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Hello! So if you've read my first post, you know my baby faced Oppa and how he was in the military right? Here it is if you haven't seen it
Ok, so Oppa came back for a small break and he visited me and we hung out and then we started talking and reminiscing on the past, and our stupid adventures. Then we remembered this time this one man thought Oppa was gay and KEPT bothering him to a stalker ish point.
Ok, so Oppa was living with a roomate and a host family while he was here, so a small apartment, no parents. He lived opposite his high school and a library was right next to it. Many people went to the library and as a relaxing trip we went there many times over the summer. While we were there once, we saw this (White) man in his late 20s to early 30s smile and start a conversation with Oppa. Oppa is usually very nice and open so he continued to keep up the conversation while slowly pushing me behind him, like he was getting a bad vibe.
So the man sees me and smiles and I tentatively smiled back and he continues chatting up Oppa, who' s a bit uncomfortable by this point.
Then he just bluntly asks "Are you top or bottom?" , and since poor Oppa's english is bad, combined eith his innocence, the man rephrased it to "Are you gay?" Oppa starts protesting "No, no, no!" and blushing and trying to hide me again and the man starts looking at me again.
He said, "Come on, it's not like you're dating anyone!" And glares at me. Then he asks dirty questions like "Are you a virgin? Are you into bdsm? Have you been with a man?"
Oppa is so damn confused and flustered by this point that l lose my patience and say firmly "He's Mine", and slip my arm around his torso and Oppa gets the hint and starts nodding and puts his arm around my waist. I thank god that I was at an event earlier that day, so I looked taller with heels and makeup and older as well. The man says "She's nothing much. I could show you another way.", and smiles. Oppa firmly says no and then my phone goes off, giving us an excuse to leave.
It gets creepier from here. This guy got ahold of Oppa's phone number and he kept on calling until Oppa blocked him. He then showed up a few times at both his high school and near his apartment until Oppa fake dialed the police in front of him (he called me) and the man finally left. We later filed a small report
It's even more complex though. At the event where Oppa saved me from those guys, I remembered seeing the man walking to his car after hours close to us, but I didn't know it was him and I totally wrote it off. I saw that group of guys from the locker room incident before when Oppa and I were walking around town yesterday and they apologized and told me something totally bone chilling.
The man that stalked Oppa was the one who told them to scare me while I was alone.
Honestly, this was a while back and that man moved away from what I heard but tha' s seriously fucked up, also considering how Oppa has english struggles at times, making him an innocent, unsuspecting target | Crazy gay stalker tries to get my straight friend to date him. When it fails, he stalks us and tries to indirectly hurt us. | [
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Not that clever just a question of mindset/experience. If somebody engineers something and tries to secure it with a certain part chances are that he looked at how reliable, secure, etc. the part is. What he fails to analyse is how weak everything that is not the part is. Mechanical engineers make for shitty security engineers without proper training. | Going around an obstacle is easier in 99% of cases. | [
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I work as a nighttime receptionist in a pretty nice hotel. One of my favorite stories happened to an attractive female co-worker who also used to do the 11 - 7.30 am shifts.
So, one night at around 2am a naked guest non-chalantly exits the elevator and walks through the lobby to the front desk. Apparently he had locked himself out of his room but that didn't explain why he was naked. He asked the receptionist to come up to his room to let him in. She refused and made him a new keycard instead. He comes down 10 minutes later, still naked, saying that it's still not working. So, my co-worker gives him an employee keycard and says to hang it on the door and she'll be up for it later. After a while she goes to pick up the keycard and sure enough it's there hanging on the door.. but the door is wideopen. Laying on the bed, stomach down, facing the door the naked man is sitting, and says in the most pervy voice ever "Hey sugar, I knew you'd be up eventually" and starts baby crawling off the bed towards my co-worker. My co-worker freaks out and runs back down to the lobby, ready to call security if he came down again. He never did and was black listed from the hotel. | pervy naked man tricks pretty young receptionist up to his room. Pretty young receptionist runs away. | [
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My story takes place in Lagos Nigeria. When I was a junior in high school, i was busy cutting class hanging out in the library with my friends like I usually do. Then this senior suddenly rushes into the silent library and screamed "hey everybody Mr. Are is getting beat up”.
[A little back story] Mr.Are was the economics teacher and was arguably one of the most annoying teachers we had, he was very strict and seemed to derive a little too much pleasure out of flogging us with canes which he did often and for silly reasons, like walking too slow or having “swagger”, so most of us didn’t like him and “had it in” for him. So let’s just say he was unpopular.
So we hear this guy is getting his shit kicked in and we just assume it must be by a student, who was tired of his flogging and decided to fight back. So the entire library empties instantly like 100 plus kids eager to join a fight and possible riot or at the very least watch mortal combat between a student and a teacher, runs out. So we follow the senior to the scene of the battle which is taking place in a courtyard under the staff building, we get there and stop at the opposite end of the courtyard and witness something spectacular. It’s not a student beating up Mr. Are, but a gang of about 20 thugs kicking the shit out of ALL OUR TEACHERS.
It was a total warzone out there, We later learned that Mr. Are had apparently flogged the son of a rich chief who then came to the school with thugs to beat Mr. ARE up, and the other teachers intervened so the thugs decided to beat them all up (the teachers).
It was basically an all out war between our teachers and the thugs, the teachers had suffered heavy casualties though, the teachers were fighting the thugs back as hard as they can with mop sticks, benches and whatever make shift weapon they could find, but most of them had given up. I particularly noticed my further math teacher who I knew as very gentle man who lives a quite life and never bothered anybody.
This guy was fucking awesome he was completely fearless and fought like a fucking warrior, he was ruthless he held a bench in one hand like a shield and a broken off mop stick which he swung like a sword in the other hand, and he fought those thugs like a fucking boss, just picture Achilles single handedly taking the beach of troy, that’s how badass he looked. he was basically the only teacher still fighting, him and the school security guard. The rest of the teachers were either begging or on the floor crying, Mr. ARE had already been thoroughly beaten and seemed to be unconscious, he was being held up by two crying female teachers. Only my further math teacher (which we subsequently nicknamed warrior) and the school security guard continued to resist the 20 or so thugs, While the rich chief and his family stood aside looking justified as the action unfolded. He had apparently had brought most of his family for the operation, there were two wives one was holding a baby , 3 teenage children two girls and a boy (the son that had been flogged by Mr. ARE)
So this was the scene that was unfolding when we got there, me and my buddies (most of which were on the basketball team) were among the first kids on the scene.When we got there (like 100+ students) everybody just stopped what they were doing and looked at us. It felt like a Mexican standoff, the other sides were probably wondering how this horde of kids that just arrived was going to react. I’m pretty sure the teachers themselves knew that we could go either way; we would either help them or help the thugs or just plain riot. So the fighting stops and everybody stops and looks at us waiting for our reaction.
There was no formal consensus among us, but for some reason we decided to attack the thugs. somebody among us shouted that “we were being invaded by thugs” and “we must defend our school” so we went ballistic, took up sticks, stones, broken bottles, our belts and any weapon we could find and ran into battle to fight off the thugs.
This hoard of kids, carrying sticks probably looked pretty menacing because I saw most of the thugs run in the opposite direction, jump over the fence and high tail it out of there. Three of the thugs remained they must have thought that we were just school kids and must be easy to beat up which was very foolish of them, because this was like a horde of 100, 15-18 year olds bearing down with sticks and other crude weapons. So two of the remaining three thugs didn’t really do anything, they just stood around the chief and his family holding sticks as if they were waiting for orders , and one I think the boss thug, ran up to meet us in battle in the middle of the courtyard. He must have thought that if he could sufficiently “fuck up” a few of us, then the rest of us would be too scared to face him so as we ran up to meet them, to be honest I and most of us were kind of scared and “held back” a little, The bigger and braver ones among us (my basketball buddies) went in swinging, one of them Dokun we called him “Sir Doks” ran straight at the thug who was swinging a short thick stick like a battle axe over his head. When they met in the middle of the battle field, the two champions from either side, the chief thug swung his “battle-axe stick” for sir Doks’s head. Sir Doks bends down allowing the thug to swing and miss. As the blow passes over his head, He goes down and does like a sliding motion with his leg knocks the thugs feet out from under him, the thug crashes to the ground, Sir Doks pins down the arm the thug carried his weapon in and punches him in the face repeatedly as soon as the first thug was on the ground the rest of us descended on him and the other thugs.
The thug never got up conscious, like 30 kids descended on this guy kicking him stepping on him and beating him with belts, he struggled for a few seconds then pretends to be dead, then somebody was like “stop oh! I think we’ve killed him”, so we stopped beating him for a second, then they silly thug cracked his eyes open a bit to see what was happening, then one us saw his eye flutter and shouted “he’s not dead oh! See his eye!” then the beating continued. We just made a mess of this guy, other kids were fighting the other two thugs and some of the family members. The teachers had found some courage by now and had started flogging the chief and his family with their canes. One of the female teachers took the baby from one of the wives and others made the entire family lie down on the ground while they beat them with canes, this went on for a few minutes until the principal came with campus police, they arrested the chief and his family and they took two unconscious thugs and another very bloody thug to the hospital.
It was time for lunch by then and the rest of the students had come out of class and joined us, we were in a bit of a victory fueled frenzy and we were running around the school , doing victory laps screaming and singing about” how menacing we were”, we did a few victory lap round the school compound screaming , then we got to the other end of the school and we saw one of the female teachers standing beside a new looking AMG Mercedes Benz S63, she was pointing and shouting that it was the chief’s car and we should destroy it. So we took up stones and bottles formed a circle round it and really fucked that car up. This part I couldn’t participate in, I just looked on in horror as the car was destroyed it was really hard for me to watch such a sweet ride getting smashed to bits because I’m really into cars. Anyway after we had hailed it with bottles and rocks some kids started jumping on the roof, bonnet and boot of the car, all the windows were smashed and it was pretty messed up then security came and made us to stop, just as people started shouting for gas and a lighter so we could burn it. Then the teacher told us that they had brought two other cars a black Rolls Royce and a minivan, the minivan carried thugs presumably and the Rolls Royce was parked outside the school so we couldn’t get to it, however we found the van nearby and flipped it onto its side then security came before we could do any more damage to it. Soon after this they rang the school siren and called an emergency assembly where the principle thanked us for our service, for coming to the teachers rescue (little did he know, that it all started out as us wanting to watch an annoying teacher get beaten up by a student) He also tried to coach us on what to tell our parents. He told us that there was no riot (yeah right) that it was just a small altercation between teachers and thugs and we the students, just helped.
After that we dispersed and went back to our classes we didn’t have any more lectures that day. | African high school Teacher flogs son of rich cheif, cheif comes to school with thugs for revenge. Thugs beat up all the teachers, student body shows up and wages war on thugs. | [
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I particularly noticed my further math teacher who I knew as very gentle man who lives a quite life and never bothered anybody. \n This guy was fucking awesome he was completely fearless and fought like a fucking warrior, he was ruthless he held a bench in one hand like a shield and a broken off mop stick which he swung like a sword in the other hand, and he fought those thugs like a fucking boss, just picture Achilles single handedly taking the beach of troy, that’s how badass he looked. he was basically the only teacher still fighting, him and the school security guard. The rest of the teachers were either begging or on the floor crying, Mr. ARE had already been thoroughly beaten and seemed to be unconscious, he was being held up by two crying female teachers. Only my further math teacher (which we subsequently nicknamed warrior) and the school security guard continued to resist the 20 or so thugs, While the rich chief and his family stood aside looking justified as the action unfolded. He had apparently had brought most of his family for the operation, there were two wives one was holding a baby , 3 teenage children two girls and a boy (the son that had been flogged by Mr. ARE) \n So this was the scene that was unfolding when we got there, me and my buddies (most of which were on the basketball team) were among the first kids on the scene.When we got there (like 100+ students) everybody just stopped what they were doing and looked at us. It felt like a Mexican standoff, the other sides were probably wondering how this horde of kids that just arrived was going to react. I’m pretty sure the teachers themselves knew that we could go either way; we would either help them or help the thugs or just plain riot. So the fighting stops and everybody stops and looks at us waiting for our reaction. \n There was no formal consensus among us, but for some reason we decided to attack the thugs. somebody among us shouted that “we were being invaded by thugs” and “we must defend our school” so we went ballistic, took up sticks, stones, broken bottles, our belts and any weapon we could find and ran into battle to fight off the thugs. \nThis hoard of kids, carrying sticks probably looked pretty menacing because I saw most of the thugs run in the opposite direction, jump over the fence and high tail it out of there. Three of the thugs remained they must have thought that we were just school kids and must be easy to beat up which was very foolish of them, because this was like a horde of 100, 15-18 year olds bearing down with sticks and other crude weapons. So two of the remaining three thugs didn’t really do anything, they just stood around the chief and his family holding sticks as if they were waiting for orders , and one I think the boss thug, ran up to meet us in battle in the middle of the courtyard. He must have thought that if he could sufficiently “fuck up” a few of us, then the rest of us would be too scared to face him so as we ran up to meet them, to be honest I and most of us were kind of scared and “held back” a little, The bigger and braver ones among us (my basketball buddies) went in swinging, one of them Dokun we called him “Sir Doks” ran straight at the thug who was swinging a short thick stick like a battle axe over his head. When they met in the middle of the battle field, the two champions from either side, the chief thug swung his “battle-axe stick” for sir Doks’s head. Sir Doks bends down allowing the thug to swing and miss. As the blow passes over his head, He goes down and does like a sliding motion with his leg knocks the thugs feet out from under him, the thug crashes to the ground, Sir Doks pins down the arm the thug carried his weapon in and punches him in the face repeatedly as soon as the first thug was on the ground the rest of us descended on him and the other thugs. \n The thug never got up conscious, like 30 kids descended on this guy kicking him stepping on him and beating him with belts, he struggled for a few seconds then pretends to be dead, then somebody was like “stop oh! I think we’ve killed him”, so we stopped beating him for a second, then they silly thug cracked his eyes open a bit to see what was happening, then one us saw his eye flutter and shouted “he’s not dead oh! See his eye!” then the beating continued. We just made a mess of this guy, other kids were fighting the other two thugs and some of the family members. The teachers had found some courage by now and had started flogging the chief and his family with their canes. One of the female teachers took the baby from one of the wives and others made the entire family lie down on the ground while they beat them with canes, this went on for a few minutes until the principal came with campus police, they arrested the chief and his family and they took two unconscious thugs and another very bloody thug to the hospital. \n It was time for lunch by then and the rest of the students had come out of class and joined us, we were in a bit of a victory fueled frenzy and we were running around the school , doing victory laps screaming and singing about” how menacing we were”, we did a few victory lap round the school compound screaming , then we got to the other end of the school and we saw one of the female teachers standing beside a new looking AMG Mercedes Benz S63, she was pointing and shouting that it was the chief’s car and we should destroy it. So we took up stones and bottles formed a circle round it and really fucked that car up. This part I couldn’t participate in, I just looked on in horror as the car was destroyed it was really hard for me to watch such a sweet ride getting smashed to bits because I’m really into cars. Anyway after we had hailed it with bottles and rocks some kids started jumping on the roof, bonnet and boot of the car, all the windows were smashed and it was pretty messed up then security came and made us to stop, just as people started shouting for gas and a lighter so we could burn it. Then the teacher told us that they had brought two other cars a black Rolls Royce and a minivan, the minivan carried thugs presumably and the Rolls Royce was parked outside the school so we couldn’t get to it, however we found the van nearby and flipped it onto its side then security came before we could do any more damage to it. Soon after this they rang the school siren and called an emergency assembly where the principle thanked us for our service, for coming to the teachers rescue (little did he know, that it all started out as us wanting to watch an annoying teacher get beaten up by a student) He also tried to coach us on what to tell our parents. He told us that there was no riot (yeah right) that it was just a small altercation between teachers and thugs and we the students, just helped. \nAfter that we dispersed and went back to our classes we didn’t have any more lectures that day.",
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My boyfriend of a year just left to go abroad for a month. How do I cope? I feel incredibly depressed. The conventional wisdom is to keep busy and hang out with friends. I am doing that already, but I can't keep my concentration. I have a lot of work to do, so it's not helping. Even more depressing is that he won't be with me during Christmas. The longest we've been apart is 2 weeks, and that was hard on both of us.
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This just happened. I am technical lab support for a company. I just swapped PDUs on a testbed for an end user. These PDUs dont have normal outlets you typically see everywhere, instead there are [IEC-320]( outlets. We have LE-320 to US standard type plug adapters.
After I finished installing and bringing the new PDU online I went back to my cube. The end user is responsible for swapping the old connections to the new PDU. Now they needed new PDUs because of power issues stemming back for months, so they're a little frustrated. I get a call and they're telling me the plugs don't fit. That we got the wrong adapters.
I go back into the lab to take a look for myself, and when I got there I asked them which specific plug are you trying to plug into which specific port. They show me, and I plug it in. Turns out they weren't pushing it in, but expecting it to slide in automagically. I think they think I know magic now.
BONUS!! Literally as I was typing this story up one of end users came up to me telling me two of them don't fit. I had to go and plug them in for her. | Magic
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So, I may get downvoted into oblivion for this, but that's ok, who needs karma?
This thread will hopefully serve two purposes:
1.) Bring up great games that have been all but forgotten
2.) Make note of mods that "complete" games that should have been great, but weren't.
As a bit of background:
I have a really awesome job, third shift tech support -- I sit here for twelve hours, and most nights, don't get a single ticket, have access to the data center's wifi and am completely alone for twelve. hours.
End result? I play a lot of games on my laptop -- I've run through VTM: Bloodlines, Titan Quest, Diablo 2, Diablo 2 w/ Median XL, Freelancer, and a few others in the past month.
-- Moving on --
However, I recent ran out of things to play, and while bored, looking around, I found something.
Kotor 2, was one of those games that should have been great, but due to budgeting and rushed release just.. wasn't.
This mod fixes that, it restores content that was in the game files, but never actually added, fixes bugs, fixes cutscenes, adds quest -- I feels like a true sequel to Kotor.
Playing this has made me realize however, that new games just.. aren't that amazing -- DA 1 for instance, was amazing to me for the longest time, but after playing Kotor 2 again, it's still a good game, but.. It has a lot of flaws -- the story seems thin, the characters are ill-developed. DA 2 which used to be "playable" is now just god-awful.
Thus me making this thread; it's an attempt to find old games that I (and others) may have been too young to give a proper play, or simply have forgotten.
It's also to note of any mods like the above, that have made games that COULD have been great into what they should have been.
I'll start with what I've found, and pray this post doesn't get lost in the flurry of early morning posts
Kotor II with TSLRCM:
The rebalancing mod from:
Gives the game much-needed difficulty (enemies are at 75% of your level normally, this makes them equal to your level -- you level faster, but there is a noticeable increase in challenge.)
Vampire The Masquerade: Bloodlines -> Camarilla Edition
This essentially integrates this fixes from the fan patch, and overhauls the game, adds more weapons, makes blood naturally drain over time, makes feeding no longer heal (instead you have a blood power, that you can spend exp to increase that you have to use to heal), increases the power of disciplines, overhauls pretty much.. everything. Makes the game feel very complete.
and alternative:
The final nights is much more buggy -- but replaces all the original clans with new ones, new disciplines, hundreds of new weapons, several quest lines.. It's more of a half-conversion than a "fix" mod, but good all the same. | I've found that modding has done wonders to fix old games, and have realized that my years of exposure to bad games has made me forget the feel of the truly amazing titles of the past -- and i'm sure i'm not the only one.
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I get your point, but there's a big difference between Citizen Kane and vanilla. Most people have one of two reasons for liking CK : they've been told it's the greatest American movie ever made, or they've seen it and studied it and realized it's the greatest American movie ever made (or one of the best, anyway). Vanilla is just bland by nature, and no one likes it just because they've been told it's the greatest ice cream flavor ever. | Following the herd and having bland tastes are not the same thing. | [
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Um... yeah no.
I have my opinion as to why I like LTI, but I have never stated I am unwilling to discuss how this might play out in game. In fact, I am quite willing (and have). I am fully aware that LTI is of little benefit - it replaces the STOCK vessel, which will be out of date about 10 minutes into the game.
And I certainly didn't state anything around why I parted with large amounts of money for this game (spoiler alert, you are way off). | don't speak for me, thanks. | [
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Obviously I get what it means but I want to know what you think it means.
That is, upon reflecting that we are consciousness made in and of this universe, what significance or meaning does it give us? Or, alternatively, does this mean nothing and are we then meaningless?
Personally I don't think the universe thinks, except in the form of other animals. So, when I look at the stars and ponder infinity, I'm thinking of a bunch of shit that is just there, same as a rock. We and animals are physically no better than a rock (we're both just made of atoms) but somehow we have this fucking consciousness and we think. That's unbelievable. But then it's like, well, we're the same physical shit (atoms) as a rock, so maybe we're just glorified rocks. And if that's the case, then we don't mean more to the universe than a rock does.
My question does imply that a significance may exist. To me, it's a selfish view that somehow we could be significant for anything more than ourselves because the to the rest of the universe (which can't detect us anyways) we are no different than a rock, as explained above. So in our relationship to the universe we're just a rock to a rock, if you get what I'm saying. But when we we are one of those rocks in the rock to rock relationship, one of the rocks can think. Is consciousness just fucking atoms interacting the right way? If that is the case, which I believe it quite certainly is, then that is fucking weird. Because what the fuck is that individualness that is you? It's so damn intangible. | are we rocks or what?
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My friend enjoys playing MTGO and I recently installed the client on my CPU
Version: 3.4.83.431
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Videocard: Nividia Geforce GTX 560
With reasonable computer specs that meet the recommended and recently updated java, It still seems to run choppy.
It seems to be client lag followed by my windows hourglass and suddenly 10 seconds of turn time has been expended before I can even make a move.
As you might expect this makes tougher best of 3's a time crunch and battling with refresh rate in the clutch is painful.
Anyways I know it is difficult to diagnose a problem without all the information but any pointers or client tricks are welcome.
My internet is solid for other games with higher bandwidth demands.
Also have recently updated video drivers and explored the limited display options in my game client. | MTGO Client lags, looking to improve performance via specific driver updates or other genius ideas | [
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So far, I kind of have a rough outline of what I want to talk about ranging from proper holding technique to what to look for in equipment as well as some strengthening/stretching exercises (because let’s be honest, sometimes photography is more of a sport and requires some level of conditioning). I also intend to include the reasoning behind why some things are better than others without getting too technical or verbose, but no promises.
As of right now, I plan on releasing this guide in chunks (though that might change) with the first installment coming out Sunday. In the mean time, I was wondering if anybody had specific questions that you would like answered. I’ll try to address everything, but some things to keep in mind are 1) I’m still in school, 2) I’ll be approaching this from an injury prevention point of view rather than what’s best for specific shooting scenarios, and 3) I AM A STUDENT. Anything that is said is not to be a substitute for actual medical professional advice. Please contact your physician for any and all serious inquires. | Compiling a physical therapy guide for photographers to be released on Sunday. Anything you want me to address? | [
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The thing I really didn't like about the comic was her use of a straw man to incite the rant. Although I do concede that you will get people who say those things in that way, they're really no different from all the other idiots on the internet/in the world.
Perhaps part of my problem is that I associate myself with him (the straw man), which I really shouldn't do, but this is an issue in which I've often been labeled as "them" (as opposed to "us") and so I guess it's something I just do now? It gets hard to think of myself as part of a movement (one for equal rights) when I'm so often caught in generalizations and tossed in with "them".
Aside from that, the straw man's dialogue is confusing and jumpy, it responds to her first statement with an attack, to her second with an irrelevant statement, and to her last one (on the first page) with a hasty retreat. It didn't really follow a conversation at all; it just responded to her singular statements and drew on a larger context that we, the readers here, did not get to see/did not exist. A simple explanation for this would be that the straw man's words were copied from comments she'd received, which would explain their lack of flow, but it also would mean that she just picked out the worst of them and applied them to one unseen person.
Doubly aside, the comic isn't about rape culture, nor does it advance us any further towards defining whether or not rape culture is present in America. It just mentions it. In bold. Underlined. What the comic really focuses on is , first, the persecution of women; and second, the persecution of feminists. It also does it in a way that only really appeals to the pathos of one group, and the appeal to logos is somewhat lost in the appeal to pathos (to clarify: most men cannot identify with her statements about what women go through due to not having similar experiences and also because they are identified as an enemy in the context. As for the logos, it was presented entirely as part of the pathos, and thus is hard to separate from it). We understand why you care, now tell them why they should too. | I don't really like this comic and I don't think it does much for how the public views the feminist movement/feminists, as well as how people react to discussions of rape culture.
Also I don't like straw men. | [
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I can understand this if you are foreign to the United States. But in the States you are taught this in Elementary Schools.
I see that you're from New Zealand so I'll sum it up for you.
Back in 1860 and before. In the United States there was a huge deal of Slavery. Slavery that specifically targeted Black Africans that were bought from Eastern Africa and shipped over to the States.
A lot of time passed, and eventually people in the United States began to see blacks as inferior to whites because of there being such a long time that they had been held in slavery.
In 1860 the Civil War occurs. One of the major parts of the war was the issue of slavery. States in the Southern part of the country wanted to keep Slavery, while States in the North did not. So one by one each Southern state slowly left the union of states and formed their own nation. The Confederate States of America.
That nation was not long lived, and after the Civil War, slavery was ended and the country became whole again under the same flag.
Fast forward about 30 years somewhere between 1915-1930 and a bunch of racists get the clever idea to attempt to segregate blacks from white areas. And the Jim Crow Laws were born. These laws, basically stated that blacks could not go to the same schools, go to the same bathrooms, or live in the same part of town as whites. Other laws were also passed to keep them from voting as well.
I'm sure you can see what kind of problems would come up from this, especially when you consider that blacks have always been a tenth of our whole population. That's a tenth of the population not getting to vote, and considered unequal to the rest of the nation.
Fast forward in time again. To about 1960. This is when the Civil Rights Era was the strongest. Thanks to the amazing speeches written by a black man named Martin Luther King Jr. And his constant political efforts to get laws like the Jim Crow Laws abolished, he was able to push Congress to pass two very important Civil Rights Laws in our country.
Sadly, in 1968 (May be off a year). Martin Luther King Jr. was assassinated, by a racist, during another speech that he was presenting.
He is the greatest black leader our country has had. And more appropriately known as the greatest revolutionary our country has had. He promoted peaceful protests and assemblies by blacks instead of violent responses. And his speaking skills and non-violent demonstrations are a major factor in the progression of equality for the United States. | He's the greatest leader of our nations most recent time. He was a major factor in pushing a lot of Civil Rights Laws getting passed, and is the father of the Civil Rights Movement. | [
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to be honest i'm so bored of this league system, who honestly gives a crap if your 10th out of 20 people in your league in bronze/silver/gold/plat/dia It means nothing.
You don't rank something based on a random group of people, you rank stuff on a region/world wide basis, i'm not saying bring back the old system as i can see why that sucks for lower elo players, but stop this god dam cock blocking that occurs at a promotion, just lest us go through.
Just give a mix, bracket off each division in elo ranges, but show our mmr/elo for example gold is what 1500-1850, so show that, people will know a guy with 1750 elo is around gold 2, where as a guy with 1500 is clearly gold 5. | no Divisions just league, so Gold league, then a elo range that fits that division, and then show peoples mmr/elo. | [
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My boyfriend [25M] and I [24F] have been dating since last October. Overall, he's a good guy who treats me well. We've briefly mentioned exes before. I told him that I was fine with him being friends with exes and hanging out with them, but I'd just like to know about it to be comfortable. I've told him about seeing my exes (lunch) beforehand because that's what I would have liked. He's hung out with ex #1 one-on-one once while we were dating, it came up later and I said I was fine with it but asked him to please tell me. I thought he had responded to the affirmative, but honestly my memory is fuzzy about it, we didn't fight or anything.
I just found out that while he was on a trip to visit school friends on the West Coast he stayed with another ex for a night. He didn't tell me he was staying with her, when I had asked initially he said he was vaguely staying with a friend from school. When I asked him when he was back he accidentally let it slip it was her, and when I asked again, he said it was her. He said that nothing happened, but he didn't have to tell me because it wasn't relevant.
I'm really upset and hurt by this because I'm even fine with him staying with her and being friends - I just wanted to KNOW about it beforehand. It feels like he doesn't respect our relationship. Him not telling me makes it feel like was trying to hide it, even though he did eventually tell me. He said that I was being unreasonable and too suspicious.
Overall this is a good relationship, but I'm just having trouble getting past this. | My boyfriend went on a trip and stayed a night with his ex without telling me beforehand, admitted it after. I'm fine with him hanging with exes if he lets me know before, upset because it feels like he hid it. He says I have no reason to be upset and nothing happened. | [
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However if you've ever been in a blind pick full of people who all want to be that guy to pick last and complement the rest of the team, you know that can be equally devastating with a mad scramble in the last 10 seconds to get your build set up. With everyone making last second changes the team often ends up looking really goofy.
For this reason having at least 2 people lock in actually helps the last 3 pick in an organized manner. Making it impossible to lock in would increase the frequency of the second problem which is very rare right now in comparison to the inst-locking problem.
This is why pick order works so well in draft mode, there's a native hierarchy by which your team comp gets determined. There should just be a randomly determined lock order in blind pick. That way you can't lock until the person before you locks.
Perhaps you could be allowed a preference if you like being first pick or last pick. Some people like to just focus on one role or champ and want to make sure they get decent pick priority every game. A smaller part of the community enjoys playing around with different roles and being that guy who chooses a character to really flesh out a comp. And sometimes your mood changes this preference. Perhaps organizing a preference system would be far too complicated. The fact remains that all players should accept that sometimes you are first pick and sometimes you are last pick and you need to understand what that means. This would also help people coming from only playing normals to understand how team comps are determined in the ranked lobby. | Normals should have pick order, players should always respect pick order. | [
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rommie? I moved to a shithole of a town. I knew no one and, honestly, the people there didn't need to be known. I had a spare bedroom so I put an ad on Craigslist for a roomie. I didn't need one. I had enough money. But I wanted someone to talk to. I made my ad with the area in mind. I used big words and made it as witty as I could. I knew that it would be unappreciated by anyone other than an out-of-towner. It worked. I found a roomie that moved into town for work, just like me, who was from an area that would leave him in the same position as me there. We really hit it off. Our mutual distaste for the town and, even though our likes and dislikes were not similar, the fact that we knew where New Zealand was on a map and that the sun didn't revolve around Earth guaranteed we had something to talk about. | get a roomie | [
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visually its silly, but story wise i think its pretty good. I dont care if every1 hates it, i enjoy it xP. Also, i think the main reason they gave us Unicorn, is so they can just say SHUT UP to all the people who do nothing but hate on every series that isnt UC. those people need to realize that UC is pretty much out of ideas. If they keep shoving in side-stories than the history gets pretty nuts. just move on from UC, if u want to watch UC, then pop in Zeta or CCA, dont beg them to slam a brand new story.... | I like Age, UC is over, move on- | [
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During a season of extreme political campaigning, our neighborhood was littered with those "vote for me" signs. Two of my friends and I decided to spend the entire night collecting all of these. We probably had around 50 or so. Deciding it wasn't enough we then proceeded to collect any for sale signs, the little steaks to mark the edges of people's driveways, and those little flags for training your dog where the electric fence is. As we gazed upon our massive pile of signage, we knew there was only one thing to do: place everything we collected in one person's front yard. There wasn't an inch of grass showing.
We also took a toilet from a construction site and planted it in someone's front yard. A few days later the guy embraced our prank and planted flowers in it. That was probably about 7 years ago...still there to this day. | found obnoxious ways to decorate front yards | [
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Most awkward wedding award goes to my 2nd oldest brother ill go with Tom and his wife. We'll refer to his wife as Cunt. Background, supposedly they met online and had been dating for over a year and had only seen her just a few times. Cunt is such a cunt that NO ONE (besides 2 crazy meth-head looking people) from her family showed up. NONE of her bridesmaids showed up (besides my sister, who became maid-of-honor by default). The church was just filled with my family so when the preacher asked "speak now, or forever hold your peace" everybody at the same time, turns and stares down these fucking meth-heads just waiting for them to tweak out. Everyone turns back around and preacher proceeds with the ceremony. Good thing none of her family was there because my family smashed 4 kegs and 8 cases of Jim Beam. | My brothers wife is a cunt and my family is full of alcoholics. | [
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How much does he use porn and masturbation?
Too much porn and masturbation is linked to Erectile Dysfunction and Delayed Ejaculation in men of all ages. Overstimulation of the penis via 'deathgrip' can make it less sensitive to real sex, let alone sex with a condom on.
On top of this, porn is linked to a decrease in dopamine receptors in the brain. The | version is that the signals the brain sends to the penis to get/stay erect are weakened.
For the science behind this, check out yourbrainonporn.com, and other resources on /r/nofap/
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Hi! So my character's name is Shupani Wapasha, and while I only started FFXIV in August or so, I come with 10 years of MMO and hardcore healing experience ahem World of Warcraft. I'm not so sure if I want to "stumble into" the real raiding scene just yet, but the end game WoW raider in me still wants to at least do SOME end game things without relying solely on the Duty Finder. With me being relatively new to the game and server, I don't know a whole lot of people aside from my real life friends in my FC.
As an aside, since I know half my FC in real like I would prefer not to have to leave it.
Basically I'm hoping to experience the current end game content and perhaps older Extremes that I missed. I'm more than happy looking up fights and strategies and often do already when facing primals (except a lot of the 4mans I just wing it and figure out mechanics on the fly). I play on both PS4 and PC, but typically heal on my PC because everything is easier with 20 mouse buttons. I have a headset and a PS4 camera if necessary.
So | meager ilvl 175 White Mage in EST looking for funtime raidtimes and more friends!
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I'm a twenty-six year old male, and as the title states, I've never been in a relationship. I've done diddly squat when it comes to relationships and girls. I haven't even held a girl's hand...that's how backward I am. I have no idea what the hell is wrong with me.
I'm not the most aggressive guy when it comes to pursuing girls, but I do try. In fact, the reason that I'm making this post tonight is because I had met a girl a while back and I had started to develop feelings for her recently. I was going to ask her out the next opportunity I got to talk to her alone. I was also somewhat confident that she was interested in me. That turned out to be completely wrong. Tonight when we were all hanging out she brought a guy with her that she's dating. Oops...guess I was wrong, again.
I'm pretty depressed about it. It's not so much the realization that I don't have a chance with her now (or if I ever did), I mean I did...do like her...but the real killer for me is that things never work out. They literally have never worked out, not even once. It makes me feel unlovable and alone. And, when friends say "there's someone out there" or "you'll meet someone" I can't help but feel jaded and cynical.
I know I'm probably coming off like a complete nut, but this isn't how I act in public. I'm usually the quiet, friendly, reserved one in the group. Looks wise, I know I'm about average, I'm a little heavier than I should be, but I'm not massively obese or anything. I dress better than most of my friends. I'm friendly and personable in person (and don't come off as bat shit insane like I am right here).
I don't have problems making friends with girls, but none of them ever see me as anything more than that. I feel like when it comes to romance, I'm a ghost.
No one, except for a select very few of my closest friends know just how non-existent my love life is. Most of my friends and acquaintances just assume that I'm currently single, but that I have a normal love life otherwise.
It's even becoming an issue with my close friends, since they've all got girlfriends/fiances/wives now. Whenever we hang out it's always a bunch of couples and then me...the one solo person in the group. It's really starting to bother me.
I don't want to become the real life forty-year old virgin. That's just too pathetic and depressing. I think life would be too lonely to live alone like that anyways.
I don't know what's wrong with me. Maybe I'm just here to vent my frustration at my latest failure...but maybe someone here will see something that I'm doing horribly wrong and can offer some insight.
If you've made it this far, thanks for taking the time to read this wall of text. | Twenty-six male, haven't so much as held a girl's hand. Can become friends with girls, but can't ever be any more than that. I am completely at a loss as to why. | [
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Ive had two phones stolen so far in my lifetime, neither had pictures but one did have new music put on it. It was two of Simple Plan's albums and some various songs by weird al. | You don't have to be black to be a nigger. | [
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I have a Dell Inspiron 530s. I've recently replaced the RAM on it and it has all worked well. I found a spare processor in my house and decided to hook that up as well. While I was looking for where the processor went, I pulled out a small silver vented box-type thing that was glued to what looked like the processor but wasn't. I put it back and eventually found it under the fan. Now when I try to boot it up, I hear the fan whirring and the light on the front is a solid orange colour. I've looked it up and it says there might be a problem with the power supply but it was working fine earlier. Would someone care to help me out? | Tried to replace the processor and now the computer won't boot up. | [
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There is a site floating around called services-runescape saying that there's a poll for the ge. Notice the "-"? Its supposed to be a "." People sign into their account there and when they click sign in it its sends them to the real site saying the forum doesn't exist anymore. That makes it look legit and not raise too many flags but they actually log your info. | false runescape site | [
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My question is at the very bottom if you don't want to read all this.)
I'm located in the United States. We are running Exchange 2013 behind a pfSense router/firewall. I'm using pfsense to filter for spam with the following methods:
pfBlocker to block all connections (mail or otherwise) from most countries around the world that we would never be doing business with. (Basically we only allow parts of Europe, Australia, New Zealand and Canada to access our email and webservers.)
Postfix Forwarder to do a wide variety of level 1 and level 2 checks, RBL check, etc.
mailscanner + spamassassin + clamav for level 3 mail scanning. It looks for spam signatures, viruses, and phishing and then blocks them.
This has taken our organization from receiving over 1,000 spam messages per hour down to around 10 (which comes out to less than 1 per user per hour.)
However, many small business that we deal with in the area are improperly configured. They don't have correct SPF records, their headers are wrong in their emails, they HELO as .local domains or domains that don't actually exist, etc. So, this leads me to an endless game of whitelisting addresses for the boss because he won't accept my answer that the other people need to fix their damn outgoing email servers.
So, I'm wondering if I can employee a whitelist for the Greater Pittsburgh Area. After analyzing our logs, it doesn't appear that we get much spam, if any at all, from local Pittsburgh addresses. But we do get a lot of false positives here. | Where can I get a comprehensive list of all IP ranges used in Pittsburgh? The major carriers here are Comcast, Armstrong, Verizon and Consolidated. I'm sure that there are others, but if I could just whitelist those, it would make my life a million times easier. | [
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So I have been kind of dating this girl that I really like (and used to just be friends with) for about a month now. By dating I mean texting/talking every day, going on dates, and hooking up. We both really like each other; that's fairly clear.
We are in college and are both going to Europe next semester - in very different countries. Due to our logical sides, we had a conversation stating that the timing of our "relationship" was quite shitty. We also said that we would "have fun in Europe and see what happens when we get back." Which meant that we shouldn't be exclusive because hooking up with a random European stranger was certainly a possibility for both of us.
Problem arises here: We had this conversation about three weeks ago, and as can happen when you are hanging out with someone that is this awesome, more feelings and intimacy have developed since then. I'm leaving VERY soon, as in I won't be able to see her again before I leave to re-discuss and make sure we are on the same page that we were before or arrive at a new agreement.
At the moment, I don't really feel the outright desire to hook up with any girls, and I don't really care if she hooks up with any guys, because it is what we discussed and agreed upon. I'd be somewhat hurt if she did develop a full-blown relationship, but again that is her choice. I don't think that will happen anyway, there isn't a lot of time for that to happen, and she really is also really excited about the possibility of us when we get back.
Basically, I don't care what she does with random men, because I can deal, and we discussed it. I just don't want to hurt her feelings by hooking up with a random girl. I still see that happening as a possibility though. I will be in this new place for nearly six months, and there are almost certainly people that I will be sexually attracted to. I don't know if anyone has any perspective on all of this.
I realize I should just talk to her about it, but phone/e-mail/text conversations aren't my favorite mediums for this kind of thing. Plus I'm looking for some general insight from more experienced people before I make my decision on what I actually am going to do this coming semester (hooking up with other people or being celibate except for one or two visits to each other). | Been hooking up with awesome girl. We both want to date when we get back from being abroad. Had agreement about strangers before everything developed, but now I don't want to hurt her by following through on it. Wondering if it will be a betrayal if I do. | [
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The MLS on the other hand was largely a Franchise opportunity for owners who love soccer and money. The growth may not be a community based effort, and ultimately has economic incentives at heart, but that parity is what may make the MLS the most attractive league in the world in 20 or 30 years time. The fact that any of the 20, or maybe 30 (I'd love Charlotte to get a team and that's not happening soon.) plus teams can win has to be a major drawing point domestically, and most of all abroad. Where do you think the MLS will be in thirty years? I'm very interested in everyone's responses and honestly do think a small market MLS team could be an international juggernaut in the near future. | Do you think that the MLS will be a league with teams that internationally renown in 20 or so years? | [
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I don't think it should be so strong as to cause everyone to get all 3 after 3 summons but strong enough to stop people from getting 7 Amir and 2 Tessa or 5 Theos back to back.
It already takes 5 weeks minimum to get one summon and people still have flags, scrolls, legendary pieces, scam stones, and cowgrills to sink GP into. If anything ifrit chasing makes GW worse because people take longer to start leveling flags and chasing rank. | another suggestion thread.
Edit: I mean pseudo-random distribution as /u/Contemplate said below. | [
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Hello everyone! I was recommended to cross-post to this forum, so hopefully I can get a little insight. Thanks in advance!
I am fairly novice when it comes to electronics, and almost completely new to diagnosing electronics issues. I have been doing some research and am not really sure what my next step should be so I am hoping someone may be able to point me in the right direction.
I got a Kenwood KR-4200 from my parents. They bought the unit new in Germany and save for an American plug the unit hasn't been modified, recapped or upgraded in any way (as far as they can remember).
My initial problem has recently taken an interesting twist, but I'll start here from the top. Whenever I would power up the receiver it would work for about two minutes at which point the speaker relay would click off. All the lights would stay on and the headphone output still worked.
After cutting the power for about 30 seconds, the unit would work again for about 10 seconds. The longer it was left off the longer it would work, but never for more than that original 2 minutes, and that was only if it was left off for a significant amount of time.
I tested with all sorts of different speaker setups, and each speaker has the same error on each channel and each A or B output. The unit even clicks off with no speakers connected. At some point during all of this, the receiver started popping pretty heavily on power on and off, something new or that I at least hadn't noticed.
So, I opened everything up and started looking for bad connections and what not. I noticed that when the output stopped working, if I quickly powered the unit off and then back on, the relay would move slightly but never fully engage.
I looked at this diagram, and with a little help found that in sector 6-I the voltage should be what looks to be 15.5v. I measured the voltage across the relay, basically across the D1 diode, and it came in at 25v, and dropped to 0 when the audio stopped working.
After a little bit of research I measured the DC offsets for the speaker outputs and they both came in around -100 mV, which I guess is a lot.
Here's where things get interesting. I haven't really DONE anything save for these tests. It's possible I jostled something, but no hardware has been changed or resoldered. I was going to, on a whim, replace the thermal paste on some of the transistors that are attached to a large heat sink. I asked my roommate to fire up the receiver and see if they were getting hot (I was out of town) and, lo-and-behold, the receiver stayed on for over an hour!
I've been listening to it over an hour myself now, and some measurements have changed. The relay is still at 25v, but the DC offsets are 830 mV for the left channel and 1130 mV for the right channel, crazy! Additionally the right channel no longer outputs audio on either speaker A or B setting.
As an additional note, the sound seems to come through the working channel pretty 'full' for brief moments, with more depth, but then flattens out a little bit. The pots are a bit crackly so maybe I need to clean those? First order of business though is the other problem. | My receiver was seemingly overheating, but now it is staying on but the DC offsets are even higher than before, with the right channel no longer working.
I don't really fully understand how the transistor and safety circuit stuff works to adjust voltage and whatnot, so if anyone has any good resources I would love to see them.
Thanks in advance for any help! | [
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10 lbs of water weight? Either you didn't have one drink of water, trained in the desert and worked your ass off with no break or you are over exaggerating. I play professional sports and even if one of our fat guys lost 10 lbs the nutritionists and conditioning coach would freak out. | over exaggeration 10 lbs no way | [
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I met a guy online and we quickly became friends as we have a lot in common. One day we found out we have a lot of complimentary kinks as well, and we became more involved. I'm married with kids, but he's single.
We play a lot of Xbox together, and one day my sister joined our chat party. She's since become infatuated with him, despite his constant deflection of her advances and reminding her that she's 15 and he doesn't see her like that.
We all live far away from each other so there's no way any of us would be able to meet IRL, but how can I tell her to cut that out without tipping my hand? Also, I'm sure eventually my parents will start asking me questions about him as well, and I have no idea what to do when that happens. | How do I tell her to cut it out and possibly have to explain this to my parents without revealing I'm having an affair? | [
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Really not sure if this is the right subreddit for this. I apologize ahead of time if this is inappropriate.
In my one of my classes at uni I sit next to a girl I'm interested in. I asked her out yesterday but her response was "I'm sailing somewhere this weekend and I won't have free weekends for a while"(she's on the sailing team at my school) but her response was pretty jaded. To save my self from embarrassment I quickly was like "hey that's fine we'll just study next week for our exam or whatever." And she was like yeah.
Then walking out I noticed a girl who's also in my discussion section for the same class and I felt the urge to just sit next to her for the rest of the year instead of the original girl I was into.
I honestly won't ask original girl to study and if she asks me I'll probably fake a response but should I even continue to sit next to her in class? Seems like there's no point to. Whaddya all think? | asked girl out. She said no. Should I continue to sit next to her or sit next to someone else
Sorry again if this is a stupid question or anything. | [
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All you have to do is tell us "What is the worst way you've been broken up with?" I have 8 tickets or 4 double passes (for those lucky in love) to give away to Lisa Skye's Lovely Tea Party for this evening, for those who have had their heart broken.
The winner will be PM'd and notified. The show starts tonight at 9:45pm and I'll be on it, [with my dumb face]( with some great comedic guests talking about their life, things they love about it, what truly scares them and doing the comedy!
Comp closes at 6pm today :D | I got tix. You're great. Tell us how you got your heart broken. You get tix. We all laugh hard. Comp closes at 6. [Dumb face]( | [
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I'm a 19yo male, my best friend is 18yo, and his little sister is 17yo.. Yes, 17. It's gonna be one of those stories, I guess.
So about a month and a half ago, I was playing xbox with one my my best friends (let's call him A), and it was a perfectly normal day. Now, and this is a big part of the story, I live in DC, where he and his family and the rest of my friends all live in Seattle. 2500 miles away. We're playing xbox over a party, and I hear him talking to his sister. Now, I've always been very attracted to his sister, since we were all younger. But, especially lately, she's gotten much more attractive to me. I've held myself back for years, but for some reason something clicked. Her and I never really talked much, and at this point I had been living in DC for 6 months and hadn't seen her for maybe even over a year.
So I hear them talking, and she's taking funny videos over snapchat of him. I, not realizing that I was totally looking for an in, asked him to get her to add me on snapchat so I could see these funny videos. Well, he thought it was innocent, se he did. She's sending me the videos, and I'm responding. I don't know how, but next thing I know her and I are in a full on conversation about something completely random almost instantly. Totally fine though, right?
The next day, we're still talking. And the next day, and the next day. We're talking more and more and more. In the matter of only 5 days we were talking from when we were waking up to when we were falling asleep, but only over text and snapchat. At one point in that first week, I snuck in the fact that I liked her. At first she kind of shot me down, but later that night she told me she actually had a lot of feelings for me but was just very scared. She was afraid we'd get too attached, and being she's a senior in high school and I'm on the other side of the country, that could be dangerous. For some reason, I didn't care, and I convinced her to just follow her feelings and not worry... Mistake? I'm not sure yet.
So we keep talking. I'm calling her baby, darling, the whole thing, and she's calling me the same things. It escalates to hearts and kissy faces, and eventually to some more photos over snapchat. Our conversations get more and more "lovey dovey".
Her brother finds out. He sees how much we talk, and I decide to ask him how he feels. And, he's totally ok with it. I was so relieved, he's perfectly fine with it as long as I'm not "asking for her hand in marriage yet" (jokingly, of course). So I take this as his blessing and keep flirting.
Some weeks go by, and our relationship is already a little rocky. We both have some emotional issues, and that's probably why we're so attracted to each other, but also.. I start to feel something much stronger, and she does too. We get through the hard times and arguments. Mostly petty stuff, like jealousy, from both of us.
I hear from a friend that A has started to get uncomfortable with the whole situation. So, I call him. I tell him that he already gave me his blessing and he knew what he was saying ok too. He doesn't deny it, but he says "I don't care what I said, I don't like it." Well, this upsets me. If you didn't want me doing it, you should've told me before I got invested. Now, he's asking me to choose between the two of them.
Granted, I've been great friends with this guy for almost 7 years now. I've been talking to his sister for only a few weeks. He says "it shouldn't even be a decision, you stop talking to her and that's it." And maybe I should have.. But I didn't. He knew I was still talking to her, but he just didn't mention anything.
Her and I begin to get much more serious. We start skyping and talking on the phone. The first night on the phone we were talking until 6am. Connected for 8 hours. We fall asleep on the phone together, wake up with the phone still on and keep talking. We FaceTime constantly. It's even gotten to the point where we each choose not to go out to see our friends because we just want to keep talking. Just a couple nights ago we were on and connected for almost 12 hours on the phone (luckily we both have unlimited lol).
Here's where it gets really interesting. I buy plane tickets to go visit. Not to see her, but just to visit all of my other friends, I really miss Seattle. But, I figure, I can definitely see her too. We have it all planned out, everything we're gonna do and see, all of it. Then, I get a call from my other friend, J.
J tells me that A is getting incredibly uncomfortable with it, and he wants me to stop immediately. I talking to his sister about it, and she says I should talk to him about it immediately. This was last night, I texted him and asked if he was busy, that it was time he and I talked.
I promise this story is almost over. Thank you if you've read this far.
I proceed to tell him that I love him and consider him like a brother, and that his opinion means everything to me. He tells me to stop talking to her. I tell him that I wish I didn't have to choose, if there was a way we could all be friends, I would love that. He tells me to stop talking to her. I then ask him, why is he so upset with me talking to her anyway? What about me and her makes him so uncomfortable? He says it's because I treat women poorly.
Now, this is an absolute lie. And I expected it, A is known for being a pathological liar, he literally can't stop. I'm a total nerd, girls do not like me. He's a college douche (in the best of ways), and he's hooking up with girls left and right. I have literally been with one girl my entire life, and I pride myself on showing unwavering respect for women. So I ask him to explain himself, and he can't. He can't give me a single example of when I've been disrespectful to women, he just keeps saying it. At this point our other friends have been dragged into it, and they all agree with me on this point. But he doesn't let it go.
I tell him that I'm sorry, I wish he could understand how hard it is for me to choose between the two of them. I explain to him that she actually means a great deal to me, and I plea to him to give us a chance. He starts shouting, at the top of his lungs. He is literally screaming at me in anger. To him, how could I possibly have to decide between the two of them? I'm his best friend, it should be easy.
Also, he hates his sister. Treats her like absolute shit 24/7.
I tell him I'm sorry but I can't decide, he says I better make the decision soon, and we hang up. A few minutes go by, and I get a call from Her. She is crying harder than I've ever heard her cry, and yes I've heard her cry a few times, but this time was different. Apparently, he called his parents and started yelling about how I'm a bad person. That I'm a bad influence, I'm selfish, and I will only try to take advantage of and hurt their daughter. None of these things are true. I know it, my friends know it, and she knows it, but his parents don't. And who are they going to believe, me, or their only son? He's literally making things up about me so that they hate me so I'm forced by them to never talk to her again.
They tell him he needs to calm down and stop being such a dick. But they don't know how to feel about me. I mean, I'll be 20 soon so I'll be 3 years older than her, so they already are a little weird about that but they got past it. Still, to them, I'm a bad guy who is trying to take advantage of their daughter. And I'm not, I'm really not...
So that's where I'm at now. I still haven't given him my decision, even though no matter what happens, I can't be friends with him after he made up all that stuff about me. Her parents are still iffy about me. They know I'm coming to visit, and they haven't decided if her and I can still see each other or not. It's all up to them now.
For her and me, today has been hard. Last night was actually pretty good, we still slept on the phone together, but it's been a little weird today. I keep thinking she's been distant, but I'm realizing that it's actually me who's been acting all weird. We tried talking on the phone but she's been busy all day. Hopefully she'll call tonight and we can talk more about it.
I'm pleading to you guys to help me make a decision here's, just give me your thoughts. I know this story is super long and I don't expect anyone actually read the whole thing, but if you did, please help me do the right thing. I'm falling for this girl, but if I choose her, he will say bad things about me to his parents until they make it so we can't talk anymore. And then, I've lost both of them. What do I do?
Oh yeah, and my flight leaves at 8am tomorrow...
Thanks. | Fell in love with my best friend's sister, now he hates me and is spreading rumors about me to his family so they hate me. Her and I want to be together, but she's younger and I can't ask her to go against her family's wishes. Pls help. | [
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I have a feeling I'm somewhat late to the game here, but my friend who is an EMT told me a story about how very early in his career he got a call to an elderly woman's house where she was complaining of severe mouth pain and difficulty breathing. He arrived to find a woman who was covered in feces and had not left her recliner for what seemed like a very long time. She was clearly neglected. The horrifying part, however, was not the shit covered old lady, but that her teeth were black. Or at least that's what they initially thought before realizing that the woman didn't have black teeth, but fucking blood blisters come out of each place previously occupied by a tooth. There are more details that I can't seem to remember but | blood blisters the size of teeth instead of teeth. | [
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What are you basing this on? I'm not convinced this would be true, depending on your definition of "brighter".
Assuming both a nuclear fireball and the center of the Sun emit as blackbodies, their emitted flux would be: flux=(constant)*(temperature)^4.
The temperature at the center of the Sun is ~1.6 x 10^7 K ( The temperature of a nuclear fireball is >10^7 K ( Therefore, based on these approximations, one would expect the nuclear explosion to be brighter.
EDIT: | This is incorrect, the nuclear explosion would actually be brighter.
EDIT 2: If you are downvoting, please leave an explanation. I believe many of you are confused between total power output (i.e., energy per second) and flux (i.e., energy per second per area), the second of which is the correct definition of "brightness" as it would be perceived by the human eye. | [
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Hm.
No, you're wrong. Look at the causal flow of the situation: [TDT decision to fake] -> [fake people in queue] -> [delays]. Seeing a large queue, you should still not prefer TDT to output faking, because assuming it did, then in the counterfactual world where TDT had not output faking, the queue wouldn't be that long in the first place . The length of the queue is itself determined by the TDT output; it cannot be assumed fixed between the alternatives. | your causal diagram is wrong. (A different way to look at it is holding queue length constant implies TDT can summon people out of nowhere, thanks dspeyer.) | [
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Made the mistake of going to a dentist in downtown Calgary recently and feel like I really got ripped off. Of course dentists are notorious for doing this kind of stuff, but I was told I had to have an intake appointment before I get my teeth cleaned because I was a new patient. I don't have benefits through my work yet so I paid out of pocket, this was $420 (X-rays, consult, check-up).
Agreed and paid, and then scheduled a teeth cleaning. Coincidentally they told me they could see me later that day. Was given an estimate of about ~$450 for the cleaning. The hygienist only scaled the bottom half of my teeth for about ~40 minutes, and then tried to sell me expensive tooth brushes and measuring my gums for the remaining of the checkup (receipt ended up saying 5 units of scaling). Was told I would have to come back for another appointment (at another ~$550 according to them) to complete my cleaning. This is when I got upset and left, and sent an email after saying that ~$1400 for X-Rays and a teeth cleaning was excessive at best, egregious at worst, and that I would find a new dentist.
Any thoughts or information on what a standard charge is for this? New to Calgary, so any recommendations on a different dentist would be appreciated. I spent almost $900 and still never got my teeth fully cleaned, but I have the X-rays to go to a different clinic. | New to Calgary, think I got screwed over by a dentist. What is a reasonable charge for cleaning and x-rays... | [
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At a low level, it's probably better to punish with cr.LK xx EX Legs or with cr.HK, instead of going for big combos that start with cr.HP. Your opponent kind of has to screw up for you to be able to land a clean cr.HP (or a jump-in leading to cr.HP). Having said that...
Since we're talking about "the loop", I have to show you a video. This combo is not realistically achievable, but bear with me because it'll show you the loop in its purest form. [Okay, now watch the video.](
Welcome back! I apologize for how long this is going to get. Let me answer your second question first. When people talk about "the loop", they're referring to cr.HP xx HK Legs, MK extension linked into another rep of cr.HP xx HK Legs, MK extension . Hardly anyone does more than two reps, because it's tough to execute. Lots of good Chun players tend to do one rep of the loop (technically not a loop unless you go for two reps, but shh) and then end the combo with cr.HK, Ultra 1, or EX Legs (into Ultra 2?)
You have to be precise in getting HK legs specifically, because it is the only version that consistently leaves you close enough to your opponent to be able to link anything afterward. Then you have to get MK legs extension to come out, and then the very last hit of MK legs extension has to connect. Check out Chun's frame data here and you'll see that MK extension is +7 on hit. (Which leaves you enough time to connect with those various combo enders from last paragraph.)
Okay, so now on to your first question: How you execute cr.HP xx HK legs has to do with whatever controller you use. I wouldn't know how to do it on pad, sorry - but on stick, there are multiple ways of inputting it. Lightning Legs comes out after the fifth kick input that you press, and the strength of the fifth kick input determines which version of Legs is used. Then you need 4 more kick inputs to keep Chun kickin'. (Another thing you should know: LK+MK would count as one input even though you pressed two kick buttons.)
So if you canceled cr.HP into HK legs, you'd need to hit 5 kick inputs before cr.HP's second hit, landing on HK as your fifth (kick) input, then hit another three kick inputs, then hit MK. All very quickly. Some possibilities using the piano method (aka hitting buttons really fast) might be:
cr.HP+MK, LK, LK, MK, HK (mash MK)
cr.HP+LK, HK, MK, LK, HK (mash MK) - this is how I do it.
cr.HP, LK, MK, HK, LK, HK (mash MK)
If you use the slide method, your input should probably be cr.HP, LK~MK~HK~MK~HK . (Maybe someone else can confirm that? I piano.) | chun has to put in work to get decent meterless combo damage | [
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I've been a lurker of this subreddit for a long time and I had purchased Elite Danger during the beta because I loved the ideas that were coming from this game and the plans made for the future of this game, but now I have to say goodbye.
Unfortunately, I did not expect to be paying $60 a month to play this game in the form of seasons. I did not expect to have my gameplay limited to whatever was released that year and have to buy the game again and again every following year. If every season was released as a $20-30 expansion, I would even consider it, but asking for a full retail price of a game is way too steep for me and I know this was a big issue for many other people too.
I'm sorry, but I cannot stay in this community if I'll need to pay an annual fee to play this game, it just isn't worth it for me. I just wanted to let the developers know that the great that I had played was very fun and I dropped so many hours on the game and as much as I feel that the full retail price of the game is a bit much, I am not here to start an argument or a war. I hope those who buy the future seasons enjoys it well and I hope the price tag is worth it. As for me, I guess I'll just hope that Star Citizen has a better monetization strategy. | Thank you Frontier Developments for making a wonderful game, shame these seasons are going to be so expensive, hopefully it works out for you guys, I'm done playing. | [
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Thanks! | [
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I've been working on getting in better shape recently and I've made some good progress and want to continue to maximize my results. I'm a 28 year old male, about 178 lbs., 5'11" and pretty sure I would be considered a mesomorph. I'm focusing mostly on getting rid of this gut I've developed, but I also want to build muscle too. I'm really just trying to get fit, not big.
Here's what I've been doing so far.
Workout : at the gym 4-5 days a week. I started just doing intense elliptical sessions about 35-40 minutes long where I typically burned around 350-400 cals. I've recently begun weight training also: chest day, arm day, shoulder day, leg day.
Diet : I've been using an iPhone app (LoseIt) to keep track of my calories and stay in a deficit. I'm taking in about 1500 total after I deduct the calories I burn on the elliptical. I've been trying to eat lots of protein (hard boiled eggs, greek yogurt, whey protein shakes) to prevent muscle loss, especially since I've begun doing weight training now.
Mainly what I'm concerned with is whether the weight training while maintaining a calorie deficit is going to be beneficial or harmful. I really want to minimize any muscle loss and would like to build some once I've achieved my weight loss goals.
Thanks for any feedback! | Daily calorie deficit of about 800 cals. Doing weight training and cardio in order to lose weight and build muscle. Trying to get a lot of protein in my daily 1500 cals. | [
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Im just going to play Devil's advocate here...
I make a lot of BBQ. I almost always make something called ABTs which are gutted Jalapenos stuffed with cream cheese and wrapped in bacon. I cut up a couple boxes of the peppers and go to work cleaning them.
I always wash my hands a lot, but sometimes you just cant get it all out. I've accidentally done this to my wife after cooking and it's something I'd never do intentionally. Even a while after cooking and even after a shower it's still happened to either her or to myself if I fap or something.
I wear gloves now.
Friends prank each other, couples can too, it just depends on them. My wife has laughed at me get capsaicin on my balls before. It sucked, but it's kind of funny too I'm sure from her point of view. I'm not going to blame her at all. She's there for me when real shit goes down, that's what counts, not whether or not she into some sitcom-level schadenfreude. | He might have washed his hands. They also might be the kind of couple that fucks with each other regularly and can find humor in this situation. | [
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Grade 8 I did basketball after school, we all went out to get a drink and there was this guy taller than me and was always a dick to me. Anyway some guy is drinking and he starts swearing at him and telling him to hurry up and how he is fat and I just got so annoyed at this guy I told him to shut up and leave the guy to drink in piece. He turn around to me and the other guy goes back inside so its just him and I outside. He swings a punch at me and I didn't tell anyone but I learnt self defence for maybe a year or two so as he went to punch me I grabbed his fist, got behind him and stuck out my leg and then pulled him to the ground. I then to make sure he left me alone stomped the ground next to his face, he got up and never talked to me again. Not really sure if bullying but yeah. | got a guy taller than me to the ground for being a dick to people | [
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I think you need to consider prepping as opposed to survivalism here. You should have everything you need before something happens, not hope to get it afterwards. It's great to have lots of knowledge, but you can still easily end up dead if you get a small injury that keeps you from hunting for a few days etc. | Start prepping now, you'll never have to worry about it later. Much. | [
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Probably not as epic as other posts, but here it goes:
Just turned 18. Went to the store and bought some friends some cigarettes. A pack of Marbaro Lights for me, Reds for someone else, etc. I was asked for an ID at the store and when they said happy birthday I said "yeah, thought I'd celebrate by trying all these brands legally" or some other bullshit.
Later on, the four of us were walking in town. One of the girls had the bag of smokes I got for us. Cops approach us and told us they got a call about some loud teenagers (we weren't being loud). The girl saw the cops coming and hid the smokes. Of course, they saw that and one of the pricks gets the bag from the bush (with an expression like he's mother-fucking Sherlock Holmes). They begin to frisk us.
One of my friends says something like "don't you need a warrant before you start searching us?" He says no, then proceeds to take him to the police station for questioning (I guess asking a legitimate question is a crime). The rest of us end up walking to the police station. I go in and demand they give my cigarettes back. I show them my ID and he fetches them for me. Turns out my friend was not arrested (he was taken back to the boarding school). | Made cops give me back cigarettes I bought legally (but was meant for underage people). | [
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I bet they're losing money on these 3 cars. It's more of a way for Lamborghini to prove that they are a top tier super car company. | Bragging rights | [
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I volunteer for a animal shelter that is really struggling to get enough money to supply the needs of the pets in it. It has been especially hard since we cater to a whole county and one of the city's animal control division went 'POOF!' We are currently part of the 'Refresh Project' sponsored by Pepsi. If we win, we will get a $5000 grant which we will use for our Pet Food Pantry project. The idea of the project is to keep the pets in the homes of their families through tough economic times by having a food bank to give out much needed food for the pets. Voting ends Sept. 30th. All you need to do is text 108203 to Pepsi(73774). We would love your help!
Ps. Website: [Cache Humane Society]( | text 108203 to Pepsi(73774) to help an animal shelter win a grant.
Thank you | [
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I don't know where to begin and I've been sitting here typing and deleting stuff for the past 20 minutes. I really just want to tell someone this...anyone willing to read/listen.
And feel free to AMA if you can trudge through this story, its something I want to talk about.
When I was 14 my dad died from lung cancer. For about two years I told myself we had a really close relationship until I realized that he was an alcoholic pothead who only spent time with me when he had to watch me. I guess you could say I have "daddy issues."
When I was 16 I purposely lost my virginity to my supposedly gay best friend. I got drunk and slept with him so this other guy would sleep with me. He wouldn't sleep with me because I was a virgin and he had a girlfriend who was one of my close friends.
That guy later became my first long term boyfriend. I recently found out that after he cheated on his girlfriend for 6 months with me, he then cheated on me with that same girl for about 6 months. Amongst other things he was sociopathic and abusive and he had me convinced that I was crazy. I used to have panic attacks and hit myself and pull out my hair when I didn't want to hear the verbal abuse. He became more and more sexually deviant as the relationship progressed but I considered everything normal because he was my first real boyfriend.
I have hideous scars all over my arms and legs from years of self-mutilation and I've been bulimic for about 3 years. I no longer have to forcefully make myself vomit, its just a reflex now.
I'm facing a DUI conviction and I've had a problem with alcohol ever since I can remember. I've used it to self-medicate for years. I've slept with 13 people and I think I've only slept with 4 of them sober.
These are just details from off the top of my head. There's definitely more, just ask. | i've dealt with death, abuse, self-mutilation, bulimia, promiscuity, alcoholism, amongst other things
oh, and i'm not looking for any sympathy or any lectures. i take full responsibility for all of the choices i've made, i just want to share my experiences with anyone who is interested. | [
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One more supporter of quitting the weed.
I smoked for most of my teenage years and it killed a lot of my motivation for finishing school. I don't think weed is bad or that you should quit permanently if you like it but amotivational syndrome is a symptom of chronic weed smoking.
I've recently just started back up after a few years without it. I smoke maybe once every week or two. Spacing it out like that, I can actually feel the difference the day and day after I actually smoke. I'm much less motivated to do little or important things and much more inclined to lay in bed and watch a movies for a while before I ever get out of bed. | For 99% of people, weed is bad when you have important shit to do. | [
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Currently, Slayer masks allow to force a task every 3 days, and whilst I agree with that mechanic, there's no way to check whether it has reset, apart from keeping count yourself. Whilst this doesn't seem like a big deal, if you try to force a task at a slayer monster, you'll get a chatbox message saying the mask hasn't reset, and you will be assigned a random task.
What I propose is that a examine on the mask, or 'check mask' option will let you know if you can use the mask to force a task, if not, how long is left. Also, a warning message when getting a new task, to prevent being given a task, where you couldve used another available slayer mask anyway, to save points.
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So me and a friend were really high, and like most high people we went to get Chinese food. Things were going pretty well until a pair of girls sat down at a table next to us. The thing was, one of the girls had no legs. I saw this and was really freaked out. I leaned over to my friend enjoying his orange chicken and whispered "Dude, don't freak out, but this chick has no legs!"
He looks over at her, and he freaks out and yells "Oh shit!" at the top of his voice. We both start laughing and cannot stop. Every single person in the place was staring at us. We cannot stop laughing. The wait staff had stopped what they were doing. We just couldn't shut up. So we dropped a $50 and left. | Saw a girls with no legs while high, laughed at her. | [
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[Intel Core i5-4440 3.1GHz Quad-Core Processor](
$207.08 @ Amazon
Motherboard
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$89.17 @ Newegg
Memory
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$66.37 @ Newegg
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$370.58 @ Amazon
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$111.97 @ Newegg
Total
Prices include shipping, taxes, and discounts when available
$1056.45
Generated by PCPartPicker 2014-12-21 17:32 EST-0500
The latest prices don't reflect the actual price I paid, since I ordered everything on Black Friday / Cyber Monday. It was just under $900 !
My Story
So, I grew up building computers. My father got into IT in the early 90s and he built computers for our household from spare parts from work and trips to the local computer store. The enthusiasm for home-built PCs has carried over into my adult years.
My first couple of builds started my freshman year in college. Following in my father's footsteps, I took trips to my university surplus sales and put together fairly decent builds from old parts. It was a ton of fun (and a whole lot of learning) putting together "scrap" parts and creating computers that worked fairly well.
Fast-forward to my junior year (3rd year) in university. I landed a decent job as a student doing system administration in various campus computer labs. I saved up money over a year and built my very first gaming rig. It was still extremely budget, with an OC'd Intel E5200 CPU paired with an low-end GeForce GPU (don't remember which one). Pretty good for CounterStrike 1.6!
Fast-forward to graduation a couple of years later. I get my first career job as an entry-level web developer. At this point, I'm making decent money and playing more demanding games. So, I decided to build a mid-range rig with an Intel i7-860 CPU and paired with an AMD Radeon HD 5850. Played all kinds of games with this baby: CounterStrike Source, L4D, Simcity 4, ANNO Series. Noticed it could handle most things, but not everything. Ended up selling this to some high schoolers.
Now, it's 2014. This past October, I got married. Since the pattern for me has been, "Big life event? Build a gaming PC!", I decide to keep it going. I spent a month scouring Tom's Hardware, Anandtech, and /r/buildapc. I felt the rush of mixing and matching parts, increasing and decreasing budgets, and reading over benchmark charts. The research is the most riveting part of this hobby!
I've rambled on, but thanks for reading, if you did! Now, I'm going to go fire up Global Offensive and relearn how to navigate de_dust. Thanks so much /r/buildapc! | I grew up building PCs. On major life events, I build gaming rigs. This is my latest build.
PS - Help me name this thing. | [
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This is going to be a bit long, so I apologize in advance. I am a 28F, struggling with going NC.
In 2008, I moved to a town 1300+ miles away from my Nmom. I visited for a week in 2009 and was miserable the entire time I was there. She was overprotective, constantly checked up on me when I was with friends, waited up for me to come home, lectured me about being safe and coming home at a decent time. All this, despite the fact that I was 21 at the time. She came to visit me in 2010 and spent the entire week judging my friends, cleaning my apartment (after I had spent the previous few days scrubbing every inch for her), telling me how fat I was and constantly telling my (then) boyfriend to not let me walk all over him. She would send me "care packages" full of Weight Watchers magazines, dietary supplement articles and healthy eating cookbooks. She would make me feel bad for not visiting enough or calling enough all the time. She would complain about not having any money and then send me $50-$100 for my birthday/Christmas even after I asked her not to. Then she would lay the guilt trip on of how she gives me everything she can and goes without because she cares about me. Over the years, I distanced myself from her while still maintaining a semi-regular amount of contact (1-2 half-hour calls a month). Over a year and a half ago, the boy I moved here for and I broke up. We had been dating for 8 years and had both stopped trying/became roommates more than anything else. When I told my mom about the breakup, she asked me what I did wrong. She told me to apologize and get him back. She blamed the entire thing on me. Then she got mad because I wasn't going to move back in with her. Instead, I chose to stay in this state and find a roommate. She told me horror stories of how my future-roommate might poison my food or set up cameras in the bathroom; she warned me that because we worked for the same company, he was going to get me fired. She requested a photo of my roommate and his name. I obliged. She accused him of being in the state she lives in, swore up and down that she saw him that day; he'd never left the state in the entire time we had been living together. She begged me several times to get back together with my ex, even going so far as to call him and tell him that I was sorry for breaking it off and that he should take me back.
Fast forward to this past April: I had been dating a really great guy for almost a year, moved in with him after my lease was up with my roommate. I was planning a trip back home so that my mom would stop complaining about how she wants me to come visit. I wasn't really enthused about going home but I found a cheap flight and booked it. My boyfriend and our roommates found a super cheap flight to Chicago the week before my trip home so we all decided to go. I had so much fun and got on my flight back 'home' with a positive attitude. For once, I was looking forward to seeing my mom. This feeling lasted for about 30 minutes after seeing her. As soon as she saw me, she hugged me and then started ranting about my tattoos. She told me that I had gained weight and needed to go to the gym more often. She was upset I had cut my hair. She spent the entire week that I was visiting alternating between gossiping about family members and making me feel like crap about myself. She told me on more than one occasion "you don't love me", "I don't know why I even bothered to have kids" and "you and your brother don't ever want to help me when all I have done my whole life is help you". I spent every night that week locked in my room, crying myself to sleep. I talked to my boyfriend as much as I could to help remind me that I would be home soon and away from her. The night before my flight, we got into a huge argument where she denied everything she said to me that week and told me "I'm not the crazy one. You and your brother need to go to the doctor, not me." I left feeling defeated the next day.
Over the course of the next 5 weeks, I fell into a deep hole of depression and anxiety. It got so bad that I barely left my room for an entire week and cried all the time. I was having panic attacks almost daily and didn't even talk to my roommates when I passed them in the halls. My boyfriend helped me find a therapist and a PMHNP to try and sort out what was going on. I found this subreddit a few months ago and immediately emailed my brother a bunch of links, asking him if he agreed that our mother fit the description. He agreed wholeheartedly. I've spent the last few months re-reading old journals and crying for all the things I forgot about having to deal with at home. My therapist has been helping me to control myself when speaking to my Nmom so as not to give her the reaction she wants. I have been limiting contact to once every 4-6 weeks. I feel amazing when I don't talk to her. I even forget that she exists if I go long enough without talking to her. My therapist encourages me that that's a big step and that I am heading in the right direction with my progress.
And then there was this weekend: I ignored a few calls from her yesterday but answered her call today. She started off being nice but the conversation quickly took a turn. She asked me how my ex was doing and I thanked her for asking about my current boyfriend's wellbeing. She quickly retorted that she doesn't know him and can only hope that he is a good person because 'a good mother can only hope the best for her children'. She told me that I clearly don't care if she is alive or dead because I never call. I told her that it is hard for me to call her when everytime I do, I end up feeling hurt and upset. She told me that I make myself upset and all she is doing is caring about her daughter. Eventually, she said something along the lines of "would you rather I call you every once in a while or you just call me when you feel like you have the time to care about me?" I wanted so badly to say "I'd rather not speak to you ever again and feel good about myself" but I instantly felt guilty for not wanting to call my mom.
My boyfriend says that she should be the one feeling badly because her daughter doesn't want to speak to her but instead she turns it around on me so that I feel guilty. I already know that if I go NC, I will lose most of my family (besides my brother and maybe a cousin) because she will tell them how terrible her daughter is and how I don't care about her. I am mostly okay with losing them, though, because they don't make an effort to keep in touch with me anyway. | how do I get past feeling guilty and just go NC? Should I write a letter? I want so badly to feel better about myself and not have this dark cloud that is my Nmom over me anymore. | [
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She would complain about not having any money and then send me $50-$100 for my birthday/Christmas even after I asked her not to. Then she would lay the guilt trip on of how she gives me everything she can and goes without because she cares about me. Over the years, I distanced myself from her while still maintaining a semi-regular amount of contact (1-2 half-hour calls a month). Over a year and a half ago, the boy I moved here for and I broke up. We had been dating for 8 years and had both stopped trying/became roommates more than anything else. When I told my mom about the breakup, she asked me what I did wrong. She told me to apologize and get him back. She blamed the entire thing on me. Then she got mad because I wasn't going to move back in with her. Instead, I chose to stay in this state and find a roommate. She told me horror stories of how my future-roommate might poison my food or set up cameras in the bathroom; she warned me that because we worked for the same company, he was going to get me fired. She requested a photo of my roommate and his name. I obliged. She accused him of being in the state she lives in, swore up and down that she saw him that day; he'd never left the state in the entire time we had been living together. She begged me several times to get back together with my ex, even going so far as to call him and tell him that I was sorry for breaking it off and that he should take me back. \n Fast forward to this past April: I had been dating a really great guy for almost a year, moved in with him after my lease was up with my roommate. I was planning a trip back home so that my mom would stop complaining about how she wants me to come visit. I wasn't really enthused about going home but I found a cheap flight and booked it. My boyfriend and our roommates found a super cheap flight to Chicago the week before my trip home so we all decided to go. I had so much fun and got on my flight back 'home' with a positive attitude. For once, I was looking forward to seeing my mom. This feeling lasted for about 30 minutes after seeing her. As soon as she saw me, she hugged me and then started ranting about my tattoos. She told me that I had gained weight and needed to go to the gym more often. She was upset I had cut my hair. She spent the entire week that I was visiting alternating between gossiping about family members and making me feel like crap about myself. She told me on more than one occasion \"you don't love me\", \"I don't know why I even bothered to have kids\" and \"you and your brother don't ever want to help me when all I have done my whole life is help you\". I spent every night that week locked in my room, crying myself to sleep. I talked to my boyfriend as much as I could to help remind me that I would be home soon and away from her. The night before my flight, we got into a huge argument where she denied everything she said to me that week and told me \"I'm not the crazy one. You and your brother need to go to the doctor, not me.\" I left feeling defeated the next day. \n Over the course of the next 5 weeks, I fell into a deep hole of depression and anxiety. It got so bad that I barely left my room for an entire week and cried all the time. I was having panic attacks almost daily and didn't even talk to my roommates when I passed them in the halls. My boyfriend helped me find a therapist and a PMHNP to try and sort out what was going on. I found this subreddit a few months ago and immediately emailed my brother a bunch of links, asking him if he agreed that our mother fit the description. He agreed wholeheartedly. I've spent the last few months re-reading old journals and crying for all the things I forgot about having to deal with at home. My therapist has been helping me to control myself when speaking to my Nmom so as not to give her the reaction she wants. I have been limiting contact to once every 4-6 weeks. I feel amazing when I don't talk to her. I even forget that she exists if I go long enough without talking to her. My therapist encourages me that that's a big step and that I am heading in the right direction with my progress. \n And then there was this weekend: I ignored a few calls from her yesterday but answered her call today. She started off being nice but the conversation quickly took a turn. She asked me how my ex was doing and I thanked her for asking about my current boyfriend's wellbeing. She quickly retorted that she doesn't know him and can only hope that he is a good person because 'a good mother can only hope the best for her children'. She told me that I clearly don't care if she is alive or dead because I never call. I told her that it is hard for me to call her when everytime I do, I end up feeling hurt and upset. She told me that I make myself upset and all she is doing is caring about her daughter. Eventually, she said something along the lines of \"would you rather I call you every once in a while or you just call me when you feel like you have the time to care about me?\" I wanted so badly to say \"I'd rather not speak to you ever again and feel good about myself\" but I instantly felt guilty for not wanting to call my mom. \n My boyfriend says that she should be the one feeling badly because her daughter doesn't want to speak to her but instead she turns it around on me so that I feel guilty. I already know that if I go NC, I will lose most of my family (besides my brother and maybe a cousin) because she will tell them how terrible her daughter is and how I don't care about her. I am mostly okay with losing them, though, because they don't make an effort to keep in touch with me anyway.",
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I believe it ALWAYS makes it better. But no story is better than a fake one.
My biggest problem with stories in the game industry is that games are frequently hailed as having a great story, but if you put it into a movie, it would be considered pretty awful by most standards. Now this isn't always true. For example, Bioshock, actually has a very simple plot. However, it's story is fantastically done because it uses the atmosphere to tell the story through the gameplay. Same with games like Half Life 2.
On the other hand, there are games like Assassins Creed 2 which reviewers said had great writing. There was hardly any development of anything outside of the beginning and end of the game.
Another humongous issue with video game characters is that they are barely characters. The best stories are those with character development, and that almost never happens in games. I feel the best way to show this is to give an example of a game that does the opposite. GTAIV. In it Niko goes from just trying to make it in America with his cousin Roman, to having to assess his values and do work for hire. Then comes the morality of revenge. Even with the "moral choices" in the game, there is always a new development of his character. That's why the game scored so highly in reviews (#1 on metacritic, but a 7.5-7.9 for user reviews), even with its less satisfying gameplay compared to previous entries. Obviously the user reviews show that others don't echo the statement that story matters as much as reviewers do, but it's critical success can't be ignored. For the record, I agree with the reviewers, but both viewpoints are interesting.
Lastly, I might piss some people off with this, but I didn't think the Mass Effect stories were that great. The games are fun as hell, and they do a good job of making me want to go forward. However, at the end of it all, I don't see it being much better than the plot of a basic sci-fi action movie. Also, while the characters take the time to get developed in ME2, these scenes are almost never over a couple of minutes long. I think their characters are way more developed than most games. I would have been very frustrated if I had lost some of them in the final sections of the game. Once again, the plot seems pretty standard otherwise. | Story is good, and can be greatly enhanced by atmosphere. However, very few games actually have a complex plot. Real shame considering how much time they take to play. | [
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Hello! Here's my view of it, expressed in better words than I can manage myself:
>I have been asked to tell you what Christians believe, and I am going
to begin by telling you one thing that Christians do not need to believe. If
you are a Christian you do not have to believe that all the other religions
are simply wrong all through. If you are an atheist you do have to believe
that the main point in all the religions of the whole world is simply one
huge mistake. If you are a Christian, you are free to think that all these
religions, even the queerest ones, contain at least some hint of the truth.
When I was an atheist I had to try to persuade myself that most of the human
race have always been wrong about the question that mattered to them most;
when I became a Christian I was able to take a more liberal view. But, of
course, being a Christian does mean thinking that where Christianity differs
from other religions, Christianity is right and they are wrong. As in
arithmetic-there is only one right answer to a sum, and all other answers
are wrong: but some of the wrong answers are much nearer being right than
others. (source: [C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity, What Christians Believe, Rival Conceptions of God](
The essay continues after that, in the same vein as what you were asking. =) | Every other religion, including atheism...no, especially atheism, is false. It's like asking how many stars do you think there are in the universe. If you name any positive number, it's closer to the answer than "none". | [
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The "BF" and I have been dating for about 6 months. I use quotes because he stated pretty quickly into things that he was not ready for a true relationship, meaning we aren't necessarily bf/gf. He calls us an item, he asks that I do not see other people and he won't either. He only sees me once or twice a week.
He is a really wonderful person. As a partner, he is always kind and fair. Sometimes he is very warm and opens up and it feels like a true relationship. Afterwards though, he seems to force himself to be cold or distant. He has mentioned that he understands his actions must be confusing to me, but that he explained where he was at early on. He says he is enjoying getting to know me better. We are sexually active. I have told him I love him, he doesn't love me yet (that's okay).
Now, with all that backstory out of the way, here is my question: I have a friend [M/38] who is pursuing me strongly. He is a very good friend of mine, and is not crossing any of my boundaries... but he does things like post comments on my Facebook, suggesting we are very close, seemingly purposefully for my guy to see. My BF (just gonna call him that) has mentioned it on several occasions, just lightly or in passing ("Oh, I saw M/38 posted x-y-z on your wall. He sure likes you.").
Anyway, do I tell my guy friend to quit with his flirtations/overly friendly/familiar comments? Or is all fair until the BF takes ownership of this thing? For further backstory, my friend and I have never slept together, though we have had flirtations (kissed, spent considerable time together in the past, before the BF and I were established). BF knows all this. | My reluctant "BF" won't call me his GF, but he is a pretty great guy I am willing to wait for. My best guy friend is strongly into me and making it evident to the "BF". Do I tell my friend to back off or is all fair until commitment?
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I made it to level 23 on my Mystic during the open beta weekend so here are my thoughts.
The first 20 levels are TERRIBLE. I don't understand why the "training wheel' period is so long but it's awful. At levels 6-20, every single combat and I mean every one, consisted of the following actions: Bolt the biggest creep, smite the group, then wave, bolt big creep twice, wave again, bolt and smite. Everything is now dead, move on to next group.
I kept on despite the numb-numbing grind because everyone kept saying "get to 20 first", and I wanted to at least give it a chance. So, when I encountered my first basilisk I was DESTROYED. The huge training wheel grind did absolutely nothing to prepare me for this. It was a breath of fresh air to actually have some challenge.
After about 35 minutes of trial and error and doing things like actually putting my thrall on my hotbar I figured it out and managed to take down a basilisk. So now I'm thinking "ok, this could be cool", but it was mostly hard in that it just took so damn long for me to kill so I'm not entirely convinced. (at least 20 of those minutes were killing a single basilisk)
So then I join a group for my first dungeon run, Bastion. Once again I am forced to change my hotbar to accommodate a new challenge and this time for playing with others. Unlike the entire game previous, I'm basically not attacking at all in here. I'm full time keeping my party healed and using my curse as my only damage source. The bulk of the dungeon was pretty easy but at least some teamwork was involved.
There were a couple minor boss fights and then the BAM at the end. This was by far the most entertaining part of the game so far. Scrambling to keep everyone healed, dropping emergency healing orbs all over and so on. I'll be honest it was quite fun.
So yeah, the game does get better but I didn't end up buying it and I'll tell you why. After doing that dungeon a few times I moved on, and right away it was back to the bolt,smite,wave,bolt,bolt,wave,bolt,smite combats that dominated the first 20 levels. I couldn't handle it. | BAM (Big Ass Monsters) are great fun, I quite enjoyed them. The rest of the game near put me to sleep. | [
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After nine years we're calling it quits. I support her almost completely while she takes care of the home and attempts to nurture a failing business.
We've never really been stable. Arguing monthly, with major blow outs every three months or so. Neither of us are perfect, not by a long shot.
she's been battling depression since we met. Over the past year it has gotten worse, refuses medication and treatment. I've tried talking to her, but it always ends in a fight. Finally, I've had enough. I'm not going down with Ship.
My question is, how long should i continue to support her after i move out? All of the bills (cell phones, internet, electric, etc), as well as the house (month to month lease) are in my name.
I don't want to be a compete prick, but i cannot support two households. I'll be living in my van down by the river (quite literally) until i am completely free of her financially. | long term relationship ends, how long do i support her after? | [
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I discovered last weekend that my appleid had been compromised. I had two charges for $40 from iTunes in my PayPal for an allowance to some .cn email address.
I immediately changed all my PayPal, e-mail, and apple passwords. Then I contacted iTunes support through the website.
After several days of e-mailing back and forth (one response per day) and sending them two screen shots from iTunes with the order numbers there, they cannot find the orders in their system even with the screenshots, copies of the iTunes e-mail receipts and the PayPal e-mails. On PayPal’s end I clearly have two transactions against my balance. I have started at this point the dispute process with PayPal, I pay all my bills through them so I have the "premier" account which I hope helps my case as I do not want to be out $80.
I have (had) a jailbroken iPhone 4, and that is the only way I can figure out that my account was compromised I have since done a full restore and not rejailbroken it. My windows 7 desktop comes up clean with every scan (MSE, Malware bytes, Hijack this.)
My real question I guess is two fold, how can apple not be able to find the orders for these two $40 allowances when they still show up in iTunes under my account, in e-mails from apple, and in PayPal?
Also, besides the slow, inefficient e-mail support I have been dealing with is there any other way to contact Apple in regards to this?
I'm waiting to hear from PayPal as to their ruling before I possibly approach my bank, (I have my checking linked to my PayPal for bills; I know I'm an idiot.)
Thanks for any help you can provide,
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My mother is single and divorced since i was around 3, father was an alcoholic who treated her badly but she moved away with me and her parents+sister but now i live only with her.
Ever since i was little i never spoke to my mother about anything other than school, bully stuff etc only with my friends.Whenever i speak to her about anything or ask about her opinion she starts yelling even tho i ask her to respond in a civilized way, she fixes it for a day and then does it again.She does not share things with me too only when she is mad at her sister or mother and she keeps analyzing stuff for hours.
I can't even give examples of the talks we have because we don't talk that much but 95% ends in her getting mad and yelling, she says her point and does not accept anything else.
It sucks when i hear about people having great relationship with their mother and are able to speak about anything and when i am at home or at a restaurant i have to filter what i say to her because her opinion will be negative or she will get mad.
I also struggle with an addiction(it does not cost me money or anything etc don't think about ill manage) and no way i'm comfortable talking with her on that topic because she won't understand me, wont listen to the ways she can support me or recover but i have with friends(- the recovery part).I never seen her anything more than a person who lives with me, i do love her but i don't want to talk to her because every talk ends in negativity.
So how do i make her not yell at me and accept my point of view and receive support/normal opinion and discussion about anything like i do with my friends but better? | Mother yells at me every time we talk about random stuff, does not want to listen to my opinion, how do i change her? | [
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MTG has much, much greater depth. There's no contesting that fact. Due to the smaller deck sizes of Hearthstone and lower number of cards overall, on top of the very simple nature of most cards, the game is really shallow in comparison. Hearthstone is, however much more accessable and user friendly. With the brand name ''Blizzard'' stamped onto the back of it, Hearthstone is a multitude of times more popular than Magic. In turn this means that many more people actively watch streams of the game and the optimal deck layouts are much easier to pick up on for the average playerbase. In Magic, larger decks are also less rigid and the fluidity of them allows for more innovation.
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If your girlfriend thinks you are in a monogamous relationship then cheating to fulfill a fantasy would make you an asshole.
If you don't respect her enough to talk about it with her and make a decision with her then you need to break up.
Why on earth would you treat someone like that, to not even care? Do you have no dignity.
What if she is okay with an open relationship, swinging, etc? What if that conversation leads to a whole New fulfilling sex life? You'd rather not saying anything, risk hurting someone you "love" (but would not care if you broke up over it) and give her potential trust issues/baggage down the line.
I'm sorry but I read through the comments and your post and so far there is no saving grace to your character. | fantasy=ok, actually cheating=not ok, you should talk to your gf=yes, regardless you should break up with your girlfriend=yes, what do you care anyway, your depressed right... =have a little respect and dignity for Pete's sake!
If I'm wrong about you.. I'm wrong. It's the internet and I can't read how you think it or what you are feeling. This is just how you came off. | [
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My wife did the post a bit ago with the soul eater boss fight not too long ago and she is thinking up starting a business where she will make some cool stuff for the table top gaming community and really help fill what we see as a need for the market. I don't want to say too much about it cause I don't want to give away what it is just yet.
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My friends English teacher used to have a Kermit the Frog stuffed animal in her classroom. One day, some seniors took it as a joke. It was missing for around 2 weeks. They put it into a gym bag, and were planning on returning it to her, but one of the kids accidently left it in the parking lot. Someone called the cops, and they came and freaked out and called the bomb squad, who came and was like "lol, wat? That's kermit." They got school off because of Kermit the Frog. | Kermit the frog was mistaken for a bomb. | [
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Net decking is fine IMO ....in fact I find it efficient and great especially when I wanna find more efficient ways to play the game or am new to the deck and want to learn the deck mechanics......of course it would be great if we saw some variety in side decks as well as a few techs...but I feel u on the dicks part...when I start play testing on DN 1 in erry few games there are always some cocky net deckers who trashtalk when u lose or get really salty when you win... | Netdecking is fine....net decking while being toxic...not so much | [
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This phone format is very frustrating so I'll try to make this as concise as possible. Thank you in advance Reddit for your advice.
My wife Lena has always wanted to be a mother more than anything in the world. She's incredibly loving and patient and kind. She should've been a kindergarten teacher. I like kids and am madly in love with Lena so I was on board.
When we discovered Lena was pregnant, she was obviously over he moon. Unfortunately it was an unexpectedly exhausting and painful pregnancy but her optimism didn't waver. Our son Leo is now 6 years old and was/is what you'd call a difficult child. He never slept through the night. Screamed constantly. Prone to tantrums, loud, messy, defiant, and with a never ending supply of energy. I adore Leo and we have a lot of fun but he is still extremely draining.
My wife has a little sister Audrey. Audrey has never had the slightest interest in kids which is why everyone was shocked when her and her boyfriend accidentally got pregnant and decided to keep the baby. Audrey gave birth to a little girl Clara. Clara is 4 years old and a dream child. Looks like a doll, loves ALL people, multilingual, sweet, overly polite and helpful. For Clara, "acting out" means huddling in a ball and silently crying until someone hugs it all better.
Everyone is in love with this kid and eager to spend time with her. My wife's parents provide free daycare and her mother constantly posts on Facebook and family emails about their activities together. This kills my wife as her parents are hesitant to take Leo for even an afternoon.
Last week seemed the be the final straw. Lena came home defeated and in tears. Her cousin is taking Clara to Florida for a couple of weeks on their family vacation so Audrey and her boyfriend can take a spontaneous European trip. My wife and I haven't even had a weekend to ourselves since Leo was born because it's impossible to take him anywhere or leave him with anyone else.
Lena admitted she is filled with terrible and ugly feelings towards her entire family at the moment. They all fight over each other to spend time with Clara but no one offers any support to us when we're the ones who are really struggling. Lena has pretty much been ignoring Leo and me for the past few days. She goes straight to bed as soon as she gets home from work. I feel like she's cracked and I'm really worried for her. She used to be so incredibly close with her family and since the kids arrived she feels abandoned and isolated. What can I do? | my wife is jealous and resentful and hurt by the attention that her niece gets | [
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With the new engine, it will be reworked with a newer Directx version in the Renderer such as Dx11 or 12 (which one has not been decided yet, but Dx12 would definitely be awesome for AMD users that are not me.) This will allow more of the load to go onto the GPU, which yours seems capable (honestly, I don't know my GPUs very well) from the 2GB DDR3. Also, I believe I heard hyperthreading will be supported on the enfusion engine, and your CPU can do this, so that means it will essentially be running on four CPU cores and a moderate GPU instead of just one CPU core. | When the game is finished with more graphical options it will run better on your computer than it would now. | [
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If your school class is only 2 hours a day, you are not in full-time school.
This is not true, at least not in Canada (and I assume probably the U.S).
A full time student is based on how many credits worth of courses you are taking in one semester. Typically, 1.5 credits (3 courses) is enough to be considered a full time student.
The average (here at least) course is about 2.5 hours of classes a week, so that's 7.5 hours of classes a week for a full-time student. Which is about 1.5 hours of class a day if you don't take weekend classes. | You can take 1.5 hours of classes a day and still be a full time student.
>Full-time schooling implies it's what you do every weekday.
No, it doesn't. A full-time student is someone who is classified as a full time student by their respective college/university. | [
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EDIIT:
Age:17
Sex:Male
Height:5'6
Weight:110 Pounds
Race:White
Duration of complaint:1 hour ago
Location (Geographic and on body):PA, Mouth
Any existing relevant medical issues (if any):nope
Current medications (if any):nope
Hello so for the past few days i have had a canker sore.
Finally today I felt like enough was enough. I started googling how to get rid of canker sores. Originally I had gotten an idea to use TUMS directly on it. Then i figured out I could pop the canker sore and gain immediate relief. So I went for that method.
P.S. before using that method I used salt. This could be the reason of my question.
ALOT of salt to be honest. almost a spoonful.
So anyway, I ended up reading about scratching it off with a tooth brush, Q-tip, or burning it off. I went with the burning it off method with Vinegar. So I dipped a Q-tip in the vinegar and sat it on my Canker Sore. I saw blood coming from the edges now, I saw this was good as it helps heal faster or something.
So I end up eventually scraping at it and brown stuff comes out, I assume I popped the canker sore. So now I am stuck in a predicament where my gums are inflamed on the right side of my bottom part of my mouth.
Here are images of what it looks like
I know the rules of reddit are seeking proffesional help in real life through professional services but I am 17. I will probably cause a scare among my parents and what not.
So I would like to know if I should worry or not?
Will it go down in a day or 2? Or did I totally just screw up my mouth? | I tried to pop a canker sore and in the proccess inflamed my gums and not sure what to do. | [
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So me and my girlfriend made the stupid mistake of having unprotected sex not one, not two, but three times in a matter of 2-3 weeks. I know it was stupid, and there is no excuse. She informed me last night that she is 4 days late. My heart sank and I had a panic attack for the first time in my life. She told me that she is irregular from time to time and it just might be that but I don't know. We both have ultra religious parents who will disown us if they found out so we both agreed that abortion would be the best course of action if she is pregnant. The problem is I don't have any money, I recently graduated high school and just last week payed for my first semester of college. If we can't get an abortion our lives are basically over and, I... I just don't know what to do...at the moment I have about $150 to my name and I can have up to $300 more by next week but I have no clue how to go about all this. | pregnancy scare, and I don't know what to do.
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I feel like airlines do as much as they possibly can to not compensate you when they fuck up. Once, I had just checked out of my hotel and was waiting for the shuttle to the airport when I got a call from United telling me that my flight, which was in an hour and a half, was cancelled due to "weather". It was lightly sprinkling in both the city I was in and the city I was going to, with equally mild weather in between. I was told that all the other flights going to my destination that day were full (this was likely not true, though the agent repeated it every time I asked), and that they had bumped me to the earliest flight the next day at 7 AM. They refused to compensate me or put me in a hotel room for the night, because apparently if the weather causes a cancellation they don't have to do anything for you, though I seriously doubted that weather was actually the problem. I ended up having to crash with my parents an hour away, and then get up at the asscrack of dawn to get to the airport in time for my 7 AM flight the next day. Oh, and this was on Valentine's day, and my boyfriend had been planning on making me a fancy dinner when I got home that night. And I had a midterm two days after that. It was a clusterfuck. | United can go suck a fuck. | [
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As someone with ADHD (which is the current preferred abbreviation) I think it's a bit screwed up. He/she hasn't had a chance to develop the ability to focus yet. Now, I'm not saying it's not possible, I'm just saying it's likely more a result of environment than actual presentation of the neurobiological condition at that age.
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I have to admit I'm guilty of this. When it's a large group of people and the subject wades off to some stupid gossip I will usually take out my phone and check my mail. It's usually deleting shit that I get but there are some conversations that I can't take.
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The United States is also much larger than pretty much every other country. Yes there is an obesity problem, but to say that people don't care about physical fitness or attractiveness is insane. The comments he made about the government "needing" to restrict the sale of large sodas sounds like someone who is not a citizen would say.
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Alright so check it. Middle of winter, Afghanistan. I'm chilling in my b-hut, watching forgetting Sarah Marshall, followed by one of Jeff Dunham's stand up.
As I'm watching these shows, I'm eating hot cheetoes. And I mean, the damn family size bag. I end up eating the entire thing during the length of those two flicks.
Wake up at 3am to get ready for a mission. I gotta poo, and this is the time to do it. So I put on some clothes, just like 2 layers and head out into the freezing cold to get to the porta-john.
I get inside the bathroom, close the door behind me and try to take a seat. Fuck that. Way too cold. I'm going to have to hover this. So I steady myself and begin to let go.
What followed is a time I'll never forget...
I shit straight hot cheetoes. I thought I was shitting my insides. It burned so bad, that in this -15 degree weather I'm sweating bullets. I have my hands pressed against the side of the porta-john, I have tears running down my eyes, and I think I'm dying.
I look down afterwards and see nothing but a hot red pile of poo. The blood drains from my face... It took another 5 minutes for me to realize it was the hot cheetoes.
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I currently have three bettas right now. One in a 5g, one in a 3.5g, and one that was in a 10g community tank but is now in a hospital tank. I've never had a problem with the 3.5g or the 5g but I've only ever had problems with the 10g. I was having a huge water quality issue and BBA issue. I cleared that up with a large water change, some activated carbon, and new filter media. Turns out I reset the nitrogen cycle. I cut out some of the old filter media and put it in with the new media, and I also left the substrate, tank decor and plants in so I have absolutely no idea how I restarted a nitrogen cycle. I had done this same pattern with this tank twice before and never had a problem.
I didn't realize I had reset the nitrogen cycle until I woke up a few days ago and noticed that the fish looked a little lethargic. I tested the water and ammonia was at 4ppm! It had been 0 just the day before. I screamed, did a huge water change, and brought it back down to 0. Later that night I tested and there were nitrites in the water. It was dreadful. I had a breakdown and decided to stick to small betta only tanks from then on.
Today I tore the tank down and gave the other tank inhabitants to an incredibly gracious friend. I just have the betta left. I bought him a 5g tank of his own that I have begun to cycle using some media from one of my very established betta tanks. He has a large red sore on him though. I'm thinking it may be nitrite poisoning. He's in pristine water right now with aquarium salt. I'm willing to buy him any medicine he needs.
I feel like the worst person in the world because of how I let the tank get. I really tried my hardest but for some reason that 10g was just always working against me. Luckily all of the fish have been rehomed and I have faith that my little betta will pull through!
[Here's a photo of the red spot on him.]( It's slightly raised off his scales. It doesn't look like dropsy, I've had one with that before. Also please note that my bettas don't usually look like they live in concentration camp aquariums, this is just his hospital tank. | betta probably has nitrite poisoning or ammonia burns, how do I fix him? | [
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So this happened last week.
I am a college Junior and I am in a business communications course which is probably the most time consuming class I've taken in college.
Anyways... The way this course is designed is your group gets a real live client (a local organization) and you do some sort of consulting for them. You always get a Project Manager (usually a TA) who you report everything you do to, including a prescreen of the final presentation to our client -- which is where the fuck up happens.
Gearing up for our final presentation, our project manager (who we will call Gabe for the rest of this story) asked us to do the presentation for him before we present to the client. We all have extremely busy schedules, so the only time and place that worked for Gabe and the team was 9pm in one of the reservable group rooms at the library. Gabe had requested that we all show up in business professional attire (suit + tie) to this practice presentation, which we were all very unhappy about.
The team meets up at the library to go over the material and continue working before presenting to Gabe around 5, so of course none of us show up in a suit 4 hours ahead of time. Come 8:45pm I decide its time to go change in the bathroom before Gabe gets there. After an extremely sweaty and unpleasant 8 or so minutes getting dressed, I am now in my suit but very unhappy that I'm in it at 9pm at the library. It's only 8:53 so I figure I have some time to express my unhappiness to my team before Gabe gets there, so I walk into the room and yell "F**K GABE" 3 times, each with more frustration.
After complete silence I look up and Gabe is sitting in the room with my entire team which had neglected to tell me that he had arrived early... Needless to say it was the most awkward presentation of my life and Gabe wasn't to happy even after I explained it was all about the suit. | I didn't scan the room and let everyone know that my project manager is an asshole (including him) | [
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Think about it this way: You get 4 random people as teammates and 5 as enemies. If you assume that you are a better player than your MMR indicates, your team is guaranteed 1 good player, and only draws 4 more random people. Meanwhile the enemy team draws 5. So in the long run, more "bad players" will occur in the enemy team. If you keep loosing over a long period of time, you are either extremely extremely extremely unlucky, or - more likely - you are not as good as you think you are.
On a side note though : Terrible teammates they screw you over royally do happen, there is no denying that. But if you are really better than your MMR indicates, it will rise over time (not necessarily after 5-10 games, but after 20, 50 or maybe 100 games it will certainly).
Remember: Even if you are indeed better than your MMR, you can't expect to win every game. There are just too many factors including bad hero choices, bad hero composition, bad item choices, bad communication and even just bad luck, which will unexpectedly and inevitable loose you games, especially at low MMR levels where not everyone (including you) knows the correct responses to enemy draft/actions etc..
Also, what most people forget: Blaming your teammates is always easy. But be honest - how many games did your team loose because you fucked up? How many times did you make a horrible hero choice? How many times did you make a bad judgement call and ended up feeding?
These questions are important, because after all, even if your nagging and flaming would help your teammates in the long run, you will probably never be in the same team with them again. Even if, the situation will be extremely different. But harsh critique does not help as much as people sometimes think - the opposite is more likely: It stresses people out and distracts them. However, questioning your own decisions will help you for sure. | Focus on your own performance. It's the only thing you can control. | [
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Here's what Prof. Matthew Blaze has to say about cell technology:
Professor Matthew Blaze,68 say the rapid growth of cellular popularity may
significantly improve the accuracy of cell tower data.69 As technology
advances, the reliability of the towers has become greater.70 New technology
even allows towers to pinpoint a cellular phone’s longitude and latitude by
“correlating the precise time and angle at which a given device’s signal arrives
at multiple sector base stations.”71 Beyond these technological advances, as
cellular companies continue to build towers to meet rising demand, the towers
continue to cover smaller and smaller areas, thus increasing the accuracy of the
data.72 In fact, some towers are now designed simply to cover a few levels of
one building, and, therefore, it would be possible to pinpoint not only the
general location but also the specific floor where from which the call was
made.73 It is true the trend towards more advanced and smaller towers has
grown in urban areas while the more rural areas remain largely the same with
large towers covering as much area as possible.74 However, almost 80 percent
of the U.S. population lives in an urban area,75 and crime often localizes in
urban areas.76 Consequently, quite often “it is no longer valid to assume that
the cell [tower] will give only an approximate indication of a user’s
location.”77 | Kevin Urick, a prosecutor, has the exact opposite opinion of reliability of cell tower evidence in 1999 as Matthew Blaze, a specialist in computer security, cryptograph, network
communications, and surveillance technology.
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Sometimes I think its also more likely to attract trolls because of its atmosphere and it's usage of 'power word' memes. You know, the kind that has the ability to shut down conversation almost instantly, like "umad?", " | butthurt/beardhurt" and so on.
You'll notice that someone srs commentors(like maybe robotanna) tend to type like that, though not all of them are trolls. | [
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Well, okay.
This happened when I was about 12/13 years old. I used to stay up to about 12 o'clock each night reading. By this time at night, the rest of my family is asleep, and have been for a few hours. Anyway, one night after I had just finished reading, I turned my bedside lamp off and went to go to sleep. After about 5 minutes of struggling to hold it in, I had to take a piss, so I turn my lamp back on and go to the toilet. When I return to my bedroom, I'm standing beside my bed and there is this long, white feather placed on my pillow. Now, I know none of my family put it there because I would have heard them walk passed the toilet while I was in there (my room is seperate from all the other rooms being the only other bedroom on the opposite side of the house). I had absolutely no idea how it got there or where it even came from, and it freaked me the fuck out. To this day, it still gives me chills when I think about it. | I left my room at night to go to the toilet, come back and there is a white feather on my pillow. | [
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Prepare yourself, long story awaits. Not as thrilling as the other posts, but hey, I have a story to tell. Back in 2005 I was snowboarding with my brother and dad at the local mountain resort. My dad handed me a helmet as we were heading out, saying that it was in my best interest to wear one. Fast forward 3 hours and we were about to head in for lunch when my brother thought we might as well get one more run in, we agreed and decided to take a slope that was well known and used. The slope split off into a trail but also continued downwards toward the lift, and we decided to go on the trail. The trail wrapped around and met back up with the slope near the lift. Well for some odd reason the trail has the right of way when going down this side of the mountain. When we exited the trail I was in front of my dad and brother, so I checked if I was going to hit into anyone coming down the slope, I saw someone but nodded it off, we wasn't going fast enough. I was about halfway to the lift when out of no where the man who I thought was far enough away that no harm would be done to me was actually stuck in between my legs (he was skiing) and decides breaking my leg in half would be the easiest way out. After my leg snapped, he pushed me and I landed on my back Dude runs away on one ski and I'm sent to the hospital. When I get there, they x-ray my leg but notice bruising on my neck and back. Doctor comes out and says that if I wasn't wearing a helmet, my neck would've broke and choked me to death. | Wore a helmet that day by chance, saved my life. | [
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My sex life / dating life is nonexistent. The reason to which I'm single goes back to my " family " ( for lack of a better word ). I was raised in a dysfunctional " family " they didn't teach me how to drive or allow me to learn to drive. Not allowed to drive when I was old enough to meant no dating privacy. No dating privacy meant no dating. No dating as a teen meant locking myself into a arrested development in a romantic and sexual way. This was fine by them since they didn't want me to knock someone up as a kid. But now I'm an adult and still no relationship(s) and they want grandchildren. Despite the fact I don't want to be a father ( nor should I be one ) I'd like to have a relationship yet can't help but feel as though it's not " MY " choice but theirs. Is there any way to reclaim my sexuality for myself or is it too late ( a theory I already believe to be true ). | Am I doomed to be single due to my issues ?? | [
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Epilepsy. I started out having petit mal seizures (I only got actual convulsions later in life). Somebody brought me down to the counselor's when I couldn't remember my locker combination, what class I was supposed to be in, what day it was.
I was taken to the hospital, and got diagnosed then. This was 6th grade. It's been about 15 years now. The actual convulsions started in high school; it is something I will have for the rest of my life. Seizure free for a year now, though. :) | Epilepsy | [
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Well, sort of. I was 14 at the time, at Jewish summer camp, so no actual sex occurred, but we messed around for a while (made out and some more, I will get into it later). It starts with one of my female friends talking about how this girl, lets call her Sarah, wants to hook up with me. Sarah's pretty cute, a ginger, but she has this brother, lets call him Robert, who's a huge asshole. Like, the worst of the worst, a self proclaimed ghetto white Jew who got pretty abusive at times too. I prefered to stay away from him, but I thought it would be best if I asked him. Basically, I asked Robert for permission, and he seemed pretty indifferent about it, and with me being a sex crazed horny ass 14 year old, I was all over it. So I did the deed a few times behind a cabin or whatever, and after we hooked up a few times, I fingered her. This was my first time and being the 14 year old that I was, I ran to my cabin and yelled (God, the shame), "Smell my finger, bitches!" waving my pussy soaked finger to my friends. So, word got around, and Robert found out and basically the next day, I was going to the outhouse and he and his friends followed him and beat the shit out of me. It was sort of an unfair fight because I'm small as fuck, and they also turned off the lights and blocked the doors so I was defenseless. In hindsight, I kinda deserve it. Sorry for the block of text, but no | just read this shit. | [
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Ok she's not listening to my advice so I will lay out an abridged version of the situation. Hopefully, you guys can convince her to try to ask out her crush. Also, if you have relevant stories that would be great. I made this a throwaway because I don't want her to see how often I visit gonewild.
My friend and her crush are in their mid twenties.
She has not had a crush since college.
They met in April at school.
He asked her out and she gave him her number.
They went out a few times throughout April/May (both busy with gradschool so dating time was limited. Same university but different programs)
Saw each other 3 times over the summer. Including a fun night dancing one on one.
Then he disappeared -- no contact for a month. His excuse was he was busy in-and-out of town.
After a month he asked her to dinner with him and a friend. (She refused)
Then he told her he wanted to take a walk with her (She refused. Yeah. She acts weird when she likes someone)
Several weeks later he asked her if she ever had time for a dating life (or something along these lines). She replied "no" because she "hates everyone."
My friend is actually very amicable, very pretty, intelligent and despite what you've read, not a social retard. She added this dude to gchat recently and is waiting for him to IM her. Ugh.
My advice: I said just ask him if he wants to go out on a date. (I'm a straight male.) She doesn't want her ego bruised and only wants to do it if she's sure he's going to say yes.
Help her out here Reddit. What should she do? I am going to ninja kick her. | Female friend refuses to ask out male crush because she doesn't want to get rejected. | [
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Okay I am sorry, but tell me if i want to much. Also I am sorry if I rant(I write how I speak word for word). :)
So now that the apology is over it will be easier to go. I am not entirely a noob, I have been working with servers between Debian(Out of memory) and Ubuntu(what I have used mainly) for the past year, in other words I am not scared of console just a little nervous. I have also used Ubuntu before but some time ago (I wont even try to guess the date).
My equipment:
NAS: FreeNAS (I will not be changing this with out atleast one human sacrifice into a volcano and two into a cage of lions)
My old rig: windows 7 (This is what will switch over first to get myself used to it)
i5 2.8 GHZ
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1GB graphics card unknowen
Gaming rig: windows 8
(I will get that info a little latter but it is a slightly modified version of this
Laptop: Windows 8
HP Pavilion: It's red that is all I have for you
So what I want to do is over the course of between 12-24 months is completely switch to linux, but I do still want to play GTAV, WOW, Sims4 (this is where I was talking about to much, but I will have to check wine). So I don't want to go with Ubuntu or the likes do to things like government surveillance and blah(Please no comments), but I have been looking into Debian or Fedora, if there would be better suggestions... By looking on the internet I can't decide between KDE(Does seam like the better one) or Gnome... I really don't mind read a load of documents.
If you need any more info please ask
Thanks,
Complex101 | I am confused
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I am looking for some advice and help on my current situation. I have known Chris (25/M) since about third or fourth grade. We instantly became friends and have been ever since. After high school he joined the military, we were pen pals and had the occasional Skype dates. We never talked about dating but there was always the feelings there that were known just never acknowledged. One of us always seemed to be dating other people so it was never the right timing.
He lives what feels like a million miles away, he is two hours ahead of me. Recently we have really developed deeper feelings. We are both single and have written love letters. We try to Skype at least once a week. I absolutely adore him, we have made a commitment to each other that we are not dating other people but we have not made anything official yet. I have a trip planned this summer to visit for a week. I am so excited and ready to see him, it's been over three years since we have seen each other.
So to my issues....he is very religious and I am not. His faith is amazing and I respect how he is so involved in his religion. I am nervous and I don't know how to talk to him about my lack of religion. He is so wonderful and accepting but I think this is a huge part in a relationship.
I am curious if anyone has had this situation and how you handled it. Was it good or bad? How did you handle it? | Me and potential life partner have different religious views and I am looking for advice how to handle it. | [
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