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I disagree with this. I'm pretty sure that in season one Bronze was the top 25% of ALL players (not ranked players). They took everyone that didn't play ranked and counted them as unranked. About half of people in ranked have to be above 1200 and half below since that is the starting ELO. I can't imagine that 25% of people were between 1200-1249. In season one it took 1520 ELO to reach gold. When they switched to divisions in season 2 it still took 1500 ELO to reach gold. Slight decrease yes but not significant. I know this because I had access to a lot of accounts from high bronze to gold plus I read all the forums at the time with people posting their ELO and where they were placed. Starting ELO has always been ~1200 so unless they started giving more ELO for wins than losses they didn't make it easier to get gold. If I go +10 ELO in a game than someone else goes -10 ELO for a game. The threshold for plat did drop slightly from about 1900 to 1850 (and silver dropped from 1400 to 1150) when they went to the current system but adding stuff at the top doesn't necessarily deflate things for the lower ranked people it just adds more distinction for the best of the best. | Season one bronze was top 25% of ALL players. All other seasons we are measuring as % of ranked players. Even if thats not true most of the deflation happened at the Silver ELO where the ELO requirement went from 1400 to 1150.
Edit: As a matter of fact I was able to determine that each division was 70 ELO wide so each tier (besides bronze and diamond at the time) was 350 ELO wide. Bronze up to 1149, Silver 1150-1499, Gold 1500-1849, Plat 1850-2199, Diamond 2200+ | [
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It depends. BF3 had a pretty large competitive userbase, and even with no competitive tools the scene stayed alive for quite a long time. BF3 could've been a lot more competitive than it was, but it was crippled from early on, not just by the lack of support from DICE, but also from various different reasons:
8v8 was the game mode from the beginning. I've played competitive BF3 in top3 European teams in 4v4, 5v5 and 8v8. Don't get me wrong, 8v8 can be decent, but it should never have been the main focus for competitive BF3. 8v8 works decently online, but a game can never be a successful esports game without an active lan scene. After a while the competitive community realized this too, and this resulted in 5v5 infantry becoming the main competitive game mode. After this there were a few 5v5 lans around in Europe, but way too many teams had already left the game so it was sort of too late. I'm not saying we shouldn't try out 8v8 as a competitive game mode in BF4, but if it isn't more suitable than in BF3 the main mode should be 5v5 from the start.
The European community being split into German (and a few of the nations around where they speak German) and French divisions. ESL was (and still is, with the few teams that still play) the main home for competitive Battlefield in Europe. There are three main sections, the European one, the German one and the French one. While the German and French sections had EPS (ESL Pro Series) and Coupe de France, the European section only had Go4BF3, with a lot less prize money. This resulted in the German/French teams focusing on their national divisions, which then again crippled the European section. This cannot happen again, and it will be insanely important to keep the community united from start.
Of course none of these points will matter if there are no battle recorder or spectate mode from the start. Look at the BO2 PC scene. At the launch of the game a lot of the best COD4 teams tried making the move, and a lot of people enjoyed the game itself. Unfortunately the game will never be a good eSports game on PC, mainly because there's no dedicated servers. Even though there's a good spectate mode, and a good recorder, it doesn't matter because of the servers. You need these fundamentals set in stone at launch , or the competitive side of the game will be severely crippled. Throughout BF3's competitive lifetime DICE always said that these competitive tools would come eventually, but they never came. If these tools aren't included in BF4 from launch a lot of the trust towards the developers will already be gone. | Specc mode/battle recorder must be in from start. 5v5 infantry most likely needs to be game mode, and the European scene needs to unite from start. | [
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Hey all! I'm hoping to make a run to a brick-and-mortar store sometime in the upcoming few weeks, and I'm hoping to have a few bras in mind to try on. My measurements currently are:
Snug Underbust: 29.1"
Tight UB: 28"
Standing Bust: 36.25"
Laying Bust: 34.5"
Leaning Bust: 36.25"
I'd describe myself as full on bottom and the outsides, and wideset. I'm only 5'0", 120 lbs (152.4 cm, 55kg), and have narrow shoulders. Even with all of this, I'd say I can fit four fingers between my breasts. I'm pretty sure I have a narrow root, but I'm not positive how narrow it is. I originally thought I had a wide root, but wide wires are convincing me I must be narrow. I just found a shape guide with pictures of projected/shallow ladies in my size, and I'm pretty sure I'm projected. So far, I really don't like high center gores because they dig in too much, but that may be a shape issue. I love plunges and true demis and can't really stand non-padded bras.
Bras I've tried:
>Natori Feathers 32DD: this was the bra I started in (before my UB got smaller) and I was very happy with it at the beginning, but now the band is definitely too large. I shortened it to a 30, and now I realize just how wrong the shape is for me. It seems that the wires are too wide (I don't fill the cup at the side/it doesn't do anything for me), and it doesn't sit right in my inframammary fold. When I try to put it there, and then scoop and swoop, my boobs squish the bottom of the cup down from my breasts and it just doesn't work. Also, with S&S, I quadboob a bit with the tighter band.
>Freya Martha 30E: This one was better, in the cup I think? The wire width was nicer, but I still had the bottom boob problem. I think the wires could be narrower. When I'd scoop and swoop, I'd quadboob, but once it relaxed back down, the cap would gap a ton. Also, I'm not sure if this is all Freyas, but the band stretched to ~35", and was WAY too loose on the tightest hook, brand new. :(
>Chantelle C Chic Sexy Plunge 30E: Wire size was almost right, but it dug in at the sides so much so that I couldn't wear it for more than 20 minutes. I also had a bunch of gapping at the top of the cup.
>b.tempt'd Express Yourself Contour 30E: Somehow, I didn't fill out the bottom, sides or some of the top, but I still quadboobed.
>Simone Perele Amour Demi 32DD: This cup fits me almost perfectly! I think because the band is too big that it slowly shifts forward on my breasts. I'm planning on trying to shorten the band to see how that changes the fit. The shoulders straps are a bit too wideset.
>SP Caressence 3D Plunge in 30E(UK): This is the bra I've been living in for a week. I have three. The wires are almost perfect, but I still get a slight wire not sitting in the fold problem. Also, the shoulder straps are too wide. And don't adjust short enough. And it's a 30, and I think I need a 28. All of these problems (except the fold), I could fix because I sew, but I just want a bra that I don't have to sew. Plus, the fold thing makes me think it's not quite the right shape.
I've got a Freya Taylor 28F and a CK Smoothie 28F coming in the mail in the next week or so, so I'll see how those fit and possibly post an update.
I'm sorry this turned out so long, but any help/recommendations would be appreciated! | narrow root, narrow shoulders, FOB, 28F/30E. | [
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I have been in an amazing, supporting, loving, patient, adventurous, exciting relationship with a wonderful woman for the past year and a half. Problem is, I am plagued with doubts. She is the first woman I have ever been with romantically and sexually, and while it was quite easy to fall in love with her... it has also been equally confusing. I personally never felt the dominant gay narrative of discovering my sexuality of "AHA! This is what has been missing!". Instead, my love and sexual interest in her only created a ton of confusion for me... I had spent 29 years primarily and singularly attracted to men. She was a wild card. I felt lost.
Add to that, she was a colleague of mine and we were not in the position to share our relationship with our small organization because I was held a supervisory role (not of her, but in general). For a year and a half we went on as a secret at work. Only a few of our closest work friends knew, but even that caused me stress. I did come out to my best friends and my immediate family, but in an era where people share everything on social media, we were forced to stay invisible.
I think this caused us much internal shame and we became quite co-dependent. I struggled with my identity and cheated on her - she found out and quickly forgave me, but I know it devastated her. Her reaction and acceptance of me taught me about grace, humility, and forgiveness... but I think in doing so she also began to forget about herself. She has gained over 60 lbs during our relationship and has given up on many of her passions she once had. My happiness has now become her priority and while I am so grateful for her and her love, I sometimes feel worried about her. Every time I bring it up to her, she says she knows she has a tendency to lose herself in her love partner, but she then does nothing to change it. She also reassures me that it is not my fault, but some days though, I can't help but think my influence has not been as positive for her as hers has been for me.
As of last month, I finally quit my job which allowed us one less stressor on the relationship. However, I continue to question our relationship regularly. She is an absolute blessing to me, but I don't find myself ready to make moves towards more commitment with her like: moving in, telling my extended family about us, even bringing her back to my hometown. Even worse, I still find myself primarily attracted to men and I worry that I may never get over this. I love this woman with all my heart - she is absolutely the best - and still, I don't know if its right. | I have a beautiful and loving woman in my life, but because its my first same sex relationship, I feel plagued by confusion. Does this mean maybe I am in the wrong relationship or am I just experiencing normal "coming out" adjustment? It's been a year and a half and I feel so stuck... I am also breaking her heart. Please Help. | [
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It's more detailed than that.
Forsaken formerly were humans/elves. They overtook Lorderan for the main fact that it was their home when they were the living. The attack on Silvermoon was led by Arthas, who kept the undead under his sway - aka Scourge. (It's said the scourge would wipe out the entire world if there was no LK, hence Bolvar). Sylvanas was forced to do his bidding as well. It's said - in books, games, or something - that she knew what she was doing...but couldn't stop herself. She had no power over her body.
Anyways, after the attack, the Elves shut themselves off from the world - similar to what Gilneas did. Sylvanas breaks from of Arthas' power and so do many of Scoruge (Now Forsaken, NPCs/Players). Sylvanas, being a former Elf, lobbies the Horde to bring them in. Thrall does.
It's 100000x more appropriate than Metzen's lore mess ups with Draenei. Which, he's publicly commented on...and apologized for. | Scourge attack, kill, almost destroy Silvermoon...NOT HORDE. Sylvanas - past Elf, now leader of Forsaken - lobbies for Elves to be brought into Horde. | [
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Kant's argument is categorically flawed. The state is concerned with the maintenance and aggrandizement of the general welfare, and not with the "rebalancing" of the "scales of justice". The hedonic value that states generate by appealing to the populace's desire to give criminals what they "deserve"[1] pales in comparison to the economic (and other forms of) value that states generate by medically/psychiatrically/psychologically rehabilitating criminals so that they can live freely as functioning and productive members of society. Most members of the public who derive pleasure from seeing the pain and suffering of criminals who "deserve it" derive such pleasure in a decidedly ephemeral way: I would be surprised if most of the people commenting in this thread who enjoy such pleasures were, from here on out, to think about (and derive pleasure from the punishment of) Tsarnaev more than once a year. By contrast, a young rehabilitated criminal contributes tangible value to a society over the entire course of his or her free lifetime.
I assume of course, that at least some criminals—including murderers—can be rehabilitated in such a way. There are of course, those who cannot be; such criminals must, as we know, be indefinitely removed from society to ensure the safety of the general public until they are deemed fit for reentry into society, if ever. But determining which criminals are or are not sufficiently rehabilitated is the province of psychological and psychiatric experts and not of lawmakers or public mores. In fact, making such determinations has nothing to do with vague, high-minded, and volatile concepts like "deserving", the sufficiency of punishment, and moral worth.
This system would be both more humane and more in the interest of the public. Even if we were to discard our concern for the humanity of the legal system, the death penalty[2] would still be an irrational form of action to pursue in response to any crime. The benefits the public would derive by using criminals who would otherwise face death for forced labor, for example, would unequivocally outweigh the benefits of momentarily slaking their thirst for vengeance or the handing down of comeuppance.
I think Kant is wrong for these reasons. And Kant aside (i.e. with regard to other comments in this thread), I know that the 'gut feeling' of wanting to see this guy suffer in the same way he made others suffer feels visceral and right. But the operative term there is "feels". Our gut feelings are often wrong, and the choice that feels right is not always the most rational or indeed the most moral among those choices available to us. | the state exists to provide for the general welfare, not to be a moral arbiter. we can do things with criminals that do more good for the general welfare than killing them does. and it is categorically safer to rationally predicate responses to crime on the basis of protecting/improving the general welfare than to respond to our gut feelings about what people's comeuppance should be.
[1] A form of desire which, on a separate note, I would argue is inseparable from the desire for revenge.
[2]Or, indeed, any kind of action predicated on the intent to punish. | [
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I think I did something absolutely unforgivable here....the relationship is completely done with now and I feel like an asshole for what I did, but should I?
I don't think so at all. Let's take a look at the big picture here.....
> ....we clicked pretty well.....but I am in a situation that guarantees I'm only gonna be here for a few more months.
> Because of this, we decided to keep it open , but we treated it very much like a long term relationship......However, she said she'd prefer that we were sexually exclusive .
> Anyways, 2 weeks ago I left for a week long Christmas trip...... While I was away she dated a few guys off OKCupid, one of whom she had sex with.
> This did, however, cause me to get back on dating sites and start seeking dates, as it made me realize we really were in an open relationship. I did tell her this and she seemed ok with it.
> Afterwards I made an off the cuff remark about how I was glad I'd cancelled the dates on Sunday (today). She got very pissed at the fact that I'd even set up plans, because she felt the whole weekend was gonna be just us together........I spent the rest of the night on the couch.
I have a few questions first.
When you decided to keep it "open", who proposed it? How did the other person respond, exactly? <----(I think this is where the problem started, I'll elaborate below.)
Did she have anything about how her having sex with another guy related to her previously stated desire to be "sexually exclusive" with you?
In any case, in lieu of undisclosed information that might change things, this is my summary of events:
You guys decided on an open relationship but with her preference to keep things exclusive sexually.
She broke her own stated rule and then told you about it as if it weren't a big deal.
She then blew up at you for simply having scheduled dates ahead of time for Sunday, without knowing how well Saturday would go. Even though you had cancelled them.
You didn't break any of the terms of your arrangement. AT ALL. She knew it was an open relationship. She was dating other people too. She said she wanted sexual exclusivity but acted in a way that contradicted that, seemingly. You didn't have sex with anyone else and she got mad at you for simply having scheduled dates (which you even cancelled), which easily falls within the bounds of being in an "open" relationship.
I think the whole problem started back when you guys hammered out the whole "open relationship" arrangement. It sounds to me as if she has really really bad communication and possibly a poor understanding of her own emotions. She got upset at something that would be upsetting to someone who expected full and total commitment. Clearly what she said and what she wanted were two different things. She might not have even understood how she felt until she blew up at you......
Whatever the case, this girl also evidently couldn't handle the arrangement you guys had going. | This girl demonstrated rather sh-tty communication skills (and probably poor self-awareness, too) in pursuit of what she wanted in your interaction. You were going to be leaving soon enough anyway, right? And this was only 3 weeks of interaction? Consider yourself lucky. And yeah, you played things as straight, you didn't really do anything wrong. Though next time, it might be a good idea to be more vigilant in checking that you and the one you're dating are on the same page at all times, especially with unusual arrangements like the one you had here. | [
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It depends on the premade team's attitude.
I was in an Assault last night in a team with a 3 man premade, it was honestly an absolutely delightful game to play. They were joking around, were perfectly happy to include the non clanmates in the banter and I genuinely think that because they were so laid back it made the game much easier to play and did a lot to our morale in order to enable us to win
However I have also been in games where the premade clan very much took an "us vs them" mentality even when interacting with their own teammates who were not a part of their clan. As you could expect, this made the game much more bothersome and even on the rare occasion where we win despite this nonsense, no one really seemed to be happy with the win.
Even in dealing with 5 man premades, their attitude plays a big factor in whether they "ruin" the game or not. Another assault match I played was against a 5 man premade and team soloQ beat them in just 8 minutes. Their only reaction in the post game lobby was merely to accuse one of us of cheating and then dipped out. A loss like that (especially in assault where the odds can be heavily stacked against you as early as the loading screen) should be something a group of 5 friends can just laugh off easily without a need to resort to false accusations just to try to save some face. | premades who have a bad attitude who are not inclusive of non premade members "ruin" games. However premade teams with good attitudes can make matches stand out to even the solo queuer as a wonderful experience. | [
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Når folk deler erfaring deler de udelukkende deres egen - som oftest er mangelfuldt viderebragt, da folk altid har haft deres egne ideer om hvad den konkrete erfaring enten skulle eller ikke skulle have været, noget som vedkommende med stor sandsynlighed kun kan bruge,i sit eget liv og som ikke automatisk kan overføres til andres umiddelbare situation. | Ja, sgu! | [
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I'd be interested, with some caveats:
I haven't done much pen-and-paper role-playing. I'm familiar with the general conventions, and I've read over the manuals for some recent small games, but I'll be the first to admit that I'm at sea when it comes to translating ideas into rules.
I have a penchant for coming up with ideas that sit at the narrow point of the fulcrum. In other words, the ideas I find most interesting are small in themselves, but have far-ranging consequences. Look at the trouble I stirred up with [Muddit]( for an example. So while I could certainly lend ideas to something conventional, be forewarned that I'm also liable to introduce ideas that work best when they spiral off in new directions.
I think we'd do well to start with a relatively small world. It can be potentially expandable if you like, but projects get easily derailed when you start out with too large a scope. Start out, I'd say, by focusing on a single city, or an underground kingdom, or something of the sort. Concentrate on the ideas that govern that limited world, and work out the consequences in the details, rather than in broad strokes. Once you've got a campaign or two working in that setting, you can start expanding from there. | I'm a bit of a pain in the ass. | [
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I have played The Simpsons Tapped Out almost everyday since it was released for Android, and I have not spent one cent on the game nor have I felt like I needed to.
The shortest action for a character is 45 seconds not 2 hours. There are actions that go up to 24 hours though.
You do not need to spend money to speed up the actions. If you want to sit down and play the game for a long time then just choose the small 45 second actions and repeat them over and over. You will actually make more money if you do this rather then just choosing the 24 hour actions. | You do not need to spend money on Tapped Out at all. | [
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I know that none of this is fair to me, but he was there when my best friend killed herself and I was an emotional mess, when we were still just friends and I was leaving MY abusive situation where I was beaten daily, there to visit me when said ex fractured my skull with a bottle, when I've broke down and cried about the pain I've went through, when I'm having moody days and being short with him - he's always been there, and he's done his best to comfort and help because he loves me.
He's been a wonderful friend throughout the years and for the most part a wonderful partner too. I don't know if I would be as level headed and strong as I am now if he hasn't been there to help me overcome my obstacles. I feel like I should do the same now for him, but it's really hard when he's picturing me as the monster.
He's been an otherwise wonderful man to me and I'm thinking there's a deeper issue why he doesn't want sex anymore. I think he's so insecure about not wanting the sex, that he assumes I'd betray him. I have a hunch that the first year or so of our relationship he just had sex all the time with me because he felt it was the right thing to do, but I sense he has some pretty painful memories about sex that just won't go away.
When I've tried to talk to him about this girl and the extent of what she did to him, he's really quick to say "Let's talk about something else. I really don't want to think about it." I know he was even self conscious about being "small," when we started seeing each other, which really showed me the extent of her psychological abuse because he is waaaaaay above average. I actually laughed at him when I saw it, because I was like "you were worried about THAT?"
We have one bedroom (he's slept on the couch), and really he's closer to me than any of his friends. He's never had close guy friends in that sense, just guys that he enjoys going to the bar with and hanging out with. He always says he doesn't like to talk to me about why he's stressed because he insists he's a bother. He has pretty low self esteem. I think he just built it all up and exploded a few days ago. He never lets anyone know when he's feeling down.
I'm starting to think after everyone's responses that maybe it would be a good idea to get our own separate places, if this is ever going to work. I'm starting to realize that it's not healthy for us to live together, because we've spent almost every waking moment together and he freaks out and assumes the worst if he has to spend a night sleeping alone. That is, of course, if he decides not to break up with me.
He did admit to me when my friend from England came to stay with us for a few weeks that he felt paranoid all day when he was at work that we were fooling around, and said he knew it was silly of him but that it was just engrained into his mind from his past.
Counseling is a great idea but I don't see him being willing to go nor do we really have the money for that (or any insurance)
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While this is technically true, this addresses the issue of whether you can be sure of any pill from any manufacturer of anything. I believe OP was asking a relative question and didn't necessarily mean to ask about 100% certainty. | You're not wrong and I could be wrong in my assumption. | [
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Hey there!
So I have a lovely rescue named Sophie she's a ridgeback boxers cross, she's 2 and she's currently in training (she's got a little bit of aggression that we're working on).
Now, my dilemma at hand is that, I take Sophie for a jog every day (multiple times a day), and I have to run by this house... now this house (on sunny days), has a dog that they apparently keep off-leash in their Unfenced front yard.
I have to run like Usain Bolt past this house, otherwise the off-leash dog trots up and antagonizes Sophie resulting in Sophie's ridge (she's a ridgeback boxer cross) standing up, her growling and clearly in a mild state of distress. (Also a concern is that if Sophie were to attack, it would be brutal, she's incredibly strong)
My concerns are that, if you want your dog off-leash in your yard, fine, but they should have a fence as yo not cause other dogs distress, or they should be in the fenced backyard.
I don't want Sophie to suffer because they want to keep their dog off-leash out front.
What's the correct course of action reddit? | neighbour's keep dog off-leash in Unfenced front yard. Off-leash dog runs up to mine and antagonizes when we got for a jog, causing my dog distress. | [
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We had a lot of weird kids at my high school, but one of the most notable was a kid that was about 6'3" and probably weighed 300 pounds no exaggeration. He wore a kippah every day even though he proclaimed proudly that he wasn't jewish on multiple occasions. He also only wore flip flops and he had nasty hairy feet that had weird skin defects all over them. He would wear flip flops in the snow, no joke. He also only ever wore red polo shirts, and I think the same pair of jeans.
Story time: I was in a creative writing class with a very weird but notably "cool" teacher teacher. We would start off the class every day with a friendly discussion about the shenanigans in the boys bathroom down the hall that had been occurring just before class. One day one of my friends had drawn a giant picture in pen on the wall of a giant penis that was also a fire breathing dragon attacking our school mascot or principal or something. The drawing took up most of the wall in the stall for size reference. Thinking I easily had the best story for the day, I was pretty excited. Of course, some other kid comes running into the class and exuberantly exclaims, "There's a poop the size of a baby in the bathroom!" Our class, including the girls, then proceeded to take a field trip to the school bathroom and view the poop like it was the Mona Lisa. We even watched the Janitor break it up and fix the toilet. Of course, my friends in that class and I, being the force of justice that we were, investigated potential perpetrators throughout the remainder of the week. Eventually the perpetrator was identified confidently as the aforementioned weird kid by witness testimony putting him leaving the scene in the appropriate time frame. The evidence is certainly circumstantial, but pretty much everyone knew. He was not picked on. | really weird kid with odd choice of attire and body dimensions has supernatural butthole that produced a field trip worthy poo. | [
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This year has been a strange one. I have found out more about myself in 8 months than the rest of my years combined. I am not sure if this if for this sub or maybe off my chest, but I need perspective.
It all started out last may when I graduated college. Ten days after I got a great job and started work right out of school. It was there that I met her. We will call her Samantha.
Despite all the bad that would come, I have to say that I still remember how I once felt. She was beautiful. Half childlike/ half mature. Half strong willed/ half weak willed. She had the most amazing smile that I had ever seen. The most vibrant hair. She was the incredible dichotomy and I was so drawn to it. Probably why I fell in love.
At the time she had a boyfriend and I had a girlfriend. I guarded my thoughts as it wasn't appropriate. Over the course of the summer I realized that my relationship was coming to a close and began the painful process of ending it.
One night in November at a company party though, that night, was that night that things changed. In the weeks building up to it she was always flirting with me, asking if I would be there. At the last minute I decided that I would go. There I met her and her boyfriend together for the first time.
It is hard to describe what I felt that night. She was all over me, anytime he wasn't there, she was around me flirting, chatting me up. When I left that night she kissed me on the jaw. I knew somewhere in me that I was better than that guy. But it didn't matter, I'd never do that.
When I got home that night she texted me, she told me that she had feelings for me, asked if I thought the same. I should have ignored it. I didn't, I told her that I felt the same.
After that we began to talk, she told me everything, that he drank non stop, that he held her past against her. Tracked her every move. was hyper possessive. She told me about her past, how her first marriage fell apart, how she cheated on her husband, what happened in the months after and how she ended up with her boyfriend. She told me everything, the hows and the whys. I believed her. She opened up to me. I never even asked.
What scared me for her was that she was trying to have a baby with this guy. Sure they had been together for years, but it seemed dangerous. I told her that, I told her that a baby wouldn't make him change or fix anything. I think in those conversations something grew between us like a wildfire.
Even though something was there, this started a month of back and forth on what she wanted to do. One day she was ready to run off with me, the next he was getting another chance. It was over for good, then I needed to leave for good. It was horrible, each time I tried to respect what she wanted, but I wanted my feelings known. Which made her even more indecisive. I learned to hate Mondays and Fridays.
Eventually come January they "split" (explain later) and he moved out. A day after that happened, we went out for drinks, we made it back to her house. We slept together. After a month it was time, or so we thought. That morning he was outside the house. Calling again and again and again, eventually he leaves. After a conversation between them at lunch it was said that he "wanted us to not have sex" to which she agreed. It was clear that misunderstandings were abound between us three.
So in the course of that week we decide we will be just friends with benefits while the now ex moves the rest of his stuff out. That Saturday after a long day between the two of us we meet up to drive around and she tells me that in 6 months she expects him to have his act together and they will be back together. All this while he constantly is calling and texting her. Eventually we stop at a family members house. They were out of town. We have sex, again. When we go back outside we see 30 missed calls on her phone.
We drive to her house, he is there. Eventually he leaves a voicemail saying that he has stolen all of her clothes. Then another that he had poured beer all over her bed. We were both in shock. How does an ex boyfriend get to do that. I took her back to the house we were at, we had sex again, talked and had sex a third time.
I thought that would be the end of that. He would be gone. But I was so wrong. Throughout that week she continually told me one min that I was perfect, then the next that I was just a rebound and that this was to keep her from going off the deep end with several other guys at the same time (like she did to get over her ex husband). I was confused. That weekend while he was moving out, they had sex. I found out later.
I should have left it alone, walked away. She said that she had stronger feelings for him and owed him a chance to prove himself. I started the process of moving on. I was mad, but I didn't show it. Through most of February I kept my distance.
Though after valentines day, she told me that she realized she didn't love him anymore. We went for a drive and she told me how nothing was getting better that he wasn't really changing. When March came, she said she was giving me a month, no communication with the ex. No communication for a month with him while she figures it out.
Even now at the end, I can say that it might honestly have been one of the best months of my life. Passionate sex, long conversations. Dates. Spending time together. I caught myself daydreaming about a future. I should have known that it was too good to be true. Especially after she told the ex they were not getting back together. At the end of March she told me that it was too hard, that she hadn't moved past what had happened and that she needed space, she couldn't be with me because I reminded her of a failed relationship.
This was when I began to break, to get mad. For a week or two we didn't really talk. After awhile she wanted to be friends with benefits again, and through the month of April, all I heard was that again, I was perfect, but this was only while she found a man she could be with for good. It was painful.
As April went on things got better, at least to me. She then one day dropped that she wanted an open relationship, that she needed to talk and date other people to do that for herself to feel better and move on. She said though that she would only sleep with me, and let me know if that was going to change.
She then told me about the people she was talking to. One of them we will call Charles. He asked for her number at the gym. He was some 20 year old kid in college, it seemed like it was going towards sleeping with him ( i had time to get to know her). I started to get mad at what was going on. Eventually I told her honestly that I wasn't okay with any of that. That I wanted to be the only one. She broke it all off with me after that conversation. What I never got is that she blamed it on me in some ways.
What followed was two weeks of fighting. Eventually I called it a day and moved on. Then out of nowhere she starts talking to me again on Mothers day. That Monday she calls me. Tells me how her ex played a trick on her to confess that she still loved him, and basically went "fooled you". The she confesses that she slept with the kid from the gym, and how he wasn't talking to her anymore but that she still liked him(she later told me that she said that to make me want her). I wish I hung up the phone. I broke, told her that she needed to take a look in the mirror, asked what was wrong with her.
What followed was a fight, a long one. She told me that she wanted me to be like I was, tell her that she was okay, she was a good person. But I couldn't, she slept with someone else while we were arguing and lied to my face about it during those two weeks.
After this she tried hard to get me to be with her. Even that Wednesday we had sex again, she said how much she missed me, it might honestly have been some of the best I have had. She even said that no one did it like we did. She said that she was sorry for everything, that she wanted to be with me that she was ready to accept her feelings. For a minute it seemed nice.
Though I told her I needed space, that I hadn't moved past what had happened fully. She kept pushing, I was getting angry and was constantly being reminded. Where there once was confidence in the beginning, it had been eroded. She turned my insecurities against me through all those months. I saw that I had become her ex in a lot of ways. It made me mad.
My greatest failure will be not realizing that sooner and being honest with her. Instead I took it out on her. While I never judged her for the past before me, I judged her for her actions towards me in the present. I said hurtful things. I couldn't accept what she was telling me. I didn't believe her like I once did. I kept up that facade till about last week.
Now, it is all done, we both admit to many mistakes have been made by both people. But I wonder if I am a bad person, why I wasn't stronger, where my initial patience and strength went. What went wrong? All in all I don't know why I really am posting this. Maybe I just needed to say it. Or get it off my chest. I like to think I need perspective that I lack.
I apologize for this if it seems all over the place. But to be honest I am too. It might not ever have worked, but I think of March, I put forth all the effort. I left it all on the field, i have no regrets except continuing it after that day where she said she couldn't do it at the end of my month. She was a vivid person. We both have the pain of it not working. It hurts, but I know I have to move on. I just don't know how. Where did I go wrong? Will I be better off?
Thanks for anyone's time. | Uhh stuck it in crazy, life went crazy, what do i do now? (read it?) | [
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"content": "This year has been a strange one. I have found out more about myself in 8 months than the rest of my years combined. I am not sure if this if for this sub or maybe off my chest, but I need perspective. \n It all started out last may when I graduated college. Ten days after I got a great job and started work right out of school. It was there that I met her. We will call her Samantha. \n Despite all the bad that would come, I have to say that I still remember how I once felt. She was beautiful. Half childlike/ half mature. Half strong willed/ half weak willed. She had the most amazing smile that I had ever seen. The most vibrant hair. She was the incredible dichotomy and I was so drawn to it. Probably why I fell in love. \n At the time she had a boyfriend and I had a girlfriend. I guarded my thoughts as it wasn't appropriate. Over the course of the summer I realized that my relationship was coming to a close and began the painful process of ending it. \n One night in November at a company party though, that night, was that night that things changed. In the weeks building up to it she was always flirting with me, asking if I would be there. At the last minute I decided that I would go. There I met her and her boyfriend together for the first time. \n It is hard to describe what I felt that night. She was all over me, anytime he wasn't there, she was around me flirting, chatting me up. When I left that night she kissed me on the jaw. I knew somewhere in me that I was better than that guy. But it didn't matter, I'd never do that. \n When I got home that night she texted me, she told me that she had feelings for me, asked if I thought the same. I should have ignored it. I didn't, I told her that I felt the same. \n After that we began to talk, she told me everything, that he drank non stop, that he held her past against her. Tracked her every move. was hyper possessive. She told me about her past, how her first marriage fell apart, how she cheated on her husband, what happened in the months after and how she ended up with her boyfriend. She told me everything, the hows and the whys. I believed her. She opened up to me. I never even asked. \n What scared me for her was that she was trying to have a baby with this guy. Sure they had been together for years, but it seemed dangerous. I told her that, I told her that a baby wouldn't make him change or fix anything. I think in those conversations something grew between us like a wildfire. \n Even though something was there, this started a month of back and forth on what she wanted to do. One day she was ready to run off with me, the next he was getting another chance. It was over for good, then I needed to leave for good. It was horrible, each time I tried to respect what she wanted, but I wanted my feelings known. Which made her even more indecisive. I learned to hate Mondays and Fridays. \n Eventually come January they \"split\" (explain later) and he moved out. A day after that happened, we went out for drinks, we made it back to her house. We slept together. After a month it was time, or so we thought. That morning he was outside the house. Calling again and again and again, eventually he leaves. After a conversation between them at lunch it was said that he \"wanted us to not have sex\" to which she agreed. It was clear that misunderstandings were abound between us three. \n So in the course of that week we decide we will be just friends with benefits while the now ex moves the rest of his stuff out. That Saturday after a long day between the two of us we meet up to drive around and she tells me that in 6 months she expects him to have his act together and they will be back together. All this while he constantly is calling and texting her. Eventually we stop at a family members house. They were out of town. We have sex, again. When we go back outside we see 30 missed calls on her phone. \n We drive to her house, he is there. Eventually he leaves a voicemail saying that he has stolen all of her clothes. Then another that he had poured beer all over her bed. We were both in shock. How does an ex boyfriend get to do that. I took her back to the house we were at, we had sex again, talked and had sex a third time. \n I thought that would be the end of that. He would be gone. But I was so wrong. Throughout that week she continually told me one min that I was perfect, then the next that I was just a rebound and that this was to keep her from going off the deep end with several other guys at the same time (like she did to get over her ex husband). I was confused. That weekend while he was moving out, they had sex. I found out later. \n I should have left it alone, walked away. She said that she had stronger feelings for him and owed him a chance to prove himself. I started the process of moving on. I was mad, but I didn't show it. Through most of February I kept my distance. \n Though after valentines day, she told me that she realized she didn't love him anymore. We went for a drive and she told me how nothing was getting better that he wasn't really changing. When March came, she said she was giving me a month, no communication with the ex. No communication for a month with him while she figures it out. \n Even now at the end, I can say that it might honestly have been one of the best months of my life. Passionate sex, long conversations. Dates. Spending time together. I caught myself daydreaming about a future. I should have known that it was too good to be true. Especially after she told the ex they were not getting back together. At the end of March she told me that it was too hard, that she hadn't moved past what had happened and that she needed space, she couldn't be with me because I reminded her of a failed relationship. \n This was when I began to break, to get mad. For a week or two we didn't really talk. After awhile she wanted to be friends with benefits again, and through the month of April, all I heard was that again, I was perfect, but this was only while she found a man she could be with for good. It was painful. \n As April went on things got better, at least to me. She then one day dropped that she wanted an open relationship, that she needed to talk and date other people to do that for herself to feel better and move on. She said though that she would only sleep with me, and let me know if that was going to change. \n She then told me about the people she was talking to. One of them we will call Charles. He asked for her number at the gym. He was some 20 year old kid in college, it seemed like it was going towards sleeping with him ( i had time to get to know her). I started to get mad at what was going on. Eventually I told her honestly that I wasn't okay with any of that. That I wanted to be the only one. She broke it all off with me after that conversation. What I never got is that she blamed it on me in some ways. \n What followed was two weeks of fighting. Eventually I called it a day and moved on. Then out of nowhere she starts talking to me again on Mothers day. That Monday she calls me. Tells me how her ex played a trick on her to confess that she still loved him, and basically went \"fooled you\". The she confesses that she slept with the kid from the gym, and how he wasn't talking to her anymore but that she still liked him(she later told me that she said that to make me want her). I wish I hung up the phone. I broke, told her that she needed to take a look in the mirror, asked what was wrong with her. \n What followed was a fight, a long one. She told me that she wanted me to be like I was, tell her that she was okay, she was a good person. But I couldn't, she slept with someone else while we were arguing and lied to my face about it during those two weeks. \n After this she tried hard to get me to be with her. Even that Wednesday we had sex again, she said how much she missed me, it might honestly have been some of the best I have had. She even said that no one did it like we did. She said that she was sorry for everything, that she wanted to be with me that she was ready to accept her feelings. For a minute it seemed nice. \n Though I told her I needed space, that I hadn't moved past what had happened fully. She kept pushing, I was getting angry and was constantly being reminded. Where there once was confidence in the beginning, it had been eroded. She turned my insecurities against me through all those months. I saw that I had become her ex in a lot of ways. It made me mad. \n My greatest failure will be not realizing that sooner and being honest with her. Instead I took it out on her. While I never judged her for the past before me, I judged her for her actions towards me in the present. I said hurtful things. I couldn't accept what she was telling me. I didn't believe her like I once did. I kept up that facade till about last week. \n Now, it is all done, we both admit to many mistakes have been made by both people. But I wonder if I am a bad person, why I wasn't stronger, where my initial patience and strength went. What went wrong? All in all I don't know why I really am posting this. Maybe I just needed to say it. Or get it off my chest. I like to think I need perspective that I lack. \n I apologize for this if it seems all over the place. But to be honest I am too. It might not ever have worked, but I think of March, I put forth all the effort. I left it all on the field, i have no regrets except continuing it after that day where she said she couldn't do it at the end of my month. She was a vivid person. We both have the pain of it not working. It hurts, but I know I have to move on. I just don't know how. Where did I go wrong? Will I be better off? \n Thanks for anyone's time.",
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First time posting here and I'm doing it on mobile. Let me know if I've forgotten anything.
Background: I've been with my girlfriend Susan for almost 6 years now. We've had our ups and downs, but we work well as a couple.
Issue: In November 2014 I got a job offered in another country, which I took and almost immediately moved for. The plan was for my girlfriend to graduate university (which would only be another 3 months) and then she would fly over and join me. I told her it wasn't a certainty that she would find a job, but we'd give it a shot. Her visa had 6 months before she needs to be kicked out of the country.
Within 2 months she had a full offer from a company in her field, paid well, gave her a visa etc. It was a great opportunity that my dad even pulled some strings for. The downside was that she needed to start this job on a specific date. The same date of her friend's wedding (which had been planned months before).
We were both at a loss of what to do. I really didn't want her to say no to the job (she was in credit card debt by quite a large amount). In the end I said "If it was my best friend I would go to the wedding; but if it was my best friend they would understand if I didn't go" and let her make the decision. She turned down the job, and I paid for her trip to the wedding.
She comes back and immediately starts looking for jobs. She had a few interviews here and there but no offers. August rolls around and her visa is up, she needs to leave the country. I pay for her to fly back to our country of origin (one way) and now currently there is no plan for her to come back. Everything is up in the air.
I'd been supporting us for the past 6 months (which was pretty hard and often left me stressed) and I'd been helping her look for a job. Now whenever I talk to her I feel angry that she sacrificed our future for her friend's wedding. I resent her, and I know she feels down and I really hate bringing her down further but that's all I can feel at the moment.
How can I stop feeling this way? I want to stop beating her up about it because I know she does that enough herself, but I feel like she made a rash decision that resulted in uncertaintity for our future. :/ | Girlfriend chose to go to friend's wedding instead of taking a great job, putting our relationship into uncertaintity. | [
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I'm moving out of state to get work and the place I'm going requires a urine sample the day I arrive, April 19th, and last night I had a sending off party and made a poor decision after a few drinks to do some blow, which seemed a little speedy. I bought a Green Clean kit which is herbs and supplements to take the day of, but I don't know how reliable that is to clear one's system of this stuff. I haven't used blow in months and don't use amphetamines, however these are what would show up in my results if I fail the test.
Has anyone been in a similar position or know anyone else who has? What did you/he/she do and did it work? The sooner I have some knowledge about this the better, thanks. | Can I get coke/maybe amphetamines out of my system for a piss test in 3-4 days? How? | [
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Too late I hopped on it; | Patent Pending. | [
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Posted in another thread, but it was so long I decided to repost with more detail.
Short backstory: Every company I've ever worked for, except for this one story I'm about to tell you, I worked for 5 years or more. So, I have a pretty impressive job history. Never left with drama, have great relationships with my former bosses, still talk to most of them and my former coworkers. Anyway.... when this takes place, I had just moved to another state, and my company transfer was delayed indefinitely at the time due to a huge paperwork screw up, so I had to find another job.
I started working for a women's clothing store as the Store Manager for about 9 months, and it was horrible.
First off, I was hired for a store about 20 minutes from my house... while I'm in training another manager quits, I get sent to a store 85 MILES away one way (170 miles a day, round trip! And almost a 2 hour drive each way) "temporarily"... being new, I agree but after 30 days I find out I'm NEVER getting transferred. The DM knew how far I drove too, but I NEEDED the job at the time so I did it but started looking for something else. The "district" spanned 3 states because it was a relatively small chain, so a store could go 2 months or more without seeing the DM, as the stores were SO far away - she would travel to an area, spend a week to see all the stores within 50 miles, then go to another area, etc.
My employees were awful... one girl wanted the SM position but she was in college and couldn't work full time so it wasn't offered to her - but somehow that was MY fault. She did everything she could to try and get me fired. One had 5 kids and was expecting a 6th and worked part time and constantly complained about how few hours she got, so I, feeling empathetic, gave her MORE hours - which she kept calling out from, leaving me to pull double shifts. Most were in college, would stay for the school year and then quit. All the employees were eventually fired or quit for one reason or another. I worked alone, about 80 hours a week (plus all the driving) for about 6 weeks before my DM approved anyone I interviewed to be hired. The DM is an awful beast of a woman, the type that's divorced and therefore hates all men, ever - she's made inappropriate comments about my disabled husband before (the fact that I work and he "sits at home all day") and she insists upon HUGGING every employee when she visits the store instead of handshakes. I hate being touched and I've told her so, so now she takes it as some sort of personal vendetta.
Sales are down, because it's just me and 3 brand-new employees that don't know what they're doing, I'm trying to train but I'm exhausted and frustrated, and the DM is getting on my case. Constantly. One of the girls I fired (disciplinary reasons, leaving store unattended, all sorts of stuff) is calling the DM and lying about me to try and get me fired.
I finally have a day off, and I get a call from one of the new girls that I've become friendly with - the DM was in, and she overheard the DM making arrangements to get the store re-keyed, change passwords, cover my closing shift for the next day.... in short, she was planning on firing me the next day. I ask my employee if she found someone to cover, and she says yes.
SO the next day, I sleep in...... and wait for the phone call. First call from employee when I'm 5 minutes late, "Um, DM wants to know if you're coming in today? I told her you called and said you were running late but she wants to know when you'll be here?" I start laughing. Employee says, "Ohhhhhhhh you're not coming in, are you?"
Me: "Nope. I'm not driving 2 hours to then turn around and come back home."
Employee: "Yeah I don't blame you. Well what should I tell her?"
Me: "Tell her you don't know when I'll be there"
30 minutes later..... Phone call again....
Employee: "DM wanted me to call you again and see where you are" (trails off, as she knows the answer already)
Me: "Ok, well does she want to talk to me"
Em: "Yeah, but she's with a customer" (muffled words to DM) "She says put you on speakerphone"
I hear the echoing sound of being switched to our awful speakerphone system, then the DM's voice: "You're late"
Me: "I'm not late, I FUCKING QUIT you useless, self-centered bitch! I don't know how the hell you ever were made a DM, but I pity anyone that EVER has to deal with you again. And on top of that you're lucky I don't file a harassment suit for touching me and my employees as well. Go fuck yourself."
And I hung up. | don't worry, I'll mail you my keys to the store. | [
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The ISPs are already required by [law]( to retain these records for 90 days. Here's the current list of information they must retain:
(A) name;
(B) address;
(C) local and long distance telephone connection records, or records of session times and durations;
(D) length of service (including start date) and types of service utilized;
(E) telephone or instrument number or other subscriber number or identity, including any temporarily assigned network address; and
(F) means and source of payment for such service (including any credit card or bank account number)
These are accessible only if the government:
(A) obtains a warrant issued using the procedures described in the Federal Rules of Criminal Procedure (or, in the case of a State court, issued using State warrant procedures) by a court of competent jurisdiction;
(B) obtains a court order for such disclosure under subsection (d) of this section;
(C) has the consent of the subscriber or customer to such disclosure;
(D) submits a formal written request relevant to a law enforcement investigation concerning telemarketing fraud for the name, address, and place of business of a subscriber or customer of such provider, which subscriber or customer is engaged in telemarketing (as such term is defined in section 2325 of this title); or
(E) uses an administrative subpoena authorized by a Federal or State statute or a Federal or State grand jury or trial subpoena [grabbed this part from farther down]
This [bill]( adds onto this existing law that:
(1) A commercial provider of an electronic communication service shall retain for a period of at least one year a log of the temporarily assigned network addresses the provider assigns to a subscriber to or customer of such service that enables the identification of the corresponding customer or subscriber information under subsection (c)(2) [which is the list of information I mentioned above] of this section. | All this law is doing is extending the amount of time that ISPs retain information that they're already required to retain, and that they would be retaining ANYWAYS for their basic day to day business transactions… and this data can't be accessed by the government unless the feds go about it by the normal, accepted method - get a warrant, court order, or subpoena.
Edit: ugh... formatting.
Edit 2: Added link.
Edit 3: FIXED link. | [
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"content": "All this law is doing is extending the amount of time that ISPs retain information that they're already required to retain, and that they would be retaining ANYWAYS for their basic day to day business transactions… and this data can't be accessed by the government unless the feds go about it by the normal, accepted method - get a warrant, court order, or subpoena. \n Edit: ugh... formatting. \n Edit 2: Added link. \n Edit 3: FIXED link.",
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I'm a bisexual man and have been for as long as I can remember. I thoroughly enjoy sleeping with men and women.
I'm a solitary man. I live alone, travel alone, have no close family or friends and I absolutely love it. It is liberating, giving me time to do any and all things that I want to do. Hence, I've never cared about what anybody thinks me. But, a recent event made me curious as to what people actually think about my lifestyle.
Let me break down what happened:
I am back in town today, after 2 months of traveling and am enjoying a beer at my favorite local bar when I receive a tap on the shoulder. It is an an old sex partner from high school. I should mention now that she has a gay brother.
She's excited and quickly wraps her arms around my neck and hugs me. After exchanging pleasantries and talking about each others exploits, I decide I want to have sex with her.
I initiate physical contact, tease her lightly, and like a fly to a spider, she's caught in my web. But for old times sake she hurls a few small shit tests my way, just to make sure I still have my edge:
Me: You're wearing that perfume that I like so much.
Her: I bet you say that to all the girls.
Me: I do.
Her: Then how do I know you mean it?!
Me: You don't.
Her: Ugh! leans in to me
I grab her by the nape of the neck and push her lips unto mine.
We head back to her home where she still lives with her parents who are away on holiday.
We have rough sex, where she orgasms twice. She is a squirter, which is delightful.
She falls asleep and I quietly make my way out of the room. As I'm walking down the hall the bathroom door opens and it's her brother whom I thought wasn't home. He smiles at me and makes his way towards his room. On impulse I grab him by the arm, spin him around, pin him to wall and kiss him.
He leads me to his room and I give him the same brutal treatment I had just finished giving his sister.
As I'm putting my clothes back on he slightly surprises me by giving me a shit test, which is odd coming from a man but I pinned it on the fact that he is gay and extremely effeminate:
Him: You fuck guys and girls, how do you sleep at night?
Me: On a bed made of money. (Thank you, Don Draper)
He giggles and kisses me. I leave and drive home.
And it's when I'm sitting on the couch, enjoying my nightly glass of milk that it dawns on me. How DO I sleep at night? And I had the answer almost immediately. Because I simply don't care.
But it peaked my curiosity. What DO you all think about bisexuality? Or homosexuality in general? Does it make you uncomfortable? How? Have you ever thought of indulging? Have you? Does it make you any less of a man?
I'm interested. | Title says it all. | [
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We’ve been together for about 1.5 years basically entirely long distance. Currently, we live a province apart so airplanes are required to see each other. Overall we haven’t had many problems and have gotten along fine the entire time.
We went to Mexico together before Christmas and in that time I basically decided that I don’t want a serious relationship right now. While he hasn’t specifically said that he wants it, he’s dropped little hints like once I’m done school this and this could happen, or if I go on exchange he would fly to see me abroad. These are all things that are still fairly far away in my mind, and I don’t want to be thinking that far ahead in a relationship, due to not wanting a serious relationship.
While in Mexico, I was conflicted in what I wanted and he told me that I would have to make a decision on what I want, because subconsciously I end up pushing him when I get scared of how serious our relationship is getting or the thoughts of serious commitments. So over the holidays I’ve had time to think and I decided that I didn’t want to be in a relationship period. I’ve consistently been in relationships since I was 13 and haven’t really had time single to discover who I am without a relationship defining me, and I’m only 20, I have time to commit later in life if I want.
Right now, he’s heart broken and fighting to make our relationship work, make anything work so that he doesn’t lose me. He’s stated that he’ll wait for me to find myself, finish school, whatever it would take basically. I’ve told him that I don’t want him to wait for me, because what if at the end of whatever journey, I still decide that I don’t want a relationship.
Currently he’s offered that maybe we just take a break, and because I still love him dearly, and that he truly was a great boyfriend and our relationship was healthy, that maybe I just need some time on my own, but not entirely giving up the relationship for good.
So I’m conflicted right now as to if I should firmly end this relationship or to call it a break as he suggests and then we can start over later when I’m ready. So Reddit, I don’t know if you’ll be able to help me make a decision at all, but at the very least, I was able to get it out to someone. | I broke up with my 1.5 year LDR boyfriend because I found myself not wanting to be in a relationship and wanting to discover myself, now he’s suggesting a break and to wait for me, and my remaining feelings and the healthy relationship we had are making me second guess my decision. | [
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Hey Dean,
Love the DayZ mod and how it developed to a standalone game, but I have a question that is a deep problem? Or rather topic in both games.
Kill on sight, player killing, fresh spawn killing etc..
Why people think its a problem, players spend time gathering gear and once they are done they turn around and go kill people at the coast or just shoot people for their gear.
While this is a problem it can't be fixed, ever but it could be properly attended to.
Why does kill on sight happen, why does fresh spawn killing happen? I personally think it is because of the current state of the game/dayz mod - such as there is only so much to do as getting a gun and creating a camp/vehicle. While in SA you just get a gun then what is there to do? Nothing besides fight/kill people - which is fine a lot of people do it.. But it can be lowered.
An idea- alternate things to do, (which is planned - endgame etc) Less player killing and coast players on mods such as epoch who give players opportunities to do more and occupy their time with, which is something needed. It distracts players and gives them a goal to do while in the sandbox game. | Game needs something to occupy players past the point of getting a gun, base building, barracading cities/buildings (to lower KOS/spawn killing because players are simply.. bored) - Endgame points to do in an open/free game.
Open to opinions!
Andrew | [
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Wtf? I want Hornacek gone as much as anyone else on Earth buy it would just be a waste of time if we were going to hire that piece of shit as his replacement. Brooks is a better decision maker than Jeff (He is still not a good decision maker though) but he encourages iso and lack of ball movement just as much as Jeff does. | Brooks is nothing more than a slightly less shifty version of Hornacek. Get a real coach and stay away from these iso enforcing dumbasses that coach like a 12 year old playing 2K. | [
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This is gonna sound bro but, do you even lift?
No seriously, do you workout? Because I feel liked I'd be in the same boat as you if I didn't lift weights for the last 12 years.
I have a hard time engaging in the "social fluff" also. I've been suspecting that most women that are interested in me is primary because I'm in better shape than most of my peers. | I hear you man. Workout. | [
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For the past few days I have been in a really foul, bitchy mood. I have tried to keep the bitchiness to a minimum, but this morning I snapped. I said and did somethings that I am ashamed of, and I know my boyfriend did not deserve what he got. As much as I would have deserved it, he did not even try to argue, yell, or fight back. He simply walked away, and left for work. Which left me sitting here alone to think about what I did. I called his cell to say sorry, and he said "it's ok, I forgive you." but I feel like the things I did, and said warrant more than a simple "I'm sorry." I need Reddit's help to figure out a way to really apologize for my actions. Any ideas, or thoughts? | I'm 30 years old, and my boyfriend is 31 years old. We have been together for 3 years. This morning I had a psychotic outburst, and took it out on my undeserving boyfriend, now I need to find a way to say I'm sorry, and would like Reddits help.
UPDATE: Thanks everyone for all the wonderful advice. My boyfriend gets off work, and will be home at 5p.m. I will let you guys know what plan of action I decide to go with, and how everything worked out. Thanks again you guys have been very helpful. Reddit always knows what to do. | [
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Not really worth debating, but since you sound so adamant that I shouldn't call it a funk 45, I'll go there. While you are not wrong that it is a soul instrumental, and BTW almost all their stuff is instrumental soul, there are basically 2 schools of thought when it comes to "defining" a Funk 45, not just one way.
There is the black and white school of thought. It either is a funk forty-five or it isn't. I'm guessing you and I could both spout off a long list of Funk 45s that are unarguable funk 45s because there is no grey area with plenty of 45s.
However, since there is no Funk bible that all funk collectors worship equally, that is a collection of universally unarguable funk 45s, the school of thought I prefer is a fading grey area. Does the song have strong elements of funky rhythms, yes or no? I'd argue without a doubt [THE SONG IN QUESTION]( does moreso than any of their other 45s and albums.
^ If you listen, you'll hear it too. All the necessary elements are there to call it a funk 45 from the snappy fast beat and hand clap to the bluesy bending notes rhythm, to the crowd and artist yelps in the background. The pianist is pure funk, and the hammond adds funk flair perfectly. The drummer is absolutely killing it with the super snappy beat and machine gun speed fills.
Now if I would have called it a Funky 45 instead of a Funk 45, you wouldn't have brought it up because that isn't insinuating it's pure funk, but I'm just not that anal. Dustygroove does this BTW, so they don't get any feedback from customers that draw lines between what is and isn't allowed to be called a "funk 45".
There are so many grey areas in funk, blending of funk and blues, funky soul, funky disco, funky 80s pop, plain-old funk, blaxploitation, funky jazz, funky country, etc. There's pre funk and there's modern funk. With so much genre hopping funk songs out there that I have collected over the years I have learned that these are lines in the sand that get washed away.
^ That concept, of what is generally mostly funky is funk, is not my concept mind you, I read it in the forward of a Funk 45 book which is nothing more than an enormous list of 45s that sold for such and such on Ebay or in the mail over the years. I can't recall it's name or I'd give the author credit
Nevermind, I found [THE BOOK]( Here's [another shot]( It's a great book BTW, very complete and I'm glad I bought it before it sold out years ago. [More info]( < including the names of hundreds of contributors.
Not to beat a dead horse, but speaking to my personal experience, I have that book, a few just more like it, about 1000 or so funk 45s, and the best mix I think I've ever made ever is a strictly funk 45 mix called [Dumpster Funk 2]( Here's the [Front cover]( and if you really wanna see the funk 45s you can [ZOOM IN]( on the tracklisting\records used in the mix. It took me about 5 years of practicing to mix 45s and collecting the things to make that mix, it got featured on music-selections.com, Dome Shots and Fat Laces, KevinKnottingham, several other blogs and got over 5000 downloads, so incidentally I'm proud of how it turned out and how well it was received. I know, that doesn't make me a certified funk expert, but clearly I'm no slouch either. I put in the time and it's a fun mix I'd be happy to share with you or with any fans of the funky 45. [DL mp3 at mixcrate](
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Me [24f] and my SO [27m] were in a relationship for 5 months. About a month ago he began putting in tons of hours at work ( >80 hours), trying to start a serious business. We used to spend every weekend together, and he texted me multiple time a day. However because of his work, time spent with him and contact has fizzled out.
We talked about this, and he apologized for neglecting me and felt really bad. He went into great deal about his work, and how he literally had no time. He then told me that I should find someone else who has more time, However that we should remain in a "causal relationship" I reluctantly agreed.
The day he told me this, he had helped me move into a new apartment closer to my work and to him. (He specifically took of the time to do this). We had sex and he took me out for dinner. He told me maybe if he finds a little time, that we could go to the beach, or he might spend the night at my place. This made me confused.
It has been two weeks, and I feel there is more to this "causal relationship" then he is too busy with work. I am going to ask him what the deal is; I feel like no time is just an excuse. I am going to officially end the relationship for my own closure. I am sick of these childish games, he is 27. | Boyfriend says I should see other people but we should remain in a causal relationship, since he is too busy with work. I think there is more to it, and want to break up.
Reddit, what is the best way to approach this situation. What could be the real reason for his behavior? Do you think he is being honest? How should I officially break up with him? | [
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The best: spears/lances. Generally quite useful for attack and defense, and the associated dragoon class/skills are interesting and powerful. I like that it's not super common, but still a historically valid weapon. And being wielded by awesome characters such as Mog, Cid, Freya, Kimahri, and Fang certainly helps.
The great: Guns/gunblade (FF8). Provided it fits in with the setting of the game, I always enjoy feeling like I've got the technological edge on my enemies. Tends to trade off raw damage for range and speed, which I feel is more than acceptable. And while I prefer the FF8 version of gunblades, FF13's were okay, but they felt a little "over-designed', if that makes sense? You don't need some complex, morphing weapon with a few dozen moving parts... a gun with a huge sword on it just seems so much more simple/badass.
The good: Hammers/axes. In contrast to spears or guns, a big heavy hammer or axe is ideal for putting up huge damage numbers at the cost of attack speed. Usually looks pretty cool, and it just feels so satisfying to to utterly crush or cleave smaller enemies in a single strike, you know? I'd rank these higher, but I'm not always a fan of the slow/powerful play style.
The "meh": Swords/katanas/daggers. Tend to be your "average" class of weapon... merely "okay" in everything, and excelling in nothing. Yawn. Besides that, pretty much everyone gets a sword in games, TV, movies... everywhere, really. I guess you can stick with the "it's common because it works so well" argument, but I'd rather have a little more variety. These are fantasy games, feel free to go nuts with the weapons (within reason).
The crappy: Novelty weapons. Stuff like Quina's forks, Edward's harps, or Hope's boomerangs (though if you're actually using that last one for physical attacks, then something has gone horribly, horribly wrong). They just look weird and out of place, and are generally only useful for a gimmick (inflicting status), or boosting stats. Not that I have anything against being a support character / class (I love me some green magic... maybe not so much bards), but it just seems like an odd way to facilitate that.
Other notable weapons:
Gloves/claws: average. Monk classes are cool, but I feel less powerful than having a "real" weapon.
Rods/staves: pretty darn decent. Magic is really fun to use in most games, and they look sweet.
Bows/crossbows: meh. Just a crappier version of guns, IMO, but useful if your game lacks gun technology.
Whips: I like it, but mostly because Castlevania. Still, tends to look cool while still feeling powerful. | Spears > Guns > Axes = Hammers > Whips > Rods/Staves > Crossbows > Claws > Bows > Daggers > Gloves > Katanas > Swords >> weird/novelty/unusual weapons. | [
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It almost entirely depends on what weapon it is used for.
As a general rule, kits for stock weapons or other commonly used weapons are worth more. What people are willing to pay for a kit depends on how much they use a weapon, so a kit for a common weapon like the Rocket Launcher will be worth more than a less-used weapon like the Homewrecker.
As far as quality goes, the cheapest are normal kits like those you found. The next highest is Specialized, which are crafted using robot parts and normal kits. These have a distinctive sheen where the weapon glows a certain color.
The most expensive is Professional, which requires parts and specialized weapons to craft and has a particle effect as well as the sheen.
The final determinant of value is the effects. Sheens such as Team Shine and particle effects such as Cerebral Discharge are worth more than sheens like Daffodil or effects such as Singularity. Remember, only specialized and pro kits have sheens, and only pro kits have particle effects. | It depends on how popular the weapon is, what quality kit it is, and what sheen/effect it has. | [
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Well, here goes my first post on Reddit.
I'm in my final of year of highs school and I was volunteering at my local hospital Coffee Bar to get my community hours done so I could graduate. The hospital is located in the sleazier, lower-income side of the city so I commonly have to serve strange characters, but usually they are just socially awkward, not violent.
One day, however, I'm working at the coffee bar early sunday morning and I'm serving this young white guy in a full black outfit, like black toque (hat), black track pants and black jacket. He comes to buy coffee and, at first glance, seems pretty normal to me. I hear him muttering something under his breath while I pay and I thought he was swearing but I didn't really notice since I just passed it off as him being a weirdo. But he was much more.
He begins to walk away, but all of sudden turns around and yells at me: "DID YOU CALL ME GAY!!". I was caught off gaurd, because I didn't say anything AT ALL plus Im a pretty nice guy, all for that equality and what not. But this guy starts getting aggressive "You called me gay!! I should punch you for that!! WE HAVE RIGHTS, THAT IS ILLEGAL! blah blah blah" and im just standing there like "no, man, I didn't say anything, I swear". At this point, everyone in the hospital lobby is just watching, my coworker is a little scrawny asian kid and he isnt going to do anything, so im trying to deal with this guy. He just keeps threatening me and goes on a rant about some illegal shit I was supposedly doing. Eventually he leaves, while screaming at me still as he walks away. A few minutes later, another volunteer who works upstairs comes down and says "Dude theres some crazy guy up there, he was on his phone and just started yelling 'Im going to kill that bitch' ". I asked if it was a guy in all black, and he confirms. Either, I was the bitch or whoever on the phone was the bitch, but I was fearing for my safety, so I call security and 5 minutes later, he is being dragged out by 3 security guards, yelling at them about his rights and shit.
Have not seen that guy to this day, thank god, but my mom was worried and wanted me to quit in case he comes back to stab me. I told "i work in a hospital so if i get stabbed, I'll just stumble over to ER". Anyways, this shit was just random and I genuinely did not saying anything to this guy, he just has a mental illness or something. Scary shit | Minding my own business while volunteering at Hospital, crazy guy threatens me because he thinks I called him gay. Says hes gonna kill someone. I lived. | [
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I tried to phrase this question in a way that isn't incredibly pretentious, but since have given up. I don't mean to make an ass of myself, and if I do, so be it.
Basically, how do you deal with people after reading critical theory? Even my 'intelligent' friends tend to fall into the New Atheist ideology (disgusting, I know) or into analytic philosophy (not necessarily bad). This isn't a bad thing itself, but they always want to argue with me and berate a strawmanned version of my own beliefs, and frankly, I've given up on convincing them. If I try to tell them it's not worthwhile, they accuse me of mysticism. My suggestion that, maybe, just maybe, they ought not dismiss an entire tradition without reading a single work within it has fallen on deaf ears.
I know, "get better friends." The thing is that it's not just them. It's everywhere. Social media, good ole' fashion media, daily interactions--this kind of ideological bullshit is everywhere! And there's no use trying to reason with people since we simply seem to talk past one another! | how do you deal with ideology in everyday life? do you ignore it? try to exterminate it? | [
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All I can say as a recently graduated senior, I took a few college classes and I had a concussion so I missed some of my online english class. I never handed in a final portfolio for the course because of the timing of the injury. I emailed my teacher and she was aware but I was SURE I had failed because the course sylibus said you will fail without this.
I spent THREE months not looking at my grade from the class because I was so anxious about seeing the F I just couldn't do it and even made excuses up not to look at it.
I also applied Early Decision to my first choice school were I would have been a legacy student and wanted so badly to get in. I hadn't checked my grades and just told my guidance councelor I couldn't have passed and she told the college I was applying to I had failed english and I had to do credit recovery during the spring semester. It was the most horrific experience to have to take credit recover online. It mad my anxiety so bad I could barely function in school at all. I was so ashamed of myself.
I FINALLY check my grade on orders from guidance and my mother and I saw I had a B. We call my college and this is in late december, a week before the decisions come out. I get a reply that they had already made the choice and nothing could be done so I just had to wait.
I got my REJECTION letter a few days later and was not so mad I didn't get in, but that I didn't get in because I was so ridden with anxiety I couldn't look up a stupid grade.
It all worked out and I got into a different school with a huge scholarship and am quite content.
Don't let yourself do this, I can't offer much advice because my anxiety is not completely controlled. I can say talk to your doctor or parents about medication/seeing a phychatrist or going to a therapist. I see both and medication (xanax) has helped quite a bit and my therapist helps both my anxiety and my relationships with everyone in general. I commend you for looking for guidance, and if you ever want to talk just send me a PM. I (think) I get how you feel. | I didn't get in to my first choice college because I was too anxious to check a grade and assumed I had failed. | [
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I've got about two more hours in the cube before I begin the commute home so I'll go ahead and ask... Was anyone else saving up the reputation rank up rewards (i.e. Cryptarch, Dead Orbit, etc.) that contained a chance at Legendary/Rare engrams to see if they would also be downgraded or left as is and has the results of Patch 1.0.2? | Were saved legendary engram mail items downgraded to rares? | [
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Grad here. If you have an early class or a long class period, break up the lecture into 15 min chunks and have some 5 min subject-related activity between. Mine and a million other student's attention span is about 15 min. Giving us a 5 min video clip about something cool related to the material or a recent advancement in that field would suffice. Be creative. The point is break the students' attention deficit and get them re-engaged. It will help their grades and your attendance. I was in a class of >500 which was taught by TWO professors at the SAME time who used this technique. It was the best classroom experience I ever had. | Give students regular attention span breaks. During breaks do something that's subject related but in a different style.
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People lack the knowledge that their experience is valuable because the only vindication they receive or consider valuable from their past efforts is monetary. Yes, college is valuable because it provides a "signal" (game theory definition) in the job interview process, but where can people who do regularly have their experience (or signal) validated by a job reward go for vindication?
People do not have opportunities to honestly state their full life experiences as the "signal" for "qualification" in any redeeming endeavor. The reason "teachers" are so valuable is because they provide "certification" for future interviews, which will open the door to new experiences. Doctors provide "certification," business owners provide "certification," and so does anybody who vindicates your experience by offering you an opportunity to learn and gain a perspective relative to others'.
Everybody is born into circumstances they never foresaw. Some people find themselves in circumstances they cannot explain and can't get out of. If society, "certifiers," teachers, and humanity would offer definitive experiences more, everybody would have more "opportunities" that could be used as leverage in interviews and would have better knowledge of themselves.
Until some technology/software can deliver to me what I am based on my full, honest, and perhaps objective experience, it should be the mission of teachers and all people to provide to people knowledge of themselves. Teachers do this, business owners do this, doctors do this, etc., but is it, presently, the mission of humanity to provide to people what they want, need, and desire, without moralization?
Provide people what they want, need, and desire, without moralization and you will get the job you want, need, and desire, with a full understanding of who you are.
People don't know what they want, why they are who they are, or why their circumstances are they way they are. What does it actually mean to you to have a college degree? What does it tell you about yourself? And what do people without college degrees not know about themselves? Shouldn't it be our mission to offer that knowledge to people so that they do not have to be dependent upon a job for vindication?
The American superego tells us that you have failed morally if you are poor. If we provide people what they want, need, and desire, without moralization, the random circumstances of our birth, or by fate, will be easily overcome. The way to do this is to offer people knowledge of themselves. It's simple, an honest input will yield an honest output. If you believe that no matter the outcome of the "job interview," you will yield some knowledge of yourself out of it, you can't lose. The problem, today, is that people cannot be honest on their resumes for fear of the dire consequences. Imagine if your resume were a talk therapy session and at the end, you were offered a job based on your entire life experience - idealistic, I know, but the "certification industry" (college) is one of the biggest in America and that proves that certification is big business.
Imagine if certification were arbitrary, or dependent not upon the arbitrary discriminations of a hiring manager (who would want that job?), but on the discriminations of a software or a trusted therapist/friend? I am paralyzed by choice when deciding which jobs to apply to and can't win because I know that my resume is the only factor in my getting a job. If hiring managers could see what kind of person I am, and could offer even a little bit of perspective on what kind of person I am (like in any other interaction with any other human being), I could gain some useful knowledge (certification), I might even pay for that knowledge.
College is expensive because it is valuable. Value, though, is relative to how much people are willing to pay for it. We obviously need "college," but we may only need some objective knowledge of ourselves along with more "certification" or vindication of an experience. Being unemployed with a college degree makes me devalue the experiences I "manage" to have while being unemployed. I think "am I even alive?"
I have no money, but I have a full life experience, perspective, and an opinion that deserves respect. The current system of "providing opportunity/experience/certification for future opportunity/experience" does not offer applicants any knowledge of themselves. "You were not selected for this position" is a loss to all humanity, wasted hours, but is bound to change and for the betterment of everyone's self-understanding.
We all want to know who we are independent of our resumes (we think about this and are told to think about this question every time we think about our future, goals, and while we are online searching for jobs), but how can we possibly know? Where else can I receive vindication of my life experience outside of submitting a one-page resume (or is it supposed to be two pages?) and successfully finding a job? Nothing else leads to anything.
The future of Reddit, other publishing platforms, unemployment, and therapy is feedback in this respect. With all that data about me, why do I not receive any answers (however arbitrary) about who I am, what I like, what I am good at, what I will do, etc.?
There is nowhere to go to get this knowledge of oneself without miraculously finding a job. That must change, because the bubble will burst. | Reddit should do more with my data because this listlessness, existential lack-of-answers about why I am in such bad, unforeseen circumstances is caused by a lack of vindication received by "employers." I would pay to know who I am relative to others if I were to receive some kind of certification for any experience, because I feel like I am not alive. | [
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If we provide people what they want, need, and desire, without moralization, the random circumstances of our birth, or by fate, will be easily overcome. The way to do this is to offer people knowledge of themselves. It's simple, an honest input will yield an honest output. If you believe that no matter the outcome of the \"job interview,\" you will yield some knowledge of yourself out of it, you can't lose. The problem, today, is that people cannot be honest on their resumes for fear of the dire consequences. Imagine if your resume were a talk therapy session and at the end, you were offered a job based on your entire life experience - idealistic, I know, but the \"certification industry\" (college) is one of the biggest in America and that proves that certification is big business. \n Imagine if certification were arbitrary, or dependent not upon the arbitrary discriminations of a hiring manager (who would want that job?), but on the discriminations of a software or a trusted therapist/friend? I am paralyzed by choice when deciding which jobs to apply to and can't win because I know that my resume is the only factor in my getting a job. If hiring managers could see what kind of person I am, and could offer even a little bit of perspective on what kind of person I am (like in any other interaction with any other human being), I could gain some useful knowledge (certification), I might even pay for that knowledge. \n College is expensive because it is valuable. Value, though, is relative to how much people are willing to pay for it. We obviously need \"college,\" but we may only need some objective knowledge of ourselves along with more \"certification\" or vindication of an experience. Being unemployed with a college degree makes me devalue the experiences I \"manage\" to have while being unemployed. I think \"am I even alive?\" \n I have no money, but I have a full life experience, perspective, and an opinion that deserves respect. 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Hey guys!
So I searched in the official LoL forums for a 5v5 ranked team and I found a team to play with. They made a new team so that we can play placements and after we went 5-0 in placements , they just removed me and some other guy from the Skype call and from the team. They wanted to get to Gold V for the borders and invite their friends then so they could get them aswell.
This is one example of a bad community! They basically wasted like 3-4 hours of my life by doing this and I was really really mad since I thought I found some good people to play 5's with.
Yesterday I sent a ticket to Riot but they did'nt answer me - it might take some days, I know.
But I just want to warn you guys, be careful and make sure they really want to play with you! Otherwise you would just waste your time and "boost" their friends, which is'nt what we want , right? ;) | People search for ranked 5's teams and remove your from the team after placements. | [
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I was curious about this, so I dug around a bit to see what exactly they were doing. Disclaimer: I'm an undergrad, and while this is an area I've looked at a fairly large amount, I may still make mistakes. If you see any, let me know so I can correct it.
It looks like this was a trial of a vascular graft being developed by the company Humacyte , known more commonly as Teflon. These PTFE veins have compatibility problems, and do not perform as well as your native veins.
What Humacyte is doing harvested from humans on it. Once they grow for some length of time (it looks like several months, based on the proposals and whatnot), they then use detergents of some form to remove all of the actual cellular material. What is left is a vein that is primarily the extracellular matrix the SMC deposited (lots of collagen, probably laminin, fibrinogen, elastin as well) . Without the cellular components of the cells, the graft won't trigger immunocompatibility problems, and hopefully after implantation, the native tissue will grow into the graft, and incorporate it more fully into the body. There is also the advantage that because the graft doesn't have any living cells, they can package it and store it on a shelf for up to nine months before it goes bad, which greatly boosts the convenience and commercial abilities of this.
This first test (Phase I Clinical Trial) is being performed in people with end stage kidney disease who are undergoing intensive dialysis treatment. Grafts are used in these patients to connect arteries and veins in their arm to aid in the dialysis. They will be monitoring how the patients respond to the graft to see if there are any unforeseen immunological problems, or if the grafts can hold up to blood flow in an actual person. | They grew cells on a graft, removed the cells leaving extracellular matrix, and stuck it in someone's arm. | [
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Hey guys, just recently discovered this subreddit and thought I'd share my progress... Maybe help motivate anyone else out there who just doesn't know where to start or is trying to build up the courage to just go to the gym for the first time. I know for me that was the biggest obstacle, walking into the gym not knowing what the fuck you're doing and looking like an idiot. You just have to remember its a learning experience, like most things in life, you just have to apply yourself and not be afraid of looking like a noobie. Everyone has got to start somewhere, right? I've always been a pretty big guy, played almost every sport I could as a kid and was always very active, but somehow managed to gain a lot of weight. I drank a shit ton of soda as a kid so I suspect that had a lot do with it.
Don't want to get into life story mode, but it's worth pointing out that I always struggled with low self confidence (at least through high school). I always felt like everyone was looking at me (you'll notice I had fuckin epic man-titties). If this is YOUR problem, you must realize that nothing is going to change unless YOU do something about it. Hell, start working out in your own home at first, that's what I did. Do push-ups and crunches every day. Bottom line, just START.
I don't have exact measurements and stuff, just my weights. Back in November when I began my journey I weighed in at 250-ish. I am now 191 as of today. I never really set a goal for a specific amount of weight I wanted to lose within a certain amount of time or anything, I just simply decided that I was not going to stop until I was happy with the way I looked. I was sick of looking at myself in the mirror and did something about it. It may seem like a rather daunting task, but you just have to remember that it is possible if you are willing to learn and apply yourself. | I'm fuckin proud as shit of what I've accomplished so far and wanted to share and maybe help motivate others =).
Not sure if I should talk about my workout routine and diet... Of course, I certainly will if people are interested.
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Before (250) -
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Gonna make this as short and sweet as I can.
I recieved one of those mini speaker things you know? The bluetooth speakers that are really loud and really small? Yeah, well the first thing I did when I got it was hook it up to my phone, I told the family how much I loved it and played a bit of Christmas music on it while others proceeded to open presents and have a great time. Well I left it on the table in the middle of the room and forgot about it. We all opened presents and everyone went to sleep after dinner and all that. Well the next morning I woke up and felt the need to let it loose, I start up a video and I skipped to the near middle of the video, turned the volume all the way up. There wasn't any sound. So I check if my sound is muted, it isnt. Then I remembered, I still had bluetooth on and it was connected. I just turned on porn on the loudest speaker I have ever seen, right in the middle of my entire family. So, I decided to rip off the bandaid instead of sitting up here letting them talk. Reddit, I went downstairs, avoiding all eye contact, picked up the speaker, and went back to my room, and locked the door. | Recieved one of those small bluetooth speakers, left it connected, started blasting some porn in the middle of my family during their Christmas breakfast. | [
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AgentBarcode: I've been wondering for a long time.
what does that mean
how do you do it? (what char?)
TY | give me a clue cause I dont have one :) | [
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In June of 1932, the Nazi Party attained its highest vote total (in democratically-free elections) with 37 percent of the popular vote and were indeed the largest party in Germany. Notice how Hitler was not in fact elected as head of the state at this time and was instead appointed chancellor in January of 1933 only due strong pressure that he put on the aging Paul Von Hindenburg. In November of that same year, the Nazi total actually decreased to 33 percent, although they still were the largest party in Germany. The argument for this decline is attributed to the world economic stability that seemed to hint at the end of the Depression (which was a large reason behind why the Nazis were even relevant at all). So with their influence waning, what did the Nazis do? They cheated, such as was the case with the Reichstag Fire Decree and the Enabling Act of 1933. Opposition parties, most notably the German Communist Party (KPD) were censured and other parties took an apathetic stance, hoping the Nazi problem would fix itself. In a sense, they seriously underestimated the Nazi Party's long-term goals and their anti-democratic ideologies. Even then the Nazi Party couldn't achieve an absolute majority and instead had to rely on support from outside groups to gain control, as was the case of the rigged March 1933 election. | the Nazi party was never elected by popular decree and instead had to use political manipulation and censorship to gain control of Germany. The public approval after the last free election of November 1933 can largely be attributed to political pressure, apathy, and propaganda and was NOT a democratic overthrow of the government.
But honestly, the only reason I even corrected you was because you compared the workings of a forum-based website to that of Nazi Germany. That's just fucking idiotic on so many levels. On a side note, I just want you to know that you are in fact very awesome. | [
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So today I decided I'd give my Lady Remington a full-body trial. I skipped the genital region, but I got everywhere else.
Face: As good as a blade, which is to say, not as good as I'd like but nothing I can do about that. Plus side: no cuts, which I can't say for the razor.
Arms, legs, chest, belly, hands, feet: Acceptable. My arms and legs aren't particularly hairy, so I got a preliminary shave before my shower and touched up after, when I could see the hairs better. Hands and feet are even less hairy, but still hairier than a cis woman's.
Armpits: And here's the fuck-up. I knew that my pits are the single most sensitive region of my skin, and I knew that they were irritated for days after the last time I tried to shave them with the Lady Remington. Well, they seemed fine at first. Then in the shower, the soap hit them and OW. So I put some shaving cream on them (it has moisturizer in it) to see if that would help and OW. So I just rinsed them off, because whatever. I finished up, got out, and dried off.
Then I put deodorant on and OW THE FIRES OF HADES HAVE TAKEN RESIDENCE BENEATH MY ARMS so I bore the pain for a moment, hoping it would go away. Nope. Bracing for more pain, I use the towel to wipe off the deodorant. Then I grabbed a DIFFERENT deodorant (a spray type, without an antiperspirant) and sprayed it across my chest and then sprayed it into one of my armpits. Cue hellfire again, wipe that shit off, you know the drill.
So, once the irritation subsides in a few days, I'll switch back to a blade for my pits. But the Lady Remington works well everywhere else, so that's a plus. | used lighter fluid and a lighter to shave my genitals. Or not. Maybe you should read the long version instead. | [
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guys, can you tell me what's the max resolution an iPhone 6 is capable of? Like, is 1920x1080 possible & sane on the phone? I'm currently using 720x1080 on my 4S(max resolution on this device) and about to get an 6 soon. So i wonder, what's the max res before it starts to glitch on the 4.7 iPhone 6. | What's max upscale res on i6 // is Full-HD possible?
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I had a really really awesome first date with a girl last night that i met on a dating site. We planned for a short date, but it ended up lasting like 9 hours. We really hit it off, and I felt really comfortable around her, and even kissed her on the first date which I have never done before. I am pretty confident that she was as pleased as I was with the date. So my question is: how long do I wait to call her or text her if you think that's more appropriate?
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I did research on this in college, the data is accurate, but the reason for the increase is different than what you would expect. The price increase is actually due to used book stores and buying back. While previously, everyone bought a new book every year and kept it (no selling back, no used books sales). So with used book sales, they have to try and make up for 3 years of sales, so they essentially tripled the price over time.
Typical profit margin on a new book is between 20-40%. Typical profit for used book stores was 100%+
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Right. If it was all an inception on Cobb, it was not to make him not feel guilty. It would mean there was a whole higher level of reality and Mal was right to kill herself and Cobb was the delusional one. But if you go this route then things start to get a bit muddy and hard to make anything other than wild theories as to what is actually happening:
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Copy from an old comment of mine that fits here:
I get REALLY pissed when someone says "I'm such a nerd" because they took the lenses out of the cinema 3D glasses and put pictures of themselves wearing them on Facebook, to which I reply "name pokemon number 149, what is the name of the wind Mage in LoZ and name a game he appears in, Who is Samus Aran, how many Doctors have there been so far and who is your favourite, how many sides on a D&D die and what colour is a Gnarly Tree-Rex? Don't know? Then shut the fuck up. I have been a nerd for pretty much my whole life and have been teased and outcast for it by my peers, including you, so now you think you can stroll in when it's in fashion and think you can pass yourself off as one of my kind? No." | Nerd rage at annoying Facebook girls | [
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mine is selfish, and rather juvenile compared to everyone elses, but i've never felt such a horrible pain in my life, and i wish to never feel it again.
i was in love with my best friend, and had been for several years. at some point our relationship changed, and we became more than just friends, at least, so i thought. i was moving across the country at the end of the summer, but he had to go to korea 3 weeks before i was to leave. i went with him to the airport to say goodbye. i had held up rather well before, but at security i lost it. i hugged him and told him i loved him, but he said nothing. he stepped away from me and walked through security. i watched him walk to his gate, and he never looked back.
i got rejected, and lost my best friend all in one day. i knew i would never see him again. it literally felt like my heart was getting ripped out of my chest, and i cried so hard that i made myself sick. | love hurts. | [
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Won't you think of the children !!!
Seriously though, your kids matter more than your feelings for another woman, right? Do you want them growing up in a single parent family, or having your wife meet someone new and he ends up being the man who raises your children? I don't know how old they are but I'd really keep them in mind before anything else when you make a decision, because it will affect you and them for years. | women come and go, your kids are there for life. | [
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MFP (My Fitness Pal) is a really useful tool for tracking and understanding our diet, macros, and even some micronutrients. It is my impression that most reddit keto users utilize the website or the mobile app to help them achieve keto success. Unfortunately, MFP seems to be set up to only work with the low-fat paradigm and not with the keto lifestyle.
I know that there are browser plugins that do things like calculate net carbs and generate keto-relevant graphs, and it is great there is a plugin for MFP, but it would be so much more helpful if it was integrated into MFP... especially since there are no plugins for the mobile app.
Has anyone ever contacted MFP and let them know that there is a huge userbase interested in this set of features?
If not, should we? And does anyone in our reddit community know anyone at MFP that we could reach out to?
Come on /r/keto... we should do this! | lets just fix MFP for keto. | [
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Hmm, wasn't expecting any interest considering Reddit's usual hatred toward law enforcement. Well here's the one about almost killing the dude. Also, a little info that may be helpful. When you're out of the academy and hired by an agency, you're on "probation" for the first few months. During this period you receive field training, usually from an experienced officer that knows his shit. This guy is called your "FTO" or field training officer. He's usually never more than an arms length away, just there to help in case you get into something you don't know how to handle. However, the last week of training he dresses down in casual clothes and just shadows you, doesn't help at all and won't back you up, just observing how you conduct yourself. I digress.
It's Mothers Day in the small town I work. Holidays are always busy. Anytime you bring people together, there's the chance of a fight. It's the last week of field training, so I meet my FTO at the office and tell dispatch I'm 10-41 (on-duty). Not 15 minutes passes before I'm dispatched to a fight. I roll up to the house and the front window is broken out and there is a guy on the lawn with a curtain wrapped around his arm soaked in blood. I get out and the minute he notices me, he starts telling me to fuck off, this isn't my business, blah blah blah. I'm not even trying to identify the problem at this point, just trying to get him to tell me if he wants medical attention or not. A shouting match ensues. Admittedly, yelling at someone to calm down never works and in this situation it mad him even more angry. Here's where bullet-time begins.
I'm yelling at him to calm down when he spits on me. The thing about yelling is it means your mouth is usually wide open, causing a particle of his saliva to land on the back of my throat. I hulk rage and throw a straight punch which lands on his neck-ular region. He looked like Brad Pitt in that scene from Snatch where he takes a hit and is parallel to the ground in mid air. The first part of his body to hit the ground is his noggin' which made the sound of a cantaloup dropped from a few feet. End bullet-time.
He does this little grand-maul seizure type thing on the ground and goes limp. Instead of quickly checking his vitals, I start looking around in hopes that no one saw what just happened. My FTO is in the car with the Cartman "How do I reach these kids?"
The dude has another seizure type thing and pops up like nothing happened, screaming at me just like before. If he wasn't going to bring it up, I wasn't either. Turns out it was a fight with his wife and she pushed him. In an attempt to catch himself he put his arm through the window. So I arrested the wife and left him with the EMT's. | Bleeding dude uses "spit" on officer. Officer uses jugular punch. It's super effective! | [
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I had two very good friends, and the three of us hung out, along with several others in our group, all the time. Eventually the two of them had a falling out and while one was perfectly content that I should hang out with each of them separately, the other slowly got more and more jealous. It started with "Please don't mention her name to me." This grew into me not being able to talk about food (the other friend and I are vegetarian), my scooter (the other friend has one, too), or even what I did on my weekend (the other friend might have been with me).
We tried to talk about it several times, and each time she made greater demands. Of course, this led to me not calling or hanging out with her as much because it was crazy. Up until this point, I had been a great friend to her. I had even gone so far as to give her $100 when she couldn't afford food after graduation.
So after over a year of this, she turns up at my house 2 days before my birthday (she was always good at avoiding gift-giving scenarios) with an envelope. She handed me the envelope and told me to read it. It was an 8-page, hand-written letter detailing why she couldn't stand to be around me right now, and how she cries to her other friends about how much it hurts her that I'm still friends with the other girl. She went on to say that this didn't mean that we could never be friends, but that it's too hard to see me right now.
I folded up the letter, looked her in the eye, and said "Actually, this does mean we can't be friends again. Get home safe." I showed her to the door, then slammed it behind her. She tried to text me a few weeks later, on New Year's Eve with "I know we're not talking right now, but..." I responded with "You're right, we're not talking." That's the last I've spoken to her.
I'm a gay dude, and she was acting like a jealous girlfriend. In the end, the behavior was inexcusable. She's tried to talk to me in the 2 years since, but I'm just not willing to go there again. | It's best to keep more than just your dick away from crazy. | [
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I love Xcom. I played it back in 94. Played Terror from the Deep. Tried to play Apocalypse and Interceptor but couldn't get into them. I lost interest in the franchise. Around this time I started wishing someone would redo Xcom with updated visuals and a few tweaks. I watched and waited. And waited. And waited. It didn't seem to be happening. "It seems like such an obvious move!" I would think. "It's a classic! I've talked to many others over the years waiting for the same. They don't even need to change it! Just slap a new coat of pixels on it and it would sell."
So I crack out the ole Xcom from time to time. It's still great. I try some of the fan produced freeware. Some are good, but it's just not the same...
Then one day a new Xcom is announced. I get excited. Oh... a shooter. Fuck. You. All hope is lost.
But wait! A faint glimmer on the horizon! Amidst the fan backlash against the fps, Firaxis announces it's been secretly working on a turn based strategy remake! Oh joy! Sweet heavens! Could it be? After 18 years?! I curb my enthusiasm and keep my ear to the ground. Info starts to trickle out. Good things. Then screenshots. Good screens. Excitement builds. It seems to good to be true. Then the reviews come out. It's good. It finally happened. There is still good in the world.
So I pick up my copy and rush home after work last night to fire it up. I skipped dinner. It's fucking Xcom time, motherfuckers.
All the wait has been worth it. It's fun. It's engaging. It's Xcom and it's back! | It's fucking rad, dude. Go get it.
Let it be noted I have only played a few hours last night but I thought it kicked ass. I have a few minor complaints (WhyTF can't I allocate a few scientists to work on low priority projects?! etc.) But on the whole, I'm a longtime fan and I'm loving it. | [
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This all started when I was around 16 or 17 (the age when most teenagers are complete assholes and have no regard for anyone but themselves). A buddy of mine had been seeing this girl for a couple months and going pretty steady. I later found out through her friend that she wanted to fool around with me.
Like an idiot and thinking with my dick instead of my head, I went through with it and had sex with her and her best friend (the one who told me that the girl wanted to fool around). We kept fooling around for a few weeks behind my friend's back.
Finally, I decide that I actually like this girl and that I want to be with her. Some buddies of my friend that I had betrayed eventually found out about us fooling around and told him. He was obviously upset and shit, but he didn't seem like he wanted to kill me like I expected.
She finally decides that she wants to stay with the guy, which really pissed me off. I decide I'm not gonna let him have the last laugh and I pick a fight with him after school. Even when it was going down, I could tell he was extremely reluctant to fight.
Another week passes by and finally she decides that she does, in fact, want to be with me, and I'm game for it. She breaks up with my (ex) buddy and we begin dating officially.
That summer was all sunshine and butterflies for us, but because I had flunked out of school the year before, I started going to a different school than her the following September. She starts to show jealous tendencies about various subjects like be hanging out with a female friend of mine that I had known for 4 years prior to us dating.
Then my female friend of four years, her moronic friend, my girlfriend and I are all supposed to drop acid together on a long weekend. Instead of putting in an order of 8 tabs of acid (two per person), the moronic friend only puts in an order for 3 tabs. Like a retard, I figure instead of telling my girlfriend that there's no acid for her and leaving her out of the trippy circle of colors, I decide it would be better to lie to her and tell her I was going to chill with one of my male friends, aswell as the two other girls. So I end up going to chill with the two girls (who, I might add, I had zero attraction towards), and lo and behold, instead of acid, the moron girl ends up getting us all Salvia (which I had already fucked with and was terrified of). I was super pissed and ended up ditching them after finding this out.
My girlfriend somehow finds out about myself hanging out with just the two girls and despite me trying to tell her I was trying to avoid her feeling left out, she gets SUPER PISSED AND JEALOUS.
She says she wants to taking a break from each other, and despite me being a little suspicious, I figure its alright if it means we can eventually work out our issues.
I'm in the dumps, so I start hanging out with a buddy of mine from my previous school (all of our friends were mutual and most took her side). We get wasted on friday nights, he takes me to my first strip club, etc.
She eventually calls me up furious about me going to a strip club, saying that I don't care about her and shit like that, and I am baffled as to how she found out.
Long story short, turns out she was fucking the guy I had went to the strip club with, before we had even started our "break", and begins dating him.
I eventually win some friends back (including the guy who I had betrayed) and get over it.
The only thing I feel guilty about was betraying my friend for a girl, a girl that went and did the exact same thing to me 11 months later.
It means so much to me that he doesn't hate my guts to this day and is somehow able to forgive me, because I, to this day, still don't talk to the guy she fucked around on me with even though they have longsince broken up. I wish I could apologize to him and tell him how sorry I am, but I don't want to rip the scabs off of old wounds. | Fucked my buddy's girlfriend, started dating her. She turned out to be super jealous of everyone and everything, jumped ship when she thought I had feelings for another girl. Ended up fucking around with my friend who was trying to cheer my up from losing her. Managed to patch things up with original buddy | [
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Furthermore since transactions are very small chunks of data they could easily be sent over a legacy data network or even something like ham radio. It's a breakthrough of the highest order, actually. | it is now possible to use Bitcoin completely independent of the Internet. | [
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One time when I was in LA, I went out to eat at this little Mexican restaurant with my dad. I had to take a shit pretty bad so I went into the bathroom and started going to town.
After about 2 minutes or so, someone in converse shoes walks in and they start to take a piss at the urinal.
So, I'm sitting there waiting for this guy to leave because I hate shitting when people are in there. I get a text from my dad saying that Slash just walked into the bathroom. I hurried as fast as I could to wipe, get my pants on and belt buckled but I was too late. He had gone. | I took a shit next to Slash and we were the only ones in the bathroom.
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Just bought a refurbished 3ds from the Nintendo online store. I was just wondering is anyone had any experience with them, or knows anyone who did. When buying my first DSlite it took me 3 tries at gamestop to get a system without a dead pixel or serious hinge problems. My theory is that the refurbished consoles will be better tested and free from this potential problems. Plus buying direct from nintendo saved me like $30 over gamestop "recharged" 3ds', and i get a one year warranty. | How is the quality of nintendo direct refurbished 3ds'? | [
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I'd say we have a pretty chill relationship. We are usually very open with each other, have frequent love making sessions, enjoy the same hobbies and have fun with life. We're well off money-wise and own a home together. Last month he proposed. I was so happy and of course said yes. Last night however.... I was kind of shocked. I was in the kitchen making dinner and noticed the clock in my kitchen was super wrong, so I went to go find my phone for the right time but it was dead. My FI left his phone on the table and was in the bathroom, so I picked up his phone to see the time. When I unlocked it, the notification screen had like 6 posts from these apps: Badoo & Tinder. I didn't read them, but put the phone back down because I heard the bathroom door opening. He came in the kitchen and was helping get the table all set up for dinner and put his phone in his pocket.
I didn't know what those apps were until I googled them. Dating apps??? I'm so confused... why would he be active on those apps...especially since HE PROPOSED TO ME. If he is really bored of me and is active on those apps, what is the point of wanting to marry me?
He doesn't act bored at all.. he gives me a kiss good morning and does all the things that someone who loves you does...
Obviously the thing to do is to ask him why he is on those apps...but how do I go about asking him without sounding like a psycho overly-attached girlfriend? Has anyone been in a similar situation? What was the outcome? | He proposed to me a month ago, I saw on his phone by accident he is active on a bunch of dating apps. How do I ask him to explain himself? What do? | [
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I had breakouts as a teenager, but nothing severe. When I got to college at 18, things started to decline. I'm 22 now dealing with adult acne with the worst of it being within the last 10 months or so. I get very painful cysts around my jaw and chin and in the hollows of my cheeks. I have scarring even though I don't pick at them.
Currently on 100mg Spiro, along with Aczone topically. I just increased from 50 to 100mg. I started this regimen at the beginning of July.
Morning--in shower use Biore Ice Cleanser. Use RX Salicylic Acid toner on cysts. Once skin dries, apply Aczone to problem areas, chin/cheeks and jaw. Moisturize with Clinique dramatically different moisturizer. Then, makeup routine.
Night -- remove makeup with yes to carrots charcoal bar + knockoff clarisonic brush. RX toner on cysts, Aczone on problem areas, take 100mg Spiro.
At first I was seeing a bit of a breakout/aggravation, but things just seem to be waxing/waning with my periods irregardless of the regimen. My doctor said to wait an additional 2 months on the 100mg Spiro before giving up.
I've been lurking on the acne.org boards for a while but wanted to give reddit a try instead. I understand 3-4 months is the minimum to see results from these things. Prior to the Spiro/Aczone, I was given Cephalexin (A NIGHTMARE), Retin A, clindamycin, adapalene gel, all of which did nothing for me. I also have breakouts on my back as well, confirming that this is a hormonal issue and not a reaction to my makeup routine. | Have any of you taken Spiro before/what was your experience?
EDIT: UPDATE? I had run out of my RX strength Salicylic acid toner because it was a compound and I couldn't find a new pharmacy to refill it. I just got a refill and within ~2 days I can see a difference?? I don't think that is primarily what is helping but it might be the missing ingredient in my current regimen to make it work. Will keep you posted. | [
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Hello fellow Pokefappers! There's been some changes to the subreddit and will continue to change in the next week or so.
First of all, you've probably noticed that the subreddit, itself, looks slightly more bland now. I found out today that the person who designed the stylesheet for the subreddit never got permission from the various artists to display them on our subreddit. That's just disrespectful to the artist so I have removed them for now. It's going to be pretty plain looking here, at least until I get permission from the artists or find new images to use. If you have suggestions, I'd love to hear them!
Second, I booted all of the other mods off the team! Heh... I noticed that the last activity from any of the other mods was about half a year ago and it's been only me moderating the subreddit. So I did a roll call and no one responded. Now they're no longer moderators of the subreddit. | Subreddit style will change over the next week and some moderators were booted for being inactive | [
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This past week I got dumped by my boyfriend of 3 years. Call me naive, but I honestly thought I would spend my life with him, and he bailed out of nowhere (though now I suspect it was that he didn't want to deal with how bad my depression was getting, and I can't blame him for that).
But we had been so perfect every moment before that, hadn't even had a fight (I tried to keep my burdens off of him as much as possible; but there were nights I lost sleep over stress and cried in the bathroom, and he did catch me crying once.) I never saw it coming. He had always been my pillar of strength. He never struck me as someone who would ever leave just because someone was dealing with a bad situation out of their control and ability to change.
I was dealing with my mom being sick from her cancer and my dad leaving us that very same week, so losing who I thought was my soulmate, on top of losing my family as I knew it my whole life, left me feeling so helpless. I swallowed a handful of pills and tried to end my life that night.
Obviously I was unsuccessful, but I wish before I had even tried that I would have remembered these words. I'm still suffering side effects from the failed attempt. I'm in incredible amounts of pain. My face is swollen, blotchy and my eyes and cheeks at sore and puffy. So many blood vessels in my face are broken from getting violently ill so frequently over the past few days. I'm a tiny girl so vomiting once is already painful for my body to handle. I vomited so much this week I completely lost count. I couldn't keep food down so eventually I only had bile left to throw up and it completely ripped my throat apart and who knows what other damage is done because I haven't seen a doctor yet.
I know it's gross and not a happy story, but I wanted to give my recent situation as an example for anyone having suicidal thoughts. If you survive, you can suffer horrible consequences that will only prolong and worsen the pain you already have.
If you do succeed, think of how many people who's lives will never be the same without you. I know I didn't think about that. I didn't think anyone would miss me. But who would take care of my mom? Be there for my dad? Comfort my best friend? And my poor brother, he would be jealous of everyone who got to watch their sister grow up, get married, Etc. Because I'm the only one he's got. And all of those people would suffer and be different people, and you can't say for better, for the rest of their lives because you made a selfish, permanent solution to a temporary problem.
I hope this doesn't get buried, because I don't want anyone to suffer through what I'm going through right now. It does get better and it's not the end of the world. I'm not even mad or upset with my ex anymore. Just extremely disappointed in myself. And that will last a lot longer than any of this pain.
Please don't hurt or kill yourself. If you're suffering, please get help. You and everyone in your life will be so much better off if you reached out, than if you were physically harmed or dead. I may be a stranger on the internet, but my inbox is open to anyone who needs to talk if you don't feel comfortable talking to someone you know or calling a suicide hotline.
Thank you for posting this video, OP.
I hope it helps a lot of people.
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Long time Redditor, first time posting. I'm more than slightly pissed/astounded/whateveryouwanttocallit. Figured I'd share my experience with fellow IEers. For what it's worth, the following is in regards to VCA Aacacia Animal Hospital in Corona, CA:
My fiancé noticed swelling on our basset hound's back leg on Saturday night. Thinking he may have gotten stung or bitten, we gave him a Benadryl and kept an eye on it. When it hadn't gone down by Sunday morning, we decided to take him in to the vet. Since our normal vet isn't open on Sundays, we took him in to Aacacia's Corona location.
After semi-long deliberation with the technician and veterinarian, we decided to include a dental in this visit. The required blood work and sedation for a dental (which we were planning on doing in the near future, anyway) were the same as that which would be required to tend to the swollen foot (doing them together would prevent him from needing to be sedated on two different occasions, and save us around $200 in the long run). So, over $550 dollars later, we get our dog back and were told that the swelling was the result of an abscess that had to be flushed. Cause unknown. No foreign object detected. We were instructed to bring him back in four days so the vet could change the bandage and inspect the sutures in his foot.
Upon arriving home and removing our dog from our vehicle, I noticed that his back end was covered in loose fecal matter – as if he had defecated and was left to sit in it (it was obvious from residue on my fiance that the waste had been on my dog since my fiance had picked him up in the clinic). I figured that because he had been sedated, he wouldn’t have been mobile post-op, and decided not to make a big deal out of it. While cleaning him up, I noticed that both front paws had been shaved and showed signs of having been stuck with IV needles. I found this odd, as his back leg was wrapped, and it had been explained that that was where the IV had been placed. I then noticed a large knot above the puncture site on one of the front shaved legs. It most definitely was not there before, and I assumed that an IV had been attempted and removed due to incorrect or improper placement. I know this happens frequently (in humans and animals alike), but made a mental note to have it looked at upon our return.
We were given antibiotics and anti-inflammatory medication. When my fiancé went to retrieve the items, he found a dental kit in the bag as well. We did not ask to purchase a dental kit and it was not included in the estimate provided to us prior to the procedure. However, upon checking the receipt, we found that we had indeed been charged for the item.
Four days later, my fiancé brought our dog back in for his check-up, as instructed. He brought the dental kit and explained that he had not wanted to purchase it, did not know why it ended up in our bag, and that he wanted to return it. It went back and forth with the receptionist saying we needed to speak with the vet, and vice versa. After my fiancé’s adamant insistence (and, I feel, only because of it), the item was successfully returned.
It was then time to remove the bandage for inspection. My fiancé was told that we would need to pay an additional $40 for a new bandage. He objected, saying that we were told in pre-op that the estimate included the original bandage, 4 day post-op inspection, new bandage, and suture removal (which, we were then told, would be an additional $50-$100, depending, in ten days). Both the receptionist and vet declined our insistence. Our paperwork showed only the total amount paid, sans service breakdown, and Aacacia was conveniently unable to reproduce the estimate paperwork presented to us prior to services rendered. When asked who had given us this information, my fiancé pointed to the technician (who happened to be standing close by) who had indeed gone over the procedures with us before any treatment was administered, and once again post-op. In fact, my fiancé and I both distinctly remember this technician prompting us to return to Aacacia for the post-op, rather than our regular vet, so that we would not be charged for a visit and bandage elsewhere. The technician said nothing, turned around, and escaped behind closed doors.
In the end, Aacacia refused to acknowledge what had been explained to us prior to the procedure. They refused to honor their original inclusion of the re-bandage in the cost presented to us at the time of the procedure. And they shrugged off our mention of the knot that had formed during the improper attempt at IV placement on his front leg, saying simply – “it must have already been there.”
At this point, my fiancé was so upset and fed up, he insisted our dog be returned so that he could immediately take him to our regular vet, instead. He was then told that during their discussion a technician had already removed the bandage and that if he wanted it redressed, he would need to pay for a new one. Astounded, he and our dog left immediately.
I am livid over this experience. Never have I had to deal with so many hidden fees and sneaky practices, lies, and non-accountability. Prior to services rendered, the staff was very welcoming and helpful, but once fees had been paid and signatures obtained, Aacacia’s staff did a complete 180 – becoming incredibly short, deceitful, and downright rude. But mostly, I am surprised. My sister had frequented Aacacia with her cats for years and, with the exception of their exorbitant costs, had no complaints. I don’t know if the staff is new, or if management has changed since she last was there (it’s been a few years), but based on my recent experience, I strongly advise any and all who inquire against VCA Aacacia Animal Hospital. | Buyer beware. In my experience, Aacacia Animal Hospital in Corona presents itself attractively, but proves to be sneaky and deliberately deceitful.
edit - Mixed a few Corona's with Norco's (I did a bad bad thing)... and not in the good way. | [
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I figured that because he had been sedated, he wouldn’t have been mobile post-op, and decided not to make a big deal out of it. While cleaning him up, I noticed that both front paws had been shaved and showed signs of having been stuck with IV needles. I found this odd, as his back leg was wrapped, and it had been explained that that was where the IV had been placed. I then noticed a large knot above the puncture site on one of the front shaved legs. It most definitely was not there before, and I assumed that an IV had been attempted and removed due to incorrect or improper placement. I know this happens frequently (in humans and animals alike), but made a mental note to have it looked at upon our return. \n We were given antibiotics and anti-inflammatory medication. When my fiancé went to retrieve the items, he found a dental kit in the bag as well. We did not ask to purchase a dental kit and it was not included in the estimate provided to us prior to the procedure. However, upon checking the receipt, we found that we had indeed been charged for the item. \n Four days later, my fiancé brought our dog back in for his check-up, as instructed. He brought the dental kit and explained that he had not wanted to purchase it, did not know why it ended up in our bag, and that he wanted to return it. It went back and forth with the receptionist saying we needed to speak with the vet, and vice versa. After my fiancé’s adamant insistence (and, I feel, only because of it), the item was successfully returned. \n It was then time to remove the bandage for inspection. My fiancé was told that we would need to pay an additional $40 for a new bandage. He objected, saying that we were told in pre-op that the estimate included the original bandage, 4 day post-op inspection, new bandage, and suture removal (which, we were then told, would be an additional $50-$100, depending, in ten days). Both the receptionist and vet declined our insistence. 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I've always been kind of an anxious person, but lately i've been pretty damn depressed and anxious as fuck almost 24/7. The only times I feel halfway decent are when i'm drunk or after a good work out.
Girlfriend of almost 4 years broke up with me and i've been struggling to adapt. I just don't feel like I know who I am anymore. Her friend were my friends and now I only really hang out with my roommate who is thank god, is a really awesome guy. But today while I was running I realized how fucking depressed I was. I don't want to do anything ever. All I do is go to work, work out, jerk off and then get drunk on the weekends. I'm supposed to be studying to go to professional school but I just can't make myself do it. What was worse, is that during the run I had to cross the street and honestly thought for a second that if a care hit me it wouldn't be that bad. I don't really want to die, I just don't want to live like this.
The anxiety has been racking up too. Always had some manageable baseline anxiety but lately it's terrible. Ex gf hated pot, so after we broke up I made the stupid decision to get stoned with a friend. I don't really like pot and it was a mistake. Had a huge panic attack, thought I gave myself brain damage and when I came down still didn't really feel right. I'm never comfortable and have panic attacks for no reason every now and then. I don't know if it's related, but 2 weeks a go late at night I saw a guy flip his motorcycle going 40mph with no helmet and smash his head into the pavement. I was there before the cops and got out of the car and called 911. Was seriously the firstt person there. I've worked in ERs for years, but I can't really stop thinking about this. He had blood coming out of his ears and the back of his head was smashed up. The guy died the next day.
Now my biggest issue is that I can't find any mental stillness or clarity. All day I overthink unanswerable questions about life and reality to the point of redundancy. Everything feels fake, I feel detatched.
My new hang up has been thinking about time and our memories and how every second that passes we are becoming a different person and that we can't do anything to stop time or just be still. I've also been worrying about the validity of memory and what exactly makes up the past etc. It's all bullshit and I know it sounds crazy, but these philosophical questions with no answers wrack my brain with out end. I keep fearing that I gave myself some sort of major mental disorder when I got stoned a few weeks ago.
I go to meditation on tuesdays and honestly it helps. I know i need to quit drinking, it makes me feel slightly better while drunk but the next day is a fucking nightmare. | Feel like i'm losing my mind with unanswerable questions that give me tons of anxiety and i'm nervous about starting to talk with a therapist/trying to get insurance to cover it.
Sorry for the blog post. I just don't know where else to put this. | [
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"content": "Feel like i'm losing my mind with unanswerable questions that give me tons of anxiety and i'm nervous about starting to talk with a therapist/trying to get insurance to cover it. \n Sorry for the blog post. I just don't know where else to put this.",
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The point of healers, and how it has been in almost every MMO that I can remember playing, is that they always have super low mana pools. This is how Ive always seen it in a game.
Casters go high mana pool, low regen
Healers go low mana pool, high regen
Casters dont have to worry about regen, all they need is enough mana for the course of a fight, no point in having regen when you can stack mana just enough for a fight, than regen it after.
Where as healers need 100% uptime, they dont have a set in stone amount to heal. Casters know that they only need enough mana say for a 10-15 raid boss. That boss's health will never change, there for their mana only ever needs to last until its dead, x amount of spells and everything.
Healers on the other hand have to account for player error, they have to heal the entire fight for anyone who took damage. This varies tremendously even in the same encounters. Ask any WoW(I know I know, WoW is bad etc) raider and they will tell you that healers cant predict how much healing they are going to have to dish out. | Healers should always have a massive amount of spirit regen over max mana. Enough regen and youll have infinite mana. | [
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Edit: I fixed it!!!!! I uploaded my save to the cloud and then deleted my data on the system, then I deleted the game and reinstalled it, I then went to SYNC and downloaded my file back from within the game. Opened my file and all 5 trophies popped, I didn't even know about the other three.
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I'm sorry if this isn't the best organized post. I don't know what to do my dog has attacked my small one multiple times.. In the last two months it has escalated and she has attacked twice in one week. She hasn't attacked my other dog once and I just want to stop this if possible.
For some background the dog attacking is a German Shepard and husky mix and the small one is a Yorkie. I have had to take the Yorkie to the vet multiple times now and I'm worried that they will make me put my big dog down.. I really want putting my dog down to be a last resort. She has literally only been aggressive to the little one not to any other dogs. If anyone has any advice id appreciate it. I don't want either of my dogs to die. I want them to all live in harmony | my dog is being aggressive only to one dog | [
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This is almost how "hot" became my first word. My grandmother was watching me and I was looking at a lightbulb because it was switched on. She kept saying the word hot to describe it was in fact hot and not just a lightbulb. I touched the lightbulb and yelled "hot" as loud as my infant voice could yell. I learned my lesson and a new word that day. | Don't touch lit lightbulbs or you'll learn a new word. | [
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First a little background.
I was talking with my girlfriend and I jokingly mention two things. First is the fact she found this one guy, who is not that attractive, pretty attractive and we concluded it was his asshole persona. Second is that whenever I pretend not to be interested in her she usually gets really worked up and wetter then ever. I then told her about this fetish(lifestyle to some), cuckquean.
After she looked up some info I told her that there was a broad spectrum of what it entailed. It could be anything from simply teasing you about how I wishI could fuck Erica and her juicier ass, or it could mean you eating my cum from her pussy.
We decided that although we, especially her, are no were near me actually being with another woman, but she thinks she would really like to hear me act disinterested and actually compare her to other woman in a negative way, while also teasing her. For example, I could say "take of your shirt. You know, you've got some nice nipples, I wish your tits were fuller though, kind of like Jenny's. I love how she usually doesn't wear a bra so I can always make out the shape perfectly and god i'd love to put my cock between those grabs her tits . See? I cant even do that with these. I dont know... Maybe turn over? Your ass might be better."
That kind of stuff. Point is that I'm unexperienced with this type of humiliation. I usually do hotwife oriented things were I tell the girl she's a slut, cum loving whore, cum dumpster, a pussy eager for the biggest cock so on so forth. However, its almost like a compliment really with my ex's. So in this case, I am very turned on by this new kink, but I don't want to stutter or freeze in the middle of saying something.
So with that here is my request. I have Anna (DD cups, greatest cock sucker I know, and super kinky girl), Yarry (Petite light skinned girl with perky B cups and a flat tummy and bubbly ass) both of which are most recent Exs and my current gf knows about them and what I thought about them sexually. Then there is Lindsey (Bcup, GREAT FUCKING ASS, nice hips) her roommate and Jamie (No bra, C cup, fat ass, nice hips) our good friend. Knowing this stuff about them could you guys give me phrases/thoughts/stories to share? I just need ot have 2 or 3 go to things to say in case I blank and need something. Feel free to also make up something with a girl that isn't even in this list, Ill just say I used to know her or currently know her.
Thanks! I this goes well I'll post an updated story, maybe pictures? | Girlfriend wants to try some light cuckquean stuff like talking during bed. I don't want to fuck up so if you guys could give me some go to stuff to say that I could know before hand that would be great. | [
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So using a combination of Toms, ChoosemyPC, Logical increments, and this page, I've made what I would call a rough draft of the PC I want to build. I could go for the price that I ended up at, near 1k before rebates, but I was hoping to be closer to 900, but don't let this be a huge restraint. I was reading some warnings about the brand/quality of both the case and PSU, so im not sure if I shot too high on price for those pieces.
Right now I only have a tablet and I game on my xbox one and 360, I want this PC for some stuff I can't do with those things; Dota, LoL, possibly heroes of the storm in the future. I also would like for it to have potential to stream/record footage and get it patched together for upload to youtube or such, as that's just something I do for fun on my xbox one to show friends. It would be great to have the ability to hook up an legato and get that from my 360.
Another part I was unsure was i5 (vs i3 vs i7) for these purposes, as well as the ram. I went with 1x8, because people say 8 can be fine and if its not that gives me the option to just snap another 1x8 along side that, and be up to 16 correct? Seemed like an easy potential upgrade if needed in my mind.
Sorry if this is a bit rambling, wanted to get all the info I could in. I do not have microcenter near me, I marked only using newegg/bestbuy / amazon on my build just because the were the only sites I'm familiar with, not to say that I'm excluding other options. I do have amazon prime though. | any way to improve this build for mobas/maybe starcraft / d3 / fallout / skyrim of course / civ v, as well as some streaming/video recording & light editing, as well as being able to stream music, Netflix, youtube and the such. Whether 'improve' means less price, or better performace, or just a total re-do, as this was my first EVER build I've made. Thanks!!!!
[PCPartPicker part list]( / [Price breakdown by merchant](
Type
Item
Price
CPU
[Intel Core i5-4690 3.5GHz Quad-Core Processor](
$219.99 @ Amazon
Motherboard
[Gigabyte GA-Z97X-UD3H-BK ATX LGA1150 Motherboard](
$141.98 @ Newegg
Memory
[G.Skill Ripjaws X Series 8GB (1 x 8GB) DDR3-1600 Memory](
$54.99 @ Newegg
Storage
[Sandisk Ultra Plus 128GB 2.5" Solid State Drive](
$73.99 @ Amazon
Storage
[Western Digital Caviar Blue 1TB 3.5" 7200RPM Internal Hard Drive](
$54.99 @ Amazon
Video Card
[XFX Radeon R9 280X 3GB Double Dissipation Video Card](
$209.99 @ Newegg
Case
[Corsair 300R ATX Mid Tower Case](
$49.99 @ Newegg
Power Supply
[Corsair Builder 500W 80+ Bronze Certified ATX Power Supply](
$41.98 @ Newegg
Operating System
[Microsoft Windows 8.1 - 64-bit (OEM) (64-bit)](
$96.99 @ Best Buy
Prices include shipping, taxes, rebates, and discounts
Total (before mail-in rebates)
$1014.89
Mail-in rebates
-$70.00
Total
$944.89
Generated by [PCPartPicker]( 2015-03-07 23:20 EST-0500 | [
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I understand the principal of Talismans and Amulets, and the Idea of thought forms, intention, and manifestation. My question; Do you believe these principals become more powerful when you start using components that are actually designed to manipulate and broadcast energy? Or, are the principals of consecrating objects and intention more subtle than 'gross electricity', and it doesn't matter if you use dental floss or liquid-helium-cooled super-conducting magnets to embody your work.
Example: | version: Legitimate website? or a good way to spend $600 on 20 cents worth of copper.
Thoughts? | [
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Long story short , my gf and I have been dating for 4 years and we has a baby scare 2 years ago . It has been pushing us apart , but we don't have anyone else other then ourselves so we don't dare leave each other . But here I come in , I met a girl online while playing a game and we started talking . It wasn't seriously at first nothing big . Then within the last two months we started flirting heavily . I started noticing we were having strong feelings towards each other . So my question is I'm lost and I really don't know how to deal with this | I might love someone I can't have while in a rough relationship | [
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This is getting buried in the comments but I can relate.
When I was around 14 my dad came into my room and threw everything outside on our porch. He was angry that my room was messy.
Jokes on him though, I left my stuff outside for days till it was dirty as hell and dripping wet from the rain. When he wasn't home one day I went and picked up everything and dumped it on his bed, drenching his bed in the process.
After I was done making my masterpiece I left home and stayed over at my friends house for five days. I was scared. I went home after my grandma begged me to go home (she lives in Taiwan, heard what happened, she's always been on my side).
Years later I finally asked my sister what happened at home when I was gone. She said our dad saw what I had done and just calmly went to my sister and told her to clean up his bed. She obliged.
The kicker is that I'm even more messy now and make it a point to be just in spite of him. | Dad goes psycho and chucks my room outside. I waited till everything was dirty and wet from being outside and cleaned it up by dumping it all on his bed. I didn't learn my lesson. | [
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This is a topic that has always bothered me. It bothers me because I can think of very few cases where this is the legitimate truth. It is commonly thought that who a person, or in this specific case, a child, is, comes as a result of two major factors; their environment and genetics. If this is the case, then how can we ask a child to answer to something which may not have cone as a direct factor of a decision they made?
I'm not saying that kids don't make mistakes, but that there is always something more that "my kid messed up'" or "he/she needs to work harder. If a kid messes up or makes a mistake in school, there is something to be said about all parties, not just the kid. | It is rarely ever "just the kids fault". | [
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not in the alcoholic sense, but as in my boyfriend (2+ years) won't drink with me. We're 21, approaching our senior year of college, and I still have yet to see him actually drunk. I know this doesn't sound like a huge problem, but hear me out.
No one would call me a party animal, but at school I do drink an average of once or twice a week with friends, and drink heavily at a bar or party about once a month. I think that's pretty average for a college kid. People love drinking with me, because sober I'm usually pretty quiet and reserved, but when I drink I let loose a lot, but I'm not sloppy or anything (we've all had our nights, though).
My boyfriend, I know, has no problem getting wasted and having fun with his friends from home. At school, however, he'll have maybe one or two beers when we're all out drinking. Even when go home with him and I party with his friends from home, he'll stay sober. It really bothers me for two reasons: 1. Why won't he let loose around me? Others get to experience that side of him, so why can't I? 2. I get the sense that he might stay sober so he can "protect" me if I get drunk. Even on the nights we're sitting at home with a group of close friends, and I'm just getting buzzed. It's annoying that he thinks he has to protect me when I've not given him reason to think that I can't take care of myself when I do get drunk.
It's not like I need alcohol to have fun, but it is definitely a part of social life in college. It's also not like he doesn't like drinking...he just doesn't do it with me. Our relationship is completely fine otherwise, but this has caused some tension. He's usually sulky when he's the only sober one around (understandable), but I just don't understand why he doesn't join in on the fun. He's currently at the beach right now with his friends, and he's been wasted for like 3 nights in a row. I know he has it in him.
I have asked him about it, and he says that he "just doesn't feel like it." I've pressed him, and he admits that he gets a little jealous because when I'm drinking I'm much more social and I don't devote enough attention to him...I pointed out that's because he's usually sulking in a corner and not joining in on the fun. The one time he did decide to stand up and socialize I was with him all night and had a great time.
I feel supremely jealous when I see his friends posting pix on facebook of them all drinking and having a good time. Am I overreacting and making this a bigger deal than it is? Has anyone else had this problem? | boyfriend will NOT drink with me, even though he drinks all the time with his other friends. It upsets me because it's a side of him that I don't get to see that others get to enjoy. Am I overreacting? | [
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I worked at Hobby Lobby's main warehouse here in oklahoma city and that place is a joke for holidays. I would have work every holiday except thanksgiving, christmas and new years day. And when we didn't work those days we had to make up for them so we worked either saturday or SUNDAY! Pretty funny since the owner is "Christian" and closes his sores on sunday? Yet that Mofo lives in a house here thats 37,000 sq. feet! His house has a indoor pool with a high dive. Must be nice to be a billionaire. | David Green, "christian" owner of Hobby Lobby, sucks. | [
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Mostly played with 7 players, and yes, 14+ hours is pretty normal for it. Its just my favorite game, but alas its way out of print, and not many want to spend that much time on a single boardgame anymore. | You're right. | [
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My dad totally saved me from great and disfiguring bodily injury. The day after a huge New England snow storm, my father took my younger brother (irish twin), my 8 year old neighbor and 9 year old me sledding down this steep, 80 degree angle hill on a golf course which plateaued into a rusty, sharp iron fence.
My dad watched from the bottom of the hill, and or the first runs we each went down on the toboggan individually and hopped off well before the fence. Then, we clambered on together and decide to see how close to the fence we can get before bailing out. Off we go rocketed down the hill, our previous runs had pushed down a fast track in the snow, combined with our total weight, we were flying down the hill . In just a second we were on the plateau and nearly at the fence. My dad saw that we were not going to get off in time, and he takes two steps and throws his body in front of us with a wicked cross body block worthy of Hulk Hogan.
We all had the wind knocked out of us and i remember looking up and seeing my dad's face half in the snow with a look of pure relief in his eyes. | was sucidal sledding, dad became hulk hogan and saved us | [
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Do you know these kind of weeks where everything goes wrong?
Last week I had that kind of SHITWEEK and on Saturday it got topped off by eating "special" brownies (spacecake).
I'm on this special diet for 3 weeks now, but I have troubles with falling asleep. Last week I slept about 5 hours per night on average.
I overslept twice last week because of the lack of rest. On Tuesday I was 35 minutes late at work, wednesday I was 45 minutes late at work.
Wednesday and Thursday night my little kitten decided to jump out of the window of our appartment, so we had to get up at 4-5 AM to get it back inside.
On Thursday my smartphone smacked on the ground and I had to repair my screen. Got ripped of for 190$ repair costs.
But none of these events were important last week because Saturday it was the wedding of my brother in law.
I overslept at the wedding, coming late at the ceremony (my gf was PISSED). After that I jumped straight into the Alcohol and smoked some joints with the nephew (Let's call him Bob) of my girlfriend knowing what I just have done...
At around 2AM I was pretty intoxicated when suddently Bob showed me the spacecake he brought from the Netherlands.
I ate a little piece at 2AM but nothing really happened. Then around 3 AM I decided to eat another piece, ending with enother piece at 3.45AM.
At about 4AM i completely lost it. I was vomiting all over the place, my head was constantly spinning, I was in space. | My family in law now thinks im a Tatooed, weed smoking, spaceaddict. | [
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It was frustrating for me. I enjoy cooking and eating with my partner. The food that I like incorporates lots of meat and dairy. It killed the passion right out of my love for food.
Going out to eat was another story... I often felt stressed out that the menu wouldn't be able to cater for him & I had to say goodbye to steakhouses for a long time. My Italian roots taught me that eating with loved ones is a way of life, so it was really hard on me. | It sucked. Never again. | [
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Hello people of /r/wow, I recently started playing World of Warcraft and it seems to be a perfect example of a game done right. It has been around for almost a decade and still has a HUGE player base, many companies have attempted to make copies of WoW and have failed for 1 reason. It simply will never compare to WoW because it is not WoW. The game still get's updated with Expansion Packs which shows the companies still cares about it, and hasn't tried to just make another game like WoW to make more money.
Thanks for reading this kinda long text, I love WoW from what I have played so far and intended to continue playing until I can't afford it. | I started playing WoW, love it. Blizzard has done it right when it comes to WoW | [
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This type of protest is not very effective. It doesn't hit them where it hurts at all if you are just going to buy the same thing in April anyway. Their first quarter will be down and their second quarter will be way up to compensate. They will simply state the down quarter is due to the protest but it won't cost them anything in the long run.
Heck, speculators could then bet on the market knowing this will happen and make a shitload of money. The media companies would make that bet. This protest could very well make them more money, not less.
The only way to hurt them is by long term changes in your lifestyle where you purchase less from them total. Not for a day, or a month. For at least many years.
It will also take a lot more people than Black Wednesday. That worked because key people supported it, mainly Wikipedia and Google following reddit's lead (mostly Alexis), so key popular websites were completely down or had messages. Unless you get the movie theaters to shut down for a day, or a month, it will just look like a temporary small dip in sales.
I think a better approach is to fight fire with fire. We need to start a powerful lobby for the internet. I suggested yesterday that the internet [contributes about as much]( or more to the GDP as copyright-based business, so we should be able to have as much lobbying funding and power.
We can even make it a democratized lobbying effort. I suggest "we" (meaning somebody who knows how to do this) start a lobbying fund to start or hire lobbying firms to act on behalf of "the internet". The way I envision it, the organization would have a reddit-like website where policies would be presented and discussed like reddit stories and comments, and upvoted/downvoted to decide on what policies to lobby for, legislation to write or support, and campaigns/politicians to support or withdraw support from.
The difference is that votes wouldn't be free. Say $1 to purchase 1 vote, or maybe 10 votes depending on the amount of money needed and things to vote on. (It can change over time.) Big companies like Google would get a big say in things if they purchased huge voting blocks. (That is, your voting weight is based on how much you pay to the lobbying fund.) All votes are open votes so if media companies try to sabotage it by buying big blocks to vote down good ideas, we can see the big voting downvote blocks and see who it is, and ban them.
It can grow quickly, especially if we get the big internet companies and groups onboard. The 2012 election is probably too soon, but really the next congressional election is the goal. Just an idea and I don't know how to get it started. But I think it would be far more effective in the end than small temporary dips in revenue that get paid back the next month.
Anybody know how to do something like this, or problems with it? I know essentially nothing about lobbying, creating funds, or creating reddit-like websites. | This temporary dip followed by compensating blip won't work and could make them richer. Instead, I suggest we ("the internet") acquire the same lobbying power, and I propose a reddit-like process to fund it and make policy decisions. | [
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Medicine gets better but no cure for hiv or cancer in sight.
Cars will drive themselves and the fatality rate in America drops.
Everything gets but the same people who are assholes stay assholes and the people who are caring still care. | everything changes except our wants and needs. | [
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Hi everyone... My sister-in-law and her cute dog (wheaton) were in a very unfortunate situation today.
A larger dog (mixed breed) went too far in a fight today at the dog park. SIL tried to break up the fight and was bitten in the process.
The other owner was very responsible and polite, but given the nature of the wound, Police & animal control were called. Both animals are up to date on shots.
It is city policy to have both dogs quarantined for 10 days even if the bite did not come from her dog. It's a ridiculous policy, but we understand the rules.
Can anyone recommend an affordable vet with a good visitation policy?
[Here is a gratuitous pic of her dog, Cubby]([ We could never lock this guy up. | Sweet dog needs to go to quarantine. Need recommendations | [
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Hi all. I hate to add more pain to this thread but I feel that if I get this off my chest, I will be able to fall back onto the support of so many redditors, regardless of nationality, ethnicity, age, stage of life, etc...
I'm so damned afraid, reddit. I had to take a lorazepam (ativan) to calm the f**k down. I have a girlfriend, with whom I am locked into a 12 month lease, 2 months on. I LOVE her reddit. We have agreed that we are twin flames. She claims undying, whole hearted love for me too. We have had an amazingly deep relationship for the past year, nine months, two weeks, and five days. She lives, for the summer, an our away in her hometown; we work for the same bank, diff. Branches.
I am afraid she is or will or has slept around, hooked up with one or more guys. She swears otherwise, and she is a very convincing liar - she's trolled other guys very well, just for fun, with me present. I think, on lonely, silent nights away for each other, am I being trolled by her too? She swears nothing to hide fromme, yet if I scroll through her phone at random, I'll see somthing. A nude photo I haven't seen yet some guy got. A guy she swore was just a friend from school- but is calling her "honeybun" and she's calling "sexy ;) ". I'm so damn afraid. | So damn afraid. Is my live- in, openly professed (reciprocating) soulmate cheating?? | [
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I don't mean to downplay the meaning of the word, but I believe what we have been witnessing over the past 20 years is a degradation of the power of the word Nigger. Yes, it still stings. Yes, it catches in my throat. My grandfather was a good man but had a level of quiet distrust of non whites. It's probably partly his upbringing in the south at a different time and partly because he was affected by violence during the civil rights era which left a bad taste in his mouth. He avoided dealing with blacks whenever possible, didn't trust them to carry his groceries.
But he would never call anyone a nigger. Because he knew what it meant.
Now, the kids on Reddit/Xbox/Middle School/Wherever, who have friends and acquaintances and co workers of all colors, use this word like it means nothing more than calling their friend and asshole. Because they have never heard that word used with the power it had during the Civil Rights movement. Because the institutional racism that used to pervade society has been reduced to the fringes. So nigger doesn't hold the same meaning that it used to.
Italians Americans would be infuriated if you called them a dago/guinea/wop/guido back in the 60's. Now, they'll just roll their eye. During the early 20th century, if I called you a Rascal, I'd expect a punch in the mouth. Now thats what we call our dogs. If you called me a bastard, I might demand satisfaction. Now it's long running joke from South Park.
Today, by and large, people who use the word Nigger don't use it with the same power it once had. Because they are ignorant of just what that word could do. Because it has been watered down. Because comedians have great bits about the word and it's power. Because hiphop has adopted it. Because the people who lived through the civil rights fight aren't vocal here. | Nigger is on the way to being about as powerful as Rascal. | [
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So, as I've gotten into straightedge culture, there's always a chapter in a book, or a segment of a movie about feminism gender equality. I'm not here to argue feminist/MRA ideals or anything. But I do want to talk about sexism in the punk/hardcore scene.
Maybe I live in a small-ish town and we're a bit more accepting, but I haven't really seen sexism in the punk scene. There's plenty of girls in bands, writing zines, organizing shows.. Generally just doing everything the guys do too. And it's respectful. The girls at the shows aren't just treated like a piece of ass. They're just another person to throw around in the pit. To be fair, the turnout for 90% of the shows is primarily male, but is it sexism? Is the scene male dominated, or are females just less into it? They're welcome to come out and do their thing and no one thinks about it as a "girl power" thing, it's more of a "support your friends and your scene" thing.
So, I'm just curious if that's unusual, or if most smaller scenes are like that. I think, in the "mainstream" punk culture, there's definitely sexism and a lack of representation of women(and homosexuals). And globally, we're all working through some terrible gender inequalities. But punk rock doesn't discriminate. Race, sex, orientation, background.. Nothing. Punk rock holds true to everyone who embraces it, and that's why it's so great. So power. So.. Romantic, even. | What are your views on sexism in the punk scene? Mainstream and locally. Share your stories and stuff!
Also, if this turns into an argument, I will delete it. So please, keep it clean, friendly and polite. Thanks! | [
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Hi!
I just tried something out in a custom game.
So I came to think about how Sejuani is using Ice and Frost right?
So I began to think "Hey someone else is also using ice!"
So I thought if a champion got hit with either
Anivia Q or R
Braum Q or R
Ashe Q
Lissandra Q or R
Nunu E or R (Unsure about the R tho)
That she might be able to use her E. But not anything above make her able to use E!
So that got me thinking and maybe they should. Anivia gets her E dmg raised by Ashe R, Nunu E and R (Unsure about R again)
That would kind of buff her into some comps (not any competetive comps since sejuani is actually pretty bad except ult) | Sejuani can't use E if someone else has Ice or frost on an enemy target. | [
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I just got a call from a user asking access to the internet.
She opened up internet explorer and it just displayed our intranet site. This led here to believe that the internet was blocked. Not a single thing was tried to go to another site.
Now, we actually have a lot of users that are completely oblivious as to how a browser works (type in a website address? where do i do that?) but this particular user actually knows how to use a browser ... Upon my reaction ("uuh ... it's not blocked, just type in an address...?") she tries it and is amazed it works. | Having an intranet site blocks the internet itself | [
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So I went to a psychologist as I'm undergoing a medical surgery, and needed an all clear from a psych professional to clarify that I'm in a good state to do so.
He got me to do some standardized test and wrote a letter to my doctor saying, among other things, how I don't appear to have any indications of psychopathology, but that I had Socially Avoidant Personality Factors (based on the tests). It wasn't relevant to anything really, in his words noting it was like "A GP making note of someones blood pressures".
I asked him to explain that a bit, and he told me how it meant I preferred few, but close friends, that I didn't like being with people unless I knew they accepted me, and that I actively avoid situations if I see them as too unpleasant/painful. He also says they generally don't get fulfillment from themselves or from other people.
I asked him why my behaviour was considered a disorder and how it was different from being an introvert, and he just told me that it was a spectrum from being a disorder to being normal, and that it was just part of my personality and would influence my life when it comes to habits, careers etc... and he said that he didn't say that it was a disorder (using the terminology in the title).
I've been trying to accept that I'm not a social butterfly, and hate the pathologisation of being quiet and solitary, so I decided to look up the term when I got home, and the results I get are all for ["Avoidant Personality Disorder"]( which lists the same symptoms as he described.
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First form Freeza was powerful enough to effortlessly obliterate a planet 10x the size and/or density of Earth, final form Freeza is 350x more powerful than that, and the Supreme Kai is 1,000x more powerful than that. If you break that down, that's 3.5 million Earth sized planets the Supreme Kai should be able to destroy without using more than a finger...and he's nothing compared to the main cast.
If you're asking how powerful the average person is, let's do the math. Early in the series, Master Roshi blew up the moon with a Kamehameha to stop Goku from becoming a Great Ape. Master Roshi's, at full power (which he was when he blew up the moon) is 180, and the average power level of a human being is 5. 180/5 is 36, so, logically, a normal human should be able to destroy 1/36 of the moon with a Kamehameha. 1/36 of the moon is 225 billion metric tons. | holy shit these fuckers are powerful. | [
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