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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So. my ex girlfriend started going to the same college as me we dated years back and hung out last week. Last week we made out and we're both really into it and she really wanted to see me again. she asked to see me super late one night and I said yes she ended up having to go home not sure what happen she was super bummed though. She asked me if I wanted to hangout on Friday then Friday came and she seemed bummed again and said she totally forgot and was super sorry and asked me to hang on Saturday. I said yes then Saturday came I texted her that I could probably hang earlier in the night rather than later and she never ever responded to me. it's Tuesday now and that happened Saturday. No word from her and she does have depression and is very emotionally something could be going on or she could have moved on, but it's unlike her to completely ignore me we are good friends. I never texted her after my text on Saturday what should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So. my ex girlfriend started going to the same college as me we dated years back and hung out last week. Last week we made out and we're both really into it and she really wanted to see me again. she asked to see me super late one night and I said yes she ended up having to go home not sure what happen she was super bummed though. She asked me if I wanted to hangout on Friday then Friday came and she seemed bummed again and said she totally forgot and was super sorry and asked me to hang on Saturday. I said yes then Saturday came I texted her that I could probably hang earlier in the night rather than later and she never ever responded to me. it's Tuesday now and that happened Saturday. No word from her and she does have depression and is very emotionally something could be going on or she could have moved on, but it's unlike her to completely ignore me we are good friends. I never texted her after my text on Saturday what should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an old apartment building on the first floor and just got a treadmill to keep running through the winter. The floors and walls are such that when I am running on it the house sort of shakes a little every time my foot comes down. The best time for me to work out is early in the morning (around 6AM). I assume that my upstairs neighbor can hear and possibly feel me running. One thing you should know about my neighbor is that he is SUPER sensitive about some things, and not others. An example would be that he threw a fit over having a small Vespa scooter in the backyard, but has never complained when we have backyard parties with an open fire into the wee hours of the morning.\nShould I preempt a problem by emailing him and asking if it is a problem, or should I wait it out to see if I drive him crazy enough to complain? I am worried that if I ask he will just say its a problem even if he can't hear it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an old apartment building on the first floor and just got a treadmill to keep running through the winter. The floors and walls are such that when I am running on it the house sort of shakes a little every time my foot comes down. The best time for me to work out is early in the morning (around 6AM). I assume that my upstairs neighbor can hear and possibly feel me running. One thing you should know about my neighbor is that he is SUPER sensitive about some things, and not others. An example would be that he threw a fit over having a small Vespa scooter in the backyard, but has never complained when we have backyard parties with an open fire into the wee hours of the morning.\nShould I preempt a problem by emailing him and asking if it is a problem, or should I wait it out to see if I drive him crazy enough to complain? I am worried that if I ask he will just say its a problem even if he can't hear it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an old apartment building on the first floor and just got a treadmill to keep running through the winter. The floors and walls are such that when I am running on it the house sort of shakes a little every time my foot comes down. The best time for me to work out is early in the morning (around 6AM). I assume that my upstairs neighbor can hear and possibly feel me running. One thing you should know about my neighbor is that he is SUPER sensitive about some things, and not others. An example would be that he threw a fit over having a small Vespa scooter in the backyard, but has never complained when we have backyard parties with an open fire into the wee hours of the morning.\nShould I preempt a problem by emailing him and asking if it is a problem, or should I wait it out to see if I drive him crazy enough to complain? I am worried that if I ask he will just say its a problem even if he can't hear it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an old apartment building on the first floor and just got a treadmill to keep running through the winter. The floors and walls are such that when I am running on it the house sort of shakes a little every time my foot comes down. The best time for me to work out is early in the morning (around 6AM). I assume that my upstairs neighbor can hear and possibly feel me running. One thing you should know about my neighbor is that he is SUPER sensitive about some things, and not others. An example would be that he threw a fit over having a small Vespa scooter in the backyard, but has never complained when we have backyard parties with an open fire into the wee hours of the morning.\nShould I preempt a problem by emailing him and asking if it is a problem, or should I wait it out to see if I drive him crazy enough to complain? I am worried that if I ask he will just say its a problem even if he can't hear it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an old apartment building on the first floor and just got a treadmill to keep running through the winter. The floors and walls are such that when I am running on it the house sort of shakes a little every time my foot comes down. The best time for me to work out is early in the morning (around 6AM). I assume that my upstairs neighbor can hear and possibly feel me running. One thing you should know about my neighbor is that he is SUPER sensitive about some things, and not others. An example would be that he threw a fit over having a small Vespa scooter in the backyard, but has never complained when we have backyard parties with an open fire into the wee hours of the morning.\nShould I preempt a problem by emailing him and asking if it is a problem, or should I wait it out to see if I drive him crazy enough to complain? I am worried that if I ask he will just say its a problem even if he can't hear it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I live in an old apartment building on the first floor and just got a treadmill to keep running through the winter. The floors and walls are such that when I am running on it the house sort of shakes a little every time my foot comes down. The best time for me to work out is early in the morning (around 6AM). I assume that my upstairs neighbor can hear and possibly feel me running. One thing you should know about my neighbor is that he is SUPER sensitive about some things, and not others. An example would be that he threw a fit over having a small Vespa scooter in the backyard, but has never complained when we have backyard parties with an open fire into the wee hours of the morning.\nShould I preempt a problem by emailing him and asking if it is a problem, or should I wait it out to see if I drive him crazy enough to complain? I am worried that if I ask he will just say its a problem even if he can't hear it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right now, I have just completed 2 years at a community college with an AS in comp sci and now I'm going to go to UB for computer science bachelors. I am going to be living on campus for the first year there and going to be living off for the second year hopefully. I have 6.5k in debt right now, and I estimate this next two years will be approximately 25-30k more in debt, probably less. Now I just need to find some banks that would be able to help me pay this money I owe to the school for housing and tuition."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right now, I have just completed 2 years at a community college with an AS in comp sci and now I'm going to go to UB for computer science bachelors. I am going to be living on campus for the first year there and going to be living off for the second year hopefully. I have 6.5k in debt right now, and I estimate this next two years will be approximately 25-30k more in debt, probably less. Now I just need to find some banks that would be able to help me pay this money I owe to the school for housing and tuition."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right now, I have just completed 2 years at a community college with an AS in comp sci and now I'm going to go to UB for computer science bachelors. I am going to be living on campus for the first year there and going to be living off for the second year hopefully. I have 6.5k in debt right now, and I estimate this next two years will be approximately 25-30k more in debt, probably less. Now I just need to find some banks that would be able to help me pay this money I owe to the school for housing and tuition."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right now, I have just completed 2 years at a community college with an AS in comp sci and now I'm going to go to UB for computer science bachelors. I am going to be living on campus for the first year there and going to be living off for the second year hopefully. I have 6.5k in debt right now, and I estimate this next two years will be approximately 25-30k more in debt, probably less. Now I just need to find some banks that would be able to help me pay this money I owe to the school for housing and tuition."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right now, I have just completed 2 years at a community college with an AS in comp sci and now I'm going to go to UB for computer science bachelors. I am going to be living on campus for the first year there and going to be living off for the second year hopefully. I have 6.5k in debt right now, and I estimate this next two years will be approximately 25-30k more in debt, probably less. Now I just need to find some banks that would be able to help me pay this money I owe to the school for housing and tuition."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Right now, I have just completed 2 years at a community college with an AS in comp sci and now I'm going to go to UB for computer science bachelors. I am going to be living on campus for the first year there and going to be living off for the second year hopefully. I have 6.5k in debt right now, and I estimate this next two years will be approximately 25-30k more in debt, probably less. Now I just need to find some banks that would be able to help me pay this money I owe to the school for housing and tuition."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month before we met, my boyfriend adopted a Jack Russel Terrier puppy. So this dog has been a part of our relationship from the beginning. We've been together a year now (living together for ~1 month), and as much as I love the dog, I still feel like my boyfriend is more affectionate towards him and it bothers me.\n\nI do love this dog, and think of him as my own. But my boyfriend is so affectionate towards him, and not at all affectionate towards me. As an example, most weekend mornings, the dog wakes us up around 7/8am. I am not a morning person, so this is something that bothers me. But, I realize that the dog doesn't do it intentionally. What really gets me is that my boyfriend wakes up to the dog and is happy to cuddle him and play with him (in the bed, while I'm trying to sleep). I don't get so much as a \"good morning\" or a simple kiss before he gets up to take the dog out. Another example would be being so excited to see the dog when he gets home from work, and barely acknowledging that I'm even there.\n\nI don't know how (or if) I should communicate this to my boyfriend. I get that he had the dog first, and that it's not the dog's fault. I just don't think I should have to compete with a dog for my boyfriend's attention."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month before we met, my boyfriend adopted a Jack Russel Terrier puppy. So this dog has been a part of our relationship from the beginning. We've been together a year now (living together for ~1 month), and as much as I love the dog, I still feel like my boyfriend is more affectionate towards him and it bothers me.\n\nI do love this dog, and think of him as my own. But my boyfriend is so affectionate towards him, and not at all affectionate towards me. As an example, most weekend mornings, the dog wakes us up around 7/8am. I am not a morning person, so this is something that bothers me. But, I realize that the dog doesn't do it intentionally. What really gets me is that my boyfriend wakes up to the dog and is happy to cuddle him and play with him (in the bed, while I'm trying to sleep). I don't get so much as a \"good morning\" or a simple kiss before he gets up to take the dog out. Another example would be being so excited to see the dog when he gets home from work, and barely acknowledging that I'm even there.\n\nI don't know how (or if) I should communicate this to my boyfriend. I get that he had the dog first, and that it's not the dog's fault. I just don't think I should have to compete with a dog for my boyfriend's attention."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month before we met, my boyfriend adopted a Jack Russel Terrier puppy. So this dog has been a part of our relationship from the beginning. We've been together a year now (living together for ~1 month), and as much as I love the dog, I still feel like my boyfriend is more affectionate towards him and it bothers me.\n\nI do love this dog, and think of him as my own. But my boyfriend is so affectionate towards him, and not at all affectionate towards me. As an example, most weekend mornings, the dog wakes us up around 7/8am. I am not a morning person, so this is something that bothers me. But, I realize that the dog doesn't do it intentionally. What really gets me is that my boyfriend wakes up to the dog and is happy to cuddle him and play with him (in the bed, while I'm trying to sleep). I don't get so much as a \"good morning\" or a simple kiss before he gets up to take the dog out. Another example would be being so excited to see the dog when he gets home from work, and barely acknowledging that I'm even there.\n\nI don't know how (or if) I should communicate this to my boyfriend. I get that he had the dog first, and that it's not the dog's fault. I just don't think I should have to compete with a dog for my boyfriend's attention."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month before we met, my boyfriend adopted a Jack Russel Terrier puppy. So this dog has been a part of our relationship from the beginning. We've been together a year now (living together for ~1 month), and as much as I love the dog, I still feel like my boyfriend is more affectionate towards him and it bothers me.\n\nI do love this dog, and think of him as my own. But my boyfriend is so affectionate towards him, and not at all affectionate towards me. As an example, most weekend mornings, the dog wakes us up around 7/8am. I am not a morning person, so this is something that bothers me. But, I realize that the dog doesn't do it intentionally. What really gets me is that my boyfriend wakes up to the dog and is happy to cuddle him and play with him (in the bed, while I'm trying to sleep). I don't get so much as a \"good morning\" or a simple kiss before he gets up to take the dog out. Another example would be being so excited to see the dog when he gets home from work, and barely acknowledging that I'm even there.\n\nI don't know how (or if) I should communicate this to my boyfriend. I get that he had the dog first, and that it's not the dog's fault. I just don't think I should have to compete with a dog for my boyfriend's attention."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month before we met, my boyfriend adopted a Jack Russel Terrier puppy. So this dog has been a part of our relationship from the beginning. We've been together a year now (living together for ~1 month), and as much as I love the dog, I still feel like my boyfriend is more affectionate towards him and it bothers me.\n\nI do love this dog, and think of him as my own. But my boyfriend is so affectionate towards him, and not at all affectionate towards me. As an example, most weekend mornings, the dog wakes us up around 7/8am. I am not a morning person, so this is something that bothers me. But, I realize that the dog doesn't do it intentionally. What really gets me is that my boyfriend wakes up to the dog and is happy to cuddle him and play with him (in the bed, while I'm trying to sleep). I don't get so much as a \"good morning\" or a simple kiss before he gets up to take the dog out. Another example would be being so excited to see the dog when he gets home from work, and barely acknowledging that I'm even there.\n\nI don't know how (or if) I should communicate this to my boyfriend. I get that he had the dog first, and that it's not the dog's fault. I just don't think I should have to compete with a dog for my boyfriend's attention."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month before we met, my boyfriend adopted a Jack Russel Terrier puppy. So this dog has been a part of our relationship from the beginning. We've been together a year now (living together for ~1 month), and as much as I love the dog, I still feel like my boyfriend is more affectionate towards him and it bothers me.\n\nI do love this dog, and think of him as my own. But my boyfriend is so affectionate towards him, and not at all affectionate towards me. As an example, most weekend mornings, the dog wakes us up around 7/8am. I am not a morning person, so this is something that bothers me. But, I realize that the dog doesn't do it intentionally. What really gets me is that my boyfriend wakes up to the dog and is happy to cuddle him and play with him (in the bed, while I'm trying to sleep). I don't get so much as a \"good morning\" or a simple kiss before he gets up to take the dog out. Another example would be being so excited to see the dog when he gets home from work, and barely acknowledging that I'm even there.\n\nI don't know how (or if) I should communicate this to my boyfriend. I get that he had the dog first, and that it's not the dog's fault. I just don't think I should have to compete with a dog for my boyfriend's attention."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, and he's never cheated on me or anything like that. In fact, our relationship is pretty great, he's my best friend and we love all the same video games. Anyways, I stumbled across pictures of all his ex-girlfriend's nakedness yesterday and it's been really bumming me out, how do I fix this sad feeling? \n\nI know it's stupid, I also found porn and that didn't bother me at all, I mean, everyone loves porn (even me, especially me haha). But seeing pictures of his ex-gf's all nakey really did bother me, maybe because all of them have sexier/skinnier bodies than I do, or maybe just because he kept them? \n\nI haven't told him I found the pictures or anything, I feel guilty that I found them at all (note to all the girls out there, if you are looking for an image that you downloaded onto your boyfriend's laptop, never, ever type \"jpg\" in the start menu search bar and press enter.) \n\nAnyhow, it occurred to me this morning (as my bf was accusing a girl at his work of being too fat), maybe he's just a shallow guy? in fact, he's never called beautiful, all I've ever gotten from him is, \"you're sexy\" or \"you're hot.\" I just don't see how I could ever build a romantic, long-term relationship with a guy like this. \n\nOhh well, I'm still trying to figure it out, do you have any advice for me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, and he's never cheated on me or anything like that. In fact, our relationship is pretty great, he's my best friend and we love all the same video games. Anyways, I stumbled across pictures of all his ex-girlfriend's nakedness yesterday and it's been really bumming me out, how do I fix this sad feeling? \n\nI know it's stupid, I also found porn and that didn't bother me at all, I mean, everyone loves porn (even me, especially me haha). But seeing pictures of his ex-gf's all nakey really did bother me, maybe because all of them have sexier/skinnier bodies than I do, or maybe just because he kept them? \n\nI haven't told him I found the pictures or anything, I feel guilty that I found them at all (note to all the girls out there, if you are looking for an image that you downloaded onto your boyfriend's laptop, never, ever type \"jpg\" in the start menu search bar and press enter.) \n\nAnyhow, it occurred to me this morning (as my bf was accusing a girl at his work of being too fat), maybe he's just a shallow guy? in fact, he's never called beautiful, all I've ever gotten from him is, \"you're sexy\" or \"you're hot.\" I just don't see how I could ever build a romantic, long-term relationship with a guy like this. \n\nOhh well, I'm still trying to figure it out, do you have any advice for me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, and he's never cheated on me or anything like that. In fact, our relationship is pretty great, he's my best friend and we love all the same video games. Anyways, I stumbled across pictures of all his ex-girlfriend's nakedness yesterday and it's been really bumming me out, how do I fix this sad feeling? \n\nI know it's stupid, I also found porn and that didn't bother me at all, I mean, everyone loves porn (even me, especially me haha). But seeing pictures of his ex-gf's all nakey really did bother me, maybe because all of them have sexier/skinnier bodies than I do, or maybe just because he kept them? \n\nI haven't told him I found the pictures or anything, I feel guilty that I found them at all (note to all the girls out there, if you are looking for an image that you downloaded onto your boyfriend's laptop, never, ever type \"jpg\" in the start menu search bar and press enter.) \n\nAnyhow, it occurred to me this morning (as my bf was accusing a girl at his work of being too fat), maybe he's just a shallow guy? in fact, he's never called beautiful, all I've ever gotten from him is, \"you're sexy\" or \"you're hot.\" I just don't see how I could ever build a romantic, long-term relationship with a guy like this. \n\nOhh well, I'm still trying to figure it out, do you have any advice for me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, and he's never cheated on me or anything like that. In fact, our relationship is pretty great, he's my best friend and we love all the same video games. Anyways, I stumbled across pictures of all his ex-girlfriend's nakedness yesterday and it's been really bumming me out, how do I fix this sad feeling? \n\nI know it's stupid, I also found porn and that didn't bother me at all, I mean, everyone loves porn (even me, especially me haha). But seeing pictures of his ex-gf's all nakey really did bother me, maybe because all of them have sexier/skinnier bodies than I do, or maybe just because he kept them? \n\nI haven't told him I found the pictures or anything, I feel guilty that I found them at all (note to all the girls out there, if you are looking for an image that you downloaded onto your boyfriend's laptop, never, ever type \"jpg\" in the start menu search bar and press enter.) \n\nAnyhow, it occurred to me this morning (as my bf was accusing a girl at his work of being too fat), maybe he's just a shallow guy? in fact, he's never called beautiful, all I've ever gotten from him is, \"you're sexy\" or \"you're hot.\" I just don't see how I could ever build a romantic, long-term relationship with a guy like this. \n\nOhh well, I'm still trying to figure it out, do you have any advice for me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, and he's never cheated on me or anything like that. In fact, our relationship is pretty great, he's my best friend and we love all the same video games. Anyways, I stumbled across pictures of all his ex-girlfriend's nakedness yesterday and it's been really bumming me out, how do I fix this sad feeling? \n\nI know it's stupid, I also found porn and that didn't bother me at all, I mean, everyone loves porn (even me, especially me haha). But seeing pictures of his ex-gf's all nakey really did bother me, maybe because all of them have sexier/skinnier bodies than I do, or maybe just because he kept them? \n\nI haven't told him I found the pictures or anything, I feel guilty that I found them at all (note to all the girls out there, if you are looking for an image that you downloaded onto your boyfriend's laptop, never, ever type \"jpg\" in the start menu search bar and press enter.) \n\nAnyhow, it occurred to me this morning (as my bf was accusing a girl at his work of being too fat), maybe he's just a shallow guy? in fact, he's never called beautiful, all I've ever gotten from him is, \"you're sexy\" or \"you're hot.\" I just don't see how I could ever build a romantic, long-term relationship with a guy like this. \n\nOhh well, I'm still trying to figure it out, do you have any advice for me?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the situation. \nI am a college graduate working in metro Detroit at a job I detest. \nLast week I had 2 very good interviews; one with a university in downtown Detroit and another with a national camp in Colorado. \n I know I want to leave my current job (nothing but cold calls).\n\nI have received an offer from the camp in Colorado for a year long internship that pays dirt, but includes free room and board in the mountains. I would love this job, but it would mean leaving Michigan where I was raised, my girlfriend, and my family.\n\nI'm still waiting for a response from the University, which is the position I would prefer, better money and still in Michigan. \n\nIs there a classy way to try and hurry the university along? Can I make a call and ask about the progress of my application and interview review?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the situation. \nI am a college graduate working in metro Detroit at a job I detest. \nLast week I had 2 very good interviews; one with a university in downtown Detroit and another with a national camp in Colorado. \n I know I want to leave my current job (nothing but cold calls).\n\nI have received an offer from the camp in Colorado for a year long internship that pays dirt, but includes free room and board in the mountains. I would love this job, but it would mean leaving Michigan where I was raised, my girlfriend, and my family.\n\nI'm still waiting for a response from the University, which is the position I would prefer, better money and still in Michigan. \n\nIs there a classy way to try and hurry the university along? Can I make a call and ask about the progress of my application and interview review?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the situation. \nI am a college graduate working in metro Detroit at a job I detest. \nLast week I had 2 very good interviews; one with a university in downtown Detroit and another with a national camp in Colorado. \n I know I want to leave my current job (nothing but cold calls).\n\nI have received an offer from the camp in Colorado for a year long internship that pays dirt, but includes free room and board in the mountains. I would love this job, but it would mean leaving Michigan where I was raised, my girlfriend, and my family.\n\nI'm still waiting for a response from the University, which is the position I would prefer, better money and still in Michigan. \n\nIs there a classy way to try and hurry the university along? Can I make a call and ask about the progress of my application and interview review?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the situation. \nI am a college graduate working in metro Detroit at a job I detest. \nLast week I had 2 very good interviews; one with a university in downtown Detroit and another with a national camp in Colorado. \n I know I want to leave my current job (nothing but cold calls).\n\nI have received an offer from the camp in Colorado for a year long internship that pays dirt, but includes free room and board in the mountains. I would love this job, but it would mean leaving Michigan where I was raised, my girlfriend, and my family.\n\nI'm still waiting for a response from the University, which is the position I would prefer, better money and still in Michigan. \n\nIs there a classy way to try and hurry the university along? Can I make a call and ask about the progress of my application and interview review?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the situation. \nI am a college graduate working in metro Detroit at a job I detest. \nLast week I had 2 very good interviews; one with a university in downtown Detroit and another with a national camp in Colorado. \n I know I want to leave my current job (nothing but cold calls).\n\nI have received an offer from the camp in Colorado for a year long internship that pays dirt, but includes free room and board in the mountains. I would love this job, but it would mean leaving Michigan where I was raised, my girlfriend, and my family.\n\nI'm still waiting for a response from the University, which is the position I would prefer, better money and still in Michigan. \n\nIs there a classy way to try and hurry the university along? Can I make a call and ask about the progress of my application and interview review?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So here's the situation. \nI am a college graduate working in metro Detroit at a job I detest. \nLast week I had 2 very good interviews; one with a university in downtown Detroit and another with a national camp in Colorado. \n I know I want to leave my current job (nothing but cold calls).\n\nI have received an offer from the camp in Colorado for a year long internship that pays dirt, but includes free room and board in the mountains. I would love this job, but it would mean leaving Michigan where I was raised, my girlfriend, and my family.\n\nI'm still waiting for a response from the University, which is the position I would prefer, better money and still in Michigan. \n\nIs there a classy way to try and hurry the university along? Can I make a call and ask about the progress of my application and interview review?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last week I received an annoying email from a client. The rest of my team was outside my office discussing it. I walked up to them and, not really thinking about it, said, \"what the FUCK are they thinking?\" (I work in advertising. Salty language is probably the least questionable thing that goes on in most agencies).\n\nMy entire team froze, staring at me like I'd hopped on a table and dumped a load in front of everyone. I turn to find a little girl of no more than eight or nine years standing there, her arms filled with girl scout cookies, her wide eyes possibly only matched by those of her father, a coworker of mine, who's standing a few feet behind her.\n\nI quickly pulled out twenty dollars and bought every damn box of cookies that girl had. Still, I felt like a grade-A douche as she skipped away while counting her money."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last week I received an annoying email from a client. The rest of my team was outside my office discussing it. I walked up to them and, not really thinking about it, said, \"what the FUCK are they thinking?\" (I work in advertising. Salty language is probably the least questionable thing that goes on in most agencies).\n\nMy entire team froze, staring at me like I'd hopped on a table and dumped a load in front of everyone. I turn to find a little girl of no more than eight or nine years standing there, her arms filled with girl scout cookies, her wide eyes possibly only matched by those of her father, a coworker of mine, who's standing a few feet behind her.\n\nI quickly pulled out twenty dollars and bought every damn box of cookies that girl had. Still, I felt like a grade-A douche as she skipped away while counting her money."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last week I received an annoying email from a client. The rest of my team was outside my office discussing it. I walked up to them and, not really thinking about it, said, \"what the FUCK are they thinking?\" (I work in advertising. Salty language is probably the least questionable thing that goes on in most agencies).\n\nMy entire team froze, staring at me like I'd hopped on a table and dumped a load in front of everyone. I turn to find a little girl of no more than eight or nine years standing there, her arms filled with girl scout cookies, her wide eyes possibly only matched by those of her father, a coworker of mine, who's standing a few feet behind her.\n\nI quickly pulled out twenty dollars and bought every damn box of cookies that girl had. Still, I felt like a grade-A douche as she skipped away while counting her money."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last week I received an annoying email from a client. The rest of my team was outside my office discussing it. I walked up to them and, not really thinking about it, said, \"what the FUCK are they thinking?\" (I work in advertising. Salty language is probably the least questionable thing that goes on in most agencies).\n\nMy entire team froze, staring at me like I'd hopped on a table and dumped a load in front of everyone. I turn to find a little girl of no more than eight or nine years standing there, her arms filled with girl scout cookies, her wide eyes possibly only matched by those of her father, a coworker of mine, who's standing a few feet behind her.\n\nI quickly pulled out twenty dollars and bought every damn box of cookies that girl had. Still, I felt like a grade-A douche as she skipped away while counting her money."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last week I received an annoying email from a client. The rest of my team was outside my office discussing it. I walked up to them and, not really thinking about it, said, \"what the FUCK are they thinking?\" (I work in advertising. Salty language is probably the least questionable thing that goes on in most agencies).\n\nMy entire team froze, staring at me like I'd hopped on a table and dumped a load in front of everyone. I turn to find a little girl of no more than eight or nine years standing there, her arms filled with girl scout cookies, her wide eyes possibly only matched by those of her father, a coworker of mine, who's standing a few feet behind her.\n\nI quickly pulled out twenty dollars and bought every damn box of cookies that girl had. Still, I felt like a grade-A douche as she skipped away while counting her money."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Last week I received an annoying email from a client. The rest of my team was outside my office discussing it. I walked up to them and, not really thinking about it, said, \"what the FUCK are they thinking?\" (I work in advertising. Salty language is probably the least questionable thing that goes on in most agencies).\n\nMy entire team froze, staring at me like I'd hopped on a table and dumped a load in front of everyone. I turn to find a little girl of no more than eight or nine years standing there, her arms filled with girl scout cookies, her wide eyes possibly only matched by those of her father, a coworker of mine, who's standing a few feet behind her.\n\nI quickly pulled out twenty dollars and bought every damn box of cookies that girl had. Still, I felt like a grade-A douche as she skipped away while counting her money."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met my ex through Twitter back in January. (Bare in mind that she's from my home country and I'm living abroad) She came to meet me for a week where I live and we fell in love really hard. A month after that we decided to jump right to the phase of living together, we got an apartment and everything was perfect. She is diagnosed with depression and I though I could handle that cuz she seemed happier with me and better than before.\n\nDuring our relationship there were fights and she would become very aggressive physically. She would throw me things (bottles, her laptop and what not). I always tried my best to ignore these things cuz I knew she didn't want to be like this ,so I would always forgive her. But in the last months of our relationship we were fighting every single day and I got scared when she pulled a knife at me. She didn't hurt me but the act it self made me realise this wasn't good for me. So she went back home and we broke up.\n\nI always told her that I really loved her and that if she got better and I was missing her I would definitely take her back but she never gave me space to feel that she was gone. Anyway, now 2 months after we broke up she unblocked me from social media and started talking to me to be friends and I realised just now that I miss her like hell and I want her back. But I'm afraid of getting myself into the same sad relationship I had with her. she is better, she said she is sorry for everything she did to me but she is not as interested as me into getting back together. She says that she wants to be with someone that really wants to be with her and I do, but I'm afraid.\n\nI was thinking about inviting her over to stay for a few days in order to see how we both felt and she wants to come, should I try this to see how I'm really feeling? Should I just take more time to myself? I really don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met my ex through Twitter back in January. (Bare in mind that she's from my home country and I'm living abroad) She came to meet me for a week where I live and we fell in love really hard. A month after that we decided to jump right to the phase of living together, we got an apartment and everything was perfect. She is diagnosed with depression and I though I could handle that cuz she seemed happier with me and better than before.\n\nDuring our relationship there were fights and she would become very aggressive physically. She would throw me things (bottles, her laptop and what not). I always tried my best to ignore these things cuz I knew she didn't want to be like this ,so I would always forgive her. But in the last months of our relationship we were fighting every single day and I got scared when she pulled a knife at me. She didn't hurt me but the act it self made me realise this wasn't good for me. So she went back home and we broke up.\n\nI always told her that I really loved her and that if she got better and I was missing her I would definitely take her back but she never gave me space to feel that she was gone. Anyway, now 2 months after we broke up she unblocked me from social media and started talking to me to be friends and I realised just now that I miss her like hell and I want her back. But I'm afraid of getting myself into the same sad relationship I had with her. she is better, she said she is sorry for everything she did to me but she is not as interested as me into getting back together. She says that she wants to be with someone that really wants to be with her and I do, but I'm afraid.\n\nI was thinking about inviting her over to stay for a few days in order to see how we both felt and she wants to come, should I try this to see how I'm really feeling? Should I just take more time to myself? I really don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met my ex through Twitter back in January. (Bare in mind that she's from my home country and I'm living abroad) She came to meet me for a week where I live and we fell in love really hard. A month after that we decided to jump right to the phase of living together, we got an apartment and everything was perfect. She is diagnosed with depression and I though I could handle that cuz she seemed happier with me and better than before.\n\nDuring our relationship there were fights and she would become very aggressive physically. She would throw me things (bottles, her laptop and what not). I always tried my best to ignore these things cuz I knew she didn't want to be like this ,so I would always forgive her. But in the last months of our relationship we were fighting every single day and I got scared when she pulled a knife at me. She didn't hurt me but the act it self made me realise this wasn't good for me. So she went back home and we broke up.\n\nI always told her that I really loved her and that if she got better and I was missing her I would definitely take her back but she never gave me space to feel that she was gone. Anyway, now 2 months after we broke up she unblocked me from social media and started talking to me to be friends and I realised just now that I miss her like hell and I want her back. But I'm afraid of getting myself into the same sad relationship I had with her. she is better, she said she is sorry for everything she did to me but she is not as interested as me into getting back together. She says that she wants to be with someone that really wants to be with her and I do, but I'm afraid.\n\nI was thinking about inviting her over to stay for a few days in order to see how we both felt and she wants to come, should I try this to see how I'm really feeling? Should I just take more time to myself? I really don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I met my ex through Twitter back in January. (Bare in mind that she's from my home country and I'm living abroad) She came to meet me for a week where I live and we fell in love really hard. A month after that we decided to jump right to the phase of living together, we got an apartment and everything was perfect. She is diagnosed with depression and I though I could handle that cuz she seemed happier with me and better than before.\n\nDuring our relationship there were fights and she would become very aggressive physically. She would throw me things (bottles, her laptop and what not). I always tried my best to ignore these things cuz I knew she didn't want to be like this ,so I would always forgive her. But in the last months of our relationship we were fighting every single day and I got scared when she pulled a knife at me. She didn't hurt me but the act it self made me realise this wasn't good for me. So she went back home and we broke up.\n\nI always told her that I really loved her and that if she got better and I was missing her I would definitely take her back but she never gave me space to feel that she was gone. Anyway, now 2 months after we broke up she unblocked me from social media and started talking to me to be friends and I realised just now that I miss her like hell and I want her back. But I'm afraid of getting myself into the same sad relationship I had with her. she is better, she said she is sorry for everything she did to me but she is not as interested as me into getting back together. She says that she wants to be with someone that really wants to be with her and I do, but I'm afraid.\n\nI was thinking about inviting her over to stay for a few days in order to see how we both felt and she wants to come, should I try this to see how I'm really feeling? Should I just take more time to myself? I really don't know what to do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so some background first:\nI absolutely love this girl and I will make her my wife one day (we're only 24 right now, so a couple years). 110 percent sure she feels the same. She's my best friend and I couldn't see myself with anyone else. We both have our respective groups of friends but rarely go out \"alone\" (happy hour after work with colleagues is not really \"alone\"). We've lived together for 1 yr in college and so far 1 year out of college. \n\nProblem:\nThis past year living together has been kind of different (at least for me). She seems to have gotten very \"clingy/needy/controlling\". She has absolute no problems with me going out with friends or us going out in general which is strange. The issue she is having seems to be \"me\" time. She gets really mad/upset/angry when I stay up while she goes to bed, which is early sometimes (this maybe happens twice a week at most). The only \"me\" time I have is when she is doing something herself. I am now freaking out emotionally inside because I can never just read, play a video game, surf the internet or just watch TV.\n\nI love spending time with her and always have. I've tried speaking to her about this but she just gets very defensive. I feel like I'm doing everything else right in the relationship. This is practically our only issue at hand. Any advice on how I can work through this with her? Any similar experiences? What helps ladies!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so some background first:\nI absolutely love this girl and I will make her my wife one day (we're only 24 right now, so a couple years). 110 percent sure she feels the same. She's my best friend and I couldn't see myself with anyone else. We both have our respective groups of friends but rarely go out \"alone\" (happy hour after work with colleagues is not really \"alone\"). We've lived together for 1 yr in college and so far 1 year out of college. \n\nProblem:\nThis past year living together has been kind of different (at least for me). She seems to have gotten very \"clingy/needy/controlling\". She has absolute no problems with me going out with friends or us going out in general which is strange. The issue she is having seems to be \"me\" time. She gets really mad/upset/angry when I stay up while she goes to bed, which is early sometimes (this maybe happens twice a week at most). The only \"me\" time I have is when she is doing something herself. I am now freaking out emotionally inside because I can never just read, play a video game, surf the internet or just watch TV.\n\nI love spending time with her and always have. I've tried speaking to her about this but she just gets very defensive. I feel like I'm doing everything else right in the relationship. This is practically our only issue at hand. Any advice on how I can work through this with her? Any similar experiences? What helps ladies!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so some background first:\nI absolutely love this girl and I will make her my wife one day (we're only 24 right now, so a couple years). 110 percent sure she feels the same. She's my best friend and I couldn't see myself with anyone else. We both have our respective groups of friends but rarely go out \"alone\" (happy hour after work with colleagues is not really \"alone\"). We've lived together for 1 yr in college and so far 1 year out of college. \n\nProblem:\nThis past year living together has been kind of different (at least for me). She seems to have gotten very \"clingy/needy/controlling\". She has absolute no problems with me going out with friends or us going out in general which is strange. The issue she is having seems to be \"me\" time. She gets really mad/upset/angry when I stay up while she goes to bed, which is early sometimes (this maybe happens twice a week at most). The only \"me\" time I have is when she is doing something herself. I am now freaking out emotionally inside because I can never just read, play a video game, surf the internet or just watch TV.\n\nI love spending time with her and always have. I've tried speaking to her about this but she just gets very defensive. I feel like I'm doing everything else right in the relationship. This is practically our only issue at hand. Any advice on how I can work through this with her? Any similar experiences? What helps ladies!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so some background first:\nI absolutely love this girl and I will make her my wife one day (we're only 24 right now, so a couple years). 110 percent sure she feels the same. She's my best friend and I couldn't see myself with anyone else. We both have our respective groups of friends but rarely go out \"alone\" (happy hour after work with colleagues is not really \"alone\"). We've lived together for 1 yr in college and so far 1 year out of college. \n\nProblem:\nThis past year living together has been kind of different (at least for me). She seems to have gotten very \"clingy/needy/controlling\". She has absolute no problems with me going out with friends or us going out in general which is strange. The issue she is having seems to be \"me\" time. She gets really mad/upset/angry when I stay up while she goes to bed, which is early sometimes (this maybe happens twice a week at most). The only \"me\" time I have is when she is doing something herself. I am now freaking out emotionally inside because I can never just read, play a video game, surf the internet or just watch TV.\n\nI love spending time with her and always have. I've tried speaking to her about this but she just gets very defensive. I feel like I'm doing everything else right in the relationship. This is practically our only issue at hand. Any advice on how I can work through this with her? Any similar experiences? What helps ladies!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so some background first:\nI absolutely love this girl and I will make her my wife one day (we're only 24 right now, so a couple years). 110 percent sure she feels the same. She's my best friend and I couldn't see myself with anyone else. We both have our respective groups of friends but rarely go out \"alone\" (happy hour after work with colleagues is not really \"alone\"). We've lived together for 1 yr in college and so far 1 year out of college. \n\nProblem:\nThis past year living together has been kind of different (at least for me). She seems to have gotten very \"clingy/needy/controlling\". She has absolute no problems with me going out with friends or us going out in general which is strange. The issue she is having seems to be \"me\" time. She gets really mad/upset/angry when I stay up while she goes to bed, which is early sometimes (this maybe happens twice a week at most). The only \"me\" time I have is when she is doing something herself. I am now freaking out emotionally inside because I can never just read, play a video game, surf the internet or just watch TV.\n\nI love spending time with her and always have. I've tried speaking to her about this but she just gets very defensive. I feel like I'm doing everything else right in the relationship. This is practically our only issue at hand. Any advice on how I can work through this with her? Any similar experiences? What helps ladies!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so some background first:\nI absolutely love this girl and I will make her my wife one day (we're only 24 right now, so a couple years). 110 percent sure she feels the same. She's my best friend and I couldn't see myself with anyone else. We both have our respective groups of friends but rarely go out \"alone\" (happy hour after work with colleagues is not really \"alone\"). We've lived together for 1 yr in college and so far 1 year out of college. \n\nProblem:\nThis past year living together has been kind of different (at least for me). She seems to have gotten very \"clingy/needy/controlling\". She has absolute no problems with me going out with friends or us going out in general which is strange. The issue she is having seems to be \"me\" time. She gets really mad/upset/angry when I stay up while she goes to bed, which is early sometimes (this maybe happens twice a week at most). The only \"me\" time I have is when she is doing something herself. I am now freaking out emotionally inside because I can never just read, play a video game, surf the internet or just watch TV.\n\nI love spending time with her and always have. I've tried speaking to her about this but she just gets very defensive. I feel like I'm doing everything else right in the relationship. This is practically our only issue at hand. Any advice on how I can work through this with her? Any similar experiences? What helps ladies!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, and I've always known he wasn't the most \"stable\" person. Due to a bad home environment until he was 18, he developed a lot of problems with anxiety. For example, sudden movements and sounds (even camera flashes or a pen dropping) can cause him to jump and yell in surprise. In public or social situations, he'll often tap his foot constantly or drum his fingers. When talking to people, he'll sometimes get nervous and tongue tied, and usually just ends up apologizing for being stupid. Of course I know it's not fun for him, but it also makes me extremely uncomfortable that he's so awkward in public. \n\nAfter the anxiety got really bad a couple months ago, he did seek professional help. Now he's seen a psychiatrist three times and is on medication. He's also gotten to the root of some of the problems, and admitted to me that he's often so anxious because he's scared of not being in control, and he's worried people are going to hurt him or think he's a shitty person (fears he recognizes are irrational). But rather than the anxiety going away, it seems more like it's flattened out to the same level of anxiety he had before the really bad incident a couple months ago. He doesn't think it's getting better, and is losing hope for finding any solution. \n\nAs his girlfriend, I know I can't \"fix\" the anxiety, but I also have no idea how to help. I'll admit that I don't handle the situation very well, because I often get frustrated when he's having an incident and just tell him to stop being anxious, even though I know he can't. What am I supposed to do? How do I support him and encourage him to find ways to deal with anxiety? Also, to anyone who has experienced this in their relationship, can it get better? I can't deal with his current level of anxiety for the rest of my life, and I'm scared that will be the end of our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, and I've always known he wasn't the most \"stable\" person. Due to a bad home environment until he was 18, he developed a lot of problems with anxiety. For example, sudden movements and sounds (even camera flashes or a pen dropping) can cause him to jump and yell in surprise. In public or social situations, he'll often tap his foot constantly or drum his fingers. When talking to people, he'll sometimes get nervous and tongue tied, and usually just ends up apologizing for being stupid. Of course I know it's not fun for him, but it also makes me extremely uncomfortable that he's so awkward in public. \n\nAfter the anxiety got really bad a couple months ago, he did seek professional help. Now he's seen a psychiatrist three times and is on medication. He's also gotten to the root of some of the problems, and admitted to me that he's often so anxious because he's scared of not being in control, and he's worried people are going to hurt him or think he's a shitty person (fears he recognizes are irrational). But rather than the anxiety going away, it seems more like it's flattened out to the same level of anxiety he had before the really bad incident a couple months ago. He doesn't think it's getting better, and is losing hope for finding any solution. \n\nAs his girlfriend, I know I can't \"fix\" the anxiety, but I also have no idea how to help. I'll admit that I don't handle the situation very well, because I often get frustrated when he's having an incident and just tell him to stop being anxious, even though I know he can't. What am I supposed to do? How do I support him and encourage him to find ways to deal with anxiety? Also, to anyone who has experienced this in their relationship, can it get better? I can't deal with his current level of anxiety for the rest of my life, and I'm scared that will be the end of our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, and I've always known he wasn't the most \"stable\" person. Due to a bad home environment until he was 18, he developed a lot of problems with anxiety. For example, sudden movements and sounds (even camera flashes or a pen dropping) can cause him to jump and yell in surprise. In public or social situations, he'll often tap his foot constantly or drum his fingers. When talking to people, he'll sometimes get nervous and tongue tied, and usually just ends up apologizing for being stupid. Of course I know it's not fun for him, but it also makes me extremely uncomfortable that he's so awkward in public. \n\nAfter the anxiety got really bad a couple months ago, he did seek professional help. Now he's seen a psychiatrist three times and is on medication. He's also gotten to the root of some of the problems, and admitted to me that he's often so anxious because he's scared of not being in control, and he's worried people are going to hurt him or think he's a shitty person (fears he recognizes are irrational). But rather than the anxiety going away, it seems more like it's flattened out to the same level of anxiety he had before the really bad incident a couple months ago. He doesn't think it's getting better, and is losing hope for finding any solution. \n\nAs his girlfriend, I know I can't \"fix\" the anxiety, but I also have no idea how to help. I'll admit that I don't handle the situation very well, because I often get frustrated when he's having an incident and just tell him to stop being anxious, even though I know he can't. What am I supposed to do? How do I support him and encourage him to find ways to deal with anxiety? Also, to anyone who has experienced this in their relationship, can it get better? I can't deal with his current level of anxiety for the rest of my life, and I'm scared that will be the end of our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, and I've always known he wasn't the most \"stable\" person. Due to a bad home environment until he was 18, he developed a lot of problems with anxiety. For example, sudden movements and sounds (even camera flashes or a pen dropping) can cause him to jump and yell in surprise. In public or social situations, he'll often tap his foot constantly or drum his fingers. When talking to people, he'll sometimes get nervous and tongue tied, and usually just ends up apologizing for being stupid. Of course I know it's not fun for him, but it also makes me extremely uncomfortable that he's so awkward in public. \n\nAfter the anxiety got really bad a couple months ago, he did seek professional help. Now he's seen a psychiatrist three times and is on medication. He's also gotten to the root of some of the problems, and admitted to me that he's often so anxious because he's scared of not being in control, and he's worried people are going to hurt him or think he's a shitty person (fears he recognizes are irrational). But rather than the anxiety going away, it seems more like it's flattened out to the same level of anxiety he had before the really bad incident a couple months ago. He doesn't think it's getting better, and is losing hope for finding any solution. \n\nAs his girlfriend, I know I can't \"fix\" the anxiety, but I also have no idea how to help. I'll admit that I don't handle the situation very well, because I often get frustrated when he's having an incident and just tell him to stop being anxious, even though I know he can't. What am I supposed to do? How do I support him and encourage him to find ways to deal with anxiety? Also, to anyone who has experienced this in their relationship, can it get better? I can't deal with his current level of anxiety for the rest of my life, and I'm scared that will be the end of our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, and I've always known he wasn't the most \"stable\" person. Due to a bad home environment until he was 18, he developed a lot of problems with anxiety. For example, sudden movements and sounds (even camera flashes or a pen dropping) can cause him to jump and yell in surprise. In public or social situations, he'll often tap his foot constantly or drum his fingers. When talking to people, he'll sometimes get nervous and tongue tied, and usually just ends up apologizing for being stupid. Of course I know it's not fun for him, but it also makes me extremely uncomfortable that he's so awkward in public. \n\nAfter the anxiety got really bad a couple months ago, he did seek professional help. Now he's seen a psychiatrist three times and is on medication. He's also gotten to the root of some of the problems, and admitted to me that he's often so anxious because he's scared of not being in control, and he's worried people are going to hurt him or think he's a shitty person (fears he recognizes are irrational). But rather than the anxiety going away, it seems more like it's flattened out to the same level of anxiety he had before the really bad incident a couple months ago. He doesn't think it's getting better, and is losing hope for finding any solution. \n\nAs his girlfriend, I know I can't \"fix\" the anxiety, but I also have no idea how to help. I'll admit that I don't handle the situation very well, because I often get frustrated when he's having an incident and just tell him to stop being anxious, even though I know he can't. What am I supposed to do? How do I support him and encourage him to find ways to deal with anxiety? Also, to anyone who has experienced this in their relationship, can it get better? I can't deal with his current level of anxiety for the rest of my life, and I'm scared that will be the end of our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, and I've always known he wasn't the most \"stable\" person. Due to a bad home environment until he was 18, he developed a lot of problems with anxiety. For example, sudden movements and sounds (even camera flashes or a pen dropping) can cause him to jump and yell in surprise. In public or social situations, he'll often tap his foot constantly or drum his fingers. When talking to people, he'll sometimes get nervous and tongue tied, and usually just ends up apologizing for being stupid. Of course I know it's not fun for him, but it also makes me extremely uncomfortable that he's so awkward in public. \n\nAfter the anxiety got really bad a couple months ago, he did seek professional help. Now he's seen a psychiatrist three times and is on medication. He's also gotten to the root of some of the problems, and admitted to me that he's often so anxious because he's scared of not being in control, and he's worried people are going to hurt him or think he's a shitty person (fears he recognizes are irrational). But rather than the anxiety going away, it seems more like it's flattened out to the same level of anxiety he had before the really bad incident a couple months ago. He doesn't think it's getting better, and is losing hope for finding any solution. \n\nAs his girlfriend, I know I can't \"fix\" the anxiety, but I also have no idea how to help. I'll admit that I don't handle the situation very well, because I often get frustrated when he's having an incident and just tell him to stop being anxious, even though I know he can't. What am I supposed to do? How do I support him and encourage him to find ways to deal with anxiety? Also, to anyone who has experienced this in their relationship, can it get better? I can't deal with his current level of anxiety for the rest of my life, and I'm scared that will be the end of our relationship."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been working at the local McDonald's for almost four years now, and it is my first job. I've finally gone through training for management, but I'm quickly finding out that my boss does not respect me, my promotion isn't anywhere in the top half of her priority list, the job does not pay enough for the stress it causes, and it doesn't pay enough for me to reach my financial goals.\n\nI have a friend who works in production in the local industrial area. He says they're hiring, chances of being hired are extremely good. If I got the job I would be making $0.50 more than I am now at starting out pay, the hours are good (40+ hours a week), and they pay overtime. The downside: I will be *standing* at a table for 10 hours a day. He says most people quit because the job is boring. Entry level position is labeling bottles. You are, however, allowed to listen to music players as long as you have one ear free at all times. Shifts are two hours longer than I'm used to.\n\nI really want to get out of my current situation, but I don't know if this job I'm looking at is right for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been working at the local McDonald's for almost four years now, and it is my first job. I've finally gone through training for management, but I'm quickly finding out that my boss does not respect me, my promotion isn't anywhere in the top half of her priority list, the job does not pay enough for the stress it causes, and it doesn't pay enough for me to reach my financial goals.\n\nI have a friend who works in production in the local industrial area. He says they're hiring, chances of being hired are extremely good. If I got the job I would be making $0.50 more than I am now at starting out pay, the hours are good (40+ hours a week), and they pay overtime. The downside: I will be *standing* at a table for 10 hours a day. He says most people quit because the job is boring. Entry level position is labeling bottles. You are, however, allowed to listen to music players as long as you have one ear free at all times. Shifts are two hours longer than I'm used to.\n\nI really want to get out of my current situation, but I don't know if this job I'm looking at is right for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been working at the local McDonald's for almost four years now, and it is my first job. I've finally gone through training for management, but I'm quickly finding out that my boss does not respect me, my promotion isn't anywhere in the top half of her priority list, the job does not pay enough for the stress it causes, and it doesn't pay enough for me to reach my financial goals.\n\nI have a friend who works in production in the local industrial area. He says they're hiring, chances of being hired are extremely good. If I got the job I would be making $0.50 more than I am now at starting out pay, the hours are good (40+ hours a week), and they pay overtime. The downside: I will be *standing* at a table for 10 hours a day. He says most people quit because the job is boring. Entry level position is labeling bottles. You are, however, allowed to listen to music players as long as you have one ear free at all times. Shifts are two hours longer than I'm used to.\n\nI really want to get out of my current situation, but I don't know if this job I'm looking at is right for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been working at the local McDonald's for almost four years now, and it is my first job. I've finally gone through training for management, but I'm quickly finding out that my boss does not respect me, my promotion isn't anywhere in the top half of her priority list, the job does not pay enough for the stress it causes, and it doesn't pay enough for me to reach my financial goals.\n\nI have a friend who works in production in the local industrial area. He says they're hiring, chances of being hired are extremely good. If I got the job I would be making $0.50 more than I am now at starting out pay, the hours are good (40+ hours a week), and they pay overtime. The downside: I will be *standing* at a table for 10 hours a day. He says most people quit because the job is boring. Entry level position is labeling bottles. You are, however, allowed to listen to music players as long as you have one ear free at all times. Shifts are two hours longer than I'm used to.\n\nI really want to get out of my current situation, but I don't know if this job I'm looking at is right for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been working at the local McDonald's for almost four years now, and it is my first job. I've finally gone through training for management, but I'm quickly finding out that my boss does not respect me, my promotion isn't anywhere in the top half of her priority list, the job does not pay enough for the stress it causes, and it doesn't pay enough for me to reach my financial goals.\n\nI have a friend who works in production in the local industrial area. He says they're hiring, chances of being hired are extremely good. If I got the job I would be making $0.50 more than I am now at starting out pay, the hours are good (40+ hours a week), and they pay overtime. The downside: I will be *standing* at a table for 10 hours a day. He says most people quit because the job is boring. Entry level position is labeling bottles. You are, however, allowed to listen to music players as long as you have one ear free at all times. Shifts are two hours longer than I'm used to.\n\nI really want to get out of my current situation, but I don't know if this job I'm looking at is right for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been working at the local McDonald's for almost four years now, and it is my first job. I've finally gone through training for management, but I'm quickly finding out that my boss does not respect me, my promotion isn't anywhere in the top half of her priority list, the job does not pay enough for the stress it causes, and it doesn't pay enough for me to reach my financial goals.\n\nI have a friend who works in production in the local industrial area. He says they're hiring, chances of being hired are extremely good. If I got the job I would be making $0.50 more than I am now at starting out pay, the hours are good (40+ hours a week), and they pay overtime. The downside: I will be *standing* at a table for 10 hours a day. He says most people quit because the job is boring. Entry level position is labeling bottles. You are, however, allowed to listen to music players as long as you have one ear free at all times. Shifts are two hours longer than I'm used to.\n\nI really want to get out of my current situation, but I don't know if this job I'm looking at is right for me."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok first I'll preface this with saying that I recognize that this is a terribly hurtful (to other people) pattern in my life that I want to stop as SOON as possible. I realize that this is in the long run going to damage people, and the reason I'm writing this post is because I know how immature it is and I want to be able to stop.\n\nI have a pattern of hanging out with men who I know are clearly interested in me and leading them on (i.e. hanging out with them alone, having 'deep' conversations with them, etc.) under the guise of wanting to get to know them better as friends. I suspect that the reason that I do this is for the attention, and because 1) I haven't met a person who I want to be in a relationship with and 2) because I don't let myself get physically involved with men who I'm not interested in in the long-term, and that sexual suppression eventually leaking out into interactions with guys who I'm not that interested in and leading them on, sleeping with them, and then moving on like almost immediately. \n\nObviously this is not something that I'm proud of, but I want to stop. When I get physically involved with someone I also get emotionally invested to some extent and I don't know how much I want to do that with someone who isn't LTR potential. \n\nAdvice? I hate hurting people, but I also recognize that this might be due to a lot of sexual suppression on my part, but at the SAME time I want to save myself for someone who's worth committing to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok first I'll preface this with saying that I recognize that this is a terribly hurtful (to other people) pattern in my life that I want to stop as SOON as possible. I realize that this is in the long run going to damage people, and the reason I'm writing this post is because I know how immature it is and I want to be able to stop.\n\nI have a pattern of hanging out with men who I know are clearly interested in me and leading them on (i.e. hanging out with them alone, having 'deep' conversations with them, etc.) under the guise of wanting to get to know them better as friends. I suspect that the reason that I do this is for the attention, and because 1) I haven't met a person who I want to be in a relationship with and 2) because I don't let myself get physically involved with men who I'm not interested in in the long-term, and that sexual suppression eventually leaking out into interactions with guys who I'm not that interested in and leading them on, sleeping with them, and then moving on like almost immediately. \n\nObviously this is not something that I'm proud of, but I want to stop. When I get physically involved with someone I also get emotionally invested to some extent and I don't know how much I want to do that with someone who isn't LTR potential. \n\nAdvice? I hate hurting people, but I also recognize that this might be due to a lot of sexual suppression on my part, but at the SAME time I want to save myself for someone who's worth committing to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok first I'll preface this with saying that I recognize that this is a terribly hurtful (to other people) pattern in my life that I want to stop as SOON as possible. I realize that this is in the long run going to damage people, and the reason I'm writing this post is because I know how immature it is and I want to be able to stop.\n\nI have a pattern of hanging out with men who I know are clearly interested in me and leading them on (i.e. hanging out with them alone, having 'deep' conversations with them, etc.) under the guise of wanting to get to know them better as friends. I suspect that the reason that I do this is for the attention, and because 1) I haven't met a person who I want to be in a relationship with and 2) because I don't let myself get physically involved with men who I'm not interested in in the long-term, and that sexual suppression eventually leaking out into interactions with guys who I'm not that interested in and leading them on, sleeping with them, and then moving on like almost immediately. \n\nObviously this is not something that I'm proud of, but I want to stop. When I get physically involved with someone I also get emotionally invested to some extent and I don't know how much I want to do that with someone who isn't LTR potential. \n\nAdvice? I hate hurting people, but I also recognize that this might be due to a lot of sexual suppression on my part, but at the SAME time I want to save myself for someone who's worth committing to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok first I'll preface this with saying that I recognize that this is a terribly hurtful (to other people) pattern in my life that I want to stop as SOON as possible. I realize that this is in the long run going to damage people, and the reason I'm writing this post is because I know how immature it is and I want to be able to stop.\n\nI have a pattern of hanging out with men who I know are clearly interested in me and leading them on (i.e. hanging out with them alone, having 'deep' conversations with them, etc.) under the guise of wanting to get to know them better as friends. I suspect that the reason that I do this is for the attention, and because 1) I haven't met a person who I want to be in a relationship with and 2) because I don't let myself get physically involved with men who I'm not interested in in the long-term, and that sexual suppression eventually leaking out into interactions with guys who I'm not that interested in and leading them on, sleeping with them, and then moving on like almost immediately. \n\nObviously this is not something that I'm proud of, but I want to stop. When I get physically involved with someone I also get emotionally invested to some extent and I don't know how much I want to do that with someone who isn't LTR potential. \n\nAdvice? I hate hurting people, but I also recognize that this might be due to a lot of sexual suppression on my part, but at the SAME time I want to save myself for someone who's worth committing to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok first I'll preface this with saying that I recognize that this is a terribly hurtful (to other people) pattern in my life that I want to stop as SOON as possible. I realize that this is in the long run going to damage people, and the reason I'm writing this post is because I know how immature it is and I want to be able to stop.\n\nI have a pattern of hanging out with men who I know are clearly interested in me and leading them on (i.e. hanging out with them alone, having 'deep' conversations with them, etc.) under the guise of wanting to get to know them better as friends. I suspect that the reason that I do this is for the attention, and because 1) I haven't met a person who I want to be in a relationship with and 2) because I don't let myself get physically involved with men who I'm not interested in in the long-term, and that sexual suppression eventually leaking out into interactions with guys who I'm not that interested in and leading them on, sleeping with them, and then moving on like almost immediately. \n\nObviously this is not something that I'm proud of, but I want to stop. When I get physically involved with someone I also get emotionally invested to some extent and I don't know how much I want to do that with someone who isn't LTR potential. \n\nAdvice? I hate hurting people, but I also recognize that this might be due to a lot of sexual suppression on my part, but at the SAME time I want to save myself for someone who's worth committing to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Ok first I'll preface this with saying that I recognize that this is a terribly hurtful (to other people) pattern in my life that I want to stop as SOON as possible. I realize that this is in the long run going to damage people, and the reason I'm writing this post is because I know how immature it is and I want to be able to stop.\n\nI have a pattern of hanging out with men who I know are clearly interested in me and leading them on (i.e. hanging out with them alone, having 'deep' conversations with them, etc.) under the guise of wanting to get to know them better as friends. I suspect that the reason that I do this is for the attention, and because 1) I haven't met a person who I want to be in a relationship with and 2) because I don't let myself get physically involved with men who I'm not interested in in the long-term, and that sexual suppression eventually leaking out into interactions with guys who I'm not that interested in and leading them on, sleeping with them, and then moving on like almost immediately. \n\nObviously this is not something that I'm proud of, but I want to stop. When I get physically involved with someone I also get emotionally invested to some extent and I don't know how much I want to do that with someone who isn't LTR potential. \n\nAdvice? I hate hurting people, but I also recognize that this might be due to a lot of sexual suppression on my part, but at the SAME time I want to save myself for someone who's worth committing to."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my girlfriend of 3.5 years and we have been in a long distance relationship for less than 2 weeks. I live in Socal and she lives in Norcal. It takes me 4 to 5 hours to drive to see her. \n\nThis weekend, I was suppose to drive up north to see her. However on Friday morning, she called me and told me not to go up there because of the bad weather conditions and I will go up the next weekend. \n\nWith my weekend plans scrap, I decided to go to San Diego from LA to visit my friend who I have not seen for some time. I told her later in the day about it and she gets angry because I did not buy a plane ticket to go see her. I do not have the financial means to do so. She basically thinks I did not prioritize her. \n\nSo at 9PM, she called me and demanded me to be up in Norcal in the morning or else she will break-up with me. With that threat, I decided to ignore her phone calls. I don't know what to do or how to respond to her if she calls me again. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my girlfriend of 3.5 years and we have been in a long distance relationship for less than 2 weeks. I live in Socal and she lives in Norcal. It takes me 4 to 5 hours to drive to see her. \n\nThis weekend, I was suppose to drive up north to see her. However on Friday morning, she called me and told me not to go up there because of the bad weather conditions and I will go up the next weekend. \n\nWith my weekend plans scrap, I decided to go to San Diego from LA to visit my friend who I have not seen for some time. I told her later in the day about it and she gets angry because I did not buy a plane ticket to go see her. I do not have the financial means to do so. She basically thinks I did not prioritize her. \n\nSo at 9PM, she called me and demanded me to be up in Norcal in the morning or else she will break-up with me. With that threat, I decided to ignore her phone calls. I don't know what to do or how to respond to her if she calls me again. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my girlfriend of 3.5 years and we have been in a long distance relationship for less than 2 weeks. I live in Socal and she lives in Norcal. It takes me 4 to 5 hours to drive to see her. \n\nThis weekend, I was suppose to drive up north to see her. However on Friday morning, she called me and told me not to go up there because of the bad weather conditions and I will go up the next weekend. \n\nWith my weekend plans scrap, I decided to go to San Diego from LA to visit my friend who I have not seen for some time. I told her later in the day about it and she gets angry because I did not buy a plane ticket to go see her. I do not have the financial means to do so. She basically thinks I did not prioritize her. \n\nSo at 9PM, she called me and demanded me to be up in Norcal in the morning or else she will break-up with me. With that threat, I decided to ignore her phone calls. I don't know what to do or how to respond to her if she calls me again. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my girlfriend of 3.5 years and we have been in a long distance relationship for less than 2 weeks. I live in Socal and she lives in Norcal. It takes me 4 to 5 hours to drive to see her. \n\nThis weekend, I was suppose to drive up north to see her. However on Friday morning, she called me and told me not to go up there because of the bad weather conditions and I will go up the next weekend. \n\nWith my weekend plans scrap, I decided to go to San Diego from LA to visit my friend who I have not seen for some time. I told her later in the day about it and she gets angry because I did not buy a plane ticket to go see her. I do not have the financial means to do so. She basically thinks I did not prioritize her. \n\nSo at 9PM, she called me and demanded me to be up in Norcal in the morning or else she will break-up with me. With that threat, I decided to ignore her phone calls. I don't know what to do or how to respond to her if she calls me again. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my girlfriend of 3.5 years and we have been in a long distance relationship for less than 2 weeks. I live in Socal and she lives in Norcal. It takes me 4 to 5 hours to drive to see her. \n\nThis weekend, I was suppose to drive up north to see her. However on Friday morning, she called me and told me not to go up there because of the bad weather conditions and I will go up the next weekend. \n\nWith my weekend plans scrap, I decided to go to San Diego from LA to visit my friend who I have not seen for some time. I told her later in the day about it and she gets angry because I did not buy a plane ticket to go see her. I do not have the financial means to do so. She basically thinks I did not prioritize her. \n\nSo at 9PM, she called me and demanded me to be up in Norcal in the morning or else she will break-up with me. With that threat, I decided to ignore her phone calls. I don't know what to do or how to respond to her if she calls me again. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I have been with my girlfriend of 3.5 years and we have been in a long distance relationship for less than 2 weeks. I live in Socal and she lives in Norcal. It takes me 4 to 5 hours to drive to see her. \n\nThis weekend, I was suppose to drive up north to see her. However on Friday morning, she called me and told me not to go up there because of the bad weather conditions and I will go up the next weekend. \n\nWith my weekend plans scrap, I decided to go to San Diego from LA to visit my friend who I have not seen for some time. I told her later in the day about it and she gets angry because I did not buy a plane ticket to go see her. I do not have the financial means to do so. She basically thinks I did not prioritize her. \n\nSo at 9PM, she called me and demanded me to be up in Norcal in the morning or else she will break-up with me. With that threat, I decided to ignore her phone calls. I don't know what to do or how to respond to her if she calls me again. What should I do?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My best friend and I have been involved romantically for over a year now. He treats me extremely well and we get along great. Due to certain circumstances he moved out of his apartment and is living with me. At first we were sharing my bed were he was extremely cuddly. Tells me he loves me all the time (drink or sober), teases me like you would a gf (butt pinching, tickling, etc) and have frequent sex. I like him and love where we are but would like for him to vocalize how he feels soccer we never talk about it. I confronted him for a third time and was told I have more feelings than him. (So he's sleeping on the couch) Am I naive? Is he pushing me away because I am getting too close? He is a very reserved guy when it comes to himself. I know more about him then anyone. I'm getting frustrated. Any advice or insight?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My best friend and I have been involved romantically for over a year now. He treats me extremely well and we get along great. Due to certain circumstances he moved out of his apartment and is living with me. At first we were sharing my bed were he was extremely cuddly. Tells me he loves me all the time (drink or sober), teases me like you would a gf (butt pinching, tickling, etc) and have frequent sex. I like him and love where we are but would like for him to vocalize how he feels soccer we never talk about it. I confronted him for a third time and was told I have more feelings than him. (So he's sleeping on the couch) Am I naive? Is he pushing me away because I am getting too close? He is a very reserved guy when it comes to himself. I know more about him then anyone. I'm getting frustrated. Any advice or insight?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My best friend and I have been involved romantically for over a year now. He treats me extremely well and we get along great. Due to certain circumstances he moved out of his apartment and is living with me. At first we were sharing my bed were he was extremely cuddly. Tells me he loves me all the time (drink or sober), teases me like you would a gf (butt pinching, tickling, etc) and have frequent sex. I like him and love where we are but would like for him to vocalize how he feels soccer we never talk about it. I confronted him for a third time and was told I have more feelings than him. (So he's sleeping on the couch) Am I naive? Is he pushing me away because I am getting too close? He is a very reserved guy when it comes to himself. I know more about him then anyone. I'm getting frustrated. Any advice or insight?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My best friend and I have been involved romantically for over a year now. He treats me extremely well and we get along great. Due to certain circumstances he moved out of his apartment and is living with me. At first we were sharing my bed were he was extremely cuddly. Tells me he loves me all the time (drink or sober), teases me like you would a gf (butt pinching, tickling, etc) and have frequent sex. I like him and love where we are but would like for him to vocalize how he feels soccer we never talk about it. I confronted him for a third time and was told I have more feelings than him. (So he's sleeping on the couch) Am I naive? Is he pushing me away because I am getting too close? He is a very reserved guy when it comes to himself. I know more about him then anyone. I'm getting frustrated. Any advice or insight?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My best friend and I have been involved romantically for over a year now. He treats me extremely well and we get along great. Due to certain circumstances he moved out of his apartment and is living with me. At first we were sharing my bed were he was extremely cuddly. Tells me he loves me all the time (drink or sober), teases me like you would a gf (butt pinching, tickling, etc) and have frequent sex. I like him and love where we are but would like for him to vocalize how he feels soccer we never talk about it. I confronted him for a third time and was told I have more feelings than him. (So he's sleeping on the couch) Am I naive? Is he pushing me away because I am getting too close? He is a very reserved guy when it comes to himself. I know more about him then anyone. I'm getting frustrated. Any advice or insight?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My best friend and I have been involved romantically for over a year now. He treats me extremely well and we get along great. Due to certain circumstances he moved out of his apartment and is living with me. At first we were sharing my bed were he was extremely cuddly. Tells me he loves me all the time (drink or sober), teases me like you would a gf (butt pinching, tickling, etc) and have frequent sex. I like him and love where we are but would like for him to vocalize how he feels soccer we never talk about it. I confronted him for a third time and was told I have more feelings than him. (So he's sleeping on the couch) Am I naive? Is he pushing me away because I am getting too close? He is a very reserved guy when it comes to himself. I know more about him then anyone. I'm getting frustrated. Any advice or insight?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my best friend James have been very close for a few years, and about 6 months ago met Liam at a festival. \n\nLiam is best friends with another one of my close friends, hence how we were introduced. James and I got along really well with Liam whilst at the festival, and so continued to see him afterwards with other friends, or just the three of us.\n\nSoon after James and Liam met, James began messaging Liam on Facebook a lot. It was enough for me to notice and I, someone who doesn't use Facebook much and prefers face to face interaction, was slightly nervous that Liam might grow closer to James through the more frequent interactions.\n\nI sucked it up, had a few nice conversations with Liam myself, and felt happy that Liam didn't noticeably like James more than me.\n\nHowever another problem has recently arisen, that Liam lives really far away from me, yet quite near James. This allows for James to arrange for them to just quickly see each other without me, something that's not usually done within our inclusive circle of friends.\n\nI don't know what to do. My biggest fear is that eventually, Liam will just see me as \"James' friend\", and I really would love some way where I can keep up with them and have us as a group of 3 friends, as opposed to them as a couple.\n\nPlease help! Any advice welcome thank you :)\n\nI am not normally jealous but I hate this feeling of being left out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my best friend James have been very close for a few years, and about 6 months ago met Liam at a festival. \n\nLiam is best friends with another one of my close friends, hence how we were introduced. James and I got along really well with Liam whilst at the festival, and so continued to see him afterwards with other friends, or just the three of us.\n\nSoon after James and Liam met, James began messaging Liam on Facebook a lot. It was enough for me to notice and I, someone who doesn't use Facebook much and prefers face to face interaction, was slightly nervous that Liam might grow closer to James through the more frequent interactions.\n\nI sucked it up, had a few nice conversations with Liam myself, and felt happy that Liam didn't noticeably like James more than me.\n\nHowever another problem has recently arisen, that Liam lives really far away from me, yet quite near James. This allows for James to arrange for them to just quickly see each other without me, something that's not usually done within our inclusive circle of friends.\n\nI don't know what to do. My biggest fear is that eventually, Liam will just see me as \"James' friend\", and I really would love some way where I can keep up with them and have us as a group of 3 friends, as opposed to them as a couple.\n\nPlease help! Any advice welcome thank you :)\n\nI am not normally jealous but I hate this feeling of being left out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my best friend James have been very close for a few years, and about 6 months ago met Liam at a festival. \n\nLiam is best friends with another one of my close friends, hence how we were introduced. James and I got along really well with Liam whilst at the festival, and so continued to see him afterwards with other friends, or just the three of us.\n\nSoon after James and Liam met, James began messaging Liam on Facebook a lot. It was enough for me to notice and I, someone who doesn't use Facebook much and prefers face to face interaction, was slightly nervous that Liam might grow closer to James through the more frequent interactions.\n\nI sucked it up, had a few nice conversations with Liam myself, and felt happy that Liam didn't noticeably like James more than me.\n\nHowever another problem has recently arisen, that Liam lives really far away from me, yet quite near James. This allows for James to arrange for them to just quickly see each other without me, something that's not usually done within our inclusive circle of friends.\n\nI don't know what to do. My biggest fear is that eventually, Liam will just see me as \"James' friend\", and I really would love some way where I can keep up with them and have us as a group of 3 friends, as opposed to them as a couple.\n\nPlease help! Any advice welcome thank you :)\n\nI am not normally jealous but I hate this feeling of being left out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my best friend James have been very close for a few years, and about 6 months ago met Liam at a festival. \n\nLiam is best friends with another one of my close friends, hence how we were introduced. James and I got along really well with Liam whilst at the festival, and so continued to see him afterwards with other friends, or just the three of us.\n\nSoon after James and Liam met, James began messaging Liam on Facebook a lot. It was enough for me to notice and I, someone who doesn't use Facebook much and prefers face to face interaction, was slightly nervous that Liam might grow closer to James through the more frequent interactions.\n\nI sucked it up, had a few nice conversations with Liam myself, and felt happy that Liam didn't noticeably like James more than me.\n\nHowever another problem has recently arisen, that Liam lives really far away from me, yet quite near James. This allows for James to arrange for them to just quickly see each other without me, something that's not usually done within our inclusive circle of friends.\n\nI don't know what to do. My biggest fear is that eventually, Liam will just see me as \"James' friend\", and I really would love some way where I can keep up with them and have us as a group of 3 friends, as opposed to them as a couple.\n\nPlease help! Any advice welcome thank you :)\n\nI am not normally jealous but I hate this feeling of being left out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my best friend James have been very close for a few years, and about 6 months ago met Liam at a festival. \n\nLiam is best friends with another one of my close friends, hence how we were introduced. James and I got along really well with Liam whilst at the festival, and so continued to see him afterwards with other friends, or just the three of us.\n\nSoon after James and Liam met, James began messaging Liam on Facebook a lot. It was enough for me to notice and I, someone who doesn't use Facebook much and prefers face to face interaction, was slightly nervous that Liam might grow closer to James through the more frequent interactions.\n\nI sucked it up, had a few nice conversations with Liam myself, and felt happy that Liam didn't noticeably like James more than me.\n\nHowever another problem has recently arisen, that Liam lives really far away from me, yet quite near James. This allows for James to arrange for them to just quickly see each other without me, something that's not usually done within our inclusive circle of friends.\n\nI don't know what to do. My biggest fear is that eventually, Liam will just see me as \"James' friend\", and I really would love some way where I can keep up with them and have us as a group of 3 friends, as opposed to them as a couple.\n\nPlease help! Any advice welcome thank you :)\n\nI am not normally jealous but I hate this feeling of being left out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Me and my best friend James have been very close for a few years, and about 6 months ago met Liam at a festival. \n\nLiam is best friends with another one of my close friends, hence how we were introduced. James and I got along really well with Liam whilst at the festival, and so continued to see him afterwards with other friends, or just the three of us.\n\nSoon after James and Liam met, James began messaging Liam on Facebook a lot. It was enough for me to notice and I, someone who doesn't use Facebook much and prefers face to face interaction, was slightly nervous that Liam might grow closer to James through the more frequent interactions.\n\nI sucked it up, had a few nice conversations with Liam myself, and felt happy that Liam didn't noticeably like James more than me.\n\nHowever another problem has recently arisen, that Liam lives really far away from me, yet quite near James. This allows for James to arrange for them to just quickly see each other without me, something that's not usually done within our inclusive circle of friends.\n\nI don't know what to do. My biggest fear is that eventually, Liam will just see me as \"James' friend\", and I really would love some way where I can keep up with them and have us as a group of 3 friends, as opposed to them as a couple.\n\nPlease help! Any advice welcome thank you :)\n\nI am not normally jealous but I hate this feeling of being left out."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: We're both in the process of divorce, after many years of marriage. I've been dating for over a year, and her just recently and only with me and one other person.\n\nWe started dating, and she let me know she was seeing someone occasionally, who lives a few hundred miles away. She visits maybe once a month. At first, I figured we were just dating, and I wasn't exclusive with her either. But after a few weeks it became more than that and she even said she'd be jealous if I were seeing someone else. I told her I wouldn't anymore, and that she satisfies me in every way.\n\nSo a couple weeks ago she told me she was heading out of town to see her FB. I kind of lost it and told her I wasn't OK with it. She got all teary and said she didn't want this to end. I agreed to think about it, but that it would hurt me. She chose to go anyways, knowing it would hurt me. So when she came back I called it off. She totally understood, but was sad about losing me, and the door is still open to start something up again.\n\nThe problem is that the sex is epic and we've both agreed there's more to it even than just that. We were both surprised with how natural and easy it's been. I'm more in a place of wanting to find someone to have a LTR, while I think she needs to shop it around a bit, or at least not be tied down. So should I make a clean break, and get out? Should I try out having an open relationship? Should I give her a few months/year and let her figure out what exactly she wants?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: We're both in the process of divorce, after many years of marriage. I've been dating for over a year, and her just recently and only with me and one other person.\n\nWe started dating, and she let me know she was seeing someone occasionally, who lives a few hundred miles away. She visits maybe once a month. At first, I figured we were just dating, and I wasn't exclusive with her either. But after a few weeks it became more than that and she even said she'd be jealous if I were seeing someone else. I told her I wouldn't anymore, and that she satisfies me in every way.\n\nSo a couple weeks ago she told me she was heading out of town to see her FB. I kind of lost it and told her I wasn't OK with it. She got all teary and said she didn't want this to end. I agreed to think about it, but that it would hurt me. She chose to go anyways, knowing it would hurt me. So when she came back I called it off. She totally understood, but was sad about losing me, and the door is still open to start something up again.\n\nThe problem is that the sex is epic and we've both agreed there's more to it even than just that. We were both surprised with how natural and easy it's been. I'm more in a place of wanting to find someone to have a LTR, while I think she needs to shop it around a bit, or at least not be tied down. So should I make a clean break, and get out? Should I try out having an open relationship? Should I give her a few months/year and let her figure out what exactly she wants?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: We're both in the process of divorce, after many years of marriage. I've been dating for over a year, and her just recently and only with me and one other person.\n\nWe started dating, and she let me know she was seeing someone occasionally, who lives a few hundred miles away. She visits maybe once a month. At first, I figured we were just dating, and I wasn't exclusive with her either. But after a few weeks it became more than that and she even said she'd be jealous if I were seeing someone else. I told her I wouldn't anymore, and that she satisfies me in every way.\n\nSo a couple weeks ago she told me she was heading out of town to see her FB. I kind of lost it and told her I wasn't OK with it. She got all teary and said she didn't want this to end. I agreed to think about it, but that it would hurt me. She chose to go anyways, knowing it would hurt me. So when she came back I called it off. She totally understood, but was sad about losing me, and the door is still open to start something up again.\n\nThe problem is that the sex is epic and we've both agreed there's more to it even than just that. We were both surprised with how natural and easy it's been. I'm more in a place of wanting to find someone to have a LTR, while I think she needs to shop it around a bit, or at least not be tied down. So should I make a clean break, and get out? Should I try out having an open relationship? Should I give her a few months/year and let her figure out what exactly she wants?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, for starters, I'm a recent college grad living with my girlfriend (both women) and my friend and coworker. My coworker/roommate is a super cool guy, and he enjoys partaking in various drugs (weed, molly, shrooms, etc) which I have no problem with.\n\nMy roommate had a couple of friends over the other day, a couple, Jenn and Mark. Jenn and Mark were there to hang out with Jay (roommate). So we're all in my roommates room except for Jay, who is in the bathroom. Jenn and I are talking and laughing and she says she used to want to be a comedian and still does. I noticed before on a previous visit that she uses the term \"Jew\" as if it's a derogatory slang word. I didn't think much of it other than it was sort of rude to use a word like that still, and just sort of moved on. Jenn doesn't know I'm Jewish.\n\nSo, Jay is in the bathroom and Mark and Jenn start talking about how crazy Jenn's mom is. Jenn starts talking about a comic she drew of her mom, and how she drew her mom as a \"Jew with a Jewfro\" and how in the comic, she branded her mom with a \"Jew mark.\" I just sort of stopped talking and let her continue, and she didn't notice my discomfort. I left the room later.\n\nI talked to Jay and told him what was said when he was in the bathroom and he didn't seem to take it that seriously. He said he doesn't hang with them much and that they're juggalos (not sure why that's relevant) and stuff. It bothered me that he didn't take it seriously. I get that he's not religious, but being a Jew sometimes goes a little bit beyond religion (I even look pretty Jewish, and so does my family). My girlfriend is not religious and she was furious about this.\n\nWhat do I do next? I'm worried about having her in my house, but it's his house too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, for starters, I'm a recent college grad living with my girlfriend (both women) and my friend and coworker. My coworker/roommate is a super cool guy, and he enjoys partaking in various drugs (weed, molly, shrooms, etc) which I have no problem with.\n\nMy roommate had a couple of friends over the other day, a couple, Jenn and Mark. Jenn and Mark were there to hang out with Jay (roommate). So we're all in my roommates room except for Jay, who is in the bathroom. Jenn and I are talking and laughing and she says she used to want to be a comedian and still does. I noticed before on a previous visit that she uses the term \"Jew\" as if it's a derogatory slang word. I didn't think much of it other than it was sort of rude to use a word like that still, and just sort of moved on. Jenn doesn't know I'm Jewish.\n\nSo, Jay is in the bathroom and Mark and Jenn start talking about how crazy Jenn's mom is. Jenn starts talking about a comic she drew of her mom, and how she drew her mom as a \"Jew with a Jewfro\" and how in the comic, she branded her mom with a \"Jew mark.\" I just sort of stopped talking and let her continue, and she didn't notice my discomfort. I left the room later.\n\nI talked to Jay and told him what was said when he was in the bathroom and he didn't seem to take it that seriously. He said he doesn't hang with them much and that they're juggalos (not sure why that's relevant) and stuff. It bothered me that he didn't take it seriously. I get that he's not religious, but being a Jew sometimes goes a little bit beyond religion (I even look pretty Jewish, and so does my family). My girlfriend is not religious and she was furious about this.\n\nWhat do I do next? I'm worried about having her in my house, but it's his house too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, for starters, I'm a recent college grad living with my girlfriend (both women) and my friend and coworker. My coworker/roommate is a super cool guy, and he enjoys partaking in various drugs (weed, molly, shrooms, etc) which I have no problem with.\n\nMy roommate had a couple of friends over the other day, a couple, Jenn and Mark. Jenn and Mark were there to hang out with Jay (roommate). So we're all in my roommates room except for Jay, who is in the bathroom. Jenn and I are talking and laughing and she says she used to want to be a comedian and still does. I noticed before on a previous visit that she uses the term \"Jew\" as if it's a derogatory slang word. I didn't think much of it other than it was sort of rude to use a word like that still, and just sort of moved on. Jenn doesn't know I'm Jewish.\n\nSo, Jay is in the bathroom and Mark and Jenn start talking about how crazy Jenn's mom is. Jenn starts talking about a comic she drew of her mom, and how she drew her mom as a \"Jew with a Jewfro\" and how in the comic, she branded her mom with a \"Jew mark.\" I just sort of stopped talking and let her continue, and she didn't notice my discomfort. I left the room later.\n\nI talked to Jay and told him what was said when he was in the bathroom and he didn't seem to take it that seriously. He said he doesn't hang with them much and that they're juggalos (not sure why that's relevant) and stuff. It bothered me that he didn't take it seriously. I get that he's not religious, but being a Jew sometimes goes a little bit beyond religion (I even look pretty Jewish, and so does my family). My girlfriend is not religious and she was furious about this.\n\nWhat do I do next? I'm worried about having her in my house, but it's his house too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, for starters, I'm a recent college grad living with my girlfriend (both women) and my friend and coworker. My coworker/roommate is a super cool guy, and he enjoys partaking in various drugs (weed, molly, shrooms, etc) which I have no problem with.\n\nMy roommate had a couple of friends over the other day, a couple, Jenn and Mark. Jenn and Mark were there to hang out with Jay (roommate). So we're all in my roommates room except for Jay, who is in the bathroom. Jenn and I are talking and laughing and she says she used to want to be a comedian and still does. I noticed before on a previous visit that she uses the term \"Jew\" as if it's a derogatory slang word. I didn't think much of it other than it was sort of rude to use a word like that still, and just sort of moved on. Jenn doesn't know I'm Jewish.\n\nSo, Jay is in the bathroom and Mark and Jenn start talking about how crazy Jenn's mom is. Jenn starts talking about a comic she drew of her mom, and how she drew her mom as a \"Jew with a Jewfro\" and how in the comic, she branded her mom with a \"Jew mark.\" I just sort of stopped talking and let her continue, and she didn't notice my discomfort. I left the room later.\n\nI talked to Jay and told him what was said when he was in the bathroom and he didn't seem to take it that seriously. He said he doesn't hang with them much and that they're juggalos (not sure why that's relevant) and stuff. It bothered me that he didn't take it seriously. I get that he's not religious, but being a Jew sometimes goes a little bit beyond religion (I even look pretty Jewish, and so does my family). My girlfriend is not religious and she was furious about this.\n\nWhat do I do next? I'm worried about having her in my house, but it's his house too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, for starters, I'm a recent college grad living with my girlfriend (both women) and my friend and coworker. My coworker/roommate is a super cool guy, and he enjoys partaking in various drugs (weed, molly, shrooms, etc) which I have no problem with.\n\nMy roommate had a couple of friends over the other day, a couple, Jenn and Mark. Jenn and Mark were there to hang out with Jay (roommate). So we're all in my roommates room except for Jay, who is in the bathroom. Jenn and I are talking and laughing and she says she used to want to be a comedian and still does. I noticed before on a previous visit that she uses the term \"Jew\" as if it's a derogatory slang word. I didn't think much of it other than it was sort of rude to use a word like that still, and just sort of moved on. Jenn doesn't know I'm Jewish.\n\nSo, Jay is in the bathroom and Mark and Jenn start talking about how crazy Jenn's mom is. Jenn starts talking about a comic she drew of her mom, and how she drew her mom as a \"Jew with a Jewfro\" and how in the comic, she branded her mom with a \"Jew mark.\" I just sort of stopped talking and let her continue, and she didn't notice my discomfort. I left the room later.\n\nI talked to Jay and told him what was said when he was in the bathroom and he didn't seem to take it that seriously. He said he doesn't hang with them much and that they're juggalos (not sure why that's relevant) and stuff. It bothered me that he didn't take it seriously. I get that he's not religious, but being a Jew sometimes goes a little bit beyond religion (I even look pretty Jewish, and so does my family). My girlfriend is not religious and she was furious about this.\n\nWhat do I do next? I'm worried about having her in my house, but it's his house too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, for starters, I'm a recent college grad living with my girlfriend (both women) and my friend and coworker. My coworker/roommate is a super cool guy, and he enjoys partaking in various drugs (weed, molly, shrooms, etc) which I have no problem with.\n\nMy roommate had a couple of friends over the other day, a couple, Jenn and Mark. Jenn and Mark were there to hang out with Jay (roommate). So we're all in my roommates room except for Jay, who is in the bathroom. Jenn and I are talking and laughing and she says she used to want to be a comedian and still does. I noticed before on a previous visit that she uses the term \"Jew\" as if it's a derogatory slang word. I didn't think much of it other than it was sort of rude to use a word like that still, and just sort of moved on. Jenn doesn't know I'm Jewish.\n\nSo, Jay is in the bathroom and Mark and Jenn start talking about how crazy Jenn's mom is. Jenn starts talking about a comic she drew of her mom, and how she drew her mom as a \"Jew with a Jewfro\" and how in the comic, she branded her mom with a \"Jew mark.\" I just sort of stopped talking and let her continue, and she didn't notice my discomfort. I left the room later.\n\nI talked to Jay and told him what was said when he was in the bathroom and he didn't seem to take it that seriously. He said he doesn't hang with them much and that they're juggalos (not sure why that's relevant) and stuff. It bothered me that he didn't take it seriously. I get that he's not religious, but being a Jew sometimes goes a little bit beyond religion (I even look pretty Jewish, and so does my family). My girlfriend is not religious and she was furious about this.\n\nWhat do I do next? I'm worried about having her in my house, but it's his house too."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I made a throwaway account as my girlfriend knows my Username. I have been dating my current girlfriend for over a year now and we have hit a point in our relationship where we are thinking seriously about taking our next steps. She is dying for kids (her biological clock started ticking when she was born lol) and I want to be married before kids. She would love to be married as well. I love her so much and she loves me back. The problem is I still cant stop thinking of my ex. I was with her for 6 months and she dumped me nearly two years ago. We never even had sex but I had never felt love like that before. I know that as my first real love she will always be special to me but whenever I think about moving on with my current GF thoughts of my ex make me freeze up. I know there is no chance of anything ever happening with me and my ex ever again and I am scared that ill wind up ruining my current relationship because of my hesitation. What can I do to stop thinking of my ex and allow myself to move on with my life?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I made a throwaway account as my girlfriend knows my Username. I have been dating my current girlfriend for over a year now and we have hit a point in our relationship where we are thinking seriously about taking our next steps. She is dying for kids (her biological clock started ticking when she was born lol) and I want to be married before kids. She would love to be married as well. I love her so much and she loves me back. The problem is I still cant stop thinking of my ex. I was with her for 6 months and she dumped me nearly two years ago. We never even had sex but I had never felt love like that before. I know that as my first real love she will always be special to me but whenever I think about moving on with my current GF thoughts of my ex make me freeze up. I know there is no chance of anything ever happening with me and my ex ever again and I am scared that ill wind up ruining my current relationship because of my hesitation. What can I do to stop thinking of my ex and allow myself to move on with my life?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I made a throwaway account as my girlfriend knows my Username. I have been dating my current girlfriend for over a year now and we have hit a point in our relationship where we are thinking seriously about taking our next steps. She is dying for kids (her biological clock started ticking when she was born lol) and I want to be married before kids. She would love to be married as well. I love her so much and she loves me back. The problem is I still cant stop thinking of my ex. I was with her for 6 months and she dumped me nearly two years ago. We never even had sex but I had never felt love like that before. I know that as my first real love she will always be special to me but whenever I think about moving on with my current GF thoughts of my ex make me freeze up. I know there is no chance of anything ever happening with me and my ex ever again and I am scared that ill wind up ruining my current relationship because of my hesitation. What can I do to stop thinking of my ex and allow myself to move on with my life?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I made a throwaway account as my girlfriend knows my Username. I have been dating my current girlfriend for over a year now and we have hit a point in our relationship where we are thinking seriously about taking our next steps. She is dying for kids (her biological clock started ticking when she was born lol) and I want to be married before kids. She would love to be married as well. I love her so much and she loves me back. The problem is I still cant stop thinking of my ex. I was with her for 6 months and she dumped me nearly two years ago. We never even had sex but I had never felt love like that before. I know that as my first real love she will always be special to me but whenever I think about moving on with my current GF thoughts of my ex make me freeze up. I know there is no chance of anything ever happening with me and my ex ever again and I am scared that ill wind up ruining my current relationship because of my hesitation. What can I do to stop thinking of my ex and allow myself to move on with my life?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I made a throwaway account as my girlfriend knows my Username. I have been dating my current girlfriend for over a year now and we have hit a point in our relationship where we are thinking seriously about taking our next steps. She is dying for kids (her biological clock started ticking when she was born lol) and I want to be married before kids. She would love to be married as well. I love her so much and she loves me back. The problem is I still cant stop thinking of my ex. I was with her for 6 months and she dumped me nearly two years ago. We never even had sex but I had never felt love like that before. I know that as my first real love she will always be special to me but whenever I think about moving on with my current GF thoughts of my ex make me freeze up. I know there is no chance of anything ever happening with me and my ex ever again and I am scared that ill wind up ruining my current relationship because of my hesitation. What can I do to stop thinking of my ex and allow myself to move on with my life?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I made a throwaway account as my girlfriend knows my Username. I have been dating my current girlfriend for over a year now and we have hit a point in our relationship where we are thinking seriously about taking our next steps. She is dying for kids (her biological clock started ticking when she was born lol) and I want to be married before kids. She would love to be married as well. I love her so much and she loves me back. The problem is I still cant stop thinking of my ex. I was with her for 6 months and she dumped me nearly two years ago. We never even had sex but I had never felt love like that before. I know that as my first real love she will always be special to me but whenever I think about moving on with my current GF thoughts of my ex make me freeze up. I know there is no chance of anything ever happening with me and my ex ever again and I am scared that ill wind up ruining my current relationship because of my hesitation. What can I do to stop thinking of my ex and allow myself to move on with my life?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll go first. I was in the 5th grade, and a girl asked me out over Yahoo! Messanger. She said that lots of guys were after her and that I have to hurry with my decision; I said yes. The relationship went well for the first few days until she got a little too comfortable. \n\nShe kept slapping me in the face because that was her idea of playing/flirting. I told her to stop but as a kid, she didn't. I got tired of it and broke up with her. Ironically, she slapped me and stormed away. She started telling everyone that she broke up with me because I was ugly and kept slapping her.wow. All the girls at recess kept chasing me everyday and beating the living fuck out of me.\n\nLater on, she tried to make me jealous by going out with my best friend and hugging him when I came around. She even wrote poems about me and read them to the class; \"AculticFly is so ugly, he looks like the grinch. Blah, blah, blah.\" I didn't show any interest, so she cut my with a rusty bobby-pin then forced a hug on me, on the last day of school."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'll go first. I was in the 5th grade, and a girl asked me out over Yahoo! Messanger. She said that lots of guys were after her and that I have to hurry with my decision; I said yes. The relationship went well for the first few days until she got a little too comfortable. \n\nShe kept slapping me in the face because that was her idea of playing/flirting. I told her to stop but as a kid, she didn't. I got tired of it and broke up with her. Ironically, she slapped me and stormed away. She started telling everyone that she broke up with me because I was ugly and kept slapping her.wow. All the girls at recess kept chasing me everyday and beating the living fuck out of me.\n\nLater on, she tried to make me jealous by going out with my best friend and hugging him when I came around. She even wrote poems about me and read them to the class; \"AculticFly is so ugly, he looks like the grinch. Blah, blah, blah.\" I didn't show any interest, so she cut my with a rusty bobby-pin then forced a hug on me, on the last day of school."
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