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So some background for this is we have been dating for the past year and have been friends since the start of high school. Well in grade ten she told me she was transgender and started her transition a little over a year ago. Most of our friends stopped hanging out with her but I honestly felt bad for her so I would message her a lot and pretty much just try to make her feel better. When she started her transition she got extremely depressed about all of that transgender stuff and started talking to me about how if she isnt pretty enough she can just kill herself, which made me pretty upset to be honest. Fast forward a couple months and I started actually seeing her as a girl which made me catch some feelings for her and we started dating.
Everything has been GREAT up until recently where my mind is constantly wondering what she's doing. She obviously cuts herself because there are cuts on all of her knuckles and in the crotch area so I assume it's when i'm not at home; which now has me missing school so I can look over her because I feel like it Is my fault when i dont.
Last night she got drunk with a friend and when she cane to bed she started talking about how she was on hormones for like a year and a half and still feels too manly. That triggered her to have like a panic attack or something and she said that she wants to kill herself again. I already dealt with it before and Im not sure if i can go through all of this just for it to come back harder. No matter how many times I tell her how cute she is she will turn it on her hands being like a bit manly or not being short enough when she's like 5'3". She has obviously felt that way for an extremely long time and am starting to feel like this is beyond my control. Her brother has been to my house before to forcibly get her help so I am contemplating calling him but I would rather not.
Honestly I just dont know if she will ever change and I feel like these are massive red flags. Seriously dont know what to do. | girlfriend doesnt want to live because she isnt pretty enough. | [
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the real question is: why are you making a reddit thread about some player who you personally don't agree with?
dude likes playing guardians. dude likes it so much, he tries to bring guardian tactics into whatever god he plays. who cares? why are you digging so deep to shame some random person you don't know?
kid has a score of 1/5/7? well, 1/5/7 isn't actually that bad for someone who mains guardian and mostly plays short-lasting game modes. | stop being petty. | [
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I don't think it makes me special, it's my favorite movie, so I have a good grasp of who knows about it among people I hang out with because I'll put it on a lot. So far 2 or 3 people had watched it before. Having said that, how the hell can an opinion about Battle Royalle be as pandering as an opinion about the Starwars Prequels.
Look at it this way: would an opinion about the inferiority of Battle Royalle 2 be as pandering in that same deadpool scenario? Nope, because nobody even saw Battle Royalle 2 (piece of trash that it is). It's not a franchise. To pander to an audience, there 1) has to be an audience, and 2) that audience has to have a strong unified belief about something. Comicbook readers don't have an opinion you could put on Big Bang Theory(trash) about Battle Royalle. You can't pander to comicbook audiences with "City of God is the movie every foreigner mentions when talking to a Brazilian" because there is not a unified opinion about that from comicbook readers. Is it true? Fuck yeah it is. Do foreign film audiences and Brazilians know this? Fuck yeah they do, and the joke is that it's the only film ever exported by Brazil. But those are not the target audience. It isn't pandering to do that bit in a comicbook. | He's not pandering. This is a Superhero comicbook, not Foreign Film Lover's Digest. He just likes BR, back off. At the same time, one is not a hipster for loving a foreign film, but by definition of it being a foreign film most people in this country have not seen it. so go fuck yourself. | [
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Earlier I noticed the lack of higher tier skins on the market and conversely higher prices. I connected it to the lack of case drops, which usually this late after the release is quite uncommon (sometimes at even 300 at once on the market). As of right now that number has jumped to more than 5000. If you've been saving up to get that neat M4, hold out a bit longer until more people unbox and sell them. | Valve realized that they were dropping too little Breakout cases, and updated it. EDIT: qawsed123456 pointed out that it's been one week since the last drops, either way prepare for cheaper skins. | [
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So this is a personal thing that I wanted to get a wider range of answers about. Have you ever worked too much in school? To the detriment of other things for a healthy life style. I feel that I have, this is my story, tell me about yours.
Im 21 in my 2nd year of Architecture going into my 3rd at a school in the UK. I feel like I've over worked myself with very little pay off, I worked very hard and still failed one module and ended up in summer school. For anyone who dosnt know Architecture school can be a an all consuming affair. Its a process of research, investigation and then design and implementation with constant crit's where too often your works short comings are exposed without a solid lead on how to improve. I work 6 days a week from about 12 midday till 10/11pm at night and eat at my desk while i work. The only time off is on sunday where i work with my dad at the market 7am-5pm, the down time id sleep or talk to my gf or catch up on a missed meal . This kind of schedule has really affected my life in a drastic way. Ive put on some weight firstly, become more isolated in the 2nd year as work and stress has mounted. My social life has reduced to almost non existant, and my friendships within my uni has become strained. I have a gf that attends uni/college 2 hours away and this has caused ups and downs in our relationship, mainly due to the fact i cant give her enough of my time while keeping up with my tutors expectations. The time I take off usually is every other friday evening for dinner with old friends and one wednesday a month to see my gf. Ive pulled many all nighters, the last week before deadline consisted of 3 hr sleep nights at times even 2 days in a row without sleep. This has all caused my tolerance for bright lights and loud noises to be low and can trigger headaches, my eyesight has weakened too. And lastly it has affected my mood, i easily become distressed, demotivated and pessimistic about situations when i used to be the opposite. Now I love my degree and what I do, but I've pretty much sacrificed my hobbies and health and at times havnt seen my family for a month even though I live at home due to my schedule. I aim to better manage my time and not become so stressed next year.
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No current case will ever get as high as Bravo is. The player base when Bravo cases dropped was very small compared to what it is now and there were less than 100k cases in the market when it became rare. The player base is much larger now and the supply will much higher than what it was when Bravo was around. | Too much supply for current cases to reach Bravo's level | [
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Alright, so here's the deal. I know this might not be what /trees is about, but it;s the only place I actually trust.
Anyways, I'm getting ready to take a senior trip to the Bahamas. 4 guys (including me), 13 girls, 10 days in the sun. I figured it would be the most amazing time to smoke, especially since I've been talking to one of the girls lately, and I'm almost positive she's ready to to start toking up. I have a new bowl, a pretty girl to smoke with, a warm sun and pure white sand beaches to smoke on.
But this weekend, when I was supposed to get my stuff - a quarter o for 45 bucks - my guy ( a decent friend) bagged on me. He sold it to some kid that paid him $60 for it, even though I was the one that asked him to go get it from his hook-up, his grower. I quickly called my other good source, and he too has nothing to offer. So I shot a text out to my back-up guy, who I haven't talked with in months. His response?
"Sorry bro, i don't do that shit anymore".
Fuck.
I leave on Monday, and I have no herb, or any prospect of getting some.
So, fellow ents, I humbly ask, nay, BEG of you... is there any ent out there so loving and kind enough so as to ship me some herb? I have money, and would even be willing to pay a bit more than fair value to cover niceness and shipping (I usually get good deals, but I'd be willing to pay like 35/eighth). I haven't had any weed in weeks, mainly because I wanted to take a small break before the trip, and suck balls at taking tolerance breaks when I have herb to burn. But now before me, I have the perfect opportunity to smoke and chill harder than I imagine I'll be able to chill for years...
... and I'm missing the key ingredient. | Have beautiful sun, clear water, nice beach, new bowl, pretty girl, no weed. Halp a fellow ent, please? | [
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Knowing a track can make all the difference. In the last King of the Track rivals challenge. I was forced to analyze every turn in a way I never had time to in the pro mode. I started with every assist including auto break, time was 1:21 took off auto break, got 1:18, took off traction control got to 1:16. watched replays of faster laps, got down to 1:14, realized I only had to change gears 3 times, switched to manual no clutch, and got my time to 1:12 | king of the track in rivals will help.
also If you're not in a club, the rivals mode is an easy credit harvesting tool, and a way to build up affinity with lots of brands. | [
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Game: Ex-Wizards vs iBP
Lounge odds: 20-80
My personal odds: 15-85
Who I believe will win: iBP
Who I will bet on: no1
Reasoning behind my bet: Should be really safe for iBP, I haven't seen Wizards win a BO3 in a long time, and they had a good opportunity to win the one vs AliGon but we all saw how that went... besides, iBP is just superior. | safe iBP imo
My bet:
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In 8th grade I had just watched Inglorious Basterds and thought it was such a bad ass movie. I was doodling scenes of the movie during math class when my math teacher sees the absurd amounts of swatstikas and nazis on my notebook. She probably thought I was some sort of nazi and reported me to the principle. When I get into his office and tell him that I was just doodling the scene from Inglorious basterds, he started laughing and told me he liked the movie as well. I mean I guess it was a good thing that he was a fan of the movie because otherwise, there would have been an even more awkward phone call home. | I HAVE A HATE/LOVE RELATIONSHIP WITH QUENTIN TERANTINO | [
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That may be true for some people but not true for others.
For example, I love to PvP in dayz. I also love the arma style PvP but for different reasons, and its not about the gear.
What I love about Dayz that separates it from arma are the surprise encounters. I could spend 2 hours without finding someone in dayz, continually growing more paranoid to finally walk around a corner face to face with someone. That kind of encounter will surely send my heart racing.
In arma this kind of thing is far less powerful because of the lack of a suspense build up. Though you can still get some decent surprises its true.
I gues | Dayz for suspense & gunfights. Arma for straight up gun-fights.
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So background info: I have a friend and she's a few years older than me, and I've been really confused lately. I honestly cannot tell if she's into me or not(a common problem for many I assume). How can I know what to do?? We met through a mutual friend a couple years back and would hang out from time to time, but she's really independent. Both of us like to go hiking, working out, and out to the clubs (once in a while), and have fun. For a while, she would always bring in other friends whenever I'd try to do things alone with her and ask to go somewhere, so that kind of backfired on me, but after a while she started coming with me alone to hikes, to grab coffee, or just hang out.
Fast-forward a few months: she drops off the radar, and I don't hear from her for about 4 months. I figure she just doesn't want to talk to me any more, so I drop it. Just a couple weeks ago, however, she texts me saying hi, and we start messaging each other for a few days. Today we decided to go hiking again together. It was fun, as we always have an amazing time together and never run out of things to talk about. I feel like we can talk about anything and just share with each other like before. We mess around, teasing each other, playfully shoving and pushing one another. I feel like we have a really strong connection sometimes, and I felt today was especially a great day. I don't want to push any boundaries though. I tried getting close to her and would try to see if I could possibly go in for the kiss while at the top of the small mountain, but I really didn't push any further because I don't think she was going in for it as well. She almost immediately grabbed her stuff, smiled and said we should head back down. While on the way down, we talked about meeting up again and decided to go grab some food and drinks in a couple weeks. Still talking, still laughing and having fun the rest of the way down. Now I'm not entirely sure if it's just a casual thing or if maybe i should try to make some kind of move when I next see her. She's beautiful and a lot of fun and I can always find myself happy around her, but I don't want to make things awkward.
Any suggestions on what I might be able to do without being blunt??
P.S. Her and I did make out once at a nightclub(we went with a bunch of friends) but we were both drunk, her I think more because she told how she didn't remember the night before and I decided not to bring it up :$ | Don't have the balls to ask out female friend; trying to look for solution to see if she likes me | [
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Hi, helpful community :D
I'd like to help my SO understand me better. I'm tired of him using fatherly tones to reprimand me when I mess up----especially since I make such a big effort to do things in a way that he will appreciate. I'm medicated, and highly functioning, which I think confuses him as to why I still don't think/act/make decisions/tidy my apartment/arrive on time like he expects me to.
He's unlikely to read a book or listen to any nuanced description I give him, so does anyone have any resources they recommend that I could give him? I'm thinking a pamphlet or short internet article specifically meant to help the partner of an ADHD adult. | Anyone know any short pamphlets or articles to help the SO of an adult with ADHD to better understand their partner? Much thanks! | [
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I know you've gotten a lot of negative feedback for your comments, but I feel the need to back you up, because I actually agree with several points you've made. (I apologize in advance that this is going to be a lengthy response, because I feel like addressing several concerns and not necessarily just ones that you brought up.)
I feel like a lot of people on this sub confuse "introversion" with "reclusion." Introversion =/= "I can't stand people."
Introversion at its simplest, is defined as "the state of or tendency toward being wholly or predominantly concerned with and interested in one's own mental life." Extraversion/introversion is also known to be linked with a person's energy. Extroverts tend to be energized when around other people. Introverts are those whose energy tends to expand through reflection and dwindle during interaction.
Everyone has both an extroverted side and an introverted side , with one being more dominant than the other.
I don't doubt that probably the majority of participants in this sub identify as introverts. It's completely possible that they are 100% correct. Introverts often manifest themselves in more solitary behavior. (umm... like sitting at home, typing on their computer??)
I'm a bit offended by those who assume that they can tell whether a person is an introvert or not by looking at things they have posted on the internet. How can you possibly know how I am feeling during interaction with other people based on the language that I use when I am posting a comment on the internet? I find that notion quite presumptuous.
Sure, perhaps we are at varying degrees of introversion. But there's not really a way to measure that you are more drained during a conversation than I am. Reading through some recent comments and threads on the topic of introversion gives me the impression that some people view their introversion as a competition. "You may be introverted, but not to the extreme that I am." "You may feel the need to change, but I absolutely love being an introvert and keeping people at arm's length."
There is not a soul on this earth that does not need social interaction. The fact that I may long for a visit from my home teachers doesn't make me less of an introvert. It simply means I am human looking for social interaction. Just because I want to talk to someone doesn't mean I don't feel "drained" by the conversation. Interaction is one of our most basic needs. Sure, some may already be getting that interaction from their "small, close-knit group of friends." But others, like myself, may be new to the area and are in the process of making friends. How does one go about making friends? By interacting with people, by doing things other people find interesting, by getting out of my comfort zone. Sometimes this will involve "small talk." Sometimes this will involve talking to people with whom I do not "click." Often I come away from a conversation and think "man, that was serious work!"
For introverts, social interaction is draining. That's a fact. So I agree with you that if introverts are "doing it right" they are going to feel exhausted.
I don't think you are wrong to say that the gospel is exhausting. There are many scriptural/historical accounts that reflect that idea: Joseph Smith was exhausted after receiving light and truth. Alma collapsed from exhaustion because his joy [in God] was full. Very literally, the pioneers trekking across the plains in search of religious freedom were exhausted. The gospel is exhausting. And if we're doing it right - we'll be exhausted.
Part of the gospel involves following Christ's example. Christ sought out those who were in need. He didn't just wait until they came up and started a conversation with him. When he saw someone who was hurt, or hungry, or incapacitated, he reached out to them. Did you know that Christ was an introvert? (Of course, I don't actually know that he was an introvert, but you don't know that he wasn't.) We don't know how Christ was feeling when he talked with other people. But I feel confident in saying that no matter what his personal aversions may have been, his love for others overcame any and all of them. And we can be the same way. Our love for others can be the driving force in our gospel participation if we will work to cultivate that love. If we are to follow Christ's example we need to do as He did. Notice Christ's commandment to "come follow me" doesn't have any exceptions attached to it. He doesn't say, "come follow me, unless you hate talking to people." "Come follow me, unless you'd rather be alone." He asks us to follow Him. Period.
For introverts, heeding these particular words will be exhausting. But guess what? Extroverts aren't immune to being exhausted either. The gospel involves action/work. Working means we are going to be tired.
I DO NOT agree that this sub is a breeding ground for those "taking the easy way out" of missionary work and ward fellowship. I don't think that's what you are saying or what you believe. I know we have many faithful saints on this sub who love the Savior and who really do try to reach out to others on a regular basis. While both extraversion and introversion have their great qualities to them - they both can become a problem if we are not sympathetic to the other side. Extroverts can express this sympathy by giving introverts their space and their time to recharge. Introverts can express this by actually speaking to extroverts and helping them feel love and friendship from you. | Don't use introversion as an excuse to not fully participate in your ward. We all have an extroverted side as well as an introverted side. If we will cultivate a love for others we can overcome the tendency to become reclusive. There's nothing inherently wrong with being an introvert (or with being an extrovert), but it can become a stumbling block when we remove ourselves from other people so much that we stop feeling any love/compassion/sympathy for them and we just think, "ugh, they don't understand me . if they did, they would stop expecting me to do these things that I hate doing."
Source: [Wikipedia page - Extraversion and Introversion](
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Introverts are those whose energy tends to expand through reflection and dwindle during interaction. \n Everyone has both an extroverted side and an introverted side , with one being more dominant than the other. \n I don't doubt that probably the majority of participants in this sub identify as introverts. It's completely possible that they are 100% correct. Introverts often manifest themselves in more solitary behavior. (umm... like sitting at home, typing on their computer??) \n I'm a bit offended by those who assume that they can tell whether a person is an introvert or not by looking at things they have posted on the internet. How can you possibly know how I am feeling during interaction with other people based on the language that I use when I am posting a comment on the internet? I find that notion quite presumptuous. \n Sure, perhaps we are at varying degrees of introversion. But there's not really a way to measure that you are more drained during a conversation than I am. Reading through some recent comments and threads on the topic of introversion gives me the impression that some people view their introversion as a competition. \"You may be introverted, but not to the extreme that I am.\" \"You may feel the need to change, but I absolutely love being an introvert and keeping people at arm's length.\" \n There is not a soul on this earth that does not need social interaction. The fact that I may long for a visit from my home teachers doesn't make me less of an introvert. It simply means I am human looking for social interaction. Just because I want to talk to someone doesn't mean I don't feel \"drained\" by the conversation. Interaction is one of our most basic needs. Sure, some may already be getting that interaction from their \"small, close-knit group of friends.\" But others, like myself, may be new to the area and are in the process of making friends. How does one go about making friends? By interacting with people, by doing things other people find interesting, by getting out of my comfort zone. Sometimes this will involve \"small talk.\" Sometimes this will involve talking to people with whom I do not \"click.\" Often I come away from a conversation and think \"man, that was serious work!\" \n For introverts, social interaction is draining. That's a fact. So I agree with you that if introverts are \"doing it right\" they are going to feel exhausted. \n I don't think you are wrong to say that the gospel is exhausting. There are many scriptural/historical accounts that reflect that idea: Joseph Smith was exhausted after receiving light and truth. Alma collapsed from exhaustion because his joy [in God] was full. Very literally, the pioneers trekking across the plains in search of religious freedom were exhausted. The gospel is exhausting. And if we're doing it right - we'll be exhausted. \n Part of the gospel involves following Christ's example. Christ sought out those who were in need. He didn't just wait until they came up and started a conversation with him. When he saw someone who was hurt, or hungry, or incapacitated, he reached out to them. Did you know that Christ was an introvert? (Of course, I don't actually know that he was an introvert, but you don't know that he wasn't.) We don't know how Christ was feeling when he talked with other people. But I feel confident in saying that no matter what his personal aversions may have been, his love for others overcame any and all of them. And we can be the same way. Our love for others can be the driving force in our gospel participation if we will work to cultivate that love. If we are to follow Christ's example we need to do as He did. Notice Christ's commandment to \"come follow me\" doesn't have any exceptions attached to it. He doesn't say, \"come follow me, unless you hate talking to people.\" \"Come follow me, unless you'd rather be alone.\" He asks us to follow Him. Period. \n For introverts, heeding these particular words will be exhausting. But guess what? Extroverts aren't immune to being exhausted either. The gospel involves action/work. Working means we are going to be tired. \n I DO NOT agree that this sub is a breeding ground for those \"taking the easy way out\" of missionary work and ward fellowship. I don't think that's what you are saying or what you believe. I know we have many faithful saints on this sub who love the Savior and who really do try to reach out to others on a regular basis. While both extraversion and introversion have their great qualities to them - they both can become a problem if we are not sympathetic to the other side. Extroverts can express this sympathy by giving introverts their space and their time to recharge. Introverts can express this by actually speaking to extroverts and helping them feel love and friendship from you.",
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This seems weird to me, because I know lots of guys who get pics from women. I get way more action than them. But, whatever the deal is, the women that gravitate toward me never ever send me pics. | dammit, send me pics! | [
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How do you know if a rape accusation is false? Rape victims are only trusted when you have a fucking video of the crime or witnesses or a fucking confession. And how many of them are blamed too for whatever reason...
I know three women who told us their husbands/partners had raped their daughters (the dudes were all the stepdads). They got divorced but no one made any official accusation because one daughter had severe depression and obviously wanted to forget that shit; the other two hated their mothers to the point of having ran away from home at 14/15 and started prostitution to pay their drugs (the ways they learnt about their daughter's rape and condition are horrible too). My mother's bestfriend also learnt recently that her two daughters had been abused by their pedophile grandfather... and the mom knew her father was a pedophile since she had been abused the same as a child but she was told "your dad was cured".
I find it funny when people say they only hear about rape on TV so it MUST be some rare shit: maybe you're just not the type of person that people would trust for such a dark secret. The amount of rape stories I hear from the women (and men) around me is horrifying (it's not just those above). I admit I have no statistics but the number of false accusations is probably tiny compared to the accusations that lead to nothing and the never made accusations. | Of course false accusations are bad, of course an environment where you can't trust a victim is bad... but people trusting rapists and rapists being free is so much worse imo sorry! | [
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I tend to find that darker roasts require less time off the roast. Espresso generally requires at least a week of rest, as gas is more disruptive during extraction than other brew methods. I have also seen that Sumatran beans tend to take more time to degass than other origins. However, there are exceptions to all of these! It is rare that taste components affected by resting are subjective, as resting tends to "unlock" flavors that are already there; unless you want to taste less of the coffee, there is usually an optimal time of consumption. Again, however, there are exceptions - some beans change fairly significantly in the time after the roast. | It depends. Experiment and find out! | [
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I started playing Pokémon Go last Friday, and overall I've had a really positive experience with the game and the community. Even though the game could use polish and some more substantive gameplay, it's been great to get outside, exercise, and meet new people. All while catching 'em all, of course.
So far, I've only had one complaint about the community- which is that a lot of people smoke, even at lured pokéstops with tons of other people. Now, lemme clarify that I have absolutely no problem with people smoking weed or tobacco if it's in private, or at least ~ 10 m away from other people. Your choices are your choices. But please don't smoke right next to me- I don't want to inhale that shit. This gets worse when you do it in the middle of a dense congregation at a lured pokéstop, especially in a public park. What if there's someone with asthma, or lung/breathing problems? What if there are pets who might be negatively affected by the smoke? What if there are kids? I've tried asking the people who did this to stop, but... it's hard to get people to stop smoking once they've already started.
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This is going to come off part rant, part cry for help and I apologize in advance if it's somewhat whiney.
I've read the FAQ, I've talked to/worked with trainers, instructors, read tons of stuff online. I feel so overloaded by information related to getting fit that I feel like I am just spinning my wheels. I don't know how to figure it out and I would really like to find something that works for me, my body, my goals, my whatever. I'm frustrated because I feel like it shouldn't be this hard, but I constantly feel like I am doing something wrong and then the cycle of laziness and feeling discouraged starts all over again.
I am a 23 year old woman, 5'4 and around 112-116 depending on the day. I am fairly happy with my weight and feel pretty good about my body/get positive feedback. But I definitely know I can improve and I have trouble spots that I focus on that frustrate me. I can get out and have a great workout, but I feel like I lack the know how to stay consistent because I hear so many things about what is right and wrong.
I have always enjoyed running, but I see all this stuff saying cardio shouldn't be the focus for women who aren't looking to lose a lot of weight. The thing is, I KNOW how to run. I know how to put together an interval workout, a long slow day, a distance run. So when I get into "I am going to work out mode" I run. A lot. But when I run A LOT, I basically kiss what little boob/ass action I have BUHBYE and tend eat grains as fuel (more on that later). Not cool. So while I enjoy running, I feel like I shouldn't do it every day.
I like yoga and Pilates, the idea of getting more flexible and of creating lean muscles, working with my own weight. But then I feel like it isn't enough in terms of my heart rate and that I am not working as hard. And I feel like I could be doing more to improve strength. So I get discouraged there.
I am terrified of lifting weights. No, I'm not afraid of bulking. I just don't know what I am doing. I don't know how to use machines, I don't know what to do with free weights, I don't know how to goal set or set weights and reps. I feel totally clueless and helpless and when I'm in a gym with a bunch of people who seem to know what's up, I feel self-conscious and dumb for holding people up. I've explained to trainers that I have worked with that I would like to learn both body weight and free weight/machine exercises that I can do on my own. And the focus is always on bodyweight, which is great, but I've seen what lifting can do to a woman's body & while I'm not looking to pack on a lot of muscle (and again, I know that I don't have to worry about getting bulky), muscle definition is totally desired. (I don't need a visible 6 pack, but a flat(er) stomach would be awesome. It's too soon for me to have a desk job gut).
Then, diet. WTF should I be eating?! I've been cutting processed foods out of my diet for a while, increasing veggies & protein, drinking tons of water. Like I said before, I like to run, so brown rice/whole grains are always great to give me some energy before a run. But I don't know what I should actually eating everyday for fuel and nutrients. I really love food. I like to work out because it means I can enjoy rich foods from time to time. But overall I like healthy, fresh food. And I can cook. I just don't know what is actually good! Paleo? Zone? Detoxes? I don't know!
Again, I know this is very ranty and I am sorry if expressing these frustrations here isn't okay. I'm just going crazy because I feel like I should know at this point what I am doing. And I don't. And now winter is here and I'd really like to have a game plan because hibernating and turning into a winter blob is not something I want to happen. I want to look better naked. I want more energy. I want to feel confident about my routine. And now I just feel like I am going through the motions and not getting any real benefit.
If anyone has any advice, either from your own experiences, or resources, or whatever that might help me sort some of this information out, I would really appreciate it. I enjoy exercising and being healthy and active and eating healthy food. I just don't really know what it all means anymore. | Have been working to get fit, feel overloaded by all the fitness information out there. Need help wading through all the BS. | [
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I moved to OK when I was 4 after being born in Arkansas and living there for 4 years. Overall, I like the state. It's pretty, there's a lot more diversity than I ever realized until I could drive. I don't like the small town where I live but that's not to say it's a bad place to be for now. It's just small enough that it's still a fairly tight community yet big enough to have grown 4x it's size in the last 10 years. I'd like to live somewhere else eventually but right now I'm just trying to make it through college and living with mom and dad is the best option for me so I can save money for when I do finally move out on my own. This went on too long and got pretty off topic so | Oklahoma has more than its fair share of problems but it wasn't a bad place to grow up at all, it a touch boring at times, we made our own fun | [
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Dont feel too bad, I told this to a female surgeon (well a girl at uni wanted to become one and now it) and she didn't get it
Part of it is in the wording of the question, A man, His son The man the boy. It puts you in the mind of thinking of men.
I asked this question to my new phd student switching all the genders and he couldn't guess that the surgeon was the boys father. | don't worry you may not be sexist. | [
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Boyfriend [M28]. Me [F26]. Relationship = Five months.
My boyfriend's parents live out of state. They're visiting tomorrow and it's the first time I'll get to meet them. Needless to say, I'm extremely nervous.
I'll be totally honest, I don't have a lot going for me. I went to college for fashion (stupid choice), racked up some major debt and now I'm working a dead-end job making just enough to get by. I'm a cute, broke, small-town girl that's dating an attractive, well-off guy. In other words, his parents are going to think I'm a gold digger.
I'm sure they're going to ask me questions about my job and that sorta thing. I want them to like me, but at the same time, I'm not going to lie or sugar-coat anything to make myself look better. My boyfriend says everything will be fine and that I have nothing to worry about, but I can't help but feel a little embarrassed of my current situation.
Does anyone have advice? How can I make a good impression, especially considering the circumstances? Thank you! <3 | I'm meeting his parents tomorrow. He's wealthy, I'm poor. I'm afraid I'm going to look like a gold digger. | [
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So I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 months (give a little) and everything has been fine. I told him about my situation pretty much 2 days into knowing each other-- he was very receptive, happy that I told him and appreciated my honesty. He asked a few questions before anything--can he get it, blah blah and I explained to him that it isn't 100% preventable however with the proper precautions the chances of him contracting it are small. I also informed him that I was in a previous relationship for about 2 years, we used protection (condoms) and my ex never got it. Kind of left it at that and haven't really talked about it since.
3 months later--last night before bed he came out of the bathroom after brushing his teeth and looked really concerned. I asked him what was wrong and he pointed to his lip and said he saw something weird. I looked at it and it didn't look ANYTHING like a herpes sore.. it looked more like dead/discolored skin peeling on the edge of his lip is the best way I can describe it.. I asked him if it hurt, etc and the answer was no. I reassured him that I haven't had any symptoms lately (I only have had one OB and symptoms maybe 3 times in the past 4 years of having it.) and it really didn't look like anything to me. he said ok and got in the shower.
Once he got out of the shower he came and joined me in bed and said he realized that he had taken an adderal earlier in the day and was biting his lip all day and that is what the issue with his lip was. He apologized and said he was sorry that he was "just paranoid". I told him not to apologize as it is not his fault. this kind of hurt my feelings though. we cuddled a little and then had some awesome PROTECTED sex (the only kind we have) and went to bed.
This morning this issue was still bothering me so when I got to work I put together a bunch of different sources and websites about hsv2, symptoms, statistics, etc. to show to him. I sent him a text saying: "So I know we haven't talked much about this whole herpes situation..have you done any research or would you like me to send you some info about it? I understand your concern and don't want you to feel uncomfortable asking about it. Awkward conversation, I know I would just rather you know the facts...not everything you read online is true."
We were texting before hand and as soon as I sent that he didn't respond for about 2 and a half hours and when he did all he said was "sorry dealing with "doug" " (his alcoholic roommate)... didn't mention anything about it and started a whole other conversation....WTF?
I am REALLY confused... I understand its not the easiest thing to talk about, not only for him but for me as well. I am reaching out and trying to help him and now he is going to blow it off? I don't know what to do.. I don't want to bring it up again when clearly he just swept the situation under the table. This isn't something light for me... if he ever were to end up getting it I don't want it to be my fault for not explaining to him the possibilities/chances-- this is what happened to me and I made a promise to myself to never put anyone else in that situation. | my boyfriend though he had a herpes sore on his lip, turned out to be nothing, but when I tried to talk to offer him some material on the virus he ignored me and changed the subject... am I over reacting or do I need to address this again? | [
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Nothing personal, but I'm not strongly inclined to read a 162 page PDF. Would you mind giving me the | on the difference between intercity and light rail? | [
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I completely disagree with that. The people I hang out with are the people I'm going to be acting like. I was always a good kid, kinda nerdy, goody two shoes, joined the football team and started hanging out with two guys, lets call them Noah and Cam. Noah and Cam werent like my usual friends, but they were fun to hang around and everything was exciting and new with em.
It was with the two of them that I tried chew for the first time. I knew I shouldn't be doing it. My parents raised me better. I knew how much it can cost, I knew I had a family history of addiction but I thought one time wouldn't matter. Next thing I know I'm always chewing with them, quite clearly addicted. I drank for the first time with them, and I partied for the fist time in my life with them. The people I hung around are the people I would emulate.
I know a ton of my friends that starts hangin around the wrong crowd, and they changed. You are full of shit if you ever possibly think that "ohh Timmy was raised right, even though all the people he hangs out with are stoners, he won't be! He's better than that!" That's just bullshit. If your kid is hanging out with people doing things you don't like, your kid is probably doing them too. There aren't random people in a group of friends that don't do at least generally the same things the rest of the group does.
Keep in mind this is all coming from a 17 year old currently in high school. | if your kid hangs out with stoners, he's probably done a fair amount of weed. Doesn't matter how well he was raised, of he was raised like you think he wouldn't be hanging out with them. | [
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Hello /r/dbz.
A random thought struck me today, would a saiyan be able to transform through other feelings than anger? The main feelings that came to mind were: desperation and determination, here are my arguments:
Goku: Goku turned super saiyan after Krillin was killed by Frieza. Beforehand Goku had launched a massive Spirit Bomb at his opponent to little effect that, way he would feel a strong sense of desperation as the Spirit Bomb was his strongest technique at the time, and as Frieza was the symbol of everything Goku fought against, being the planet destroying, dominant emperor of the galaxy, Goku would feel sheer determination in ridding the universe of him. This mixed with anger of losing his best friend would then transform Goku into the warrior of saiyan legend.
Goku's feelings in this case would be all three.
Vegeta: As seen in the anime Vegeta transformed during a meteor storm that would otherwise destroy his only escape off the planet on which he was at the time, thus the feel of desperation. The only reason Vegeta was on that planet in the first place was because of his determination to turn super saiyan himself after he knew Goku achieved it, this would also raise his anger through pride as he never accepted being second at this time.
The main feelings of Vegeta's transformation in this scenario is in my opinion desperation and determination.
Gohan: Gohan transformed inside the Hypobolic Time Chamber under the training of Goku. Goku had taught him that through anger he would be able to achieve and master the transformation, although said anger was stated in canon rooted in his thoughts. But I believe that this is not the case. I believe that Gohan wished to please his father and defeat Cell at the same time, thus making the main feeling of Gohan's transformation determination.
Future Trunks: Trunks transformed after the loss of his mentor, Gohan. although this would have risen a burning anger in Trunks I don't believe that was the main cause. Without Gohan, Trunks would have no hope left in beating the androids, thus making the main feeling in his transformation desperation.
Goten: Goten transformed in a fight with his mother, at this point Goten had no reason to be angry at all, it was a simple spar with Chi-Chi, that he just simply didn't want to lose, thus making him transform through determination.
I will not be able to comment on Kid Trunk's transformation as noone knows the cause, atleast not through the manga or anime which I've used as my source material.
So here's my question: Would a saiyan be able transform through sheer determination and or desperation instead of anger, even though Akira himself pointed out multiple times in the manga and anime that the only trigger for the ascension is anger? | Would saiyans be able to transform through desperation and determination instead of just anger?
Edit: Typos and grammar mistakes. | [
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That anything I do in life will become nothing. No one will every care what I did 100 years from now. (Except if I went crazy and killed a bunch of ppl, which I would never do. I know I will never do incredible things) Makes life a bit pointless. I still have fun though! | Life in the end is pointless, Just have fun! | [
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Gather round ents, its story time!
So the other night, me and my frient were toking in the park around 11:30 or so. Now this is a suburban neighborhood and we've toked in said park 100s of times before so this night was just like any other night. We smoked some, went back to the car to get some more and had another bowl. We're high, just talkin about high things when all of a sudden a car and a person walking slowly approach our vehicle. I perked up a little just to get a better look at what was happening and then everything went to hell. A bright light went on from the newly pulled car. Turns out it was a police vehicle and that light was a spotlight. That man walking around? Well, we never figured it out but I'm pretty sure he was associated with the police somehow. So when that spotlight went on, we ran. NOTE: We were about 50 feet away from the car. So there we were running. Going through my mind: 'shit its over, I guess tonight is the night my life gets flipped.' Somehow I was able to remain pretty calm and this definitely helped me keep my head straight and think right even though I was at a solid [7]. So we're running through this neighborhood, we couldn't tell if the police were behind us or not, so we just ran and zig-zagged through the neighborhood just trying to make sure we weren't being followed. So after we were sure no one was with us, we went back to the car. We get to a spot where anyone near the car wouldn't see us but we could see them to see if everything was okay. Unfortunately there was still a police vehicle with the spotlight on behind the car. At this point I was running a map of the car to see if anything was left out in the open. We came to the consensus that nothing was out but we couldn't be 100% sure just cause of how high we were. So we circle back around and take a long way back to the car. We go around and get on the street with the car and I noticed at the opposite end of the street (behind us) was a car with its brake lights on and from behind it looked like a police car. So I make sure my frient knows that there might be a police officer behind us. So he tries to scope it out for himself but he looks behind us a few to many times and this alerted the people in the car. So the car turns around and there we were walking back towards the scene of the crime (kinda- it was the car, not the toke spot) and all of a sudden a police vehicle pulls up behind us. He slows down to about 5 mph for the last 100 feet of road (where we were on the sidewalk to the stop sign). He then proceeds to wait, at the stop sign, until we got to the car which we do so very casually and then calmly drive up behind him to turn at the stop sign. We left the neighborhood and and proceeded to munch out back at my frients house. | Had a close call with the police. Nothing happend, but it woke me up and reminded me that trees are still illegal and can ruin your life if you aren't careful enough. I just can't stress to yall enough, be careful!! | [
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A little back story: Once a month, I meet with a group of magicians. We go to our chosen bar, we drink, we practice, we perform, and generally a good time is had by all.
Alas, our favoured bar has closed for renovations that will likely damage the charm of the place. We need to find somewhere new. At the moment, this is the criteria we're looking at:
1) Interesting selection of beers (Not to craft-wankery levels, but appreciated)
2) Spacious enough to practice table card trickery - Booths are a huge plus.
3) Young(er) clientele (Essentially, no 'old man' pubs, as nice as they are for a Sunday roast)
4) Not typically so packed that you have to fight your way around the room, but still a healthy amount of spectators to approach.
5) Unlikely to piss off Security.
We have had a couple of suggestions which are both hit and miss; The Hippodrome Casino (which we have experienced) and the Cloud Lounge at Tiger Tiger (which we have not), but I thought asking here might provide a plethora of suggestions that you are all familiar with, and could recommend. Doesn't have to hit all of the criteria, but as many as possible. | Magicians homeless, favourite bar closed. We aim to magically misbehave. Where? | [
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Hey all. Forgive the throwaway account, I had to trash the old one, and obviously need to keep things anonymous for reasons more than understandable. So anyway, the other night, I came across a post on here about a tinychat room for fellow parTy friendly people to hang out, chat, and make new friends in. I checked it out, met some cool people, and had fun.
Tonight/this morning, since my head is in the clouds, I was hoping to go back to that tinychat room. Only problem being, it looks like the room, and any links to it here on Reddit, they seemingly all have been deleted. I wouldn't have the slightest clue of where to look. I'm hoping someone on here might be able to point me in the right direction if they're familiar with all this, and happen to know of any stim-friendly rooms there on TinyChat.
I'm new to all this shit so my apologies if this is all embarrassingly simple. I'm sure we all know how damn boring it can be when high, UP, and alone, so if there is a place to talk with others in the same boat, well yeah, I'd love to check it out. If anyone can be of help, I'd really appreciate it. Thanks in advance. | looking for a tinychat room to go blow clouds in, and could use some help. | [
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My great grandfather was helping Amsterdam through the winter of '44-'45. He owned a farm in Waterland and every day after he was done milking, the people of Amsterdam would visit him to get some milk. He was so generous that he sometimes gave away what he had to keep for himself. His brothers and nephews did the same thing. From the farms of Zunderdorp, Durgerdam and Holysloot, they supplied throughout the hongerwinter. If anyones (great)grandparents are from Amsterdam, they probably have visitted my ancestors. | my ancestors helped Amsterdam through the winter. | [
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My parents recently discovered a bed bug infestation in my younger sister's bedroom, who is living with them. They immediately threw away most of her furniture and now have her sleeping in my old bedroom, which I objected to because it's a good way to get the infestation to spread. I have told them many times that in addition to doing stuff on their own the should really call a professional, and they keep telling me they will call if it gets worse.
I told them that by the time they notice it has gotten worse it will have spread to new rooms, since there is no one sleeping in the room where they found them, but they said they have traps under the beds so they will know if bugs move around. My old bedroom is very cluttered, including lots of under the bed storage and other great places for bugs to hide besides the bed, so I believe bed bugs will have already infested my room before anyone notices it's a real problem.
My mother has never worried about bed bugs even when there was evidence she should. I found a bed bug on my clothes that had been sitting in the hallway near my sister's bedroom back in December and she refused to believe it was a problem and that there may be bugs in the house. My sister says she complained multiple times that she was waking up with bites and finding blood stains on her sheets and no one listened. | My parents want to wait and see if their bed bug problem gets worse before calling an exterminator, what can I tell them to convince them otherwise? | [
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Hi, long time lurker, first time poster here. It appears my bacon grease has started a fire in my kitchen. What would you do in this situation? My kitchen, and roof is almost entirely engulfed in flames now. | The roof, the roof, the roof is on fire. | [
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So my 7 month old puppy is quite smart and has done well with basic training using the clicker. She knows sit, stay, down, paw, high five, and she walks very well on the leash.
I would like to start giving her a job (or jobs?) to do because she is a sheltie/lab mix and seems to be itching to do something. I believe she has decided that eating all the flys that get in the house is one of her jobs currently. I did not teach her that, she picked it up on her own.
I guess my question is that I don't really understand what giving my dog a job means? I've heard that people teach their dogs to pick up or go get the newspaper, but is that their only job or do you teach them several jobs/tasks to complete?
OR is it training your dog to be a guard/rescue/herding dog?
I would love some clarification and also some suggestions for jobs! Obviously she is young still but I hope to start working with her sooner!
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8th grade South Carolina History (Not kidding). My teacher Mrs. O hated my buddy R. He was a nice enough guy, but seemed to rub the teachers the wrong way. Our class was after lunch and my buddy R got a Crunch bar to bring back to class to eat before the bell rang. He slowly unwrapped the bar, making sure not to break it. He methodically unwrapped it with a desire I have never seen before. He was so proud that he was sneaky enough to bring this candy bar into class and unwrap it without making a sound he wanted a little taste so he licked it. He was in heaven, you would have thought he had never tried a Crunch bar before. Before he decided to bite into the bar he looked around at us with a mocking look on his face of "oh yeah this is going to be awesome".
Little did he know that our teacher was on to him and was watching this the entire time. She timed her attack amazingly. As soon as he was done with his pre-candy bar ritual, with the bar inches from his mouth, she swoops in and takes it from him. I have never seen anyone so crushed at the loss of a candy bar. He literally cried out in protest, but she would not have it. It was by far one of the funniest things to happen in that class. | Friend got candy bar, homoerotic experience with it, teacher took it before he could eat it. | [
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Problem #1: god and santa are NOT in two different semantic domains. Patton borrows the Aristotelian/Anselmian idea of god as "the greatest possible being." Guess who is thought of as "the greatest possible being" by some children? I'll give you a hint: "Ho ho ho!" When atheists refer to god as "Santa Claus for grownups," this is what we mean.
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A couple of weeks ago I was followed home by 2 random guys.
I was taking my husband to the gym, but since my son was asleep, I had him ride with me to pick up some pizza. As I'm coming out of the pizza place, I nearly get hit by a car flying around the side of the building. I get in my car and leave. I go left, they go right.
I take my husband to the gym, pull out and get stopped at a light. I look behind me, and there is the car that almost hit me.
I take several turns (read 5) on the way to my house and they are still behind me. I live on a small circle, so I decide if they are still behind me on my street, I'll drive past the house and try to lose them. I was kinda freaking out because it was just me and my two young kids at this point.
They stayed on my bumper the whole way round. I get to the stop sign at the end and they are literally right on my tail, almost touching my car, staring straight at me.
I blew through a few lights, changed lanes and turned last minute, basically drove all over town till I lost them. | I got followed home by some creepers | [
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my god that's adorable. the horn isn't ridiculously long like most artists tend to do, wing has an amazing design to it, the stripes are very elegant and well placed. | This zebra princess is perfect. 11/10. that's right, 11 out of fucking 10. | [
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Williams is about the only thing that is a "BPA" right now. Lots of draft evals and mocks shift around about 10 different players in the top ten. We're pretty much guaranteed to get someone's opinion of BPA at our pick, and Pace will say that no matter what after the pick. He will very likely have a tier of a few players he would take at BPA7, and he will do that.
And that is where need meets BPA. Cooper (wr) doesn't come close for the Bears. In the stated scenario, Danny Shelton or Brandon Scherff would fit nicely. Other people would say Collins is top 10 regardless. | it's more complicated than "BPA". And it's all Pace's opinion anyway. | [
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Volunteered to perform a skit at our sophomore language awards ceremony. Being the Latin geek that I was, I wrote a skit and had myself and a few friends perform it while wearing togas in front of 400 people and my high school crush. Get up there, one guy gets stage fright immediately and backs out and then every joke bombs. I'm talking complete silence. I basically hid for the rest of the day | made a complete fool of myself while wearing a toga in sophomore year
**Bonus happy ending: Senior year I'm the presenter for the Latin department and have everyone laughing like crazy and receive complements from random teachers on how funny I was. Feels good man! | [
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I used to hate myself for it. I lived with this massive guilt that I had done something wrong, was something wrong. That still affects me sometimes, when I see a straight couple, or hear about friends having kids and getting married. I get these kind of flashes of that old shame.
Once I got over it though, and accepted it, a new demon reared its head. When I was younger, I thought that if I came out my life would get infinitely better. While it's true that I don't feel ashamed anymore, and I don't hate myself, I still feel ostracized. Because I'm not hot enough, or fit enough, or fashionable enough, or gay enough. When I'm told that I don't seem gay, I don't know how to feel. Good, that I don't fit neatly into a stereotype of homosexuality, or bad that even gay men wouldn't pick up on it. I wish that I was asexual. | Whine whine bitch moan | [
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whether I accept God or not, if you're telling me that Heaven is a better place than Hell, then I want to go to Heaven.
The only reason that Heaven is better than Hell is because God is there. I believe God to be the only source of good and joy, so if He is not in Hell, then neither is anything good. The lack of anything good to me is torturous. If you have no love for God, I think you would find Heaven just as torturous as Hell, albeit for different reasons.
>Empathy. It's a skill we gained from evolution where we recognize that when we look out for each other, we do better. When I see someone in pain, that hurts me, because I can imagine their pain, and I can imagine that if I was in that pain, I'd want someone to help me.
This sounds selfish to me. The reason you care for others is to make yourself feel better? Because you can imagine what their pain feels like and you'd want someone to help you? That's so self serving, your actions center around you. Love is not self-serving, it is selfless. Do you love anyone or anything selflessly, or do you believe in a selfless love? Is there any reason, according to you, to love anyone except to help yourself?
>God is unproven and baseless
Obviously I disagree with you, statements like this help no one.
>when you hurt a person, your first thought should always be, "How can I make it up to this person?" and not "How can I get God to forgive me for what I've done to him?"
I think that your first thought can be both of these things. Of course it is important to make it up to that person, it is also important why you wish to make it up to that person. If it is (as you might say) so that they will continue to like you, so that you can have friends and be in society and whatever, this is again only self serving. The reason I would apologize and feel bad and make it up to someone if I hurt them is because I love them and I love God.
>I'm not "rejecting" anything here. There's no evidence for God, plain and simple.
Again, as a Christian, I believe that there is evidence for God, plain and simple. So from my view you are rejecting God.
>I chose not to hang out with God, so I go to Hell, which is simply not hanging out with God. If it were as simple as that, you'd have a point. But it's not. We've outlined clearly that Hell is a form of torture
It is as simple as that, so maybe I do have a point. Hell is, as I said above, a form of torture because God is not there. But if you don't like God, Heaven would, I believe, be torturous to you as well.
> So if I'm clearly not rejecting God, but am totally open to him, then why do I deserve to be punished? ... The whole thing sounds pretty ridiculous, doesn't it?
It does sound ridiculous! I think, as I have said, that you are rejecting God. You were invited to the birthday party, and you are choosing not to go. (see below)
>God has not revealed himself to me, in any noticeable way.
sigh. Yes he has, as I have said. You say "I'm looking for anything ." I don't believe you are. I see God in everything . When you say you are looking for "any sign" that God is out there, what you mean is, you are looking for a massive unarguable perfect sign that reveals His existence and nature once and for all without question. (curing all disease, "blasting knowledge of His existence into our minds", advancing technology, etc). This is not how God works. If He did this, humans would have no free will, if He "blasted knowledge of His existence into our minds" then our believing in Him would no longer be our choice would it? You say the way He does reveal Himself is to subtle and questionable. I say it is more than enough to the open-hearted and open-minded.
>There are definitely intelligent Christians out there, but none actually have any evidence or persuasive arguments. The morality inside me can be explained with evolutionary psychology, and the wonder of creation says nothing about God whatsoever.
Really? You've heard and seriously considered every argument for Christianity and demolished all of them? No persuasive arguments whatsoever? And I don't believe that the morality inside of you can be explained with evolutionary psychology.
>The simple, harsh, reality, is that the only reason you believe in God, is because you were raised in a culture that told you to, and now you're afraid to be wrong.
Neither of those statements is true, I don't know where you came up with that.
>you don't need God to be happy or moral
On the contrary, without Him I have no real joy. | I think you should think this through a little more. also, a lot of the thing you already said I had already answered. | [
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Just wanted to point out here the amazing potential with Spectre+IO mid.
I've done it with a buddy a few times, and have yet to lose.
Basically, IO grabs a mek or drums and a bottle.. You can haunt, and watch your illusion on a solo laner like normal and just get IO to pop in and pull you back to safety, OR, you can try to gank with the tp, do your damage, and if things get shaky or they escape the last few right clicks, take the recall back to safety and haunt. If you have radiance, your illusion alone will probably get the finish. Or risk the reality and go get the kill yourself.
You can even do this from fountain and get IO to buy a bottle for spectre. On the recall, you can hit bottle in fountain for super fast regen, then go back to the fight at your illusion. This requires some very specific timing and isn't really worth it unless you haunt immediately AFTER the recall, but it pretty much wrecks everyone.
We've also been experimenting with manta after radiance rush on spectre to fake people out and just generally apply more lane pressure. | you're prolly sleeping on the wisp spectre ultra meta fuck you we are trying this shit combo. | [
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I'm heading to basic in August and got SECF for my job. I'm excited about the work I'll be doing and looking forward to the experience but I do have some concerns. I'm primarily concerned about how a submarine job can affect someone's mental health. I've read some articles and blogs from people that say they love the work but also some that say they are suffering from depression. Over all, the information I've found is to scanty to give me a clear picture. I would like to hear from sailors who have served on subs or have some experience with them and if their mental health was adversely affected. | Got a sub job and curious as to its effects on your mental health | [
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Knowing my blood type saved my fetus' life, and possibly mine, too.
Having a late-in-life pregnancy causes the medical establishment a pain in the crawdad. So they draw sixteen gazillion tubes of blood for "prenatal testing" (but it is really just to get back at you for the aforementioned pain in the crawdad).
They send my basketful of blood to a big fancy laboratory, and tell me to come back in two weeks.
Two weeks later, I show up, and they tell me that I have to have the "rhogam" shot. I know what rhogam is, and what it is for, but I asked why, just to find out what was going on. Nursie says it is because I have B- blood, and I have to have the rhogam shot so the baby won't be affected.
This is when I calmly state that I have A+ blood, and I refuse to take the rhogam.
Doctor comes in, and asks why I'm refusing. I repeat that I have A+ blood, and always have, don't know that blood type has ever been known to change mid-life, so I'm not taking the shot. She glances over at the test results in my folder and says "it says you have B-, right here."
Lost me right there.
Seriously, you have to be proactive about your health, because the doctors are going to believe their paperwork, not you.
I told her that I'd been in the military, and it has been A+ all during my service. She said that sometimes the military testing is faulty. I told her that maybe her laboratory was faulty, too. I listed every place I'd ever been told I had A+ blood (bush nurse up in Alaska, doctor in Alaska, doctor in WA, every doctor in every military hospital, and the lab results from the last baby I'd had, at a different clinic right here in town), and told her, if she could get her lab to say AGAIN that I had B-, I'd be willing to take the shot.
She sent me down, I got the blood draw, went back up and waited, and she said, with much chagrin, that I was, indeed, A+.
Then I had to remind her that all those "normal" fetus results were for somebody else, and I wondered aloud what had happened to MY lab results.
Never heard back on that. But I didn't take the shot. | find out for yourself, because the doctors don't give a shit. | [
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Dear ladies (and whomever else may be reading) of Twox,
Firstly, hey. Sorry for using a throwaway account. And I’m sorry if this post could have found a better home, but I felt the most comfortable with all of you.
There was what I'll call an 'incident' last night which left me feeling rather uncomfortable and the opposite of happy, but I couldn't pinpoint why or why I felt incapable of speaking up. So I've come to you kindred folk, because I'd like to know if a) Being distraught by it was an overreaction, b.) What I should have said/should say if anything similar happens again, and c.) How many of you have overheard similar things?
I'm a student at a very progressive liberal arts school where our small classes are discussion based, so usually I’m surrounded by pleasant, well informed people and the discussions tend to continue outside of class. With that in mind, I may begin: Last night I was enjoying the herb with a group of peers in my dorm, listening to music like we usually do when relaxing together. The guys in this story have said asshole-esque and offensive comments in the past, but I’ve never been left feeling so confused. They frequently refer to ladies as ‘bitches’. We were taking turns playing music via youtube when a video was put on that received a lot of attention (
It began a little like this:
Guy 1: Woah, that chick is kind of hot.
Guy 2: Yeah, look at that rack!
Guy 1: She’s definitely a girl to fuck, NOT a girl to marry.
Guy 2: She’s hot in a cheap prostitute whore way, she’s porn star hot.
(note: it wasn’t said jokingly, it was very matter-of-fact)
This video and the guys conversation had officially caught my attention and in my stoned state I began to question what the implications of their dialogue was; was that a common thing, to segregate women into categories of ‘the kind you fuck and don’t marry’ and ‘the kind you marry’? Does that mean there’s a third, middle ground category where there’s a girl who is both fuckable AND marriage material? When they see a random woman walking down the street, is this one of the first thoughts that comes to mind? The conversation then branched out:
Guy 2: Yeah, they’re just selling sex in this video, which is good for me because it’s so easy and I’m going into advertising.
He then continued talking about how easy and effective selling sex and using the bodies of women in advertising is and how he won’t consider talking negatively about it because it will benefit him so much in his career. Which then expanded to the topic of censorship, where the stance the guys took can be summarized into “it’s bad parenting, not the influence of the media”. The fact that he defended this public treatment of women and sex while also saying that it’s the responsibility of parents to protect their children from it seemed to imply he thought it was bad but necessary….but why?
Now that I’ve explained what happened, these are the thoughts I was left struggling to sort out:
-What exactly was it about this incident that made me feel so uncomfortable and why was I afraid to speak up to these jerks? I felt like they were talking about my gender as if I wasn’t a part of it, I was essentially nonexistent in the room.
-What does it say when the objectification of women in sex-centric advertising is acknowledged, but not thought ill of because of the potential monetary gains it could allow? And, what does the success of sex in advertising imply about our nature---since these guys said that it works and they could acknowledge it when it was used in a video they enjoy, does this say something about them (and the rest of our society), that they’re okay with being manipulated to like something/do something/buy something because of the female body?
After this incident and previous ones (my personal favorite: a group was having a contest to see who could blow up a condom the fastest, the guy in the above story made disgusted faces and said he has never even touched a condom with his hand, “I make the bitches put it on for me, sometimes with their mouth”), I have no desire to spend time with him. | I sat quietly and listened to male friends speak of women in a disgusting way, it made me uncomfortable and afraid to speak up for reasons I don’t know. I was stoned, not sure if I was paranoid and overreacting or if this would have unsettled others as well, and why. | [
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To the skeptics I say, you all must be ginger. I bet you don't even brunette.
My biggest inspiration? What a question. To preface this, I want to say that I believe that inspiration isn't something we just spend time trying to seek from others, but more from ourselves. Inspiration has always been a hazy topic for me, the word is so open to interpretation.
When I was a child, I was quiet individual. I was more than happy to occupy myself with various trivial hobbies like Lego, trainsets, and PS1. These forms of entertainment would lead to be a recurring theme throughout my early life. At the time, however, I would be in a prolonged state of bliss, so long as I was occupying myself. I had friends, sure, but while friends come and go - one always has one's self.
It could be argued that the theme of 'inspiration' first appeared in my life at that time, childhood. I was inspired to do well in school by peers and teachers. I went to a good primary school. Inspiration came in many forms, and whilst I may not have realised it at the time, by interacting with other children, I was building a strong mental capacity to feel 'inspired'.
In long rainy lunchtimes, I would sit in the classroom and draw. Just draw. I wasn't a good artist, but I loved to draw. As one drawing came to a close, it inspired me to draw more an more. I would draw anything and everything. I loved every second of it, and I always kept my drawings.
Although I may have found inspiration in myself at this early age, this was not possible to keep up as I reached adolescence. A new school, new friends - inspiration was now something I would have to seek purely from others. I saw musicians in bands, this inspired me to take up and instrument, and although I would start by learning piano, I found that ultimately my niche would be the drums.
Throughout Secondary School, friends would come and go, and although none of these friends truly inspired me, they helped me to seek out the path to once again inspire myself. That would be, however, if it wasn't for girls.
I had my first girlfriend just after my 14th birthday. When we kissed, I hated it, and broke up with her. She didn't inspire me much. I had a couple more girlfriends over the next couple of years, one of which I really liked, she inspired me to find fulfilment in my life. Unfortunately, we were not meant to be, and broke up.
Since then, 'inspiration' has been something I have struggled to find. Yes, my school days are finished - but now I have no direction. No inspirational compass. Inspiration now comes from long hours spent watching TV, eating junk food, or writing walls of text to strangers on the internet. I will eventually find inspiration from a proper, honest, source. Until that time, my days are meaningless, and full of loneliness. I don't complain though. | reddit is my biggest inspiration. | [
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Sorry for the long post. I have a sibling getting married soon in a city i will need to fly to. My boyfriend is invited, but has opted not to go because of the price and missing school (reasonable). My gut says he doesn’t like weddings and will be overwhelmed to meet my whole family (he’s only met most my immediate family and he’s not the most extroverted guy). Also, has not met the sibling getting married. I understood his reasonings and did not push the subject. Even though it is an important event in my life, I understand why he won’t be going. But now its bothering me for multiple reasons:
1: Flights are expensive, but his parents pay for all his expenses (other than leisurely things like video games). I know he has extra money. Maybe i should be offering to help pay (though I have a much tighter budget than he does). The roundtrip is expensive, i paid around 340.
2: He skips class all the time…now he’d have an actual reason. I can’t tell you how angry i would be if he skipped class on a day he claimed he’d be “missing” by going to the wedding.
3: Weeks after telling him about the wedding he said he is now considering visiting his brother the weekend I am gone. Arguing that it works because he won’t miss any classes. (He decide against this once he looked at flight prices, which admittedly are surprisingly high). The trip for the wedding is a couple days longer, we'd be gone for more than just a weekend (4 days vs. 2 days)
4: He is now inviting me on vacation with his family this summer, all my expenses would be paid once I got there I would just need to buy a a ticket out. They are cheap flights (a fraction of the wedding flight prices), but I feel its me making an effort where he would not if the roles were reversed. He has also offered to help pay for the flight. I was invited when his brothers girlfriend couldn’t make it (I’m an add on), though I’m still flattered since his parents/siblings are great.
I feel childish to hold it against him, the fact that he has chosen not to go to the wedding, and basically use it as my reasoning to not go with him on vacation.
Weddings and the idea of him meeting everyone scares me a bit! It is a big deal, "is this really the person i want to introduce to everyone else in my life?” Has run across in my head. Its not a deal breaker for him not to go, but everything else that has come up, his excuses, a desire to fly to another city the same weekend to see his brother, and an expectation that I come on his family vacation, make me think he is not the kind of person to make the sacrifices that i'd expect in a significant other I have been seeing for over a year.
What are your thoughts?
Am i being unreasonable? We haven’t had any major issues but these events seem to be representative of what a life with him might be like, how he will act. I don’t like it. I want to break up calmly (thats not a thing lol) because I just don’t think this will work. After a year I’d think a significant other should willing to make the trip for my siblings wedding. | My boyfriend won’t fly with me to my brothers wedding, but wants me to fly on vacation with him. I feel like there is a double standard here. I think a long term significant other should be making the sacrifices to go with me. | [
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As said everywhere else this is true with any fanbase. Sports fans, religion and anything else. We all enjoy standing behind what we like and trying to share that with others but some forget that others may not want to hear about it or be berated for not liking it like you.
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Point your fingers don't listen to those other people they want to take your rights they want to take your life they want to take your sneakers. They don't care about you. They will drool on the gun store counter and see the pattern of truth in the pattern it makes and know which gun to get to kill you because you are them and I am they and they are out to get you so RUNNNNNNNN before it is too late and they get you. | Run for your life they are after you. | [
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When I was younger I was enjoying a quick wank and did not realize my dog was hanging out below my computer chair. When I completed my masturbation, I moved my chair back. I heard a starling yelp from below which caused me to jerk my arm propelling a large wad of ejaculate through the air. I tried to catch it, but it was too late. The warm solution landed right on her snout between her eyes. She licked it up quicker than any girl I've been with. | gave my childhood dog a facial and she licked it clean | [
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This is a rare example, but my car battery died while we were there and I didn't want to risk waiting until the morning to have it jumped, so right after Elton ended we packed up and started looking for jumper cables. Got it started and got in line to leave right away and it took us about 25 minutes to get out onto the interstate and made the 13 hour trip back to Tampa (switched drivers on and off) | leaving after the Sunday night set can be really convenient, but if you cherish sleep just wait until the morning | [
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We had just started dating and I went to a new years eve party without him because he went back home for winter break, home to him is 2 1/2 hours away. I got pretty drunk with people I thought were my friends. Once I had had quite a few drinks the people I was partying with asked me to make out with the only other two chicks at the party because we were all bisexual. I didn't want to do anything with the two girls but the girls and guys (there were also 2 guys, the boyfriends of the girls) kept bugging me about it. I then told them if they could get my boyfriend to agree I would. They talked to my boyfriend and he said sure. ONLY TO MAKING OUT (Keep that in mind) After making out with said girls, everybody in the room told me to take my clothes off, and had the other girls do the same, so we could play with each others boobs. I was told that my boyfriend was ok with everything that went on that night as long as my boyfriend gets videos of it. Things escalated quickly after that. I had all my clothes off, I was grabbing boobs, the other girls were grabbing mine, and then I was told to eat one out and the other would do the same to me. After this one of the couples left, and the other couple had me lay down on the bed so the girl could eat me out while her boyfriend had sex with her. I feel like that night wasn't necessarily my fuck up, but I was just taken advantage of. All the people at the party were no where near as drunk as I was, and they had all snorted some kind of pain killer and smoked weed that night too.
The next fuck up was all me. An old friend of mine (who is a guy) contacted me and we started hanging out again. My boyfriend went home for Christmas and I stayed because we couldn't figure out how to visit both families because we both have big families. During the week he was back home me and my guy friend were hanging out. Later on in the week he tried to convince me that he was better than my boyfriend, that he was nicer and would do anything for me, blah blah blah. Well I told him I used to have a crush on him-big mistake. He took it as a challenge. He didn't stop trash talking my boyfriend, he constantly compared himself to my boyfriend trying to get me to believe he was better. One night before he drove me home things got weird. My guy friend started tickling/wrestling with me and then started trying to turn me on because since he was my guy friend we had discussed some things that make us turned on. He then picked me up and moved me so I was straddling him. Stupid me didn't move, so the guy friend kept trying to turn me on and then started rubbing me right above my pants line. Things progressed until he put his hands down my pants. (I was wearing sweat pants) He touched the very edge of my vagina, and that's when I got off of him. It's my fuck up because I didn't say no/didn't tell him to stop when I should have.
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There are some people who can do LDR's, and there are people who can't. I think the posters saying this is ABSOLUTELY A BAD, HORRIBLE IDEA ALWAYS are the latter kind of people. Which is perfectly fine, but everyone should realize there are people who are completely capable of making LDR's work.
I am not one of those people.
Being young doesn't have too much to do with it. Again, there are people who aren't capable of having serious relationships at 16-17 and there are people who are.
I dated a girl from when I was 13-17. We broke up and I'm with someone else now, but we were very serious about one another and things just didn't work out. But that's okay too!
With that said, some of the other posters have a point when they say to really think your decision through before going with it. A plane ticket from Australia to the US will be expensive no matter what because it will use an obnoxious amount of fuel. So it's kind of a big decision.
Right now you should do some thinking about this decision, and you should have some talks about this decision with your girlfriend. Don't talk about it TOO much, because then you'll run the risk of souring the plan by worrying about it so much. I would do the following: 1) Decide if you're reasonably committed to this idea, doesn't have to be definite but justtt be sure you do really want to go through with it. 2) Talk things out with your girlfriend. Tell her you have this idea of visiting her, gauge her reaction, possibly talk a little bit about the details (you don't have to have EVERYTHING planned out, but setting a time window and deciding how long you'll stay would be a good start). 3) Try not to talk about the trip unless you have something new to add, you looked at some plane tickets or you found that it'd be better to travel in a more specific time window (i.e. you said you'd visit in August and then found it might be better to visit in the beginning of the month). Don't talk about it unless you have some new information to add . 4) Around 1-2 months before your flight start nailing down specific specifics. You normally want to buy a plane ticket around 30 days before you leave, but since this is a big trip you might want to get them sooner.
In the mean time, work on maintaining a healthy relationship! I got burned pretty bad when my first girlfriend and I broke up. Since then I try my best to read things on this sub, on r/relationships, and some dating advice columns, and just how to be a better girlfriend for my girlfriend.
Here's how I went wrong with my first girlfriend, maybe it can help you: Everything started off really great. We were super into each other and spent a lot of time together. About a year and a half in things started to go a little sour. For one, we stopped going out and doing anything and just took to hanging out at each other's houses. Secondly, we were growing as people. I felt very (embarrassingly) threatened by her starting to make her own friends (I had always been popular, but she didn't really have friends of her own until later). I was just annoying and a jerk about her hanging out with them, like controlling annoying. She also started doing stuff like marching band and jazz band, I didn't want her to do them because of annoying stupid controlling reasons (I was really busy, and these things were during the ONLY free time I had so I would never see her).
I pushed her away for a while, but then she started hanging out with someone else and wound up cheating on me and lying to my face about it for a couple of months. Like I said, it was kind of a nasty break up. The worst part is that we broke up almost two years ago and nothing came of it, I wish we could at least be friends at this point but.. Well.. We're not.
Even though the breakup hurt, I learned a lot from that relationship. I know enough to look back on it and cringe at myself for being an ass. And I'm (I hope) better for the girl I'm dating now.
So yeah, I always think self-improvement is a good thing. Be aware of your weaknesses and try to manage them. I have a tendency to be lazy, controlling, and I get really depressed in the winter (Seasonal Affective Disorder). If I notice my girlfriend has done a lot of things for me (made me food, cleaned my room, holding me, put the next episode of a show on Netflix) then I try to do some stuff for her. If I feel insecure about something then I talk to my girlfriend and tell her that I'm feeling a certain way. I can't really do much about the winter thing, but I mostly just want to cuddle and sleep so she was fine with that.
With that, I'll also plug r/longdistance and r/wemetonline. Like I said, I'm not a long distance relationship person. Hopefully my general relationship advice helps, and these people can probably give you more specific advice. | In conclusion: Long distance relationships can work. Young relationships can be serious and work. Take planning your trip in slow steps, don't talk about it too much. Read some relationship advice stuff regularly. Read some self-help blogs regularly (I can recommend some for you if you want). Understand your weaknesses and try to manage them. When in doubt, tell your girlfriend how you feel and ask for her help. | [
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I know everyone on this sub is saying that Vigilante and/or Wild Dog are Punisher rip offs, and some people even get the idea that Tobias Church, most likely based off Tobias Whale, is a Kingpin ripoff. So that's already a bit ridiculous. But I thought of the rest of the characters they added and you can draw parallels to almost every main character in Daredevil except Foggy.
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NOTE: A lot of this isn't working right now. I'm pretty sure it's because of the reddit downtime.
First of all, you probably want to check out the Reddit
API :
(Invoke-RestMethod www.reddit.com/.json).data.children `
| Select -Expand data | Select score, id, title
As the API page explains, you can get the associated comments by querying using
that "id" property:
(invoke-restmethod www.reddit.com/comments/n1acq.json)[1].data.children `
| Select -Expand data | Select ups, downs, author, body
It would be awesome if this was all in the form of a module. Especially now that
powershell 3 does smart on-demand-loading of modules. If you're not familiar,
you'd probably want to go check out [advanced functions](
, I also always like to reference
[this naming guide](
so that I get my verbs right. Finally, and I'm really just brainstorming here, some fancy
[type magic](
could come in handy for dealing with the responses better.
Actually, thinking about it, the login is probably one of the harder bits.
You've got to get a cookie after doing an HTTP POST. The only way I know of
doing that is to fall back to the .NET HTTPWebRequest class! There's probably a
better way, but I'm being hampered by the lack of cmdlet help a bit here. In any
case.... here goes nothing....
$userName = 'karmanaut'
$password = 'iWouldStealHisKarmaIfIKnewHisPassword'
$loginUri = [uri] "
$parameters = "user={0}&passwd={1}" -f $userName, $password
$buffer = [System.Text.Encoding]::UTF8.GetBytes($parameters);
$request = [System.Net.HTTPWebRequest]::Create($loginUri)
$request.CookieContainer = New-Object System.Net.CookieContainer
$request.ContentType = "application/x-www-form-urlencoded"
$request.Method = "POST"
$request.ContentLength = $buffer.Length;
$stream = $request.GetRequestStream()
Try { $stream.Write($buffer, 0, $buffer.Length) }
Finally{ $stream.Dispose() }
$response = $request.GetResponse()
$successCookie = $response.Cookies | Where Name -eq 'reddit_session'
$webSession = New-Object Microsoft.PowerShell.Commands.WebRequestSession
$webSession.Cookies.Add($successCookie)
$me = Invoke-RestMethod ' -WebSession $webSession
$me.data | Select name, modhash, comment_karma, is_gold
Now, I can't actually test that last line, since Reddit is still acting weirdly
for me. I think it should probably-maybe-kinda-potentially-sorta work though. Ideally,
it would return information about the user you just logged in. Hopefully that's you. | I may have gotten slightly carried away here. | [
{
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"role": "user"
},
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"content": "I may have gotten slightly carried away here.",
"role": "assistant"
}
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It's interesting to learn your perspective on the retired numbers issue. I can definitely see why it would feel jilting to no longer have those numbers retired...it's like another element of your team's identity and history being erased. That being said, I also think of the fact that the Thunder still honor Sonics retired numbers, and when I heard about that I found it a little weird seeming too. I can also see how a fan of the Sonics (in this particular example) would feel hurt by that, since the Thunder appear to be continuing to assert control of Seattle basketball's legacy when Seattle itself is not benefiting. So I'm not sure...neither option really sounds that good =/ | having your team move sucks no matter what and I feel sorry for all fans that that happens to | [
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It would depend on how well you "seal" the jar. Theoretically, if the jar had a perfect seal and the odorous molecules didn't react with the walls of the vessel, the fart jar should be just as smelly one year after original capture and storage; however, if the fart jar had an imperfect seal, allowing the gaseous fart odors to diffuse from the jar, or if the fart molecules reacted with the vessel wall in a way that neutralized their pungent potency, then there would be no fart smells at the fart capture anniversary. | It probably depends on things. | [
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Yes, you're missing something. And it's called extrinsic value. So if the strike price is $124 and the stock is $127 it will have an INTRINSIC value of $3. The contract will also have an EXTRINSIC value (also known as "premium") that is added on to the price of the contract.
To get the extrinsic value you have to take 4 things into consideration:
Time left on the contract
Volatility of the underlying stock (how wildly the stock typically moves). The more wildly the stock moves, the more you will pay.
Any planned events during the length of the contract that could sway the underlying stock price wildly in one direction. For instance, an earnings report, or if a bio tech plans to release the results of their clinical trials.
The proximity of the strike price to the current price. This only applies to out of the money contracts. | there's no such thing as a free lunch in the stock market. | [
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I'll keep this as short as possible.
My girlfriend is really the most beautiful girl I've ever met. She has the brain, the looks, everything. We both really think we have something here.
Nobody is perfect though -- sometimes she is really.... weird. She gets mad at me for any reason she could find. We often have an argument and don't talk for the rest of the night, and the next day we're not fine until I apologize. Yes, until I apologize, no matter who's right or wrong in an argument.
It's bugging me so much, I can't handle it anymore. This just happened. I'll give some background first: we both are on a second year in college and I have a subject from first year which I didn't pass, advanced math actually. Homework from that subject is extremely hard and only really good students can do it fully. The rest of us can do two or three problems but not everything.
Since I don't have any friends that didn't pass adv. math I have to find some other people that could help me out and I could help them out. My college has a webpage that has a chat in it, so every student can go online and talk with other people blah blah. I've asked one student there, a girl actually, if she did any problem from the homework. I've did problems 3-to-6, she did 1-to-3, so we exchanged solutions. And done, nothing more happened.
Apparently, my gf is somehow mad at me because of that. I have no idea why. I've never been like that. She has an ex that calls her, adds her on facebook and then deletes her, sends her messages... She has other people hit on her when she's out with girls, and I don't mind because I know that in the end of the day, I love her and she loves me, no matter what. We really think we can have a serious thing going on here, but she has turned into a jealous-fucking-monster lately, and it's rather ridiculous.
Ofcourse, she's mad at me. She won't talk to me. I have to tell her my side of the story but I can't reach her. She's offline on Facebook, she turned off her cell and... There. Am I wrong here? I should add that I didn't tell her explicitly: "Hey, MY_GF, I'm talking with person A. He didn't finish homework. Now I'm talking to person B and she did. We're exchanging solutions atm...". Was I supposed to tell her? I don't know, she was never jealous this much. I mean, she was but a little. It's "cute jealousy", when we see our partners with someone else, especially when we weren't in a relationship... but DAMN, this is way too much in my honest opinion.
So.... What do? I have no idea how to react, I'm so mad at her for being this ridiculous but if I tell her that I think she'll get even more mad at me. Fuck. | My gf has never been a jealous type. I've recently asked some girl on a college website that has a chat in it to help me out with homework. We exchanged solutions and that's it. I didn't tell my girlfriend explicitly I'm talking with that girl, but she [gf] knows I can't finish homework by myself. She's now mad at me and won't talk to me and I'm really irritated because she's acting like this but I have no idea how to approach to her. What should I do? | [
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Congratulations!
I would agree eating more carbohydrate is a good idea at this point, to at least 100 grams a day of starch (or more) from foods like potatoes and sweet potatoes. You could also try eating white rice as well - it seems to be the least harmful grain, and is generally much less problematic than gluten grains.
Paul Jaminet wrote a very thorough review of how to construct a meal to minimize hyperglycemia from eating carbohydrate; I highly recommend giving it a read: [ | is that you can reduce glycemic impact of starch significantly by always pairing it with fat, protein, acids, or dairy - don't put too much weight on "GI" of a single food | [
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Although she had also agreed to not talk to the people she had hooked up with, she now wants to reconcile differences with one of the guys she slept with. I have always held a grudge against this person, and on occasion we will see him at a party.
She feels that it's too awkward to avoid him, although I see no issue with this and want her to remain completely out of contact with him.
I may have not completely let go of what has happened with this guy in the past, but I know that she would absolutely refuse to let me have any interaction with any of the people that I was talking to while we apart, though she is mad that I don't want her to talk to this guy.
Is she holding me to a standard that she does not want to be held accountable to? And how can I explain this to her if she is without coming off as a jackass? | girlfriend wants to talk to guy she hooked up with while we were apart, who i hold a grudge against. she would not want me to talk to a girl I hooked up with while we were apart. What do I do? | [
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As the title states, my friend (let's call her W) is moving into a flat with a pervert (let's call him H). He's actually a sober guy, in a twelve step program, but is known (by me and others that know of him) as a pervert. He has asked me out on a date and talked about inappropriate things to me. I have firmly told him how I feel, and he has respectfully backed off.
My friend, and also my neighbor, moved in to my apartment building not quite a year ago (August) and is getting ready to move in the next month. Her and I have developed a friendship. She told me where she was moving, and who she would be living with. I told her how H was a perv and she just laughed it off or brushed it off becaus W's dad is friends with H. I guess W's dad does not know him like I do. H's sponsor in the twelve step program is a rapist, he has raped women I know when they were seeking help. So H is associated with a rapist, and that really sets off red flags. I haven't told W about this, because she is set on moving and getting ready to leave by the end of the month.
I just don't know what to do/don't know if there's anything I can do. H hasn't been publicly known (that I know of) raping anyone, but H was in prison for an unknown reason, lived in my building for a while, and moved out right before W moved in. H even made it a point to approach me and tell me about how I'll 'have a hot neighbor moving in'. W is a pretty woman, but he didn't need to go and be weird and share that.. Just feeling concerned that W is going to get into a bad situation. The place she's moving is also not in a good neighborhood. | friend is moving into a flat with a perv, want her to know she could be getting into a bad situation but she doesn't seem to notice/mind/care since perv is friends with her dad. Don't know what to do.
Edit(s): spelling, grammar. | [
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I keep seeing comments where people think the wall will be brought down this season. A lot of people suggest it will be in the last episode, or even the very last scene.
My question is, if they bring the wall down so early, what are they going to do with two more seasons?
Or is this why you think they would only need shorter seasons for 7 and 8?
What do you think, guys? | Why do people think the wall will fall this season? When do YOU think it will(if at all)?
Edit: Thanks for providing some good discussion, guys. You're all the best. | [
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With the upcoming Oktoberfest season I would like to brew an Oktoberfest style "ALE". I do not have lagering equipment and I really like Widmer's OKTO so I am shooting for something close to it. I have taken a wild stab at a recipe from information shown at [Widmer's website]( I was hoping Brewit could give me some notes on the [recipe I have so far]( | Need help cloning Widmer's OKTO | [
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So, the other week I found this ring ( on the ground. I picked it up, thinking it was a cheap metal one from one of those ring dispenser things. However, I later noticed this PD stamp on the inside, and now I'm wondering if it is a palladium ring (the stamp: Does anyone know if it would be worth taking to a jewelry shop for an appraisal, or is it just a cheap ring, like I originally thought? | Is this ring worth anything? | [
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I'm really not looking for people to pity me, obviously I appreciate all the kind words I've received so far, but this isn't for karma, for pity or attention, this is for my life.
Basically, my dad passed away on the 26th of May 2012 (will prove it to the mod) from cancer, it was very sudden, he had cancer before, in his neck. 3 years ago he was given the all clear, he was 49 at the time.
He always suffered since, the chemo destroyed his salivary glands so he couldn't eat anything that wasn't moist, this destroyed him, he couldn't eat any of his favorite foods, he was also in a lot of pain because of damaged nerve endings, but he survived. He worked part time in his best friends factory in Finglas as an electrician, he was an electrician since he was about 19 years of age.
My mother and him split up ten years ago, he moved in with his Mother, I saw him all the time, more then most sons see their dads, he was, and is my hero. My mam and him were both broke, my mam left work as a driving instructor to look after me when I was sick ( I had severe OCD, Generalized anxiety disorder and depression so she left work to look after me at home, as I couldn't go to school in 2nd, and 4th year. My Dad, although living away, gave EVERY penny he earned to my mam to care for me and my sister, this all went to pay for bills and other things. We weren't and still aren't poor, but we now make the dole money, which doesn't go very far in a house of 3 with college coming up for me.
I was ill in September through to February of this year with an underlying stomach condition, so I missed loads of school, I was planning on repeating but dad told me not to, a week before my leaving cert started he passed away and it has destroyed me, as it would any son, but I know it's for the best, there's no pain, no more suffering, he is free. I sat my leaving cert in his honor and I'm very proud of myself for doing it.
That's the sob story over, I have to play the cards I'm dealt, but now I need a job, I need to support my mam and my sister, I need to pay my way through college, I also need to be a normal teenager.
I'm in the same boat as everybody else here, applying for scores of jobs every day, getting rejected because I have ''no appropriate experience.'' I've applied for jobs all over the City in a wide range of areas, nobody is hiring, I just need a chance and I'm willing to work for free for a trial basis before I get took on, I'm just asking for a chance to earn money, nothing special.
I consider myself to be an honest, hardworking and intelligent student and I learn quickly, I'm willing to work full or part time anywhere in Dublin or the surrounding areas, I'll use public transport. | I've had a tough year and need a job to support my family.
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This has been asked a couple of times and yes I know its like a free win for the team that plays then but you have to think about it differently, the winners of the wildcard event normally are crushing there own leagues. when you are on top you get very little info and don't really better yourself because when you play people they learn much more from you than you do from them, so what letting the wild cards into worlds does a couple of things.
it lets the other regions that aren't as developed as na,eu,china,ect grow and compete at the highest level.
helps the wild cards grow and learn, and what they learn they can apply to there own game and then the other teams in there region grow and makes there eSports scene develop quicker than if riot just left them by themselfs.
3.it gives every person who plays lol the feeling and chance that they can go to worlds even if they are not in the na or eu.
everyone loves an underdog. like just imagine how dark passage or kaboom would feel and how the whole league scene would feel if they took a game off one of the top teams.
hope this gives you a better idea of why they are in it. | having the wild cards in worlds is not to benefit tsm or ssw but the wildcards themselfs and help there scenes grow | [
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So he broke up with me (F/20) on Easter so April 20th? We've been going out for two and a half years. He told me he just wanted to stay friends because he only saw me as a friend. He said he didn't love me. Me of course I was in love with him and was heart broken about him breaking up with me. I see it as this, I never show my emotions to my enemies, so I never showed my hurt to him. I just took it like a man and pretended to be his friend even though I wanted to be more than friends. So I had hopes we'd get back together and such. I thought something would happen at his prom cuz we both decided to still go to prom together as friends (prom was a month later). But nothing did and that's when I realized I should move on.
Then that's when I started having feelings for my/his best friend (M/18). And so I told my best friend and he liked me also. He asked my ex if it was ok if him and I went out. My ex said ya, I don't care she's immature that's why I broke up with her. So my best friend and I go out and everyone is saying how he's just a rebound for me and such. He then tells me that he thought his friend was joking. Probably as an excuse to make me feel bad for him.
My ex hates how we're going out now. He's been trying to get our whole group of friends to hate us. Like he'll make subtle insults pointed towards my bf and I'd try to defend him but all that did was my ex made me look like the bad guy for picking a fight with him to make all our friends hate us. So I stopped defending my bf and I.
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There is not even the slightest truth to that. The classifier knows per rate (CTI, CTR, CTT, CTM, CTN) what's available and you pick with laser focus.
The recruiter's strategy makes sense, and it is akin to this: "Man, taking another potential to the classifier. I really don't have time to take a dozen potentials a dozen times each, I want them to snap up some job and ship out so I can count them as shipped. I'll lead them to believe that if any CT* happens to be there, they should consider themselves grateful and just take it. Not knowing better, they will believe me, at least one of the five CT rates will pop, they will take it, they will ship, I will sigh in relief and move on to the next potential." If they are talking DLAB, it is so you will have a shot at (and from their point of view, hopefully take if available), CTI along with R, T, M and N.
The fact of the matter is, if you are patient, you could hold out until whichever one you want eventually pops. CTI is pretty good especially if you like languages, but in my biased opinion CTN really is the best. With all the cyber demand these days, it really might be more lucrative than nuke. Your recruiter should be able to call the classifier and just see what jobs are in the catalog at any given moment, that would save them a trip down there and make them more willing to help you cherry pick. Recruiters want/sometimes need to play hardball and try and convince you to pick whatever's there, but with will power you can indeed hold out. There is no do or die ultimatum, you're a civilian and can take as long as you want. If their patience runs out, find a recruiter with more patience. | You can always know you are getting a guaranteed rate. | [
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Hello all,
My boyfriend almost killed himself today. He loaded a shotgun and nearly pulled the trigger. I am a wreck, I have no idea what to do, and worst of all, I can't be there.
We're in a long distance relationship. He's in his early 20s, living at home, and about 700 miles from me. We had been fighting lately and I had told him I wanted to break up. He was unhappy, but I didn't realize just how unhappy he was. I'm not dumb, I don't think the break up with the only thing that made him think suicide was the way to go, but its the only thing I know that was going wrong for him. He had just become an officer in his college club, was working at job he liked, was planning on visiting me for Thanksgiving.
I snapped at him this morning, telling him I didn't want to talk to him right then, that I was going to lab. He sent me a message about an hour later saying that he was so sorry and that he loved me and he hoped I would forgive him. I immediately called him until he answered and asked if he had hurt himself or taken a lethal dose of something. He said no, but he was about to. I begged him to go to his family or a hospital instead. He then became almost incoherent, repeating over and over again "I need to get ahold of Dr(insert his psychiatrist's name here)". He hung up on me and I called back right after, again and again, until he answered about 20 minutes later. He said he was on his way to the Dr's office. I asked that he please call me after so I'd know he was okay. After we hung up, I called every one of his family members and anyone I knew in town who could get to him.
I didn't hear back from him, I actually still haven't. His mom called me about 7 hours after the last time I spoke with him. She said he was okay, but that I shouldn't expect to hear from him any time soon. I thanked her for letting me know he was alive and she hung up. I haven't heard anything since.
I'm a wreck. I know he's alive and that's the most important thing, but I don't know what to do. I want to help him so badly, but I can do literally nothing but wait. None of my friends have ever experienced anything like this and while they reassure me that I'm not at fault, I do not feel comforted. If anyone has any advice, or insight, as to what he may be going through or what I can do, that'd be fantastic.
Sorry for the wall of text, here's a | Boyfriend sends a goodbye message, last I hear from him is that he's headed to his Dr, latest info from his mother lets me know he's alive, but nothing else. Need advice! | [
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This was a good read.
I'm Persian-American. I was raised with my parents doing everything for me in terms of chores (cooking, cleaning, etc). As a result, I am still learning the logistics of life.
I cooked my first successful dinner last night (I'm 22), learned how to sweep/mop from working at a coffee shop (at 18) and am learning about responsibility only now that I've moved out (with my bf) and have my first time-consuming pet.
It's part of the Persian culture... Not sure why, as it doesn't help anyone, but this is how it is. That being said, I think this overparenting has to do with the fact that we want the best for our kids, although the irony is that we hurt them when we help too much. I'm nowhere near self sufficient but I hope to get there within a few years. | a culture of over parenting hurts the next generation more than it helps | [
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So, I've been writing for 20 years. Putting words down on paper was never an issue.
In the past few years though, I've lost several people close to me, and I really don't have any friends (I have no issues with not having friends; I'm a solitary person that finds most people tedious).
The issue: I no longer feel like I have an audience to write for. So, I don't write nor feel a desire to. I can't bring myself to type anything really. Who really gives a shit?
So, my question is: Who or what do you write for?
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So I just had an idea for a new map. How does a nighttime map sound? I think it would be better if it was a city map as that way you could use street lamps for lighting. It would also reduce the view range a lot meaning the fighting would be more close quarters. As some tanks also have lights on maybe there could be toggleable lights? (Just an idea I know it would probably require an engine overhaul of some kind and may affect performance) It could increase your view range down a street for example but could also increase the tanks visibility.
Just a thought, I welcome any feedback. | Nighttime map in a city with lower view range making for more interesting game play and close quarter games | [
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Hey r/AskDrugs,
Probably about 3 - 4 weeks ago, I tried acid for the first time that I got from a guy I met in a club. He seemed like a decent enough guy and gave me his number and everything so I could hit him up for some more if I liked it.
Overall it was a really good trip, I really enjoyed it and I experienced most of the things people describe they experience. However, I've heard people describe it before that you see things like colour running from the walls, or things around me warping and getting a bit weird, but I don't think I experienced any of that stuff at all. Everything seemed to look relatively normal, there really wasn't any change in the way anything looked. Things sounded awesome however, I sat there listening to The Beatles and drifted off feeling amazing. That night I did have a few drinks, not too much as to inebriate myself, if that would make an impact at all.
Now, my mates of mine have been really keen on trying acid for a while, and we really want to have a good first time trip with the lot, this Saturday.
Was it just the way I reacted to it? Should I look for a different guy? Should I try taking a bit more than just that one tab? Or does not everybody see crazy stuff the first time? | Took acid, it was awesome, didn't see crazy colours and stuff. What was wrong? | [
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I've been dating my girlfriend for 11 months now. She's pretty, sweet, funny, and exactly the kind of girl I was hoping for when I was still single. I should also mention that she pretty much lives with me, although she has a room at her parents house.
She is very affectionate, and also requires a lot of affection and attention. I am not the same way at all. I often need my alone time, while she almost always must be with someone or talking on the phone or else she is bored.
Lately I have often become annoyed with her constant need to show and feel affection. I also don't want it to come across as if I don't ever show her affection. Anytime I come home or when she comes home, I immediately kiss her hello and sit down with her and hold her while she talks about whatever she wants to.
But if I am watching TV, reading, or doing anything alone she becomes bored and I can see her getting antsy for attention.
It has gotten to the point where we don't have sex too often (maybe once a month), and I often think about being single and having the freedom to pursue other women.
I have debated whether or not I should break up with her, but I am afraid that I will never find another girl like her, or that I will experience the "didn't know what I had till it was gone" syndrome.
She has many amazing qualities, and I am afraid to lose that forever.
I guess I'm just looking for advice on the situation or if there's any course of action I could take? | Girlfriend can't ever be alone, should i stay or go? | [
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Mate, I've just moved to Sweden and am doing a Bachelors degree online through RMIT Melbourne. One of the subjects is an Intro to IT which besides looking at Reddit I have no interest in. I didn't finish year 12, and have had a career as a horticulturist, but moving overseas, thought what the hell, and enroled in Financial Planning. Had the exact feelings as you - no background knowledge and its pretty daunting going back to school after 15 years.
I'm 8 weeks in, learnt a bit of HTML and CSS and am thinking of changing from Finance to some kind of programming. It has absolutely changed the way I view the net and computers in general, always right clicking to see the source code, and I've turned into a geek sponge. Today learnt that hard drives work along the same principals as a record player!
I came in with no knowledge besides where the on button is, and I'm killing it. Make sure you give yourself time to study (I have to google just about every acronym I come across - including ICT in this post's heading!) and make sure you understand each topic before going on to the next one.
Due to the popularity of IT, there are a bazillion forum post and sites about anything you need. More than once I've come across a direct cut and paste of the tutorial question I'm trying to answer. Makes life easy!
So to answer your question: get rid of your ego. Have the confidence to ask dumb questions and make rookie mistakes. Took me a while, but once you get the basics it just looks after itself. There's been a bunch of stuff that I should have figured out for myself before doing the course, and I feel like a dick for not knowing it, but better to ask than still feel like a dick!
Also watch out for tangents - its easy to go from googling CPU's to spending hours trying to get your head around Turing machines.
It would help to get an idea of HTML and generally how systems and networks developed, but the course exists to teach you these things, so as long as you are prepared to take the time you'll be fine. The degree will show you what you need - but you need to go find it yourself.
Main difference between Uni and high school is there's heaps more research and learning you have to do by yourself - it will take up a fair chunk of your time. Try to get into or set up a 'workgroup' with classmates to discuss topics and bounce ideas off each other. If not, there's always someone who can help, why, even your good mate Reddit!
Relax, and take your time. After 2 weeks I was freaking out and ready to quit, now I'm planning on learning some programming languages and changing careers.
Good Luck, and keep us posted. | Take your time and relax, its not as hard as you think, just takes longer! | [
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They have a right to be upset about it. You see more tit in a mall ad than you do a breast feeding mom. Even then, it's because their child is hungry and it shouldn't have to be such a big deal to feed them.
It's not like they are trying to be provocative with it.
Also, sometimes it's a matter of necessity: boobs either A) leak when not emptied frequently or b) will stop producing milk if not used frequently.
Breast milk is incredibly helpful for a baby. It boosts their immune systems and provides them with a complete diet.
I've heard the argument, "well they should just do it in the bathroom." Clearly the people who make this argument have never spent a lot of time in a ladies room. The options are basically, a) hog a small stall until you're done, b) stand awkwardly around the sinks and pray no one uses the dryer or c) awkwardly stand in the entrance and try to not block traffic.
In old bathrooms, there used to be a place to sit down and potentially breast feed or chit chat, but I've never seen one outside of a church.
Also, bathrooms are gross! Think about a bathroom in wal-mart and letting a newborn be around the filth. Ick!
And it's not like these moms can just stay at home. Pretty much as soon as they can get back on their feet, off they go back into pre-pregnancy responsibilities. | you see more tit on TV, so leave a breast feeding mom alone. They deserve to get pissy about being told, "don't do that," or "cover up." | [
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Lately items able to be bought with tickets have always gone up, but sometimes it's so minor that you may not make a profit off of it. Consider what the current build metas are in each class for each type of gameplay, for example: Torches are not used in WvW or PvE metas for the most part, so they will have less demand. On the other hand, greatswords are used for PvE metas for the warrior, guardian (sometimes), ranger, & mesmer. This means there will naturally be more demand for greatswords than torches - and so often the greatswords will demand more.
However, sometimes this backfires when people over speculate (such as the Super Greatsword Skin - which was 80g at the end of the event, and sits at 35g or so now, which is the highest it's been since). So you also need to consider how good the skins look compared to other of the same weapon type, and how easy it is to get them to match armor or popular color schemes (Why fused weapons are so popular, ANet has a hard on for firey things).
Shield and GS are both very popular, but how do you think they stand up to some of the more popular greatswords and shields? I believe the deadstop shield will be a good alternative for those who can't afford the ghastly shield, and I believe their true price to be roughly 180g - but this may take a long time to be reached with the supply and little demand (due to the event just recently ending, those who wanted one, got some for cheaper than you can offer). | Not doing one of these, sorry for the long wall of text though.
EDIT - Also, if you're going to invest in them, I suggest doing it now. I can't see what the prices are as I'm in yahoo authentication limbo right now, but generally items are at their lowest price several days after the event ends and it only goes up from there. | [
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Hey fellow windows 10 users and those to follow us. So yesterday I've tried to get the upgrade from Windows 7 to 10. As a lot of other users I've had to face a freezing setup when transferring data was at about 79% and the overall setup was around 25%. I've stumbled upon a thread on some online forum (I can't find the thread anymore) targeting this exact problem where the setup failed to create the backup of the old system. I've had read about some users would just rolled back to their old OS and retried the setup. This hasn't worked for me so far and I was searching for a solution now. Someone said "dudes! Same problem here. Unplug your SATA DVD / CD drive and you're good!" and I gave it a try. What to say, it worked. | unplug your SATA DVD / CD Drive if your upgrade setup freezes in the stage of creating a backup from your old system. | [
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I'm doing my best to learn how to hold frame and respond to shit tests, but there may be something else in the mix.
Depends on the psychotropic. SSRI's and other happy pills often decrease the sex drive. Antipsychotics scramble the brains. ADD meds (speed) give them more energy. Anxiety meds often make you tired but are great for taking at bed time.
Might I suggest doubling the amount of sex you have with your wife and pounding her like a jackhammer at least once a week before you go with drugs. If she doesn't want to take them, there just might be an alternative and you have an opening to take charge in a way that could help your wife, you, and your marriage. | Prostaglandins and testosterone from semen and oxytocin from her orgasms are better mood inducers than SSRI's and way better at reducing panic attacks. | [
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What could Mises reply to a majority of the public who have indeed considered all the praxeological consequences and still prefer a modicum—or, for that matter, even a drastic amount—of statism in order to achieve some of their competing goals? As a utilitarian, he could not quarrel with the ethical nature of their chosen goals: for he had to confine himself to the one value judgment that he favored the majority achieving their chosen goals.
If you take this as a statement of Mises academic work and don't conflate it with Mises the man, it makes sense. From my understanding of his personal life, I think if this were a real situation Mises would have said that such people were complete morons that deserve everything that is coming to them.
Mises wasn't a value-free person, he framed a value-free methodology. I don't think Rothbard misrepresents that.
>Mises did not favor the majority achieving their goals in all possible situations. Mises subjectively favored peace and prosperity. He was under the impression that the majority also favored peace and prosperity, and this provided a common ground for advocacy of laissez-faire, the unknown ideal for the achievement of peace and prosperity.
I'm sure if you could have asked him that Rothbard would have agreed. | I think there is some pedantic fixation on the word "quarrel". In my reading of each author, I take it as "integrated into his methodology". | [
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My elderly neighbor had just gotten her garage door vandalized in this manner. If anyone can shed some light on what it might say or how to catch these bastards it would be more than welcome. It happened sometime this morning(22 June 2012) or the night prior. There had been cigarette butts outside that my mom had noticed the days prior. We didn’t think much of it so the rain has washed all of them away.
My other neighbor and I are hoping that she hadn’t been singled out and none of this graffiti actually means anything. If people familiar with “doing” graffiti can decipher what it was supposed to say and support that it is in fact random, it would be a big help in putting her a little at ease.
Also, if you are the one who did this and see this, consider you did this to an elderly lady who. If it was your intent to put fear in her heart, then congratulations, you succeeded. | I want to make sure the graffiti doesn’t say anything that would indicate that my neighbor was singled out. | [
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Short backstory: a few weeks ago I found nudes of my boyfriend's female friend on his phone. Confronted him about it, and he told me just forgot and it won't happen again. Here's the link:
Today he was scrolling through his texts with me to show me a picture. I saw that he was texting this female friend. He noticed that I saw it, and told me he was just telling her about his car accident a few nights ago. He showed me the texts.
What bothered me was she was saying stuff like, "Don't die on me, I'm gonna marry you one day," and "I love you, don't die." His responses were all very nonchalant, like he was ignoring her affections. It still bothered me.
He also has received quite a few racy snapchats from her, like her in just a bra or showing her tattoos off. He deletes most of his snapchats because I think he's afraid of me finding them.
My boyfriend told me he'd delete her number, even though I told him not to. I don't really see how that will solve the problem. Am I being crazy here, or should I feel a little weird that all this is going on? And should I talk to her about it? Her and I aren't friends, but she knows of me. I just really want her to stop being so... weird with him. | Boyfriend is texting/receiving racy pictures from a female friend, what should I do?
EDIT: Thanks for all the help! I'm going to talk to my SO today and ask him to talk to her about it. I don't just like this idea of deleting her number and pretending it all didn't happen.
EDIT: Also, I should mention this is the first time he's talked with her in months. Honestly she wasn't even a problem until I saw the picture. I don't know if that affects the situation at all, because it seems like if he doesn't text her for a certain time, she won't text him. | [
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Bullshit, No, we could not.
You don't seem to understand how Tor works (it for example ACTIVELY uses a route through multiple continents and ISPs).
If you now connect to tor and visit reddit.com you have a lot of steps and jurisdictions:
Your ISP, which in many countries does NOT save what customer used this IP at this time. This also starts an SSL connection.
The ISPs upstream or peering, which is maybe already tapped by the NSA/Whatever but this does not matter as the content of the data stream is encrypted.
Further peering/transit up to the Tor node, maybe tapped, encrypted.
The ISP of the Tor entry, maybe logging, encrypted, sees your IP
The Tor node, sees your IP
More ISPs to the Tor middle, encrypted, does NOT see your IP, only the entry.
Tor middle, encrypted, does NOT see your IP, only the entry.
Now it depends on the usage:
Tor internal site, see here - Does not see your IP, encrypted until it reaches the Tor process on the hidden service server, response encrypted all the way.
Tor exit, here you could get data if the connection is not using SSL.
Next middle (depends on client configuration), then exit or internal
Tor is also open source, just check the source yourself and compile your own version, after the first reading you can just use diff or similar to compare future sources and save time. | Tor is (for now, currently) perfectly safe to host illegal content and to surf anonymously in/over. | [
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Only if you can deal with the sections which weren't filmed for IMAX.
I saw it at the weekend in 3d IMAX at a 70mm theatre, sitting in the middle at the back (perfect seat). The 30mins or so of the movie which were filmed and composited for IMAX look spectacular, but the rest of the movie not so much;
there is a stupid oversight in that the subtitles are at the corners of the screen as they were in the first movie. In IMAX this means having to turn your head to read them (the 3d effect fails if you turn your head).
the post-production 3d is simply offensive, probably one of the worst since Clash of the Titans. Certain scenes look like a 3d picture book, with objects on obviously different planes rather than realistic depth.
JJ Abrams's kinetic camera style really doesn't suit the format and the 3d conversion makes it worse. His sweeping panning shots of the bridge for example are blurred and ghosted horribly. IMAX's size is suited to shots where your eyes have time to take in the scene, Chris Nolan's usage in DKR is a good example of it. A majority of this movie was filmed on 35mm (or digital equiv) and some of those scenes were not composed with IMAX screens in mind, Shakey-cam is completely incomprehensible when it is 4x the size of a normal cinema screen and it is used quite a bit in this movie. | Scenes filmed with an IMAX camera may make it worth a trip, the rest of the film is not suited to the format. The 3d conversion sucks a bag of cocks. | [
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I have a funny story about this happening to me! Anyways, my uncle,little brother, and I went out shore fishing for trout at a lake about an hour from my town. Within 20 minutes of being out we were getting a few hits. All of the sudden I get a hit that almost pulls the pole out of my hands. I then proceed to fight this trout (which felt about twenty pounds). I'm reeling in the final few yards and the line goes slack. I'm thinking "did I really just lose this toad?" When out of the water I pull a dead 4" long rainbow that was hooked through the stomach. My only explanation of what happened is that the bigger fish had swallowed the smaller one and I somehow hooked him? I'm sorry if that was very drawn out and monotonous, I have a habit of rambling. | feels like a 20 pounder, pull out a dead guppy. | [
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I agree with your conclusion, but I want to point out that it's not your digestion that's the problem. Digestion is not "barely understood", it's actually pretty well-understood, and it doesn't deviate nearly as much as people would like. Your point about TDEE being an estimate is true, and that same reasoning applies to your estimation of calories consumed. It's an estimate, and it can be wrong.
So, you've got an estimate of what you need to eat (based on very little information), followed by an estimate of what you are eating on a regular basis, which leaves a huge amount of room for error over a long period. | it's not "MUH METAB'LISM", it's the nature of inexact estimation and measuring. Just be as careful as you can and eat more or less depending on results. | [
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Attorney here.
Some earlier posters have it right. Statutory rape is strict liabiltiy, meaning even if she promised her age, showed you a fake ID, etc. it wouldn't help your case. In Michigan, for example, "statutory rape" is actually criminal sexual conduct, fourth degree. It requires nothing more than "sexual contact" with someone who is between 13 and 16 where the person is five or more years older. This is a felony, punishable by up to two years in prison.
Most states have adopted some variation of these criminal sexual conduct statutes, but certain details vary. As you can see, the actual birthdates for these two might be relevant. If your friend committed the act that is outlawed by statute in your state, he's guilty.
However, having been a prosecutor, I know that there's almost no chance whatsoever that charges will be brought in this case. Even if the mother calls the police incessantly and demands action, there's nothing they can do without evidence or at least the girl's testimony. Even if the police investigate, there's an even greater chance that the prosecuting attorney won't pursue a trial. If it were up to me, I would require the girl's testimony, the mother's testimony placing the girl with your friend, and at least some physical evidence that the girl was sexually active. If the girl doesn't cooperate, there's no chance anything will come from this.
Also, there is no civil liability here for the mother. The closest cause of action would be a tort for intentional infliction of emotional distress, but even in states that do recognize it, almost all require that the action causing the distress is done in your presence. Unless your friend goes to the girl's place and taps it like a boss in front of her mom, he's not liable for monetary damages. | Just chill out and see what happens. I'm all but sure that the cops won't even give this a thought, and there is no possibility of civil liability. | [
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So I've been dating/getting to know this woman for about a month now. Things have been going good, a lot quicker the first two weeks than the second. We are attempting to take things slow and just do it 'day by day' while we get to know each other. I really like her so i'm attempting not to mess things up..which never ends well for me.
The first two weeks were filled with lots of texts (at least once or twice a day), complements on both sides, kisses, cuddling - the last two weeks....very little contact text-wise (sometimes a day or two without hearing from her), no complements from her - but still holding hands and keeping close when we are together.
I think maybe she is taking a step back because things were going a bit fast for her, not 100% sure. We are still making plans and seeing each other which is all that matters to me.
I realize communication is a two way street...but how often should I be contacting her without seeming like I lost interest? Just enough to make plans and then the occasional 'looking forward to X day!" ? I already know if she just doesn't respond to my texts that's it, and I never send her more than one a day if I don't get a response.
I also realize this is the usual sign of drifting away, but since we are still making plans and seeing each other I don't quite think it has come to that yet (I hope).
She's pretty busy, works 50-60 hours a week so we don't get much time to talk to begin with, and usually works nights and gets home very late...so she is hesitant to talk then. I'd call her instead of text but usually I have classes during the day, that will change next week so i'll be able to give her a call occasionally. | Dating a woman a month, the last couple of weeks things have slowed a bit, but we are still making plans. Think she is taking a step back, trying not to become panicked and clingy yet still show confidence that i'm still very interested so i'm not sure how often to communicate with her. | [
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Math 2417 is Calculus I in the two track calculus. It covers the first half of what is generally needed in many STEM majors (the latter half being Math 2419, Calculus II).
Math 2414 is Integral calculus for the three track calculus. It covers the middle third of what is generally needed in many STEM majors (the first being Math 2413, Diff calculus and the last being Math 2415, Calculus of several variables)
Given that these are your two options, I am guessing you already have credit for 2413. If that is the case, 2417 will be very similar to what you already know, but you may appreciate that for the transition to college. The two track calculus moves at a faster pace, however, than the three track calculus, but that's because you are only expected to know the material at a cursory level. Additionally, the three track calculus covers more material past multiple integrals in multiple dimensions, which is extremely useful for physics majors. If you are majoring in math or physics, I definitely recommend the three track, due to its overall deeper understanding of the material as well as the broader range of subjects covered.
Overall, 2417 is definitely easier than 2414 (and is really more comparable to 2413), and probably better for non math/physics students. In general, most engineering and cs students tend to take 2417. | If your major is one that doesn't require linear algebra, or only requires applied linear algebra, you'd probably be best served by the two-track (2417).
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hey /r/LoL, I come bearing a message from the Future about C9 and Hai's Step 6. This a Throwaway, and I have to make this quick so no one from the future will discover me. They will make it all the way to face Faker and SKT. Faker will take them to 5 games and C9 will win S5 worlds. | Cloud 9 will win worlds | [
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With letters, being honest is the best thing. It really comes through in the writing. Mixing facts and figures with anecdotes and personal experience is a really good recipe for a letter that will stand out. Showing a knowledge of how the representative has supported or not supported an issue in the past is very impressive.
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Yes! While in grad school for biology I dated a physics grad student. He constantly put me and biology down and let me know that he was not only smarter than me but that my subject required less brain power. He treated me terrible and although I didn't care that he was "quick on pulling the trigger" (if you know what I mean) when I asked if it was something we could work on he flat out said no and that he doesn't need to change for me. He also would only watch what he wanted I wasn't allowed to make movie or show choices and there was no compromise.
On a Saturday I tried calling him to make plans and he ignored my call so I made plans with friends. Later he texted "What are we doing tonight? way too late to do anything substantial and I had had enough. I broke up with him over text message because I just didn't want to have to deal with him anymore and it felt amazing! Then I went out and drunkenly danced the night away with some hot biology ladies. | broke up with a self righteous jerk over text message and have no shame about it. | [
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I have a 5 year old daughter and I've explained to her that there are words and actions that are totally inappropriate in a public setting.
Just because she knows about them doesn't mean I want her to see them and I have said something to people in public places who are swearing up a storm.
I'm not rude or a jerk, but I step closely to them (I'm 6'3" 300lbs) and speak in a quiet voice; "I'd appreciate it if you'd respect my daughter and the people around you and watch your language."
I've been told off, sworn at and more, but 9 times out of 10, the guy/girl feels like a douche, apologizes quietly and stops swearing/being inappropriate around my kid. | There's a difference between preparing/educating your kid to what the real world is about, and exposing them to it. | [
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