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Not as much of a suggestion as it is kind of doubting what I saw; On one of my colony's there is a growing zone right beside the perimeter wall around my base, whenever things get tough an there are no meals but a bunch of raw food laying around people of course pick it up and eat it, but sometimes it routes them through a tediously long path that takes several hours, which is annoying in those situations couldn't it be like the way animals search for food and search the squares that it CAN touch and not just some adjacent ones? | the routing for colonists eating food can make them walk way to far for no good reason | [
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We have been dating for three years and are crazy about each other, we practice bdsm regularly, and he knows that I'm pansexual and haven't been with a lady in quite some time.
So he started talking to a girl to try to set us up. Only I wasn't aware of this at first. They met at a party and she was into him and he explained he was taken.
We met her the other night and she was really sweet and has a lot of similar interests to us. But of course I'm massively insecure about us 'couple dating' her. I've had experiences in the past in which a poly situation has gotten out of hand due to jealousy, and of course this makes me nervous. | I'm kinda gay, boyfriend tries to satisfy me by getting a girl, and I'm not sure how I feel yet. Anyone that has experienced this before is welcome to give advice. | [
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This same thing happened in my hometown about 25 years ago. Except it wasn't just on a pillar or one thing. The entire town was infested with these same insects overnight. Entire buildings, walls, cars, trees, everything was covered with these critters. Even the roads, which I remember sounded fucking horrific as my mom drive me to daycare those couple of days. The religious nuts in my town were running around telling people it was the End Times.
And then, the birds showed up. Over the course of the next four or five days, my hometown was absolutely blanketed in black birds, due to the obvious massive buffet to be had. I've never seen anything like it since. Craziest shit I've ever seen. And after that 4-5 days, they were gone. And I mean gone . Like they never even happened. For the next 15 years, every year, around the same time, the black birds came back in droves. I guess searching for another open bug bar. They were so bad the first couple of years after, the city had to hire entire crews of guys who came in and spent the summers firing explosive shells into the trees to try and drive the birds off because they were shitting on everything , and posed an obvious severe health risk. | Shitload of these bugs came, followed by an even bigger shitload of birds to eat them, who hung around for the following 1.5 decades hoping for another binge. | [
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This is my first relationship so I have no experience. I hold her hand and kiss her goodbye. That's the most I've ever done in my whole life. She says she wants me to get more comfortable "physically". I don't know what to do.
I'm comfortable with her and I trust her. She's said how she wishes I would act more confident and initiate things more. Does that just mean to hold her more, kiss her more, or... I don't know. I was a sheltered home school kid so I literally know nothing about this.
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My ex-boyfriend introduced me to rock climbing last year. I liked it and he needed to renew his membership, so we bought a year long couple's membership. We broke up about five months into it, relatively amicably. I gave him the money for the rest of the year upfront. There are no stipulations for the couple's membership other than paying together.
I started dating my current boyfriend a month later (three months so far). I was recently invited to go on an outdoor climbing trip for a weekend, and excitedly my boyfriend. He was not excited. In fact, he told me to stop going entirely. I tried to talk it out with him, and he gave me four main points:
He thinks it's inappropriate I'm on a couple's membership with my ex while dating him. I understand that, but I can't change it till my membership is up.
Most of my friends there are guys - but that's just the nature of the sport. There's simply more guys than girls around (I do have girl friends though). My ex is also there sometimes, but we only see each other in public with other people around.
He thinks I should join his gym, like I joined my ex's. He hurt his leg recently, so he barely goes to the gym - and when he does, it's just light swimming. Plus, I can't afford two memberships and I really like climbing, which his doesn't have. His company pays his membership so he can't switch gyms - but he can't rockclimb right now anyway.
Climbing is dangerous. I mean, it is, but it's also very fun. I'm careful, use expensive equipment, and have never gotten hurt. | Got invited to go on a rock climbing trip, told boyfriend, he asked me to stop climbing entirely. Who's right? | [
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I have three. First one I was 2, my parents house had a small set of stairs going to door to outside which followed by stairs to a basement. My parents friend came over and as I was standing at the landing he swung the door open knocking me all the way down to the basement. Was taken to the doctor but just bumps and bruises.
Second one I was 3, and at a JCPenney with my mom. I had to go to the bathroom, so I went while she waited for me outside. I came out and went to shut the door. Well it was a pretty heavy self closing door and I ended up smashing my finger and it had pretty much severed the tip of my left index finger off. Had to get that sewn back on.
Third one I was in 3rd grade (8 maybe?) and was at a friends house. We were sitting at a table outside eating popsicles while another friend behind me was tossing up apples and hitting them into a field with a bat. He got a little close and smacked me right in the back of the head. Blood everywhere. Luckily no skull fracture and was perfectly fine. | 2 year old me got knocked down some stairs, 3 year old me got my finger tip cut off by a door, and 8 year old me got hit in the back of the head with a baseball bat. | [
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Being at the top of the ladder doesn't necessarilly make them 'good' by this logic. Let's say there's a kid out there who does nothing but play LoL on various accounts, reaching challenger(or bottom of the top of the ladder) and starting a new account. Let's say he has done this every day since S1. Now, this kid is practicing to be the absolute best, he then decides to reveal himself and gets place 1 2 and 3 on the challenger ladder, outclassing everyone there by miles, suddenly, top of the ladder players are bad, because you're comparing them to this godlike kid who spend 14 hours a day practicing since he was like 8 or 9!
Then he gets picked up into the LCS, proceeds to outplay every.single.player. Well, then the whole fucking world is bad at the game, except this kid, because they obviously have fundamental weaknesses that can be exploited. | Your logic has weaknesses that can be exploited, you can't split the player base into 'good' and 'bad' with a degree of efficiency. | [
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There are a lot of New Year's resolutions in this sub. You, like most people, could have started whatever it is you are starting today, January 1st; three months ago. But you didn't. Whatever the excuse, it always boils down to laziness.
I am writing this to tell you that you are going to reach your goal, whatever it is. Most goals you not only have to work to attain, but maintain once you've achieved it as well. A six pack, a change of personality, fighting some sort of urge, whatever it may be. Once you earn it, it'll be a cinch to keep, you will barely have to try to keep it going. You cannot, even for a minute, let yourself or someone take it back from you after you fulfill your ambition. Do not be weak .
Do not stop either, once you start, you fucking follow through with it, be a fucking man, you vagina. When you set foot outside your door to begin your trip to a vacation, do you stop? On your cab ride to the airport, do you tell your driver to turn around because you don't want to spend the money? Fuck no, that's because you're excited about going, you have nothing else on your mind except sandy beaches and beautiful women (and maybe your dog sitter, if you have a dog). Use the shit out of that testosterone that your balls give you, don't stop once you start . Not until you are finished.
Maybe you don't have a resolution, maybe your resolution doesn't quite apply to what I have told you, but this is still a good way to go about life. Motivation for myself starts in my chair. I think about what I want, how I'm going to get it, then the second I stand up out of my chair, I don't stop until I'm finished or can't progress anymore in that particular day. Fixing something on my car, running an errand, just getting shit done in general. For the long term shit like losing weight or finding a higher paying job, I practice the same thing. I get up out of my chair as a symbol of the start of my endeavor, then whenever my goal comes to mind later on down the line, I immediately ask myself 'how can I get closer to [insert goal here]?' Everyone has their own method, do what works for you .
There is a lot of advice in this subreddit, a lot of self-improvement guides and help if you bother to ask for it. I love this sub, I figure I would try to give back a little bit. | You'll achieve your New Year's resolution if you don't stop. Once you leave to get to your vacation, you don't stop until you get there, apply that to life. | [
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My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and a half. We have always had an incredible sex life, both with high libidos and doing a lot of kinky stuff. We don't live together, but barring days featuring my period, sickness, exhaustion, or a significant disagreement, we have sex every time we see one another. He is also my Dom, and I his collared sub (I mention this because maybe a fellow kinkster has some kink-specific advice). We are deeply in love and wanting to marry one day.
My problem is this: I can't handle being turned down for sex. Sometimes I'm not even really in the mood, but know I could be if he wanted it. But then, when he tells me he can't (and it's never because he doesn't WANT me, but always for a good reason such as exhaustion), it feels like I've never wanted anything as much as I want sex right then. And then the disappointment is overwhelming.
I usually react quite badly, unless I wasn't really expecting/hoping for sex. I am aware of my reaction, but feel powerless to stop it. Outwardly, I get quiet, closed off, withdrawn. Inwardly, I feel... A lot of things. Among them are shame for wanting this so badly, perhaps selfishly, fear that he doesn't want me anymore, and sadness that I can't be intimate with him. I find sex to be one of the easiest and most personal ways to express love to him, and it feels like a rejection even when he lets me down more gently than a butterfly.
I absolutely hate the way I react. It usually ends up with HIM comforting ME, and both of us confused and upset. I'll often cry, more out of shame and self-hatred for being unable to control myself than anything. He's been very understanding, but has also expressed that he feels he can't say no to me, and he should feel free to. Particularly as my Dom. He has said he knows I'm not reacting to be manipulative, but I know it comes across as such. I don't want to be that girl, who expects to get everything she wants; nor do I want to be that sub, who doesn't truly submit when she doesn't get her way! I just am not sure how to control my thoughts and feelings when this happens.
Does anybody have any advice or strategies for dealing with this? We are currently in couples counselling for unrelated reasons, but I intend to bring this up to the counsellor at some point. In the meantime, however, I'm hoping for some insight. I'm sick of putting him through my crap. | React like a little bitch when rejected for sex. How do I shield my man from my emotions and accept his refusal with grace? | [
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Ah, that's difficult then. Your best bet is to ask the people you traded with if they had pokechecks for them from 5th gen. There's no real way to confirm, although there are ways to check if they're cloned. If you acquired any off /r/BlackMarketPokemon , those are assumed to be either clones or hacks. [This]( is the most recent list of clones on /r/PokemonTrades
Because of how tough it is with no pokecheck in gen 6, there's not surefire way of confirming events (which is why gen 5 events can't currently be traded on gen 6 in /r/PokemonTrades ) Essentially, for whatever that you can't confirm the legitimacy of, you'll want to note that. | All that you really need to do is to state what sort of thing you're offering, whether it's "I dunno, might be cloned/hacked" or "This is definitely legit and not cloned, was pokechecked in gen 5 by this dude, etc." Offering either sort on this subreddit's fine. The only thing you can't do is offer clones/hacks without stating that they are/might be clones/hacks. | [
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Me and my boyfriend got together at a very strange point in my life. I had gotten myself off the streets from being homeless and moved back to my home state. Me and him had known eachother for a few years, we talked to eachother online almost daily. We pretty much started immediately dating when I got back. Even though we lived 2 hours away from eachother, we were going to make it work.
At first, it was very sweet. Except for the sex, he would be very rough with me and he was into choking which I was not into in the slightest. I played along at first but after I while I just wigged out. Aside from that I was very happy, he was very happy. He was the first relationship I had ever been in completely sober. We were both working. We even got a place together and things were going well.
But then I started to slip up here and there on my sobriety and being deviant sexually.
In the past I have had and extreme addiction to sex. I have been sexually assualted before, as a child and as an adult, and so to get that 'feeling' off of me I would go have consensual sex and it would bring me comfort. I would go to parties, get drunk and have sex with people. I did that for 7 years before trying to get sober and clean up my life.
About 4 months into our relationship a couple asked me to have sex with them whilst we were camping. I tried to avoid it at first and they just kept pushing it on me and we ended up having sex. I felt absolutely terrible the entire time. I honestly didn't know how to say No politely. I stopped talking to the couple. I told my boyfriend about it and we eventually got over it. 2 months later, I went to a birthday party, got ridiculously drunk and hooked up with an old crush I had had for a few years. I was honest about it and after a while we decided to still go ahead with moving in with each other and just focus on doing better.
Things between were decent for awhile. Then our sex life started to get worse. I started to have panic attacks everytime we would start to get sensual. I know it would make him feel bad, which made me feel even worse. He lost his job, and I've been paying for everything for the past 3 months. Things in my life in general have been extremely hectic with family and my best friend dying of a terminal illness. I decided to move back home 2 hours away for a little while to help out with family and my best friend.
A few days ago, I got ridiculously drunk at a party (I know stupid of me, I shouldn't have put myself in that scenerio) and made out/fooled around with a guy. I feel numb. I told him what happened and he said that he was pissed, but he also loved me and just said we needed to work on things harder. I feel like I let it happen again, and that my boyfriend deserves someone better. He deserves more than someone like me. I just feel awful and I don't know what to do about this. Everytime I try to tell him that perhaps we shouldn't be together he tells me that's a cop-out and that we just need to keep trying. But the fact that I've cheated on him makes me feel like it's just done.
He loves me, I know he does. But with all my mental issues and life issues I just don't know if I can love someone right now. I don't know what to do. | Because of poor choices I have made I feel like me and my SO should split up; But he doesn't want to and I don't know what to do. | [
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I didn't start to drink until going to college. My Dad never talked to me about drinking, and the first thing he told me about it was that he was on the path to being an alcoholic and my grandpa was an alcoholic for a long time. When I first started drinking I noticed it took a lot more to get me to feel the same level of drunkness as everyone else, so I started drinking higher volume liquors like 151 and loved the taste of the burn that turned others off. Freshman year I ended up hitting my head and had to be induced into a coma because of the damage I did to my brain. I swore off drinking when I woke up, and that lasted a year and a half until I turned 21. I was doing well, keeping everything in moderation and then one night I got too drunk and my housemates called the cops on me. This woke me up for a short time, put off drinking again until I thought that if I only stuck to beer, I'd be okay and ended up getting hammered this last New Years. Couple weeks later, I wandered off from my friends, picked up by a cop, again, and dropped off at my place. This last Friday I got drunk again and one of my friends said that I wasn't too bad up to a point, I was just too drunk. Can anyone provide me with any advice other than SMART or AA? I'm planning on trying those soon | Alcohol almost killed me, I've tried to quit twice since then, looking for 3rd time to be the charm | [
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After starting that post about UFC rankings, and reading e-thug's (valid) comments about LHW being kind of a wasteland these days, I looked up some old rankings people had posted around the internet from around 2005.
This is one guy's opinion, and is only for LHW, but still...
August 2005, going into the GP Semifinal and Final:
Light Heavyweight (205-pound limit)
Wanderlei Silva
Chuck Liddell
Randy Couture
Mauricio "Shogun" Rua
Antonio Rogerio "Minotoro" Nogueira
Ricardo Arona
Alistair Overeem
Tito Ortiz
Renato "Babalu" Sobral
Quinton "Rampage" Jackson
Other contenders: Vitor Belfort , Murilo "Ninja" Rua, Igor Vovchanchyn, Dan Henderson , Kazuhiro Nakamura, Ryoto "Lyoto" Machida
I'm not that interested in the actual rankings, per se, but what struck me most was how many of these guys are a.) still active, and b.) despite being shells of their former selves are still highly ranked or headlining events. I've highlighted the ones I think this applies to, but you could arguably throw Wand in there, too, were it not for his ongoing drug test debacle.
It feels like all I have read about over the last few years is how much MMA has evolved and that the older fighters just couldn't compete with the well rounded athletes of today... but, well, they do. At LHW at least they do. And they do it as no-kneed, punch drunk messes in a few cases.
I know someone like Shogun loses most of his fights these days, but like e-thug said before, there's not exactly a stream of top fighters lining up beneath him in the rankings.
Yes, the sport has clearly evolved, but I don't think the level is that much higher than it was before - outside of the top 1-3 in each division (although you could make a case that the smaller divisions have improved A LOT, as there wasn't a lot of focus on them back in the day). I think the top 10 listed above would have a decent shot against the current UFC top 10.
Meh, this turned out really long. | loads of fighters who were ranked in 2005 are still ranked, even though their bodies are shot. | [
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My mother is bipolar and my brother spent most of his young adulthood in and out of trouble. These issues were so disruptive that I spent 2 of my high school years living with friends (and their parents.) I moved out and 3 hours drive away shortly after graduating high school with no plans, just the need to find stability.
I have spent the past 10+ years supporting myself, getting myself to a good place, earning my AA and almost (4 classes) earning 2 bachelor degrees. My brother on the other hand has not held a job longer than 3 years, spent more time living with my parents than without and with the end result of them forcing him to leave on bad terms. He has also spent more time unemployed than employed. IMO has entitlement issues and god forbid he have to do work beneath him for someone who is an idiot. (We are obviously not close.)
I was laid off 3 years ago and have been struggling to support myself while in school ever since. Things seemed to be mellowing out with parents/bother. He moved out and got a great job (considering he has only a GED.) With great hesitation, I moved back in to find full-time work and finish up needed classes at local colleges part-time.
It took 4 months to find work after moving in and then my brother "needed" to move in. He was not getting along with roommates. Since then I have been in hell. He spends hours in the bathroom. Makes messes he does not feel the need to clean up (pee on front of toilet, beard hair in piles on bathroom floor, dirty dishes everywhere etc.) I have to hide my food and anything outside my room because he helps himself. I have been on the receiving end of the phone hearing of this happening every-time he moves in. Now instead of them being frustrated with him, they are frustrated with me for being irritated about the whole situation. I feel like again, they are choosing him over my education.
I moved all the way up here away from all my friends. Instead of using the money I have been saving for tuition, I will be using it as a deposit for a place far from my friends and a family I currently want nothing to do with. I have to avoid him and now my father at all costs to avoid confrontation. We were all getting along great until he moved in (brother included) and now I am the common enemy. My goal is to be out by Christmas and I have no plans on speaking to them anytime afterwards. | Ask parents for help for the first time in 10 years. They joyfully allow me to move in but then let disruptive, moocher brother to move in giving my no choice but to move out. I am so pissed and hurt. | [
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edit: both parties are 24
Ever since we got together as a couple she's not gone to any night out at clubs even though she used to. When opportunities came up before, we talked about it, and she ended up not going to those and I feel like I'm being too controlling even though she says she's ok with not going, but if she goes I'll also feel uncomfortable. I've been trying to figure out why I feel this way. When I think about this I think about how she used to go while getting drunk and that's how she used to like the attention from strangers, and also she's gone clubbing with ex's and I guess I don't really want to think about it because I don't want to think about the stuff that goes on there and I'm not a fan of clubbing?
I have no idea why I'm jealous(?) of the past but I always think about this, how do you guys deal with this? | gf likes clubbing, how do I deal with it? | [
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I have been with my SO for about 3 years now. I have been dealing with her alcohol abuse for about as long as the relationship itself.
We have been fighting for so long because of this issue and it has really put a lot of doubt in this relationship. She has said some very horrible things to me and has even gone as far as getting physically violent with me.
At this point I can't seem to learn to seperate my anger from my general concern for her well being, even love for that matter. We fight atleast 3 days a week for about 2-3 hours at a time. I've lost my dream job due to her problem and motivation to even continue the realtionship.
Now, she has started to seek help. We have gone down this road a handfull of times only to have her relapse in a couple of days. I have a hard time believing in her and I really wan't to but, I feel it might be too late. My brain just can't get out of the anger that has been building up.
Now that she is getting sober I still can't force myself to think of wanting to hang out with her, Even less to do nice things for her. I wan't to really be there but I feel that i'm past it. Anyone have a different view on the matter? Any advice would be great. | My SO has been abusing alcohol for a long time and I can't figure out how to support her anymore due to my built up anger over the course of the relationship, now that she is getting sober. | [
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Throwaway, because privacy.
I'm half assuming this askReddit is about complaints or improvements, but I'm going to say the first thing that's on my mind. I would change that my wife's childhood could be re-written WITHOUT the sexual abuse and molestation that she went through. Why? Because it's affected our sex life and her sex drive. Many times she gets close to an orgasm [or simply feeling intense pleasure], she shuts down. It's either a quiet sigh & a "hurry up, I'm done" kind of thing, up to as worse as bursting into tears and telling me to stop. It's happened less frequently over the last few years but it still sucks.
I will accept that my motives are half selfish. Of course they are...but I care about her well-being as well... even though it's driven us apart. Ugh. Yeah, That's what I would change. | Erase wife's childhood history of sexual abuse so we can actually enjoy our adult sex life.
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I actually have data that's thirty years old now: programs and data files created on the Atari 800 computer back in 1981, and email dating back almost that far. (You wouldn't believe how long Atari 8-bit 5-1/4-inch floppy diskettes stay readable: some of these disks were just transferred to modern media within the last twelve months. I'm serious.)
Oddly, the older stuff seems to have fared better than some newer things. You have to be a little bit of a hardware hacker, or know one, in order to even find , let alone hook up and operate, a drive that will read an MS-DOS 5-1/4-inch diskette. To say nothing of 9-track magnetic tape, DEC TK50 tape cartridge, Syquest disk cartridge, ZIP disk, ... I reluctantly disposed of my own last remaining drives for all but ZIP disk, in 2007 when I moved long distance; I pulled the ZIP data for the last time about a year ago just before the death of the motherboard on which resided my last remaining SCSI controller. On the other hand, my first dialup ISP, on which one could create-and-save one's own files at a good ol' Unix command prompt, is long gone, and I had to download a shitload of data to my home machine when that happened. I've had to do that a couple of times, actually.
The only thing you can really do is keep transferring data from one medium to the next as newer and newer technologies keep coming along. It's like the way you (well, some of us) had to keep buying your (our) favorite rock album over and over again as technology went from LP to 8-track to cassette to CD to MP3.
Whatever you do, make LOTS AND LOTS OF COPIES . Even with papers in real life I find that if I want to be sure of finding something I need to have six or more copies; with computer files, a similar principle applies. How many times have I mourned, then rejoiced, upon first thinking that I'd lost the last remaining instance of ten years' worth of my family photos, then unexpectedly discovering a cache of them secreted away somewhere! Oh, and since media keeps getting bigger, I can more-or-less keep "a complete copy of everything I've had up 'til now" on a single instance of "the latest technology," and then have multiple instances of that . E.g. I have three terabyte drives on my current PC, each of whose content includes, among much else, a complete copy of the HDDs of all my earlier PCs.
So I now have CD backups of the first 200 of my 1200+ Atari floppies, and multiple backups on bigger HDDs of the small HDDs of my previous computers (each of which contain mutliple
Other media have not fared so well: just try to find a way to read a 9-track magtape, DEC TK50 cartridge, Syquest 44Mb magneto-optical disc, s came and went quite rapidly by my standards. : least fortunate has been that which was developed on computers other than my own, i.e. that ISP stuff I mentioned; it's often been transferred so abruptly, under such non-ideal conditions, that things have gotten lost, corrupted, truncated, etc., often not to be discovered 'til ten years later... So try to do your backups calmly and carefully! | one man's tale of chasing data through the years | [
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Alright guys, I know you probably see a ton of these types of posts, but I've read the wiki, and researched as much as I could, but I can't find the right answers.
I'm a 20 y/o female, 5' 8", 170 lbs.
Squat- 265lb
Bench-130lb
Hang Clean- 165lb
I'm a college athlete, so I am by no means new to lifting, but I am new to this whole "fitness" thing. I am currently on a weight program designed by my coaches that seems a lot like Stronglifts 5x5. I am definitely trying to get big and strong and better at my sport, but I'm not going to be playing forever and I want to look good when I'm done!
So my question is, is it possible to be getting bigger (and better at my sport) while looking better? Should I be eating at a calorie deficit? How much of a deficit? Macros? Micros? I'm all confused. | College athlete is already strong, but wants to look good. What kind of diet?
Edit: I play softball btw if that helps!
Edit 2: I guess what I'm looking for isn't possible. I'll just have to wait till summer to do some sort of cut. Thanks anyways guys! | [
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This might turn into a wall of text, but I found something really surprising this weekend.
I started drumming when I was 13. I had a few lessons, but was mostly self taught.
I played in a brass band with my Dad and brother (both trombonists) for 3 years, learned to read music.
When I left home at 17, I had to stop. No space for drums, neighbours all around. This gave me time to reflect, and it occurred to me that in reality, I had never really been a very good drummer anyway - listening to other drummers I realised some of the stuff they did I had never learned to do, had never even been aware you could do.
So that was how it stayed for more than 25 years. I was intensely interested in drumming, but never touched a kit. I listened, understood some stuff I hadn't understood before, recognised syncopation, 'the groove', became a reasonable judge of what as good and what wasn't, but accepted that I was not part of that any more.
So this weekend, after a couple of years of toying with the idea, and having laid down half of my attic floor, I almost impulsively bought a used Roland TD9 v-drum kit. Ostensibly, it's for my kids, both of whom are interested in music. Of course I actually bought it for myself.
Now, here's the bit that surprised me.
I have spent maybe 3 hours playing them today. I understand I might not be the most objective judge, but my drumming now is WAY better than it ever was. I'm rusty, dropping sticks, hitting rims, and fumbling a bit, but in terms of what I can do, there are things that I have never done in my life that just . . . flow.
I'm no Neal Peart, but you know what - I'm playing along with some pretty decent tracks, and nailing it. I would not have been able to do that before. Wierd huh? | Kids, when your teacher says practice makes perfect, laugh in his face and go watch TV for a couple of years. Not really . . . | [
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So, I made a big fruit platter for the guys in the daf shiur likuvid Tu BShvat, with no thought of how I was going to transport it. The platter I bought was, we discovered, too large to fit in the shul's fridge. No problem, I'll just cut the fruit up after the meal, and walk over to shul in time for the daf shiur (we have an eruv).
Friday night, it began to snow. Okay, no problem.
I cut up fruit, arranged it on the platter, covered it with a shopping bag, and discovered that the fully laden platter was waaaay heavier than I'd anticipated. Somehow, I balanced the platter, my Gemara, and some plates, whereupon a new and heretofore unforeseen difficulty arose: doorknobs. I had my wife open our door, trusting in Der Eibeshte to smooth the derech on the other end of my journey, walked outside, slipped on the ice and snow, and promptly slid all the way to the end of my driveway. I closed my eyes, so I'm not sure what happened next, but when I opened my eyes I was on the street, still desperately clutching the platter, the Gemara, and the plates (note: I only have two arms, not three as this story would imply).
So I veeeery carefully walk to shul, and happen to get there at the same time as another dude who attends our shiur, so he opened the door for me. I climbed the flight of stairs to the upstairs shul with no further incident, we learned, and I brought the platter home, only to discover it is too large to fit in our sink. We left it on the kitchen table, and there it sits now, sticky and covered in pomegranate juice, while we plan how to wash it. | giant fancy glass platter for sale to good home. Used once, see my Facebook profile for photo. Free or best offer. | [
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I've been reading Manson's book, Models: Attract Women Through Honesty, and have a question and want to clarify if my understanding of his teaching is correct. I am only hitting on a few aspects of it, but trust me it's related to the question I have.
My understanding of his True Confidence vs. False Confidence:
TC: A man who is vulnerable, open with his desires in a presentable way, and straight to the point about his decisions. A man with True Confidence is clear, and doesn't waste his time on games, because his time is valuable and he respects her time as well. There is no miscommunication. His intentions are honest. If she denies him on the spot, he shrugs and finds a new woman. He's fine with his life, and doesn't need a woman, but rather chooses to have one.
FC: Often times a mask, a different persona, playing pretend to get her in bed, and feeling distraught when you cannot figure out why she left you. Someone who is desperate for female attention and will bend over backwards to earn her emotional respects. However this comes off as unattractive, and childish, and displays false confidence so she immediately begins to turn away, if you've manipulated the situation to get her that far to begin with. The traits can sometimes appear attractive, but they fade quickly because they're not true/honest.
Background/Question:
I've met this girl off Tinder, and during our first date we ended up making out, talking a lot, and overall having a good time. I was attracted to her, she was attracted to me. As of recently, she's showing a more needy-side via texting. Asking me if I'm free to hangout, and I'll tell her no at the moment, that I'll likely be free next weekend, but she'll persist with hints and signs that she wants to see me when I'm actually busy. I'm not complaining. But here's the honesty on my part: even though I enjoyed hanging out with her, and kissing her, I don't want this girl to be my girlfriend. I want to sleep with her, but not for any sense of validation. I just simply want to have sex with her because she's cute. However, I know Manson illustrates essential respect between the two parties. So, would seeing her just to get her in bed (but enjoying causal talk along the way) be considered disrespectful? I don't want to mess with a girl emotionally, that's my biggest fear. I know for a fact that I would move on, and she would too, but I don't want to throw her into an emotional wreck.
Okay let me be more clear, | I want to have sex with this girl I've met off Tinder, girl is giving me impressions that she wants more than just sex via texting/talking about dates in the future/ holding my hand/ and doing things bf/gf would do. Is it wrong to pursue her for sex alone even if she's acting this way? Does this just mean she is turned on by me? Am I displaying False Confidence if I'm just wanting to sleep with her? If so, how? | [
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I've been dating a great guy for about 6 months, and really the only thing that bugs me about him is that he's not the best conversationalist. He can tend to monologue without breaking, interrupt (argue with what he thinks I'm saying before I've had a chance to actually make a point), and talk at length about unimportant things that happened a long time ago (He basically told me the name of everyone he could remember from his high school track team the other day. It was a story with no end and no point.).
To be fair, I am an introvert and can sometimes be slow to collect my thoughts. I don't mind listening, but I absolutely hate arguing, and I find listening to other people rant about negative things or unsolvable problems really wears me out.
For the most part, none of this causes problems.
(edited out specifics of conversation because of paranoia)
Yesterday, he talked for awhile about some things that bothered him, and while I disagreed about a few things, I wasn't passionate about the subject and wasn't really into it. I sort of felt like he wasn't going to be satisfied unless I validated his rant or argued back. I finally told him that I understood his points but didn't really agree and didn't want to argue, and he accused me of being politically apathetic and said that that's the sort of attitude that causes riots. Later on he ranted about how much he hates when people use hyperbole to make a point... kind of funny.
sigh.
I was thinking of driving myself home after that, but we had dinner plans, so I stayed. We went for dinner, and he started sharing memories from college. At one point he told me that he took several classes where he was smarter than the teacher. He bragged about how little new information he learned.
I was quiet for a long time, but then I calmly explained the Dunning-Kruger effect to him, because I wanted him to understand that saying things like that isn't flattering.
I said, "People who think they already know everything tend to be the people who actually have the most to learn."
He took the opportunity to correct my wording of the Dunning-Kruger effect because he didn't think I paraphrased it precisely enough.
Fine. I dropped the subject.
I love this man, truly, but today, reflecting on all of this, I feel so tired. I keep thinking: will he grow out of this? This is only the second time we've had an argument (if you can even call it that), but I worry that the more this happens, the less I will respect him. I also dread the idea of eventually raising children with someone whose basic communication behaviors are so flawed. I also sometimes feel like I come across as a yes man or a doormat, when the truth is I just don't have the energy to share his righteous indignation about every little flaw in our world.
I don't know. Does it sound like we're incompatible? Can anyone share how they overcame differences like this with their partners? | My boyfriend likes to argue more than I do, and sometimes he says really asinine things that may stem from insecurities. I'd love to find a way to help make him more self-aware, or at least a way to avoid topics that I don't share his angst/passion about without making him feel ignored. | [
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Story Time: Back in 2011 I was living in Alberta. One day I was heading out onto highway 2, which is Alberta's main North-South freeway. The speed limit is 110 km/h (68 mph). As I turned on to the ramp there was an old guy in his motorized wheelchair just cruising up the ramp toward the busy highway. He looked like the guy in the video, the only real difference being that he had a bright orange flag on the back of his wheelchair. Now I was thinking that the highway is a dangerous place for wheelchairs, and also it is a long way to the next exit, and I was afraid his battery would die and he would be stranded. I stopped next to him, rolled down my window and told him he should stop and turn around. He didn't even look at me. I then had my wife call 911 and I parked my car in front of his wheelchair so he couldn't continue. He was so mad and called me many names. Once the cops arrived I was late for my appointment, but I can't even imagine what would have happened if I had let him merge into traffic.
I actually felt bad for him. He seemed so determined to get to Red Deer, and couldn't understand why I would stop him. | Stopped an old guy from driving his wheelchair onto a busy freeway, and got called very colourful names. | [
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Since I came to reddit a couple weeks ago I have seen stories on the front page about:
-Some lady facing 90 days in jail for having a vegetable garden in the front of her house
-Police bashing a black kid cos they thought his mountain dew bottle was a gun
-Police shooting and killing a native Indian man in 4 seconds flat for carving wood with a knife
-TSA feeling up passengers before they board their flight
Just to name a few... All of this crap. All the time happening in America... 'The land of the free...' Yeah right!
I've lived in Germany, California and Australia... I don't know much, but I do know that I have been FAR more free, and FAR more left alone by the police and the TSA and the immigration department in Germany and Australia than I ever was in the USA.
How can America call itself free? I mean, in Germany and Australia you are truly free - free to go get an education, even if you don't have money. Free to go see a doctor when you are sick, even if you don't have a job. THAT is what I call freedom.
America is crazy man. I remember when I was in America and I was talking to a republican about healthcare. He said, people should have the 'freedom' to choose if they want healthcare or not.' LOL!!! What about the freedom to see a doctor when your kid gets sick? Or the freedom to have a fighting chance if you are diagnosed with cancer? All this talk of losing lives to abortion, look at all the lives being lost to preventable diseases?
Blows my mind. It really does. | How do Americans have the audacity to call themselves 'the free world' when they don't have the freedom to see a doctor, get an education, or travel on a plane without getting felt up?
EDIT: Downvotes? What the?! This is supposed to be thought provoking! | [
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We've been together since high school. After a few dates, I recall, something in us just clicked and we started spending every second together. Even to this day, I consider her my closest friend on top of the romantic and sexual feelings I have for her.
We haven't been without our share of problems, especially a few serious ones in nearer to the beginning. Most of the serious stuff was worked out ages ago, but a few things persist, and I attribute them to one thing: she isn't able to handle stress well. This is hugely important later on.
Her stress levels are always through the roof since we started college because she's a pre-med and, whether true or false, her head's been filled with a million things she MUST do and a million standards she MUST meet or she won't get in to med school, her past four years will be wasted, and life will be over. Not making this any better are her insecurity issues: she doesn't feel smart, and even though she is, I can't seem to convince her. Her grades are so high and she absolutely destroys every exam she takes, but she still cries and freaks out about every one of those exams up to a week prior to it. It's the craziest thing, as if she can't possibly learn confidence from her own success.
I mention the stress because when she's really worked up, she's the worst when it comes to this stuff. All rational thought can fly out the window at a moment's notice. Every issue we've ever worked through can resurface instantly, especially the ones where she acted shittily to me in the past (ie she starts acting shitty again). And with her MCAT (med school admission test) looming, she has been in this awful mood almost constantly for months now.
But on to the cat. When we got the cat, I saw a side of her I've never really seen before. Extremely controlling, almost OCD-level. And worse yet, mean and unfair to a poor, defenseless cat. I'll back up. She'd never had a cat but always wanted one. So after we'd had our own place for about six months, we got one. But she was busy with school/work and I had more free time, so I ended up taking care of and playing with the little bugger (cutest kitten ever though). Even though gf was feeding her, the kitten still got attached to ME instead of her.
This is when it started to get bad. Her feelings were clearly hurt by this, and any time the kitten wouldn't pay her attention or would pick me instead, she'd get absolutely livid. She'd yell hurtful things at me, as if I had any control over the damned animal's actions. But I'm a softy, and I really wanted to raise a nice cat. I grew to love my very first pet (never had any growing up) and read up on the ways to take care of one. You don't really punish them like dogs. It just makes them hate you and they don't learn anything from it either.
So then gf developed some weird new control issues about this cat that were extremely unfair. Gf, for whatever reason, decided she didn't like kitten going under bed or couch. When the cat does it, gf gets CRAZY. Gets up and yanks her out, interrupting a movie if we're watching one or whatever she's doing. Of course, the cat just goes right back under! Gf rips cat out again, and on and on and on. Even worse, this makes the cat come to me even MORE and gf even less, exacerbating other problem.
After so many fights about it, I agreed to board up the bottom of the couch, if she'd stop caring about the bed problem. This worked for a while, until the cat figured out how to get under the couch again, and gf eventually re-negs on the bed deal and wants to board it up too.
I'm not sure, but she might actually need help and it really scares me. I mean, no one should care what the cat does that much, for seemingly no reason. I once woke up at 3 am and she was up pulling the cat out from under the bed.
But the way she mistreats me and the cat when stressed out makes me worry about having a family someday. I can't see how a kid will be any different, and kids will just stress her out more, like WAY more. Cats are nothing compared to the hell that children raise.
I'm not sure what to do. Thinking about suggesting she see somebody to work through the control issues, the anger issues, and to maybe help her improve her coping with stress. Anybody have any similar experiences? It's gotten really, really bad, to the point that I have PTSD-like trouble sleeping whenever the cat jumps up on me at night, knowing she could freak out in a fit of jealously at any time. In fact, she's gone out to sleep on the couch a few times. I already am a light-sleeper and this shit is wreaking havoc on my life. I regret getting the cat at all, but I just love the little bugger so much now it'd crush me to get rid of her. | Girlfriend under a ton of stress, can't handle it very well, treats me and our cat like shit when stressed out, worried that she might do the same to our children someday. | [
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why do I always feel like I"m missing something? that everyone knows something that I don't. Why are 4s in quest to find "deep meaning" about themselves and everything around them? I hate myself, I'm a failure, 4s I know are failure. If anyone lived what it's like to be me for a week, they wouldn't last an hour.
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The only thing that naive sir, is allowing America to perpetrate such gross infringements of human rights, then turning around and saying that they were only acting in the countries best interests. Snowden is a victim of the United States egocentric and imperialistic views, allowing countries to transcend international laws and regulations is far worse than what Snowden did. If he were to face fair trial, I'm sure he would come back. The only problem is if he came back, he would immediately shipped off to some prison we've never heard of to rot. Allowing countries and governments to treat their citizens this way is not democracy, it's a dictatorship. It goes far beyond the way Snowden is being treated, what about the way the majority of the public is treated, not just in america but world wide. Poverty, economic duress, starvation, war, apartheid, genocide, the list goes on. Aren't the governments of the world supposed to help people? Isn't that we "elect" officials? It's time that we woke up, the government isn't working for us and we shouldn't stand for their treason. Eventually, once we've eaten all of our fast food, and sent all of our tweets, gotten bored of the latest iPhone or loose interest in Kim and Kanyes baby maybe we'll actually recognize the world for what it is, unjust. | SHITS FUCKED
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Story time: One of my high school coaches was huge, burly, not to be fucked with kind of guy. His coxswain in college was terrible and could barely steer the boat let alone make calls and pump up the boat. So in the midst of a race this coxswain just keeps yelling things that arent helping and are killing the morale. My coach, as stroke, decides that after an entire season that he has had enough of it, so he punches the coxswain in the face, takes the headset, and begins making calls. They ended up in second place. Pretty sure the coxswain quit after that. | Coach punches coxswain in face | [
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Hey Ents, just FYI, this is the easy, awesome, chemical-free solution to this problem:
When you go to take the sticker off, carefully scrape just the corner (should be a piece of cake with those sweet nails) and then SLOWLY pull the whole thing off in one piece. That is literally the only trick you need to have up your sleeve for these things: Just a little patience. It takes maybe 20 seconds if you do it right, and there's basically no residue. | Pull firmly, but gently, haha! | [
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I use to drink 3-4 20oz Cokes (Coca-Cola) a day. This caused me to have severe heartburn. I was popping at least a Zantac 150 a day. One day I woke up and decided I sick of being dependent on medications for my heartburn so I gave up all pop cold turkey. I do not drink coffee. It took 6 months before my frequent heartburn quit. Its been 3+ years and I only take 1 Zantac a month now. I only drink caffeine free, light colored pop (mostly Vernors ginger ale, but in moderation). I feel great. I have tried a dark pop now and again but I have lost the taste. Didn't help me lose any weight, but it fixed my heartburn. | I quit caffeine, it was easy, I feel GREAT! | [
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Yeah, sadly this kind of misconception is pretty widespread, but you did a neat | there. | [
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My boyfriend and I have been together 1.5 years. We are in college, but attend different schools.
This past weekend, my boyfriend came up to visit me. Everything was going well at first, but then a petty moment escalated into the bigger fight we've ever had. He was the one who overreacted and escalated it - he even admitted it afterwards. Leading up to the actual fight, he threatened to leave early. I was terribly upset, but also too angry to try and work things out. When we were finally back in my room (we had been at dinner), I told him to pack his things and leave. He asked me if I was sure, and I said yes. At this point, he looks directly at me and simply says' 'Bitch.'
This pushed me over the edge. I started to cry and I kept on insisting that he get out. I told him I didn't want to see him again and to get away from me. I honestly didn't know or care where he would go at that point. He tried to convince me otherwise, saying that he didn't mean it, telling me to calm down, etc. He started to cry. Eventually, I calmed down. We made up and the rest of our time together went smoothly. I thought that I was okay.
Then last night after he had left to return to his school, everything came rushing back at me. I went from missing him to contemplating breaking up within minutes. All I could think of was that awful moment when he insulted me. I texted him saying that I felt broken inside and that I didn't want to talk for a few days. I invited my friend to my room to get her advice, during which time I ignored my phone as my boyfriend called me 10+ times. After I had discussed what happened with my friend, I answered the phone. He was sobbing and barely able to speak. He told me that by ignoring his calls, I had broken up with him. I then began to cry and told him I didn't want to break up. We talked for a while until we were both okay an agreed not to break up.
That leads me to this morning. I wake up to a text message saying that he's sorry for hurting me, that he feels like a monster, how he's not really an awesome guy and that my love for him blinds me. I don't know what to think. Other than this, we have a fantastic relationship. He is not physically abusive/intimidating, he doesn't insult me, and he has stood by me while I was suffering a bout of depression/self-harm/suicidal tendencies. He said, 'I'm sorry I can't promise that I will never call you a bitch again. But I can promise you that I will try to make sure it doesn't happen.'
So, I turn to reddit now for honest opinions. Am I being stupid for forgiving him for this one slip up? As I said, this has never happened before an I know he is sorry. I'm human too and I've said things I didn't mean while angry. Am I making the wrong choice by accepting that he insulted me and knowing that it could happen again? I am just so confused... | Boyfriend of 1.5 years called me a bitch for the first time during a fight. I nearly broke up with him, but didn't because I know that he's not a perfect human being. Am I being foolish by staying with him? | [
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I'm 19 f, he's 19 m. We've been dating for 3.5 years.
I know, we were babies when this all started, and we're both still babies.
I'm generally happy with him but our relationship has had some REALLY unhealthy bumps. Like a whole two months where we agreed to see other people, and he did see other people, then we came back to each other. He's lied to me at least 30 times. (Biggest issue in our relationship, hands down, I broke up with him the last lie he told me but took him back, not forgiving him, but allowing him a final chance to prove he can be honest. He hasn't lied for 3+ months.. ) He holds uncomfortably friendly relationships with other females that I know he isn't cheating on me with but he get's uncomfortably friendly with them and sometimes leads them on and does NOT get why I'm uncomfortable. He has never cheated on me though.
But let's just say for the past 3 months for the most part there have been no problems, he has respected my discomfort with some of his friendships, and has been honest. Yay for things getting better.
So I've been brilliantly happy with this relationship lately. It's like a new relationship all together. But last night I was sitting in my room trying to go to bed and my scumbag brain got to thinking. And this is what I thought up:
He is like almost every other teenage boy.. I have had him on this stupid pedestal when in reality he looks at tits on chat roulette, checks out other girls, would rather play video games than go out on a date with me, he smells like butthole because he doesn't shower before I go to his house, he eats junk food and drinks copious amounts of soda, he loves to party and drink and lives a care free life. ALL of these things are normal teenage boy behaviors that I would never be upset about..
But it made me realize that he is seriously nothing special at all. He probably doesn't want to be committed to a girl at this age either. It turned me off from him completely, like 100%. I was already 45% turned off from him because he's getting fat anyway... That sounds really shallow but in all honesty I am not physically attracted to fat people!
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I've noticed recently that the TMA vs. MMA (M being modern in this instance) has reached an all time (or at least for as long as I've been here) low. Both sides have taken to being completely asinine. And it is definitely both sides being guilty of this. Poor logic is being thrown around like it's going out of style. Blanket statements are being dropped left and right. Insults and fight challenges have replaced polite discourse. Downvotes have become the main mode of communication. Frankly, it's chaos and has become exceptionally heated. As for its source I think a few people have been stirring things up more than usual; I won't point fingers but you probably know who you are, and know that it's both sides of the debate doing it. This has led to frustration and exasperation in both sides that has broken down discourse and reason.
As such I'm going to remind people of a little reddiquette and the proper use of logic and reasoning in an argument.
First off. [Reddiquette](
Here are some of the more important ones that have been ignored with more frequency as of late.
Remember that you are talking to a person. Treat them with a decent level of respect regardless of your feelings towards their standpoint or personality. Be polite.
Don't downvote because you disagree. Downvote things that do not contribute. Things that are being obviously offensive or insulting should be downvoted. Comments that are not being rude or degrading and contribute should not be downvoted. Examples of comment types that are worthy of downvotes; "lol", "This", "I could kick your ass IRL", "Let's fight.", "You're an idiot", " __ is BS. You sux." "[Here]( is my new muzikz vid. plz lick, fav, and subs. k thx". Comments like these are deserving of DVs. Not things like people saying they like X style or recommend it. I've noticed that anyone who even suggests krav, aikido, or WC in a thread asking for art suggestions gets large amounts of DVs. Just because you disagree does not mean you should downvote. It's a suggestion. They think it would fit. If you disagree say why and give your preferred rather than downvoting. It doesn't contribute.
Sort of on that topic - do not vote based on alliances/emotions/feelings. If you don't like a person or one comment they made, don't downvote all their stuff. Downvote whatever is not contributing. Remember the downvotes are used to sort of grade who is not contributing not to punish them. The points don't mean anything except for others references. So someone with lots of karma is not more right than someone with negative karma by virtue of karma. Please don't treat it as anything other than a way to sift through quality contributions.
If you feel the need to downvote, explain why or what's wrong with the post. No one can know why it deserves it otherwise. Constructive criticism.
Just don't be intentionally rude or troll.
Walk away if someone is obviously being a troll or unreasonable jack wagon. And don't encourage them because you think it's funny. Just don't. I learned from that the hard way.
Don't report people who you just don't agree with. The report button is not a super-dislike button. It is for users who are breaking the [rules](
That's about all for reddiquette. Super simple stuff. And I'm not saying that everyone is being uncool but it's starting to be more common that the frustration of the sides debate is causing people to lose their discretion and act poorly. Just take a moment to breathe /r/martialarts, you'll live longer.
Now onto logic. This is a bit more vague as it is an inherently philosophical area and up for debate itself. What is superior, inductive or deductive? Can anything be said with certainty? Does anything really matter in the grand scheme of it all? I don't plan on getting to the deep root of the philosophy but I will just point out a few things.
Blanket statements. Generalizations are useful but they have their limits. Use them sparingly and only use them if you actually have a reason to make it. Having seen one jerk wear a Tapout shirt does not make all MMA people tools. Likewise seeing one club believe in chi does not make every member of that art a chi-liever (sorry for the pun). Usually, you should have several observations of such an event to being to suspect that it may be common. For example, If I flip a standard coin three times it is very possible that I could get tails each time. It would be totally wrong of me to make the statement that every flip will result in tails from these few observations. Depending on the population of the sample the number of observations will vary. Usually for a large thing like the world population and subsections there of I would say you need at least a hundred observations or samples before you can start drawing conclusions with a reasonable amount of certainty. This sort of moves into the next topic.
Inductive versus deductive reasoning.
Inductive is bottom-up and goes as follows. Observe something -> notice a pattern -> develop hypothesis -> theory. An example of it is as follows:
Donkey loves parfaits.
Shrek likes parfaits.
Almost everybody loves parfait.
Jim is a somebody.
Jim probably loves parfait.
The problem here is that even if the premises are true, the conclusion can be wrong. The classic example by John Vickers is
All swans we have seen are white.
Therefore all swans are white.
This is most certainly not true as there are black swans. This basically means that if you have observations and develop a general theory you may be wrong. So from the blanket statement case, don't rely on generalizations based on limited observations too much as they can be wrong.
Now deductive reasoning works a bit differently. It is based on known that hold for an area.
All men are mortal.
Socrates is a man.
Therefore, Socrates is mortal.
It follows a known. Men are mortal. Another known. Socrates is a man. Then it draws a conclusion from that. Socrates is mortal. The conclusion can only be false if a premise is false. Neither of the two are false (as far as we know) and thus the conclusion can be said to be true. But, a thing about deductive is that it's conclusion can be true even if a premise is false. For example, perhaps not all men are mortal but Socrates is. 1 is false but the conclusion is true.
Typically deductive is the preferred method philosophically, but as we know there is a good deal of things that are uncertain so inductive reasoning is also used and is a backbone of science. Things like evolution are heavily based on inductive reasoning and could be untrue if we found an exception, in which case the theory would be altered to account for it or discarded altogether if it were completely incompatible and irreconcilable. Deductive on the other hand is used heavily in mathematical proofs. If A then B, yadda yadda. A proof shows a statement is true and will list all cases that can occur. Together both make the rounds of science. Observe something, make hypothesis, gather evidence for hypothesis, test it, confirm hypothesis, rinse and repeat.
Now for why it is being abused in the sub. Both sides are mixing up the two and assuming conclusions based on false premises. An example, "I've seen wrestlers beat aikidoka. I've seen wrestling work on the streets. Therefore aikido doesn't work on the streets." This is inductive. We have an observation. We have a conclusion. The premise is true. I've seen them do it. Wrestling does work on the streets. But, the conclusion is not necessarily true. A better argument is "I've seen wrestlers beat aikidoka. So aikidoka can't beat wrestlers." It is stronger but is not necessarily true again. There could be that one genetic monster of a man who does aikido. But, it is stronger. The idea here is that we need to avoid creating conclusions that aren't supported in known cases with arguments based on weak premises. You may have never seen aikido work but that doesn't mean it doesn't. Just that there is a lack of evidence.
This brings me to logical fallacies. Particularly the burden of proof and absence of evidence. One of the major ones is that absence of evidence is not evidence of absence. Take the swan example. There was no observational evidence evidence of black swans but they existed. Now the person that made the claim is the one who must provide supporting evidence. Unfortunately it is next to impossible to prove a negative, that there are no other colored swans. We can however prove a positive - namely that there are white swans.
Now where does this come into play in the TMA/MMA debate? Sports working on the streets.Some claim that a sport does not work in street defense and that is just not true. We have evidence that sport styles work via observational videos. We also have some evidence that sport styles don't always work as attested to by some unfortunate murders (common among boxing prize fighters). But, with this we can make the arguement, "We have seen sport styles defend people on the street, therefore a sport style can be used as a self defense system". Is it the best system? Who knows? We really only have opinion on this as there are no certainties in combat. A lucky shot can kill. But, it does work for at least one person and therefore has warrant as a self defense system under those variables. So basically, remember that you can't prove a negative so don't claim them as the burden is on you. Also, don't claim what you cannot prove via evidence or reasoning. Try to be honest in this and the whole place will run a lot smoother. Also, don't make claims based on opinion. It is not possible to provide evidence for an opinion.
At this point I should probably mention the difference between a formal and informal fallacy. A formal fallacy is one where the reasoning for an argument is wrong. An informal can still have a correct conclusion but be poorly argued via poor premise. The assumption that it is false is based on an informal fallacy is the formal [fallacy fallacy](
Another formal fallacy example: [appeal to probability]( Taking something for granted do to it likely being the case. And again see the swan argument and the parfait one.
For informal fallacies, the ones I see most around here are hasty generalizations (making a generalization too quickly on insufficient data or biased samples), ad hominem (personal attacks, duh), fallacy of composition (wrongly attributing characteristics of a part to the whole) and the argument from ignorance (assuming something is true because it hasn't been proven false). These are the main ones I see here. Look [here]( for a comprehensive list of fallacies and try to avoid them. Sure, there are so many that it's nearly impossible and I am absolutely sure I've made at least one of them myself in this post alone, but it is just a good idea to avoid using them. Also, don't claim someone has made one if you don't understand what it means and acknowledge that even if you do point one out that their conclusion can still be correct with and fallacy as the fallacy fallacy states.
I think I'm done for now as I'm tired. I just wanted to share a little and hopefully help the community be a little less confrontational as I really like it and would hate to have to leave it due to it becoming a group of people shouting insults from their respective sidelines. I just think this can be a good place and want to see it be an intelligent forum and not a circlejerk or shouting contest. | If all of that was too much. Just be cool. Think before you post and vote, and remember basic civility.
Peace.
Also, if I made any mistakes in my philosophy (or anything else) please correct me. It isn't my forte. Perhaps I'm wrong and just don't know it. That's the beauty of logical and critical thinking you can have polite discourse and learn from it.
EDIT: a few spelling things I noticed (probably many more to be found) as well as a thanks for the gold. It's my first time. Woo! Goodbye RG V-card! | [
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[Reddiquette]( \n Here are some of the more important ones that have been ignored with more frequency as of late. \n \n Remember that you are talking to a person. Treat them with a decent level of respect regardless of your feelings towards their standpoint or personality. Be polite. \n \n Don't downvote because you disagree. Downvote things that do not contribute. Things that are being obviously offensive or insulting should be downvoted. Comments that are not being rude or degrading and contribute should not be downvoted. Examples of comment types that are worthy of downvotes; \"lol\", \"This\", \"I could kick your ass IRL\", \"Let's fight.\", \"You're an idiot\", \" __ is BS. You sux.\" \"[Here]( is my new muzikz vid. plz lick, fav, and subs. k thx\". Comments like these are deserving of DVs. Not things like people saying they like X style or recommend it. 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Does anything really matter in the grand scheme of it all? I don't plan on getting to the deep root of the philosophy but I will just point out a few things. \n Blanket statements. Generalizations are useful but they have their limits. Use them sparingly and only use them if you actually have a reason to make it. Having seen one jerk wear a Tapout shirt does not make all MMA people tools. Likewise seeing one club believe in chi does not make every member of that art a chi-liever (sorry for the pun). Usually, you should have several observations of such an event to being to suspect that it may be common. For example, If I flip a standard coin three times it is very possible that I could get tails each time. It would be totally wrong of me to make the statement that every flip will result in tails from these few observations. Depending on the population of the sample the number of observations will vary. Usually for a large thing like the world population and subsections there of I would say you need at least a hundred observations or samples before you can start drawing conclusions with a reasonable amount of certainty. This sort of moves into the next topic. \n Inductive versus deductive reasoning. \n Inductive is bottom-up and goes as follows. Observe something -> notice a pattern -> develop hypothesis -> theory. An example of it is as follows: \n Donkey loves parfaits.\nShrek likes parfaits.\nAlmost everybody loves parfait.\nJim is a somebody.\nJim probably loves parfait. \n The problem here is that even if the premises are true, the conclusion can be wrong. The classic example by John Vickers is \n All swans we have seen are white. \nTherefore all swans are white. \n This is most certainly not true as there are black swans. This basically means that if you have observations and develop a general theory you may be wrong. 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Things like evolution are heavily based on inductive reasoning and could be untrue if we found an exception, in which case the theory would be altered to account for it or discarded altogether if it were completely incompatible and irreconcilable. Deductive on the other hand is used heavily in mathematical proofs. If A then B, yadda yadda. A proof shows a statement is true and will list all cases that can occur. Together both make the rounds of science. Observe something, make hypothesis, gather evidence for hypothesis, test it, confirm hypothesis, rinse and repeat. \n Now for why it is being abused in the sub. Both sides are mixing up the two and assuming conclusions based on false premises. An example, \"I've seen wrestlers beat aikidoka. I've seen wrestling work on the streets. Therefore aikido doesn't work on the streets.\" This is inductive. We have an observation. We have a conclusion. The premise is true. I've seen them do it. Wrestling does work on the streets. 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The main issue with the show right now is that the writers need to make the Flash frustratingly stupid at certain points to produce any kind of conflict or tension. There was an episode where he gets his ass handed to him by someone simply because they cloned themselves and would attack him 6v1 . He seems to have the hardest time realizing that if he would just maintain his average super speed from the get go most episodes would have the antagonist defeated within the first 10 minutes. | The Flash's forced stupidity makes the show frustrating to watch. If the Flash maintained his average super speed conflicts would resolved in seconds. | [
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Was with my ex for 6 years. It became toxic, I had depression and she had anxiety issues. She got controlling and lied a lot. We broke up around 2 months ago.
I forgot to delete one friend of hers from social media and saw a post today of her all dressed up. Felt like my heart broke all over again...
How do I get over this? I know everybody says time but what else can I do?
Ive messaged her friend (who was always lovely to me) explaining that I want to delete her but it's nothing personal. | Thought I was over her. Saw picture of her. Heartbroken. | [
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So there was this super cute girl I worked with. We'd flirted in the office a bit. One day she sent me an email(we sat two seats apart in a bullpen type office trailer) asking me if I wanted to go with her to the beach that night. She also suggested I bring a camera. It was a good night(nothing happened). We walked up and down the beach and talked for a couple of hours until it started getting cold and headed back to the car. When we got in, she turned and said "Can I ask you something?" "Sure." "Can I trim your fingernails? They've been bugging me for awhile." "Ok." We've been married for 2 and a half years now. | At the end of my first date with my now wife, she asked if she could trim my finger nails. | [
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I'd like to think I am a nice person. I always try to keep the interest of those around me at the forefront of my mind, partly because I want to be a nice person but also partly because I am very socially awkward. I tend to do things (however small or large) that normal people don't do. This awkwardness would, in my mind, attribute to why I have such a significantly hard time finding and maintaining friendships. I will say insensitive things that I don't believe to be rude only to realize 10 minutes later was extremely offensive. Likewise I'll not only say but do things that are incensitive or rude.
I can't stress how badly I want this to stop. I have had this problem all my life and all techniques to alleviate them have proven poor. Waiting 5 seconds before I talk just makes me look like an idiot and plus doesn't solve anything, I still say and do insensitive things. I try to keep my mouth shut, but that's not really in my personality and every time I convince myself I will not say anything, I end up talking a lot. I even try copying someone I know who isn't socially awkward and think what that person would do in situations. The last one has had very, very minimal success.
This is extremely stressful for me because, I really and desperately want to have good friends and I feel that perhaps that pressure causes me to say and do the dumbest and rudest things. It may sound stupid, but yet again tonight I did something I didn't really think was a big deal and ended up being pretty big. None of these things in themselves are necessarily friendship ending things, but I do these things over and over, and when I realize I am an idiot I get depressed and not fun to be around which makes me even more depressed. No one wants to hang out with an idiot who appears (or may in fact be) self-centered and depressed all the time. | I want to have friends but I am rude, tell me what I can do to be less unintentionally rude/insensitive | [
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The point of grades K-12 is to teach you the very basics of what you need to know before you get into higher education or the workforce, where you will start learning what you really need to know.
I thought much the same as you did when I was in high school. I did my work and got good grades because that was what I was supposed to do, and trusted that it would get me a job later. I thought math was dull and pretty pointless. People told me how useful it was, but as I had never seen anyone use the quadratic equation or a sine wave in real life, I thought it was mostly pointless theory. When I went to college, I wanted to major in music or english, because I thought those subjects were fun.
Then I got to college, and ended up majoring in computer science. I took calculus. The combination of the computer science education and calculus taught me how much math describes everything (including the music I wanted to major in earlier), and how I could use math to greatly improve my programming and music hobbies I've started using vector calculus in my free time. I buy programming and math books out of my own pocket, not for class, but because I genuinely enjoy reading them and applying what's in them. Half of what I've learned in college I learned on my own, because I enjoy doing it.
The thing is, if it wasn't for my high school education, I wouldn't have had the background to get into programming or calculus and really understand them. High school gave me a stepping off point into the fields that I really wanted to learn. The problem is that high school forces you to memorize basic math, science, grammar, etc. without telling you why you want to learn it in the first place.
I had no idea what I wanted to do in high school, I had to wait until college before I found what I wanted to do. It's ironic that what I do now, math and science, is almost a direct opposite to what I wanted to do when I finished high school.
The point of all that rambling is that high school tries to teach you a bunch of everything. When you're that age, you have no idea what you want to do. You learn about Jay Gatsby because, for all the school (or you) knows, you may really want to be an English critic. You learn about simplifying multivariable equations in math because you just might want to go into higher mathematics later. You might think you don't. You might think you hate math and everything to do with it, but you may be wrong. I sure was.
High school tries to make sure you know just enough about everything so that when you do figure out what you want to focus on, you know enough to get started. College is when you get the depth of knowledge in your chosen field, and if you pick the right one, it's a blast.
It sounds like your high school is shafting you here, which is unfortunate. IMO, you should graduate high school, even if it seems pointless. A high school degree looks much, much better than a GED, and you're only going to be there one more year, so just bite the bullet. The second part of that plan is not too bad though, I know several people who went to a community college and then made the jump to a university.
Hopefully this text wall actually answers your question. Looking over it, I'm not entirely sure about that, but I thought you may be interested in the experience of someone who was where you were 5 years ago. | It's not that education is worthless; far from it. It's that yours hasn't really started yet. | [
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So, here's some background and the situation my wife and I find ourselves in. We have two dogs, a 12 YO Jack Russell-Dachshund and a 6 YO Black and Tan Coonhound-Australian Shepherd mix. This past weekend while they were being boarded, our vet took in a new cat (age unknown) and all three played together famously at the vet's office. Because the cat was homeless, my wife and I decided to foster her for a few days to see if she would be a good fit for our family.
Our Jack Russell mix could care less. He's content sleeping in his bed, and will sniff the kitty but really just doesn't seem to mind her presence.
Our hound mix is a different story though. When we first brought them together (with our dog off leash) she sniffed at her pretty hard, particularly around the hindquarters (as you would expect a dog to do) and began kind of mouthing the cat (which the cat didn't really seem to react to). My wife and I got a little concerned, so we cordoned the cat off to the room we have set up for her, and all other introductions with the hound mix have been on leash. She's still sniffing at her pretty hard, and when we try to correct/pull her back on the leash, she starts to react a little poorly, and has "nipped" at the cat once or twice. We tried putting the cat on a table so they could interact that way (with the hound still on her leash) and it got a little better, but our hound is still pretty obsessed with her.
At first, when the cat was cordoned off to the bedroom, our hound would scratch, whine and bark at the door. This morning, we noticed that she was just laying by the door (only really scratching if the cat was whining to get out) seeming somewhat protective of the cat (or sizing her up for a meal). However, we had the same moment this morning with an on-leash introduction where the hound is really trying to play hard, and starts to nip a little bit when we pull her back. (Truth be told, I think our dog thinks it's a moving chew toy which has me concerned.)
So my question is this: if we wanted to try and add the cat to our family, is this a normal reaction by a younger dog to a new animal in the house, or does this seem more like it's leaning towards an aggressive stance where we should go ahead and have the vet try and place the cat somewhere else? Is there a better way to try and "introduce" the two with some level of control other than keeping the dog on leash where she starts to interpret playing with the cat as something she's being corrected for? | Trying to add a cat to a family of two dogs; having some issues with one of them. | [
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I like doing Squats, but I would really like to prevent any injuries to my knees, because I also like my knees. So someone told me to get knee wraps, which I did. I also box, and can wrap my hands very well. I thought it'd essentially be the same thing, but the wraps I got, have a loop on one end, and velcro on the other. Umm, came with no instructions, and I can't find the "how-to" on Google. So, question is, how do I use this style of knee wrap? | How do I wrap my knee using the wraps that have a loop on one end, and velcro on the other? | [
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A huge theme in asoiaf is that the characters are humans with their own unique strengths and weaknesses. I think it makes it interesting. None of the main contendors for the throne would actually be very good at ruling much of anything.
Robb is a fifteen-year-old kid (18? in the show) who wants to kill the people who killed his dad. Somehow he ends up being crowned King in the North, but he's like Ned. Great commander, really shitty politician who doesn't fucking listen to any kind of sensible advice.
Cat is a mother first. It's what she's been trained for her whole life and now everything is falling apart. She lost her husband, thinks her youngest sons are dead, her eldest is fighting on the front lines of every battle, her home has been sacked by this kid she helped raise and her daughters are being held captive by her enemies. A lot of people get really frustrated with her priorities, you're definitely not alone in that.
Stannis knows Joff isn't Robert's son, which makes him the legitimate heir. Too bad none of the other characters like him enough to support his claim.
Renly wants to be king because he thinks it would be fun.
Dany wants to be queen because she thinks it's her birthright, what with Robert taking the throne from her dad.
The Lannisters are trying to hold on to their power and without democracy the common people aren't especially important for that. Also, Cersei's an incompetent bitch who doesn't give a shit.
As for people starving, winter is coming. Seasons in Westeros last for years, so you need to spend most of autumn bringing in a couple of last harvests and saving food for the next years. Instead you have five kings starting a huge war, so the resources go to the armies and the crops that haven't been brought in already get burned by the enemy. | Being a peasant in Westeros fucking sucks. | [
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Am I the only one who doesn't find the first milking of a cows udder a weird concept? we domesticated countless animals that fed their young via milk which we witnessed. Humans DIRECTLY observed calves drink from a cows udder for milk. Humans fed their young with their milk from the beginning of time... | First human who decided to drink cow milk is not weird, hard to believe, or remotely shocking in the slightest... | [
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This is completely incorrect. When Aang learns how to energy-bend, he's taught that thousands of years earlier (before people even bent the elements) everyone used to bend energy. It was a manifestation of balance and eventually the technique was lost. So that completely ruins your third point, that humans weren't supposed to have that power.
Meanwhile, Republic City may be a mix of bending, but the four nations still exist and are still separate, this is just one city. So again, completely wrong.
Then, of course, there's the fact that Amon wasn't energy-bending, he was blood-bending. | Did you even watch the show??? | [
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Tzeentch involves the more generic/derivative aspect of genre wizard/demon/magic stuffs. Meh. Though I suppose there's the birdie thing. But that doesn't appeal to anyone I've ever met, fluffwise (cats would no doubt be a different story).
Slaanesh requires depictions and descriptions of carnal things and is a problem for the marketing and PR guys who fear negative press and revenue issues. Something something children. | Cos boring; cos tits. | [
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We began by talking to each other using Tinder. I didn't know what I was looking for, I guess I was just sad and lonely. He asked for a date after about 3 days of talking, and I was super excited about it. Generally I am the one who has to be forward in online dating as no one pursues me. Let's fast forward to how things have been going.
So texting each other has been a guessing game for me. When do I text, how much is too much, should we alternate who texts first, should I not text conversation questions? I've kept it in check and text about once a day, even though what I want to do is just chat randomly all day. I'm telling myself guys don't like that.
I'm actively avoiding sexual acts, in an attempt to prolong his interest and know if this'll not be a one time thing. We make out and tease each other, like horny teenagers I guess, and it's just as hard for me to stop as it is for him to make sure it doesn't go to far for my sake. He's been mature, doesn't pressure or beg, and it's really kept my confidence up. But am I bad for doing this for my own reasons? Will it infact make him avoid me because I always leave him sexually frustrated? I screw up all the time with sex because I'm eager to have it and it becomes a defining characteristic of my personality taking priority over what I want to be important. I havn't had sex with a real boyfriend in 5 years, and I really want to be cared for in that way.
You see, I am scared too fall on old habits that have constantly left me unfulfilled and alone. My "normal" is seeing and talking to the guy all the time as that makes me happy. But I hate to be distant because of that. | I don't want to be labeled a clingy crazy bitch. I don't want to mess up this good thing I got going. It's a building block to being normal. | [
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For the love of wireless, get him an extra access point and a long ethernet cable to connect it back to the main network -- not a "range extender" product. Range extenders do the backhaul to the main network over the wireless signal, meaning clients all across your network will see dramatic speed reductions, increased latency, etc. Installing an access point that uses an Ethernet cable for backhaul to the main network will give a nice strong signal in a new area without interfering with your existing wireless network signal.
UniFi AP or AP-Pro is a fun choice if you want the upper end of the home market, but most consumer-grade "wireless routers" have an "access point" mode nowadays. | Do it! Just do it properly. Skip the range extender. | [
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Ok...here's my experience, for what it's worth.
As someone who has only been playing a few years, a few months ago I developed a bad case of the shanks. It literally almost made me quit for good. Imagine playing 18 (walking, no less) with a new partner (an older member of my course) and shanking almost every. single. iron shot.
Thankfully, he was a good sport and offered pointers, but to no avail. I couldn't see my own swing and therefore couldn't see my error. While my partner drove the round, I walked seemingly defeated and deflated with every shot from the fairway...or every iron shot regardless.
Then, on the 16th fairway...we see a golf cart buzzing toward us (opposite the normal direction), and my partner and I looked at each other and wondered who the heck? Well, turns out it was the golf pro. I had mentioned to him that I was having problems and needed to schedule a lesson. Just so happens, he decided to take a ride out to find us and look at my problem. My partner and I looked at each other and laughed when I said..."you know you're having a bad round when the pro comes out to find you."
He watched, mostly silent, while I hit nearly every shot off the hosel and to the right of everything. When the round was over, we headed to the hitting area and worked on it for about 45 minutes. He had me bring the club waaaaayyyy inside and got me hitting massive hooks. But only after I slowed everything down. I found my problem was my tempo along with my arms leaving my body. Once I slowed it all down (with a slight pause at the top), I was able to stay on the desired plane. | Keep your biceps connected to your chest and slow down your tempo. It helped me tremendously. | [
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I (24F) really tried to keep this short, but it's kind of a mess. Sorry.
In the summer of 2011, I met a guy and we started hooking up/talking. He was the first person I felt emotionally attached to after getting out of a very long relationship and having several very bad rebounds. I liked him A LOT and I wanted the relationship to go somewhere, but he kept me at arm's length, showing just enough interest to keep me on the hook. I finally talked to him about "us" 6 months later, he said he wasn't interested, and I (pathetically) continued to hang out/hook up with him on and off for another 6 months. (I only went outside of our situation once, 4 months after he told me he didn't want to be with me. I was holding out for him, and I think loyalty is important, even though we weren't "together").
About 2 months ago, I got together with an acquaintance of mine. Things were really good. I felt differently about him than I ever had about my long FWB. He made me feel really good about myself, I felt like I could be 100% myself, and things just felt like a really good fit. It was wonderful. I told my FWB I had met someone, and we didn't talk as much after that. Things with the guy I was seeing didn't work (I wanted a relationship, he didn't - I wasn't waiting 6 months this time to talk about my feelings). I was sad.
After this happened, I hung out (very) drunkenly with my FWB. He tried to make me feel better about the other guy, and he told me that he wanted to take me out on a date, I said okay, and I told him I had missed him, etc. etc. But after (soberly) re-evaluating the full situation, I realize that I don't think I can actually be with him. It's just too much. I waited for him for a very long time, and he knew this. I let him keep me on the hook, even though it made me feel terrible about myself. I cared for him a great deal, and never felt that he cared on the same level for me. And it was only when he saw me with someone else that he decided he wanted me? This makes me... sad. I also don't think he will be able to provide me with the emotional support that I know I need. We've been friends in addition to hooking up on and off for the last year, and I think I know him pretty well in this sense.
I feel really guilty. I know that it took my FWB a long time to get into a place where he could admit that he wanted to try to be with me. But at the same time, I gave him chance after chance after chance and sacrificed my happiness along the way. I don't feel that I can be fully myself with him, especially when it comes to more emotional things. He just shuts down. It has been a constant back and forth game with him - when I show interest he doesn't, when I back off/move on, he does. I don't like this!
I don't want to hurt him, nor do I want to lead him on. I'd like to be his friend, but I also recognize that we have a complicated history and that if/when I get involved with someone seriously again, it isn't fair to whomever I am with to remain close with my FWB (he just fucks my shit up!)
How can I let my FWB down easy? I don't want to be mean. I feel like I should have walked away from him for real a long time ago, and now I just don't want to hurt him. | FWB of over a year has finally come around and decided he wants to try being with me. This only happened after he saw me with someone else. I just don't think I have the energy for it anymore. How do I let him down nicely? | [
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I feel like we just had this thread like a week ago.
Found it. [3 days]( ago. | you're just being anal. | [
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Persistence. I played many NES games growing up.
You come up against a difficult and inconceivably difficult challenge. It's a difficult boss, a really hard scenario, or an overly daunting challenge.
Complaining isn't going to help you. The game itself doesn't care that you die a million times. Asking for help in terms of having someone else beat it for you is not doing the accomplishment yourself. And yet, to get the prize, you need to work harder to be able to surpass that challenge.
So you fight over and over and over again. You're forced to be creative, to notice patterns, to recognize weaknesses. You have to plan by getting items or collecting things. You become so precise because the punishments are so brutal that you simply get really, really good. And after being victorious finally, I went back and got even better.
After a while I realized it's not the goal at the end, but the journey that really mattered. I got better at something difficult. I can do it with the right tools.
It's incredibly applicable for my current life. Things are difficult, people put up hurdles, and you need to think on your feet. I'm in a situation now where I see so many co-workers simply complaining and giving off airs to make themselves feel better. FUCK THAT! I want to know how hard something is so that I can plan and beat its ass! The same way I beat the original Ninja Gaiden, or beat Mario 3 without the warp whistles, or beat Ikaruga on one credit, etc. | When things get tough, you need to get back on that saddle and try again. | [
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I'm 20, I live in London. Today was a beautiful day so I went to my local park because I wanted to play on a swing. At the gate of the park I was greeted by a stern women that informed me that the park was only for parents with children under the age of 12.
The park is big, and has really great swings.
So... Is this legal? Or, is there anything I can do about it? I really want to be able to play on some swings! | Tried to go into my local park and was stopped. | [
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Here's the problem with your post - it starts from a false premise. No one (at least no one I have seen) is asking for a game "designed for us". We're asking for a game that works as advertised.
You need to consider the fact that the rise in negative posts has also correlated to the rise in game-breaking glitches, which Bungie has ignored. (But they jump on exploits like a teenage girl on a designer purse.)
The heavy weapon ammo glitch, disappearing swords in the Crota fight, Crota not kneeling when his shield is depleted, minotaurs coming back to life in Atheon, disappearing vault items, just off the top of my head. None of this gets addressed, but people despawning thralls in the bridge (something almost no one cared about) is priority one.
And please do not try the tired old "You don't know how hard this could be to fix" line. Several easy-to-implement interim solutions have been proposed right here in this subreddit, like changing "Carry more heavy ammo" to "Find more heavy ammo with this equipped" to prevent ammo loss. We know they can do that on raid gear, because they have already changed other perks. But despite all the massive outcry from customers, important problems get ignored in favor of cheeses no one cares about. And eventually, people get rightfully fed-up with paying money for something and not getting what they were promised.
I believe you are thinking about this from your perspective and putting yourself in Bungie's place. I don't know you or your work ethic, but I am betting you are assuming that they are doing everything they can to fix this stuff, possibly because you would to that yourself. But they aren't, as demonstrated by the heavy ammo example above. | We don't want a game "Designed for us" just one that actually works properly. | [
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I will try to explain a bit more because I don't want to confuse you.
Energy is not coming out of nowhere, and I think that's what I'm trying to drive at, actually. The energy of the system is constant. However, the mass and momenta of the individual components of the system are not necessarily constant.
Take our example of ^155 Dy , which is some 40keV higher in energy than the ground state. This difference is not imaginary. The universe is not keeping tabs behind the scenes. This is manifest in the higher mass of ^155 Dy compared to ^155 Dy. When the excited state decays, essentially all of the energy associated with this mass difference goes into creating a photon with 40keV/c momentum. But the photon itself is massless, so the total mass of the system changed, but the energy did not, since momentum also contributes to energy via E^2 = p^2 + m^2 .
The energy is conserved, but the mass of the system changed and was converted into an energetic photon whose energy is essentially (up to the recoil energy of the nucleus, which is negligible) equal to the mass difference of the excited state and the ground state of ^155 Dy.
There are other examples, such as alpha and beta decay, but since they generally involve multiple massive particles, the illustration is less clear, though the principles are still true. In fact, a Q-value in nuclear decay is essentially the mass difference between the initial and final states, and this is the total energy available for the kinetic energy of the daughter products.
Anti-matter can be created naturally, and cosmologically the difference in matter and anti-matter creation by the universe itself is very small and relates to what is now studied as the strong CP problem. The reason there is so little matter in the universe is because most of all matter created was basically instantly annihilated by neighboring anti-matter, and what we see around us is due to an imbalance in the creation of matter over anti-matter in the early universe. | Mass is energy, but not all energy is mass, and mass can be converted into other kinds of energy and is thus not constant even though the total energy, including those other kinds, does remain constant. | [
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How do you expect next season to go?
I feel this is our strongest team as long as I can remember, in terms of how well balanced and the depth for position we have rather than individual talent.
Realistically in my opinion I feel like 7th would be a successful season by all accounts. With the money both Inter and Milan have brought they will outperform us. Not sure about Fiorentina.
We do still need another striker. Amauri has the presence of a wet paper bag, Martinez hasn't performed at all, and Qualiarella and Maxi aren't enough for a 3-5-2. I'm happy just about everywhere else (not sold on Obi or Acquah to a certain extent) but with Baselli I think being an upgrade on El Kad and Zappacosta arguably having a higher ceiling than Darmian. Avelar is a very good signing for the money and an upgrade on playing Molinaro often.
With no Europe this season, maybe we can use that old Premier League bullshit excuse of no European football to distract.
In terms of a new striker, we missed out on Defrel, rumours of Zapata have died once Darmian went to Manchester United and Palermo seem to want to hold out on Belotti. Maybe Cairo will do his thing in signing over the hill 34 year olds for us! And I don't rate Abel Hernandez at all. He never even impressed me for Palermo, worth nowhere near €3 million, or the wages. | if we manage to sign a halfway decent striker, keep Maksimovic and Peres there is an outside chance of making the top 6. I find it hard to be optimistic and it's not a feeling I'm used to as a Toro supporter.
Prediction overall: 7th | [
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My landlord, on a number of ocassions, has misrepresented the property before we leased it for the year. Most things we're fine with, just wish we would've been told about before. They were really nice at first when showing us the property but after the lease was signed they've been so slimey. The biggest concern, and the reason for my post, is that the ad in which we signed the lease off of and based on information when we looked at the house, said that there was central air conditioning. We moved in March 1st and it was still freezing, so we had zero reasoning to check on the air conditioning. Now that its June and the weather is getting really hot we went to turn on the air conditioning only to find out that we have none. She told us on the walk through that we had the air conditioner, and after we signed the lease she told us that we have to change the filters in the basement year around, otherwise it'll be added to our rent if they have to do it. So we have filters to change on an AC that doesn't exist, and we are two "high functioning, very sick" people who can not breathe in hot air. The landlord says its not her responsibility and that the website that featured the house can change the ad at will and nothing she can do about it. So now we have to buy air conditioners for the house, ANOTHER added expense due to their misrepresentation of the house. Neither of us would've signed a lease had she not told us and the ad (which is still up, although not listed as for rent) states that there was central air. We feel totally taken advantage of. ALSO, every window in the house is slider/horizontal windows so the A/C units that fit in them are like, no less then $400 which neither of us can afford.
Is there anything we can do legally to get her to either provide them or split the cost with us? ANYTHING? | my slimy landlord told us we had central air, we find out in June it was a big fat lie and are now forced to buy AC units that are affordable :( | [
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I can't speak for specific accents, but in general they arise through geographical separation because of the ever changing nature of language. Take English for instance: today's modern talk sounds quite different from Shakespearean English of old (or should I say olde). If there's enough distance between groups of people, then their own language evolution progresses differently than the change of another group.
Additionally, the sheer amount of immigrants in the country's short history undoubtedly contributed to the development of accents. The U.S. is a very ethnically diverse nation, and our language reflects it. That being said, I don't think it has any more accents than a similar sized country. You probably don't notice accents of different languages, but in the UK, think of all different accents! And that's in an area minuscule compared to the size of America. People forget how big and spaced out things are here. It's perfect for the development of assorted accents. | separation allows languages to evolve independently. The U.S. has a normal amount of variation in accents, considering its size and ethnic diversity. | [
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Yes, if you get on USPS3, you'd have to make a new character.
Also, CR. CR stands for Combat Rating, and it gives you a general idea of how good your gear is. If you look at the stats for every piece of gear, you'll see at the bottom there is a statistic called Item Level. This is sort of like the Combat Rating of that piece of gear. There's another on right next to the Item Level called PvP Item Level, but I'll get into that, next. The way CR is calculated is by taking the average of all your gear's Item Levels. Each piece is not equal, however. Some gear has a larger effect on your CR than others. In addition to the base Item Level of your gear, it can be increased individually by putting mods on your gear. Mods are another subject entirely, but basically, they add stats to your gear, making it better, and thereby increasing your CR. Once you mod a piece, a green number will appear in brackets next to the Item Level, and this is how much the mod increased that piece's Item Level by.
There is also PvP CR, which is a little different. It's the same as regular CR, but it is affected by PvP Item Level instead, and adding mods does not affect your PvP CR. | CR is how good your gear is. Increase it by getting gear with higher Item Level or by modding.
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In high school, at a tech trade school, they gave everyone laptops. Shitty laptops, but they played Quake2. And during lunch people would play and whine about dying, and lag and I hated listening to it. So I made a shortcut to run that ping command with the big payload. And I ran it about 100 times, along with two of my friends.
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Last year my group of friends meet an attractive girl. This girl has a mutual friend who I’ve known for a year or so, lets call her Sam. I jokingly ask for tips from Sam to benefit me. After one party I end up messaging Sam to come chill and cuddle as a joke, which she followed through with and we ended up sleeping together. I've only slept with 4 girls prior to that, I was not really attracted to her, and it made me feel very awkward/weird.
We agree it's once off. After that we chill together now and then. One day the family member I live with renovates the house and we’re only able to move back in 9 months later. I move in with Sam who owns a large house given to her by her father, renting my own room for a good price. I freelance, she works Mon-Fri, sweet house, all good. 1 rule: don’t bring bitches over to have sex with.
Relocation makes me work-orientated after being a bit of a party animal. Not keen to go out much anymore. Wake up 5:30AM. Go on runs, do my freelance work, make money, smoke weed, chill. Become a bit unaware of the outside world. After a month or two Sam loses her job. She’s at home all the time. I’m a source of entertainment. For 1 month she's ill/bed-ridden and I look after her. We eat every meal together, chill together, etc. We naturally become close. We have very occasional random sex with each other. However, we’re never affectionate outside sex time. The sex still feels weird for me. We never sleep in each other’s bed after. I can tell she’s kinda into me though, although she says all the time ‘that’s the last time.’ We have sex without condoms, so we both agree to inform the other if we ever start sleeping with someone else.
As we spend more and more time together and with each other 24/7 a fight happens here and there. Sometimes about a random subject, house cleanliness, a comment passed, etc. She gets a little weird about chick friends coming to smoke. Sometimes we both get a little crazy. I’ve said I was going to kill myself and she had a family member commit suicide last year. I know that was selfish and stupid to say, but it was said in the heat of the moment after she’s literally driven me to brink of insanity. One day she also randomly breaks down and tells me she wants to kill herself (after not even fighting). After a particular fight I can’t take anymore and move in with another family member that day. This was after she told me I was lazy because I put the dishes above the dishwasher (I was running around the house collecting them all first).
I told her I can’t handle her and that’s the end of our friendship. She rocks up one day crying and asking if that’s how I wants to end things. I told her yes I’m over it. After a few weeks she sells her place. I’m struggling to live with the new family member. She’s looking after her parent’s house while they are away for 2 months so I’m going there to escape my situation and chill with her. We end up sleeping with each other now and then. One time she lets me do her doggystyle for the first time and she cries after. Ask her about it and she doesn’t want to bring it up. One day she confronts me and says it’s been like 7 months since we first slept together, we need to make it official and inform people or end things so she can move on to other guys or whatever. For me she is not someone I would date, although I enjoy her company. I tell her we shouldn’t move forward with it. She makes a FB status about being ‘rejected’. I also can’t move into her new place for a month or 2 because when guys shes dating come over it will be ‘awkward’. I also cant smoke cigarettes or weed anywhere on the property. Have to go out the gate. Fuck that, I decide I’ll survive with the family member.
I go on holiday for 2 weeks. I see her the week I get back for lunch. A week later we go on a walk together and at the end she confronts me and says if we’re going to be platonic friends going forward I need to apologize for all the hurtful things I did. That she needs closure. That if I care I'll do it. That after every fight I never apologized. I asked her to be more specific about what she is referring to and she asked me to come up with as many points as I can remember. She said if I don’t give her an apology that we can’t be friends, just say hello to each other in public. This confuses the shit out of me. I was a dick at times but was I that bad? And what about all the things she did to me that pissed me off? I ask her about that. She tells me to stop playing the victim and whatnot. Asks me which time she never apologized? She ends up leaving me in her car at the mountain we’re walking at. Walk home is an hour and a half.
And now I’m here on reddit, typing this message. How do I go forward with this apology? I feel bad for some shitty things I did but I feel like in a way I'm being abused here. Right now I'm thinking of apologizing and walking away from this friendship, because its too strenuous on me even though I enjoy her company. Any advice on the situation would be appreciated! | Moved in with friend. Ended up screwing a bunch of times. Fighting a bunch of times. Now asked to give an apology for the hurtful things I did. | [
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That it isn't a "male problem." It makes me angry to see men excuse their perversion because "I'm a guy that's just how we are more sexual than women." There is no excuse for sin, even gender.
Here is a revised comment I wrote in response to someone else a few days ago:
Women have more erogenous zones than men, multiple orgasms, and the only organ (clitoris) that has the sole purpose of sexual pleasure. Biology points to women being more sexual than men.
Our society tells us all guys are pervs and all women are chaste or "slutty." It's up to us to break gender stereotypes and accept that we're all people, and we all have different tastes, and our surroundings shape us more than our gender does; though ultimately, we choose to watch porn, we choose to read erotica, we choose to either chase or hide our sexuality. | If I am watching porn it is because I made that choice, not because my gender bid me do it. | [
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I should have said "no Creative Commons license" when I just said "no license" -- I was speaking strictly of Creative Commons, and read it in my head (as things released as open source don't have a CC license), but didn't transfer that in the post; that's my bad.
There is a license of course, but it's not a Creative Commons one, as those often withold several rights that most open sources licanses don't.
>My interpretation of this case was that the license for the content is CC-by-3.0 (the exact one he links to)
I see a difference now -- Pepper&Carrot episodes are released as Creative Commons attribution versus Pepper&Carrot episodes are released with source files
I completely missed the definition there, and thought he was saying he was releasing the episodes both under a CC license and under an open source license :facepalm: | of this thread: I made a stupid. /u/luxliquidus defined the bit I missed -- thanks for that! | [
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I don't know what it is about older women, but at past jobs, there are VERY few that I can actually get along with. I consider myself a pretty easy going gal, I can't get into that catty complaining nonsense and I think it unnerves other women.
At one particular job at a doggy daycare, my manager would get continually upset that I busted my ass for theme days. I rocked theme days because I loved creativity (decorating the office and kennel in different themes, as well as a themed party for the pups every Friday). I was only part time, working barely minimum wage, not really looking for anything else because it was just extra income and work was a five minute drive from home in a major city. I think she felt threatened though, she fired me when I called in one day (ONE day, after working there for months) because I had to take my rat to the vet to be put to sleep, she said I was shirking my duties. | manager was jealous I was awesome and she wasn't, fired me. | [
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Madeup names:
My wife: Amber
The friend: Kelly
My buddy at the Halloween party: Bob
So my wife Amber and I are in an LDR temporarily due to needing jobs in different cities (about 5hr apart). Also Amber is from China and I'm from the U.S, while we live in the U.S. We visit each other about every other weekend because some weekends we both just need time to relax and recharge and not have to drive 10hr. Amber is planning on moving to my city in the near future.
So I've been living here for about 6-7mo and just trying to enjoy life even though the LDR kind of sucks. I've met some cool people at work who ended up becoming a pretty good friends/social group, and they invited me to a Halloween party. Amber wasn't going to come down for the party because she hasn't really been feeling like parties lately, but says I should go.
So at the party I meet this girl Kelly and I get to talking with her. It turns out she's from the same city (in another country) that my wife is from, AND went to the same small middle of nowhere college in the U.S. as my mom! Small world! Kelly also works for the same megacorp as me and a bunch of the other partygoers.
So we exchange contact info and talk a bit more. At some point my buddy Bob (works for the same company as us too) joins the conversation, and it seems like Bob and Kelly are hitting it off and they swap numbers.
Week 1 after the Halloween party Kelly hits me up a few times over work IM asking about how to approach Bob and what sort of stuff to expect from him. I just say that I think Bob is a pretty good guy, and give her some general advice since I don't feel it's my place to interfere too much if they end up dating. I also forward Kelly invite to a lunch outing that our gang of work friends (including Bob) were going to attend.
Week 2 after the Halloween party Kelly and Amber talk on the phone and it turns out they're not just from the same city, but they had the same piano teacher. Super small world! We decide to do Korean food and karaoke that weekend when Amber is going to visit. At the same time, Kelly goes on a few dates with Bob, and decides that she doesn't like him romantically. That weekend Amber and I invite Kelly to hang out at my place. Eventually we decide to head out for Karaoke & lunch and everyone seems have a pretty good time. We get back to my place, invite a couple other friends over, hang out for awhile, and then head out to bars for drinks.
Week 3: Kelly asks if I want to cook some Chinese food with her and I accept because I freaking love Chinese food. She comes over to my place and we make some food and have dinner. Kelly also mentions that she's interested in the Costco 40-50mins away and I offer to take her sometime. Kelly decides later in the week that she needs to take a week and a half off to see her grandmother in China who is very ill.
Week 4: I spend some time working remotely with my boss's approval and visit Amber in her city for the entire Thanksgiving week.
Week 5: Kelly gets back from her trip and hits me up about carpooling to Costco over the weekend. My parents who live 3 hours away tell me they want to visit me and watch an IMAX movie together in a theater near Costco, so I'm thinking logistically maybe we can combine the trips if Kelly wants to see the movie as well. My spidey senses are telling me maybe it's not such a good idea though, since Amber might not want me to sit in a darkened theater with Kelly. I bring up the idea of the trip with Amber and her response is a bit worse than I expected....
Amber is pretty mad/upset and says that she questions Kelly's motives for spending so much time with me. She also says Kelly disrespected her by not asking permission to have dinner with me. Amber says she trusts me that I won't do anything with Kelly, but wants me to not spend so much time with a girl who is contacting me so frequently. She says that I shouldn't have responded to Kelly's questions about Bob. Amber also says that if Kelly contacts me that I should just ignore her half the time. She also says that I should always ask Amber's permission if I want to hang out with Kelly.
It turned out that my parents can't make it for the movie, but Amber and I still argue about Kelly. I tell Amber that I feel like I'm being controlled, since ignoring friends isn't something I like to do - I like to be sociable and I don't think that Kelly was flirting with me or anything like that..just seems like she wants to be friends with me. I haven't previously had many female friends, but I don't think it's too late to start.
I realize that since I'm new at the whole opposite sex friends thing that I might have spent a bit too much time with Kelly, but reading back through what I wrote just now I don't think either me or Kelly stepped over the line. Kelly doesn't really seem to be attracted to me, and I'm not attracted to her. We just seem to have a lot in common. She's also starting to get to know people in my social group, and seems to be getting along really well.
Week 6: Tonight Amber and I got into another argument about this since the movie thing was postponed until this week and Kelly asked if she could come along and meet my mom, and then check out a mall near the movie place. I passed the request on to Amber and she kind of blew up.
I just think the whole thing is really tiring. After I hung up the phone with Amber I was texting a friend of mine (not the same friend as Bob or the friend who went with us for karaoke), and he said he was out at a bar with Kelly and some people. I ended up turning him down because I wasn't totally clear on what Amber really wanted me to do, and I didn't want her to have another reason for hurt feelings, but I'm kind of annoyed about turning down a friend when I had nothing better going on.
All of this behavior is really strange coming from Amber since she's not shown much jealousy in our relationship before. Even though I'm married I still find some girls attractive, and am open with Amber about this. Amber's response is usually just to laugh and compare notes about who she finds attractive...it's kind of a game for us. Now I met someone who I'm not attracted to and just want to be friends with and Amber is jealous. Is it maybe because the reality of me spending time with someone of the opposite sex is too much to handle?
Should I bring this up with Kelly, and maybe explain why I need to ignore her and break off contact if it comes to that? How do I work on Amber's hurt feelings? How do I do this without feeling like I'm being stepped on? I'm really confused about what to do here. | My wife is insecure about me spending time with a new female friend. She wants me to ignore this new friend. Is my wife asking this of me a sign of her being controlling? Ignoring and cutting of contact with someone who I consider a friend isn't really something I've ever thought about doing. What should I do? | [
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Kelly also mentions that she's interested in the Costco 40-50mins away and I offer to take her sometime. Kelly decides later in the week that she needs to take a week and a half off to see her grandmother in China who is very ill. \n Week 4: I spend some time working remotely with my boss's approval and visit Amber in her city for the entire Thanksgiving week. \n Week 5: Kelly gets back from her trip and hits me up about carpooling to Costco over the weekend. My parents who live 3 hours away tell me they want to visit me and watch an IMAX movie together in a theater near Costco, so I'm thinking logistically maybe we can combine the trips if Kelly wants to see the movie as well. My spidey senses are telling me maybe it's not such a good idea though, since Amber might not want me to sit in a darkened theater with Kelly. 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Consult your doctor before doing any of these things or going off your medication :
First what does your diet look like? That's actually more important than you might think for something like ADD.
I would heavily consider [Light Therapy]( and [Dark Therapy]( Also, [here's a write up I did on them]( This is regardless of what you eat.
Choline + Inositol are heavily involved in pretty much any mood disorder ever.
Inositol is found in a high amount in citrus fruits and melons, and in moderate amounts in berries. Oranges and Cantaloupes are the two richest sources. A 6 month supply at 1g/day is [$10](
Choline is found in high amounts in eggs and fish, and decent amounts in other meat, also decently high in some cruciferous vegetables like spinach. Taking 2g/day [$12]( worth will last you 250 days.
ALCAR is a type of Carnitine. Carnitine has actually [occasionally been shown to help with ADD]( A full year's supply at 1.5g/day is [$18](
Magnesium also helps prevent a lot of problems associated with ADD and there's been several bits of anecdotal evidence that shows it helps prevent tolerance to ADD medications. It's found in decent amounts in many veggies (again, cruciferous veggies like kale/broccoli/spinach are a good source, fish is an okay source too). A 4 month supply is [$11]( but if you took half the dosage you could make it last 8 months.
Omega 3 Fatty acids help with a lot of stuff, and so do some nutrients like phosphatidylserine found in high amounts in some fish. Your best bet is to start eating low mercury fish like salmon, sardines, herring, or mackerel (atlantic/chub, not king/spanish) everyday. Alternatively you could take 3-6 capsules of fish oil everyday. A 6-12month supply is [$24]( | Your diet and sleeping schedule are extremely important for managing your disorder. Eat more fish and spinach/broccoli, adjust your sleep cycles to coincide with the sun or try light+dark therapy, eat more oranges. Supps that help: Choline, Inositol, ALCAR, Magnesium, Omega 3. | [
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I regularly use 5-6 grams when I take mushrooms. Granted, my first couple times were not that much... but I found that I kept wanting more, and 5 grams became normal for me after going through a couple ounces.
I introduced a friend to it, and only had right about 10 grams left... so I thought "hey, thats about 2 doses"... so we split it. I didn't realize until later that I had just given a very large dose to a very small female for her first time. She went insane. She was talking about completely off the wall stuff. I don't think it was a bad trip, though... cause she was happy throughout, and afterwords she told me it was a lot of fun. But I was really worried about her for a while there. | I'm a dumb ass, and probably a bad friend. | [
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So I'm military and only end up going to a jeweler/watchmaker for a couple years before I leave them behind - so I just went to a new jeweler who took some links off of a new buy for free and I asked him about replacing a mineral face or two off some of my watches for sapphire crystal faces: he quoted me at 40 - 50$ depending on size and possible special cuts.
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Too many instances where vehicles are used. Honestly the only thing I didn't like about Borderlands were the vehicles. While in a vehicle it took out one of the games main focuses which was the fps combat. The vehicles were clunky to drive, they had really bad collision detection, and the weapons were incredibly annoying to use even with the lock-on feature for the rockets . (Don't even get me started on the vehicle on vehicle combat) It also made exploration incredibly dull since the areas really weren't that big to begin with, and encouraged you to just run down any enemy you encountered along the way. Also while looking at Borderlands 2 gameplay from this so why are vehicles even necessary when we have unlimited sprint AND we had fast-travel. If the game world was a lot larger and more open (like in Skyrim) I could see vehicles being put to better use, but even in Skyrim I felt like using a horse wasn't very useful. You might also be thinking "No ones making you use them man." But that's not true, there are missions centered around using them AND an entire boss battle where you need to use a vehicle. Am i the only one who thinks this or do you guys agree that vehicles in borderlands were terrible? | I hated the vehicles in Borderlands and hope they aren't used as much in Borderlands 2 | [
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I don't want to act like NTs and I tell them that. Anyone who has a problem with that can go on their merry way. At some point you have to be happy with who you are and not try to change every thing about you. ASD is not a disease to me, it's my super power. It allows me to think of things from a different perspective, it lets me know where my boundaries are, and it lets me know that my NT friends like me for me and not because I make eye contact ect. | You can enjoy your "cure" but I'm fine the way I am.
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Geez. No need to shout.
> HOW ARE YOU NOT UNDERSTANDING THIS STATEMENT I'M MAKING AND WHY ARE YOU OPPOSING IT BASED ON A SEMANTICS ARGUMENT OF WHAT AN UNCLEAR DEFINITION OF A "SWEATSHOP" IS?
From [Wikipedia]( - "A sweatshop is a factory or workshop, especially in the clothing industry, where manual workers are employed at very low wages for long hours and under poor conditions."
This is a reasonable definition, no? I don't frankly understand how this term leads to a negative connotation, but that's beside the point.
Apologies about my very biased definition earlier. Sometimes I let my emotions get the better of me on issues like this.
You seem to think that the only reason we disagree is because we disagree on the definition, but frankly I don't agree that "Extremely poor, dangerous, or near-slavery (i.e., extremely poor) conditions" are immoral. On the contrary, those may be the sweatshops that do the most good. It depends on the circumstances.
> [Markets] are as moral as the people in them.
Markets are, in fact, amoral. They are a description of reality. Saying markets are moral or immoral is like saying that calculus is moral or immoral. I gathered earlier that you hold Krugman in some esteem, so [I'll let him make the point]( better than I could.
> If there is a shred of credible evidence that PROVES this to be an inevitable truth, then I'll reconsider.
I thought for a while about how to cite this. I considered being cheeky and just linking to the Wiki page for "Supply and Demand", but the truth is that it's a pretty basic economic concept. Businesses will seek to maximize profits, and part of doing that is by offering the lowest price they can. If they don't, their competitors will. [Perfect Competition]( is the relevant economic concept.
The | version - companies maximize profits, and imposing additional costs causes them to reduce production, or just close the factory altogether. If we want countries to reach a point of economic development where they can afford to impose those restrictions (i.e., ending child labor) we need to allow them to employ their workers and export, and let them get to that point on their own.
Sometimes that means employing workers in unspeakable conditions. I really wish there were a better way. | [
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It's true of upward mobility. It even happens on smaller scales; a girl I knew working as an, um, dancer, in a NY club made ridiculous cash compared to me, but she was required to have trendy new outfits every night. | to make a lot, you have to spend a lot. You could be the guy that drives an 81 honda and brings a bagged lunch to the board meeting, but good luck with career longevity by snubbing your peers. | [
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So I've been solo queuing IB Clash. My win rate has not been great (the pains of solo queue), and my k/d has ranged from .9 to 2.3. The games where I and my team have done the best, though, all have one thing in common: map control . We rush an area on the map, we bunker down, and all kills and plays start from that location. Please note this doesn't mean we camp . Camping doesn't get you kills or wins, makes you vulnerable and usually gives up map control to your opponents.
In Control, maintaining map control is a given, because that is the objective. To win, you need to control 2 of the zones. But just because the game doesn't tell you there is an objective does not mean Clash is just sprint around with a shotgun/DoP/MIDA/whatever. Games where people do this usually end badly, because it is a terrible strategy (its not a strategy at all, actually). Playing Clash is fundamentally the same as Control. You need to control the map. Control basically teaches you how to play Clash. The only real difference is that Control tells you how to get map control and gives you bonus points for controlling the map. In Clash, you have to figure out how to control the map (with the upside that you can choose where you're fighting) and the only bonuses map control gives you is 1) space to move and position and 2) predictability of opponent movements. While you don't get bonus points for map control, these 2 factors forge the path to a breezy win in Clash.
So, even though the gamemode is Clash, it should still be played like Control. Exerting map control, and dominating the most advantageous portion of the map, are just as important in Clash as they are in Control, even though the game isn't telling you should defend something. You're primary objective should be to occupy a good spot on the map, and defend it. It could be A flag and B flag. It can be any spot your team thinks is good. If you are solo queuing, you may have to suck it up and just go wherever your team has decided they want to play, even if you don't want to, as long as your team has some area to call its own. Then prioritize getting as many kills as you can, while maintaining control of this area. Spawn flips are just as bad in Clash as they are in Control. | Play Clash like you're playing Control. Exert map control, don't flip spawns. Make your and your teammates lives easy. | [
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So I had an odd thought about the universe, and I thought you may enjoy it, but it needs a lot of groundwork to make any sense at all...
We've examined the radiation at the edge of the visible universe, it's an odd patchwork of light and dim areas. Those patches of light eventually become galaxy clusters, and the dim areas become empty void. Through a lot of science, that would take around an hour to explain, we can use the distances between galaxy clusters on the very edge of the visible universe to determine the shape of the universe on a four dimensional plain.
There are three types of universes we know of each with odd properties, but we've determined that ours is "flat". What that means is a little hard to explain. Basically, in a round universe you could go in one direction and end up where you started, much like you would if you went around the Earth. But in our universe, it's basically that the world is flat. I don't mean that the world is actually flat, it's round, but the universe is such that if you go in one direction forever, you'll just end up moving in that direction. You won't end up where you started, you won't have changed direction at all. You would have just hurtled infinitely out into space.
Why does that matter? Well, it means a few things. The first is that the universe will never collapse. One of the other two is static, and the third will collapse. Ours though, is infinite, not only will it never collapse, but it will always expand.
But what happens as everything spreads out? What happens as every individual particle separates farther and farther from every other? Well, simply put it becomes nothingness. Not only will particles spread apart, their components will as well. The universe will end up being infinite in size, but have nothing inside it.
Sounds depressing doesn't it? The universe will just become nothingness, right? Well quantum mechanics says that isn't the case. Quantum mechanics states that nothingness is actually something. That sounds really counter-intuitive, and it is, but we've done studies, and discovered that 90% of the mass of a proton comes from the empty space inside of it. Not only that, but that the empty space isn't consistent at all! Matter appears and disappears near instantly inside protons. What this has to do with anything, is that it means nothingness, isn't. Nothingness creates mass, it creates energy.
So if the universe is infinite, and nothingness spontaneously and consistently produces somethingness, then theoretical physicists claim that everything that could happen will happen. They claim that anything with any likelihood of occurring will occur. So, the odds that you will read this, slim though they may be, will eventually result in you reading this, and responding. The question is though, will it be you, having come back from what you've just done, or will it be an instance of you having just popped into reality reading this? That's the million dollar question.
As it is, you aren't exactly you. Every two years 99% of the atoms in your body are replaced. Your consciousness isn't consistent either, it's updated every time there are changes in the structure of your brain's neurons.
The odds that you exist as an entity consistently from conception to the very moment you are reading this is slim, the odds that the universe formed in such a way that life could form is slim, the odds that life could exist on this planet long enough to develop intelligence is slim, the odds that you would be born in America at an age in which communication is near instant across the globe and in low orbit, is slim. Adding all the slim odds that you've existed consistently from start to finish together, and it is almost more likely that you don't.
This is where I break from what has been more or less proven. If anything could just pop into existence at any point somewhere in the infinite universe, then (although the situation I just described, mathematically MUST happen) you could argue, potentially quite well, that your consciousness is hopping between island instances formed out of nothingness, and quickly returning to nothingness.
I have trouble making this into an analogy, but films seem to work the best. You could pause a film for hours, but the characters wouldn't be aware of it. As soon as you hit play again, they would continue right where they left off. For them, nothing has changed, and there has been no pause at all. There could be billions, trillions of years in between each nanosecond you comprehend, but you would never know, because to your consciousness those snapshots would be like frames in a film, constantly flowing. | You may exist as a serious of unconnected snapshots through the infinity of the universe. | [
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It's a long one. [I...I just have a lot of feelings.](
> I'm going to guess that you've never tried to play a normal class with multiple infiltrators on your team
A normal class? Why are infiltrators special? I play lots of different classes: Turian Sentinel, Human Engineer, Asari Adept, whatever. I really feel like you're just picking on infiltrators.
> infiltrators won't notice a difference because they're running around cloaked being infiltrators
Good Infiltrators don't just pick off the one or two targets on the side, and then call it a day. We're there standing with the team, and thin out the incoming wave significantly. Spamming Cryo/Energy Drain to stagger and debuff/strip shields, and then we take down lots of little targets, or focus down the big one first.
> the mob of enemies closing in on their position from all sides that they can't escape from because the infiltrators are slowly killing them one at a time.
Getting overwhelmed sucks. I know it. But I've been overwhelmed in lots of party compositions. Engineers who are spamming drones that don't catch aggro, that dumb asari who isn't bubbling nearly enough, those Krogan Soldiers/Sentinels that are unkillable but don't kill things fast enough either. Bad players are more responsible than just bad classes.
> While it's true that infiltrators can rez their teammates, it's also true that they can't really do all that much to help them once they're up and in the middle of a crowd of enemies.
I've found that you have like 1-2 seconds of invulnerability right after you get up, so after a rez, I just usually book it somewhere, and the other player does too. And if there are really too many non mooks around, then it's hard for any class to clear them fast enough to have a window to revive. Drell Reave/Cluster, really any of the Biotic Combos, or nading is probably your best bet, but still, you've got your work cut out for you if you're at the point where a simple rez and run isn't going to cut it.
> You would literally always be better off with an adept or an engineer on your team instead of a second infiltrator.
Second infiltrator...I dunno. I concede third. But you know what? I can't really argue against this point anyways, because in some sense, yeah I think you might be right. Engies and Adepts are pretty swell classes, and bio combos/overload are super useful. That's not really what irked me about your post.
> The real problem is that many infiltrator players seem to only play that class, meaning that if they join a game that already has an infiltrator, they have nothing else to bring to the table. In fact, any one-dimensional player is going to be far less useful on average than someone with a mastery of several different classes and playstyles...
C'mon dude! That's pretty weak. I play as an infiltrator because I love the damage spike that cloak gives me, and head shots are pretty sweet. But I love playing as my Turian Sentinel because I'm a tank that can strip shields and weaken armor. I usually strap on a Carnifex and work next to my team mates - getting in my fix of headshots there as well. Or if I'm tired of aiming down the sights, I just switch up to a Human Sentinel or Asari Adept, and let those Bio Combos fly. But in my heart, because I started as an infiltrator, it's my favorite class.
When I join up with silver lobbies, there's usually not some big shuffle to make sure that our party is well optimized. I just make sure everyone has a sufficient character/N7 level, and then I ready up with whatever character I happen to be playing as then. Occasionally, I will either step in or out of my infiltrator, but it really doesn't matter to me. If I have good teammates, we'll do well. If not, we'll do poorly. I'll adapt my playstyle to fit with what my team is doing, and I usually end up having a good time.
(I assume that everything we're talking about is outside of bronze, because bronze is straight forward enough to not care about really any of this stuff. And Gold? Whatever. More optimized teams for gold, sure. But for all the gold runs I've done, there are usually at least two infiltrators, one Salarian one Quarian, and for me it still boils down to good players rather than good classes.)
Some people don't like infiltrators, that's fine. I personally don't enjoy playing as Vanguards. But the baggage that people associate with infiltrators can be very frustrating to hear sometimes. For me, it's similar to how Vanguards get a bad rap about being Rambos and rushing off to just die (which is what happens when I play as a Vanguard, so I end up having a bad time). They talk about how to be a good Vanguard, and they are really right: Good players makes good Vanguards. I like to think the same about infiltrators: Good players make good infiltrators. So it doesn't really matter how many infiltrators you have - you just need to adapt to how your team is set up, and with good players, you'll have a good time. | I'm just a big baby who doesn't like it when people point out flaws with my favorite class. Seriously. But good players make any class work for them, and their teams. | [
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"content": "It's a long one. [I...I just have a lot of feelings.]( \n > I'm going to guess that you've never tried to play a normal class with multiple infiltrators on your team \n A normal class? Why are infiltrators special? I play lots of different classes: Turian Sentinel, Human Engineer, Asari Adept, whatever. I really feel like you're just picking on infiltrators. \n > infiltrators won't notice a difference because they're running around cloaked being infiltrators \n Good Infiltrators don't just pick off the one or two targets on the side, and then call it a day. We're there standing with the team, and thin out the incoming wave significantly. Spamming Cryo/Energy Drain to stagger and debuff/strip shields, and then we take down lots of little targets, or focus down the big one first. \n > the mob of enemies closing in on their position from all sides that they can't escape from because the infiltrators are slowly killing them one at a time. \n Getting overwhelmed sucks. I know it. But I've been overwhelmed in lots of party compositions. Engineers who are spamming drones that don't catch aggro, that dumb asari who isn't bubbling nearly enough, those Krogan Soldiers/Sentinels that are unkillable but don't kill things fast enough either. Bad players are more responsible than just bad classes. \n > While it's true that infiltrators can rez their teammates, it's also true that they can't really do all that much to help them once they're up and in the middle of a crowd of enemies. \n I've found that you have like 1-2 seconds of invulnerability right after you get up, so after a rez, I just usually book it somewhere, and the other player does too. And if there are really too many non mooks around, then it's hard for any class to clear them fast enough to have a window to revive. Drell Reave/Cluster, really any of the Biotic Combos, or nading is probably your best bet, but still, you've got your work cut out for you if you're at the point where a simple rez and run isn't going to cut it. \n > You would literally always be better off with an adept or an engineer on your team instead of a second infiltrator. \n Second infiltrator...I dunno. I concede third. But you know what? I can't really argue against this point anyways, because in some sense, yeah I think you might be right. Engies and Adepts are pretty swell classes, and bio combos/overload are super useful. That's not really what irked me about your post. \n > The real problem is that many infiltrator players seem to only play that class, meaning that if they join a game that already has an infiltrator, they have nothing else to bring to the table. In fact, any one-dimensional player is going to be far less useful on average than someone with a mastery of several different classes and playstyles... \n C'mon dude! That's pretty weak. I play as an infiltrator because I love the damage spike that cloak gives me, and head shots are pretty sweet. But I love playing as my Turian Sentinel because I'm a tank that can strip shields and weaken armor. I usually strap on a Carnifex and work next to my team mates - getting in my fix of headshots there as well. Or if I'm tired of aiming down the sights, I just switch up to a Human Sentinel or Asari Adept, and let those Bio Combos fly. But in my heart, because I started as an infiltrator, it's my favorite class. \n When I join up with silver lobbies, there's usually not some big shuffle to make sure that our party is well optimized. I just make sure everyone has a sufficient character/N7 level, and then I ready up with whatever character I happen to be playing as then. Occasionally, I will either step in or out of my infiltrator, but it really doesn't matter to me. If I have good teammates, we'll do well. If not, we'll do poorly. I'll adapt my playstyle to fit with what my team is doing, and I usually end up having a good time. \n (I assume that everything we're talking about is outside of bronze, because bronze is straight forward enough to not care about really any of this stuff. And Gold? Whatever. More optimized teams for gold, sure. But for all the gold runs I've done, there are usually at least two infiltrators, one Salarian one Quarian, and for me it still boils down to good players rather than good classes.) \n Some people don't like infiltrators, that's fine. I personally don't enjoy playing as Vanguards. But the baggage that people associate with infiltrators can be very frustrating to hear sometimes. For me, it's similar to how Vanguards get a bad rap about being Rambos and rushing off to just die (which is what happens when I play as a Vanguard, so I end up having a bad time). They talk about how to be a good Vanguard, and they are really right: Good players makes good Vanguards. I like to think the same about infiltrators: Good players make good infiltrators. So it doesn't really matter how many infiltrators you have - you just need to adapt to how your team is set up, and with good players, you'll have a good time.",
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But that's not what is actually implied is it? What is implied through a sign like that is much more sinister than someone simply being mean. First, that there is an inherent disbelief in a lasting homosexual relationship. I wont say disapproval of relationship because marriage is usually seen as a lasting bond of commitment and does not necessarily mean the person disproves of a man/man or woman/woman relationship. Second, there is an automatic exclusion of transgendered folks, and a hegemonic push for a politics of a gender binary enforced by the signs language. Thirdly, and what is most sinister about it, has to relate to taxes, inheritance, and healthcare. Were marriage only symbolic and not tied up in the three previous issues, then it would lose some of its strength. Yet since married people get certain tax benefits, health benefits, and certain financial decision as pertaining to children and family members fiscally, voting to outlaw gay marriage is essentially classifying members of the LGBT community as second class citizens; disallowing people there state given rights is unconstitutional. | putting up a sign against gay marriage doesn't make you mean, but by doing so you support the sinister rhetoric put forth by the religious hegemony in control of parts of this country. | [
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There's no spinning it, just that the Catholic Church apparently doesn't officially recognize limbo/purgatory/whatever you want to call it, but they also don't want people thinking that the Son of God necessarily went to that place . It would make sense in a way because Hell is supposed to represent where damned souls go, and obviously the Son of God's soul wouldn't be damned.
When I was growing up Catholic, we were taught in religion class that before Jesus's death and resurrection, no normal people got into Heaven - there was just Purgatory (and, presumably, Hell). It was only after Jesus died and was resurrected that those souls in limbo were brought to Heaven because Jesus finally forgave them their original sin.
Of course that's not exactly a great teaching because Jesus told parables about people being in Heaven, but at the time I wasn't really putting two and two together so.
But yes, getting back on point, the idea is that Jesus died, his divinity stayed intact while he was dead (the whole fully god and fully human thing - that also varies based on what version of Christianity you subscribe to, or if you don't then I guess pick your favorite, lots to choose from!), so when the Apostles' Creed says he went to Hell, well, they needed to figure out an answer to how a being that is fully God was able to go to Hell.
Hell itself is an interesting thing in the eyes of Christianity - while it's widely considered to be a place, it's never been 'confirmed' by the Church, so it's open to interpretation. It's generally agreed that Hell is either a place or a state for the dead who have completely turned away from God. Some say that those in Hell (whether place or state) can never see God ever again, which I guess is reason enough to say Jesus couldn't have gone there, but there's still no real consensus. My favorite interpretation is Balthasar's, that Hell is a 'possibility' (as opposed to an 'object') that is created by the free individuals who choose it - essentially, it's a 'non-Heaven' afterlife state/place created entirely without God's input. It could be the most amazing Nirvana, it could be what we generally conceive to be Heaven, it could be a clusterfuck of evil... all that we know is that it is entirely separate from God. | If you want good writing practice/writing prompts, talk about what the fuck Hell is and how the fuck that afterlife shit works. | [
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Hello everyone
I currently work a shit job (work from home, because fuck the outside world, right?)
I am growing tired of this job very quickly, and I want to go back to school to get a degree in computer programing, but I don't leave the house, ever. I want to, but you all know as I know it, it's not that simple for us.
I will probably be talking to my psychologist soon enough to get on some medication, I know it's different for everyone, which works best etc. But my question is;
How did you feel when it worked? Did you just forget about your anxiety/panic disorder/attacks? Are they still a constant being that takes up all of your thoughts? What made you realise 'fuck you anxiety, you ain't shit', what gives you that strenght to go outside and see people and be normal ?
I'm afraid of taking medication because I think it will could make me worse (mood swings, suicidal thoughts, depressed, more anxious etc etc) But, I can't live like this anymore, I need to do something about it.
A friend of mine also had panic disorder, he told me the other day "When I had my worst panic attack, I was alone at home, alone, in my bed, and thought to myself I was going to die, and I'd had many, MANY panic attacks before then. So I just said fuck it, I don't care anymore, I don't want to live like this"
He told me he contemplated maybe killing himself (But I don't think he would have actually done it, it was more of a passing thought than anything) So he stopped giving a fuck, and said it eventually went away.
I can't not give a fuck about this, because I always think about it.
sorry for the huge texts; | When did you know your medication was working? | [
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I used to catch honey bees and bumble bees from this big bunch of flowers on the way to school. The stupid part was that I'd try to do it with my hands. I was in like 1st grade and thought that if I did it slowly enough, the bee would trust me and just go with it. I was stung several times, of course. | Bees sting people. Even slow-moving 6 year olds. | [
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If I can say this without sounding like too much of a braggart, I'm really good at my job. In the last year, I've consistently been at the top of the monthly rankers and my customer surveys are in the vast majority positive.
Last month, I got a great promotion that came with a solid pay raise and some fun new perks. It was a challenge at first (as everything is) but I'm finally starting to get the hang of it. The managers tell me I'm killing it, so that's been encouraging.
The slight hitch here is that my boyfriend of ten months is a tenured member of the new team I joined. We keep our relationship out of our work almost 100%, except for some days when we eat lunch together and we'll occasionally bring each other coffee in the mornings. Because of his experience, he has been instrumental in helping me succeed in this new position. When I have questions, he's one of the three people I regularly go to. This would be the case even if we weren't dating.
So last night I was out with some of my female coworkers and one of them let me know that there have been some rumblings among the male coworkers that got passed up for the promotion that my boyfriend got me the job. They don't think I deserved it, they don't think I can do it, etc etc.
I know this isn't the case. Boyfriend knows this isn't the case. Managers know this isn't the case. In fact, when they offered me the job, they said that they hadn't thought I was ready for it until my interview. I surprised them, I guess. The team I joined was consulted before I was hired and as far as I know, they unanimously agreed that I could be part of it. "The people who matter" are all on board with this.
But I'm meant to be in a leadership position now and I can't really do that if half of my coworkers think that I got my job due to some kind of nepotism. So my question is this. Do I say something? Or do I just continue to do my best in the job I have and let my actions speak for themselves and hope that they come around eventually? These people are my friends on top of being my coworkers and I can't stand the thought that they're being nasty about me behind my back. | Recently got an awesome promotion onto a team that my boyfriend happens to be on. Coworkers who were passed up for the promotion are pissed about this and spreading the idea that my boyfriend got me the job. They are also my friends. Do I say something to smooth it over or do I let it lie and hope my performance eventually speaks for itself? | [
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I currently live in Cicero :/ and pay quite a lot of rent so my wife and I are considering moving to the loop and living at a higher altitude for roughly the same price.
My main concern is my daily commute to work (in the west suburbs near Darien). Currently I take 55 and it is very fast since the traffic leaving the city is light in the morning and the traffic entering the city is light in the evening.
If I move to the loop I am looking at either taking 290 to 294 both ways or navigating the city down to Chinatown and taking 55 as normal. If anyone that has experience with this kind of commute could provide some advice I would greatly appreciate it!
EDIT: I'm looking at properties in the area of Washington and Wells and also S. Michigan Ave and Congress to Roosevelt. | Daily commute from the loop to south west suburbs. Experiences? Advice? Timing? I55 or I290 -> I294? | [
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This is a very good idea indeed, just like warriors lose adrenaline even if they miss the hit. So should stealth classes lose stealth if blocked or dodged. It only seems fair to level the playing field,and it allows for some clever counter play which is what the community has been asking for, for a very long time now. | yes to active stealth counter play. | [
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I used to work at my school. This was about 2 years ago. I would usually be representing our office at a table with two of my coworkers, both female, outside the library or the main building. One of them was pretty attractive (7-8/10), the other not so much (6/10). Every day we would be out there, however, the girls would be talking about all the sexcapades they had in the past week. Massive detail, too. I was still beta, and this was one of my first exposures to AWALT.
I was new there, and was trying to be as professional as possible. I was also the only guy in our office, so I was definitely changing the dynamics up. I wouldn't talk during these sex stories, only listen. I really only spoke when I needed to, and 90% of the time it was about work. Didn't want to shit where I eat. Over the course of a few months, the girls would invite me to go out with them, text me, and occasionally flirt with me around the office. The attention was nice, but I didn't escalate.
Until one day. We were outside the library, and the girls were talking about anal and whatnot. They turned and asked me, "So, did YOU do anything fun this weekend?" Shit test, but I had no idea. I had written a comment on r/sex (old account) about my fuck session with a plate last week, and it got a lot of attention there, so I figured, "I could show them that, and then they'll think I'm hot stuff. Maybe the 7-8/10 will let me fuck her in the ass, too."
Wrong.
I showed them the story, didn't say much of anything else. The 6 said "Damn, dude." The 7-8 only said, "Wow". But they looked grossed out, almost shocked, not turned on. I didn't think much of it then, but I look back now and it just went downhill from there. They stopped inviting me to go out with them, they barely texted me anymore, and the 7-8 tried to set me up with her ugly friend later on. The 6 started looking down upon me at work, and acted like my boss even though she wasn't. I rolled with it until I quit that job, but it was already said and done.
Eventually I found RP, and haven't heard from either of them in months. I look back and realize this was one of those cases in which a girl who could be (possibly) interested in you will change her mind at the slightest sign of weakness or weirdness. | Don't try to brag about your sexual prowess to women, it only turns them off and away from you. Maintain frame and let them use their imagination instead. | [
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I'm a first time miner who is thinking about getting started with mining bitcoins. I did research but there is an iverwhelming amount of info out there and a lot of it is contradictory. I have never done GPU mining as my computer does not have the proper hardware.
My budget is $500 so building a rig is not really am option and I have been looking into getting an ASIC miner, specifically the eruptor USB at 300 mh/s as it seems to be reliable and they are shipping.
My questions are:
Does it make sense to invest in an ASIC miner right now? Will I be able to make up the money in a reasonable amount of time and start turning a profit soon? I am mot looking to make a ton of money from this but more so to learn. However i do not want to lose money in the process. Excluding energy costs as they are free since I am at college.
Is the Eruptor USB a good choice for a miner and is it reliable or is there a better option that fits my budget?
For ASIC mining, are there any hardware requirements for the host computer, in terms of CPU/GPU or anything else?
Thank you for all your help.
Edit: | does it even make sense to buy an ASIC miner with a 300 mh/s hashrate? Is there a more cost effective miner? Should I buy a GPU and build my own rig? Or is it not a good idea to buy either with the difficulty level rising exponentially? | [
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There was a time when pre-ordering a game simply meant ‘I want my copy before anyone else’. You would pre-order and be able to pick up your game usually ahead of everyone waiting in line for the game. It meant having a golden cartridge instead of a normal one. It was mostly just a bragging tool.
The first real pre-order incentives ever included with a game were actually noteworthy. Merchandise was often included that you would only see today in the most expensive exclusive editions of a game. These were the days when publishers actually rewarded their most dedicated consumers. Pre-ordering before a certain date often came with a discount as well to reward you for being one of the dedicated few. These were days when pre-ordering was actually a smart thing to do; like buying movie tickets ahead of time.
Today things are different. Pre-ordering a AAA title gets you nothing; sometimes even less. Modern Warfare 3 lacks even a slight discount for pre-orders on Steam. More games are released with exclusive pre-order content that was originally included in the game by default. Battlefield 3 was one of those games until a recent boycott on /r/gaming persuaded EA to not do so by showing that doing so would result in a reasonable loss of sales. Not to mention, exclusive content is worthless if the game itself is worthless so saying that exclusive DLC justifies pre-ordering a game is a load of crap.These are not the biggest crimes committed in the past few years though. If a game is stripped of content to have it thrown into pre-order DLC I simply don’t buy the game. What I hate about pre-ordering today is that it has become a marketing tool to convince gamers into buying a game before they even know if it’s good.
Publishers like EA and Activision have managed to turn their audience into a bunch of Justin Bieber fans. No matter what they throw out to the masses they can count on people throwing their money away to get it. Smart people obviously still pay attention to reviews and feedback to see if they should buy a game since buying a bad game is dumb. People who pre-order are paying money for words. The publisher has told them that the game will be good and they are willing to take their word for it.
Would a publisher ever market a game as a bad one? Don’t you think advertisements make games look awesome for a reason? It’s not rocket science. Since marketing will only ever give you one kind of portrayal of a game what makes you think you can trust it as a reliable source to evaluate the quality of a game? If you simply aren’t evaluating a game at all before purchasing it then you have no right to complain about it being bad; except that is exactly what you do when you pre-order since you cannot evaluate a game that has not been released yet.
When you pre-order a game you are paying for what might be faulty product without any speculation on your part on whether or not it is actually a good game. You are gambling. You are no better than someone sitting at a slot machine slowly throwing their money away.
I hate to break it to you but even a game as impressive looking as Battlefield 3 can end up a pile of garbage. Clearly the graphics are impressive, but do you play Battlefield because it looks good? Of course not. You play it because generally the Battlefield series provides great gameplay. Battlefield has a history of great games behind it, but does that mean that Battlefield 3 is guaranteed 100% to be good? No! Any game series can be ruined with the next release. Any aspect of the gameplay gone wrong can ruin a game despite all the other aspects being solid. All the pieces of the puzzle have to fit. Any game breaking exclusive DLC content can ruin a gameplay experience no matter how prestigious. Dice has already tried to introduce elements into BF3 such as 3d spotting, effectively giving you the ability to wallhack. That is a game breaking feature folks. Why would you pay 60 bucks for a game that might be good? That is lunacy. As far as I’m concerned if you pay 60 dollars for a game you are paying for a guaranteed quality title and anything less is not worth the money.
Just look at the giant catalog of crappy or underwhelming games being released today and try to tell me that the chances of a game ending up bad are low. There are no franchises that are immune to this. Only you can be responsible for making sure your gaming experience is a good one; the publishers certainly aren’t going to do it for you.
If a game ends up bad and you pre-ordered it, you have wasted 60 bucks. You could have waited until you heard from reviews or peers to see if you should shell out the dough but instead you took a gamble and ended up with nothing.
If a game ends up bad and you didn’t pre-order, you simply don’t buy it. You can then use that 60 bucks for something more worth it.
Take Black Ops for example. Many people pre-ordered that for 60 bucks before release. Was it really worth it though? Did it live up to your expectations and provide the same amount of entertainment that the previous Call of Duty’s did? Many fans have said no. That 60 bucks could have been spent on a better game (or two) but instead it went towards funding Activisions next big project to shake you down for even more money. It wasn’t a flop game by any means but it certainly doesn’t have that action packed feel to it that previous CoDs had and it certainly wasn’t worth throwing down 60 bucks for.
Stop gambling and praying to the game gods for a quality title. Your money is not some sort of sacrificial offering that will improve the quality of the title you have been promised. The best stuff out there does not come with stripped out content being sold as exclusive DLC. You wouldn’t buy a car you haven’t seen yet from a salesman who claims that it’s awesome.
Anywhere there is a game being milked for money, there will be a lack of quality.
Take a tip from Tripwire Interactive. Not only is the upcoming Red Orchestra 2 only selling for only 40 bucks but here is what you get for pre-ordering.
A free copy of the original Red Orchestra.
Some RO TF2 hats.
10% discount
Plus you get an extra 20% off if you already own the original Red Orchestra as well as day 1 unlocks of the Kar98 and 9130 Nagant (non-exclusive but unlocked more quickly) and some special in-game badges. That is called rewarding your fans and thanking them for their support. I know many people who would still go out and buy this game even if it cost 60 bucks like every other title. Tripwire is only losing money by giving away their original game and providing these discounts but unlike Activision, Tripwire actually cares about things like making sure their fans are satisfied with what they get for the amount they pay.
That is pre-order incentive done right. They are rewarding you for taking a gamble, as they should.
Accepting anything less is the action of a hoodwinked idiot.
>edit | If you're going to take a gamble on a game you should be properly rewarded for doing so. Accepting anything less (such as nothing) is idiocy. | [
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Smart people obviously still pay attention to reviews and feedback to see if they should buy a game since buying a bad game is dumb. People who pre-order are paying money for words. The publisher has told them that the game will be good and they are willing to take their word for it. \n Would a publisher ever market a game as a bad one? Don’t you think advertisements make games look awesome for a reason? It’s not rocket science. Since marketing will only ever give you one kind of portrayal of a game what makes you think you can trust it as a reliable source to evaluate the quality of a game? If you simply aren’t evaluating a game at all before purchasing it then you have no right to complain about it being bad; except that is exactly what you do when you pre-order since you cannot evaluate a game that has not been released yet. \n When you pre-order a game you are paying for what might be faulty product without any speculation on your part on whether or not it is actually a good game. 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Many people pre-ordered that for 60 bucks before release. Was it really worth it though? Did it live up to your expectations and provide the same amount of entertainment that the previous Call of Duty’s did? Many fans have said no. That 60 bucks could have been spent on a better game (or two) but instead it went towards funding Activisions next big project to shake you down for even more money. It wasn’t a flop game by any means but it certainly doesn’t have that action packed feel to it that previous CoDs had and it certainly wasn’t worth throwing down 60 bucks for. \n Stop gambling and praying to the game gods for a quality title. Your money is not some sort of sacrificial offering that will improve the quality of the title you have been promised. The best stuff out there does not come with stripped out content being sold as exclusive DLC. 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