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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I had problems with part of the government bureaucracy because I never received a letter that they sent. That got me thinking, e-mail doesn't have the same problems that conventional mail does right? It's not like an e-mail will get dropped or lost, it always makes it there right? Of course people have spam filters so that's a problem, but the e-mail still technically gets to them. Then again you could also certify conventional mail, but that would triple the cost of sending each letter and isn't worth the cost.\n\nI'm just annoyed because I can appeal the decision and say I didn't get the letter, but they said since the letter never came back to them it must've come to me. It just seems unreasonable to me. For example, all of the college application I sent by mail I certified to make sure they got it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been together for 2 years come next month, and frankly I want out.again. I broke up with her in February of this year, then got back together with her 6 weeks later in April. My reasons before had been numerous, but I didn't completely tell the truth.\n\nI told her that I was depressed (true), that I didn't see myself \"ending up with her\" (true), that we fought too much (true), that I was generally unhappy with her (true), and that I wasn't into the sex anymore (true). \n\nWhat I didn't tell her was that my attraction for her had plummeted big time, that I was bored of her, and possibly didn't love her as much anymore.\n\nWhen I took her back, it was because I thought I had made a huge mistake, and I thought I still loved her. So I told her that. I wrote her a 12-page letter about it. Now I wish I could take that all back.\n\nI *think* I still love her, but I'm no longer in love with her. I find her annoying - her voice, particularly. I'm bored of what she likes, what she talks about, and her friends. I am not that attracted to her anymore, and that makes me not want to have sex with her. I don't think she's a good person, either. She's generally dishonest - lies, cheats, and steals. God forbid she would cheat on me, too.\n\nSometimes, in fact, I wished she would cheat, so I could dump her. But I think she loves me too much. I don't know. I feel that I deserve her love, I just don't really want it anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been together for 2 years come next month, and frankly I want out.again. I broke up with her in February of this year, then got back together with her 6 weeks later in April. My reasons before had been numerous, but I didn't completely tell the truth.\n\nI told her that I was depressed (true), that I didn't see myself \"ending up with her\" (true), that we fought too much (true), that I was generally unhappy with her (true), and that I wasn't into the sex anymore (true). \n\nWhat I didn't tell her was that my attraction for her had plummeted big time, that I was bored of her, and possibly didn't love her as much anymore.\n\nWhen I took her back, it was because I thought I had made a huge mistake, and I thought I still loved her. So I told her that. I wrote her a 12-page letter about it. Now I wish I could take that all back.\n\nI *think* I still love her, but I'm no longer in love with her. I find her annoying - her voice, particularly. I'm bored of what she likes, what she talks about, and her friends. I am not that attracted to her anymore, and that makes me not want to have sex with her. I don't think she's a good person, either. She's generally dishonest - lies, cheats, and steals. God forbid she would cheat on me, too.\n\nSometimes, in fact, I wished she would cheat, so I could dump her. But I think she loves me too much. I don't know. I feel that I deserve her love, I just don't really want it anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been together for 2 years come next month, and frankly I want out.again. I broke up with her in February of this year, then got back together with her 6 weeks later in April. My reasons before had been numerous, but I didn't completely tell the truth.\n\nI told her that I was depressed (true), that I didn't see myself \"ending up with her\" (true), that we fought too much (true), that I was generally unhappy with her (true), and that I wasn't into the sex anymore (true). \n\nWhat I didn't tell her was that my attraction for her had plummeted big time, that I was bored of her, and possibly didn't love her as much anymore.\n\nWhen I took her back, it was because I thought I had made a huge mistake, and I thought I still loved her. So I told her that. I wrote her a 12-page letter about it. Now I wish I could take that all back.\n\nI *think* I still love her, but I'm no longer in love with her. I find her annoying - her voice, particularly. I'm bored of what she likes, what she talks about, and her friends. I am not that attracted to her anymore, and that makes me not want to have sex with her. I don't think she's a good person, either. She's generally dishonest - lies, cheats, and steals. God forbid she would cheat on me, too.\n\nSometimes, in fact, I wished she would cheat, so I could dump her. But I think she loves me too much. I don't know. I feel that I deserve her love, I just don't really want it anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been together for 2 years come next month, and frankly I want out.again. I broke up with her in February of this year, then got back together with her 6 weeks later in April. My reasons before had been numerous, but I didn't completely tell the truth.\n\nI told her that I was depressed (true), that I didn't see myself \"ending up with her\" (true), that we fought too much (true), that I was generally unhappy with her (true), and that I wasn't into the sex anymore (true). \n\nWhat I didn't tell her was that my attraction for her had plummeted big time, that I was bored of her, and possibly didn't love her as much anymore.\n\nWhen I took her back, it was because I thought I had made a huge mistake, and I thought I still loved her. So I told her that. I wrote her a 12-page letter about it. Now I wish I could take that all back.\n\nI *think* I still love her, but I'm no longer in love with her. I find her annoying - her voice, particularly. I'm bored of what she likes, what she talks about, and her friends. I am not that attracted to her anymore, and that makes me not want to have sex with her. I don't think she's a good person, either. She's generally dishonest - lies, cheats, and steals. God forbid she would cheat on me, too.\n\nSometimes, in fact, I wished she would cheat, so I could dump her. But I think she loves me too much. I don't know. I feel that I deserve her love, I just don't really want it anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been together for 2 years come next month, and frankly I want out.again. I broke up with her in February of this year, then got back together with her 6 weeks later in April. My reasons before had been numerous, but I didn't completely tell the truth.\n\nI told her that I was depressed (true), that I didn't see myself \"ending up with her\" (true), that we fought too much (true), that I was generally unhappy with her (true), and that I wasn't into the sex anymore (true). \n\nWhat I didn't tell her was that my attraction for her had plummeted big time, that I was bored of her, and possibly didn't love her as much anymore.\n\nWhen I took her back, it was because I thought I had made a huge mistake, and I thought I still loved her. So I told her that. I wrote her a 12-page letter about it. Now I wish I could take that all back.\n\nI *think* I still love her, but I'm no longer in love with her. I find her annoying - her voice, particularly. I'm bored of what she likes, what she talks about, and her friends. I am not that attracted to her anymore, and that makes me not want to have sex with her. I don't think she's a good person, either. She's generally dishonest - lies, cheats, and steals. God forbid she would cheat on me, too.\n\nSometimes, in fact, I wished she would cheat, so I could dump her. But I think she loves me too much. I don't know. I feel that I deserve her love, I just don't really want it anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been together for 2 years come next month, and frankly I want out.again. I broke up with her in February of this year, then got back together with her 6 weeks later in April. My reasons before had been numerous, but I didn't completely tell the truth.\n\nI told her that I was depressed (true), that I didn't see myself \"ending up with her\" (true), that we fought too much (true), that I was generally unhappy with her (true), and that I wasn't into the sex anymore (true). \n\nWhat I didn't tell her was that my attraction for her had plummeted big time, that I was bored of her, and possibly didn't love her as much anymore.\n\nWhen I took her back, it was because I thought I had made a huge mistake, and I thought I still loved her. So I told her that. I wrote her a 12-page letter about it. Now I wish I could take that all back.\n\nI *think* I still love her, but I'm no longer in love with her. I find her annoying - her voice, particularly. I'm bored of what she likes, what she talks about, and her friends. I am not that attracted to her anymore, and that makes me not want to have sex with her. I don't think she's a good person, either. She's generally dishonest - lies, cheats, and steals. God forbid she would cheat on me, too.\n\nSometimes, in fact, I wished she would cheat, so I could dump her. But I think she loves me too much. I don't know. I feel that I deserve her love, I just don't really want it anymore."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have had some troubles with trust recently and I feel like we are growing apart fast. My gf is one of those girls who has always had a boyfriend and went from being single to dating quickly from what I know. She recently went to a party and this one guy and her have been talking throughout the entire day everyday, and now they are starting to hangout with each other. She has told me she's not interested at all with this guy and I believe it, but this guy has came out to her and shared feelings to her. This has caused me to be in pain and feel angry knowingly that this guy is coming on to her and she isn't clearly saying no. I find myself skate asking that if they are hanging out I want to be there, and asking how this guy is doing, but all of a sudden they stop talking, once I started asking questions. Is it natural to dwell on my girlfriend's and this guys relationship? How have things normally turned out with everyone's past experience? At times I feel single, often actually, but I have a hard time trying to break up with her because I don't have anywhere else to move to/mice in with. I have find myself thinking that once I get an place of my own, I'd break up with her. She hates it when I bring up how I feel and how I tell her that I don't want her talking with this guy, but she will not stop talking to this guy because he's just a friend and she's loyal to me. What are things I can do to get out of this weird depression/confusion/worry/single state of mind? I'm looking at counselors to set up an appointment with them, but that's it so far."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have had some troubles with trust recently and I feel like we are growing apart fast. My gf is one of those girls who has always had a boyfriend and went from being single to dating quickly from what I know. She recently went to a party and this one guy and her have been talking throughout the entire day everyday, and now they are starting to hangout with each other. She has told me she's not interested at all with this guy and I believe it, but this guy has came out to her and shared feelings to her. This has caused me to be in pain and feel angry knowingly that this guy is coming on to her and she isn't clearly saying no. I find myself skate asking that if they are hanging out I want to be there, and asking how this guy is doing, but all of a sudden they stop talking, once I started asking questions. Is it natural to dwell on my girlfriend's and this guys relationship? How have things normally turned out with everyone's past experience? At times I feel single, often actually, but I have a hard time trying to break up with her because I don't have anywhere else to move to/mice in with. I have find myself thinking that once I get an place of my own, I'd break up with her. She hates it when I bring up how I feel and how I tell her that I don't want her talking with this guy, but she will not stop talking to this guy because he's just a friend and she's loyal to me. What are things I can do to get out of this weird depression/confusion/worry/single state of mind? I'm looking at counselors to set up an appointment with them, but that's it so far."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have had some troubles with trust recently and I feel like we are growing apart fast. My gf is one of those girls who has always had a boyfriend and went from being single to dating quickly from what I know. She recently went to a party and this one guy and her have been talking throughout the entire day everyday, and now they are starting to hangout with each other. She has told me she's not interested at all with this guy and I believe it, but this guy has came out to her and shared feelings to her. This has caused me to be in pain and feel angry knowingly that this guy is coming on to her and she isn't clearly saying no. I find myself skate asking that if they are hanging out I want to be there, and asking how this guy is doing, but all of a sudden they stop talking, once I started asking questions. Is it natural to dwell on my girlfriend's and this guys relationship? How have things normally turned out with everyone's past experience? At times I feel single, often actually, but I have a hard time trying to break up with her because I don't have anywhere else to move to/mice in with. I have find myself thinking that once I get an place of my own, I'd break up with her. She hates it when I bring up how I feel and how I tell her that I don't want her talking with this guy, but she will not stop talking to this guy because he's just a friend and she's loyal to me. What are things I can do to get out of this weird depression/confusion/worry/single state of mind? I'm looking at counselors to set up an appointment with them, but that's it so far."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have had some troubles with trust recently and I feel like we are growing apart fast. My gf is one of those girls who has always had a boyfriend and went from being single to dating quickly from what I know. She recently went to a party and this one guy and her have been talking throughout the entire day everyday, and now they are starting to hangout with each other. She has told me she's not interested at all with this guy and I believe it, but this guy has came out to her and shared feelings to her. This has caused me to be in pain and feel angry knowingly that this guy is coming on to her and she isn't clearly saying no. I find myself skate asking that if they are hanging out I want to be there, and asking how this guy is doing, but all of a sudden they stop talking, once I started asking questions. Is it natural to dwell on my girlfriend's and this guys relationship? How have things normally turned out with everyone's past experience? At times I feel single, often actually, but I have a hard time trying to break up with her because I don't have anywhere else to move to/mice in with. I have find myself thinking that once I get an place of my own, I'd break up with her. She hates it when I bring up how I feel and how I tell her that I don't want her talking with this guy, but she will not stop talking to this guy because he's just a friend and she's loyal to me. What are things I can do to get out of this weird depression/confusion/worry/single state of mind? I'm looking at counselors to set up an appointment with them, but that's it so far."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have had some troubles with trust recently and I feel like we are growing apart fast. My gf is one of those girls who has always had a boyfriend and went from being single to dating quickly from what I know. She recently went to a party and this one guy and her have been talking throughout the entire day everyday, and now they are starting to hangout with each other. She has told me she's not interested at all with this guy and I believe it, but this guy has came out to her and shared feelings to her. This has caused me to be in pain and feel angry knowingly that this guy is coming on to her and she isn't clearly saying no. I find myself skate asking that if they are hanging out I want to be there, and asking how this guy is doing, but all of a sudden they stop talking, once I started asking questions. Is it natural to dwell on my girlfriend's and this guys relationship? How have things normally turned out with everyone's past experience? At times I feel single, often actually, but I have a hard time trying to break up with her because I don't have anywhere else to move to/mice in with. I have find myself thinking that once I get an place of my own, I'd break up with her. She hates it when I bring up how I feel and how I tell her that I don't want her talking with this guy, but she will not stop talking to this guy because he's just a friend and she's loyal to me. What are things I can do to get out of this weird depression/confusion/worry/single state of mind? I'm looking at counselors to set up an appointment with them, but that's it so far."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf and I have had some troubles with trust recently and I feel like we are growing apart fast. My gf is one of those girls who has always had a boyfriend and went from being single to dating quickly from what I know. She recently went to a party and this one guy and her have been talking throughout the entire day everyday, and now they are starting to hangout with each other. She has told me she's not interested at all with this guy and I believe it, but this guy has came out to her and shared feelings to her. This has caused me to be in pain and feel angry knowingly that this guy is coming on to her and she isn't clearly saying no. I find myself skate asking that if they are hanging out I want to be there, and asking how this guy is doing, but all of a sudden they stop talking, once I started asking questions. Is it natural to dwell on my girlfriend's and this guys relationship? How have things normally turned out with everyone's past experience? At times I feel single, often actually, but I have a hard time trying to break up with her because I don't have anywhere else to move to/mice in with. I have find myself thinking that once I get an place of my own, I'd break up with her. She hates it when I bring up how I feel and how I tell her that I don't want her talking with this guy, but she will not stop talking to this guy because he's just a friend and she's loyal to me. What are things I can do to get out of this weird depression/confusion/worry/single state of mind? I'm looking at counselors to set up an appointment with them, but that's it so far."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So tonight was supposed to be our forth date. I was going to make him dinner before we hit up some bars. Our first three dates went REALLY well. We just click with each other. On the days we havent seen each other, we have been texting non-stop. \nI double checked these plans yesterday, but we havent talked much today besides the random snapchat or two. \n\nI got home from work, got ready, and texted him \"psst\" to see where he was. While I waited for a reply, I started to prep dinner. 40 minutes went by and I still hadnt heard from him, so I texted him again \"Hey what is your eta?\"\n\nNo response. \n\nSo I started cooking dinner. I realize that I probably wont see him tonight, and have decided to eat a fucking awesome meal, get drunk, and watch the new aziz standup on Netlix. \n\nBut what do I say to him? I am really hurt that he blew off these plans, because I like him a lot and I thought he felt the same (because he told me so).\n\nI'm pretty sure hes hanging out with coworkers drinking and smoking. \n\nWhat do I do? What do I say?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So tonight was supposed to be our forth date. I was going to make him dinner before we hit up some bars. Our first three dates went REALLY well. We just click with each other. On the days we havent seen each other, we have been texting non-stop. \nI double checked these plans yesterday, but we havent talked much today besides the random snapchat or two. \n\nI got home from work, got ready, and texted him \"psst\" to see where he was. While I waited for a reply, I started to prep dinner. 40 minutes went by and I still hadnt heard from him, so I texted him again \"Hey what is your eta?\"\n\nNo response. \n\nSo I started cooking dinner. I realize that I probably wont see him tonight, and have decided to eat a fucking awesome meal, get drunk, and watch the new aziz standup on Netlix. \n\nBut what do I say to him? I am really hurt that he blew off these plans, because I like him a lot and I thought he felt the same (because he told me so).\n\nI'm pretty sure hes hanging out with coworkers drinking and smoking. \n\nWhat do I do? What do I say?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So tonight was supposed to be our forth date. I was going to make him dinner before we hit up some bars. Our first three dates went REALLY well. We just click with each other. On the days we havent seen each other, we have been texting non-stop. \nI double checked these plans yesterday, but we havent talked much today besides the random snapchat or two. \n\nI got home from work, got ready, and texted him \"psst\" to see where he was. While I waited for a reply, I started to prep dinner. 40 minutes went by and I still hadnt heard from him, so I texted him again \"Hey what is your eta?\"\n\nNo response. \n\nSo I started cooking dinner. I realize that I probably wont see him tonight, and have decided to eat a fucking awesome meal, get drunk, and watch the new aziz standup on Netlix. \n\nBut what do I say to him? I am really hurt that he blew off these plans, because I like him a lot and I thought he felt the same (because he told me so).\n\nI'm pretty sure hes hanging out with coworkers drinking and smoking. \n\nWhat do I do? What do I say?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So tonight was supposed to be our forth date. I was going to make him dinner before we hit up some bars. Our first three dates went REALLY well. We just click with each other. On the days we havent seen each other, we have been texting non-stop. \nI double checked these plans yesterday, but we havent talked much today besides the random snapchat or two. \n\nI got home from work, got ready, and texted him \"psst\" to see where he was. While I waited for a reply, I started to prep dinner. 40 minutes went by and I still hadnt heard from him, so I texted him again \"Hey what is your eta?\"\n\nNo response. \n\nSo I started cooking dinner. I realize that I probably wont see him tonight, and have decided to eat a fucking awesome meal, get drunk, and watch the new aziz standup on Netlix. \n\nBut what do I say to him? I am really hurt that he blew off these plans, because I like him a lot and I thought he felt the same (because he told me so).\n\nI'm pretty sure hes hanging out with coworkers drinking and smoking. \n\nWhat do I do? What do I say?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So tonight was supposed to be our forth date. I was going to make him dinner before we hit up some bars. Our first three dates went REALLY well. We just click with each other. On the days we havent seen each other, we have been texting non-stop. \nI double checked these plans yesterday, but we havent talked much today besides the random snapchat or two. \n\nI got home from work, got ready, and texted him \"psst\" to see where he was. While I waited for a reply, I started to prep dinner. 40 minutes went by and I still hadnt heard from him, so I texted him again \"Hey what is your eta?\"\n\nNo response. \n\nSo I started cooking dinner. I realize that I probably wont see him tonight, and have decided to eat a fucking awesome meal, get drunk, and watch the new aziz standup on Netlix. \n\nBut what do I say to him? I am really hurt that he blew off these plans, because I like him a lot and I thought he felt the same (because he told me so).\n\nI'm pretty sure hes hanging out with coworkers drinking and smoking. \n\nWhat do I do? What do I say?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So tonight was supposed to be our forth date. I was going to make him dinner before we hit up some bars. Our first three dates went REALLY well. We just click with each other. On the days we havent seen each other, we have been texting non-stop. \nI double checked these plans yesterday, but we havent talked much today besides the random snapchat or two. \n\nI got home from work, got ready, and texted him \"psst\" to see where he was. While I waited for a reply, I started to prep dinner. 40 minutes went by and I still hadnt heard from him, so I texted him again \"Hey what is your eta?\"\n\nNo response. \n\nSo I started cooking dinner. I realize that I probably wont see him tonight, and have decided to eat a fucking awesome meal, get drunk, and watch the new aziz standup on Netlix. \n\nBut what do I say to him? I am really hurt that he blew off these plans, because I like him a lot and I thought he felt the same (because he told me so).\n\nI'm pretty sure hes hanging out with coworkers drinking and smoking. \n\nWhat do I do? What do I say?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a colleague who's been asking me several personal questions and I'm not sure whether it's because she's nosy and a gossip since she already told something I told her to another colleague, or whether she's a potential threat. I don't know whether or not this colleague was taught manners or if it's in her nature to get into everyone's business but lately she's asked details like:\n\n- where I live\n- which transit station I go to\n- which bus I take\n- what time is my bus (she asked it Friday)\n- if I live in an apartment or a house\n- which month my birthday is in\n- my age\n- made a comment how nice a coat was I was wearing and how expensive it was (it was expensive but I didn't pay for it)\netc.\n\nI've given her some details already but I don't feel comfortable giving out more and it's putting a strain on our working relationship. The other day she asked, if you don't mind a personal question, how old are you? (And you know what, I do mind, in part because I am much older than her and other colleagues, although and act younger) I tried dodging the question with a hint saying I was hassled by a doorman a few years ago and asked for ID and she guessed a number, and then hassled me the rest of the shift for the precise number. I have my reasons for not giving my exact age and especially not date of birth, and one of them is privacy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a colleague who's been asking me several personal questions and I'm not sure whether it's because she's nosy and a gossip since she already told something I told her to another colleague, or whether she's a potential threat. I don't know whether or not this colleague was taught manners or if it's in her nature to get into everyone's business but lately she's asked details like:\n\n- where I live\n- which transit station I go to\n- which bus I take\n- what time is my bus (she asked it Friday)\n- if I live in an apartment or a house\n- which month my birthday is in\n- my age\n- made a comment how nice a coat was I was wearing and how expensive it was (it was expensive but I didn't pay for it)\netc.\n\nI've given her some details already but I don't feel comfortable giving out more and it's putting a strain on our working relationship. The other day she asked, if you don't mind a personal question, how old are you? (And you know what, I do mind, in part because I am much older than her and other colleagues, although and act younger) I tried dodging the question with a hint saying I was hassled by a doorman a few years ago and asked for ID and she guessed a number, and then hassled me the rest of the shift for the precise number. I have my reasons for not giving my exact age and especially not date of birth, and one of them is privacy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a colleague who's been asking me several personal questions and I'm not sure whether it's because she's nosy and a gossip since she already told something I told her to another colleague, or whether she's a potential threat. I don't know whether or not this colleague was taught manners or if it's in her nature to get into everyone's business but lately she's asked details like:\n\n- where I live\n- which transit station I go to\n- which bus I take\n- what time is my bus (she asked it Friday)\n- if I live in an apartment or a house\n- which month my birthday is in\n- my age\n- made a comment how nice a coat was I was wearing and how expensive it was (it was expensive but I didn't pay for it)\netc.\n\nI've given her some details already but I don't feel comfortable giving out more and it's putting a strain on our working relationship. The other day she asked, if you don't mind a personal question, how old are you? (And you know what, I do mind, in part because I am much older than her and other colleagues, although and act younger) I tried dodging the question with a hint saying I was hassled by a doorman a few years ago and asked for ID and she guessed a number, and then hassled me the rest of the shift for the precise number. I have my reasons for not giving my exact age and especially not date of birth, and one of them is privacy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a colleague who's been asking me several personal questions and I'm not sure whether it's because she's nosy and a gossip since she already told something I told her to another colleague, or whether she's a potential threat. I don't know whether or not this colleague was taught manners or if it's in her nature to get into everyone's business but lately she's asked details like:\n\n- where I live\n- which transit station I go to\n- which bus I take\n- what time is my bus (she asked it Friday)\n- if I live in an apartment or a house\n- which month my birthday is in\n- my age\n- made a comment how nice a coat was I was wearing and how expensive it was (it was expensive but I didn't pay for it)\netc.\n\nI've given her some details already but I don't feel comfortable giving out more and it's putting a strain on our working relationship. The other day she asked, if you don't mind a personal question, how old are you? (And you know what, I do mind, in part because I am much older than her and other colleagues, although and act younger) I tried dodging the question with a hint saying I was hassled by a doorman a few years ago and asked for ID and she guessed a number, and then hassled me the rest of the shift for the precise number. I have my reasons for not giving my exact age and especially not date of birth, and one of them is privacy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have a colleague who's been asking me several personal questions and I'm not sure whether it's because she's nosy and a gossip since she already told something I told her to another colleague, or whether she's a potential threat. I don't know whether or not this colleague was taught manners or if it's in her nature to get into everyone's business but lately she's asked details like:\n\n- where I live\n- which transit station I go to\n- which bus I take\n- what time is my bus (she asked it Friday)\n- if I live in an apartment or a house\n- which month my birthday is in\n- my age\n- made a comment how nice a coat was I was wearing and how expensive it was (it was expensive but I didn't pay for it)\netc.\n\nI've given her some details already but I don't feel comfortable giving out more and it's putting a strain on our working relationship. The other day she asked, if you don't mind a personal question, how old are you? (And you know what, I do mind, in part because I am much older than her and other colleagues, although and act younger) I tried dodging the question with a hint saying I was hassled by a doorman a few years ago and asked for ID and she guessed a number, and then hassled me the rest of the shift for the precise number. I have my reasons for not giving my exact age and especially not date of birth, and one of them is privacy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (22F) was approached by a family friend to invest in a distributing business. I am interested but the way he explained seems a little odd to me. He wants me to take out a personal loan (hoping to get 100,000 and up) and he says he'll use that for buying new trucks and other things the business will need since they are expanding. He does have a bachelors in business, a background in different businesses, and he just started this business about 7 months ago and it seems to be doing well. I know that in any business there is risk but I'm not sure if his plan (me taking out a personal loan) will actually work. Any advice would help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (22F) was approached by a family friend to invest in a distributing business. I am interested but the way he explained seems a little odd to me. He wants me to take out a personal loan (hoping to get 100,000 and up) and he says he'll use that for buying new trucks and other things the business will need since they are expanding. He does have a bachelors in business, a background in different businesses, and he just started this business about 7 months ago and it seems to be doing well. I know that in any business there is risk but I'm not sure if his plan (me taking out a personal loan) will actually work. Any advice would help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (22F) was approached by a family friend to invest in a distributing business. I am interested but the way he explained seems a little odd to me. He wants me to take out a personal loan (hoping to get 100,000 and up) and he says he'll use that for buying new trucks and other things the business will need since they are expanding. He does have a bachelors in business, a background in different businesses, and he just started this business about 7 months ago and it seems to be doing well. I know that in any business there is risk but I'm not sure if his plan (me taking out a personal loan) will actually work. Any advice would help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (22F) was approached by a family friend to invest in a distributing business. I am interested but the way he explained seems a little odd to me. He wants me to take out a personal loan (hoping to get 100,000 and up) and he says he'll use that for buying new trucks and other things the business will need since they are expanding. He does have a bachelors in business, a background in different businesses, and he just started this business about 7 months ago and it seems to be doing well. I know that in any business there is risk but I'm not sure if his plan (me taking out a personal loan) will actually work. Any advice would help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (22F) was approached by a family friend to invest in a distributing business. I am interested but the way he explained seems a little odd to me. He wants me to take out a personal loan (hoping to get 100,000 and up) and he says he'll use that for buying new trucks and other things the business will need since they are expanding. He does have a bachelors in business, a background in different businesses, and he just started this business about 7 months ago and it seems to be doing well. I know that in any business there is risk but I'm not sure if his plan (me taking out a personal loan) will actually work. Any advice would help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (22F) was approached by a family friend to invest in a distributing business. I am interested but the way he explained seems a little odd to me. He wants me to take out a personal loan (hoping to get 100,000 and up) and he says he'll use that for buying new trucks and other things the business will need since they are expanding. He does have a bachelors in business, a background in different businesses, and he just started this business about 7 months ago and it seems to be doing well. I know that in any business there is risk but I'm not sure if his plan (me taking out a personal loan) will actually work. Any advice would help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sorry if this is a silly question. I'm a really big giftgiver. I like to spoil people with gifts and notes and surprises. \n\nMy girlfriend is crazy about halloween, she absolutely loves it. she's been talking about it for months now and its not even October. \n\nI had the idea to get her 31 little presents, so she can open one each day leading up to halloween. like an advent calendar type thing, but for halloween instead of christmas. \n\nNot all of the gifts are major things, just little halloween trinkets, halloween themed candy, and maybe a few bigger ones (like a stuffed cat and a necklace). \n\nAm I going to look crazy if I hand her a bag of gifts on October 1st, and tell her to open one every day? We've only been dating a few months, so i'm still kinda trying to figure things like that out. \n\nReally I just need some outside opinions please."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sorry if this is a silly question. I'm a really big giftgiver. I like to spoil people with gifts and notes and surprises. \n\nMy girlfriend is crazy about halloween, she absolutely loves it. she's been talking about it for months now and its not even October. \n\nI had the idea to get her 31 little presents, so she can open one each day leading up to halloween. like an advent calendar type thing, but for halloween instead of christmas. \n\nNot all of the gifts are major things, just little halloween trinkets, halloween themed candy, and maybe a few bigger ones (like a stuffed cat and a necklace). \n\nAm I going to look crazy if I hand her a bag of gifts on October 1st, and tell her to open one every day? We've only been dating a few months, so i'm still kinda trying to figure things like that out. \n\nReally I just need some outside opinions please."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sorry if this is a silly question. I'm a really big giftgiver. I like to spoil people with gifts and notes and surprises. \n\nMy girlfriend is crazy about halloween, she absolutely loves it. she's been talking about it for months now and its not even October. \n\nI had the idea to get her 31 little presents, so she can open one each day leading up to halloween. like an advent calendar type thing, but for halloween instead of christmas. \n\nNot all of the gifts are major things, just little halloween trinkets, halloween themed candy, and maybe a few bigger ones (like a stuffed cat and a necklace). \n\nAm I going to look crazy if I hand her a bag of gifts on October 1st, and tell her to open one every day? We've only been dating a few months, so i'm still kinda trying to figure things like that out. \n\nReally I just need some outside opinions please."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sorry if this is a silly question. I'm a really big giftgiver. I like to spoil people with gifts and notes and surprises. \n\nMy girlfriend is crazy about halloween, she absolutely loves it. she's been talking about it for months now and its not even October. \n\nI had the idea to get her 31 little presents, so she can open one each day leading up to halloween. like an advent calendar type thing, but for halloween instead of christmas. \n\nNot all of the gifts are major things, just little halloween trinkets, halloween themed candy, and maybe a few bigger ones (like a stuffed cat and a necklace). \n\nAm I going to look crazy if I hand her a bag of gifts on October 1st, and tell her to open one every day? We've only been dating a few months, so i'm still kinda trying to figure things like that out. \n\nReally I just need some outside opinions please."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sorry if this is a silly question. I'm a really big giftgiver. I like to spoil people with gifts and notes and surprises. \n\nMy girlfriend is crazy about halloween, she absolutely loves it. she's been talking about it for months now and its not even October. \n\nI had the idea to get her 31 little presents, so she can open one each day leading up to halloween. like an advent calendar type thing, but for halloween instead of christmas. \n\nNot all of the gifts are major things, just little halloween trinkets, halloween themed candy, and maybe a few bigger ones (like a stuffed cat and a necklace). \n\nAm I going to look crazy if I hand her a bag of gifts on October 1st, and tell her to open one every day? We've only been dating a few months, so i'm still kinda trying to figure things like that out. \n\nReally I just need some outside opinions please."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm sorry if this is a silly question. I'm a really big giftgiver. I like to spoil people with gifts and notes and surprises. \n\nMy girlfriend is crazy about halloween, she absolutely loves it. she's been talking about it for months now and its not even October. \n\nI had the idea to get her 31 little presents, so she can open one each day leading up to halloween. like an advent calendar type thing, but for halloween instead of christmas. \n\nNot all of the gifts are major things, just little halloween trinkets, halloween themed candy, and maybe a few bigger ones (like a stuffed cat and a necklace). \n\nAm I going to look crazy if I hand her a bag of gifts on October 1st, and tell her to open one every day? We've only been dating a few months, so i'm still kinda trying to figure things like that out. \n\nReally I just need some outside opinions please."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend's mother and I have never seen eye to eye. last summer she had said/done hurtful things to me, and it came to her telling me my parents raised me wrong and I'm a bad person in a letter. I replied with a letter that was not too kind to her (no cursing or accusations, but trying to establish I'm at least not a bad person, but I ended up hurting her back.) This resulted in her making my gf break up with me through what I see as emotional manipulation (being very cold to my gf).\n\nWe got back together once we returned to school last fall, which made her mom furious. We have been together since then and I've tried everything to get through to her (flowers, letters, trying to come by to talk) but to no avail. I am not allowed to her house, not even to pick her up for a date (we are long distance when not in school).I plan on being with my gf for a long while and marriage is a serious possibility. I will not break up with my gf. I just want suggestions on actions I may take to make amends with her mother."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend's mother and I have never seen eye to eye. last summer she had said/done hurtful things to me, and it came to her telling me my parents raised me wrong and I'm a bad person in a letter. I replied with a letter that was not too kind to her (no cursing or accusations, but trying to establish I'm at least not a bad person, but I ended up hurting her back.) This resulted in her making my gf break up with me through what I see as emotional manipulation (being very cold to my gf).\n\nWe got back together once we returned to school last fall, which made her mom furious. We have been together since then and I've tried everything to get through to her (flowers, letters, trying to come by to talk) but to no avail. I am not allowed to her house, not even to pick her up for a date (we are long distance when not in school).I plan on being with my gf for a long while and marriage is a serious possibility. I will not break up with my gf. I just want suggestions on actions I may take to make amends with her mother."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend's mother and I have never seen eye to eye. last summer she had said/done hurtful things to me, and it came to her telling me my parents raised me wrong and I'm a bad person in a letter. I replied with a letter that was not too kind to her (no cursing or accusations, but trying to establish I'm at least not a bad person, but I ended up hurting her back.) This resulted in her making my gf break up with me through what I see as emotional manipulation (being very cold to my gf).\n\nWe got back together once we returned to school last fall, which made her mom furious. We have been together since then and I've tried everything to get through to her (flowers, letters, trying to come by to talk) but to no avail. I am not allowed to her house, not even to pick her up for a date (we are long distance when not in school).I plan on being with my gf for a long while and marriage is a serious possibility. I will not break up with my gf. I just want suggestions on actions I may take to make amends with her mother."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend's mother and I have never seen eye to eye. last summer she had said/done hurtful things to me, and it came to her telling me my parents raised me wrong and I'm a bad person in a letter. I replied with a letter that was not too kind to her (no cursing or accusations, but trying to establish I'm at least not a bad person, but I ended up hurting her back.) This resulted in her making my gf break up with me through what I see as emotional manipulation (being very cold to my gf).\n\nWe got back together once we returned to school last fall, which made her mom furious. We have been together since then and I've tried everything to get through to her (flowers, letters, trying to come by to talk) but to no avail. I am not allowed to her house, not even to pick her up for a date (we are long distance when not in school).I plan on being with my gf for a long while and marriage is a serious possibility. I will not break up with my gf. I just want suggestions on actions I may take to make amends with her mother."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend's mother and I have never seen eye to eye. last summer she had said/done hurtful things to me, and it came to her telling me my parents raised me wrong and I'm a bad person in a letter. I replied with a letter that was not too kind to her (no cursing or accusations, but trying to establish I'm at least not a bad person, but I ended up hurting her back.) This resulted in her making my gf break up with me through what I see as emotional manipulation (being very cold to my gf).\n\nWe got back together once we returned to school last fall, which made her mom furious. We have been together since then and I've tried everything to get through to her (flowers, letters, trying to come by to talk) but to no avail. I am not allowed to her house, not even to pick her up for a date (we are long distance when not in school).I plan on being with my gf for a long while and marriage is a serious possibility. I will not break up with my gf. I just want suggestions on actions I may take to make amends with her mother."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend's mother and I have never seen eye to eye. last summer she had said/done hurtful things to me, and it came to her telling me my parents raised me wrong and I'm a bad person in a letter. I replied with a letter that was not too kind to her (no cursing or accusations, but trying to establish I'm at least not a bad person, but I ended up hurting her back.) This resulted in her making my gf break up with me through what I see as emotional manipulation (being very cold to my gf).\n\nWe got back together once we returned to school last fall, which made her mom furious. We have been together since then and I've tried everything to get through to her (flowers, letters, trying to come by to talk) but to no avail. I am not allowed to her house, not even to pick her up for a date (we are long distance when not in school).I plan on being with my gf for a long while and marriage is a serious possibility. I will not break up with my gf. I just want suggestions on actions I may take to make amends with her mother."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Posted it here instead of over in /r/AskWomen.\n\nI've been mulling this over for the past few days, and all the girls I've talked to so far have said no.\n\nIf you want to hear my specific situation; I've been in a relationship with this guy for 10 months and I lost my virginity to him. Sex is boring, it hurts and is generally. not something I look forward to, even though I often engage (not because I feel like I have to, but because I feel like I want to, until the actual act).\n\nI've talked to him about it a few times, and he's been with ~6 girls before me, so he's got a great deal more experience than I.\n\nOtherwise, we've got good chemistry, and we have fun together. What do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Posted it here instead of over in /r/AskWomen.\n\nI've been mulling this over for the past few days, and all the girls I've talked to so far have said no.\n\nIf you want to hear my specific situation; I've been in a relationship with this guy for 10 months and I lost my virginity to him. Sex is boring, it hurts and is generally. not something I look forward to, even though I often engage (not because I feel like I have to, but because I feel like I want to, until the actual act).\n\nI've talked to him about it a few times, and he's been with ~6 girls before me, so he's got a great deal more experience than I.\n\nOtherwise, we've got good chemistry, and we have fun together. What do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Posted it here instead of over in /r/AskWomen.\n\nI've been mulling this over for the past few days, and all the girls I've talked to so far have said no.\n\nIf you want to hear my specific situation; I've been in a relationship with this guy for 10 months and I lost my virginity to him. Sex is boring, it hurts and is generally. not something I look forward to, even though I often engage (not because I feel like I have to, but because I feel like I want to, until the actual act).\n\nI've talked to him about it a few times, and he's been with ~6 girls before me, so he's got a great deal more experience than I.\n\nOtherwise, we've got good chemistry, and we have fun together. What do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Posted it here instead of over in /r/AskWomen.\n\nI've been mulling this over for the past few days, and all the girls I've talked to so far have said no.\n\nIf you want to hear my specific situation; I've been in a relationship with this guy for 10 months and I lost my virginity to him. Sex is boring, it hurts and is generally. not something I look forward to, even though I often engage (not because I feel like I have to, but because I feel like I want to, until the actual act).\n\nI've talked to him about it a few times, and he's been with ~6 girls before me, so he's got a great deal more experience than I.\n\nOtherwise, we've got good chemistry, and we have fun together. What do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Posted it here instead of over in /r/AskWomen.\n\nI've been mulling this over for the past few days, and all the girls I've talked to so far have said no.\n\nIf you want to hear my specific situation; I've been in a relationship with this guy for 10 months and I lost my virginity to him. Sex is boring, it hurts and is generally. not something I look forward to, even though I often engage (not because I feel like I have to, but because I feel like I want to, until the actual act).\n\nI've talked to him about it a few times, and he's been with ~6 girls before me, so he's got a great deal more experience than I.\n\nOtherwise, we've got good chemistry, and we have fun together. What do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Posted it here instead of over in /r/AskWomen.\n\nI've been mulling this over for the past few days, and all the girls I've talked to so far have said no.\n\nIf you want to hear my specific situation; I've been in a relationship with this guy for 10 months and I lost my virginity to him. Sex is boring, it hurts and is generally. not something I look forward to, even though I often engage (not because I feel like I have to, but because I feel like I want to, until the actual act).\n\nI've talked to him about it a few times, and he's been with ~6 girls before me, so he's got a great deal more experience than I.\n\nOtherwise, we've got good chemistry, and we have fun together. What do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 or so months, and we live in different towns. When she visits me, we stay in my full sized bed. But when we visit her, the only sleeping option is to share her extremely small twin sized bed (in a room she shares with another woman but that isn't the issue here). \n\nI've slept in this bed numerous times, each time giving in because I really do want to sleep next to her, but some nights I toss and turn, some nights I'm squished into the wall and sometimes I stay up for hours playing with the cat. I even slept curled up in a ball at the end of the bed once. \n\nShould I keep doing this until eventually I fall asleep? Am I being crazy for needing my space while I sleep? She is often sad when I decide to drive home to my parents home (in the same town as her) instead of sleeping over."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 or so months, and we live in different towns. When she visits me, we stay in my full sized bed. But when we visit her, the only sleeping option is to share her extremely small twin sized bed (in a room she shares with another woman but that isn't the issue here). \n\nI've slept in this bed numerous times, each time giving in because I really do want to sleep next to her, but some nights I toss and turn, some nights I'm squished into the wall and sometimes I stay up for hours playing with the cat. I even slept curled up in a ball at the end of the bed once. \n\nShould I keep doing this until eventually I fall asleep? Am I being crazy for needing my space while I sleep? She is often sad when I decide to drive home to my parents home (in the same town as her) instead of sleeping over."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 or so months, and we live in different towns. When she visits me, we stay in my full sized bed. But when we visit her, the only sleeping option is to share her extremely small twin sized bed (in a room she shares with another woman but that isn't the issue here). \n\nI've slept in this bed numerous times, each time giving in because I really do want to sleep next to her, but some nights I toss and turn, some nights I'm squished into the wall and sometimes I stay up for hours playing with the cat. I even slept curled up in a ball at the end of the bed once. \n\nShould I keep doing this until eventually I fall asleep? Am I being crazy for needing my space while I sleep? She is often sad when I decide to drive home to my parents home (in the same town as her) instead of sleeping over."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 or so months, and we live in different towns. When she visits me, we stay in my full sized bed. But when we visit her, the only sleeping option is to share her extremely small twin sized bed (in a room she shares with another woman but that isn't the issue here). \n\nI've slept in this bed numerous times, each time giving in because I really do want to sleep next to her, but some nights I toss and turn, some nights I'm squished into the wall and sometimes I stay up for hours playing with the cat. I even slept curled up in a ball at the end of the bed once. \n\nShould I keep doing this until eventually I fall asleep? Am I being crazy for needing my space while I sleep? She is often sad when I decide to drive home to my parents home (in the same town as her) instead of sleeping over."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 or so months, and we live in different towns. When she visits me, we stay in my full sized bed. But when we visit her, the only sleeping option is to share her extremely small twin sized bed (in a room she shares with another woman but that isn't the issue here). \n\nI've slept in this bed numerous times, each time giving in because I really do want to sleep next to her, but some nights I toss and turn, some nights I'm squished into the wall and sometimes I stay up for hours playing with the cat. I even slept curled up in a ball at the end of the bed once. \n\nShould I keep doing this until eventually I fall asleep? Am I being crazy for needing my space while I sleep? She is often sad when I decide to drive home to my parents home (in the same town as her) instead of sleeping over."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 or so months, and we live in different towns. When she visits me, we stay in my full sized bed. But when we visit her, the only sleeping option is to share her extremely small twin sized bed (in a room she shares with another woman but that isn't the issue here). \n\nI've slept in this bed numerous times, each time giving in because I really do want to sleep next to her, but some nights I toss and turn, some nights I'm squished into the wall and sometimes I stay up for hours playing with the cat. I even slept curled up in a ball at the end of the bed once. \n\nShould I keep doing this until eventually I fall asleep? Am I being crazy for needing my space while I sleep? She is often sad when I decide to drive home to my parents home (in the same town as her) instead of sleeping over."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mom's engine light goes on and the car seems like is shaking, goes back to the dealership and comes back with a $2400 repair bill. \n\nMy mom isn't the best driver, but when she said that the light came on suddenly in the morning, not as the result of any other incident, then I believe her. \n\nProblem is that there has been some history of us being somewhat accident prone with cars, and my dad may have hit a wall in terms of his tolerance for it. While frustrating, he does seem to be placing blame on my mother, even though I feel that she doesn't deserve as much ridicule and embarrassment as my dad may be putting on her. \n\nI'm an only child, and sometimes these things may affect me more than some other people, but I'm just feeling a little down right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mom's engine light goes on and the car seems like is shaking, goes back to the dealership and comes back with a $2400 repair bill. \n\nMy mom isn't the best driver, but when she said that the light came on suddenly in the morning, not as the result of any other incident, then I believe her. \n\nProblem is that there has been some history of us being somewhat accident prone with cars, and my dad may have hit a wall in terms of his tolerance for it. While frustrating, he does seem to be placing blame on my mother, even though I feel that she doesn't deserve as much ridicule and embarrassment as my dad may be putting on her. \n\nI'm an only child, and sometimes these things may affect me more than some other people, but I'm just feeling a little down right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mom's engine light goes on and the car seems like is shaking, goes back to the dealership and comes back with a $2400 repair bill. \n\nMy mom isn't the best driver, but when she said that the light came on suddenly in the morning, not as the result of any other incident, then I believe her. \n\nProblem is that there has been some history of us being somewhat accident prone with cars, and my dad may have hit a wall in terms of his tolerance for it. While frustrating, he does seem to be placing blame on my mother, even though I feel that she doesn't deserve as much ridicule and embarrassment as my dad may be putting on her. \n\nI'm an only child, and sometimes these things may affect me more than some other people, but I'm just feeling a little down right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mom's engine light goes on and the car seems like is shaking, goes back to the dealership and comes back with a $2400 repair bill. \n\nMy mom isn't the best driver, but when she said that the light came on suddenly in the morning, not as the result of any other incident, then I believe her. \n\nProblem is that there has been some history of us being somewhat accident prone with cars, and my dad may have hit a wall in terms of his tolerance for it. While frustrating, he does seem to be placing blame on my mother, even though I feel that she doesn't deserve as much ridicule and embarrassment as my dad may be putting on her. \n\nI'm an only child, and sometimes these things may affect me more than some other people, but I'm just feeling a little down right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mom's engine light goes on and the car seems like is shaking, goes back to the dealership and comes back with a $2400 repair bill. \n\nMy mom isn't the best driver, but when she said that the light came on suddenly in the morning, not as the result of any other incident, then I believe her. \n\nProblem is that there has been some history of us being somewhat accident prone with cars, and my dad may have hit a wall in terms of his tolerance for it. While frustrating, he does seem to be placing blame on my mother, even though I feel that she doesn't deserve as much ridicule and embarrassment as my dad may be putting on her. \n\nI'm an only child, and sometimes these things may affect me more than some other people, but I'm just feeling a little down right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Mom's engine light goes on and the car seems like is shaking, goes back to the dealership and comes back with a $2400 repair bill. \n\nMy mom isn't the best driver, but when she said that the light came on suddenly in the morning, not as the result of any other incident, then I believe her. \n\nProblem is that there has been some history of us being somewhat accident prone with cars, and my dad may have hit a wall in terms of his tolerance for it. While frustrating, he does seem to be placing blame on my mother, even though I feel that she doesn't deserve as much ridicule and embarrassment as my dad may be putting on her. \n\nI'm an only child, and sometimes these things may affect me more than some other people, but I'm just feeling a little down right now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an apartment with my fiance (M), my sister (T), and her boyfriend (C). A friend of ours (E) was recently let go at his job and was pretty much about to be homeless. We offered him a place to stay, rent free, until he gets a job (at which point he can start paying or get his own place). My expectation was that it wouldn't take very long however it's been a few weeks now and he's still unemployed.\n\nI am typically a caring soul and I knew he was hungry and had no food. So I told him if he cleaned the apartment I would pay him 40$. I felt like that was a very generous amount for that task and E agreed but I made the stupid mistake of paying up front.\n\nE immediately went out with C and bought some food, promising me the cleaning would be done by the time I left for work in the morning. It wasn't. Almost a week later now and all he's done is some half assed cleaning in the living room which he promptly re-messed.\n\nI'm upset but I'm not very confrontational. On top of that I'm trying to avoid letting M know I'm upset because he's had a temper about similar situations in the past (over protective). I talked to my sister T about it and she said it upset her too that I extended a kindness to him and he basically spat in my face.\n\nI was originally going to just let it go but T and C think I should confront him about it and get him to do the work.\n\nWhat should I do here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an apartment with my fiance (M), my sister (T), and her boyfriend (C). A friend of ours (E) was recently let go at his job and was pretty much about to be homeless. We offered him a place to stay, rent free, until he gets a job (at which point he can start paying or get his own place). My expectation was that it wouldn't take very long however it's been a few weeks now and he's still unemployed.\n\nI am typically a caring soul and I knew he was hungry and had no food. So I told him if he cleaned the apartment I would pay him 40$. I felt like that was a very generous amount for that task and E agreed but I made the stupid mistake of paying up front.\n\nE immediately went out with C and bought some food, promising me the cleaning would be done by the time I left for work in the morning. It wasn't. Almost a week later now and all he's done is some half assed cleaning in the living room which he promptly re-messed.\n\nI'm upset but I'm not very confrontational. On top of that I'm trying to avoid letting M know I'm upset because he's had a temper about similar situations in the past (over protective). I talked to my sister T about it and she said it upset her too that I extended a kindness to him and he basically spat in my face.\n\nI was originally going to just let it go but T and C think I should confront him about it and get him to do the work.\n\nWhat should I do here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an apartment with my fiance (M), my sister (T), and her boyfriend (C). A friend of ours (E) was recently let go at his job and was pretty much about to be homeless. We offered him a place to stay, rent free, until he gets a job (at which point he can start paying or get his own place). My expectation was that it wouldn't take very long however it's been a few weeks now and he's still unemployed.\n\nI am typically a caring soul and I knew he was hungry and had no food. So I told him if he cleaned the apartment I would pay him 40$. I felt like that was a very generous amount for that task and E agreed but I made the stupid mistake of paying up front.\n\nE immediately went out with C and bought some food, promising me the cleaning would be done by the time I left for work in the morning. It wasn't. Almost a week later now and all he's done is some half assed cleaning in the living room which he promptly re-messed.\n\nI'm upset but I'm not very confrontational. On top of that I'm trying to avoid letting M know I'm upset because he's had a temper about similar situations in the past (over protective). I talked to my sister T about it and she said it upset her too that I extended a kindness to him and he basically spat in my face.\n\nI was originally going to just let it go but T and C think I should confront him about it and get him to do the work.\n\nWhat should I do here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an apartment with my fiance (M), my sister (T), and her boyfriend (C). A friend of ours (E) was recently let go at his job and was pretty much about to be homeless. We offered him a place to stay, rent free, until he gets a job (at which point he can start paying or get his own place). My expectation was that it wouldn't take very long however it's been a few weeks now and he's still unemployed.\n\nI am typically a caring soul and I knew he was hungry and had no food. So I told him if he cleaned the apartment I would pay him 40$. I felt like that was a very generous amount for that task and E agreed but I made the stupid mistake of paying up front.\n\nE immediately went out with C and bought some food, promising me the cleaning would be done by the time I left for work in the morning. It wasn't. Almost a week later now and all he's done is some half assed cleaning in the living room which he promptly re-messed.\n\nI'm upset but I'm not very confrontational. On top of that I'm trying to avoid letting M know I'm upset because he's had a temper about similar situations in the past (over protective). I talked to my sister T about it and she said it upset her too that I extended a kindness to him and he basically spat in my face.\n\nI was originally going to just let it go but T and C think I should confront him about it and get him to do the work.\n\nWhat should I do here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an apartment with my fiance (M), my sister (T), and her boyfriend (C). A friend of ours (E) was recently let go at his job and was pretty much about to be homeless. We offered him a place to stay, rent free, until he gets a job (at which point he can start paying or get his own place). My expectation was that it wouldn't take very long however it's been a few weeks now and he's still unemployed.\n\nI am typically a caring soul and I knew he was hungry and had no food. So I told him if he cleaned the apartment I would pay him 40$. I felt like that was a very generous amount for that task and E agreed but I made the stupid mistake of paying up front.\n\nE immediately went out with C and bought some food, promising me the cleaning would be done by the time I left for work in the morning. It wasn't. Almost a week later now and all he's done is some half assed cleaning in the living room which he promptly re-messed.\n\nI'm upset but I'm not very confrontational. On top of that I'm trying to avoid letting M know I'm upset because he's had a temper about similar situations in the past (over protective). I talked to my sister T about it and she said it upset her too that I extended a kindness to him and he basically spat in my face.\n\nI was originally going to just let it go but T and C think I should confront him about it and get him to do the work.\n\nWhat should I do here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an apartment with my fiance (M), my sister (T), and her boyfriend (C). A friend of ours (E) was recently let go at his job and was pretty much about to be homeless. We offered him a place to stay, rent free, until he gets a job (at which point he can start paying or get his own place). My expectation was that it wouldn't take very long however it's been a few weeks now and he's still unemployed.\n\nI am typically a caring soul and I knew he was hungry and had no food. So I told him if he cleaned the apartment I would pay him 40$. I felt like that was a very generous amount for that task and E agreed but I made the stupid mistake of paying up front.\n\nE immediately went out with C and bought some food, promising me the cleaning would be done by the time I left for work in the morning. It wasn't. Almost a week later now and all he's done is some half assed cleaning in the living room which he promptly re-messed.\n\nI'm upset but I'm not very confrontational. On top of that I'm trying to avoid letting M know I'm upset because he's had a temper about similar situations in the past (over protective). I talked to my sister T about it and she said it upset her too that I extended a kindness to him and he basically spat in my face.\n\nI was originally going to just let it go but T and C think I should confront him about it and get him to do the work.\n\nWhat should I do here?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was crying just a few mins ago waking me up, crying because her friends went out without inviting her.\nI notice this been going on for the last 2 years I been knowing her. I had asked her, did her friend start doing this since I been with her. And she said \"yes, but that's no excuse\".\nThese were her long time highschool friends, so I assume her ties to them run deep. So she so emotional about this. What could be the reason behind this?\nAnd what advice you have for the both of us, mainly my girlfriend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was crying just a few mins ago waking me up, crying because her friends went out without inviting her.\nI notice this been going on for the last 2 years I been knowing her. I had asked her, did her friend start doing this since I been with her. And she said \"yes, but that's no excuse\".\nThese were her long time highschool friends, so I assume her ties to them run deep. So she so emotional about this. What could be the reason behind this?\nAnd what advice you have for the both of us, mainly my girlfriend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was crying just a few mins ago waking me up, crying because her friends went out without inviting her.\nI notice this been going on for the last 2 years I been knowing her. I had asked her, did her friend start doing this since I been with her. And she said \"yes, but that's no excuse\".\nThese were her long time highschool friends, so I assume her ties to them run deep. So she so emotional about this. What could be the reason behind this?\nAnd what advice you have for the both of us, mainly my girlfriend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was crying just a few mins ago waking me up, crying because her friends went out without inviting her.\nI notice this been going on for the last 2 years I been knowing her. I had asked her, did her friend start doing this since I been with her. And she said \"yes, but that's no excuse\".\nThese were her long time highschool friends, so I assume her ties to them run deep. So she so emotional about this. What could be the reason behind this?\nAnd what advice you have for the both of us, mainly my girlfriend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was crying just a few mins ago waking me up, crying because her friends went out without inviting her.\nI notice this been going on for the last 2 years I been knowing her. I had asked her, did her friend start doing this since I been with her. And she said \"yes, but that's no excuse\".\nThese were her long time highschool friends, so I assume her ties to them run deep. So she so emotional about this. What could be the reason behind this?\nAnd what advice you have for the both of us, mainly my girlfriend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend was crying just a few mins ago waking me up, crying because her friends went out without inviting her.\nI notice this been going on for the last 2 years I been knowing her. I had asked her, did her friend start doing this since I been with her. And she said \"yes, but that's no excuse\".\nThese were her long time highschool friends, so I assume her ties to them run deep. So she so emotional about this. What could be the reason behind this?\nAnd what advice you have for the both of us, mainly my girlfriend?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is a fairly common situation where I live. Some people work for a startup and are blessed quickly by many shares of a successful stock. Others, like me, work for a company for several years and accumulate stock along the way. The stock covers the entire range of cost basis, as the stock has risen along the way. Either way, people end up with a decent amount of net worth, but in a highly concentrated stock position. Most times, the employee has zero experience with managing this risk.\n\nThere are times where I have lost or regained 40% of my net worth in a year by holding on to this stock. I know others in my situation, ranging from $25K to $2 million+.\n\nSo. Where do I start? I have read about equity collars, exchange funds, completion funds, etc. I am concerned with diversifying without losing my shirt to taxes. Who are reputable experts I can consult with in this field? Do big company wealth management services like Merrill Lynch provide the right type of advice, or is there a more specialized type of advisor for this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is a fairly common situation where I live. Some people work for a startup and are blessed quickly by many shares of a successful stock. Others, like me, work for a company for several years and accumulate stock along the way. The stock covers the entire range of cost basis, as the stock has risen along the way. Either way, people end up with a decent amount of net worth, but in a highly concentrated stock position. Most times, the employee has zero experience with managing this risk.\n\nThere are times where I have lost or regained 40% of my net worth in a year by holding on to this stock. I know others in my situation, ranging from $25K to $2 million+.\n\nSo. Where do I start? I have read about equity collars, exchange funds, completion funds, etc. I am concerned with diversifying without losing my shirt to taxes. Who are reputable experts I can consult with in this field? Do big company wealth management services like Merrill Lynch provide the right type of advice, or is there a more specialized type of advisor for this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is a fairly common situation where I live. Some people work for a startup and are blessed quickly by many shares of a successful stock. Others, like me, work for a company for several years and accumulate stock along the way. The stock covers the entire range of cost basis, as the stock has risen along the way. Either way, people end up with a decent amount of net worth, but in a highly concentrated stock position. Most times, the employee has zero experience with managing this risk.\n\nThere are times where I have lost or regained 40% of my net worth in a year by holding on to this stock. I know others in my situation, ranging from $25K to $2 million+.\n\nSo. Where do I start? I have read about equity collars, exchange funds, completion funds, etc. I am concerned with diversifying without losing my shirt to taxes. Who are reputable experts I can consult with in this field? Do big company wealth management services like Merrill Lynch provide the right type of advice, or is there a more specialized type of advisor for this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is a fairly common situation where I live. Some people work for a startup and are blessed quickly by many shares of a successful stock. Others, like me, work for a company for several years and accumulate stock along the way. The stock covers the entire range of cost basis, as the stock has risen along the way. Either way, people end up with a decent amount of net worth, but in a highly concentrated stock position. Most times, the employee has zero experience with managing this risk.\n\nThere are times where I have lost or regained 40% of my net worth in a year by holding on to this stock. I know others in my situation, ranging from $25K to $2 million+.\n\nSo. Where do I start? I have read about equity collars, exchange funds, completion funds, etc. I am concerned with diversifying without losing my shirt to taxes. Who are reputable experts I can consult with in this field? Do big company wealth management services like Merrill Lynch provide the right type of advice, or is there a more specialized type of advisor for this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is a fairly common situation where I live. Some people work for a startup and are blessed quickly by many shares of a successful stock. Others, like me, work for a company for several years and accumulate stock along the way. The stock covers the entire range of cost basis, as the stock has risen along the way. Either way, people end up with a decent amount of net worth, but in a highly concentrated stock position. Most times, the employee has zero experience with managing this risk.\n\nThere are times where I have lost or regained 40% of my net worth in a year by holding on to this stock. I know others in my situation, ranging from $25K to $2 million+.\n\nSo. Where do I start? I have read about equity collars, exchange funds, completion funds, etc. I am concerned with diversifying without losing my shirt to taxes. Who are reputable experts I can consult with in this field? Do big company wealth management services like Merrill Lynch provide the right type of advice, or is there a more specialized type of advisor for this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This is a fairly common situation where I live. Some people work for a startup and are blessed quickly by many shares of a successful stock. Others, like me, work for a company for several years and accumulate stock along the way. The stock covers the entire range of cost basis, as the stock has risen along the way. Either way, people end up with a decent amount of net worth, but in a highly concentrated stock position. Most times, the employee has zero experience with managing this risk.\n\nThere are times where I have lost or regained 40% of my net worth in a year by holding on to this stock. I know others in my situation, ranging from $25K to $2 million+.\n\nSo. Where do I start? I have read about equity collars, exchange funds, completion funds, etc. I am concerned with diversifying without losing my shirt to taxes. Who are reputable experts I can consult with in this field? Do big company wealth management services like Merrill Lynch provide the right type of advice, or is there a more specialized type of advisor for this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all. I've (33 yrs) been married for 8 years and have a 6 yr old with my husband (36 yrs old). We were together about a year before we got married. For the past 2 years I haven't felt like I am \"in love\" with him. I feel kind of indifferent to him. He's okay, I think he's attractive, but I don't really want to have sex with him. Sex feels like a chore, talking to him feels like a chore, I don't really look forward to coming home or spending time with him. I don't DISLIKE him as a person, but I find more things about him that I dislike now than I like. He seems pretty unhappy and I feel like he takes this out on our daughter. He constantly rides her and is almost mean to her and it is sad because he used to be the most amazing father ever, he lived for her happiness.\n\nI want things to work, but pretty much only for my daughter's sake and for practical purposes at this point. I hate the thought of my child coming from a \"broken household.\" He's in school and doesn't have a job so I'm financially supporting us and we still own a house together that if we tried to sell, we'd be in the hole about $30,000 (house value dropped by 1/3 since we bought it)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all. I've (33 yrs) been married for 8 years and have a 6 yr old with my husband (36 yrs old). We were together about a year before we got married. For the past 2 years I haven't felt like I am \"in love\" with him. I feel kind of indifferent to him. He's okay, I think he's attractive, but I don't really want to have sex with him. Sex feels like a chore, talking to him feels like a chore, I don't really look forward to coming home or spending time with him. I don't DISLIKE him as a person, but I find more things about him that I dislike now than I like. He seems pretty unhappy and I feel like he takes this out on our daughter. He constantly rides her and is almost mean to her and it is sad because he used to be the most amazing father ever, he lived for her happiness.\n\nI want things to work, but pretty much only for my daughter's sake and for practical purposes at this point. I hate the thought of my child coming from a \"broken household.\" He's in school and doesn't have a job so I'm financially supporting us and we still own a house together that if we tried to sell, we'd be in the hole about $30,000 (house value dropped by 1/3 since we bought it)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all. I've (33 yrs) been married for 8 years and have a 6 yr old with my husband (36 yrs old). We were together about a year before we got married. For the past 2 years I haven't felt like I am \"in love\" with him. I feel kind of indifferent to him. He's okay, I think he's attractive, but I don't really want to have sex with him. Sex feels like a chore, talking to him feels like a chore, I don't really look forward to coming home or spending time with him. I don't DISLIKE him as a person, but I find more things about him that I dislike now than I like. He seems pretty unhappy and I feel like he takes this out on our daughter. He constantly rides her and is almost mean to her and it is sad because he used to be the most amazing father ever, he lived for her happiness.\n\nI want things to work, but pretty much only for my daughter's sake and for practical purposes at this point. I hate the thought of my child coming from a \"broken household.\" He's in school and doesn't have a job so I'm financially supporting us and we still own a house together that if we tried to sell, we'd be in the hole about $30,000 (house value dropped by 1/3 since we bought it)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all. I've (33 yrs) been married for 8 years and have a 6 yr old with my husband (36 yrs old). We were together about a year before we got married. For the past 2 years I haven't felt like I am \"in love\" with him. I feel kind of indifferent to him. He's okay, I think he's attractive, but I don't really want to have sex with him. Sex feels like a chore, talking to him feels like a chore, I don't really look forward to coming home or spending time with him. I don't DISLIKE him as a person, but I find more things about him that I dislike now than I like. He seems pretty unhappy and I feel like he takes this out on our daughter. He constantly rides her and is almost mean to her and it is sad because he used to be the most amazing father ever, he lived for her happiness.\n\nI want things to work, but pretty much only for my daughter's sake and for practical purposes at this point. I hate the thought of my child coming from a \"broken household.\" He's in school and doesn't have a job so I'm financially supporting us and we still own a house together that if we tried to sell, we'd be in the hole about $30,000 (house value dropped by 1/3 since we bought it)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all. I've (33 yrs) been married for 8 years and have a 6 yr old with my husband (36 yrs old). We were together about a year before we got married. For the past 2 years I haven't felt like I am \"in love\" with him. I feel kind of indifferent to him. He's okay, I think he's attractive, but I don't really want to have sex with him. Sex feels like a chore, talking to him feels like a chore, I don't really look forward to coming home or spending time with him. I don't DISLIKE him as a person, but I find more things about him that I dislike now than I like. He seems pretty unhappy and I feel like he takes this out on our daughter. He constantly rides her and is almost mean to her and it is sad because he used to be the most amazing father ever, he lived for her happiness.\n\nI want things to work, but pretty much only for my daughter's sake and for practical purposes at this point. I hate the thought of my child coming from a \"broken household.\" He's in school and doesn't have a job so I'm financially supporting us and we still own a house together that if we tried to sell, we'd be in the hole about $30,000 (house value dropped by 1/3 since we bought it)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all. I've (33 yrs) been married for 8 years and have a 6 yr old with my husband (36 yrs old). We were together about a year before we got married. For the past 2 years I haven't felt like I am \"in love\" with him. I feel kind of indifferent to him. He's okay, I think he's attractive, but I don't really want to have sex with him. Sex feels like a chore, talking to him feels like a chore, I don't really look forward to coming home or spending time with him. I don't DISLIKE him as a person, but I find more things about him that I dislike now than I like. He seems pretty unhappy and I feel like he takes this out on our daughter. He constantly rides her and is almost mean to her and it is sad because he used to be the most amazing father ever, he lived for her happiness.\n\nI want things to work, but pretty much only for my daughter's sake and for practical purposes at this point. I hate the thought of my child coming from a \"broken household.\" He's in school and doesn't have a job so I'm financially supporting us and we still own a house together that if we tried to sell, we'd be in the hole about $30,000 (house value dropped by 1/3 since we bought it)."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi relationships, using a throwaway for this. \n\nBasically, my bf and I were skyping & he was commenting on how good I looked today, etc. and followed up with if he were here with me right now, he would fuck the shit out of me. I just feel so grimy and gross hearing that phrase applied to me. I told him that it didn't make me feel good when he talked to me like that & how it made me feel gross, and he replied that he isn't some guy on the street, but my boyfriend. Well, sure, but that doesn't really change anything for me. It's still something that makes me feel uncomfortable. He was upset with this and basically sighed heavily and said \"fine, I'll never say that to you again.\" Then a few minutes later, while he was still annoyed, he started muttering \"God forbid I want to have sex with my girlfriend.\" I told him that having sex isn't the issue, it's just the phrase that he used. I told him that if he wants to compliment me, to just leave it at \"You look beautiful today\", and cut out the \"fuck the shit out of you\" part. \n\nI just don't think the conversation was handled very well by both of us, and we're not skyping anymore because he left to watch TV (while still in the same room), so I hung up the call. I just feel really sad/distressed about this situation. I know this is such a non-issue issue, but it's just making me feel really down. I don't really know what I'm looking for, I just want some advice or personal experiences from someone else. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi relationships, using a throwaway for this. \n\nBasically, my bf and I were skyping & he was commenting on how good I looked today, etc. and followed up with if he were here with me right now, he would fuck the shit out of me. I just feel so grimy and gross hearing that phrase applied to me. I told him that it didn't make me feel good when he talked to me like that & how it made me feel gross, and he replied that he isn't some guy on the street, but my boyfriend. Well, sure, but that doesn't really change anything for me. It's still something that makes me feel uncomfortable. He was upset with this and basically sighed heavily and said \"fine, I'll never say that to you again.\" Then a few minutes later, while he was still annoyed, he started muttering \"God forbid I want to have sex with my girlfriend.\" I told him that having sex isn't the issue, it's just the phrase that he used. I told him that if he wants to compliment me, to just leave it at \"You look beautiful today\", and cut out the \"fuck the shit out of you\" part. \n\nI just don't think the conversation was handled very well by both of us, and we're not skyping anymore because he left to watch TV (while still in the same room), so I hung up the call. I just feel really sad/distressed about this situation. I know this is such a non-issue issue, but it's just making me feel really down. I don't really know what I'm looking for, I just want some advice or personal experiences from someone else. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi relationships, using a throwaway for this. \n\nBasically, my bf and I were skyping & he was commenting on how good I looked today, etc. and followed up with if he were here with me right now, he would fuck the shit out of me. I just feel so grimy and gross hearing that phrase applied to me. I told him that it didn't make me feel good when he talked to me like that & how it made me feel gross, and he replied that he isn't some guy on the street, but my boyfriend. Well, sure, but that doesn't really change anything for me. It's still something that makes me feel uncomfortable. He was upset with this and basically sighed heavily and said \"fine, I'll never say that to you again.\" Then a few minutes later, while he was still annoyed, he started muttering \"God forbid I want to have sex with my girlfriend.\" I told him that having sex isn't the issue, it's just the phrase that he used. I told him that if he wants to compliment me, to just leave it at \"You look beautiful today\", and cut out the \"fuck the shit out of you\" part. \n\nI just don't think the conversation was handled very well by both of us, and we're not skyping anymore because he left to watch TV (while still in the same room), so I hung up the call. I just feel really sad/distressed about this situation. I know this is such a non-issue issue, but it's just making me feel really down. I don't really know what I'm looking for, I just want some advice or personal experiences from someone else. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi relationships, using a throwaway for this. \n\nBasically, my bf and I were skyping & he was commenting on how good I looked today, etc. and followed up with if he were here with me right now, he would fuck the shit out of me. I just feel so grimy and gross hearing that phrase applied to me. I told him that it didn't make me feel good when he talked to me like that & how it made me feel gross, and he replied that he isn't some guy on the street, but my boyfriend. Well, sure, but that doesn't really change anything for me. It's still something that makes me feel uncomfortable. He was upset with this and basically sighed heavily and said \"fine, I'll never say that to you again.\" Then a few minutes later, while he was still annoyed, he started muttering \"God forbid I want to have sex with my girlfriend.\" I told him that having sex isn't the issue, it's just the phrase that he used. I told him that if he wants to compliment me, to just leave it at \"You look beautiful today\", and cut out the \"fuck the shit out of you\" part. \n\nI just don't think the conversation was handled very well by both of us, and we're not skyping anymore because he left to watch TV (while still in the same room), so I hung up the call. I just feel really sad/distressed about this situation. I know this is such a non-issue issue, but it's just making me feel really down. I don't really know what I'm looking for, I just want some advice or personal experiences from someone else. Thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi relationships, using a throwaway for this. \n\nBasically, my bf and I were skyping & he was commenting on how good I looked today, etc. and followed up with if he were here with me right now, he would fuck the shit out of me. I just feel so grimy and gross hearing that phrase applied to me. I told him that it didn't make me feel good when he talked to me like that & how it made me feel gross, and he replied that he isn't some guy on the street, but my boyfriend. Well, sure, but that doesn't really change anything for me. It's still something that makes me feel uncomfortable. He was upset with this and basically sighed heavily and said \"fine, I'll never say that to you again.\" Then a few minutes later, while he was still annoyed, he started muttering \"God forbid I want to have sex with my girlfriend.\" I told him that having sex isn't the issue, it's just the phrase that he used. I told him that if he wants to compliment me, to just leave it at \"You look beautiful today\", and cut out the \"fuck the shit out of you\" part. \n\nI just don't think the conversation was handled very well by both of us, and we're not skyping anymore because he left to watch TV (while still in the same room), so I hung up the call. I just feel really sad/distressed about this situation. I know this is such a non-issue issue, but it's just making me feel really down. I don't really know what I'm looking for, I just want some advice or personal experiences from someone else. Thank you."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi relationships, using a throwaway for this. \n\nBasically, my bf and I were skyping & he was commenting on how good I looked today, etc. and followed up with if he were here with me right now, he would fuck the shit out of me. I just feel so grimy and gross hearing that phrase applied to me. I told him that it didn't make me feel good when he talked to me like that & how it made me feel gross, and he replied that he isn't some guy on the street, but my boyfriend. Well, sure, but that doesn't really change anything for me. It's still something that makes me feel uncomfortable. He was upset with this and basically sighed heavily and said \"fine, I'll never say that to you again.\" Then a few minutes later, while he was still annoyed, he started muttering \"God forbid I want to have sex with my girlfriend.\" I told him that having sex isn't the issue, it's just the phrase that he used. I told him that if he wants to compliment me, to just leave it at \"You look beautiful today\", and cut out the \"fuck the shit out of you\" part. \n\nI just don't think the conversation was handled very well by both of us, and we're not skyping anymore because he left to watch TV (while still in the same room), so I hung up the call. I just feel really sad/distressed about this situation. I know this is such a non-issue issue, but it's just making me feel really down. I don't really know what I'm looking for, I just want some advice or personal experiences from someone else. Thank you."
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was seeing this guy casually but there were some problems with him being jealous (not like an \"angry throwing things\" jealous but more like a sad Eeyore \"I'm not good enough for you? well fine, bye\" and then, some time later: \"I miss you.\" passive aggressive jealous). I told myself I would be fine if he wanted to hook up again but I wasn't going to be exclusive with him anymore, field texts at midnight, stroke his ego, run over for a booty call even if I didn't have a lot of time, basically just only do what was convenient for me.\n\nMy issue is I'm starting to feel like I want to get more involved with him again, but I'm afraid I'm only feeling that way because he's already there and I'm comfortable with him. I'm not sure what my question for you is. I guess it's: is that okay? Or, what if we are compatible and I'm being stubborn, and if I feel like dating him until he get irritating again I should go for it? Or, fuck that guy if he doesn't know how to communicate or acknowledge his insecurities and feelings?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was seeing this guy casually but there were some problems with him being jealous (not like an \"angry throwing things\" jealous but more like a sad Eeyore \"I'm not good enough for you? well fine, bye\" and then, some time later: \"I miss you.\" passive aggressive jealous). I told myself I would be fine if he wanted to hook up again but I wasn't going to be exclusive with him anymore, field texts at midnight, stroke his ego, run over for a booty call even if I didn't have a lot of time, basically just only do what was convenient for me.\n\nMy issue is I'm starting to feel like I want to get more involved with him again, but I'm afraid I'm only feeling that way because he's already there and I'm comfortable with him. I'm not sure what my question for you is. I guess it's: is that okay? Or, what if we are compatible and I'm being stubborn, and if I feel like dating him until he get irritating again I should go for it? Or, fuck that guy if he doesn't know how to communicate or acknowledge his insecurities and feelings?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was seeing this guy casually but there were some problems with him being jealous (not like an \"angry throwing things\" jealous but more like a sad Eeyore \"I'm not good enough for you? well fine, bye\" and then, some time later: \"I miss you.\" passive aggressive jealous). I told myself I would be fine if he wanted to hook up again but I wasn't going to be exclusive with him anymore, field texts at midnight, stroke his ego, run over for a booty call even if I didn't have a lot of time, basically just only do what was convenient for me.\n\nMy issue is I'm starting to feel like I want to get more involved with him again, but I'm afraid I'm only feeling that way because he's already there and I'm comfortable with him. I'm not sure what my question for you is. I guess it's: is that okay? Or, what if we are compatible and I'm being stubborn, and if I feel like dating him until he get irritating again I should go for it? Or, fuck that guy if he doesn't know how to communicate or acknowledge his insecurities and feelings?"
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was seeing this guy casually but there were some problems with him being jealous (not like an \"angry throwing things\" jealous but more like a sad Eeyore \"I'm not good enough for you? well fine, bye\" and then, some time later: \"I miss you.\" passive aggressive jealous). I told myself I would be fine if he wanted to hook up again but I wasn't going to be exclusive with him anymore, field texts at midnight, stroke his ego, run over for a booty call even if I didn't have a lot of time, basically just only do what was convenient for me.\n\nMy issue is I'm starting to feel like I want to get more involved with him again, but I'm afraid I'm only feeling that way because he's already there and I'm comfortable with him. I'm not sure what my question for you is. I guess it's: is that okay? Or, what if we are compatible and I'm being stubborn, and if I feel like dating him until he get irritating again I should go for it? Or, fuck that guy if he doesn't know how to communicate or acknowledge his insecurities and feelings?"
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was seeing this guy casually but there were some problems with him being jealous (not like an \"angry throwing things\" jealous but more like a sad Eeyore \"I'm not good enough for you? well fine, bye\" and then, some time later: \"I miss you.\" passive aggressive jealous). I told myself I would be fine if he wanted to hook up again but I wasn't going to be exclusive with him anymore, field texts at midnight, stroke his ego, run over for a booty call even if I didn't have a lot of time, basically just only do what was convenient for me.\n\nMy issue is I'm starting to feel like I want to get more involved with him again, but I'm afraid I'm only feeling that way because he's already there and I'm comfortable with him. I'm not sure what my question for you is. I guess it's: is that okay? Or, what if we are compatible and I'm being stubborn, and if I feel like dating him until he get irritating again I should go for it? Or, fuck that guy if he doesn't know how to communicate or acknowledge his insecurities and feelings?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here I am, a Linux Sys Admin of 12 years now, and I've recently gone through an Associate's Degree program, and am set to graduate this Spring with ~3.8GPA. I am very likely going to go on to pursue my Bachelor's as well.\n\nI'm highly considering after I complete my BS, I'm think of going pre-law/law school. I've always had a strong interest/passion in law, and I feel the law field has a definite lack of technical expertise that I could likely find a niche in and excel in.\n\nI'm a very strong Linux SA, but there gets to be a limit to where the career goes, and what you get to learn/know, and many of the tasks are repetitive (which I end up automating). I am very rarely challenged in my current role, and often experience a sense of boredom.\n\nJust hoping to find some good advice, even someone who went through a similar experience (career change), or even someone who has gone from tech to law. What kind of opportunities are there out there for a tech law type?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here I am, a Linux Sys Admin of 12 years now, and I've recently gone through an Associate's Degree program, and am set to graduate this Spring with ~3.8GPA. I am very likely going to go on to pursue my Bachelor's as well.\n\nI'm highly considering after I complete my BS, I'm think of going pre-law/law school. I've always had a strong interest/passion in law, and I feel the law field has a definite lack of technical expertise that I could likely find a niche in and excel in.\n\nI'm a very strong Linux SA, but there gets to be a limit to where the career goes, and what you get to learn/know, and many of the tasks are repetitive (which I end up automating). I am very rarely challenged in my current role, and often experience a sense of boredom.\n\nJust hoping to find some good advice, even someone who went through a similar experience (career change), or even someone who has gone from tech to law. What kind of opportunities are there out there for a tech law type?"
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here I am, a Linux Sys Admin of 12 years now, and I've recently gone through an Associate's Degree program, and am set to graduate this Spring with ~3.8GPA. I am very likely going to go on to pursue my Bachelor's as well.\n\nI'm highly considering after I complete my BS, I'm think of going pre-law/law school. I've always had a strong interest/passion in law, and I feel the law field has a definite lack of technical expertise that I could likely find a niche in and excel in.\n\nI'm a very strong Linux SA, but there gets to be a limit to where the career goes, and what you get to learn/know, and many of the tasks are repetitive (which I end up automating). I am very rarely challenged in my current role, and often experience a sense of boredom.\n\nJust hoping to find some good advice, even someone who went through a similar experience (career change), or even someone who has gone from tech to law. What kind of opportunities are there out there for a tech law type?"
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here I am, a Linux Sys Admin of 12 years now, and I've recently gone through an Associate's Degree program, and am set to graduate this Spring with ~3.8GPA. I am very likely going to go on to pursue my Bachelor's as well.\n\nI'm highly considering after I complete my BS, I'm think of going pre-law/law school. I've always had a strong interest/passion in law, and I feel the law field has a definite lack of technical expertise that I could likely find a niche in and excel in.\n\nI'm a very strong Linux SA, but there gets to be a limit to where the career goes, and what you get to learn/know, and many of the tasks are repetitive (which I end up automating). I am very rarely challenged in my current role, and often experience a sense of boredom.\n\nJust hoping to find some good advice, even someone who went through a similar experience (career change), or even someone who has gone from tech to law. What kind of opportunities are there out there for a tech law type?"
} |
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here I am, a Linux Sys Admin of 12 years now, and I've recently gone through an Associate's Degree program, and am set to graduate this Spring with ~3.8GPA. I am very likely going to go on to pursue my Bachelor's as well.\n\nI'm highly considering after I complete my BS, I'm think of going pre-law/law school. I've always had a strong interest/passion in law, and I feel the law field has a definite lack of technical expertise that I could likely find a niche in and excel in.\n\nI'm a very strong Linux SA, but there gets to be a limit to where the career goes, and what you get to learn/know, and many of the tasks are repetitive (which I end up automating). I am very rarely challenged in my current role, and often experience a sense of boredom.\n\nJust hoping to find some good advice, even someone who went through a similar experience (career change), or even someone who has gone from tech to law. What kind of opportunities are there out there for a tech law type?"
} |
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