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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know, the hubris. But really my case is a bit different (I'm sure everyone thinks that but it's unique from what I've seen and who I've talked to).\n\nI want to see if my university will let me pay in state tuition instead of international tuition. I've already done my first two years here and paid in state fees because my immigrant status allowed me to do so. That will change soon and according to the policies that my college has in place right now, I will no longer qualify for in state tuition.\n\nI think I should qualify for in state tuition because I've been living for well over a decade and the only reason I'm being screwed over is because of the immigration process. There are other reasons too but I can explain these in the email.\n\n*I am already expecting a no but it's worth a try anyway.* Who do I email? I'm thinking the Dean but I'm not too sure. Would the office of the registrar also be a good choice? Who would have the most influence over something like this? Do I email just one person or should I reach out to multiple people?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know, the hubris. But really my case is a bit different (I'm sure everyone thinks that but it's unique from what I've seen and who I've talked to).\n\nI want to see if my university will let me pay in state tuition instead of international tuition. I've already done my first two years here and paid in state fees because my immigrant status allowed me to do so. That will change soon and according to the policies that my college has in place right now, I will no longer qualify for in state tuition.\n\nI think I should qualify for in state tuition because I've been living for well over a decade and the only reason I'm being screwed over is because of the immigration process. There are other reasons too but I can explain these in the email.\n\n*I am already expecting a no but it's worth a try anyway.* Who do I email? I'm thinking the Dean but I'm not too sure. Would the office of the registrar also be a good choice? Who would have the most influence over something like this? Do I email just one person or should I reach out to multiple people?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know, the hubris. But really my case is a bit different (I'm sure everyone thinks that but it's unique from what I've seen and who I've talked to).\n\nI want to see if my university will let me pay in state tuition instead of international tuition. I've already done my first two years here and paid in state fees because my immigrant status allowed me to do so. That will change soon and according to the policies that my college has in place right now, I will no longer qualify for in state tuition.\n\nI think I should qualify for in state tuition because I've been living for well over a decade and the only reason I'm being screwed over is because of the immigration process. There are other reasons too but I can explain these in the email.\n\n*I am already expecting a no but it's worth a try anyway.* Who do I email? I'm thinking the Dean but I'm not too sure. Would the office of the registrar also be a good choice? Who would have the most influence over something like this? Do I email just one person or should I reach out to multiple people?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know, the hubris. But really my case is a bit different (I'm sure everyone thinks that but it's unique from what I've seen and who I've talked to).\n\nI want to see if my university will let me pay in state tuition instead of international tuition. I've already done my first two years here and paid in state fees because my immigrant status allowed me to do so. That will change soon and according to the policies that my college has in place right now, I will no longer qualify for in state tuition.\n\nI think I should qualify for in state tuition because I've been living for well over a decade and the only reason I'm being screwed over is because of the immigration process. There are other reasons too but I can explain these in the email.\n\n*I am already expecting a no but it's worth a try anyway.* Who do I email? I'm thinking the Dean but I'm not too sure. Would the office of the registrar also be a good choice? Who would have the most influence over something like this? Do I email just one person or should I reach out to multiple people?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I haven't talked to many other males who have had this issue so I am wondering if I am alone in this.\n\nI was broken up with a couple months ago by the girl I thought was going to be \"the one\". Every reason she gave me for leaving was a reason I had already hated about myself (I'm boring, I have no money [in my defense I am in grad school and work], she wasn't attracted to me anymore, etc). It was the first time I had cried in a long time and I wasn't able to stop for days.\n\nThis is where it starts getting odd. The only thing she didn't dislike about me was my performance in bed. So I did as any guy would do, I drank a lot had sex with her and any other female that was interested. Now I just don't want to. It isn't the meaninglessness of life or the meaningless of sex but I feel like I am being used.\n\nReasonably, I am now emotionally guarded as the rejection is still resonating in my head. I have dated since and am finding myself with women who I am not comfortable with personally but just want to have sex with me.\n\nI don't have any friends that really can relate to this and I feel that there is a social pressure for me to just deal with it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I haven't talked to many other males who have had this issue so I am wondering if I am alone in this.\n\nI was broken up with a couple months ago by the girl I thought was going to be \"the one\". Every reason she gave me for leaving was a reason I had already hated about myself (I'm boring, I have no money [in my defense I am in grad school and work], she wasn't attracted to me anymore, etc). It was the first time I had cried in a long time and I wasn't able to stop for days.\n\nThis is where it starts getting odd. The only thing she didn't dislike about me was my performance in bed. So I did as any guy would do, I drank a lot had sex with her and any other female that was interested. Now I just don't want to. It isn't the meaninglessness of life or the meaningless of sex but I feel like I am being used.\n\nReasonably, I am now emotionally guarded as the rejection is still resonating in my head. I have dated since and am finding myself with women who I am not comfortable with personally but just want to have sex with me.\n\nI don't have any friends that really can relate to this and I feel that there is a social pressure for me to just deal with it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I haven't talked to many other males who have had this issue so I am wondering if I am alone in this.\n\nI was broken up with a couple months ago by the girl I thought was going to be \"the one\". Every reason she gave me for leaving was a reason I had already hated about myself (I'm boring, I have no money [in my defense I am in grad school and work], she wasn't attracted to me anymore, etc). It was the first time I had cried in a long time and I wasn't able to stop for days.\n\nThis is where it starts getting odd. The only thing she didn't dislike about me was my performance in bed. So I did as any guy would do, I drank a lot had sex with her and any other female that was interested. Now I just don't want to. It isn't the meaninglessness of life or the meaningless of sex but I feel like I am being used.\n\nReasonably, I am now emotionally guarded as the rejection is still resonating in my head. I have dated since and am finding myself with women who I am not comfortable with personally but just want to have sex with me.\n\nI don't have any friends that really can relate to this and I feel that there is a social pressure for me to just deal with it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I haven't talked to many other males who have had this issue so I am wondering if I am alone in this.\n\nI was broken up with a couple months ago by the girl I thought was going to be \"the one\". Every reason she gave me for leaving was a reason I had already hated about myself (I'm boring, I have no money [in my defense I am in grad school and work], she wasn't attracted to me anymore, etc). It was the first time I had cried in a long time and I wasn't able to stop for days.\n\nThis is where it starts getting odd. The only thing she didn't dislike about me was my performance in bed. So I did as any guy would do, I drank a lot had sex with her and any other female that was interested. Now I just don't want to. It isn't the meaninglessness of life or the meaningless of sex but I feel like I am being used.\n\nReasonably, I am now emotionally guarded as the rejection is still resonating in my head. I have dated since and am finding myself with women who I am not comfortable with personally but just want to have sex with me.\n\nI don't have any friends that really can relate to this and I feel that there is a social pressure for me to just deal with it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I haven't talked to many other males who have had this issue so I am wondering if I am alone in this.\n\nI was broken up with a couple months ago by the girl I thought was going to be \"the one\". Every reason she gave me for leaving was a reason I had already hated about myself (I'm boring, I have no money [in my defense I am in grad school and work], she wasn't attracted to me anymore, etc). It was the first time I had cried in a long time and I wasn't able to stop for days.\n\nThis is where it starts getting odd. The only thing she didn't dislike about me was my performance in bed. So I did as any guy would do, I drank a lot had sex with her and any other female that was interested. Now I just don't want to. It isn't the meaninglessness of life or the meaningless of sex but I feel like I am being used.\n\nReasonably, I am now emotionally guarded as the rejection is still resonating in my head. I have dated since and am finding myself with women who I am not comfortable with personally but just want to have sex with me.\n\nI don't have any friends that really can relate to this and I feel that there is a social pressure for me to just deal with it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I haven't talked to many other males who have had this issue so I am wondering if I am alone in this.\n\nI was broken up with a couple months ago by the girl I thought was going to be \"the one\". Every reason she gave me for leaving was a reason I had already hated about myself (I'm boring, I have no money [in my defense I am in grad school and work], she wasn't attracted to me anymore, etc). It was the first time I had cried in a long time and I wasn't able to stop for days.\n\nThis is where it starts getting odd. The only thing she didn't dislike about me was my performance in bed. So I did as any guy would do, I drank a lot had sex with her and any other female that was interested. Now I just don't want to. It isn't the meaninglessness of life or the meaningless of sex but I feel like I am being used.\n\nReasonably, I am now emotionally guarded as the rejection is still resonating in my head. I have dated since and am finding myself with women who I am not comfortable with personally but just want to have sex with me.\n\nI don't have any friends that really can relate to this and I feel that there is a social pressure for me to just deal with it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mom's been an alcoholic for 3 years. Last year she was sober for 6 months but me and her moved to Oregon at the beginning of the summer and it was fine but she relapsed, and hasn't been able to stay sober longer than about 2 weeks tops before she buys bottle after bottle of tequila. Every time I end up having to call an ambulance to take her to the hospital, every time she says she's not going to drink anymore(i understand alcoholics say this but it's my mom and i can't help but have a little hope every time that it was the last time). This time around, she's drinking non stop with 2 tequila bottles with her at the moment. She refuses to go to the hospital or let me call an ambulance(she agreed the other times), and she's really sick. Last time she relapsed she had a heart attack. I can't do this anymore, i can't watch her kill herself and i have no where to go so it's not like i can leave, and i wouldn't anyway because she's not capable of taking care of herself right now. I threaten to tell my brother that she's drinking(she listens to him the most) so she'll stop or at least go to the hospital but she just wont listen. What do I do? call an ambulance anyway? tell my brother so he will talk to her? she said she wouldnt forgive me if i told him but i dont care anymore because it's gotten too bad now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mom's been an alcoholic for 3 years. Last year she was sober for 6 months but me and her moved to Oregon at the beginning of the summer and it was fine but she relapsed, and hasn't been able to stay sober longer than about 2 weeks tops before she buys bottle after bottle of tequila. Every time I end up having to call an ambulance to take her to the hospital, every time she says she's not going to drink anymore(i understand alcoholics say this but it's my mom and i can't help but have a little hope every time that it was the last time). This time around, she's drinking non stop with 2 tequila bottles with her at the moment. She refuses to go to the hospital or let me call an ambulance(she agreed the other times), and she's really sick. Last time she relapsed she had a heart attack. I can't do this anymore, i can't watch her kill herself and i have no where to go so it's not like i can leave, and i wouldn't anyway because she's not capable of taking care of herself right now. I threaten to tell my brother that she's drinking(she listens to him the most) so she'll stop or at least go to the hospital but she just wont listen. What do I do? call an ambulance anyway? tell my brother so he will talk to her? she said she wouldnt forgive me if i told him but i dont care anymore because it's gotten too bad now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mom's been an alcoholic for 3 years. Last year she was sober for 6 months but me and her moved to Oregon at the beginning of the summer and it was fine but she relapsed, and hasn't been able to stay sober longer than about 2 weeks tops before she buys bottle after bottle of tequila. Every time I end up having to call an ambulance to take her to the hospital, every time she says she's not going to drink anymore(i understand alcoholics say this but it's my mom and i can't help but have a little hope every time that it was the last time). This time around, she's drinking non stop with 2 tequila bottles with her at the moment. She refuses to go to the hospital or let me call an ambulance(she agreed the other times), and she's really sick. Last time she relapsed she had a heart attack. I can't do this anymore, i can't watch her kill herself and i have no where to go so it's not like i can leave, and i wouldn't anyway because she's not capable of taking care of herself right now. I threaten to tell my brother that she's drinking(she listens to him the most) so she'll stop or at least go to the hospital but she just wont listen. What do I do? call an ambulance anyway? tell my brother so he will talk to her? she said she wouldnt forgive me if i told him but i dont care anymore because it's gotten too bad now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mom's been an alcoholic for 3 years. Last year she was sober for 6 months but me and her moved to Oregon at the beginning of the summer and it was fine but she relapsed, and hasn't been able to stay sober longer than about 2 weeks tops before she buys bottle after bottle of tequila. Every time I end up having to call an ambulance to take her to the hospital, every time she says she's not going to drink anymore(i understand alcoholics say this but it's my mom and i can't help but have a little hope every time that it was the last time). This time around, she's drinking non stop with 2 tequila bottles with her at the moment. She refuses to go to the hospital or let me call an ambulance(she agreed the other times), and she's really sick. Last time she relapsed she had a heart attack. I can't do this anymore, i can't watch her kill herself and i have no where to go so it's not like i can leave, and i wouldn't anyway because she's not capable of taking care of herself right now. I threaten to tell my brother that she's drinking(she listens to him the most) so she'll stop or at least go to the hospital but she just wont listen. What do I do? call an ambulance anyway? tell my brother so he will talk to her? she said she wouldnt forgive me if i told him but i dont care anymore because it's gotten too bad now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mom's been an alcoholic for 3 years. Last year she was sober for 6 months but me and her moved to Oregon at the beginning of the summer and it was fine but she relapsed, and hasn't been able to stay sober longer than about 2 weeks tops before she buys bottle after bottle of tequila. Every time I end up having to call an ambulance to take her to the hospital, every time she says she's not going to drink anymore(i understand alcoholics say this but it's my mom and i can't help but have a little hope every time that it was the last time). This time around, she's drinking non stop with 2 tequila bottles with her at the moment. She refuses to go to the hospital or let me call an ambulance(she agreed the other times), and she's really sick. Last time she relapsed she had a heart attack. I can't do this anymore, i can't watch her kill herself and i have no where to go so it's not like i can leave, and i wouldn't anyway because she's not capable of taking care of herself right now. I threaten to tell my brother that she's drinking(she listens to him the most) so she'll stop or at least go to the hospital but she just wont listen. What do I do? call an ambulance anyway? tell my brother so he will talk to her? she said she wouldnt forgive me if i told him but i dont care anymore because it's gotten too bad now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My mom's been an alcoholic for 3 years. Last year she was sober for 6 months but me and her moved to Oregon at the beginning of the summer and it was fine but she relapsed, and hasn't been able to stay sober longer than about 2 weeks tops before she buys bottle after bottle of tequila. Every time I end up having to call an ambulance to take her to the hospital, every time she says she's not going to drink anymore(i understand alcoholics say this but it's my mom and i can't help but have a little hope every time that it was the last time). This time around, she's drinking non stop with 2 tequila bottles with her at the moment. She refuses to go to the hospital or let me call an ambulance(she agreed the other times), and she's really sick. Last time she relapsed she had a heart attack. I can't do this anymore, i can't watch her kill herself and i have no where to go so it's not like i can leave, and i wouldn't anyway because she's not capable of taking care of herself right now. I threaten to tell my brother that she's drinking(she listens to him the most) so she'll stop or at least go to the hospital but she just wont listen. What do I do? call an ambulance anyway? tell my brother so he will talk to her? she said she wouldnt forgive me if i told him but i dont care anymore because it's gotten too bad now."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: she's been working at a shitty job for years now and hates the idea that she's working outside of her intended field where she got her bachelor degree.\n\nWhen she first mentioned the idea, I said it would be awful but I support her. As the night went on I don't know how to feel about everything.\n\nShe's in a slump and is impatient and wants to run away thinking her dream (junior position) job can be found somewhere else with barely any effort to look here. With a bachelor's she can't do much and I can't comprehend how it's worth it leave a person behind like that to find a job that isn't even a serious position. It's not fair yo her, but I told her I would never be able to do something like that myself because people are more important to me than some job."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: she's been working at a shitty job for years now and hates the idea that she's working outside of her intended field where she got her bachelor degree.\n\nWhen she first mentioned the idea, I said it would be awful but I support her. As the night went on I don't know how to feel about everything.\n\nShe's in a slump and is impatient and wants to run away thinking her dream (junior position) job can be found somewhere else with barely any effort to look here. With a bachelor's she can't do much and I can't comprehend how it's worth it leave a person behind like that to find a job that isn't even a serious position. It's not fair yo her, but I told her I would never be able to do something like that myself because people are more important to me than some job."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: she's been working at a shitty job for years now and hates the idea that she's working outside of her intended field where she got her bachelor degree.\n\nWhen she first mentioned the idea, I said it would be awful but I support her. As the night went on I don't know how to feel about everything.\n\nShe's in a slump and is impatient and wants to run away thinking her dream (junior position) job can be found somewhere else with barely any effort to look here. With a bachelor's she can't do much and I can't comprehend how it's worth it leave a person behind like that to find a job that isn't even a serious position. It's not fair yo her, but I told her I would never be able to do something like that myself because people are more important to me than some job."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: she's been working at a shitty job for years now and hates the idea that she's working outside of her intended field where she got her bachelor degree.\n\nWhen she first mentioned the idea, I said it would be awful but I support her. As the night went on I don't know how to feel about everything.\n\nShe's in a slump and is impatient and wants to run away thinking her dream (junior position) job can be found somewhere else with barely any effort to look here. With a bachelor's she can't do much and I can't comprehend how it's worth it leave a person behind like that to find a job that isn't even a serious position. It's not fair yo her, but I told her I would never be able to do something like that myself because people are more important to me than some job."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: she's been working at a shitty job for years now and hates the idea that she's working outside of her intended field where she got her bachelor degree.\n\nWhen she first mentioned the idea, I said it would be awful but I support her. As the night went on I don't know how to feel about everything.\n\nShe's in a slump and is impatient and wants to run away thinking her dream (junior position) job can be found somewhere else with barely any effort to look here. With a bachelor's she can't do much and I can't comprehend how it's worth it leave a person behind like that to find a job that isn't even a serious position. It's not fair yo her, but I told her I would never be able to do something like that myself because people are more important to me than some job."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Background: she's been working at a shitty job for years now and hates the idea that she's working outside of her intended field where she got her bachelor degree.\n\nWhen she first mentioned the idea, I said it would be awful but I support her. As the night went on I don't know how to feel about everything.\n\nShe's in a slump and is impatient and wants to run away thinking her dream (junior position) job can be found somewhere else with barely any effort to look here. With a bachelor's she can't do much and I can't comprehend how it's worth it leave a person behind like that to find a job that isn't even a serious position. It's not fair yo her, but I told her I would never be able to do something like that myself because people are more important to me than some job."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm [33 m] in a very long term relationship with my gf [32 f] (almost 13 years), sex is below average IMO (roughly once a fortnight and it's quite vanilla) and would like to change that if possible?\n\nMy problem is my gf is very shy and embarrassed about sex, I find it difficult to talk to her about things as I get very little back from her.\n\nFor example, I ask her if she has any fantasies, she says she doesn't. Ask her what her favourite position is, she doesn't have one etc etc.\n\nI'm really not sure how to help her get over her embarrassment, is it even possible?\n\nI'm quite adventurous with a high sex drive, she's the opposite. In an ideal world I'd like her to be the same as I am, however I know this isn't going to happen. I'd just like her to show a bit more interest in things.\n\nWe have two children (one almost five, the other just recently turned one), these problems have been going on before the children were born however I'm aware that having the children will have affected her in some way. She's on birth control (a rod in her arm) which I believe is part of the reason for her low sex drive. \n\nIn all the time we've been together I can't recall her initiating sex, she might have but it's that infrequent I struggle to remember it. She seems to enjoy sex when we have it although I find it a bit lacklustre.\n\nApologies if this isn't the place for this or if it's a bit rambly.\n\nShe's not religious in any way, she doesn't and has never masturbated (I seem to remember she said she's never done it because her mum told her it was dirty/wrong when she was younger)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm [33 m] in a very long term relationship with my gf [32 f] (almost 13 years), sex is below average IMO (roughly once a fortnight and it's quite vanilla) and would like to change that if possible?\n\nMy problem is my gf is very shy and embarrassed about sex, I find it difficult to talk to her about things as I get very little back from her.\n\nFor example, I ask her if she has any fantasies, she says she doesn't. Ask her what her favourite position is, she doesn't have one etc etc.\n\nI'm really not sure how to help her get over her embarrassment, is it even possible?\n\nI'm quite adventurous with a high sex drive, she's the opposite. In an ideal world I'd like her to be the same as I am, however I know this isn't going to happen. I'd just like her to show a bit more interest in things.\n\nWe have two children (one almost five, the other just recently turned one), these problems have been going on before the children were born however I'm aware that having the children will have affected her in some way. She's on birth control (a rod in her arm) which I believe is part of the reason for her low sex drive. \n\nIn all the time we've been together I can't recall her initiating sex, she might have but it's that infrequent I struggle to remember it. She seems to enjoy sex when we have it although I find it a bit lacklustre.\n\nApologies if this isn't the place for this or if it's a bit rambly.\n\nShe's not religious in any way, she doesn't and has never masturbated (I seem to remember she said she's never done it because her mum told her it was dirty/wrong when she was younger)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm [33 m] in a very long term relationship with my gf [32 f] (almost 13 years), sex is below average IMO (roughly once a fortnight and it's quite vanilla) and would like to change that if possible?\n\nMy problem is my gf is very shy and embarrassed about sex, I find it difficult to talk to her about things as I get very little back from her.\n\nFor example, I ask her if she has any fantasies, she says she doesn't. Ask her what her favourite position is, she doesn't have one etc etc.\n\nI'm really not sure how to help her get over her embarrassment, is it even possible?\n\nI'm quite adventurous with a high sex drive, she's the opposite. In an ideal world I'd like her to be the same as I am, however I know this isn't going to happen. I'd just like her to show a bit more interest in things.\n\nWe have two children (one almost five, the other just recently turned one), these problems have been going on before the children were born however I'm aware that having the children will have affected her in some way. She's on birth control (a rod in her arm) which I believe is part of the reason for her low sex drive. \n\nIn all the time we've been together I can't recall her initiating sex, she might have but it's that infrequent I struggle to remember it. She seems to enjoy sex when we have it although I find it a bit lacklustre.\n\nApologies if this isn't the place for this or if it's a bit rambly.\n\nShe's not religious in any way, she doesn't and has never masturbated (I seem to remember she said she's never done it because her mum told her it was dirty/wrong when she was younger)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm [33 m] in a very long term relationship with my gf [32 f] (almost 13 years), sex is below average IMO (roughly once a fortnight and it's quite vanilla) and would like to change that if possible?\n\nMy problem is my gf is very shy and embarrassed about sex, I find it difficult to talk to her about things as I get very little back from her.\n\nFor example, I ask her if she has any fantasies, she says she doesn't. Ask her what her favourite position is, she doesn't have one etc etc.\n\nI'm really not sure how to help her get over her embarrassment, is it even possible?\n\nI'm quite adventurous with a high sex drive, she's the opposite. In an ideal world I'd like her to be the same as I am, however I know this isn't going to happen. I'd just like her to show a bit more interest in things.\n\nWe have two children (one almost five, the other just recently turned one), these problems have been going on before the children were born however I'm aware that having the children will have affected her in some way. She's on birth control (a rod in her arm) which I believe is part of the reason for her low sex drive. \n\nIn all the time we've been together I can't recall her initiating sex, she might have but it's that infrequent I struggle to remember it. She seems to enjoy sex when we have it although I find it a bit lacklustre.\n\nApologies if this isn't the place for this or if it's a bit rambly.\n\nShe's not religious in any way, she doesn't and has never masturbated (I seem to remember she said she's never done it because her mum told her it was dirty/wrong when she was younger)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm [33 m] in a very long term relationship with my gf [32 f] (almost 13 years), sex is below average IMO (roughly once a fortnight and it's quite vanilla) and would like to change that if possible?\n\nMy problem is my gf is very shy and embarrassed about sex, I find it difficult to talk to her about things as I get very little back from her.\n\nFor example, I ask her if she has any fantasies, she says she doesn't. Ask her what her favourite position is, she doesn't have one etc etc.\n\nI'm really not sure how to help her get over her embarrassment, is it even possible?\n\nI'm quite adventurous with a high sex drive, she's the opposite. In an ideal world I'd like her to be the same as I am, however I know this isn't going to happen. I'd just like her to show a bit more interest in things.\n\nWe have two children (one almost five, the other just recently turned one), these problems have been going on before the children were born however I'm aware that having the children will have affected her in some way. She's on birth control (a rod in her arm) which I believe is part of the reason for her low sex drive. \n\nIn all the time we've been together I can't recall her initiating sex, she might have but it's that infrequent I struggle to remember it. She seems to enjoy sex when we have it although I find it a bit lacklustre.\n\nApologies if this isn't the place for this or if it's a bit rambly.\n\nShe's not religious in any way, she doesn't and has never masturbated (I seem to remember she said she's never done it because her mum told her it was dirty/wrong when she was younger)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I'm [33 m] in a very long term relationship with my gf [32 f] (almost 13 years), sex is below average IMO (roughly once a fortnight and it's quite vanilla) and would like to change that if possible?\n\nMy problem is my gf is very shy and embarrassed about sex, I find it difficult to talk to her about things as I get very little back from her.\n\nFor example, I ask her if she has any fantasies, she says she doesn't. Ask her what her favourite position is, she doesn't have one etc etc.\n\nI'm really not sure how to help her get over her embarrassment, is it even possible?\n\nI'm quite adventurous with a high sex drive, she's the opposite. In an ideal world I'd like her to be the same as I am, however I know this isn't going to happen. I'd just like her to show a bit more interest in things.\n\nWe have two children (one almost five, the other just recently turned one), these problems have been going on before the children were born however I'm aware that having the children will have affected her in some way. She's on birth control (a rod in her arm) which I believe is part of the reason for her low sex drive. \n\nIn all the time we've been together I can't recall her initiating sex, she might have but it's that infrequent I struggle to remember it. She seems to enjoy sex when we have it although I find it a bit lacklustre.\n\nApologies if this isn't the place for this or if it's a bit rambly.\n\nShe's not religious in any way, she doesn't and has never masturbated (I seem to remember she said she's never done it because her mum told her it was dirty/wrong when she was younger)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The other day my girlfriend was busy and I asked to borrow her car in order to pick up some friends who were drinking and could not drive. After picking them up and backing out of the driveway in order to avoid an oncoming car I pulled forward and the front left tire went into a muddy gully/ditch leaving me stuck. An off duty cop soon drove by, asked if I was alright and called the cops. I spoke to the cop who had arrived about my situation and he was understanding and gave a self-filing report for the incident telling me I could fill that however I wanted. I planned on paying for the little damaged I caused outright with check or cash. What I was wondering is if have to file the report? Do they have records of the incident and are expecting the report?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The other day my girlfriend was busy and I asked to borrow her car in order to pick up some friends who were drinking and could not drive. After picking them up and backing out of the driveway in order to avoid an oncoming car I pulled forward and the front left tire went into a muddy gully/ditch leaving me stuck. An off duty cop soon drove by, asked if I was alright and called the cops. I spoke to the cop who had arrived about my situation and he was understanding and gave a self-filing report for the incident telling me I could fill that however I wanted. I planned on paying for the little damaged I caused outright with check or cash. What I was wondering is if have to file the report? Do they have records of the incident and are expecting the report?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The other day my girlfriend was busy and I asked to borrow her car in order to pick up some friends who were drinking and could not drive. After picking them up and backing out of the driveway in order to avoid an oncoming car I pulled forward and the front left tire went into a muddy gully/ditch leaving me stuck. An off duty cop soon drove by, asked if I was alright and called the cops. I spoke to the cop who had arrived about my situation and he was understanding and gave a self-filing report for the incident telling me I could fill that however I wanted. I planned on paying for the little damaged I caused outright with check or cash. What I was wondering is if have to file the report? Do they have records of the incident and are expecting the report?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The other day my girlfriend was busy and I asked to borrow her car in order to pick up some friends who were drinking and could not drive. After picking them up and backing out of the driveway in order to avoid an oncoming car I pulled forward and the front left tire went into a muddy gully/ditch leaving me stuck. An off duty cop soon drove by, asked if I was alright and called the cops. I spoke to the cop who had arrived about my situation and he was understanding and gave a self-filing report for the incident telling me I could fill that however I wanted. I planned on paying for the little damaged I caused outright with check or cash. What I was wondering is if have to file the report? Do they have records of the incident and are expecting the report?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The other day my girlfriend was busy and I asked to borrow her car in order to pick up some friends who were drinking and could not drive. After picking them up and backing out of the driveway in order to avoid an oncoming car I pulled forward and the front left tire went into a muddy gully/ditch leaving me stuck. An off duty cop soon drove by, asked if I was alright and called the cops. I spoke to the cop who had arrived about my situation and he was understanding and gave a self-filing report for the incident telling me I could fill that however I wanted. I planned on paying for the little damaged I caused outright with check or cash. What I was wondering is if have to file the report? Do they have records of the incident and are expecting the report?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: The other day my girlfriend was busy and I asked to borrow her car in order to pick up some friends who were drinking and could not drive. After picking them up and backing out of the driveway in order to avoid an oncoming car I pulled forward and the front left tire went into a muddy gully/ditch leaving me stuck. An off duty cop soon drove by, asked if I was alright and called the cops. I spoke to the cop who had arrived about my situation and he was understanding and gave a self-filing report for the incident telling me I could fill that however I wanted. I planned on paying for the little damaged I caused outright with check or cash. What I was wondering is if have to file the report? Do they have records of the incident and are expecting the report?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Very very long story short,\n\nMy SO got hired about a year ago at this shitty job (seems like an awesome career choice though) and the person leaving tried to warn her extremely vaguely on how terrible these people are. Her trainer quit as soon as she was hired and put her two weeks notice in.\n\nSo anyway. She's the only person in the entire company who can do her position, and they usually have two people in this position, but they refuse to hire a second. And this causes her to fall behind when they get really busy, and they get VERY angry.\n\nWell they harass her pretty much daily. They've told her she was fucking stupid, called her an idiot, screamed at her for pretty much everything under the sun. In January they pretty much forced her into a corner after they fucked up, and blamed it on her (the boss lives across the country), and made her sign a resignation letter. They found a new person, who sucked but saw how fantastic she was with a second set of hands. They asked her to stay and pleaded with her, promising to hire a second person. They never did, and now it's getting worse again.\n\nI told her to not resign even if forced, but to let them fire her and to keep doing her job. Because, if she doesn't find a new position by that time, she could at least collect unemployment.\n\nWe leave in Pennsylvania if that helps, does anyone have any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Very very long story short,\n\nMy SO got hired about a year ago at this shitty job (seems like an awesome career choice though) and the person leaving tried to warn her extremely vaguely on how terrible these people are. Her trainer quit as soon as she was hired and put her two weeks notice in.\n\nSo anyway. She's the only person in the entire company who can do her position, and they usually have two people in this position, but they refuse to hire a second. And this causes her to fall behind when they get really busy, and they get VERY angry.\n\nWell they harass her pretty much daily. They've told her she was fucking stupid, called her an idiot, screamed at her for pretty much everything under the sun. In January they pretty much forced her into a corner after they fucked up, and blamed it on her (the boss lives across the country), and made her sign a resignation letter. They found a new person, who sucked but saw how fantastic she was with a second set of hands. They asked her to stay and pleaded with her, promising to hire a second person. They never did, and now it's getting worse again.\n\nI told her to not resign even if forced, but to let them fire her and to keep doing her job. Because, if she doesn't find a new position by that time, she could at least collect unemployment.\n\nWe leave in Pennsylvania if that helps, does anyone have any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Very very long story short,\n\nMy SO got hired about a year ago at this shitty job (seems like an awesome career choice though) and the person leaving tried to warn her extremely vaguely on how terrible these people are. Her trainer quit as soon as she was hired and put her two weeks notice in.\n\nSo anyway. She's the only person in the entire company who can do her position, and they usually have two people in this position, but they refuse to hire a second. And this causes her to fall behind when they get really busy, and they get VERY angry.\n\nWell they harass her pretty much daily. They've told her she was fucking stupid, called her an idiot, screamed at her for pretty much everything under the sun. In January they pretty much forced her into a corner after they fucked up, and blamed it on her (the boss lives across the country), and made her sign a resignation letter. They found a new person, who sucked but saw how fantastic she was with a second set of hands. They asked her to stay and pleaded with her, promising to hire a second person. They never did, and now it's getting worse again.\n\nI told her to not resign even if forced, but to let them fire her and to keep doing her job. Because, if she doesn't find a new position by that time, she could at least collect unemployment.\n\nWe leave in Pennsylvania if that helps, does anyone have any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Very very long story short,\n\nMy SO got hired about a year ago at this shitty job (seems like an awesome career choice though) and the person leaving tried to warn her extremely vaguely on how terrible these people are. Her trainer quit as soon as she was hired and put her two weeks notice in.\n\nSo anyway. She's the only person in the entire company who can do her position, and they usually have two people in this position, but they refuse to hire a second. And this causes her to fall behind when they get really busy, and they get VERY angry.\n\nWell they harass her pretty much daily. They've told her she was fucking stupid, called her an idiot, screamed at her for pretty much everything under the sun. In January they pretty much forced her into a corner after they fucked up, and blamed it on her (the boss lives across the country), and made her sign a resignation letter. They found a new person, who sucked but saw how fantastic she was with a second set of hands. They asked her to stay and pleaded with her, promising to hire a second person. They never did, and now it's getting worse again.\n\nI told her to not resign even if forced, but to let them fire her and to keep doing her job. Because, if she doesn't find a new position by that time, she could at least collect unemployment.\n\nWe leave in Pennsylvania if that helps, does anyone have any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Very very long story short,\n\nMy SO got hired about a year ago at this shitty job (seems like an awesome career choice though) and the person leaving tried to warn her extremely vaguely on how terrible these people are. Her trainer quit as soon as she was hired and put her two weeks notice in.\n\nSo anyway. She's the only person in the entire company who can do her position, and they usually have two people in this position, but they refuse to hire a second. And this causes her to fall behind when they get really busy, and they get VERY angry.\n\nWell they harass her pretty much daily. They've told her she was fucking stupid, called her an idiot, screamed at her for pretty much everything under the sun. In January they pretty much forced her into a corner after they fucked up, and blamed it on her (the boss lives across the country), and made her sign a resignation letter. They found a new person, who sucked but saw how fantastic she was with a second set of hands. They asked her to stay and pleaded with her, promising to hire a second person. They never did, and now it's getting worse again.\n\nI told her to not resign even if forced, but to let them fire her and to keep doing her job. Because, if she doesn't find a new position by that time, she could at least collect unemployment.\n\nWe leave in Pennsylvania if that helps, does anyone have any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Very very long story short,\n\nMy SO got hired about a year ago at this shitty job (seems like an awesome career choice though) and the person leaving tried to warn her extremely vaguely on how terrible these people are. Her trainer quit as soon as she was hired and put her two weeks notice in.\n\nSo anyway. She's the only person in the entire company who can do her position, and they usually have two people in this position, but they refuse to hire a second. And this causes her to fall behind when they get really busy, and they get VERY angry.\n\nWell they harass her pretty much daily. They've told her she was fucking stupid, called her an idiot, screamed at her for pretty much everything under the sun. In January they pretty much forced her into a corner after they fucked up, and blamed it on her (the boss lives across the country), and made her sign a resignation letter. They found a new person, who sucked but saw how fantastic she was with a second set of hands. They asked her to stay and pleaded with her, promising to hire a second person. They never did, and now it's getting worse again.\n\nI told her to not resign even if forced, but to let them fire her and to keep doing her job. Because, if she doesn't find a new position by that time, she could at least collect unemployment.\n\nWe leave in Pennsylvania if that helps, does anyone have any suggestions?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this fuck up happened a little while ago and I'm still in shock about how much of an idiot I am. \n\nSo it was my birthday this month and as part of my birthday I decided to treat myself to a new 3DS XL and a couple of games. \n\nI get it through the post and over the next few days I'm glued to the thing, I play it whenever I'm not doing anything else, including when I'm on the toilet. So I took it into work, I figured when on my lunch, or on the toilet (nothing beats a poop on company time) then I could play it. \n\nI'm at work when nature calls, I decide to take my handheld with me, I'll crunch out a little progress on pokemon. (I'm a grown man but god damn is it addictive and oh so fun)\nSo I'm making my buisness and enjoying my game all the while and I'm having so much fun playing that I lose track of time, I catch the clock in game and panic, I wonder if my boss has noticed I've been on the toilet for 45 minutes! \n\nI get up without thinking and way too quick, not only do I get a massive head rush and feel super faint but my legs are asleep and I come crashing down like a felled tree in a tiny work bathroom cubicle. \n\nI was lucky nobody else was using the bathroom at the time and no serious damage was done but I did have a few oddly placed bruises to come up with an excuse for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this fuck up happened a little while ago and I'm still in shock about how much of an idiot I am. \n\nSo it was my birthday this month and as part of my birthday I decided to treat myself to a new 3DS XL and a couple of games. \n\nI get it through the post and over the next few days I'm glued to the thing, I play it whenever I'm not doing anything else, including when I'm on the toilet. So I took it into work, I figured when on my lunch, or on the toilet (nothing beats a poop on company time) then I could play it. \n\nI'm at work when nature calls, I decide to take my handheld with me, I'll crunch out a little progress on pokemon. (I'm a grown man but god damn is it addictive and oh so fun)\nSo I'm making my buisness and enjoying my game all the while and I'm having so much fun playing that I lose track of time, I catch the clock in game and panic, I wonder if my boss has noticed I've been on the toilet for 45 minutes! \n\nI get up without thinking and way too quick, not only do I get a massive head rush and feel super faint but my legs are asleep and I come crashing down like a felled tree in a tiny work bathroom cubicle. \n\nI was lucky nobody else was using the bathroom at the time and no serious damage was done but I did have a few oddly placed bruises to come up with an excuse for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this fuck up happened a little while ago and I'm still in shock about how much of an idiot I am. \n\nSo it was my birthday this month and as part of my birthday I decided to treat myself to a new 3DS XL and a couple of games. \n\nI get it through the post and over the next few days I'm glued to the thing, I play it whenever I'm not doing anything else, including when I'm on the toilet. So I took it into work, I figured when on my lunch, or on the toilet (nothing beats a poop on company time) then I could play it. \n\nI'm at work when nature calls, I decide to take my handheld with me, I'll crunch out a little progress on pokemon. (I'm a grown man but god damn is it addictive and oh so fun)\nSo I'm making my buisness and enjoying my game all the while and I'm having so much fun playing that I lose track of time, I catch the clock in game and panic, I wonder if my boss has noticed I've been on the toilet for 45 minutes! \n\nI get up without thinking and way too quick, not only do I get a massive head rush and feel super faint but my legs are asleep and I come crashing down like a felled tree in a tiny work bathroom cubicle. \n\nI was lucky nobody else was using the bathroom at the time and no serious damage was done but I did have a few oddly placed bruises to come up with an excuse for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this fuck up happened a little while ago and I'm still in shock about how much of an idiot I am. \n\nSo it was my birthday this month and as part of my birthday I decided to treat myself to a new 3DS XL and a couple of games. \n\nI get it through the post and over the next few days I'm glued to the thing, I play it whenever I'm not doing anything else, including when I'm on the toilet. So I took it into work, I figured when on my lunch, or on the toilet (nothing beats a poop on company time) then I could play it. \n\nI'm at work when nature calls, I decide to take my handheld with me, I'll crunch out a little progress on pokemon. (I'm a grown man but god damn is it addictive and oh so fun)\nSo I'm making my buisness and enjoying my game all the while and I'm having so much fun playing that I lose track of time, I catch the clock in game and panic, I wonder if my boss has noticed I've been on the toilet for 45 minutes! \n\nI get up without thinking and way too quick, not only do I get a massive head rush and feel super faint but my legs are asleep and I come crashing down like a felled tree in a tiny work bathroom cubicle. \n\nI was lucky nobody else was using the bathroom at the time and no serious damage was done but I did have a few oddly placed bruises to come up with an excuse for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So this fuck up happened a little while ago and I'm still in shock about how much of an idiot I am. \n\nSo it was my birthday this month and as part of my birthday I decided to treat myself to a new 3DS XL and a couple of games. \n\nI get it through the post and over the next few days I'm glued to the thing, I play it whenever I'm not doing anything else, including when I'm on the toilet. So I took it into work, I figured when on my lunch, or on the toilet (nothing beats a poop on company time) then I could play it. \n\nI'm at work when nature calls, I decide to take my handheld with me, I'll crunch out a little progress on pokemon. (I'm a grown man but god damn is it addictive and oh so fun)\nSo I'm making my buisness and enjoying my game all the while and I'm having so much fun playing that I lose track of time, I catch the clock in game and panic, I wonder if my boss has noticed I've been on the toilet for 45 minutes! \n\nI get up without thinking and way too quick, not only do I get a massive head rush and feel super faint but my legs are asleep and I come crashing down like a felled tree in a tiny work bathroom cubicle. \n\nI was lucky nobody else was using the bathroom at the time and no serious damage was done but I did have a few oddly placed bruises to come up with an excuse for."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: withing the past few days, i had received information from an old friend, that my current GF had cheated on me with another much older friend a few months ago.l This information was, shaky, at best, but irregardless I took seriously and wanted to do a little digging. Well last night, while my S/O was sleeping, i went through her text messages and found some mildly incriminating information. There were no blatant discussions about previous events, nor any talk of betrayal or hatred of me. there was however quite a few \"i love you\" messages here and there for the past few weeks. I regret now not being able to check the dates and to see how far back it went, but considering how much she texts others, it couldn't have been more than a month (while the event as told to me happened much earlier this year) I have made absolutely no moves, no hints, no nothing. last time something like this happened i flew off the handle (Words were said, absolutely no striking or hitting of absolutely any kind) and this time i want a much more calm and collected approach. He will be coming back from the military in a few weeks and will be staying for a month, that's when i will be doing most of my \"sleuthing\" and digging. Again, as slow as i can take it, for i have no true concrete evidence so i don't want this blowing up in my face. She has exhibited none of the \"signs of cheating\" that many will show, as a person she hasn't changed much recently, nor had she started any changes if she indeed had been physical back in the past. I hope this is coherent, and i hope i catch all spelling and grammar errors before i submit. i'm currently shaking with rage ATM because i no longer have to keep up a facade since i'm at work (US security guard post). Any help comments or advice greatly appreciated, i will be on for the next 7 hours."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: withing the past few days, i had received information from an old friend, that my current GF had cheated on me with another much older friend a few months ago.l This information was, shaky, at best, but irregardless I took seriously and wanted to do a little digging. Well last night, while my S/O was sleeping, i went through her text messages and found some mildly incriminating information. There were no blatant discussions about previous events, nor any talk of betrayal or hatred of me. there was however quite a few \"i love you\" messages here and there for the past few weeks. I regret now not being able to check the dates and to see how far back it went, but considering how much she texts others, it couldn't have been more than a month (while the event as told to me happened much earlier this year) I have made absolutely no moves, no hints, no nothing. last time something like this happened i flew off the handle (Words were said, absolutely no striking or hitting of absolutely any kind) and this time i want a much more calm and collected approach. He will be coming back from the military in a few weeks and will be staying for a month, that's when i will be doing most of my \"sleuthing\" and digging. Again, as slow as i can take it, for i have no true concrete evidence so i don't want this blowing up in my face. She has exhibited none of the \"signs of cheating\" that many will show, as a person she hasn't changed much recently, nor had she started any changes if she indeed had been physical back in the past. I hope this is coherent, and i hope i catch all spelling and grammar errors before i submit. i'm currently shaking with rage ATM because i no longer have to keep up a facade since i'm at work (US security guard post). Any help comments or advice greatly appreciated, i will be on for the next 7 hours."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: withing the past few days, i had received information from an old friend, that my current GF had cheated on me with another much older friend a few months ago.l This information was, shaky, at best, but irregardless I took seriously and wanted to do a little digging. Well last night, while my S/O was sleeping, i went through her text messages and found some mildly incriminating information. There were no blatant discussions about previous events, nor any talk of betrayal or hatred of me. there was however quite a few \"i love you\" messages here and there for the past few weeks. I regret now not being able to check the dates and to see how far back it went, but considering how much she texts others, it couldn't have been more than a month (while the event as told to me happened much earlier this year) I have made absolutely no moves, no hints, no nothing. last time something like this happened i flew off the handle (Words were said, absolutely no striking or hitting of absolutely any kind) and this time i want a much more calm and collected approach. He will be coming back from the military in a few weeks and will be staying for a month, that's when i will be doing most of my \"sleuthing\" and digging. Again, as slow as i can take it, for i have no true concrete evidence so i don't want this blowing up in my face. She has exhibited none of the \"signs of cheating\" that many will show, as a person she hasn't changed much recently, nor had she started any changes if she indeed had been physical back in the past. I hope this is coherent, and i hope i catch all spelling and grammar errors before i submit. i'm currently shaking with rage ATM because i no longer have to keep up a facade since i'm at work (US security guard post). Any help comments or advice greatly appreciated, i will be on for the next 7 hours."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: withing the past few days, i had received information from an old friend, that my current GF had cheated on me with another much older friend a few months ago.l This information was, shaky, at best, but irregardless I took seriously and wanted to do a little digging. Well last night, while my S/O was sleeping, i went through her text messages and found some mildly incriminating information. There were no blatant discussions about previous events, nor any talk of betrayal or hatred of me. there was however quite a few \"i love you\" messages here and there for the past few weeks. I regret now not being able to check the dates and to see how far back it went, but considering how much she texts others, it couldn't have been more than a month (while the event as told to me happened much earlier this year) I have made absolutely no moves, no hints, no nothing. last time something like this happened i flew off the handle (Words were said, absolutely no striking or hitting of absolutely any kind) and this time i want a much more calm and collected approach. He will be coming back from the military in a few weeks and will be staying for a month, that's when i will be doing most of my \"sleuthing\" and digging. Again, as slow as i can take it, for i have no true concrete evidence so i don't want this blowing up in my face. She has exhibited none of the \"signs of cheating\" that many will show, as a person she hasn't changed much recently, nor had she started any changes if she indeed had been physical back in the past. I hope this is coherent, and i hope i catch all spelling and grammar errors before i submit. i'm currently shaking with rage ATM because i no longer have to keep up a facade since i'm at work (US security guard post). Any help comments or advice greatly appreciated, i will be on for the next 7 hours."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: withing the past few days, i had received information from an old friend, that my current GF had cheated on me with another much older friend a few months ago.l This information was, shaky, at best, but irregardless I took seriously and wanted to do a little digging. Well last night, while my S/O was sleeping, i went through her text messages and found some mildly incriminating information. There were no blatant discussions about previous events, nor any talk of betrayal or hatred of me. there was however quite a few \"i love you\" messages here and there for the past few weeks. I regret now not being able to check the dates and to see how far back it went, but considering how much she texts others, it couldn't have been more than a month (while the event as told to me happened much earlier this year) I have made absolutely no moves, no hints, no nothing. last time something like this happened i flew off the handle (Words were said, absolutely no striking or hitting of absolutely any kind) and this time i want a much more calm and collected approach. He will be coming back from the military in a few weeks and will be staying for a month, that's when i will be doing most of my \"sleuthing\" and digging. Again, as slow as i can take it, for i have no true concrete evidence so i don't want this blowing up in my face. She has exhibited none of the \"signs of cheating\" that many will show, as a person she hasn't changed much recently, nor had she started any changes if she indeed had been physical back in the past. I hope this is coherent, and i hope i catch all spelling and grammar errors before i submit. i'm currently shaking with rage ATM because i no longer have to keep up a facade since i'm at work (US security guard post). Any help comments or advice greatly appreciated, i will be on for the next 7 hours."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: withing the past few days, i had received information from an old friend, that my current GF had cheated on me with another much older friend a few months ago.l This information was, shaky, at best, but irregardless I took seriously and wanted to do a little digging. Well last night, while my S/O was sleeping, i went through her text messages and found some mildly incriminating information. There were no blatant discussions about previous events, nor any talk of betrayal or hatred of me. there was however quite a few \"i love you\" messages here and there for the past few weeks. I regret now not being able to check the dates and to see how far back it went, but considering how much she texts others, it couldn't have been more than a month (while the event as told to me happened much earlier this year) I have made absolutely no moves, no hints, no nothing. last time something like this happened i flew off the handle (Words were said, absolutely no striking or hitting of absolutely any kind) and this time i want a much more calm and collected approach. He will be coming back from the military in a few weeks and will be staying for a month, that's when i will be doing most of my \"sleuthing\" and digging. Again, as slow as i can take it, for i have no true concrete evidence so i don't want this blowing up in my face. She has exhibited none of the \"signs of cheating\" that many will show, as a person she hasn't changed much recently, nor had she started any changes if she indeed had been physical back in the past. I hope this is coherent, and i hope i catch all spelling and grammar errors before i submit. i'm currently shaking with rage ATM because i no longer have to keep up a facade since i'm at work (US security guard post). Any help comments or advice greatly appreciated, i will be on for the next 7 hours."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was with my long term boyfriend, let's call him Bob, for 2 years. He was my first love, we swapped virginities, he was truly my best friend and the person who knew me better than anyone. This fall he headed off for college a few hours away, and I remained in our hometown for my senior year of high school.\n\nI developed a crush on another dude, let's call him Joe. I told myself that if I even had a small crush on Joe, my love for Bob couldn't be real. Now it's a few months later. My crush on Joe didn't last, but I ruined my relationship with Bob over it. Bob and I still talk daily and are still close, even though we broke up. After encouragement from my family and friends to get over Bob, I've started seeing a completely different guy, who is really nice and everything.\n\nThe trouble is that I can't stop thinking about Bob. I think I still have feelings for him, and I keep wondering if I should pursue getting back together with him and trying to rekindle what we had. It was a really good relationship and I don't know why I ever thought that someone else could offer me more. But should I just get over it? But Bob still wants to get back together with me as well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was with my long term boyfriend, let's call him Bob, for 2 years. He was my first love, we swapped virginities, he was truly my best friend and the person who knew me better than anyone. This fall he headed off for college a few hours away, and I remained in our hometown for my senior year of high school.\n\nI developed a crush on another dude, let's call him Joe. I told myself that if I even had a small crush on Joe, my love for Bob couldn't be real. Now it's a few months later. My crush on Joe didn't last, but I ruined my relationship with Bob over it. Bob and I still talk daily and are still close, even though we broke up. After encouragement from my family and friends to get over Bob, I've started seeing a completely different guy, who is really nice and everything.\n\nThe trouble is that I can't stop thinking about Bob. I think I still have feelings for him, and I keep wondering if I should pursue getting back together with him and trying to rekindle what we had. It was a really good relationship and I don't know why I ever thought that someone else could offer me more. But should I just get over it? But Bob still wants to get back together with me as well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was with my long term boyfriend, let's call him Bob, for 2 years. He was my first love, we swapped virginities, he was truly my best friend and the person who knew me better than anyone. This fall he headed off for college a few hours away, and I remained in our hometown for my senior year of high school.\n\nI developed a crush on another dude, let's call him Joe. I told myself that if I even had a small crush on Joe, my love for Bob couldn't be real. Now it's a few months later. My crush on Joe didn't last, but I ruined my relationship with Bob over it. Bob and I still talk daily and are still close, even though we broke up. After encouragement from my family and friends to get over Bob, I've started seeing a completely different guy, who is really nice and everything.\n\nThe trouble is that I can't stop thinking about Bob. I think I still have feelings for him, and I keep wondering if I should pursue getting back together with him and trying to rekindle what we had. It was a really good relationship and I don't know why I ever thought that someone else could offer me more. But should I just get over it? But Bob still wants to get back together with me as well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was with my long term boyfriend, let's call him Bob, for 2 years. He was my first love, we swapped virginities, he was truly my best friend and the person who knew me better than anyone. This fall he headed off for college a few hours away, and I remained in our hometown for my senior year of high school.\n\nI developed a crush on another dude, let's call him Joe. I told myself that if I even had a small crush on Joe, my love for Bob couldn't be real. Now it's a few months later. My crush on Joe didn't last, but I ruined my relationship with Bob over it. Bob and I still talk daily and are still close, even though we broke up. After encouragement from my family and friends to get over Bob, I've started seeing a completely different guy, who is really nice and everything.\n\nThe trouble is that I can't stop thinking about Bob. I think I still have feelings for him, and I keep wondering if I should pursue getting back together with him and trying to rekindle what we had. It was a really good relationship and I don't know why I ever thought that someone else could offer me more. But should I just get over it? But Bob still wants to get back together with me as well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was with my long term boyfriend, let's call him Bob, for 2 years. He was my first love, we swapped virginities, he was truly my best friend and the person who knew me better than anyone. This fall he headed off for college a few hours away, and I remained in our hometown for my senior year of high school.\n\nI developed a crush on another dude, let's call him Joe. I told myself that if I even had a small crush on Joe, my love for Bob couldn't be real. Now it's a few months later. My crush on Joe didn't last, but I ruined my relationship with Bob over it. Bob and I still talk daily and are still close, even though we broke up. After encouragement from my family and friends to get over Bob, I've started seeing a completely different guy, who is really nice and everything.\n\nThe trouble is that I can't stop thinking about Bob. I think I still have feelings for him, and I keep wondering if I should pursue getting back together with him and trying to rekindle what we had. It was a really good relationship and I don't know why I ever thought that someone else could offer me more. But should I just get over it? But Bob still wants to get back together with me as well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I was with my long term boyfriend, let's call him Bob, for 2 years. He was my first love, we swapped virginities, he was truly my best friend and the person who knew me better than anyone. This fall he headed off for college a few hours away, and I remained in our hometown for my senior year of high school.\n\nI developed a crush on another dude, let's call him Joe. I told myself that if I even had a small crush on Joe, my love for Bob couldn't be real. Now it's a few months later. My crush on Joe didn't last, but I ruined my relationship with Bob over it. Bob and I still talk daily and are still close, even though we broke up. After encouragement from my family and friends to get over Bob, I've started seeing a completely different guy, who is really nice and everything.\n\nThe trouble is that I can't stop thinking about Bob. I think I still have feelings for him, and I keep wondering if I should pursue getting back together with him and trying to rekindle what we had. It was a really good relationship and I don't know why I ever thought that someone else could offer me more. But should I just get over it? But Bob still wants to get back together with me as well."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know thisll be unclear but I'm too frustrated to give details so here's how it went\n\nSitting in my room and I hear some angry yells from downstairs. 10pm.\n\nMom: \"No I wasn't, I wasn't trying to do that at all-\"\n\nBrother: \"Yes you were, you deliberately opened my door to piss me off\"\n\nMom: \"No, I did it because the cat is going to meow at my door all night unless I let her into my room before I go to sleep\"\n\nBrother: \"You're just fucking playing mind games with me, you've admitted it before you're just trying to get a rise out of me\"\n\nMom: \"NO, I WASN'T, wtf are you talk-\"\n\nBrother: \"If you raise an angry kid you're gonna have an angry kid mom\"\n\nMom: \"Ohh go find another place to live\"\n\nBrother: \"Yeah, *exactly*\" (as if that's an argument)\n*Moms leaves the argument and closes door, going to bed shortly after"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know thisll be unclear but I'm too frustrated to give details so here's how it went\n\nSitting in my room and I hear some angry yells from downstairs. 10pm.\n\nMom: \"No I wasn't, I wasn't trying to do that at all-\"\n\nBrother: \"Yes you were, you deliberately opened my door to piss me off\"\n\nMom: \"No, I did it because the cat is going to meow at my door all night unless I let her into my room before I go to sleep\"\n\nBrother: \"You're just fucking playing mind games with me, you've admitted it before you're just trying to get a rise out of me\"\n\nMom: \"NO, I WASN'T, wtf are you talk-\"\n\nBrother: \"If you raise an angry kid you're gonna have an angry kid mom\"\n\nMom: \"Ohh go find another place to live\"\n\nBrother: \"Yeah, *exactly*\" (as if that's an argument)\n*Moms leaves the argument and closes door, going to bed shortly after"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know thisll be unclear but I'm too frustrated to give details so here's how it went\n\nSitting in my room and I hear some angry yells from downstairs. 10pm.\n\nMom: \"No I wasn't, I wasn't trying to do that at all-\"\n\nBrother: \"Yes you were, you deliberately opened my door to piss me off\"\n\nMom: \"No, I did it because the cat is going to meow at my door all night unless I let her into my room before I go to sleep\"\n\nBrother: \"You're just fucking playing mind games with me, you've admitted it before you're just trying to get a rise out of me\"\n\nMom: \"NO, I WASN'T, wtf are you talk-\"\n\nBrother: \"If you raise an angry kid you're gonna have an angry kid mom\"\n\nMom: \"Ohh go find another place to live\"\n\nBrother: \"Yeah, *exactly*\" (as if that's an argument)\n*Moms leaves the argument and closes door, going to bed shortly after"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know thisll be unclear but I'm too frustrated to give details so here's how it went\n\nSitting in my room and I hear some angry yells from downstairs. 10pm.\n\nMom: \"No I wasn't, I wasn't trying to do that at all-\"\n\nBrother: \"Yes you were, you deliberately opened my door to piss me off\"\n\nMom: \"No, I did it because the cat is going to meow at my door all night unless I let her into my room before I go to sleep\"\n\nBrother: \"You're just fucking playing mind games with me, you've admitted it before you're just trying to get a rise out of me\"\n\nMom: \"NO, I WASN'T, wtf are you talk-\"\n\nBrother: \"If you raise an angry kid you're gonna have an angry kid mom\"\n\nMom: \"Ohh go find another place to live\"\n\nBrother: \"Yeah, *exactly*\" (as if that's an argument)\n*Moms leaves the argument and closes door, going to bed shortly after"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I know thisll be unclear but I'm too frustrated to give details so here's how it went\n\nSitting in my room and I hear some angry yells from downstairs. 10pm.\n\nMom: \"No I wasn't, I wasn't trying to do that at all-\"\n\nBrother: \"Yes you were, you deliberately opened my door to piss me off\"\n\nMom: \"No, I did it because the cat is going to meow at my door all night unless I let her into my room before I go to sleep\"\n\nBrother: \"You're just fucking playing mind games with me, you've admitted it before you're just trying to get a rise out of me\"\n\nMom: \"NO, I WASN'T, wtf are you talk-\"\n\nBrother: \"If you raise an angry kid you're gonna have an angry kid mom\"\n\nMom: \"Ohh go find another place to live\"\n\nBrother: \"Yeah, *exactly*\" (as if that's an argument)\n*Moms leaves the argument and closes door, going to bed shortly after"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my girlfriend of about 1 year and 5 months began dating at the end of our junior year of high school. I moved away that summer a couple hours away and we kept it going. We had our ups and downs but we stayed strong. Then we went off to college. I went to a college 9 hours away from her, which she did not like at all. But we have kept it going so far. However, I wanted to break up with her before I left. I have not been feeling it for her for a while. Its just not the same as it was when we began. She is very emotional and complains about her constant problems that seen insignificant to me, which ends up putting an emotional drain on me. She annoys me quite a bit with the complaints, but I am good at putting up a front to let her not know I am annoyed. She gets mad at me for the stupidest things, and that really irritates me. I just think we both could, me especially, benefit from some change. But she loves me a lot and I do not want to break her heart. It would destroy her. But I do not want this relationship anymore. Neither of us want the same things in life I have come to realize, but she has not. I am not a huge fan of her family. Now after typing this all out it is clearer than ever for me to see that I do not want this relationship.\n\nNow here is where the problem lies. She is coming to see me in 2 weeks. She is booking the plane ticket and the hotel this week, and she is very very excited to come see me. So I need to break up with her ASAP. What should I do? Just straight up tell her that I don't want to do this anymore? What should she do about all the reservations she is planning? can she get a refund on a plane ticket? I know a hotel is no problem. I just do not know what to do. I know this is probably a really stupid problem, but I need help. Especially since her parents are booking most of it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my girlfriend of about 1 year and 5 months began dating at the end of our junior year of high school. I moved away that summer a couple hours away and we kept it going. We had our ups and downs but we stayed strong. Then we went off to college. I went to a college 9 hours away from her, which she did not like at all. But we have kept it going so far. However, I wanted to break up with her before I left. I have not been feeling it for her for a while. Its just not the same as it was when we began. She is very emotional and complains about her constant problems that seen insignificant to me, which ends up putting an emotional drain on me. She annoys me quite a bit with the complaints, but I am good at putting up a front to let her not know I am annoyed. She gets mad at me for the stupidest things, and that really irritates me. I just think we both could, me especially, benefit from some change. But she loves me a lot and I do not want to break her heart. It would destroy her. But I do not want this relationship anymore. Neither of us want the same things in life I have come to realize, but she has not. I am not a huge fan of her family. Now after typing this all out it is clearer than ever for me to see that I do not want this relationship.\n\nNow here is where the problem lies. She is coming to see me in 2 weeks. She is booking the plane ticket and the hotel this week, and she is very very excited to come see me. So I need to break up with her ASAP. What should I do? Just straight up tell her that I don't want to do this anymore? What should she do about all the reservations she is planning? can she get a refund on a plane ticket? I know a hotel is no problem. I just do not know what to do. I know this is probably a really stupid problem, but I need help. Especially since her parents are booking most of it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my girlfriend of about 1 year and 5 months began dating at the end of our junior year of high school. I moved away that summer a couple hours away and we kept it going. We had our ups and downs but we stayed strong. Then we went off to college. I went to a college 9 hours away from her, which she did not like at all. But we have kept it going so far. However, I wanted to break up with her before I left. I have not been feeling it for her for a while. Its just not the same as it was when we began. She is very emotional and complains about her constant problems that seen insignificant to me, which ends up putting an emotional drain on me. She annoys me quite a bit with the complaints, but I am good at putting up a front to let her not know I am annoyed. She gets mad at me for the stupidest things, and that really irritates me. I just think we both could, me especially, benefit from some change. But she loves me a lot and I do not want to break her heart. It would destroy her. But I do not want this relationship anymore. Neither of us want the same things in life I have come to realize, but she has not. I am not a huge fan of her family. Now after typing this all out it is clearer than ever for me to see that I do not want this relationship.\n\nNow here is where the problem lies. She is coming to see me in 2 weeks. She is booking the plane ticket and the hotel this week, and she is very very excited to come see me. So I need to break up with her ASAP. What should I do? Just straight up tell her that I don't want to do this anymore? What should she do about all the reservations she is planning? can she get a refund on a plane ticket? I know a hotel is no problem. I just do not know what to do. I know this is probably a really stupid problem, but I need help. Especially since her parents are booking most of it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my girlfriend of about 1 year and 5 months began dating at the end of our junior year of high school. I moved away that summer a couple hours away and we kept it going. We had our ups and downs but we stayed strong. Then we went off to college. I went to a college 9 hours away from her, which she did not like at all. But we have kept it going so far. However, I wanted to break up with her before I left. I have not been feeling it for her for a while. Its just not the same as it was when we began. She is very emotional and complains about her constant problems that seen insignificant to me, which ends up putting an emotional drain on me. She annoys me quite a bit with the complaints, but I am good at putting up a front to let her not know I am annoyed. She gets mad at me for the stupidest things, and that really irritates me. I just think we both could, me especially, benefit from some change. But she loves me a lot and I do not want to break her heart. It would destroy her. But I do not want this relationship anymore. Neither of us want the same things in life I have come to realize, but she has not. I am not a huge fan of her family. Now after typing this all out it is clearer than ever for me to see that I do not want this relationship.\n\nNow here is where the problem lies. She is coming to see me in 2 weeks. She is booking the plane ticket and the hotel this week, and she is very very excited to come see me. So I need to break up with her ASAP. What should I do? Just straight up tell her that I don't want to do this anymore? What should she do about all the reservations she is planning? can she get a refund on a plane ticket? I know a hotel is no problem. I just do not know what to do. I know this is probably a really stupid problem, but I need help. Especially since her parents are booking most of it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my girlfriend of about 1 year and 5 months began dating at the end of our junior year of high school. I moved away that summer a couple hours away and we kept it going. We had our ups and downs but we stayed strong. Then we went off to college. I went to a college 9 hours away from her, which she did not like at all. But we have kept it going so far. However, I wanted to break up with her before I left. I have not been feeling it for her for a while. Its just not the same as it was when we began. She is very emotional and complains about her constant problems that seen insignificant to me, which ends up putting an emotional drain on me. She annoys me quite a bit with the complaints, but I am good at putting up a front to let her not know I am annoyed. She gets mad at me for the stupidest things, and that really irritates me. I just think we both could, me especially, benefit from some change. But she loves me a lot and I do not want to break her heart. It would destroy her. But I do not want this relationship anymore. Neither of us want the same things in life I have come to realize, but she has not. I am not a huge fan of her family. Now after typing this all out it is clearer than ever for me to see that I do not want this relationship.\n\nNow here is where the problem lies. She is coming to see me in 2 weeks. She is booking the plane ticket and the hotel this week, and she is very very excited to come see me. So I need to break up with her ASAP. What should I do? Just straight up tell her that I don't want to do this anymore? What should she do about all the reservations she is planning? can she get a refund on a plane ticket? I know a hotel is no problem. I just do not know what to do. I know this is probably a really stupid problem, but I need help. Especially since her parents are booking most of it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So me and my girlfriend of about 1 year and 5 months began dating at the end of our junior year of high school. I moved away that summer a couple hours away and we kept it going. We had our ups and downs but we stayed strong. Then we went off to college. I went to a college 9 hours away from her, which she did not like at all. But we have kept it going so far. However, I wanted to break up with her before I left. I have not been feeling it for her for a while. Its just not the same as it was when we began. She is very emotional and complains about her constant problems that seen insignificant to me, which ends up putting an emotional drain on me. She annoys me quite a bit with the complaints, but I am good at putting up a front to let her not know I am annoyed. She gets mad at me for the stupidest things, and that really irritates me. I just think we both could, me especially, benefit from some change. But she loves me a lot and I do not want to break her heart. It would destroy her. But I do not want this relationship anymore. Neither of us want the same things in life I have come to realize, but she has not. I am not a huge fan of her family. Now after typing this all out it is clearer than ever for me to see that I do not want this relationship.\n\nNow here is where the problem lies. She is coming to see me in 2 weeks. She is booking the plane ticket and the hotel this week, and she is very very excited to come see me. So I need to break up with her ASAP. What should I do? Just straight up tell her that I don't want to do this anymore? What should she do about all the reservations she is planning? can she get a refund on a plane ticket? I know a hotel is no problem. I just do not know what to do. I know this is probably a really stupid problem, but I need help. Especially since her parents are booking most of it."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, first time ever on /r/loseit and i can already say this is my favorite subreddit. Here's the deal, i'm 17, a senior in high school going to college soon, i weigh 315lbs and i'm 6'5\". What i need is advice to help me to loose weight to about 220. I was on a role up until i injured my knee playing football and now while i recover i sit around and do nothing. since football ended i would usually do track but can't because of my knee. Without sports i sit around and i just eat and i can feel my weight adding up it honestly disgusts me. I really need to know what i should do, and how i can continue to do it without reverting back into my old ways (because that has happened more than once). Any help is appreciated, thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, first time ever on /r/loseit and i can already say this is my favorite subreddit. Here's the deal, i'm 17, a senior in high school going to college soon, i weigh 315lbs and i'm 6'5\". What i need is advice to help me to loose weight to about 220. I was on a role up until i injured my knee playing football and now while i recover i sit around and do nothing. since football ended i would usually do track but can't because of my knee. Without sports i sit around and i just eat and i can feel my weight adding up it honestly disgusts me. I really need to know what i should do, and how i can continue to do it without reverting back into my old ways (because that has happened more than once). Any help is appreciated, thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, first time ever on /r/loseit and i can already say this is my favorite subreddit. Here's the deal, i'm 17, a senior in high school going to college soon, i weigh 315lbs and i'm 6'5\". What i need is advice to help me to loose weight to about 220. I was on a role up until i injured my knee playing football and now while i recover i sit around and do nothing. since football ended i would usually do track but can't because of my knee. Without sports i sit around and i just eat and i can feel my weight adding up it honestly disgusts me. I really need to know what i should do, and how i can continue to do it without reverting back into my old ways (because that has happened more than once). Any help is appreciated, thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, first time ever on /r/loseit and i can already say this is my favorite subreddit. Here's the deal, i'm 17, a senior in high school going to college soon, i weigh 315lbs and i'm 6'5\". What i need is advice to help me to loose weight to about 220. I was on a role up until i injured my knee playing football and now while i recover i sit around and do nothing. since football ended i would usually do track but can't because of my knee. Without sports i sit around and i just eat and i can feel my weight adding up it honestly disgusts me. I really need to know what i should do, and how i can continue to do it without reverting back into my old ways (because that has happened more than once). Any help is appreciated, thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello, first time ever on /r/loseit and i can already say this is my favorite subreddit. Here's the deal, i'm 17, a senior in high school going to college soon, i weigh 315lbs and i'm 6'5\". What i need is advice to help me to loose weight to about 220. I was on a role up until i injured my knee playing football and now while i recover i sit around and do nothing. since football ended i would usually do track but can't because of my knee. Without sports i sit around and i just eat and i can feel my weight adding up it honestly disgusts me. I really need to know what i should do, and how i can continue to do it without reverting back into my old ways (because that has happened more than once). Any help is appreciated, thank you."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country.\n\nWhile she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. \n\nI was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the \"you could get a so much more attractive gal\" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country.\n\nWhile she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. \n\nI was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the \"you could get a so much more attractive gal\" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country.\n\nWhile she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. \n\nI was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the \"you could get a so much more attractive gal\" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country.\n\nWhile she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. \n\nI was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the \"you could get a so much more attractive gal\" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country.\n\nWhile she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. \n\nI was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the \"you could get a so much more attractive gal\" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hello all I need some help regarding a friend of mine and a dream she had, well the conversation that we had regarding said dream. I have known this girl for about 5 years now and we have always been pretty good friends, always hung out with the same group of people and all that sort of stuff. She went to college in another state and had a boyfriend for about 3 years and they had a nasty breakup within the last year.She came home for summer and we hung out for a bit, as friends do, before she left the country.\n\nWhile she has been away we have talked some, but not too terribly much. Suddenly a few nights ago she sends me a message saying that I was in a dream she had. Naturally I ask her what the dream was about. She tells me that its indecent. Thinking it to be something humorous, she was always dirty in a funny suggestive way, never explicit, I tell her it wouldn't be the first time she's said something indecent to me. She then proceeds to tell me that she was giving me a blow job in her dream. \n\nI was a bit confused and taken off guard by this. I had told her previously that I had had a crush on her in hs but not really now. We then talked for a bit more, I said that I wouldn't mind having her, relations and all that, and she gave me the \"you could get a so much more attractive gal\" thing. She then also talked about basically going to a party that was much like an orgy where she was and how she didn't do anything. She then went on to say how she didn't sleep around but if she was really drunk might have at one point slept with someone she knew and was close to. All in all the conversation confused me and I'm not sure how to take it. I just need some interpretation and advice."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two.\n\nContext:\nI wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about \"us\" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our \"fight\". She said \"We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend.\" I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two.\n\nContext:\nI wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about \"us\" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our \"fight\". She said \"We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend.\" I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two.\n\nContext:\nI wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about \"us\" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our \"fight\". She said \"We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend.\" I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two.\n\nContext:\nI wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about \"us\" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our \"fight\". She said \"We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend.\" I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two.\n\nContext:\nI wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about \"us\" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our \"fight\". She said \"We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend.\" I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So, this doesn't have a whole lot of bearing on any decision I'm trying to make, but I'd like to have a general idea of a woman's perception of the difference between the two.\n\nContext:\nI wished an ex a happy birthday to which she responded warmly. We talked a little bit more and then she suddenly got quiet. I let it go thinking I might've crossed the line or something, NBD. On my birthday she sends me a message and we start talking again (she feigned ignorance that it was my birthday which I thought was a little odd). Anyway, we started talking more and I decided to put my cards on the table (letting her know I still thought about her) and asked her what she wanted. She said something about how her last relationship was long distance and it worked out for her to have the space but also have someone to travel with and see on and off. I replied that I didn't want an LDR and she was taken aback as though that was never a question. We kept talking (both about \"us\" and about other things we were doing) and she asked me why I thought she wanted an LDR. I told her that in the past she seemed really uninterested in No-Strings Attached. She responded by abruptly ending our conversation by saying to stay out of her life and she had done enough crying already (after she admitted she had a tendency to push people away when she didn't know what to do with them). A few days later I got some cookies in the mail she had made for me. I sent her a message thanking her for the cookies asking if she had sent them before or after our \"fight\". She said \"We didn't have a fight, we had a discussion. I sent them as we had arranged. They don't mean I love you anymore, I'm in love with my boyfriend.\" I haven't heard from her since, and I have respected her wish to leave her alone. I'm simply curious what the hell was the difference between a fight and a discussion in this context."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. \n \nShe is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want. but too soon. \n \nThroughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. \nShe is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. \n \nI know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. \nI have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \nBased on how well our relationship is going right now, it is unlikely that we will break up any time until we go to college, and based on what she has said about wanting to continue long-distance during college, it is unlikely to break up even then."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. \n \nShe is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want. but too soon. \n \nThroughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. \nShe is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. \n \nI know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. \nI have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \nBased on how well our relationship is going right now, it is unlikely that we will break up any time until we go to college, and based on what she has said about wanting to continue long-distance during college, it is unlikely to break up even then."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. \n \nShe is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want. but too soon. \n \nThroughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. \nShe is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. \n \nI know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. \nI have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \nBased on how well our relationship is going right now, it is unlikely that we will break up any time until we go to college, and based on what she has said about wanting to continue long-distance during college, it is unlikely to break up even then."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. \n \nShe is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want. but too soon. \n \nThroughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. \nShe is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. \n \nI know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. \nI have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \nBased on how well our relationship is going right now, it is unlikely that we will break up any time until we go to college, and based on what she has said about wanting to continue long-distance during college, it is unlikely to break up even then."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. \n \nShe is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want. but too soon. \n \nThroughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. \nShe is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. \n \nI know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. \nI have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \nBased on how well our relationship is going right now, it is unlikely that we will break up any time until we go to college, and based on what she has said about wanting to continue long-distance during college, it is unlikely to break up even then."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay, here's the story. I have had three relationships across my life so far. I am in my senior year of high school. Almost two years back, I met my current girlfriend. About two weeks previous to me asking her out, I was about to start a relationship with a girl who had made it obvious that she really wanted to be with me, but neither of us had said it out loud. Enter my (not yet) girlfriend. \n \nShe is everything I want and more. She has a great personality. She's very considerate. She's really funny. She's a gamer and a geek. She's extremely intelligent. She's kinky in the same way I am. She's everything I want. but too soon. \n \nThroughout our (almost two years now) relationship, she had brought up her (many) past relationships. She brought up her sex life. She brought everything up that could have made me curious of what I never had. \nShe is head-over-heels for me. She recently began discussing that she wants our relationship to continue long-distance if we both go off to college, hoping to settle down eventually. But I am still too curious about the relationships I could have had. I'm curious about the relationship that could have been with the other girl that I have known nearly my entire life. \n \nI know that if I do end up breaking up with her, I will most likely never find a girl like her again. If I don't end up breaking up with her, and we end up going long term, I will always be kicking myself because of my curiosity about relationships I may have had. I have never had sex with anybody but her, even. \nI have touched upon this subject lightly with her before, and have found out that she isn't okay with an open relationship and she also would never want to take a break in the relationship. \nBased on how well our relationship is going right now, it is unlikely that we will break up any time until we go to college, and based on what she has said about wanting to continue long-distance during college, it is unlikely to break up even then."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away.\n\nMy husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town.\n\nMy mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work.\n\nShe has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. \n\nI was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters.\n\nI just want to know what other people think of the situation, and what they would do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away.\n\nMy husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town.\n\nMy mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work.\n\nShe has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. \n\nI was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters.\n\nI just want to know what other people think of the situation, and what they would do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away.\n\nMy husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town.\n\nMy mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work.\n\nShe has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. \n\nI was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters.\n\nI just want to know what other people think of the situation, and what they would do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away.\n\nMy husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town.\n\nMy mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work.\n\nShe has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. \n\nI was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters.\n\nI just want to know what other people think of the situation, and what they would do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away.\n\nMy husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town.\n\nMy mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work.\n\nShe has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. \n\nI was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters.\n\nI just want to know what other people think of the situation, and what they would do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First off, this is the only time I have ever posted, as I am a little new to Reddit. I apologize if this is long or if I cannot figure out how to reply right away.\n\nMy husband and I are both 25, and we have two kids (5f and 3m). We live in a decent sized house and both work full-time. I work second shift m-f and he works first shift twelve hours on a rotating schedule. He works two days on two days off, so some days we need a sitter for the overlap. I have two sitters, one to pick up my daughter from school, one to watch my son. This is just how it worked out as we are in the country and the sitters are in town.\n\nMy mother in law is on workers compensation for an injury that is taking a long time to heal. Her apartment is a terrible place, and her youngest son (9m) lives with her. She has two dogs and two cats. She also has COPD and her basement has mold in it. The mold is so bad you can smell it when you walk in the front door. She spends most of the day coughing because of this. Her landlord lives on the other side of the duplex and refuses to fix her water heater or doing anything for her because she is behind on rent since she can't work.\n\nShe has proposed moving in with us and paying us $250 month and being our sitter for her grandkids. While this seems like a good trade off, I am afraid it will not work. Living with her in the past put a lot of strain on our marriage, and I'm not sure I want to go through it again. I know this would be a better place for her and her youngest son to live than where she is at though. I also know a lot of families move their parents in to help out with costs and such. \n\nI was also recently unemployed and our bills have mounted up over the summer. We could really use the extra money from not paying a sitter, even if she doesn't pay us. We would save about $350 from the sitters.\n\nI just want to know what other people think of the situation, and what they would do."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!)\n\nI basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. \nI can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. \n\nI also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy.\n\nso my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!)\n\nI basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. \nI can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. \n\nI also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy.\n\nso my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so a week ago my boyfriend left with his computer on (he NEVER does this). So this horrible curiosity crept up in me to look through it, I have never done this before btw. I have never looked through his phone or anything, I trust him. But for some reason something came over me that compelled me to look. (REGRET!)\n\nI basically found that he specifically looks at chubby/BBW/fat girl porn. I am attractive and have a nice body, nowhere near a bbw. Should I be worried that this is what he is secretly into? There were so many links and I only clicked on a few of them and they were really disgusting, some of them clearly obese. He tells me that he thinks my body is perfect, but at the same time he's told me that if I lost weight he probably wouldn't be that attracted to me anymore. \nI can't stop thinking about it and whenever I'm with him I just imagine him looking at fat girls online, and it really hurts me for some reason. I almost can't look at him the same anymore. \n\nI also found that he looked up his ex on fb not once but two different times in the same week and right after looking at her fb he went right to her tumblr (like he memorized her url and went to it and looked through many pages). Needless to say that does not make me very happy.\n\nso my question is, should I be concerned? and also should I confront him? I feel horrible for invading his privacy I am usually never one to do anything like that and I regret it, but what's done is done and I can't erase it from my mind. Am I just overanalyzing?"
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