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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi first time user, and I am dyslexic so please forgive any spelling errors. \n\nThree months ago my girlfriend broke up with me at school, she did not say why. We dated for three years and it was completely unexpected. Before summer vacation I watched as she walked around with this new guy and did everything we use to do. She stopped speaking to me and ignored me. \n\nI started to speak to the girl I am now dating Lucy. I spent an entire week with her and their was an indecent in class. Lucy walked into our Journalism and she kissed me on the cheek and said good morning. My ex left the class room almost immediately after that. \n\nHer friends told me today that she was crying at her locker because of what Lucy did. Her friends told me that I was torturing her by talking to Lucy and how much of a jerk I am. \n\nSo i sit here with a decision to make. Do I call my ex and talk to her before school we go back or do I leave it alone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi first time user, and I am dyslexic so please forgive any spelling errors. \n\nThree months ago my girlfriend broke up with me at school, she did not say why. We dated for three years and it was completely unexpected. Before summer vacation I watched as she walked around with this new guy and did everything we use to do. She stopped speaking to me and ignored me. \n\nI started to speak to the girl I am now dating Lucy. I spent an entire week with her and their was an indecent in class. Lucy walked into our Journalism and she kissed me on the cheek and said good morning. My ex left the class room almost immediately after that. \n\nHer friends told me today that she was crying at her locker because of what Lucy did. Her friends told me that I was torturing her by talking to Lucy and how much of a jerk I am. \n\nSo i sit here with a decision to make. Do I call my ex and talk to her before school we go back or do I leave it alone?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was on my girlfriend's computer yesterday while she was out, as she asked me to fix something on it. She has that MightyText program that links her text messages from her phone to computer. While I was on the computer a pop-up came up from a guy I haven't met but whose name I recognize. He was a classmate of hers but I didn't think they'd spoken in a couple of years (we both have graduated). The message said \"What's up beautiful?\" and ordinarily I wouldn't look at her stuff as we have nothing to hide but after seeing that I clicked into the program to see what they had been talking about. And if I had anything to be worried about.\n\nThe only other conversation with him that was still there was a couple of weeks ago and went like:\n\nHim: Hey long time no see. [name] said he saw you on the bus the other day\n\nHer: Oh hey! Wait, who's [name]? lol\n\nHim: My best friend, he sat with us in [class] \n\nHer: Ohh, I remember now\n\nHim: So how have you been ? Still dating that dude?\n\nHer: I've been pretty good. And yes I'm still dating [my name]. How have you been? :)\n\nHim: Not too bad. We should kick it sometime, let me take you out ;) I miss you\n\nHer: Lol, I'm good. Don't think [my name] would appreciate that.\n\nHim: Haha aight, let me know if that changes.\n\nAnd she stopped responded after that. Obviously nothing incriminating against her but his words coupled with the text he sent her yesterday really bothered me. I'm a bit bothered she didn't tell me about this exchange but maybe I am out of line there.\n\nSo what do you think? If you were my girlfriend, would you have told me about this? Am I wrong to be bothered and should I bring it up with her? From what I can tell she didn't respond to his message from yesterday so maybe I am overreacting."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was on my girlfriend's computer yesterday while she was out, as she asked me to fix something on it. She has that MightyText program that links her text messages from her phone to computer. While I was on the computer a pop-up came up from a guy I haven't met but whose name I recognize. He was a classmate of hers but I didn't think they'd spoken in a couple of years (we both have graduated). The message said \"What's up beautiful?\" and ordinarily I wouldn't look at her stuff as we have nothing to hide but after seeing that I clicked into the program to see what they had been talking about. And if I had anything to be worried about.\n\nThe only other conversation with him that was still there was a couple of weeks ago and went like:\n\nHim: Hey long time no see. [name] said he saw you on the bus the other day\n\nHer: Oh hey! Wait, who's [name]? lol\n\nHim: My best friend, he sat with us in [class] \n\nHer: Ohh, I remember now\n\nHim: So how have you been ? Still dating that dude?\n\nHer: I've been pretty good. And yes I'm still dating [my name]. How have you been? :)\n\nHim: Not too bad. We should kick it sometime, let me take you out ;) I miss you\n\nHer: Lol, I'm good. Don't think [my name] would appreciate that.\n\nHim: Haha aight, let me know if that changes.\n\nAnd she stopped responded after that. Obviously nothing incriminating against her but his words coupled with the text he sent her yesterday really bothered me. I'm a bit bothered she didn't tell me about this exchange but maybe I am out of line there.\n\nSo what do you think? If you were my girlfriend, would you have told me about this? Am I wrong to be bothered and should I bring it up with her? From what I can tell she didn't respond to his message from yesterday so maybe I am overreacting."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was on my girlfriend's computer yesterday while she was out, as she asked me to fix something on it. She has that MightyText program that links her text messages from her phone to computer. While I was on the computer a pop-up came up from a guy I haven't met but whose name I recognize. He was a classmate of hers but I didn't think they'd spoken in a couple of years (we both have graduated). The message said \"What's up beautiful?\" and ordinarily I wouldn't look at her stuff as we have nothing to hide but after seeing that I clicked into the program to see what they had been talking about. And if I had anything to be worried about.\n\nThe only other conversation with him that was still there was a couple of weeks ago and went like:\n\nHim: Hey long time no see. [name] said he saw you on the bus the other day\n\nHer: Oh hey! Wait, who's [name]? lol\n\nHim: My best friend, he sat with us in [class] \n\nHer: Ohh, I remember now\n\nHim: So how have you been ? Still dating that dude?\n\nHer: I've been pretty good. And yes I'm still dating [my name]. How have you been? :)\n\nHim: Not too bad. We should kick it sometime, let me take you out ;) I miss you\n\nHer: Lol, I'm good. Don't think [my name] would appreciate that.\n\nHim: Haha aight, let me know if that changes.\n\nAnd she stopped responded after that. Obviously nothing incriminating against her but his words coupled with the text he sent her yesterday really bothered me. I'm a bit bothered she didn't tell me about this exchange but maybe I am out of line there.\n\nSo what do you think? If you were my girlfriend, would you have told me about this? Am I wrong to be bothered and should I bring it up with her? From what I can tell she didn't respond to his message from yesterday so maybe I am overreacting."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was on my girlfriend's computer yesterday while she was out, as she asked me to fix something on it. She has that MightyText program that links her text messages from her phone to computer. While I was on the computer a pop-up came up from a guy I haven't met but whose name I recognize. He was a classmate of hers but I didn't think they'd spoken in a couple of years (we both have graduated). The message said \"What's up beautiful?\" and ordinarily I wouldn't look at her stuff as we have nothing to hide but after seeing that I clicked into the program to see what they had been talking about. And if I had anything to be worried about.\n\nThe only other conversation with him that was still there was a couple of weeks ago and went like:\n\nHim: Hey long time no see. [name] said he saw you on the bus the other day\n\nHer: Oh hey! Wait, who's [name]? lol\n\nHim: My best friend, he sat with us in [class] \n\nHer: Ohh, I remember now\n\nHim: So how have you been ? Still dating that dude?\n\nHer: I've been pretty good. And yes I'm still dating [my name]. How have you been? :)\n\nHim: Not too bad. We should kick it sometime, let me take you out ;) I miss you\n\nHer: Lol, I'm good. Don't think [my name] would appreciate that.\n\nHim: Haha aight, let me know if that changes.\n\nAnd she stopped responded after that. Obviously nothing incriminating against her but his words coupled with the text he sent her yesterday really bothered me. I'm a bit bothered she didn't tell me about this exchange but maybe I am out of line there.\n\nSo what do you think? If you were my girlfriend, would you have told me about this? Am I wrong to be bothered and should I bring it up with her? From what I can tell she didn't respond to his message from yesterday so maybe I am overreacting."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I was on my girlfriend's computer yesterday while she was out, as she asked me to fix something on it. She has that MightyText program that links her text messages from her phone to computer. While I was on the computer a pop-up came up from a guy I haven't met but whose name I recognize. He was a classmate of hers but I didn't think they'd spoken in a couple of years (we both have graduated). The message said \"What's up beautiful?\" and ordinarily I wouldn't look at her stuff as we have nothing to hide but after seeing that I clicked into the program to see what they had been talking about. And if I had anything to be worried about.\n\nThe only other conversation with him that was still there was a couple of weeks ago and went like:\n\nHim: Hey long time no see. [name] said he saw you on the bus the other day\n\nHer: Oh hey! Wait, who's [name]? lol\n\nHim: My best friend, he sat with us in [class] \n\nHer: Ohh, I remember now\n\nHim: So how have you been ? Still dating that dude?\n\nHer: I've been pretty good. And yes I'm still dating [my name]. How have you been? :)\n\nHim: Not too bad. We should kick it sometime, let me take you out ;) I miss you\n\nHer: Lol, I'm good. Don't think [my name] would appreciate that.\n\nHim: Haha aight, let me know if that changes.\n\nAnd she stopped responded after that. Obviously nothing incriminating against her but his words coupled with the text he sent her yesterday really bothered me. I'm a bit bothered she didn't tell me about this exchange but maybe I am out of line there.\n\nSo what do you think? If you were my girlfriend, would you have told me about this? Am I wrong to be bothered and should I bring it up with her? From what I can tell she didn't respond to his message from yesterday so maybe I am overreacting."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, I was hoping to get some advice about a problem I've been having with my SO. \n\nFirst off, we are both 22 (M & F), finishing our last year of college. We've been together almost 6 months, and I really do adore her, aside from this one kind of weird behavioral trait. We have very similar interests, share many mutual friends, and get along on a day-to-day basis quite well. \n\nThe problem is that every few weeks, she gets it into her head that I don't appreciate her enough. I'll think everything is going well, and then out of the blue, she'll accuse me of taking her for granted. I really don't think this is the case, as I go out of my way to compliment her and say \"I love you\" almost every day. \n\nAnyways, when this happens, she'll demand that we do this \"couple-building activity\" where she pretends she is dead. She'll light some candles, play \"Amazing Grace\" (the song they played at my grandfather's funeral a few years back), lay in bed, and cover herself with a sheet. Then I am supposed to kneel down and say some \"last words\" to her. She gets pissed if I don't cry, sometimes withholding sex as punishment. \n\nI've always known that she has some self-esteem issues, but this seems a little much. I've tried talking to her about it, but she just gets defensive and says that this activity is necessary for me to grow emotionally and our relationship to grow stronger. I really don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I can't keep mourning her death every few weeks. \n\nSo tell me Reddit, does this sound like normal behavior? How can I show her that I appreciate her without doing this activity?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, I was hoping to get some advice about a problem I've been having with my SO. \n\nFirst off, we are both 22 (M & F), finishing our last year of college. We've been together almost 6 months, and I really do adore her, aside from this one kind of weird behavioral trait. We have very similar interests, share many mutual friends, and get along on a day-to-day basis quite well. \n\nThe problem is that every few weeks, she gets it into her head that I don't appreciate her enough. I'll think everything is going well, and then out of the blue, she'll accuse me of taking her for granted. I really don't think this is the case, as I go out of my way to compliment her and say \"I love you\" almost every day. \n\nAnyways, when this happens, she'll demand that we do this \"couple-building activity\" where she pretends she is dead. She'll light some candles, play \"Amazing Grace\" (the song they played at my grandfather's funeral a few years back), lay in bed, and cover herself with a sheet. Then I am supposed to kneel down and say some \"last words\" to her. She gets pissed if I don't cry, sometimes withholding sex as punishment. \n\nI've always known that she has some self-esteem issues, but this seems a little much. I've tried talking to her about it, but she just gets defensive and says that this activity is necessary for me to grow emotionally and our relationship to grow stronger. I really don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I can't keep mourning her death every few weeks. \n\nSo tell me Reddit, does this sound like normal behavior? How can I show her that I appreciate her without doing this activity?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, I was hoping to get some advice about a problem I've been having with my SO. \n\nFirst off, we are both 22 (M & F), finishing our last year of college. We've been together almost 6 months, and I really do adore her, aside from this one kind of weird behavioral trait. We have very similar interests, share many mutual friends, and get along on a day-to-day basis quite well. \n\nThe problem is that every few weeks, she gets it into her head that I don't appreciate her enough. I'll think everything is going well, and then out of the blue, she'll accuse me of taking her for granted. I really don't think this is the case, as I go out of my way to compliment her and say \"I love you\" almost every day. \n\nAnyways, when this happens, she'll demand that we do this \"couple-building activity\" where she pretends she is dead. She'll light some candles, play \"Amazing Grace\" (the song they played at my grandfather's funeral a few years back), lay in bed, and cover herself with a sheet. Then I am supposed to kneel down and say some \"last words\" to her. She gets pissed if I don't cry, sometimes withholding sex as punishment. \n\nI've always known that she has some self-esteem issues, but this seems a little much. I've tried talking to her about it, but she just gets defensive and says that this activity is necessary for me to grow emotionally and our relationship to grow stronger. I really don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I can't keep mourning her death every few weeks. \n\nSo tell me Reddit, does this sound like normal behavior? How can I show her that I appreciate her without doing this activity?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, I was hoping to get some advice about a problem I've been having with my SO. \n\nFirst off, we are both 22 (M & F), finishing our last year of college. We've been together almost 6 months, and I really do adore her, aside from this one kind of weird behavioral trait. We have very similar interests, share many mutual friends, and get along on a day-to-day basis quite well. \n\nThe problem is that every few weeks, she gets it into her head that I don't appreciate her enough. I'll think everything is going well, and then out of the blue, she'll accuse me of taking her for granted. I really don't think this is the case, as I go out of my way to compliment her and say \"I love you\" almost every day. \n\nAnyways, when this happens, she'll demand that we do this \"couple-building activity\" where she pretends she is dead. She'll light some candles, play \"Amazing Grace\" (the song they played at my grandfather's funeral a few years back), lay in bed, and cover herself with a sheet. Then I am supposed to kneel down and say some \"last words\" to her. She gets pissed if I don't cry, sometimes withholding sex as punishment. \n\nI've always known that she has some self-esteem issues, but this seems a little much. I've tried talking to her about it, but she just gets defensive and says that this activity is necessary for me to grow emotionally and our relationship to grow stronger. I really don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I can't keep mourning her death every few weeks. \n\nSo tell me Reddit, does this sound like normal behavior? How can I show her that I appreciate her without doing this activity?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, I was hoping to get some advice about a problem I've been having with my SO. \n\nFirst off, we are both 22 (M & F), finishing our last year of college. We've been together almost 6 months, and I really do adore her, aside from this one kind of weird behavioral trait. We have very similar interests, share many mutual friends, and get along on a day-to-day basis quite well. \n\nThe problem is that every few weeks, she gets it into her head that I don't appreciate her enough. I'll think everything is going well, and then out of the blue, she'll accuse me of taking her for granted. I really don't think this is the case, as I go out of my way to compliment her and say \"I love you\" almost every day. \n\nAnyways, when this happens, she'll demand that we do this \"couple-building activity\" where she pretends she is dead. She'll light some candles, play \"Amazing Grace\" (the song they played at my grandfather's funeral a few years back), lay in bed, and cover herself with a sheet. Then I am supposed to kneel down and say some \"last words\" to her. She gets pissed if I don't cry, sometimes withholding sex as punishment. \n\nI've always known that she has some self-esteem issues, but this seems a little much. I've tried talking to her about it, but she just gets defensive and says that this activity is necessary for me to grow emotionally and our relationship to grow stronger. I really don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I can't keep mourning her death every few weeks. \n\nSo tell me Reddit, does this sound like normal behavior? How can I show her that I appreciate her without doing this activity?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey Reddit, I was hoping to get some advice about a problem I've been having with my SO. \n\nFirst off, we are both 22 (M & F), finishing our last year of college. We've been together almost 6 months, and I really do adore her, aside from this one kind of weird behavioral trait. We have very similar interests, share many mutual friends, and get along on a day-to-day basis quite well. \n\nThe problem is that every few weeks, she gets it into her head that I don't appreciate her enough. I'll think everything is going well, and then out of the blue, she'll accuse me of taking her for granted. I really don't think this is the case, as I go out of my way to compliment her and say \"I love you\" almost every day. \n\nAnyways, when this happens, she'll demand that we do this \"couple-building activity\" where she pretends she is dead. She'll light some candles, play \"Amazing Grace\" (the song they played at my grandfather's funeral a few years back), lay in bed, and cover herself with a sheet. Then I am supposed to kneel down and say some \"last words\" to her. She gets pissed if I don't cry, sometimes withholding sex as punishment. \n\nI've always known that she has some self-esteem issues, but this seems a little much. I've tried talking to her about it, but she just gets defensive and says that this activity is necessary for me to grow emotionally and our relationship to grow stronger. I really don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her, but I can't keep mourning her death every few weeks. \n\nSo tell me Reddit, does this sound like normal behavior? How can I show her that I appreciate her without doing this activity?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says. She's not overly jealous but she definitely goes through my phone and gets really angry and how many girls I know and run into while we're out and because of that I've adjusted and cut a LOT out of my life. Anyway I'm at her old house and she's at work so I'm taking her boxes downstairs to load into the uhaul and she's bringing this photo album with her kissing other dudes and has a picture cluster in her room on the wall that she's bringing with pictures of her and other dudes she's been with (I have been pretty patient about that since it's HER room). Am I getting unreasonably upset? It just irks me that if this would have been flipped and it was me with the pictures she would get pretty furious."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says. She's not overly jealous but she definitely goes through my phone and gets really angry and how many girls I know and run into while we're out and because of that I've adjusted and cut a LOT out of my life. Anyway I'm at her old house and she's at work so I'm taking her boxes downstairs to load into the uhaul and she's bringing this photo album with her kissing other dudes and has a picture cluster in her room on the wall that she's bringing with pictures of her and other dudes she's been with (I have been pretty patient about that since it's HER room). Am I getting unreasonably upset? It just irks me that if this would have been flipped and it was me with the pictures she would get pretty furious."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says. She's not overly jealous but she definitely goes through my phone and gets really angry and how many girls I know and run into while we're out and because of that I've adjusted and cut a LOT out of my life. Anyway I'm at her old house and she's at work so I'm taking her boxes downstairs to load into the uhaul and she's bringing this photo album with her kissing other dudes and has a picture cluster in her room on the wall that she's bringing with pictures of her and other dudes she's been with (I have been pretty patient about that since it's HER room). Am I getting unreasonably upset? It just irks me that if this would have been flipped and it was me with the pictures she would get pretty furious."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says. She's not overly jealous but she definitely goes through my phone and gets really angry and how many girls I know and run into while we're out and because of that I've adjusted and cut a LOT out of my life. Anyway I'm at her old house and she's at work so I'm taking her boxes downstairs to load into the uhaul and she's bringing this photo album with her kissing other dudes and has a picture cluster in her room on the wall that she's bringing with pictures of her and other dudes she's been with (I have been pretty patient about that since it's HER room). Am I getting unreasonably upset? It just irks me that if this would have been flipped and it was me with the pictures she would get pretty furious."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Like the title says. She's not overly jealous but she definitely goes through my phone and gets really angry and how many girls I know and run into while we're out and because of that I've adjusted and cut a LOT out of my life. Anyway I'm at her old house and she's at work so I'm taking her boxes downstairs to load into the uhaul and she's bringing this photo album with her kissing other dudes and has a picture cluster in her room on the wall that she's bringing with pictures of her and other dudes she's been with (I have been pretty patient about that since it's HER room). Am I getting unreasonably upset? It just irks me that if this would have been flipped and it was me with the pictures she would get pretty furious."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Been seeing this girl for a couple of weeks now. Obviously she's interested as we've hooked up a couple of times. However, after these hook ups she leaves feeling \"confused\" and says she just wants to be friends. So we do the dance, be friends, then she suggests we get together, we do and bam something more happens. \n\nA few nights ago she came over and essentially just jumped straight onto me. We didn't have sex but we did a lot more than we usually do. Afterwards, it was the same scenario: she'll get upset and emotional and say she just wants to be friends. This time however she called herself a slut because she \"never does this stuff out of relationships\". I reassured her that it wasn't slutty due to the circumstances we were hanging out with each other and that we were obviously into each other. (And tbh it's not slutty at all doing things with other people anyway but I'm not a girl what do I know)\n\nShe leaves, admits she cried on the way home and I've just said I'll respect her decision to remain friends, and just reassured her that she's not a bad person for \"leading me on\"\n\nI honestly think she likes me, but doesn't want to be in a relationship with me due to a variety of factors and is trying to rationalise it. What do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Been seeing this girl for a couple of weeks now. Obviously she's interested as we've hooked up a couple of times. However, after these hook ups she leaves feeling \"confused\" and says she just wants to be friends. So we do the dance, be friends, then she suggests we get together, we do and bam something more happens. \n\nA few nights ago she came over and essentially just jumped straight onto me. We didn't have sex but we did a lot more than we usually do. Afterwards, it was the same scenario: she'll get upset and emotional and say she just wants to be friends. This time however she called herself a slut because she \"never does this stuff out of relationships\". I reassured her that it wasn't slutty due to the circumstances we were hanging out with each other and that we were obviously into each other. (And tbh it's not slutty at all doing things with other people anyway but I'm not a girl what do I know)\n\nShe leaves, admits she cried on the way home and I've just said I'll respect her decision to remain friends, and just reassured her that she's not a bad person for \"leading me on\"\n\nI honestly think she likes me, but doesn't want to be in a relationship with me due to a variety of factors and is trying to rationalise it. What do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Been seeing this girl for a couple of weeks now. Obviously she's interested as we've hooked up a couple of times. However, after these hook ups she leaves feeling \"confused\" and says she just wants to be friends. So we do the dance, be friends, then she suggests we get together, we do and bam something more happens. \n\nA few nights ago she came over and essentially just jumped straight onto me. We didn't have sex but we did a lot more than we usually do. Afterwards, it was the same scenario: she'll get upset and emotional and say she just wants to be friends. This time however she called herself a slut because she \"never does this stuff out of relationships\". I reassured her that it wasn't slutty due to the circumstances we were hanging out with each other and that we were obviously into each other. (And tbh it's not slutty at all doing things with other people anyway but I'm not a girl what do I know)\n\nShe leaves, admits she cried on the way home and I've just said I'll respect her decision to remain friends, and just reassured her that she's not a bad person for \"leading me on\"\n\nI honestly think she likes me, but doesn't want to be in a relationship with me due to a variety of factors and is trying to rationalise it. What do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Been seeing this girl for a couple of weeks now. Obviously she's interested as we've hooked up a couple of times. However, after these hook ups she leaves feeling \"confused\" and says she just wants to be friends. So we do the dance, be friends, then she suggests we get together, we do and bam something more happens. \n\nA few nights ago she came over and essentially just jumped straight onto me. We didn't have sex but we did a lot more than we usually do. Afterwards, it was the same scenario: she'll get upset and emotional and say she just wants to be friends. This time however she called herself a slut because she \"never does this stuff out of relationships\". I reassured her that it wasn't slutty due to the circumstances we were hanging out with each other and that we were obviously into each other. (And tbh it's not slutty at all doing things with other people anyway but I'm not a girl what do I know)\n\nShe leaves, admits she cried on the way home and I've just said I'll respect her decision to remain friends, and just reassured her that she's not a bad person for \"leading me on\"\n\nI honestly think she likes me, but doesn't want to be in a relationship with me due to a variety of factors and is trying to rationalise it. What do you guys think?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been talking to my crush for awhile now, but I'm having difficulty on figuring out if there's something there or not. We talked on and off for awhile about meeting up, but she had a few things come up outside of her control. When we finally did get together and do something, I felt like we hit it off great.\n\nWe went out did a lot of activities and then had lunch. We ended up talking about kisses and things like that, which made me think she was hinting that she wanted one, but said she wasn't sure cause she burned her mouth and was eating food that she was afraid was going to make her breath smell bad. We ended up making out anyways. Her friends asked her to come hang out with them so I decided to let her go ahead and go because I figured I'd just see her at a later time. \n\nMy issue is that it seems that she doesn't contact me unless I get in there and message her first. When I decided to stop, she ended up messaging me a day later with something short telling me she was hoping I would have a good day. Normally I don't think kissing means anything, but I felt when the date ended and she went for another one that it showed interest. Now I'm thinking there may not be for the lack of effort on her part.\n\nShe wanted to set up dates to hang out and asked me for my schedule, but she still ends up finding a reason to back out, and I'm not sure any of them are legit or not. She wanted to do something this weekend, but said she may have to work or go to her sisters birthday event. Although she said she would \"rather go out\".\n\nI understand that people have stress in their lives, and she seems to have it, but I'm just unable to see if there is interest there in her part or not."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been talking to my crush for awhile now, but I'm having difficulty on figuring out if there's something there or not. We talked on and off for awhile about meeting up, but she had a few things come up outside of her control. When we finally did get together and do something, I felt like we hit it off great.\n\nWe went out did a lot of activities and then had lunch. We ended up talking about kisses and things like that, which made me think she was hinting that she wanted one, but said she wasn't sure cause she burned her mouth and was eating food that she was afraid was going to make her breath smell bad. We ended up making out anyways. Her friends asked her to come hang out with them so I decided to let her go ahead and go because I figured I'd just see her at a later time. \n\nMy issue is that it seems that she doesn't contact me unless I get in there and message her first. When I decided to stop, she ended up messaging me a day later with something short telling me she was hoping I would have a good day. Normally I don't think kissing means anything, but I felt when the date ended and she went for another one that it showed interest. Now I'm thinking there may not be for the lack of effort on her part.\n\nShe wanted to set up dates to hang out and asked me for my schedule, but she still ends up finding a reason to back out, and I'm not sure any of them are legit or not. She wanted to do something this weekend, but said she may have to work or go to her sisters birthday event. Although she said she would \"rather go out\".\n\nI understand that people have stress in their lives, and she seems to have it, but I'm just unable to see if there is interest there in her part or not."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been talking to my crush for awhile now, but I'm having difficulty on figuring out if there's something there or not. We talked on and off for awhile about meeting up, but she had a few things come up outside of her control. When we finally did get together and do something, I felt like we hit it off great.\n\nWe went out did a lot of activities and then had lunch. We ended up talking about kisses and things like that, which made me think she was hinting that she wanted one, but said she wasn't sure cause she burned her mouth and was eating food that she was afraid was going to make her breath smell bad. We ended up making out anyways. Her friends asked her to come hang out with them so I decided to let her go ahead and go because I figured I'd just see her at a later time. \n\nMy issue is that it seems that she doesn't contact me unless I get in there and message her first. When I decided to stop, she ended up messaging me a day later with something short telling me she was hoping I would have a good day. Normally I don't think kissing means anything, but I felt when the date ended and she went for another one that it showed interest. Now I'm thinking there may not be for the lack of effort on her part.\n\nShe wanted to set up dates to hang out and asked me for my schedule, but she still ends up finding a reason to back out, and I'm not sure any of them are legit or not. She wanted to do something this weekend, but said she may have to work or go to her sisters birthday event. Although she said she would \"rather go out\".\n\nI understand that people have stress in their lives, and she seems to have it, but I'm just unable to see if there is interest there in her part or not."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been talking to my crush for awhile now, but I'm having difficulty on figuring out if there's something there or not. We talked on and off for awhile about meeting up, but she had a few things come up outside of her control. When we finally did get together and do something, I felt like we hit it off great.\n\nWe went out did a lot of activities and then had lunch. We ended up talking about kisses and things like that, which made me think she was hinting that she wanted one, but said she wasn't sure cause she burned her mouth and was eating food that she was afraid was going to make her breath smell bad. We ended up making out anyways. Her friends asked her to come hang out with them so I decided to let her go ahead and go because I figured I'd just see her at a later time. \n\nMy issue is that it seems that she doesn't contact me unless I get in there and message her first. When I decided to stop, she ended up messaging me a day later with something short telling me she was hoping I would have a good day. Normally I don't think kissing means anything, but I felt when the date ended and she went for another one that it showed interest. Now I'm thinking there may not be for the lack of effort on her part.\n\nShe wanted to set up dates to hang out and asked me for my schedule, but she still ends up finding a reason to back out, and I'm not sure any of them are legit or not. She wanted to do something this weekend, but said she may have to work or go to her sisters birthday event. Although she said she would \"rather go out\".\n\nI understand that people have stress in their lives, and she seems to have it, but I'm just unable to see if there is interest there in her part or not."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been talking to my crush for awhile now, but I'm having difficulty on figuring out if there's something there or not. We talked on and off for awhile about meeting up, but she had a few things come up outside of her control. When we finally did get together and do something, I felt like we hit it off great.\n\nWe went out did a lot of activities and then had lunch. We ended up talking about kisses and things like that, which made me think she was hinting that she wanted one, but said she wasn't sure cause she burned her mouth and was eating food that she was afraid was going to make her breath smell bad. We ended up making out anyways. Her friends asked her to come hang out with them so I decided to let her go ahead and go because I figured I'd just see her at a later time. \n\nMy issue is that it seems that she doesn't contact me unless I get in there and message her first. When I decided to stop, she ended up messaging me a day later with something short telling me she was hoping I would have a good day. Normally I don't think kissing means anything, but I felt when the date ended and she went for another one that it showed interest. Now I'm thinking there may not be for the lack of effort on her part.\n\nShe wanted to set up dates to hang out and asked me for my schedule, but she still ends up finding a reason to back out, and I'm not sure any of them are legit or not. She wanted to do something this weekend, but said she may have to work or go to her sisters birthday event. Although she said she would \"rather go out\".\n\nI understand that people have stress in their lives, and she seems to have it, but I'm just unable to see if there is interest there in her part or not."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been talking to my crush for awhile now, but I'm having difficulty on figuring out if there's something there or not. We talked on and off for awhile about meeting up, but she had a few things come up outside of her control. When we finally did get together and do something, I felt like we hit it off great.\n\nWe went out did a lot of activities and then had lunch. We ended up talking about kisses and things like that, which made me think she was hinting that she wanted one, but said she wasn't sure cause she burned her mouth and was eating food that she was afraid was going to make her breath smell bad. We ended up making out anyways. Her friends asked her to come hang out with them so I decided to let her go ahead and go because I figured I'd just see her at a later time. \n\nMy issue is that it seems that she doesn't contact me unless I get in there and message her first. When I decided to stop, she ended up messaging me a day later with something short telling me she was hoping I would have a good day. Normally I don't think kissing means anything, but I felt when the date ended and she went for another one that it showed interest. Now I'm thinking there may not be for the lack of effort on her part.\n\nShe wanted to set up dates to hang out and asked me for my schedule, but she still ends up finding a reason to back out, and I'm not sure any of them are legit or not. She wanted to do something this weekend, but said she may have to work or go to her sisters birthday event. Although she said she would \"rather go out\".\n\nI understand that people have stress in their lives, and she seems to have it, but I'm just unable to see if there is interest there in her part or not."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The title says the bulk of it, really. \n\nIt's never really come up between us, it's an LDR (met in person, one of us moved away for school) and when we do see each other it's not that physically intimate. There's never been an explicit discussion of \"do you want to have sex with me?\" from either one of us, we pretty much stop at calling each other cute. But I'm very conscious of him looking a me in certain ways, and things getting heated when we make out. I know there's probably nothing I can do about it, but for the most part I really don't want him to think about me sexually.\n\nIt's not that I don't find him attractive, and I do have a sex drive. There have definitely been times where I've been pretty turned on while we're together, just from kissing. But I'm not comfortable doing any more than that. Even thinking about one of us being shirtless makes me feel awkward and embarrassed. In my mind, I feel like I'm too young still to do sexual things, so it's possible I'm just not mature enough or something like that.\n\nI'm mostly fine with waiting until it comes up - this is both of our first relationship, so it's possible he feels similar. Either way it's not urgent, but I do worry about giving him the wrong impression or letting him expect or hope that sex is going to happen."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The title says the bulk of it, really. \n\nIt's never really come up between us, it's an LDR (met in person, one of us moved away for school) and when we do see each other it's not that physically intimate. There's never been an explicit discussion of \"do you want to have sex with me?\" from either one of us, we pretty much stop at calling each other cute. But I'm very conscious of him looking a me in certain ways, and things getting heated when we make out. I know there's probably nothing I can do about it, but for the most part I really don't want him to think about me sexually.\n\nIt's not that I don't find him attractive, and I do have a sex drive. There have definitely been times where I've been pretty turned on while we're together, just from kissing. But I'm not comfortable doing any more than that. Even thinking about one of us being shirtless makes me feel awkward and embarrassed. In my mind, I feel like I'm too young still to do sexual things, so it's possible I'm just not mature enough or something like that.\n\nI'm mostly fine with waiting until it comes up - this is both of our first relationship, so it's possible he feels similar. Either way it's not urgent, but I do worry about giving him the wrong impression or letting him expect or hope that sex is going to happen."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The title says the bulk of it, really. \n\nIt's never really come up between us, it's an LDR (met in person, one of us moved away for school) and when we do see each other it's not that physically intimate. There's never been an explicit discussion of \"do you want to have sex with me?\" from either one of us, we pretty much stop at calling each other cute. But I'm very conscious of him looking a me in certain ways, and things getting heated when we make out. I know there's probably nothing I can do about it, but for the most part I really don't want him to think about me sexually.\n\nIt's not that I don't find him attractive, and I do have a sex drive. There have definitely been times where I've been pretty turned on while we're together, just from kissing. But I'm not comfortable doing any more than that. Even thinking about one of us being shirtless makes me feel awkward and embarrassed. In my mind, I feel like I'm too young still to do sexual things, so it's possible I'm just not mature enough or something like that.\n\nI'm mostly fine with waiting until it comes up - this is both of our first relationship, so it's possible he feels similar. Either way it's not urgent, but I do worry about giving him the wrong impression or letting him expect or hope that sex is going to happen."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The title says the bulk of it, really. \n\nIt's never really come up between us, it's an LDR (met in person, one of us moved away for school) and when we do see each other it's not that physically intimate. There's never been an explicit discussion of \"do you want to have sex with me?\" from either one of us, we pretty much stop at calling each other cute. But I'm very conscious of him looking a me in certain ways, and things getting heated when we make out. I know there's probably nothing I can do about it, but for the most part I really don't want him to think about me sexually.\n\nIt's not that I don't find him attractive, and I do have a sex drive. There have definitely been times where I've been pretty turned on while we're together, just from kissing. But I'm not comfortable doing any more than that. Even thinking about one of us being shirtless makes me feel awkward and embarrassed. In my mind, I feel like I'm too young still to do sexual things, so it's possible I'm just not mature enough or something like that.\n\nI'm mostly fine with waiting until it comes up - this is both of our first relationship, so it's possible he feels similar. Either way it's not urgent, but I do worry about giving him the wrong impression or letting him expect or hope that sex is going to happen."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we adopted an adult Maine Coon from a shelter about 5 months ago. He (Piano) is a very laid back cat. I wouldn't call him absolutely friendly but he is very social. My wife and I thought that he could use a friend and conveniently a friend of ours was giving away a playful 1 yr old female (Abbey). When we brought her home (I know this was a mistake) we left her in the carrier in the middle of the living room for a few minutes and Piano investigated for a bit and hissed (mind you he hasn't hissed at her since and hissed very little before meeting her). So we moved her into the bathroom for a few weeks.\n\nAfter a few weeks of her trying to get out we let her into the apartment. So that leads us to today about 4 months of these two knowing each other. They coexist in our small space and even lay within a few feet of each other. However, from time to time Piano will look like he is trying to groom her then he pins her and bites. Abbey inevitably hisses swats and runs away. The chase ensues and we generally hear her screaming & he never makes a sound (this happens more when he wants food it seems). Once this is broken up she things seem to go back to normal. Is this play?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we adopted an adult Maine Coon from a shelter about 5 months ago. He (Piano) is a very laid back cat. I wouldn't call him absolutely friendly but he is very social. My wife and I thought that he could use a friend and conveniently a friend of ours was giving away a playful 1 yr old female (Abbey). When we brought her home (I know this was a mistake) we left her in the carrier in the middle of the living room for a few minutes and Piano investigated for a bit and hissed (mind you he hasn't hissed at her since and hissed very little before meeting her). So we moved her into the bathroom for a few weeks.\n\nAfter a few weeks of her trying to get out we let her into the apartment. So that leads us to today about 4 months of these two knowing each other. They coexist in our small space and even lay within a few feet of each other. However, from time to time Piano will look like he is trying to groom her then he pins her and bites. Abbey inevitably hisses swats and runs away. The chase ensues and we generally hear her screaming & he never makes a sound (this happens more when he wants food it seems). Once this is broken up she things seem to go back to normal. Is this play?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we adopted an adult Maine Coon from a shelter about 5 months ago. He (Piano) is a very laid back cat. I wouldn't call him absolutely friendly but he is very social. My wife and I thought that he could use a friend and conveniently a friend of ours was giving away a playful 1 yr old female (Abbey). When we brought her home (I know this was a mistake) we left her in the carrier in the middle of the living room for a few minutes and Piano investigated for a bit and hissed (mind you he hasn't hissed at her since and hissed very little before meeting her). So we moved her into the bathroom for a few weeks.\n\nAfter a few weeks of her trying to get out we let her into the apartment. So that leads us to today about 4 months of these two knowing each other. They coexist in our small space and even lay within a few feet of each other. However, from time to time Piano will look like he is trying to groom her then he pins her and bites. Abbey inevitably hisses swats and runs away. The chase ensues and we generally hear her screaming & he never makes a sound (this happens more when he wants food it seems). Once this is broken up she things seem to go back to normal. Is this play?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we adopted an adult Maine Coon from a shelter about 5 months ago. He (Piano) is a very laid back cat. I wouldn't call him absolutely friendly but he is very social. My wife and I thought that he could use a friend and conveniently a friend of ours was giving away a playful 1 yr old female (Abbey). When we brought her home (I know this was a mistake) we left her in the carrier in the middle of the living room for a few minutes and Piano investigated for a bit and hissed (mind you he hasn't hissed at her since and hissed very little before meeting her). So we moved her into the bathroom for a few weeks.\n\nAfter a few weeks of her trying to get out we let her into the apartment. So that leads us to today about 4 months of these two knowing each other. They coexist in our small space and even lay within a few feet of each other. However, from time to time Piano will look like he is trying to groom her then he pins her and bites. Abbey inevitably hisses swats and runs away. The chase ensues and we generally hear her screaming & he never makes a sound (this happens more when he wants food it seems). Once this is broken up she things seem to go back to normal. Is this play?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we adopted an adult Maine Coon from a shelter about 5 months ago. He (Piano) is a very laid back cat. I wouldn't call him absolutely friendly but he is very social. My wife and I thought that he could use a friend and conveniently a friend of ours was giving away a playful 1 yr old female (Abbey). When we brought her home (I know this was a mistake) we left her in the carrier in the middle of the living room for a few minutes and Piano investigated for a bit and hissed (mind you he hasn't hissed at her since and hissed very little before meeting her). So we moved her into the bathroom for a few weeks.\n\nAfter a few weeks of her trying to get out we let her into the apartment. So that leads us to today about 4 months of these two knowing each other. They coexist in our small space and even lay within a few feet of each other. However, from time to time Piano will look like he is trying to groom her then he pins her and bites. Abbey inevitably hisses swats and runs away. The chase ensues and we generally hear her screaming & he never makes a sound (this happens more when he wants food it seems). Once this is broken up she things seem to go back to normal. Is this play?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we adopted an adult Maine Coon from a shelter about 5 months ago. He (Piano) is a very laid back cat. I wouldn't call him absolutely friendly but he is very social. My wife and I thought that he could use a friend and conveniently a friend of ours was giving away a playful 1 yr old female (Abbey). When we brought her home (I know this was a mistake) we left her in the carrier in the middle of the living room for a few minutes and Piano investigated for a bit and hissed (mind you he hasn't hissed at her since and hissed very little before meeting her). So we moved her into the bathroom for a few weeks.\n\nAfter a few weeks of her trying to get out we let her into the apartment. So that leads us to today about 4 months of these two knowing each other. They coexist in our small space and even lay within a few feet of each other. However, from time to time Piano will look like he is trying to groom her then he pins her and bites. Abbey inevitably hisses swats and runs away. The chase ensues and we generally hear her screaming & he never makes a sound (this happens more when he wants food it seems). Once this is broken up she things seem to go back to normal. Is this play?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi there! \nJust wanted some advice from a man's perspective. I am the female in this relationship of 5 years, my boyfriend is bisexual, I am not. We have discussed comfort and both seem to be intrigued by the idea of an extra guy joining us for some fun. \n\nWe have an attractive friend who has had a past relationship with an attached woman, he didn't do anything with her husband, but in clubbing ventures he has mentioned \"hitting on bi couples\". I believe he knows my SO is bi, though it's never been said aloud. He has never really shown sexual interest in me until we went to a club together and he began to dance against me and grab my waist. I hinted at him that \" I knew SO wouldn't mind him touching me\". We continued to dance.\n\n Nothing has happened beyond that, but I felt that night that he finds me attractive/animal magnetism whatever you'd call it. How can we not be total creeps and approach him, my SO doesn't need to touch him, he is fine with watching.but that would be a plus. I don't want to trash a friendship, but we are very curious how he would feel about it. Should i wear something provacative around him to gauge interest, or be blunt? Advice,stories? How would you want to be approached? Thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi there! \nJust wanted some advice from a man's perspective. I am the female in this relationship of 5 years, my boyfriend is bisexual, I am not. We have discussed comfort and both seem to be intrigued by the idea of an extra guy joining us for some fun. \n\nWe have an attractive friend who has had a past relationship with an attached woman, he didn't do anything with her husband, but in clubbing ventures he has mentioned \"hitting on bi couples\". I believe he knows my SO is bi, though it's never been said aloud. He has never really shown sexual interest in me until we went to a club together and he began to dance against me and grab my waist. I hinted at him that \" I knew SO wouldn't mind him touching me\". We continued to dance.\n\n Nothing has happened beyond that, but I felt that night that he finds me attractive/animal magnetism whatever you'd call it. How can we not be total creeps and approach him, my SO doesn't need to touch him, he is fine with watching.but that would be a plus. I don't want to trash a friendship, but we are very curious how he would feel about it. Should i wear something provacative around him to gauge interest, or be blunt? Advice,stories? How would you want to be approached? Thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi there! \nJust wanted some advice from a man's perspective. I am the female in this relationship of 5 years, my boyfriend is bisexual, I am not. We have discussed comfort and both seem to be intrigued by the idea of an extra guy joining us for some fun. \n\nWe have an attractive friend who has had a past relationship with an attached woman, he didn't do anything with her husband, but in clubbing ventures he has mentioned \"hitting on bi couples\". I believe he knows my SO is bi, though it's never been said aloud. He has never really shown sexual interest in me until we went to a club together and he began to dance against me and grab my waist. I hinted at him that \" I knew SO wouldn't mind him touching me\". We continued to dance.\n\n Nothing has happened beyond that, but I felt that night that he finds me attractive/animal magnetism whatever you'd call it. How can we not be total creeps and approach him, my SO doesn't need to touch him, he is fine with watching.but that would be a plus. I don't want to trash a friendship, but we are very curious how he would feel about it. Should i wear something provacative around him to gauge interest, or be blunt? Advice,stories? How would you want to be approached? Thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi there! \nJust wanted some advice from a man's perspective. I am the female in this relationship of 5 years, my boyfriend is bisexual, I am not. We have discussed comfort and both seem to be intrigued by the idea of an extra guy joining us for some fun. \n\nWe have an attractive friend who has had a past relationship with an attached woman, he didn't do anything with her husband, but in clubbing ventures he has mentioned \"hitting on bi couples\". I believe he knows my SO is bi, though it's never been said aloud. He has never really shown sexual interest in me until we went to a club together and he began to dance against me and grab my waist. I hinted at him that \" I knew SO wouldn't mind him touching me\". We continued to dance.\n\n Nothing has happened beyond that, but I felt that night that he finds me attractive/animal magnetism whatever you'd call it. How can we not be total creeps and approach him, my SO doesn't need to touch him, he is fine with watching.but that would be a plus. I don't want to trash a friendship, but we are very curious how he would feel about it. Should i wear something provacative around him to gauge interest, or be blunt? Advice,stories? How would you want to be approached? Thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi there! \nJust wanted some advice from a man's perspective. I am the female in this relationship of 5 years, my boyfriend is bisexual, I am not. We have discussed comfort and both seem to be intrigued by the idea of an extra guy joining us for some fun. \n\nWe have an attractive friend who has had a past relationship with an attached woman, he didn't do anything with her husband, but in clubbing ventures he has mentioned \"hitting on bi couples\". I believe he knows my SO is bi, though it's never been said aloud. He has never really shown sexual interest in me until we went to a club together and he began to dance against me and grab my waist. I hinted at him that \" I knew SO wouldn't mind him touching me\". We continued to dance.\n\n Nothing has happened beyond that, but I felt that night that he finds me attractive/animal magnetism whatever you'd call it. How can we not be total creeps and approach him, my SO doesn't need to touch him, he is fine with watching.but that would be a plus. I don't want to trash a friendship, but we are very curious how he would feel about it. Should i wear something provacative around him to gauge interest, or be blunt? Advice,stories? How would you want to be approached? Thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi there! \nJust wanted some advice from a man's perspective. I am the female in this relationship of 5 years, my boyfriend is bisexual, I am not. We have discussed comfort and both seem to be intrigued by the idea of an extra guy joining us for some fun. \n\nWe have an attractive friend who has had a past relationship with an attached woman, he didn't do anything with her husband, but in clubbing ventures he has mentioned \"hitting on bi couples\". I believe he knows my SO is bi, though it's never been said aloud. He has never really shown sexual interest in me until we went to a club together and he began to dance against me and grab my waist. I hinted at him that \" I knew SO wouldn't mind him touching me\". We continued to dance.\n\n Nothing has happened beyond that, but I felt that night that he finds me attractive/animal magnetism whatever you'd call it. How can we not be total creeps and approach him, my SO doesn't need to touch him, he is fine with watching.but that would be a plus. I don't want to trash a friendship, but we are very curious how he would feel about it. Should i wear something provacative around him to gauge interest, or be blunt? Advice,stories? How would you want to be approached? Thank you!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short I got an opportunity to learn how to screenprint. So I basically went at my friends place one day(me and some other friends) a week for a couple of hours a day to learn the trade. After about 4 months or so I learned all of the basics. Now I need to get better of course but he wants me to come in and get better at it by working on production orders, but he won't pay me any money. Basically I hear from him through other people is that he is super busy: His 2 fulltime employees are swamped and need help, but he isn't even willing to pay me minimum wage to work there. My issues are 1. I don't think I should work for free. 2. I haven't had a stable job in a while and I struggle to get the basics right now. Even $50 a week would help. \nMy 2 other friends who also took the training are like \"Well he trained you for free and the same cost would be a lot of money elsewhere. \nIf I had a stable job donating a few hours a week would seem ok. But my family is against it till I start working."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short I got an opportunity to learn how to screenprint. So I basically went at my friends place one day(me and some other friends) a week for a couple of hours a day to learn the trade. After about 4 months or so I learned all of the basics. Now I need to get better of course but he wants me to come in and get better at it by working on production orders, but he won't pay me any money. Basically I hear from him through other people is that he is super busy: His 2 fulltime employees are swamped and need help, but he isn't even willing to pay me minimum wage to work there. My issues are 1. I don't think I should work for free. 2. I haven't had a stable job in a while and I struggle to get the basics right now. Even $50 a week would help. \nMy 2 other friends who also took the training are like \"Well he trained you for free and the same cost would be a lot of money elsewhere. \nIf I had a stable job donating a few hours a week would seem ok. But my family is against it till I start working."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short I got an opportunity to learn how to screenprint. So I basically went at my friends place one day(me and some other friends) a week for a couple of hours a day to learn the trade. After about 4 months or so I learned all of the basics. Now I need to get better of course but he wants me to come in and get better at it by working on production orders, but he won't pay me any money. Basically I hear from him through other people is that he is super busy: His 2 fulltime employees are swamped and need help, but he isn't even willing to pay me minimum wage to work there. My issues are 1. I don't think I should work for free. 2. I haven't had a stable job in a while and I struggle to get the basics right now. Even $50 a week would help. \nMy 2 other friends who also took the training are like \"Well he trained you for free and the same cost would be a lot of money elsewhere. \nIf I had a stable job donating a few hours a week would seem ok. But my family is against it till I start working."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short I got an opportunity to learn how to screenprint. So I basically went at my friends place one day(me and some other friends) a week for a couple of hours a day to learn the trade. After about 4 months or so I learned all of the basics. Now I need to get better of course but he wants me to come in and get better at it by working on production orders, but he won't pay me any money. Basically I hear from him through other people is that he is super busy: His 2 fulltime employees are swamped and need help, but he isn't even willing to pay me minimum wage to work there. My issues are 1. I don't think I should work for free. 2. I haven't had a stable job in a while and I struggle to get the basics right now. Even $50 a week would help. \nMy 2 other friends who also took the training are like \"Well he trained you for free and the same cost would be a lot of money elsewhere. \nIf I had a stable job donating a few hours a week would seem ok. But my family is against it till I start working."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short I got an opportunity to learn how to screenprint. So I basically went at my friends place one day(me and some other friends) a week for a couple of hours a day to learn the trade. After about 4 months or so I learned all of the basics. Now I need to get better of course but he wants me to come in and get better at it by working on production orders, but he won't pay me any money. Basically I hear from him through other people is that he is super busy: His 2 fulltime employees are swamped and need help, but he isn't even willing to pay me minimum wage to work there. My issues are 1. I don't think I should work for free. 2. I haven't had a stable job in a while and I struggle to get the basics right now. Even $50 a week would help. \nMy 2 other friends who also took the training are like \"Well he trained you for free and the same cost would be a lot of money elsewhere. \nIf I had a stable job donating a few hours a week would seem ok. But my family is against it till I start working."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Long story short I got an opportunity to learn how to screenprint. So I basically went at my friends place one day(me and some other friends) a week for a couple of hours a day to learn the trade. After about 4 months or so I learned all of the basics. Now I need to get better of course but he wants me to come in and get better at it by working on production orders, but he won't pay me any money. Basically I hear from him through other people is that he is super busy: His 2 fulltime employees are swamped and need help, but he isn't even willing to pay me minimum wage to work there. My issues are 1. I don't think I should work for free. 2. I haven't had a stable job in a while and I struggle to get the basics right now. Even $50 a week would help. \nMy 2 other friends who also took the training are like \"Well he trained you for free and the same cost would be a lot of money elsewhere. \nIf I had a stable job donating a few hours a week would seem ok. But my family is against it till I start working."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19, I live in Mexico, currently studying an Engineering degree in Computer Science, lately I've been feeling a little bit unmotivated, I certainly enjoy my career, but sometimes I feel like I'm not getting the best out of my education, some times I feel like we the students end up correcting what some of the teachers say, which makes me feel unsure about the education received, even though I've been getting good grades, sometimes I feel like it's not worth it, also, the way the school system works, how school thinks it owns every second of your time gets to me, which makes school a hell of a lot more stressful, I also have another thing I like a lot, music, I enjoy playing music, and have been studyibg the whole theory behind it for about 2 years now, and I really enjoy every second of it, even the times I have to study at home."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19, I live in Mexico, currently studying an Engineering degree in Computer Science, lately I've been feeling a little bit unmotivated, I certainly enjoy my career, but sometimes I feel like I'm not getting the best out of my education, some times I feel like we the students end up correcting what some of the teachers say, which makes me feel unsure about the education received, even though I've been getting good grades, sometimes I feel like it's not worth it, also, the way the school system works, how school thinks it owns every second of your time gets to me, which makes school a hell of a lot more stressful, I also have another thing I like a lot, music, I enjoy playing music, and have been studyibg the whole theory behind it for about 2 years now, and I really enjoy every second of it, even the times I have to study at home."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19, I live in Mexico, currently studying an Engineering degree in Computer Science, lately I've been feeling a little bit unmotivated, I certainly enjoy my career, but sometimes I feel like I'm not getting the best out of my education, some times I feel like we the students end up correcting what some of the teachers say, which makes me feel unsure about the education received, even though I've been getting good grades, sometimes I feel like it's not worth it, also, the way the school system works, how school thinks it owns every second of your time gets to me, which makes school a hell of a lot more stressful, I also have another thing I like a lot, music, I enjoy playing music, and have been studyibg the whole theory behind it for about 2 years now, and I really enjoy every second of it, even the times I have to study at home."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19, I live in Mexico, currently studying an Engineering degree in Computer Science, lately I've been feeling a little bit unmotivated, I certainly enjoy my career, but sometimes I feel like I'm not getting the best out of my education, some times I feel like we the students end up correcting what some of the teachers say, which makes me feel unsure about the education received, even though I've been getting good grades, sometimes I feel like it's not worth it, also, the way the school system works, how school thinks it owns every second of your time gets to me, which makes school a hell of a lot more stressful, I also have another thing I like a lot, music, I enjoy playing music, and have been studyibg the whole theory behind it for about 2 years now, and I really enjoy every second of it, even the times I have to study at home."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19, I live in Mexico, currently studying an Engineering degree in Computer Science, lately I've been feeling a little bit unmotivated, I certainly enjoy my career, but sometimes I feel like I'm not getting the best out of my education, some times I feel like we the students end up correcting what some of the teachers say, which makes me feel unsure about the education received, even though I've been getting good grades, sometimes I feel like it's not worth it, also, the way the school system works, how school thinks it owns every second of your time gets to me, which makes school a hell of a lot more stressful, I also have another thing I like a lot, music, I enjoy playing music, and have been studyibg the whole theory behind it for about 2 years now, and I really enjoy every second of it, even the times I have to study at home."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm 19, I live in Mexico, currently studying an Engineering degree in Computer Science, lately I've been feeling a little bit unmotivated, I certainly enjoy my career, but sometimes I feel like I'm not getting the best out of my education, some times I feel like we the students end up correcting what some of the teachers say, which makes me feel unsure about the education received, even though I've been getting good grades, sometimes I feel like it's not worth it, also, the way the school system works, how school thinks it owns every second of your time gets to me, which makes school a hell of a lot more stressful, I also have another thing I like a lot, music, I enjoy playing music, and have been studyibg the whole theory behind it for about 2 years now, and I really enjoy every second of it, even the times I have to study at home."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: At the beginning of the summer, my close friend (F,30) and I (M,26) started hanging out more often. I started to like her, made a move and we began a fling situation.\n\nI ended up getting VERY emotionally attached. I told her this, and she said that she was not in a place where she was able to commit.\n\nI don't even know if I want to commit to her, but somehow, I am very attached to her.\n\nWe have many mutual friends and I end up running into her at least once a week. Things were super weird for a while, but after talking, I told her that I need space. I cancelled some plans we had.\n\nI'm trying to do my own thing.going out to meet new people, keeping busy, being productive.\n\nI still think about her way too much. It's really unhealthy. I don't even understand it, I've been dating and romantically involved with people for years and not once, ever felt like this. I've been drinking quite a bit, also, and I'm worried that that might be a bad habit right now. \n\nAny Suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: At the beginning of the summer, my close friend (F,30) and I (M,26) started hanging out more often. I started to like her, made a move and we began a fling situation.\n\nI ended up getting VERY emotionally attached. I told her this, and she said that she was not in a place where she was able to commit.\n\nI don't even know if I want to commit to her, but somehow, I am very attached to her.\n\nWe have many mutual friends and I end up running into her at least once a week. Things were super weird for a while, but after talking, I told her that I need space. I cancelled some plans we had.\n\nI'm trying to do my own thing.going out to meet new people, keeping busy, being productive.\n\nI still think about her way too much. It's really unhealthy. I don't even understand it, I've been dating and romantically involved with people for years and not once, ever felt like this. I've been drinking quite a bit, also, and I'm worried that that might be a bad habit right now. \n\nAny Suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: At the beginning of the summer, my close friend (F,30) and I (M,26) started hanging out more often. I started to like her, made a move and we began a fling situation.\n\nI ended up getting VERY emotionally attached. I told her this, and she said that she was not in a place where she was able to commit.\n\nI don't even know if I want to commit to her, but somehow, I am very attached to her.\n\nWe have many mutual friends and I end up running into her at least once a week. Things were super weird for a while, but after talking, I told her that I need space. I cancelled some plans we had.\n\nI'm trying to do my own thing.going out to meet new people, keeping busy, being productive.\n\nI still think about her way too much. It's really unhealthy. I don't even understand it, I've been dating and romantically involved with people for years and not once, ever felt like this. I've been drinking quite a bit, also, and I'm worried that that might be a bad habit right now. \n\nAny Suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: At the beginning of the summer, my close friend (F,30) and I (M,26) started hanging out more often. I started to like her, made a move and we began a fling situation.\n\nI ended up getting VERY emotionally attached. I told her this, and she said that she was not in a place where she was able to commit.\n\nI don't even know if I want to commit to her, but somehow, I am very attached to her.\n\nWe have many mutual friends and I end up running into her at least once a week. Things were super weird for a while, but after talking, I told her that I need space. I cancelled some plans we had.\n\nI'm trying to do my own thing.going out to meet new people, keeping busy, being productive.\n\nI still think about her way too much. It's really unhealthy. I don't even understand it, I've been dating and romantically involved with people for years and not once, ever felt like this. I've been drinking quite a bit, also, and I'm worried that that might be a bad habit right now. \n\nAny Suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: At the beginning of the summer, my close friend (F,30) and I (M,26) started hanging out more often. I started to like her, made a move and we began a fling situation.\n\nI ended up getting VERY emotionally attached. I told her this, and she said that she was not in a place where she was able to commit.\n\nI don't even know if I want to commit to her, but somehow, I am very attached to her.\n\nWe have many mutual friends and I end up running into her at least once a week. Things were super weird for a while, but after talking, I told her that I need space. I cancelled some plans we had.\n\nI'm trying to do my own thing.going out to meet new people, keeping busy, being productive.\n\nI still think about her way too much. It's really unhealthy. I don't even understand it, I've been dating and romantically involved with people for years and not once, ever felt like this. I've been drinking quite a bit, also, and I'm worried that that might be a bad habit right now. \n\nAny Suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: At the beginning of the summer, my close friend (F,30) and I (M,26) started hanging out more often. I started to like her, made a move and we began a fling situation.\n\nI ended up getting VERY emotionally attached. I told her this, and she said that she was not in a place where she was able to commit.\n\nI don't even know if I want to commit to her, but somehow, I am very attached to her.\n\nWe have many mutual friends and I end up running into her at least once a week. Things were super weird for a while, but after talking, I told her that I need space. I cancelled some plans we had.\n\nI'm trying to do my own thing.going out to meet new people, keeping busy, being productive.\n\nI still think about her way too much. It's really unhealthy. I don't even understand it, I've been dating and romantically involved with people for years and not once, ever felt like this. I've been drinking quite a bit, also, and I'm worried that that might be a bad habit right now. \n\nAny Suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First time poster, I'm not sure if this belongs here but it sure felt good and I'll keep it as short as possible\n\nI grew up in a very small town and when I was in elementary school, from the ages of about 10-12 years old I was bullied. The bullying was extreme and was done by the \"cool\" boys of my class. As a young girl, being called many names by boys at such a young age really made a dent in my self esteem. With the support of my family I was able to move on and live life while ignoring the tormenting I recieved daily for the last couple years of elementary school.\n Since it was such a small town most of these little shits ended up going to the same high school as me. Of course I shed the baby fat and became super hot near the end of my high school career as well as saving up enough money to pay for a nice Jeep wrangler that I drove to school everyday. In the last year of high school you only have to take 3 classes per semester, which leaves you with a spare period. I made this my final period so that I could drive home earlier everyday, I also shared this time slot with one of my peers who happened to be involved in the teasing I recieved in my younger years. Since I had this sweet ride and he assumed we were all \"buddy buddy\" he ended up asking for a ride home. I made an excuse and said I didn't drive that day (but of course I did). I ended up pulling out of the parking lot as he was crossing to the other side. I dont usually hold grudges but it felt so good to wave goodbye to that Asshole on one of the final days of school knowing that he had to wait an hour to catch the bus."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First time poster, I'm not sure if this belongs here but it sure felt good and I'll keep it as short as possible\n\nI grew up in a very small town and when I was in elementary school, from the ages of about 10-12 years old I was bullied. The bullying was extreme and was done by the \"cool\" boys of my class. As a young girl, being called many names by boys at such a young age really made a dent in my self esteem. With the support of my family I was able to move on and live life while ignoring the tormenting I recieved daily for the last couple years of elementary school.\n Since it was such a small town most of these little shits ended up going to the same high school as me. Of course I shed the baby fat and became super hot near the end of my high school career as well as saving up enough money to pay for a nice Jeep wrangler that I drove to school everyday. In the last year of high school you only have to take 3 classes per semester, which leaves you with a spare period. I made this my final period so that I could drive home earlier everyday, I also shared this time slot with one of my peers who happened to be involved in the teasing I recieved in my younger years. Since I had this sweet ride and he assumed we were all \"buddy buddy\" he ended up asking for a ride home. I made an excuse and said I didn't drive that day (but of course I did). I ended up pulling out of the parking lot as he was crossing to the other side. I dont usually hold grudges but it felt so good to wave goodbye to that Asshole on one of the final days of school knowing that he had to wait an hour to catch the bus."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First time poster, I'm not sure if this belongs here but it sure felt good and I'll keep it as short as possible\n\nI grew up in a very small town and when I was in elementary school, from the ages of about 10-12 years old I was bullied. The bullying was extreme and was done by the \"cool\" boys of my class. As a young girl, being called many names by boys at such a young age really made a dent in my self esteem. With the support of my family I was able to move on and live life while ignoring the tormenting I recieved daily for the last couple years of elementary school.\n Since it was such a small town most of these little shits ended up going to the same high school as me. Of course I shed the baby fat and became super hot near the end of my high school career as well as saving up enough money to pay for a nice Jeep wrangler that I drove to school everyday. In the last year of high school you only have to take 3 classes per semester, which leaves you with a spare period. I made this my final period so that I could drive home earlier everyday, I also shared this time slot with one of my peers who happened to be involved in the teasing I recieved in my younger years. Since I had this sweet ride and he assumed we were all \"buddy buddy\" he ended up asking for a ride home. I made an excuse and said I didn't drive that day (but of course I did). I ended up pulling out of the parking lot as he was crossing to the other side. I dont usually hold grudges but it felt so good to wave goodbye to that Asshole on one of the final days of school knowing that he had to wait an hour to catch the bus."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been making a standard $50 payment on our medical bills every month. Then we receive a letter from a debt collector for $75. I immediately payed it off. I called the hospital and she said that we must take the bill and divide by 12 so the bill can be payed in full in one year. She also suggested we fill out a \"financial statement\" informing us that this can only help. We could possibly reduce our monthly payment. So we started paying $115 a month while the form was being processed. They came back and told us we need to pay $200 a month in order to stave off collectors. My husband and I make 4328.86 a month combined after taxes. After all of our bill NOT INCLUDING the $115 we have a remaining balance of 428.45. So if we would pay 200 a month that leaves us with 228.45 for emergencies, saving and other expenses. So no only did they come back and say we have to pay MORE a month we now have to apply by this in order to stay away from collections. Can they do this? Or is this an empty threat? Please any information would help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been making a standard $50 payment on our medical bills every month. Then we receive a letter from a debt collector for $75. I immediately payed it off. I called the hospital and she said that we must take the bill and divide by 12 so the bill can be payed in full in one year. She also suggested we fill out a \"financial statement\" informing us that this can only help. We could possibly reduce our monthly payment. So we started paying $115 a month while the form was being processed. They came back and told us we need to pay $200 a month in order to stave off collectors. My husband and I make 4328.86 a month combined after taxes. After all of our bill NOT INCLUDING the $115 we have a remaining balance of 428.45. So if we would pay 200 a month that leaves us with 228.45 for emergencies, saving and other expenses. So no only did they come back and say we have to pay MORE a month we now have to apply by this in order to stay away from collections. Can they do this? Or is this an empty threat? Please any information would help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been making a standard $50 payment on our medical bills every month. Then we receive a letter from a debt collector for $75. I immediately payed it off. I called the hospital and she said that we must take the bill and divide by 12 so the bill can be payed in full in one year. She also suggested we fill out a \"financial statement\" informing us that this can only help. We could possibly reduce our monthly payment. So we started paying $115 a month while the form was being processed. They came back and told us we need to pay $200 a month in order to stave off collectors. My husband and I make 4328.86 a month combined after taxes. After all of our bill NOT INCLUDING the $115 we have a remaining balance of 428.45. So if we would pay 200 a month that leaves us with 228.45 for emergencies, saving and other expenses. So no only did they come back and say we have to pay MORE a month we now have to apply by this in order to stay away from collections. Can they do this? Or is this an empty threat? Please any information would help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been making a standard $50 payment on our medical bills every month. Then we receive a letter from a debt collector for $75. I immediately payed it off. I called the hospital and she said that we must take the bill and divide by 12 so the bill can be payed in full in one year. She also suggested we fill out a \"financial statement\" informing us that this can only help. We could possibly reduce our monthly payment. So we started paying $115 a month while the form was being processed. They came back and told us we need to pay $200 a month in order to stave off collectors. My husband and I make 4328.86 a month combined after taxes. After all of our bill NOT INCLUDING the $115 we have a remaining balance of 428.45. So if we would pay 200 a month that leaves us with 228.45 for emergencies, saving and other expenses. So no only did they come back and say we have to pay MORE a month we now have to apply by this in order to stay away from collections. Can they do this? Or is this an empty threat? Please any information would help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been making a standard $50 payment on our medical bills every month. Then we receive a letter from a debt collector for $75. I immediately payed it off. I called the hospital and she said that we must take the bill and divide by 12 so the bill can be payed in full in one year. She also suggested we fill out a \"financial statement\" informing us that this can only help. We could possibly reduce our monthly payment. So we started paying $115 a month while the form was being processed. They came back and told us we need to pay $200 a month in order to stave off collectors. My husband and I make 4328.86 a month combined after taxes. After all of our bill NOT INCLUDING the $115 we have a remaining balance of 428.45. So if we would pay 200 a month that leaves us with 228.45 for emergencies, saving and other expenses. So no only did they come back and say we have to pay MORE a month we now have to apply by this in order to stay away from collections. Can they do this? Or is this an empty threat? Please any information would help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been making a standard $50 payment on our medical bills every month. Then we receive a letter from a debt collector for $75. I immediately payed it off. I called the hospital and she said that we must take the bill and divide by 12 so the bill can be payed in full in one year. She also suggested we fill out a \"financial statement\" informing us that this can only help. We could possibly reduce our monthly payment. So we started paying $115 a month while the form was being processed. They came back and told us we need to pay $200 a month in order to stave off collectors. My husband and I make 4328.86 a month combined after taxes. After all of our bill NOT INCLUDING the $115 we have a remaining balance of 428.45. So if we would pay 200 a month that leaves us with 228.45 for emergencies, saving and other expenses. So no only did they come back and say we have to pay MORE a month we now have to apply by this in order to stay away from collections. Can they do this? Or is this an empty threat? Please any information would help."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [original thread (\n\nI know my last thread didn't get a ton of responses, but I figured I'd update anyway.\n\nSo, the whole situation made me realize a ton of issues in our relationship in terms of our communication styles and goals for the future. Ultimately, I tried so hard to honor his request to live apart and stay together, but when I was truly honest with myself I realized I wasn't comfortable with it.\n\nIt was the hardest decision I had ever made. To break up with someone you're still in love with because you know that your futures are incompatible? I bawled my eyes out for two days and then moved out immediately.\n\nI went through a horribly messy and complicated breakup with my high school sweetheart three years ago, so compared to that, I keep telling myself this isn't even close to the worst I've experienced. Just been focusing inward on my own work goals and hobbies.\n\nI found a great place in another neighborhood in the city we live in, with a good friend and a random guy from Craigslist (who is awesome!) I'm really happy with the situation, although I am the type of person that would always prefer to live with an SO over roommates.\n\nSince then, I've joined a volunteer group, come to some serious conclusions about the future of my career, gone out a lot and made a ton of new friends on various Meetup groups, got a tattoo I'd been thinking about for a long time, and even have this new opportunity to start seeing someone that I respect quite a lot. I'm enjoying this period of independence for myself, though.\n\nThere's still a bit of pain in my heart, but overall I have no doubts that I made the right choice and feel extremely happy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [original thread (\n\nI know my last thread didn't get a ton of responses, but I figured I'd update anyway.\n\nSo, the whole situation made me realize a ton of issues in our relationship in terms of our communication styles and goals for the future. Ultimately, I tried so hard to honor his request to live apart and stay together, but when I was truly honest with myself I realized I wasn't comfortable with it.\n\nIt was the hardest decision I had ever made. To break up with someone you're still in love with because you know that your futures are incompatible? I bawled my eyes out for two days and then moved out immediately.\n\nI went through a horribly messy and complicated breakup with my high school sweetheart three years ago, so compared to that, I keep telling myself this isn't even close to the worst I've experienced. Just been focusing inward on my own work goals and hobbies.\n\nI found a great place in another neighborhood in the city we live in, with a good friend and a random guy from Craigslist (who is awesome!) I'm really happy with the situation, although I am the type of person that would always prefer to live with an SO over roommates.\n\nSince then, I've joined a volunteer group, come to some serious conclusions about the future of my career, gone out a lot and made a ton of new friends on various Meetup groups, got a tattoo I'd been thinking about for a long time, and even have this new opportunity to start seeing someone that I respect quite a lot. I'm enjoying this period of independence for myself, though.\n\nThere's still a bit of pain in my heart, but overall I have no doubts that I made the right choice and feel extremely happy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [original thread (\n\nI know my last thread didn't get a ton of responses, but I figured I'd update anyway.\n\nSo, the whole situation made me realize a ton of issues in our relationship in terms of our communication styles and goals for the future. Ultimately, I tried so hard to honor his request to live apart and stay together, but when I was truly honest with myself I realized I wasn't comfortable with it.\n\nIt was the hardest decision I had ever made. To break up with someone you're still in love with because you know that your futures are incompatible? I bawled my eyes out for two days and then moved out immediately.\n\nI went through a horribly messy and complicated breakup with my high school sweetheart three years ago, so compared to that, I keep telling myself this isn't even close to the worst I've experienced. Just been focusing inward on my own work goals and hobbies.\n\nI found a great place in another neighborhood in the city we live in, with a good friend and a random guy from Craigslist (who is awesome!) I'm really happy with the situation, although I am the type of person that would always prefer to live with an SO over roommates.\n\nSince then, I've joined a volunteer group, come to some serious conclusions about the future of my career, gone out a lot and made a ton of new friends on various Meetup groups, got a tattoo I'd been thinking about for a long time, and even have this new opportunity to start seeing someone that I respect quite a lot. I'm enjoying this period of independence for myself, though.\n\nThere's still a bit of pain in my heart, but overall I have no doubts that I made the right choice and feel extremely happy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [original thread (\n\nI know my last thread didn't get a ton of responses, but I figured I'd update anyway.\n\nSo, the whole situation made me realize a ton of issues in our relationship in terms of our communication styles and goals for the future. Ultimately, I tried so hard to honor his request to live apart and stay together, but when I was truly honest with myself I realized I wasn't comfortable with it.\n\nIt was the hardest decision I had ever made. To break up with someone you're still in love with because you know that your futures are incompatible? I bawled my eyes out for two days and then moved out immediately.\n\nI went through a horribly messy and complicated breakup with my high school sweetheart three years ago, so compared to that, I keep telling myself this isn't even close to the worst I've experienced. Just been focusing inward on my own work goals and hobbies.\n\nI found a great place in another neighborhood in the city we live in, with a good friend and a random guy from Craigslist (who is awesome!) I'm really happy with the situation, although I am the type of person that would always prefer to live with an SO over roommates.\n\nSince then, I've joined a volunteer group, come to some serious conclusions about the future of my career, gone out a lot and made a ton of new friends on various Meetup groups, got a tattoo I'd been thinking about for a long time, and even have this new opportunity to start seeing someone that I respect quite a lot. I'm enjoying this period of independence for myself, though.\n\nThere's still a bit of pain in my heart, but overall I have no doubts that I made the right choice and feel extremely happy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [original thread (\n\nI know my last thread didn't get a ton of responses, but I figured I'd update anyway.\n\nSo, the whole situation made me realize a ton of issues in our relationship in terms of our communication styles and goals for the future. Ultimately, I tried so hard to honor his request to live apart and stay together, but when I was truly honest with myself I realized I wasn't comfortable with it.\n\nIt was the hardest decision I had ever made. To break up with someone you're still in love with because you know that your futures are incompatible? I bawled my eyes out for two days and then moved out immediately.\n\nI went through a horribly messy and complicated breakup with my high school sweetheart three years ago, so compared to that, I keep telling myself this isn't even close to the worst I've experienced. Just been focusing inward on my own work goals and hobbies.\n\nI found a great place in another neighborhood in the city we live in, with a good friend and a random guy from Craigslist (who is awesome!) I'm really happy with the situation, although I am the type of person that would always prefer to live with an SO over roommates.\n\nSince then, I've joined a volunteer group, come to some serious conclusions about the future of my career, gone out a lot and made a ton of new friends on various Meetup groups, got a tattoo I'd been thinking about for a long time, and even have this new opportunity to start seeing someone that I respect quite a lot. I'm enjoying this period of independence for myself, though.\n\nThere's still a bit of pain in my heart, but overall I have no doubts that I made the right choice and feel extremely happy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: [original thread (\n\nI know my last thread didn't get a ton of responses, but I figured I'd update anyway.\n\nSo, the whole situation made me realize a ton of issues in our relationship in terms of our communication styles and goals for the future. Ultimately, I tried so hard to honor his request to live apart and stay together, but when I was truly honest with myself I realized I wasn't comfortable with it.\n\nIt was the hardest decision I had ever made. To break up with someone you're still in love with because you know that your futures are incompatible? I bawled my eyes out for two days and then moved out immediately.\n\nI went through a horribly messy and complicated breakup with my high school sweetheart three years ago, so compared to that, I keep telling myself this isn't even close to the worst I've experienced. Just been focusing inward on my own work goals and hobbies.\n\nI found a great place in another neighborhood in the city we live in, with a good friend and a random guy from Craigslist (who is awesome!) I'm really happy with the situation, although I am the type of person that would always prefer to live with an SO over roommates.\n\nSince then, I've joined a volunteer group, come to some serious conclusions about the future of my career, gone out a lot and made a ton of new friends on various Meetup groups, got a tattoo I'd been thinking about for a long time, and even have this new opportunity to start seeing someone that I respect quite a lot. I'm enjoying this period of independence for myself, though.\n\nThere's still a bit of pain in my heart, but overall I have no doubts that I made the right choice and feel extremely happy."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My partner and I by all accounts get on great. We are LDR by only a couple hours, we enjoy each others company and always find time for each other and we both wish to focus on finishing our degrees this year before commiting. However she has recently admitted to me that she isn't getting turned on by me specifically and doesnt know why. When pressed she says its something about my demeanor. She had this issue in her previous very long relationship. I've explained to her that nobody is 100% perfect and that my sexual attraction to her is deriven from wanting to please her. I'm starting to wonder if shes just unwilling to look past a minor thing in light of how she likes everything else about me, or if this is genuinely an issue that has no good resolution.\n\nIt seems she wants me to do something to turn her on yet she herself says she doesnt know what it is. \nNo, we HAVE had sex several times before, and that was her trying to throw herself into it which I appreciate but it seems this 'demeanor' thing is so important to her that psychologically that its not something that can be ignored.\nThe other thing is, she herself says she cant explain it, I've never encountered anyone like that before. Its not my looks, opinions, behaviour etc. she puts it down to 'demeanor'. \n\nI know people will say this is a dealbreaker, and its a shame because we get on so well together. However I'm checking with this subreddit to see if anyone has been in a similar situation and managed to overcome it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My partner and I by all accounts get on great. We are LDR by only a couple hours, we enjoy each others company and always find time for each other and we both wish to focus on finishing our degrees this year before commiting. However she has recently admitted to me that she isn't getting turned on by me specifically and doesnt know why. When pressed she says its something about my demeanor. She had this issue in her previous very long relationship. I've explained to her that nobody is 100% perfect and that my sexual attraction to her is deriven from wanting to please her. I'm starting to wonder if shes just unwilling to look past a minor thing in light of how she likes everything else about me, or if this is genuinely an issue that has no good resolution.\n\nIt seems she wants me to do something to turn her on yet she herself says she doesnt know what it is. \nNo, we HAVE had sex several times before, and that was her trying to throw herself into it which I appreciate but it seems this 'demeanor' thing is so important to her that psychologically that its not something that can be ignored.\nThe other thing is, she herself says she cant explain it, I've never encountered anyone like that before. Its not my looks, opinions, behaviour etc. she puts it down to 'demeanor'. \n\nI know people will say this is a dealbreaker, and its a shame because we get on so well together. However I'm checking with this subreddit to see if anyone has been in a similar situation and managed to overcome it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My partner and I by all accounts get on great. We are LDR by only a couple hours, we enjoy each others company and always find time for each other and we both wish to focus on finishing our degrees this year before commiting. However she has recently admitted to me that she isn't getting turned on by me specifically and doesnt know why. When pressed she says its something about my demeanor. She had this issue in her previous very long relationship. I've explained to her that nobody is 100% perfect and that my sexual attraction to her is deriven from wanting to please her. I'm starting to wonder if shes just unwilling to look past a minor thing in light of how she likes everything else about me, or if this is genuinely an issue that has no good resolution.\n\nIt seems she wants me to do something to turn her on yet she herself says she doesnt know what it is. \nNo, we HAVE had sex several times before, and that was her trying to throw herself into it which I appreciate but it seems this 'demeanor' thing is so important to her that psychologically that its not something that can be ignored.\nThe other thing is, she herself says she cant explain it, I've never encountered anyone like that before. Its not my looks, opinions, behaviour etc. she puts it down to 'demeanor'. \n\nI know people will say this is a dealbreaker, and its a shame because we get on so well together. However I'm checking with this subreddit to see if anyone has been in a similar situation and managed to overcome it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My partner and I by all accounts get on great. We are LDR by only a couple hours, we enjoy each others company and always find time for each other and we both wish to focus on finishing our degrees this year before commiting. However she has recently admitted to me that she isn't getting turned on by me specifically and doesnt know why. When pressed she says its something about my demeanor. She had this issue in her previous very long relationship. I've explained to her that nobody is 100% perfect and that my sexual attraction to her is deriven from wanting to please her. I'm starting to wonder if shes just unwilling to look past a minor thing in light of how she likes everything else about me, or if this is genuinely an issue that has no good resolution.\n\nIt seems she wants me to do something to turn her on yet she herself says she doesnt know what it is. \nNo, we HAVE had sex several times before, and that was her trying to throw herself into it which I appreciate but it seems this 'demeanor' thing is so important to her that psychologically that its not something that can be ignored.\nThe other thing is, she herself says she cant explain it, I've never encountered anyone like that before. Its not my looks, opinions, behaviour etc. she puts it down to 'demeanor'. \n\nI know people will say this is a dealbreaker, and its a shame because we get on so well together. However I'm checking with this subreddit to see if anyone has been in a similar situation and managed to overcome it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My partner and I by all accounts get on great. We are LDR by only a couple hours, we enjoy each others company and always find time for each other and we both wish to focus on finishing our degrees this year before commiting. However she has recently admitted to me that she isn't getting turned on by me specifically and doesnt know why. When pressed she says its something about my demeanor. She had this issue in her previous very long relationship. I've explained to her that nobody is 100% perfect and that my sexual attraction to her is deriven from wanting to please her. I'm starting to wonder if shes just unwilling to look past a minor thing in light of how she likes everything else about me, or if this is genuinely an issue that has no good resolution.\n\nIt seems she wants me to do something to turn her on yet she herself says she doesnt know what it is. \nNo, we HAVE had sex several times before, and that was her trying to throw herself into it which I appreciate but it seems this 'demeanor' thing is so important to her that psychologically that its not something that can be ignored.\nThe other thing is, she herself says she cant explain it, I've never encountered anyone like that before. Its not my looks, opinions, behaviour etc. she puts it down to 'demeanor'. \n\nI know people will say this is a dealbreaker, and its a shame because we get on so well together. However I'm checking with this subreddit to see if anyone has been in a similar situation and managed to overcome it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my ex (22f) and i (22m) were together for nearly 5 years and I thought we would end up together- granted, we each wanted different things in our relationship.\n\nTowards the end, the sex sucked, she was rarely, if ever, into it. It was all about me supporting her over everything- she could have daily breakdowns, and it was like I was not allowed to. It was a bad relationship, but I loved her. Unfortunately, a lot of this was due to her anxiety she never bothered to deal with. We had to do long distance, and she started hanging out with this dude, let's call him Dick, he's kind of a bum.\n\nWe broke up 5-6 weeks ago, and I was doing fine- I've been working out like crazy, lost some weight, moving out west to work in film/tv in LA. A few days ago, I got a text from her. She says she needs to tell me something and she needs me not to hate her for it- she's started dating Dick. \n\nI lost it. I cut her out of my life completely even though we agreed to try to stay friends. I've been just depressed for days now. Like, worse than the initial breakup. I don't know what to do.\n\nI joined okcupid, but even the chicks that have a high percentage compatibility with me wont return my friendly messages. It's like I'm completely unattractive- at least that's how I feel."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my ex (22f) and i (22m) were together for nearly 5 years and I thought we would end up together- granted, we each wanted different things in our relationship.\n\nTowards the end, the sex sucked, she was rarely, if ever, into it. It was all about me supporting her over everything- she could have daily breakdowns, and it was like I was not allowed to. It was a bad relationship, but I loved her. Unfortunately, a lot of this was due to her anxiety she never bothered to deal with. We had to do long distance, and she started hanging out with this dude, let's call him Dick, he's kind of a bum.\n\nWe broke up 5-6 weeks ago, and I was doing fine- I've been working out like crazy, lost some weight, moving out west to work in film/tv in LA. A few days ago, I got a text from her. She says she needs to tell me something and she needs me not to hate her for it- she's started dating Dick. \n\nI lost it. I cut her out of my life completely even though we agreed to try to stay friends. I've been just depressed for days now. Like, worse than the initial breakup. I don't know what to do.\n\nI joined okcupid, but even the chicks that have a high percentage compatibility with me wont return my friendly messages. It's like I'm completely unattractive- at least that's how I feel."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my ex (22f) and i (22m) were together for nearly 5 years and I thought we would end up together- granted, we each wanted different things in our relationship.\n\nTowards the end, the sex sucked, she was rarely, if ever, into it. It was all about me supporting her over everything- she could have daily breakdowns, and it was like I was not allowed to. It was a bad relationship, but I loved her. Unfortunately, a lot of this was due to her anxiety she never bothered to deal with. We had to do long distance, and she started hanging out with this dude, let's call him Dick, he's kind of a bum.\n\nWe broke up 5-6 weeks ago, and I was doing fine- I've been working out like crazy, lost some weight, moving out west to work in film/tv in LA. A few days ago, I got a text from her. She says she needs to tell me something and she needs me not to hate her for it- she's started dating Dick. \n\nI lost it. I cut her out of my life completely even though we agreed to try to stay friends. I've been just depressed for days now. Like, worse than the initial breakup. I don't know what to do.\n\nI joined okcupid, but even the chicks that have a high percentage compatibility with me wont return my friendly messages. It's like I'm completely unattractive- at least that's how I feel."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my ex (22f) and i (22m) were together for nearly 5 years and I thought we would end up together- granted, we each wanted different things in our relationship.\n\nTowards the end, the sex sucked, she was rarely, if ever, into it. It was all about me supporting her over everything- she could have daily breakdowns, and it was like I was not allowed to. It was a bad relationship, but I loved her. Unfortunately, a lot of this was due to her anxiety she never bothered to deal with. We had to do long distance, and she started hanging out with this dude, let's call him Dick, he's kind of a bum.\n\nWe broke up 5-6 weeks ago, and I was doing fine- I've been working out like crazy, lost some weight, moving out west to work in film/tv in LA. A few days ago, I got a text from her. She says she needs to tell me something and she needs me not to hate her for it- she's started dating Dick. \n\nI lost it. I cut her out of my life completely even though we agreed to try to stay friends. I've been just depressed for days now. Like, worse than the initial breakup. I don't know what to do.\n\nI joined okcupid, but even the chicks that have a high percentage compatibility with me wont return my friendly messages. It's like I'm completely unattractive- at least that's how I feel."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my ex (22f) and i (22m) were together for nearly 5 years and I thought we would end up together- granted, we each wanted different things in our relationship.\n\nTowards the end, the sex sucked, she was rarely, if ever, into it. It was all about me supporting her over everything- she could have daily breakdowns, and it was like I was not allowed to. It was a bad relationship, but I loved her. Unfortunately, a lot of this was due to her anxiety she never bothered to deal with. We had to do long distance, and she started hanging out with this dude, let's call him Dick, he's kind of a bum.\n\nWe broke up 5-6 weeks ago, and I was doing fine- I've been working out like crazy, lost some weight, moving out west to work in film/tv in LA. A few days ago, I got a text from her. She says she needs to tell me something and she needs me not to hate her for it- she's started dating Dick. \n\nI lost it. I cut her out of my life completely even though we agreed to try to stay friends. I've been just depressed for days now. Like, worse than the initial breakup. I don't know what to do.\n\nI joined okcupid, but even the chicks that have a high percentage compatibility with me wont return my friendly messages. It's like I'm completely unattractive- at least that's how I feel."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf accidentally dropped/left a brand new set of earrings lying on the ground (5 pairs to be exact) and the the heel of my foot stepped on all 5 pairs, I fell to the ground and I noticed that I left blood on the floor. I think the bleeding stopped but it still hurts like hell. I was just wondering if it good to just clean it with alcohol and then band-aid it up? I'm not sure how infection works with the foot, I tried googling it but it just told me to seek a foot surgeon immediately after puncture wounds. What does reddit advise?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf accidentally dropped/left a brand new set of earrings lying on the ground (5 pairs to be exact) and the the heel of my foot stepped on all 5 pairs, I fell to the ground and I noticed that I left blood on the floor. I think the bleeding stopped but it still hurts like hell. I was just wondering if it good to just clean it with alcohol and then band-aid it up? I'm not sure how infection works with the foot, I tried googling it but it just told me to seek a foot surgeon immediately after puncture wounds. What does reddit advise?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf accidentally dropped/left a brand new set of earrings lying on the ground (5 pairs to be exact) and the the heel of my foot stepped on all 5 pairs, I fell to the ground and I noticed that I left blood on the floor. I think the bleeding stopped but it still hurts like hell. I was just wondering if it good to just clean it with alcohol and then band-aid it up? I'm not sure how infection works with the foot, I tried googling it but it just told me to seek a foot surgeon immediately after puncture wounds. What does reddit advise?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf accidentally dropped/left a brand new set of earrings lying on the ground (5 pairs to be exact) and the the heel of my foot stepped on all 5 pairs, I fell to the ground and I noticed that I left blood on the floor. I think the bleeding stopped but it still hurts like hell. I was just wondering if it good to just clean it with alcohol and then band-aid it up? I'm not sure how infection works with the foot, I tried googling it but it just told me to seek a foot surgeon immediately after puncture wounds. What does reddit advise?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf accidentally dropped/left a brand new set of earrings lying on the ground (5 pairs to be exact) and the the heel of my foot stepped on all 5 pairs, I fell to the ground and I noticed that I left blood on the floor. I think the bleeding stopped but it still hurts like hell. I was just wondering if it good to just clean it with alcohol and then band-aid it up? I'm not sure how infection works with the foot, I tried googling it but it just told me to seek a foot surgeon immediately after puncture wounds. What does reddit advise?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My gf accidentally dropped/left a brand new set of earrings lying on the ground (5 pairs to be exact) and the the heel of my foot stepped on all 5 pairs, I fell to the ground and I noticed that I left blood on the floor. I think the bleeding stopped but it still hurts like hell. I was just wondering if it good to just clean it with alcohol and then band-aid it up? I'm not sure how infection works with the foot, I tried googling it but it just told me to seek a foot surgeon immediately after puncture wounds. What does reddit advise?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am 23 and I have a lot of health issues. I have psoriatic arthritis and inflammatory bowel disease to name the reasons I am a medical patient. I'm 5' 2.5\" and I weight 79lbs and it's the only thing that has helped alleviate some of my symptoms without injecting myself with chemo drugs and biological agents.\n He just got out of the army and wants to be a state trooper. I told him I use it medically and he said he doesn't mind but that was it. We've been talking for about a month. Is this combination pretty much doomed to fail with my marijuana use?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am 23 and I have a lot of health issues. I have psoriatic arthritis and inflammatory bowel disease to name the reasons I am a medical patient. I'm 5' 2.5\" and I weight 79lbs and it's the only thing that has helped alleviate some of my symptoms without injecting myself with chemo drugs and biological agents.\n He just got out of the army and wants to be a state trooper. I told him I use it medically and he said he doesn't mind but that was it. We've been talking for about a month. Is this combination pretty much doomed to fail with my marijuana use?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am 23 and I have a lot of health issues. I have psoriatic arthritis and inflammatory bowel disease to name the reasons I am a medical patient. I'm 5' 2.5\" and I weight 79lbs and it's the only thing that has helped alleviate some of my symptoms without injecting myself with chemo drugs and biological agents.\n He just got out of the army and wants to be a state trooper. I told him I use it medically and he said he doesn't mind but that was it. We've been talking for about a month. Is this combination pretty much doomed to fail with my marijuana use?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am 23 and I have a lot of health issues. I have psoriatic arthritis and inflammatory bowel disease to name the reasons I am a medical patient. I'm 5' 2.5\" and I weight 79lbs and it's the only thing that has helped alleviate some of my symptoms without injecting myself with chemo drugs and biological agents.\n He just got out of the army and wants to be a state trooper. I told him I use it medically and he said he doesn't mind but that was it. We've been talking for about a month. Is this combination pretty much doomed to fail with my marijuana use?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am 23 and I have a lot of health issues. I have psoriatic arthritis and inflammatory bowel disease to name the reasons I am a medical patient. I'm 5' 2.5\" and I weight 79lbs and it's the only thing that has helped alleviate some of my symptoms without injecting myself with chemo drugs and biological agents.\n He just got out of the army and wants to be a state trooper. I told him I use it medically and he said he doesn't mind but that was it. We've been talking for about a month. Is this combination pretty much doomed to fail with my marijuana use?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This morning when I went to utilize my internet I found there was a block (maybe.) on my account stating that the MPAA and/or some of its affiliate parties detected that downloading of copyrighted materials taking place at this location. We have 5 computers in our house connected to the internet, plus several additional devices. at least 3 of the computers I know possibly may have copyrighted material on them. How concerned should I be about this? Should I just take this as a warning? Or is this something I should take more seriously. I've never gotten anything like this before,"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This morning when I went to utilize my internet I found there was a block (maybe.) on my account stating that the MPAA and/or some of its affiliate parties detected that downloading of copyrighted materials taking place at this location. We have 5 computers in our house connected to the internet, plus several additional devices. at least 3 of the computers I know possibly may have copyrighted material on them. How concerned should I be about this? Should I just take this as a warning? Or is this something I should take more seriously. I've never gotten anything like this before,"
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