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I'm spoiled by top shelf mmj in CoS and only go rec when I have to, which lately is more often than not. I've been to Denver stores 3 times, I've been to West Pueblo stores 3 times. I don't want to name the first two stores, but if you look at the West Pueblo Recs on weedmaps.com, you'll immediately be able to tell who I'm talking about. First two were awful, expensive, awful and expensive. Awful. This was in May. Third store was Hashish House which was very recent. Place is alright, you walk in and wait to be greeted, got this half harem half circus tent vibe. Staff was friendly, my bud tender was ex military, yet very alt at the same time. 100% on customer service, big thumbs up. Flowers, they have about 12~ types. I could right away tell only 5~ were worth fucking with, by smell and a close up on their big magnifier. Lots of sticks, or piddly looking buds on sticks were really apparent in the jars. But they do have good stuff that's comparable to top shelf mmj. Godfather OG , Recon, and Purple Voodoo was what I went with, and each was great. He also trimmed off all the sticks before weighing, and weighed each over what I requested. They had some edibles and carts out on display. Did not ask about concentrates. Prices seemed high, but saw shit like $300 for X amount of carts, no idea if that's a good deal or not. They have a very small glass selection. They have usb pens, disposables? some shit I've never heard of before. He explained all this vape pen/dab ball stuff I didn't know about but it didn't look cheap. Based on my previous rec experiences, the prices were alright. 10% cheaper than what I've paid before in WB. I think they have a menu on weedmaps. Hot tip, grab one of their cards off their register counter on the sly, and present it for a 10% discount.
They're getting better?
[ { "content": "I'm spoiled by top shelf mmj in CoS and only go rec when I have to, which lately is more often than not. I've been to Denver stores 3 times, I've been to West Pueblo stores 3 times. I don't want to name the first two stores, but if you look at the West Pueblo Recs on weedmaps.com, you'll immediately be able to tell who I'm talking about. \n First two were awful, expensive, awful and expensive. Awful. This was in May. \n Third store was Hashish House which was very recent. Place is alright, you walk in and wait to be greeted, got this half harem half circus tent vibe. Staff was friendly, my bud tender was ex military, yet very alt at the same time. 100% on customer service, big thumbs up. \n Flowers, they have about 12~ types. I could right away tell only 5~ were worth fucking with, by smell and a close up on their big magnifier. Lots of sticks, or piddly looking buds on sticks were really apparent in the jars. But they do have good stuff that's comparable to top shelf mmj. Godfather OG , Recon, and Purple Voodoo was what I went with, and each was great. He also trimmed off all the sticks before weighing, and weighed each over what I requested. \n They had some edibles and carts out on display. Did not ask about concentrates. Prices seemed high, but saw shit like $300 for X amount of carts, no idea if that's a good deal or not. They have a very small glass selection. They have usb pens, disposables? some shit I've never heard of before. He explained all this vape pen/dab ball stuff I didn't know about but it didn't look cheap. \n Based on my previous rec experiences, the prices were alright. 10% cheaper than what I've paid before in WB. I think they have a menu on weedmaps. Hot tip, grab one of their cards off their register counter on the sly, and present it for a 10% discount.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "They're getting better?", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Seriously- > About a year ago he meets a girl and they begin dating. Months go by and he starts to complain OFTEN. He would talk about how he doesn't trust her, they argue constantly and he wants to break up (which they'd break up a lot and get back together). Being a friend I would guide him, give him advice (which he never used) and say you need someone who brings out your best qualities. After awhile I grew tired of always giving him advice only for him to run back to her. Anyway, fast forward to now...to my knowledge they have been broken up since the summer but they still talk. I know it's hard to move on from an ex, I've been there but whenever id ask about how they're doing he would just say "he's single and he didn't wanna think about it". During this time he began to talk more and more about sex with me. We still maintained our friendship but added another element to the mix which we each mutually agreed to. Anyway, we shared sexual likes/dislikes, fantasies and even planned to have sex. Sometimes talking with him about these things made me feel good but most times I felt bad about myself and used (he would randomly send me nudes that I didn't ask for...a lot). He would say he feels comfy with me. He'd mostly initiate these convos. So this is where things get confusing for me because for 4-6 months he's acted like he's slowly moving on from her and is more and more interested in being FWB w/ me (which we agreed on). I usually settle for less (bad I know) because guys I like don't like me, guys that like me I don't like or they're/I just looking for FWBs. I guess you can say I've given up and take what I can get. Anyway, we agreed to meet up some time in the next few weeks so I asked him again to make sure he was still on board. Well silly me he told me that him and his ex are "talking" again and he doesn't want things to get weird. Initially, I was okay with it because I understand how these things go but it set in and I felt robbed. I blame myself. I blame him and I'm upset that I've done this. I've opened up way too much so part of me feels embarrassed because of how intimate I became with a platonic friend and part of me understands that we only agreed to be FWBs and that he has an ex so nothing is promised. I just want to get insight and hear different viewpoints from anyone that's been in this situation. Should I blame myself for this mess? > >
Best friend-turned FWB led me on only to back track and tell me he's talking to his ex. Are my feelings valid?
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UF puts the visiting band directly in front of one of the visitors' seating areas, which is directly behind their bench. FSU puts the visiting band in one of the end zones and then plays over them so you can't hear them at all. They even played over "We are the Boys of Old Florida" when I went a couple of years ago. It's disrespectful and completely lacks dignity in my opinion. Also, one of their fans kept yelling "Bring out the wheel barrel" when a UF player was injured and on the field for about 5 minutes. I almost got in a fight with this man in front of my entire family. Lastly, FSU completely mismanaged the gates at the beginning of the UF-FSU game in 2010. They only opened three gates so we got stuck in a crowd of 20,000+ people crushing their way into one gate, which took about 45 minutes to enter and was extremely unsafe.
FSU doesn't know how to treat visitors.
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We've been together for over 2 years, and we're both in grade 12 now. It's the big decision, where to go to school. We both want to go to university (specifically MUN in St. John's, Newfoundland), but the course (Computer Science) I want is considered an art down here. I'd be getting a Bachelor of Art, and I know that wouldn't look good on a resume, especially if I want a good job. I'm kind of stuck between going there and going to Western University in Ontario, which is a long distance away from her. Computer Science is considered a science there, so I'd get a Bachelor in Science which would be really helpful for me, career wise. I haven't brought it up to her in any way, this is just my own personal thoughts right now. Should I end it because long distance would never work with me and her, or should I see if she'd like to accompany me and possibly attend the same university as me? Or do I give up my possible career advantages to be with her? I do love her so.
I want to possibly go to a different school than my girlfriend of two years, should I end the relationship to persue my personal goals or give up my goals to be with her?
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I like to think it's because I am polite and cooperative, however, I did add the
So there's that.
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Assuming you can keep levitating above the Earth's crust at a constant height for the duration of the trip, know how to navigate the world without getting lost, die in the process of traveling around the world like Magellan did, and have the will to accomplish such a task, then yes, you could theoretically circumnavigate the world.
Yes, because superpowers.
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Piken Square was horribly molested by SeaFarer's Rest for most of this first week... Our punishment has whipped us into shape though, and we're now dominating our rematch. SFarer's seemed to use the tactic of "NUMBERS, ZERG, GO GO GO!"... Made us use our brains, rather than brawn, as we're such a small server in comparison.
Don't give up! Strategise! If there's nobody taking command, then work out a strategy and take your zerg by the reins! :)
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This is long. Thank you to anyone who reads this. I posted this on the wrong throwaway originally and I really don't want these replies mixed with my gw replies. A little background: My parents met in China. My dad had a decent-paying job for Nortel (you can see where that leads) and met my mom when he was overseas. My dad is white and my mom is Chinese. I was born in USA and have lived in USA my entire life. I don't think I remember a time where my parents were happy together. My dad is amazing, but my mom is severely bipolar. And while she's been diagnosed, she refuses to seek treatment. This is really where the problems start. My dad has begged my mom to see a psychologist, but she won't. My mom is smart and hardworking (she's probably the hardest working person I know), but she can't find a job. She's more depressed than normal these past years due to this. I have always had huge problems with my mom. Ever since I was young I was constantly verbally abused by her. I have gone to doctors a few times and they have always told me to leave because I'm not safe. Here are just a few things my mom does: I'm a college student. I'm studying to be a doctor. That was her idea. Whenever I mention another job she is in no way supportive. Instead she tells me that "being an astronaut is stupid and risky". I'm so fucking lost in my life because my mom has constantly told me "no, you can't do it" to all the things I've ever want to do. I have 0 confidence. And I know I shouldn't believe her, but it fucking gets to you. Going off that, she holds my tuition hostage. She has saved a lot of money for me to go to school (I'm talking like $70,000). No, I'm serious. She won't let me dye my hair, cut my hair, dress a certain way without threatening to take away my tuition. Now these might seem like little things that I can let go, but may I just reiterate the fact SHE'S THREATENING MY TUITION OVER MY HAIR COLOUR. If she catches me crying she tells me to "get the fuck over it, there's worse things in life." Okay, let's get a little more serious. She has never, ever apologized in her life for things she has done wrong. Like I said, she's bipolar. She'll have random bursts of anger at me for little things. Full on screaming matches because I dropped something on the ground. Because I left the computer on that I was about to get back to. And when she calms down, even if she's in the wrong, she will NEVER apologize. Instead, she gets depressed. She begins saying things like "you guys hate me" (because my dad usually defends me) and "you want me to go back to China" and "you want me to die" and "OP wants me dead" and "I'm going to kill myself/leave the country" ex. Just this morning she was telling me I shouldn't even talk about going to space because it's unrealistic. I told her that Jim Carrey said something like "you can fail at things that make you unhappy, so why not do something that makes you happy" (deep I know) and told her to "stop being unsupportive". She started screaming that we never listen to her and that her opinion is useless and locked herself in her room. These threats/fights have left me with severe anxiety. Nights I would go to sleep thinking my mom was going to kill herself and me and my dad because she was so unstable. So, yeah, why haven't I left yet? It's because of my dad [67M]. He is the sweetest person I have ever met. He is the opposite of my mom. Supportive, kind, and never raises his voice at me. Yet, he has suffered the same abuse I have taken from my mom. But he loves her. And you can see there's a huge age gap between my mom and dad (of about 25 years). I have never seen my mom love my dad. I don't think they have sex. She never gives him any love. I always had a feeling she only really loved him for his money, and when he got laid off from Nortel and couldn't find another job other than those that pay min. wage, she really didn't love him anymore. Recently, she's been receiving really inappropriate/creepy messages from male acquaintances. Like "I want to see your sexy legs ;-)" and stuff. Yet, she DENIES these guys are creepy/in to her. She says they're "joking". While my dad and I are completely furious with her to cut all contact with these men, she says "I can handle myself." This is extremely disrespectful to my dad. Instead, she turns it on him and says "You're so jealous." and "You're being disgustingly paranoid and controlling of my life." ?!?!?!?! Anyways, my dad is sick. He's old and sick. And I really, really don't want to leave him with my mom. Because he still wants to help her. He doesn't see that she's insane. But I feel like every week now divorce is threatened and then forgotten about. Or my mom threatens to leave but then doesn't. I'm at the point where I'm begging my parents to divorce so I can just leave with my dad. So yeah. I can't leave my dad, but fuck. I really can't be with my mom anymore. And that said, my mom gives me all of my financial support and I have no money to my name. I wouldn't know what to do at all. I wouldn't know where to go.
My mom is abusive and bipolar and refuses to seek help and is tearing my family apart. I want to leave but I don't want to leave my dad who won't let go of my mom. Also, I'm a broke college student who ain't go no $$$. I feel like deep down I know I really, really need to get out of this situation. I just need people to tell me that I'm... well, right to really, really want to leave.
[ { "content": "This is long. Thank you to anyone who reads this. I posted this on the wrong throwaway originally and I really don't want these replies mixed with my gw replies. \n A little background: My parents met in China. My dad had a decent-paying job for Nortel (you can see where that leads) and met my mom when he was overseas. My dad is white and my mom is Chinese. I was born in USA and have lived in USA my entire life. \n \n I don't think I remember a time where my parents were happy together. My dad is amazing, but my mom is severely bipolar. And while she's been diagnosed, she refuses to seek treatment. This is really where the problems start. \n My dad has begged my mom to see a psychologist, but she won't. My mom is smart and hardworking (she's probably the hardest working person I know), but she can't find a job. She's more depressed than normal these past years due to this. \n I have always had huge problems with my mom. Ever since I was young I was constantly verbally abused by her. I have gone to doctors a few times and they have always told me to leave because I'm not safe. \n Here are just a few things my mom does: \n \n I'm a college student. I'm studying to be a doctor. That was her idea. Whenever I mention another job she is in no way supportive. Instead she tells me that \"being an astronaut is stupid and risky\". I'm so fucking lost in my life because my mom has constantly told me \"no, you can't do it\" to all the things I've ever want to do. I have 0 confidence. And I know I shouldn't believe her, but it fucking gets to you. \n Going off that, she holds my tuition hostage. She has saved a lot of money for me to go to school (I'm talking like $70,000). \n No, I'm serious. She won't let me dye my hair, cut my hair, dress a certain way without threatening to take away my tuition. Now these might seem like little things that I can let go, but may I just reiterate the fact SHE'S THREATENING MY TUITION OVER MY HAIR COLOUR. \n If she catches me crying she tells me to \"get the fuck over it, there's worse things in life.\" \n Okay, let's get a little more serious. She has never, ever apologized in her life for things she has done wrong. Like I said, she's bipolar. She'll have random bursts of anger at me for little things. Full on screaming matches because I dropped something on the ground. Because I left the computer on that I was about to get back to. And when she calms down, even if she's in the wrong, she will NEVER apologize. \n Instead, she gets depressed. She begins saying things like \"you guys hate me\" (because my dad usually defends me) and \"you want me to go back to China\" and \"you want me to die\" and \"OP wants me dead\" and \"I'm going to kill myself/leave the country\" \n ex. Just this morning she was telling me I shouldn't even talk about going to space because it's unrealistic. I told her that Jim Carrey said something like \"you can fail at things that make you unhappy, so why not do something that makes you happy\" (deep I know) and told her to \"stop being unsupportive\". She started screaming that we never listen to her and that her opinion is useless and locked herself in her room. \n These threats/fights have left me with severe anxiety. Nights I would go to sleep thinking my mom was going to kill herself and me and my dad because she was so unstable. \n \n So, yeah, why haven't I left yet? It's because of my dad [67M]. He is the sweetest person I have ever met. He is the opposite of my mom. Supportive, kind, and never raises his voice at me. Yet, he has suffered the same abuse I have taken from my mom. \n But he loves her. And you can see there's a huge age gap between my mom and dad (of about 25 years). I have never seen my mom love my dad. I don't think they have sex. She never gives him any love. I always had a feeling she only really loved him for his money, and when he got laid off from Nortel and couldn't find another job other than those that pay min. wage, she really didn't love him anymore. \n Recently, she's been receiving really inappropriate/creepy messages from male acquaintances. Like \"I want to see your sexy legs ;-)\" and stuff. Yet, she DENIES these guys are creepy/in to her. She says they're \"joking\". While my dad and I are completely furious with her to cut all contact with these men, she says \"I can handle myself.\" This is extremely disrespectful to my dad. Instead, she turns it on him and says \"You're so jealous.\" and \"You're being disgustingly paranoid and controlling of my life.\" ?!?!?!?! \n Anyways, my dad is sick. He's old and sick. And I really, really don't want to leave him with my mom. Because he still wants to help her. He doesn't see that she's insane. But I feel like every week now divorce is threatened and then forgotten about. Or my mom threatens to leave but then doesn't. I'm at the point where I'm begging my parents to divorce so I can just leave with my dad. \n So yeah. I can't leave my dad, but fuck. I really can't be with my mom anymore. And that said, my mom gives me all of my financial support and I have no money to my name. I wouldn't know what to do at all. I wouldn't know where to go.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "My mom is abusive and bipolar and refuses to seek help and is tearing my family apart. I want to leave but I don't want to leave my dad who won't let go of my mom. Also, I'm a broke college student who ain't go no $$$. \n I feel like deep down I know I really, really need to get out of this situation. I just need people to tell me that I'm... well, right to really, really want to leave.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I recently took a job out of state, leaving behind an amazing 2 year relationship with "Mary". Mary stayed behind for her own job, but she was seriously considering the idea of joining me in the new city. We agreed to break up, because of circumstances alone, and she booked a flight to visit 3 months after I arrived, with the subtext that we would both probably still be "single" (in it's loosest sense, i.e. not in a committed or sexual relationship) and would continue our romantic relationship during her visit, which is now one month away. She also told me to tell her if I met someone, so she can cancel her flight. We are still really into each other, but Mary recently conceded that it doesn't seem realistic for her to move anytime soon. That said, she is still visiting in less than a month, and we are both very excited. Mary and I hold onto hope that we will be able to resume our awesome relationship somewhere down the road, even if not right now. Meanwhile, I met a new girl ("Sarah"), went on a couple of dates, and we're to that point where she wants to start having sex, lot's of it, and I really want to oblige. However, I still love Mary and don't want to hurt her. I truly want her to visit, and our friendship is worth so much to me--I am afraid she would feel hurt and rejected if I told her about Sarah. I think Mary would understand if I started dating after her visit, just not before. On the other hand, we're broken up, and I'm really excited by Sarah and all the awesome sex we want to have (we really want to have a bunch of it). I question whether or not this thing with Mary is healthy to continue, or if I just need to tell her about the impending thing with Sarah and let it run its course, which could mean hurting Mary and our friendship. What do I do? Do I tell Sarah about my situation and explain that I can't really get serious until after Mary's visit? Do I tell Mary about Sarah and risk her being hurt and estranged? Any advice would be helpful. Thanks!
Moved for a job, left great relationship, ex plans to visit in a month, and have sex. However, I'm on the cusp of sleeping with a new girl. Can't sleep with everyone at the same time. What to do?
[ { "content": "I recently took a job out of state, leaving behind an amazing 2 year relationship with \"Mary\". Mary stayed behind for her own job, but she was seriously considering the idea of joining me in the new city. We agreed to break up, because of circumstances alone, and she booked a flight to visit 3 months after I arrived, with the subtext that we would both probably still be \"single\" (in it's loosest sense, i.e. not in a committed or sexual relationship) and would continue our romantic relationship during her visit, which is now one month away. \n She also told me to tell her if I met someone, so she can cancel her flight. We are still really into each other, but Mary recently conceded that it doesn't seem realistic for her to move anytime soon. That said, she is still visiting in less than a month, and we are both very excited. Mary and I hold onto hope that we will be able to resume our awesome relationship somewhere down the road, even if not right now. \n Meanwhile, I met a new girl (\"Sarah\"), went on a couple of dates, and we're to that point where she wants to start having sex, lot's of it, and I really want to oblige. However, I still love Mary and don't want to hurt her. I truly want her to visit, and our friendship is worth so much to me--I am afraid she would feel hurt and rejected if I told her about Sarah. I think Mary would understand if I started dating after her visit, just not before. \n On the other hand, we're broken up, and I'm really excited by Sarah and all the awesome sex we want to have (we really want to have a bunch of it). I question whether or not this thing with Mary is healthy to continue, or if I just need to tell her about the impending thing with Sarah and let it run its course, which could mean hurting Mary and our friendship. \n What do I do? Do I tell Sarah about my situation and explain that I can't really get serious until after Mary's visit? Do I tell Mary about Sarah and risk her being hurt and estranged? Any advice would be helpful. Thanks!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Moved for a job, left great relationship, ex plans to visit in a month, and have sex. However, I'm on the cusp of sleeping with a new girl. Can't sleep with everyone at the same time. What to do?", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Hey /r/Relationships! This is an obvious throwaway account. I'll try to post as much detail as possible. Some background, when I was little, my parents raised me as a Catholic. But as I grew older, I did not associate myself with any religion. I am not against any religions, in fact, I have a very open view on all religions and I appreciate everyone's opinions and faith. Today, my girlfriend asked me to convert into a Muslim. At first I thought it was a joke, because her and her friends would always joke about me becoming a Muslim. But I found out she was being serious and I wasn't sure how to respond but to say "I can't." I also want to say that before we started dating, we made an agreement that I will not convert and if that is something that will get in between us, I don't think a relationship would be a good idea. Anyways, she goes on and on about why I should. So I asked her, why all of a sudden she's asking me to convert. She says that before we get any further into our relationship, her parents wants me to convert. Now, I really love this girl, but I don't want to convert for the wrong reason. I keep telling her that if I converted, it'd be for the wrong reason. (I've been told that converting for your wife is not a good idea. Something along those lines.) So what do I do? Is there anything I can do to compromise?
Girlfriend/Girlfriend's Family wants me to convert into a Muslim. I don't want to. Any way I can compromise?
[ { "content": "Hey /r/Relationships! This is an obvious throwaway account. I'll try to post as much detail as possible. \n Some background, when I was little, my parents raised me as a Catholic. But as I grew older, I did not associate myself with any religion. I am not against any religions, in fact, I have a very open view on all religions and I appreciate everyone's opinions and faith. \n Today, my girlfriend asked me to convert into a Muslim. At first I thought it was a joke, because her and her friends would always joke about me becoming a Muslim. But I found out she was being serious and I wasn't sure how to respond but to say \"I can't.\" \n I also want to say that before we started dating, we made an agreement that I will not convert and if that is something that will get in between us, I don't think a relationship would be a good idea. \n Anyways, she goes on and on about why I should. So I asked her, why all of a sudden she's asking me to convert. She says that before we get any further into our relationship, her parents wants me to convert. \n Now, I really love this girl, but I don't want to convert for the wrong reason. I keep telling her that if I converted, it'd be for the wrong reason. (I've been told that converting for your wife is not a good idea. Something along those lines.) \n So what do I do? Is there anything I can do to compromise?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Girlfriend/Girlfriend's Family wants me to convert into a Muslim. I don't want to. Any way I can compromise?", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I got screwed last year on my raise and annual bonus. Luckily I had already been looking for a new job for months and had some feelers out. When I found out about the bonus/raise situation and it was a take it or leave it situation I just worked harder to find a new job. I ended up finding another job at a higher title and 15% increase in pay. I gave my two weeks and my manager asks if he can make a counter offer to keep me and what would it take for me to stay. I told him he'd have to increase my pay at last 20% and give me the title I want. About 4 hours later I get a call, 20% raise but no title. I ended up staying where I was because the other company was smaller and I was not quite vested in my 401K yet which would have cost a decent amount of money.
If you are unhappy with your pay/promotion/etc then start looking for a new job. The whole ordeal above took about 6 months of intensively looking for a new job to materialize.
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You hear bass and treble more prominently (in relation to the mids) when your playback is loud, so if you mix loud and then turn it down all of your highs and lows fall out and your mix sounds thin and lifeless. If you mix quietly and get the balance right, when you turn it up you will experience a "smile curve" EQ, which sounds pleasing to the ears.
Mix quietly, then turn it up for maximum effect.
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It's been 9 months since our breakup. I sit here thinking about how I was so attracted to the wrong type of person. What attracted me to her was her strong personality, her charisma, her seductive and sexy attire. She seemed to have it all together and she validated me so much. She made me feel wanted and that made me feel secure. As I read more and more into codependency, I realize the unhealthy patterns we had. I've tried my best to be the better person but every few months she likes to poke her head into my business and I continue to ignore her. I question if I should just give in and play the game with her, fight fire with fire? We had met through work and dated for 1.5 years. She had sexted a married man who was also a mutual coworker during our relationship. She fessed up and we sought couples' counseling together. Things got better between us and I eventually moved on from the hurt. One day, she broke up with me at lunch saying she needed a break and needed to find herself. I knew it was over at that point and left it at that. I packed her things the following week and gave her everything back. I went NC and haven't spoke to her since. After our breakup, she hopped from our relationship into another relationship with a mutual coworker. One different than the one she had cheated with. This was a huge blow to my heart and my ego. She attempts to contact me here and there but I ignore every attempt because I would only react and say things out of anger. Recently, she went on to my Amazon account and ordered running shoes. She utilized her card to pay for it but I thought that was a cry for attention since she had to enter my password to log into my account. I changed my password and left her order alone. I didn't want any contact between us so I left it at that. It's weird at work because the married guy she cheated with, the new guy she is dating, her, and a few other people are all part of the same work social group. I feel like she's told them some lies about me because they point and laugh behind my back. I continue to go about my day and act as if it doesn't concern me because it's none of my business. Luckily, they are all part of a different department and I don't interact with any of them unless related for a company event and to maintain social upkeep. Where does this leave me? I question if I was ever good enough, was I the one to blame? I'm working on myself, in therapy, in grad school, reading about codependency, and overall trying to walk away with my head held high. I realize how terrible of a person she is and has become with no remorse or guilt on her actions or behavior. I guess she's not capable of feeling such things. I debate on if I should stoop to her level and just expose her for who she is. I hate the fact that she comes out unscathed and I feel like the fool. It's funny because I am sticking to NC as some sort of pseudo-revenge because narcissist love attention and I'm not giving any to her. Also, to move on whenever the feeling of revenge subsides. I feel loss, anger, sadness, and many other emotions. I wonder if I can find happiness or if I'm capable of such things. Will I ever get over this? Do I deserve better? Will I find better? Everyone believes in me but I don't believe in myself. Oh yeah, I can't quit my job because I'm on contract for a year.
9 months, still not over crappy ex who I work with. Can't quit because on contract for a year. Ex is happily being the company whore but I want to see her burn.
[ { "content": "It's been 9 months since our breakup. I sit here thinking about how I was so attracted to the wrong type of person. What attracted me to her was her strong personality, her charisma, her seductive and sexy attire. She seemed to have it all together and she validated me so much. She made me feel wanted and that made me feel secure. As I read more and more into codependency, I realize the unhealthy patterns we had. I've tried my best to be the better person but every few months she likes to poke her head into my business and I continue to ignore her. I question if I should just give in and play the game with her, fight fire with fire? \n We had met through work and dated for 1.5 years. She had sexted a married man who was also a mutual coworker during our relationship. She fessed up and we sought couples' counseling together. Things got better between us and I eventually moved on from the hurt. One day, she broke up with me at lunch saying she needed a break and needed to find herself. I knew it was over at that point and left it at that. I packed her things the following week and gave her everything back. I went NC and haven't spoke to her since. \n After our breakup, she hopped from our relationship into another relationship with a mutual coworker. One different than the one she had cheated with. This was a huge blow to my heart and my ego. She attempts to contact me here and there but I ignore every attempt because I would only react and say things out of anger. Recently, she went on to my Amazon account and ordered running shoes. She utilized her card to pay for it but I thought that was a cry for attention since she had to enter my password to log into my account. I changed my password and left her order alone. I didn't want any contact between us so I left it at that. \n It's weird at work because the married guy she cheated with, the new guy she is dating, her, and a few other people are all part of the same work social group. I feel like she's told them some lies about me because they point and laugh behind my back. I continue to go about my day and act as if it doesn't concern me because it's none of my business. \n Luckily, they are all part of a different department and I don't interact with any of them unless related for a company event and to maintain social upkeep. \n Where does this leave me? I question if I was ever good enough, was I the one to blame? I'm working on myself, in therapy, in grad school, reading about codependency, and overall trying to walk away with my head held high. I realize how terrible of a person she is and has become with no remorse or guilt on her actions or behavior. I guess she's not capable of feeling such things. I debate on if I should stoop to her level and just expose her for who she is. I hate the fact that she comes out unscathed and I feel like the fool. It's funny because I am sticking to NC as some sort of pseudo-revenge because narcissist love attention and I'm not giving any to her. Also, to move on whenever the feeling of revenge subsides. \n I feel loss, anger, sadness, and many other emotions. I wonder if I can find happiness or if I'm capable of such things. Will I ever get over this? Do I deserve better? Will I find better? Everyone believes in me but I don't believe in myself. \n Oh yeah, I can't quit my job because I'm on contract for a year.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "9 months, still not over crappy ex who I work with. Can't quit because on contract for a year. Ex is happily being the company whore but I want to see her burn.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I've grown up on the Linux/Windows world of 2000-2010. Things used to break more. Things used to go slower. More things had to be done manually. I'm not entirely sure, today, that the way I learnt (Full-time Ubuntu > Debian > Gentoo > Arch > Debian) is the most ideal. However, there's a generic process I follow now, that learners may find useful: Break it, fix it, then break it again : Randomly remove/kill things: packages, processes, files, directories, modules. Empty out the contents of files. Figure out how to hack into it, break it, fix it, and repeat. Hardware is pretty reliable now don't accept "restart" for an answer. We don't have the luxury to do this on the job-- but my systems breaking ultimately lead me to learn more about why it broke, and what the actual fix consisted of. Learn more about the things you know do : strace, ltrace, ldd, tcpdump, ps, and netstat are your friends. Look at source code and scripts-- figure how where responsibility is passed off. There's a lot of Find things you don't know Take a look at /sbin for new things. The then /usr/sbin, then /bin and /usr/bin. You may have some programs installed in /usr/local or /opt. If you don't know why these directories are the organized the way they are-- research it. Take note of what are symlinks and what aren't-- remember to use ldd to see what libraries are used, as well as which executables are setuid. Look in /etc for things you haven't looked at before, logs in /var/log are also useful. Every file and directory exists for a reason. Look at communities, /r/sysadmin, /r/networking, and others. Check out ServerFault, SuperUser, and/or StackOverflow-- watch the questions there (And the answers too). These are real-world problems people are having-- giving you a chance to see what people are actually doing. You could even help a little yourself, if you like. If, somehow , after all of this, you still have time, you could take a look at the available packages for your system. Try new things there are a ton projects of small projects out there that are interesting-- install them, manually if needed. See what breaks, you may learn something new (like how systemd integrates with PAM and SELinux).
Break it, fix it, then break it again. (These modern developers don't break our systems as much as they used to)
[ { "content": "I've grown up on the Linux/Windows world of 2000-2010. Things used to break more. Things used to go slower. More things had to be done manually. I'm not entirely sure, today, that the way I learnt (Full-time Ubuntu > Debian > Gentoo > Arch > Debian) is the most ideal. \n However, there's a generic process I follow now, that learners may find useful: \n Break it, fix it, then break it again : Randomly remove/kill things: packages, processes, files, directories, modules. Empty out the contents of files. Figure out how to hack into it, break it, fix it, and repeat. Hardware is pretty reliable now don't accept \"restart\" for an answer. We don't have the luxury to do this on the job-- but my systems breaking ultimately lead me to learn more about why it broke, and what the actual fix consisted of. \n Learn more about the things you know do : strace, ltrace, ldd, tcpdump, ps, and netstat are your friends. Look at source code and scripts-- figure how where responsibility is passed off. There's a lot of \n Find things you don't know \n Take a look at /sbin for new things. The then /usr/sbin, then /bin and /usr/bin. You may have some programs installed in /usr/local or /opt. If you don't know why these directories are the organized the way they are-- research it. Take note of what are symlinks and what aren't-- remember to use ldd to see what libraries are used, as well as which executables are setuid. Look in /etc for things you haven't looked at before, logs in /var/log are also useful. Every file and directory exists for a reason. \n Look at communities, /r/sysadmin, /r/networking, and others. Check out ServerFault, SuperUser, and/or StackOverflow-- watch the questions there (And the answers too). These are real-world problems people are having-- giving you a chance to see what people are actually doing. You could even help a little yourself, if you like. If, somehow , after all of this, you still have time, you could take a look at the available packages for your system. \n Try new things there are a ton projects of small projects out there that are interesting-- install them, manually if needed. See what breaks, you may learn something new (like how systemd integrates with PAM and SELinux).", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Break it, fix it, then break it again. (These modern developers don't break our systems as much as they used to)", "role": "assistant" } ]
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It depends on the nature of the attack. If it's an attack that is just using up all your available bandwidth then you really are out of luck without trying to involve upstream providers to filter traffic before it reaches you (assuming you already have as much bandwidth as you can afford). The next item could be your router. A lot of companies today make the mistake of using a firewall as their edge router and see it become overwhelmed pretty quickly at the first sign of an attack (or even uptick in usage). You really want to be using a hardware-based router (e.g. a router that implements its core packet forwarding and routing functionality in hardware rather than software) and is appropriately sized for the bandwidth you have available in terms of maximum packets per second. For example if you have 10G of bandwidth you want a router that can handle about 15M PPS (assuming worst case of 64-byte packets). These routers usually implement basic ACLs and URPF in hardware as well which is really important. If you do have a router that can do hardware filtering your best bet is to leverage it to drop traffic before it overwhelms the rest of your infrastructure. Doing this in a massively distributed attack can be very hard to do (and if widespread enough almost impossible). It is a lot easier if you have a good profile of what normal and expected traffic looks like though. The solution here is to have IDS servers watching traffic to identify source addresses involved in the attack (you should use a passive tap and not a SPAN port or inline system and never use IDS on the firewall or router). For small attacks you can sometimes identify these by hand but you will be too slow for a non-trivial attack. Once you have a system in place that can identify bad source IP addresses and a hardware-based router that can handle whatever is thrown at it AND enough bandwidth to survive ... Then you can use data from the IDS to block offending source IPs on the router in hardware without a performance hit. There are a few ways to do this but the way I like the best is to leverage URPF (unicast reverse path forwarding) and RTBH (remotely triggered black hole) internally by having a small router that's only job is to advertise IP routes to block to your real router(s). Then it's a matter of some light scripting to have the IDS be able to initiate a block when it sees an attack. Again this isn't 100% but tools like Bro make it a lot easier today than it was in the past. Finally the other place to check is the server or application itself. It may simply be that the application isn't written to scale well and can easily be exploited by seemingly normal or innocent traffic. Based on observations League of Legends actually uses either a firewall or router to block traffic to game servers by default and only open traffic for an IP upon successful authentication to their authentication servers to cut down on DDOS attacks. This can buy them some time but their authentication servers are still a huge target that can prevent people from playing the game. Attacks against Blizzard also often target authentication servers but less so since they don't use this strategy of filtering until authenticated. Note that the filtering of traffic until authenticated is actually a poor design and breaks connectivity for thousands of networks that use things like NAT pools and have situations where a clients external IP can change between destination servers (which is why Blizzard doesn't do it).
you need to have infrastructure setup to be able to withstand the storm AND rapidly identify and filter it without affecting performance. Depending on how good the attack is that's not always realistic. There is no silver bullet for DDOS attacks.
[ { "content": "It depends on the nature of the attack. \n If it's an attack that is just using up all your available bandwidth then you really are out of luck without trying to involve upstream providers to filter traffic before it reaches you (assuming you already have as much bandwidth as you can afford). \n The next item could be your router. A lot of companies today make the mistake of using a firewall as their edge router and see it become overwhelmed pretty quickly at the first sign of an attack (or even uptick in usage). You really want to be using a hardware-based router (e.g. a router that implements its core packet forwarding and routing functionality in hardware rather than software) and is appropriately sized for the bandwidth you have available in terms of maximum packets per second. For example if you have 10G of bandwidth you want a router that can handle about 15M PPS (assuming worst case of 64-byte packets). These routers usually implement basic ACLs and URPF in hardware as well which is really important. \n If you do have a router that can do hardware filtering your best bet is to leverage it to drop traffic before it overwhelms the rest of your infrastructure. Doing this in a massively distributed attack can be very hard to do (and if widespread enough almost impossible). It is a lot easier if you have a good profile of what normal and expected traffic looks like though. The solution here is to have IDS servers watching traffic to identify source addresses involved in the attack (you should use a passive tap and not a SPAN port or inline system and never use IDS on the firewall or router). For small attacks you can sometimes identify these by hand but you will be too slow for a non-trivial attack. Once you have a system in place that can identify bad source IP addresses and a hardware-based router that can handle whatever is thrown at it AND enough bandwidth to survive ... Then you can use data from the IDS to block offending source IPs on the router in hardware without a performance hit. \n There are a few ways to do this but the way I like the best is to leverage URPF (unicast reverse path forwarding) and RTBH (remotely triggered black hole) internally by having a small router that's only job is to advertise IP routes to block to your real router(s). Then it's a matter of some light scripting to have the IDS be able to initiate a block when it sees an attack. Again this isn't 100% but tools like Bro make it a lot easier today than it was in the past. \n Finally the other place to check is the server or application itself. It may simply be that the application isn't written to scale well and can easily be exploited by seemingly normal or innocent traffic. \n Based on observations League of Legends actually uses either a firewall or router to block traffic to game servers by default and only open traffic for an IP upon successful authentication to their authentication servers to cut down on DDOS attacks. This can buy them some time but their authentication servers are still a huge target that can prevent people from playing the game. \n Attacks against Blizzard also often target authentication servers but less so since they don't use this strategy of filtering until authenticated. \n Note that the filtering of traffic until authenticated is actually a poor design and breaks connectivity for thousands of networks that use things like NAT pools and have situations where a clients external IP can change between destination servers (which is why Blizzard doesn't do it).", "role": "user" }, { "content": "you need to have infrastructure setup to be able to withstand the storm AND rapidly identify and filter it without affecting performance. Depending on how good the attack is that's not always realistic. There is no silver bullet for DDOS attacks.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I just finished graduate school and my husband and I moved back to our hometown. I'm working on-call, he hasn't been able to find work since the summer. We're living with my (extremely right-wing religious) parents and barely making the payments on our debts. He was diagnosed with depression. We can't afford the meds (about $70 a month). I lie to him about our financial situation so he won't feel guilty (and become more depressed) and skip meals so that I can give him $5 bucks a week for magic cards since walking to his local gaming shop and socializing for an hour or two is one of the few things that keeps him sane. We give my parents money, but we can't tell them about my husband's depression because they don't believe in mental illness and insist the answer to all mental health problems is prayer (my husband's an atheist, which I respect). We're not going to starve. We're not going to become homeless. But a helping hand would help bring my old loveable geek husband back. We pass out about 50 resumes a week (repeating many places, it's a small town) but he never gets a call back. And it's killing him.
A young geek couple need money, I will pay back when I'm able to. EDIT: After some research and a couple of phone calls, I was able to get the medication for no charge!! Thanks so much to everyone who forwarded info on medication discounts for people with low incomes! :) Also, to the person who sent $40 and told me to use it for Magic Cards. My husband's birthday is the 28th and we will use some of that money to get him a few booster packs. Lots of love!
[ { "content": "I just finished graduate school and my husband and I moved back to our hometown. I'm working on-call, he hasn't been able to find work since the summer. We're living with my (extremely right-wing religious) parents and barely making the payments on our debts. \n He was diagnosed with depression. We can't afford the meds (about $70 a month). I lie to him about our financial situation so he won't feel guilty (and become more depressed) and skip meals so that I can give him $5 bucks a week for magic cards since walking to his local gaming shop and socializing for an hour or two is one of the few things that keeps him sane. \n We give my parents money, but we can't tell them about my husband's depression because they don't believe in mental illness and insist the answer to all mental health problems is prayer (my husband's an atheist, which I respect). \n We're not going to starve. We're not going to become homeless. But a helping hand would help bring my old loveable geek husband back. We pass out about 50 resumes a week (repeating many places, it's a small town) but he never gets a call back. And it's killing him.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "A young geek couple need money, I will pay back when I'm able to. \n EDIT: After some research and a couple of phone calls, I was able to get the medication for no charge!! Thanks so much to everyone who forwarded info on medication discounts for people with low incomes! :) Also, to the person who sent $40 and told me to use it for Magic Cards. My husband's birthday is the 28th and we will use some of that money to get him a few booster packs. Lots of love!", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Slavery: >"The condition in which one person is owned as property by another and is under the owner's control, especially in involuntary servitude." ([thefreedictionary]( Slavery is possible on Civcraft through the use of prison pearl and summoning (the /pps command). One player is able to hold another player against their will and force them to do things that accomplish the goals of the pearler rather than the pearlee. This is wrong, and here's why. It takes away the pearlee's freedom: When someone is made a slave, they are no longer free and are unable to do what they want. Instead, they are forced to do what the pearler wants them to do and go where the pearler tells them to go. Slavery is enforced using force or threats: In order to keep the pearlee a slave and accomplish the pearlers goals, violence and threats are used. For example, if a pearlee does not listen to a command the pearler tells them, the pearler is able to kill the pearlee and send them back to the end where they are tortured by endermen. The pearler uses fear tactics and threats to control the pearlee rather than letting them be free and encouraging them with positive incentives. Abuse is possible with slavery: Being in possession of a person's pearl allows the pearler to do whatever they want to the pearlee. This makes abuse possible because the pearlee has no way to escape or get away from their pearler. Not fun for the pearlee: Most of the time, pearlee's do not enjoy being enslaved because it takes away their freedom and does not allow them to live by their own will. Depending on what the pearler makes the pearlee do, it can be a very negative time for the pearlee. Pearlee has no choice: I believe this is the most important part of why slavery is wrong and it is also what defines slavery. The person held as a slave was not there by choice. If someone were to consent to being pearled and was able to get released whenever they wanted it would not be slavery. It is slavery when the pearler holds the player without consent and does not let them go when they are asked. Doing this is wrong! Lastly, an apology to fritz110: /u/fritz110 , I verso, apolagize for not releasing you when asked and not double checking if you were fairly pearled. I apolagize for making you do things without your consent and also taking your pearl in the first place. I hope you can forgive me and also hope that this post educates others on why it is wrong to take prisoners and slaves unjustly. bonus: [a pic of fritz as a slave](
Slave fritz bad, sorry
[ { "content": "Slavery: \n>\"The condition in which one person is owned as property by another and is under the owner's control, especially in involuntary servitude.\" ([thefreedictionary]( \n Slavery is possible on Civcraft through the use of prison pearl and summoning (the /pps command). One player is able to hold another player against their will and force them to do things that accomplish the goals of the pearler rather than the pearlee. This is wrong, and here's why. \n It takes away the pearlee's freedom: \n When someone is made a slave, they are no longer free and are unable to do what they want. Instead, they are forced to do what the pearler wants them to do and go where the pearler tells them to go. \n Slavery is enforced using force or threats: \n In order to keep the pearlee a slave and accomplish the pearlers goals, violence and threats are used. For example, if a pearlee does not listen to a command the pearler tells them, the pearler is able to kill the pearlee and send them back to the end where they are tortured by endermen. The pearler uses fear tactics and threats to control the pearlee rather than letting them be free and encouraging them with positive incentives. \n Abuse is possible with slavery: \n Being in possession of a person's pearl allows the pearler to do whatever they want to the pearlee. This makes abuse possible because the pearlee has no way to escape or get away from their pearler. \n Not fun for the pearlee: \n Most of the time, pearlee's do not enjoy being enslaved because it takes away their freedom and does not allow them to live by their own will. Depending on what the pearler makes the pearlee do, it can be a very negative time for the pearlee. \n Pearlee has no choice: \n I believe this is the most important part of why slavery is wrong and it is also what defines slavery. The person held as a slave was not there by choice. If someone were to consent to being pearled and was able to get released whenever they wanted it would not be slavery. It is slavery when the pearler holds the player without consent and does not let them go when they are asked. Doing this is wrong! \n Lastly, an apology to fritz110: \n /u/fritz110 , I verso, apolagize for not releasing you when asked and not double checking if you were fairly pearled. I apolagize for making you do things without your consent and also taking your pearl in the first place. I hope you can forgive me and also hope that this post educates others on why it is wrong to take prisoners and slaves unjustly. \n bonus: [a pic of fritz as a slave](", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Slave fritz bad, sorry", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Required wands: teleportation, blink Requirements: Battle mage Goals: Avoid creatures by using teleportation wand to teleport yourself. Only upgrade wand of teleport.
die at tengu
[ { "content": "Required wands: teleportation, blink \n Requirements: Battle mage \n Goals: Avoid creatures by using teleportation wand to teleport yourself. \n Only upgrade wand of teleport.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "die at tengu", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Ah the immature, he's complaining becuase of downvotes. No Im complaining because the downvotes are censoring an opinion when the function is to remove off-topic threads. The root of the problem is no one who needs to see it will because this is inevitably off topic and the site mods dont seem to give a shit. But then I'm wasting my time, because anyone immature enough to respond as you did doesnt give a shit.
Grow the fuck up.
[ { "content": "Ah the immature, he's complaining becuase of downvotes. No Im complaining because the downvotes are censoring an opinion when the function is to remove off-topic threads. The root of the problem is no one who needs to see it will because this is inevitably off topic and the site mods dont seem to give a shit. \n But then I'm wasting my time, because anyone immature enough to respond as you did doesnt give a shit.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Grow the fuck up.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I thought labels didn't matter too much to me, but with the fact that my memories of my relationship with my mom are so jumbled, and she always seemed a savior in comparison to my dad, it's hard for me to figure out if her behavior was abusive or not. The things that have convinced me that she is more N than not: Childhood indicators: 1.) She grew up with two alcoholic parents but never went to therapy, because she's fine the way she is. 2.) She is largely ignoring. If you talk to her, she spaces out and/or turns the conversation to herself. (I always thought this was because she's an introvert) 3.) She let my father verbally abuse me and my brother, backed him up consistently, or blamed me (as sg) for attacking him as I was the troublemaker. 4.) She invalidated my memories, and told me that I was either making them up or I had a different version of events, or I just didn't understand their point of view, etc., 5.) She told me that my dad had sabotaged their savings before I was conceived, and that she had always wanted children (since she was a kid, it was her fantasy apparently) so it was really lucky that she had inherited money. Through this convo, she largely implied that my dad hadn't wanted us. 6.) She let my dad raise me as an infant, despite having the financial means to stay home, and despite knowing that my ndad was "seriously depressed." Current indicators: Our relationship has changed a lot since I have gone basically NC/LC with my ndad and avoid him whenever I have been forced to spend time with the family. Now that he is no longer around to play the bad guy, her behaviors have gotten a LOT worse. 1.) When I won't spend time with my ndad or family, she starts crying and says that she's sorry she's such a bad mom that I can't spend time with the family, or "it's just for a couple hours, and it'll make me feel so happy." 2.) She commits my time without checking with me, and employs that above strategy to make me feel awful about telling her I had plans already. 3.) She refers to people I barely know as my "good friends" and uses them as weapons of guilt when I won't go to public events. "Your good friend will be there, she'll miss you!" Meanwhile, I'm pretttty sure that person doesn't remember I exist. 4.) When I sent her a LC letter, letting her know my boundaries going forward, she IGNORED the boundary part. Literally pretended it didn't exist. Then, when I called her on it, she said, (taken as an actual quote): "I am not sure how to respond to your boundary setting – you are an adult and are free to do what you want to do. If you want to cut yourself off from NDad, me, my family, Aunt X, church, old friends, you are free to do so. I find it very helpful in dealing with taking responsibility for my own happiness and dealing with difficult people. When you were succeeding in college I asked you why because High School was such a struggle and I didn’t understand what had changed. You said that you realized that you couldn’t blame us anymore – that it was entirely your responsibility. A_good username , you have two very flawed, very human parents who love you very much. Your history is what it is – it can’t be changed. Whatever we did or did not do to help form you into who you are, at this point you need to decide who you want to be and how you want to relate to us. I know you are young, and life seems endless, but Aunt Y's condition has made me realize that life can be shorter than we thought, and I lost my mother when I was 26, so no one knows how much time you have left to be with ones we care about. It can really put perspective on life to realize every day is a gift and is not guaranteed." And I felt completely invalidated and upset. This seemed to be proof, in my mind, that she was unreachable. 5.) she recently apologized for everything by saying "I apologize for any of my actions or my inactions that caused you pain or disrespect." Basically, my SO has told me that she's shown herself to be N to a degree enough that she's damaging to me, whether or not she is a full N or just has a lot of defenses as a daughter of Alcoholic parents and N husband. But if I can know that she's an N, I'll know that there's no hope, which would be awful (full emotional orphan) but also, relieving, because then I would be able to let go. If there's still hope that she's capable of change, I'm going to keep trying.
Can't figure out if Mom is truly abusive, or whether I should try to set up boundaries and continue to work on a relationship with her.
[ { "content": "I thought labels didn't matter too much to me, but with the fact that my memories of my relationship with my mom are so jumbled, and she always seemed a savior in comparison to my dad, it's hard for me to figure out if her behavior was abusive or not. \n The things that have convinced me that she is more N than not: \n Childhood indicators: \n 1.) She grew up with two alcoholic parents but never went to therapy, because she's fine the way she is. \n 2.) She is largely ignoring. If you talk to her, she spaces out and/or turns the conversation to herself. (I always thought this was because she's an introvert) \n 3.) She let my father verbally abuse me and my brother, backed him up consistently, or blamed me (as sg) for attacking him as I was the troublemaker. \n 4.) She invalidated my memories, and told me that I was either making them up or I had a different version of events, or I just didn't understand their point of view, etc., \n 5.) She told me that my dad had sabotaged their savings before I was conceived, and that she had always wanted children (since she was a kid, it was her fantasy apparently) so it was really lucky that she had inherited money. Through this convo, she largely implied that my dad hadn't wanted us. \n 6.) She let my dad raise me as an infant, despite having the financial means to stay home, and despite knowing that my ndad was \"seriously depressed.\" \n Current indicators: \n Our relationship has changed a lot since I have gone basically NC/LC with my ndad and avoid him whenever I have been forced to spend time with the family. Now that he is no longer around to play the bad guy, her behaviors have gotten a LOT worse. \n 1.) When I won't spend time with my ndad or family, she starts crying and says that she's sorry she's such a bad mom that I can't spend time with the family, or \"it's just for a couple hours, and it'll make me feel so happy.\" \n 2.) She commits my time without checking with me, and employs that above strategy to make me feel awful about telling her I had plans already. \n 3.) She refers to people I barely know as my \"good friends\" and uses them as weapons of guilt when I won't go to public events. \"Your good friend will be there, she'll miss you!\" Meanwhile, I'm pretttty sure that person doesn't remember I exist. \n 4.) When I sent her a LC letter, letting her know my boundaries going forward, she IGNORED the boundary part. Literally pretended it didn't exist. Then, when I called her on it, she said, (taken as an actual quote): \n \"I am not sure how to respond to your boundary setting – you are an adult and are free to do what you want to do. If you want to cut yourself off from NDad, me, my family, Aunt X, church, old friends, you are free to do so. I find it very helpful in dealing with taking responsibility for my own happiness and dealing with difficult people. When you were succeeding in college I asked you why because High School was such a struggle and I didn’t understand what had changed. You said that you realized that you couldn’t blame us anymore – that it was entirely your responsibility. A_good username , you have two very flawed, very human parents who love you very much. Your history is what it is – it can’t be changed. Whatever we did or did not do to help form you into who you are, at this point you need to decide who you want to be and how you want to relate to us. I know you are young, and life seems endless, but Aunt Y's condition has made me realize that life can be shorter than we thought, and I lost my mother when I was 26, so no one knows how much time you have left to be with ones we care about. It can really put perspective on life to realize every day is a gift and is not guaranteed.\" \n And I felt completely invalidated and upset. \n This seemed to be proof, in my mind, that she was unreachable. \n 5.) she recently apologized for everything by saying \"I apologize for any of my actions or my inactions that caused you pain or disrespect.\" \n Basically, my SO has told me that she's shown herself to be N to a degree enough that she's damaging to me, whether or not she is a full N or just has a lot of defenses as a daughter of Alcoholic parents and N husband. But if I can know that she's an N, I'll know that there's no hope, which would be awful (full emotional orphan) but also, relieving, because then I would be able to let go. If there's still hope that she's capable of change, I'm going to keep trying.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Can't figure out if Mom is truly abusive, or whether I should try to set up boundaries and continue to work on a relationship with her.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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My boss (he just recently became my boss and was my coworker previously) is getting married in May. I look to him as a work friend and a mentor. We are exceptionally close at work but don't hang out outside of the office other than lunches. I've known he was getting married for a year now and have had the Save the Date for months. My fiance just found out his company is tanking so we decided this would be a great opportunity for us to relocate when he takes his next position. Well, things are moving faster than expected and we have a move date (across the country) of the end of April. I am having an unexpectedly hard time telling my boss I can't make his wedding. I'm not even sure if he would be upset or not but I know he wouldn't tell me if he was. The guilt is eating at me! I am actually thinking about driving across country then flying back a week later for his wedding but that would be a strain on time and money. I need to woman-up and tell him I can't go, or make arrangements to be there but a decision must be made! What do you think - how important would it be that I be at his wedding? Do you think he would even really care? If the roles were reversed, I would be a little bummed but not upset.
Moving across country a week before my boss's/friend's wedding and feeling guilty about missing it. Should I fly back for it or just let them know I won't be making it?
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Good morning Reddit, My girlfriend and I have been together for 8 years. I thought she was the one for me, and I was for her, but we're not so sure anymore. I can provide more details if you would like, but basically she is a great girlfriend and I should be incredibly happy with her. She puts up with me, understands my personality, we have some mutual interests, our families would get along great, she's attractive, and our friends in relationships try to emulate us. In early 2013, I decided to break up with her. I felt like it wasn't working anymore- I was bored of hanging out with her, I didn't "want" to see her (it was more me forcing myself to go to her), I felt like we didn't have many common interests, and things about our personalities were just really different. We were successful for a bit, but then we started talking to each other, and eventually just jumped right back into it. Then in mid-2013, we broke up again for 2 weeks (no speaking, communicating, or anything) - and I reached out to her again because it was too painful being apart. I literally had physical symptoms after some time. What made it worse was that she decided to go on a couple dates with this guy who I knew she was attracted to (she never and would never cheat on me), and he was trying to get at her...and well, I was just really mad and jealous. I knew she was doing it on purpose; she was basically manipulating my feelings. But hey- it worked - and I reached out to her. We took things more slowly this time, and were much more open with each other. Fast forward to now- The same feelings have come up again. This time, it's more mutual. We tried our best to make it work, but I started feeling the same as I did last year. I eventually began to cut her off bit by bit - fewer texts, not many calls, get bored when I talk to her, and didn't have sex for a month. She eventually blew up and tore me a new one on Saturday when she spent the night...she fell asleep crying. The next morning, she re-iterated what she said more calmly and left. Well last night, I kind of "blew up" (just talked online...no yelling or anything like that...it was civilized) on her. She asked me to be completely honest, and I was. I told her I found her boring, our meetings and conversations felt forced, and that I wasn't sure if she was the one I wanted to marry anymore (we had talked about it on and off for the last year). She feels the same way now too. But we're at a cross roads now: we can either try again, with this time both of us being completely honest and open (something we lacked before), or we can "take a break". I'm on a roller coaster of emotions right now. This morning, I woke up, and I missed her a lot. I wanted to wake up next to her, we both get ready for work, say bye to my dog, grab some breakfast together, and head out to start our day. I thought about calling her and telling her I wanted to try again. But then, I had this incredibly annoying and stupid day dream pop up after I read the "best date" thread on the front page, where I am dating a white girl* (explanation below), and watching a trilogy, playing video games, or getting drunk over dinner (my gf won't do do any of these). There are no single dealbreakers about her, but all these smaller things add up, imo. Anytime I have a day dream like this, I keep going back and forth between if I want to try and be with her or not. *My gf is the only girl I have ever been with. We are both Pakistani and culture bears down on us. My gf is very attractive, she gets hit on all the time, and she's down to earth. For whatever reason - I hate myself for this - but I am shallow and am trying hard not to be. I have day dreams where I envision myself on a date with another girl (of a different race and culture), and we're doing something simple like getting coffee or walking along the beach and getting to know each other. I hate that those things aren't much fun with my gf anymore. So anyways, sorry if this was confusing at all. It's hard to sum up 7 years of the relationship in a single post. I am hoping for some advice on what you might do in my shoes. Maybe this is all in my head and we're overthinking it? Maybe we're actually not compatible? I'm not sure anymore. Thank you for reading through this.
Been with the same girl for 8 years. Not sure if we are compatible anymore, because of where we are in our lives and my stupid fantasies of getting with other girls. We are bored of the relationship, but care about each other too much. Should we try and work on it or take a break?
[ { "content": "Good morning Reddit, \n My girlfriend and I have been together for 8 years. I thought she was the one for me, and I was for her, but we're not so sure anymore. I can provide more details if you would like, but basically she is a great girlfriend and I should be incredibly happy with her. She puts up with me, understands my personality, we have some mutual interests, our families would get along great, she's attractive, and our friends in relationships try to emulate us. \n In early 2013, I decided to break up with her. I felt like it wasn't working anymore- I was bored of hanging out with her, I didn't \"want\" to see her (it was more me forcing myself to go to her), I felt like we didn't have many common interests, and things about our personalities were just really different. We were successful for a bit, but then we started talking to each other, and eventually just jumped right back into it. Then in mid-2013, we broke up again for 2 weeks (no speaking, communicating, or anything) - and I reached out to her again because it was too painful being apart. I literally had physical symptoms after some time. What made it worse was that she decided to go on a couple dates with this guy who I knew she was attracted to (she never and would never cheat on me), and he was trying to get at her...and well, I was just really mad and jealous. I knew she was doing it on purpose; she was basically manipulating my feelings. But hey- it worked - and I reached out to her. We took things more slowly this time, and were much more open with each other. \n Fast forward to now- The same feelings have come up again. This time, it's more mutual. We tried our best to make it work, but I started feeling the same as I did last year. I eventually began to cut her off bit by bit - fewer texts, not many calls, get bored when I talk to her, and didn't have sex for a month. She eventually blew up and tore me a new one on Saturday when she spent the night...she fell asleep crying. The next morning, she re-iterated what she said more calmly and left. \n Well last night, I kind of \"blew up\" (just talked online...no yelling or anything like that...it was civilized) on her. She asked me to be completely honest, and I was. I told her I found her boring, our meetings and conversations felt forced, and that I wasn't sure if she was the one I wanted to marry anymore (we had talked about it on and off for the last year). She feels the same way now too. But we're at a cross roads now: we can either try again, with this time both of us being completely honest and open (something we lacked before), or we can \"take a break\". \n I'm on a roller coaster of emotions right now. This morning, I woke up, and I missed her a lot. I wanted to wake up next to her, we both get ready for work, say bye to my dog, grab some breakfast together, and head out to start our day. I thought about calling her and telling her I wanted to try again. But then, I had this incredibly annoying and stupid day dream pop up after I read the \"best date\" thread on the front page, where I am dating a white girl* (explanation below), and watching a trilogy, playing video games, or getting drunk over dinner (my gf won't do do any of these). There are no single dealbreakers about her, but all these smaller things add up, imo. Anytime I have a day dream like this, I keep going back and forth between if I want to try and be with her or not. \n *My gf is the only girl I have ever been with. We are both Pakistani and culture bears down on us. My gf is very attractive, she gets hit on all the time, and she's down to earth. For whatever reason - I hate myself for this - but I am shallow and am trying hard not to be. I have day dreams where I envision myself on a date with another girl (of a different race and culture), and we're doing something simple like getting coffee or walking along the beach and getting to know each other. I hate that those things aren't much fun with my gf anymore. \n So anyways, sorry if this was confusing at all. It's hard to sum up 7 years of the relationship in a single post. I am hoping for some advice on what you might do in my shoes. Maybe this is all in my head and we're overthinking it? Maybe we're actually not compatible? I'm not sure anymore. Thank you for reading through this.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Been with the same girl for 8 years. Not sure if we are compatible anymore, because of where we are in our lives and my stupid fantasies of getting with other girls. We are bored of the relationship, but care about each other too much. Should we try and work on it or take a break?", "role": "assistant" } ]
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my SG was 1.020 yesterday and 1.021 the day before.{…} My recipe says to move it to secondary after the gravity stays the same for a few days. So far it hasn't stayed the same for a few days. In case you weren't sure a difference of .001 is fairly significant in this context. Also 1.02 seems too high for a FG for a tripel to me, but I've never thought about making one, so it could be closer than it seems to me.
if you're use a bucket to ferment, buy another one and leave the tripel in primary for 3 weeks minimum. It's like $15.
[ { "content": "my SG was 1.020 yesterday and 1.021 the day before.{…} My recipe says to move it to secondary after the gravity stays the same for a few days. \n So far it hasn't stayed the same for a few days. In case you weren't sure a difference of .001 is fairly significant in this context. \n Also 1.02 seems too high for a FG for a tripel to me, but I've never thought about making one, so it could be closer than it seems to me.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "if you're use a bucket to ferment, buy another one and leave the tripel in primary for 3 weeks minimum. It's like $15.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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My understanding is that the balance gets recorded when the bill is sent out. So if you pay $50 for something, then immediately go home and pay $50 to the credit card company, your effective balance for that month (if that was the only activity) is 0. This is not really helping your credit score. On the other hand, if you pay $50 for something, then wait for the bill to arrive to pay $50 to the credit card company, you'll be charged $0 in interest, but for credit report purposes, you will have had a $50 balance for the month. Whether this helps your credit score or not is dependent on a number of things, mostly based on your used/available credit ratio. (There are different rules of thumb, usually you don't want to go above 30% of your available credit). Now the third option, which is what you're asking about, would be to buy something for $50, and then when the bill arrives, pay $10. This won't make a difference to your credit report because it would still show a $50 balance for the month, whether you paid it in full or in part. The only difference is, you wind up paying interest on that $40, and you're starting the next month with a balance already on your card.
Pay your credit card off every month, after the bill comes, and you'll build good credit without having to pay interest.
[ { "content": "My understanding is that the balance gets recorded when the bill is sent out. So if you pay $50 for something, then immediately go home and pay $50 to the credit card company, your effective balance for that month (if that was the only activity) is 0. This is not really helping your credit score. \n On the other hand, if you pay $50 for something, then wait for the bill to arrive to pay $50 to the credit card company, you'll be charged $0 in interest, but for credit report purposes, you will have had a $50 balance for the month. Whether this helps your credit score or not is dependent on a number of things, mostly based on your used/available credit ratio. (There are different rules of thumb, usually you don't want to go above 30% of your available credit). \n Now the third option, which is what you're asking about, would be to buy something for $50, and then when the bill arrives, pay $10. This won't make a difference to your credit report because it would still show a $50 balance for the month, whether you paid it in full or in part. The only difference is, you wind up paying interest on that $40, and you're starting the next month with a balance already on your card.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Pay your credit card off every month, after the bill comes, and you'll build good credit without having to pay interest.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I had this roommate who I'd said less than 100 words to in the whole year that we shared a room.This guy had his friend come live with us. Just set himself up on the couch. For months. The guy who owned the place felt bad for him and let him stay. I didn't like that, but the worst part was that he started smoking a ton of weed with his friend there. Turns out that the guy he bought from had started lacing his shit with rat poison. We didn't find that out until the end. Over several weeks he got crazier and crazier. He ended up getting naked and running down the street yelling "kill me!". The cops picked him up and we had no idea where he had gone. He'd been missing for days. Couch guy was still there in his absence. Turns out he'd been in a mental hospital. He then came straight back to share a room with me. He pulled a bunch of weird shit. He hid my wallet from me, warned me not to go to work because the computers would kill me. He kept getting naked in living room and wrote unintelligible notes in his journal for hours. The guy whose parents actually owned the house, the guy who allowed the prolonged couchery, was a a born again religiousmen who attributed the erratic behavior to his "recent experimentations with eastern religion". There were acoustic guitar playing christians up with him at 3am trying to pray him sane again. Turns out prayer doesn't work on this particular type of rat poison, so more shit wen't down and he finally ended up going to the looney bin for round two. I think it was his 3rd vist that they actually figured out what was really happening. I felt bad afterwards for not intervening during the Jesus phase, but I really had no idea what was going on.
Snorred like a morbidly obese wildebeast.
[ { "content": "I had this roommate who I'd said less than 100 words to in the whole year that we shared a room.This guy had his friend come live with us. Just set himself up on the couch. For months. The guy who owned the place felt bad for him and let him stay. I didn't like that, but the worst part was that he started smoking a ton of weed with his friend there. Turns out that the guy he bought from had started lacing his shit with rat poison. We didn't find that out until the end. \n Over several weeks he got crazier and crazier. He ended up getting naked and running down the street yelling \"kill me!\". The cops picked him up and we had no idea where he had gone. He'd been missing for days. Couch guy was still there in his absence. Turns out he'd been in a mental hospital. He then came straight back to share a room with me. He pulled a bunch of weird shit. He hid my wallet from me, warned me not to go to work because the computers would kill me. He kept getting naked in living room and wrote unintelligible notes in his journal for hours. \n The guy whose parents actually owned the house, the guy who allowed the prolonged couchery, was a a born again religiousmen who attributed the erratic behavior to his \"recent experimentations with eastern religion\". There were acoustic guitar playing christians up with him at 3am trying to pray him sane again. \n Turns out prayer doesn't work on this particular type of rat poison, so more shit wen't down and he finally ended up going to the looney bin for round two. I think it was his 3rd vist that they actually figured out what was really happening. \n I felt bad afterwards for not intervening during the Jesus phase, but I really had no idea what was going on.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Snorred like a morbidly obese wildebeast.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Well, one of my old coworkers said he used to work in a movie theater and he would put his balls in the popcorn ALL the time when he got bored or pissed or dared to do it.
you could already be eating dick-contaminated popcorn.
[ { "content": "Well, one of my old coworkers said he used to work in a movie theater and he would put his balls in the popcorn ALL the time when he got bored or pissed or dared to do it.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "you could already be eating dick-contaminated popcorn.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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This is a $10/hour call center and he has a brand new luxury car. He also goes to my school. He also wears giant d-bag gold-rimmed faux-70s sunglasses and throws his seat way behind the B-pillar. I think dad takes care of things.
he's an able-bodied douchebrobag that I judge from afar.
[ { "content": "This is a $10/hour call center and he has a brand new luxury car. He also goes to my school. He also wears giant d-bag gold-rimmed faux-70s sunglasses and throws his seat way behind the B-pillar. I think dad takes care of things.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "he's an able-bodied douchebrobag that I judge from afar.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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TIFU by blindly trusting my muscle memory. So I don't usually post anything; I'm mostly just a reddit lurker (so please go easy on me) but this actually just fucking happened about 7 minutes ago and I thought I would vent here. So some background I guess is I'm home from college for winter break. My family bought some new living room seating because our old set was a sofa that let you sit with a bit of fluff between your ass and the floor and a love-seat that matched accordingly. Well apparently my dad thought it would be a GENIUS idea to move the love seat to the master bedroom and switch some furniture around. They moved their massive 6 foot dresser directly blocking the route to the bathroom. This fucker used to be on the left side wall, but because my dad needs his precious love-seat in the room now, they moved it to make the Panama Canal passageway from the bedroom door to the bathroom turn into a trip around the damn south tip of South America. My mom was guilting me into finishing Christmas crafts (after Christmas, yes, because that's when they all go on sale!!!!!! And we can't miss out on a great bargain!!!!!!!! Melty plastic bead ornament set for only 30 cents?!?!?! What a fuckin' steal!!!!!) and we needed some tweezers to place the tiny fucking plastic beads into the ornament stencil. Well I'm all hyped up because I keep fucking up the ornament and decide to run and get the tweezers so I can get it over with and finish the goddamn craft. I run through my parents bedroom to the master bath without turning the light on and I barely get through the door before I slam my fucking big toe and FACE right into the god damn armoire or whatever the fuck it is. It barely missed my fucking eye and now I'm forever wearing blush on my right cheek. Also my toe hurts like a mother fucker. So now I sit fuming in my room with my unfinished craft downstairs along with my mother who just finished yelling at me about overreacting. Sorry for any mistakes blah blah blah.
My parents moved their furniture and I'm pissed about it.
[ { "content": "TIFU by blindly trusting my muscle memory. So I don't usually post anything; I'm mostly just a reddit lurker (so please go easy on me) but this actually just fucking happened about 7 minutes ago and I thought I would vent here. \n So some background I guess is I'm home from college for winter break. My family bought some new living room seating because our old set was a sofa that let you sit with a bit of fluff between your ass and the floor and a love-seat that matched accordingly. Well apparently my dad thought it would be a GENIUS idea to move the love seat to the master bedroom and switch some furniture around. \n They moved their massive 6 foot dresser directly blocking the route to the bathroom. This fucker used to be on the left side wall, but because my dad needs his precious love-seat in the room now, they moved it to make the Panama Canal passageway from the bedroom door to the bathroom turn into a trip around the damn south tip of South America. \n My mom was guilting me into finishing Christmas crafts (after Christmas, yes, because that's when they all go on sale!!!!!! And we can't miss out on a great bargain!!!!!!!! Melty plastic bead ornament set for only 30 cents?!?!?! What a fuckin' steal!!!!!) and we needed some tweezers to place the tiny fucking plastic beads into the ornament stencil. \n Well I'm all hyped up because I keep fucking up the ornament and decide to run and get the tweezers so I can get it over with and finish the goddamn craft. I run through my parents bedroom to the master bath without turning the light on and I barely get through the door before I slam my fucking big toe and FACE right into the god damn armoire or whatever the fuck it is. It barely missed my fucking eye and now I'm forever wearing blush on my right cheek. Also my toe hurts like a mother fucker. \n So now I sit fuming in my room with my unfinished craft downstairs along with my mother who just finished yelling at me about overreacting. \n Sorry for any mistakes blah blah blah.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "My parents moved their furniture and I'm pissed about it.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Vulcan vs Ra, early game I prioritise my 3 then stick one in 1 and focus 2 after that. If Ra missteps I can knock him into my with a 3 bringing him into turret then focus that damage with my 1. On the other hand, if Ra keeps my turret down and uses his 3 to block my poke then he will outfarm me while I waste my mana trying to land my 3.
If Ra can avoid Vulcan's poke then yes, he would be a real pain! Most gods with an AoE like Neith, Artemis and especially Agni with his range can hit my turret while staying out of range and Ra is no exception to that!
[ { "content": "Vulcan vs Ra, early game I prioritise my 3 then stick one in 1 and focus 2 after that. If Ra missteps I can knock him into my with a 3 bringing him into turret then focus that damage with my 1. \n On the other hand, if Ra keeps my turret down and uses his 3 to block my poke then he will outfarm me while I waste my mana trying to land my 3.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "If Ra can avoid Vulcan's poke then yes, he would be a real pain! Most gods with an AoE like Neith, Artemis and especially Agni with his range can hit my turret while staying out of range and Ra is no exception to that!", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I was out with this girl one time, and she wanted to go to the "Pottery Barn." I really didn't want to, but I obliged. It was pretty obvious that I didn't want to go, I had this scowl on my face. Once inside, I noticed there was only one other male inside the store. It was Kris Letang (Pittsburgh Penguins). We both looked at each other a couple times, gave the "dude nod" - as if to say "you never saw me here"
im a huge penguins fan, saw one of my favorite players in an embarrassing situation, didn't even try to communicate because I felt bad he was in the same situation as me
[ { "content": "I was out with this girl one time, and she wanted to go to the \"Pottery Barn.\" I really didn't want to, but I obliged. It was pretty obvious that I didn't want to go, I had this scowl on my face. Once inside, I noticed there was only one other male inside the store. It was Kris Letang (Pittsburgh Penguins). We both looked at each other a couple times, gave the \"dude nod\" - as if to say \"you never saw me here\"", "role": "user" }, { "content": "im a huge penguins fan, saw one of my favorite players in an embarrassing situation, didn't even try to communicate because I felt bad he was in the same situation as me", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Christina Hendricks proves that women's self-imposed standards of attractiveness and men's preferences don't actually line up. This is not to say that thinner fit women are unattractive; just that, for a majority of men, soft skin, ample breasts, and a full butt are huge turn-ons. I'd be willing to bet that a majority of men would prefer a softer stomach to 6-pack abs, and those who don't would be willing to sacrifice the 6-pack for the other assets that come with a softer midsection. The truth is that Victoria's Secret models are chosen to appeal to women and not to men - VS angels represent the ideal of how women want to look.
If you're a woman who takes care of herself, no matter what your body shape, there is a man who thinks you are perfect.
[ { "content": "Christina Hendricks proves that women's self-imposed standards of attractiveness and men's preferences don't actually line up. This is not to say that thinner fit women are unattractive; just that, for a majority of men, soft skin, ample breasts, and a full butt are huge turn-ons. I'd be willing to bet that a majority of men would prefer a softer stomach to 6-pack abs, and those who don't would be willing to sacrifice the 6-pack for the other assets that come with a softer midsection. \n The truth is that Victoria's Secret models are chosen to appeal to women and not to men - VS angels represent the ideal of how women want to look.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "If you're a woman who takes care of herself, no matter what your body shape, there is a man who thinks you are perfect.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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So a friend and I need a turbocharger for building a jet engine. We don't want to spend much money at all, so where can we get a cheap (under $100 would be nice) turbo? eBay yes, but I'm broadening my search. A 2inch inducer is a good size. Basically the size of a T3 is probably good. Any help?
We need a cheap turbocharger.
[ { "content": "So a friend and I need a turbocharger for building a jet engine. We don't want to spend much money at all, so where can we get a cheap (under $100 would be nice) turbo? eBay yes, but I'm broadening my search. A 2inch inducer is a good size. Basically the size of a T3 is probably good. Any help?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "We need a cheap turbocharger.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Finally admitted to having depression and anxiety when I got really suicidal last sept. SSRIs actually stopped the awful ruminating. Went from 50 to 100mg sertraline when the anxiety came bk. I've had an ADHD diagnosis for years, but could only get treatment 6 weeks ago when I moved UK to Canada. my depression always felt like I just couldn't think, at all. Sluggish cognotion.im not dumb but couldnt think (iq tested once at 139, once 129 by ed psyche).Anxiety was/is similar. PhD panic,physical fear of not being able to do tasks. I feel like these are actually both ADHD symptoms. Vyvance has improved my mood hugely. The ssri made me feel just OK, stims reminded me what it felt like to actually have normal energy and focus. SSRIs make me sleepy, slightly emotionally too mellow. stims countering this a bit now. SSRI did help when depression was unbearable, but kinda want to come off it. Reasons I want to ditch SSRI: worried about long term serotonin, maybe dopamine down regulation. Possible seratonin syndrome with stim. Just don't like being on more pharmas than necessary. SSRI sedating. Ssri possibly muting effects of stims. Doc has said stick with ssri if its been working. Says treatment should last at least a year. But says it's my choice. I'm Thinking of reducing by like 10mgs a week or something, maybe down to really low maintenance dose?
think ADHD meds working on mood/energy. Adhd brain slowness probably issue all along.Want to ditch SSRI as stims seem to do the job on there own.
[ { "content": "Finally admitted to having depression and anxiety when I got really suicidal last sept. SSRIs actually stopped the awful ruminating. Went from 50 to 100mg sertraline when the anxiety came bk. \n I've had an ADHD diagnosis for years, but could only get treatment 6 weeks ago when I moved UK to Canada. \n my depression always felt like I just couldn't think, at all. Sluggish cognotion.im not dumb but couldnt think (iq tested once at 139, once 129 by ed psyche).Anxiety was/is similar. PhD panic,physical fear of not being able to do tasks. I feel like these are actually both ADHD symptoms. \n Vyvance has improved my mood hugely. The ssri made me feel just OK, stims reminded me what it felt like to actually have normal energy and focus. \n SSRIs make me sleepy, slightly emotionally too mellow. stims countering this a bit now. SSRI did help when depression was unbearable, but kinda want to come off it. \n Reasons I want to ditch SSRI: worried about long term serotonin, maybe dopamine down regulation. Possible seratonin syndrome with stim. Just don't like being on more pharmas than necessary. SSRI sedating. Ssri possibly muting effects of stims. \n Doc has said stick with ssri if its been working. Says treatment should last at least a year. But says it's my choice. I'm Thinking of reducing by like 10mgs a week or something, maybe down to really low maintenance dose?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "think ADHD meds working on mood/energy. Adhd brain slowness probably issue all along.Want to ditch SSRI as stims seem to do the job on there own.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I didn't like PSG before (i'm a marseille fan, marseille vs inter was a dream, though they both weren't at their best) but now I just outright dislike them. If this does happen to be true, it's like PSG is just whippin' it out and jizzing all over football's face.... and then saying it's okay because it left cab fare.
why??
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Took shrooms for the first time and ended up staring at a stucco wall for four hours. I kid you not, four fucking hours I stared at this wall. While I was staring the wall morphed and changed, fluxuating from just random images into more of a pattern. I began to realize that the wall was showing me how the world was going to end. Let me tell you about that. A great sphere shape falls from the sky, followed by an armada of creatures that remain at about cloud level and watch. The sphere hits the earth and a huge rift opens up. A giant creature begins to crawl out. We're talking the size of the Eiffel Tower giant fucking monster. It has long arms with wicked sharp fingers that reach out and gouge into the ground, ripping up chunks as it scrabbled to pull itself from the rift in the ground. I start to see people and animals fleeing. Humans, tigers, elephants, dogs, cats, birds, all sorts of animals just running alongside humans as every living thing tries to flee this monster. He grabs them in his huge fingers, entire towns of people crushed in one grab. The creatures in the sky begin to stir and strange ships begin to appear. The ships open and soldiers begin to spill out and head towards the ground. I thought they were going to help fight as the humans were regrouping and starting to move in with tanks and guns and jets, but instead the alien soldiers start purging the earth with fire and are collecting samples of plants and animals. The only thing they don't take a sample of is human. They return to the ships in the sky and the creatures begin milling around, churning up the clouds and continuing to observe the carnage below. The beast has pulled himself out of the rift up to his waist now. He is devouring anything he can hold in his hands, even chunks of earth and twisted metal buildings are consumed. His face is like a demon; black slanted eyes, huge gash of a mouth, his nose looked ripped off and his head and face had sharp scraggly fur surrounding it. You know that painting of Jupiter eating his children? Like that but his eyes are solid black. No lids, no eyes, no sockets, just black holes. His torso is twice as long as it should be and he is using his sharp elbows to anchor himself to the ground as he ascends and feasts. There is almost nothing left alive now. A few wretched humans weep at the edges of civilization, clinging to each other as it reaches out yet again to feed. The creatures in the sky are still silently watching, unmoving, unsympathetic. I can see the ocean beginning to rise in the background. A slow flood washes over the desolate land, turning empty holes gouged out by the monster's fingers into great salty lakes. The water spills into the rift as the monster just pulls his hips past the lip of the crevice and it howls in pain as the water hits it. It begins thrashing and slipping back into the giant crack in the ground, when suddenly it tears open the ground in front of it like paper and steam or smoke billows out. Whatever plants or humans are left are vaporized in the toxic smoke that floods the earth and the monster collapses with an ear-splitting death rattle, his huge fingers clawing into the earth one more time as he dies. Before all this started I was seeing other stuff like a weeping angel coming out of the wall towards me and some actually not-terrifying stuff like fairies flying around and flowers blooming. But that monster crawling out of the ground took up most of my trip and to this day I'll grin at my buddy who did the shrooms with me, point at the wall, and say: "Duuude... that wall bro... dat wall."
On shrooms, stucco wall showed me the end of the world.
[ { "content": "Took shrooms for the first time and ended up staring at a stucco wall for four hours. I kid you not, four fucking hours I stared at this wall. While I was staring the wall morphed and changed, fluxuating from just random images into more of a pattern. I began to realize that the wall was showing me how the world was going to end. Let me tell you about that. \n A great sphere shape falls from the sky, followed by an armada of creatures that remain at about cloud level and watch. The sphere hits the earth and a huge rift opens up. A giant creature begins to crawl out. We're talking the size of the Eiffel Tower giant fucking monster. It has long arms with wicked sharp fingers that reach out and gouge into the ground, ripping up chunks as it scrabbled to pull itself from the rift in the ground. I start to see people and animals fleeing. Humans, tigers, elephants, dogs, cats, birds, all sorts of animals just running alongside humans as every living thing tries to flee this monster. He grabs them in his huge fingers, entire towns of people crushed in one grab. The creatures in the sky begin to stir and strange ships begin to appear. The ships open and soldiers begin to spill out and head towards the ground. I thought they were going to help fight as the humans were regrouping and starting to move in with tanks and guns and jets, but instead the alien soldiers start purging the earth with fire and are collecting samples of plants and animals. The only thing they don't take a sample of is human. They return to the ships in the sky and the creatures begin milling around, churning up the clouds and continuing to observe the carnage below. The beast has pulled himself out of the rift up to his waist now. He is devouring anything he can hold in his hands, even chunks of earth and twisted metal buildings are consumed. His face is like a demon; black slanted eyes, huge gash of a mouth, his nose looked ripped off and his head and face had sharp scraggly fur surrounding it. You know that painting of Jupiter eating his children? Like that but his eyes are solid black. No lids, no eyes, no sockets, just black holes. His torso is twice as long as it should be and he is using his sharp elbows to anchor himself to the ground as he ascends and feasts. There is almost nothing left alive now. A few wretched humans weep at the edges of civilization, clinging to each other as it reaches out yet again to feed. The creatures in the sky are still silently watching, unmoving, unsympathetic. I can see the ocean beginning to rise in the background. A slow flood washes over the desolate land, turning empty holes gouged out by the monster's fingers into great salty lakes. The water spills into the rift as the monster just pulls his hips past the lip of the crevice and it howls in pain as the water hits it. It begins thrashing and slipping back into the giant crack in the ground, when suddenly it tears open the ground in front of it like paper and steam or smoke billows out. Whatever plants or humans are left are vaporized in the toxic smoke that floods the earth and the monster collapses with an ear-splitting death rattle, his huge fingers clawing into the earth one more time as he dies. \n Before all this started I was seeing other stuff like a weeping angel coming out of the wall towards me and some actually not-terrifying stuff like fairies flying around and flowers blooming. But that monster crawling out of the ground took up most of my trip and to this day I'll grin at my buddy who did the shrooms with me, point at the wall, and say: \"Duuude... that wall bro... dat wall.\"", "role": "user" }, { "content": "On shrooms, stucco wall showed me the end of the world.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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The problem with relying solely self-policing is that, while in theory customers would move elsewhere, that theory assume both that (1) other carriers are in fact providing substantially better security and that (2) customers are willing to put up with the initial inconvenience to switch. In practice, there's problems with both aspects. Regarding #1, competitors will improve security provided that the marginal cost isn't to high. Quality security is expensive, and carriers would very quickly hit a point of not getting enough return on their investment in security to justify the investment (from a profit standpoint, which is the standpoint they care about). Regarding #2, in general people are terrible at rationally analyzing the probability of different events. To most people (as with any generality, there are exceptions, but those represent a small portion of people), the immediate and very noticeable inconvenience of both the hassle of switching carriers and the hassle of putting up with security measures will vastly outweigh their calculation of the hypothetical probability of some terrorist or other threat. #2 thus feeds #1, since fewer customers are likely to switch carriers, as well as #2 being a problem on its own. Comparable logic is true in other situations (e.g. food safety).
version: Adequate* safety/security/etc measures often don't get implemented without regulation, because it simply doesn't make economic sense for X business in practice, partly because customers don't move to competitors nearly as readily as economic theories generally assume. *I mean adequate in general; I'm not saying the TSA's practices specifically are effective.
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About a month ago I ordered a sweet black kendama. I also got some suggestions from this sub to pick up skateboarding. Well, the Kendama came in ( and I purchased a skateboard ( Feeling like my life was finally coming together, I boarded over to my former sister in law's place where at the time my now ex-wife Debbie was staying. I knocked on the door and nobody answered. That's fine I thought, I'll just hang out in the driveway doing super gnarly light houses. Then Deb will show up and be so overcome with emotion of seeing how great I'm doing that she'll take me back and maybe even go on the road with me for some kind of kendama/yoyo/skateboard tour. Well, the cops showed up. Turns out, they were inside the whole time! I tried to skate away but they tackled me at the end of the driveway. Hello, police brutality much? They also kept calling my kendama a toy. So I have to be disrespected while being arrested? Real nice Deb. I called my friend Daniel to pick me up from the station. Have only talked to Deb through lawyers at this point. She just doesn't respect the craft.
Tried doing light houses to get my wife back, did i do I do the light house correctly? Need a new trick to tell her what's what. She's a word that rhymes with witch, if you catch my drift.
[ { "content": "About a month ago I ordered a sweet black kendama. I also got some suggestions from this sub to pick up skateboarding. \n Well, the Kendama came in ( and I purchased a skateboard ( \n Feeling like my life was finally coming together, I boarded over to my former sister in law's place where at the time my now ex-wife Debbie was staying. \n I knocked on the door and nobody answered. That's fine I thought, I'll just hang out in the driveway doing super gnarly light houses. Then Deb will show up and be so overcome with emotion of seeing how great I'm doing that she'll take me back and maybe even go on the road with me for some kind of kendama/yoyo/skateboard tour. \n Well, the cops showed up. Turns out, they were inside the whole time! I tried to skate away but they tackled me at the end of the driveway. Hello, police brutality much? They also kept calling my kendama a toy. So I have to be disrespected while being arrested? Real nice Deb. \n I called my friend Daniel to pick me up from the station. Have only talked to Deb through lawyers at this point. She just doesn't respect the craft.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Tried doing light houses to get my wife back, did i do I do the light house correctly? Need a new trick to tell her what's what. She's a word that rhymes with witch, if you catch my drift.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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When they introduced them they were great, now they removed hybrid rolls and pretty much made them useless unless you want a resist or some ES/AR/EV on.
welcome back to paying a shitton for meh gear
[ { "content": "When they introduced them they were great, now they removed hybrid rolls and pretty much made them useless unless you want a resist or some ES/AR/EV on.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "welcome back to paying a shitton for meh gear", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I was just playing around in normals with support Shaco, and I found that he's not half-bad. His Q is a good initiating move, W for free wards, E for slow (doesn't really do that much harass), and R for tower pushing/ baiting when necessary. I start off by rushing the enemy red/ blue and triple boxing it until 1:40, which is when I recall. Then the red/ blue is donated to whichever laner is closest. 10% CDR masteries, rush Morellonomicon for CDR/Mana Regen. Kage's for another GP10 (first one for Morello) then get a kindlegem for the last 10% CDR. From there I build Twin Shadows and Mobility Boots. Oh, and the solo dragon whenever the enemy bot lane goes back to fountain. For summoners I take Clarity for mana sustain (Helps out Kog'Maw a lot when he gets 6) and Exhaust. Although, he's pretty flexible here since he doesn't need flash. Masteries 5-4-21. For ganks, I Q in and box behind the enemy for the fear proc and E for the slow. If we get ganked, then the boxes scattered throughout our side/ bushes pushes them away. I'm not saying that he's great, just interesting. Here's a sample of my last few games with him (mostly silver golds, no afks on either side):
Shaco is decent against certain matchups. What do you think of it?
[ { "content": "I was just playing around in normals with support Shaco, and I found that he's not half-bad.\nHis Q is a good initiating move, W for free wards, E for slow (doesn't really do that much harass), and R for tower pushing/ baiting when necessary. \n I start off by rushing the enemy red/ blue and triple boxing it until 1:40, which is when I recall. Then the red/ blue is donated to whichever laner is closest. \n 10% CDR masteries, rush Morellonomicon for CDR/Mana Regen. Kage's for another GP10 (first one for Morello) then get a kindlegem for the last 10% CDR. From there I build Twin Shadows and Mobility Boots. \n Oh, and the solo dragon whenever the enemy bot lane goes back to fountain. \n For summoners I take Clarity for mana sustain (Helps out Kog'Maw a lot when he gets 6) and Exhaust. Although, he's pretty flexible here since he doesn't need flash.\nMasteries 5-4-21. \n For ganks, I Q in and box behind the enemy for the fear proc and E for the slow. If we get ganked, then the boxes scattered throughout our side/ bushes pushes them away. \n I'm not saying that he's great, just interesting. \n Here's a sample of my last few games with him (mostly silver golds, no afks on either side):", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Shaco is decent against certain matchups. What do you think of it?", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Part of the problem here is that racism isn't just on the scale of "I hate blacks and I want to lynch them" (or as everyone seems to refer to it in comments below, "real racism"). Racism is also when your brain keeps track of every time you see a black person commit a crime, but forget about all the white people who commit crimes, and use your confirmation bias to then conclude that black people are mostly criminals. It's the small, subconscious racism that's the problem. In the past, outright racism was okay - you could be a racist in public, and you wouldn't lose respect for it. Nowadays, being explicitly racist is looked down upon (e.g. this guy . It's become part of the social consciousness that racism is bad, and that you shouldn't be racist, and anyone who says racist things is a bad person. No one is ever the villain in their own mind. In our own heads, in our own story, we're the good guy. (This is one of the big sources of cognitive dissonance - when we do something that we personally think is bad, we start making excuses for why it was okay to do it. For a good read on that, check out Mistakes were made (but not by me) And so, people think to themselves, "I'm a good person, and good people aren't racist, so I shouldn't do or say racist things." That's great - that's a huge improvement over explicit racism. But while the conscious mind does have some input into the subconscious, it's not a lot. So thinking to yourself "I'm not racist" doesn't mean you won't ever have racist tendencies. Send each of two groups of people a resume that is identical except the name - one group gets a resume that has at the top a typically "white" name and one gets a typically "black" name. Recruiters in the first group will rate the candidate as more qualified on average than people in the second group, even though the qualifications were identical. Every single one of the people rating the resumes will tell you they're not racist; and when it comes to explicit racism, they're not. But they still have a bias against black people that hasn't disappeared, and that they don't even know about . So when you say that racism isn't something you see, I won't argue with that - you probably don't see it. But I doubt that you've never been exposed to it. It is real. It does happen. But being white, you've never had to deal with it. You've never gotten rejected from a job and had to wonder if it was because of your name, or been stopped by police when you weren't doing anything illegal or even suspicious, or any of the other number of subtle racist things that go on every single day. I know that hipster racism , but it exacerbates that inner, subconscious racism both in you and in other people. I don't really know what the solution is, other than, when a black person tells you that you said something racist and it bothered them, don't defend it . Don't say it was just a joke, because to them it's not a joke, it's their life, and they have to deal with that crap for real every day. Say sorry, and try to figure out why you said it and how to not say something like it again. And I just want to add on the end of this... I may have said something offensive or racist or condescending in this comment. Please tell me if I did. I went to a small private Lutheran school, and a small private Lutheran college, which means that 99% of the humans I interacted with before graduation were upper-middle-class whites. I then worked as an engineer in the (semi-)rural Midwest, which meant more of the same. So while I try to not be racist, I know that the privilege I've been unduly awarded my entire life simply due to birth probably creeps in to what I say. It's not that I want it to - I simply haven't ever had to deal with it myself, or had someone point it out to me. Please, please say something. Because I want to correct the subconscious part of me which I know is lurking down there.
Most of us are probably still subconsciously racist, no matter how much you want to not be. Joking about racism probably makes that worse not better. EDIT: Removed what I had in the edit before because people were taking it out of context and using it as an excuse to whine about how persecuted white guys are, which is really not the point. Yes, I think racism against white people is bad too. No, (in the U.S.) it's anywhere near as prevalent or harmful as racism against minorities.
[ { "content": "Part of the problem here is that racism isn't just on the scale of \"I hate blacks and I want to lynch them\" (or as everyone seems to refer to it in comments below, \"real racism\"). Racism is also when your brain keeps track of every time you see a black person commit a crime, but forget about all the white people who commit crimes, and use your confirmation bias to then conclude that black people are mostly criminals. It's the small, subconscious racism that's the problem. \n In the past, outright racism was okay - you could be a racist in public, and you wouldn't lose respect for it. Nowadays, being explicitly racist is looked down upon (e.g. this guy . It's become part of the social consciousness that racism is bad, and that you shouldn't be racist, and anyone who says racist things is a bad person. \n No one is ever the villain in their own mind. In our own heads, in our own story, we're the good guy. (This is one of the big sources of cognitive dissonance - when we do something that we personally think is bad, we start making excuses for why it was okay to do it. For a good read on that, check out Mistakes were made (but not by me) And so, people think to themselves, \"I'm a good person, and good people aren't racist, so I shouldn't do or say racist things.\" \n That's great - that's a huge improvement over explicit racism. But while the conscious mind does have some input into the subconscious, it's not a lot. So thinking to yourself \"I'm not racist\" doesn't mean you won't ever have racist tendencies. \n Send each of two groups of people a resume that is identical except the name - one group gets a resume that has at the top a typically \"white\" name and one gets a typically \"black\" name. Recruiters in the first group will rate the candidate as more qualified on average than people in the second group, even though the qualifications were identical. Every single one of the people rating the resumes will tell you they're not racist; and when it comes to explicit racism, they're not. But they still have a bias against black people that hasn't disappeared, and that they don't even know about . \n So when you say that racism isn't something you see, I won't argue with that - you probably don't see it. But I doubt that you've never been exposed to it. It is real. It does happen. But being white, you've never had to deal with it. You've never gotten rejected from a job and had to wonder if it was because of your name, or been stopped by police when you weren't doing anything illegal or even suspicious, or any of the other number of subtle racist things that go on every single day. \n I know that hipster racism , but it exacerbates that inner, subconscious racism both in you and in other people. I don't really know what the solution is, other than, when a black person tells you that you said something racist and it bothered them, don't defend it . Don't say it was just a joke, because to them it's not a joke, it's their life, and they have to deal with that crap for real every day. Say sorry, and try to figure out why you said it and how to not say something like it again. \n And I just want to add on the end of this... I may have said something offensive or racist or condescending in this comment. Please tell me if I did. I went to a small private Lutheran school, and a small private Lutheran college, which means that 99% of the humans I interacted with before graduation were upper-middle-class whites. I then worked as an engineer in the (semi-)rural Midwest, which meant more of the same. So while I try to not be racist, I know that the privilege I've been unduly awarded my entire life simply due to birth probably creeps in to what I say. It's not that I want it to - I simply haven't ever had to deal with it myself, or had someone point it out to me. Please, please say something. Because I want to correct the subconscious part of me which I know is lurking down there.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Most of us are probably still subconsciously racist, no matter how much you want to not be. Joking about racism probably makes that worse not better. \n EDIT: Removed what I had in the edit before because people were taking it out of context and using it as an excuse to whine about how persecuted white guys are, which is really not the point. Yes, I think racism against white people is bad too. No, (in the U.S.) it's anywhere near as prevalent or harmful as racism against minorities.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I'm talking 5760 x 3240 uninhibited pixels running free all over that screen. I know combining them could be done simply through a 6 output gfx card, so primarly, can one remove the border? or have a clean edge? Are the edges a necessity?
Is it possible to remove the border from around a monitor, and combine them? closest thing i've found
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I posted this post earlier... I felt that I should elaborate on our relationship more and ask for some advice on how I can be a better girlfriend and save this relationship. Opinions on the relationship itself are of course welcome as well. Basically here's the backstory in short. I had sex twice with two other guys in the first year of us dating. We moved past that as well as we could given the horrible nature of my fuck ups. Naturally, he still has insecurities about the past and we have had a few fights since on boundaries such as me having had guy friends that I hid due to the fact that I was afraid he would be upset. His family in the past was also a little leery of me. Actually his sister still kind of hates me. I live with his family and am about to be entering nursing school (hopefully if I am accepted). I intend on heavily searching for a part time job to help out and to make something of myself. With all that said.. let's get into the stuff about the relationship. When I bring up any sort of issues.. he gets upset and says that I am 'nagging' or 'ganging up on him'. I don't know if I am in the wrong in the way I bring things up or if I need to approach things a certain way... What I have been doing is saying things like 'it makes me feel when you do ' or 'I just get upset when you don't listen to me' and things like that...but if anyone has advice on how to bring up problems in a way that can avoid some big stupid fight please help. Also it seems like he is insecure about me being a huge fan of Ed Sheeran. My friend and I are huge Ed heads and we talk about him often but I do not often discuss Ed with my bf. But when he notices I am talking about Ed with my friend, he gets all exasperated. He does this thing where he 'jokingly' picks on me saying I like Ed better than him or that I am gonna 'leave him for some other guy'.. This is showing how the insecurities are still there to me.. What do ya'll think? How can I be more sensitive and understanding? I guess I feel like a jerk. Another problem we have is when we do fight we can't seem to communicate and when I am telling how I feel he replies with 'ok' and I have to struggle with getting him to communicate. And sometimes it feels like the problem wasn't even solved at all. I don't know if I am approaching things the wrong way or if I just have anger problems and he isn't good at dealing with stress or what... But we cannot keep just acting like nothing is wrong in our relationship. I feel like we are just going through the motions day by day and I don't even know if he truly thinks we can work things out. I hope all of that made sense. For a little more background... I've never witnessed or known what a healthy relationship looks like. My parents' marriage sucks and I really don't want the same thing to happen to me. Feel free to tell me I'm a shitty person because i've heard enough from my other post. Lol.
I cheated on my bf in our first year of dating twice and now we have issues with communication and trust. How can we build our relationship back up and how can I get him to talk about things without there being a huge blow up?
[ { "content": "I posted this post earlier... \n I felt that I should elaborate on our relationship more and ask for some advice on how I can be a better girlfriend and save this relationship. Opinions on the relationship itself are of course welcome as well. \n Basically here's the backstory in short. I had sex twice with two other guys in the first year of us dating. We moved past that as well as we could given the horrible nature of my fuck ups. Naturally, he still has insecurities about the past and we have had a few fights since on boundaries such as me having had guy friends that I hid due to the fact that I was afraid he would be upset. His family in the past was also a little leery of me. Actually his sister still kind of hates me. I live with his family and am about to be entering nursing school (hopefully if I am accepted). I intend on heavily searching for a part time job to help out and to make something of myself. With all that said.. let's get into the stuff about the relationship. \n When I bring up any sort of issues.. he gets upset and says that I am 'nagging' or 'ganging up on him'. I don't know if I am in the wrong in the way I bring things up or if I need to approach things a certain way... What I have been doing is saying things like 'it makes me feel when you do ' or 'I just get upset when you don't listen to me' and things like that...but if anyone has advice on how to bring up problems in a way that can avoid some big stupid fight please help. \n Also it seems like he is insecure about me being a huge fan of Ed Sheeran. My friend and I are huge Ed heads and we talk about him often but I do not often discuss Ed with my bf. But when he notices I am talking about Ed with my friend, he gets all exasperated. He does this thing where he 'jokingly' picks on me saying I like Ed better than him or that I am gonna 'leave him for some other guy'.. This is showing how the insecurities are still there to me.. What do ya'll think? How can I be more sensitive and understanding? I guess I feel like a jerk. \n Another problem we have is when we do fight we can't seem to communicate and when I am telling how I feel he replies with 'ok' and I have to struggle with getting him to communicate. And sometimes it feels like the problem wasn't even solved at all. I don't know if I am approaching things the wrong way or if I just have anger problems and he isn't good at dealing with stress or what... But we cannot keep just acting like nothing is wrong in our relationship. I feel like we are just going through the motions day by day and I don't even know if he truly thinks we can work things out. \n I hope all of that made sense. For a little more background... I've never witnessed or known what a healthy relationship looks like. My parents' marriage sucks and I really don't want the same thing to happen to me. Feel free to tell me I'm a shitty person because i've heard enough from my other post. Lol.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I cheated on my bf in our first year of dating twice and now we have issues with communication and trust. How can we build our relationship back up and how can I get him to talk about things without there being a huge blow up?", "role": "assistant" } ]
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When I was in 3rd grade, I was playing tag with some friends at school. I was running away from my friend who was 'it'. I went to a door to get out of the gym we were playing in. I ran so fast and pushed to hard that I partially ripped the hinges out of the frame. I never denied that I did it. Somehow, someone said I kicked the door open. There was only one possible witness. The person that was "it". There were about 20 other members of my class that claimed to have have seen me do this. The grade school principal came to our classroom after that recess. He stood me in front of the class and then proceeded to hit my foot with a yardstick until I confessed to kicking he door open.
A principal beat a confession out of me in the 3rd grade. He made me confess as to how I did something. Not what I did.
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Step 1: Make him part of Wario Ware, with [his own biker outfit]( His Games could feature him wanting fame and you'd help him by doing PR videos, giving out flyers, and signing autographs. Step 2: Make him team up with Wario. Whether it's in a Wario Land game or feature them both in a Mario and Luigi RPG, just get Waluigi to interact with the Mushroom Kingdom residents outside of sports and parties. Step 3: Make his own game. Story: Tired of never getting his shot at saving the princess and getting the respect he thinks he deserves, Waluigi sets up an elaborate plan to get the princess kidnapped, foil the Mario Bros's tries to save her and step in and claim the fame for his own. Gameplaywise, it would start by showing you the level, kind of like any other Mario platformer level, but before you start you have to place triggers and traps to slowdown/capture Mario or Luigi. You wouldn't be able to change the ground though, and simply tossing him down a ravine would be enough. You'd have to think and lure him into your traps. It'd be like setting up a great Ruben Goldberg machine, but with the ball being one of the Mario Bros (or both in some levels!) the Mario Bros would run automatically, and interact differently with things in the level: Blocks would be hit to reveal the inside, pits would be jumped over, enemies stomped, etc, etc. However, you'd still need to run the level yourself, and dodge your own traps. Another thing could be to collect coins trough out the level to fund more elaborate traps and contract other villains that would kidnap various princesses.
add Him to Wario Ware and Wario Land/Mario & Luigi Rpg, then give Waluigi his own game that is Platformer/Level editor/bridge building-mix. Call it Waluigi's Claim to Fame, and you're gold.
[ { "content": "Step 1: Make him part of Wario Ware, with [his own biker outfit]( His Games could feature him wanting fame and you'd help him by doing PR videos, giving out flyers, and signing autographs. \n Step 2: Make him team up with Wario. Whether it's in a Wario Land game or feature them both in a Mario and Luigi RPG, just get Waluigi to interact with the Mushroom Kingdom residents outside of sports and parties. \n Step 3: Make his own game. Story: Tired of never getting his shot at saving the princess and getting the respect he thinks he deserves, Waluigi sets up an elaborate plan to get the princess kidnapped, foil the Mario Bros's tries to save her and step in and claim the fame for his own. \nGameplaywise, it would start by showing you the level, kind of like any other Mario platformer level, but before you start you have to place triggers and traps to slowdown/capture Mario or Luigi. You wouldn't be able to change the ground though, and simply tossing him down a ravine would be enough. You'd have to think and lure him into your traps. \nIt'd be like setting up a great Ruben Goldberg machine, but with the ball being one of the Mario Bros (or both in some levels!) the Mario Bros would run automatically, and interact differently with things in the level: Blocks would be hit to reveal the inside, pits would be jumped over, enemies stomped, etc, etc. However, you'd still need to run the level yourself, and dodge your own traps. \nAnother thing could be to collect coins trough out the level to fund more elaborate traps and contract other villains that would kidnap various princesses.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "add Him to Wario Ware and Wario Land/Mario & Luigi Rpg, then give Waluigi his own game that is Platformer/Level editor/bridge building-mix. Call it Waluigi's Claim to Fame, and you're gold.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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With our technological advances in communication and regulation, shouldn't the days of voting for someone else to represent us be over? I understand that when the United States began, distance was an issue. There was a need to vote for someone to take it upon themselves to travel to congress and represent his neighbor. Me voting for someone to vote for someone to vote for issues that directly effect myself might have been necessary 200 years ago. There would have been a few people sending a guy they trusted to tell someone else how they wanted to live. Obviously, nowadays, we don't even know the person we are sending to tell other people how we want to live. I can honestly say that I trust the people who represent me less than any one I know. Furthermore, no matter what they tell us, we don't get to pick him/her. This middle man is unnecessary and an exploitation of the however many hundreds of millions who exist in the U.S. The system has become corrupt and exploited, irreparably. Why can't my neighbors and I vote directly on the issues that effect us? Why can't we be the congress and senate? I believe the days of the republic are over. And for humanity to progress, the days of the true democracy must begin. Yes, ideal maybe, but isn't that the point of modern humanity? To strive for realistic idealism? It's either that or trying to find a benevolent dictator (and have fun with that), or evolve into an even better system that hasn't been heard of yet. Or I guess some global disaster that destroys all organization as we know it. But, this is all the opinion of a 22 year old who thinks he knows something. If I'm wrong, someone please explain to me why. I'm just so fucking tired of being helpless in this world. Thanks for reading this far, have a good one.
As far as I know, it's time for the people to control themselves. The middlemen should be cut, if not, after what they've done to this country/world, ruined.
[ { "content": "With our technological advances in communication and regulation, shouldn't the days of voting for someone else to represent us be over? \n I understand that when the United States began, distance was an issue. There was a need to vote for someone to take it upon themselves to travel to congress and represent his neighbor. Me voting for someone to vote for someone to vote for issues that directly effect myself might have been necessary 200 years ago. There would have been a few people sending a guy they trusted to tell someone else how they wanted to live. \n Obviously, nowadays, we don't even know the person we are sending to tell other people how we want to live. I can honestly say that I trust the people who represent me less than any one I know. Furthermore, no matter what they tell us, we don't get to pick him/her. This middle man is unnecessary and an exploitation of the however many hundreds of millions who exist in the U.S. The system has become corrupt and exploited, irreparably. \n Why can't my neighbors and I vote directly on the issues that effect us? Why can't we be the congress and senate? \n I believe the days of the republic are over. And for humanity to progress, the days of the true democracy must begin. Yes, ideal maybe, but isn't that the point of modern humanity? To strive for realistic idealism? It's either that or trying to find a benevolent dictator (and have fun with that), or evolve into an even better system that hasn't been heard of yet. Or I guess some global disaster that destroys all organization as we know it. \n But, this is all the opinion of a 22 year old who thinks he knows something. If I'm wrong, someone please explain to me why. I'm just so fucking tired of being helpless in this world. \n Thanks for reading this far, have a good one.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "As far as I know, it's time for the people to control themselves. The middlemen should be cut, if not, after what they've done to this country/world, ruined.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Going with the throwaway. I came home from the bar one night during my senior year of college, bars are a very rare experience for me, and stumbled into my apartment hammered. I made my way to my room where I found a freshman girl standing naked in my room. The vibe was really wrong. I'd made out with this girl before but never had sex. She walked up to me, grabbed my neck with her nails and said "fuck me like im your little slut." It wasn't hot. It was terrifying. I told her that she had to leave, and that I wasn't into this, but she only became more aggressive. I've never hit a woman. I would NEVER hit a woman. All I could think was, "I need to hit her, the pushing isn't working." I couldn't hit her. I could. not. hit. her. she said to me "If you don't fuck me right now, I'll call the police and report you for raping me. They will believe me, why do you think I scratched you?" She had torn up my neck and hands with her nails. I wanted to cry. I lost my stomach, I lost all the strength I had, and I lost contact with myself completely. I started shaking. I already had an erection, you don't have control over this. She was on top the whole time, and I just laid there. I was on top of the world at the time and she took that all away from me. I lost all self-confidence and stopped trusting people completely. I didn't go to bars anymore and as a result I find them to be highly anxious places. The pain is mental and psychological. I didn't do much of anything for 3 months. My grades dropped, I felt sad all the time, and I wasn't eating. I hated myself for letting it happen, I was pissed off that someone would violate me. I reported the incident and was basically told "men can't get raped, don't let her back in your house." She did not get in trouble, she did not have to have a disciplinary review by the school, it wasn't taken seriously. This whole thing happened about in oct of 2010 and I'm just now getting my confidence back.
Came home to a girl in my bed who I knew, telling me I had to fuck her or else she would report me for rape. EDIT: Thank you guys for your kind words and honest reactions. I didn't know that something like this could happen to me and I certainly didn't know how to react after. I did the best I could, with what I knew. I hope this can serve as an eye opener that even though it might not make sense initially, guys can have serious psychological setbacks from experiences like this.
[ { "content": "Going with the throwaway. \n I came home from the bar one night during my senior year of college, bars are a very rare experience for me, and stumbled into my apartment hammered. I made my way to my room where I found a freshman girl standing naked in my room. The vibe was really wrong. I'd made out with this girl before but never had sex. She walked up to me, grabbed my neck with her nails and said \"fuck me like im your little slut.\" It wasn't hot. It was terrifying.\nI told her that she had to leave, and that I wasn't into this, but she only became more aggressive. I've never hit a woman. I would NEVER hit a woman. All I could think was, \"I need to hit her, the pushing isn't working.\" I couldn't hit her. I could. not. hit. her. she said to me \"If you don't fuck me right now, I'll call the police and report you for raping me. They will believe me, why do you think I scratched you?\" She had torn up my neck and hands with her nails. I wanted to cry. \n I lost my stomach, I lost all the strength I had, and I lost contact with myself completely. I started shaking. I already had an erection, you don't have control over this. She was on top the whole time, and I just laid there.\nI was on top of the world at the time and she took that all away from me. I lost all self-confidence and stopped trusting people completely. I didn't go to bars anymore and as a result I find them to be highly anxious places. The pain is mental and psychological. \n I didn't do much of anything for 3 months. My grades dropped, I felt sad all the time, and I wasn't eating. I hated myself for letting it happen, I was pissed off that someone would violate me.\nI reported the incident and was basically told \"men can't get raped, don't let her back in your house.\" She did not get in trouble, she did not have to have a disciplinary review by the school, it wasn't taken seriously. This whole thing happened about in oct of 2010 and I'm just now getting my confidence back.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Came home to a girl in my bed who I knew, telling me I had to fuck her or else she would report me for rape. \n EDIT: Thank you guys for your kind words and honest reactions. I didn't know that something like this could happen to me and I certainly didn't know how to react after. I did the best I could, with what I knew. I hope this can serve as an eye opener that even though it might not make sense initially, guys can have serious psychological setbacks from experiences like this.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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You're misunderstanding... Sell back down to core that means from augmented which costs 1000, to sell it to get the Hex Core again, getting 400-600 gold back. Not sell the Hex Core. It is well thought out. It's just not well read by you.
you can't read.
[ { "content": "You're misunderstanding... Sell back down to core that means from augmented which costs 1000, to sell it to get the Hex Core again, getting 400-600 gold back. Not sell the Hex Core. It is well thought out. It's just not well read by you.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "you can't read.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I'm not posting this on a throwaway, so hopefully this doesn't back fire on me. I will try to make this as short as I can for all you fine folks. As the title says, I haven't spoken or seen my dad in about 8 years. This was on my own terms. My mom and dad separated when I was 5, and were divorced at 6. He moved between a few cities, but I still saw him every other weekend, and sometimes for breaks in the spring and summer. When I was 7, he started seeing this woman, who I will refer to as Jane from here on out. She had two kids, a daughter, who was 4 years younger than me, and a son two years younger. When I was 8, my dad and Jane had a son together. Since he lived ~2 hours away, I only visited every other weekend, and it was almost always a bad experience. I never liked Jane, and I don't think she liked me much either. I was a quiet and very well behaved. I loved to read and play games. I never gave my parents a fuss, I was the epitome of a perfect child. I always did well in school, I never got into fights with other kids, never threw tantrums, you get the idea. Before my dad was with Jane, he was fun. He played with me, took care of me when my mom worked third shift, took me to the park, watched movies with me, let me play Nintendo, all the good stuff. Then he started seeing Jane, and visiting him always sucked. We were forced to play outside, all day every day. I liked going outside, but we would get in trouble if we wanted to come in and play Nintendo. Almost never did we get to watch TV, nor did we ever get to have snacks. Myself and Jane's son were always stuck watching her daughter and our baby brother. Now, some people might think that's a decent way to raise your children, and I'm not disagreeing. However, I never had behavior problems, and seeing my dad was no longer fun. I started to dread going, because I couldn't stand being around Jane or her kids. Anytime either of Jane's kids would do anything wrong, we all would suffer. I'm trying to think of examples, but nothing is coming to mind besides one. We shared a tube of toothpaste, and somebody squeezed it from the middle, rather than the bottom. We all got time outs for that. I don't think I was older than 9 or 10. There are many more instances like that, but I am having a hard time remembering. We were being punished for the most silly things, and almost every time, it wasn't me who did anything wrong. My dad was a changed person after moving in with Jane. The few moments that we did get to be alone were cherished. Even if it was just running to the store or riding in the car to take me home. One thing that really made me mad happened when I was young (probably third or fourth grade). My dad had back surgery, and was in the hospital for a while. It was in another city a few hours away, and although my family went and visited, I did not, because I had school. Shortly after, he called me, and demanded to know why I didn't call or visit him in the hospital. His girlfriend did the same. At the time I didn't know how to handle it. I remember crying because I felt guilty, but at the same time being confused, because I don't think I was really mature enough to understand how to handle that situation. I was just a kid. I can't remember what ever came of that, but I do believe my mom had a strongly worded conversation with Jane. As time went on, I always hated going to my dad's, because I couldn't stand his girlfriend or kids. As I said, it was never fun, and we always were getting in trouble. There were a few times I recall my dad trying to stand up for me to his girlfriend, but she always accused him of favoring me. As you can imagine, it was hard to overhear those things. Eventually I refused to visit him or talk to him (even though the custody agreement said otherwise). This was when I was about 12. Anytime he called I ignored it, and I'm assuming my mom took care of the rest. I still don't know exactly what happened to this day. I haven't gotten a card for any of my birthdays since I was 13 maybe, for graduation, or anything. Not a call, not anything. Some people think this is shady, but I really don't, because that was how I wanted it to be. For the most part, I turned out just fine, although I definitely had some possible "daddy issues". In high school I tended to date guys who were a year or two older, and was very clingy/needy. I am very proud to say though, that I have matured and grown past that. My current boyfriend is 3 years older, but it's a solid relationship and I don't feel dependent on him for my happiness. I have a tendency to get along with guys better than girls, but I have some good girl friends as well. I think that's more of a personality/interest thing, though. Anyway, it's been 8 years since I've made contact, and for over a year now, I've had this longing to reach out. Why? I don't really know. He is still with his girlfriend, and I suspect he is "sticking with her". I hate to say it, but she is crazy. She has filed for restraining orders against him and tried him for domestic abuse (I know this because the state they live in has free public record databases). Now, I don't know for certain, but I don't think my dad would lay a finger on a woman. Ever. He can be a tough guy, but deep down he has always been a compassionate teddy bear. His girlfriend has always been unstable (she was a stripper when they started dating), bouncing from job to job, and had more than one abortion before having my brother. My mom and I both speculate the only reason he is still with his girlfriend is because of my brother. Her other two children were in their father's custody, and I don't think she would be able to properly raise my brother on her own. Generally it's hard for men to get custody, especially considering I was with my mom. I really miss my dad, even though I know he has screwed up. He doesn't have it all together, all the time, but he's not a bad person, and he's great when he's away from his girlfriend. The older I get, the more I want him in my life, but I don't even know how to approach the situation. I want to reach out and talk and visit and try to rebuild a relationship. I know he would never turn me away, and I know he misses me too, but I don't know how you just start talking to someone after 8 years. Sorry guys, I thought this wouldn't be so long, but THANK YOU to anybody who reads and responds to this. I didn't proof read it, because it was already incredibly hard to write out the first time. Forgive me for any grammatical/spelling errors.
I haven't seen or spoken to my dad in eight years, mainly by my own choice. I want to rebuild a relationship, but I don't even know where to begin.
[ { "content": "I'm not posting this on a throwaway, so hopefully this doesn't back fire on me. \n I will try to make this as short as I can for all you fine folks. \n As the title says, I haven't spoken or seen my dad in about 8 years. This was on my own terms. My mom and dad separated when I was 5, and were divorced at 6. He moved between a few cities, but I still saw him every other weekend, and sometimes for breaks in the spring and summer. When I was 7, he started seeing this woman, who I will refer to as Jane from here on out. She had two kids, a daughter, who was 4 years younger than me, and a son two years younger. When I was 8, my dad and Jane had a son together. \n Since he lived ~2 hours away, I only visited every other weekend, and it was almost always a bad experience. I never liked Jane, and I don't think she liked me much either. I was a quiet and very well behaved. I loved to read and play games. I never gave my parents a fuss, I was the epitome of a perfect child. I always did well in school, I never got into fights with other kids, never threw tantrums, you get the idea. \n Before my dad was with Jane, he was fun. He played with me, took care of me when my mom worked third shift, took me to the park, watched movies with me, let me play Nintendo, all the good stuff. Then he started seeing Jane, and visiting him always sucked. We were forced to play outside, all day every day. I liked going outside, but we would get in trouble if we wanted to come in and play Nintendo. Almost never did we get to watch TV, nor did we ever get to have snacks. Myself and Jane's son were always stuck watching her daughter and our baby brother. \n Now, some people might think that's a decent way to raise your children, and I'm not disagreeing. However, I never had behavior problems, and seeing my dad was no longer fun. I started to dread going, because I couldn't stand being around Jane or her kids. Anytime either of Jane's kids would do anything wrong, we all would suffer. I'm trying to think of examples, but nothing is coming to mind besides one. \n We shared a tube of toothpaste, and somebody squeezed it from the middle, rather than the bottom. We all got time outs for that. I don't think I was older than 9 or 10. There are many more instances like that, but I am having a hard time remembering. We were being punished for the most silly things, and almost every time, it wasn't me who did anything wrong. \n My dad was a changed person after moving in with Jane. The few moments that we did get to be alone were cherished. Even if it was just running to the store or riding in the car to take me home. \n One thing that really made me mad happened when I was young (probably third or fourth grade). My dad had back surgery, and was in the hospital for a while. It was in another city a few hours away, and although my family went and visited, I did not, because I had school. Shortly after, he called me, and demanded to know why I didn't call or visit him in the hospital. His girlfriend did the same. At the time I didn't know how to handle it. I remember crying because I felt guilty, but at the same time being confused, because I don't think I was really mature enough to understand how to handle that situation. I was just a kid. I can't remember what ever came of that, but I do believe my mom had a strongly worded conversation with Jane. \n As time went on, I always hated going to my dad's, because I couldn't stand his girlfriend or kids. As I said, it was never fun, and we always were getting in trouble. There were a few times I recall my dad trying to stand up for me to his girlfriend, but she always accused him of favoring me. As you can imagine, it was hard to overhear those things. \n Eventually I refused to visit him or talk to him (even though the custody agreement said otherwise). This was when I was about 12. Anytime he called I ignored it, and I'm assuming my mom took care of the rest. I still don't know exactly what happened to this day. I haven't gotten a card for any of my birthdays since I was 13 maybe, for graduation, or anything. Not a call, not anything. Some people think this is shady, but I really don't, because that was how I wanted it to be. \n For the most part, I turned out just fine, although I definitely had some possible \"daddy issues\". In high school I tended to date guys who were a year or two older, and was very clingy/needy. I am very proud to say though, that I have matured and grown past that. My current boyfriend is 3 years older, but it's a solid relationship and I don't feel dependent on him for my happiness. I have a tendency to get along with guys better than girls, but I have some good girl friends as well. I think that's more of a personality/interest thing, though. \n Anyway, it's been 8 years since I've made contact, and for over a year now, I've had this longing to reach out. Why? I don't really know. He is still with his girlfriend, and I suspect he is \"sticking with her\". I hate to say it, but she is crazy. She has filed for restraining orders against him and tried him for domestic abuse (I know this because the state they live in has free public record databases). Now, I don't know for certain, but I don't think my dad would lay a finger on a woman. Ever. He can be a tough guy, but deep down he has always been a compassionate teddy bear. His girlfriend has always been unstable (she was a stripper when they started dating), bouncing from job to job, and had more than one abortion before having my brother. My mom and I both speculate the only reason he is still with his girlfriend is because of my brother. Her other two children were in their father's custody, and I don't think she would be able to properly raise my brother on her own. Generally it's hard for men to get custody, especially considering I was with my mom. \n I really miss my dad, even though I know he has screwed up. He doesn't have it all together, all the time, but he's not a bad person, and he's great when he's away from his girlfriend. The older I get, the more I want him in my life, but I don't even know how to approach the situation. I want to reach out and talk and visit and try to rebuild a relationship. I know he would never turn me away, and I know he misses me too, but I don't know how you just start talking to someone after 8 years. \n Sorry guys, I thought this wouldn't be so long, but THANK YOU to anybody who reads and responds to this. I didn't proof read it, because it was already incredibly hard to write out the first time. Forgive me for any grammatical/spelling errors.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I haven't seen or spoken to my dad in eight years, mainly by my own choice. I want to rebuild a relationship, but I don't even know where to begin.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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My bf (29/M) and I (26/F) moved into our apartment which is 1 of 4 in our small complex, and is on the 2nd floor. We live in a very small college town so most of the units and houses in the area are rented out to college students for a semester or two. BF, however, lives here for work and has been renting from the property owners for about 3 years now. We live in one of the quieter units, but still the houses around us are pretty noisy. We understand it's a college town, not much to be done about it, but all in all we have lived here with no complaints. About 6 months ago a guy and a chick, I'm guessing around their late 20's moved into the unit beneath us. We never had anyone live below us, and realized that we can hear almost literally everything they do. From opening cabinets, walking around, watching television or listening to music. They are pretty loud talkers, seem to always talk in a yelling voice, so we can hear that too. I realized that they can probably hear us as well, so we tried to be more courteous around our place. Both my BF and I are pretty introverted, not loud walkers, low voice, so we didn't think there would be a problem. I also suffer from severe chronic pain, it's very difficult for me to get any sleep and any noise can keep me awake for hours.. so I really did put the effort to not disturb our neighbors. It started on the first week, they were abnormally loud but we didn't think much about it. It was a bit of a minor annoyance. We could hear them having loud sex, listening to their music extremely loud, etc. However, when my boyfriend and I had sex.. I heard this loud noise that sounded like a gunshot going off in the apartment complex. I then realized, it was our neighbors banging on the ceiling of their unit, probably with a broom or something. The thing is, I have really excruciating pain almost 95% of the time. My boyfriend has to be gentle. It's not like we were banging away or anything, maybe a few moans here or there. I was embarrassed as fuck. It didn't really stop there. When we would be going to our car, and would nod and say "hey" they would give us dirty looks. Any time we made any noise, they would bang repeatedly on the ceiling. It's so loud, that I feel like I'm going to have a heart attack because it's so unexpected. Once during the day, I tripped and my knee hit the floor (caught myself on the couch so only one thump, skinned my knee a bit) and then there were about 10-15 bangs on the ceiling. Me and my boyfriend do watch television at night, and yeah we watch television in the living room after 10 p.m. Like I said, I have trouble sleeping so usually we will put on a quiet documentary and just cuddle on the couch until I can fall asleep. We try to be very courteous with the volume, to the point where we have to put subtitles on to understand what's being said. However, it seems like it's not enough and some sound still gets through. Always lots of banging, which scares us to death, so we usually just turn it off and lay in bed for hours. I feel like we cannot do anything around our place. I did test the volume, and went into our bedroom and shut the door. You could tell there was some noise, but it wasn't loud or anything, in fact I don't think they would be able to hear it from in their bedroom. We then realized that it's not keeping them awake (for one it's not very loud). The same night, we went out to take a walk (2 hours after the banging, so around midnight) and you could see from the front of the apartment that their living room light was on and hear they put on some music. My BF commented, not only did we keep our volume so WE could barely hear it, but they weren't trying to sleep, couldn't hear it from their bedroom, and stay up all night doing whatever they want. He is very frustrated and feels like we cannot even live in our own place. What do you suggest? Should we contact the landlord? I was thinking about writing them a polite letter, but my BF said it's probably best to contact the landlord before they turn around and do it themselves. Are we the ones being obnoxious neighbors? I really don't know what to do at this point.
Neighbors bang on the ceiling of their apartment at seemingly any noise we make, getting frustrated trying to accommodate them when we can hear every noise they make too.
[ { "content": "My bf (29/M) and I (26/F) moved into our apartment which is 1 of 4 in our small complex, and is on the 2nd floor. We live in a very small college town so most of the units and houses in the area are rented out to college students for a semester or two. BF, however, lives here for work and has been renting from the property owners for about 3 years now. We live in one of the quieter units, but still the houses around us are pretty noisy. We understand it's a college town, not much to be done about it, but all in all we have lived here with no complaints. \n About 6 months ago a guy and a chick, I'm guessing around their late 20's moved into the unit beneath us. We never had anyone live below us, and realized that we can hear almost literally everything they do. From opening cabinets, walking around, watching television or listening to music. They are pretty loud talkers, seem to always talk in a yelling voice, so we can hear that too. I realized that they can probably hear us as well, so we tried to be more courteous around our place. Both my BF and I are pretty introverted, not loud walkers, low voice, so we didn't think there would be a problem. I also suffer from severe chronic pain, it's very difficult for me to get any sleep and any noise can keep me awake for hours.. so I really did put the effort to not disturb our neighbors. \n It started on the first week, they were abnormally loud but we didn't think much about it. It was a bit of a minor annoyance. We could hear them having loud sex, listening to their music extremely loud, etc. However, when my boyfriend and I had sex.. I heard this loud noise that sounded like a gunshot going off in the apartment complex. I then realized, it was our neighbors banging on the ceiling of their unit, probably with a broom or something. The thing is, I have really excruciating pain almost 95% of the time. My boyfriend has to be gentle. It's not like we were banging away or anything, maybe a few moans here or there. I was embarrassed as fuck. \n It didn't really stop there. When we would be going to our car, and would nod and say \"hey\" they would give us dirty looks. Any time we made any noise, they would bang repeatedly on the ceiling. It's so loud, that I feel like I'm going to have a heart attack because it's so unexpected. Once during the day, I tripped and my knee hit the floor (caught myself on the couch so only one thump, skinned my knee a bit) and then there were about 10-15 bangs on the ceiling. \n Me and my boyfriend do watch television at night, and yeah we watch television in the living room after 10 p.m. Like I said, I have trouble sleeping so usually we will put on a quiet documentary and just cuddle on the couch until I can fall asleep. We try to be very courteous with the volume, to the point where we have to put subtitles on to understand what's being said. However, it seems like it's not enough and some sound still gets through. Always lots of banging, which scares us to death, so we usually just turn it off and lay in bed for hours. I feel like we cannot do anything around our place. I did test the volume, and went into our bedroom and shut the door. You could tell there was some noise, but it wasn't loud or anything, in fact I don't think they would be able to hear it from in their bedroom. We then realized that it's not keeping them awake (for one it's not very loud). The same night, we went out to take a walk (2 hours after the banging, so around midnight) and you could see from the front of the apartment that their living room light was on and hear they put on some music. My BF commented, not only did we keep our volume so WE could barely hear it, but they weren't trying to sleep, couldn't hear it from their bedroom, and stay up all night doing whatever they want. He is very frustrated and feels like we cannot even live in our own place. \n What do you suggest? Should we contact the landlord? I was thinking about writing them a polite letter, but my BF said it's probably best to contact the landlord before they turn around and do it themselves. Are we the ones being obnoxious neighbors? I really don't know what to do at this point.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Neighbors bang on the ceiling of their apartment at seemingly any noise we make, getting frustrated trying to accommodate them when we can hear every noise they make too.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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When my wife and I argue, she will tend to invent a scenario of what she thinks I feel, i.e. we've disagreed about some painting work in the house, she may say 'Well you think I'm just totally useless then, since I can't even paint a piece of wood, you think everything I do is just completely shit isn't it?'. Or, if I say I want to go out to hang around with a friend when we're already in a heightened state of tension, she may say 'yeah that's right, go and hang out with your friend and smoke weed all day because that's clearly the only thing you want to do!' (For the record, I don't smoke, he does.) I understand that at this point, my proper response should be to illustrate in a non-combatative manner how I'm feeling, what I meant to convey and the possiblity that either I didn't communicate effectively or that she misunderstood. I should be showing how I do care about her and this argument is now more about our feelings and emotion riding up than the actual issue at hand. Unfortunately, as bickering gets to a point where I realise I should start to defuse it as an argument, her demenour often changes to become very dismissive: She pinches her mouth and nods 'of course' as a reply to most of my comments, rolls her eyes, or walks out of the room while I'm talking. This really gets my goat and I find it incredible hard to keep calm - I really don't know how to react. At this point I feel like I'm putting myself out on a limb and into a vulnerable position to try and mediate with an olive branch (i.e. admitting that I could have been wrong, when the argument to this point is based on the fact that we both think we're in the right) - and it feels like my hand is slapped away, and that if she doesn't care, why should I care? I understand that this is just a way she deals with conflict, but this same scenario has occured multiple times in the last few weeks. I never used to get any kind of malaise or depressing thoughts, but twice recently after these arguments I've just drifted into bed and stared at the ceiling for hours, completly devoid of anything. I really don't know what to do - what can I do so she doesn't react in this way, and what can I do to not let myself get wound up in an escalating battle of 'No, I don't give a shit' that ends up with her sleeping on the couch and us not talking for a day or two? For what it's worth my wife and I get on very well in general, but these arguments have become more common/severe recently (aside from a small section just after our marriage) the few and minor disagreements we do have, generally involve: Her tidiness (she professes to be clean, but seems to find it hard to not leave her things strewn around) My guitar playing (she would like us to watch TV together) Her drinking (I think she drinks too much, she thinks that I want to leave early) My health (she thinks I'm holier than thou because I don't drink and work-out, I don't think so, but think she could do with getting fitter) Sex (I'm not sure my needs are met by her level of libido, but she doesn't want me to masturbate)
Wife uses dismissal as an end-game in arguments, I find it very hard to deal with and so reciprocate and we end up spending the nights sleeping apart and/or not talking.
[ { "content": "When my wife and I argue, she will tend to invent a scenario of what she thinks I feel, i.e. we've disagreed about some painting work in the house, she may say 'Well you think I'm just totally useless then, since I can't even paint a piece of wood, you think everything I do is just completely shit isn't it?'. \n Or, if I say I want to go out to hang around with a friend when we're already in a heightened state of tension, she may say 'yeah that's right, go and hang out with your friend and smoke weed all day because that's clearly the only thing you want to do!' \n (For the record, I don't smoke, he does.) \n I understand that at this point, my proper response should be to illustrate in a non-combatative manner how I'm feeling, what I meant to convey and the possiblity that either I didn't communicate effectively or that she misunderstood. I should be showing how I do care about her and this argument is now more about our feelings and emotion riding up than the actual issue at hand. \n Unfortunately, as bickering gets to a point where I realise I should start to defuse it as an argument, her demenour often changes to become very dismissive: She pinches her mouth and nods 'of course' as a reply to most of my comments, rolls her eyes, or walks out of the room while I'm talking. \n This really gets my goat and I find it incredible hard to keep calm - I really don't know how to react. At this point I feel like I'm putting myself out on a limb and into a vulnerable position to try and mediate with an olive branch (i.e. admitting that I could have been wrong, when the argument to this point is based on the fact that we both think we're in the right) - and it feels like my hand is slapped away, and that if she doesn't care, why should I care? \n I understand that this is just a way she deals with conflict, but this same scenario has occured multiple times in the last few weeks. \n I never used to get any kind of malaise or depressing thoughts, but twice recently after these arguments I've just drifted into bed and stared at the ceiling for hours, completly devoid of anything. \n I really don't know what to do - what can I do so she doesn't react in this way, and what can I do to not let myself get wound up in an escalating battle of 'No, I don't give a shit' that ends up with her sleeping on the couch and us not talking for a day or two? \n For what it's worth my wife and I get on very well in general, but these arguments have become more common/severe recently (aside from a small section just after our marriage) the few and minor disagreements we do have, generally involve: \n \n Her tidiness (she professes to be clean, but seems to find it hard to not leave her things strewn around) \n My guitar playing (she would like us to watch TV together) \n Her drinking (I think she drinks too much, she thinks that I want to leave early) \n My health (she thinks I'm holier than thou because I don't drink and work-out, I don't think so, but think she could do with getting fitter) \n Sex (I'm not sure my needs are met by her level of libido, but she doesn't want me to masturbate)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Wife uses dismissal as an end-game in arguments, I find it very hard to deal with and so reciprocate and we end up spending the nights sleeping apart and/or not talking.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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As I logged onto my Facebook account, I readily realized that I was using Internet Explorer, on top of which had no AdBlock in use. I was appalled, but had no access to my personal computer, which also has spell check included with my favorite internet browser, Firefox (I'm trying to subtly apologize for any spelling mistakes that I may not notice due to lack of red squigglies underlining misspelled words). The person who owns this computer doesn't like upgrades (decent operating system, good anti-virus, the important stuff), so I trudged into the deep of Facebook, forced to see all the atrocities I am spared normally by my internet browser. I'm scrolling down through my feed on Facebook, seeing what's going on with my closest friends, when out of the corner of my eye, what should I see but our great and wonderful Brand. I saw him standing in his tiny little square of glory, and then I saw the text underneath. "Tired of Diablo II? Join a game that takes dungeons to a new level." I was a little confused, but I thought, "Oh, weird, new LoL advertisement. Hmm, wonder how it would have known I like League since this person only searches How-to videos on Bing (not lying, they actually think Bing is completely superior in every way to Google)." Then I saw the link to this game, "Play WarTune." Dafuq? The hell is WarTune? Why the fuck is Brand representing this WarTune thing? So I thought to take a screenshot to show you guys. You know what happened? The ad disappeared. The ad FUCKING disappeared! Right as I was about to hit alt+PrtScn just like I learned in that crappy computer programming class, the ad disappeared. I was pissed. How would I have proof for you guys? So now all I have is this story, and my word as a fellow summoner in the League.
I rode on monkey boy's back for a truly outrageous victory.
[ { "content": "As I logged onto my Facebook account, I readily realized that I was using Internet Explorer, on top of which had no AdBlock in use. I was appalled, but had no access to my personal computer, which also has spell check included with my favorite internet browser, Firefox (I'm trying to subtly apologize for any spelling mistakes that I may not notice due to lack of red squigglies underlining misspelled words). The person who owns this computer doesn't like upgrades (decent operating system, good anti-virus, the important stuff), so I trudged into the deep of Facebook, forced to see all the atrocities I am spared normally by my internet browser. I'm scrolling down through my feed on Facebook, seeing what's going on with my closest friends, when out of the corner of my eye, what should I see but our great and wonderful Brand. I saw him standing in his tiny little square of glory, and then I saw the text underneath. \"Tired of Diablo II? Join a game that takes dungeons to a new level.\" I was a little confused, but I thought, \"Oh, weird, new LoL advertisement. Hmm, wonder how it would have known I like League since this person only searches How-to videos on Bing (not lying, they actually think Bing is completely superior in every way to Google).\" Then I saw the link to this game, \"Play WarTune.\" Dafuq? The hell is WarTune? Why the fuck is Brand representing this WarTune thing? So I thought to take a screenshot to show you guys. You know what happened? The ad disappeared. The ad FUCKING disappeared! Right as I was about to hit alt+PrtScn just like I learned in that crappy computer programming class, the ad disappeared. I was pissed. How would I have proof for you guys? So now all I have is this story, and my word as a fellow summoner in the League.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I rode on monkey boy's back for a truly outrageous victory.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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TIFU this morning. I've always been told to set my parking brake when I park. I have basically ignored that gem of info unless I'm driving a stick shift. This morning I went out and turned my vehicle on to defrost ( yes it was in park). I ran back inside for a few minutes because it's been well below freezing. Upon exiting my residence I panicked thinking my vehicle had been stolen. Nope, it was now across the street parked firmly against my neighbors mobile. Turns out my tranny linkage is getting weak and it popped into reverse! Apparently my weight and slamming the door was enough to get it moving. I swear my vehicle suffered more damage than the mobile did. It caved in my taillight area including the metal and the bumper. The best part is, it was just in the repair shop. Oh AND the neighbors just had their siding redone. The mobile will need some siding and hopefully nothing in the mobile was damaged. Lesson learned, I'm always setting my parking break from now on. FML
Didn't set my parking brake, my car hit my neighbors house. Now I have to fix my car and a home :/
[ { "content": "TIFU this morning. \n I've always been told to set my parking brake when I park. I have basically ignored that gem of info unless I'm driving a stick shift. \nThis morning I went out and turned my vehicle on to defrost ( yes it was in park). I ran back inside for a few minutes because it's been well below freezing. Upon exiting my residence I panicked thinking my vehicle had been stolen. Nope, it was now across the street parked firmly against my neighbors mobile. Turns out my tranny linkage is getting weak and it popped into reverse! Apparently my weight and slamming the door was enough to get it moving. \n I swear my vehicle suffered more damage than the mobile did. It caved in my taillight area including the metal and the bumper. The best part is, it was just in the repair shop. Oh AND the neighbors just had their siding redone. The mobile will need some siding and hopefully nothing in the mobile was damaged. \n Lesson learned, I'm always setting my parking break from now on. \n FML", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Didn't set my parking brake, my car hit my neighbors house. Now I have to fix my car and a home :/", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I had Batman punch a guard in the crow's nest on Penguin's boat so hard that he flipped over the railing and fell through the roof of the cabin. The height was enough to kill the guy for sure. I couldn't get into the cabin, but if I used detective vision, you could see the corpse laying there. I went and worked on a couple other missions for a bit, and when I came back and used detective vision, the body was still there... I've also had Batman grapple people off roofs and drop unconscious people into freezing cold water.
I turned Batman into a murderer =[
[ { "content": "I had Batman punch a guard in the crow's nest on Penguin's boat so hard that he flipped over the railing and fell through the roof of the cabin. The height was enough to kill the guy for sure. I couldn't get into the cabin, but if I used detective vision, you could see the corpse laying there. I went and worked on a couple other missions for a bit, and when I came back and used detective vision, the body was still there...\nI've also had Batman grapple people off roofs and drop unconscious people into freezing cold water.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I turned Batman into a murderer =[", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Let's share our hat stories and reminisce about the good old days. I remember my very first hat. It was a special day. Long before the all the trade posts, and crates, and the Mann Co. Store. Back to a time when you either got a lucky drop, or crafted it through your own will. My first hat was of the former and to this date I wear it proudly. A Vintage Merryweather, now a Vintage Vintage Merryweather, my personal favorite hat. The server went nuts. I went nuts. That was the beginning of an era, and I knew my goal. 1 hat per class. My next hat was a craft. I know we may have forgotten, and I know some of you don't want to remember, but there was once a time when metal was 3 items per scrap. 3 PER SCRAP!!! I cry myself to sleep thinking about all the metal I wasted trying to craft the weapons I wanted at the outrageous cost of 3 per scrap, not to mention all those class and slot tokens. All for the same weapons I could've gotten through achievements, by the way. Anyway, it took a long time, and I had to give up some weapons I liked, but I finally got it, a Fancy Fedora. My favorite was spy, so once again, I was ecstatic. Next up was the Festive Winter Crate. Yep, I unboxed a hat, the Killers Kabuto, which I thought was pretty awesome. I was 3 for 3. But then, something happened. They released a new spy hat, Detective Noir, and I needed it. Trading had just come out, and the asking price was the Killers Kabuto. I didn't really like soldier at the time (now one of my favorites), so I took the trade, and I was left with an extra Fedora. I really liked the Bonk Helm, so I traded for that. In retrospect, I regret doing the trade. Finally, after metal went down to 2 per scrap, and drop rates went up, I crafted my next hat pretty easily. I believe it was a Puglist's Protector. Unlucky me I guess. Then, I found out you could craft hats together, and I went craft happy. I don't recall exactly what I got crafting what with what, but I believe I crafted the Bonk with the Puglists and got Ze Goggles, which in turn I crafted with a free hat (Gibus? Alien Swarm? This was post Vintage, so no regrets) and got the Hound Dog, which I wear to this day. Also, somewhere along the lines, I crafted a Gentleman's Gatsby. The timeline between these various hats are hazy. Then, TF2 went F2P, although I'm not mad about that. What I'm really mad about is the fact they decided to insult us with that GODFUCKINGUGLYPIECEOFSHIT known as the Proof of Purchase. Thank God for the Manniversary Update. I crafted the POP with the Paper Hat and got a Surgeon's Stahlhelm. I like the design, don't really like the way it looks on the medic, but it was untradeable, so the Gatsby came off and I wear the Stahlhelm now. Finally, I discovered r/tf2trade. It's taken a much longer time for me to get 1 hat per class than it should, but i don't have the time to play much. However, with r/tf2trade, it looks like I'll reach my goal soon. My most recent craft hat was the Stout Shako. It's okay and I'd rather have my Killer Kabuto back, but I'll wait to upgrade at a later date. With and extra Gatsby, I only needed to hat my Sniper, Demo, Scout, and Engie. I got a Larrakin Robin for the Gatsby. I liked the hat, but I don't play Lucksman, so i went and traded that plus metal for a Rimmed Raincatcher. Personally, I'd prefer a Tippler's or Buccaneer's. Just a couple of hours ago, I bought a Dirty Professional's Panama. Since I'm going for hats I like, I very much prefer going dirty route. It's much cheaper. I wouldn't mind trading some of the clean ones I don't really care about for dirty ones I want (+ Metal of course), like my Shako or the Raincatcher. Anyway, thank you Reddit, for getting my close to achieving my goal. Working towards buying a Texas Ten Gallon and a Baker Boy. After I hat each class, the next step is Stranges, then Paints, Name Tags, and so on. Thanks for taking your time to read all that. Please post your stories. I'll read every single word, no matter how long. I promise! Finally,
A story about all my hats. Please tell me yours.
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My dad has always been the opinionated one. If he has an opinion, you will know it and no amount of anything you say will change it. We had tonnes of arguments growing up where he would go on and on about something I'd do. And I'm talking wearing a dress with army boots or deciding to grow my hair longer. He still brings the dress one up now as a scoff one of those things. My mum is better. She will only join in if she agrees but is generally on my side. I've been to therapy before about my dad. It helped but maybe I need to go back. The other day I went to visit to drop off something I borrowed. My dad started voicing about my very minor case of dermatillomania (obsessive skin picking. It only happens when I'm stressed which I really am right now. I've literally got two marks on my chest). He went on and on about how bad it looked (I don't care) and how it's akin to me just slashing my wrists and hey do you remember when we had to take you to the doctors when you were 15 because you were anorexic (I wasn't, was just growing and losing some chub). On and on and on. I fucking snapped. Picked up my keys and told him I didn't come over here to be ripped apart. My mum stuck up for him and said he was only trying to help me. I still don't know how, he was literally just pointing out times I wasn't on point. He was shouting at me by this point and I just burst into tears. Then he tries to be all nice and "oh I'm sorry I was just trying to help. You're just sensitive". No. I'm feeling pretty done. He's been like this my whole life and I can't handle it. He's been getting annoyed that I won't move back in since I'm having issues with my apartment but fuck no. I did it once before and it was horrific. I just don't know what to do with him. I've thought about going back to therapy, but money is none existent and I can't afford it. I just do not want to see him anymore. I know he thinks he means well, but it hurts when he constantly mocks me about things that happened such a long time ago. Any advice?
dad can be pretty mean sometimes and I'm sick of it. What to do?
[ { "content": "My dad has always been the opinionated one. If he has an opinion, you will know it and no amount of anything you say will change it. We had tonnes of arguments growing up where he would go on and on about something I'd do. And I'm talking wearing a dress with army boots or deciding to grow my hair longer. He still brings the dress one up now as a scoff one of those things. \nMy mum is better. She will only join in if she agrees but is generally on my side. I've been to therapy before about my dad. It helped but maybe I need to go back. \n The other day I went to visit to drop off something I borrowed. My dad started voicing about my very minor case of dermatillomania (obsessive skin picking. It only happens when I'm stressed which I really am right now. I've literally got two marks on my chest). He went on and on about how bad it looked (I don't care) and how it's akin to me just slashing my wrists and hey do you remember when we had to take you to the doctors when you were 15 because you were anorexic (I wasn't, was just growing and losing some chub). On and on and on. \n I fucking snapped. Picked up my keys and told him I didn't come over here to be ripped apart. My mum stuck up for him and said he was only trying to help me. I still don't know how, he was literally just pointing out times I wasn't on point. He was shouting at me by this point and I just burst into tears. Then he tries to be all nice and \"oh I'm sorry I was just trying to help. You're just sensitive\". No. \n I'm feeling pretty done. He's been like this my whole life and I can't handle it. He's been getting annoyed that I won't move back in since I'm having issues with my apartment but fuck no. I did it once before and it was horrific. I just don't know what to do with him. \n I've thought about going back to therapy, but money is none existent and I can't afford it. I just do not want to see him anymore. I know he thinks he means well, but it hurts when he constantly mocks me about things that happened such a long time ago. \n Any advice?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "dad can be pretty mean sometimes and I'm sick of it. What to do?", "role": "assistant" } ]
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For those without a high speed internet connection, here's the
Emasculated male coaxes predator from home with Swiffer.
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Recently there has been a lot of debate about the Migrant Crisis in Europe, and this topic is dear to a lot of peoples ideologies, which has caused a great deal of lying and manipulation. [This Post]( was at the top of /r/europe two days ago with over 2000 upvotes. This post claims that a young girl lied about being assaulted by migrants. The top comment of this thread wrote: >Never in my life have I seen such a media clusterfuck as the refugee crisis. So, I thought [this article]( which provides great evidence to show that the attacks against Migrants in Stockholm never happened, and that this report was the invention of the left wing newspaper Aftonbladet. Official Swedish Police Records make no mention of such an attack. So I posted this story to show how the media is willing to lie to push an agenda. The mods of /r/europe banned my thread three times for three different reasons none of which was justified. This is a clear example of Mod abuse. Here is my conversation with the mods about the ban. . The mods forced me to use this 'title' because they knew it would be ignored this way, but a third mod still felt the need to remove my third post. The reason, because the link had already been submitted, by me, and removed, by them. When I asked them to allow the post with the title they forced me to use, I received no response. This is a clear abuse of mod power. I submit a story almost identical to the top post the day before, but with the opposite people being accused of lying, and the mods find any reason to ban my post. Clearly they are enforcing ideology and not rules.
r/Europe mods find any reason to remove posts they dislike
[ { "content": "Recently there has been a lot of debate about the Migrant Crisis in Europe, and this topic is dear to a lot of peoples ideologies, which has caused a great deal of lying and manipulation. [This Post]( was at the top of /r/europe two days ago with over 2000 upvotes. This post claims that a young girl lied about being assaulted by migrants. The top comment of this thread wrote: \n>Never in my life have I seen such a media clusterfuck as the refugee crisis. \n So, I thought [this article]( which provides great evidence to show that the attacks against Migrants in Stockholm never happened, and that this report was the invention of the left wing newspaper Aftonbladet. Official Swedish Police Records make no mention of such an attack. So I posted this story to show how the media is willing to lie to push an agenda. The mods of /r/europe banned my thread three times for three different reasons none of which was justified. This is a clear example of Mod abuse. \n Here is my conversation with the mods about the ban. . The mods forced me to use this 'title' because they knew it would be ignored this way, but a third mod still felt the need to remove my third post. The reason, because the link had already been submitted, by me, and removed, by them. When I asked them to allow the post with the title they forced me to use, I received no response. \n This is a clear abuse of mod power. I submit a story almost identical to the top post the day before, but with the opposite people being accused of lying, and the mods find any reason to ban my post. Clearly they are enforcing ideology and not rules.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "r/Europe mods find any reason to remove posts they dislike", "role": "assistant" } ]
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It's fairly M. The language probably isn't a problem, since your child probably hears worse in middle school. It doesn't usually get overly gory either, although a few of the killing blows are a bit grim. They show nothing but blood, but it does get a slight wince sometimes from me. Harpooning whales, like has been said, is a bit graphic, and sometimes makes you wince a bit. When the whale is brought up, there is a huge amount of blood coming off it, but removing the blood effects should stop that. There's sharks to harpoon too, but no one ever feels sympathetic about them, hah. The autopsy video for a former character in the series can feel a bit creepy too, but it isn't graphic, the most you see is a person holding an object, but the general atmosphere is a bit creepy. As far as the game in general goes, it doesn't glorify killing or violence necessarily, but it does make you take out guards without a second thought sometimes, and makes it seem like it's more expedient to kill. However, the Assassin's Creed series has always tugged on heartstrings, and while you kill nameless goon #5, they try to make big emotional impacts when friendly characters die (and I felt they did amazing with that here). The protagonist is not a great role model at first, but he becomes amazing as time goes on. At the same time, the whole premise of the series is a war between Templars and Assassins, with both sides trying to kill the other. As for sexual content, some characters wear slightly revealing clothing, but there is never a sex scene (although Edward does wake up next to a woman at one point, or under/on top of a woman). The game doesn't objectify women as much as other games either (glossing over the revealing clothing). The game is pseudo-historical too, which is always a personal favorite of mine. They always try and stick real closely to what actually happened in the era and what you'd expect, which is why you can hire prostitutes to distract guards or drunken pirates to fight them.
I'd say you might want to watch some gameplay videos and cutscenes, and if you're into video games, perhaps play this one with him. It's truly a beautiful game, and I'm about to watch some cutscenes from it right now too. It's thought-provoking and makes you emotional, with amazing musical scores. If you buy it, I imagine you'll end up buying the rest of the series for him/her at some point too, and they are truly masterpieces with great story. The Assassin's Creed series is like a beautiful novel. EDIT: Oh, and you can drink rum pretty cheaply, but it just makes the screen blurry and if you drink too much you get a nice (rated G) surprise. I imagine that isn't too much of a problem though. I also forgot to mention earlier, the reason that the protagonist goes through all of this is also for a noble purpose: getting enough money for he and his estranged wife that he loves dearly to be set for life back home. If you don't get the game for him/her now, I understand, but it's definitely one of the finer video game products of 2013, and I'd recommend giving it when he/she is more mature, perhaps, if not now.
[ { "content": "It's fairly M. The language probably isn't a problem, since your child probably hears worse in middle school. It doesn't usually get overly gory either, although a few of the killing blows are a bit grim. They show nothing but blood, but it does get a slight wince sometimes from me. Harpooning whales, like has been said, is a bit graphic, and sometimes makes you wince a bit. When the whale is brought up, there is a huge amount of blood coming off it, but removing the blood effects should stop that. There's sharks to harpoon too, but no one ever feels sympathetic about them, hah. \n The autopsy video for a former character in the series can feel a bit creepy too, but it isn't graphic, the most you see is a person holding an object, but the general atmosphere is a bit creepy. \n As far as the game in general goes, it doesn't glorify killing or violence necessarily, but it does make you take out guards without a second thought sometimes, and makes it seem like it's more expedient to kill. However, the Assassin's Creed series has always tugged on heartstrings, and while you kill nameless goon #5, they try to make big emotional impacts when friendly characters die (and I felt they did amazing with that here). The protagonist is not a great role model at first, but he becomes amazing as time goes on. At the same time, the whole premise of the series is a war between Templars and Assassins, with both sides trying to kill the other. \n As for sexual content, some characters wear slightly revealing clothing, but there is never a sex scene (although Edward does wake up next to a woman at one point, or under/on top of a woman). The game doesn't objectify women as much as other games either (glossing over the revealing clothing). The game is pseudo-historical too, which is always a personal favorite of mine. They always try and stick real closely to what actually happened in the era and what you'd expect, which is why you can hire prostitutes to distract guards or drunken pirates to fight them.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I'd say you might want to watch some gameplay videos and cutscenes, and if you're into video games, perhaps play this one with him. It's truly a beautiful game, and I'm about to watch some cutscenes from it right now too. It's thought-provoking and makes you emotional, with amazing musical scores. If you buy it, I imagine you'll end up buying the rest of the series for him/her at some point too, and they are truly masterpieces with great story. The Assassin's Creed series is like a beautiful novel. \n EDIT: Oh, and you can drink rum pretty cheaply, but it just makes the screen blurry and if you drink too much you get a nice (rated G) surprise. I imagine that isn't too much of a problem though. I also forgot to mention earlier, the reason that the protagonist goes through all of this is also for a noble purpose: getting enough money for he and his estranged wife that he loves dearly to be set for life back home. If you don't get the game for him/her now, I understand, but it's definitely one of the finer video game products of 2013, and I'd recommend giving it when he/she is more mature, perhaps, if not now.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I guess you and i got the same problem. eating too much protein drains a lot of energy from your body, when i ate a lot of protein I would feel lethargy. I am 4 weeks on keto now and i know im not 100% fat-adapted because i´ve been ignoring a simple fact: the body has the learn (by the nice or the hard way) to use fat and ketones as the main fuel for your body. eat as much fat as you can, until you find it nauseating, each day that passes you can eat a bit more than the day before, just be careful of the omega 3/6 ratio( because ... you know ... eating a pot of mayo will likely get your muscles inflamed and cramped)
Substitute one of those steaks with a block of butter and some veggies
[ { "content": "I guess you and i got the same problem. eating too much protein drains a lot of energy from your body, when i ate a lot of protein I would feel lethargy. I am 4 weeks on keto now and i know im not 100% fat-adapted because i´ve been ignoring a simple fact: the body has the learn (by the nice or the hard way) to use fat and ketones as the main fuel for your body. eat as much fat as you can, until you find it nauseating, each day that passes you can eat a bit more than the day before, just be careful of the omega 3/6 ratio( because ... you know ... eating a pot of mayo will likely get your muscles inflamed and cramped)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Substitute one of those steaks with a block of butter and some veggies", "role": "assistant" } ]
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When drugs are made illegal and are taboo in society, the only people one can generally go for help and/or acceptance are other drug users, people who support the drug use, or drug dealers. In all these cases it pushes users into an environment without societal support to get away from the drug(s). Once a drug is decriminalized, the gov't or other social agencies can step in and create that environment. It allows people to escape the drug culture and environment and find help.
decriminalization allows the establishment of environments that give drug users an 'out' from the drug culture/environment.
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Are you looking for nightlife? tourist stuff? Outdoors? museums? Fishing? Unless you are interested in the space center, I would go west to Tampa, have a Cuban sandwich at Brocatos, maybe hit the bars if you are into that kind of thing, head south to Sanibel island and check out the beach, east on I-75 then south to the keys. Kayak in Key Largo, go fishing, take a snorkel cruise in John Pennekamp State Park. Head south to Key West. On the way, you have to stop at the No Name Pub in Big Pine Key and have some pizza. Casa 325 in Key West is a nice place to stay. It's not too expensive and it's right on Duval. The jetski tour and all day activity cruise are fun. At night, watch the sunset from the pier at the end of Duval. Have some beers at the Green Parrot and shots at the Smallest Bar. The Hog's Breath is touristy, but you still have to stop in. The Rum Barrel has good burgers. Check out the Hemingway Museum in the AM after coffee at Island Joe's. You may want another night in KW. If so, a wise man once said: "As long as you have decided to drink all day, there is nothing wrong with starting early in the morning" On your way back to Miami, check out Bahia Honda State Park. I would avoid Daytona Beach and Cocoa Beach. If you are really into fishing, you can spend a week just on that. Have plenty of money? Jump over to Atlantis for a couple of days. If you want to get away from it all, take Watermaker Air out of Ft Lauderdale to Staniel Cay for snorkeling and kayaking.
Go to the keys.
[ { "content": "Are you looking for nightlife? tourist stuff? Outdoors? museums? Fishing? Unless you are interested in the space center, I would go west to Tampa, have a Cuban sandwich at Brocatos, maybe hit the bars if you are into that kind of thing, head south to Sanibel island and check out the beach, east on I-75 then south to the keys. Kayak in Key Largo, go fishing, take a snorkel cruise in John Pennekamp State Park. Head south to Key West. On the way, you have to stop at the No Name Pub in Big Pine Key and have some pizza. Casa 325 in Key West is a nice place to stay. It's not too expensive and it's right on Duval. The jetski tour and all day activity cruise are fun. At night, watch the sunset from the pier at the end of Duval. Have some beers at the Green Parrot and shots at the Smallest Bar. The Hog's Breath is touristy, but you still have to stop in. The Rum Barrel has good burgers. Check out the Hemingway Museum in the AM after coffee at Island Joe's. You may want another night in KW. If so, a wise man once said: \"As long as you have decided to drink all day, there is nothing wrong with starting early in the morning\" \n On your way back to Miami, check out Bahia Honda State Park. \n I would avoid Daytona Beach and Cocoa Beach. \n If you are really into fishing, you can spend a week just on that. \n Have plenty of money? Jump over to Atlantis for a couple of days. If you want to get away from it all, take Watermaker Air out of Ft Lauderdale to Staniel Cay for snorkeling and kayaking.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Go to the keys.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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You call it a lie, I call it omitting the truth, difference of opinion. Doesn't really change the fact that the people commenting here are calling for blood over a 5 year old relationship. You people don't know the whole story, you only have one side. Reply with that in mind. Was the whole thing likely uncomfortable for all involved parties? Probably. Should OP's SO have been straightforward? Probably. Would OP have been satisfied with the straightforward response? Probably not. So rather than jump through hoops explaining the past to his SO he opted for trying to just sweep it under the rug and avoid ruffling feathers. BECAUSE NOTHING HAPPENED ACCORDING TO THE INVOLVED PARTIES You're picking at the wrong details in the story. It's not relevant that he had a relationship with a 17 year old at 26, you don't know the circumstances. Neither do I. Without more information no one here is able to pass judgement.
Better communication would have been best in this situation, better communication will be what resolves it. Not a lynching over a past relationship like you people seem to crave.
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I don't know. But I fought the Urgent Quest Dire Miralis yesterday and killed him at the 30 min mark. Carved one Dire Dragongem off of him and got ANOTHER in the quest rewards screen. So they don't seem too hard to get in the first place to me.
2 Dire Dragongems from my first Dire Miralis fight.
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I'll also give my two cents here since I'm more of a traveler than a follower of fashion trends. Last summer I went through 3 pairs of shoes in 6 weeks because they were all cheap and low quality. After returning home I found the perfect travel shoe: the ECCO Biom Walk 1.3. I had to refer to the website to make sure that's right. I'd link, but I'm on mobile. Since buying that shoe, I've put it through hiking the mountains of the eastern US, exploring volcanoes in the summer in Costa Rica, and as of a couple days ago, hiked through a snow storm in Torres Del Paine, Patagonia in the middle of winter. The shoes are dirty, but they still look like they will last a lot longer. I've received compliments from other travelers regarding my shoes. They're casual enough to wear with shorts and nice enough to wear with pants at a restaurant or club. Added bonus: they don't have enough metal (if any at all) to set off airport alarms. No more taking your shoes off at security checkpoints, unless you're flying within or to America! Also the person who said you'll wear flip flops a lot is correct, I did that most of my time in SE Asia as well.
spend a little extra on the shoes I mentioned above in this post.
[ { "content": "I'll also give my two cents here since I'm more of a traveler than a follower of fashion trends. Last summer I went through 3 pairs of shoes in 6 weeks because they were all cheap and low quality. \n After returning home I found the perfect travel shoe: the ECCO Biom Walk 1.3. I had to refer to the website to make sure that's right. I'd link, but I'm on mobile. Since buying that shoe, I've put it through hiking the mountains of the eastern US, exploring volcanoes in the summer in Costa Rica, and as of a couple days ago, hiked through a snow storm in Torres Del Paine, Patagonia in the middle of winter. The shoes are dirty, but they still look like they will last a lot longer. I've received compliments from other travelers regarding my shoes. \n They're casual enough to wear with shorts and nice enough to wear with pants at a restaurant or club. \n Added bonus: they don't have enough metal (if any at all) to set off airport alarms. No more taking your shoes off at security checkpoints, unless you're flying within or to America! \n Also the person who said you'll wear flip flops a lot is correct, I did that most of my time in SE Asia as well.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "spend a little extra on the shoes I mentioned above in this post.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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You sound kind of young, as a couple other comments have pointed out. If this is the case, let me ask you this: are you good looking? Because the restaurant industry is now referred to as the "hospitality" industry and you might be able to get a decently paying job as a server waiting tables for a while until you give up on your dreams of becoming a professional musician. And it really helps if you are young and attractive, because people will tip you better if they believe that you are being nice to them because you would conceivably have sexual relations with them, which is helpful when you are young and first starting out waiting tables to pay rent until you get your big break in the music business. The reason they call it the "hospitality industry" now instead of the way they used to call it "waiting tables" when I was young is so that young people such as yourself can be fooled into thinking that it might be a viable long-term career option as well, so it is in many ways similar to the music industry. But I would be misleading you if I told you this were true. Now, some people might read this and say that I didn't really answer your question, but I think if you read between the lines a little bit you'll find that this suggestion is fairly practical and represents your options in a concise, pragmatic way without insulting anybody's intelligence.
You should probably finish school, preferably get a degree from an accredited institution if at all possible, before trying to join any of the so-called "professional groups" in the biz-nass.
[ { "content": "You sound kind of young, as a couple other comments have pointed out. \n If this is the case, let me ask you this: are you good looking? \n Because the restaurant industry is now referred to as the \"hospitality\" industry and you might be able to get a decently paying job as a server waiting tables for a while until you give up on your dreams of becoming a professional musician. And it really helps if you are young and attractive, because people will tip you better if they believe that you are being nice to them because you would conceivably have sexual relations with them, which is helpful when you are young and first starting out waiting tables to pay rent until you get your big break in the music business. \n The reason they call it the \"hospitality industry\" now instead of the way they used to call it \"waiting tables\" when I was young is so that young people such as yourself can be fooled into thinking that it might be a viable long-term career option as well, so it is in many ways similar to the music industry. But I would be misleading you if I told you this were true. \n Now, some people might read this and say that I didn't really answer your question, but I think if you read between the lines a little bit you'll find that this suggestion is fairly practical and represents your options in a concise, pragmatic way without insulting anybody's intelligence.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You should probably finish school, preferably get a degree from an accredited institution if at all possible, before trying to join any of the so-called \"professional groups\" in the biz-nass.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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First of: It might look like it at times, but this is not a qq-threat, i rather want to hear your oppinion on that matter. One thing that i have started to wonder about was the fact that riot severely tuned down the rate at which they release champions. I mean it has been more than 2 months from now that Aatrox has been released. The timespan between the Aatrox release and the Lissandra release has been 1 month, aswell as the time between the releases of Zac and Lissandra. So riot stated that they planned to lower the frequency of Champions released in season 3. But if i recall correctly they planned to raise the timespan between 2 champion releases around 3 weeks, up from around 2 weeks, not several months. Another thing is that they wanted to increase the time they spent on developing a new champion so he is more polished once he gets released, yet i was pretty disappointed in Aatrox after waiting more than a month for his release, and i think i am not allone with that impression . He feels like an AD-Assassin Version of Zac (Revive passive - check ; jump with knockup - check ; skillshot slow - well, it's somewhat of an inverted cone now, but check), while also being pretty unmemorable designwise. Furthermore i never had the impression that Champions that have been released in season 2 (especially the ones released within a ~ 2 weeks rate) have been particulary rushed, flawed or uncreative, most of them are actually viable and standard picks in competetive gaming. One thing i did notice was, that champions released in season 3 appear to be much more balanced the moment they are released, no champ released in season 3 so far has been severely broken upon release, or severely underpowered (not counting reworks, i am looking at you karma and sejuani) Now we are waiting more than 2 months for Lucian, who admittedly looks pretty badass. We got a Master Yi rework in between, but ususally reworks have been released together with new champions before. To sum it up: I am wondering why the rate of champion releases has dropped so significantly, without any comment on the side of riot (did i miss something?)
Me wants more champs
[ { "content": "First of: It might look like it at times, but this is not a qq-threat, i rather want to hear your oppinion on that matter. \n One thing that i have started to wonder about was the fact that riot severely tuned down the rate at which they release champions. I mean it has been more than 2 months from now that Aatrox has been released. The timespan between the Aatrox release and the Lissandra release has been 1 month, aswell as the time between the releases of Zac and Lissandra. \n So riot stated that they planned to lower the frequency of Champions released in season 3. But if i recall correctly they planned to raise the timespan between 2 champion releases around 3 weeks, up from around 2 weeks, not several months. \n Another thing is that they wanted to increase the time they spent on developing a new champion so he is more polished once he gets released, yet i was pretty disappointed in Aatrox after waiting more than a month for his release, and i think i am not allone with that impression . He feels like an AD-Assassin Version of Zac (Revive passive - check ; jump with knockup - check ; skillshot slow - well, it's somewhat of an inverted cone now, but check), while also being pretty unmemorable designwise. \nFurthermore i never had the impression that Champions that have been released in season 2 (especially the ones released within a ~ 2 weeks rate) have been particulary rushed, flawed or uncreative, most of them are actually viable and standard picks in competetive gaming. \n One thing i did notice was, that champions released in season 3 appear to be much more balanced the moment they are released, no champ released in season 3 so far has been severely broken upon release, or severely underpowered (not counting reworks, i am looking at you karma and sejuani) \n Now we are waiting more than 2 months for Lucian, who admittedly looks pretty badass. We got a Master Yi rework in between, but ususally reworks have been released together with new champions before. \n To sum it up: I am wondering why the rate of champion releases has dropped so significantly, without any comment on the side of riot (did i miss something?)", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Me wants more champs", "role": "assistant" } ]
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T-Mobile doesn't require any contracts so I just went in and got a one month pre-pay card. I popped it into an unlocked GSM phone and tested it out in my house. Even though I only had one bar inside (I live in the woods in Whitehouse Station), the call quality was crystal clear. Ultimately I got a Galaxy S4 (on T-Mobile it supports WiFi calling) and I couldn't be happier.
pay one month with no contract and test out the service.
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You're talking out of your ass. Humans have evolved to a point where they can teach others things which allow them to overcome their limitations. We've learnt lifting heavy weights increases our T. We've learnt that certain psychological techniques result in social success. Combine this knowledge and you end up turning a beta into an alpha, with some trial and error with internalisation along the way. We are very malleable, do not underestimate knowledge combined with sheer will and increased testosterone levels. Mike Tyson is a prime example of a guy who went from full beta to alpha.
read 48 laws of power and go lift.
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If you smoke a normal joint, you will still inhale tabacco and all the bad components in it. Most people smoke more "normal" cigarrettes then ones with marijuana in it, so it will do less damage to your lung.
Yes they will, but probably less.
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Not really despicable but it's the worst I have. I went to the bars with my friends on a dare to use an English Accent the entire time. I watch a lot of brit-coms so I believe my accent and use of vocabulary is fairly accurate. I put my confident shoes on and struck up a conversation with a chick. I ended up talking with her and her friends for over 2 hours, about differences between London and the States. Ended up having sex with two of them (different nights unfortunately).
Dumb American chicks love Brits.
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Ok so I have this best friend, we've been friends for 4-5 years now. Doing drugs of every kind with him. meth,crack, coke, heroin, weed, countless psychs and dissacociatives. And we used to hangout all the time. Like every day damn near, he'd sleep at my house for days at a time. I leave my side door unlocked so people like him can come in any time because I'm cool with that. And at one point a year or two ago I was ok with him dealing out of my house. (for no cut of the profits on my part, but that's another issue). But I'm no longer ok with him dealing out of my damn house, I'm trying to be more clean and not have a trap house anymore. I still do a lot of drugs all the time, but I'm done having people come buy drugs at my house, or letting people bring their drugs over and stash them. But this guy just refuses to stop coming over and stashing his drugs at my house, selling drugs at my house, all without asking me. I love this guy, he's been my best friend for years, best friend of all time but seriously. He keeps acting like I'm the asshole when I get pissed off at him for doing things like hiding coke at my house and then trying to sell it there as well, all without tellng me. And on top of all this he doesn't even hangout at my house anymore or act like my friend really. I haven't hung out with him for more than an hour in a full year now. Literally every time he comes over, he's just using my house as a smoke spot and then leaving when he's done, or he's weighing out sacs of weed and then selling them in my house/driveway. Bringing over people I don't know to smoke with them. I really want to remain friends with this guy cause were like brothers but this shit has got to stop. Am I being an asshole or what?
My best friend refuses to stop selling drugs at my house and using it as a stash spot, even when I've told him to stop for almost a year now.
[ { "content": "Ok so I have this best friend, we've been friends for 4-5 years now. Doing drugs of every kind with him. meth,crack, coke, heroin, weed, countless psychs and dissacociatives. And we used to hangout all the time. Like every day damn near, he'd sleep at my house for days at a time. I leave my side door unlocked so people like him can come in any time because I'm cool with that. And at one point a year or two ago I was ok with him dealing out of my house. (for no cut of the profits on my part, but that's another issue). But I'm no longer ok with him dealing out of my damn house, I'm trying to be more clean and not have a trap house anymore. \n I still do a lot of drugs all the time, but I'm done having people come buy drugs at my house, or letting people bring their drugs over and stash them. But this guy just refuses to stop coming over and stashing his drugs at my house, selling drugs at my house, all without asking me. \n I love this guy, he's been my best friend for years, best friend of all time but seriously. He keeps acting like I'm the asshole when I get pissed off at him for doing things like hiding coke at my house and then trying to sell it there as well, all without tellng me. \n And on top of all this he doesn't even hangout at my house anymore or act like my friend really. I haven't hung out with him for more than an hour in a full year now. Literally every time he comes over, he's just using my house as a smoke spot and then leaving when he's done, or he's weighing out sacs of weed and then selling them in my house/driveway. Bringing over people I don't know to smoke with them. I really want to remain friends with this guy cause were like brothers but this shit has got to stop. Am I being an asshole or what?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "My best friend refuses to stop selling drugs at my house and using it as a stash spot, even when I've told him to stop for almost a year now.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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granted i'm not much for "fun in taboo places", because i'm not in high school anymore I left high-school over a decade ago. Foolin' round in semi-public places and spontaneous acts of lust are still much appreciated. Both within monogamy and without. How about, instead of drawing moral judgements, we chalk it up to different tastes? >low self esteem/no self respect or lacking in any modesty Scratch that. I'm back to being angry at you. >but i would have no choice but to judge a girl Yes, yes you absolutely do. I'd recommend some of the classical stoics, and then moving onto some scientific revolution/enlightenment titles (e.g. Bacon, de Sade and anyone from the Scottish Enlightenment), and finally, modern luminaries like Bertrand Russell and Dan Savage. In short, they argue that you're entirely capable of influencing your own morals and reactions. However, in order to create a virtuous existence, self-determination, judicious exercise of self-control, and the sacredness of informed consent must be maintained. I therefore find your uncontrolled desire to insult and shame to be more morally repugnant than her sucking off some dude. >If she is willing to do that, what else? Um, I don't know. Best go find out. Sometimes there's a good woman in a dirty girl. And even if she's a prostitute, no one gains when you call her a whore.
I apologize for calling you a half-witted, jizz-stained, mouth-breathing fucktard. However, you remain boring, ungrateful and a cultural speed-bump.
[ { "content": "granted i'm not much for \"fun in taboo places\", because i'm not in high school anymore \n I left high-school over a decade ago. Foolin' round in semi-public places and spontaneous acts of lust are still much appreciated. Both within monogamy and without. How about, instead of drawing moral judgements, we chalk it up to different tastes? \n >low self esteem/no self respect or lacking in any modesty \n Scratch that. I'm back to being angry at you. \n >but i would have no choice but to judge a girl \n Yes, yes you absolutely do. I'd recommend some of the classical stoics, and then moving onto some scientific revolution/enlightenment titles (e.g. Bacon, de Sade and anyone from the Scottish Enlightenment), and finally, modern luminaries like Bertrand Russell and Dan Savage. \n In short, they argue that you're entirely capable of influencing your own morals and reactions. However, in order to create a virtuous existence, self-determination, judicious exercise of self-control, and the sacredness of informed consent must be maintained. \n I therefore find your uncontrolled desire to insult and shame to be more morally repugnant than her sucking off some dude. \n >If she is willing to do that, what else? \n Um, I don't know. Best go find out. Sometimes there's a good woman in a dirty girl. And even if she's a prostitute, no one gains when you call her a whore.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I apologize for calling you a half-witted, jizz-stained, mouth-breathing fucktard. However, you remain boring, ungrateful and a cultural speed-bump.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Our family is unusual. With 3 people on the autism spectrum, on of whom is in a wheelchair (semi related disability, costello syndrome) going out is tough. We take along time to get ready and out the house, so we are stressed. This is the story of how we were conned. Not out of huge money, but £10. One day we decided to take my youngest sister, the costello suffer, out to the garden center. As we were getting her into her adapted buggy, a young athletic looking black man comes up to the door. He claimed he was collecting money for a charity, and asked if we could sponsor him in a penalty event later that week. He claimed to be part of the Arsenal FC third reserves, coincidently my dad and I'm team of choice. Due to the rush we were in and his genuine seeming documents and nature, we gave him 10. As it so happened an off duty policeman saw him and watched him go next door and perform his bit. We walked off about our business and on our way home around 30 mins later, we say him in a police van being questioned. Turns out he was recently released from jail for a similar scam.
In chaos getting family on a walk, man takes advantage but gets caught by off duty cop.
[ { "content": "Our family is unusual. With 3 people on the autism spectrum, on of whom is in a wheelchair (semi related disability, costello syndrome) going out is tough. We take along time to get ready and out the house, so we are stressed. This is the story of how we were conned. Not out of huge money, but £10. \n One day we decided to take my youngest sister, the costello suffer, out to the garden center. As we were getting her into her adapted buggy, a young athletic looking black man comes up to the door. He claimed he was collecting money for a charity, and asked if we could sponsor him in a penalty event later that week. He claimed to be part of the Arsenal FC third reserves, coincidently my dad and I'm team of choice. Due to the rush we were in and his genuine seeming documents and nature, we gave him 10. As it so happened an off duty policeman saw him and watched him go next door and perform his bit. We walked off about our business and on our way home around 30 mins later, we say him in a police van being questioned. Turns out he was recently released from jail for a similar scam.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "In chaos getting family on a walk, man takes advantage but gets caught by off duty cop.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I (24F) recently ended a relationship with a (20M). We are still friends and talk most days. He wants to get back together and randomly sends long text saying so but I'm not interested. Before we broke up, I hung out with one of his friends. Strictly platonic, nothing happened until after we broke. My question is, how do I tell my ex I want to date his friend? or do I even tell him at all? Forgot the
Broke up with my boyfriend and want to date his friend. How do I tell my ex?
[ { "content": "I (24F) recently ended a relationship with a (20M). We are still friends and talk most days. He wants to get back together and randomly sends long text saying so but I'm not interested. Before we broke up, I hung out with one of his friends. Strictly platonic, nothing happened until after we broke. My question is, how do I tell my ex I want to date his friend? or do I even tell him at all? \n Forgot the", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Broke up with my boyfriend and want to date his friend. How do I tell my ex?", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Recently, I joined a game and picked top lane. someone wanted to go mid, but it was already called, but they eventually agreed to go support after a bit of arguing. we started the game, with an ap lulu mid, trying to "break the meta" or something. she instantly fed, and disconnected at only level 9. we continued on playing with our adc holding mid and having constant ganks from the jungler. people would make mistakes every so often, and on came the raging. people spent more time talking than actually playing. eventually, our adc tristana afked, too! thats when the feel of the game changed. it was just me as nausus, a jungle cho'gath, and a support volibear. i was done messing around with a bunch of raging people, so i told them that unless we pulled together, we had no chance of winning. they instantly stopped flaming at each other. we determined objectives and did a LOT of organized split pushing. we even managed to win some team fights with 3v5. we went from a raging team to an organized powerhouse. most importantly, we were having FUN. each and every one of us was trying, and being nice to one another, something i hadn't seen in quite a while. we managed to hold out for quite a while, but eventually lost due to the massive player difference. at the end of the game, none of us raged, none of us tried to report one another (minus everyone reporting the lulu and tristana), and we all had plenty of fun playing the game we loved. You may hate people who afk in the middle of your game, but they do a good job at bringing out the teamwork and friendliness of the league of legends community.
ap mid lulu and tristana afk, 3v5 team holds together and doesnt rage, managing to hold out in the game for quite a while, while still having fun.
[ { "content": "Recently, I joined a game and picked top lane. someone wanted to go mid, but it was already called, but they eventually agreed to go support after a bit of arguing. we started the game, with an ap lulu mid, trying to \"break the meta\" or something. she instantly fed, and disconnected at only level 9. we continued on playing with our adc holding mid and having constant ganks from the jungler. people would make mistakes every so often, and on came the raging. people spent more time talking than actually playing. eventually, our adc tristana afked, too! thats when the feel of the game changed. it was just me as nausus, a jungle cho'gath, and a support volibear. i was done messing around with a bunch of raging people, so i told them that unless we pulled together, we had no chance of winning. they instantly stopped flaming at each other. we determined objectives and did a LOT of organized split pushing. we even managed to win some team fights with 3v5. we went from a raging team to an organized powerhouse. most importantly, we were having FUN. each and every one of us was trying, and being nice to one another, something i hadn't seen in quite a while. we managed to hold out for quite a while, but eventually lost due to the massive player difference. at the end of the game, none of us raged, none of us tried to report one another (minus everyone reporting the lulu and tristana), and we all had plenty of fun playing the game we loved. You may hate people who afk in the middle of your game, but they do a good job at bringing out the teamwork and friendliness of the league of legends community.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "ap mid lulu and tristana afk, 3v5 team holds together and doesnt rage, managing to hold out in the game for quite a while, while still having fun.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Hey /r/atheism! I'll try to keep this brief. So I'm at a large U.S. military base in the middle east. Every week the chaplain posts a new message, it has a short story, a bible verse to relate, and times they run service. What's wrong with this? Well nothing, depending on where you are. The issue is they're everywhere, most annoyingly in the bathrooms. Whether you're sitting or standing they're right in front of your face! I like that they're intended to be inspiring and uplifting. In a stressful environment it's absolutely necessary, but I have a problem with the Bible references, the verses, and that it's only from a Christian perspective. If it offered other religion options I wouldn't mind so much, I'd love it if they didn't imply that religion is the first step a sound mind. Morale, morals, and smiles aren't ideas that only come from a religious standpoint. On a side note, there's another chaplain who will walk into our briefing room and share something, usually a quote or message that is supposed to make us feel like superheroes, and then will end in prayer. It's nothing long and he's not pushy. Myself and any other atheists just hush while the others bow their heads, I'm just giving another example of how it's not just a single person, and I suspect situations like this are rampant around the military. I know some of my options(IG, just talking to the chaplain or leadership) but I'd like some insight and support honestly. If you've been faced with this I'd love to hear from you. I know our General Order prohibits " Proselytizing of any religion, faith or practice." but I don't want to walk in with that as my trump card only to have him, being a chaplain, have a trump on that.
literally face-to-face with promotion of religious bullshit. Halp me pls.
[ { "content": "Hey /r/atheism! I'll try to keep this brief. \n So I'm at a large U.S. military base in the middle east. Every week the chaplain posts a new message, it has a short story, a bible verse to relate, and times they run service. What's wrong with this? Well nothing, depending on where you are. The issue is they're everywhere, most annoyingly in the bathrooms. Whether you're sitting or standing they're right in front of your face! \n I like that they're intended to be inspiring and uplifting. In a stressful environment it's absolutely necessary, but I have a problem with the Bible references, the verses, and that it's only from a Christian perspective. If it offered other religion options I wouldn't mind so much, I'd love it if they didn't imply that religion is the first step a sound mind. Morale, morals, and smiles aren't ideas that only come from a religious standpoint. \n On a side note, there's another chaplain who will walk into our briefing room and share something, usually a quote or message that is supposed to make us feel like superheroes, and then will end in prayer. It's nothing long and he's not pushy. Myself and any other atheists just hush while the others bow their heads, I'm just giving another example of how it's not just a single person, and I suspect situations like this are rampant around the military. \n I know some of my options(IG, just talking to the chaplain or leadership) but I'd like some insight and support honestly. If you've been faced with this I'd love to hear from you. I know our General Order prohibits \" Proselytizing of any religion, faith or practice.\" but I don't want to walk in with that as my trump card only to have him, being a chaplain, have a trump on that.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "literally face-to-face with promotion of religious bullshit. Halp me pls.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Okay maybe not, this is my first time posting but I've been lurking here for a while. First off, lurking here has gotten me a lot more conscience about the decisions that affect my health and overall I've managed to lose 35 lbs this way, but now I've hit a wall and I'm hoping that leaving the shadows may help. NSV: A remarkably awesome non-scale victory since I've started lurking here, I FINALLY got off my addiction to commercial diet soda, (diet pepsi, diet coke, diet dr pepper) and I mean I was seriously addicted, I went through a full month of head-splitting withdrawals before I stopped craving it. Now I'm feeling a lot better, it's not draining my wallet anymore, plus I can feel a lot better about myself knowing I can make healthy decisions. So time to start the next step! I'd really like to change my sleeping habits and get moving earlier every morning. I've had it with being a lazy night owl and came here to ask for 2 cents worth of advice on changing my ways. I'd like to be one of those people who can wake up at 8 am and go for a 30 minute run before work. Is this okay to ask? I tried going to the new member thread but after 3 days, no one responded and I keep seeing how friendly people are here so I just finally decided to go for it.
Anyone have any motivational advice on getting up earlier and going out for exercise?
[ { "content": "Okay maybe not, this is my first time posting but I've been lurking here for a while. \n First off, lurking here has gotten me a lot more conscience about the decisions that affect my health and overall I've managed to lose 35 lbs this way, but now I've hit a wall and I'm hoping that leaving the shadows may help. \n NSV: A remarkably awesome non-scale victory since I've started lurking here, I FINALLY got off my addiction to commercial diet soda, (diet pepsi, diet coke, diet dr pepper) and I mean I was seriously addicted, I went through a full month of head-splitting withdrawals before I stopped craving it. Now I'm feeling a lot better, it's not draining my wallet anymore, plus I can feel a lot better about myself knowing I can make healthy decisions. \n So time to start the next step! I'd really like to change my sleeping habits and get moving earlier every morning. I've had it with being a lazy night owl and came here to ask for 2 cents worth of advice on changing my ways. I'd like to be one of those people who can wake up at 8 am and go for a 30 minute run before work. \n Is this okay to ask? I tried going to the new member thread but after 3 days, no one responded and I keep seeing how friendly people are here so I just finally decided to go for it.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Anyone have any motivational advice on getting up earlier and going out for exercise?", "role": "assistant" } ]
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We went diving last week and found a seahorse, moray eel, sea turtle and a lobster during our 2 dives. When our guide found them he was stroking them all, picked up the seahorse, dug the lobster out from between 2 rocks, and held on to the sea turtle briefly. Is it just me or is that a bit out of order? I would have thought the diver attitude was 'look but don't touch' and 'leave nothing but bubbles, take nothing but memories'.
Is it ok to touch and hold the wildlife?
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I've met this girl a few times at parties and just general hangouts. We've chatted a number of times and I've come to really like her. However, I'm clueless as to how she feels about me. She's given subtle hints (like expensively talking about flirting) and has mentioned we should hang out together outside of our friend group. I'm not sure if she's just friendly or if she wants more. I've managed to somehow agree to pick her up from work tomorrow. My plan is to see if she wants to go for a night time drive after work and then try to see what happens. I'm scared to make a move though... And if I do what should I do? I don't want to make things awkward around our friends if she doesn't like me and I'm super bad at reading signs. How to I casually move in the direction of like... Intimacy without being overt and getting straight up shut down? I'm bad at reading women and I need some advice!
bad at reading women, how do I approach someone that maybe sorta likes me without things getting weird
[ { "content": "I've met this girl a few times at parties and just general hangouts. We've chatted a number of times and I've come to really like her. However, I'm clueless as to how she feels about me. \n She's given subtle hints (like expensively talking about flirting) and has mentioned we should hang out together outside of our friend group. I'm not sure if she's just friendly or if she wants more. \n I've managed to somehow agree to pick her up from work tomorrow. My plan is to see if she wants to go for a night time drive after work and then try to see what happens. I'm scared to make a move though... And if I do what should I do? I don't want to make things awkward around our friends if she doesn't like me and I'm super bad at reading signs. How to I casually move in the direction of like... Intimacy without being overt and getting straight up shut down? I'm bad at reading women and I need some advice!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "bad at reading women, how do I approach someone that maybe sorta likes me without things getting weird", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Hey Joooyce, Check us out: We're clan Everest. a newish (20 members) clan looking to expand it's borders. We're on our second war and currently undefeated. We pride ourselves as being Serious - Casual players.
One war a week, Mature fun clan. We'd love to have you as part of our clan. Hollywood, Clan leader of Everest. /r/EverestCoC
[ { "content": "Hey Joooyce, Check us out: We're clan Everest. \n a newish (20 members) clan looking to expand it's borders. We're on our second war and currently undefeated. \n We pride ourselves as being Serious - Casual players.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "One war a week, Mature fun clan. \n We'd love to have you as part of our clan. \n Hollywood, Clan leader of Everest. /r/EverestCoC", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Recap: the support triage guy at a networking company I call $uber_networks. Kinda like the triage nurse at a hospital emergency department - but if you're having a medical issue, you better get off the phone with me and call emergency services. We field calls from literally all over the world. Everything from small four-branch banks to large telcos. We're one of those companies that has gear placed in such a way that the very packets that bring you this web page pass through our stuff somewhere along the lines. I got a call from a telco, in fact, from India on Tuesday. I don't remember the caller's name, so I'll go with Srini - which is a short form of Srinivas, which itself seems to be a fairly common Indian first name. (And for anyone who really is named Srinivas, don't worry - this is probably not about you. =) ) Now, our routine goes pretty simple. I get the equipment tag, software version, confirm company name, ask the name of the caller if they're using a group account,^1 a problem statement, severity level, and go into basic opening data in terms of operating hours, how to contact, how we're configured, whether it's in production, a more detailed description of the issue at hand, troubleshooting, and diagnostic data such as a diag dump, affected addresses, and other junk. I spent twice the necessary time with Srini on this, as the conversation went something like this. > Me: Good morning! Thank you for calling $uber_networking, this is Dennis! How can I help you? > Srini: This is Srini from $telco, and I need a priority one ticket opened. Bam. Sev1. Means one of two things: either the network went tits up or the magic smoke came out. Let's make this quick. > Me: OK, let's be quick about this. What's our tag number? > S: 123456879. Pull it up, and... oh, gods, these guys. I know them. They're legendary at the office for being what I call "buttly", if I may be charitable. They're known for demanding an immediate webex, making emergency documentation requests for non-issues, not providing any information we can use to actually get an initial diagnosis, bringing a dozen people onto a conference call, and generally holding my techs on the line for the entire day to the detriment of that tech's other ongoing tickets - and this was often for problems that would routinely take just a few minutes to resolve. > Me: Got it. OK, let's get the openign information he-- > S: I need an engineer now. > Me: Let's build out the ticket first, Srini. What version are we running? > S: 10.11.12, patch 4. > Me: OK, and...last name? > S: Patel > Me: Got it, found you. We working with your account today, or the group acco-- > S: Are you building the ticket? > Me: Yes, that is precisely what we are doing. All of my questions to you are required for buildi-- > S: I need you to transfer me to the engineer now. > Me: Srini, there is no ticket yet, the engineer will not accept your call until we are finished. Now, are we using the group account? > S: No, use mine. > Me: OK, got it. What's going on? Srini, at this point, spent about one minute describing to me what boils down to a failure to resolve DNS due to what appeared to me to be shortened Time To Live values - and moreover, the names were not propagating for some reason. Kinda borderline, sounds like an incorrectly configured named on first glance. > Me: OK, so you wanted SEV1. This tells me one of two things: either the unit caught fire, or your entire network is gone . That is, you are passing no traffic down to the packet level, and your backup units aren't picking up the slack. Is this the case? > S: Get me an engineer now. > Me: Srini, the engineer will not accept the call until the questions are answered. (I'm becoming more agitated by this point.) Please answer my question. > S: It's... not entirely the case. > Me: OK, we'll go for a priority 2. This will still be quick. I have a few more questions, please start a diagnostic dump now . Now, at this point, the ticket has been officially generated. The customer gets email in their box, presuming the email address is correct. > Me: Now, if we need to get back to you, do you want a phone call or an email? > S: (one minute tirade as to why he needs me to...) ...transfer the call to the engineer immediately. > Me: The engineer will not take the call until these questions are answered. Srini started into his tirade again. However, I stopped him at about three seconds in. Time to be authoritarian. > Me: Srini, STOP . The engineer WILL NOT take the call until these questions are answered. Your cooperation is mandatory if you expect the fastest service possible. Do you understand? He paused. > S: Kindly go ahead with the questions. I proceed with the remaining questions. At this point, he is fully cooperative; I think he figured out that he was not going to get past me until such time that he cooperates. My next step would be to have the resident viking get on the phone and abruptly stop him, telling him that he was refusing the ticket because he would not cooperate, and that the ticket would not be worked until cooperation was received. I owe the receiving engineer a beer for that call.
Should you ever meet a tiger, pleasant manners will serve you well - and he may even help you find where you need to be. ^1 I've found this to be a pretty common practice. The upshot is that anyone in the group managing the equipment can log in and review the tickets; but the downshot is that you have to change the password on the account if somebody leaves the group.
[ { "content": "Recap: the support triage guy at a networking company I call $uber_networks. Kinda like the triage nurse at a hospital emergency department - but if you're having a medical issue, you better get off the phone with me and call emergency services. \n We field calls from literally all over the world. Everything from small four-branch banks to large telcos. We're one of those companies that has gear placed in such a way that the very packets that bring you this web page pass through our stuff somewhere along the lines. \n I got a call from a telco, in fact, from India on Tuesday. I don't remember the caller's name, so I'll go with Srini - which is a short form of Srinivas, which itself seems to be a fairly common Indian first name. (And for anyone who really is named Srinivas, don't worry - this is probably not about you. =) ) \n Now, our routine goes pretty simple. I get the equipment tag, software version, confirm company name, ask the name of the caller if they're using a group account,^1 a problem statement, severity level, and go into basic opening data in terms of operating hours, how to contact, how we're configured, whether it's in production, a more detailed description of the issue at hand, troubleshooting, and diagnostic data such as a diag dump, affected addresses, and other junk. \n I spent twice the necessary time with Srini on this, as the conversation went something like this. \n > Me: Good morning! Thank you for calling $uber_networking, this is Dennis! How can I help you? \n > Srini: This is Srini from $telco, and I need a priority one ticket opened. \n Bam. Sev1. Means one of two things: either the network went tits up or the magic smoke came out. Let's make this quick. \n > Me: OK, let's be quick about this. What's our tag number? \n > S: 123456879. \n Pull it up, and... oh, gods, these guys. I know them. They're legendary at the office for being what I call \"buttly\", if I may be charitable. They're known for demanding an immediate webex, making emergency documentation requests for non-issues, not providing any information we can use to actually get an initial diagnosis, bringing a dozen people onto a conference call, and generally holding my techs on the line for the entire day to the detriment of that tech's other ongoing tickets - and this was often for problems that would routinely take just a few minutes to resolve. \n > Me: Got it. OK, let's get the openign information he-- \n > S: I need an engineer now. \n > Me: Let's build out the ticket first, Srini. What version are we running? \n > S: 10.11.12, patch 4. \n > Me: OK, and...last name? \n > S: Patel \n > Me: Got it, found you. We working with your account today, or the group acco-- \n > S: Are you building the ticket? \n > Me: Yes, that is precisely what we are doing. All of my questions to you are required for buildi-- \n > S: I need you to transfer me to the engineer now. \n > Me: Srini, there is no ticket yet, the engineer will not accept your call until we are finished. Now, are we using the group account? \n > S: No, use mine. \n > Me: OK, got it. What's going on? \n Srini, at this point, spent about one minute describing to me what boils down to a failure to resolve DNS due to what appeared to me to be shortened Time To Live values - and moreover, the names were not propagating for some reason. Kinda borderline, sounds like an incorrectly configured named on first glance. \n > Me: OK, so you wanted SEV1. This tells me one of two things: either the unit caught fire, or your entire network is gone . That is, you are passing no traffic down to the packet level, and your backup units aren't picking up the slack. Is this the case? \n > S: Get me an engineer now. \n > Me: Srini, the engineer will not accept the call until the questions are answered. (I'm becoming more agitated by this point.) Please answer my question. \n > S: It's... not entirely the case. \n > Me: OK, we'll go for a priority 2. This will still be quick. I have a few more questions, please start a diagnostic dump now . \n Now, at this point, the ticket has been officially generated. The customer gets email in their box, presuming the email address is correct. \n > Me: Now, if we need to get back to you, do you want a phone call or an email? \n > S: (one minute tirade as to why he needs me to...) ...transfer the call to the engineer immediately. \n > Me: The engineer will not take the call until these questions are answered. \n Srini started into his tirade again. However, I stopped him at about three seconds in. Time to be authoritarian. \n > Me: Srini, STOP . The engineer WILL NOT take the call until these questions are answered. Your cooperation is mandatory if you expect the fastest service possible. Do you understand? \n He paused. \n > S: Kindly go ahead with the questions. \n I proceed with the remaining questions. At this point, he is fully cooperative; I think he figured out that he was not going to get past me until such time that he cooperates. My next step would be to have the resident viking get on the phone and abruptly stop him, telling him that he was refusing the ticket because he would not cooperate, and that the ticket would not be worked until cooperation was received. \n I owe the receiving engineer a beer for that call.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Should you ever meet a tiger, pleasant manners will serve you well - and he may even help you find where you need to be. \n ^1 I've found this to be a pretty common practice. The upshot is that anyone in the group managing the equipment can log in and review the tickets; but the downshot is that you have to change the password on the account if somebody leaves the group.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I've hit 2 major plateaus during my weight loss journey thus far. The major ones came at 25 pounds lost and 50 pounds lost. I've tackled them two ways; the 25 pound plateau I tightened up my eating habits and the 50 pounds one I relaxed. 25 Pound Plateau - After a few weeks of hovering at this amt lost, I pushed myself harder at the gym and I severely cut any few carbs I was already eating out and lost 6 pounds in a week and a half. 50 Pound Plateau - I was stuck in a range of 46 - 50 pounds lost for nearly a month and a half. I was up, I was down, I was up, I was down. My body couldn't figure out which way it wanted to go; to add insult to injury, I was KILLING myself at the gym and monitoring my intake of food. It felt like my body REFUSED to let me go below the 300 pound mark. I'm in mental health and I worried that part of my plateau was psychological because I knew this meant I was out of the 300's for the first time in my 20's and was fearful that I was somehow sabotaging this success even though I was goin by the book. After feeling tiny twinges of defeat, I said "FUCK IT!!!" and took the pressure off by relaxing on my diet. I ate out a few times, I ate carbs, I drank diet coke (I cut that out months ago), I let myself chill...I even cut back on working out to 2 times a week from 3-4. After I had my fun, I got back on track and shed 3 pounds. I'm now proud to say that I'm at 297. I'm under 300 for the first time in my 20's. This is the FIRST time in my life that I've been this successful at weight loss. Plateaus be damned, I am going to make it to my goal. 53 pounds down in 8 months.
Sometimes you need to tighten up, sometimes you need to loosen up.
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Let me try and explain my situation a bit. I met my gf last December online. We met up on a date and I instantly new there was something special about her. We became official and have dated ever since. Throughout us dating there have been times when she has brought up to me the fact she doesn't see herself marrying me or being with me long term. (said it first in April). She was just graduating school (2 hours away from me), and was soon coming home a few weeks later (8 mins away from me when she's home). I brushed the comment to the side because i knew i loved her. I finally said i love her in July. She smiled, said it back, everything was great. I brought up the fact that comment from April, and she just said everything has changed, so I believed her. I have done so manny things for her like talking her to the movies, dinner, concerts, amusement parks, cooked dinner, got her flowers etc etc. And i did this all for the pure reason that i just wanted to make her happy. I have always put her needs first. I have always wanted to make her smile, because in previous relationships, i have not done that. I wanted to make this work. We barely argued, and we genuinely enjoyed each others company. Well past two months, she brought up the whole i dont see myself with you long term so why bother...3 times in two months. I know what you're thinking, why didnt i just end it there? Again, when she doesnt say that to me (i think she does it bc she’s stressed with a new job as a teacher) she is great to me. Says how much she misses me, loves me ,etc... This weekend though, we got in a tiny argument, nothing serious. She said shes been feeling for a while that we are just not right for each other. I tried to give her some space when she said that. Talked last Tuesday night for 2 hours, pouring my heart out, basically just saying how much she means to me and how special i think she is. She said her mind is pretty much made up. Shes stressed/needs time to herself/doesnt see herself long term. It really devastates me because i put so much time/effort/my heart and soul into it. I honestly feel shes the one, but i know, it takes two to tango. Just seems every time there is a disagreement, or ALCOHOL (I know stupid) is involved, that this runs through her mind. What should i do now? the generic No contact and make her miss me? I dont want to hound her or text or call. Her happiness means everything to me, and if it means without me in her life, i guess i have to accept it.
Lost my gf who i thought was my soulmate. I miss her so much/all i think about. I am in day 10 of no contact, trying to just give her space and respect the fact she wants to be alone now.
[ { "content": "Let me try and explain my situation a bit. I met my gf last December online. We met up on a date and I instantly new there was something special about her. We became official and have dated ever since. Throughout us dating there have been times when she has brought up to me the fact she doesn't see herself marrying me or being with me long term. (said it first in April). \n She was just graduating school (2 hours away from me), and was soon coming home a few weeks later (8 mins away from me when she's home). I brushed the comment to the side because i knew i loved her. I finally said i love her in July. She smiled, said it back, everything was great. I brought up the fact that comment from April, and she just said everything has changed, so I believed her. I have done so manny things for her like talking her to the movies, dinner, concerts, amusement parks, cooked dinner, got her flowers etc etc. And i did this all for the pure reason that i just wanted to make her happy. \n I have always put her needs first. I have always wanted to make her smile, because in previous relationships, i have not done that. I wanted to make this work. We barely argued, and we genuinely enjoyed each others company. \n Well past two months, she brought up the whole i dont see myself with you long term so why bother...3 times in two months. I know what you're thinking, why didnt i just end it there? Again, when she doesnt say that to me (i think she does it bc she’s stressed with a new job as a teacher) she is great to me. Says how much she misses me, loves me ,etc... \n This weekend though, we got in a tiny argument, nothing serious. She said shes been feeling for a while that we are just not right for each other. I tried to give her some space when she said that. Talked last Tuesday night for 2 hours, pouring my heart out, basically just saying how much she means to me and how special i think she is. She said her mind is pretty much made up. Shes stressed/needs time to herself/doesnt see herself long term. It really devastates me because i put so much time/effort/my heart and soul into it. I honestly feel shes the one, but i know, it takes two to tango. Just seems every time there is a disagreement, or ALCOHOL (I know stupid) is involved, that this runs through her mind. \n What should i do now? the generic No contact and make her miss me? I dont want to hound her or text or call. Her happiness means everything to me, and if it means without me in her life, i guess i have to accept it.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Lost my gf who i thought was my soulmate. I miss her so much/all i think about. I am in day 10 of no contact, trying to just give her space and respect the fact she wants to be alone now.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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If you're a masochist, you've made the right choice! I suggest reading up on /u/gipsysafety's write ups about Reggie McKenzie so you can get some history and substance behind your fandom and why things are happening right as they are right now. I'll give you a little synopsis though. Ever since we lost the super bowl in 2003 it's been a roller coaster of emotions, and a lot of binge drinking to soothe the pain. Al Davis was never known to be conventional, he was very power hungry and loved his players to a fault. He also would think outside the box and try anything to get a competitive edge. We lost the Super Bowl because he traded our coach (Jon Gruden) to a team who happened to make it to the championship. Ever since then it's been downhill. The head coach to replace Gruden was Bill Callahan, his offensive coordinator. We went 4-12 the following year and dysfunction reared its ugly head. Callahan was calling the raiders the dumbest team in the league. He was fired after the season and we hired Norv Turner to be our head coach in 2004. Norv Turner came aboard and the season was a wash. Jerry Rice was chased out of town due to his age and midseason we lost our starting qb Rich Gannon. 2005 we made a trade for Randy Moss and optimism was rampant again. We had a vet in Kerry Collins and we were hoping some magic would happen. Nope. 2006 Norv Turner got the boot and Al Davis reached back into the past and hired Art Shell as our head coach. Shell was a raider great in the 1970s and coached our team from 89-94, and was fired after going 9-7. Art Shell hired his offensive coordinator from his first stint, who was out of football completely and running a bed and breakfast in Idaho. If that wasn't good enough, Collins split and for Quarterback we had Aaron Brooks, Andrew Walter and Marques Tuiasosopo on the roster. Randy Moss was disillusioned and flat out stopped trying on the field. Jerry Porter (our breakthrough receiver in 2002) was getting disgruntled that Shell wouldn't let champagne in the locker room and started making a scene, even parking in Al's spot. We ended up going 2-14, the Raiders worst record since the early 60's. We also secured our first #1 draft pick in team history. Oddly enough, we had the #3 ranked defense and that was the breakout season of Nnamdi Asomugha, who ended up being a shut down corner and a fan favorite. 2007 Art Shell got the boot and we hired USC's offensive coordinator Lane Kiffin. Kiffin was the youngest head coach in history and it didn't feel right from the beginning. At his intro press conference Al introduced him as, "Lance." With the #1 pick we selected JaMarcus Russell. Russell ended up holding out so we signed journeyman QB Josh McCown to start the season. After we got Russell under contract, Kiffin wanted to ease him into the lineup and refused to put him in the game, resulting in animosity from Davis and the fans. Russell started and was less than spectacular. We ended up going 4-12. 2008 came around and Davis made a huge splash in free agency. If I remember correctly he signed Tommy Kelly to the richest contract ever for a defensive tackle. Tommy Kelly was an undrafted player for us that was 4 years in the league, and never made a pro bowl. He also traded for DeAngelo Hall and paid him a 10 million per season. We also picked up Gibril Wilson and Kwame Harris and kept Asomugha via the exclusive franchise tag. Everyone was ecstatic for this season, we thought we had the pieces from the offseason moves. Our opening night we got burned 41-14. I was at that game, it was terrible. DeAngelo hall got torched by a rookie, and we ended up cutting him after week 8. Kiffin was on thin ice quickly after that first game and to show his arrogance during one of his games he had us attempt a 74 yard field goal. He was fired after the fourth game to which Tom Cable, our offensive line coach, was named our interim coach. Under cable there seemed to be stability, but our offense was stagnant like usual. We finished 4-12 again. 2009 Cable was named the head coach. During that summer Cable was being investigated after the assistant defensive backs coach had his jaw broken at training camp. ESPN also did a "special" that had one of Cable's ex girlfriends say he was abusive. That really hurt our PR and speculators will tell you Davis didn't like this. The players loved him though. Al Davis then traded a first round draft pick to the Patriots for Richard Seymour. This was insane because Seymour was in the league 10 years and a first round pick was too much, but Al wanted to win now. Our offense was still lackluster, with many injuries at Quarterback. The fans have had enough of JaMarcus, and were relieved when Bruce Gradkowski got the nod at QB. There was a little resurgence, but injuries and just poor all around play we saw another losing record. In 2010 Al hired Hue Jackson to be the offensive coordinator under Cable. We cut Russell and traded for Jason Campbell of the redskins, who led his team to the playoffs in 2008, but didn't do anything of note in his career. In 2010 the offense was mixed. We blew the broncos out 59-14 but it was very inconsistent. We did however improve to 8-8. In 2011 Cable's contract was up, and it was not renewed. A lot of the players did not like this, but Hue Jackson was elevated to head coach. With the raiders showing promise mid season, Al Davis unfortunately passed away but the team was on an uptick. That game we lost Jason Campbell for the year to injury. Wanting to capitalize on momentum we traded a first and a second round pick to Cincinnati for Carson Palmer to replace him immediately. We started the season 7-4 but ended 8-8. Our last game was against the chargers, if we beat them we would've had a post season berth. We laid an egg on new years day and lost and Hue famously said to the press that he, "was pissed off at his team, and he would not be in this situation next year." He was right, because after this Mark Davis (Al's Son) took over, hired Reggie McKenzie from the Green Bay Packers as the GM, who let jackson go. I didn't mean to go into this much detail, and this is really the
version, as I'm leaving a lot of Al Davis salary cap manipulations, crazy signings out of the story. /u/gipsysafety's posts about Reggie will bring you up to speed the rest of the way. You picked a great team, and when we return to greatness, hopefully all these down years will be a thing of the past. To answer your question, we've gotten used to hearing the term "moral victory" and jokes at us being basement dwellers. But when the Raiders are good, times are fun. Here's to returning to that.
[ { "content": "If you're a masochist, you've made the right choice! \n I suggest reading up on /u/gipsysafety's write ups about Reggie McKenzie so you can get some history and substance behind your fandom and why things are happening right as they are right now. \n I'll give you a little synopsis though. Ever since we lost the super bowl in 2003 it's been a roller coaster of emotions, and a lot of binge drinking to soothe the pain. Al Davis was never known to be conventional, he was very power hungry and loved his players to a fault. He also would think outside the box and try anything to get a competitive edge. We lost the Super Bowl because he traded our coach (Jon Gruden) to a team who happened to make it to the championship. Ever since then it's been downhill. The head coach to replace Gruden was Bill Callahan, his offensive coordinator. We went 4-12 the following year and dysfunction reared its ugly head. Callahan was calling the raiders the dumbest team in the league. He was fired after the season and we hired Norv Turner to be our head coach in 2004. \n Norv Turner came aboard and the season was a wash. Jerry Rice was chased out of town due to his age and midseason we lost our starting qb Rich Gannon. \n 2005 we made a trade for Randy Moss and optimism was rampant again. We had a vet in Kerry Collins and we were hoping some magic would happen. Nope. \n 2006 Norv Turner got the boot and Al Davis reached back into the past and hired Art Shell as our head coach. Shell was a raider great in the 1970s and coached our team from 89-94, and was fired after going 9-7. Art Shell hired his offensive coordinator from his first stint, who was out of football completely and running a bed and breakfast in Idaho. If that wasn't good enough, Collins split and for Quarterback we had Aaron Brooks, Andrew Walter and Marques Tuiasosopo on the roster. Randy Moss was disillusioned and flat out stopped trying on the field. Jerry Porter (our breakthrough receiver in 2002) was getting disgruntled that Shell wouldn't let champagne in the locker room and started making a scene, even parking in Al's spot. We ended up going 2-14, the Raiders worst record since the early 60's. We also secured our first #1 draft pick in team history. Oddly enough, we had the #3 ranked defense and that was the breakout season of Nnamdi Asomugha, who ended up being a shut down corner and a fan favorite. \n 2007 Art Shell got the boot and we hired USC's offensive coordinator Lane Kiffin. Kiffin was the youngest head coach in history and it didn't feel right from the beginning. At his intro press conference Al introduced him as, \"Lance.\" With the #1 pick we selected JaMarcus Russell. Russell ended up holding out so we signed journeyman QB Josh McCown to start the season. After we got Russell under contract, Kiffin wanted to ease him into the lineup and refused to put him in the game, resulting in animosity from Davis and the fans. Russell started and was less than spectacular. We ended up going 4-12. \n 2008 came around and Davis made a huge splash in free agency. If I remember correctly he signed Tommy Kelly to the richest contract ever for a defensive tackle. Tommy Kelly was an undrafted player for us that was 4 years in the league, and never made a pro bowl. He also traded for DeAngelo Hall and paid him a 10 million per season. We also picked up Gibril Wilson and Kwame Harris and kept Asomugha via the exclusive franchise tag. Everyone was ecstatic for this season, we thought we had the pieces from the offseason moves. Our opening night we got burned 41-14. I was at that game, it was terrible. DeAngelo hall got torched by a rookie, and we ended up cutting him after week 8. Kiffin was on thin ice quickly after that first game and to show his arrogance during one of his games he had us attempt a 74 yard field goal. He was fired after the fourth game to which Tom Cable, our offensive line coach, was named our interim coach. Under cable there seemed to be stability, but our offense was stagnant like usual. We finished 4-12 again. \n 2009 Cable was named the head coach. During that summer Cable was being investigated after the assistant defensive backs coach had his jaw broken at training camp. ESPN also did a \"special\" that had one of Cable's ex girlfriends say he was abusive. That really hurt our PR and speculators will tell you Davis didn't like this. The players loved him though. Al Davis then traded a first round draft pick to the Patriots for Richard Seymour. This was insane because Seymour was in the league 10 years and a first round pick was too much, but Al wanted to win now. Our offense was still lackluster, with many injuries at Quarterback. The fans have had enough of JaMarcus, and were relieved when Bruce Gradkowski got the nod at QB. There was a little resurgence, but injuries and just poor all around play we saw another losing record. \n In 2010 Al hired Hue Jackson to be the offensive coordinator under Cable. We cut Russell and traded for Jason Campbell of the redskins, who led his team to the playoffs in 2008, but didn't do anything of note in his career. In 2010 the offense was mixed. We blew the broncos out 59-14 but it was very inconsistent. We did however improve to 8-8. \n In 2011 Cable's contract was up, and it was not renewed. A lot of the players did not like this, but Hue Jackson was elevated to head coach. With the raiders showing promise mid season, Al Davis unfortunately passed away but the team was on an uptick. That game we lost Jason Campbell for the year to injury. Wanting to capitalize on momentum we traded a first and a second round pick to Cincinnati for Carson Palmer to replace him immediately. We started the season 7-4 but ended 8-8. Our last game was against the chargers, if we beat them we would've had a post season berth. We laid an egg on new years day and lost and Hue famously said to the press that he, \"was pissed off at his team, and he would not be in this situation next year.\" He was right, because after this Mark Davis (Al's Son) took over, hired Reggie McKenzie from the Green Bay Packers as the GM, who let jackson go. \n I didn't mean to go into this much detail, and this is really the", "role": "user" }, { "content": "version, as I'm leaving a lot of Al Davis salary cap manipulations, crazy signings out of the story. /u/gipsysafety's posts about Reggie will bring you up to speed the rest of the way. You picked a great team, and when we return to greatness, hopefully all these down years will be a thing of the past. To answer your question, we've gotten used to hearing the term \"moral victory\" and jokes at us being basement dwellers. But when the Raiders are good, times are fun. Here's to returning to that.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Such Movie: Nicolas Cage wakes up in an island alone and has to figure out how did he get there and how can he go back to the family he doesn't remember having. He's not alone all the movie, he has a pet horse but he can't ride it cause the horse has back problems. In fact sometimes he has to carry the horse around. The big reveal happens at the end of the movie, when he discovers that he has been living in a big tomato garden all this time (25 years).
Nicolas Cage takes his shirt off often.
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So this didnt happen today, it was couple of years back. Background: My family is religious and they believe in demons, angels and what not. They are also not so great with technology (they dont understand it fully). So one day I decided to prank my little brothers by using a website called peteranswers. The idea of the website is that you type a petition, followed by a question and then it answers you (with the correct answer). The trick was that you type the answer in the petition and then write your question normally and press OK to get the answer you typed originally (watch this video to understand what I mean >> So I gathered my little brothers around and started fooling around with them by answering innocent questions like "whats my name?", "how old is Ali?", and many similar questions. They were shocked by this website that answered everything correctly (I was the one answering behind the scenes). So they start running to my parents and telling them about this website, so I though I might as well prank my parents as well, no harm right? right?? riiiiiiiiiight! So I go to my parents, and they start with simple questions like "who is sitting in the room?", "how many years they've been married?" and so on. At one point they started believing the website, so the questions started to get serious, they started asking about stuff that happened long time ago. Being the smartass I am, I answered all their questions to the point they started doubting the website, so I had to back myself up, so I said I own a demon that answers my questions and he knows all about the family. Now given that my parents are religious they believed, because I answered questions correctly that nobody would be able to do so. So they decided that we have to gather up with extended family to investigate further (grandmother, uncles, aunties, cousins and lots of people). I thought to myself, it would be a nice idea to prank them too, for a day or so. That was day 1. The gathering was for 3 days in one of my uncles house. They started asking questions and I started using petersanswers to answer the questions, and I answered each question perfectly, I had my ways in coming up with answers. Soon enough I realised that they will find out about my prank because the answers I write on the website are longer than the petition, so I told everyone that the demon decided to drop the website and whispers to me the answers. This way I dont have to type anything and could answer from head directly. This is day 2, and my grandmother was paying a lot of attention to me as she believes in demons the most. At this point things got too serious for me and out of control, I couldn't say that this is a prank (even though its day 2) so I just continued with the prank. The next day, my mother asks me to go to the shop and buy some stuff, so I take the money off her and go to the toilet and as I close the door my mother was looking at me, so I thought I will act like am giving the demon the money, so I throw the money in the air, and I hide the money in my boxer as I am closing the door. When I left the toilet, my mother asked me where is the money, I was like i gave it to the demon, and she believed as she couldnt find the money on me. At this point I was like you know what, let them believe I have a demon, I wont tell them. Day 4 passes and everybody is terrified from me, because i have a freaking DEMON that i control!!! Nobody wanted to sleep in the same room as me, nobody wanted to stay near me, they were terrified! On day 5 everybody decides to go back to their home, and try to find a solution for my demon (they wanna get rid of my demon). One of my uncles was a bit smart, he youtubed the website petersanswers, and soon realised it was allll a prank! He called my mother and explained to her how disappointed he is! I got the scolding of my life! Every single one of them was angry with me! They remained angry for months! At first my parents were very disappointed, but then they admitted how cool it was that I answered many challenging questions correctly! XD
I used petersanswers to answer my family's questions, and said I had a demon that gave me the answers. They believed until one of my uncles researched the website and realised that it was a BAAAAAD prank! :D
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There's a lot more to it than making it easier to buy stuff in other countries. By having a common currency in the entire EU (which was the original goal) would bolster up the Union as a powerful commercial player in the international world of both business and banking. This would mainly be due to the fact that a currency directly based on a multitude af nations' economics would be significantly more stable than say the Yen, which is linked to a single country. That would mean, that even if one of the Eurozone countries would fall on hard times, their currency would not be affected with the same severety, as the other countries in the Zone would provide "solidary support" as it were. That would provide confidence in regional stability, making the Eurozone a "safe bet" for foreign investors. The problem then came when several of the Eurozone countries took a nasty hit almost at the same time in 2008, putting enormous strain on the economies of the "healty" countries in the Eurozone, thus making it that much harder for them to continue to live up to the obligations in the agreement.
It provides an economical safety net for every one country
[ { "content": "There's a lot more to it than making it easier to buy stuff in other countries. \nBy having a common currency in the entire EU (which was the original goal) would bolster up the Union as a powerful commercial player in the international world of both business and banking. This would mainly be due to the fact that a currency directly based on a multitude af nations' economics would be significantly more stable than say the Yen, which is linked to a single country. \nThat would mean, that even if one of the Eurozone countries would fall on hard times, their currency would not be affected with the same severety, as the other countries in the Zone would provide \"solidary support\" as it were. That would provide confidence in regional stability, making the Eurozone a \"safe bet\" for foreign investors. \n The problem then came when several of the Eurozone countries took a nasty hit almost at the same time in 2008, putting enormous strain on the economies of the \"healty\" countries in the Eurozone, thus making it that much harder for them to continue to live up to the obligations in the agreement.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "It provides an economical safety net for every one country", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Eh. In general its a moot point since it isn't helpful to your play to think about it, and matchmaking places you against people you should be able to beat. Yes its very easy to lose a lot of shit if you fuck up your harass defense, but if that guy is matched up against you odds are you might be able to beat him despite losing some workers early with better control and macro. Measuring skill required to win is extremely subjective and should vary greatly with both skill level and simply the build choice by each player.
maybe
[ { "content": "Eh. In general its a moot point since it isn't helpful to your play to think about it, and matchmaking places you against people you should be able to beat. Yes its very easy to lose a lot of shit if you fuck up your harass defense, but if that guy is matched up against you odds are you might be able to beat him despite losing some workers early with better control and macro. \n Measuring skill required to win is extremely subjective and should vary greatly with both skill level and simply the build choice by each player.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "maybe", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Reaction Time =/= Mechanics. It is a factor of mechanics, but conflating the two is a mistake. The worst mechanical player in the world could conceivably have the highest reaction time.
Shut up you're the poopyhead
[ { "content": "Reaction Time =/= Mechanics. It is a factor of mechanics, but conflating the two is a mistake. The worst mechanical player in the world could conceivably have the highest reaction time.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Shut up you're the poopyhead", "role": "assistant" } ]
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You know those super awesome ally icons on the left? You know that green light that indicates whether or not their ult is available? Wouldn't it be super useful if you could approximate the time until it's available just by glancing over at it?! WELL NOW YOU CAN IMAGINE WHAT THAT WOULD BE LIKE!!11 Turn that shitty ass circle into a countdown timer that indicates how long it will be until it's available. That circle can even change colors from red to orange to yellow to green!
do this
[ { "content": "You know those super awesome ally icons on the left? \n You know that green light that indicates whether or not their ult is available? \n Wouldn't it be super useful if you could approximate the time until it's available just by glancing over at it?! \n WELL NOW YOU CAN IMAGINE WHAT THAT WOULD BE LIKE!!11 \n Turn that shitty ass circle into a countdown timer that indicates how long it will be until it's available. That circle can even change colors from red to orange to yellow to green!", "role": "user" }, { "content": "do this", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Physically removing your father from bars: No, it won't work. It will make him less likely to listen to the next item, and he'll just find some other way to drink. Tell him you love him: Yes. Scare him to become sober: No, won't work. He has alcoholic liver disease. That's scary. You trying to scare him will be completely ineffective. 1) Crosspost this in /alanon, so you can get some better voices with more experience than me. 2) Tell him you love him, and that you'll support him getting sober. Educate yourself on alcoholism, and recovery networks. Tell him you'll support him with treatment, inpatient, AA, SMART recovery, any support group he wants. 3) Tell him the truth, about how you feel, without being accusatory; say how YOU feel, not HOW BAD he is. 4) Don't enable him. Don't give him money, support him getting drunk, lie for him, cover for him, and tell him so. 5) Go to an alanon meeting and meet with people who will help put you in the right frame of mind to do all these things.
You can't force someone to get sober. If they aren't ready to quit, they will find a way to drink, despite everyone and everything.
[ { "content": "Physically removing your father from bars: No, it won't work. It will make him less likely to listen to the next item, and he'll just find some other way to drink. \n Tell him you love him: Yes. \n Scare him to become sober: No, won't work. He has alcoholic liver disease. That's scary. You trying to scare him will be completely ineffective. \n 1) Crosspost this in /alanon, so you can get some better voices with more experience than me. \n 2) Tell him you love him, and that you'll support him getting sober. Educate yourself on alcoholism, and recovery networks. Tell him you'll support him with treatment, inpatient, AA, SMART recovery, any support group he wants. \n 3) Tell him the truth, about how you feel, without being accusatory; say how YOU feel, not HOW BAD he is. \n 4) Don't enable him. Don't give him money, support him getting drunk, lie for him, cover for him, and tell him so. \n 5) Go to an alanon meeting and meet with people who will help put you in the right frame of mind to do all these things.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "You can't force someone to get sober. If they aren't ready to quit, they will find a way to drink, despite everyone and everything.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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The book is good. I have read it many times, although I personally am not a huge fan of the Locke and Desmo sections due to them being a little more bland but they have to be gone over at least once. Orson Scott card has written many books along with Enders Game detailing events before, after and during Enders stay at battle school and has stories written from different point of views. Chronological chart of Enderverse stories click show. This link shows how each section of the books should be read to avoid spoilers. "Shadows" cover the story from Bean, books going down including Xenocide, are covering Ender (mostly) and above is the books leading up to the book Enders game. Personally read a large portion (all but the prelude books) and Orson's works earlier in his career were better, but all are quite goood.
Yes, read Enders Game.
[ { "content": "The book is good. I have read it many times, although I personally am not a huge fan of the Locke and Desmo sections due to them being a little more bland but they have to be gone over at least once. \n Orson Scott card has written many books along with Enders Game detailing events before, after and during Enders stay at battle school and has stories written from different point of views.\n Chronological chart of Enderverse stories click show.\nThis link shows how each section of the books should be read to avoid spoilers. \"Shadows\" cover the story from Bean, books going down including Xenocide, are covering Ender (mostly) and above is the books leading up to the book Enders game.\nPersonally read a large portion (all but the prelude books) and Orson's works earlier in his career were better, but all are quite goood.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Yes, read Enders Game.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I've been at pretty unhappy with my current relationship for over 2 years now. As life events occur I'm finding I do not like my wife more and more. She's a nice, caring person, but is terrible with money, can't keep her emotions in check, is always the victim, and has zero self control. We've been together for about 10 years, and I thought I could live with some of these personality traits and that she would outgrow others. I was wrong on both parts, and it's not only causing me a significant amount of stress and resentment towards her, but is on the way to ruining me financially as well. I've decided I want to leave her. I don't hate her, I just don't want the rest of my life to be dictated by her decisions. Therein lies the conundrum. About a year ago one of her parents got diagnosed with a potentially life threatening ilness, and since then it has been a rollercoaster of ups and downs of getting healthier, then getting sicker. She was so upset about this that she couldn't keep her job. She would just cry everyday she went in and get sent home, or just call in. Eventually she quit because she couldn't handle it. Side note: This was a big eye opener for me. If she can't hold it together when times get tough, then I can't rely on her to help out if something happens to me. I certainly wouldn't be able to quit my job under similar circumstances or we would become homeless. Anyways, said sick parent has just learned that the illness is now terminal. I estimate 6 months or less until they pass, but there's no way to really know. I don't know when I should notify my wife of my intent to separate. If I tell her now she will be devastated and will most likely try to kill herself (or at least say she will as she has anytime this topic has come up before.) I try to not be an asshole and don't want to leave her alone to deal with her dying family member, but I don't want to wait it out and it turns into several years of waiting. If I wait until after said family member dies, how long after should I wait? If I do it this way then it will be a one-two punch to her emotions, and that might be worse. She is very dependent on me, and despite my attempts to get her out of the house and meet new friends she really only has maybe one other friend. I don't want to destroy her emotionally.
I want to leave my wife, but she's dealing with a terminally ill parent. When is the right time to break it to her?
[ { "content": "I've been at pretty unhappy with my current relationship for over 2 years now. As life events occur I'm finding I do not like my wife more and more. She's a nice, caring person, but is terrible with money, can't keep her emotions in check, is always the victim, and has zero self control. We've been together for about 10 years, and I thought I could live with some of these personality traits and that she would outgrow others. I was wrong on both parts, and it's not only causing me a significant amount of stress and resentment towards her, but is on the way to ruining me financially as well. I've decided I want to leave her. I don't hate her, I just don't want the rest of my life to be dictated by her decisions. \n Therein lies the conundrum. About a year ago one of her parents got diagnosed with a potentially life threatening ilness, and since then it has been a rollercoaster of ups and downs of getting healthier, then getting sicker. She was so upset about this that she couldn't keep her job. She would just cry everyday she went in and get sent home, or just call in. Eventually she quit because she couldn't handle it. \n Side note: This was a big eye opener for me. If she can't hold it together when times get tough, then I can't rely on her to help out if something happens to me. I certainly wouldn't be able to quit my job under similar circumstances or we would become homeless. \n Anyways, said sick parent has just learned that the illness is now terminal. I estimate 6 months or less until they pass, but there's no way to really know. I don't know when I should notify my wife of my intent to separate. If I tell her now she will be devastated and will most likely try to kill herself (or at least say she will as she has anytime this topic has come up before.) I try to not be an asshole and don't want to leave her alone to deal with her dying family member, but I don't want to wait it out and it turns into several years of waiting. \n If I wait until after said family member dies, how long after should I wait? If I do it this way then it will be a one-two punch to her emotions, and that might be worse. \n She is very dependent on me, and despite my attempts to get her out of the house and meet new friends she really only has maybe one other friend. I don't want to destroy her emotionally.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "I want to leave my wife, but she's dealing with a terminally ill parent. When is the right time to break it to her?", "role": "assistant" } ]
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In university I was taught that the permo-triassic extinction was caused primarily by continental accretion (Pangaea) over the equator which raised the Earth's albedo (heat absorption rate). Since there were no polar ice caps at this time no thermohaline circulation was occurring in the oceans, which was exacerbated by the big glob of land in the middle of the warm ocean. This lack of ocean circulation is believed to have caused the oceans to lose much of their oxygen + warm water has a hard time retaining gases to begin with. So sea life started suffocating and decaying on a massive scale causing the oceans to belch large amounts of CO^2 and methane (& other nasty gases), which added to the green house effect (& perhaps some pockets of localized suffocation). Weird bacteria's that are only suppose to exist in anoxic environments are found in fossilized seabed sedimentation at this time. I am not sure if the article is referring to the same microbes, but to me they are symptomatic of the Earth's biosphere rather than a cause of the extinction. (+mad volcano's & rocks from space).
I have heard about these microbes and IMO they may have been a symptom of the condition of the biosphere rather than a cause of the extinctions.
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I had a bag of store bought garlic that was sprouting in bag last year so I decided to plant the bulbs. I knew they weren't going to get big because garlic needs to be chilled over winter. I left them in the ground in the fall as is and was planning on replanting them over the last few weeks of winter. Well now that Winter '13 comes to an end, I've been planting them with my fruit trees and in beds where I will plant tomatoes and cabbage. But I still have too many. I feel like I could fill my entire garden with garlic and thought why not? Plus their scapes makes delicious pesto and my family uses at least .5 lb/week. So I wanted to know, if there are any veggies beside legumes which don't like to be planted near garlic?
Have too many garlic plants, can I plant them everywhere?
[ { "content": "I had a bag of store bought garlic that was sprouting in bag last year so I decided to plant the bulbs. I knew they weren't going to get big because garlic needs to be chilled over winter. I left them in the ground in the fall as is and was planning on replanting them over the last few weeks of winter. \n Well now that Winter '13 comes to an end, I've been planting them with my fruit trees and in beds where I will plant tomatoes and cabbage. But I still have too many. I feel like I could fill my entire garden with garlic and thought why not? Plus their scapes makes delicious pesto and my family uses at least .5 lb/week. So I wanted to know, if there are any veggies beside legumes which don't like to be planted near garlic?", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Have too many garlic plants, can I plant them everywhere?", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I have a good friend that is a biostatistician that works in a gene-typing lab for bone marrow donations. She says the current rate of inaccuracy in reporting who the father is is 1/5. 1 in 5 children of people affluent enough to be able to have bone-marrow transplants are from another father.
genetyping lab reports 1/5 infidelity rate.
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basically, the FDA is enforcing rules that all medications must be proven not only safe, but effective; unfortunately, this comes at the expense of funding an efficacy trial. in return, whoever does that can effectively turn it back into a brand name medication (with associated increase in price), and block existing generic manufacturers from producing existing products. refer to colchicine and quinine for examples of this; hell, FDA has a whole website devoted to posting cease-and-desist letters to generic drug companies. adding to what others have said, there are plenty of drugs that are still technically not FDA approved. Some notable examples are chloral hydrate and phenobarbital. Another would be morphine 20mg/ml oral solution, which FDA literally [tried to pull off the market]( until enough hospice people told FDA that they were stupid. it really pisses me off that FDA a.) thinks HCPs are too stupid to use unapproved drugs legitimately and that b.) it fosters the creation of not just brand name drugs, but drugs that used to be extremely cheap and are now suddenly extremely expensive for stupid reasons.
if you somehow scraped up the money to fund a legitimate RCT showing that phenobarb is safe and effective for seizures or EtOH withdrawl, you could effectively corner the market on phenobarb products. anyone want to start a small pharma company?
[ { "content": "basically, the FDA is enforcing rules that all medications must be proven not only safe, but effective; unfortunately, this comes at the expense of funding an efficacy trial. in return, whoever does that can effectively turn it back into a brand name medication (with associated increase in price), and block existing generic manufacturers from producing existing products. refer to colchicine and quinine for examples of this; hell, FDA has a whole website devoted to posting cease-and-desist letters to generic drug companies. \n adding to what others have said, there are plenty of drugs that are still technically not FDA approved. Some notable examples are chloral hydrate and phenobarbital. Another would be morphine 20mg/ml oral solution, which FDA literally [tried to pull off the market]( until enough hospice people told FDA that they were stupid. \n it really pisses me off that FDA a.) thinks HCPs are too stupid to use unapproved drugs legitimately and that b.) it fosters the creation of not just brand name drugs, but drugs that used to be extremely cheap and are now suddenly extremely expensive for stupid reasons.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "if you somehow scraped up the money to fund a legitimate RCT showing that phenobarb is safe and effective for seizures or EtOH withdrawl, you could effectively corner the market on phenobarb products. anyone want to start a small pharma company?", "role": "assistant" } ]
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As always, the rights holders use the jobs and livelihoods of artists as the big emotive pitch. When in fact, artists are not the ones who benefit, but the distribution networks are.
they always say they want to save the jobs of artists; they mean they want to save their OWN jobs.
[ { "content": "As always, the rights holders use the jobs and livelihoods of artists as the big emotive pitch. When in fact, artists are not the ones who benefit, but the distribution networks are.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "they always say they want to save the jobs of artists; they mean they want to save their OWN jobs.", "role": "assistant" } ]
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Alright neither me [21M] nor my gf [21F] are very sexually experienced, she has slept with one other person while I have with 2 others. She and I have been dating since my freshman year of college. We were neighbors and spent almost every second together even before we started dating and quickly fell in love with her. We have a great deal of things in common so we work together very well. We have even acknowledged that we can see ourselves getting married in the future. I do love her but the fire is disappearing and I keep feeling as if I am wasting my time if things are steadily going downhill. It is now our senior year and while she is just as, if not more in love with me, I feel like I want to be single. Almost every girl that I am friends with is moderately to extremely attractive including my gf's friends. I have been receiving more attention from girls lately and that only seems to fuel my desires. My main concern is graduating, breaking up, and then kicking myself for not exploring other options. So reddit, what should I do? In my heart I know I don't want her to be the last person that I hook up with but I really don't want to lose her forever.
Want to be single but dont want to break long term gf's heart
[ { "content": "Alright neither me [21M] nor my gf [21F] are very sexually experienced, she has slept with one other person while I have with 2 others. She and I have been dating since my freshman year of college. We were neighbors and spent almost every second together even before we started dating and quickly fell in love with her. We have a great deal of things in common so we work together very well. We have even acknowledged that we can see ourselves getting married in the future. I do love her but the fire is disappearing and I keep feeling as if I am wasting my time if things are steadily going downhill. \n It is now our senior year and while she is just as, if not more in love with me, I feel like I want to be single. Almost every girl that I am friends with is moderately to extremely attractive including my gf's friends. I have been receiving more attention from girls lately and that only seems to fuel my desires. My main concern is graduating, breaking up, and then kicking myself for not exploring other options. So reddit, what should I do? In my heart I know I don't want her to be the last person that I hook up with but I really don't want to lose her forever.", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Want to be single but dont want to break long term gf's heart", "role": "assistant" } ]
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I'm sure there's been a million posts on this but I wanted to spitball some ideas and see what some other players have to say. I'm going to start by saying that I'm very new to cookie clicker but already pretty damn addicted. I have been playing for 112 hours. I consider myself lucky as I did some looking around this subreddit before playing. With the help of the subreddit, the cookie clicker wiki, and cookie monster, I have amassed 120 Qa cookies over 3 resets during my play time. I have 155/160 upgrades and 99/104 achievements. So I've gotten to the point where I want to discuss strategies and share my findings over the past 5+ days. Lets start with Wrath cookies. I have found that the optimal times to have Wrath cookies are in 2 situations. You're starting a soft reset and havent gotten the "Get Lucky" upgrade yet. I'll discuss more on this later You're away from the game and just trying to get the most cookies you can while you're not playing. This is kind of the consensus. With Wrinklers, you can go away from the game, never click cookies, and get a x6 bonus for doing nothing. That's pretty solid. Now I have some beef with some of the posts i've seen advocating for Wrath Cookies and that argument mostly revolves around the Wrinklers strategy as well as the Elder Frenzy + Reindeer combo. Firstly, it's clear to say that this combo is by far the best in the game. You don't have to do any clicking and strain your fingers (Nobody wants to start developing carpel tunnel at such a young age), the combo gives the most cookies out of any combo in the game, and getting the x666 bonus on top of the wrinklers X6 bonus is pretty awesome. However, there's so many downsides to wrath cookies. In my, albeit short, experience with wrath cookies (I had been mostly playing actively, putting my laptop to sleep when I wasn't playing up until yesterday), Elder Frenzy's are pretty rare. This probably has something to do with the fact that I haven't really clicked every wrath cookie and just being unlucky but keep following me. I understand that Clicking Frenzy's are actually rarer but I seem to get them more often (Like I said, mostly because i've been actively playing with Golden Cookies). But using the numbers...Elder Frenzy chance is at 5.9% and Clicking Frenzy is at 3.325%. Those are pretty close in my opinion. /u/SirPeebles commented on another thread with the math of the two [here] ( So although clicking frenzy + frenzy doesn't amass as much cookies as an elder frenzy reindeer, sure it makes it an inferior combo but overall I think Golden Cookies (as long as you have the "Get Lucky" upgrade) are better when you're actively playing for the following reasons: Wrath cookies have too many negative effects. It's pretty common to get Clot or Ruin! when you're clicking red cookies. Clot is absolutely killer on the Wrinkler strategy. Some people have suggested popping Wrinklers when you get Clot but if you ask me, if you're actively playing, it's just not worth it. Clot also cuts your reindeers in half as well as Lucky! cookies. Ruin! causes you to lose cookies (seems like half of your max Lucky! reward). Ruin! absolutely kills the possibility of stopping at One Mind to take advantage of Wrinklers and Frenzy because if you get a Ruin! during that Frenzy, it really freakin hurts. I've also gotten Cookie Chains fairly often with Wrath Cookies and personally I hate Cookie Chains. They're stressful (even with a small window) and don't give as much cookies as I'd like. Golden Cookies have no downsides. This makes up for the Clicking Frenzy combo being inferior. In my experience with playing while having the "Get Lucky" upgrade (On top of Serendipity and Lucky Day of course) you're in Frenzy mode for at least 50% of the time (Kind of a low ball estimate as I think it's probably closer to 75%). In comparison with the Wrinkler strategy, I consider this kind of a wash since Clot will cut down the x6 bonus to x3 and Frenzy is x7 instead of x6. Also about 90% of the Golden Cookies you get during a Frenzy are of the Lucky! variety. With the max banked cookies (84,000 times your CPS), you get 8,400 seconds of production. This happens roughly every 4 minutes. In my experience it's reasonable to say that in an hour, you'll get this reward a minimum of 10 times, so 84,000 seconds of production in an hour. It's also pretty widely accepted that you'll get a clicking frenzy on average, once every hour so the combination of these two easily beats out Elder Frenzy (and this is without adding in syncing up your reindeer during Frenzy so that you get 2 reindeer over the course of the Frenzy which is another 2520 seconds of production over the hour).
Use Wrath cookies before "Get Lucky" and during idle time. Use Golden Cookies during active play after purchasing the "Get Lucky" upgrade. EDIT: Clarification/Proofreading
[ { "content": "I'm sure there's been a million posts on this but I wanted to spitball some ideas and see what some other players have to say. \n I'm going to start by saying that I'm very new to cookie clicker but already pretty damn addicted. I have been playing for 112 hours. I consider myself lucky as I did some looking around this subreddit before playing. With the help of the subreddit, the cookie clicker wiki, and cookie monster, I have amassed 120 Qa cookies over 3 resets during my play time. I have 155/160 upgrades and 99/104 achievements. \n So I've gotten to the point where I want to discuss strategies and share my findings over the past 5+ days. \n Lets start with Wrath cookies. I have found that the optimal times to have Wrath cookies are in 2 situations. \n \n You're starting a soft reset and havent gotten the \"Get Lucky\" upgrade yet. I'll discuss more on this later \n \n You're away from the game and just trying to get the most cookies you can while you're not playing. This is kind of the consensus. With Wrinklers, you can go away from the game, never click cookies, and get a x6 bonus for doing nothing. That's pretty solid. \n \n \n Now I have some beef with some of the posts i've seen advocating for Wrath Cookies and that argument mostly revolves around the Wrinklers strategy as well as the Elder Frenzy + Reindeer combo. \n Firstly, it's clear to say that this combo is by far the best in the game. You don't have to do any clicking and strain your fingers (Nobody wants to start developing carpel tunnel at such a young age), the combo gives the most cookies out of any combo in the game, and getting the x666 bonus on top of the wrinklers X6 bonus is pretty awesome. However, there's so many downsides to wrath cookies. \n In my, albeit short, experience with wrath cookies (I had been mostly playing actively, putting my laptop to sleep when I wasn't playing up until yesterday), Elder Frenzy's are pretty rare. This probably has something to do with the fact that I haven't really clicked every wrath cookie and just being unlucky but keep following me. I understand that Clicking Frenzy's are actually rarer but I seem to get them more often (Like I said, mostly because i've been actively playing with Golden Cookies). But using the numbers...Elder Frenzy chance is at 5.9% and Clicking Frenzy is at 3.325%. Those are pretty close in my opinion. /u/SirPeebles commented on another thread with the math of the two [here] ( So although clicking frenzy + frenzy doesn't amass as much cookies as an elder frenzy reindeer, sure it makes it an inferior combo but overall I think Golden Cookies (as long as you have the \"Get Lucky\" upgrade) are better when you're actively playing for the following reasons: \n \n Wrath cookies have too many negative effects. It's pretty common to get Clot or Ruin! when you're clicking red cookies. Clot is absolutely killer on the Wrinkler strategy. Some people have suggested popping Wrinklers when you get Clot but if you ask me, if you're actively playing, it's just not worth it. Clot also cuts your reindeers in half as well as Lucky! cookies. Ruin! causes you to lose cookies (seems like half of your max Lucky! reward). Ruin! absolutely kills the possibility of stopping at One Mind to take advantage of Wrinklers and Frenzy because if you get a Ruin! during that Frenzy, it really freakin hurts. I've also gotten Cookie Chains fairly often with Wrath Cookies and personally I hate Cookie Chains. They're stressful (even with a small window) and don't give as much cookies as I'd like. \n \n Golden Cookies have no downsides. This makes up for the Clicking Frenzy combo being inferior. In my experience with playing while having the \"Get Lucky\" upgrade (On top of Serendipity and Lucky Day of course) you're in Frenzy mode for at least 50% of the time (Kind of a low ball estimate as I think it's probably closer to 75%). In comparison with the Wrinkler strategy, I consider this kind of a wash since Clot will cut down the x6 bonus to x3 and Frenzy is x7 instead of x6. Also about 90% of the Golden Cookies you get during a Frenzy are of the Lucky! variety. With the max banked cookies (84,000 times your CPS), you get 8,400 seconds of production. This happens roughly every 4 minutes. In my experience it's reasonable to say that in an hour, you'll get this reward a minimum of 10 times, so 84,000 seconds of production in an hour. It's also pretty widely accepted that you'll get a clicking frenzy on average, once every hour so the combination of these two easily beats out Elder Frenzy (and this is without adding in syncing up your reindeer during Frenzy so that you get 2 reindeer over the course of the Frenzy which is another 2520 seconds of production over the hour).", "role": "user" }, { "content": "Use Wrath cookies before \"Get Lucky\" and during idle time. Use Golden Cookies during active play after purchasing the \"Get Lucky\" upgrade. \n EDIT: Clarification/Proofreading", "role": "assistant" } ]
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