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Hi everyone!
I'm sure everyone is enjoying the update but we need to have a talk.
I get that some people have pirated Minecraft Pocket Edition and are keen to get the latest release of the update from Installous or via other methods. I'm not here to lecture you on pirating and whatnot,(to be honest I don't care if you did) but I do request to keep those threads out of this subreddit. This subreddit is for in game creations, content and discussion of Minecraft Pocket Edition, not how and where to get the update via illegal methods. So from now on, if a post is created asking about the update download in an illegal method, it will be removed and the user will be warned.
Thanks and have a good night! I'm looking forward to what you guys make from the new update! | Keep discussion about piracy of MCPE out of the subreddit. | [
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wah :( wish i could have met you along my sexual travels!
i get the complete opposite of his comment! "too thick, no way, sorry" | never tried :( | [
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First off, bladed weapons require you to be close to your target, which gives them a pretty good chance of fending you off at the very least. Secondly, "replica" anything is meant to sit on a wall or on display and collect dust, any actual usage will likely result in your weapon breaking. | Don't. | [
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Okay, so there's this fancy new drink in town, called "matcha water."
It's not that hard. It's matcha. And water.
Sometimes cream.
and cinnamon powder.
Some people like heavy cream.
And classic.
We get DOZENS of these orders per day at my store (apparently a hot-spot for this revolution--since the store 5 miles down the road gets maybe one a week, and the one 4 miles the other way had never even heard of such a thing.)
The drink comes to like.... 65 cents. Because all you charge for is matcha.
It's not necessarily that it's a drink that makes the green cloud of matchadeath fill the air. It's not so much the scooping a precise amount into hot (or cold!) cups and swirling it around until every little lump is melted.
It's the smugness .
It's the groups of five or six college girls who come in and grin at me like they've beaten the system and i'm the poor sap who has to weep at the tiny total on the POS.
Three separate people have confided that they are the masterminds behind such a great, cheap beverage, and that we should just name it what they want and put it on the menu.
Of course their versions are all slightly different.
"Can i have one of my matcha waters?"
"Oh sure, yours is with the cinnamon powd---"
'NO, that's disgusting. Five scoops of matcha, STEAMED IN A LITTLE BIT OF HOT WATER SO IT'S EXTRA CREAMY. Steam the cream too, please."
And then there's the girls that like to play super dumb and wait till i'm about to hand off the drink before they're like
giggle "you sweetened this, right? I wanted it sweetened."
me: "We have a bunch of different sweeteners over on the condiment ba---"
"No!" giggle It's supposed to have that syrup stuff you use. I asked for it at the register.
Me: checks the cup, sees no such marking
And the grins continue.
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So I'm really stupid, really. I don't know how to feel but I'm just getting this off my chest.
Boyfriend of five and a half years is the only one working through Christmas. He makes good money, but it's been tight. This isn't about money. I've been unemployed for a few months due to mental illness and really needing to quit my last job, which made me cry in rage every time I left, and during work at least once a week. It was a huge mess. Quit to get away.
My mother gave me a hundred dollars to spend for Christmas, right before Thanksgiving. I already knew what I wanted to get my boyfriend (fiance, though no rings yet, but plans for marriage) as he has several hobbies and I pay attention to what he says about these hobbies. I feel as if I put a great deal of attention into what he talks about and have at least a solid basic understanding of what he enjoys about these hobbies. I bought him a Warhammer plane that he's been wanting for months. It was close to the 100 dollars.
The other gifts he, of course, had to buy. I only have my family to buy for, only about 7 people, and he has his family plus a group of good friends he decided to buy for.
For a month I helped him pick and choose which gifts to buy his friends, though he pretty much knew exactly what he wanted to buy each of them. He got them all rather personal gifts, things he thought of and was super happy about buying them. He hates buying gift cards because he sees them as lazy and he doesn't want to seem impersonal to his friends and family.
A week before Christmas we finish our shopping for everyone. He knows that I got him something a few weeks before.
The week of Christmas, he leaves work early - he works a job that only keeps people working if needed, they can get an EO (Early Out) if they put themselves on the list to leave. He leaves work early all four days that he worked, working only three or four hours a day. He visits his friend after work, no big deal. It's right down the street and I just don't mind at all. I'm super happy through the season, glad he can take a break from his busy days at work. We're flying through life since he paid off his expensive debt that is his car, and we're pretty much well off at this point in our lives.
So comes Christmas Eve, he's off as it's his normal day off. Then he tells me, "I have to leave, and find you something for Christmas."
Uh... what?
It's not like he didn't have time. It's not like I don't have hobbies that are easily accessible. We live in a large town, no reason to worry about getting "to town" to shop or whatever. Department stores here are open until midnight, some are 24 hours within the few days before Christmas. He had time. He had money.
I'm worried now, but I thought, okay, he must know what he wants to get me. There's no way. We've been shopping together, I tell him things that I see that I like. I'm actually getting excited, thinking this way. It's great, I'm going to get something great from this man that I love so much. He's been so thoughtful of everyone, super worried about if everyone will like what he gets them. He's shown me so much, that he's confident and cool. I've known this, we've been living together for four years now.
Christmas Eve evening comes, he's been home a few hours now. Everyone else has gone to bed, and we're alone. I'm super excited, and he seems to be too. So I suggest we open each others gifts that night. He says he has to get mine from the car, and that it's not wrapped. I laugh, I don't care. I want him to open his gift and be happy. I'm really proud of what I get him. Like glowing. I never have confidence, and I'm always in a bad mood in my head, so this is a big deal.
(I'm angry crying right now. This sucks.)
I get his present from the tree and bring it to our bedroom, he goes out to get my present from the car. I come back, his gift wrapped, ribboned, and a small "I love you" note on the tag. Like how lame, but whatever. I have him open it, I get a huge smile, a huge hug, and a huge kiss.
He hands me his gift, and in a small Ulta bag is a gift card.
A GIFT CARD.
For years I've had to hear him complain to me when I suggest getting some of the more difficult people gift cards. For countless holidays, birthdays, special occasions. For family members that are difficult to buy for because they own everything and they literally don't need anything. He complains, fights, and feels defeated if we ever buy gift cards for, say, my grandparents, who can actually use them.
But I get a gift card. From this man that I love, appreciate, adore, and do everything for. I feel drained. I put in 100% effort and I feel like I got maybe 10% back. He tells me he went to one store, that store, walked around for like 20 minutes and couldn't decide what to get me.
I feel so torn apart, and so angry. I don't usually get angry at him like this, but he's never really given me a reason to.
I brought it up today because it was really bumming me out and he finally noticed, but it was minutes before he walked out the door to go to work and we never got a chance to really talk about it. Just angry texts from him telling me how ungrateful I am.
This sucks huge donkey balls. I don't know how to feel. Posting here because I'm not looking for advice, per se, but if you want to add anything, feel free. I guess I can talk to someone about this. | Fiance, whom hates giving gift cards, has a great and thoughtful Christmas planned for everyone else, gets a great Christmas present from me, and gives me a gift card. The day before Christmas. | [
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It was close to the 100 dollars. \n The other gifts he, of course, had to buy. I only have my family to buy for, only about 7 people, and he has his family plus a group of good friends he decided to buy for. \n For a month I helped him pick and choose which gifts to buy his friends, though he pretty much knew exactly what he wanted to buy each of them. He got them all rather personal gifts, things he thought of and was super happy about buying them. He hates buying gift cards because he sees them as lazy and he doesn't want to seem impersonal to his friends and family. \n A week before Christmas we finish our shopping for everyone. He knows that I got him something a few weeks before. \n The week of Christmas, he leaves work early - he works a job that only keeps people working if needed, they can get an EO (Early Out) if they put themselves on the list to leave. He leaves work early all four days that he worked, working only three or four hours a day. He visits his friend after work, no big deal. It's right down the street and I just don't mind at all. I'm super happy through the season, glad he can take a break from his busy days at work. We're flying through life since he paid off his expensive debt that is his car, and we're pretty much well off at this point in our lives. \n So comes Christmas Eve, he's off as it's his normal day off. Then he tells me, \"I have to leave, and find you something for Christmas.\" \n Uh... what? \n It's not like he didn't have time. It's not like I don't have hobbies that are easily accessible. We live in a large town, no reason to worry about getting \"to town\" to shop or whatever. Department stores here are open until midnight, some are 24 hours within the few days before Christmas. He had time. He had money. \n I'm worried now, but I thought, okay, he must know what he wants to get me. There's no way. We've been shopping together, I tell him things that I see that I like. I'm actually getting excited, thinking this way. It's great, I'm going to get something great from this man that I love so much. He's been so thoughtful of everyone, super worried about if everyone will like what he gets them. He's shown me so much, that he's confident and cool. I've known this, we've been living together for four years now. \n Christmas Eve evening comes, he's been home a few hours now. Everyone else has gone to bed, and we're alone. I'm super excited, and he seems to be too. So I suggest we open each others gifts that night. He says he has to get mine from the car, and that it's not wrapped. I laugh, I don't care. I want him to open his gift and be happy. I'm really proud of what I get him. Like glowing. I never have confidence, and I'm always in a bad mood in my head, so this is a big deal. \n (I'm angry crying right now. This sucks.) \n I get his present from the tree and bring it to our bedroom, he goes out to get my present from the car. I come back, his gift wrapped, ribboned, and a small \"I love you\" note on the tag. Like how lame, but whatever. I have him open it, I get a huge smile, a huge hug, and a huge kiss. \n He hands me his gift, and in a small Ulta bag is a gift card. \n A GIFT CARD. \n For years I've had to hear him complain to me when I suggest getting some of the more difficult people gift cards. For countless holidays, birthdays, special occasions. For family members that are difficult to buy for because they own everything and they literally don't need anything. He complains, fights, and feels defeated if we ever buy gift cards for, say, my grandparents, who can actually use them. \n But I get a gift card. From this man that I love, appreciate, adore, and do everything for. I feel drained. I put in 100% effort and I feel like I got maybe 10% back. He tells me he went to one store, that store, walked around for like 20 minutes and couldn't decide what to get me. \n I feel so torn apart, and so angry. I don't usually get angry at him like this, but he's never really given me a reason to. \n I brought it up today because it was really bumming me out and he finally noticed, but it was minutes before he walked out the door to go to work and we never got a chance to really talk about it. Just angry texts from him telling me how ungrateful I am. \n This sucks huge donkey balls. I don't know how to feel. Posting here because I'm not looking for advice, per se, but if you want to add anything, feel free. I guess I can talk to someone about this.",
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They cannot represent themselves. They must be represented."
-Karl Marx
For decades, the gold-standard in political organization has been what I will call the top-down approach. This approach is centered on a belief in the need for a small group of experts (also known as a vanguard) with intimate knowledge of the esoteric sciences of history and political action.
Take a second and marvel at the efficiency of this: you get a few competent people together who craft a message, delegate the responsibilities and organize political actions. Before you know it, you've got quite the positive feedback loop going: your vanguard is organized into a Politburo that calls for ever-larger and more daring actions which will match the predictions of that vanguard. When it actually works, they start to get momentum and success breeds success. Authority and proof go hand in hand. They feed off one another. The ideology is true because the authorities say it is true and the authorities are authorities because they mouth the ideology. What ties it all together is the ability of authority and ideology to feed off of proof that they themselves produce.
Now, let's go back to some of those doubts and negative associations. Anyone who has been involved in activism has run into groups whose process is--despite claims to the contrary--basically like this. They probably have public meetings, but the agenda and organizational priorities are agreed upon in advance. You go to these meetings and it just seems like dropping a turd in the punch bowl to contradict anything. That's because the point of the meeting is to produce the sense of correspondence between authority and proof (the masses want what the leadership wants)--not to reflect its existence. Of course, this isn't Soviet Russia so no one's forcing you to go to that kind of a meeting. Most won't bother--which means that, practically, much of the activist community consists of small, ineffectual cadres of wanna-be vanguardists or people who are so disillusioned they don't even bother showing up to meetings at all. Such individuals and groups are prone to earnest conversations about how to engage “the masses.”
Enter the global justice movement with its emphasis on general assemblies, process, and leaderless forms of social organization. On the one hand, they aren't so prone to the kind of positive feedback loop where mobilization can be achieved cleanly and rapidly. A “mic check” will not lead to a decision the way ten people in a room and some iteration of Roger’s rules of order will. At the same time, there isn’t the same danger of a negative feedback loop in which the movement becomes increasingly divorced from reality due to its reliance on highly coordinated pageants designed to validate particular authorities and beliefs as forms of self-orientation—which in the face of discordant information eventually render its members more and more uncertain and more and more unable to do much of anything. Frankly, I would argue that this is about where we stand with our mainstream top-down organizations (governments, corporations, political parties) at this point anyway: they’re too confused and scared to actually do anything to save themselves while a small cadre of crooks robs everyone blind. It’s actually surprisingly reminiscent of Eastern Europe before the fall. The major institutions are effectively on autopilot: doing what they’ve been doing simply because doing anything else would require authority or proof that cannot be created within their closed systems.
The question we need to ask ourselves is whether we, at this moment, want to throw in with another top-down group and ideology that (we hope) is on the right trajectory or do we want to take a chance on developing new democratic processes in the hopes of creating more nimble and, perhaps, more representative forms of social organization. When I say nimble I don’t mean nimble in the 24-hour cable/goldfish conception of time (top-down organizations are quite good at this actually) but in terms of reasonable 5-10 year time horizons. If we can evaluate the movement on this scale, I’d say we’re doing quite well so far. | Marx was wrong | [
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Sexual reproduction enclosed within membranes". This includes all animals (fish, reptiles, sponges, mammals, birds, dinosaurs...), plants, fungi and some unicellular eukaryotes called protists.
"The first fossilized evidence of sexual reproduction in Eukaryotes is from the Stenian period, about 1 to 1.2 billion years ago"
Sexual reproduction can take place in a variety of ways, but two main distinction can be made. Sexual reproduction that is external to the parental individuals (e.g. most frogs or fish) or sexual reproduction that takes place internally (e.g. mammals including humans). The wikipedia page on sexual selection provides an excellent overview of the different kinds of sexual reproduction methods.
The opposite of sexual reproduction is [asexual reproduction]( which "is a mode of reproduction by which offspring arise from a single organism, and inherit the genes of that parent only; it is reproduction which almost never involves ploidy or reduction. The offspring will be exact genetic copies of the parent, except in the specific case of automixis. A more stringent definition is agamogenesis which is reproduction without the fusion of gametes. Asexual reproduction is the primary form of reproduction for single-celled organisms such as the archaebacteria, eubacteria, and protists. Many plants and fungi [can] reproduce asexually as well." | Sex started ~1 billion years ago | [
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So today at work (hookah bar) i was cutting a pineapple to make a fruit head for a customer, but much to my misfortune the tool we use to core such large fruit was gone. so i attempted to use the big blade we use to slice the fruit in half and take the leaves off the pineapples. After the first few tries realizing it wouldnt cut through the center all the way to the end i used a longer thinner blade then i realized the way i was cutting from wouldn't of reached all the way regardless so i placed the fruit on its side and tried again. The blade got stuck and i gave it a bit of a push. I had alot of customers waiting for fresh coals so i might of unconsciously added to much pressure (since i lost a sale last night cause i was too busy with a picky party to help them and was afraid it would be a repeat case). once the fruit gave away i felt a sharp jab in my finger thibking i might of nicked it and decided to continue making the last touches that was until i saw the red tip sticking out of the pineapple and the too red to be shisha oil droplets on the table i had cut not knicked cut my finger open not enough to need stitches but enough to where if i took off my bandages it'll still bleed fortunately the nurse in the family was able to patch me up and i was able to properly make the pineapple once my coworker told m3 how to do it with a different tool | Ex-employees took back their coring tool and i slit my finger open cause i tried using a knife but was able to finish with tongs and got patched up | [
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Rite Aid -- specifically their pharmacy. Always a ridiculously long wait for prescriptions. But the kicker was when they were putting my prescriptions on my mother's health insurance...it's an easy mistake, because I have the same name as my mother. So I went to correct the mistake. I handed them my insurance card, told them my birth date and asked them to correct the info in the computer. They told me that the information they had was correct and they didn't need it. I explained what was happening, and they said no, we're doing it right, and you are wrong. After a little arguing I gave up.
Then this unrelated incident happened -- my dad had surgery and was coming home; my mom went to Rite Aid to fill his prescriptions including pain meds. They told her she didn't have a prescription plan so she would have to pay for the meds...which wasn't true. She even had the insurance fax Rite Aid proof of insurance, and they said no, you don't have a prescription plan. My mom, fed up, asked for the scripts back so she could go somewhere else AND THEY WOULDN'T GIVE THEM TO HER. So now my mom is stuck -- my dad is at home after surgery needing meds, and she can't get them. She had to throw a big fit to get the scripts back. After that we all swore never to go to Rite Aid again. | Rite Aid Pharmacy sucks. | [
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Before I start, a little background knowledge should be known about me. I am a seventeen year old male high school senior of average height, average weight, and average appearance.
It all started in the year 2009. I was in my first year of junior high, so I met a lot of new people that came from different elementary schools. That is where I met Joan (this isn't her real name). I had the biggest crush on her for so long, but before I was able to confess to her my feelings, she got a boyfriend. The guy she dated was a stereotypical douche bag jock type (not saying all jocks are, in fact I have a lot of friends that play sports). Eventually, Joan and I started talking and we became friends. We used to hang out quite a bit.
She dated that guy for three years, and then at the beginning of sophomore year in high school, they broke up. He threatened to kill her, and he even sexually abused her near the end of their relationship together. She dropped out of traditional high school that year, and still to this day does online schooling. On top of that, later in the year her father became mentally unstable. He pulled a gun on a policeman in a suicide attempt, but he somehow survived the shoot out. Her dad is now in jail for the rest of his life. I'm telling you all this stuff to show you how she has gained trust issues over the years when it comes to men and relationships.
It was near the end of my junior year in high school when Joan and I reconnected. She just messaged me on Facebook one day, and asked if I was interested in hanging out with her sometime. I said sure, and then when we did hang out, we hit it off. At the time, I was not looking for a relationship. I was busy with all the college classes I was taking, and I didn't think I was good enough for anyone. I was wrong though, and on May 26, 2014, Joan and I were officially a couple.
I loved the feeling I got when I was around her. She made me feel special, and I'm sure I made her feel special as well. I was nothing but nice to her, and I respected her values. This was my first real relationship. I mean, I've had my flings in the past, but I never have cared deeply about anyone like I have cared about her. I still don't know if I love her though.
Eventually the summer came, and we hung out almost every day. We were practically inseparable. I thought we would be together for a long time. I never wanted her to leave. She told me things that she said she has never told anyone else before. That made me feel like I wasn't just anyone, and that I meant something special to her.
Well, naturally, all this had to come to an end. She broke up with me over a text message two weeks ago on September 1, 2014. It hit me like a truck. Never have I ever been so distraught about anything before. Here are the break up texts:
Joan: Ok so don't take this the wrong way, but I have so much going on right now that my head is feeling like it's going to explode. There are so many things that I need to focus on right now. I haven't been in a relationship in over two years and the last time it destroyed me. It really impacted the way I feel about being with someone. I have huge trust issues. I'm not good with putting titles on things and it puts pressure on me. I really like you but I need to take a step back because having a relationship is stressing me out. I'd still like to hang out and talk because I really enjoy spending time with you, but without the title of being in a relationship. I need to take things slow if that's ok and if not, I'm sincerely sorry and hope that you can forgive me.
Me: I understand. I'm sure it did destroy you, and I'm sorry for that. you're right, there are more important things you should be focusing on right now. I can only imagine how much damage that relationship did. I haven't had a serious relationship like that before, so I will try and relate to the best of my abilities. To be honest, I kind of rushed the relationship on you, and I feel bad for it. I put unneeded pressure on you. For that, I am sorry. Taking things slow is good. There's no rush. I really like you too, and haven't felt this way about anyone before. In fact, I don't even believe you have a reason to be forgiven. You are totally justified in your actions. It is I who should be asking for forgiveness. I still want to hang out with you as well. Sorry for the novel.
Joan: You have no reason to be sorry at all. You cannot imagine how relieved I am that you aren't mad at me. So you're ok with just being friends?
Me: I feel like I do. I'm not mad at you, just mad at myself. This is going to sound dumb, but what do you mean by being just friends? I still like you... Do you like me?
Joan: I'm not sure how to explain being friends. I do have feelings for you but I want to act how friends act. I don't know if that makes sense.
Me: It does make sense. If you really don't have feelings for me, you can tell me.
Joan: I do. but all I can be right now is a friend.
Me: Alright that's fine by me. :)
Joan: I'm glad. :)
Me: Sorry for making things hard for you. I know what you said took a lot of courage, and put a lot of unneeded stress on you. I keep saying sorry... :)
Joan: You shouldn't be sorry for anything. I'm just glad you understand. :)
Me: Well I am. I understand, but I'm still fucked up on the inside currently. I'll get over it though. :)
Joan: I'm sorry.
Me: I have feelings for you, and I haven't put the effort into anyone in a long time. When you came along, I tried, and I put in the effort for you. I really like you. It just crushed me. I feel like you probably should have told me you weren't ready for a relationship. I just want to say what's on my mind. Is there any possibility of us being together in the future when we're ready for it?
Joan: I thought I was ready, but I found out I wasn't. I don't know, but it is a possibility.
Me: That makes sense. I got my hopes up, and they got shot down. I feel awful. I'm sorry for saying that, but that's how I really feel. I do however mean what I said earlier where I understand where you're coming from. I just want to know for sure so that way I don't have false hope. I feel like I'm ranting to you. How do you feel about this?
Joan: I can't say if it will happen or not. All I know is I'm not capable of having a relationship for a while.
Me: I know that. I feel like this conversation we are having would have been better in person. I'll be honest, I am mad. I'm sorry I didn't say that flat out, I just feel bad saying that. I think you deserve to know how I truly feel though. I am mad and very upset. I consider myself a cheerful person, but honestly right now I feel terrible. Anyway, I am sure you're done with talking about this. Sorry if this makes you feel like shit. I still care about you a lot, and like you a lot. I hope we can be together again in the future. You make me happy. Typing this out has made me feel a lot better about this whole thing. I won't be down for too long so please don't worry. :)
Joan: I can't say sorry enough. I'm going to bed... Goodnight.
Three days later, I couldn't hold it in any longer. I sent her the longest text I have ever sent anyone before. Here it is, and here are her replies:
Me: Over the past couple of days, all I've been thinking about is what our relationship could have been. I like to consider myself a content person. I have not been the same ever since you broke up with me. I feel void of emotion. Essentially numb. I detest that feeling. It makes life a chore, and not enjoyable at all. When I was with you, I felt alive. It felt like I finally had a purpose in life, and it was to make you happy. I know you definitely don't want to be hearing this right now, because I bet you just want to move on and forget about all that happened just start fresh as friends. part of me feels that way too, but I think you're worth it. I know you have been hurt int he past, and that makes me so sad. You do not deserve that. I will try my hardest to never hurt you. All my friends expect me to be mad at you, but I just can't do that. I'm mad at myself for rushing things with you. I know I have apologized for that before, but I will do it again. Sorry for making things stressful for you, and giving you anxiety. Even this novel I'm writing will be hard. I honestly didn't want to say any of these things, because I know it will further complicated things for you and stress you out maybe even more than originally. I just can't keep these feelings bottled up anymore. Look I know we were only briefly together, but in that short time I have never been happier. I kept feeling like all of this was too good to be true. Unfortunately, it was. I still don't want to face the reality of it, which is kind of proof why I'm even still trying. I know you have a difficult time trusting people, and you are completely justified in that. I can only imagine how devastating it must have been for you to be betrayed by someone you cared deeply for. I myself do have a bit of trust issues, which is why I never put myself out there and try for relationships with anybody. You were an exception. You were special. I can't even describe the feeling I got when I spent time with you. It was excellent. I felt happy even hearing your voice. Remember how I would always sigh? Well, I did that because I knew all this would eventually end, and it pained me deep inside. When it finally did end, I thought I had been preparing myself to be hurt. But nothing could have prepared me for how I felt, and am still feeling. No matter how much I try to forget and move on, there's just some part of me that won't let me. You showed me that some people are worth letting int your life. I felt so special when you told me how you watched Barbie movies when you are sick. It uplifted me. Made me feel like you trusted me. I have so much respect for you. Everything you have been through is so hard, and the fact that you are still smiling everyday makes you truly dauntless. I thought I could take difficult things well, but apparently I can't. Hell, I'm still even sad about my cat that died five god damn years ago. It's pathetic honestly. I think very highly of you, and I admire your drive. I am trying so hard to be like you in that sense, but I can't. I like how we had a lot in common. It made talking to you always a pleasure. I liked hearing what you had to say about everything. You are one of the most interesting people I've ever met. You are also very kind to others, and that makes you a very special person. Writing this text took a few tries, and by the time you are reading it, a lot of things will be moved around and changed. All this started out as a note in my phone, just me jotting down how I felt about all this, but then I decided to turn this into a novella. Relationships are messy and people's feelings get hurt. I get that now, and to be honest, I didn't really know what I was signing up for when I asked you out. I actually don't think I'm ready for a relationship either currently. I just figured that if I didn't ask you out soon, then you would get tired of me and find someone else. I rushed it on you, without asking how you felt about it beforehand. I may not be ready now either, but in the future I would most definitely like to be with you. The prospect of a relationship is actually kind of frightening when you think about it. It requires quite the high degree of trust on both parties involved. I have a request; if/when we both are ready, would you like to give this relationship another shot? There really is no rush. After all, we both are quite young if you think about it. There's plenty of time in the future for relationships. Right now, I would just like to be friends with you, and see where life takes us. Anyways, I'm quite sorry for the length of this text. I have never sent anything this long before. I'm tired, so I'm going to get some sleep. Goodnight!
Joan: I've never cried so hard while reading a text. I cannot tell you how unbearably awful I feel for making you feel this way. I've never had someone care so much for me, and to be honest it's quite scary. Relationships are hard because you have to focus on yourself and another person. I cannot do them because I'm still working on me. You are probably the best friend I have ever had. I cannot speak to whether we will be in a relationship again because I'm still working on what i'm doing right now, but I want you in my life as a friend. I think so highly of you. You are so thoughtful and kind hearted. I can be myself and be completely comfortable, which is an incredible thing. You listen to me ramble on about stupid things, but you never complain. You've made me more confident in myself and my abilities. If we are friends I don't want you to expect a relationship and it worries me that you will. bit if you are willing to see past that I would love nothing more for you to be a part of my life. You are probably asleep, so goodnight and sweet dreams.
I'm still not sure how I feel about her response. Since that night, I have been trying to make casual conversation with her, but after a few texts she ignores me. This caused me to be very confused, because she told me I was her closest friend, and that she wanted me in her life. So, four hours ago I sent her this:
You say that I am your closest friend, and that you appreciate me, and that is something meaningful to me. Yet, in my opinion, your actions do not back up your words. It is my understanding that how I feel about you is not reciprocated. I know you don't want a relationship, and I can understand and respect that. I just want to be your friend. You say you still want to talk, but yet you choose to not respond to me after a few texts. This is confusing to me. If you do not want to talk to me anymore, please just tell me. I try my best to be a reasonable person. Some people who I have told my situation to have told me to just move on and stop talking to you. I don't believe I could bring myself to do that. I still really care for you, and I care about how you feel. As I said earlier, I know you don't want a relationship right now, but yet yous till post tweets saying that you want someone to cuddle with, or be affectionate with. In all honesty, that makes me even more confused. You claimed that you still had feelings for me when you broke up with me. If that were the case, wouldn't you still want me to cuddle you, and show you affection? There are so many unanswered questions I have right now, and I highly doubt I will get the resolve to ask you any of them. My mind keeps going in circles. On the one hand, I want to be there for you and be your friend, but on this other hand it would kill me to see you with someone else. i got wasted last night. Yes, I actually got drunk. Four cans of beer, and probably fifteen shots of Rum. I thought that would help me cope with my confusion a little more, but it kind of made it worse. It reminded me of the promise I made to you that you were going to be the first person I got drunk with. I probably won't end up sharing any of these thoughts to you, but if I do, I hope you understand where I am coming from. This is how I actually feel. I thought you were entitled to know my thoughts that have been going on in my head the past couple days. the purpose of this message is just to better understand you, and your feelings. I hate not knowing things so much. That is why I am so skeptical about every single aspect in life. Though at some points I may sound a bit cross with you in this novel, I am not. I really am not mad at you in the least bit, I'm just trying to understand and gain some peace of mind. I still mean everything I have ever said to you. I feel like this message is even further proof of how confused I am. In the words of Led Zeppelin, "I've been dazed and confused for so long it's not true." Lyrics are cheesy, I know, but still. One does not simply pass up the opportunity to quote Zeppelin. As I have mentioned multiple times, I most likely won't send this. I'm probably going to show a couple of close friends this, and ask them their thoughts on it. Maybe I won't even show them. I've been badgering both them and you too much recently. Lately I feel like I've been doing nothing but being a little whiney bitch to them, and I am forever grateful for their patience and sincere understanding. Is sincerity too much to ask for from you? Now, that sounds like bitter feelings, but I'm just letting you know what is going on in my head that I've been too scared to say to you, or anyone else for that matter. I hope I eventually get the courage to send this to you, because I am really scared of what you might think. I apologize for again opening your closed and/or healing wounds. Two novels sent to you in a span of two weeks is honestly pathetic, and it shows my weakness as a human being. In closing, I would like to say that I know you will find true happiness, and I know you are going to do great things. You're a wonderful person who deserves the most glorious of things that this life can offer.
She still has not responded, and I know she has been on her phone because she has tweeted some. So, what do are your thoughts on all this? I know it's a lot to read, but there's lots of info in it. | My girlfriend dumped me over a text, and I am wondering if I should move on or keep trying. | [
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She dropped out of traditional high school that year, and still to this day does online schooling. On top of that, later in the year her father became mentally unstable. He pulled a gun on a policeman in a suicide attempt, but he somehow survived the shoot out. Her dad is now in jail for the rest of his life. I'm telling you all this stuff to show you how she has gained trust issues over the years when it comes to men and relationships. \n It was near the end of my junior year in high school when Joan and I reconnected. She just messaged me on Facebook one day, and asked if I was interested in hanging out with her sometime. I said sure, and then when we did hang out, we hit it off. At the time, I was not looking for a relationship. I was busy with all the college classes I was taking, and I didn't think I was good enough for anyone. I was wrong though, and on May 26, 2014, Joan and I were officially a couple. \n I loved the feeling I got when I was around her. She made me feel special, and I'm sure I made her feel special as well. I was nothing but nice to her, and I respected her values. This was my first real relationship. I mean, I've had my flings in the past, but I never have cared deeply about anyone like I have cared about her. I still don't know if I love her though. \n Eventually the summer came, and we hung out almost every day. We were practically inseparable. I thought we would be together for a long time. I never wanted her to leave. She told me things that she said she has never told anyone else before. That made me feel like I wasn't just anyone, and that I meant something special to her. \n Well, naturally, all this had to come to an end. She broke up with me over a text message two weeks ago on September 1, 2014. It hit me like a truck. Never have I ever been so distraught about anything before. Here are the break up texts: \n Joan: Ok so don't take this the wrong way, but I have so much going on right now that my head is feeling like it's going to explode. There are so many things that I need to focus on right now. I haven't been in a relationship in over two years and the last time it destroyed me. It really impacted the way I feel about being with someone. I have huge trust issues. I'm not good with putting titles on things and it puts pressure on me. I really like you but I need to take a step back because having a relationship is stressing me out. I'd still like to hang out and talk because I really enjoy spending time with you, but without the title of being in a relationship. I need to take things slow if that's ok and if not, I'm sincerely sorry and hope that you can forgive me. \n Me: I understand. I'm sure it did destroy you, and I'm sorry for that. you're right, there are more important things you should be focusing on right now. I can only imagine how much damage that relationship did. I haven't had a serious relationship like that before, so I will try and relate to the best of my abilities. To be honest, I kind of rushed the relationship on you, and I feel bad for it. I put unneeded pressure on you. For that, I am sorry. Taking things slow is good. There's no rush. I really like you too, and haven't felt this way about anyone before. In fact, I don't even believe you have a reason to be forgiven. You are totally justified in your actions. It is I who should be asking for forgiveness. I still want to hang out with you as well. Sorry for the novel. \n Joan: You have no reason to be sorry at all. You cannot imagine how relieved I am that you aren't mad at me. So you're ok with just being friends? \n Me: I feel like I do. I'm not mad at you, just mad at myself. This is going to sound dumb, but what do you mean by being just friends? I still like you... Do you like me? \n Joan: I'm not sure how to explain being friends. I do have feelings for you but I want to act how friends act. I don't know if that makes sense. \n Me: It does make sense. If you really don't have feelings for me, you can tell me. \n Joan: I do. but all I can be right now is a friend. \n Me: Alright that's fine by me. :) \n Joan: I'm glad. :) \n Me: Sorry for making things hard for you. I know what you said took a lot of courage, and put a lot of unneeded stress on you. I keep saying sorry... :) \n Joan: You shouldn't be sorry for anything. I'm just glad you understand. :) \n Me: Well I am. I understand, but I'm still fucked up on the inside currently. I'll get over it though. :) \n Joan: I'm sorry. \n Me: I have feelings for you, and I haven't put the effort into anyone in a long time. When you came along, I tried, and I put in the effort for you. I really like you. It just crushed me. I feel like you probably should have told me you weren't ready for a relationship. I just want to say what's on my mind. Is there any possibility of us being together in the future when we're ready for it? \n Joan: I thought I was ready, but I found out I wasn't. I don't know, but it is a possibility. \n Me: That makes sense. I got my hopes up, and they got shot down. I feel awful. I'm sorry for saying that, but that's how I really feel. I do however mean what I said earlier where I understand where you're coming from. I just want to know for sure so that way I don't have false hope. I feel like I'm ranting to you. How do you feel about this? \n Joan: I can't say if it will happen or not. All I know is I'm not capable of having a relationship for a while. \n Me: I know that. I feel like this conversation we are having would have been better in person. I'll be honest, I am mad. I'm sorry I didn't say that flat out, I just feel bad saying that. I think you deserve to know how I truly feel though. I am mad and very upset. I consider myself a cheerful person, but honestly right now I feel terrible. Anyway, I am sure you're done with talking about this. Sorry if this makes you feel like shit. I still care about you a lot, and like you a lot. I hope we can be together again in the future. You make me happy. Typing this out has made me feel a lot better about this whole thing. I won't be down for too long so please don't worry. :) \n Joan: I can't say sorry enough. I'm going to bed... Goodnight. \n Three days later, I couldn't hold it in any longer. I sent her the longest text I have ever sent anyone before. Here it is, and here are her replies: \n Me: Over the past couple of days, all I've been thinking about is what our relationship could have been. I like to consider myself a content person. I have not been the same ever since you broke up with me. I feel void of emotion. Essentially numb. I detest that feeling. It makes life a chore, and not enjoyable at all. When I was with you, I felt alive. It felt like I finally had a purpose in life, and it was to make you happy. I know you definitely don't want to be hearing this right now, because I bet you just want to move on and forget about all that happened just start fresh as friends. part of me feels that way too, but I think you're worth it. I know you have been hurt int he past, and that makes me so sad. You do not deserve that. I will try my hardest to never hurt you. All my friends expect me to be mad at you, but I just can't do that. I'm mad at myself for rushing things with you. I know I have apologized for that before, but I will do it again. Sorry for making things stressful for you, and giving you anxiety. Even this novel I'm writing will be hard. I honestly didn't want to say any of these things, because I know it will further complicated things for you and stress you out maybe even more than originally. I just can't keep these feelings bottled up anymore. Look I know we were only briefly together, but in that short time I have never been happier. I kept feeling like all of this was too good to be true. Unfortunately, it was. I still don't want to face the reality of it, which is kind of proof why I'm even still trying. I know you have a difficult time trusting people, and you are completely justified in that. I can only imagine how devastating it must have been for you to be betrayed by someone you cared deeply for. I myself do have a bit of trust issues, which is why I never put myself out there and try for relationships with anybody. You were an exception. You were special. I can't even describe the feeling I got when I spent time with you. It was excellent. I felt happy even hearing your voice. Remember how I would always sigh? Well, I did that because I knew all this would eventually end, and it pained me deep inside. When it finally did end, I thought I had been preparing myself to be hurt. But nothing could have prepared me for how I felt, and am still feeling. No matter how much I try to forget and move on, there's just some part of me that won't let me. You showed me that some people are worth letting int your life. I felt so special when you told me how you watched Barbie movies when you are sick. It uplifted me. Made me feel like you trusted me. I have so much respect for you. Everything you have been through is so hard, and the fact that you are still smiling everyday makes you truly dauntless. I thought I could take difficult things well, but apparently I can't. Hell, I'm still even sad about my cat that died five god damn years ago. It's pathetic honestly. I think very highly of you, and I admire your drive. I am trying so hard to be like you in that sense, but I can't. I like how we had a lot in common. It made talking to you always a pleasure. I liked hearing what you had to say about everything. You are one of the most interesting people I've ever met. You are also very kind to others, and that makes you a very special person. Writing this text took a few tries, and by the time you are reading it, a lot of things will be moved around and changed. All this started out as a note in my phone, just me jotting down how I felt about all this, but then I decided to turn this into a novella. Relationships are messy and people's feelings get hurt. I get that now, and to be honest, I didn't really know what I was signing up for when I asked you out. I actually don't think I'm ready for a relationship either currently. I just figured that if I didn't ask you out soon, then you would get tired of me and find someone else. I rushed it on you, without asking how you felt about it beforehand. I may not be ready now either, but in the future I would most definitely like to be with you. The prospect of a relationship is actually kind of frightening when you think about it. It requires quite the high degree of trust on both parties involved. I have a request; if/when we both are ready, would you like to give this relationship another shot? There really is no rush. After all, we both are quite young if you think about it. There's plenty of time in the future for relationships. Right now, I would just like to be friends with you, and see where life takes us. Anyways, I'm quite sorry for the length of this text. I have never sent anything this long before. I'm tired, so I'm going to get some sleep. Goodnight! \n Joan: I've never cried so hard while reading a text. I cannot tell you how unbearably awful I feel for making you feel this way. I've never had someone care so much for me, and to be honest it's quite scary. Relationships are hard because you have to focus on yourself and another person. I cannot do them because I'm still working on me. You are probably the best friend I have ever had. I cannot speak to whether we will be in a relationship again because I'm still working on what i'm doing right now, but I want you in my life as a friend. I think so highly of you. You are so thoughtful and kind hearted. I can be myself and be completely comfortable, which is an incredible thing. You listen to me ramble on about stupid things, but you never complain. You've made me more confident in myself and my abilities. If we are friends I don't want you to expect a relationship and it worries me that you will. bit if you are willing to see past that I would love nothing more for you to be a part of my life. You are probably asleep, so goodnight and sweet dreams. \n I'm still not sure how I feel about her response. Since that night, I have been trying to make casual conversation with her, but after a few texts she ignores me. This caused me to be very confused, because she told me I was her closest friend, and that she wanted me in her life. So, four hours ago I sent her this: \n You say that I am your closest friend, and that you appreciate me, and that is something meaningful to me. Yet, in my opinion, your actions do not back up your words. It is my understanding that how I feel about you is not reciprocated. I know you don't want a relationship, and I can understand and respect that. I just want to be your friend. You say you still want to talk, but yet you choose to not respond to me after a few texts. This is confusing to me. If you do not want to talk to me anymore, please just tell me. I try my best to be a reasonable person. Some people who I have told my situation to have told me to just move on and stop talking to you. I don't believe I could bring myself to do that. I still really care for you, and I care about how you feel. As I said earlier, I know you don't want a relationship right now, but yet yous till post tweets saying that you want someone to cuddle with, or be affectionate with. In all honesty, that makes me even more confused. You claimed that you still had feelings for me when you broke up with me. If that were the case, wouldn't you still want me to cuddle you, and show you affection? There are so many unanswered questions I have right now, and I highly doubt I will get the resolve to ask you any of them. My mind keeps going in circles. On the one hand, I want to be there for you and be your friend, but on this other hand it would kill me to see you with someone else. i got wasted last night. Yes, I actually got drunk. Four cans of beer, and probably fifteen shots of Rum. I thought that would help me cope with my confusion a little more, but it kind of made it worse. It reminded me of the promise I made to you that you were going to be the first person I got drunk with. I probably won't end up sharing any of these thoughts to you, but if I do, I hope you understand where I am coming from. This is how I actually feel. I thought you were entitled to know my thoughts that have been going on in my head the past couple days. the purpose of this message is just to better understand you, and your feelings. I hate not knowing things so much. That is why I am so skeptical about every single aspect in life. Though at some points I may sound a bit cross with you in this novel, I am not. I really am not mad at you in the least bit, I'm just trying to understand and gain some peace of mind. I still mean everything I have ever said to you. I feel like this message is even further proof of how confused I am. In the words of Led Zeppelin, \"I've been dazed and confused for so long it's not true.\" Lyrics are cheesy, I know, but still. One does not simply pass up the opportunity to quote Zeppelin. As I have mentioned multiple times, I most likely won't send this. I'm probably going to show a couple of close friends this, and ask them their thoughts on it. Maybe I won't even show them. I've been badgering both them and you too much recently. Lately I feel like I've been doing nothing but being a little whiney bitch to them, and I am forever grateful for their patience and sincere understanding. Is sincerity too much to ask for from you? Now, that sounds like bitter feelings, but I'm just letting you know what is going on in my head that I've been too scared to say to you, or anyone else for that matter. I hope I eventually get the courage to send this to you, because I am really scared of what you might think. I apologize for again opening your closed and/or healing wounds. Two novels sent to you in a span of two weeks is honestly pathetic, and it shows my weakness as a human being. In closing, I would like to say that I know you will find true happiness, and I know you are going to do great things. You're a wonderful person who deserves the most glorious of things that this life can offer. \n She still has not responded, and I know she has been on her phone because she has tweeted some. So, what do are your thoughts on all this? I know it's a lot to read, but there's lots of info in it.",
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I'm terrible with eating and I've realized on days where I wake up late or skip breakfast I'll start a chain reaction of not eating enough to feel good all day long.
My bad version is like this:
Wake up late and eat breakfasty stuff in late morning.
Delay on lunch because just ate a couple hours ago and medecine kills appetite
Forget about lunch or eat it too late even with accommodating (like 2 or 3)
Lunch coma kills next hour of productivity
Now it's 4'oclock. Feeling that limbo of things ending without me being ready for end of day. Get depressed.
Don't even get hungry till 7 or 8. Order food and eat around 9 or I make something that's too little food and get hungry again before bed. (first time I'm really hungry and want to eat all day).
I usually have a partner to keep me on track, but I'm on my own this week and the worst version of my natural habits is rearing it's head.
So, when you guys have gotten off track, but still want to save the day when it comes to food, what do you do? I'm struggling on figuring out what to eat that even sounds appetizing. Do I just brute force it or are their foods and tricks that help me catch up on nutrition and calories.
Thoughts from guys that hit the gym are welcome too. I go often when I'm scheduled and eating well, but on days when I'm off track it kills my motivation, plus I keep thinking it's already a wash since I haven't eaten enough. | Some days start on a bad track food-wise. What have you guys learned about getting back on track within the day? | [
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I bought the Battle Chest after losing my original dics. So I install. A yearish later, I had to reformat my computer. When I tried to re-install LoD, it wouldn't read the disc!
I thought that was a hopeless cause, as well. According to many forums, it was a frequent problem.
But my boyfriend at the time ended up getting me LoD for Christmas and it works perfectly! Hooray! | Go buy the Battle Chest at Wal Mart or something, it's fairly inexpensive. But watch out for the expansion pack if you ever have to re-install it again. | [
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Yes, let the hatred seep through you! Let it seep through you until you are overpowered by the kindness that stems from deep within. I shall take you with me on this journey and then you shall be the overlord of kindness, with me sitting by your side and helping you rule the Kingdom of the Happy! | let's be nerds together, you awesome dragon! :D | [
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Graves can beat almost all popular AD carries in lane easily right now.
The damage on his burst is on equal terms to Corki's.
He has a small AoE slow that provides a lot of utility in team fights. * He also has a small repositioning skill that is also a steroid.
His passive gives him innate tankiness, which makes it hard to harass him down if paired with someone with a heal.
So far from what I've seen, Graves/Soraka and Graves/Taric beats almost every duo on bot lane.
His laning phase is very very strong, which carries into midgame as well. His late game is still pretty good, compared to a few other AD carries.
Discuss. | I personally feel Graves outshines almost all ADCs right now.
And also, according to lolking.net, [Graves is the most played champion in all games accross all regions]( | [
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This. German newspapers last election were headlined Samaras or chaos for everyone. Every stupid journalist fuck that is taking money under the table will start shouting from today till the 25th to save our country and not vote for Syriza.
Things here are crooked beyond repair just think that Samaras left Nea Dhmokratia back in the 90's to make his own political party which created pretty much the immigration problem (not checking who is coming in since he gets a green card for a vote deal) . At that point he was shouting i'm not coming back in Nea Dimokratia even they made me the head of this party.Well , he did came back to fight PASOK not to sign the IMF plan and was popular (since around here everyone is either get paid to vote or is a complete media driven old person) once he made prime minister he is passionate about IMF deal and that would be the only solution from crisis. Then PASOK went down to shit after being the ones who signed the deal initially and decided that supporting Nea dimokratia is the way to go (because Greeks won't say what the fuck you just want to stay in power and you do not even have any political ideas whatsoever which comicly enough it was not said ).
Things were fucked up that's why people went for a fuck all and Golden Dawn went around 8% (now its pretty much everyone in jail).
So what has Gemany to do with all this? Nea dimokratia sells everything to German Companies (like the siemens scandal)the last incident was when signatures of Nea Dimkratia party very recently closed our healthy cotton companies to import cotton from Germany. Also, Gernany gets loans from IMF with way lower intrests than the loans they give to us because they are a better economy so that's more bucks from there.
Gemany gives us the money to pass by but they make a fuckton of money too. That's how correct buisness is made that's why they want Samaras because he is their man.
We must be media's scrapegoat to keep it going and that is what media tells people and i don't blame them for thinking us as beggars livng at Germany's pity. | Shit is fucked up.
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So the other day I was walking home from the bus stop at around 6.30 pm. It had been raining and was a bit chilly so I had my hood pulled up over my head and the roads were empty.
I'm above average in height (6'1) so I tend to walk a bit faster than most people and in particular the small Asian lady about 50 metres ahead of me.
As I was walking and listening to my music I started catching up to her and every 30s or so she would look back in my direction. I thought it was unusual but I didn't really think anything of it. I was about 5m behind her when she suddenly stepped of to the side, I carried on past her and when I turned around I saw she had started walking again.
When I reached home later I realized she must have been worried I was going to mug her or something. It's the first time in my life I'd realised I genuinely made someone concerned for their well being and it was very strange.
So CC, has a similar situation ever happened to you? Or have you had a revelation like that about something else? | I'm an 'OG thug' who patrols the streets at night striking terror into 'pussy ass bitches'. | [
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In general, if an actor dies during production of a show, it's all up to how much of their work was done. When you get Brandon Lee, who died with only a couple scenes remaining in The Crow, it was easier to use a body double and a voice mimic to finish up the last couple. Heath Ledger in The Dark Knight was obvious, since all his filming was finished before he died, but he died halfway through filming The Imaginarium of Doctor Parnassus. Due to the nature of the story (entering into a fantasy world) they did some rewrites of the script and had him transform into different actors when he entered the fantasy world. As for Aaliyah, who died with only 40% of her scenes filmed for the Matrix sequels, they recast her and reshot all her scenes, although I think it's a shame that they did so because her character wasn't so important at all. Should have just left her last work intact. | Yes, if Farley had finished all the recordings, they would have released it with him as Shrek. | [
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Stating that most people believe anything is an appeal to mass opinion not an argument. Why punish? What punishment? And it doesnt' solve that persons behavioral pattern. After you throw a guy in prison with severe anger issues who killed his wife out of rage - if he gets out - he won't be like "wow you know the latin kings on the inside really taught me something about myself - next time i get really angry i'm going to count to 100"
Quoting someone elses theoretical work referring to someone elses "qualitative and quantitative" work isn't research ace. Additionally, if you were really interested you can find actual research out there - but a handful of study does not a fact make. Moreover we have stonecold evidence its not a great deterent - murder still holds the death penalty in a lot states - people still get murdered. So unless you have an unpaywalled meta-study or some actual quantitative research, not faux-intellectual heresay, please pipe down.
This is one of those arguments that crops up now and then that is just absolutely worthless. OK, first this isn't the role of prisons -they are made to punish (see solitary confinement, or the fact if you do get considered a "good inmate" you will get a semi-skilled job for pennies/hr). Second, Prisons are basically just breeding grounds for other types of criminal activity - notice all the white supremacists and drug activity. Third, the number of actual criminals without very real psychiatric conditions that are a real threat to society are tiny miniscule. So what you are talking about in this point has to be a non-prison prison, a prison in name only - where people are seperated out of general society but not psychologically dominated as in prison. (Because make no mistake - from Uniforms to architecture the whole thing is meant to be punititve.)
So in your example of serial killers: first serial killers exist because, society and communal bonds have fallen to the point where human beings can do terrible things for a number of years (whether that is kill people for a long time, w/o anyone noticing, or abuse children mercilessly in isolation). Second problem, if that's whose prison is reserved for, the worst of the worst, then no prison system on earth is up to your standard, they hold all kinds of lesser criminals. | You want prisons to exist as you wish they did not as they do. | [
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My cousin, my little brother and I were sitting there toking up on a bong, well my cousin was on a website chatting away and I looked over as I passed the bong to her and read that someone said "so whatcha doing now". Now at the time I was baked out of my skull so I chuckled that stoned laugh and moved on. A few hours later....we are still toking up out of the same bong (by the way we were recording this entire thing on her laptop) I passed the bong to her and she proceeded to hit it at that moment I randomly, and calmly in that stoned voice said "So whatcha doing now" and she blew the stem out of the bong, ruined all the green and we were absolutely dying, and remember it was all recorded so it was like 10 minutes of laughter, I was so sore the next day. | My cousin ruined the weed by laughing when she was hitting it due to my "so watcha doing now" phrase.(/high7) | [
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Unpopular opinion incoming:
There is a lot of information left out of this. For example, is this information following individual people in the economy or a group as a whole?
If we follow groups rather than individuals in the economy, you see results similar to those represented in the above article.
However, if we follow individuals rather than groups, you usually see people gaining wealth and income over time, in turn leaving the bottom 90%. This is a trend called income mobility, and is a phenomenon observable in America and many other countries throughout the world: as people get older, their income increases (generally speaking).
The reason why it's more valuable to analyze individuals in the economy rather than groups is because people within a group can move up and down in income over time. Many people are entering and leaving the economy since 1983, so it could be said that the information in the article is not as useful as you may think. | Data like this do not account for income mobility, as it chooses to analyse groups of people at a certain point in time rather than individuals over time. | [
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When I was younger (14 or so), I used to come home to an empty house after school for a couple hours until my parents got out of work. I was always a fairly paranoid child (and have grown into a paranoid adult), so whenever anyone would come up to the door, I'd go and hide away from the windows.
One day like this, someone came up to the door...and was there for quite awhile. Long enough for me to slink from my hiding place and grab an aluminum baseball bat, but in my mind I didn't want to call the police because I was sure I was just overreacting.
When I had just about made up my mind that maybe I SHOULD call, they finally went away. I gradually relaxed, and even mostly forgot about it.
Until my mother got home and opened up the front door to let some air into the house, and saw that the wood around the doorknob, as well as the knob itself, had been gouged all up, probably by a flathead screwdriver. | I got a stern talk about being less timid about calling the cops | [
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Hello,
So I recently started re-learning the deadlift movement again after not deadlifting for over 4 months due to a severe wrist sprain followed by a torn meniscus, timed perfectly so that I had about 3 days when my wrist was strong enough to lift heavy stuff and my legs were still working.
Point being, I could never get my 5RM to 200 lbs on my deadlift because my fingers would give out. I'd have to readjust my grip after every single rep because the bar would slowly slip from my fingers. I was born with several structural defects in my body, one of which is that the pinky on my right hand does not clench so my right fist only involves 4 fingers, and every finger on each hand is about half an inch to an inch shorter than it should be. I managed to work my way to be able to do a pull up using something akin to a suicide grip, but it doesn't seem to work when I'm doing deadlifts. If anyone's curious, by this point my squat was around 180 so I'm pretty sure I wasn't progressing too fast on the DL. I started at 95 lbs after all.
Inspired by [the woman who made this post]( and another poster who explained to me that there was no shame in straps, I decided I'd try and give it a go when I get my deadlift up again. However, yesterday while doing heavy shrugs I experimented with a mixed grip and I found that my grip was easily 50% stronger with a mixed grip than with a normal overhand grip, but I've read in multiple places that it can possibly lead to some muscle imbalances, as well as things like bicep tears if the weight is heavy enough.
So my question is, would it be preferable to train with a mixed grip or to train with straps? I really think just trying to do it conventional is out of the question. Even doing shrugs at pretty light weights I often can't keep the bar balanced properly because my right hand's four finger grip starts to slip while my left hand is holding fine. I reckon if I keep at it long enough I'll be able to make it work, but even now my hands are giving out before my traps are so I think if I just keep at it pretty soon every pulling exercise would be a grip exercise rather than a back exercise, and I'd rather have my whole body progressing.
Thanks in advance, and I appreciate it if you took the time to read my wall. | man has baby hands, does he use mixed grip or straps if he needs to choose between them?
If someone wants pictures of my hands, I'll gladly deliver. | [
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I'm not too sure if this is the right sub but here it goes:
My boyfriend is extremely uncomfortable with sex. He has a mental blockage and I've come to realize this over the last year. Since we've been together, I've gathered some information from him to sort of give me insight as to what happened so that he became like this. He used to have sex all the time and has told me that the day he found out his ex was pregnant, everything changed.
Basically, he was 20 years old, in school, sleeping around and then had a fling with a woman (the mother of his child) whom he did not take very seriously. He trusted her with bitrth control and then she got pregnant.
He has made it very clear that these news turned his world upside down as he was not ready for a child and he did not want the child. This woman never made him feel included in the decision to keep him and only gave him an ultimatum (I'm having this baby whether you like it or not. You can be there or not be there at all.) instead of discussing things together.
He respected her choices and decided to take his responsabilities as a father, and he did. He now sees his son regularily, is happy with the joy he has found in fatherhood and is a great father. But this changed his views on sex. From my boyfriend's point of view, sex is not for fun anymore (he tells me, wait until you have a child and you will see that this will also happen to you) it is merely a need. It does not need to be discussed, it only needs to be done when in need. Sex is not only a need but could always lead to having another child.
A little bit about us now: we do not discuss sex because he gets very defensive. He knows he has a problem and sometimes he acknowledges it, and sometimes he doesn't. It could be a simple question like: did you like that? And he says he'd rather I didn't ask these questions.
The sex is great, but deep inside, I know it's because he wants to satisfy his urges and not because he wants to have fun. It kills me a little bit because everything else in our relationship is great and our communication is great with everything else. I just wish sex wasn't a taboo subject for us, I feel like I'm in the 1920s.
If there is someone who has gone through the same thing as him, please enlighten me. I'm trying to better understand him, maybe help him overcome this. Or is it a lost cause? Should I give up? I'm very lost. | Boyfriend has suffered a high decrease in libido since having his first child (unexpectedly) and does not view sex as fun but only as an urge. | [
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If this was argued in court, you'd have to point at the part of the text I am reading "wrong". I would tell the judge that the disclaimer had to be included in any downstream "redistribution" and that the disclaimer is worded broadly enough to cover the downstream software itself (not just the open source software). I'd imagine you could argue that an interpretation that made more "business sense" and was in accordance with customary intention between developers and clients is that the disclaimer only applies to the open source software itself and any direct modifications to that code (not the code it has been incorporated into). But I think I've got a strong argument based on the definition of "redistribute", the wording "Redistributions in binary form must reproduce... the following disclaimer in the documentation and/or other materials provided with the distribution", and the fact that the terms "SOFTWARE" and "COPYRIGHT HOLDERS AND CONTRIBUTORS" are not defined.
The law is not what you perceive it "should" be, it is what it is as interpreted by a judge in accordance with existing laws. Very commonly, a party agrees to something they didn't intend because they didn't bother to read a contract or get legal advice. The words of the license will be the primary means to determine its legal effect (to the extent it is enforceable and/or not in conflict with other laws e.g. law against unfair contracts and consumer protection laws).
Using the Home Depot example, the manufacturer has terms and conditions on the back of the packet saying that these screws are low quality and that if you use them to make anything you have to include a liability disclaimer having specific wording, otherwise you are not permitted to use them to build anything (it's a bit different for source code because you can be sued for copyright infringement for breaching the license, which gives you significant "statutory" damages (in the US e.g. $200 per instance of infringement x 20,000 website hits) vs just contractual damages). You didn't bother to read the terms and conditions and used the screws to build a porch. If you then didn't include the same disclaimer in the porch you built you are in breach of the terms and have no right to build it (and can be sued for damages by the manufacturer, at least under contract). Of course, it's a bit more complicated, there's other laws that apply as mentioned above, and the main question is whether the contract is enforceable against you and third parties. | Just because programmers don't understand the meaning of licenses doesn't mean they don't have legal effect. The actual wording of those licenses will be interpreted by a judge to determine the legal effect and could have serious consequences if they are deemed enforceable | [
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Right here we go. As the title suggests, I have no clue about what it takes when it comes to asking a girl out. I've looked at a lot of the threads but I haven't really spotted something that fits my criteria.
There's a girl I like that I went to school with, probably a HB8/9 on your scale, but an 11 on mine. I'm 17 and she's 18. She is now in college while I've taken a year out meaning weekends are the only realistic time we could meet up.
Now, for the last 4 and a half years, I've had depression and I was suicidal for a while in 2013 and was 6 inches from been 6 feet under at one point. That left me with absolutely zero confidence and I am extremely shy and have terrible approach anxiety. I've talked to this girl before but I've never got to anything meaningful with her. We both like a lot of the same things. We get along well enough.
What I came to the lovely people of /r/askseddit for was advice on how can I man the hell up and ask her on a date. She knows I do magic tricks because I've done them in school on a few occasions so I was wondering if I could use that and incorporate kino into it some way. I know some psychological tricks that I can turn into a bet, she wins, I buy her a drink, I win she goes on a date with me sort of thing.
I'd also like to know what possible activities we could do if I got her to go on a date with me. We live in the west of Ireland so options are kind of limited but feel free to post suggestions below and I'll look into if they're near at hand. | Depressed guy with huge AA good at magic wondering how to ask out a HB 8/9. | [
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I've only a handful of matches under my belt right now (7 hours logged so far), but my experience has been fantastic. While server browser issues have been annoying, and occasionally joining a server and ending up on a dead silent team with no sense of direction can really kill my excitement for a good gaming session, the majority of my games have been incredibly immersive and a pure blast of fun and adrenaline. That's something I haven't felt since the first times I played DayZ or Arma 3. The devs did an incredible job and Squad is by far the best tactical FPS experience I have had to date. I knew it was going to be from the very first time I loaded it up this past friday night. Thank you for this, guys. Seriously.
bonus story time, bear with me it's long : Join a random server because it was the only one sub-100 ping with a single slot open. Get in. Join the only decently-populated squad with slots open (was about 7/9 when I joined I believe). Pick grenadier for the second time ever. Game's just starting, the squad are swapping salutations. I ask for the gameplan. "Hold up, talking to the other SLs," says our squad leader. "Alright boys, we're linking with Squad 2 out of the base, they're going to break off and cap the northern objective on the way up, we're B-lining it to the main crossroads. Center of the map. We're gunna cap Ritz Hills and fortify the shit out of it." Okay, I'm down I guess... I played one game where my squad put up a FOB in the middle of fuckin' nowhere and defended it from a sp00ky onslaught of unarmed ghosts. That was fun /s.
So we rush out the base, bounding our way to our objective. Squad 2 splits for their objective. We get into Ritz, squad lead drops a FOB automatically and we start putting up basic fortifications. Sandbags around the doorways. Chillin' for a few to get our bearings and get familiar with the area. First few minutes, no visual or contact. "Let me know if you guys need anything else there," says our SL. "Hey boss, maybe we can get some hescos against walls and up on this roof so we have some cover and something to peek over the wall with." So he drops 'em down and we build 'em up. Still quiet. Another SL drops a resupply in the main courtyard too. Alright, feeling pretty cozy. Then someone calls visual on a guy to the South West. Loses him behind a wall. Waiting. Then a shot rings out, sniper took down a guy next to me on the roof, fuck. No clue where it's at. I pop a red smoke where I last saw the first guy, then hear another shot from the straight west. Literally across the street. I see the guy, I'm guessing the same one and must have come out of the building he was in for some reason, pop his head out of a gateway. I lay some suppressive fire back at him and he hides. He must be hungry. I've got a 40mm lunch for him. Blast his ass, and all is quiet again. Nice little warmup I guess. Then we start taking sniper fire again from a hill to the south. We had friendlies there and heard them getting in a firefight but thought they had it handled. I get dropped, 2 other guys get dropped. I ask friendlies there to start throwing smoke on the rooftops so our medics have concealment to revive us, the guard tower on the rooftop is compromised at that point. Medics make their way up and revive everyone, scrambling like crazy as we're still taking fire and grenades started erupting. These guys have arms like my 7 year old cousin though, none of their nades make it over the walls or past the fortifications on the roof, thank god. Another squad leader lays down more hescos and sandbags on the roof and we build 'em up quick. It got quiet for like 30 seconds, enough for people to get their shit together again, then it breaks out again. twice the firepower this time, and much fucking closer. They're literally in a neighboring compound to the south as well as to the north west. Getting fucking hammered from both sides, guys dropping left and right, medics still scrambling bringing people back from the dead to fight on. I lay down some nades on the neighboring compound, red smoke to mark enemies, white to cut off their firing lanes. Chucked a single explosive in and dropped a close sniper. We had one random who was new to the game out there scouting any time contact came in. He went down and called out a group flanking us. Fuck. Then right at the backdoor of our FOB, a place we forgot to fortify beyond knee-height sandbags, 3 guys poke their heads in and spray the shit out of us. 3 of our dudes go down, friendly SL just recently plopped down hescos, me and another guy are tucked down building them up quick. We walled out those attackers, thank god, but they're still there tossing nades over the walls. We're fish in a barrel getting blasted right now. We start tossing nades back, and a few guys break out of our FOB to try and flank 'em.
Similar firefights went on afterwards every few minutes. about 4 more. Held the position until the last one. Just got overrun, lost the FOB spawn, and lost the objective. So we grouped at a friendly FOB to the north. snuck our way back down for a last-hurrah push to recapture our beloved home at the center of the chaos. "no sprinting guys, stay tight. When we get close, our grenadier is gunna blast that front door down, we throw our frags inside, then we push in and wipe 'em up." As we approach, we put some smokes down, we lose a couple guys (including myself, the grenadier) to a bad frag. Medics get us up quick under enemy fire, thank god for the smokes. so we push up and I blast the front door down. Frags go in, then squadmates. 4-5 of our guys get blasted down but took out of few of the enemy too. Squad lead charges in and wipes out 2 guys to clear the base completely and the rest of us filter in right behind him. "Alright lets fucking rebuild all this shit, we're back in." And as we rebuild all the fortifications and lay down another rally point, game ends with 25 tickets to spare. our squad had 48k points total, all but two of us (2 new guys) with 5-6k+ each. | Helluva game, incredibly adrenaline pumping. I'm still shaking a little right now. | [
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We start tossing nades back, and a few guys break out of our FOB to try and flank 'em. \n Similar firefights went on afterwards every few minutes. about 4 more. Held the position until the last one. Just got overrun, lost the FOB spawn, and lost the objective. So we grouped at a friendly FOB to the north. snuck our way back down for a last-hurrah push to recapture our beloved home at the center of the chaos. \"no sprinting guys, stay tight. When we get close, our grenadier is gunna blast that front door down, we throw our frags inside, then we push in and wipe 'em up.\" As we approach, we put some smokes down, we lose a couple guys (including myself, the grenadier) to a bad frag. Medics get us up quick under enemy fire, thank god for the smokes. so we push up and I blast the front door down. Frags go in, then squadmates. 4-5 of our guys get blasted down but took out of few of the enemy too. 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as someone who's been to a mexico hellhole of a jail, i can tell you that sinisterkid tells no lies.
i was arrested with my best friend in a hotel room. they arrested us and 2 other guys in there that we didn't know. they claimed we were doing drugs but they couldn't prove it, looked at our finger tips and somehow were convinced. they took all 4 of us, handcuffed to one another, in a car the size of a kia all squished in the back. one cop comes over to my side of the window and tells me to write down my name and social security number. i refused to and he slapped me.
they then took us to some shit hole of a jail in the middle of nowhere. the jail cell was inside a crappy looking house and tossed us in there and locked the cell. there was trash everywhere, no working toilet and graffiti written in shit.
thankfully my friends found us 6 hours later after going to every jail possible. someone tipped them that we might be here so boy was i glad to see my friends. the guards wanted $1000 dollars each for everyone. since i didn't know the two random people, we bargained to pay $600 each for my friend and i. we left and drank our asses off in celebration we weren't dead.
we ended up seeing the 2 other guys the next day and they ended up staying the night there. the next morning, they were forced to go "shopping" and had to buy all types of electronics for the guards in order to be released. | mexico is a shitty place and everyone's corrupt, went to jail and had to pay my way out! | [
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I adopted a new dog last month - a female border collie/corgi mix, and I have been socializing her with as many people and dogs as I can. She's enrolled in dog training, and I work with her outside of class too.
I bring her to a local dog park that is nice and fairly large, populated by a lot of regulars and their dogs, but the people are fairly cliquey and an older crowd. My dog is thoroughly a combination of her two herding breeds, and likes to pretend that other dogs are sheep more than she likes to actually play (occasionally poking them with her snout, body checking, and barking while she's running with other dogs). I'm working with her to develop social skills and she's improving every day (she was very under socialized when I got her) but I don't see any major misbehaviors. A lot of the dogs that we see often either enjoy this dynamic or tolerate it. She hasn't shown any kind of aggression with anyone, person or dog.
Today, one of the regulars was throwing a tennis ball to her older yellow lab and he was retrieving it. My dog ran after him and tried to take the ball from his mouth once he had picked it up. He dropped the ball and flipped my dog onto her back, grabbed her neck in his jaws and started to shake her violently in the air. She's under 30 lbs and has some tiny corgi legs, he's probably 90 lbs and 3 times her size. His owner did shout his name, but otherwise didn't make any move or call to him to stop him. I'm pretty sure I started shouting (I was immediately afraid that he was going to seriously injure or kill her) - I ran to my dog, calling her name, and she was trying to come to be and yelping, but I had to physically separate them and then remove her from that area. Thankfully it looked worse than it actually was, as she wasn't noticeably injured. I know that she can be bossy and a bit of a pest, but the situation was definitely aggressive and one-sided.
I was blown away, because the group of people there when it happened didn't really react in the moment, and once things settled, they started saying things like, "What's wrong with your dog? Is she not fixed? Why did you let her chase him?" They all thought it was solely her fault. I apologized to his owner for her provoking him, and she only replied, "yeah, he's very territorial about tennis balls." Why is she encouraging that with him in a public dog park where dogs are playing together?? I'm fairly sure that this was just a bad situation
with an aggressive dog and his negligent owner. I wish I had said something, but I was in shock.
That said, I want to make that kind of a situation as unlikely as possible in the future, and I can't control anyone else's dog. Is there something I can work with her on? It seems like part of the "problem" is her personality and her young age, so I am not sure what exactly we could have done differently and what's possible to change. I am probably never going to this dog park again - there are posted rules about dog aggression, and that group of regulars banded together and ignored them. Any experience or advice with helping my dog with potential dog park drama before it happens would be much appreciated! | My young borgie female has some bossy herding behaviors and is still developing her doggy social skills. Today another dog was aggressive towards her; how much of it is just a bad experience and how much of it is preventable? What can I do to improve our experience and keep her safe at a dog park? | [
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11 out of 12, although I dispute the one I "missed".
The idea that the knowledge from that quiz would qualify you to be a billionaire is laughable though. The lifetime earning potential of most people will be below $10mil, and you're not going to get to a billion by knowing how to pay off your credit cards every month. | nice quiz, but it doesn't really teach or predict anything. | [
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There's been a whole lot on my mind lately and it seems to help calm me down when I get it out here in the open. You guys are awesome. Thank you everyone who hit me over the head with the truth hammer last time.
I sat down and talked to my husband all serious like, and let him know I wanted to move as soon as possible. It turns out he would take a cut in hours, but we would still be fine financially. He didn't seem like he was thrilled with the idea, since we will be leaving a lot of good friends and family behind. Cut to the very next night, and we both found out my 'recovering' brother was moving back in. As soon as we heard that news, he was all for leaving, and has been looking at houses and apartments nonstop! One of our good friends up north is looking to move out of his current place and asked if we would be interested in moving in with him. His sister just had a baby as well, so he is well-versed in what all comes with a newborn. So, it's looking like we'll have an awesome roommate as well (woo, splitting bills!).
Completely unrelated to the moving thing! I didn't get tested for downs syndrome or anything related to the baby because the doctor forgot to tell us until it was too late. It has been really freaking me out lately. I guess what I'm curious about, is can they tell by ultrasounds or movement or anything, or am I going to just have to wait until my bundle of awesome is here? It's been stressing me out a lot. We can barely afford a 'normal' birth and baby, and the idea of having a special-needs baby scares the piss out of me.
My mom recently bought EIGHT boxes of baby clothes (ranging from newborn to 12 months), a swing, a diaper genie, a video baby monitor and a diaper genie from a coworker. Don't get me wrong, all of that is amazing! We went halfsies on all of it, but it was still an incredibly generous thing for her to do. A few of the clothes are gender-neutral, but a vast majority of it is girly as fuck. Like tutus, frilly butts, and pink everywhere. The doctors told me they thought my baby was a girl, but to save the receipts because she might actually be a boy. I can only imagine if it does turn out to be a boy, he is going to wear a lot of pink and dresses. Regardless of if it's a boy or a girl, am I going to need that many baby clothes? Most of it looks like it's never been worn. How do I get people from buying me more baby clothes? I have too much time to think about dumb stuff! | I love this community. I'm probably moving north soon. Worrying about everything. I have a ton of baby girl clothes but might be having a boy. I really want some mashed potatoes right now. | [
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Burger King. My first part time job. I worked at the front counter since I was new. We had a kids area at my store an those are the worst. A lady comes up and tells me her kid went down the slide while peeing. My manger tells me to clean it up. So I slowly crawl my way up the slide wiping up piss. After I finished that I had another 4 hours on my shift. I concluded my shift cleaning up a bathroom where sex had recently occurred. | Don't work fast food. | [
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Throwaway because my friends don't know yet.
Background information: I am very close with 3 girls, let’s call them A, B, and C. A few years ago I really liked A and through her I became really close with B and C. A got a boyfriend a week after I realized that I liked her. About 9 months after, A found out how I felt and lead me on for about a year and a half, telling me that she would end up with me someday and I should wait for her. When she broke up with her boyfriend, she immediately started liking someone else and I soon realized she was just using me and that it was going nowhere. Currently A and I have become fairly good friends although not as close as we used to be.
About me: I’m an extremely introverted person, recently I realized that most of my friends barely know anything personal about me. At first glance I come off as a pretty cold and intimidating person and will not talk about anything personal without being asked; honestly I’ve probably never started a conversation with someone new. This makes me seem uninviting to most people but in reality I am a pretty happy and cheery person. I always try to take every opportunity to help people/make them happier when I can.
While trying to get through what happened with A, I became very close with B and we developed a really close friendship, I consider her my best friend. At the same time I became close with C and I talk to her every once in a while, our relationship is always something we can fall back on and we're there for each other whenever needed.
The current situation: It has been over a year that I got over A and since then I've spent at least 2 hours each day with B (we walk to and from school together and my school is relatively far). B is what I can only describe as my best friend. We have complete trust in each other and are completely honest with one another. I could spend every moment with her, romantically or otherwise, and never get tired. She's one of the most interesting people I know and I pretty much never get tired of her.
I had never considered what it would be like to be romantically involved with B until, about 8 months ago, I had a dream that we were a couple. It was probably the best dream I've ever had and it got me thinking about the possibilities. The more I thought, the more I realized that she was perfect for me. B has all the qualities I lack; she is quite literally my better half. I started talking to C about my feelings and somehow B got the idea that I did like her, she pretty much ignored me for 2 weeks until I got C to convince her that I didn't. Ever since then I've kept my emotions in check making sure never to let her know how I felt in case it put our current friendship at risk.
I value our friendship greatly and I never want to ruin what we have but recently I've been falling harder and harder. She recently discovered “36 questions that lead to love,” which I personally believe to be bullshit. For those of you who haven’t heard of this, it is pretty much a set of questions that are very personal and you and your partner are supposed to answer them all and in the end there is a chance that you will fall in love. Although B doesn’t think the test works fine, she insisted on not doing it with me because she said she does not want to fall in love with me. She then later told C that she was concerned that she would actually fall in love with me if she got to know me on a level that I’ve never let anyone reach and she is worried that this will ruin our friendship.
I really think I’m falling in love (although I realize that at my age I probably have no idea what true love feels like) with her and I have no idea how to approach the situation. On one hand, I want to know that she feels that same and that we could be together romantically, but on the other hand I don’t want to risk losing my best friend in the case that she doesn’t feel the same. I’m sure she probably has some idea of how I feel but knowing me she definitely sees it as an unlikely situation.
So reddit, what do you think I should do? | I've fallen for my best friend and I am not sure if she feels the same/if I should tell her and do not want to ruin what we already have. | [
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If it makes you feel any better about "Sideways", you're supposed to hate the characters. Miles and Jack are awful people. Jack is just a manipulative and self-indulgent man-child, and Miles is a pathetic loser.
SPOILERS AHOY
You were supposed to hold out until after the wedding. He drinks his prized bottle of wine. Most critics view this as his rock bottom moment. I view it as the moment he stops living in a pretentious fantasy, and learns to appreciate life for what it is. The best bottle of wine ever doesn't taste like anything if you never drink it. After that, he starts to realize that life is more than the hollow existence he has led, chasing after the idea of something rather than what is in front of him. Like many alcoholics with addictive personalities, he needed to learn to stop saying, "I would be happy if I only had _ " and treasure that which is before him. | you are right to hate them. They are terrible people. Like us all. | [
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God, this guy is such a wanker.
The very first picture he shows is Connor stabbing a guy with the tomahawk while shooting another guy. To this, he says "Very difficult to actually do"
No it's fucking not. Start a kill streak, then hold the tool button. Easy. This fella obviously sucks at the game, and he blames his lack of skill on the game being bad.
>The music is a drag
Are you serious nigga? Listen to the OST. I can't even respond properly to this, seriously.
> I Avoid Doing Things
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Sounds like he has a really boring way of playing games. I guess he likes being constricted to having 1 option. AC gives you tools and different ways to complete your objective, and apparantly, this is something bad.
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So buddy of mine and I are joking around. There's this running gag where we text each other, go fuck your [beloved family member] # times for me. Since I am learning mandarin. I obviously had to insult him in this language. I tried messing around with the phrase 肏你妈 (fuck your mother) and but I couldn't figure out where to place the quantity in this sentence based on my limited understanding of Chinese grammar.
I was using this website,
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Ethics is subjective. There are many people who believe that we are actually helping animals by consuming them (this is not to do with the factory farms, but usual free-range food) due to the fact that we are giving a monetary incentive to farmers to look after and breed animals. Without this, many cows' lives would be non-existent. If everyone was vegan, no-one would bother to keep these animals.
One other thing that vegans like to forget is the fact that eating is unnatural etc. Looking at it from an evolutionary stance, we can see that cows are superior beings than, lets say the dodo. Because cows taste good to many animals and humans in particular, as well as being docile, they are exploiting human's love for their flesh in order to become a dominant species. They are successful because of us. It is a symbiotic relationship of two species that have managed to adapt optimally to the environment. | Don't act like moral eltitists, there are other sides to the argument. | [
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I'm just picking up running to see if it's my thing (and it certainly seems to be, so far! I haven't been able to keep up a habit for this long since I don't know how far back.)
When I started out with a good friend of mine, who's been a professional runner and I trust very well, she just told me to use the old pair of running shoes she had seen on my shoe rack. I used them a few years ago when I still played tennis, I think. I'm not sure, really. They're at least a couple of years old, anyway.
I've been running using them so far, but I see people keep saying how a proper pair of running shoes is the single thing you should not cheap out of. I've also read that it's more complicated than that; I've read that it's your gait that matters, not the shoes per se . People seem to be saying that you can get by with almost any shoe as long as your gait is the one you'd have while running barefoot.
I've been told on multiple occassions by different people that my gait looks very natural and they envy the flow of my running. They say it looks like I've been running all my life. I'm fairly confident there's not much wrong with my gait, but of course, who am I to say? Can I continue running in my old shoes, or is everything about the gait bollocks? | Start reading here:
I'm just rambling on, but I guess the important parts are that I'm really, really low on money right now (I struggle to get food on the table), so it looks like I either run with the shoes I have, or cheap out of running completely until my financial situation improves (might be a year or so until that happens.) I'm in love with running after just a few months, and I would like to continue, so I'm asking you guys: Should I continue in my old shoes (which might be suboptimal) or wait with the running until later (who knows when?)
As it might be relevant: I'm not trying to accomplish anything big with my running. As it was four or five years since I last exercised properly, I'm just trying to get in a few half-hour/5 km sessions of running a week right now. We're looking at two hours a week, at most, but mostly around one or one and a half. | [
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Not true. There is a test laid out in [671122 Ontario Ltd. v. Sagaz Industries Canada Inc]( that establishes whether or not someone is an employee or independent contractor. Even if both employer and employee believe the signing of a particular contract created an independent contractor relationship the courts won't honour it if the relationship looks, smells, and feels like a true employment relationship.
Stuff like the following will be used to weigh and assess whether or not a person was truly an employee:
Level of control of the employer over the worker’s activities
Whether the worker provides own equipment
Whether the worker hires own helpers
Degree of financial risk taken by the worker
Degree of responsibility for investment and management held by the worker
Worker’s opportunity for profit in the performance of his/her tasks | having an employment contract doesn't automatically make you a "contractor", a great many people are employees whether they know it or not, and with that comes certain rights under the Employment Standards Act. | [
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So as usual this fuck up happened about four years ago. Also it wasn't really me who felt the direct consequences of said fuck up, but my girlfriend (who I am currently still with). But whatever, here is the story:
We were back in college on your typical Friday night, I had plans to go out with a couple of my friends, while my girlfriend was planning on going out with some of hers. So we go our separate ways and me and my friends begin to rip shots because we are in college, and that is what you do. I get a call early on during the pregame that my girlfriends friends bailed, so she was wondering if she could come out with us. Nobody had a problem with this, so she made her way over to the dorm/apartment we were pregaming at. Upon arrival she decides she needs to catch up with us in the shot count, and begins to take down shots at an alarming rate.
Right before we were ready to leave the apartment for the party, another girl we were with decides that she wasnt drunk enough, and that we should all take a couple more shots. Everybody else was fine with the current level they were at, but my girlfriend and I decided why the hell not, and took four more. And that ladies and gentleman is where we fucked.
I don't remember anything else the rest of the night, and neither does my girlfriend, but here are a few highlights of the night as told by friends:
Me and my girlfriend are seen screaming at eachother on the street, her saying she wants to go home and me repeating "I love you"
I puked and passed out underneath my roommates bed, only after puking on the carpet in the middle of the room. He then picked me up and helped me into my bed, where my girlfriend was passed out
My girlfriend tripped down the stairs, and needed to be carried home. While my one friend basically had her over his shoulder, I held her by her thong and thought i was doing more than my fair share of carrying her back.
So at this point we have already caused more than enough problems, but it only gets worse from here. I wake up at around 4AM, to my girlfriend puking all over herself/my bed. She literally puked everywhere. I tell her she needs to take off her puke clothes, and she does despite the fact she is still hammered/incoherent. I tell her to take a t-shirt and pair of shorts to wear so we can walk across campus to her room and clean bed, but she refuses. I insist as she shouldn't go out naked, but she is being very stubborn. Right before she walks out the door butt naked, I manage to wrap a towel around her to cover things up. We make our way across campus to her room, but she is struggling as her leg is in pain. We finally make it to her building, but not before she falls over and pees on the floor of the elevator lobby. We get up to her room and both pass out in her bed.
We wake up and my girlfriend is in excruciating pain, her leg is quite swollen and black and blue, and she can't really move it. Her roommate and I dress her, as she was still naked, and call an ambulance. To get back downstairs, she literally has to slide on her ass the whole way as walking is not an option. We take the ambulance to the hospital, where she has an MRI done and is diagnosed with a torn ACL, MCL, and PCL. 3 for 3 in the ligament department. She has to wear a brace and use crutches the rest of the semester, as surgery is not an option until winter break. The rest of the semester was a giant mess of me having to help her do basically everything and her struggling to pass her classes because making it to class was so difficult. Needless to say once the semester ended she had surgery and made a full recovery.
Also my room was a nightmare to clean up. Puke was everywhere, I had to throw away all my pillows and sheets, and shampoo the shit out of the carpet. It also smelled absolutely horrible for several weeks after. | Too many shots, GF falls down stairs, knee destruction, puke massacre, elevator piss, ambulance ride, semester ruined, surgery ensues | [
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So this happened some time ago, but people still think its hilariously cringeworthy.
An old co-worker of mine had organized a bowling outing for everyone we used to work with. It has been a long time since I had seen many of these people, so I thought it would be fun to catch up! Anyways, as the night moves forward I enjoy a couple games of bowling (scoring between 40-80) and a couple beers.
Before long, a few of the girls bring out a tray full of cupcakes with birthday candles on… Great! I love cupcakes! So I finish throwing my gutter balls before sauntering over with a beer in hand to take part in the festivities.
As we finish the song the birthday boy goes to blow out the candles and with one breath they are out. Being the clever little devil that I am I decide to yell out “Well, looks like you don’t have ANY girlfriends!” (because we all remember that one). To my confusion, instead of everyone around me laughing at how funny I am, they fall dead…silent. I look around and my girlfriend grabs my arms, holding back her tears of laughter and says, “I over heard the girls ordering the cupcakes… it’s not his birthday you moron! His girlfriend dumped him yesterday and they were trying to make him feel better!” As it turns out the bowling alley would only do the whole “birthday thing” if it was ACTUALLY someone’s birthday.
By this point I’m absolutely mortified/ trying to hold back my giggles… everyone around was either giving me the evil eye or trying not to fall over laughing. | Got drunk. Sang happy birthday. Pointed out that he had no GF because he blew out all the candles. Turns out he was dumped the day before | [
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He's got the prettiest, deepest blue eyes. He has patience with me when I need to learn the names of his tools. I still don't really know what a carburetor does but I do know how to help him clean it. I always wear safety glasses because I've seen him spray cleaner into his own eyes. When he gets frustrated he gets pretty pissy at the machine/tool. He grumbles and starts cussing. After a few years I finally learned how to tell him to go inside to take a break and cool off while I work on whatever's frustrating him.
He teaches the kids some useful skills. They've learned how to hunt, trap, prep food. He has a perspective that's different from mine in a lot of areas, but it is good because the kids aren't only presented with one point of view of the world.
He was born ill. It's a [serious condition]( He has spent years in the hospital. It was before I met him but there was a point in time he had an open wound that needed to be cleaned several times a day. It was 8 or 10 inches long and he was being pumped full of drugs to fight infection and help control the pain. He's got scars at various points of his body where there were incisions, skin grafts, stitches, etc. This adds up to a lot of trauma to his body.
He was also raised in a way that didn't allow him to show his emotions. To own them, accept them, work with them. Decades were spent telling him it would be better, that it would be okay, that he was perfect and that God would guide his heart while the doctors worked on his body. The surgeries, the drugs, the extended periods of time in the hospital. They took a toll on his emotional health and well-being...but not right away.
Now that he's 44, his body is starting to break down on him. He's missing a hip (surgeries, replacement, infection, replacement removed). He's got arthritis in just about any joint in his body. There are some days it is a struggle for him to walk to the bathroom. He should be using a walker, but up until a few months ago he wasn't even using a cane. Previous to that he'd used crutches, but a few years ago he'd decided to stop using them. He needs to appear "strong".
For a few hours on some days his eyes are clear, his smile is genuine, his words are thoughtful, his actions are kind. Those few hours used to be weeks. I thought this morning was going to be good, but I knew it was going to be short-lived. Have you ever seen someone drunk or medicated to the point where their words start to become soft, blended? Eyes a bit cloudy and head nodding a bit? Sitting a bit sloppily off to one side?
This happens to him almost every day...without any medication or booze to make it happen. At that point I start to feel a panic. I know that the longer he stays awake after it starts the more obnoxious he's going to be. He becomes passive-aggressive and somewhat hostile. Not in an outward and mean way, but the words coming out of his mouth take on a sinister tone. Or a mocking one.
He lies to me. He makes up stories. He forgets things. Tuesday I was working around the house and he spent a good 3 hours chatting me up and being quite charming. It was a little odd because he was so tired, but company was coming so I put up with the chatty because it kept him awake. We talked about a lot of things that day. Saturday I referenced one of the topics.
He had no recollection. He forgot the time we spent together. He bores me to tears some days with all of his stories and memories (they're usually about a dog or hunting or fishing) of what happened decades ago , but he can't remember what happened 4 days prior? It wasn't just a one-off comment, we're talking hours about a single topic.
I cried. I cried so hard Saturday night. He'd gone to obnoxious twat mode and I was mourning the good hours. I told him I was afraid he would forget what we have, what we've had, and even who I am. He just sat there. He didn't say anything. Of course when I confronted him on Sunday about it he said "I will never forget you or what you mean to me" and that's what I'd wanted to hear. But at that point yesterday he was "clear" and could be kind.
His mind is going. He won't talk to a doctor about it. There are no definitive tests for Alzheimer's/dementia. It requires talking to someone, getting a diagnosis because the patient is willing to discuss the issues changing in their life. My husband won't.
I'm only 35. I'm caring for a person in the way that our elderly parents and grandparents do. I don't have decades of good memories to fall back on. All of his amazing/wonderful memories are based on experiences decades before we met.
I'm lucky my kids are so great. I'm trying to protect them from the obnoxious side of my husband while still making sure they engage meaningfully throughout the week. It isn't always possible and they're older now, it's just getting very complicated.
He won't go to the doctor. I can't make him.
Sometimes I think his eyes appear to be gray instead of blue. I wish he'd go take a nap when I see the cloud form around him. He doesn't see anything wrong with what he does at any time. Good news is that I'm aware enough to know that his behavior is not my fault. I'm just the one trying to take the brunt of it so the kids can continue to grow and thrive. | Husband's body and mind are breaking down. I'm not prepared for this shit. He's depressed. He won't go to a doctor. | [
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I had gone to college near Nashville TN and I was gearing up for a big lonely drive up north to my home near Green Bay WI for Christmas break. Since it was going to be about a 12 hour drive I thought I'd leave at night and avoid the Nashville, Louisville, Indianapolis, Gary, Chicago, and Milwaukee traffic. Seemed like a good idea.
I grab some snacks and some drinks and headed out the door of my student apartments and hit the road for my big trip. Well 0.7 miles into the trip I am traveling on a slightly curved road. A motorist behind me was speaking on her cellphone and didn't follow the curve of the road and crashed into the entire side of my car. It put creases on my right side doors and knocked my mirror off.
It gets better though. The woman who hit me is a manager off my student apartments. She was in charge of collecting rent. She was pretty cute so when the authorities arrived they pandered to her every need and I stood in the cold for about 25 minutes before a policemen came over and patted me on the back so hard I almost fell over while gruffing "Ya okay?" I said yes and then waited around til they said I could leave.
All in all, my car was okay and I got to travel home the very next
morning. Needless to say I stopped paying my rent in person. It was just too weird to go hand someone a check and say "Hey remember when we crashed into one another? Yeah... Well see ya" | My apartment manager crashed into me. | [
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Poor guy, most schizophrenics I've met refuse to take their medicine because they believe it's part of the conspiracy.
My apartment neighbor of 16 years was always the nicest guy, then one day, he knocks on our door at 1am, insisting to know why we were hacking his bank account, tapping his phone, listening to him through little invisible devices in the walls (he could tell because they left a fine mist in the air when they turned off), and implored us to stop stealing his Vaudevillian comedy routines out of the trash (because it wasn't his best material). He also used to spray his floors with WD40 because it kept the bugs that bite him away. We ended up moving out because we were worried he'd put an axe through our door one day. | We had to move because we were totally out to get our perfectly sane neighbor | [
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Has anyone encountered this issue?
I plan on going to the dealer to get this checked. Other models of Mazda have had this sort of issue. Forums say it is a lamp check indicator or indicator that their is still fuel in the system (AFR too rich). I have tuning software, but I was unable to detect ANY error codes and data logs are clean.
I have also flashed my car back to the stock tune (no error codes either) yet the blinking still occurs after a few seconds when the key is turned to Accessory. I'm wondering if the CEL blinks because I have modified the ECU - maybe it's a type of fail-safe tampering light. This only occurs when the engine is not running and the key is turned to Accessory. I might upload a quick clip later. | Key in accessory - CEL blinks 7 times - Regardless of tune. | [
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So says the dictator of the intewebz. Who honestly fucking cares about the god damn semantics of it?
Also, harassing someone on the internet is hardly comparable (except in the most extreme cases) to throwing rocks off of an overpass and potentially killing a person or persons. | shut up | [
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So, some backstory: From launch to Spidey, I was a pretty heavy payer. Maybe not a whale, as a traditional whale spends upwards of a couple hundred/month, but not as moderate as I thought at the time. I had every character and costume, and it wasn't anything in particular that broke me, just realizing I was spending way, way too much.
I deleted, but after about a month, I start seeing the game crop up elsewhere on the internet. People seemed to be having fun again; I missed out on Squirrel Girl, one of my favourites. I sceptically re-installed, and hey, there was new story! The game was fun again! Coulson was available for $30 (Canadian) and where before that would have meant compulsion and buyer's remorse, now I'm just not willing to drop that dough, and suddenly I can once more play the game and relax.
The way this event started chill and fun and then became torture has been well documented, but I need to make a point to try and help with The Discourse:
EVERYTHING is premium. The game is trying to profit off of the stress it induces in you from you not being able to get all the stuff. This type of design is not sustainable long-term or healthy for customers, but that's how games like this get made. I bought JJ because she was relatively cheap and priced up-front. The event has been stress-free for me (although a little boring, this story hasn't been the best) and I'm now just doing mission boards to top-up stars and sunglasses for Luke and then that's the end, because it's been designed that that's all you'll get for free. The idea that you can get other stuff for free is an intentional design choice to make you spend to close the gap between the work you put in and getting the thing. If you stop thinking that more than the basic unlock is even achievable you will save yourself a TONNE of stress.
The thing is, I strongly dislike this design, even outside of that terrible "push the market as far as it will go" philosophy to make as much money as possible, which I believe may make a short-term buck but kills games long-term. I think everyone dislikes this design, because it's intentionally not fun.
AvAc, on release, played much more like a Tiny Tower, Neko Atsume, or Fallout Shelter, all non-competitive, relaxing or fun games that are still successful and profitable. I desperately hope the game goes back to that, because in there is a fun story that we could be playing along with for years. Unfortunately, while I believe TinyCo has a potential long-term gold mine in that game, it appears that somewhere up high they have much more dated philosophies regarding F2P games and monetization. We're talking the days of peak-Zinga, the absolute nightmare casual games that were played on Facebook, that gave casual games a bad name. The most pure and aggressive Skinner boxes, trying to harpoon the whales and screw everyone else. I don't think most of the company's employees think this is wise, and I don't think anyone enjoys making that kind of game, but it seems apparent that there is some collection of directors and/or producers who still think this design philosophy is the way to go. I think, with a change of focus away from that, there's still a chance that the game could be truly great and last a long time, but unfortunately we are where we are.
Lastly, the discussion around here frequently turns to design, and TinyCo's intent, and monetization, and I'm pretty sure at least these videos should be required viewing:
Thanks for indulging my rant, if you actually read it all you're a star and I would unlock Hawkeye for you for free if I could. | Stop worrying about anything other than basic unlocks because there is always a hidden price, I think this game could still be great if it were treated like Avengers Atsume, watch the videos I linked to better understand how games like this get made | [
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Rambling.
I've noticed that most discussion concerns Vivec's means of achieving CHIM, but how has ze used it? Stopping Baar Dau is a likely example. Another one that's mentioned sometimes is Vivec rewriting hir own history.
Now, I think ze didn't actually need divinity to do that. CHIM is up for discussion.
We can all change the past. For example, if this post gets downvoted to Oblivion I will probably delete it. Then the post will be more or less gone from both my account and this subreddit--the info might be stored somewhere; I don't know; but to most of you it will be effaced forever. And for those who have never seen the post, it never existed. The concept is nothing new of course. I'll bet it sounds familiar.
The people who did read this post and downvoted it? Even once it's deleted, they remember. I can't convince you that I never posted this. The only way to efface that evidence of my post is for you to forget it, or maybe die (please don't though). And I think this is closer to Vivec's concerns.
So what is the deal with Vivec's past? The fact that we, the readers, don't know for certain shows that ze succeeded in some respects and failed in others. If Vivec had succeeded the Sermons would be "truth" even to us. Certainly to the people of Morrowind.
How did Vivec try to accomplish this? Dissent was punished; heretics were imprisoned inside Baar Dau and/or killed. But did everyone actually believe the Sermons? Do we believe them? My answer would be a very eloquent "well kinda but kinda not." And this is important. Duality is important. Something happened, but it kinda didn't. The ability to acknowledge both answers to a question, even when they full-out contradict one another.
If I delete this post, did it exist? Well, it kinda did but it kinda didn't.
Does that mean I have CHIM? ^(I'm ^sorry ^that ^almost ^sounded ^like ^STL ^material)
It's not just Vivec either. Talos' landscaping job, for example. Cyrodiil was a jungle. Talos could have magically transformed it into plains. I know it's not a popular idea, but the climate could have just... Changed, by natural events or actual landscaping. Or maybe it's just plains! It was always plains, and the jungle never existed. Or, wait, it was a jungle. It is a jungle now. It is, it always has been, and you had better believe it. You see with CHIM it doesn't really matter. But is CHIM really necessary, or is the concept just a part of life?
Zero-sum is the same thing. You never existed, but you did. Maybe Vivec just wanted to zero-sum hir past away.
Lastly: You could say Vivec failed. And I'd even say Love is what caused the failure--because in Vivec's attempt to erase hir past, ze still Loved it, and still remembered it. You can dictate what you like. Love will still creep in and prevail eventually. Even if it requires a natural disaster to blow everything to pieces.
If I delete this I will still fail, because I won't be able to truly efface the post. | Rewriting the past is no joke. Sooo, when do you think Vivec used CHIM?
Edit: I'm not pretending to be coherent nor knowledgeable here, so apologies. More experienced scholars might see this as a cry for help, which it probably is. And as said before, this might get deleted.
...And guess what, that wasn't the only Edit I made. But as far as some of you are concerned, the post has always been like this. | [
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So I've been at my store for about 3 hours and just finished my 3 training classes [Android 101 w/sassy octogenarians]. Not that stressful but definitely sapped 85% of my daily allotment of patience [there was supposed to just be one class at 1pm ... long story]. Anyway a man approaches me with his wife and a young child. Hands me a dinosaur and says his cell phone carrier told him I could save his phone. He had it in his pocket when it rained. It was stuck on a certain screen and they hoped I could reinstall android. I may have been able to but his phone was way too old and the official software wasn't available. He then asked if I could transfer things around and move him into an existing phone, his daughter's iPhone. I said yes. He then asked if he would lose anything on the phone. She had just passed away 8 months to the day. I could see the pain behind his eyes and his wife's eyes were even more telling. I told him we would take care of it. [At that moment I'd do anything] We had to 'hack' past the lock screen with brute force by way of playing 20 questions. Finally we got in. Now the apple id password. Rinse repeat 20 questions and we eventually got it [The mother had a very close relationship with her daughter]. Then we went to download Google drive to host the files ... phone required to update to new version. Hell no! So we tried to use a back up from iTunes and special software to transfer the data. No dice. We then tried to use a special machine to transfer the data to my phone. No dice [Both of these things are not supposed to fail]. Finally we realized that my rooted phone was the cause. So I pulled a demo phone from my table and used it. Once we had that, we (the employees of the store) purchased a special usb that had micro and full size usb on it. We transferred the data there and created a cloud based account to host the files. We handed him the usb and moved the phone numbers to the working devices. I lost a few opportunities to sell my products that day [four hours about]. But I won a customer for life yesterday and anyone he tells the story to will probably feel the same way. After spending hours with him and learning about how his wife nursed his daughter for two years until her death (fuck cancer). Their daughter suffering while pregnant [When they discovered it]. The poor child [granddaughter] playing with my kids tablet and the deep set pain in her eyes. [She got a balloon and two gummy bears the size of your fist from my bribery stash]. It made me feel emotions that you try to avoid ... but right now ... I have an enormous sense of wellbeing. | We did a good thing reddit. Try and find an opportunity for yourselves. The interactions aren't all bad.
EDIT: I'm absolutely flattered right now. But I'm also exhausted. They were back today. The little girl pointed at a picture of a sunset and said to me that is where mommy is ... In heaven. There is more but I need time to process this. Soon as I get today unstuck from my eyeballs I'll add to the story. Also thank you so very much for the gold. Just give me a bit to decompress. See you all very soon you magnificent people!
EDIT: So they came back to see if we could resurrect his [the grandfather's] original phone to save his contacts. I didnt think we could without fixing the OS. So we tried to find a the stock version of android that goes with his phone. Couldn't find anything but custom software that other people had made. Problem was it would wipe the phone if we installed it. Not helping. But it got me thinking. Why don't we just do that. Then root the device and use something to recover the files. Even though they would have been 'deleted'. Too risky. So instead we basically gave the phone CPR. We kept forcing a reboot until ... magically we saw a splash screen. I wish I could have released balloons from the ceiling. During the process I got to share this post with the family. The Mother began to cry a little. The granddaughter actually was doing her best to cheer me up. She was earily okay with Mom being "healed now". I was in awe of her. The whole ordeal I will remember for a good long while. I want to mention that without the help and support of the other staff. I doubt this would have turned out the way it did. Thanks guys. [You bet your sweet buns I told them reddit. Like a lot.] | [
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I bought a Taurus 1911 .45 a few months back that I've been itching to shoot. I also have a few 12 gauge shotguns and a .22 rifle I haven't shot in awhile.
I guess I could go to Shooters Choice here in Dover, but I'd much rather shoot outdoors where I can get some coaching, have a little fun and not feel like such a newbie with handguns. Plus it would be nice to try out some different handguns as I've only shot about 4 rounds from a .45 a few years ago.
A friend of mine, that recently has gotten into shooting, has property he says we can shoot on, but hes not very good a keeping plans. Plus he has split custody of his 3 year old daughter, so that pretty much limits our more adult activities to every other weekend. I've been invited out to one of his coworkers land to shoot, but I've missed out every time do to prior obligations. Apparently this guy has a real nice setup for shooting all different types of guns. | I'm also looking for a place to tryout and shoot diffrent handguns while possibly making a few new friends. | [
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I've been out of high school now for 10 years and pretty much every career decision I have made has lead me nowhere. I got into debt with school and that career went nowhere. Despite having a really good job record before school, ever since I got out in 2008 I haven't held a job over 5 months (and I have had gaps of several upon several months without work).
My resume is all over the place. I didn't stay in any one place long enough to get any real experience. Most of my jobs were seasonal or temp (no chance of being a year round employee). I got fired from a job a year ago for, in my opinion, no real reason (because they didn't give me one). Every job interview I've had for jobs I REALLY wanted didn't go well (I didn't get any of the jobs I wanted since I got fired 15 months ago).
This job I am going for is a career change. It's a training program. I am not expected to have experience. It pays really well. Good benefits. It can turn my life around. They sent me a detailed email with some of the general questions they could ask me and I am scared.
My job history sucks. I was never a leader. I never effected the company outside of what I was told to do. I think I could be that person but for the past 10 years, I've been a yes-man and a guy that just does his job. The little work that I have done, I've done what is asked of me. I don't have any great stories. I don't have any 'projects' or 'plans' that I executed. I'm just a guy.
I want to move past what's on my resume. I don't look at it as a string of good experiences. I look at it as a string of bad decisions, mundane work and career confusion.
I feel like there is this wall in-front of me I need to scale but I need to turn around and explain the last 6 years of my life before I can and I have to do it in a way that reflects good on me. I don't think I can do that. I am scared I am going to blow it. | Job Interview. Really Important career change. Horrible job history. Scared I am going to screw this up. I need advice. | [
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Hi AskFeminists, I'm curious about kyriarchy / intersectionality and whether existing thinking on this might oversimplify the concept of oppression and privilege, leading to perhaps some of the resentment of feminist concepts by eg. some MRA people. I'm trying to understand a framework that both MRAs and feminists could equally agree with. I've never posted here before so please pardon my ignorance.
My understanding of kyriarchy, eg. from [here]( is that there are intersecting oppressions, so you can be for example: oppressed due to being a woman and simultaneously privileged by being white or upper class or cis or wealthy.
My question is the following: can the direction of oppression in one axis of oppression be inverted, depending on which intersecting oppressions or characteristics one has?
For example, given we assume that, on average women are more oppressed than men, could we still have the situation that, if you are very poor/homeless, it is better to be a woman than I man? I made a graph , and that function may be very complex, not just a matter of answering "yes/no" and then summing the result. Sorry I don't have any concrete data on this as it is hypothetical but if there is interest I will try to find some. Thanks for your time and thoughts. | can oppression change into privilege in one axis of oppression depending on which intersecting oppressions or characteristics a person has? | [
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Don't get me wrong, Opie is terrible, but listening to that retard Bob Kelly pontificate on subjects he clearly knows almost nothing about while surrounded by an army of smug, sycophantic and self-obsessed 'comics' is genuinely depressing.
Robert Kelly has been a comedian for, what, 25 years? He spent almost a decade as an O&A regular, so much so that he decided he would take up the 'comic hang' torch and run it into the ground.
We're always trying to discern how it is possible that a collection of hacks and broken toys managed to create one of the funniest shows ever, and while a big part of this was letting comedians just shoot the shit on air, I think a key element that we have neglected to recognise was provided by O&A themselves.
Listening to Bobby whine about the way we 'civilians' misuse the term 'hack' within ten minutes of lauding Dice as a comedy great because he 'smokes on TV' and makes 'hilarious' noises made me realise that for a 'comic hang' to work you need at least one funny non-comedian that commands the respect of the room.
You need someone there to remind them that "comics" are not authorities on humour, that the little idiosyncrasies they think are unique to "comics" are actually just common experiences in all walks of life. And most of all, you need someone there to remind them that despite all their years "honing their craft" they're still no funnier than a blue-collar wop from Long Island.
Bob Kelly is particularly galling when he does his slowed down, comedy-luminary-coming-through voice, his appearances on O&A were great because he was a heel and the funniest moment of his entire career was a trucker calling him a fat pig. | Comedians need to be constantly reminded that they aren't special or they start saying cringe inducing shit like "civilians can't use our words" and "I murder on stage" without a shred of irony. | [
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On a different account, I asked for some coming out advice. Well, I never got the chance to try it out. Anyway, the reason I'm not posting on that account is because my mother is now monitoring all of my online communications to make sure that I don't discuss my sexuality. I identify as panromantic homosexual, which I usually simplify to bisexual, just to keep it easy to understand. Anyway, two weeks ago, my mother looked at my Facebook and my tumblr. My Facebook profile was set to "prefers men and women" and my tumblr had a couple of pro-lgbt rants. My mother, to be crude, flipped a shit. She yelled at me for a good two hours about how being gay was evolutionarily wrong and that my sexuality was something to be kept private. In my opinion, however, my sexual orientation is something I wish to display as proudly as my gender (I'm a 15 year old girl, for clarification.) So she made me delete my tumblr and my Facebook, and sign a written contract to never make another one of either. She then made my give her that names of all the websites I frequent so that she could look at my posts. I hurriedly deleted everything even vaguely incriminating. Even though this happened a couple of weeks ago, I haven't been able to get over it. She has barely mentioned it since the disaster of my "coming out," but Her temper's been shorter, and she laughs at my hopes for political change. My father's been cool about it, well kind of. He's just been extra kind, but hasn't mentioned it. I just really had to get that off my chest. I've kind of sunk into a pit of depression. Thanks for listening, reddit :) | My mother forced me out of the closet and is now monitoring my online life.
EDIT: Wow, thank you so much for your support, it really means a lot :) You've given me great advice (and great arguments.) I'll try to reply to all your comments later :) | [
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Here's whats happening. He spins the dice toward him every time. The dice gain momentum and inertia and are actually "rolling" or "climbing" up the concave cups on the caliper. As the dice slow, they lose their momentum and roll backwards toward the lowest point in the cups. This action is what creates the appearance of the unbalanced dice. Notice that every single time, the same thing happens. As the dice slow from the initial spin, they always spin back in the opposite direction. If the dice were truly weighted, odds are that 50% of the spins would keep spinning forward in the initial direction before coming to rest. This never happens in any of the eight or so spins. If the dice were weighted, the probability of the dice spinning the same direction all eight times before coming to rest (which happens in the video), is 1/256. | what rolls up, must roll back down.
Source: Physics
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I for one don't like @ for that because @ means "at". In addition it's not "universal" it's twitter, I avoid twitfacespace for many reasons and the @personiwillnevermeet is on the list of them.
~ has always meant "home" which means the user. On sites you'd get sitename.com/~user which would be your public interweb presence. What reddit ought to be doing there is making that show an overview page too.
wrt your last point maybe you should be asking for them to rework it to check if a linked-to user actually exists. | means "at", fuck twitter. | [
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I'm just curious....
what exactly does the world think the word "feminist" means?
i understand that the word has certainly bred it's own connotation over the last sixty years, and i'm well aware of the pretty bizarre culture surrounding the current feminist organization... but..
> and can safely now say that while I have been rejecting feminism for a long time now; I know that not one feminist particle remains within me
that seems severe, it's great you've identified the absurdist nature of current hierarchy, but why would you swear off feminism?
i realize feminism is defined as The advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men but i have always seen the actual objective of feminism in the collective mindset of rational, intelligent people to be advocacy of understanding gender roles in society, especially in regards for a more harmonious society or something along those lines.
i hope that doesn't mean you havent sworn off an interest in furthering understanding of gender roles in society, obviously not because you've made a great post here.
my sister once told me that a common understanding amongst feminists(non-entrenched ones at least), is the utter ridiculousness of a "feminist convention." that being, that anyone that has an actual understanding of the issues of feminism attempts to combat would understand that the current feminist entity has no hope of collectively tackling these issues as it really just mirrors the exact problem of the supposed patriarchy, | i hope you haven't lost an inherent desire to bring together an understanding of gender in society, which is a great ideal, and are simply noticing the questionable nature of modern feminist culture. | [
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I've been debating on who I want to choose as my MOH for weeks now. I'm stuck between two very close friends of mine (I would consider both my sisters). One has been my best friend since high school, but she lives in WV (I'm in SC) and has a young disabled daughter and is a single mom. With her being so far away and taking care of her daughter I don't think its fair to either of us to put the responsibilities of a MOH on her, but she would be very hurt if I picked someone else. My other friend, however, originally went to school to become a wedding planner. She lives in AZ, BUT her father is a pilot so she can fly for free so traveling is not an issue. I think she would excel at the MOH duties, but I would hate to hurt my other friend by not choosing her. | What matters more when picking a MOH: Ability to do MOH duties or your friend's feelings? | [
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18, and no. He was an asshole and a cheater but I didn't know that at the time. He took me to.the mountains, came back had a candlelit dinner and it was really sweet. He was the first guy I thought I loved. We were engaged for a bit.
Sad part is 6 months later I found him on top of another woman. | 18 year olds are naive | [
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Piracy is bad. So is the current state of copyright law.
But you know what sickens me even more than either of them? This sense of entitlement to any damn thing people want. I read through a good number of posts here and I don't know how many people I saw writing things like "I can't afford it and I want to listen to the music." Or, "I grabbed a copy of the software as a because it is absurdly priced by the people who 'own' it." (That's right, photoshop, matlab... I'm looking at you).
But you know what? None of these justifies piracy. Just because you feel you deserve it, doesn't mean you do. Pay for it or don't use it. That's the point of money. If you don't want to spend the money, then go grab some friends and make your own version of it. Or download one of the many free softwares that does what you need it to do. | I wanted to make a top level post that will likely be Down-voted to extinction. | [
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People rip on AA because of its religious affiliations but, as someone who had to attend a few meetings because of a court order (possession of 1 keystone light outside of a party), i guarantee the people there will be empethetic to your plight and do everything in their power to help you. and i genuinely mean that - there were good fucking people at these meetings and i almost felt bad attending these things because of how profound their experiences and world-views were and i was just some 20 year old college kid.
i will say, it seems like you may have some underlying psychological things going on here too. i feel like i get that smashed too regularly but i just don't feel guilty - maybe thats because i am just a meathead but it looks like you truly want a change in your life. alcohol seems to not be a way for you to "kick back and party" it seems like you are literally only drinking to fill a void in you.
you'll get through these hard times. you have the power within you to kick this habit and will soon find something you truly enjoy. | everyone gets bombed/sloppy occasionally and thats fine. but, you seem to drink as an escape which is a problem. AA is helpful. you can do it! good luck! | [
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Hello everyone-- I have an interesting scenario that I could use some information on. This is a long one and kind of complicated so I'll do my best to explain.
I have a family member, "Jane", who has been identified as having ADHD and has a 504 plan. This year, Jane failed math do to not completing homework, losing notes and classwork, and generally not understanding the material. The school district has a separate building called the "Learning Center" where students with disabilities are sent when they need intervention in specific subjects. It is only as needed and it wouldn't change their placement to be there for just one hour a day. This student is in need of math assistance as evidenced by her grades and teacher feedback/ recommendation.
However, there is another student in the learning center who made threats to bring a gun to school. This student, "Molly", was in a rehab facility for 6 months earlier this year and is just now starting school again... in the learning center.
Here is the issue- this family member of mine was the one who reported to girl (the other student posted about her threats on facebook). Jane spoke to the police and showed them the content on Molly's facebook.
Jane's mom asked the counselor to put Jane in the learning center for math intervention. Jane failed math and has a 504 plan. Naturally you would think that Jane would be able to access this resource in order to receive the one-on-one assistance she requires. But, because Molly is in the learning center, the guidance counselor (another issue- why is no one in the special education department in charge of Jane's 504 plan???) said that Jane is not allowed to be in the learning center for Jane's own safety.
What can Jane's mother do for her?
Is there evidence of discrimination?
Aren't they restricting Jane from the intervention she needs because of another student's behavioral issues?
I know a 504 doesn't carry the same weight as an IEP-- but there has to be something Jane's mother can do about the situation.
Any advice would be great...
This is in Utah, by the way. | Student with a 504 plan is not being given access to learning intervention due to another student's behavioral problems. What do?
[EDIT: I told Jane's mom to talk to the director of special education already, still waiting to hear back... but I'd like to be able to give her more info if I can to help build her case!] | [
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We were dating for a few months over summer and then I fell out of love with her, I told her this and we eventually broke up, I felt really bad about this but I thought honesty would be the best route in the long run. Well she stopped talking to me, which was fair enough, but tonight I got a message from her, to start with it was pretty normal "Hey" "How are you?" the normal stuff.
But then she starts saying how she tried to hang herself and she blames me for it. She even started using my own history with depression and suicide against me and was pretty much just trying to make me feel bad. I blocked her but the whole thing has hit me hard and I don't know how to shake it off. Any advice would be much appreciated. | Ex messaged me out of the blue then blamed me for her suicide attempt, now I don't know how to feel | [
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Hello PCMR, for some time I had a R9 295X2 and Titan Z in my possession to run it with my LGA 1366 Dual Xeon Platform. However Windows (All versions) simply blue screen because it has to do with how 1st gen core i7/nehalem/westemere handles PCIe lanes. Nehalem/Westemere was the last Intel chipset to actually have a true Northbridge, as it contained PCIe lanes and not in the CPU and used QPI links to connect with CPUs and reduce latency. The problem kicks in on How windows OS handles PCIe lanes and the protocol following it with the Dual GPU cards. R9 295X2/Titan Z both use PLX8487, which doubles the PCIe lane taken in from the PCIe slot provided. However, this type of configuration has conflicting protocols since the PCIe lanes are located in Northbridge, not on CPU. Because of this, when windows loads drivers for the GPU, it becomes unstable and crashes 10 seconds after the driver has loaded since it cannot handle conflicting PCIe protocols. Unix Distributions, such as FreeBSD or Linux mint has no problems with the drivers because their way of handling PCIe protocol and data is significantly different from Windows. | do not use R9 295X2 or Titan Z with Nehalem/Westemere Xeon 5520/5500 chipset in Windows, it will crash due to conflicting PCIe protocols. | [
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Little bit of background: I'm dating a single mom of 36 (child is 5) who has had 2 ex husbands. She moved from America to the Netherlands, and got a child here. She has no family, and bad relations with her Dutch ex-husband. I'm a 25 year old almost starting his PhD in chemistry. When I was 12 I was diagnosed with abandonment issues (another story, but relevant). We have been having a lot of ups and downs, a lot of (bad) fights, but also a lot of fun.
When I first started dating her, I noticed that her child had bad eating habits (no vegetables, didnt want to try anthing new), and was afraid to try to do new things. Generally a really sensitive kid. I've worked for the past (almost 2 years) to helping him eat vegetables, getting him to do more things and getting more brave basically. I feel like I have succeeded in that, and he loves me for it.
She opened a shop in the Netherlands, and me and my friends helped her a lot to set it up. Some of my friends started working there for her, and they became friends as well. In the meantime, I was really busy with college, and started living with her and her child (but still keeping my previous house available). This all continued for about a year or so, with our ups and downs, and her getting closer with my friends while I was getting more and more busy with my work.
So about a week ago I was told by my friends that my girlfriend has been saying really bad things about me. About me being a tyrant, about me not taking good care of her son, about me cursing her out all the time, that I was bad in bed, that I did not want to see my friends, that I was scaring her, etc.
My friends believed her, and I started seeing them less and less. When I went on a vacation with my girlfriend, one of my friends found out that my girlfriend has also been saying bad things about her. This caused my friend to tell me all the things my girlfriend said about me.
I fear she did this all on purpose; I fear that she was talking bad about me so if we were to break up, she would still have my friends as like a 'social net', so she wouldn't be alone.
Now I feel betrayed, I feel like I can't trust her anymore, and I simply don't know what to do. I can't imagine living without her, or not seeing her child anymore. I've grown attached to him, and I feel like if I leave, it will go downhill for him. But besides all that, I really don't think there is a future, but I am simply afraid to leave her. I still love her, and I don't know what to do. Any help will be greatly appreciated. | My girlfriend told lies about me to my friends, crushing my trust and destroying my ego. I feel like I don't want to break up with her, but deep down I know that I should. | [
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Fart jokes, butt jokes, poop jokes, boob jokes. | Farts, butts, boobs, poop | [
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At the moment we are experiencing a solar renascence, where advances in technology are driving increase in usage which itself is driving more technology advances in a increasing cycle. So we will experience a very fast growth in solar power over the next few decades, to the point where it will probably obsolete fossil fuels to become the major source of power of our civilization. But in the end solar has its limits^1, and although those limits appear absurdly high right now, I have no doubts that our society hunger for energy will catch up to that demand in a surprisingly quick meaner. Then, we will need alternatives, and for that fusion is our best candidate. | In the end, solar have the potential to be something really big, and probably will be the next big thing, but in the long run fusion have the potential to be even bigger.
^1 I don't mean limits in current technology, I mean hard limits like the actual total power from the sun reaching the earth and how much of the planet surface we can cover without impacting other land usages. And yes, I know it is a ridiculously big number by today's standards, but the key words here are "by today's standards". | [
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I know kind of off topic for this subreddit, but as it is music biz related thought it was the best chance to get someone who might really know.
Ok, some details:
I made a music video for a major label record company. The contract for this project was a work made for hire (meaning that I promised to assign my copyright ownership to them for the compensation I received). But the record company has not paid me a substantial portion of the contracted total.
Any copyright lawyers out there who can answer this, or give me some insight? Since I have not been paid, can I argue that I still retain the copyright for the work and threaten to sue them for infringement? I know that you probably need to go over the details of the contract to know for sure, but I am just looking to see if such a precedent already exists.
In general, when doing a work for hire, are the assignment of those rights contingent on payment? Or when entering such a contract are you assigning the rights right from the start?
What makes this most frustrating is that the Artist, Management and Label have all expressed how happy they are and that this video far exceeded their expectations...
Anyway sorry for bringing a downer to subreddit that usually brings me such joy. Keep up making the beautiful music, you all inspire me.
EDIT - I totally agree with all of you who are advising to get a lawyer and to see - but holding off a bit cause the 2 recommended to me sound like they will want a retainer that is 50% of what I am owed. And my goal isn't to sue.
My Goal is to make a legitimate enough sounding threat of pursuing an infringement case that they will just pay. There is no argument that they owe the money or that the project is delivered as they wanted. They just are not paying cause they have what they need, and they know the cost of pursuing this makes it foolish for me to try to collect through the courts.
Hoping that there is a really cool lawyer out there on Reddit, who can tell me if in the US, non payment of a work for hire contract voids it, or at least sometimes does. (In my mind this Lawyer is a really cool cat who plays Jazz on the weekends, still reads the newspaper cause he likes the feel of the rough print between his fingers, happens to know copyright law like the back of his hand, and likes to stand up for the little guy. Not sure why those details are important : ).
But even if not lawyer, any advise on how to encourage final payment from clients would be appreciated too. | Record label ain't paying, I am trying to get creative way to make them want to.
EDIT: Thanks all for the Advise! After talking to a Lawyer, I think the best course of action I really have is to keep playing nice and trying to get them to pay through gentle persuasion. The money is both big for me, and to much to file in small claims, and to small to make it worth someone else getting involved.
This company is a huge conglomerate, and I gain many of my jobs through another division of this company. So going to war, or playing hardball, seems will only hurt my other work there. I did "accidentally let it slip" to one of the heads of another department that usually has my back about the situation I was in. So hoping that they are able to put some internal pressure on it. Anyway, Thanks for the support, kind words and Advice! No go create some amazing music and call me to make a video for you! | [
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I have been convinced that the Vikings have a really good football team and despite yesterday's loss, I still believe as much.
That makes you wonder though, why such an dud yesterday? You are looking at a red hot Vikings team coming off of a six game win streak at home against a limping packers team that hasn't played exceptionally well in weeks. The Vikings, who have been nearly unmatched in their discipline as a team, ability to avoid mistakes, their ability to run and frankly their ability to play defense as a whole, saw all of those winning traits collapse in front of them. Why? I wondered why why why why, and there's one answer.
They are playing the Packers. AR is 10-1 against them since 2010. Pathetic. The Vikings are a REALLY good football team, but the GREAT football teams are able to mentally break free from the "little brother" mentality of inferiority. Look at the reality: They have bulked up and grown up, preparing for another chance to step in the ring with the GBP. When they finally do, confident as all hell, the second they line up across AR that confidence disappears. No discipline. Penalties. Bullied on the front lines. Can't get a first down. Can't capitalize. Give up big plays. The same mentality will happen in the playoffs if they can't overcome those chains by the end of the season. That's the difference. Look at the Super bowl winning Seahawks from two years ago. Look at their formula for success. The only difference was their mentality. Their swagger. That's the next big step I believe the Vikings need to take in order to be elite. | I f ** hate Aaron Rodgers. | [
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After playing far too much L4D2 to the point where i needed a workshop addon for every detail just so it wouldn't feel the same, this was incredibly enjoyable for me.
I got to level 25 before the Alpha ended and i got to play a decent amount of everything, except for only two matches as the monster and about three as the medic (the only hunter class I am unbearably awful at).
I definitely prefer the whole class system compared to L4D1/2's every character is just a different skin with no unique abilities. Support appealed the most to me by far as it fit my play style very nicely, especially playing as Bucket. I think the class are varied vary nicely and it is good to have classes which don't feel similar as it can cause a game to become bland quite quickly.
The monster also seemed fairly balanced once you knew what you were doing, i noticed that a fair amount of matches were wins and losses. I can see a person who joined in later being completely destroyed by more experienced hunters and vice versa as it has a fairly higher entry level for new players compared to L4D.
The levelling system seems pretty basic from what i have seen and the perks just become upgraded versions of ones you have already unlocked later on. The perks are also not very situational but down to personal preference so you will find one you like and stick to it in pretty much every game.
My other problems boil down to that all of the maps felt pretty similar and that the seemed a bit small when you are supposed to be on a whole alien planet. The jetpack is very fun but is annoying to wait for to recharge (once i unlocked the perk to have a faster recharging jetpack I always chose that at the start of literally every game afterwards). I would like to see the jetpack work where it has limited fuel but immediately is full once again when to touch the ground (like in Lifeless Planet or the Mako in Mass Effect 1). I also enjoyed using the jetpack burst to dodge the monsters attacks at the last second.
It was very fun to feel like you were constantly on the chase and right behind the monster at all times once you learn how to keep your speed up which lead to some very intense encounters.
The 20 minute time limit seemed very forced and unneeded when you are usually in the middle of a game which can still go either way when both the monster and the hunters are equally as good.
The AI of the hunters is decent enough that they won't lose the game for you, but they definitely won't win it for you either. The AI on the Trapper's pet, Daisy, is unbearable at most times, she can be useful to revive teammates whilst the other hunters are busy fighting off the monster, but when she is the last one alive she loves to run into danger and practically commit suicide on you.
I was pleasantly surprised when I found out that certain enemies can drop buffs for both the player and the monster once you kill hem which can give either party that extra edge in a battle.
Evolving as the monster unfortunately only lets you upgrade basic stats on the four abilities you can choose from at the start of the game instead of different branches that can alter your abilities slightly and change up the gameplay.
Kraken is OP.
Each class seems well rounded and none of them seem to unbalanced, I like how each class has different characters and each character has it's own abilities letting you change up the teams quite a bit when you have unlocked a few of them.
The waypoint tagging makes it easier for players who don't know each other to communicate and work together even though a team of people you know with voice chat is still the ideal option.
Some of my favourite features of the game include choosing your preferences on which classes you would like the play the most and which you would least like to play. Most of the time you tend to end up with either your first or second choice of class which is very nice and frankly more class-based games should have this feature in them.
I also love the ability to take over a bot if you would prefer to play that class incase you joined a match mid game (which didn't happen too often) or incase the class you was playing got killed.
By far the worst part of the game is that there is way too many loading screens for a game which sometimes lasts only 4 minutes, this is a pretty big problem for the game at the moment and I hope gets changed by the time the beta is released.
There are lots of little details in the game which make you enjoy it just that much more. For example, the sound design in this game is amazing, everything sounds really cool from the med gun to the sounds of all the wildlife running around. The ability for the monster to accident alert environmental triggers which alert the players to where the monster is (or was once you get there) is also a very nice addition and can help hunters if they get a little lost.
The voice actors for the hunters is pretty good which some good dialogue (Bucket, despite being a robot, is hilarious). | The game is really solid and enjoyable however I am not to sure what else they can do with it in terms of more game modes, but for now I just had the best 22 hours of a multiplayer game in a long time, but how many more will it last for, it reminds me a lot of what happened with Titanfall's beta compared to it's launch. And also Kraken OP plz nerf.
(Sorry about any typos or errors I missed out on, we all know what it is like commenting on mobile). | [
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The AI on the Trapper's pet, Daisy, is unbearable at most times, she can be useful to revive teammates whilst the other hunters are busy fighting off the monster, but when she is the last one alive she loves to run into danger and practically commit suicide on you. \n I was pleasantly surprised when I found out that certain enemies can drop buffs for both the player and the monster once you kill hem which can give either party that extra edge in a battle. \n Evolving as the monster unfortunately only lets you upgrade basic stats on the four abilities you can choose from at the start of the game instead of different branches that can alter your abilities slightly and change up the gameplay. \n Kraken is OP. \n Each class seems well rounded and none of them seem to unbalanced, I like how each class has different characters and each character has it's own abilities letting you change up the teams quite a bit when you have unlocked a few of them. \n The waypoint tagging makes it easier for players who don't know each other to communicate and work together even though a team of people you know with voice chat is still the ideal option. \n Some of my favourite features of the game include choosing your preferences on which classes you would like the play the most and which you would least like to play. 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You guys remember those beads that you would stick on templates and then iron and they'd turn into solid shapes for like ornaments and shit? Well my mom would buy me thousands of those when I was like twelve in all different colors and I would sort them into different bowls by colors for hours. And when I was finished if mix them all back together and start over. | I was a weird kid that liked to sort beads for hours. | [
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Frankly, if you're carrying and you have no training at all, you're a disaster waiting to happen.
But at the same time, I do not think that state-mandated training is a solution to that problem.
This is how Tennessee's permit system works: You're required to take an 8-hour course that covers an overview of Tennessee's deadly-force laws and a crash course in handgun handling. There's a written test covering the laws and a range test to prove you know enough not to shoot yourself by accident.
Because the state mandates this course, people think it's enough. I have several friends who carry and who have no training beyond the TN permit course. I wasn't kidding about how basic the firearms handling training is with this course; pick the firearm up off of the range bench, load it, fire at the target. There is no work on drawing from concealment, no discussion about shooting under stress, nothing about shot placement, and nothing about the concept of situational awareness.
The schools offer other courses, obviously, but it's not built into the TN-required training. | my theory is that Tennessee, by mandating an inadequate training course, is producing unsafe carriers because the carriers think that TN's course is 'good enough'. | [
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I was spending the nights at a friends house, I think I was 14 at the time. I was minding my own business playing video games with my other friend who was there, and we start wondering where Adam (friend whose house I am) is. We go around his whole basement opening doors and such, and we find an empty bowl of Hersey kisses that his mom brought down earlier, so we think no big deal he went to get more. We were horribly mistaken. We heard a noise in the bathroom and the light was on and the door was open, we went in to investigate. Horrible mistake. Adam was in his underwear covering himself with melted chocolate. We ran out of the bathroom as Adam made some caveman noise and ran out the basement door. Me and my other friend locked the doors to the room with the video games in it. 10 minutes later, someone that we knew in his neighborhood called use up and said, "Why is Adam at my back door covered in chocolate? He's getting chocolate on the door!" Then 10 minutes later Adam shows up in the window of the room we were in, still covered in chocolate. We didn't let him in. We are still terrified of him to this day. | Friend covers himself in chocolate, terrorizes the neighborhood. | [
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I disagree with your math. If one side takes 100% of the blame, I don't see how there can be any more of it. If anything, the victim's "fault" would have to be something different. Which I call "regret".
>Of course legally you are at zero fault for being mugged, I have no arguments about this. But I wasn't discussing this from a legal perspective here, I'm trying to see this using common sense. You put yourself in that situation, you have to share the blame.
I believe the legal perspective is very rational. On the one hand, you have causality in the "conditio sine qua non" meaning: if the victim hadn't gone to that crime area, she wouldn't have been robbed/stabbed/raped. This kind of causality would lead to pretty much limitless blame for everyone who in any way contributed to the victim being there at that particular time. The friend she was going to visit, the bus driver who got her to that particular area, etc.
To put a limit to who can be blamed and for what, you've got to check whether or not the action that causally lead to the crime does so in a morally reprehensible way. It is at this point where I believe that exercising your rights comes into play, because you can't blame someone for doing that. | not every single part of the chain of events that leads to a crime is blameworthy | [
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If you are in a dysfunctional family or societal system, start researching. There are books for Adult Children of Dysfunctional Families. Also, lots of information online.
Don't let idiots around you turn you into a victim because they refuse to deal with their shit.
Be strong. You have friends here. We've seen how shitty life can be and how good it feels to not have to feel any of it.
However, life does get better once you can remove those people from your life and have healthy friends and family that are supportive and helpful.
Look into therapy. If a therapist doesn't know how to talk to you without insulting you. Find a new therapist. If you can't afford one and you don't have free options, turn to books on the issues you find out you have from research and start there.
Also, don't sell yourself unless you really feel comfortable with it. It becomes an addictive cycle. If you're up for that, do what you wish, but I would do some reading into AMA's from prostitutes and really get yourself ready for the commitment your making. | You're probably fine. You were probably fucked up by the people around you and you probably still have to live with some of them. Try to find help and research before making big decisions like that. | [
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He probably has a reddit, so I'm gonna keep this up for only an hour or so (in case he sees it).
I dated this guy for a few months. There were obvious communication issues and sex issues (I wouldn't have sex with him), but otherwise, we got along unusually well. While he tried to make it work for a while, he ultimately dumped me by a slow fade (I think he tried to call me but wound up just ignoring a couple subsquent texts of mine).
Once I realized it was over, I cut contact and have cut contact since. I moved on and have been feeling pretty good about things - getting a promotion, strengthening friendships, doing fun things. I almost thought he would come back or at least express a desire to be friends.
Obviously he hasn't come around, but I've been getting this aching desire to reach out to him to be friends. While I obviously don't want to date someone who already dumped me once, I think we would be good friends. Nonetheless, I'm extremely torn about whether to reach out or not.
On one hand, I'm afraid he's going to reject me and I'm going to feel terrible. Then my pride would be wounded and I would feel like an idiot. On the other hand, while I'm content having the upper hand in that I've proven my worth by staying away from him, I still don't really have closure. I guess on one hand I feel really hurt that he dumped me, on the other hand I still want to be friends kind of or get closure or something.
I'm really torn about what to do and would really appreciate a well-thought-out advice or help to figure out what I should do? I'm trying to minimize humiliation and maximize peace of mind. Also, I've tried to do exercises to forget about it/him, which aren't working. | I was broken up with amicably by a guy I dated for a few months through a fade out, about 6 months ago. While I don't have feelings for him, I want to be friends, but don't want to look/feel like an idiot for reaching out. Thoughtful advice (that stems beyond "just move on") is appreciated? | [
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Yeah and look at all of the inventions that came from what the military invented, radios, thermal vision, submarines, airplanes (well technically the wright brothers win that, but the army funded their operations after they got their first flight), etc.
Now you could say that war has caused more casualties than space travel, but space travel is in it's infancy, what do you think will happen when space ships are as readily available as guns are today? It's a moot point to believe that space travel doesn't cost a shit ton of money. I don't believe in the war at the middle east, but war costs money. I think you all need to take a little history lesson and learn that this isn't the first time the U.S. has done this, oh, like I don't know, the Spanish-American-Cuban war? Or WW1?
Is $739 billion really that much money for other countries to have invested into us in this modern day? Remember in civil war times when the North sold bonds to fund the war? All of this shit has been done before people, history just ends up repeating itself. | how did i go from military inventions to the river of history, what in the fuck? | [
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problem is assuming you care about trading at all the existance of chain fishing has lowered the worth of shiny fished pokemon.
also everything is percent based. you can get really lucky or really unlucky. neither proves it has an increased rate or a decreased one. Even if they do it doesnt mean you will be rolling in shinys. | they know you are purposely seeking them out now so they are hiding from you in revenge | [
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Well my stepmother decided I needed to find out the truth about my real mother (whom I have never met) by drunkenly screaming
Step monster - "Yeah she (teenyfeet) is a piece of shit just like her mother!"
Me- "What do you mean by that?"
Dad- "step monster stop it!"
Step monster- "she's in jail for murdering someone. Little bitch will be just like her bitch mother!"
Yeah up until this point I had no idea...
A few years later she openly cheated on my dad...while I was home. Then kicked me out. Of course after a few days I went home and she made me feel guilty for making her look bad.
Almost every time I saw her when I visited from college I was referred to as the little bitch at least once.
Once I got married she always fought with my husband and I. She said really fucked up stuff about him and tried to get me to leave him. He was the only reason I would even visit them.
All the while this was happening my father would just drink and take her abuse and tell me to let it all go...
A few moths ago I cut off ties. Life's better now. Much better.
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Former art student here.
The important thing to understand when drawing is that what you SEE is not what you PERCEIVE, and you have to draw what you SEE.
The example we were given in class was a simple children's wooden block. When we look at it, from a given angle, we see both broad and flat angles, and we see different angles as we move around. Our brain integrates all these viewpoints and angles to PERCEIVE that all of the angles are actually square, even though we might never have viewed it from an point where any of the square angles actually appeared square.
When a new artist tries to draw that simple cube, even with it right in front of them for comparison, they have a tendency to flatten the sharp angles and narrow the broad angles because they're trying to draw the cube they PERCEIVE (with all of its square corners) rather than the angles they are actually SEEING from their current point of view. That is, their brain is lying to them about what they're seeing to the point where they can't accurately draw a simple shape that's right in front of their eyes.
When you see artists holding out their pencil/pen/whatever and squinting while looking at their model, they're using their pencil as a measuring stick so they can accurately judge ratios or angles to keep their perception of the object from interfering too much with their attempt to draw what they're actually seeing.
Addressing the OP's question a little more closely, though, take a step back to what I was talking about assembling the mental cube from the various viewpoints. The brain is VERY GOOD at assembling the mental model of a cube, or a dog, taking in various cues and clues...but it does it subconsciously. It doesn't TELL you what cues are used to let you know the snout is kinda cylindrical, that the head is rounded, it just slaps the pieces together into a 3d model and discards the cues that let it determine the shape. To be fair, the cues will vary due to lighting, but the shape itself is relatively unchanging, so it's more important to remember the shape than the variable light cues that helped you determine the shape. The problem arises when you want to draw that dog, and even if you realize that the snout is roughly a cylinder or the skull is roughly a sphere, your brain doesn't tell you what marks you need to add to the paper to make the appearance of a cylinder, or the appearance of a sphere, other than the most basic. It READS the cues natively, but needs to learn how to also WRITE them; writing those cues is a separate, acquired skill.
These were the two most important parts of learning to draw: learning to draw what you are seeing and not what you are perceiving, and learning to analyze what you see to find the cues that tell you what you're actually looking at and replicate them. There's plenty to be learned about how to use a particular medium to draw, sketch, or paint, but these skills are necessary for accurate renditions regardless of medium. | You can't draw that dog in your head because your brain is a filthy liar. | [
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I am posting to say I handed out more downvotes for not adding anything useful in this thread than I have in a long time. And I am usually pretty cautious with downvotes. | this thread, hmmm. | [
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It has an amazing competitive community, it'll take about 5 more years for it to go
No offense, but bullshit. I played 3 seasons of gold HL, and a few seasons of ESEA open. The competitive is a shit show, poorly organized, and valve doesn't support it in the slightest. One major reason it lasted 8 years (and this, I remind you, is coming from someone with over 5000 hours in the game) Is the hats. Now that CS:GO has superior (albeit very different) competitive gameplay, with major valve supported tournaments, leagues, etc, a much more stable economy (as tf2s falls apart largely in thanks to backpack.tf) tf2 is loosing it's core player base to CS and other games, while many super casual players pick up the game, put 20 hours in, then never play again. This is how a F2P game dies. Those dumping cash into the game, quit it. 5 years is a massive stretch, especially for an already aging 8 year old game. I give it 1-2 tops. | You're wrong, comp is a joke, economy crashing, CS:GO does everything better, 1-2 more years of TF2 tops. | [
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In a situation like rape you're already in fight or flight mode, the sympathetic system is dilating your blood vessels, opening up your bronchioles, and increasing blood flow to your genitals.
No that is not what happens during the acute stress response. During the "flight or fight" response epinephrine produces vasoconstriction pretty much everywhere except in skeletal muscle. Blood flow to the genitals is not increased during the acute stress response.
>The context of the situation is what is the awful part, but the part that your body understands is the same as a normal sexual encounter.
No it isn't. Copulatory preparation and "flight or fight" are two distinct types of physiological arousal each with their own distinct function and physiology. Erection is actualy inhibited during the "fight or flight" response (see here
> | The same system which deals with fear and danger is the one that makes your body ready for orgasm.
No it isn't. Your post is a farrago of nonsense. | [
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I am a second year Computer Science student and just finished up our uni's intro sequence. So far I've learned Java, C++, and a tiny bit of MySQL (the class emphasized more database design than code). Looking around at job postings, I'm trying to get a feel for what skillsets/languages employers are looking for.
I am beginning to feel overwhelmed by the sheer amount of languages and material there is in the computer science field. I suppose it's worth mentioning I am also interested in networking and system administration, which only adds onto the plate. It's not just OO languages, but web programming, networking concepts, scripting, etc.
So, does anyone else feel this way about this field sometimes? And can anyone offer up some advice on what to focus on, how to avoid feeling this way, etc? I feel like rather than becoming an expert in a few areas, I'm going to turn into someone who knows a little of everything, but not enough to be useful. | I've only but started out in the CS field and I'm beginning to feel overwhelmed by the amount of material. | [
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I know this has been brought up, but Ima tell ya anyways. You probably want to go to someone who deals with this kind of stuff, maybe a priest, or a rabbi if thats your thing. Theres got to be a reason you're being targeted (thats the only word I can think of for this) maybe do some research into the area you crashed. This kind of stuff usually doesn't seem to happen for no good reason. Make sure you dont provoke it/them. I dont think it will matter cause they dont seem nice anyways, but better safe then not.
Also your moms a gigantic dickwad. | Priest, research, dont provoke, moms a dick | [
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I've browsed around here for a while now, and I want to start running to tone up, as well as tighten up on discipline. I'm already athletic, I play league standard badminton so I have quite good stamina and determination to take up running.
My issue is that I can't run to the bottom of the street without getting out of breath which is quite embarrassing, as its only 0.6 of a mile -- I don't even smoke and I'm reasonably fit. How would one advise that I build up my endurance to last a whole mile as a start (is this too much for the first couple of runs?), whilst still maintaining a brisk pace?
EDIT: I live in the UK - if that's of any consolation. | Want to start running, but I get out of breath fast | [
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We've been together a year, we used to have sex all the time but in the last few months it's slowed down a lot. I find it's me who initiates 90% of the time and I feel the 10% he initiates is because he feels obliged to. He tells me it's because he's exhausted. Furthermore, he tells me it's a turn-off when I initiate constantly like I'm nagging him for sex. I've tried being patient, waiting for him to initiate but we just end up going without having sex if I do that.
Also, he recently told me I fuck like a virgin most of the time. I asked him what he meant by this and he said it's because I don't masturbate in front of him and apparently I look too innocent? He refused to explain further. I don't just lay there, I'm very enthusiastic when we have sex and it really hurts my already low self-esteem and has made me feel anxious about having sex with him. Previously, he'd make comments suggesting contrary beliefs than "fucking like a virgin" so I felt betrayed that he lied. Also, he compared me to a gymnast he'd fucked in the past who "knew what she was doing" which really hurt. I think part of it is he never communicated what he wanted with me previously and despite me communicating with him what I wanted (rougher sex) he refuses to have me how I want and it leaves me unsatisfied which makes him feel inadequate or something.
EDIT: I x-posted this in /r/sex and we discussed things again over the phone and I showed him the post and he wanted me to add a few things: He wanted me to say how he believes the issue is just how tired he is. He does work long hours doing exhausting physical labour. The problem with this is I have offered him space as needed but he refuses to set and reinforce boundaries with me or himself then blames me for his exhaustion and lack of space. I admit we do argue a lot when we are together and it's not exactly relaxing but most of these fights stem from a frustration from a lack of intimacy/sex. It leaves me feeling unwanted and unattractive when he swats me away when I go down on him or he says things like "for the first time in forever" he's actually wanted to fuck me when I was wearing some heels.
He also wanted me to mention that I went on tinder right after breaking up once and also right before (we got back together since then.) I admit it wasn't right but I just felt he'd pushed me away too much. | BF says I initiate too much and also fuck like a virgin
Are we just too sexually incompatible? Also am I also being too impatient/entitled and disrespectful of his needs/boundaries?
Thoughts/advice would be appreciated. | [
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I called my female colleague a cunt about five times today... | she's a cunt | [
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Tanks and healers get much faster queues for instances and preferential loot. There's only ever 1, or at most, 2 cloth users in a dungeon (if there's a sorc). Likewise for tanks, typically they're the only heavy armor user unless there's a zerker.
Tanks can also grind fairly quickly if they are pulling 3-4 groups at a time, and healers are more readily able to insert themselves into group BAM quests.
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Everything wants to live, that's kind of what evolution dictates, as far as biology goes, living and reproducing is pretty much the goal.
We eat other animals, these other animals eat more animals, these animals eat plants, these plants eat other plants and are fertilised with dead plants.
I find beauty in delicate systems, how nature has learned to control thermodynamics to produce the products it requires through billions of years of trial and error. That means billions of years of life, which also implies billions of years of death. Why can you not see they are one and the same thing. The more life you wish to grant, the more diffrent organisms will need to die.
I understand your hatred for people who eat lovely animals, and there are proper reasons in favour of it, but keep your morality, I do not need it. Extrapolate your morality, and you will live with as little means as possible to enable as much other life as possible. Cars, computers, electricity, internet, the movies you like and that make you feel good, bad or like you'd want to change the world. When you're ill, don't take antibiotics, I mean you're killing millions of creatures intentionally just for the sake of one human. The drugs you may or may not take, they're all needless wastes of resources.
I guess extrapolating your morality like this isn't 'practical'. In fact, the end result is a simple statement, is your own life worth everything you eat? Is your fancy, rich life, worth the amount of child labour in far-away countries? Is your fancy, rich life worth the animals and plants that constantly die for your sake? The energy you consume worth the cost it comes at?
Before you suicide, because your morality isn't dominated by your tastebuds but by your compassion for all the living things, making you in fact a weak and useless predator incapable of sustaining it's own life, please realise that our rich and fancy lives probably ARE worth it. Because unlike the cattle we slaughter, we're capable of thought. That doesn't necessarily make us better, superior. It does make us more fit to finding an actual solution for the issues you point out. | being vegan is an arbitrairy line. Extrapolating your morality leads to suicide. You cannot explain why you do eat plants, but not animals. You draw the line at plants, not animals. We draw the line at animals, but not humans. And in all honesty, I think eating certain parts of humans wouldn't be too awful. Better than letting them rot in a coffin... But then again, while rotting they're food for worms. Wouldn't want the worms to starve, would we? | [
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I haven't been able to really play NMS after release because of massive fps drops. It just ruins the immersion completely. So I did some testing today after the newest patch did nothing to fix the problem.
Even in the lowest settings I would get the same kind of drop so I knew it shouldn't be the GPU. The drops were always 1/3 of the current FPS. With FPS set to MAX I had 60-70 fps but while moving I would see drops of 20 frames. Then I limited to 30 fps to at least get stable fps. Now I got drops of 10 fps.
So I started monitoring the hardware while running around. GPU never went past 45% after the initial load into the game. Temps were around 60 C which is low on my PC (Overwatch gets ~70 C). Then I checked the CPU and surprise suprise, during every fps drop, at least two cores went to 100% load while the others were near 90%
My CPU is i5-4690K so I think it should be powerful enough to not see these kinds of loads. Correct me if I'm wrong on that part. So... I'm pretty much screwed at the moment. I've only played 12 hours of the game and can't play any more. It's just not fun when after every 20 meters I melee glide I get huge stutters.
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r/SubredditDrama has been overrun with Mens Rights Advocates and neckbeards who compete to 'expose' shills despite flimsy or nonexistent evidence of shilling.
I know this because I am a professional corporate shill and astroturfer, and I've spent a fair amount of time testing /r/SubredditDrama using a variety of different throwaway accounts.
I've found several predictable, repeatable, statically model-able outcomes based on the posts I've entered here, and I've adapted my behavior as a shill as a result.
I've created 'troll' threads out of explicitly non-drama posts to see the reaction, and (significantly) more often than not the reaction in /r/SubredditDrama has been to take the accusation of shilling at face value.
In those cases, the downvotes for the initial thread have been predictable, quantifiable, and statistically model-able.
In addition, the upvotes in /r/SubredditDrama (and resulting traffic) have been predictable, reliable, and statistically modelable, so much so that I know exactly how long to wait after posting to another subreddit before I should post to /r/SubredditDrama with another account and 'out' the initial post as astroturfing so that I achieve a maximum blended traffic from the two posts.
The existence of /r/SubredditDrama has been a revelation because, while exposing an initial thread here means that thread will be swiftly downvoted by the cattle of a voting bloc that /r/SubredditDrama has become, it also means that I can drive a 'second wave' (often bigger than the first) of traffic to my viral drama by posting in /r/SubredditDrama.
I've even gotten you to regularly view my arguments while saying mean things about a different subreddit who you thought was behind it. No joke! I've driven tons of traffic for my subreddits while you've assembled a lynch mob for another subreddit who you mistakenly thought was behind it, several times!
The existence and predictable behavior of /r/SubredditDrama has added an entire new tool to my tool belt as a shill, and it is highly reliable and forecast-able.
So the next time you think that anyone criticizing this subreddit is some sort of irrational hater, and the next time that someone calls you a tin-foil-hat-wearer for participating in this subreddit, slow your roll and think carefully about it.
This subreddit has the most predictable behavior and traffic driving potential of any subreddit I've seen, and I've been on reddit since 2007.
PLEASE keep reposting my drama. Or don't, I'll just repost them to /r/SubredditDrama myself.
This isn't some theoretical suggestion that subreddits may be using /r/SubredditDrama to further their agendas.... it's the real deal. Can you deal with that? | I am the enemy, I have infiltrated your ranks, and I am telling you explicitly and without any uncertainty that I am in fact using /r/SubredditDrama as a shilling platform, and it is easier than any other subreddit that I've infiltrated in my 7 years as a redditor due to your cattle mentality, predictable behavior patterns, and general lack of critical thinking.
...... So who's the sheep now, /r/SubredditDrama?
OBEY.
CONFORM.
CONSUME.
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"content": "I am the enemy, I have infiltrated your ranks, and I am telling you explicitly and without any uncertainty that I am in fact using /r/SubredditDrama as a shilling platform, and it is easier than any other subreddit that I've infiltrated in my 7 years as a redditor due to your cattle mentality, predictable behavior patterns, and general lack of critical thinking. \n ...... So who's the sheep now, /r/SubredditDrama? \n OBEY. \n CONFORM. \n CONSUME. \n \n [Sauce](",
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Storytime!
On Wyrmrest Accord there was a male tauren warrior who roleplayed... basically a pimp. Slapped asses, hooked up, openly admitted to ERPing. He was also a colossal asshole at times (in-character anyway). I always thought of him as being the circle of the ERP that went on in Orgrimmar, and not gonna lie I was kind of jealous that it seemed like the 'real girls' were throwing themselves at him.
Now I was roleplaying as a male tauren druid. I had joined a roleplaying guild and roleplayed a lot with a female orc shaman. Weeks went by, we had a lot of fun clashing and aggressively flirting in-character. My character was a pretty dimwitted Tauren, she was a pretty sharp engineer-shaman. So she greeted me as 'stupid' - and I called her ugly. Eventually we started planning our hijinks through whispers, made sure we didn't take IC stuff personally, picked who's day we'd ruin by fighting near them IC. You know. Typical weird-ass horde RP.
One day, as soon as I log on I get whispered by Mr. Taurenpimp.
"Hey stupid! \^_\^"
He got to her too.
Of course, right then I realized how jealous I was that anyone would have her attention. Being super cool 17 year old that I was at the time I replied back cooly:
"Fuck you manwhore" and put him on ignore before he could outsmart me.
A few minutes later, I get a whisper from the She-Orc:
"Fuck you too. What's your problem?"
I went into a rant about how I liked roleplaying with her, and the fun I had, and now she was with that tauren dude, and he was a manwhore, and life sucks, blah blah.
After she ripped me a new one about being clingy and jealous, I found out that the taurenpimp was her character. She had messaged me from him by mistake when she saw me log on. Also I had really really ruined the relationship by being a jealous and clingy weirdo who took IC-flirting personally. | Real girl actually played a male tauren warrior. Teenage me learned his first lesson in a long line of lessons on how to interact with women. | [
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Oh, pick me! I went last weekend! I had a ton of fun!
A couple of things:
It was great! If you love sharks, they definitely have sharks!
I'd recommend going and checking it out from the outside before committing because it was a bit smaller than I had expected.
If you've done dives with sharks before you might be underwhelmed. I've done a bunch of shark dives and this was a little slow by comparison, they weigh you down and you just sit in the sand while the sharks swim around.
If you've never done a shark dive you will probably like it! I can't ever get tired of sharks so it never gets old.
They don't let you touch or kiss or even swim around with the sharks.
If I could do it again for free I would, but I wouldn't pay for it twice. If it's not an insane amount of money for you definitely do it. If the money is a stretch for you maybe check it out from the outside first and then decide! | I live for sharks, if you do too than go for it! | [
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You don't need to look just at Detroit. Look at all industrialized countries and you'll see exactly the type of social structures I'm talking that minimize the structural poverty that's endemic to America, insure a solid middle class and minimize income inequality. We're doing exactly the opposite in the US, and it's having the effect I described to create a permanent underclass of low-skill low-wage workers.
"[The US is] ranked 44th out of 86 countries, well below every other developed society measured. It's one spot below Nigeria, which has some of the worst political corruption in the world and in 2012 saw nationwide protests over perceived income inequality. The United States' Palma ratio ranks it just beneath Nigeria but above Russia and Turkey -- all countries that have experienced heavy political unrest in recent years."
(source: )
And how does income inequality persist? It's built into the system with an ever increasing levels of CEO pay, cost cutting of workers' wages shifted to shareholders. Why is it acceptable to tell millions of our fellow countrymen that it's ok for them to work full time and make a wage below the poverty threshold our own government considers too little money, while fast food company CEO's earn more than 1000 times the typical worker?
(source:
(source: )
Getting back to your second question about why people working in fast food restaurants can't just do your job - if you are anything like me, there's no way it could happen. I have a lot of education, skills, and opportunities that most of today's McDonalds workers will never have, for many different reasons.
The point of raising the minimum wage or unionizing fast food is to recognize that not everyone can do every job, but even the people doing the lowest skilled jobs full time require enough social protection that they can have a decent life. If you're working at a low-wage job today, you're probably making about minimum wage, don't really have any benefits because your employer won't let you work 40 hours, and your employer doesn't t mind if you're on food stamps and getting government healthcare (see: Walmart et al).
If one man treats another man this way, people say it's shameful. When faceless corporations treat millions of people this way, it's seen as "the most capitalist country in the world". I call bullshit on that, and you should too. | Start educating yourself about income inequality. | [
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