prompt
dict |
|---|
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here I am, a Linux Sys Admin of 12 years now, and I've recently gone through an Associate's Degree program, and am set to graduate this Spring with ~3.8GPA. I am very likely going to go on to pursue my Bachelor's as well.\n\nI'm highly considering after I complete my BS, I'm think of going pre-law/law school. I've always had a strong interest/passion in law, and I feel the law field has a definite lack of technical expertise that I could likely find a niche in and excel in.\n\nI'm a very strong Linux SA, but there gets to be a limit to where the career goes, and what you get to learn/know, and many of the tasks are repetitive (which I end up automating). I am very rarely challenged in my current role, and often experience a sense of boredom.\n\nJust hoping to find some good advice, even someone who went through a similar experience (career change), or even someone who has gone from tech to law. What kind of opportunities are there out there for a tech law type?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We just started dating a two months ago and I just started thinking about how I'm graduating this semester. Basically, it's probably too early to think about this but I really have no idea what to do when I do graduate. Right now, I really like this girl and distance won't be an issue since we go to a local university. But since she's a freshman, I don't want to be the reason for her to miss out on her college experience if we end up staying together for the long term. It's really messing with my head now, even though it's not something I should worry about now. It's also probably that I'm just overthinking and focused on the bad things since our date yesterday didn't go too well. This is our first real relationship btw."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We just started dating a two months ago and I just started thinking about how I'm graduating this semester. Basically, it's probably too early to think about this but I really have no idea what to do when I do graduate. Right now, I really like this girl and distance won't be an issue since we go to a local university. But since she's a freshman, I don't want to be the reason for her to miss out on her college experience if we end up staying together for the long term. It's really messing with my head now, even though it's not something I should worry about now. It's also probably that I'm just overthinking and focused on the bad things since our date yesterday didn't go too well. This is our first real relationship btw."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We just started dating a two months ago and I just started thinking about how I'm graduating this semester. Basically, it's probably too early to think about this but I really have no idea what to do when I do graduate. Right now, I really like this girl and distance won't be an issue since we go to a local university. But since she's a freshman, I don't want to be the reason for her to miss out on her college experience if we end up staying together for the long term. It's really messing with my head now, even though it's not something I should worry about now. It's also probably that I'm just overthinking and focused on the bad things since our date yesterday didn't go too well. This is our first real relationship btw."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We just started dating a two months ago and I just started thinking about how I'm graduating this semester. Basically, it's probably too early to think about this but I really have no idea what to do when I do graduate. Right now, I really like this girl and distance won't be an issue since we go to a local university. But since she's a freshman, I don't want to be the reason for her to miss out on her college experience if we end up staying together for the long term. It's really messing with my head now, even though it's not something I should worry about now. It's also probably that I'm just overthinking and focused on the bad things since our date yesterday didn't go too well. This is our first real relationship btw."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We just started dating a two months ago and I just started thinking about how I'm graduating this semester. Basically, it's probably too early to think about this but I really have no idea what to do when I do graduate. Right now, I really like this girl and distance won't be an issue since we go to a local university. But since she's a freshman, I don't want to be the reason for her to miss out on her college experience if we end up staying together for the long term. It's really messing with my head now, even though it's not something I should worry about now. It's also probably that I'm just overthinking and focused on the bad things since our date yesterday didn't go too well. This is our first real relationship btw."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We just started dating a two months ago and I just started thinking about how I'm graduating this semester. Basically, it's probably too early to think about this but I really have no idea what to do when I do graduate. Right now, I really like this girl and distance won't be an issue since we go to a local university. But since she's a freshman, I don't want to be the reason for her to miss out on her college experience if we end up staying together for the long term. It's really messing with my head now, even though it's not something I should worry about now. It's also probably that I'm just overthinking and focused on the bad things since our date yesterday didn't go too well. This is our first real relationship btw."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm in the enviable position of being part of the last Cooper Union class to receive full tuition scholarships. To make things even better, my family would have been just barely capable of paying for a full private college education without a loan.\n\nI will be spending $11,000 for first year accommodation, and I don't see that figure going down. I estimate I'll spend another $10k for living costs, textbooks, food, and flights back home (I live in India - way to confirm stereotypes).\n\nI have about $5000 of my own savings and in addition to the money my parents will give me to cover expenses, I'll be earning between $50 and $400 per week by tutoring juniors over Skype. Obviously, this is not a huge amount of money and my parents will be helping me out a lot.\n\nWhat I would appreciate is advice on how to effectively manage my finances/accounts and how to invest my money. I'm lucky that I won't be a slave to debt, and I want to make the most of the headstart.\n\nHow should I best plan my spending on food/entertainment/etc? How should I invest my $5000 in a manner that teaches me about investment (I don't mind losing money) in a way so that after 4 years of college, when I start to bring home $60k+ (either here or back in India), I know how to manage my cash and how to invest it well.\n\nI apologise for any problems with my English."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm in the enviable position of being part of the last Cooper Union class to receive full tuition scholarships. To make things even better, my family would have been just barely capable of paying for a full private college education without a loan.\n\nI will be spending $11,000 for first year accommodation, and I don't see that figure going down. I estimate I'll spend another $10k for living costs, textbooks, food, and flights back home (I live in India - way to confirm stereotypes).\n\nI have about $5000 of my own savings and in addition to the money my parents will give me to cover expenses, I'll be earning between $50 and $400 per week by tutoring juniors over Skype. Obviously, this is not a huge amount of money and my parents will be helping me out a lot.\n\nWhat I would appreciate is advice on how to effectively manage my finances/accounts and how to invest my money. I'm lucky that I won't be a slave to debt, and I want to make the most of the headstart.\n\nHow should I best plan my spending on food/entertainment/etc? How should I invest my $5000 in a manner that teaches me about investment (I don't mind losing money) in a way so that after 4 years of college, when I start to bring home $60k+ (either here or back in India), I know how to manage my cash and how to invest it well.\n\nI apologise for any problems with my English."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm in the enviable position of being part of the last Cooper Union class to receive full tuition scholarships. To make things even better, my family would have been just barely capable of paying for a full private college education without a loan.\n\nI will be spending $11,000 for first year accommodation, and I don't see that figure going down. I estimate I'll spend another $10k for living costs, textbooks, food, and flights back home (I live in India - way to confirm stereotypes).\n\nI have about $5000 of my own savings and in addition to the money my parents will give me to cover expenses, I'll be earning between $50 and $400 per week by tutoring juniors over Skype. Obviously, this is not a huge amount of money and my parents will be helping me out a lot.\n\nWhat I would appreciate is advice on how to effectively manage my finances/accounts and how to invest my money. I'm lucky that I won't be a slave to debt, and I want to make the most of the headstart.\n\nHow should I best plan my spending on food/entertainment/etc? How should I invest my $5000 in a manner that teaches me about investment (I don't mind losing money) in a way so that after 4 years of college, when I start to bring home $60k+ (either here or back in India), I know how to manage my cash and how to invest it well.\n\nI apologise for any problems with my English."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm in the enviable position of being part of the last Cooper Union class to receive full tuition scholarships. To make things even better, my family would have been just barely capable of paying for a full private college education without a loan.\n\nI will be spending $11,000 for first year accommodation, and I don't see that figure going down. I estimate I'll spend another $10k for living costs, textbooks, food, and flights back home (I live in India - way to confirm stereotypes).\n\nI have about $5000 of my own savings and in addition to the money my parents will give me to cover expenses, I'll be earning between $50 and $400 per week by tutoring juniors over Skype. Obviously, this is not a huge amount of money and my parents will be helping me out a lot.\n\nWhat I would appreciate is advice on how to effectively manage my finances/accounts and how to invest my money. I'm lucky that I won't be a slave to debt, and I want to make the most of the headstart.\n\nHow should I best plan my spending on food/entertainment/etc? How should I invest my $5000 in a manner that teaches me about investment (I don't mind losing money) in a way so that after 4 years of college, when I start to bring home $60k+ (either here or back in India), I know how to manage my cash and how to invest it well.\n\nI apologise for any problems with my English."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm in the enviable position of being part of the last Cooper Union class to receive full tuition scholarships. To make things even better, my family would have been just barely capable of paying for a full private college education without a loan.\n\nI will be spending $11,000 for first year accommodation, and I don't see that figure going down. I estimate I'll spend another $10k for living costs, textbooks, food, and flights back home (I live in India - way to confirm stereotypes).\n\nI have about $5000 of my own savings and in addition to the money my parents will give me to cover expenses, I'll be earning between $50 and $400 per week by tutoring juniors over Skype. Obviously, this is not a huge amount of money and my parents will be helping me out a lot.\n\nWhat I would appreciate is advice on how to effectively manage my finances/accounts and how to invest my money. I'm lucky that I won't be a slave to debt, and I want to make the most of the headstart.\n\nHow should I best plan my spending on food/entertainment/etc? How should I invest my $5000 in a manner that teaches me about investment (I don't mind losing money) in a way so that after 4 years of college, when I start to bring home $60k+ (either here or back in India), I know how to manage my cash and how to invest it well.\n\nI apologise for any problems with my English."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/relationships - \n\nMy ex and I split in January after 4 years of on/off dating through college (high school sweethearts, different colleges, growing apart into different people, etc). The breakup was much needed for both of us to grow and mature as people, and I for one am doing great - taking more care of myself physically and mentally, graduated college, got a job, lost 20 or so pounds - and last I heard (No contact since mid-march) she's doing well too. \n\nI have her blocked on everything (It was a pretty nasty split) but can still see her IG - I saw that she took a guy to her sorority formal, he took her to his, and now I saw a picture that'd indicate they're hanging out over the summer. I'm assuming it's her new BF. That last picture threw me for a loop - Although I'm doing *great* and don't want to be back in the relationship, it still made me go a little crazy mentally that she's, idk, moved on so fast? Not like I haven't seen other people too, but the fact that it appears she found a replacement so fast makes me feel really weird and uncomfortable.\n\nI'm already back on the \"consciously not looking at her stuff,\" thing - I forget sometimes."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/relationships - \n\nMy ex and I split in January after 4 years of on/off dating through college (high school sweethearts, different colleges, growing apart into different people, etc). The breakup was much needed for both of us to grow and mature as people, and I for one am doing great - taking more care of myself physically and mentally, graduated college, got a job, lost 20 or so pounds - and last I heard (No contact since mid-march) she's doing well too. \n\nI have her blocked on everything (It was a pretty nasty split) but can still see her IG - I saw that she took a guy to her sorority formal, he took her to his, and now I saw a picture that'd indicate they're hanging out over the summer. I'm assuming it's her new BF. That last picture threw me for a loop - Although I'm doing *great* and don't want to be back in the relationship, it still made me go a little crazy mentally that she's, idk, moved on so fast? Not like I haven't seen other people too, but the fact that it appears she found a replacement so fast makes me feel really weird and uncomfortable.\n\nI'm already back on the \"consciously not looking at her stuff,\" thing - I forget sometimes."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/relationships - \n\nMy ex and I split in January after 4 years of on/off dating through college (high school sweethearts, different colleges, growing apart into different people, etc). The breakup was much needed for both of us to grow and mature as people, and I for one am doing great - taking more care of myself physically and mentally, graduated college, got a job, lost 20 or so pounds - and last I heard (No contact since mid-march) she's doing well too. \n\nI have her blocked on everything (It was a pretty nasty split) but can still see her IG - I saw that she took a guy to her sorority formal, he took her to his, and now I saw a picture that'd indicate they're hanging out over the summer. I'm assuming it's her new BF. That last picture threw me for a loop - Although I'm doing *great* and don't want to be back in the relationship, it still made me go a little crazy mentally that she's, idk, moved on so fast? Not like I haven't seen other people too, but the fact that it appears she found a replacement so fast makes me feel really weird and uncomfortable.\n\nI'm already back on the \"consciously not looking at her stuff,\" thing - I forget sometimes."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/relationships - \n\nMy ex and I split in January after 4 years of on/off dating through college (high school sweethearts, different colleges, growing apart into different people, etc). The breakup was much needed for both of us to grow and mature as people, and I for one am doing great - taking more care of myself physically and mentally, graduated college, got a job, lost 20 or so pounds - and last I heard (No contact since mid-march) she's doing well too. \n\nI have her blocked on everything (It was a pretty nasty split) but can still see her IG - I saw that she took a guy to her sorority formal, he took her to his, and now I saw a picture that'd indicate they're hanging out over the summer. I'm assuming it's her new BF. That last picture threw me for a loop - Although I'm doing *great* and don't want to be back in the relationship, it still made me go a little crazy mentally that she's, idk, moved on so fast? Not like I haven't seen other people too, but the fact that it appears she found a replacement so fast makes me feel really weird and uncomfortable.\n\nI'm already back on the \"consciously not looking at her stuff,\" thing - I forget sometimes."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/relationships - \n\nMy ex and I split in January after 4 years of on/off dating through college (high school sweethearts, different colleges, growing apart into different people, etc). The breakup was much needed for both of us to grow and mature as people, and I for one am doing great - taking more care of myself physically and mentally, graduated college, got a job, lost 20 or so pounds - and last I heard (No contact since mid-march) she's doing well too. \n\nI have her blocked on everything (It was a pretty nasty split) but can still see her IG - I saw that she took a guy to her sorority formal, he took her to his, and now I saw a picture that'd indicate they're hanging out over the summer. I'm assuming it's her new BF. That last picture threw me for a loop - Although I'm doing *great* and don't want to be back in the relationship, it still made me go a little crazy mentally that she's, idk, moved on so fast? Not like I haven't seen other people too, but the fact that it appears she found a replacement so fast makes me feel really weird and uncomfortable.\n\nI'm already back on the \"consciously not looking at her stuff,\" thing - I forget sometimes."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/relationships - \n\nMy ex and I split in January after 4 years of on/off dating through college (high school sweethearts, different colleges, growing apart into different people, etc). The breakup was much needed for both of us to grow and mature as people, and I for one am doing great - taking more care of myself physically and mentally, graduated college, got a job, lost 20 or so pounds - and last I heard (No contact since mid-march) she's doing well too. \n\nI have her blocked on everything (It was a pretty nasty split) but can still see her IG - I saw that she took a guy to her sorority formal, he took her to his, and now I saw a picture that'd indicate they're hanging out over the summer. I'm assuming it's her new BF. That last picture threw me for a loop - Although I'm doing *great* and don't want to be back in the relationship, it still made me go a little crazy mentally that she's, idk, moved on so fast? Not like I haven't seen other people too, but the fact that it appears she found a replacement so fast makes me feel really weird and uncomfortable.\n\nI'm already back on the \"consciously not looking at her stuff,\" thing - I forget sometimes."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I've been dating this wonderful girl that is smart, gorgeous and everything I want in a partner. Our relationship started of with her going to college three hours away but I still made an effort to see her at least twice a month during weekends.\n\nOur issues started during intercourse when I decided to be an asshole and get mad at her over her not being able to continue to give me my orgasm. I had been going for about thirty minutes and had given her a pretty decent time but I guess she couldn't handle it.\nAfter she mad me stop immediately in the middle of sex she told me that it felt great and I responded with yea for you because you got your pleasure. \n\nI know this was fucked and uncalled for but it was my dick talking honestly I was just caught up in the moment. Ever since this I have tried so hard to make it up to her and it's been three months and she still brings it up. I don't think she is capable of forgiving me and it's making us fall apart. \n\nShe has been working a lot this Summer to the point were we don't see each other at all and the last time I saw her she told me she had a thing for a guy she knows at work because I drove her away and she feels the only way she can feel better is to do something to hurt me back.\n\nI honestly don't understand her. I really do love her and did plan on marrying her. She knows that cheating on me is the one thing I won't take her back for so I don't know if she's testing my love for her in a sick twisted way or she is just scarred because of what I did?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I've been dating this wonderful girl that is smart, gorgeous and everything I want in a partner. Our relationship started of with her going to college three hours away but I still made an effort to see her at least twice a month during weekends.\n\nOur issues started during intercourse when I decided to be an asshole and get mad at her over her not being able to continue to give me my orgasm. I had been going for about thirty minutes and had given her a pretty decent time but I guess she couldn't handle it.\nAfter she mad me stop immediately in the middle of sex she told me that it felt great and I responded with yea for you because you got your pleasure. \n\nI know this was fucked and uncalled for but it was my dick talking honestly I was just caught up in the moment. Ever since this I have tried so hard to make it up to her and it's been three months and she still brings it up. I don't think she is capable of forgiving me and it's making us fall apart. \n\nShe has been working a lot this Summer to the point were we don't see each other at all and the last time I saw her she told me she had a thing for a guy she knows at work because I drove her away and she feels the only way she can feel better is to do something to hurt me back.\n\nI honestly don't understand her. I really do love her and did plan on marrying her. She knows that cheating on me is the one thing I won't take her back for so I don't know if she's testing my love for her in a sick twisted way or she is just scarred because of what I did?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I've been dating this wonderful girl that is smart, gorgeous and everything I want in a partner. Our relationship started of with her going to college three hours away but I still made an effort to see her at least twice a month during weekends.\n\nOur issues started during intercourse when I decided to be an asshole and get mad at her over her not being able to continue to give me my orgasm. I had been going for about thirty minutes and had given her a pretty decent time but I guess she couldn't handle it.\nAfter she mad me stop immediately in the middle of sex she told me that it felt great and I responded with yea for you because you got your pleasure. \n\nI know this was fucked and uncalled for but it was my dick talking honestly I was just caught up in the moment. Ever since this I have tried so hard to make it up to her and it's been three months and she still brings it up. I don't think she is capable of forgiving me and it's making us fall apart. \n\nShe has been working a lot this Summer to the point were we don't see each other at all and the last time I saw her she told me she had a thing for a guy she knows at work because I drove her away and she feels the only way she can feel better is to do something to hurt me back.\n\nI honestly don't understand her. I really do love her and did plan on marrying her. She knows that cheating on me is the one thing I won't take her back for so I don't know if she's testing my love for her in a sick twisted way or she is just scarred because of what I did?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I've been dating this wonderful girl that is smart, gorgeous and everything I want in a partner. Our relationship started of with her going to college three hours away but I still made an effort to see her at least twice a month during weekends.\n\nOur issues started during intercourse when I decided to be an asshole and get mad at her over her not being able to continue to give me my orgasm. I had been going for about thirty minutes and had given her a pretty decent time but I guess she couldn't handle it.\nAfter she mad me stop immediately in the middle of sex she told me that it felt great and I responded with yea for you because you got your pleasure. \n\nI know this was fucked and uncalled for but it was my dick talking honestly I was just caught up in the moment. Ever since this I have tried so hard to make it up to her and it's been three months and she still brings it up. I don't think she is capable of forgiving me and it's making us fall apart. \n\nShe has been working a lot this Summer to the point were we don't see each other at all and the last time I saw her she told me she had a thing for a guy she knows at work because I drove her away and she feels the only way she can feel better is to do something to hurt me back.\n\nI honestly don't understand her. I really do love her and did plan on marrying her. She knows that cheating on me is the one thing I won't take her back for so I don't know if she's testing my love for her in a sick twisted way or she is just scarred because of what I did?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I've been dating this wonderful girl that is smart, gorgeous and everything I want in a partner. Our relationship started of with her going to college three hours away but I still made an effort to see her at least twice a month during weekends.\n\nOur issues started during intercourse when I decided to be an asshole and get mad at her over her not being able to continue to give me my orgasm. I had been going for about thirty minutes and had given her a pretty decent time but I guess she couldn't handle it.\nAfter she mad me stop immediately in the middle of sex she told me that it felt great and I responded with yea for you because you got your pleasure. \n\nI know this was fucked and uncalled for but it was my dick talking honestly I was just caught up in the moment. Ever since this I have tried so hard to make it up to her and it's been three months and she still brings it up. I don't think she is capable of forgiving me and it's making us fall apart. \n\nShe has been working a lot this Summer to the point were we don't see each other at all and the last time I saw her she told me she had a thing for a guy she knows at work because I drove her away and she feels the only way she can feel better is to do something to hurt me back.\n\nI honestly don't understand her. I really do love her and did plan on marrying her. She knows that cheating on me is the one thing I won't take her back for so I don't know if she's testing my love for her in a sick twisted way or she is just scarred because of what I did?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok so I've been dating this wonderful girl that is smart, gorgeous and everything I want in a partner. Our relationship started of with her going to college three hours away but I still made an effort to see her at least twice a month during weekends.\n\nOur issues started during intercourse when I decided to be an asshole and get mad at her over her not being able to continue to give me my orgasm. I had been going for about thirty minutes and had given her a pretty decent time but I guess she couldn't handle it.\nAfter she mad me stop immediately in the middle of sex she told me that it felt great and I responded with yea for you because you got your pleasure. \n\nI know this was fucked and uncalled for but it was my dick talking honestly I was just caught up in the moment. Ever since this I have tried so hard to make it up to her and it's been three months and she still brings it up. I don't think she is capable of forgiving me and it's making us fall apart. \n\nShe has been working a lot this Summer to the point were we don't see each other at all and the last time I saw her she told me she had a thing for a guy she knows at work because I drove her away and she feels the only way she can feel better is to do something to hurt me back.\n\nI honestly don't understand her. I really do love her and did plan on marrying her. She knows that cheating on me is the one thing I won't take her back for so I don't know if she's testing my love for her in a sick twisted way or she is just scarred because of what I did?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm pretty upset right now. I (26M) just found out I have genital herpes and I think I got it from my GF (24F) of 6 months.\n\nShe is the only person I have had sex with since March 2014 and I have always used condoms in the past with other women. My SO and I began with condoms, but stopped using them about 1-2 months into our relationship.\n\nI am out of country for the holidays but am returning in a couple days and I need to confront her about this. I'm not sure what scenario I'm more worried about: If she knows she had herpes and didn't tell me or if she doesn't know and thinks that I'm some dirty bastard that gave it to her.\n\nIf she knew and didn't tell me, I would be incredibly hurt and betrayed. We both made a decision to not wear condoms and she should have at least warned me about this so we could have taken preventative measures, LIKE WEARING CONDOMS.\n\nIf she doesn't know, she's going to think that I gave it to her. This is going to become the most awkward conversation of all time. I'm going to have to tell her to get tested and she's going to be positive.\n\nEither way, my relationship is about to go through a fucking blender and this may shatter it. I feel sick thinking about it. I feel sick knowing that I now have herpes for fucking life.\n\nAnyways, any advice on how to approach this situation or any anecdotes of people in similar situations would be greatly appreciated."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm pretty upset right now. I (26M) just found out I have genital herpes and I think I got it from my GF (24F) of 6 months.\n\nShe is the only person I have had sex with since March 2014 and I have always used condoms in the past with other women. My SO and I began with condoms, but stopped using them about 1-2 months into our relationship.\n\nI am out of country for the holidays but am returning in a couple days and I need to confront her about this. I'm not sure what scenario I'm more worried about: If she knows she had herpes and didn't tell me or if she doesn't know and thinks that I'm some dirty bastard that gave it to her.\n\nIf she knew and didn't tell me, I would be incredibly hurt and betrayed. We both made a decision to not wear condoms and she should have at least warned me about this so we could have taken preventative measures, LIKE WEARING CONDOMS.\n\nIf she doesn't know, she's going to think that I gave it to her. This is going to become the most awkward conversation of all time. I'm going to have to tell her to get tested and she's going to be positive.\n\nEither way, my relationship is about to go through a fucking blender and this may shatter it. I feel sick thinking about it. I feel sick knowing that I now have herpes for fucking life.\n\nAnyways, any advice on how to approach this situation or any anecdotes of people in similar situations would be greatly appreciated."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm pretty upset right now. I (26M) just found out I have genital herpes and I think I got it from my GF (24F) of 6 months.\n\nShe is the only person I have had sex with since March 2014 and I have always used condoms in the past with other women. My SO and I began with condoms, but stopped using them about 1-2 months into our relationship.\n\nI am out of country for the holidays but am returning in a couple days and I need to confront her about this. I'm not sure what scenario I'm more worried about: If she knows she had herpes and didn't tell me or if she doesn't know and thinks that I'm some dirty bastard that gave it to her.\n\nIf she knew and didn't tell me, I would be incredibly hurt and betrayed. We both made a decision to not wear condoms and she should have at least warned me about this so we could have taken preventative measures, LIKE WEARING CONDOMS.\n\nIf she doesn't know, she's going to think that I gave it to her. This is going to become the most awkward conversation of all time. I'm going to have to tell her to get tested and she's going to be positive.\n\nEither way, my relationship is about to go through a fucking blender and this may shatter it. I feel sick thinking about it. I feel sick knowing that I now have herpes for fucking life.\n\nAnyways, any advice on how to approach this situation or any anecdotes of people in similar situations would be greatly appreciated."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm pretty upset right now. I (26M) just found out I have genital herpes and I think I got it from my GF (24F) of 6 months.\n\nShe is the only person I have had sex with since March 2014 and I have always used condoms in the past with other women. My SO and I began with condoms, but stopped using them about 1-2 months into our relationship.\n\nI am out of country for the holidays but am returning in a couple days and I need to confront her about this. I'm not sure what scenario I'm more worried about: If she knows she had herpes and didn't tell me or if she doesn't know and thinks that I'm some dirty bastard that gave it to her.\n\nIf she knew and didn't tell me, I would be incredibly hurt and betrayed. We both made a decision to not wear condoms and she should have at least warned me about this so we could have taken preventative measures, LIKE WEARING CONDOMS.\n\nIf she doesn't know, she's going to think that I gave it to her. This is going to become the most awkward conversation of all time. I'm going to have to tell her to get tested and she's going to be positive.\n\nEither way, my relationship is about to go through a fucking blender and this may shatter it. I feel sick thinking about it. I feel sick knowing that I now have herpes for fucking life.\n\nAnyways, any advice on how to approach this situation or any anecdotes of people in similar situations would be greatly appreciated."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm pretty upset right now. I (26M) just found out I have genital herpes and I think I got it from my GF (24F) of 6 months.\n\nShe is the only person I have had sex with since March 2014 and I have always used condoms in the past with other women. My SO and I began with condoms, but stopped using them about 1-2 months into our relationship.\n\nI am out of country for the holidays but am returning in a couple days and I need to confront her about this. I'm not sure what scenario I'm more worried about: If she knows she had herpes and didn't tell me or if she doesn't know and thinks that I'm some dirty bastard that gave it to her.\n\nIf she knew and didn't tell me, I would be incredibly hurt and betrayed. We both made a decision to not wear condoms and she should have at least warned me about this so we could have taken preventative measures, LIKE WEARING CONDOMS.\n\nIf she doesn't know, she's going to think that I gave it to her. This is going to become the most awkward conversation of all time. I'm going to have to tell her to get tested and she's going to be positive.\n\nEither way, my relationship is about to go through a fucking blender and this may shatter it. I feel sick thinking about it. I feel sick knowing that I now have herpes for fucking life.\n\nAnyways, any advice on how to approach this situation or any anecdotes of people in similar situations would be greatly appreciated."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm pretty upset right now. I (26M) just found out I have genital herpes and I think I got it from my GF (24F) of 6 months.\n\nShe is the only person I have had sex with since March 2014 and I have always used condoms in the past with other women. My SO and I began with condoms, but stopped using them about 1-2 months into our relationship.\n\nI am out of country for the holidays but am returning in a couple days and I need to confront her about this. I'm not sure what scenario I'm more worried about: If she knows she had herpes and didn't tell me or if she doesn't know and thinks that I'm some dirty bastard that gave it to her.\n\nIf she knew and didn't tell me, I would be incredibly hurt and betrayed. We both made a decision to not wear condoms and she should have at least warned me about this so we could have taken preventative measures, LIKE WEARING CONDOMS.\n\nIf she doesn't know, she's going to think that I gave it to her. This is going to become the most awkward conversation of all time. I'm going to have to tell her to get tested and she's going to be positive.\n\nEither way, my relationship is about to go through a fucking blender and this may shatter it. I feel sick thinking about it. I feel sick knowing that I now have herpes for fucking life.\n\nAnyways, any advice on how to approach this situation or any anecdotes of people in similar situations would be greatly appreciated."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throughout my life, I've probably been single for roughly 6 months between boyfriends. However, I just broke up with a 3 year long boyfriend feeling I wasn't ready to commit any longer, and that I needed to focus on my own life. We had been in a LDR for 8 months, with some time together in the middle, but in the process, I got used to living a single life (apart from the daily skype call). It's only been 3 weeks but I feel like I've been single for many months because of the LDR. \nIf you could ballpark a number of months one should have between relationships, what would it be, and do you think my situation would be an exception?\nI'm asking because I had a date with an amazing guy who seems like he's ready for something serious, but should I say I need to stay casual for the sake of not getting involved too early?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throughout my life, I've probably been single for roughly 6 months between boyfriends. However, I just broke up with a 3 year long boyfriend feeling I wasn't ready to commit any longer, and that I needed to focus on my own life. We had been in a LDR for 8 months, with some time together in the middle, but in the process, I got used to living a single life (apart from the daily skype call). It's only been 3 weeks but I feel like I've been single for many months because of the LDR. \nIf you could ballpark a number of months one should have between relationships, what would it be, and do you think my situation would be an exception?\nI'm asking because I had a date with an amazing guy who seems like he's ready for something serious, but should I say I need to stay casual for the sake of not getting involved too early?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throughout my life, I've probably been single for roughly 6 months between boyfriends. However, I just broke up with a 3 year long boyfriend feeling I wasn't ready to commit any longer, and that I needed to focus on my own life. We had been in a LDR for 8 months, with some time together in the middle, but in the process, I got used to living a single life (apart from the daily skype call). It's only been 3 weeks but I feel like I've been single for many months because of the LDR. \nIf you could ballpark a number of months one should have between relationships, what would it be, and do you think my situation would be an exception?\nI'm asking because I had a date with an amazing guy who seems like he's ready for something serious, but should I say I need to stay casual for the sake of not getting involved too early?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throughout my life, I've probably been single for roughly 6 months between boyfriends. However, I just broke up with a 3 year long boyfriend feeling I wasn't ready to commit any longer, and that I needed to focus on my own life. We had been in a LDR for 8 months, with some time together in the middle, but in the process, I got used to living a single life (apart from the daily skype call). It's only been 3 weeks but I feel like I've been single for many months because of the LDR. \nIf you could ballpark a number of months one should have between relationships, what would it be, and do you think my situation would be an exception?\nI'm asking because I had a date with an amazing guy who seems like he's ready for something serious, but should I say I need to stay casual for the sake of not getting involved too early?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throughout my life, I've probably been single for roughly 6 months between boyfriends. However, I just broke up with a 3 year long boyfriend feeling I wasn't ready to commit any longer, and that I needed to focus on my own life. We had been in a LDR for 8 months, with some time together in the middle, but in the process, I got used to living a single life (apart from the daily skype call). It's only been 3 weeks but I feel like I've been single for many months because of the LDR. \nIf you could ballpark a number of months one should have between relationships, what would it be, and do you think my situation would be an exception?\nI'm asking because I had a date with an amazing guy who seems like he's ready for something serious, but should I say I need to stay casual for the sake of not getting involved too early?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Throughout my life, I've probably been single for roughly 6 months between boyfriends. However, I just broke up with a 3 year long boyfriend feeling I wasn't ready to commit any longer, and that I needed to focus on my own life. We had been in a LDR for 8 months, with some time together in the middle, but in the process, I got used to living a single life (apart from the daily skype call). It's only been 3 weeks but I feel like I've been single for many months because of the LDR. \nIf you could ballpark a number of months one should have between relationships, what would it be, and do you think my situation would be an exception?\nI'm asking because I had a date with an amazing guy who seems like he's ready for something serious, but should I say I need to stay casual for the sake of not getting involved too early?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me: Inexperienced, she's one of my very few sexual partners\nHer: She's had 10x more sexual partners than me, likely around 20\n\nWhen we met, she was in to sex a lot. We knew each other for about 3 weeks, the night we started dating, we had sex. Some days, we've had sex up to 7 times a day, when she's on like this horny \"spree\". This would put us at around 15 times a week during some weeks.\n\nNow we are 6 months into the relationship, we might have sex once or twice a week, sometimes none. Given she is one of my first relationships, I never really experienced this. \n\nIt's not that I don't initiate it, she's just like \"okay, good night\" as soon as I get in bed, like to the point where I don't even bother going to bed at 9 PM to watch TV some nights anymore, and I just stay up doing work.\n\nThis might be normal in some relationships I would think, but given she has a sexual past of enjoying sex with a number of people, I kind of thought she would still be into it still.\n\nIs such a massive drop off normal after 6 months? Friends said it would die off, but I feel like what they say after being married for 20 years."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me: Inexperienced, she's one of my very few sexual partners\nHer: She's had 10x more sexual partners than me, likely around 20\n\nWhen we met, she was in to sex a lot. We knew each other for about 3 weeks, the night we started dating, we had sex. Some days, we've had sex up to 7 times a day, when she's on like this horny \"spree\". This would put us at around 15 times a week during some weeks.\n\nNow we are 6 months into the relationship, we might have sex once or twice a week, sometimes none. Given she is one of my first relationships, I never really experienced this. \n\nIt's not that I don't initiate it, she's just like \"okay, good night\" as soon as I get in bed, like to the point where I don't even bother going to bed at 9 PM to watch TV some nights anymore, and I just stay up doing work.\n\nThis might be normal in some relationships I would think, but given she has a sexual past of enjoying sex with a number of people, I kind of thought she would still be into it still.\n\nIs such a massive drop off normal after 6 months? Friends said it would die off, but I feel like what they say after being married for 20 years."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me: Inexperienced, she's one of my very few sexual partners\nHer: She's had 10x more sexual partners than me, likely around 20\n\nWhen we met, she was in to sex a lot. We knew each other for about 3 weeks, the night we started dating, we had sex. Some days, we've had sex up to 7 times a day, when she's on like this horny \"spree\". This would put us at around 15 times a week during some weeks.\n\nNow we are 6 months into the relationship, we might have sex once or twice a week, sometimes none. Given she is one of my first relationships, I never really experienced this. \n\nIt's not that I don't initiate it, she's just like \"okay, good night\" as soon as I get in bed, like to the point where I don't even bother going to bed at 9 PM to watch TV some nights anymore, and I just stay up doing work.\n\nThis might be normal in some relationships I would think, but given she has a sexual past of enjoying sex with a number of people, I kind of thought she would still be into it still.\n\nIs such a massive drop off normal after 6 months? Friends said it would die off, but I feel like what they say after being married for 20 years."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me: Inexperienced, she's one of my very few sexual partners\nHer: She's had 10x more sexual partners than me, likely around 20\n\nWhen we met, she was in to sex a lot. We knew each other for about 3 weeks, the night we started dating, we had sex. Some days, we've had sex up to 7 times a day, when she's on like this horny \"spree\". This would put us at around 15 times a week during some weeks.\n\nNow we are 6 months into the relationship, we might have sex once or twice a week, sometimes none. Given she is one of my first relationships, I never really experienced this. \n\nIt's not that I don't initiate it, she's just like \"okay, good night\" as soon as I get in bed, like to the point where I don't even bother going to bed at 9 PM to watch TV some nights anymore, and I just stay up doing work.\n\nThis might be normal in some relationships I would think, but given she has a sexual past of enjoying sex with a number of people, I kind of thought she would still be into it still.\n\nIs such a massive drop off normal after 6 months? Friends said it would die off, but I feel like what they say after being married for 20 years."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me: Inexperienced, she's one of my very few sexual partners\nHer: She's had 10x more sexual partners than me, likely around 20\n\nWhen we met, she was in to sex a lot. We knew each other for about 3 weeks, the night we started dating, we had sex. Some days, we've had sex up to 7 times a day, when she's on like this horny \"spree\". This would put us at around 15 times a week during some weeks.\n\nNow we are 6 months into the relationship, we might have sex once or twice a week, sometimes none. Given she is one of my first relationships, I never really experienced this. \n\nIt's not that I don't initiate it, she's just like \"okay, good night\" as soon as I get in bed, like to the point where I don't even bother going to bed at 9 PM to watch TV some nights anymore, and I just stay up doing work.\n\nThis might be normal in some relationships I would think, but given she has a sexual past of enjoying sex with a number of people, I kind of thought she would still be into it still.\n\nIs such a massive drop off normal after 6 months? Friends said it would die off, but I feel like what they say after being married for 20 years."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there guys. Quick question because I just need to get some perspective!\n\nSo, I have an ex that I still keep in contact with, since the breakup wasn't messy or anything, and seeing him normally doesn't make me feel bad or anything, if we're just hanging out as friends. Sometimes when we hang out we end up making out or cuddling, something like that, but recently we've stopped doing that. \n\nI didn't know he was really doing anything with anyone else or planning to get into another relationship, and today I checked my snapchat to see him with some other guy at a restaurant with their heads against each other. Then, the next picture was them making out. \n\nI know for a fact he only sent it to me (or very few others) since I asked other friends who I knew were on his snapchat if they got the same message, and they said no. Is it just me, or is he being a bit of a douche? I'm not really jealous per se, I just thought it was a pretty mean/jerkish/show-offy thing to do.\n\nJust wondering what you all think."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there guys. Quick question because I just need to get some perspective!\n\nSo, I have an ex that I still keep in contact with, since the breakup wasn't messy or anything, and seeing him normally doesn't make me feel bad or anything, if we're just hanging out as friends. Sometimes when we hang out we end up making out or cuddling, something like that, but recently we've stopped doing that. \n\nI didn't know he was really doing anything with anyone else or planning to get into another relationship, and today I checked my snapchat to see him with some other guy at a restaurant with their heads against each other. Then, the next picture was them making out. \n\nI know for a fact he only sent it to me (or very few others) since I asked other friends who I knew were on his snapchat if they got the same message, and they said no. Is it just me, or is he being a bit of a douche? I'm not really jealous per se, I just thought it was a pretty mean/jerkish/show-offy thing to do.\n\nJust wondering what you all think."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there guys. Quick question because I just need to get some perspective!\n\nSo, I have an ex that I still keep in contact with, since the breakup wasn't messy or anything, and seeing him normally doesn't make me feel bad or anything, if we're just hanging out as friends. Sometimes when we hang out we end up making out or cuddling, something like that, but recently we've stopped doing that. \n\nI didn't know he was really doing anything with anyone else or planning to get into another relationship, and today I checked my snapchat to see him with some other guy at a restaurant with their heads against each other. Then, the next picture was them making out. \n\nI know for a fact he only sent it to me (or very few others) since I asked other friends who I knew were on his snapchat if they got the same message, and they said no. Is it just me, or is he being a bit of a douche? I'm not really jealous per se, I just thought it was a pretty mean/jerkish/show-offy thing to do.\n\nJust wondering what you all think."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there guys. Quick question because I just need to get some perspective!\n\nSo, I have an ex that I still keep in contact with, since the breakup wasn't messy or anything, and seeing him normally doesn't make me feel bad or anything, if we're just hanging out as friends. Sometimes when we hang out we end up making out or cuddling, something like that, but recently we've stopped doing that. \n\nI didn't know he was really doing anything with anyone else or planning to get into another relationship, and today I checked my snapchat to see him with some other guy at a restaurant with their heads against each other. Then, the next picture was them making out. \n\nI know for a fact he only sent it to me (or very few others) since I asked other friends who I knew were on his snapchat if they got the same message, and they said no. Is it just me, or is he being a bit of a douche? I'm not really jealous per se, I just thought it was a pretty mean/jerkish/show-offy thing to do.\n\nJust wondering what you all think."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there guys. Quick question because I just need to get some perspective!\n\nSo, I have an ex that I still keep in contact with, since the breakup wasn't messy or anything, and seeing him normally doesn't make me feel bad or anything, if we're just hanging out as friends. Sometimes when we hang out we end up making out or cuddling, something like that, but recently we've stopped doing that. \n\nI didn't know he was really doing anything with anyone else or planning to get into another relationship, and today I checked my snapchat to see him with some other guy at a restaurant with their heads against each other. Then, the next picture was them making out. \n\nI know for a fact he only sent it to me (or very few others) since I asked other friends who I knew were on his snapchat if they got the same message, and they said no. Is it just me, or is he being a bit of a douche? I'm not really jealous per se, I just thought it was a pretty mean/jerkish/show-offy thing to do.\n\nJust wondering what you all think."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey there guys. Quick question because I just need to get some perspective!\n\nSo, I have an ex that I still keep in contact with, since the breakup wasn't messy or anything, and seeing him normally doesn't make me feel bad or anything, if we're just hanging out as friends. Sometimes when we hang out we end up making out or cuddling, something like that, but recently we've stopped doing that. \n\nI didn't know he was really doing anything with anyone else or planning to get into another relationship, and today I checked my snapchat to see him with some other guy at a restaurant with their heads against each other. Then, the next picture was them making out. \n\nI know for a fact he only sent it to me (or very few others) since I asked other friends who I knew were on his snapchat if they got the same message, and they said no. Is it just me, or is he being a bit of a douche? I'm not really jealous per se, I just thought it was a pretty mean/jerkish/show-offy thing to do.\n\nJust wondering what you all think."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off we are both 18, I'm the guy, she is the girl. We have known each other for ever and finally started to date going 6 months strong and we still really enjoy each others company. We are bout to leave for school and she thinks we need to take a break to meet new people and experience the world, but hey at least we can stay friends. Yay. Keep in mind we are going to the same school. \n\nI really don't want to let go. I'm definitely the friend-zonable type, sweet, not a douche, sort of too goofy to be datable, I listen, all of it. I've been friend-zoned more times than Id like to count. \n\nI guess we haven't really been together long enough for me to say I love her, but still it's at least the closest I've ever felt to love. I really like this girl. A lot more than I thought I would've and I feel like we could be very serious together. I've even put actual thought into marrying this girl one day, which is the first I've ever really considered that in my life.\n\nOne of the biggest reasons I don't want to leave her is because she's had bad relationships with complete assholes before, and I don't want her to go back to that. I'm just as scared for her as am to lose her.\n\nI've known about this plan to break up since the beginning of our relationship, but that doesn't make this any easier. She's admitted herself that she really does not want to break up, but still feels it's the best for us. Maybe I'm just to attached and need to just learn to let go, even if it does suck. I don't know. \n\nWhat should I do reddit?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off we are both 18, I'm the guy, she is the girl. We have known each other for ever and finally started to date going 6 months strong and we still really enjoy each others company. We are bout to leave for school and she thinks we need to take a break to meet new people and experience the world, but hey at least we can stay friends. Yay. Keep in mind we are going to the same school. \n\nI really don't want to let go. I'm definitely the friend-zonable type, sweet, not a douche, sort of too goofy to be datable, I listen, all of it. I've been friend-zoned more times than Id like to count. \n\nI guess we haven't really been together long enough for me to say I love her, but still it's at least the closest I've ever felt to love. I really like this girl. A lot more than I thought I would've and I feel like we could be very serious together. I've even put actual thought into marrying this girl one day, which is the first I've ever really considered that in my life.\n\nOne of the biggest reasons I don't want to leave her is because she's had bad relationships with complete assholes before, and I don't want her to go back to that. I'm just as scared for her as am to lose her.\n\nI've known about this plan to break up since the beginning of our relationship, but that doesn't make this any easier. She's admitted herself that she really does not want to break up, but still feels it's the best for us. Maybe I'm just to attached and need to just learn to let go, even if it does suck. I don't know. \n\nWhat should I do reddit?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off we are both 18, I'm the guy, she is the girl. We have known each other for ever and finally started to date going 6 months strong and we still really enjoy each others company. We are bout to leave for school and she thinks we need to take a break to meet new people and experience the world, but hey at least we can stay friends. Yay. Keep in mind we are going to the same school. \n\nI really don't want to let go. I'm definitely the friend-zonable type, sweet, not a douche, sort of too goofy to be datable, I listen, all of it. I've been friend-zoned more times than Id like to count. \n\nI guess we haven't really been together long enough for me to say I love her, but still it's at least the closest I've ever felt to love. I really like this girl. A lot more than I thought I would've and I feel like we could be very serious together. I've even put actual thought into marrying this girl one day, which is the first I've ever really considered that in my life.\n\nOne of the biggest reasons I don't want to leave her is because she's had bad relationships with complete assholes before, and I don't want her to go back to that. I'm just as scared for her as am to lose her.\n\nI've known about this plan to break up since the beginning of our relationship, but that doesn't make this any easier. She's admitted herself that she really does not want to break up, but still feels it's the best for us. Maybe I'm just to attached and need to just learn to let go, even if it does suck. I don't know. \n\nWhat should I do reddit?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off we are both 18, I'm the guy, she is the girl. We have known each other for ever and finally started to date going 6 months strong and we still really enjoy each others company. We are bout to leave for school and she thinks we need to take a break to meet new people and experience the world, but hey at least we can stay friends. Yay. Keep in mind we are going to the same school. \n\nI really don't want to let go. I'm definitely the friend-zonable type, sweet, not a douche, sort of too goofy to be datable, I listen, all of it. I've been friend-zoned more times than Id like to count. \n\nI guess we haven't really been together long enough for me to say I love her, but still it's at least the closest I've ever felt to love. I really like this girl. A lot more than I thought I would've and I feel like we could be very serious together. I've even put actual thought into marrying this girl one day, which is the first I've ever really considered that in my life.\n\nOne of the biggest reasons I don't want to leave her is because she's had bad relationships with complete assholes before, and I don't want her to go back to that. I'm just as scared for her as am to lose her.\n\nI've known about this plan to break up since the beginning of our relationship, but that doesn't make this any easier. She's admitted herself that she really does not want to break up, but still feels it's the best for us. Maybe I'm just to attached and need to just learn to let go, even if it does suck. I don't know. \n\nWhat should I do reddit?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off we are both 18, I'm the guy, she is the girl. We have known each other for ever and finally started to date going 6 months strong and we still really enjoy each others company. We are bout to leave for school and she thinks we need to take a break to meet new people and experience the world, but hey at least we can stay friends. Yay. Keep in mind we are going to the same school. \n\nI really don't want to let go. I'm definitely the friend-zonable type, sweet, not a douche, sort of too goofy to be datable, I listen, all of it. I've been friend-zoned more times than Id like to count. \n\nI guess we haven't really been together long enough for me to say I love her, but still it's at least the closest I've ever felt to love. I really like this girl. A lot more than I thought I would've and I feel like we could be very serious together. I've even put actual thought into marrying this girl one day, which is the first I've ever really considered that in my life.\n\nOne of the biggest reasons I don't want to leave her is because she's had bad relationships with complete assholes before, and I don't want her to go back to that. I'm just as scared for her as am to lose her.\n\nI've known about this plan to break up since the beginning of our relationship, but that doesn't make this any easier. She's admitted herself that she really does not want to break up, but still feels it's the best for us. Maybe I'm just to attached and need to just learn to let go, even if it does suck. I don't know. \n\nWhat should I do reddit?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off we are both 18, I'm the guy, she is the girl. We have known each other for ever and finally started to date going 6 months strong and we still really enjoy each others company. We are bout to leave for school and she thinks we need to take a break to meet new people and experience the world, but hey at least we can stay friends. Yay. Keep in mind we are going to the same school. \n\nI really don't want to let go. I'm definitely the friend-zonable type, sweet, not a douche, sort of too goofy to be datable, I listen, all of it. I've been friend-zoned more times than Id like to count. \n\nI guess we haven't really been together long enough for me to say I love her, but still it's at least the closest I've ever felt to love. I really like this girl. A lot more than I thought I would've and I feel like we could be very serious together. I've even put actual thought into marrying this girl one day, which is the first I've ever really considered that in my life.\n\nOne of the biggest reasons I don't want to leave her is because she's had bad relationships with complete assholes before, and I don't want her to go back to that. I'm just as scared for her as am to lose her.\n\nI've known about this plan to break up since the beginning of our relationship, but that doesn't make this any easier. She's admitted herself that she really does not want to break up, but still feels it's the best for us. Maybe I'm just to attached and need to just learn to let go, even if it does suck. I don't know. \n\nWhat should I do reddit?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What I found was: Diana Prince XX. One snapchat video of her singing with her bare tits bouncing, and two photos of her, yet again, bare tits out. \n\nThe problem: While I don't have any issues with my boyfriend watching porn, finding saved images/videos from a pornstar on snapchat is infuriating. I've watched porn alongside my significant other of three years, and I know that he wanks to it in his time alone. It doesn't bother me. But something about the source of content (snapchat) is disturbing to me, and what is even more disturbing is that he downloaded it to his phone. \n\nOur perspectives: My boyfriend doesn't see why saving these videos/photos from snapchat of a porn star is any different from downloading porn to his computer. In his defense, he says that it shouldn't matter because she's just a porn star, either way. But the way I see it, her videos/photos on snapchat are personal glimpses of her as a person. You see the same tits you see in her porn videos, but there's a personal side to it - you can hear her voice when she's singing (not moaning), you can find out about her interests that aren't porn related (cosplay, for example), etc. etc. \n\nThe big question: Why is this such a big problem for me? Am I overreacting? Or do I have reason to be upset? When I found these videos/photos, I was livid and wanted to end our relationship then and there. I asked my boyfriend why he had to save these things on his phone, and his response was: in case his computer was running slow or he didn't have access to the Internet. I found that both pathetic and extremely perverted - the fact that he is so dependent on porn that he has a back up plan."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What I found was: Diana Prince XX. One snapchat video of her singing with her bare tits bouncing, and two photos of her, yet again, bare tits out. \n\nThe problem: While I don't have any issues with my boyfriend watching porn, finding saved images/videos from a pornstar on snapchat is infuriating. I've watched porn alongside my significant other of three years, and I know that he wanks to it in his time alone. It doesn't bother me. But something about the source of content (snapchat) is disturbing to me, and what is even more disturbing is that he downloaded it to his phone. \n\nOur perspectives: My boyfriend doesn't see why saving these videos/photos from snapchat of a porn star is any different from downloading porn to his computer. In his defense, he says that it shouldn't matter because she's just a porn star, either way. But the way I see it, her videos/photos on snapchat are personal glimpses of her as a person. You see the same tits you see in her porn videos, but there's a personal side to it - you can hear her voice when she's singing (not moaning), you can find out about her interests that aren't porn related (cosplay, for example), etc. etc. \n\nThe big question: Why is this such a big problem for me? Am I overreacting? Or do I have reason to be upset? When I found these videos/photos, I was livid and wanted to end our relationship then and there. I asked my boyfriend why he had to save these things on his phone, and his response was: in case his computer was running slow or he didn't have access to the Internet. I found that both pathetic and extremely perverted - the fact that he is so dependent on porn that he has a back up plan."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What I found was: Diana Prince XX. One snapchat video of her singing with her bare tits bouncing, and two photos of her, yet again, bare tits out. \n\nThe problem: While I don't have any issues with my boyfriend watching porn, finding saved images/videos from a pornstar on snapchat is infuriating. I've watched porn alongside my significant other of three years, and I know that he wanks to it in his time alone. It doesn't bother me. But something about the source of content (snapchat) is disturbing to me, and what is even more disturbing is that he downloaded it to his phone. \n\nOur perspectives: My boyfriend doesn't see why saving these videos/photos from snapchat of a porn star is any different from downloading porn to his computer. In his defense, he says that it shouldn't matter because she's just a porn star, either way. But the way I see it, her videos/photos on snapchat are personal glimpses of her as a person. You see the same tits you see in her porn videos, but there's a personal side to it - you can hear her voice when she's singing (not moaning), you can find out about her interests that aren't porn related (cosplay, for example), etc. etc. \n\nThe big question: Why is this such a big problem for me? Am I overreacting? Or do I have reason to be upset? When I found these videos/photos, I was livid and wanted to end our relationship then and there. I asked my boyfriend why he had to save these things on his phone, and his response was: in case his computer was running slow or he didn't have access to the Internet. I found that both pathetic and extremely perverted - the fact that he is so dependent on porn that he has a back up plan."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What I found was: Diana Prince XX. One snapchat video of her singing with her bare tits bouncing, and two photos of her, yet again, bare tits out. \n\nThe problem: While I don't have any issues with my boyfriend watching porn, finding saved images/videos from a pornstar on snapchat is infuriating. I've watched porn alongside my significant other of three years, and I know that he wanks to it in his time alone. It doesn't bother me. But something about the source of content (snapchat) is disturbing to me, and what is even more disturbing is that he downloaded it to his phone. \n\nOur perspectives: My boyfriend doesn't see why saving these videos/photos from snapchat of a porn star is any different from downloading porn to his computer. In his defense, he says that it shouldn't matter because she's just a porn star, either way. But the way I see it, her videos/photos on snapchat are personal glimpses of her as a person. You see the same tits you see in her porn videos, but there's a personal side to it - you can hear her voice when she's singing (not moaning), you can find out about her interests that aren't porn related (cosplay, for example), etc. etc. \n\nThe big question: Why is this such a big problem for me? Am I overreacting? Or do I have reason to be upset? When I found these videos/photos, I was livid and wanted to end our relationship then and there. I asked my boyfriend why he had to save these things on his phone, and his response was: in case his computer was running slow or he didn't have access to the Internet. I found that both pathetic and extremely perverted - the fact that he is so dependent on porn that he has a back up plan."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What I found was: Diana Prince XX. One snapchat video of her singing with her bare tits bouncing, and two photos of her, yet again, bare tits out. \n\nThe problem: While I don't have any issues with my boyfriend watching porn, finding saved images/videos from a pornstar on snapchat is infuriating. I've watched porn alongside my significant other of three years, and I know that he wanks to it in his time alone. It doesn't bother me. But something about the source of content (snapchat) is disturbing to me, and what is even more disturbing is that he downloaded it to his phone. \n\nOur perspectives: My boyfriend doesn't see why saving these videos/photos from snapchat of a porn star is any different from downloading porn to his computer. In his defense, he says that it shouldn't matter because she's just a porn star, either way. But the way I see it, her videos/photos on snapchat are personal glimpses of her as a person. You see the same tits you see in her porn videos, but there's a personal side to it - you can hear her voice when she's singing (not moaning), you can find out about her interests that aren't porn related (cosplay, for example), etc. etc. \n\nThe big question: Why is this such a big problem for me? Am I overreacting? Or do I have reason to be upset? When I found these videos/photos, I was livid and wanted to end our relationship then and there. I asked my boyfriend why he had to save these things on his phone, and his response was: in case his computer was running slow or he didn't have access to the Internet. I found that both pathetic and extremely perverted - the fact that he is so dependent on porn that he has a back up plan."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: What I found was: Diana Prince XX. One snapchat video of her singing with her bare tits bouncing, and two photos of her, yet again, bare tits out. \n\nThe problem: While I don't have any issues with my boyfriend watching porn, finding saved images/videos from a pornstar on snapchat is infuriating. I've watched porn alongside my significant other of three years, and I know that he wanks to it in his time alone. It doesn't bother me. But something about the source of content (snapchat) is disturbing to me, and what is even more disturbing is that he downloaded it to his phone. \n\nOur perspectives: My boyfriend doesn't see why saving these videos/photos from snapchat of a porn star is any different from downloading porn to his computer. In his defense, he says that it shouldn't matter because she's just a porn star, either way. But the way I see it, her videos/photos on snapchat are personal glimpses of her as a person. You see the same tits you see in her porn videos, but there's a personal side to it - you can hear her voice when she's singing (not moaning), you can find out about her interests that aren't porn related (cosplay, for example), etc. etc. \n\nThe big question: Why is this such a big problem for me? Am I overreacting? Or do I have reason to be upset? When I found these videos/photos, I was livid and wanted to end our relationship then and there. I asked my boyfriend why he had to save these things on his phone, and his response was: in case his computer was running slow or he didn't have access to the Internet. I found that both pathetic and extremely perverted - the fact that he is so dependent on porn that he has a back up plan."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: i haven't had any interest in a girl for a while. i see a lot of girls that i think are pretty and i look at girls a lot and think about how pretty they are. but no matter how good they look I'm not interested in them because they are boring to me. \n\nmy dream girl is like a crazy artist girl who has ideas and can talk to me and make me laugh and think but i haven't found any girls like this. sometimes i think to myself like where do i think i could find the kind of girls i imagine when I'm thinking about what kind of girl would make me happy and i think i might want to meet a girl at an arcade or in a weird store or just see her smoking a joint while I'm walking through the park late at night and smoke with her and have high talk with her. idk does this kind of girl exist?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: i haven't had any interest in a girl for a while. i see a lot of girls that i think are pretty and i look at girls a lot and think about how pretty they are. but no matter how good they look I'm not interested in them because they are boring to me. \n\nmy dream girl is like a crazy artist girl who has ideas and can talk to me and make me laugh and think but i haven't found any girls like this. sometimes i think to myself like where do i think i could find the kind of girls i imagine when I'm thinking about what kind of girl would make me happy and i think i might want to meet a girl at an arcade or in a weird store or just see her smoking a joint while I'm walking through the park late at night and smoke with her and have high talk with her. idk does this kind of girl exist?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: i haven't had any interest in a girl for a while. i see a lot of girls that i think are pretty and i look at girls a lot and think about how pretty they are. but no matter how good they look I'm not interested in them because they are boring to me. \n\nmy dream girl is like a crazy artist girl who has ideas and can talk to me and make me laugh and think but i haven't found any girls like this. sometimes i think to myself like where do i think i could find the kind of girls i imagine when I'm thinking about what kind of girl would make me happy and i think i might want to meet a girl at an arcade or in a weird store or just see her smoking a joint while I'm walking through the park late at night and smoke with her and have high talk with her. idk does this kind of girl exist?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: i haven't had any interest in a girl for a while. i see a lot of girls that i think are pretty and i look at girls a lot and think about how pretty they are. but no matter how good they look I'm not interested in them because they are boring to me. \n\nmy dream girl is like a crazy artist girl who has ideas and can talk to me and make me laugh and think but i haven't found any girls like this. sometimes i think to myself like where do i think i could find the kind of girls i imagine when I'm thinking about what kind of girl would make me happy and i think i might want to meet a girl at an arcade or in a weird store or just see her smoking a joint while I'm walking through the park late at night and smoke with her and have high talk with her. idk does this kind of girl exist?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been best friends with \"Julie\" since high school. We both got married in our 30 - I am childfree by choice, she has two kids, an 8-year old autistic girl (very high functioning, mostly just a chatterbox who is a bit quirky) and an infant.\n\nWe used to have lunch once a week. She is desperate for a break, I would say verge of a nervous breakdown. Both her kids co-sleep and don't care for the dad, so she is not able to go out at night - ever. \n\nShe is begging me to have lunch. I say - ANYTIME! But now she keeps saying \"The 8 year old is crying, she wants to come with us, she complains she never gets to go with us to lunch\" (it has been a year since we had lunch).\n\nThen she puts the kid on the phone with me so I can listen to her cry, \"I want to go to lunch with mommy and auntie, I never get to go, I will be so sad.\"\n\nIf we go to lunch with the kid, for one, it is NOT a break for her. For two, the kid will monopolize the entire lunch. She is able to sneak away for lunch with babysitting support from husband one day a week. I want it to be the both of us.\n\nAm I a heartless bitch? Part of me doesn't want to deal, because that is not my idea of a very relaxing lunch for me - but, I am happy to suck it up and do it for MY FRIEND, but I know this is NO break for her, either."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been best friends with \"Julie\" since high school. We both got married in our 30 - I am childfree by choice, she has two kids, an 8-year old autistic girl (very high functioning, mostly just a chatterbox who is a bit quirky) and an infant.\n\nWe used to have lunch once a week. She is desperate for a break, I would say verge of a nervous breakdown. Both her kids co-sleep and don't care for the dad, so she is not able to go out at night - ever. \n\nShe is begging me to have lunch. I say - ANYTIME! But now she keeps saying \"The 8 year old is crying, she wants to come with us, she complains she never gets to go with us to lunch\" (it has been a year since we had lunch).\n\nThen she puts the kid on the phone with me so I can listen to her cry, \"I want to go to lunch with mommy and auntie, I never get to go, I will be so sad.\"\n\nIf we go to lunch with the kid, for one, it is NOT a break for her. For two, the kid will monopolize the entire lunch. She is able to sneak away for lunch with babysitting support from husband one day a week. I want it to be the both of us.\n\nAm I a heartless bitch? Part of me doesn't want to deal, because that is not my idea of a very relaxing lunch for me - but, I am happy to suck it up and do it for MY FRIEND, but I know this is NO break for her, either."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been best friends with \"Julie\" since high school. We both got married in our 30 - I am childfree by choice, she has two kids, an 8-year old autistic girl (very high functioning, mostly just a chatterbox who is a bit quirky) and an infant.\n\nWe used to have lunch once a week. She is desperate for a break, I would say verge of a nervous breakdown. Both her kids co-sleep and don't care for the dad, so she is not able to go out at night - ever. \n\nShe is begging me to have lunch. I say - ANYTIME! But now she keeps saying \"The 8 year old is crying, she wants to come with us, she complains she never gets to go with us to lunch\" (it has been a year since we had lunch).\n\nThen she puts the kid on the phone with me so I can listen to her cry, \"I want to go to lunch with mommy and auntie, I never get to go, I will be so sad.\"\n\nIf we go to lunch with the kid, for one, it is NOT a break for her. For two, the kid will monopolize the entire lunch. She is able to sneak away for lunch with babysitting support from husband one day a week. I want it to be the both of us.\n\nAm I a heartless bitch? Part of me doesn't want to deal, because that is not my idea of a very relaxing lunch for me - but, I am happy to suck it up and do it for MY FRIEND, but I know this is NO break for her, either."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been best friends with \"Julie\" since high school. We both got married in our 30 - I am childfree by choice, she has two kids, an 8-year old autistic girl (very high functioning, mostly just a chatterbox who is a bit quirky) and an infant.\n\nWe used to have lunch once a week. She is desperate for a break, I would say verge of a nervous breakdown. Both her kids co-sleep and don't care for the dad, so she is not able to go out at night - ever. \n\nShe is begging me to have lunch. I say - ANYTIME! But now she keeps saying \"The 8 year old is crying, she wants to come with us, she complains she never gets to go with us to lunch\" (it has been a year since we had lunch).\n\nThen she puts the kid on the phone with me so I can listen to her cry, \"I want to go to lunch with mommy and auntie, I never get to go, I will be so sad.\"\n\nIf we go to lunch with the kid, for one, it is NOT a break for her. For two, the kid will monopolize the entire lunch. She is able to sneak away for lunch with babysitting support from husband one day a week. I want it to be the both of us.\n\nAm I a heartless bitch? Part of me doesn't want to deal, because that is not my idea of a very relaxing lunch for me - but, I am happy to suck it up and do it for MY FRIEND, but I know this is NO break for her, either."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been best friends with \"Julie\" since high school. We both got married in our 30 - I am childfree by choice, she has two kids, an 8-year old autistic girl (very high functioning, mostly just a chatterbox who is a bit quirky) and an infant.\n\nWe used to have lunch once a week. She is desperate for a break, I would say verge of a nervous breakdown. Both her kids co-sleep and don't care for the dad, so she is not able to go out at night - ever. \n\nShe is begging me to have lunch. I say - ANYTIME! But now she keeps saying \"The 8 year old is crying, she wants to come with us, she complains she never gets to go with us to lunch\" (it has been a year since we had lunch).\n\nThen she puts the kid on the phone with me so I can listen to her cry, \"I want to go to lunch with mommy and auntie, I never get to go, I will be so sad.\"\n\nIf we go to lunch with the kid, for one, it is NOT a break for her. For two, the kid will monopolize the entire lunch. She is able to sneak away for lunch with babysitting support from husband one day a week. I want it to be the both of us.\n\nAm I a heartless bitch? Part of me doesn't want to deal, because that is not my idea of a very relaxing lunch for me - but, I am happy to suck it up and do it for MY FRIEND, but I know this is NO break for her, either."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been best friends with \"Julie\" since high school. We both got married in our 30 - I am childfree by choice, she has two kids, an 8-year old autistic girl (very high functioning, mostly just a chatterbox who is a bit quirky) and an infant.\n\nWe used to have lunch once a week. She is desperate for a break, I would say verge of a nervous breakdown. Both her kids co-sleep and don't care for the dad, so she is not able to go out at night - ever. \n\nShe is begging me to have lunch. I say - ANYTIME! But now she keeps saying \"The 8 year old is crying, she wants to come with us, she complains she never gets to go with us to lunch\" (it has been a year since we had lunch).\n\nThen she puts the kid on the phone with me so I can listen to her cry, \"I want to go to lunch with mommy and auntie, I never get to go, I will be so sad.\"\n\nIf we go to lunch with the kid, for one, it is NOT a break for her. For two, the kid will monopolize the entire lunch. She is able to sneak away for lunch with babysitting support from husband one day a week. I want it to be the both of us.\n\nAm I a heartless bitch? Part of me doesn't want to deal, because that is not my idea of a very relaxing lunch for me - but, I am happy to suck it up and do it for MY FRIEND, but I know this is NO break for her, either."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for three years in what I consider to be a serious relationship. She is heading ~3000 miles across the country to attend college.\n\nEveryone always says long distance doesn't work and is not worth trying, but I want to marry this girl one day. I know neither of us are financially stable (I am going to college as well) so that isn't viable at this point in the relationship.\n\nWe have talked about it and I clarified if she wants to try something different she needs to just let me go. She is an honest person, and she told me she doesn't want anything different right now and she won't cheat on me (I know this for sure).\n\nOur relationship over three years has had its ups and downs but I would definitely say more up than down. We rarely fight, and everything is almost always going smoothly.\n\nIs it worth trying to stay together? I am going to be flying out there nearly once a month to see her and with technology we can obviously see each other whenever we want over webcam.\n\nIf it is worth staying together, do you have any tips? And if it is not, what is your justification?\n\nThank You!"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for three years in what I consider to be a serious relationship. She is heading ~3000 miles across the country to attend college.\n\nEveryone always says long distance doesn't work and is not worth trying, but I want to marry this girl one day. I know neither of us are financially stable (I am going to college as well) so that isn't viable at this point in the relationship.\n\nWe have talked about it and I clarified if she wants to try something different she needs to just let me go. She is an honest person, and she told me she doesn't want anything different right now and she won't cheat on me (I know this for sure).\n\nOur relationship over three years has had its ups and downs but I would definitely say more up than down. We rarely fight, and everything is almost always going smoothly.\n\nIs it worth trying to stay together? I am going to be flying out there nearly once a month to see her and with technology we can obviously see each other whenever we want over webcam.\n\nIf it is worth staying together, do you have any tips? And if it is not, what is your justification?\n\nThank You!"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for three years in what I consider to be a serious relationship. She is heading ~3000 miles across the country to attend college.\n\nEveryone always says long distance doesn't work and is not worth trying, but I want to marry this girl one day. I know neither of us are financially stable (I am going to college as well) so that isn't viable at this point in the relationship.\n\nWe have talked about it and I clarified if she wants to try something different she needs to just let me go. She is an honest person, and she told me she doesn't want anything different right now and she won't cheat on me (I know this for sure).\n\nOur relationship over three years has had its ups and downs but I would definitely say more up than down. We rarely fight, and everything is almost always going smoothly.\n\nIs it worth trying to stay together? I am going to be flying out there nearly once a month to see her and with technology we can obviously see each other whenever we want over webcam.\n\nIf it is worth staying together, do you have any tips? And if it is not, what is your justification?\n\nThank You!"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for three years in what I consider to be a serious relationship. She is heading ~3000 miles across the country to attend college.\n\nEveryone always says long distance doesn't work and is not worth trying, but I want to marry this girl one day. I know neither of us are financially stable (I am going to college as well) so that isn't viable at this point in the relationship.\n\nWe have talked about it and I clarified if she wants to try something different she needs to just let me go. She is an honest person, and she told me she doesn't want anything different right now and she won't cheat on me (I know this for sure).\n\nOur relationship over three years has had its ups and downs but I would definitely say more up than down. We rarely fight, and everything is almost always going smoothly.\n\nIs it worth trying to stay together? I am going to be flying out there nearly once a month to see her and with technology we can obviously see each other whenever we want over webcam.\n\nIf it is worth staying together, do you have any tips? And if it is not, what is your justification?\n\nThank You!"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for three years in what I consider to be a serious relationship. She is heading ~3000 miles across the country to attend college.\n\nEveryone always says long distance doesn't work and is not worth trying, but I want to marry this girl one day. I know neither of us are financially stable (I am going to college as well) so that isn't viable at this point in the relationship.\n\nWe have talked about it and I clarified if she wants to try something different she needs to just let me go. She is an honest person, and she told me she doesn't want anything different right now and she won't cheat on me (I know this for sure).\n\nOur relationship over three years has had its ups and downs but I would definitely say more up than down. We rarely fight, and everything is almost always going smoothly.\n\nIs it worth trying to stay together? I am going to be flying out there nearly once a month to see her and with technology we can obviously see each other whenever we want over webcam.\n\nIf it is worth staying together, do you have any tips? And if it is not, what is your justification?\n\nThank You!"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for three years in what I consider to be a serious relationship. She is heading ~3000 miles across the country to attend college.\n\nEveryone always says long distance doesn't work and is not worth trying, but I want to marry this girl one day. I know neither of us are financially stable (I am going to college as well) so that isn't viable at this point in the relationship.\n\nWe have talked about it and I clarified if she wants to try something different she needs to just let me go. She is an honest person, and she told me she doesn't want anything different right now and she won't cheat on me (I know this for sure).\n\nOur relationship over three years has had its ups and downs but I would definitely say more up than down. We rarely fight, and everything is almost always going smoothly.\n\nIs it worth trying to stay together? I am going to be flying out there nearly once a month to see her and with technology we can obviously see each other whenever we want over webcam.\n\nIf it is worth staying together, do you have any tips? And if it is not, what is your justification?\n\nThank You!"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Maybe not too awesome, but I've always thought it was cool. So we're in the car, on our way to visit my mom's parents, who live in a small town where nearly everyone is related in one way or another. As we pull into town, our mom continues to go about 15 miles over the limit. Cop pulls us over, walks up, asks for license, registration, etc. As he's writing the ticket, he starts up a conversation with our mom, asking her where we were headed. She said we were headed here, to her parents house. He asks who her parents are, and she tells him. He stops writing, looks at her and says, \"really? That means you're my cousin! Have a nice day. He then crumples up the ticket and drives away."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Maybe not too awesome, but I've always thought it was cool. So we're in the car, on our way to visit my mom's parents, who live in a small town where nearly everyone is related in one way or another. As we pull into town, our mom continues to go about 15 miles over the limit. Cop pulls us over, walks up, asks for license, registration, etc. As he's writing the ticket, he starts up a conversation with our mom, asking her where we were headed. She said we were headed here, to her parents house. He asks who her parents are, and she tells him. He stops writing, looks at her and says, \"really? That means you're my cousin! Have a nice day. He then crumples up the ticket and drives away."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Maybe not too awesome, but I've always thought it was cool. So we're in the car, on our way to visit my mom's parents, who live in a small town where nearly everyone is related in one way or another. As we pull into town, our mom continues to go about 15 miles over the limit. Cop pulls us over, walks up, asks for license, registration, etc. As he's writing the ticket, he starts up a conversation with our mom, asking her where we were headed. She said we were headed here, to her parents house. He asks who her parents are, and she tells him. He stops writing, looks at her and says, \"really? That means you're my cousin! Have a nice day. He then crumples up the ticket and drives away."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Maybe not too awesome, but I've always thought it was cool. So we're in the car, on our way to visit my mom's parents, who live in a small town where nearly everyone is related in one way or another. As we pull into town, our mom continues to go about 15 miles over the limit. Cop pulls us over, walks up, asks for license, registration, etc. As he's writing the ticket, he starts up a conversation with our mom, asking her where we were headed. She said we were headed here, to her parents house. He asks who her parents are, and she tells him. He stops writing, looks at her and says, \"really? That means you're my cousin! Have a nice day. He then crumples up the ticket and drives away."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Maybe not too awesome, but I've always thought it was cool. So we're in the car, on our way to visit my mom's parents, who live in a small town where nearly everyone is related in one way or another. As we pull into town, our mom continues to go about 15 miles over the limit. Cop pulls us over, walks up, asks for license, registration, etc. As he's writing the ticket, he starts up a conversation with our mom, asking her where we were headed. She said we were headed here, to her parents house. He asks who her parents are, and she tells him. He stops writing, looks at her and says, \"really? That means you're my cousin! Have a nice day. He then crumples up the ticket and drives away."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Maybe not too awesome, but I've always thought it was cool. So we're in the car, on our way to visit my mom's parents, who live in a small town where nearly everyone is related in one way or another. As we pull into town, our mom continues to go about 15 miles over the limit. Cop pulls us over, walks up, asks for license, registration, etc. As he's writing the ticket, he starts up a conversation with our mom, asking her where we were headed. She said we were headed here, to her parents house. He asks who her parents are, and she tells him. He stops writing, looks at her and says, \"really? That means you're my cousin! Have a nice day. He then crumples up the ticket and drives away."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My uncle, who is in his 60s around two years ago had about $50K to his name from an inheritance, but has given a majority of it to scammers from the Philippines. For additional background, I'm in my 20s, and my parents are in their 60s and are upper-middle class. The uncle is my mother's brother. He has had a lot of mental illnesses since childhood, but has never been diagnosed, and works as (ironically) a behavioral therapist. He hasn't been financially or mentally stable enough to live in an actual apartment or house, he lives in long-term hotels and has for almost a decade now.\n\nHe doesn't really understand computers, so I've set up and manage passwords for all of his email and social networking accounts, and recently came across a yearlong (or more) history of him sending money to a scammer in the Philippines that has now totaled in the tens of thousands, rapidly depleting his net worth. He isn't legally insane, so there is no chance we can acquire financial power of attorney, and such a process would likely be quite difficult. My parents and I worry greatly that he will turn to us when he runs out of money and neither want to abandon him nor ruin our lives taking care of him.\n\nWe've tried speaking to him about it, and he denies it. but I have access to his email account and my parents home is his permanent mailing address (as you can't send bank statements to a hotel), so they see that most of his money is being sent as Western Union transfers.\nDo people have any general advice? Thanks so much!\n\n(X-posted with /r/family before I realized it was a less popular sub)"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My uncle, who is in his 60s around two years ago had about $50K to his name from an inheritance, but has given a majority of it to scammers from the Philippines. For additional background, I'm in my 20s, and my parents are in their 60s and are upper-middle class. The uncle is my mother's brother. He has had a lot of mental illnesses since childhood, but has never been diagnosed, and works as (ironically) a behavioral therapist. He hasn't been financially or mentally stable enough to live in an actual apartment or house, he lives in long-term hotels and has for almost a decade now.\n\nHe doesn't really understand computers, so I've set up and manage passwords for all of his email and social networking accounts, and recently came across a yearlong (or more) history of him sending money to a scammer in the Philippines that has now totaled in the tens of thousands, rapidly depleting his net worth. He isn't legally insane, so there is no chance we can acquire financial power of attorney, and such a process would likely be quite difficult. My parents and I worry greatly that he will turn to us when he runs out of money and neither want to abandon him nor ruin our lives taking care of him.\n\nWe've tried speaking to him about it, and he denies it. but I have access to his email account and my parents home is his permanent mailing address (as you can't send bank statements to a hotel), so they see that most of his money is being sent as Western Union transfers.\nDo people have any general advice? Thanks so much!\n\n(X-posted with /r/family before I realized it was a less popular sub)"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My uncle, who is in his 60s around two years ago had about $50K to his name from an inheritance, but has given a majority of it to scammers from the Philippines. For additional background, I'm in my 20s, and my parents are in their 60s and are upper-middle class. The uncle is my mother's brother. He has had a lot of mental illnesses since childhood, but has never been diagnosed, and works as (ironically) a behavioral therapist. He hasn't been financially or mentally stable enough to live in an actual apartment or house, he lives in long-term hotels and has for almost a decade now.\n\nHe doesn't really understand computers, so I've set up and manage passwords for all of his email and social networking accounts, and recently came across a yearlong (or more) history of him sending money to a scammer in the Philippines that has now totaled in the tens of thousands, rapidly depleting his net worth. He isn't legally insane, so there is no chance we can acquire financial power of attorney, and such a process would likely be quite difficult. My parents and I worry greatly that he will turn to us when he runs out of money and neither want to abandon him nor ruin our lives taking care of him.\n\nWe've tried speaking to him about it, and he denies it. but I have access to his email account and my parents home is his permanent mailing address (as you can't send bank statements to a hotel), so they see that most of his money is being sent as Western Union transfers.\nDo people have any general advice? Thanks so much!\n\n(X-posted with /r/family before I realized it was a less popular sub)"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My uncle, who is in his 60s around two years ago had about $50K to his name from an inheritance, but has given a majority of it to scammers from the Philippines. For additional background, I'm in my 20s, and my parents are in their 60s and are upper-middle class. The uncle is my mother's brother. He has had a lot of mental illnesses since childhood, but has never been diagnosed, and works as (ironically) a behavioral therapist. He hasn't been financially or mentally stable enough to live in an actual apartment or house, he lives in long-term hotels and has for almost a decade now.\n\nHe doesn't really understand computers, so I've set up and manage passwords for all of his email and social networking accounts, and recently came across a yearlong (or more) history of him sending money to a scammer in the Philippines that has now totaled in the tens of thousands, rapidly depleting his net worth. He isn't legally insane, so there is no chance we can acquire financial power of attorney, and such a process would likely be quite difficult. My parents and I worry greatly that he will turn to us when he runs out of money and neither want to abandon him nor ruin our lives taking care of him.\n\nWe've tried speaking to him about it, and he denies it. but I have access to his email account and my parents home is his permanent mailing address (as you can't send bank statements to a hotel), so they see that most of his money is being sent as Western Union transfers.\nDo people have any general advice? Thanks so much!\n\n(X-posted with /r/family before I realized it was a less popular sub)"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My uncle, who is in his 60s around two years ago had about $50K to his name from an inheritance, but has given a majority of it to scammers from the Philippines. For additional background, I'm in my 20s, and my parents are in their 60s and are upper-middle class. The uncle is my mother's brother. He has had a lot of mental illnesses since childhood, but has never been diagnosed, and works as (ironically) a behavioral therapist. He hasn't been financially or mentally stable enough to live in an actual apartment or house, he lives in long-term hotels and has for almost a decade now.\n\nHe doesn't really understand computers, so I've set up and manage passwords for all of his email and social networking accounts, and recently came across a yearlong (or more) history of him sending money to a scammer in the Philippines that has now totaled in the tens of thousands, rapidly depleting his net worth. He isn't legally insane, so there is no chance we can acquire financial power of attorney, and such a process would likely be quite difficult. My parents and I worry greatly that he will turn to us when he runs out of money and neither want to abandon him nor ruin our lives taking care of him.\n\nWe've tried speaking to him about it, and he denies it. but I have access to his email account and my parents home is his permanent mailing address (as you can't send bank statements to a hotel), so they see that most of his money is being sent as Western Union transfers.\nDo people have any general advice? Thanks so much!\n\n(X-posted with /r/family before I realized it was a less popular sub)"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My uncle, who is in his 60s around two years ago had about $50K to his name from an inheritance, but has given a majority of it to scammers from the Philippines. For additional background, I'm in my 20s, and my parents are in their 60s and are upper-middle class. The uncle is my mother's brother. He has had a lot of mental illnesses since childhood, but has never been diagnosed, and works as (ironically) a behavioral therapist. He hasn't been financially or mentally stable enough to live in an actual apartment or house, he lives in long-term hotels and has for almost a decade now.\n\nHe doesn't really understand computers, so I've set up and manage passwords for all of his email and social networking accounts, and recently came across a yearlong (or more) history of him sending money to a scammer in the Philippines that has now totaled in the tens of thousands, rapidly depleting his net worth. He isn't legally insane, so there is no chance we can acquire financial power of attorney, and such a process would likely be quite difficult. My parents and I worry greatly that he will turn to us when he runs out of money and neither want to abandon him nor ruin our lives taking care of him.\n\nWe've tried speaking to him about it, and he denies it. but I have access to his email account and my parents home is his permanent mailing address (as you can't send bank statements to a hotel), so they see that most of his money is being sent as Western Union transfers.\nDo people have any general advice? Thanks so much!\n\n(X-posted with /r/family before I realized it was a less popular sub)"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with this amazing girl (let's call her Kim) for 2 years now, and for the past month I feel like the honeymoon period is over and I've started having doubts about my love for her, which is driving me crazy.\n\nKim is amazing in every way and I definitely feel lucky to be with her. She's insanely cute, she's madly in love with me, I enjoy every second spent with her, and in the intimate side I like kissing her, cuddling with her, laying in bed next to her, even the sex is amazing.\n\nShe's basically all I've ever wanted and I would definitely see myself spending the rest of my life with her, and I know she does too.\n\nBut for the past month, when I look at her I can't feel the infatuated love that I was feeling before. When I see her coming to my house, it went from \"Yes! My love is here!\" to \"Oh hey that's Kim\". She became, in my mind, my best friend (with benifits): with whom I can be myself, laugh and have fun, share my feelings with her. but is that love?\n\nThese doubts about my love for her are driving me crazy. I've started to think maybe she deserves better, then once I imagine breaking up with her, I start having anxiety attacks because I really don't want to lose her.\n\nSo how do you recognize love? Do you always need to feel the belly \"butterflies\" when you see her to know you're in love? Or is simply knowing you're lucky to be with this fantastic girl enough to say that you love her?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with this amazing girl (let's call her Kim) for 2 years now, and for the past month I feel like the honeymoon period is over and I've started having doubts about my love for her, which is driving me crazy.\n\nKim is amazing in every way and I definitely feel lucky to be with her. She's insanely cute, she's madly in love with me, I enjoy every second spent with her, and in the intimate side I like kissing her, cuddling with her, laying in bed next to her, even the sex is amazing.\n\nShe's basically all I've ever wanted and I would definitely see myself spending the rest of my life with her, and I know she does too.\n\nBut for the past month, when I look at her I can't feel the infatuated love that I was feeling before. When I see her coming to my house, it went from \"Yes! My love is here!\" to \"Oh hey that's Kim\". She became, in my mind, my best friend (with benifits): with whom I can be myself, laugh and have fun, share my feelings with her. but is that love?\n\nThese doubts about my love for her are driving me crazy. I've started to think maybe she deserves better, then once I imagine breaking up with her, I start having anxiety attacks because I really don't want to lose her.\n\nSo how do you recognize love? Do you always need to feel the belly \"butterflies\" when you see her to know you're in love? Or is simply knowing you're lucky to be with this fantastic girl enough to say that you love her?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with this amazing girl (let's call her Kim) for 2 years now, and for the past month I feel like the honeymoon period is over and I've started having doubts about my love for her, which is driving me crazy.\n\nKim is amazing in every way and I definitely feel lucky to be with her. She's insanely cute, she's madly in love with me, I enjoy every second spent with her, and in the intimate side I like kissing her, cuddling with her, laying in bed next to her, even the sex is amazing.\n\nShe's basically all I've ever wanted and I would definitely see myself spending the rest of my life with her, and I know she does too.\n\nBut for the past month, when I look at her I can't feel the infatuated love that I was feeling before. When I see her coming to my house, it went from \"Yes! My love is here!\" to \"Oh hey that's Kim\". She became, in my mind, my best friend (with benifits): with whom I can be myself, laugh and have fun, share my feelings with her. but is that love?\n\nThese doubts about my love for her are driving me crazy. I've started to think maybe she deserves better, then once I imagine breaking up with her, I start having anxiety attacks because I really don't want to lose her.\n\nSo how do you recognize love? Do you always need to feel the belly \"butterflies\" when you see her to know you're in love? Or is simply knowing you're lucky to be with this fantastic girl enough to say that you love her?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with this amazing girl (let's call her Kim) for 2 years now, and for the past month I feel like the honeymoon period is over and I've started having doubts about my love for her, which is driving me crazy.\n\nKim is amazing in every way and I definitely feel lucky to be with her. She's insanely cute, she's madly in love with me, I enjoy every second spent with her, and in the intimate side I like kissing her, cuddling with her, laying in bed next to her, even the sex is amazing.\n\nShe's basically all I've ever wanted and I would definitely see myself spending the rest of my life with her, and I know she does too.\n\nBut for the past month, when I look at her I can't feel the infatuated love that I was feeling before. When I see her coming to my house, it went from \"Yes! My love is here!\" to \"Oh hey that's Kim\". She became, in my mind, my best friend (with benifits): with whom I can be myself, laugh and have fun, share my feelings with her. but is that love?\n\nThese doubts about my love for her are driving me crazy. I've started to think maybe she deserves better, then once I imagine breaking up with her, I start having anxiety attacks because I really don't want to lose her.\n\nSo how do you recognize love? Do you always need to feel the belly \"butterflies\" when you see her to know you're in love? Or is simply knowing you're lucky to be with this fantastic girl enough to say that you love her?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with this amazing girl (let's call her Kim) for 2 years now, and for the past month I feel like the honeymoon period is over and I've started having doubts about my love for her, which is driving me crazy.\n\nKim is amazing in every way and I definitely feel lucky to be with her. She's insanely cute, she's madly in love with me, I enjoy every second spent with her, and in the intimate side I like kissing her, cuddling with her, laying in bed next to her, even the sex is amazing.\n\nShe's basically all I've ever wanted and I would definitely see myself spending the rest of my life with her, and I know she does too.\n\nBut for the past month, when I look at her I can't feel the infatuated love that I was feeling before. When I see her coming to my house, it went from \"Yes! My love is here!\" to \"Oh hey that's Kim\". She became, in my mind, my best friend (with benifits): with whom I can be myself, laugh and have fun, share my feelings with her. but is that love?\n\nThese doubts about my love for her are driving me crazy. I've started to think maybe she deserves better, then once I imagine breaking up with her, I start having anxiety attacks because I really don't want to lose her.\n\nSo how do you recognize love? Do you always need to feel the belly \"butterflies\" when you see her to know you're in love? Or is simply knowing you're lucky to be with this fantastic girl enough to say that you love her?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I've been with this amazing girl (let's call her Kim) for 2 years now, and for the past month I feel like the honeymoon period is over and I've started having doubts about my love for her, which is driving me crazy.\n\nKim is amazing in every way and I definitely feel lucky to be with her. She's insanely cute, she's madly in love with me, I enjoy every second spent with her, and in the intimate side I like kissing her, cuddling with her, laying in bed next to her, even the sex is amazing.\n\nShe's basically all I've ever wanted and I would definitely see myself spending the rest of my life with her, and I know she does too.\n\nBut for the past month, when I look at her I can't feel the infatuated love that I was feeling before. When I see her coming to my house, it went from \"Yes! My love is here!\" to \"Oh hey that's Kim\". She became, in my mind, my best friend (with benifits): with whom I can be myself, laugh and have fun, share my feelings with her. but is that love?\n\nThese doubts about my love for her are driving me crazy. I've started to think maybe she deserves better, then once I imagine breaking up with her, I start having anxiety attacks because I really don't want to lose her.\n\nSo how do you recognize love? Do you always need to feel the belly \"butterflies\" when you see her to know you're in love? Or is simply knowing you're lucky to be with this fantastic girl enough to say that you love her?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I think my husband might actually not feel emotions. \n\nWhen we were dating, he loved to talk to me, in fact would ask me multiple times a day to call just to chat, he texted me 24/7, conversation was great, he was very attentive and always complimented me. Now, he hates me to even ask him a simple question. If I say something to him, he doesn't make eye contact, and rarely responds with more than two or three words, many times will just grunt yes or no. \n\nWhen I ask him how he feels (I've tried wording it many different ways) he says \"I don't know.\" If I ask how work was, I barely get one sentence out of him. He says he feels no emotions at all. He often smiles at very strange times, and I ask if he found something funny and he says no. He doesn't really have hobbies. He just browses the internet. Occasionally he will show me an article he finds on reddit or something. But he can't answer any questions about himself and doesn't want to know anything about me. He never initiates any type of interaction with me. I feel like he may as well not even be here. \n\nHe has been this way since we got married. I thought he was depressed but he's tried different types of medication and none has worked. Therapy doesn't work. He gave his therapist permission to talk to me and the therapist said he doesn't even talk when he goes. He basically says some form of \"I don't know\" to everything anyone asks him. \n\nI could go on and on but I think you get the picture. Reddit, I am so sad and frustrated. Where did my husband go? It's like he doesn't exist anymore. How do I get him to come back?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I think my husband might actually not feel emotions. \n\nWhen we were dating, he loved to talk to me, in fact would ask me multiple times a day to call just to chat, he texted me 24/7, conversation was great, he was very attentive and always complimented me. Now, he hates me to even ask him a simple question. If I say something to him, he doesn't make eye contact, and rarely responds with more than two or three words, many times will just grunt yes or no. \n\nWhen I ask him how he feels (I've tried wording it many different ways) he says \"I don't know.\" If I ask how work was, I barely get one sentence out of him. He says he feels no emotions at all. He often smiles at very strange times, and I ask if he found something funny and he says no. He doesn't really have hobbies. He just browses the internet. Occasionally he will show me an article he finds on reddit or something. But he can't answer any questions about himself and doesn't want to know anything about me. He never initiates any type of interaction with me. I feel like he may as well not even be here. \n\nHe has been this way since we got married. I thought he was depressed but he's tried different types of medication and none has worked. Therapy doesn't work. He gave his therapist permission to talk to me and the therapist said he doesn't even talk when he goes. He basically says some form of \"I don't know\" to everything anyone asks him. \n\nI could go on and on but I think you get the picture. Reddit, I am so sad and frustrated. Where did my husband go? It's like he doesn't exist anymore. How do I get him to come back?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I think my husband might actually not feel emotions. \n\nWhen we were dating, he loved to talk to me, in fact would ask me multiple times a day to call just to chat, he texted me 24/7, conversation was great, he was very attentive and always complimented me. Now, he hates me to even ask him a simple question. If I say something to him, he doesn't make eye contact, and rarely responds with more than two or three words, many times will just grunt yes or no. \n\nWhen I ask him how he feels (I've tried wording it many different ways) he says \"I don't know.\" If I ask how work was, I barely get one sentence out of him. He says he feels no emotions at all. He often smiles at very strange times, and I ask if he found something funny and he says no. He doesn't really have hobbies. He just browses the internet. Occasionally he will show me an article he finds on reddit or something. But he can't answer any questions about himself and doesn't want to know anything about me. He never initiates any type of interaction with me. I feel like he may as well not even be here. \n\nHe has been this way since we got married. I thought he was depressed but he's tried different types of medication and none has worked. Therapy doesn't work. He gave his therapist permission to talk to me and the therapist said he doesn't even talk when he goes. He basically says some form of \"I don't know\" to everything anyone asks him. \n\nI could go on and on but I think you get the picture. Reddit, I am so sad and frustrated. Where did my husband go? It's like he doesn't exist anymore. How do I get him to come back?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I think my husband might actually not feel emotions. \n\nWhen we were dating, he loved to talk to me, in fact would ask me multiple times a day to call just to chat, he texted me 24/7, conversation was great, he was very attentive and always complimented me. Now, he hates me to even ask him a simple question. If I say something to him, he doesn't make eye contact, and rarely responds with more than two or three words, many times will just grunt yes or no. \n\nWhen I ask him how he feels (I've tried wording it many different ways) he says \"I don't know.\" If I ask how work was, I barely get one sentence out of him. He says he feels no emotions at all. He often smiles at very strange times, and I ask if he found something funny and he says no. He doesn't really have hobbies. He just browses the internet. Occasionally he will show me an article he finds on reddit or something. But he can't answer any questions about himself and doesn't want to know anything about me. He never initiates any type of interaction with me. I feel like he may as well not even be here. \n\nHe has been this way since we got married. I thought he was depressed but he's tried different types of medication and none has worked. Therapy doesn't work. He gave his therapist permission to talk to me and the therapist said he doesn't even talk when he goes. He basically says some form of \"I don't know\" to everything anyone asks him. \n\nI could go on and on but I think you get the picture. Reddit, I am so sad and frustrated. Where did my husband go? It's like he doesn't exist anymore. How do I get him to come back?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I think my husband might actually not feel emotions. \n\nWhen we were dating, he loved to talk to me, in fact would ask me multiple times a day to call just to chat, he texted me 24/7, conversation was great, he was very attentive and always complimented me. Now, he hates me to even ask him a simple question. If I say something to him, he doesn't make eye contact, and rarely responds with more than two or three words, many times will just grunt yes or no. \n\nWhen I ask him how he feels (I've tried wording it many different ways) he says \"I don't know.\" If I ask how work was, I barely get one sentence out of him. He says he feels no emotions at all. He often smiles at very strange times, and I ask if he found something funny and he says no. He doesn't really have hobbies. He just browses the internet. Occasionally he will show me an article he finds on reddit or something. But he can't answer any questions about himself and doesn't want to know anything about me. He never initiates any type of interaction with me. I feel like he may as well not even be here. \n\nHe has been this way since we got married. I thought he was depressed but he's tried different types of medication and none has worked. Therapy doesn't work. He gave his therapist permission to talk to me and the therapist said he doesn't even talk when he goes. He basically says some form of \"I don't know\" to everything anyone asks him. \n\nI could go on and on but I think you get the picture. Reddit, I am so sad and frustrated. Where did my husband go? It's like he doesn't exist anymore. How do I get him to come back?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I think my husband might actually not feel emotions. \n\nWhen we were dating, he loved to talk to me, in fact would ask me multiple times a day to call just to chat, he texted me 24/7, conversation was great, he was very attentive and always complimented me. Now, he hates me to even ask him a simple question. If I say something to him, he doesn't make eye contact, and rarely responds with more than two or three words, many times will just grunt yes or no. \n\nWhen I ask him how he feels (I've tried wording it many different ways) he says \"I don't know.\" If I ask how work was, I barely get one sentence out of him. He says he feels no emotions at all. He often smiles at very strange times, and I ask if he found something funny and he says no. He doesn't really have hobbies. He just browses the internet. Occasionally he will show me an article he finds on reddit or something. But he can't answer any questions about himself and doesn't want to know anything about me. He never initiates any type of interaction with me. I feel like he may as well not even be here. \n\nHe has been this way since we got married. I thought he was depressed but he's tried different types of medication and none has worked. Therapy doesn't work. He gave his therapist permission to talk to me and the therapist said he doesn't even talk when he goes. He basically says some form of \"I don't know\" to everything anyone asks him. \n\nI could go on and on but I think you get the picture. Reddit, I am so sad and frustrated. Where did my husband go? It's like he doesn't exist anymore. How do I get him to come back?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I used to occasionally use live cam porn sites before I had a girlfriend and had never really before considered the differences between porn and live cams. My girlfriend is out of town, and last night I came home from a bar, pretty drunk. I got home, started looking at porn, and a cam site popup came up. I saw a girl that was attractive, and started browsing cams. Without really thinking about it I paid credits and joined a room.\n\nThe girl took her clothes off and requested my cam. I turned it on. She said I was handsome, etc, and she started asking personal questions about me.\n\nAt this point I began to feel uncomfortable, and realized that this was more personal than just pornography. I love my girlfriend, and I realized we were rapidly moving into territory that I only want to share with her. \n\nI stayed in the room for another minute or two. Although she was naked, she didn't start her show, and I didn't request for her to do anything. I passively answered a few questions, then told her I have a girlfriend and I shouldn't be doing this. I said good bye and signed off.\n\nAfter signing off, I was still drunk and aroused, so I finished while looking at her preview pics. I immediately felt regret, and all day today I have been wondering if this counts as cheating. I feel terrible, and I don't know how my girlfriend will react when she comes back. Do my actions last night amount to cheating?"
} |
Subsets and Splits
No community queries yet
The top public SQL queries from the community will appear here once available.