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We have a couple of things planned so far:
One is a "This is why we're Democrats" campaign. Where we put a different quote, picture, or article up each day.
Another is our "Another day, another Democrats" campaign where we ask Democrats to remind a different friend each day to register to vote.
We are doing a "Trick or treat voter registration drive"
Also have a "how to win elections in Sonoma County" panel discussion planned.
Figured i would see if /r/politics had any good ideas for events or causes we should be planning. | What would you want out of a Campus Democrats group? | [
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The virgin's are for everyone in heaven. The terrorist think that they are getting the easy way in because salvation is guranteed if you die in battle, they choose to ignore the parts of the Quran which say that suicide is wrong. These people interpet the books the same way that Fox news does, they take the part that is best suited to them and yell as loud as possible to build a following. | Every male that goes to Heaven will get the virgins. | [
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I work as an orderly in a hospital, I won't answer questions about location, time, or specifics because I don't want to be doxxed.
One of my duties as an orderly is to transport deceased patients to the morgue and load them into the fridge. Now officially this job requires two orderlies to satisfy OHSA, because you need two people to safely slide the body from the bed onto the morgue slab.
However, during night shifts there is very few orderlies in the hospital and I was the only orderly in my department. Officially you're supposed to find an orderly from another department to come help you. Given the difficulty in organizing this, it kinda became unofficial policy to do it by yourself as there were no supervisors there at night to catch you.
Well, I moved the bodies solo dozens of times with no incidents, but then one night I was moving a body between the bed and the slab, and the brakes suddenly failed on the bed when I was halfway. I tried to run around the other side and push the bed back, but I was too late, the body started slipping between the bed and the slab. Panicking, I grabbed the body by the feet (the only part close enough to grab).
The body fell to the floor head first because I was holding the feet and made a sickening THWAP. The body was still in the bag and my imagination was throwing pictures of the back of the patient's head being split open like a watermelon.
After I managed to calm down a bit, I unzipped the tap of the bag, an breathed a sigh of relief when I saw the head hadn't been split open. I felt the back of the skull with my fingers (gloved of course), and didn't feel and skull fractures. Crisis averted, but I still felt like I was going to go to prison or something. This was so, so wrong. I had known the patient for months as she had been staying on our palliative ward, I had met her family.
Now the problem was that the body was on the floor, and I need it back on the slab. I could call another orderly, but then I would have to admit that I dropped a body on the floor. In hindsight, that probably would have been the responsible option.
Instead I remembered the patient's weight from her file, ~150 pounds. Then I looked at the type of lift it was... kinda like a deadlift. Functional strength. I got this. I paced a bit, and shook out my arms, psyching myself up. Taking a handful of the bodybag in each hand I deadlifted that body up onto the slab and slid it into the fridge.
Should I have reported the incident? Probably, but I was too scared, I was still fairly new at that point.
The next day my boss calls me in and says there was a problem with one of the bodies I'd signed off on. Bricks shat.
Turns out that in my haste I had slid the body in head first instead of feet first. He saw how freaked out I was and tried to comfort me. "Don't worry, everyone makes mistakes." | Deadlifted a corpse in the middle of the night, got away with it.
Edit: Moral of the story; don't let the bodies hit the floor. | [
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fnatic with Xcalibur is meepo, Tinker or wisp + Tony. End of research.
They are already being punished for that by other teams and there is very little time left before TI4. You can do only so much in the existing time frame in terms of strategy and picks, besides, fnatic have close to zero chances to finish in top 4 (i would argue top 8 is also out of their reach).
Top teams in big games pick weird/unusual shit all the time - look at Na'Vi, Alliance, Cloud9, DK, iG etc, this is not chess where you can predict your opponents moves, this is dota - if Puppey wants to pick juggernaut+Enigma to play around wombo-combo teamfight, he'll fucking do it and there is no chance for predicting it.
If you want to win it all - you have to be good enough to prepare for "uncertainty" factor.
I would take a guess that you are a Chinese fan and would like to get the same treatment for fnatic as LGD last year, but the problem is - this is not fnatic getting rid of Era because he is bad and is no longer fitting for the team, this is a medical condition that has arisen with zero control from fnatic/Era side.
Last year LGD (as far as i remember) was not.
There is a lot more to it, than meets the eye, but the general idea is (if Valve were to exercise in flexibility) this is a "force majeur" event and due to outstanding circumstances (fnatic fans as consumers also bought compendiums to see their teams in show matches/main event) fnatic is allowed to compete with Xcalibur.
Teams were preparing for fnatic even before Era mental issues were made public, fnatic was one of the invited teams , so they were going as far as other teams were concerned. The only difference is Era is out, Xcalibur is in. If other teams are afraid of this uncertainty, why not let fnatic compete in Wildcard matches?
You can research them easily - if they play good and show their playstyle/strats, teams would get information about their movements, picks/bans and general notion of game, thus a team that was originally invited would still get to the main event as it was supposed to be in the first place and thoroughly researched in the meantime.
this gives an insight of Western playstyle in general, fnatic do scrim with top tier Europeans, so by margin of watching them, Chinese/Asian teams learn of Western trends and what they value more (more info is better, right?)
If they fail and loose in qualifiers, well, you still get a sneak peak at western meta, but you don't have to worry about them and their spot would go to the other Wild-Card team as it would be anyway if fnatic were to disqualified. | I am for a compendium vote to allow fnatic to play in Wildcard qualifiers, thus making a best out of a terrible situation overall. | [
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Before I start, fireworks are illegal here in Georgia.
When I was a lot younger, went to a friends house after skateboarding. We started playing with fireworks of course since there were leftovers; it was right after the 4th of July. My friend set of a smoke bomb in a relatively crowded neighborhood, not the brightest kid and neither was I. Cops came around each side of the house as I was trying to shoot a bottle rocket into a glass jar full of kerosene. Luckily, it ended up being a dud. Best part of the whole incident: I was wearing a t-shirt that said, in big bold red letters, "ARREST ME, I'M A SKATEBOARDER." | Set off a smoke signal that we were playing with fireworks and almost got arrested in a shirt asking for it. | [
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I think Aughild+Blackthorn instead of Firebird+helm would bump you up a GR level.
I was running a similar build, except without Tals and with full Arcane Torment+buff spells. The biggest problem is that at GR26+ you cannot afford a channeling spell. Your 21m toughness stops being enough and you can't get more. So I swapped to Firebirds and now I can stomp 27 and I'm working on gear to get past 32. | You've about capped out the progression of lightning. You might get couple more GR levels but thats it. | [
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2-4 is optimal. 2 is a duel and should be quick and dirty. 3 is a sweet spot usually for multiplayer and lengh, but myself I like 4player FFA as the downtime is not that long, even if the games take longer, but there's a lot of fun to be had. A 4player game could go on for 2-3 hours sometimes. Doomtown can also go to 5-7 players gracefully, but the game length is going to increase exponentially, even if downtime might not.
In the original doomtown the limit was 4 of each card in your deck.
In the original doomtown you could put any dude from another faction in your deck but you'd have to pay their influence as extra upkeep each turn.
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This happened to me at my work with a duck
Started a new job about 10 months ago and one day during the summer i'm walking through the courtyard to the cafeteria and notice a duck with 10 ducklings so i snap a couple quick pics. Now this is in the COURTYARD, in the middle of our building, no idea how a bunch of ducklings got in, so i talk to some co workers. Apparently this is normal. The mother duck comes into the courtyard around spring and lays her eggs, when they hatch they are all nice and safe. Pretty cool HUH! NOT ANYMORE! a few days later i was walking through the courtyard again getting back from lunch when i'm walking by a bush and hear they cute little chirps from the baby's. apparently i got a little too close to the bush they were in because the momma duck came out with her wings spread, hissing at me. scared the holy piss out of be so i kind of jumped and ran at the same time. This must have spooked her even further because she jumped up, flailing her wings chasing me for a good 20 feet trying to bite the back of my head. she was essentially perched on the back of my neck flailing her arms as i was mine. i continued to run and she soon backed off. In the fight i knocked my work phone off my pants(it was on a holster) and chips a button off and broke the holster. Needless to say i now hate ducks and any time something makes a noise in the bushed as i'm walking through the courtyard, i get a little nervous. | Got attacked by a duck and then got laid. | [
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Almost all of them A lot of them are not in "true" color nor are they black and white. They are taken in different areas of the electromagnetic spectrum and moved back to the visual part so that we can see it.
Light (in all of its forms) is a really long spectrum of things and the part of it that we can see is really small near the "middle" of the line. Nebulae and other space object emit light in regions we can't even see (with small parts in regions we can see). But science tools like Hubble and other telescopes can. Once it gets the image in these "invisible" parts of the spectrum it stretches/shrink and slides the frequencies around until it fits inside the visible part.
Think about this:
--------------------|---|-----------------------
That whole line represents all of light. And the part between the two vertical lines is the only part we can see.
The telescopes take images in regions like this one:
--------------------|---|-------| ~~ |-----
And then it squishes it together and puts it in between the visible vertical lines as such:
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They are called false color images and as you said can be extremely beautiful. | They aren't taken in "color". But it's not the same process as "colorizing" a black and white photo. It's a rescaling and shifting of a different part of the electromagnetic spectrum. | [
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Your TDEE slows down a little with age, but only a tiny bit – I just plugged some numbers into a calculator and my TDEE will only have decreased about 40 calories a day when I'm 30 (I'm 23 now). In terms of TDEE, 30 is still pretty young. Even putting my age up to 60 only knocked 200 calories off, so we aren't talking huge numbers here.
The grain of truth to "it's all downhill from 30" isn't so much the science behind weight loss, but the social factors. At 30, many people have spouses, kids, demanding careers, pets, and other commitments that suck up their time and motivation. There's a lot of pressure to put your family first or career first or focus on retirement/saving for college funds/buying a house/etc. It's harder – but still possible! – to carefully count calories and portion healthy meals for yourself when you're also trying to feed a spouse who isn't dieting and picky kids who want chicken nuggets for dinner. Generally in your 20s you have less going on and are responsible for just yourself, so it's easier to justify putting yourself first. But the reality is that anyone at any age can come up with a reason why they don't have the time or resources to make healthy changes. Disciplined people do it anyway. | Stick with it! | [
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Edit I'm assuming my post eventually got down voted by people who misread my post. If a person is deceiving and lied about being on birth control that's a scum bag move and anyone who defends these deceitful women are also scum bags. If you still got pregnant while actually being on birth control and didn't lie about it not talking about you.
There should be laws made to protect a guy from paying for a child he didn't even want. And I'm a woman saying this. Never in that situation did a guy consent that the woman could have his child, especially when she says she is on birth control but lies about it.
I'd like to be prepared in life before I have any children and I keep reading these posts by wannabe mothers or people who have to deal with wannabe mothers bringing these children into the world and screwing up their lives just so they think having a guy's child will keep him around.
I'd rather a guy be around because he wants to be around, not because she thinks he has to be around for the sake of the child.
If I were the child and I found out my mother basically tried to trap my father into having me that's why my father wasn't around hypothetically speaking, this would hurt me how my mother could do this to me just to have a child by a man she wanted a child with even though the child was never asked to be in this world the child suffers from an unstable environment.
Women who think having a guy's biological child will make him stay you make me laugh. It really disturbs me when 27-year-old women think like this, too, usually this way of thinking is more common among 18-year-olds.
You think having his child will make him stay? Right... | Sick of wannabe "mothers" trying to have children when they're not ready to have them and then they ruin the child's life! | [
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I am currently looking to get a new case for my pc, and have fallen in love with the InWin H-Frame.
I've always like cases that was say "out of the ordinary". My question to you folks is: Does anyone have long term experience with this case, especially in regards to dust problems. All the reviews i've found have been fairly positive, but failed to mention if the case had major prolems with dust in the long run. | Does the H-Frame case have dust problems to an extend where it is an overall "bad buy".
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You probably already had many religious experiences. Why you didn't notice it? Because "religious experience" is a fuzzy term. I've had a professor once, who was giving a lecture and related this story.
He was walking in town with a friend one day, when he started to feel lightheaded, followed by feelings of elation and joy. He began seeing a light, and by the time he was travelling skywards through a bright tunnel, he was already lying on the ground and had lost consciousness.
He was lucky. The friend he was walking with was a paramedic who didn't hesitate to call an ambulance and was proficient in providing first aid. The diagnosis in hospital: Pneumonia. This was one of the rare cases, where it had manifested without fever or pain in the chest. Part of his lungs had filled with fluid, so he didn't get the full amount of oxygen. This lack became critical when he was taking a walk, and he collapsed.
So what about this experience? What about the joy he felt when he was floating up through a tunnel of light? Was that a religious experience?
This professor lectured on neuroscience. So for him, as real as the sensations and the feelings he experienced were, he didn't see them as religious: For him it was his brain reacting to a lack of oxygen, going into emergency mode, while for someone else it might have been a glimpse of heaven.
No matter what the experience, someone who doesn't believe, will not interpret it as a religious experience: no matter if Papa Legba has opened the door in a Vodou ceremony, the Holy Ghost has come over you in a Catholic cathedral, or Jesus has saved you in a Protestant church. | You never had a religious experience, because you can only have religious experiences, if you at least want to believe. | [
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Logic and Ableton Live are different beasts.
If you want to do a bunch of things with loops and triggers, Ableton Live is probably your best bet. If you want to do more traditional music production, I'd recommend Logic. The "industry standard" is Pro Tools but that's an expensive route with no payoff for the amateur, and just because it's industry standard doesn't mean it's superior for what you want to do.
Resist the urge to get a new audio interface. The very next thing you buy after getting a DAW is a pair of studio monitors. If you don't have studio monitors, then you don't know what your music sounds like and you're screwed. Your stereo speakers are NOT acceptable substitutes even if they're very expensive and nice, they are not designed to do the job. Headphones are NOT acceptable substitutes no matter how good they are.
You'll need a new audio interface if you want to record anything other than software (e.g., a microphone or hardware synth).
If you want to use a keyboard, then buy a MIDI controller. They're cheap, they don't make sound, and they plug into your computer with USB (no need for a MIDI interface). Assuming you have a Mac (since you talk about Logic) you just plug the keyboard in and it works immediately. Again, this sounds dumb, but buy the studio monitors first before you buy the keyboard (the monitors really are that important).
Lastly, once you've got everything, you might want buy some extra RAM. | You can't go wrong with Logic or Ableton, and you don't need special hardware except studio monitors which are absolutely necessary no exceptions. | [
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Yes, so one of them will convert the sum to their own currency. Do you think Barcelona has 75 million Pounds lying around? No, they'll exchange the equivalent amount of Euros into Pounds, and pay with that. Likewise, if they agree on a sum in Euros, do you think Liverpool will just keep all those Euros? No, they will then convert the Euros they receive into Pounds, because they pay their salaries / most of their transfers / stadium maintenance etc. in Pounds.
In other words, an exchange is made from Euros to Pounds, regardless of what they agree in the deal. I don't think any club has a significant reserve of foreign currency for any extended period of time, because it's impractical and subject to changes in foreign exchange rates.
Essentially this is just like any form of international trade, where relative currency appreciations/devaluations make imports respectively less/more expensive.
Edit / | ELI5 : Consider this: have you ever made a Paypal payment in a foreign currency? I have - I bought from an American site, which had the price of the item listed in US Dollars. I paid in Euros, Paypal exchanged it following the current exchange rate from Euros to Dollars, and the seller received the listed amount in US Dollars. I agreed to pay a price in Dollars but ended up paying in Euros anyway, because I have Euros in my Paypal account, not Dollars! | [
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The groupings of "race" are entirely artificial; they're based on observation and primitive folk ontology, not on genetics.
All the replies bringing up genetic science to try to "prove" that there are significant differences between humans (differences confirmed; significance debatable) are ignoring the fact that "race" is a slapdash cultural category that they're accidentally cherry-picking data to support.
You could just as easily create "racial" categories of tall peoples or short peoples, since those are genetically-linked traits and easily observable over generations. | idiots shouldn't argue using "genetics" as evidence. Last time we tried that, we got Nazis. | [
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this is older teaching that has been largely disproven.
people with COPD do not lose their hypercarbic drive to breathe, it is merely set at a higher point. administering hyperoxic mixtures do not induce apnea directly as you seemed to imply here (which eventually leads to hypoxia). in fact, if you look at their initial minute ventilation, it is the same as someone without chronic hypercarbia. what happens is that the hyperoxic mixture worsens v/q matching, diverting blood to more dysfunctional alveoli. this eventually leads to hypoxemia. | yes medicine is hard, but your description is inaccurate.
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I've never taken any kind of drug in my life (saw this on r/all) but I came here to say that this solved a childhood mystery of mine! As a kid this used to happen to me sometimes as I was falling asleep (again, obviously completely sober) and I always wondered what it was!
I used to see image after image, rapidly changing. Like a million horses changing into a million pineapples (or whatever) all at lightning speed. As I grew up it started happening less and less - maybe because I have more on my mind/shit to worry about as an adult? Reflecting on it I realized it is probably what taking hallucinogens would be like. | Used to happen to me (sober) as a kid. This solved the mystery. | [
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Okay here's my story. So this girl and I had been into each other since October. She's a year older, extremely cute, talented, and silly. I had been spending a lot of time with her, took her out on a couple of dates, you know.
My problem was, is I (like many of my fellow redditors) I was TERRIFIED at the thought of kissing her. I kept getting asked, "have you kissed her yet?" "when are you going to man up and kiss her?" this was extremely frustrating, and it didn't help my nervousness that she'd never kissed anybody either.
The night was march first, I got that mentality "screw it, I'm picking her up, taking her up to this view of the valley, and kissing her." I was leaving to Haiti shortly after that night to do humanitarian work, so I texted her asking if she'd like to do something together before I leave. She agreed, so I drove to her house and picked her up.
Now I live in Utah, so it's very mountainous here. I took her up to this spot in the mountains where you can park your car and see what seems like every light in the valley. We sat there in my car, having a really nice conversation. I can't remember what it was about though, I was too nervous.
In a moment, she asked "So, where are we specifically?" she'd never been here, so I asked if she'd like to get out and I can point some things out to her. She agreed, and I had it totally planned out that I'd bring a blanket. Pulled the blanket out and we sat on the hood of my car.
We wrapped the blanket around us, at this point I had my arm around her waist. And I went off pointing out random landmarks like roads and things like that. That's when the snow starts falling very lightly, and with the reflection of the city lights and the snow it was incredibly beautiful. I mention that it's getting a bit cold and we should climb back into the car, at this point I set the blanket on the good of my car.
We looked right at each other, went into a really big hug. I started explaining how I would miss her while I was gone, and how I really enjoy spending time with her. We both don't let go of each other, that's when I look down and go in for the kiss. I did it. Valley lights, lightly snowing, perfect girl, perfect night. One of my best memories of all time for sure. | took a girl up into the mountains, started lightly snowing, kissed her. Smooth. | [
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A girl. I'm addicted to her, and not in a good way. She's this beautiful redhead who is just amazing in romantics but horrible everywhere else.
We're crazy about each other. Have been for over a year. When we're together and alone, we can't get enough of each other. Hands all over each other. Our problems just disappear when we're in each other's arms or laying in bed. Everything feels perfect. I feel as though I love her and would sacrifice anything for her.
Anything else between us is awful. No common interests, friends, anything. We argue constantly. We hate each other. We curse at each other, we can't even have a normal conversation without it blowing up... we're not in a relationship, we make each other miserable constantly, but neither of us can end it because we're addicted to each other. I hate her guts, I want her gone.
We're both young, stupid, in love, and can't stand each other... we're addicted to each other and it takes it's toll constantly. My money, dignity and well-being all disappear because of this girl, but GOD is she amazing. I wouldn't give her up for anything.
We're both aware, we both want to be better for each other, but we can't. Don't get me wrong, we're both nice people separately, but we're both equally horrible to each other.
We both know we'd be better if we had nothing to do with each other, but we keep crawling back. It's as real an addiction as anything else.
Funny how two casual friends can turn into psychopaths over some tiny feelings, huh? | addicted to beautiful, horrible redhead. I'm a dick, she's a bitch, hate each other, but we can't stop seeing one another. | [
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Here is the email trail.
Me:
> I am interested in taking a look at this camper.
What is your general location so I can determine a good time to come?
Seller:
>Hi,
My name is Ashley, happy to see you are interested in my 2005 Forest River Rockwood Roo M19. Let me give you a few details about it. Really good shape, never had any problems with it, no need to invest money in it, flawless exterior/interior condition, has never been lived in, always maintained no leaks very solid non smoker very clean, has everything a big rig has but in a smaller package. Kitchen, fridge, toilet, shower, sleeping 6, generator, heat and A/C, it has 21 feet and much more. The title is legally under my name, clear and free of any liens or loans.The price was reduced at $2,200. Because of my divorce settlement, i own this camper and as a woman i don t need it so i m trying to get rid of it as soon as possible (that s why i m selling it so cheap).
If you have any other questions, or need more info and photos, please feel free to ask.
Sincerely,
Ashley Earley
Me:
>Ashley,
Where is the camper currently located?
My wife and I would like to come and look at it.
Seller:
>Hi there,
Here are the pictures with the camper . As I told you in my first email, I recently got divorced. I got a new job and moved to Columbus, Ohio for a new start. The trailer is already at the shipping company in Ohio sealed and ready for the shipping. My presence won't be necessary because I prearranged the deal with Google Wallet. The shipping is free because I was supposed to ship the camper to another buyer, then he told me that he doesn't have money to pay for it. He already paid the shipping charges. The payment will be handled by Google and they will keep the money on hold until the end of the testing period and after they will have your approval that you are satisfied with the trailer and you want to keep it, Google will release the money to me so we can finish the sale. You will have 5 days to try out prior to making any purchase and if by any reason you find something you don't like about it you can send it back at my expense.
If you are interested in knowing more info about how it works, I can ask Google to send you an email with more information on how to purchase it. Google Wallet will contact you shortly after they have the details with all the information that you need to complete this deal and you will also have proof that I am covered by them and a legitimate seller. If you would like to receive the email from Google will all the transaction information please reply with your full name, shipping address and phone # and they will contact you right away.
Regards | found a good deal on a camper. seller tried to get me to purchase this camper from 3 states away through Google Wallet. | [
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So Guggie tweeted these out - without any apparent irony:
Both talk about the issues of entitlement in fan culture. And despite whether or not I agree with the premise of either article, their messages clearly - along with his previous 'Enough with the Canon' retweet - align against the #NoLaurelNoArrow folks. In Guggie's view. Obviously he doesn't quit understand how he's actively participating in this wth Olicity but ok.
He's convinced himself that all backlash against the show is from an over entitled fanbase too blinded by an adherence to a 'canon' that directly impedes his 'art'.
Obviously - nah. There are a lot more problems with the death - & the show overall - then whether or not it honors the romantic canon.
What's interesting is his mentions under these are all Oliciters getting defensive over it (or at least as defensive as you can get while trying to still kiss someone's ass).
So - this is interesting to me for a number of reasons. It implies that these people read themselves as the target in the article about fan entitlement. It shows that they don't quite understand that he as a matter of fact does not see catering to them as giving in to fan entitlement - but as part of his deliberate art. And it shows mostly him not realizing that he's completely oblivious to the fact that he's making an argument about the other side of the argument he intends to. Which is proven by the fact that the people that agree with him think he's attacking them.
As a sidenote personally? I think everyone drops a flag about one or another fandom. There are certain canons that you as a fan respect and others you don't. The mandarin being a smokescreen in Iron Man 3? Didn't bother me. Oliver Queen not being a loud mouthed liberal? Does bother me. So I find it hard to judge.
Fans are literally the customers for a product these people are producing. Keeping the fans happy is the sole job of someone providing entertainment. But that doesn't mean giving them what they want every time of course. there's a fine line, everyone can agree. But attacking a fanbase who's allowed you to live in the house you live, to eat the food you eat etc because they think you fucked up something you made for them? Sometimes the creator just fucked up. Everyone thought the LOST finale dropped the ball and Damon Lindeloff doesn't stamp his feet & tell people they're entitled.
And my ultra personal opinion? Comparing, even passively, fans angry that you killed Green Arrow's Robin or Lois Lane with sexists upset about an all female Ghostbusters team or racists who don't like black Johnny Storm is deeply offensive. You're not fighting social injustice & helping diversity in media by fridging the Black Canary, you motherfucker. | Guggie posts articles mocking Laurel fandom, Olicity thinks it's about them, hilarity ensues | [
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This will get buried. Oh well.
When I was about 13 I would do rounds to all our rentals with my father. He was kinda the, landlord, handyman all in one deal. We went to serve a notice on a guy we hadn't heard from in about 2 weeks. My dad went up to his apartment and came back down after gaining entry. Dude shot himself in the head. Had been dead for a little while.
More recently I have replaced my father and the shit people do to rentals will never amaze me anymore.
The most recent one, we evicted these 3 people out of a 3 bedroom house. I ended up clearing 5 tons of trash out of the inside of the house. Extremely frustrating knowing these people hadn't paid rent in 3 months and i had to pick up their shit which consisted of Countless gambling cards and an iPad box. They later called about where they could pick their stuff up from... da fuq.
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Two words: active recovery. Don't skimp on that shit and let the trauma build up.
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Seeing his face now compared to how I remember him in office reminds me of how we will all take the long dirt nap one day. | Old people are depressing icons of our own universal mortality. | [
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This actually happened last year but I was thinking about it recently. After going on a handful of dates with a girl I liked we finally got to the point in the relationship where she slept over at my apartment for the first time (we weren't officially dating yet). Unfortunately, at the same she started to get noticeable red blemishes on her skin. I asked her if anything like that had happened in the past, and I was told that she thinks she might have an allergy to something in detergents and that she always uses the same brand, but that she did laundry at a friends that week and used a new detergent. Assuming that the most obvious explanation was probably the correct explanation, I affirmed that the detergent must have caused the reaction and we went to the pharmacy to get an antihistamine.
Fast forward a few days and the erythema is getting worse and spreading. We ran through every possibility we could think of: other things that she has come into contact with recently, scabies, we checked her bed for bedbugs... but we couldn't figure it out. After her xth dermatologist visit they resorted to giving her a cream for scabies, and after she put it all over her body the itching intensified so much that she started crying. I felt really bad but didn't know what to do to help her, aside from the fact that I had been letting her crash at my place because her bedding was washed with the mystery detergent. Defeated, she made another dermatologist appointment for the next day and decided to go home.
The next morning, while I was sleeping naked with my body covered in scabies cream just to make sure I didn't get scabies from her, I felt something tickling me and I grabbed something on my chest in horror. Yep, you guessed it, I was the one with bedbugs. I didn't realize at the time that only some people react to the bites, and apparently I had nurtured generations upon generations of bedbugs with my own blood and offered them some tasty blood from a naive person that was coming over to my house to AVOID whatever was bothering her skin. Needless to say I called her ASAP, and at her appointment she said that her "boyfriend" had bedbugs because she didn't want to say she was crashing at some random dudes place, and that was how we officially started dating. Too bad she wouldn't see me in person until 4 weeks later after I spent $1000 on a new bed/bed frame/carpet/exterminator visit, and I brought all my clothes to the laundromat in shame. | Girl I was seeing had a dermatological reaction, let her stay at my place to avoid what was causing it, turned out that I had a legion of bedbugs that were eating her. | [
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Some people have already told you this, but just wander around the world. You will find things that interest you. Ironically, the world itself has some of the best stories int he game.
Actually, to be honest, I think the most disappointing part of this game is the personal story. A few cool moments, the last dungeon is pretty cool, and I can tell that they put a lot of work into it, but unfortunately a lot of it falls flat and the bad voice acting just makes it worse.
But I'm digressing. Everything else (for me) has been awesome. I have a lvl 80, a lvl 60, a lvl 33, and a lvl 30 that I play regularly. I work 9-5 and most of my long game sessions are on the weekends.
The first key to my enjoyment is that I am in a sweet guild. Its about 300 members and it is CASUAL. So no practicing or harsh requirements, you just have to be polite.
Beyond that, the one other really important piece of advice I can give you is to try and bounce around the various things you can do in the game. AS SOON as you are bored of something, do something else. If you are getting stuck leveling go craft. This will usually help you bridge the gap and you'll start discovering useful little things that you can craft.
WvW can suck if you have a bad server but if you learn how to survive in WvW, the kills will come. If there is a decent commander on, you can get some pretty decent leveling done just by following the zerg from objective to objective and staying alive. Retreat if you're going to die and if WvW isn't going well, hop out.
But the meat of my time is spent either finding event chains in the world and checking out all the little side stories or dungeoning.
Again a guild is key to being able to dungeon a lot and a VOIP program will help a lot too. Dungeons at first can be daunting, but once you get the hang of them they are awesome. I had a GREAT group the other day with 2 other guildies and 2 PUGgers and we did all three paths of Ascalon Catacombs in 1.5 hours. This earned me about 2.5 gold. | Keys to success: (1) Good, active, casual guild (2) Always bouncing between a. exploring, b. crafting, c. storying, d. dungeons, and e. WvW and (3) NEVER doing things that bore me. Do NOT focus on leveling, just do whatever you want and trust me, you will level.
Bonus tip: Start an alt. It's a good way to keep things fresh, and when your alt gets to be a higher level, it is VERY refreshing to switch out to a different class and play with a different style.
Right now I'm at the point where I'm discovering cool little builds, like my Ele build that lets me put down 15 stacks of might or my guardian build which blasts through dungeons as I heal my party and lay decent damage. | [
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It's very easy to say they should have partnered up in terms of content production, but in reality those companies probably wouldn't have wanted to.
Does ESL really want to partner up with Dreamhack? I'm sure they would've wanted exclusive rights over the content especially since they can do both production and events. Similarly MLG has been pushing for daily content lately. I doubt they'd want to partner up with one of their competitors just so they can get better production. | It's not in the best interest of MLG/ESL to partner up with another organization like NASL/Dreamhack financially. Especially since MLG/ESL can do both media production and event organization in house. | [
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When I was in 8th grade me and my buddy sat down on the first day off lunch at this table that was just us. these kids who werent completely all there decided to sit next to us. later on, we made this "ranking" system, and the only way to get promoted was to buy us food or icecream and they would littery go mad racing to see who would buy us icecream first. and this other kid was practicly our made. | kids who werent quite there were my slaves for 8th grade. | [
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Hey all! Simple questions, but I have only found inelegant answers elsewhere on the internet.
25/yo male here. Never really had a relationship last a long time (a year is about my limit), never lived with anyone, never considered marriage, etc.
Now that I'm looking to date seriously, I've met and become really fond of a girl with two kids-- she's 28, kids are 5 and 7. While she's quite responsible (goes to school full time, works full time), her parents do the lion's share of the childcare.
Also, I'm a part-time college level instructor, and she was in one of my world literature classes over the summer (an easy A for her, she's really smart). My questions are:
1) how would you want a former instructor to ask you out? Would that always be strange? What potential pitfalls might there be? I know she liked my class, but I really enjoyed just chatting with her in my office after class. It was the highlight of my day. We even ran into each other at a bar and had a nice conversation that I was probably too tipsy to be demure during.
2) I basically lead a charmed, bachelor life. But I'm sick of it, and would like to move towards settling down. Of course, I don't know if this is the right person, etc, but is that something that might be worthwhile to express given her position as a (really hard working) single mom? I.E., to say, "I'm interested in you, and I think it's awesome that you have kids, because I love kids"? Or is that waaay too forward? Our conversations have been limited to "how are you" and "how's [kid's name]" and stuff about class.
Thanks. I'm at a loss given 1) that she's older than me, but also was my student and 2) that she's got children at the center of her life, while my life has always been self-centered. | Want to ask a former student out who is older than me in the least awkward way possible. Also want to say that I think it's awesome she has kids, and that I'm looking for a family myself without imposing on her. | [
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this logic defying picture had me thinking how this could ever happen. my theory is that the groom jumped before the others. the camera man took quick notice of this plan and took the picture perfectly. | the groom and cameraman had set this up. | [
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I've known my boyfriend for a few years now and we've been dating for about 10 months and I feel like he is my soul mate. He helps make me a better person and I feel like he is the one I belong with for the rest of my life. He did move to another city and are planning on moving me out there soon so we're currently ~1000 miles apart.
Lately, I've been feeling like I'm missing something. Like, theres a part of me that I've never explored and I should. I've always felt a little attracted towards women but have never acted on it. I've been out with a girl to the movies and dinner once but I was always too awkward to make a move or try anything passed a hug at the end of the night.
I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend; that is the last thing I want. But I feel like if I never explore this -let's call it an- impulse, I'll always have it lingering in the back of my head. My boyfriend is one of the best guys I know and I just don't know how to approach this or if I should just not say anything. I've never mentioned anything about being interested in women to him before. | dating a guy (who I think is my soul mate) for 10 months but I might be bi-curious and want to explore that. | [
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So, a friend of mine is looking to move to California with his wife and kid (from Minnesota) and wants to get his medical card. Both him and his wife would qualify for one. His goal is to be able to grow the legal amount of pot and sell it back to a dispensary with a long term goal of eventually opening a dispensary. He believes that if both him and his wife did this that they could make enough money to sustain themselves. The kicker is this, he asked if my fiance and i wanted to go with them. We are both torn on this. Both of us could also obtain medical cards and there for could grow and sell back as well. The problem i guess im having is i dont know if it really is a feasible thing? Could 4 people, living in 1 house, legally grow enough in Cali and sell it back to the dispensaries to make a living? I mean, could we be comfortable or would we barely make ends meet? We found it looks like you can have up to 12 plants per card, so that would give us 48 plants at any one time. Im not aware how much dispensaries purchase other peoples marijuana for either. These are all questions i would like answered. Also my fiance prefers the east coast but we are not aware of any states out that way that are as cool with it as Cali, so if you have any ideas, please let me know! | Can 4 people with medical cards legally grow and sell pot to dispensaries and make enough money to live in Cali? | [
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First: Thanks for Oxeye for making this possible!
I've been working on a bounty map called "Hidden Ruins" for Cobalt and I thought it would be a good idea to send it to Oxeye! So I've been working on it all day all night and after some time I've sent it to them. They did seem to like it, and I've asked them if it would be possible for it to be in the game, and they didn't respond to that question. Yesterday, at the 14th of August, I've sent them the final version. And the day later (today, at the 15th of August) I saw this:
"Today Oxeye are updating Cobalt to version 107-ALPHA"
I was like HOLY and looked at the changelogs. At first I found nothing, but at the bottom of the page:
"BO maps Hard Rock, Reactor , Scrapyard and Hidden ruins ."
I was so happy to see my map in the full game! Thanks again to Oxeye for this great game and for putting the map into the game! | I've made a bounty map and after some time Oxeye added it to the game! | [
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I am very new to swtor and its my first mmo. I started off with a scoundrel but i deleted it because I am way too much of a noob to deal with the skill bar changing on me when i go in to cover and get forced out, it was just not a good class for me as a noob. now i am playing a sorcerer lightning spec. I find it fun but weird that i have a lightsaber that goes unused and it doesnt give me a "main" feel to it since I have never been big ranged. I want to continue on with my sorc someday but now I just want to make a character that i can call my main. in that I want a char with a fun story line, fun to play, and could be effective in pvp when i get into it someday. I want to play as a jedi gaurdian but I'm thrown off because people have coined it inferior and underpowered in pvp (except huttball). any advice would be much appreciated. | what class would make the best overall main for someone completely new to MMOs and swtor(combination of fun game-play, a good story line, and can be effective in pvp/end game)? | [
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I've been keeping my ear on his show off and on, more so than O&J, over the past few months. I just listened to the best of the srs show from this past week. Here's my verdict : It's not bad, but it's not good. It's milquetoast radio. Background noise with nothing shocking, or particularly interesting, but pleasant enough to the zoning out ear brain. I still think Sam has the potential to put on a great show but he needs to change it up somehow. | Sam Roberts Show = eh. | [
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To start, I will first say that this happened over the weekend.
So I (20F) was on vacation with my mom, 2 brothers and my oldest brothers wife. My youngest brother still older than me just graduated from college here in my city and we were going on a vacation near the beach to celebrate it. When we got to the condo by the beach, we arrived to a 3 bed/3 bath beautiful home. My mother had her room, my brother and his wife had one, and I was to share a room with the graduating brother.
The living room had an amazing view of the beach, leading out to a balcony where you can see the ocean. My family is usually with the hustle and bustle of a day so we don't spend as much time with each other as maybe we should, so having us all in one spot for a change would be nice.
Before I explained where I fucked up, let me say that growing up, we all had separate rooms, and were pretty good with privacy. Since I am the only girl and they are pretty much in to "man stuff" they never really bothered me unless I came looking for trouble.
Half way through the trip, after days of stuffing our face, playing in the ocean, checking out beach stores, and sight seeing, we took a chill day. I didn't really need the day to chill but every one seemed tired so we stayed in. That day I grew restless and bored. I watched countless Netflix movies, game shows, and Lifetime movies before deciding to watch porn and masturbate myself into a nap.
This is where I fucked up.
I set up a mini fort in the living room, it was perfect, vacation style since I never really do this since I have a SO at home and we have great sex. But it had been 5 days no sex and I was growing weary. Anyway, my fort was set, I had a towel, extra pillows, the whole 9 and I had my tablet so i could see better than on my phone where I usually watch. Every one is sleeping in there rooms, which I allotted at least an hour of fun. All the doors were closed and the coast looked clear. I cracked open a bottle of my moms liquor (which she didn't mind me drinking on vacation) and slid off my clothes. Lately I have been very specific with my porn and prefer oiled everything porn.
So its on, I'm horny, the ocean is still roaring and I'm actually half drunk. Maybe 14 minutes into it, I get close. Maybe I'm the only one that gets a little brainless the closer I get but that whole thing kicked in. I hear my younger brother coughing in his sleep but it is so faint that it could be ignored (and was). The coughing subsided and was replaced with footsteps 2 minutes later. At this point, I'm like a damn ocean breaking the flood gates and didn't stop.
Now image being in a dry ass desert and you see a windy tent shaking, but you know there is no wind. This is my brother looking at me cumming in my snuggie/blanket made fort.
Post action, I realize these are actual footsteps, and slightly stick my head out of the fort and he looking at me like a fucking alien. We haven't spoke on it, but I'm sure he knows and I know he knows. | I didn't get my own room on vacation and tried masturbating in the living room and got caught.
Edit: Spelling, sorry guys I'm at working and my boss is being a real pain today.... | [
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Perhaps I could give a bit of advice as someone roughly twice your age.
Beyond high school, life changes. What seems like the most important things to you right now, may seem trivial in just a few years time. As you age, each day becomes a smaller percentage of your entire life experiences.
That being said, think about who you are now and what you've accomplished. Surely you feel awesome in the presence of this girl, but you've also been pretty awesome this whole time when she wasn't around. You have been living your life without this girl to define you, so you know you will continue to be awesome if it doesn't work out.
In the end, I will have to quote Dune: "I will not fear; fear is the mind-killer." You are letting your fear of what you might lose turn your brain to mush, when you might not be losing anything, and you might not have had it in the first place.
So ask her out. Keep it simple, straightforward, and remember that life will go on. "Hey M, you probably know I've had a crush on you for a while. I want to date you, romantically. If you want to date me too, smile. If not, backflip."
If she shoots you down, spend a bit of time moping (let it all out) and then go get drunk and spend some time at a strip club. The worst that could happen is you find someone else a few years down the road and she's even awesomer. | That's why Wallabys can't have moustaches. | [
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Let me just start by saying I am rich in experience and love, but I am not rich monetarily. And personally, I find these riches to be better.
I recently turned 20 years old. I am young, naive, and don't sleep normal hours because I work odd hours at my different jobs. I'm not an extraordinary person by any means- but I figured out early that when you're given the short stick of life, you grab it and run like you were just given the baton at a relay race.
My parents divorced as I was 7 years old. My father making the upwards of 100k a year, and my mom (who had custody of me) was pushing close to 30k a year. My father kicked us out of the house after the divorce and he never even lived there- his work had him travelling all the time. So we went to my Filipino grandmother's for a place to stay. She lived a simple life because of her upbringing, and she was happy. She helped us out in any way she could, but we never let her know how bad off we really were. We wiped through both of our (mine and my mom’s) savings, and I was too young to understand why we couldn't order a pizza like we did when I would visit a friend. Culture shock hit hard and from then on I hit the ground running.
Skip to age 15- I find my first job at a dog kennel. I'm under-aged and don't have a car so I have to bike everywhere (think farmland/country life that's sorta urban still). They paid me cash under the table so no one knew I was working there- and it was a pretty sweet gig. Any and all money I earned I would give to my mom to help with a down payment on a house for us. I worked 40ish hours a week it wasn’t long before we could afford a place. I also was able to take home leftover dog food to feed our family pet who came with us during the divorce.
Finally I hit 17 and graduate from highschool. I'm not top of my class because any free time I had I spent working, so homework wasn't a top priority. I did graduate as an honor grad regardless, on top of being the president of 2 clubs and VP of the National Honors Society. I also entered college with 20 credit hours from passing my AP exams. I understood the value of working hard, unlike the 4.0 kids who took home ec, woodshop, and the other “easy A” classes. (Mind you my GPA was a 3.8- but I took every single AP class my school had to offer, dropping my GPA)
College time- and I still keep running- the banner at the end just keeps getting farther away. I have 20 credit hours under my belt, but little to no scholarships because I wasn’t “the best” of my class. Even community college would be too much for me to swing. Then UPS comes along with this Metro College program. They pay full tuition for grades of C and higher- but you have to work 3rd shift. So I sign up and enroll at my local University and work for a Psychology BS Premed degree. Easier said than done… I finally buy a cheap, beater car from a friend and now have transportation to my places: UPS- 20 hours a week/ Dog kennel- 35 hours a week/ 17 credit hours at my university. Sleep? Not likely- I never let anyone on to it but I would mix 5 hour energy into my water bottle to have a little boost to keep me going and to force me to hydrate myself at the same time.
My beater car finally gives its last bit for me and dies peacefully in the middle of I65. My drive to the kennel is 30 minutes away- so I now have to find another job until I can save up enough for another car. So there’s a Qdoba right beside my campus that I immediately get started in on. I end up dating a guy who lives near campus so now I also have found a place to stay. I’m not one for moving in with SO’s until marriage, but what else was I supposed to do? I help him pay rent and still take my trusty bike everywhere I need. Qdoba didn’t pay as much as the kennel, but at least I was saving gas money. Summer hits and I’m taking TARCs out to other Qdoba’s in the area. I’m working 80 hour weeks while school is out and pulling in some massive overtime-filled paychecks. It’s time for me to find a REAL car. And thus my baby came along- my red 1997 convertible top Z28 Camaro. I paid for that baby in full, and have only had minor problems since- just a couple months ago I watched it roll past its 100k mile mark.
Qdoba stiffed me in more ways than one. I ask for promotion- no. I ask for hours that work with my schedule (I HAVE to be at UPS for my full tuition)- no. I ask for even the smallest raise of 20 cents- no. I may need a job, but I’m not so stupid as to lose my full tuition. So I quit. I write my letter of resignation in fabric paint on my uniform and walk in with it. I clock in and start my shift like normal- I didn’t no call no show. It took the crowd of people slowing down the line to read my shirt before the manager even noticed. I was sent home- and yeah I left my shirt on the manager desk and walked out in a sports bra-no shame. I even got a round of applause from the customers who had read the shirt (college campus after all). My boyfriend breaks up with me shortly after because he thinks I “can’t help with rent” now. Cool- I guess I was just being used as free sex and cheaper rent. Whatever- I have a car now and can just drive back to live with my mom… who is NOW demanding I pay rent to her. I already give her a portion of my pay on top of my own bills, gas, etc and now she ALSO wants me to pay rent in my own home. I decide that her proposition is ridiculous and decide to just sleep in my car and in the quiet corners of my university’s library. I go to the gym and shower and clean up and literally live out of my car for about a month. No one knew- not my friends, teachers, or coworkers. Finally, I find my own place a couple blocks from campus and my mother no longer gets any funding from me.
A week after leaving Qdoba, I am the manager at the Taco Bell also beside my campus! I was hired in as a manager- I’m that impressive and only 19. I get my big girl pants on and start running shifts like a boss. The company works with me and my schedule, pays me well, and is already begging me to become a General Manager (but I can’t work 50 hours with UPS and full time student status). They will even pay for my graduate school! My bank account hit numbers I didn’t think I’d ever see- especially not for a teenager. I never go below 10k, and always pay rent and bills on time.
I’m 20 now and I can’t lie when I say that I have had a rough life. But now I’m finally somebody. I don’t think about what I buy at the grocery anymore- I buy my dog the best dog food, I buy whatever food I want, and I even donate to soup kitchens. I’m still single, and I’m okay about it. Sure having an apartment to yourself is lonely, but I have so much more to be thankful for. I could have easily given up and gone to a homeless shelter, I could have gotten food from soup kitchens, I could have signed up for food stamps, and I could have just not taken the job at UPS and given up on a degree. But I didn’t let myself get down. I grabbed the baton and ran- and even though I got tired along the way, I know I’m in the home stretch with the wind at my back. | I’m a 20 year old strong, independent white girl
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I did graduate as an honor grad regardless, on top of being the president of 2 clubs and VP of the National Honors Society. I also entered college with 20 credit hours from passing my AP exams. I understood the value of working hard, unlike the 4.0 kids who took home ec, woodshop, and the other “easy A” classes. (Mind you my GPA was a 3.8- but I took every single AP class my school had to offer, dropping my GPA) \n College time- and I still keep running- the banner at the end just keeps getting farther away. I have 20 credit hours under my belt, but little to no scholarships because I wasn’t “the best” of my class. Even community college would be too much for me to swing. Then UPS comes along with this Metro College program. They pay full tuition for grades of C and higher- but you have to work 3rd shift. So I sign up and enroll at my local University and work for a Psychology BS Premed degree. Easier said than done… I finally buy a cheap, beater car from a friend and now have transportation to my places: UPS- 20 hours a week/ Dog kennel- 35 hours a week/ 17 credit hours at my university. Sleep? Not likely- I never let anyone on to it but I would mix 5 hour energy into my water bottle to have a little boost to keep me going and to force me to hydrate myself at the same time. \n My beater car finally gives its last bit for me and dies peacefully in the middle of I65. My drive to the kennel is 30 minutes away- so I now have to find another job until I can save up enough for another car. So there’s a Qdoba right beside my campus that I immediately get started in on. I end up dating a guy who lives near campus so now I also have found a place to stay. I’m not one for moving in with SO’s until marriage, but what else was I supposed to do? I help him pay rent and still take my trusty bike everywhere I need. Qdoba didn’t pay as much as the kennel, but at least I was saving gas money. Summer hits and I’m taking TARCs out to other Qdoba’s in the area. I’m working 80 hour weeks while school is out and pulling in some massive overtime-filled paychecks. It’s time for me to find a REAL car. And thus my baby came along- my red 1997 convertible top Z28 Camaro. I paid for that baby in full, and have only had minor problems since- just a couple months ago I watched it roll past its 100k mile mark. \n Qdoba stiffed me in more ways than one. I ask for promotion- no. I ask for hours that work with my schedule (I HAVE to be at UPS for my full tuition)- no. I ask for even the smallest raise of 20 cents- no. I may need a job, but I’m not so stupid as to lose my full tuition. So I quit. I write my letter of resignation in fabric paint on my uniform and walk in with it. I clock in and start my shift like normal- I didn’t no call no show. It took the crowd of people slowing down the line to read my shirt before the manager even noticed. I was sent home- and yeah I left my shirt on the manager desk and walked out in a sports bra-no shame. I even got a round of applause from the customers who had read the shirt (college campus after all). My boyfriend breaks up with me shortly after because he thinks I “can’t help with rent” now. Cool- I guess I was just being used as free sex and cheaper rent. Whatever- I have a car now and can just drive back to live with my mom… who is NOW demanding I pay rent to her. I already give her a portion of my pay on top of my own bills, gas, etc and now she ALSO wants me to pay rent in my own home. I decide that her proposition is ridiculous and decide to just sleep in my car and in the quiet corners of my university’s library. I go to the gym and shower and clean up and literally live out of my car for about a month. No one knew- not my friends, teachers, or coworkers. Finally, I find my own place a couple blocks from campus and my mother no longer gets any funding from me. \n A week after leaving Qdoba, I am the manager at the Taco Bell also beside my campus! I was hired in as a manager- I’m that impressive and only 19. I get my big girl pants on and start running shifts like a boss. The company works with me and my schedule, pays me well, and is already begging me to become a General Manager (but I can’t work 50 hours with UPS and full time student status). They will even pay for my graduate school! My bank account hit numbers I didn’t think I’d ever see- especially not for a teenager. I never go below 10k, and always pay rent and bills on time. \n I’m 20 now and I can’t lie when I say that I have had a rough life. But now I’m finally somebody. I don’t think about what I buy at the grocery anymore- I buy my dog the best dog food, I buy whatever food I want, and I even donate to soup kitchens. I’m still single, and I’m okay about it. Sure having an apartment to yourself is lonely, but I have so much more to be thankful for. I could have easily given up and gone to a homeless shelter, I could have gotten food from soup kitchens, I could have signed up for food stamps, and I could have just not taken the job at UPS and given up on a degree. But I didn’t let myself get down. I grabbed the baton and ran- and even though I got tired along the way, I know I’m in the home stretch with the wind at my back.",
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Eh, it "kinda" was, but it always felt like he avoided tougher throws on 3rd down. Instead checking down to a fullback or something for a 2 yard gain when we needed 8.
I've never been the biggest fan of Campbell, I always wanted him to turn things around, but I just never thought he was that good. He had some pretty big mechanical deficiencies when he played for us, I doubt he's improved them since. | I don't think he should have ever been drafted in the 1st round. How Aaron Rodgers went only 1 spot ahead of him I do not know. | [
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Hi,
I don't blame or shame my bf for looking at people when we're out and about or even when we're not together, we're only humans who acknowledge beauty in objects and people - I do it too. However, it makes me uneasy when it's someone close to me like my sister(s).
Here's what happened:
This New Years Eve my family and I were all hanging out and drinking in the living room. My sister "Ray" was wearing a really short, dress/short thing (I forgot what they're called). She's also not modest so when she bent over to pick up the tray of shots for example, she didn't give a fuck about what was showing or not; all you could really see was the beginning of her butt cheeks like when girls wear really short, shorts in the summer but I assure you if it would've happened to show more, she wouldn't even flinch (just trying to portray her character, no exaggeration). My bf "Jesus" glanced over but this wasn't the only time. Throughout the entire night he would keep glancing over at her specifically and he did so each time from the corner of his eye so as to be subtle. This kind of thing happens all the time though .
My problem:
I don't think he's going to cheat on me or anything ridiculous like that but I do feel offended and I think it's rude. Also, she's on the heavier side and one of Jesus' favorite porn categories is BBW - this adds to the discomfort.
I know a lot of the problems we have in our relationships are due to our own problems as individuals but as much as I keep trying to logically go over this in my head, even after meditating, I just can't get over how disrespectful I find this and how I can't allow it to continue to occur - I don't think it'll ever be okay for him to stare at Ray or any other female that is close to me (my other sister or close friends). I'm afraid this is going to cause me to want to keep the two relationships apart and never have them interact which will be taxing but I'm willing to do it.
Need for advice:
I'm not sure what to do. I have not spoken to him about this. Luckily, I've been sick with laryngitis for the past few days so I've been unable to speak out-loud, which just buys me more time to prepare for the discussion with him. I'm afraid I'm being irrational but even though I'm constantly going over this in my head, I can't accept it.
I just want to handle this in the best possible way, without pushing him away from me but I need some help, I don't really have anyone to talk to about this. Thanks for reading, I appreciate any suggestions :). | How should I go about dealing with my bf's (26 M) constant glances at my sister (23 F) during family occasions? | [
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In a blaze of glory.
I'll try to keep this relatively short without leaving out anything important. I got married old by JW standards, but young by worldly standards. I was 23 and I picked the absolute worst woman possible. She had a ton of baggage and came from a messed up family, but she was hot...
At the time I guess I felt like I could save her, she and and her family were just misunderstood, classic male idiot superhero behaviour. Two weeks into our marriage we have a big blowout fight. I'm talking huge. There was yelling, swearing and some pretty nasty exchanges. Oh and plenty of alcohol was consumed because what's a good fight without it. It was as bad as it gets just short of physical violence. She leaves the house, I fall asleep. Two in the morning, the cops show up at my door, it was open because she left it that way so they let themselves in. They tell me she's charged me with assault and I'm gonna spend the night in jail.
Fast forward a couple of months and I come to the conclusion that I want out of this marriage. Yes it took me that long. I want all the way out, as in scriptural divorce. So I decide that I'm going to take it apon myself to commit adultery and end it for good. That way, I thought, in the not so distant future I can re-marry within the organization and I'll be free and clear of her. I do the deed, confess my sins and promptly get disfellowshipped. The elders on my committee seem sympathetic of my situation, they tell me to go to meetings and study vigorously and come and see them in 6-8 months about re-instatement. I heed their advice and do as I have been instructed to.
However, when I meet with the same brothers 7 some odd months later they tell me there's just no way the could re-instate me this soon. It would be as though I was circumventing the rules. Obviously I'm upset, I feel lied to and betrayed and I begin to question the whole thing. As most of us know, the second you begin to ask questions, real questions and you're honest with yourself, it's the beginning of the end. That was 12 years ago and I haven't looked back since. | married a crazy JW broad, got arrested, banged a random for scriptural grounds for divorce and got diffed for it. | [
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I'm going to keep this is as short as possible although I'm still trying to figure this out myself. I (M19) met my girlfriend (F19) at a rave in August 2015, nothing happened until late September when we finally started consistently texting each other every day, and hanging out often.
I had previously been in a long distance relationship for 3 years right before that, and I was still trying to end things with my ex GF when I had first met my girlfriend now at the rave in the summer. First week of October after we had hooked up is when I officially called everything off with my ex who lived 5 hours away and that I barely saw. I was happier with this new girl and she definitely was someone who I wanted in my life and wanted to take seriously. However, I must admit that first month without my ex being in the picture at all causes me to constantly second guess my decision and ask myself if it was the correct one. This new girl was amazing, she was the whole package, and I was very interested however I think after 3 years people are bound to the emotional attachment just because one is comfortable with it. So during these days when I sometimes missed her, I texted my bestfriend about it whenever I started over thinking stuff just so he can tell me what I have right now is much better. I would text him back saying he's right and though I miss her that I think I'm better off with my current GF. Mind you I never texted my ex or hit her up in any way.
This went on for about a month before I was genuinely secure with myself and with this new potential relationship with this new girl that I genuinely started liking a lot. I told her my feelings and she agreed we felt the same way and that we should try for this. In December I asked her to be my girlfriend and we've been so happy since then. I'm at a point in my life where everything was going right and I had so many plans for us this year with her family as well as mine. I grew an attachment to her and her being around me, honestly I think even greater than my previous girlfriend just because I'm able to actually see my current girlfriend more often. However, the one thing about me is I have always had trust issues due to my ex living so far and I was always insecure. With my current girlfriend I learned to kick a lot of those insecurities because I trusted her so much, never thought she would be the type to cheat. Yesterday I was going through her photos on her phone in the morning looking at old screenshots she took of our conversations when we first started talking in October. Okay cute. I also saw around the same time that she was taking screenshots of tweets/and convos of her ex. (Probably sending them to her girls for advice). Okay not so cool. Then I saw that screenshots of their text messages until about early November of them talking about 'hanging out' and him saying to her "You know what this is" and "I hope you sent that video to your boy". I left her house with her chasing me, begging me to stay and that she was sorry. She said that the only reason she did that is because she went through my phone earlier on in October and saw my messages to my bestfriend about my ex and figured that I was still missing her and talking to her. I explained to her that missing her and fucking my ex FWB is two different things. She countered by saying she didn't know how serious we were and that now she loves me and wouldn't do anything like that. She has been texting me and trying to call me all day, but I told her I need space right now. All my insecurity and trust issues came flooding back to me and right now I don't know how to handle this. I'm leaning towards just breaking up with her but God I wish I didnt, she was such a great girl , and my family and friends love her. Has anyone been through anything similar to this? I know we weren't officially together but it just hurts that I was taking it serious from the start and started getting feelings for this girl thinking it was the same for her, and now finding out that she was still fucking her ex FWB to get back at me for missing my ex and talking to my bestfriend about it? I need perspective right now. | girlfriend was still seeing her ex FWB during the first month of dating because she didn't think I was serious about the relationship in the beginning. Found out through screenshot pictures of past conversations between them. | [
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I read several times that, to get out of low elo, one shall play AD and singlehandedly carry his team to victory. So I tried it, being myself in so called low elo.
That didn't worked out as I expected, most common issues were:
Mid/top lane feeding, making the enemy caster/bruiser balling out of control and hunting me down in every teamfight, or even camping my lane past the 15 minutes mark.
Support not warding/cv'ing, giving up Dragons, Barons, and making our team much more vulnerable to the opponent's engages.
Jungler forgetting our lane, wich never helps winning it.
That makes it difficult to snowball until you become that godlike carry...
Now, from what I saw, I think the best ways to maximise you winning chances are to play as support .
Because these roles allow you, not to carry, but to make your allies able to carry!
At my elo, nobody wants to support, the last pick often picks one by default, and does a poor job.
By learning how to support, I was able to:
Give my carry kills, and zoning our lane opponent. Helping my "average joe" lane mate to become a "godlike joe" lanemate .
Warding/clearing wards. Making our team much more able to engage properly, and not getting caught.
Cv'ing opposite jungler to pressure him and allow our jungler to take adapt his path.
I think people at this elo (1200 ish), don't realise the huge impact that a good support can have on the game's outcome. | play support, win games.
English isn't my native language, please forgive my mistakes, if any. | [
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It's more about how the invention is used rather than the technology or item IMHO. Take Chinese glass rods for example. | PEOPLE | [
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just wanted some opinons on ARAM and why you play it? Alot of people i play with dislike ARAM due to the fact that it is annoying especially trying to create team synergy when you have very counter intuitive playstyles from different champions.
I play ARAM to improve my team fighting skills since its always a chaotic 5v5 in a small area it has really helped me improve my adc positioning and mechanics. Before i used to really get lost in the teamfight not know where i am what skills to use who to target but i now i have improved quite a bit. I mean sometimes it's just fun trying out new builds like AD lulu and sona since your team is lacking an AD. | ARAM has helped me improve my team fight co ordination.
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The existence of our universe is limited to what happened after the big bang. The smallest interval of time immediately following it is the interval of time that we can observe, because it's the first time to "exist."
We cannot "know" anything that we cannot observe. In the most technical definition (this whole question doesn't really have an eli5 answer, sorry), an observation is an interaction with something. You observe the computer in front of you, because the photons coming out of the screen are interacting with your body. We cannot know what happened before the big bang, because we cannot interact with it. It simply does not "exist" in the same sense that we do (at least not anymore, if anymore means anything in this case).
If something cannot be interacted with, then it doesn't matter. If it can't be interacted with (even on accident), then that means it has no effect on the universe that we inhabit. | oversimplification: if we can't touch it, it can't touch us. if it can't touch us, it doesn't effect us, so it doesn't matter. | [
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I am really not 100% sure if your post is sarcasm or not. The deciding factor was the length, so I think you were actually serious.
Just to be clear, I am from Europe and have never lived in the US. I have some friends who do live there and I read a lot (not only newspapers, but also the scientific ones). If you think this does disqualify me to have an opinion on this matter, you also have to accept that noone who has never been (insert any social concept here) can ever have anything of relevance to say about (said social concept) and should stop reading now.
> 1.Customer service. Really, the Americans are great at this.
As said, my experience in the US is limited, as I've only been to FL. However, in the places I were, customer service was the absolute worst I ever received anywhere I traveled (and I have been around). And some friends who have been to NY and CA agree it is the same there. My experiences in the UK, and every other european country I have been to, are much better all around.
> 2.Multiculturalism. I think Europe has a much more insular "us vs them" attitude about immigration in general.
You realize the US are building [A WALL]( And in Europe they tore down the wall some 25 years ago? I cannot add any more to this blatant lie.
> 3.Mobility.
The idea of MBA (for engineers, for sales people, for whatever) originated in the US. Why? Because you do not advance in your job nor socially if you are considered too uneducated.
There will always be the "look down upon workers" attitude from some university types, as there is "you live in the ivory tower and are totally inapt at any practical assignement" attitude from said workers towards the higher educated, but I do not see how this is any worse in the US than in Europe. In fact, social class is much more of an issue in the US ( gini index etc.) than it is in Europe.
> 4.Sexism.
Yes, the US has a very intense ongoing gender discussion, compared to almost every other country. Just because they have this discussion does not mean that things are better. There are problems, for both genders, on both continents. But to label everything and anything a possible sexual harrassment surely is not the right way to go.
> In the UK, it still feels like 20 years ago, everyone expects the "mums" to be home with the kids.
Just not true, in any part north of the alpes. For example: (
> 5.Diversity of government through sheer size.
Diversity of government through MORE THAN TWO PARTIES. Also, federalism (Germany, Switzerland) or partial autonomy (Scotland, [Catalonia](
> 6.If you have a job, "spending it all on health insurance" is a bit of an overblow.
Thats the point, "if you have a job". With this logic, anyone who doesn't have a job is just not a human being worthy of medical attention (without being practically made a slave of their debts for the rest of their lives), now are they?
> 7.Property. You can do much more with your property without planning permissions.
Yeah, thats because space is a lot more limited in Europe. Yes, some laws are ridiculous (every house has to look more or less the same in many German villages, for example). Then again, in the US: [roflcopter]( | maybe. the US still suck more than many parts of europe
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Eh, it's a poor quote from the study. "Study: Over 10000 Adolescents of this generation longitudinally studied into adulthood showed a drastic increase in negative developmental outcomes"
This isn't multi-generational, nor is it globally representative. It definitely signals problems for the current generation of Aussies and Kiwis (I love you guys need to come back some time), although other illicit drugs aren't specified in the abstract.
In terms of suicide, that's a global sociological problem, and it's not limited to people who smoke cannabis. | Civilization is fucked up y'all | [
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So, a short synopsis of my life so far.
Back in High School, I had major attendance/authority issues. I figured I was too smart for what my institution had to offer. The only time I went to class was to take tests, I never turned in homework, and I never studied.
I only graduated because my best friends father was the Principal and he pencil whipped my attendance so my parents didn't pay an exorbitant amount of fines. I was accepted into a state university on a full ride based on my near perfect ACT score, even though I had absolutely horrid grades throughout HS. I knew I wasn't ready for the responsibility and freedom that came with college, but I went anyways.
After a year of partying and skipping class, I had a .07 GPA, and I had been kicked out of school. After a few months of working at Arby's and hating my life, I decided to join the military. Now, after 3 years, I feel like it's time to pursue a degree and choose a career path.
Here is where I need your help. I have absolutely no clue what to do. I want to make a decent/high amount of money, as I grew up in relative poverty and I never want to do that again. I love to play video games, I dabble in code (however, I could see that getting old fast), and I absolutely LOVE anything to do with Physics/Space.
The obvious answer would be to go straight to AstroPhys or something of that nature, however, the one weak area that I have is math. I'm terrible at it, I can't wrap my head around the more complicated pieces, and I just downright hate trying it.
So, now that you know quite a bit more about me than most of the people I know, please, give me some ideas. For I am lost and I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing. | Super smart, sucked at going to school
Failed out of college because of aforementioned problem
Joined military, corrected problem above
Love space, games, nature. Loath math.
Help decide on something to do for the rest of my life.
I'm counting on you guys!
EDIT: Since some people are taking this out of context, this is what I was trying to ask: SUGGEST JOBS/CAREERS THAT FIT MY INTERESTS AND LIMITATIONS. That is it. Thank you. | [
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When I was 13 years old my father and me used to be a poor little family. I was a very good student with bad attendance in school so he tried to make me go to school as often as he could. One time I was feeling really weird and told him about it, for 3 days in a row before the day of school I had high temperature. My father made me go to school even though I couldn't move out from bed, however he had a good intention. During the second class I've lost consciousness and woke up in hospital bed. Turns out I had scarlet fever for 4 days without knowing it.
I've spent about a month in hospital. There were complications on my kidneys, ears and immune system. Doc said that I could day if I've not been broought to the hospital. | I nearly lost my life due to the school. Life saved thanks for my math teacher. | [
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I did the same... I never sat down and when i did, i felt dizzy and needed to gwt back up. I couldn't sleep at night and could barely eat. And with the low calorie diet, combined with almist no sleep and hyper active...
I was quite skinny for 3 years, but have gained back some weight... I was underweight. | i was once underweight. | [
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Here is the comment I added in the post:
Being fairly new on the traditionally publishing scene, Orbit released the last book in my Riyria Revelations series in January, it’s probably a colossal mistake to do what I’m about to, but here goes anyway. I want to take issue with Pat on the subject of self-publishing…but only because he offers advice for something he has neither done, nor really has a clear picture of.
I would never second guess an author’s choice in publishing, and if Pat has no designs on self-publishing that is his prerogative. But having been both traditionally published and self-published I would like to offer up some of my firsthand insights.
Yes, when you start out, no one knows who you are, but most authors, particularly those in the midlist, are in the exact same boat as a self-published author. I’ve seen many authors who have books published through Tor, Orbit, Ace, Harper Voyager, Daw, who fail to find an audience and fade into oblivion. If you are a new author, receiving the “standard advance” you responsibility to build an audience is the same regardless of publishing path. Now, if you are fortunate enough to “hit the lottery” and get a substantial advance, then yes you’ll have the advantage of significant marketing resources, but for most this is not the case.
Not all self-published books are crap. When my books were self published I received thousands of reviews on goodreads and Amazon with 4 and 5 stars. Hugh Howey has 406 4 and 5 star reviews for Wool #1 and 986 4 and 5 star reviews for the Wool Omnibus. Anthony Ryan has 109 4 and 5 star reviews for Blood Song. I respectfully submit that Pat, is just not “tuned” into the indie authors in the genre but if you look at the Amazon Top 100 Epic Fantasy kindle titles you’ll see 52 from self-published authors and 48 from traditional. Obviously each are writing books “good enough” to find substantial audiences.
As to editing, professional self-published authors don’t forgo editors, they approach the release of their books like a publisher, because guess what, they are publishers. They hire copy editors, and in some cases developmental editors. There are many people who were once working for the big-six that now do freelance. Betsy Mitchell, was editor and chief at Del Rey for over a decade, offers her services freelance.
As to layout, ebook formatting is remarkably easy, and if you don’t want to do it yourself can be purchased extremely cost effectively. In fact, talk to most heavy ebook readers and you’ll find that the layout and formatting of books from traditional presses have a much worse reputation than that of self-published books, because they work at it harder. There have been many cases where books have been scanned and have OCR errors but released from the big-six and the author has no recourse to get them corrected, when you do it yourself you can ensure it is correct.
As to foreign sales, I had several overseas deals sown up long before being picked up by Orbit, many from the same publishers that put out Name of the Wind. Of course this isn’t something I did on my own, I hired a foreign rights agent that knows that market. (Interesting enough she represented Pat’s and Dan Brown’s foreign sales in the past). But many new authors are forced to sign contracts with “world rights” meaning that half of each deal goes directly into the pockets of the publisher. Because I already had success overseas it was easy for me to demand an English only contract, and as such I’ve been able to keep several hundred thousand dollars BECAUSE of my self-publishing not IN SPITE of it.
Years ago self-publishing was the last resort of writers who couldn’t be published anyway else. Today, some are choosing to self-publish because they have an entrepreneur spirit and new distribution channels have leveled the playing field such that they can be profitable.
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I have to say that I really like this mechanic. It really adds to the immersion and helps eliminate some of the arcade-feel from the game. Shooting something with a tank and leaving a big hole in the ground only makes sense. It really makes tank battles more interesting and challenging as well. I haven't tried terraforming with C4 yet, but that's mainly because I'm still in run-around-like-a-dog-in-a-tennis-ball-factory mode right now, checking out the new maps and trying out new tactics.
I have only one issue with the terrain deformation. I have actually been getting motion sickness from playing this game because of all the screen-shaking that goes on. This is especially noticeable while I'm in vehicles. It just vibrates so much already, then add terrain deformation and I'm genuinely getting motion sickness. It's the same when I'm in a boat in Paracel Storm. I'm sure some of that is because I just recently switched from an xbox 360 to a pc, and i'm not used to the frame rates. I think I will also be experimenting with motion blur and some of my other settings. | Terrain deformation adds a huge amount of realism and challenge to the game and it is awesome but it makes me a little motion sick but I will suck it up because BF4 is so much fucking fun. | [
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When i was about 14 I was driving a pretty big offroad gocart (mini dunebuggy) the problem was that it had no roll cage... well i was cruising about 35 - 40 MPH through a field near my childhood home. In this open lot workers had strung thick gage wire to mark of new plots of land for home sites...
Of course this wire is near impossible to see against the horizon.... so long story short, I drove my cart straight into wire!!! The wire was neck high for me when sitting in the gocart... the only thing that saved me was the steering column just happend to be tall enough to catch the wire.. it was so taught that it stretched a good 30 feet backwards and then flung my gocart back...
The decapitation would have been quick, but it would have been messy.
really glad that was not the case.
One of my many near death escapes... | I almost decapitated my self on a gocart via an invisible wire. | [
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The other night I met a new coworker at my office happy hour. We are both 26 yo women. We clicked immediately, drank at the office happy hour (because it was free) and then later went to a bar to meet my other friends. By the time we left the first happy hour, we were very drunk, but not really aware of it. When we got to the new bar, for some reason we drank even more. Long story short, we got completely wasted (and had a fun time together, I guess!) but I woke up the next morning with some of the worst anxiety I've ever had.
I am married (husband is out of town) and she is single, but nothing happened with guys. In fact I almost NEVER drink when away from my husband and I hate the feeling of being too drunk, so this is rare for me. We spent the entire night just talking to each other, and every time a man even came up to me I told him I was married immediately. I didn't throw up or black out...just got really drunk. My coworker wound up staying the night at my place because she didn't feel safe going home alone.
Next morning we're both hung over, but she says she had a great time. She says I didn't cheat on my husband or do anything bad. But I still for whatever reason feel...GUILTY. Like what if I said/did something horrible as we were leaving the office party? I can't even figure out why! I didn't do anything that I recall! But this morning I felt like I had committed some horrendous crime or something, even though my husband didn't care (I called him and was texting him throughout the night).
Now I'm also wondering if I'm going to be fired, what if I said something offensive at the office happy hour and don't remember? My office is extremely lenient about that kind of thing, but I'm still freaking out.
I'm wondering if alcohol has a chemical effect on anxiety because my anxiety hasn't been THIS bad in ages...anyone else get this? | Drank a lot with a female friend/coworker after work, terrified I did something horrible and selectively forgot about it, even though I didn't black out | [
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So I made a kickstarter for my book that I've finished and it hasn't taken off at all. I'm looking for some assistance in getting it funded! If you'd like to know more about the project or how to get a paper back version of the book please visit my page at:
There is even a video there describing everything about the book.
I've always loved reading fantasy novels ever since I was a child and have always wanted to actually sit down and write one of my own. This winter I finally sat about to do it and completed my novel, Necromancer: Corruption. I've put a lot of time and spent a lot of long nights writing this book and now my goal is to get it published. Rather than go a traditional route of publication I've decided to go through Kickstarter.
Necromancer: The corruption revolves around the tale of a young elf named Fayne who is set in the book to take the trial of becoming a Keeper of the Equinox. A defender of nature and of his home town Fen'dril. But during his trials his home town is besieged by a necromatic force and his lover is killed. Fayne is left with one option, to serve a dark master and become a Necromancer to bring his lover back to life. Although Fayne is a kind and gentle being, the dark arts are a very dangerous path. Using its power is the young Elf's only chance at bringing his love back to life, but puts his soul on the edge of corruption. | I wrote a full length fantasy novel and am giving it away for free, just message me and you'll get a copy when the book is released in april. Or for a paperback version visit [2] | [
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Hey guys, didn't think I would end up here needing advice. Usually I can figure out my problems on my own, but this one is biting at me like a leech and I can't shake it off. I apologize ahead of time if I sound like an immature child at times during this post, but I don't want to leave anything out in hopes the little things can help me get over this.
We're coming up to 3 years now of dating and things have been great, but of course the past is coming back. My boyfriend has this ex.. of course almost everyone has an ex. Well... when we first started dating, he was single for a year. Didn't think anything about exes.
6 months into our relationship, he tells me that he wasn't over her. That statement comes about after the following incidents: Caught him texting her, caught him deleting conversations with her, told me he deleted it because he knew I would get mad and because they were talking a lot, he went to her to discuss our relationship on whether or not he should stay with me, and leaving the best for last... he got drunk one night and during one of our arguments about her... he said that he will always love her </3
I don't know why I didn't end it there... There was just this chemistry between us that I wasn't ready to let go of. I had to deal with them exchanging looks at each other at bars.... constantly.. I had to deal with people thinking I hate her, but not really knowing the reason why. I had to deal with trying to be with someone that clearly at one point in their life, didn't want to be with me. I had to deal with insecurities, which I still am dealing with that. Obviously all of these things have scarred me emotionally. These events hurt me more than any break-up I've ever been in.
She moved to teach abroad. Yayyyyy!!! Our relationship has been going uphill since then. Our bond is stronger than ever! I truly believe that he loves me and does want to be with me. We miss each other when we've been away from each other for more than a day. We are each others comfort. At the end of the day, we want to end up together always..
but.. she's moving back. Obviously her being away helped a lot with our relationship and now that she's moving back, I fear that all of his feelings for her are going to rush back. He has told me that he is completely over her and that there aren't feelings for her romantically. That he wants to be with me and no one else.. but I've always sensed that they have a certain bond as well... Every time I bring it up, it turns into an argument. He still likes all of her pictures on instagram. I don't think they've been texting, but who really knows.. but he isn't secretive about his phone. My honeymoon stage is turning back into shit and it's because of my insecurities. Is this relationship wasted since I can't get over the past? How do I get over this bump? Do you guys think he will always love her..? How can I be ok with that? | Boyfriend's ex is moving back whom he told me he will always love, but said he didn't mean it after. Things are good but... she's coming back..
EDIT: All the incidents that happened, happened in the first year we were dating. After that, it has been consistently going up from there. I spoke to him about all of this last night and he became really upset. Was constantly trying to reassure me that he is 100% over her and to please not do anything irrational. He told me that if I don't believe him to at least wait until she gets back and see how things are then before I decide on whether or not I should break it off. He was fully confident that things wouldn't be weird and that he could prove to me that he is completely over her. He texted me this morning and said that he loves me more and more every day and that he will do anything to make me happy and keep me in his life. I can at least give him this. It seemed a little ridiculous of me to throw away something so great that we have, over an issue that I wasn't even sure was still there. So now we wait, but from out conversation last night, I feel a lot better about the whole situation. There was absolutely no yelling or anger involved. Just two adults discussing their problems. He also said he was happy that I talked to him about it because he didn't want me to have this hanging over my head, wanted to reassure me that things are ok, and will continue to be great.
Thank you everyone for giving me the courage to confront him about all of this. I know you guys all told me to leave him, which were my intentions, but it ended up being something even more helpful. Maybe there can be a happy ending. | [
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My boyfriend (29M) and (20F) have been dating for 9 months. We are like two peas in a pod, and the last 7 months have been just an extended sleepover.
We sleep at either one's place together literally every night. I live around the corner from him. I drive him to work because he hates driving, I do his laundry, I clean his room, I buy his groceries, I have sex with him literally every night, I make his life extremely easy because he is a very lazy yet busy doctor. A psychiatrist, actually. After 4 months of dating, I lost 40 pounds so now I'm a size 0, attractive 20 year old dating this guy. I feel like I should be his dream girl, but he's just not biting. :(
Some red flags in the relationship are:
He has an addiction to porn, particularly wmw porn.
He checks out every.single.woman he walks by.
He has a list of hot celebrity's he wants to fuck on his phone.
He flirts heavily with his female coworkers
His parents still don't know I exist
Why won't he say he loves me? Should I end this soon if he doesn't? I don't want to waste my affections on someone who doesn't see anything longterm with me. | 9 month relationship - awesome laid back girlfriend - he still hasn't said 'I love you' or anything of the likes. | [
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The bechdel is test is rather flawed, considering even movies where the main protagonist is female like Alien or Terminator fails. The fact it's based on a woman having to speak to another woman speaks to its bias. Why it is more notable to speak to women? Why can't a female protagonist talk to men about something other than relationships? No, the Bechdel test is then basically saying any male presence in the interaction with women is bias on the part of the male and suggests the solution to men being overrepresented is to have more conversation involved no men at all.
> | Films are written primarily for men, by men.
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So my boyfriend is leaving the country for his gap year for a month, he's leaving next week and I want some ideas/tips from you guys about things I can do for him and myself to make it easier.
We've been together for a year 1/2 and I'm really excited for him but I know I will find it stupidly hard being separated with an awkward time difference and my jealous character for a month. Plus this is the run up to my IB exams so I will probably find this harder because I'll be super stressed revising and he will be frustrated not being able to support me.
I'm making him 'open when' letters which I know he'll love and will help if we have arguments. We'll barely be able to talk. Maybe a message a day and the odd Skype call and this is a couple who have seen each other every few days for the past year and a half.
So if any of you have any ideas of any more things I can do/make etc. to make the whole experience less painful and easier on us both I'd really appreciate it! | boyfriend leaving for a month on his gap year, need advice/ideas of how to make it easier | [
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Context is everything. In the US, Whites are dominant and always have been. Whites as a race, in our society and its cultural memory, have never been disadvantaged, discriminated against, enslaved, displaced, or looked down on. There are no overlooked accomplishments of whites that need to be spotlighted due to their being ignored historically. There is no such thing as a "white culture," to celebrate because we've been dominant and the larger culture of the nation is our only shared culture as whites.
None of that makes white people bad people. It says nothing negative about us, today. But the difference is that "black pride" or "asian pride" specifically addresses those things. The contributions to our nation and to science and literature and business and music that were overlooked, ignored, or usurped in the past by dominant whites. The cultures that have been considered lesser and haven't been properly celebrated. A reaction against the rapidly deteriorating but still present idea that there is shame in being other-than-white.
Yes, if you look at this with absolutely no context -which many people do, especially younger people without a proper understanding of our history, including not that distant history remembered by millions of people still alive - there's a double standard. But if you look at the context, it isn't a double standard and doesn't blame any white people today for anything or demean any white people today for anything. | achievements and culture of non-whites in America have long been overlooked and diminished. Today, people counter that by explicitly celebrating the accomplishments and cultures of non-whites and demonstrating pride in them. White people who feel that "they get to feel special, why don't I?" need to better understand this context, and that the accomplishments and cultures of white people are ALREADY acknowledged and celebrated. | [
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I went to the Nebraska-Wisconsin game in Madison a few years ago and it was the worst experience of my life. People were getting in our face, pushing, shoving, spitting, throwing shit all day. Seriously, on the way to college game day at 6:30 AM people were trying to fight us. Had some random girl pushing and shoving us in the middle of the street at 11:00. Don't have room to write down the things that happened during and after the game. | Heckle me. Fine. Insult me. Whatever. But as soon as you lay your hands on somebody for wearing the wrong color shirt that crosses a huge line. | [
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I got the claim statement from my carrier last week showing they had paid their bargain rate that the hospital system accepts as full payment for insured patients. So I called last week to try and get a refund, and I'm supposed to call back next week if they haven't sent anything yet. (Or before then; I'll be as patient as they would be with me if I owed them $200.)
At the facility, there's no phone call involved, they just read what it says off their database, it says I have a $400 co-pay so I have to pay and that's that, or I can leave. They did the same thing last year with an ultrasound I got, and a couple of years before the other hospital system in town did the same for an x-ray. Plus, last year the insurance carrier goofed something up and unilaterally applied the $400 co-pay to all services, then went back months later and notified everyone on the plan that they screwed up and you need to arrange refunds if you were hit with bills and paid them yourself... despite it being their screw-up, the insurance carrier won't arrange refunds, they just administer payment on claims. (They paid my claims during that period, but only after a series of e-mails and phone calls after I saw the claim statements showing they had applied a co-pay and got bills from providers.)
For certain tests done at an outpatient hospital or diagnostic facility, I do have a $400 co-pay; MRIs, CAT scans, thallium scans, cardiac arteriography, more involved things like that. Common things like blood work, x-rays and ultrasounds aren't included in that co-pay requirement and get covered 100%, at least in theory. I guess they're considered to be cheap enough that it's not too much of an imposition to pay 100% of their bargain rate (my $583 x-ray was whittled down to a little under $115) for it. (It is an imposition, however, to pay 100% of having a radiologist look over the results; they pay 90% and this most recent x-ray netted me a $2.90 bill from the radiologist that came with a note that this would be the only notice and I should pay promptly to avoid collection action.... over $2.90.)
Oh, and I get to pay over $55 out of my bi-weekly paycheck for all that, and my employer pays twice that as their share. | I know my insurance plan better than the people who are paid to deal with it, but it doesn't seem to matter too much, I still have to pay for their mistakes and get reimbursed later, but it's okay because we have the best health care system in the world. | [
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Basically, I´m DMing a group that is playing the LMOP, which I tweaked a bit (we are not too experienced with the game, having played for less than a year).
Fast forward, we get to the Ruins of Thundertree and, after giving the players a riddle, the dragon decides to not kill everyone if they help him fight his sister (a bigger dragon).
After tthey agree, eleven cultists appear and bow down to the dragon, joining its cause. Then, the cultists welcomed the players into their cult and trained them for the upcoming battle. The session ended just as they hear the sound of the other dragon´s wings. Any help on how such a fight would play out? | Players join with supposedly "bad" dragon and cultists to fight an even bigger dragon.
PS: Can post more info if asked (such as the content of the riddle, how the talking/action with the dragon went) if asked, but I didn´t know if it would make the post too long :) | [
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I'm feeling lost because I feel caught in a negative feedback loop.
Around 4 months ago I was diagnosed with long term, deep clinical depression. I went on medication immediately and have been feeling better on the day-to-day.
However, now that the summer is coming and everyone is with their friends, I am feeling my depression slowly seep back in. A big part of what had fueled my depression was my difficulty making friends, and not getting invited to things, not going out as much as I'd like, etc. I am a person that likes being around people and loves going out, leaping at the opportunity to do so. However, I don't really get invited to things and have trouble connecting in a way that makes people want to hang out again. There's nothing obviously wrong with me - I think no matter how nice I am, there's just no connection. My default setting after meeting someone has become "s/he doesn't like me."
I work a 9-5 job and am sort of on the fringes of the group, and since there really aren't too many people my age at work, it's been isolating (and we all live in different areas). Likewise, due to my depression, I've been unable to accumulate a network really.
All I have now are one really shitty friend who I call on out of desperation, and another friend who is nice and invites me to stuff, but her friends don't seem interested in extending their friendships to me when we talk. They are polite and nice, but it's obvious that they're not looking to connect.
I joined a couple of hobby groups over the last couple months, but again, nothing really stuck. It's like I have a sign on my face that says "don't talk to me" - and yes I do things like make eye contact, etc. I don't date either because guys expect me to plan things and I can't do that if I have no life. | My lack-of-social life is making me feel like a loser, especially since almost everyone has friends, or something to do if they want to go out and do stuff. I'm not afraid of being alone, but I am genuinely very lonely. How can I stop this spiral before it derails me again? | [
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Me and Jess have been together for almost 4 years now (obligatory fake name). But anyways, as of lately I haven't felt nearly the same about Jess as I ever have.
We have had a few problems in the past. Including her cheating on me and me cheating on her. I fingered a girl when I was on vacation my senior year and she had sex with a random guy she met through her work. My cheating happened before hers. In fact, hers happened over two years later. I don't we've been the same since.
I've been having urges to be with other girls. I know this is a normal thing even for long term relationships, but I feel like this is different. I don't even feel guilty about it anymore. I almost wish she would give me a reason to break up with her so I could.
When I think about breaking up with her.. I just think twice about it and I can never find the right time to do it. I feel like I'm overly attached to her and I'm scared of being alone. But at the same time I just want to be single and have the freedom to just to what I want.
Last thing to add here. We really don't have anything in common. Like NOTHING. The only things she talks about is basically things that she needs to vent about. Almost every other sentence that comes out of her mouth is a complaint about something and it's driving me nuts. I don't mind talking about a bad day that you had like that's understandable, but she will complain about the most mundane things that most people would just forget about after they happened. It's overall stressful for me to even humor it.
I don't know how to approach this situation properly. I'm at a loss.
Reddit please help. | been with girlfriend for over 3 years. Don't wanna be in the relationship anymore, but can't end it. Help. | [
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I once made a lego gun in elementary school. What's really shocking is I wasn't expelled. Times have changed. | I technically committed a crime with legos, but no one cared. | [
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Some introduction: I'm a Belgian compsci major and for the last year of my undergraduate program I've gotten the chance to study abroad for 1 or 2 semesters. The options include several European locations and two in the United States, WKU and TroyU.
Now Finland or Sweden would be the obvious choices for me, since it's a lot less paper work (no visa's, no language tests, ...) and generally is cheaper because of additional scholarships I would receive.
However, the grass looks always greener at the other side of the ocean, and even with the higher cost and loads of paperwork I'm still heavily considering the US. That's why I have some questions.
First of all I need to choose between WKU and TroyU, according to my research WKU would be the better choice, anyone who could confirm this?
Secondly I have no idea what the American uni culture is like, except from the movies, but I doubt this is highly accurate.
Are there a lot of other (european) exchange students at WKU?
I've heard WKU is a "dry campus" does this mean there is no nightlife/party's at all?
Dorms! It looks like in the US it's the norm that you all get a dorm with 2 people, this is highly unusual over here, what's that like?
Any other things I should know about WKU or American college life in general?
Thanks for even reading this far, and some answers would really be appreciated! | convince me the US is worth the extra money compared to Sweden/Finland | [
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4 1/2 years together, 3 1/2 year old child, living together a year. I suspect he has undiagnosed bipolar/paranoid personality disorder. A lot of anger, daily drinking, verbal/emotional abuse of our son and me.
He refuses help, won't admit there is a problem, won't work on making things better. I have an out and am planning on taking it, just preparing what needs to be done to leave.
I need advice on how to tell him that we're going, please. | How do I tell him I'm leaving? | [
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Fuck it Let's break down this fight.
On the heroes side, we have: a Giant Sumo Mouse, with decent durability and strength, but not much else.
A dog. Granted he's sidekick to a "super"hero, but a dog.
And a ninja who fights evil using a shark launcher.
For the Side of evil we have:
Pokemon guy is actually a mad scientist who invented, among other things a power suit. He's never actually worn it, but we'll let him.
For Kobra, that page is about the cult, so I'll use it's leader as it's representative.
Then your final guy, Ashleigh Clinton, I think is an alchemist from FMA. He also has military experience, so he should be a decent fighter.
So immediately, I think that Xerosic is knocked out. His power suit is only amazing by pokemon human standards, plus he looks out of weight, and can't use the pokeball functions of the suit. I think Sumo Mouse can take Kobra, as from my reading, he's just good at pyschic linking and physical fighting. I don't think his muscle strength is capable of withstanding Sumo Mouse, but as I don't have any feats... Nonetheless, if it's just physical combat, with no powers, Mouse oughta take it. Now all that's left is Ashleigh. His alchemy will pin down the mouse, but simultaneously it will keep him busy. If the ninja can get at him while he's distracted, this should be an easy fight. | Vague recollection of Sumo Mouse's strength makes me think he almost solos. | [
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Bonjour! Vous belle gentlement pourriez me aider à ce sujet?
Oh, please, forgive my poor skills in goole translate.
I'm fortunate enough to have a relative currently living in this beautiful country of yours. I'm even more fortunate to be able to squeeze some goods from her.
Alas, I have no clue where to get said goods!
She's studying in Toulouse and will come back in mid June. I'm a former gamer craving to get back to business, so I'm willing to buy a PS4 from there.
The problem is, I have no clue where to look for it! I know big chains like Amazon.fr and Fnac, but that's the farthest my knowledge goes.
Could this beautiful community help me? I'd love to hear suggestions and recommendations of stores to keep an eye on!
Physical stores in Toulouse or online ones will both equally do.
Furthermore, a French version of one of those price tracking tools/sites will do wonders to my cause! | Looking for good gaming stores in Toulouse - or France in general. | [
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MoP was an excellent expansion that primarily suffered in one key area: theme.
A lot of hardcore players greatly underestimate the value of thematic resonance. Every other expansion was far easier to "get", to understand, to desire to be a part of that world. Wrath and BC focused on the cultural universals of zombies and demons, Cataclysm centered on the fantasy trope of a giant evil dragon, and WoD harkens back to old-school Warcraft with its legion of orcs.
Pandaria, on the other hand, appeared to be about kung-fu pandas. I've never quite understood the level of hatred they received, but the announcement of Pandaren was met with a sense of revulsion and animosity that we haven't seen before or since. Warcraft has always had sillier, more light-hearted elements, but when a previously undeveloped race takes center stage and acts "childish", well, I start to understand the disdain.
Aside from the Pandaren and their idealistic continent, the expansion was done well. Questing was the best we'd had up to that point (and arguably better than WoD). The new features of scenarios, challenge modes, and pet battles were all met with varying degrees of praise. Raiding received far more content than in Cataclysm, likely due to LFR increasing the ROI of raid development.
The weakest elements, though, were quite poor. Dungeons made a drastic shift from being relevant and difficult to ignorable and faceroll. While Blizzard said they removed the normal difficulty and only featured heroics, the reverse felt more accurate in practice. Dailies provided an excessive amount of outdoor content that burned players out far too quickly. And, although the early patch cycle was quick, we ended up with the longest content drought in the game's history. | MoP will be vindicated by history and received more vitriol than it deserved, but we shouldn't forget its flaws. | [
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Man one of my favorite campsites ever is on the banks of the hiwassee. However I would be unable to tell you how to get to it. It's one you just have to show otherwise the directions would be this: drive down the rd just south of the river on 422(I believe is the official rd name ) after the building there will be a wood fence and it turns to a gravel rd off until you get to where the drain pipe comes to the rd, go a little further till you see a break in the shrubs, walk over the RR tracks and up until you see a waterfall, turn right and keep going till the rocks are as tall as you then go on the higher side of them. Continue following up them till you reach an overlook of the river. Camp there. The gorge cuts out all the light pollution from the surrounding area and the milky way gets perfectly framed between this hills this time of year. | there are many small rock overlooks a hundredish feet above the river. Depending on your gear and desire and ability to assess them 100 ft below from a river, find one of those. | [
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Sorry I'm on mobile so some features are unavailable.
Ok so I am a 26 year old male with a wife and beautiful baby, I have been unemployed for a stretch and have gotten a pretty good opportunity. My friend has told me his job is hiring and I sound like a great fit and he has written me a recommendation. They do drug test prior to employment and I have been pretty heavily smoking for a bit (I know bad idea being unemployed and smoking) and I was wondering if there's tips or tricks or life hacks or anything to help me pass this test or something. | Stoner wants a job | [
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E.T.
I know, I know... E.T. is supposed to be one of those universally beloved characters, despite the fact that he looks like the result of an elephant with indigestion. When I was a kid, though, something about the character frightened me so much that I'd refuse to even touch a lunchbox (or its matching thermos) with his face on it.
As far as I was concerned, E.T. was "The Scary Raisin."
I can remember visiting the state fair when I was about five years old, and being thrilled at the prospect of going through the funhouse. (This is relevant, I promise.) Other kids - kids my age - would scream and burst into tears after being startled by the flashing lights, the loud noises, or the life-sized images of bats attacking pictures of scantily clad women. They, I thought to myself, were babies! Throughout the entire experience, I smugly suppressed my own surprise and laughed - believing myself to sound like a hardened action hero or something - then pressed onward, leaving my frightened peers to run back in the direction that they'd come.
Then, I came to the funhouse's end... and I was greeted by an incredibly realistic model of The Scary Raisin.
For a moment, I froze in my tracks. Keep it together , I told myself. You've come this far... so just keep walking. The exit is right there. I took a single step, then another.
Then I must have set off a motion detector or something, because a raspy voice blurted " ELL-EE-OTT! "
With all the bravado of an especially panicked chicken, I let loose an ear-piercing shriek and sprinted back towards the entrance. At one point, I got hopelessly lost in the Hall of Mirrors, and my intense wailing actually attracted the attention of an employee. She took my hand and led me out through a hidden door in the wall, then somehow managed to decipher my sob-wracked description of where my parents could be found.
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From watching that match on Sunday. I would say the side with the grubbiness was Bulldogs. There were multiple occasions of Bulldog players pushing Bronco players into the play the ball. Worse still was when the broncos were being penalised for being pushed into a bulldog player attempting to play the ball by another bulldog player. The ref even admitted ten seconds after calling the penalty that he had made a mistake but will not take it back. 2 tackles later the doggies scored a try. | Yes the BRONCOS are the grubby team. | [
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We got a call of trespassers at an abandoned hospital during the daytime. There was on site security who kept it secure even though it was shut down. They swore they heard footsteps and talking on the second floor over the past few days. They locked down the entire perimeter and called us out there. There was no way out.
We went in there with 6 officers and started from the 7th floor and systematically checked every single room down to the bottom floor. There was no power so we were lucky it was still daylight and there were a lot of windows. It was an older hospital so they left old CRT monitors from the 1980s and 90s in there.
It was pretty eerie and reminded me a lot of the first scenes from The Walking Dead. We cleared down from floors 7 to 5 no problem. Once we hit the 4th floor it started getting weird. This was the hospital's storage area. Instead of the big spacious rooms it was super cramped and cinder block walls. There were chain link cages all over the place with old locks on it. It seriously looked like a horror movie prisoner area where they locked victims up. It was also pitch black. The Hospital was so big that we worked in 2 man groups on each floor but naturally split up as the floors opened up more.
The 3rd floor was a mental ward area so the padded walls and pitch dark rooms started to get me a little nervous. The 2nd floor was by far the worst; the surgery ward. There were no windows, again it was pitch black, and there were large eerie operating rooms all over. In the middle of some of the rooms were large metal slabs where they would operate on people. I'm adjoining rooms they had huge peg boards where they stored the surgery power tools. How did I know it was power tools? They had marked the outlines of various drills, saws, and other painful looking devices. It was kinda freaky thinking about how many people had died in those rooms when they couldn't save them.
I was definitely nervous clearing those rooms solo in pitch black with only a flashlight. We eventually cleared every single room on every single floor... And found nothing. The security guards swore up and down they always heard talking and footsteps down the halls though. We pretty much swore off that place and said not to call us any more. | scary hospital and maybe ghosts? | [
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I've set up a desktop as an ftp server using filezilla server. At the moment i have the desktop sharing the wireless from my laptop via ethernet and ICS. I plan to eventually have the desktop sitting next to the router plugged in allowing everone to access it as they please. But at the moment only i can access it (probably greatly due to being part of the ICS).
What do i need to do to allow acccess to everyone on the local network (firewalls, ports, etc). It's also entirely possible that there are restrictions in place on the modem (shitty real estate restrictions) | what do i need to disable/enable to allow people on my local network to ftp into my desktop?
EDIT: Sorry, i'm sharing the internet connection via "sharing>allow other connections to use this internet connection" Not a bridge. | [
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Alright douche, if your going to spam, especially with locale involved, then get a clue. Call it "H-town" at the very least. Wedding photogs always suck, so go fuck yourself. Next step, go fuck yourself again, break a couple of ribs and learn the definition of autofellatio. Then call the oldest female member of your family and tell her that you want to practice on her. After you eventually come up for air, learn to go fuck yourself, and don't skimp on the dildo, as I am sure you can "stomach" quite a bit. Then just shoot yourself and do the human race a favor. | you're an illiterate, ill-informed douche bag, who should try digg. | [
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I admire your attitude. I started out with what you've got. I became obsessed with adding to my 'studio' and spent most of the time I could have spent producing on forums and youtube researching my next purchase. More equipment just means that you will have more to learn. I now find myself in a situation where my music still sounds crap, I have a room full of gear I don't know how to use, no money and a lack of inspiration to create. | Don't buy hardware and only buy necessary software. | [
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Because linearity is the cheap way to show an artistic vision. Compare it to a book - something like Brave New World or 1984 reads far better than a 200 page philosophical tome on predictions of how governments will attempt to control people.
You can make a movie exactly like a book - instead of showing how things happen, you explain them via dialogue - instead of using clever camera tricks to show a character is scared when running from the big bad, you have him narrate the entire thing, etc. These are extreme examples - but the rule of thumb here is "show, don't tell".
A corollary for games is to not treat them like movies or books - but to use the very nature of the medium to express their stories. (Do, don't show or tell) Practically speaking, good open world games allow people to make their own stories - how the light of a helicopter exploding high in the skies during a nighttime raid allowed them to glimpse an enemy ambush they would've otherwise not seen, how they in DayZ formed a bandit group to terrorize the poorly-equipped for a can of beans so they could survive, etc.
Of course, that's not to say games that take narrative instructions from movies or books are universally worse than games that are treated as games by the developers in a narrative sense, much in the same way that a movie told like a book doesn't have to be terrible. Heck, some people prefer one over the other. But the fact of the matter is, the most engaging experiences for most people in the realm of gaming are the ones which are not scripted - but are the result of human interaction with the game.
Take, for example, Spec Ops: The Line - did you feel more horrible during the white phosphorous scene or when you accidently shot the civilian . | Making games linear limits the scope their narrative can be expressed in.
Also, an addendum: What makes good stories, poems, songs, etc. good is how they can make different people think different things. A person can read a poem, and understand it differently - and this is more often than not, a good thing. A book/whatever that allows for interpretation, but still has poignant statements, is very likely to be considered a classic. Why should games be any different? A good game should understand that it, in itself, has to be open to interpretation, because every human is different. | [
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That's been repeatedly disproved in economic literature. My father was a sharecropper in Arkansas, he was only my father because he raped my mother, and I lived with her homeless for a while. When his family came to this country, hundreds of years ago, they were written about as, "The earliest and most prosperous settlers of the county.". There used to be a common American expression, shirt-sleeves to shirt-sleeves in three generation. So much has been written of economic mobility in the US, that it is usually insular, jealous types who don't like to work. | You're a fuck-wit and I hate you. | [
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One time in the hallways at my school, my throat was stopped up, so I just started loudly and furiously started to clear my throat in the quiet, peaceful, hallway. There was a kid out in the hallway making up a test or something, and he just goes "WHAT?!" "WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME?!" I just say "Crap kid i'm just clearing my throat!" He just calmly says "ok" Then, a teacher comes out in the hall and says "What's goin' on out here?!" I say, "I'm just clearing my throat!" | Clearing your throat in a quiet hallway is not a good idea. | [
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Well... It's "overclockable" but you have to tweek a bunch of different things to make it work, and frankly it's really difficult to get it to work. With the 4570K, the unlocked version (for overclocking), the core multiplier is unlocked, allowing you to overclock by simply changing one multiplier value, and the core voltage if necessary. Ideally, if you want to OC, you'll want to go for a 4570k that will cost about 40 bucks more. However, you'd also have to get a Z87 Motherboard that supports overclocking, which would add about another 40-60 bucks. Then, you'll also need a new CPU cooler because the standard would not be able to handle the heat of an overclock. Add another 30 at least for a decent cooler, and you're looking at about 110-130 bucks added to your build for the ability to overclock. At this point you need to ask yourself if that's worth it, and if you'd even be able to notice and fully utilize that OC. Chances are with 1080p gaming, and medium detail you wouldn't notice much (depends on the degree of the overclock.) What you've got then is a great 650 dollar build that should last you 2-4 years depending on what games you'll want to play in 4 years. The mobo you picked out is good, but does not contain every nice feature that a z87 board would have (mainly less usb 3.0's and only one pci express 3.0 slot. It has a pci express 2.0 (most gpus, other than maybe a titan can't even fully utilize the bandwith of a 2.0) slot as well which would allow you to add another 660 in the future and put them is SLI mode. This would require about 600 watts of power, which you can get now, or wait if you're hesitant about whether you'll need a second card.
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I always read stuff saying $ony claims their consoles are better than the PC, when they obviously aren't and they have amazing next-gen graphics and blablabla. I can't talk about Xbox since I never played on one. Scratch that. Load of BS.
I played on the PS4 and was actually disapointed by how the games run (24-30 FPS average). I expected better but... then I realized!
It's not as bad as everyone makes it look like! The graphics are indeed amazing (ofc not as good as PC), and the performance is good for a 400 euro system. Also PS+ is decent since you have a couple of games per month.
Most 400 euro PC's are better hardware wise and run games much better, but it's probably smarter to have a amazing 700 euro PC, to keep up for 5 more years, which the consoles WILL do.
So consoles are cheaper? Depends. There are many factors in play. How often do you buy games? Does the console have a yearly subscription? What's the price of the games?
If you, unlike me, buy more than 1 game per month, then the PC is a better, cheaper choice. Why you ask? Steam, thats why! Weekly deals on loads of amazing games! And don't forget the summer sales :)
Not to say you can't get good deals on console games though!
I have a PS3 and I NEVER bought a game for more than 30 euros. Hell, I bought the Batman:Arkham Trilogy, NFS Shift 2 and Battlefield 4 for 30 euros on the PS Store!
Backwards compatability is, in my opinion, the worst thing about the current gen consoles.
You could play PS1 and PS2 games on the original PS3, altough it was later removed because the emulator was messed up with the new slim PS3 hardware.
On the PS4 you can't. That is what originally led me to the PCMR. I can't live without NFS Most Wanted 2005, probably the first game I ever played. I can't play it on a PS4.
On the PC you can (most of the times) play older games flawlessly.
And it's in the older games that MODS come in with a bang!
So, you love Elder ScrollsIII:Morrowind but are disgusted by it's horrid 2002 graphics? A ENB mod will solve it.
Tired of the old boring Minecraft blocks? Install a crazy wizard-thingy mod and combine it with a FREE texture pack (you pay for them on console) and you're good to go!
To sum things up:
*Get a PC if you play lots of games and don't want to murder your wallet while having incredible quality-OR-if you are a lunatic and spend 10K getting everything maxed out on a triple 4k setup;
*Get a console if you don't buy that many games and still want a feel of the awesomness of medium settings without spending 700 euros.Only buy a console if you meet this situation. | Both console and PC are awesome and bang for the buck products! Also, suggest me a better title and flair please :) | [
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I am worried he will kiss a girl, because he told me that it is very common for guys to kiss other girls during their bachelor party, that their groomsmen egg them on to do it, and that he considers it less of a big deal because it is those guys' "last chance." He clarified that he does not want to, it would be a mistake if he did it and he would feel terrible, but it should not be a big deal or relationship ending if he apologized after and felt bad. He told me that if I was the kind of girl who wouldn't care he would probably do it, but since he knows it's a huge deal to me (dad cheated on mom) he doesn't want to.
He realizes he is definitely at increased risk to do something like that especially if blackout drunk, so he said I have veto power on anything with his b.party. (contributing factors - he gets wild and obnoxious when he drinks, loves to escalate situations, and his best man is single, not too in favor of his engagement and loves to egg him on). His plan now is to go fishing for most of it and go out for one "wild" night and stay sober.
I feel good that he is being honest about his opinions and giving me some input. I DO believe he will be fine if sober but I do NOT believe he will be able to stay sober if he goes out with drunk friends who are pushing drinks on him. I would rather them just go fishing for a weekend together and not go out with girls.
I should clarify that my lack of trust is ONLY regarding his bachelor party- I 100% would trust him on any other night out and during the marriage as I know his boundaries are very firm there, it is just that his (strange?) expectations of a bachelor party, drinks, girls approaching him, and friends egging him on seem a very dangerous combination.
My question is, am I being a control freak if I ask him to limit his bachelor party like this, if he doesn't even trust himself completely? I hate to be that controlling fiancee! Am I just a freak for thinking that most grooms don't make out with other girls??
(edited to shorten) | Fiance feels he is at increased risk to kiss someone else at his bachelor party, willing to let me call the shots, but I don't want people to think I'm a crazy control freak. Also, is it normal for guys to cheat to some degree during their b. parties or is his experience of this just off? | [
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so i have had rough times going on from last 5 months. Was unemployed for a bit, parents health deteriorated, and I kept having issues in my relationship with my gf. She kept telling me that her family was being a huge obstruction in our relationship, and every time we spoke about it she could never explain me what those issues were. She seemed to have different stories everytime, and eventually we were always fighting and hardly meeting up like we used to.
We had deeply been in love for 5 years... and before all this drama started I thought we were inseparable. Finally last night she admitted to me that she has been cheating on me with her co-worker for last 4 months. And then she went on to say that she does not wanna face me since she feels guilty, and then told me that she was no longer seeing that guy. I sort of appreciated her guts for admitting this. BUT just before hanging up she mentioned to me about one of my emails someone had forwarded to they guy she was cheating with. It was just a short email where I had asked her to clearly explain me what her issues were, and I gave her 2 weeks to get back to me and to stop lying to me. She wanted to know if it was me who did that. Of course I didn't. But after that I started asking her more questions about the guy, and sort of figured out that they still might be together, and basically she was choosing that guy over me now. She was scared cause of the email my well wisher had forwarded to that guy, and now she knew she had to choose one or the other.
Now my feelings: I feel sad when I think about it. Surprisingly, I am not angry at her or the guy. BUT fuck it's the rejection that's bothering me the most. I just don't want anyone to know I got rejected like this. I made up some story and that's what I am telling everyone now. There are way too many common friends. She told me that her best friend knew she was cheating so yea I am completely gonna cut off my contact with those bitches from now on.
BUT of course a part of me feels that why am I being such a pussy??? I was always trying to make it work for last 2-3 months. I knew she was lying but I never thought she would be cheating on me. She left me during the worst patch I was going through. And for cheating on me she deserves to be punished, and everyone should know about her act. But again I don't want my rejection to be made public like this.
Well I am sharing this story for a few reasons.
I have realized that nothing is permanent. Only the people who are related to you by blood are your own. Every other relationship can end. So be selfish and always think of yourself and your family first before anybody else.
I would love to hear some similar experiences, and how big of an impact did it have on you.
If you are cheating or have lost your love for your partner. Just admit your guilt. I feel bad that my situation was dragged on for 3-4 months, and she only admitted to me when someone forwarded that email. I am sort of relieved after this closure, and I can move on. | i can't admit to others that my gf cheated on me, because i fear that rejection to be made public. | [
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I feel a little awkward posting this here, since all of the other posts seem to be about romantic relationships, but the sidebar says family is also allowed.
Basically, my older brother has always been a little bit of an oddball/misfit, but I feel like lately he has just become a very rude, self-centered person who does not care about anyone else. He is currently unemployed and lives at home with my parents so I see him a lot more often than I have for the past few years. He has no real friends, just people from college he hasn't seen for about 2 years, and no girlfriend.
He will turn any conversation into something about himself. Whether it is a story about someone's success, a memory, a funny story, just an opinion, etc. It doesn't matter, it somehow becomes about him and then he just won't stop talking. For example, someone will tell a funny story about something that happened that day at work, and he won't respond to the story, but instead says something like "That reminds me of the time [random friend] and I went to [random location]." He then expects someone to ask him to tell the story. I never ask, I find this extremely rude. My parents usually will ask him what happened just to humor him.
He also constantly tries to alienate everyone else in the conversation by talking about things related to what he studied in college that no one else would understand. Everyone ends up sitting around awkwardly waiting for him to finish his story, which often has no real punchline or point. I should add that he talks rather slowly, and will stop to take a bite of food or cough several times in the middle, and then continue. If someone else begins talking during this time, even my parents, he literally just continues talking over them. He sometimes even complains about being interrupted, and gets upset that we "aren't interested."
Other than that, he tends to just disagree with everyone else about almost any subject. He acts like he knows the most about any topic that comes up, even if it is someone else's job or studies, a country he's never been to, or a musician he hardly listens to.
I usually just avoid talking to him lately, but he doesn't really have any friends in town so he is always asking me to go to lunch, etc with him. I just try to sit and listen to him, but sometimes he gets almost offensive. He then gets very upset and will actually raise his voice in public if you try to question his knowledge about a topic, or tell him to stop talking about something.
I'm just wondering if anyone has advice dealing with someone like this, or just people that are very very difficult to talk to. I'd like to have a positive relationship with him, but it's very hard when he is so self-centered, obviously has no interest in anything about me, and will yell at me like I am a child in public. | My older brother is the rudest person I know. He is an extremely difficult person to talk to. He talks about himself non-stop and gets angry/upset if anyone (even my parents) tries to change the conversation. Any advice on dealing with extremely self-centered people? | [
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The problem with this is that its leading down a path of no need to loot. Gold, gems, and mats are auto-looted. Well legendaries should be auto looted as well. We should probably have a filter too, with settings that say auto-loot any trifecta rings or gloves. Set up parameters of what gear attributes we want, if it drops it auto loots. Then all the trash items should probably be auto salvaged and auto looted. While we are at it, chests and objects should open/destroy themselves when we get close to them. Quest objectives should automatically trigger when we are close and auto-turn in when we get near the proper NPC.
In fact since I only spam 2 damage abilities with my wizard, it should auto cast Frost Orb to spend arcane power, then auto cast electrocute when my arcane power is empty. My self buffs only last a few minutes, they should change it to passive "auras" that don't need to be recast.
Then they have settings for joining public games such as "Keywarden," "Brawling", etc. They should expand on this as well for even single player. There should be a setting for 100% clear acts or specific runs like COTA or Keeps depths. The game should probably just move your character too since it know what your intended run is going to be. At the end of the run it should know when to restart the game.
Every hour it should probably stop and lite a cigarette for me and every 6-8 hours it should probably know to start up a youjizz video based on previous browsing history. Then it should jerk me off. | Blizz should just patch the game to give handjobs | [
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Around 11 years ago I was leaving an old girlfriend's house around midnight on a Saturday night. She lived in a rural area so there are some nearby farms that you have to drive through before you get to the main highway. While driving I come around a turn to this field on my right and see a triangle floating right next to the road above this field.
I pull my car off the road and get out looking up at this object. It looked sort of like a stealth fighter and the cockpit was lit up. There was two pilots inside, both white guys in uniform, chatting back and forth. They never saw me but I was in awe that this aircraft was hovering above me at around 35 to 40 yards.
What struck me the most was it was completely silent. I've been to many airshows and anytime an aircraft would hover it was very loud. I couldn't hear anything but the breeze. I stood there for around 5 minutes watching these two pilots when they began elevating the aircraft higher then zipped off out of view in what was a blink of an eye. Even at that speed I didn't hear anything.
I have no idea what type of aircraft it was, maybe someone here might have more knowledge on the subject. | Middle of the night saw a floating triangle aircraft right on the side of the road. It made no sound while it hovered and there was two pilots in the cockpit. | [
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