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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This morning when I went to utilize my internet I found there was a block (maybe.) on my account stating that the MPAA and/or some of its affiliate parties detected that downloading of copyrighted materials taking place at this location. We have 5 computers in our house connected to the internet, plus several additional devices. at least 3 of the computers I know possibly may have copyrighted material on them. How concerned should I be about this? Should I just take this as a warning? Or is this something I should take more seriously. I've never gotten anything like this before,"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This morning when I went to utilize my internet I found there was a block (maybe.) on my account stating that the MPAA and/or some of its affiliate parties detected that downloading of copyrighted materials taking place at this location. We have 5 computers in our house connected to the internet, plus several additional devices. at least 3 of the computers I know possibly may have copyrighted material on them. How concerned should I be about this? Should I just take this as a warning? Or is this something I should take more seriously. I've never gotten anything like this before,"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This morning when I went to utilize my internet I found there was a block (maybe.) on my account stating that the MPAA and/or some of its affiliate parties detected that downloading of copyrighted materials taking place at this location. We have 5 computers in our house connected to the internet, plus several additional devices. at least 3 of the computers I know possibly may have copyrighted material on them. How concerned should I be about this? Should I just take this as a warning? Or is this something I should take more seriously. I've never gotten anything like this before,"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This morning when I went to utilize my internet I found there was a block (maybe.) on my account stating that the MPAA and/or some of its affiliate parties detected that downloading of copyrighted materials taking place at this location. We have 5 computers in our house connected to the internet, plus several additional devices. at least 3 of the computers I know possibly may have copyrighted material on them. How concerned should I be about this? Should I just take this as a warning? Or is this something I should take more seriously. I've never gotten anything like this before,"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before I start, I should probably clarify that these are two separate questions.\n\nQuestion One:\n\nFirst, I was wondering how everyone else has their paychecks set up to deduct taxes-right now, I make approximately 70k/yr. and have it set up that everything is pulled from my paycheck right away, and then every April I receive a $2,000 return on my income taxes.\n\nShould I keep it how it is, or switch it to take less out of my paycheck, but then have to pay in come tax season? \n\nQuestion Two:\n\nDespite what r/personalfinance stands for, I purchased a new car for roughly $38k a year and a half ago (I wasn't subscribed to this subreddit at that time). I put $7k down, and took out a $31k loan. \n\nA few weeks ago, my car was rear-ended, and it is now in the shop being repaired. Over the past few months, I've realized that although I like my SUV, a car is much more economical for my needs.\n\nWith $24k left on the loan, I believe I can trade the SUV in for the car I'd like with it being an even trade. At that point, my monthly payments would also drop as well. \n\nWould this be a wise idea, to try and get as much money as I can out of my car now, especially considering I lost a lot of value when I purchased it new and drove it off the lot, or would it sound reasonable if I knew I could save a lot on gas and such if I traded it in for a car?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before I start, I should probably clarify that these are two separate questions.\n\nQuestion One:\n\nFirst, I was wondering how everyone else has their paychecks set up to deduct taxes-right now, I make approximately 70k/yr. and have it set up that everything is pulled from my paycheck right away, and then every April I receive a $2,000 return on my income taxes.\n\nShould I keep it how it is, or switch it to take less out of my paycheck, but then have to pay in come tax season? \n\nQuestion Two:\n\nDespite what r/personalfinance stands for, I purchased a new car for roughly $38k a year and a half ago (I wasn't subscribed to this subreddit at that time). I put $7k down, and took out a $31k loan. \n\nA few weeks ago, my car was rear-ended, and it is now in the shop being repaired. Over the past few months, I've realized that although I like my SUV, a car is much more economical for my needs.\n\nWith $24k left on the loan, I believe I can trade the SUV in for the car I'd like with it being an even trade. At that point, my monthly payments would also drop as well. \n\nWould this be a wise idea, to try and get as much money as I can out of my car now, especially considering I lost a lot of value when I purchased it new and drove it off the lot, or would it sound reasonable if I knew I could save a lot on gas and such if I traded it in for a car?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before I start, I should probably clarify that these are two separate questions.\n\nQuestion One:\n\nFirst, I was wondering how everyone else has their paychecks set up to deduct taxes-right now, I make approximately 70k/yr. and have it set up that everything is pulled from my paycheck right away, and then every April I receive a $2,000 return on my income taxes.\n\nShould I keep it how it is, or switch it to take less out of my paycheck, but then have to pay in come tax season? \n\nQuestion Two:\n\nDespite what r/personalfinance stands for, I purchased a new car for roughly $38k a year and a half ago (I wasn't subscribed to this subreddit at that time). I put $7k down, and took out a $31k loan. \n\nA few weeks ago, my car was rear-ended, and it is now in the shop being repaired. Over the past few months, I've realized that although I like my SUV, a car is much more economical for my needs.\n\nWith $24k left on the loan, I believe I can trade the SUV in for the car I'd like with it being an even trade. At that point, my monthly payments would also drop as well. \n\nWould this be a wise idea, to try and get as much money as I can out of my car now, especially considering I lost a lot of value when I purchased it new and drove it off the lot, or would it sound reasonable if I knew I could save a lot on gas and such if I traded it in for a car?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before I start, I should probably clarify that these are two separate questions.\n\nQuestion One:\n\nFirst, I was wondering how everyone else has their paychecks set up to deduct taxes-right now, I make approximately 70k/yr. and have it set up that everything is pulled from my paycheck right away, and then every April I receive a $2,000 return on my income taxes.\n\nShould I keep it how it is, or switch it to take less out of my paycheck, but then have to pay in come tax season? \n\nQuestion Two:\n\nDespite what r/personalfinance stands for, I purchased a new car for roughly $38k a year and a half ago (I wasn't subscribed to this subreddit at that time). I put $7k down, and took out a $31k loan. \n\nA few weeks ago, my car was rear-ended, and it is now in the shop being repaired. Over the past few months, I've realized that although I like my SUV, a car is much more economical for my needs.\n\nWith $24k left on the loan, I believe I can trade the SUV in for the car I'd like with it being an even trade. At that point, my monthly payments would also drop as well. \n\nWould this be a wise idea, to try and get as much money as I can out of my car now, especially considering I lost a lot of value when I purchased it new and drove it off the lot, or would it sound reasonable if I knew I could save a lot on gas and such if I traded it in for a car?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Before I start, I should probably clarify that these are two separate questions.\n\nQuestion One:\n\nFirst, I was wondering how everyone else has their paychecks set up to deduct taxes-right now, I make approximately 70k/yr. and have it set up that everything is pulled from my paycheck right away, and then every April I receive a $2,000 return on my income taxes.\n\nShould I keep it how it is, or switch it to take less out of my paycheck, but then have to pay in come tax season? \n\nQuestion Two:\n\nDespite what r/personalfinance stands for, I purchased a new car for roughly $38k a year and a half ago (I wasn't subscribed to this subreddit at that time). I put $7k down, and took out a $31k loan. \n\nA few weeks ago, my car was rear-ended, and it is now in the shop being repaired. Over the past few months, I've realized that although I like my SUV, a car is much more economical for my needs.\n\nWith $24k left on the loan, I believe I can trade the SUV in for the car I'd like with it being an even trade. At that point, my monthly payments would also drop as well. \n\nWould this be a wise idea, to try and get as much money as I can out of my car now, especially considering I lost a lot of value when I purchased it new and drove it off the lot, or would it sound reasonable if I knew I could save a lot on gas and such if I traded it in for a car?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my [24 M] boyfriend for over three years now and I met a younger guy[16 M], strictly platonic. I'm aware of how incredibly illegal and wrong it is. No, I have not flirted with this younger guy or done anything. But I can't seem to resist this attraction. I feel wrong. I know it's wrong. I'm starting to think that I'm attracted to younger guys, and it makes me feel sick.\n\nI always have the intention to seek a meangingful long-term relationship. I really want to make this relationship work with my boyfriend. And I'm depressed cause this situation starting to really question my relationship that I value so much. Also my personal being. I haave to stop being attracted to this younger guy. It's not even at the level of just lust or some type of fetish. I have to admit sometimes my mind wanders and thinks. I can just wait til he's legal and hopefully this feeling will go away before then. \n\n I don't value the aspects of \"flings\". I have no intention of doing anything with this younger guy. But now I fear that I will never be attracted to guys my age. \n\nI know my thoughts are dashing back and forth. I read somewhere that people who were molested when they were young are likely to become pedophiles. I hope this isn't true. \n\nIt's making me doubt this relationship I'm in now. Am I in love? Or is love just a temporary thing. Will I get over this \"fantasy\" phase of being attracted to younger guys. Do I need to seek help? Am I actually becoming a pedophile?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my [24 M] boyfriend for over three years now and I met a younger guy[16 M], strictly platonic. I'm aware of how incredibly illegal and wrong it is. No, I have not flirted with this younger guy or done anything. But I can't seem to resist this attraction. I feel wrong. I know it's wrong. I'm starting to think that I'm attracted to younger guys, and it makes me feel sick.\n\nI always have the intention to seek a meangingful long-term relationship. I really want to make this relationship work with my boyfriend. And I'm depressed cause this situation starting to really question my relationship that I value so much. Also my personal being. I haave to stop being attracted to this younger guy. It's not even at the level of just lust or some type of fetish. I have to admit sometimes my mind wanders and thinks. I can just wait til he's legal and hopefully this feeling will go away before then. \n\n I don't value the aspects of \"flings\". I have no intention of doing anything with this younger guy. But now I fear that I will never be attracted to guys my age. \n\nI know my thoughts are dashing back and forth. I read somewhere that people who were molested when they were young are likely to become pedophiles. I hope this isn't true. \n\nIt's making me doubt this relationship I'm in now. Am I in love? Or is love just a temporary thing. Will I get over this \"fantasy\" phase of being attracted to younger guys. Do I need to seek help? Am I actually becoming a pedophile?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my [24 M] boyfriend for over three years now and I met a younger guy[16 M], strictly platonic. I'm aware of how incredibly illegal and wrong it is. No, I have not flirted with this younger guy or done anything. But I can't seem to resist this attraction. I feel wrong. I know it's wrong. I'm starting to think that I'm attracted to younger guys, and it makes me feel sick.\n\nI always have the intention to seek a meangingful long-term relationship. I really want to make this relationship work with my boyfriend. And I'm depressed cause this situation starting to really question my relationship that I value so much. Also my personal being. I haave to stop being attracted to this younger guy. It's not even at the level of just lust or some type of fetish. I have to admit sometimes my mind wanders and thinks. I can just wait til he's legal and hopefully this feeling will go away before then. \n\n I don't value the aspects of \"flings\". I have no intention of doing anything with this younger guy. But now I fear that I will never be attracted to guys my age. \n\nI know my thoughts are dashing back and forth. I read somewhere that people who were molested when they were young are likely to become pedophiles. I hope this isn't true. \n\nIt's making me doubt this relationship I'm in now. Am I in love? Or is love just a temporary thing. Will I get over this \"fantasy\" phase of being attracted to younger guys. Do I need to seek help? Am I actually becoming a pedophile?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my [24 M] boyfriend for over three years now and I met a younger guy[16 M], strictly platonic. I'm aware of how incredibly illegal and wrong it is. No, I have not flirted with this younger guy or done anything. But I can't seem to resist this attraction. I feel wrong. I know it's wrong. I'm starting to think that I'm attracted to younger guys, and it makes me feel sick.\n\nI always have the intention to seek a meangingful long-term relationship. I really want to make this relationship work with my boyfriend. And I'm depressed cause this situation starting to really question my relationship that I value so much. Also my personal being. I haave to stop being attracted to this younger guy. It's not even at the level of just lust or some type of fetish. I have to admit sometimes my mind wanders and thinks. I can just wait til he's legal and hopefully this feeling will go away before then. \n\n I don't value the aspects of \"flings\". I have no intention of doing anything with this younger guy. But now I fear that I will never be attracted to guys my age. \n\nI know my thoughts are dashing back and forth. I read somewhere that people who were molested when they were young are likely to become pedophiles. I hope this isn't true. \n\nIt's making me doubt this relationship I'm in now. Am I in love? Or is love just a temporary thing. Will I get over this \"fantasy\" phase of being attracted to younger guys. Do I need to seek help? Am I actually becoming a pedophile?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with my [24 M] boyfriend for over three years now and I met a younger guy[16 M], strictly platonic. I'm aware of how incredibly illegal and wrong it is. No, I have not flirted with this younger guy or done anything. But I can't seem to resist this attraction. I feel wrong. I know it's wrong. I'm starting to think that I'm attracted to younger guys, and it makes me feel sick.\n\nI always have the intention to seek a meangingful long-term relationship. I really want to make this relationship work with my boyfriend. And I'm depressed cause this situation starting to really question my relationship that I value so much. Also my personal being. I haave to stop being attracted to this younger guy. It's not even at the level of just lust or some type of fetish. I have to admit sometimes my mind wanders and thinks. I can just wait til he's legal and hopefully this feeling will go away before then. \n\n I don't value the aspects of \"flings\". I have no intention of doing anything with this younger guy. But now I fear that I will never be attracted to guys my age. \n\nI know my thoughts are dashing back and forth. I read somewhere that people who were molested when they were young are likely to become pedophiles. I hope this isn't true. \n\nIt's making me doubt this relationship I'm in now. Am I in love? Or is love just a temporary thing. Will I get over this \"fantasy\" phase of being attracted to younger guys. Do I need to seek help? Am I actually becoming a pedophile?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (20f) have been dating my (23m) for two months now. Well, initially he was just bad at replying to any and everyone via texting.he hates being on his phone period. And it wasn't that big of a deal until he went out of town for two weeks. He won't text or message me unless I do. \n\nI hate being the one to initiate everything, and it wasn't always like this, this has been a recent thing when he was home if two days past he would text me. I talked to him about it and I asked him if he cares about me, I even mentioned to him that to me it's not normal to not talk to your partner for days on end and think everything is ok, for me even if I don't seem them at LEAST a good morning, how are you .anything would be ok with me. \n\nHe said he does care, and that he does think everything is good when we don't talk to each other for three days straight. But that was all. And I didn't say anything to him afterwards, that was three days ago. No text from him since. All he does is watch some of my snaps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (20f) have been dating my (23m) for two months now. Well, initially he was just bad at replying to any and everyone via texting.he hates being on his phone period. And it wasn't that big of a deal until he went out of town for two weeks. He won't text or message me unless I do. \n\nI hate being the one to initiate everything, and it wasn't always like this, this has been a recent thing when he was home if two days past he would text me. I talked to him about it and I asked him if he cares about me, I even mentioned to him that to me it's not normal to not talk to your partner for days on end and think everything is ok, for me even if I don't seem them at LEAST a good morning, how are you .anything would be ok with me. \n\nHe said he does care, and that he does think everything is good when we don't talk to each other for three days straight. But that was all. And I didn't say anything to him afterwards, that was three days ago. No text from him since. All he does is watch some of my snaps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (20f) have been dating my (23m) for two months now. Well, initially he was just bad at replying to any and everyone via texting.he hates being on his phone period. And it wasn't that big of a deal until he went out of town for two weeks. He won't text or message me unless I do. \n\nI hate being the one to initiate everything, and it wasn't always like this, this has been a recent thing when he was home if two days past he would text me. I talked to him about it and I asked him if he cares about me, I even mentioned to him that to me it's not normal to not talk to your partner for days on end and think everything is ok, for me even if I don't seem them at LEAST a good morning, how are you .anything would be ok with me. \n\nHe said he does care, and that he does think everything is good when we don't talk to each other for three days straight. But that was all. And I didn't say anything to him afterwards, that was three days ago. No text from him since. All he does is watch some of my snaps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (20f) have been dating my (23m) for two months now. Well, initially he was just bad at replying to any and everyone via texting.he hates being on his phone period. And it wasn't that big of a deal until he went out of town for two weeks. He won't text or message me unless I do. \n\nI hate being the one to initiate everything, and it wasn't always like this, this has been a recent thing when he was home if two days past he would text me. I talked to him about it and I asked him if he cares about me, I even mentioned to him that to me it's not normal to not talk to your partner for days on end and think everything is ok, for me even if I don't seem them at LEAST a good morning, how are you .anything would be ok with me. \n\nHe said he does care, and that he does think everything is good when we don't talk to each other for three days straight. But that was all. And I didn't say anything to him afterwards, that was three days ago. No text from him since. All he does is watch some of my snaps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (20f) have been dating my (23m) for two months now. Well, initially he was just bad at replying to any and everyone via texting.he hates being on his phone period. And it wasn't that big of a deal until he went out of town for two weeks. He won't text or message me unless I do. \n\nI hate being the one to initiate everything, and it wasn't always like this, this has been a recent thing when he was home if two days past he would text me. I talked to him about it and I asked him if he cares about me, I even mentioned to him that to me it's not normal to not talk to your partner for days on end and think everything is ok, for me even if I don't seem them at LEAST a good morning, how are you .anything would be ok with me. \n\nHe said he does care, and that he does think everything is good when we don't talk to each other for three days straight. But that was all. And I didn't say anything to him afterwards, that was three days ago. No text from him since. All he does is watch some of my snaps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (20f) have been dating my (23m) for two months now. Well, initially he was just bad at replying to any and everyone via texting.he hates being on his phone period. And it wasn't that big of a deal until he went out of town for two weeks. He won't text or message me unless I do. \n\nI hate being the one to initiate everything, and it wasn't always like this, this has been a recent thing when he was home if two days past he would text me. I talked to him about it and I asked him if he cares about me, I even mentioned to him that to me it's not normal to not talk to your partner for days on end and think everything is ok, for me even if I don't seem them at LEAST a good morning, how are you .anything would be ok with me. \n\nHe said he does care, and that he does think everything is good when we don't talk to each other for three days straight. But that was all. And I didn't say anything to him afterwards, that was three days ago. No text from him since. All he does is watch some of my snaps."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been friends for about 7 years now, they've been dating for four years. He's 20, she is about that age as well, I'm not exactly sure. Every time I hang out with the two of them together, she is a constant drag. She is lazy, puts him down, and is overall an uninteresting person. She contributes in no way to conversations and her favorite hobby is complaining. \n\nHow he does not see all of these things, I'm not sure. \n\nSo, my question is, do I tell him now that I have reservations about this wedding, or do I wait out the year until they get married and see if he realizes her treachery? \n\nJust to get this out there, everyone hates her. His mom always talks to me about how much she dislikes her, which I kinda found strange she would talk to me about it. But almost no one has anything good to say about her, it's not just me. \n\nI honestly believe he is marrying her because he thinks it's his only chance. He doesn't have the best self-esteem, so I think he is just settling for her when he could do better, just doesn't know it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been friends for about 7 years now, they've been dating for four years. He's 20, she is about that age as well, I'm not exactly sure. Every time I hang out with the two of them together, she is a constant drag. She is lazy, puts him down, and is overall an uninteresting person. She contributes in no way to conversations and her favorite hobby is complaining. \n\nHow he does not see all of these things, I'm not sure. \n\nSo, my question is, do I tell him now that I have reservations about this wedding, or do I wait out the year until they get married and see if he realizes her treachery? \n\nJust to get this out there, everyone hates her. His mom always talks to me about how much she dislikes her, which I kinda found strange she would talk to me about it. But almost no one has anything good to say about her, it's not just me. \n\nI honestly believe he is marrying her because he thinks it's his only chance. He doesn't have the best self-esteem, so I think he is just settling for her when he could do better, just doesn't know it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been friends for about 7 years now, they've been dating for four years. He's 20, she is about that age as well, I'm not exactly sure. Every time I hang out with the two of them together, she is a constant drag. She is lazy, puts him down, and is overall an uninteresting person. She contributes in no way to conversations and her favorite hobby is complaining. \n\nHow he does not see all of these things, I'm not sure. \n\nSo, my question is, do I tell him now that I have reservations about this wedding, or do I wait out the year until they get married and see if he realizes her treachery? \n\nJust to get this out there, everyone hates her. His mom always talks to me about how much she dislikes her, which I kinda found strange she would talk to me about it. But almost no one has anything good to say about her, it's not just me. \n\nI honestly believe he is marrying her because he thinks it's his only chance. He doesn't have the best self-esteem, so I think he is just settling for her when he could do better, just doesn't know it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been friends for about 7 years now, they've been dating for four years. He's 20, she is about that age as well, I'm not exactly sure. Every time I hang out with the two of them together, she is a constant drag. She is lazy, puts him down, and is overall an uninteresting person. She contributes in no way to conversations and her favorite hobby is complaining. \n\nHow he does not see all of these things, I'm not sure. \n\nSo, my question is, do I tell him now that I have reservations about this wedding, or do I wait out the year until they get married and see if he realizes her treachery? \n\nJust to get this out there, everyone hates her. His mom always talks to me about how much she dislikes her, which I kinda found strange she would talk to me about it. But almost no one has anything good to say about her, it's not just me. \n\nI honestly believe he is marrying her because he thinks it's his only chance. He doesn't have the best self-esteem, so I think he is just settling for her when he could do better, just doesn't know it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we've been friends for about 7 years now, they've been dating for four years. He's 20, she is about that age as well, I'm not exactly sure. Every time I hang out with the two of them together, she is a constant drag. She is lazy, puts him down, and is overall an uninteresting person. She contributes in no way to conversations and her favorite hobby is complaining. \n\nHow he does not see all of these things, I'm not sure. \n\nSo, my question is, do I tell him now that I have reservations about this wedding, or do I wait out the year until they get married and see if he realizes her treachery? \n\nJust to get this out there, everyone hates her. His mom always talks to me about how much she dislikes her, which I kinda found strange she would talk to me about it. But almost no one has anything good to say about her, it's not just me. \n\nI honestly believe he is marrying her because he thinks it's his only chance. He doesn't have the best self-esteem, so I think he is just settling for her when he could do better, just doesn't know it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The other day I (19F) found my SO's porn collection which didn't surprise me because we're pretty open to each other about watching/looking at porn. What did surprise me and made me cry my eyes out is that he had multiple images of a mutual facebook friend we both went to school with, amongst fairly random porn pics. I havn't confronted him because I don't know whether I should be angry or not about the whole thing and tell him its wrong or just leave it. I guess this leads to insecurities but 'she' looks extremely different to me (tall, blonde, skinny as fuck). Is using pictures of someone you know to masturbate crossing a line?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The other day I (19F) found my SO's porn collection which didn't surprise me because we're pretty open to each other about watching/looking at porn. What did surprise me and made me cry my eyes out is that he had multiple images of a mutual facebook friend we both went to school with, amongst fairly random porn pics. I havn't confronted him because I don't know whether I should be angry or not about the whole thing and tell him its wrong or just leave it. I guess this leads to insecurities but 'she' looks extremely different to me (tall, blonde, skinny as fuck). Is using pictures of someone you know to masturbate crossing a line?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The other day I (19F) found my SO's porn collection which didn't surprise me because we're pretty open to each other about watching/looking at porn. What did surprise me and made me cry my eyes out is that he had multiple images of a mutual facebook friend we both went to school with, amongst fairly random porn pics. I havn't confronted him because I don't know whether I should be angry or not about the whole thing and tell him its wrong or just leave it. I guess this leads to insecurities but 'she' looks extremely different to me (tall, blonde, skinny as fuck). Is using pictures of someone you know to masturbate crossing a line?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The other day I (19F) found my SO's porn collection which didn't surprise me because we're pretty open to each other about watching/looking at porn. What did surprise me and made me cry my eyes out is that he had multiple images of a mutual facebook friend we both went to school with, amongst fairly random porn pics. I havn't confronted him because I don't know whether I should be angry or not about the whole thing and tell him its wrong or just leave it. I guess this leads to insecurities but 'she' looks extremely different to me (tall, blonde, skinny as fuck). Is using pictures of someone you know to masturbate crossing a line?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The other day I (19F) found my SO's porn collection which didn't surprise me because we're pretty open to each other about watching/looking at porn. What did surprise me and made me cry my eyes out is that he had multiple images of a mutual facebook friend we both went to school with, amongst fairly random porn pics. I havn't confronted him because I don't know whether I should be angry or not about the whole thing and tell him its wrong or just leave it. I guess this leads to insecurities but 'she' looks extremely different to me (tall, blonde, skinny as fuck). Is using pictures of someone you know to masturbate crossing a line?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Title is as title does, I guess it all boils down to having poor taste in women or something.\n\nI value trust, and relationships with long term goals. Each of the relationships was over a year long before the cheating happened. \n\nI've always been employed, and work hard to make sure bills are paid and stomachs are full. There has never been any kids. I have always been faithful.\n\nI am nowhere near perfect. I too, have my flaws, but infedelity it not one of them.\n\nMe and my wife went at it, because she had 'red flags' of cheating (guilt, lack of intimacy, etc.) - when I confronted her with my concerns, she threw it in my face that she's different \"than my exes\" and acted like the better person.\n\nShe's never given them any real bad rap before - so it made it worse. \n\nAgainst my better judgement, I went through her personal messages, chats, and texts to find out that I'm batting 1.000 with women in my life who have more than one man.\n\nShe's now gone for all the right reasons, because I don't believe in second chances when it comes to a complete betrayal of trust.\n\nbut now what? I'm single, and trying to move forward, but I've wasted thousands of dollars and years of my life on \"bad women\". How hard is it to find a good woman these days - and how do I prevent myself from going \"WELP HERE COMES NUMBER FOUR\" every waking moment of our relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Title is as title does, I guess it all boils down to having poor taste in women or something.\n\nI value trust, and relationships with long term goals. Each of the relationships was over a year long before the cheating happened. \n\nI've always been employed, and work hard to make sure bills are paid and stomachs are full. There has never been any kids. I have always been faithful.\n\nI am nowhere near perfect. I too, have my flaws, but infedelity it not one of them.\n\nMe and my wife went at it, because she had 'red flags' of cheating (guilt, lack of intimacy, etc.) - when I confronted her with my concerns, she threw it in my face that she's different \"than my exes\" and acted like the better person.\n\nShe's never given them any real bad rap before - so it made it worse. \n\nAgainst my better judgement, I went through her personal messages, chats, and texts to find out that I'm batting 1.000 with women in my life who have more than one man.\n\nShe's now gone for all the right reasons, because I don't believe in second chances when it comes to a complete betrayal of trust.\n\nbut now what? I'm single, and trying to move forward, but I've wasted thousands of dollars and years of my life on \"bad women\". How hard is it to find a good woman these days - and how do I prevent myself from going \"WELP HERE COMES NUMBER FOUR\" every waking moment of our relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Title is as title does, I guess it all boils down to having poor taste in women or something.\n\nI value trust, and relationships with long term goals. Each of the relationships was over a year long before the cheating happened. \n\nI've always been employed, and work hard to make sure bills are paid and stomachs are full. There has never been any kids. I have always been faithful.\n\nI am nowhere near perfect. I too, have my flaws, but infedelity it not one of them.\n\nMe and my wife went at it, because she had 'red flags' of cheating (guilt, lack of intimacy, etc.) - when I confronted her with my concerns, she threw it in my face that she's different \"than my exes\" and acted like the better person.\n\nShe's never given them any real bad rap before - so it made it worse. \n\nAgainst my better judgement, I went through her personal messages, chats, and texts to find out that I'm batting 1.000 with women in my life who have more than one man.\n\nShe's now gone for all the right reasons, because I don't believe in second chances when it comes to a complete betrayal of trust.\n\nbut now what? I'm single, and trying to move forward, but I've wasted thousands of dollars and years of my life on \"bad women\". How hard is it to find a good woman these days - and how do I prevent myself from going \"WELP HERE COMES NUMBER FOUR\" every waking moment of our relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Title is as title does, I guess it all boils down to having poor taste in women or something.\n\nI value trust, and relationships with long term goals. Each of the relationships was over a year long before the cheating happened. \n\nI've always been employed, and work hard to make sure bills are paid and stomachs are full. There has never been any kids. I have always been faithful.\n\nI am nowhere near perfect. I too, have my flaws, but infedelity it not one of them.\n\nMe and my wife went at it, because she had 'red flags' of cheating (guilt, lack of intimacy, etc.) - when I confronted her with my concerns, she threw it in my face that she's different \"than my exes\" and acted like the better person.\n\nShe's never given them any real bad rap before - so it made it worse. \n\nAgainst my better judgement, I went through her personal messages, chats, and texts to find out that I'm batting 1.000 with women in my life who have more than one man.\n\nShe's now gone for all the right reasons, because I don't believe in second chances when it comes to a complete betrayal of trust.\n\nbut now what? I'm single, and trying to move forward, but I've wasted thousands of dollars and years of my life on \"bad women\". How hard is it to find a good woman these days - and how do I prevent myself from going \"WELP HERE COMES NUMBER FOUR\" every waking moment of our relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Title is as title does, I guess it all boils down to having poor taste in women or something.\n\nI value trust, and relationships with long term goals. Each of the relationships was over a year long before the cheating happened. \n\nI've always been employed, and work hard to make sure bills are paid and stomachs are full. There has never been any kids. I have always been faithful.\n\nI am nowhere near perfect. I too, have my flaws, but infedelity it not one of them.\n\nMe and my wife went at it, because she had 'red flags' of cheating (guilt, lack of intimacy, etc.) - when I confronted her with my concerns, she threw it in my face that she's different \"than my exes\" and acted like the better person.\n\nShe's never given them any real bad rap before - so it made it worse. \n\nAgainst my better judgement, I went through her personal messages, chats, and texts to find out that I'm batting 1.000 with women in my life who have more than one man.\n\nShe's now gone for all the right reasons, because I don't believe in second chances when it comes to a complete betrayal of trust.\n\nbut now what? I'm single, and trying to move forward, but I've wasted thousands of dollars and years of my life on \"bad women\". How hard is it to find a good woman these days - and how do I prevent myself from going \"WELP HERE COMES NUMBER FOUR\" every waking moment of our relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Title is as title does, I guess it all boils down to having poor taste in women or something.\n\nI value trust, and relationships with long term goals. Each of the relationships was over a year long before the cheating happened. \n\nI've always been employed, and work hard to make sure bills are paid and stomachs are full. There has never been any kids. I have always been faithful.\n\nI am nowhere near perfect. I too, have my flaws, but infedelity it not one of them.\n\nMe and my wife went at it, because she had 'red flags' of cheating (guilt, lack of intimacy, etc.) - when I confronted her with my concerns, she threw it in my face that she's different \"than my exes\" and acted like the better person.\n\nShe's never given them any real bad rap before - so it made it worse. \n\nAgainst my better judgement, I went through her personal messages, chats, and texts to find out that I'm batting 1.000 with women in my life who have more than one man.\n\nShe's now gone for all the right reasons, because I don't believe in second chances when it comes to a complete betrayal of trust.\n\nbut now what? I'm single, and trying to move forward, but I've wasted thousands of dollars and years of my life on \"bad women\". How hard is it to find a good woman these days - and how do I prevent myself from going \"WELP HERE COMES NUMBER FOUR\" every waking moment of our relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This may seem relatively minor in comparison to a lot of other situations that get posted about or happen around here, but I'm just not really sure where to go right now. My girlfriend and I have been together since around my senior year of high school, and recently broke up around a week ago due to a number of differences between each other over the years as well as distance. I suppose my problem now is trying to deal with not having that other person there to lean on. I'm discovering that I don't know if I'm really missing her or the fact that I have that significant other there to always be able to talk to and just simply share what all I'm doing on a daily basis. Just having the person to send a text and update with what I'm doing in my day and be excited for me is what is difficult. I'm not really a too lonely person, and live on my own and have never had any problems, but that is sort of the gist of it. It's gotten to the point that even if I'm having a friendly conversation with someone and I don't hear back from them for a while/at all for the rest of the day that I start getting down on myself. If I keep myself occupied with work/games/exercise/etc it's not really too bad, but just when I'm alone at night with nothing else really do to it sets in and hurts. I should probably also say that I've never had to go through a breakup as my ex was my first girlfriend and this could easily be standard stuff and I'm just not really experienced. I apologize if this is kinda of rambling, but it's basically stream of consciousness off the top of my head so yeah."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This may seem relatively minor in comparison to a lot of other situations that get posted about or happen around here, but I'm just not really sure where to go right now. My girlfriend and I have been together since around my senior year of high school, and recently broke up around a week ago due to a number of differences between each other over the years as well as distance. I suppose my problem now is trying to deal with not having that other person there to lean on. I'm discovering that I don't know if I'm really missing her or the fact that I have that significant other there to always be able to talk to and just simply share what all I'm doing on a daily basis. Just having the person to send a text and update with what I'm doing in my day and be excited for me is what is difficult. I'm not really a too lonely person, and live on my own and have never had any problems, but that is sort of the gist of it. It's gotten to the point that even if I'm having a friendly conversation with someone and I don't hear back from them for a while/at all for the rest of the day that I start getting down on myself. If I keep myself occupied with work/games/exercise/etc it's not really too bad, but just when I'm alone at night with nothing else really do to it sets in and hurts. I should probably also say that I've never had to go through a breakup as my ex was my first girlfriend and this could easily be standard stuff and I'm just not really experienced. I apologize if this is kinda of rambling, but it's basically stream of consciousness off the top of my head so yeah."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This may seem relatively minor in comparison to a lot of other situations that get posted about or happen around here, but I'm just not really sure where to go right now. My girlfriend and I have been together since around my senior year of high school, and recently broke up around a week ago due to a number of differences between each other over the years as well as distance. I suppose my problem now is trying to deal with not having that other person there to lean on. I'm discovering that I don't know if I'm really missing her or the fact that I have that significant other there to always be able to talk to and just simply share what all I'm doing on a daily basis. Just having the person to send a text and update with what I'm doing in my day and be excited for me is what is difficult. I'm not really a too lonely person, and live on my own and have never had any problems, but that is sort of the gist of it. It's gotten to the point that even if I'm having a friendly conversation with someone and I don't hear back from them for a while/at all for the rest of the day that I start getting down on myself. If I keep myself occupied with work/games/exercise/etc it's not really too bad, but just when I'm alone at night with nothing else really do to it sets in and hurts. I should probably also say that I've never had to go through a breakup as my ex was my first girlfriend and this could easily be standard stuff and I'm just not really experienced. I apologize if this is kinda of rambling, but it's basically stream of consciousness off the top of my head so yeah."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This may seem relatively minor in comparison to a lot of other situations that get posted about or happen around here, but I'm just not really sure where to go right now. My girlfriend and I have been together since around my senior year of high school, and recently broke up around a week ago due to a number of differences between each other over the years as well as distance. I suppose my problem now is trying to deal with not having that other person there to lean on. I'm discovering that I don't know if I'm really missing her or the fact that I have that significant other there to always be able to talk to and just simply share what all I'm doing on a daily basis. Just having the person to send a text and update with what I'm doing in my day and be excited for me is what is difficult. I'm not really a too lonely person, and live on my own and have never had any problems, but that is sort of the gist of it. It's gotten to the point that even if I'm having a friendly conversation with someone and I don't hear back from them for a while/at all for the rest of the day that I start getting down on myself. If I keep myself occupied with work/games/exercise/etc it's not really too bad, but just when I'm alone at night with nothing else really do to it sets in and hurts. I should probably also say that I've never had to go through a breakup as my ex was my first girlfriend and this could easily be standard stuff and I'm just not really experienced. I apologize if this is kinda of rambling, but it's basically stream of consciousness off the top of my head so yeah."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This may seem relatively minor in comparison to a lot of other situations that get posted about or happen around here, but I'm just not really sure where to go right now. My girlfriend and I have been together since around my senior year of high school, and recently broke up around a week ago due to a number of differences between each other over the years as well as distance. I suppose my problem now is trying to deal with not having that other person there to lean on. I'm discovering that I don't know if I'm really missing her or the fact that I have that significant other there to always be able to talk to and just simply share what all I'm doing on a daily basis. Just having the person to send a text and update with what I'm doing in my day and be excited for me is what is difficult. I'm not really a too lonely person, and live on my own and have never had any problems, but that is sort of the gist of it. It's gotten to the point that even if I'm having a friendly conversation with someone and I don't hear back from them for a while/at all for the rest of the day that I start getting down on myself. If I keep myself occupied with work/games/exercise/etc it's not really too bad, but just when I'm alone at night with nothing else really do to it sets in and hurts. I should probably also say that I've never had to go through a breakup as my ex was my first girlfriend and this could easily be standard stuff and I'm just not really experienced. I apologize if this is kinda of rambling, but it's basically stream of consciousness off the top of my head so yeah."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This may seem relatively minor in comparison to a lot of other situations that get posted about or happen around here, but I'm just not really sure where to go right now. My girlfriend and I have been together since around my senior year of high school, and recently broke up around a week ago due to a number of differences between each other over the years as well as distance. I suppose my problem now is trying to deal with not having that other person there to lean on. I'm discovering that I don't know if I'm really missing her or the fact that I have that significant other there to always be able to talk to and just simply share what all I'm doing on a daily basis. Just having the person to send a text and update with what I'm doing in my day and be excited for me is what is difficult. I'm not really a too lonely person, and live on my own and have never had any problems, but that is sort of the gist of it. It's gotten to the point that even if I'm having a friendly conversation with someone and I don't hear back from them for a while/at all for the rest of the day that I start getting down on myself. If I keep myself occupied with work/games/exercise/etc it's not really too bad, but just when I'm alone at night with nothing else really do to it sets in and hurts. I should probably also say that I've never had to go through a breakup as my ex was my first girlfriend and this could easily be standard stuff and I'm just not really experienced. I apologize if this is kinda of rambling, but it's basically stream of consciousness off the top of my head so yeah."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Firstly sorry if this is a common question or anything, just couldn't find too much similar. So my girlfriend of about 4 months broke up with me around 3 months ago. Nothing too nasty but were currently not talking due to some stuff that happened between our mutual friends. \n\nWhile we were still seeing each other I was told multiple times by other friends about her best friend who was into me, and how her and my ex were leaving it to see who I asked out. \n\nAnyway after the break up the best friend started to talk to me way more than before. Normally it would be the odd question about random stuff, but she seems to want to talk a lot more. We've got loads to talk about and I think she's still into me and to be honest I wouldn't mind going on a date just to see how things go. \n\nI'm worried this is going to annoy my ex which I don't want to do but then she's the one that broke up with me so does that mean it's not as bad to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Firstly sorry if this is a common question or anything, just couldn't find too much similar. So my girlfriend of about 4 months broke up with me around 3 months ago. Nothing too nasty but were currently not talking due to some stuff that happened between our mutual friends. \n\nWhile we were still seeing each other I was told multiple times by other friends about her best friend who was into me, and how her and my ex were leaving it to see who I asked out. \n\nAnyway after the break up the best friend started to talk to me way more than before. Normally it would be the odd question about random stuff, but she seems to want to talk a lot more. We've got loads to talk about and I think she's still into me and to be honest I wouldn't mind going on a date just to see how things go. \n\nI'm worried this is going to annoy my ex which I don't want to do but then she's the one that broke up with me so does that mean it's not as bad to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Firstly sorry if this is a common question or anything, just couldn't find too much similar. So my girlfriend of about 4 months broke up with me around 3 months ago. Nothing too nasty but were currently not talking due to some stuff that happened between our mutual friends. \n\nWhile we were still seeing each other I was told multiple times by other friends about her best friend who was into me, and how her and my ex were leaving it to see who I asked out. \n\nAnyway after the break up the best friend started to talk to me way more than before. Normally it would be the odd question about random stuff, but she seems to want to talk a lot more. We've got loads to talk about and I think she's still into me and to be honest I wouldn't mind going on a date just to see how things go. \n\nI'm worried this is going to annoy my ex which I don't want to do but then she's the one that broke up with me so does that mean it's not as bad to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Firstly sorry if this is a common question or anything, just couldn't find too much similar. So my girlfriend of about 4 months broke up with me around 3 months ago. Nothing too nasty but were currently not talking due to some stuff that happened between our mutual friends. \n\nWhile we were still seeing each other I was told multiple times by other friends about her best friend who was into me, and how her and my ex were leaving it to see who I asked out. \n\nAnyway after the break up the best friend started to talk to me way more than before. Normally it would be the odd question about random stuff, but she seems to want to talk a lot more. We've got loads to talk about and I think she's still into me and to be honest I wouldn't mind going on a date just to see how things go. \n\nI'm worried this is going to annoy my ex which I don't want to do but then she's the one that broke up with me so does that mean it's not as bad to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Firstly sorry if this is a common question or anything, just couldn't find too much similar. So my girlfriend of about 4 months broke up with me around 3 months ago. Nothing too nasty but were currently not talking due to some stuff that happened between our mutual friends. \n\nWhile we were still seeing each other I was told multiple times by other friends about her best friend who was into me, and how her and my ex were leaving it to see who I asked out. \n\nAnyway after the break up the best friend started to talk to me way more than before. Normally it would be the odd question about random stuff, but she seems to want to talk a lot more. We've got loads to talk about and I think she's still into me and to be honest I wouldn't mind going on a date just to see how things go. \n\nI'm worried this is going to annoy my ex which I don't want to do but then she's the one that broke up with me so does that mean it's not as bad to do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: i've been working for the same family run business for over a year now. i had gotten my boyfriend a job there as handyman and everything was going great. until one of the machines malfunctioned and my boyfriend got blamed for it, even though he told our boss it was broken beyond his ability to repair it several times. my boss fired him and has been completely unprofessional during the whole processes and started treating me differently at work, even though the situation had nothing to do with me. i told management, after they fired him, i would continue my work like i always have and not let personal issues effect me (i kept my end of the bargin and have stayed professional during the whole ordeal)\nwell. i just checked my work email and received a message saying they filled the remaining of my March shifts with the new staff member they hired, and i'll \"probably\" have some shifts in April. Reddit, can they do this? i know they are trying to make me quit, can they just take away my scheduled shifts like that? my boyfriend and i now have NO income and i'm a full time student. i'm freaking out and don't know what to do. it doesn't help we live in a small, poor city with a high unemployment rate."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: i've been working for the same family run business for over a year now. i had gotten my boyfriend a job there as handyman and everything was going great. until one of the machines malfunctioned and my boyfriend got blamed for it, even though he told our boss it was broken beyond his ability to repair it several times. my boss fired him and has been completely unprofessional during the whole processes and started treating me differently at work, even though the situation had nothing to do with me. i told management, after they fired him, i would continue my work like i always have and not let personal issues effect me (i kept my end of the bargin and have stayed professional during the whole ordeal)\nwell. i just checked my work email and received a message saying they filled the remaining of my March shifts with the new staff member they hired, and i'll \"probably\" have some shifts in April. Reddit, can they do this? i know they are trying to make me quit, can they just take away my scheduled shifts like that? my boyfriend and i now have NO income and i'm a full time student. i'm freaking out and don't know what to do. it doesn't help we live in a small, poor city with a high unemployment rate."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: i've been working for the same family run business for over a year now. i had gotten my boyfriend a job there as handyman and everything was going great. until one of the machines malfunctioned and my boyfriend got blamed for it, even though he told our boss it was broken beyond his ability to repair it several times. my boss fired him and has been completely unprofessional during the whole processes and started treating me differently at work, even though the situation had nothing to do with me. i told management, after they fired him, i would continue my work like i always have and not let personal issues effect me (i kept my end of the bargin and have stayed professional during the whole ordeal)\nwell. i just checked my work email and received a message saying they filled the remaining of my March shifts with the new staff member they hired, and i'll \"probably\" have some shifts in April. Reddit, can they do this? i know they are trying to make me quit, can they just take away my scheduled shifts like that? my boyfriend and i now have NO income and i'm a full time student. i'm freaking out and don't know what to do. it doesn't help we live in a small, poor city with a high unemployment rate."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: i've been working for the same family run business for over a year now. i had gotten my boyfriend a job there as handyman and everything was going great. until one of the machines malfunctioned and my boyfriend got blamed for it, even though he told our boss it was broken beyond his ability to repair it several times. my boss fired him and has been completely unprofessional during the whole processes and started treating me differently at work, even though the situation had nothing to do with me. i told management, after they fired him, i would continue my work like i always have and not let personal issues effect me (i kept my end of the bargin and have stayed professional during the whole ordeal)\nwell. i just checked my work email and received a message saying they filled the remaining of my March shifts with the new staff member they hired, and i'll \"probably\" have some shifts in April. Reddit, can they do this? i know they are trying to make me quit, can they just take away my scheduled shifts like that? my boyfriend and i now have NO income and i'm a full time student. i'm freaking out and don't know what to do. it doesn't help we live in a small, poor city with a high unemployment rate."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: i've been working for the same family run business for over a year now. i had gotten my boyfriend a job there as handyman and everything was going great. until one of the machines malfunctioned and my boyfriend got blamed for it, even though he told our boss it was broken beyond his ability to repair it several times. my boss fired him and has been completely unprofessional during the whole processes and started treating me differently at work, even though the situation had nothing to do with me. i told management, after they fired him, i would continue my work like i always have and not let personal issues effect me (i kept my end of the bargin and have stayed professional during the whole ordeal)\nwell. i just checked my work email and received a message saying they filled the remaining of my March shifts with the new staff member they hired, and i'll \"probably\" have some shifts in April. Reddit, can they do this? i know they are trying to make me quit, can they just take away my scheduled shifts like that? my boyfriend and i now have NO income and i'm a full time student. i'm freaking out and don't know what to do. it doesn't help we live in a small, poor city with a high unemployment rate."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: i've been working for the same family run business for over a year now. i had gotten my boyfriend a job there as handyman and everything was going great. until one of the machines malfunctioned and my boyfriend got blamed for it, even though he told our boss it was broken beyond his ability to repair it several times. my boss fired him and has been completely unprofessional during the whole processes and started treating me differently at work, even though the situation had nothing to do with me. i told management, after they fired him, i would continue my work like i always have and not let personal issues effect me (i kept my end of the bargin and have stayed professional during the whole ordeal)\nwell. i just checked my work email and received a message saying they filled the remaining of my March shifts with the new staff member they hired, and i'll \"probably\" have some shifts in April. Reddit, can they do this? i know they are trying to make me quit, can they just take away my scheduled shifts like that? my boyfriend and i now have NO income and i'm a full time student. i'm freaking out and don't know what to do. it doesn't help we live in a small, poor city with a high unemployment rate."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit.\n\nI've had a crush on this girl who's a really close friend of mine recently, but she had a boyfriend (but their relationship was deteriorating) but I said nothing due to them still being in a relationship.\n\nShe broke it off with him today (she felt their feelings weren't mutual, and she didn't want to lead him on), and I want to tell her that I have these feelings (But of course, if she is not interested we will remain friends without a problem. I'm not \"investing\" everything, and I don't want to lose her as a friend either).\n\nHowever, I understand I shouldn't tell her right away. She's a really understanding opinion and in a conversation earlier today found me hilarious and extremely nice and we've become really close friends (she's the only person I confessed to being abused in the past. Well, except now it's only her and you guys).\n\nHow much time do you think I should roughly give her before I even consider telling her how I feel about her? I don't want to do anything too soon, because I understand she's in a hard place right now.\n\nHow long would you wait, Reddit? Or should I not go through this at all?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit.\n\nI've had a crush on this girl who's a really close friend of mine recently, but she had a boyfriend (but their relationship was deteriorating) but I said nothing due to them still being in a relationship.\n\nShe broke it off with him today (she felt their feelings weren't mutual, and she didn't want to lead him on), and I want to tell her that I have these feelings (But of course, if she is not interested we will remain friends without a problem. I'm not \"investing\" everything, and I don't want to lose her as a friend either).\n\nHowever, I understand I shouldn't tell her right away. She's a really understanding opinion and in a conversation earlier today found me hilarious and extremely nice and we've become really close friends (she's the only person I confessed to being abused in the past. Well, except now it's only her and you guys).\n\nHow much time do you think I should roughly give her before I even consider telling her how I feel about her? I don't want to do anything too soon, because I understand she's in a hard place right now.\n\nHow long would you wait, Reddit? Or should I not go through this at all?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit.\n\nI've had a crush on this girl who's a really close friend of mine recently, but she had a boyfriend (but their relationship was deteriorating) but I said nothing due to them still being in a relationship.\n\nShe broke it off with him today (she felt their feelings weren't mutual, and she didn't want to lead him on), and I want to tell her that I have these feelings (But of course, if she is not interested we will remain friends without a problem. I'm not \"investing\" everything, and I don't want to lose her as a friend either).\n\nHowever, I understand I shouldn't tell her right away. She's a really understanding opinion and in a conversation earlier today found me hilarious and extremely nice and we've become really close friends (she's the only person I confessed to being abused in the past. Well, except now it's only her and you guys).\n\nHow much time do you think I should roughly give her before I even consider telling her how I feel about her? I don't want to do anything too soon, because I understand she's in a hard place right now.\n\nHow long would you wait, Reddit? Or should I not go through this at all?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit.\n\nI've had a crush on this girl who's a really close friend of mine recently, but she had a boyfriend (but their relationship was deteriorating) but I said nothing due to them still being in a relationship.\n\nShe broke it off with him today (she felt their feelings weren't mutual, and she didn't want to lead him on), and I want to tell her that I have these feelings (But of course, if she is not interested we will remain friends without a problem. I'm not \"investing\" everything, and I don't want to lose her as a friend either).\n\nHowever, I understand I shouldn't tell her right away. She's a really understanding opinion and in a conversation earlier today found me hilarious and extremely nice and we've become really close friends (she's the only person I confessed to being abused in the past. Well, except now it's only her and you guys).\n\nHow much time do you think I should roughly give her before I even consider telling her how I feel about her? I don't want to do anything too soon, because I understand she's in a hard place right now.\n\nHow long would you wait, Reddit? Or should I not go through this at all?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hi Reddit.\n\nI've had a crush on this girl who's a really close friend of mine recently, but she had a boyfriend (but their relationship was deteriorating) but I said nothing due to them still being in a relationship.\n\nShe broke it off with him today (she felt their feelings weren't mutual, and she didn't want to lead him on), and I want to tell her that I have these feelings (But of course, if she is not interested we will remain friends without a problem. I'm not \"investing\" everything, and I don't want to lose her as a friend either).\n\nHowever, I understand I shouldn't tell her right away. She's a really understanding opinion and in a conversation earlier today found me hilarious and extremely nice and we've become really close friends (she's the only person I confessed to being abused in the past. Well, except now it's only her and you guys).\n\nHow much time do you think I should roughly give her before I even consider telling her how I feel about her? I don't want to do anything too soon, because I understand she's in a hard place right now.\n\nHow long would you wait, Reddit? Or should I not go through this at all?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now and recently started living together, less then two months. I had surgery on my leg last week and have been staying with my parents, due to the apartment having stairs leading up to it. \n\nNow the problem is I really enjoy being with my parents and younger siblings. So much so, that the thought of having to go back to my apartment is making me teary eyed. Even though I enjoyed the apartment life before the surgery. An to top it off my parents live less then 10 minutes away. After typing this all out I realized, I just have a case of homesickness."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now and recently started living together, less then two months. I had surgery on my leg last week and have been staying with my parents, due to the apartment having stairs leading up to it. \n\nNow the problem is I really enjoy being with my parents and younger siblings. So much so, that the thought of having to go back to my apartment is making me teary eyed. Even though I enjoyed the apartment life before the surgery. An to top it off my parents live less then 10 minutes away. After typing this all out I realized, I just have a case of homesickness."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now and recently started living together, less then two months. I had surgery on my leg last week and have been staying with my parents, due to the apartment having stairs leading up to it. \n\nNow the problem is I really enjoy being with my parents and younger siblings. So much so, that the thought of having to go back to my apartment is making me teary eyed. Even though I enjoyed the apartment life before the surgery. An to top it off my parents live less then 10 minutes away. After typing this all out I realized, I just have a case of homesickness."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now and recently started living together, less then two months. I had surgery on my leg last week and have been staying with my parents, due to the apartment having stairs leading up to it. \n\nNow the problem is I really enjoy being with my parents and younger siblings. So much so, that the thought of having to go back to my apartment is making me teary eyed. Even though I enjoyed the apartment life before the surgery. An to top it off my parents live less then 10 minutes away. After typing this all out I realized, I just have a case of homesickness."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'll guess I'll start off with this- I have trust/security issues.\n\nI have been dating my girlfriend (My 1st) for about 5 months now, and everything's been great, despite a few verbal fights here and there. \n\nSigh.\n\nI'll just come out with it. I sometimes overthink and worry that my girlfriend could cheat on me. I worry about her exes and if she still has feelings for them, I constantly check her twitter mentions or exes who like her photos on Instagram to see if they like her pictures. I know, it sounds horrible. I'm just that insecure about losing her.\n\nBut here's the kicker. She constantly tells me she loves me and she's written me numerous love letters about how I'm the only one she cares about, thinks about, 24/7. She posts pictures of us, writes statuses about me, everything. It's true puppy love. Except it's not on my end. I'm constantly worrying about other people trying to snatch her away from me or flirting with her.\n\nAnd she doesn't even have a history of cheating. She's had one hookup at a party before (as in, just making out, not sex).\n\nAnd. just the thought of her making out with someone else, it makes me feel sad inside. This sounds pathetic, I know. It was also before she met me. I just. I dont know why this bothers me so much. She's had two boyfriends before, only one was important to her, but she's told me that she loves me more than she loved anyone else, and that he's just a distant memory.\n\nShe's amazingly pretty, cute, sweet, lovable, and adoring, and she's mine. I just need to get that through my thick head."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'll guess I'll start off with this- I have trust/security issues.\n\nI have been dating my girlfriend (My 1st) for about 5 months now, and everything's been great, despite a few verbal fights here and there. \n\nSigh.\n\nI'll just come out with it. I sometimes overthink and worry that my girlfriend could cheat on me. I worry about her exes and if she still has feelings for them, I constantly check her twitter mentions or exes who like her photos on Instagram to see if they like her pictures. I know, it sounds horrible. I'm just that insecure about losing her.\n\nBut here's the kicker. She constantly tells me she loves me and she's written me numerous love letters about how I'm the only one she cares about, thinks about, 24/7. She posts pictures of us, writes statuses about me, everything. It's true puppy love. Except it's not on my end. I'm constantly worrying about other people trying to snatch her away from me or flirting with her.\n\nAnd she doesn't even have a history of cheating. She's had one hookup at a party before (as in, just making out, not sex).\n\nAnd. just the thought of her making out with someone else, it makes me feel sad inside. This sounds pathetic, I know. It was also before she met me. I just. I dont know why this bothers me so much. She's had two boyfriends before, only one was important to her, but she's told me that she loves me more than she loved anyone else, and that he's just a distant memory.\n\nShe's amazingly pretty, cute, sweet, lovable, and adoring, and she's mine. I just need to get that through my thick head."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'll guess I'll start off with this- I have trust/security issues.\n\nI have been dating my girlfriend (My 1st) for about 5 months now, and everything's been great, despite a few verbal fights here and there. \n\nSigh.\n\nI'll just come out with it. I sometimes overthink and worry that my girlfriend could cheat on me. I worry about her exes and if she still has feelings for them, I constantly check her twitter mentions or exes who like her photos on Instagram to see if they like her pictures. I know, it sounds horrible. I'm just that insecure about losing her.\n\nBut here's the kicker. She constantly tells me she loves me and she's written me numerous love letters about how I'm the only one she cares about, thinks about, 24/7. She posts pictures of us, writes statuses about me, everything. It's true puppy love. Except it's not on my end. I'm constantly worrying about other people trying to snatch her away from me or flirting with her.\n\nAnd she doesn't even have a history of cheating. She's had one hookup at a party before (as in, just making out, not sex).\n\nAnd. just the thought of her making out with someone else, it makes me feel sad inside. This sounds pathetic, I know. It was also before she met me. I just. I dont know why this bothers me so much. She's had two boyfriends before, only one was important to her, but she's told me that she loves me more than she loved anyone else, and that he's just a distant memory.\n\nShe's amazingly pretty, cute, sweet, lovable, and adoring, and she's mine. I just need to get that through my thick head."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'll guess I'll start off with this- I have trust/security issues.\n\nI have been dating my girlfriend (My 1st) for about 5 months now, and everything's been great, despite a few verbal fights here and there. \n\nSigh.\n\nI'll just come out with it. I sometimes overthink and worry that my girlfriend could cheat on me. I worry about her exes and if she still has feelings for them, I constantly check her twitter mentions or exes who like her photos on Instagram to see if they like her pictures. I know, it sounds horrible. I'm just that insecure about losing her.\n\nBut here's the kicker. She constantly tells me she loves me and she's written me numerous love letters about how I'm the only one she cares about, thinks about, 24/7. She posts pictures of us, writes statuses about me, everything. It's true puppy love. Except it's not on my end. I'm constantly worrying about other people trying to snatch her away from me or flirting with her.\n\nAnd she doesn't even have a history of cheating. She's had one hookup at a party before (as in, just making out, not sex).\n\nAnd. just the thought of her making out with someone else, it makes me feel sad inside. This sounds pathetic, I know. It was also before she met me. I just. I dont know why this bothers me so much. She's had two boyfriends before, only one was important to her, but she's told me that she loves me more than she loved anyone else, and that he's just a distant memory.\n\nShe's amazingly pretty, cute, sweet, lovable, and adoring, and she's mine. I just need to get that through my thick head."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'll guess I'll start off with this- I have trust/security issues.\n\nI have been dating my girlfriend (My 1st) for about 5 months now, and everything's been great, despite a few verbal fights here and there. \n\nSigh.\n\nI'll just come out with it. I sometimes overthink and worry that my girlfriend could cheat on me. I worry about her exes and if she still has feelings for them, I constantly check her twitter mentions or exes who like her photos on Instagram to see if they like her pictures. I know, it sounds horrible. I'm just that insecure about losing her.\n\nBut here's the kicker. She constantly tells me she loves me and she's written me numerous love letters about how I'm the only one she cares about, thinks about, 24/7. She posts pictures of us, writes statuses about me, everything. It's true puppy love. Except it's not on my end. I'm constantly worrying about other people trying to snatch her away from me or flirting with her.\n\nAnd she doesn't even have a history of cheating. She's had one hookup at a party before (as in, just making out, not sex).\n\nAnd. just the thought of her making out with someone else, it makes me feel sad inside. This sounds pathetic, I know. It was also before she met me. I just. I dont know why this bothers me so much. She's had two boyfriends before, only one was important to her, but she's told me that she loves me more than she loved anyone else, and that he's just a distant memory.\n\nShe's amazingly pretty, cute, sweet, lovable, and adoring, and she's mine. I just need to get that through my thick head."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, I'll guess I'll start off with this- I have trust/security issues.\n\nI have been dating my girlfriend (My 1st) for about 5 months now, and everything's been great, despite a few verbal fights here and there. \n\nSigh.\n\nI'll just come out with it. I sometimes overthink and worry that my girlfriend could cheat on me. I worry about her exes and if she still has feelings for them, I constantly check her twitter mentions or exes who like her photos on Instagram to see if they like her pictures. I know, it sounds horrible. I'm just that insecure about losing her.\n\nBut here's the kicker. She constantly tells me she loves me and she's written me numerous love letters about how I'm the only one she cares about, thinks about, 24/7. She posts pictures of us, writes statuses about me, everything. It's true puppy love. Except it's not on my end. I'm constantly worrying about other people trying to snatch her away from me or flirting with her.\n\nAnd she doesn't even have a history of cheating. She's had one hookup at a party before (as in, just making out, not sex).\n\nAnd. just the thought of her making out with someone else, it makes me feel sad inside. This sounds pathetic, I know. It was also before she met me. I just. I dont know why this bothers me so much. She's had two boyfriends before, only one was important to her, but she's told me that she loves me more than she loved anyone else, and that he's just a distant memory.\n\nShe's amazingly pretty, cute, sweet, lovable, and adoring, and she's mine. I just need to get that through my thick head."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I have been in an on-again-off-again relationship throughout high school and after discovering that we were both going to the same university we decided to try again more seriously. She has recently revealed to me that she was bulimic for most of the duration of our previous relationship and that she had stopped and was trying to get better.\n\nShe's physically fit and not fat and facially attractive (I understand that this has little relevance to her condition but I thought it best to give all the information).\n\nShe already visits a psychologist to help with social anxiety but has told me that I'm the only one who knows about her bulimia. \n\nIs there anything I can do to help her? She has difficulty talking about it (understandably) so I can't really ask her how she wants me to help her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I have been in an on-again-off-again relationship throughout high school and after discovering that we were both going to the same university we decided to try again more seriously. She has recently revealed to me that she was bulimic for most of the duration of our previous relationship and that she had stopped and was trying to get better.\n\nShe's physically fit and not fat and facially attractive (I understand that this has little relevance to her condition but I thought it best to give all the information).\n\nShe already visits a psychologist to help with social anxiety but has told me that I'm the only one who knows about her bulimia. \n\nIs there anything I can do to help her? She has difficulty talking about it (understandably) so I can't really ask her how she wants me to help her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I have been in an on-again-off-again relationship throughout high school and after discovering that we were both going to the same university we decided to try again more seriously. She has recently revealed to me that she was bulimic for most of the duration of our previous relationship and that she had stopped and was trying to get better.\n\nShe's physically fit and not fat and facially attractive (I understand that this has little relevance to her condition but I thought it best to give all the information).\n\nShe already visits a psychologist to help with social anxiety but has told me that I'm the only one who knows about her bulimia. \n\nIs there anything I can do to help her? She has difficulty talking about it (understandably) so I can't really ask her how she wants me to help her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I have been in an on-again-off-again relationship throughout high school and after discovering that we were both going to the same university we decided to try again more seriously. She has recently revealed to me that she was bulimic for most of the duration of our previous relationship and that she had stopped and was trying to get better.\n\nShe's physically fit and not fat and facially attractive (I understand that this has little relevance to her condition but I thought it best to give all the information).\n\nShe already visits a psychologist to help with social anxiety but has told me that I'm the only one who knows about her bulimia. \n\nIs there anything I can do to help her? She has difficulty talking about it (understandably) so I can't really ask her how she wants me to help her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I have been in an on-again-off-again relationship throughout high school and after discovering that we were both going to the same university we decided to try again more seriously. She has recently revealed to me that she was bulimic for most of the duration of our previous relationship and that she had stopped and was trying to get better.\n\nShe's physically fit and not fat and facially attractive (I understand that this has little relevance to her condition but I thought it best to give all the information).\n\nShe already visits a psychologist to help with social anxiety but has told me that I'm the only one who knows about her bulimia. \n\nIs there anything I can do to help her? She has difficulty talking about it (understandably) so I can't really ask her how she wants me to help her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: This girl and I have been in an on-again-off-again relationship throughout high school and after discovering that we were both going to the same university we decided to try again more seriously. She has recently revealed to me that she was bulimic for most of the duration of our previous relationship and that she had stopped and was trying to get better.\n\nShe's physically fit and not fat and facially attractive (I understand that this has little relevance to her condition but I thought it best to give all the information).\n\nShe already visits a psychologist to help with social anxiety but has told me that I'm the only one who knows about her bulimia. \n\nIs there anything I can do to help her? She has difficulty talking about it (understandably) so I can't really ask her how she wants me to help her."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl about a year ago at school. Gradually got to be great friends.\n\nI have this list of things I'd like to do as part of an important relationship that are really special to me because I've never gotten to do them with an SO. Fireworks on 4th of July, some Christmas events, hearing a song over the phone at a concert, etc. And I've known this girl for over a year, started liking her a few months after I met her. Taken her on a couple dates but she has stated clearly that we're just in a friend zone- honestly not sure if she knew I was interested, and it was kind of off hand. Anyway, I lay off and am happy to be friends, the crush dies and the friendship grows. We watched the 4th of July fireworks together, and she called me at a concert for a favorite band, etc. She's filling up my list all on her own, and I don't even realize it until after the fact. She has instigated half of these things. And these are the things I feel are crush worthy. And all my friends who know her have asked me over the last year if I'm interested, since they have all independently thought she was, each pretty certainly. And I would get that idea still if she hadn't remarked a couple months ago about going to a movie being weird if it were just her and me. What could she think, want, feel? I'm so confused.\n\nAnd on top of that, as I went to visit my parents for a month or two, I realized I didn't think of her as a friend and not as a crush either. She's just extremely dear to me, and I don't know how to explain it. I realized I missed her more than anyone else there. My roommate says she definitely misses me. I want to do something about it when I go back in a month. But I don't want to mess anything up, I don't know what she thinks, I don't know what to do, I don't know anything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl about a year ago at school. Gradually got to be great friends.\n\nI have this list of things I'd like to do as part of an important relationship that are really special to me because I've never gotten to do them with an SO. Fireworks on 4th of July, some Christmas events, hearing a song over the phone at a concert, etc. And I've known this girl for over a year, started liking her a few months after I met her. Taken her on a couple dates but she has stated clearly that we're just in a friend zone- honestly not sure if she knew I was interested, and it was kind of off hand. Anyway, I lay off and am happy to be friends, the crush dies and the friendship grows. We watched the 4th of July fireworks together, and she called me at a concert for a favorite band, etc. She's filling up my list all on her own, and I don't even realize it until after the fact. She has instigated half of these things. And these are the things I feel are crush worthy. And all my friends who know her have asked me over the last year if I'm interested, since they have all independently thought she was, each pretty certainly. And I would get that idea still if she hadn't remarked a couple months ago about going to a movie being weird if it were just her and me. What could she think, want, feel? I'm so confused.\n\nAnd on top of that, as I went to visit my parents for a month or two, I realized I didn't think of her as a friend and not as a crush either. She's just extremely dear to me, and I don't know how to explain it. I realized I missed her more than anyone else there. My roommate says she definitely misses me. I want to do something about it when I go back in a month. But I don't want to mess anything up, I don't know what she thinks, I don't know what to do, I don't know anything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl about a year ago at school. Gradually got to be great friends.\n\nI have this list of things I'd like to do as part of an important relationship that are really special to me because I've never gotten to do them with an SO. Fireworks on 4th of July, some Christmas events, hearing a song over the phone at a concert, etc. And I've known this girl for over a year, started liking her a few months after I met her. Taken her on a couple dates but she has stated clearly that we're just in a friend zone- honestly not sure if she knew I was interested, and it was kind of off hand. Anyway, I lay off and am happy to be friends, the crush dies and the friendship grows. We watched the 4th of July fireworks together, and she called me at a concert for a favorite band, etc. She's filling up my list all on her own, and I don't even realize it until after the fact. She has instigated half of these things. And these are the things I feel are crush worthy. And all my friends who know her have asked me over the last year if I'm interested, since they have all independently thought she was, each pretty certainly. And I would get that idea still if she hadn't remarked a couple months ago about going to a movie being weird if it were just her and me. What could she think, want, feel? I'm so confused.\n\nAnd on top of that, as I went to visit my parents for a month or two, I realized I didn't think of her as a friend and not as a crush either. She's just extremely dear to me, and I don't know how to explain it. I realized I missed her more than anyone else there. My roommate says she definitely misses me. I want to do something about it when I go back in a month. But I don't want to mess anything up, I don't know what she thinks, I don't know what to do, I don't know anything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl about a year ago at school. Gradually got to be great friends.\n\nI have this list of things I'd like to do as part of an important relationship that are really special to me because I've never gotten to do them with an SO. Fireworks on 4th of July, some Christmas events, hearing a song over the phone at a concert, etc. And I've known this girl for over a year, started liking her a few months after I met her. Taken her on a couple dates but she has stated clearly that we're just in a friend zone- honestly not sure if she knew I was interested, and it was kind of off hand. Anyway, I lay off and am happy to be friends, the crush dies and the friendship grows. We watched the 4th of July fireworks together, and she called me at a concert for a favorite band, etc. She's filling up my list all on her own, and I don't even realize it until after the fact. She has instigated half of these things. And these are the things I feel are crush worthy. And all my friends who know her have asked me over the last year if I'm interested, since they have all independently thought she was, each pretty certainly. And I would get that idea still if she hadn't remarked a couple months ago about going to a movie being weird if it were just her and me. What could she think, want, feel? I'm so confused.\n\nAnd on top of that, as I went to visit my parents for a month or two, I realized I didn't think of her as a friend and not as a crush either. She's just extremely dear to me, and I don't know how to explain it. I realized I missed her more than anyone else there. My roommate says she definitely misses me. I want to do something about it when I go back in a month. But I don't want to mess anything up, I don't know what she thinks, I don't know what to do, I don't know anything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl about a year ago at school. Gradually got to be great friends.\n\nI have this list of things I'd like to do as part of an important relationship that are really special to me because I've never gotten to do them with an SO. Fireworks on 4th of July, some Christmas events, hearing a song over the phone at a concert, etc. And I've known this girl for over a year, started liking her a few months after I met her. Taken her on a couple dates but she has stated clearly that we're just in a friend zone- honestly not sure if she knew I was interested, and it was kind of off hand. Anyway, I lay off and am happy to be friends, the crush dies and the friendship grows. We watched the 4th of July fireworks together, and she called me at a concert for a favorite band, etc. She's filling up my list all on her own, and I don't even realize it until after the fact. She has instigated half of these things. And these are the things I feel are crush worthy. And all my friends who know her have asked me over the last year if I'm interested, since they have all independently thought she was, each pretty certainly. And I would get that idea still if she hadn't remarked a couple months ago about going to a movie being weird if it were just her and me. What could she think, want, feel? I'm so confused.\n\nAnd on top of that, as I went to visit my parents for a month or two, I realized I didn't think of her as a friend and not as a crush either. She's just extremely dear to me, and I don't know how to explain it. I realized I missed her more than anyone else there. My roommate says she definitely misses me. I want to do something about it when I go back in a month. But I don't want to mess anything up, I don't know what she thinks, I don't know what to do, I don't know anything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met this girl about a year ago at school. Gradually got to be great friends.\n\nI have this list of things I'd like to do as part of an important relationship that are really special to me because I've never gotten to do them with an SO. Fireworks on 4th of July, some Christmas events, hearing a song over the phone at a concert, etc. And I've known this girl for over a year, started liking her a few months after I met her. Taken her on a couple dates but she has stated clearly that we're just in a friend zone- honestly not sure if she knew I was interested, and it was kind of off hand. Anyway, I lay off and am happy to be friends, the crush dies and the friendship grows. We watched the 4th of July fireworks together, and she called me at a concert for a favorite band, etc. She's filling up my list all on her own, and I don't even realize it until after the fact. She has instigated half of these things. And these are the things I feel are crush worthy. And all my friends who know her have asked me over the last year if I'm interested, since they have all independently thought she was, each pretty certainly. And I would get that idea still if she hadn't remarked a couple months ago about going to a movie being weird if it were just her and me. What could she think, want, feel? I'm so confused.\n\nAnd on top of that, as I went to visit my parents for a month or two, I realized I didn't think of her as a friend and not as a crush either. She's just extremely dear to me, and I don't know how to explain it. I realized I missed her more than anyone else there. My roommate says she definitely misses me. I want to do something about it when I go back in a month. But I don't want to mess anything up, I don't know what she thinks, I don't know what to do, I don't know anything."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well. my girlfriend and I are 19. When we first started dating over a year ago she would always talk about her ex. She never said nice things but it would turn into hours and hours of her talking about it. This bothered me because I didn't want to spend all of our conversations about her ex over and over again. I mentioned that it bothered me before and she stopped. \n\nWell. there was a rough time when we weren't together and she got a different boyfriend then came back to me. She would talk badly about him and stuff but it stopped. For the past week she told me that her parents liked this guy and he kept in contact with them and her 16 year old sister and that it bothered her. I was okay with her telling me about it but every single day she talks about him over and over again. Last night I mentioned it was bothering me again and she got mad or whatever and then kept talking about him. \n\nToday I took her to the zoo and out to eat so she could have a good day cause she's been wanting to go. Well on the way up there she kept talking about him again and again. Then when I took her home, she brought up a story about how this one time she stole a guy from this girl and ended up kissing him and it seems like she's trying to bother me. I told her how I felt and she keeps talking about it. She stopped midway through her story and asked if I was bothered about it and I said yes but she said okay and kept the story going. Then before she got out of the car her ex messaged her on facebook saying he'd never give up on her. So I'm pretty pissed off because she doesn't really respect my feelings.\n\nAm I the only one this would bother?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well. my girlfriend and I are 19. When we first started dating over a year ago she would always talk about her ex. She never said nice things but it would turn into hours and hours of her talking about it. This bothered me because I didn't want to spend all of our conversations about her ex over and over again. I mentioned that it bothered me before and she stopped. \n\nWell. there was a rough time when we weren't together and she got a different boyfriend then came back to me. She would talk badly about him and stuff but it stopped. For the past week she told me that her parents liked this guy and he kept in contact with them and her 16 year old sister and that it bothered her. I was okay with her telling me about it but every single day she talks about him over and over again. Last night I mentioned it was bothering me again and she got mad or whatever and then kept talking about him. \n\nToday I took her to the zoo and out to eat so she could have a good day cause she's been wanting to go. Well on the way up there she kept talking about him again and again. Then when I took her home, she brought up a story about how this one time she stole a guy from this girl and ended up kissing him and it seems like she's trying to bother me. I told her how I felt and she keeps talking about it. She stopped midway through her story and asked if I was bothered about it and I said yes but she said okay and kept the story going. Then before she got out of the car her ex messaged her on facebook saying he'd never give up on her. So I'm pretty pissed off because she doesn't really respect my feelings.\n\nAm I the only one this would bother?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well. my girlfriend and I are 19. When we first started dating over a year ago she would always talk about her ex. She never said nice things but it would turn into hours and hours of her talking about it. This bothered me because I didn't want to spend all of our conversations about her ex over and over again. I mentioned that it bothered me before and she stopped. \n\nWell. there was a rough time when we weren't together and she got a different boyfriend then came back to me. She would talk badly about him and stuff but it stopped. For the past week she told me that her parents liked this guy and he kept in contact with them and her 16 year old sister and that it bothered her. I was okay with her telling me about it but every single day she talks about him over and over again. Last night I mentioned it was bothering me again and she got mad or whatever and then kept talking about him. \n\nToday I took her to the zoo and out to eat so she could have a good day cause she's been wanting to go. Well on the way up there she kept talking about him again and again. Then when I took her home, she brought up a story about how this one time she stole a guy from this girl and ended up kissing him and it seems like she's trying to bother me. I told her how I felt and she keeps talking about it. She stopped midway through her story and asked if I was bothered about it and I said yes but she said okay and kept the story going. Then before she got out of the car her ex messaged her on facebook saying he'd never give up on her. So I'm pretty pissed off because she doesn't really respect my feelings.\n\nAm I the only one this would bother?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well. my girlfriend and I are 19. When we first started dating over a year ago she would always talk about her ex. She never said nice things but it would turn into hours and hours of her talking about it. This bothered me because I didn't want to spend all of our conversations about her ex over and over again. I mentioned that it bothered me before and she stopped. \n\nWell. there was a rough time when we weren't together and she got a different boyfriend then came back to me. She would talk badly about him and stuff but it stopped. For the past week she told me that her parents liked this guy and he kept in contact with them and her 16 year old sister and that it bothered her. I was okay with her telling me about it but every single day she talks about him over and over again. Last night I mentioned it was bothering me again and she got mad or whatever and then kept talking about him. \n\nToday I took her to the zoo and out to eat so she could have a good day cause she's been wanting to go. Well on the way up there she kept talking about him again and again. Then when I took her home, she brought up a story about how this one time she stole a guy from this girl and ended up kissing him and it seems like she's trying to bother me. I told her how I felt and she keeps talking about it. She stopped midway through her story and asked if I was bothered about it and I said yes but she said okay and kept the story going. Then before she got out of the car her ex messaged her on facebook saying he'd never give up on her. So I'm pretty pissed off because she doesn't really respect my feelings.\n\nAm I the only one this would bother?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well. my girlfriend and I are 19. When we first started dating over a year ago she would always talk about her ex. She never said nice things but it would turn into hours and hours of her talking about it. This bothered me because I didn't want to spend all of our conversations about her ex over and over again. I mentioned that it bothered me before and she stopped. \n\nWell. there was a rough time when we weren't together and she got a different boyfriend then came back to me. She would talk badly about him and stuff but it stopped. For the past week she told me that her parents liked this guy and he kept in contact with them and her 16 year old sister and that it bothered her. I was okay with her telling me about it but every single day she talks about him over and over again. Last night I mentioned it was bothering me again and she got mad or whatever and then kept talking about him. \n\nToday I took her to the zoo and out to eat so she could have a good day cause she's been wanting to go. Well on the way up there she kept talking about him again and again. Then when I took her home, she brought up a story about how this one time she stole a guy from this girl and ended up kissing him and it seems like she's trying to bother me. I told her how I felt and she keeps talking about it. She stopped midway through her story and asked if I was bothered about it and I said yes but she said okay and kept the story going. Then before she got out of the car her ex messaged her on facebook saying he'd never give up on her. So I'm pretty pissed off because she doesn't really respect my feelings.\n\nAm I the only one this would bother?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Well. my girlfriend and I are 19. When we first started dating over a year ago she would always talk about her ex. She never said nice things but it would turn into hours and hours of her talking about it. This bothered me because I didn't want to spend all of our conversations about her ex over and over again. I mentioned that it bothered me before and she stopped. \n\nWell. there was a rough time when we weren't together and she got a different boyfriend then came back to me. She would talk badly about him and stuff but it stopped. For the past week she told me that her parents liked this guy and he kept in contact with them and her 16 year old sister and that it bothered her. I was okay with her telling me about it but every single day she talks about him over and over again. Last night I mentioned it was bothering me again and she got mad or whatever and then kept talking about him. \n\nToday I took her to the zoo and out to eat so she could have a good day cause she's been wanting to go. Well on the way up there she kept talking about him again and again. Then when I took her home, she brought up a story about how this one time she stole a guy from this girl and ended up kissing him and it seems like she's trying to bother me. I told her how I felt and she keeps talking about it. She stopped midway through her story and asked if I was bothered about it and I said yes but she said okay and kept the story going. Then before she got out of the car her ex messaged her on facebook saying he'd never give up on her. So I'm pretty pissed off because she doesn't really respect my feelings.\n\nAm I the only one this would bother?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm a manager at a fairly successful movie theater. For the most part I work in the confessions areas. We hire mainly teenagers.yay. Must of the employees are fairly decent and most will do their jobs. But there is this group of about 3-4 girls that never do their frickin jobs. They just stand around talking and never do anything. I'm a fairly easy going guy and my whole policy is if there are no customers to help and the stand is clean you can talk, but only if your shit is done. \n\nWhenever I see them they are all huddled together like a pack of feeble minded hippos chatting it up. They even do this when there are customers waiting to be helped and I have to tell them to do their fucking job. If I see them standing around and their crap isn't done I'll ask them what they are doing and they will say \"we already did everything\" bullshit I can fucking see you twats. \n\nSo my revenge is I not only painstakingly go through everything they need to do but I make a list of extra hard things to do like mopping the tile walls, detailing the inside of ask our cabinets, get on their hands and knees and scrub out baseboards, the gross stuff that no one usually does, and etc. Basically I make them actually work. Then I check their work and if it's not done properly they get to do it again plus something new. So basically they don't do their extremely easy job without me hassling them first I make it hard. And they can't complain because it's their job and I'm very nice about it. I do this for everyone but they are usually the main culprits."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm a manager at a fairly successful movie theater. For the most part I work in the confessions areas. We hire mainly teenagers.yay. Must of the employees are fairly decent and most will do their jobs. But there is this group of about 3-4 girls that never do their frickin jobs. They just stand around talking and never do anything. I'm a fairly easy going guy and my whole policy is if there are no customers to help and the stand is clean you can talk, but only if your shit is done. \n\nWhenever I see them they are all huddled together like a pack of feeble minded hippos chatting it up. They even do this when there are customers waiting to be helped and I have to tell them to do their fucking job. If I see them standing around and their crap isn't done I'll ask them what they are doing and they will say \"we already did everything\" bullshit I can fucking see you twats. \n\nSo my revenge is I not only painstakingly go through everything they need to do but I make a list of extra hard things to do like mopping the tile walls, detailing the inside of ask our cabinets, get on their hands and knees and scrub out baseboards, the gross stuff that no one usually does, and etc. Basically I make them actually work. Then I check their work and if it's not done properly they get to do it again plus something new. So basically they don't do their extremely easy job without me hassling them first I make it hard. And they can't complain because it's their job and I'm very nice about it. I do this for everyone but they are usually the main culprits."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm a manager at a fairly successful movie theater. For the most part I work in the confessions areas. We hire mainly teenagers.yay. Must of the employees are fairly decent and most will do their jobs. But there is this group of about 3-4 girls that never do their frickin jobs. They just stand around talking and never do anything. I'm a fairly easy going guy and my whole policy is if there are no customers to help and the stand is clean you can talk, but only if your shit is done. \n\nWhenever I see them they are all huddled together like a pack of feeble minded hippos chatting it up. They even do this when there are customers waiting to be helped and I have to tell them to do their fucking job. If I see them standing around and their crap isn't done I'll ask them what they are doing and they will say \"we already did everything\" bullshit I can fucking see you twats. \n\nSo my revenge is I not only painstakingly go through everything they need to do but I make a list of extra hard things to do like mopping the tile walls, detailing the inside of ask our cabinets, get on their hands and knees and scrub out baseboards, the gross stuff that no one usually does, and etc. Basically I make them actually work. Then I check their work and if it's not done properly they get to do it again plus something new. So basically they don't do their extremely easy job without me hassling them first I make it hard. And they can't complain because it's their job and I'm very nice about it. I do this for everyone but they are usually the main culprits."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm a manager at a fairly successful movie theater. For the most part I work in the confessions areas. We hire mainly teenagers.yay. Must of the employees are fairly decent and most will do their jobs. But there is this group of about 3-4 girls that never do their frickin jobs. They just stand around talking and never do anything. I'm a fairly easy going guy and my whole policy is if there are no customers to help and the stand is clean you can talk, but only if your shit is done. \n\nWhenever I see them they are all huddled together like a pack of feeble minded hippos chatting it up. They even do this when there are customers waiting to be helped and I have to tell them to do their fucking job. If I see them standing around and their crap isn't done I'll ask them what they are doing and they will say \"we already did everything\" bullshit I can fucking see you twats. \n\nSo my revenge is I not only painstakingly go through everything they need to do but I make a list of extra hard things to do like mopping the tile walls, detailing the inside of ask our cabinets, get on their hands and knees and scrub out baseboards, the gross stuff that no one usually does, and etc. Basically I make them actually work. Then I check their work and if it's not done properly they get to do it again plus something new. So basically they don't do their extremely easy job without me hassling them first I make it hard. And they can't complain because it's their job and I'm very nice about it. I do this for everyone but they are usually the main culprits."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm a manager at a fairly successful movie theater. For the most part I work in the confessions areas. We hire mainly teenagers.yay. Must of the employees are fairly decent and most will do their jobs. But there is this group of about 3-4 girls that never do their frickin jobs. They just stand around talking and never do anything. I'm a fairly easy going guy and my whole policy is if there are no customers to help and the stand is clean you can talk, but only if your shit is done. \n\nWhenever I see them they are all huddled together like a pack of feeble minded hippos chatting it up. They even do this when there are customers waiting to be helped and I have to tell them to do their fucking job. If I see them standing around and their crap isn't done I'll ask them what they are doing and they will say \"we already did everything\" bullshit I can fucking see you twats. \n\nSo my revenge is I not only painstakingly go through everything they need to do but I make a list of extra hard things to do like mopping the tile walls, detailing the inside of ask our cabinets, get on their hands and knees and scrub out baseboards, the gross stuff that no one usually does, and etc. Basically I make them actually work. Then I check their work and if it's not done properly they get to do it again plus something new. So basically they don't do their extremely easy job without me hassling them first I make it hard. And they can't complain because it's their job and I'm very nice about it. I do this for everyone but they are usually the main culprits."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'm a manager at a fairly successful movie theater. For the most part I work in the confessions areas. We hire mainly teenagers.yay. Must of the employees are fairly decent and most will do their jobs. But there is this group of about 3-4 girls that never do their frickin jobs. They just stand around talking and never do anything. I'm a fairly easy going guy and my whole policy is if there are no customers to help and the stand is clean you can talk, but only if your shit is done. \n\nWhenever I see them they are all huddled together like a pack of feeble minded hippos chatting it up. They even do this when there are customers waiting to be helped and I have to tell them to do their fucking job. If I see them standing around and their crap isn't done I'll ask them what they are doing and they will say \"we already did everything\" bullshit I can fucking see you twats. \n\nSo my revenge is I not only painstakingly go through everything they need to do but I make a list of extra hard things to do like mopping the tile walls, detailing the inside of ask our cabinets, get on their hands and knees and scrub out baseboards, the gross stuff that no one usually does, and etc. Basically I make them actually work. Then I check their work and if it's not done properly they get to do it again plus something new. So basically they don't do their extremely easy job without me hassling them first I make it hard. And they can't complain because it's their job and I'm very nice about it. I do this for everyone but they are usually the main culprits."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was super excited for Valentine's day, because she's been acting so distant lately and she told me she was excited to spend time with me. My therapist and some close friends told me I needed to talk to her about the problems in our relationship.\n\n We saw Deadpool, and it was fun, but then I had to talk to her.\n\nIt's not really ever been any secret that I care way more about her than she cares about me. When we got in the car I wanted to go back to her house (which I had thought was always the plan), but she told me she didn't want to, and neither of us knew what to do so there was an awkward silence and we started talking about our relationship (like I was advised to do).\n\nWe had a long conversation (about 2 hours) in which she finally came out with the fact that I care a lot more about her than she cares about me. She said I'm important and that she cares about me but that she just also has tons of other people in her life she cares about.\n\nI really don't have anyone. I have two emotionally unavailable best friends, parents who don't understand me at all and have been abusive to me throughout my life. She's really the only person who's come into my life that I trust and care about, and that sounds dumb and cliche\n\nShe changed plans and said she wants to head back to her room by herself for a while, then meet up for dinner later.\n\nI'm really upset and can't go back to my room because my roommate (mildly and asshole) is there.\n\nI'm sitting in the hallway of my dorm about to cry and I don't know what to do. I care about her a lot, and she's had a ridiculously big impact on my life. I don't want to break up with her and realistically I won't.\n\nIs there any way I can feel better about this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was super excited for Valentine's day, because she's been acting so distant lately and she told me she was excited to spend time with me. My therapist and some close friends told me I needed to talk to her about the problems in our relationship.\n\n We saw Deadpool, and it was fun, but then I had to talk to her.\n\nIt's not really ever been any secret that I care way more about her than she cares about me. When we got in the car I wanted to go back to her house (which I had thought was always the plan), but she told me she didn't want to, and neither of us knew what to do so there was an awkward silence and we started talking about our relationship (like I was advised to do).\n\nWe had a long conversation (about 2 hours) in which she finally came out with the fact that I care a lot more about her than she cares about me. She said I'm important and that she cares about me but that she just also has tons of other people in her life she cares about.\n\nI really don't have anyone. I have two emotionally unavailable best friends, parents who don't understand me at all and have been abusive to me throughout my life. She's really the only person who's come into my life that I trust and care about, and that sounds dumb and cliche\n\nShe changed plans and said she wants to head back to her room by herself for a while, then meet up for dinner later.\n\nI'm really upset and can't go back to my room because my roommate (mildly and asshole) is there.\n\nI'm sitting in the hallway of my dorm about to cry and I don't know what to do. I care about her a lot, and she's had a ridiculously big impact on my life. I don't want to break up with her and realistically I won't.\n\nIs there any way I can feel better about this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was super excited for Valentine's day, because she's been acting so distant lately and she told me she was excited to spend time with me. My therapist and some close friends told me I needed to talk to her about the problems in our relationship.\n\n We saw Deadpool, and it was fun, but then I had to talk to her.\n\nIt's not really ever been any secret that I care way more about her than she cares about me. When we got in the car I wanted to go back to her house (which I had thought was always the plan), but she told me she didn't want to, and neither of us knew what to do so there was an awkward silence and we started talking about our relationship (like I was advised to do).\n\nWe had a long conversation (about 2 hours) in which she finally came out with the fact that I care a lot more about her than she cares about me. She said I'm important and that she cares about me but that she just also has tons of other people in her life she cares about.\n\nI really don't have anyone. I have two emotionally unavailable best friends, parents who don't understand me at all and have been abusive to me throughout my life. She's really the only person who's come into my life that I trust and care about, and that sounds dumb and cliche\n\nShe changed plans and said she wants to head back to her room by herself for a while, then meet up for dinner later.\n\nI'm really upset and can't go back to my room because my roommate (mildly and asshole) is there.\n\nI'm sitting in the hallway of my dorm about to cry and I don't know what to do. I care about her a lot, and she's had a ridiculously big impact on my life. I don't want to break up with her and realistically I won't.\n\nIs there any way I can feel better about this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was super excited for Valentine's day, because she's been acting so distant lately and she told me she was excited to spend time with me. My therapist and some close friends told me I needed to talk to her about the problems in our relationship.\n\n We saw Deadpool, and it was fun, but then I had to talk to her.\n\nIt's not really ever been any secret that I care way more about her than she cares about me. When we got in the car I wanted to go back to her house (which I had thought was always the plan), but she told me she didn't want to, and neither of us knew what to do so there was an awkward silence and we started talking about our relationship (like I was advised to do).\n\nWe had a long conversation (about 2 hours) in which she finally came out with the fact that I care a lot more about her than she cares about me. She said I'm important and that she cares about me but that she just also has tons of other people in her life she cares about.\n\nI really don't have anyone. I have two emotionally unavailable best friends, parents who don't understand me at all and have been abusive to me throughout my life. She's really the only person who's come into my life that I trust and care about, and that sounds dumb and cliche\n\nShe changed plans and said she wants to head back to her room by herself for a while, then meet up for dinner later.\n\nI'm really upset and can't go back to my room because my roommate (mildly and asshole) is there.\n\nI'm sitting in the hallway of my dorm about to cry and I don't know what to do. I care about her a lot, and she's had a ridiculously big impact on my life. I don't want to break up with her and realistically I won't.\n\nIs there any way I can feel better about this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was super excited for Valentine's day, because she's been acting so distant lately and she told me she was excited to spend time with me. My therapist and some close friends told me I needed to talk to her about the problems in our relationship.\n\n We saw Deadpool, and it was fun, but then I had to talk to her.\n\nIt's not really ever been any secret that I care way more about her than she cares about me. When we got in the car I wanted to go back to her house (which I had thought was always the plan), but she told me she didn't want to, and neither of us knew what to do so there was an awkward silence and we started talking about our relationship (like I was advised to do).\n\nWe had a long conversation (about 2 hours) in which she finally came out with the fact that I care a lot more about her than she cares about me. She said I'm important and that she cares about me but that she just also has tons of other people in her life she cares about.\n\nI really don't have anyone. I have two emotionally unavailable best friends, parents who don't understand me at all and have been abusive to me throughout my life. She's really the only person who's come into my life that I trust and care about, and that sounds dumb and cliche\n\nShe changed plans and said she wants to head back to her room by herself for a while, then meet up for dinner later.\n\nI'm really upset and can't go back to my room because my roommate (mildly and asshole) is there.\n\nI'm sitting in the hallway of my dorm about to cry and I don't know what to do. I care about her a lot, and she's had a ridiculously big impact on my life. I don't want to break up with her and realistically I won't.\n\nIs there any way I can feel better about this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was super excited for Valentine's day, because she's been acting so distant lately and she told me she was excited to spend time with me. My therapist and some close friends told me I needed to talk to her about the problems in our relationship.\n\n We saw Deadpool, and it was fun, but then I had to talk to her.\n\nIt's not really ever been any secret that I care way more about her than she cares about me. When we got in the car I wanted to go back to her house (which I had thought was always the plan), but she told me she didn't want to, and neither of us knew what to do so there was an awkward silence and we started talking about our relationship (like I was advised to do).\n\nWe had a long conversation (about 2 hours) in which she finally came out with the fact that I care a lot more about her than she cares about me. She said I'm important and that she cares about me but that she just also has tons of other people in her life she cares about.\n\nI really don't have anyone. I have two emotionally unavailable best friends, parents who don't understand me at all and have been abusive to me throughout my life. She's really the only person who's come into my life that I trust and care about, and that sounds dumb and cliche\n\nShe changed plans and said she wants to head back to her room by herself for a while, then meet up for dinner later.\n\nI'm really upset and can't go back to my room because my roommate (mildly and asshole) is there.\n\nI'm sitting in the hallway of my dorm about to cry and I don't know what to do. I care about her a lot, and she's had a ridiculously big impact on my life. I don't want to break up with her and realistically I won't.\n\nIs there any way I can feel better about this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a super non-confrontational person, and over the years I have realized that I have many symptoms of anxiety and depression, but have never been to a therapist or psychiatrist to actually be diagnosed. My upbringing was super chaotic, but I can't really talk about it to anyone, even my fiance, because it makes people uncomfortable, feel bad, or feel obligated to help me when they don't want to and doesn't seem to resolve anything. But I also don't feel like it's healthy to keep all of this stuff bottled up forever and to keep pretending that everyone else's problems take priority over my own. I don't have health insurance, don't make that much money, and I don't have family who seem to know how to handle/care about any kind of mental illness (many of them suffer from their own and I feel like I am being triggering and causing their stress to be worse). I don't want to inconvenience my loved ones and be a burden, but I also really REALLY resent being made to feel like my problems are just things that I made up to annoy people. Not to mention my health is declining as I constantly pretend I'm fine and make myself emotionally available for my family when I know I can't really handle it. Any time I show any sign of weakness I am just told things like \"You're so strong! You've handled worse in the past, you can handle this!\". It's really upsetting and frustrating because I want to help people, but I feel like my involvement just makes things worse because I always wind up being negative and depressed or super anxious and high strung. Any tips/advice on how to broach this topic with my significant other and/or family members? :S"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am a super non-confrontational person, and over the years I have realized that I have many symptoms of anxiety and depression, but have never been to a therapist or psychiatrist to actually be diagnosed. My upbringing was super chaotic, but I can't really talk about it to anyone, even my fiance, because it makes people uncomfortable, feel bad, or feel obligated to help me when they don't want to and doesn't seem to resolve anything. But I also don't feel like it's healthy to keep all of this stuff bottled up forever and to keep pretending that everyone else's problems take priority over my own. I don't have health insurance, don't make that much money, and I don't have family who seem to know how to handle/care about any kind of mental illness (many of them suffer from their own and I feel like I am being triggering and causing their stress to be worse). I don't want to inconvenience my loved ones and be a burden, but I also really REALLY resent being made to feel like my problems are just things that I made up to annoy people. Not to mention my health is declining as I constantly pretend I'm fine and make myself emotionally available for my family when I know I can't really handle it. Any time I show any sign of weakness I am just told things like \"You're so strong! You've handled worse in the past, you can handle this!\". It's really upsetting and frustrating because I want to help people, but I feel like my involvement just makes things worse because I always wind up being negative and depressed or super anxious and high strung. Any tips/advice on how to broach this topic with my significant other and/or family members? :S"
} |
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