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4 months ago my girlfriend and I came to the realization that our sedentary lifestyle combined with near nightly fast food runs was making us really unhealthy. Both of us were starting to get a little chub and so my girlfriend proposed that we adopt a healthy lifestyle. She spent a week creating a food plan, exercise schedule, buying fitness apps/watches and running shoes, etc. I was really hyped for it and we would spend those nights watching motivational videos and reading self help books and all in all it was really exciting.
I lasted one month. I couldn't fucking do it anymore. Early morning jogs and eating shitty food (which was healthy but we both suck at cooking so it always tasted bad) was making me super depressed. I abandoned gaming, going to sleep late, and eating fast food. We went hiking and beginners rock climbing classes but I found it so dull and boring. I tried to keep it up because I knew it made her happy so I put on a smile and did it as best as I could. I lost 4 lbs and became pretty depressed on the inside. She seemed to be doing really well and was even doing healthy stuff independently of me so I didn't think it'd be that bad if I just stopped.
When I told her about how doing this stuff made me feel she was surprisingly supportive and told me that she appreciated that I tried with her and at the very least helped her be healthy. She said that I could take a break as long as need too and maybe someday get back into it with her.
Fast forward 4 months later. I went back to my sedentary lifestyle and just lowered my portions of every meal. I lost 18 lbs. My girlfriend has lost 6 lbs since she started 4 months ago and the limited weight loss is affecting her. She's been trying so hard and hasn't been able to make progress. I tried hiding my weight loss from her since I knew that it might make her feel bad but she noticed and pressured me to tell her. When I told her she just said "Oh...nice" but I could tell it's eating her up inside. She's trying super hard and even consulted a dietitian and her doctor about this but doesn't seem to be getting anywhere. She eats way less than I do and seems to constantly be doing something active. Recently she has been passive aggressively bringing up my weightloss whenever she comes back from a run or yoga and says things like "I wish I could sit at a computer and lose weight haha!"
I don't know what to do since it's clear she resents me for it and I have nothing to say. I've tried spending more time with her doing things like tabletop gaming, reading books aloud to each other, arts and crafts, etc. as a way to make up for the fact that I no longer participate in her healthy activities anymore but I'm getting nowhere.
I brought up my concerns to her and she apologized and told me not to worry about it but she's still showing these clear signs of resentment. What do I do? | Girlfriend wanted us to adopt healthy lifestyle 4 months ago to lose weight and feel better. I only lasted a month and have actually lost more weight than her without doing anything and she's trying super hard and isn't losing as much weight as I am. She resents me for it. | [
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So she has talked about it all week. She is going with her sister and these two guys.
I dont really want her to since I know she slept with one of them before but I trust this girl. No worries there.
Last night at a party she asks me to go with her because she thinks it will be weird without me and me not wanting her to go.
I explain abit drunk to her that I dont want to go to the movies with a person she fucked. She gets sad when I say this.
On the way home she starts crying because she thought I didnt know about her fucking this guy and admits that she also fucked the other guy she is going with. All before our relationship ofcourse.
Now I really dont want her to go, like really. That she even asked me to come with her knowing that she had sex with them makes me so mad. I feel like shit that she wanted to bring me along to meet these guys.
She says they are just friends.. sure I have friends to, I dont fuck my friends though.
I feel humiliated about this. | Gf wanted to go to the movies with 2 guys she slept with before taking me with her.
Havent had alot of sleep sorry for strange text. | [
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What exactly are the sound mixers supposed to target? Your specific situation? What about the people who want to watch a movie with a baby sleeping in the next room - maybe your mix would still have too much dynamic range for them.
The answer is that sound mixers ARE doing their jobs. They release a mix that provides the largest (reasonable) dynamic range. This allows everyone to enjoy the mix. Those with a high-quality home theater can enjoy the full dynamic range while those with sleeping babies have the option to compress the dynamic range for their specific situation.
If the audio engineers were to release a DVD/Blu-Ray with a highly compressed soundtrack then the home theater junkies would be completely out of luck. There is no way to dynamically expand a sound mix once it has been compressed.
Any playback hardware made in this millennium will have audio options for compressing the dynamic range. The only practical way that you are going to get an optimal viewing experience is by configuring it yourself and adjusting the settings for your specific situation. This is generally a "configure once and forget" thing - you won't be adjusting these settings for every movie. | What you are asking of audio engineers is impossible. | [
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I have tried talking to him about helping me and us unpacking one room at a time but it doesn't work. For example this past instance I unpacked all the boxes in our bathroom/bedroom and he said he would work on the living room. .. when I came down stairs and he was playing video games.
I got upset and he said he wasn't as good at making a house a home as I was and didn't know where to put stuff.... I'm still mad and exhausted from unpacking by myself but I'm getting more mad when he gets upset bc I won't have sex with him now...
I cannot explain to him that after working longer hours than him and coming home to unpack boxes and then him expecting me to give him sex is too much... I'm starting to hate him honestly...
And I feel terrible for saying that but honestly I'm at my wits end. Also we've been married for over 5 years... | Moved to a new country and hubby expects me to work a job then unpack boxes by myself and keep him happy in bed. Not happening... | [
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Sorry to x-post but this didn't get much action over on [r/birthcontrol](
A little history: I've been on and off birth control since I was 18 (almost 23 now) I originally started taking the pill for debilitating cramps. I've tried probably 4 pills plus combination of continuous use (skip the placebos) plus the nuva ring. As I got older I noticed my camps almost disappeared but my PMS went from non-existent to interfering with my every day life and relationships. Over the last 9 months it's gotten almost out of hand So I started taking my birth control again in June after being off of it for about 6 months. Needless to say it didn't help much. I waited the recommended 3 months and figured that was as good as it was going to get.
So I went to my doctor recently since my prescription was up for renewal. I kind of figured that PMS was just something I'd have to live with and figured she'd just renew my current prescription (Sprintec) I mentioned the worsening PMS and she highly recommended first switching to a different pill (Loestrin 24 Fe) then secondly getting on an anti depressant (20 mg of Prozac, probably increased to 40 mg after the first month) that I take daily, not just during ovulation. I have never been diagnosed with depression, felt like I had it, or taken SSRI's before. However depression runs in the family and apparently that makes me more susceptible to this severe form of PMS.
I've found some [articles]( like this one about this treatment but no luck with personal experiences. Has anyone had something similar prescribed? Was it Helpful? | I've NEVER been diagnosed with depression or taken SSRI's but worsening PMS over the last 2 years has led my doctor to prescribe me Prozac in combination with the pill. Does anyone have a similar experience? Was it Helpful? | [
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I graduated high school in 2010. About halfway through my sophmore year I decided I wasn't going to be able to go to college for financial reasons, So I enrolled in a culinary arts program at a skills center and went to that 1/2 the day. I never took the SAT's and only did enough work to pass my classes, I got solid b's through 2 years of the culinary program and graduated without ever failing a class and earning about half of an associates degree in culinary arts, but I never really put in much effort. In Nov of my senior year my mom called me up after months of not talking to me and asked me what college I planned to go to. This completely blindsided me because I wasn't planning on going to college, So I enrolled in the culinary program a the local community college. I got halfway through a quarter of that and decided I never wanted to cook for a living ever again. I just couldn't handle the stress and crazy pace. So then I took a quarter of academic classes and that ended in failure, because I partied too much. Now I've realized that I should probably go to a four year college and get a degree in something that I can actually do for 8 hours a day. How do I do this? I also have very little money to pay for it and I'm not sure what I want to go to college for. | I fucked around in high school and never planned to go to college, graduated then ended up enrolling in and dropping out of culinary school. Now I want to go to a 4 year college and get a degree bu I don't know how to do that. | [
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While doing some cleaning / organizing, I found a set of Kenwood KH-3000 "Dynamic Stereophones" tucked away in the basement. Not sure of the age, but searching suggests they're circa 1989/90. These were made in Japan. The foam inserts over the drivers need to be replaced, but the cord and headband are in good shape.
They seem to work fine. The deteriorated foam is their only issue. The pads are a bit mushy but still provide noise insulation.
I figured there would be some interest here. If not, I'll Freecycle them locally. If you're interested and in the US, shoot me a message. If you're local to NoVA that's even better. | found an older pair of headphones, and would like to find them a new home.
EDIT: Thanks for the responses. Looks like they have a home, pending my finding a box and getting shipping figured out. I'll update once I finalize things.
EDIT: Gone! | [
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The worst was this past summer. I was at my cousin's wedding across the county. Normally, I'd be closing on this night of the week, but that obviously wasn't happening tonight. Anyway, after a night of celebration and partying, I check my phone as I plug it in before bed.
I notice I've got a work e-mail, so I check it out. Yeah, I'm on vacation but do it anyway. Ugh.
The e-mail is actually a form letter from our website. Someone, at the restaurant, has logged onto our website to file a complaint. Rather than flagging down someone at the store or heading to the host podium to ask for a manager, they log onto our website hoping for help. Long story short, they've been sitting for about 20 minutes with nothing but water. No server has been by, no order has been taken; nothing.
I'm frustrated that such a thing would happen on "my" shift, but know there's nothing I can do about it, so I just put my phone down and go to sleep.
Well of course, I start having a work-related nightmare. I am the closing manager in my dream, and we've just finished the dinner rush. The outside dining area is emptying out; there's just one table out there now out of 11. So, I cut the swing and leave just the closer outside. I cut the swing manager as well, so it's just me.
I do another walk through the OD a little while later, and a second table is out there. The server isn't outside, so I go around the corner and start preparing waters for them. When I get back, a third table is there but still no server. I go to get them started.
I get to the third table and lo and behold it's a former server sitting down, and he wants to chat. Wouldn't you know but the OD just fills right back up, and I can't get away from this table to save my life. I can't get inside to get any help, I can't get to all these tables, I just can't. Finally, I leave his table and the next table flags me down. Of course, it's a former bartender. Every table is giving me looks, knowing the only thing preventing them from getting service is me chit-chatting with friends . There's no surviving this night.
I wake up in a cold sweat. Instinctively, I reach for my phone. More work e-mails.
After reading through all of our efforts to track down this customer, the customer then realizes that she isn't in our store at all. We operate 10+ stores in a metropolitan area, and she's at another one. She simply thought she was at ours and listed it on the complaint form. Come. On. | Work-related e-mail inspires nightmare. Find out after nightmare that guest meant to complain about different store. | [
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I've always found concept albums to be very interesting in the way that they flow. Many times, it seems; this flow places more emphasis on the album and less on a song. I hope to begin a discussion on what makes a concept album work well, what makes it not work, and what kind of concept is interesting without being alienating to the listener. Also, where would you draw the line when discerning what is and isn't a concept album?
One thing that I have noticed is that the concept generally does not interfere greatly with the songs, but gives them an overarching theme. For instance, In "Sgt. Pepper's..." by The Beatles, the beginning and near ending feature an audience and addressing the audience as though it were a live show. However, most of their songs did not feature any nods to the concept, but were simply played in a similar style.
Another good example is "Songs For The Deaf" by Queens of the Stone Age. The concept is that the listener is listening to the radio as it goes in and out of radio stations while exiting Las Angeles (headed towards Las Vegas). The radio goes out conveniently after a song is played so that the listener can skip the excess audio. Again this does not interfere with the songs until they are over.
As a change of pace, I now want to look at more subjective concepts. My example will be the album "Wish You Were Here" by Pink Floyd. This does not feature a concept like the previous two titles mentioned, but features songs that flow together and semi-tell a story. It is considered a concept album by most, but I don't understand how it is and if it is where to draw the line with other albums. I hate to draw this comparison because of how different the two are, but I feel as though it is a good example: "Songs about Jane" by Maroon 5. It has flow to it and features a story-esque feature in which the singer describes his relationships and feelings. I do not see how we can say that it is not just as much of a concept album as a Pink Floyd album is. I don't think the depth of the writing can be the discerning factor (Sgt Pepper's wasn't all that deep), nor the long flowing instrumental parts (that would restrict concept albums to few genres). Likewise, every Explosions in the Sky album could, in my opinion; be considered concept albums as the songs all seem to tell a story with similar style.
So, how do we determine what is just the same style of music and what is a concept album? Would you agree that good concept albums generally give structure to the album without breaking up the individual songs into pieces? What type of concept album would you like to see, and how could you pull it off? Edit: How do you think concept albums will change with changes in music culture and purchase methods, will the new tradition of buying songs and not albums cause concept albums to disappear or emerge to stimulate album purchases?
Please feel free to use examples, but remember to use them as reference and support. Simply pasting your favorite album and saying you liked it or stating the concept for it does not contribute to the conversation. Further more, if you would like to pose your own questions and opinions, go for it. I'm looking not only to discuss these questions posed, but to discuss concept albums as a whole. | What makes a concept, a concept album, and a good one at that? | [
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I know this is old stuff, but I'd just like to voice my opinion to the community.
This is what I posted 2 days ago on Jerm's thread in response to Travis:
>Why are you rewarding someone for getting stuck in a trap? If they get stuck in the trap, they should not be able to get out.
Now, I'd just like to reiterate that it is no one's fault except your own for getting stuck in a trap. No one else should suffer the consequences except you and the faction that you are in. That is it.
People should not be 'rewarded' for getting stuck in a trap and given a chance to escape if they are unable to die. They should simply /suicide to escape from the trap, even if it results in a deathban .
You deserve the deathban because you got stuck in the trap. Just because you can't die doesn't mean you should be given a free pass out of the trap, you should still suffer the consequences of getting stuck.
/endrant | don't let people who get stuck in a trap a free pass out just because they didn't die | [
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to that end, I would like to ask another question about submission titles there...how do mods or other users feel about submissions where you NEED to read the title to understand the image?
too lazy to look for examples right now, but I find myself often in the situation where I´ve opened maybe an entire page of pics and a lot of them are beautiful or moving or interesting stand-alone, self-explanatory photos. but then there´s always one jackass who thinks he´s super clever and posts, for example, just a plank of wood with a nail in it. this means nothing to me - I´m looking for it and ready to shit bricks - I still don´t see what´s supposed to be interesting on this photo taken with a phone camera of a nail in a board - I go back and reopen things to find the title and it was some crap like "nailed it?" | I wonder what people think about posts in pics where the images on their own are nothing and need the submission title as a caption. to me it seems like the opposite of the subreddit´s point and personally I think it´s obnoxious. makes more sense in funny or some other sub.
edit: I want to say that otherwise the new changes to pics have made it one of my favourite subs now. this one thing I´m whining about here is my only real gripe. | [
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this so much. Smart man. You don't have to hate gay people to call people gay as an "insult". (Which is in quotes, because this only really happens in CoD and with really close friends.) As long as the target doesn't want to be gay, calling them gay works. Nothing against gay people. | call your gay friends straight. For the lulz. | [
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I like a girl a little bit, but she's been talking to one of those athletic type guys. How can I compete with guys like this? That's my main problem, I always feel there's someone better out there than me for the girls I'm interested in. It's a self esteem thing, but also, how the hell can I compete with these guys? | I have no self esteem and feel the girls I do like from time to time can/will find someone else better than me. What can I do to compete with guys/show I'm the best thing a girl could have? | [
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I am a senior in high school, I am short on credits and will not be graduating on time. For a little background info, my mom divorced my dad when I was 4, never saw him again after that and only hear about him because I talk to my little brother who lives with him in another state, my mother had me very young, she never completed HS and just told me that I had an older sister 2 years ago. I have never been with ny siblings due to this, now, back where I was, I'm behind on credits and won't graduate on time. Dropping out is NOT an option for me, I am going to do what I have to do but I can't focus and am losing faith. My mother and step father have been having relationship problems, constantly arguing and my mom crying every night, she attempted to kill herself, and all I do is worry about her. Her husband is a dick and I've never liked him, we have gotten into multiple physical fights because I refuse to let him speak to my mother the way he does. We are both big guys (I'm 6'4 260 lbs) so there's nobody breaking us up. They had a child, he is now 2 and I Love him to death, I am always trying to watch over him to keep him from seeing their disagreements. They have financial issues and I need to get a job, but can't find one, sorry if I am ranting. Long story short, all of the depression and negative energy in the place is driving me nuts, constantly trying to tell myself not put my mom's asshole husbands head through a fucking wall and trying to take care of my mother because I'm worried she will do something crazy again makes it extremely hard to focus on my life, let alone my school. To make it worse they always act like everything is fine. Can someone lend me a little advice? | I'm a senior not graduating on time, my family is making it extremely hard on me to stay focused on myself but I keep to myself to avoid starting even more problems | [
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Worked at a summer camp in the Florida Keys for a few years, and one of the activities that we would do was shark fishing from a floating dock near the island we stayed on. Often this was the only chance for kids from deep in the midwest to ever see a shark up close, and it was kind of a big deal to catch one. We sat on that dock for 3 hours that day waiting for the chum to start working and for the sharks to arrive, but they never did.
In this bay, there was the shell of an old canoe that had been capsized and sunk, ostensibly to try and lure lobsters into the bay. Well lobsters attract sharks, and there were usually two or three decent sized nurse sharks hanging out underneath this canoe. Knowing this, I waded over to the shell and sure enough, there was a shark tail hanging out of the hole in the side of the canoe. What looked like a simple extraction turned south quickly when I went underwater and realized that I couldn't see jack shit, and could only blindly search for the tail. I finally found it, grabbed hold, and pulled for dear life. That tail was connected to a 4 foot pissed off nurse shark who I wrestled up to the floating dock. | I pulled a shark out of a sunken
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I thought everyone agreed that vaccines had nothing to do with autism when the guy who originally claimed that they were related lost his medical license
I and my spouse were working in the medical community around the time that two studies came out. One was an epidemiological, peer-reviewed, serious one using something like 230,000 kids and looking at mercury levels in vaccines. The other was that dipshit with a 12 person MMR study which got all the press and is the one to which you referred to.
Nobody in the know ever gave 1/2 a shit about the discredited MMR-autism study (the one you linked to). It was a crap study and easily seen to be crap by the medical community - you can't do a decent major find with 12 people. It was easy to attack though and GREAT for media.
No - The concern among doctors started with the study with 230,000 people (or so I forget the exact #) which polled CDC data. Again to repeat, the concern for those in the know was never "vaccines" and autism. It was "mercury exposure" and autism. Most doctors who understood science were concerned enough that the asked to remove mercury in large doses from multi-vial vaccines ... valid concerns were:
perhaps the vaccines were being applied incorrectly (unshaken)
perhaps some people are susceptible to Hg at higher levels
perhaps errors in manufacturing
perhaps too many at once, etc.
You'd never get a good study on the above concerns as nobody ethical was going to run human tests to find out for sure. But the good studies were convincing enough that the doctors/scientists recommended removing Hg in large doses from vaccines but allowing it in trace amounts but labeled as "thimerosal free"
Unfortunately the media just started the scare tactics about "vaccines unsafe" instead of "mercury or other additives may be too high." It fits into the corporate media model of "fear/sex/violence" sells.
So the media whipped up the scare, and the less knowledgeable kept saying "vaccines = problem" over and over again instead of mercury in vaccines might be a problem. Again and again there was the conflating of the crap vaccine-autism study with others which were so persuasive that the results convinced the CDC to recommend removing all but trace amounts of mercury from vaccines. I recall looking into some of the vaccine literature from companies myself and finding them saying things like "we changed the formula/preservatives to extend the patent, but not for any other reason."
There has never been a link between vaccines in general and autism and there probably never will be. There is however a very strong one between exposure to neurotoxins at toddler ages and autism. There are plenty of sad stories about people sanding pressure-treated wood and their kids being affected. Or kids in developing countries scavenging scrap computer parts and getting exposed and affected. That is undisputed. | Those in the know never were worried about vaccines and autism. They were concerned about a strong correlation that showed up with a study of 230,000 between large dose mercury exposure in vaccines and autism. | [
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I was randomly talking about relationships, divorce rates, etc with my barber. She mentioned a book called "The 5 love languages". It's a pretty simple book with what seems to be a really simple message. In fact, the author basically bashes it over your head over and over, and it didn't need to be as long as it was.
However, it did definitely teach me a lot about what you're talking about. The book suggests there are five "love languages":
Acts of service (cleaning the house for your spouse, taking out the trash, calling to schedule to get your trees trimmed after a discussion where you discussed needing to do it, etc)
Physical touch (anything from simple hand holding to sex)
Words of Affirmation (Praising them for looks, things they do, etc)
Quality Time (Just spending time doing things together that they like, and hopefully that you like as well)
Recieving Gifts (anything from tiny little hand-made notes to big gifts)
The assertion of the book is that people often speak different love languages, and if they don't line up, neither partner will feel fulfilled a lot of the time. If you desire gifts, you may assume your spouse feels the same. You always bring your wife home flowers and she acts like she doesn't even care....because really what she wants you to do is to do the dishes sometimes. Often men desire physical touch, but their wives want quality time. One of the lines that stuck with me was something like "You know that feeling of love you get when your wife has sex with you? She has a similar feeling of love when you vacuum the house for her". I realize it has overtones of "sex is a reward for service to a wife" but there are a lot of other stories with other combinations, like a guy realizing his wife didn't give a shit if he did dishes, she just wanted him to sit with her and talk about their day. A woman felt unloved even though she did all the chores around the house, but realized that her husband felt neglected because she never gave him any kind of gifts.
In the end, you get out what you put in, but only if you put in the right stuff. So like in your | you need to be loving, but you also need to find out how your partner percieves love, as well as what you're looking for so you can help them understand it. | [
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All I can say is if you want people to get back on your side, you have to make an effort to SHOW that you do receive criticism from the other TSM members and community, and take it to heart.
Start making vlogs more discussing recent replays/criticism from the Team/community. Sit down with a LCS replay and record yourself and Dyrus/Xpecial/Oddone going over the VOD and critiquing each other.
Hell, get Sully (Game Cribs) to show more of what you are talking about in this blog regarding taking criticism from the team.
If you're sick of being portrayed as this guy, make an effort to show your not. I know you're busy managing TSM and the brand but all a majority of the community (outside of hardcore TSM fans) see is this negative image of you without the understanding of what's really going on.
Make us understand, do more vlogs, open up to the community more... you may think we don't care, but we do.
We're all here on Reddit, on LoL, on TSM's site because your team (whether you like it or not) is a major part of our community. If you choose to only have the negative shown, then we'll perceive negatively of you. | Let this issue die, but Regi please include us (the community) more in your side of TSM in the future. We may not all be TSM fans, but we still care about the team. | [
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Mine happened 25 years ago or so... She was a beautiful Indian girl (hindi not native american) who was 3 years older than me. Apparently she was being molested by her father or uncle, because she was well versed in carnal knowledge. Also I guess a strange effect being molested has on young children is their craving of sexual contact. So.... this all started when she was about 13~14 and was staying the night with my sister. I awoke to her blowing me. While I was sleeping she had pulled my pants and underwear completely off without waking me. Apparently even at my young age my parts knew how to respond to such stimuli. She then climbed on top of me and rode me like one the mechanical ponies outside the grocery store. I had no idea what exactly was going on, but I didn't mind either.
Over the years we didn't date. We didn't even hang out. We barely spoke to each other. She would frequently stay over with my sister and sneak into my room late at night when everyone was asleep. This went on for about 5 years until she left for college. I've never seen or heard from her since. One thing that has struck me though, I said when a young child is molested they tend to craze sex. I have always attributed this to my sex (over) drive. I was the overly horny teenage boy, who was actually having lots of sex. I thought I would grow out of it, but never have. It has ruined many a relationship over the years. As my current gf says, 'you need a damn harem of women to keep you satisfied.' | I was basically molested by a beautiful girl and I didn't seem to mind. | [
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EDIT: This isn't anything official, just speculation, sorry.
Alright, so like the other class added since 2.0 (Arcanist), I'm expecting scoundrel to have two jobs attached to it from the get-go. The likely candidates are thief and ninja. Ninja's been promised, and I can't imagine thief not being an option, too. So, we'll work on the assumption that scoundrel will branch into both of these jobs.
Based on what we've seen of Thancred, scoundrels are also capable of dual-wielding, so this is probably an inherent ability of the class (Yes, yes, he calls himself a bard, but every other scion is a class instead, and his skillset closely matches Yugiri's, who seems unabashedly a ninja. Plus, he's outright called a scoundrel in the questline. And, well, scoundrels lie. He's a scoundrel, period). Most likely, they'll be similar to pugilists, and their weapons will still occupy a single inventory slot. Mechanically, this seems the most elegant solution, since it saves scoundrels from having to earn the same weapon twice.
As for their playstyle, I'm imagining they're going to be a sort of melee/ranged hybrid. For optimal damage they'll still want to spend some time up-close and personal, but they'll be able to spend some time away from enemies and still do respectable damage. To accomplish this mechanically, they'll have melee abilities to give them self-buffs, like lancer's Heavy Strike or pugilist's Twin Snakes. As long as these self-buffs are running, they'll be able to do full damage at range. Thematically, the ranged abilities will be thrown weapons, as we've seen with Thancred's use of throwing knives. This draws from ninja's traditional active ability, Throw, as well as thief's tradition with returning weapons like boomerangs and chakrams. Overall, the goal of this style is to have near-constant uptime and the ability to quickly switch targets, while still giving the class an overall melee feel.
From the cutscenes, it's highly likely that scoundrel will be a very mobile class. They'll likely have a shorter, cheaper version of sprint to give them a few seconds of fast movement at a much lower TP cost, as well as one or two tumbling skills similar to archer's Repelling Shot or dragoon's Elusive Jump, though with one likely being a flip to land behind an enemy (So, maybe more like monk's Shoulder Tackle without the stun, but better positioning?). Keeping to the central theme, this lets scoundrels keep to the agile and fast thematic traditions and continues to ensure high up-time.
I do not see stealth being a major factor. At least, not stealth like WoW has it. Disciples of Land already have this, and by world design there's a lack of need for it-- There aren't many caves full of monsters or overly crowded camps. If, and only if, they decide it to be important, I imagine it would be more like Guild Wars 2's approach, where stealth is very brief and primarily used to bump up the effectiveness of certain attacks. However, GW2 also used stealth defensively, and I don't see Yoshi-P appreciating that since dragoon's Jump abilities don't give immunity at any point. Maybe a smoke bomb stealth for a threat drop?
Speaking of threat, XI gave thief a strong tradition with enmity manipulation. However, I don't see that working as well in XIV. Bosses seem to draw more inspiration from World of Warcraft than XI, and WoW already tried the model of rogues with enmity manipulation. Tricks of the Trade was introduced in Wrath, and by ICC raids all but required rogues simply to keep up with threat. By the next expansion they dramatically bumped up tank threat and instead caused it to be a temporary transfer of threat-- After 15 seconds, it all came back to the rogue. Yoshi-P already knows this-- On single targets, tanks just don't lose aggro, unless something is going really wrong. They don't NEED extra enmity, or for other people to do less.
Now on to jobs. Ninja will redouble the focus on the fact that they're dual-wielding. Their job abilities will emphasize being in melee range, probably adding another self-buff or two along the way, a strong melee damage boosting cooldown (Double attack speed for a short window?), and the fan-required Utsusemi, which would function probably most similarly to black mage's Manawall. While they would share monk's emphasis of self-buffing, I think without the form system their playstyle would be different enough from both monk and dragoon to create its own primarily melee niche.
There's one thing about thief that I sincerely do hope they steal from GW2, and that's exactly that-- Steal. Not only is it a classic FF thief ability, but GW2 showed how it can actually be done in a combat-effective way. You gain an item with a combat use, something that would give you a short buff or deal damage to enemies, anything to that effect, and the Steal button is replaced with that item until you use it. It adds a little RNG as to whether you steal something useful or nearly useless for the situation, but it's overall a very fun ability with a lot of opportunity for dev creativity. Unfortunately, this is all I can actually see for the job based on FF precedents. Stealing permanent items or gil from enemies just doesn't seem to match up with what we've seen of the game so far. Perhaps a bigger emphasis on a mash-up of melee and ranged attacks, like a ranged job ability that boosts the damage of the next melee attack? I could see thief trying to do like a 50/50 balance of melee and ranged.
Generally speaking, I think these ideas follow FF traditions closely while still fitting the style of XIV and filling niches that don't exist currently. As was stated earlier, I think their biggest strengths would be mobility and ranged-like uptime, but on a stand and fight single target encounter (Like the first half of Twintania), dedicated melee would edge out ahead. | Ninja is like archer and monk had a baby and then left it to raise itself, thief is a melee/ranged hybrid, Thancred is Not a Bard, fuck stealth. | [
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Overall, the goal of this style is to have near-constant uptime and the ability to quickly switch targets, while still giving the class an overall melee feel. \n From the cutscenes, it's highly likely that scoundrel will be a very mobile class. They'll likely have a shorter, cheaper version of sprint to give them a few seconds of fast movement at a much lower TP cost, as well as one or two tumbling skills similar to archer's Repelling Shot or dragoon's Elusive Jump, though with one likely being a flip to land behind an enemy (So, maybe more like monk's Shoulder Tackle without the stun, but better positioning?). Keeping to the central theme, this lets scoundrels keep to the agile and fast thematic traditions and continues to ensure high up-time. \n I do not see stealth being a major factor. At least, not stealth like WoW has it. Disciples of Land already have this, and by world design there's a lack of need for it-- There aren't many caves full of monsters or overly crowded camps. 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Yoshi-P already knows this-- On single targets, tanks just don't lose aggro, unless something is going really wrong. They don't NEED extra enmity, or for other people to do less. \n Now on to jobs. Ninja will redouble the focus on the fact that they're dual-wielding. Their job abilities will emphasize being in melee range, probably adding another self-buff or two along the way, a strong melee damage boosting cooldown (Double attack speed for a short window?), and the fan-required Utsusemi, which would function probably most similarly to black mage's Manawall. While they would share monk's emphasis of self-buffing, I think without the form system their playstyle would be different enough from both monk and dragoon to create its own primarily melee niche. \n There's one thing about thief that I sincerely do hope they steal from GW2, and that's exactly that-- Steal. Not only is it a classic FF thief ability, but GW2 showed how it can actually be done in a combat-effective way. You gain an item with a combat use, something that would give you a short buff or deal damage to enemies, anything to that effect, and the Steal button is replaced with that item until you use it. It adds a little RNG as to whether you steal something useful or nearly useless for the situation, but it's overall a very fun ability with a lot of opportunity for dev creativity. Unfortunately, this is all I can actually see for the job based on FF precedents. Stealing permanent items or gil from enemies just doesn't seem to match up with what we've seen of the game so far. Perhaps a bigger emphasis on a mash-up of melee and ranged attacks, like a ranged job ability that boosts the damage of the next melee attack? I could see thief trying to do like a 50/50 balance of melee and ranged. \n Generally speaking, I think these ideas follow FF traditions closely while still fitting the style of XIV and filling niches that don't exist currently. 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Shinzon wasn't even after revenge, so much as trying to out do his mirror image. There was no "revenge", because Picard had never done anything to him. He got revenge on the Romulans already. That battle was all about the "echo overcoming the voice".
As for bad guys wanting revenge, it still doesn't mean they're basing it off Khan. Was the Ferengi in TNG that was after revenge against Picard for killing his son based on Khan? Was Gul Dukat wanting to kill Sisko for everything Sisko had "done" to Dukay based off of Khan?
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Go back and try again on The Wire make a commitment to it for 6 episodes. You will be hooked.
It cuts no corners and gives no concessions but it is the most rewarding show I have ever seen... and you will absorb the vernacular and learn to comprehend eventually.
It is absolutely amazing and every glowing review or overused superlative bandied about to describe it is completely deserved.
The writing, the acting, the locations, the characters, themes, symbolism, messages, the humour, the drama, it's novelistic scope... It has the best of everything.
Everyone needs to watch The Wire . 12 years on from beginning and it is still the pinnacle of TV as a story-telling medium.
And it's been remastered in HD now (I'm currently nearing the end of season 1 watching in HD and it looks brilliant).
Sorry for the long message. I just really enjoy it and think it is great. | It's slow at the start and you have to force yourself to watch and pay attention, but the payoff is greater than any other investment in other examples literary or entertainment media. Must watch for all 10/10. | [
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I may be wrong. I'm just using experience from other MMOS, but when you suspend your account it means you do not want to continue paying once your membership has run out.
You cannot pause your membership. When you suspend your account you can still play for the remaining days on your time card but once those days are up you won't able to continue. | No you do not have your 90 days, Sorry. Quick question you a US or EU player? | [
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well that is partially true. It depends how they are being used.
For example, George A. Romero's zombies fulfill exactly the function that you describe. In Dawn of the Dead (1974), the zombies represent the mindlessness and excessive conformity created through American Consumerism.
However, Danny Boyle's 28 Days Later uses zombies as a means of demonstrating the violence man is capable of in times of deperation (consider the mercenaries in the compound).
Zack Snyder's Dawn of the Dead, the recent adaptation of I Am Legend, and the upcoming World War Z don't really seem all that concerned with the ideas of brainwashing conformity; these representations more directly reflect a collective fear that humanity itself is indeed going to destroy itself.
Dawn of the Dead (2004) is notable for its constant images of massive crowds of zombies which seem to populate every inch of land (even the most remote island the survivors can think of); its an obvious depiction of the fear of overpopulation.
I Am Legend simply exploits the fear of some kind of biologically caused apocalypse (I think its a virus in the movie... but I'm not sure).
World War Z (the book) deals with topics of isolationism, xenophobia, and the inability of the government to cope with disaster; its all about national pride bringing about an apocalypse.
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So I was doing some thinking after finally being able to look at the 5th job patches on orange mushroom about how the gear for end game would change after GMS releases this patch. So I wrote out what I believed to be the current end game and switched it out for what might be the end game gear in the future.
After reading, Please feel free to share your thoughts on this as well as point out if I make any mistakes?
Notes:
This is based on regular servers not Reboot
Every class has a different weapon base stats so I could not display the differences properly for that. Please use [Orange Mushrooms Blog Post]( to see your classes weapon stats and subtract Clean Fafnir Stats from them.
Slot
Current
Post 5th Job
Differences
Primary Weapon
Fafnir (Class Specific)[Primed or 15% Spell Traced]
Arcane Shade Weapon (Class Specific)[Primed or 15% Spell Traced]
Significantly larger Base Attack and Stat Increase
Secondary
100 secondary /Princess no/ Class Specific Shield
100 secondary /Princess no/ Class Specific Shield
N/A
Hat
CRA (Class Specific)[Primed or 30% Spell Traced]
Arcane Shade Hat (Class Specific)[Primed or 30% Spell Traced][Primed or 30% Spell Traced]
25 Stat, 5 Attack/Magic Attack, 5% IED
Top
CRA (Class Specific)[Primed or 30% Spell Traced]
CRA (Class Specific)[Primed or 30% Spell Traced]
N/A
Bottom
CRA (Class Specific)[Primed or 30% Spell Traced]
CRA (Class Specific)[Primed or 30% Spell Traced]
N/A
Shoes
Tyrant (Class Specific)
Tyrant (Class Specific)
N/A
Cape
Tyrant (Class Specific)
Tyrant (Class Specific)
N/A
Belt
Tyrant (Class Specific)
Tyrant (Class Specific)
N/A
Gloves
Tyrant (Class Specific)
Tyrant (Class Specific)
N/A
Face Acc.
Sweet Water (Primed or 30% Spell Traced)
Sweet Water (Primed or 30% Spell traced)
N/A
Eye Acc.
Sweet Water (Primed or 30% Spell Traced)
Sweet Water (Primed or 30% Spell traced)
N/A
Shoulder Acc.
Absolab/Miester
Arcane Shade Shoulder
13 All Stats 10 Attack/ Magic Attack or 14 All Stat 11 Attack/Magic Attack
Earring
Superior Gollux Earring
Superior Gollux Earring
N/A
Pendant 1
Superior Gollux Pendant
Superior Gollux Pendant
N/A
Pendant 2
Superior Gollux Pendant
Superior Gollux Pendant
N/A
Ring 1
Superior Gollux Ring
Superior Gollux Ring
N/A
Ring 2
Rienforced Gollux Ring
Rienforced Gollux Ring
N/A
Ring 3
Solid Gollux Ring (Primed)
Solid Gollux Ring (Primed)
N/A
Ring 4
LGR / Magnus / Hilla / Forest Guardian Ring (Primed)
LGR / Magnus / Hilla / Forest Guardian Ring (Primed)
N/A
Totem 1
Hunters Totem
Hunters Totem
N/A
Totem 2
Halloween Dark Totem (Job Specific)
Halloween Dark Totem (Job Specific)
N/A
Totem 3
King of Beasts
King of Beasts
N/A
Emblem
Class Specific Level 100
Class Specific Level 100
N/A
Badge
Ghost Ship
Ghost Ship
N/A
Pocket
Riffle Bullet
Riffle Bullet
N/A
Heart
Outlaw (Primed 15 Stars) / Titanium ( Primed 12 Stars)
Outlaw (Primed 15 Stars) / Titanium ( Primed 12 Stars)
N/A
Title
Holy Pink Beanity / CRA Title
Holy Pink Beanity / CRA Title
N/A
Medal
Antellion Guardian / Beater/Black Swordsman (For Those Who Have it)
Antellion Guardian / Beater/Black Swordsman (For Those Who Have it)
N/A
Set Effects
Superior Gollux 4 Set, CRA 4 Set
Superior Gollux 4 Set, CRA 2 Set, Arcane Shade 3 Set (2000 HP/MP, 50 all stats, 65 attack/magic attack
CRA 2 Set, Arcane Shade 3 Set
In conclusion it seems that the only pieces of gear one might be upgrading in the future would be a Weapon, Hat, and Shoulder. | End Game Equipment Changes in 5th job patch. | [
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First of all, I want to say I love this hobby and /r/boardgames is a great subreddit and community; lots of great discussion and the vast, vast majority of people are kind and measured.
** The Collection
7 Wonders
Agricola: All Creatures Big and Small
Android: Netrunner
Archipelago
Camel Up
Carcassonne
Coup
Coup Reformation
Descent
Forbidden Desert
Get Bit
Hanabi
Hive
Istanbul
Jaipur
Love Letter
Machi Koro
Machi Koro The Harbour
No Thanks
Pandemic
Samurai Spirit
San Juan
Seeland
Settlers of Catan
Sheriff of Nottingham
Skull
Space Hulk
Splendor
Star Wars Imperial Assault
Suburbia
Suburbia Inc
Survive: Escape from Atlantis
Sushi Go
The Castles of Burgundy
The Resistance
Thunderbirds
Ticket to Ride
Ticket to Ride: 1910
Ticket to Ride: India & Switzerland
Tiny Epic Defenders
Tiny Epic Galaxies
Tiny Epic Kingdoms
So I spent a few months looking into boardgames and following stuff on here, last spring. I’ve always been into gaming, but my childhood and past gaming had centred on card games like MTG and Games Workshop miniatures. But for the last several years it had been the all-consuming and pricey MTG that had demanded all of my gaming time and funds. I came to realise that it just wasn’t worth it anymore.
My fiancé had always never been interested in any of ‘that nerdy stuff’, but seemed a bit of a closet gamer, playing several hours of Fable on the Xbox etc, so I had some hope of ‘converting’ her.
It seemed like a good starting point to go with Ticket to Ride (USA) for our first game. We bought it exactly a year ago today. It was a great hit with me and her, and our extended family. And from there the collection grew and grew. I was loving playing games with my SO, with her family, my family, neighbours and friends, most of whom had never, ever shown any sort of interest in gaming of any sort. The inclusivity and accessibility of modern board games was working!
For years gaming had been my passion and hobby, but was something I had to do in isolation, with a very specific and exclusive set of friends, often travelling to specific FLGS to do so. Now gaming was a warm and inclusive activity to be shared with almost anyone I knew.
I continued to build the collection, focusing on creating a collection that could provide for any situation, context, timeframe, energy level, and ultimately any kind of player.
I got into making some inserts too:
[Machi Koro Insert]( [Imperial Assault Insert](
And I **[painted the Descent Minis](
And I **[made a dice tray in 10 minutes for £5](
I’ve tried to do my bit to promote modern boardgames and have talking to just about anyone who will listen. This culminated in me running my first board game event at a local community centre, for International Tabletop Day. We had around 30 attendees, and everyone had a blast with a ton of gateway level games that I brought.
A month later I ran a similarly successful and sized event as part of the NSPCC’s Really Big Board Game Day – with raised around £75 for the charity, helped by our Camel Up sweepstake!
Also around this time I organised **[An Awesome Gaming Weekend]( for me and my friends, which was brilliant.
So here I am, 12 months later and I’m loving it all. But in an attempt to not buy any more games for a while, and to appreciate the ones we’ve got, me and my fiancé will be doing a 10x10 challenge. We discussed it and realised that 100 games meant around 2 games played per week, which sounds easy, but with jobs, 2 young children and other commitments we didn’t think it’d be achievable, so we settled on a 7x7:
1) Ticket to Ride (USA/India/Switzerland) - We played this a lot in the past as it was our first game, but we haven’t played it in around 6 months and want to rediscover it
2) Suburbia (and Suburbia Inc) - I really like this game, but my partner is only so-so about it, and we think we’ve only played it around 4-5 times
3) Pandemic - A brilliant game, that we both love, and feel we want to really get to know, trying out different player counts, difficulties, roles etc
4) Istanbul - Needs more plays!
5) Carcassonne – Needs more plays!
6) Seeland - Needs more plays!
7) Agricola: All Creatures Big and Small - I bought this for her birthday recently because…cute animeeples! Seemed like a great couples game. | This hobby is awesome. Here’s my collection and all the gaming stuff I’ve done in the last 12 months. | [
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Last night I was invited over to a really good friends house for a beer and lasagna party. I didn't get there until around 11:30. I ran into a friend of mine, we will call him Warren to protect those involved, that I have known for around 5 years. Warren is 34 years old. He was pretty intoxicated and making jokes just being the usual fun loving Warren that we have all known over the years. Another guy that I did not know was sitting in the kitchen area on a bench that is connected to the patio. He had a girl almost giving him a lap dance. He had brought another girl with him who had already gone downstairs and passed out in an extra bedroom that I did not know about until about an hour later.
After me and a girl that I have been seeing had been there for about a half hour, sometime around midnight, the owner of the house asked me to drive her to get some more beer. About 5 minutes before this Warren said he was going to go lay down. This was odd because he is usually the fun loving, life of the party guy but I didn't know if he was tired but didn't put to much thought into it.
We were gone about 20 minutes and when we got back there was all 15 people from the house outside yelling in the middle of the street. I wasn't sure what had happened and got out of the car to see if I could help calm everyone down. The guy that had brought the 2 girls with him, that I had not seen before last night, was yelling at the top of his lungs "how could you do that, she is only 17." I wasn't sure what had happened and the guy that had brought those 2 girls left with them. With me getting there late did not know how young the girls were. After they left everyone went back inside.
Once inside I asked someone what had happened and he said "we couldn't find Warren or the girl so we went looking for them. Found a locked door in the basement and I kicked it in. I saw the girl crying in the corner pulling her pants back on. I then asked Warren if he had just fucked that girl and he looked right at me and said yes."
I walked back outside and Warren then comes up to me and said "I was laying in bed and some drunk girl just come and crawls into bed with me, what were you expecting me to do." I know that this was not true because the other girl was already down there passed out before he ever went down there. The friend that told me what had happened then comes out of the house looking for Warren and Warren fearing for his safety, jumps in his car and takes off, obviously being way to drunk to drive.
I was in shock. First off, I have known this guy for years. He has 3 children that my son had played with a few times. I always thought of him as the fun loving happy go lucky guy that everyone liked and wouldn't hurt a fly. Second, I have never been in a situation like this. Less than 5 minutes after that, 4 cop cars came up to the house with sirens blaring. They started asking all of us questions, about Warren. What he was wearing, do we know how to to get a hold of him, what kind of car, etc. They held us for close to 2 hours asking us questions about the case, what we had seen or heard and anything else that could help their case.
In what was essentially 20-30 minute of his life, he just effectively ruined the whole rest of his life. On the best case scenario he will still have a statutory rape charge against him and the worst case an aggravated sexual assault on a minor. He will spend time in prison over this. The evidence is beyond damning and there is no question whatsoever that he did this.
I don't know how to respond and our group of friends is completely torn about how they view what happened. Two of them tried to defend Warren but the facts are the facts. Even one of the friends was trying to deny even knowing Warren because they thought it would help Warren out. I completely understand friend loyalties but this isn't someone that got pulled over for walking a stop sign and you tell the cop that they came to a complete stop. I told the cop everything that I knew and had seen and held nothing back as friend or not, he committed a rape on an underage girl. | Friend of 5 years was found in a locked bedroom w/ a 17 year old girl that was crying getting dressed. Cops showed up and some of the friends tried to defend him.
How would you guys have reacted in this situation?
Edit: Most of this group of friends is all over 25. The person that brought these 2 girls wasn't someone that I had seen before but didn't pay much attention to them because I figured that if they were at my friends house someone had to have known him and trusted them. It's usually a pretty tight knit group. In the 5 years of knowing them no one has ever brought anyone under age around before.
Edit: The reason that we know that it was a rape is because the police were there investigating a rape. As soon as the guy that had brought the 2 girls left, they immediately called the police. It wasn't anyone still at the house as we were still trying to sort out everything that had just happened. I would rather not say what this happened in but 17 is not legal with a 34 year old.
Also, Warren is now 2 years divorced but is in what he told me a committed relationship with a girlfriend of a few months. His girlfriend couldn't make it last night because she had to work early this morning.
And just to restate, I had not drank at all last night. That is why I was sober enough to be able to take one of the owners of the house to get more beer.
Edit: The homeowner just called me. Warren has been arrested on a rape charge. They picked him up last night. He has already hired an attorney and they will not set a bond for him until after he sees a judge. They said if he has a bond set for him, it will likely be very expensive to get him out. They took a lot of items from the home owners house for potential evidence.
Apparently the guy that had brought the two girls to the party, one of them was his 21 year old girlfriend the other girl that was allegedly raped was her 17 year old little sister.
Edit: I have been tied up most of the day and am just now getting back to this. I didn't think this post would get this big. Warren has been booked and his charge is 1st Degree Felony rape.
In my original description w/ the girl being 17, whether you agree or disagree w/ what my description of what I experienced being a rape or not or whether she consented or not, he did admit to me as to having sex w/ this 17 year old girl and that is statutory rape. I know that different states have different laws but in this state that is against the law. Saying that it is legal in my state or my country has no validity in my state and because I don't agree w/ Warrens actions at all. Again, he admitted to me that he had sex w/ her and it has been verified that she is in fact 17.
Also, I didn't come to Reddit to ask you to be the judge and jury of Warren. My question was a simple "what would you have done" in my situation w/ the information that I had in talking to the authorities and would you have talked w/ the police or not. | [
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I must ask, though: What does it really matter in the long run?
People will write shitty characters. Just because that shitty character happens to be a female is regardless. No serious writer should have to dictate specific time towards the character's gender - depending on the type of story you're writing, the character you are writing would react that way regardless of their sex. And a well-written story shouldn't put a lens on the sex of a character unless it actually mattered in the plot. For example, marriage.
This is one reason I encourage the utilization of RPGs amongst people who write. After sitting down with some female friends and putting out a story you can easily see that most scenarios are gender-neutral, and that just as many of the party want to talk out the problem as they do want to gut the problem and hit it until it stops moving. | Don't fucking stress over writing a "good female character" - just make a good character who happens to be female. It's the traits that she is given that will ultimately determine how she reacts, not her boobs. | [
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If I recall correctly, snooze got that place for like next to nothing because it's so close to the homeless shelter and no one wanted it. Then after buying it they have become very vocal and very political about passing laws that would not be favorable to homeless people and would definitely have a favorable impact on their business and real estate investment. | they're all "Not in my back yard that I got on the cheap because there was something in the back yard" | [
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Hi everyone! I don't know if anyone will be interested in this, but I thought I'd come here and ask. I'm a singer-songwriter and I also do a bit of recording and production. I'm looking for help from a producer who might be interested in creating the background music for my latest song, "So Will I". Basically, if you can make a beat to these vocals that makes people want to get up and dance, then I want YOU. The more creativity, the better! DM me your e-mail if you're interested, and I can send you the solo vocal track wav file. And the link to the song: [So Will I (Demo)]( Thanks in advance and I can't wait to work with you guys!
EDIT: Thanks for all the positive feedback! I've checked out a lot of y'alls soundcloud pages and I'm really impressed. I put the vocal stem as a downloadable track on soundcloud here to find producers more regularly since I'm definitely more into songwriting and performing more than production, and there seem to be a lot of really capable producers here. This evening I'm going to try and get a more perfect vocal take, so if you're still on the fence, check back here and I'll post it when it's finished.
EDIT: [here's all my stem tracks plus an alternate vocal take, with and without autotune]( Go nuts!!! I had a lot of fun writing this song, and I can't wait to hear what all you guys can do with it. Please e-mail me if you have any questions at [email protected]
EDIT: The link above is for my dropbox account, and the folder currently contains every single track in the above song plus an alternate vocal take. You have to send me your e-mail so I can add you to the shared folder if you want to use them. Just make sure you copy/paste the files out of the folder , because if you just drag and drop it deletes the files and makes them unavailable to everyone else. Ingenious, dropbox. If anyone knows a better way to share like 20 or so 50 mB audio files without this stupidity, I would love to know. I am getting really excited to hear who on reddit can make this track breathe some serious FIRE!!! | Who wants to produce the beat for [my new pop song]( | [
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I have discussed the idea with of forming a +/+ Alliance in the past, and, after talking with Agraria, Communa, Kodiak, Fyfe, and Nowhere, I feel that forming such an Alliance to be feasible.
The primary goal of this Alliance would be to mutual protection of settlements within the +/+ (AKA the South East). This includes both griefers, as well as the influence of members of the Negative Quadrants.
The Alliance would also work to have a degree of economic uniformity and protection, through a uniform currency (most likely gold, considering both Kodiak, and Communa use it), as well as the possibility of taxes on non +/+ residents who have established shops within the South East.
We would also work to secure the South East, through the management of roads, and railways, both over-world, and in the nether (top and bottom).
In order to improve security, in an unclaimed, neutral region of the +/+, we would establish an alliance built, and run, prisoner vault. This will protect member cities from attacks, while securing enemy pearls.
The Negatives feel they can impose their will upon the +/+, especially through the use of bounty hunters, through massive snitch networks, as well as thinking they control our nether road. Because of this, and our smaller individual size, we need to work together, creating a Supranational Organization operating as the South Easter Alliance (S.E.A.), in order to further our mutual interests.
The plan is to build various Embassies within what is [currently labeled as Gerald's Frontier Territory.](
[Here]( you can see the current rough plan for the S.E.A. Building/Forum. Only a portion of the building has been mocked up at this moment in time.
A basic rule for the embassies that will be built, is that they must clearly be labeled to say which city it represents, as well as be flying a 2x3 flag of that city.
Each city may choose both a primary, and a secondary representative, however they like. Each policy will be openly discussed and decided on. Should it come to a vote, each city will get one vote per citizen, or it may be put up to referendum.
Officials in charge of security will be needed. They will not be members of the Forum of representatives. (I personally support Goatsedotcx be lead official for security, due to his skill and experience with PvP).
A private, and a public subreddit will be created once the S.E.A. is established. The private Subreddit will be for deliberation and discussion, while the public subreddit will be for announcements.
I hope we can all work together, in order to form this forward looking organization. | We team up, have a cool place to chat, [possibly make this our anthem]( and hunt griefers. M'kay? | [
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Na gut. Dann versuche ich mal auf deutsch, was ich mich auf englisch schon gar nicht traue. Denn ich bin weder Sozialwissenschaftler, noch Psychologe oder Migrationsforscher. Ich habe dazu auch kein Buch gelesen. Das hier ist jetzt echte Improvisation. Ich weiß zwar worum es geht, kann es aber schlecht beschreiben, weshalb ich die ganze Zeit darauf gehofft haben, dass es jemand anderes tut.
Fangen wir mal mit dem Hass auf Minderheiten allgemein an. Denn das konnte ich zum Glück (oder Pech) auch mal selbst erleben. Ich habe nämlich an der Uni eine rechte Gruppe unterstützte, die den extrem Linken Gruppen das Stupa und den Asta entreißen konnte. Die sind dann ziemlich gewaltätig geworden. Davor hatte ich Angst. Besonders mies an der Sache war aber die Haltung der Uni-Leitung und der anderen Studenten. Denn die waren der Meinung, dass die Linken ja harmlos wären. Und die angedrohte Gewalt ja nicht ernst gemeint. Und die Schlägereien hätten nie stattgefunden. Und die 'Rechten' sind ja eigentlich die 'Bösen'. Bedroht gefühlt habe ich mich also weniger wegen der paar Idioten, sondern wegen der gefühlten Duldung, ja sogar Unterstützung der Gewalt gegen mich seitens der Universität. Und das ist ein Scheißgefühl. Ähnlich scheiße dürften sich z.B. Schwule fühlen. Denn die genießen auch keine Akzeptanz in der gesamten Gesellschaft. Die Uni liegt hinter mir. Die Idioten habe ich lange dort gelassen. Aber Schwule können das nicht einfach ablegen. Aber Schwule haben einen Vorteil. Man sieht ihnen ihre Sexualität nicht an der Nase an. Und hier kommen wir zu Leuten, die sich visuell absetzen. Also einer anderen Rasse angehören. Es gibt sicher nicht viele Idioten, aber es gibt sie im Alltag überall. Wer sich außerhalt seiner vier Wände bewegt, der begegnet vielen Menschen. Und wer Ausländer ist, der spürt, wenn an der Kasse Leute vorgelassen werden, weil die deutsch aussehen und sie selbst nicht. Und das passiert ziemlich häufig. Kleine Sachen, die nicht-weiße spüren lassen, dass sie weniger wert sind. Und das verstärkt auch das Gefühl der Verletzlichkeit. Wenn denn mal ein krasser Nazi gewaltätig wird, gibt es dann jemanden, der sie schützt, oder schauen die latenten Rassisten alle weg, weil sie der Meinung sind, dass es sich nicht lohnt für jemanden aus einer anderen Gruppe etwas zu tun. Und aus diesem Gefühl wird dann auch gerne eine Paranoia. Denn auch bei mir drängelt sich an der Kasse mal jemand vor. Aber wer als nicht-Weißer gewöhnt ist schlechter behandelt zu werden, für den fühlt sich das dann anders an, weil sich schnell der Verdacht ausbreitet, dass man nicht zufällig Opfer wurde. Apropros Opfer: Aufgrund ihrer Verletzlichkeit werden nicht-Weiße auch eher Opfer. Denn Täter spüren, dass Angriffe nicht-Weiße aufgrund mangelnden Rückhalts in der Mehrheitsbevölkerung nicht so stark sanktioniert werden, sie weniger Widerstand befürchten müssen. In Studententagen wurde in unserer 'rechten' Studentengruppe der Pakistani (ziemlich dunkelhäutig) von den Linken Schlägern am krassesten angegangen. Weiße kennen das gar nicht. Denn selbst in Ländern, in denen sie in der Minderheit sind, beispielsweise in Afrika, werden Weiße besser behandelt, wenn sie anders behandelt werden. Diese Gefühle der Verletzlichkeit, Bedrohung und Minderwertigkeit lässt sich abschütteln, wenn man es einem nicht an der Nase ansieht. Deshalb ist Rassismus eben doch besonders schlimm für die Opfer. Antisemitismus, Rassismus und Schwulenhass haben für die Täter sicher Gemeinsamkeiten. Für die Opfer ist es jedoch etwas anderes, wenn man dem gewissermaßen 'entfliehen' kann, in dem man den Ohrring entfernt und die Kippa ablegt. Die Hautfarbe kann man nicht ablegen. Die ist immer präsent. Auch aus Neukölln kann man raus, wer sich da bedroht fühlt. Aber dem praktisch überall latent vorhandenem Rassismus kann man nicht entfliehen. Es sei denn der Asiate geht zurück nach Japan, China usw. Hier in Europa geht das nicht. Nachgewiesen wurde der Rassismus ja schon häufig. Ich kann mich zuletzt an eine Studie mit Bewerbungsschreiben erinnern, wo tausende gleichlaute Bewerbungen verschickt wurden. Die Hälfte mit ausländisch klingenden Namen. Ratet mal, für welche Gruppe es signifikant mehr Einladungen zum Vorstellungsgespräch gab? Ich denke jeder, der den Alltagsrassismus in Deutschland erforschen will, sollte einfach mal Schwarze oder Asiaten dazu fragen.
>Es ist Eitelkeit und Selbstüberschätzung, nicht Rassismus, die Wallraff dazu verleitet hat, nur den eigenen Erfahrungen, denen des verkleideten Weißen, zu vertrauen. Darum bleibt der stärkste Moment des Films auch der, als Wallraff im Kreise seiner geborgten, "echt" schwarzen Familie – Nancy, Ludi und der kleinen Elisabeth – abgeschminkt wird. Ludi darf kurz von ihren Erfahrungen erzählen, und in diesen wenigen Sätzen steckt so viel mehr als in Wallraffs gesamter Maskerade, dass sie nicht nur den Film, sondern den ganzen Wallraff in Frage stellen.
Deshalb gibt es übrigens in den USA auch sog. Hassverbrechen, welche per Definition nicht auf Verbrechen gegen Weiße funktionieren. Denn die Mehrheitsgesellschaft wird nicht bedroht von einer Minderheit.
Das alles ist jetzt ziemlich lang und unverständlich. Wie gesagt, ich bin kein Experte. | Einfach den Beitrag nicht lesen. Der ist sowieso grottenschlecht. | [
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Und die 'Rechten' sind ja eigentlich die 'Bösen'. Bedroht gefühlt habe ich mich also weniger wegen der paar Idioten, sondern wegen der gefühlten Duldung, ja sogar Unterstützung der Gewalt gegen mich seitens der Universität. Und das ist ein Scheißgefühl. Ähnlich scheiße dürften sich z.B. Schwule fühlen. Denn die genießen auch keine Akzeptanz in der gesamten Gesellschaft. Die Uni liegt hinter mir. Die Idioten habe ich lange dort gelassen. Aber Schwule können das nicht einfach ablegen. Aber Schwule haben einen Vorteil. Man sieht ihnen ihre Sexualität nicht an der Nase an. Und hier kommen wir zu Leuten, die sich visuell absetzen. Also einer anderen Rasse angehören. Es gibt sicher nicht viele Idioten, aber es gibt sie im Alltag überall. Wer sich außerhalt seiner vier Wände bewegt, der begegnet vielen Menschen. Und wer Ausländer ist, der spürt, wenn an der Kasse Leute vorgelassen werden, weil die deutsch aussehen und sie selbst nicht. Und das passiert ziemlich häufig. Kleine Sachen, die nicht-weiße spüren lassen, dass sie weniger wert sind. Und das verstärkt auch das Gefühl der Verletzlichkeit. Wenn denn mal ein krasser Nazi gewaltätig wird, gibt es dann jemanden, der sie schützt, oder schauen die latenten Rassisten alle weg, weil sie der Meinung sind, dass es sich nicht lohnt für jemanden aus einer anderen Gruppe etwas zu tun. Und aus diesem Gefühl wird dann auch gerne eine Paranoia. Denn auch bei mir drängelt sich an der Kasse mal jemand vor. Aber wer als nicht-Weißer gewöhnt ist schlechter behandelt zu werden, für den fühlt sich das dann anders an, weil sich schnell der Verdacht ausbreitet, dass man nicht zufällig Opfer wurde. Apropros Opfer: Aufgrund ihrer Verletzlichkeit werden nicht-Weiße auch eher Opfer. Denn Täter spüren, dass Angriffe nicht-Weiße aufgrund mangelnden Rückhalts in der Mehrheitsbevölkerung nicht so stark sanktioniert werden, sie weniger Widerstand befürchten müssen. In Studententagen wurde in unserer 'rechten' Studentengruppe der Pakistani (ziemlich dunkelhäutig) von den Linken Schlägern am krassesten angegangen. Weiße kennen das gar nicht. Denn selbst in Ländern, in denen sie in der Minderheit sind, beispielsweise in Afrika, werden Weiße besser behandelt, wenn sie anders behandelt werden. Diese Gefühle der Verletzlichkeit, Bedrohung und Minderwertigkeit lässt sich abschütteln, wenn man es einem nicht an der Nase ansieht. Deshalb ist Rassismus eben doch besonders schlimm für die Opfer. Antisemitismus, Rassismus und Schwulenhass haben für die Täter sicher Gemeinsamkeiten. Für die Opfer ist es jedoch etwas anderes, wenn man dem gewissermaßen 'entfliehen' kann, in dem man den Ohrring entfernt und die Kippa ablegt. Die Hautfarbe kann man nicht ablegen. Die ist immer präsent. Auch aus Neukölln kann man raus, wer sich da bedroht fühlt. Aber dem praktisch überall latent vorhandenem Rassismus kann man nicht entfliehen. Es sei denn der Asiate geht zurück nach Japan, China usw. Hier in Europa geht das nicht. Nachgewiesen wurde der Rassismus ja schon häufig. Ich kann mich zuletzt an eine Studie mit Bewerbungsschreiben erinnern, wo tausende gleichlaute Bewerbungen verschickt wurden. Die Hälfte mit ausländisch klingenden Namen. Ratet mal, für welche Gruppe es signifikant mehr Einladungen zum Vorstellungsgespräch gab? Ich denke jeder, der den Alltagsrassismus in Deutschland erforschen will, sollte einfach mal Schwarze oder Asiaten dazu fragen. \n >Es ist Eitelkeit und Selbstüberschätzung, nicht Rassismus, die Wallraff dazu verleitet hat, nur den eigenen Erfahrungen, denen des verkleideten Weißen, zu vertrauen. Darum bleibt der stärkste Moment des Films auch der, als Wallraff im Kreise seiner geborgten, \"echt\" schwarzen Familie – Nancy, Ludi und der kleinen Elisabeth – abgeschminkt wird. Ludi darf kurz von ihren Erfahrungen erzählen, und in diesen wenigen Sätzen steckt so viel mehr als in Wallraffs gesamter Maskerade, dass sie nicht nur den Film, sondern den ganzen Wallraff in Frage stellen. \n Deshalb gibt es übrigens in den USA auch sog. Hassverbrechen, welche per Definition nicht auf Verbrechen gegen Weiße funktionieren. Denn die Mehrheitsgesellschaft wird nicht bedroht von einer Minderheit. \n Das alles ist jetzt ziemlich lang und unverständlich. Wie gesagt, ich bin kein Experte.",
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I'm not sure if there was a similar post but I didn't see one so here goes:
This is my first fightstick and I love it for the most part. I just have one problem: I can't get the mic to work with my 360. I have PX21s that work with my PS3 & 360 and usually have no issue with them but when I use my fightstick I can't use my headset. Not even the mic that comes with the fightstick works. Can anyone help with this issue? | headset nor included mic work with Q4RAF stick. Need help | [
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Since this is my very first ask reddit post I guess I shall start. During my younger teen years my cousins always enjoyed my visits since they lived about 2 hours away from civilization. So I visited for a week and my cousin and I stayed up to watch some DVDs. He fell asleep rather quick and I had to turn off the TV. Suddenly I felt a presence on my left side and when I looked I to my left where the kitchen was I saw a little girl with long hair and glasses. At first i thought it was one of my other cousins and proceeded to look away and quickly look back. I stared at her or it, and it slowly descended out of my line of sight. Once it completely vanished a beam of light came out of the bathroom and my aunt asked me why I was standing in the middle of the room looking towards the kitchen. I told her the next morning what happened since I just wanted to cover myself with the sheets and go to sleep. | Saw a ghost. | [
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Prepare for a generic story post.
Last night, I secretly toked up in the shower and had a blast. After I put everything away, I thought I was scot-free. Oh, how wrong I was. So wrong .
In the middle of the night my mother comes out (I still live with my parents, and would be in enormous amounts of troub-troub if they found out I was an Ent.) and she asks me what the weird smell is. She kept asking what it was, and eventually just gave up and went back to sleep. (Fortunately)
The next morning she left for work and I decided to clean my pipe out, since it was awfully nasty. Being the stupid and cocky me, I threw the residue q-tips into my bathroom trash and threw away last night's sploof in the same trash.
I thought nothing of it, until she came home.
"Creek" My front door goes, just as the small-figured woman that I call mom walks in. Alright, keep your cool. You didn't even smoke today, it's all goood. I help my mother with putting her items away and go to my room. (More backstory: My mother owns her own business at home as well) As I'm screwing around on /r/trees, mom prepares the bathroom and client's room for their arrival. Unfortunately, my bathroom is the client's bathroom.
I can hear my mother cleaning the bathroom, and now I'm on the edge of my seat. oh shit am I fucked?
That's when I hear the six words that I least wanted to hear. "HowDoYouHigh, come here I need to ask you something" my mother says boldly.
For some reason, I replied with "No, you come here".
Right when I spewed the words from my mouth I could almost feel the dread trickling down my lower lip. I'm so fucking fucked.
She marches into my room just as a soldier would march into battle, only instead of a rifle my mother wielded a single, small cotton q-tip. To me in this moment, that q-tip was practically an atom bomb and I was Japan. (I know, that was inappropriate)
Before I could muster enough courage to create a clever and elaborate response to anything she would throw at me, my mother begins her onslaught of questions, leaving me mentally defenseless and dazed. "What is this, HowDoYouHigh? Do you smoke Marijuana? Why does it smell like this? What have you been doing?" Question after question, I could only reply with a simple "I don't know, what is that?" I begin to get defensive. "Maybe it's YOUR q-tip, I don't have anything to do with that thing." (More backstory: My mother has a card, so she occasionally tokes)
I go on to attempt persecuting her "Maybe it was YOU that put it there, you can search my room I have nothing!"
Supposedly she never caught my bluff. Shit, I should play poker.
As a final shot to the head, my mother leaves with "Alright, but you know, lying to me will only get you in more trouble if I find out."
This has been extremely scary for me, as I've had very close calls before. To make situations worse I have about $160 USD in California Hydroponic shit hidden in my room, including my pipe and such. I'm ridiculously shaken and almost shit myself. I seriously think she knows, but doesn't have enough evidence to fully catch me. It's currently just a game of when I slip. Just wanted to share this story, I think I'm free now, but this happened just a few hours ago. Thank you for reading this story, feel free to comment and upvote!
(I get no Karma, this is a selfpost) | I smoke occasionally, just cleaned my piece, mom found q-tips with residue on it, almost got caught, she left the situation alone with ""Alright, but you know, lying to me will only get you in more trouble if I find out." I seriously think she knows, but doesn't have enough evidence to fully catch me. It's currently just a game of when I slip. Now my jimmies are rustled as fuck.
EDIT: She thought nothing of the sploof | [
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I have a strikingly similar situation with my newly setup 5.5gal planted shrimp tank. I'm trying to do 1/3 HC carpet and 2/3 DHG carpet and hair algae is overrunning my tank. I only have 1 14w 6700k CFL light and a reflector hood. 2 days ago I added 3 Otos and they've removed damn near 90% of the algae. The long whispy strands are pretty easily removed by twisting them up with an old toothbrush. Sometimes a strand or two comes along with it but I suppose it's better to lose a tiny bit than let it grow out of control and lose a whole patch. | Add Oto Cats. They'll eat the algae and increase your nitrate levels in time.
edit: I meant sometimes a blade or two of grass will come up with the algae when you pull it off... | [
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At the beginning of my current relationship I said "I want to have an emotional connection before sex so it'll probably be a few months. Is that ok with you?" (Or something to that effect.) And he said sure.
Everything's gone great since then. We had sex for the first time a few months in (I guess after about 12-14-ish dates), and did oral a few weeks prior. It was great and the sex is still great, even better now since we're learning what the other likes.
Anyway, I was talking with my girl friends a few days ago, and the topic of waiting came up. They said no man could possibly go more than a month or a few dates. So this got me curious.
So ladies, how long did you wait until you had sex with your partner? Why? Was he/she understanding? | How many dates/months did you wait before sleeping together? What was his/her reaction? How did you handle the wait if there was one?
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The question is then why have forums at all? If you're going to have ANYTHING official, you should respond to all of them appropriately. It's a pretty jackass act to say "Dur, we use twitter, now let's take your mod powers for being uppity and remove all the threads so no one sees this."
I have no problem with him primarily using twitter to respond to the community; just, if you're going to do that, either get rid of your forums and say "we're using twitter now" OFFICIALLY (which I guess he almost did, except he still has forums) or keep responding on the forums anyway and crosspost a lot. If he's a lazy bastard he could have just gotten rid of the forums. | FourZeroTwo is a jackass who can't write 420. | [
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Mandatory ¨This happened 12+ months ago¨
okay so
I love parkour. Watching this always makes my palms sweat and rushes my brain with adrenaline. One spring night last year, I was especially eager to run over to my local park and freerun. So I did.
I run, jump, hop over to the park/playground. Jumping around awkwardly, skipping stairs and trying my best is all I entertain myself with until I see Mr. Bench.
Fucker.
I run over to the bench. I stand on it, and I try to vault over it, but I trip. I put my hands out in front of me and catch myself with my fingers and my forehead. Next to me is a group of young men and women who just wanted to hang out at the park on a Friday night, without clumsy white kid over here being a dork. I get up, look at my hands, and OH, FUCK, MY FINGER'S BENDING 4 OR FIVE DIFFERENT FUCKING DIRECTIONS. WHAT THE FUCK HAVE I DONE?! One or two of the guys next to me help me up, and walk me home. A car followed behind for extra security: their choice, not mine. At this point, I'm shaking, squeezing my arm, and crying.
My mom freaked out and we went to Regions Hospital to treat my finger, which had the bone snap into two pieces at the growth plate. Medically, a fracture. 3 hours at the hospital later, I have a cookie and a cast.
My finger still feels weird. | Tried to be cool. Fractured my finger. Got a cast and cookie. | [
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I remember my first time buying condoms. Luckily for me, it was way after we had already started having sex. Our first condoms came from a friend of hers.
Anyway, I was heading home for the weekend and stopped at a CVS to pick some up. I spent a good 20 minutes or so dawdling because I was afraid of what someone would think. I almost had a panic attack in the aisle just picking some up.
There was someone in the aisle with me buying Vagisil I think. I thought "Hey, if they're going to happily walk out with that, I can walk out with these." So I grabbed a box and walked up to the counter.
My confidence boost came at a good time because I ended up behind someone I knew from high school. I stayed talking to him, no big deal. I had forgotten I had them. We checked out and left, went our separate ways. He texted me a bit later saying "I knew you two were having sex. Damn you're lucky." | Buying condoms isn't a big deal. It's all in your head. Just do something that can help take your mind off it and you'll forget that you're even holding them. | [
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OP, I have used Crossover (as the other two replies so far suggest) but then for reasons beyond my control I switched over to the wrapper /u/thisisbleep links to. Use this wrapper. It runs faster (though if anyone knows how to get the Mono wrapper and lets you do everything except host a multiplayer game (you can still join multiplayer).
I will clarify, you aren't exactly making the wrapper. Instead you will put your copy of Terraria.exe into this wrapper. | OP, use this option. It works. | [
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I dropped out of college last year because I had drug addiction problems. I've been a wreck for the last 3 years or so. Depressed, suicidal. I started using sleeping pills because of insomnia. It turned into a problem but I wasn't a typical junkie.
What surprised me that none of my friends ever cared to help. They knew I was depressed and I later told them I'm using sleeping pills. Nobody cared to ask how I was or could they do something. In fact, people avoided me. My childhood friends started despising me. When I meet someone on the street, they'll give me a rude sarcastic comment like "Hey man, glad to see you, are you trying to get a new fix?" It really hurts me.
Note that I was a straight A student all through high school, although I became an addict. I dropped out only so I could get myself on the right track. I'm getting back to college as soon as I can. My friends know this, but they still treat me like crap.
One day, after a friend of mine made a joke about me so I confronted him. We had a verbal fight, he told me that I was a failure, junkie, worthless and that I'll always be a bum. All my other 'friends' just shut up and this is where I said goodbye.
People look at me like I'm a monster. I have only 1 friend I was always able to count on. He's the only one that treats me for a person inside.
Is this really how people work?
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throwaway because of reasons
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Emerald Fang
[Where to Apply](
Server: Sea of Sorrows
Who we are.
The Emerald Fang is a family style guild that was created for Guild Wars 2, but also includes any other games that the members like to play. We understand that everyone has their own kind of style and their own goals in mind and we want to create a community that supports everyone whether you like WvW, sPvP, PvE or just hanging with some like minded people.
How we are organized.
We are an International based guild with members from US/AUS/NZ/CAN etc therefore we organize the guild with officers located in both US/EU/CAN/AUS time-zones. This allows us to have members on during most times of the day. Communication is important so we use the tools available to us (Forums, Shoutbox, Teamspeak) to effectively coordinate. We provide structure and events but we are casual. So members can attend any organized event when they want or they can use guild chat to get something started impromptu.
Our event calendar
[Events](
We do our best to have the events as scheduled but we are casual so have some flexibility.
Who we want.
We want people who are friendly and like getting on and helping each other out. People who enjoy using forums and TS3 to communicate. We do ask that you be at least 18, but there can be exceptions.
What we Require
We require our members to REP us all the time
We require our members to be helpful/active in Guild and TS3.
We require our members to participate in WvW events on the weekend and guild missions events.
Guild Missions update
We do T3 Bounty/Trek/Rush/Challenge/Puzzle weekly with two other slots on the calender where we do T1 for those that can’t make the T3 time. We do guild missions atleast twice a week when we need break from WvW. | WvW focused
Organized with 4-5 Commanders
Structure & Events planned but with a casual environment
Dungeons’ & Orr temple runs done when able
TS3 Server /w 512 slots
International guild with Members from EST/CST/PST US AUS+NZ etc so someone always on.
Guild Missions are a priority as well as WvW.
If you have any questions or concerns please contact me in game or here. Feel free to create a account on our forums even if you don’t want to join to chat/socialize.
Cheers
Luvpie
Guild Leader | [
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Quick backstory before getting into the meat of this "Revelation", I was helping my dad out trying to find his dad's WW2 service records, which then dated back to a certain cello player who died on the titanic.
P.S: I know the show doesnt follow the historical events to the letter, but it's fun to think about.
Anyway, after doing some digging into our viking heritage, I found a written article explaining the origin of our name, and i'm BEYOND astounded.
For those who like a good read: [Here](
For the lazy people, the main fun part of the article reads;
The family name Woodward is believed to be descended originally from the Norman race. They were commonly believed to be of French origin but were, more accurately, of Viking origin. The Vikings landed in the Ornkeys and Northern Scotland about the year 870 A.D., under their Chief, Stirgud the Stout. Later, under their Earl, Thorfin Rollo, they invaded France about 910 A. D. The French King, Charles the Simple, after Rollo laid siege to Paris, finally conceded defeat and granted Northern France to Rollo.
Rollo became the first Duke of Normandy, owning the territory of the North Men. William the Conqueror, who invaded and defeated England in 1066, was descended from the first Duke Rollo of Normandy
BONUS POINT: "Of note amongst the family at this time was Commander Wadard, the main architect of the invasion of England in 1066."
This means that not only were my ancestors there during the Paris siege, but they continued on to plan the attack AND see King Harold get his eye shot out! | History is fucking cool! | [
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For me, it was training just beyond what my body was capable of. I've worked out for years on and off and have never really been in as good of shape as I wanted to be. I never had a plan. I just worked out by "feel". "This seems like a good weight.", "That seemed like a good amount of sets/reps to do", etc. I plateaued, got frustrated, then quit as I wasn't seeing results.
After a long time off, I started a pull up program just to do something. It also seemed like a good challenge as I've never been good at doing them. I started out only being able to do a 4-5. A few months later, I was able to do over 25. Now, I'm closing in on 50 in a single set(42 currently). Heck, my first set is 35, and I do over 100 per workout. I've never experienced such success before. I modified the program to work on just about any body part. Now, I'm using the program for pullups, biceps, chest and legs currently.
The key, was planned progression. I had to keep telling my body I needed it to do slightly more that it was currently capable of. Every workout. If done correctly, the body will respond. What was tough last workout, becomes do-able on the next. | Planned progression. IMHO, it's the only way you should be working out. Every workout should see a slight improvement over the last in weight, reps, or time. That simple. | [
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I'll retell this old chestnut:
I was in my office when one of my very attractive co-workers came into my office to ask some advice. Her husband and her were thinking of buying a pool table and she was asking me because she knew I played a lot of pool.
I discussed a few of the more popular home table makers, but ultimately said that if they could get there hands on a Brunswick Gold Crown, it would be the best option. I began to discuss how wear-proof and stable they were, and because I like to use absurd comparisons (all part of my charm), I imagined that I was holding her by the ankles and swinging her like a bat against the pool table, but my mouth said "For instance, I could bang you against a Gold Crown and it wouldn't budge."
This was followed by a pregnant pause, where we were both analyzing what I just said (her with fear and me with confusion), when I broke the silence with "...you know, if I was holding you by the ankles."
More silence followed by an awkward "Well, thanks for your help." I just sat there, confused by my inability to predict how both statements we going to sound coming out of my mouth.
We didn't talk much after that. | Hot lady asks for my advice, I oblige using an example where I'm having violent sex with her. | [
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I am so sick of people fucking commenting on the way that I eat.
I am a person that will eat anything that is put in front of them, I am not shy of vegetables or fruits. But when I want something like Miccy Dee's or Dominos' or the Calamari Pack at my local fish and chip store, 9 times out of 10 I am going to get it.
But now that my family is paleo, my brother's girlfriend is a vegan and my girlfriend is a country girl who never really had accses to fast food, I get all these negative comments about how it's terrible for me and shit.
I know it's not good for me! but am I eating it for Breakfast, lunch and dinner? Nope.
Do I still maintain exercise and make sure I am proactive every half an hour while I do my homework/projects? Yes.
Just because you eat healthy does it mean I have to? No. | I eat what I want.
P.S. thank god MCG Food prices are down, amirite? | [
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And it shouldn't be, but everything about it is just plain awful right now, the game set we are in is terrible and shows no sign of skill in any players, because all you have to do to gain divisions/tiers is play alot, if you play alot, you get high ranked. The reasoning for this is because the game is no longer about skill, its about which ever team has the best pick comp, if your team gets a pick, you can go straight down mid and end, and there's literally zero counter play to it and its boring | League of picks, boring | [
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Alright, done lurking.
Played football all my life until highschool, got into girls and skateboarding.
Down in MS, mom got stationed there, playing for some rag-tag team. One of the best experiences of my life. Coaches weren't about "winning" but about learning, cool dudes. My team was awesome and supportive, we were the smallest team (player size) other then me, and we were killing everyone in the league.
There is always "that" team, coaches are hard-asses obsessed with winning, buy their team all new gear and put nicknames on the jerseys, sneak older kids on the team to win. We played them, and whoop their asses, badly.
Get through the season, and they bring it back to us for the championship. Not a good game for us, had a couple sick people, and just weren't in the game. It is like, 13-14 or something a point off, and they have the ball, third down. As they hike the ball, I am playing safety, and my teamate's tackle the runner off to my far left, so I stand there watching, nothing I could do.
Just then, the biggest kid, who was a running back, snuck unto the team at 16, and we are all 13-15 AT MOST, comes up and head-butts me underneath my helmet, right on the jaw. Sit's me down hard, rattled my teeth, hurt my brain.
I stand up, he walks off, and I am pissed. I think about fighting him, but he is huge and I am 14, so I let it go, get back into position for 4th down, this is their last chance before we win it all.
At this moment, I couldn't give a fuck about the game, who won or lost, or any of that. I just wanted to get that fucker back for the cheap-shot to the chin. I KNEW they would hand it/throw it to him, he was their shining star, and it was their last chance. Before the play, I am about five yards past where a regular safety would sit, giving myself room to catch him, because he was fast. I was praying my teamates missed the tackle and I got a shot on him.
They hike the ball, he finds a hole, then works his way to the outside line, and he is home free. I am not even running at him, I am running at a LONG angle, towards our goal, to catch him. At the twenty yard line, I meet him perfectly, I hit him low with my feet still planted, picked us both up, and landed as hard as I could on top of him. I heard him exhale forcefully and go limp. I pull my arms out, stand up, and he is just laying there, defeated, almost won the championship, then got crushed 15-20 yards away. Didn't even see me coming, thought he was home free.
I hit him on our parent's side, and they are going crazy. It felt great. I stood up, started walking towards my team, who are running at me shouting and jumping around, and boom, I step in a giant hidden pothole, almost broke my knee and totally gimped stepped like crazy to regain my balance. Was pretty embarrassing, I was pimp strutting like a cowboy walking into the sunset.
One of the best experiences of my life. We all received our trophies together, and he wouldn't make eye contact with me during the ceremony. What, bitch? Get fucked. | Got cheap-shotted right under the chin during a football game, caught the guy on the last play that would have had us lose a championship, damn near knocked him out from the hit, stepped in a huge pothole and almost hyper-extended my knee. | [
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On my phone as I wait for my car to finish up at repair shop, so I apologize for typos and whatnot. Also, will try to keep it short. And sorry, but I don't know how to link stuff with mobile so just look in my history if you want the full story.
Ok, so after a decision to stay and he agreed to limited privacy until he earned my trust back, it felt like stuff might actually improve someday. I had asked him multiple times if he ever physically cheated, each time he said no and once even got mad about me asking, stupidly i accepted this. But i was looking through his phone again, with him watching me and the screen, when i look into his email and then into his sent box. Of course he didn't think to clear that out. Found a conversation between him and a guy from craigslist, I skipped the plans of sex and went straight to the date and time along with an address for a meet up. Then i see my guy say "ok I'm outside" and i look at him and ask him about it. "I chickened out, didn't go up even." Riiiight, so i go to email this stranger and give him another chance, "if I email this guy and he replies, will it confirm my worries?" Finally he admits that yes, he did cheat on me. I'm devastated, which is dumb, I practically saw this coming, just need proof.
The kicker is that he met up with the guy after he finished helping coach his little brother's basketball team. A night that he told me he was eating with his family. Wtffffuuuuuuu!!!!
I tell him i need to think, i knew I couldn't handle the lying anymore, but didn't feel capable of just ending my longest relationship in a matter of minutes. I let him go to the bar for guy's night and i went to another bar to avoid being alone. 3 am rolls around and he isn't back. I text him and no answer so i hit up his friend who says they just got food. Whatever ok. Then he comes home and says he can't handle not having privacy and me being paranoid. How else am i suppose to be now???? So that night it is officially over.
Next week is a lot of crying and then putting on a brave face in front of people. I head back to my home town for the holidays and just barely got back here on Friday. Move out day is on the tenth and i got obligations that keep me from leaving town until that day. I'm going to move back to my hometown, already got a plan which is good, and he'll be going to Nevada like we were going to. We're going in on the moving truck together(if he can afford his half) for convenience and money.
I went and got tested for STDs asap, finally got a call back the Friday after Christmas. Guess what, everybody!!!! He gave me the motherfucking Clap. Woo fucking hoooo. But the VA is amazing and I already have the medicine waiting for a pick up. And at least it wasn't anything more serious or incurable. Bright side, people, I'm looking for it...
I came back down with a friend for support but she had to head back home for work today and nobody is able to take her place on such short notice. So I am left alone in this damn house with my ex for five damn days. Trying to figure out how to avoid being home all day.
Also, i did something very bitchy... but I still feel pretty fucking good about it. Which is bad.... I guess..
Saturday he invited his friends(which i love and was happy to see over) for a going away party. I get drunk and end up telling his ladyfriends what happened, they're pissed for me, I love them. But talking about it gets me into a funk, i try to hide for a while after that until he checks on me then throws up and passes out on our bathroom floor. I rejoin the party and hang until drunk me decided to look at his unattended phone. I find messages with him flirting and receiving nudes from the random girl he said was a "slut" and was trying to "get rid of." Looking at the text it was obvious that there had been a recent hook up. Soooo, i do something i never did before and will never do again. I posed as him and texted her. I was fairly rude and unbecoming. Then when she got upset, i said "sorry, just pissed cause I'm pretty sure you gave me something." I'm a bitch, i know. Then she denies it and i then tell her that i probably gave her something "cause my ex just told me she has the clap and knows i gave it to her." And that she should get tested. She said she will and that I(he) should never text again. To this i replied "why? If we both have it it shouldn't matter," she told me to fuck off.... rightfully so. Then i deleted the conversation and her phone number from his cell.
I feel wrong about doing that for ethical reasons, not because that might upset him, which is still messed up. But he moves out of state in a week, its not like i destroyed some budding romance and he may not even get time to try and fuck her again anyway. Plus! I know with almost certainty that he would of not told her and that she is better off knowing.
Also, when i was browsing his phone he called me clingy to his ex before me. I've never been called clingy so either he was annoyed by my silly need for loyalty or was just trying to sound good.
I will be good now and never look at his phone again, the last bit of anger did wonders to make me uninterested in this diseased rat of a man.
And a reminder, his ex wife cheated on him, so maybe its a cause of this but really it should of been a reason not to. He knows how shitty this feels.
I plan to move and delete him from my life. I guess advice on how to last a week in an awkward situation would help.
Thanks for reading if you did.... | I found out that he totally cheated on me after he lied until he couldn't anymore. He doesn't want to deal with the paranoia that comes with being cheated on. We broke up. I'm stuck living one more week in a house with him until we both move our separate ways. Looked at his phone one last time and let some poor 18 year old girl know that she just got her very first STD. | [
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Max Payne uses 2.8GB of VRAM at 1080p on max settings. The game can not even start when using 3 monitors on a GTX 690, I see that as a bottleneck. Of course not all games use that much VRAM, like BF3. BF3 uses 1.7GB at 1080p on max settings. As of now, I think if you are going for multiple monitors, Radeon would be the best option. Not only do you get more VRAM for games like Max Payne that can not be played on Nvidia Surround, but you also get better multiple monitor support that is less buggy (not saying NS isn't good, but eyefinity as been around much longer and has had a lot more tweaks worked out of it). Also this is last gens games using this much VRAM, next gen will be even more. If you want more future proof and better multiple monitor support, go Radeon. A 7970 will out preform a 680 when OC'd, even at 1080p. Once you get into multiple monitors it is much clearer who the winner is. Also a single 7970 is going for as low as $400, where most 680s are going $500+. | Go Radeon, more VRAM and better multiple monitor support will give you better performance, and more future proofing for your build, all while saving you over $100. | [
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I recently "came out" to my girlfriend about this side of me. And to my surprise, she wasn't disgusted and she didn't run for the hills (which imo might be a good sign). I will say she is acting a little different (to be expected) but things are still going pretty normal. She asked me several questions about it, and I pointed her to some websites with some information regarding all of this. Still, she didn't freak out, she told me that this was a part of me and not to feel bad about it, she was only concerned about what this meant for our relationship. We both were concerned that we wouldn't be able to "satisfy" the other person. We had a good long chat last night about what each of us were comfortable with (both the vanilla stuff and not). This is where I need the advice I told her I really wanted a stuffed animal and a pacifier, also I wanted to use/cuddle them around her. I made sure to let her know that we are going only as fast as she wants to go, and if she says "stop" that's it, no more. She said it would "take a hot minute for me to see you that way" (regarding the pacifier) but she said (regarding the stuffed animal) that she dosnt care and I could "cuttle the shit out of it" and she dosnt mind. Our main thing is that we want to keep the communication up as much as possible between the two of us. I wanted to start off small (just a stuffed animal and pacifier) so I wouldn't go too fast and scare her away. I truly love this girl and I don't want to lose her. I just want to know if I'm going about this right? Am I moving too fast? Too slow?(<is that even possible) have any of y'all gone through somewhat of the same situation and how did it work out? | told my gf, she's 1/2 ok with it, it's going to take time for the other 1/2 , am I going too fast? | [
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What? That makes no sense. I am not looking for there load data. I just want a indication if I am Shooting a mild/med/hot load. I do not need to know what type of powder, or how much.
As i said in the original post they already put this info on there website for the different rounds why not include it on the box. I guess I could get a smartphone out and every box I pick up I could go to the website and see how many fps. But that would be silly.
If I go to the store to get 2% milk but all the milk wasn't labeled skim,1%,2% or whole but I just had to buy a gallon take it home and taste it and hope it was what I wanted I would be pretty pissed. | They give us the info but not on the box! Why not?? | [
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Okay, so my supervisor (lets call him Bob) and I finish a normal Sunday shift in the bar where we work. We lock up, sit down and have a few beers in the closed down bar, which we do quite often when we work the close together. He offers me a couple of lines, which I accept as I've got the next two days off. We're having a good time, listening to music, drinking and getting messed up, then we suddenly start kissing and groping and stuff.
I kind of try and stop what's happening, as he's in a relationship (and I started my period that morning so it's not like we can really go much further) but he starts telling me that he loves me- he's in love with me- we should ditch everything and go travelling together blah blah... It sucks, because we're really good friends and what he's saying is making me feel super shitty and uncomfortable. Then, despite being warned, he starts trying to go down on my freshly menstrual lady bits. We experience a failed attempt at sex. Extreme awkwardness ensues.
I'm a still long way from sober, and I start freaking out a little. I remember that we're still at work, it's about five and a half hours after closing time and the owner lives upstairs, so I decide to leave. I tell Bob that he's just talking shit 'cause he's high, and convince him to either crash on my sofa or let me walk him to the bus stop. He tells me to wait and he's got some things to do upstairs. A whole hour later, he's still not back so I figure I'd better just slink out the back and go home.
The next day he texts me and says he passed out upstairs and he's in loads of shit because the owner found him there in the morning. We haven't spoken about what happened and I'm dreading my shift tomorrow because I'm covered in these savage bruises and hickeys from our wasted make-out session and gossip spreads like wildfire in the bar so EVERYONE, staff and regulars, will know the whole story by now. Probably even the menstrual element. | Takes drugs with amorous co-worker who disregards warnings and ends up with a mouthful of menses. Might have to quit job. | [
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I recently (m/21) got diagnosed with ADHD-PI, and was prescribed Ritalin 10mg (half tablet twice daily) initially. There were a lot of side effects, the worst of which was extreme anxiety when coming down twice a day. My doctor moved me to concerta xr. I've been taking one tablet a day and it has very little effect, he told me to take two a day if I didn't feel it was doing enough and now when coming down off the two tablets I get terrible anxiety again.
It's making me lose hope. The drugs both work perfectly for the duration of their effect, I can concentrate brilliantly, I can focus my mind, I can recall things better than I thought was possible for me. It's essentially changed my life. I'm just terrified that I will have to live with this anxiety. I know there are alternatives, but each one will have different side effects. I'm scared the next few months of my life will turn into a game of which side effects are the easiest to live with. I just wish I was normal and didn't have to do this. I know it's making a huge difference but I don't know if it's worth this torture. Please, anyone, I need some support or advice. | is there an end to the side effects or are side effects just a part of having this life? | [
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dude, I love Half Priced Books, but wtf.
But either way, let's think about how this happened. Either from high up or from local. If it's high up, it's probably deserving of the wtf we're giving to it. But if it's local, their rates of robbery must have been significant enough to garner such extreme measures. I know the one near me has the same thing for rare comics, and I understand. | always try to think about why something happens; don't judge things outright. | [
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Other than the fact that this is pretty awesome, | Like a lot of it. | [
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Thank you for misunderstanding:
>then I shudder to think what an explanation of how the price of money can be derived from plotting IS and LM together and extending it's meeting point into the money market to determine the price of currency would do to your notion of control by powerful offices in government.
and embarking upon the very rant I knew you had in you. I am well aware of the Federal Reserve's purpose of controlling the money supply, as is everyone else. You are literally the last one to the party. Your mistaken feeling of superiority is derived from a position of complete ignorance.
Your shock and outrage at the most simplistic of economic facts that have been the foundation for understanding international economics since the cold war represents a massive twisting of self education: you have wrested your way out of the dark pit of complete ignorance by reading up on how the economy works, but in a sorrowful twist you have learned this information from biased sources, perhaps the "Abolish the Fed" folks putting around, and instead of taking steps forward into understanding the world of finance you have flipped your lid and assume that you have somehow become Neo in The Matrix and have taken on a faux-intellectual persona in a desperate attempt to assert an identity of superiority over the masses of far more educated people around you who do not react with shock and outrage to things they already knew. | You are just a smug asshole who has reacted to basic facts about the economy by incorporating them into making more credible tinfoil hat conspiracy theories, and I hate people like you because you distract from legitimate criticism of the international banking system by acting shocked by what you learned in Economics 101. | [
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Sorry for misspellings, I am on my iPad Nd am pretty high.....So I was getting pretty tired and i decided to smoke a joint, listen to music, and go to bed.so i smoke my joint brush my teeth and hop in bed. I log into spotify and i choose to listen to Kendrick Lamars GKMC album because i was excited for his new albulm. I went on his page and saw his new albulm was realised 11 days early,.... WTF?!?! I start listening annd its so good so far !!!!
Just wanted to share because i am so happy and can be high for this first playthrough! | Listen to Kendrick's new album!!!!!! | [
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People 100 years ago didn't wash their clothes as often as we do. Dress shirts had removable collars because the collars got dirty way before the rest of the shirt did. Likewise, outerwear doesn't have to be washed very often because it isn't touching your body (how often have you washed your winter coat?).
Dress slacks can go 1-3 wears depending on how sweaty you are, because they usually don't adhere directly to your skin (and you have underwear for the groin region). Jeans are special and aren't really meant to be washed all that often, though I wash mine about once every 4 wears just to be on the safe side cleanliness wise. | I used to be like you, washing everything every time. Then I realized that this makes so much more sense. It's still completely sanitary and will preserve the life of the clothes. | [
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So I've been looking to sharpen up my image lately. I came on here I saw some great ideas. I like the feeling of dressing to a slightly higher level but to be honest I don't know if the MFA/conservative/preppy look that is super prevalent on here is right for me. A lot of it looks like the same stuff my grandpa wore, which is cool cause he had some great fashion sense (taught me everything I know), but I don't want to wear the same clothes as someone did when they were older (I want to still look youthful, basically).
Additionally, and the part that kind of bothers me the most is I live in a southern college town, and honestly the people who dress like the people on here are usually members of the richer fraternities. That's fine and all, but dressing up in a polo shirt with flat front chinos and some loafers on almost has another implication that you are going to be like a standard frat boy which I'm like the exact opposite of. I feel like this could be my style, but a group of people who I really don't want to be associated with already dress this way, you know? I wouldn't even care about this, but I don't want people to assume I'm the total opposite of who I really am. That doesn't sound fun at all, lol :-)
Is there any way around this? Should I throw caution to the wind, feeling incongruent as hell at first and just learning to accept my new fratastic self and like I'm ready for a game of golf with some of my brothers lol? Or should I take this feeling of awkwardness wearing a style that doesn't fit me and take it as a hint that I should stay true to who I am?
BTW despite my joking I'm being serious. I feel like I'm giving a piece of myself up to do this, but wondering if it is still the right thing to do. | I am starting to grow up and would really like to make some quality first impressions by dressing more "eloquently," but it makes me feel like a poser. Should I do it anyway? | [
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Some replies to this might be scaring people off. So here's how it really goes down:
First, it's far more likely if you're walking into the ER on your own accord that you're in a somewhat calm state. Meaning, you're not being violent, displaying psychotic behavior, and literally kicking in screaming. Those are different situations, but let's go with the much more likely scenario:
You will walk in, speak to the receptionist who will ask you why you're presenting at the ER. Immediately you will be asked if you attempted to harm yourself - if you have, admit to it as time is critical in some cases. Depending on if anyone is ahead of you waiting to be checked in, you may either be asked to sit down and wait or be registered right away.
If you've been to the ER before for any reason, you'll be in the system so you can skip filling out forms. You will confirm your insurance (if you have it). You'll receive your hospital wrist band. You'll also likely sign a consent for care paper as well as consent to bill insurance. Consent to care in the ER does not mean you consent to be admitted inpatient.
If you don't have insurance, you will still be seen and later billing will contact you and the financial things can be addressed. But presenting at an ER with suicidal ideation is a medical emergency and you cannot be denied care.
After this, you'll be asked to sit in the waiting room and to wait for the triage nurse to calm you over. Soon after you sit down, someone will introduce themselves as your one-to-one observer. They are there to make sure you don't attempt to harm yourself while in the hospital, it might sound really ridiculous but that's procedure.
Typically the ER doesn't want to keep someone who is suicidal in a packed waiting room for a long time. Sometimes it unavoidable, but often you'll be called back to triage and taken to a bed/room immediately afterwards. The triage nurse will get your medical and psychiatric history as well as your present symptoms. You'll have your vitals taken as well.
You'll have to give up your clothes and shoes in exchange for either a gown or pants/shirt and socks. You'll have to give up any bag you might be carrying. Word of advice, if you ask nicely you will likely be able to keep your phone. Also, I'd recommend keeping a tube of Chapstick with you, from multiple experiences I can tell you this is a really good idea.
Before you can be seen by anyone from behavioral health/psychiatry, you need to be medically cleared. This often means you'll need to give a urine sample, and possibly have blood taken if it's suspected you have ingested something. The MD or PA will come in, introduce themselves, and clear you medically. It doesn't take that long. For those who self harm, you'll have to get any recent (meaning, still healing) wounds looked at to make sure they aren't causing/going to cause any problems.
After you're cleared medically you'll be able to talk to someone from the emergency behavioral health team. This may be a social worker, psychologist, APN, or even possibly a psychiatrist. They will ask you some questions to guide the conversation and to determine your current emotional state. This is the time to get everything out. Say what you've wanted to say for months or maybe even years. The discussions can last up to two hours if you're someone who likes to talk.
After the discussion ends, they will leave and conference with other members of your care team (like your doctor). They will return and let you know what the consensus for your treatment should be.
Just because you present at the ER feeling suicidal doesn't automatically mean you're going to be hospitalized.
There's different paths your treatment may go. You may be discharged on your own accord and referred to an outpatient therapist or psychiatrist for the same day or next day. You may be also be discharged and referred outpatient if you have a friend or family member pick you up and promise to remain with you for a short time (that night, weekend, etc). You may be asked to voluntarily admit yourself to the psychiatric unit/ward at the hospital because it's for your beat health. If you need to be hospitalized, you will be but admitting yourself voluntarily is much better than being involuntarily committed to a state psychiatric facility.
Now, if you want to admit yourself and you make this clear when arriving at the ER, I've never heard of someone being turned away.
The thing you need to keep in mind is, your experience on a voluntarily psychiatric unit will be completely different than you envision it. I was terrified of admitting myself because I only knew the horror stories and what was portrayed on TV. It was totally different. It was a good experience. It saved my life, I would do it again if I needed to. To be honest, I wish I had done it sooner. I had spent years in and out of the ER for suicidal ideation. When I finally admitted myself I was kicking myself, thinking "shit I really need this sooner". | Going to the ER when you're suicidal doesn't automatically mean you'll be hospitalized. Go to the ER if you need it. Don't let horror stories or things shown on TV scare you away.
If anyone needs or wants to talk more about this privately, send me a message. I've been through numerous ER visits, inpatient, outpatient, and intensive outpatient treatment programs. I will try my best to help you out best I can. | [
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You'll also likely sign a consent for care paper as well as consent to bill insurance. Consent to care in the ER does not mean you consent to be admitted inpatient. \n If you don't have insurance, you will still be seen and later billing will contact you and the financial things can be addressed. But presenting at an ER with suicidal ideation is a medical emergency and you cannot be denied care. \n After this, you'll be asked to sit in the waiting room and to wait for the triage nurse to calm you over. Soon after you sit down, someone will introduce themselves as your one-to-one observer. They are there to make sure you don't attempt to harm yourself while in the hospital, it might sound really ridiculous but that's procedure. \n Typically the ER doesn't want to keep someone who is suicidal in a packed waiting room for a long time. Sometimes it unavoidable, but often you'll be called back to triage and taken to a bed/room immediately afterwards. 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For those who self harm, you'll have to get any recent (meaning, still healing) wounds looked at to make sure they aren't causing/going to cause any problems. \n After you're cleared medically you'll be able to talk to someone from the emergency behavioral health team. This may be a social worker, psychologist, APN, or even possibly a psychiatrist. They will ask you some questions to guide the conversation and to determine your current emotional state. This is the time to get everything out. Say what you've wanted to say for months or maybe even years. The discussions can last up to two hours if you're someone who likes to talk. \n After the discussion ends, they will leave and conference with other members of your care team (like your doctor). They will return and let you know what the consensus for your treatment should be. \n Just because you present at the ER feeling suicidal doesn't automatically mean you're going to be hospitalized. \n There's different paths your treatment may go. You may be discharged on your own accord and referred to an outpatient therapist or psychiatrist for the same day or next day. You may be also be discharged and referred outpatient if you have a friend or family member pick you up and promise to remain with you for a short time (that night, weekend, etc). You may be asked to voluntarily admit yourself to the psychiatric unit/ward at the hospital because it's for your beat health. If you need to be hospitalized, you will be but admitting yourself voluntarily is much better than being involuntarily committed to a state psychiatric facility. \n Now, if you want to admit yourself and you make this clear when arriving at the ER, I've never heard of someone being turned away. \n The thing you need to keep in mind is, your experience on a voluntarily psychiatric unit will be completely different than you envision it. I was terrified of admitting myself because I only knew the horror stories and what was portrayed on TV. It was totally different. It was a good experience. It saved my life, I would do it again if I needed to. To be honest, I wish I had done it sooner. I had spent years in and out of the ER for suicidal ideation. When I finally admitted myself I was kicking myself, thinking \"shit I really need this sooner\".",
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That's true. I got used to the first book's pace. Something's always happening. Somebody's about to be killed. Is Katniss going to get hurt? How will she make it through this? Who's going to die next? Those are all thoughts running through your head when you're reading the first one. They're also there in the second book, but to a vastly lesser degree.
Mockingjay just didn't have that. It was full of mental breakdowns, and it definitely did a lot to characterize her as an emotionally unstable person. But that wasn't a Katniss I could identify with. That wasn't the Katniss I enjoyed reading about.
I really loved the way the first book did it. She lost Rue, but had to keep pushing forwards so that she wouldn't be killed. There was the emotional, mental struggle, true, but there was also the constant physical struggle as well, and that's what I really enjoyed about The Hunger Games. | crap that's hard to summarize. Sorry! | [
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This is more of a vent than anything, but any advice or insight is appreciated.
Wife of 3 years, we have a 2 year old daughter. She quit work to stay at home. She has a female friend from her old job who is super toxic, boyfriends are all wrapped up in meth/drugs, just a bad seed kind of girl. Her and my wife had a strong work relationship but that's it. I never got along with her because I refused to loan her money (anything given was a 'gift') and refused to let her or her methhead boyfriends live with us, and refused to get pulled into her massive amount of drama.
So wife quits work 2 years ago but is continuing to text this girl as basically her only friend. Wife is depressed being stuck at home. End up randomly finding out that this friend is trying to talk my wife into a divorce. Wife and I have a heart-to-heart, decide to enroll kiddo in daycare, wife emails work, they say great we need your help come on back full-time. Wife agrees to go to therapy. I think all is pretty much ok.
Well apparently at some point my wife and this girl were trading erotic stories. Apparently my wife's stories revolved around her boss. I ended up finding out, threatened to recover all deleted txts on her phone. She admits she was writing out these fantasies although she says has NO desire to be with this guy, it was purely for amusement and entertainment. I'm upset about it but know that we're going through some other issues and am trying not to make a huge deal. I don't believe she has or would cheat on me.
Wife goes to therapy and decides she shouldn't work at this same place as it will likely cause problems with our marriage. We agree that something closer to home is better anyway, and probably part-time.
So wife sends an email this morning to her bosses boss saying that ultimately the commute is too far and she's not ready for a taxing fulltime+ job. Wife is now super upset, almost in tears. She's in bed with the lights off. She said twice "well I guess it's over". I say what's over??? She says all of the stress and drama of going back to work.
I don't know what to think. So frustrated and confused. | Wife was trading erotic stories with girlfriend at work about her former boss. I find out, she decides not to go back to the same place, and is now upset about it. Do you think she does have feelings for this guy or is it something else | [
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Data guy here. Redditt absolutely knows who voted on what (or could, if they wanted to track it). The problem is using that data. Mining out the difference between a suddenly popular entry and one that has been targeted for bias by another sub is surely possible but it would take serious work to set up and probably require some intuition to manage (read: manpower to watch and flag). | Not worth the effort. | [
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FUN HISTORY STORY: Many years ago, near the beginning of the Common Era there was a nomadic tribe called the Scythians. They wound up working along with a kingdom in the near East, without ever giving up their own ways. The Scythians would take the young adults of the kingdom to the forest to learn to hunt and ride like their nomadic friends. With this the group would also bring back food to share with the kingdom after hunting lessons had finished for the day.
Well, one day the Scythians didn't bring back much food. Everyone has their off days, but the king didn't see this as a possibility. He called out the Scythians loudly and very mercilessly. The Scythians were proud people though. They held their tongue and didn't seem to give it a second thought. The next day the Scythians came back with bags of meat and gave it to the king and the people in the kingdom.
The people celebrated and ate their meat with joy, until one of them realized, their children weren't there and they didn't come back with the nomads.
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I'm from PA I submit this as evidence that we win
Pennsylvania :
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Big Beaver,
Bird-in-Hand,
Blue Ball,
Bottom,
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Burning Well,
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Red Lion,
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Seven Stars,
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Snow Shoe,
Spry,
Squirrel Hill,
Stalker, PA
Star Junction,
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Trainer,
Trooper,
Wall,
Walnut Bottom,
Water Works,
Wind Gap,
Wyoming,
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Extremely obese people should not get the care they are given at the hospital..and I say extremely, I mean people who have not worked, Contributed anything and just sit and eat..Those people do not deserve the free care we give them in Australia when they get an infection of some shit between there legs because they are so fat they can't maintain themselves.
Now before anyone here who is extremely fat I am sorry but if you do have a job then this does not apply to you. This is just what I think, You can be a very nice person but to let yourselves to get that big where you cannot walk? Or so big you don't fit in our CT Scanners? Just NO.
Another opinion I have is people who are in vegetated state or any messed up sickness that strictly puts you in a wheelchair and your brain does not operate properly on any level whatsoever also should not be cared for, They in all honesty should not even be alive and are wasting resources on other more important matters.
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Hello all,
I added a Summoners War: Sky Arena page to giantbomb.com which is where Twitch pulls their game list. This means that streamers can now choose the game easily in their dashboard.
Please feel free to add to and edit the page on [Giantbomb]( to increase accuracy. | Streamers can now choose Summoners War: Sky Arena as a game in their dashboard. | [
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Actually, it has less to do with being irreversible and more to do with being a major operation. Vasectomies are out patient procedures. Sterilization procedures for women require general anesthesia, and with that comes the risk of death--just like any major operation. So most doctors want to cover their asses so they don't have to face the question " Why did you approve an unnecessary surgery for a young woman who died on the operating table?" It's not common but it can happen.
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We're at their house, and I'm kind of chubby and I didn't want to remove my shirt. One of A's friends begin making chicken sounds at me, my friend had taken his shirt off. He is skinny, not muscular but skinny. I looked at A and she smiled at me. I had to do it, so I did. Immediately one of the girls screams "haha, look he doesn't clean his bellybutton!" I looked down, confused, before going completely pale. Everyone was laughing, I looked back up from my left, where my friend was standing, I heard "wait a second, dude, is that cum?" I wanted to run away, and disappear. Everyone got very quiet, and then A screamed "omg get him out of my yard!" My friend nods and tells me to leave, I give him a desperate look. I'm frozen in place. And then I feel his fist hit me in the face. The girls start laughing, I've never been hit in the face before and let me tell you.. It's not fun. He dragged me out front and told me to fuck off. | Got a black eye, used my belly button as a cumbox without realizing. | [
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Hello everyone! This is sort of an odd topic and I've never really visited this subreddit so I don't know if I'll get many responses but if you see this and think you can give me some advice it would be greatly appreciated!
So I'm 19 and my younger cousin is almost 17. We were very close until I moved away when I was 9 but I would still see him often enough and I just recently moved back so I'm seeing him a lot more.
He is such a smart, sweet guy and I love him so much but he screams Aspergers. I've been researching about Aspergers and various other conditions that he may have for years because I always knew something was off. My grandmother showed a specialist a picture of a group of kids and he could tell from that which one was my cousin because he could tell from just his body language that he had it. I didn't even have to say anything to my girlfriend (who has an autistic brother) that my cousin had Aspergers because it was so obvious that she just asked me if he did.
Now I'm sure whoever is reading is wondering "well what's the problem? A lot of people have this."
The problem is that my aunt (his single mom) refuses to accept that anything is wrong with her only son. She won't talk to him about it or get him tested. This poor guy has gone through the past 17 years being bullied and mistreated by people and he doesn't understand why he's different. He was being bullied so much that my aunt moved him to a private Christian school where he's in a class of 5 people and he does work on the computer all day.
The worst part is that he knows something is off. He's been researching why he's different and just concluded that he has ADHD. He knows he's different but doesn't know why and all he does is play video games alone all day. He's 6'5, about 250 lbs and just has so much trouble with life. Even the kids at his church bully him. He's depressed and my aunt is just oblivious. She cares more about God than my cousin and she won't open her damn eyes and get him some help.
Anyways, my question to everyone here is: Do I go behind my aunts back and tell my cousin that he has Aspergers?
I love him so much and I just want to help him. I'm worried that if I go behind my aunts back and tell him, she'll deny it to him and he'll be even more confused. If you don't think I should tell him, what should I do?
Like I said any advice is greatly appreciated. | Cousin (17) obviously has Aspergers but his mom won't get him looked at by anyone because she's oblivious. He's extremely depressed and doesn't know why he's incapable of having social interactions. Should I go behind her back and tell him? If not, what do I do? | [
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Hit a book store on a Saturday afternoon. Chapters in Chinook for example.
Pick up a p/t job at the Blackfoot flea market. | frequent places where like-minded women will be. | [
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I've told this story a couple times but it still remains one my favorites:
We're playing DnD 3.5 with some in-house rules that i'll get to in a second, but the gist of the story is that we're trying to save a kingdom from being taken over by a secretive cult, etc etc...
Anyways, through a lot of investigating we finally realize that we can make contact with the cult, and infiltrate it, by posing as diamond sellers. Through a lot of Charisma related checks, and rolls, we finally set up a meet with a cult buyer at a tavern in a seedy part of town.
We could tell that the DM had prepared this encounter thoroughly, as there were a lot of possible outcomes. He even produced detailed drawings, and diagrams of the inside and outside of the tavern. With a bit of planning we set up an elaborate trap, whereby all angles and routes of escape out of the tavern would be covered, and two players would pose as the sellers, with a rogue covering them from a nearby table.
Anyways, the day of the meet up approaches, and we all take our positions, rolling pretty much flawlessly on hide checks for those of us that needed to be concealed. The rogue comes into the tavern and positions himself, and then the two players posing as buyers come in. Everything is going to plan, so far...
Through a set of predetermined signals they motion to the cult buyer that they are the sellers, and the three of them sit at the bar to discuss the details.
Now, in case its not clear, our players posing as diamond "sellers", have no diamonds, they have no intention of selling diamonds, and thus they are bluffing through their teeth.
The conversation is as follows:
DM (Buyer): I hear you're in the business of selling diamonds
The two players look at each other, and decide the dwarf (Jeff) should speak first, the DM tells Jeff to roll a Bluff check before speaking
Jeff rolls a nat 1
Now here is where the house rules come in. In our group whenever somebody rolls a nat 1, you must roll a d20 again to see how badly you nat 1'd. If you roll a nat 1 again , you suffer penalties but then you must roll a third time. Three nat 1's in a row earns you...death.
Continuing with the conversation:
DM: Because Jeff rolls a nat 1, he spills the beans, and reveals the ENTIRE plan to the cult buyer....okay Jeff, now roll again to see how badly you nat 1'd.
Jeff rolls another nat 1
Audible gasps are heard around the room
DM: Erm...okay after spilling the beans you throw up on yourself...roll again...
Jeff, now with this head buried in his hands, realizing that he just ruined our best shot of infiltrating the cult, gives a half hearted roll....
nat 1
The DM looking completely bewildered at the almost supernatural odds of what just happened looks at Jeff and calmly says: "You died."
Edits: Formatting. | Throws up on self, DIES | [
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We've been happily together for awhile and I am ready to move forward in our relationship. I've been hesitant myself about having children, but with out a doubt, I have always wanted one. He's told me that he wants kids too, but at the right time. He says that he wants to save up money and be prepared. Which is very understandable, but at this point nothing is being saved and there's no effort to do so. We don't live pay check to pay check and are doing well. There's no need to borrow money, take out loans, things like that, but yet he's not ready. I know with out a doubt he loves me and want to have kids, I just feel like there will never be a "right time" to have a baby.
My birthday is coming up soon and I'm hoping to get something special whether it be him proposing (we have talked about marriage plenty of times) or a baby, but I feel like this will be another year of "Oh, we aren't ready, maybe next year" thing. I HOPE not, but at the same time I'm scared too! I'm afraid to express that I really want a baby, but I do NOT want to hear "Not yet". I'm tired of waiting for nothing. | I want a baby and he's not ready. | [
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Hi, I have been a smoker for around 2-3 years now and it has exceptionally improved my every day life, with that being said, let me give you a little bit of background first. I was bullied in elementary school for a few years until I learned to accept it and kind of became one of the "cool kids." I was always great at sports, but on the bigger side, so I was kind of slow.
Also my dad commited suicide when I was the age of 3, so I never really got to know him. I also had very bad anger problems most of my life, and severe depression. With all this being said, back to the main topic, weed has made my life so much better. Whenever I am high it makes me forget every single one of my worries dating back to when I was born, up until the second before I took a toke of whatever I'm smoking (preferrably my vape pen). But as a 20 year old man, who lives with his mother still, with no job, and the motivation of a man who has seriously considered suicide, more than once, I don't know what to do once the last crumbs of my weed are smoked up. I know it sounds bad, because I am 100% addicted, but is it to the weed, or the feeling of not being sad or angry anymore?
I was very depressed and angry before I started smoking, and it is the reason why I started smoking. I was against smoking and drinking so much, that I would make fun of people who got high at my school because I thought they were stupid, but now I understand. I feel like being deprived of weed isn't the cause, since it has so often been the cure. To sum up this brick of text, I would just like to ask what my fellow ents do when they are out of money, and have already smoked the last of their resin, and used up every last bit of gas getting smoked out. I seriously need help, the sad and angry thoughts just rush back into my head when I don't have something to smoke on, and I don't want to put my mom through any more stress financially and mentally asking her for money all the time. Oh yeah and i'm at a by the way, yeah I know, it sucks. | What do you do when you run out of weed money? | [
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This is by no means new, but recent/near recent events have made me reevaluate things more.
Relevant background: My mother has always been a smoker, and occasionally has issues with drinking/gambling. She had her license revoked a couple years ago due to drunk driving, went to jail for 4 months. Continued drinking on probation, along with who knows what else. It's all fairly shitty, and she has a tendency to bring family down with her. She simply doesn't know what responsibility or collateral damage means. Grandparents won't help her anymore as a result, and my much older sister has spoken a single sentence to her in the past 2 years.
General info: Parents have been divorced for 15 years. The initial divorce led to my sister and I living with my mother following, and my grandparents tending to raise me more than my parents ever did. My sister moved out as soon as possible, and I became independent after graduating high school. My dog has lived with my mother since, which is one of the main issues I'm dealing with now.
Starting out this year she got heavy into gambling. I only really found out how bad it was over spring break; she put herself over a thousand overdrafted at one point, with all her credit cards maxed out. I'm not quite sure why/how her bank allowed this, but I know for a fact it did. During tax season, she said she was getting better and pulling herself out of it- I gave her the benefit of the doubt, so I allowed her to do my taxes. She claimed me as a dependent (I haven't lived at home for 5 years, and my college FAFSA estimated family contribution was literally $20, that I never received either.) and got ~$340 from it that I otherwise would have gotten under the premises of paying my auto insurance. She paid $100 worth of insurance, and immediately dropped the rest on gambling even more. Strike number 1. Soon after this I got a message that I would be paying my insurance from now on (which I honestly should have just taken from her entirely before anyway, I paid it out of tax season and she only paid it during tax season with money she claimed from my 'dependency'. Much more outside of insurance money could have been taken as a result, I don't know). All of my bills have always been in my name, so no issues there. They still get sent to her house in the event of paper bills though, which I have to change asap.
Continuing on, I'm visiting home for a weekend. My mother works weekends often enough that we have to schedule time to spend together. Due to visiting grandparents and losing track of time, I'm half an hour late to meet her at her house. I get there, she's not there. After trying to call her, I find she left her phone there. I check her phone (invasion of privacy, I know, due to situation it didn't concern me at the time) and she has a message from her 'friend' about how she's working at the local slot/bar combo and she should stop by. Apparently when I didn't show precisely on time, she decided to waste more time and money and go 'spend time with her friend'. I go there, no surprise, she's staring deeply into the eyes of her friend- the slot machine- while the owner sits by with a shit eating grin on her face. Mother refuses to leave under any circumstance, so I go back home and gather my stuff to head back to my grandparents'. As I'm taking my things, and my dog- who is unfortunately stuck with my mother for the time being- she comes home and gets upset. Yells at ME for abandoning her, that me and my sister are the reason she does this, blahblahblah. I deadpan and leave. Strike 2.
The recent strike happened this last weekend. Both my brother-in-law and I have college graduation, Saturday for a Masters and Sunday for a Bachelors respectively. My grandparents are the only ride my mother has, but my sister refuses to let my mother come with them to his graduation an hour and a half away from me. This leads to me being responsible for my mother for Saturday. My grandparents agree to meet me in between to pass her off, and things go well enough during the day. Me and my girlfriend of 8 months, of whom has also lived with me for the past 4) explain to her that under no circumstances can she smoke inside my apartment. This includes the balcony. She complains, saying it 'wouldn't be so bad'. I still say no, that she can go outside the building. This hasn't been an issue in the past due to me having asthma until age 14, so she drops the subject. Fast forward to Sunday morning, graduation day. My mom is just waking up, and we need to run out and get a few final things. I tell her she can stay there, and remind her again that she'll have to prop open the building door when she goes out to smoke. Fast forward a few more hours, and the rest of my family (step mother, dad, all grandparents) are in the apartment waiting to leave. My step mother makes some comment about one of my girlfriend's plant pots smoking outside. My girlfriend goes out, checks it, and the potting soil is very very close to lighting on fire. We immediately dump water on it, and I go to investigate. Typically, my mother is downstairs smoking. I ask her if she deliberately disobeyed and smoked in the apartment. After she admits to it, I yell at her that she under no circumstances, CANNOT smoke in or near my living area. I emphasize that she started a fire on the balcony (exaggeration, but necessary) and turn around to go back inside while she gives the most insincere apology I've ever heard. She acts like nothing is wrong for the rest of the day, and makes no attempt at all to apologize to my girlfriend. Strike number 3.
My girlfriend has banned her permanently from staying with us ever again (which I agree whole heartedly with), we're moving in 3 months to an apartment which will allow pets so that I can relieve my dog of my mother, and since graduating and starting work full time there will never again be a situation in which my mother will be involved with my bills at all. I will also be finding an alternative to getting my taxes done in following years. She's done quite a bit positive for me throughout my life, but in the past few years my mom has done nothing but torment herself and my family with constant drama, and it's just no longer bearable. My mother now claims she's going completely clean of drinking and gambling, and has been clean for a whole 17 days (that's commitment right there), but we've all heard it before and it's never lasted longer than a month.
These are just the major and more recent examples that affect me moreso. The reason my sister stopped talking to her was because she ditched Thanksgiving at my sister's house to go out drinking. The reason my grandparents gave up helping was because she borrowed a bit too much with unrealistic pay back dates which kept getting pushed back even more, and she wouldn't listen to a word of help from them. She's abandoned a family dinner because she didn't like a joke my aunt said. She constantly lies about drinking, even if she comes home 3am Black Friday morning obliterated without her keys. She made my grandparents pick her up from a hotel once because her trucker boyfriend wouldn't give her a ride home. She took food off my plate at my graduation dinner, as well as my girlfriend's plate, without asking and commenting as she chewed it that "she hoped we didn't want that". Obviously varying degrees of childish/irresponsible, but still.
In the time between moving, I'm worried that if I do something drastic, she'll do something to my dog (or do nothing at all for him). I've tried asking my grandparents to take my dog, to no avail. Even after getting my dog relocated, I don't really know where to go from there. What do I say? Do I say anything? I don't want to give her yet another reason to go on benders; my sister's name often gets brought up as an excuse as of late; but it's just too out of hand. Is there anything I missed that she could still try and interfere with? | My mother put herself in a controlling position of my taxes/bills before when she can't even handle her own. Have since taken over what I can, but have to wait to take my dog from her care. Also feel like I'm missing other things, but can't think of anything else. What do I do from here?
Also, sorry for my awful/weird writing style, my thoughts are still kind of scattered and I tried including anything relevant I could think of to get more informed input on the situation. | [
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My dog has lived with my mother since, which is one of the main issues I'm dealing with now. \n Starting out this year she got heavy into gambling. I only really found out how bad it was over spring break; she put herself over a thousand overdrafted at one point, with all her credit cards maxed out. I'm not quite sure why/how her bank allowed this, but I know for a fact it did. During tax season, she said she was getting better and pulling herself out of it- I gave her the benefit of the doubt, so I allowed her to do my taxes. She claimed me as a dependent (I haven't lived at home for 5 years, and my college FAFSA estimated family contribution was literally $20, that I never received either.) and got ~$340 from it that I otherwise would have gotten under the premises of paying my auto insurance. She paid $100 worth of insurance, and immediately dropped the rest on gambling even more. Strike number 1. Soon after this I got a message that I would be paying my insurance from now on (which I honestly should have just taken from her entirely before anyway, I paid it out of tax season and she only paid it during tax season with money she claimed from my 'dependency'. Much more outside of insurance money could have been taken as a result, I don't know). All of my bills have always been in my name, so no issues there. They still get sent to her house in the event of paper bills though, which I have to change asap. \n Continuing on, I'm visiting home for a weekend. My mother works weekends often enough that we have to schedule time to spend together. Due to visiting grandparents and losing track of time, I'm half an hour late to meet her at her house. I get there, she's not there. After trying to call her, I find she left her phone there. I check her phone (invasion of privacy, I know, due to situation it didn't concern me at the time) and she has a message from her 'friend' about how she's working at the local slot/bar combo and she should stop by. Apparently when I didn't show precisely on time, she decided to waste more time and money and go 'spend time with her friend'. I go there, no surprise, she's staring deeply into the eyes of her friend- the slot machine- while the owner sits by with a shit eating grin on her face. Mother refuses to leave under any circumstance, so I go back home and gather my stuff to head back to my grandparents'. As I'm taking my things, and my dog- who is unfortunately stuck with my mother for the time being- she comes home and gets upset. Yells at ME for abandoning her, that me and my sister are the reason she does this, blahblahblah. I deadpan and leave. Strike 2. \n The recent strike happened this last weekend. Both my brother-in-law and I have college graduation, Saturday for a Masters and Sunday for a Bachelors respectively. My grandparents are the only ride my mother has, but my sister refuses to let my mother come with them to his graduation an hour and a half away from me. This leads to me being responsible for my mother for Saturday. My grandparents agree to meet me in between to pass her off, and things go well enough during the day. Me and my girlfriend of 8 months, of whom has also lived with me for the past 4) explain to her that under no circumstances can she smoke inside my apartment. This includes the balcony. She complains, saying it 'wouldn't be so bad'. I still say no, that she can go outside the building. This hasn't been an issue in the past due to me having asthma until age 14, so she drops the subject. Fast forward to Sunday morning, graduation day. My mom is just waking up, and we need to run out and get a few final things. I tell her she can stay there, and remind her again that she'll have to prop open the building door when she goes out to smoke. Fast forward a few more hours, and the rest of my family (step mother, dad, all grandparents) are in the apartment waiting to leave. My step mother makes some comment about one of my girlfriend's plant pots smoking outside. My girlfriend goes out, checks it, and the potting soil is very very close to lighting on fire. We immediately dump water on it, and I go to investigate. Typically, my mother is downstairs smoking. I ask her if she deliberately disobeyed and smoked in the apartment. After she admits to it, I yell at her that she under no circumstances, CANNOT smoke in or near my living area. I emphasize that she started a fire on the balcony (exaggeration, but necessary) and turn around to go back inside while she gives the most insincere apology I've ever heard. She acts like nothing is wrong for the rest of the day, and makes no attempt at all to apologize to my girlfriend. Strike number 3. \n My girlfriend has banned her permanently from staying with us ever again (which I agree whole heartedly with), we're moving in 3 months to an apartment which will allow pets so that I can relieve my dog of my mother, and since graduating and starting work full time there will never again be a situation in which my mother will be involved with my bills at all. I will also be finding an alternative to getting my taxes done in following years. She's done quite a bit positive for me throughout my life, but in the past few years my mom has done nothing but torment herself and my family with constant drama, and it's just no longer bearable. My mother now claims she's going completely clean of drinking and gambling, and has been clean for a whole 17 days (that's commitment right there), but we've all heard it before and it's never lasted longer than a month. \n These are just the major and more recent examples that affect me moreso. The reason my sister stopped talking to her was because she ditched Thanksgiving at my sister's house to go out drinking. The reason my grandparents gave up helping was because she borrowed a bit too much with unrealistic pay back dates which kept getting pushed back even more, and she wouldn't listen to a word of help from them. She's abandoned a family dinner because she didn't like a joke my aunt said. She constantly lies about drinking, even if she comes home 3am Black Friday morning obliterated without her keys. She made my grandparents pick her up from a hotel once because her trucker boyfriend wouldn't give her a ride home. She took food off my plate at my graduation dinner, as well as my girlfriend's plate, without asking and commenting as she chewed it that \"she hoped we didn't want that\". Obviously varying degrees of childish/irresponsible, but still. \n In the time between moving, I'm worried that if I do something drastic, she'll do something to my dog (or do nothing at all for him). I've tried asking my grandparents to take my dog, to no avail. Even after getting my dog relocated, I don't really know where to go from there. What do I say? Do I say anything? I don't want to give her yet another reason to go on benders; my sister's name often gets brought up as an excuse as of late; but it's just too out of hand. Is there anything I missed that she could still try and interfere with?",
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My great-grandfather and great-great-grandfather were a shooting team in upstate NY. The son, Freddy, was 6 years old at the onset. They would go onstage at County Fairs and do tricks, like someone tosses up a ball and they blow it away. But they got specific. They'd set up a knife and two targets, shoot the knife and split the bullet. They'd bring up an audience member and have them hold a small lozenge in their hand (or lips!) and shoot it right out. They'd hold up a playing card with a small heart on it and shoot out the heart. Then they'd turn the card sideways and shoot it in half.
The greatest trick was where Freddy (the child) stood at one end of the stage with a rifle mounted on two tripods, with a special sight on the front. A.B. (the dad) would stand on the other side of the stage with a helmet with a cup, in which was a small ball. He would sight the rifle from across the stage and say "NOW" whereupon Freddy would pull the trigger and the ball on his father's head would explode. The crowd goes wild.
Couldn't find a great source, but [These]( are some guns from their collection, many of which were donated to a local museum, along with many of the various props they used in their shows. | My Great-Grandfather pulled a Reverse-William-Tell. | [
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Bonjour Redditors,
I've had my dog Eleanor for about 4 months now, we found her sleeping under our tractor on our farm, and eventually she warmed up to us. She's a really wonderful dog, but I've had no earthly idea what breed she is. I'm definitely not a pro on the subject. If any of you have an idea, feel free to post?
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Education and awareness are definitely a positive outcome from the original captive animals; Had the first orca not lived when it was harpooned humans would have continued to hunt them mercilessly due to the lack of understanding and the fear that they had of them.
That said-- I don't think it is necessary to trap wild animals for the purpose of education any longer. We are able to spread education and awareness in a whole variety of other means. As an example Planet Earth has created some of the most interesting and entertaining arguments for our need to preserve our natural habitats without inflicting a change on the species that they bring awareness to. I believe a much larger percentage of the population has been educated and made aware of animal ecology from BBC programs than from any zoo.
Some argue that zoos create breeding programs for endangered animals-- but I would argue that facilities that breed rare and unusual creatures are much more profitable. An animal whose purpose is to solely exist in captivity is as good as extinct anyways. It is very easy for someone to market an endangered species breeding program as a charitable effort-- but for the owners of these zoos it is often the profits that drive their involvement in a species restoration.
How many times do the belugas at the Vancouver Zoo need to give birth to calves-- and have them die-- before they decide that they shouldn't have them breeding. Not to mention the tank doesn't seem to be very sizeable for the amount of animals in it. That is just my personal opinion. Unlike the big cats-- I have no personal experience with marine mammals outside of viewing them in the wild as I live on the West Coast.
Also, I wouldn't agree that all animals in zoos lead a stress free life. Having hoards of people wander through your habitat and watch your daily life while you live in an enclosure that has the main purpose of ensuring you are constantly visible and on display hardly sounds enjoyable to me. By roaming -- I mean an area larger than a few thousand square feet with a few fake rocks and maybe a plant and a pool. Somewhere where an animal can break into a full run and not run into a wall. I think many zoo animals lack the mental and physical stimulation necessary for the psychological health. Many captive cats are obese and many zoos are now having to implement fasting days because of this-- just because they are well fed-- doesn't mean it is always a good thing.
Also-- the natural instinct of the hunt and the kill is suppressed in most captive carnivorous animals. How many zoos allow their big cats to hunt their own prey--if any? If you think that the hunt is a necessity and not an instinct, I would have to argue that you should look to the lions domestic cousin: the household cat. Do you think our well loved and well fed feline friends are hungry when they take out multiple species of rodent and bird after pounding back a can of Whiskas? They are acting on something primal-- something instinctive. Zoos have taken away the ability for their animals to act on the traits and behaviours they all come by naturally.
Living longer isn't necessarily a great thing. A sedentary life isn't healthy for humans, isn't healthy for domestic pets and it certainly isn't healthy for wild animals. | Quality over quantity. If your whole life was eating and sitting and being watched by strangers-- would you want to live an extra 10 years on top of expectancy? Second thought-- don't answer that. Hahaha. | [
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Something like, a new "Directive" is unlocked when the player gains a auraxium medal with a specific weapon. And if the player finishes the directive, a auraxium variant of that weapon is unlocked. | Aurax a weapon. A new directive is unlocked. Finish that directive = auraxium variant of that weapon is unlocked. | [
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Well I can answer that last one. The Western Europe trade node was added in the 1.4(?) update, and makes it easier for non-traditional countries to profit from New World trade.
Prior to adding the WE node, all the American nodes drained to London, Bordeaux, or Sevilla. This meant if you were anyone else, you had to mandatorily give up some of your profits to the countries in those nodes, before it got to your node.
With the WE node in place, American trade can be routed to London, Bordeaux, Antwerpen, or Sevilla. No longer do Spain and England passively benefit from others' colonization of the Americas, just by having those nodes feed to them. Now you have to fight for control of the WE node, which has no land and is thus controlled primarily by trade fleets. It also means that a strong naval power with no colonial ambition can still profit from the Americas by dominating the WE node. | WE node added to make it easier to route American trade. | [
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So in year 1-2, I had a nuclear meltdown because I placed a reactor too early. I then proceeded to bulldoze everything and wait out the radiation with the help of Speedbooster, hoping to start over again once the radiation subsided.
I monitored the radiation over the course of time, and these are my results. The majority of it subsides around year 150, but I have yet to see it completely go away.
I'm now on year 180, and it looks like it hasn't changed at all. Oh well. | Don't have a nuclear reactor melt down due to unskilled workers. I now have a disgusting map that I can't use in my region :( | [
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I haven't used my Steam account in nearly 5 years and finally dusted of my copy of Orange Box only to realise I have no Idea what my steam User ID was or which email account I used to try and recover it.
Ended up emailing Steam Support and those guys really came through, took about a week to get my ID back but it was worth the wait. This is how customer service should be handled, don't penalise your customer or fan, build a relationship with them so they say nice things about you.
Always thought people just had a gabe-oner because VALVE, glad to see that it's for a good reason.
Thank You, Steam!
Ps. Check the links to see my whole conversation with Steam Tech Support | I used steam after about 5 years, didn't have my User ID or know which email account. They did some checking and told me my ID | [
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Greetings brothers in iron. I'm going to share with you some brief insight on the way that we look at ourselves, and the impact it has.
I just got home from the gym
and I'm doing my usual mirror flex, 'mirin my gainz and what not. While I was going through the ritual I began to criticize myself more and more. Instead of appreciating my build I began to pick and poke at the flaws that, in reality, only I could notice. I began to feel worse and worse until I was just completely down on myself, and shot my own confidence.
That's when I decided to take a different approach at how I look at myself.
Instead of the usual outward approach, criticizing different muscles and mentally berating myself for whatever is lacking, I asked myself:
"Can my body do everything I want it to do?".
While I can do so much already, and I constantly rely on my body for so many things, it still can't do everything I want it to do. This is a very positive realization in disguise.
A little about myself- I am a rock-climber, and I love to hike and snowboard as well as hit the gym on a regular basis. All of these things require quite a bit of physical endurance, and training. I had to work hard to be at where I am now physically, and I still have more improvements to make. I am always setting new physical goals for myself, and continuously seek new challenges.
I feel positive knowing that I am able to do a ton of awesome stuff physically, and am on the right track to being able to do bigger and greater things.
It's completely normal to feel insecure about the way you look for guys and girls.
It's common for us to look in the mirror and think of all the ways we want to look different just for the sake of looking that way because we aren't happy with how we are.
Why not look in the mirror and instead of wishing your biceps were bigger, say "I want bigger biceps so that I can climb better, or stronger calves so I can hike further", or whatever it is you like to do. Think of the real life application of your muscles, and you will begin to appreciate them all the more.
Approaching my physical appearance from this angle made me feel positive about where I am now and what I've done to get here. It also further inspired and motivated me to better myself so that I can reach new physical peaks, and accomplish more difficult challenges. | Looking at yourself from a purely cosmetic pov will only ever disappoint, and is poor motivation. Instead realize what amazing things your body can already do, and ask yourself what more you want it to do for motivation to get there. | [
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"content": "Greetings brothers in iron. I'm going to share with you some brief insight on the way that we look at ourselves, and the impact it has. \n I just got home from the gym\nand I'm doing my usual mirror flex, 'mirin my gainz and what not. While I was going through the ritual I began to criticize myself more and more. Instead of appreciating my build I began to pick and poke at the flaws that, in reality, only I could notice. I began to feel worse and worse until I was just completely down on myself, and shot my own confidence. \n That's when I decided to take a different approach at how I look at myself.\nInstead of the usual outward approach, criticizing different muscles and mentally berating myself for whatever is lacking, I asked myself:\n\"Can my body do everything I want it to do?\". \n While I can do so much already, and I constantly rely on my body for so many things, it still can't do everything I want it to do. This is a very positive realization in disguise. \n A little about myself- I am a rock-climber, and I love to hike and snowboard as well as hit the gym on a regular basis. All of these things require quite a bit of physical endurance, and training. I had to work hard to be at where I am now physically, and I still have more improvements to make. I am always setting new physical goals for myself, and continuously seek new challenges. \n I feel positive knowing that I am able to do a ton of awesome stuff physically, and am on the right track to being able to do bigger and greater things. \n It's completely normal to feel insecure about the way you look for guys and girls.\nIt's common for us to look in the mirror and think of all the ways we want to look different just for the sake of looking that way because we aren't happy with how we are. \n Why not look in the mirror and instead of wishing your biceps were bigger, say \"I want bigger biceps so that I can climb better, or stronger calves so I can hike further\", or whatever it is you like to do. Think of the real life application of your muscles, and you will begin to appreciate them all the more. \n Approaching my physical appearance from this angle made me feel positive about where I am now and what I've done to get here. It also further inspired and motivated me to better myself so that I can reach new physical peaks, and accomplish more difficult challenges.",
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