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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I used to occasionally use live cam porn sites before I had a girlfriend and had never really before considered the differences between porn and live cams. My girlfriend is out of town, and last night I came home from a bar, pretty drunk. I got home, started looking at porn, and a cam site popup came up. I saw a girl that was attractive, and started browsing cams. Without really thinking about it I paid credits and joined a room.\n\nThe girl took her clothes off and requested my cam. I turned it on. She said I was handsome, etc, and she started asking personal questions about me.\n\nAt this point I began to feel uncomfortable, and realized that this was more personal than just pornography. I love my girlfriend, and I realized we were rapidly moving into territory that I only want to share with her. \n\nI stayed in the room for another minute or two. Although she was naked, she didn't start her show, and I didn't request for her to do anything. I passively answered a few questions, then told her I have a girlfriend and I shouldn't be doing this. I said good bye and signed off.\n\nAfter signing off, I was still drunk and aroused, so I finished while looking at her preview pics. I immediately felt regret, and all day today I have been wondering if this counts as cheating. I feel terrible, and I don't know how my girlfriend will react when she comes back. Do my actions last night amount to cheating?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I used to occasionally use live cam porn sites before I had a girlfriend and had never really before considered the differences between porn and live cams. My girlfriend is out of town, and last night I came home from a bar, pretty drunk. I got home, started looking at porn, and a cam site popup came up. I saw a girl that was attractive, and started browsing cams. Without really thinking about it I paid credits and joined a room.\n\nThe girl took her clothes off and requested my cam. I turned it on. She said I was handsome, etc, and she started asking personal questions about me.\n\nAt this point I began to feel uncomfortable, and realized that this was more personal than just pornography. I love my girlfriend, and I realized we were rapidly moving into territory that I only want to share with her. \n\nI stayed in the room for another minute or two. Although she was naked, she didn't start her show, and I didn't request for her to do anything. I passively answered a few questions, then told her I have a girlfriend and I shouldn't be doing this. I said good bye and signed off.\n\nAfter signing off, I was still drunk and aroused, so I finished while looking at her preview pics. I immediately felt regret, and all day today I have been wondering if this counts as cheating. I feel terrible, and I don't know how my girlfriend will react when she comes back. Do my actions last night amount to cheating?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I used to occasionally use live cam porn sites before I had a girlfriend and had never really before considered the differences between porn and live cams. My girlfriend is out of town, and last night I came home from a bar, pretty drunk. I got home, started looking at porn, and a cam site popup came up. I saw a girl that was attractive, and started browsing cams. Without really thinking about it I paid credits and joined a room.\n\nThe girl took her clothes off and requested my cam. I turned it on. She said I was handsome, etc, and she started asking personal questions about me.\n\nAt this point I began to feel uncomfortable, and realized that this was more personal than just pornography. I love my girlfriend, and I realized we were rapidly moving into territory that I only want to share with her. \n\nI stayed in the room for another minute or two. Although she was naked, she didn't start her show, and I didn't request for her to do anything. I passively answered a few questions, then told her I have a girlfriend and I shouldn't be doing this. I said good bye and signed off.\n\nAfter signing off, I was still drunk and aroused, so I finished while looking at her preview pics. I immediately felt regret, and all day today I have been wondering if this counts as cheating. I feel terrible, and I don't know how my girlfriend will react when she comes back. Do my actions last night amount to cheating?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I used to occasionally use live cam porn sites before I had a girlfriend and had never really before considered the differences between porn and live cams. My girlfriend is out of town, and last night I came home from a bar, pretty drunk. I got home, started looking at porn, and a cam site popup came up. I saw a girl that was attractive, and started browsing cams. Without really thinking about it I paid credits and joined a room.\n\nThe girl took her clothes off and requested my cam. I turned it on. She said I was handsome, etc, and she started asking personal questions about me.\n\nAt this point I began to feel uncomfortable, and realized that this was more personal than just pornography. I love my girlfriend, and I realized we were rapidly moving into territory that I only want to share with her. \n\nI stayed in the room for another minute or two. Although she was naked, she didn't start her show, and I didn't request for her to do anything. I passively answered a few questions, then told her I have a girlfriend and I shouldn't be doing this. I said good bye and signed off.\n\nAfter signing off, I was still drunk and aroused, so I finished while looking at her preview pics. I immediately felt regret, and all day today I have been wondering if this counts as cheating. I feel terrible, and I don't know how my girlfriend will react when she comes back. Do my actions last night amount to cheating?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I used to occasionally use live cam porn sites before I had a girlfriend and had never really before considered the differences between porn and live cams. My girlfriend is out of town, and last night I came home from a bar, pretty drunk. I got home, started looking at porn, and a cam site popup came up. I saw a girl that was attractive, and started browsing cams. Without really thinking about it I paid credits and joined a room.\n\nThe girl took her clothes off and requested my cam. I turned it on. She said I was handsome, etc, and she started asking personal questions about me.\n\nAt this point I began to feel uncomfortable, and realized that this was more personal than just pornography. I love my girlfriend, and I realized we were rapidly moving into territory that I only want to share with her. \n\nI stayed in the room for another minute or two. Although she was naked, she didn't start her show, and I didn't request for her to do anything. I passively answered a few questions, then told her I have a girlfriend and I shouldn't be doing this. I said good bye and signed off.\n\nAfter signing off, I was still drunk and aroused, so I finished while looking at her preview pics. I immediately felt regret, and all day today I have been wondering if this counts as cheating. I feel terrible, and I don't know how my girlfriend will react when she comes back. Do my actions last night amount to cheating?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off I'm going to start by saying that I'm not going to be disclosing exactly what I did because I don't think it's important to go into that side of things so much. Let's just say it was a horrible thing for me to have done and it was bad enough to have lead to the break down of my last relationship, which sucked because other than that we had a great relationship.\n\nAnyway I don't feel bitter or anything that she decided to end that relationship because like I said it was completely my fault and I totally understand why it had to end, what I really wanted help with is that now I have trouble sleeping most nights and even have bad dreams and wake up just feeling like the worst piece of shit. It's prevented me from forming any new relationships because I genuinely keep pushing people away from me I just can't seem to see myself as a good person and because of this I cant seem to allow myself to be with anyone. \n\nI just want to stop feeling so guilty all of the time it's destroying my self esteem and if it carries on I'm afraid I'll literally never be able to have that connection with another person again through fear that I'll fuck it up. \n\nIf you did something that made you feel this way about yourself what would you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off I'm going to start by saying that I'm not going to be disclosing exactly what I did because I don't think it's important to go into that side of things so much. Let's just say it was a horrible thing for me to have done and it was bad enough to have lead to the break down of my last relationship, which sucked because other than that we had a great relationship.\n\nAnyway I don't feel bitter or anything that she decided to end that relationship because like I said it was completely my fault and I totally understand why it had to end, what I really wanted help with is that now I have trouble sleeping most nights and even have bad dreams and wake up just feeling like the worst piece of shit. It's prevented me from forming any new relationships because I genuinely keep pushing people away from me I just can't seem to see myself as a good person and because of this I cant seem to allow myself to be with anyone. \n\nI just want to stop feeling so guilty all of the time it's destroying my self esteem and if it carries on I'm afraid I'll literally never be able to have that connection with another person again through fear that I'll fuck it up. \n\nIf you did something that made you feel this way about yourself what would you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off I'm going to start by saying that I'm not going to be disclosing exactly what I did because I don't think it's important to go into that side of things so much. Let's just say it was a horrible thing for me to have done and it was bad enough to have lead to the break down of my last relationship, which sucked because other than that we had a great relationship.\n\nAnyway I don't feel bitter or anything that she decided to end that relationship because like I said it was completely my fault and I totally understand why it had to end, what I really wanted help with is that now I have trouble sleeping most nights and even have bad dreams and wake up just feeling like the worst piece of shit. It's prevented me from forming any new relationships because I genuinely keep pushing people away from me I just can't seem to see myself as a good person and because of this I cant seem to allow myself to be with anyone. \n\nI just want to stop feeling so guilty all of the time it's destroying my self esteem and if it carries on I'm afraid I'll literally never be able to have that connection with another person again through fear that I'll fuck it up. \n\nIf you did something that made you feel this way about yourself what would you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off I'm going to start by saying that I'm not going to be disclosing exactly what I did because I don't think it's important to go into that side of things so much. Let's just say it was a horrible thing for me to have done and it was bad enough to have lead to the break down of my last relationship, which sucked because other than that we had a great relationship.\n\nAnyway I don't feel bitter or anything that she decided to end that relationship because like I said it was completely my fault and I totally understand why it had to end, what I really wanted help with is that now I have trouble sleeping most nights and even have bad dreams and wake up just feeling like the worst piece of shit. It's prevented me from forming any new relationships because I genuinely keep pushing people away from me I just can't seem to see myself as a good person and because of this I cant seem to allow myself to be with anyone. \n\nI just want to stop feeling so guilty all of the time it's destroying my self esteem and if it carries on I'm afraid I'll literally never be able to have that connection with another person again through fear that I'll fuck it up. \n\nIf you did something that made you feel this way about yourself what would you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off I'm going to start by saying that I'm not going to be disclosing exactly what I did because I don't think it's important to go into that side of things so much. Let's just say it was a horrible thing for me to have done and it was bad enough to have lead to the break down of my last relationship, which sucked because other than that we had a great relationship.\n\nAnyway I don't feel bitter or anything that she decided to end that relationship because like I said it was completely my fault and I totally understand why it had to end, what I really wanted help with is that now I have trouble sleeping most nights and even have bad dreams and wake up just feeling like the worst piece of shit. It's prevented me from forming any new relationships because I genuinely keep pushing people away from me I just can't seem to see myself as a good person and because of this I cant seem to allow myself to be with anyone. \n\nI just want to stop feeling so guilty all of the time it's destroying my self esteem and if it carries on I'm afraid I'll literally never be able to have that connection with another person again through fear that I'll fuck it up. \n\nIf you did something that made you feel this way about yourself what would you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off I'm going to start by saying that I'm not going to be disclosing exactly what I did because I don't think it's important to go into that side of things so much. Let's just say it was a horrible thing for me to have done and it was bad enough to have lead to the break down of my last relationship, which sucked because other than that we had a great relationship.\n\nAnyway I don't feel bitter or anything that she decided to end that relationship because like I said it was completely my fault and I totally understand why it had to end, what I really wanted help with is that now I have trouble sleeping most nights and even have bad dreams and wake up just feeling like the worst piece of shit. It's prevented me from forming any new relationships because I genuinely keep pushing people away from me I just can't seem to see myself as a good person and because of this I cant seem to allow myself to be with anyone. \n\nI just want to stop feeling so guilty all of the time it's destroying my self esteem and if it carries on I'm afraid I'll literally never be able to have that connection with another person again through fear that I'll fuck it up. \n\nIf you did something that made you feel this way about yourself what would you do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This actually happened early this year but whatever.\n\nI was at a 20/21st joint birthday party and as parties go we play a drinking game called Never have I ever. For those who aren't familiar with the game you go round in a group and state something you have never done and if you have done it you must drink. It is designed to more or less humiliate players in the group. e.g. I never skinny dipped in the pool. Here's where I ultimately fuck up.\n\nNow I'm the kind of person that tends to have a dark sense of humour that is usually deeply suppressed until after a couple of drinks and so when it came to my turn I say to which I regret to this day. 'Never have I ever.tried to kill myself!' \n\nA split second later I realized I have completely ruined the atmosphere and what couldn't have been even worse was out of nowhere one of the girls of the group raised her hand and drank. Then through the awkwardness of the situation I laughed. \n\nShortly afterwards I apologized to the girl and she was very open about it and said what was done was past behind her and that she is functioning well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This actually happened early this year but whatever.\n\nI was at a 20/21st joint birthday party and as parties go we play a drinking game called Never have I ever. For those who aren't familiar with the game you go round in a group and state something you have never done and if you have done it you must drink. It is designed to more or less humiliate players in the group. e.g. I never skinny dipped in the pool. Here's where I ultimately fuck up.\n\nNow I'm the kind of person that tends to have a dark sense of humour that is usually deeply suppressed until after a couple of drinks and so when it came to my turn I say to which I regret to this day. 'Never have I ever.tried to kill myself!' \n\nA split second later I realized I have completely ruined the atmosphere and what couldn't have been even worse was out of nowhere one of the girls of the group raised her hand and drank. Then through the awkwardness of the situation I laughed. \n\nShortly afterwards I apologized to the girl and she was very open about it and said what was done was past behind her and that she is functioning well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This actually happened early this year but whatever.\n\nI was at a 20/21st joint birthday party and as parties go we play a drinking game called Never have I ever. For those who aren't familiar with the game you go round in a group and state something you have never done and if you have done it you must drink. It is designed to more or less humiliate players in the group. e.g. I never skinny dipped in the pool. Here's where I ultimately fuck up.\n\nNow I'm the kind of person that tends to have a dark sense of humour that is usually deeply suppressed until after a couple of drinks and so when it came to my turn I say to which I regret to this day. 'Never have I ever.tried to kill myself!' \n\nA split second later I realized I have completely ruined the atmosphere and what couldn't have been even worse was out of nowhere one of the girls of the group raised her hand and drank. Then through the awkwardness of the situation I laughed. \n\nShortly afterwards I apologized to the girl and she was very open about it and said what was done was past behind her and that she is functioning well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This actually happened early this year but whatever.\n\nI was at a 20/21st joint birthday party and as parties go we play a drinking game called Never have I ever. For those who aren't familiar with the game you go round in a group and state something you have never done and if you have done it you must drink. It is designed to more or less humiliate players in the group. e.g. I never skinny dipped in the pool. Here's where I ultimately fuck up.\n\nNow I'm the kind of person that tends to have a dark sense of humour that is usually deeply suppressed until after a couple of drinks and so when it came to my turn I say to which I regret to this day. 'Never have I ever.tried to kill myself!' \n\nA split second later I realized I have completely ruined the atmosphere and what couldn't have been even worse was out of nowhere one of the girls of the group raised her hand and drank. Then through the awkwardness of the situation I laughed. \n\nShortly afterwards I apologized to the girl and she was very open about it and said what was done was past behind her and that she is functioning well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This actually happened early this year but whatever.\n\nI was at a 20/21st joint birthday party and as parties go we play a drinking game called Never have I ever. For those who aren't familiar with the game you go round in a group and state something you have never done and if you have done it you must drink. It is designed to more or less humiliate players in the group. e.g. I never skinny dipped in the pool. Here's where I ultimately fuck up.\n\nNow I'm the kind of person that tends to have a dark sense of humour that is usually deeply suppressed until after a couple of drinks and so when it came to my turn I say to which I regret to this day. 'Never have I ever.tried to kill myself!' \n\nA split second later I realized I have completely ruined the atmosphere and what couldn't have been even worse was out of nowhere one of the girls of the group raised her hand and drank. Then through the awkwardness of the situation I laughed. \n\nShortly afterwards I apologized to the girl and she was very open about it and said what was done was past behind her and that she is functioning well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This actually happened early this year but whatever.\n\nI was at a 20/21st joint birthday party and as parties go we play a drinking game called Never have I ever. For those who aren't familiar with the game you go round in a group and state something you have never done and if you have done it you must drink. It is designed to more or less humiliate players in the group. e.g. I never skinny dipped in the pool. Here's where I ultimately fuck up.\n\nNow I'm the kind of person that tends to have a dark sense of humour that is usually deeply suppressed until after a couple of drinks and so when it came to my turn I say to which I regret to this day. 'Never have I ever.tried to kill myself!' \n\nA split second later I realized I have completely ruined the atmosphere and what couldn't have been even worse was out of nowhere one of the girls of the group raised her hand and drank. Then through the awkwardness of the situation I laughed. \n\nShortly afterwards I apologized to the girl and she was very open about it and said what was done was past behind her and that she is functioning well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend of a year and some change is moving somewhere(for grad school, he's not sure exactly where he got into yet) far away in about 4 months. I'm going back and forth on how I feel about it, which is normal. I am just looking for some help from someone who has been in a similar situation. We've talked about it a few times and, though it's hard, it's went pretty well. A LDR is not really in the cards; I don't think either of us think it's a good idea. \nThe problem is, obviously, that I don't want this to happen. I am very much in love with him and the love seems to be growing, not diminishing, as our \"deadline\" approaches. I can feel myself getting needier and wanting to be around him more the further we get. I've had a few dark years prior to my getting together with him in which I was Very depressed and alone despite having a solid group of friends and the like. This is my first real relationship and I'm just at a loss for what to do. Looking for any advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend of a year and some change is moving somewhere(for grad school, he's not sure exactly where he got into yet) far away in about 4 months. I'm going back and forth on how I feel about it, which is normal. I am just looking for some help from someone who has been in a similar situation. We've talked about it a few times and, though it's hard, it's went pretty well. A LDR is not really in the cards; I don't think either of us think it's a good idea. \nThe problem is, obviously, that I don't want this to happen. I am very much in love with him and the love seems to be growing, not diminishing, as our \"deadline\" approaches. I can feel myself getting needier and wanting to be around him more the further we get. I've had a few dark years prior to my getting together with him in which I was Very depressed and alone despite having a solid group of friends and the like. This is my first real relationship and I'm just at a loss for what to do. Looking for any advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend of a year and some change is moving somewhere(for grad school, he's not sure exactly where he got into yet) far away in about 4 months. I'm going back and forth on how I feel about it, which is normal. I am just looking for some help from someone who has been in a similar situation. We've talked about it a few times and, though it's hard, it's went pretty well. A LDR is not really in the cards; I don't think either of us think it's a good idea. \nThe problem is, obviously, that I don't want this to happen. I am very much in love with him and the love seems to be growing, not diminishing, as our \"deadline\" approaches. I can feel myself getting needier and wanting to be around him more the further we get. I've had a few dark years prior to my getting together with him in which I was Very depressed and alone despite having a solid group of friends and the like. This is my first real relationship and I'm just at a loss for what to do. Looking for any advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I met each other in January, started hooking up in March, and it was clear early on we both had serious feelings for the other. Things progressed quickly from hooking up every night to dating within a month, and by mid-May we were in a relationship. For the past month we've been seeing each other every day, have both met each others' parents, and have essentially been living together in the same city. I left for 7 weeks of study abroad yesterday, and saying goodbye to him was the first time he's seen me cry since we met. \n\nWe're not staying exclusive while I'm gone because he was concerned we didn't have the solid foundation on which to build a long-distance exclusive relationship and was worried he would start resenting me while alone in the city he's in. All along, I've been the one more concerned about exclusivity, but I said that I took him at his word that us staying exclusive while I'm gone would be harmful. As I was leaving, he said that the absence might be a good thing, as we've spent so much time together in the past month that both of us have forgotten what it's like to miss the other.\n\nThat said, I'm worried that an absence almost as long as the duration of our relationship is going to lead to overthinking and fizzling. Any advice as to how I can keep our feelings for each other strong while I'm gone? I really like this guy and don't want the good thing we had to have died over the long break. This is my first seemingly serious relationship (he dated his HS GF for three years) and I really want to make it work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I met each other in January, started hooking up in March, and it was clear early on we both had serious feelings for the other. Things progressed quickly from hooking up every night to dating within a month, and by mid-May we were in a relationship. For the past month we've been seeing each other every day, have both met each others' parents, and have essentially been living together in the same city. I left for 7 weeks of study abroad yesterday, and saying goodbye to him was the first time he's seen me cry since we met. \n\nWe're not staying exclusive while I'm gone because he was concerned we didn't have the solid foundation on which to build a long-distance exclusive relationship and was worried he would start resenting me while alone in the city he's in. All along, I've been the one more concerned about exclusivity, but I said that I took him at his word that us staying exclusive while I'm gone would be harmful. As I was leaving, he said that the absence might be a good thing, as we've spent so much time together in the past month that both of us have forgotten what it's like to miss the other.\n\nThat said, I'm worried that an absence almost as long as the duration of our relationship is going to lead to overthinking and fizzling. Any advice as to how I can keep our feelings for each other strong while I'm gone? I really like this guy and don't want the good thing we had to have died over the long break. This is my first seemingly serious relationship (he dated his HS GF for three years) and I really want to make it work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I met each other in January, started hooking up in March, and it was clear early on we both had serious feelings for the other. Things progressed quickly from hooking up every night to dating within a month, and by mid-May we were in a relationship. For the past month we've been seeing each other every day, have both met each others' parents, and have essentially been living together in the same city. I left for 7 weeks of study abroad yesterday, and saying goodbye to him was the first time he's seen me cry since we met. \n\nWe're not staying exclusive while I'm gone because he was concerned we didn't have the solid foundation on which to build a long-distance exclusive relationship and was worried he would start resenting me while alone in the city he's in. All along, I've been the one more concerned about exclusivity, but I said that I took him at his word that us staying exclusive while I'm gone would be harmful. As I was leaving, he said that the absence might be a good thing, as we've spent so much time together in the past month that both of us have forgotten what it's like to miss the other.\n\nThat said, I'm worried that an absence almost as long as the duration of our relationship is going to lead to overthinking and fizzling. Any advice as to how I can keep our feelings for each other strong while I'm gone? I really like this guy and don't want the good thing we had to have died over the long break. This is my first seemingly serious relationship (he dated his HS GF for three years) and I really want to make it work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I met each other in January, started hooking up in March, and it was clear early on we both had serious feelings for the other. Things progressed quickly from hooking up every night to dating within a month, and by mid-May we were in a relationship. For the past month we've been seeing each other every day, have both met each others' parents, and have essentially been living together in the same city. I left for 7 weeks of study abroad yesterday, and saying goodbye to him was the first time he's seen me cry since we met. \n\nWe're not staying exclusive while I'm gone because he was concerned we didn't have the solid foundation on which to build a long-distance exclusive relationship and was worried he would start resenting me while alone in the city he's in. All along, I've been the one more concerned about exclusivity, but I said that I took him at his word that us staying exclusive while I'm gone would be harmful. As I was leaving, he said that the absence might be a good thing, as we've spent so much time together in the past month that both of us have forgotten what it's like to miss the other.\n\nThat said, I'm worried that an absence almost as long as the duration of our relationship is going to lead to overthinking and fizzling. Any advice as to how I can keep our feelings for each other strong while I'm gone? I really like this guy and don't want the good thing we had to have died over the long break. This is my first seemingly serious relationship (he dated his HS GF for three years) and I really want to make it work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I met each other in January, started hooking up in March, and it was clear early on we both had serious feelings for the other. Things progressed quickly from hooking up every night to dating within a month, and by mid-May we were in a relationship. For the past month we've been seeing each other every day, have both met each others' parents, and have essentially been living together in the same city. I left for 7 weeks of study abroad yesterday, and saying goodbye to him was the first time he's seen me cry since we met. \n\nWe're not staying exclusive while I'm gone because he was concerned we didn't have the solid foundation on which to build a long-distance exclusive relationship and was worried he would start resenting me while alone in the city he's in. All along, I've been the one more concerned about exclusivity, but I said that I took him at his word that us staying exclusive while I'm gone would be harmful. As I was leaving, he said that the absence might be a good thing, as we've spent so much time together in the past month that both of us have forgotten what it's like to miss the other.\n\nThat said, I'm worried that an absence almost as long as the duration of our relationship is going to lead to overthinking and fizzling. Any advice as to how I can keep our feelings for each other strong while I'm gone? I really like this guy and don't want the good thing we had to have died over the long break. This is my first seemingly serious relationship (he dated his HS GF for three years) and I really want to make it work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I met each other in January, started hooking up in March, and it was clear early on we both had serious feelings for the other. Things progressed quickly from hooking up every night to dating within a month, and by mid-May we were in a relationship. For the past month we've been seeing each other every day, have both met each others' parents, and have essentially been living together in the same city. I left for 7 weeks of study abroad yesterday, and saying goodbye to him was the first time he's seen me cry since we met. \n\nWe're not staying exclusive while I'm gone because he was concerned we didn't have the solid foundation on which to build a long-distance exclusive relationship and was worried he would start resenting me while alone in the city he's in. All along, I've been the one more concerned about exclusivity, but I said that I took him at his word that us staying exclusive while I'm gone would be harmful. As I was leaving, he said that the absence might be a good thing, as we've spent so much time together in the past month that both of us have forgotten what it's like to miss the other.\n\nThat said, I'm worried that an absence almost as long as the duration of our relationship is going to lead to overthinking and fizzling. Any advice as to how I can keep our feelings for each other strong while I'm gone? I really like this guy and don't want the good thing we had to have died over the long break. This is my first seemingly serious relationship (he dated his HS GF for three years) and I really want to make it work."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My first term of uni's almost over. I've been trying very hard since week 1 to be on track, gave up 90% of my social commitments, but somehow couldn't bring myself to finish my work over the week so I've gone for tutorials without knowing what was going on. I attend my lectures but I don't necessarily understand them - I record them and play them back; sometimes I take 3 hours to go through a lecture that is 1 hour - would attribute it to an inability to focus. I haven't had the time to make notes (barely have time to finish the reading).Anyway, everything adds up and now I have a huge pile of work to clear, no notes, and I'm pretty much panicking. I've got about 3 weeks to do something about this - but I'm afraid it may not be enough/ I've got no idea how I can maximise my time\nPast threads gave very good study advice, but would be better suited to students just starting school, rather than someone in this situation.\n\nCreated a throwaway because frankly I'm really embarrassed about this and I think I may have slight depression - I've been crying nights and having panic attacks in the middle of the day where I can't breathe and have to spend hours calming myself down. It's so stupid to try so hard but end up with nothing at the end of the day."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My first term of uni's almost over. I've been trying very hard since week 1 to be on track, gave up 90% of my social commitments, but somehow couldn't bring myself to finish my work over the week so I've gone for tutorials without knowing what was going on. I attend my lectures but I don't necessarily understand them - I record them and play them back; sometimes I take 3 hours to go through a lecture that is 1 hour - would attribute it to an inability to focus. I haven't had the time to make notes (barely have time to finish the reading).Anyway, everything adds up and now I have a huge pile of work to clear, no notes, and I'm pretty much panicking. I've got about 3 weeks to do something about this - but I'm afraid it may not be enough/ I've got no idea how I can maximise my time\nPast threads gave very good study advice, but would be better suited to students just starting school, rather than someone in this situation.\n\nCreated a throwaway because frankly I'm really embarrassed about this and I think I may have slight depression - I've been crying nights and having panic attacks in the middle of the day where I can't breathe and have to spend hours calming myself down. It's so stupid to try so hard but end up with nothing at the end of the day."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My first term of uni's almost over. I've been trying very hard since week 1 to be on track, gave up 90% of my social commitments, but somehow couldn't bring myself to finish my work over the week so I've gone for tutorials without knowing what was going on. I attend my lectures but I don't necessarily understand them - I record them and play them back; sometimes I take 3 hours to go through a lecture that is 1 hour - would attribute it to an inability to focus. I haven't had the time to make notes (barely have time to finish the reading).Anyway, everything adds up and now I have a huge pile of work to clear, no notes, and I'm pretty much panicking. I've got about 3 weeks to do something about this - but I'm afraid it may not be enough/ I've got no idea how I can maximise my time\nPast threads gave very good study advice, but would be better suited to students just starting school, rather than someone in this situation.\n\nCreated a throwaway because frankly I'm really embarrassed about this and I think I may have slight depression - I've been crying nights and having panic attacks in the middle of the day where I can't breathe and have to spend hours calming myself down. It's so stupid to try so hard but end up with nothing at the end of the day."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My first term of uni's almost over. I've been trying very hard since week 1 to be on track, gave up 90% of my social commitments, but somehow couldn't bring myself to finish my work over the week so I've gone for tutorials without knowing what was going on. I attend my lectures but I don't necessarily understand them - I record them and play them back; sometimes I take 3 hours to go through a lecture that is 1 hour - would attribute it to an inability to focus. I haven't had the time to make notes (barely have time to finish the reading).Anyway, everything adds up and now I have a huge pile of work to clear, no notes, and I'm pretty much panicking. I've got about 3 weeks to do something about this - but I'm afraid it may not be enough/ I've got no idea how I can maximise my time\nPast threads gave very good study advice, but would be better suited to students just starting school, rather than someone in this situation.\n\nCreated a throwaway because frankly I'm really embarrassed about this and I think I may have slight depression - I've been crying nights and having panic attacks in the middle of the day where I can't breathe and have to spend hours calming myself down. It's so stupid to try so hard but end up with nothing at the end of the day."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My first term of uni's almost over. I've been trying very hard since week 1 to be on track, gave up 90% of my social commitments, but somehow couldn't bring myself to finish my work over the week so I've gone for tutorials without knowing what was going on. I attend my lectures but I don't necessarily understand them - I record them and play them back; sometimes I take 3 hours to go through a lecture that is 1 hour - would attribute it to an inability to focus. I haven't had the time to make notes (barely have time to finish the reading).Anyway, everything adds up and now I have a huge pile of work to clear, no notes, and I'm pretty much panicking. I've got about 3 weeks to do something about this - but I'm afraid it may not be enough/ I've got no idea how I can maximise my time\nPast threads gave very good study advice, but would be better suited to students just starting school, rather than someone in this situation.\n\nCreated a throwaway because frankly I'm really embarrassed about this and I think I may have slight depression - I've been crying nights and having panic attacks in the middle of the day where I can't breathe and have to spend hours calming myself down. It's so stupid to try so hard but end up with nothing at the end of the day."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My first term of uni's almost over. I've been trying very hard since week 1 to be on track, gave up 90% of my social commitments, but somehow couldn't bring myself to finish my work over the week so I've gone for tutorials without knowing what was going on. I attend my lectures but I don't necessarily understand them - I record them and play them back; sometimes I take 3 hours to go through a lecture that is 1 hour - would attribute it to an inability to focus. I haven't had the time to make notes (barely have time to finish the reading).Anyway, everything adds up and now I have a huge pile of work to clear, no notes, and I'm pretty much panicking. I've got about 3 weeks to do something about this - but I'm afraid it may not be enough/ I've got no idea how I can maximise my time\nPast threads gave very good study advice, but would be better suited to students just starting school, rather than someone in this situation.\n\nCreated a throwaway because frankly I'm really embarrassed about this and I think I may have slight depression - I've been crying nights and having panic attacks in the middle of the day where I can't breathe and have to spend hours calming myself down. It's so stupid to try so hard but end up with nothing at the end of the day."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm a junior at university (just turned 20, male), and a couple weekends ago I made out with a freshman girl (17, turning 18 in a couple weeks). When the party was over, I asked her if I'd see her again, and she mentioned that we would see a movie together that we had been talking about at the party.\n\nSince then, I've met her one more time. We took a walk through the nature trail behind campus where we kissed again. After that, we went back to her dorm and chatted for a while over iced coffee. We kissed goodbye, and I told her I'd take her though the small town just off campus this week. She seemed happy to do that.\n\nThing is, we were supposed to do that this past week. I texted her a few times earlier and throughout the week to set a date, but she explained that her courseload was picking up and it would prove difficult to meet for now. Ok, no issue. I tried to set up the town plan for this coming weekend, but she informed me she'd be going home to see family. So now we havn't seen each other in over a week, and if we manage to see each other in this coming week it will have been a couple weeks since our last date.\n\nIs she maybe not sure about dating? I've been thinking perhaps because she's only a freshman she doesn't want to get into a relationship too soon; but rather get used to college life first and experience all it has to offer. I've never been in a relationship before and hoped this would work out, but now I'm not so sure.\n\nAny advice is greatly appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm a junior at university (just turned 20, male), and a couple weekends ago I made out with a freshman girl (17, turning 18 in a couple weeks). When the party was over, I asked her if I'd see her again, and she mentioned that we would see a movie together that we had been talking about at the party.\n\nSince then, I've met her one more time. We took a walk through the nature trail behind campus where we kissed again. After that, we went back to her dorm and chatted for a while over iced coffee. We kissed goodbye, and I told her I'd take her though the small town just off campus this week. She seemed happy to do that.\n\nThing is, we were supposed to do that this past week. I texted her a few times earlier and throughout the week to set a date, but she explained that her courseload was picking up and it would prove difficult to meet for now. Ok, no issue. I tried to set up the town plan for this coming weekend, but she informed me she'd be going home to see family. So now we havn't seen each other in over a week, and if we manage to see each other in this coming week it will have been a couple weeks since our last date.\n\nIs she maybe not sure about dating? I've been thinking perhaps because she's only a freshman she doesn't want to get into a relationship too soon; but rather get used to college life first and experience all it has to offer. I've never been in a relationship before and hoped this would work out, but now I'm not so sure.\n\nAny advice is greatly appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm a junior at university (just turned 20, male), and a couple weekends ago I made out with a freshman girl (17, turning 18 in a couple weeks). When the party was over, I asked her if I'd see her again, and she mentioned that we would see a movie together that we had been talking about at the party.\n\nSince then, I've met her one more time. We took a walk through the nature trail behind campus where we kissed again. After that, we went back to her dorm and chatted for a while over iced coffee. We kissed goodbye, and I told her I'd take her though the small town just off campus this week. She seemed happy to do that.\n\nThing is, we were supposed to do that this past week. I texted her a few times earlier and throughout the week to set a date, but she explained that her courseload was picking up and it would prove difficult to meet for now. Ok, no issue. I tried to set up the town plan for this coming weekend, but she informed me she'd be going home to see family. So now we havn't seen each other in over a week, and if we manage to see each other in this coming week it will have been a couple weeks since our last date.\n\nIs she maybe not sure about dating? I've been thinking perhaps because she's only a freshman she doesn't want to get into a relationship too soon; but rather get used to college life first and experience all it has to offer. I've never been in a relationship before and hoped this would work out, but now I'm not so sure.\n\nAny advice is greatly appreciated!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I am a M/33 and after developing a blood clot in my leg, losing my job, my relationship, traveling across the country three times and couch surfing all over the place. I finally heard that my employer has agreed to a decent lump sum settlement. I can finally settle down. You have no idea how \ndifficult things have been. Now I can even try to regain my relationship, I have time to heal and I can get my own place. \n\nIt is ironic because I was literally going to kill myself the day before I found out about the settlement. I was just hit so hard by life and I lost all my strength. Fortunately, I met a stranger and opened my mouth. He convinced me to have some drinks and I passed out before I could tie the noose. \n\nGod really pushed me hard before giving me relief. Now I just have to wait a few days to collect my money and get started living again.\n\nMy questions is this: After my GF 25/F saw me tank in mental attitude, hope and strength. After, her image of me being a strong man has been shattered by these things, how is the best way for me to approach her so that our relationship can grow and we can be together again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I am a M/33 and after developing a blood clot in my leg, losing my job, my relationship, traveling across the country three times and couch surfing all over the place. I finally heard that my employer has agreed to a decent lump sum settlement. I can finally settle down. You have no idea how \ndifficult things have been. Now I can even try to regain my relationship, I have time to heal and I can get my own place. \n\nIt is ironic because I was literally going to kill myself the day before I found out about the settlement. I was just hit so hard by life and I lost all my strength. Fortunately, I met a stranger and opened my mouth. He convinced me to have some drinks and I passed out before I could tie the noose. \n\nGod really pushed me hard before giving me relief. Now I just have to wait a few days to collect my money and get started living again.\n\nMy questions is this: After my GF 25/F saw me tank in mental attitude, hope and strength. After, her image of me being a strong man has been shattered by these things, how is the best way for me to approach her so that our relationship can grow and we can be together again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I am a M/33 and after developing a blood clot in my leg, losing my job, my relationship, traveling across the country three times and couch surfing all over the place. I finally heard that my employer has agreed to a decent lump sum settlement. I can finally settle down. You have no idea how \ndifficult things have been. Now I can even try to regain my relationship, I have time to heal and I can get my own place. \n\nIt is ironic because I was literally going to kill myself the day before I found out about the settlement. I was just hit so hard by life and I lost all my strength. Fortunately, I met a stranger and opened my mouth. He convinced me to have some drinks and I passed out before I could tie the noose. \n\nGod really pushed me hard before giving me relief. Now I just have to wait a few days to collect my money and get started living again.\n\nMy questions is this: After my GF 25/F saw me tank in mental attitude, hope and strength. After, her image of me being a strong man has been shattered by these things, how is the best way for me to approach her so that our relationship can grow and we can be together again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I am a M/33 and after developing a blood clot in my leg, losing my job, my relationship, traveling across the country three times and couch surfing all over the place. I finally heard that my employer has agreed to a decent lump sum settlement. I can finally settle down. You have no idea how \ndifficult things have been. Now I can even try to regain my relationship, I have time to heal and I can get my own place. \n\nIt is ironic because I was literally going to kill myself the day before I found out about the settlement. I was just hit so hard by life and I lost all my strength. Fortunately, I met a stranger and opened my mouth. He convinced me to have some drinks and I passed out before I could tie the noose. \n\nGod really pushed me hard before giving me relief. Now I just have to wait a few days to collect my money and get started living again.\n\nMy questions is this: After my GF 25/F saw me tank in mental attitude, hope and strength. After, her image of me being a strong man has been shattered by these things, how is the best way for me to approach her so that our relationship can grow and we can be together again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi, I am a M/33 and after developing a blood clot in my leg, losing my job, my relationship, traveling across the country three times and couch surfing all over the place. I finally heard that my employer has agreed to a decent lump sum settlement. I can finally settle down. You have no idea how \ndifficult things have been. Now I can even try to regain my relationship, I have time to heal and I can get my own place. \n\nIt is ironic because I was literally going to kill myself the day before I found out about the settlement. I was just hit so hard by life and I lost all my strength. Fortunately, I met a stranger and opened my mouth. He convinced me to have some drinks and I passed out before I could tie the noose. \n\nGod really pushed me hard before giving me relief. Now I just have to wait a few days to collect my money and get started living again.\n\nMy questions is this: After my GF 25/F saw me tank in mental attitude, hope and strength. After, her image of me being a strong man has been shattered by these things, how is the best way for me to approach her so that our relationship can grow and we can be together again."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically whenever I do something wrong that annoys her she posts something to tumblr but then fervently lies and denies it being about me which it obviously is because in some cases its 30seconds after it happens. An example of this is last night she was saying how much she wanted to buy a camera and I was being a dick and I was really condescending to her (I said do you even know what the sensor is?). I said sorry and I go to check her tumblr like I usually do after things like this happen and there is a post 30seconds ago.\n> did I ask?\n> #ffs\n\nI'm not exactly emotionally or mentally stable and she is the most supporting girlfriend but everytime she does this it really kills me. Its worse because she lies and denies it and I can't trust her about it. \n\nI've talked to her about this before but the conversation usually dies out and nothing gets fixed. I brought it up last night and she said it was about her mum and then said \"Well its the truth so don't believe it if you don't want to\" but she even admitted that it was ambiguous enough to be about me. \n_"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically whenever I do something wrong that annoys her she posts something to tumblr but then fervently lies and denies it being about me which it obviously is because in some cases its 30seconds after it happens. An example of this is last night she was saying how much she wanted to buy a camera and I was being a dick and I was really condescending to her (I said do you even know what the sensor is?). I said sorry and I go to check her tumblr like I usually do after things like this happen and there is a post 30seconds ago.\n> did I ask?\n> #ffs\n\nI'm not exactly emotionally or mentally stable and she is the most supporting girlfriend but everytime she does this it really kills me. Its worse because she lies and denies it and I can't trust her about it. \n\nI've talked to her about this before but the conversation usually dies out and nothing gets fixed. I brought it up last night and she said it was about her mum and then said \"Well its the truth so don't believe it if you don't want to\" but she even admitted that it was ambiguous enough to be about me. \n_"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically whenever I do something wrong that annoys her she posts something to tumblr but then fervently lies and denies it being about me which it obviously is because in some cases its 30seconds after it happens. An example of this is last night she was saying how much she wanted to buy a camera and I was being a dick and I was really condescending to her (I said do you even know what the sensor is?). I said sorry and I go to check her tumblr like I usually do after things like this happen and there is a post 30seconds ago.\n> did I ask?\n> #ffs\n\nI'm not exactly emotionally or mentally stable and she is the most supporting girlfriend but everytime she does this it really kills me. Its worse because she lies and denies it and I can't trust her about it. \n\nI've talked to her about this before but the conversation usually dies out and nothing gets fixed. I brought it up last night and she said it was about her mum and then said \"Well its the truth so don't believe it if you don't want to\" but she even admitted that it was ambiguous enough to be about me. \n_"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically whenever I do something wrong that annoys her she posts something to tumblr but then fervently lies and denies it being about me which it obviously is because in some cases its 30seconds after it happens. An example of this is last night she was saying how much she wanted to buy a camera and I was being a dick and I was really condescending to her (I said do you even know what the sensor is?). I said sorry and I go to check her tumblr like I usually do after things like this happen and there is a post 30seconds ago.\n> did I ask?\n> #ffs\n\nI'm not exactly emotionally or mentally stable and she is the most supporting girlfriend but everytime she does this it really kills me. Its worse because she lies and denies it and I can't trust her about it. \n\nI've talked to her about this before but the conversation usually dies out and nothing gets fixed. I brought it up last night and she said it was about her mum and then said \"Well its the truth so don't believe it if you don't want to\" but she even admitted that it was ambiguous enough to be about me. \n_"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically whenever I do something wrong that annoys her she posts something to tumblr but then fervently lies and denies it being about me which it obviously is because in some cases its 30seconds after it happens. An example of this is last night she was saying how much she wanted to buy a camera and I was being a dick and I was really condescending to her (I said do you even know what the sensor is?). I said sorry and I go to check her tumblr like I usually do after things like this happen and there is a post 30seconds ago.\n> did I ask?\n> #ffs\n\nI'm not exactly emotionally or mentally stable and she is the most supporting girlfriend but everytime she does this it really kills me. Its worse because she lies and denies it and I can't trust her about it. \n\nI've talked to her about this before but the conversation usually dies out and nothing gets fixed. I brought it up last night and she said it was about her mum and then said \"Well its the truth so don't believe it if you don't want to\" but she even admitted that it was ambiguous enough to be about me. \n_"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Basically whenever I do something wrong that annoys her she posts something to tumblr but then fervently lies and denies it being about me which it obviously is because in some cases its 30seconds after it happens. An example of this is last night she was saying how much she wanted to buy a camera and I was being a dick and I was really condescending to her (I said do you even know what the sensor is?). I said sorry and I go to check her tumblr like I usually do after things like this happen and there is a post 30seconds ago.\n> did I ask?\n> #ffs\n\nI'm not exactly emotionally or mentally stable and she is the most supporting girlfriend but everytime she does this it really kills me. Its worse because she lies and denies it and I can't trust her about it. \n\nI've talked to her about this before but the conversation usually dies out and nothing gets fixed. I brought it up last night and she said it was about her mum and then said \"Well its the truth so don't believe it if you don't want to\" but she even admitted that it was ambiguous enough to be about me. \n_"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently \"male,\" however I do not wish to be. Ever since I can remember I have felt like a girl, a tom boyish girl but a girl. I believe my family will come to terms with it eventually, even my two brothers. The question I have is what should I do about my girlfriend? we have been dating for 2 years. During this time I have been trying to suppress my feelings, thinking that maybe they would go away but they have grown and I feel more now than ever that I should transition. I have told her that I love her (and I do love her) and I told her that I want to marry her and have kids (this is the lie). I thought that I could learn to want this. I don't want to be like this, I feel like a freak at times, but I cannot help how I feel. The main reason I'm asking reddit is because we are currently in college and I was wondering if I should wait until the end of the semester or until the end of our senior year? I don't want to hurt her I do love her, she is my best friend, I'm just not in love with her. I don't want to cause her to become depressed and have troubles in school or flunk out, I do believe that is a possibility. She is madly in love with me and I know when I come out it will break her heart, I don't want it to ruin her life if she drops out, but at the same time I don't want to wait as the longer it goes on the more it will hurt her when I tell her. I also don't want to wait too long as I am 21 now and the longer I wait the harder it will be to transition successfully. So reddit, any advice would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently \"male,\" however I do not wish to be. Ever since I can remember I have felt like a girl, a tom boyish girl but a girl. I believe my family will come to terms with it eventually, even my two brothers. The question I have is what should I do about my girlfriend? we have been dating for 2 years. During this time I have been trying to suppress my feelings, thinking that maybe they would go away but they have grown and I feel more now than ever that I should transition. I have told her that I love her (and I do love her) and I told her that I want to marry her and have kids (this is the lie). I thought that I could learn to want this. I don't want to be like this, I feel like a freak at times, but I cannot help how I feel. The main reason I'm asking reddit is because we are currently in college and I was wondering if I should wait until the end of the semester or until the end of our senior year? I don't want to hurt her I do love her, she is my best friend, I'm just not in love with her. I don't want to cause her to become depressed and have troubles in school or flunk out, I do believe that is a possibility. She is madly in love with me and I know when I come out it will break her heart, I don't want it to ruin her life if she drops out, but at the same time I don't want to wait as the longer it goes on the more it will hurt her when I tell her. I also don't want to wait too long as I am 21 now and the longer I wait the harder it will be to transition successfully. So reddit, any advice would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently \"male,\" however I do not wish to be. Ever since I can remember I have felt like a girl, a tom boyish girl but a girl. I believe my family will come to terms with it eventually, even my two brothers. The question I have is what should I do about my girlfriend? we have been dating for 2 years. During this time I have been trying to suppress my feelings, thinking that maybe they would go away but they have grown and I feel more now than ever that I should transition. I have told her that I love her (and I do love her) and I told her that I want to marry her and have kids (this is the lie). I thought that I could learn to want this. I don't want to be like this, I feel like a freak at times, but I cannot help how I feel. The main reason I'm asking reddit is because we are currently in college and I was wondering if I should wait until the end of the semester or until the end of our senior year? I don't want to hurt her I do love her, she is my best friend, I'm just not in love with her. I don't want to cause her to become depressed and have troubles in school or flunk out, I do believe that is a possibility. She is madly in love with me and I know when I come out it will break her heart, I don't want it to ruin her life if she drops out, but at the same time I don't want to wait as the longer it goes on the more it will hurt her when I tell her. I also don't want to wait too long as I am 21 now and the longer I wait the harder it will be to transition successfully. So reddit, any advice would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently \"male,\" however I do not wish to be. Ever since I can remember I have felt like a girl, a tom boyish girl but a girl. I believe my family will come to terms with it eventually, even my two brothers. The question I have is what should I do about my girlfriend? we have been dating for 2 years. During this time I have been trying to suppress my feelings, thinking that maybe they would go away but they have grown and I feel more now than ever that I should transition. I have told her that I love her (and I do love her) and I told her that I want to marry her and have kids (this is the lie). I thought that I could learn to want this. I don't want to be like this, I feel like a freak at times, but I cannot help how I feel. The main reason I'm asking reddit is because we are currently in college and I was wondering if I should wait until the end of the semester or until the end of our senior year? I don't want to hurt her I do love her, she is my best friend, I'm just not in love with her. I don't want to cause her to become depressed and have troubles in school or flunk out, I do believe that is a possibility. She is madly in love with me and I know when I come out it will break her heart, I don't want it to ruin her life if she drops out, but at the same time I don't want to wait as the longer it goes on the more it will hurt her when I tell her. I also don't want to wait too long as I am 21 now and the longer I wait the harder it will be to transition successfully. So reddit, any advice would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently \"male,\" however I do not wish to be. Ever since I can remember I have felt like a girl, a tom boyish girl but a girl. I believe my family will come to terms with it eventually, even my two brothers. The question I have is what should I do about my girlfriend? we have been dating for 2 years. During this time I have been trying to suppress my feelings, thinking that maybe they would go away but they have grown and I feel more now than ever that I should transition. I have told her that I love her (and I do love her) and I told her that I want to marry her and have kids (this is the lie). I thought that I could learn to want this. I don't want to be like this, I feel like a freak at times, but I cannot help how I feel. The main reason I'm asking reddit is because we are currently in college and I was wondering if I should wait until the end of the semester or until the end of our senior year? I don't want to hurt her I do love her, she is my best friend, I'm just not in love with her. I don't want to cause her to become depressed and have troubles in school or flunk out, I do believe that is a possibility. She is madly in love with me and I know when I come out it will break her heart, I don't want it to ruin her life if she drops out, but at the same time I don't want to wait as the longer it goes on the more it will hurt her when I tell her. I also don't want to wait too long as I am 21 now and the longer I wait the harder it will be to transition successfully. So reddit, any advice would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am currently \"male,\" however I do not wish to be. Ever since I can remember I have felt like a girl, a tom boyish girl but a girl. I believe my family will come to terms with it eventually, even my two brothers. The question I have is what should I do about my girlfriend? we have been dating for 2 years. During this time I have been trying to suppress my feelings, thinking that maybe they would go away but they have grown and I feel more now than ever that I should transition. I have told her that I love her (and I do love her) and I told her that I want to marry her and have kids (this is the lie). I thought that I could learn to want this. I don't want to be like this, I feel like a freak at times, but I cannot help how I feel. The main reason I'm asking reddit is because we are currently in college and I was wondering if I should wait until the end of the semester or until the end of our senior year? I don't want to hurt her I do love her, she is my best friend, I'm just not in love with her. I don't want to cause her to become depressed and have troubles in school or flunk out, I do believe that is a possibility. She is madly in love with me and I know when I come out it will break her heart, I don't want it to ruin her life if she drops out, but at the same time I don't want to wait as the longer it goes on the more it will hurt her when I tell her. I also don't want to wait too long as I am 21 now and the longer I wait the harder it will be to transition successfully. So reddit, any advice would be greatly appreciated."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there Reddit. I am feeling pretty hopeless right now, and am looking for someone to do me a huge favor. Here is the scenario:\n\nI plan on going to Jackson, WY to climb the Grand Teton with my stepmom for her 60th birthday (she is awesome btw). Problem is I tried using the Priceline 'Name Your Own Price' Reservation, which said you cannot change, cancel, or refund your ticket. \n\nThen this morning I had the, \"OH S$%#\" moment, because I forgot that my girlfriend's family is having a huge celebration for her grandparent's 60 wedding anniversary. The whole family is coming from across the country to meet up and will probably be the last time the family will be together like this. I thought the party was the weekend before, but it turns out they are getting in town a week early and the party is the next week. So, I am in quite a rough situation.\n\nSo, I am hoping and praying that there is someone out there who can cancel my ticket reservation or help me get some kind or reimbursement or voucher for it towards another flight - or any type of help! I realize I am going to lose money, and I will cash out my meager savings in order to not disappoint her and avoid the stress of the whole situation. I called Priceline's customer service multiple times, but they couldn't do anything for me.\n\nIf anyone can help me with a Priceline 'Name Your Own Price' cancellation I would be forever grateful."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there Reddit. I am feeling pretty hopeless right now, and am looking for someone to do me a huge favor. Here is the scenario:\n\nI plan on going to Jackson, WY to climb the Grand Teton with my stepmom for her 60th birthday (she is awesome btw). Problem is I tried using the Priceline 'Name Your Own Price' Reservation, which said you cannot change, cancel, or refund your ticket. \n\nThen this morning I had the, \"OH S$%#\" moment, because I forgot that my girlfriend's family is having a huge celebration for her grandparent's 60 wedding anniversary. The whole family is coming from across the country to meet up and will probably be the last time the family will be together like this. I thought the party was the weekend before, but it turns out they are getting in town a week early and the party is the next week. So, I am in quite a rough situation.\n\nSo, I am hoping and praying that there is someone out there who can cancel my ticket reservation or help me get some kind or reimbursement or voucher for it towards another flight - or any type of help! I realize I am going to lose money, and I will cash out my meager savings in order to not disappoint her and avoid the stress of the whole situation. I called Priceline's customer service multiple times, but they couldn't do anything for me.\n\nIf anyone can help me with a Priceline 'Name Your Own Price' cancellation I would be forever grateful."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there Reddit. I am feeling pretty hopeless right now, and am looking for someone to do me a huge favor. Here is the scenario:\n\nI plan on going to Jackson, WY to climb the Grand Teton with my stepmom for her 60th birthday (she is awesome btw). Problem is I tried using the Priceline 'Name Your Own Price' Reservation, which said you cannot change, cancel, or refund your ticket. \n\nThen this morning I had the, \"OH S$%#\" moment, because I forgot that my girlfriend's family is having a huge celebration for her grandparent's 60 wedding anniversary. The whole family is coming from across the country to meet up and will probably be the last time the family will be together like this. I thought the party was the weekend before, but it turns out they are getting in town a week early and the party is the next week. So, I am in quite a rough situation.\n\nSo, I am hoping and praying that there is someone out there who can cancel my ticket reservation or help me get some kind or reimbursement or voucher for it towards another flight - or any type of help! I realize I am going to lose money, and I will cash out my meager savings in order to not disappoint her and avoid the stress of the whole situation. I called Priceline's customer service multiple times, but they couldn't do anything for me.\n\nIf anyone can help me with a Priceline 'Name Your Own Price' cancellation I would be forever grateful."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there Reddit. I am feeling pretty hopeless right now, and am looking for someone to do me a huge favor. Here is the scenario:\n\nI plan on going to Jackson, WY to climb the Grand Teton with my stepmom for her 60th birthday (she is awesome btw). Problem is I tried using the Priceline 'Name Your Own Price' Reservation, which said you cannot change, cancel, or refund your ticket. \n\nThen this morning I had the, \"OH S$%#\" moment, because I forgot that my girlfriend's family is having a huge celebration for her grandparent's 60 wedding anniversary. The whole family is coming from across the country to meet up and will probably be the last time the family will be together like this. I thought the party was the weekend before, but it turns out they are getting in town a week early and the party is the next week. So, I am in quite a rough situation.\n\nSo, I am hoping and praying that there is someone out there who can cancel my ticket reservation or help me get some kind or reimbursement or voucher for it towards another flight - or any type of help! I realize I am going to lose money, and I will cash out my meager savings in order to not disappoint her and avoid the stress of the whole situation. I called Priceline's customer service multiple times, but they couldn't do anything for me.\n\nIf anyone can help me with a Priceline 'Name Your Own Price' cancellation I would be forever grateful."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there Reddit. I am feeling pretty hopeless right now, and am looking for someone to do me a huge favor. Here is the scenario:\n\nI plan on going to Jackson, WY to climb the Grand Teton with my stepmom for her 60th birthday (she is awesome btw). Problem is I tried using the Priceline 'Name Your Own Price' Reservation, which said you cannot change, cancel, or refund your ticket. \n\nThen this morning I had the, \"OH S$%#\" moment, because I forgot that my girlfriend's family is having a huge celebration for her grandparent's 60 wedding anniversary. The whole family is coming from across the country to meet up and will probably be the last time the family will be together like this. I thought the party was the weekend before, but it turns out they are getting in town a week early and the party is the next week. So, I am in quite a rough situation.\n\nSo, I am hoping and praying that there is someone out there who can cancel my ticket reservation or help me get some kind or reimbursement or voucher for it towards another flight - or any type of help! I realize I am going to lose money, and I will cash out my meager savings in order to not disappoint her and avoid the stress of the whole situation. I called Priceline's customer service multiple times, but they couldn't do anything for me.\n\nIf anyone can help me with a Priceline 'Name Your Own Price' cancellation I would be forever grateful."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there Reddit. I am feeling pretty hopeless right now, and am looking for someone to do me a huge favor. Here is the scenario:\n\nI plan on going to Jackson, WY to climb the Grand Teton with my stepmom for her 60th birthday (she is awesome btw). Problem is I tried using the Priceline 'Name Your Own Price' Reservation, which said you cannot change, cancel, or refund your ticket. \n\nThen this morning I had the, \"OH S$%#\" moment, because I forgot that my girlfriend's family is having a huge celebration for her grandparent's 60 wedding anniversary. The whole family is coming from across the country to meet up and will probably be the last time the family will be together like this. I thought the party was the weekend before, but it turns out they are getting in town a week early and the party is the next week. So, I am in quite a rough situation.\n\nSo, I am hoping and praying that there is someone out there who can cancel my ticket reservation or help me get some kind or reimbursement or voucher for it towards another flight - or any type of help! I realize I am going to lose money, and I will cash out my meager savings in order to not disappoint her and avoid the stress of the whole situation. I called Priceline's customer service multiple times, but they couldn't do anything for me.\n\nIf anyone can help me with a Priceline 'Name Your Own Price' cancellation I would be forever grateful."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My brother has a mild case of aspergers. It doesn't really affect his ability to learn, aside from the fact that he needs some extra time on tests and things of that sort, but he has a really hard time making friends and I worry about him.\n\nHe has a fear of opening up to people that comes from his disorder and from terrible bullying throughout elementary school and middle school, and that fear causes him to behave strangely. All those years of missed social interaction leaves him with the interpersonal skills of someone much younger. Things like carrying a conversation and talking to strangers are very difficult for him. The bullying as a child caused him to retreat to video games as his only real hobby, and now he really can't talk to anybody about much else. My mother is now calling on me, the \"social butterfly\" of the family to help him out, and I really don't know what to do. I've somehow managed to have a great group of friends but I don't know how to help someone do the same.\n\nHe has just come home from his first year of college, and he has absolutely nothing to do. He never really had that close of high school friends, and the same goes for college so he has nobody aside from me and my mother to talk to. Any advice or experience you have would be wonderful."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My brother has a mild case of aspergers. It doesn't really affect his ability to learn, aside from the fact that he needs some extra time on tests and things of that sort, but he has a really hard time making friends and I worry about him.\n\nHe has a fear of opening up to people that comes from his disorder and from terrible bullying throughout elementary school and middle school, and that fear causes him to behave strangely. All those years of missed social interaction leaves him with the interpersonal skills of someone much younger. Things like carrying a conversation and talking to strangers are very difficult for him. The bullying as a child caused him to retreat to video games as his only real hobby, and now he really can't talk to anybody about much else. My mother is now calling on me, the \"social butterfly\" of the family to help him out, and I really don't know what to do. I've somehow managed to have a great group of friends but I don't know how to help someone do the same.\n\nHe has just come home from his first year of college, and he has absolutely nothing to do. He never really had that close of high school friends, and the same goes for college so he has nobody aside from me and my mother to talk to. Any advice or experience you have would be wonderful."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My brother has a mild case of aspergers. It doesn't really affect his ability to learn, aside from the fact that he needs some extra time on tests and things of that sort, but he has a really hard time making friends and I worry about him.\n\nHe has a fear of opening up to people that comes from his disorder and from terrible bullying throughout elementary school and middle school, and that fear causes him to behave strangely. All those years of missed social interaction leaves him with the interpersonal skills of someone much younger. Things like carrying a conversation and talking to strangers are very difficult for him. The bullying as a child caused him to retreat to video games as his only real hobby, and now he really can't talk to anybody about much else. My mother is now calling on me, the \"social butterfly\" of the family to help him out, and I really don't know what to do. I've somehow managed to have a great group of friends but I don't know how to help someone do the same.\n\nHe has just come home from his first year of college, and he has absolutely nothing to do. He never really had that close of high school friends, and the same goes for college so he has nobody aside from me and my mother to talk to. Any advice or experience you have would be wonderful."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My brother has a mild case of aspergers. It doesn't really affect his ability to learn, aside from the fact that he needs some extra time on tests and things of that sort, but he has a really hard time making friends and I worry about him.\n\nHe has a fear of opening up to people that comes from his disorder and from terrible bullying throughout elementary school and middle school, and that fear causes him to behave strangely. All those years of missed social interaction leaves him with the interpersonal skills of someone much younger. Things like carrying a conversation and talking to strangers are very difficult for him. The bullying as a child caused him to retreat to video games as his only real hobby, and now he really can't talk to anybody about much else. My mother is now calling on me, the \"social butterfly\" of the family to help him out, and I really don't know what to do. I've somehow managed to have a great group of friends but I don't know how to help someone do the same.\n\nHe has just come home from his first year of college, and he has absolutely nothing to do. He never really had that close of high school friends, and the same goes for college so he has nobody aside from me and my mother to talk to. Any advice or experience you have would be wonderful."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My brother has a mild case of aspergers. It doesn't really affect his ability to learn, aside from the fact that he needs some extra time on tests and things of that sort, but he has a really hard time making friends and I worry about him.\n\nHe has a fear of opening up to people that comes from his disorder and from terrible bullying throughout elementary school and middle school, and that fear causes him to behave strangely. All those years of missed social interaction leaves him with the interpersonal skills of someone much younger. Things like carrying a conversation and talking to strangers are very difficult for him. The bullying as a child caused him to retreat to video games as his only real hobby, and now he really can't talk to anybody about much else. My mother is now calling on me, the \"social butterfly\" of the family to help him out, and I really don't know what to do. I've somehow managed to have a great group of friends but I don't know how to help someone do the same.\n\nHe has just come home from his first year of college, and he has absolutely nothing to do. He never really had that close of high school friends, and the same goes for college so he has nobody aside from me and my mother to talk to. Any advice or experience you have would be wonderful."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My brother has a mild case of aspergers. It doesn't really affect his ability to learn, aside from the fact that he needs some extra time on tests and things of that sort, but he has a really hard time making friends and I worry about him.\n\nHe has a fear of opening up to people that comes from his disorder and from terrible bullying throughout elementary school and middle school, and that fear causes him to behave strangely. All those years of missed social interaction leaves him with the interpersonal skills of someone much younger. Things like carrying a conversation and talking to strangers are very difficult for him. The bullying as a child caused him to retreat to video games as his only real hobby, and now he really can't talk to anybody about much else. My mother is now calling on me, the \"social butterfly\" of the family to help him out, and I really don't know what to do. I've somehow managed to have a great group of friends but I don't know how to help someone do the same.\n\nHe has just come home from his first year of college, and he has absolutely nothing to do. He never really had that close of high school friends, and the same goes for college so he has nobody aside from me and my mother to talk to. Any advice or experience you have would be wonderful."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am considering taking a job at a company, but my current company made me sign a noncompete. I am in an industry where trade secrets are taken pretty seriously, and my role has exposed me to some of those. The language of the noncompete says I cannot work for any company that is a \"direct competitor\". Frankly, I really don't _think_ the new company is a direct competitor, but I can kinda sorta see how they might _arguably_ compete on a particular product line.\n\nNow, the new company's legal department reviewed my noncompete and said they'd be okay with hiring me, but if my old company did anything to threaten legal action during the noncompete period, they'd be forced to fire me to avoid a legal battle. So essentially, if they did so much as send a cease and desist letter, I'd be out of a job.\n\nThese companies sometimes attend functions together, and people talk, so I don't think I can count on them never finding out I went to work there. Ideally, I would like to find out if working there would violate my noncompete BEFORE accepting the offer. But asking legal/HR that question might raise some red flags, and I might lose both jobs."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am considering taking a job at a company, but my current company made me sign a noncompete. I am in an industry where trade secrets are taken pretty seriously, and my role has exposed me to some of those. The language of the noncompete says I cannot work for any company that is a \"direct competitor\". Frankly, I really don't _think_ the new company is a direct competitor, but I can kinda sorta see how they might _arguably_ compete on a particular product line.\n\nNow, the new company's legal department reviewed my noncompete and said they'd be okay with hiring me, but if my old company did anything to threaten legal action during the noncompete period, they'd be forced to fire me to avoid a legal battle. So essentially, if they did so much as send a cease and desist letter, I'd be out of a job.\n\nThese companies sometimes attend functions together, and people talk, so I don't think I can count on them never finding out I went to work there. Ideally, I would like to find out if working there would violate my noncompete BEFORE accepting the offer. But asking legal/HR that question might raise some red flags, and I might lose both jobs."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am considering taking a job at a company, but my current company made me sign a noncompete. I am in an industry where trade secrets are taken pretty seriously, and my role has exposed me to some of those. The language of the noncompete says I cannot work for any company that is a \"direct competitor\". Frankly, I really don't _think_ the new company is a direct competitor, but I can kinda sorta see how they might _arguably_ compete on a particular product line.\n\nNow, the new company's legal department reviewed my noncompete and said they'd be okay with hiring me, but if my old company did anything to threaten legal action during the noncompete period, they'd be forced to fire me to avoid a legal battle. So essentially, if they did so much as send a cease and desist letter, I'd be out of a job.\n\nThese companies sometimes attend functions together, and people talk, so I don't think I can count on them never finding out I went to work there. Ideally, I would like to find out if working there would violate my noncompete BEFORE accepting the offer. But asking legal/HR that question might raise some red flags, and I might lose both jobs."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am considering taking a job at a company, but my current company made me sign a noncompete. I am in an industry where trade secrets are taken pretty seriously, and my role has exposed me to some of those. The language of the noncompete says I cannot work for any company that is a \"direct competitor\". Frankly, I really don't _think_ the new company is a direct competitor, but I can kinda sorta see how they might _arguably_ compete on a particular product line.\n\nNow, the new company's legal department reviewed my noncompete and said they'd be okay with hiring me, but if my old company did anything to threaten legal action during the noncompete period, they'd be forced to fire me to avoid a legal battle. So essentially, if they did so much as send a cease and desist letter, I'd be out of a job.\n\nThese companies sometimes attend functions together, and people talk, so I don't think I can count on them never finding out I went to work there. Ideally, I would like to find out if working there would violate my noncompete BEFORE accepting the offer. But asking legal/HR that question might raise some red flags, and I might lose both jobs."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am considering taking a job at a company, but my current company made me sign a noncompete. I am in an industry where trade secrets are taken pretty seriously, and my role has exposed me to some of those. The language of the noncompete says I cannot work for any company that is a \"direct competitor\". Frankly, I really don't _think_ the new company is a direct competitor, but I can kinda sorta see how they might _arguably_ compete on a particular product line.\n\nNow, the new company's legal department reviewed my noncompete and said they'd be okay with hiring me, but if my old company did anything to threaten legal action during the noncompete period, they'd be forced to fire me to avoid a legal battle. So essentially, if they did so much as send a cease and desist letter, I'd be out of a job.\n\nThese companies sometimes attend functions together, and people talk, so I don't think I can count on them never finding out I went to work there. Ideally, I would like to find out if working there would violate my noncompete BEFORE accepting the offer. But asking legal/HR that question might raise some red flags, and I might lose both jobs."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am considering taking a job at a company, but my current company made me sign a noncompete. I am in an industry where trade secrets are taken pretty seriously, and my role has exposed me to some of those. The language of the noncompete says I cannot work for any company that is a \"direct competitor\". Frankly, I really don't _think_ the new company is a direct competitor, but I can kinda sorta see how they might _arguably_ compete on a particular product line.\n\nNow, the new company's legal department reviewed my noncompete and said they'd be okay with hiring me, but if my old company did anything to threaten legal action during the noncompete period, they'd be forced to fire me to avoid a legal battle. So essentially, if they did so much as send a cease and desist letter, I'd be out of a job.\n\nThese companies sometimes attend functions together, and people talk, so I don't think I can count on them never finding out I went to work there. Ideally, I would like to find out if working there would violate my noncompete BEFORE accepting the offer. But asking legal/HR that question might raise some red flags, and I might lose both jobs."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I am going away to college in two months, and my mom is not handling this well at all. Our relationship had been better than ever the past few months, but I asked her to schedule me an appointment for my anxiety issues a week ago and didn't want to talk to her about it (because of anxiety) and she is very angry and hurt because of it. She thinks I don't talk to her about what's going on in my life, and even if that's true, it seems like a very weird thing to get so angry about that now I don't want to talk to her at all. From the way she's acting I'm pretty sure she's never going to let me leave anymore and I have a trip planned at the end of this month that she had already approved and I'm going on it no matter what she says. \n\nMy boyfriend is going to the same college as I am, and his parents love me and told my boyfriend last night that if things get bad I am totally welcome in their house until August when we leave. I don't know whether I should take them up on this. I want nothing more than to leave, and I'm 18 and will be gone in 2 months anyway. I'm just worried about what she will do, and I don't want our relationship to be destroyed. Not that we're doing so great right now. I just want someone's more grown up opinion on whether I should try to stick it out while my mom probably puts me on lock down for 2 months. \n\nAnother note, I have had a job for 3 years and am basically independent other than sleeping under her roof, and my college is almost entirely paid for my scholarships. All my boyfriend's family would be giving me is a place to stay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I am going away to college in two months, and my mom is not handling this well at all. Our relationship had been better than ever the past few months, but I asked her to schedule me an appointment for my anxiety issues a week ago and didn't want to talk to her about it (because of anxiety) and she is very angry and hurt because of it. She thinks I don't talk to her about what's going on in my life, and even if that's true, it seems like a very weird thing to get so angry about that now I don't want to talk to her at all. From the way she's acting I'm pretty sure she's never going to let me leave anymore and I have a trip planned at the end of this month that she had already approved and I'm going on it no matter what she says. \n\nMy boyfriend is going to the same college as I am, and his parents love me and told my boyfriend last night that if things get bad I am totally welcome in their house until August when we leave. I don't know whether I should take them up on this. I want nothing more than to leave, and I'm 18 and will be gone in 2 months anyway. I'm just worried about what she will do, and I don't want our relationship to be destroyed. Not that we're doing so great right now. I just want someone's more grown up opinion on whether I should try to stick it out while my mom probably puts me on lock down for 2 months. \n\nAnother note, I have had a job for 3 years and am basically independent other than sleeping under her roof, and my college is almost entirely paid for my scholarships. All my boyfriend's family would be giving me is a place to stay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I am going away to college in two months, and my mom is not handling this well at all. Our relationship had been better than ever the past few months, but I asked her to schedule me an appointment for my anxiety issues a week ago and didn't want to talk to her about it (because of anxiety) and she is very angry and hurt because of it. She thinks I don't talk to her about what's going on in my life, and even if that's true, it seems like a very weird thing to get so angry about that now I don't want to talk to her at all. From the way she's acting I'm pretty sure she's never going to let me leave anymore and I have a trip planned at the end of this month that she had already approved and I'm going on it no matter what she says. \n\nMy boyfriend is going to the same college as I am, and his parents love me and told my boyfriend last night that if things get bad I am totally welcome in their house until August when we leave. I don't know whether I should take them up on this. I want nothing more than to leave, and I'm 18 and will be gone in 2 months anyway. I'm just worried about what she will do, and I don't want our relationship to be destroyed. Not that we're doing so great right now. I just want someone's more grown up opinion on whether I should try to stick it out while my mom probably puts me on lock down for 2 months. \n\nAnother note, I have had a job for 3 years and am basically independent other than sleeping under her roof, and my college is almost entirely paid for my scholarships. All my boyfriend's family would be giving me is a place to stay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I am going away to college in two months, and my mom is not handling this well at all. Our relationship had been better than ever the past few months, but I asked her to schedule me an appointment for my anxiety issues a week ago and didn't want to talk to her about it (because of anxiety) and she is very angry and hurt because of it. She thinks I don't talk to her about what's going on in my life, and even if that's true, it seems like a very weird thing to get so angry about that now I don't want to talk to her at all. From the way she's acting I'm pretty sure she's never going to let me leave anymore and I have a trip planned at the end of this month that she had already approved and I'm going on it no matter what she says. \n\nMy boyfriend is going to the same college as I am, and his parents love me and told my boyfriend last night that if things get bad I am totally welcome in their house until August when we leave. I don't know whether I should take them up on this. I want nothing more than to leave, and I'm 18 and will be gone in 2 months anyway. I'm just worried about what she will do, and I don't want our relationship to be destroyed. Not that we're doing so great right now. I just want someone's more grown up opinion on whether I should try to stick it out while my mom probably puts me on lock down for 2 months. \n\nAnother note, I have had a job for 3 years and am basically independent other than sleeping under her roof, and my college is almost entirely paid for my scholarships. All my boyfriend's family would be giving me is a place to stay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I am going away to college in two months, and my mom is not handling this well at all. Our relationship had been better than ever the past few months, but I asked her to schedule me an appointment for my anxiety issues a week ago and didn't want to talk to her about it (because of anxiety) and she is very angry and hurt because of it. She thinks I don't talk to her about what's going on in my life, and even if that's true, it seems like a very weird thing to get so angry about that now I don't want to talk to her at all. From the way she's acting I'm pretty sure she's never going to let me leave anymore and I have a trip planned at the end of this month that she had already approved and I'm going on it no matter what she says. \n\nMy boyfriend is going to the same college as I am, and his parents love me and told my boyfriend last night that if things get bad I am totally welcome in their house until August when we leave. I don't know whether I should take them up on this. I want nothing more than to leave, and I'm 18 and will be gone in 2 months anyway. I'm just worried about what she will do, and I don't want our relationship to be destroyed. Not that we're doing so great right now. I just want someone's more grown up opinion on whether I should try to stick it out while my mom probably puts me on lock down for 2 months. \n\nAnother note, I have had a job for 3 years and am basically independent other than sleeping under her roof, and my college is almost entirely paid for my scholarships. All my boyfriend's family would be giving me is a place to stay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I am going away to college in two months, and my mom is not handling this well at all. Our relationship had been better than ever the past few months, but I asked her to schedule me an appointment for my anxiety issues a week ago and didn't want to talk to her about it (because of anxiety) and she is very angry and hurt because of it. She thinks I don't talk to her about what's going on in my life, and even if that's true, it seems like a very weird thing to get so angry about that now I don't want to talk to her at all. From the way she's acting I'm pretty sure she's never going to let me leave anymore and I have a trip planned at the end of this month that she had already approved and I'm going on it no matter what she says. \n\nMy boyfriend is going to the same college as I am, and his parents love me and told my boyfriend last night that if things get bad I am totally welcome in their house until August when we leave. I don't know whether I should take them up on this. I want nothing more than to leave, and I'm 18 and will be gone in 2 months anyway. I'm just worried about what she will do, and I don't want our relationship to be destroyed. Not that we're doing so great right now. I just want someone's more grown up opinion on whether I should try to stick it out while my mom probably puts me on lock down for 2 months. \n\nAnother note, I have had a job for 3 years and am basically independent other than sleeping under her roof, and my college is almost entirely paid for my scholarships. All my boyfriend's family would be giving me is a place to stay."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So Im the one that usually does the laundry (wife does it every once in a while but I have more time to do it since im on rotating shifts) anyway this TIFU was finally discovered yesterday, as usual I went to put in a load and when I was about to add the detergent the instructions on the washers lid finally won my attention and I read it. I had been throwing the detergent on top of the clothes but this washer needs it first thing at the bottom. Holy shit! I've been doing it wrong for over a year and a half, its not like my clothes had ever been dirty or smelly but now I can really tell theyre clean and the scent of detergent is present on things as it should be, I figure I was only getting 20% effectiveness out of the way I was doing it, shit im dumb sometimes.\n\nI guess it pays to read the instructions sometimes."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So Im the one that usually does the laundry (wife does it every once in a while but I have more time to do it since im on rotating shifts) anyway this TIFU was finally discovered yesterday, as usual I went to put in a load and when I was about to add the detergent the instructions on the washers lid finally won my attention and I read it. I had been throwing the detergent on top of the clothes but this washer needs it first thing at the bottom. Holy shit! I've been doing it wrong for over a year and a half, its not like my clothes had ever been dirty or smelly but now I can really tell theyre clean and the scent of detergent is present on things as it should be, I figure I was only getting 20% effectiveness out of the way I was doing it, shit im dumb sometimes.\n\nI guess it pays to read the instructions sometimes."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So Im the one that usually does the laundry (wife does it every once in a while but I have more time to do it since im on rotating shifts) anyway this TIFU was finally discovered yesterday, as usual I went to put in a load and when I was about to add the detergent the instructions on the washers lid finally won my attention and I read it. I had been throwing the detergent on top of the clothes but this washer needs it first thing at the bottom. Holy shit! I've been doing it wrong for over a year and a half, its not like my clothes had ever been dirty or smelly but now I can really tell theyre clean and the scent of detergent is present on things as it should be, I figure I was only getting 20% effectiveness out of the way I was doing it, shit im dumb sometimes.\n\nI guess it pays to read the instructions sometimes."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So Im the one that usually does the laundry (wife does it every once in a while but I have more time to do it since im on rotating shifts) anyway this TIFU was finally discovered yesterday, as usual I went to put in a load and when I was about to add the detergent the instructions on the washers lid finally won my attention and I read it. I had been throwing the detergent on top of the clothes but this washer needs it first thing at the bottom. Holy shit! I've been doing it wrong for over a year and a half, its not like my clothes had ever been dirty or smelly but now I can really tell theyre clean and the scent of detergent is present on things as it should be, I figure I was only getting 20% effectiveness out of the way I was doing it, shit im dumb sometimes.\n\nI guess it pays to read the instructions sometimes."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 3 years, married for 1. \n \nFor the first 1.5 years of our relationship she was kind and respectful. She acknowledged me as the man of the relationship and I was treated as such. I personally require this responsibility of leadership of the relationship in order to be happy in life. \n \nAfter a bad business venture lasting about a year, during which she was away from her family, we were working every day, not getting much income, and other stresses, she transformed. She transformed into a pseudo-dominant bitch. At this point in life when she gets mad (which is literally at everything I do or say, because LOGICAL thinking and RESPONSIBILITY seem to both piss her off.) she will not hesitate to tell me to fuck off right to my face or to shut up. \n \nI cannot tolerate this much longer. Most of the time we get along fine, we laugh and joke. But she's never more than 3 seconds from a bipolar bitchfit. \n \n99% of our fights come from her wanting to spend money on something (like eating out for the 10th time this week) and me expressing my opinion that we don't have the money and shouldn't. We don't have much money and we really haven't all our relationship but unfortunately her upbringing has her living in a dream world where money grows on trees. I am a very logical thinker, I do not make decisions based on emotion. This made me a fine leader of the relationship. Now with her new self, we butt heads about everything in this \"power struggle\" about decision making. \n \n \nIs there any recovery from this? \n \nI don't understand how two socially dominant people (which she absolutely is not, it's an act. Akin to a toddler at the wheel of a car) can function in a relationship. \n \nIs there any hope of regaining my manhood and respect in this relationship? if so, how?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 3 years, married for 1. \n \nFor the first 1.5 years of our relationship she was kind and respectful. She acknowledged me as the man of the relationship and I was treated as such. I personally require this responsibility of leadership of the relationship in order to be happy in life. \n \nAfter a bad business venture lasting about a year, during which she was away from her family, we were working every day, not getting much income, and other stresses, she transformed. She transformed into a pseudo-dominant bitch. At this point in life when she gets mad (which is literally at everything I do or say, because LOGICAL thinking and RESPONSIBILITY seem to both piss her off.) she will not hesitate to tell me to fuck off right to my face or to shut up. \n \nI cannot tolerate this much longer. Most of the time we get along fine, we laugh and joke. But she's never more than 3 seconds from a bipolar bitchfit. \n \n99% of our fights come from her wanting to spend money on something (like eating out for the 10th time this week) and me expressing my opinion that we don't have the money and shouldn't. We don't have much money and we really haven't all our relationship but unfortunately her upbringing has her living in a dream world where money grows on trees. I am a very logical thinker, I do not make decisions based on emotion. This made me a fine leader of the relationship. Now with her new self, we butt heads about everything in this \"power struggle\" about decision making. \n \n \nIs there any recovery from this? \n \nI don't understand how two socially dominant people (which she absolutely is not, it's an act. Akin to a toddler at the wheel of a car) can function in a relationship. \n \nIs there any hope of regaining my manhood and respect in this relationship? if so, how?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 3 years, married for 1. \n \nFor the first 1.5 years of our relationship she was kind and respectful. She acknowledged me as the man of the relationship and I was treated as such. I personally require this responsibility of leadership of the relationship in order to be happy in life. \n \nAfter a bad business venture lasting about a year, during which she was away from her family, we were working every day, not getting much income, and other stresses, she transformed. She transformed into a pseudo-dominant bitch. At this point in life when she gets mad (which is literally at everything I do or say, because LOGICAL thinking and RESPONSIBILITY seem to both piss her off.) she will not hesitate to tell me to fuck off right to my face or to shut up. \n \nI cannot tolerate this much longer. Most of the time we get along fine, we laugh and joke. But she's never more than 3 seconds from a bipolar bitchfit. \n \n99% of our fights come from her wanting to spend money on something (like eating out for the 10th time this week) and me expressing my opinion that we don't have the money and shouldn't. We don't have much money and we really haven't all our relationship but unfortunately her upbringing has her living in a dream world where money grows on trees. I am a very logical thinker, I do not make decisions based on emotion. This made me a fine leader of the relationship. Now with her new self, we butt heads about everything in this \"power struggle\" about decision making. \n \n \nIs there any recovery from this? \n \nI don't understand how two socially dominant people (which she absolutely is not, it's an act. Akin to a toddler at the wheel of a car) can function in a relationship. \n \nIs there any hope of regaining my manhood and respect in this relationship? if so, how?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 3 years, married for 1. \n \nFor the first 1.5 years of our relationship she was kind and respectful. She acknowledged me as the man of the relationship and I was treated as such. I personally require this responsibility of leadership of the relationship in order to be happy in life. \n \nAfter a bad business venture lasting about a year, during which she was away from her family, we were working every day, not getting much income, and other stresses, she transformed. She transformed into a pseudo-dominant bitch. At this point in life when she gets mad (which is literally at everything I do or say, because LOGICAL thinking and RESPONSIBILITY seem to both piss her off.) she will not hesitate to tell me to fuck off right to my face or to shut up. \n \nI cannot tolerate this much longer. Most of the time we get along fine, we laugh and joke. But she's never more than 3 seconds from a bipolar bitchfit. \n \n99% of our fights come from her wanting to spend money on something (like eating out for the 10th time this week) and me expressing my opinion that we don't have the money and shouldn't. We don't have much money and we really haven't all our relationship but unfortunately her upbringing has her living in a dream world where money grows on trees. I am a very logical thinker, I do not make decisions based on emotion. This made me a fine leader of the relationship. Now with her new self, we butt heads about everything in this \"power struggle\" about decision making. \n \n \nIs there any recovery from this? \n \nI don't understand how two socially dominant people (which she absolutely is not, it's an act. Akin to a toddler at the wheel of a car) can function in a relationship. \n \nIs there any hope of regaining my manhood and respect in this relationship? if so, how?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 3 years, married for 1. \n \nFor the first 1.5 years of our relationship she was kind and respectful. She acknowledged me as the man of the relationship and I was treated as such. I personally require this responsibility of leadership of the relationship in order to be happy in life. \n \nAfter a bad business venture lasting about a year, during which she was away from her family, we were working every day, not getting much income, and other stresses, she transformed. She transformed into a pseudo-dominant bitch. At this point in life when she gets mad (which is literally at everything I do or say, because LOGICAL thinking and RESPONSIBILITY seem to both piss her off.) she will not hesitate to tell me to fuck off right to my face or to shut up. \n \nI cannot tolerate this much longer. Most of the time we get along fine, we laugh and joke. But she's never more than 3 seconds from a bipolar bitchfit. \n \n99% of our fights come from her wanting to spend money on something (like eating out for the 10th time this week) and me expressing my opinion that we don't have the money and shouldn't. We don't have much money and we really haven't all our relationship but unfortunately her upbringing has her living in a dream world where money grows on trees. I am a very logical thinker, I do not make decisions based on emotion. This made me a fine leader of the relationship. Now with her new self, we butt heads about everything in this \"power struggle\" about decision making. \n \n \nIs there any recovery from this? \n \nI don't understand how two socially dominant people (which she absolutely is not, it's an act. Akin to a toddler at the wheel of a car) can function in a relationship. \n \nIs there any hope of regaining my manhood and respect in this relationship? if so, how?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We've been together for 3 years, married for 1. \n \nFor the first 1.5 years of our relationship she was kind and respectful. She acknowledged me as the man of the relationship and I was treated as such. I personally require this responsibility of leadership of the relationship in order to be happy in life. \n \nAfter a bad business venture lasting about a year, during which she was away from her family, we were working every day, not getting much income, and other stresses, she transformed. She transformed into a pseudo-dominant bitch. At this point in life when she gets mad (which is literally at everything I do or say, because LOGICAL thinking and RESPONSIBILITY seem to both piss her off.) she will not hesitate to tell me to fuck off right to my face or to shut up. \n \nI cannot tolerate this much longer. Most of the time we get along fine, we laugh and joke. But she's never more than 3 seconds from a bipolar bitchfit. \n \n99% of our fights come from her wanting to spend money on something (like eating out for the 10th time this week) and me expressing my opinion that we don't have the money and shouldn't. We don't have much money and we really haven't all our relationship but unfortunately her upbringing has her living in a dream world where money grows on trees. I am a very logical thinker, I do not make decisions based on emotion. This made me a fine leader of the relationship. Now with her new self, we butt heads about everything in this \"power struggle\" about decision making. \n \n \nIs there any recovery from this? \n \nI don't understand how two socially dominant people (which she absolutely is not, it's an act. Akin to a toddler at the wheel of a car) can function in a relationship. \n \nIs there any hope of regaining my manhood and respect in this relationship? if so, how?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work for a private company doing labor work. It's me (21 yo female), my sister (25), and our supervisor/boss/owner. \nHe has made several passes at me in the past two months I've worked there. Asking me to be his girlfriend, calling me \"sexy\" \"baby\" \"bombshell\", asking me for some alone time, one-on-one work, just constantly bugging me. I've asked him to cool it, told him no and to please stop, and yesterday when I called to see if he needed me at work he said \"only if you wear that little blue dress from the other day\" referring to when I picked up my paycheck. I told him no and showed up in my shorts and T-shirt. When I arrived he said he was disappointed and started again with the pet names, making an hourglass shape with his hands. My sister told him he needed to stop and he was being inappropriate. I told him that was enough, finished the car I was detailing, and left.\n\nI live in Oregon. So far I've contacted •Occupational Safety & Health\n•EEOC \n•Women's Bureau \n•National Center for Victims of Crime •Department of Human Services \n•Bureau of Labor & Industries \n•Attorney Referral\n•Unemployment \n•Lawyers \n•Discrimination Department (some of those are not the official names but that's where I sought help)\n\nWhat I've learned so far is that in order to do a lawsuit, I have to go through BOLI (bureau of labor and industries) to file a complaint. That process takes up to three months and BOLI representatives told me I do not have sufficient evidence. He has his own video cameras in the garage, but my only witness is my sister. I'm looking into receiving unemployment but for the time being I have no job, no money, and no case.\n\nReddit, what do I do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work for a private company doing labor work. It's me (21 yo female), my sister (25), and our supervisor/boss/owner. \nHe has made several passes at me in the past two months I've worked there. Asking me to be his girlfriend, calling me \"sexy\" \"baby\" \"bombshell\", asking me for some alone time, one-on-one work, just constantly bugging me. I've asked him to cool it, told him no and to please stop, and yesterday when I called to see if he needed me at work he said \"only if you wear that little blue dress from the other day\" referring to when I picked up my paycheck. I told him no and showed up in my shorts and T-shirt. When I arrived he said he was disappointed and started again with the pet names, making an hourglass shape with his hands. My sister told him he needed to stop and he was being inappropriate. I told him that was enough, finished the car I was detailing, and left.\n\nI live in Oregon. So far I've contacted •Occupational Safety & Health\n•EEOC \n•Women's Bureau \n•National Center for Victims of Crime •Department of Human Services \n•Bureau of Labor & Industries \n•Attorney Referral\n•Unemployment \n•Lawyers \n•Discrimination Department (some of those are not the official names but that's where I sought help)\n\nWhat I've learned so far is that in order to do a lawsuit, I have to go through BOLI (bureau of labor and industries) to file a complaint. That process takes up to three months and BOLI representatives told me I do not have sufficient evidence. He has his own video cameras in the garage, but my only witness is my sister. I'm looking into receiving unemployment but for the time being I have no job, no money, and no case.\n\nReddit, what do I do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work for a private company doing labor work. It's me (21 yo female), my sister (25), and our supervisor/boss/owner. \nHe has made several passes at me in the past two months I've worked there. Asking me to be his girlfriend, calling me \"sexy\" \"baby\" \"bombshell\", asking me for some alone time, one-on-one work, just constantly bugging me. I've asked him to cool it, told him no and to please stop, and yesterday when I called to see if he needed me at work he said \"only if you wear that little blue dress from the other day\" referring to when I picked up my paycheck. I told him no and showed up in my shorts and T-shirt. When I arrived he said he was disappointed and started again with the pet names, making an hourglass shape with his hands. My sister told him he needed to stop and he was being inappropriate. I told him that was enough, finished the car I was detailing, and left.\n\nI live in Oregon. So far I've contacted •Occupational Safety & Health\n•EEOC \n•Women's Bureau \n•National Center for Victims of Crime •Department of Human Services \n•Bureau of Labor & Industries \n•Attorney Referral\n•Unemployment \n•Lawyers \n•Discrimination Department (some of those are not the official names but that's where I sought help)\n\nWhat I've learned so far is that in order to do a lawsuit, I have to go through BOLI (bureau of labor and industries) to file a complaint. That process takes up to three months and BOLI representatives told me I do not have sufficient evidence. He has his own video cameras in the garage, but my only witness is my sister. I'm looking into receiving unemployment but for the time being I have no job, no money, and no case.\n\nReddit, what do I do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work for a private company doing labor work. It's me (21 yo female), my sister (25), and our supervisor/boss/owner. \nHe has made several passes at me in the past two months I've worked there. Asking me to be his girlfriend, calling me \"sexy\" \"baby\" \"bombshell\", asking me for some alone time, one-on-one work, just constantly bugging me. I've asked him to cool it, told him no and to please stop, and yesterday when I called to see if he needed me at work he said \"only if you wear that little blue dress from the other day\" referring to when I picked up my paycheck. I told him no and showed up in my shorts and T-shirt. When I arrived he said he was disappointed and started again with the pet names, making an hourglass shape with his hands. My sister told him he needed to stop and he was being inappropriate. I told him that was enough, finished the car I was detailing, and left.\n\nI live in Oregon. So far I've contacted •Occupational Safety & Health\n•EEOC \n•Women's Bureau \n•National Center for Victims of Crime •Department of Human Services \n•Bureau of Labor & Industries \n•Attorney Referral\n•Unemployment \n•Lawyers \n•Discrimination Department (some of those are not the official names but that's where I sought help)\n\nWhat I've learned so far is that in order to do a lawsuit, I have to go through BOLI (bureau of labor and industries) to file a complaint. That process takes up to three months and BOLI representatives told me I do not have sufficient evidence. He has his own video cameras in the garage, but my only witness is my sister. I'm looking into receiving unemployment but for the time being I have no job, no money, and no case.\n\nReddit, what do I do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work for a private company doing labor work. It's me (21 yo female), my sister (25), and our supervisor/boss/owner. \nHe has made several passes at me in the past two months I've worked there. Asking me to be his girlfriend, calling me \"sexy\" \"baby\" \"bombshell\", asking me for some alone time, one-on-one work, just constantly bugging me. I've asked him to cool it, told him no and to please stop, and yesterday when I called to see if he needed me at work he said \"only if you wear that little blue dress from the other day\" referring to when I picked up my paycheck. I told him no and showed up in my shorts and T-shirt. When I arrived he said he was disappointed and started again with the pet names, making an hourglass shape with his hands. My sister told him he needed to stop and he was being inappropriate. I told him that was enough, finished the car I was detailing, and left.\n\nI live in Oregon. So far I've contacted •Occupational Safety & Health\n•EEOC \n•Women's Bureau \n•National Center for Victims of Crime •Department of Human Services \n•Bureau of Labor & Industries \n•Attorney Referral\n•Unemployment \n•Lawyers \n•Discrimination Department (some of those are not the official names but that's where I sought help)\n\nWhat I've learned so far is that in order to do a lawsuit, I have to go through BOLI (bureau of labor and industries) to file a complaint. That process takes up to three months and BOLI representatives told me I do not have sufficient evidence. He has his own video cameras in the garage, but my only witness is my sister. I'm looking into receiving unemployment but for the time being I have no job, no money, and no case.\n\nReddit, what do I do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I work for a private company doing labor work. It's me (21 yo female), my sister (25), and our supervisor/boss/owner. \nHe has made several passes at me in the past two months I've worked there. Asking me to be his girlfriend, calling me \"sexy\" \"baby\" \"bombshell\", asking me for some alone time, one-on-one work, just constantly bugging me. I've asked him to cool it, told him no and to please stop, and yesterday when I called to see if he needed me at work he said \"only if you wear that little blue dress from the other day\" referring to when I picked up my paycheck. I told him no and showed up in my shorts and T-shirt. When I arrived he said he was disappointed and started again with the pet names, making an hourglass shape with his hands. My sister told him he needed to stop and he was being inappropriate. I told him that was enough, finished the car I was detailing, and left.\n\nI live in Oregon. So far I've contacted •Occupational Safety & Health\n•EEOC \n•Women's Bureau \n•National Center for Victims of Crime •Department of Human Services \n•Bureau of Labor & Industries \n•Attorney Referral\n•Unemployment \n•Lawyers \n•Discrimination Department (some of those are not the official names but that's where I sought help)\n\nWhat I've learned so far is that in order to do a lawsuit, I have to go through BOLI (bureau of labor and industries) to file a complaint. That process takes up to three months and BOLI representatives told me I do not have sufficient evidence. He has his own video cameras in the garage, but my only witness is my sister. I'm looking into receiving unemployment but for the time being I have no job, no money, and no case.\n\nReddit, what do I do now?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, this is just a very minor thing. I'm a 16 year old male, 6 ft, 155 lbs, white. I swim competitively, so I am in a lot of contact with water. I had some pain about a week ago, bought some swimmer's ear drops, and it cleared up. Pain came back in both ears yesterday, and I was taking ibuprofen so I could go through finals without distractions. I went to see the doc today and she seemed pretty calm about the whole thing. She said the ears weren't infected, and that the Eustachian tubes were probably blocked. I've taken 2 tablets of pseudoephedrine HCl as a decongestant, and the pain in one ear has lessened a good deal. The remaining pain still is apparent when I swallow and it does feel like there is pressure on the ear. After all of this backstory, I was just wondering is there are any remedies to help lessen this pain or address the problem. For example, would any from this list \nwork well or are there any to avoid for my state?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, this is just a very minor thing. I'm a 16 year old male, 6 ft, 155 lbs, white. I swim competitively, so I am in a lot of contact with water. I had some pain about a week ago, bought some swimmer's ear drops, and it cleared up. Pain came back in both ears yesterday, and I was taking ibuprofen so I could go through finals without distractions. I went to see the doc today and she seemed pretty calm about the whole thing. She said the ears weren't infected, and that the Eustachian tubes were probably blocked. I've taken 2 tablets of pseudoephedrine HCl as a decongestant, and the pain in one ear has lessened a good deal. The remaining pain still is apparent when I swallow and it does feel like there is pressure on the ear. After all of this backstory, I was just wondering is there are any remedies to help lessen this pain or address the problem. For example, would any from this list \nwork well or are there any to avoid for my state?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, this is just a very minor thing. I'm a 16 year old male, 6 ft, 155 lbs, white. I swim competitively, so I am in a lot of contact with water. I had some pain about a week ago, bought some swimmer's ear drops, and it cleared up. Pain came back in both ears yesterday, and I was taking ibuprofen so I could go through finals without distractions. I went to see the doc today and she seemed pretty calm about the whole thing. She said the ears weren't infected, and that the Eustachian tubes were probably blocked. I've taken 2 tablets of pseudoephedrine HCl as a decongestant, and the pain in one ear has lessened a good deal. The remaining pain still is apparent when I swallow and it does feel like there is pressure on the ear. After all of this backstory, I was just wondering is there are any remedies to help lessen this pain or address the problem. For example, would any from this list \nwork well or are there any to avoid for my state?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey, this is just a very minor thing. I'm a 16 year old male, 6 ft, 155 lbs, white. I swim competitively, so I am in a lot of contact with water. I had some pain about a week ago, bought some swimmer's ear drops, and it cleared up. Pain came back in both ears yesterday, and I was taking ibuprofen so I could go through finals without distractions. I went to see the doc today and she seemed pretty calm about the whole thing. She said the ears weren't infected, and that the Eustachian tubes were probably blocked. I've taken 2 tablets of pseudoephedrine HCl as a decongestant, and the pain in one ear has lessened a good deal. The remaining pain still is apparent when I swallow and it does feel like there is pressure on the ear. After all of this backstory, I was just wondering is there are any remedies to help lessen this pain or address the problem. For example, would any from this list \nwork well or are there any to avoid for my state?"
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