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"How to quickly get over laryngitis or at least get my voice back Some magical cure for a sore throat would be nice also",
"How to quickly get over laryngitis or at least get my voice back Some magical cure for a sore throat would be nice also"
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"If this is a fairly regular thing for you (a couple of times a year, & you always lose your voice), it would be worth consulting a speech-language therapist. They can teach you some techniques to help you keep your voice when you're sick, & sound reasonably normal too.",
"I always drink orange juice and it makes my laryngitis go away much quicker. It soothes my throat. \n\nI sympathize with you since I get laryngitis at least once a year :'(. "
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"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver.",
"How to respond to the question \"do you know how fast you were going?\" I feel like if you get pulled over by a police officer, and s/he asks you this, there is no right answer.\n\nYou could say \"I was driving [insert speed within speed limit]\" and lie, and get contradicted by police. Not good, right?\n\nYou could say \"I was driving too fast\" and pretty much plead guilty on the spot. Also not good, right?\n\nThen there's the \"I don't know\", which tells them you're a shitty driver."
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"When I got pulled over and the cop approached my window I turned on the interior light and removed my hat and rolled down the window, when he asked me how fast I was going I told him that I wasn't aware that I was speeding until I saw his lights and looked down to check, I apologized and he let me off with a warning. I believe this is the best answer because cops know complacency is with everyone, and letting the cop know that their lights and intervention helped you recognize you we're in the wrong they will likely let you off with a warning.",
"\"Not really. I was watching the flow of traffic and trying to keep my speed the same as the vehicles ahead of and behind me to avoid congestion/accidents.\"\n\nYou can legally \"break\" the speed limit **in some localities** by invoking the \"flow of traffic\" rule, so it is a good defensive posture to take. You are highlighting your concern more with actual traffic around you and paying attention to cars, rather than staring down at a speedometer and ignoring the cars around you.\n\n",
"Cop here. I'm looking for someone to lie to me or to be rude. It's hard to give a ticket to a nice, honest, and cooperating motorists. When I am forced to write daily tickets by the Department, I want people to make me feel better about writing the ticket so I don't feel like the bad guy. (This is my point of view) ",
"A friend of mine does this:\n\nQ: \"Do you know how fast you were going?\" \nA: \"Last time I checked my speedometer I was going <some legal-ish speed>\"\n\nQ: \"Do you know the speed limit here?\"\nA: \"The last sign I saw said <whatever it said, hopefully higher than here>\"\n\nNothing is a direct lie, nor are you saying \"I have no idea 'cuz I don't pay attention\". \n\nHe is always polite, without being a suckup. He's gotten out of a few tickets this way. Sometimes the cop will actually explain \"well you're right, the speed limit back there is higher, but you must have missed where it gets lowered to 45\" and then let him off with a warning.\n",
"**Policeman: You were speeding.**\n\nYou: Just catching up to traffic, sir.\n\n**Policeman: There is no traffic.**\n\nYou: That's how far behind I am.\n\n**Policeman: ...**\n\nYou: ...\n\n**Policeman: You're free to go.**",
"I got caught doing about 10 mph over and when the cop asked this question, I said, \"Um.. about 120 ??\" Which made the cop laugh so I just got a warning.",
"The one time I was pulled over for speeding it was a dark night on a divided highway. \n\nI figured I had about 30 seconds because the cop was going the other way and I was going over a hill so I was going to be out of sight for a bit.\n\nOnce over the hill I pulled over and turned off my car.\n\nThe cop pulled up behind me, came up to my window and said \"So you pulled over pretty quickly!\"\n\nI replied \"I don't know what you mean.\"\n\nShe said \"You didn't see my lights?\"\n\nI visibly squirmed a little and said \"I really need to pee.\"\n\n\"Right now?\"\n\n\"Right now.\"\n\n\"Oh. I'm sorry.\"\n\nThen she got back in her vehicle and watched me pee. (I didn't aim at her, obviously, just had to prove I could pee.) Good thing there was some in the tank.\n\nNo ticket. I got to take a leak. It was a good day.\n\n",
"I got pulled over for doing 65 on the interstate. The cop actually asked me why I was driving \"so fast.\" I responded (with the calmest, most sincere delivery I could muster) \"I thought that if I could get it up to 88mph I'd be able to go back in time and tell myself to stop speeding.\" He was not amused.",
"A former cop told me that the best answer was to flip the question on him, \n\n\"How fast did you clock me at officer?\"\n\nAlso NEVER ADMIT GUILT\n\n",
"My preferred method of dealing with a speeding ticket:\n\n\n\nCop: \"Son do you know how fast you were going?\"\n\nyou: (ignoring the direct question) \"Was my speed the reason I was pulled over today?\" \n\nCop: \"yes\" \n\nYou: \"what did the speed detector indicate my speed was?\" \n\nNow, while the cop is not legally forced to tell you the truth (they can lie to a suspect if they believe it will get them to the truth) s/he most likely will tell you the truth because your next question is:\n\nYou: \"oh may I see the detector?\" \n\nand they are typically willing to show you (please note that I am not a lawyer, so I dont know if they have to, but if they refuse I assume thats something you can bring up in court later on, and unless its SOP to refuse it brings to mind the question \"why did they refuse\") or atleast they have always showed me in VA\n\n At this point:\n\n1. The cop thinks you are guilty because of the detector\n\n2. They know you know the detector says you are guilty.\n\nYou can do a couple of things at this point:\n\n1. Call into question the accuracy of the detector\n\n if you were in heavy traffic you can ask the police officer on a scale of 1 to 10 how sure they are it was your car the detector detected as opposed to other cars in your group. or if they have ever accidentally buzzed one car while looking at another.\n\n Or you can ask when the last time the detector was calibrated\n2. Simply state something along the lines of \"Then I guess you will be writing me a ticket huh?\" and provide him with lisence etc if you haven't already. note that if you choose to go to court bringing up things mentioned in step 1 of this lower section is a good idea (reasonable doubt and all that)\n\nYou have managed to sucessfully recieve a ticket without refusing any questions or being rude while also not admitting guilt. Furthermore, if you have called into question the accuracy of the detector or the ability of the cop to buzz you in a group, its on record (and they *shouldnt* lie about what transpired in court because there are often dash cams and most cops don't make a habit out of perjury) and both of those lay the groundwork for reasonable doubt.\n\nFYI this is in no way a fool proof plan, and typically if they are writing you a ticket you are going to be found guilty, but *ONCE* i was pulled going 95 in a 55, I hadn't gone through a speed trap i had simply blown past an unmarked car. He pulled me over because he *knew* I was speeding since he was probably going around 65, but when I asked to see the detector he of course hadn't buzzed me (that's not to say they cant while moving, he just hadn't) and this process (that I follow every time) got me off without a ticket.",
"You look the cop dead in the eye. Slowly wave your hand and say \" These aren't the droids you're looking for, move along\"",
"I have been told to respond to questions like this with questions of your own.\n\n\"Was I speeding officer?\"\n\nThis way you avoid admitting to speeding, while still remaining polite.",
"Related story: I was driving home one night after working a ridiculously long day, so it was around ~1:30 in the morning.\n\nThe way I went home passed a bar. Obviously I slow down while driving through town, which is about one country road wide, then pick up speed afterwards.\n\n*Let me emphasize I was not speeding.*\n\nBAM: Cherries 'n berries in my rearview. So, I pull over, wait for the trooper to check my plates, etc.\n\nCop comes walking up. Asks me how I'm doing this evening. I answer, and when I do, *he takes the most comically intense inhale I've ever heard in me life.* It was like he was trying to inflate a tire in his stomach.\n\nI spitball an answer. \"Because it's late at night and not a lot of people travel through here at this time maybe?\" Now, I looked like shit, I felt like shit, but I had enough sense to not play total dickwad with the trooper, but I sure as hell wasn't going to say \"Der, because I was speeding?\" Especially because *I wasn't*.\n\n\"There's a bar back there,\" he says.\n\n\"I know.\"\n\n\"Where you there?\"\n\n\"No. I'm on my way home from work.\"\n\nHe makes me get out of the car. He puts me through the field sobriety stuff. Surprise of surprises, I'm dead sober, if maybe a little punch drunk from having worked a 17-hour day (software development crunch).\n\nTrooper asks me to get in his car. At this point I'm annoyed and I'm tired, but I comply. I get in the front passenger side as he indicates. He proceeds to give me a warning for speeding. 3 mph over the limit. He remarks several times how tired I look, so I took the opportunity to educate him about the demands of my job. He didn't really seem to care, and really I think he was just trying to keep me talking so he could figure out if I was on something.\n\nFinally, he dismisses me. I get back in my car and leave.\n\nI never took that way home again.\n\n",
"Driving instructor told me to tell the officer, \"No, I was focusing on the road and trying to stay clear of any other dangers. I'll pay more attention next time.",
"I just answer honestly. Last time I got pulled over, it was in a 30 mph zone and I was doing 45. I just wasn't paying attention. \n\nWhen he asked, I answered honestly and was very polite. He wrote me the smallest ticket he could because I didn't BS him. He also didn't give me a ticket he could have for having my music up with the windows down.\n\nBottom line is, I was speeding, I took responsibility for my actions, replied honestly and the officer was nice to me. I know I could have fought it, bit in my opinion, I'd rather be honest and pay the ticket that I deserved than weasel out of something I know I was guilty of. It's a matter of principle.",
"*A police officer pulls a guy over for speeding and has the following exchange:*\n\nOfficer: May I see your driver's license?\n\nDriver: I don't have one. I had it suspended when I got my 5th DUI.\n\nOfficer: May I see the owner's card for this vehicle?\n\nDriver: It's not my car. I stole it.\n\nOfficer: The car is stolen?\n\nDriver: That's right. But come to think of it, I think I saw the owner's card in the glove box when I was putting my gun in there.\n\nOfficer: There's a gun in the glove box?\n\nDriver: Yes sir. That's where I put it after I shot and killed the woman who owns this car and stuffed her in the trunk.\n\nOfficer: There's a BODY in the TRUNK?!?!?\n\nDriver: Yes, sir.\n\n*Hearing this, the officer immediately called his captain. The car was quickly surrounded by police, and the captain approached the driver to handle the tense situation:*\n\nCaptain: Sir, can I see your license?\n\nDriver: Sure. Here it is. (It was valid).\n\nCaptain: Who's car is this?\n\nDriver: It's mine, officer. Here's the owner's card. (The driver owned the car).\n\nCaptain: Could you slowly open your glove box so I can see if there's a gun in it?\n\nDriver: Yes, sir, but there's no gun in it. \n\n*Sure enough, there was nothing in the glove box.*\n\nCaptain: Would you mind opening your trunk? I was told you said there's a body in it.\n\nDriver: No problem. (Trunk is opened; no body).\n\nCaptain: I don't understand it. The officer who stopped you said you told him you didn't have a license, stole the car, had a gun in the glove box, and that there was a dead body in the trunk.\n\nDriver: Oh Yeah, I'll bet the liar told you I was speeding, too!!!!",
"Here's what you do. \n\n1. Turn on your emergency lights. \n1. Pull over turn off your vehicle and turn on your interior lights if it is even a little dark out.\n1. Place your hands on top of the steering wheel with your fingers spread. DO NOT REACH FOR ANYTHING IN YOUR CAB UNTILL ASKED TO!!!\n\nAll that was to put to officer at ease. They can now see you and your passengers are not reaching for any weapons and probably do not intend to to them any harm.\n\nNow for you \n\n1. Ask for a badge number if you want. \n1. Ask why you were pulled over. \n1. Do not give suggestions as to why it might be. If they ask how fast you were going say \"I'm not sure\" because you do not have to incriminate yourself so don't.\n1. Apologize for your offense say you didn't realize that the speed limit was what it was or that you must have just not realized that you were going to fast. **But saying sorry is the biggest thing here.**\n\n\nThose few things have gotten me out of so many tickets because I was polite and cooperative and made the officers job easier.",
"\"I had sought to travel at a reasonably safe speed given the traffic conditions.\"\n\nAnd then after that \"I don't recall at this time\" or \"No comment\".\n\nSource: No comment.",
"LPT: instead of rolling the window down when the officer asks you to, just crack the window, so that it's only open about an inch. \n\nThen, proceed to question the officer's right to pull you over in the first place. ",
"There's no right answer to this, other than not to self-incriminate. I've been pulled over many times, and I've tried all the approaches. From admitting I was speeding (honesty) to saying I don't know, to claiming I was not speeding. I've been let off using every strategy and I've been ticketed using every strategy.\n\nCops are people, not robots. One guy might have just gotten some morning nookie, another guy might have had his dog run over by a speeder in his neighborhood.",
"The one time I was pulled over (and knew it was for speeding), I just said \"Why, officer?\". I have no idea if this is actually the right approach, but it avoided lying or admitting guilt or denying knowledge.",
"\nWhat you say through your body language is more important than what you say with words. Cops want you to be subservient to them and respect their authoritah (seriously). Especially swaggering asshole 23-year-old small town cops who inspire the least amount of respect, so you have to give them the most to avoid a ticket.\n\nCops never know if you have a gun or someone in the back seat is hiding with a gun. They do have to deal with drug cartels that stop at absolutely nothing. So have your hands on the steering wheel and allow them to do the quick flashlight search that makes them feel safe and know no one else is back there. Put your hands on the wheel before they approach; if you have a passenger, make sure your passenger puts hands out visibly toward the dashboard. \n\nLook **up** at the officer with the most sincere, innocent, solemn little face you can possibly muster. This means you aren't going to angle your face upward as much as your eyes are going to be angled upward. Look ready to follow any direction. If a cop feels you are being honest and subservient, it makes them feel good. \n\nLPT: Put an \"I Support Our Troops\" and/or an American flag sticker on the back bumper of your car. Cops are frequently former military and invariably know people in the military.\n\nLie as little as possible. They've heard it all and can see right through it. Apologize for not knowing what speed you were going. Apologize for having to have caused this stop. In short, treat the cop the way you'd truly want someone to treat you.\n\n**My experience:** first speeding ticket at 18. I'm pretty sure the state policeman - who was such a caricature with his little thin mustache - actually tagged the vehicle that was passing me, but I got pulled over. Indignance and lack of subservience because I felt I was in the right won me nasty sneers from him (oooh, the *power* he held over an 18-year-old girl!) and a $126 ticket for speeding.\n\nLast time I got pulled over, three years ago: I was driving at night in a rustbucket old van we'd bought for hauling with a smashed-up, illegally dim front headlight (the other was normal brightness). I'd failed to register this dump, so it wasn't in my name. The reason I got pulled over was because the rear license plate light had gone out. That's three ticketable things right there. The cop was a kid, it was a very small town I was driving through, and he was an asshole. I did everything I described above, sans bumper stickers, and that combined with the fact that my license was current and clean and my insurance was up to date that got me off with a verbal warning to fix everything. (I ended up donating the rustbucket to Heritage for the Blind a short time later so as to avoid the time and cost of registering it in my name - they were fine with the title signed over by the previous owner. LPT.)",
"Try answering this question: \"Have you stopped cheating on your wife?\" \nIt is a Yes or No question that should be answered with: \"I do not cheat on my wife.\" \n\nSo I suggest saying: \"To my knowledge sir/mam I was within the limit.\"\nHere you neither admit nor deny the speed you where going and usually the officer will inform you. Do not respond aggressively to antagonistic remarks that degrade your response. ",
"\"How fast, officer?\" \n\nAnd then decide what action to take based on their response. I usually act surprised and apologetic if they give me a correct answer that is well above the limit. If applicable, I also ask at which point the speed limit changed. ",
"I understand that I was going 80 in a 65 mph zone, but I was stuck in construction for 5 minutes going about 30-40 mph. So really I'm way under 65 mph on average.",
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"The correct answer to this question is: \"how fast did you clock me at officer?\" By saying a slower speed, you're lying; by stating you don't know, the officer knows/assumes you're a shitty driver; by admitting to the actual speed, you're admitting guilt. You are under no legal obligation, under the 5th amendment, to answer the question of how fast you were going. Just remember to be nice and respectful. ",
"In addition to what /u/Haikuyori said, making the cop's job easier will often make them go easier on you. \n\n\nWhen you pull over:\n\n**1.** make sure it's somewhere as safe and away from traffic as possible\n\n**2.** turn on your blinkers/hazards when you park\n\n**3.** take the keys out of the ignition and leave them on the dash in plain sight\n\n**4.** keep your hands at 10 & 2 on your steering wheel and be polite.\n\n\nI've done this numerous times and have gotten out of tickets for speeding, illegal U-turns, and once while driving back to Philly from Atlantic City after being tailed by a cop and trying to dodge him by taking the closest exit, only to have him (somehow and miraculously) catch me at the toll gate..all while intoxicated at 4am with 3 of my drunk friends while driving one of my friends' car.\n\nSo take it from me.",
"I was pulled and asked how fast i thought i was going and i knew because, ya know, it was me driving. When I answered 'Around 55' (Speed limit 60), I was accused of lying and the police officer started to get mardy and said: 'Why did I have to do over 60 to catch up with you then?', I replied 'Because otherwise you would never reach me, i was at least 500 meters ahead of you...' He got embarrassed when he realized and begrudgingly let me go. Me 1 - Police 0 hahaha",
"\"I HAVE NO IDEA BUT I'M ABOUT TO SHIT MY PANTS\"\n\nI have used this line. The guy cracked up and let me go. I wasn't joking, either. Also got out of my first speeding ticket by saying I was getting a blowjob and had to get home before my parents got home since I was grounded. Also true. Yeeeaaaahhhh.",
"\"How fast did you clock me at?\"\n\nRespond with a question, the burden of proof lies on them. And you don't have to incriminate yourself.",
"spoken: \"Well, there's a bit of traffic out so I was paying attention to the other cars more than my instrument cluster.\"\n\nunspoken: \"You're the fascist pig with the radar, why don't *you* fucking tell *me.*\"",
"hypnotise the officer with nlp\n\n\nHypnotist gets out of speeding ticket!!! AMAZING!!!\nhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7gcQDuv_Kb0",
"http://www.flexyourrights.org/\n\nKnow your rights, admit no guilt, be very polite and know your rights. Even if you we're speeding never admit to it. Then the police officer has to work harder to actually prove you were speeding. I learned a ton from these videos. (They are online for free I am just too lazy to find links) ",
"Yes sir, but to be honest I believed I was going with the glow of traffic until I saw your lights behind me. ",
"To take a quote from the West Wing:\n\n >**Babish** (Lawyer): Do you know what time it is?\n\n>**CJ**: It's five past noon.\n\n>**Babish**: I'd like you to get out of the habit of doing that.\n\n>**CJ**: \"Doing what?\" \n\n>**Babish**: Answering more than was asked. Do you know what time it is\n\n>**C.J.**: \"Yes.\" \n\nYour best bet though is to ask first, \"What seems to be the problem officer?\".",
"There are two reasons you get a ticket:\n\n* The cop wants to give you a ticket; and/or\n\n* You admitted you were breaking the law.\n\nDon't admit to breaking the law. Be nice to the cop.\n\nYou should have your window rolled down, interior light on (if it is dark), and hands on the steering wheel (wher he can see them) when the cop approaches your car.\n\nThe cop-driver dynamic is a power game. He has authority, he is standing over you, he has a gun at his hip, and he forced you to do something you didn't want to do. He has all of the power. When he starts asking questions, you will feel compelled to respond.\n\nThe best way to avoid this is to break the officer's power. Initiate the conversation, \"Why did you pull me over, officer?\" Be polite. If you're rude, he will dig in.\n\nIf he responds with a question, \"Do you know how fast you were going?\", counter that with another \"Is that why you pulled me over, officer?\"\n\nIf he continues the games and won't tell you why he pulled you over, then you ask one more question: \"Am I free to go?\"\n\nEither you are or you aren't.\n\nThere are two things you should ever say to the cop:\n\n- Why did you pull me over?\n\n- Am I free to go?\n\nBe polite. Don't admit anything. If he gives you a ticket then you never had a chance anyway.",
"The answer to this question is:\n\n\"Yes, Officer\"\n\nThe followup: \"Were you aware you were speeding?\"\n\n\"I am aware you believe I was speeding.\"\n\n\"Here's a ticket for that.\"\n\nThen go to court and dispute it. \n\nYou never admitted blame, nor mentioned your speed or whether you were exceeding the limit. If this is your formula it's easy to repeat exactly what you said. \n\nThe officer can indicate what his sensors (which may or may not have been properly calibrated) or his clocking (which may have involved a misreading/calculation) said at the time. He cannot dispute your admitting blame, since you never did.",
"Not my story but my wifes gramps. You see he was a rather mischievous young man back in the days to the point that he was very noturious/popular in the community. But this particular he was drunk and got pulled over for speeding.\n\nOfficer: \"You know how fast you were going Johnson*?\"\n\nGramps: \"I have no idea officer, just put down 1000 (km/h)\"\n\n*names changed to protect the guilty",
"If you want to be technical, the correct thing to do when asked this question is to remain silent. The officer is investigating a crime, you are his suspect, and he plans to refer you for prosecution for speeding.\n\n1) If you lie, he can't prove you did so knowingly, but you are still falsifying a statement to a police officer. And he will contradict you and the lie won't matter: he's not asking because he doesn't know.\n\n2) If you admit to driving too fast, then you are correct, you have pleaded guilty on the spot. He is recording the conversation and the transcript will be available to prosecutors if you should decide to fight it.\n\n3) If you say you don't know, you might as well have admitted guilt, since it indicates you were not paying attention.\n\nThe correct answer is the most truthful answer: \"I am going to respectfully invoke my right to remain silent and not answer that question.\"\n\nI can't speak to the likelihood of receiving a ticket at that point. If the cop was in a generous mood and planning to let you off, this might antagonize him and prompt the citation.\n\nIf he didn't have you on radar and was depending on your confession, then this might get you off the hook if he decides you aren't worth the trouble.\n\nUltimately the best answer is not to speed. But from a legal standpoint, the safest response to that question is respectfully invoking your 5th amendment rights.",
"If you have a recording device such as a phone or similar. I assure you the police will be recording you. As such it is important you are clear on what you intend to say.\n\n\"Do you know how fast you were going?\" - Officer\n\n\"I believe I was within the speed limit. What am I being pulled over for; have there been accidents in the area?\" - You\n\nIf you are in Australian I would suggest you as under what section of the Police Power and Protection Act you are being pulled over under. \n\nYou should state that you do not believe you were speeding; if you do admit to speeding (even sorry can be enough) it will be difficult to defend yourself against these allegations. In many be prosperous to question if there have been any accidents or incidents in the area as the relevant laws (as many do in Australia) may require that there be reason to take speed readings.\n\nAgain it is important to not admit guilt as this will compromise any ability to defend yourself even against erroneous claims.",
"I've gotten off with a warning more than once by, in a disappointed-in-myself tone, answering 'yeah, I know', as if I expect a ticket. This is after I pull over to a safe area, cut the ignition and turn on my flashers. They've never clarified their question with \"well, how fast was it?\", because then I'll know they've got nothing on me and they're trying to get me to incriminate myself. ",
"I've been pulled over twice, both times in a Honda civic, both times I was in a large pile of traffic, in two different states. Once I was going 8 over, once 15. Both cops yelled at me for no reason even though I was quick to apologize and admit I realized I was going too fast once I saw the lights. One even yelled at me when he asked what year my car was and I answered 2004 instead of 2003. Excuse me if I'm wrong, but a small Honda civic doesn't seem like a target car to me... I've decided that I'm just unlucky or something.",
"I've always told the truth I once drove through a crosswalk in front of a school with students crossing I was looking towards the sidewalk for my friend that needed a ride home (High school, I was still in high school too) and he asked if he knew why I got pulled over I told him, for failure to yield to pedestrians in a cross walk he took my info and gave me a 5 minute lecture on being careful and got off with a warning. He was really cool guy, My friend got in the car ( since I was there to pick him up) while he was running my info, when he came back he looked puzzled as if he wasn't sure My friend had been there the entire time. Just don't be an ass hole and they won't have a reason to either. I got plenty more stories of me just being honest has gotten me out of tickets. \n",
"I'd stick with \"I do officer, but I don't believe it was fast enough to be pulled over for. Is that why you pulled me over?\". \n\nOut of every time I've had to deal with a police officer it's never had anything to do with my speed. I overtook an officer once and I got pulled over once simply for the fact my plates were from 500km away and there's been (apparently) a lot of theft from my area heading up towards where I was. Got a warning because my dad hadn't given me an up-to-date insurance card, then let go.",
"I was driving with the flow of traffic, trying to be considerate of the other drivers around me. If you are going to give me a ticket, is there any way I might have a warning instead, sir/ma'am?",
"I over took the police on the highway once going 20mph more than I should have been. Eventually, when they clocked me, I was slower than I originally had been but I owned up to my original speed and the cop was quite alright about the whole thing. I still got my ticket and I had to pay the fine, but owning up to the mistake was better than trying to be a jerk about it.",
"I lived in California for these, for what it's worth;\n\nI used to commute to work ~45 miles each way, so it wasn't uncommon for me to put about 100 miles on my car a day. Most days I sped. The highways I used were pretty empty and while the speed limit was 65 it wasn't uncommon for people to be going about 80 in the fast lane. I'd get a speeding ticket every year and a half or so. I was always respectful and courteous, the officers are just doing their job. I have never been pulled over without knowing why, maybe it's because I'm a white female, but I always thought, \"Oh, yup, there he is, he caught me speeding/following to closely/whatever.\" Also when people heard I'd gotten a ticket on my way to work, everyone had their opinion on how much it was going to cost, \"It's $25 for every mile over the speed limit\" or some bullshit. Truth is, I'd pay for my ticket, I'd pay to go to the driver's safety school (or whatever it was called) and I'd pay for the certificate to be accepted; all this kept it off my driving record, and all those things total ALWAYS cost me less than $200. I always just wrote it off as a \"speeding tax\", I sped every single day and got one ticket every 1.5 years, it wasn't bad.\n\nAt any rate, I was once on an \"SR\" (SR-12 or something), like a mini-highway, the speed limist was 65 as per usual, and as usual I was doing about 80-90 (yeah it was crazy.) Well the SR goes through a town, and has a light so the \"END FREEWAY\" sign appears and the speed limit goes way down, to like 45, 50 tops. I'm still doing about 90, I see a cop car hiding in the dark at the last second, he lights up and pulls me over. I'm with my friend and just kind of go \"well, it must be that time for me to get a speeding ticket.\"\n\nHe comes to my window and asks, \"Do you know why I pulled you over?\" And I said, \"Yeah, I was going way too fast.\" He says, \"That's right! I'm just gonna write you a warning, I don't right tickets to people who confess, I'm just here to catch the assholes.\"\n\nI KID YOU NOT! Those were his words! \n\nI believe that was the only time I've ever been ask \"Do you know why...\" Most times I get the no-nonsense cops, \"Hello! I pulled you over for speeding, license and registration please.\" They'll even tell me HOW they captured my speed, with a radar or pacing or whatever. I appreciate that, and like I said, I've never been pulled over without knowing why. I've also been lucky enough to have cops answer a weird \"points on your record\" question and also tell me how to avoid tickets \"staying on your record.\" \n\nAgain, I am a white female, and I'm never rude to cops, I'm not stunning or anything so I know they're not being overly nice to me. I imagine most people are dicks to cops so I bet the occasional nice understanding citizens get a little leeway? I've gotten speeding, following too closely, incorrect seatbelt, etc. Speeding I just take, the following too closely I was kind of zoned out so it was a good wake-up call to realize when I'm too close to people, the cop who gave me my seatbelt warning told me where to get an adjuster thing to wear and what to look for to make sure it's a safe one. I've never had problems with cops. \n\n**TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION:** Take a chance, try to sense the officer, maybe it's the end of their shift, they've had asshole after asshole and are just looking to ticket the next asshole who plays dumb, maybe they're patient and would rather you \"confess\" and give you a warning for your honesty. Unless you were seriously mistakenly pulled over or something, you probably have deserved whatever you're about to get. And I don't mean that in a snarky way, just honest.",
"I just say yes and wait for the cop to say the next thing. Usually there is an akward silence until they move on. I never admit guilt though. \nExample:\n\"Do you know how fast you were going?\"\n\"Yes.\"\n\".......\"\n\".....\"\n\".....Well?\"\n\"What does you're radar say?\"\n\"I clocked you at __ mph.\"\n\"Ok.\" \nThen I let the officer decide what they want to do. ",
"I have had a few situations to help you answer this. The first time I was pulled over I admitted I was speeding... boom, automatic fine. \n\nSecond time I was speeding and pulled over I told him how I was so into the song I was singing along with on the radio for a minute there and didn't realize my foot was holding the pedal a bit heavy. He let me off with a warning.\n\nThe third time was when I wasn't over 10 mph but he saw me from the opposite side of the highway and turned around to pull me over. He asked how fast I was going and I told him 72 in a 65. He nodded his head and said \"sounds about right\" and let me off with a warning. \n\nSo what I learned if that if I was speeding and had a good indication that they had used a radar, I may get off with a warning by kind of making a joke about it. Just laugh and shake you're head like, \"Oh man, that gosh-darn song!\" \n\nAnd if they are driving on the other side of the highway, lie your ass off if you have to. If anyone knows if they radar while driving that'd be good for me to know too...\n\nMy dad always told me to always know how fast I was going when they'd ask, even if you tell a little white lie. ",
"I have NEVER been asked that question. They always just tell me \"You were driving a __ in a ___.\" and write me a ticket. Never had a warning given",
"I can't believe all these ignorant answers. If you were speeding, and were aware of it, or the police have you on record speeding, take the ticket. You deserve it. Probably several people on this site have friends and family that have been in accidents with people speeding. \n\nI find trying to weasel yourself out of a ticket disgusting. But things might be different in the States.",
"I am not a lawyer so don't use this without consulting a real one.\n\nI read something once that said \"I thought was going the speed limit.\" or \"I have no idea.\" These can't be used against you in court. It's not a provable lie and then in court, the burden of proof will be on the officer. In fact, yes and no during the stop is your best bet if you plan on going to court. Everything is evidence.\n\nIn court, question the method, when the radar/laser gun was last calibrated, can you please see those records. Ask if they are certified in the operation and interpretation of the device and results. Can you see the certification? When was your speedometer last calibrated? Can you see those records? Object if they is reading anything on the stand. I don't think that is allowed. \n\nA conviction is supposed to only be given out after there is no more reasonable doubt. You will need to create that doubt in order fight the ticket.\n\nI'm sure every traffic judge has heard everything so it might all be crap and you will pay anyway.",
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"First, you tell the police officer that they are a dirty piece of shit and have no right to pull you over. You then proceed to explain how your tax money pays his salary.",
"Be honest! A few years ago I was going 95 in a 50 zone (km/h). I was about 20 metres from the 100 km/h sign and honestly didn't mean to speed. The cop pulled me over, and I admitted what I did and apologised. Still got a ticket.\n\nThen there was the time that I got pulled over doing 106 in a 100 zone because the car behind me was going 140. I said that I was going 106, that I drive that stretch of road every day and have no desire to speed to or from work. The cop didn't give me a ticket. \n\nHonesty is the best policy. Be honest, be polite, and admit it when you've done something wrong. If you get a ticket when you weren't speeding, the karma's on the cop, not you. It's just money.",
"As someone who regularly speeds, was raised by a former CHP officer, and has been asked this question among many others, I have always found honesty to be the best policy. Don't be rude, shy, or smug about it just be genuily honest. If you know you were well over the limit, so does the officer, accept that you were wrong and got caught and take the ticket. 7/10 they won't write it if you weren't throwing in other adjectives like \"wreck less\". No one wants to be treated like a moron, so behave as if the officer was anyone else asking you the question and answer respectfully. ",
"Answer every question with a question:\n\nOfficer: Hello citizen, do you know why I pulled you over?\n\nCitizen: No officer, why did you pull me over?\n\nOfficer: Do you know how fast you were going?\n\nCitizen: How fast was I going officer?\n\nOfficer: I clocked you going 9 billion miles per hour.\n\nCitizen: Is that over the speed limit?\n\nOfficer: Yes, indeed by at least 1 mile per hour.\n\nCitizen: Is it possible you were mistaken?\n\nOfficer: Pick up that can citizen.\n",
"> Do you know how fast you were going?\n\nIt matters rather more how fast *you* think I was going, don't you think?",
"'Do you know how fast you were going?'\n\nObviously not fast enough if the cop has pulled you over.\n\nsource: Fast and Furious driver here.",
"\"Nope, but I bet you're going to tell me\"...if played right with a half assed smirk you might pull at their humor strings. By jokingly admitting guilt it may be a breath of fresh air to the cop that nine times out of ten gets a sob story or a poorly fabricated lie. Or you might just piss them off. Either way that's my plan if I ever get asked that question.",
"\"I was driving at a reasonable and safe speed.\" Make the police officer initiate any discussion or confirmation of wrong-doing.",
"\"Do you know how fast you were going?\"\n\n\"153,000 miles per hour, officer?\"\n\n\"Uh... no. You were doing 68 in a 55.\"\n\n\"68??? Boy, that's WAYYY slower than I thought!\"\n\n\"Well, I suppose if you look at it that way...\"\n\n\"Man, here I was thinking I was going to set a new speed record and everything, and now you tell me I was only going 68! Are you sure I wasn't going faster?\"\n\n\"No, I have you at 68.\"\n\n\"Dammit! The one chance I had to finally impress my parents, and I blew it. They're right. I am a joke!\"\n\n\"Hey, now, guy... don't say that.\"\n\n\"(sobbing) WHY SHOULDN'T I??? I tried so... damn hard to think of something I could do that would make them love me again, and clearly I am kidding myself. 68?!? Am I an idiot or what? I give up on life!!!\"\n\n\"Listen. Don't be so hard on yourself. You tried hard... and... besides, these radar guns... sometimes they're wrong. It might have been 68, but it also could have been higher. They're not perfect, and you shouldn't take it too seriously.\"\n\n\"[sniff] You mean, your gun said 68, but I could have been going a different speed?\"\n\n\"Sure.\"\n\n\"So, you can't say for sure that I wasn't going 153,000 miles an hour?\"\n\n\"Exactly.\"\n\n\"So, you don't know for sure how fast I was going?\"\n\n\"Right.\"\n\n\"In that case, good day, officer.\" (Drives away)",
"\"At what speed did you clock me Officer?\"\n\nYou have the right to not incriminate yourself. They do not have a right to detain you without reason if they are not arresting you.\n\nBe respectful about it though. They ask this question BECAUSE there is no good direct answer, and if the officer is having a bad day the last thing you want to do is come off as a smartass. "
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"I've been a delivery driver for over six years and to me it never mattered how I got tipped as long as I got tipped. I've gotten everything from a hand full of change to beer. It's all the same just take care of your delivery driver after all you didn't want to go get your food. ",
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"It's possible. I worked several delivery jobs and that never happened to me but it is possible.\n\nRestaurant owners are notoriously shady."
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"How to uninhibit myself in order to enjoy dancing and partying? I'm starting college and just witnessed my first college dance party. It's not hard for me to imitate the \"dance moves\" other guys do, but I just can't enjoy it. I feel like I'm faking it. I feel like I look so stupid. It's not really that I bottle my emotions up; I love to goof off with friends. Maybe I'm too logical/analytical. I think too much while I'm jumping around and trying to be wild, so I can't do it for more than a couple of (tortuous) minutes. Is there something wrong with me? Do I need alcohol or something? Can I still have a good time without enjoying dancing?",
"How to uninhibit myself in order to enjoy dancing and partying? I'm starting college and just witnessed my first college dance party. It's not hard for me to imitate the \"dance moves\" other guys do, but I just can't enjoy it. I feel like I'm faking it. I feel like I look so stupid. It's not really that I bottle my emotions up; I love to goof off with friends. Maybe I'm too logical/analytical. I think too much while I'm jumping around and trying to be wild, so I can't do it for more than a couple of (tortuous) minutes. Is there something wrong with me? Do I need alcohol or something? Can I still have a good time without enjoying dancing?",
"How to uninhibit myself in order to enjoy dancing and partying? I'm starting college and just witnessed my first college dance party. It's not hard for me to imitate the \"dance moves\" other guys do, but I just can't enjoy it. I feel like I'm faking it. I feel like I look so stupid. It's not really that I bottle my emotions up; I love to goof off with friends. Maybe I'm too logical/analytical. I think too much while I'm jumping around and trying to be wild, so I can't do it for more than a couple of (tortuous) minutes. Is there something wrong with me? Do I need alcohol or something? Can I still have a good time without enjoying dancing?",
"How to uninhibit myself in order to enjoy dancing and partying? I'm starting college and just witnessed my first college dance party. It's not hard for me to imitate the \"dance moves\" other guys do, but I just can't enjoy it. I feel like I'm faking it. I feel like I look so stupid. It's not really that I bottle my emotions up; I love to goof off with friends. Maybe I'm too logical/analytical. I think too much while I'm jumping around and trying to be wild, so I can't do it for more than a couple of (tortuous) minutes. Is there something wrong with me? Do I need alcohol or something? Can I still have a good time without enjoying dancing?",
"How to uninhibit myself in order to enjoy dancing and partying? I'm starting college and just witnessed my first college dance party. It's not hard for me to imitate the \"dance moves\" other guys do, but I just can't enjoy it. I feel like I'm faking it. I feel like I look so stupid. It's not really that I bottle my emotions up; I love to goof off with friends. Maybe I'm too logical/analytical. I think too much while I'm jumping around and trying to be wild, so I can't do it for more than a couple of (tortuous) minutes. Is there something wrong with me? Do I need alcohol or something? Can I still have a good time without enjoying dancing?",
"How to uninhibit myself in order to enjoy dancing and partying? I'm starting college and just witnessed my first college dance party. It's not hard for me to imitate the \"dance moves\" other guys do, but I just can't enjoy it. I feel like I'm faking it. I feel like I look so stupid. It's not really that I bottle my emotions up; I love to goof off with friends. Maybe I'm too logical/analytical. I think too much while I'm jumping around and trying to be wild, so I can't do it for more than a couple of (tortuous) minutes. Is there something wrong with me? Do I need alcohol or something? Can I still have a good time without enjoying dancing?",
"How to uninhibit myself in order to enjoy dancing and partying? I'm starting college and just witnessed my first college dance party. It's not hard for me to imitate the \"dance moves\" other guys do, but I just can't enjoy it. I feel like I'm faking it. I feel like I look so stupid. It's not really that I bottle my emotions up; I love to goof off with friends. Maybe I'm too logical/analytical. I think too much while I'm jumping around and trying to be wild, so I can't do it for more than a couple of (tortuous) minutes. Is there something wrong with me? Do I need alcohol or something? Can I still have a good time without enjoying dancing?",
"How to uninhibit myself in order to enjoy dancing and partying? I'm starting college and just witnessed my first college dance party. It's not hard for me to imitate the \"dance moves\" other guys do, but I just can't enjoy it. I feel like I'm faking it. I feel like I look so stupid. It's not really that I bottle my emotions up; I love to goof off with friends. Maybe I'm too logical/analytical. I think too much while I'm jumping around and trying to be wild, so I can't do it for more than a couple of (tortuous) minutes. Is there something wrong with me? Do I need alcohol or something? Can I still have a good time without enjoying dancing?",
"How to uninhibit myself in order to enjoy dancing and partying? I'm starting college and just witnessed my first college dance party. It's not hard for me to imitate the \"dance moves\" other guys do, but I just can't enjoy it. I feel like I'm faking it. I feel like I look so stupid. It's not really that I bottle my emotions up; I love to goof off with friends. Maybe I'm too logical/analytical. I think too much while I'm jumping around and trying to be wild, so I can't do it for more than a couple of (tortuous) minutes. Is there something wrong with me? Do I need alcohol or something? Can I still have a good time without enjoying dancing?"
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"Maybe that isn't your seen. You might try a more structured dance like salsa or swing dancing. It takes more effort to learn, but you're dancing with someone for a specific period of time (a few minutes per song), and your logical/analytical brain can have a field day while you're learning how to dance. See if your campus has a club where you can try it out. Figure out what works for you and what you enjoy.",
"Alcohol helps, but pretty much every guy feels just like you. I've never known a guy that thought he was a good dancer (outside of country 2-stepping). They all just fake it and go with the flow. \n\nYou can easily have a good time without dancing, just hang out, talk, and enjoy yourself. ",
"Try going to a music festival and just feel the music. Even when I go to festivals with friends I always want to break away and just dance somewhere without anyone interrupting me. Or if you go traveling or out to a show where you don't know anyone you can just enjoy yourself, rather than have to over-think what you're doing. It took me a while until I actually could say \"wow I love dancing\" because I used to be nervous and super self-conscious. Booze and drugs can help loosen you up a bit, but really it's about actually enjoying the music and having your body say \"oh shit dude, I don't care about what worries your dumb brain has, I need to bust a move here, this music is too good\" and then just let yourself go with it.",
"Skip the alcohol. \n\nGo. Listen to the music. Enjoy the company. Don't get all caught up in \"trying\" to enjoy yourself. Just relax. \n\nA great song might come on that moves those lead feet, or it might not. It really doesn't matter either way. Does it?\n\nYou're there. You're out. You're socializing. You're having fun. Don't fret about forcing yourself to dance. \n\nAlcohol isn't the key. Realization that it is fun dancing 💃 and also fun not dancing is the key. ",
"Literally no one else is watching you. Once you accept that, you just go out there and enjoy yourself. When translating German to English, you don't have fun you make fun. I think I that's a great life motto. ",
"Your imitating other guys at the party. Don't do that. Do your own thing.\nDo it at home, 30 minutes a day. [Dance to this, with your own music](https://youtu.be/dodGzOjBOHA), imitate some movies, just kind of bounce along with some others, like its' a party.\n\nTraining overcomes panic. When you are finally at a party, moves will come naturally becaus your brain has muscle memories for them. If you don't have access to information when you want it (like how to dance), your brain throws you stress hormones and triggers fight/flight/freeze response.\n\n",
"Try to remember that everyone feels the same way. Are you looking at other people thinking \"look at this asshole dancing, he looks dumb\"? No, of course not. No one is doing that to you.",
"This is a huge problem that every guy feels but can be dealt with in a few steps. I don't drink, so I won't be offering any alcohol solutions. P.S., using alcohol to give you something you can't get otherwise (in this case, you, but uninhibited) is an incredibly dangerous solution and can lead to some really bad outcomes.\n1.) Go to parties with a friend or by yourself if you're feeling confident and become comfortable with just sitting near the food or on the side and never even attempting to \"dance\". I feel like dancing is tortuous, too, and I just avoid parties because I don't find them enjoyable for that reason, but when I do go I can usually just sit and eat delicious doritos all night, and then just watch and laugh at the drunks.\n2. Sparkiano was 100% right when he brought up ballroom dancing. I hate being that carefree party version of a person, but when it came to steps and doing everything in a calculated and therefore beautiful way, it was fantastic. Also, the ballroom dance club at my school was great and you would switch partners every few minutes throughout the night, and it's a great way to make friends because they were all terrible dancers a semester or two ago, too.\n3. You probably haven't just blasted music in your room with nobody home, completely alone. Do this the next time you're alone, and see what it feels like to sing purposefully badly. Like, imagine if no matter what you did with your vocal chords the notes would come out perfect, and then use that feeling to sing. Mine usually comes out as croaks halfway through my range. Do the same thing with your body, and just throw it frantically around the room like some insane person and just do literally anything your body feels, even if and especially if that thing is something that seems really really stupid. Get it out of your system if it needs to go. Then, just take something that you can do in your life that is dance-like (for me, that was conducting [like for a band]) and then let the music flow through that. Essentially, find a conduit to \"dance\" through and just use that. Use that and feel comfortable doing it and go HAM. Then, combine the two. It might not show you that you can actually dance but you'll feel a ton better about yourself and about dancing.\n4. Wait until everyone ELSE is completely wasted, and then dance in a corner knowing that everyone else will forget whatever dancing you did.\n5. Go to a music festival, like an EDM festival or something, as long as you love or at least like the music. Make sure it's one that you can wear interesting things to, and then put on a mask and cover your entire body, and then repeat step 3.\n\nNow you've gone through what these other \"carefree\" people have gone through in their lives to get them to that point. And now, you can decide if you want to accept that version of yourself as part of who you are, or continue being the person you were before this. If you decide to stay who you are, then sitting at parties and never dancing won't feel weird anymore. \n\n",
"Don't try to observe and copy other guys. By all means watch them, but make the moves your own. Put on some music in your room and just move. Once you start feeling comfortable with your dancing, the confidence will show. If you feel that you are a good dancer, you will be perceived as a good dancer, and it's not like there are codified rules of college party dancing. Just be yourself. Also, if the party scene isn't your thing, that's okay too. Find some other activity to occupy your time. If you want to dance in a more logical, structured format, a lot of colleges have ballroom, swing, and/or salsa clubs. If you are in the northeast, there is also an active competitive ballroom dance circuit, which is both a lot of fun and a great way to meet people (also, tends to be filled with analytical types)"
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"Remove smell from cupboard Some buns went horrendously moldy over the course of a few days and left an offensive stench in everything, including the cupboard itself. I've thrown everything out of the cupboard, bleached it (and the shelves) but the smell remains.\n\nHow go I get rid of the mold smell?\n\nUPDATE: In case anyone looks back at this and has the same problem, I managed to get the smell out. \n\nI pulled out the shelves and they aired out fine in the sun/fresh air. As for the cupboard itself I smeared a mixture of baking soda and water on every inch of the inside. Then I sprinkled some excess baking soda on the bottom of it.\n\nFinally, I placed a bowl of freshly ground coffee grinds (about 3/5ths of an average cereal bowl) in the cupboard and left it for 2 weeks with the door closed. \n\nAfterwards I cleaned it out and a minor, almost unnoticeable mold smell lingered, so I left it open for another day and after that it was all good. I now smells completely normal again and my food and baking products are totally fine.\n\nThanks for your help everyone!",
"Remove smell from cupboard Some buns went horrendously moldy over the course of a few days and left an offensive stench in everything, including the cupboard itself. I've thrown everything out of the cupboard, bleached it (and the shelves) but the smell remains.\n\nHow go I get rid of the mold smell?\n\nUPDATE: In case anyone looks back at this and has the same problem, I managed to get the smell out. \n\nI pulled out the shelves and they aired out fine in the sun/fresh air. As for the cupboard itself I smeared a mixture of baking soda and water on every inch of the inside. Then I sprinkled some excess baking soda on the bottom of it.\n\nFinally, I placed a bowl of freshly ground coffee grinds (about 3/5ths of an average cereal bowl) in the cupboard and left it for 2 weeks with the door closed. \n\nAfterwards I cleaned it out and a minor, almost unnoticeable mold smell lingered, so I left it open for another day and after that it was all good. I now smells completely normal again and my food and baking products are totally fine.\n\nThanks for your help everyone!",
"Remove smell from cupboard Some buns went horrendously moldy over the course of a few days and left an offensive stench in everything, including the cupboard itself. I've thrown everything out of the cupboard, bleached it (and the shelves) but the smell remains.\n\nHow go I get rid of the mold smell?\n\nUPDATE: In case anyone looks back at this and has the same problem, I managed to get the smell out. \n\nI pulled out the shelves and they aired out fine in the sun/fresh air. As for the cupboard itself I smeared a mixture of baking soda and water on every inch of the inside. Then I sprinkled some excess baking soda on the bottom of it.\n\nFinally, I placed a bowl of freshly ground coffee grinds (about 3/5ths of an average cereal bowl) in the cupboard and left it for 2 weeks with the door closed. \n\nAfterwards I cleaned it out and a minor, almost unnoticeable mold smell lingered, so I left it open for another day and after that it was all good. I now smells completely normal again and my food and baking products are totally fine.\n\nThanks for your help everyone!",
"Remove smell from cupboard Some buns went horrendously moldy over the course of a few days and left an offensive stench in everything, including the cupboard itself. I've thrown everything out of the cupboard, bleached it (and the shelves) but the smell remains.\n\nHow go I get rid of the mold smell?\n\nUPDATE: In case anyone looks back at this and has the same problem, I managed to get the smell out. \n\nI pulled out the shelves and they aired out fine in the sun/fresh air. As for the cupboard itself I smeared a mixture of baking soda and water on every inch of the inside. Then I sprinkled some excess baking soda on the bottom of it.\n\nFinally, I placed a bowl of freshly ground coffee grinds (about 3/5ths of an average cereal bowl) in the cupboard and left it for 2 weeks with the door closed. \n\nAfterwards I cleaned it out and a minor, almost unnoticeable mold smell lingered, so I left it open for another day and after that it was all good. I now smells completely normal again and my food and baking products are totally fine.\n\nThanks for your help everyone!"
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"I'd put some ground coffee and some baking soda in the cupboard and see if that sucks up some of the odor like it would in a fridge. ",
"Activated charcoal will also help. Go to the fish section in walmart. They have a giant tub of it for less than $10. I used it to combat the smell of dead animal, along with coffee.",
"When I moved in to apartment, previous people left a ton of cigarette buds in all the kitchen cabinets... Smell was awful!\n\nApple vinegar on a sponge and clean all walls, all smell gone instantly!",
"Newspapers work great too. We had lost power in our summer home and a lot of the food in the refrigerator spoiled and stunk up the whole house. \n\nWe put coffee beans (but ground coffee works too) and newspapers. Amazingly had more result from the newspapers than the coffee. That seemed to more cover the scent rather than absorb it. Also home repair stores sell bags of lava rock (i believe 4.99) that stuff will soak up any smell. and then you just leave it in the sun for a few hours to reactivate. The lava rocks worked like a charm. Lets just say I moved into a house after some people that didn't take care of it really well. "
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"Anyone know how to keep 2 liter bottles of soda from going flat so quickly? Just wondering cause it seems like after two or three times of opening the bottle, the soda is already flat.\n\nThanks!",
"Anyone know how to keep 2 liter bottles of soda from going flat so quickly? Just wondering cause it seems like after two or three times of opening the bottle, the soda is already flat.\n\nThanks!",
"Anyone know how to keep 2 liter bottles of soda from going flat so quickly? Just wondering cause it seems like after two or three times of opening the bottle, the soda is already flat.\n\nThanks!",
"Anyone know how to keep 2 liter bottles of soda from going flat so quickly? Just wondering cause it seems like after two or three times of opening the bottle, the soda is already flat.\n\nThanks!",
"Anyone know how to keep 2 liter bottles of soda from going flat so quickly? Just wondering cause it seems like after two or three times of opening the bottle, the soda is already flat.\n\nThanks!",
"Anyone know how to keep 2 liter bottles of soda from going flat so quickly? Just wondering cause it seems like after two or three times of opening the bottle, the soda is already flat.\n\nThanks!"
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"http://picocool.com/design/soda-bottle-dispenser/\n\nhttp://www.amazon.com/Fizz-Saver-2-Liter-Drink-Dispenser/dp/B004TXFU9U",
"You could try [this](http://www.stevespanglerscience.com/product/1157) or [this](http://www.google.com/products/catalog?q=fizz+keeper&oe=utf-8&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a&um=1&ie=UTF-8&tbm=shop&cid=16516180340575063233&sa=X&ei=QKP8TrwogvDSAeCe-IcC&ved=0CHoQ8wIwAQ). These products will supposedly help maintain the pressure inside the bottles, so less co2 come out of the soda.",
"I make my own sparkling water with the Sodastream system.\n\nThe advantages are multiple: Cheaper, not need to break your back carrying bottles, more ecological and do it when you need so lose less CO2.\n\nBut maybe you don't have it in the USA.",
"The soda goes flat because there is empty space within the bottle for carbon dioxide to escape. Squeeze all the air out of the bottle and seal it tightly after each use to prevent effervescence.",
"Most people dont retighten the cap on strong enough to seal in all the air. When the bottle gets below half empty the carbon dioxide will fill up that empty space and the soda will go flat. if you drink that 2 liter quickly, just make sure that cap is tight.",
"I just barely put the cap back on. I noticed that if I put the cap on tight, a significant amount of pressure would build up and as a result, would explode out as soon as I opened the bottle. By lightly putting the cap on I have found the soda to last much longer. I guarantee it. "
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"How do I have a successful relationship after being cheated on? So I'm a 20 year old male, I've had 3 serious relationships, all of which have ended by being cheated on. Even though it was a couple of years ago I'm still incredibly insecure about it, and it's taken me a long time to realise that. \n\nAfter the third time, I said I wasn't going to have another serious relationship for a long time. Then... of course, I met a girl. I explained to her on countless occasions that I didn't want anything serious or a relationship with her, yet she was persistent and continued to see me, and I began to fall for her. We've now been dating for almost 2 years. She has never really given me much reason not to trust her, but I feel because of my past I cannot fully trust her, although I want to. She's now saying that she can't be with someone who doesn't trust her; to which I said that my mistrust has nothing to do with her and I need to work on my own insecurities. However she's said it's not something I can fix. At the moment I've been trying to eat healthier, do more exercise, and generally be more active so that my thoughts and my brain are not. I don't want to be this person, but being young and uneducated I don't know how to tackle this (not the being cheated on part, as I've come to terms with that, but the repercussions it has on me mentally in future relations and the worry, because I don't want to feel so broken again).\n\ntl;dr - This problem is affecting my current relationship and I would like to address it and move past it, to improve my relationship and my mental state.",
"How do I have a successful relationship after being cheated on? So I'm a 20 year old male, I've had 3 serious relationships, all of which have ended by being cheated on. Even though it was a couple of years ago I'm still incredibly insecure about it, and it's taken me a long time to realise that. \n\nAfter the third time, I said I wasn't going to have another serious relationship for a long time. Then... of course, I met a girl. I explained to her on countless occasions that I didn't want anything serious or a relationship with her, yet she was persistent and continued to see me, and I began to fall for her. We've now been dating for almost 2 years. She has never really given me much reason not to trust her, but I feel because of my past I cannot fully trust her, although I want to. She's now saying that she can't be with someone who doesn't trust her; to which I said that my mistrust has nothing to do with her and I need to work on my own insecurities. However she's said it's not something I can fix. At the moment I've been trying to eat healthier, do more exercise, and generally be more active so that my thoughts and my brain are not. I don't want to be this person, but being young and uneducated I don't know how to tackle this (not the being cheated on part, as I've come to terms with that, but the repercussions it has on me mentally in future relations and the worry, because I don't want to feel so broken again).\n\ntl;dr - This problem is affecting my current relationship and I would like to address it and move past it, to improve my relationship and my mental state.",
"How do I have a successful relationship after being cheated on? So I'm a 20 year old male, I've had 3 serious relationships, all of which have ended by being cheated on. Even though it was a couple of years ago I'm still incredibly insecure about it, and it's taken me a long time to realise that. \n\nAfter the third time, I said I wasn't going to have another serious relationship for a long time. Then... of course, I met a girl. I explained to her on countless occasions that I didn't want anything serious or a relationship with her, yet she was persistent and continued to see me, and I began to fall for her. We've now been dating for almost 2 years. She has never really given me much reason not to trust her, but I feel because of my past I cannot fully trust her, although I want to. She's now saying that she can't be with someone who doesn't trust her; to which I said that my mistrust has nothing to do with her and I need to work on my own insecurities. However she's said it's not something I can fix. At the moment I've been trying to eat healthier, do more exercise, and generally be more active so that my thoughts and my brain are not. I don't want to be this person, but being young and uneducated I don't know how to tackle this (not the being cheated on part, as I've come to terms with that, but the repercussions it has on me mentally in future relations and the worry, because I don't want to feel so broken again).\n\ntl;dr - This problem is affecting my current relationship and I would like to address it and move past it, to improve my relationship and my mental state.",
"How do I have a successful relationship after being cheated on? So I'm a 20 year old male, I've had 3 serious relationships, all of which have ended by being cheated on. Even though it was a couple of years ago I'm still incredibly insecure about it, and it's taken me a long time to realise that. \n\nAfter the third time, I said I wasn't going to have another serious relationship for a long time. Then... of course, I met a girl. I explained to her on countless occasions that I didn't want anything serious or a relationship with her, yet she was persistent and continued to see me, and I began to fall for her. We've now been dating for almost 2 years. She has never really given me much reason not to trust her, but I feel because of my past I cannot fully trust her, although I want to. She's now saying that she can't be with someone who doesn't trust her; to which I said that my mistrust has nothing to do with her and I need to work on my own insecurities. However she's said it's not something I can fix. At the moment I've been trying to eat healthier, do more exercise, and generally be more active so that my thoughts and my brain are not. I don't want to be this person, but being young and uneducated I don't know how to tackle this (not the being cheated on part, as I've come to terms with that, but the repercussions it has on me mentally in future relations and the worry, because I don't want to feel so broken again).\n\ntl;dr - This problem is affecting my current relationship and I would like to address it and move past it, to improve my relationship and my mental state.",
"How do I have a successful relationship after being cheated on? So I'm a 20 year old male, I've had 3 serious relationships, all of which have ended by being cheated on. Even though it was a couple of years ago I'm still incredibly insecure about it, and it's taken me a long time to realise that. \n\nAfter the third time, I said I wasn't going to have another serious relationship for a long time. Then... of course, I met a girl. I explained to her on countless occasions that I didn't want anything serious or a relationship with her, yet she was persistent and continued to see me, and I began to fall for her. We've now been dating for almost 2 years. She has never really given me much reason not to trust her, but I feel because of my past I cannot fully trust her, although I want to. She's now saying that she can't be with someone who doesn't trust her; to which I said that my mistrust has nothing to do with her and I need to work on my own insecurities. However she's said it's not something I can fix. At the moment I've been trying to eat healthier, do more exercise, and generally be more active so that my thoughts and my brain are not. I don't want to be this person, but being young and uneducated I don't know how to tackle this (not the being cheated on part, as I've come to terms with that, but the repercussions it has on me mentally in future relations and the worry, because I don't want to feel so broken again).\n\ntl;dr - This problem is affecting my current relationship and I would like to address it and move past it, to improve my relationship and my mental state."
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"You don't necessarily need to trust her; you just need to not worry about it. You can't stop someone from cheating on you with suspicion and mistrust. Just enjoy the relationship you have, and let your future self deal with cheating if it happens. There is nothing you can do to prepare for it or prevent it.",
"Your doing great man, so far but open up your heart for her to show her that she means a lot to you and it would hurt you if you ever lost her. Sorry if English is bad! ",
"You've learned not to trust women - that's a feature not a bug. Congrats on ending the relationships with the cheaters. You're aware, observant and have self respect. Pat yourself on the back. Many men are either oblivious to their cheating partners or so 'whipped' that they try to wish it away. \n\nI don't know what your circumstances are. What is she doing that demands your trust? ",
"Has she done anything or said anything that would cause you to mistrust her at all? Or are you simply having trust issues mainly because of your previous relationships? \n\nHonestly, it sounds like your mistrust is becoming an issue for her because she feels like it's misplaced. The actions of other people are becoming a burden for her to carry and she may look at it as unfair. Although your past experiences have led you to feel insecure and paranoid about your significant other, you can't hold her accountable for someone else's mistake. You're essentially punishing her for something she hasn't done or had anything to do with. \n\nit's okay to feel insecurities, but you also have to acknowledge the negativity you're bringing to the relationship. It may be your personal issue to resolve, but is clearly affecting the relationship. \n\nI would suggest you have a very honest and open talk with her about what she might like to see you do. Just because it's your own battle to fight doesn't mean you can show her that you're actively trying to be better. She might want you to go talk to a therapist, and if you think she's worth it, then you should go. In the event that she has chalked you up as a lost cause and is looking for a way out of the relationship, you deserve to know that too before you start committing yourself into doing things for her. Communication is key, especially when it's about trust. \n\n",
"FWIW the only woman who ever cheated on me was one who cheated on her previous boyfriend, with me! So I guess I had it coming since I knew she was taken when I made my move.\n\nShow your GF that you trust her through actions and not just words. How best to do that is going to vary depending on the two of you. Otherwise just listen to her and keep being the best man you can be and it'll be fine. If she is this nervous about trust issues it shows that she really cares about you and that is so crucial to a good relationship. Don't forget that relationships are supposed to be mutually fun so don't \"over discuss\" it or you can take the magic out of it."
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" In hindsight after posting, I realise a better title would have been “how to improve my heat tolerance?”\n\nSo I’m aware of how to cool myself down in hot weather. However, I’ve noticed when it gets hot I cope worse than everyone else around me. I sweat a lot more and just generally feel more uncomfortable. I start to feel uncomfortably hot at lower temperatures than everyone else around me.\n\nIs there anything I can do to improve my tolerance for hot weather so that I’m not as reliant on cooling down methods?\n\nThanks and have a great day.",
" In hindsight after posting, I realise a better title would have been “how to improve my heat tolerance?”\n\nSo I’m aware of how to cool myself down in hot weather. However, I’ve noticed when it gets hot I cope worse than everyone else around me. I sweat a lot more and just generally feel more uncomfortable. I start to feel uncomfortably hot at lower temperatures than everyone else around me.\n\nIs there anything I can do to improve my tolerance for hot weather so that I’m not as reliant on cooling down methods?\n\nThanks and have a great day.",
" In hindsight after posting, I realise a better title would have been “how to improve my heat tolerance?”\n\nSo I’m aware of how to cool myself down in hot weather. However, I’ve noticed when it gets hot I cope worse than everyone else around me. I sweat a lot more and just generally feel more uncomfortable. I start to feel uncomfortably hot at lower temperatures than everyone else around me.\n\nIs there anything I can do to improve my tolerance for hot weather so that I’m not as reliant on cooling down methods?\n\nThanks and have a great day.",
" In hindsight after posting, I realise a better title would have been “how to improve my heat tolerance?”\n\nSo I’m aware of how to cool myself down in hot weather. However, I’ve noticed when it gets hot I cope worse than everyone else around me. I sweat a lot more and just generally feel more uncomfortable. I start to feel uncomfortably hot at lower temperatures than everyone else around me.\n\nIs there anything I can do to improve my tolerance for hot weather so that I’m not as reliant on cooling down methods?\n\nThanks and have a great day."
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"Make sure you don’t have a medical condition like MS, ME/CFS or Dysautonomia underlying it. \n\nI have ME/CFS and Dysautonomia. Heat is not my friend! \n\nAppropriate clothing, staying out of the heat as much as possible, minimising physical exertion in the heat.\n\nThen there’s all the cooling products - mats, scarves, wearable fans, ice packs, bed cooling systems. \n\nI manage in the Australian summer with these. However I’m unable to work, stay inside when it’s hot, use a wheelchair (minimal physical exertion when it’s hot), and use cooling products.\n\nI still hate summer, but I make do.",
"Do you happen to know a handheld fan? People in my country use this when it's Summer. Try using it. It makes you more cool. I hope it works for you.",
"Aerobic exercise in hot conditions has been shown to improve heat tolerance.\n\nSo, exercise. Not in airconditioned gym. Exercise outside.\n\nOf course, use good judgement and due caution if the heat is extreme or you have health problems. Don't overdo it. Don't do it in noon under direct sun. If you're not used to exercising, start light and short, and build up gradually day by day up to more intense exercise. Hydrate sufficiently BEFORE exercise.\n\nConsult your doctor.",
"By thinking about it less. Treating it as normal.\n\nI swear I think a lot of it is just between your ears. Its a mindset. People who live in the tropics and don't know any better don't complain about it all the time either."
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"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**",
"How to sweat less? I sweat a lot. Luckily it's not so much my armpits, but my head sweats a lot and I'm a bartender at a nice restaurant so I can't help but think it's off-putting to bar guests.\n\nAlso, during the summer it's pretty much a constant shiny glaze on my forehead whether I'm inside or out.\n\nGoogle only turns up blogs that say to use more deodorant and what not, but I can't really do that on my head.\n\n**"
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"I used to sweat like a sunuvabitch any time it got over 75F. \n\nThen I spent a summer digging holes in hot humid weather. Now it's not as bad... I got in better shape and learned what real heat was.\n\nNo idea why or even if that's a thing, but it was what I experienced.\n\nMaybe work out and hit the sauna?",
"If its from the armpits, you can get something called \"Driclor\" from the chemist. Basically, you wash and dry your armpits before bed and then roll it on. Wash it off as soon as you get up. You have to do it every day at first but eventually, you don't have to do it very often at all and it stops you from sweating from the armpits. Which in turn, decreases body odour!\n\nI used to sweat profusely from the armpits. Driclor saved me much embarrassment.",
"There is a condition called hyperhidrosis if you feel like you're sweating in excess without much physical exertion.",
"Sorry to hear it. I have a similar problem in that I wear glasses and they're always getting oily sweat dripped on them. Try a hand towel and periodically dabbing. You also might want to try getting more exercise and possibly looking for athletic material shirts that keep you cooler when you get hot. Cotton tends to make a bad situation worse. ",
"If it's because you're overhearing, you can dampen a cloth and place or around your neck. It helps quite a bit. Either use a bar towel, or they make ones specifically for this purpose. Frogg toggs. ",
"I have the same problem. I can usually manage the sweating with regular exercise. The only problem is when I'm exercising longer (running or soccer) I get brutal blisters on my feet and nothing helps. I tried double running socks, powder... but it just manages to prevent them to come to the state when they bleed :(",
"I have the same problem. It sucks and it's embarrassing. I feel your pain. I found a recommendation on reddit a few years back for CertainDri. It itches like a motherfucker when you first apply it (yes, works on the forehead), but it does work. ",
"You can get Drysol prescribed for this sort thing. Avoid caffeine and alcohol and maintain a healthy weight.",
"/r/hyperhidrosis is a solid place for people like us. I have the same problem as you OP. I use 3 different things to control it. CertainDri, degree everest for the deoderant, and a pill called glycopyrollate or something like that. The pill helps the most. ",
"Are you well-hydrated? I've found that if I drink plenty of water, I sweat less...or if I do, it's clear and less likely to smell, so it helps a bit. ",
"So this may sounds a little strange, but after you take a hot shower turn the cold water on and use it to cool off. I use to live outside for the summer and I can tell you that by lowering your body temperature that it will help reduce your sweating drastically. This may not stop it all together, but it will definitely help to reduce sweat and make you feel more comfortable.",
"Not sure what your physical health/fitness are like but for me personally, I sweat profusely when out of shape. When I was in shape, much less the case. Currently I'm working on getting back to it this summer, about a month in and I do feel it is becoming harder to sweat. Or at least the threshold to begin sweating is greater, allowing longer periods of \"heat\" without overheating. ",
"Beyond the anecdotes ITT, I think it's often just how your body is. I've lived all over the US, and there is a certain amount of aclimitizing you can do. And I don't know how much of it is genetic verses where you grew up. But I grew up in a mountain town at 3000'. And I'm a big guy (regardless of how overweight I am). If you have a big frame, you expell much more energy, and thus heat, than a smaller person. This is part of an effect that gets overlooked all the time when I hear people talk about health/biologic related things. It's called the square-cube law. And ultimately it means that if you are 10% bigger than someone, the multiple of energy you use for your mass isn't just 10% more. It would be an exponential function. All of this has nothing to do with a LPT and I just realized I'm rambling for my own ego's sake now...",
"Move to an arid climate. You won't sweat less, but the sweat quickly evaporates and you won't even notice that you're sweating. ",
"I sweat a lot too. I'm a girl tho, so it maybe a little different. I also live in a hot place. But how I deal is using a combination of different things. I clean myself really good with soap twice a day (not my hair tho) then put rubbing alcohol on my underarms and feet to kill germs. I also dab a bit of tea tree oil for good measure. Let dry. Then deodorant, I switch back and forth from Mitchum to secret clinical strength. Let dry before putting on your top. Throughout the day I keep paper towels on hand to wipe off the moisture real quick. I also use oil absorbing face wipes. Another thing I do when I'm wearing tops with sleeves I add underarm pads. I find too that when I drink a lot of water over time it helps a lot. AND spray, Lots of body spray. Hope this helps someone. Sweating sucks but it is natural and if you are healthy it can actually sexy. Love your body.",
"I had my thyroid taken out because it was full of cancer. Life without a thyroid means taking synthetic thyroid hormones, which can cause excessive sweating. I drink ice water all the time. It helps. ",
"Go and buy some sage tablets/capsules. It has been proven to reduce sweating up to 50%. Worked for me. ",
"Be Asian.\n\nThat aside though, there is something called \"prickly heat powder.\" Get that shit. Use a little towel or something, dab some on, wash your face, dry it, and rub that everywhere you get hot and sweaty. It lasts me half a day in 95+ degree heat.\n\nSome others in the thread recommended against cotton, but 100% cotton (especially very thin, slightly rough material that breathes well) tends to work way better for heat than any synthetic fabrics. That's why it's popular in hot parts of the world. If you can manage to get your work button-downs in that kind of material it might help.",
"A traditional treatment was a white oak bark tea, but it should only be used with the advice of an herbalist. I knew one individual with such profuse sweating that he would become seriously dehydrated with just a five mile run. It helped him.",
"you have to work out and run a lot. once your heart is stronger it will beat less times per minute and you will sweat much less doing low-stress activity. there are no drugs you can take. there is no deoderant to buy. just simple physical activity will help tremendously. ",
"try and keep your arms away from your arm pits (when i get out in blistering heat I tend to always stretch out my arms slightly so it doesn't look awkward) keeping your arms close against your body (covering your armpit) the majority of the time will not help.",
"just own it dude. everyone sweats. sweat = passion. there's nothing you can do to stop sweating, just accept it, and maybe wear cologne so you don't necessarily smell like ass.\n\n",
"i shave my armpits (as a man, not that it matters) so that the theres less debris between my armpits and air so theyre cooler and the deoderant/antipersperant can actually go right on the skin",
"http://www.drugs.com/international/methanthelinium-bromide.html\n\nI take this: http://www.drugs.com/international/vagantin.html thrice a day - no sweat whatsoever, but eternal cottonmouth.\n\n\n\n",
"http://www.drugs.com/comments/aluminum-chloride-hexahydrate-topical/hypercare-for-hyperhidrosis.html \n \nI was sweating a lot from a medication I was talking, so my doctor prescribed this for me and it worked very well. I put it on my face.",
"[Facial antiperspirant](http://www.paintandpowderstore.com/proddetail.php?prod=MM-1286)\nThis is a product I have not tried on my self but alot of my makeup artist friends use to keep their clients shine and sweat free while filming. It's actually formulated for use on the face but definitely is something I'd use as sparingly as possible or only when you're going to work etc as to avoid irritation. Hope this helps you!",
"Your body adapts to the heat that it experiences. Spend more time in hotter environments or exert yourself more often and staying cool at work will be a breeze. Obviously this only works if you are actually sweating due to exertion or heat at work.",
"Your anxiety could be making it worse, maybe work on that too. Don't forget the basics; diet, exercise and sleep.\n\n",
"You may have Hyperhidrosis, for which there is a surgical solution called ETS. I know of it because I used to listen to the Adam Carolla podcast, and he suffered from sweaty forhead - which is a huge problem if you're on TV - and he had the surgery done to cure it.",
"You could try making your own \"deodorant\". It's not an antiperspirant, but a lot of the recipes call for cornstarch or arrowroot, which help absorb moisture. Baby powder and dry shampoo are both pretty drying too, if you're willing to try those.",
"You can get high strength prescription antiperspirants for your hands. These don't work for everyone but worth a shot?\nThere is also a treatment called iontophoresis which is supposed to have quite high levels of success.\nBoth of those too much effort? Buy some baby powder and keep it in the stuff you take to work. If you feel your hands are getting too sweaty then just sprinkle some baby powder on after washing and drying our hands and that should keep the sweat away for a while.\n\nSource: I am also a hand sweater - Jeeze my palms got wet just typing this out.",
"Would any of these tips work for someone who lives in an EXTREMELY hot and humid climate? (Southern Alabama). For the past 2 months it's go outside and get instantly drenched in sweat, and that'll continue until early October. ",
"What I do is just keep a hand towel around. Either in my car or in the back at work. Does wonders, you just have to use a new one pretty much every day",
"Well then. Good comments all.\n\nYou have to figure out what the issue is that is causing the sweating.\n\nFor example. Has this always been the case or did this happen after some event? Like after u went on a regiment of antibiotics?\nDoes this happen more after u have coffee? After you have sweets? How much sweets do u eat?\n\nI would actually recommend not trying to cover the problem up with shit, but to try and see what it is that causes it?\n\nLook into full body cleanses. Look into no sugar diet. Look into probiotics supplements. \nThis is the hard way out, but this is also the right way out.\n\nBotox and shit will just cover up the general problem, and not deal with the issue.\n\nI went on antibiotic regiment and it messed me up in many ways. The sweat is just one of the issues.",
"Was just playing basketball with my friends in NYC, at the time you are expected to sweat. But when everyone's done playing and we're just walking barely half a mile to our favorite spot to eat, I'm still sweating bullets. Friend said I'm permanently sweating lol. \n\nSo I need to look into these products. ",
"Vaping weed has helped me a hell of a lot with my hyperhydrosis. If that's an option for you, give it a shot! Just once a night. After awhile, you sweat less. ",
"Try this: add more salt to your routine. Eating more salt makes your body to retain fluids, keeping your sweat undercontrol (works with me XD)\nBut please, don't overdo it! Salt in excess may cause health problems.",
"Try out an alum block. They're cheap enough. Alum is the antiperspirant compound in deodorants. These blocks are basically the mineral version of that. I've found that some brands leave a slight chalky residue while others don't so it's all in trial and error. They're small and some often have a little case you can put them so you could carry it with you to work. \n\nWet down your face, rub alum block on wet skin, then either let air dry, or pat dry with a towel. It'll tighten up your skin and close up your pores for a bit. It's an astringent as well so if you are prone to acne I could see it being useful. \n\nCheers and good luck!",
"Try certain dri. It's been a godsend for me. It's super cheap and easy too. Also try Thompson tee. I wear it under my shirt when I know I'll sweat a lot from anxiety.\n\nJust read that your forehead is your issue. This probably won't help you then, sorry about that, but it might help an anxious arm pit sweater like me so I'll post it anyway",
"To much masturbation can have an effect on the amount of sweat you give off. . I'm being serious here. I used to masturbate at least 3 times a day. I turned that down to a very minimal amount and I don't sweat as much as I use to. Try it and see if that helps. ",
"This. I've worked as a bartender for a good seven years, though I quit my job a few weeks ago, and the constant sweating I've always experienced while working really made things more uncomfortable. \nHow is your physical health? More weight often means that you'll be sweating more, obviously. I think my reason for sweating a lot is of a more mental nature though. The last year I worked, I was always really stressed out going to work because I knew that it would a rough night almost every shift I worked, since we'd been getting a lot more guests, but not enough personnel to cover it. My depression didn't really help the case.... ",
"This might sound kind of crazy, but there's a product called Pore Professional that fills yours pores with some silicone type stuff until you wash your face. It's meant to hide you're pores under your makeup, but i find it helps to stop that shiny gloss I used to get on my nose. Maybe it could help stop the shine on your face. \n\nThere are also blotting papers that will pull the shine off your face, but if you're dripping sweat it won't help at all. \n\nI don't know what the dress code is at your restaurant but I know chefs and other people who work in hot places wear bandanas and stuff to catch sweat. ",
"This is sort of a quick-fix and might sound dumb but it helps me. In the summer when I'm at work I also sweat a lot. When I'm leaving the restroom, I wash my hands with cold water and let it run for a little over them. Simple but effective for me. Hope this lil ditty helps. ",
"This amazing fucking product called Certain Dri. You put it on twice a week before bed, and use regular deodorant as usual. Some days I have ZERO precipitation. Saves my dress shirts, and my reputation. ",
"There's a product called Sweatblock, you can buy it on Amazon. You rub it on wherever you want to stop sweating and you basically won't sweat there for around a week. \n\nIt's supposed to be for armpits, I've been using it on my face for months and it's amazing.\n\nOnly thing is, it burns and itches like crazy when you apply it, but it's well worth it. ",
"There is a deo in Sweden called \"Absolut Torr\" which means \"Absolut Dry\". I am not sure if you can buy it anywhere else, however.. it's one of the best deos in Sweden. It's so strong that it lasts for 7 weeks and doctors here recommend it, you can apply it to anywhere (even forehead) and it honestly works. \n\nHowever, it's so strong that when you apply it.. you have to 1000 % dry (one drop of liqued and it might burn the area). \n\nI have to stand with a hairblower for 10 min each before I apply it to me. (I use it on my armpits and feet). ",
"The holistic/traditional remedy for sweating is Sage. They recommend 1,000 mg per day in capsule form. Natural stuff like this takes time to work so I'd give it a good run (like a month) and see if it works for you. I have not tried it myself but it certainly couldn't hurt and sage has some other good benefits to boot (increased memory for one). Worth a shot. \n\n",
"The head is basically one of the major areas of heat loss. Sweating is to cool off the body, and certain areas are bigger heat dumps than others - but if heat can't be lost or is generated in one part of the body, it can well be lost in others. \n\nWhat that means is that if your body overall is cooler, you will probably sweat less. Like, with blood circulation and heat distribution, even hot feet means your head gets hotter. So try to wear cooler clothes?\n\nFeet are also a big one. Try to wear as light shoes as you can. If your feet are cold, you're pretty much guaranteed not to sweat from your head. All the blood passes through the feet, so...\n\nalso, groin.. wear thin and loose fitting boxers. If heat gets trapped in one area, it has to escape somewhere else.",
"The correlation I notice is booze and sweat. if i have been drinking i will sweat alot, loads, as the body cleans itself. (remeber there is only 4 exits for impurities, pissing, puking, shitting sweating). After a week of no alchohol and exercise with heavy sweating on 4/5 of those days, i have sweat everything out, my body retains less water and I will tend to hardly sweat at all. give it a go for a week, nothing to lose. ",
"Talk to your Doc about \"Terazosin\" - it can be used off-label for sweating; doesn't prevent \"reasonable\" sweating (like, if you run a few miles) but stops the extra, no reason sweat production.",
"Switch to fabrics that breath and dry better like a polyester golf polo.\n\nForehead sweating a lot? Can you wear a bandana at work? If so, then you can change that every couple of hours or so. Again, you can get these in a polyester blend that will breath better and dry faster.",
"Sweat block - it moves your sweat to a different area. (So that you still cool off I guess) Used for armpits but should work on the forehead too!",
"Sounds like you are describing the same condition that I suffer from. I haven't been diagnosed but my symptoms match those of hyperhydrosis. Since high school I used a roll on treatment called drysol, but I found the pain sometimes to be too much and it made my skin itchy. About 2 years ago I found a drug on an Internet forum called AVERT (glycopyrrolate). It's called AVERT in Canada but in the U.S. I believe it's called Robinul. This medication has been around for a long time at pharmacies but I think it just hasn't been readily prescribed for excessive sweating. When I take Avert, I usually take a dose of 3mg for a warm day and 5+mg on hotter days and more if there is a lot of humidity. My experience with this medication has been life changing. I no longer worry about my sweating when I am out public areas and I can be calm and sociable because I'm not experiencing anxiety from the sweating. The only negative from my experience with this medication is that at higher doses (5mg+), my body feels dehydrated. I have to drink a lot of water because my throat dries up and at times solid food takes a few extra chews. Although is did get uncomfortable when I first began to take the medication, I figured out what was right dose for me and I've been able to control how 'dry' I feel. If you life is affected by excessive sweating I strongly urge you to try and find AVERT or ROBINUL (which are over the counter medications in Canada; www.pharmacy.ca). It helped me with my anxiety at work, social events and even in my relationships. If you have any other questions.. I'll try my best to help you out.",
"So, this might be useless because I don't remember the name, but a few years back I went to a dermatologist complaining about how my skin would get super oily and he prescribed me this liquid solution thing that you would dab on your face in the morning, it would sting a bit, but it would stop the pores from producing sweat and oil. Go talk to a dermatologist and see if you could get this prescribed. It worked extremely well!",
"Secure wipes, available from Pharmacy.ca\n\nI'm in the UK so delivery is a bit pricey, but they work. I've used them when I've been in stressful situations, job interviews etc.\n\nThey do have weird side effects though, dry mouth and the occasional headache in the evening when you've used them during the day. ",
"Really easy temporary solution, not sure if you can do this where you work, is to wear a hat. The swear gets trapped and absorbed and is stopped from rolling down your forehead. ",
"Reading the comments so far I feel no one has hit it on the head yet so I came here to offer some contributing opinions..\n\nSweating as we all know isn't just dependent on temperature or physical exertion but mentally too. \nWhen I was younger I would sweat a lot in public because I was generally shy and somewhat nervous. \n\nI'd notice my body temperature rising due to the natural response to stress and I'd have a glossy face, sweaty pits, hands and feet. I'd be self conscious about my appearance which caused me to feel *more* stressed and thus more hot. So an idea here is to try to not worry about it so much. \n\nContrary to my example above, I used to intern for a lady who had the same issue as you're describing. She was fairly confident so I doubt she suffered from nervousness. She would sweat A LOT from her face. Seriously she looked like she just got back from an intense jog.\n\nI never mentioned it to her but she casually brought it up and just said she sweats from her face and not normal areas like arm pits. \n\nShe's rather successful and meets with a lot of high profile clients so I think if she could do something to fix her face sweating issue, she would. But it's probably just the way her body is programmed and there's not much else you can do but carry around a wash cloth and casually bring it up in conversation.\n\nSomeone else in this thread mentioned going to a sauna to raise your body's heat tolerance, that could be an option too but I'd research that idea first. ",
"Pitrok.\nLasts forever, little to no sweat, no sweat smells. Seems expensive \nbut the little stick lasts nearly 6 months (literally).\n\nhttp://www.amazon.co.uk/PitRok-W1060-Push-Up-Crystal-Deodorant/dp/B000S858L0/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1433699971&sr=8-1&keywords=pitrok",
"Oxybutynin. Ask a doctor, its dirt cheap. 10mg per day changed my life. I'm industry also, it helps a lot. ",
"One thing I've found is that you can get compensatory sweating. \n\nMy hands usd to be more sweaty, and I found out a big contributor was from using antiperspirant for my armpits. When I switched to deodorant, my hands stopped sweating for the most part.\n\nThe pits don't really sweaty much for me, but just having the pores clogged up by the aluminum or whatever they use in antiperspirants would trigger sweat in other areas.\n\nNot sure if this could apply in your case.",
"Ok, I haven't tried this yet but I have it saved on my Amazon wish list for when it really heats up this summer. I heard about this stuff on the MUA sub - [Mehron Skin Prep](http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00FE90M0K/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pd_nS_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=NYRDQ3WYTDV2&coliid=I1I16MG6IP3K2F) which is basically like antiperspirant specifically for your face. It's intended for use under makeup but I think it would be fine without it, too.",
"OK, serious question... The topic here is essentially hyperhydrosis.... So I'm curious. Is there an \"official\" phobia or ocd symptom recognized as hydrosisphobia?\n\nI take two medications that cause sweat to start a lot earlier than it would normally... And I freaking loathe it.",
"Not sure what your dress code is but I used to work as a bartender at a place that had a patio/tiki bar and we had a talk with management and they let us wear headbands. A lot of times it's how you approach them, if you go to them honestly saying that your worried that it is a put off to your patrons and your worried you could drip sweat into a drink they're usually a lot more excepting than if they think your just trying to be cool and make a fashion statement. If it's upscale ask for ideas and include them in the process. Ideally strategically placed fans (especially the ones that have a mist that lower the ambient temp) would work best? Hope this helped ",
"Not sure how to offer tips since every body is different. I maintain a dry body until I hit the gym or run and be. It's just a slloaked back, chest, and head. ",
"Not a long term solution but hold an ice cube or something cold. I assume you can find one as youre in a bar. Cant remember where I heard it but it works really well for me. Maybe worth a pop for you if you need to cool down for a bit.",
"My hands are my only body part that sweats, and they do more than enough to make up for the rest of my body. I've found Driclor helps a lot. It stings at first when your hands try to sweat but your body adapts. I'd try products designed for the face first.\n\nBe warned, if you don't wash it off your hands properly, it can discolour your clothes where it gets in contact. Took me a couple of days to figure out why there were yellow marks around my zippers and buttons...\n\nExercising does help, but only when actually exercising.",
"Move slower and stay out of the sun. Don't wear clothing that doesn't breathe, ie polyester, spandex (your secret is safe), etc. ",
"Maybe try sweating more. I sweat a lot less during the day if I work out in the morning. Also skinny people tend to sweat less than overweight people. ",
"Maybe lay off the coffee? I know a guy that sweat constantly, and it just turned out he needed to not drink 4 cups a day.",
"Just hang a small towel out your backpocket - whenever you need it just use it. Better than standing around looking sweaty.",
"Just a shot in the dark but a lot of bartenders drink a lot of alcohol, and them drink a lot of caffine to compensate for it the next day. Both of these things can make people sweat more.",
"It's received a few mentions, but +1 for working out. Not implying you're out of shape or don't, but ever since I started running intervals I have noticed that I hardly sweat.",
"It's like one of those impossible goals where the more you aim for it the more it's unattainable. Try the reverse. See if you can set a world sweating record. Note the times you're dry and try to remedy it as quickly as possible with a a fully clothed jog around the block. ",
"It sounds like you have [craniofacial hyperhidrosis](http://www.sts.org/patient-information/other-types-surgery/hyperhidrosis). I know how you feel, I've suffered from this since puberty, and only recently started seeking treatment for it. \n\nWhile the recommendation for Driclor is good, I'll caution you that on the face, it feels like battery acid (I've tried it, against dermatologist's recommendation).\n\nTwo weeks ago, I had my first actual \"procedure\" address this. My dermatology did approximately 50 injections of botox around my head, roughly in a circle where a sweat-band would, fittingly, sit. This was covered completely by my insurance, and has worked amazingly well so far, with no apparent side-effects. The only drawback, is it has to be done every 4 to 6 months.",
"Instead of using lab-created products, I go natural and use lavender oil. I dilute it with jojoba oil (always dilute essential oils properly) and I rub it in on my face before I go to bed. While it sounds weird that adding oil reduces oil, it works like a charm for me. ",
"If you're talking about sweating during workouts, why would you even want to sweat less? It cools your body and allows for better performance",
"If you sweat that is a good thing. It means your body is controlling your body temp. \n\nIf you sweat even when not in hot weather, then you need to find the source of your issue, most likely being nervous or stressed. \nAlso make sure to stay hydrated, so drinks water. ",
"If you are very well hydrated you will sweat less. Drink as much water as you can handle, about 3L a day.",
"If it's an absurd amount of sweat and you're just tired of it and can't do anything to sweat less, Maxim deodorant works amazingly well. I used it because I was tired of sweating through every type of antiperspirant deodorant I tried. I didn't sweat for a few days after using once before bedtime. It really works.",
"I've heard that finishing a shower with a couple minutes of cold water can help close the pores.\nCan't confirm this, might be worth a try though.",
"I've heard some people say that if you use less deodorant, your body will adjust accordingly and sweat less. ",
"I'm a heavy sweater myself and have been since I was a kid. My daughter is 4 and she's just like me. We recently moved from California to Louisiana so the heat is a pretty huge factor in our day-to-day life from June through September. I work in Alaska and commute back and forth so it's difficult for me to get acclimated to the heat.\n\nI've found two things that work pretty well for me. First, I do my cardio outside in the heat. I ride my bike 26 miles every other day, usually ending at about noon when the temperatures are getting into the 90's, then I do my cool-down and shower outside because if I go into the air conditioning, I feel like I'm going to freeze. This may not be an option for you.\n\nThe second thing is I eat a lot of spicy food. The hotter the better, and especially with some salt/soy in there. Thai food is surprisingly common in Louisiana and I find that if I get a full body sweat going at least a couple times a week from hot peppers, that seems to help me feel cooler the rest of the time. \n\nI'm not a doctor, BTW, so this is purely anecdotal. Otherwise, it's just Gold Bond powder and a hanky in my pocket. Good luck.",
"I'm a bartender and I used to sweat like crazy. Cut back your alcohol consumption and you will sweat less. I'm not talk shift drinking, I'm talking drinking in general.",
"I'll give a different view and say as guy who goes to bars, I see bartenders sweat ALL the time. I've never seen it as a big deal, I know they're working their ass off, and some times in a packed bar it's just not the most well ventilated place. Maybe place a fan behind the bar somewhere? I sweat a ton but usually if I have air blowing on me it helps out a LOT.",
"I used to sweat like a pig, even when being still. Then went working in a shop for 2.5 years in Los Angeles. After sweating waterfalls through couple summers it just sort of normalized my sweating overall. I don't know if its the conditioning to working in heat or because I became physically better fit but its much better now even a couple years since.",
"I used to sweat like a beast and nothing helped. It stopped almost entirely after i stopped eating dairy..do you have any food intolerances?",
"I sweat like a Mofo. Usually forehead and chest. Never really my back or armpits. \nSometimes I'll enter a friend's apartment or house and for some reason they don't have the aircondition on of it's just weak. I see a fan in the corner of the room and I ask if we can turn it on. I hate it. \n\nA few years back I lost some weight(gained it all back of course) and I noticed I sweat less. Also this summer I've been doing lots of out door sports and notice that I don't sweat a whole lot but I still sweat. It's like I climatized or something. \n\nBy the way. I also shave my head. A slight breeze on a bald head does wonders. Also I keep a hanky in my pocket and take it out anytime I feel I've got a large amount of sweat on my forehead. And if I go to the bathroom I wipe my whole bald head. \n\nSo What's working or what worked for me is losing weight, climatizing, shaving head, and hanky. \n\nSo I guess As a big guy, I sweat cuz my heart works harder so that's probably a reason. And I carry around extra weight. ",
"I sweat a lot too, but mainly when I am running or doing yoga or something like that. I actually invented a product for wiping sweat off my face and just launched a kickstarter for it this week. It's a sweat-absorbing towel you wear around your wrist: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1753336389/sweat-absorbing-wrist-towel-the-wristy ",
"I noticed that if I go without food too long I sweat. If you eat small meals more frequently you will not sweat. Every two hours you should eat a small meal. Also if you smoke you will sweat a lot more",
"I have the same problem, I had been living in cold climate when I was a child and when I moved to a very hot city 1 year ago, my body cannot adjust and I sweat like a waterfall.\nMy roomates told me to apply apple vinegar before bed and wash it off in the morning, I still don't see any improvements though",
"I have the same problem my head just drips sweat, like a waterfall. What I found could be a super quick fix is putting anti persperant on your face. Try to look for one with out odor.",
"I have the same issue with my right arm pit. Only the right, not the left. Makes sense, right? \n\nI use an over the counter roll on antiperspirant called Certain Dri. You put it on at night and it works surprisingly well. ",
"I have sweaty palms kinda like you have a sweaty forehead. I've found its generally a combination of these factors: Stress/Nervousness + Heat/Humidity + Being Lazy (not working out) + Poor diet. When I engage in a few of these behaviors at a time my total sweaty palm time definitely increases. Paying attention to these factors won't be a magic cure, but it is a way to deal with the issue without having to put chemicals in your body and obstruct your natural production of sweat. Also, acclimating to the temperature can certainly be an issue. Going from outside cold into a warm room or an air conditioned room into a sweltering summer day can certainly throw your body for a loop. Lastly, take deep breaths. I find I get sweaty when taking small shallow breaths as opposed to conscious deep breathing. ",
"I have hyperhidrosis, and have done a good bit of research into this. \n\nHealthy tip:\n\nIf you don't already, start working out. I don't know if it's because I give my body a chance to sweat, or because my various bodily systems are working in better harmony, resulting in less of a need to sweat for whatever reason. Doesn't matter. When I work out regularly, I sweat less. \n\nAntiperspirant tip: \n\nThere are antiperspirant wipes that come individually packaged, like wet naps. You wipe the skin the night before, and you won't sweat the next day. These things are heavy duty shit. They're not axe deodorant or degree... They're like pure liquid aluminum zirconium. No sweat gets through. ",
"I have a friend that had issues with extremely sweaty hands. So sweaty that it would ruin paper a he would work on in school (paper would get wet and rip, or ink would get smudged) he had a surgery when he was around 17- they snipped 2 nerves under his armpit. The problem was solved. ",
"I had some problems with sweating in my twenties. Here's what I learned.\n\n - Black clothes so that sweat stains doesn't show as much\n - Lose weight if you are over weight. Every kilo you keep on you is more energy your muscles have to exert when moving around. Energy exerted leads to heat which leads to sweat.\n - Carry an extra shirt so you can swap. I had trouble to stop sweating and cooling down because I became anxious over the fact that I was sweating. The anxiety made me sweat more. It was a vicious circle. But the extra shirt I carried with me calmed me down so much that half the time I didn't need it because I sweated less.\n - Wear cool, airy clothes\n - I tried the super heavy deodorant for my armpits and while it worked it was pretty uncomfortable for me. Moreover, most of my sweat came from my chest and back so it didn't help much.",
"I find rotating a fresh ice pack through my pockets does wonders. Just don't leave it any single pocket too long or you may get frost bite. \nThis lowers your overall temperature, so you body doesn't feel the need to sweat to cool off. ",
"I don't know if someone said this but eat healthy. Less sodium. Better fats and no fast food. I eat health and went on a road trip once where we are whatever. I noticed I was starting to sweat like a pig ",
"I do a lot of strenuous activity at work and sweat a lot from it. What really helps me is staying hydrated by sipping/drinking cold ice water. ",
"Hey OP, I used to sweat a lot. Mainly in my armpits though. Even if it was cold out, I was pitting. I did some research online and found a product called \"SweatBlock\". It's an antiperspirant that comes in the form of a wipe that you use once a week. It worked wonders under my arms and I've read reviews where people have had success on their foreheads as well. It's a little pricey, but well worth the money in my opinion. Here's the link to it on amazon. Good luck!\n\nhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B002PQ8BQM/ref=cm_sw_r_awd_cahDvb00ZV8E3",
"Have your blood pressure checked. It may be coincidental but my SO used to sweat excessively, but when he was put on blood pressure meds it cleared up significantly.",
"Have you ever taken your pulse while standing during a long shift? I've always sweated a lot and I've recently found that I have POTS, aka orthostatic intolerance. Which basically means your heart races up to 130 bpm or more while standing. Check your pulse while you are laying down, then again after you've been standing for like 15 minutes. \n\nI also used to have problems with sweating, and I always ignored everyone who said this, but my problem almost completely went away when I lost like 15 pounds. I was just a little thick, and losing that weight solved the problem for me. ",
"Grab an ice cube and hold it on your upper neck. This helped cool me down considerably when I was a caterer. Also, if your sweating may be anxiety driven, eat clean and cut down on sugary drinks/caffeine. Green Tea is great for this.",
"Go to dermatologist and ask about drysol, you can use it on any sweaty part of your body.. Its perscription",
"Go to a dermatologist. Apparently Botox helps with excessive sweating. I looked at doing it in my armpits when I was youger.",
"Getting in better shape can help, if you're not already. Sometimes it's a sign of a serious problem, like heart or lung issues, if you've ruled out other causes.",
"Get a bandanna and fold it into a headband and wear that. I stops the sweat and can add to your style. Speaking from expirence. ",
"For everyone that's saying to just exercise to stop the sweating.... What if that doesn't help? I've sweat profusely from my head, regardless of what shape I was in. In high school I played tennis 5x/week every year. So 3 hours a day on the court... I was in extremely good shape. But I would still be dripping sweat if I ate something mildly hot, if I played 2 minutes of light ping pong, if I walked around for 5 minutes outside in 70+ weather... And my amount of sweat hasn't changed over the years, despite my fluctuating fitness levels. ",
"Ever thought about going full [80's](http://i.imgur.com/MA40qBi.jpg)? You could start growing your mullet now, then get old cheesy sweatband around the forehead!\n",
"Eat less. Imagine your body is an engine: the more fuel it burns the hotter it gets, and, likewise, the less fuel it burns the cooler it is. I'm not a biologist so I can't tell you the exact science, but it works for me. ",
"Eat cooler foods, more veggies and less neat and dairy. My doctor recommended that for me and the problem reduced significantly.",
"Dude, get several bandanas. Roll them up and tie them around your head. Switch them out a few times a night and no one is the wiser. \n\nI used to work in a restaurant, and the owner would hop on the line sometimes when we were busy. He sweat profusely from his head as well, didn't gross us out too bad unless it got in the food. ",
"Drink lots of ice water.\n\nKeep one or two handkerchiefs with you.\n\nAlso do you wear hats? They can soak up some of the sweat (not all of it but every little bit helps).",
"Drink hot coffee, raising your inner body temperature. Which will decrease the difference in temperature between your body and the outside world.",
"Driclor\nI used to sweat PROFUSELY just sitting down, and this was when I was in peak health (gym 5 days a week..)\n\nDriclor killed it for good, so much more manageable now.\n\nIt's a clinical strength anti perspirent, you use it directly after you shower on dry pits, right before bed. Let it dry in overnight, then use normal anti perspirant spay as usual.\n\nFor the first week, use it every day.\nAfter that you can cut it back to once every few days.\n\nTransformative stuff. It's a roll on, basically aluminium in an alcohol solution.",
"Do you use antiperspirant for your arms? \nI know from anecdotal evidence from friends who wear deodorant that has it, that it makes their armpits less sweaty but ramps up sweat everywhere else. When they switched to using deodorants without antiperspirant, then it evened out a bit more.\n\n\nAlso try to keep drinking very small amounts of water over a period of time, staying better hydrated and ice cold water can help (minimally reduce body temp)\n\n",
"Cold showers and being fully hydrated both help with body temp regulation. Cold showers are the easiest most impactful change you can make to better your life.\n\nAlso keep you house at 78-80 degrees so work temp feels very cold. \n\nAlso switching from antiperspirant to one of those crystal deodorants helped me regulate temp as well.\n\nCombine a couple of the above and bring a handkerchief to wipe sweat if you still get some sweat accumulating.",
"Check if your insurance company covers Botox. Sounds crazy but I got Botox shots in my armpits at the suggestion of my dermatologist and it saved my life. I was changing shirts every few hours before that. Bonus you'll be less sweaty and probably more attractive with Botox on your face. ",
"Cardio. I started running again last summer. As you get in better shape your resting heartrate goes down (I went from 91 to 80) that means your lungs and heart have to work less just to keep you alive or move you around. I'm no longer dripping sweat from two trips of carrying groceries up one flight of stairs. You may also want to have your thyroid checked out.",
"Botox. It's commonly prescribed and administered to people who sweat too much. It paralyzes your sweat glands. My friend had it done (arm pits) and it worked like a charm. Not a permanent fix of course.",
"Ben Nye makes a product called No Sweat that I use sometimes. It's for makeup artists to apply before appliances and makeup. I believe it's just witch hazel really. Goes on with a cotton ball. Works for a few hours. You can reapply but it will dry out your skin if constantly used. Be forewarned though, as with any of these remedies, your body WILL sweat in other places to compensate.\nWorks like a charm and it's cheap too. Hope this helps.\n\n",
"BABY POWDER! No idea why someone hasn't said this already. I'm a girl from the Deep South and it is the only wait to keep from looking disgusting over the summer. Just pour some out onto your counter and dust it all on your scalp, neck, and face. Put as much into your hair as you can without it being visible, it will have the added benefit of giving you nice volume. The powder absorbs the oil, it won't stop you from sweating but it will keep you matte for as long as possible. Hope this helps!",
"Avoiding caffeine helps a lot for me. I notice that I get flushed and sweat way more when I have caffeine, whether it's from energy drinks, coffee, or pills. That may mean you have to modify your behavior a lot to change your sleep schedule, though.",
"Arrid XtraXtra Dry.\n\nI used to use it to prevent blistering on ruckmarches. Douse your feet in them before putting on your sock.\n\nMost people use deodorant which doesn't prevent you from sweating, but makes you smell nicer.\n\nArrid is an anti-perspirant.\n\nAnd it's a spray, so you can coat your body in it.\n\nYou'll be a tad hotter, though.\n\nYou can use it on your forehead and it will work. Just close your eyes.",
"Aren't we missing the obvious: losing some weight will significantly improve your sweating issues as your surface to volume ration improves. I weighed 235 lbs when I was still playing rugby and sweated like a pig. Now I'm down to 200 and it is a lot better.\nWhat also helped me is consuming less caffeine. Energy drinks and coffee really make you get a sweat on (or ripped fuel for that). \n",
"Are some people just more genetically prone to sweating, and are some people more prone to having stinky sweat than others?\n\nI am not prone to sweat much, and even if its a hot day I don't get the under-arm blotches. Maybe on my back or shoulders if I sweat while wearing a jacket, but never so much that I've used antiperspirant.\n\nOn the other hand there was a guy I lived with who sweat like crazy and even though he was an avid runner, was much thinner than me, ate better than me, but stunk like crazy when he'd sweat.\n\nI can go up to two days without any product under my arm before any discernible odour will arise.\n\n",
"AlCl Aluminiumchloried\n\nIt is in most deos but in a a very small percentage.\nLet your pharmacist make you a 5-20% solution. \nBut reasearch a little before.",
"A fan would probably help a lot. It doesn't have to be big. A small quiet one on the floor pointed up that you stand over when you are getting hot. [Something like this](http://www.walmart.com/ip/Honeywell-Turbo-Force-Air-Circulator-Fan-HT-900-WMT/16503230) on low.",
"1. Spend more time active in hot weather. Your body adapts quite nicely once it gets used to something.\n\n\n2. Lose weight."
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"How to ask all types of co-worker for their names. I recently started an internship surrounded by colleagues, higher-ups, reception staff, catering staff and security.\n\nWorking life would go much smoother if every thank, attention grab, address, etc was personal.\n\nI can imagine that each type of co-worker requires a different method of name-getting and I want to know all kinds.\n\nAlso, how to ask a name when I have already spoken to them for the first weeks without using it.\n\nAnd if the answer is simply asking \"what's your name?\", what do I say before and after to make it sound natural?",
"How to ask all types of co-worker for their names. I recently started an internship surrounded by colleagues, higher-ups, reception staff, catering staff and security.\n\nWorking life would go much smoother if every thank, attention grab, address, etc was personal.\n\nI can imagine that each type of co-worker requires a different method of name-getting and I want to know all kinds.\n\nAlso, how to ask a name when I have already spoken to them for the first weeks without using it.\n\nAnd if the answer is simply asking \"what's your name?\", what do I say before and after to make it sound natural?",
"How to ask all types of co-worker for their names. I recently started an internship surrounded by colleagues, higher-ups, reception staff, catering staff and security.\n\nWorking life would go much smoother if every thank, attention grab, address, etc was personal.\n\nI can imagine that each type of co-worker requires a different method of name-getting and I want to know all kinds.\n\nAlso, how to ask a name when I have already spoken to them for the first weeks without using it.\n\nAnd if the answer is simply asking \"what's your name?\", what do I say before and after to make it sound natural?"
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"Ask them to spell it... Then when they say B-O-B you can laugh a bit and say, oh I know your first name! I meant your last name.",
"Ash you ate really bad with names, people tend to be a bit more forgiving when you are polite about it, SS for catering staff, generalise them by calling them all chef to start, shows you respect them and they will respect you back ",
"\"What's your name again?\"\n\nThen you can follow with a bunch of different \"Dammit, I can't believe I forgot it. My nephew has the same name\" or \"Is that the same name you gave me last time I asked?\" or \"Thanks, sorry about that. I'm < >.\" or \"Don't be offended if I ask you again, prosopagnosia is a hell of a thing.\""
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"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? ",
"Theme parks. How to make the most of your visit? Title really says it all, how can I make the most of my trip to a theme park? "
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"1. Research which rides you want to go on/what you want to see\n2. Find these attractions on a map. Circle/highlight them (in advance)\n3. Get to the park when it first opens. Wait in the entry line if you need to. This will decrease the amount of people potentially in line ahead of you on the rides.\n4.When you get to the park go to the ride/attraction that's the FARTHEST from the entry gates\n5. Work your way to the front of the park\n6. Re visit whatever you like, but budget time because the wait times will be significantly larger than previously\n\n\nWhere are you going? Parks with \"Fast Passes\" or the like (Disney, universal, islands of adventure) will allow you to get a ticket to skip the line (kind of), so you should stop and get these fast passes before you go on the farthest ride. Some parks, like Disney, will only allow one fast pass at a time though.",
"Bring your own water and snacks too. The prices are silly in the parks. Also wear the most comfortable clothing you own. Being uncomfortable in line makes a person super cranky. ",
"If you're taking kids with you take a picture of them as you get to the park. Make sure you get them in head to toe so if the worst happens and they get lost immediately you can always show the picture to park security so they can get a good description out quickly.\n\nTry to figure out what gets the longest queues and go there first. Islands of adventure's harry potter land will fill up within an hour or of the park opening. The big ride, (I forget the name) honestly goes from closed to a three hour queue within about 10 minutes.",
"Been a while since I've been to any other parks, but at Disney, never underestimate the power of getting there early and staying late. I recommend a midday break to ensure you have the energy to stay until the park closes.",
"Wear shoes that you can be comfortable in all day (standing/walking)\n\nEat before you go in. Food prices inside will be outrageous. \n\nMost visitors will go for the fastest and highest rides first. If you do that all of the other rides will seem boring. Go from the low thrill rides then work your way up. \n \nIf you want to buy souvenirs, buy them on the way out so you are not burdened by them all day.\n",
"* Get there early and immediately head to the very back of the park so you can ride those rides unmolested and in the very front (if thats your sort of thing).\n* Bring your own food in a cooler and at lunch go back to your car to have a little parking lot picnic (some places even have little covered picnic table areas to do this at)\n* Comfortable shoes are an absolute must.\n* If the park has water features, you might want to wear your bathing suit. Worst feeling is walking around with soaked shorts/underwear and often times leads to chafing. \n* Liquor is much better than beer in terms of efficiency and filling of stomach. You can take a few shots in the parking lot and be alright to go ride some rides. You can't bong 3 beers and then go ride rides with a full stomach of beer. ",
"Go on a Tuesday, take a day off if you have to, and make sure it doesn't coincide with any school-day-off holidays. Save up some money to blow on food (read: CHURROS). You only go once a year, right? Set yourself up to enjoy every bit of it.\n\nI personally only ride like 4 fuckin awesome rides, then lunch, then go to the zoo / whatever else they have attached.\n\nThen wander around drinking beer and play little games and eat carnival food and take pictures.",
"Fast passes can vary quite a bit depending on what park you're visiting. \n\nAt Walt Disney world in Orlando, fast passes are free to all guests and you can set up three in advance, then book more once you have used them. Guests staying at a Disney hotel have the earliest access to book fastpasses, but everyone now has the opportunity to book in advance. Disney has the best system and you can really beat the crowds if you pick the right attractions at the right times. They completely overhauled the way they do fastpasses recently and adjustments are made from time to time, your experience may differ.\n\nAt Disneyland and Disney's California Adventure, they still use what's referred to at the \"legacy\" Fastpass system. Also free to all guests. You put your park ticket in a machine at the attraction and it spits out a pass with a return window in which you may experience the attraction without waiting. \n\nAt Universal Orlando, guests staying at all but one of the on site hotels get a type of fast pass. You can also purchase them for an additional $30-$40. You can use it to skip the line one time at each participating attraction.\n\nAt cedar point and kings island they sell fast passes on top of the price of admission. One for $60 and one for $80. The $80 puts you at the front of the line for every ride that matters. The $60 one will put you at the front of the line for all but the two most popular (newest) rides. That's a hefty one day ticket price, $100-$130, not including parking or food. I have a friend who just did the $80 fast pass at cedar point and loved it.\n\nThe first and last two hours of park operation are usually the slowest. It's the best time to visit \"headliner\" attractions.",
"A few simple rules I make\n\n* Watch youtube videos of rides, research on websites, and google [theme park name] discounts. Know what you are getting into\n* Make a list from rides you really want to go on down to rides you dont care about. \n* Get there before the park opens. My experience has been that the parking lot opens before the park itself opens. This allows you more time for the theme park and less time getting ready\n* The moment you go in go straight for the ride you want. \n* A similar advice to the one above but completely seperate would be to run to all the rides that you want to go on that are located furthest away from the entrance. Less people, shorter line, can ride it again. \n* Don't go on the ride that just opened. The line will be horrendously long; it'll still be there next year with a shorter line. Instead go on the other rides, most park attendees came for that ride so they will be going there first leaving all the other rides with short lines. \n* Eat before you go into the park and try to smuggle in some snacks in your pockets. There should be water fountains so it will be fine.\n* Related to above. Eat until 80% full, dont go on a ride full... just dont. \n\ndiclaimer: These are general rules I personally follow. My advice on lines and riding the rides you want are general advice and might not work because of the human factor. ",
"It depends. Are you talking something relatively small like six flags? Or larger scale like Disney World, Universal, etc.? I'll try to tailor my advice to apply to both, but bigger parks have a few other notes.\n\nArguably the most valuable theme park advice I can give: plan, plan Plan. Get maps and show schedules ahead of time if you can, and a list of all attractions. Find out what you absolutely want to do, make a prioritized list of things you want to see/do. You'll want to note show times for whatever shows you want to see. Try to work out a schedule so you know what area of the park you'll be in at what times for shows, and you can plan your rides around that. Then mark them on a map, both show venues and rides. Then prioritize what rides you absolutely want to go on, and balance this list with one based on how popular they are. If you're not sure, googling \"popular attractions at (insert theme park)\" or \"longest wait times at (insert theme park)\" should give you some idea. Once you've got a list banged out, find them on a map and plan to start with the most popular ones, before lines get started. Try to knock those out as soon as you can. Sometimes you can ride them twice in a row without waiting if you get there soon enough (my gf and I did exp",
"Disney World:\n\nPlan your shit way in advance. If you want to eat at a restaurant there, book the reservation 6 months out, particularly for Epcot. Some restaurants can be gotten even Day Of but never the one you want.\n\nAll fast passes are online and advance booked now. So if you want to get a few fast passes for your favorite rides, you need to reserve them a few days ahead, on the Day Of you won't be able to get one at all or the times will be stupid. (I hate this system, the old \"pick it up as you pass by\" system was optimal IMO.)\n\nMost hotels have park shuttles, use them. Parking is $15 at the park, if you are already staying at a hotel, take the shuttle. Note this may add another 30 minutes to get into the park, but after a long day at the park not having to navigate out and back to a hotel can be nice.\n",
"A lot has already been covered, but ill throw my 2 cents in.\n\n* Work your way up from low thrill to high thrill.\n* Use discretion with water rides. Wearing soaked shoes all day can be awful. At the end of the day my feet have gotten so pruned and gross, i have to peel my sock off. It also made the ride home quite a bit stinkier.\n* On the subject of shoes, wear something comfortable. You could be walking miles over the day. I would not recomend flip flops unless you plan on going on a lot of water rides. \n* Try to keep items to a minimum. I would bring only a phone and some money. Other loose items can be uncomfortable, and having to put them in the cubby at every ride can be a nuisance and unsafe. This goes for hats, glasses, and flip flops too. If you cant stand to be with out a hat or shades, bring a cheap pair you wouldn't mind getting lost, damaged, or stolen.\n* Remember, by law they have to provide water for free. A nice free cup of ice water will beat the luke warm water fountains, and 5 dollar sodas any day.\n* As others have said, bring your own food if possible. as /u/dewey2100 had said parking lot picnics are good, and many places will have areas specifically for that. Its also a good time for a mid-day break, and for your group to regather.\n",
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"If you can get a fast pass for like double the price of a normal ticket, then under most circumstances i'd recommend getting that. Unless you know the queues aren't going to be too bad for some reason.",
"I'm assuming you're referring to the theme parks that are typically travel destinations, like Disney, Universal, etc. For local/small theme parks, some of this advice still applies, but is probably somewhat less relevant. \n\n* If at all possible, go at off-peak times. I went to Disney World the week after Thanksgiving and it was incredible. (Relatively) short lines, and the weather was pleasant – sunny and mild. Also, they were offering massive discounts to fill their resorts. We could have stayed in a pretty swank monorail property for the same price as a room in the cheapest resort during the summer.\n* Avoid going during the summer holiday season. It's tempting, but the prices will be at their highest, the lines will be the longest, the weather will be brutally hot and humid, and it will rain most afternoons (in Florida/the south).\n* If you *have* to go during the summer, plan for an afternoon siesta in your hotel room. The kids can nap/recharge and you can read or watch TV or whatever you do to relax. Plan to go out again once temperatures have come down a bit and your kids aren't on the edge of a tantrum.\n* Arrive when/before the park opens, because most people are \"on vacation\" and not on their game enough to get there before 8/9am. This is especially important if you want to avoid the heat. \n* Figure out which rides you want to do (well in advance) and which have the longest lines. Pick some to FastPass (or whatever the park's system is for a reserved time) and then go to one or two right at opening time before the line builds fully. \n* Stay enough days so you can do everything you want to do without having to absolutely jam every day from 7am to 10pm. If you can't do that, just accept that you will have to skip a few things and save yourself the exhaustion.\n* Wear proper shoes, and if you don't walk much, consider doing a bit of walking before the trip. I walk to work every day. At Disney World, I wore flip-flops the first day and screwed up my feet so badly I could barely walk for the rest of the trip.\n* Stay hydrated and fed by bringing reusable water bottles and snacks. You don't want to end up having heat exhaustion or getting hangry.\n* Suncream/sunscreen, even in winter. You'll be exposed to the sun a lot, and no one wants skin cancer.",
"Female here (although this applies to all genders):\n\nTo be the most comfy, plan ahead to get soaked and you will be fine :) never wear jeans. I have a two piece bathing suit I only use for waterparks/theme parks (if going swimming I wear a one piece), then over it I wear a cotton tank top and shorts that are made of track suit material and flip flops. No socks, nothing that is terrible to sit in wet. That way you are going to be fine if you decide to go on a water ride, and you don't have to be pissy either about it :) I don't go with people anymore that refuse to wear anything but jeans because they are big downers when we get there. They are usually the same people that refuse to put their Cell phone in a locker so they can go on water rides, or people that say they go on every ride but then wimp out for half of the things throughout the day. \n\nI agree about snacks, I make a picnic lunch and go out to my car halfway throughout the day, although I only do that at my local park. If I was going to a bigger place like Universal Orlando, I would go with the meal ticket that keys you eat all day - research the Park you are going to. Things like meal passes are going to be way cheaper if it is somewhere you flew to vs. One that is near your house and you just make a day trip. ",
"Step uno: Find some papers that look like regular cigarette papers.\n\nStep 2: Get one of those little $20 rolling machines and pack your weed in those.\n\nStep C: Keep those in your belt line when entering the park. Smoke one while walking to each ride- preferably around cigarette smokers. Don't stand still.",
"If you're travelling alone, or in a party and are happy to ride separately, look for a single rider queue. It's often much shorter than the normal queue, but you don't get to choose who you ride with.",
"Go on an \"ugly\" day where there is a chance of rain. I went to six flags the other day and was able to get on over 15 rides. My longest wait for a ride was ten minutes. It was beautiful. ",
"By not going. There's a whole world out there to see so why waste time and money at a stupid tourist trap. Go to Europe instead. ",
"Be at the gate when the park opens, then go to the left when you get in. You'll be amazed at how few people you'll have to deal with. ",
"Go on those corporate sponsored days when only friends and family of their employees can go. You get a great discount and only one third the crowd to fight all day long.",
"Go on Superbowl Sunday, it'll be empty.\n\nIf you get there right when the park opens, walk all the way to the back and make your way forward - everyone else'll start at the front and work their way back.",
"most theme parks are surrounded by actual cities with interesting things and people to see, which can easily be cheaper and more fun"
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"How can I get myself in a car with no money, bad credit, but a decent guaranteed income? I want to try and get inside something reliable, and desperately need a car. Due to poor life choices, I have terrible cr",
"How can I get myself in a car with no money, bad credit, but a decent guaranteed income? I want to try and get inside something reliable, and desperately need a car. Due to poor life choices, I have terrible cr",
"How can I get myself in a car with no money, bad credit, but a decent guaranteed income? I want to try and get inside something reliable, and desperately need a car. Due to poor life choices, I have terrible cr",
"How can I get myself in a car with no money, bad credit, but a decent guaranteed income? I want to try and get inside something reliable, and desperately need a car. Due to poor life choices, I have terrible cr",
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"Look Into Veterans loan programs. I'm not sure what's available specificly for cars, but I'd assume you could find something that will work.",
"BUY HERE. PAY HERE. NO CR",
"Three options I would explore:\n\nUsed car: Save up a bit and just go find a cheap used car somewhere and pay cash. Obviously not helpful if on time crunch. You can finance some used cars, but they charge you hella interest at used car lots.\n\nPublic Transportation: Idk how disabled you may be but public transportation is fairly cheap depending where you live and your commutes.\n\nLease a new car: Just go lease a brand new car for a couple years. Usually fairly cheap and only thing you have to really worry about is not damaging it severely.\n\nObviously these are just quick simple explanations, so do some more looking into these options and see what fits your situation the best.",
"Go to a new car lot and ask if they have anything used, make your payments ontime, refinance for a better interest rate after maybe six months of paying ontime, after you pay off enough or all of the car trade it in towards something new that you actually want.",
"Save cash, buy used durable vehicle. Get liability insurance only. Drive defensively. No car pymt here since 2002 using that formula, and I'm one of the richest poor people around.",
"If you're close to a military base see if they have a \"Lemon Lot\". People that are deploying or getting out are willing to sell or just transfer the title most of the time.",
"If you have decent income, save for a large enough down payment. If you can do that they won't care too much about your cr"
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"How to easily clean a charcoal grill and discard the ashes after use? As Summer approaches (in my hemisphere) it's time to fire up the charcoal grill. and I love the flavor it imparts to food, but cleanup is kind of a nightmare. With a gas grill I can crank it up to 11 and burn the grate clean, but with charcoal that's not an option... and is there any way to discard the ashes quickly and cleanly? \n\nThanks!",
"How to easily clean a charcoal grill and discard the ashes after use? As Summer approaches (in my hemisphere) it's time to fire up the charcoal grill. and I love the flavor it imparts to food, but cleanup is kind of a nightmare. With a gas grill I can crank it up to 11 and burn the grate clean, but with charcoal that's not an option... and is there any way to discard the ashes quickly and cleanly? \n\nThanks!",
"How to easily clean a charcoal grill and discard the ashes after use? As Summer approaches (in my hemisphere) it's time to fire up the charcoal grill. and I love the flavor it imparts to food, but cleanup is kind of a nightmare. With a gas grill I can crank it up to 11 and burn the grate clean, but with charcoal that's not an option... and is there any way to discard the ashes quickly and cleanly? \n\nThanks!"
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"Perhaps an [aluminium baking sheet](http://i01.i.aliimg.com/photo/v0/399420059/disposable_baking_pan.jpg) will do the trick.\n\nTo make cleaning the grill easy and to prevent meat from getting stuck, simply coat the grill while the charcoal is heating up in a bit of oil (apply using a basting brush or similar).\n\nIn South Africa the important part of our way of charcoal bbq is to not clean the grill perfectly, steel brush some newspaper to wipe off excess residue and it's good to go, the heat will kill off any germs staying behind.",
"Is this not what the wire grill brush is for? I totally use it for this purpose and it does a great job.",
"Clean the grill (after you have a fire burning) before and after you put food on. Wipe the grill with an oiled (veggie oil) rag and some tongs after you do. Your grill will be a lot cleaner. \n\nAs for discarded ash, I think you can just throw it away after it cools. "
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"looking to beat robo callers Hi LPT, I'm so fed up of getting robo calls. I get several a day. I have tried the do not call list, I have tried not answering any unknown callers, I've tried always answering but being muted, so that the robot caller hears nothing and everntually gives us thinking its an inactive line, but nothing stops them. \n\n\nI want an app or service that lets me set an automated message that all callers will hear, something like \"Hi, you've reached u/jkmoule, please press 1 to speak to them\". If the caller presses 1, my phone will ring and I can pick up, otherwise nothing happens and the robo call doesnt fill up my voicemail inbox or bother me with calls. \n\n\nIn theory it sounds so simple, and it should weed out basically all robot callers, yet I can't seem to find anything on the android app store. I have a galaxy s20 phone. Does anyone know a service or app that lets me set this simple answering procedure?",
"looking to beat robo callers Hi LPT, I'm so fed up of getting robo calls. I get several a day. I have tried the do not call list, I have tried not answering any unknown callers, I've tried always answering but being muted, so that the robot caller hears nothing and everntually gives us thinking its an inactive line, but nothing stops them. \n\n\nI want an app or service that lets me set an automated message that all callers will hear, something like \"Hi, you've reached u/jkmoule, please press 1 to speak to them\". If the caller presses 1, my phone will ring and I can pick up, otherwise nothing happens and the robo call doesnt fill up my voicemail inbox or bother me with calls. \n\n\nIn theory it sounds so simple, and it should weed out basically all robot callers, yet I can't seem to find anything on the android app store. I have a galaxy s20 phone. Does anyone know a service or app that lets me set this simple answering procedure?",
"looking to beat robo callers Hi LPT, I'm so fed up of getting robo calls. I get several a day. I have tried the do not call list, I have tried not answering any unknown callers, I've tried always answering but being muted, so that the robot caller hears nothing and everntually gives us thinking its an inactive line, but nothing stops them. \n\n\nI want an app or service that lets me set an automated message that all callers will hear, something like \"Hi, you've reached u/jkmoule, please press 1 to speak to them\". If the caller presses 1, my phone will ring and I can pick up, otherwise nothing happens and the robo call doesnt fill up my voicemail inbox or bother me with calls. \n\n\nIn theory it sounds so simple, and it should weed out basically all robot callers, yet I can't seem to find anything on the android app store. I have a galaxy s20 phone. Does anyone know a service or app that lets me set this simple answering procedure?",
"looking to beat robo callers Hi LPT, I'm so fed up of getting robo calls. I get several a day. I have tried the do not call list, I have tried not answering any unknown callers, I've tried always answering but being muted, so that the robot caller hears nothing and everntually gives us thinking its an inactive line, but nothing stops them. \n\n\nI want an app or service that lets me set an automated message that all callers will hear, something like \"Hi, you've reached u/jkmoule, please press 1 to speak to them\". If the caller presses 1, my phone will ring and I can pick up, otherwise nothing happens and the robo call doesnt fill up my voicemail inbox or bother me with calls. \n\n\nIn theory it sounds so simple, and it should weed out basically all robot callers, yet I can't seem to find anything on the android app store. I have a galaxy s20 phone. Does anyone know a service or app that lets me set this simple answering procedure?",
"looking to beat robo callers Hi LPT, I'm so fed up of getting robo calls. I get several a day. I have tried the do not call list, I have tried not answering any unknown callers, I've tried always answering but being muted, so that the robot caller hears nothing and everntually gives us thinking its an inactive line, but nothing stops them. \n\n\nI want an app or service that lets me set an automated message that all callers will hear, something like \"Hi, you've reached u/jkmoule, please press 1 to speak to them\". If the caller presses 1, my phone will ring and I can pick up, otherwise nothing happens and the robo call doesnt fill up my voicemail inbox or bother me with calls. \n\n\nIn theory it sounds so simple, and it should weed out basically all robot callers, yet I can't seem to find anything on the android app store. I have a galaxy s20 phone. Does anyone know a service or app that lets me set this simple answering procedure?",
"looking to beat robo callers Hi LPT, I'm so fed up of getting robo calls. I get several a day. I have tried the do not call list, I have tried not answering any unknown callers, I've tried always answering but being muted, so that the robot caller hears nothing and everntually gives us thinking its an inactive line, but nothing stops them. \n\n\nI want an app or service that lets me set an automated message that all callers will hear, something like \"Hi, you've reached u/jkmoule, please press 1 to speak to them\". If the caller presses 1, my phone will ring and I can pick up, otherwise nothing happens and the robo call doesnt fill up my voicemail inbox or bother me with calls. \n\n\nIn theory it sounds so simple, and it should weed out basically all robot callers, yet I can't seem to find anything on the android app store. I have a galaxy s20 phone. Does anyone know a service or app that lets me set this simple answering procedure?"
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"Good luck. At&t and the rest make so much money from them that they will never stop it. All carriers in the US earn a fee from them as well as they get a fee from you. Rest of the world the person calling pays for the call but both sides of the call pay here. \n\nThis has to be the worst for contractors who rely on unknown calls for business. I find that you cannot win but if everyone blocks the number and deletes that call, they only have limited numbers and by doing this you will find the robo blockers can at least help others. I let unknown numbers go to voicemail as they never leave a message, legit callers will if they want something. \n\nOne night I was bored. I answered the call and was derogatory towards the persons mother and hung up. He punished me by adding my number to a list that called me every two minutes for two hours. I was bored, so I let them ring off to voice mail. Then spent time blocking and deleting. Since then the call volume dropped drastically for me. Must have used up all their numbers.",
"It may not work any more but once upon a time I set the out of service SIT tone at the start of my outgoing voicemail message. If a person was calling they heard the tones and then me telling them to ignore the tones and leave a message. But robo callers hear the tones and marked the number as out of service so they would stop trying it. \n\nAlas a product came out a bunch of years ago that added exactly this to your phone line. It would play the tones and then connect the call thru to your phone. As a result I think a lot of the robo dialers now just ignore the tones. They are all doing computerized dialing with voice over IP anyway and nearly all are fly by night scams. It is just easier and likely cheaper for them now to keep dialing even out of service numbers. \n\nSome day I will get around to trying it again on my VM message and see if it makes a difference.",
"I used to have the same problem with scam call centers. What I used to do was go through with the call until I got a live person. Then I’d try to waste as much time as I could with them. I’d do this every single time they’d try to call me. It got to the point where they were so fed up with trying to call me that I guess they programmed their robocaller to skip my number, because I’d get a call from what would be a scam call center but it would only ring once and the call would drop 😂",
"I just remembered a gadget they sold through Sharper Image back in the 80s.. it worked on landlines, but it was a gadget that asked for a code before a call would let your phone ring. If I remember the ad right it would ask a caller to enter a fox code.. an app that stopped calls from ringing through until an additional code was entered would be absolutely brilliant. \n\nDO YOU WANNA DEVELOP AN APP?",
"I believe this is what you're looking for:\n \nhttps://jollyrogertelephone.com/\n\nAlthough my Nokia/android phone gives me the option to screen calls I don't recognize, which has actually been really handy. The option pops up when I get the call, answer, decline, or screen, and I can read what they tell the Google robot on my screen. Looks like this is a guide on turning it on.\n\nhttps://support.google.com/phoneapp/answer/9118387?hl=en",
"Just so happens you have a Samsung. Samsung have already thought the problem through and it's built in!!. Use it to it's full potential. Samsung phones have a Favorite List that allows chosen callers to ring at all times. This is a very powerful feature in stopping nuisance calls. Put everyone you want to be able to call on your Favorites List. This is a simple, two click process. \n\nNow leave a message in your voice mail informing callers to leave a message about what they want to discuss and you will call them back.\n\nTurn on Samsung's Fraud Call Detection. Once these are detected block these numbers.\n\nNow turn on Do Not Disturb. This is the magic bit. Your chosen Contacts can communicate as normal but everyone else gets your voice mail. You can check them whenever.\n\nI used to get hassled regularly but now get maybe one a fortnight and that gets stopped. Never had a bot call leave a message. Even if I had, it would never go anywhere.\n\nFurther anybody trying to fuck these guys are fucking themselves. Their phone numbers go into a data base showing their number is active. This means even more calls."
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"How to hold a texting conversation? I can hold a conversation well in person, but when it comes to texting I cannot do it well. I think it's partially because in an awkward silence face to face I'd make a joke of some sort that would just be weird if I texted it. Also, I don't want to ask super long, open-ended questions because no one wants to reply that much in a text, and I quickly run out of conversation topics.",
"How to hold a texting conversation? I can hold a conversation well in person, but when it comes to texting I cannot do it well. I think it's partially because in an awkward silence face to face I'd make a joke of some sort that would just be weird if I texted it. Also, I don't want to ask super long, open-ended questions because no one wants to reply that much in a text, and I quickly run out of conversation topics.",
"How to hold a texting conversation? I can hold a conversation well in person, but when it comes to texting I cannot do it well. I think it's partially because in an awkward silence face to face I'd make a joke of some sort that would just be weird if I texted it. Also, I don't want to ask super long, open-ended questions because no one wants to reply that much in a text, and I quickly run out of conversation topics."
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"I'm assuming you're asking this question in regards to members of the opposite sex. Tbh if that's the case there's a few rules to follow: keep messages roughly the same length (as the one they sent), just focus on getting to meet Irl, and keep the conversation as short as possible. It's really easy to miscommunicate over text so it's better to save the small talk. Call if they really want to talk.\n\nIf you're just talking about friends then it's nothing really to sweat, just again a few rules: how would I react if they texted me this?, keep messages roughly the same length, and idk just talk about what you would normally talk about if you're already friends.\n\nTldr keep messages the same length, and avoid small talk over texting.",
"Avoid phrases like \"Yeah, no kidding\" or \"That's cool\". These are text convo stoppers for sure; while you may actually mean that it's really cool, what the other person reads is quite dismissive.\n\nTry always converting a response into something that gets another response. Try asking open ended questions, or something that causes the other person to think.\n\nThe reason: Texting allows you to think about responses. This also doesn't allow implications that are normally apparent, like conversation flow carrying main topics, in spoken conversations. A rapid verbal exchange can allow each member a quick spurt that contributes to the overall topic at hand. Texts, however, should be thought of as self-contained and complete thoughts, independent of other texts, but still related. Basically, you can't treat a text conversation exactly like a spoken.",
"If this is with a SO you have to do the circle of life for each text.\n\nAcknowledge what he/she said -> Talk about said topic/comment -> Send new comment/question -> Wait for response -> Acknowledge what he/she said....etc etc.\n\n\nExample:\nGirlfriend: Want to go camping in August?\n\n\n**Bad Response**: Hm. *What time are you off work today?* (Here you are thinking you can just talk about camping in person, but he/she doesn't know that. It is a common mistake in texting to leave information assumed).\n\n\n**Good Response**: *Yea let me look into my schedule in August. We can chat more about it after work. How does Pizza sound for dinner?* (Acknowledge, discussed further, new question)"
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"How can I better control music/dialogue volume on my laptop when watching movies? I'm sick of having to patrol my volume the whole movie. I need my volume up enough so I can hear dialogue but I need it low enough so that when there is high action scenes or loud music I don't wake up the whole town.\n\nIs there a certain way I can have my volume setting so that it does not go over a certain volume where I would still be able to hear what they are saying?\n\nI'm sure others would be interested in this too so that's why I posted it.",
"How can I better control music/dialogue volume on my laptop when watching movies? I'm sick of having to patrol my volume the whole movie. I need my volume up enough so I can hear dialogue but I need it low enough so that when there is high action scenes or loud music I don't wake up the whole town.\n\nIs there a certain way I can have my volume setting so that it does not go over a certain volume where I would still be able to hear what they are saying?\n\nI'm sure others would be interested in this too so that's why I posted it.",
"How can I better control music/dialogue volume on my laptop when watching movies? I'm sick of having to patrol my volume the whole movie. I need my volume up enough so I can hear dialogue but I need it low enough so that when there is high action scenes or loud music I don't wake up the whole town.\n\nIs there a certain way I can have my volume setting so that it does not go over a certain volume where I would still be able to hear what they are saying?\n\nI'm sure others would be interested in this too so that's why I posted it."
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"You'll need a media player with a compressor. The best thing to do is just download a compressor plugin for whatever media player you're using",
"VLC also has a built in \"audio normalization\" feature, which adjusts the volume automatically so you don't have to patrol it. [link](http://maketecheasier.com/5-things-you-didnt-know-vlc-could-do/2010/05/06) ",
"Find a release version of Boxee (kind of hard to find as its no longer supported) then use either and Android or Iphone to download an app called boxee remote\n...\nProfit"
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"How do I get over the fear of losing my vision someday? I'm 18 and a hypochondriac. I've gotten ocular migraines which means that my vision goes all weird and a little blurry for about 10-15 minutes and then returns to normal. This happened to me about 2 years ago and 3 months ago. \n\nOcular migraines will not cause vision loss and I do have 20/20 vision at the moment. But I'm worried that it's not actually an ocular migraine and something else that is more rare and serious since I know that these symptoms can overlap, even with minor strokes.\n\nThis all started when it was confirmed that I have mild hearing loss in my right ear and now I'm terrified that it's either going to get worse or I will start to lose my sight someday.\n\nThis is a weird and unusual request I know, but I need some help. Thank you for reading.",
"How do I get over the fear of losing my vision someday? I'm 18 and a hypochondriac. I've gotten ocular migraines which means that my vision goes all weird and a little blurry for about 10-15 minutes and then returns to normal. This happened to me about 2 years ago and 3 months ago. \n\nOcular migraines will not cause vision loss and I do have 20/20 vision at the moment. But I'm worried that it's not actually an ocular migraine and something else that is more rare and serious since I know that these symptoms can overlap, even with minor strokes.\n\nThis all started when it was confirmed that I have mild hearing loss in my right ear and now I'm terrified that it's either going to get worse or I will start to lose my sight someday.\n\nThis is a weird and unusual request I know, but I need some help. Thank you for reading.",
"How do I get over the fear of losing my vision someday? I'm 18 and a hypochondriac. I've gotten ocular migraines which means that my vision goes all weird and a little blurry for about 10-15 minutes and then returns to normal. This happened to me about 2 years ago and 3 months ago. \n\nOcular migraines will not cause vision loss and I do have 20/20 vision at the moment. But I'm worried that it's not actually an ocular migraine and something else that is more rare and serious since I know that these symptoms can overlap, even with minor strokes.\n\nThis all started when it was confirmed that I have mild hearing loss in my right ear and now I'm terrified that it's either going to get worse or I will start to lose my sight someday.\n\nThis is a weird and unusual request I know, but I need some help. Thank you for reading.",
"How do I get over the fear of losing my vision someday? I'm 18 and a hypochondriac. I've gotten ocular migraines which means that my vision goes all weird and a little blurry for about 10-15 minutes and then returns to normal. This happened to me about 2 years ago and 3 months ago. \n\nOcular migraines will not cause vision loss and I do have 20/20 vision at the moment. But I'm worried that it's not actually an ocular migraine and something else that is more rare and serious since I know that these symptoms can overlap, even with minor strokes.\n\nThis all started when it was confirmed that I have mild hearing loss in my right ear and now I'm terrified that it's either going to get worse or I will start to lose my sight someday.\n\nThis is a weird and unusual request I know, but I need some help. Thank you for reading."
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"If you're worried that it's something else, tell your doctor that.\n\nEither they will have tested you for other conditions that can cause the temporary vision loss and can reassure you by discussing their findings, or can potentially request some further investigations to help reassure you.\n\nIf this has already happened I'd suggest getting a referral to a psychologist to discuss why you're feeling this way and develop strategies to deal with it.",
"You will only get over this fear by dealing with the bigger issue at hand, the fact that you’re a hypochondriac. You can go to the doc and find out that this is fine, but something else will come up. ",
"Reddit is great platform but certainly not qualified for medical, vision, dental advise or recommendation. Please see your general physician first. If you do not have health insurance, there are county health Care facilities. \nIf you are not in USA, other countries have various health organizations. ",
"Go to an ophtamologist and get your eyes checked. If you dont they'll probably melt out of your head in a week. Also, stop masturbating. God is watching."
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"How can I improve myself socially in the next two weeks Hey, so now the winter holidays have rolled in which means I have two weeks of from school (am 19). \n\nI anchor my well being on a thing/person and when I don't get access to it I crumble, basically. \n\nI formulated it vaguly as I think I'm at least not the only one that does this.\n\nI wanted to dedicate the next two weeks in how I can become more socially confident with the thoughts that are in my head (and therfore to speak them) and how I can be more emotionally reliable and not always flip flop between sad, okay and sad.\n\nThanks in andvance.",
"How can I improve myself socially in the next two weeks Hey, so now the winter holidays have rolled in which means I have two weeks of from school (am 19). \n\nI anchor my well being on a thing/person and when I don't get access to it I crumble, basically. \n\nI formulated it vaguly as I think I'm at least not the only one that does this.\n\nI wanted to dedicate the next two weeks in how I can become more socially confident with the thoughts that are in my head (and therfore to speak them) and how I can be more emotionally reliable and not always flip flop between sad, okay and sad.\n\nThanks in andvance.",
"How can I improve myself socially in the next two weeks Hey, so now the winter holidays have rolled in which means I have two weeks of from school (am 19). \n\nI anchor my well being on a thing/person and when I don't get access to it I crumble, basically. \n\nI formulated it vaguly as I think I'm at least not the only one that does this.\n\nI wanted to dedicate the next two weeks in how I can become more socially confident with the thoughts that are in my head (and therfore to speak them) and how I can be more emotionally reliable and not always flip flop between sad, okay and sad.\n\nThanks in andvance.",
"How can I improve myself socially in the next two weeks Hey, so now the winter holidays have rolled in which means I have two weeks of from school (am 19). \n\nI anchor my well being on a thing/person and when I don't get access to it I crumble, basically. \n\nI formulated it vaguly as I think I'm at least not the only one that does this.\n\nI wanted to dedicate the next two weeks in how I can become more socially confident with the thoughts that are in my head (and therfore to speak them) and how I can be more emotionally reliable and not always flip flop between sad, okay and sad.\n\nThanks in andvance."
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"\"Fake it til you make it.\"\n\nOr, embrace your awkward imperfections (we all have them). Being comfortable in your own skin (and having the ability to laugh at yourself) will make other people comfortable around you.",
"Two weeks isn't much time to practice social skills. That's not to say you can't or shouldn't but if you sleep eight hours per day then you have 224 hours that you can spend on learning from books and working on your mind. Don't neglect this aspect of your development. A strong mind means far less anxiety/other mental barriers as well as tools for overcoming them.",
"Practice with strangers you'll never meet again and enjoy fucking it up and practicing. Look back and cringe in 10,20,30,60 years like the rest of us \n\nAsk questions and be interested in details and listen to others when they are talking and not waiting for your turn to talk.\n\nTurn the conversation back to them at every opportunity.",
"you could go too meetup.com, pick up as any meetings that fit your personality in your area/online as you can, and join them."
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"Ruptured my Achilles Tendon last night. How do I make the best of the next 11 months? This is my first major injury and I'm quite lost. Any advice on the best way to make do with crutches, how to stay healthy/active, or things to occupy the time while my leg is wrapped in 1000 layers of gauze and other smelly cast materials?",
"Ruptured my Achilles Tendon last night. How do I make the best of the next 11 months? This is my first major injury and I'm quite lost. Any advice on the best way to make do with crutches, how to stay healthy/active, or things to occupy the time while my leg is wrapped in 1000 layers of gauze and other smelly cast materials?",
"Ruptured my Achilles Tendon last night. How do I make the best of the next 11 months? This is my first major injury and I'm quite lost. Any advice on the best way to make do with crutches, how to stay healthy/active, or things to occupy the time while my leg is wrapped in 1000 layers of gauze and other smelly cast materials?",
"Ruptured my Achilles Tendon last night. How do I make the best of the next 11 months? This is my first major injury and I'm quite lost. Any advice on the best way to make do with crutches, how to stay healthy/active, or things to occupy the time while my leg is wrapped in 1000 layers of gauze and other smelly cast materials?"
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"2 years ago, i tore muscles in my foot. Was on crutches for a while. The first thing i noticed: STAIRS EVERYWHERE! At home i made sure to get everything i needed into one room, luckily the bathroom and my bedroom were on the same floor. Truth is, on crutches you're going to be working your triceps whether you want to or not, so now's the perfect excuse to start an upper-body gym regime. Most importantly: you'll be tempted to try and put weight on your foot. Avoid this at all costs, be patient and give it time, the tendons will only heal when there's no stress placed on them. Lastly, pick up the guitar. It's a pretty simple instrument to learn and it never grows tiring. ",
"ive spend the my entire life occupying myself without using my legs. just play video games. its the perfect excuse to play them all day and nobody will judge you",
"I had broken my leg in 3 places after a motorbike accident. 8 months of of my right (\"good\") leg in the cast and a lot of care for a year after that, so I feel completely qualified to answer your question. Count yourself lucky to still have use/movement of the knee.\n\nFirstly, you'll be using a lot of upper body strength. I had spent a lot of time building strength on my arms and pecs (yes, you'll be using them a lot too). Think low height Parallel bars. I spent a LOT of time on them. At first, you might not be able to make a full dip and come back up, but if you just keep hanging (pushing upwards) and holding that position as long as you can, that's building strength too. \nNote - exercise extreme caution when doing this, I possessed a somewhat decent strength to begin with, so I could trust myself dangling between two horizontal poles with a broken leg in a cast. \n\n\nSecondly, I focused on improving balance on my naturally weaker left leg, which I was going to have to rely on rather implicitly for the next year or so. \nAt the same time, I also tried to improve balance on my crutches and was experimenting the best way to walk, climb stairs, etc. \n\nThis should keep you mildly occupied for a good part of a year. For more mental stimulation, I played counter strike A LOT. (I was a 17 then, lived with my parents and didn't have a job and didn't go to college/university) \n\nTrying to keep it short here, so I hope you find this helpful. Best of luck on this new adventure !!!\nI am open to more questions, should you need more details.",
"Learn something new that's challenging. If its not challenging or engaging it won't keep your interest long, books/games/movies/internet are good for short term but not long term. \n\nExamples: take online college classes, learn to play piano or guitar, learn a new language, learn a new form of math and solve challenging math problems, write a book, learn to code (potential profit here)."
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"how to be a good actor? What are important things to take note of if you want to act well? I'm asking for a school skit.",
"how to be a good actor? What are important things to take note of if you want to act well? I'm asking for a school skit.",
"how to be a good actor? What are important things to take note of if you want to act well? I'm asking for a school skit.",
"how to be a good actor? What are important things to take note of if you want to act well? I'm asking for a school skit.",
"how to be a good actor? What are important things to take note of if you want to act well? I'm asking for a school skit.",
"how to be a good actor? What are important things to take note of if you want to act well? I'm asking for a school skit."
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"Professional Actor here.\n\nBecause you're asking about this for a school skit, I'm assuming you're asking about some really basic pointers. If you're thinking about a career, the finer points can take years upon years to learn and master.\n\nAnyway, the basics:\n\n1) That cliche phrase \"What's my motivation?\" Think about what your character wants from the other characters in the skit. Don't worry if your character doesn't get them at the end; just make sure you're *trying* to get them.\n\n2) It's important not to \"break character\" - that is, if someone says something funny in the skit, but your character would not think it was funny, do not laugh. Said another way: It's important to always react to the other characters in the way that your character would react.\n\n3) Rehearse the skit. Run it with everyone in it a few times until you all know all of your lines and know where to go and what to do. The biggest mistakes usually happen when people forget what line comes next.\n\n4) Speaking of forgetting lines: Get ready to improvise! If someone drops a line or does something weird, you should do your best to cue in the next line while acknowledging what just happened. Let's say you're playing the Daughter in a skit. The actor playing \"Mom\" is supposed to cue Dad's next line by asking him how his day was, but instead says \"welcome home.\" Once you realize she's not going to ask, jump in with \"Hi Dad, how was your day?\" He's got his cue, and no one in the audience will know it was a mistake.\n\nSometimes mistakes will happen that can't be covered up easily, like if Mom dropped acid before the skit and asks Dad why the colors hate his raven or something. In that case, \"Mom, you're a weirdo. Hi Dad, how was your day?\" would be a better sort of cover. Acknowledge that Mom said something crazy and then move on.\n\nI hope these tips help. I've been doing this for two decades and there's an awful lot of information and training that is needed to really be even a mediocre actor like me. Also note that good != successful and vice versa. There are lots of factors that go into getting jobs in this business, which is why you'll often see so many bad actors on TV.",
"I would say to become the actor as much as possible. Try to find their way of thinking and use that to express why they are doing whatever in the scene. ",
"It's already been said, but try Method Acting. Immerse yourself- become the character- both on and off set. It's how a lot of the most successful actors out there today get ready for their role.\n\nhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Method_acting",
"Get inside the character's head and emotions. Make them your own. Note the responses you have--the facial expressions, the voice expressions, etc. as you go through the script. Duplicate and rehearse these (some may change based on the way other characters are acting their roles). You won't be able to \"feel\" it all the time when you act, but you need to show the emotion nevertheless.\n\nOveract a little. This is a skit, but even so on stage, your acting needs to be just a tiny bit bigger than life. (For film/video you don't need to do this).\n\nProject your voice. Speak from the gut. You don't want to shout, but you want the people sitting in the back to hear you even when your character is supposed to be speaking kind of softly.\n\nPractice, practice, practice. Even if you are not a \"natural\" actor, the more you do it, especially under the guidance of a director, the better you will be.\n",
"Probably the most important thing is to be comfortable with playing a different character than yourself. If you feel daft doing it, you might not perform as well.",
"I would say forget everything you know about yourself. Learn the character and then apply everything you know about the character to your mannerisms, actions, voice etc..."
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"How do I gain some work ethic for average, daily responsibilities and chores? I am a 13 year old who has fallen victim to \"gifted kid syndrome\". As a kid, school was all super easy and I was told that I was the \"cream of the crop\" or \"extremely talented\". Well, I skipped the 5th grade and went right into sixth grade, and suddenly I actually had to care about school and focus on it. Then, the next year, I gained responsibilities outside of going to school and getting good grades. I had overcame my lack of work ethic in school, and I figured that the same thing would happen. Eventually I would learn to just perform my daily duties and responsibilities, but I'm in eighth grade now and I haven't learned that. How do I teach myself to just accept the responsibilities and get them done???",
"How do I gain some work ethic for average, daily responsibilities and chores? I am a 13 year old who has fallen victim to \"gifted kid syndrome\". As a kid, school was all super easy and I was told that I was the \"cream of the crop\" or \"extremely talented\". Well, I skipped the 5th grade and went right into sixth grade, and suddenly I actually had to care about school and focus on it. Then, the next year, I gained responsibilities outside of going to school and getting good grades. I had overcame my lack of work ethic in school, and I figured that the same thing would happen. Eventually I would learn to just perform my daily duties and responsibilities, but I'm in eighth grade now and I haven't learned that. How do I teach myself to just accept the responsibilities and get them done???",
"How do I gain some work ethic for average, daily responsibilities and chores? I am a 13 year old who has fallen victim to \"gifted kid syndrome\". As a kid, school was all super easy and I was told that I was the \"cream of the crop\" or \"extremely talented\". Well, I skipped the 5th grade and went right into sixth grade, and suddenly I actually had to care about school and focus on it. Then, the next year, I gained responsibilities outside of going to school and getting good grades. I had overcame my lack of work ethic in school, and I figured that the same thing would happen. Eventually I would learn to just perform my daily duties and responsibilities, but I'm in eighth grade now and I haven't learned that. How do I teach myself to just accept the responsibilities and get them done???",
"How do I gain some work ethic for average, daily responsibilities and chores? I am a 13 year old who has fallen victim to \"gifted kid syndrome\". As a kid, school was all super easy and I was told that I was the \"cream of the crop\" or \"extremely talented\". Well, I skipped the 5th grade and went right into sixth grade, and suddenly I actually had to care about school and focus on it. Then, the next year, I gained responsibilities outside of going to school and getting good grades. I had overcame my lack of work ethic in school, and I figured that the same thing would happen. Eventually I would learn to just perform my daily duties and responsibilities, but I'm in eighth grade now and I haven't learned that. How do I teach myself to just accept the responsibilities and get them done???",
"How do I gain some work ethic for average, daily responsibilities and chores? I am a 13 year old who has fallen victim to \"gifted kid syndrome\". As a kid, school was all super easy and I was told that I was the \"cream of the crop\" or \"extremely talented\". Well, I skipped the 5th grade and went right into sixth grade, and suddenly I actually had to care about school and focus on it. Then, the next year, I gained responsibilities outside of going to school and getting good grades. I had overcame my lack of work ethic in school, and I figured that the same thing would happen. Eventually I would learn to just perform my daily duties and responsibilities, but I'm in eighth grade now and I haven't learned that. How do I teach myself to just accept the responsibilities and get them done???",
"How do I gain some work ethic for average, daily responsibilities and chores? I am a 13 year old who has fallen victim to \"gifted kid syndrome\". As a kid, school was all super easy and I was told that I was the \"cream of the crop\" or \"extremely talented\". Well, I skipped the 5th grade and went right into sixth grade, and suddenly I actually had to care about school and focus on it. Then, the next year, I gained responsibilities outside of going to school and getting good grades. I had overcame my lack of work ethic in school, and I figured that the same thing would happen. Eventually I would learn to just perform my daily duties and responsibilities, but I'm in eighth grade now and I haven't learned that. How do I teach myself to just accept the responsibilities and get them done???",
"How do I gain some work ethic for average, daily responsibilities and chores? I am a 13 year old who has fallen victim to \"gifted kid syndrome\". As a kid, school was all super easy and I was told that I was the \"cream of the crop\" or \"extremely talented\". Well, I skipped the 5th grade and went right into sixth grade, and suddenly I actually had to care about school and focus on it. Then, the next year, I gained responsibilities outside of going to school and getting good grades. I had overcame my lack of work ethic in school, and I figured that the same thing would happen. Eventually I would learn to just perform my daily duties and responsibilities, but I'm in eighth grade now and I haven't learned that. How do I teach myself to just accept the responsibilities and get them done???",
"How do I gain some work ethic for average, daily responsibilities and chores? I am a 13 year old who has fallen victim to \"gifted kid syndrome\". As a kid, school was all super easy and I was told that I was the \"cream of the crop\" or \"extremely talented\". Well, I skipped the 5th grade and went right into sixth grade, and suddenly I actually had to care about school and focus on it. Then, the next year, I gained responsibilities outside of going to school and getting good grades. I had overcame my lack of work ethic in school, and I figured that the same thing would happen. Eventually I would learn to just perform my daily duties and responsibilities, but I'm in eighth grade now and I haven't learned that. How do I teach myself to just accept the responsibilities and get them done???",
"How do I gain some work ethic for average, daily responsibilities and chores? I am a 13 year old who has fallen victim to \"gifted kid syndrome\". As a kid, school was all super easy and I was told that I was the \"cream of the crop\" or \"extremely talented\". Well, I skipped the 5th grade and went right into sixth grade, and suddenly I actually had to care about school and focus on it. Then, the next year, I gained responsibilities outside of going to school and getting good grades. I had overcame my lack of work ethic in school, and I figured that the same thing would happen. Eventually I would learn to just perform my daily duties and responsibilities, but I'm in eighth grade now and I haven't learned that. How do I teach myself to just accept the responsibilities and get them done???"
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"I used to be the same when I was younger too (M34 here). I found the best way was to dive headlong into them straight away, just attack whatever I had to get done all at once. The idea being that after all that stuff is done, I can spend the rest of my day relaxing without worry about having things to do.",
"I struggle with chores too, and I’m a lot older than you. My best advice is to set a timer. Do 10 minutes of whatever chore you have to do, and then take a break. Though usually after 10 minutes, I’m close enough to finishing that I’ll just keep going til it’s done.",
"Woah you skipped a grade in elementary school, genius indeed! You don’t need a work ethic when you are as smart as you are.",
"This is something your parents should help you with. Do they give you consequence not taking care of your responsibilities? Do you have household responsibilities? Do you find that you get away with most things? This is one of those things that a kid needs help with - it's not all on you because you are still a young person.",
"Slightly off topic, but if you find your classes too easy, push yourself outside of school, find subjects you're interested in and challenge yourself with higher level coursework. Develop good study habits because everything is easy until it isn't. I cake walked through grade school and most of college then got really stuck on some senior level engineering courses. Developing good habits early goes a long ways.",
"Knock out the easiest task first and get the dopamine satisfaction early in your schedule to keep on crushing it the rest of the day.",
"I've got a God awful work ethic. If I don't like the task no amount of money gets me to work harder. \n\nFor work i still struggle because my \"chores\" aren't scheduled. But for home I just do things same time/day every week. Clean bathroom with a beer Sunday arvo. Washing is Wednesday and Saturday. Defrost meat for dinner every morning. \n\nFor me I need that routine to do those things I hate otherwise I'll do then far too infrequently",
"I learned to procrastinate responsibly, let's say I have 2 tasks to do, whenever I get stuck or bored with one responsibility I jumped to the other one.",
"I am in Mensa and never had to study in my life. I got a job and delivered news papers, mowed lawns, and worked at a restaurant to make my own money. I was subordinate which taught me humility but had a weekly reward of a pay check. It gave me the tools and money to invest in my interests which landed me where I am today"
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"How do I get more productive? Sorry for this weird post. What I meant was, I work hard and I try my best on things I want to do but somehow I don't feel like I'm productive at all. It makes me feel bad about myself. How do I fix it?",
"How do I get more productive? Sorry for this weird post. What I meant was, I work hard and I try my best on things I want to do but somehow I don't feel like I'm productive at all. It makes me feel bad about myself. How do I fix it?",
"How do I get more productive? Sorry for this weird post. What I meant was, I work hard and I try my best on things I want to do but somehow I don't feel like I'm productive at all. It makes me feel bad about myself. How do I fix it?",
"How do I get more productive? Sorry for this weird post. What I meant was, I work hard and I try my best on things I want to do but somehow I don't feel like I'm productive at all. It makes me feel bad about myself. How do I fix it?",
"How do I get more productive? Sorry for this weird post. What I meant was, I work hard and I try my best on things I want to do but somehow I don't feel like I'm productive at all. It makes me feel bad about myself. How do I fix it?"
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"Make a checklist of all the tasks you have to do daily. Then make a list of weekly/monthly tasks. The make a list of optional tasks. \n\nAt my work I felt this way but with the lists I was able to show myself that I was way more productive then I thought and I still had time to take on additional jobs some days.",
"The question is very vague - can you give an example of what you mean by lack of productivity.\n\nThe bottom line will be whether your goals are being met. If you can meet that requirement, then you are productive",
"If you are distracted on your device, you can probably set a max time that you are allowed on each app. While you can override this time limit once you reach it, the fact that you had to override will remind you to stay on task.",
"Hey! It sounds like you are already aware of the things that go into “being productive” and acknowledge that you work hard!\n\nThe fact that you aren’t feeling the desired sense of accomplishment seems to point more toward an issue with self-worth or mental health (if you’re truly struggling with productivity, do you have any signs of ADHD?). Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Sometimes these kinds of things can be sneaky and it may take awhile to realize it.\n\nTry examining the trigger points for these negative feelings and maybe consider talking to someone about it. I hope you get the clarity you’re looking for!",
"I like to listen to motivational speeches. There are hundreds available on utube, podcasts, etc...\n\nI always get off my ass when I start to listen and also feel better about my day and myself afterwards."
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"What are some effective techniques to “stay in the moment” and focus on the tasks at hand Normally even when things need to get done, I find myself not staying focused or in the moment and end up pacing or on a completely different mental tangent",
"What are some effective techniques to “stay in the moment” and focus on the tasks at hand Normally even when things need to get done, I find myself not staying focused or in the moment and end up pacing or on a completely different mental tangent"
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"The easiest by far is breathing. When you feel too spaced out, don't try to remove the extra thoughts. Add on top of that \"road\" of oxigen in your body and out. Try to picture the air, how it enters your lungs, how it goes through all the body, and then out.\nThe best part is that life always happens in this moment. So while your attention might not be with you in the present, your breathing always happens in the moment.",
"I was listening to an audio book on youtube called the power of concentration. Quite helpful it says concentrating takes practice just like anything else, so you have to practice. It gives exercises you can do as practice. One is the one of breathing, as mentioned above."
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"How to approach/tolerate a noisy upstairs neighbor. Our upstairs neighbor walks across her apartment (loudly) at all times of the day and all through the night. Last night, she paced across her apt from 7pm until 3am. It's often interjected by loud bangs and crashes. We've gotten used to wearing headphones and earplugs over the last 3 months - but it shakes the walls and we can still hear her heels striking the floor through the earplugs/headphones.\n\nIt's certainly her right to walk across her apartment, but we are going crazy being woken up constantly.\n\nAny tips / advice?\n\n&#x200B;\n\nWe have considered: buying her a series of rugs + rug pads throughout her home or buying her slippers?",
"How to approach/tolerate a noisy upstairs neighbor. Our upstairs neighbor walks across her apartment (loudly) at all times of the day and all through the night. Last night, she paced across her apt from 7pm until 3am. It's often interjected by loud bangs and crashes. We've gotten used to wearing headphones and earplugs over the last 3 months - but it shakes the walls and we can still hear her heels striking the floor through the earplugs/headphones.\n\nIt's certainly her right to walk across her apartment, but we are going crazy being woken up constantly.\n\nAny tips / advice?\n\n&#x200B;\n\nWe have considered: buying her a series of rugs + rug pads throughout her home or buying her slippers?",
"How to approach/tolerate a noisy upstairs neighbor. Our upstairs neighbor walks across her apartment (loudly) at all times of the day and all through the night. Last night, she paced across her apt from 7pm until 3am. It's often interjected by loud bangs and crashes. We've gotten used to wearing headphones and earplugs over the last 3 months - but it shakes the walls and we can still hear her heels striking the floor through the earplugs/headphones.\n\nIt's certainly her right to walk across her apartment, but we are going crazy being woken up constantly.\n\nAny tips / advice?\n\n&#x200B;\n\nWe have considered: buying her a series of rugs + rug pads throughout her home or buying her slippers?"
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"I would approach it very carefully and have an open conversation about the noise with her. Ask her if she can also hear you from downstairs and if she can suggest to her that you 'team up' to tackle this situation together and both talk to a landlord and both take measures to eradicate any noise from both ends.... make it friendly and even ask her to stand in your apartment and make noise while you walk on her floors so you can both see how noise is easily created (if so). There's a very good chance she isn't making the noise on purpose but if you approach with blame/shame then you could fracture any relationship and make things much worse. \nTurn it into you and her vs. The problem rather than you vs. Her. \nIf she's still being difficult after this, it's time to start making records of her noise and recordings etc and taking it further, stating that you tried it the nice way and she refused. Good luck.",
"Have you tried the old method of just knocking, asking if they are alright and explaining you think they must be sleepwalking every night stomping around and banging into things, mentioning that they surely aren’t being that disruptive on purpose all night long in a communal building with neighbors all around them? A bit of friendly passive aggressive confrontation never hurts. And if they are doing it on purpose, just check your local noise ordinances or rental agreements and start having the police out every evening to knock on their door until it stops. Buying them rugs and slippers is not a solution and it’s not your financial responsibility to get your neighbor to stop being inconsiderate.",
"Buy her slippers, in a note explain that she is disrupting your sleep, ask her to wear and enjoy the slippers at night and wish her well. I don't usually put my name on missives such as this but I do sign my unit number. Preface it by saying \"Hi, I'm your neighbor in E32! Sometimes ceiling noises disrupts (my) sleep. I hope you can enjoy these slippers as much as I do! Your neighbor from (E32.)\""
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"How to deal with overthinking I've been losing sleep as to thinking too much about almost everything going on in life. Studies, family, friends, girl I like, and so on. Any help as to how I can lessen or deal with overthinking? Thanks in advance.",
"How to deal with overthinking I've been losing sleep as to thinking too much about almost everything going on in life. Studies, family, friends, girl I like, and so on. Any help as to how I can lessen or deal with overthinking? Thanks in advance.",
"How to deal with overthinking I've been losing sleep as to thinking too much about almost everything going on in life. Studies, family, friends, girl I like, and so on. Any help as to how I can lessen or deal with overthinking? Thanks in advance.",
"How to deal with overthinking I've been losing sleep as to thinking too much about almost everything going on in life. Studies, family, friends, girl I like, and so on. Any help as to how I can lessen or deal with overthinking? Thanks in advance.",
"How to deal with overthinking I've been losing sleep as to thinking too much about almost everything going on in life. Studies, family, friends, girl I like, and so on. Any help as to how I can lessen or deal with overthinking? Thanks in advance.",
"How to deal with overthinking I've been losing sleep as to thinking too much about almost everything going on in life. Studies, family, friends, girl I like, and so on. Any help as to how I can lessen or deal with overthinking? Thanks in advance.",
"How to deal with overthinking I've been losing sleep as to thinking too much about almost everything going on in life. Studies, family, friends, girl I like, and so on. Any help as to how I can lessen or deal with overthinking? Thanks in advance."
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"sounds like you need to gain back your concentration...there are lots of things you can do for training that help for a long term but also take some time to learn them, but its really worth it (qi-gong, m",
"Set up a priority list for your problems in your head. Since there's a priority order, you know not all of them are equally important. Then, you can just focus on the most important parts. This won't exactly stop you from worrying, but it'll lessen the amount of things you're worrying about, thereby making the load easier. ",
"I know exactly what you're going through and a lot of us have the same problems in our life.. we worry about the future and what is happening now.. and if thats not enough we bring up stuff from the past to worry about.. \n\nthe best way around this is to involve yourself in something where your mind has to be active.. but you know this doesn't help when you're staring up at the ceiling laying in bed.. so you should go to bed tired.. \n\nI just gave one person advice that when you are younger you should exercise until you get in your maximum fitness state that way when you are older in your 30's or 60's even you won't have a body that gives out on you.. you don't have to run marathons but you can easily do 100 situps, pushups and a few other simple exercises before bed or many times during the day .. or even when you are just standing there do a 6 inch squat where the load of your body is on your legs.. you don't have to do the whole thing.. or lift your feet up and walk in place.. This is the time and the most important time to be your maximum fit.. that way when you go out in life you will be healthy.. and it doesn't matter who you are its important for everyone.",
"Try writing down your thoughts and feelings. This helps me to not agonise over stuff so much because it's somewhat out of my head and recorded somewhere. Also I find writing things down helps me to flesh out the issues and think more about how to fix whatever I'm agonising about or even whether it's my problem to deal with in the first place. ",
"I'm currently in the same boat as you. I find that not sitting alone and doing nothing works best. Keep your mind occupied. Go do something outdoors. Keep busy. ",
"I find that video games are a nice distraction. Just don't neglect your responsibilities and you'll be good with that.",
"Bad Advice incoming, I had trouble with over thinking on tests back in high school, and would start doubting my self on answers and get to distracted on whether I was right or wrong, so I just never studied and still did all right, had an A in history class where it was test based grades, did not do so well in the work oriented class. "
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"How to ask for money So recently I've been owed money from a friend of mine, but I always feel like I'm nagging or simply out of place when I request to be paid. I've felt this way in the past when I've asked for money that I am owed. It just feel wrong to ask, I always feel like I am in the wrong when I ask if they have managed to get the cash together. Its nothing much, but I do eventually need it. \n\nAny tips on the correct way to ask for it? Without making them seem like I'm getting on their back about it etc. I still feel this way even when its the first time I've requested it. \n\nThanks in advance for all the suggestions. ",
"How to ask for money So recently I've been owed money from a friend of mine, but I always feel like I'm nagging or simply out of place when I request to be paid. I've felt this way in the past when I've asked for money that I am owed. It just feel wrong to ask, I always feel like I am in the wrong when I ask if they have managed to get the cash together. Its nothing much, but I do eventually need it. \n\nAny tips on the correct way to ask for it? Without making them seem like I'm getting on their back about it etc. I still feel this way even when its the first time I've requested it. \n\nThanks in advance for all the suggestions. ",
"How to ask for money So recently I've been owed money from a friend of mine, but I always feel like I'm nagging or simply out of place when I request to be paid. I've felt this way in the past when I've asked for money that I am owed. It just feel wrong to ask, I always feel like I am in the wrong when I ask if they have managed to get the cash together. Its nothing much, but I do eventually need it. \n\nAny tips on the correct way to ask for it? Without making them seem like I'm getting on their back about it etc. I still feel this way even when its the first time I've requested it. \n\nThanks in advance for all the suggestions. ",
"How to ask for money So recently I've been owed money from a friend of mine, but I always feel like I'm nagging or simply out of place when I request to be paid. I've felt this way in the past when I've asked for money that I am owed. It just feel wrong to ask, I always feel like I am in the wrong when I ask if they have managed to get the cash together. Its nothing much, but I do eventually need it. \n\nAny tips on the correct way to ask for it? Without making them seem like I'm getting on their back about it etc. I still feel this way even when its the first time I've requested it. \n\nThanks in advance for all the suggestions. ",
"How to ask for money So recently I've been owed money from a friend of mine, but I always feel like I'm nagging or simply out of place when I request to be paid. I've felt this way in the past when I've asked for money that I am owed. It just feel wrong to ask, I always feel like I am in the wrong when I ask if they have managed to get the cash together. Its nothing much, but I do eventually need it. \n\nAny tips on the correct way to ask for it? Without making them seem like I'm getting on their back about it etc. I still feel this way even when its the first time I've requested it. \n\nThanks in advance for all the suggestions. ",
"How to ask for money So recently I've been owed money from a friend of mine, but I always feel like I'm nagging or simply out of place when I request to be paid. I've felt this way in the past when I've asked for money that I am owed. It just feel wrong to ask, I always feel like I am in the wrong when I ask if they have managed to get the cash together. Its nothing much, but I do eventually need it. \n\nAny tips on the correct way to ask for it? Without making them seem like I'm getting on their back about it etc. I still feel this way even when its the first time I've requested it. \n\nThanks in advance for all the suggestions. ",
"How to ask for money So recently I've been owed money from a friend of mine, but I always feel like I'm nagging or simply out of place when I request to be paid. I've felt this way in the past when I've asked for money that I am owed. It just feel wrong to ask, I always feel like I am in the wrong when I ask if they have managed to get the cash together. Its nothing much, but I do eventually need it. \n\nAny tips on the correct way to ask for it? Without making them seem like I'm getting on their back about it etc. I still feel this way even when its the first time I've requested it. \n\nThanks in advance for all the suggestions. ",
"How to ask for money So recently I've been owed money from a friend of mine, but I always feel like I'm nagging or simply out of place when I request to be paid. I've felt this way in the past when I've asked for money that I am owed. It just feel wrong to ask, I always feel like I am in the wrong when I ask if they have managed to get the cash together. Its nothing much, but I do eventually need it. \n\nAny tips on the correct way to ask for it? Without making them seem like I'm getting on their back about it etc. I still feel this way even when its the first time I've requested it. \n\nThanks in advance for all the suggestions. "
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"If you are asked or think you should give someone money. Plan on never getting it back. Sometimes it's easier to give it to the person as a gift, and keep the friendship intact. Some people are well intentioned, but horrible with money. Loaning money to a friend is a sure fire way of ruining a friendship. This applies 10x when it's family.",
"All of these comments saying it ruins friendships. I'm not sure how fragile that friendship has to be for it to be ruined. My best friends and I always loan money to each other, sometimes not even paying it back for a year, but none of us ever have a problem reminding each other about our debts. If their good enough friends for you to lend money to, then it shouldn't be a problem to ask for it back.",
"Thanks for all the information guys, I will likely just take it as a life lesson on lending money. Its only a small amount, like $150, but it was enough to teach the lesson. \n\nAppreciate the feedback. ",
"Someone in another discussion said it right as to \"If you have the confidence to lend it to someone, you need to have the confidence to ask for it back as well.\" \nAlways plan ahead when lending money. \nAsk yourself: do I feel comfortable asking it back? \nWhen am I expecting to be getting paid back and is that made clear to the borrower? \n\n",
"I've been in the situation of borrower more often than lender; I have always paid my debt though. \n\nAs people have stated, if you're good enough friends, a simple reminder will do.\n\n\"Hey when do you think you could pay back the $50 I let you borrow?\"\n\nIf they get defensive about a non-loaded, straightforward question, I'd consider reigning in the friendship a bit tbh.",
"I would just straight up say \"hey man not trying to nag or anything but you know when your gunna have that money?\"",
"Ask them once, do it politely. \n\nIf they say they'll pay you back in two weeks, leave it at that. After two weeks, if they haven't paid you back, chalk it to a life lesson on lending money to friends. \n",
"*\"It just feel wrong to ask, I always feel like I am in the wrong when I ask if they have managed to get the cash together.\"*\n\nGet this OUT of your head. You are not wrong- they are to put you in this position.\n\nI would give it one more try with \"Listen, I was happy to loan you the money because you promised to pay it back in a reasonable amount of time. That time is past and I have to ask you to get it together and pay me back.\"\n\nIf you still get nothing then that's that. But I would drop this person as a \"friend\" and make no bones about telling people why."
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"Procrastination and how to stop. Sorry if this has been posted a million times as I imagine. I am on mobile and can't figure out how to search. Starting second year university in September kinda breezed by first year doing last minute assignments and cramming night of. How can I help myself get in to a routine of starting/studying earlier. Preferably a change I can start making now so it's routine by September. ",
"Procrastination and how to stop. Sorry if this has been posted a million times as I imagine. I am on mobile and can't figure out how to search. Starting second year university in September kinda breezed by first year doing last minute assignments and cramming night of. How can I help myself get in to a routine of starting/studying earlier. Preferably a change I can start making now so it's routine by September. ",
"Procrastination and how to stop. Sorry if this has been posted a million times as I imagine. I am on mobile and can't figure out how to search. Starting second year university in September kinda breezed by first year doing last minute assignments and cramming night of. How can I help myself get in to a routine of starting/studying earlier. Preferably a change I can start making now so it's routine by September. ",
"Procrastination and how to stop. Sorry if this has been posted a million times as I imagine. I am on mobile and can't figure out how to search. Starting second year university in September kinda breezed by first year doing last minute assignments and cramming night of. How can I help myself get in to a routine of starting/studying earlier. Preferably a change I can start making now so it's routine by September. "
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"* What I had to do was tell myself every morning to wake up and get dressed. No matter what I was doing, get dressed like your going out to work or something. \n\n* Breaking big assignments up into manageable portions week to week, or day to day even, helps tremendously. \n\n* Make a checklist of what you are going to accomplish and then do what's on the list. I've found that many times I'll complete the list and keep on going. ",
"Think of something important you need to do...now go do the first thing you think of ...like seriously...go....\nGet the fuck off reddit AND GO DO IT NOW!",
"as you get older you'll have more and more responsibilities aka big boy shit that you need to write down. you cant just keep it all in your head anymore. \n\nremember, the way you are now will vastly determine the kind of person you'll be. \n\nLPT: have a schedule and stick to it. wake up early. have more time to get shit done and then reward yourself for getting something done. make yourself to-do lists and reminders--make them notify you randomly throughout the day. you are your own team. dont screw yourself over. \n\nim still learning how to adult as well. \n",
"LPT: Studying is best done in short bursts of fifteen to thirty minutes with a cooldown in between. \n\nFor instance, if I had a class that afternoon that I'll start my study session by re-writing my notes and making note cards (if necessary) for thirty minutes. Then I'll get up and do chores, work on a hobby, exercise, for maybe fifteen or thirty. When I come back I'll either complete that task or, if completed, move on to my next subject. \n\nDoing things this way allows you to a.) reinforce what you learned that day, and prepare for future studying so that you don't have to condense a notebook into flashcards in a lump and b.) will allow you to study all of your subjects continuously throughout the week. It also helps keep me from feeling overwhelmed, since I just build each night little by little. \n\nFor papers, the best tip I ever got was to write the meat first and leave the opening and closing paragraphs for last. I write a paragraph or two a night until the paper is complete. "
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"How to not feel like death incarnate after an all nighter Tonight in order to do my work I have to do an all-nighter. I have stuff that’s been building up and I couldn’t keep up so I HAVE to do it today. My only problem is every time I pull an all nighter I’m extremely tired that the next day I can hardly function. I plan on napping a little before the all nighter but other than that I’m not sure how to feel at least able to function tomorrow. I have work on top of my classes, so I have to be able to make it to 4pm. After that I can get sweet sweet rest, but not until 4. How can I survive ? What are some tips, things to do, eat, drink, whatever. Help!!",
"How to not feel like death incarnate after an all nighter Tonight in order to do my work I have to do an all-nighter. I have stuff that’s been building up and I couldn’t keep up so I HAVE to do it today. My only problem is every time I pull an all nighter I’m extremely tired that the next day I can hardly function. I plan on napping a little before the all nighter but other than that I’m not sure how to feel at least able to function tomorrow. I have work on top of my classes, so I have to be able to make it to 4pm. After that I can get sweet sweet rest, but not until 4. How can I survive ? What are some tips, things to do, eat, drink, whatever. Help!!",
"How to not feel like death incarnate after an all nighter Tonight in order to do my work I have to do an all-nighter. I have stuff that’s been building up and I couldn’t keep up so I HAVE to do it today. My only problem is every time I pull an all nighter I’m extremely tired that the next day I can hardly function. I plan on napping a little before the all nighter but other than that I’m not sure how to feel at least able to function tomorrow. I have work on top of my classes, so I have to be able to make it to 4pm. After that I can get sweet sweet rest, but not until 4. How can I survive ? What are some tips, things to do, eat, drink, whatever. Help!!",
"How to not feel like death incarnate after an all nighter Tonight in order to do my work I have to do an all-nighter. I have stuff that’s been building up and I couldn’t keep up so I HAVE to do it today. My only problem is every time I pull an all nighter I’m extremely tired that the next day I can hardly function. I plan on napping a little before the all nighter but other than that I’m not sure how to feel at least able to function tomorrow. I have work on top of my classes, so I have to be able to make it to 4pm. After that I can get sweet sweet rest, but not until 4. How can I survive ? What are some tips, things to do, eat, drink, whatever. Help!!",
"How to not feel like death incarnate after an all nighter Tonight in order to do my work I have to do an all-nighter. I have stuff that’s been building up and I couldn’t keep up so I HAVE to do it today. My only problem is every time I pull an all nighter I’m extremely tired that the next day I can hardly function. I plan on napping a little before the all nighter but other than that I’m not sure how to feel at least able to function tomorrow. I have work on top of my classes, so I have to be able to make it to 4pm. After that I can get sweet sweet rest, but not until 4. How can I survive ? What are some tips, things to do, eat, drink, whatever. Help!!"
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"There's a whole spectrum of answers to this question, ranging from \"get drunk again\" to \"don't drink the night before\".",
"I do night shifts sometimes. The best way to feel refreshed is to take several power naps (maybe 5-10 min each). Make sure your alarm is on. You might feel like shit waking up from these power naps, but overall you wouldn't feel as bad compared to if you didn't power nap at all.",
"From a procastinator who was regularly forced to work night shifts.\nExercise while learning. You can also practice flashcards while walking.\nInstead of sleeping, take 3 power naps.\nI take a key in my hand so that it falls down and I get scared to know when I have slept enough. Don't forget to set a safty alarm clock.\nThe last tip really works wonders for a short time.\nPut an ice cube between the 1 and 2 cubes you feel below the back of your skull and let it completely melt there.\nMany important nerve pathways converge here and with the cooling you reduce the membrane potential and can thus imitate the effect of several hours of sleep.\nOf course, in the end, nothing replaces deep sleep and you should be aware that the later the hour, the higher your error rate. so complicated things are better done early and formatting rather at the end.",
"It’s all perception. Eat well. Drink water. Believe in yourself.\n\nI have a friend that will literally go a whole week without sleeping (which I personally do not have the mental fortitude for).\n\nThere are plenty of people that will do a two hour m",
"Meth. Seriously. Or the socially acceptable form of it, amphetamines as Adderall or Vyvanse. \n\nOr use your mental faculties to not put yourself in this situation in the first place. As someone else said, you can't cheat sleep."
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"How to avoid spending a long time getting out of the house. I find myself routinely taking 30+ minutes more time than expected to get out of the house for something that doesn't have a hard deadline. Usually there is good reason for this: finding everything I need, remembering things that will be relevant to whatever I'm going to, changing into appropriate clothing, etc.. Even when I prepare for this stuff or start early, the tasks always creep beyond my intended leaving time. Do you have any tips about getting out of the house in less time, or even immediately?",
"How to avoid spending a long time getting out of the house. I find myself routinely taking 30+ minutes more time than expected to get out of the house for something that doesn't have a hard deadline. Usually there is good reason for this: finding everything I need, remembering things that will be relevant to whatever I'm going to, changing into appropriate clothing, etc.. Even when I prepare for this stuff or start early, the tasks always creep beyond my intended leaving time. Do you have any tips about getting out of the house in less time, or even immediately?",
"How to avoid spending a long time getting out of the house. I find myself routinely taking 30+ minutes more time than expected to get out of the house for something that doesn't have a hard deadline. Usually there is good reason for this: finding everything I need, remembering things that will be relevant to whatever I'm going to, changing into appropriate clothing, etc.. Even when I prepare for this stuff or start early, the tasks always creep beyond my intended leaving time. Do you have any tips about getting out of the house in less time, or even immediately?",
"How to avoid spending a long time getting out of the house. I find myself routinely taking 30+ minutes more time than expected to get out of the house for something that doesn't have a hard deadline. Usually there is good reason for this: finding everything I need, remembering things that will be relevant to whatever I'm going to, changing into appropriate clothing, etc.. Even when I prepare for this stuff or start early, the tasks always creep beyond my intended leaving time. Do you have any tips about getting out of the house in less time, or even immediately?",
"How to avoid spending a long time getting out of the house. I find myself routinely taking 30+ minutes more time than expected to get out of the house for something that doesn't have a hard deadline. Usually there is good reason for this: finding everything I need, remembering things that will be relevant to whatever I'm going to, changing into appropriate clothing, etc.. Even when I prepare for this stuff or start early, the tasks always creep beyond my intended leaving time. Do you have any tips about getting out of the house in less time, or even immediately?"
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"Well, first let's figure out if you are just physically moving at a slow pace, or if you are getting distracted and that is the cause for time getting away from you. \n\nCan you describe what seems to be the culprit?",
"Wake up on time or earlier to account for not being fast enough. Once you get in the habit of not hitting snooze, if you do, it becomes easier. This also involves getting enough sleep.\n\nBe prepared. Have everything ready and in one place to walk out the door. Lunch made and ready in fridge, keys, jacket, whatever, all together by the door.\n\nIf you are actually preparing the night before you won't need to pick out appropriate clothes or remembering things you need. \n\nMake lists and check them off as you go. Keep list on the door you exit.\n\nRun timers with sound notifications when in the shower, preparing to leave, etc. This gives you an idea where you're running over it time. Also, if you're ADD or ADHD, it gives you alerts to stay on task.",
"Just don't give a crap about what other people think of you, especially in the weekend.\n\nAnd it's a time management thing I guess. Don't have a \"intended leaving time\" could help, and when you do, just start earlier.\n\nYou said it yourself, it takes about 30 minutes, and you know that. Start preparing an hour in advance, and when you're ready, and have some time left before you go it's like bonus time. Use it wisely on cleaning something you don't want to do once you get back home, or just chill for the extra 30 minutes you now have left.",
"Pretend you have a deadline, works for me. Time seems to move quicker when I have a time I need to leave the house by lol and I feel way more on a mission to get everything in order so I can leave",
"Music. Majority of songs are 3-4 minutes long. In 4 songs time I’m gonna leave the house. Song 1 getting dressed, song 2 bathroom and teeth, song 3 getting things you need for errand, song 4 coat, keys, phone, mask."
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"how to remove paint from vogue front cover So I bought this vintage vogue issue from 2005 and found it to have paint on the front cover. I'm wondering if there is a way of removing it without damging the front cover.",
"how to remove paint from vogue front cover So I bought this vintage vogue issue from 2005 and found it to have paint on the front cover. I'm wondering if there is a way of removing it without damging the front cover.",
"how to remove paint from vogue front cover So I bought this vintage vogue issue from 2005 and found it to have paint on the front cover. I'm wondering if there is a way of removing it without damging the front cover."
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"I don’t know the answer but maybe you can try purposely putting paint on another magazine and experimenting with different things to see what works best before attempting.",
"You need to find out what type of paint base first. Oil, acrylic, water etc. Once you have that information then start searching or ask again.",
"Think it’s a nope…if it can’t be chipped off carefully…but nope if turpentine, paint thinner considered."
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"How to be constant with your projects? First of all, sorry for my english.\n\nSince I was a kid I'm constant in nothing. If I start a programming project, I can't finish it. If I start doing some exercises to improve my physics, I only do exercises for a week.\nI think everything is an excuse for me. Does anyone know how to solve this?",
"How to be constant with your projects? First of all, sorry for my english.\n\nSince I was a kid I'm constant in nothing. If I start a programming project, I can't finish it. If I start doing some exercises to improve my physics, I only do exercises for a week.\nI think everything is an excuse for me. Does anyone know how to solve this?"
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"Search for videos on the topic: Stop procrastinating. \n\nSome tips:\n\n* Break tasks into smaller and easier ones.\n\n* Don't think, just do it. (this sounds cliche but it was proven that the anticipation of doing something you don't want is worse than actually doing it).\n\n* Reward yourself for every task completed.\n\n* Take a look at the Pomodoro technique.\n\nThese are just a few tips. I've been there and still struggle with the same issue. Hope I have helped.\n\n[",
"I'm like this too...I never finish anything and start too many things at once. What helped me the most was to reward myself and set reminders of what I want to accomplish through sticky notes around my house. "
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"How to retrieve a drawstring that has receded into a pair of shorts or sweatshirt hood. My favorite pair of basketball shorts are a little bit too big on me so i have to use the drawstrings to pull them tight. unfortunately, one of them receded into the shorts and now i only have 1 drawstring. HELP! ",
"How to retrieve a drawstring that has receded into a pair of shorts or sweatshirt hood. My favorite pair of basketball shorts are a little bit too big on me so i have to use the drawstrings to pull them tight. unfortunately, one of them receded into the shorts and now i only have 1 drawstring. HELP! ",
"How to retrieve a drawstring that has receded into a pair of shorts or sweatshirt hood. My favorite pair of basketball shorts are a little bit too big on me so i have to use the drawstrings to pull them tight. unfortunately, one of them receded into the shorts and now i only have 1 drawstring. HELP! ",
"How to retrieve a drawstring that has receded into a pair of shorts or sweatshirt hood. My favorite pair of basketball shorts are a little bit too big on me so i have to use the drawstrings to pull them tight. unfortunately, one of them receded into the shorts and now i only have 1 drawstring. HELP! "
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"Get a wire hanger and form a tiny j hook with some needlenose pliers. Then stick into hole and swirl around the cord. After about 4 or 5 loops, pull slowly. \n\nRinse and repeat until you recover cord.",
"If it's one cord that goes all the way through, pull it all the way out and attach a safety pin to one end. You should be able to poke the safety pin back in and feel it more easily than the cord, to feed it back through. I'm not explaining this well, so here: http://www.wikihow.com/Insert-a-Drawstring",
"What I've done is get another drawstring/paracord and connected the two strings together with a strong knot. Then I'd pull the string through from the end that I can still grab, causing the new string to be rethreaded through the pants/shorts.",
"First, get a safety pin.\nRemove the drawstring completely.\nAttach the safety pin to one end.\n\nInsert it again, using the safety pin as guide.\n\nP.S.: Make sure the safety pin fits the hole."
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"How to make people hear me better in clubs? Anytime i go to a nightclub I always have difficulty with people being able to hear what i say due to the music, especially if talking to a girl while others don't seem to have the problem.\n\nDoesn't help that I have a really deep voice so was wondering if anyone had advice on how to avoid this or help the situation?",
"How to make people hear me better in clubs? Anytime i go to a nightclub I always have difficulty with people being able to hear what i say due to the music, especially if talking to a girl while others don't seem to have the problem.\n\nDoesn't help that I have a really deep voice so was wondering if anyone had advice on how to avoid this or help the situation?",
"How to make people hear me better in clubs? Anytime i go to a nightclub I always have difficulty with people being able to hear what i say due to the music, especially if talking to a girl while others don't seem to have the problem.\n\nDoesn't help that I have a really deep voice so was wondering if anyone had advice on how to avoid this or help the situation?",
"How to make people hear me better in clubs? Anytime i go to a nightclub I always have difficulty with people being able to hear what i say due to the music, especially if talking to a girl while others don't seem to have the problem.\n\nDoesn't help that I have a really deep voice so was wondering if anyone had advice on how to avoid this or help the situation?",
"How to make people hear me better in clubs? Anytime i go to a nightclub I always have difficulty with people being able to hear what i say due to the music, especially if talking to a girl while others don't seem to have the problem.\n\nDoesn't help that I have a really deep voice so was wondering if anyone had advice on how to avoid this or help the situation?"
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"An interesting trick I learned is to block their ear with your finger and then speak into their blocked ear. For some reason this works. (BTW Do not put your finger into their ear, simply block it)",
"1.) ask if she wants to go outside or onto the patio.\n2.) don't yell. Wave her closer and *talk* into her ear. It creates a sense of intimacy. \nOr he. Whatever. ",
"[Solution](https://thebsreport.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/paper-cup.jpg%3Fw%3D586)\n\nOr start meeting girls in the library.",
"Don't just shout it into their ear, talk normally at them so they can lipread. If you can't hear someone, block your ear with your finger, it cuts out all the extra background noise so you can hear their voice. Otherwise just go outside as you won't get anywhere screeching at each other.",
"Spend you time going to places where this isn't a problem. You not going to find a nice girl in a club."
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"What are your tips for remembering names? I’m terrible at remembering names! Any tips or tricks for remembering them better? I saw one suggesting picturing their name in neon lights on their foreheads, but I can’t seem to visualize it well enough to be effective.",
"What are your tips for remembering names? I’m terrible at remembering names! Any tips or tricks for remembering them better? I saw one suggesting picturing their name in neon lights on their foreheads, but I can’t seem to visualize it well enough to be effective.",
"What are your tips for remembering names? I’m terrible at remembering names! Any tips or tricks for remembering them better? I saw one suggesting picturing their name in neon lights on their foreheads, but I can’t seem to visualize it well enough to be effective.",
"What are your tips for remembering names? I’m terrible at remembering names! Any tips or tricks for remembering them better? I saw one suggesting picturing their name in neon lights on their foreheads, but I can’t seem to visualize it well enough to be effective.",
"What are your tips for remembering names? I’m terrible at remembering names! Any tips or tricks for remembering them better? I saw one suggesting picturing their name in neon lights on their foreheads, but I can’t seem to visualize it well enough to be effective.",
"What are your tips for remembering names? I’m terrible at remembering names! Any tips or tricks for remembering them better? I saw one suggesting picturing their name in neon lights on their foreheads, but I can’t seem to visualize it well enough to be effective."
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"Say the name when you hear it first, and close the conversation by saying it. Asking about the spelling of their name is also a nice way to remember. I usually try to spell the name, and confirm if it's correct. Sometimes if the person has a unique name I'll ask for the story behind it.",
"I say it like seven or eight times right then and there, and then WHEN they look at me funny, I explain that I now won't forget. After hanging out I say goodbye and call them by name. Most of the time they have forgotten mine by then. NOw wHo LOOKS DuMb?",
"Come up with some name rhyme technique or word association right away. If you meet a Sally, start singing \"Mustang Sally\" in your head, if you meet a Mike in your accounting department at work, say \"Mike Check.\"",
"As soon as they say they name, repeat it in your head then say it's nice to meet you, (their name). Then address their have as much as you can during the conversation",
"I agree with the saying their name 6 or 7 times but what also helps for me is remembering a fact about them. \n\"Oh remember Courtney.. she likes horses.\" \n\nNow you got gift ideas for later too ",
"As well as saying the name out loud, I try to pair the person in my mind with someone I know better who has the same name."
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"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities",
"How do you find time to clean/maintain the clean house while working fulltime and other responsibilities? My case might be a bit special, I'm working full time and attending uni for my master's. Work is 8hrs (or 6 on a good day) and uni is 4 hours for four out of five days, excluding assignments\n\nBetween these two, I can't seem to find time to clean, no matter how hard I try... Living in a messy home messes up my productivity a lot and I'm falling behind on my responsibilities"
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"Clean as you go about your day as much as you can. Put things away when done using them, clean up messes right away instead of later, wash dishes as soon as you’re done with them, keep things organized so they’re always an obvious place for stuff. \n\nThis prevents the mess from getting out of hand, and then if you have a free day or a few hours free you can spend a longer time doing a more full cleaning.",
"It's not a failure to hire someone to clean. \n\nSmall progress is still progress. Get rid of clutter and the stuff that just moved around. Finish jobs all the way to PUT AWAY.",
"Think about that old camping rule. When you leave a campsite you leave it just a little bit better than you found it.\n\nSo every time you walk into or out of a room do something no matter how small to make it a little bit better.\n\nAnd don’t create any new messes in the interim.\n\nIt might take a while, but eventually the house will be looking pretty good.",
"I treat tidying up as a form of exercise. As said, put some music up and get to work. Don't let the dishes pile up. If you have time to eat, you have time to wash the dish afterward.",
"A good place to start is getting rid of all the useless crap…less stuff to clean and doesn’t get messy as fast",
"I listen to podcasts while I clean. Put the airbuds in, make a favorite drink, it ends up being fun and relaxing. Even just an hour a week can be enough if you get efficient at it.",
"We set a 10 minute timer every day. Sometimes we only clean for 10 minutes, and sometimes we get in the groove and keep going.",
"I don’t… I have a cleaning lady who comes every 2 weeks. I don’t tidy every day, I do it every few days because it feels more efficient to my brain and I hate tidying up. You are not failing morally by having an untidy home.",
"I try to keep tidy as I go and have a maid service come every other week. \n\nStarted doing this when my ex wife (wife at the time) was in and out of psych facilities and I was working full time and taking care of our three children with out help. \n\nPost divorce and kids out of the house half the time I kept it up cause I loved not having to worry about scrubbing toilets and oven tops ect.",
"Sometime it is best to accept it is too much. When my life was too busy to keep a reasonably tidy house, I ended up carving out one room that I kept clean and organized. This could even be just one small corner or a desk in your house. I am really bothered by clutter, but having one place I could retreat to for working or just to clear my head was helpful. Hang in there. When life slows down, there will be more time for a clean home.",
"This won't work for everyone, but my husband and I use an app that reminds us what needs to be done every day. We use Tody but I'm sure there are plenty of different ones out there. You just put each chore in and how often it needs to be done (or you can put one off things in). \n\nWe end up doing 15-20 minutes of cleaning each day (each) and can keep on top of almost everything. I think it works for us because we don't mind if the full list isn't ticked off each day (sometimes downtime is more important), but it also prompts us to keep on top of things like the glass in the shower which get really hard to clean properly if you leave it for ages.",
"Sounds like you do have time, you're just not using it wisely and don't have the motivation to clean. You say you work full time, but that usually means 5 days of work so there's two days a week you don't, and Univ 4-5 days for 4 hr, sounds like there is time for you to clean. Even on a day you have both, that leaves 12 hrs, 8 for sleeping then 4 others, say even if 3 of those are for commuting and doing things like eating and showering, that leaves 1, even if you take 10-15 mins and start to clean, eventually things will be cleaned up (maybe a week). Then once things are cleaned up- don't let it get messy again. Put stuff up immediately after use, do the dishes right after using, stay on top of things don't just put off. If you say \"but I'm never home!\" If was true home wouldn't be messy.\n\nYou do not have to clean the whole place at once, break chores down and do 1-2 a day. And get on a routine.",
"I’m also extremely busy, but what I did (with time) is plan my home with cleaning in mind. Robot Vacuums are a blessing and cleaning as you go about daily routines also helps.",
"I have someone hired to do all of that right now, but obviously most people aren't in the position to do that.\n\nIf you can spare it, I'd hire someone to do the things you hate the most or stress you out the most on a very small scale just to see how much you feel it helps you. \n\nOthers can offer more practical advice if you can't do that, but if you have any ability to, even just a couple of hours a week, you should try it.",
"Don't sit down, and be happy with ANY progress. A tiny piece of trash picked up now is one you don't have to do later!",
"The easiest way to stay clean is to not get messy in the first place. Keep clothes in hampers, wash dishes immediately. Light cleaning for everything else. Deeper cleaning even more retell. Lower standards of what clean should look like. Also, consider cutting back classes and take longer for your program. I work full time and am back for another degree but only taking one class at a time. Best of luck to you and hope this helps",
"Set a one hour timer twice a week for cleaning and chores! If you have others in the house, have them do cleaning time at the same times.",
"Just dedicate 10 minutes a day to clean. Set a timer and decide what to clean each day and do it real fast and if u cant finish it then leave it and finish tomorrow.. \n\nno way that someone cant dedicate less than 1% of the day to clean. Resting instead is just part of excuses when u can rest better with peace of mind when u are not stressing about the mess",
"I’m in a similar boat as you (working and going to school). I generally keep tidy - load dishes as I go, put things away, etc. - but I have a robot vacuum which helps immensely with not having to actually vacuum as often and I’m also getting an air purifier that is supposed to help with dust. \n\nWhen I actually do need to clean, I put my headphones in and use it to make myself feel good/productive.",
"I’d actually recommend setting aside a dedicated 1-3 hours, in one chunk, every week for decluttering. It’s way easier to clean when there’s less stuff in the house",
"In my experience, focus on 3 things - tidy as you go, everything in its home, and hiding places. Take the 3-5 min to wash your dishes immediately when you’re done eating, then dry and put them away. In fact, put everything away, every time - coats in closets the first time, laundry only in baskets not the floor/bed, etc. Last point is to make good use of closets (or buy an armoire), and hide laundry baskets, dirty boots/shoes, etc.\n\nIt takes a lot less time, just a few min each day, but you need to stick to the habit so stuff doesn’t build up.",
"I work 60 hour weeks. I find that since I am not at home most of the time the house doesn't get very dirty. The rest of the time, I try to clean as I go.",
"I totally understand how you said you are more productive when you are messy. Picking up after yourself takes time weather its at the time or later. Just do the best you can.",
"I live alone on a 1/2 acre property with a nice sized house with 3 dogs so it is not easy. \n\nIf a task takes less than 5 minutes, do it immediately. For example, while I am making breakfast, I empty or load the dishwasher. \n\nHave a schedule for routine stuff. There could be a weekly schedule of tasks but I also have a monthly, quarterly, semi-annual, and annual schedule. I take 4 day long weekends quarterly to do tasks on the weekend.",
"I have the same problem mate. Full time job and 4 hours study course the afternoons. Likewise, my home is a mess, I just don't have time to tide it up. I come home from work, cook something quickly, wash the dishes as fast as I can, and then go to the college. My room is a mess during the week - not dirty or smelly though - just messy, clothes thrown around etc. But as you say, that affects my productivity and motivation. The weekend when I'm off, I clean everything and make the house spotless, which makes me really happy and gives me energy to study or exercise. Until Monday when the downhill starts again.",
"Fly lady system.\n\nCheck out Steph thr Secret Slob on YouTube or Diane from Denmark. Both use the Flylady system and have a video series about how to get started",
"Cleaning is work it's not easy so yea just put some background noise and do it. It's your home respect it act like your home has a life of it's own like a dog or something. You need to clean it.",
"Best bet is to restrict your movement to one single part of the house so that the rest of the house is untouched.\n\nDeep clean the whole house when you have the time and do a mini-clean only in the area you move around in.\n\nNot applicable if you have kids or pets or a partner.",
"Agree with others that doing a little at a time is helpful. You never get the satisfaction of the entire house being clean at once, but overall it will be decent. I did a lot of this when kids were little and I worked full time. Also agree that reducing clutter overall is good. Fewer things = less to do.",
"A bit at a time! Window treatments one day, bathrooms the next, counters, tables and floors the last...",
"Its easy just sacrifice sleep and mental health, you're only staying busy 12 hrs out of the day. \nI think that's the narrative, anyway. Pain equals gain. Something like that.\nTry to cut back on responsibilities so you have a more balanced plate and keep the lower priority things low? If you cant cut back on responsibilities youre probably destined to burn out until you're forced to."
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"Preventing and soothing sunburn on your hair part. I'm not necessarily sure how to help/prevent the sunburn I get on my hair part, and I work outdoors on a daily basis. After a single day of being outside with the new season, I can't brush my hair without wincing from the pain of the brush hitting the burn.\n\nWill simple sunscreen turn my hair oily? Will aloe work the same way as hair gel? Is there an at-home remedy that will work for either prevention or mending? I need something short of wearing a hat every day, as that isn't necessarily practical all the time.\n\nThank you so much in advance!",
"Preventing and soothing sunburn on your hair part. I'm not necessarily sure how to help/prevent the sunburn I get on my hair part, and I work outdoors on a daily basis. After a single day of being outside with the new season, I can't brush my hair without wincing from the pain of the brush hitting the burn.\n\nWill simple sunscreen turn my hair oily? Will aloe work the same way as hair gel? Is there an at-home remedy that will work for either prevention or mending? I need something short of wearing a hat every day, as that isn't necessarily practical all the time.\n\nThank you so much in advance!",
"Preventing and soothing sunburn on your hair part. I'm not necessarily sure how to help/prevent the sunburn I get on my hair part, and I work outdoors on a daily basis. After a single day of being outside with the new season, I can't brush my hair without wincing from the pain of the brush hitting the burn.\n\nWill simple sunscreen turn my hair oily? Will aloe work the same way as hair gel? Is there an at-home remedy that will work for either prevention or mending? I need something short of wearing a hat every day, as that isn't necessarily practical all the time.\n\nThank you so much in advance!"
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"Clear Aloe gel makes a good hair gel for after. I use it to put my cowlick down. Sunscreen will make your hair oily but if it's only your part I would buy the aerosol spray on kind and do a quick pass over that part of your head. \n\nShort of that wear a hat as much as possible and practical.",
"Redken sells a great shine spray with SPF. Aloe vera will generally work the same way as hair gel, but keep in mind that it'll also seal in moisture.",
"I've used sun block in my hair part when I know I will be out for a long time, although I haven't had to do it on a daily basis. \n\nHowever, I've found it super helpful to change my hair part. My hair does NOT like to be parted much off where I normally part it, but I can make slight changes. That way, the sun isn't hitting the same place every single day. "
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"How do I prevent my car windows from frosting over? Or at least a fast way to de-frost them? It's a hassle in the morning and dangerous.",
"How do I prevent my car windows from frosting over? Or at least a fast way to de-frost them? It's a hassle in the morning and dangerous.",
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"How do I prevent my car windows from frosting over? Or at least a fast way to de-frost them? It's a hassle in the morning and dangerous.",
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"Cover them. You can make sheets of plastic a bit larger than your windshield and rear window, and then hold them in place with magnets. Peel them off every morning, put them on every evening. Tedious, but it works.",
"The easiest way, and I am super surprised that no one mentioned this, is to put [Rain-X](https://jet.com/product/detail/b3032443bc05475a94e641199d1738f5?jcmp=pla:ggl:brands_vehicles_parts_a3:vehicle_parts_accessories_vehicle_maintenance_care_decor_vehicle_cleaning_a3_other:na:na:na:na:na:2&code=PLA15&k_clickid=7e6077b7-4664-492f-954c-8f85a91aa2f5&gclid=Cj0KEQiAyIayBRDo4vjdqJrgxZ0BEiQAhOYCYKurjdHQ8jwhNbv1BjGq8YVaRA5Epun8oC95fyDkpKkaAppA8P8HAQ) Rain Repellant on your windshield. It repels snow and sleet and ice wont stick to it as much. Also makes for super easy scraping.",
"I get the hassle to be sure, but dangerous?\n\nA sliced open spread out garbage bag works well and stows readily. \n\n",
"Put a dry towel over the outside of the window.\nSecure it with rope. Or something. I used painters tape once.\nIt will wick up the moisture that would have been on the window and freeze to the towel instead of the glass.",
"Mix 3 parts water to 1 part vinegar and spray it on your windows the night before.. More detailed instructions can be found [here](http://www.infobarrel.com/How_to_prevent_an_icy_windshield_this_winter_with_vinegar).",
"I see people place an old sheet across the windscreen, under the wipers overnight and just lift it off in the morning.",
"I just poor hot water on the windows each AM and then blast them with the heat as I drive. Seems fine for any weather down to -5. If it's colder then that, use the hot water but don't drive till the window has warmed up, was really cold once and the water I poured on started freezing making it hard to see."
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"Multiplying fractions/decimals/percents without using a calculator. I'm preparing for a big test where I don't have the use of a calculator or computer, and where I'll be asked to evaluate problems with difficult to work with fractions and decimals. Things like 28% of 25. So what's your best technique for mental math? ",
"Multiplying fractions/decimals/percents without using a calculator. I'm preparing for a big test where I don't have the use of a calculator or computer, and where I'll be asked to evaluate problems with difficult to work with fractions and decimals. Things like 28% of 25. So what's your best technique for mental math? ",
"Multiplying fractions/decimals/percents without using a calculator. I'm preparing for a big test where I don't have the use of a calculator or computer, and where I'll be asked to evaluate problems with difficult to work with fractions and decimals. Things like 28% of 25. So what's your best technique for mental math? ",
"Multiplying fractions/decimals/percents without using a calculator. I'm preparing for a big test where I don't have the use of a calculator or computer, and where I'll be asked to evaluate problems with difficult to work with fractions and decimals. Things like 28% of 25. So what's your best technique for mental math? ",
"Multiplying fractions/decimals/percents without using a calculator. I'm preparing for a big test where I don't have the use of a calculator or computer, and where I'll be asked to evaluate problems with difficult to work with fractions and decimals. Things like 28% of 25. So what's your best technique for mental math? "
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"Breaking it down makes it a lot easier. Typically to a multiple of 10s plus the remainder.\n\n28% of 25 becomes 2 times 10% of 25, plus 8 times 1% of 25.\n\n25/10 = 2.5, time 2 is 5, so 20% is 5.\n\n25/1 = 0.25, times 8 is 2, thus 8% of 25 is 2.\n\n5+2=7, thus 28% of 25 is 7.\n\nIf you didn't know, you can divide by ten by shuffling the decimal left one, and shuffle it two for dividing by one.\n\nOn a side note, thus was a much better fraction than I thought it was going to be, no remainder and such.\n\nMultiplying, just break it down into comfortable chunks. Decimals + long multiplication isn't too difficult.\n\nDo they still teach long multiplication? Serious question, I've been out if high school for a decade (holy shit I feel old now) and I want to know if with the boom in personal computers and phones they are going the same way as logarithmic tables.",
"A method I use is a simple formula. If the question is 28% of 25, you would put 28/100=x/25. Then to solve just cross multiply 25 x 28= 700 then divide by 100. 28% of 25 = 7",
"Well sometimes the quadratic sentences are really useful. The first sentence is: \n(a+b)^2 = a^2 + 2ab + b^2 \nHow you can use is: \n52*52 = (50+2)(50+2) = (50+2)^2 = 50 * 50 + 2 * 50 * 2 + 2^2 = 2500+200+5 = 2704\n\nThe secons sentence is:\n(a-b)^2 = a^2 - 2ab + b^2 \n(Same way of using it) \n\nAnd the third sentence is:\n(a+b)(a-b) = a^2 - b^2 (I love this one) \n\nYou can do multiplications like 57*63 so fast = (60+3)(60-3) = 3600 -9\n\nBut this is pretty much useless for difficult mulitplications. \n\nWhat you can do is to break the multiplications down. For example: \n25 * 32 \n25 = 5 * 5 \n32 = 8 * 4 \n5 * 5 * 8 * 4 = 5 * 4 * 5 * 8 = 20 * 40 = 800",
"I was taught the math problem IS/OF=%/100 and then cross multiply. \nSo take the number after the IS in the sentence or the number after the OF in the sentence and place it into the equation above. EX. X/25=28/100 (using your example). Then cross multiply. So 100X= (23*25), 100x=700, so x=7. \nBasically, 28% OF 25 IS 7. ",
"28% of 25 is 2.5 x 3 - (.25 x 2) = 7\n\nWhich is 30% of 25 (2.5 x 3) - 1% of 25 x 2 (.25 x 2). All easy in your head."
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"Dealing with feeling isolated when your friends and family aren't helping Hi Reddit,\n\nI have really kind and good friends, SO and family who try to help me with certain issues or situations, but they sometimes don't get it right, or never seem to grasp/understand the extent of it. \n\nDue to this, I end up feeling quite isolated from them, and find it difficult to cope with problems (and with the added issue of feeling like I'm perhaps being wrong or overexaggerating my problem to the extent that they can't seem to help).\n\nFor reference:\n\n1) I always explicitly explain the issues, my feelings and even some objective/counter-points to how I have seen an issue.\n\n2) Counselling doesn't help, I have tried a lot of it.\n\n3) I suspect (but do not have a formal diagnosis or anything as proof, although I am going through the referral process) that I have autism spectrum disorder.\n\nI hate asking this, because I feel like a whiny asshole. I'm sorry if that comes across and I have tried in a lot of ways to sort this out. I certainly don't want to be like 'wah wah no one understands me!', so I am trying to solve my problems now on the internet.\n\nThank you for any suggestions. :)",
"Dealing with feeling isolated when your friends and family aren't helping Hi Reddit,\n\nI have really kind and good friends, SO and family who try to help me with certain issues or situations, but they sometimes don't get it right, or never seem to grasp/understand the extent of it. \n\nDue to this, I end up feeling quite isolated from them, and find it difficult to cope with problems (and with the added issue of feeling like I'm perhaps being wrong or overexaggerating my problem to the extent that they can't seem to help).\n\nFor reference:\n\n1) I always explicitly explain the issues, my feelings and even some objective/counter-points to how I have seen an issue.\n\n2) Counselling doesn't help, I have tried a lot of it.\n\n3) I suspect (but do not have a formal diagnosis or anything as proof, although I am going through the referral process) that I have autism spectrum disorder.\n\nI hate asking this, because I feel like a whiny asshole. I'm sorry if that comes across and I have tried in a lot of ways to sort this out. I certainly don't want to be like 'wah wah no one understands me!', so I am trying to solve my problems now on the internet.\n\nThank you for any suggestions. :)",
"Dealing with feeling isolated when your friends and family aren't helping Hi Reddit,\n\nI have really kind and good friends, SO and family who try to help me with certain issues or situations, but they sometimes don't get it right, or never seem to grasp/understand the extent of it. \n\nDue to this, I end up feeling quite isolated from them, and find it difficult to cope with problems (and with the added issue of feeling like I'm perhaps being wrong or overexaggerating my problem to the extent that they can't seem to help).\n\nFor reference:\n\n1) I always explicitly explain the issues, my feelings and even some objective/counter-points to how I have seen an issue.\n\n2) Counselling doesn't help, I have tried a lot of it.\n\n3) I suspect (but do not have a formal diagnosis or anything as proof, although I am going through the referral process) that I have autism spectrum disorder.\n\nI hate asking this, because I feel like a whiny asshole. I'm sorry if that comes across and I have tried in a lot of ways to sort this out. I certainly don't want to be like 'wah wah no one understands me!', so I am trying to solve my problems now on the internet.\n\nThank you for any suggestions. :)",
"Dealing with feeling isolated when your friends and family aren't helping Hi Reddit,\n\nI have really kind and good friends, SO and family who try to help me with certain issues or situations, but they sometimes don't get it right, or never seem to grasp/understand the extent of it. \n\nDue to this, I end up feeling quite isolated from them, and find it difficult to cope with problems (and with the added issue of feeling like I'm perhaps being wrong or overexaggerating my problem to the extent that they can't seem to help).\n\nFor reference:\n\n1) I always explicitly explain the issues, my feelings and even some objective/counter-points to how I have seen an issue.\n\n2) Counselling doesn't help, I have tried a lot of it.\n\n3) I suspect (but do not have a formal diagnosis or anything as proof, although I am going through the referral process) that I have autism spectrum disorder.\n\nI hate asking this, because I feel like a whiny asshole. I'm sorry if that comes across and I have tried in a lot of ways to sort this out. I certainly don't want to be like 'wah wah no one understands me!', so I am trying to solve my problems now on the internet.\n\nThank you for any suggestions. :)"
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"Everyone is their own mini universe. As another poster said, no one will ever truly understand your experience. Just as you will never truly understand theirs. But just because someone doesn't really get it, doesn't mean that they can't be supportive. Instead of trying to get them to see things from inside your mini universe, tell them what you want/need. \n\n\"Today was a shitty day. Can I have a hug?\"\n\"I'm dealing with a lot of social anxiety and poor self esteem right now, can you say something nice about me?\"\n\"I kind of want to hide from the world right now, wanna build a blanket fort together?\"",
"My take would be that you need to understand that NO ONE will ever understand you like you understand you. You can try to tell people how troubled you are until you're blue in the face. The best they can do is try to aid you in your journey. I don't know what you're struggling with but I'd suggest m",
"I'm dealing with the same problem and now I find it easier to deal with this knowing that I m not the only one who is struggling with the feeling being too isolated from people. I also find very difficult to accept that no one could ever understand me totally and I m feeling most of the time like I can tell express my feelings. But seeing that someone understand me really helps a lot. I hope you will find the way to beat this",
"Hello faceless-internet-friend. I don't have any degree in anything life relevant, nor do I claim to be wise. I do have \"some\" small life experience that came to me much too late to be of any use. Perhaps my experience can be of use to you, although I can't claim that. \n\nCan you explain to me what is it that makes a person like you feel isolated? Try to remember a situation that happened and made you feel the way you do. Perhaps there is a trigger for your emotions, unless you feel isolated all the time.\n\n"
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"How to calculate the value of your work to your company before asking for a raise? I always see people say you need to know your value to a company but no one explains how. I've worked for several companies that hide the value of the products or services you provide. For example, I work overseas at a private school as a teacher. Last week in a meeting with a recruiter they literally said they want to hire as many of me as they can find. However, they don't want to tell me how much they are charging for my classes or contractor work where I go do workshops for other schools or businesses. I had to find out from a student what they pay for a class with me. So its always seemed to me like businesses really don't want you to know how much you are worth, so how do you calculate it?",
"How to calculate the value of your work to your company before asking for a raise? I always see people say you need to know your value to a company but no one explains how. I've worked for several companies that hide the value of the products or services you provide. For example, I work overseas at a private school as a teacher. Last week in a meeting with a recruiter they literally said they want to hire as many of me as they can find. However, they don't want to tell me how much they are charging for my classes or contractor work where I go do workshops for other schools or businesses. I had to find out from a student what they pay for a class with me. So its always seemed to me like businesses really don't want you to know how much you are worth, so how do you calculate it?"
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"Businesses don't want you to know so they can keep underpaying you.\n\n1. It is perfectly legal to ask co-workers about their pay, even if HR tries to stop you from doing it. Ask around.\n\n2. Use glassdoor.com to get an idea of pay ranges generally and in your area\n\n3. Use indeed.com to search for similar jobs and look at the salaries being offered\n\nBetween these three things, you should be able to come up with a sort of average figure as a baseline.",
"I think you are confusing the financial investment the company has in you, and your actual value/worth as an employee "
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"How to Identify and deal with Manipulative People I'm thinking the sort of techniques they use that you be looking out for and how to make sure you're not a victim ",
"How to Identify and deal with Manipulative People I'm thinking the sort of techniques they use that you be looking out for and how to make sure you're not a victim ",
"How to Identify and deal with Manipulative People I'm thinking the sort of techniques they use that you be looking out for and how to make sure you're not a victim ",
"How to Identify and deal with Manipulative People I'm thinking the sort of techniques they use that you be looking out for and how to make sure you're not a victim ",
"How to Identify and deal with Manipulative People I'm thinking the sort of techniques they use that you be looking out for and how to make sure you're not a victim ",
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"Instead of trying to identify X traits in others, define some boundaries for yourself. Decide what is and is not acceptable to you and stick with it. People will treat you the way you allow them to treat you.\n\nA manipulative person will attempt to disregard your boundaries and then make you feel guilty or insecure for having them. To them it's as if it's your fault that you won't put up with thier behaviour. \n\nStick to your guns when this happens be direct and honest with people and explain that you don't want to be treated it this way. If they refuse or promise to do better but then repeatedly violate your boundaries cut them loose or atleast limit your interactions with people like this.",
"The best thing to do is manage or avoid the techniques they might use proactively, by finding out in advance of any serious interaction if they are manipulative, and then controlling the circumstances of how you might have to interact with them from them on if you can't avoid them.\n\nOne way is to ask others that have had a history of contact with that person about them, and watch their body language and how long it takes for them to choose their words. This works particularly well in something like an office environment where you may be forced to work with someone that you suspect might not have your interests at heart.\n\nSomething like \"X seems like a nice person\" will make someone blister you (and them) if they're not particularly diplomatic, or squirm to find an inoffensive but not entirely dishonest response if they are a diplomatic person or are in an environment where they have to watch their tongue (i.e. work). \n\n(Yup, this does raise the risk that the person you're asking is manipulative and they're using your question to poison you against the target... so be aware that this could be a possible outcome and use your own rational analysis to verify whether that's the case.)\n\nHow to deal with them at the office is to WRITE EVERYTHING DOWN. Have a written audit trail of emails, notes and status reports that fully covers your interactions with that person. Do not speak to them alone, speak to them in groups and take meeting minutes when you do, then type them up and archive them with a timestamp. At the end of any interaction, confirm any action items they're going to take away so they can't worm out of it. And follow the office rules yourself about things like expenses, time away from the office, and so on. This usually keeps you fairly safe.\n\nHow to deal with them outside of the office, say if they're the new partner of a friend of yours, is to deny them any ammunition. Don't talk about others within any sort of earshot of that person, and remain completely honest in your opinions as lies are easy to use against you.\n\n*(Note: this sounds paranoid, and truly manipulative people aren't that common. But if you suspect or get a vibe that someone might be, it's a lot better to be safe than sorry.)*",
"They will frequently make unwarranted or unsolicited suggestions on the course of action you should take. Typically they will benefit somehow from the action, but how is hard to tell.",
"if you're a Selfish Guy class, your spell should counter attack the Manipulator class, rendering you immune to his attacks, as well as destabilizing him... at that moment, wait for the right opportunity to strike. in the balls.",
"To understand bad people, you need to know how they think and act. I'm actually reading about this, **Social Engineering The Art of Human Hacking**, by Christopher Hadnagy.\n\nChris stands up for *Security Through Education*, that to fully protect yourself from these atacks is by understanding how they work and how they are prepared.",
"This is a question I've struggled with for years. I recently found some very concrete answers in Adam Grant's book Give and Take. It explains how to spot them and how to protect yourself/interact with them. You might want to either read or listen to that book- Adam Grant has a PhD in Organizational Psychology; his books are pretty good and not too heavy either.",
"There is always someone who is way above your league, you won't detect those manipulators unless it is too late (or you never detect them).\n\nAs for everyone else: Take what everyone says into consideration and make up your own mind.",
"Everyone manipulates.\n\nIt's part of our survival settings.\n\nThat said, the key is to function as normally as possible within society, while mentally discarding the opinions of others the majority of the time."
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"How to improve handwriting quickly I began addressing my wedding invitations today, only to discover that my handwriting SUCKS. Any tips or tricks for improving handwriting, other than practice, practice, practice?",
"How to improve handwriting quickly I began addressing my wedding invitations today, only to discover that my handwriting SUCKS. Any tips or tricks for improving handwriting, other than practice, practice, practice?",
"How to improve handwriting quickly I began addressing my wedding invitations today, only to discover that my handwriting SUCKS. Any tips or tricks for improving handwriting, other than practice, practice, practice?",
"How to improve handwriting quickly I began addressing my wedding invitations today, only to discover that my handwriting SUCKS. Any tips or tricks for improving handwriting, other than practice, practice, practice?",
"How to improve handwriting quickly I began addressing my wedding invitations today, only to discover that my handwriting SUCKS. Any tips or tricks for improving handwriting, other than practice, practice, practice?",
"How to improve handwriting quickly I began addressing my wedding invitations today, only to discover that my handwriting SUCKS. Any tips or tricks for improving handwriting, other than practice, practice, practice?",
"How to improve handwriting quickly I began addressing my wedding invitations today, only to discover that my handwriting SUCKS. Any tips or tricks for improving handwriting, other than practice, practice, practice?",
"How to improve handwriting quickly I began addressing my wedding invitations today, only to discover that my handwriting SUCKS. Any tips or tricks for improving handwriting, other than practice, practice, practice?",
"How to improve handwriting quickly I began addressing my wedding invitations today, only to discover that my handwriting SUCKS. Any tips or tricks for improving handwriting, other than practice, practice, practice?",
"How to improve handwriting quickly I began addressing my wedding invitations today, only to discover that my handwriting SUCKS. Any tips or tricks for improving handwriting, other than practice, practice, practice?",
"How to improve handwriting quickly I began addressing my wedding invitations today, only to discover that my handwriting SUCKS. Any tips or tricks for improving handwriting, other than practice, practice, practice?"
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"I find that with some pens, my handwriting magically improves- but when I grab a random ballpoint, it regresses again. I've made a point of keeping these pens, but haven't identified what about them made them better. Needle Tip 0.5mm Pentel Energel Gel Ink = Good writing. Bic Round Stick ballpoint = Okay. Generic ballpoint with the company logo = Cryptic Runes.",
"I actually looked this up on Monday, because I was tired of my chicken scrawl! The best tip I found is to write with your arm/shoulder, and not with your wrist. I tried to mentally think about moving my arm rather than just controlling the pen with my wrist, and immediately noticed a notable change. It could partially be due to the fact that I was concentrating on trying to write better, but that's ok - practicing good handwriting makes good handwriting.",
"Line up all of the lower parts of letters, notice how in most typefaces this is done? taller parts go above but the lower parts are all the same height, this helped me greatly!",
"[Write in all-caps.](http://i.imgur.com/r32LF.jpg)\n\nIt will be slower at first, but any time you need to ensure that people can read your writing (forms of any kind, for example), all-caps it.",
"find someone with good handwriting and copy it. before writing each letter, take some time to think how you could approach writing the letter. when you write, do it at normal speed or slightly quicker.its what i did when my handwriting is chicken scratch. http://imgur.com/I3x6F",
"This LPT was posted some time ago, but change to writing in all block letters for a time, as small as possible. The repetitive motion retrains your hand muscle [or something like that, typing from memory]",
"Do it like in grade school. Find a set of nicely written letters (e.g., [like this](http://www.memoriapress.com/images/book_images/NAC/nac-complete-alphabet.gif)) and copy them. Spend a lot of time and paper on each letter. Try to copy it exactly. Copy it until it's easy, second-nature. Move on to the next letter. Takes time, but yeah, basically: practice, practice, practice.\n\nEventually, you'll be stringing these letters together, and you may get hung up on certain ones. That's OK! Take the time to write them with purpose. Eventually, those letters will become the ones you add your own little flourish to, since you spent extra time on them, and they'll be the signatures of your own, personal, beautiful style.\n\nSomeone mentioned writing with your arm/elbow, rather than with your wrist. That helps as well, at least with easing your muscles and keeping you from tiring (which hurts the handwriting). Write in a position that allows your elbow to rest on the table.\n\nLastly, it doesn't hurt to study the handwriting of others. If someone's handwriting strikes you as particularly good, take a second to really look at it. Notice the shape of the curves, the angles, etc. Try to imagine how they wrote it - try to imagine *them writing it*. Take a mental note and try to add that to your repertoire.",
"This video helped me out a ton. I had to stick to it though\nhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uVEFRddimq0",
"I have very good writing, its pretty much almost like a girl's but its very unique and clean. Try using a dull pencil or a 0.9mm lead mechanical pencil or larger size than that even. Something about it reduces the squiggly lines when writing letters or words and makes the writing look very smooth.\n\nFor pens, use pens with bigger width tips or slanted tip if that makes any sense. Gel pens are awesome for hand writing.\n\nFinally, write each letter separately, one at a time. I don't write in a hurry or try to connect one letter with the next at all. \n\n",
"I have terrible, terrible handwriting, but my calligraphy is great. Look into a set of pens and some ink and try it out",
"I write in all capital letters. It forced to me to think a bit longer on all letters and capitals usually require lifting the pen more which slows me down like e E h H etc.",
"Here are some exercises to help improve uniformity. They look easy enough, but they're super hard to get as even as the example, so don't be discouraged.\n\nhttp://www.iampeth.com/books/palmer_method_1935/palmerMethod_1935_page21.html\n\nhttp://www.iampeth.com/books/behrensmeyer/behrensmeyer_practical_penmanship_page10.html"
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"How to wear black clothing. I have several black tops that I never wear because I feel like every speck of whatever is floating around in the air instantly finds my shirt and hangs on for dear life. I find that others never appear to have this problem, but unless I am lint rolling myself constantly I just look a mess. \n\nReddit, what's the trick? ",
"How to wear black clothing. I have several black tops that I never wear because I feel like every speck of whatever is floating around in the air instantly finds my shirt and hangs on for dear life. I find that others never appear to have this problem, but unless I am lint rolling myself constantly I just look a mess. \n\nReddit, what's the trick? ",
"How to wear black clothing. I have several black tops that I never wear because I feel like every speck of whatever is floating around in the air instantly finds my shirt and hangs on for dear life. I find that others never appear to have this problem, but unless I am lint rolling myself constantly I just look a mess. \n\nReddit, what's the trick? "
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"What material is the clothing made of? I nearly wear all black every day of my life and I dont have this issue unless Im dealing with an animal that sheds a lot.",
"You're gonna love this. Put hand lotion on your hands and rub it in kinda. Before it's totally dry, rub your hands all over your shirt. Not enough that you see lotion on the shirt, but a little less. No static cling. Boom. Your welcome :)",
"If you ever find yourself without a lint roller, lick the palm of your hand lightly and rub the area you need to clean in a circular motion. Out of sight, obviously.",
"Dryer with a bounce sheet keeps about everything from sticking to my clothes. I have a dog and my fiancée has two light colored cats, other than a little hair here and there I pretty much stay clean. "
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"How to avoid drama in the office? I allowed myself to be dragged into drama in my last office and burned myself out trying to work with so much tension in the air all the time. I do not want to make the same mistake again in my new office, but also do not want to be an outcast.",
"How to avoid drama in the office? I allowed myself to be dragged into drama in my last office and burned myself out trying to work with so much tension in the air all the time. I do not want to make the same mistake again in my new office, but also do not want to be an outcast.",
"How to avoid drama in the office? I allowed myself to be dragged into drama in my last office and burned myself out trying to work with so much tension in the air all the time. I do not want to make the same mistake again in my new office, but also do not want to be an outcast.",
"How to avoid drama in the office? I allowed myself to be dragged into drama in my last office and burned myself out trying to work with so much tension in the air all the time. I do not want to make the same mistake again in my new office, but also do not want to be an outcast.",
"How to avoid drama in the office? I allowed myself to be dragged into drama in my last office and burned myself out trying to work with so much tension in the air all the time. I do not want to make the same mistake again in my new office, but also do not want to be an outcast.",
"How to avoid drama in the office? I allowed myself to be dragged into drama in my last office and burned myself out trying to work with so much tension in the air all the time. I do not want to make the same mistake again in my new office, but also do not want to be an outcast.",
"How to avoid drama in the office? I allowed myself to be dragged into drama in my last office and burned myself out trying to work with so much tension in the air all the time. I do not want to make the same mistake again in my new office, but also do not want to be an outcast.",
"How to avoid drama in the office? I allowed myself to be dragged into drama in my last office and burned myself out trying to work with so much tension in the air all the time. I do not want to make the same mistake again in my new office, but also do not want to be an outcast.",
"How to avoid drama in the office? I allowed myself to be dragged into drama in my last office and burned myself out trying to work with so much tension in the air all the time. I do not want to make the same mistake again in my new office, but also do not want to be an outcast.",
"How to avoid drama in the office? I allowed myself to be dragged into drama in my last office and burned myself out trying to work with so much tension in the air all the time. I do not want to make the same mistake again in my new office, but also do not want to be an outcast."
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"Just don't give a damn. Easy enough. Don't let the stress get to you. It may sound cliche but it works. My motto is \"I don't care\". Just do your work.",
"Number one way to avoid work drama is stay away from gossip and shit talkers. If someone tries to talk negatively about a coworker you respond with “I haven’t noticed that” or “have you tried talking to them about it directly?”. They’ll quickly realize you aren’t into the nonsense. Doesn’t mean you can’t be friendly, just don’t give in to going beyond that.",
"This is a tough question to answer briefly. I'm more than halfway into a book called Crucial Conversations, by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Al Switzler and Ron McMillan. It has really helped me approach conversations with coworkers as well as with my wife and other family members.",
"Focus on yourself & your job/tasks. \n\nUnless you have direct reports, do not concern yourself with anyone else's behavior. It's easy to get upset when it seems like Jim isn't doing his job, or Susie takes long lunches & Terry is well-liked but makes critical mistakes. Just don't worry about it, get involved or vent to anyone about anything. Likewise if someone is venting to you, don't take sides. You can listen & be neutral or provide a positive response or suggestion.\n\nEven your dream job will have challenges & challenging people. Effectively managing your own emotions is key. You can't always control the circumstances but you can control your response. When in doubt, pause.",
"Have you read \"Games People Play\"? It's a quick read and provides practical examples of the games (drama) and how to defuse them. Once people figure out you don't play games, they will respect you and leave you out of them.",
"Be boring. No one will approach you. I quickly weeded out who the gossips in my office were and I stopped talking to coworkers altogether. It makes your day go by a little slower and I grew to hate my job because I felt so isolated, but it kept me out of a lot of trouble. I also quit last week because my manager fed into the drama and it feels so good to be out of that toxic environment.",
"Smile, genuinely compliment everyone, but never share personal information. \nAlso, if you hear gossip or drama, don't get roped, just say something like - I didn't know that. \nIf people overstep your boundaries, you can always use excuse of work load not to stop them from sharing, commenting or wasting your time in general.",
"I tend to keep my head down and focus on the work. Some people think I'm quiet but it's just the best way I find working... Keeps me out of drama as well",
"Don’t talk or vent about anyone behind their backs, even if a coworker brings up the person first and you think you can trust them. Pot-stirrer’s and manipulative people will do this to “trick” you into saying things you don’t really mean, and will then go and tell the person what you said and make themselves look like they are being a good friend to that person by telling them.",
"I sometimes like to say - “well, she always says nice things about you so for now let’s just focus on getting the project done and go from there.”\nIt seems to trip up the gossip’s train of thought and make them self-reflect for a minute during which time you can exit the situation.",
"Flatly say no. When people bring you drama, simply say, \"I'm so sorry you're going through that. Janet in hr is probably more help in this situation than I am. I'll send her an email letting her know you need to talk.\"\n\nIf they continue, again, bluntly say, \"I'm sorry, this isn't my business and I can't be part of it.\""
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"Motivate through depression to clean house when you're really behind Hey all,\n\nI'm a depressed workaholic with low energy and I want to spend my weekends cleaning up my fixer-upper of a house. The problem is that I'm finding it overwhelmingly hard to motivate and at most all I can do is station-keep. Any tips?\n\nUpdate: wow, these are some good tips! Told myself I was just going to do this for five minutes, but I’m already done with my station keeping and am on to the rest of the house! Thanks everyone\n\nUpdate 2: and I’m done. My partner saw that I was cleaning and unpacking and yelled at me that I was doing it wrong and gave me lists of dozens of other things they wanted instead. Am overwhelmed and have given up, but am still grateful to everyone for helping me do more than I would have.",
"Motivate through depression to clean house when you're really behind Hey all,\n\nI'm a depressed workaholic with low energy and I want to spend my weekends cleaning up my fixer-upper of a house. The problem is that I'm finding it overwhelmingly hard to motivate and at most all I can do is station-keep. Any tips?\n\nUpdate: wow, these are some good tips! Told myself I was just going to do this for five minutes, but I’m already done with my station keeping and am on to the rest of the house! Thanks everyone\n\nUpdate 2: and I’m done. My partner saw that I was cleaning and unpacking and yelled at me that I was doing it wrong and gave me lists of dozens of other things they wanted instead. Am overwhelmed and have given up, but am still grateful to everyone for helping me do more than I would have.",
"Motivate through depression to clean house when you're really behind Hey all,\n\nI'm a depressed workaholic with low energy and I want to spend my weekends cleaning up my fixer-upper of a house. The problem is that I'm finding it overwhelmingly hard to motivate and at most all I can do is station-keep. Any tips?\n\nUpdate: wow, these are some good tips! Told myself I was just going to do this for five minutes, but I’m already done with my station keeping and am on to the rest of the house! Thanks everyone\n\nUpdate 2: and I’m done. My partner saw that I was cleaning and unpacking and yelled at me that I was doing it wrong and gave me lists of dozens of other things they wanted instead. Am overwhelmed and have given up, but am still grateful to everyone for helping me do more than I would have.",
"Motivate through depression to clean house when you're really behind Hey all,\n\nI'm a depressed workaholic with low energy and I want to spend my weekends cleaning up my fixer-upper of a house. The problem is that I'm finding it overwhelmingly hard to motivate and at most all I can do is station-keep. Any tips?\n\nUpdate: wow, these are some good tips! Told myself I was just going to do this for five minutes, but I’m already done with my station keeping and am on to the rest of the house! Thanks everyone\n\nUpdate 2: and I’m done. My partner saw that I was cleaning and unpacking and yelled at me that I was doing it wrong and gave me lists of dozens of other things they wanted instead. Am overwhelmed and have given up, but am still grateful to everyone for helping me do more than I would have.",
"Motivate through depression to clean house when you're really behind Hey all,\n\nI'm a depressed workaholic with low energy and I want to spend my weekends cleaning up my fixer-upper of a house. The problem is that I'm finding it overwhelmingly hard to motivate and at most all I can do is station-keep. Any tips?\n\nUpdate: wow, these are some good tips! Told myself I was just going to do this for five minutes, but I’m already done with my station keeping and am on to the rest of the house! Thanks everyone\n\nUpdate 2: and I’m done. My partner saw that I was cleaning and unpacking and yelled at me that I was doing it wrong and gave me lists of dozens of other things they wanted instead. Am overwhelmed and have given up, but am still grateful to everyone for helping me do more than I would have.",
"Motivate through depression to clean house when you're really behind Hey all,\n\nI'm a depressed workaholic with low energy and I want to spend my weekends cleaning up my fixer-upper of a house. The problem is that I'm finding it overwhelmingly hard to motivate and at most all I can do is station-keep. Any tips?\n\nUpdate: wow, these are some good tips! Told myself I was just going to do this for five minutes, but I’m already done with my station keeping and am on to the rest of the house! Thanks everyone\n\nUpdate 2: and I’m done. My partner saw that I was cleaning and unpacking and yelled at me that I was doing it wrong and gave me lists of dozens of other things they wanted instead. Am overwhelmed and have given up, but am still grateful to everyone for helping me do more than I would have.",
"Motivate through depression to clean house when you're really behind Hey all,\n\nI'm a depressed workaholic with low energy and I want to spend my weekends cleaning up my fixer-upper of a house. The problem is that I'm finding it overwhelmingly hard to motivate and at most all I can do is station-keep. Any tips?\n\nUpdate: wow, these are some good tips! Told myself I was just going to do this for five minutes, but I’m already done with my station keeping and am on to the rest of the house! Thanks everyone\n\nUpdate 2: and I’m done. My partner saw that I was cleaning and unpacking and yelled at me that I was doing it wrong and gave me lists of dozens of other things they wanted instead. Am overwhelmed and have given up, but am still grateful to everyone for helping me do more than I would have.",
"Motivate through depression to clean house when you're really behind Hey all,\n\nI'm a depressed workaholic with low energy and I want to spend my weekends cleaning up my fixer-upper of a house. The problem is that I'm finding it overwhelmingly hard to motivate and at most all I can do is station-keep. Any tips?\n\nUpdate: wow, these are some good tips! Told myself I was just going to do this for five minutes, but I’m already done with my station keeping and am on to the rest of the house! Thanks everyone\n\nUpdate 2: and I’m done. My partner saw that I was cleaning and unpacking and yelled at me that I was doing it wrong and gave me lists of dozens of other things they wanted instead. Am overwhelmed and have given up, but am still grateful to everyone for helping me do more than I would have.",
"Motivate through depression to clean house when you're really behind Hey all,\n\nI'm a depressed workaholic with low energy and I want to spend my weekends cleaning up my fixer-upper of a house. The problem is that I'm finding it overwhelmingly hard to motivate and at most all I can do is station-keep. Any tips?\n\nUpdate: wow, these are some good tips! Told myself I was just going to do this for five minutes, but I’m already done with my station keeping and am on to the rest of the house! Thanks everyone\n\nUpdate 2: and I’m done. My partner saw that I was cleaning and unpacking and yelled at me that I was doing it wrong and gave me lists of dozens of other things they wanted instead. Am overwhelmed and have given up, but am still grateful to everyone for helping me do more than I would have.",
"Motivate through depression to clean house when you're really behind Hey all,\n\nI'm a depressed workaholic with low energy and I want to spend my weekends cleaning up my fixer-upper of a house. The problem is that I'm finding it overwhelmingly hard to motivate and at most all I can do is station-keep. Any tips?\n\nUpdate: wow, these are some good tips! Told myself I was just going to do this for five minutes, but I’m already done with my station keeping and am on to the rest of the house! Thanks everyone\n\nUpdate 2: and I’m done. My partner saw that I was cleaning and unpacking and yelled at me that I was doing it wrong and gave me lists of dozens of other things they wanted instead. Am overwhelmed and have given up, but am still grateful to everyone for helping me do more than I would have.",
"Motivate through depression to clean house when you're really behind Hey all,\n\nI'm a depressed workaholic with low energy and I want to spend my weekends cleaning up my fixer-upper of a house. The problem is that I'm finding it overwhelmingly hard to motivate and at most all I can do is station-keep. Any tips?\n\nUpdate: wow, these are some good tips! Told myself I was just going to do this for five minutes, but I’m already done with my station keeping and am on to the rest of the house! Thanks everyone\n\nUpdate 2: and I’m done. My partner saw that I was cleaning and unpacking and yelled at me that I was doing it wrong and gave me lists of dozens of other things they wanted instead. Am overwhelmed and have given up, but am still grateful to everyone for helping me do more than I would have.",
"Motivate through depression to clean house when you're really behind Hey all,\n\nI'm a depressed workaholic with low energy and I want to spend my weekends cleaning up my fixer-upper of a house. The problem is that I'm finding it overwhelmingly hard to motivate and at most all I can do is station-keep. Any tips?\n\nUpdate: wow, these are some good tips! Told myself I was just going to do this for five minutes, but I’m already done with my station keeping and am on to the rest of the house! Thanks everyone\n\nUpdate 2: and I’m done. My partner saw that I was cleaning and unpacking and yelled at me that I was doing it wrong and gave me lists of dozens of other things they wanted instead. Am overwhelmed and have given up, but am still grateful to everyone for helping me do more than I would have.",
"Motivate through depression to clean house when you're really behind Hey all,\n\nI'm a depressed workaholic with low energy and I want to spend my weekends cleaning up my fixer-upper of a house. The problem is that I'm finding it overwhelmingly hard to motivate and at most all I can do is station-keep. Any tips?\n\nUpdate: wow, these are some good tips! Told myself I was just going to do this for five minutes, but I’m already done with my station keeping and am on to the rest of the house! Thanks everyone\n\nUpdate 2: and I’m done. My partner saw that I was cleaning and unpacking and yelled at me that I was doing it wrong and gave me lists of dozens of other things they wanted instead. Am overwhelmed and have given up, but am still grateful to everyone for helping me do more than I would have.",
"Motivate through depression to clean house when you're really behind Hey all,\n\nI'm a depressed workaholic with low energy and I want to spend my weekends cleaning up my fixer-upper of a house. The problem is that I'm finding it overwhelmingly hard to motivate and at most all I can do is station-keep. Any tips?\n\nUpdate: wow, these are some good tips! Told myself I was just going to do this for five minutes, but I’m already done with my station keeping and am on to the rest of the house! Thanks everyone\n\nUpdate 2: and I’m done. My partner saw that I was cleaning and unpacking and yelled at me that I was doing it wrong and gave me lists of dozens of other things they wanted instead. Am overwhelmed and have given up, but am still grateful to everyone for helping me do more than I would have."
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"On update2... I'm sorry, I used to have a partner like this and it can be crushing. Set a boundary by either cleaning in their absence or telling them that if they want it done their way, they will have to do it themselves. Try not to say it harsh, and explain that this is all you have the bandwidth to accomplish. Remember, before you assume you are depressed, make sure you aren't just surrounded by as...erm, I mean negative people",
"1) don’t clean - organize. Over the years I understood that keeping things clean is much easier and takes a lot less time when things are organized. \n2) aim small, as someone said. Break it down into sections or functions or rooms - totally up to you. And handle as much as you can at the time. \n3) handle something every single day - no matter how small it is. Congratulate yourself every time you finish something \n\nGood luck! You can totally do it and your life will change!",
"Set a timer for however long you can handle. Even if its just 10 minutes, clean your best on one specific area for that 10 minutes. You can do this more than one time a day, and if you put on upbeat music, extend it till the end of the last song... or the end of the set if you feel motivated enough. You can gradually extend it. Sometimes getting in touch with your anger can be a wellspring of energy that can be channelled into cleaning. If you are a natural extrovert seeing a friend will visit and talk while you clean as it can be energizing for an extrovert. \n\nBut sometimes all of your best efforts fail and you may have to resort to medication. Especially if your depression has a lot of physical manifestations, not just feeling down... ie... moving slowly, sleeping a lot.\n\nBest of luck... been there\n\n",
"Look up @domesticblisters on TikTok. She also has a book called \"How to Keep House While Drowning\" that I haven't read, but I've heard very good things. If you don't want to buy a book and you don't want to use TT, she was a guest on the By the Book podcast (Bonus: KC Davis). ",
"What I've found really helpful is splitting things up by sections. If the dining room table is cluttered, clean only the dining table. If it's a full room, split it up. First grab trash and throw that. Clothes, either hamper or if they need to be hung up, I leave them elsewhere but not the floor. Wiping down and dusting. Then any extras. And move onto the next. Breaking it down into a long task list of small tasks that can be easily done in 5 mins helps me loads.",
"Music, or an audiobook or other story that you don't have to play super close attention to. I have been working my way through Critical Role during house chores for the past 1-2 years. Sometimes I look at the screen but I don't have to, only when there's something specific to see or a funny reaction someone made. I'm helplessly unmotivated without it, but mildly entertained with it.\n\nIt's just enough entertainment to distract myself from the apparent agony of folding clothes etc., but not so riveting that I have to concentrate on it to follow along. \n\nBut I do NOT let myself listen/watch it unless I'm actively doing housework. It works! Good luck.",
"Sometimes helps to pick something easy to build momentum of wins. One thing leads to another, and if you can add cheer/fun to the game you’re playing, the time passes a lot easier. Try making a challenge out of it… and think of the prize you’re going after to make it happen. What does having a clean house enable you to enjoy? How much can you pull off with some minimal reasonable effort in just 10-15min? Find out. It’s more than you think when you get to doing what’ll fit in a short time, that’s much easier than say what you’d plan for a 2hr block. A lot of small efforts done do more than a big one not done.",
"It's helpful for me to do the easiest task first.\n\nI also prioritize the things that affect my mood the most. For example, I can tolerate some clutter, but touching sticky surfaces makes me feel gross. So I'll wipe the kitchen table before I organize the clutter. There's always a possibility I'll run out of energy after the first task",
"for something you really hate to do, do it first to get it over with. give yourself a little treat at the end of your chores, whatever that looks like for you.",
"I too struggle finding motivation to work on projects. \n\nFirst make sure that your basic necessities are met. Food sleep and water. If you are not very active, try doing light exercise to increase your overall stamina.\n\nWhen working on big projects, I find it motivating to breakdown the projects into tasks by making a list and checking it off as I go. It gives me a sense of progression and gives me an idea of how long each task will take, and what I can reasonably accomplish withing that time frame.\n\nAlso, get some sun while you can. Lack of vitamin d leads to all sorts of medical complications which include depression.",
"put on a long form video about a topic you like, listen while you work, just throw stuff out you don't need and organize whatever's left, just do it. people over obsess over how hard cleaning can be, it really isn't just do it. we're all human beings capable of thought, cleaning a mess is pretty easy once you get down to it its just that initial barrier of thinking you don't want to, set an ultimatum in your mind and get on with it already",
"The best motivation for me to clean is expecting other people to come over. It could just be to stop by, for a game night, anything. I try to do plan one social thing a weekend or invite people over. Even if they don’t come over or plans fall through, I have already manically cleaned my house 😅",
"People are so thoughtful to spend their time putting this information together to share/help others. Thanks everyone!",
"Make a list or even just one thing that you have but cant find because your place is such a mess. Then focus on that. I find cleaning much easier when I am on a scavenger hunt of sorts.\n\n\\+ putting on something to listen to",
"I finally succeeded today! Yehaw! (No, I’m\nNot from Texas.) (Nor some kind of cowgirl.) All of that pain in the last three weeks, beating myself up, afraid I’m going to enter some kid of completely non-functioning world, which was terrorizing me. And then in one day, finally, I got so much done. I’ll have to think what made the difference today that made me succeed and I’ll update this post! Life is so tough, and I definitely know I’m my worst enemy at wanting so much more from myself than I am able to do. I know acceptance is key. I’m just not able to do it. I want my life back and I’m not okay with this life of being disabled. When you are disabled like I am, it is my disability that totally controls my life. I have like 15% control. And it is absolutely maddening."
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"An easy way to semi or fully soundproof a window. My room in my apartment is backed up next to a major intersection, and the noise coming from it is affecting my sleep pretty majorly. I just need something to at least dampen the sound so I can go back to sleeping through an entire night. ",
"An easy way to semi or fully soundproof a window. My room in my apartment is backed up next to a major intersection, and the noise coming from it is affecting my sleep pretty majorly. I just need something to at least dampen the sound so I can go back to sleeping through an entire night. ",
"An easy way to semi or fully soundproof a window. My room in my apartment is backed up next to a major intersection, and the noise coming from it is affecting my sleep pretty majorly. I just need something to at least dampen the sound so I can go back to sleeping through an entire night. ",
"An easy way to semi or fully soundproof a window. My room in my apartment is backed up next to a major intersection, and the noise coming from it is affecting my sleep pretty majorly. I just need something to at least dampen the sound so I can go back to sleeping through an entire night. ",
"An easy way to semi or fully soundproof a window. My room in my apartment is backed up next to a major intersection, and the noise coming from it is affecting my sleep pretty majorly. I just need something to at least dampen the sound so I can go back to sleeping through an entire night. ",
"An easy way to semi or fully soundproof a window. My room in my apartment is backed up next to a major intersection, and the noise coming from it is affecting my sleep pretty majorly. I just need something to at least dampen the sound so I can go back to sleeping through an entire night. "
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"Earplugs. In Afghanistan, I slept around 1/4 mile from a runway where fighter planes and the like would take off and land 24/7. It will take a couple of days to get used to it, but you will, and they are awesome.",
"There isn't a particularly cost-effective way to soundproof a window, particularly if you still want to be able to see out of it. I would first try either a noise generator (constant white noise will tend to drown out ambient noise) or perhaps a pair of noise canceling earbuds (although sleeping with them might prove uncomfortable). ",
"Sound travels through gaps so first make sure the window is caulked. If you are okay blocking the window go to home depot and get foam board, blue or pink. Cut it to size and fit in the window opening.",
"I found the perfect solution for this: Buy those padded moving blankets at home depot (about $23) and put them on your window. The padding makes it VERY soundproof.",
"Buy some plexiglass and cut it to size, or have the store do it. Most home improvement places do this. I made a frame for mine so I can remove it, but you don't have to. It was about 20 bucks for a 30x42 inch window, 3/4 inch thick, and it help tremendously.\n\nAlso, I second the caulk idea by kamien, and do this first, get every little crack and joint full, this will help a lot.",
"Look into sleep headphones, then get a white noise to play on them. They are like a fleece headband with a speaker woven in. The only way to sleep with a noisy bed partner. ",
"If you don't mind blocking the entire window, I remember reading that egg crates work great for soundproofing. The cardboard and egg shape help absorb a lot of the sound. Try making several \"sheets\" from egg crates and fasten them over your window. Maybe add some paper or tissue or something to fill any cracks or openings."
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"New fun and exciting ways to enjoy our young age. I'm 24 and I'm stuck in a vicious cycle of working all the time, and doing nothing fun with my free time. What are some great activities that cost little to nothing to enjoy?",
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"Festivals. [1](https://www.everfest.com/) and [2](https://www.evensi.us/)\n\nMany are free, they'll be tons of people, it's almost impossible *not* to talk them(the people at the festival) and before you know it you've killed the whole day.\n",
"1. What are some things that you like, that are also fairly cheap? Since we can't read your mind you'll have to think of them yourself, although I'm sure there's an lpt on how to think of things you like in here with tons of upvotes.\n\n2. Do the things you thought of.\n\n"
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"Is there a proven method of thickening hair apart from transplants? As it says in the title, just looking for any scientific methods of thickening hair in men. I know maintaining a healthy diet can help, but I'm looking for some drastic treatment.",
"Is there a proven method of thickening hair apart from transplants? As it says in the title, just looking for any scientific methods of thickening hair in men. I know maintaining a healthy diet can help, but I'm looking for some drastic treatment."
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"I think it is one of those things we need to just accept. There are all sorts of special shampoos, ones with caffeine in them (as if your hair will absorb it and go all awake and alert?), but if it is thinning, it is thinning. I am getting there, if it gets past a certain point I am just shaving it off.",
"Rogaine (minoxidil) and Propecia (finasteride) are your only real options. Ignore the laser bullshit mentioned below. They won't work miracles but used alone they can prevent and even reverse some hair loss. Ask your doctor and do some research online. Chance of side effects but they're very low for most people. Plenty of forums online document people's experience with them.\n\nAnd if the hair loss continues, don't be afraid to buzz or shave. Once it gets last a certain point it looks worse to try and cover it up."
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"How can I minimize the ability for my phone, and the apps on it, to spy on me (e.g., listening in on my conversations) ",
"How can I minimize the ability for my phone, and the apps on it, to spy on me (e.g., listening in on my conversations) ",
"How can I minimize the ability for my phone, and the apps on it, to spy on me (e.g., listening in on my conversations) ",
"How can I minimize the ability for my phone, and the apps on it, to spy on me (e.g., listening in on my conversations) ",
"How can I minimize the ability for my phone, and the apps on it, to spy on me (e.g., listening in on my conversations) ",
"How can I minimize the ability for my phone, and the apps on it, to spy on me (e.g., listening in on my conversations) ",
"How can I minimize the ability for my phone, and the apps on it, to spy on me (e.g., listening in on my conversations) "
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"Put it in a 10” thick, lead-walled, gold-plated box when your friends start discussing the assassination list. ",
"If you have android you can manage the access that apps have to you phone. I blocked location, camera, and microphone to apps that don't inherently need it. There are many other access settings to control. Its in settings menu under apps and permissions. Then you have a list of all of your apps and you can choose what permissions each app can have.\n",
"Step 1: Root your device. Nothing worse than having Google, or AT&T, or Samsung, or whoever else, tell you what you can and can't do with your own device.\nStep 2: Crank the security down, custom style.\n\nRemember to encrypt your device.",
"I literally taped up my front camera. I literally never use it and at night i swear i can see a little red light on it sometimes...",
"Contrary to what most people believe, most apps do not spy on you. The are a few exceptions, such as an app that access you camera and microphone for no apparent reason. On Android 7 and up, apps will ask for permissions as they get used (ie you open up a video call so it asks for camera permission) If it asks for permissions before the app starts, then you should deny them. Also, look at the developer of the app. If they appear to be sketchy, then you probably shouldn't download it.",
"Contrary to what most people believe, most apps do not spy on you. The are a few exceptions, such as an app that access you camera and microphone for no apparent reason. On Android 7 and up, apps will ask for permissions as they get used (ie you open up a video call so it asks for camera permission) If it asks for permissions before the app starts, then you should deny them. Also, look at the developer of the app. If they appear to be sketchy, then you probably shouldn't download it.",
"Contrary to what most people believe, most apps do not spy on you. The are a few exceptions, such as an app that access you camera and microphone for no apparent reason. On Android 7 and up, apps will ask for permissions as they get used (ie you open up a video call so it asks for camera permission) If it asks for permissions before the app starts, then you should deny them. Also, look at the developer of the app. If they appear to be sketchy, then you probably shouldn't download it."
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"How to be sure or how to identify whether someone is truly a nice person or just putting on a facade to deceive you. Whether it's relatives, friends, associates from workplace or people you met often, etc......",
"How to be sure or how to identify whether someone is truly a nice person or just putting on a facade to deceive you. Whether it's relatives, friends, associates from workplace or people you met often, etc......",
"How to be sure or how to identify whether someone is truly a nice person or just putting on a facade to deceive you. Whether it's relatives, friends, associates from workplace or people you met often, etc......",
"How to be sure or how to identify whether someone is truly a nice person or just putting on a facade to deceive you. Whether it's relatives, friends, associates from workplace or people you met often, etc......",
"How to be sure or how to identify whether someone is truly a nice person or just putting on a facade to deceive you. Whether it's relatives, friends, associates from workplace or people you met often, etc......",
"How to be sure or how to identify whether someone is truly a nice person or just putting on a facade to deceive you. Whether it's relatives, friends, associates from workplace or people you met often, etc......",
"How to be sure or how to identify whether someone is truly a nice person or just putting on a facade to deceive you. Whether it's relatives, friends, associates from workplace or people you met often, etc......",
"How to be sure or how to identify whether someone is truly a nice person or just putting on a facade to deceive you. Whether it's relatives, friends, associates from workplace or people you met often, etc......",
"How to be sure or how to identify whether someone is truly a nice person or just putting on a facade to deceive you. Whether it's relatives, friends, associates from workplace or people you met often, etc......",
"How to be sure or how to identify whether someone is truly a nice person or just putting on a facade to deceive you. Whether it's relatives, friends, associates from workplace or people you met often, etc......",
"How to be sure or how to identify whether someone is truly a nice person or just putting on a facade to deceive you. Whether it's relatives, friends, associates from workplace or people you met often, etc......",
"How to be sure or how to identify whether someone is truly a nice person or just putting on a facade to deceive you. Whether it's relatives, friends, associates from workplace or people you met often, etc......",
"How to be sure or how to identify whether someone is truly a nice person or just putting on a facade to deceive you. Whether it's relatives, friends, associates from workplace or people you met often, etc......",
"How to be sure or how to identify whether someone is truly a nice person or just putting on a facade to deceive you. Whether it's relatives, friends, associates from workplace or people you met often, etc......",
"How to be sure or how to identify whether someone is truly a nice person or just putting on a facade to deceive you. Whether it's relatives, friends, associates from workplace or people you met often, etc......"
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"I agree with everyone else, but also add:\n\nTrust your intuition. If it smells off somehow, your subconscious is telling your something important!",
"Listen to how they talk about people when they're there vs not. If they change drastically, they're not above lying about their feelings. ",
"To find out if someone is genuinely nice, look and observe how they treat their family and friends. This is the best indicator. How they treat those people in their lives is how you will eventually be treated once the honeymoon period is over.",
"If they are the same genuine nice person in all social situations then that is who they are. I have met many \"nice\" people who are chameleons - they change they way they act with different people. They may not realise they are doing it, and hell, they might be a nice person in all those situations, but if they are changing then they are not ever themselves. ",
"How they treat people of lower social standing or intelligence and how they do it when they think others are not watching is a huge one. It's amazing the facade people will put on then how they treat people they view as lesser than them. ",
"Go to any restaurant or any place that utilizes servers or retail workers and see how that person treats those who's job is to serve people. You'll find out pretty quickly if that person is a nice person by the way they treat those considered subordinate to themselves.",
"The best way is to explore their history, and if you're in a position where continued interaction with that person will be important, you should be able to find some sources for this. (If you're not, it's probably less important for you to know anyway, unless the circumstances are exceptional such as if you're in a business that relies heavily on a trusted relationship of some kind to thrive and they're a new and big customer).\n\nObserve how their friends talk about them. Set the stage for an exploration of where they've been nice to other people. See if you can lead conversations around to themes where you can explore if they actually mentor, or volunteer, or contribute to charity, or assist in the community. Someone that spends their time at a Food Bank on Thanksgiving handing out turkey to the homeless is going to be a nice person. Find out if they do things like show up at company barbecues and offer to help cook or bring treats to the office. If it's a business related thing, see if you can ask their other customers how they were treated.\n\nOdds are good that if they have a history of generosity and honesty that is observed either by yourself or through their friends and acquaintances, they're truly a nice person, rather than someone who is manipulative for short-term gain. It's hard to hold that up over time.",
"I do put a facade around people that I cannot work with, I acts like I'm understanding of their problems but that is just for me to gain good reputation. If the opportunity arise to cause their downfall, I'll usually considers it. One way to caught people like me is to put me in a situation where I need your help. My ego will usually prevent me from taking your help as I dont want to owe favor from people I deemed useless to me.",
"i find that its hard for me to judge a person until at least 4 months have passed in contact with him/her; the first 4 months are always filled with acting and people being over friendly to win you over to their social circle, but after that the magic goes away and they start showing their true selves. so far this has worked for me quite well",
"Just at the beginning, people will reveal a lot about themselves. Look for and listen for any red flags, then, believe them.",
"How do they treat people waiting on them, at restaurants or even the cashiers... that can be a good tipoff... but of course just one point to consider.",
"Communication is a mix between body language, tone, and actual words. Watch them when they think no one is watching and you will get a good idea. ",
"normally you can tell just looking at them but I find it's easier to listen to what they say when you meet them. They'll say something nice but the undertone says more about the person.",
"Tell a joke and look in her/his eyes. If only the mouth 'laughs' and not the eyes, s/he's faking his/her emotions. Needs some training and is not obvious with everyone.",
"Manipulators, they know how to play, they know how and when to sacrifice and how to look good. They know small sacrifices make you look good and they do it, by sacrifice I usually mean by not looking greedy. You'll catch them out after some time because they are. \n\nIt can be true that after spending time they get used to you and let down their act from time to time, but you can't rely on that. \n\nThey give you compliments, that's the one I notice the most. They will say things and watch your reaction, if they see a positive one for example after giving a compliment, they will repeat this again. \n\nNot everyone is easy to read, don't fool yourself thinking you can read everyone. We aren't perfect, someone who doesn't ever do anything wrong or bad is probably fake as hell. I mean there are soft people who barely do anything wrong, and are genuinely nice, you'll see it. No manipulator would be too nice, only as nice as they have to be to look good.\n\nThe best advice is posted here: \n>\"Trust your intuition. If it smells off somehow, your subconscious is telling your something important!\"\n\nI got played 2 times by \"friends\" already. I have another \"buddy\" who uses these manipulating tactics, he doesn't think I know shit. They really think they can read you, they will judge you a lot. You'll see it, but not all of them are dumb either, the main reason they are keeping you around is to use you. Stop doing the things they are using you for and they'll disappear, like you never even knew them. They'll come back though if they still think they can use you more.\n\nThey will usually tell you they'll do something for you, or give you something and then back out for whatever reason. This is another one that isn't 100%. Like I said \"they know how to play\". You have to have your guard up 100% of the time. \n\nAnother post on here:\n>\"Look at how they treat people who can do nothing for them.\"\n\nJust stay away from manipulators, don't bother wasting your time and energy. They are sad fucks anyway or they are lying to their selves thinking they aren't. It will catch up to them.\n\nWatch out for \"I'll do something for you or give you something\" and then they back out of the deal, that's another one I notice. Greediness shows. There will be a lot of fake promises.\n\nSometimes I think fuck having to have my guard up all the time, but the moment you let it down, you're going to be someones door mat, especially if you are a person with a good heart. It's better to keep your guard up and not get played instead of regretting it after you get played. Trust me. \n\nI'll repeat it again, TRUST YOUR INSTRICTS. Every time I haven't I regretted it. \n\n"
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"I just found out my father has ALS (otherwise known as MND). What can I do now to preserve memories of him? Also any tips for aides for people with MND? Thankyou for any replies.",
"I just found out my father has ALS (otherwise known as MND). What can I do now to preserve memories of him? Also any tips for aides for people with MND? Thankyou for any replies.",
"I just found out my father has ALS (otherwise known as MND). What can I do now to preserve memories of him? Also any tips for aides for people with MND? Thankyou for any replies.",
"I just found out my father has ALS (otherwise known as MND). What can I do now to preserve memories of him? Also any tips for aides for people with MND? Thankyou for any replies.",
"I just found out my father has ALS (otherwise known as MND). What can I do now to preserve memories of him? Also any tips for aides for people with MND? Thankyou for any replies.",
"I just found out my father has ALS (otherwise known as MND). What can I do now to preserve memories of him? Also any tips for aides for people with MND? Thankyou for any replies.",
"I just found out my father has ALS (otherwise known as MND). What can I do now to preserve memories of him? Also any tips for aides for people with MND? Thankyou for any replies.",
"I just found out my father has ALS (otherwise known as MND). What can I do now to preserve memories of him? Also any tips for aides for people with MND? Thankyou for any replies.",
"I just found out my father has ALS (otherwise known as MND). What can I do now to preserve memories of him? Also any tips for aides for people with MND? Thankyou for any replies."
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"Interview him and record the answers? Ask him questions about his life when he was growing up, anecdotes about you and your siblings, advice about life? Things you and future generations would want to know. \n\nAlso, record his laugh, his smile and his mannerisms. Years from now, you’ll realize that these traits have been passed down to future generations, and they’ll remind you of him.",
"Record his voice. Video. Go over family history, stories and legends, review childhood memories. Get down his desires regarding possessions, health care, etc., as the disease progresses while he can still make his desires unequivocally clear. Get his stories about how / where specific items came into his or his family's possession. The true cruelty is that MND leaves the mind fully capable while gradually destroying the various ways of communicating. Get a record of everything you may someday want to know for his comfort and wellbeing or your own curiosity whilst communication remains a two-way street.",
"So sorry to hear. This might be a good thing to structure your conversations with him: [Dear Dad](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Dear-Dad-you-Journal-capturing/dp/1907048456/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=dear+dad+from+you+to+me&qid=1600780734&sprefix=dear+dad&sr=8-1)",
"My father passed from ALS a few years ago. I personally don't watch any home videos or listen to recordings - I remember the things we did together. \n\nMy suggestion is to go do things he physically enjoys doing ASAP. Very soon, those will be taken from him. You'll have time to talk - you likely won't have much time to DO. \n\nMy heart goes out to you both - treasure this time you have!\n\n",
"My dad is near the end of his battle with ALS. Record anything and everything. Go do the things you always loved doing with him, and do it soon. I regret not going for one more walk, or playing a couple more songs together now that he isn’t mobile. \n\n\nOne other thing we’ve learned the hard way is to always be ready for the next phase of his decline. We had a few falls that should have been avoided had we spent some time practicing getting him into bed with the lift instead of assuming he’d be able to walk every night. \n\n\nI’m really sorry to hear about your dad’s diagnosis, I know how heartbreaking it is to hear",
"Make sure he has someone he can talk to and feels comfortable confiding in. It’s an awful thing to watch someone you care for go through this disease and obviously much harder for the person suffering. Make sure their mental health is being looked after by someone they trust. Sometimes just to vent, but it is a harsh adjustment and they need many people supporting them. Make the most of the time you have - you probably won’t get second chances. \nFriend/Co-worker was diagnosed over a year ago and it is a heartbreaking transition to witness.",
"I was gonna add something but the other comments nailed it. Since my dad passed the thing I miss the most is hearing his laugh, seeing his smile, and hearing him say I love you... Record any moment you can, you'll thank yourself later.",
"Also record going over family albums or try to record the family and close ones all hanging out being normal (as in your family norm) These things will be treasures",
"All these are great. Video is a great idea.\n\nI’ve had an audio recorder for a few years and I love it so much. Audio is extremely powerful. Record conversations with him. Ask him questions. Whatever. Whenever I listen back to conversations I’ve recorded I’m brought right back to that moment and can visualize exactly where I am. It’s really awesome.\n\nP. S. I’m very sorry to hear about your father."
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"How to stay awake for 48h? Hello,\n\nfirst of all I want to make clear that it is not good for your health and I know that, I don't want anyone to tell me that it is not good or things like that, I just want to have some tips on how to stay awake that long. It is only a one-time thing and I am not looking foward to repeat it.",
"How to stay awake for 48h? Hello,\n\nfirst of all I want to make clear that it is not good for your health and I know that, I don't want anyone to tell me that it is not good or things like that, I just want to have some tips on how to stay awake that long. It is only a one-time thing and I am not looking foward to repeat it.",
"How to stay awake for 48h? Hello,\n\nfirst of all I want to make clear that it is not good for your health and I know that, I don't want anyone to tell me that it is not good or things like that, I just want to have some tips on how to stay awake that long. It is only a one-time thing and I am not looking foward to repeat it.",
"How to stay awake for 48h? Hello,\n\nfirst of all I want to make clear that it is not good for your health and I know that, I don't want anyone to tell me that it is not good or things like that, I just want to have some tips on how to stay awake that long. It is only a one-time thing and I am not looking foward to repeat it.",
"How to stay awake for 48h? Hello,\n\nfirst of all I want to make clear that it is not good for your health and I know that, I don't want anyone to tell me that it is not good or things like that, I just want to have some tips on how to stay awake that long. It is only a one-time thing and I am not looking foward to repeat it.",
"How to stay awake for 48h? Hello,\n\nfirst of all I want to make clear that it is not good for your health and I know that, I don't want anyone to tell me that it is not good or things like that, I just want to have some tips on how to stay awake that long. It is only a one-time thing and I am not looking foward to repeat it.",
"How to stay awake for 48h? Hello,\n\nfirst of all I want to make clear that it is not good for your health and I know that, I don't want anyone to tell me that it is not good or things like that, I just want to have some tips on how to stay awake that long. It is only a one-time thing and I am not looking foward to repeat it.",
"How to stay awake for 48h? Hello,\n\nfirst of all I want to make clear that it is not good for your health and I know that, I don't want anyone to tell me that it is not good or things like that, I just want to have some tips on how to stay awake that long. It is only a one-time thing and I am not looking foward to repeat it.",
"How to stay awake for 48h? Hello,\n\nfirst of all I want to make clear that it is not good for your health and I know that, I don't want anyone to tell me that it is not good or things like that, I just want to have some tips on how to stay awake that long. It is only a one-time thing and I am not looking foward to repeat it.",
"How to stay awake for 48h? Hello,\n\nfirst of all I want to make clear that it is not good for your health and I know that, I don't want anyone to tell me that it is not good or things like that, I just want to have some tips on how to stay awake that long. It is only a one-time thing and I am not looking foward to repeat it.",
"How to stay awake for 48h? Hello,\n\nfirst of all I want to make clear that it is not good for your health and I know that, I don't want anyone to tell me that it is not good or things like that, I just want to have some tips on how to stay awake that long. It is only a one-time thing and I am not looking foward to repeat it."
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"5 Hour Energy drinks, every 3 hours, with Mt Dew and jerky between. I did 62 hours straight when I went from St. Paul to Tucson and back, to pick up my, no license, afraid to fly sister, to get her home for Mom's Funeral. 54-ish hours driving, the rest was at the Church.",
"If you can, stand rather than sit. \nDo something that's stimulating, but not tiring (like having a conversation with someone). \nEat fresh tasting, easy to digest food (fruit, salad).",
"I see a lot a of people talking about energy drinks or even drugs, but I've done over 30 hours without them. Here's a few tips: \n**Stay hydrated** : Make sure you have water available at all times and remember to drink, even more so if you are on energy drinks. \n**Eat less, more often** : Big meals will make you sleepy, but so will not eating enough. Have snacks regularly between small meals every 6 hours. \n**Stay active** : You need to be moving or you'll crash. Stand up if possible. If not, or if you start feeling tired, consider doing a couple exercises to get your blood flowing. Push-ups or sit-ups are a good option. \n**Avoid energy drinks** : At least as long as possible. They come with a huge crash after a couple hours and you'll be needing more and more which can be dangerous. Same goes for anything containing caffeine. \n**Beware of the morning** : For some reason, when morning comes your brain will try to make you sleep. It can be a rough couple of hours, but just keep applying the other tips and you'll get through.",
"I recently had to work on a project in uni for 38 hours in a row.\n\nThe most important part is keeping your mind occupied. That prevents you from falling asleep.\n\nAlso, fresh air. Always fresh air.\n\nCaffeine stops being effective around 30 hours, so that won’t help you much either.\n\nAlso, make breaks every hour or so, but DO NOT relax – instead, do sports, like run down 13 floors, and run them up again.\n\n(And yes, we managed to hand it in right on deadline. 3min before)",
"Will you be able to have breaks? If it's not just a bet my bestest tip for you is to take powernaps. Set a timer for 30min. Lie down. Get up the instant the alarm sounds wether or not you slept. Repeat every 3 hours.",
"When I drove over the road, I found talk radio to be very helpful in the danger zone, 12-5am. There are some long form shows on Sirius that last for 2-3 hours each, and on weekdays they have far more content than you can consume. I used energy shots on occasion but I found that the crash from them was worse than the amount they helped in the near term. Still, 48 straight is a lot. I had some tough runs but always got in at least a REM cycle each day. Not gonna lie, you're gonna need drugs.",
"What's the purpose, just to say you did, or is there some legitimate reason?\n\nI've done it for work, and it sucked.",
"Stay off caffeine for at least a week. And then when you need to start on a lot of high caffeine consumables. Results will vary",
"Not that I support it, but energetic drinks (red bull etc.) I once had to study hard night after night for several exams and energetics kept me going. The downside of course is that you don't gradually lose strength after they wear off. You just totally fall apart at once, which forces you to take another one or get a good sleep.",
"If you have something you really, REALLY, have to do it's not actually that hard. Fair warning though I did 30 hours about a week ago to get over jet lag in a hurry and you seriously feel impaired by then. So if you're trying to get something done it's probably more efficient to ask for an extension and get the sleep\n",
"Caffeine-dense sodas (like dr pepper), fruit (like some apples, they really wake you up), and every once in a while watch a little horror game gameplay on youtube (Alien Isolation, etc.) Shit will drive up your heartrate. \n\nOh and sit on benches, not chairs if you need to rest. Whatever you do, don't recline in any way, you won't get back up for 12 hours"
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"I repeatedly turn off alarms in the morning and go back to sleep. How can I get up on the first alarm? I have a problem. At night I set about 10-12 alarms. One is an alarm I put under my pillow that vibrates to wake me up. At the same time, one goes off that is across the room. After turning both of these off, I go back to sleep almost immediately. Next, 8-10 alarms go off on my phone. When they go off I immediately turn them off and go back to sleep. Hopefully I wake up to one of these, if not I will be late for class. \n \nI almost feel like I subconsciously turn the alarms off. Like my brain isn't functioning enough yet for me to realize that I need to wake up. \n \nThings I have tried: \n1. sleepyti.me \n2. Sleep Cycle iPhone app \n3. Multiple alarms around the room \n4. Drinking lots of water before bed. \n \nUnfortunately, I live in the same room as a roommate so anything that goes on too long or is across the room wakes him up too. \n \nPlease help!",
"I repeatedly turn off alarms in the morning and go back to sleep. How can I get up on the first alarm? I have a problem. At night I set about 10-12 alarms. One is an alarm I put under my pillow that vibrates to wake me up. At the same time, one goes off that is across the room. After turning both of these off, I go back to sleep almost immediately. Next, 8-10 alarms go off on my phone. When they go off I immediately turn them off and go back to sleep. Hopefully I wake up to one of these, if not I will be late for class. \n \nI almost feel like I subconsciously turn the alarms off. Like my brain isn't functioning enough yet for me to realize that I need to wake up. \n \nThings I have tried: \n1. sleepyti.me \n2. Sleep Cycle iPhone app \n3. Multiple alarms around the room \n4. Drinking lots of water before bed. \n \nUnfortunately, I live in the same room as a roommate so anything that goes on too long or is across the room wakes him up too. \n \nPlease help!",
"I repeatedly turn off alarms in the morning and go back to sleep. How can I get up on the first alarm? I have a problem. At night I set about 10-12 alarms. One is an alarm I put under my pillow that vibrates to wake me up. At the same time, one goes off that is across the room. After turning both of these off, I go back to sleep almost immediately. Next, 8-10 alarms go off on my phone. When they go off I immediately turn them off and go back to sleep. Hopefully I wake up to one of these, if not I will be late for class. \n \nI almost feel like I subconsciously turn the alarms off. Like my brain isn't functioning enough yet for me to realize that I need to wake up. \n \nThings I have tried: \n1. sleepyti.me \n2. Sleep Cycle iPhone app \n3. Multiple alarms around the room \n4. Drinking lots of water before bed. \n \nUnfortunately, I live in the same room as a roommate so anything that goes on too long or is across the room wakes him up too. \n \nPlease help!",
"I repeatedly turn off alarms in the morning and go back to sleep. How can I get up on the first alarm? I have a problem. At night I set about 10-12 alarms. One is an alarm I put under my pillow that vibrates to wake me up. At the same time, one goes off that is across the room. After turning both of these off, I go back to sleep almost immediately. Next, 8-10 alarms go off on my phone. When they go off I immediately turn them off and go back to sleep. Hopefully I wake up to one of these, if not I will be late for class. \n \nI almost feel like I subconsciously turn the alarms off. Like my brain isn't functioning enough yet for me to realize that I need to wake up. \n \nThings I have tried: \n1. sleepyti.me \n2. Sleep Cycle iPhone app \n3. Multiple alarms around the room \n4. Drinking lots of water before bed. \n \nUnfortunately, I live in the same room as a roommate so anything that goes on too long or is across the room wakes him up too. \n \nPlease help!",
"I repeatedly turn off alarms in the morning and go back to sleep. How can I get up on the first alarm? I have a problem. At night I set about 10-12 alarms. One is an alarm I put under my pillow that vibrates to wake me up. At the same time, one goes off that is across the room. After turning both of these off, I go back to sleep almost immediately. Next, 8-10 alarms go off on my phone. When they go off I immediately turn them off and go back to sleep. Hopefully I wake up to one of these, if not I will be late for class. \n \nI almost feel like I subconsciously turn the alarms off. Like my brain isn't functioning enough yet for me to realize that I need to wake up. \n \nThings I have tried: \n1. sleepyti.me \n2. Sleep Cycle iPhone app \n3. Multiple alarms around the room \n4. Drinking lots of water before bed. \n \nUnfortunately, I live in the same room as a roommate so anything that goes on too long or is across the room wakes him up too. \n \nPlease help!",
"I repeatedly turn off alarms in the morning and go back to sleep. How can I get up on the first alarm? I have a problem. At night I set about 10-12 alarms. One is an alarm I put under my pillow that vibrates to wake me up. At the same time, one goes off that is across the room. After turning both of these off, I go back to sleep almost immediately. Next, 8-10 alarms go off on my phone. When they go off I immediately turn them off and go back to sleep. Hopefully I wake up to one of these, if not I will be late for class. \n \nI almost feel like I subconsciously turn the alarms off. Like my brain isn't functioning enough yet for me to realize that I need to wake up. \n \nThings I have tried: \n1. sleepyti.me \n2. Sleep Cycle iPhone app \n3. Multiple alarms around the room \n4. Drinking lots of water before bed. \n \nUnfortunately, I live in the same room as a roommate so anything that goes on too long or is across the room wakes him up too. \n \nPlease help!",
"I repeatedly turn off alarms in the morning and go back to sleep. How can I get up on the first alarm? I have a problem. At night I set about 10-12 alarms. One is an alarm I put under my pillow that vibrates to wake me up. At the same time, one goes off that is across the room. After turning both of these off, I go back to sleep almost immediately. Next, 8-10 alarms go off on my phone. When they go off I immediately turn them off and go back to sleep. Hopefully I wake up to one of these, if not I will be late for class. \n \nI almost feel like I subconsciously turn the alarms off. Like my brain isn't functioning enough yet for me to realize that I need to wake up. \n \nThings I have tried: \n1. sleepyti.me \n2. Sleep Cycle iPhone app \n3. Multiple alarms around the room \n4. Drinking lots of water before bed. \n \nUnfortunately, I live in the same room as a roommate so anything that goes on too long or is across the room wakes him up too. \n \nPlease help!",
"I repeatedly turn off alarms in the morning and go back to sleep. How can I get up on the first alarm? I have a problem. At night I set about 10-12 alarms. One is an alarm I put under my pillow that vibrates to wake me up. At the same time, one goes off that is across the room. After turning both of these off, I go back to sleep almost immediately. Next, 8-10 alarms go off on my phone. When they go off I immediately turn them off and go back to sleep. Hopefully I wake up to one of these, if not I will be late for class. \n \nI almost feel like I subconsciously turn the alarms off. Like my brain isn't functioning enough yet for me to realize that I need to wake up. \n \nThings I have tried: \n1. sleepyti.me \n2. Sleep Cycle iPhone app \n3. Multiple alarms around the room \n4. Drinking lots of water before bed. \n \nUnfortunately, I live in the same room as a roommate so anything that goes on too long or is across the room wakes him up too. \n \nPlease help!",
"I repeatedly turn off alarms in the morning and go back to sleep. How can I get up on the first alarm? I have a problem. At night I set about 10-12 alarms. One is an alarm I put under my pillow that vibrates to wake me up. At the same time, one goes off that is across the room. After turning both of these off, I go back to sleep almost immediately. Next, 8-10 alarms go off on my phone. When they go off I immediately turn them off and go back to sleep. Hopefully I wake up to one of these, if not I will be late for class. \n \nI almost feel like I subconsciously turn the alarms off. Like my brain isn't functioning enough yet for me to realize that I need to wake up. \n \nThings I have tried: \n1. sleepyti.me \n2. Sleep Cycle iPhone app \n3. Multiple alarms around the room \n4. Drinking lots of water before bed. \n \nUnfortunately, I live in the same room as a roommate so anything that goes on too long or is across the room wakes him up too. \n \nPlease help!"
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"Does the alarm wake you up?\nIf that's the case you are all good.\n\nWhen you wake up. DO NOT SNOOZE. Snooze is an evil entity that doesn't want you to wake up. Seriously.\n\nWhen you wake up to your alarm, that is your your cue to not going back to sleep. Just don't.\n\nAs in [this comment](http://www.reddit.com/r/LifeProTips/comments/1n3hmg/lpt_set_your_alarm_tone_to_something_gentler/ccf39ku), by /u/amcrastinator ; his roomate \"couldn't\" get himself to wake up. Reason? he really didn't want to. But when he got some motivation for waking up, he did. All by himself.\n\n\nSo what I'm saying is basically these steps:\n\nStep 1: Don't snooze.\n\nStep 2: Get the fuck out of bed when the alarm starts.\n\nStep 3: Repeat every day.\n\nStep 4: You have now set you body on waking up the same time every day. \n\nStep 5: Yeah, no problem waking up anymore.\n\nSource: I did it.",
"You can train yourself to get up right away: http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/04/how-to-get-up-right-away-when-your-alarm-goes-off/\n",
"My boyfriend had an app that he used for a while. When the alarm went off you weren't able to turn it off without doing a set of minor math questions. By the time that you finished the questions and are able to actually turn the alarm off, it's already been a few minutes. You probably won't go back to sleep.",
"Well Im not sure if there's anything similar for Apple products, but I've used something called Alarm Clock Xtreme. It has a lot of options, but my favorite is that it makes you solve a simple math problem to snooze it. The more you snooze the more difficult the problem becomes, and you can set initial difficulty. ",
"This is the only thing that's worked for me. for the vibrating piece, setting it on a hard surface works well, the sound is very annoying. Sonic Alert SBJ525ss Sonic Bomb Jr., Black/Red\nhttp://amzn.com/B004OWLUWM",
"Stop setting so many alarms. Eliminate one every day until you're down to 2. When you wake up, knowing that you have the option of waiting for another alarm makes you feel like you can just go back to sleep.",
"Hey there. I go through the same thing. I've lost jobs because of oversleeping. I swear I feel like I'm insane in the morning: I feel tired, week, achey, cloudy head. I just want to go back to being unconscious. If I can get myself up to take a shower then I'm great, but seriously, I just snooze/shut it off and roll over. Then I'll wake up two hours later late for work. I hate it.\n\nI'm trying to work a couple of things, I picked up one of these:\nhttp://www.amazon.com/Philips-Hf3470-Wake-up-Light-White/dp/B003XN4RIC\n\nA sleep therapy expert also recommended improving Sleep Hygiene:\nhttp://www.sleepfoundation.org/article/ask-the-expert/sleep-hygiene\n\nIf you snore, get a sleep study to make sure you don't have sleep apnea.\n\nGood luck!",
"Get one of those alarms that requires you to solve a puzzle, shoot a target with a nerf dart, or peels away on wheels. If you go back to sleep after turning one of those off, you are actively trying to subvert yourself.",
"* Avoid the snooze button\n\n* Set yourself up a morning routine that you look forward to\n\n* After a few days (maybe weeks) this will become second nature, and you probably won't even really need an alarm\n\nSnooze button is the mfuggin devil. I naturally trend toward 5-7 hours of sleep before I wake up naturally, most days I just roll out of bed before my alarm even goes off. If I wait for the alarm and/or hit snooze once or twice its guaranteed to be a drag-assy morning.\n\nAlso This is probably the best bet. Snooze button is the mfuggin devil. I naturally trend toward 5-7 hours of sleep before I wake up naturally, most days I just roll out of bed before my alarm even goes off. If I wait for the alarm and/or hit snooze once or twice its guaranteed to be a drag-assy morning.\n\nA morning routine also helps a ton. Maybe make yourself a nice breakfast on days that you get up on time, or relax over the morning news. I've gotten into the habit of a morning run lately, it helps a ton."
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"How do I stop thinking about my ex, and focus on my own life? We've been broken up for a while (been years actually), and the whole issue is I CANNOT stop thinking about what he might be doing, what he and his SO are doing, their life together, all the cool trips they're probably going on, etc. It's come to a point where its taking over my life. I have stuff to do, but I sit around all day and just wallow. I have missed out on so many great opportunities because I have procrastinated and not finished stuff on time - because of my obsessive thinking about my ex. Help!",
"How do I stop thinking about my ex, and focus on my own life? We've been broken up for a while (been years actually), and the whole issue is I CANNOT stop thinking about what he might be doing, what he and his SO are doing, their life together, all the cool trips they're probably going on, etc. It's come to a point where its taking over my life. I have stuff to do, but I sit around all day and just wallow. I have missed out on so many great opportunities because I have procrastinated and not finished stuff on time - because of my obsessive thinking about my ex. Help!",
"How do I stop thinking about my ex, and focus on my own life? We've been broken up for a while (been years actually), and the whole issue is I CANNOT stop thinking about what he might be doing, what he and his SO are doing, their life together, all the cool trips they're probably going on, etc. It's come to a point where its taking over my life. I have stuff to do, but I sit around all day and just wallow. I have missed out on so many great opportunities because I have procrastinated and not finished stuff on time - because of my obsessive thinking about my ex. Help!",
"How do I stop thinking about my ex, and focus on my own life? We've been broken up for a while (been years actually), and the whole issue is I CANNOT stop thinking about what he might be doing, what he and his SO are doing, their life together, all the cool trips they're probably going on, etc. It's come to a point where its taking over my life. I have stuff to do, but I sit around all day and just wallow. I have missed out on so many great opportunities because I have procrastinated and not finished stuff on time - because of my obsessive thinking about my ex. Help!",
"How do I stop thinking about my ex, and focus on my own life? We've been broken up for a while (been years actually), and the whole issue is I CANNOT stop thinking about what he might be doing, what he and his SO are doing, their life together, all the cool trips they're probably going on, etc. It's come to a point where its taking over my life. I have stuff to do, but I sit around all day and just wallow. I have missed out on so many great opportunities because I have procrastinated and not finished stuff on time - because of my obsessive thinking about my ex. Help!",
"How do I stop thinking about my ex, and focus on my own life? We've been broken up for a while (been years actually), and the whole issue is I CANNOT stop thinking about what he might be doing, what he and his SO are doing, their life together, all the cool trips they're probably going on, etc. It's come to a point where its taking over my life. I have stuff to do, but I sit around all day and just wallow. I have missed out on so many great opportunities because I have procrastinated and not finished stuff on time - because of my obsessive thinking about my ex. Help!"
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"So you're single...and have a problem I may have had...hmm\n\nHi, \n\nMy name is purple1864. How are you?",
"No, stop it. and get out there. There is a time when you just need to say fuck it and make yourself free. Instead you are just sitting there waiting for life to happened but life is a train, rushing right past you. You are not keeping up, you are not living. \nGet out there, and make a legacy of yourself. That is why you are grieving you feel like this person was the best thing to ever had happened to you. You feel a bit jealous, and you think that your life would had been great if it was the two of you. But guess what? it would not, life is what you make it. it's a very dark and scary place, were loneliness slowly creeping up on you if you don't take action to expand as a person. \n\nbeetfarmer981: What are you doing?\nNGoransson: Sorry just taking to myself again...\n ",
"Seasons for growth is a course which may help. It is done in small groups. I hear a lot of positive things about it. ",
"Have you considered Steps to Happyness on Instagram, she specializes in this topic. https://linktr.ee/stepstohappyness",
"Focus on anything ugly and unattractive about him. Anytime he comes to mind, think of those things (bad breath? Imperfections etc).\n\nIt's surprising how well you can tap the shallow part of your values to get over someone.",
"Are you an introvert or a lonely person? I think it's very similar to a state of grief but I even though we might feel lonely I don't think having a new person is the real fix although it could cover the wound. \n\nIn my case (at least I was in that position when she left me) I moved on when I decided to study a new career but it could have been any kind of activity that focused on my self-actualization. "
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"How to occupy myself while I'm sitting and bored without being a distraction. For example, in class or at a meeting.\n\n",
"How to occupy myself while I'm sitting and bored without being a distraction. For example, in class or at a meeting.\n\n",
"How to occupy myself while I'm sitting and bored without being a distraction. For example, in class or at a meeting.\n\n",
"How to occupy myself while I'm sitting and bored without being a distraction. For example, in class or at a meeting.\n\n"
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"Stare intently into the eyes of the person speaking without ever breaking eye contact, while you sing the song linked below as loudly as possible in your head.\nhttps://youtu.be/Pb4j29AbQXQ?t=39s\n",
"Drawing and looking up every now and then so it seems like you're taking notes.. Additionally, you can think about an object behind the speaker and think about it - I like to think about how things are designed and why the designer might have chosen the particular design or detail.",
"Read a book, write, draw, do origami or another small art project (I like to crochet or make friendship bracelets)",
"Focus on what is going on around you in great detail. There is so much information in detail. Who sits next to who? Who wears what and why? Who is spending to impress vs who is working to impress?\n\nYou can people watch in detail in a closed environment. It really only works well if you are magnitudes smarter than them, otherwise, you should pay attention to the information."
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"How to remove scratches from watches. My watch is pretty beat up and i want to restore it to what it was when i got it. ",
"How to remove scratches from watches. My watch is pretty beat up and i want to restore it to what it was when i got it. ",
"How to remove scratches from watches. My watch is pretty beat up and i want to restore it to what it was when i got it. "
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"Depending on what the face of the watch is made of, using toothpaste might work. Just put some toothpaste on the watch face and buff until it's smooth. This won't remove deep scratches, but will remove light surface ones.",
"If you've got a shop that works on watches it's usually easier to just have the crystal replaced. Check anyplace that sells quality watches. They might know where, or do the work themselves. \n\nThey have glass polishing compounds that can work, but you have to remove the crystal anyway to keep from scratching up the case, so there isn't much point. \n\nFor the body... depends what metal it is, if it's plated or not, etc... what you can do without destroying the finish. Also something the repair shop should know. \n",
"Remove glass. Melt glass and cool slowly in the same shape. You don't need to heat it for very long, just enough to have the surface be malleable. Warning: it can change shape from a circle, so keep it in something that shape. Maybe flatten a few layers of tin foil together? Or something stiffer, but something you can still shape into a circle the same size as the original glass. "
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"How to deal with smelly feet? I wear flip flops almost 100% of the time, but I've always had the problem of smelly feet while wearing flip flops. I think I've narrowed it down to the fact that my feet are sweating too much, but aren't flip flops supposed to help with that? I don't wear plastic flip flops but one with a soft leather-ish padding.",
"How to deal with smelly feet? I wear flip flops almost 100% of the time, but I've always had the problem of smelly feet while wearing flip flops. I think I've narrowed it down to the fact that my feet are sweating too much, but aren't flip flops supposed to help with that? I don't wear plastic flip flops but one with a soft leather-ish padding.",
"How to deal with smelly feet? I wear flip flops almost 100% of the time, but I've always had the problem of smelly feet while wearing flip flops. I think I've narrowed it down to the fact that my feet are sweating too much, but aren't flip flops supposed to help with that? I don't wear plastic flip flops but one with a soft leather-ish padding.",
"How to deal with smelly feet? I wear flip flops almost 100% of the time, but I've always had the problem of smelly feet while wearing flip flops. I think I've narrowed it down to the fact that my feet are sweating too much, but aren't flip flops supposed to help with that? I don't wear plastic flip flops but one with a soft leather-ish padding.",
"How to deal with smelly feet? I wear flip flops almost 100% of the time, but I've always had the problem of smelly feet while wearing flip flops. I think I've narrowed it down to the fact that my feet are sweating too much, but aren't flip flops supposed to help with that? I don't wear plastic flip flops but one with a soft leather-ish padding."
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"1) Flip flops usually do not help with foot odor because of the material of which they are made out of and because of their design. Most flip flops are made of materials which do a poor job of keeping your feet dry. Also, because you're not wearing socks (hopefully), a barrier of sweat protection is taken away. Lastly, you may think that flip flops being open and airy would keep your feet cool (which does happen), but that open airiness also helps odor escape.\n\n2) Wash your flip flops and feet regularly. They'll help keep them cleaner and less smelly.\n\n3) If your flip flops smell really bad, wash them, dry them, and them put them in a big in your freezer over night. The cold will destroy the odor-causing bacteria.\n\n4) Baby powder will also help keep your feet dry and less smelly.",
"The problem is indeed probably sweating, or more particularly, the fact that your feet stay moist when you sweat and provide an excellent breeding ground for odor-causing bacteria. \n\nLeather padding is only likely to retain the moisture (encouraging bacterial growth) and trap the odors, rather than helping with it, and it can't easily be washed, so leather flip flops might be the worst possible option for you. Wearing socks (cotton breathes best) would help, since those can be washed, though you'll have to be ok with looking like a stereotype of an engineer for that to be an option with flip flops. \n\nMainly what you want to do is wash your feet regularly (probably daily, if it's bothering you), and use a drying anti-odor powder or spray of some kind (spray-on antiperspirant would work for this, if you prefer). You may also want to consider getting some plastic shoes that you can rinse off regularly.",
"My mom swears by this: get a basin or whatever and fill it with tea (yes the kind you drink). Soak them for a while (15 minutes or longer if you want..scrub them puppies too since you're there already). There's something in the tea that naturally closes up your feet sweat glands and reduces your sweating DRASTICALLY. From my understanding she got it from China by way of Dr. Oz (lol). \nAnd if you're lazy, buy some spray deodorant and blast your feet everyday. Deodorants job is to keep things dry right?",
"**Put baking soda all over your feet.**\n\nThis stuff alters the pH of your skin to something that bacteria can't really live in. Also: if you've got a pair of stinky shoes, pour some baking soda in and shake it all around in there. If the footwear is truly horrible, put them in a big ziploc bag and stick it in the freezer for a couple of days.",
"What works really well for me, is stepping onto a small, clean towel after the shower, drying my feet while not stepping off of said towel, and putting on clean, new socks. If your shoes are stank-tacular, toss them in a freezer bag and put them in your freezer for a few days, then spritz lightly with a color safe bleach to kill any survivors. Maker sure to test the bleach on a bit of the fabric first, like on the back of the tongue of your shoe. Replace any inserts every year or so. ALWAYS have socks on in enclosed shoes, and wash your shoes every six months. "
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"There's a girl which I'd like to get to know. Problem is I don't know her at all. How do I talk to her? ",
"There's a girl which I'd like to get to know. Problem is I don't know her at all. How do I talk to her? ",
"There's a girl which I'd like to get to know. Problem is I don't know her at all. How do I talk to her? ",
"There's a girl which I'd like to get to know. Problem is I don't know her at all. How do I talk to her? ",
"There's a girl which I'd like to get to know. Problem is I don't know her at all. How do I talk to her? ",
"There's a girl which I'd like to get to know. Problem is I don't know her at all. How do I talk to her? ",
"There's a girl which I'd like to get to know. Problem is I don't know her at all. How do I talk to her? "
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"1) Why do you want to talk to her?\n\n2) Why would she want to talk to you?\n\nForget about #1 and focus on #2.",
"if you ever make eye contact, seize the opportunity immediatley and smile and maybe say hello or something idk its ur chic not mine",
"Compliment on her shoes/hair. It's noninvasive/not creepy.\n\nComment about seeing her often on your way to work a lot and that you want to say hello. Introduce yourself. Ask about her day.\n\nAnd if you decide to ask for her number, hand her your phone instead of having her say it. ",
"You: Hi\n\nHer: Hi\n\nYou: I take this route to work everyday, and I gotta say, this trip has me falling for you\n\nHer: get out",
"Sidle up to her carefully and let out a subtle fart, then blame her for it. It's a great conversation starter!",
"Pick a thing she's wearing or something characteristic about her (hair colour, posture, idiosyncrasy) and make an off-the cuff remark/comment. If she's interested in talking she'll reply, if you get along well enough it'll become a daily conversation. Escalate. Ask for her number. You do the rest.",
">How do I talk to her?\n\nStart with:\n\n1. I don't normally do this, but I had to come over and say hi.\n2. Hey I've seen you on this bus a few times, I'm Kevin.\n2. So what's up with your (anything about her).\n3. (or the best pick up line) Hi, I'm Kevin. What's your name?\n\nThen talk like you normally do.\n>But I'm kind of a shy guy who doesn't get the courage to talk to her. Any tips?\n\nChange this, being shy (aka unsociable) is not attractive for males. It is actually a instant killer unless you have an expert level skill (ie. something that creates (like art or crafts) or can be performed (like music or magic)). Even then, it would be even more attractive to have that skill and be sociable."
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"how to keep fitted sheets from slipping off the mattress My wife and I have a king sized bed, and any fitted sheets we have end up slipping off at the corner.",
"how to keep fitted sheets from slipping off the mattress My wife and I have a king sized bed, and any fitted sheets we have end up slipping off at the corner.",
"how to keep fitted sheets from slipping off the mattress My wife and I have a king sized bed, and any fitted sheets we have end up slipping off at the corner.",
"how to keep fitted sheets from slipping off the mattress My wife and I have a king sized bed, and any fitted sheets we have end up slipping off at the corner."
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"Make sure the sheet is the right size for the mattress; if the mattress is extra deep or thick, then the sheet will need to be extra long (all the way around) to compensate for it.\n\nMeasure to be sure.",
"I just this year got a set that has a \"deep\" fitted sheet. My mattress is obnoxiously pillowtopped under a super thick foam topper. Pulling down that fitted corner still amazes me!!",
"Beyond what others answered, Target sheets seem deeper with stronger elastic than others I’ve found. I really liked the Casaluna sheets that I got at Target. They may also have others designed the same that aren’t as pricey.",
"Buy proper fittings sheets for your size mattress. You have to pay attention to the depth, not just King."
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"Preventing mosquito bites It's a Swedish sunny summer here where I live and the mosquitoes have been on me like flies on feces.\n\nIf anyone knew a way to prevent mosquitoes from feeding on me that would be very nice. And while I'm on it, does anyone know a way to get rid of bites fast?",
"Preventing mosquito bites It's a Swedish sunny summer here where I live and the mosquitoes have been on me like flies on feces.\n\nIf anyone knew a way to prevent mosquitoes from feeding on me that would be very nice. And while I'm on it, does anyone know a way to get rid of bites fast?",
"Preventing mosquito bites It's a Swedish sunny summer here where I live and the mosquitoes have been on me like flies on feces.\n\nIf anyone knew a way to prevent mosquitoes from feeding on me that would be very nice. And while I'm on it, does anyone know a way to get rid of bites fast?",
"Preventing mosquito bites It's a Swedish sunny summer here where I live and the mosquitoes have been on me like flies on feces.\n\nIf anyone knew a way to prevent mosquitoes from feeding on me that would be very nice. And while I'm on it, does anyone know a way to get rid of bites fast?",
"Preventing mosquito bites It's a Swedish sunny summer here where I live and the mosquitoes have been on me like flies on feces.\n\nIf anyone knew a way to prevent mosquitoes from feeding on me that would be very nice. And while I'm on it, does anyone know a way to get rid of bites fast?",
"Preventing mosquito bites It's a Swedish sunny summer here where I live and the mosquitoes have been on me like flies on feces.\n\nIf anyone knew a way to prevent mosquitoes from feeding on me that would be very nice. And while I'm on it, does anyone know a way to get rid of bites fast?",
"Preventing mosquito bites It's a Swedish sunny summer here where I live and the mosquitoes have been on me like flies on feces.\n\nIf anyone knew a way to prevent mosquitoes from feeding on me that would be very nice. And while I'm on it, does anyone know a way to get rid of bites fast?"
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"Mosquito's find you via smelling the CO2 that you exhale. They also sense you from your body temp. This is why if you are moving (going somewhere) you are less likely to get a bite, they can't find you.\n\n\nThe simplest solution is to not expose skin, a loose long sleeve t shirt and loose pants; shoes and socks; and a hat. Now you only need to worry about hands and face. Spray a bug spray with DEET on the hat, your sleeves and the collar of your shirt.\n\nIf you are going to be sitting around on the patio you can get citronella candles, these will drive them away.\n\nLook for standing water around the area, like a bucket that has rain water or a gutter that pools water. These are breeding grounds. Removing the places for them to breed will lower their numbers.\n\nYou can try to install bat houses, bats love to eat them.\nAlso I've heard a yeast trap works, but I've never tried it.\n\nThese are all very inexpensive ways to mitigate mosquitoes.\nGood luck\n",
"If you want a natural solution. Lavender or Eucalyptus is a great way to rid them. You can get the essential oils mix it with water and use it as a spray. The plant themselves are pretty good to have around and smell great. And a LPT that I saw earlier and can vouch for working is get a hot spoon, like one that has been in some hot tea not burning red, press it on the bite and the heat destroys the proteins that make it itchy. Hope this helps. ",
"eat onions, when camping be sure to have onions and or bell peppers with dinner maybe a little more then you normally would. idk if there is any actual evidence for this but i do allot of backpacking and this trick has kept me bite free.",
"Someone just yesterday said to get rid of mosq bites, just get a hot spoon like the one for coffee, and press it against the bite.",
"My mom always used dryer sheets. Fold them and stick them in between your belt and pants so the hang over. I've heard from multiple sources this helps. ",
"I just read that if you put a hot spoon from your coffee on the bite, it kills the proteins that make it itch... I have no idea if this works! No harm in trying though. :)\n\nhttp://www.reddit.com/r/LifeProTips/comments/1gpmb9/lpt_mosquito_bite_press_a_hot_spoon_eg_the_one/",
"When i have a bite, i scratch/pick the bite and after a couple minutes, some skin comes off and then the saliva drips out. This will significantly make the bite not as itchy."
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"How to wake up ready to start your day? No matter how much sleep I get I feel I'm too tired to function my first alarm clock. Any tips for winning this battle of wits of getting up versus going back to sleep?",
"How to wake up ready to start your day? No matter how much sleep I get I feel I'm too tired to function my first alarm clock. Any tips for winning this battle of wits of getting up versus going back to sleep?",
"How to wake up ready to start your day? No matter how much sleep I get I feel I'm too tired to function my first alarm clock. Any tips for winning this battle of wits of getting up versus going back to sleep?",
"How to wake up ready to start your day? No matter how much sleep I get I feel I'm too tired to function my first alarm clock. Any tips for winning this battle of wits of getting up versus going back to sleep?",
"How to wake up ready to start your day? No matter how much sleep I get I feel I'm too tired to function my first alarm clock. Any tips for winning this battle of wits of getting up versus going back to sleep?",
"How to wake up ready to start your day? No matter how much sleep I get I feel I'm too tired to function my first alarm clock. Any tips for winning this battle of wits of getting up versus going back to sleep?",
"How to wake up ready to start your day? No matter how much sleep I get I feel I'm too tired to function my first alarm clock. Any tips for winning this battle of wits of getting up versus going back to sleep?",
"How to wake up ready to start your day? No matter how much sleep I get I feel I'm too tired to function my first alarm clock. Any tips for winning this battle of wits of getting up versus going back to sleep?",
"How to wake up ready to start your day? No matter how much sleep I get I feel I'm too tired to function my first alarm clock. Any tips for winning this battle of wits of getting up versus going back to sleep?",
"How to wake up ready to start your day? No matter how much sleep I get I feel I'm too tired to function my first alarm clock. Any tips for winning this battle of wits of getting up versus going back to sleep?"
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"Getting a good night's sleep usually helps, 6-8 hours. Stay on a schedule, even on the weekends. \n\nTry waking up early before work/school, like an extra hour earlier, to give yourself a little 'You' time, play videogames, browse the internet, read, etc... I found this helping the most. Getting up with only enough time to get ready for something I didn't enjoy (work/school...) seemed to make me dread getting up, which made me snooze more and be groggy in the morning. Waking up to do something fun seemed to get me in a better pattern of wakefulness in the morning.",
"Force yourself to drink a large glass of water as soon as you wake up. Your body is a bit dehydrated from the sleep, and it will give some fuel to wake the organs. ",
"If you can manage going to bed and getting up at the same time every day, your body might get used to it and won't feel so groggy. Alternatively (this works for some people but not others) try something like sleepyti.me, a website that calculates a time to get up/go to bed based on average sleep cycle length. \nAnd nice things to wake up to are a great idea- once you're awake. In bed, bed is just as nice. I get through my mornings on autopilot for about half an hour, before I get breakfast. Lay some stuff out the night before, and make a routine. Up, grab towel, turn radio on, piss, shower, etc. until you're awake enough that going back to sleep is a non-option. ",
"Honestly, the only thing that works for me is going to bed early, washing my face with cold water in the morning, and drinking ice cold water followed by coffee. Getting up at 4AM sucks, especially in winter.\n\nI also carry caffeine gum with me in my car just in case I need an extra jolt on the way to work, or coming home from somewhere.\n\nGoogle energy gum. Shouldn't use it daily, but it does give you that bump should you need it.",
"I make myself get up and get to the shower right away. The water will wake you up. Also, I recommend a small portable music player in the bathroom to start the day on a positive note.",
"I don't know if this works but I found this video on artofmanliness.com. I don't know if it would work for women as well.\n\nhttp://www.artofmanliness.com/2014/03/29/how-to-become-an-early-riser-video/",
"Plan out your day the night before. Make a list of things you want to accomplish at night and it will be on the front of your mind when you wake up. ",
"I take an amino acid supplement, L-Tyrosine. It metabolizes into dopamine, motivating you naturally, safely, and effectively. Try it out! Super cheap.",
"Give yourself a prize if you get out of bed at the first alarm. Set prizes in advance and stick to it. If you get up you get to buy your coffee. If you don't get up, it's tea for you. If you get up you get to buy yourself that game you wanted, if you don't no game for you. Give yourself things to look forward to that depend on you getting up. Do that for a few weeks and you will have changed your habit. ",
"First post I think I can actually help out! I constantly woke up tired for work, and would always milk that snooze button right up until the last minute. \n\nI've now downloaded a sleep app on my phone, which basically gives you a custom time window to wake from. It monitors your sleep by sensing your movement and can determine what phase of sleep you are in.\nIt then slowly plays music to very gradually raise you out of deep sleep until you are in a light enough phase to wake up completely, which is when you wake up feeling refreshed. \n\nAbsolutely nothing worse than a loud obnoxious alarm in the morning, especially if it catches you in deep sleep.\n\nI personally use 'sleep cycle alarm clock', I think was around $1.99 but I'm sure there's free apps out there."
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"How often to text a girl without looking clingy? So basically, me and this girl are getting on well and we're seeing each other once/twice a week at the moment. I just feel awkward when texting her. I only do it when I have something meaningful to say and don't want to just text her so much I seem obsessed. Thanks.",
"How often to text a girl without looking clingy? So basically, me and this girl are getting on well and we're seeing each other once/twice a week at the moment. I just feel awkward when texting her. I only do it when I have something meaningful to say and don't want to just text her so much I seem obsessed. Thanks.",
"How often to text a girl without looking clingy? So basically, me and this girl are getting on well and we're seeing each other once/twice a week at the moment. I just feel awkward when texting her. I only do it when I have something meaningful to say and don't want to just text her so much I seem obsessed. Thanks.",
"How often to text a girl without looking clingy? So basically, me and this girl are getting on well and we're seeing each other once/twice a week at the moment. I just feel awkward when texting her. I only do it when I have something meaningful to say and don't want to just text her so much I seem obsessed. Thanks.",
"How often to text a girl without looking clingy? So basically, me and this girl are getting on well and we're seeing each other once/twice a week at the moment. I just feel awkward when texting her. I only do it when I have something meaningful to say and don't want to just text her so much I seem obsessed. Thanks."
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"It's very important to minimize any text messages beyond your meetings with the girl.\nThe reason: she must miss you - miss for your emotions, feelings, presence..\nJust remember: rutine daily texting is the poison for you. Keep all your wise thoughts for your date.\n\nTL;DR - just keep in touch with her.",
"If she texts you, ALWAYS answer, don't leave her hanging to be coy/seem mysterious.. but having your own things going on or your own interests is very attractive. Maybe start a new hobby, try something you've been meaning to try, it'll make you seem open minded, give you more confidence and stop you from obsessing about how you're coming off. Also, it'll give you guys something to chat about!\n",
"you should stop texting when the other person doesn´t really initiate anymore or seems reluctant to continue. maybe if you have to ask several questions in a row it´s time to say good night",
"Text when you want to share something -- it doesn't have to be meaningful -- and refrain if you feel the impulse to text when you don't actually have something to say.\n\nExpress yourself unapologetically; don't worry about whether you'll come across as clingy and don't try to anticipate how she'll react to you being you. Building a relationship on unbridled authenticity is far more meaningful and less exhausting than self-censorship.",
"I go by this rule: If she texts first one day i text first the next day, if her text is long than my reply is too. If she hasn't text me all day then i dont text her all day. But! if someone really cares about you and enjoys who you are and your company they wouldn't care if you wrote 2 words or a paragraph."
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"How to figure out what to do next with your life This is loaded question but I've been feeling pretty lost and hopeless lately. Managed to graduate community college with an associate's degree in digital media design and currently working a retail job that isn't the greatest. I know where I am is not where I want to be but that's where I run into my problem, I can't seem to figure out what to do next. Any insight or suggestions are appreciated. ",
"How to figure out what to do next with your life This is loaded question but I've been feeling pretty lost and hopeless lately. Managed to graduate community college with an associate's degree in digital media design and currently working a retail job that isn't the greatest. I know where I am is not where I want to be but that's where I run into my problem, I can't seem to figure out what to do next. Any insight or suggestions are appreciated. ",
"How to figure out what to do next with your life This is loaded question but I've been feeling pretty lost and hopeless lately. Managed to graduate community college with an associate's degree in digital media design and currently working a retail job that isn't the greatest. I know where I am is not where I want to be but that's where I run into my problem, I can't seem to figure out what to do next. Any insight or suggestions are appreciated. ",
"How to figure out what to do next with your life This is loaded question but I've been feeling pretty lost and hopeless lately. Managed to graduate community college with an associate's degree in digital media design and currently working a retail job that isn't the greatest. I know where I am is not where I want to be but that's where I run into my problem, I can't seem to figure out what to do next. Any insight or suggestions are appreciated. ",
"How to figure out what to do next with your life This is loaded question but I've been feeling pretty lost and hopeless lately. Managed to graduate community college with an associate's degree in digital media design and currently working a retail job that isn't the greatest. I know where I am is not where I want to be but that's where I run into my problem, I can't seem to figure out what to do next. Any insight or suggestions are appreciated. ",
"How to figure out what to do next with your life This is loaded question but I've been feeling pretty lost and hopeless lately. Managed to graduate community college with an associate's degree in digital media design and currently working a retail job that isn't the greatest. I know where I am is not where I want to be but that's where I run into my problem, I can't seem to figure out what to do next. Any insight or suggestions are appreciated. ",
"How to figure out what to do next with your life This is loaded question but I've been feeling pretty lost and hopeless lately. Managed to graduate community college with an associate's degree in digital media design and currently working a retail job that isn't the greatest. I know where I am is not where I want to be but that's where I run into my problem, I can't seem to figure out what to do next. Any insight or suggestions are appreciated. "
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"I'm not very experienced, but I'd say have a good-looking resume, get said resume out to any job that seems interesting, and in the meantime just live. Save what you can, play as much as you can while still living responsibly. Also utilize the college counselors/advisors. Their ability and desire to help you doesn't just stop when you get a degree.",
"You talk about work.\n\nWhat about hobbies?\n\nDo you have anything you're passionate about? Is there something that you could GET passionate about?\n\nBecause work is less than a third of your life. There's a lot more to it than just work. \n\nAnd there are lots of other ways that you can feel very fulfilled - excelling at a sport, being a community leader, helping with a charity, and so on.\n\nMake sure you're looking at those too.",
"Probably all your life you have been told what to do and when. It is the process of school. What you are feeling is not uncommon. I called it my grad funk. Looking back I realize that my question was too big. What to do with my life! \nSo dabble here and dabble there. Join a professional group and go to the meetings and network as much as feel is right. Volunteer at someplace you already feel comfortable. Apply and take any related shifty job you can, part time is great. Stick that toe in the water. No one is telling you what to do now and the options may seem huge, so go out and date those options. Remember life is stepping stones. There is no big everlasting commitment.",
"Do your research and be proactive! Community colleges often have career centers that you can go in for advice. Have them look over your resume. Talk to friends, relatives, acquaintances, etc. and ask what they do and what they like/dislike about their jobs. Do you agree? Look at job postings online -- glassdoor, monster, linkedin. What sounds interesting? Apply! Not qualified? Email or call people with cool sounding jobs to see how they got there. Company sounds cool? Apply for an entry level position and you'll get to see what it's like working there.\n\nIn general, the best thing to do is to learn about lots of different options, and try them out. Experience is the best teacher.",
"I just started reading the book \"What Color is Your Parachute?\", the whole premise of which is teaching you how to do exactly this. It was given to me by a friend who is a social worker, with the recommendation that it greatly helped him and many of his families.\n\nIt's really interesting so far, and I'd recommend it too.",
"Go volunteer, join clubs and communities, and frequent a very social place frequently.\n\nWork is just a means to an end. What is your end goal? What are your core values? ",
"Where would you like to see yourself in 5 years? I know, it's a generic question, but it'd help for you to be able to answer it. \n\nTake what's been suggested, do what you can with it, but know that this might just be something you need to feel out on your own. \n\nSit on it for awhile. I'd rather not know what move to make next, thinking about it, than rush into something and risk regretting it later on."
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"How to be fun with kids? You know how some people are great at dealing with kids and the kids love them? I am looking for some tips to be fun with kids (not your own kids). \n\nI couldn't find something on Amazon like I thought I would be able to.\n\nThanks!",
"How to be fun with kids? You know how some people are great at dealing with kids and the kids love them? I am looking for some tips to be fun with kids (not your own kids). \n\nI couldn't find something on Amazon like I thought I would be able to.\n\nThanks!",
"How to be fun with kids? You know how some people are great at dealing with kids and the kids love them? I am looking for some tips to be fun with kids (not your own kids). \n\nI couldn't find something on Amazon like I thought I would be able to.\n\nThanks!",
"How to be fun with kids? You know how some people are great at dealing with kids and the kids love them? I am looking for some tips to be fun with kids (not your own kids). \n\nI couldn't find something on Amazon like I thought I would be able to.\n\nThanks!",
"How to be fun with kids? You know how some people are great at dealing with kids and the kids love them? I am looking for some tips to be fun with kids (not your own kids). \n\nI couldn't find something on Amazon like I thought I would be able to.\n\nThanks!",
"How to be fun with kids? You know how some people are great at dealing with kids and the kids love them? I am looking for some tips to be fun with kids (not your own kids). \n\nI couldn't find something on Amazon like I thought I would be able to.\n\nThanks!",
"How to be fun with kids? You know how some people are great at dealing with kids and the kids love them? I am looking for some tips to be fun with kids (not your own kids). \n\nI couldn't find something on Amazon like I thought I would be able to.\n\nThanks!"
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"Just talk to them, and be excited about what they tell you. I spent 30 minutes at my future MIL's birthday party bouncing a balloon to my fiance's niece and nephew in the kitchen, trying not to let it hit the floor. I made big exaggerated sounds (kind of like drunk adults playing giant Jenga) and laugh along with them.\n\nThe more they think you're interested in them, the more they'll open up to you, with the exception of naturally shy kids.\n\nYou can also try keeping a cool trick in your back pocket. I used to have a small bottle of bubbles with a bubble wand that ended up in my purse and just stayed there. So I'd distract the kid (\"Hey, look over there!\") blow a bunch of bubbles, and when the kid turned around I'd pretend like I didn't know where they came from.",
"/u/iownakeytar 's suggestion of \"be interested\" is really the core.\n\n- Ask them questions. You can start with \"what are you doing there?\" \"Can I play, too?\" \"What is your favorite ___?\"\n\n- Don't try to mold the play into what you want to do, mold yourself into what they want to do.\n\n- Be silly. Make silly faces and silly sounds. Be willing to do something embarassing (like wearing a pink boa and gigantic sunglasses). Some kids will really respond to this, and others won't, but doing the unexpected will often make kids laugh.\n\n- Do stuff that their parents can't/won't/are just tired of. My friend has a 5 year old, and he loves to play trucks/trains/swordfights. He has a lot of energy and loves to run and throw. His parents are tired of it, of course, so they're not that interested in getting down on the ground, chasing him through the house, etc. It's not that they don't do those things ever, but when you do that every weekend for years on end, I'm sure it loses its luster. (Of course, be careful not to break any house rules-- don't give the kid chocolate if his parents' rule is no sweets, for example).",
"I found that children (even small children) do not always appreciate being talked to like small children. I use my adult voice on them, but do talk to them about the things they like. Some adults just try too hard and end up being ignored by kids. \n\nAlso, make them laugh. Some kids like slapstick. Others like if you pretend to be scared when they yell 'boo'. Either way, if you appear to be funny, they will feel comfortable around you.",
"Some kids really struggle with open ended questions. Ask questions that either have a yes or no answer to start off with, then move into things they can give one word answers to. \nE.g.\nDo you...\nLike the beach?\nLike school?\nThen...\nFavorite color?\nWhat grade are you in?\nHave many friends?\nWhat are their names?\n",
"Some kids really struggle with open ended questions. Ask questions that either have a yes or no answer to start off with, then move into things they can give one word answers to. \n\nE.g.\nDo you...\nLike the beach?\nLike school?\n\n\nThen...\n\n\nFavorite color?\nWhat grade are you in?\nHave many friends?\nWhat are their names?\n\nDon't ask why questions. That will confuse the shit out of them. ",
"If you are having trouble with kids, step back and think of them as tiny drunk people and it will seem more manageable.",
"I like to think that I'm one of those people who is just good with kids in general. Sometimes it feels like I give off an aura that they just sense, which can be true to a degree. People, even kids, can sense when you are tense or angry and just not having a good day. Those days can be harder, but the point is going into talking/playing with them with a positive attitude makes a lot of difference. \n\nAs others have said, pay attention to them. Most kids just want to be seen and heard. Like was mentioned also shy kids are different, I was very much a shy kid growing up. But taking it slower with them and just getting to know them and what they like to do will go a long way. \n\nOf course the age of the kid can make a difference also. Younger ones usually like to be very active where as teenager types like to talk more. \n\nOver all a lot of it is just finding what the kid likes to do and doing it with them, making sure you both are actively participating. ",
"Have some kid jokes to tell\n\n Be excited about what they tell you or at least smile\n\nCool magic tricks like making small objects disappear helps\n\nTake interest in their lives like you would with an adult.\n\nTell them interesting facts about the world I've found things like space or animals really interests them.\n\n\n\n"
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"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n",
"How to stay cool in a hot loft without AC Hi everyone,\n\nI live in the Netherlands and we're having our few weeks of hot, humid summer weather now... and I live in a top-floor room without ac and poor ventilation. Please, people of hot countries, how do I cool down? Especially at night when I want to sleep. So far I've been taking ice cold showers before bed but I'm eager to hear more ideas.\n\nCheers,\nSweaty Dutchman\n\n"
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"We get the same thing here. What we've found is if it's humid air, moving that air around really helps because evaporation doesn't work well in humid spots. \n\nBuy a pedestal fan and leave it on \"low\" when you're trying to sleep or work in your loft. \n\nAnd if it's hotter inside than outside your room and you have two windows, open them both and put the fan so it faces inward at a window and pulls the cooler air in. \n\nIf it's hotter outside than inside, keep your windows closed instead.",
"There was a gif on the front page a couple days ago with a kid inside some sort of sheet being inflated by a fan. It sounds silly but thats what I did as a kid during the summer and it works. I had a full size bed, I grabbed a queen size sheet, tied one corner to a [box fan](https://www.amazon.com/Holmes-HBF2010A-WM-21-Inch-4-5-Inch-Speed-Settings/dp/B0037W4YD2/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1472140796&sr=8-1&keywords=box+fan) and tucked the rest of the sheet into the bed. When you turn on the fan it inflates the sheet and you can get under there and sleep. I would even take it as far as putting a small TV in there with me, and basically turning my bed into an inflatable fort.",
"Yeah for cooling on the cheap, buy a pedestal fan and point it directly at you. Drink some cool water helps too obviously but not going to help at night.\n\nWhen the air is humid the only thing that really works is direct air circulation on and around you to evaporate the sweat and water off you.\n\nYou can also buy an indoor / outdoor wireless thermometer with indoor and outdoor humidity sensors. Start to keep an eye on it so it can help you decide if it's better to open windows or close them. Often times in hot humid climates it's better to leave the windows closed up during the day and only open at night.\n\nhttps://www.amazon.com/AcuRite-00611A3-Wireless-Thermometer-Humidity/dp/B001B35APA/\n\nObviously if it's hotter and more humid outside than inside you do not want to open the windows.",
"Few things:\n\n1. Turn appliances on lower settings. For every bit of heat removed to cool a refrigerator, it has to create even more heat. Therefore, turn the temperature UP on your fridge/freezer for minimal heat creation. Also, turn your water heater down so 100% hot water is cool enough to touch.\n\n2. Air flow. Box fans in the window are fantastic for moving air in an entire room. One key thing to keep in mind is wind direction outside. You want to set up your fans to work WITH the wind. Otherwise it'll just whirl the air around and get nowhere. Avoid pointing fans towards each other too.\n\n3. Humidity control. When you take a hot shower, keep the bathroom fan on. Minimize hot water use (dishwasher, etc), and use a dryer as opposed to hang drying clothes.\n\n4. Window AC units. You can usually get new ones around $100 USD new or half that used. Honestly, they're way less hassle to install than you'd expect and they can easily cool 500 sqft effectively . ",
"Had a similar experience in university. I used to take the coldest shower possible. I mean full blast cold water, until your teeth are chattering! When you can't take it anymore carefully lightly dry off, walk slowly to your bed and lie down (naked) with the windows open. Then lie there trying not to move (as this can generate heat) and try to fall asleep before your body warms up. Worked for me. ",
"See if you can print a mold for ice clogs, fill said mold with water, freeze, wear cooling ice clogs.",
"First, you're actually better off taking a HOT shower before going to bed versus a cold one. The cold one causes the pores in your skin to close -limiting your body's cooling process, whereas a hot shower opens those pores up - add a hot drink & you jump-start your bodies cooling response. This was actually the winning suggestion for how to keep cool in a contest that took place at around the start of the 20th century (per popular science archives article).\n\nIf you have a basement, draw cooler air in from there, leave interior doors open, and use an attic fan to push the warmer air out. As other comments note: keeping the air moving is key d/t the humidity.\nHowever you arrange it, the cool air should be drawn in, and the hot air pushed out.\n\nYou could modify your home & its surroundings as well (i.e. paint the house a light color, plant shrubs around the base, grow a shade tree near the southwest corner, add those special screens to sun-side windows, etc.). I presume anything that costs money isn't really an option for you, though, since you could just buy a window a/c unit - as other comments have pointed out, they're typically not overly expensive.",
"Could make a redneck chiller type thing. Get an aquirium pump cooler bags of ice 50ish feet of copper or aluminum tub and a fan. Coil the tube around the fan with one side in the cooler with ice water other side in the pump then attatch a little of the tube from the pump into the cooler. So the water goes\nice water from cooler- into the coil around the fan- into the pump- back into the cooler.\n\nrefill ice as neccasary ",
"Grab some baby powder (talc or cornstarch, doesn't matter) and apply it liberally to whatever parts of your body are sweaty. \n\nThis will make you feel less sticky and gross.\n\nDrink a lot of ice water before bed and aim a fan directly at you.\n\nTalc, Ice water, and fans are how I survived those childhood summers in the midwest with no A/C.",
"sleep naked under a cotton sheet that you have wetted with cold water and then wrung out so it's damp but not dripping.",
"If you have windows on opposite sides of your place, put a fan in one blowing in and a one in the other blowing out. This will create a flow of air across the entire place and will keep air moving. Bonus tip, put your intake fan in the bottom of the window and the outtake fan at the top of the window. This will exhaust the warmer rising air out and pull cooler air in. ",
"[Bed fans](http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=9SIA8N13SP1758&nm_mc=KNC-GoogleMKP-PC&cm_mmc=KNC-GoogleMKP-PC-_-pla-_-Fans-_-9SIA8N13SP1758&gclid=CjwKEAjwrvq9BRD5gLyrufTqg0YSJACcuF8189DJXIeR2eMsYKuT2xfh2kdLyYmQlR7bRCZHxx94NhoCfpvw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds) are badass. Safe some money and force (a small movement of) air under your sheets. It keeps the heat from building up.\n\n",
"I bought a chillow once when I was living in the tropics. It was surprisingly effective at keeping my head cool but I find it weird to sleep on. I left it out one day and the dog decided it was the best thing ever so I let him sleep on it instead.\n\nIt's basically a thick plastic bag with a thin layer of foam inside. You fill i it with water and seal it up then use it as a pillow. The water draws the heat away from your head. Eventually the water warms up over the course of the night and it stops being affective but by then you're asleep and don't care.\n\nAs long as the temperature is below about 26°c you should be able to sleep ok with a gentle fan to prevent warm air building up on your skin. Above that and you're pretty much screwed without a/c. ",
"Hi! I just moved out of a top floor apartment with an attic bedroom in Austria. We don't have much humidity, but it was plenty hot. Here's my strategy:\n\n1. Open ALL windows at night. All of them. Put up flyscreen if the mosquitos are bad.\n2. Fan. Get a fan, get that air moving, especially if you don't have a good cross draft. Get one to move the air in your bedroom especially so you can sleep.\n3. If you don't have outside blinds on your windows, get blackout blinds for inside. Those are the roller blinds that don't let any light in at all. \n4. In the morning, close all the windows and pull down all the blinds. This traps the cool air inside and stops it from heating up again as quickly.\n5. In desperate times, wet a cloth diaper or dish towel and drape it over the fan unit. The evaporative cooling feels like A/C, at least for a few minutes.\n6. Stay out till the sun goes down. I tried to be away from home as much as possible on the hottest days.\n\nGood luck.",
"Eat spicy foods. I work with a lot of Mexicans and can attest that it works. Buy a fan and set it up next to an ice chest. For more ghetto setups look up red neck air conditioning, some will be stupid as hell but some work. When my A/C went out and I had temps around 115f we hung wet blankets on along one wall and set a fan blowing in them ",
"find a way to cool down your feet and hands, feet in ice water something like that. It'll draw heat out from your body's core and is the best way i've found.\n\nNot so good for going to bed, but if you can stick it out for long enough it might keep you cool enough to nod off ",
"Try keeping the window wide open (only at night,during the hot humid days this is suicide) and also the door to your room slightly open too,thus creating a little draft,try taking hot as fuck showers right before bedtime,your Body will perceive the Temperature in the room as lower,and do i have to mention sleeping as naked as humanly possible? Just put a sock on the D (if male). Hope this helps",
"Make up your mind to sleep on the floor. Identify the place and whenever you are at home keep sponging the area which you have identified with cold water. You get the best results if you do it every one hour starting from atleast 5hrs before you go to bed. ",
"I sleep in a hammock when it's hot. The airflow under the hammock is great to cool you down. Also if possible sleep nude. Also great for staying cool. *",
"I have a different kind of answer - eating. Eating makes you warm. Dont eat a lot before bed and dont pig out during the day. This is the secondary reason skinnier people get cold easier (primary reason is the insulation of fat of coures). \n\nI realize this isnt a game-changer, but I think it helps enough to work if you reallllly are hot. ",
"Here is the best thing you can do to stop the heat from coming in from outside. The attic loft is hotter because of radiant heat.\n\nUse these coatings to lower the heat signature:\n\nhttp://www.homedepot.com/p/Gardner-Sta-Kool-5-Gal-770-Cool-Roof-Elastomeric-Coating-SK-7705/100317815?cm_mmc=Shopping%7cTHD%7cG%7c0%7cG-BASE-PLA-D22-Roofing%7c&gclid=CJLL69L63M4CFc1lfgod7UkOIw&gclsrc=aw.ds\n\nand for the inside\n\n\nhttp://www.homedepot.com/p/Reach-Barrier-4-ft-x-250-ft-Silvertanium-Radiant-Barrier-Insulation-3023/203536782\n\ngood luck",
"Eat some ice and see if you have anything like otter pops around. I grew up in the Sonoran desert and those always kept me cool. Also make sure you always have good airflow",
"Drinking lots of water helps. Not ice water, as your body actually works a bit to bring it to temp. Just room temp water hydrates you, which fuels your natural systems of staying cool. \n\nAlso, I do this brain trick where I pretend it's freezing. Saw it on tv when I was a kid and I believe it works. As a footballer in Florida, my teammates have always been baffled at how well I handle 100 degrees (F obviously).",
"if it cools down after sundown - if you have two windows, put a box fan in one window blowing in. whichever room you want too cool after the sun goes down. optional - put another fan blowing out in the window or door way closest to the ceiling.\n\nif it doesn't cool down much at night, and during the day - keep the curtains closed. if you don't have any curtains cut up some aluminum foil or cardboard and tape to the window to block the sun. use a fan to blow on you wherever you are in the place. if you are just sitting, then wet yourself constantly with a rag with a fan blowing on you. you can actually get cold doing this. and above all, hydrate and eat small meals.\n",
"http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-3635710/How-cool-apartment-free-Electricity-free-DIY-aircon-uses-old-plastic-bottles-used-used-25-000-Indian-homes.html",
"http://inhabitat.com/this-amazing-bangladeshi-air-cooler-is-made-from-plastic-bottles-and-uses-no-electricity/\n\nCheck this out. ",
"get a water bottle spray, fill it with cool water, spray on face, neck, hands, put fan on medium or high...enjoy",
"a thermal comfort [tool](http://comfort.cbe.berkeley.edu/) that analyzes exactly how uncomfortable it is. You can make adjustments to air speed (fan), metabolic rate, and clothing level to figure out what your 'comfort level' is. ",
"[image](https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/88/0f/17/880f17dec0b4c974b3b2fe4c48b5ed7e.jpg) \nHope this helps",
"You can create your own AC unit using a styrofoam cooler, a fan and some ice. They're very cheap and work surprisingly well.\n\nSource: I knew a guy that would build them and sell them.",
"When I didn't have AC I use to set a cheap box fan up at the end of my bed and clip my blanket around the fan. The air would blow up under the sheets like a balloon and keep me nice and cool.",
"Try a DIY evaporative cooler or 'swamp cooler'.\n\nThey work incredibly well, and are very energy efficient. They will increase the humidity though, so you may have to have a seperate fan to take the humid air away if using for long periods of time.\n\nIf you don't want to physically make an evaporative cooler, you can blow a fan on some wet/damp towels on an airer/dryer, which will work similarly.",
"The proper use of a fan will definitely be the most helpful, but one other thing I did when I lived in hot and humid weather was the egyptian cooling method. Take two thin sheets and soak them and then wring them out. Sleep between them naked. Being wet draws the heat from your body faster, and the sheets keep you wet much longer than just taking a shower or the like. ",
"Take a 5 gallon bucket, drill large holes near the top, fill it with ice, then put a fan facing down on the top of the bucket. Air will flow over the ice and out the holes sending out some nice cool air like an AC unit.",
"Sounds silly, but this works really well... wear a pair of socks that you have run under a cold tap. Makes your whole body feel cold for some reason.",
"Soak a small or medium size towel in cool or cold water, then drape it over the back of your neck so it hangs down over your collar bones in the front. \n \nWorks like a charm.",
"Small box fan + bowl of ice water = almost efficient, single room AC unit.\n\nIt only works for as long as the ice water stays cold and will be kind of a hassle, so I suggest reserving it for the worst hour or two of the day.",
"Sleep in a hammock or on the floor. Don't sleep on a mattress. Mattresses do not spread the body heat. \nGo for a workout/run. Drink room temp water. Eat spicy food and drink coconut water. \nSleep in a hammock, wet the hammock and allow it to air dry. Use Fan and open windows. ",
"Shower a couple times during the night - and fans, ceiling and box.\nI spent many summers in DC without AC in an attic bedroom and this is how I got through.",
"Reducing the water in the air, cooking something in the oven. With less humidity the same temperature will feel cooler. ",
"Put a fan in every window, blowing out, try to seal around them with cardboard and duct tape, or what ever you have, and leave them on 24-7. It will take a little while to start cooling, but it will draw air through all the small cracks around walls and floor, pulling some cooler air from the lower floors and also cooling the air since it is basically getting compressed coming through the cracks, then cools as it expands into the room. A friend of mine used to do this in his upstairs apartment. It wasn't quite as cool as AC, but even on the hottest days it was still comfortable in there. Just remember it does take a while, possibly a whole day, but once it gets cooled off it will stay pretty nice.",
"Pedestal fan is a life saver for any loft/apartment/home where the AC can't keep up with the heat. I carry mine to where I need it and it picks up where the AC leaves off.\n\nSleeping is also great with one as it produces both refreshing cool air along with white 'like' noise. I stopped waking up sometimes in puddles of sweat like I used to. I also keep a small fan under my desk to blow towards my balls while I am on the PC. I get sweaty in my office chair otherwise.",
"One of my favorite tricks for sleeping on a hot night is to soak your top sheet, wring it out so it's damp, sleep under that. ",
"No pants, no shirt, no movement, no (p)leather furniture. Having a fan and a dog that won't jump on your lap is helpful.",
"Many people rely on moving air to cool them down, but I find getting the air out of the room to be better. \n\nBlocking off windows helps too. ",
"Make your own ac https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3V93Gh3Q2Ro\n\nhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D3YvF4eVQO0",
"Make a swamp cooler out of a small fan a cooler filled with ice and a little ducting. YouTube for homemade ac or homemade swamp cooler. ",
"Look on instructibles.com and they have bunches of ways to make a cheap type of \"air conditioner\" out of a cooler, ice, and a fan. Easy, quick, cheap. \n\nYou could also try to make a swamp cooler if the humidity is low enough.",
"Lived for two years in the Philippines:\n\n1. Sleep on top of the sheets.\n2. Sleep on your back with your legs spread and your arms to your sides or above your head.\n3. Have a floor/box fan blowing at your feet.",
"Indian here. We used to manage our summers without an AC (couldn't afford). Some tips:\n\n1. Just keeping a pedestan fan in your bedroom won't help. You need to create an air flow. Air must come in to your house thru bedroom and go out thru some other room (kitchen/hall/bath). The best is to keep two pedestal fans: One pulling in air thru bedroom window, and one turned in reverse (pushing out air) in the other room. This will make a HUGE difference compared to just using one single fan. In arid/desert areas, a cloth dipped in water is throw over the fan. But don't do this if you are not in a desert. It will just increase moisture and make you sweat more.\n\n2. Thick mattresses makes your body very hot. Either move your mattress to the floor and sleep on it, or use a thin mattress. We use [folding plastic beds](http://lmgtfy.com/?q=indian+folding+plastic+bed), our ancestors used [rope beds](http://lmgtfy.com/?q=rope+bed) (still used in villages and farms today), and in extreme hot temperatures we sleep on [straw mats](http://lmgtfy.com/?q=indian+straw+mat) on the floor.\n\n3. Dress material. Today's synthetic cotton is pretty bad and gets wet and soggy very fast in the night. We use [Khadi](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Khadi) and women use Silk a lot during summer, it makes the body cooler while wicking perspiration away. Just see if you can get any wicking dress material other than plain synthetic cotton. We also have some weird looking [night dresses](http://lmgtfy.com/?q=lungi) that are really airy :)\n\n4. Cooling the insides (not just outside shower). Drink some yoghurt, coconut water, [buttermilk](http://lmgtfy.com/?q=buttermilk), lime or orange juice before sleeping. Don't know if its myth, but we believe chilled stuff upsets your tummy during summer especially in the night, so we prefer it at room temperature.\n\n5. We have summer hairstyles, aka really short hair during summer. Having a lot of hair is a sure way to becoming an \"irritated hothead\" in summer :) I pity our women though, they usually don't have this choice because of societal tradition to have long hair :(",
"In addition to having a fan blowing air across you, get a spray bottle and spritz yourself with water every now and then. ",
"In Louisiana our solution is to never live in a house or apartment without air conditioning. Soooo...move?",
"If you live in an older house ( many built by sea captains in the Netherlands) there may be a \"Scuttle Vent\" on the roof. It was a popular form of house ventilation in past centuries. If it is there, open the vent, open the access and open the door to your room. The heat rising from the bottom floors will create a chimney that sucks the cool air from the lower floors upward , I lived in an old house (top floor)in the Fl Keys that had this and it makes a huge difference.\nhttps://www.google.com/search?q=scuttle+roof&tbm=isch&tbo=u&source=univ&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwiRk_yVpt3OAhXIsh4KHVPYBcUQsAQIKg&biw=1433&bih=907&dpr=1",
"If you do go the box fan route. Some of them have a space to pour water in the back. Throw some iced water in and repeat when needed. This works wonders when it's hot inside and outside.",
"If outside is significantly cooler than inside at night this method is fool proof.\n\n1. Fan in window.\n2. 2nd fan pointed away from your room with the door open. This will circulate all of the air coming in, effectively making the room cooler than just a fan on the window. This works even better if you have two windows on two different Walls. Remember 1 in and one out. People will think it's strange but this has never failed me.\n",
"I'm in a similar situation. I fixed 75% of my problem by getting a [window fan](https://www.amazon.com/Bionaire-Reversible-Airflow-Window-Control/dp/B000065DKJ). It's cheap and it forces air from the outside in. If you just stick a fan in front of the window it doesn't really draw any air in, it just circulates the air that is already in the room.\n\nThis fan will cool my room to the outside temperature in less than 10 minutes. It's amazingly effective.\n\nThe model I linked also has a thermostat. I set my temperature to about 72 degrees F, so when I leave for work, it will turn itself on if the inside temp goes above that. I come home to a very comfy room, instead of the sweltering second floor sweatbox it was before.",
"I'm UK. I also have a loft room with no AC. It is hot as balls. Cranking every window open does nothing and my room will still be 26degrees at night. \n\nHere is my advice. \n\n**Buy a fan. Or two. Maybe even three. Srs**",
"I use to put a thin sheet in the freezer during the day and take it out right before bed. I didn't put water on the sheet or anything because I find its uncomfortable to sleep in a damp bed. It worked really well at cooling me down so I could fall asleep.",
"I use an industrial fan, it works much better than a regular fan. Think contractor's fan. It's a lot of wind, but it makes a huge difference. \n\nAlso, warm showers have been said are better for cooling your body down, as you're hot and sweating, and the air temp feels much cooler when you step out. Pair that with standing in front of the fan afterwards.",
"I sleep with ice packs and I also use frozen towels as blankets and use a fan.\n Keeps me nice and cool in 110f. ",
"I live on an island with hot and humid weather, it gets up to around 45-47 Centigrade. What you're doing wrong is taking cold showers, if you take warm/hot showers it'll cool your body down more afterwards. Its a huge help, trust me.",
"I live in a similar situation. My personal issue was that all the heat was staying above the window/ventilation level. \n\nI'm not sure if this applies to you, but if it does, what really helped was to get a floor fan to blow up the cool/fresh air from the floor (below the window level), and to get the hot air down to a level where it could escape via the windows.\n\nDoing this can make the apt feel hotter initially, as the hottest air is now \"body level.\" But over time and as the heat escapes via windows, it will make the apt. cooler.",
"I live in a desert climate so this may not work as well for you. We don't have A/C either. I have a spray bottle I fill with water & spray my feet, then point the fan at them.\n\nWe also make sure there is no direct sunlight coming into the room during the day and close the windows when it will be hotter than 85F (29-30C? Am American & it's been a long time since I did conversions). It's cool at night here so we suck air into the room at night with a fan then circulate it around with other fans.\n\nThere's always the underwear in the freezer trick...",
"I live in Arizona, it's not humid here but it does get really hot. I have a strange method of cooling down which is:\n\n1. Keep a Spray Bottle Around \n2. Place a wet towel on your feet or area where you feel you overheat (for mine, it's my feet) when you go to sleep!\n\nErrr I'm not so sure I should be recommending the second one (on the off-chance you might get sick), but that's what I do.",
"I just went and bought a window ac unit for my loft. There's a computer setup, I'm not taking any chances.",
"I have a medical device we use under the sheets to help us sleep in the summer. It's a flexible pad with a tank full of ice water and pump, they use it for joint replacement recipients. I just fill the tank with tap water cold water and toss a few ice cubes in it, plug it in and it's like a reverse radiator for the bed.",
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"Honestly I just take a 5 min cold shower. Its amazing how much it cools you down long term. One shower will keep you cool enough to fall asleep ",
"Hi from Belgium! I managed to keep my appartment (with two big windows facing east and south) cool thanks to another LPT I saw here last week: space blankets (rescue blankets, Amazon has them, Bol.com too probably). Put them up on the outside of your windows with the silver side out. It makes all the difference in the world. \n\nAlso, if you really can't take the heat anymore and want to escape during the day for a bit: visit a museum (strong AC and humidity control for the paintings) or an old church (immense walls) to cool off a little. ",
"Freeze 2 liter bottles of water, wrap them in towels and place them in your bed to sleep better in that heat.",
"Fan with an ice block in front of it. Put some rock salt on top if you need it colder. Out of curiosity what is hot to you?",
"Don't take an ice-cold shower before bed, your body will only try to keep itself warm and generate even more heat.",
"Do you have a window, even a small window? If so, put a fan facing out it will pull air from lower floors, you may have to have a door cracked. Heat rises so all you need to do is create circulation. If you have a bathroom, the vent/fan leads to the outside world, open the door to allow some ventilation. Experience: I live in Florida",
"Ceiling fans seem to work even better than box fans in a window. Once my brother switched out a light fixture with a combo light/ceiling fan fixture it was way cooler in my living room. You can switch the fan rotation too for either drawing air up or pushing air down. Minor electrical knowledge needed but it's not that complicated to install. ",
"Buy bucket. \n\nBuy fan. \n\nBuy knife. \n\nBuy ice. \n\n=\n\nSwamp cooler https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=aHbQYajfGqM",
"Buy a refrigerator unit that'll sit in the window. Make sure it's a refrigerator and not an evaporative unit because evaporatives only work when it's not humid. \n\nIt'll also cut down on the humidity too, so win-win ",
"Bandanas can be your best friend here. A bandana wet/damp with water on the back of your neck is wonderful in hot, humid climates. Also switching it between you neck and around your forehead keeps switching up the cool vibes, maybe not keeping you cooler but making you \"feel\" like you are cooler. And you look cool too... maybe.",
"Australian here, living in the tropics. Best way is to buy wrist and head sweat bands, wet them and then leave in the freezer. When you go to bed put on the sweat bands. The cold on your wrists and head cools your blood really well. Only down side is can have slightly damp sheets from where your hands and head touch but totally worth it when it's hotter than the devil's taint in your room.",
"As someone who lives in on the tropical coast of Australia my advice was going to be to get your body used to losing heat. That means having as hot a shower as you can stand. It makes your body push the blood to your skin so you will lose heat easier. Drink hot tea to make you sweat. stuff like that. \n\nThen I looked at a weather site to see what temps you had to deal with in the Netherlands.\n\nThe hottest it ever was it at night at any city I looked at this month was 18C. 18C. With temps like that my advice would be to leave the blanket on the bed. Your monthly temp chart this month was cooler than my winter. Harden the fuck up.\n\n",
"Also, try putting a bucket of ice water in front of the fan. Also consider soaking a T-shirt or towel in water, put it in the freezer, and drape in front of fan or put it over you like a sheet. ",
"A few stores like wal mart have very loose return policy. A friend of mine bought an AC and returned it before the 30 exchange policy claiming that it was not suitable for his needs.",
"A cool little project if you're up for it \n\nhttps://www.reddit.com/r/LifeProTips/comments/3bsczd/lpt_request_how_to_cool_down_a_room_without_an_ac/csp29cs",
"A ceiling fan is my rescue on the warmest days. My bedroom can get up to 30ºC in the morning since it's facing the sun. But having the fan above the bed (over my feet, don't want that thing falling in my face if it breaks).\n\nI find that pedestal fans are often noisier and produce an annoying focused stream of air. The ceiling fan makes more of a general gentle breeze. \n\nI still recommend the cold shower. Or even a cold bath, if you have access to some body of water. ",
"A bit late but anyway: A friend told me that when they had their honeymoon in israel they had to take a big linen cloth/towel and moisten it to then use this as blanket. They had to re-moisten about ever 4 hours but it seems to have been a great thing. Might feel a bit strange at first to use a wet blanket but it helps. Conbine it with a fan and it will probably be too cold already.",
"* Does it get cooler at night? If so, open all windows and have outward-facing fans in them. Put them at max speed. This blows out hot air and brings in cool air.\n\n* Close windows after temperature begins to rise. Where I live, that's usually around 7am. Close shades as well. Leave it that way all day.",
"Als je een kruik hebt liggen kan je die vullen met water en in de vriezer leggen. 's nachts kan je die in een theedoek wikkelen en tussen je benen leggen. Omdat daar veel aders lopen koelt je hele lichaam af. ",
"A) Block up all your windows so sunlight doesn't come in during the day.\n\nB) Use a little squirt bottle and spray water on the walls. You know [how desert refrigerators are made?](http://www.reuk.co.uk/Desert-Refrigerator-Power-Free-Cooling.htm), same thing except with your whole room/house. Evaporation is an endothermic reaction; so when you spray the walls,furniture, & floor with water, it soaks up heat energy and cools your apt. Do it right and you can get it downright chilly. \n\n\n"
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"Accepting a Gift or Meal So I'm a Chinese American, and normally when I receive gifts its from my relatives. In China, it's considered polite to refuse a gift out of humbleness. The gift-giver will then insist you accept it. This exchange goes by a few times until the receiver accepts. Similarly, if someone treats another person for a meal, he or she should insist on paying the bill as well. \n \nI've grown up with this culture but now that I'm being more exposed to other cultures (many friends are from different backgrounds or nationalities), I've found myself very awkward when people treat or give gifts to me. Because I don't want to create any confusion, I normally just accept the gifts. But I feel like simply saying \"Thank you\" feels ungenuine. What are some good ways to accept a gift/meal and to show appreciation besides just saying thanks?",
"Accepting a Gift or Meal So I'm a Chinese American, and normally when I receive gifts its from my relatives. In China, it's considered polite to refuse a gift out of humbleness. The gift-giver will then insist you accept it. This exchange goes by a few times until the receiver accepts. Similarly, if someone treats another person for a meal, he or she should insist on paying the bill as well. \n \nI've grown up with this culture but now that I'm being more exposed to other cultures (many friends are from different backgrounds or nationalities), I've found myself very awkward when people treat or give gifts to me. Because I don't want to create any confusion, I normally just accept the gifts. But I feel like simply saying \"Thank you\" feels ungenuine. What are some good ways to accept a gift/meal and to show appreciation besides just saying thanks?"
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"You could still say thank you, but perhaps also had in something about how you could use it, or have been needing, or wanting that item.\n\n\"Thank you so much for the book. This is one of my favorite authors.\"",
"If someone treats you to dinner, simply saying thank you is enough. If it was their idea to go out or they picked the restaurant you could compliment them on the idea or the choice. \"Thanks so much. What a nice idea to go out tonight, this was really fun.\"\nIf they made dinner, a compliment on the food itself is appropriate as well as a thank you for having you over.\nGifts are pretty much the same in my mind. It is always polite to say thanks and offer a sincere compliment."
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" Hey I am going into my first year of high school in September, and the school does not supply a a school supplies list so what are some must have thing at thing I don't need? Thank you!\n",
" Hey I am going into my first year of high school in September, and the school does not supply a a school supplies list so what are some must have thing at thing I don't need? Thank you!\n",
" Hey I am going into my first year of high school in September, and the school does not supply a a school supplies list so what are some must have thing at thing I don't need? Thank you!\n",
" Hey I am going into my first year of high school in September, and the school does not supply a a school supplies list so what are some must have thing at thing I don't need? Thank you!\n",
" Hey I am going into my first year of high school in September, and the school does not supply a a school supplies list so what are some must have thing at thing I don't need? Thank you!\n",
" Hey I am going into my first year of high school in September, and the school does not supply a a school supplies list so what are some must have thing at thing I don't need? Thank you!\n",
" Hey I am going into my first year of high school in September, and the school does not supply a a school supplies list so what are some must have thing at thing I don't need? Thank you!\n"
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"The usual shit, a binder for each class, pens and pencils, and then wait for the first day and your teacher will more than likely tell you what they expect you to bring, I used to go to school on the first day with a pad of paper and pen and make my own list. ",
"Going to be a sophomore here. The essentials: \npost it's (English annotations are essential, plus you can do a million things with the tiny sized paper) \n\nMech. Pencils, neater writing, more reliable too. \n\nNotebooks, college ruled, at east 100 sheets per class if it's a basic art or pe then obviously you don't need that but core classes are more important. \n\nBinders. I chose per class, but I'm in tougher classes so I needed organization. 1 1/2 inch worked best.\n\nA random folder for papers that you come across as mic.\n\nLots of pens and pencils. Buy them now when all the sales are going on and that will last you the year. \n\nEXTRA PAPER. EXTRA PAPER EXTRA PAPER \n\nGlue sticks- you'd be surprised what teachers will have you do. \n\nColored pencils, most of my teachers had the, but they were crap, used by 180 students per day, it's more reliable to have your own. \n\nIf not provided by your school, a planner. That's essential. ESSENTIAL\n\nRandom stuff that makes you comfortable. I usually have purel in a pouch with some band aids and gauze pads, they came in handy. \n\nWater bottle, most school fountains are gross, 20 oz can last till you get home. \n\nOh and binder dividers. Those are key for in class organization, hw section here, notes back there, handouts there....ect ect\n\nThat's about it. If anything e\nWe is needed then the teacher will say do in the syllabus. Enjoy highschool, if you land feet first then it's a whole lot easier than picking yourself back up in the middle of the year. Hope this helped! \n\n\n",
"Some classes require a binder as well. But they will tell you this the first day of class when you get the sillabus!\nPaper pen and pencil all in your backpack.",
"Don't get the cheapest backpack you can find. I made that mistake last year and it broke little by little until none of the zippers worked an there was a hole in the top. ",
"As a senior in high school, you don't need much\nPencils (I prefer mechanical)\nErasers\nTons of spiral notebooks (I use the 5-subject ones)\nPens (Red, blue, and black)\nPencil bag\nComposition notebook, ones with graphing paper inside, these are perfect for math notes for graphs\nA few folders\nMaybe a flash drive, 2GB would be more than sufficient\n",
"As a fellow highschooler, pens or pencils (whichever you prefer) a binder with a whole pack of paper and a notebook or two, and a backpack if you want (the draw string bags work best because you'll find that the main use for them is throwing papers in to it in a hurry) and a few bucks in you wallet is all you need to get started. It's possible to make it through the whole year with just this but usually subjects like ELA and science require a few more things.",
"All the usual stuff, pens, pencils, paper. I always liked using mechanical pencils along with a [separate eraser](http://www.amazon.com/Staedtler-Mars-Plastic-Stick-Eraser/dp/B003JJSH860). Also a solid scientific calculator will serve you well through high school and into university as well, I always used a TI-30x solar, works great and never needs batteries. They aren't made any more but you can find them on [ebay](http://www.ebay.ca/itm/Texas-Instruments-TI-30X-Solar-Electronic-Calculator-Cover-/360470553544?pt=Calculators&hash=item53edb823c8#ht_754wt_1163)."
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"how do I covertly read an e-book at work? I have a desk job and sit in front of a computer all day. I have office package etc. ^^",
"how do I covertly read an e-book at work? I have a desk job and sit in front of a computer all day. I have office package etc. ^^",
"how do I covertly read an e-book at work? I have a desk job and sit in front of a computer all day. I have office package etc. ^^",
"how do I covertly read an e-book at work? I have a desk job and sit in front of a computer all day. I have office package etc. ^^",
"how do I covertly read an e-book at work? I have a desk job and sit in front of a computer all day. I have office package etc. ^^"
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"If you can use headphones, audio books. I recommend audible but you can borrow them from many libraries too. ",
"Audible 100%, I listen to audio books literally the whole 8 hours that I work. It actually makes me a far better worker, because I become very focused on my job while listening. ",
"You read it on a smart watch. When your boss's presence is detected in your periphery you say, \"be with you in just a second.\" Then if you must make up some bullshit about checking your pulse or something but only if obligated. Most people are cool with shutting the fuck up when told to do so by a person intently staring at a watch. ",
"Second monitor. Work related stuff on one, ~~porn~~ e-book on the other. Anyone says anything, you were reading on break. Helps even more if the book only takes up half the screen and you have even more work related crap next to it.",
"Get your work done, then read. When your manager comes up to check whatever you're doing, just pull up something over their head so they just act like they know about it."
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"What are the best questions to ask a hiring manager (aka my future boss)? I'm a mechanical engineer for about a dozen years now and somehow I always end up having terrible bosses who never care about morale, making it a fun place to work, and help me grow professionally. Because of this \"neglect\" at work, I make it a hobby of mine to network, learn programming, and keep up with tech news. Anyway, one thing I'm sure I'm going to do is to ask what his/her subject matter expertise is and have him/her ELI5 to me to see how good of a teacher he/she is.\n\n\nTLDR: What questions should I ask in an interview to make sure I'll have a good boss and mentor in the future? ",
"What are the best questions to ask a hiring manager (aka my future boss)? I'm a mechanical engineer for about a dozen years now and somehow I always end up having terrible bosses who never care about morale, making it a fun place to work, and help me grow professionally. Because of this \"neglect\" at work, I make it a hobby of mine to network, learn programming, and keep up with tech news. Anyway, one thing I'm sure I'm going to do is to ask what his/her subject matter expertise is and have him/her ELI5 to me to see how good of a teacher he/she is.\n\n\nTLDR: What questions should I ask in an interview to make sure I'll have a good boss and mentor in the future? ",
"What are the best questions to ask a hiring manager (aka my future boss)? I'm a mechanical engineer for about a dozen years now and somehow I always end up having terrible bosses who never care about morale, making it a fun place to work, and help me grow professionally. Because of this \"neglect\" at work, I make it a hobby of mine to network, learn programming, and keep up with tech news. Anyway, one thing I'm sure I'm going to do is to ask what his/her subject matter expertise is and have him/her ELI5 to me to see how good of a teacher he/she is.\n\n\nTLDR: What questions should I ask in an interview to make sure I'll have a good boss and mentor in the future? ",
"What are the best questions to ask a hiring manager (aka my future boss)? I'm a mechanical engineer for about a dozen years now and somehow I always end up having terrible bosses who never care about morale, making it a fun place to work, and help me grow professionally. Because of this \"neglect\" at work, I make it a hobby of mine to network, learn programming, and keep up with tech news. Anyway, one thing I'm sure I'm going to do is to ask what his/her subject matter expertise is and have him/her ELI5 to me to see how good of a teacher he/she is.\n\n\nTLDR: What questions should I ask in an interview to make sure I'll have a good boss and mentor in the future? ",
"What are the best questions to ask a hiring manager (aka my future boss)? I'm a mechanical engineer for about a dozen years now and somehow I always end up having terrible bosses who never care about morale, making it a fun place to work, and help me grow professionally. Because of this \"neglect\" at work, I make it a hobby of mine to network, learn programming, and keep up with tech news. Anyway, one thing I'm sure I'm going to do is to ask what his/her subject matter expertise is and have him/her ELI5 to me to see how good of a teacher he/she is.\n\n\nTLDR: What questions should I ask in an interview to make sure I'll have a good boss and mentor in the future? ",
"What are the best questions to ask a hiring manager (aka my future boss)? I'm a mechanical engineer for about a dozen years now and somehow I always end up having terrible bosses who never care about morale, making it a fun place to work, and help me grow professionally. Because of this \"neglect\" at work, I make it a hobby of mine to network, learn programming, and keep up with tech news. Anyway, one thing I'm sure I'm going to do is to ask what his/her subject matter expertise is and have him/her ELI5 to me to see how good of a teacher he/she is.\n\n\nTLDR: What questions should I ask in an interview to make sure I'll have a good boss and mentor in the future? "
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"These questions will get you hired most of if not all of the time.\n\n\nWhat is the top priority for the person in this position over the next three months?\n\nWhat are some challenges that will face the person filling this position?\n\nWhat expectations do you need met by the person filling this job?\n\nWhat made you want to start working here and why are you still here?\n\n\nThese questions do a number of things. First and foremost you know exactly what you are walking into. This way if you have second thoughts you can turn it down gracefully without any issues.\n\nSecond these questions will psychologically resonate with the interviewer and they will be more inclined to show you the inner workings of the position and hire you.\n\nLastly it makes you look incredibly competent and intelligent.",
"With those unhappy past experiences, maybe you need to ask them how they usually go about juggling their different priorities. Plenty of bosses I've known have seen themselves as overworked and underpaid, just like their team members. It's not always that they don't care about morale and development, just that they've got other issues burning a hole in the back of their head. Knowing what makes them \"tick\" can help you choose the best time and place to broach different topics. I had one boss who was always receptive in the hour between coffee and lunch, but any time before or after was always heavily under the cosh to check inventories and chase up deadlines.",
"What traits in someone are considered a good fit for the company? Are there others for this team specifically?",
"I would add: what is the importance of this position to the company (especially if it has been empty) and are there opportunities for growth?",
">Anyway, one thing I'm sure I'm going to do is to ask what his/her subject matter expertise is and have him/her ELI5 to me to see how good of a teacher he/she is.\n\nThis is brilliant; going to use that on my next AMA session during interview.",
"\"What happend to the guy I replaced\" Or something similar in which you ask questions about an employee that left that company. You could learn a lot of the company from the manager's perspective and how he view his employees."
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"how to get rid of a headache (when meds don't work) So for the past 3-4 days, I have had this slight headache, and despite the fact it has minor pain, it has times where it is really painful and I feel nauseous. I slept wrong for 2 nights and the pain in my neck has given me a headache. I've tried massaging my neck where it hurts but it only gives temporary relief. It's only the left side of my head so it gets annoying. Any ideas?",
"how to get rid of a headache (when meds don't work) So for the past 3-4 days, I have had this slight headache, and despite the fact it has minor pain, it has times where it is really painful and I feel nauseous. I slept wrong for 2 nights and the pain in my neck has given me a headache. I've tried massaging my neck where it hurts but it only gives temporary relief. It's only the left side of my head so it gets annoying. Any ideas?",
"how to get rid of a headache (when meds don't work) So for the past 3-4 days, I have had this slight headache, and despite the fact it has minor pain, it has times where it is really painful and I feel nauseous. I slept wrong for 2 nights and the pain in my neck has given me a headache. I've tried massaging my neck where it hurts but it only gives temporary relief. It's only the left side of my head so it gets annoying. Any ideas?",
"how to get rid of a headache (when meds don't work) So for the past 3-4 days, I have had this slight headache, and despite the fact it has minor pain, it has times where it is really painful and I feel nauseous. I slept wrong for 2 nights and the pain in my neck has given me a headache. I've tried massaging my neck where it hurts but it only gives temporary relief. It's only the left side of my head so it gets annoying. Any ideas?",
"how to get rid of a headache (when meds don't work) So for the past 3-4 days, I have had this slight headache, and despite the fact it has minor pain, it has times where it is really painful and I feel nauseous. I slept wrong for 2 nights and the pain in my neck has given me a headache. I've tried massaging my neck where it hurts but it only gives temporary relief. It's only the left side of my head so it gets annoying. Any ideas?"
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"Water. And more water. \n\nDrink a couple of pints of water - the majority of headaches are made much worse or caused by dehydration.\n\nAlthough looking again at what you describe it may be musculo-skeletal in origin and a nice hot bath and a gentle massage might help.",
"I've had all kinds of headaches except for the really disabling migraine ones. I found what works for me is caffeine and lots of fluid, doesn't really matter what kind of fluid as long as you drink lots of it. If you pop a few caffeine drinks or coffee or whatever remember that it will make you urinate more, so all the more reason to drink lots. No alcohol though! For the neck pain get a pain relief salve, which will help you relax those muscles.",
"Are you sure you haven't developed a migraine? Regular headache meds like Advil and Tylenol won't be that helpful, you most likely need specialty medication. I would see a medical professional about this. Hopefully it's not something like a ruptured aneurysm that you may be sweeping under the rug.",
"Try these. It could be the levator scapulae or the trapezius. I landed on the back of my head in 2004 and this helps when i get headaches from sleeping on my back and end up w a headache \nhttp://www.nismat.org/traintip/swimmershld",
"My dr prescribed anti-nausea meds for my migraines as he said there has been some research that suggests nausea may be a contributing factor rather than a symptom of migraines. I have yet to take them as my regular meds are working fine, but maybe you could try an OTC anti-nausea med along with some excedrin?"
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"How to re-organize the folder structure of my files? Mac or Windows Is there an easy way to get a massive folder on my computer from this:\n\n&#x200B;\n\n* Folder1\n * subfolder1\n * file1\n * file2\n * file3\n * subfolder2\n * file4\n * file5\n * subfolder3\n * file6\n\nChanged into:\n\n* Folder1\n * file1\n * file2\n * file3\n * file4\n * file5\n * file6\n\nIn my specific case, it's Music > Artist > Album > Song and I want all the mp3 files to be in one folder full of mp3 files and no subfolders. I'm on a mac, but will copy it all over to a PC if it has to be done, then copy it back to the mac when it's organized.",
"How to re-organize the folder structure of my files? Mac or Windows Is there an easy way to get a massive folder on my computer from this:\n\n&#x200B;\n\n* Folder1\n * subfolder1\n * file1\n * file2\n * file3\n * subfolder2\n * file4\n * file5\n * subfolder3\n * file6\n\nChanged into:\n\n* Folder1\n * file1\n * file2\n * file3\n * file4\n * file5\n * file6\n\nIn my specific case, it's Music > Artist > Album > Song and I want all the mp3 files to be in one folder full of mp3 files and no subfolders. I'm on a mac, but will copy it all over to a PC if it has to be done, then copy it back to the mac when it's organized.",
"How to re-organize the folder structure of my files? Mac or Windows Is there an easy way to get a massive folder on my computer from this:\n\n&#x200B;\n\n* Folder1\n * subfolder1\n * file1\n * file2\n * file3\n * subfolder2\n * file4\n * file5\n * subfolder3\n * file6\n\nChanged into:\n\n* Folder1\n * file1\n * file2\n * file3\n * file4\n * file5\n * file6\n\nIn my specific case, it's Music > Artist > Album > Song and I want all the mp3 files to be in one folder full of mp3 files and no subfolders. I'm on a mac, but will copy it all over to a PC if it has to be done, then copy it back to the mac when it's organized.",
"How to re-organize the folder structure of my files? Mac or Windows Is there an easy way to get a massive folder on my computer from this:\n\n&#x200B;\n\n* Folder1\n * subfolder1\n * file1\n * file2\n * file3\n * subfolder2\n * file4\n * file5\n * subfolder3\n * file6\n\nChanged into:\n\n* Folder1\n * file1\n * file2\n * file3\n * file4\n * file5\n * file6\n\nIn my specific case, it's Music > Artist > Album > Song and I want all the mp3 files to be in one folder full of mp3 files and no subfolders. I'm on a mac, but will copy it all over to a PC if it has to be done, then copy it back to the mac when it's organized."
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"Crack open 'terminal', and 'cd' to the directory Folder1. The next command should do it, though Ive not tested it!\n\n`cd Folder1`\n\n`find . -type f exec mv {} ./ \\;`",
"I have to do something like this soon. Just do a search for .mp3 files on whatever drive. In the search results drag them to a new folder.",
"You could write the code to do it, check out stackoverflow I'm sure there will be stuff on there to help",
"Some music players can rearrange and music files. I've used AIMP on PC, (I think) to rename \\*and\\* rearrange my music. I think there's a mac version too."
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"I make plenty of schedules to help me manage my time, but I can never seem to stick to them. What are some tips on sticking to a schedule you've made? ",
"I make plenty of schedules to help me manage my time, but I can never seem to stick to them. What are some tips on sticking to a schedule you've made? ",
"I make plenty of schedules to help me manage my time, but I can never seem to stick to them. What are some tips on sticking to a schedule you've made? "
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"Start off writing down what you're doing everyday for a few days and see how much time everything takes. Sometimes we over or under estimate how long somethings take. I always take the first few days of a new semester seeing how long it takes to get from each building I need, if anyone I know hangs out near my classes and where lunch or errands can fit in. After that first week I know kind of my natural flow, and can schedule extra things around that. If i need to add things that don't fit, then i try to do one thing at a time. Changing everything at once is setting up for failure",
"Its like going to the gym. You need someone to keep you accountable and also a penalty system would help too. ie. Pay that person $1 if you missed a scheduled item.",
"You should give some information about how it is that you are not sticking to the schedule. Are you taking too long to get tasks completed, or just not doing the things that you have scheduled?\n\nAt my old job we used to call this premacking - make your schedule need-want, need-want as much as you can. So, wash your dishes, then watch some tv, fold some laundry, then read a magazine. This may help you to get through your schedule since there are quick \"rewards\". You may also plan a weekly or monthly reward for completely a longer term schedule. \nHowever, you are an adult and there is nothing stopping you from saying, \"screw cleaning the house, I'm going to play video games all day.\" Also, if you are planning to buy yourself some new shoes as a reward for following your schedule, there is nothing stopping you from just buying those shoes right now. So, everything comes down to self-control and self-discipline. With these things, I think practice makes perfect, so just keep trying! \n"
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"Anything involving moving. Any tips for packing techniques, what to do/not to do, etc. \n\nMoving two bedrooms plus a lot of music gear to another state. Going to be on the road for three days. \n\n*Any* tips will help. ",
"Anything involving moving. Any tips for packing techniques, what to do/not to do, etc. \n\nMoving two bedrooms plus a lot of music gear to another state. Going to be on the road for three days. \n\n*Any* tips will help. ",
"Anything involving moving. Any tips for packing techniques, what to do/not to do, etc. \n\nMoving two bedrooms plus a lot of music gear to another state. Going to be on the road for three days. \n\n*Any* tips will help. ",
"Anything involving moving. Any tips for packing techniques, what to do/not to do, etc. \n\nMoving two bedrooms plus a lot of music gear to another state. Going to be on the road for three days. \n\n*Any* tips will help. ",
"Anything involving moving. Any tips for packing techniques, what to do/not to do, etc. \n\nMoving two bedrooms plus a lot of music gear to another state. Going to be on the road for three days. \n\n*Any* tips will help. ",
"Anything involving moving. Any tips for packing techniques, what to do/not to do, etc. \n\nMoving two bedrooms plus a lot of music gear to another state. Going to be on the road for three days. \n\n*Any* tips will help. ",
"Anything involving moving. Any tips for packing techniques, what to do/not to do, etc. \n\nMoving two bedrooms plus a lot of music gear to another state. Going to be on the road for three days. \n\n*Any* tips will help. ",
"Anything involving moving. Any tips for packing techniques, what to do/not to do, etc. \n\nMoving two bedrooms plus a lot of music gear to another state. Going to be on the road for three days. \n\n*Any* tips will help. ",
"Anything involving moving. Any tips for packing techniques, what to do/not to do, etc. \n\nMoving two bedrooms plus a lot of music gear to another state. Going to be on the road for three days. \n\n*Any* tips will help. ",
"Anything involving moving. Any tips for packing techniques, what to do/not to do, etc. \n\nMoving two bedrooms plus a lot of music gear to another state. Going to be on the road for three days. \n\n*Any* tips will help. ",
"Anything involving moving. Any tips for packing techniques, what to do/not to do, etc. \n\nMoving two bedrooms plus a lot of music gear to another state. Going to be on the road for three days. \n\n*Any* tips will help. ",
"Anything involving moving. Any tips for packing techniques, what to do/not to do, etc. \n\nMoving two bedrooms plus a lot of music gear to another state. Going to be on the road for three days. \n\n*Any* tips will help. ",
"Anything involving moving. Any tips for packing techniques, what to do/not to do, etc. \n\nMoving two bedrooms plus a lot of music gear to another state. Going to be on the road for three days. \n\n*Any* tips will help. ",
"Anything involving moving. Any tips for packing techniques, what to do/not to do, etc. \n\nMoving two bedrooms plus a lot of music gear to another state. Going to be on the road for three days. \n\n*Any* tips will help. ",
"Anything involving moving. Any tips for packing techniques, what to do/not to do, etc. \n\nMoving two bedrooms plus a lot of music gear to another state. Going to be on the road for three days. \n\n*Any* tips will help. "
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"Buy or borrow a 'tape gun', will save tons of time sealing up boxes. \n\nUse SMALLish boxes for most things, they'll be lighter and easier to handle and pack.\n\nWrite on the box what the hell is in it, ideally also what room it's going to. And MISC is not allowed.\n\nHold off vital stuff to be the last put on the truck, first off. Stuff like a roll of toilet paper, paper towels, soap, sheets, towels, change of clothes, clock radio, cups, coffeemaker, whatever it's gonna take to get you through the first night or two.\n",
"Usually you can get boxes for free at grocery stores or places like CVS if you go right after they get a shipment. All you have to do is ask one of the workers wandering around and, if you time it right, you will get enough boxes to fill your car. I've been doing this for years as well as my mom previously. ",
"Being from a family that moves around a lot, here's some of my tips:\n-Always bring the essentials. Look up where you're moving, and pack a set of clothes that is **NOT NORMAL FOR THE CLIMATE**. It's very important.\n-Try to use as much space in boxes as possible, but still make the carryable. If you can't lift it, try not to pack it in a single box. (If there are movers, try to keep the same rule. It's nice for them.)\n-Keep a small folder for all items you might need. If it's by plane, keep plane tickets, itinerary, etc. But since you said 'on the road', keep hotel keys, receipts from restaurants (in case of stolen or lost items), and a short checklist.\n\nOverall, it's easy. Sorry if something was unnecessary, but these are my general rules. I do hope it helps.",
"if you don't want to spend money on bubble wrap, use tshirts and towels to wrap dishware. also line the box with a towel before you start packing the box.\n\nif you're getting a self-move truck (from uhaul or budget or whatever), invest in a set of tie-down straps. they'll make sure that boxes and large furniture don't move around in the truck and will probably save your stuff more than any amount of packing material would.",
"Roll your clothes to save space in suitcases and whatnot. \n\nLiberal use of bubble wrap on things you think might need it.",
"Plan your moving/driving music accordingly. Also try books on tape or podcasts to vary what you have to listen to for 3 days. Seems like a silly tip, but moving becomes that much harder when all you've done for three days is listen to that one cd you forgot you had in the car.\n\nNot really moving help, but trust me, your mood becomes very important when there's that much to do.",
"Pack a roll of toilet paper last so it is easy to get to when you reach your new home. You don't realize you need it till its too late.",
"If you have large items to move like a fridge, piano or wall unit, **[buy some of these](http://www.amazon.com/Teamstrap-Moving-and-Lifting-Straps/dp/B000UUX7VO)**. You'll be glad you did.\n\nMoving generally involves several trips within the one day. If this is the case then try to minimize downtime at each end. Ie. load/unload the vehicle efficiently and then let people rest during the drive. It's exhausting work, but getting 4 trips done in a day is better than 3. ",
"I'll allow myself to say this: if you think you live in a neighbourhood worth the precaution, DON'T WRITE ON THE BOXES WHAT'S INSIDE, only use numbers and an index that you'll keep with yourself. Of course when it's fragile, it's always better to indicate it.\n\nIt's a good thing to have boxes of the same size indeed, easier to load and unload.\n\nDon't overload boxes. A lot of tiny boxes will always be better than a few big ones. My back says so.",
"don't buy boxes, search your cities craigslist free section for boxes. save yourself some money.\n\nAlso... box EVERYTHING. makes it so much easier to load and unload.",
"The boxes wine is shipped in are great for glasses ... You don't have to wrap them just use the cardboard dividers ",
"Most important: To-Go-Case.\n\nPack a suitcase or something similar with your most important stuff. Clothes for changing, toothbrush, important papers, keys, ... and keep it CLOSE. Do not let it get out of your sight! Preferrably, if you have a car, keep it in there, don't let the moving-guys, or the helping friends or family-member touch it. Noone shall touch this suitcase!\n\nFor the most pissy thing to happen while moving is, when you are in the new appartment and you don't find the shit you need, as it is in some box at the bottom of some stack of boxes in a room full of stacks of boxes.\n\nGot it? Keep it with you, thank me later!",
"Keep track of moving expenses. Next time, you'll have a good estimate so you can prepare financially.",
"It may be obvious to most, but...\n\nUse boxes. Preferably boxes intended for moving. Obviously, you don't need to box furniture, but for the love of god, box everything else.",
"If you can, find identically sized smaller boxes. They're lighter to move, more stackable when transporting/storing, and let you unpack a little at a time. \n\nAlso if you've got time, now would be a good opportunity to sell off some of your things you don't use anymore and help pay for gas. If you use craigslist, expect fast sells for stupidly low prices. "
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"Semi-permanent residue-free tape? Wifi reception is a constant source of grief in my flat, so I am looking for a way to stick an ethernet cable to my hardwood floor that will keep it stable, but not leave sticky residue when I peel it off in 6 months. \n\nPainter's tape, masking tape, and duct tape don't seem like good options to me because they either come unstuck too soon or leave goop behind.",
"Semi-permanent residue-free tape? Wifi reception is a constant source of grief in my flat, so I am looking for a way to stick an ethernet cable to my hardwood floor that will keep it stable, but not leave sticky residue when I peel it off in 6 months. \n\nPainter's tape, masking tape, and duct tape don't seem like good options to me because they either come unstuck too soon or leave goop behind.",
"Semi-permanent residue-free tape? Wifi reception is a constant source of grief in my flat, so I am looking for a way to stick an ethernet cable to my hardwood floor that will keep it stable, but not leave sticky residue when I peel it off in 6 months. \n\nPainter's tape, masking tape, and duct tape don't seem like good options to me because they either come unstuck too soon or leave goop behind."
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"Use Gaffer's Tape, it is strong like Duct tape but it doesn't leave any residue...\n\nWe use it to tape down cables all the time.",
"http://www.cableorganizer.com/tunnel-tape/\n\nSame company sells cable covers which will protect your cable from being crushed when stepped on while reducing the risk of tripping. ",
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"How do you stop feeling lonely/desperate for love? I was a bit hesitant about posting this, but I know that other people on here have probably had the same experience. ",
"How do you stop feeling lonely/desperate for love? I was a bit hesitant about posting this, but I know that other people on here have probably had the same experience. ",
"How do you stop feeling lonely/desperate for love? I was a bit hesitant about posting this, but I know that other people on here have probably had the same experience. ",
"How do you stop feeling lonely/desperate for love? I was a bit hesitant about posting this, but I know that other people on here have probably had the same experience. ",
"How do you stop feeling lonely/desperate for love? I was a bit hesitant about posting this, but I know that other people on here have probably had the same experience. ",
"How do you stop feeling lonely/desperate for love? I was a bit hesitant about posting this, but I know that other people on here have probably had the same experience. ",
"How do you stop feeling lonely/desperate for love? I was a bit hesitant about posting this, but I know that other people on here have probably had the same experience. ",
"How do you stop feeling lonely/desperate for love? I was a bit hesitant about posting this, but I know that other people on here have probably had the same experience. ",
"How do you stop feeling lonely/desperate for love? I was a bit hesitant about posting this, but I know that other people on here have probably had the same experience. ",
"How do you stop feeling lonely/desperate for love? I was a bit hesitant about posting this, but I know that other people on here have probably had the same experience. ",
"How do you stop feeling lonely/desperate for love? I was a bit hesitant about posting this, but I know that other people on here have probably had the same experience. ",
"How do you stop feeling lonely/desperate for love? I was a bit hesitant about posting this, but I know that other people on here have probably had the same experience. ",
"How do you stop feeling lonely/desperate for love? I was a bit hesitant about posting this, but I know that other people on here have probably had the same experience. ",
"How do you stop feeling lonely/desperate for love? I was a bit hesitant about posting this, but I know that other people on here have probably had the same experience. "
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"Just focus on yourself and your goals, be thankful for this time to yourself as the person you are meant to be with is still figuring themselves out as well. When both of you on this planet and fully happy and in a good place you will find each other :)",
"short story here:\n\n27 year old me fell in love with a girl and got destroyed by her. she broke my heart into 100000000 pieces. \n\nnot hearing from her again was devastating. I went from talking to her everyday to never talking to her again.\n\nthe first few months were the hardest but just turn your phone off and dont even think about it. i would always check my phone every 3 seconds to see if i received a text but this made moving on difficult.\n\nso i literally just made myself as lonely as possible until i got used to it. and now i dont care if im alone or not. it makes no differece to me\n",
"Learn to love yourself, I've just been through this with after leaving my last relationship. After 4 years and living together for 3, we split up and to begin with it was really hard! But you learn how to deal with your own company, I started hitting the gym again and trying self improvements or learning new things. \n\n\nEventually you'll just get over it. Now I'm happy with being alone, which you should always be. Time heals all wounds friend, but that doesn't mean you cant be proactive.\n\n\nHope you feel better soon bro/bro'ett",
"Ok, I am going to give it (another) shot.\n\nThe emptiness you feel inside, and which you are projecting on the absence of a person, is not because of lack of love or even lack of sex. The emptiness you feel inside is your soul craving for something larger and real, the real you. There is no lack of love around you, just that you have not allowed yourself to experience it yet - you are surrounded by an 'ocean of love', the flower, the tree, the beautiful sunset, your parents, pets, all of it is love... it is not just defined by a 'lover'. To open yourself to all of this around you, you have to work on self-love while still letting go of your ego. You have to find a way to pause your life's drama that your ego creates, and be able to look beyond your own limited self-centred view of life. At some point a realisation may dawn that you dont get into a relationship to find happiness, you get into a relationship to express your happiness.\n\n(",
"My reply is in terms of a recent departure from a relationship but if you were more general in your questioning, I think it still applies.\n\nPart of the withdrawal from a relationship is the drop-off of attention, [non-sexual] physical touch, affection, etc., that you were accustomed to receiving from the other person. This cold-turkey disappearance causes withdrawal on the neurochemical level as a result of the ending of euphoria, sex, happiness, etc., [FYI- the neurotransmitters in question would be serotonin and dopamine] and so on that level it is a reaction to your brain's disbelief of \"but, it was right here...wait...what? how do I .....?\" *cue depression*. \n\nYou need to be distracted, get hobbies or people to take up your time. Force yourself to try something new, tackle some unfinished projects around the house, anything to take up your time and attention. Got a minute and you can feel the loneliness creeping back in? Drop and do pushups until your arms burn and you're not focusing on the loneliness anymore. If getting a pet seems rash, go to a shelter and walk dogs or hang out with the cats. They will love you :) You could go with m",
"For me, it took four or five disastrous, soul-sucking, life-destroying relationships. Given that that takes a really long time, you might want to go for the loving yourself thing.\n\nWhat they say is true: You will always have a hole in your heart until you really learn to love yourself, follow your own path, and take care of your own needs. All of society, all of the songs, all the movies, all the advertising... EVERYTHING is telling you that you need another person to fill that hole. That is a marketing lie. That other person is then looking to you to fill the hole in their heart. You end up like two black holes orbiting each other, each trying to pull matter from the other.\n\nBelieve me, I know it is really hard. But that is truly the only way. ",
"Start buying better clothes and dressing yourself better. Pay extra attention to your looks, and start improving your weight/body to your best ability. A lot of feeling good about yourself is LOOKING good, so when you see yourself in a mirror you gain confidence. Other people WILL notice, and the increased attraction will boost your self-esteem. Love *will* come your way. Don't get caught up in the \"looks shouldn't matter, they should see the real me\" argument. We're instinctively programmed to gravitate towards healthy, attractive partners. Fewer people will want to \"get to see the real you\" if they don't see you as fit and healthy first.",
"As for loneliness, you will feel lonely. That happens sometimes. But this type of thinking and living will help the loneliness become periodic instead of perpetual",
"Yes to \"you just do you\". That shit is some attractive stuff. \n\nI'm on it right now. Wife of 13 years left and I don't know if she's ever coming over. I thought I was building *our* future. Turns out nope. \n\nI'm working out, going on bike rides with like minded people, found a watering hole and made some friends, but most important, *I am letting me do me*. Try it! \n\nOh, and look up \"no more zero days\" ",
"My ex left and I felt horrible and lonely after living with him for a year and it all changing. \n\nIts been a year now and I have gone through 3 horrible relationships after him and honestly, it was like a switch just flipping where I was lonely and felt bad for myself one day, and the next day realizing Ive been doing this pretty much all my life. I can wait and find someone worth my time. \n\nJust go through the motions of life. Force yourself to hang out with friends and keep the really good friends that actually care about you. Keep your relationships with them and youll be able to have them around when your feeling shitty. ",
"Get into your favorite hobbies and before you know it you'll be surrounded by everyone who loves to do the same things you do. ",
"A lot of comments about improving yourself. I recommend doing this with hobbies, productive ones and even expensive ones you're interested in. \n\nI say this because I'm married now, and once you *do* meet someone and start a family... your time and money will be preciously spent, probably not on hobbies. The year I got my first real job I bought my dream les Paul, an upright air compressor and tools, and took a trip to a couple countries most people wouldn't visit but I sure enjoy. I still have the guitar, tools, and memories but I sure as hell couldn't do those things now. It's a 'grass is greener ' type thing. \n\nIt's perfectly okay to be selfish right now and focus just on you, one of the few times in life you can say that. Use it! It won't stop the loneliness, nothing will, but people with hobbies and travel are also much more interesting! ",
"Pick up online multiplayer games, realize human race is terrible, order an escort service, cry self to sleep ",
"If you're open to considering, take psychedelics. I'm serious. It's not for everyone, so check out your family history of mental disorders and if you're already schizophrenic don't even think about it. BUT if you want to give it a go, and have some friends who can help you do it safely, it will help you discover a lot about yourself and the world around you, and how those concepts aren't really two separate things at all. It breaks down your ego and reveals truths that can very much help with what you're talking about but are kind of hard to explain in words.\n\nAlso just think about how short life is, and how this life is the only one we know we've got. Are you going to spend it pining over various people in various ways, hoping to goodness they'll return the feeling and spending your days in a state of unending longing, or are you going to use your time to make a positive change in the world? Are you living for yourself or for other people? (Try living for yourself first, then other people can benefit from the love you show to yourself and eventually embody.) The love will come if you are love, if you embody it and project it. That's all you can do. You can't make people love you back, but they will to some extent (perhaps not the kind or extent you predicted or hoped) if you project love in a confident, unwavering, purposeful way. Basically instead of getting caught up in the disappointment love can bring, focus on intentionally creating ripples of positivity in your own communities, and thinking about the bigger picture of what it means to love openly and karmically."
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"How to stop waking up with watery eyes and bags underneath my eyes? I have really bad dark circles under my eyes. Regardless of how much I sleep. They last the whole day and I'm really self conscious about them.\n\nEvery time I wake up and get up, my eyes start tearing up, which I believe is a build up of water underneath my eyes where the circle/bags are. Idk what to do to stop this.\n\nI'm tired of looking like a zombie. it's not attractive. \nI'm tired of looking like I'm crying every time I wake up.\n\nHelp!",
"How to stop waking up with watery eyes and bags underneath my eyes? I have really bad dark circles under my eyes. Regardless of how much I sleep. They last the whole day and I'm really self conscious about them.\n\nEvery time I wake up and get up, my eyes start tearing up, which I believe is a build up of water underneath my eyes where the circle/bags are. Idk what to do to stop this.\n\nI'm tired of looking like a zombie. it's not attractive. \nI'm tired of looking like I'm crying every time I wake up.\n\nHelp!",
"How to stop waking up with watery eyes and bags underneath my eyes? I have really bad dark circles under my eyes. Regardless of how much I sleep. They last the whole day and I'm really self conscious about them.\n\nEvery time I wake up and get up, my eyes start tearing up, which I believe is a build up of water underneath my eyes where the circle/bags are. Idk what to do to stop this.\n\nI'm tired of looking like a zombie. it's not attractive. \nI'm tired of looking like I'm crying every time I wake up.\n\nHelp!",
"How to stop waking up with watery eyes and bags underneath my eyes? I have really bad dark circles under my eyes. Regardless of how much I sleep. They last the whole day and I'm really self conscious about them.\n\nEvery time I wake up and get up, my eyes start tearing up, which I believe is a build up of water underneath my eyes where the circle/bags are. Idk what to do to stop this.\n\nI'm tired of looking like a zombie. it's not attractive. \nI'm tired of looking like I'm crying every time I wake up.\n\nHelp!"
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"Allergies. Take 24 hour Allegra. Change your house air filter. Hydrate. Multivitamins. Are you getting enough iron and antioxidants? What color are the bags? This can be fixed with a little toner. Also gently massage the area. I take these incred. new gummy multivitamins for hair skin and nails. My skin looks incredible after a week. ",
"This definitely sounds like an allergy issue. I've found different allergy meds work differently for me in different parts of the country during different times of year. Then I had kids and they all stopped working. Yay. ",
"Does this happen every season? How often do you dust the bedroom and change the sheets and cases? If you sleep in another room, does it happen? ",
"All the allergy advice here is really good and worth trying. I would also add using a bedspread during the day to keep the dust etc. off the bed and pillows."
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"how to find out someone's name that you forgot without asking directly. I was at a bar last night and met a guy I haven't seen in a while. Totally couldn't remember his name. What could I ask someone to get there name without being rude? ",
"how to find out someone's name that you forgot without asking directly. I was at a bar last night and met a guy I haven't seen in a while. Totally couldn't remember his name. What could I ask someone to get there name without being rude? ",
"how to find out someone's name that you forgot without asking directly. I was at a bar last night and met a guy I haven't seen in a while. Totally couldn't remember his name. What could I ask someone to get there name without being rude? ",
"how to find out someone's name that you forgot without asking directly. I was at a bar last night and met a guy I haven't seen in a while. Totally couldn't remember his name. What could I ask someone to get there name without being rude? ",
"how to find out someone's name that you forgot without asking directly. I was at a bar last night and met a guy I haven't seen in a while. Totally couldn't remember his name. What could I ask someone to get there name without being rude? ",
"how to find out someone's name that you forgot without asking directly. I was at a bar last night and met a guy I haven't seen in a while. Totally couldn't remember his name. What could I ask someone to get there name without being rude? ",
"how to find out someone's name that you forgot without asking directly. I was at a bar last night and met a guy I haven't seen in a while. Totally couldn't remember his name. What could I ask someone to get there name without being rude? ",
"how to find out someone's name that you forgot without asking directly. I was at a bar last night and met a guy I haven't seen in a while. Totally couldn't remember his name. What could I ask someone to get there name without being rude? ",
"how to find out someone's name that you forgot without asking directly. I was at a bar last night and met a guy I haven't seen in a while. Totally couldn't remember his name. What could I ask someone to get there name without being rude? ",
"how to find out someone's name that you forgot without asking directly. I was at a bar last night and met a guy I haven't seen in a while. Totally couldn't remember his name. What could I ask someone to get there name without being rude? ",
"how to find out someone's name that you forgot without asking directly. I was at a bar last night and met a guy I haven't seen in a while. Totally couldn't remember his name. What could I ask someone to get there name without being rude? ",
"how to find out someone's name that you forgot without asking directly. I was at a bar last night and met a guy I haven't seen in a while. Totally couldn't remember his name. What could I ask someone to get there name without being rude? "
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"Ask them what their name is, and when they tell you, say 'oh no I meant your last name, sorry.'\n\nBoom.",
"I would not find it rude if someone couldn't recall my name. Just ask. I work in the public eye and over time, I see hundreds of the same people over and over again. I have to get names for publication. I can't remember all the faces and names - often of even the most high profile people I see time after time. \n\nAnd in the blur that I work in, I find that I sometimes associate (in my own mind) one person with another person's name or face. I also find that I consistently forget certain people's names. I can't make mistakes when taking names, so I very quickly got over the fear of asking. Sometimes I'll ask other people for the person's name, but I have to be accurate and its just easier to rely on myself.\n\nI guess I've learned to carry that over into non-work situations. Twice, I've met up with women who I actually know who generally are dressed to the nines and also wear lots of makeup. I honestly didn't recognize them without their makeup and had to ask their name. I'd rather get it over with and ask than to spend the awkward moments scrambling inside my head for their name.\n ",
"Ask for their email, if it's a corporate world, it's likely they'll use their name or some professional variant of their name which will kick start your memory. ",
"The way to do this, is to just ask: what was your name again? Then they reply with their name offcourse and seem offended. Then you say, no not your first name, your last. Then you know their first name and their last and as a bonus they are not offended. ",
"Man up, ask their name. And THEN apply a trick to never forget it again. The shame of having to ask somebody their name when you should know it should cause enough pain to make you remember it. \nI know I'm dreaming here.",
"Introduce them to a friend without introducing them.\n\n\"Hey have you met my friend David?\" When David reaches out to shake his/her hand, the person will usually reply and say \"Hi, I'm Alex. Nice to meet you.\"\n\nThe other way is to ask how do they spell their name (and then remark how you have a friend that has it spelled differently), or ask for their full name.",
"\"OMG my driver's license picture is SO BAD. What's yours look like?\"\n\nNow you know their name, and you even got their address, birthday & gender as a bonus.",
"If someone forgets my name, it doesn't offend me at all; it gives me the opportunity to mess with them a bit. I'll tell them some rediculous name, and they'll be like \"ehhh... nuh uhh\" then I'll tell them a more normal-sounding one (still incorrect), and they'll be like \"Oh yeah!\" then I'll just laugh and tell them the real one.",
"I was able to pull off something I saw on Seinfeld. If you've seen the \"Mulva\" episode you know what I'm talking about. I started talking about nicknames kids would give me in school to make fun of my name and then asked her if anyone made fun of her name in school. She said \"yeah, they used to call me Little Orphan Annie\". We dated for a few weeks. I don't think she ever knew I couldn't remember her name the first couple times we went out.",
"Ask them there name politely like suggested by others, when they say there first name however say no your surname acting like you knew there first name already ",
"Try this. Simply say \"what was your name again?\" and when he tells you, say \"No, I mean your last name\" That way you'll have both first and last name and you won't upset him. ",
"Ask \"whats your name again?\" They'll probably be offended but say their name; then, say \"no, your last name\" they'll be less offended and you know both names."
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"How to actually build relationships with teammates especially ones the same rank as you? In a team based environment its impossible to fight alone. You need to develop good relations with others especially if there's something you don't know and need their help. \n\nProblem is how do you get people who are in direct competition with you to like you and give you help? From their perspective, you're a competitors and helping you is only harming themselves so why should they help you?",
"How to actually build relationships with teammates especially ones the same rank as you? In a team based environment its impossible to fight alone. You need to develop good relations with others especially if there's something you don't know and need their help. \n\nProblem is how do you get people who are in direct competition with you to like you and give you help? From their perspective, you're a competitors and helping you is only harming themselves so why should they help you?"
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"Well, first off don't see them as competition, the moment they feel that you are competing against them they will stop assisting you. Be vulnerable, ask for help, give help freely and don't expect too much in return. Voice concerns you hear amongst them. In my experience the ones who are the most open and comfortable in a team will get pushed forwards into leading positions. Where the ones who want the leading positions the most openly always get passed. Real leadership is earned, not taken.",
"In a team based environment rank doesn't mean anything. In a ranked based environment relationships doesn't mean anything. You need to figure out which environment you're working in.\n\nIf you're working within a team, you need to give and receive help proactively. Usually people ask for help as a last resort, only a leader will actively engage with their peers. You help solve their problem without being asked and you become their priority. That's how you build relationship off of respect.\n\nIf you're working within a rank system. Your goal is to make sure people under your supervision have what they need to get the job done on time. You need a degree of separation from those above and underneath you to maintain a sense of professionalism. You earn their respect by providing what they need to work and vouch for their work and integrity. If they are not within your expectations then you need to let them know fairly and honestly. You gain their respect by giving what they need and getting what you need at an equal exchange."
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"Need some guidance on negotiation a salary but within the same company. Hi everyone,\n\nSo I've been working at my company for about 2 years now. Within this time, I was making a starting salary of $65k which after annual raises is now at around $68k. I found out I was being lowballed when I found the standard labor code of the company and realized I'm being paid well below my grade, as a entry level engineering with no experience. At the time I joined, I had 5 years of experience and working on a MS. \n\n\nNow, I have roughly 7 years of experience, a MS, and working on a second MS. I've been offered a transition to a different department within the same company. Like a idiot, I put my desired salary range as $85k-95k (should've gone higher...). Today, I get the offer at $85k. Since I'm still in the same company, my tuition reimbursement plan doesn't change, benefits remain the same, PTO stuff remains the same, nothing really changes. How can I negotiate myself closer to $90-95k?",
"Need some guidance on negotiation a salary but within the same company. Hi everyone,\n\nSo I've been working at my company for about 2 years now. Within this time, I was making a starting salary of $65k which after annual raises is now at around $68k. I found out I was being lowballed when I found the standard labor code of the company and realized I'm being paid well below my grade, as a entry level engineering with no experience. At the time I joined, I had 5 years of experience and working on a MS. \n\n\nNow, I have roughly 7 years of experience, a MS, and working on a second MS. I've been offered a transition to a different department within the same company. Like a idiot, I put my desired salary range as $85k-95k (should've gone higher...). Today, I get the offer at $85k. Since I'm still in the same company, my tuition reimbursement plan doesn't change, benefits remain the same, PTO stuff remains the same, nothing really changes. How can I negotiate myself closer to $90-95k?",
"Need some guidance on negotiation a salary but within the same company. Hi everyone,\n\nSo I've been working at my company for about 2 years now. Within this time, I was making a starting salary of $65k which after annual raises is now at around $68k. I found out I was being lowballed when I found the standard labor code of the company and realized I'm being paid well below my grade, as a entry level engineering with no experience. At the time I joined, I had 5 years of experience and working on a MS. \n\n\nNow, I have roughly 7 years of experience, a MS, and working on a second MS. I've been offered a transition to a different department within the same company. Like a idiot, I put my desired salary range as $85k-95k (should've gone higher...). Today, I get the offer at $85k. Since I'm still in the same company, my tuition reimbursement plan doesn't change, benefits remain the same, PTO stuff remains the same, nothing really changes. How can I negotiate myself closer to $90-95k?",
"Need some guidance on negotiation a salary but within the same company. Hi everyone,\n\nSo I've been working at my company for about 2 years now. Within this time, I was making a starting salary of $65k which after annual raises is now at around $68k. I found out I was being lowballed when I found the standard labor code of the company and realized I'm being paid well below my grade, as a entry level engineering with no experience. At the time I joined, I had 5 years of experience and working on a MS. \n\n\nNow, I have roughly 7 years of experience, a MS, and working on a second MS. I've been offered a transition to a different department within the same company. Like a idiot, I put my desired salary range as $85k-95k (should've gone higher...). Today, I get the offer at $85k. Since I'm still in the same company, my tuition reimbursement plan doesn't change, benefits remain the same, PTO stuff remains the same, nothing really changes. How can I negotiate myself closer to $90-95k?",
"Need some guidance on negotiation a salary but within the same company. Hi everyone,\n\nSo I've been working at my company for about 2 years now. Within this time, I was making a starting salary of $65k which after annual raises is now at around $68k. I found out I was being lowballed when I found the standard labor code of the company and realized I'm being paid well below my grade, as a entry level engineering with no experience. At the time I joined, I had 5 years of experience and working on a MS. \n\n\nNow, I have roughly 7 years of experience, a MS, and working on a second MS. I've been offered a transition to a different department within the same company. Like a idiot, I put my desired salary range as $85k-95k (should've gone higher...). Today, I get the offer at $85k. Since I'm still in the same company, my tuition reimbursement plan doesn't change, benefits remain the same, PTO stuff remains the same, nothing really changes. How can I negotiate myself closer to $90-95k?"
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"Bring your brag sheet to the table. If you have gone above and beyond, tell them. Don’t be afraid to use the company’s pay scale as a tool either. If you are in a high demand job, be prepared to walk. I can tell you I don’t have those skills and walked from more. I found a better job and got what I wanted. Never be afraid to fight for yourself. If you bring value, they will make it work. The worst they will do if you fight for more is say no. They won’t fire you if you are performing and already working for less than anyone else. It’s bullshit they came back at your bottom to begin with.",
"You could always say you gave them a range out of respect, in hopes of them meeting in the middle or at the upper amount as a show of appreciation of what you bring to the table as an employee? There’s a thousand ways to skin a cat, and knowing your worth at a company and having the confidence to stand up for it goes a long way. Good luck on the convo with the boss :)",
"Always be prepared for it to backfire and you get shitcanned; even if not immediately. Create a list of your job requirements, along side what you actually do, and why the extra things you do bring the company more value. Can start putting in applications elsewhere, ask THEM for a higher starting salary, and then go to your boss and say get, these guys are offering me more for the same job. If the company likes your work ethic and has the liquid equity, they will either match or say goodbye. A friend did something like this, and the two companies went back and forth trying to outbid each other; he ended up with less responsibilities, as well as a 20k+ salary raise due to the back and forth. He ended up staying with the same company; and got the raise without personally having to plead his case, he just showed that he was desirable to the competition",
"\"The general rule for indefinite articles is to use a before consonants and an before vowels. The trick here is to use your ears (how the acronym is pronounced), not your eyes (how it's spelled). HIV (pronounced \"aitch eye vee\") begins with a vowel sound, so an HIV patient is correct.\"\n\nThis is from the AP Style Book.\n\nIt's also generally practiced.",
"Work on your spelling. \n\n(It's \"an\" MS; and \"an\" idiot.)\n\nMaybe that's why they justify your lower salary, communication skills often hold people back."
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"How to write a goodbye note to a co-worker you barely knew So a co-worker of mine is moving on soon, and he is really beloved here. Our boss is gathering up a booklet of memories (both photographs and text) from all of us...but I barely knew the guy and don't really have any anecdotes or thoughts on his leaving. I know the rest of the goodbyes are going to be very heartfelt (he has been here 10+ years, I've only been here 1), and I suspect my supervisor would raise an eyebrow if I were to write something short/cold. Any tips on how to write a sincere farewell to somebody you did not associate much with?",
"How to write a goodbye note to a co-worker you barely knew So a co-worker of mine is moving on soon, and he is really beloved here. Our boss is gathering up a booklet of memories (both photographs and text) from all of us...but I barely knew the guy and don't really have any anecdotes or thoughts on his leaving. I know the rest of the goodbyes are going to be very heartfelt (he has been here 10+ years, I've only been here 1), and I suspect my supervisor would raise an eyebrow if I were to write something short/cold. Any tips on how to write a sincere farewell to somebody you did not associate much with?",
"How to write a goodbye note to a co-worker you barely knew So a co-worker of mine is moving on soon, and he is really beloved here. Our boss is gathering up a booklet of memories (both photographs and text) from all of us...but I barely knew the guy and don't really have any anecdotes or thoughts on his leaving. I know the rest of the goodbyes are going to be very heartfelt (he has been here 10+ years, I've only been here 1), and I suspect my supervisor would raise an eyebrow if I were to write something short/cold. Any tips on how to write a sincere farewell to somebody you did not associate much with?"
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"\"Dear coworker, \nIt took me a long time to decide what I could write, draw or do to resemble what you mean to all us people here. Ultimately, I decided to leave (the majority of) my page empty - because that's how we all feel about your leaving. With best wishes for your future, /u/steezhammer\" ",
"Something like, \n\"It's a shame I didn't get a chance to get to know you more, but everyone here talks about what a great person you are. Best wishes wherever life takes you next\". \n\n\nI'm sure this guy isn't expecting some long heart felt message from someone he hardly knows, so just keep it generic and you'll be fine. \n\nP.S. Who cares what your supervisor thinks of your message, it's not his business what you or anyone else writes. ",
"The same way you write out all goodbyes to people you hardly knew: \n \nH.A.G.S., K.I.T. and of course: \n \nI \nI did \nI did this \nI did this just \nI did this just to \nI did this just to take \nI did this just to take up \nI did this just to take up space."
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"How do I start all over again? I'm facing struggles about my self and academics. I'm currently a college student but I had to stop because of some issues.\n\nDuring the first semester in college I was doing fine, just like how a normal student would. I was self studying, attending classes, doing homework and all requirements in class. Then the first semester finals came, there were a lot of projects that was needed to be done, some of them are group projects but I did almost all of it alone. Some of my friends needed my help with their projects and I kindly helped all of them. It was very tiring and stressful, as far as I can remember it was the first and most stressful weeks of my academic life but despite all of the struggles I managed to survive the first semester.\n\nThe second semester started, two to three weeks in I was still doing fine but eventually I became less inspired as day goes by. I slowly stopped doing homework, I stopped attending classes, I feel very drained. Those days of not attending classes became a month, I just stopped doing anything. Every time I try to do some school related stuff all of a sudden I feel sleepy, out of energy and uninterested. I just started avoiding everything that is school related. I had one friend that I talk to often but when he messages me about academics I just ignore his messages, when I feel like his message is gonna be related to academics I immediately stop reading it and not talk to him. I decided to take a rest and quit college but I plan to go back next school year.\n\nI want to catch up and start studying again, but I still feel the same uninspired feeling whenever I try to start again. I don't really know how to overcome this feeling and start all over again. What should I do?\n\nPS. I only really know a few subreddits so I'm not sure if this is the best place to post this.",
"How do I start all over again? I'm facing struggles about my self and academics. I'm currently a college student but I had to stop because of some issues.\n\nDuring the first semester in college I was doing fine, just like how a normal student would. I was self studying, attending classes, doing homework and all requirements in class. Then the first semester finals came, there were a lot of projects that was needed to be done, some of them are group projects but I did almost all of it alone. Some of my friends needed my help with their projects and I kindly helped all of them. It was very tiring and stressful, as far as I can remember it was the first and most stressful weeks of my academic life but despite all of the struggles I managed to survive the first semester.\n\nThe second semester started, two to three weeks in I was still doing fine but eventually I became less inspired as day goes by. I slowly stopped doing homework, I stopped attending classes, I feel very drained. Those days of not attending classes became a month, I just stopped doing anything. Every time I try to do some school related stuff all of a sudden I feel sleepy, out of energy and uninterested. I just started avoiding everything that is school related. I had one friend that I talk to often but when he messages me about academics I just ignore his messages, when I feel like his message is gonna be related to academics I immediately stop reading it and not talk to him. I decided to take a rest and quit college but I plan to go back next school year.\n\nI want to catch up and start studying again, but I still feel the same uninspired feeling whenever I try to start again. I don't really know how to overcome this feeling and start all over again. What should I do?\n\nPS. I only really know a few subreddits so I'm not sure if this is the best place to post this.",
"How do I start all over again? I'm facing struggles about my self and academics. I'm currently a college student but I had to stop because of some issues.\n\nDuring the first semester in college I was doing fine, just like how a normal student would. I was self studying, attending classes, doing homework and all requirements in class. Then the first semester finals came, there were a lot of projects that was needed to be done, some of them are group projects but I did almost all of it alone. Some of my friends needed my help with their projects and I kindly helped all of them. It was very tiring and stressful, as far as I can remember it was the first and most stressful weeks of my academic life but despite all of the struggles I managed to survive the first semester.\n\nThe second semester started, two to three weeks in I was still doing fine but eventually I became less inspired as day goes by. I slowly stopped doing homework, I stopped attending classes, I feel very drained. Those days of not attending classes became a month, I just stopped doing anything. Every time I try to do some school related stuff all of a sudden I feel sleepy, out of energy and uninterested. I just started avoiding everything that is school related. I had one friend that I talk to often but when he messages me about academics I just ignore his messages, when I feel like his message is gonna be related to academics I immediately stop reading it and not talk to him. I decided to take a rest and quit college but I plan to go back next school year.\n\nI want to catch up and start studying again, but I still feel the same uninspired feeling whenever I try to start again. I don't really know how to overcome this feeling and start all over again. What should I do?\n\nPS. I only really know a few subreddits so I'm not sure if this is the best place to post this."
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"First, make sure you still have good academic standing, if that's still important to you. Next I would see a doctor to try to get to the root of what's bothering you. There could be a physical issue. You may have undiagnosed depression. Also, look at what you're studying. Is it something you're passionate about? I've seen students derail just because they felt shoehorned into a major or program which just wasn't important enough to them. I hope you can figure it out.",
"Talk to your academic advisor. Ask about counseling. Most schools really *want* you to succeed. Use your resources.",
"You do things because you're trying to succeed in life, not because you enjoy doing every single one of them. You're going to hit a plateau, you're going to suffer setbacks in life. It's LIFE. It's surviving and thriving in the obstacles that makes you who you are."
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"How do you fake movement on your mouse without using software? I didn't post this on UnethicalLPT because my daily workload is based on how much is finished and not based on time. But my company has a stupid rule that we need keep our computer from being idle even after we've finished our tasks. \n\nI know there are software tools that can solve this, but I'm afraid that my company's third-party time tracker can already detect those. So I'm looking for a (preferably DIY) way to physically keep my mouse moving while I'm AFK.",
"How do you fake movement on your mouse without using software? I didn't post this on UnethicalLPT because my daily workload is based on how much is finished and not based on time. But my company has a stupid rule that we need keep our computer from being idle even after we've finished our tasks. \n\nI know there are software tools that can solve this, but I'm afraid that my company's third-party time tracker can already detect those. So I'm looking for a (preferably DIY) way to physically keep my mouse moving while I'm AFK.",
"How do you fake movement on your mouse without using software? I didn't post this on UnethicalLPT because my daily workload is based on how much is finished and not based on time. But my company has a stupid rule that we need keep our computer from being idle even after we've finished our tasks. \n\nI know there are software tools that can solve this, but I'm afraid that my company's third-party time tracker can already detect those. So I'm looking for a (preferably DIY) way to physically keep my mouse moving while I'm AFK.",
"How do you fake movement on your mouse without using software? I didn't post this on UnethicalLPT because my daily workload is based on how much is finished and not based on time. But my company has a stupid rule that we need keep our computer from being idle even after we've finished our tasks. \n\nI know there are software tools that can solve this, but I'm afraid that my company's third-party time tracker can already detect those. So I'm looking for a (preferably DIY) way to physically keep my mouse moving while I'm AFK.",
"How do you fake movement on your mouse without using software? I didn't post this on UnethicalLPT because my daily workload is based on how much is finished and not based on time. But my company has a stupid rule that we need keep our computer from being idle even after we've finished our tasks. \n\nI know there are software tools that can solve this, but I'm afraid that my company's third-party time tracker can already detect those. So I'm looking for a (preferably DIY) way to physically keep my mouse moving while I'm AFK.",
"How do you fake movement on your mouse without using software? I didn't post this on UnethicalLPT because my daily workload is based on how much is finished and not based on time. But my company has a stupid rule that we need keep our computer from being idle even after we've finished our tasks. \n\nI know there are software tools that can solve this, but I'm afraid that my company's third-party time tracker can already detect those. So I'm looking for a (preferably DIY) way to physically keep my mouse moving while I'm AFK.",
"How do you fake movement on your mouse without using software? I didn't post this on UnethicalLPT because my daily workload is based on how much is finished and not based on time. But my company has a stupid rule that we need keep our computer from being idle even after we've finished our tasks. \n\nI know there are software tools that can solve this, but I'm afraid that my company's third-party time tracker can already detect those. So I'm looking for a (preferably DIY) way to physically keep my mouse moving while I'm AFK.",
"How do you fake movement on your mouse without using software? I didn't post this on UnethicalLPT because my daily workload is based on how much is finished and not based on time. But my company has a stupid rule that we need keep our computer from being idle even after we've finished our tasks. \n\nI know there are software tools that can solve this, but I'm afraid that my company's third-party time tracker can already detect those. So I'm looking for a (preferably DIY) way to physically keep my mouse moving while I'm AFK.",
"How do you fake movement on your mouse without using software? I didn't post this on UnethicalLPT because my daily workload is based on how much is finished and not based on time. But my company has a stupid rule that we need keep our computer from being idle even after we've finished our tasks. \n\nI know there are software tools that can solve this, but I'm afraid that my company's third-party time tracker can already detect those. So I'm looking for a (preferably DIY) way to physically keep my mouse moving while I'm AFK.",
"How do you fake movement on your mouse without using software? I didn't post this on UnethicalLPT because my daily workload is based on how much is finished and not based on time. But my company has a stupid rule that we need keep our computer from being idle even after we've finished our tasks. \n\nI know there are software tools that can solve this, but I'm afraid that my company's third-party time tracker can already detect those. So I'm looking for a (preferably DIY) way to physically keep my mouse moving while I'm AFK.",
"How do you fake movement on your mouse without using software? I didn't post this on UnethicalLPT because my daily workload is based on how much is finished and not based on time. But my company has a stupid rule that we need keep our computer from being idle even after we've finished our tasks. \n\nI know there are software tools that can solve this, but I'm afraid that my company's third-party time tracker can already detect those. So I'm looking for a (preferably DIY) way to physically keep my mouse moving while I'm AFK.",
"How do you fake movement on your mouse without using software? I didn't post this on UnethicalLPT because my daily workload is based on how much is finished and not based on time. But my company has a stupid rule that we need keep our computer from being idle even after we've finished our tasks. \n\nI know there are software tools that can solve this, but I'm afraid that my company's third-party time tracker can already detect those. So I'm looking for a (preferably DIY) way to physically keep my mouse moving while I'm AFK."
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"Put your mouse on an old phone and set it to vibrate every 10-15 minutes. I’ve also seen you can buy a mouse vibrator online as well.",
"I can't believe the micromanaging companies these days go through! When we are going to learn that micromanaging on this level just drives employees to be sneakier and hate their jobs more? Unbelievable.",
"Unverified solution, but book a meeting for yourself in outlook for all day and change the availability seeing to free.",
"Get a small massage pad. Put your mouse on it when you want to vacate. The vibration will activate the mouse. Even using a phone set to vibrate on an alarm set to go off every 5 minutes should do the same. Experiment. My wireless mouse is so sensitive that using a drawer under the desk will pull it out of sleep mode, so vibration should do the same. Good luck.",
"They sell usb devices that do exactly this for under $10. You'll be hard pressed to make a better solution that's also cheaper",
"Maybe attach the mouse to some left-right turning fan somehow?\nOr try putting in on top of a watch, maybe the \"seconds\" hand will trigger your mouse's laser?\n\nHave never tried those (just thought of them off the top of my head), but they might be an easy solution!",
"I have a Bluetooth mouse and I put it in the pocket of a light jacket I wear around the house. As long as the mouse is 35ft from the computer, it tracks as active.",
"You can attach it to a desk fan, but the connection has to be tight, so I suggest using some type of a stick or something!!! Also maybe look for another job? Micromanaging that much time is so much added stress for no reason haha",
"Why not just change the settings, where your computer doesn't sleep, or let the screen saver kick in?",
"This seems something worth spending some brainpower on...\n\nSo you need a mecanical way of moving your mouse since anything software can be detected?\n\nKeystrokes may also prevent idling. Have you thought about jamming a key on your keyboard so that it continuously sends input?\n\nOther than this you need something you can attach your mouse to that does a cyclical movement like a push/pull motion. You attach it to the cord of your mouse and it will get pulled around. It needs to be portable and easily concealable as well as fixable to some heavy object. A USB powered motor maybe? Very DIY but you could power the motor and let it go at low speed. Like the motors from the mini 4WD. An arm is attached to the motor at the end of which is attached the cord. The motor has a support with a small vice that can be fixed to the table. The motor makes very little noise a low rpm.\n\n​\n\n",
"Open word pad, click inside anywhere and when you walk away take a small piece of tape and tape down the space bar key until you return.",
"For my dads home office setup, I built a contraption out of legos that would constantly press some non-relevant button (\"print\" or something similar) to not have the screensaver on his work laptop activate when he runs some automated testing. Works well :D"
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"Advice on preventing/delaying osteoarthritis as an adult Hi! I know the best advice on how to not get osteoarthritis (from wear and tear on the joints) is drink milk/weight-lift as a kid and pre-teen, but I was a relatively stupid kid who felt that time passed so slowly I wouldn't ever get to be an adult in their 30s and 40s and have to worry about arthritis. Now I'm 20 and wondering if there's anything I can do to prevent getting arthritis or delay it/have a slow progression? I've already had tendinitis in my wrists (from typing/online classes; it did heal) and am quite sedentary now that I'm at home all the time and now have back/shoulder stiffness.",
"Advice on preventing/delaying osteoarthritis as an adult Hi! I know the best advice on how to not get osteoarthritis (from wear and tear on the joints) is drink milk/weight-lift as a kid and pre-teen, but I was a relatively stupid kid who felt that time passed so slowly I wouldn't ever get to be an adult in their 30s and 40s and have to worry about arthritis. Now I'm 20 and wondering if there's anything I can do to prevent getting arthritis or delay it/have a slow progression? I've already had tendinitis in my wrists (from typing/online classes; it did heal) and am quite sedentary now that I'm at home all the time and now have back/shoulder stiffness.",
"Advice on preventing/delaying osteoarthritis as an adult Hi! I know the best advice on how to not get osteoarthritis (from wear and tear on the joints) is drink milk/weight-lift as a kid and pre-teen, but I was a relatively stupid kid who felt that time passed so slowly I wouldn't ever get to be an adult in their 30s and 40s and have to worry about arthritis. Now I'm 20 and wondering if there's anything I can do to prevent getting arthritis or delay it/have a slow progression? I've already had tendinitis in my wrists (from typing/online classes; it did heal) and am quite sedentary now that I'm at home all the time and now have back/shoulder stiffness.",
"Advice on preventing/delaying osteoarthritis as an adult Hi! I know the best advice on how to not get osteoarthritis (from wear and tear on the joints) is drink milk/weight-lift as a kid and pre-teen, but I was a relatively stupid kid who felt that time passed so slowly I wouldn't ever get to be an adult in their 30s and 40s and have to worry about arthritis. Now I'm 20 and wondering if there's anything I can do to prevent getting arthritis or delay it/have a slow progression? I've already had tendinitis in my wrists (from typing/online classes; it did heal) and am quite sedentary now that I'm at home all the time and now have back/shoulder stiffness.",
"Advice on preventing/delaying osteoarthritis as an adult Hi! I know the best advice on how to not get osteoarthritis (from wear and tear on the joints) is drink milk/weight-lift as a kid and pre-teen, but I was a relatively stupid kid who felt that time passed so slowly I wouldn't ever get to be an adult in their 30s and 40s and have to worry about arthritis. Now I'm 20 and wondering if there's anything I can do to prevent getting arthritis or delay it/have a slow progression? I've already had tendinitis in my wrists (from typing/online classes; it did heal) and am quite sedentary now that I'm at home all the time and now have back/shoulder stiffness."
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"Actually, milk is not the greatest source of calcium and calcium absorption is just as important so look into that. A good multivitamin with calcium could be a better bet. Some people are simply more prone to arthritis, but staying at an ideal weight, keeping your core strong, stretching, eating properly, avoiding drugs and smoking, yoga is excellent.",
"Weight bearing exercise. Even walking. Things like yoga are excellent. Arthritis happens, but it doesn't always hurt. Keep your inflammation low, keep stretching, and concentrate on joint stability and gait correction.",
"Start exercising and stop overthinking things. You’re too young to act like your body is falling apart. Go to r/fitness and start the work",
"Here’s a bunch of peer reviewed scientific research summaries about preventing osteoarthritis from [NutritionFacts.org](https://nutritionfacts.org): [Osteoarthritis Videos](https://nutritionfacts.org/?s=OsteoarthrItis)",
"Running. Yes, Running. It prevents bone decalcification, improves cartilage health and causes reversing of artery damage and aging as well as causing your body to be more efficient.\n\nPlyometrics are also good BUT make sure you do them with proper form, proper preparation and in the right quantity. 100 burpees is dumb AF. 10 burpees once a week is fine, same with box jumps or depth jumps. \n\nYoga and core training for your lower back, especially resistance to movement core training."
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"How to become more patient and focus on one thing at a time? I have a very short attention spam (I don't have ADD) and tend to jump from one thing to another very fast. When I find an interesting post on reddit I will read the comments for few minutes and move on to the next one even though that post had more interesting things. I have a really hard time finishing a movie or picking a movies. I picked up reading but got bored very soon, I picked up painting but didn't follow through, I picked up hiking but only went once etc etc. I would like to know what are some things you guys do to focus on one particular thing at a time and finish it before moving to another thing. Thanks",
"How to become more patient and focus on one thing at a time? I have a very short attention spam (I don't have ADD) and tend to jump from one thing to another very fast. When I find an interesting post on reddit I will read the comments for few minutes and move on to the next one even though that post had more interesting things. I have a really hard time finishing a movie or picking a movies. I picked up reading but got bored very soon, I picked up painting but didn't follow through, I picked up hiking but only went once etc etc. I would like to know what are some things you guys do to focus on one particular thing at a time and finish it before moving to another thing. Thanks",
"How to become more patient and focus on one thing at a time? I have a very short attention spam (I don't have ADD) and tend to jump from one thing to another very fast. When I find an interesting post on reddit I will read the comments for few minutes and move on to the next one even though that post had more interesting things. I have a really hard time finishing a movie or picking a movies. I picked up reading but got bored very soon, I picked up painting but didn't follow through, I picked up hiking but only went once etc etc. I would like to know what are some things you guys do to focus on one particular thing at a time and finish it before moving to another thing. Thanks",
"How to become more patient and focus on one thing at a time? I have a very short attention spam (I don't have ADD) and tend to jump from one thing to another very fast. When I find an interesting post on reddit I will read the comments for few minutes and move on to the next one even though that post had more interesting things. I have a really hard time finishing a movie or picking a movies. I picked up reading but got bored very soon, I picked up painting but didn't follow through, I picked up hiking but only went once etc etc. I would like to know what are some things you guys do to focus on one particular thing at a time and finish it before moving to another thing. Thanks",
"How to become more patient and focus on one thing at a time? I have a very short attention spam (I don't have ADD) and tend to jump from one thing to another very fast. When I find an interesting post on reddit I will read the comments for few minutes and move on to the next one even though that post had more interesting things. I have a really hard time finishing a movie or picking a movies. I picked up reading but got bored very soon, I picked up painting but didn't follow through, I picked up hiking but only went once etc etc. I would like to know what are some things you guys do to focus on one particular thing at a time and finish it before moving to another thing. Thanks"
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"I set myself goals, so that I have a sort of competition with myself. I also give myself rewards.\n\nFor example: If I do an hour's worth of anatomy drawings, then I get to play a game of Smite. (Random example, but I'm an artist, so is most relevant for me)",
"I experiment with this a lot. Here are my troubleshooting steps.\n\nFirst, a brain which skipping around is likely to be low on a resource that it needs to focus. Water, sleep, protein and sugar are all on my list. \nFix - Snack and drink at the desk, or have some water on the way to a snack break, then plop on the couch, and enjoy 5 or 10 minutes of quiet shuteye. \n\nIf I'm still skippy, I need an indication that I can relax and ignore everything.\nFix - I block out distractions. Those rubber in ear buds are great without any music, or with music that is repetitive with as few human voice like sounds as possible. \n\nIf I'm actually still skippy, I am probably worried about something and can't let it go.\nFix - I either go tackle the thing I don't want to do, or I dump things off of my mental to do list onto an app or a notepad.\n\nIf I'm still having a hard time sticking to things, I give in. I turn off the gadgets for a while, and go out for a walk or go talk to someone face to face.\n\nI also practice single tasking regularly. I'll pick something I can get into and do it for at least a half hour stretch. If I'm lucky, I can I go to the park, or read a book for an hour or two. If not, I can probably wash dishes, or scrub or fix something. I'm not great at regular m",
"I do have ADHD, and I spend lots of time learning about focus to help me. Maybe these will help, or maybe not, since you just seem to have issues focusing. \n\nM",
"Write down simple notes and goals every morning on your computer. ",
"I was suffering the same problem until I mixed pomodoro method with that devilish training on Nintendo 3DS."
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"How to make a \"crick\" in your neck go away quickly? I slept really funny last night, anyone know how to make this awful feeling in my neck go away?",
"How to make a \"crick\" in your neck go away quickly? I slept really funny last night, anyone know how to make this awful feeling in my neck go away?",
"How to make a \"crick\" in your neck go away quickly? I slept really funny last night, anyone know how to make this awful feeling in my neck go away?",
"How to make a \"crick\" in your neck go away quickly? I slept really funny last night, anyone know how to make this awful feeling in my neck go away?",
"How to make a \"crick\" in your neck go away quickly? I slept really funny last night, anyone know how to make this awful feeling in my neck go away?",
"How to make a \"crick\" in your neck go away quickly? I slept really funny last night, anyone know how to make this awful feeling in my neck go away?"
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"Ice to reduce the inflammation, but not directly on your skin. Use a plastic bag to contain the water and a sock to keep the ice off the skin. \n\nAnd not for more than 20 minutes at a time. Ice a bit, then let it warm up again, then ice and so on. ",
"I don't know if this is a solid fix, but I roll my neck. So, I'll start by standing with my head down in front of me, then turn my head to the right, then back, etc. Try to make the biggest 'circle' possible without it hurting. I do that a few times and it seems to help a little bit.",
"Stretching helps (static and kinetic). Neck, Shoulders, and back.\n\nDon't be violent about them. With static you will stretch to the point of tautness, hold for about 15 seconds, then release. Stretch another body part if you like for 15 seconds, then you can return to that muscle to stretch again for 15 seconds.\n\nSource: I used this method to help me recover from whiplash. My neck froze with my head tilted down towards my shoulder. When I would be in the shower with some heat on it I found I could stretch much better.\n\nI also used a heating pad and a cool pack to alternate and help loosen it up and reduce swelling.",
"I usually try to massage it. It's mostly a soothing a waiting game. Try filling a sock with rice, stick it in the microwave to create an instant warming thing. ",
"I've had a crick since Saturday and I've been using a \"Bed Buddy\" hot and cold pack from Walmart. I feel better if its hot vs. cold. ",
"I do several things that don't work 100%, but they make the pain much more tolerable. \n\n- Ibuprofen (I'm a 200lbs guy and can take 800mg every 8 hours)\n- Alternate between cold and hot compresses, about 15 minutes each. \n\n800mg of ibuprofen is prescription strength, so maybe check with your doc to ensure what dose works for you. Also, make sure to avoid placing the ice pack directly to skin. \n\nThat's it. I find the warm compress feels the best, but it's a temporary fix. Good luck!"
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"I burnt salmon in oil in my small apartment and it smells like absolute shit. What's the best way to get rid of the smell? ",
"I burnt salmon in oil in my small apartment and it smells like absolute shit. What's the best way to get rid of the smell? ",
"I burnt salmon in oil in my small apartment and it smells like absolute shit. What's the best way to get rid of the smell? ",
"I burnt salmon in oil in my small apartment and it smells like absolute shit. What's the best way to get rid of the smell? ",
"I burnt salmon in oil in my small apartment and it smells like absolute shit. What's the best way to get rid of the smell? ",
"I burnt salmon in oil in my small apartment and it smells like absolute shit. What's the best way to get rid of the smell? "
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"Boil a cup of vinegar in a small pot. When it's boiling pick it up with a mitt (safety first), then wave it around the rooms in your house. By the way old your breath because it'll smell rancid. And open the windows to ventilate. After a few minutes it'll start smelling less like burnt salmon. ",
"Really, just cleaning everything really good and getting some airflow going. You better wash the shirt and pants that you are wearing. They prob smell like fish and you won't even realize it ",
"If you have a lemon handy you could try chopping it up and boiling it in a 50/50 water vinegar solution. I've never tried it, but it's worth a shot.\n\nYou could also mop the floor and clean all of your counters with Pine-Sol, run your dishwasher, run 50/50 water/vinegar through your coffee maker, and vacuum your carpet with some carpet freshener.",
"You will have to get your ducts cleaned out. Some of that nasty smoke adhered to the dust in your ducts. Every time you turn on the AC or heater it will come back.\n",
"Some sort of diffuser that you can add essential oils to because the oils will knock out the smell pretty well. Amazon has some nice/cheap ones and probably Walmart or some other places too. \n\nYankee candles are pretty good too because they are so strong but any process will take time. ",
"Ionizer is a godsend. Ask around and see if anyone has one and if you could borrow it for a few hours."
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"Storing food in fridge with less waste The worst feeling ever is throwing away wasted food so I was just wondering if anyone had any tips for keeping track of what's in the fridge or pantry and their expiration dates so that less food is wasted. Tips on how to store certain foods like cheese wedges would be appreciated too and maybe a list of foods that generally keep well (without the freezer).\n",
"Storing food in fridge with less waste The worst feeling ever is throwing away wasted food so I was just wondering if anyone had any tips for keeping track of what's in the fridge or pantry and their expiration dates so that less food is wasted. Tips on how to store certain foods like cheese wedges would be appreciated too and maybe a list of foods that generally keep well (without the freezer).\n",
"Storing food in fridge with less waste The worst feeling ever is throwing away wasted food so I was just wondering if anyone had any tips for keeping track of what's in the fridge or pantry and their expiration dates so that less food is wasted. Tips on how to store certain foods like cheese wedges would be appreciated too and maybe a list of foods that generally keep well (without the freezer).\n",
"Storing food in fridge with less waste The worst feeling ever is throwing away wasted food so I was just wondering if anyone had any tips for keeping track of what's in the fridge or pantry and their expiration dates so that less food is wasted. Tips on how to store certain foods like cheese wedges would be appreciated too and maybe a list of foods that generally keep well (without the freezer).\n",
"Storing food in fridge with less waste The worst feeling ever is throwing away wasted food so I was just wondering if anyone had any tips for keeping track of what's in the fridge or pantry and their expiration dates so that less food is wasted. Tips on how to store certain foods like cheese wedges would be appreciated too and maybe a list of foods that generally keep well (without the freezer).\n",
"Storing food in fridge with less waste The worst feeling ever is throwing away wasted food so I was just wondering if anyone had any tips for keeping track of what's in the fridge or pantry and their expiration dates so that less food is wasted. Tips on how to store certain foods like cheese wedges would be appreciated too and maybe a list of foods that generally keep well (without the freezer).\n",
"Storing food in fridge with less waste The worst feeling ever is throwing away wasted food so I was just wondering if anyone had any tips for keeping track of what's in the fridge or pantry and their expiration dates so that less food is wasted. Tips on how to store certain foods like cheese wedges would be appreciated too and maybe a list of foods that generally keep well (without the freezer).\n",
"Storing food in fridge with less waste The worst feeling ever is throwing away wasted food so I was just wondering if anyone had any tips for keeping track of what's in the fridge or pantry and their expiration dates so that less food is wasted. Tips on how to store certain foods like cheese wedges would be appreciated too and maybe a list of foods that generally keep well (without the freezer).\n"
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"There was an LPT on here a few weeks ago that went like this: after you go grocery shopping, stick the receipt on the refrigerator door and **highlight** all the fruit, veggies, and other perishable stuff. That way you'll have a cheat sheet of what to eat before it goes bad.",
"[This was on lifehacker last week.](http://www.thekitchn.com/make-an-eat-me-first-basket-in-your-fridge-lifehacker-164680)",
"Shopping is a big part of this. Don't buy food you don't expect to use within a few days - my fridge is basically empty except for ingredients I plan on using ASAP and some snack type items. Make strict lists and stick to them! Buying fruits or vegetables with no plan in mind leads to rotten food.\n\nDon't put stuff in the fridge unless it's in a functional form - cut up vegetables, wash fruit, and remove all extraneous packaging. Store everything in easy to identify ways: I use glass Snapware instead of tupperware because it's less easy for food to \"hide\". No aluminum foil unless it's clearly labelled. Leftovers go in lunch containers instead of big containers so I can grab-and-go. \n\nFinally, clean your fridge before you go to the grocery. Keeping it basically empty means nothing gets stuck in the back or hidden corners: everything should be clearly visible at all times. Avoid the crisper! Stick vegetables and fresh meat right up front. ",
"I like to label leftovers with masking tape. I write what it is and the date we ate it. First, you'll know what's in the enclosed container, and second, you can eat it before it goes bad if you know how long it's been in there.",
"Get a vacuum sealer, such as a FoodSaver. I have been storing cheese in a [FoodSaver Quick Marinator](http://www.foodsaver.com/product.aspx?pid=7471) box, and have not had any go bad in half a year of use. The box has definitely been worth it, since cheese is rather expensive, and plastic bags would get consumed rather quickly with repeated cutting and resealing.",
"Fruit and vegetables lasts longer laying in an open box in the fridge, than in their plastic bags. The bags keeps the fruit and veg wet, which make them rotten faster.\n\nKeep fruit and veg in the fridge, and take out in room temperature the day before you are planning on eating them. They last longer in the fridge, but ripen fast and get a nice eating temperature in a kitchen fruit bowl.\n\nKeep sliced bread in the freezer, and microwave just the amount of bred you are planning on eating.",
"Bring everything to the front as best as possible. I like to do this to keep visible what I have on hand, especially the perishables. \n\nI also try to buy perishables a few days worth at a time, instead of a week/s worth.\n\nPut whole wheat flours in the freezer to extend shelf life. Same goes for almonds, pecans, and other nuts. Omega 3 fatty acids go rancid faster when exposed to heat and air. \n\nBananas, apples, onions, garlic, potatoes, and tomatoes don't need refrigeration.\nOats, beans, and rice do well.",
"Also, Plan meals out 2 weeks in advance. You then can coordinate using that head of lettuce 2 or 3 nights in a row."
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"Privacy Online My girlfriend is (rightly) paranoid about the information that technology stores about her every day. She's super careful about saying things and giving out information online, even through 'private' messages. She's already taken such precautions such as cranking up things like FB privacy settings to maximum and as I've said before, picking her words carefully.\n\nShe's already got some good habits, but are there any programs or extensions that can take it a few steps further?\n\nFor the record, she uses a Mac. (I know, not great for privacy but she didn't know prior. Plus she needs it for the specific work she does.)\n\nAny redditors have any tip/programs/extensions?",
"Privacy Online My girlfriend is (rightly) paranoid about the information that technology stores about her every day. She's super careful about saying things and giving out information online, even through 'private' messages. She's already taken such precautions such as cranking up things like FB privacy settings to maximum and as I've said before, picking her words carefully.\n\nShe's already got some good habits, but are there any programs or extensions that can take it a few steps further?\n\nFor the record, she uses a Mac. (I know, not great for privacy but she didn't know prior. Plus she needs it for the specific work she does.)\n\nAny redditors have any tip/programs/extensions?"
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"Start with google and bing and other such search engines. Search yourself. Search your email address. Search your home address, etc etc etc. See what kinds of websites start popping up and what information you can easily find, then take steps to fix them.",
"Check out r/privacy. \n\nThey kinda take things to the max over there, but they have an FAQ that could help you out. "
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"I just got a new job that requires me to work outside, at night (7pm-3am), with a long commute. Any tips for staying safe, productive, and healthy? Or perhaps some useful items to have on hand? ",
"I just got a new job that requires me to work outside, at night (7pm-3am), with a long commute. Any tips for staying safe, productive, and healthy? Or perhaps some useful items to have on hand? ",
"I just got a new job that requires me to work outside, at night (7pm-3am), with a long commute. Any tips for staying safe, productive, and healthy? Or perhaps some useful items to have on hand? ",
"I just got a new job that requires me to work outside, at night (7pm-3am), with a long commute. Any tips for staying safe, productive, and healthy? Or perhaps some useful items to have on hand? ",
"I just got a new job that requires me to work outside, at night (7pm-3am), with a long commute. Any tips for staying safe, productive, and healthy? Or perhaps some useful items to have on hand? ",
"I just got a new job that requires me to work outside, at night (7pm-3am), with a long commute. Any tips for staying safe, productive, and healthy? Or perhaps some useful items to have on hand? ",
"I just got a new job that requires me to work outside, at night (7pm-3am), with a long commute. Any tips for staying safe, productive, and healthy? Or perhaps some useful items to have on hand? ",
"I just got a new job that requires me to work outside, at night (7pm-3am), with a long commute. Any tips for staying safe, productive, and healthy? Or perhaps some useful items to have on hand? ",
"I just got a new job that requires me to work outside, at night (7pm-3am), with a long commute. Any tips for staying safe, productive, and healthy? Or perhaps some useful items to have on hand? ",
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"Sleep as soon as you get home from work. Maybe have a shower if your feeling dirty. But honestly as someone who's done nights before it's way better to sleep first and have a few hours before work rather than wake up tired and go straight to work.",
"Multiple flashlights with enough batteries. Pocket knife and OC spray if allowed. Layers for clothing and gloves since temperatures are less predictable at night.",
"have a routine from planning to what to wear and what to do, during the whole shift will help you to stay focus.",
"Really depends on the Job.\n\nFormer bouncer, pretty similar hours.\n\nFlashlight, multiple power settings and decent throw. Loved the Wowtac A1S from Amazon its great.\n\nComfortable shoes something you can happily stand in for hours and something broken in wear them in atleast a week before starting if new shoes. \n \nLayers, winter - hoodie with zip on front and pockets, then outwear jacket. Hat. \n\nSocks - decent hiking socks.",
"Put packets of silica gel under your insoles. This will stop the damp getting into your boots.\nThe min they get damp at around midnight just with ambient condensation, they’ll get cold. This will stop it, old trick I know from surveying motorways at night",
"More of a focus on your mental health, Vitamin D and D3 supplements are helpful if you aren't getting enough sunlight, black out curtains for sleeping, and your social life might take a hit if you're up while everyone is asleep. Consider online video games and find a friend group from a different time zone that will be awake during your normal operating hours.",
"You don't say what you're doing.\n\nPocket snacks - pretzels in a ziplock, grapes in a small takeout container.\n\nDrinks.\n\nDownload podcasts and music before you end up out of signal.\n\nChange of shoes if you'll be on your feet all shift. Insoles. Good socks. \n\nKnots, knit, or crochet if it's a waiting kind of job. (You think I'm joking, but I've done night jobs where a fidget saved my sanity)\n\nSmall notepad and pen for leaving notes or starting a journal.",
"I’ve worked nights with a long commute for several years. Regarding the commute home… chewing on sun flower seeds did wonders to keep me awake and aware.",
"It’d help to know your job description. Melatonin is a must as it will help reset your circadian rhythm",
"Google situational awareness tips! There are techniques and practices developed by professionals out there that will help you stay safe and aware",
"A good friend was in the same situation and had a problem staying awake for the long drive. His solutions was eating sunflower seeds. The repitition and movement keeps you awake. Works well. But get unsalted or you'll burn your tonque."
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"How to secure a tension pole bathtub rack from falling. I have [one of these assholes](http://www.target.com/p/interdesign-tension-pole-caddy-bronze/-/A-13545200#prodSlot=medium_1_2&term=shower+rack) and the piece of shit falls every time I move the wrong way in the bathtub. I've tried tightening it so many times, and it looks like its perfectly in place, only to have it come crashing down on me in a couple of weeks. I just can't figure it out. Does anybody have any advice on how to secure this? Thanks."
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"The key is to put it above the tile or the tub surround. That way it has something to sit on. The tension rods these days aren't really strong enough to stay up on their own. \n\nSource: I sell them.",
"Put the ends in [these](http://www.ebay.com/itm/Closet-Rod-Holder-Bracket-1-3-8-/370961717744?pt=Motors_RV_Trailer_Camper_Parts_Accessories&hash=item565f0a99f0&vxp=mtr) things. \n\nUse silicone glue instead of screws if needed. Probably needed."
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"What is your pro tip to live a life without the fear of failure and achieve incredible success? I have been living a life by choosing only the safest options without trying anything risky.",
"What is your pro tip to live a life without the fear of failure and achieve incredible success? I have been living a life by choosing only the safest options without trying anything risky.",
"What is your pro tip to live a life without the fear of failure and achieve incredible success? I have been living a life by choosing only the safest options without trying anything risky.",
"What is your pro tip to live a life without the fear of failure and achieve incredible success? I have been living a life by choosing only the safest options without trying anything risky.",
"What is your pro tip to live a life without the fear of failure and achieve incredible success? I have been living a life by choosing only the safest options without trying anything risky.",
"What is your pro tip to live a life without the fear of failure and achieve incredible success? I have been living a life by choosing only the safest options without trying anything risky."
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"Weigh up the outcomes. What's the worst that could happen if you fail at something vs the best that could happen? How would you manage that failure?\n\nOnce you start trying and fail a few times, you realise it's not so bad and that you learn something from that failure each time.",
"If you aim too high and miss it's a long way down... Set realistic goals for where you are *now*, and just try each day to be better than you were yesterday.",
"What do you consider a failure and how do you measure success?\n\nIt’s not the same for everyone. Set your own benchmarks for what you want to achieve, make them realistic. Continue to move the benchmark as you meet the set achievements/goals. Repeat.",
"Success can be measured by incremental gains as well as massive wins. If you are not the type of person who casually takes risks, then it will be hard to change and you may find yourself stressing out. Instead, accept this (there's nothing wrong with it) and focus your efforts on a build and hold lifestyle. Make small low risk gains and build on them.",
"Challenge is good, failure is only achieved when you have learned nothing from the experience. \n\nSuccess is rarely as simple as someone makes it out to seem. How you define success may be different then how I define it. I don’t define it based on salary, social status, or material possessions, but happiness personally and in my marriage. You can’t always control your income but you can control your happiness, you can choose how you you affected by the things around you both within your control and outside your control. You can choose to be crippled by fear or to overcome that fear and push forward with courage and realize that your mind is most often your biggest obstacle or biggest asset. The power of choice is powerful. \n\n“Choose not to be harmed — and you won't feel harmed. Don't feel harmed — and you haven't been.”\nMarcus Aurelius",
"Always treat a gun as loaded and never wave it in front of people. Always treat a word 'success' as loaded and never wave it in front of people..",
"1.Expect the worst in scenarios but hope for the best meaning you plan for something to go wrong just in case. But if and when success comes its a bonus.\n\n2. In life we can always have an aspect we can change....whether its our environment, our location, the work we do, the friends we hang out with, the people we talk to ,the home you live in. We can change our attitude and our bodies even our diets even our actions we can change instead of the same old habits make something new. Life and its challenges are there to be experienced not survived look at it as a game and imagine what you could do if you thought of what have i not tried yet instead of i wish i tried. Change is not something to be feared but is something to be looked at as the next challenge in difficulty in the life game!"
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"Realized how unprepared I am to move out and cut contact with my parent when I gradate high school, what is the best advice you can give to someone in my situation? I don't know know what to avoid and what to look for when it comes to renting a good apartment, how would you find important information about a new city or state. The more I try to teach myself the more confused I get , even if it seems typical everyday knowledge feel free to share I feel like a blank slate with so much to learn.",
"Realized how unprepared I am to move out and cut contact with my parent when I gradate high school, what is the best advice you can give to someone in my situation? I don't know know what to avoid and what to look for when it comes to renting a good apartment, how would you find important information about a new city or state. The more I try to teach myself the more confused I get , even if it seems typical everyday knowledge feel free to share I feel like a blank slate with so much to learn.",
"Realized how unprepared I am to move out and cut contact with my parent when I gradate high school, what is the best advice you can give to someone in my situation? I don't know know what to avoid and what to look for when it comes to renting a good apartment, how would you find important information about a new city or state. The more I try to teach myself the more confused I get , even if it seems typical everyday knowledge feel free to share I feel like a blank slate with so much to learn.",
"Realized how unprepared I am to move out and cut contact with my parent when I gradate high school, what is the best advice you can give to someone in my situation? I don't know know what to avoid and what to look for when it comes to renting a good apartment, how would you find important information about a new city or state. The more I try to teach myself the more confused I get , even if it seems typical everyday knowledge feel free to share I feel like a blank slate with so much to learn.",
"Realized how unprepared I am to move out and cut contact with my parent when I gradate high school, what is the best advice you can give to someone in my situation? I don't know know what to avoid and what to look for when it comes to renting a good apartment, how would you find important information about a new city or state. The more I try to teach myself the more confused I get , even if it seems typical everyday knowledge feel free to share I feel like a blank slate with so much to learn.",
"Realized how unprepared I am to move out and cut contact with my parent when I gradate high school, what is the best advice you can give to someone in my situation? I don't know know what to avoid and what to look for when it comes to renting a good apartment, how would you find important information about a new city or state. The more I try to teach myself the more confused I get , even if it seems typical everyday knowledge feel free to share I feel like a blank slate with so much to learn.",
"Realized how unprepared I am to move out and cut contact with my parent when I gradate high school, what is the best advice you can give to someone in my situation? I don't know know what to avoid and what to look for when it comes to renting a good apartment, how would you find important information about a new city or state. The more I try to teach myself the more confused I get , even if it seems typical everyday knowledge feel free to share I feel like a blank slate with so much to learn.",
"Realized how unprepared I am to move out and cut contact with my parent when I gradate high school, what is the best advice you can give to someone in my situation? I don't know know what to avoid and what to look for when it comes to renting a good apartment, how would you find important information about a new city or state. The more I try to teach myself the more confused I get , even if it seems typical everyday knowledge feel free to share I feel like a blank slate with so much to learn.",
"Realized how unprepared I am to move out and cut contact with my parent when I gradate high school, what is the best advice you can give to someone in my situation? I don't know know what to avoid and what to look for when it comes to renting a good apartment, how would you find important information about a new city or state. The more I try to teach myself the more confused I get , even if it seems typical everyday knowledge feel free to share I feel like a blank slate with so much to learn.",
"Realized how unprepared I am to move out and cut contact with my parent when I gradate high school, what is the best advice you can give to someone in my situation? I don't know know what to avoid and what to look for when it comes to renting a good apartment, how would you find important information about a new city or state. The more I try to teach myself the more confused I get , even if it seems typical everyday knowledge feel free to share I feel like a blank slate with so much to learn.",
"Realized how unprepared I am to move out and cut contact with my parent when I gradate high school, what is the best advice you can give to someone in my situation? I don't know know what to avoid and what to look for when it comes to renting a good apartment, how would you find important information about a new city or state. The more I try to teach myself the more confused I get , even if it seems typical everyday knowledge feel free to share I feel like a blank slate with so much to learn.",
"Realized how unprepared I am to move out and cut contact with my parent when I gradate high school, what is the best advice you can give to someone in my situation? I don't know know what to avoid and what to look for when it comes to renting a good apartment, how would you find important information about a new city or state. The more I try to teach myself the more confused I get , even if it seems typical everyday knowledge feel free to share I feel like a blank slate with so much to learn.",
"Realized how unprepared I am to move out and cut contact with my parent when I gradate high school, what is the best advice you can give to someone in my situation? I don't know know what to avoid and what to look for when it comes to renting a good apartment, how would you find important information about a new city or state. The more I try to teach myself the more confused I get , even if it seems typical everyday knowledge feel free to share I feel like a blank slate with so much to learn.",
"Realized how unprepared I am to move out and cut contact with my parent when I gradate high school, what is the best advice you can give to someone in my situation? I don't know know what to avoid and what to look for when it comes to renting a good apartment, how would you find important information about a new city or state. The more I try to teach myself the more confused I get , even if it seems typical everyday knowledge feel free to share I feel like a blank slate with so much to learn.",
"Realized how unprepared I am to move out and cut contact with my parent when I gradate high school, what is the best advice you can give to someone in my situation? I don't know know what to avoid and what to look for when it comes to renting a good apartment, how would you find important information about a new city or state. The more I try to teach myself the more confused I get , even if it seems typical everyday knowledge feel free to share I feel like a blank slate with so much to learn.",
"Realized how unprepared I am to move out and cut contact with my parent when I gradate high school, what is the best advice you can give to someone in my situation? I don't know know what to avoid and what to look for when it comes to renting a good apartment, how would you find important information about a new city or state. The more I try to teach myself the more confused I get , even if it seems typical everyday knowledge feel free to share I feel like a blank slate with so much to learn."
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"I would save up as much money as you can! Alot of rentings require you to pay at least a months rent as kind of a down payment to make sure you are really interested. Calculate how much you will be making each month. This will make it easier to determine what you can really afford. If you are having trouble finding somewhere affordable you can always look into having a roommate. That will make it a lot cheaper for both of you.",
"Save money. Everything costs more than you think. Cell phone bill… car insurance… rent. A lot of places will require first and last months rent upfront (meaning you have to pay for 2 months initially) AND some places require proof of income. Good luck!",
"The American military has a lot of options that will help you with those goals. I’m not saying it’s the option for you, but it can help people improve their lives drastically. They will house and feed you and you will be able to be independent of your parents completely.",
"Renting a room in a house is going to be much easier than renting a place of your own. I was on my own at 18 and I couldn’t find an apt that didn’t require a co sign from a parent/someone financially secure. I didn’t have that, and even tho I had money saved for the deposit and first and lasts months rent, and had a job, I had to move in with someone who had a parent that could co sign",
"As someone with a bad parent relationship I can relate.\nThe best thing I’ve done in my adult life is make a budget. And make sure you pay yourself as a part of that budget. Personally I have a small portion of my weekly paycheck automatically withdraw to a savings account and it’s been a financial blessing.\n\nAs far as good/bad apartments go, definitely tour a couple places first, look up reviews, ask previous tenants what they think of management and the property. Does maintenance take care of problems quickly and efficiently? Are the neighbors quiet and friendly or do they have children yelling or dogs barking at all hours? Maybe they’re night owls who throw parties? What does a normal month of utilities look like? (Water gas electric)\n\nAre you going to live by yourself or find a roommate? \n\nTo move in, you’re going to need to have a deposit as well as administrative fees prepared \n\nBut overall since 2015 I’ve had 6 different apartments most with roommates and it’s definitely a learning process. Budgeting can definitely be your best friend because worst case you live somewhere for one year and find a new situation",
"It will be ok. Your situation is like eating an elephant, you do it one bite at a time. Make sure to remove them from any accounts immediately.",
"Idk if there's a retail store near you that you can get a second job at, but that store discount saved me a bunch when I was buying essentials before I moved out.\n\nJoin your Local Buy Nothing group. You'd be surprised what people are giving away or are willing to give away.\n\nLearn how to cook healthy, but cheap. Youtube might be your best bet on that.",
"1) Budget - What's your income, what's your fixed expenses, how much can you afford for rent. \n\n\n2) Paper agreements! Lease, roommate(s), etc. It doesn't matter how nice the landlord is, or how good a friend your roommate it, get the agreement on paper with all of you signing it. Look up default lease agreements, add how to the split on rent and utilities, cleaning, food, visitors, etc. is handled. \n\n\n3) If you are a legal adult (or the moment you become one), separate everything you can from your family. Bank accounts, mail (PO box or new apartment), phone, internet, etc. \n\n\n4) If you really want to go no contact, don't tell them your new address, change your phone number, change your email address. Be prepared to change your phone number & email multiple times",
"Work on a farm. There are many with on-site housing. Smart people do this and you can network from there",
"Usually you’re gonna need first, last, and security deposit. So it’s a lot right from the start. So get roommates if you can, or try renting a room until you can save. Get a place near public transportation. Cars can be expensive. Try not to use cr",
"Move to a smaller college town. Doesn't really matter which one, just pick one you think you will like and go. Rent is usually super cheap, plus for your first few months you can easily sub-lease a place from someone that is leaving for the summer. From there, pick up a job at a local restaurant or retailer that you think wouldn't suck. It's a great way to make new friends and support yourself. Most college towns also provide you plenty of space to learn who you are and nobody is gonna judge you as they're all there learning as they go too.",
"Make a list of the things you will need (job, place to live, transportation, etc) and a list of the skills you will need (doing laundry, cooking, managing finances, etc).\n\nGo through each item to see how you will cover it. You can learn most of the skills from YouTube videos. The more planning and preparation you have the easier it will be. \n\nIf you can make normal things easier, you will have more time and energy deal with the challenges.",
"I understand your need for freedom & independent, but why do you want to cut contact with your parent?",
"I have no idea how bad your home situation is. I hope it is not so bad that you are not safe.\n\nI will share how I moved out when I was 18: I moved in with a co-worker who had a room for rent. We got along well. Maybe you can find a situation like that. You can live in the same city you live in now and have no contact with your parent. or whatever level of contact you want. Your parent doesn't own the town.",
"I did it. Wonderful. I wrote a letter and told them. After two years I slowly open as I was halfway across the country",
"LPT: Don't be in a big hurry to move out, the smartest thing you can do financially is stay at home until after university at the very least. \n\nLPT 2: Don't cut contact with your parents. You don't get many of them."
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"The trick is to store them properly. When putting headphones away grasp the earbuds then start wrapping the cord in a figure 8 pattern. Save the last couple of inches to wrap around the middle of the 8 putting the end through one of the loops when finished.",
"Ex 92R here. That means parachute rigger for all you ground-walkers. I regularly had to un-f-up the 30 stands of 30' [\"parachord\"](http://tacticalgear.com/rothco-nylon-550-lb-type-iii-commercial-paracord-100ft-camo?gclid=CjkKEQjwlcSdBRD3wva3-KOAo80BEiQAjNIhiSI1eEWcHpAsudbUDZQZ0E53HEvkojS-k1vpLMre88Xw_wcB#/16942/8782/1) which the grunts had conveniently packed into a backpack sized sac and lines with fire ants and whatever the North Carolina version of tumbleweed is. This is not something that can be easily explained, but I'll do my best.\n\n1. Resist the urge to take an end and trace it back through the entire mess\n2. See step one. (doing this can actually make your situation MUCH WORSE. It can create actual knots, which is most likely not the case on your improperly stored cord)\n3. Find the tightest looking knot. Use your nails, teeth, knife, letter opener to attempt to loosen it up as best you can until it's not a knot, any more, but just a tangle.\n4. Repeat step three until there are no knots left, only nasty tangles.\n5. Look for the single stranded loops which are caught through other loops and tangles, you'll learn to recognize how their pairs stick together. Pass as many as these you can find back through the tangles creating very long single strand loops\n6. Periodically, make your hands like monster claws and tear/separate the entire mess as widespread as you can,\n7. Inevitably, this will create more tight knots, at which point, you must repeat from step 3.\n8. This is the hard part, which takes some trial and error and experience. You should basically have a gigantic plate of single layer spaghetti at this point. You have to look at this mess, and make a logical decision about what the next best move would be. Check out the ends, the big tangles, the close to knot parts, and go to town. If you feel you're backtracking at any point, take a look at the steps and retry.\n\nHope that helps!\n",
"what i do is clear a space out for the whole jumbled mess and then pick a chord, trace it through the entire mess and then from one end start to weave it through the pile, rinse and repeat until they're all untangled",
"Your misconceptions of the problem are precluding your awareness of the obvious solution. \n\nWhen a wire, let's say an extension cord, gets rolled up and put away, as the cord is being rolled up, it is being twisted 180° over and over. The wire isn't actually tangled, it is twisted up within its self.\n\nThere is only one wire. It has two ends. Endeavor to separate the two ends as far apart as possible until you hit a \"tangle\". At this first tangle, you probably have several feet of untangled wire on each side of the bunched up mess in the middle. One side will have a lot more wire than the other. Slide your left hand up the untangled wire on the left side of the bunch as far into the bunch as you can go until you feel a tangle. Also slide your right hand up the untangled wire on the right side of the bunch as far into the bunch as you can go until you feel a tangle. Now, holding the wire in each hand, pull your hands apart. The bunch of wire in the middle will unspin and several more feet of cord will magically untangle. Rinse. Repeat. ???\nYou may have to pass one end of the wire through the bunch one time at any point in this process to correct for some randomness. If you think you have to pass the wire through the tangle more than once to untangle it, all you are actually doing is tangling it more.\n\nTo prevent cords or wires from tangling in the future, as you roll them back up, give them a half twist at the top of each roll to counter the half twist incurred during the roll up. You will know you twisted in the correct direction if once you have rolled up the cord, it is a loosely hanging group of circles. If you twist the wrong way, the cord will twist its self into a figure eight shape.\n\nI'm not sure if that was a clear explanation or not, but I use this method to untangle about 3k xmas lights that my wife just throws into one big box together every year, and it only takes a few minutes at most.",
"So I learned this in Boy scouts. Take the mangled mess, and just pull at it with both hands from both directions. The idea is your creating more space and eventually after doing this for a minute or so, there will be a lot more space to work with. Then start pulling one end through it like you normally would, but now there is allow more space and the whole process goes much faster. ",
"One they are untangled, if they are single wires for crafting something...fix one end to something, put the other end in a drill. Walk back, pull and drill. Will be PERFECTLY straight.",
"If you have memory in a cord that looks like crap and won't coil for shit. Have a buddy hold the end or tie it off to something and play tug of war a little on it and it erases the memory in the chord. Works best with extension chords. Don't pull so hard you break the damn thing. ",
"I found the perfect solution you won't find anywhere else. The real life pro tip is using [ClipIt Cords](https://www.tambaroo.co/products/clipit-cords). I came across them a couple months ago and my life has never been easier now that I don't have to deal with frustrating tangled up wires and cords. I bulk up on them to make sure never run out and have enough! You never know when you're going to need these.",
"Carefully. Wires are really thin strands covered in plastic/vinyl/solidified goo, without the tensile strength of, say, a hangman's rope. If you tug too hard or make a knot too tight, you may break the thin copper strands or weaken the insulating coating.\n\nOnce you get it untangled, carefully straighten them. You can use a blowdryer, again, carefully, to direct a little heat to relax kinks. When storing cords/cables, wind securely but not too tightly, again to avoid straining and breaking the wires inside.",
"All good bro, here is your pro guide for untangling cables \n\n1. Take an end and wrap it onto a spindle of Any kind. Break a pencil in half to make a spindle.\n2. Hold with claw grip and rotate around spindle three times.\n3.move cable to staircase or hallway, a long clean space to work.\n\n4. Wrap cable onto spindle with the following perceptions :\n\n4.1 Cable knot : Stop. Keep loose. Work gently, pulling apart loops.\n\n4.2 Behind furniture : unwind the length and depth of the obstruction into a pile of loose cable next to it . Throw over obstruction and rewind.\n\n4.3 cable twists : rotate spindle left, if twists reduce continue. If amount of twists increases then rotate right. Hold finger on recently twisted cable while winding onto the roll.\n\n4.4 large loops on role : place finger just before loop, rewind off the spindle and reroll.\n\n4.5 Multiple Ends : use a second spindle from the other side of the cable.\n\n4.6 intercepting cable : make a loop big enough to pass the cable through the other cable.\n\n\nFinish : use low tack tape (it sticks well to itself only) , elastic bands or clear tape to bind ends.\n\nSource : 5 years experience as office furniture installer on secured sites including CPS, military bases, boots labs etc with 30+ miles of cabling and a culture of criticism",
"A way to prevent your wires from getting tangled in the first place is by wrapping the wire in a circle around your thumb and elbow with one arm, while having the wire slide on the space between your pointer finger and your thumb. the reason wires tangle is because they are essentially pre-coiled when you wrap them, causing them to uncoil and twist up after you wrap them. when you slide the wire on this part of your hand it un-coils it as you wrap it, making sure the wire stays in place."
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"What useful tips would you guys give for someone who’s about to drive on the freeway for the first time? ",
"What useful tips would you guys give for someone who’s about to drive on the freeway for the first time? ",
"What useful tips would you guys give for someone who’s about to drive on the freeway for the first time? ",
"What useful tips would you guys give for someone who’s about to drive on the freeway for the first time? ",
"What useful tips would you guys give for someone who’s about to drive on the freeway for the first time? ",
"What useful tips would you guys give for someone who’s about to drive on the freeway for the first time? "
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"Have a look for a driving instructor who offers lessons to drivers who have just passed their test and will teach you this kind of thing.\n\nIf that's not an option, go with an experienced driver. And find a quiet time and a less frequently used section of road.\n\nYou can also practice your manoeuvres as a passenger. Sit in the front seat and as you enter the on ramp, go through the mirror, signal manoeuvre routine you learnt for your initial driving. Look further back, think about gaps get smaller at speed. Notice how long the car needs to speed up. Notice the distance the car needs to get up to freeway speed.\n\nI hope this helps. Stay calm and try to enjoy driving.",
"Definitely do not get on the highway at less than 50. Merge over when a entry ramp is coming. Pass on driver side than merge back. If a two lane highway, left lane is for passing only, if you are the type to cruise in the left lane you are a terrible driver and self centered and no one likes you, yes they are lying otherwise.",
"Everyone is going the same direction, just keep pace with the rest of them. Once you get your feet in the water it's really not a big deal. You'll have to worry about less people if you stay towards the middle, as people are constantly entering and exiting from the right, and going fast in the left",
"Assuming you drive on the right... Stay right unless you aim to pass, get over for your exit in advance even if it means you drive a little slower for a time.",
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"1. Calculate your route. Either have G maps open and navigating, or memorize the exit you need to take.\n\n2. Stay in the right or middle lane if you're feeling exceptionally anxious\n\n3. Drive slow\n\n4. Keep at least a car's distance between you and the car ahead. \n\n5. You'll be fine."
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"Got booted off my flight, am I entitled to anything? I'm not sure if this is the right sub but I am flying from Philadelphia to Orlando on American Airlines and because I didn't reserve my seat I got booted from my plane and have to go tomorrow at 7. Am I entitled to anything such as a place to stay or any reward? Thank you",
"Got booted off my flight, am I entitled to anything? I'm not sure if this is the right sub but I am flying from Philadelphia to Orlando on American Airlines and because I didn't reserve my seat I got booted from my plane and have to go tomorrow at 7. Am I entitled to anything such as a place to stay or any reward? Thank you",
"Got booted off my flight, am I entitled to anything? I'm not sure if this is the right sub but I am flying from Philadelphia to Orlando on American Airlines and because I didn't reserve my seat I got booted from my plane and have to go tomorrow at 7. Am I entitled to anything such as a place to stay or any reward? Thank you",
"Got booted off my flight, am I entitled to anything? I'm not sure if this is the right sub but I am flying from Philadelphia to Orlando on American Airlines and because I didn't reserve my seat I got booted from my plane and have to go tomorrow at 7. Am I entitled to anything such as a place to stay or any reward? Thank you"
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"You are a victim of Involuntary Denied Boarding (IDB)\n\nFrom AA's \"Conditions of Carriage\" page:\n\nDomestic transportation\nPassengers traveling between points within the United States (including the territories and possessions) who are denied boarding involuntarily from an oversold flight are entitled to:\n\n1. No compensation if the carrier offers alternate transportation that is planned to arrive at the passenger’s destination or first stopover not later than one hour after the planned arrival time of the passenger’s original flight;\n\n2. 200% of the fare to the passenger’s destination or first stopover, with a maximum of $675, if the carrier offers alternate transportation that is planned to arrive at the passenger’s destination or first stopover more than one hour but less than two hours after the planned arrival time of the passenger’s original flight; and\n\n3. 400% of the fare to the passenger’s destination or first stopover, with a maximum of $1,350, if the carrier does not offer alternate transportation that is planned to arrive at the airport of the passenger’s destination or first stopover less than two hours after the planned arrival time of the passenger’s original flight\n- 0 to 1 hour arrival delay - no compensation\n- 1 to 2 hour arrival delay - 200% of one-way fare (but no more than $675)\n- Over 2 hours arrival delay - 400% of one-way fare (but no more than $1,350)\n\nhttps://www.aa.com/i18n/customer-service/support/conditions-of-carriage.jsp",
"http://airconsumer.ost.dot.gov/publications/flyrights.htm#overbooking\n\nLook under \"involuntary bumping\".",
"If you were taken off your flight and you were on a confirmed ticket you definitely entitled to be compensated. If you were on standby they don't have to compensate you. ",
"I would suggest insisting at the service desk. Read your ticket info first just so you can be clear on what your ticket rules were before going up to insist on compensation for being booted of your flight and the 'damages' you incurred because of their action. "
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"how do you stop yourself from crying when you get super angry? When I get super angry at something/someone I tend to tear up, even though I'm not sad! I'm just angry and the tears keep me from articulating myself in a calm manner. Like if I didn't cry, I could probably tell that other person what went wrong without looking like such a mess. It's uncomfortable for them and for me too. Help!",
"how do you stop yourself from crying when you get super angry? When I get super angry at something/someone I tend to tear up, even though I'm not sad! I'm just angry and the tears keep me from articulating myself in a calm manner. Like if I didn't cry, I could probably tell that other person what went wrong without looking like such a mess. It's uncomfortable for them and for me too. Help!",
"how do you stop yourself from crying when you get super angry? When I get super angry at something/someone I tend to tear up, even though I'm not sad! I'm just angry and the tears keep me from articulating myself in a calm manner. Like if I didn't cry, I could probably tell that other person what went wrong without looking like such a mess. It's uncomfortable for them and for me too. Help!",
"how do you stop yourself from crying when you get super angry? When I get super angry at something/someone I tend to tear up, even though I'm not sad! I'm just angry and the tears keep me from articulating myself in a calm manner. Like if I didn't cry, I could probably tell that other person what went wrong without looking like such a mess. It's uncomfortable for them and for me too. Help!",
"how do you stop yourself from crying when you get super angry? When I get super angry at something/someone I tend to tear up, even though I'm not sad! I'm just angry and the tears keep me from articulating myself in a calm manner. Like if I didn't cry, I could probably tell that other person what went wrong without looking like such a mess. It's uncomfortable for them and for me too. Help!"
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"Try to become [Stoic](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uC3LstrzETQ) - I find it has been very helpful.",
"Make your eyes really wide, or any way to not blink. It's not possible for tears to form unless you blink. And if you're able to not cry it may help to stay calm.",
"I used to tear up whenever I argued with someone, usually because I knew I was right and completely close-minded. Gradually (6 months, give or take), I started to think of arguments in a different sense. Remaining calm is key, as well as being open-minded. How'd I gradually do this? I began playing CS:GO 2 years ago and whenever someone fucked up majorly, rather than berate their skill, I would support them and let them know that I'm most likely even worse than they are.\n\nTry looking at the situation differently rather than knee-jerk anger.",
"Going into the confrontation or conversation, always vividly imagine a scenario that could be way worse than whatever has happened or will possibly happen. Prepare yourself for the worst, and then some. Be somewhat calmed by the fact that the worst hasn't happened yet. \n\nIf you're already crying, just focus that shit out of existence. If possible, put pressure somewhere on your face. Some people bite their lip, but you can press on your lip, squeeze your earlobe, cover your eyes with your hands and press, or rub your forehead. Some people rub or squeeze their knee if they're sitting. Focus all your attention on that pressure feeling. Unclench your teeth. Take a deep breath, close your eyes or if that would be too weird just look away and just focus. focus intensely on nothing. Focus on the feeling of the pressure. Focus on the shape of the furniture. Then focus back on nothing. Breathe deeply. When you're calm enough, give your attention back to the conversation. ",
"All I can say is try to calm down when it is about to happen and e aware beforehand before confrontation that this is something that may happen. During the confrontation Do Not get angry. Talk slowly and do not let yourself get riled up. This used to happen to me in middle school so I know what its like."
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"How to manage my roller shutter to have a colder room on summer? The window points towards West and I have a gaming pc that generates A LOT of heat. Thanks! ",
"How to manage my roller shutter to have a colder room on summer? The window points towards West and I have a gaming pc that generates A LOT of heat. Thanks! ",
"How to manage my roller shutter to have a colder room on summer? The window points towards West and I have a gaming pc that generates A LOT of heat. Thanks! "
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"Put a box fan that blows OUT and leave your room door open. The difference between stagnant nonmoving air and moving air is staggering.",
"You can buy reflective film for the windows that blocks all infrared. Makes a huge difference when the sun is shining on it. You get it from the same companies making window tint for cars. I did my living room windows in TN and my windows in NM.",
"I can't think of anything with the shutter that you aren't already doing. Have it open as early in the morning as you can (cooler) and close it up later in the day when the suh starts hitting it.\n\nWhat I would suggest is figuring out a way to reduce the heat output of your computer. \n\nIf your GPU is rendering a higher FPS than your monitor can output, put a frame rate limiter on so the GPU (and CPU) don't have to work as hard (consume less power and put out less heat). Some games have a built in limiter that you can enable, but both AMD and Nvidia have options in their software. Alternatively is using MSI Afterburner with Riva Tuner (I only use Afterburner to monitor and graph the GPU and CPU stats, but Riva Tuner to show some stats like framerate in an overlay and it's ability to have a global frame rate limiter that is more fine-tuneable).\n\nAnother thing to consider is downclocking and/or undervolting your CPU and GPU. The GPU is the biggest power consumer and producer of heat so that is what I would start with. You may be able to give up 10% performance (underclocking and under volting) for 15-20% less heat output. Just undervolting alone can leave the performance alone, but the drop in power consumption/heat output will likely be limited to 10% or less.\n\nThe CPU may not be worth messing with since it consumes a lot less power compared to the GPU, but some tweaking can make a small difference.\n\nAlso, make sure that when you aren't actively playing a game that you close it out and don't let it run in the background (just producing heat for no good reason). If you aren't using your computer at all (like when sleeping), put it to sleep or shut it down. That turns off the monitor which on it's own produces a decent amount of heat too.\n\n"
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"how to have an organized house while being a stay at home mom, caring for a needy newborn that can't walk or eat by themselves yet, pumping exclusively 5x30min a day, and making 3 meals + snacks for the baby ",
"how to have an organized house while being a stay at home mom, caring for a needy newborn that can't walk or eat by themselves yet, pumping exclusively 5x30min a day, and making 3 meals + snacks for the baby ",
"how to have an organized house while being a stay at home mom, caring for a needy newborn that can't walk or eat by themselves yet, pumping exclusively 5x30min a day, and making 3 meals + snacks for the baby ",
"how to have an organized house while being a stay at home mom, caring for a needy newborn that can't walk or eat by themselves yet, pumping exclusively 5x30min a day, and making 3 meals + snacks for the baby ",
"how to have an organized house while being a stay at home mom, caring for a needy newborn that can't walk or eat by themselves yet, pumping exclusively 5x30min a day, and making 3 meals + snacks for the baby "
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"There are no LPTs that will get your house clean in this case, my friend. There is no clean house in that situation. Focus on pumping and taking care of the baby. Eat enough and get enough rest. Throw a load of laundry in when you can. The house will still be there when the baby is napping regularly and sleeping through the night - that's when you might be able to spare a thought for cleaning. Until then, cut yourself a HUUUUUGE break. If the anxiety is driving you mad, the solution is a cleaning service and a therapist. If those are out of the question, then focus on what is *actually* important - a clean house ain't it. There will be seasons of clean houses in your future, but this is not that season.",
"Just say “fuck it” and concentrate on being a mum and taking care of yourself and the baby. I practically barely touched any housework for 4 months after my son was born. He didn’t sleep for more than an hour at a time and demanded my full attention. So instead of fighting it I just used the couple of minutes I had to take care of myself and do very basic chores like cooking and cleaning so it doesn’t get out of control. They grow up so fast, enjoy your time with the little one",
"Honestly I was in the same boat. It comes to the old cliche of “picking your battles”. Right now you may not have time to clean and I get that I love having my place nice and organized. But it seems like right now you need to focus on your baby AND yourself! Take a nap with baby, while baby sleeps watch some tv or do something FOR YOU. The chores will wait and this time will pass. Soon(ish) you’ll have time and energy enough for everything. One step at a time mama you got this!",
"The only things that have helped me are baby wearing and asking someone to sit with her while I do chores. The baby wraps never worked for me, she screamed constantly in them. But the ones where she can face out and see what we are doing can buy me nearly an hour.",
"Have friends/sister/parent come over once or twice a week for a cup of tea/coffee and snacks. Wear the baby in a carrier or have a playpen set up, chat with the person and fold laundry while talking together or do dishes while they sit at the table 😊\n\nAnother option is to start listening to a podcast or audiobook. Listen to this stuff when you do chores, put your baby in a playpen or wear them, and be occupied by that instead of focused on the crappy task at hand. Only listen to the podcast/book doing chores so when you want to listen to it again you are forced to clean! Make it a habit to listen to one book/podcast a day (generally theyre 1 hour long) and then cut yourself off of cleaning for the rest of the day. \n\nMy coworker also sends her kids to daycare part time so she can have \"me time\" or get the house in order for a day. Instead of daycare you could ask a friend or family member to take the kid for 6 hours once a week to do chores and grab a coffee for alone time."
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