairly sure that was my skin's fault, because it smelled nothing like that in the bottle. I've let it sit for a few weeks (mostly because I was afraid of the bacon smell) and I put it on again earlier today. Maybe I was imaging the bacon, because I don't smell it anymore. It still is kind of sour, but in a more pleasant, astringent way. Smells kind of like my grandma, who drinks a lot of tea and uses [dau xanh]( and lights a lot of incense. It's nice. Serpentina's not my favorite out of the perfumes I got, but I think I misjudged what I like in perfume. It was so nice of Evonne to send this. I'm not in any rush to trade it away, but I don't plan on getting it in full-size.
Love and Sharks : notes of salty smooth sharkskin, pink and black pepper, true black cherries and apricots and clove.
Love and Sharks smelled TERRIBLE to me when I sniffed it out of the tin. It was actually the first thing I sniffed out of my package so I had a little panic wherein I was like oh god I spent so many moneydollars on these perfumes. . . what have I done. . . It's definitely the strangest first impression that I got out of all of the perfumes. Sharks are another smell I'm unfamiliar with, but I was sure that if I got a real shark at the moment, it would smell exactly like the perfume. It's hard to describe--kind of deep and salty and a little bit dusty. I didn't get any of the cherries or apricots out of it, which was a bummer. Like with Serpentina, I set Love and Sharks aside for a few weeks. When I tried it again, the sharkiness wasn't nearly as overwhelming, and it had an almost smoky quality to it that seemed to balance it out a lot more. But I found true shark love when I layered it over Haus of Gloi's White Raspberry, a Reverie fragrance that I got on a whim and found too cherry-ish and cough syrup-y. The mixture of the two smells like ass for about five seconds, and then the perfumes kind of settle around each other. The White Raspberry brought out the vanilla in the oleoresin (which isn't mentioned in the description that I got from the FB Discography, weird) and the combination of the two scents is fruity as well as sharky. If you're unsure about your Love and Sharks, I would recommend layering.
Mad as Birds : a sweet, cool, garden-dew fragrance with notes of pear and mint and smoky amber and marigolds.
Mad as Birds was the most immediately "palatable" upon first sniff. It smells floral, minty, and a little bit alcohol-y right out of the jar. The pear and the smoke of the amber come through more as it dries. As I smell it more, there's different, sharper, green-ish floral smell that is kind of not Christmas-y, but not in a bad way. It reminds me of graveyard flowers and my other grandmother's house. Once Mad as Birds has completely dried for half an hour or so, all I really smell are the smoky amber and the flowers, but they get pretty soft. My boyfriend told me it smells like old people, but he thinks all florals smell like old people. Again, I think that I thought that I would like floral scents more than I do. I can't decide whether I like it or not, but since I can't stop smelling it, I probably will.
Harpy : a sailor's delight, with notes of sea salt and dark bay rum, milk and coconut squeezed with bitter lime.
Harpy smells like a sexy holiday at a beachgoing location where there are no tourists. The lime is kind of minty in a way that is all good. Underneath is the bay rum, which is definitely the most prominent smell in the jar and on the skin. The milk and coconut come through as the perfume sits on the skin, but then the lime disappears on me, which is a bummer. I'll probably be saving this one for the summer. When I ordered Harpy, I had no idea that bay rum was a thing, but I'm glad that I like it.
Supernova Sway : dark and bright and dark and bright again, deep musks streaked with mint, black resins with subtle flashes of orchid and buttery honeysuckle.
The second perfume I smelled when I got this package was Supernova Sway, and I was like wtf is this. I mostly got a very heavy, strong buttery mint. It was probably also musks or resins or the flowers. (I really don't know what a lot of things smell like.) There's definitely metal in there, too. Like /u/immcatulate said in [this]( review, the metal is not like a cold metal. I didn't find it to be like wet metal either, or wet pennies or anything. It smells like a perfume that you'd wear at night while you go off and do sexy things, like drive motorcycles or sit on rooftops. I can't stop smelling it whenever I wear it, and I'm literally holding my head over it so I can sniff the open bottle as I type. This is something that I'm going to have to get in full-sized and wear it every day and then get another one in full-sized. I want to smell like Supernova Sway for the rest of my life!!!
I wish I could say more about the staying power of all of these, but I like to smell like a huge blast of perfume all the time, so I reapply a lot. That being said, the few times that I have worn them without reapplying, most of major notes from the scents did't last very long on me--my skin eats that shit up because it is so delicious, apparently. However, the in regards to the drydown: I applied the scents about eight or nine hours ago before bed, and I can still kind of smell them. It's definitely softer (obviously) and not as "dimensional" as the original scents. I honestly don't mind reapplying perfume often. It's fun! Kind of inconvenient, though, and I worry about running out.
I've ordered two more sets of Bitsy vials, and I don't doubt I'll be getting more soon. The price on them is outrageously good: $13 USD for three scents in a dram bottle--according to our dearest Google, that's 3.6966912 ml per bottle. So $4.33 per dram bottle, that's like $1.17 or something per ml. I hope DC is able to maintain these prices, but even if they can't, I know I'm going to be coming back for all the things.
If the lavish support from most of the rest of the sub wasn't enough to convince you that DC may be the best thing in your life, I highly recommend ordering something from them. It was kind of scary at first, because the smells are so unusual, but I just looked through the [Discography]( for things that I liked. The descriptions are much more straightforward there than they are on the Etsy listings, and they're all in one place.
And of course, these smells I have observed are just my own opinions of what went down on my skin. Your mileage may vary! | I smell good. | [
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DC's TAT at the time was 10-14 days, I think, and my understanding is that she was on a trip for seven or eight of them. That she was able to keep her TAT and the shop open is so impressive! \n The package included a sample of Serpentina!!!!!! I was so excited! It was so nice and thoughtful of her to include that. I pretty much squee'ed extremely hard all over myself and scared some neighbors. \n But anyways, here are my thoughts on the scents! I'm not too experienced in perfumes, so them descriptions may be a bit nonhelpful T_T \n Serpentina : a crisp, green, ethereal tea fragrance with a little opium bite. \n Serpentina is kind of cold and green straight out of the bottle. It does remind me of green tea, but I have no idea what opium is supposed to smell like. But when I put the perfume on, it was like a sour bacon! I'm fairly sure that was my skin's fault, because it smelled nothing like that in the bottle. I've let it sit for a few weeks (mostly because I was afraid of the bacon smell) and I put it on again earlier today. Maybe I was imaging the bacon, because I don't smell it anymore. It still is kind of sour, but in a more pleasant, astringent way. Smells kind of like my grandma, who drinks a lot of tea and uses [dau xanh]( and lights a lot of incense. It's nice. Serpentina's not my favorite out of the perfumes I got, but I think I misjudged what I like in perfume. It was so nice of Evonne to send this. I'm not in any rush to trade it away, but I don't plan on getting it in full-size. \n Love and Sharks : notes of salty smooth sharkskin, pink and black pepper, true black cherries and apricots and clove. \n Love and Sharks smelled TERRIBLE to me when I sniffed it out of the tin. It was actually the first thing I sniffed out of my package so I had a little panic wherein I was like oh god I spent so many moneydollars on these perfumes. . . what have I done. . . It's definitely the strangest first impression that I got out of all of the perfumes. Sharks are another smell I'm unfamiliar with, but I was sure that if I got a real shark at the moment, it would smell exactly like the perfume. It's hard to describe--kind of deep and salty and a little bit dusty. I didn't get any of the cherries or apricots out of it, which was a bummer. Like with Serpentina, I set Love and Sharks aside for a few weeks. When I tried it again, the sharkiness wasn't nearly as overwhelming, and it had an almost smoky quality to it that seemed to balance it out a lot more. But I found true shark love when I layered it over Haus of Gloi's White Raspberry, a Reverie fragrance that I got on a whim and found too cherry-ish and cough syrup-y. The mixture of the two smells like ass for about five seconds, and then the perfumes kind of settle around each other. The White Raspberry brought out the vanilla in the oleoresin (which isn't mentioned in the description that I got from the FB Discography, weird) and the combination of the two scents is fruity as well as sharky. If you're unsure about your Love and Sharks, I would recommend layering. \n Mad as Birds : a sweet, cool, garden-dew fragrance with notes of pear and mint and smoky amber and marigolds. \n Mad as Birds was the most immediately \"palatable\" upon first sniff. It smells floral, minty, and a little bit alcohol-y right out of the jar. The pear and the smoke of the amber come through more as it dries. As I smell it more, there's different, sharper, green-ish floral smell that is kind of not Christmas-y, but not in a bad way. It reminds me of graveyard flowers and my other grandmother's house. Once Mad as Birds has completely dried for half an hour or so, all I really smell are the smoky amber and the flowers, but they get pretty soft. My boyfriend told me it smells like old people, but he thinks all florals smell like old people. Again, I think that I thought that I would like floral scents more than I do. I can't decide whether I like it or not, but since I can't stop smelling it, I probably will. \n Harpy : a sailor's delight, with notes of sea salt and dark bay rum, milk and coconut squeezed with bitter lime. \n Harpy smells like a sexy holiday at a beachgoing location where there are no tourists. The lime is kind of minty in a way that is all good. Underneath is the bay rum, which is definitely the most prominent smell in the jar and on the skin. The milk and coconut come through as the perfume sits on the skin, but then the lime disappears on me, which is a bummer. I'll probably be saving this one for the summer. When I ordered Harpy, I had no idea that bay rum was a thing, but I'm glad that I like it. \n Supernova Sway : dark and bright and dark and bright again, deep musks streaked with mint, black resins with subtle flashes of orchid and buttery honeysuckle. \n The second perfume I smelled when I got this package was Supernova Sway, and I was like wtf is this. I mostly got a very heavy, strong buttery mint. It was probably also musks or resins or the flowers. (I really don't know what a lot of things smell like.) There's definitely metal in there, too. Like /u/immcatulate said in [this]( review, the metal is not like a cold metal. I didn't find it to be like wet metal either, or wet pennies or anything. It smells like a perfume that you'd wear at night while you go off and do sexy things, like drive motorcycles or sit on rooftops. I can't stop smelling it whenever I wear it, and I'm literally holding my head over it so I can sniff the open bottle as I type. This is something that I'm going to have to get in full-sized and wear it every day and then get another one in full-sized. I want to smell like Supernova Sway for the rest of my life!!! \n I wish I could say more about the staying power of all of these, but I like to smell like a huge blast of perfume all the time, so I reapply a lot. That being said, the few times that I have worn them without reapplying, most of major notes from the scents did't last very long on me--my skin eats that shit up because it is so delicious, apparently. However, the in regards to the drydown: I applied the scents about eight or nine hours ago before bed, and I can still kind of smell them. It's definitely softer (obviously) and not as \"dimensional\" as the original scents. I honestly don't mind reapplying perfume often. It's fun! Kind of inconvenient, though, and I worry about running out. \n I've ordered two more sets of Bitsy vials, and I don't doubt I'll be getting more soon. The price on them is outrageously good: $13 USD for three scents in a dram bottle--according to our dearest Google, that's 3.6966912 ml per bottle. So $4.33 per dram bottle, that's like $1.17 or something per ml. I hope DC is able to maintain these prices, but even if they can't, I know I'm going to be coming back for all the things. \n If the lavish support from most of the rest of the sub wasn't enough to convince you that DC may be the best thing in your life, I highly recommend ordering something from them. It was kind of scary at first, because the smells are so unusual, but I just looked through the [Discography]( for things that I liked. The descriptions are much more straightforward there than they are on the Etsy listings, and they're all in one place. \n And of course, these smells I have observed are just my own opinions of what went down on my skin. Your mileage may vary!",
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EDIT: Ha. I don't need you heathens. I solved the issue myself. If by the unlikely chance someone had a similar problem and wants the solution pm me and I'll be happy to help : ).
Hello /r/Techsupport,
I am currently trying to install a program to connect my ps3 remotes to my pc via bluetooth. The program is open source and the program thread can be found [here](
The problem comes when trying to install the program. The installer tries to install a .inf file into system 32 driver files. Unfortunately, the file is never created and the installer tells me Plug and Play failed ([Image of Installation]( The basic program and service is created, so I can use my PS3 controller via usb. Unfortunately, the drivers are necessary to connect via bluetooth and they are refusing to install.
I had thought of giving up, thinking the program is a bust, but then I tried to install it on my older computer. Much to my surprise, the program worked first try.
My computer is windows 8 and my old computer is vista.
Steps I have tried:
-Switching USB Ports
-Deleting all bluetooth registry keys and freshly installing drivers.
-Reading through the program thread and asking questions in said thread.
-Banging my head against desktop.
I feel like the solution is simple. Something seems to be stopping the installer from installing files in system 32 and I can't figure out what it is. One difference I noticed when I installed it on the old computer was it asked me permission to download the drivers. This computer never does that, but I think that is just a difference between windows 8 and vista.
Sorry for the wall of text. If anyone could help, throw out your ideas, or help me brainstorm, it will be much appreciated.
Thanks in advance! | Programs installer is being unable to install its bluetooth drivers leading to plug and play fail. | [
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Whitest most Belgian looking student from Kortrijk checking in here.
Multiple bouncers wouldn't let me into clubs, both in Ghent and Kortrijk. Why? Different reasons every time.
I was wearing a hat, people with hats walked in just like that.
Couldn't go in with shoes like that. Guy with exact same shoes as me walks in moments later.
Didn't wear a nice enough shirt. So I closed my hoodie, still no game.
They didn't like my hair. What?
They were "full". People walking in and out all the time.
I had a back pack with me. Yeah no shit that's where I keep all my shit, even after I showed him the content (just a scarf and gloves and an extra hoodie) I couldn't get in.
No girl with me.
I could go on for a while.
If you dress like you just came from a rock show, you ain't getting in either. The one time I did get in I got ganged up on and beat up by a group Moroccan guys (who also stole my hat, which I was carrying in my hand). They didn't see my friends who on their turn tried to defend me. Guess who got thrown out of the club? Me and my friends.
Note, this was all 3-4 years ago, but nothing has really changed. I just don't go there anymore. Being refused at the door is a real buzzkill, but if you look like the stereotype of "looking for trouble" (ie. a punk, a bunch of kids with skateboards strapped to their backpacks, a group of North-Africans males), you're not getting in. | bouncers and club owners judge on stereotypes | [
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Early on in the quarter--before either of us knew when our finals were--we talked about carpooling for Spring break (she doesn't have a car here), but no definite plans were made. To me, it was more of a "if it works out" conversation, but she took it as firm plans. The conversation wasn't even about carpool plans, but what we would do over Spring break and she said "we should totally carpool" and I responded with "maybe, we probably could" and that was the end of it. We haven't seen much of each other this quarter, so we haven't talked about it in over two months. I had completely forgotten about this.
It turns out I don't need to be here for finals week--which I literally found out yesterday--so I plan to go home next Friday the 11th whereas she has finals until the last day, Friday the 18th.
She owes me some money, so last night I asked her if she could please get it to me before break, and she sent me back something along the lines of "Sure! I'll be done with finals at 3 pm on the 18th so I can leave anytime after that :)" When I told her I was planning to leave on the 11th, she said I needed to wait for her because we had plans and it was really uncool for me to leave her without a ride like that. We never had official plans to ride together and our school has a ride share site, so it's not hard to find other rides home. She would also be more likely to find someone who is closer to her; using the big city that is 300 miles west of us (which nearly everyone goes to/through) as a mid-point, I live 40 miles south of it whereas she's about 50 miles North. So depending on whether or not she can find someone to meet me near the middle, it adds an extra 40-100 miles to my trip.
Is it shitty of me to not wait a week for her to finish finals given our "plans?"
Would this actually be considered ditching her? | Friend is mad I'm not waiting a week for her to leave for Spring break because she thought we had hard plans to carpool. | [
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So, my dad is a prolific story teller. This is one of his favorite stories: how he met and shared a burrito with former president Bill Clinton.
Most of my work is as a location sound recordists in the video world. It is something I thoroughly enjoy. Several years ago I was contracted to help record the Stanford Graduation. Our production control area was located in the press box at the football stadium. There was no press - just us.
Far below we could see parents of the graduates filling up the stands - a sea of delighted and proud people waiting to see their loved ones complete their years of study and hard work. Two of those proud parents were Bill and Hillary Clinton - there to celebrate their daughter Chelsea's accomplishment. Their presence did not go unnoticed. They sat quietly about twenty rows up from the running track. Nearly everyone in front of them was turned around facing them and taking their picture. I'm sure they were used to it.
Anyway the commencement got under way and went off, at least for us, without a hitch. The students did their usual antics of throwing Frisbees, wearing their caps and gowns and bikinis. The usual Stanford wackiness. The speaker, former HP CEO Carly Fiorino gave a terrific speech. Well, the graduation concluded and we all gave a sigh of relief that there were no technical difficulties. Rather than pack up right away we decided to relax for a while before eating our lunch. Within minutes the door to the press box suite swung open and in strode Hillary Clinton - followed by an entourage of aides, associates, security and others. She walked by, nodded mildly and quickly at us and continued on her way, with troop in tow down the hall and into other rooms - gone.
What was that all about? We looked at each other as if to say "Did that just happen?" Within moments the door opened again and in strode Bill Clinton with his entourage. Being the politician or regular fellow he seemed to want to make more contact with us and greeted us individually as he walked by. To me it was "Hey man, what's happenin?" At the time I was wearing a tie-dyed shirt and shorts. Perhaps he could relate. Well Bill also disappeared down the hall leaving us amazed and perplexed. "What was that all about?"
Well anyway it was lunchtime. We exited the Press Box to an outdoor bridge way that led to the stadium elevators and stairs. We had a table set up near the door laden with burritos of all types and drinks. I was standing next to the table when the door opened and out strode Hillary with her entourage. They walked to the end of the platform, started to hang out and look way down below at the people exiting the stadium. Within moments the door next to me opened up and Bill strode out only to see the table of burritos and stopped dead in his tracks. He turned to me and asked "Do you think anyone would mind if I ….?" It's times like these when one asks "Did I actually get out of bed this morning." I said I couldn't imagine anyone minding and then proceeded to outline what I knew about the different burrito varieties. He took one and opened it and started to eat it right there. I surely expected him to leave. I also started to remember his days as president jogging through Washington and into burger joints on the way. He was still standing in front of me. Well I decided to engage him in conversation. I had my burrito and he had his. My mind raced trying to talk about something half intelligently and managed to ask him about a commission he headed. He listened carefully and responded with heart-felt interest. As he spoke I found it hard to not think of Monica Lewinsky, subpoenaed dresses, Hillary's support and whether I or he was really there. We talked about the commencement speech and other things and I must say he was extremely genuine, friendly and engaging.
After about ten minutes Hillary noticed Bill eating a burrito from across the breezeway and came over quickly and apparently in a somewhat agitated state of mind. You might say she marched. She told him "BILL, BILL, we're going to a luncheon Bill." Hands on hips. I felt like an accomplice. Clinton responded with a mouthful of carne asada "Yeah, yeah, I know.” I know as if to say "Can't you see I'm eating!" Hillary marched on.
Well soon after, their daughter Chelsea showed up to our secure famous person waiting area. There were hugs and family photos on their part and then they were gone.
I don't think I could have planned this if I tried. When I got up that morning I was expecting a day of work like any other. Little did I expect a Forrest Gump-like encounter with a burrito loving dude and his health-conscious wife. | My dad shared a Burrito with Bill Clinton, much to the chagrin of Hillary
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Happened last Wednesday, and it made me and my boss flush with embarrassment.
I was reading an askreddit thread at work, cause things were slow, I was practically done and everything, and my boss doesn't give a shit as to what we do since he knows that things go along slowly.
The ask reddit thread mentioned, while I don't remember exactly was something along the lines of "Redditors who have had a porn like experience, did it meet your expectations " which was NSFW. Again, no one really cares. The thread devolved into talking about men who were okay with them being raped, and there was a joke comment of "BROJOB BROJOB BROJOB".
My boss had decided to sneak up behind me in that time and screamed those words at the top of his lungs so that all could hear, and people started laughing their asses off looking at us.
Boss said "What's so funny". He legitamately did not know the meaning and that's when a coworker told him to look it up on urban dictionary, laughing harder.
He did so and went back to his office, not coming out for the rest of the day, still leaving me there shocked at the events that just took place. | Read joke thread. Boss screamed "BROJOB" without knowing what it meant, embarrassment ensues.
Preemptive edit: Yeah, you could argue that he fucked up worse than me, but I should have known since he's somewhat of a prankster. | [
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Here's what happened: People that enjoyed your comic simply upvoted it and moved on. People that did not enjoy it downvoted it and explained why they did not like it in the comments section. That means that the majority of the people who went to the comments section were people who did not like the comic.
You came out to defend yourself in the comments section, and were downvoted by people who did not enjoy your comic. Few people who enjoyed your comic decided to visit the comments section, and so few people felt inclined to upvote your comments.
You also made some comments that people on reddit love to hate. Here are some of the comments that people on reddit always downvote
>What the hell is wrong with you? People on this site are so obnoxious it's not even funny.
Don't get too angry, it's a sign that you're bootybothered.
>15 thank you.
If you're under 18, don't mention your age
>844 people don't give a shit, and had a good laugh.
again, getting angry
>Yeah, I put that there. :P
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so I've been doing kettlebells for nearly a year and starting to really hate wearing runners. I want some great flat gym shoes. your suggestions?
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This kind of happened last night but whatever
So I have this daily routine where when I go to bed I watch a few episodes of Netflix shows before I go to bed. I almost always get through 2 episodes before calling it quits and shutting off my phone, but I thought I could go for 3 tonight. Unknown to me I did not plug in my phone which acts as my only alarm clock. This is where I fucked up.
The next day I was to give a presentation on WWII. It was super stressful and I had been very nervous all week leading up to it. I basically had my part down (or so I thought) and so I went to bed deciding I was prepared as I was going to get. My presentation was in History which is 2nd period which begins at 8:15 AM. (1st begins at 7:20)
Whilst watching the third episode of the show, I apparently fell asleep forgetting to plug my phone in. Then I woke up. I felt surprisingly relaxed and refreshed and was curious why I felt this way. I checked my watch and turns out it was already 7:42 am. (I normally wake up around 5) I instantly start panicking and throwing on the closest clothes I see not even caring if they are dirty. The drive to my School is about 20 minutes but I managed to make it there 6 minutes before 2nd period started.
When I showed up I had obviously just woken up. Basically horrid hair, bad breath, red eyes which were fighting to stay open, probably smelled bad and everything else a teenager looks/smells like right after they wake up. (Now that I think about it people probably thought I was high.)
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DO NOT SMOKE OUT OF THAT!!! The heat causes it to release toxic fumes. The low heat baking that allows you to bake it at home also makes it degrade and release fumes at a lower temperature. It releases those at 350degrees, and your average lighters burn at nearly 1,000. Between plasticizing agents and petroleum ingredients, it's not something to be inhaling. Any res build with the heat and stickiness it develops would mix with the chemicals and insure you inhale them with use.
I've been sculpting with both for years and I don't have a kiln. Nearby studios and community centers in most areas will fire things in their kiln for you for a fee. You can buy porcelain and similar clay at art stores, along with glaze for it. The way glaze is made, it actually forms a glass coating over the clay when fired. It is more expensive, but is exponentially better for your lungs. It also sculpts so much better. The glaze coating and sculptural ability gives you the range of creativity and benefits of glass without having to pay massive amounts of money to learn to work with glass. | I wrote this now at a [8] not sure how much sense it makes but please never smoke out of that. It's more glorified plastic than clay. | [
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My boyfriend (now fiancé) and I have been dating a little over a year (we also live together) and he proposed a little over a week ago.
I was ecstatic about the news and told my close friends and family the next day.
My fiancé on the other hand hasn't told anyone. He also doesn't want to post it on Facebook ever! He says he has to take his own time to do this and it should just be a thing between us for now. He also states that people will just eventually find out (how are they going to find out if we don't tell anyone?)
I am particularly hurt about the other night. He's a musician and recently had a gig. I had a few drinks and told a girl that works with the guitarist's girlfriend in his band. My fiancé said that I "really fucked up" because now people will start to know.
Is this normal behavior? Should I give him more time? I feel like I'm not asking for too much, but he views people knowing as the worst thing in the world. Did anyone else have this experience when getting engaged? | We got engaged and my fiancé refuses to tell anyone.
UPDATE: Wow, I can't believe this got the response it did. Thank you everyone for your comments, I have read them all! As for the situation now, he still hasn't told anyone, but he did try last night. His mom was blackout drunk and thinks I am controlling (because I moved him out of their basement, bought him new shoes, and he doesn't get drunk with her every night).
I'll let you guys know when I have more to tell. By the way, as some of you have been asking, his band is in the starts of being larger (big in our state, shows every week, planning a second tour and cd release). Dating a musician is hard because you'll always come second to the music, but I don't think this situation should apply to that. (Or at least I'm hoping..) | [
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In Japan, they have this button on toilets that mimics the sounds of toilets flushing. One day, in a crowded mall, I decided to give it a try. I didn't even go to the bathroom, I just went in, closed the door, and pushed the button. When I came out, two women were staring at me. | In Japan, any sounds your body may produce are less embarrassing than being the schmuck who pushes the "fake flush" button. | [
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I have to get something off my chest: Neve Campbell's new character of Leanne Harvey constantly frustrated me throughout Season 4. She has all the trappings of a typical "Mary Sue", a storytelling term given to characters who are seen as a kind of author pet, and for this reason her presence began to grate. Allow me to explain:
Firstly, in typical Mary Sue fashion she was introduced very quickly and almost instantly gets welcomed into the Underwood's inner circle. After a quick antagonistic stint in the early episodes under Claire she becomes Doug's equivalent and almost Seth's superior, and she certainly acts like it. She talks back to both Doug and Frank, has a direct line to both Frank and a lot of other important people, and even walks in on private conversations between the Underwoods against Doug's suggestion because "They won't mind". Doug is powerless to control her when he normally controls everyone not named Underwood. For a new character dealing with characters established over 3 seasons who are supposedly powerful government figures, she has no trouble jumping the queue.
Secondly, she never loses. Ever. From her early days undermining Frank in Gaffney to her later sparring with Seth and Doug (who, by the way, can't find a single skeleton in her closet because she's implausibly clean for someone so ruthless), she always wins her battles. The brief moment in which Remy figures out her plan in the bar is almost immediately turned around into a big victory for Leanne. She is immediately much more effective than the established king of dirt that is Remy, and gets both him and Jackie under Claire's thumb before they can even react. You may say that they got sloppy, but it still irks me that a new character who's never been to Washington is immediately beating the show's heavyweights around like it's nothing. Later she even figures out the relationship between Tom Yates and Claire when it's meant to be a super secret thing, just because she's somehow that good. Sensing a pattern?
And it's not impossible to introduce new characters. The writer Tom Yates for instance from season 3 was a success, because he was flawed and didn't necessarily 'win' all his intellectual battles. And it's not impossible to have good female characters either, if that's in doubt; Claire, Cathy, Jackie, Dunbar, and more are all strong, ruthless characters who win and lose a fair share of battles, just like Frank, Doug, Remy, and all the other staples. | Leanne is a Mary Sue who breaks the show's established hierarchy (unlike, say, Seth, who is barely hanging on after attempting to climb for several seasons). She instantly breaks into the inner circle, spars with but easily gets one over HoC heavyweights like Doug, Remy, and Jackie, and has everything go her way 100% of the time. I understand that the show wanted Claire to have a ruthless number 2 to mirror Doug, but to have her climb her way to the top so effortlessly diminishes the rest of the characters and cheapens the image of power and authority Frank has spent the entire show cultivating.
Does anyone else agree? Disagree? I'd love to be wrong, because I really enjoy this show, but Leanne (and, admittedly, the de-emphasis of Doug) really hurt season 4 for me. | [
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I disagree with you on a couple points. First, downvoting will not prevent memes from occurring, and punishing someone for having unknowingly broken an unspoken rule is ludicrous. Explaining that the format they used isn't welcome in the main reddit should do the trick for first timers.
Second, if not voting is doing nothing, then downvoting is doing worse than nothing. You'll note that I've mentioned explaining yourself via a post previously, as have you.
My entire point was that simply voting -whichever way- does not educate a newcomer how this subreddit works. If they see they are getting downvoted without explanation then the conclusion they can draw is that the subreddit is much less friendly than advertised and decide to stay away, which would be a shame and eventually worsen our reputation.
You could, as you mentioned, downvote and leave an explanation why, and that is marginally better, but still unnecessary. You are still punishing someone for a transgression that cannot be avoided with a priori knowledge, which, again, sends a needlessly hostile message. There is also little point in downvoting to "balance out" upvotes -"I must punish you because others like what you posted and they are wrong" isn't a good attitude to have.
So, as I said, not voting and posting a comment explaining that the format of the post was less desirable is the way to go. It can educate the newcomer at the same time as it makes them feel welcome. | The stick is unnecessary for first "offenders", they should be offered a helping hand rather than a fist. | [
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I find it sad and disappointing that people get, for all intents and purposes, ostracized for NOT being a smoker in an environment where most are. I imagine some of it is paranoia... but most of it is just plain stupid. I have plenty of friends who don't smoke... but don't have a problem with it... and then one or two who DO have a problem with it but are respectful enough to know that, "If it's not my house, I have no right to protest... I can leave" And I respect that. | douchebaggery is douchebagery whether you are an ent or not. | [
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Now, I kind of recognize how this sounds a lot like a junior high problem, please be nice.
Small background on me: I grew up with an older brother and spent most of my time with him and his friends, doing "boy stuff". I am educated in a field that is mostly male. Quite a few of my long term friendships are with male school mates or colleagues from over the years. It's not that I don't like having girl friends, I definitely have quite a few, but I've always found more relatable topics of conversation and hobbies with males.
So my friend Jake and I met in the summer, we have a lot of mutual friends, and ended up seeing each other a lot. We are both typically just easy going and down to hang out a lot. So we started doing that quite a bit, at least once a week, usually with our mutual friends around, sometimes alone.
We eat, watch movies, or go shopping, drink together, you know... just hang out.
In the past few weeks after a friend suspected that he liked me and decided to tell me of her suspicion. After that, I started wondering if that was the case. I started to think about that when we are spending time together, and it's making me feel less free to be myself. And then a couple weeks ago another good friend of mine shared with me that Jake told her that he really likes me. (this isn't information I wanted or tried to get out of her, she just came up to me and flat out told me). NOW I feel really weird.
I've started to notice his lingering looks, many compliments or moments where he gets really contemplative, like he is going to say something serious and then he just doesn't. <-- also, I am not sure whether or not I am just noticing these things more now that someone spilled his beans, or if they were happening before too?
We've never been intimate or affectionate with each other, because I don't do that with my friends. I don't feel that I have led him on with any of my actions or words since I've met him.
I really value the friendship that we built and I am feeling stuck. I don't know whether I should pretend I don't know and try to ignore the things I've noticed (this will most likely keep me feeling weird about hanging out - which isn't good for our friendship) and wait for him to say something (where I will have to tell him the feeling isn't reciprocated), or Whether I should say something about how I've noticed that maybe our friendship is developing more to him than it is for me (which can also fluster everything up).
Reddit, What do I do? Should I bring it up for him before he brings it up to me?
ANY advice would be great. | I have a good male friend that I spend a good amount of time with, I just learned he likes me, and unfortunately my feelings are not the same for him. I'm scared he is going to bring it up at any time we are together now, it's changing how I feel hanging out with him. Also not sure whether I should just bring it up before it's to a point where he feels rejected by my not feeling the same. | [
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Maybe it is good business though. The reason why Comcast and other cable companies don't have FS2 is because they see no reason to pay the extra $0.30/sub/month (or whatever that Fox is asking for) because there is no content and thus no demand. Fox, wanting to turn FS1 and 2 into the ESPN cash cow, shells out a lot of money for a property they see as desirable (MLS). They then put MLS onto FS2, hoping that subscribers will bitch to Comcast, and Comcast will cave to their demands. | Chicken/egg problem. Fox will indeed put MLS on FS2 to create demand and force carriers to carry it | [
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So after finishing Lexington Event Center on a speed run with a random group, I see that the boss dropped a Green item, I walk up to it while there are one or two guys left to take down, it says inventory full!
My backpack holds 65 I think, I had 2 open slots. Then all of a sudden when I get a drop with maybe 1% chance my backpack glitches out. It says I have 50 of 40 items! I try switching backpacks but it won't let me (backpack you switch to must be higher capacity).
So I had to deconstruct items that I intended to keep just so I could pick up those gloves. What's worse is that the group leader reset the mission before I could begin deleting items! Luckily the drop was still there the second time around! | Striker gloves dropped, they are rare, backpack capacity showed incorrectly that I had more items 50/40. So I had to delete items to pick up the gloves. | [
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As people have said in here and in other threads, this is probably the 'momentum engine' at work. People call it a handicap or scripting too but it's all the same thing.
First off, I'm not just speaking out of my ass. I've been a FIFA player since 06 and was quite good (ranked fairly high worldwide in 07) so I like to think I know what I'm talking about. I'm not trying to brag or anything but simply trying to show my credentials to support my opinions.
Last year was my first year playing FUT and I had a record in the area of 300-10-100. In H2H I had a record of around 150-25-50, iirc. I dominated to D1 in straight seasons and while I struggled a bit to win the title I won it a few times with Napoli. I absolutely crushed in FUT, however. I lost maybe 4 or 5 first round tournament games all year. Now, in this year, it has been abysmal for my standards. I was relegated from D7 to D8 and struggled to get out of these lower divisions. I went back to FUT in hopes of restoring some confidence. I built a cheap Russian League team and was winning a bunch of games. Easily cruising to D2. Then it got tough. Real tough. I was losing games and I couldn't understand why...I was playing well enough. Crisp passing, good build up, but just dropping games like crazy due to rebounds/deflection goals/clearing headers going 2 feet onto the dominate foot of an opposing striker. I built up a 186 overall BPL squad I was really proud of and just got dominated because the players seemed to have a soccer IQ of -50. First touches would go astray from people like RvP and Yaya Toure.
Anyway, I just couldn't win no matter what. I started to give up and take breaks, coming back and winning games like usual until I'd magically hit a wall and lose multiple games in a row. In my veteran opinion, there is definitely something factoring into game play. Strictly from a business standpoint it makes sense. No one is going to play if they're just getting beat down every game. People, presumably, who aren't that good won't have as good teams. How do you fix this? Having these lesser players outperform their ratings. Currently my only team is a ~10k Bundesliga team and I win more games than with my 186 rated BPL team.
To address the point of 'you're just in form like real soccer' ...no. I go into games playing the same way with the same strategies every time I pick up the sticks. I don't magically forget or remember how hard to press A or B. Especially not since for years I've continued to have around the same w/l ratio.
The point of kids getting the game for Christmas: You aren't playing them if they aren't in your division (or very close to it). So if you're playing seasons you aren't getting matched up against a D9 superstar with 23 chemistry.
To the point of 'lesser teams' and 'why not just play bronze': That's not why people play ultimate team. They play to make...an ultimate team. Also as said they can't make it THAT obvious but if you play in tournaments you'll come across lesser level teams all the time. I was got owned by a silver team with my gold team. People don't really play the lesser level teams because they took away single matches and seasons, which is dominated by pace abuse teams, is the best way to make match coins. There just isn't enough people playing bronze and silver teams for enough 'data'.
One of the reasons I switched to FIFA from Madden was that Madden was just so inconsistent. Players could drop passes or miss blocks whenever the game decided. FIFA used to be consistent but it's just not anymore, a direct cause of the momentum engine. | As a veteran of many years of great w/l records I can say the momentum engine/scripting exists. It's a lot easier to see when it's negatively affecting you but people see it when it helps you out, as the OP states. It's a smart business move but really frustrating to top players. Wow that was a hell of an essay... | [
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Hello my good friends of Reddit,
I a college student, like I suspect a huge chunk of Reddit it is. Have noticed something very grotesque lately. The advancement of memes or "advice" animals being broadcast across of social mediums such as Facebook and G+. This has royally pissed me off, the one thing that I enjoyed reading or viewing has been destroyed by people who do not understand internet (Yes I said Internet).
I have been a lurker for awhile and I was just wondering Reddit...
Is there anyone else with me who thinks this monstrosity needs to be stopped? | Facebook is becoming a lower version of 9gag (who knew that was possible) Who thinks this needs to be stopped? | [
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when i was younger i used to give off a lot of body heat, like i was warm all the time! In the english summertime the nights still get pretty cold.
i used to go out partying and sleep on peoples floor/garden and the best time was as follows. i woke up under a gazebo after one such party in the garden to find not only the girl i desperately wanted to date was laying on top of me keeping warm with my body heat but that isn't the best part, a family of brown tabby cats were nestled around my body about 4 in total and they were only small kittens with a mum cat, i could have laid there forever but i had to do a mad vomit. i still look back on that day and get all warm inside. | woke up at a party to find a hot girl and a family of cats had decided to nestle with me as i was really warm. | [
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Ok, I know this might sound crazy, and I've searched for a bit of this on this subreddit but didn't find much similar to this... After the whole experience, I sat down and wrote everything down as I remembered it. I'm just going to transcribe what I wrote, and hopefully you guys could share some insights as to what it was that went down... God what a frightening, yet enlightening, experience.
Here's what I wrote word for word once I was able to use my body again:
"I can't even begin to describe what just fuckin happened tonight. I saw the fuckin result of where my path was going. Let's start from the beginning.
I left for a guitar lesson at 4:30 or so, and had the doses in my wallet. Get through the guitar lesson, and I start walking towards a dispensary where I'm meeting my friend to get picked up. I walked over there, feeling excited but a bit robbed by the guitar center which shoved contracts on me. No matter, I was content with learning to play. Then I got to the dispo (which I used to be a member of), waited outside for my friends to up, and appreciated the sky and pondered its magnificence. This is when I took the dose, at about 5:45. Then both realms of my life showed up (2 friends from different social spheres).I saw my buds and went in and got the shit. I came out, bid farewell to my buddy from camp, and then hopped in my friend's (from school - friend 1) car.We drove around a bit, and I felt my intense hunger. Then we decided to get really high tonight. I remember just kicking the shit with him and it was great, we were chilling without our history affecting us (long story short he's not a fan of psychedelics). Just casually enjoying one anothers presence.
Anyhow, we get to my friends place, order Noodles (where I used to work), and then smoke. We go get our food, and I'm feeling complete joy and start to notice the lights twinkle. As we enter Noodles, I feel the effects start to kick in. I remember feeling like I was on an island alone with the cashier, and I couldn't look at her until I paid. Then I asked if the manager was there, but he was in back. Anyhow, we got out of there and I notice how cold it is. Then I feel the warmth of Noodles on my leg as we drive back, and I appreciate it. Then we sit through what seems like endless traffic, and finally park. There is no parking next to my friends room, so we park down the hill and walk up. It was about here that I started to lose touch. I remember walking and feeling liberated, feeling the warmth of the Noodles again in my hands. Then Connor ended up with the bag, and I was a bit put off by that. Vibe shift We smoke some more once we're in his room, and I notice that my food is swirling like galaxies, and everything around it has some sort of colors and wavelengths and indescribable beauty. The music was nice. I remember wanting to hear Grateful Dead, but I put it on and I remember thinking "oh wow this is nice, and I respect their vision, but this music isn't making friend 1 happy, so let's change it back."
Eventually I remember talking to Connor about my pretensions of our relationship, and I got all my thoughts out there. It was relieving. Then in rolls a crew of 3 other guys, all of which we went to high school with. I'm comfortable with them all, but we don't often chill. But immediately the vibes were overwhelming. I felt like I was in a spaceship looking at them. Conversation got really hard. The goal of the gathering became to get fucked up. So then, unconsciously, I started to mimic each persons character. I would pick up on what they were emitting and then sorta mirror it back to them, thus making them and the group aware of what was going on in their realm. It made them all extremely uncomfortable, because I was like a social mime or something. This is when I start to feel my left vs right brain, and I realize how underutilized my right brain is. I start to try to work it more, and try to spark my creativity and whatnot with it. I notice I'm in and out of what's going on, time seems to be glitching. I started to gaze at this nug of bud I'd gotten, and really went into my own head there, because I couldn't be on the same level that these guys were at. I remember I couldn't go back to explain my train of thought anymore, then feeling waves of bad vibes, noticing social oddities, getting really hot. Then the goal became to leave to smoke more, and we made it to friend 2's car. I would say I was aware of everyone's pure existence, with a clarity overarching. I could see through bullshit. Then I realized I'd had all these thoughts before on previous trips, and was accessing them much more rapidly than any other trip I'd had. It was nice. Then we got into his car, and me and friend 2 connected (friendly way, don't know how else to put it... I gave him what he needed, which was appreciation.) Then the rest of the guys came to the car and hopped in, and I remembered my outlook on life (that hey we're here, might as well enjoy basically, make the best of everything). I realized I was enjoying life with some awesome guys, and not sitting there thinking about enjoying it. That was the most exhilarating drive of my life. We went through most of my town, past my high school and through all sorts of places I'd grown up in. That was weird.
Then we arrive to Toplot, a smoke spot on a mountain. I am awestruck by the clouds, and how the cities are lighting up the bellies of the clouds, and the moon was radiating a rainbow. I was speechless. I gazed up at the sky, and wondered why we placed stars as some 2D thing far away, like a planetarium. They are such profound things, and we couldn't appreciate their significance in themselves because we put them so far away. I started to see stars as if I was in a 3D movie, as in they were near my head, body, we were in a galaxy. As in they were here, everywhere .They're not all just millions of light years away. Then I thought about how we on Earth are living in a miracle. and we don't have to stargaze to find the beauty in the universe. Then we smoked. And I continued to accidentally split the group by "speaking what I was reading" through them. As in friend 2 was elsewhere mentally, and I made it very clear because I would start talking to him and forget the other guys, then vice versa. It made the whole scenario weird. Then I started to take control of my body. I made it smoke 3 or 4 HUGE, ludicrous, bong rips, and while everyone was coughing, I mastered the pain, and just felt the effects. It seemed like my consciousness was right above my head, controlling my body. I'd never been able to handle smoking like that before. I couldn't believe what my body was handling. I even said, "Dude. I can't normally smoke like this."
I remember feeling annoyed that these guys were talking about some abstract ideas instead of being present and enjoying where we were at, right then.
Then I remember kicking it for a bit, and it was good. Then suddenly, it seemed like I forgot where I was, and I looked at the car, out to the stars, and back to the car again. But the car had switched colors really quickly, and the scenario totally changed, and I remembered what I was doing there, but it didn't feel like I had the history to remember how we got there or anything. Then I stepped back, but my body didn't move. I was seeing the whole situation from about 3 feet away. I freaked, and yelled for Connor, but he didn't hear. I stepped back towards my body and made my body tell Connor I needed to go. I started flipping shit. I had no idea who I was, where I was, only had vague recollections of what was going on. I felt sensations of heat, cold, and tried to move my body to remember that I was still "me". I was so scared. I remember feeling like my brain was splattered on the concrete. I started crying and holding my shit together. I I hurt miserably but I felt everything. Everyone got in the car and now they were scared. I could barely form the words my room and of another friend who I wanted to help me with this. Then I got to my room and hid under a blanket while they watched, and lost my mind, and felt out my existence. I saw it all in such a profound way. So refreshing, but a slap in the face too. This all had to happen though. I got out of my shell slowly, and felt what it was like to be human. It felt like there was almost a cloth covering everything inside of my body, and I couldn't connect the feelings to my consciousness. I was relearning what it meant to be a human physically. It was scary, but beautiful."
During my freak out stage in the car, where I thought I would never be able to come back to being human, I chanted Om Mani Padme Hum, a Tibetan mantra. I immediately felt more grounded and felt the existence around me turn gold, fat, warm. I kept this going in my mind as much as possible. Profound sensations. I am here, and so thankful to be here. I realized that as conscious beings, we are able to work with and control our matter, our existence. And I decided that I was going to use my existence for good, and be a positive force in the universe. I will emanate good from the core, and make my matter bring joy and goodness. As odd as it sounds to me right now, and my friends, I went through a very religious, enlightening experience. I don't know what DMT is like, but I would try to compare it to that I guess. It felt that all of my shakras were opened, and it seemed I got there through some intense meditation. I really dug deep in my mind, and unlocked so much. It was a selfish way to do it though, and I so regret doing that to my friends. I'll be more aware before I ever do that to anyone again. | I experienced a consciousness outside of my own body, and now have a fresh perspective in which I'm going to live my life. I am so thankful to be here, right now, as a human. | [
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Then I got to the dispo (which I used to be a member of), waited outside for my friends to up, and appreciated the sky and pondered its magnificence. This is when I took the dose, at about 5:45. Then both realms of my life showed up (2 friends from different social spheres).I saw my buds and went in and got the shit. I came out, bid farewell to my buddy from camp, and then hopped in my friend's (from school - friend 1) car.We drove around a bit, and I felt my intense hunger. Then we decided to get really high tonight. I remember just kicking the shit with him and it was great, we were chilling without our history affecting us (long story short he's not a fan of psychedelics). Just casually enjoying one anothers presence.\nAnyhow, we get to my friends place, order Noodles (where I used to work), and then smoke. We go get our food, and I'm feeling complete joy and start to notice the lights twinkle. As we enter Noodles, I feel the effects start to kick in. I remember feeling like I was on an island alone with the cashier, and I couldn't look at her until I paid. Then I asked if the manager was there, but he was in back. Anyhow, we got out of there and I notice how cold it is. Then I feel the warmth of Noodles on my leg as we drive back, and I appreciate it. Then we sit through what seems like endless traffic, and finally park. There is no parking next to my friends room, so we park down the hill and walk up. It was about here that I started to lose touch. I remember walking and feeling liberated, feeling the warmth of the Noodles again in my hands. Then Connor ended up with the bag, and I was a bit put off by that. Vibe shift We smoke some more once we're in his room, and I notice that my food is swirling like galaxies, and everything around it has some sort of colors and wavelengths and indescribable beauty. The music was nice. I remember wanting to hear Grateful Dead, but I put it on and I remember thinking \"oh wow this is nice, and I respect their vision, but this music isn't making friend 1 happy, so let's change it back.\"\nEventually I remember talking to Connor about my pretensions of our relationship, and I got all my thoughts out there. It was relieving. Then in rolls a crew of 3 other guys, all of which we went to high school with. I'm comfortable with them all, but we don't often chill. But immediately the vibes were overwhelming. I felt like I was in a spaceship looking at them. Conversation got really hard. The goal of the gathering became to get fucked up. So then, unconsciously, I started to mimic each persons character. I would pick up on what they were emitting and then sorta mirror it back to them, thus making them and the group aware of what was going on in their realm. It made them all extremely uncomfortable, because I was like a social mime or something. This is when I start to feel my left vs right brain, and I realize how underutilized my right brain is. I start to try to work it more, and try to spark my creativity and whatnot with it. I notice I'm in and out of what's going on, time seems to be glitching. I started to gaze at this nug of bud I'd gotten, and really went into my own head there, because I couldn't be on the same level that these guys were at. I remember I couldn't go back to explain my train of thought anymore, then feeling waves of bad vibes, noticing social oddities, getting really hot. Then the goal became to leave to smoke more, and we made it to friend 2's car. I would say I was aware of everyone's pure existence, with a clarity overarching. I could see through bullshit. Then I realized I'd had all these thoughts before on previous trips, and was accessing them much more rapidly than any other trip I'd had. It was nice. Then we got into his car, and me and friend 2 connected (friendly way, don't know how else to put it... I gave him what he needed, which was appreciation.) Then the rest of the guys came to the car and hopped in, and I remembered my outlook on life (that hey we're here, might as well enjoy basically, make the best of everything). I realized I was enjoying life with some awesome guys, and not sitting there thinking about enjoying it. That was the most exhilarating drive of my life. We went through most of my town, past my high school and through all sorts of places I'd grown up in. That was weird.\nThen we arrive to Toplot, a smoke spot on a mountain. I am awestruck by the clouds, and how the cities are lighting up the bellies of the clouds, and the moon was radiating a rainbow. I was speechless. I gazed up at the sky, and wondered why we placed stars as some 2D thing far away, like a planetarium. They are such profound things, and we couldn't appreciate their significance in themselves because we put them so far away. I started to see stars as if I was in a 3D movie, as in they were near my head, body, we were in a galaxy. As in they were here, everywhere .They're not all just millions of light years away. Then I thought about how we on Earth are living in a miracle. and we don't have to stargaze to find the beauty in the universe. Then we smoked. And I continued to accidentally split the group by \"speaking what I was reading\" through them. As in friend 2 was elsewhere mentally, and I made it very clear because I would start talking to him and forget the other guys, then vice versa. It made the whole scenario weird. Then I started to take control of my body. I made it smoke 3 or 4 HUGE, ludicrous, bong rips, and while everyone was coughing, I mastered the pain, and just felt the effects. It seemed like my consciousness was right above my head, controlling my body. I'd never been able to handle smoking like that before. I couldn't believe what my body was handling. I even said, \"Dude. I can't normally smoke like this.\"\nI remember feeling annoyed that these guys were talking about some abstract ideas instead of being present and enjoying where we were at, right then.\nThen I remember kicking it for a bit, and it was good. Then suddenly, it seemed like I forgot where I was, and I looked at the car, out to the stars, and back to the car again. But the car had switched colors really quickly, and the scenario totally changed, and I remembered what I was doing there, but it didn't feel like I had the history to remember how we got there or anything. Then I stepped back, but my body didn't move. I was seeing the whole situation from about 3 feet away. I freaked, and yelled for Connor, but he didn't hear. I stepped back towards my body and made my body tell Connor I needed to go. I started flipping shit. I had no idea who I was, where I was, only had vague recollections of what was going on. I felt sensations of heat, cold, and tried to move my body to remember that I was still \"me\". I was so scared. I remember feeling like my brain was splattered on the concrete. I started crying and holding my shit together. I I hurt miserably but I felt everything. Everyone got in the car and now they were scared. I could barely form the words my room and of another friend who I wanted to help me with this. Then I got to my room and hid under a blanket while they watched, and lost my mind, and felt out my existence. I saw it all in such a profound way. So refreshing, but a slap in the face too. This all had to happen though. I got out of my shell slowly, and felt what it was like to be human. It felt like there was almost a cloth covering everything inside of my body, and I couldn't connect the feelings to my consciousness. I was relearning what it meant to be a human physically. It was scary, but beautiful.\"\nDuring my freak out stage in the car, where I thought I would never be able to come back to being human, I chanted Om Mani Padme Hum, a Tibetan mantra. I immediately felt more grounded and felt the existence around me turn gold, fat, warm. I kept this going in my mind as much as possible. Profound sensations. I am here, and so thankful to be here. I realized that as conscious beings, we are able to work with and control our matter, our existence. And I decided that I was going to use my existence for good, and be a positive force in the universe. I will emanate good from the core, and make my matter bring joy and goodness. As odd as it sounds to me right now, and my friends, I went through a very religious, enlightening experience. I don't know what DMT is like, but I would try to compare it to that I guess. It felt that all of my shakras were opened, and it seemed I got there through some intense meditation. I really dug deep in my mind, and unlocked so much. It was a selfish way to do it though, and I so regret doing that to my friends. I'll be more aware before I ever do that to anyone again.",
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I did the absolute creepiest thing one can do on sexxit; I propositioned a woman who posted about being a virgin and looking to stop being so.
I'm male, 24, and also have not had sex, so I politely asked if she would be interested in meeting for sex, and explaining my reasoning, namely that we could scratch worrying about being the worst lay of each others lives off the list of things giving us performance anxiety and just have fun experimenting.
Instead of posting my message on r/creepyPMs she responded saying that despite the weird/ scaryness of sex with an internet stranger she was interested, so after establishing that we are close enough for a weekend in a hotel, we connected on facebook, chatted some more, and agreed to meet at the mid point between us in a couple months.
I would like to take a moment too say that in general I am apposed to propositioning virgins on sexxit, and I hesitated to write these details for fear of encouraging creepers.
At this point we are both fairly sure the other does not intend to rape, rob, murder, or harvest kidneys from the other, so I would appreciate if warnings that one or more of these things will surely happen be kept too a minimum.
We have talked a bit about our boundaries and what we want to get out of it, basically we want to try as much as we can in the time we have, but no anal.
Now, what I'm asking (and I'll invite her to join the discussion), since we are completely inexperienced both with sex, and meeting people on the internet for it, is for any pro tips you can offer, such as things we may not have thought about that we should talk about, things not too do, such as don't eat too many burritos the day before/ during as that would spell bad, albeit hilarious, news, etc.
Thanks for reading and for your input. | Met a girl on sexxit, we're both first timers and planning to meet for sex, need advice for first time ugly bumpers/ first time meeting uglybumpin' buddies on the internet. | [
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I noticed the grammatical error in the title, damn it.
I have tried the search feature multiple times, nothing good came up. Websites don't seem to help. Would like some real-people advice for my problem.
Also, for everyone questioning age, we both go to university and where I come from, that kind of age gap isn't uncommon.
So I have a history of falling fast and hard for guys I'm attracted to. I met this guy some time ago, and I'll just skip all the reasons why he's great, as this is not part of the problem, which is: this guy is in a happy long-term relationship, and I'm starting to fall for him.
Now, I do not consider coming between them even an option, I have morals, I wouldn't want that done to me, and I'd have trouble trusting a guy who left his former girlfriend to be with me. I also don't flirt with him, and have told none of my friends about this development. I have admitted to finding him attractive, but also make sure to add that I don't even think about anything further, because he is in a relationship.
Long story short, I am not looking for advice on stealing him from his girlfriend.
What I am looking for is advice on how I can stop this. In our current situation, we spend a lot of time together on a daily basis, which is unavoidable. We certainly do have a connection, and I feel like he really likes me as well, though in a non-romantic way entirely, which is fine, as I suppose it makes things easier for me.
I try to not entertain any 'what-if' -like trains of thoughts, as this is pointless, but sometimes can't help it, e.g. when I'm about to fall asleep. I need help though. I feel like my emotions are getting stronger instead of weaker, and, as I mentioned above, distancing myself physically is impossible right now.
So please, reddit, help me stop this attraction, before it turns into a full-blown, painful crush on an unavailable guy. | Am starting to like guy, he's in a LTR, need help to stop this. | [
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Been lurking this subreddit for awhile and decided to finally post. I'll flair up in a bit but I think the story will speak for itself. Plus I've had a shitty day and I want to vent.
There are two games that immediately come to mind and are commonly mentioned/talked about but I think the older game still rings true, and for very different reasons. I"ll start with the 2009 NFC Championship. I'll be quick though because I have no desire to rehash bad feelings with stupid fans.
EDIT: By stupid fans, I had a friend of a friend who was a HUGE Saints fan and acted like a complete toolbag after that game and for the following years afterwards. I don't hate the Saints or their fans by any means, but there are just some fuckin people, ya know?
The game wasn't over when Favre threw the interception and he was no more responsible for the loss that game than anybody else. It was the officiating. The Saints defensive players (whether orchestrated or not, I honestly don't care) were hitting Favre every time he dropped back, and were absolutely destroying the 40 year old QB. Who, in their wildest dreams, did not see that coming as a predictable strategy in a game vying for entry to the Super Bowl? I mean really? The oldest quarterback in the league getting railed all game long by obviously questionable hits should have had penalty flags thrown left and right. Whether it was some giant conspiracy to knock Favre out of the game or not, that doesn't matter and it especially doesn't anymore. The problem lies with the fact that the officials did not call the penalties that should have been called. And, despite everything that the Saints were doing to him, he still fought like a goddamned champion to the bitter end. No one could have asked him to do that, and there certainly wasn't anybody worth replacing him on the bench. The part that bothers me is that even if he hadn't thrown the interception, there's no way we would have won the SB with the condition that Favre was in after the game, thanks to the complete lack of officials calling any goddamned roughing penalties. Plus Childress was a moron and would have found a way to fuck up the SB anyway. Drew Brees and Sean Payton are good dudes and deserve all the success they've achieved. Not to say that it wasn't a knife through the heart and I couldn't get excited at any point during that super bowl or the offseason or really much at all since then until this last year.
Now to the real heartbreaker in my opinion, 1998. See, it wasn't one of games where it was all that concerning (in my mind, at least) for most, if not all of the game until Gary dipshit Anderson pulls to the left. That moment was honestly just the beginning of the landslide that, to this day, is borderline traumatizing to watch. Fuck it, here's a link:
Don't bother watching the whole thing because Minnesota actually looks pretty solidly in command the entire game up until after that kick. Go to ~1:51:00. Yes its the whole game, and you really should go to that point and watch the slow gradual regression from "holy shit we're gonna go to the super bowl" to "how could I have poured my heart into this game and yet still lose". It's about 40 minutes but if you have never seen one of the biggest heartbreaks in NFL history and would like to, check it out. The real major defining moment for me was when Dennis Green (may whatever gods be smite his eternal shitty fart-huffing soul into the nine hells) lets the playclock run out on 3rd & 3 with 19 seconds left and TWO WHOLE TIMEOUTS. He doesn't call a timeout, he just says "fuck it, we'll do it in overtime". Absolute epitome of "shit coach". He should have been canned after the game for that but I digress. When Madden mentions Robert Smith wincing in pain, Smith honestly captures the feeling of the whole team in that one look at the camera. Cunningham's poor decision making in overtime and nobody really trying on the offense anymore except Carter and Hoard because there is absolutely zero gas left in the tank. After Carter makes a quick catch and reaches for an extra yard, look at his face as he half-limps back to the line. They gave everything, he knew they were going to lose, and there was nothing he or anyone could do about it because it was just a matter of time. And it wasn't like Atlanta simply outplayed them. No, Chandler tripping over his own dumb self and fucking up his knee made that pretty clear. Jamal Anderson consistently getting dirt for yardage all game also made that clear. The Vikings secondary obliterating any receiver going to the outside made it a difficult road for the Falcons' offense. Just watch each defensive linemen for the Vikings each play during overtime. 5 quarters of football takes it toll on a man, and they were out of steam and out of time. That sense of fatigue and helplessness watching your team practically play themselves to death and all for naught, that was heartbreaking. There's nothing quite like seeing a team lose itself and then consequently losing the biggest game they had faced yet. Just watch the video.
I still contend to this day that had that kick been made, or the numerous almost-interceptions that haunt me almost as much as the kick itself and the Vikings had gone to the Super Bowl, they would have trounced the Broncos. They were the highest scoring offense in the history of the NFL at that point. If that game couldn't stop them, nothing would. Maybe I was a bit too young to appreciate the power of Elway (still don't give a shit about him) but it was our goddamned year. That was the year that could have happened, SHOULD have happened, but didn't. After the championship I read the paper and heard my brother talk about the absolute thrashing the Broncos gave the Falcons and how it was never close.
I didn't watch football for about 4-6 years after that, completely missing the Ravens becoming relevant, the greatest show on turf, even another playoff run by the Vikings. I just didn't care. No sporting event to me will ever hit as hard as that slow, grinding feeling of impending doom, that helplessness and fatigue, that hot stinking feeling of dread and depression. | Gary Fucking Anderson | [
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The Saints defensive players (whether orchestrated or not, I honestly don't care) were hitting Favre every time he dropped back, and were absolutely destroying the 40 year old QB. Who, in their wildest dreams, did not see that coming as a predictable strategy in a game vying for entry to the Super Bowl? I mean really? The oldest quarterback in the league getting railed all game long by obviously questionable hits should have had penalty flags thrown left and right. Whether it was some giant conspiracy to knock Favre out of the game or not, that doesn't matter and it especially doesn't anymore. The problem lies with the fact that the officials did not call the penalties that should have been called. And, despite everything that the Saints were doing to him, he still fought like a goddamned champion to the bitter end. No one could have asked him to do that, and there certainly wasn't anybody worth replacing him on the bench. The part that bothers me is that even if he hadn't thrown the interception, there's no way we would have won the SB with the condition that Favre was in after the game, thanks to the complete lack of officials calling any goddamned roughing penalties. Plus Childress was a moron and would have found a way to fuck up the SB anyway. Drew Brees and Sean Payton are good dudes and deserve all the success they've achieved. Not to say that it wasn't a knife through the heart and I couldn't get excited at any point during that super bowl or the offseason or really much at all since then until this last year. \n Now to the real heartbreaker in my opinion, 1998. See, it wasn't one of games where it was all that concerning (in my mind, at least) for most, if not all of the game until Gary dipshit Anderson pulls to the left. That moment was honestly just the beginning of the landslide that, to this day, is borderline traumatizing to watch. Fuck it, here's a link: \nDon't bother watching the whole thing because Minnesota actually looks pretty solidly in command the entire game up until after that kick. Go to ~1:51:00. Yes its the whole game, and you really should go to that point and watch the slow gradual regression from \"holy shit we're gonna go to the super bowl\" to \"how could I have poured my heart into this game and yet still lose\". It's about 40 minutes but if you have never seen one of the biggest heartbreaks in NFL history and would like to, check it out. The real major defining moment for me was when Dennis Green (may whatever gods be smite his eternal shitty fart-huffing soul into the nine hells) lets the playclock run out on 3rd & 3 with 19 seconds left and TWO WHOLE TIMEOUTS. He doesn't call a timeout, he just says \"fuck it, we'll do it in overtime\". Absolute epitome of \"shit coach\". He should have been canned after the game for that but I digress. 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Just watch each defensive linemen for the Vikings each play during overtime. 5 quarters of football takes it toll on a man, and they were out of steam and out of time. That sense of fatigue and helplessness watching your team practically play themselves to death and all for naught, that was heartbreaking. There's nothing quite like seeing a team lose itself and then consequently losing the biggest game they had faced yet. Just watch the video. \n I still contend to this day that had that kick been made, or the numerous almost-interceptions that haunt me almost as much as the kick itself and the Vikings had gone to the Super Bowl, they would have trounced the Broncos. They were the highest scoring offense in the history of the NFL at that point. If that game couldn't stop them, nothing would. Maybe I was a bit too young to appreciate the power of Elway (still don't give a shit about him) but it was our goddamned year. 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XBee is a serial wireless connection, they have mutiple types mainly being
Series 1 Point-Point serial Communication between 2 modules (1mw broadcast power in the 2.4Ghz Public spectrum (same as Wi-Fi, bluetooth, etc 50ft approx range i believe)
Series 2 Meshed Connections between 3 more modules
i think they also have higher 60mw modules that have ~1mi range
download some programming tutorials/books from torrents. follow the examples and try to do some projects. i would recommend basic familiarity with syntax for Matlab, VBA (Excel = Highly valuable), and C/C++ to start with, maybe Java at a slightly higher level. Most structures are fairly similar its the differences in syntax that makes it hard.
getting ready for college.. oh boy... umm be really good as math.. like basic shit will make the higher level classes way easier. treat college like a job 8am-5pm 5 days a week. you will not be in class 8hrs a day like HS but you will have much more reading and HW to do if you can do it during the day you will be free at night and on weekends. but if you dick off you end up with piles of HW and being stressed that you have no personal time when you sit around doing jack for an hour between classes. classes are hard expect to retake a few here and there. find out where you're going to go and get involved early with clubs etc. get your funding in line, try not to live on campus if at all possible cost of living will be 2.5-3x more than living off campus. most people in dorms are not particularly social anyways join a club/sports team and you'll make better friends that way.
workout regularly.. will keep you sane, expect freshman year to be easy after the first term, expect to be putting in 12hr days on campus 5 days a week by junior year. have a good system for keeping notes/old hw for college classes, people i know make a binder for every class and put every note/returned quiz/text/hw in it, it will be useful when reviewing for the FE (Fundamentals of Engineering Exam) you take senior year for certification. keep your textbooks(dont resell to bookstore for 10% of price paid)/never buy from bookstore they mark up 2-3X what you can get online at sites like amazon or chegg, always check to see if theres a torrent of your book.
I know people who had issues keeping on task/doing HW that have taken 1-3 year breaks and they come back to college because they get the experience of trying to make it working a shit HS education job and it really provides some motivation to succeed | get yo shit togetha | [
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So a year ago I tried to get into Lucid Dreaming. I started doing RCs and kept a dream journal. Unfortunately it didn't work. Probably because I didn't RC consistently and thoroughly. Maybe also because I hadn't discovered this sub yet (which is awesome btw).
But a week ago, I was dreaming and suddenly became aware of it. Before I could do anything however, I got too excited and woke up. So now I've started trying again.
Now, to the point of this post:
Yesterday I tried WILD. I didn't expect to get any results seeing as I've never meditated and am usually talking to myself in my head constantly. I started focusing only on my breathing and heartbeat. After a few minutes, I seemed to have successfully driven out all other thoughts. I felt my limbs become heavier and heavier and then my eyes started shaking and the dancing lights on my eyelids started to become more clear and vivid. I thought it was working, my heartbeat rose and before I could calm myself down, the feeling vanished.
Now my question is, am I on the right track? Was I on the verge of SP/LD or was it just my imagination? | I think I almost succeeded at WILD, but I'm not sure. | [
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Voting for the President is certainly not the only thing you can do. You have House and Senate representatives. The House and Senate reps are the legislative body that are voting on these bills. Contact them and figure out their stance on these types of issues. Base your vote on that information. The representatives you have now will be the ones who vote on the PIPA and SOPA proposals. Contact them and express to them in logical terms why you are opposed to it. Chances are you will not really get in contact with them, but send your notes anyways. The more people who send them, the greater chance that they will get heard. These congressmen are your representatives working for you . If they want to keep their jobs they have to get reelected by you . Petitioning the White House (as I have seen on r/technology) will have little effect. Getting your friends and neighbors to sign petitions to your legislative representatives will show them what their voters think. If you get a generic response to your letters, don't get discouraged, write back with counter arguments like it was from your representative directly. Continue to press the issue and express your opinion. Their entire job is to represent the people of their region, you can influence their vote by expressing your stance on the situation as a resident of their area. | Don't target the President, he cannot help you. Contact the legislative body. | [
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As the title says, I fucked up my own future, and I can only blame myself. I am 21 years old, 3rd year in college with a GPA below 3. I originally wanted to go to medical school, but that's out of the picture now. I doubt any school would bother looking at my application due to the GPA. My SO doesn't know he's dating a total waste of space and time-but I want to work up the courage to tell him what a failure I really am so he can have time to find someone new in his life. I don't think he will want to stay with someone who has no future and is also a deceiver.
I often find myself thinking about suicide so that no one will find out what a failure I am. I wasted so much of my parents' time and money. They pay for my college and took so much care in raising me, but I fucked it up and was too much of a coward to ask for help when the situation could have been salvaged.
I'm not asking for pity-I'm just trying to find a reason to live amd love myself. I think it would break my parents' hearts to find that I ended up being such a failure. I feel so terrible, and I see where I am headed, but I feel like I'm on a horrible ride that I have no control over. I know everyone has self control issues, and they end up just fine. Why can't I just do what I am supposed to do? I think I'm too lazy and weak willed, but I have no idea how to fix myself.
Thanks for reading. | I fucked up my future and have no idea what to do. | [
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This year is my second year of MUT and I started out working the auction house pretty heavily and got up to 1 million coins. This left me satisfied, but that satisfaction wore off and I decided that I can alway make it back so I dropped a little over 230k on players. It was such a good decision I think. I picked up Captain Kendricks, Donta Hightower, 86 Pat Pete, Captain Damon Harrison, AJ Green, and Jordy Nelson. First game with them I had one interception each with Pat Pete, Hightower, Kendricks plus AJ Green and Jordy Nelson both had touchdowns. These additions have me looking forward to playing some more H2H after class.
Here's my current squad: | Treat yoself | [
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i broke up with my boyfriend in may. we actually stopped having sex in december. i have this pattern of breaking up and then continuing to hook up/hang out with ex-boyfriends until my feelings fully go away. then i'm just done and can move on astoundingly well. bad and selfish pattern, i know.
anyway, we were done in december. i had always gotten along with my ex's roommate and enjoyed the positive male attention. we flirted casually, but mainly just hung out as part of a group. went out a few times to bars just us, but nothing happened until new year's eve. we kissed after he (lied) and told me that he hadn't gotten a new year's kiss. no big deal, but it did change the dynamic of the flirting. mid-january rolls around and then we started to fuck.
it's been getting more and more serious since then...more sex, more often, more hangout time, more often. feelings have gotten involved. soon we will be (maybe) living in different places and the stress is building. i'm the first girl he's had feelings like this for, whereas i've been around the relationship block a few times before. these are the problems that have cropped up between us, but the fallout is much, much worse.
remember my ex? well, for awhile me and the roommate were smooth as hell, no one suspected (that's true, people who now know have verified). as we started to hang out more (and as roommate missed more and more nights at his apt), people started to get suspicious. lots of drama among all the people we all hang out with, as you can imagine. only a few people know for sure what is happening; everyone else is speculating. somehow, i've managed to convince the ex that i am not fucking his roommate. i should mention, also, that my ex went PSYCHO for reasons unrelated to the roommate situation. like stalking me, asking for weapons, screaming at me until the cops came crazy. so i don't really feel any sort of pity or empathy for him.
essentially, i just wanted to post and see if i got any sort of feedback. i've put up with plenty of judgment, so i can handle that, but advice could be helpful, either related to my growing relationship with the roommate (with whom, i should mention, i am not exclusive. we have both slept with other people since we started fucking in mid-january, but that was early on), or how to handle the situation overall. | fucking my crazy ex-boyfriend's roommate. roommate and i have started to develop serious feelings. all of our friends are wigging out. thoughts? | [
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I am very confused what you'd be getting out of telling your mom. I mean at the end of the day even if it doesn't feel like a sexual fetish, it STILL is a sexual fetish - and honestly your family doesn't need to know about that. Now, if you were a younger guy struggling to be comfortable with himself because of this then yeah maybe you could tell your parents you'd like to see a therapist, but you're of the age you can arrange that yourself.
Honestly, I sometimes think people buy into this theory that if you tell your parents then maybe they'll be like "okay okay son I'll diaper you" or maybe i've read too many Deeker stories and judge people too quickly. | No | [
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Sure! Remember, losing weight is all about your TDEE. What that means is calories in vs. Calories spent. Remember: if you consistently burn more calories than you consume- you will lose weight!
In short: use whatever supplements work for you! As long as these supplements are consciously factored in to your daily calorie intake.
For instance: I take protein supplements while cutting (losing weight) to ensure I can meet my protein goals. I just make sure I count the 130 cals per scoop into my daily nutrition plan.
Also- if you're using creatine remember that you will retain some water weight (3-5 lbs normally) but you'll pee/sweat it out when you discontinue the supplement. | It's all about calories! Use whatever supplements you like as long as you factor them in. | [
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Cross post from /r/relationships, seems very relevant here, I need all the help I can get right now :(
We were in love for >1yr and accidentally got pregnant. He didn't originally want kids but seemed happy about it, except he refused to be home more than ~4 evenings a week, and preferred to stay out late with partying man-children. He made it clear that this was not going to change for more than a few weeks after I had the baby. We were having other significant problems too (details irrelevant, so I won't rant) that only appeared and got bad once I was already 10-14wks pregnant. So, I asked him to move back to his house when I was 18wks. I'm 22wks now, so it's been about a month.
He can't see the role he played in this turn of events, and is just very angry with me for leaving him. He's also been going back and forth a lot since then. Basically I might have hurt his feelings too much for him to want to know his child. (!) Sometimes he promises he'll be there for us. Sometimes he says he's considering walking away completely. Often he says he'll be there to some extent as long as a test proves it's his. (It is definitely his and he knows that.) Always he says he needs time to think.
I had my scan two days ago (it's a girl!) and he texted me that night to ask about it, so I told him it was super healthy and on track. He asked about gender, but I really didn't want to tell the father of my child big news like that over text message (?!) so I asked if he was sure he wanted to hear about his son or daughter like that.
His response: "If it is mine! You can tell me via text, I'm in bed about to hit the hay! ... I would be more excited about this situation if we were together. I am however excited for you, wish you the absolute best and hope the baby is healthy, happy and beautiful"
Note: 1) It was 9:50 and he's a night owl. 2) I hate doing even this much over text, but lawyers advised me to record all our interactions in case we fight over custody, and it's usually easier to keep track of texts than to pull out a voice recorder on a phone call. 3) He hasn't been paying pregnancy expenses since he moved out, but for what it's worth, he did still PayPal me most of the money for the scan that night.
So I responded and explained to him why I didn't want to tell him that over text. That I knew he said he needed time, but that there's no time, this child is already here and we both need to know if it's going to have a father. I just asked straight up if he wanted to walk away. I received a read receipt and no response, and hours later, he turned off his read receipts. That was almost 3 days ago; he still doesn't know it's a girl and he still hasn't responded.
It's worth mentioning that when we broke up, his mother (who had been very excited, we were close, and she was planning the baby shower) cut me off immediately, and texted my mom to back out of shower planning. In that text she sent her "best wishes" also. So, I'm wondering if this family just likes to use well-wishing as a nice way of implying their permanent goodbyes.
I don't want my daughter to grow up without a father, and I do love him so much - I didn't go into how amazing of a year we had together before this - but I just can't anymore, not after realizing he could even think about leaving his child. And I know it's better to have him out of the picture than pissing around being in and out of her life. If he's still so lukewarm about her, I'd rather him just go. Does anyone have the foggiest idea as to whether I can now at least sleep well at night with some degree of certainty on this? Or is he likely to come back and haunt us again? | I broke up with the dad, and now he can't decide whether he wants anything to do with me and his unborn daughter. I tried to drag a straight answer out of him, and he's now been silent for days. Any chance he's truly gone for good this time? | [
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Well, it sort of makes sense. A light year is the distance that light travels in a vacuum in one year. So, if we are looking at Wolf 424a or Wolf 424b which both are over 14.000 light years away we are looking at the light that was emitted 14.000 years ago and traveled through space for that amount of time.
Now, according to the bible, god created stars at 4^th day, so no star should be older than earth , thus if creationists claim that earth is 6.000 years old than there should be no visible stars further than 6.000 light years from earth. So, your argument is not valid. At the moment of creation, god could have created stars however far he wished BUT we wouldn't see them. | If we can see stars that are 14.000 light years away than that means universe must be older than 14.000 years. | [
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Yeah, the department I'm in is pushing for all PhD students to do them if they don't have one already. He said all of his previous students had done them, and we had talked about it, and he thought it was a reasonable goal (though he didn't seem to think it was necessary). Then when I was getting him to set up my MS thesis credits he was like "wait I thought you were a PhD student"...and we had to go over what was happening again, and then he checked with the department secretary who repeated to him that that's what they were suggesting be done...then he seemed satisfied with what I was doing. That explained why he thought forming my committee was such a big deal. Here forming an MS committee is like not a big deal at all, whereas PhD committee has to be formed before you're halfway through your program. | yeah our department believes that, but my advisor doesn't think it's as big a deal.
Also...fist bump for CS grads (just finished my MS w00t). | [
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I just got out of a very long and toxic relationship about a month ago. I have only 'been' with one woman, my now ex girlfriend. I joined an online dating site and just started like actually using it after going no contact for realz the other day. I met this one chick, she is a nerdy person like me who enjoys video games and other stuff. We are really hitting it off, pretty much texting nonstop for two days now. We want to meet soon. There seems to be some sexual tension with innuendos and such, mostly coming from her. I dig it, I like her and she says she likes me, and I wanna take it slow and definately not jump into anything quick. She wants to come over to my apartment maybe this weekend.
Any tips on what to do? I was doing miserably after getting out of my relationship recently and now im like pumping with confidence and it feels really fucking good. Im getting kind of anxious though, we text and get along like crazy now but im worried maybe I wont be good enough in person, I dont think im bad looking and we have been sending eachother pictures back and forth so Im not like a ghoul or anything. I think i really am gonna get laid this weekend judging the way shes talking to me, its kind of sweet. And she is rather attractive as well ;)
Any advice for me? I have never been with another woman. I dont know if im falling for feelings and clinging for something if its just a lay, or a friends with benefits. She just moved her and doesnt really know anyone, and I could use a new lady friend too, I have never had one before...maybe an ongoing fling and see what happens? Wrap the peter of course, you never know whats out there. | online dating, hit it and quit it or keep making hay while the sun still shines? | [
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I'm more upset that I won't be upset. My maternal grandparents died when I was really young so I've really grown up with just 2. I've never felt particularly loved by them. My grandfather is selfish and thinks he's right all the time. My grandma is fine, but she favors the older grandchildren.
They've both had Parkinsons for the last few year. My grandpa is physically deteriorating and my grandma is mentally deteriorating. If anything it's only enhanced their negative qualities. They still live in this huge house and can't take care of it. My aunt had been living there for a while (not to take care of them but just because) but just moved out with her fiance (who I also don't like but that's another story...). My uncle is a recovered alcoholic and lives with his new wife. (Interestingly there was also a time when he and my cousins lived with my grandparents too). Neither of them want to take responsibility for their parents so it falls on my parents. And I feel like it falls on me to be there for them too. Even though they have never really done anything for me or make me feel loved. I feel more obligation because I love my dad and will do it for him.
Holidays are terrible. People are always late and my cousins always get too drunk. This past christmas we were rushed through opening presents because the roast was ready. There was no time to really acknowledge thanks for what you were getting or have fun seeing everyone else's reactions.
Going through all this has made me think a lot about family. Ultimately family might annoy you, but you should always know they will always be there and support you. I don't feel that at all with any of my extended family and it makes me really sad.
I kind of just want them to pass away soon so we don't have to keep talking about them moving into a smaller place (which they are too proud to do) or getting someone to drive them and help with chores (which they are too stubborn to do). I have plenty more stories about the dysfunction that goes on and I just don't want to be a part of it. | I don't like my grandparents
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I have had a good experience with Men's Wearhouse in TN with just wearing it to the sizing and fitting. I told the guy when we was sizing me that I am currently carrying so there will be a lump back there. He acted professionally and even took care to not expose my gun in the middle of the store. Similarly when another guy was checking the fit on me when I went to pick it up, I let him know when he was about to touch it; he told me if usually has his on him but left it in his car today, carries a .357 etc.
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Okay motherfuckers. y'all know the drill! We've posted here a couple times in the past, (albeit a little earlier in the day.. kinda forgot, busy week this week!)
Anyone looking for a drinking server tonight? If so, we are the server for you. We rent a 32 player server, on PC, and play pretty much on Friday nights exclusively. [Check it out.](
Rules? Just one. Drink.
We kick you if you're obviously sober. This server is for the inebriated only. Yes, we even kick our own "clan" members.
"But how do you know if I'm sober?" Well, it can be pretty obvious, if you're playing excellently and have an incredible KDR, you risk being kicked, to go make a drink. Then on a second offense, temp-banned (10-15min) to go do a couple shots. If you come back again and fuck us all up, we will permaban you. Sorry! Plenty of warnings, though.
Maplist: <-- This is different from the last 2 weeks
We run a votemap plugin, and the maps that populate the vote choices are the least-played-maps-so-far, chosen out of the maplist.
Like to drink and play BF4 on a Friday night? Get the fuck in here!
-Inf3st (Get off my lawn!)
Edit: Forgot to mention, we run with all the DLC, mixed in a little of everything in the rotation. (Except for 6/20) | Platform: PC
Maps: Vanilla only this week!
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For God's sake...
The ENTIRE show is about House's inability to change, and how his fucked up mindset destroys his friends. He gets Cuddy to believe that he's changed so she will purger herself and get the cop off his back. In the end, nothing's changed. He tries to make Amber's death about him. His entire friendship with Wilson is mainly about entertainment, and that it's better to have one friend than be alone.
For God's sake, look at the episodes where House convinces Wilson he had a long lost kid (forgive if one or two details are wrong here, I haven't re-watched season 8). House plays on Wilson's desire for family to make an incredibly petty point: that Wilson is easily manipulated.
Then, the ICING ON THE CAKE: He makes Wilson getting terminal cancer ABOUT HIM. Wilson has decided to die peacefully, and House almost breaks off the friendship because he sees it as Wilson choosing to leave him. It's hard to get any more selfish.
Then, the final episode. What a masterpiece. House officially has nothing left to live for, no family, no friends, not much of a job. It goes over all the things in his life he squandered and his utter lack of future. In the end, he burns the one thing that might be worth living for post-Wilson, his freedom and medical license, so that he can spend the rest of Wilson's life with him. Proving that House can change, and fulfilling the question that started in season 1. | The House finale answers the question of whether or not House can change, and make unselfish decisions, which was arguably the main theme of the show from the beginning. | [
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Small government" as a rallying cry is directed towards the Federal government, not to states. State governments, despite size - outside of California (possibly) - are much easier to influence with corporate dollars, especially in a down economy. Increasing social controls and agenda are part of the play book in order to bolster the size and strength of a state govt, especially when those social issues are not taken up on a federal level. It takes a tremendous popular movement in conjunction with a governing body receptive to public input; not influenced or focused on corporate benefit primarily. | Never gonna happen in WI under current leadership...there's no business advantage and it'll get shot down in our legislature. It will take a hard shift into a clear progressive majority to even entertain the idea. | [
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Solar sails have been in development for a few decades now and were theorized about ever since Maxwell wrote about it about it and Verne suggested the idea in From the Earth to the Moon in 1865. Kepler mentioned it in 1610... so the idea has been around fora while.
When scientists figured out that photons did indeed exert a force, the idea became tangible.
>Innovation and ideas within the sci-fi community are usually discarded as ludicrous, but as time passes on it begs belief that these ideas are becoming reality. Aside from Sunjammer, the film Sunshine, also predicted the solar sail.
This is a poor statement. First, the sci-fi community is big so many of the ideas are ludicrous because many sci-fi fans aren't scientists. Revered science fiction authors usually are scientists and take inspiration from science. It's unfair to the authors to group them so generally with their fan base. Innovation in sci-fi is not ludicrous when backed by tangible evidence (which Clarke had plenty of). Sunjammer is more of a reference really.
The design is based on earlier designs tested a decade ago and has absolutely nothing to do with Clarke's Sunjammer. The article's author shows a weak grasp of the strong bond between science research and science fiction. And Sunshine did not predict the solar sail since [the solar sail]( was already around before 2007. | Poor title, poor article. | [
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I went to an art/design school. As a major requirement, I took an airbrush class (Illustration) I originally wanted the other professor since I didn't know this one very well at all but that class was full. This guy was A. Complete. Dickwad. He had some chip on his shoulder where he felt the need to berate anyone and everyone he met. At first we thought he was just being facetious and his jabs were a little funny, things like "Haha, how did you even get accepted here?". Turns out he had NOTHING good to say, EVER.
Admittedly, airbrush is a tough medium to control especially with no prior experience so we all floundered for a bit despite our best efforts, but this guy took every chance he got to tell us how much we sucked, how we weren't even trying, that none of us could draw worth a crap. There was a girl who was in the fashion illustration major who was taking the course as an elective and he kept asking her "Why are you even here? You shouldn't be in this class."
To top it off, he seemed to be a total misogynist, and made sexual comments to a lot of the attractive females in the class. He told one girl that her tattoos made her trashy, and he wondered where else she had them. As well as throwing a fit out of nowhere when one girl told him she had a boyfriend.
We all made constant reports to the head of the department about his behavior, and it was the usual "Are you sure its that bad?" "Okay, we'll try to talk to him." and "We can't fire him mid semester because you guys need to finish the course". Eventually we all just stopped attending classes because it just wasn't worth putting up with this asshole's bullshit and the administration doing nothing about it. They only fired him after the semester because they planned on getting rid of the course from the curriculum any way. | Art school teacher berated every single student in his class and made sexually harassing remarks at female students. Administration did nothing. | [
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So this never happened to me before. I have a wonderful relationship with my girlfriend, we support each other, we are having an amazing time and we are very in love.
Yesterday I didn't have to go to Uni, I'm changing careers so this period of time I'll be staying a lot more at home. I don't live with my GF, but we both live alone, so we spend much time together.
The day started well, I was staying longer at home before I see her because I had some homework to do and I wanted to finish it ASAP, we planned to go to a free music festival but we weren't quite sure.
So I decided I'd finish my homework and then I'd go see her. Having pretty much and entire day for my own, I decided I would prepare some weed brownies and have a nice, chill day at home. It backfired, and I never felt that way before. When the time to go visit her came, I wasn't controlled whatsoever. My head was spinning, each thought came like in a roullette. Tons of variations of the same thoughts I had appeared, each one with it's own phrasing, context and intentions. I wasn't any capable of connecting two sentences together and giving any sense to what I was saying. It was horrible and I had an awful time, but I really treated my girlfriend poorly.
It wasn't my intention, and many things I said weren't true, it's just that these brownies really left me without any of my emotional intelligence,. I was feeling many things at the same time and, in the end, it wasn't me. I made her cry and I hate myself for that, but anytime I tried to make things better I made them worse. I couldn't communicate myself.
Now, I suppose she's forgiven me, I know I made a horrible thing to her, but I didn't want to. It wasn't my plan to ruin the day, I didn't want things to go that route but I was out of myself. I am apologizing each oportunity I have, because things are much more clear now, but how can I cope with it? I feel terrible.
Edit:
She wrote me this (sorry if it comes off as confusing, we're not native speakers and I had to translate from spanish):
> OP: I don't pretend that you tell me everything you do or don't, but you don't have to lie to me either. My intentions by constantly asking you about University were to push you to do something, but now I've realized that it doesn't work, so I won't do that anymore. As you said yesterday, it's time you take some responsibility and grow up. I just want you to know that if you don't do this, I won't be able to be with you anymore. I don't want you to promise anything, all the promises you made me; be more responsible, clean, use your time better, look for a house, work out, etc. stayed there. I don't want you to change for me, I want you to change for yourself and because you want to. I love you. | I had a bad trip and I wasn't quite myself. I made my girlfriend cry and now I feel terrible, what should I do? | [
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Gio vs Sproles? I benched Gio two weeks ago and he went off and Sproles did shit, then the roles were reversed last week (fortunately, I won both games regardless of that and Kaep due to the wonders of Jamaal Charles, Jordan Cameron, and streamed defenses). Not sure at all who to start this week. It's standard non-PPR | Gio Bernard vs NE
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Sproles @ CHI
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Before I get on to the main point, I would like to say that I do admire HiRez buffing Sylvanus over the last few patches such as cooldown reductions, increasing his protections on Wisps and damage overall. They are nice buffs and even comes with a new T2 skin to boot. I like the attention he is getting but there is one part of his kit that I feel needs looking at.
His passive, Nature's Protection.
Compared to other Guardian passives, it doesn't feel like it does anything that helps him or his team. Ares can build defensive aura items and be a high damaging tank, Geb takes 25% damage from crits as opposed to 100% and Ymir can lower the damage from the enemy team by 10%. Sylvanus gets a 1.25 second root, which procs 25% of the time on successful basic attacks that will reset every 12 seconds. It's basically a downgraded version of Verdant Growth.
Sylvanus is one of the three Guardians with no movement abilites alongside Ymir and Ares. However, Ymir has a 2.25 second stun, a 4 second slow and a deployable wall that can last 6 seconds to escape enemies. Ares can shoot Shackles at enemies to slow them and cripple them and stop any dashes or leaps. Hell, Ares can fight back if he wanted to, his damage isn't terrible. Sylvanus has a root on Verdant Growth, his passive, the knock up on his ultimate and the Gem of Isolation if you get it. While it does sound like he can escape better, that's not the case.
His passive works on a small amount of Warriors such as Osiris, Ravana and Erlang Shen and can be triggered by most Guardians but unless you're the last one alive, nobody will prioritize you because the enemy team will be after your allies first. It does work on some Assassins (his biggest threats being Nemesis, Bakasura and Kali) but even if you do root them with the passive, they'll have a leap, dash or movement buff to easily catch up and render his passive useless. It also has no affect at all to any Hunter or Mage (apart from Freya or Ao Kuang), which sucks because they can easily chase him with his passive not doing anything. | His passive is unreliable for escaping his enemies, it barely affects anybody who can trigger it consistantly and isn't as effective compared to other Guardian passives. | [
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They don't go "missing" they go belly up because the federal government abuses the commerce clause and doesn't let insurance companies sell policies across state boarders. So State Farm can't pool together resources from Louisiana and North Dakota (even though State Farm LA and State Farm ND share a the same parent company). So when a hurricane hits Louisiana and it affects the whole state, they don't have enough reserves to fall back on. If they could pool, group, or sell policies across the states, since a natural disaster wouldn't likely be going on simultaneously in North Dakota, they would be able to soften the blow. | Just another problem created because of government regulation. | [
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Take the Schoenberg. The music builds and twists to a big climax at about 1:21 that lasts about 20 seconds before dying out. Compare that with THIS , there's [THIS]( probably my favorite piece for piano. The emergence of each new theme seems an inevitability or musical consequence of what came before. Is the structure dictating the "tonality" or the other way around? With a composer such as Chopin, I would argue he let the musical content lead. Also [THIS]( with keeping musical idea vs structure in mind.
But of course, Schoenberg's music isn't void of structure or consequence. My argument is that once one removes singability from one's musical phrases (or language), one must insert those facets (structure, consequence) by other means, such as mathematical ratio or other external devices.
Take the examples of Schoenberg, Machaut, Glass, and Reich and compare them with [THIS]( which I would argue is exponentially less "static" and makes one of the most singable melodies in human history an inevitability. Then to [THIS]( especially the emergence of the "B" theme at about 1:41. And to talk about inevitability, the transition back into the recapitulation is stunning. Again, [THIS]( shows what a master of efficiency Bach was. Once the main theme comes back at about 1:00, it seems obvious that that's where it would happen.
I want to close talking about the Reich because it cuts to the heart of everything in this preposterously long post. It's fucking awesome. I am amazed at what Reich was able to do. It is endlessly listenable. I'm sure if I heard that piece 100 times, I would hear something new with each listen. But asking an honest question, how would you communicate that piece to someone who had never heard it? You would have to tell them about it, the method of composition, talk about the structure and ratios and how it was built. But you can't sing it, at least not past the first iteration. And technically, it really isn't even performable (in one sense) as the composer himself made it for pre-recorded musicians. In this regard, I believe "constructed" is a better word than "composed." As enjoyable as it was (and I was smiling the whole way through), I couldn't help but feel that I was listening to the musical equivalent of watching a massively elaborate and highly complex [Rube Goldberg Machine]( So much was happening, but it ultimately wasn't leading to anything. In the face of the complexity of Vermont Counterpoint, I stand dumbfounded and amazed. But in the face of [THIS]( complexity, I stand in awe and humility.
So I suppose that's the | singability. If you can only describe a piece, and you can't sing it, that's saying, fundamentally, you can't communicate the piece. You can communicate about it, the idea of it, but not the actual piece itself. I believe this applies to the Lutoslawski as well as many of the 20th century composers modern audiences have decided they don't like. I truly believe this link between musical idea/phrase and communicability is fundamental, innate to us as human animals, and firmly based in a musical idea's "singability." If there is a fundamental, cognitive link between music and language (which there is), it stands to reason that communicability of a musical idea should be at the forefront of the composers mind if you mean to connect with your listener/audience in a meaningful way.
woah... hopefully you made it through and it was at least partially coherent. There was more on the overtone series and the link between singability and memorability i wanted to get in to but this was already too long so i cut it. I look forward to your (or anyones) thoughts. | [
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I thought my league just didn't want to trade. I don't like it, but whatever. I send out trade offers, admittedly low-ball offers to start negotiations. I get told I'm simply trying to trade rape people. Ridiculous. Examples include Brandon Marshall and Fred Jackson for Marshawn Lynch, Andre Ellington and Demaryius Thomas for Eddie Lacy, Matt Stafford and Fred Jackson for Tony Romo and Chris Johnson. Not necessarily great trades for the other team, but not trade rape, either.
I get told I'm trying to trade rape. Stupid, but whatever, these guys just don't want to trade.
Then, today, three trades go down.
First, Team A trades Tony Gonzalez for Team B's Alex Smith, Jared Cook and David Wilson. A top TE for three piles of shit? I don't like it, but whatever. Note- Team A already has Tom Brady. Granted, he's been shit so far, but he has Gronk back now and possibly Amendola. When are you going to start Alex Smith? Jared Cook doesn't deserve to be rostered in a 16 team league, let alone a 12 team. And David Wilson? Hurt and in a timeshare when (if) he finally gets back.
Second trade gets accepted... Team C's Gronk for Team D's Darren Sproles. Note- this is standard scoring. WHY WOULD YOU WAIT ON GRONK ALL YEAR JUST TO TRADE HIM AWAY FOR DARREN SPROLES IN A NON-PPR LEAGUE?!
That's peanuts compared to the last trade that was just accepted.
Team B is back in action, trading his CJ Spiller to Team E. For who, you ask? PEYTON FUCKING HILLIS!
AND I'M TRYING TO TRADE RAPE?
Listen, I know Spiller is banged up and not producing. But for Peyton Hillis? I would have given up anyone on my bench for Spiller and you take Peyton Hillis for him?! What the fuck.
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I.. actually disagree, even as a player who does CSGO competitively now.
CS 1.6 just has that unique, magic feel to it most people have only experienced in it and games such as the Quake series, oldschool Unreal Tournament, etc.. Even though i'm a 1.6'er, CS:Source still had a nice touch too it(although it felt a tiny bit slow to me as a 1.6'er).. Still, it had that CS feel.
CSGO is just missing that feel - its gone 97% of the way, we really, really just need the remaining 3%. Its not much, but what we should remember is that Counter-Strike(yes, the oldest one), wasn't that good at release. Yeah, yeah, game development has come a long way since that, but the overall development process remains the same. We just need to provide a hell of a lot of feedback, and I sincerely hope Valve will respond to it - because we god damn need an FPS game that is based on aiming skills and especially tactics. Do some recoil fixes, add silencers(Can't be that hard, really?) and we've got ourselves a game.
Hell, just look at Starcraft as a first. Some hardcore Koreans are still playing the old SC:BW game because they feel its superior. Yet, more people are moving over to SC2 because they're adapting it a bit and tweaking here and there. | 1.6 and CS:S are still superior game-play wise to CSGO. But give it some time,. | [
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Hey guys/gals, so I guess you could say I'm a little too into interracial porn, and recently it has been bugging me out and interfering with my relationship. I used to do it about once a day, I just stopped today and sometimes i just think about my s/o being more attracted to men of color and not me although she says she finds me attractive/hot and of the sort and doesn't and would never think about being with another guy whether he is white/black/brown or what have you. I do truly believe her but all this stupid porn I've watched has psyched me out.
Sometimes when we have sex, I even think about her with other guys in my head from some reason. Not all the time but sometimes it pops in there. and I don't want that. Although there is nothing wrong with fantasy and cuckolding and all that, it's not for me. yeah I can get turned on by it, but I find the sensual and one to one connection between me and her more beautiful and intense than anything.
Just recently these thoughts have invaded my mind and I really need help getting rid of them because it's making me convince myself that she wants other guys who are of a different race for their skin color and "size"..although she said she loves my penis and the size and all that...
Just some quick background issue..I was bullied in HS and there was an instance when I was in a locker room full of guys, some black, and one pulled my pants down and it's not a good day to be a grower...long story short they all though my dick was that actual size, made fun of me like assholes and it's scarred me till today.
just..help please? Thanks | watched a little too much interracial porn, which is making me convince myself that my s/o is cheating or wants other men of color for that and their penis size. | [
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Im an artist, which some of you may know from recent post. Im also aspiring to break into the field and some day bring you all amazing trades to criticize, love, hate, etc. I know there are numerous subs for that are comicbook related, but i havent seen any dedicated to the artist that fill the pages with beautiful renditions of the characters we love. I dont see any for the writers either.
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As the title says, I was in conversation, near debate with a co-worker of mine. I was minding my own business, listening to some Greydon Square as he pulls up a seat, and starts jamming out.
He asks who it is, I explain, tell him he's an atheist.
He almost skips a beat, and asks if I'm an atheist.
I say yes, he asks why, and I tell him its silly not to be, but no offense to him if he is a 'believer' (I'm rather non-confrontational).
He asks if I'd engage in conversation about it, I accept. Both us of are rather intellectual guys for the most part. We're not unfamiliar with each other, but we aren't exactly best friends or anything. He strikes me as a somewhat smart person, except for the nonsense he was spewing earlier.
We begin conversing, and his main argument is that Christianity is true because in the new testament because it fulfills prophecies in the old testament.
I ask him what exactly, and he goes on a bit of a rant about how Jesus was foreseen in the old testament to come to humans and save them from original sin. I try to explain to him that its all internal in the bible. You have the bible explaining there is a creator. The bible then defines original sin. The bible then claims that there will be somebody who will save humanity from the original sin, so they can get to the creator (by bible i was referring to the old testament). Then the bible tells us how Jesus comes around and fulfills the prophecy. I tried to explain to him that its easy to create a character in the bible to answer the question the bible asks (in this case, Jesus being the savior from something in the bible).
I obviously did a bad job at getting my point across, seeing as how I'm not a very great debater, as well as he's a blind christian.
Any tips for handling this debate? | christian friend believes the old testament is fulfilled by the new one, and that it must be true because the new testament said so
Mind you, there was also some more on this discussion, some of which if irrelevant to this particular course. Some of which make me embarrassed to associate with the guy. For instance he believes in evolution, just not in humans (lol). Also I'm trying to keep this rather friendly, as I'm not somebody to fuel a flame between another person and myself, just because we don't have the same spiritual belief (well, having one vs not having one)
Edit: (just an unrelated rant) Also, just something I forgot, I was raised Catholic, in a church which the priest often proclaimed that the old testament is a bunch of stories that were passed down by word of mouth and be needed to taken with a grain of salt, not word for word because they're mostly there just to provide guidance. It angers me how so many fundamentalists and just loose christians go about preaching that the old testament is word for word true. He and I lightly glazed upon this topic, but its something my own brother and I (somebody who in his late teens was a strongly science influenced but when he went to college, met a fundy friend who swayed him, and a fundy wife who took him the distance. Oh man Thanksgiving will be fun for the rest of my life) argue about a lot. My brother dropped his catholic background, and picked up his wife's and friend's ridiculous beliefs which really just drive me up the wall. Not that I hold any ties to catholicism anymore, but it just drives me nuts that somebody who once was entirely against christianity, someone who loved science, just dropped it all for the worse. Regardless unrelated | [
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Yes, the exotic hand cannons are full of the most bullshit I think bungie could have packed into them, but Thorn isn't the one we should be calling out. Yes Thorn is ridiculous, but it's stats and perks allow it to be like that. It isn't broken, just grossly op. TLW on the other hand is fucking out of control. Despite its range being less than a shotgun (I know they're different for hc and shotty) it's hitting me at similar ranges as thorn and MIDA. Yes, fucking MIDA. It has the fastest TTK in the game, and at ridiculous range. This gun is broken, not just op. I think bungie needs to push the hc nerf before 2.0 or the crucible will continue to be a shit show. | TLW is more broken than thorn | [
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Hello reddit!
It was not a long time ago, when Riot announced free transfers to your "original" region. However me and my friends used those free transfers 2 months ago. Before transfer we were playing on EUW and moved to EUNE. At EUW, we were Silver 1, Gold 2 and Silver 2 divisions. My friends took pause from LoL and they've been demoted to lower division. When they said, they dont want to play league for a while I move back to EUW and climbed Solo Queue for about 2 months and reached Gold 5. When they started playing after the pause their ranks were moved from Gold 2 to Gold 5. The Silver 1 player reached Gold 5 on EUNE, but then after the pause was demoted to Silver 1. When they transfered back to EUW, they got demoted again, just because they transfered to EUW. One of them was move from Gold 5 to Silver 1, the other one from Silver 1 to Silver 5. The Support just said he can't do anything about our divisions and that we have to play atleast one game and our ranks will be back to normal. But that didnt happen and their ranks stayed same.
Has anyone experienced something like this?
Can anyone tell me why their ranks were moved after the transfer?
Thank you very much, for all the answers. I'm sorry for all the mistakes that I made in this post. English is not my first language. | After 2 months pause my friends got demoted, when they started playing they trasfered to EUW and got demoted again. | [
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It's time for me to drop Math from HL to SL.
To cover that, is it more optimal to do English A1 Literature at a higher level? or second language at a higher level
English HL would probably help applying to universities abroad
However, i want to pursue a course in business/economics where english and math at SL are the course requirements (other than SATs) | Could you guys help me in choosing which subject to make my HL: English or second language(not french) Thankss | [
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Crap. Posted too late for anyone to see, but whatever. If you are reading this, hope you enjoy it.
When I was a freshman in highschool, my band director literally just disappeared one day, with no warning whatsoever.
Background: My band director at the time (Let's call him Mr. B) was an overweight man in his 40's ish. He had been teaching at the school for 25+ years, and (most) everybody loved him. He could play virtually every instrument (from ukulele to french horn to a bass flute He would also give us 'no rehearsal days' during which, we would not rehearse and just "do homework" while he was in his office (through a couple of doors, in a separate room (the office is shared with the band director and the vocal instructor)) doing whatever.
So the school year went on like that until march/april. When we got two no rehearsal days in a row. We did not question it, but we should have. We only started wondering what the hell is going on when we had a full week of them. We then had a different sub for a week and half. After that, we had a long term sub who was a music major at the local college. We asked the sub (I forgot his name though), about what happened to Mr. B, and he did not know. Anyways, the music major dude taught us for the rest of the school year.
After Mr. B pulled a Houdini, I only ever saw him twice. Once was when I was in the office talking to the receptionist about something, and I saw him talking to the Principal at the time. This was about a month since he went bye-bye. The last time I've ever saw him was in the middle of summer (I was in marching band workshops) and I saw him cleaning out his desk/office. I saw a sad look on his face. (Crap. Typing this makes me remember how sad he looked and it is making me sad.... Fuck.) I really felt bad for him.
Of course there were rumors. The most popular one (and the one that was most commonly believed) was that his mom and/or his sister and/or his wife died within a short time of each other, and he had a mental breakdown. Now, there is absolutely zero evidence supporting nor denying any theory..... So yea.
There was a replacement band instructor try out thing. Apparently somebody saw Mr. B with the Principal, Dean, SuperIntendent, vocal instructor, etc. sitting down (apparently interviewing various candidates) in the main office of the school.
We ended up getting a short, peppy, fresh out of college looking, lady who is *gasp* a vegan. Everybody that was with Mr. B. hated her. They were the exact opposites. And I'm going to stop here before I go on about how I hate her etc...
Later on, during the summer between my Sophomore and Jr. Year (2010), somebody said that they saw the new band director with Mr. B. down at the local Starbucks. | Band director mysteriously disappears in march/april of my freshman year. Got a long term sub that was studying to be a music major at a local college for the rest of the school year. Got a new band director at the start of my sophomore, who still teaches to this day (unfortunately). Really have not seen old band director since he went poof | [
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Not really. In the gender issue you have a system in place that gives shit to both genders, but over time due to social justice warriors and the like has grown to remove a lot of the shit females endue while not touching the shit males endure all under the guise of men being powerful (ie. "the man" or "the patriarchy") despite that such a description only actually applies to a very small portion of the male population. Christians nothing about oppression is more due to them losing some power but still having more power (in general but still not true for every member of their population). Your analogy would only be accurate of Christians had a trade off in power with the other groups and were losing their benefits while nobody else was. | your analogy only works if you believe that men experience no disadvantages, and if you believe that you are severely out of touch. | [
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For 2.
Nothing to my knowledge has overturned Syme's interpretation of the traditional end of the Republic and the rise of Augustus. Syme did a great job of describing the various family networks that brought Augustus to power, but I personally suspect his vision of the period was more influenced by what he saw going on in Germany than what was happening in Rome (I never met the man, but I met someone who had, so I have some second hand insight here).
Syme's interpretation has become the orthodox position in the anglophone world. He's absolutely good on his facts, and his prosopography is one of the most important analyses of the late republic that's ever been done.
But I think he was, living in England in the 30s, too disturbed by Hitler's rise and that leaked into his scholarship. | Nothing yet has replaced Syme, but something should. | [
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Fuck that guy. Unless your manager is a complete pushover, he'll have a hard time doing anything.
I hate customers like this. We have one who has a Wells Fargo ATM card (NOT a Visa/Mastercard DEBIT card, but one for the Wells Fargo ATM only) and it doesn't work on our system. She continues to insist that she doesn't want a "credit card" and thinks that the Visa or Mastercard logo means it's Credit, and not Debit. She ALWAYS takes about 3 minutes trying to run her card before writing a check.
Send a bagger/other coworker to go check it, or secure your terminal and go check it yourself. I don't care how much somebody claims to know the price, I have to go check it regardless of what you say. Sometimes I'm lenient (ie: if a parent sends their kid to run and go check and the price sounds at least somewhat accurate) but if you start making a fuss, I'm gonna make you wait.
Do a price inquiry for each kind of apple and find the most expensive ones. Charge for that. That's my company's policy if you mix things together and don't want to separate them again.
I would just keep asking them for their sodas and wait until they handed them to me. Again: If they're a pain in my ass, I'm gonna make them wait.
People really don't understand how bagging works, it seems. I encounter this kind of thing a lot. "Put the bread in a bag by itself, I don't want it getting smooshed". Okay, sure. Except I was gonna put it on top of a flat surface but hey, whatever man.
Start telling them it's law. People seem to take it better when they think it's the government that set the policy and not your company.
This one does seem kind of ridiculous. I know it's shitty to mix products like this (because then somebody else who wants all one flavor will end up with a mixed sixer and not know it) but as long as it's the same price, it shouldn't be a big deal. NOW, if people mix beers from two different priced six packs, we charge for the more expensive ones (IE: Lagunitas seasonal beers are 9.89/6 but their normals are 7.99/6. If you put a single seasonal bottle in a 6pk of normal stuff, we're gonna charge you 9.89.)
I like to tell people that complain about prices that we're a nicer store than our competition. Sure, it's cheaper at FoodMaxx, but we also don't have homeless people taking naps in the aisles and tweakers trying to steal boxes of cereal. You get what you pay for.
If anybody ever complains that something isn't covered, I usually just take it off the transaction. This accomplishes one of two things: 1. either they don't get the item because it's not on EBT or 2. They magically have cash or another card handy to pay off the remaining balance. | grocery stores suck | [
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I only said mostly because I knew I was posting this on reddit and if I was even only slightly wrong in any sense, I would be crucified in the court of semantics. | I was hedging my bet. | [
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Violently, of course.
But seriously:
I think it's an extremely unlikely occurence, because of how social research is conducted. You may be able to establish a correlation (the two variables are related, in this case, violent activity and whether or not or how much they play video games) but it's MUCH harder to establish causation (video games CAUSE violent behavior). It's pretty much impossible, in fact. You'd have to design one hell of a study to control for all the other factors that could come into play. Maybe violent people are drawn to video games, rather than the games actually making ordinarily non-violent people act violently. At any rate, it's incredibly unlikely that a legitimate study would be able to conclude that violent games CAUSE violent behavior without possibility of dispute.
But hypothetically, if there was such a study, I don't think most gamers would find it to be all that troublesome. The fact is that most gamers are not violent, and do not regularly commit violent acts.
I'll illustrate an analogy: Aspirin has been shown to cause stomach discomfort and sometimes bleeding. This is caused by the aspirin. That being said, I can safely bet that 97% of you or more have never had any discomfort from taking aspirin, stomach or otherwise. Even though the medicine CAUSES these symptoms, it only does it in some people who were already susceptible to these sorts of things (elderly, those with stomach/GI issues already, etc.), and these people are no more than 3% of the total population of people who take aspirin.
I picked aspirin because most people have taken it, but other medications have much scarier side effects. Antidepressants can cause suicidal thoughts. Many regular asthma medications have been shown to give users an increased risk of asthma related death. The causality has been demonstrated, but even still it doesn't affect the vast majority of people who take them.
Even if they were able to prove that video games actually caused violent behavior in some people, the fact that most of us play games and are not violent shows you that there must be some other factors which contribute to the game's increasing violent behavior in these individuals. | Even if it was proved to cause violent behavior, video games do not make most of us act violently, so it's a "side effect" at most, which may spur individuals pre-disposed to violence on to commit violent acts, but there are ALWAYS other factors in play. | [
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Diablo II had you choosing to level up one of several skills (at least 3, I think) every time you levelled up. As you got into higher levels, you would choose from something like thirty different ways to customize your character. Now, there were only a certain number of builds that were worthwhile for each character so it was fairly linear if you were trying to optimize, but in theory it was very open. Another problem that Diablo II had with linearity was that your early choices basically set the character progression path and limited your effective choices later on, leading to the effective linearity of the character customization feature increasing as you further customized your character.
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My husband cheated 6mo ago. A significant disconnect led him to start flirting with a coworker (which consisted mostly of sexual innuendos), which led to kissing/groping, which then led to him telling me he wanted to split, which led to him confessing. We've been in counseling since, rebuilding our relationship to make it better than it was before.
Saturday night, we were at his sister's Christmas party. I was talking to my friend and he was a few feet away talking to my friend's brother's girlfriend. My friend's brother was down the stairs and as she was getting ready to walk down them to go see him, she said "I'm going down" - and my husband replied with "good for him". As in, "going down" = a blow job.
My immediate reaction was anger because it was a normal conversation with an unmarried woman which he turned sexual. This seems inappropriate although my brain feels scrambled after this affair. Is this appropriate married-person behavior?
Thanks everyone.
I should have mentioned that the flirting with the girl he cheated with consisted entirely of these types of innuendos, so this worries me especially because I feel like he could easily sink right back into the same pattern. | Previously-unfaithful husband turned normal conversation with a married woman sexual - is this appropriate behavior for a married person? Or am I overreacting? | [
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A few weeks before my story happened I was in the house looking out into our horse pasture and I saw my gelding (can't breed) getting on top of one of the mares and I took some pictures to show my mom. (LOLOLOLLOLOLOLOL) because I just couldn't believe that he was doing that and I wanted her to believe me! haha... anyway so I somehow got into a fight with my friends and one of my friends put an envelope in my locker with details about how i was so gross because i liked horse porn and that she was going to get me for it... anyway... for some reason I brought the packet to our principle and he read it and we had to have a sit down. | Horse porn | [
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I consider myself an American. I speak and think in English. I actually thought I was a citizen up until I found out I wasn't in my late teens. I LOVE this country. But what happens to me really is out of my control.
Being told I wasn't a citizen meant a lot of different things. Firstly I was shocked, I had this talk with my parents in my late teens nearly at the end of my high school experience. My college plans got shredded. Being classified as a "Dreamer" let me get a job. It let me get a license to drive. It also put my fate in the hands of others and that feeling isn't a good one.
There are people who have never met me who hate me because I was brought into this country as a young child. I hope through understanding and acceptance hate like this can be eliminated from the world.
This subreddit is here so others with similar experiences can share how they feel. So they can talk to others who know what they're going through. This is all I want to share at the moment might post more not sure.
If it gets better or worse for Dreamers I think either way facing it knowing your'e not alone is better than taking it head on by yourself. | Got told I wasn't a citizen as a late teen am now a Dreamer and it feels like limbo. | [
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My roommate once walked in on me, pants down in front of the computer, hand in my underwear moving furiously.
What he didn't know was I was having a really bad reaction to some metal that had been touching my skin and the breakout was burning and itching furiously. I had just gotten a steroid to reduce the inflammation. And was applying it during a particularly bad flare up when the roommate came into the room to see a horrifying situation unfolding. After I explained the situation (through mixed tears of pain and nervous laughter), he seemed to understand.
That afternoon at least 8 people walked up to me in my common room and said, "so Matt walked in on you jerkin it, huh? Hehehehehehehe..." | having a bad reaction to nickel poisoning sucks. | [
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My gf of over 1.5 years keeps insisting I must pay for everything because I'm the guy and she's "traditional." I'm getting tired of paying every time we go out and eat, transportation and whatever activity we do costs. Any advice on how do deal with this? Does the guy always pay in your relationship!??! | My gf insists that I pay for everything including dates, dinner, snacks and any activity | [
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I work in a technical support position and this isnt a phrase that people normally say to anyone but our types (we get the part that a lot get when we ask if there is anything else we can help with, "a million dollars" or "the winning lottery numbers") but you called me for support, we have a certain guideline we go by to try and get your shit working. so if i ask for you to unplug something for just a second, save us both some time and breath and just unplug the thing. so the annoying thing i have to contribute is when the customer says "I already did that" I dont care. do it again. | my contribution here is "I already did that." | [
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I'd go with the mosin - I've always enjoyed the stealth aspect of the game more than anything else, and taking out a team of 3 fully-armed guys from 600m is a real thrill - any closer (with an SKS/M4) and the winner is the guy with the best reflexes.
Endgame for me has largely been about finding a sniper, then scouting the cities out. If certain sniping spots aren't likely to yield any kills, I'll wait for someone to appear, then begin stalking them from a safe distance until I can get a decent shot. Hopefully this will become more common the more players are present on the servers.
For sniping, it's really about skill - judging distances and knowing where, and more importantly, when your bullet will land, in addition to, of course, deciding when to attack. The large, open map allows for this style of gameplay, as opposed to one you'd find on an FPS, which would of course be much more restrictive. If you like close encounters, I don't understand why you're not playing an FPS (not that I don't enjoy FPS games - I love them). | killing someone from 800m away is more satisfying than spraying someone with an M4 stuck inside a doorway. | [
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I'm not against vaccines, but I think that it's a bad precedent to move toward making them mandatory.
The concept of vaccines is perfect - i.e. being able to take something that prevents disease and chance of death with little to no side effects.
Unfortunately the institutions that bring us vaccines are definitely not perfect. Moving toward making vaccines mandatory gives them a free pass.
[The drug evaluation process in Australia]( doesn't really test the safety or efficacy of the vaccine before passing it onto Australians - it takes the information from the supplier and there is no independent testing of the vaccine before acceptance.
This should be concerning to people as falsification of medical research is widespread:
[Fraud and deceit in medical research, Journal of Research in Medical Science](
[The pressure to fudge medical research findings, ABC](
[Tamiflu, a 'flu preventative', for which some of the papers were ghost written and research falsified, The Atlantic](
[Prevalence of withholding data from medical research, Newsweek](
Drug companies are organisations with financial pressures. If there is no scrutiny of them by the groups that purchase their products, they have very little incentive to be honest or upfront - their interest is to maintain positive perception and sell product.
There's a widely held belief on Reddit that vaccines are tested beyond reproach and have no serious consequences however to illustrate the inadequacy of current research on MMR specifically, a quote from a meta analysis on MMR research :
>The design and reporting of safety outcomes in MMR vaccine studies, both pre- and post-marketing, are largely inadequate. The evidence of adverse events following immunisation with the MMR vaccine cannot be separated from its role in preventing the target diseases.
We should be demanding more transparency in research, more accountability and better quality research into efficacy and safety.
Our current attitude of 'vaccinating is a duty' and 'everyone should vaccinate without question' simply plays into the interests of drug companies and doesn't put any demands on them to increase the quality of their research and produce better products that are safer and more effective. | drug companies should be held to greater account for proving safety and efficacy before drugs are pushed onto consumers | [
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I bought them as pot brownies, but they weren't. The dude I got them from was getting them from a different person, he's got me though and is giving me actual pot brownies to replace them. | Pot brownies were fake, so I got free regular brownies in addition to pot brownies. | [
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This is about 33% PSA, 33% TIL, and 33% angry rant so bear with me...
Up until about half an hour ago I had a more or less working Lumia 930. With the exception of no audio recording in any of my videos, no speaker phone and no skype it was in all other respects a working smartphone.
When looking around for fixes for the audio recording issue I read a few posts here and there suggesting that there was a workaround in the redstone builds that would allow the camera to record from the remaining working microphones. I switched to a Fast Ring build and tested it out but sadly it made no difference. So this is the PSA bit - if you have a 930 and are hoping for a software fix for the video recording issue there probably isn't one if my experience is anything to go by.
Now the angry rant part - since the phone was intended to be a daily driver I decided to revert it back to the retail build with the device recovery tool. This inexplicably failed, and has left the phone as a useless brick. The screen won't come on, it doesn't vibrate if I hold down the power button, it doesn't charge, nothing. It can't be recognised by the PC nor booted into flash mode so its a complete write-off.
I am pretty shocked to be honest that a company with the resources of Microsoft can ship a recovery tool that has the capability of bricking the device completely. I've been flashing and fiddling with smartphones since the very first days of Windows CE and something like this has never happened to me - in fact its so far outside my experience that I didn't even think for one second that this could happen.
So I guess we come to the the TIL bit now. For me the journey into the mobile Insider Program was a one-way trip. I went in with a working device and came out with a paperweight. I never thought such a thing was even possible and have found out the hard way that I was wrong. Today I truly learned. | Bricked my phone, very pissed off
EDIT: A little update
Thanks to advice given by /u/sinclairinat0r I have managed to get the device detected by Windows. The Device Recovery Tool attempts to flash the emergency bootloader but fails with the following error message:
D_ERR : Only Sahara based emergency download is currently supported
I'm looking at threads on XDA for some help but I think I might be SOL
EDIT: Another update
I managed to get it to the red "Nokia" screen by connecting the device to my laptop which has a clean Windows 10 install and no mobile device drivers of any kind on it. I used WDRT to do the emergency flash and now its downloading the firmware. Will update if it succeeds flashing.
EDIT: Last update
It's flashed, and rebooted into 8.1. I don't seem to have the categorised settings menu so it looks like an older version? anyway, its alive and kicking! | [
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This story takes place when I was about 13 years old, and living in a neighborhood in the not-so-great part of town.
I was just about to climb in bed at about 11:30 one night when I heard this "BAMBAMBAM" from the backyard. I assumed it was just my dog screwing around, so I yelled "shut up, dog!" and continued getting in bed. When the noise persisted, I decided to look out my window to see what was going on.
Big mistake.
To my horror, I was viewing a rather large, middle-aged nude woman banging on my sliding glass door. She had her whole muddy body pressed up against the glass, yelling to "let her in". I was pretty shocked and so were my parents when they came out. They were well aware that this woman was obviously under the influence of some crazy drugs, so we ended up calling the police. When the cops showed up, the lady took off to the right of my street, and the cops went in the opposite direction. My family decided we'd had enough adventure for the night and we all went to bed.
The next morning, I walked outside in front of my house to find this lady's clothes bundled up in my driveway. She had disrobed in my driveway, walked casually into my front yard, opened the gate and walked into my back yard, and then proceeded to freak out.
And for all the people who are thinking that I'm a jerk for not letting her in and assisting her, I was 13 at the time. I had no idea what to do, and my parents had called the cops before I could even react. Plus, she probably would have ended up in police custody anyway. Meth is a hell of a drug. | One night, this messed up tweeker lady decided to disrobe in my driveway and walk around my front yard to my back yard and start banging on the sliding glass door of our house before taking off when the cops were called.
So, Reddit, what's the strangest thing that has ever shown up to your home uninvited? | [
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It's almost as if he's a fallible average human being. I don't think any person has gone through life without offending some one. If he was just an average Joe no one would give a damn. I don't think he meant to be offensive, although he came across as such. It's unfortunate he's become so idolized, to me he's just an old guy with some stubborn beliefs. If you expect perfection from anyone you'll end up dissapointed. He actually seems pretty tolerant to me considering he was raised in the south 50 years ago. Everyone deserves tolerance, and the best way to teach that is with tolerance. | don't get your knickers in a twist over an opinionated old dude. | [
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Have you ever heard of the [Order of the Engineer]( or the Steel Ring?
The history goes something like this...
In 1907, the [Qubec Bridge]( collapsed during construction, killing 75 men and injuring others. After an investigation, it was determined that the collapse was result of design flaws. Eventually, this tragedy resulted in the [Ritual of the Calling of the Engineer]( The salvaged steel from the Quebec Bridge collapse is used to make rings to worn by engineers. The ring is worn on the pinky finger of your working hand. As it clicks and clangs on your desk and other objects, the noise is a reminder of your ethical obligations as an engineer. Sometime later, the US-counterpart, Order of the Engineer, was initiated at Cleveland State University and has spread elsewhere. | check your math or people may die. | [
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Is the Enhanced edition of dying light a DLC? Will it be a DLC? Or is it a separate game all together? I was just curious, because I love this game so much but I would hate to pay for a game I already have(if it is a separate game). Also, I was wondering if it is a seperate game, and you already own the game, do you get a reduced price? (I play on PC) | Is the enhanced edition of dying light a DLC or a whole other game? If it is a new game, can you get it at a reduced price if you already own the game? | [
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This person is on point. Important side-note: if you do foray into kayfuns/RDAs/rebuildable setups, I always recommend building to 1.5 ohms. It's a bit strange, but if you vape right at the ohm-limit of the device, it tends to start damaging the circuitry, because, in simplest terms, the actual resistance of a coil will fluctuate with temperature changes. What this means is that a 1.0 ohm coil will occasionally dip below 1 ohm, and trick the device into putting out more amperage than its rated for.
Will this vent your battery or cause an epic fire? Almost certainly not. What this will do, though, is over time start wearing out the circuitry on your device. This actually happened with my Tesla VV clone, and one of my coworkers' authentic Innokin SVD. | 1.0 ohm kayfuns are vv/vw device killers | [
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A few years ago, there was a family that lived near my cousin's house. It was all over the local news that the woman had been beaten to death by a "blunt object". About three weeks, or so, after that, my cousin and I walked over to the baseball field that is right beside their house. (This was a frequent place we would go). I looked up at the stairs going up to the announcer room thing (don't know what it is called) and there was a mop sitting on it. The mop had been split in the middle while still in tact. I didn't think much of it for a little bit, but when I glanced over the house, it hit me. I am not sure if that is the actual evidence, but it was still pretty weird. | Possibly found the object used to kill a murder victim. | [
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Made a throwaway just for this, as a warning it's probably going to be wrong and contain rambling, so please bear with me, I'm in a bad state. I'm going to be as blunt as possible.
I am 20. Last year I overdosed on my psychosis medication intentionally, went into a coma and only just survived. My life has been pretty fucked since. I'm only just starting to do things for myself again. I gained about 45kg, lost my license, my girlfriend, dropped out of law school, can barely cook or clean for myself. I'm pretty fucking terrible at most things. I want to be an actor, it's the only thing I enjoy, even if that means I become a high school drama teacher, that's my occupation. I'm semi-talented, I'm above average attractiveness other than being fat now and I love it. I want to do what I love.
But my life is pretty bad now. I overcame psychosis but it led to depression, I'm no longer depressed and I am actively trying to change (returned to the gym a few months ago, subscribed to like 30 different self-improvement blogs) but nothing is sticking! I've never had this problem in my life. I used to have a wealth of motivation I could draw on, I got an OP 2 in high school, I was rock solid, but then I got mentally ill. That's the excuse I'm going to stick too, but the reality is now I'm lazy, wasting my 20's, a social recluse with extrovert tendencies and this entire situation is unacceptable.
I'm bad with analogies, but this is my Frodo-to Mordor- mission. This is my big battle. If I can get through this, I can get through anything. I've got potential, like everyone else, but I've never experienced a lack of motivation.
If anyone has a link, or a suggestion, or just someone to keep me accountable I'd be eternally grateful. I'm well aware that I can't really offer anything back, and the world doesn't owe me shit, and if I don't work hard I'll never be satisfied, and I'm aware of all these concepts and I'm still just wasting away.
I know you can't just give me a magic pill, I've written out the phrase: 'no words will ever motivate you' hundreds of times and I just can't stick to a routine. I just, I don't know where else to turn before I give up. I'm just not good at self-improvement or doing things for myself. I wouldn't be in this mess if I was. I haven't spoken to a girl other than my housemate or co-workers for months. I'm basically an obese kid with an anxiety disorder -- and I'm stumped. How do you fix almost inherent laziness?
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I work in the dog grooming business. We get all types of crazy customers (of the human variety), and have a lot of fun talking amongst ourselves about all the ridiculous shit groomers have to put up with from owners. This story is secondhand, told to me by my former boss.
A couple of years ago, this lady comes into our shop to get her yorkie groomed. She's a BIG woman, probably pushing about 400lbs. She drops her off, my wife grooms her, she comes and picks her up. We take the yorkie out of the kennel and set him down on the floor and he runs out to the waiting area to greet her, jumping up and down and wagging his tail and being generally cute and terrier like. She gushes over how cute he is, pays, and leaves. I'm standing at the front counter watching her get in her car through the window (it's tinted) She puts her little yorkie in the car with her purse, and then struggles to get into the car due to her size. Suddenly I see her jump out of the car and start screaming and cursing, then she reaches in the vehicle and moves something, and gets back in, starts her car, and speeds out of the parking lot.
I get a call from her an hour later.
"WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU? I'M AT THE VET AND YOU DISLOCATED MY DOGS BACK LEGS WHEN YOU GROOMED HIM, YOU PIECE OF SHIT. HE WAS IN TERRIBLE PAIN! I TOOK HIM TO THE VET AND THEY SAID YOU HAD TO HAVE HIT HIM FOR THE DAMAGE TO BE SO SEVERE. I'M HAVING TO PAY XXX AMOUNT OF MONEY FOR THESE VET FEES AND I'M CALLING MY LAWYER AND YOU CAN EXPECT A LAWSUIT!"
So after she stopped yelling I asked if she was still at the vet. She was, and I asked to speak to him.
"Hi, this is John Doe at Generic Pet Spa, it seems like Tiny Yorkie is having some issues?"
"His back legs are dislocated. Did somebody drop him? We're going to have to do (whatever it is that they do with dogs with dislocated legs)
"So can he walk right now?"
"No, he can't walk at all, he'd be in pain just trying to stand up."
"Mhm. So did she tell you that the dog ran out to meet her when she came to pick him up an hour ago?"
"Uh, no sir."
"I guess she also forgot to mention that she sat on the dog when she put him in her car?"
At this point, I can hear the vet start to almost laugh over the phone.
"I'm sorry to bother you sir, we'll talk to her."
So we never got a lawsuit. She never came back to get her yorkie groomed after that though. | ham dislocates her yorkies back legs and wants my grooming shop to pay the vet bill. | [
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